The Culture War #23 - Legalizing Sex Work, Is Porn Bad For Society w/Debra Lea & Delta Hill
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There's a big debate over sex work that's been going on on Twitter for quite some time, and I guess it's been going on for a very, very long time.
The question of whether or not sex work is actually work, whether it's comparable to any other job, whether or not it should be legal.
There's a whole lot of other things in this area, particularly with OnlyFans.
You've got stories of many women quitting their professions to just become what they would describe as OnlyFans models, and you also have the massive expansion of porn.
And you have many prominent figures talking about men getting away from porn addiction.
So, boy, we got a whole lot to talk about in this episode of The Culture War, and we've got a couple people joining us to talk to us about it.
I think that prostitution should remain illegal and that it should not be decriminalized and we should not encourage women to get into this line of work.
Um, it's anybody who decides to sell their services and labor, this being sex, obviously, in exchange for monetary gain or goods of equal value.
So, of course it is work.
I don't think that it's the debate of it being work because it definitely is the oldest profession.
I think that the debate now is why should we decriminalize and what will it do to make Both women and men safer in the industry and victims as well, so.
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So just first off, I would have to disagree that it's the oldest profession.
That was kind of the oldest profession because the Bible is our oldest historical document.
But I agree with you that it's not necessarily a debate about whether it's work or not.
It's definitely a debate about should this be allowed in society?
Should our government, how should they legislate certain things like this?
Does the government have a hand in morality?
And I would absolutely say that Laws are morality in a sense, where the government does have a huge hand in protecting the vulnerable, protecting the weakest members of society from evils like prostitution, like sex trafficking, and a lot of these women, there's this lie that the majority of prostitutes are at will and that they're doing it like OnlyFans, but 1%, according to data from the Nordic Model now, only 1% of all women in prostitution
I don't think that it should, I think we should do everything we can to end this industry and to get women into safer lines of work and to stop men's demand for sex because they don't have a right to other people's sexual organs.
They sort of work around it, I guess, because when you're in Vegas, you'll, like, come back to your hotel room, and they push these cards under your door or whatever, and it's just, like, a bunch of scantily clad women on cards, and you're supposed to be like, ooh, which one will I pick, or whatever.
And then, of course, they're doing, like, room calls and stuff, so I think everybody in Vegas knows it's illegal to do, but they all do it anyway.
Right.
I guess my view is, and we'll kick it off because I tweeted about this and I guess mostly sex positive, like pro-sex work leftists got really mad at me because I was seeing a lot of people say sex work is work and so what I said was Something like, if sex work was work, then a boss could require a female secretary to provide blowjobs as part of her job.
That if it was the same thing as anything else, that if we were really just like, you know, you can hire a janitor, you can hire a sex worker, what's the difference?
It's all work.
Then a boss could create a job description and say, I need someone to do my laundry.
But a man in a position, I think within what you're saying, so I would disagree that it was work, I was just agreeing that the conversation right now is not necessarily is it work or not, but to speak on that point, I think it's work in the same way hiring a hitman is work, where you can hire anybody for a job.
I think every single woman who involves themselves in prostitution is harmed, whether they want to admit it or not, psychologically, physically, mentally, emotionally.
Well, I personally would never because I think it's very important for women, I was raised like this, I think it's extremely important for women to go out of their way to protect themselves and keep an eye out for their safety.
I spoke about Brian with this on the way here that I, in college, I went to University of Maryland just nearby, I would never be alone in a room with a man that I don't know, I would never go on a date with somebody that I had never met and just meet up with them.
There are so many ways that women can just be attacked, trafficked, hurt, and so I take extra precaution to make sure that I'm never putting myself in a position to be hurt, and I think prostitution actively puts a woman in the position to be taken advantage of to be hurt in a way that jobs, professional jobs, do not.
I definitely don't disagree with you, so I want to make it clear that I absolutely do not encourage anybody Under any circumstances to get into this industry right now because it is unsafe and at least until it is decriminalized, let's put it this way, at least until it is decriminalized because that's where we start.
When New Zealand decriminalized, and this is the gold standard, when New Zealand decriminalized sex work, this led to an immediate decrease in the amount of people partaking in consensual sex work.
So even from a moral standpoint, if you want less people partaking in sex work, Decriminalization is the only option.
But, of course, I also believe that it should be 21 and up to get into any form of sex work, so... But no, but if there's a female employee at a company, and she does want to have sex with her boss, and it does result in beneficial treatment and promotions... Then it's not sex work.
I didn't say it was.
I'm asking about this... You know, the first question is...
Do men and women sleep with their bosses for benefits?
It does tend to be women, stereotypically, I suppose.
The answer is yes, they do.
People will sleep with their bosses in exchange for benefits and promotion.
A lot of the time, it is consensual.
The woman says, like, you know, I'm gonna, you know, this guy, I like my boss, you know, whatever, and then it results in beneficial treatment.
So the question that I have, and there's a reason why, I don't think sex work is It's clearly an act carried out between two consenting adults.
I should say it could be.
In many contexts, two consenting adults say, hey, we're gonna hook up, we're gonna exchange money, and then they do their thing, they go about their separate ways.
I don't see why that, it's kind of shocking to me that that's illegal in the sense that what if a dude in a car pulled up to a woman and said, would you like to be my girlfriend?
I'll take you out to dinner and give you an allowance to buy whatever you wanted.
And she said, sure.
And then they had sex.
The difference between sex work is whether or not you decided it was a date or whether or not it was an exchange.
So, but we'll come back to that.
Here's my point.
I believe that if we legalized sex work to the extent that it was treated like any other job, so a boss could say, I'm hiring a secretary, I need my mail retrieved, I'm gonna need phone calls answered, and I'm going to need sex acts performed on me.
If that was allowed, then you are going to have There may be a social stigma at first, but market competition will dictate that for women, guys are going to be demanding it.
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And that you have to provide that because in a world if that were to happen... Well, you don't have to, but if you don't, you'll get fired and find another job.
You won't get hired because some other girl, if you're saying, I'm unwilling to do that, it's very easy for the boss to just say, okay, I'll find somebody who will.
When it comes down to it, most people that are partaking in it are survival sex workers.
So we can't forget about the fact that when you're in a position where you're starving, and you're living in poverty, and this is an option for you, Very little people will say, I'm not willing to do this, and I'm not willing to feed myself and keep myself alive, because God told me no.
I was thinking about the men in the power position.
I'm saying asking for, if a man was allowed to ask for a secretary who performs sex acts, I think human nature would cause almost all men in the position, barring a few good ones, to ask for that.
situation and that's not at all what I what I support I don't support it to be legalized because of course like I said earlier it's it The human trafficking has already been proven to increase in Germany and... When it is legalized?
Cops are still Going out of their way to, um, like, if they find somebody who's working as a survival sex worker, they'll say, I will offer you this, that, or the other, some sort of bribe.
Or coercion.
And, like, basically rape them.
In exchange for lesser charges.
You know, if they find them with drugs.
Or say, like, I'm not going to fine you this much.
I will say, I don't think every single guy would do it.
Many men are married, like a lot of guys are married, and they're not gonna be like, hey, honey, my secretary's coming in to give me, you know, like, that's not gonna happen.
But I do think that, you know, marriage is an institution that is in decay, to shout out Sublime and 40 Ounces of Freedom.
And with that being the case, it may start going in that direction.
When you were talking about survival sex workers, the only thing I could think of, like, man, if we were in a society where we had socially enforced monogamy, the way that Jordan Peterson describes it, you wouldn't have that.
If they don't feel like they have a way to protect themselves, which I always encourage sex workers to arm themselves, then maybe they do feel comfortable working in a brothel.
And I feel like even though I don't agree with that, and I feel like that's like an exaggerated pimp, that should still be an option.
Just, you know, like let's say I agree with Owning a 10-round mag, but my neighbor owns a 30-round mag.
And they're just a little bit kinkier than I am.
You know what I mean?
I'm not going to call the ATF and tell them the Red Flag laws and say, well, my neighbor's a little bit kinkier than I am.
They have a little bit more in their mags than I do.
I think it's important to note, specifically about what you're talking about, being self-employed, that only 1% of all prostitutes within the industry are self-employed, according to Nordic Model now.
99% of prostitutes or people within the sex work industry are controlled by pimps, so it's really important.
That statistic blew everything open for me because it's very hard to say that this would benefit the majority of people in the movement.
Movement?
Trade, I guess you could say.
I don't really have a great word for it, but Not the majority of people are not like you that can leave at any time the majority of people 99% of people are forced into it They cannot leave on their own will they are controlled by pimps and they are essentially being trafficked even if they were I can imagine that a few women Consensually joined at first where they had their backs up against the wall They had they didn't have any other way to put food on the table for the children I personally think there's always another way but I can imagine the situation that they were in and I don't think it's this idea where women are just sexually liberated and free.
then they just get stuck in it and a pimp takes over.
They want to share their profit.
I don't think it's this idea where women are just sexually liberated and free.
I think it's what it's always been, which is men abusing women.
So yeah, I'm definitely thinking that there is nothing empowering about this job and there shouldn't be anything empowering about this job for it to be a legitimate job.
Like there is I hear what you're saying, and I understand it, but if you truly believe that statistic, which I don't because there's so many unbiased, or I'm sorry, there are so many biased statistics about sex work, and I can get into that later on, but if you truly believe this, Where's the empathy?
Where is the empathy for these women?
If we truly believe that they're all victims, or 99% of them are victims, where's the empathy for them?
Decriminalizing prostitution would just take away all laws regarding to prostitution, which would essentially be a de facto win for the pimp sector, because now the government would not go after them.
They can go after women.
The most common age of entry for prostitution was 16 years old, with most women starting as young as 11.
I think- I think if it was decriminalized, I mean, right now, if- if the police find a woman, you know, at a hotel or whatever, they can intervene under the law, remove that woman from the situation.
If it was decriminalized, the pimp could literally be standing outside and be like, morning officer!
But I don't know that decriminalizing it makes it... I don't know, at least in this context, based on what we're talking about, decriminalizing it seems to reduce the options for law enforcement to get victims out of these situations.
Not that it's always perfect.
Often victims will be accused of being perpetrators, right?
So I remember you mentioned the other day something about Trump and his stance on trafficking after seeing Sound of Freedom, which by the way... He wants to kill him.
I love Sound of Freedom.
It was, like, heartbreaking.
Here's the thing.
Trump is not as anti-trafficking as you think he is.
He thinks he is, but he's not.
He signed on to a law called SESTA-FOSTA, and I don't know if you're familiar with that, and it made trafficking so much worse.
It put victims and consensual adult sex workers into the shadows and made it harder for law enforcement to identify either one of them.
So they're arresting Well, real quick, just to clarify, this was the online law about shutting down... It was an amendment to Section 230 that said that basically any platform that allows sex trafficking to be promoted on the platform can be held liable in court, and victims, people who get taken into sex trafficking, can sue these companies.
So it's a huge one for... It may not have worked in practice, but it was definitely in the mindset of helping sex trafficking victims... Well, prohibition doesn't work at all.
Right, and so when the people, like, were coming to me, they would tell me things that they didn't feel comfortable telling to a therapist because the therapist was a mandatory reporter.
In my experience, just from doing like participant observation studies, independently of course, I'm working on four hours of sleep right now.
I'm sorry, my mind is like all over the place.
Yeah, the women that I have spoken to and the few gay men have told me that most of their clients are disabled or people that deal, actually, which I already know what you're gonna say after this, people that deal with anger issues.
Because, of course, if you deal with anger issues, they go there, their angrier issues are released, they go out, I had a friend who was a dominatrix a long time ago.
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I believe that the anger issues in this world, the mass shootings, the everything, like the abuse, all of this going on, sexual frustration. - I had a friend who was a dominatrix a long time ago.
Rent was due and so she calls a guy yelling at him saying where's my where's my check slave and things like this and he's like I'm sorry I'm sorry saying you know mistress whatever and she goes I want it overnighted now so I can pay my bills and I want $3,000 like anything you say yes yes mistress Oh yeah.
You get a politician who outright says, it's wrong and we shouldn't do it, who doesn't participate and votes for it, and then you get a guy who says, it's good, it's fine, I do it, I got no issue with it, and that's, whatever, just be honest about it.
You know what, that's very ironic, because it's, not ironic, but that's very common on the extreme far right of the aisle, where they're extremely, this has just been a funny thing, the same hypocrisy, where they're like, we hate gays, we're so against gays, and then they all come out as like, secretly gay, playing male prostitute, like, it's...
It's crazy.
I agree.
No hypocrites.
Just live the life.
Live the words that you speak.
And if you don't believe in what you're saying, then don't say it.
Well, if I'm looking at a woman who they show a bunch of photos of her as a police officer, then they show a bunch of photos of her scantily clad, and she's living in a big house, Sure, maybe she rented a fake house and is pulling a fast one, but there's tons of these stories.
So at the very least, it may be the outlier, but there are women who are like, wow, OnlyFans money.
They're like- they're like- there was some- some minor- this is a crazy story.
There was a minor who said, as soon as I turn 18, I'm posting on OnlyFans, made a million dollars overnight, and people were like, well, hold on a minute.
Oh my gosh, there's so much I want to touch on that topic.
Like, when it comes to Twitter, first of all...
I cannot tell you how many accounts I have had to tell, like, in the comment section, like, stop posting your links or your pictures in the comment sections where there's... Twitter is 13+.
Like, I cannot stress this enough.
Twitter is 13+.
They need to get the hell off that platform.
Like, that is just not the place.
And because of SESTA-FOSTA, that is what caused the influx of all of this.
The influx of OnlyFans, the influx of all of these people on a site for 13+, is because they can't have their own site.
I would say it was the degeneration of society and the sexual liberation of women.
Well, I think the sexual revolution combined with the recent degeneracy of society and the reducing marriage rates, the reducing Child rates, people not having as many children, they're not really getting married as much, they're not staying married.
I think all this combined has led women to this idea of, I don't need no mans, I can make all my money by selling my body, I'm an independent woman.
And it's a mix between the feminist, the original feminist idea of, well not even feminist, just traditional femininity, the original idea that like women shouldn't be forced to work, we should have the option to stay at home.
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Right, we shouldn't be forced, but we should have an option.
So when Prohibition began with alcohol, they also I have a question.
Do you need an ID to be on OnlyFans?
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started building brothels and then they started building schools and then they started building churches and then they started building homes and businesses and the men didn't like the fact that women were making so much money so they said we're gonna keep this illegal here we are is uh i have a question is uh do you need an id to be on only fans yes so when you sign up for only fans they say send us a picture of your id Yes.
When it comes down to porn sites, I believe that they should absolutely not show any nudity until you verify the same way that a porn star has to verify with her account.
They have to not only just show their ID, With a picture of yourself upside down, but your account has to be written on a piece of paper, and you, as a viewer, should have to do the same thing.
I would agree with that wholeheartedly, that people should have to submit information and be of age before consuming porn, even though I think porn should be completely wiped away, but... 18's not old enough.
But it's old enough to consent to regular sex, do you think?
I think that you're old enough to make that choice if you want, but the brain development, it really just falls into brain development and porn producers are very... What's the OnlyFans app called?
- It's like AVN and Chatterbait by AVN Shutdown. - I thought it was an app. - Oh my God, I lost my kind of thought. - I'm a Twitch girl. - So my thing is if, Hypothetical, because I don't know.
I guess I'll have to look into it.
If you are not required to have an ID for pornographic OnlyFans accounts, then the executives of OnlyFans should be criminally charged and arrested, and the people selling the content to minors should also be charged.
- Yes. - That's what Fafs to Sesta was essentially about, these social media platforms. - Right, okay, high five. - Like on TikTok, there was an experiment done, I don't remember, I believe it was a Daily Wire member, but they made a TikTok account, they wrote that they were eight years old, they were still able to make the account, even though the age on TikTok is also supposed to be like 13 plus, they were still able to make the account, even though Within a few... First, it's like Roblox, random things.
And then within two days, they're just getting non-stop porn on their For You page.
The argument was, by allowing Backpage, the law enforcement could more easily track traffickers, and by getting rid of it, they push it underground.
But you asked me about Elon Musk.
Here's my position.
If Elon Musk came out and said, oh, by the way, the X app is now officially X on the App Store, because when I was searching... I saw that this morning.
But if Elon Musk's position is that sex content, explicit adult content, is a lot on the platform, and 13-year-olds are a lot on the platform, Then he should be held criminally liable because you're basically, look, you can't open an adult bookstore with a big sign saying 13 plus welcome.
To be fair, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt in that he recently acquired the platform, took tremendous action against trafficking stuff and exploitation content.
And so I actually think it's more so about him taking the reins and trying to get things.
And if we went to him now and said, hey, one or the other, either sex, sex work is allowed or 13 plus, but if you're going to allow sex content, then you've got to verify every person on the platform.
And so what's the easy, the easy thing is to ban it.
So, somebody who wants to post these things on Twitter, their account is auto-blurred, and you can only see the posts, any photo or video, and you can only see it if you've uploaded an ID verifying your identity.
If we are operating under Section 230, which is assuming these social media platforms are essentially open public forums in the way that all constitutional laws apply in open public forums, as compared to like limited forums, whatever, it's a whole thing about freedoms, but specifically with an open public forum, you can't walk through Times Square butt naked.
So now with a social media platform, if it's an online public open forum, then why shouldn't the same government laws of public nudity apply to these apps and ban anybody from uploading stuff regardless of this whole license stuff?
I don't think it should be allowed on the platform at all.
Because that is a limited... A strip club is privately owned.
It's a limited forum.
No, I agree.
have to pay to be a member, they can kick you out.
Whereas the only reason that these social media companies like Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, the only reason that they have protection from being sued, they have a shield from the government is because they brand themselves as these open public forums.
Well, this is like your ideal, what it would be like ideally.
Yeah.
I think, I guess for me at least, it would be ideal that no one would upload these and that they can make your own website or use Pornhub if you want to upload porn.
But I think social media apps, That they should stay true to why they were given these rights in the first place, where it should be a public forum, where the same laws that are in our Constitution apply to social media apps.
I don't think there should be any difference in social media, because I think that leads to situations like Donald Trump being banned from Twitter.
The more power we give to these social media companies, the less power we have as individuals.
Yeah, the big problem is that I think early on in the internet, they did not, it was small, and it didn't have a big of an impact, and they didn't care all that much, and now it is life.
Everyone's on the internet 24-7.
So for some reason, because we talked about this on IRL, for some reason, if you go out into Times Square and hold up a big picture of pornography, Yeah, you'll be arrested.
Unless you have words with it, actually, because then it would be protected as... Well, I don't know where the laws get blurred, but there's free speech laws.
I think it was blurred when it was reposted because you can't post it on social media, but I assume that people were very angry over it because it was the wrong picture.
You know the only reason you can't post it is it's nothing to do with the sex work, it's the privacy issue.
Because, yeah, it breaks the privacy rule, not the porn rule.
Twitter allows people to have total profiles dedicated to porn and stuff.
And this is the funny thing about the free speech debate.
You've got Gab, for instance.
Gab is a free speech platform.
They ban porn.
And I think the same thing was true with Locals.
When Locals launched, everyone is like, free speech, but then they're like, hey, but not porn.
Patreon had a similar issue where they took down, and everyone was complaining, and I'm kind of like, you know...
A while ago, I was kind of like, hey, there's a slippery slope towards banning stuff.
But, uh, mostly based on ignorance and not having looked into the issue, now I'm completely like, it should not be allowed on public platforms without that age verification for users like any other adult bookstore or strip club.
Which is insane, because if I upload a video, like, it's taken down within hours if, like, there's a person in there that, like, I either haven't, like, verified who they are... So wait, wait, someone said... I don't understand, like...
And I think something that I would love to get into a conversation about is bringing back to the victimless crime.
I truly believe that prostitution hurts women at large.
There have been many studies that show that 60 to 70 percent of women in sex work, prostitution, however you want to phrase it, I think it's not talked about a lot specifically what I replied on Twitter yesterday all these stats it wasn't supporting the Nordic model it was simply showing how many women are victims and how much they suffer even prior to getting to this the majority of women within prostitution if not all besides the 1% who are self-employed
Come from poor, racially marginalized communities, and I think if the government were to decriminalize it, legalize it, however you want to call it, do anything to make prostitution or prostituting yourself easier in this country, it would 100% send this message to these people that the government does not care about your safety, they do not care about your health.
It makes it safer because, okay, so by criminalizing it, we are putting both consenting adults and victims in jail.
And then, again, going back to, we are putting everybody's health at risk by arresting people just because of, you know, the condoms that they're holding on to them.
But we can go back to this little fact right here about law enforcement.
It's from some article here from the LA Times.
It says, law enforcement agencies in America's biggest cities Spend an average of about $2,000 for each arrest of a prostitute, which amounts to more than $120 million a year in law enforcement costs nationwide.
So, you know, obviously it's a burden on taxpayers, but...
Ultimately, when New Zealand decriminalized sex work, I mean, just speaking to all the sex workers, they felt safer.
They feel safer that they can now report the abuse and exploitation that happens to them.
Otherwise, they get arrested in a criminalized society.
So from my understanding, correct me if I'm wrong because this isn't my- Right.
100% expertise.
But from my understanding, the Nordic model is essentially what I have been saying, where women who are victims of prostitution can come forward to the government for safety and protection.
It would still hold people who purchase sex acts as a felony and try them as a felony while offering protections for women to get out of the line of work.
Whether it works in practice is a whole different conversation than what it is in Or whether it works in actuality is very different than what it is in practice.
Essentially, the biggest issue with that is the males and females that purchase the services of sex workers have rights and liberties that they should be able to exercise.
You do not have a right or liberty to purchase sex from somebody else's body.
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that is not anything I mean whatever you do if you hire somebody to you know fix your toilet that's third that's their services and labor so whatever they're doing with their body that's different than That's different than a right.
Yeah, so okay, so basically the biggest issues when it comes to the Nordic model is there's absolutely no decrease in the amount of people taking part in sex work at all.
So if we're coming from a moral standpoint, Decriminalization does see a decrease.
The Nordic model does not.
So that's one thing.
It says 56.7% of sex workers surveyed in the Nordic model felt that the law had made sex work more dangerous.
Well, 29.1% felt that it had made no difference to their safety.
Sex workers reported higher levels of anxiety and unease and increased stigmatization.
The legislation provided no new exit services, which is very important actually, that's what my second book is about, for leaving the industry.
So, how do we get these women out of these situations?
I don't think it's necessarily the out as much as marriage, absolutely, but I don't... Get married, have children, get a college degree, you'll be pretty good for life.
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But I do think that... Not the college one, but I mean... I mean, just rely on men.
- What about the independent women that wanna work, like the entrepreneurs?
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What if they're ready, they're ready to get out of, there is no resources, there's nothing for them to get out. - I think it's before getting into it, getting out is a different conversation, but as part of the conversation is how do they get out?
- Why is it mostly women doing this? - I mean, it's most in demand.
Like literally on the beach in Tijuana, you can walk right through.
If you're obese, you're not gonna be able to, but I looked at this, the bollard fencing they have, and I'm like, I could literally just walk into America right now.
There was one border patrol agent on the other side on a hill, and I'm like- That's insane.
You know, everyone did that during COVID when they didn't want to get tested.
I have a lot of family friends who just walked through from Mexico because they didn't want to get a COVID test in Mexico, so they just walked through.
So my point ultimately is, we didn't used to need To have law enforcement building this barrier because we had a society and a culture that had an infrastructure that worked for us better than it does today.
And now our society is so fragmented, dejected, now it's just let the government take care of it and people absolve themselves of responsibility.
So what ends up happening is we keep saying we need a legislative approach to how we deal with this problem when the problem is purely cultural.
Why are women getting involved in sex work?
Honestly, and as much as feminists probably don't want to hear it, with the decline of traditional families and socially enforced monogamy, you end up with Look, I'll say it this way.
The greatest thing for guys ever was feminism.
And I mean that not in the truest sense of the word, I mean it in terms of the dopamine hit.
Guys who want to not work, sit around all day, play video games, bang whoever they want, and not have to take any responsibility for it, got everything they ever wanted, and now women have to have all of the traditional brunt of life, along with now having to have jobs as well.
You end up with these things like, uh, I love the 30 Rock, uh, I love 30 Rock.
You have Liz Lemon's character, Tina Fey.
I can have it all.
You know, have a great job and be the boss and also have a family.
And then, it's like, not really.
There's, there's something interesting about requiring the...
The end of social enforcement monogamy, the entrance of women predominantly into the workforce, which I'm not saying I'm opposed to, but let's just talk about the ramifications of this, it became a necessity, as most things do.
It starts with a privilege, it starts with a, it's fine if you do, and then eventually becomes a necessity.
Cell phones being a good example.
It used to be, wow, if you had one, wow, that was great.
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Right now you're on it all day and it's just- And if you don't have it, you're not getting hired.
So it used to be in society, women would find a husband, men would be, like single men were questioned, like, what are you, you're not doing, you know, what are you, what's going on?
Now it's like total freedom and independence, but I believe that there are clearly biological differences between men and women which result in negatives predominantly for women.
One example being men are typically the ones who are going to buy sex, meaning women will typically be the ones in sex work.
But then there's also in the workplace, the fact that women are the ones who have children means that no matter what laws you pass and no matter what you do, men and women will never be equal in the workforce.
Period.
End of story.
Why?
If a man wants to have a family, he can say, I will keep working all day and night.
I'll work 16 hours a day.
I will become the CEO of this company.
And then when I go home, I will be with my wife who will have kids.
She'll be the one who gets pregnant while I'm working.
If a woman wants to do the exact same thing, she says, I will have to take time off to have that child, a man does not have to.
No matter how small that shift is, it will result in a net negative for women, making it more difficult for them to compete with men in the workplace.
Men will always be on top for that reason.
Or, I should say, in the majority, right?
So, talking about how do we get women out of these negative situations, There's a biological reality component to it.
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I'm not saying, you know, force women to be... I mean, if they consider them to be a negative situation, of course.
When we think of sex work, it's the thought that we have been given since we were young, right?
Like, what do we see on TV?
Like, there was an episode of South Park that I saw last night.
It was hilarious, but it was, you know, created by libertarians so clearly they would do this.
Just, you know, dirty and full of, riddled with STDs and disgusting and fat and gross and like, of course, like if this is your view of sex work, clearly that's, you're going to dehumanize them, but if you look at them like a person, like we should look at all people, we are all God's children and Like the movie said, God's children are not for sale.
We are not for sale.
You're for rent.
What's the difference between getting me booked here, me doing the show and flying back, which is exactly what I did when I started porn.
because of that support like but your husband's fine with you having sex with other men no but you said you were retired like i i do it for fun like i still do it for fun because i enjoy it but i don't do it for monetary gain because i'm independently well like wealthy so i don't have to how's that a marriage if your husband lets you have sex with other guys you pay you because it is a social construct Because you signed a piece of paper?
what matters oh i don't know that matters that's not matter what does it matter to other people as well i think i'm treated well good provider no no that's fantastic i'm just saying that marriage meant something and then one day they were like oh marriage also means other things and this means other things and it's like oh no hold on like if the idea of marriage was effectively a death contract right till death do us part and pre no fault divorce you couldn't get divorced I mean, you could under certain circumstances, but judges would be like, marriage counseling, bang the gavel.
That was marriage.
Marriage is like a merger in two people's lives and assets.
Now marriage is dating.
It's like you go in there and you're like, I'm gonna sign this paper that says we're dating, it can be dissolved at any time for any reason.
I mean, there's no difference between my marriage and anybody else's other than the fact that I have You know, fun in my job.
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Other people's marriages are monogamous, where when you agree to become one flesh under... To me, it still is monogamous, because I'm not out there falling in love with anybody.
But if I go over there and serve as somebody's, you know... Monogamy is committing to one person, but marriage, the whole concept of marriage, is that when you become one flesh on the altar under God's eyes, whether you want to take the religious or even the government, when you agree to marry somebody, you agree to be... No, I mean, that's a big difference, the religious and the government.
That's why I was saying either one, whether you just sign a piece of paper or you believe that you're becoming one flesh under God's eyes for the rest of time, that becomes your soulmate.
In Judaism, especially, we believe that anyone can be your soulmate.
You become a soulmate when you get married because your souls become one.
And I just think that that is incongruent with what marriage is.
I think that marriage cannot, in the biblical sense of marriage matrimony, it cannot exist, the whole point of it is that you can be secure, you don't have to be afraid that, not even afraid, but it's that security, that ultimate security, I'm committing to you, I will never be with anyone else besides you for the rest of my life.
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I don't feel insecure in my marriage though, and he definitely does not, so I mean... But this is the thing, it's like... It might work for you, but it's definitely not going to work for everyone.
I feel like you're describing marriage as, say, like, a nice artisanal brie, and you're describing it like American pasteurized processed cheese product.
So, I'm not saying- I love both!
What I mean is, for the longest time, marriage was a death contract.
Cheating was like, you'd get in serious trouble for having a relationship in any capacity.
If two people consensually agree to merge their lives, There are paths to dissolving that, but the idea that you can enter into this contract and leave at any time for any reason... There's no leaving, though.
It used to be a master craft to make a delicious cheese, and we'd call it cheese, and then one day some guy was like, I'm gonna emulsify cream and put salt in it.
I am married, even though I don't do anything related to the traditional responsibilities of marriage.
That's why I'm like...
The word doesn't mean what it meant, and now it's like, you know, some guy driving a Bentley and someone else is driving, you know, a rundown, rebuilt thing, and they're like, we have the same car.
Yeah, but at large I think that this alludes to the negative feedback loop of men and women in society where if women accept less from men, men will put less forward.
It's the same thing with this idea of like courting women that doesn't really happen anymore, but men used to have to really try to win women over.
They're like, you're so beautiful, really make you want to provide for that.
Listen, trust me, I definitely advocate for a lot of the things that you're saying.
I think that women should be Definitely more modest.
I think that they definitely should be more God-fearing.
I definitely think that they should be 100% loyal to their husbands.
I think that they... Everything that you're saying, I 100% agree.
The only thing that I'm concerned about are the less fortunate people that are not married, that are not dealing with the privileged life that we get to live right now.
Because we're pretty freaking privileged.
I mean, it's pretty obvious.
We all live like...
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Pretty good lives, but that's not everybody right now, so what's... I guess it depends, like, what do you mean by privileged?
But it's like, you know, in my instance, for example, like, I had a relatively rough upbringing, not the worst, but on the bottom, lower end of the spectrum, and I had to work really, really hard, and I was homeless several times.
Like the distinction between some people who are in hard conditions, but I feel extremely blessed.
I thank God every single day for all my blessings.
But I feel like we rushed over a very important thing where you said you 100% agree with the idea that women should be 100% loyal to their husbands, but then you're not.
But I feel like we rushed over a very important thing where you said you 100% agree with the idea that women should be 100% loyal to their husbands, but then you're not.
I don't want anybody to take these risks, these unnecessary risks, because they're like, oh look, well she can do it, well I can do it too, well there's a good chance that you can't.
You know, I've been in this industry for 10 years, I've been studying it professionally for 7 years, there's a 99% chance that you're not going to do very well if you try to do what I do.
That's the thing too, OnlyFans, like the real number is like the average woman makes a couple hundred bucks or less.
There's very, very few women who are successful on it, and there's no difference between, like, say, Patreon and OnlyFans in terms of financial gain.
So what people see on Patreon, they see, like, um... I don't know that woman's name.
She did the weird anime sex faces or whatever, and then she was making hundreds of thousands of dollars per month, and then she started doing... I think she started doing... I don't know.
I think it's impossible for people who are in sex work to Well you're looking up just a little change of topic.
I think it's impossible for people who are in sex work to have successful marriages let alone have marriages at all because it does something to you psychologically when you have sex with hundreds of men or even more than even like 50 men if you have sex a lot of men every single time you have sex with somebody it affects your ability to bond with your husband down the line and that's a big reason Ben Shapiro has spoken about this, that if you have sex with more than three people before you get married, I believe, you're like 50% more likely to get divorced.
There's some crazy statistics about how having sex before marriage can really affect your brain and the bonding chemicals that you release after sex, so I do think that it sets women up who, if they ever want to get married down the line, it kind of makes that nearly impossible, and that's not even speaking about how disgusted a man would be with a woman who had sex with hundreds of men, because I would be disgusted if a man...
Yeah, majority.
A good, righteous person should find it gross that somebody would do that because as a woman, if a man said he had sex with two women, I would be disgusted.
They are the, everything they're literally you know women are so i i do believe in the patriarchy i love men i love having men lead i think that it is ignorant to say that women do not have the major supporting roles behind all of these great men and you know a great man has a great woman behind him and vice versa but i love men so i have no problem with men leading society i don't think women should be barred from having members like being involved in society holding political office
i think women and should be able to do all of that.
But I definitely am not opposed to men Running society and women getting to go to shopping and baking cookies and doing all the fun things.
I think there is to a certain extent patriarchy, but nothing's absolute.
It's probably like 60-40.
So there's a couple points in there.
One, men try to woo women.
As they should.
But you've got a large quantity of men who are simps or white knights who will agree with the stupidest shit imaginable if they think it'll get them laid.
I think these are mostly like male feminist types.
Low-key.
Perhaps.
I mean, not always, though.
Aggressive, manipulative, sociopathic.
That's true, yeah.
What's the meme?
The meme was hashtag reset the clock for a male feminist to be exposed as a rapist and sexual predator?
Because it keeps happening.
It's not so much, you know, on social media, but ten years ago, throughout the earlier culture wars, it would be like, this man was exposed as a predator who was abusing women and he was a male feminist.
And it's like, right.
They're called, in biology, This is the literal term.
And it would describe a situation where there is a dominant male who takes the women, and then there is a submissive weaker male who sneaks in the middle of the night to procreate.
Two strategies.
One, the dominant male- Sheep and the wolf.
Yeah, the dominant male commands, and then in order to procreate, the sneaky fucker goes in.
And so that's typically how we refer to people like male feminists, but that's the actual biological term.
So of course, you know... I'll trust that science.
It is, you know, and... But it's not like the insult fucker, it's like a sneaky one who procreates is a better way to describe it, but they say sneaky fucker.
And that is, unfortunately, a lot of men.
So going back to the idea of this patriarchy, The idea that there are men who believe they are women, who are gaining preference in all spaces, is an indicator of male dominance to a certain degree.
Testosterone makes you more assertive and aggressive, and therefore people with more testosterone are more likely to be dominating in society, and therefore males, in any capacity, have a tendency towards domination over females.
Hormonal imbalances can create significant problems, and this was a conversation I had a few months ago about a lot of these men who Transition, or at least try to transition, because I don't truly believe you can change your gender, but these men who start taking estrogen, all of their problems and feelings could have possibly been fixed, not 100%, but it's crazy that they don't try testosterone before they try estrogen.
They come in with all these feelings, and they're like, transition me, rather than just being treated as if they're a male who's lacking certain hormones that they need.
I think it's in this world and society that Well, honestly, I don't have a problem with that.
I am fine with the men leading and the women following situation.
I think, if anything, that's easier as long as women still have the ability and freedom to do what they want.
But just speaking from my own experience, even though I agree with this idea of men leading and stuff, I have never had a man or anyone stand in my way of getting what I want.
I've been in the political space for four and a half years now.
I've accomplished every single goal and dream that I have set out thus far.
I've had to create new dreams and goals multiple times because I keep accomplishing all of them.
No man, woman, or anyone has ever stood in my way of me getting what I wanted, and I've never had a problem accomplishing my dreams.
A lot of my friends got married within the past month, actually, because I had four weddings in a week.
It's been crazy.
A lot of my friends, especially, I was raised modern Orthodox in New York City, Jewish community.
Almost all my friends have gotten married, and not all of my close friends, but a lot of people in my community have gotten married from age 18 through the past few years.
But I also think, with me, I have the ability to do a lot of things at once.
And I would always like to have something on my own.
It doesn't have to be the grand scheme of being a CEO of a company or being a lawyer or any of these things.
You know, if I decide to become a stay-at-home mom full-time, maybe I'll open, like, a little cat rescue shelter situation that I do on the side, or I can help battered women in situations find things out.
Like, there's always something that I would love to be involved in outside of family, just that I can continue putting what God blessed me with and my skills out into the world and hopefully make the world a better place while also raising better humans.
I think an important distinction in the conversation about women having jobs and stuff is that women have always had jobs, just different jobs than men.
The idea was hunter-gatherer.
And I was reading about how women can be what's called a tetrachromat.
I mean, look, I don't know, I was just reading a few articles on it.
And women would go out and they would collect berries and fruits and being able... I gotta tell ya.
We have all these fruits and berries all over the place, and I'm looking for blackberries, and I'm looking for... The whiteberries are really easy to spot, because they have these thorny red brambles, and they're bright red.
But there are grapes everywhere, and right now the grapes are green, and when I'm riding past this tree covered in grapevine, If I look at it, I see nothing but leaves.
If I stop and look really, really closely, I can start to see the grapes.
And holy shit, they're everywhere!
I'm so excited!
Like, tens of thousands of them!
But, um, there are certain plants, black raspberry, for instance, where, you know, I'll have to go up and I'll have to look and try and see it.
For women, who have better, uh, who can see better contrasting colors, They're gonna more easily see where the fruits and berries are.
And so, anyway, my point is, if you go back to the dawn of human tribal civilization or whatever, with hunter-gatherer societies, women were working.
They just weren't fighting bears.
You know, the men would go off and hunt and fish, and the women would walk around collecting fruits and vegetables.
It's that women don't have to work in like corporate America because taking care of your children, cooking for your family, cleaning, those are jobs.
I mean, you should see the women in the subways in the city in the summer.
There's these Hispanic women who come, they strap their babies to their back, they sell candy bars every day.
It's been a thing in New York.
It's just what happens in the summertime.
There's also little kids who sell chocolate for their basketball teams.
They sell cut up fruit.
It's just the way that it is.
But I think even more recent, a really good example is that cleaning in the home.
Women weren't just buying Clorox and Lysol.
They had to create their own cleaning supplies.
Women had to become essentially chemists in like the late 1900s or late 1800s, 19th century, where women would have to know how to use things like borax and baking soda.
These are intense chemicals that you can create a lot of things with.
And so they had to become essentially chemist scientists to be able to clean their home without emitting toxic chemicals to their family.
So it's definitely a job.
In terms of submitting to a corporate boss in a company, whereas submitting to your husband and your family, I think that job benefits your family, whereas that other job benefits a company who doesn't really care about you at the end of the day because blood is thicker than water.
I love that line from the movie Snatch, where the guy's drinking milk, or whatever, like Jason Statham, and the other guy's like, milk is out of sync with evolution, you shouldn't drink it.
Because human technological advancement is exponentially growing and rapid, but human biological development is where we were 50,000 years ago.
So now we have these gender norms that were constructed around human tribal life, which existed for tens of thousands of years.
Yeah, now everything's rapidly changing.
Like our brains can't even handle Twitter properly.
Yeah, and it's this constant negative feedback loop.
I've had this.
This just plays into everything in life.
Dating, marriage, relationships, work, just everything.
When women expect less, men provide less and then it just keeps going like that and bringing it back to like the sugar baby idea where whether it's like, oh, you'll be my girlfriend, I'll just fund your things.
I don't think that that is ever how it's supposed to be because that leads women to say, oh, I don't have to lift a finger.
I can just have everything taken care of.
He buys me food, he cleans, he shops, he whatever.
He does it all for me.
I just have to be there and be pretty.
I think that is Not compatible with biology either, where women need a purpose.
So I think with the sugar baby thing that it creates a lot of difficulties and that should not be accepted.
And it creates this idea that women should either do everything in a relationship because it creates like two types of men for women to choose from now.
The men who sit on their ass playing video games.
Why do you order me pizza?
Just literally do nothing for themselves.
Dirty clothing.
Wash my laundry.
And then sugar daddies who provide everything and women don't have to work or do anything at all and that's just not realistic.
It's a partnership.
Marriage is a 50-50 partnership.
Sometimes it's more, sometimes it's less on either side, but you're a team and I just really disagree with society's modern day relationships and they're really sad to see.
- Yeah, real sex work completely. - I just don't feel like you can replace the touch of a woman.
- It's that already men under 30 are more likely to be virgins and they're excluding themselves from these experiences.
So what's happening is right now our perception is based on an older generation that is less adept to the technology and a younger generation more adept to it.
And so because there are guys who will buy physical touch, we assume it must always be the case.
No, the younger generation is going to grow up in a world of AI sexual stimulation, and that will be their predilection.
So when they're older, they're going to be like, I don't want to be touched.
I want to have the robot say naughty things to me.
But then you're going to get robo sex.
There's going to be human android weird garbage, or there could be neural stimulation through neural link.
That is more speculative and theoretical.
What I can say right now is, there's a younger generation of men who are increasingly virgins.
They don't expect to have sex, and many of them will never, because porn has warped their brains to the point where they want to be banging like elf women from the world of, you know, Lord of the Rings or something, and so they're not going to be physically attracted to a real person.
In which case, they're going to need a robo-digital girlfriend to get them off, and they're not going to be seeking this stuff out.
That's not every single guy everywhere, but I think we're seeing that increasingly, to the point where a lot of guys will probably just more easily opt for digital girlfriends.
There will still- I'm not saying it'll be completely gone, obviously.
There will always be some people who have, you know, fetishes that they want fulfilled in the real world and things like that.
But I think it's increasingly becoming digital.
It's increasingly becoming fictional.
You know, furries or whatever, you know, they have to dress up and do these things.
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It's not always sexual for furries, I get it. - But our society is getting so much dumber.
So like, in order to keep up with AI, people have to stay educated.
And you know, the fact that people are passing through colleges, like by using AI to pass through colleges, Like, are people getting smarter or are they just getting dumber?
Like, and how are we going to sustain the AI systems if people are just getting dumber and dumber?
Well, allow me to reference Star Trek for everybody.
There's an episode of Star Trek The Next Generation where the crew goes to a planet where they have an oracle device that does everything for them and they have no idea what it is or how it works.
Sure, until it breaks.
And then they start dying because they have no idea what to do.
Yeah, and so I do think we are headed towards that idiocracy-style world.
The rise of artificial intelligence, the reduction or just degeneration of Regular human intelligence, but this I was thinking about this a lot the past few days actually like where we're headed as a society with artificial intelligence with this all new world order stuff, Neuralink, everything.
And I really confidently wholeheartedly believe that the natural order will always win and always supersede over the new world order.
There's all these things that come up, there might be AI, this, that.
Nothing will ever replace the natural order because it's God's will and it's God's way and I truly have so much trust in God that the natural way of the world, the reason that biology is the same exact way it was 50,000 years ago, aside from maybe our wisdom teeth don't grow on anymore because we don't have to chow down food, we could cut it with a nice little steak knife at a nice restaurant.
But aside from that, biology is essentially the same.
When all these transgender people When they dig up their graves in a hundred years from now, they're gonna see bones.
And based off their bones, they're gonna know if you were a man or a woman.
And hopefully this gives people some sort of hope that they don't have to jump to that. - Perhaps instead of cross sex hormones, the solution may be regular. - That's what I was saying before with these beta males that these beta males that go to transition to women, like Leah Thomas, all these people, Maybe, well, Leah Thomas is absolutely not a homosexual.
And they want other people to say it because it makes them, you know— There's also some men— I saw recent videos on social media of men who— There was, like, some also psychological definition of it, where men want to feel the pain of like women's reproductive organs where they'll take hormones and things to simulate like PMS pains because it turns them on.
So, it used to be that people who had things that were atypical would not bring them up out of fear of being ostracized, because social animals, we need each other to survive.
But so, you have, you know, people are finding community with people who typically would not find community before.
And so it's creating these spaces where people feel like they're justified.
I guess a simple way to put it is, with cancel culture, you'll get this big company, for some reason, doing something insane, firing somebody.
And it's because 50 people sent an email, And they've never experienced anything like that.
They assume their customers are in revolt when in reality their customers don't care at all.
Activists who don't buy their product are attacking the company and they assume they have to behave a certain way.
Bud Light recently, you know, lost out bigly because of trying to play this weird pandering game to a small minority and then sacrificed 25% of their market share.
All of this woke stuff, and gender stuff, women love it.
It's not, it's not, it's, it's, the men who- Not us, but, yeah.
No, but like in general, it is not men as a general group who are into any of these things.
They care very little.
It is overwhelmingly females.
It is like, what was it?
One leftist on Twitter said that TERFs are supporting the patriarchy by defining what womanhood and femininity is and gatekeeping it from non-traditional or atypical women or something like that.
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And it's like the weirdest thing ever to be like- Like how many of these are foreign women though?
And what has been explained to me in many independent circumstances by different people who suffer gender dysphoria, when Dylan Mulvaney started singing, look at my bulge, it proved Dylan is not trans.
Trans people who have dysphoria- They don't get excited about that.
Like, but the people who are suffering gender dysphoria get severe anxiety over something like that.
Dylan Mulvaney is doing, I guess, what the Kardashians do.
Or Madonna does.
Getting surgery to fit a persona for media and for... Personal gain.
Yeah, it's like, is this the third category?
Outside of there's the people who suffer from gender dysphoria, there are people who are fetishists, and then there's people like Dylan Mulvaney, who are like, I will be rich and famous if I do this.
Like, they're crooked, I'm genetically missing a tooth.
I don't care.
There is nothing that I care about in terms of going and spending two years getting surgery done and whatever.
It doesn't do anything for me.
There are other people who are like, if I want to be in this movie, I have to eat, you know, 10 pounds of chicken per week and lift constantly so that I can look like Thor.
You have to transform your body to be successful in this area.
And then you have beyond that, the people who say, working out won't cut it.
I need a bigger butt or whatever.
And so they get surgery or plastic surgery or implants so they can be that individual.
I look at Dylan Mulvaney as just another media personality who's trying to fit a caricature through body transformation like any other throughout the history of Hollywood, right?
Yeah, like, drag is... Well, look, people are all different, but if we're going by, like, the true definition of drag, it is men who know they're men, who are putting on a performance, albeit, I think it's like... I believe it's adult entertainment.
We had the debate two weeks ago or whatever, you know, we had an older drag queen who was like, it's absolutely for adults, it's nightclub stuff, kids shouldn't be there.
I am offended by many trans men, the things they say about manhood and being a man, and it's probably the same way many women are offended by trans women.
This idea, you know, a man, a male will never know what it's like to be female, will never know what womanhood is, it's an impossibility.
It's true for both males and females.
There is no way for a person of a, and it's much the same as a short person will not understand what it's like to be a tall person or vice versa.
There's pros and there's cons, there's benefits.
The idea that we're entering this transhumanist world There's a lot of, like, offensive assumptions about what it is, what it's like to be someone else, and everyone always assumes it's always better.
Not everybody, but a lot of people are like, you know, a lot of, I'll say a lot of, like, incel or MGTOW.
I'm not trying to drag all of these guys, but they'll be like, women have an uneasy mode.
Women get to do this, that, or otherwise, and it's like, yeah, it's pros and cons.
Women, earlier in life, are more protected.
Women have an easier time getting entry-level positions and jobs at a younger age than men.
Men start off with... I'm just trying to cite anthropology studies.
I know the young Turks and feminists are going to start freaking out that I'm saying this.
Women start life as the highest point of social status.
Valuable for family, for child-rearing, etc.
And then over time, it inverts.
As a man gets older and develops skills and stature and power, his social value increases.
As a woman gets older, her ability to nurture and rear children decreases, and so does social value.
I'm not saying these things are good things, but these are typically observed in all societies.
And so, you know, I forgot where I was going with that, but... Oh yeah, my point was, you have trans people, I could understand why a guy is like, women have it so much easier growing up and seeing that and wishing they had it easier in life, especially if they're a short effeminate male.
And then I see people like, you know, Elliot... Elliot Page.
These individuals who are female who have gone through a female existence being like, I actually feel like a man.
I'm like, you have no idea what men feel.
You have no idea what it's like to experience life as a man.
You have no idea what it's like to be treated like trash.
And I'm not saying every guy goes through this.
Some guys are born wealthy and privileged with silver spoons.
But it's just like, I can understand what women are saying when they're like, trans women are insulting, you don't know what it's like, and there was this great, uh, Michael Knowles, I believe, was giving a speech, and he asked a trans woman, how do you know you're a trans woman?
And the individual, the trans woman, did not say, or what the trans woman said was, I heard a trans woman give a description of their experience, and then I realized.
And Michael Knowles says, okay, so that's not feeling like a woman, that's feeling like a trans woman, a different thing.
What's so bad about saying, I'm proud to be a trans woman?
Like, if they're so proud about who they are, and I don't agree with being proud about something that you have absolutely zero control over, that's not what I'm saying, but if you are proud of who you are, you should be proud to be a trans woman or a trans man or whoever you are.
Why do you need to be a woman?
Why do you need to be a man?
What's so bad about being trans?
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If there's nothing bad about it, why not be proud about who you are as a trans person?
- Why are they proud to say they're trans? - So I've had people where they come up to me on social media too, people comment like, oh, we can't even tell that you're trans.
Like, ha ha ha, especially with the hate I get.
That was a big thing.
I'm like, so you guys are saying you claim to support trans people, but then you're using it as an insult.
But at the end of the day, I don't care.
My sense of self is not damaged one bit if you misgender me or call me a man, because I know I'm a woman.
Two weeks ago, we had on two drag queens, one who was drag but also identified as trans, and the trans individual said, we want other people to treat us the way we see ourselves and see us the way we see ourselves.
They say they don't care about traditional gender roles, but then use it as a point of attack.
They say things like, I can't even tell you're trans, because in their mind, they're like, if someone doesn't see me how I want to be seen, I'm hurt, so I will intentionally do that to you, but on whatever this side is, They don't realize it doesn't affect us because we're secure in our sense of self.
And I really feel like now that's recircling back to the beginning because I really do feel like I know my own value as well.
Like, I'm happy with myself, I'm happy with who I am as a person, and I'm happy knowing that, like, I'm one of God's children, and nobody can take that from me.
It was the people who would have in their bio body positivity, you know, celebrating people like Lizzo, who are like, probably way more than the submarine that got lost.
Like they, they support these people and then they come to my page and they comment these things, which just shows that Even the people that claim to support these wild leftist ideas, they know in their mind subconsciously whether they want to admit it or not, it's wrong and it just, it's not true.
It's not the truth and truth matters, word matters.
My favorite line has always been, if the Democrats didn't have double standards, they wouldn't have standards at all.
Rules for you, not for me.
It's all these things of, oh, you must support everyone's lifestyle.
It's really, if we take it for what it is, you must support everybody's lifestyle, whether or not your personal beliefs disagree with it.
You must not only support it, you must actively be an anti-racist in the same for all these other things.
You must actively go against people who don't support it.
Like, you have to become a warrior in our fight, even if you don't agree with us.
And if you don't, we will try to get you fired from your job.
We will call Your children's school will get you kicked out of your own school.
They will stop at nothing to destroy people who simply just want to live their own lives, which is all that they're asking that we respect other people to do.
It's a cult.
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It's truly a cult and they're all brainwashed and then they come to tell us that we're brainwashed.
One of my most viral videos got 12 million views on TikTok about talking about modern-day feminism and how I don't want to be equal to a man, I don't want to wear a suit to work, I want to wear a pretty dress.
I love femininity, but the modern-day feminism has led to the destruction of society, essentially, and I radically oppose these radical feminists.
Thank you for asking.
But with traditional femininity and the way that society is just led nowadays, it's just gotten so far off the beaten track where they don't even realize, like, we are just so off and removed from what true femininity should be.
I think we should force women to work on petroleum rigs and in sewers, right?
I mean, I'm being facetious, but when the first feminist waves came about, one of the big arguments against women's suffrage was voting rights came with civic responsibility.
And now women don't have to sign up for the Selective Service, men are forced to by law, but women get all the benefits and privilege of society without the responsibilities shared by men?
Totally sexist.
I believe it should be completely equal.
If we're gonna have equality, then women get civic responsibility along with men in every capacity.
No, because my sophomore year of college, they started redoing the lottery draft, like started getting it in place again so that if we do need... China's willing to wage war on us at any moment in time.
I'll tell you, I was in Turkey and I went into a neighborhood where they were fighting with cops and they came up screaming in Turkish at me while holding a Molotov cocktail to my face.
I don't think she's still alive, but I just want to give a shout out to Phyllis Schlafly for stopping the ERA, which would have had women had to draft.
Thank you, lady.
I really appreciate it.
I do.
Because I don't think women should have to draft in general.
There is something in society that you get.
So I want to hear more about that.
There's something in society that I think you either get or you don't.
Women and children have inherently more value than men in society.
That is just something.
It's why in the Titanic it's a certain thing.
I don't like, I don't really even really know.
It just is a thing that you kind of get it or not.
But what I mean is, if, ladies, if you're at home with the kids, or without the kids, whatever it is you're doing, and a foreign invader is marching through the streets, the women are going to pick up whatever weapons they have available and defend their home the same as any other man would.
There is no question that if a woman is in her home, and the man is off at war, and an enemy invasion is marching through the town, that woman will unquestionably grab whatever weapon she has available to defend her home and their family.
That's what the draft is supposed to be.
The local warden or whoever comes up and says, ladies, yup, not an ideal situation.
We're bringing your kids to a safe location.
We're the only ones left to fight.
Of course the women are going to say yes.
They're not going to sit there and be like, no, I'll cower in fear.
They'll do everything they can to protect their kids.
So the idea of drafting is, in the more modern sense, Men are going to go fight, first and foremost, when it comes to a conflict and war, the men are on the front line.
Women can be manufacturing, they can be building industry and running infrastructure and doing everything to support at home because it's less preferable to have women running through the streets fighting in conflict.
But the draft isn't supposed to be, hey, there's a war in Vietnam because communists are spreading out.
So we're going to take our young men and send them over there.
That's insane.
So in the truest sense of conscription, I'm like, everybody should stand up and defend, you know, their neighborhood, their families.
For the record, just let the record reflect that as much as like in terms of the traditional aspects and just values of men and women, I think women should have less obligations because we have certain other obligations that are not written into the law in society in a way, certain obligations with all the pains It's not just carrying a baby inside your stomach for nine months.
It's There are so many ways that your body changes.
Even though with the value stuff and women, thank you, with all that stuff, I have my opinions.
As an American citizen, as a Yankee doodle, as a patriot, I love this country with all my heart, and if we go to war with China, I will be the first person to pick up a rifle and say, ship me out there.
Let's go fight for freedom.
Because my family's immigrants, I am so grateful for the opportunities that America provides.
This is the greatest country in the history of mankind, and will forever be, and I would do anything to protect this country.
But maybe, maybe we'll like, what I'm hoping is for the next shows on Monday, we can put up like a, this Friday, 10 in the morning, you know, here we go.