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July 17, 2017 - Knowledge Fight - Bonus
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JonBenet Ramsey

Ben Freezing and Marty DeRosa dissect the 1996 JonBenet Ramsey murder, analyzing the $118,000 ransom note matching John Ramsey's bonus and dismissing unreliable confessions from John Mark Carr. They scrutinize debunked conspiracies linking Lockheed Martin to MKUltra brainwashing or celebrity identity swaps, while profilers debate whether a naive offender or a clandestine government operative committed the asphyxiation. Ultimately, the hosts conclude that despite lie detector tests and inconclusive DNA, the case remains unsolved like Jack the Ripper, highlighting the enduring difficulty of uncovering truth without new evidence. [Automatically generated summary]

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marty derosa
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JFK Moon Landing Truths 00:08:34
unidentified
All I do is smash heads, bro.
That's what they want you to think!
That's what they want you to think!
You to think!
That's what they want you to think!
I want you to think it right now!
marty derosa
Little children getting murdered in the middle!
You to think.
You to think.
That's what they want.
You to think.
They want you to think it right now.
dan friesen
Little children getting mad.
Welcome back to Freeze Point.
I'm Ben Freezing alongside me, my partner in truth, my partner in digging up the holes of lies.
My metaphor slipped.
Marty DeRosa, how are you doing?
marty derosa
I am a truth warrior.
dan friesen
Yes, the brain battling duo.
marty derosa
I want the world to know the secrets of truth.
That the few possess.
unidentified
Yes.
marty derosa
The world.
dan friesen
The secret knowledge.
marty derosa
The world is owed these truths.
dan friesen
Do you believe that?
Do you firmly believe that everybody deserves to know the truth about everything?
Are there secrets that should and can be hidden?
marty derosa
See, I think then you're getting into this idea of look, the public, they can't handle this.
dan friesen
I'm keeping it from you for your own good.
marty derosa
Right.
You're getting like the watchman.
You know what I mean?
This whole idea of maybe.
They don't need to know this.
dan friesen
If you had this information, it would fuck up your life.
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
Like, what good would it do for us to really know that there are threatening alien races out there that we can't really do anything about?
Would that help your day?
unidentified
Maybe.
How?
marty derosa
I'd live every day like it was my last because it could be.
dan friesen
Well, I mean, that's.
marty derosa
That's what I think they're afraid of.
dan friesen
That's the truth now.
marty derosa
That's what I think they're afraid of.
dan friesen
You think they're afraid of people living it up?
marty derosa
I think they're afraid of people going, oh, well, fuck, there's aliens.
Let's go crazy.
unidentified
Or.
marty derosa
If they go, all right.
If they go like this, if they go, all right, guys.
Like, uh, so Bob is one of his last days in office.
And he's just like, you know what?
You guys have been so great to me.
I'm gonna.
dan friesen
Hold on.
Y'all have been wonderful.
I'm gonna get out of here on this.
marty derosa
I'm gonna leave you at this.
Uh, Dan, follow him at Freezing Point.
He's gonna put up a poll.
dan friesen
Give it up for your host.
marty derosa
I can tell you what happened in 9-11, JFK, um, uh, uh, moon landing.
dan friesen
He gives the public a gimme.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
I'll give you one.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
But then they're all going, well, that's a good thing.
dan friesen
By the way, I would love that kind of traffic, by the way, to Freezing Point.
marty derosa
I'm sure you would.
If POTUS, if old POTUS, funny, follow Friday, follow my boy Freezing Point.
unidentified
He's on to something.
marty derosa
Let me ask you this.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
And this, I guess, is the, what the assumption is, something, shenanigans were up, were happening with JFK, 9-11.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Uh, Moon Landing.
dan friesen
Sure.
marty derosa
Uh, what else?
Throw one more at me.
And let's say the, the 2000 election, maybe?
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
Which one would you want to know the, the skinny on?
dan friesen
Of those four.
marty derosa
Of those four.
dan friesen
Okay, going into it, we are assuming there is a skinny.
marty derosa
There's going to be some skinny.
dan friesen
So if I choose, like, there's no whammy.
I choose 9 11, and he's like, nah, we were straight up with you on that one.
marty derosa
JFK, yeah, and that's a possibility.
You could say JFK and be like, Dan, I know this is going to suck, but.
dan friesen
It was that one dude.
marty derosa
It was Oswald.
All right, so you get JFK, 9 11, or Moon Landing.
dan friesen
I would probably take JFK.
marty derosa
Yeah, right?
dan friesen
I feel like JFK has more tendrils that go out towards.
Towards everything.
And some people would believe, the conspiracy folk would believe that unraveling JFK, just by virtue of where it goes from there, you unravel 9 11.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So it could be like a ball rolling downhill thing.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I would take, what about you?
I'd take JFK.
marty derosa
If there were shenanigans with all of them.
dan friesen
Wait, you've just changed the question.
marty derosa
Well, oh, yeah, that's right, because there might not be shenanigans with any of them.
9 11, JFK.
I think you might be onto something.
If I had to top, if I had to go gold, metal, silver, since we are in the Olympic theme right now, I would say my gold medal, I'd want to know for sure JFK, because that was also a time where I felt like they were like, we can do whatever we want.
dan friesen
Yeah.
But the moon landings before JFK's assassination.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So, possibly you unravel that one.
It leads to JFK's assassination.
Maybe that had something to do with the moon cover up.
marty derosa
Because here's my thing with the moon landing.
dan friesen
Okay.
marty derosa
If we were communicating with them on the moon, they still can't.
That technology hasn't changed.
dan friesen
I can barely communicate on a cell phone with someone in a foreign country.
marty derosa
Or, if like.
dan friesen
Well, not every foreign country.
I should walk that back a tiny bit.
But there are areas on Earth where I can't communicate.
marty derosa
Or you ever watch the Super Bowl and they're like, oh, we have troops in Afghanistan who are watching live on the Armed Forces radio network.
Let's talk to them.
And they're like, What do you think of the Super Bowl?
And there's that pause, then they're like, it's great.
Uh, I hope my team wins.
And, I mean, that was back then.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Come on, man.
dan friesen
We have such sophisticated technology.
unidentified
Come on, man.
dan friesen
And now everything's evolved so highly.
Yeah, it is pretty wild.
marty derosa
Oh, man.
dan friesen
And then I don't know if this statistic is true, but you always hear stuff like, the original spacecraft, they had the computing power of a TI-86 graphing calculator.
unidentified
Uh huh.
dan friesen
You know what I'm saying?
What the fuck were you doing with a graphing calculator out in space?
unidentified
Uh huh.
dan friesen
That doesn't make, it doesn't match up.
marty derosa
Uh, there's, there's, I mean, there's so many 9-11 questions.
unidentified
True.
True.
dan friesen
But that's too, that's so current, you know, even though it was 15 years ago now.
marty derosa
I'm a little bummed that Trump backed off the Bush 9-11 stuff.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Yeah, cause, but you know, he didn't back off Ted Cruz's dad.
marty derosa
He didn't, he didn't back off of that.
I kind of, he's a guy who, and this, this goes back to that whole like, you know, Bill Hicks thing of like, oh, that first day you get in there that you shoot him.
dan friesen
You mean the Alex Jones thing?
Alex Jones is Bill Hicks.
marty derosa
A lot of people think that.
But there's that thing of like, you know, your first day in the office, they just show you, like, well, sit down, let's show you a video, and you see everything, and you're like, woo.
I feel like.
dan friesen
You see the other angle of the JFK assassination.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
marty derosa
I feel like that's a fun picture, too, of that other lady who has a video camera.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
But that.
dan friesen
Who died mysteriously.
marty derosa
Yeah.
That whole thing of like, I feel like Trump would be like, and another thing, I found this out.
dan friesen
I don't give a fuck, I'm 70.
marty derosa
I know, if he died.
dan friesen
I have demons.
marty derosa
If he got elected.
I mean, I'm sorry, not dies.
If he got elected, I think this would be the first president where he'd be like, hey, they tell everyone secrets.
They're not telling me secrets.
dan friesen
He might turn into a very bad, dark version of Bullworth.
Yeah.
marty derosa
Bullworth's maybe something I should revisit.
I haven't seen it since in the theater.
dan friesen
I watched it like five years ago and it holds up.
It's great.
For those of you who haven't seen it, it's just a movie about a guy who's running for president and he's deeply depressed.
So he decides to hire an assassin to kill him, uh, while he's on the campaign trail, and then decides that he doesn't, or he, he starts living truthfully, knowing that he's gonna die.
marty derosa
He's saying weird shit on the stand, uh, press conferences.
dan friesen
Starts hanging out with Halle Berry, meets a bunch of cool rappers.
marty derosa
Yeah, how does he get into the whole hypocrisy?
dan friesen
He starts drinking and smoking weed.
marty derosa
Yeah, and then he raps.
Is that douchey?
Is the rapping douchey?
dan friesen
That's terrible.
Yeah, that's, that's embarrassing.
But, I mean, Warren Beatty rapping is not what you wanna see.
Uh, then he decides through living truthfully that he doesn't wanna die, and tries to call off the assassination because he's, He's going up in the polls because he starts admitting that the government doesn't care about black people and all this shit.
marty derosa
It's very Shakespearean.
dan friesen
It's beautiful.
It's a great movie.
But Trump could be like that in the sense that, like, he starts telling you all these truths, but along the way are like, the government doesn't care about black people, and they shouldn't!
marty derosa
Yeah, I know.
dan friesen
He's a fucking monster.
marty derosa
Yeah, he's like, and then I'll tell you why.
Yeah.
dan friesen
It's good that we poison the water because you pores don't deserve health, that sort of thing.
marty derosa
But that's here nor there.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
That's not why we're here today.
dan friesen
No, it isn't, but you know why we are here.
Marty?
unidentified
Why?
Oh.
dan friesen
Dan?
I'm having trouble pulling up the song.
New Angles on Current Affairs 00:03:04
dan friesen
Oh, Dan.
marty derosa
I was ready.
dan friesen
Here's why we're here.
marty derosa
You can edit that ahead and post?
unidentified
Nope.
No edits.
marty derosa
In life, life, life, life.
You only get one take.
Some lives are shorter than others.
dan friesen
It's true.
Some lives end mysteriously because that's what they want you to think, All right, you sons of bitches who listen to this show.
You want us to talk about.
People being murdered.
Do you want us to talk about girls being murdered?
We found the youngest one we could.
marty derosa
You wanted the best.
You got it.
Well, the Lindbergh baby might be.
Was that a boy or a girl?
unidentified
I don't know.
marty derosa
All right.
dan friesen
But we got, look, if, if, if there's just no, there's just no further for us to go after this episode.
marty derosa
If you're like me, if you're in your thirties and you grew up with Inside Edition, Current Affair.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Current Affair, that was like their, their thing when they'd show their logo.
dan friesen
Every fucking magazine journalism.
marty derosa
Magazine shows, but like Current Affair, that was my first, I think, my first foray.
dan friesen
Into kind of the conspiracy theory world because of their clunky journalism.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
And they were not afraid to like talk about some shit.
dan friesen
And it was probably wildly speculative and possibly libelous.
marty derosa
Oh, yeah.
This is one of those cases where I became a bit of a news junkie.
dan friesen
You were a truther.
marty derosa
And I got into this whole like, oh, you just put on CNN every night and people are going to be talking about this.
dan friesen
Yeah.
And there's always a new angle that's usually not quite a new angle.
It's a slightly new version of an old angle.
marty derosa
You start.
Even as a young kid, I started to kind of be like, oh, you guys don't have any more news, but you're just reaching.
It was the same thing with OJ years later.
I mean, hit him with what we're talking about.
dan friesen
We'll get to that in a second.
I was just thinking about how when I was a kid, I used to watch a bit of that too, but I'd also watch.
I became really obsessed with how on C SPAN 2, they would have the most boring shit in the world.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And on C SPAN or C SPAN 2, they'd be playing live footage of the House of Representatives or the Congress.
marty derosa
Or book readings.
dan friesen
Yeah, yeah.
I would just watch.
Hours of them, of Congress.
unidentified
Really?
dan friesen
Yeah, because I was like, this is literally our government working.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
And so often it was just old dudes killing time.
marty derosa
Oh, yeah.
dan friesen
Like, they weren't talking about anything.
They'd be, it's not even a filibuster.
It's just them sitting there waxing bullshit, you know?
marty derosa
Or a lot of it'll just be like, hello, we are here on the 12th day of August.
dan friesen
As many of you know, in the great state of Indiana, August 12th marks the birthday of one of our great, and they'll be like, so I think we should all give a hoot hoot to, and then someone else gets up, and I, I'd like to, I'd like to congratulate my, uh, noble, uh, cohort from the state of Indiana, and, uh, it is my duty to second his hoot hoot.
unidentified
Right.
High School Band Memories 00:07:51
dan friesen
It's just like, as a kid, I even realized, like, some of our government is just 40 year olds giving bad book reports.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And it made me really, like, sort of sad about, just about democracy as a whole.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Well, I mean, I, I, um, I just saw that documentary in HBO about big money donors and the access they get to politicians and stuff.
dan friesen
It's wild.
marty derosa
It's all just.
dan friesen
That might dovetail a little bit into our topic for today, but I don't know if it necessarily does.
Ladies and gentlemen, today we're talking about John Benet Ramsey.
marty derosa
Our little angel.
dan friesen
Where were you in 1996?
And I'm not asking you because I think you're a suspect.
marty derosa
I was in Cherville, Indiana, minding my own business.
I was in high school, a senior in high school.
dan friesen
Okay, so you weren't in Boulder?
marty derosa
No, I was not.
I've never been to Boulder.
unidentified
I have.
dan friesen
I've actually, my parents and I used to drive across country to visit relatives in California.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Every summer.
And Boulder became like a really beloved town of my parents.
I think we found like a diner there we really liked.
So every time we would stop in Boulder.
marty derosa
My closest association with Boulder, Colorado in 1996 would have been that one of my favorite wrestlers at the time was Leon White, aka Big Van Vader, who hailed, or at least his character hailed from Boulder, Colorado.
dan friesen
Parts very known.
marty derosa
Very known.
dan friesen
And, uh, and, um, My buddy James Desolation Williams lives out there now.
marty derosa
Oh, yeah.
dan friesen
Also known as Iron Lungs.
marty derosa
I love that.
dan friesen
He may or may not be legally growing weed for a dispensary.
unidentified
There you go.
dan friesen
Yeah, so that's pretty cool.
He landed on his feet with the nickname Iron Lungs.
marty derosa
I mean, anybody named Iron Lungs, you better be growing weed.
dan friesen
He and I once tried to smoke weed in a tent until we couldn't.
unidentified
Oh, yeah.
dan friesen
We were like, I wonder at what point we have to stop.
marty derosa
I've had people try to OD on weed.
dan friesen
Yeah.
I don't think we were trying to OD.
I think we were trying to see, like, at what point.
Is smoking weed unappealing to the point where I don't want to raise my arm anymore?
unidentified
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
And we couldn't find the point.
We were outside smoking for like three hours in the tent.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And just high out of our minds.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
They were just like, this is boring.
Let's go watch something.
So we just went inside and watched TV.
unidentified
That's what TV's for.
dan friesen
So you were in Sherrillville, Indiana.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
High school student, senior, ready to take on the world, thinking about graduating.
marty derosa
Long hair, long hair.
dan friesen
Oh, I've seen pictures of you in high school.
You looked crazy.
marty derosa
Like a mullet kind of thing.
dan friesen
If I'd seen you then, I'd never imagine the sleeve-tatted bad boy of crowd work that I see in front of me now.
marty derosa
He was in there, Dan.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
He was in there.
But he was also getting into them theories.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
He was getting into them.
dan friesen
I was 12?
I was in Missouri.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
What would that be?
Like 7th, 8th grade?
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
I was a douche.
marty derosa
I was also.
dan friesen
I was a big old loser, my friend.
marty derosa
A big old TV watcher.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
What was your favorite show?
dan friesen
Parker Lewis Can't Lose?
What was on back then?
unidentified
Bam, bam, bam.
marty derosa
He had a Scott theme song.
unidentified
He did.
marty derosa
Uh, Parker Lose Can't Lose.
dan friesen
Kubiak!
marty derosa
Yeah, I saw Kubiak, uh, in LA at a, at a Second City show.
dan friesen
This checks out.
marty derosa
He just was hanging out there supporting the show.
He knew somebody in the cast.
dan friesen
He was in the audience, not on stage.
marty derosa
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I was confused.
unidentified
Kubes.
marty derosa
Oh, I gotta say something to him, but he, he had left at the time, uh, or before I could.
Pete and Pete looks exactly the same, just gray hair.
dan friesen
Oh, that's nice.
unidentified
Uh.
dan friesen
He was not an unattractive man, the Kubes.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
96, I'm watching, uh, you know, I'm, I'm watching Boy Meets World.
unidentified
Sure.
marty derosa
I'm fucking with, uh.
Of course, we're still.
90210.
Melrose Place at a certain point.
I was on that.
That would be on Mondays from 7 to 8, and then Raw would be 8 to 10.
But then we started getting into Nitro, and it was just gone.
dan friesen
Do you remember what you got for Christmas that year?
Do you have any Christmas memories?
marty derosa
Oh, 96.
Probably, let's see, 96.
Probably some CDs.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Maybe a Stabbing Westward CD.
marty derosa
I don't know if I was a Stabbing Westward guy.
dan friesen
What do I have to do to make you buy this CD?
marty derosa
They're Chicago guys.
dan friesen
Are they?
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I liked them when they were on the radio, but I don't, I think I got their album and didn't like it.
marty derosa
I think they're a band who I'm like, I'm cool listening to you on the radio because Q101 would play them all the time.
dan friesen
I didn't like most of the sound, but then they got that synth in there.
marty derosa
There was them.
There was Killing Hannah here.
That was a big band like that.
dan friesen
I don't know if they broke to.
marty derosa
I want to be a Kennedy.
Oh, my favorite show, speaking of that, was I was big on either MTV's 120 Minutes.
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
Pinfield.
marty derosa
With Matt Pinfield.
This is Matt Pinfield here.
You just heard Stabbing Westward and they're going to be on tour with Killing Hannah.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
So that would be.
unidentified
Good double bill.
marty derosa
That would be that.
But then in Chicago, we had JBTV with Jerry Bryant, who looked like Jerry Garcia.
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
And he would play videos.
He was this big hippie, but he'd play like punk rock.
dan friesen
Is there a lot of local videos?
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
Oh, that's cool.
unidentified
That's a cool little video.
marty derosa
But mostly he'd play just like punk rock and ska videos.
And I remember I would just pop in a VHS cassette and then I would have it in there.
And if a video started that looked like I might be into it, I would hit record.
dan friesen
I did the same thing with BET Uncut when I was at Rump Shaker late nights.
White Girls.
marty derosa
Shabba Ranks.
dan friesen
Oh, Shabba Ranks was all over that shit.
marty derosa
Mr. Loverman was one of my backyard wrestling names back in the day.
Mr. Loverman.
dan friesen
I love it.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
There was one video that I wish I could find.
It's never been put on YouTube.
It's by this guy named Nicodemus.
marty derosa
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
And he had a song called Make It Shake.
He's like, fine little cutie, now make it shake.
But he has like two lines in it that have haunted me.
And I want to make sure I'm not making them up.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
I'm pretty sure I'm not.
One of them, he says he's going to beat up that pussy like a Roy Jones fight.
unidentified
Aww.
dan friesen
I was like, wow.
unidentified
That's awesome.
Yeah.
dan friesen
The other one is, I like the way it smells, but I ain't going to eat it, yo.
marty derosa
Yeah, this is back when black guys didn't go down on women.
dan friesen
But he liked the way it smelled.
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
That's bizarre.
unidentified
Sure.
marty derosa
This was a, this was a time that I was just talking to somebody about this where like now rappers will talk about like eating ass and all this stuff.
And I'm like, man, back when I was in high school, you guys bragged about not going down on women.
dan friesen
Yeah, that was a big reputation.
It was, but liking the way something smells and not eating it is exactly how I feel about olives.
marty derosa
There's, there's, there's a, there was my song or my song that comes to mind.
I think this was on 120 minutes.
I think there, I think there was a white.
I don't know if rapper's the right word.
unidentified
Iman?
No.
marty derosa
His name was, I think, Jesse James?
unidentified
Huh.
marty derosa
There might have been a different spelling of that.
dan friesen
There's a couple named Jesse James.
marty derosa
And his, and his song was, She Got a Body Like a White Girl.
It was like, Shake It, Baby.
He got a body like a white girl.
That was when there was those, there was a bunch of those kind of guys, of like the funky white guys.
dan friesen
The Bruno Mars progenitors.
unidentified
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
dan friesen
Last generation's, uh, Pompadour wearing dickheads.
marty derosa
Yeah.
Jimmy.
dan friesen
Jimmy's Chicken Shack?
marty derosa
Jimmy's Chicken Shack.
unidentified
Yeah.
Do I do?
Do I do?
marty derosa
And I feel like those were guys who were like.
dan friesen
Someone I know got a hand job at a Jimmy's Chicken Chicken.
marty derosa
That's wonderful.
dan friesen
I can't remember who it was.
marty derosa
It's probably Nick.
Jam sandwich.
He got a jam sandwich.
dan friesen
It was someone, I think it was, the story was told on this podcast, and I can't remember who it was.
unidentified
Wow.
marty derosa
That's amazing.
You're going to have to check your any Freezing Pointer archivist.
dan friesen
We need a Freezing Point historian.
marty derosa
Those were the kind of guys who I felt like they were like, shit, man, this punk band's not working out, or this ska band's not working out.
Like, we got to figure something out.
dan friesen
We gotta grow dreads.
marty derosa
And then it was just like, what about?
And then they went along with it and did it.
dan friesen
They had a fateful band meeting.
marty derosa
I was also in 96 getting into going to Hollywood Video and getting them independent fucking films, man.
Yeah, you were talking kids.
We're talking clerks.
Ryan Beck and the Note 00:05:44
marty derosa
We're talking.
dan friesen
What was clerks?
Like 95, 94?
marty derosa
Yeah, because Mall Rats was like 97.
dan friesen
Yeah.
That seems like right about when that shit was really breaking.
marty derosa
Tarantino was big.
Yeah.
dan friesen
Well, something else happened in 96.
And it was dark.
unidentified
Yep.
dan friesen
The young girl went down.
December 26th, 1996, the day after Christmas.
marty derosa
It's always those, like, day after, day before, day of a big holiday.
dan friesen
That's so horrible.
I mean, there's layers of horribleness, but just the date alone is fucking awful.
marty derosa
Yeah, it's like also to the family.
It's like, well, enjoy Christmas now.
dan friesen
Yeah.
I mean, there's a lot of ways you can go about that thought.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Because some people believe that the parents didn't have such a bad Christmas.
Because they may have gotten away with murder.
Murder.
So on the 26th, early in the morning, John Ramsey, John Bennett Ramsey, and Patricia Ramsey, the parents of John Benet, Discover a ransom note on their staircase, which I will pull up now and read in its entirety because it's a bizarre, bizarre note.
Have you ever read the ransom note?
unidentified
Nope.
Can't wait.
dan friesen
It was found on the staircase.
And one of the things that's kind of interesting about this is that there are alternating stories that Patricia Ramsey gave about finding the note.
In one telling, she says that she went to John Bonet's room, saw that she wasn't there.
Went downstairs, found the note.
Later, she said that she found the note, freaked out, checked the room, and found that she wasn't there.
marty derosa
Oh, I'm aware of the stone.
I'm sorry, because they used to think it might have been a disgruntled employee.
dan friesen
I don't know how that would be the case, though.
So the note is, Mr. Ramsey, listen carefully.
We are a group of individuals that represent a small foreign faction.
We respect your business, but not the country that it serves.
At this time, we have your daughter in our possession.
She is safe and unharmed, and if you want her to see 1997, you must follow our instructions to the letter.
You will withdraw $118,000 from your account.
$100,000 will be in $100 bills and the remaining $18,000 in $20 bills.
Make sure that you bring an adequate-size attaché to the bank.
When you get home, you'll put the money in a brown paper bag.
I will call you between 8 and 10 a.m. tomorrow to instruct you on delivery.
The delivery will be exhausting, so I advise you to be rested.
That's a strange sentence.
marty derosa
Yeah, I'm very weird.
dan friesen
It's like, okay, we're going to make you drop it off somewhere, but there's going to be A, uh, a double dare style obstacle course on the way.
You're gonna be exhausted.
marty derosa
Or it's like Fargo, and he's like, it will be snowing.
Please dress accordingly.
dan friesen
Yeah.
You'll have to make your way up the aggro crag in order to drop off the money.
Uh, so we, yeah, we want you to be arrested.
Uh, if we monitor you getting the money early, we might call you early to arrange an earlier delivery of the money and hence an early pickup of your daughter.
Any deviation from my instruction will result in the immediate execution of your daughter.
You will also be denied her remains for proper burial.
The two gentlemen watching over your daughter do not particularly like you, so I advise you not to provoke them.
Speaking to anyone about your situation, such as the police, FBI, etc., will result in your daughter being beheaded.
If we catch you talking to a stray dog, she dies.
If you alert bank authorities, she dies.
If the money is any way marked or tampered with, she dies.
You will be scanned for electronic devices, and if any are found, she dies.
You can try to deceive us, but be warned that we are familiar with law enforcement countermeasures and tactics.
You stand a ninety-nine percent chance of killing your daughter if you try and outsmart us.
Follow our instructions and you stand a hundred percent chance of getting her back.
You and your family are under constant scrutiny as well as the authorities.
Don't try and grow a brain, John.
You're not the only fat cat around, so don't think that killing will be difficult.
Don't underestimate us, John.
Use that good southern common sense of yours.
It's up to you now, John.
Victory.
Signed SBTC.
So that's a two and a half page note that they left.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
Which is excessive.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
That's a long note.
marty derosa
Did they do the old timey movie cliche of cutting the letters out of a newspaper?
Nope.
dan friesen
Handwritten.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Handwritten note, which comes up a little bit later, actually.
unidentified
Can't wait.
dan friesen
One of the things that's very interesting about this note is, uh, that it includes references to current movies.
There is, uh, Don't Try and Grow a Brain is a line from Speed that Dennis Hopper delivers, and the repetition of If You Do Blank, She Dies.
If You Do Blank, She Dies.
What's that from?
That's from Ransom.
unidentified
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
The movie Ransom, which had come out that year.
So, there are some weird elements of that that.
marty derosa
That was a Mel Gibson movie, right?
dan friesen
Yeah.
You Have My Daughter?
Wait, that's the wrong one.
That's another Mel Gibson movie.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Do You Kill My Daughter?
He has a terrible Boston accent in that movie.
And me and my buddy Ryan Beck, comedian in New York, Ryan Beck, used to always make fun of choo-choo, my daughter.
So, one way or another, they find the note.
And this is around 5:45 a.m.
They find the note and they call the police.
marty derosa
Oh, man.
Right away, you're calling the police?
What are you doing?
dan friesen
I'm crying.
unidentified
I'm calling the police.
marty derosa
If your cat isn't here in the morning, I assume she got out.
No, no, no.
And there's a letter that says, hey, Dan.
dan friesen
We're some foreign faction.
marty derosa
We're a foreign faction.
Don't, don't go growing a brain.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Uh, what other movie quotes can we put in there?
dan friesen
Uh, I don't know.
unidentified
I get, I get.
marty derosa
Give any drugs.
It'd be pretty cool if you did, man.
Vin Diesel Shooting Suspects 00:15:17
marty derosa
Some basic infuse from back in the day.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Uh, I, will ask you, do not go to the police.
You're calling the police right away?
dan friesen
No, if it's about my cat, I'm going to let it go.
I love my cat, but first of all, my bank statement is very low.
Way under $100,000.
unidentified
I don't know.
marty derosa
I just said $100,000.
dan friesen
I can't even give him that.
unidentified
Damn.
marty derosa
You're ready to kiss this cacabaya for $100?
dan friesen
I don't know.
I don't, I'm not going to give him $100.
marty derosa
Would you have called the police right away if you're the Ramses?
dan friesen
Yeah, probably.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Because I'd be in way over my head.
marty derosa
Okay.
I mean, I'm just curious.
I don't, I don't know too many stories of people who were like, you know what?
There was a random.
A ransom note.
They said, uh, you know, don't involve the cops.
We didn't involve the cops.
We got the money.
dan friesen
Everything worked out.
marty derosa
And God forbid it worked out.
And thank God we didn't call the authorities.
dan friesen
It's super easy for me to say this because I'm unconnected and sort of dispassionate.
And I'm not, you know, I don't have any ties to anybody.
And I don't have a kid, so I don't know those feelings.
But I remember back when I worked at a gas station, uh, they were like, if someone robs you, do whatever they say, but don't leave.
If you leave with them, you're dead.
marty derosa
Yes, yes, yes.
dan friesen
Because they will never, risk.
If they, if that now you've added kidnapping to it, if you leave, you might as well.
marty derosa
They say that to women to like never get in a car.
dan friesen
You might as well fight and die because you're going to die if you leave.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
I think that there's some similar feeling that I have about kidnapping victims.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Like if you are someone and they've left a ransom note, odds are when you find that note, the person's already dead.
Cause no one could risk the possibility of being fingered.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Of like them.
unidentified
But there are.
dan friesen
Wherever you take the person is now tainted.
There's a whole new world of evidence wherever the holding cell is or whatever it is.
marty derosa
This is a thing, this is a thing where It's a dumb.
Like in Mexico, where kidnapping for money is more of a, I almost said legit business, but it's more of an industry.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Have you seen Mandabala, that documentary?
unidentified
Uh-uh.
dan friesen
I recommend it.
marty derosa
Mandabala.
dan friesen
Yeah, it has to do with that.
marty derosa
Have you seen Man on Fire?
dan friesen
Yeah.
With the Vin Diesel movie?
unidentified
No.
marty derosa
That's a Denzel movie.
It's fucking awesome.
dan friesen
Have you seen Man on a Wire?
marty derosa
Man on a Wire.
dan friesen
That one's great.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
Guy going across the Twin Towers?
marty derosa
Vin Diesel.
dan friesen
Vin Diesel?
unidentified
Yeah.
So.
dan friesen
I hear he's a candy ass.
marty derosa
He is.
I am Team Bring It.
I am Team Boots to Asses.
Fuck you, Vin Diesel.
My sources at TMZ told me that the crew was all this rock guy is the shit.
He's the best.
dan friesen
How could you not love him?
He seems like the coolest guy in the world.
marty derosa
Luda.
Luda's trying to back up Vin Diesel.
Guess what, Luda?
You're done.
You're out of my circle.
dan friesen
Is this going to split up the love fest between Luda and Tyrese?
marty derosa
I don't know where.
dan friesen
Tune in to find out.
marty derosa
I don't know where Tyrese is in it, but Luda went Team Vin.
dan friesen
Real quick conspiracy theory I have before we get back to this horrifying story.
marty derosa
The Rock and Vin Diesel are the same person.
dan friesen
No.
I think that they're going to interact at WrestleMania.
I think this is all a lead up to WrestleMania next year.
Because, uh, Fast 8 comes out two weeks after WrestleMania.
I think this is all a massive publicity stunt that started really early.
unidentified
Wow.
dan friesen
Do you not think that is possible?
marty derosa
No.
dan friesen
Why not?
marty derosa
The Rock was genuinely upset.
dan friesen
Please.
marty derosa
I know Dwayne.
And I know, I know when my boy is genuinely upset.
unidentified
You know him.
dan friesen
You have a sense for him.
marty derosa
I, I have a real, I don't know.
I could tell.
I know when he's shooting.
And he was shooting.
He was shooting from the hip.
unidentified
All right.
marty derosa
Let's get into this.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
So they find this, this ransom note.
dan friesen
Yes.
And they call the police.
marty derosa
Right away.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Well, I think part of it, too, is that, like, well, they're going to call between eight and ten.
We're not prepared to handle that phone call.
We got to get, you know, we, we, so a couple of cops come over and they did.
marty derosa
Now that's crazy.
Like, cops are just coming over, parked cars in front of the house.
dan friesen
I'm not sure.
I'm not sure how they handled that, but a couple came over and did a search, a very basic search, and they concluded that there was no evidence of a break-in.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Uh, and they took off.
Then Detective Lisa Arndt showed up, and she was the only cop that was present during The phone call period.
Between 8 and 10, she was there.
She noted a number of things that were a little bit out of the ordinary, such as John Bennett Ramsey got caught up reading the mail during the time that there was the window.
And the most damning thing, or at least the most weird thing, was that when 10 o'clock rolled around and the call hadn't come in, no one seemed concerned.
There wasn't like a, the time is up and they haven't called.
No one was freaking out in any way.
And in an interview, the detective.
It was like that kind of was really weird to me.
marty derosa
I like those, you know, like when you watch like a Dateline NBC or, you know, First 48 or whatever, forensic files, and there are those cops notice like, yeah, it was real weird.
You know, like Dan had his son missing and he just kept doing a crossword puzzle and he was so fucking obsessed with his crossword puzzle.
Like, I was a little like, what's going on with this guy?
dan friesen
Cops know a lot of tells, just like good poker players know tells that you don't even know you're doing.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
dan friesen
A lot of cops are able to pick up on very subconscious behaviors.
Um, so, after 10 o'clock passes, the call hasn't come in.
Detective Arndt decides, uh, that we gotta search this house.
And see if there's any clues that we can come up with.
So, she's called for backup a couple times.
People aren't there.
No one's come.
Uh, which is a little bit weird also.
Uh, so they, she and, uh, John Ramsey and his friend Fleet White, uh, decide that, first of all, great name.
Fleet White.
unidentified
It's my boy Fleet.
dan friesen
You kidding me?
marty derosa
It's my boy Fleet.
unidentified
Fleet White!
marty derosa
Sounds rich.
dan friesen
Uh, yeah, very rich.
Everyone involved in this story, except for the cops, is very rich.
marty derosa
Fleet sounds wealthy.
dan friesen
Yeah, he has a Fleet in his name and his driveway.
marty derosa
Oh man.
dan friesen
So they search the house, uh, John and Fleet White go downstairs.
marty derosa
Fleet White.
You don't even have to tell me he's an amazing golfer because I believe it.
dan friesen
Uh, they go downstairs and that's where they begin their search in the basement.
They're specifically instructed not to touch anything.
Just look around.
If you see something, don't touch anything.
marty derosa
See something, say something.
dan friesen
Yeah.
So they go downstairs and they search the bathroom and like a training room and then they search the wine cellar and that's where they find her body.
John Bennett Ramsey picks up the body.
marty derosa
Ah, John.
dan friesen
And he carries her up the stairs, and the detective is like, What are you doing?
What are you doing?
And so he puts her down.
Uh, she was found with, she was covered in a blanket that apparently had special significance to her.
Not entirely sure what, but in every source it said she was covered in her special white blanket.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
Which is a strange phrasing to be universal.
marty derosa
Did you have a special blanket growing up?
dan friesen
I don't think I did.
If I did, I don't remember it, but I don't think that's that uncommon.
I don't remember a lot of stuff.
I think, oh, that's my favorite.
unidentified
You have a little blankie?
marty derosa
I think I had a wubby.
unidentified
You had a wubby?
marty derosa
I think it's called a wubby.
And then my nephew, or was it a dip?
I think it was my nephew's, was his Dinny Ghoul.
unidentified
Dinny Ghoul?
marty derosa
Yeah, his Dinny Ghoul.
I had my wubby, which was a white blanket with sheep on it.
unidentified
Aww.
dan friesen
I remember more personified things, like I had a Teddy Ruxpin that I loved.
But I don't remember blankets and stuff like that.
I remembered things I could communicate with.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Kind of.
Even though they couldn't talk back.
unidentified
Or could they?
Oh boy.
dan friesen
So she was found with a nylon cord around her neck.
Her wrists were tied above her head, and duct tape was over her mouth.
Which is grim.
That is a bummer, Marty.
marty derosa
Can I be a real creep here and ask a question?
dan friesen
Yes.
marty derosa
What was she wearing?
dan friesen
That is a real creep.
marty derosa
I'm sorry.
dan friesen
She was wearing a sleeping gown and underwear.
I'm sorry.
What does a six year old wear to bed?
It's essentially that.
It's nothing uncommon.
It's apparently also a sleeping gown that she really loved.
So people put some significance into that clothes being all.
It was Christmas night.
Yeah, it was Christmas night.
You would probably wear your favorite thing to bed.
So, the autopsy showed that she died of asphyxiation, but she was also the victim of a massive skull fracture.
So, when talking about this, the police have said that she was likely hit really hard with a blunt object like a flashlight or something like that, and she was knocked deeply unconscious at that point.
So, the thing that's really bizarre is that it would have killed her eventually, that kind of a head wound, but 45 minutes to two hours after she was knocked unconscious, She was killed by asphyxiation.
unidentified
Damn.
dan friesen
So, this is a murder that took a long time.
That's one of the things that we're going to keep coming back to that I don't understand.
Okay.
The person who did this was in no rush.
unidentified
Wow.
dan friesen
Just fucked up.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, the autopsy also showed that there was no evidence of rape, but sexual assault could not be ruled out.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Further, it showed that she had eaten pineapple a few hours before her death.
Now, if you put her death in the morning, that's a little weird.
Marty.
marty derosa
I'm good.
dan friesen
I'm sorry.
Old pineapple comic express over here.
Fucking giggling at pineapple.
unidentified
I'm stupid, jackass.
I'm sorry.
Go ahead.
dan friesen
Uh, so, pictures from the crime scene and around the house showed a bowl of pineapple on the kitchen table.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
This bowl had her brother's fingerprints on it and a spoon in it.
So it's probably safe to assume that she had eaten pineapple out of this bowl in the morning.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
But her brother, according to her parents, And, uh, I mean, they were the only people who would have any information on this.
Her, uh, her brother was asleep the entire time until the police showed up.
marty derosa
How old's brother?
dan friesen
He was nine years old at the time.
marty derosa
How old was John Bonet?
dan friesen
Burke was his name.
She was six.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, if you really think about- So the only four people in the house were Burke.
Yeah.
marty derosa
John Bonet.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
And the parents.
dan friesen
That's the only people that we know of were in the house.
There were a lot of people who speculate wildly about, uh, stuff.
marty derosa
I can't wait.
dan friesen
Uh, but yeah, they're the only people we can definitively prove were there.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
That was a weird feeling burp.
Honestly, a lot of this research made me deeply uncomfortable and very nauseous.
Uh, but, uh, okay, so she had this pineapple, which is strange.
Because if they are finding this note at 5 in the morning, and she was conceivably attacked 45 minutes to 2 hours before, then that puts it at like 4 in the morning.
Then you consider that she'd eaten this pineapple a couple hours before.
That could have been 2 in the morning, 1, 2 in the morning.
Six year olds have no business being up at 1, 2 in the morning.
Six year old wouldn't really necessarily be able to make herself a bowl of pineapple.
Of course, it's also unclear if they had prepared pineapple ready or if she would have needed to cut the pineapple.
marty derosa
They had money, I'm sure they had prepared.
dan friesen
A six year old has no idea how to cut a pineapple.
I'm 32, I have no idea.
marty derosa
Look, I'd probably have a lot of waste with that.
I'd probably waste a lot of the pineapple cutting it.
dan friesen
You'd get 5% of the pineapple out.
Absolutely.
So, the police in the case have been highly criticized for failing to secure the crime scene, allowing evidence to be.
Suspect because of how little they did to secure the scene.
marty derosa
That whole idea of, hey, family member, help me search the house.
dan friesen
Strange.
unidentified
That's bad.
marty derosa
That's Bush.
dan friesen
Yeah.
unidentified
Bush League.
dan friesen
At that point, you're not expecting a dead body to be found.
unidentified
No.
dan friesen
Because if you're going in and it's a kidnapping, no case of kidnapping with ransom notes has ever been, like, this is one of the reasons that this is an intriguing case to a lot of people, is that if you're kidnapping someone and you want a ransom, there's no reason for you to kill them in the basement.
Like, that never happens.
marty derosa
That's counterintuitive.
dan friesen
It doesn't match up.
marty derosa
Counterproductive.
unidentified
At all.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
And the fact that her body wasn't really hidden, it was just under a blanket.
The person who did it knew that her body would be found fairly quick.
marty derosa
Yeah, it wasn't like she was in a crawl space or anything like that, where then they get the money and they're like, haha, check your crawl space.
dan friesen
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
unidentified
Dang it.
dan friesen
Yeah, we're out.
Haha, SBTC for life.
marty derosa
Fuck you too, fleet.
dan friesen
Uh, so, that's some, that's a circumstance that is just fucking bananas bizarre.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, where, where's your head at now?
marty derosa
My head right now.
dan friesen
Put yourself in the investigator's shoes.
marty derosa
Well, especially too, if I'm picking up some weird, like, dad's just checking the mail and shit.
dan friesen
Doesn't seem to be too distraught.
marty derosa
I mean, you want to not instantly show up and be like, where were you, parents?
What's your fucking deal?
You know what I mean?
dan friesen
Coming in like Colombo.
marty derosa
Yeah.
Let me ask you another question, Mr. Bennett.
Or Bennett, Ramsey.
dan friesen
He goes by John Bennett pretty regularly.
marty derosa
That's a rich guy.
dan friesen
It's very confusing, too, because John Bennett.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
So, I think.
dan friesen
It was his mom's maiden name, the grandma of John Binet's.
unidentified
Okay.
Bennett.
marty derosa
I think that if I'm that investigator, I don't, I'm not asking for help around the house.
unidentified
No.
marty derosa
Like, that's where it's like, hey, we're all gonna get the neighbors together.
We're gonna all skip, we're gonna comb the neighborhood.
That's when you start getting.
dan friesen
But that's like a week down the road.
marty derosa
Sure, that's when you start getting non police officers.
It's funny.
dan friesen
When you deputize people.
marty derosa
Yeah, exactly.
No, I mean, it's just weird that like no one else came and they were like, I would, if, I would think, and I'm, this is from what I've seen on television.
And this and that, it's like, you know, a wife goes missing, uh, husband is probably a suspect a little bit.
So you're keeping an eye on them.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Which she kind of noticed.
dan friesen
And keeping them safe in case there is another situation.
marty derosa
And keeping them safe.
Um, I'm reading, if I'm reading that note and I'm the cop, I get, maybe I'm, maybe I'm being too, I'm empowering the kidnappers too much or I'm taking them too serious, but I'd be like, we gotta get these fucking cars out from here.
Like, we gotta fucking, they might be watching us.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
But I mean, you have to cover that base, I think.
unidentified
Yes.
marty derosa
Um, I wish.
That there was a way to kind of go back and really see what those parents were acting like.
dan friesen
I watched a video of a deposition.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
And from, I mean, I'm no fucking body language expert.
I'm nothing, I have no expertise in this.
But I will say that I don't think that they were acting that weird.
I think that their behavior matched fairly close to what I would expect.
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
And I mean, you know, we've talked about this with the crisis actor stuff.
Like, people talk about someone smiling before they give an interview or something like that being proof that they're.
unidentified
It's all fine.
marty derosa
They don't know how to act.
unidentified
Right.
marty derosa
Maybe you cry too much, then they go, boy, she was really crying a lot.
dan friesen
Yeah, really hamming it up.
marty derosa
Hamming it up.
dan friesen
They don't.
They're not, like, angry.
marty derosa
My only thing is, you're letting them search the house with them, too.
And I bet it was a big ass house.
dan friesen
It's a three story, 15 room house.
Creepy Toddler Tiaras Theory 00:10:26
dan friesen
Okay.
So, I mean, it's massive.
marty derosa
So that's big.
dan friesen
They're super duper rich, which we'll get into in a little bit.
marty derosa
Even the idea of the dad.
Seeing his daughter, picking her up, bringing her upstairs.
I'm not ready to go.
dan friesen
That is not a red flag.
marty derosa
That's not a red flag.
I'm not throwing the red flag on that one.
dan friesen
It's against protocol, sure.
But it is very much what a grieving father might do if he freaked out.
Can you imagine how much your brain would flip if you're like, oh, there's my daughter dead?
Your brain would go crazy.
It's almost impossible to hold someone responsible for the immediate actions.
He could have killed Fleet White and I wouldn't have been surprised.
marty derosa
I would have picked Fleet up and brought him upstairs.
Fleet, no.
unidentified
Fleetie!
marty derosa
Yeah, that, I'm not, I'm not blaming him.
I'm not calling him out on that one either.
dan friesen
Yeah.
So, they did look into the parents quite a bit.
And I believe that that's the mainstream, uh, consensus that most people have.
marty derosa
If you ask people, and I asked, I asked somebody last night who I was hanging out with.
I said, what do you think?
What do you know when we decided this is what we're gonna do?
And she said, didn't the mom do it?
Or, and she's actually ordering a book.
She just ordered a book on Amazon, which is crazy that I think she's doing it.
I know.
And she goes, didn't they say, or isn't the idea that either the mom did it because she peed the bed?
dan friesen
Yeah, that's an absurd theory that had been given.
That the mom freaked out because of a bedwetting.
marty derosa
The brother did it, and they were covering up for the brother.
dan friesen
That's the classic OJ's son situation.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Now, here's one of the reasons I don't believe the son theory, or the brother theory, as it were.
She was strangled with a garret.
That was made from cord and the broken handle of a paintbrush.
Do you know what a garret is?
unidentified
No.
dan friesen
It's where you have like a piece of board or like a stick.
Usually not a stick.
It's sort of an improvised weapon that people would use to stealth kill people.
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
Sounds like a prison fucking weapon.
dan friesen
Yeah, well, they would have it.
They would have it in prisons.
Like you'd be strapped to a chair and you'd be strangled on the chair.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
That's one of the forms of a garret.
But the thing is.
What it sets it apart from just like a rope strangulation is that there's that piece of, in this case, a broken handle of a paintbrush that gives crazy leverage to it.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So one of the things is even if you are trying to fight out of it and pulling on the cord, you only make it tighter.
unidentified
Oh.
dan friesen
So that's one of the things, it's a pretty, I mean, it's basic really, but it's fairly sophisticated as an idea.
So the idea that a nine year old would make one out of a cord and a broken paintbrush.
marty derosa
Was it there?
Was it the Garrett there?
Was it still around her neck?
dan friesen
I believe it was found.
Okay.
It requires knots.
That's kind of surprising.
Like a nine year old might not.
I don't know.
Maybe he learned those in scouts.
Who knows?
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
He doesn't have a motive, also.
There's no, like, there's no history of, like, violent behavior or outbursts.
marty derosa
When you say that sexual assault could not be.
dan friesen
It wasn't rape.
marty derosa
Right.
But they said, but you said sexual assault couldn't be ruled out.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
How common is that?
Like, is that a thing?
dan friesen
I think that's pretty common.
unidentified
Okay.
Okay.
marty derosa
That's not, like, the most, like, no, no, that's, like, never say that.
dan friesen
I don't think that you can prove that someone might have, like, licked a puss or something like that, which is horrible.
Horrible phrasing on my part.
marty derosa
Yeah, that's the worst.
dan friesen
I'm sorry.
But you know, like, that's sort of the problem.
unidentified
Right.
marty derosa
That to me, that, I just want to make sure that's not one of those things of everybody going, well, they said right there.
Like, that's one of those things you hear on a, like, again, watching like a Dateline NBC or something.
And they say that, and they're like, so you're telling me you can't conclusively say this?
And they go, uh, the expert goes, yes.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Oh, I have no further questions.
And then the defense will come right up or the, or the prosecutor will come right up and go, Dan, let me ask you a question.
How common is that?
And they'll go, oh, it happens all the time.
unidentified
Okay.
Yeah.
marty derosa
So there's no red flag or I shouldn't go crazy about that.
dan friesen
Tearing, which would be indicative of, of a rape, or, or, or penetration from large objects.
There wasn't, uh, semen found or anything like that.
unidentified
So those.
marty derosa
I don't mean to call you out, Dan, but when Dan said large object, he pointed down at his, at his crotch.
dan friesen
Well, I mean, it's Pavlovian in response.
It's just learned behavior.
Whenever I talk about big things, I point at my dick.
unidentified
I'm kidding.
dan friesen
To quote Manny Fresh, dick real big, house real big, car real big, everything real big.
marty derosa
That's right.
dan friesen
Studio apartment.
I don't have a car.
What does that tell you?
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So, where was I?
Oh, yeah.
I don't think it's the brother, also, because, like, it's a pretty violent crime that you'd have to knock them unconscious, which would require a heavy blow that I'm not sure a nine year old is capable of delivering.
unidentified
I don't know.
dan friesen
And then you would have to carry a six year old's body down to a basement, hide it.
There's a lot of aspects to it that really preclude me from thinking a nine year old could do it.
marty derosa
I don't know why I had heard also something like.
Some of the things I had heard was, yeah, the bedwetting thing.
dan friesen
That's dumb.
I would throw that out immediately.
marty derosa
I had heard a golf club to the head.
The brother hit her in the head with a golf club on accident.
dan friesen
That would give a little bit more radius, a little bit more of centrifugal force to it.
marty derosa
I'm listening.
dan friesen
I don't know.
I still don't.
unidentified
I'm not.
marty derosa
I'm listening.
dan friesen
Those two theories don't tickle me too much.
marty derosa
Okay.
Moving on.
dan friesen
But the parents, everyone's tickled by that shit.
marty derosa
Not the most likable people either.
No.
Because they're rich.
They're a little cold.
They're very waspy.
dan friesen
They're very waspy.
They're also pageant parents, which no one likes.
marty derosa
No.
dan friesen
That's so suspicious from the jump.
marty derosa
She's a former beauty queen.
dan friesen
Yep.
She was Miss West Virginia or whatever.
Patricia?
marty derosa
Patricia.
dan friesen
Patsy Bennett?
marty derosa
Patsy.
dan friesen
That's it.
She was a former beauty queen.
She's raising her daughter to be one.
It's a classic thing that makes us feel like the parents are unbalanced.
There's force involved in the sense that, like, you're making your kid do this thing, trying to relive your glory years.
marty derosa
This was really the first taste I had of that pageant.
dan friesen
It was before Toddlers and Tiaras, for sure.
marty derosa
Way before.
dan friesen
Which is, I mean, it is creepy.
And people who, like, who are really on board with the parents killing John Bonet, they do make a lot of good points, maybe not about the actual case, but about how wrong it is to sexualize a child like that.
And it is absolutely the case.
If you look at some of the pictures of the pageants, And at things she was in, there's no reason for kids to be dressed up like that.
marty derosa
Yeah, I remember seeing that.
unidentified
It's fucked up.
marty derosa
And being like, what the fuck is this?
And there was that idea too of, I mean, man, if there are people who are like in that world and then this happened, they were probably like, oh, god damn it.
They're going to think we're all weird.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Oh, I hope the investigation doesn't sprawl.
marty derosa
This was one of those where like, yeah, you'd have your like, you know, your like Phil Donahue's or your Monte Williams being like, what are we doing, America, with our children?
dan friesen
And you're like, Mr. Show sketch, that prenatal pretties sketch is so like right on in terms of what critiques I would make of this.
unidentified
Oh, yeah.
dan friesen
It's like, at what point is this kid too young to be involved in something like this?
I would argue.
15, 16.
marty derosa
All that makeup, those pictures of her.
dan friesen
And even 15, 16 seems young to a certain extent, but, you know, people.
I think I could have made an informed decision at 15.
I think that.
marty derosa
Well, I remember at.
dan friesen
But that.
Six is fucking crazy.
marty derosa
Yeah, it's real crazy and real gross and real weird.
dan friesen
Yeah.
So the parents are guilty of at least that.
It's legal, but it's super fucked up.
And it makes people look at them in a different light.
marty derosa
Sure.
dan friesen
Which is understandable.
marty derosa
Sure.
If she was just.
Uh, uh, uh, into gymnastics.
dan friesen
Sure.
marty derosa
Or something that would be like, aww.
dan friesen
Even that is kind of like, uh, the parents are still exerting a lot of pressure, but it's so possible.
unidentified
You know what?
dan friesen
I'm not even excluding a possibility that John Binet in her life had been like, I wanna be a beauty queen.
That's entirely possible.
But at that point, I don't, I don't know what the responsible thing to do as a parent is, but it's not what they did.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
It's not what all these parents do.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
Putting pancake makeup on a child's face, putting them in like short shorts and fucking bikini bottoms, And parading them in front of freaking creepy adults.
That is not okay.
marty derosa
I do little cowboy dances.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
So weird.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
And it's one of those, you know, as far as like that smell test or just that first little, at first glance, like your first thought's probably your best thought.
And I don't see anybody who sees that and they're just like, this seems fine to me.
dan friesen
Yeah, this checks out.
marty derosa
If you don't watch one second of those and go, ooh, this is weird.
dan friesen
I watched one episode of Toddlers and Tiaras.
And the overwhelming anxiety that I got from it.
And just like, there's a lot of shows that I like to watch.
And, you know, people are like this who watch it.
Isn't this fucked up?
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I couldn't even enjoy it on that level.
I was just like, these people should be locked up.
marty derosa
There's a documentary, I think, about that that I saw before, even before.
dan friesen
While you're looking that up, the other thing that's super fucked up is you're getting your kid into something that they maybe can't succeed in after puberty Living Dials.
marty derosa
The making of a beauty queen.
Uh, this was in 2001.
And, and, I mean, this was fucking creepy.
And it made, and it showed that whole thing of like, moms being like, uh, yeah, before we do one of these, we, we put some, uh, they take a, uh, uh, um, what's the pixie stick?
This, which is sugar in a stick?
dan friesen
Yeah, I know what you're talking about.
marty derosa
Those, and they put it in a Red Bull, mixed it up and gave it to the kid.
dan friesen
Need that energy.
marty derosa
And then jack the kid up.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
That's bad.
dan friesen
Vaseline your smile so it's all shiny.
It's, it's so fucked up.
marty derosa
All right.
dan friesen
I had one other thought and I lost it.
Basically, understandably, it made people and the public look at them like you fucking dicks.
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dan friesen
Also, not working in their story, the story doesn't add up.
If you assume that they're innocent and there was a kidnapper or something like that, the fact that she's found dead in the basement doesn't match up with the ransom note.
It just can't, it doesn't work out.
Beyond that, the ransom note asked for.
$118,000, which is a very bizarrely specific amount of money.
marty derosa
Let me ask you this question.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
If you were going to write a fake ransom letter, wouldn't you throw some weird shit in there?
unidentified
Movie quotes?
marty derosa
No, not just movie quotes, but I would do this weird, like, instead of just I want a million dollars, I'd be like, I want $1.24 million.
You're like, what's that all about?
I think if you're writing a fake ransom note, I think this is a perfect ransom note.
dan friesen
Here's a couple of reasons.
I'm sorry, go ahead.
marty derosa
No, I'm just saying, my.
If I'm starting to look at this with a little, what's going on here?
I think this is a perfect ransom note.
If the parents were sitting down writing it, there'd be enough info about me to be like, don't try anything else, Mr. Podcast.
Or I'd be like, how do you know that I did that?
You know what I mean?
Things like that.
Uh huh.
dan friesen
And he who you, uh, you fuck with us will take down your review on the AV club.
unidentified
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
marty derosa
And things like that or whatever.
And it's just like, to me, it's like, there's a lot of things where I'm just like, that's a perfect fucking ransom note.
dan friesen
Well, here's one reason why if they wrote it, it wasn't.
All that perfect because $118,000 is almost exactly what John Ramsey got the year, that year as a bonus at his work.
marty derosa
Well, no, I think that's perfect.
dan friesen
But who would know that?
marty derosa
Somebody who works with him.
dan friesen
Okay.
marty derosa
That's, I think that was a thing where it's a disgruntled employee or something like that.
dan friesen
A foreign faction.
marty derosa
And a foreign faction.
dan friesen
Well, we'll get into his work here in a little bit because there's some creepy stuff involved with that.
But, uh, on.
marty derosa
Because I think, I'm sorry to cut you off again.
dan friesen
Oh, it's fine.
marty derosa
But I think a good bad, uh, uh, ransom note.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
Puts the cops in a specific direction away from you.
Like, if I was just like, shit, I got to write a ransom note and I want to throw them off my trail.
And I would be like, you know, and don't think I didn't forget what you said about, or, and like, and don't forget, you know, about maybe something you said on a podcast episode.
So now they're like, maybe it's a listener of his podcast.
dan friesen
Essentially, what you're saying is if you wrote a ransom note, you'd write it in character.
marty derosa
I'd read it in character.
dan friesen
You'd pepper in specifics of somebody else.
unidentified
Yep.
marty derosa
And be like, that's the last time you talk shit about me on Twitter or something.
I'd be like, Ryback.
It's Ryback.
dan friesen
It's Ryder Ray Dryback.
marty derosa
It's Ryback.
dan friesen
So on October, this is the last thing I really have is like something that indicates why the people would think it was the parents.
On October 25th, 2013, sealed court documents were unsealed that showed that a Colorado grand jury voted in 1999 to indict John and Patricia for the murder.
But the DA, Alex Hunter, refused to sign it due to inconclusive evidence.
Now, if you look a little bit more into this, that's kind of misleading.
They weren't going to be indicted for the murder.
They're going to be indicted for putting a child in a harmful situation or helping commit the murder.
And that, to me, seems like they were being indicted for moving the body.
unidentified
Oh.
dan friesen
Because that really screwed with the investigation.
So I think that it's possible that the reason that The DA wouldn't sign it.
Is that like you're this isn't a criminal offense, this is understandably a fucked up thing that happened.
marty derosa
He wasn't trying, and you're punishing parents.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
And what year did Patty get sick?
dan friesen
She ended up dying in 2006.
I'm not sure when she actually started to get sick, but she died of ovarian cancer in 2006.
Okay, so those are some of the reasons why people point a finger at them.
And if you have a kid who dies in your house, rightfully, you need to be thoroughly investigated.
marty derosa
Did they sell their house?
dan friesen
I don't know.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
I'm not sure about that.
marty derosa
All right.
dan friesen
That was not a compelling piece of my research.
unidentified
Okay.
That's okay.
dan friesen
Found a number of things that point away from them, though.
unidentified
Let me hear this.
dan friesen
In 2008, the DNA evidence was able to be run because in 1999 there was not really a sophisticated DNA analysis going on in law enforcement.
In 2008, the evidence was run from her underwear that did not match anyone related to her.
So there was.
unidentified
Fleet.
Fleet.
What are you doing, Fleet?
dan friesen
There was evidence in the underwear, theoretically, a pube or saliva.
You just cringed.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Understandably.
But it makes it so Burke.
marty derosa
No, I just hate pubic hair.
dan friesen
I know you wax.
That's terrible.
So Burke and the parents would conceivably be off the hook at that point.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
But it's not, you know, just because, like, an absence of evidence is evidence of absence.
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
So the fact that there wasn't DNA evidence doesn't mean it wasn't them.
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
It just means that there was also someone else.
marty derosa
Also, if I was going to frame a murder on somebody, plant some evidence.
I'd get a pubic hair out of the.
dan friesen
There's so many places you could find a pub.
marty derosa
Local urinal.
dan friesen
There's so many pubes everywhere.
unidentified
I know.
dan friesen
It's insane.
Um, also, their story has not been really changed throughout 20 years.
So, you know, like how OJ flipped and did a if I did it book.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
And stuff like that.
They haven't really tried to profit off this and have not really, outside of a few strange things, like we talked before we started recording about how John Bennett, uh, Ramsey, uh, in 2007, after his wife died, ended up dating Natalie Holloway's mom.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
The girl who went missing in Aruba and was murdered by Joran Vandersloot.
I love that name, but I hate the man.
marty derosa
Man, don't hate the name, hate the game.
dan friesen
Joran Vandersloot.
So good.
So he ended up dating that girl who was murdered's mom.
marty derosa
Natalie's mom.
dan friesen
Which is very kind of strange, but it's not like.
marty derosa
They met kind of being outspoken about child death or what?
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
And that's what they.
marty derosa
They were kind of doing the Nancy Grace tour of stuff like that.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
dan friesen
Hanging out with Ron Goldman.
marty derosa
Yeah, Mr. Goldman's dad.
dan friesen
Yeah, his name's not Ron, too, is it?
I can't remember.
Who cares?
Anyway, uh.
marty derosa
Barry, Barry Goldman?
dan friesen
That's Goldwater you're thinking of.
Uh, it doesn't seem that strange that they might bond over having lost a child.
So if you believe that they're innocent, it makes total sense.
If you believe they're guilty, it also, like, what's, this is strange.
marty derosa
What if, what if, like, he started dating her and he's like, they're just like having a little wine one night and he's like, hey, can you tell me the truth?
Did you kill your, did you kill your daughter too?
He's like, what?
unidentified
He's like, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.
marty derosa
This didn't happen.
dan friesen
So, also, I mean, just the DNA evidence showing the presence of an unknown, unrelated male indicates to me the break in theory could be true, or what gets scarier is the possibility that they were in cahoots with someone else.
That they were involved, but there was somebody else.
So, the parents, you know, it's all up in the air a little bit, you know?
I don't know.
It's really hard to get a handle on what's going on here.
marty derosa
All right, so this happens.
Are there any.
dan friesen
I'm not sure if there's local weirdos, but there were, I think, 38 registered pedophiles or sex offenders living within like a mile and a half of them.
unidentified
Yikes.
dan friesen
Or maybe it was two miles or something.
There were a lot of pedophiles around.
A lot of people got checked out and cleared.
marty derosa
That just shows.
Even if you have all that money, you're still miles, only a couple miles away from a pedophile.
dan friesen
But I bet it's actually more likely that you're living near a pedophile if you're really rich.
unidentified
Maybe.
dan friesen
I mean, if the stuff that we keep.
marty derosa
That's my son, the registered sex offender.
dan friesen
Well, there's so much stuff that we keep running into about how the elites love, uh, let's say illegal sex.
unidentified
Look.
marty derosa
We've all seen Eyes Wide Shut.
We know what happens at the end there.
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
that, that will come back up later in our investigation.
So, one of the things that I think is really tough to get around is something I found in an article from the News Herald from September 4th, 1997.
Uh, there was a story in the paper about handwriting analysis that was done, uh, on the ransom note.
marty derosa
Yes, yes, yes, yes.
dan friesen
74 people were submitted to handwriting analysis and double blindly, so the people who were analyzing it don't know who wrote the stuff.
unidentified
Good.
dan friesen
Uh, the only person who set off alarm bells at all was Patricia.
Her handwriting was not conclusively the same, but it was similar enough that the people doing the analysis were like, ooh, we gotta give this another look.
Which doesn't prove anything, but it is a little weird.
I consider that to be strange.
The use of a garret also is strange.
It's not a super common murder weapon, unless you're in war, kind of improvised war weapon.
It seems intentional.
I don't have a conclusion to make on it, but it's weird.
Also, the part of the broken paintbrush that was used in the garret was one of Patricia's paintbrushes.
They found a broken paintbrush in her supplies.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
Which just could prove that someone sold it.
marty derosa
They were down there in the basement looking for some way to make a garret.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
Okay.
dan friesen
I'm not entirely sure the paintbrushes were in the basement.
That I'm not entirely sure about.
marty derosa
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
I don't know.
That part.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
I gotta go with God and say I have no idea where they were.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Uh, further.
The note apparently, this I couldn't find conclusive evidence on either, but it seemed to be pretty consistent.
Uh, the note was written on a piece of paper that was taken from, uh, Patricia's notepad.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, or, I'm sorry, two and a half pieces of paper that were taken from her notepad.
marty derosa
Which, I can also say, like, okay, yeah, they, they, I mean, you know, they, they just did it there on the spot.
That seems a little weird too, though.
It's like, I'm gonna keep it.
dan friesen
But it had to have been when she, like, They were in the house.
marty derosa
Yeah, that's what it's saying.
dan friesen
The murder would have had to happen while they were home.
They were there overnight.
marty derosa
Here's the deal possible ideas.
If you're trying to.
I guess I'm kind of.
I mean, I don't want.
Are we not saying yet what we think happened or what?
dan friesen
No, no, we're playing.
We're fast and loose here.
Just whatever.
Wherever you want to take this, you take it.
unidentified
All right.
marty derosa
So a group, a couple people, they're in the house.
unidentified
Fleet.
marty derosa
Fleet and his crew.
dan friesen
Allegedly.
marty derosa
No, but there's people who are like, you guys keep her.
You guys, so they had to, here's what had to happen.
dan friesen
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
When you say a group, do you mean a group including the parents or just a group?
marty derosa
No, no, a group.
dan friesen
Okay.
marty derosa
Let's say the parents are innocent.
dan friesen
They're asleep upstairs.
marty derosa
They're asleep upstairs.
John Binet is asleep in her room, which was also upstairs?
dan friesen
Yeah.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
But the hallways had a thick carpet.
Okay.
Like traveling through the hallways would not necessarily.
marty derosa
Right.
dan friesen
You know, people might not hear you.
marty derosa
I bet that carpet feels so good.
dan friesen
Oh, damn, I bet it does.
marty derosa
I bet it's delicious.
dan friesen
I bet they still wear slippers around those high end assholes.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Maybe a runner.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Like a plastic runner down the hallway.
So they.
Grab her, and bring her downstairs.
But I don't know why you'd bring her downstairs.
dan friesen
I don't like you getting really quiet in your speech.
marty derosa
I'm sorry.
And then it's like, I'm going to find a notebook and pad and paper.
I'm going to bang out a ransom note here.
But then that's like, well, then what are you going to turn a light on down there?
dan friesen
To write?
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Sure, why not?
Lights don't make noise.
If you're in the basement, you're far enough away from.
marty derosa
Yeah, but just that to me.
dan friesen
The basement makes total sense.
You're asking why.
marty derosa
But also, that's the wrong question.
The way that suicide, God damn it, I'm sorry, the way that ransom note came off, it seemed kind of like these guys knew what they were doing.
dan friesen
Sure.
But they never called.
marty derosa
But they never called.
dan friesen
But maybe they never called because the police were there.
marty derosa
Well, or they never had any intention, or they had to cut and run because they knew we already killed this girl and you're gonna find her eventually.
dan friesen
So it could have been a kidnapping that went wrong, right?
marty derosa
What are you gonna do?
Hope you don't find the dead body and just go on that whim that you didn't find the dead body and let's do the drop?
dan friesen
All right, so here's a theory that we can go with based on that line of reasoning.
Okay, there's we can allow for a possibility of these kidnappers giving her the old El Kabang over the head, yeah, and then it knocks her out and they realize, fuck, we hit her too hard.
Yeah, they have this ransom note, they leave it anyway.
And they're like, fuck, she's knocked out.
We might have killed her with that head blow.
Let's just choke her, leave her in the basement, and hope things play out.
Or, I mean, that's possible.
marty derosa
Or, let's, oh shit, do we bring her with us?
dan friesen
Now we got a body with us.
marty derosa
Now we got a body with us.
What if there's a spitballing and a guy goes, hey, we leave her here?
They're going to think they did it.
dan friesen
Right.
marty derosa
Let's get the fuck out of here.
dan friesen
But then why do you leave the note?
unidentified
Ah, shit.
dan friesen
If you leave the note, then you're just adding a ton of confusion into it and giving exculpatory evidence to the parents.
And if you want to make it look like the parents did it, you don't leave that note.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Or maybe you do.
unidentified
I don't know.
dan friesen
See, that's the thing.
Almost every piece of evidence can go both ways.
There's a, there's like, this looks like them.
Eh, I don't know.
Kind of gets them off the hook.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
It's very weird.
marty derosa
I mean, if you're there and you're planning on kidnapping somebody for ransom and you accidentally kill them.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
There might be some panic involved.
dan friesen
Yes.
Which is another thing that people bring up is that the note is really long and it's not written in a frantic hand or anything like that.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And it seems like that would be very, very difficult to write after committing a murder.
So people sort of believe that it was written pre murder.
marty derosa
Really?
dan friesen
Yeah.
unidentified
Oh.
dan friesen
Well, I mean, the idea that the mom.
marty derosa
See, I would have thought if the mom and if someone in that family did it, mom or dad or brother.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
that then they would sit down and write it.
dan friesen
Yeah, but I'm, if you're not a murderer, it's, I imagine the moments after committing murder are crazy.
marty derosa
So when would they, so you, you think hypothetically it was premeditated and they knew they were going to kill this girl?
dan friesen
Hypothetically, it could have been that, if you allow for the kidnappers theory, they could have tied her up and then written the note and then.
marty derosa
Oh, pre-death.
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
And the guy goes, all right, I wrote the note.
It's on the counter.
dan friesen
Oh shit, she's dead.
marty derosa
What, what did you do?
dan friesen
I accidentally knocked her out.
unidentified
Dan.
dan friesen
I know, I'm sorry.
marty derosa
She's dead.
dan friesen
Yep.
marty derosa
Let's just get out of here.
dan friesen
Let's go.
marty derosa
What about the note?
Nah, don't worry about it.
unidentified
Let's go.
dan friesen
Fuck it, let's leave it.
marty derosa
Fuck it, let's go.
dan friesen
Uh, yeah, I, I don't, I, I, it's all super crazy, but if you did commit a murder, it would be hard to write two and a half pages immediately after.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
So, I don't know.
I don't know.
marty derosa
Now, let me ask you this.
unidentified
Yes.
marty derosa
What kind of business was this guy in?
dan friesen
Funny you should ask.
John Bennett.
marty derosa
Is it funny or am I a fucking expert?
dan friesen
You're an expert.
Uh, John Bennett Ramsey owned and started a company called Access Graphics, which Uh, grossed $1 billion in 1996, the year of the murder.
unidentified
Whoa.
dan friesen
It was a billion dollar company.
unidentified
Whoa.
dan friesen
And it had been absorbed into a merger into a company that became a subsidiary of Lockheed Martin.
marty derosa
Okay, now we're getting somewhere.
dan friesen
It's a computer service company that was a subsidiary of Lockheed.
marty derosa
Now we're getting somewhere.
dan friesen
And those folks out there who are listening have probably heard of Lockheed Martin before.
They're a weapons manufacturer.
They've made stealth planes in the past pretty frequently, involved in drone shit.
They have deep government ties as a contractor.
They have a skunk works division that is notorious in conspiracy circles.
marty derosa
Now we're getting into it.
dan friesen
Recently, they have claimed that they will unveil fusion technology for energy, clean energy, by 2017.
So that's the sort of company we're talking about.
This is the kind of business he was in.
He was in their computer services wing.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
Which is super weird.
unidentified
Yes.
dan friesen
But I don't know how that involves murdering a daughter.
marty derosa
Well, here's the thing now you're part of two different communities that.
If you want to get sexy with the theories, dark ops.
You've got this dark ops, this world military government shrouded in secrecy world.
dan friesen
He was obviously involved in some stuff that he can't talk about.
No one can talk about.
marty derosa
And then, I mean, they're by that fucking Denver airport.
unidentified
True.
marty derosa
They're not that far away from that Denver airport.
dan friesen
Boulder and Denver are reasonably close.
marty derosa
Also, then you've got the world of the child beauty pageants, and there could be some creeps there.
dan friesen
You know what?
I'm sure that world is mostly creeps.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
That has got to be a world that, like, if anybody did a little digging, you'd have to be able to find, like, tons of people who have long ass rap sheets.
Powerful Pedophiles in Thailand 00:16:51
marty derosa
Sure.
Of, like, if you had any idea, the man who was DJing those, holy shit, he is bad.
dan friesen
Yeah.
So you've got an alias, for sure.
marty derosa
So you've got that world.
You've got these people in two very different but dark worlds.
dan friesen
You've got Skunk Works and Kid Twerks.
marty derosa
There you go.
There you go.
dan friesen
Got both those worlds covered.
marty derosa
So that's a thing.
dan friesen
Sure.
marty derosa
The fact that I respect.
What did he say about the company, but not the country?
dan friesen
I respect your business, but not the country it's involved with.
Let me get the exact quote here.
We respect your business, but not the country that it serves.
marty derosa
Okay.
So now we're starting.
dan friesen
That phrasing is pretty pointed.
marty derosa
And it's sort of a.
I mean, what is that saying?
We're not from the United States?
dan friesen
Uh, well, I mean, they say they're a foreign faction.
marty derosa
They're a foreign faction.
dan friesen
If you, if you think about the sort of shit that was probably, uh, under work, or underway with Lockheed Martin, I would assume that, uh, some sort of intelligence operations in foreign countries would be very interested in that.
So it's possible that it was a kidnapping by, by foreign people who went awry.
unidentified
Or.
dan friesen
Now, hold on.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
If we allow that, if we think along that line, what the fuck do they want with $118,000?
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
If they're involved with foreign espionage, they don't need money.
marty derosa
And if this company took in a billion, why don't you give me a million dollars?
dan friesen
Yeah.
Well, his personal wealth, I believe, was like $4.6 million.
marty derosa
And then there's this idea of can you just go to a bank and get that kind of money?
unidentified
No.
And I don't think so.
marty derosa
And a bank be like, okay, Dan, you sure?
dan friesen
I know that really rich people don't have to go through the same things we do, but we all have withdrawal limits.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
We all have.
marty derosa
Well, you're not going to go to an ATM and get this.
dan friesen
No, but even if you go inside, there's limits what you can take out.
marty derosa
Yeah.
dan friesen
And if you're like, Look, I need these to be unmarked bills.
Yeah.
Unsequential bills, that sets off so many red flags.
unidentified
Right.
dan friesen
You'd have to do it over the course of a couple days or something like that.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Also, I don't even know how you'd get untransferable.
marty derosa
You would think somebody like this would be like, give us your bank account number, we'll take it out.
dan friesen
We know how to do this.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
We'll do an EFT transfer.
marty derosa
Yeah, or set up a foreign account or offshore.
dan friesen
Yeah, we'll let her go once we have a confirmation that you've inserted this money into an account.
marty derosa
Are you starting to think as far as this ransom note goes?
Is it legit?
Are they just trying to get people into all different directions?
dan friesen
There's a lot of problems with it.
If you think that the parents did it, there's a lot of problems.
If you think that someone else did it, there's still a lot of problems.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I don't think it's real.
marty derosa
Okay, okay.
That was my next question.
Do you think it's, do you think there's a possibility that's real?
That's a no.
dan friesen
I don't think so.
Because if you are kidnapping, the, the, the idea that it was at one point real and then the situation changed, that's possible.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Like the kidnapping was not intended to be a murder.
marty derosa
Did they get no, no break in in the house?
Did they have a security system, an alarm or anything?
dan friesen
They would have to.
It's a million dollar home.
marty derosa
Did they have an ADT?
dan friesen
They would have to have had a security system.
marty derosa
Video cameras on site.
dan friesen
The theory that the dad has posed In interviews, is that someone broke in while they were out to dinner that night and then overnight waited down there, waited till they were asleep.
marty derosa
That frightens me.
dan friesen
That scares me.
That's why I always want to live in a studio apartment.
marty derosa
I was just going to say that makes me feel very safe and secure to live.
Danny Callis, one of our buddies, has a joke about living in a studio about being like, I know I'm safe because I just look at, okay, bathroom check, everything else check.
No one's in my apartment.
dan friesen
That idea of a three story house.
That's, I mean, I don't come from riches.
Even when I was growing up, I was a little afraid of the idea of the basement.
unidentified
Uh huh.
dan friesen
You know, we have an unfinished basement down there.
Anyone could hide in a number of places down there.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So it always kind of, yeah, it's scary.
Houses are fucking scary as shit.
Leave alone the idea that you have to make payments on it.
I mean, things break and it's your responsibility.
marty derosa
I'm thinking about this idea of people in this big house being like, all right, here's the car.
Let's go back downstairs or something.
Or you got someone outside in a van across the street or something like that.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Uh, whatever.
It's like, alright, they're coming home.
It's like, alright, we're gonna hide down in the basement.
And then it's alright, now it's four in the morning, let's get to work.
That's fucking crazy.
dan friesen
That's crazy, but one of the other things, it's like, about that kind of plan that's really fucked up is you can't plan for like someone possibly having insomnia or something like that.
marty derosa
No, no, no.
dan friesen
So like, what happens if your whole plan gets screwed by the dad not being able to fall asleep that night?
unidentified
Right.
marty derosa
Or, uh, any, any thoughts on why the daughter, not the son, or why not both of them?
unidentified
Hmm.
marty derosa
I mean, I guess there's no need to take both of them.
unidentified
No.
I don't know.
dan friesen
I feel like, uh, the son, I don't really know anything about him.
unidentified
I don't know what he was into.
He's a little older, too.
dan friesen
He's nine, but, like, I don't know what he was into, whereas John Bonet was a beauty queen pageant gal.
So, like, I feel like there might.
marty derosa
Do they mention much about her in the suicide note again?
Like, hate for a beauty like this to go.
You know what I mean?
Like, any idea of kind of who she was or what she was?
dan friesen
No, there's just, like, the if you want her to see 1997 kind of thing, which is a strange phrasing of if you want her to live.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
But, um, well, I mean, I guess it's not that strange because it's December 26th, so it's, like, it's real close to New Year's.
marty derosa
Yeah.
And maybe there's that idea of let's get this done in a couple days before New Year's Eve.
dan friesen
I think that there's a value to her that's perceived that the brother didn't have.
Like in the fact that, you know, clearly they're putting a lot of money into her as a beauty queen.
marty derosa
Okay, she's an investment besides being a daughter.
dan friesen
Yeah, maybe.
I think that that's possible.
marty derosa
That sounds a little cold.
dan friesen
Well, I mean, it's a cold world out there, especially when you're talking about kidnappers.
marty derosa
I know.
dan friesen
So, I don't know, man.
unidentified
I don't know.
marty derosa
No idea of how they could have gotten in the house, though.
dan friesen
No, there is a pretty good idea.
There's a window in the basement that they could have got in and through.
But there was no sign of forced entry or anything like that, which leaves open the possibility that they just fucked up and left a window unlocked.
unidentified
Who?
dan friesen
An investigator showed that an adult male could crawl through the window that people speculate someone came in through.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
And he also showed that at the time of the murder, there was a suitcase near the window which could have been used as a stepping stool to get out of.
unidentified
Okay.
Okay.
dan friesen
It's inconclusive, and there's no reason to think that the scene wasn't doctored slightly, but it would show that someone could have easily gotten in and out that window.
marty derosa
Any suspects?
unidentified
Not really.
marty derosa
Besides the parents?
Wasn't there an older guy, like an old bearded man or something?
Are there some theories about.
dan friesen
There's suspects, but they all.
marty derosa
Maybe it was like a Mall Santa or something.
dan friesen
There's suspects, but all of them got cleared pretty quickly.
There's nothing that's too compelling, which is another super weird thing about this.
If you dig into it, there's no suspects that look good.
marty derosa
Now, we get somebody who claims to do it.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Now, we'll get to him in a second, but.
All these years, no one in prison, no one's ever been like, hey, I know who did it.
dan friesen
Well, that leads us exactly to who you were alluding to, which is John Mark Carr, a gentleman who has taken responsibility for the murders in prison.
marty derosa
He's a real creep.
He's a real creep.
dan friesen
It was in 2006.
He was arrested for child pornography charges.
He got his bail reduced.
marty derosa
Well, where did he get arrested?
dan friesen
In Colorado.
unidentified
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
Uh,.
That was where he was arrested for child pornography.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
And then he got his bail reduced and he fled to Thailand.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
And he was hiding out in Thailand and he started having sex tourism capital of the world.
So then he started corresponding with a Colorado University professor named Michael Tracy.
He started sending him a bunch of emails because apparently Tracy had done some TV show work about the case and had maybe written some stuff about it.
So he started contacting him and he started writing him these emails.
that were really bizarre about, uh, the killing.
And he started to, well, he started to sort of like speculate about what the killer was thinking.
marty derosa
Like, OJ, if I didn't do it, here's how I would have done it.
dan friesen
Kind of, yeah, but almost, but more fantasy-ish.
unidentified
Ah, okay.
dan friesen
Like, uh, he ended up like writing some emails that involved like an almost narrative fantasies about what happened.
Uh, started to make calls to this Professor Tracy.
And, uh, it set off a real alarm for this guy.
So he alerted the authorities to, about him.
So, The authorities worked it out.
Oh, this is John Mark Carr.
We know who this guy is.
He's in Thailand.
So they set up with the Thai authorities and they brought him in and they arrested him.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
And he was going to be extradited and immediately confessed and was like, I did it.
unidentified
I did it.
dan friesen
Absolutely, I did it.
But what he said was that it was a sex game that went wrong.
So he was in their Pervin and he accidentally killed her during the.
Thing.
The part about that, though, is that it's very, very fake.
His details don't line up with the truth.
marty derosa
Which is what we were talking about before we did this.
dan friesen
He never said that he hit her.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Like the head wound was unaccounted for.
He said he drugged her, which she wasn't drugged at all.
There was nothing except pineapple found in the system.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So it just couldn't be true.
There's no way for the government or police to actually place him in Boulder at the time, even.
So they can't even put him in the town, let alone the house.
marty derosa
And this isn't.
dan friesen
The DNA didn't match also, so everything was wrong with him.
marty derosa
It's not out of the ordinary for somebody who's suffering from mental illness to claim that they were responsible for a crime.
dan friesen
You could even have hallucinogenic fantasies that you did do it.
You might even have convinced yourself you did it.
marty derosa
He might.
dan friesen
And faced with the, this is what we keep talking about, is like faced with the prospect of a Taiwanese prison, not Taiwanese, Thailand prison, versus an American prison, take America every time.
marty derosa
And there might have been an issue.
I mean, like, look, people claim to have been the, the, Black Dahlia murderer.
People have claimed to be Jack the Ripper.
You know what I mean?
dan friesen
Lindbergh, baby.
marty derosa
Everything, every big one, there have been people who have claimed to have done it for some reason.
Why?
I don't know.
Maybe, I mean, for that minute, he was in news cameras in his face, and he was probably might have been like, fuck yeah, this is what it's all about.
dan friesen
That really tests the theory that no press is bad press.
marty derosa
Yeah, yeah.
dan friesen
It's like you want to be in the public eye so badly that you admit to killing a beloved child.
marty derosa
God, he fit the part, too.
Yep, he was this guy with like French Stewart playing a sex pervert on Saturday Night Live.
dan friesen
That's perfect.
marty derosa
It could not have been, and I think he might have played him on Saturday Night Live in a sketch.
unidentified
I would have.
marty derosa
But like, there, I mean, There's nothing about this guy that you're just like, this guy, this guy doesn't seem like a fucking sex rapist, child rapist.
dan friesen
No, he, he is.
marty derosa
He looked apart.
dan friesen
He's good for it.
So, as the cops would say.
marty derosa
He looked apart.
dan friesen
He has a history that supports all that.
So, yeah, he, he would have been great if the facts didn't come out.
marty derosa
Could you imagine, could you imagine though?
If you're the parents, let's say you did it.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
And let's say this guy comes forward.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
And they're just like, sure, you did it.
dan friesen
Just like, absolutely.
marty derosa
And they're like, oh my god.
unidentified
We locked out of this.
This is crazy.
dan friesen
This is manna from heaven.
marty derosa
And I mean, it has, I mean, people have, have innocently been Charged with crimes.
We just got the guy from making a murder getting out.
Someone did that crime.
unidentified
Yep.
marty derosa
So somebody was like, well, fuck.
dan friesen
Avery still could have done it, just not the nephew or whatever.
Brendan Dassey.
marty derosa
Right.
So, I mean, there's that thing of somebody is in prison right now for somebody else's crimes.
dan friesen
Oh, there's thousands of people who are wrongly in prison.
marty derosa
So, you know, with this John Binet thing, that very well could have been the case.
But it was discredited hard.
unidentified
Hard.
dan friesen
Another theory that people have that really doesn't have a lot of evidence, but somehow has a foothold in people's consciousness.
Probably just because it's kind of like, the way you put it is sexy, but I hate using that term in this context.
unidentified
I know.
dan friesen
It's titillating and like sort of, if it bleeds, it leaves.
unidentified
It's Hollywood.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Which is that the parents were involved in a satanic organization or an elite pedophile ring.
There's a lot of people who believe that the parents were pimping her out to creeps and very powerful pedophiles.
And that possibly the murder was filmed as a snuff film, or that it was a prostitution event gone wrong.
Now, the problems that we have with that are it's salacious beyond any reason.
There's no evidence that supports this.
Every single goddamn thing that says it's evidence of this is a wacky YouTube video with no sources.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So, if you're one of these people who really wants to get into.
I mean, I definitely believe that there are really powerful pedophiles out in the world.
unidentified
Oh, sure.
dan friesen
I 100% believe that.
But there's no evidence here that this was involved with that.
marty derosa
How do you spell Lockheed like Lockheed Martin?
dan friesen
Exactly how you think L O C K H E E D. L O C K H E E D. H E E D.
That would be Lockhead, the way you were spelling it.
unidentified
Lockheed.
dan friesen
So, yeah, that one's one that I feel does not.
I mean, look, it's something that you should question, maybe.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And if it's true.
I'm not going to be wildly shocked, but it requires evidence.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And that is just not there.
Another group has claimed that a Colorado preacher named Bob Enyart is responsible for it to the point.
marty derosa
Oh, he might be the guy I'm thinking about.
dan friesen
Okay.
marty derosa
A preacher.
dan friesen
Yeah, he's a preacher, and these independent investigators have pointed the finger at him pretty hard and claimed that he's responsible for the murder of hundreds of children.
unidentified
But.
dan friesen
The evidence here also doesn't stand up to scrutiny, really.
And if you go to their website, I think it's like Bob Enhart, Enyart, murdered John Benet Ramsey.com.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
It just looks like a crazy person's blog.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
It's very hard to, like, really.
Whenever you go to somebody's blog who's espousing conspiracy theories, and they're like, oh yeah, I've cracked this one, and you scroll down a little bit further, and it's like, oh yeah, you know what?
Everyone's a look alike.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Let me ask you this Has the brother said anything?
dan friesen
He's been very shrouded from media attention.
marty derosa
No Twitter handle.
unidentified
No.
dan friesen
The parents have said that they don't want, they're not allowing him to be, like, public or be interviewed at all.
I guess he's an adult now and has chosen not to.
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
But back then it was to protect him from the still on the loose killer.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Which makes some sense.
I mean, if you're a concerned parent.
marty derosa
Yeah, so she's passed away.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
marty derosa
He's still.
dan friesen
What's the dad's doing?
marty derosa
Is he just still doing Lockheed shit?
dan friesen
I don't know what he's done.
I think he actually stepped away from that company after the murder.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I think he.
From what I understand, he.
marty derosa
I mean, and then I saw recently on one of the news programs that they were thinking about reopening this case.
dan friesen
Ah, ah, hold on.
Sorry.
He was Templar.
Temporarily replaced in the aftermath of the murder, so the company didn't have to bother him about business matters as he grieved.
Ramsey soon left his job and moved his family to Michigan, where he joined another computer company, unnamed.
Access Graphics was later sold to General Electric.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, sorry, there.
marty derosa
Now, what was I asking?
Oh, yeah, I saw recently that there's a new DA or a new somebody, and they're thinking about opening up the case again.
dan friesen
It's possible.
marty derosa
And with.
Some certain advances in technology we can maybe.
dan friesen
Well, what's super crazy about it is the technology isn't, uh, like, like night and day advanced from 2008, whenever they started doing a lot of the analysis on the DNA.
And they ran it through the system of everybody that they had on file, and it didn't match anybody that they.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So that's crazy.
It's someone who.
marty derosa
What are, I mean, have any, have any, a lot of times when there's cases like this.
dan friesen
The people, people who are trying to railroad, uh, I don't know if it's railroading, it might be guilty.
You have no fucking idea.
This Bob Enyard guy claimed that the pube, uh, matches him.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
But as much as I dug, I could not find any evidence of that.
Their evidence is that they've called into his radio show.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And told him that they know that and he's done nothing about it.
unidentified
Oh.
dan friesen
That's not evidence.
marty derosa
That's not evidence.
Katy Perry Tape Evidence 00:15:38
marty derosa
Um, has, what have, what have some of the kind of definitive books about this?
You know, usually law enforcement will write, you know, people write books.
DAs will write books or whatever about this case.
Lawyers will write books.
dan friesen
Are you trying to ask me to give some, uh, required reading?
unidentified
No, no, no.
marty derosa
I'm, believe me, I'm not going to make anybody read.
dan friesen
But I do hate reading.
marty derosa
What I'm asking is, are there any sort of, I mean, I know some of the sexier theories.
Are there any just like, I don't know, credible people who have tackled the subject besides you and I?
dan friesen
Yeah.
FBI behavior and behavior and ethics.
marty derosa
That's what I'm asking.
Have any of my profilers written anything?
dan friesen
John E. Douglas.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
Wrote a book called The Cases That Haunt Us.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
It was a chapter in that book that came out in 2001.
He argues that the Ramses could not have been involved.
For four reasons.
One, there's no physical evidence linking them to the murder.
And physical evidence found near her body suggested the presence of someone else.
Two, there's no plausible motive for the Ramses to kill their daughter.
C, or three, there's no evidence of physical abuse, neglect, sexual molestation, or serious personality disorders in the Ramsey household prior to the murder.
Usually, any one of those is associated with children who are murdered by their parents.
And then D, the behavior of John and Patricia Ramsey after discovery of the crime is consistent with that of parents of other murdered children.
And it was inconsistent with that of parents who have been found to have killed their children.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
So, those four reasons are that's the case that this book makes.
There's a ton of goddamn books about that.
marty derosa
Yeah, I would assume so.
dan friesen
And it's hard for me to know which ones are credible and which ones are quackery.
Okay.
That one seems to be one that people bring up as, like, hey, it was an FBI guy.
He seems to have some cred.
unidentified
Sure.
dan friesen
Here's something that doesn't have cred.
unidentified
I love it.
dan friesen
A while back, there was a theory that started to gain traction, went viral on the internet, that John Bonet Ramsey didn't get murdered.
unidentified
Oh.
dan friesen
She grew up to become Katy Perry.
marty derosa
Katy Perry, yeah.
dan friesen
What do you think about this?
marty derosa
Oh, I think this is terrible.
I mean, it's not terrible.
I think it's all.
I think it's the internet.
Getting someone saying something very silly or whatever.
dan friesen
Yeah, yeah.
marty derosa
Someone smoking a little too much weed and going, you know what?
unidentified
Hey, dude.
marty derosa
This is up there.
dan friesen
They look alike, dude.
Did you see that picture of Katy Perry as a blonde?
marty derosa
This is up there with the Miley getting switched out with a porn star.
dan friesen
Well, they also, like, people previously had said that Lady Gaga grew up to be or was John Bonet.
Like, it just happens all the fucking time.
unidentified
It's.
dan friesen
The problem is that Katy Perry's childhood is documented on video.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Her parents have tapes of her when she was a kid and.
She would have been 12 at that point, not 6.
marty derosa
I know.
dan friesen
She was born in 1984.
So, I mean, it's just, it's.
marty derosa
I know.
dan friesen
It's comical.
unidentified
But.
But.
dan friesen
I think that it is possible that it's so absurd that it was intentionally planted.
So, anybody who looks into conspiracy theories about John Bede Ramsey finds this one automatically assumes that everything is stupid.
marty derosa
False flag.
dan friesen
Right.
I think it's possible that this theory is a diversionary measure in some ways.
Because if you search on the internet for Katy, uh, I'm sorry, uh, John Benet Ramsey conspiracy, the first six pages are all Katy Perry articles from shithouse blogs.
They're just making fun of the idea of conspiracies.
If you were someone who didn't want the mainstream public to find out some little bit of information, maybe about Lockheed Martin, you would probably want to plant this story that you know that every goddamn blog is going to run with.
marty derosa
Especially, some might say.
dan friesen
I just ran out of breath.
marty derosa
Some might say, because we're getting ready for that 20th anniversary.
dan friesen
It is coming up in December.
That is true.
marty derosa
Fresh eyes might want to say, hey, what's going on with this?
unidentified
You ever wonder?
dan friesen
That does always happen whenever there's big anniversaries of things.
marty derosa
And maybe Trump would be the president to do this.
dan friesen
That is another thing that was on that lady, uh, that, uh, terrible blog about Bob Enyart was a story about, uh, Trump is going to reopen the investigation.
marty derosa
That's what I'm saying.
You get a guy like Trump and they're just like, what are you going to do in your, your first, you know, first day in office?
dan friesen
We're going to find out who killed that baby.
marty derosa
Uh, I want to know who killed John Benet.
I want to know, uh, what's going on.
Yeah.
dan friesen
Strange agenda for a president.
marty derosa
I want to, our new Secretary of State, Alex Jones.
We're going to open up all the cases.
dan friesen
I want to be in charge of FEMA.
marty derosa
I want to know what's going on with FEMA.
I want to know what's going on with their camps.
They open up.
dan friesen
It would be super weird if he wins and puts Alex Jones into the cabinet or something like that.
That would be bonkers.
marty derosa
Secretary of State, Alex Jones.
dan friesen
Secretary of the Interior.
marty derosa
Met with, yeah.
It's just like.
So if we had to, uh.
dan friesen
Oh, I have one more thing before you want to wrap it up.
marty derosa
Please, please, please, please.
dan friesen
Uh, some people have speculated, including, uh, notorious, uh, MKUltra, uh, uh, I forgot her last name, so I'll try to vamp, uh, survivor, Catherine, uh, yeah, whatever her fucking name is.
marty derosa
Bob Hope's girl.
dan friesen
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
She has claimed that, uh, one of the videotapes that was taken from the house, because, uh, just after the murder, a bunch of all sort of recording equipment, videotapes, everything was confiscated by the police, uh, which makes sense.
They want to clear up stuff.
They want to make sure that these Parents aren't creeps.
They claim that one of the tapes that was taken, or she claims that one of the tapes was a government guide on how to make a brainwashed slave using a stun gun.
unidentified
Oh boy.
dan friesen
And she believes that the ceremony or what was going on that led to the murder was part of slave training that went wrong involving MKUltra.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
So there's no evidence of that, but that's another one of these wackadoo theories.
marty derosa
I Googled Lockheed Martin, MKUltra, hoping to get more, but yeah.
dan friesen
Well, that's because Google has been compromised.
marty derosa
That's true.
dan friesen
That's because Google is now a wholly owned subsidiary.
marty derosa
Should I go to Bing?
dan friesen
Yeah, Bing it.
It's a subsidiary of Hillary Corp now, man.
unidentified
Shit.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
That's right.
dan friesen
So you never find the truth on there.
marty derosa
The fact that.
dan friesen
Catherine O'Brien.
Kathy O'Brien.
Fuck.
Sorry.
marty derosa
The fact that the mom is gone.
Yeah.
dan friesen
She'll never be able to tell her side.
marty derosa
She'll never be able to tell her side.
I don't know.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
I don't know.
dan friesen
This is another one like Jack the Ripper where we don't really have a conclusion.
marty derosa
Yeah, but this is a different.
This to me is different than Jack the Ripper.
dan friesen
Because you lived through it?
marty derosa
Yeah, well, no, not just that, but it's like this happened 20 years ago.
Like, no one's saying anything.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Well, a lot of people are saying stuff.
It's the case with all of these.
They're saying stuff, but it's wackadoo.
marty derosa
I can't.
dan friesen
I'm saying wackadoo a lot.
marty derosa
I can't believe that if it was some.
Well, alright, this leads me to believe maybe it was some more.
dan friesen
clandestine.
marty derosa
clandestine people.
unidentified
It could be.
dan friesen
I mean, maybe the silence and the fact that they haven't found anybody speaks to that.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
If you were someone who's involved with some sort of skunk ops type of real deep dark government type stuff, It would make sense that maybe your DNA is not on file, so cops don't accidentally find you when you leave evidence behind, right?
marty derosa
Of course, of course, of course.
dan friesen
Now, or just spinning out into such bizarre hypothetical.
marty derosa
If your DNA is on file, that would be because you're in the system.
dan friesen
Yeah, you've been arrested for so long.
marty derosa
It could have been somebody who just was never arrested.
dan friesen
True, yeah, that's, I mean, that's the big conclusion that you would take away from that.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
But that's crazy that something this, this high level could be done by someone who's never committed a crime before.
Also, The thing that I keep coming back to and that really bothers me is that this crime would take forever to commit.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
It would not be.
marty derosa
Hours.
At least hours.
dan friesen
At least an hour.
Because the low end of the head wound to murder is 45 minutes.
So you'd have to be in the house.
marty derosa
Any idea with what she was hit with?
dan friesen
They say a flashlight or a similar object.
A blunt object.
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
It's like one of those police flashlights or something.
dan friesen
Could have been.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
Okay.
dan friesen
Or a flashlight.
marty derosa
Dan.
dan friesen
They're our sponsor.
marty derosa
They're plastic.
dan friesen
I know.
I know.
So, like, the idea that it could be some sort of amateurish person doesn't make sense to me.
And then, yeah, another thing the profilers who talked about it think that the sort of level of sexual assault would imply a youthful person because they were sort of naively curious about her as opposed to, you know what I'm saying?
I feel very uncomfortable.
unidentified
Please say this.
dan friesen
Well, just the idea of possible fingering or that sort of thing.
unidentified
Oh, okay.
dan friesen
Leads the investigators to believe that it's not someone who knows a lot about a person's body.
It would be someone who's sort of exploring.
Because there is foreign DNA on the underwear, so there is indications that possibly something was going on, but not full scale.
Anyway, this is a lot of stuff that was making me really, really sort of disgusted and weirded out while I was researching this today.
marty derosa
What was that friend's name again?
unidentified
Fleet?
dan friesen
Fleet Foxes?
marty derosa
Just Google Fleet's name.
Fleet whatever.
unidentified
Okay.
marty derosa
So, see what he's up to.
dan friesen
You want to talk while we do that?
marty derosa
What if I crack this case?
dan friesen
It would be unacceptable if you did just that way.
unidentified
What if?
dan friesen
I mean, they've been.
The first thing that comes up is they've been exonerated repeatedly.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
The people have been like, hey, don't go after them.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
We have evidence that they.
unidentified
Yeah.
marty derosa
So this would have happened already.
unidentified
What?
dan friesen
The fourth thing that comes up in Google is a website called Someone is Getting Away with Murder.blogspot.com.
unidentified
Oh, shit.
marty derosa
Well, Someone is Getting Away with Murder in this case.
dan friesen
Although Fleet White was never a suspect in John Bonet's murder, White Is the only person at the murder scene who has spent time in jail stemming from the case.
unidentified
Whoa.
marty derosa
So they locked him up a little bit?
dan friesen
I guess so.
unidentified
Huh.
I don't know.
dan friesen
Anyway, my conclusion is that I don't know if we'll ever get to the bottom of this one ever.
marty derosa
Well, we've got the 20th anniversary coming up, so expect a Dateline special.
unidentified
Sure.
marty derosa
Expect maybe a hot doc dropping on Netflix.
dan friesen
And when it does, remember that we did it first.
marty derosa
We cracked the case wide open.
dan friesen
That it was clearly aliens.
marty derosa
Now, if you had to say.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
What do you, if you had to?
I kind of have an idea.
dan friesen
I hate to say it, but based on everything, I think the parents are the best suspect, but there was someone else involved.
That, like, that to me is the, that's the only way that, like, the stuff that makes it look like the parents and the stuff that doesn't look like the parents come together.
That's the only combination of events that, because, like, a total stranger, That's a crazy amount of time for you to be undetected in someone's house.
If it's them, there's too many issues with unrelated DNA.
It's just a big problem both ways.
The solution, combine them.
Now, I don't know if that's logical, but it's where I'm going.
marty derosa
What do you mean?
dan friesen
What do you mean?
marty derosa
What do you mean combined them?
dan friesen
Well, just say that it's the parents and somebody else.
marty derosa
Explain the thing about the pineapple again.
She was eating.
dan friesen
She had pineapple in her stomach that she had eaten based on digestion.
She had eaten it a couple hours before the murder.
So sometime overnight.
Uh, or in the early morning hours, I'd say maybe midnight is probably the latest.
marty derosa
Okay, okay, okay.
You're saying, why was she up that late?
unidentified
Uh huh.
dan friesen
And the bowl was left on the counter and the bowl had her brother's fingerprints on it.
Which could mean that her brother made her a bowl of pineapple at some point.
That doesn't seem all that crazy to me.
The part that seems crazy is the timing of it.
The timeline of it is, is, is pretty.
When you wake up in the middle of the night, I'm not sure pineapple is what you want.
marty derosa
This was Christmas night?
dan friesen
Twenty, the night of the 25th.
The morning of the 26th is when they found her.
marty derosa
So it was Christmas night.
I had an idea.
I had a theory.
Where the son had a friend over.
dan friesen
Okay.
marty derosa
A sleepover, if you will.
Friend.
dan friesen
But there's no evidence to back that up.
marty derosa
And then the friend's father is a very powerful man.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
And they said, We'll fix this.
dan friesen
I don't like when you give these theories, you speak so softly.
Like you're.
marty derosa
No, I don't know.
dan friesen
But that's fun, I guess, as a theory.
But again, it gets back to that there's no proof that anyone else was in the house.
marty derosa
I'd hate to think that parents had anything to do with it.
unidentified
Oh, wait.
marty derosa
Lie detector tests.
unidentified
I hate that idea.
marty derosa
Have they ever given the parents any lie detector tests?
dan friesen
Yeah, if they have, they passed them.
unidentified
Shit.
dan friesen
I don't know.
Weird that that didn't come up in my thing.
marty derosa
I know, right?
I don't know.
dan friesen
But lie detector tests are also, even if we did have something, it's so inconsistent.
marty derosa
Again, this goes back to the whole deathbed confession.
Like, if she had something to do with it, I wish she would have just been like, I'm a bad person.
I did it.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
Or we did it.
dan friesen
Yeah, but I mean, if you're that bad of a person, you probably don't feel all that guilty.
unidentified
Fuck.
All right.
marty derosa
Worst case scenario, or most explanation.
I don't know.
So they think her handwriting.
dan friesen
It's possible that her handwriting would have matched.
marty derosa
I don't want to just go, ah, she seemed like a bitch.
Because, okay, you could be a bitch, but it doesn't mean you're going to kill your kid.
dan friesen
Totally.
The idea of killing a kid is like, it's next level kind of evil shit.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And especially killing a kid in that way.
But, head force trauma, choking the head force trauma.
marty derosa
Could it have been a man, I just got so mad.
I whacked this kid with something.
unidentified
Mm hmm.
Sure.
marty derosa
She won't sleep.
I'm getting her pineapple.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
I catch her and her brother fucking around in the kitchen.
unidentified
I wake up.
dan friesen
Brother's trying to steal the pineapple.
marty derosa
I said, you go to bed.
unidentified
Uh huh.
marty derosa
I said, you finish your pineapple and you're going to bed.
She pulls some shit.
She says, you know what?
I don't even want to do your fucking beauty page anymore.
Pants her over the head with something.
dan friesen
Kabong.
marty derosa
Oh, but John.
dan friesen
Well, here's the reason that I discount that theory.
unidentified
Okay.
dan friesen
There's no history of abuse.
marty derosa
That's true.
dan friesen
She doesn't have, like, a ton of bruises from past beatings or anything like that.
It's generally very uncommon for people who don't abuse their kids to.
marty derosa
Zero to 100.
dan friesen
Yeah, just start.
And it's the same with the Burke.
You know, he doesn't have a history of abuse either.
So, like.
marty derosa
So, what are we doing?
What are we saying?
dan friesen
I still think the parents are.
marty derosa
We got to arrest somebody.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
I mean, if you want to go with the.
Like, nothing looks good.
That's what we were talking about before we started recording here.
marty derosa
I feel like this is an OJ type of thing where if you tried the parents, they wouldn't have been found guilty.
But then in a civil suit, they might have been found guilty.
dan friesen
And that might be partially what that indictment from 99 was like.
marty derosa
Yeah, so the police department can at least go look.
We might not have found out who did it, but they got something to do with it.
dan friesen
It's possible.
That's possible.
marty derosa
And you never know.
dan friesen
It's very unsatisfying, right?
marty derosa
And you never know when it could just be one of those things where some real powerful people are just like, let it go.
unidentified
Close the case.
dan friesen
Don't look into this.
marty derosa
Don't look into this.
dan friesen
Deep Throat comes out.
marty derosa
You don't want to know.
You're going down a road you don't want to know.
dan friesen
The cigarette smoking man and Deep Throat show up together.
marty derosa
That trope in a movie of, you don't want to go down this road.
dan friesen
Yeah.
marty derosa
That might be around for a reason.
dan friesen
It might be, or it might just be the fun fantasy of people who think they're getting to the bottom of stuff.
Deep Throat Road Not Taken 00:04:25
marty derosa
Maybe.
unidentified
Yeah.
Well.
marty derosa
I gotta say, Dan, I'm like you on this one.
I'm you, Jack the Ripper style.
I'm fucking pissed I don't know who this is.
dan friesen
It's really ungratifying.
marty derosa
And my mind keeps going to different, like, fuck, You know, I don't know.
dan friesen
I mean, if that preacher who these people think killed her killed her, then that could work.
But there's not the actual evidence of it.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Who knows?
I think it maybe will be solved eventually, especially if it's not the parents.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
It'll be solved eventually.
But it's just a matter of waiting for that piece of evidence to come in.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
And who knows?
Maybe it'll be someone in prison who's like, ah, come on, guys, it was me.
Maybe they find God in prison and want redemption and they have to confess their sins.
It's fucked up.
It is unsatisfying, though, man.
We gotta stop picking topics that are super unsatisfying.
marty derosa
I know.
dan friesen
Because then we end the episode in this, like, ah, here's some information.
We don't know anything.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Enjoy.
Have a great day.
unidentified
Yeah.
dan friesen
Enjoy your Tuesday.
marty derosa
That might be, you know, that might be the thing.
Where I wish we could do this show, but.
And then have it set up at the end where someone's like, hey, you guys were so close.
Here's the real answer.
unidentified
And then they give us the answer.
marty derosa
Like almost like now we're turning this into a murder mystery podcast.
dan friesen
Well, it won't be always.
unidentified
No.
dan friesen
It kind of is always.
unidentified
It always is, Dan.
dan friesen
Anyway, people can follow you at Marty DeRosa on Twitter.
marty derosa
Yep, at Marty DeRosa.
Listen to Marty and Sarah Love Wrestling.
dan friesen
Great podcast.
You guys are doing a live SummerSlam thing next weekend?
marty derosa
We are next weekend, Sunday at Anthem in Wicker Park.
Get there around 5 o'clock.
We're going to have a.
dan friesen
I may come out for that.
unidentified
You should.
marty derosa
It's going to be fine.
dan friesen
I thought it was in the suburbs, so I wasn't going to come.
marty derosa
It's here.
dan friesen
It's in Wicker Park.
marty derosa
I think buddies will be there.
Anthem.
dan friesen
Is Colt going to be there?
marty derosa
Colt will not be there.
He'll be in, uh, he'll see you in Edinburgh.
dan friesen
I'm out then.
I only want to come along to do some star fucking.
marty derosa
Yeah, well, look, we're stars now, okay?
dan friesen
Yeah, you guys are doing great.
You got a write up in the AV Club.
unidentified
It's super fun.
AV Club.
marty derosa
Split Cider.
Top 100 on iTunes Sports and Recreation.
Beating Vince Russo's podcast.
Get on board.
dan friesen
That's a swerve.
unidentified
Eh, brother.
dan friesen
Come on.
Uh, you can follow me at Freezenpoint, and freezenpoint.com is our website where we have stuff.
There's things there.
unidentified
Good.
dan friesen
Yeah.
Well, maybe we'll find truth next time.
unidentified
Maybe.
Maybe not.
marty derosa
Maybe not.
dan friesen
Who knows?
unidentified
Who knows?
marty derosa
All I know is that's what they want you to think.
dan friesen
Yep, that's great.
Thanks for listening, everybody out there.
Boy, I lost my catchphrase.
Thanks for joining us in the Brain Battle.
Catch you next time right here in Boomtown.
But until then, I've been Bogle Jub, the White Mystery.
Now get out there and do your job.
marty derosa
And solve mysteries.
That's what they want you to think.
unidentified
That's what they want you to think.
You to think.
And you to think.
marty derosa
Children die.
In Boulder Colorado, found in a wine cellar.
unidentified
But who the fuck put her there?
marty derosa
They made a carrot with a broken paintbrush handle.
She had some pineapple, but what would you eat for your last meal?
I would have pizza and mashed potato not a great mix and macaroni and cheese.
unidentified
I love carbs.
That's what I'd eat.
marty derosa
For my last meal, I'd have a milkshake to drink.
unidentified
Wash it down.
marty derosa
Also, for dessert, I would have some peach cobbler with a little bit of ice cream.
Last Meal Peach Cobbler 00:02:40
unidentified
Not talking aloe.
marty derosa
Maybe some blueberry cobbler.
I don't know what it is about.
unidentified
A cobbler that I like.
It's probably me.
The crumble, it's delicious.
It's hot and cold, which is what a la mode brings to the table.
You love the McVLT.
marty derosa
Lockheed Martin, we're on to you.
Our new sponsors.
Lockheed Martin, we're going to retract this whole podcast.
Ignore it.
Pretend it didn't happen.
unidentified
Get out there.
marty derosa
Solve some mysteries guys.
dan friesen
We can't do it all on our own Are you just gonna talk sing over the rest of this?
unidentified
Fine.
I'll go back to singing What's up with that brother?
marty derosa
Hasn't he said anything?
unidentified
Not really.
marty derosa
He's gotta be almost 30 He smokes medical marijuana.
Oh, they did Michigan which also has medical marijuana Maybe this guy had shrooms and is like what happened to my sister dude?
I gotta call my dad and see what really happened Hey dad, it's your son.
I'm on mushrooms dude.
What the fuck really happened?
Did mom have something to do with this?
What about your weird name friend fleet friend fleet friendly fleet?
dan friesen
You worked at Lockheed Martin It was a subsidiary Not technically working at Lockheed just a contract company a shell company possibly To really do some dark stuff.
unidentified
Skunk work.
marty derosa
Quote unquote graphics.
unidentified
Shit.
Shit.
marty derosa
You gotta wake up real early in the morning to fool me and to write that ransom note.
Were there any previous versions of this ransom note?
Did this detective check the garbage or the fireplace?
dan friesen
Are you asking about a rough draft?
marty derosa
I am very much.
You don't just knock that out first time.
dan friesen
It was pretty well written.
unidentified
That's true.
I don't know, man.
I don't either.
I get it, too.
Yeah.
See you next time.
Peace.
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