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She HIDES Being TRÂNS?! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter?! MlSANDRlST?! | Dating Talk 274

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	Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape.
	I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
	Before we get into some quick announcements, I'm just going to go ahead and have the guests introduce themselves.
	So go ahead.
	I am Lauren.
	I'm from California.
	I'm a business owner.
	And what else?
	Age?
	29.
	29.
	business owner and uh you're from california what part Palmdale.
	Palmdale.
	Like, grew up there, born there?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And college?
	Any education?
	College education?
	I dropped out of business college to pursue business.
	And I did.
	All right.
	Gotcha.
	What about you?
	My name is Isabella.
	I'm 19.
	I'm going to college studying biology.
	I work landscaping and pay piggies come my way.
	Sorry, what?
	Piggies come my way.
	Pay piggies come your way.
	Yes.
	If you're in the comments, come my way.
	Don't you have a boyfriend?
	Yes.
	He's okay with that?
	Yeah.
	The pay piggies.
	Okay.
	The landscaping isn't cutting it.
	It's not cutting it.
	What do you do for landscaping?
	Like pull weeds and like mulch ground and soil and stuff.
	I'm like, and you work for a company or?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I know.
	Like is it your like friend's company or your dad's company or something?
	I became friends with a teacher and then she helped me get the job.
	Okay.
	Landscaping, that's interesting.
	I know.
	I know.
	All right.
	Do you have to take your nose ring out?
	I mean, no, I'm just pulling out.
	Aren't you worried like the lawnmower is going to like magnetized to the ground?
	Not magnetized.
	I don't know.
	One of the landscaping.
	I feel like when you're doing that kind of work, not even landscaping necessarily, but certain physical labor jobs, you want to avoid wearing certain accessories.
	Like I'm trying to think, maybe there's people in the chat who might know, but I think for people who work in certain trades, they recommend not wearing like a wedding ring, for example, because you can de-glove.
	By the way, don't Google that.
	You can de-glove the skin from your finger because your ring could get trapped in something moving.
	And then so I was curious if you have to remove the fucking septum piercing.
	No, biotic nose.
	You might consider it because your whole note, you never know in some of these labor jobs.
	Gonna get caught in the lawnmower and spewing my arm.
	Something's gonna get caught.
	Your fucking nose is gonna get fucking destroyed.
	And you got a good nose, so you don't wanna, you know, you don't wanna fuck the nose up.
	You're right, you're right.
	Yeah.
	I got you.
	Thank you.
	And you're from where?
	Los Angeles County.
	Los Angeles.
	All right.
	What part?
	Near Six Flex, Magic Mountain.
	Is that really Alex?
	Anaheim or what?
	No, Valencia.
	San Fernando, Valencia.
	What about you?
	My name is Deadly.
	I'm a model, actor, singer, songwriter, dancer.
	I go to school for business at Capella University.
	I was born in San Diego, but raised in Germany.
	So that was fun.
	Do you speak German?
	No, I was on base.
	Okay.
	And school?
	Coppola.
	What's it called?
	Capella University.
	Yeah, what are you studying there again?
	Business.
	Oh, business.
	Okay.
	Age?
	21.
	21?
	All right.
	And are you comfortable sharing your real first name?
	It's out there.
	It's out there, yeah.
	It's Taryn.
	Taryn.
	And so you go by deadly, what?
	P?
	Deadly P. What's the P stand for?
	It can stand for precious, deadly.
	Well, it's mainly for precious, deadly precious.
	Deadly precious, precious.
	Precious.
	Okay.
	I have.
	What's it called?
	Speech impediment.
	Speech impediment.
	No, what's the one you totter?
	Dyslexia?
	Something.
	I don't know.
	One of those things.
	Dyslexia.
	Is that your natural eye color?
	No.
	You're wearing color contacts?
	Okay.
	I actually think Taryn.
	You should go by Taryn.
	That's a badass name.
	That's my artist name.
	Taryn's kind of a badass name.
	So Deadly Precious.
	Okay.
	Deadly P.
	I thought that was like Deadly Pussy or something.
	I don't know.
	I like that one.
	What?
	Just curious, what would, like, what is Deadly Pussy?
	Like, is it really good pussy or is it really?
	I mean, yeah, you got them down for the count.
	They're coming back.
	Keep coming.
	Okay, there you go.
	In any case, that's not what the P stands for.
	All right.
	And you said you're from where again?
	Sorry, I missed that part.
	I was born in San Diego, raised in Germany.
	San Diego.
	You know who, okay, you know who you look like?
	At least with the color contacts?
	You look like Stacey Dash.
	I don't know if you know who that is.
	Have you seen Clueless?
	The black girl?
	Uh-huh.
	You look a little like her.
	Oh, thank you.
	I think that's a compliment.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Nick's.
	I'm 19.
	I work as a retail cashier, but I'm also a cinematic arts major at Cal State Long Beach, and I'm from Valencia, California.
	All right.
	And trying to think if there's anything else.
	No, I think that's it.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Kamea.
	I'm 21.
	And I live in LA.
	I was born in Hawaii, but grew up in Inland Empire.
	And yeah.
	Oh, highest level of education is high school.
	Okay.
	I don't know what to call it.
	And then, uh...
	Oh, I'm a content creator.
	Content creator, what kind of content?
	Not only fans, right?
	No, not only fans.
	But you do streaming.
	Yeah, streaming.
	Yeah, just like BGB.
	I don't know.
	Sorry, what?
	Yeah, just like content relatable.
	Okay.
	And you said you're from Hawaii, which island?
	Oahu.
	Oahu.
	How long were you living there?
	Until I was like eight, and then I moved to California.
	Can you do like a Hawaiian accent for the whole show?
	Like pidgin?
	Is that what it's called?
	Yeah.
	Can we get a demonstration for the people?
	It's like, oh, no, you won't.
	I don't know.
	No, give us two sentences at least.
	Honestly, like, it's not that good.
	My mom could do it better.
	Okay.
	I don't want to do that.
	Maybe later.
	Maybe later.
	What about you?
	My name is Lauren.
	I'm 24.
	I'm from Ventura County.
	Right now I work in food service and I have my BA from Cal State Northridge in English creative writing.
	All right, cool.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Latrice.
	I'm 37 years old.
	I am currently a stay-at-home mom, wife, and I am a content creator as well.
	What I do is I commentate on the unfairness of what men go through in a dating market and also hold women accountable.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Miriam or Miriam, however you want to call me.
	I live in the Bay Area.
	I am 40 years old and I'm a magician and I work in tech.
	All right.
	And are you going to show us a magic trick?
	Maybe.
	Right now, right now.
	You got cards on you.
	What you got?
	A little card flourish or something.
	Not card flourish.
	Let me grab the cards.
	All right.
	Sorry.
	Can you, Latrice, can you do me a favor?
	You see that green thing behind you?
	Can you push it like three inches that way?
	More, yeah, that's good.
	All right, so she got some card tricks.
	I got some cards, yeah.
	I think the camera should be able to see.
	So, how long have you been doing magic, by the way?
	I've been doing magic for 16 years.
	Stage magic, up close magic, what do you do?
	I do close-up magic.
	Yeah, um, I do close-up magic.
	I do uh, what we call strong magic.
	So, like, if you have a party or whatever, and you know, have people scattered around and you just want them to walk up to the groups and do magic for them.
	Like, you'll do wedding, wedding, yeah, quinceaneras, yes, parmitzvas, yes, okay, yeah.
	Uh, but I also have my shows.
	I literally just did a birthday party last night, um, birthday parties, yeah, yeah.
	Okay, let's see something, let's walk.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Um, so uh, let me see if this space is fine.
	I cannot move this, right?
	Okay, I can move it a little bit, I can move it a little bit.
	I just need this area so it's uh visible, I guess.
	Okay, all right.
	Um, usually, when I ask people to pick a card, you know what card they go with the ace of spades, ace of spades, okay.
	Yeah, so I made it hard, I made it easier for myself, so I started to just collect the aces of spades.
	That way, I don't have to, you know, google through the selection part.
	Yeah, yeah, um, so I have the cards here, I'm going to place them at the table: one face down, one face up, face down, face up.
	Here, um, the idea is very simple.
	When I have the cards face up, you can see all the cards are face up, yeah.
	However, if I place a card face down, you know what happens, it's no longer an ace of cards.
	All the cards flip face down, you got it, okay.
	All the cards flip face down.
	Okay, if I place a face up card, you know what happens, it's face up, are they all face up?
	You are right, they all flip face up.
	Oh, um, if I place a card, this situation's not okay.
	If I place a card face down, all the cards flip one more time, face down, face up card, okay, okay.
	You say the magic word, uh, abracadabra.
	Oh, you got it, and all the cards flip uh, face up now.
	Even in the same pile, if I flip, if I flip one card face down, you can see all the cards flip face down.
	I'm not a card, you can also say the magic word and have one card flip flip face up in the middle.
	The magic word again, abracadabra, Kelly Clarkson, one card flip face up in the middle of the deck.
	Oh, I put this in the wrong place.
	I'm not blinking.
	Oh, here's the thing.
	Here's the thing: what you did not realize that while I was doing all of that, I was actually switching the cards.
	As you can see here, they all came from different piles from different decks.
	Right, I'm so tripped down.
	No, no, you know, in a poker game, having the four kings, um, no, it's a royal flush.
	Oh, what?
	Why are they different colors?
	What is happening?
	They were all aces when you started.
	Oh, my goodness.
	Can I look at the cards?
	Yeah.
	Can I touch this one?
	I'm confused.
	I didn't like it.
	I at least wink.
	Look at that.
	And it's changed.
	Gravity changed with the face.
	They were all gold and what's the that's cool.
	All right.
	Sweet.
	Maybe, maybe we'll get some more later.
	We'll get some more tricks later.
	Well, thank you for showing us that.
	Appreciate it.
	First time ever on the podcast having a female magician.
	Oh, thank you.
	Did you have a male magician?
	By the way, you were very magical.
	You've been very magical this entire time, you know, before the show.
	But that's supposed to be.
	Don't worry about it.
	Don't worry about it.
	You know, so question: you have an accent, though.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Saudi Arabia.
	Saudi Arabia, okay.
	And when did you move to the United States?
	Well, back in 2013.
	Back in 2013.
	Okay.
	I came in to get my master's degree and I've never left.
	What were you studying?
	I got my master's degree in economics from Cal State, Espe.
	Okay, economics.
	And then have you become a naturalized citizen?
	Or what's your do you have a green card or what's your citizen status?
	Well, I applied for asylum back in 2017.
	And unfortunately, the US CIS had not processed my application for over eight years.
	So this year I applied for what's called mandemas, which is basically going after them, threatening them of suing them if they don't move your case.
	Okay.
	Essentially, it's a risky move because they could either say, okay, fine, here's your appointment, or they initiate your deportation process.
	So we got the appointment and we got approved.
	Okay, gotcha.
	Before we get into everybody's relationship status, which I'll have you guys share in just a moment, a few quick announcements.
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	That's streamlabs.
	Are you able to pull up the link for those?
	Or actually, no, we usually do that later, right?
	So that's hold on.
	My notes are all jumbled here.
	One sec, guys.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So, guys, you know, listen, YouTube takes a brutal 30% cut, and we barely ever do any sponsorships.
	And look, I'm trying to run this show.
	I'm trying to run a complicated production, and I need your guys's support.
	Now, who's going to be the Medici family and stand up and let me create more?
	Or do you want to marginalize me till I'm out of my moment?
	Like, shit, guys, I don't know.
	2026, I was going to wait until the new year.
	2026 might be the last year we do this show.
	I don't want to say definitively, but it might be the last year.
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	Also, Nick, before we get into it, I'll just give you a heads up.
	I forgot to mention before the show for the BLM segment, I've added some things after Kanye.
	So you'll hear my intro.
	And when you hear the names, you can pull that stuff up.
	I should have, sorry for not bringing that.
	Yeah.
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	What the heck?
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	Quick for Easy Way to support the show every single month.
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	I think it's bugged, boys.
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	Soft, lightweight fabric.
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	You know, these shitty band t-shirts, they print on some dog shit, fucking cardboard.
	And it's like you love the band, but the merch is fucking dog shit.
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	You're going to chafe your nipples and shit.
	With our shit, no chafed nipples.
	Fuck that shit.
	So, anyways, follow us on Instagram at whatever.
	Any women who want to be on the show, you can DM us there.
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	Follow me on Instagram, BrianAtlasX, Twitter, BrianAtlas.
	I guess my cat.
	You can also follow my cat.
	Oh, she's so cute.
	Really?
	Okay.
	So hold on.
	Before you pull it up, Nick, in just a sec here.
	You know, the shirt, whatever.
	You know, I'm the founder of the non-profit and grassroots movement, Big Labia Matter, or BLM for short.
	Because all labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter.
	Pull it up, Nick.
	Pull it up.
	So that's my movement if you want to follow it.
	But I just want to say, this is what I want to say.
	I want to say, fuck Kanye.
	Fuck Matt Rife.
	And tap through those.
	Fuck plastic surgeons.
	The surgery staff.
	And as a motherfucking crew.
	And if you want to be down with labia shaming, fuck you too.
	Howard Stern, fuck you too.
	All you motherfuckers, fuck you too.
	All of y'all motherfuckers, fuck you.
	Die slow, motherfucker.
	My FOFO makes sure all y'all kids don't grow.
	You motherfuckers can't be us to see us.
	We motherfucking thug life riders.
	Westside till we die out here in California, bro.
	We warn y'all.
	We'll bomb on you, motherfuckers.
	We do our job.
	You think you mob, bro?
	We the motherfucking mob.
	Damn it.
	But yeah, so none of this, like, look, none of this wizard sleeve beef curtains, roast beef, roasty Arby's talk.
	Get that out of here, okay?
	As someone who only dates women with large labia, like this is important for me.
	Like it hurts.
	Sometimes I cry thinking about it.
	All the women chopping their pussy lips off or just feeling insecure.
	I don't like it one bit.
	What kind of woman?
	There's 10,000 labia plasties a year in the USA alone.
	And it's really the pressing issue of our time.
	What do you guys think?
	Just curious.
	What do you guys think about my movement?
	It's a good movement.
	Strong that women are ashamed of themselves.
	Shouldn't be.
	Yeah.
	Has anybody here faced shaming in that department from culture, society?
	A guy?
	No.
	Nobody?
	Nobody ever feels insecure about you know, some like, look, guys can also be insecure down there, you know?
	Are you?
	No, I'm pretty good.
	I've accepted my average lot in life.
	Yeah.
	I'm proud.
	Yeah, I accept.
	Yeah, you know?
	So, yeah.
	All right.
	Good talk.
	Is there a primarily male audience?
	No, it's actually only women who watch the show.
	No.
	No.
	Yeah, it's like, you know, hold on.
	That's crazy.
	That's crazy.
	There's a few.
	Very few.
	Yo, you know, to the women watching, we're going to do this segment a little later, but fuck it.
	I'll just do it right now.
	Hold on.
	Raise your hand if you're a woman.
	Send a TTA.
	To the women in the chat, a couple things.
	Ladies in the chat, first off, let yourself be known in the chat.
	Let yourself be known in the chat.
	But.
	What the fuck?
	Where's all the fucking notes on it?
	Hold on, let me find the goddamn notes.
	One sec, guys.
	Oh my God.
	I have too many notes.
	It's crazy.
	Where did they go?
	You're starting to sound Italian.
	It's crazy.
	It's fucking crazy here.
	What the fuck?
	Oh, of course.
	That's why.
	I see.
	Okay.
	Listen, ladies, I don't know if you remember last show.
	I had a come up.
	I had some women give me money on the podcast.
	Wow.
	Yeah, yeah, they just handed me cash.
	That is.
	I'm glad he didn't come to that one.
	Wait, did you ask the woman to give you cash?
	Look, I'm a starving college student.
	You know, it's, I don't know, they actually.
	I was repulsed.
	I was like, wait, maybe.
	But listen, to the women watching, these girls, they're doubting.
	They're doubting that you're out there.
	So this, you know what?
	I'm going to skip ahead a little bit, at least for the viewers.
	There are women who watch the show.
	And here's what I need you guys to do.
	It's time for your tribute.
	I demand the tribute from the women.
	Just the men, you can kick it.
	You can chill.
	The women watching, I need to see the tribute, the super chat, the Venmo, the Cash App, the Stream Labs.
	I need to see it.
	Don't do it.
	So do it.
	Don't listen to her.
	So yeah, listen.
	These girls, they doubt that the women are out there.
	But trust me, some of the women are my most loyal, ruthless.
	They're fucking ruthless.
	Pick me?
	Not pittnams.
	They're not pick me.
	I'm just saying.
	They're like, one day.
	They got my back, the women.
	Jess, Mara, they got my back.
	That's just to name two.
	Trust me.
	These girls.
	Are those their actual names or are you just naming names?
	Oh, those are some women who watch the show.
	Trust me.
	Catherine, the girl who does my timestamps.
	Tampon?
	What the fuck?
	The girl who does my tampon timestamps, Catherine, she will, she, she, uh, she'll shank a bitch.
	Oh.
	Is that somebody's?
	So, anyways, I don't know.
	I'm all over the place right now.
	Okay, so somebody forgot to take their lithium medication or something.
	Xanax?
	At 7 p.m. It's 5.30.
	Okay, okay.
	You're eager.
	Let's see here.
	All right.
	I'll finish up the intro, though.
	That was a little interesting.
	But did you know that most women don't create an actual YouTube account, but they watch their men are more likely to create accounts to leave comments because they want to leave comments.
	Women more likely watch.
	Unless if they want to actually post on YouTube, content creators or they already have a Gmail account.
	Other than that, they don't create an account to leave comments.
	Men do that.
	All right.
	Cool.
	So anyways, okay.
	Finishing.
	Oh, if you guys, if you can't catch the full shows, we have Eclipse channel, links in the description, Discord.
	We have a discord.gg/slash whatever.
	We post our stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail, research studies, a bunch of other stuff.
	If you're my Caucasian, you will join the Discord.
	We post behind the scenes, et cetera, et cetera.
	Let's see here.
	Oh, a final few things here for this intro.
	If anybody has an iMac G3, DM me on Instagram.
	If anybody has an iBook G3, DM me on this.
	Those are like the old school clamshell laptops from Apple from like 99.
	The iMac G3 is the desktop computer.
	Also, I think 98.99.
	I'm looking to get whatever.
	DM me if you have one.
	Also, I'm hiring for two positions.
	You need to either live or be able to make it to Santa Barbara every Sunday.
	Position one.
	A new helmet girl sidekick.
	You just need to be good looking.
	That's pretty much it.
	You could be a high school dropout.
	You could have dropped out of kindergarten.
	I don't care.
	Kindergarten.
	You don't need a fucking resume.
	I don't care.
	And if you look, if you're good on camera, that helps too.
	But not required.
	I can train you.
	If you're like an introverted autist, I can probably get you somewhat up to speed.
	Position two.
	Position two.
	I need a new soldier sidekick.
	So think Gustavo, old school.
	You wear the soldier uniform.
	Probably be the easiest and funnest job of your life.
	How much are you paying?
	Well, that will be to be determined, to be negotiated.
	You know, I got to see the, you know, I got to see the skill set.
	Are you paying the man and the woman?
	Don't worry.
	The job's not open.
	I don't think anybody.
	Yeah.
	So, anyways, you can DM me on Instagram if you're interested in that.
	Oh, and oh my, sorry, this intro is, I need to reduce this.
	If there's any rich people watching, I see Pacey George in the chat.
	You know what?
	If you want a change of pace in your life, if you're just wondering what to do, you want instant clout, you want instant influence, I'll just sell you whatever.
	My negotiating range is in the eight figures.
	Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the...
	Oh my God, they already did that.
	We're going to do relationship status.
	Excuse me.
	If you're single, can you tell us how long you've been single?
	So, well, first, your relationship status.
	If you're in a relationship, longest relationship?
	Are the yearly recap?
	No, no.
	So just your current.
	So your current relationship status, how long you've been single, and the longest relationship you've ever been in.
	The longest relationship I've been in is three and a half years.
	I'm recently single of two weeks.
	Two weeks?
	Yeah.
	Okay, two weeks.
	3.5 years.
	Longest relationship.
	The one that ended two weeks ago, how long was that?
	Very short.
	A month?
	Yeah, like I thought, yeah.
	Were you boyfriend, girlfriend, or was it just like a situationship?
	I don't know.
	It's complicated.
	But yeah, I was like boyfriend girlfriend for like a week and then what's your orientation?
	Because you're not.
	I'm pansexual.
	You're pan.
	Okay.
	It was a guy, though.
	This time, yeah.
	Okay.
	You've dated women, though?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then you have one kid?
	Yes.
	From the 3.5-year relationship?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	Which one?
	I was like, and I was engaged a couple years back, and it was like on and off for a couple years.
	But on and off for like five years.
	Okay.
	Gotcha.
	Engaged, but never married.
	Is that correct?
	No.
	All right.
	Nick, leave the super chats there for just a sec.
	I just need to make one adjustment.
	Okay.
	Okay, we're good.
	I already pulled them up.
	Oh, these?
	Okay, yeah.
	Thank you guys for the supers.
	All right.
	So one kid.
	How old's your kid?
	He's four.
	Four.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I'm taking longest relationship a year and 11 months.
	Current relationship?
	One year and 11 months.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Haven't been, I'm going to say.
	Sorry, what?
	Haven't been in a relationship.
	Lower the audio.
	I think it's.
	What's your current relationship status?
	Single?
	Single, yeah.
	How long?
	Forever?
	Yeah.
	You're 21?
	So, okay, you haven't been in a relationship.
	What's the longest period of time that you've seen a guy?
	Not long for a guy.
	For a girl, I would say four months.
	Four months.
	Four months, four months.
	So four months longest with a girl.
	Okay, longest for a guy.
	Are you bi or pan?
	I am bi.
	Guys just be weird.
	Okay, so you just have sex with men?
	No.
	You can try, but no.
	What do you mean?
	I'm not down for that.
	To have sex or to have sex with men?
	To have sex.
	Period.
	Oh, so you're asexual.
	Are you a virgin?
	No.
	But are you?
	So are you asexual or?
	If we get in a relationship, y'all.
	But yeah, no.
	Oh, so you're demisexual.
	You can DM me, Pasty.
	What is that?
	Demisexual will mean that you won't really get involved in any sexual relationship unless you actually find an interpersonal connection with that person.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And that's what it is.
	Okay.
	I see.
	It's true.
	Have you been with a man, biblically speaking?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But it's not your preference.
	No.
	You prefer women.
	Yes.
	But sometimes a guy.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So you've never said I love you to somebody.
	Because you said single your whole life.
	So never boyfriend, girlfriend or girlfriend, girlfriend or a friend.
	How do like non-binary people partner?
	Is it your girlfriend or is it they friend?
	They said they said partner.
	Like are you they friend?
	I just made that up by the way.
	That was pretty cool.
	I like it.
	I think in 2020 they used to say joyfriend.
	I'm more impressed than you are, just being honest.
	What?
	In 2020 they used to say joyfriend.
	Wow, that is new for me.
	I've never heard of that.
	Wait, what?
	Interesting.
	Kind of want to be on the building right now.
	Joyfriend?
	Wow.
	Yeah, that was like from the depths of Discord, though.
	I don't know if that was real or like just like Twitter.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	You've really put yourself together since the last time you were.
	And what the hell does that mean?
	Huh?
	That's a compliment.
	Chill out, Nick.
	No, bro.
	What does that mean?
	That's a compliment.
	What do you mean by that?
	I don't know.
	Sometimes I just say things because of the autism.
	Yeah.
	So.
	Good as secure.
	Yeah.
	So, anyways, have you said I love you to anybody?
	Like romantic love, not I love you as a friend, you know?
	Or I love you as a sugar daddy.
	Or I love you as a.
	I've been close to it.
	You've been close.
	Yes.
	Well, okay, you've never said it, but have you been in love?
	Yes.
	Was it with an inanimate object?
	No.
	Because one time we had a girl on the show who, like, she dated trees.
	Oh, she had an sexual attraction to trees.
	Redwoods, to be specific.
	What's wrong with you?
	Is she having sex with her?
	Are you a Redwood hater, son?
	Isabella, balls smeller?
	Guys, I'm not insulting her.
	That's just her Instagram is balls smeller.
	Yep.
	You got to change that shit.
	Yeah, I probably do.
	You're such a lovely, nice lady.
	Aw, do women appreciate being called lady?
	I don't know.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Lady.
	You're a lady.
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	All right.
	So, relationship status?
	Single for about three months now?
	Single for three months.
	Last time you were on the show, were you in a relationship or were you single?
	It was like a situationship.
	But did you say single?
	No.
	Okay.
	So you were.
	Okay.
	So is that the guy that you were the guy?
	Yeah.
	The guy that you were seeing when you were last on the show, is that the one that ended three months ago?
	Yeah.
	Three months ago.
	Okay.
	And have you had a rebound?
	It's complicated.
	It's like a really weird situation.
	Are you like unicorning for Isabella?
	Uh nothing.
	Uh no, we were just like, I don't know.
	It was just like a really weird following.
	Now, yep.
	She's what?
	Filipina now?
	Lesbian.
	Oh, I'm Filipina now.
	Oh, she's you're you're dating women or what's the deal?
	Oh, we'll find out, bro.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that's how I'm feeling too.
	Don't worry.
	Longest relationship?
	Um, a year and nine months, I believe.
	Nick, could you open the door a bit?
	Um year, that's all good.
	Nine months.
	Okay.
	So is there somebody in the picture currently?
	Not in that way, no.
	What do you mean, that way?
	I'm not talking to anyone.
	Are you on any dating apps?
	No.
	I swore on that.
	There's not even somebody you're texting?
	No.
	Communicating with?
	Email?
	Facebook?
	DMs?
	No.
	Smoke signals?
	Smoke signals?
	What is that?
	Okay.
	I got a bad signal in the sky right now.
	The most recent relationship.
	Sorry, how long were you seeing that person?
	Nine months.
	Nine months.
	Was it on again, off again?
	Kind of, yeah.
	Who broke up with who?
	He broke up with me.
	What did you do to him?
	It was like really weird.
	I don't even think he knows why he broke up with me.
	He doesn't know.
	I know.
	No, it was.
	I know why he broke up with you.
	He DM'd me.
	Just kidding.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	But it was just a really weird situation.
	Bella can confirm.
	It was what?
	It was just weird.
	How so?
	Like, I don't know.
	It was just weird.
	Like, he would like.
	What was that mean?
	What does weird mean?
	I don't know.
	Age applications.
	He was just like, he would just lie about random shit.
	So I don't know what he was telling the truth about.
	He would text me one thing, say something else, act a different way.
	Like, he was very bipolar in that way, I guess.
	I don't know.
	Oh, he was bipolar.
	He wasn't actually bipolar.
	He was old in a bomb.
	Stop.
	How old.
	Too old.
	And not in college doing nothing with his life.
	This is not true.
	This is not true.
	She deserves better.
	How old?
	Hello?
	He was 25.
	I was 19.
	It's not.
	He's still bomb.
	That's old.
	He lied about his age when we first met.
	Not doing anything with his life.
	How old was he?
	25.
	He said he was 21 and we met when I was 18.
	Ooh, that doubled the age.
	Trying to be malicious.
	At what point did he reveal his age?
	He didn't.
	I found out.
	Okay, that's pretty.
	Because, you know, maybe, you know, sometimes people do this thing where they like alter their age on a dating app and then they'll say in the bio, not actually, I'm 27, I'm not 24, whatever.
	I found out he told you.
	No, he did not tell me.
	Oh, he.
	Oh, wait.
	Well, wait.
	He didn't tell me.
	He told me he was 21.
	I found out that he was 24 at the time.
	And then.
	Like, when you after you broke up with him or okay, basically, we broke up.
	He broke up with me the first time, and then I was like, something doesn't feel right.
	So then I, like, I did some snooping, and then I found out he was lying about his age.
	And then I texted him again, and I was like, hey, what was that about?
	And then he was like, you weren't supposed to find out about that.
	But did you press him on it?
	What was his explanation?
	He didn't really give me an explanation.
	He was just like, oh, my bad.
	Oh, my bad?
	Yeah, exactly.
	Exactly.
	That's why I'm saying he was weird.
	It was just weird.
	So, I mean, I guess what's your diagnosis?
	Because my impression here is he thought if he said he was older, that would present like a bit of an age gap dynamic, and you might not want to date him.
	Is that fair to say?
	I guess so.
	I really don't know what his deal is.
	Like, I don't want to speak on that, you know?
	Like, I genuinely don't know what's going on that whole time.
	How soon?
	So you said it was nine months, but it was kind of on again, off again?
	How soon into seeing him did y'all find out the lying about the age?
	Three months.
	And you dated this dude for another six months?
	I didn't mind the age gap.
	So he should have just been up front.
	Yeah, he should have just told me and I wouldn't have cared.
	It wouldn't have even been an issue.
	Yeah, and then him lying wouldn't have been a thing, but it was a thing because he lied about it.
	Was it the white guy?
	No.
	I swore off white men.
	Oh boy.
	Sorry.
	Well, look, I think it's fine for people to have racial dating preferences, but like Latino guy.
	Yeah, he was Mexican.
	Mexican guy?
	Okay.
	Huh.
	Why did you swear off white guys?
	My first two boyfriends were white, and I was just like, no, thank you.
	I'm also just like bad experiences.
	And also, I just realized that I'm more attracted to other races.
	Like, I don't actually swear off white guys.
	It's just like, I don't seek them out.
	You know what I mean?
	Sure.
	Can I, I'm curious, though, in terms of like the group, the kinds of people that you move with, would you say that you're part of like an alt, I don't know what the sub, not sub-genre, but like, are you alternative?
	Like, do you go to punk shows?
	Like, what, what, what?
	Like the people I surround myself with?
	What's the term for like a subculture, yeah?
	Yeah, I would say so.
	Like, alt.
	Like, are the guys heavily tatted and depressed?
	Whoa.
	I mean, yeah, I guess so, but that wasn't until like recently.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Because you said your first two exes and they were white guys, right?
	Yeah, but they weren't, no.
	Were they also alt or whatever?
	Second one was like sort of alternative, kind of.
	Not presenting, but like he was alternative in mindset, I guess.
	Okay.
	I'm developing a theory that like, I mean, and I think it just, it's pretty obvious.
	Like just certain subcultures probably like people drawn to those subcultures probably like have a higher representation of mental illness.
	I mean, okay.
	I see what you're trying to get at there.
	Huh?
	Your viewers?
	Oh, my viewers are very mentally healthy.
	Super sane.
	Super sane.
	I've gotten some really nice messages from you.
	You are so not to be mean.
	You're very milquetoast.
	What does that mean?
	Milquetoast, bland.
	Like, you don't have to do that.
	On the show, I am.
	And when I say bland, that's not like as an insult.
	That's just like, you don't really have many fire, like crazy hot takes.
	You're very, you're pretty polite.
	In the middle.
	You've been on two or three times, I think.
	So it's like, I can't imagine, like, people are coming to hate you.
	I don't know.
	No, not hate, not hate, just weird things.
	Weird things.
	Like, what?
	Like, I got, so there's this trans lady that hit me up from your show telling me all about her transition, how she had a husband.
	Like, she had a wife, and she was like, yeah, I treated my wife so bad, and I'm just trying to come to terms with myself as a trans woman.
	Then there's another erotic writer hitting me up being like, tell me to write 10 pages a day and whip me.
	I'm like, I can confirm this, by the way.
	There's some interesting fans you have, I'd say.
	Yeah, I mean, I think with any, obviously in any sort of grouping of people, there's going to be an element of that grouping that, you know, is maybe has something going on.
	You can find this anywhere, though.
	You can find this in the church.
	You can find it.
	Yeah, that's my point.
	Exactly.
	You can find it everywhere.
	Well, yeah, you can find it on the left.
	You can find it on the right.
	But I do think if we're talking about a sort of like generalized increase in prevalence, like for example, and I think they've actually done studies on this, like people who identify as leftist or liberal, there's a higher prevalence of depression amongst this group.
	Okay.
	That's not an attack.
	I'm not saying that as an attack on them.
	It's stereotypical either.
	But there have been studies that indicate that there is a higher prevalence of depression or personality disorders or whatever.
	And maybe you have counter studies that might say, well, conservatives have X, you know, they do this bad thing more, right?
	So, but as it relates to, I think, some of the, like when you start getting into like the music scene and you're going to these mosh pit things, I think that that, look, I'm not saying all people that go to that shit.
	There's, I know great people.
	I know people personally.
	I have some friends that are in the music scene and they go to punk concerts and alt concerts and stuff.
	Yeah.
	But I do think that there's an element when you're drawn to the alt stuff a little bit.
	I'm not saying that it causes it.
	I'm not saying that all people who are drawn to that are it.
	But I think there is a higher prevalence of the people who are drawn to those kind of scenes.
	Like, for example, somebody who has face tattoos, right?
	Full fucking face of face tattoos.
	Yes.
	You could have logically, like you could blast your face and face tattoos and be like a really productive member of society and have no mental health issues.
	I think the prevalence though of people who have full blasted face tattoos, the prevalence of mental illness in that group, personality disorders, is higher than the general population.
	And I'm just saying I love the promiscuous married men scene on your account.
	What?
	The what?
	Promiscuous married men scene, I could say.
	With what?
	Your fans.
	I love the scene.
	I'm just saying I love it.
	Wait, hold on.
	So you're alleging that my audience is predominated by promiscuous married men.
	like cheating infidelity not necessarily cheating just like permit how would they be how would you know they're promiscuous and married uh I don't know.
	There's a council follow me with a bunch of married women.
	Why are you following me?
	I just feel like it's weird that people follow me off your thing.
	This bunch of married men.
	How many followers do you even have on a thousand?
	Okay, but how many followed you from the podcast?
	I'd say over a good 20, especially from the first show I was on.
	Your sample size is 20 followers.
	But still, even then, all of them are still odd.
	From your account, from your account, yes.
	Okay, well, maybe they're drawn to the...
	There's this...
	They want, like, a goth mommy.
	What's that term?
	Anybody in the chat can help me?
	The term for frogs that are brightly colored as a warning sign.
	So I think, I do think there is a thing when you carry yourself with a certain aesthetic.
	You'll attract people, yes.
	You are going to attract.
	So like they see the hair.
	Yeah.
	And they're like, oh, this girl's unique.
	This girl is.
	I'll just go with unique.
	And they're like, okay, I want to fucking follow her, whatever.
	And so I think the hair will kind of attract that in a little bit, you know?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I've been on social media.
	It's just odd.
	Yeah.
	So I don't know.
	Anyway, but how you could, so the women are following you and you say that they're.
	It was one woman.
	The rest was men.
	But yeah, it was one trans woman that texted.
	No, but you said the viewers that were following you were promiscuous or whatever.
	I say so.
	I just feel like they have ill intentions.
	How can you demonstrate that they're promiscuous?
	I can't, but I can look at their account, see their married woman.
	Like, I'm confused.
	I just don't know why they care about my life.
	Why are you wanting to be involved with my life?
	Because I don't have an Instagram.
	But why do they want to be on mine, though?
	I don't know them.
	I mean, I would assume that people just follow people just because.
	But how do you?
	I follow people whose content I want to watch.
	But how do you go from just somebody following you to making a determination?
	Well, first off, I got countless messages.
	Okay.
	And then the other ones, I guess it is kind of an assumption for the others who didn't message me.
	It just looks a little weird, in my opinion.
	If somebody follows you, it looks weird.
	If it's an older man with a wife on their bio and you're following an alternative girl from a podcast, I say it's weird.
	I'm sorry, that's just what I think.
	What content do you make?
	I don't make any.
	She's a landscaper.
	Yeah, I'm studying.
	I'm not making content.
	I just post myself occasionally.
	I don't have 20 followers is a really small sample size.
	In any case, relationship status?
	I'm single.
	I've never been in a relationship, to be honest.
	Longest period of time dating somebody?
	Like talking.
	Honestly, well, I had a sugar daddy, but I wouldn't even talk that because like it wasn't.
	Do you date women?
	No.
	Just men?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And longest period of time?
	Not long.
	I don't know.
	I haven't really talked to anyone for.
	I mean, I'm kind of talking to someone right now, but yeah.
	Sorry, that was counterfeit.
	So you've not.
	For example, have you seen a guy for like a month?
	Or not even?
	Yes.
	Two months, three months?
	What's the longest?
	I'd say like a month.
	But I'm not, honestly, I'm not really like.
	Have you ever been in love?
	No.
	I don't really put myself out there, you guys.
	So one month is the longest period of time you've like tried to see someone, but okay, so you just do casual like I just stayed on my and um we'll get into this once we finish up with everybody else, but you are trans?
	Okay, um, I don't believe you, but um, I think you're trans fishing, but um so isn't that a compliment?
	Yeah, it is so beautiful, and you went viral recently, actually.
	There were some videos of you because you were like on a date with a guy and it was a live stream and you guys kissed and you told him only after that you only after the kiss that you were trans.
	Is that correct?
	Yeah, that's correct.
	Okay.
	She's looking at me like dubiously.
	No, no, can you just tilt your head back and look up to the ceiling?
	No, tilt.
	I'm not doing that.
	Tilt, tilt your head back.
	No, he's trying to clock me.
	He's trying to clock somebody.
	Tilt your head back and look up towards the ceiling.
	Ah.
	See, she's like, what?
	There was an Adam's apple?
	Yeah.
	It's fake.
	It's a fucking.
	Oh, you like her.
	Oh, that's fine.
	You don't want to accept that she's chance.
	Why would that imply that I like her?
	Because you're saying it's fake.
	So you're, what?
	I don't know.
	Okay, the logic is logicking.
	How did you arrive there?
	What's the connection?
	That's for you.
	I'm asking you.
	That's for me.
	Yeah.
	No, I'm just saying you want to accept that she's chance.
	I don't know.
	She can't fake.
	I mean, there are people who are not simple.
	Right, but that's what I'm saying.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	No, but I actually had a question.
	I mean, some women also do can have a little bit of a not like.
	Oh, I'm just gonna go.
	No, I'm like, I don't know.
	My question was to you: why would you wait till after the fact?
	Honestly, I didn't see anything with him or like, I didn't see it going anywhere.
	It was kind of just like it kind of just happened.
	I know, but don't you think that it should be more ideal for you to disclose this information before you encounter like people when it comes to the dating world?
	I guess, but also, like, if I don't have intentions with sleeping someone, why do I need to like throw my information out there?
	Well, because you don't know if that person might have the intentions of sleeping with you.
	Um, I guess does it matter as much if she doesn't have the intention?
	Yeah, they're not gonna sleep together.
	It does.
	It really does for a lot of men, you know, when it comes down to it.
	Because how would I feel if I was dating somebody and I had no idea whether or not that that person was dating me?
	I wasn't dating him.
	We went on a date for my date.
	If it was my way around, I wouldn't care until like I was about to sleep with somebody.
	Yeah, that's just my personal preference.
	But I understand, like, I honestly understand that, like, if I'm gonna sleep with someone, yeah, but see, like, I wouldn't care until that, you know, but for you, you disclose your pansexual.
	That's different.
	So, it's like that's but just for, yeah, yeah, and that's why it's kind of kind of very important for people who are you know straight that you know need to know these kind of things, though.
	You know, like I know it's yes, it's their personal business, their personal life.
	However, when it comes down to it, that like I said, that's why I said, for example, for myself, if I was, you know, I'm not in that dating market, been out of the dating games for nine years, but you know, I'm saying that if I was encountering someone that I happen to be attracted to that I would assume is obviously a man, you know, then yeah, you know, it would be important for me to know and not find out in the bedroom.
	Yeah, you know, no, you gotta say that shit before you even meet in person, you gotta disclose I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
	If you're trans, you're trans, that's okay, yeah, yeah, that's fine, but you gotta disclose that shit before you go.
	I think before you go on a date with the person for your own safety as a trans person, but also in consideration for the other person, too.
	Uh, so a couple questions for you, though, really quick on the trans thing.
	Um, at what um what age did you transition?
	18.
	You transitioned at 18?
	Okay.
	Um, are you uh, what procedures have you had done?
	Um, I haven't had any procedures.
	Do you take uh, do you take any medications or yeah, okay, what are the medications you take?
	Um, well, it's testosterone blocker, or it's just hormones, like what's the name of the medications?
	Um, estradiol, like I don't know, estrogen.
	How many different medications do you take?
	Two, okay.
	But you've been taking them for three years, yeah, but I had a hormone deficiency, so like I didn't really have a like strong male puberty.
	Like, um, my testosterone was at like 90 when I got tested for which is like really low for an 18-year-old.
	Um, okay, but yeah, I started hormones after that.
	Um, okay, have you had any you've had sorry, surgeries or no surgeries?
	Okay, so you have an intact penis, yes, but I was like, it's not like I mean, obviously, it is, but it's not like the same, like, it doesn't work type shit like sensory, I don't know, yeah, because of hormones.
	Yeah, yeah, tea blocker, but honestly, I didn't like I didn't have a strong male puberty like that, like I was never, I never like gooned type shit.
	You never gooned?
	Nah, I'm like, nah, okay, that's just gross.
	I don't, I have dysphoria with that.
	Okay, um, what does it say on your ID?
	Does it say male or female?
	Female, female, okay.
	Did you have that changed or yes, okay, and you transitioned at 18?
	You didn't socially transition before, like you did, you know, clothes or anything.
	No, I mean, I kind of just like I was taking hormones, but didn't really like force it.
	Like, I just let it naturally come because I didn't, because I don't know, I don't want to force like pronouns down people's throats.
	Like, I'll let people call me what they see off the bat.
	So I didn't want to like right off the bat, just like you know.
	But I feel like I was at a point where I was like, all right, bit.
	It's kind of W. Because, yo, chat, what?
	Is she trans fishing?
	They literally.
	I want to call Cap.
	She's just too beautiful.
	I want to call Cap on this.
	I wish.
	I wish.
	This feels like the biggest glaze ever.
	It's not a big deal.
	I don't know what it is.
	Because, dude, claiming trans fishing, isn't that like a huge compliment?
	Like, oh, you passed so well, I don't believe you.
	But there's a thing, because even when on OF, like, girls were actually portraying themselves as trans just to make money.
	Oh, wow.
	Oh, yeah.
	And some of them weren't.
	Yeah.
	So you said you take two medications?
	Yeah.
	Oh, actually, three.
	I forgot.
	What are the name of the medications?
	Pagestion.
	Estradiol, like a shot.
	And then spirinoctin.
	Spirinoctin.
	Yeah, that like blocks the.
	Even though I don't take it, because usually people take it every day.
	I do every other day because I don't really produce a lot of testosterone naturally.
	Because I have a deficiency.
	So the doctor was literally like, yeah, you either need to start testosterone or estrogen because your bones are going to be so weak because my hormones were just so low naturally.
	The thing that is, I think, at least for me, is the voice.
	The voice is very convincing, I guess you could say.
	But I can kind of hear it after she said that.
	After she said what?
	She was trans.
	Like, do you have to modulate your voice?
	Are you modulating your voice?
	but this is how you just free flow naturally.
	Yeah, I didn't, my voice is always like this.
	I didn't really have a deep voice.
	Were you getting gay allegations before?
	What do you mean?
	No, yeah, I used to think I was a lesbian.
	Like- The voice is way too convincing.
	sorry that's why I'm I'm on like I'm doubtful because the voices I don't know why you trying me to It's so annoying.
	Is very feminine.
	Like, it's a female voice.
	I don't detect any dude in the voice.
	There's no penis in the voice, you know?
	That's the goal, I think.
	Thanks.
	Would it be inappropriate?
	Oh, my God.
	What?
	I don't know.
	I'm.
	All right, I guess we got to step off camera and you got to show me your dick.
	No, just kidding.
	Kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	Oh, you hashtag.
	Burritos.
	Burritos guy.
	Kidding.
	You guys thought.
	Got to see the dick.
	Whip it out.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	All right.
	Fun times.
	Good talk.
	We'll do the video in a sec.
	Let me get the rest of the relationship stats from everybody.
	Relationship status.
	I recently got out of a long-term relationship.
	So you're single?
	No, I'm dating somebody.
	Oh, okay.
	How long?
	How long what?
	The new person you've been?
	Oh, like a couple weeks.
	Okay, but you recently got out of, okay, so when did you get out of the long relationship, I guess?
	Like a month and a half ago.
	Okay, and how long were you dating that person?
	Almost four years.
	So longest relationship?
	Four years?
	Yes.
	Who broke up with who?
	He broke up with me.
	He broke up with you?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Was it on again off again or was there consistent?
	Was there a reason why he broke up with you?
	Yes.
	What was the reason?
	Infidelity?
	No.
	We had a lot of issues.
	Like, I had tried to break up with him before, And I just like couldn't do it.
	And then, I don't know, I think there were like some trust issues, and he didn't like certain things that I was doing.
	And I felt kind of like trapped by him.
	What were the things you were doing he didn't like?
	Like, just going out places like by myself.
	Bars.
	No, not bars.
	Like, I went to Six Flags one day just by myself.
	And he thought he got really mad about that.
	And yeah, I mean, I would go out different places to like.
	You went alone?
	Yeah.
	You didn't even go with like girlfriends just alone.
	No, I just went by myself.
	Okay.
	That's kind of dope, not gonna lie.
	Yeah, right?
	Sometimes you gotta do shit on.
	I know.
	Like, I'm not on.
	Was he was he kind of like always needing to be around you?
	No, not at all.
	Oh, so what was it?
	He just hurt making him stand in line.
	No, I literally wanted to go.
	How old was this guy?
	How old was he?
	He was older.
	How old?
	Like in his 40s.
	A motherfucking 40 year old.
	I would be.
	If I was dating a younger chick and she's like begging me to go to all these places with her that I don't give a shit about, I'd be like, was he, is he a Disney, one of these Disney adults?
	No, Then what the fuck is this guy whining about?
	I would love it if my girlfriend was like, hey, Brian, I know you fucking hate amusement parks.
	I'm going to just go to the amusement park.
	Have fun.
	Yeah.
	I don't have to go with you.
	Perfect.
	Go by yourself.
	Yeah, he knows that.
	Wow, he fumbled.
	He fumbled.
	Okay, thank you.
	I've been, yeah.
	But wait, question.
	Did you like, you tell him you were gone?
	Yeah, I told him.
	And then he was cool with it, but got mad after the funny thing?
	No, he wasn't cool with it.
	Oh, okay.
	So you told him.
	Yeah.
	And he was upset and you went anyway.
	Yeah.
	So what was the reason he gave you?
	Did he give you a reason?
	Why he's mad?
	Why he didn't want you to go?
	Oh, yeah.
	It's, I mean, or to all these things I've gone to alone.
	It's like a safety thing for him.
	He thinks I'm not safe.
	And he.
	Legoland, where was it?
	Six flags.
	Six flags.
	Not safe.
	Yeah.
	I feel like the amusement parks are pretty safe.
	It was also like a.
	He had a lot of trust issues, I think, because he was very insecure.
	So he always thought anytime I was going somewhere, I was going to cheat on him or something.
	Okay.
	So in any case, would you say the big straw that broke the camel's back was the going to the amusement park?
	No, that wasn't the big thing.
	That was just like fun example.
	I had a friend at work that I would like hang out with.
	Guyfriend?
	Yeah.
	Okay, you done fucked up.
	Yeah.
	You fucked up.
	It was your fucking job.
	What was it?
	The job husband?
	Work husband.
	Work husband.
	So, okay.
	I mean, to be fair, like a few months before, I had kind of tried to break up with him and I was kind of like emotionally checked out since then.
	And I'm not making excuses, but I will say like when he finally broke up with me, I was just kind of like, okay.
	Like even after four years, which sucks.
	But I mean, the last few months, I was kind of really not into it at all.
	So.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So you were hanging out outside of work with your male co-worker.
	Yes.
	And you were in a four-year relationship with this guy.
	When you were hanging out with the male co-worker, would it be like, okay, we're going to grab a bite to eat after work?
	No, we were.
	Or would it be, we're not even working today.
	I'm going to go kick it with fucking whatever, isn't it?
	Justin.
	No.
	We were literally like after work.
	We were just.
	But you never on a day.
	I mean, that's still bad.
	But on a day where there wasn't work, would you guys hang out?
	Oh, no, no, no.
	Okay, so after work, y'all would go hang out.
	What time would you get off work?
	Uh, like between eight and nine.
	So, okay.
	Even worse.
	I could, okay, it's we're getting off at 2 p.m. and we're grabbing a bite to eat.
	It's daytime, whatever.
	At night, you're kicking it with this guy.
	And then, did you ever, would he ever come to your place?
	My friend?
	The guy?
	Yeah, your friend.
	No, no.
	Did you go to his house?
	No.
	Okay.
	Hmm.
	So your boyfriend, though, would he tell you he has an issue with it?
	Yeah.
	Because this seems like a pattern of behavior.
	Correct me if I'm wrong.
	What do you mean?
	A pattern of behavior with me?
	Like you would.
	It wasn't just a one-time thing.
	You would frequently hang out with this guy.
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	So he told you he didn't like it.
	Yeah.
	Correct?
	And then you kept doing it anyway?
	Yeah.
	So I'm just curious.
	You've been dating a guy for four years.
	How long were you at this job for?
	Like since the beginning of this year, so.
	Okay, so you'd already been dating the dude for three years.
	You get a new job.
	And then you're kicking it with some random work husband or whatever.
	Are you dating him now?
	The work guy?
	No.
	Okay.
	Good question.
	I guess my further question on this is: knowing that it made your boyfriend of three years uncomfortable, and he expressed this to you, why did you continue doing it?
	I think it was very much the way he went about it and because he has so much issues with things I had done in the past that he didn't like, well, like, for instance, going to Six Flags or going like anywhere by myself, really.
	Well, by yourself is different than, but how was the way he went about it?
	Like, he was just very disrespectful specifically to this person.
	Wait, disrespectful to you or to the guy?
	To the guy.
	Well, hold on.
	When you say he was disrespectful to the guy, you would be talking to your boyfriend one-on-one, and would he be talking shit about the other guy?
	Or are you saying he met the dude?
	Hello, you can answer the question.
	No, he met the dude, but like later.
	Are you saying he would be disrespectful to the dude to his face?
	No.
	Okay, so when it's just you and him, your boyfriend of three years or whatever at the time, four years, whatever.
	He would be like, hey, fuck that guy.
	I don't like that guy.
	Not like that's worse.
	Help me out here.
	I'm a little frustrated.
	No, he was just like.
	How was your boyfriend being disrespectful to your work husband?
	He wasn't my work husband.
	Whatever, whatever.
	He was just very rude.
	I mean, like, he.
	How so?
	Okay.
	How?
	Like, making fun of him, like, as if he were disabled, even though he wasn't.
	Okay, like calling him a retard or something.
	Yeah, kind of.
	W sounds like a W to me.
	Okay, what else?
	How was he disrespectful?
	It was just the way that I felt like he was not trusting me and feeling like he wanted to be very controlling.
	Like he wanted to know like where I was all the time.
	And in the last few months, he got like very insecure.
	And like.
	Wait, wait, wait, but hold on.
	So how soon.
	Okay, you got this job like a year ago.
	Yeah.
	House, and the co-worker, he was there too from the beginning, right?
	No.
	Okay, he got a job at what point?
	Like a few months ago, like over the summer.
	Okay, so new guy starts working there, and then you start hanging out with another man.
	Okay.
	And then your boyfriend brings it up.
	How like could because he knows he sees you with him what what no because like I would tell him that I would like hang out with him and he would and the okay.
	So the first time you told him hey, I'm hanging out with my male co-worker at 9 p.m. at night What was his reaction?
	He was just kind of like oh haha like that's cool like he really didn't care at first at first yeah, but okay, so you kept hanging out with him And then he at some point he had an issue with it.
	Okay, and so the first time he raises the issue is a couple weeks in probably like a month or so a month or so in okay Does he go about it politely then?
	No.
	Okay, so putting aside that he's doesn't like the guy because the guy I was the guy single the co-worker?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	He doesn't like the guy.
	He thinks the guy's trying to move in on his girlfriend of three, four years, whatever.
	He you say he's just he's talking disrespectfully about the other guy, by the way, the guy who's not your boyfriend.
	How are how's he being disrespectful or rude to you?
	Like, how is he approaching it that you feel was not the right way?
	Because you said he didn't go about it the right way.
	How so?
	Like I said, he was just being rude and not trusting me.
	But what?
	When you say he wasn't rude, in and of it, because obviously, look, let's just go ahead and grant he was insecure.
	He didn't like your hanging out with this guy.
	Let's grant it.
	But when you, was it just in and of itself him being rude that he didn't want you to hang out with the guy?
	Or like, are you his tone wasn't good?
	Yeah, his tone.
	Okay, how was his tone?
	Demonstrate it.
	Like angry, like he would yell at me.
	And I just.
	The first time he brought it up?
	No, not the first time, like later, but I just feel like...
	But the first time he was like, hey, I'm not comfortable with this.
	Can you, the first time?
	Oh, the first time he was.
	No, no, no.
	The first time he raised the issue.
	Tell me the dynamic there.
	He was angry about it.
	He was like yelling at me and he was belittling me.
	But I guess my confusion here is he was initially cool with it and then just light switch, he flipped?
	Or was this a thing progressively he became concerned with?
	If it was a thing that progressively he became concerned with, he never brought it up to me.
	So it was like to me a light.
	Okay, can you demonstrate his tone or voice?
	You can raise your voice.
	That's fine.
	No, I mean, he just like.
	No, okay.
	Well, I'm not going to raise my voice.
	Like, I don't yell at him.
	He was just like yelling at me.
	I understand that's not something you would do, but to demonstrate for us so we can get an understanding of, you know, the dynamic.
	So what?
	Okay, remember earlier in the show where I was like, my faux faux makes it like when I was raising that.
	I don't do that.
	No.
	Was it that crazy?
	I mean, kind of, yeah.
	Okay.
	So your boyfriend of three and a half years says you're kicking it at 9, 10, 11.
	What was the latest you typically hang out with the guy?
	Because you said you got off at 8, 9 p.m.
	Yeah.
	So you guys could kick it.
	Were you guys living together?
	Who?
	Me and my boyfriend?
	Well, I don't know.
	You could be asking about the guy.
	Who else you living with?
	Well, you could be asking about the guy.
	With the co-worker you living with?
	I don't know.
	You just got to go.
	Where are you living with your boyfriend?
	No.
	Okay.
	So you would be kicking it with the guy until midnight?
	Yeah.
	Sometimes.
	1 a.m.?
	No.
	Okay, around midnight.
	That's fucking hours.
	That's fucking hours.
	That's not, we're just platonic friend hours.
	That's, I'm fucking your girlfriend hours.
	So anyway, but okay.
	I'm confused though.
	Was the relationship up until co-worker situation?
	Otherwise, look, people have arguments and disagreements in relationships.
	There's rocky patches, whatever.
	Was the relationship otherwise good up until the co-worker stuff?
	I wouldn't say so.
	Okay, so there were other issues.
	Yeah.
	Was it related to jealousy on his part, or were there other issues?
	Yeah, I guess, no, I wouldn't say jealousy, really.
	Okay.
	Was the relationship good at any point?
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	If he had asked you not to hang out with this, assuming the relationship had been as good as it was earlier on in the relationship, and he asked you not to hang out with this co-worker guy, would you have done it?
	No.
	Okay, so even if you're in the most amazing relationship you've ever been in and the guy's perfect and amazing and this could be the one, if he simply asks you not to hang out with a male co-worker at midnight, you would tell him no.
	Well, it depends on how he would say it.
	Who cares?
	Well, hold on.
	Whoa, who cares how he says it?
	Because why do I have to make decisions based on what he wants?
	Why would you have to make decisions?
	That's how relationships are.
	Repeat that shit, please.
	Repeat that shit for me.
	Going back, the reason.
	No, no, no, wait, wait.
	Before you go back, just repeat.
	Why would I have to make decisions based on the person who you love?
	Okay.
	Right.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Why would you have to ever, you know, compromise in a relationship?
	Why would you like to have a relationship with me?
	No, That's all I'm saying.
	That's what I'm saying.
	You know, try to because that was the big issue for me in our relationship was that he wasn't like compromising for compromising to allow you to compromising to let you continue hanging out with your male coworker at midnight.
	No, not that.
	There are other issues.
	Okay, so it was tit for tat then.
	If you won't do this for me, I won't do this for you.
	Okay, so I I'm okay I think this is the problem that we're seeing in a lot of relationships nowadays is that people are not establishing conversations to letting each other know what exactly they want.
	No, I think I was really clear with him several times what I want and I kept giving him chances and that was my mistake.
	Can I ask you something?
	Yeah.
	Will it be, I mean, I guess if you were still in the relationship, will it be okay with you if he hangs out with a female coworker until midnight?
	Yeah, I don't care.
	And I told him that.
	Yeah, I'm not so sure about that.
	People are sneaky.
	Yep.
	Girl TV is you were dead wrong for that.
	I'm sorry.
	But so in a if you were seeing a guy, are you saying that if he politely, you know, he was like, hey, look, I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with your coworker.
	Would you would you stop seeing the coworker then?
	Assuming he went about it, he asked you politely?
	Honestly, yeah, like probably.
	Okay, so I think there's two issues here.
	I think with your boyfriend or girlfriend, this applies to both men or women.
	You should attempt to resolve things in a measured, you know, you should try to avoid, you know, screaming matches and yelling.
	That's bad.
	And look, I understand also, though, sometimes, hey, sometimes things can be really upsetting.
	And sometimes you're emotional.
	And sometimes you might raise your voice a bit.
	I understand that too.
	But I generally think, yes, it is best to try to, you know, communicate in a calm, measured way without, you know, name calling or yelling or, you know, insults or anything like that.
	But with the caveat that sometimes people, we got to give people grace.
	People aren't perfect.
	Sometimes people can be upset by things and they can, you know, say things or raise their voice when maybe in retrospect, they wish they didn't.
	There's two issues here, though.
	I don't think you get to do this thing where, like, if you cheat on your partner and they yell at you, that doesn't then give you some perfect get-out of jail-free justification.
	Well, you raised your voice at me and you yelled at me, so I'm going to continue the behavior that you dislike.
	In this case, I think we can acknowledge two wrongs.
	He shouldn't have raised his voice at you.
	However, he was correct on this particular issue.
	I think he has perfect justification for his three and a half-year girlfriend to not be hanging out with her male coworker at midnight.
	And if even though he didn't go about it the right way, you then snipered in, narrowed in on, oh, well, now that your tone was inappropriate, I'm going to use that as permanent justification to continue doing this behavior that you dislike.
	Two things can be wrong at the same time.
	In this case, you should have had a separate conversation with him.
	Hey, I don't like how you're talking to me.
	But also, I understand that this is upsetting to you.
	I care about you.
	We've been dating for three and a half years.
	If this really bothers you, I won't hang out with him.
	But do you think it's inappropriate for somebody in a relationship to not want their significant other hanging out with somebody of the opposite sex late at night?
	I mean, no, like, I feel like that's not unreasonable, but like, I don't know.
	Like I said, like, if he had a female co-worker that he was hanging out with, like, I wouldn't have a problem with it.
	Well, I understand that you wouldn't have an issue with it, but there's not perfect symmetry all the time in respective boundaries in a relationship.
	What might be okay for one person might not be okay for the other.
	It's like an unspoken rule when it comes down to relationships.
	I mean, maybe we can ask the panelists here, and look, some people are more okay with certain things in their relationship, friends with the opposite sex, that sort of stuff.
	Those of you who've been listening to what she's describing here, would you be okay with your boyfriend of three and a half years going to hang out with a female coworker at midnight regularly after the shift?
	No, no.
	I'd feel a little weird about it.
	I'd want to have tabs.
	Yeah.
	No?
	Absolutely not.
	Wouldn't it be cool with it?
	This would be a talk.
	Like, I wouldn't just let it slide.
	No, it would be a whole conversation.
	Okay.
	And I have to say, like, I was in a similar situation where I was in your shoes, and guess what I did?
	I set boundaries and I stopped talking to the guy.
	Wait, sorry, um, Nick, did we do the, I just want, we gotta, we can't have a flash, Nick.
	I got it.
	Oh, man.
	No, I didn't do a pain check.
	Are you wearing, you are wearing underwear?
	Yeah, I have boy shorts underneath.
	Okay, good, Sorry.
	We were about to get a either a pussy slip or a dick slip.
	I don't even know.
	I don't even know what could have happened.
	Okay, so, okay, so in a future relationship, just curious though, if you were dating this guy and he said, hey, I'm not comfortable with this, what would happen?
	Have you not talked in?
	No, I'm in a future relationship?
	I mean, if there weren't like the pre-existing issues that we had, then I would probably be more okay with it.
	I mean, y'all should have probably broken up at three years, two years.
	No, I'm saying, and that's why I said I've tried to break up with him in the past.
	I'm like, I just couldn't do it.
	When you say you couldn't do it, like, because I've had this experience with women, and maybe y'all have had, like, and it's kind of scary, not going to lie, maybe it's probably scarier for women, a little bit, I think, where, like, you try to end things with somebody, and they don't really take, like, they're a little, they don't take no for an answer.
	Yeah.
	Like, I've done, try to break up with chicks, and it's like stalker situation.
	Like, you know, and or, you know, they're, they're, they're persistent.
	I've also had the per not like scary stalker, but like they're, they don't, no, they, they keep, no, can we get back together?
	Can we come back?
	You know?
	So when you say you try to break up with him, like you, like, you, you said, hey, I'm sorry, Bill.
	I can't, it's over.
	Or you, you wanted to break up, but you didn't have the courage.
	Oh, no, there were a couple times when I said, like, we need to break up, and like, and then what happened?
	And then I just like kept going back to him because I don't know, part of me was like the, I guess, safety and comfort of being in a relationship for so long.
	So you would, you guys would do the sort of a breakup.
	And when you say you would go back to him, like, how many times did the breakup things happen?
	Oh, like, two or three times.
	Two or three times.
	And you, you would go back to him?
	Yeah.
	Like, I mean, he would reach out to me.
	He would.
	He'd be like sending me like long text messages being like, oh, like, come on, we can work this out or whatever.
	And like, I would like give in.
	I'd go back to that.
	Okay.
	All right.
	All right.
	And I'd like to also say, I'm not justifying, like, I'm not trying to say like I'm right or whatever.
	I'm just like a very independent and like kind of like headstrong person.
	And like, I'm going to hang out with who I want to hang out with.
	And if I'm in a relationship, yes, I can like respect what like my partner wants for me and make compromises and stuff.
	But like there's a, I don't know.
	I just feel like as many things as I kind of like not gave up for him, but just like had to compromise my time and what things I wanted to do for him.
	Like, and it wasn't in his case, even for like a person.
	Like, I just feel like he could have been a little bit more like respectful.
	And yeah.
	So I'm not saying that I'm right.
	But like I said, the last few months, like I had been checked out, kind of.
	So when he did break up with me, I was just kind of like, okay.
	But him getting mad.
	Maybe this is going to come across the wrong way.
	But he was invested in the relationship.
	No, he wasn't.
	Okay, well, look, I don't know all the details.
	I could be wrong.
	But he was, my impression would be he's fighting for the relationship.
	He's like, yo, this is a problem.
	This is a problem.
	The whole hanging out with a coworker guy.
	And like, I mean, if it was me, like, if I was dating a girl and I was like, hey, listen, I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with this coworker guy at, you know, well, at any time, but at midnight, I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with a coworker.
	And she gave me any attitude about that.
	It's over.
	I'm not going to, I don't do friction in relationships.
	I'm not going to do that.
	Like, it's over.
	You have any pushback against me on that.
	You want to do that?
	That's cool.
	Be single.
	That's fine.
	I'm not going to, I'm not going, you know, negotiate with you.
	So, but he was, he, he was, from my perspective, again, I don't know all the details.
	He was fighting for the relationship.
	Okay.
	I mean, but that was also one of my problems is that I felt like he only fought for the relationship like when I was literally having like threaten to break up with him, basically.
	I don't know.
	I don't know how you get around the whole hanging out with a co-worker thing at all.
	I'm not trying to get around it.
	Like I said, it's over.
	But you said you're like headstrong, you're independent.
	Yeah.
	Maybe you should just become a nun.
	Well, I don't know if you have the chops for either you got to date like a guy.
	Independent and headstrong women can still be in like relationships.
	I mean, you just got to be on the same page with the other person.
	I mean, I'm not getting into the whole backstory of me and this guy because, like, there was much more to the relationship.
	I'm sure there's a lot, but I don't know.
	I think that look, if you're sure, headstrong, independent women, independent and being in a relationship depending on what you mean by independent, is sort of contradictory to a degree.
	I guess it depends a bit on what you mean by independent.
	I just mean like I don't, I'm not like a codependent or I'm not like relying on a man or like if he can't do something with me, like if he can't hang out with me, then yeah, I'm gonna go like six flags by myself or do something like that and I don't mind.
	Like I'm not gonna throw a fit about that.
	I think it's okay to do things alone.
	I think it's okay to want, you know, your own.
	I'm in that same way.
	I enjoy my time alone.
	I don't, I can't be hanging out with somebody 24.
	Like I need my own time.
	I need to decompress.
	So I guess I understand that.
	But I think that it's not, I don't think it's a crazy ask in a relationship to be like, hey, I don't think it would be an infringement on your independence or you being headstrong to acknowledge.
	Like, I don't know, how far do you take it?
	Like, would it be an infringement of your independence if a boyfriend was like, hey, I don't want you to fuck that guy?
	Well, that's different.
	To me, that's different.
	And there might be some men and women out there that you can date that will be okay.
	Oh, you want to just hang out with a person of the opposite sex?
	Whatever.
	Don't care.
	You should date.
	I think you'll.
	But I think honestly, you ask most people.
	I think most people will have an issue with the situation as described.
	So people, when they're in relationships, they can't hang out with people of the opposite sex.
	I mean, I think there is a degree of impropriety, generally speaking.
	Yeah, because when it does come down to that, you have to take consideration of what may happen if you make that decision.
	You know what I mean?
	Like when you're involved in a relationship, you have to think to yourself, this person may not like what I'm doing here.
	I need to talk to that person first, not just make that decision right off the bat.
	Okay.
	I'll move it on, though, just I don't want to beat a dead horse.
	You broke up with him, the four-year relationship guy, how long ago?
	Well, like a month and a half ago.
	And you've been dating this new guy for three weeks.
	Like two or three weeks ago.
	You said a few weeks.
	Did you know that?
	How did you meet this person?
	On an on dating app.
	Okay, so this is fresh.
	Like you, you did not know this person while you were dating your ex.
	No.
	Okay.
	It's a pretty quick rebound.
	Like I said, I was checked out for the last few months, so I was just ready to move on.
	My philosophy is: wait, he broke up with you or you broke up with him?
	He broke up with me.
	Okay.
	My philosophy is: typically it can sometimes be a bad look if like you're in a relationship and then you're with somebody new like super quick.
	The person being broken up with, they can do whatever they want.
	I think that's like In terms of the bad look, like if you break up with somebody and you're with somebody the next day or the next week, that can be hurtful to the other person.
	But if you're doing the breaking up and you got somebody a week later, if you got dumped, the other person can't complain.
	I think that's my perspective.
	That's fair.
	So pretty quick, pretty quick, but hey, you got broken up with, so I think it's fair game.
	What about you?
	Relationship status?
	Married, and I've been with my husband for nine years.
	Kids?
	Kids?
	I have two.
	One, seven, one, 17.
	One seven, one, seven.
	How long have you been.
	How long were you with your husband before you were married?
	Because you were married.
	Sorry, you're married for nine years or together for nine years?
	We've been together for nine years.
	I'm sorry.
	Married for seven.
	Okay, so you have one kid from your husband.
	Yes.
	And then a kid from a previous relationship.
	Yes.
	You're a kid, right?
	Not like a stepkid.
	Bio kid.
	You're a bio kid.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So two kids.
	Okay.
	Two different fathers, correct?
	Okay.
	The nine-year relationship, is that your longest relationship?
	No.
	Which one?
	How long was your longest relationship?
	My previous marriage was 10 years.
	You've been married twice?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	I was married on the other side.
	And that was your other kid, correct?
	Yeah, my oldest.
	I see.
	Okay.
	Your oldest kid is 17.
	Yes.
	Okay, so you have a teenage pregnancy?
	No.
	Or just the cutoff?
	Well, you're 37, right?
	So I was 20 when I had her.
	She's going to be 17.
	But hold on.
	I was 19 when you got.
	I was pregnant at 19.
	Teenage pregnancy.
	Teenage pregnancy.
	Sure.
	But you gave birth.
	You gave birth at 20.
	At 20.
	Gotcha.
	So, okay.
	Who initiated the divorce for the first marriage?
	Unfortunately, I initiated the divorce.
	Okay.
	Does he pay you child support?
	No.
	Has he ever paid you child support?
	No, I did not ask for it.
	Do you have split custody?
	Or full custody of your first kid?
	It's full on both ends.
	We never initiated that in the courts.
	So does he visit or?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Is it wait, sorry, so shared custody or?
	Yes.
	I guess.
	Okay, okay.
	I thought you said full custody.
	Yeah.
	Well, is it shared custody or full custody?
	I mean, wherever she wants to go, she makes that decision.
	They don't have a court order.
	There's no court involved.
	No care.
	All right.
	You guys figured it out without the involvement of the legal system.
	That's good.
	Yeah.
	Hate it.
	But you did dissolve the marriage, right?
	You got a divorce.
	Yes.
	Does he pay?
	Did he pay you alimony?
	No.
	I didn't ask for that either.
	All right.
	Pretty reasonable.
	Okay.
	And what about you?
	Well, I don't know.
	As far as I know.
	Relationship status?
	Well, as far as I know, I'm still married, despite leaving him for over 15 years now.
	Well, back in 2013 when I left Saudi Arabia.
	Okay.
	He is married and he has a tenant.
	Well, you're separated, fair to say?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So you're still legally married, though?
	As far as I know.
	Okay.
	And you were married in Saudi Arabia.
	Is that correct?
	Yeah.
	Where did you live in Saudi Arabia?
	Was it, what's the name of the big city?
	Riyadh?
	No.
	Is Riyadh?
	It is, yeah.
	That's the capital, but I wasn't there.
	I was in the eastern province.
	What's the name of the city?
	Hufuf.
	Oh, yeah.
	That's a nice.
	That's a nice name.
	I like it.
	So, okay.
	But you're separated.
	I understand the legal technicality there, but are you dating anybody?
	No, not any.
	Okay, so you're single.
	How long have you been single?
	For like a decade.
	10 years?
	Have you been celibate for?
	For the most part, yeah.
	You've been celibate for 10 years?
	Like, was Obama still president the last time he had sex?
	Really, Brian?
	All right.
	So there are questions.
	I prefer to keep them, you know.
	Sure, that's okay.
	All right.
	We get the idea.
	We get the idea.
	I'm single.
	You have a kid, correct?
	Correct, yeah.
	One kid?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	From your marriage.
	Correct.
	Okay.
	Have you done any dating in America?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Have you ever pulled a rabbit out of your pussy?
	Okay, sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	I knew you're a magician.
	I had to sell that.
	You don't have to answer that.
	I don't know.
	Sexy magician, you know?
	No.
	Sorry, that was my autism.
	It is.
	The autism fucking got me.
	Okay, so that would be kind of hot, though, if you're like.
	There is actually a magician who did that.
	Who does magic?
	He gets a lady, supposedly from the audience.
	He lays her down and then he pulls up a rabbit from between her legs.
	Whoa.
	Nice.
	That's cool.
	Or maybe not.
	Maybe that's inappropriate.
	But yeah.
	That would be kind of hot, though.
	Like, if you're having sex with a girl and then she just starts doing magic tricks.
	Like, that'd be cool.
	Oh, I thought you would say it.
	She pulls a rabbit.
	I was like, what kind of string?
	No, that would be alarming.
	That would be really alarming.
	I freak out.
	There's like a fireball or something.
	Yeah.
	Again, freak out.
	Yeah, I mean, she's doing like sleight of hand.
	Well, usually.
	I can make your dick disappear.
	One of you guys tried the O method.
	I was like, I'm going to kind of first date.
	What was that?
	The O method.
	Were you manifest while you managed to die?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I've heard of it.
	What is it?
	Were you manifest while it's the idea that when you orgasm, it's like that's your like highest vibrational intensity in the universe.
	It's like the power of attraction.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Not to say that I necessarily believe in it, but that's what it is.
	I feel like it works.
	Claim donated $200.
	Hey, Brian.
	I upset.
	Emo bangs.
	Most of us are high-earning good men who enjoy a laugh.
	Purple shirt.
	If someone is emotionally invested, you have to respect their wishes.
	Reciprocate.
	Do you want to respond to that?
	I mean, I was also emotionally invested for so long, and I felt like he didn't reciprocate.
	So.
	Okay.
	Well, you know, you know how it is.
	Sometimes things happen.
	But you know what?
	To be fair, like metalheads, they're pretty chill.
	Those guys are pretty chill.
	Depends.
	They're pretty good.
	They're good people.
	They're good people.
	Yo, Tricia, thank you for the merch purchase.
	I'm going to have Isabella, you get to read.
	For the panel, how should a man correct a woman he's with if he asks nicely and she still doesn't change?
	Yelling at her is verbal abuse.
	Putting hands on her is physical abuse.
	Ignoring her is emotional abuse.
	Not paying for a shit is financial abuse.
	Thank you, Northumberland, Mr. We're going to answer that.
	Tricia, thank you for the.
	It looks like you bought a hoodie on the merch store.
	Thank you, Tricia.
	So, ladies, for the panel, how should a man correct the woman he's with?
	Well, he shouldn't be saying correct.
	Like, why couldn't it?
	I think it's related to her situation where it's like, you know.
	No, but that's where he got it wrong because he automatically went to, I need to correct her.
	And it's like.
	I think that's okay.
	I'm fine with correct.
	Well, I'm not.
	I mean, to be fair, don't we correct our men when they're having poor behaviors?
	Yes.
	I would say have a discussion, but not correct.
	Oh, we do, in fact, do it sometimes.
	I mean, I'm guilty of that myself sometimes.
	You know, but that's something that...
	I just feel like that's controlling language.
	We shouldn't be correcting our partners.
	We shouldn't correct ourselves and our behaviors.
	We should be addressing our partners, not correcting them.
	Yeah, like I think it's okay to set boundaries and like have that discussion, but like correct, I think is where it automatically went to like, because he's talking about, well, if I do all these other things, it's abusive.
	But it's like, well, yeah, because you started off with correct.
	Like we're starting off with control.
	It's have a conversation.
	Yes.
	Set boundaries.
	And everyone has different boundaries.
	Like some people care about social media and likes and some people don't.
	And that's where it leads to that.
	Correct.
	But that's important.
	That would naturally follow correcting our own behaviors when we are being talked to about certain things that we disagree with.
	Mr. Northumberland, thank you for the soup chat.
	I do appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Okay.
	That's everybody's relationship status.
	I have, we have some really interesting things to get into.
	Oh, we need to do her trans thing, her video.
	What the fuck does that mean?
	Her trans thing?
	We need to, not just quite yet.
	I did want to quickly ask, so you're from Saudi Arabia.
	Is anybody here, anybody else here, like born in a different country or have citizenship from a different country?
	Or like maybe you're second generation immigrant, like your parents came from like, you know, Mexico or Peru, wherever, somewhere.
	My mother came from Mexico.
	And mom came from Mexico.
	Mexico.
	I'm first generation, yeah.
	What's your background?
	Philippines.
	Both your parents, Philippines.
	Okay.
	Anybody else?
	Lauren?
	No?
	No?
	Italian?
	What do you?
	My last name's Italian, but it's for my stepdad.
	I'm Spanish and I'm also Native American.
	Native American, okay, gotcha.
	So your parents, Mexico, your mom, Mexico, the Philippines, Mexico, and then Saudi Arabia.
	I'm sorry, but my eye, because you keep doing that.
	Sorry, I have good.
	Control.
	Yes.
	Are you on the pathway to citizenship?
	Well, kind of.
	So when you grant the asylum, basically you're just allowed to stay here until you become eligible to apply for a green card.
	Only if you apply for a green card is when you're on the path of citizenship.
	You don't have to go that route, but you can.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Question for you, you.
	I guess you and you.
	In a morally neutral, blame-free, hypothetical conflict between the United States and your birth country or the originating country of your guys' parents, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?
	With the America.
	So if America went to war with the Philippines, would you have allegiance to the United States or to the Philippines?
	I'd have to say, like, I'd have to, like, listen to what my family would want.
	Not that I would just automatically go wherever they go, but like, that would, it depends on what they would want to do.
	Just as like a cultural thing, like, you listen to your family.
	What do you think your parents would do?
	I have no idea.
	Are your parents, are they first-generation immigrants?
	Yeah, like they came here themselves.
	From the Philippines.
	Okay.
	And have they, though, become citizens of the United States?
	Okay.
	They've naturalized.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	They have naturalized citizenship.
	As far as I know.
	Have any inclination?
	I know it's a bit of an interesting hypothetical, but if you were to ask them this question, hey, mom, hey, dad, if United States went to war with the Philippines, would your allegiance be to the United States or to the Philippines?
	I really have no idea what they would say because they don't really talk about that kind of stuff, so I don't really know.
	Okay.
	But are you asking like me personally?
	How yeah, because well you deferred, you said I would defer to my what my parents wanted.
	Let's say your parents were not in the picture as it relates to this decision though.
	Would you be more, would you have allegiance to the United States or to the Philippines?
	I'd say United States just because like I've never been to the Philippines really so I wouldn't even like what am I doing there, you know?
	Now, what if your parents, because you were saying, well, I'd have to see what my parents think.
	What if your parents were like, shit, we're going back?
	Well, if your parents went back to the Philippines, like if there's a war with the Philippines and they're like, we're going back, would you go back with them or would you stay here?
	I'd say so.
	I'd be like, there's very few things that would convince me to leave my parents.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	How about your parents?
	They stay in the United States, but they say our allegiance is to the Philippines.
	I would understand.
	I would probably agree with them.
	But would your allegiance be to the Philippines?
	Me personally?
	I should have you call them.
	Boy, my dad doesn't even know I'm here.
	Can you text them, like text them, be like, hey, if the United States went to war in a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United States and the Philippines, to which country is your allegiance?
	I'd actually wait.
	Do you dads want me?
	Dude, slide me a 20, slide me a 20.
	Why the fuck would I have to pay you for that?
	I'm joking.
	Just text them.
	Text them.
	Here, to your Instagram, I'll send you, I'll actually send you the question to text them.
	Just copy and paste.
	Yeah.
	So I'm going to call her or text her.
	No, not call, just text.
	Just text.
	I'm going to send that to you.
	It says Sisio.
	It's like on a stick.
	For you, for if I don't know, the United States went to war with Mexico, where would your allegiance be?
	America.
	Okay.
	There's like a Hello Kitty sticker on it.
	And then for you, if the United States went to war with Saudi Arabia, to which country would your allegiance be?
	First of all, they both are like good allies.
	So, well, I currently only have one citizenship, which is to Saudi Arabia.
	However, and both countries, I cannot issue a passport from either countries.
	So I still like some rights.
	Hold on.
	I sent you the Instagram message if you want to copy and paste that.
	Go ahead.
	So yeah, as I was saying, either countries would allow me to issue a passport at this point.
	However, this country provided me a safe home and my freedom for me and my child.
	It would suck for my family back home.
	But are you on the pathway to citizenship?
	Well, I have not applied for the green card yet.
	I just got applied to the private.
	But is your son, daughter?
	Was he born?
	Sorry, she was she born?
	She was born in Saudi Arabia.
	Okay.
	Has she become a citizen of the United States?
	Okay.
	Her case is linked to mine.
	I see.
	Okay.
	I mean, do you have plans to go back to Saudi Arabia?
	No.
	So you're going to stay here.
	Yeah.
	You're going to live here.
	Yeah.
	You're going to work here.
	Yeah.
	You're going to pay taxes here.
	Yeah.
	Well, I'm paying taxes here.
	I'm working here.
	I'm loving here.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Yeah.
	So I think you're about to get to the answer, though.
	So to which country is your allegiance?
	I did get to the answer, though.
	I said, I well, this country provided me a safe home and my daughter a safe home and freedom.
	I would side with America.
	Okay, all right, let me know when you get an answer.
	Okay, she said America.
	Your mom said America.
	I think I think it has to do with the fact that yes, my parents did come here, like from the Philippines, but they came here very young.
	My dad came here when he was two, my mom was 16 okay, so that has to do with it.
	Like definitely, we're still like connected to our culture.
	It's more a matter of like we're here yeah, yeah.
	So the question isn't like, I think you can have allegiance to the United States and that's not a rejection of your culture of origin, it's not a rejection of familiar.
	You know, if you have family that still lives there, it's not like you have to break your bonds with them, but it's simply just like a pull your political allegiance in wartime.
	So you know what's interesting?
	I think there's actually something about first generation immigrants like who come here.
	So they basically they were born in a, you know different, different country.
	They come here.
	They're first generation immigrants.
	Second gen would be like the children of those people.
	They tend to have more patriotism to the United States than their children.
	Just something interesting, I don't know, I thought it was interesting.
	Question, are you Muslim?
	Well, I'm not religious, not religious, but did you have to wear a hijab?
	Yeah well, not just the hijab.
	Like, what do they wear inside?
	Is it the the niqab?
	Correct, but where?
	Where I grew up, when I was a child, even the niqab would be like too much, too revealing niqab.
	Niqab is the one where the eyes so there's only the eyes are showing.
	There's the burqa.
	The nikaba burka is different then.
	Uh, the burqa is um, it's something that traditionally um, like worn in like Emirats and stuff like that.
	Just, it's like a small mask thingy on the face that doesn't even cover the face.
	The niqab covers the entire face with the exception of the eyes.
	Um, that was uh, being considered too revealing where I grew up.
	Uh oh wow so uh, we were forced to even cover the eyes.
	Damn, how do you see?
	Is it like a message?
	Uh, you don't have to see?
	Oh actually no no well actually, when the fabric is close to your face oh, see through a little bit kind of see through, but like still, like at night and when it's dark, like it would be tricky and fallen and everything so, but they don't care.
	Uh, let's see what do we have to get?
	We're gonna do normally we do this a little later on in the show, but we're gonna actually do it right now.
	Um oh really okay, we'll do the rating, then we'll do, but first we have to do her videos.
	Uh Nick, let's go ahead and do those.
	Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video 100, read 200 tts in the U.s or israel, go ahead playing.
	Disgusting, I want to go home.
	Damn, you used to talk as shit.
	Fuck, I'm British.
	Excuse me?
	No, but then I gotta tell you something.
	What?
	Hi, Ki.
	I'm trans.
	I'm trans.
	Aw.
	You're lying.
	Fuck!
	What do you mean by that?
	Imagine, though, if it was his first kiss and he's, like, so excited to kiss a girl and then he's, like...
	What, is she not a girl?
	Huh?
	That guy...
	No no, like in his hat contact.
	Is that a color contact, or does he actually So he actually has heterochromia?
	I think so.
	That's where two different eye colors.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So, um, what happened?
	So that went kind of viral.
	Um, did he end up smashing or?
	Um, no.
	But we're still like talking.
	Did he care, really?
	Um, I mean, obviously it was kind of shocking, but I feel like you were on a boat.
	Was that a boat?
	Yeah, it was like an ass once.
	Listen.
	You can't.
	You can't do that shit on a boat.
	He's trapped.
	Or she's trapped.
	Yeah, I was about to say.
	It's not even just.
	Because of the implication.
	What implication?
	Well, you know, if you bring a woman on a boat, because of the implication.
	It was honestly like, it just happened so fast.
	What I'm referencing?
	Okay, sorry, go ahead.
	I don't know.
	Everything happens.
	It's always funny in Philip.
	Oh, I get you.
	Because of the implication.
	Nobody, okay.
	They don't watch TV, I guess.
	Sorry.
	So what happened so fast?
	Just like everything.
	I obviously didn't anticipate, like, oh, my God, I'm a tricking.
	Wait, can you hold?
	Can you?
	I have small hands, but.
	My hand size.
	Okay, wow.
	You do have large hands.
	Yeah.
	I mean, to be fair, I have very dainty man-hands.
	My friends.
	I don't have, you know.
	I have friends that are like the same size hands as me.
	Like, I feel like not every feature is going to be perfect.
	And that's okay.
	I feel like nails make your hands some bigger, too.
	True.
	Mines are so tiny for me.
	Do you have a nose job?
	Yeah.
	you said you had no surgery i thought you meant like that's not gender surgery Yeah, I meant like any procedures.
	Oh, I thought you meant like that.
	But that's the only thing.
	Like, but you have boobs, lip filler?
	No.
	Okay.
	Was the nose job like gender for me?
	No, it was like a film.
	I just wanted it, period.
	Yeah.
	Her lips look natural.
	You thought I had lip filler?
	Period.
	It's just like a lip liner.
	So...
	I mean, come on, Brian.
	They make these trees now where they actually.
	Did he ask her in the show?
	So you're, wait, question.
	You said your stuff doesn't work.
	Your equipment doesn't work?
	Yes, it does not.
	It doesn't.
	I have no testosterone.
	She explained earlier.
	I have no testosterone in my body, so wait, I'm going to get breaked or something.
	I thought they could still get I don't know I mean, they like, some would take pills.
	What are your pronouns, by the way?
	Are you she, her, they, them?
	What?
	It.
	Come on.
	No, I'm playing.
	Caesar.
	I mean, obviously she, but I don't, like, force it.
	Like, I don't want to be like, my pronoun, like, you know, I don't force it and everyone calls me she.
	It is ma'am.
	It is mess.
	Yeah, that's not.
	I don't, I'm not gonna.
	It's always done.
	I'm not gonna force it.
	Mess.
	Okay.
	And then do we have video number.
	Oh, wait, check my messages.
	Oh, no.
	Oh, hell no, your ass got clicked.
	I feel like it didn't answer his question, though.
	Like, when you go on a boat with someone, like, they invite you all in a boat.
	The implications of you are.
	I'm so confused.
	Like, genuinely, what's the implication?
	I don't think I get it.
	I'm just terrifying.
	What if this guy would have done something?
	Yeah.
	Is this like at the Echo Park, like swan boats?
	Yeah.
	Oh, Bruin.
	What's the implication?
	Oh, yeah.
	She could have encountered someone that definitely would have been violent.
	Could have been fucking detective back there.
	He was streaming though, so I don't think he'd want to ruin his streaming reputation in truth.
	In public, have you done any OnlyFan stuff?
	No, I never will.
	Never.
	I don't need to.
	W.
	I don't know.
	I'm not convinced yet.
	I don't know.
	Is that why you ask him?
	He doesn't know.
	But yeah, I feel like a lot of people look for signs or like, or like when I tell them, they'll be like, let me look for what to give it away.
	But I feel like all women, like, not, nobody has like 100% feminine features.
	Like, some women, you know what I mean?
	There's really tall women.
	There's women, like, so I don't know.
	Yeah.
	I don't hate my masculine features.
	Yeah.
	Feminine.
	I like my height.
	I like everything about it.
	Masculinity is not exclusive to either gender.
	Both can have that.
	Is that like spy or something?
	Can you lift your neck and shit?
	Stop trying to call me.
	Brian, I confirmed this to you earlier.
	I'm not getting caught no more.
	I'm not doing this shit.
	No.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I guess that's got to be a compliment, though, to a trans person if you're questioning if they're actually a chick.
	Yeah, that's what I was saying earlier.
	Like, this is the biggest glaze ever.
	I know, I'm like, it's not a glaze.
	I'm just.
	No, you're like, I do not believe this.
	Not for two seconds.
	Let me see it.
	Drop a bit.
	Because there is a phenomenon online, especially with like certain content creators, called trans fishing.
	Like, especially with OF girls.
	I know you don't do OF allegedly.
	I believe you.
	I believe you on the OF stuff.
	Where they like pretend to be trans.
	And it's like a thing.
	Is trans even like beneficial in OF?
	Like, why are we?
	People fetishize it.
	I feel like it would be more.
	I don't know.
	Like, I wouldn't apply it.
	Are you pee standing up?
	Sitting down, bro.
	My whole life always sat down.
	My dad used to beat me, bro.
	Oh.
	Because I was in a lot of, like, he wanted me to stand up, but.
	Hold on.
	Your dad beat you because you would sit down to pee.
	How would he see?
	Well, he would just thank me.
	Well, no, okay.
	I'm just kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	No, when I was little.
	Like potty training?
	I'm just kidding.
	Yeah, or no, not potty training, but just like, I don't know.
	That's weird.
	When you needed help, going to the bathroom and he'd be in you.
	He'd be like, no, but like, no, it's definitely like early age, like when I was little.
	But yeah, he would be like, uh, yeah.
	So he would like, you'd be like, boy, stand up with him.
	I'm like, I don't want to sit.
	You don't sit down anymore, right?
	Oh, I see how it is.
	So, like, I always sit down.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	Like, what am I going to stand up?
	There's other cultures where they actually encourage men to sit while you.
	I've heard that.
	Next video.
	Next video, we'll do it.
	There's more videos before.
	There's two videos we're going to watch.
	Yo.
	Is this the next one?
	The same person.
	I play?
	Same guy.
	W asked her.
	Oh, this looks like.
	Are you crying?
	I'm so sorry.
	Max love of all.
	You're really a nigga?
	Not anymore.
	What do you mean, not anymore?
	Like, I did the work and I'm doing the work.
	So you actually changed.
	Wait, that's a fake contact.
	Come on.
	Looks fake.
	That's fair.
	That's cute.
	You made me want to cry too.
	Like, I really didn't need to do that too.
	So I kissed a big.
	Sorry, bro.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	Oh, well, hold here.
	Bro, please.
	Wait, is he actually crying?
	Yeah, was he playing with you or was this real?
	Bro, this is rage, babe.
	I fucking, this is fucking.
	This is rage bait.
	So, you think it's all fake?
	I don't look.
	I don't believe.
	I don't know.
	Maybe you maybe you do have a penis.
	But I think that shit, that you know, people, people like stage shit for content, whatever.
	There's one more clip, though.
	We got one more clip.
	We got one more clip.
	I think I know which one.
	Hopefully, yeah, play it.
	So, you're taking a lie detector.
	I never seen this clip.
	You were in it.
	I know, but I never see you actually have a penis No, you actually have a penis You're the guy fucked.
	Oh, yeah, I'm close.
	Next question.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm close.
	He's looking at me like you have a penis.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Aren't these lie detector tests like unreliable?
	Supposedly.
	They are not, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, and apparently there's some that I think some people say that guys kind of can sometimes be in on it.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I will say, from my experience, like hey, Nick, do you feel comfortable?
	No.
	Comfortable with that?
	Oh my god, wait, what are we asking?
	I know.
	Maybe not finishing sentences.
	Bro, you're the host.
	You're supposed to be talking.
	Yeah, I was wondering if you were gonna finish it.
	If you're just gonna sit there, you know.
	Synthetism.
	Anyways, wow.
	You want him to take me to the bathroom and confirm?
	Had us all in suspense.
	I mean, I didn't say that.
	That's bro.
	That's an offer.
	But, anyways, I will say, I will say that, like, that guy never, like, he wasn't in on anything.
	He literally just, like, I don't know.
	And he, like, showed his computer.
	He would show the hurry.
	I guess it's just off heart rate, but there is a way to, like, finesse it.
	Like, I was looking into it after.
	Bro, it's the voice.
	It's like you talk like a girl.
	Like, there's a certain girl.
	But there's a certain way women like talk, and either you've got that shit fucking wired.
	I'm just myself, but I did grow up like all sisters.
	And like, I never really had trans friends.
	I was always surrounded by like women, like biological women.
	Wait, you didn't transition until you were 18.
	Yeah, so like you went through puberty.
	Yeah, but my testosterone was so low that like it was like it was 90 when I got it.
	Are you intersexual?
	It's like her testosterone.
	Your testosterone was like the whole thing.
	Like that's the what makes your voice large.
	Yeah, because I didn't have testosterone for real.
	All right.
	Well, if some I would never ask this because I'm a professional, but if someone were to ask you, like, hey, just to verify, can I see your penis?
	Like, would you do it?
	Or no.
	Because I would never ask that because I'm a professional.
	Okay, okay.
	I'm just asking if somebody, if somebody, not me, not my producer, if somebody were to ask that, would you actually do it like as a verification process to see the penis?
	Like who Brian is giving me?
	You got to pick.
	You want to pick?
	Like, I mean, Nick's a better looking guy than me.
	I'll do her now.
	Just kidding.
	I'm playing.
	Nick, would you be comfortable with that?
	Bro, I'm not showing nobody my shit.
	Yeah, she don't gotta do that.
	I'm not showing nobody my shit.
	We're messing around, guys.
	We're messing around.
	So, anyways, I wasn't.
	Anyways, we got some more videos, though.
	We got some more videos we got to get to.
	With Lauren, I guess, Nick, let's do that first video from my homegirl Lauren here.
	First video.
	Yeah.
	If you're enjoying the stream, like the video.
	Read 100, TTS200, streamlines.com/slash whatever.
	W's in the chat.
	Oh, no.
	You might have to lower the.
	This is a long video.
	You're going to play the whole thing.
	We'll play like a minute.
	Wait, Nick, is there the three the three dots at the top?
	Yeah.
	Click it.
	Put the speed.
	Speed?
	Click?
	1.25.
	Whatever.
	Probably didn't.
	Me having a four-minute video.
	Yeah.
	Okay, if you guys, if you guys ever have a date, or a day with a single mom, don't cancel the day off, okay?
	And I knew it, though.
	I knew it, though.
	I mentally prepared myself.
	I guess not enough.
	But I knew he was going to cancel because normally they always check in the day off or the day before, and he didn't.
	So I was already mentally preparing myself, and I gave him a time frame.
	I'm like, maybe he's just not, you know, he's older, like, maybe, I don't know.
	They tend to not communicate as much over text.
	And he's tried calling me twice and I just happened to miss it.
	So he actually did call me, okay, right before that deadline that I made in my head.
	Because I'm like, I would, because it's not just my night, okay?
	Then I plan for.
	I was like, here's the thing.
	Here's my everything a single mom has to go through.
	What snacks are my son gonna have, right?
	What snacks?
	So, um, are they soft enough snacks so he doesn't choke when he's with the sitter?
	Do I have the choking machine set out for the sitter?
	Um, then I also bought him toys yesterday to play with the sitter.
	So they have like play-do-do and like fun activities to play together.
	Because I'm also worried about the sitter.
	Is the sitter gonna like not, you know, um, have a good time?
	Like, like, I want to make sure she has a good time with my son because if they don't have anything to do, they just put him in front of the iPad.
	And if I'm paying for you, well, guys, since the guy's paying for you, you better be playing my son.
	So I buy activities so then I play.
	Anyway, long story turn.
	Not the activities.
	You know, got a pedicure, okay, because I didn't want crusty feet.
	And then today, I went to go with the dresses because I just didn't like the dress that I had.
	I realized I don't have a fucking purse.
	And so I'm like walking around and I'm thinking, I'm like, but if he cancels, you know, I can't get this anyway.
	And honestly, I couldn't even get it.
	Honestly, I didn't even get myself any like any dresses or anything.
	So it was just like, I don't know, you know.
	And he calls to cancel.
	And you know what?
	He did.
	At first, I thought it was like really nice.
	But then I ended up sending it back.
	And I know you guys are going to think I'm crazy, but he gave me $400 because he canceled.
	And at first, I was like, well, I was like, I was wanting to see you.
	And then I was like, because I was sad.
	I cried yesterday because I knew he was going to cancel.
	So I was sad.
	And I was like, well, at least I didn't get nothing out of this, you know?
	Like, and then I was like, well, that's so sweet.
	Go ahead and pause it.
	So we kind of get the idea a little bit there.
	One thing really quick before we dive into the reaction to that video.
	There's a couple couple branched conversations from there.
	Okay.
	Nick's, it's 7:05 p.m.
	Do you want to take your birth control?
	I would love to.
	There it is, everyone.
	There it is.
	There it is.
	It's not a project placement, by the way.
	She just asked me to remind you.
	No, you want one?
	I think it has progesterone or whatever.
	Yeah.
	It has hormones.
	I used to have to take them.
	Oh, but I can't.
	She did ask me.
	She asked me to remind her at 7.
	So I, you know, I got it.
	I'm late.
	I'm going to get pregnant now because of you.
	Wait, what?
	Oh.
	It's supposed to be on the dot, but it's not.
	Oh, really?
	Okay, we can talk after the show.
	Oh, yeah, I love you.
	I love you.
	All right.
	So, anyways, I don't know.
	I'd rather not get a feminist pregnant.
	I can fix her, though.
	So, anyways, Lauren.
	Oh, okay, guys.
	Okay, moving on.
	The video, the video, you okay, so you had a date scheduled with this guy.
	Was it the first date?
	Yes, but we've already met and like talked and things like that.
	We met at like a pool.
	So, basically, how soon, like it was an hour before the date.
	When did he cancel?
	Two hours before.
	Two hours before.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then he felt bad and he sent you 400.
	Yeah.
	And did you, you sent it back or you kept it?
	I did send it back.
	Did he send it back?
	No.
	Okay, so.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Because I felt like it was in that moment, I felt like it would be more powerful to send it back and just say, just don't cancel on another single mom like that quickly.
	It was about sending a message.
	Yeah.
	It was about the principle.
	Because he's like a wealthy guy.
	Like he probably, like, women are like, oh, you're sure, whatever.
	Like, I'll take your money.
	And like, what you did was fine.
	I was like, what you did was not fine because it was two hours before.
	Like, at least gave me like a 24-hour notice.
	I see.
	But it's all the things that like women think about.
	Like, women in general think about so much before a date.
	But a single mom, like, I have to schedule a sitter.
	I have to do all these things.
	So it's like, if things cancel last minute, it's not only like my schedule that's messed up, it's my sitter's schedule that's messed up.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	And did you end up going on a date with him?
	No, but down the road.
	No, and the whole reason that we didn't do that is because we literally lived in different states.
	Like we just didn't see anything happen.
	And I was going to go to East Asia.
	So I see.
	And then, you know, I wonder if we do.
	You have.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Two images, Nick.
	Two images.
	You also have like a bullshit price list or something.
	I do.
	We're going to pull that up.
	Can you zoom in on that a little bit, Nick?
	So this is if you're, I guess, dating a guy.
	Yeah.
	I have a higher price list, though, too.
	I have two different.
	Oh, you should have sent us the higher one.
	Okay, this is the lower one.
	I like did it.
	Can you read each of those options for the first time?
	Yeah, if you like a girl's video.
	See, this is how my prenup would look too, by the way.
	But if you like a girl's photo video at $50 per like, if you DM a girl, it's $100.
	If you're caught in a lie, $200.
	If you're best friends with a girl, $500 each.
	Oh, shit.
	If you unblock.
	No, if you want to be unblocked, it's $1,000.
	And texting an ex is $2,000.
	You got to.
	But that depends on tax brackets.
	There's two different ones.
	I charge $5,000 for an unblock.
	Can you send those?
	So those are rookie numbers.
	You got to pump those numbers up.
	Well, yeah, you have to pull up my other one.
	So I'll send it to you.
	If it was like her situation, what would have been the price list for if it was a dude doing that shit?
	I don't think.
	It's over.
	Like hanging out with a coworker at night?
	If he hung out with a coworker, I would consider that a girl best friend.
	And then I would.
	What's the price for that?
	I would have to.
	And then next photo, Nick.
	Next photo, though.
	Normalize charging men for bullshit in 2025.
	Yeah, that's actually a good idea.
	I love it.
	No, I believe it.
	Because, see, men respect money more than women.
	So I feel like if you hold them accountable, hold on, menu.
	And you put a price on something.
	Yeah, because once you hold them accountable, you're like, no, I'm not going to let you get away with this.
	And I think that they'll actually listen.
	You know, I do the same thing, actually.
	I charge bullshit.
	How does that work?
	I charge women for bullshit.
	And I'm going to collect today.
	I'm going to collect today, Lauren.
	So, you know, I kind of have to wait until Camilla is back at the table for this one.
	Ladies, do not do this.
	Do not set us back.
	I'm working so hard.
	Make sure that we don't send them money.
	But I will say, I will say, bro, he just wants to get her alone.
	Oh, no.
	Leave her alone, please.
	Bro, he needs that.
	How should I need that?
	Leave it alone.
	So, okay.
	No, yeah, at this point.
	As there HR, you can send.
	I feel like there's rehr.
	Yeah, okay, Nick.
	What do you think?
	Yeah, we're good.
	We're chilling.
	So, all right.
	So, you know, nobody here's a sex worker, right?
	No.
	W, fucking W.
	Yeah.
	But whatever podcast has been, what's that term?
	Typecast a little bit.
	I don't know if that's exactly the right word, stereotypes.
	Oh, you only bring on OnlyFans girls.
	The majority of our guests actually don't do OnlyFans.
	Maybe on a panel, sometimes we have one or two, many times none.
	Sometimes more.
	We've had more, sometimes three, four.
	But mostly it's, yeah, you know, so no, no OnlyFans girls here tonight.
	Do selling feet pics count?
	Yes.
	You shouldn't have said that shit because that's kind of sex worker, a little bit sex worker territory.
	Yeah, it is because the guys.
	We know what it's for.
	It's like intersexual reasons.
	We know what he's doing.
	So, but even though none of y'all are involved in sex work, I'd like to do this role reversal with the women who are sex workers, where, you know, but even like, let me ask this: who here has had like a guy just randomly send you money for no fucking reason?
	Like some simp.
	Here's a hundred bucks, 20 bucks, whatever it is.
	Well, what do you think about the 400?
	Oh, you've definitely gotten money from dudes just sending you money, I'm sure.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, and like on social media, because I'm a single mom, so sometimes they just like to help me out.
	Yeah, I didn't mean to interrupt you, though.
	You said, what about you're about to say?
	Oh, because like my situation, I don't know if that was for no reason, but it was kind of like he wanted like incentive.
	The 400.
	You got money?
	Have you ever gotten money from a dude, sent you money, paid for your rent?
	This sort of thing?
	More like he saw me, well, a couple men see me on the street and they'd be like, Can I give you some money to hang out with me?
	And I'd be like, Yeah.
	Fuck you, too.
	Oh, sorry, I mean, what the fuck?
	Yeah, nigga, we will both mash you.
	What?
	Sorry.
	Okay, so on the street, guys are just like, here's some cash.
	Yeah, like, I'd be walking down.
	Oh, my God, you're so beautiful.
	Sometimes guys try and follow me, and then it's like, you got to bring the taser out.
	And it's like, oh, my God.
	The taser?
	Is that real?
	Yeah.
	Guys, like, it's like, it's mainly in LA, though.
	You'd be walking out the street and they'd be like, are you a sex worker?
	No.
	Can I give you money for this?
	No.
	Go on the street and go find a hoe.
	Find a hoe on the street.
	Okay.
	Have you ever been sent money by like a simp or something?
	They've offered.
	I said no.
	They've offered, but you've turned it down.
	You sold feet pics?
	No, but.
	What's your shoe size, by the way?
	He's inquiring.
	He wants to know.
	Okay.
	You say women's.
	I actually, I can wear kids.
	I don't fit men's.
	That's not fair.
	Has a simp ever sent you money?
	Really?
	Yes.
	What about you?
	You too?
	Has a guy like ever just simped and sent you money?
	No.
	No.
	All right.
	So, you know, regardless, I like to do a role reversal, though.
	Typically, it's with the workers, you know, where because they have such a frequency of men just sending them money, just simping.
	Simping.
	But even normal girls who don't do sex work, guys will sometimes just simp.
	So tonight, on the whatever podcast.
	You're going to simp?
	What the?
	What the fuck?
	Excuse.
	Hold on.
	Yolanda has to do that.
	But what does simp even mean?
	To simp.
	Like, to goon.
	To do too much.
	To love women, like actually love women.
	Love women.
	Or like women.
	I feel like men who do that, like you don't even have to question if they're straight or not.
	They obviously just love women.
	They might be straight, but they might be cucks, too.
	Yeah.
	But the rule reversal is women for the longest time have been receiving money.
	Maybe it's dinners, maybe it's whatever, steaks.
	Sometimes girls just get sent steaks and shit.
	I don't know, like frozen steaks.
	Read this.
	They get sent.
	You just get sent stuff.
	You get free stuff.
	You get, you know, guys will just buy you shit, whatever.
	They'll just give you money.
	This is your opportunity to show the patriarchy.
	Take a stand as strong, independent women.
	I want all of you to reverse that shit.
	It shouldn't be this one-directional thing.
	I want you women right now to go get your wallets.
	I have not cashed.
	And I'd like some cash, please.
	I have not cashed.
	That is not.
	That is not what the.
	Hold on.
	Who among you, as a true feminist, can sit here and get your wallets?
	Yeah, I'm not a feminist.
	And bestow upon me.
	I'm a starving college student.
	I'm a starving college.
	So you're rich.
	I'm a starving artist.
	Who here will give me a bit of money?
	The circumstances here are starkly different.
	You cannot even compare these two.
	How about this?
	Let's start with this.
	I'll sit here and say, who has cash?
	Who has cash on them?
	Cash, Will you give me some cash?
	No, I don't need this.
	You keep saying that you're a college student.
	I'm a student in three different students.
	No, no, no, no.
	Can you put this on?
	I'll give you cash.
	Nah, I'm good.
	No, no, because I mean, that's what we're doing.
	No, you keep saying that you're a college student.
	I'm a student in three different schools.
	Like, I'm doing a lot of things, and I need to pay for my thing.
	So as an independent woman, as a feminist, I'm going to do what I need for me as a woman.
	I love that.
	I messed it into flat.
	Will you give me, you have some cash?
	Can you give me some cash?
	No.
	Don't set us back.
	I don't understand.
	That doesn't prove anything.
	It doesn't set women back.
	No, no, no.
	It sets women forward.
	No, because if you truly, women don't have to give men anything.
	They don't.
	Don't give them cash or money.
	I mean, I'm not like robbing you guys, right?
	You don't have to do it.
	It's volunteer.
	You're volunteering.
	So I'm not.
	Yeah, they don't have to.
	No, you don't have to.
	But that's not what feminism is, and that's not what the patriarchy is.
	Us giving men money doesn't equal the playing field.
	Yeah, it does.
	Well, the difference would be like, it's not really changing anything because you're not my anything.
	You're not anything to me.
	Exactly.
	It's different.
	If we're in a relationship and I'm paying for your steak, I'm paying for you to go do some nails.
	You know, we have the way that men pay for it.
	But you're not in my early dates.
	Like, women also like how much is an eyeshadow palette?
	How much is like her nails?
	That's why men like pay for dates and things.
	You think so you look at it as more as a transaction?
	No, I don't look at it as a transaction.
	But you just, you just mentioned it because it was a transaction.
	You just mentioned it when women are paying their way through makeup, dresses, heels, whatever that they're doing before the date.
	Do you think that that's what that's giving back as far as what men are doing?
	No, I just think it's like, you know, women are held to a certain standard to look a certain way.
	And that costs money for us to get to women.
	Typically, men don't care about the makeup.
	Yeah, I don't go to dates with makeup on.
	I have a question on this.
	So, you're not going to be able to do that.
	But you mentioned, well, women spend money on XYZ, so men should pay for it.
	Is that the only reason men should pay for dates?
	I also think it's like, you know, the stakes for women to go on a date is higher than the stakes for men to go on.
	Well, quick before we get into that separate argument, you say women spend more money getting ready.
	Yeah, and that's one of the justifications for women.
	So, in a scenario where I could demonstrate that I spend more money getting ready, are you okay with a woman fully paying for the date?
	No.
	Okay, so then why would that even be an argument then?
	Can you repeat the question?
	Well, essentially, if I can say, like, let's say I'm super wealthy, right?
	Because it's conceivable.
	Like, let's say a guy who you would agree that a guy could go out with a woman.
	I'm not saying he's broke, but he could go out with a woman who earns more money than him and she has a luxury taste and she might spend a ton of money on makeup, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, right?
	But couldn't the reverse also be true?
	Where I'm a really high-earning guy going on a date with a girl who's not broke, but she makes $70,000 a year and I make a million.
	And I show up to and I pick her up in a Lamborghini.
	I've definitely spent more money showing up to that date than she did.
	Yeah, but so if I show up in my Lamborghini and my Rolex and my custom suit and whatever, whatever, whatever, I've spent more money on, you know, in preparation, showing up for that date.
	Should she then pay for the date?
	Even though I, well, yeah, I'll leave it at that.
	Yeah, well, okay.
	And like, and I spent fine, but should she, should she fully pay for the whole date?
	No.
	But I spent more money getting ready.
	And then, yeah, but it's also more than that.
	But I'm just examining that specific logic on that.
	Because why make it?
	And then do you want to jump into like the other two?
	Yeah, so you mentioned safety.
	So right, the women have more at stake.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	I sort of disagree.
	Like, if as a woman, you genuinely have a fear that like with a, I think women can have general fear, but as it relates to a specific guy, if you are generally scared and this is what's at stake, you probably shouldn't go on the date.
	Well, so here's the thing: I've been in DV relationships before, and it's not something, and that's why this matters to me.
	It's not something that you're going to see right away.
	Can women also commit domestic violence?
	Yes, yes.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	1,000%.
	And if we remove, like, I'll go ahead and grant that generally speaking, men are physically stronger than women.
	Do you agree?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	But like with a knife, for example, can a man and a woman do the same damage?
	A knife?
	Yes.
	They can.
	Because he has more muscles, more, you know.
	Assuming the woman has enough strength and the knife is sharp enough, yes, I would.
	Like, okay, for example, a stronger man versus a weaker woman and they both have a knife, I would tend to agree with you that the man is going to have a better time, better time, I don't know if better times the right.
	He's going to kill her.
	And he's probably going to get slashed a bit.
	But a woman who has a knife and a man who doesn't, I don't care if you're a man or a woman.
	If your partner walks up behind you and stabs you in the neck, you're probably going to die, regardless of the fact that women, generally speaking, have less strength.
	If a woman has a firearm, She can definitely kill you.
	Yeah.
	So, and I guess my confusion here then is: well, if you're if your argument is, well, down the road, there's a chance of domestic violence, women can also perpetrate domestic violence.
	Yeah, that's true.
	And they do.
	And then that goes to my third point, also, because women depends on what type of relationship you want, too.
	You know, and everyone wants different relationships, has different boundaries, and has different ways that they like their relationship.
	But for me, if I'm going to have children, then yes, he needs to spend more so that I know that he's financially stable to support a family.
	Can I ask you a question?
	How many first dates have you been on in your entire life?
	In my entire, like, I don't need an exact number, but do you think it's over 100?
	No, like 30.
	30 first dates.
	Yeah.
	How many children do you have?
	One.
	Hmm.
	Okay.
	I have a question.
	Well, you didn't get pregnant from all the men.
	I didn't sleep with all of them.
	Right.
	Well, even further.
	But this idea, I don't know if it totally makes sense if the justification for men paying on first dates is you pregnancy because you don't get pregnant.
	But that's what I'm there for the date for.
	You don't get pregnant.
	No, to see if this could be a potential partner.
	I'm not just dating to date.
	I'm seeing if that's a potential partner.
	So for me, that's why my standards are the way that they are.
	Okay, so, so I yeah, I agree with her with that point.
	It looked like you wanted to come in.
	Yeah, so I totally agree with that point.
	I did have dates where we split, and I had dates where I totally paid because I put my card and he didn't put his, and I ended up paying for the full bill, whatever.
	And the last time that happened, he actually said that he wants kids.
	I want kids too.
	And he had a number.
	He's like, he wants five kids.
	And then he didn't even pay.
	And when I went home, I was like, what the hell are you setting here?
	Oh, he even took the leftovers.
	Oh, no.
	And yours?
	Oh, my God.
	No.
	He took the leftover for like everything.
	And so it got me thinking, you know, like, if a guy didn't pay?
	He didn't pay.
	I paid.
	You paid for the whole thing.
	Yeah, I had only $150 in my bank account.
	It was $120.
	Oh, he also picked the restaurant too.
	And I was like, I don't want to.
	Whatever.
	And so when I went back home, right?
	So when I went back home, I was like, hold on a second.
	If I'm looking for a man to have children with, why would I be okay with like them not paying?
	You know, like, if you also want children, that has to be like, you have to essentially, like, if I'm having babies, there is a point of, you know, of time or whatever where I may be staying at home.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Then you have to show at least that you care and you're like, you, you will pay.
	Yeah.
	And it's more about like them just caring in that time.
	And I usually think like the first date is like their initial first impression.
	And so when they care about you enough and your experience and they care about you know taking care of you in that moment, that's like the first step that kind of shows us like, okay, this is how he could be in another time that I'm vulnerable and possibly pregnant one day if it gets to that point.
	Can I ask you a question though on this?
	You do acknowledge that, and this is just to test the logic a little bit.
	Yeah.
	You do acknowledge that there are women who are child-free.
	And what I mean by that is they don't want to have children ever.
	Yeah.
	But they still are romantically interested in dating men and having like a boyfriend.
	Yeah.
	So what would you say to women who make it very clear, or whether they make it clear or not, but just from their own perspective, they've made a determination in their life they don't want kids.
	So in that situation, do you grant where the woman doesn't want children ever that it should be 50-50 on the first date?
	My grant is she should do whatever she wants and whatever makes her feel happy and whatever makes her feel loved.
	But your position is men should pay on first dates.
	My position is everyone's different with what their standards are and what their kinks are, what makes them feel loved, what makes them feel, you know, like they want to date someone long term.
	Okay, but if we're having a conversation about fairness, it then becomes, okay, well, let's say there's guys out there who maybe they also don't want kids and they want a 50-50 dynamic.
	I wouldn't even be in that situation.
	What do you mean?
	She has standards.
	She knows what she needs to do.
	No, for you.
	For you.
	But you also, like, you do content, you talk about dating.
	Yeah.
	Would you say to women out there, like, don't generally speaking, you say men should pay for first aids?
	Like, I don't think you have nuance as to your actual position when it comes to the advice you give women.
	No, I think my nuance is know what you like and stand up for what you like and don't go down on your standards.
	But okay, how about this?
	You can say that people can do whatever they want, but in terms of like helpfulness and understanding your actual position, like what advice would you give to a man, for example, who he doesn't want to have kids and he's on a date with a woman who doesn't want to have kids?
	Yeah.
	And do you think it would be unreasonable in that situation for the woman to have an expectation that the man pay for the date?
	I think you should have a conversation with her first to make sure that they're aligned on that.
	Yeah, I think I'm fine.
	Because there's plenty of women out there that want to do 50-50 on a first date.
	And if you want to, do it.
	But that's why you should have that conversation before the date.
	I don't even allow the first date to even get to that point to know if they're aligned or not.
	Wait, how do you ask?
	Sorry.
	Well, originally, so, you know, I don't go on dates with guys unless they like pay for the sitter too.
	And that's usually.
	Oh, we need to get into that.
	Yeah.
	So just to remember.
	That's usually how.
	You'll only go on the first date with a guy if he pays for the babysitter.
	1,000%.
	Okay.
	Did you have a question for her?
	I did.
	It was how does the guy ask?
	Oh, how does she ask the guy?
	But she answered already just like that.
	She had him pay for the babysitter, too.
	But how about this?
	If we're faced with a situation where the guy wants to go, how do I?
	Do you think it would be, it's unreasonable for a woman who wants to be child-free to have then an expectation that the man pay for the date?
	No.
	It's not unreasonable.
	It's whatever she wants.
	So women can want anything.
	Anyone can want anything.
	Men can.
	Well, I think part of the issue, though.
	My answer is not going to change.
	You can keep going any which way you want.
	And that's my answer.
	It's not going to change.
	I feel like what she's saying is that everybody's different.
	Like, yeah, I wouldn't go 50-50 on the first date, but I'm a college student.
	So everybody's different.
	So the guy pays for the date?
	Yeah.
	Even if you're on a date with a fellow college student who also doesn't make money?
	I don't usually go on dates with fellow college students.
	Okay, you date older people then.
	Sometimes, but like most people are in the same industry as me.
	And a lot of people in the same industry as me are not going to college for that.
	Or also military child.
	So a lot of the people I'm friends with get paid for their stuff.
	I feel like this is a bit of a mott in Bailey because I think your true genuine position is men should pay for first dates.
	But now that I'm logically examining your position, you want to retreat back to, well, people can negotiate whatever they want.
	And if a man wants this, you guys can negotiate and talk it through.
	Well, because that's my experience.
	That's for me.
	Like, I am never going to pay for a first date.
	So that is like how I am.
	But I can't speak on all women.
	And I can't put like a stance for all women.
	But that's me.
	Yeah.
	I have a question.
	What age range of men do you date?
	It's all really.
	I've 25.
	I've dated a few of you.
	Like younger older 40.
	Like you'll go younger.
	Jackson Mills.
	Yeah.
	Are you younger than 25?
	Almost.
	I've almost been on date with 20.
	I asked, and he was also going to pay for this.
	What does chair number one offer?
	Because all I see is some wide eyes and an elevated sense of worth.
	Solid seven with makeup.
	Bet if you take that off, she a four, five at best.
	Wow, I'm a five.
	Oh, that's a that's you a five, but she a fucking ten.
	Yeah.
	Here we go.
	Do you want to respond to that?
	Oh, I just think men that talk like that, they don't have money.
	So if you want to rate me, send me a screenshot of your bank account and then maybe.
	Oh boy.
	But here's the thing.
	That's a challenge, Clay.
	Did you want to answer that question?
	Broke men like attack women on their looks, but that's the thing.
	Also, people, different people have different tastes, and I think that's okay.
	So this is the question.
	Latrice, were you asking offer?
	Yeah.
	So I think he said, he asks, what does chair one offer?
	So I guess he's asking, what do you bring to the table?
	I'm a mother.
	I'm a mommy.
	Like, that's what I offer.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, I take care of my family, my baby.
	Cook and clean, or can I?
	Like cooking and cleaning, caregiving?
	No, I wouldn't cook and clean.
	Oh, okay.
	Wait, away.
	Oh, my God.
	Hold on.
	How about you?
	I want to make something.
	I want to do a disclaimer before I get into it.
	I want to be like you in a motor.
	How old are you?
	I'm setting these standards for women.
	You are young.
	Guys, can we avoid the clips?
	Can we avoid the quips, please?
	I'm sorry, but you're kind of giving these ideas for women to have these standards, which are more inclined for them to stay single.
	I'm just saying.
	Well, hold on, really quick.
	I want to address the point that you just raised.
	So you said when I asked, or when Clay asks, what does Chairwan offer?
	What do you bring to the table?
	Your immediate, your first response was, you're a mother.
	I'm a mother.
	So I want to do a little disclaimer here first.
	I don't think there's anything wrong with a man becoming a stepfather.
	With that said, I don't think that that is typically going to be viewed as a positive.
	Right.
	I don't think it's a deal.
	For me, it's not a deal breaker for women's a single mom.
	However, generally speaking, I don't think that that's like a positive thing.
	In the sense that because what you bring to the table, what you offer, I think a lot of men are going to view that as this could be a potential complication in our relationship.
	This could be a liability in our relationship.
	Yeah, maybe.
	I think when people are asking what you offer, what you bring to the table, it might be something to do with, I mean, you just stating your current mother status.
	I don't, that doesn't seem like so.
	When I'm saying, when I answer that, it's because when I'm dating, it's for that to have more kids and have a family.
	So when I said that, that's what I mean.
	So like if I get in a relationship with someone, usually the guys I date want kids.
	That's why they're attracted to me.
	So I understand and I think it's fair.
	I 1000% think it's fair to not want to date a single mom.
	Like, you should know yourself.
	Okay, so perhaps there's a misunderstanding here, but I think it perhaps would have been better worded like I will give him children.
	Yes, but it's also the energy that I bring to the relationship.
	But why did you say I'm a mother?
	Because that's the energy that I bring.
	So I'm nurturing.
	I'm going to take care of the babies.
	I'm going to make sure that they're good.
	They're my friends.
	Yes, those are.
	I guess the question is, sorry.
	Okay, I hope it's constructive, but go ahead.
	Sorry.
	Okay, before you became a mother, what do you bring to the table?
	What do I bring to the table?
	I'm a business owner.
	So my ideal partner, I want to have a business with.
	Like, what do you mean?
	Guys, men don't care about that.
	And I don't care what they care about.
	That's just what I want.
	Okay, well, you just said earlier that you don't cook and you don't clean.
	No, because I, well, okay, I don't think people, when women, when the default goes for women to cook and clean in a relationship, then I think that's also why so many people are struggling in relationships because that's labor.
	So compared to women's labor, compared to men's labor, if he takes care of all the bills, it's still five jobs compared to his.
	No, no, no.
	I strongly disagree considering that my husband is a blue-collar worker.
	My husband does blue-collar work, and what I do at home is nothing compared to what he does outside the house.
	And wait, you have two kids, right?
	Yep.
	Two kids.
	One kid.
	I'm sorry, two kids.
	Yeah.
	One.
	And what does your husband do for work?
	Oh, he does construction.
	What kind of, can you be detailed?
	Before, before years, about maybe five, six years ago, he was doing exterior work, which is everything that you see outside of Las Vegas all over the buildings, is what he did.
	You're from Vegas, right?
	Yeah.
	Does he do heavy machinery or is he more?
	Forklift, boom lifts, all kinds of lifts.
	Okay.
	So is he like putting like the stuff on the wall?
	The panels, bricks, everything that you see, the panels and all of that.
	So all the designs and everything.
	That's super cool.
	And mind you, he does it all year round.
	He didn't just do it.
	Like, this is out in the sun.
	That's no joke.
	It's hot.
	So to me, him doing what he's doing, coming home baked looking like a freaking lobster, I'm not going to complain about what I do at home.
	And he supports the whole family, huh?
	He supports the whole family.
	Absolutely.
	I think that's fair that that stuff.
	And all I'm doing is, what am I doing?
	Cooking, cleaning.
	Yeah.
	I keep my house clean every day.
	I don't have to work.
	What if you were no.
	Okay, you're just like taking care of your homemaker.
	Yes.
	What are you working to?
	Like, would you want him to also clean and cook too?
	He offers, but I tell him, hell no.
	Stay, sit your ass down.
	Do not do a thing.
	You were just out there for like 12, 14, 16, sometimes 18 or more hours.
	Oh, damn.
	Why am I going to make him do all that?
	That would make no sense for me.
	Yeah.
	Make him do any sort of house tour.
	W, Latrice.
	And so he frequently works.
	Like, how many hours per week would you say he works today?
	On average, anywhere between 60 to 80 hours a week.
	That's insane.
	Again, do not lift a finger in the house.
	Can you share his take-home?
	What's his take-home?
	What do you mean?
	Pay.
	He doesn't usually like me to say.
	He doesn't have to.
	Enough.
	He makes enough.
	He makes enough for all four of us, for me and the kids.
	We'll put it this way: like, he knows that I like nice things.
	He takes care of you.
	I'll tell you right now, my anniversary gift was a new car.
	Wait, but I want to hear more from Lauren here.
	So can you just clarify your?
	I have one message coming in, but then I want.
	Hold on.
	Clay donated $200.
	You think broke men are sending random $250 messages on a podcast?
	I have run through 100 like you.
	Oh, so he's ran through.
	Do you have four?
	I know.
	I was like, ooh, yeah.
	Do you want to respond to claims?
	Maybe, maybe that's why he has to watch a dating podcast.
	Ooh.
	Because he's rich.
	No, no, because he doesn't have to be.
	He's obviously not working out if he's ran through 100 women.
	That's crazy.
	No, I think he's ran, like he's a repeat commenter on the podcast.
	So he's not like really.
	Yeah, but why is he watching a dating podcast that long?
	That's crazy.
	I mean, I'm married.
	I sit down and watch travelers.
	But he said ran through.
	That sounds more like he was in a relationship with someone.
	No, he's talking like he runs through sending TTS messages.
	Like he'll talk about it.
	But the first message was about him not having enough money, or like that question was about men having money.
	He said money.
	What?
	No, there was no question.
	He dated good.
	Exactly.
	She said that guy was broke.
	Oh, is that not the same question as earlier?
	No.
	I have no idea what you're talking about.
	Okay, Lauren, you were saying that being a mom, that's like five jobs.
	That's way harder than the guy's job.
	This is where we go back into this, okay?
	Because every relationship is different with your husband in your situation.
	A 1,000 person.
	Oh, I just wanted to just put that out there.
	Wait, hold on, hold on, because I wanted to put this out here.
	Yeah.
	My husband wasn't doing construction when we first dated.
	He was just working as an oyster shucker and making less money than I did.
	Yeah.
	So that, so me giving that opportunity for both of us to really align with one another on what we wanted in our relationship, it then became that.
	Because the way men are typically, men like my husband, they may not have it all at that very moment, but they end up building that, especially for the right person that they're with.
	It's not like I have a price limit on men.
	Like, I believe in that.
	That's, I love that.
	No, and I get that.
	And that's the thing.
	It's like he is doing so much labor.
	So I totally get that.
	He's doing the job that he does.
	No, I know.
	I know, I know.
	Typically, is really, how do I say this?
	It's it, it's like typically people don't even really respect that kind of work.
	Like they just look at they just look at it like, oh, great.
	You know, another guy doing a blue-collar job.
	If it weren't for him, we wouldn't be in the building we're in.
	We wouldn't have the things that we have all around us.
	So it's like they are literally the backbone to our society, building the infrastructure that we have all around us, the technology and all of that.
	You know, so I actually put my husband on that highest level of respect when it comes to the line of work he does.
	Because if it weren't for him and everybody else, where would we be?
	Yeah.
	But he, I didn't look at it as, oh, you know, my husband, he better make some money.
	He's better be doing this.
	He better be doing that.
	Because mind you, I had a child already when we first dated.
	We, you know, I had a child already when we first dated, but nowhere in me felt like it was his responsibility to deal with my child.
	And I don't.
	No, no, no.
	I'm not saying you did.
	I'm not saying you said that.
	But that's just usually how it works.
	And, you know, when he took on that responsibility, it's a really hard one.
	Typically, men would not want to deal with a woman that's already had children because of the fact that they look at it automatically as a burden.
	Yeah, but see, I don't see, I don't ever run into those men because obviously the ones that I run into would do want to deal with me and my son.
	You know what I mean?
	So 1,000%.
	And I would never expect a man to take over my son.
	Like, my son is my son.
	You know what I mean?
	Oh, wait, wait, wait.
	Do you plan to eventually, if you end up involved with this man, do you eventually want to marry that person?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And so you do realize that in order for the man to be involved in this relationship, he has to lead and also be involved with the rearing of your child, too.
	Oh, 1,000%.
	But I'm just saying, like, in the dating phase.
	Oh, like, right, right.
	No, and the reason that I make it a requirement that they pay for the sitter is so that they can have my full attention.
	Yeah.
	And it also shows like their willingness to understand that we're a package deal, even though I don't expect him to be involved in my son's.
	I mean, I get what you're saying, but don't you think that's like and I kind of respectfully I just find it a little bit unreasonable when you're telling a man that he should pay for your sitter when it's your responsibility.
	Well, they don't see it as unreasonable.
	Well, I know they're the ones that don't see it.
	That's kind of their choice.
	So my main men have no issue with it.
	So that's my standard.
	But I guess, so where has this been going so far?
	It's been going great, actually.
	Are you in a relationship?
	No, I'm not in a relationship, but that's the thing.
	Even though if I am dating, it's intentional, but I'm not actively dating.
	Does that make sense?
	Like, I'm not actively trying to find a relationship.
	I'm actively building a business and raising my son.
	Okay.
	So when did you make that video that we saw earlier?
	That was a couple months ago.
	Because I've been celibate for a year.
	So I like kind of completely stopped dating.
	So were you dating at that time when you made the video?
	No, I just met him.
	He was like a guy that I met kind of like in the wild, you know, not at the dating app.
	So I was like really looking forward to it.
	And I think, yeah, so I was a little like upset because like, of course, I want like love and of course I want to build a relationship with somebody.
	And like I would love that.
	But see, I made a commitment to my son first.
	So he's my priority and I stopped making dating a priority.
	Yeah, because these girls are getting way too out of control nowadays with, you know, having their kids heavily involved in all these other relationships that the moms are in.
	Oh, so I was like celibate for a year and a half.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You good?
	Are you overheating over there?
	Yeah.
	I am a couple of things.
	It's hot in here?
	Yeah.
	I'm nice.
	I'm feeling pretty good.
	I'm feeling like fluorescent.
	So really quick, I guess just to finish off that convo thread, Lauren, is it your position that being a single mom, or I guess just even being a mom, do you think I've heard, I don't know if it was Oprah who said this, it's the hardest job in the world.
	Oh, yeah.
	Being a mom.
	Well, I can't say.
	Like the hardest job.
	No.
	Is a cut.
	I just said no.
	Well, let's say, because I don't want to get too fine-tuned into hardest.
	How about compared to the average job that average job of men?
	Is it harder than the average male job being a mom?
	I think it depends.
	Like, because I just think like if you're in a relationship and you're a mom, then yes, because I think the expectations that women tend to have and hold is difficult to manage in a relationship and there's an imbalance.
	I do believe that.
	Which are those, if you don't mind me asking?
	Yeah, so I think when women are in a relationship with men, usually that's the thing.
	I feel like it's every relationship so different, especially like you expressing yours.
	I'm like hearing that, like that totally makes sense to me.
	If we're talking about an average man's job compared to like an average woman's job, if she's a stay-at-home mom, then yes, I do think that's harder for a stay-at-home mom with an average man's income and an average man's job.
	Yes.
	How hard is it dependent on?
	How is it harder though?
	Because of all the unspoken labor that women do in relationships, like managing the household, making sure the kids are fed, driving to and from school, things that men don't think about.
	You know what I mean?
	Like naturally, traditionally, up to this point, which we're kind of changing the game.
	That's why we're all here, right?
	We're kind of opening discussion to understand why there's issues in intimacy and relationships.
	So when it comes to the average man's job with the average income compared to the average woman and her what is the average man's job and income?
	I would say like $75,000 a year.
	That's what I think.
	That's average?
	I don't know though.
	I'm just ballparking if it's more than that.
	But even if even if it was more than that, compared to domestic labor, if you were to break it down, women are doing at home between $150,000 to $250,000 in domestic labor.
	I've seen, I think, your video on this.
	Yes.
	So you're saying, well, if you as an individual were to hire a private chef and hire a house cleaner and hire a therapist, I don't know if you include that.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So can you tell us?
	Because you say, well, women are doing $150,000 to $200,000.
	Is that the range?
	Yes.
	They're doing $150,000 to $200,000 of unpaid labor.
	Yes.
	What?
	Including, and most women are working now.
	Yeah, can you break down like the breakdown of that, I guess?
	Yeah, because it's the cleaning, the dishes, the taking care of the kids, the mental load, making sure they're tuned from school.
	If your kid, like, and I'm a mom, so I know this.
	Like, if your kid has a delay, you have to make sure they're on top of those things.
	Like, women are naturally doing this in relationships.
	It doesn't even come across a man's brain usually.
	They're not, they're not thinking about, oh, we need to book the therapist appointment for our kid if they, you know, have like autism or something.
	Like, they're not thinking about those things.
	So these are all things that are put onto women, like expectations that are put onto women that cost mental space that doesn't make us as like, you know, we just have much more on our plan.
	So women are doing unpaid labor with kids and in a marriage to the tune of $150,000 to $200,000.
	Yeah.
	I feel like it depends on the child.
	Or sorry, not the month.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Yeah.
	I know I don't have a uterus, but like, I know I don't have a uterus, but like, I would say I feel like a mom is like 24-7.
	Yeah.
	And like, you know, as hard as the job is, because like there's obviously labor-intensive jobs, but like you obviously get a break, you get off work.
	And I feel like moms, like, I mean, sometimes probably dads too, but like they have to wake up in the middle of the night, especially with younger children.
	So it's kind of like 24-7 that you're constantly like.
	And some moms don't get a break when they get home.
	I don't love this.
	Latrice, is it, is it, you know, what do you think?
	I wouldn't know.
	I honestly, I don't, I don't see the concept of this because it's just weird.
	Like, I don't see it because of the fact that it was something that I chose to do.
	It was something that I chose.
	I chose to be a mom.
	I chose to stay at home.
	Before that, I was also working.
	You know, I was working and taking on some of those things.
	However, when I chose to be at home with my kids, that I knew the tasks that I have to take on as and the responsibilities as a mother.
	Yeah.
	Now, as far as what my husband does outside, deal with that shit because I don't want it.
	Yeah.
	I'm cool with that.
	And I feel like, though, your situation isn't average because your husband has a very intense job.
	You know what I mean?
	So I feel like you're in kind of like not a completely relatable situation because your husband is doing like an intense job and that makes sense to me.
	And the reason that I don't want to do domestic labor is because I have a career that I want to go after.
	Okay, then.
	But I've also been a stay-at-home mom.
	I've been a stay-at-home girlfriend.
	I've been a stay-at-home almost wife.
	So I know what labor that goes into it.
	So I'm not saying that in like.
	I mean, do we really want to say that it's that laborious when we got dishwashers and washing machines doing that work for us?
	Are you sure that person?
	So what I would do as well is maybe start thinking every day, start clocking in how much you're doing hourly and pay attention.
	Just pay attention just for like two weeks and then kind of think about how much like domestic labor you're doing, how much mental load you're doing, how much work you're doing.
	I wash dishes every day.
	I cook.
	I don't always cook every day.
	I usually meal prep every day.
	In my previous relationship, I cook like three times a day.
	Yeah.
	So that's why.
	We don't always cook because we meal prep.
	There's washing clothes.
	I do that once a week.
	And I, again, my house stays clean.
	But there's mental labor and like thinking about what kind of meals you're going to do that week.
	What are you going to shop?
	Not really.
	There's not much when you're in.
	When it comes to fitness, it's not much you think about.
	I just see my time differently.
	So I guess I would agree with you in terms of like, you know, that's how much it would cost if you would outsource all of these tasks.
	That's, you know, if a man is entering your life, he's single, you're single, you both don't have children.
	He will save up, you know, all that money, I'm assuming, while you're staying at home.
	But you already are a single mom.
	You're already working and doing the labor work at home and doing everything by yourself.
	If a man is entering your life, he's going to take some of the load off your shoulders.
	No, but see, I've been in those relationships while being a single mom.
	So I still feel like women are still doing more.
	So I do want to ask you, out of curiosity, if, say, for example, that this person that you end up involved with, say that this person ends up making like astronomical money and he just told you to not really focus too hard on your career and to just be at home and take care of the kids and do whatever, would you decide on that?
	Just for me personally, I like feeling like I have something outside of a relationship and that's just me.
	So that's just my personal idea.
	When I have a baby, if I have another baby, then yes, I want to be home with that baby when they're little.
	But as soon as they're older and even while my son was a newborn, like I was still working, but even if I was in a relationship and I chose to stay in that relationship, I would have still been working just because that's me.
	I just don't know if I find that to be very optimal for kids because, you know, kids need to have their mom.
	Kids need to have their parents.
	I work from home though.
	So like my work has never been outside the home.
	I started a business at home for that.
	What is your business?
	I have a skincare business, but I just moved to coaching.
	Oh, nice.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	What type of coaching?
	So I do coaching for women in business and financial, like building financial autonomy.
	Okay.
	On the topic, the original video, there was this date and the guy canceled a few hours, two hours before whatever.
	And I think your point was that men should, and you, well, your position is men should pay for the babysitter.
	Okay.
	We actually, we had you, we had you scheduled for two weeks ago.
	Yeah.
	Can you tell us what happened?
	My babysitter canceled.
	Because we had you scheduled for, I think, our, yeah, December 7th show.
	And then what happened two hours before?
	I'm sure this is going.
	Sorry.
	My babysitter canceled.
	And, you know, you know, that video where you were crying.
	Yeah.
	I actually had that same reaction.
	Oh, you're a bad person.
	I was in tears because this podcast is my baby.
	Yeah.
	This is my baby.
	And I, you know, it's really hurtful.
	I'm just like a father just taking care of my little, my little podcast.
	Yeah.
	And my little podcast, it has, you know, it's, it's, you know, it's in its third year now, and it's really, I think your kid's three years old, right?
	Four.
	Four, yeah.
	Well, I think my podcast, I started in 2022, this like summer of 2022, so 23, 24, 25.
	It's three and a half years, you know?
	So it's like, it's, it's, uh, I don't know what, what stage that's called.
	Is that adolescent?
	No, that's like old later.
	The podcast is my little baby.
	And when you canceled on us like two hours before the podcast, like I cried.
	Do you have the video, Nick, still?
	Yeah.
	The TikTok one?
	You're lying because you have like a little bit of a just pull.
	No, but I was crying.
	I was like, how could she do this to me?
	Like, you got to realize as a single father of a podcast, like, that's going to have to be Lauren.
	That's going to have a big male victim card.
	Play from the beginning.
	And but this guy canceled on you.
	Did you ever have a date?
	A date with a single one?
	But look here, look at my lashes.
	If you ever have a date with a bad day, my lashes stayed.
	And I sold so many after that.
	If you ever have a date with a single father who has a podcast, a little baby, a podcast baby, this is my podcast baby.
	It's still growing.
	And I think, honestly, like, I kind of think that you maybe you said that guy ended up sending you 400.
	I feel like maybe you could have sent me 400 for the inconvenience.
	We'll see.
	I can't say what I, because like, so, but the thing is, but think about my thing is, that's how much you value your podcast.
	What?
	That's how much you value your podcast.
	So you should pay him.
	No.
	What?
	What?
	But you canceled on him.
	You should pay him.
	Yeah.
	No.
	But you have your standards and you set your, you had your values and you set your standards.
	Therefore, you believe that.
	Well, I'm not saying you believe that.
	But he didn't set, but see, he didn't set that up before.
	He didn't say there was a cancel fee before.
	No, no, to be fair to her.
	There's no legal, there's no legal obligation.
	And see, but that's the thing.
	Maybe you should have.
	Maybe let's take this as a learning experience.
	And you're telling me that this is how important this podcast is for you.
	Next time, next time you have guests, then you need to set that tone before because if I go on a date, I set that tone before.
	Well, the issue is, though, I mean, practically speaking, I agree with you that I've debated this and I've gone back and forth on whether I should charge a deposit or, you know, have them sign up via, sign up for the podcast via Square.
	And in the event of a cancellation, you can charge a late fee or something.
	Well, you could charge a late fee, but you could charge a cancellation fee.
	Like how if you book an appointment through Square, you can do that.
	But I think my issue is, is there is a component of women who otherwise would show up.
	Like they'll 100% show up.
	But if you introduce a financial component, some people might get cold feet right there.
	So it's like this balancing act between how do I avoid people canceling?
	But then is a girl who otherwise would come on the podcast, if I say, hey, let's say with a deposit, for example, that would be, I definitely think if we charged a deposit, like, hey, if you want to come on the show, you have to pay us 200 bucks.
	We'll fully return it.
	But even if we say it's 100% fully refundable deposit, there's definitely women who they're like, no, I won't do that.
	Yeah.
	So I have to balance like accepting a level of flakiness and balance.
	And ultimately, my determination was, I think it would not make sense to do a deposit.
	I think maybe I could get away with like, you know, having them put down a credit card through Square.
	And if they cancel, whatever, that might be an option.
	But in any case, legally, she has no obligation to.
	I'm just saying from the bottom of your heart, because I was hurting.
	I was hurting how you were crying in that moment.
	I was also very upset.
	I was crying deeply.
	Like, I, it was, I almost thought about where's the video, though.
	Yeah, the videos of the video.
	Well, see, the difference between men and women is when men cry, women like are very performative.
	So, like, if I don't know why women do this, by the way, why do you guys record your one?
	Why do you record yourself crying?
	And then, two, why the fuck would you post it?
	I just, I don't know.
	If you read those comments, though, there was a greater purpose to that message of that video about how much like thought that women put into dating and how much mothers put into that dating.
	Because if you were to look in the comments, you would see some guys say, like, oh, like, next time, like, I'll think twice.
	And then you'll see other girls, because I thought about taking it down.
	And you'll see them, like, I'm grateful that you posted something vulnerable because it helped them process them being hurt by being canceled.
	Because we like to pretend that we're not hurt.
	And it's a very good thing.
	Well, really quick on that, though.
	Really quick on that.
	I can guarantee you, maybe not.
	Well, who knows?
	I'll know your level of whatever.
	I'd say for the general mother, but I'd be prepared to say even for you.
	Trust me, I put more work into this podcast than you put into your kids.
	Oh, guarantee it.
	Guarantee it.
	Because there's a fuck ton of mothers and there's very few podcasts like this.
	It's very easy for women to become mothers and to be mothers and to do that.
	And if people could do this, then they would do it.
	So, but your argument is, well, okay, the men should, you know, I spend all this time.
	No, no, no, let's go back.
	Let's go back.
	No, because let's go back.
	I want to go back.
	You want my opinion?
	Then if you don't want people to cancel, then you should make them sign a contract.
	Before, because if you did before, I would have paid you, but you didn't.
	Yeah, but again, that goes back to what I was saying about.
	And exactly, because then the men who are flaky already cancel themselves out before we even get to the first date.
	Exactly.
	But then the majority of women are not going to be like signing up the contract because they don't want the obligation of the potential of cancellation.
	The issue with like having, we do keep it somewhat informal in the sense of our invitations.
	I mean, you know, we're organized with it, but it's not like, here, sign this contract.
	I think when you put a contract in front of somebody, you put legal, legalese, it's going to give people cold feet.
	It's people that would otherwise be like, yeah, I'm going to come.
	I'll do the podcast that they're not going to flake.
	They're going to show up.
	But you put a contract in front of them.
	Like before, then they're going to be like, do I really want to do this?
	Like, what if something comes up, but then I got to pay like a thing?
	So it is a balancing act.
	On one hand, yes.
	If we had the contract in place, of the proportion of people who do sign up to be on the podcast, yeah, we would get less flakes, but we would get less people to actually agree to sign up to be on the podcast.
	But we will get away from the meta conversation of that.
	There was some claim.
	Did I pull up your, did I pull up Clan's thing?
	I didn't.
	Clay, I'm sorry.
	Let me do that right now.
	My apologies.
	Hello?
	Wait.
	Wait, did I pull this one up?
	Lower the volume.
	Clay donated $200.
	To clarify, I spent my time in the Marine Corps on construction, and now I do something that makes a lot more money.
	Ran through means I have been with 100 unsatisfied women.
	You couldn't satisfy them?
	Yo, Mads, thank you for the gifted 10 memberships.
	Really appreciate it.
	And Clain, thank you for the TTS, man.
	Semper Phi, man.
	That makes a lot more money.
	What do you do for work, Clan?
	What do you do for work, man?
	Let us know.
	Who gets to read?
	You get to read next.
	Can you read that for us?
	Have you thought about the unpaid labor that men do around the house?
	Construction, landscaping, plumber, electrician, pest control, security guard, IT support, chauffeur, mechanic, babysitter, etc.
	And all that is on top of the work done outside the home.
	That is such a fantastic point.
	Using Lauren's exact framework, men can also start adding up these sort of ways in which they do various things, unpaid labor.
	So using your framework, Lauren.
	Yeah.
	No, and I think, no, and I think that's a valid point.
	It's just not every man does all of that.
	But if he does all of that, like what my point is, I just want there to be more balance in relationships.
	And some of the relationships that I've seen my friends in, see, like where my content usually comes from is like those relationships and seeing women in my life put in more labor and work than their relationships.
	Just to fair balance.
	Can I ask you a question, though?
	Because I guess your argument here was in a situation where the woman stays at home and the man goes out to do, you know, he was working.
	He's the breadwinner.
	Your contention was, hey, women are doing unpaid labor.
	However, even when a man is the primary breadwinner, the sole breadwinner, men are still doing all those things.
	And I don't think you can just ignore these.
	I'm not.
	Well, but you're saying when you brought up the unpaid labor thing, you were saying men go to work and women do all this unpaid labor, but you conveniently ignored or omitted that men do all that unpaid labor.
	I'm saying if that was the dynamic, that he just comes home, but if he's doing stuff at home like that, then that's.
	Well, let's ask Latrice.
	So Latrice, your husband of all these things, does he do some of this stuff?
	He builds me a pergola in the backyard.
	Wow.
	Because typically, even if the man will do some of the heavier labor around the house, lawn mowing, landscaping, unless you're that chick right there, who's not who she doesn't like.
	We don't even have grass in a front yard.
	Yeah, but like he'll, your husband does do stuff around the house.
	Yes.
	Right.
	Right now, just today, he called me, he FaceTimed me, and he was showing that he was organizing the garage.
	Does your husband own the firearm?
	Huh?
	Does he own a firearm?
	Five.
	Five.
	So if I, do you own a firearm?
	No.
	Would you date a guy who owns a firearm?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Have you dated?
	Yeah.
	Ah, okay.
	So it's interesting because you're saying, well, for you to have a full-time armed security guard, which is what women have, that's really expensive.
	Armed security, armed, like you base, women basically have executive protection for free.
	That's unpaid labor.
	In fact, can I ask you a question?
	Ah, yes, in the questionnaire.
	Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
	Yes.
	Take the bullet.
	Would you do the reverse for him?
	No.
	So hold on.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	So he has to be, he's doing unpaid labor of being, because think about it this way.
	Well, he's not protecting me at all times.
	But if I hire somebody to do executive protection, close protection.
	So executive protection is essentially a bodyguard.
	Armed executive protection.
	There's not, like if I was out in public, there's not threats coming at me all the time.
	Most bodyguards do really nothing.
	But I mean, they're being vigilant, but they're, I don't want to diminish what they do.
	Like, but there's not an immediate threat at all times when you're a bodyguard.
	For the most part, when you're a bodyguard, doing executive protection, armed security, things are okay.
	Things are fine.
	I shouldn't say they're doing nothing.
	But I dated guys like this too.
	Like they're very protective and they like scan the room for you and like they let you be a girl.
	But if we're talking about unpaid labor, if I wanted to hire 24-7 security, that's hundreds, I think hundreds of thousands of dollars a year.
	And you know what?
	The thing is, where my content's coming from is women in unbalanced relationships.
	I've never said that men also don't pull their weight at home because like my stepdad growing up, I've never seen that man take a nap.
	You know what I mean?
	Because he woke up at 4 a.m.
	He worked hard, came home and did things on the weekend.
	That was a balanced relationship.
	That sucks waking up early in the morning.
	Yeah, no, and so my content's coming from, I was in a DV situation.
	Most women that follow me are in DV situations or they're with men who don't contribute at home.
	So where my content's coming from is that.
	But when it's like that, no, 1,000%.
	And that's a balanced relationship.
	Let me add this.
	Sorry.
	So oftentimes people don't see what's like not point out to them.
	And so if they say he doesn't contribute, you know, to the home or whatever, but you don't even point that out.
	You just say, this is the amount of work that we do that is unpaid, that this is the equivalent of the value of it if you were to outsource of these jobs.
	But you don't do the same thing for men, meaning that you don't point it out to your viewers.
	So they don't even, it doesn't register to them because you're not pointed out.
	No, and I think that's, you know, I've thought about approaching my content a little bit more balanced, like moving forward, but primarily my audience is women.
	So I just never really thought about that side, if that makes sense.
	Well, you're right, but you're a feminist, right?
	I would say, like, it depends on like what people define.
	Come on.
	Your content is in your videos, you say you're a feminist.
	I am a feminist.
	No, yeah.
	And it just also depends on how people define like feminism as well, because I feel like people define it in different ways.
	Here, we're going to move on, but we have M1 Garand ask everyone to rate their own looks.
	I know.
	Face, body, total on the scale of one to 10.
	You can't pick seven.
	So rate your own looks.
	Do your face, do your, so I need three numbers.
	Face, body, total, scale of one to ten.
	I'm going to do zero.
	I'm not, I'm going to opt out on this.
	Come on, be no, zero.
	Be honest.
	No, because I've dated people from all shapes, sizes.
	What does that have to do with that?
	But what do you think you think you are?
	Yeah, what does that have to do?
	You look in the mirror and you think you're a baddie.
	Come on, you can't say you don't.
	Wait, wait, you're rating your own looks.
	Yeah.
	Your looks.
	Yeah, zero.
	I'm not going to rate you.
	Based on how others perceive you, what would you rate yourself?
	I'm going to rate myself zero.
	I'm not going to rate myself.
	Oh, come on.
	You can participate.
	That's crazy.
	No, no, I don't want to.
	Okay, fine.
	Then I think it's fair of me to ask, what is your objection to this question?
	Just because I think that it's, we shouldn't rate ourselves.
	I feel like it's a rage baity question.
	That's kind of the rage bait.
	I feel like it, I feel like it just, everyone has different types.
	And so, like, I'm obviously going to think of myself in a high regard and know that my partner is going to think the same way.
	So, I'm not going to have a number because, like, why might say something and then someone online, you know, called me a four and then back.
	Okay.
	It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks.
	Yeah, I think that's what I think.
	Yeah, we're asking what you think.
	Your own subjective opinion.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Then 10.
	Okay.
	Well, I didn't really hear much of a justification, I guess.
	Oh, she said 10.
	Yeah, I said 10.
	She said 10.
	Oh, well, face, body.
	10, 10.
	Okay, thank you.
	What about you?
	6, 6, 6.
	Not in a bad way.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I think I highkey want to say 11, 11, 11.
	So 10?
	Yeah.
	For all.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Six across the board.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say probably eight across the board.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say four across the board.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I would say like six.
	Okay, you?
	What is the average?
	Is it like five is average?
	Five is average.
	Yeah.
	So like.
	Oh, gosh.
	I should have thought of that.
	I don't know.
	1-1-1.
	Oh, come on.
	Let's be real.
	Let's be realistic here.
	No, like.
	1-1-1 is that's the percentage of people who fall into 1-1-1 would be really small, and that's very ugly.
	You're nowhere near that.
	I don't know.
	So, okay.
	So your face and your body, you would say your face and body is very ugly.
	No, like.
	That's the entailment of 1-1-1.
	Like, shockingly ugly.
	Like, this is, if you see a one, you don't see ones very.
	That's like the ugliest person you've seen in three years.
	We're talking about that.
	That's what.
	That's a one.
	Like, warps and hunchback and everything.
	Well, it's one to ten.
	Rate yourself on a scale of one to ten.
	Oh, yeah.
	So one is one is a generational ugly.
	Okay.
	You can't escape.
	I don't know.
	Do we have to?
	It's a hard question.
	Because like, I like, I never look at myself in the man and go, like, oh, yeah, I'm, like, I'm beautiful.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, I get what she's saying, though, because I'm not really heavy on the mirror myself.
	Right, but okay.
	Like, I'm not saying you look in the mirror and it's like, okay, I don't think I'm beautiful.
	Okay, do you think you're about average?
	That would be five.
	You think you're a bit above average?
	That's a six.
	You think you're a bit below average?
	That's a four.
	I don't know.
	What?
	Guess then.
	Just throw out a number that's not ridiculous.
	One is ridiculous.
	But two.
	All right.
	Thank you for burning three minutes of our time here.
	No, like I'm being serious.
	Okay, but you're beautiful.
	Okay, so we have my deserves a 10.
	We have a 10, a 10, 8.
	Question for you.
	I know this.
	I don't know.
	Is that a cross necklace that you're wearing?
	Are you Christian?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	I just like the little pearls.
	Okay.
	We have a 10, a 10, and an 8.
	10 across the board, 10 across the board, 8.
	It's interesting that people can't.
	I thought the breaking it down by face body total might result in like okay, my face is a seven, my body's a six, whatever.
	But okay, um, we'll continue testing that out.
	Um, going around the table, uh, look for the ten, the ten, and the eight.
	Can you tell me a woman who you think is a ten, like a maybe a celebrity we can think of?
	A 10 and an eight.
	Oh, sorry.
	Um, I love this artist named Ravena, and I think she's a 10.
	Okay, what about you?
	I gotta say Rihanna, Beyonce, Billie Eilish.
	Yeah, okay, what about you?
	Um, honestly, don't know.
	I try to think really hard, but I can't.
	Caitlin Jenner for real?
	I don't know.
	Yeah, and I give myself an eight because I feel like the fact that I was born like biologically a boy, like you know, I have more of a disadvantage, and I feel like I still did a pretty good job.
	Girl, but you look like a 10.
	Thanks.
	Okay, all right.
	Everyone's perfect, so I'm not gonna give myself a ten.
	Uh, I had a note on this that I wanted to get into.
	Hold on, where is it?
	Uh, Nick, do you have photos of any of those people?
	Yeah, I have Ray.
	What about Raylina?
	Raylena or something?
	Ray Vina.
	R-Rayena.
	E-V-E-E-N-A.
	She's a singer.
	I think I know who that is.
	Yeah, yeah, she does like very soul and like sensual music.
	I've never heard of this person.
	I mean, I don't listen to mainstream too much.
	Okay, we'll skip it.
	We'll skip it.
	Can you tell me a guy who you think is a 10, a 10, an 8?
	Whoever has it first, just blurt it out.
	Oh, I don't know his name.
	I don't know the name of any.
	Like a celebrity who.
	You don't have to.
	Just a guy who you think is a 10, an 8.
	I think I like Jeff Widden.
	Michael B. Jordan, but he's like an Michael B. Jordan.
	Michael B. Jordan.
	Okay, that's her league, I guess.
	Jeff Widdick, her league.
	What about you?
	I don't know, like Timothy Shalomy.
	Oh, yeah.
	Timothy.
	Okay.
	We don't need to Google those.
	People can figure it out.
	Have you seen him with his hair shaved, though?
	Wait, can I?
	He doesn't look good.
	Can I ask you one make one polite request of you?
	These quips that you put out, if it's not material to the conversation, can we not like waste time or like Timothy Chalamet's haircut is not material to the conversation at hand.
	I'm happy to have you contribute if it's substantive, but Timothy Chalamet's hair is not the topic of conversation.
	Okay.
	Is that fair?
	Okay, because there's been a lot of quips, and how about this?
	How do I go about this?
	I'll only do it with your guys's permission.
	Would you guys be open?
	And I won't be intentionally malicious or rude or mean or anything like that.
	I will be, I will be, I'll keep my tone neutral.
	I'll keep it polite.
	I will be fair.
	Even if I disagree with you, I won't intentionally be like, well, I disagree with this person, so I'm going to say something mean to no.
	I will try to be as fair, impartial as I can.
	I'll give you a rating, and I'll include, I'll try to include more positives than negatives, but I'll give you, and you can opt out of the actual breakdown.
	I'll give you a number rating.
	I'll give you a positive characteristic and the negative characteristic.
	Who's down to opt-in for a rating?
	Do you want to do it?
	No.
	You don't have to nitpick it.
	You can rate me.
	Yeah.
	That's it.
	Do you opt in?
	Yeah.
	Opt-in.
	I'm cool with it.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So, Lauren opts out, unfortunately.
	I know you loved it if I thought you'd be a good sport, but do we all go to gender?
	Yeah, can we like make comments on what you say?
	Sure.
	I know we can rate you after.
	Yeah, you can rate me.
	Wait, what do you rate yourself?
	Oh, yeah, that's right.
	I forgot.
	I give myself a 4.5.
	Why?
	4.5?
	Face body total.
	Yeah, face, body, total.
	What?
	Oh, yeah, I'd say, hmm.
	You know what?
	I'll do because you guys went across the board.
	I'll go across the board.
	I'll go across the board on it.
	It could be the case that, like, face 4.75, body 4.25.
	I mean, the primary thing, at least for me, as to my determination here, is I need to lose weight.
	No getting around that.
	Need to lose a bit of weight.
	I would thin out in my face, obviously, thin out on my body.
	So, need to lose weight.
	In terms of, I mean, there's not much else in terms of body to just, yeah, I gotta lose weight, a little chubby.
	Although, body one positive would be I'm tall.
	I'm six foot one.
	But yeah, I'm chubby right now.
	I gotta lose weight.
	And then face, positives, I would say blue eyes, striking eyes, although related to eyes, weak under-eye area, bags.
	Process mixed up.
	I got some problems for you.
	I got some products.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Was it neutral canceled?
	For my age.
	For my age, hair still in decent condition.
	So that's kind of.
	How old are you?
	36.
	I can't know.
	So still, yeah, you know, I'm probably going to lose it soon here.
	But soon?
	But I'm getting older.
	People lose their hair as they get older.
	So, but we'll see.
	And then let's see.
	Oh, negatives.
	Poor skin clarity.
	I have some redness.
	I have some skin flakiness, whatever.
	I mean, the fat face is a little chubby due to the weight.
	I have decent symmetry.
	That's a positive.
	Decent eyebrows.
	But, oh, big nose.
	Yeah, that's a big one.
	Big nose.
	Positive or negative?
	Big nose.
	But he doesn't.
	And I think I'll leave it there.
	But essentially, yeah, so that's my own rating.
	And those are some positive negatives that I would say I have.
	Let's see.
	Okay, so the ratings for you.
	You know, it's difficult because I think people will have certain aesthetic inclinations.
	And, you know, it's funny.
	I actually don't.
	When I was younger, I kind of liked women who had color in their hair.
	But it was more so at least when I was a bit younger, that meant that she was like into rock music.
	Now, it doesn't always mean.
	That's true.
	But it can mean that she's a crazy liberal lady.
	Or like a raging feminist or mental illness.
	Back then, it was daddy issues or rock music.
	So, yeah, there's that.
	So I'm trying to think though.
	And then the bangs.
	are bangs a negative i think in terms of the male gaze men generally i mean maybe that's what she's going for right but But men generally don't like bangs.
	Like bangs, period?
	And like straight.
	It's also, you are wearing a lot of makeup, so it's hard to give like a determination.
	At the end, are you going to remove your makeup?
	You had me last time.
	During the makeup segment?
	I think.
	You had me last time.
	It's hard if somebody's wearing, you know, you're wearing a lot of eye makeup, right?
	So it's a bit hard.
	I want to say, though, can you turn face that way?
	You have a very good nose.
	Unfortunately, you've, with the septum piercing, that, you know.
	You have a good nose, though.
	You have a good nose.
	Oh, okay.
	You know, I'd be curious.
	Have you ever seen those videos where they'll have like a makeup artist and somebody who's like make them normal?
	Yeah.
	I'd be curious.
	I think someone do that with me.
	You could do.
	I'll do it with you.
	I think you have a really good base.
	You have good symmetry.
	You have nice eyes.
	Good face shape.
	Good nose.
	I had braces, so my teeth are straight.
	You have nice teeth.
	I would say perhaps one slight negative.
	Thin lips.
	Thin lips.
	I was going to say thin lips, your bottom lip is not, but the upper lip could be a bit thicker.
	Is this autistic, by the way?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	A little bit.
	No, but I'm white.
	I think you have a really solid base.
	So, um, oh, are we doing like body too?
	I feel like that's, that's a little, okay.
	That's not much.
	Yes.
	I mean, if you want to stand up and do a fit check, otherwise it's kind of hard to do.
	We can do fit checks, yes.
	Honestly, to rate body, it's kind of hard.
	I'm not going to rate body.
	I'll just keep it to face, but congrats, I guess.
	You didn't rip on me.
	Honestly, I'm trying to like do a visual removal of the.
	The makeup.
	Is that a wig?
	No, it's not a wig.
	Honestly, I want to say like six.
	I think face.
	Hey, I got it.
	Six, maybe 6.5 for you.
	It's hard because you guys are wearing, like, you're wearing.
	I'm going to show you a picture of me with no makeup.
	You guys asked me to come in this exact makeup.
	She's pretty.
	Is it a wig?
	Yeah, you guys asked me to come in the same hair and everything.
	Because I usually have my red apple out and stuff.
	That's fine.
	And I usually go minimalistic with makeup.
	Can you turn your face to the side so I can see the side profile?
	Can you pull your hair back on this side?
	Okay.
	And are you wearing color contacts?
	Yeah, these are my actual seeing contacts.
	Okay.
	You can leave that thing on.
	You can leave the thing on.
	It's fine.
	Okay.
	So good eyes.
	Good eyes.
	I'm assuming do you shave those into your eyebrows?
	Yeah, I did.
	Scars or whatever.
	Good eyes, good eye area.
	Obviously, there's differences when it comes to race, like in terms of the phenotype.
	I would say strong, like good nose.
	You've got a good nose.
	Are you full black, half black?
	I am African, and I am Native American.
	Okay, gotcha.
	I'm gonna give you, I think I give you like for the we don't have a lot of black women on the show, so it's uh I give you a like man.
	She's very pretty.
	Yeah, I have to like consider, okay.
	Yeah, I almost feel like I might need to adjust your score up a bit.
	Yeah, what did I say, six or six point five?
	Like six, yeah.
	I might I don't know, man.
	Ah, shit, I don't know.
	You know, it's hard.
	I might have to bump you up.
	You know what?
	I'll do a range.
	6.5 to 7.
	I'm going to say 6.75 to 7.
	You here, by the way, glow up since last show.
	I was about to ask you that.
	Okay, what do you think my rating was at the last show?
	Well, I mean, the style, the aesthetic was, I mean, obviously your face is your face.
	You didn't probably really change anything.
	You're just stylistically different.
	The makeup's different.
	The hair's different.
	So ultimately, you're still you, but I mean, you had a bit more of like a sort of alt goth look before.
	I do want to say, I didn't change.
	Like, I literally did that same makeup look last night.
	Last night?
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay, so just for this.
	Yeah, so I just like.
	Okay, so you're wearing fake lashes.
	Yeah.
	Did you draw your eyebrows on?
	Like.
	They're like shaved down.
	Like they're stylistic.
	But those are my brows.
	Okay.
	Let's see.
	Rating.
	Hmm.
	It's also hard.
	Y'all wearing full faces and makeup.
	Like y'all.
	But who did you ask to come in makeup?
	You asked us to come in, right?
	Well, no.
	You asked us to dress up.
	No, you asked me to wear this exact makeup look and the hair.
	We asked for the hair, I think.
	I forgot exactly what.
	Yeah, the only reason I didn't make it.
	But I'm saying it's hard to do the rating with like full, full face and makeup.
	Okay.
	Very strong eye area.
	I mean, again, with the phenotype, though, like there is going to be.
	Can you turn your face that way?
	Okay, I mean, you have like a Filipino Asian phenotype.
	So that's going to entail like.
	Like flat nose.
	Yeah, your nose from the side profile is a bit flat.
	Although shapewise, I think, at least from the front, quite good.
	Very good smile.
	Thank you.
	Perhaps slightly a bit gummy, maybe a little bit gummy of a smile, but lips quite strong, very strong lips.
	Good, strong symmetry, strong.
	I mean, you're wearing makeup, but skin clarity looks pretty solid.
	I will say, like, if someone has like unclear skin, you can kind of tell.
	I'm not.
	With the makeup.
	I'm not wearing foundation.
	I'm wearing skin tint.
	Okay.
	It's different.
	I mean, again, this is just aesthetic.
	I think septum piercing.
	I've never heard of something like that.
	The septum piercing.
	I'm not going to.
	Wait, can I flip it up?
	Sure.
	But just as.
	It's like magic.
	Hey, that's my magic tree.
	I think generally men dislike the septum.
	Yeah.
	At least I'm speaking from the male gays perspective.
	Oh, I remember your conversation from last year.
	I gave you hers, but you gave them trouble for it.
	You skipped hers totally.
	You did not have to wear no gaze.
	It's very small.
	Sure, yeah, okay.
	I keep it small for the model.
	All right.
	Fair, but like he mentioned theirs, but he didn't mention yours.
	So anyways, honestly, I think seven.
	Oh.
	I think seven.
	See, I wanted to say seven, but you guys say don't say seven.
	You know what?
	Am I being too generous?
	Okay, wow.
	Nick, did you say yes?
	Oh my God.
	Okay, 6.75.
	think I am 6.75 oh I mean I guess you're I don't know if I like you kind of got a dick so I don't know if I should I don't have to.
	Eh, fuck it, whatever.
	Look, you're doing the look, you're doing the face.
	I think you're a chick, to be honest.
	So I can't.
	Can I rate a trans person?
	I don't know.
	Yes.
	Why not?
	Yo, she identified you as a girl.
	First of all, and she said you can.
	She gave you permissions.
	You rate the face.
	Yo, Chad, am I being too generous?
	Am I being too nice?
	Oh, my God.
	Am I being a little too nice?
	It don't matter what they think, it's what you think.
	Yeah.
	Negative Nancy over here.
	All right.
	Nice eye area, nice nose.
	I think do you have lip fillers?
	I don't.
	I was just thinking about it, but I guess.
	It's the way she does her liner.
	It's just lip liner.
	Bro, I can't, I don't know if I, I'm going to skip you, I think.
	I got this.
	Go ahead and say 10.
	That means it's a 10.
	Yeah.
	No, it's not.
	No.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, my God.
	Let us play.
	That's crazy.
	But if you just say hypothetically, I am trolling.
	Then what would it be?
	If I was trolling.
	If you're actually a transition.
	Yeah, but obviously, like, I understand that me being trans is like a circumstance that could lower it.
	But hypothetically, yeah, I wouldn't know how to even rate a trans person.
	So I think I'll skip.
	Okay, for you.
	Huh?
	But she's saying hypothetically, she's trolling you.
	She's just a girl.
	Yeah, I know.
	I heard her say it.
	But why would you still skip?
	Are you my mom?
	No.
	I'm skipping.
	I'm skipping.
	All right, for you.
	All right.
	And then you'll be the last one.
	You have a unique look.
	What...
	What's your ethnicity background?
	Are you part black?
	Yeah, my mom's black and my dad's Hispanic, Mexican.
	Okay.
	Oh, you're at the same.
	Hmm.
	You rated your.
	I want to do the breakdown for you.
	Can you stand up?
	You want me to stand up?
	Sure.
	I'll give you a rating.
	at minimum your average five but i actually think i'd probably give you i mean you're i'm not going to give you too much of a up and down glance But come on, you're not a four-body.
	That's ridiculous.
	I think your face rating is probably a bit accurate.
	I might bump you to 4.25, 4.5.
	I think your total.
	If I give you a four face and a six body, I would give your total a five.
	Putting you at average.
	Okay.
	In total.
	And then I'm going to skip the rest.
	Can I rate you?
	yeah it's our turn oh i mean dang skipping me and i agreed Well, just for that, it takes a while.
	Okay, sure.
	If you want to rate me, go ahead.
	Okay, so coming from a model stance.
	Model stance, okay.
	Like, if I were to pick somebody for a job, or just like how I view people differently because of how others have viewed people, like in the modeling industry, yeah, I would say that you four, four in the face.
	I would say three in the body, but zero in fit.
	You could totally put more personality into that.
	Zero and fit.
	Okay.
	Does fit go into body?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I prioritize comfort over, I honestly just don't care.
	We know.
	Hell yeah.
	Comfort over everything.
	So sweatpants.
	Yeah, I don't really not a priority for me.
	So, but okay, cool.
	Yeah.
	That's fine.
	I wish you would rate me.
	Because I just want to know.
	I've never passed.
	I'm not going to take the bait there, but yeah.
	L-clip.
	Yeah.
	How about the rest of us?
	Fine.
	I guess I'll do it really quick then.
	Okay, Latrice.
	You gave yourself a six.
	I'll just do face for the both of you.
	Four.
	And then for you, four point.
	No, I mean, I'll try to be reasonable.
	I'd just say 4.5.
	Okay.
	Face.
	I'll take it.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Good.
	That was a good talk.
	Good talk.
	All right.
	Trying to think.
	Wasn't there something else we were.
	Bro, I'm going to.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Can you?
	No, it's okay.
	Tell us.
	It's okay.
	Tell us.
	It's okay.
	Can you what?
	What?
	What is it?
	I wanted to ask if I can ask you a question, but you're already mad, so it's your show.
	No, no, I'm not.
	Look, I don't want to like scare anybody off from participating.
	I do think, I don't know if I'm.
	I don't know.
	Nick, it's been a bit.
	There is a tendency you seem like you need to chip in on everything a little bit.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Just ask it.
	Just ask it.
	All right, so you mentioned earlier that you started the show like three years and a half ago or so.
	I've seen a video I thought it was like 10 years ago.
	You were like very fit, very cute, I guess.
	And you rated yourself like 6.9.
	And you said the reason is because you could lose some weight.
	But you only gained weight since then, so why aren't you losing weight?
	I guess.
	Again, I'll answer your question, but I don't find this particularly material to the con now.
	We're having a conversation about weight loss.
	So yes, earlier when I started the podcast, I weighed less.
	My rating was higher of me when I was thinner.
	There was a period as the weight started to accrue.
	I guess over time I've started rating myself lower and lower.
	So I guess to answer your question, yes, it was the case like two years ago or whatever, three years ago.
	Yeah, I needed to lose weight then, and I still need to lose weight now.
	Okay.
	But, okay.
	All right.
	It's because you entered the body rating as well.
	But like, you obviously care, but you don't really care.
	What do you mean?
	No, it's okay.
	What?
	You're saying you're not working on yourself.
	That's it.
	I guess the question is like, is there value in like what your rating is?
	Like, does it matter?
	Does it have bearing on you?
	I don't think that's what she's getting at, but I was trying to devil's advocate.
	No, I mean, to answer your question or your statement, I don't think that there, so this idea that by the way, I'm self-aware on this topic, but this idea that, oh, well, only like 10 out of 10 models can give a rating, that logically that doesn't make sense.
	Yeah.
	Logically, regardless of your own physical attractiveness or lack thereof, you can make a determination, regardless of how good-looking or not good-looking you are, if somebody else is good-looking.
	Right, but the question is, do you think that, like, do you think your looks matter to your value as a person is what I was trying to ask?
	I mean, you would be trying to lose weight, right?
	Yeah.
	Because why does your rating matter if it doesn't add to your value?
	You know what I mean?
	Wait, I'm not following.
	Okay, if we're all rating looks here, so what's the purpose?
	You care about looks.
	Why?
	I care.
	Well, sure, I care.
	Why are you not going to the gym every day?
	Wait, that's completely ridiculous.
	Don't you want to look better?
	Shouldn't a person want to look better?
	No, yes, I agree.
	And yes, I should lose weight.
	However, I don't see how this has anything to do with my ability to make a determination.
	No, you can't.
	That's not the question.
	You can.
	I did not say that.
	The question was just are you guys trying to be my personal trainer?
	Are you guys trying to be my motivated person?
	No, they're not.
	Because yes, I don't.
	There's no disagreement that I need to lose weight.
	You believe in looks strongly.
	Do you not?
	For women, you believe in what you're doing.
	The question is, I think looks matter for both men and women.
	Yeah.
	I think, but I'm not sitting here calling myself a 10 when I'm clearly overweight.
	That's not what's, that's not what's happening.
	You want to look good, though.
	I guess to look at it.
	I don't understand the logic there completely.
	To my point, I guess in the same video, that's why I'm coming from this idea.
	In the same video, you kind of like revert to the women who rated themselves higher, saying, so you're saying that there's no room for improvement, yet you are aware since then that there's room for improvement, but you're not taking steps towards that.
	So what's the point of rating ourselves?
	How does that logically, how does that lead?
	Are you basically saying that him judging, you're basically saying that him judging based on looks, yet he's not improving?
	No, I'm talking about his rating to hell.
	I could be morbidly obese and still have this conversation.
	No, no, I'm talking about your rating for yourself.
	I'm confused.
	What about it, bro?
	Okay.
	No, explain it.
	See?
	No, but you're not making.
	Like, I can have a conversation if somebody's being at least somewhat rational and reasoned and logical.
	I am not even understanding the basis of your statement or question.
	No, I'm saying that when you mention, at least in that segment that I saw, that you said to the women who rated themselves, like they gave themselves a high rate, that they are saying there's no room for improvement and you are giving yourself less than what you should, I guess, because you think that you need to lose weight.
	So there's room for improvement, but you're not improving yourself.
	So what I just said earlier, you're saying that he's mentioning it, yeah, he's not.
	Yeah.
	So yes, that was the question I said earlier.
	I know that you are aware if you're aware that you're not.
	No, no, no.
	I was just referring to your point.
	I don't understand your point.
	Brian, she's basically saying, like, why is it that you're speaking on them improving themselves if you're not improving yourself?
	Wait, what?
	Okay, logically, that's not even coherent.
	I didn't even give any prescription for any of the women at the table to lose weight.
	So I don't.
	This is why I think this entire, like, why I didn't participate, I think this entire thing shouldn't even have a conversation or continue to have.
	I mean, I think there's nothing wrong with it.
	However, when it comes down to it, like it's your opinion.
	Nothing wrong with sharing an opinion on how you rate somebody or how you rate yourself.
	Regardless of it, when it comes down to relationships, there's always going to have to be physical attraction being the number one thing.
	And I think it's also important to point out that looks shouldn't matter to your value as a person at all.
	So, really, like, not to say that looks don't matter, but like, they shouldn't hold bearing over you.
	Your value as a human doesn't change based on your looks, like your moral value.
	But if we're having like a conversation about hierarchies and the dating landscape and pretty privilege and this sort of thing, of course, it's the case that if you're good looking, you're probably going to fare better in dating.
	Actually, they've done studies.
	You're going to fare better in career.
	You're going to have even non-romantic, you know, people are more likely to be friends with you.
	People are more likely to trust you.
	If you're in like a criminal proceeding, people are more likely to believe somebody who's better looking versus ugly.
	There's all kinds of like pretty privilege that exists.
	And I think in dating, it makes sense, but pretty privilege as a concept in society otherwise.
	I feel like that I don't.
	You reject pretty privilege?
	Like, I don't.
	I mean, I don't like that.
	I think you shouldn't be treated differently outside of a dating aspect because of your looks.
	Well, we can have a conversation about what should be, but that would be prescriptive, what should be the case.
	But if we're speaking descriptively, what is, it is the case that if you're good looking, even outside of dating, if you're good looking, that's going to confer a ton of benefits.
	And I agree that that's a concept, but like, just it shouldn't.
	Well, I mean, we can talk about what should be, but I mean, I'm more interested in what is.
	Sure.
	Because, I mean, I don't think we're going to, you know, that's going to be something that we can really do anything about.
	Okay.
	So, yeah.
	But do you descriptively, do you agree?
	Or descriptively, do you disagree?
	I agree, pretty privilege exists.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I wasn't disagreeing with that.
	I still don't understand what your question was.
	Was it just like, Brian, why aren't you working out or losing weight?
	Is that the question?
	I don't know.
	No.
	So what was the question then?
	Okay, let's circle back around this one.
	Yeah.
	I already explained it.
	If you think that people who rate themselves like 10 or 8 or whatever, they are saying that they don't have room for improvement, but you're already aware that, I don't know, a couple of years ago that you do have room for improvement, but you're not taking steps towards making that happen.
	So what's the point of like disagreeing with other people regarding their own rating?
	Like the whole rate and thing is like irrelevant at this point.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Hold on.
	That is totally logically incoherent.
	Completely logically incoherent.
	So your argument is: Brian, three years ago, you rated yourself a 6.5 and you were thinner.
	But even then, you needed to lose weight.
	It's two, three years later.
	You've gained a bit of weight since then.
	You still need to lose weight.
	You shouldn't do the looks rating segment because of this.
	No, that's not a thing.
	That's literally.
	Is that not what you just disagree with?
	I said you disagree.
	Guys, he's falling for the rage movie.
	No, I said that you disagree with people's ratings for themselves because At that time I said, at least not this time, but at that time it said, because they are saying there's no room for improvement if they rate themselves high.
	You know what I mean?
	But the difference is that you're conveniently ignoring is that I rate myself a six or a five or whatever it is, 4.5.
	That would be the entailment of that built in is that if I call myself a six, that would indicate that there's room for improvement.
	And I've acknowledged that.
	Okay, fair.
	But can't you still have room for improvement out of 10?
	No, that's not how I'm going to go.
	No, but her argument is, well, Brian, you're saying that the women who are 10s, if they said that they're 10s, there's, and by the way, I have a whole bunch of reasons why I object to the 10 rating.
	But these women who are 10s, they're saying that they don't have any room for improvement.
	What would that have to do with my own rating and the fact, like it's completely logically incoherent, my lacking of having improved in the past two to three years?
	I mean, it's hard to lose weight.
	Okay.
	I don't think the question is, Brian, why haven't you lost weight?
	I don't think that's the question.
	I'm confused.
	That is not the question.
	So that's not the question.
	No.
	So.
	Oh, okay.
	I think.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Hold on.
	I think I'm starting to collect it.
	I think I'm starting to collect it.
	Give me a moment.
	Give me a moment while I try to figure this one out.
	Give me a second.
	Give me a second.
	So she's basically stating that if you knew during the time that you were rating yourself like about a six or seven and you knew there were there was room for improvement, why didn't you apply that years later?
	What?
	But then why is she okay?
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	But she prefaces this by saying, she prefaces this by saying, Brian, when women say that they're a 10, they have no, you say that they have no room for improvement.
	Maybe that's like a convenient distraction.
	I don't know.
	What the fuck does that have?
	Those are two completely separate.
	Correct.
	They are not related whatsoever.
	So I don't know why you preface it with this.
	What is the cost of tea in China?
	What does that have to do with the conversation?
	So what I'm saying is that you are disagreeing with other people's own ratings, even though they did not say that they have or they see a room for improvement, but you are challenging them saying that they should see that.
	Though you do see that for yourself, but you're not working on it.
	You think you have something, but you have literally nothing.
	You think in your brain you have something, but there's nothing.
	That's why I had to break that down.
	That's why I had to break that down earlier, Brian, is because that's what she was saying.
	I'm not saying that I agree with what she said.
	I don't agree with it.
	You know what?
	I just want to say you're high maintenance.
	You are a high maintenance woman.
	Yes, before the show, before the show, you sent us a DM demanding, in a very demanding manner, that those two mannequins, those dolls we have back there, you said, I have to find this.
	I have to find this shit.
	I asked politely, but he goes.
	No, it was not.
	Wait, was it you the one who replied?
	You didn't ask.
	This is, you've got a funky attitude, lady.
	So this is, let's see.
	Hold on, let me find the notes here.
	You're not the only one in the spectrum.
	Okay, well, that's helpful to know now that I'm dealing with an autistic person.
	Great.
	Two Autistic people fucking being autistic together.
	It's a fucking oh my holy shit, bro.
	Holy shit.
	Okay, so like a week before the show, you write to us, you've noticed, you say, I've noticed there are some sex dolls in the and you write, I would appreciate if we remove those on the 21st.
	I don't want them in my background, please.
	Those are your words verbatim.
	So my issue.
	So I said I would appreciate, like, I was.
	That's not a question.
	Hold on.
	That's a demand.
	Let me help you out with the English language.
	I know, would you speak Arabic?
	Yeah.
	Arabic, the first language.
	Let me help you out a little bit.
	You saying I would appreciate if we remove those, that's not a question.
	That comes across like a demand, like you're bossy.
	Yeah.
	And then when you say, I don't want them in.
	Hold on.
	W, W. Latrice.
	Sorry.
	When you say, when you say, I don't want them in my background, please.
	Exclamation mark.
	There was never a question mark.
	Exclamation mark.
	I don't want them in my background, please.
	See, that was very polite.
	No, no, no.
	It's not your background.
	It's my background.
	And once you said that, I said, okay, it's your show.
	Like, I do shows with other magicians.
	If we disagree, that's fun.
	So, this ain't your show, lady.
	This ain't your show, lady.
	It's your show.
	Hear me out.
	Hear me out.
	Because this is what it would sound.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Because this is what it would sound like.
	Because you saying it like that does sound very demanding.
	It would have been a little different.
	You would have said, hey, Brian, I know this is your show.
	However, those dolls back there, they kind of make me a little uncomfortable.
	Is there any possible way that I could not be able to do that?
	Can I share you?
	Thank you.
	Look, you're writing me my stuff.
	Did you want her to let you finish your sentence?
	No, I was just like, it's just you have to be able to break it down that way.
	Like when it comes down to asking for something politely.
	If you're asking something of somebody that they have no obligation to do, you need to come correct.
	Like, I have no obligation to do anything with those dolls, like the dolls back there.
	I don't have to.
	You got to come like in a way that sort of is, I don't know if acquiescing is the right word.
	I don't know if.
	Anyways.
	That's how you articulate what you say.
	You got to, like, my background.
	It's not your background.
	This is my background.
	How are you going to.
	Shit, bro.
	You.
	Damn.
	Anyway.
	Like, I mean, if you really think about it.
	Oh, and then what else?
	Oh, okay, guys, this.
	Oh, hold on a minute.
	One second.
	One second.
	There's more.
	No, hold on.
	Last night while I'm struggling to sleep, he messaged me at 1 a.m., mind you, asking me to bring some magic.
	So after I already prepped everything, and they told me to, like, not even to bring a purse or whatever, to bring like a small plot.
	I'm like, just like last second, I'm like, I have my stuff.
	I just did a magic show.
	I brought everything back home.
	Just like everything.
	What a deck of cards.
	Oh, my God.
	A deck of cards.
	Look, you have a deck of cards?
	I got a deck of cards.
	I got a fucking deck guitar.
	Why are you asking me?
	We're already bickering.
	We're like a married couple here.
	Oh, my God.
	It's like we've been married for 10 years.
	So, anyways, look, I'll just say this.
	The reason I messaged you then is because the night before the show, I compile all my notes and I saw that you said you do magic.
	And so I was like, oh, she does magic.
	Okay, she can do magic for the show.
	But hold on.
	Let me get to this, right?
	So before the show, you're like, I want to sit here.
	I want to sit on that side.
	That's my good side.
	Like, it's crazy.
	You're a little high maintenance.
	I'm just letting you know.
	Well, I'm not sure.
	Well, first of all, I don't like myself, but like, that's something that I'm going to do.
	I have a side that I prefer.
	But you were like.
	And you put me on my bedside.
	Yeah, but you're like, yo, and that's why I was like, I put you right here.
	But, but I wanted to select my better side.
	But that's high, that's high maintenance, man.
	Anyways, whatever.
	Whatever.
	I'm sorry.
	The girls are loving this conversation.
	I did not get your private chat.
	Let me take a look.
	The website.
	Can I hold a doll?
	No.
	10 years, 20 years, AI Bumble.
	The website?
	Can you?
	The magic website.
	Oh, sure, sure.
	Okay, super quick.
	We're going to pull up her magic website if you want to book her for your Consinero.
	No!
	I need to update the website.
	Too late.
	Pull it up.
	So, guys, if you want to book her.
	Oh, no, Nick.
	Oh, okay.
	Home tab.
	Home tab.
	It's okay.
	Keep it there.
	Keep it there.
	Just keep it there.
	You can just click it.
	So that's her website.
	Oh, my God.
	I have to look at it.
	Is that a fucking Fedora?
	No, there you go.
	That is what you have right here.
	Put that on.
	Put that on.
	Oh, you look good.
	Shit, I'm going to.
	Oh, wow.
	I'm going to have to book her.
	Actually, that does look good.
	I'm not going to do that.
	I have to book her, guys.
	Has anybody ever told you?
	Never mind.
	What?
	Tell me what?
	Never mind.
	Don't worry.
	Brian, I feel like I know what you're going to ask.
	Please don't ask.
	Say it.
	The singer?
	Yes.
	Wait, really?
	MJ.
	You kind of.
	Michael Jackson?
	I don't mind.
	With the hat.
	She looks like Michael Jackson.
	My bullies, my side men bullies, they always tell me that I look like Michael Jackson.
	So I get that.
	That's okay.
	I love Michael Jackson.
	I actually met Michael Jackson when I was younger.
	What?
	Hot fair.
	I'm jealous.
	I've never seen him.
	I'm very happy.
	He didn't touch me, by the way.
	Oh, what?
	That's not him.
	And he didn't get touched?
	Yeah.
	I want a handshake.
	I want a hug.
	Like, I'm right.
	No, I'm not going to do that.
	That's not fair.
	He didn't get touched.
	That's not fair.
	This girl.
	I totally forgot about that, but it wasn't real.
	I mean, not real, but it didn't.
	Dave Chappelle.
	Dave Chappelle actually has a joke on this.
	It's a little.
	You guys want to hear it?
	It's a little.
	No.
	It wouldn't be the worst you said in the show.
	Well, okay, so I'm going to totally butcher it.
	By the way, Dave Chappelle just dropped a new special.
	I don't know if you guys.
	I don't know if you watched it.
	He's kind of woke.
	Dave Chappelle's kind of woke.
	Like, on some stuff he's based, but he's kind of woke.
	Like, in the bad way.
	I don't know.
	He's a great comedian, but I don't know.
	He's kind of some of the race stuff.
	Kind of wokey.
	So, Dave Chappelle, I don't know.
	It's kind of.
	Fuck it.
	I'm going to skip the joke.
	No, no, no, no.
	You already started it.
	Here, take the hat off.
	Take the hat.
	Take the hat off.
	Anyways, the magic website.
	Yep.
	And then just click on the click on types of shows.
	Wow.
	Damn.
	That is.
	That's.
	Okay.
	Wow.
	Fire out of the way.
	Well, that's the filter.
	I don't like using filters, but I like that filter because it has fires in my fingers.
	I love playing.
	All right.
	You said you love playing with fire?
	Yeah.
	Like, actually, like, you play with fire?
	Yes.
	Do you like brain sheet?
	Yes.
	I fire spin.
	Like arson?
	Oh, you fool.
	I do my husband, though.
	He got me into it.
	Like, he does fireploy and contact staff, and I do dragon staff.
	Have you ever gotten hurt?
	I feel like I would hurt.
	Oh, gosh.
	Okay.
	Oh, here's a question.
	Do you think, Lauren, you are 29?
	Do you think you'll be better looking at 39?
	Yes.
	49.
	Yes.
	59.
	Yes.
	69.
	Yes.
	So better looking at 69 than 29.
	Yes.
	Better.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	Let me just repeat.
	You will be more physically attractive, better looking at 69 versus now, how you are now, at 20.
	29.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and then are you better looking now or were you better looking at 19?
	Now, for sure.
	What the fuck?
	God damn.
	Excuse me.
	She's burping and shit.
	Shit, you shouldn't, you can't, you can't.
	Even in private, you can't do that.
	Are you doing that shit in public?
	I said excuse me.
	I believe my either.
	I believe a girl should.
	Well, a girl should never fart in front of a man.
	And can the man do it in front of their girls?
	Yes.
	No.
	I will always do it.
	I'm just like you.
	I like them.
	I'm like, you too.
	Look, if you're a girl and you gotta fart, I don't care if it's negative 20 degrees.
	You gotta at least step outside the room.
	I mean, yeah, that's respectful for both of you.
	You gotta step outside.
	But if you're a dude, yeah, you can let them rip in front of your girlfriend.
	Well, men's farts are snully, so they should step outside.
	Yeah.
	I subject every boyfriend to a Dutch oven.
	Oh, my God.
	Yeah, fart in their face.
	Oh.
	Wait, a Dutch oven is what I think it is, right?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Yes, yes, the blankets.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's the test.
	That's the test.
	100.
	Will you be better looking at 100?
	Yes, I just think that's interesting.
	What about you?
	19, better looking in 10 years?
	Yes.
	29, 39?
	Yes.
	49, 30.
	Yes.
	Really?
	Yes.
	I've done this with you.
	You know my answer.
	What about you?
	Better looking at 31?
	Yeah.
	41?
	Yeah.
	51?
	Yes.
	Better at 51 than 20 now.
	Yeah, my skin's going to be so much better.
	Like, I'm all into that.
	You know about wrinkles.
	Yeah, and I literally do stuff to prevent that.
	That's why my family, they still look, they look hotter than they did when they was older.
	I mean, you look at that.
	61, 71, better looking?
	Yes.
	Okay, what about you?
	Like, you're 19.
	Better looking at 29?
	Yes.
	39?
	Yes.
	49.
	Yes.
	59.
	I think that's where it stops.
	39.
	I agree.
	Menopause.
	I mean, my grandma, you couldn't even tell.
	It is rough.
	But it's about taking care of yourself.
	59 is the.
	That's the peak.
	And then.
	Sure.
	Took some milk.
	All right.
	All right.
	Okay.
	You are 21, better looking at 31 into the mic.
	Yes.
	Better looking at 41?
	No.
	Okay.
	You're 24?
	Better looking at 34?
	Yes.
	44?
	No.
	Okay.
	37, better looking at 47?
	No.
	Whoa.
	No.
	That was gravely.
	That was a gravelly one.
	What about 27?
	Were you better looking at 27?
	Me?
	Oh, yeah.
	I mean, that was a little bit more than 100.
	And then were you better looking at 50?
	Better looking at 18?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	You're 40, better looking at 50.
	No.
	You're 40, were you better looking at 30?
	Yes.
	Better looking at 20?
	My 20s were rough, so I would say I peaked at 35.
	Peaked at 30.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Well, we have put all of you through an AI age advancement.
	No!
	Some of you are.
	You guys, this is an interesting panel.
	Y'all, y'all better looking in your 70s, 100s and shit.
	You'll be fucking.
	God damn.
	All right.
	Let's get that going, Nick.
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	Can you scoot into the table, please?
	What's that, Nick?
	I think it's fine.
	He's a baddie.
	So you said better looking at 89, I think?
	She's a batting.
	So the one on the far right, that's better looking than the one on the left.
	Look how much she's laughed.
	Yeah, but what does that have to do with looking at?
	Oh my gosh, the Delulu.
	Like when you grow old with someone, like you find beauty in that.
	Oh.
	Let me.
	Okay.
	Two questions really quick for you, and then we'll do the rest of the people.
	Hmm.
	Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?
	I have.
	Sure, you have, but is it your preference to?
	I just tend to.
	I don't know.
	You're how tall?
	I'm 5'9.
	Right, but is it your preference to date men who are shorter than you?
	I prefer to be.
	Or would you prefer to date taller?
	I prefer personality.
	So that's fine.
	I understand that for women, you can care more about that.
	But for me, I'm already 5'9, so it's not like I need tall kids.
	I'm already going to have tall kids.
	I mean, if you get with a 5'4 dude, you're well, I mean, height is who cares?
	Whatever.
	But you care because you're asking me.
	Well, men typically don't care that much about women's height, at least from an attraction perspective.
	Yeah, I don't care about height.
	As long as there's money, though, for you.
	At least not to the degree that I've.
	I've never said that either.
	So you're telling me you don't care whatsoever about height?
	No.
	How about this?
	Your last guy you dated, you said you've been single for two weeks.
	How tall was he, the most recent guy?
	He was, I think, like an inch shorter than me.
	So he was like five inches.
	Well, I'll take your word for it.
	The other question was, hmm, it was about height, and it was, oh, sure.
	You said you'd be better looking at, let's just say, 49, 59 versus now 29.
	Can you scoot into the table a little bit up on the mic?
	If I, and do you think when it comes to dating, do you think that women who are good looking or better looking, do they tend to fare better when it comes to their dating prospects?
	Yes, and no, but sometimes they have horror stories.
	Like, they have the worst horror stories.
	Well, I don't disagree that regardless of how good you look, you can encounter bad people.
	But the question is: if you're good looking, do you tend to have better options?
	No, I don't think so because I think like sometimes like their options, like you don't know what they're in it for or if they're in it for superficial reasons.
	So, you know.
	So, wait, hold on.
	Your argument would be actually uglier women have a better time when it comes to dating than beautiful women.
	I didn't say that either.
	Well, that would sort of be the entailment of your position.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Do you have lip filler?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So.
	Well, you do care about your own looks, anyways.
	Yes.
	So you are taking specific action to improve your own physical appearance.
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Because I like the way I look with lip filler.
	You like the way you look with lip filler.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I see.
	If it is the case then that you'd be better looking at, say, 59 versus 29, if the whatever podcast, this is probably not a commonly asked for procedure, but I'm sure it can be done with the combination of a tattoo artist and a plastic surgeon.
	We will aid you and we will fully cover the Cost of, you know, if they do certain tattooing to age you, um, and I'll even pay for like a for a three-year period, a makeup artist.
	You know, maybe we don't even need to have her do surgery.
	We'll just do prosthetics and we'll do makeup.
	And I will hire a full-time makeup artist to follow, basically follow you around, but you're going to be living a whole your whole life.
	Sorry, not three years.
	Okay.
	As a 59-year-old.
	Yeah.
	In terms of your physical appearance.
	Yeah.
	This would, from your own admission, you said you'd be better looking at 59.
	Yeah.
	So wouldn't you want to maximize your looks right now?
	And this would be non-previously, we've offered, hey, we'll give you plastic surgery.
	So you're just perma look older from here on out.
	Would you, do you want to take up the offer?
	I would just like start dating in nursing homes.
	Like, I don't know.
	Okay.
	Well, I mean, your actual age would remain the same.
	Yeah.
	So, but we could age you forward.
	No, because my definition of beauty is like, as you age, like I said, like the smile wrinkles are like where that came from.
	So I'm just going to be appreciative while I'm aging.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I guess the question is: if we have you and we had your future 89 years old woman time travel and come here today and you're facing a man, maybe he's 40 years old, which one would he pick?
	You're the same person.
	It's just you're different ages.
	Which one would he pick?
	Why am I concerned about who a man picks?
	But you're dating.
	Just answer the question.
	I mean, she already did.
	Shouldn't you say you didn't answer her question?
	No, you didn't answer her question.
	I would date someone who I'm the same age as.
	Can we not do this like coy, like not answering the question thing?
	It's a reasonable question that she asked.
	I think it's fair for you to answer it.
	I would date, I wouldn't even date someone.
	I would date someone my age.
	You're the same age.
	Is that even the question?
	Okay, so you're the same age in both.
	You just like have that look.
	You guys move to different looks.
	Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I want to ask Lauren.
	Lauren, how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?
	Yeah, how would you feel if you hadn't had breakfast this morning?
	I don't know.
	Like, fine.
	There you go, Brian.
	There you go.
	That's the point.
	Okay.
	Wait, what was the answer?
	She might have.
	She says she doesn't know.
	She doesn't know.
	There you go.
	Trust me, I've been on quite a few debates, and I ask this question all the time to people who have a hard time just answering simple questions.
	How would you feel if you had breakfast in the morning?
	If you didn't have breakfast in the morning and they dance around the question or they just don't really realistically answer it.
	So, you know, the whole time that you are being asked, she was just basically being really upfront.
	If you saw younger you and older you and there was a guy in front of you, who would he choose?
	Here, we're going to continue on with the AI.
	Let's go ahead.
	Not bad.
	All right, next.
	You said you'd be better looking at 70, 80, 90.
	Okay.
	Well, none of my family looks like that, and I got song jeans.
	Lauren, can you just skim to the table, please, a little bit?
	All right.
	Next.
	I took some milk.
	Okay.
	Thoughts?
	Dude, every time you guys put me into AI, it makes me look white.
	Like, that's not what a Filipino grandma looks like.
	Next.
	Bro, these almost don't look realistic.
	Yeah, AI is never going to replace humans, guys.
	Don't worry.
	It's definitely going to replace humans, but that's another conversation.
	Next.
	Why are the pictures so red?
	I know.
	It's a TV.
	You guys have no reaction?
	Hello?
	Okay, next.
	Lunch lady.
	Oh, I look like my grandmother.
	Really?
	No, like legit.
	I look like my Mexican grandma.
	They made you boom.
	I mean, that's kind of something that's inevitable for a lot of women.
	Really?
	Yeah, when we get older, we lose hair too.
	Way off.
	I don't know what age that is, but way off.
	Next.
	Oh, my God.
	See you in this.
	Christmas come early.
	We're going to.
	Oh, we've also gender swapped all of you, so we've made you into men.
	So the question is: would you date the male version of you?
	I would make a hunt.
	All right.
	Ready, Nick?
	Oh, pretty.
	Actually, it looks like my ex.
	This was Okay Would you date him?
	I did.
	She did.
	Okay, next.
	The most transferred question answer I heard.
	He looks like a femme.
	What is that?
	Oh, my gosh.
	Why did you keep it?
	This is just young Jack's up together.
	He gets in the butt.
	Oh, why did they keep it?
	Oh.
	Okay.
	All right.
	The fucking septum piercing has faded into the mustache.
	All right.
	Would you date him?
	If you were single?
	Next.
	Oh, that's kind of cute.
	Like paper carding.
	Would you date him?
	I mean, yeah, without the makeup.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, they did keep the makeup on, so that's kind of if he had no makeup, you would date him.
	Yeah.
	All right, next.
	Bro, who?
	Who's going?
	Yo, who the fuck is doing this?
	That's bullshit.
	Who's doing these, bro?
	Who's fucking there?
	They did an eye lash without the lashes.
	Next.
	Next.
	Bro, these are so bad.
	These are so bad.
	Hey, that's the trans version of you.
	I know.
	Like, if you were a chick and became a dude, that would kind of be.
	They both tins.
	All right, next.
	Oh, that's okay.
	Would you date him?
	No.
	You wouldn't?
	He looks nice.
	Yeah, he seems like a nice guy.
	He takes my face.
	Like, I could still touch my face.
	What if he was your co-worker?
	Oh, my God.
	Sorry, sorry.
	Sorry.
	Next.
	Oh, okay.
	Do you look like the beard is tough?
	No.
	I look Middle Eastern.
	He's kind of hungry.
	Why don't you just get color change?
	He looks like the guy from the team show.
	Okay.
	Man in a suit.
	I like it.
	You look like you work at a car dealership.
	That's a good direction.
	I would take it.
	I was thinking more like luxury retail.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Yeah, no, what's that, Nick?
	We didn't ask the question.
	We're going to ask the question.
	Oh, whatever.
	Whatever.
	Bumble, yes.
	Okay, so here's what we're going to do.
	We are going to hop on the bumble dating app, and you each get 20 swipes.
	You ready, Nick?
	I need an age breakdown version.
	Go ahead.
	What's your age?
	Preferred age?
	Lauren?
	Preferred age?
	I'm like 30 to 45.
	30 to 45.
	All right.
	I'm going to get up for a sec.
	Oh, I guess really quick.
	If you guys can, so you're just going to see, we don't see the whole profile.
	You get one image.
	If it's a group photo, you can just.
	If there's one guy in there that you like, I guess you could just pick him, I guess.
	Yeah, the hot guy, the hottest guy.
	I don't know.
	That sounds weird.
	And then try to just give us quick, quick answers.
	You can take a second just to look, but be like, yes, no, yes, no, whatever it is.
	That's pretty much it.
	Go ahead, Nick.
	No.
	Nick, can you make us bigger, please?
	Okay, tell me when.
	No, no, no, no, no, yeah.
	Yeah.
	No.
	No.
	Yes.
	No, no, no, no, no.
	Yes.
	No.
	All right.
	Let's see.
	Me?
	Yeah, age.
	29.
	Oh, I think he's asking about the next person.
	Oh, sorry.
	I have a boyfriend.
	I don't want to do this.
	Okay, we'll move on to the next video.
	Thank you.
	What's your age range?
	I would say 25 to 35.
	No. No. No.
	No.
	That's cool.
	No.
	Mm-mm.
	Not a.
	No.
	I don't like him.
	He got some nice abs, yeah.
	No.
	No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
	You guys are just fixing something here.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	No. No. No. No. No.
	It seems like they are distracted and they're giving you more than they should.
	Give us the yes or no.
	No. No. No. No. No. No.
	Oh, no.
	No.
	No.
	How many of these are we doing?
	A million.
	No...
	No.
	Yes?
	Okay, so you like black eyes.
	It's not that.
	They just don't look well cut.
	Like, y'all don't look like y'all put much effort in like his phone still charging.
	No, no, no, no.
	Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
	Nice traps.
	No.
	No.
	Blue collar worker.
	No.
	Sleeping on them.
	No.
	Oh, no.
	Yeah.
	No.
	No.
	mm-hmm age range uh 21 to 25 can we do girls okay Okay.
	Um, I can't even see his face.
	No.
	Yes.
	No.
	I can't see his face.
	No.
	No, I can't.
	No.
	Yes, because of the cat.
	Look at us.
	No, no, no, no.
	Yes.
	No.
	No.
	Sure.
	No.
	No.
	I can't fucking see this guy.
	No.
	To twenty-one to twenty-six.
	Okay, we'll just do this.
	Twenty-five.
	Uh, no.
	No.
	No.
	Yes.
	Just kidding.
	Um, no.
	Yes.
	Yes No No Yes Yes Yes Yes No
	No. No. No. No. No. No. 25 to 45. 45.
	Why are they posting up with girls though?
	How's that gonna attract the women?
	This is true.
	I hate when guys use those photos.
	This too.
	Or just be a woman, you know.
	No.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	No.
	No.
	Yes.
	No.
	Yes.
	No.
	Yes.
	No.
	He's a lawyer.
	Oh. Oh. Okay.
	You're married.
	We're not gonna.
	Do you want to do this?
	Sure, why not?
	Okay, age range of menu with you.
	35, 45.
	What was it?
	35, 45?
	No, I don't see even his face.
	No.
	Which one?
	No. I mean, sure.
	He got a nice smile.
	Let's do yes for this guy.
	No, I don't see his face.
	No.
	No.
	Too much beard.
	No.
	Sure.
	No, no, no, no, I can't see his face.
	No.
	Sure.
	I can't see his face.
	No.
	I can't see his eyes.
	No.
	I gotta see his eyes.
	No.
	All right.
	That was wow.
	Some people are kind of a little bit picky, I think.
	Who was the pickiest, Nick?
	Would you say?
	Chair three or chair Lauren?
	I think chair three and at this time.
	It was a tie.
	Okay.
	It's hard to pick.
	But Lauren, you said no to a lot of those guys.
	I hope.
	Didn't you?
	Didn't you?
	No.
	I think you mean other Lauren.
	Huh?
	Do you?
	No, I'm talking to you.
	I know, but I think she said to a few.
	She's right.
	It was few.
	I said yes to a few.
	Okay.
	Interesting to see.
	I guess the final thing on the looks topic is we have women here who on one hand 10, There's a lot of, I hear from a lot of women that they frequently date narcissists, but I don't think there's a better demonstration of narcissism as viewing yourself as, well,
	among the most beautiful women in the world.
	That, I mean, that would be narcissist.
	What was the story?
	He drowned himself in water or something because he was looking at his reflection.
	Isn't that the story?
	I love Greek mythology.
	Oh, my God.
	Isn't that the story?
	Narcissus?
	Yeah, so that's what it happened.
	You don't understand.
	He fell in love with his own reflection.
	Good for him.
	I don't know.
	Then there's some shit about daffodils.
	I don't know anything about that.
	Motherfucker.
	But just because someone thinks they're a 10 doesn't mean they think they're prettier than somebody else.
	Yeah.
	I would never say that.
	Can you speak into the mic, please?
	Just because somebody says that they're a 10.
	I wasn't talking to you.
	I was talking to Lauren.
	Can you speak into the mic, please, if you're going to speak?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So what was it?
	I wasn't the only one who also called myself a 10, so.
	And also.
	That's true.
	Yeah.
	And so I'm raising a son.
	I would want him to think of himself the same way.
	There are a lot to be confident.
	Well, I think confidence would actually point more towards being like, oh, yeah, I think I'm average looking and I'm comfortable with that.
	I think that's more confident than delusion.
	But I think that how I measure attraction is like from a holistic level.
	So that's just how I view myself as a partner, as a mother.
	But I'm also someone who does lots of self-work on myself as well.
	So.
	Okay.
	What is the minimum yearly income to be to be your future husband?
	I put $150 to $300K.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	$75K.
	What about you?
	I think I said $7K or $1K or I don't know.
	What I put.
	$41?
	Does that ring a bell?
	I don't know.
	What about you?
	I think I said $65.
	Okay, what about you?
	$6 billion.
	Is it billion?
	Yeah.
	What did you write?
	Elon Musk on this one.
	$6, $11 billion.
	I don't know.
	That's funny.
	What about you?
	I think I said equal to me, so like $30,000.
	Okay.
	You two?
	I mean, ranges, like, I went from like 50 to 100K.
	Well, I don't care as long as he's independent.
	I make my own money.
	Okay.
	If he wants babies, that's another story.
	All right.
	Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?
	A bear.
	What about you?
	A man.
	A man.
	There.
	There.
	A man.
	A man.
	Man.
	You'll get mad at me.
	I put a human male in a bear suit.
	I wonder why'd you pick bear?
	Why'd you pick there?
	I love wildlife.
	What about you, Lauren?
	Why is that?
	Yeah, I think.
	Yeah, same.
	I could just...
	You like wildlife?
	That's the answer, or whatever.
	Yeah.
	Is there a concern about, well, you know, in the instance where either the bear or the man is aggressive, yes, the bear will kill you, but the man could do worse.
	Is that kind of also a component?
	Yeah.
	I would rather be slaughtered than raped.
	Gotcha.
	Yeah.
	And I mean, I think that that's a fair conclusion.
	In terms of how you want to go out, I don't object to that.
	I guess my confusion here a little bit is the risk profile of a given encounter with a bear versus a given encounter with a man.
	So given that you've made a determination that you'd rather pick bear over man, I guess what percentage of men do you think would be inclined to victimize you in that way?
	Victimize me?
	Yeah, well, you said like one in four women are in abusive relationships, so one in four men.
	Yeah, so like that is absolutely not how statistics work whatsoever.
	But so you think because one in four women are in abusive relationships, by the way, what is what are we talking about when we use the word abuse?
	You think that would translate to one in four men are abusers?
	So 25%?
	Or is it higher, even?
	Yeah, I mean, that's just what the statistics show on the statistics show that one in four men are abusers.
	Oh, no, one in four women are in abusive relationships.
	Yeah, but even when they said one in four women, they didn't discuss, they never disclosed who is the perpetrators in those one in four.
	And the ratio between, as far as domestic violence between men and women, are actually even.
	So that's.
	So would this mean that one in four women are abusers also?
	Then maybe, yeah.
	Then maybe.
	Okay.
	Hmm.
	What I guess moving off of the abusive relationships or whatever, but to my question though, you said that there's the fear of like SA rape.
	Yeah.
	What percentage of men do you think would, in this scenario, would rape a woman?
	I don't know.
	If you had to guess.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	You can't even do an approximation.
	You think it's 5%, 10%, 20%?
	I would say like 20%.
	Okay, 20%.
	What about you?
	15%?
	Oh, no.
	Okay.
	I was thinking of this billboard that I saw on the freeway that said Uber gets a call about sexual harassment every eight minutes.
	That's every eight minutes.
	Just a billboard I saw on the freeway, guys.
	Don't call it.
	Of over 300 million people.
	And that's just Uber drivers.
	Yeah, I get that.
	And I wasn't even going with that argument either.
	You weren't going with the argument.
	No, genuinely, I just wanted.
	You want the cuddly yogi bear.
	There was no, that wasn't a trick answer.
	I just.
	Yeah, I guess just for you two, I would the question I would ask: if we were to reframe this question and instead of making it about gender, we were to make it about race.
	If I, if I won't say I, but if somebody were, um, if we swap it and we say, would you rather come across a black person or a random bear and the person picks bear over black person, would you think that they're racist?
	Wait, what?
	Can you repeat the question?
	I just said it.
	Oh, I don't know.
	I don't want to comment on race.
	You don't want to comment on race?
	Yeah, I don't know because I'm confused with the question.
	Okay, then I'll repeat it and you can tell me if you can parse it.
	So if we were to change, so the question was: would you rather cross paths with a random man or random bear on the hike?
	If we just replace random man with random black person, so it could be a random black woman or a random black man.
	If somebody were to pick the random bear over the random black person, would you think that that answer is racist?
	They pick the man over the bear.
	No, they pick the bear over the black person.
	Is it black man or like men and women?
	Person.
	So that could be a man or woman.
	So they switch their answers.
	Choosing a bear.
	Yeah, choosing a bear.
	Choosing the bear.
	Is he racist?
	Yeah, do you think you could be scared of bearing?
	Would you think if somebody picks bear over a black person, do you think that that would be racist?
	Are you sexist?
	Am I sexist?
	Yeah.
	Guys, don't muddy the waters.
	What do you want?
	Don't muddy the waters, though.
	She's already having difficulty comprehending it.
	Yeah.
	The question, would you find that to be racist?
	To pick the bear over a black person?
	I don't know.
	I'm going to opt out of this question.
	Okay, what about you?
	Well, I feel like now you've changed the question.
	You said person now.
	So you've changed the implication of what you're asking.
	I always said person.
	I didn't say black man.
	I said black person.
	No, the original question was man or bear.
	Now you've changed it to person.
	I did change the question because it's a new question.
	Yeah, so I think you can still answer the new question.
	I don't understand.
	I've asked multiple questions tonight.
	I don't understand why there's difficulty parsing this.
	I understand perfectly, but okay.
	To choose a black person, period.
	I feel like there's definitely implications, but I don't think it inherently has any bearing on race.
	To pick the bear.
	Yeah.
	So you don't think that that would be racist?
	What's the question you're really asking?
	That is the question I'm asking.
	What is the question you think I'm asking?
	Because I feel like elephant in the room, everyone knows what the man or bear question is about.
	like what is it about rape sexual assault that's well it could be a generalized fear that women have of men And I'm wondering, though, ultimately, what I am getting at is if it is okay to have a generalized, as a woman, to have a generalized fear of men, then what objection could you possibly have to white people, or really any race, having a generalized fear of another race?
	Could you ever have an objection?
	And I think a lot of you would object if a white person had a generalized fear of black people.
	You would probably say that that's racist.
	Why would it then not be the case that your generalized fear of men is sexist?
	Yeah.
	That's what I'm getting at.
	Because we could argue the same situation as far as schools.
	A lot of teachers that tend to be, you know, touching diddling kids are female teachers.
	Yet we're not generalizing women.
	We're instead still generalizing men as far as, you know, essay or assault in any kind.
	What if it's about their experience?
	What do you mean?
	What do you mean?
	Go into that.
	What do you mean?
	If you've had experience with a man that's tried to do that or like you've been in an abusive relationship and it's only been men that's done it to you.
	And it's only been men that's done it to you, like you could have that fear.
	That's no excuse.
	I've been a victim of essay by males.
	That doesn't make me change the fact that not every man is like that.
	But people react differently to trauma.
	It's no excuse.
	We still shouldn't be able to do that.
	We shouldn't generalize men for something that a very small percentage is doing.
	Same way that we cannot generalize women for domestic violence, especially in lesbian couples, we cannot generalize that when it comes down to women as far as being teachers.
	But that doesn't mean you're not going to have the fear from it.
	I don't know if that stereotypes are bad, period.
	Like on the other hand, the question is: so, is your criteria for what justifies fear?
	So, you said, What if I had a bad experience?
	And then you might even double up on that and you might say, and there's it's not just I had a bad experience, there's statistics.
	You can hide it.
	So, anecdotal, you have your own bad experience, and then you can point to statistics.
	Women can say, I had a bad experience with a man, and then men commit these crimes more often.
	Therefore, I feel justified in my fear.
	And it goes beyond just the fear because women, it's not just like an internal, I think to some degree, it's okay to have like some internal individualistic experience.
	However, when you start creating what I believe to, in essence, be anti-male propaganda and creating anti-male bias throughout society, endorsing misandry, endorsing sexism, and there's quite a bit of that online, I think we get into a different territory where we are essentially crossing into sexism.
	Sexism.
	But so, I guess my argument here is there's no dispute, there's no doubt that many women have had bad experiences with men.
	I'm sure the women here at this table have had bad experiences with men.
	I don't doubt you, and that's terrible that that happened, and I wish it didn't.
	However, I think we can't do this collective blame, this collective guilt thing of mapping onto all men or most men either what you've seen in statistics added to your own bad experiences.
	Again, I wish that these bad things never happened.
	They're terrible.
	I'm sorry that they happened.
	However, if the standard for having these sentiments towards men is I had a bad experience, I'm justified.
	There's statistics I can point to, men commit these crimes more than women, I'm justified.
	What is stopping a white person who's had, say, a bad experience with a black person?
	And they can point to crime statistics.
	What is stopping them from justifying racism under your framework?
	Nothing.
	Well, I didn't say I was, it's just human nature.
	Like, you could have a fear of that.
	You could be white and have black people that have had stuff happen to you.
	Like, that's just human nature.
	Like, you might be traumatized from that.
	But I mean, let's say, like, you haven't had any experiences, but you still feel that way.
	I would feel like that's a little different.
	Or you've had those experiences and you go through therapy.
	Like, people react differently to different things is what I'm saying.
	Well, there's no people cope and deal with trauma in various ways.
	I'm not saying that it's, you just need to, if you have something bad that happens to you, that I don't think I'm making, I'm saying that you should, I'm more so talking about like the outward manifestations of this.
	And it seems to me like in society, we've made a determination.
	Well, if you're a white person, just because a black person has done something bad to you and there's crime statistics that indicate that black people commit more crimes than white people, that doesn't give white people justification to have racist sentiment towards black people.
	I would never, you know, I think people need to be judged as individuals.
	So just because you're black, that doesn't mean that you should be discriminated against or anything like that, or somebody should have racial hatred towards you.
	No, I reject that.
	But what I see happening in society is that women are saying, I had a bad thing happen to me.
	A guy did it.
	Look at these crime statistics.
	Men commit this crime more often than women do.
	And there are some disputes as to the statistics, but even granting them, okay, I'm just going to be a fucking misanderist.
	I'm going to hate men.
	I'm going to be sexist.
	And I think that that's a really bad, I think that's bad for society.
	I think it's bad for the individual woman, even if it might be some sort of, I don't know if coping mechanism is the right word or some sort of, what's that term for, what's that word for, it's evading me.
	It doesn't really matter.
	But yeah, I don't know.
	But what you're saying is like overall sexist and not just like being afraid.
	I don't understand what you mean.
	Because when you were talking about like earlier when you first brought it up, it kind of sounded like that.
	Sounded like what?
	Well, when they said like you would be afraid of them, like a guy would rape you or something like that.
	Like it's kind of how it started.
	Well, the bear scenario, I guess the idea here with the bear is if you pick bear, but you would be, you would object to a white person picking a bear over a black person, then you then, and you might, you might label it racist, for example, you would then have to examine logically why it's okay in one scenario, but not okay in the other.
	And so essentially it points to if it's racist, then it's probably sexist.
	Like if there's a statement that you can make about men and you replace men with women and it becomes sexist, you should probably take a look at your original statement against men.
	If you say something about black people and it's racist, or how about, no, no, hold on, sorry, I got that mixed up.
	If you say something about white people and if you were to say that same thing about black people and you would say that, oh, that's problematic.
	That's racist.
	Then it might be the case.
	Well, it is the case that what you said about white people is also objectionable.
	That's what I'm trying to get at.
	Yeah, because there is an actual double standard where, you know, this whole, I think honestly, this whole man versus bear thing is just extremely ridiculous.
	You know, it's just this whole trend started off and it ended up becoming more so misandrist.
	And the idea that we are generalizing one whole group as far as, you know, when it comes down to biological sex, but then it then changes, you know, when it comes down to race, because it's automatically frowned upon if basically if white people just said, hey, I'm afraid of a black person just because they are, there's only 13% of us and committing more than 50% of the crimes.
	So they find that as an excuse to look at black people a specific way.
	But yet if they said that, which is quote unquote justified on their end, what ends up happening is that it still comes off as racist.
	But when it comes down to women having these discussions, talking about, oh, I'd rather choose the bear over the man, it's going to come off as sexist because you're generalizing a whole group, but you're generalizing men, assuming that that's how they all are.
	Even with the slogan that I keep hearing, that's BS, by the way.
	It's not always men.
	It's not all men, but it's always a man.
	Like, I don't understand the concept of this.
	Not all men are like this.
	And that's something that really needs to.
	I think this whole trend or that whole thing eventually just, I wish it would just die down.
	Yeah.
	Can I also add that ironically, all the women who pick the bear, they are still going on dates with random men they don't know.
	The other thing is, they always assume that the bear would kill them as in, like, he would have a sharp knife and just cut off the head.
	That's not going to happen.
	He may just chew parts of your leg and leave you alone.
	Like, he may do something harmful, injuring you, but just leaving you alone and he would be just struggling for hours, maybe days, or I don't know.
	God knows.
	May I add a horrific fun fact about bears?
	They will literally eat you while you're still alive.
	They will rip you up apart while you're still living.
	Some women, I'm pretty sure some women died recently from a bear attack in California, actually.
	From a black bear, by the way, Brian.
	Which they often say is the harmless one.
	That's the bear you don't have to worry about.
	Nick, going to some of your notes that I have here, we're going to wrap up on the bear race convo soon.
	But in the previous podcast, you said you hate white people.
	Oh.
	What?
	Yeah.
	Hmm?
	What do you want to say?
	And you said it's not racist.
	I didn't say that.
	I mean, one of my researchers, do you want to clarify then?
	If that's not what you said.
	Clarify what?
	Well, what did you say last time you were on the show?
	I said I hate white people and I was trying to be sarcastic, but watching back, I understand that the sarcasm didn't land with the panel.
	I don't understand the sarcasm, though.
	I explained it last time, too.
	Okay, but so do you or do you not hate white people?
	No, not in that sense, no.
	In what sense do you hate white people?
	I don't.
	That's the point.
	Okay.
	I was making.
	Never mind.
	Well, do you think it would be racist to call a white person the C-word?
	What's the C-word?
	I can't say it because we're on the YouTube and Twitch.
	I don't know what the C-word is.
	It's something you eat.
	Something you eat.
	Oh.
	Do you think it's racist?
	Is it racist?
	Yeah.
	I think it's definitely insensitive.
	What is it, racist?
	I don't know.
	I'm not white.
	I can't say if it's racist to, you know.
	You're not black.
	If I were to drop the N-word right now, would you think that that's racist?
	Well, we have two black people here that disagree on whether or not it's racist.
	But you, do you think it's racist?
	I'm not a black person.
	I can't speak on that.
	What?
	Wait, you can.
	Hold on.
	Okay, wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
	I can't speak on that person.
	Wait, one quick question.
	One quick question before I have you jump in, Latrice.
	Okay.
	Have you ever had an abortion?
	No.
	Do you have a position on abortion?
	Yes.
	Okay, so you can have a position on something even if you haven't experienced it or sure.
	Okay, so you're not a black person.
	Like, for example, I'm white.
	I don't think people should call black, like, I don't think white people should call black people the N-word.
	I don't think so either.
	I don't think anybody should use that word.
	But I think, okay, I think it would be racist for a white person to call somebody, call a black person the N-word.
	Yeah, sure you are.
	Especially with a hard heart.
	Does the C-word have like any historical connotation to it or not?
	That's why I said it.
	I still don't know.
	It's still a good question.
	For the sake of the convo, I'm absolutely willing to grant that there's different levels of severity to certain words, and there's absolutely historical context as it relates to the N-word and black people.
	And I'm prepared to say, yeah, saying the N-word to a black person, I think it's more severe than saying the C-word to a white person.
	However, that's not the question.
	A bad word.
	It's not a question of severity.
	It's a question of whether it meets the threshold of racism or not.
	I think severity kind of goes hand in hand with is it racist or not?
	Because that's why I said it's definitely insensitive, but it's definitely less severe than the N-word.
	So that's why I don't know if it's racist.
	I don't believe no one should be calling anybody a racial slur.
	Sure, go ahead.
	Right.
	I mean, like, being black, I don't think that it changes anything.
	I mean, there is a severity level, but it still is racist.
	Like, I've never heard anybody say the C-word to a white person in a non-racist way.
	Like, would you come up and say, what's up, C-wer?
	Like, you're not going to just randomly call somebody that, and you're specifically only calling white people that.
	And a lot of times, people mean to do harm.
	Like, I have never in my life met somebody who has said that word with non-malicious intent.
	And even if, like, even if the severity is different, it still is racist and I can still affect somebody.
	Anything?
	No?
	I didn't like the names that people were calling my husband.
	Okay.
	And it was pretty messed up.
	What about like in other cultures?
	So, like, let's say a white person went to Japan or something.
	And the Japanese, I don't know if I'm allowed to say it, but the Japanese have a word for white people, I guess, that is unequivocally an offensive slur for Westerners, I guess, white people.
	Would you consider that racist?
	I don't.
	Wait, what is the word?
	It's the nobody's going to know it, but it starts with the letter K.
	It's probably fine for me to say it, but I'd rather not.
	Just to be safe.
	Again, I feel like severity still goes in with like, is it insensitive or is it racist?
	I don't even know what this word is.
	I don't know what it is.
	It's a racist slur.
	You don't need to know the word and that's it.
	It's not gaijing.
	It's not gaijing.
	I know what you're talking about, but I guess I could throw something in there that in Japan, there's actual places and establishments that do not allow anybody other than just their own to be in there.
	Do you find that racist?
	Yeah.
	Well, what's the word for it?
	Is it xenophobic?
	Where you're like, you don't like other people that aren't from your country, period?
	Yeah.
	That's what I think that that is.
	But what about when white people only let white people into things?
	Do you not consider that racist?
	Because we all say that it's not that.
	Yeah, no, I would consider all of them.
	I would consider that.
	Yeah, I would not argue that any of that, doing any of those things are racist.
	Here, really quick.
	So your family's origination is from the Philippines.
	Yes.
	Do you speak Tagalog?
	No.
	Okay.
	Do you know if there's a word in Tagalog that might be a slur for white people?
	I have no idea.
	Okay.
	In any case, if, here, I'll just use the Japan example then.
	If I'm in Japan and white people have no systemic power in Japan, the government is run by ethnic Japanese people.
	They run the media.
	They run the corporations.
	White people have no power in Japan.
	If a Japanese person walks up to me while I'm in Japan and calls me the slur that I was referencing earlier, would you consider that racist?
	For a Japanese person.
	Sure.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	What about if I'm, would this apply like if I was in China and they had their own slur for white people?
	Sure.
	I don't know.
	When you say sure, it seems like you are begrudgingly agreeing a little bit.
	Because we're circling back to the conversation we had the first time, and I don't want to do that again.
	I mean, because we already had the conversation.
	Well, we cover the.
	Okay, well, you're here now and I'm asking it.
	Yeah, and I'm allowed to not like participating in this conversation.
	So I'm still having this conversation with you.
	Oh my God.
	Hmm.
	What about, I guess, final question on this?
	If we were in an African country and I don't know, they were had, can black people in an African country be racist towards white people?
	Sure.
	Is that your genuine?
	Yeah.
	Okay, what's with the attitude?
	There's no attitude.
	I'm answering your question.
	I mean, it just seems a bit dismissive.
	That's what I'm saying.
	If that's your genuine, if that's your genuine position.
	Okay.
	I have more notes for you, but I'm going to get to those later.
	I'm going to get into Lauren, some of your notes here.
	Your notes.
	Lauren, on your thing, the question, do you have any disagreements with the show/slash hosts?
	And you just say their entire setup.
	What does that mean?
	Yes.
	Okay, so I've obviously seen some of the viral clips like years ago.
	And then the other day, I saw some clips on like this, because you guys have multiple TikTok accounts.
	I feel like most shows and influencers do have that.
	But the way we have one TikTok account.
	Oh, you have one?
	Okay, so maybe it was.
	Yeah.
	Okay, maybe it was a fan account.
	I don't know.
	But I found some like most recent, like the most recent clips.
	And I didn't like the way that the debates were portrayed, especially like having women on the show.
	The way that you guys edited the clips were you guys asked them like random questions about like when was war 1812 or something like that 1812.
	And you guys like went around asking like irrelevant questions about dating, but to set the stage of denying all their opinions once it got to that.
	Because if people were to see other parts of you, because if they can't answer those like basic or random questions, right?
	Then you are already setting the stage that their opinion's irrelevant because they don't even know when War 1812 was, right?
	So I feel like the way that that was framed already puts women in a position where you're saying like their opinions don't matter.
	They're not even educated.
	Then also the blow-up dolls and your previous assistant, which I don't know what happened, but she's not here today.
	She is in the beginning clips like looking like a blonde, like crossing her eyes, sucking on a lollipop.
	And that's the one consistent woman that you do have on the podcast.
	So I also think that you're setting the stage of like your guys' opinion on women, which is completely objectified and that women should be quiet and submissive because I don't hear any hot takes from her and things like that.
	But that's just from an outsider's opinion from the clips that I did see when I researched the podcast.
	Sure.
	Okay, I'll try to go one by one on those.
	There was a lot there, but I'll try to.
	Okay, so we'll start with the questions.
	First off, most of those like little rapid-fire questions, that's just a fun segment to lighten the mood because sometimes the conversation can get, you know, a little heavy with even if it is strictly about dating, there's obviously disagreements.
	So that's a fun segment that we transition into just to kind of like ease up the tension or whatever.
	But additionally, that segment happens typically very far into the show.
	So like those questions are not asked early on to like be like, oh, look at these stupid women.
	Can discount everything that they say.
	It's usually, no, we have the conversations up front, and then towards the end of the show, we do some of those fun questions.
	In any case, I also do think, though, as it relates to those questions, while you might think that they're a bit unfair, I think, for example, if somebody can't name three countries, I don't think they have like a requisite knowledge.
	Like, they probably shouldn't be allowed to vote, whether you're a man or woman.
	So, if you're a man or woman and you can't name three countries, I don't think you're smart enough to vote.
	So, you know, that's kind of a separate conversation.
	The dolls, you mentioned the dolls.
	I don't know how that's material, but what's your criticism of the dolls?
	Yeah, because it's like it's making fun of women.
	Like, how would you?
	I think you view things through like a victimhood mindset.
	Okay.
	But how would having the dolls there be making fun of women?
	Look at the dolls.
	What about them?
	Describe the dolls in detail.
	They one has blue hair, one has pink hair.
	One of them is doing the fucking bell Delphine Hey Go face.
	Okay.
	Well, for example, our woman on this podcast right now was also uncomfortable being clipped with adults as well.
	So it makes women uncomfortable.
	That, well, this, okay, so we've had on over well over a thousand women on the show.
	This autist over here is the first woman ever to have ever sent me a message like, hey, by the way, I'm a little bit uncomfortable with the dolls.
	So I don't think like a one out of like a thousand plus is a is a great sample size there.
	Devil's advocate.
	What about all the women that were uncomfortable but didn't say anything?
	Yeah, because I was, yeah, and that's on them.
	They don't speak up.
	I mean, you walk past you don't think it's weird?
	No, it's weird, but why would it make you?
	What's up?
	I also don't understand why you would come on this podcast knowing that those are there.
	Like if you felt uncomfortable, right?
	But if they just don't come on the podcast, I mean, they're in also they're inanimate objects.
	Like, I don't know.
	I think there's people with opposing opinions.
	Like, that's the whole point of a podcast.
	So if you know pictures, then why are you like, yeah, my name is one of opposing opinions?
	That's why I'm on here because they've seen my so you have an opposing opinion to the dolls, but like, why are you making like exactly for that exact reason?
	Just for the views.
	No, no, it's because I have opposing opinions on some of their rhetoric on the podcast.
	So that's why I'm here.
	They're just anatomists.
	And that's what the whole point of debates are.
	And I still think there's a greater purpose to all of this.
	You know what I mean?
	No.
	There's literally a woman with like semen dripping from her shirt.
	It's just weird.
	What?
	That's not.
	Oh, is it?
	Is this fit?
	It looks like one of those anime girls.
	I don't know.
	It's some anime fucking.
	It's hentai.
	It's weird.
	I don't even know if that, I don't even know if the H word is allowed.
	Oh, it's probably fine.
	But okay, I mean, the dolls, I mean, if you want the like origination story of the dolls, it's not like to like embarrass women.
	The actual origination was if we ever use them after the show.
	Whoa.
	Huh?
	He's those two.
	Those dolls are virgins.
	Okay, sorry.
	Their chastity is intact.
	Okay.
	By the way, it would be a fucking if you did fuck a sex doll, it would be so inconvenient to like those things are heavy and they're dead weight to drag it into the fucking shower.
	Do you know?
	Are you speaking from experience?
	No, but you seem very passionate about that.
	Nick, if I recall, fucking moved.
	Those dolls are heavy as fuck.
	Ridiculously heavy.
	Like, it is so, I don't know why.
	I don't even know why a man would buy a sex doll.
	They're so fucking inconvenient.
	And it's like, I got little back problems.
	I'm not trying to lift some fucking heavy ass fucking doll.
	Anyways, but the origination of those was actually when I first started the show, they actually would sit at the table because we would get people who cancel.
	So we would actually scoot the dolls in.
	Now we don't do it because it's just like, fuck, whatever.
	We would scoot the dolls in if somebody was like not here and they would actually just sit at the table just as like kind of a funny meme.
	So we could like make the tape play solder so we can make the table look full.
	Also, it's just kind of a like, it's kind of a, you know, in music.
	And this relates to the Felicity thing.
	Do you know in music what a hook is?
	You sing, right?
	Or who was the singer?
	No, that's not.
	Sorry, that's you.
	A hook.
	That's like at the beginning of the song, there's like something like the melody.
	The beginning is the intro.
	The hook is the chorus.
	Chorus is different than hook.
	Oh, you mean like the very beginning?
	The hook is something that hooks you in, right?
	And so it was like, okay, if I have clips out there where I have a podcast and it's like, look, it's how many fucking podcasts are there?
	There's hundreds of podcasts.
	How do you differentiate yourself?
	Just something unique, quirky that stands out.
	What the fuck are, and so somebody comes across a whatever clip, their first time ever seeing a clip.
	Yo, what the fuck is that in the background?
	And even if that buys me another 10 seconds of their attention, they can listen to the conversation.
	And that gives me an opportunity to get them, oh, okay, this is interesting convo.
	But they wouldn't have gotten to that point had I not presented to them a spectacle as an enabling factor to hook them in.
	And so similar to Felicity, I have her, I've actually only done that for two episodes where she stood in the front.
	And by the way, we parted ways with Felicity.
	No drama, no beef.
	Wish her the best.
	I use that as a hook.
	So the very first thing you see is her doing like, by the way, that's not the hay gal.
	She just knows how to cross her eyes and make it go.
	It's that's innocent.
	I thought there was a talent.
	Yeah, she just crosses her eyes or whatever.
	That's the hook.
	Oh, what the fuck?
	Why is this girl doing this weird fucking thing?
	Boom, hook.
	To be fair, Brian, blue-hair girl's been around in the game a lot longer than pink hair.
	That is true.
	The blue one was the first, and then the pink hair came around after episode 100.
	You're not dressing them overly sexual.
	Yeah, but I thought that's the other thing.
	She's wearing a porn shirt.
	That's the other one's wearing a fucking Arby's t-shirt and a reference to Regina.
	So anyways, anyways.
	Okay, so there's the dolls, Felicity, questions, the entire setup.
	do you think the show is or or me even is misogynistic be for real No, I'm thinking.
	Because, I mean, obviously I have a different opinion after being here.
	You know what I mean?
	Well, what was your opinion going in?
	That was my first impression.
	And then right now, I'm undecided because I haven't.
	You love the show now.
	You're coming back.
	But, okay.
	But going in, you thought it was.
	Look.
	Yeah.
	But I'm very, let me just say this.
	I'm very used to people disagreeing with me.
	I'm used to people having different perspectives and worldviews.
	This is nearly episode 300.
	If you think I'm a misogynist, I'm not going to be.
	I disagree with you.
	I'm not going to be offended.
	No, I obviously not going to be offended because of your show.
	um what that was my first impression obviously but what you obviously sorry So you've obviously built something that is still something.
	And that we've been here, we've had meaningful conversations.
	That is an answer.
	Okay.
	Let's see here.
	I guess we'll move moving along from that.
	Unless you, did you have other quarrels or disagreements or whatever?
	There's some more reacts.
	Yeah, we'll do those.
	But Lauren, you said that in an email you sent, you said the conversations feel exploitative or dismissive.
	Because that was me, like literally after I saw those clips, you know?
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Also, you asked us, you asked us to pay for your babysitter.
	I'm not your date, Lauren.
	I'm not your date.
	I'm your potential person you're doing business.
	I can't answer this question.
	Don't we get paid?
	You don't get paid for it.
	Boy.
	Okay, so anyways, moving on.
	Lauren, I read on your Instagram.
	There's so much on your Instagram.
	I don't even think we'll have time tonight.
	Yeah, I know.
	But you describe yourself as a modern healer rooted in native ancestry.
	Yes.
	I do womb healing.
	So I do.
	Womb healing.
	Sexual healing with women who've dealt with trauma.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	You do EFT tapping.
	What's that?
	Yeah.
	So can you do it on her?
	I can, but I have to ask like personal permissions.
	Can you do it on yourself then?
	Yeah.
	So like EFT tapping is like, so for example, if you had difficulties with like confidence or something like that, then if I had a client with confidence issues.
	Every time she says confidence, she looks at me.
	Okay, keep going.
	No, just let her.
	Sorry.
	Sorry.
	So we would just do like, we would rewire.
	You're essentially rewiring the brain, right?
	Show us though.
	Show us the EFT.
	So you would just say something like, I'm powerful.
	And you would just keep doing that over your life.
	Can you do it like this?
	No, but that's not your meridian.
	Oh, okay.
	The meridian.
	Is this scientific or is this more like spiritual?
	No, there's actually a science behind it that actual therapists do use with people who have extreme trauma.
	So I want to do more because I've had clients and like we have breakthroughs in our sessions.
	So I want to like also get more certified before I do it more widespread.
	Genuine question is part of this like a placebo or is this like dead ass full-on scientific?
	No, actual scientific involve attraction.
	How do you get certified for it?
	How do you get certified for it?
	Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
	Lady, hold on.
	I'm sorry.
	It's not material to the conversation.
	You want to know the certification process of EFT?
	No, like I was, I was wondering.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Did you have to go to school for it?
	No, but I'm going back to school so that I can be more because I think it's really important to respect that type of space with people.
	So like therapists, like so you took like an online class for the EFT?
	Yes.
	But it has actual like data behind it that it helps people.
	And I mean, I've had personal experience with people that had breakthroughs with some like hard things that they go through.
	You also something about chakras?
	Yes.
	Well, part of your...
	So what's that?
	Chakras?
	So if you're dealing with SA, then usually your root chakra is blocked, which is the one that keeps you grounded.
	So women who deal with that, we tend to start there with our root chakra and we do I'm safe, I'm grounded, so that they can attract like safe like relationships in their life.
	Okay, you also write that even though you identify as a feminist, you're comfortable dating traditional men and enjoy balance between your independence and partnership.
	You think social media sometimes overcomplicates these dynamics.
	Yeah, okay, so you identify as a feminist.
	Yes.
	As a feminist, do you believe in equality?
	What do you mean by that?
	What do I mean by equality?
	As equality.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I think every relationship.
	I feel like every relationship should be equal, and how you guys divide it is individualistic.
	But you said you're comfortable dating traditional men and you enjoy a balance between your independence and partnership.
	Yeah, so like if I'm gonna have like a baby, then yes, like I said earlier, like he needs to like provide the home so I can have a baby safely.
	But if I were to get in a relationship where I don't have a baby, then things would probably change a little bit because it's just more of like when I'm vulnerable and in that type of position again.
	I guess my question mark on this is feminism and tradition are at odds.
	Feminism is modernity, tradition is tradition.
	And I think these two things are incompatible.
	I think they can come together because I feel like modern feminism is more based on like giving women the choice and like not so much like it's like less of the expectation that women should be traditional.
	Like you have the choice to uphold that or to like be more.
	So what do men, what choice do men have in this dynamic?
	Men still have the choice.
	They can like they can look for a traditional woman.
	They can look for a modern woman.
	Do you think it would go over well with 99% of women if I said I want you to be the breadwinner, sole breadwinner, and I'm not going to work and I'm going to stay home and take care of the kids.
	Do you think that that's going to limit my dating pool?
	99% of women.
	Like 1% of women might be okay with that.
	Sure.
	And that's why feminism exists to like start that push to make it more expensive.
	Feminism has been around for over 100 years.
	Women have had equal rights for a very long time, unless you disagree with that.
	Women are participating just as much.
	In fact, I think there's recent studies and data coming out that actually in a lot of fields, women are out earning men in certain fields.
	Women are in, I think in certain STEM fields, there's higher participation rates.
	I believe in the legal field, I believe it's equalized.
	So it's like, okay, well, all these women, though, where are they?
	Like, I'm just trying to kick it with the kids.
	I'll knock you up and I'll take care of the household, but you got to go out and work.
	99% of women, even if she's a feminist, it's not happening.
	Men don't have a choice.
	Men, at the very least, they got to do 50-50.
	But women, y'all have at least reserved the right in some instances to stay at home.
	Well, I don't think that just because it's taken a long time or it doesn't look like there's progress, that discredits it.
	Because I feel like there definitely still is this push and like more growth in that aspect.
	Are you a feminist?
	I would say that I'm a feminist.
	Would you be okay with a dynamic where you do the work and the man stays at home?
	If I could genuinely find a job where I can take care of my man, yes.
	You would be okay with that dynamic.
	Yes.
	A man who has no career ambitions beyond just taking care of the children.
	You'd be okay with that.
	If I can take care of our family and he can take care of the dates, you'll pay for the first date.
	Yes.
	You'll pay for the dates.
	This is not groundbreaking information.
	Yes, I was speaking about this last podcast too.
	Okay.
	Well, I mean.
	It's just generally, it would be really hard to believe because of the situation.
	Wait, Nick.
	Sorry, sorry.
	Continue.
	Continue.
	No, I was going to let you, but I was saying that I find it that is very difficult to believe, especially when modern women are still expecting a man to pay on the first date.
	But hold on, because let's just see.
	We're seeing how it is right now.
	Even in the times where us women have the choice to be able to choose whatever it is that we want to do with ourselves independently and individually, men still have to uphold the same values and the same traditions that are expected upon them.
	And again, I don't think that just because it's taken a long time for us as a society as a whole to come around on that aspect, I don't think that discredits the movement at all.
	I'm going to provide.
	I'm going to provide.
	Yeah, but I mean, sure.
	And that's for you guys.
	But generally speaking, women are not doing that.
	That's true.
	Because women are not doing it.
	And even if that's going to be the case, in most cases that women are out earning the man, they don't have respect for him.
	They don't.
	They just sit there and they look at him as though they want to have complete utter control over the relationship.
	And a lot of men don't respect their housewife woman.
	A lot of men don't respect their housewife woman.
	But like, okay, again, just because it's taking us a long time to come around on that doesn't discredit us.
	It's never going to happen.
	And why do you realistically?
	You have to look at it from a general aspect.
	Nurture can only go so far.
	There's certain evolutionary psychology principles.
	There's biology at play.
	There's just physiological realities.
	I think nurture is a component, but you're not going to get rid of it.
	You're not going to undo nature.
	And the reality is, I do think it is the case that evolutionarily speaking, there is something in women where they want to be protected.
	They want to be provided for.
	I'm not saying you're a hundred, you don't have chains on your wrist where you are 100% beholden.
	It's not complete biological determinism, but I don't think we can overlook that also.
	But then do you think that men biologically have a need or like a want to protect?
	And that's why women.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Then sure, if that works for us, then yeah.
	And that's why I say like, that's why I believe in feminism.
	It gives us a choice to like choose modernity or stay with tradition.
	I suppose, but isn't the point of it to like break tradition?
	Like, wouldn't you be more so a feminist if you believe that you could be the breadwinner winner and still respect the man and give the man the same respect you give a woman?
	Because if he's doing the same job that a woman is doing, but we give them way more respect, it's literally the same job and they should get the same respect.
	Well, also with feminism, there are some notable feminists who are very much against the family.
	Yeah.
	Like there's some radical elements of feminism that are anti-nuclear family, anti-family.
	Yeah.
	Like, I don't know if it's Sally Miller Gearhardt.
	I don't know if I'm even thinking the right person.
	Some of these major feminists, like, and their works are studied in feminist studies classes or whatever.
	It's like, we need to dismantle the traditional family.
	It's like, your ideology is problematic.
	Toxic feminine.
	But, I mean, Nick's, in your questionnaire, you circle.
	Men should provide, protect.
	Men should be chivalrous.
	Husbands should be willing to die protecting me.
	Take the bullet.
	Chivalry, you know, you could say, well, I would provide, I would protect.
	Women aren't chivalrous.
	Women don't do chivalry.
	Okay.
	So if men being chivalrous is a traditional gender role, a traditional, like, shouldn't feminism be about a rejection of holding people to their traditional gender roles.
	Do you want to ask me why I said those answers?
	Because I believe that relationships should go both ways.
	I will take care of my husband.
	I feel like he should protect me because I will protect him because we're in a relationship and we take care of each other.
	And that's what I meant by that.
	Well, two things, right?
	So, but as it relates to chivalry, how do you define chivalry?
	It's certain specific acts.
	So, for example, I can give you examples of these acts.
	So, it could encompass protecting.
	It could be opening the car door.
	It could be observing the sidewalk rule.
	So, the guy walks closer to where the cars are moving in the street or whatever, in the sidewalk, paying for dates.
	Although, to be fair, you didn't circle men should pay for dates.
	Because I don't believe that that's like a question: how many first dates have you been on in your life?
	You think?
	In my life?
	Fuck.
	By the way, some people want to do this thing with the term date.
	They want to say, well, well, I guess let's just, yeah, never mind.
	Disregard.
	Like, we just went out, we hung out.
	Something was paid for.
	You got dinner, yeah.
	Yeah, something was paid for.
	Yeah.
	How many of those have you done first dates?
	I want to say two.
	Okay.
	And what was the breakdown there?
	Was it split?
	Did he pay?
	Both times they paid, but I did offer and insist on splitting, and they said no.
	Okay.
	Well, I mean, can't get me here, bro.
	Eh, well, a little bit, but the.
	Well, if they're insisting and they're being nice about it.
	But you're the woman.
	You can insist.
	And I did insist.
	And they shoot me down.
	You can.
	No.
	Well, hold on.
	Am I going to stand there at the register for 10 minutes debating with this guy?
	Yes.
	Or am I.
	I dare say you decided to come here.
	In furtherance.
	Well, hold on.
	In furtherance of principle, like insisting is like, no, Like, I get that they're insisting too, and that creates a bit of a stalemate or whatever.
	But you should be like, bit, you should.
	This is how you could actually maneuver it.
	Listen, I get that you want to be nice or whatever, but I'm a fucking feminist, Brad.
	I'm a fucking feminist, Brad.
	I'll fucking leave this date if I insist we split it.
	I will not see you again if we don't split it.
	That's the level you got to go to if you want to see your feminist utopia project actually come to fruition.
	I just feel like that's too aggressive for a first fight.
	Don't you think it was?
	It's really aggressive that guys are like, no, bitch.
	Oh, well, yes, I do think that's aggressive.
	Well, no, I'm saying that in a joking way.
	I'm not actually calling you a bitch.
	No, I'm paying for that.
	That's kind of aggressive, don't you think?
	Well, yes, I do think that's aggressive, but it's not like they said it like that.
	Like, okay, on the one first date.
	I'm just saying they're calling you a bitch.
	When I say that, like, they insisted, I literally mean like I was like, no, I'll pay for it.
	And then he just tapped his card and I was like, I guess what can you do there?
	Exactly.
	That's why I'm like, just next time, tell the server to split the bill.
	Well, and okay, and I would have done that if I knew that they would have insisted that hard.
	But also, like, if they want to pay for the first date, like, do I, do you need, you know, like, if they want to do a nice gesture, why would I shut that down?
	You know what I mean?
	Like, I'll pay for the second date or I'll pay for other stuff.
	Or equality.
	Can you tell me what women do that's chivalrous?
	Um, I feel like chivalry is like very, a very masculine connotation.
	But, like, I think that chivalry is just like small acts of kindness to just like show someone that you care.
	So, like, for guys.
	So, what do women do?
	Um, I think that women can do the same thing that men do.
	Like, can, do they?
	I do.
	Like, my ex would open the door for me, and from inside the car, I would open his car door on his side.
	You would lean over his car door for him.
	But, generally speaking, do women do that?
	No, and again, do you think that the slow movement of a movement discredits it?
	I mean, the polite thing, though, is to get out of the car and open it.
	Like, leave it.
	Actually, he lets me into the car, and then I get back out to let him in the car, and we're just going in circles.
	Back and forth.
	Yes.
	And you know what?
	You're right.
	And I should have done that.
	Oh, fuck.
	I'm so stupid.
	I'm sorry.
	Well, I appreciate you apologizing for that and acknowledging that.
	So, thank you.
	Okay.
	Let's see here.
	All right.
	Let's pull up Lauren's Instagram.
	I wanted to review her Instagram really quick.
	Just scroll down to the photo part, Nick.
	There's so much there.
	Unfortunately, we won't be able to hit everything.
	You got some hot takes on Instagram, Lauren.
	I'm just saying.
	Yep.
	All right.
	Oh, do you know how to swap this next?
	Yeah, will Control Z still work on this?
	No, probably not.
	So here, in the sources, in the sources, double-click that.
	And then just put it center.
	That should be two, I think.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	It's fine.
	It's fine.
	Whatever.
	Dominance versus leadership.
	Can you click on that really quick?
	Can you try to put us in the corner?
	Like the thing?
	Do you see how there's like a gap?
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's weird.
	Sorry, guys.
	We're fucking.
	Huh.
	It's, I don't know.
	I think you got it.
	It's fine, whatever.
	Dominance versus leadership.
	Oh, my God.
	Wait, actually, you know what?
	This matters in partnership.
	Tab through the photo.
	No.
	Yeah.
	Provoke.
	Next.
	I'm not going to bite on this one.
	X out of it.
	Scroll down.
	Do you see immature partners become abusive?
	Scroll down, scroll down.
	You guys probably want to go to my reels for more hot tapes.
	Women are actually leading relationships and scroll down, scroll down.
	Reverse the poverty.
	Why men make terrible leaders?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so you say why men make terrible leaders and why women are choosing life without them.
	Tell me why men make terrible leaders.
	Well, see, you have to scroll through my post because obviously I did.
	You don't get notes.
	You don't get to read off of your notes.
	No, but what I'm saying is I did the same thing that you do here.
	You want to get attention.
	So of course I'm going to put something like that out to go on a greater point, correct?
	So when you scroll through it, we're comparing what good leadership looks like and what bad leadership looks like.
	And the rest of my point is both men and women both need to have some sense of understanding what leadership is because even women fall back on dominance and leadership.
	And that's why there's like an imbalance.
	Well, look, I'm not.
	I don't really have a big qualm with people having sensational titles as a hook.
	But the can you pull it back up, Nick?
	I'm assuming that you believe in the title, which is why men make terrible leadership.
	And then you go why men make terrible leaders.
	Give us the 30-second rundown.
	Why do men make terrible leaders?
	Well, in some relationships, I think that some men fall back on dominance because they are like tend to be stronger and they tend to be the breadwinners and the financial providers.
	So in the relationships that I've seen growing up, that's what I've saw.
	So when men fall back on dominance, then it also, you know, creates that power imbalance in relationships and why men do that as well.
	We kind of like went into like the psychology, like why men fall back on dominance as well.
	Okay.
	Next, pull it back up, Nick.
	I'm not going to push back on all of these just for the sake of time.
	Go to my reels.
	They're more interesting.
	We'll get there.
	We'll get there.
	Oh, click on the one with the IV bag.
	Me after.
	Can you read that?
	Just the caption?
	Can you read it?
	The men.
	No, no, no, me after.
	Wait, what?
	The subtitles.
	Me after.
	Oh, me after.
	Okay, me after talking crap about men on the internet while one sent me an IV drip because I fainted yesterday.
	So someone paid for it?
	Yeah.
	Aren't those like a couple hundred bucks?
	Yeah.
	Damn, okay.
	Whatever.
	X out of it.
	But he was a guy that I was like seeing for a couple weeks ago.
	Lame.
	Don't do that, man.
	Don't take care of the girl that you're seeing.
	The only drip you should be sending her is from your penis.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Wow, that was a good idea.
	I wouldn't even want to go.
	That was a good one.
	That's what he would say.
	Dude, that was the perfect chance to plug your merch.
	Like the only drip you should be getting.
	And he claims he's not a misogynist.
	What the fuck?
	What the fuck?
	Wait, wait, wait, Nick.
	Scroll back up.
	I think we scroll up.
	Oh, okay.
	I see.
	Scroll down.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I have better hot takes on my gun.
	Single mother caring?
	I disagree.
	Wait, a single mother caring for a child alone is juggling roughly five to eight full-time jobs.
	I totally disagree.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	The math.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Pull it back up for a sec.
	The math isn't math in.
	Five to eight full-time jobs.
	Okay, so you work, a full-time job is typically 40 hours a week.
	You work from nine to five.
	That would, you, like an eight-hour shift.
	You can, there's only technically three eight-hour shifts in a day, eight, 16, 24.
	And you said, what was it, four to seven?
	What was it?
	Five to eight.
	I'm sorry, Lauren.
	You know, look, math isn't my day either.
	The math isn't math in Lauren.
	Five to eight.
	Full-time jobs.
	How many hours?
	Wait, Lauren, I'm going to ask you one of those questions.
	How many hours in a day?
	How many hours in a day was?
	How many hours in a day?
	Oh, 24?
	Yes.
	Yeah, yeah.
	See?
	Well, no, but there's not enough for five to eight full-time jobs.
	But that means that my jobs aren't as good as I would want them to be.
	Like, that means I'm not cooking as many healthy meals as I would like because I'm exhausted.
	I'm not, that's my point of that.
	Okay.
	So I'm not able to, you know, sit down with him more than I would like.
	Do okay, all right.
	Well, pull it back up.
	We got some more.
	We got some more.
	X out of that.
	Scroll down, scroll down.
	Am I a traditional woman or a modern?
	Okay, wait, wait, Lauren.
	Lauren.
	Woman.
	I want.
	Can you say woman?
	Oh, yeah.
	I always say that.
	You gotta fix that.
	You gotta fix it.
	You gotta fix it.
	But you know what?
	That gives me engagement.
	Oh, because this is true.
	It's raid-based.
	Why men don't value emotional labor?
	We kind of talked about that earlier, so we'll skip that.
	Scroll down.
	You have to look at my reels, you guys.
	Scroll down, A little more, a little more, a little more.
	Click the flower one.
	I think that was one I wanted to react to.
	How to get men.
	Scroll up, scroll up.
	The flower one on the left there.
	No, it wasn't that one.
	I know which one you're talking about.
	Scroll down a little bit.
	I think scroll down, scroll down.
	How to get spoiled in relationships.
	Scroll down, scroll down, scroll down.
	Keep going, keep going.
	I get spoiled in relationships.
	Oh, wait, wait, scroll up.
	scroll up uh the most feminine thing you can do is the most feminine feminine thing you can do is to be financial Okay.
	Yeah.
	X out of that.
	Scroll up.
	Click on the pink thing, the core themes.
	I already hit on these, though.
	The EFT.
	Okay, so you teach the shit.
	Yeah.
	Or you do this shit.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I think you need to hook up Kamani.
	Sorry.
	K. Kamea.
	Kameya with some of your chakra EFT stuff.
	Why?
	Because I don't believe in that.
	Oh, okay.
	I disagree.
	I think her shock was saying it because it's for Wumhi, Lina.
	Okay, Nick, can you tell me the reacts we have left, Nick?
	We have some of the tweets that you wanted to do, and we have.
	Tweets?
	What are the tweets?
	Can you remind me what the tweets are?
	It was your tweets, and it was, uh...
	Oh, the dating-wrapped stuff.
	Yes, that's it.
	And then we have.
	I'll just add.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Here, yeah, go ahead and just show them super quick the tweets, and then you can exile those as soon as we're done.
	Yeah, just the video, and then we'll just tab over to the photos.
	So we're going to do a quick dating-wrapped segment.
	A lot of the girls are posting this.
	So basically, she's saying had 65 dates this year, ghosted 32, fell in love 14.
	That's crazy.
	Cried over 19 men.
	Next.
	Holy crap.
	I think some people like confuse liking someone with falling in love with them.
	There's no way she falls in love with them.
	Okay, so this girl, 17 first dates, 50 plus dates total, two situationships.
	Four made it past date three.
	100 plus Raya matches.
	Zero men under six feet.
	Nice.
	I love that.
	Countless crash out walks ending 2025 single.
	Tab over.
	16 first dates, 12 second dates, two situationships, 10 finance bros.
	Done with dating.
	Okay, so really quick going around the table.
	You can just tell us like how many first dates, third dates.
	If you want to add in anything, you're welcome to.
	How many first dates have you had in 2025?
	I've been celibate for a year and a half.
	So I would say two.
	Two first dates.
	Okay, and did they pay for the babysitter?
	Yes.
	Because you make guys pay for the babysitter.
	And then did any of them go to second dates?
	Yes.
	Third dates?
	Yes.
	Fourth dates?
	Yes.
	Fifth dates?
	Yes and no.
	None of them became your boyfriend, though.
	One, and then we broke up two weeks ago.
	Wait.
	How long were you seeing him before?
	In total, like a month, but I think that was like more situationship, you know?
	Okay.
	But you said you've been celibate for a year and a half, so you guys did not hook up?
	Yeah, I haven't been like actively dating no.
	Okay.
	You're in a relationship.
	What's your dating wrapped 2025?
	How many first dates this year?
	That could include just going over the dude's house and watching Naruto or some shit.
	Maybe 50.
	I'm not sure.
	Five?
	50?
	50 first dates?
	Yeah.
	How many second dates?
	Not many.
	Maybe three.
	So, wow.
	Okay.
	Of the 50 first dates, only three made it to second date.
	How many situations you had some situationships or something?
	Okay.
	50 first dates.
	How many with men?
	How many with women?
	Most definitely more with women.
	I'm not sure.
	You pulled those up, Nick?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	How much one first date, one situationship, and then realized I like girls.
	And not white people or white men.
	No, I knew that before.
	Do you like white girls?
	We'll find out.
	Would you date a trans person?
	Yes.
	Oh, sorry.
	She likes.
	She likes dudes, though.
	Can you make an exception?
	Yeah.
	Are you guys going to make out right now or something?
	Content.
	We're content.
	Do you guys want to make out?
	Awkward.
	Okay.
	So only one date.
	He hashtag me that.
	He hashtag me that.
	Only one date?
	Yeah, and then it turned into that situation ship from this year.
	So you've only dealt with one dude this whole year.
	I can back.
	How many chicks?
	How many chicks?
	None yet.
	None yet.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	How many dates?
	First dates?
	Two dates.
	And how many did you kiss and then told them after you were trans?
	One.
	What's that guy's name?
	Asd?
	Azder.
	Azder.
	Rest in peace, Azder.
	What about you?
	Just one first date.
	One first date, and then it's now the guy you're talking to?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Oh, well, you're married, duh.
	And then you, and even.
	You've been celebrate for 10 years.
	Five or six.
	Well, I've been.
	Yeah, somebody's got crack.
	I go and shit.
	Ten years, that's a long time.
	That's why.
	It's been a decade, no dick.
	I go and dates, but they don't make it.
	You got to get on that shit.
	You don't make it because of you or because of them?
	Because it depends.
	I almost want it.
	Okay.
	When's the last time you went on a date?
	It was two weeks ago.
	No, no, no.
	Two weeks before my last birthday.
	I remember this guy.
	My motherfucker is your birthday.
	I'm going to come.
	So it's by the end of August.
	I'm going to do the magic.
	Oh, okay.
	I heard something else.
	I was like, not appropriate that the podcast is.
	No.
	So it was.
	So by the end of August.
	Disgusting.
	I'm.
	Sorry.
	What?
	Sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	I thought we were not supposed to interrupt each other, but okay.
	I know.
	I'm a terrible hypocrite.
	At the end of August.
	So by the end of August, we only saw each other five times, and then he said he doesn't think it's going to work.
	Did you guys have carnal knowledge?
	Huh?
	Did you have carnal knowledge?
	Did you have sex with him?
	No, Nothing.
	Nothing happened.
	Was he a magician?
	Oh, he actually likes magic.
	I took him to a magic show.
	Well, actually, I said I'm going to take him to a magic show for my birthday, but he just didn't pay, and then he bought the ticket.
	So that was kind of him.
	I think magic is kind of an aphrodisiac.
	Like, I kind of got it when she was showing me that card trick.
	I was like, wow, this is kind of hot.
	Guys, this might be Riz.
	This is the new Riz trick.
	I've been mentioned the whole time.
	Yeah, I told you we're already a bickering married couple.
	So, okay, that's cool.
	What was the question I was asking?
	About how many dating raps.
	Okay, Nick, X out.
	Those, what are the next reacts?
	By the way, Azder's doing just fine.
	He knows we're home at.
	I love you, baby.
	He knows we're home at.
	I still don't think you're.
	I don't think you're trans.
	I don't believe you're trans.
	I still don't believe you.
	Do you want me to prove it to you?
	Yeah, I mean, if you actually, you can't whip it out here, but if you want to step back there, I'll take one.
	You've been a lot.
	Bro, I will take one for the team.
	Hashtag need that.
	He needs that.
	I'll take one for the team.
	Fuck it.
	But I'll do it.
	Will you actually.
	You're going to go for that?
	Huh?
	Freedom of Andorra.
	What the fuck?
	I don't know.
	Maybe she.
	We'll see.
	Whatever.
	What was the next react, Nick?
	We have screen readings more.
	Yes, let's do those.
	We'll get through Lauren's notes.
	Yeah.
	Can you read these, Lauren?
	Read them for us?
	Casually thinking about the one time this guy was 15 minutes late for our coffee date, so I ignored it, acted like my super charming self, and then looked at him straight in the eyes at the end and said, if he was late again, I'd never see him again.
	So he came 15 minutes early the next day and made sure that I was 15 minutes more late.
	Excuse me.
	Toxic.
	Toxic.
	Wow, that's a bit vindictive, a little petty.
	And then after that, he was like in love with me.
	Don't you think it's a little petty to intentionally be late, you know?
	But it was just to set the tone, like that mattered to me.
	And then after that, then we were like on time, you know.
	Look, I think it's okay to be upset if somebody's really.
	But I'm a little petty.
	And he's a little petty too.
	He's a Scorpio.
	So we were both kind of like petty-petty.
	Okay.
	And then, you know, Scorpio.
	We had a good, good run.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What's your zodiac sign?
	Guess.
	Aquarius.
	That's my guess.
	What do you think over there?
	I don't know, zodiacs.
	Okay, cool.
	Neither do I. Anyways, my sign is the money sign.
	Let's see.
	Next, yeah.
	Can you read it?
	Oh, yes.
	Casually thinking about the one time a guy was going to take me on a date, but told me he was going to be late because his pants were drying in the dryer.
	So I told him, if he doesn't come in wet pants, don't come at all.
	I thought he was canceling, by the way.
	So I thought he was just saying he wasn't coming.
	But he, in fact, came in soaking wet pants.
	What the hell?
	And we still went on a sushi date and he needed to sit on a napkin.
	When you say soaking wet, I mean soaking wet.
	How did he say?
	Like he actually took them out of the dryer.
	Oh my gosh.
	And then let me.
	But like, I just said, I didn't, I thought he was like canceling.
	So I was like, damp.
	Like, like, damn.
	Like, drip.
	Was it dripping?
	But it was definitely in the dryer.
	He wasn't lying.
	This would be like, it's a little different.
	But if a woman was on her period and she started her period.
	No, you can't be 15 minutes late.
	Show up with some bloodstains on your white pants.
	That's what you did, bro.
	I just said.
	So rude.
	I just said that I just thought he was canceling on it.
	But you didn't actually mean it.
	Yeah.
	And then you did.
	And then I was like, oh my gosh.
	Did you feel bad?
	Yeah, I did.
	I did feel bad.
	Was it cold?
	It was.
	Oh.
	Yeah, he was like sitting on it.
	Then I get if you were just like, actually, just fucking with him.
	Yeah, no, I was not.
	I didn't actually mean it.
	But it was funny.
	Not related to that, but because I brought up the whole period thing or whatever.
	Oh, that's completely.
	I think the most romantic thing a man could ever say to a woman is, you know, let's say you've already, you guys been hooking up, whatever.
	And she's like, ah, you know, I'm like on my period.
	And then you look her dead in the eyes and you say, I guess we're going to have to make a fucking mess.
	Yeah.
	That's the most romantic thing.
	Because if they declined, I would be like, you hate me.
	Like, if you declined, I'd be like, you hate me then.
	But truth be told, we can skip.
	I feel like every guy I've been with has like insisted on it.
	And then I was the one that said no.
	I said no because I was like, you're not comfortable with it.
	No, I'm never comfortable with it.
	But they're like, yes, yes, let's go for it.
	Wait, they're more into it?
	No, they're just like still equally as enthusiastic.
	I'm still thirsty.
	Yeah.
	Which I don't understand.
	Whatever.
	I think if you've been dating a girl for a minute, then it can definitely wait.
	But I don't know if it's like, shit.
	I feel like, guys, if it's, oh, shit, it's the first time that you're on your period, you're going to bite the bullet probably.
	Some people have a kink for it, too.
	Well, that's a bit.
	I don't know about that.
	That just seems very stressful.
	Stressful.
	I worked into this pan and seeing all the stupid kinks and wait.
	Okay, hold on.
	Child safety and volunteer.
	Okay, we're talking about that's different.
	Yeah, but like but the accounts that sell that material they also sell like material for all the other kinks in the universe next thing there Can you read this Lauren when my family says the reason I'm not married is because my opinions and I'm not nice but I get treated like a princess So wait even your family the people who know you
	They say.
	They say that you're not nice.
	Yeah, Because they're like doormats to men, and I hate that, and I would never trade my relationship to be with the type of men they're with.
	What do you consider a, I do think.
	I do think though, like women, like men will put up with a lot of shit.
	Like men will whine and dine.
	Like a girl who's kind of I'm not saying you, but I'm saying like in general, like if a girl's kind of rude or bitchy or whatever, like I think a lot of men tolerate that yeah, which I disagree with.
	That's why we all have different kinks kinks.
	I don't know if that's a kink, I just think that.
	I mean, maybe they're fucking master if I'm a princess in a relationship, some men love a princess, so it's a kink.
	That's what that's like how I see it.
	But yeah, do you like your man to be in control of the relationship?
	Um, in the bedroom?
	That is no in the relationship.
	Sorry sorry sorry, I don't believe you're trans but okay, keep going, keep going.
	Yeah yeah, keep going.
	I like it yeah, yeah.
	Well, it's like like honestly, even in the relationship like, what's your Adam's apple?
	No oh, my god, stop.
	Her experience like still counts.
	I'm just kidding.
	But yeah, control me, sweat me.
	I love that.
	Wait what?
	I don't consider that domestic violence, or like there's or no.
	There, you guys said something, what was it?
	Or like I don't want my man to correct me, like I want to be corrected low-key.
	Yeah, I'd say that that's what I'm saying.
	There's kind of a kink to it, not even kinky like I don't know.
	Okay, and it's not ridiculous to say that, because feminism gives us the choice.
	Oh boy okay um next, is there next?
	Oh, can you read this one?
	Oh oh yeah, that's fair.
	Men who don't take care of their family expect to be chased and don't treat girls with princemist treatment.
	I just said the type of dynamic I like and yeah, and I go in that one.
	I'm like ew, gross.
	Men who don't take care of their family, who show of hands, who here is a princess queen no no, or queen princess, I'm a baddie.
	are you a princess yes have you seen me oh no I don't like this I don't like the king queen princess prince shit no because it's like it's like the dynamic okay so like me thinking of this one guy went on a date with like he was just like was very like protective over me he got mad at this guy for like opening My door for me.
	And, like, I don't know.
	I just thought that was hot.
	It was like foreplay, you know.
	Like, he was about to fight a stranger.
	Yeah, but he was obviously not going to, you know.
	But it was like, you know, foreplay.
	I don't know.
	As far as this prince, princess, king, queen shit.
	But wait.
	Look, I personally think these people saying this shit at best are court jesters.
	At best, at best.
	I'm just saying, like, let's not bring royalty into this shit.
	Like, we're just peasants, bruv.
	We're peasants.
	We're all peasants.
	Yeah.
	No, obviously, like I said, my content is to.
	Yeah.
	Here's why I say it, Brian.
	Because, you know, the way that it works in my household, it is there is a patriarch.
	W. W patriarchy.
	Now, Lauren.
	Here's also the thing, though.
	The reason I name myself the queen is because the queen is made, but a king is born.
	Okay, fine.
	Go ahead, spec to it.
	Yeah.
	A king is a king is made.
	Or wait, no, a queen is made, but a king is born.
	A king is born that way, but a queen is made by the king.
	W. Agreed.
	Well put.
	Next react, Nick.
	Gonna investigate these fucking cards.
	There's a double side to them or something.
	No.
	I know.
	I was really looking at those cards like.
	Take them all up.
	There's something.
	You need something.
	Yeah, you imagine.
	Casually thinking about the one time a guy said he wasn't ready for a relationship.
	So I sent him a book on how to love and petty.
	I am petty.
	Petty, Lauren.
	I kind of like this one, though.
	Lauren.
	What the heck?
	That's something that I would do.
	You know.
	It's from what?
	And he read it.
	Sure, sure, sure.
	We'll pull it.
	Can you read this really quick?
	You posted this to your story a couple days ago, I think.
	Oh, yeah.
	We praise CEOs who manage high-stakes operations.
	We applaud executives who juggle logistics and personnel.
	Mothers carry the same level of responsibility for years without terms, titles, or time off.
	The difference, one gets a bonus and a corner office, the other enjoy it while it lasts.
	So as a single mom, sorry.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	I don't think the work I do is as much as the work that Elon Musk does for all of his companies.
	Like, come on.
	Yes.
	Look, women work hard raising their children, but I don't think it's like I think people misunderstand.
	Like, CEOs are, yes, very highly paid.
	Some might argue they're paid too much.
	However, these CEOs typically, a lot of them, I don't think they have great work-life balance.
	These guys, like people who are at the top, they work a fuck ton.
	Yeah.
	And they're handsomely rewarded because they work a lot.
	If something, some bullshit happens to the company, the CEO is he's kind of, he's going to catch flack.
	He's going to have some level of responsibility there.
	I don't know.
	Jeff Bezos.
	Jeff Bezos, single mom.
	Jeff Bezos, six sevens.
	Jeff Bezos, single mom.
	Which one is Jeff Bezos?
	Because I feel like there'd be a lot of billionaire women if being a mom, was it mom or single mom?
	I don't know, whatever.
	I think it was just mom.
	Instead of being moms, y'all could just be CEOs.
	If it's harder to be a mom than be a CEO, just be a CEO and make a lot of money.
	Which is fuck.
	I almost think it's harder to be a master.
	Okay, all right.
	Come on, Lauren.
	Give me something to argue.
	They have to risk it all to get to where they have to be.
	There next, I feel like there's one or two more things, maybe.
	Or did we do every other Reacts?
	I think maybe we did.
	Oh, there are her videos.
	Oh, boy.
	There's like three.
	Oh, who's that one?
	Three videos?
	Two videos then?
	Two videos.
	Okay, let's play the first video.
	I'll be back.
	Okay.
	This is a long time ago, so I don't remember what he's like.
	Sometimes I wonder if I'm a feminist or traditional woman, but let me just explain to you what I've experienced and what I believe after I've experienced it as a 28-year-old who has lived with a man and had a baby.
	So I play the whole housewifey role already.
	If you're like, well, you never got married.
	Yeah, thank God because I would have gotten divorced and thank God I never got married.
	I was the one who didn't want to get married because I was like, there's no way because tell me how this makes sense.
	I grew up in a very traditional household.
	And so naturally, I wanted a traditional household and I chose a traditional man who also grew up in a traditional household, meaning that the women take care of the kids, cook and clean, and take care of the house and the men work.
	And I lived it.
	But we also live in the modern day world.
	So when I first met my ex, I was 50-50, 50-50 on bills, 50-50 on food, and I cooked and I cleaned.
	The first couple months living with him, I was like, I feel like a slave.
	I remember doing the dishes every single day.
	And I'm like, I literally feel like a slave.
	Like, what the heck?
	This wasn't the dream that I had in my head about having a household, having a family, living with the boyfriend.
	So then I would work less.
	I eventually quit my job.
	And then I remember being shamed, like, oh, you just want a man to take care of you.
	And that's some things that people have said to me during that time.
	Then eventually, when I was pregnant, I was like, since I'm already doing all of this, I actually don't want a man and I'm going to do it by myself.
	Eventually, left that person, did my own thing.
	Then years later, we came back together.
	And I was like, I am not going to be with you unless you pay all the bills if you want a household family together.
	So then that leads me back to the traditional route.
	However, I finally decided that, yes, women can work and you can go 50-50 on bills, but that means that the household chores will go 50-50.
	When my ex was like, hey, we need more money.
	I said, hey, get another job.
	And he did.
	If you're a stay-at-home mother or wife, right?
	And you get home and you tell your man that you are tired.
	No fucking shit.
	You're tired.
	Because I want you to also think about this too.
	And this is a common thing that I see with people in my life, right?
	Look up how much it costs to hire a full-time maiden.
	Then I want you to look up how much it costs to hire a full-time cook.
	Then I want you to look how much it costs to hire a full-time nanny.
	That is three jobs.
	One, two, three jobs that people make salaries on and living.
	Thank you, Daddy.
	On.
	When I've been in working since I went back to my expression because I was like, we kind of talked about that where it's like the jobs and the.
	I stepped away there, but what Latrice, I guess, your thoughts on that?
	Because I'm wondering why is this why are we so focused on being monetized for something that we chose to do?
	I don't understand.
	Oh, God.
	I don't understand.
	I choose any job that you get paid.
	No, I chose to be a mom, but that doesn't mean that I should be earning some type of income because I chose to bring life onto this planet.
	And I'm just not going to choose a relationship dynamic like that.
	But also, you said you feel like a slave doing all those things.
	Well, what are you going to do if you just, you're living alone?
	You feel like a slave washing your own.
	No, no, for real.
	No, it's a real.
	But see, like that when he was working and did like multiple like jobs, like I respected that.
	That's not why that relationship ended.
	Why didn't you use a dishwasher?
	We didn't have one.
	She didn't have a dishwasher.
	Fuck.
	That's hard.
	Question for the two other moms at the table, right?
	So you want a guy to pay for a babysitter if he's going to take you on a date.
	Yes.
	So that guy who you're recently dating, I think you said it was a month.
	How many dates would you say you went on?
	Like five or something?
	Yeah.
	Did he pay for the babysitter every single time?
	Like for all the dates, most of the dates?
	Yeah, I don't want to talk about my last relationship.
	What?
	I'm just asking.
	No, I just, I genuinely, I don't want to talk about that one, but I can talk about any of that.
	I don't need details about the guy.
	I'm just asking.
	Because you say, well, guys should pay for the babysitter.
	But like in a normal dynamic, yes, they do that.
	Yes.
	Wait, the guy you were just seeing for a month?
	Yes, but I'm saying like in a normal dynamic, any guy that I date, they so he didn't?
	He didn't what?
	He didn't pay for the babysitter?
	No, yes, he did.
	Oh.
	Yes.
	But like that was the answer.
	To the women who are mothers here, should a man for a first date pay for the babysitter?
	No.
	No.
	No?
	100%.
	Would you ever ask, would you ever ask a man to pay for the babysitter?
	No, no, and here's why I wouldn't ask him because that's not his responsibility.
	Double.
	That's one.
	No, and here's the second thing that I want to add to that.
	And it's because of the fact that if my mine will, hold on.
	Because if my focus is, if my focus was to see if this man is going to pay for my babysitter, then obviously the focus is his wallet and not what he's doing.
	It doesn't make any sense.
	That's your child, not his.
	So he shouldn't be coming out of pocket for your child.
	No, it's a way that I weed out people who are serious about me or not because of my time.
	Serious?
	Can I ask you a question?
	Let me ask you a question.
	So I believe, you know, because I'm a prince, right?
	That if I go on a date with a girl.
	You're a princess.
	Oh, hey, easy there.
	You asked for money earlier.
	Well, you still haven't gotten your wallet, so I think chop, chop.
	But anyways, post, taste, go.
	Anybody?
	What?
	What?
	Gonna get away.
	Oh, you asked me something.
	I would like some money.
	So, okay.
	Let's say my thing, I will only go on a first date with a girl if she gets wax.
	She has to get waxed before the date.
	Everywhere.
	How would you know?
	Well, I mean, like lower body.
	I just don't think that that is an argument because the reason that I do that is for safety for my son and I and my time and my resources.
	Yes.
	Not safety in the whole DVD thing.
	But you got money, girl.
	You got money.
	Your service.
	Your time and resources.
	How do we do it?
	And no, because I'm weeding out people who are serious about me or not.
	And usually me too.
	If a girl's really down for me, she's going to wax.
	And we can argue that, and I think we should have that problem.
	And we can argue that men are equally.
	If I had a partner and he's like, I prefer women that were waxed.
	No, not a partner.
	First date.
	First date.
	First date, girl.
	First date.
	Yes.
	I'm going back to my same thing.
	so how about this here here's the i'll you guys aren't gonna You seem lovely.
	I don't think it would work out.
	But hypothetically, just hypothetically, Lauren.
	Just hypothetically, Lauren.
	If I were to agree to take you on a first date.
	Yes.
	Actually, this would be a huge L for me, but whatever.
	I wouldn't even.
	I'm not saying that, but I'm saying if I pay for the babysitter, I already know.
	But would you pay, would you wax your shit?
	Would you wax if, like, as a trade-off?
	A trade-off?
	I'm confused.
	Yes, girl.
	Yes, girlfriend.
	No.
	Would you wax your shit?
	I'm confused.
	Okay, first one is.
	Can I?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Hold on.
	Let me clarify.
	Let me clarify.
	First date, first date.
	Let's say it's not me.
	It's some guy you like.
	And he's like, hey, babe, absolutely.
	I will take care of the babysitter.
	But what I would like for you to do, poor Favour, will you wax your shit for me?
	He doesn't say that.
	He says, Well, are we effing?
	Because why else would I be waxing?
	So if we were, and that's his preference, then yes.
	One thing is, I don't know.
	That's his preference.
	But would you do it?
	Yes.
	I have a question.
	I mean, she's going to wax the puzzle.
	What if the male had a kid?
	Would if that man feel that I want to be serious about somebody, so to be serious, I want you to pay for my kids' daycare, the net.
	Yes, you're a fucking genius.
	You are a genius.
	Thank you.
	Deadly pee, fucking genius.
	Here's the question: You have one kid.
	And I wouldn't.
	He has to.
	Wait, stop, stop, stop.
	Let me ask the question.
	You have one kid.
	He has one kid.
	Crosses each other out, neutral.
	You pay.
	We need to split the sitter.
	We'd be like, hey, that's actually a good idea.
	Yeah, I'd be like, let's split the sitter.
	That's the question.
	What if she wants to go on a date with a man who has a kid?
	Should she pay for his kid?
	Yeah.
	No, because the reasons why that I have a man that pays for a sitter is because if I'm going to have his children, then she's going to be a little bit more than that.
	If I'm going to go into the coal mines and get black lung for this woman.
	But this is what I want.
	I'm going to go.
	This is what I want.
	I don't give a shit.
	I'm going to shit about what anyone else is.
	If it's the 1940s, I'm going to.
	Well, fuck the night, whatever.
	If I'm going into the coal mines and I'm going to get black lung, or I'm going to do some deep sea diving and get fucked.
	What is it called when you go up too quick?
	When you're accelerating?
	You get the bends?
	I think that is.
	Oh.
	What's it called, Nick?
	Nick, come on, you're smart.
	Nick, you're fucking smart, Nick.
	Figure the shit out, Nick.
	Just let it manifest in your brain.
	The Bens, Bens, if you go up.
	I'm a fucking, you know, these deep sea divers, these guys die early.
	It's so stressful on your body to fucking the pressure or whatever bullshit.
	I don't know what it is.
	I don't even know how to describe it.
	I'm going fucking deep sea diving on some offshore oil rig, fucking fixing underwater welding.
	I'm going to die 20 years.
	I'm telling you, these guys die 20 years earlier than they otherwise would.
	The stress of being that fucking pressure or whatever, I don't even know what the cause is, but they die 20 years younger, and some of them die on the job and shit.
	You got to pay for my motherfucking babysitter.
	And that's his.
	Whatever.
	So that's his baby.
	He has to pay.
	I don't know if that's what I'm saying.
	Is that when I lost you five minutes ago?
	Because we went down like a whole rabbit hole.
	I'm just saying.
	If that's a guy.
	Getting black.
	I think women can have standards and I think men can have standards.
	If I'm going to go into the coal mine.
	If I'm going to go into the coal mine and get black lung, the least she can do is like pay for the date.
	No.
	The least the woman can do.
	That's his choice.
	Like he wanted to.
	It's your choice to get fucking to have a kid.
	Yeah, and I'm, that's, and I'm not actively dating.
	I chose my life with my son.
	I'm just saying, if I got to climb the Burj Khalifa and wash windows, she can pay for the first date.
	I'm just saying, if I got to run into the burning building.
	If you want a woman to pay for the first date, if I'm going to have this crazy podcast where all these girls are stressing me out and like I get death threats.
	Okay, so someone is saying that's what he means right now.
	He needs a little princess treatment.
	Yeah.
	In fact, after the show, I'm expecting one of you is going to have to take me in and out and buy me a hamburger or some bullshit.
	Oh, hell yeah.
	I'll take you.
	Not a day.
	I will just fit.
	We go and there we go.
	See, I called me a matchmaker.
	He's getting his princess treatment, guys.
	I'm just saying, if I got this crazy podcast that's stressful, and I, you know, you asked why I was getting fat earlier.
	This fucking podcast, that's why I got back.
	That's what I'm talking about.
	This fucking gig is stressful in ways you probably can't imagine.
	But I would say, I would say, look, I don't know what else.
	I'm a fucking cop.
	I'm a cop.
	And I don't know.
	I'm fucking these people resisting arrest and bullshit.
	If I'm a cop, and you know what?
	That day, somebody resisted arrest.
	Yeah, the girl got to pay for the date.
	How about that?
	I'm a lumberjack and I got a splinter.
	She pays for the date.
	I am a plumber.
	Well, those guys are always dealing with shit.
	If you're a plumber, the woman always pays because you're dealing with shit literally all day.
	Like, if I'm a plumber, she got to pay.
	What else?
	What's some other jobs that men have?
	You know, what else is there?
	You know what?
	If you're doing like a hard job, you're probably getting paid, like, good money.
	She can still pay for the shit.
	Okay.
	Boil rigs.
	I like it when a woman simps.
	I kind of like it if a woman.
	I don't like plumbers, electricians.
	But don't you criticize men for simping?
	So?
	What is it?
	So then why do you encourage women to do it?
	Yeah.
	Wait, huh?
	What was that?
	What was it?
	Because it's a role reversal.
	Because this had been the treatment y'all been receiving for generations.
	Not me.
	And I'm over here.
	These men are not.
	I just need to know.
	Where's your villain?
	And where's this story?
	Get me some fucking money.
	I need to know your villain, Orange.
	I'm kidding.
	What started this?
	Look, I'm just saying, I appreciate if a girl simps.
	Like, she should be all over me.
	She should be a little bit obsessed.
	Not in a scary way where I'm like, this is.
	You just thought you had women stalking you.
	Well, I don't like that.
	I like a healthy obsession.
	But like, I'm going to have to get a restraint.
	No, I don't want a restraining order.
	But like, if a girl is kind of obsessed, I can get behind that.
	I can get behind that a little bit.
	But not like a creepy.
	Like, I will accept if she has a shrine of me.
	That's okay.
	Shrine.
	I'm okay with the shrine.
	You know, shrine is okay.
	Stalker, no.
	Like, daddy issues obsessed, not mental issues obsessed.
	Yeah.
	That's not okay.
	Yeah, bow.
	We'll do the bow.
	I like when a woman sims.
	I don't even mind, you know, like if a woman wants to take a bit of initiative, she can make the first move in the sense.
	Like if she slides into the DMs, I'll take it from there.
	But hey, that's I don't mind a woman taking a little bit of initiative.
	Just slide into the DMs.
	That's it.
	Careful, Brian.
	But I only date women with lunch ladies.
	Just kidding.
	I'll date women with any's.
	I'll date women with any's, you know, but she has to bow.
	And this is the video that I'm about to play.
	Si Senor.
	Si Senor.
	Nick is Spanish.
	He's a Spaniard.
	Boom.
	Huge bow.
	Did you see the fucking bow?
	Even Nick nicks into it.
	Look at that.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, in the Discord, I think I posted, you can keep it plain.
	I think I posted a new bow video.
	There's a new bow video.
	So, Lauren, this is what I think women should.
	You see this, Lauren?
	Keep watching.
	Keep watching, Lauren.
	And that's your kink.
	It's not a kink.
	It is.
	It is.
	No, it's not a kink lauren.
	Yes.
	Like, you just, wait, you prefer her to be on her knees, like, right when you came in, like, mouth.
	Oh, well, well, wait for play the bow really quick again.
	Just the bow.
	Boom!
	Do you see the boom?
	You see the fucking depth?
	You see the submissive hand posture?
	This is what I need.
	I get home from a long podcast day.
	My girl has my dinner ready, and she drops, she drops a wire.
	Yes, Daddy.
	Thank you.
	I love all your work.
	I prefer sir or master.
	I don't like daddy.
	You fucked up earlier, okay?
	That girl, whatever you are, called me fucking.
	Hey, she lived up.
	She called me daddy.
	Nick, one sec, one second.
	Nick, Discord Resources Media.
	Okay, media.
	And it's going to be, you're going to see three things from Matt Reif.
	It's above it.
	It's the new bow.
	Well, there's no bow, but it's the new one.
	I'm going to the bathroom.
	Do you want to come with me?
	Hold on, just wait.
	Just wait.
	Just wait later.
	Can I get water?
	I'm not making it.
	You got a new excuse.
	Yeah, I just needed a thing.
	Oh, there's.
	Lower the audio.
	We can play the audio, though.
	You want the audio?
	Sure, why not?
	Just lower it.
	Yes.
	Okay, yeah.
	What?
	Oh, geez.
	This is what I need.
	I need this.
	What?
	I'm scared.
	Look at the scampering.
	Look at the scampering.
	My dinner's ready.
	Wait, was that there before?
	Is she going to feed you?
	So, I can't lie.
	Peep and bop is actually really good.
	I want, no, I like that.
	I mean, she didn't do a bow, though.
	It's the only thing that's missing, but otherwise, it was good.
	It was good.
	That kind of attentiveness is what, as a man, I'm looking for.
	And I think y'all women, y'all gotta step up.
	All right.
	So do you like Asian women?
	Because I think.
	I like Asian women.
	I like white women, Asian women, Latina women.
	I haven't, Santa Barbara, there's not a lot of black women, but I would date a black woman, but I would say generally like white Asian Latino.
	Okay, so the reason I'm asking is because you can throw a Native American too.
	For Asians, the bow has different meaning than other cultures, for example.
	So like if you if you were to ask maybe an American woman to bow for you, that wouldn't be like acceptable.
	But like in a culture where I deem it to be, if I deem it to be acceptable, it's acceptable.
	Well, she's saying there's different meanings.
	Like when we come and greet each other, we shake hands.
	That's just our American culture.
	But in Asian culture, they'll bow to each other to greet each other.
	Yeah, but I mean, this transcends, this transcends culture.
	I can have a fucking southern white woman.
	I'm going to get a white, the whitest woman ever, and she's going to hit a bow.
	Well, we'll, okay, so it would have a different meaning because, like, it means, I don't know, it's kind of humiliating to like ask a woman to bow for you if it's not like the culture that she's, you know, it's not about, I'm, look, if you want to call it cultural appropriation, I am co-opting.
	No, that's not what I'm calling it.
	By the way, bowing has existed in Western cultures, in white cultures, in modernity, sure.
	It's more than Asian culture.
	You see it more in Asian cultures, sure.
	However, it's not about the cultural aspect of the bow.
	The bow is a is a symbol for her willingness to do something that is basically effortless in a completely effortless, easy, quick way to simply please and acquiesce to me.
	So she prepped the food for you.
	She did like everything for you before you get home.
	Yeah.
	But she didn't bow.
	Then you're still upset.
	That woman was like random.
	Like she's like on a treadmill.
	Like, Trani, please please do anything.
	Even then, you're like, oh, she didn't bow.
	She's attentive.
	Well, no, look, what she's doing is great.
	And the thing with the bow is it's her willingness to do it.
	If she doesn't do it, if she's willing to do it, that's and if she look, all the better if she does it, but it's the willingness.
	So she can just say, hey, I'm willing to do it for you, but she never does it.
	That would be still.
	Well, okay, so if I'm desirous of having a submit, like having my partner be submissive in a relationship, what better test than to ask her to do something from my perspective, completely benign, completely effortless?
	It doesn't cost her money.
	It takes three seconds.
	She can do it.
	It costs nothing.
	I'm looking simply to see: is she willing to acquiesce to this even small thing?
	And if she's not, I have to wonder: what about in instances in relationships where there is something important?
	Will she acquiesce to me there?
	Would you do it?
	No, I don't.
	There's not, I don't believe there's symmetry in relationships.
	No, I would not bow to a woman.
	The only scenario, however, I would bow to a woman, and I've explained this before, is if she's a billionaire and like, okay, Brian, would you bow to be with a woman who's a billionaire?
	Yeah, sure.
	Because then I don't have to work.
	So sure, I'll do it.
	But like, I'm a breadwinner.
	But you still have to work.
	That's retarded.
	you're both working why would why would what why would a billionaire expect their do you know do you understand how much a billion is yeah Yeah, I mean.
	A billionaire does not need their significant other to work.
	Well, I mean, Elon Musk would be the billionaire.
	Girlfriends all work.
	Huh?
	Elon Musk.
	All of his girlfriends work.
	Like, they don't quit their jobs or whatever just because they were dating him and having his babies.
	I mean, he's not making them work.
	Well, that's, that's what I'm saying, like you're, wait, hold on.
	I'm sure if he's got like fucking seven baby mamas or some shit, if Elon Musk's, one of the parents was like, hey, look, I don't want to work.
	He pays them plenty of money to the point where they don't have to work.
	But I'm sure he'd be fine with it and he'd pay them to be like, if they didn't have enough money or whatever, he'd pay them more to not work and just take care of the kids.
	So what you're saying is if you're the breadwinner making the most money, you want them to bow.
	But if the woman is making the most money.
	Well, I mean, in terms of how I would leverage, like realistically speaking, even if I was dating a woman who earned more than me, I would still want the leadership position in the relationship.
	I'd still want her to be submissive.
	So, wait.
	Even if she's a billionaire.
	So, okay.
	Oh, you have a private jet.
	When we're on the jet, it's my jet.
	It's your jet.
	It's your jet, but it's my jet.
	I feel like I'm just too dominant for that.
	Do you have a private jet?
	If I did, it would be my jet.
	You can get it.
	What do you mean you're too dominant for what?
	Like, if you earn more money than the guy, you wouldn't be submissive?
	Or you're not submissive?
	I'm not submissive at all.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, hey, that's fine.
	Yeah.
	Find yourself a guy who will let you peg him.
	Find yourself a little soy boy.
	I didn't say I need to peg him.
	I'm just going to go.
	Wait, hold on.
	Hold on.
	You prefer black guys, right?
	I never said that.
	I prefer personality.
	But you have a preference at all?
	No, not really.
	Because I feel like you could get away with this with a white guy.
	I don't know if a black guy's going to get on board with it.
	Every guy I've been with, Asian, black, Native American, Mexican, and white, have accepted it.
	And if you can't accept it, you can walk your ass right out the door.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	Obviously, you're going to have to deal with a guy who's going to agree to your terms.
	Everybody does that.
	It's not terms, it's just how I am.
	I'm just a dominant person.
	Okay, good for you.
	And you know what?
	That's fine.
	But most men don't want that.
	I mean, hey.
	You want girls to clean the house for you?
	Shit.
	I mean, I'll clean the house as long as you're cleaning the house because I'm still going to be working and you're going to be working.
	Like, I'd most definitely be working more hours.
	Question for all the women at the panel.
	Where's that?
	Where's the little Filipino girl?
	Where is she?
	Bathroom.
	Hey.
	Hey.
	I'm going to.
	I'm going to talk some shit in Tagalog or whatever.
	Doesn't faze me.
	I don't know it.
	Okay.
	What's that?
	We don't bow on the Philippines.
	Well, you're not bowing on stage.
	Oh, going around the table.
	Who here has like a, I get, you know, this is a bit more of a feminist panel or whatever.
	For the perfect man, picture it now in your mind's eye.
	Perfect man.
	Perfect looks, perfect height, perfect personality, perfect money, perfect treatment, perfect to loyalty, everything across the board.
	Perfect.
	Whatever perfect is to you.
	For the perfect man, do you give up your career?
	No.
	What's your career?
	No.
	My career is working with people with trauma, the EFT tapping.
	Okay, so you come across your perfect man and he's a billionaire.
	He's like, look, I want to take care of you.
	I'm going to take care of your kid.
	You'll never have to work another day in your life.
	You can spend as much time with me, with your kid as you want.
	Everything you want paid for, everything.
	You get the best house, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
	The one thing you have to do is give up that.
	Do you give it up?
	No.
	Brian, I want to add: no prenup.
	What?
	I already said no.
	Even with no prenup involved.
	Wait, what?
	Well, the perfect man, the entailment here, he would never leave her.
	The perfect man will never leave you.
	Yeah.
	You don't give up your career.
	No, because it has a greater meaning to it.
	But think about the benefit to your child.
	The benefit to my child.
	Of aligning.
	So now you have the perfect father figure in your child's life and the perfect provider.
	Once they start school, then what am I going to do?
	You know what I mean?
	Hold on.
	School.
	Public school.
	Yes.
	Public school.
	You can hire me.
	My perfect relationship.
	My perfect relationship would be: yes, when they're little, I'm home with them.
	And like I was home with my son.
	So yes.
	You're going to pump out more kids.
	Yeah, probably.
	Right?
	Yeah, maybe.
	You meet the perfect guy, you're going to pump out more kids?
	Yeah, I'm not about public school.
	I'm actually thinking about homeschooling, but homeschool's better.
	But, okay.
	You don't give it up for the perfect guy.
	No.
	Really?
	The perfect guy?
	Have you ever met a perfect guy?
	No.
	Because if I did, I would be married.
	Question.
	If we think of perfect as a spectrum, perfect over here, the worst human, I don't know, Stalin plus Hitler, plus Carrot Tot.
	What's the furthest to perfect on the spectrum that you've encountered in a man?
	Okay, ready?
	I'm going to move the bar.
	What?
	Okay.
	Wait.
	Here, this hand, right hand, my right hand, this side, perfect man.
	This side, worst man.
	Evil man, terrible man.
	Okay.
	Tell me when to stop.
	Oh, it's like the best man.
	No, no, tell me.
	It's like here.
	Tell me when to stop.
	Okay, you ready?
	In terms of the best man you've ever dealt with.
	Okay.
	Okay, stop.
	Okay, that's kind of close, I guess.
	There was someone that was close.
	Okay.
	Didn't work out, though.
	Yeah.
	Didn't work out.
	Yeah.
	We had different, yeah, different opinions on important things.
	You're 29.
	You've been dating for a while.
	Right?
	I'm 36.
	I've been dating for a while.
	We can probably agree.
	It's hard out there, right?
	There's not a lot of good people out.
	It's not that they're not good people, but maybe they're a good person, but it's you're different.
	You don't connect.
	You don't find them attractive.
	They don't think you're attractive.
	The person that you like, they don't like you.
	The person that likes you, you don't like them.
	It's a complicated thing, right?
	You've been out there in the dating field.
	You've dealt with a bad guy too, by the way.
	If I could instantly deliver to you the perfect man, you don't take it.
	No, because.
	Let me ask you a different question.
	Get the man out of the picture.
	Okay.
	In my hand, I could give you $10 billion.
	All you have to do in order to have the $10 billion is you have to quit your job and you cannot work one more day.
	Do you take the $10 billion?
	No.
	No, because I don't know how much $10 billion is.
	Because I generational thousand-year dynasty actual.
	Like, no, you won't even be able to run that money out even after you're long gone.
	I understanding what you're saying.
	I think that I love what I do and the work that I do with women.
	You love what you do more than $10 billion.
	Yeah, yeah.
	She said her child encouraged first.
	Okay, all right.
	I'm going to move on.
	For the perfect man, do you give up your career?
	Like, assume you're in college, right?
	What do you want to be when you grow up?
	Optometrist.
	Okay.
	The perfect man comes along.
	Yeah.
	And well, I know you're in a relationship, so I'm trying to think how I can frame it.
	Like, if you were, I can do a hypothetical.
	Sure, sure.
	Okay, thank you.
	The perfect man comes along, but in order for you to be with him, and it's not him imposing something, it's a magic genie.
	So he's not being like a dickhead.
	The magic genie says, I will give you the perfect man, but you have to drop out of college and you have to, you can't pursue a career.
	Yeah.
	Do you take the do you take the trade?
	Yeah, I'd like to be a doctor, but my goal is to travel.
	I would take the trade easily.
	For the perfect perfect man, do you take the trade?
	No.
	Really?
	Billion.
	No man is going to fulfill me like singing fulfills me, like being on that stage.
	Like, oh my God.
	I'd rather, I'm not even going to have a kid until I'm where I'm at, where I want to be.
	Like, you don't even understand how addicting and how just amazing you feel when you do that.
	Like, my singing is my everything, and it will always be my everything.
	You could sing in private.
	No.
	You can still sing.
	No, that's not what I want to do.
	You can sing in the shower.
	Sing in the shower.
	You can sing to your husband.
	How about that?
	I want to sing to everybody.
	I want to share my art.
	Wild.
	That's not being on stage.
	That's not getting cheered for.
	You're lying down.
	Okay.
	For the perfect man, you give up your career.
	Do you mean that I'm not allowed to do what I want for a career at all?
	Which is what?
	Tell us what that is.
	Like working in film.
	But like.
	Film.
	Yeah, like a film producer or director.
	With Harvey Weinstein.
	Okay.
	But I mean, like, am I not allowed to be a perfect man?
	Perfect man, billionaire, hot.
	Yeah, whatever.
	I get the question.
	But like, am I not allowed to do it, period?
	Like, am I able to do it, but with no?
	That is a profession.
	So, like, if you want to sit at the computer and like edit YouTube videos, but like, could I do it, but without an income?
	My concern is that I feel like I just wouldn't feel fulfilled.
	I wouldn't have like any ambition.
	You know what I mean?
	Well, like, I need something to do.
	You can travel.
	You have your partner.
	You can have a lot of people.
	But that's only so much.
	Like, I need something to do.
	Like, I want to do stuff that I enjoy.
	But if I can't.
	Is up with she's rich.
	What is up with people?
	I'm just saying.
	This is not even true.
	This is not even true.
	She drives a test slide on my face.
	This is not even true.
	We live in two different worlds.
	She's a trust fund kid or whatever.
	No, I'm not.
	Her parents are Denero.
	No.
	I'm broke and I drive a Tesla.
	Why are women so obsessed with the rat race?
	Like, no, because it's like it's genuinely just like mental wellness.
	Like, what, what the fuck am I going to do?
	You know, what do you mean by the rat race?
	Because, like, I don't know.
	Work.
	The rat race.
	I don't care for work.
	I just care for singing and sharing my art.
	Like, if I don't get paid for it, I don't get paid for it.
	Are your parents?
	No.
	Okay.
	Treated by yourself.
	So, right now, right now, you do a job besides singing, right?
	Yeah.
	Like, do you, would you have a waitress?
	Because a lot of people in Hollywood, a lot of people in the entertainment industry, they're fucking waiters.
	I'm training to be a caregiver, but before that, just school and acting and all that.
	You're going to wash old people's backs.
	Great.
	While you're pursuing your music career.
	Yeah.
	I think that's an honorable job because that's, I'm not making a criticism of that job.
	Yes, taking care of people, being in the healthcare, yes.
	What I'm saying, though, if presented with the opportunity to not only have the perfect person, but an entailment of that is I would think the perfect person is obscenely rich.
	And I'm saying he's a multi-multi-billionaire.
	You never have to work.
	Everything is taken care of.
	That level of benefit to you, you don't give up.
	Like, most people work to make money.
	Here's all the money you could ever need in the world.
	No, I'd rather work 50 years.
	I never said that.
	I'd rather work 50 years.
	I'm going to tell you this right now.
	I look at a computer screen.
	Fucking, what are you going to do?
	Editing or something?
	What are you going to do?
	Dude, did you even listen to what I was saying?
	I said, yes, this is exactly.
	I would take it, but my concern is my mental wellness because my question was just, can I still do it, but like without income?
	Like, can I still pursue what I like as long as that counts as like a career?
	You can't do it.
	Then I worry about my mental wellness in that situation.
	You wouldn't.
	And it's like fulfillment better than like, you know how they say money can't buy happiness?
	What do you want to do?
	Tell me what you want to do.
	I want to be a film producer.
	Film producer.
	Yes.
	Not a film producer.
	So you like not a director.
	Like you're not actually.
	I could do either.
	I don't know exactly what I'm doing.
	Like producers aren't typically involved in like the creative aspects of it.
	So if I said I don't know what I want to do.
	Producers like the financier.
	They do finance his legal stuff, paperwork.
	So you're going to be like in an office, basically?
	It depends what kind of producer you are.
	But like I said, I don't know what I want to do.
	They just sit in an office and it depends what kind of producer you are.
	There's line producers.
	There's like certain, there's like publication producers.
	If you can't work on Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 5, you're going to have mental health issues.
	If you can't work on Iron Man 7, you're going to have mental health issues.
	I mean, what am I going to do if I have like nothing to do?
	Shock.
	I don't know why women say that.
	You can do whatever the hell you want.
	Billionaire girlfriend, would you stop this podcast?
	Oh, I didn't hear that.
	Oh my gosh, she's fucking saved me.
	Yes.
	Instantly.
	I don't think you have to have that idea.
	I don't think if you come into an obscene amount of wealth, whether you win the lottery or you date like a super rich person who's super generous, that doesn't shrink your life.
	That expands your life.
	And so this idea that what would I do with my time?
	You have all the freedom in the world.
	Oh, it's wonderful.
	But what I'm saying is I would be doing the same exact thing with what I'm already doing with my time.
	All right, well, what's up with all these therapists seeing a therapist?
	Seeing a therapist?
	Well, you do like therapy adjacent shit, I guess.
	I don't know.
	Like, all these therapists be seeing a therapist.
	You have to be able to do it.
	Why the fuck?
	What?
	You're giving me advice and can't you therapist yourself?
	You're giving me advice and y'all fucked up too.
	A therapist is someone who makes sure that you're grounded.
	So you have to be grounded to give people.
	Anyways, do you take the trade?
	Perfect man.
	What do you want to do with your life?
	You want to.
	I just consecrate.
	But yes, he's coming home to a warm meal and a warm mouth every night.
	Do you take the trade?
	You're a headstrong, independent woman.
	Well, with my day job, I would take the trade, but with what I'm like pursuing, like for my future career, I don't know.
	Because I feel like it's kind of similar to like the film thing.
	Like I'm a writer, so if I couldn't like, even if I wasn't making money off of what my writing, but if I just like couldn't do it, period, even the hobby, then I don't know.
	By the way, AI is coming for fucking everything.
	What did an essay on this?
	Not for magic, not yet.
	It's coming for magic.
	Nah.
	It's coming for magic.
	Nope.
	It's probably coming for this podcast, shit.
	Yeah.
	I'm not doing anything for the fucking gender swaps.
	Honestly, I do actually think within like, it's probably less, but within three years, you could upload every single episode, the whatever podcast, and it will pump out like a randomized RNG, like a new episode, and you'll be super convincing.
	And I'll be here fucking raging out, losing my fucking shit, losing my mind.
	You still can do it in the bathroom.
	I'll be fucking pissed off.
	Hey, Nick, you motherfucker.
	Still in our identity.
	Well, you're married.
	You get to live that life.
	You get the point.
	I'm living that life.
	Do you work?
	You have a job?
	Yes, I do have two jobs.
	Do you give up magic?
	Do you give up magic for perfect man?
	I would not give up magic.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I would give up.
	Hold on.
	I would give up my day job.
	I would not give up magic, but if you wouldn't allow me to generate income from it, I'm fine with that.
	I can just do a magic for hospitality.
	No, you have to give up magic.
	You see these cards here and you see the shit.
	You see the shit.
	He's still trying to figure out.
	It's done.
	You can't.
	No fake thumbs.
	No fucking pulling strings out of your butthole or whatever the fuck is it?
	No rabbits out of your vagina.
	What kind of magic are you watching?
	I don't know.
	It was some crazy shit.
	You did not trust me earlier.
	Go ahead and do that.
	Did those cards?
	I just saw it change.
	They saw it.
	Oh, my God.
	You guys are missed very easily.
	These are different cards.
	But thank you.
	We're the other cards.
	I swear you just had.
	Right.
	Okay.
	These are totally different.
	This is not the trick.
	But thank you.
	Would you give up magic if I just handed you 10 billion dollars right now?
	I don't think people understand.
	I understand.
	Wait, let me finish.
	I don't think people have a full appreciation for how much even $1 billion is.
	It wouldn't make you happy, though.
	Because you're thinking in term of money only, but then we're not, because you're a man.
	So?
	Wait a minute.
	Women have to do it.
	Women got to pay for shit, too.
	Right, that's why I'm working.
	You got to buy 10.
	That's why I'm working, man.
	Makeup products and shit.
	I don't know what the fuck y'all buy.
	Well, that's why I'm working.
	You're fucking Kim Kardashian.
	Have you heard about the success stories?
	So.
	The what?
	I said that's why.
	$10 million.
	You got to quit magic.
	Do you take the deal?
	But I will get bored.
	My brain thought of the wrong magic.
	I'm a nerd.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm a nerd.
	I mean, look.
	I mean, we're.
	All right.
	Well, you know what?
	You don't have any hobbies or anything?
	Do you read books?
	Do you?
	Well, I mean, the biggest one is my job.
	Yes, I would give a woman, perfect woman.
	Honestly, I'd give up my job.
	I'd give up my job for the perfect woman and she could, we could be like kind of financially struggling a little bit.
	I'd give up my job for the perfect woman and she makes, well, I guess I can't work because I have to give up my job in this hypothetical.
	I don't know.
	She makes 50K.
	Whatever.
	We'll struggle.
	She's the perfect woman, though.
	I'll do it.
	Okay, so.
	Y'all won't do it for that.
	That's not what I'm asking, though, because I told you I will give up my job, but I'm not going to give up something that I'm, do you have any obsessions, anything?
	Anything you like in life to do?
	Like, do you do that?
	What would I give up?
	What is something you obsess with?
	Big labia for the perfect woman.
	She's perfect, but she has like the inniest.
	That's not that.
	What the fuck is this girl doing?
	Did you want to show me, by the way?
	Are you actually?
	Hashtag need that.
	Hashtag need.
	Are you actually for like for real?
	Let's go.
	She's fucking cat.
	All right, fuck it.
	I'll do it.
	I want you to go like there.
	All right, in the bathroom.
	I'm not going to go like close the door behind me.
	Hey, what?
	Hey, what are you doing?
	Stay, go over.
	No, no, no, you're not going to be able to do it.
	Brian, Brian.
	Brian, if you do that, you're not.
	He's gay, guys.
	He's gay.
	Okay.
	We've been knowing he's gay.
	Hence.
	Wow.
	Girl, I do have a question for y'all.
	So, have y'all heard about the success stories where they'd be like, oh, I'm rich and famous, but now I'm not happy because I'm rich and famous.
	Eavesdropping.
	Wait.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, my God.
	So embarrassed.
	Come on.
	Go ahead.
	That is insane.
	No.
	Don't do it.
	Don't do it.
	Oh, my God.
	Are we with Missile Lek and SA right now?
	Come on.
	She's all pressuring her, bro.
	Coercing her.
	You're pressuring her.
	Brian, no.
	Come on.
	Brian, no.
	No.
	She's pressuring me.
	She's a chick.
	Come on, my God.
	Hey.
	Hey, yo, she wouldn't do it.
	Because she didn't know you would actually follow through.
	Hey.
	I'm fucking insane.
	Why not?
	Oh, we know.
	We know.
	We know.
	Yes.
	All right.
	said you had a question um but yo chat she she was like she was like she I didn't see anything.
	She didn't show me anything.
	She didn't show me.
	Yeah, she actually did go like this.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Good on her.
	Yes.
	She's going to get sub or sit down.
	You'll have to comment.
	So, like, she offered.
	Hey, it's just a little banter, you know, a little banter.
	All right, let me let's get through the questionnaire here.
	Okay, Lauren, to your, you say women are oppressed in the USA.
	Isabella, you agree.
	Why do you think?
	Oh, you want to be the host?
	Okay, go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	I'm telling you, after me.
	You know what?
	If you and me were to date, I'm putting you in a burqa or something.
	What did you just say?
	Well, she's from Saudi Arabia, so we need to return to the roots.
	Oh, my goodness.
	This girl.
	You're gonna stick on your teeth.
	You're crazy.
	Thank you.
	So, anyways, okay.
	You wanna host?
	No.
	Okay.
	Do you want me to?
	Actually, I can do that.
	No, I just want you to.
	That was the question.
	Okay, no, don't worry about that.
	Women are oppressed.
	Lauren agrees.
	Isabella agrees.
	Taryn agrees.
	Nick's nothing.
	Wait, so to prove to me that women are not oppressed in the U.S., you wanted to oppress me.
	But that's not my answer.
	I will oppress the shit out of you.
	So anyways.
	How are women oppressed in the USA?
	So the way that I look at it as I feel like our experiences are usually mocked.
	Which is like why there's rape dolls.
	Oh, let me finish.
	Dolls?
	Let me finish.
	Wait, our experiences?
	Really quick on the doll.
	I'm still feeling the way that I feel about dolls.
	Really quick on the dolls.
	I can make a counter argument to this.
	So the fact that it's two female dolls equals representation.
	I actually think maybe men's rights advocates could say, excuse me, Brian, there's two female dolls.
	Why isn't there a male doll?
	That's lacking in representation.
	DEI initiative.
	The whatever podcast is failing at DEI, that's really lacking in representation.
	I think here I am sitting here as a feminist.
	I have zero male dolls.
	I have two female dolls.
	That's crazy.
	So, and then also because only 97, no, it's only, I think only 3% of rapists are actually charged because women's experiences are not, you know.
	Okay.
	And that's why.
	So I feel like women, our experiences are usually mocked.
	I feel like our experiences are usually not taken seriously.
	And I feel that's just my experience.
	Okay.
	But when I think of oppression, there's no dispute that this happens where women aren't taken seriously.
	I'm not going to even dispute that.
	Bad things happen to women.
	Not going to dispute that.
	I don't know if that's necessarily evidence of oppression.
	I think so because it's like our experiences don't matter.
	In what context, though?
	So if a woman goes to a police officer and reports a rape.
	You can only report it after 24 hours.
	Usually you don't, you don't, yeah.
	Well, that's completely, hold on.
	No, no, no.
	That's completely ridiculous.
	There are people being pushed.
	You can only have actual evidence.
	Whoa, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Donald Trump, the president of the United States, from 30, 40, what was it, 40 years back?
	I'm going to decline if we're talking about Trump.
	I don't know.
	As a minor, I was almost killed, and their felony is going to be revoked when they're 18.
	I don't know.
	Like, it's just kind of.
	As a minor, I was almost killed in a relationship.
	Yet their felony is revoked when they're 18.
	Well, that's juvenile court.
	There's there is, well, I don't know.
	I'm not an expert in the punishments that juveniles face, but it is the case that typically if you're a juvenile, when you commit a crime, there's less severe consequences, I guess.
	I mean, something super severe, like if you're 16 and you murder somebody, you're probably still fucked.
	I'm sorry to hear that happen, though, but I do think it's the case that if a woman goes to a police, like, do you think it's the case?
	If a woman goes to a police officer and reports that she was raped, that the police officer is like, eh, fuck you.
	I think that they, I think that they do the process.
	I think the process and that's how they act.
	Okay.
	But you said women only have 24 hours?
	That's not true.
	What I meant was 24 hours is when you can get actual evidence after an assault.
	But you can't believe it.
	Yes.
	But usually women don't realize because there's different types of SA.
	It's not the type.
	It's in an alley.
	It's not the type.
	The most SA happens in relationships or in dating or at clubs if a woman's drink is spiked.
	So usually women don't realize they have been SA'd and more women have been SA'd, but they don't realize it until it's too late to report.
	Or if they do report because there's no evidence, their experiences aren't taken seriously.
	Well, clearly, spiking somebody's drink, that's clearly, that's clearly essay.
	My question to you, though, you mentioned like if there's a alcohol component.
	So if I have what I would consider to be consensual sex with a woman, and I've had three drinks and she's sober, was I essayed?
	I think, you know, I think it depends on.
	I think so.
	I think so, because.
	So if I had three beers, by the way, I am a lightweight.
	Like, I will get fucked up off of three beers.
	Really?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I don't drink alcohol, so I'm a lightweight.
	I think essay happens at the point of blackout, you know, or like if a woman's incoherent.
	So I think it depends on the drunk state.
	So if you're lightweight and a woman did that, then I think that is essay.
	And when I would be drunk, but I don't think I would be incapacitated.
	I wouldn't be sober and like see like how that's like not okay.
	Why, again, I did say I'm a lightweight, but three beers wouldn't like I would be pretty drunk, but I wouldn't be over the edge.
	Like I wouldn't be aware.
	I think it's messy because there needs to be a level of coherence and consent.
	Sure, but from my perspective, I definitely don't think that in that situation I have been essayed.
	Okay.
	Do you think wait one quick clarifying question?
	Yeah.
	Let's reverse the rules.
	The woman had three drinks.
	Going into the date, she definitely wanted to fuck the guy.
	But she was trying to loosen up or whatever.
	She wanted to maybe even unbeknown to him.
	Maybe they're just out to dinner and she's so nervous.
	Some women, some people calm their nerves with alcohol.
	She goes to the bathroom, takes fucking three shots.
	She loves this guy.
	She's enamored, but she's like, oh man, I'm really nervous with this guy.
	I'm super nervous.
	I really, really like him.
	And she resorts to alcohol.
	He doesn't even know.
	He doesn't even know.
	And she's not, she doesn't pass out or anything, but she's, you know, she's a bit drunk.
	But she's, she's there.
	She's, I guess, coke.
	I don't know.
	Yeah.
	They then have sex.
	Yeah.
	Well, she essayed.
	And he said.
	She was coherent.
	You just said she was coherent.
	Right.
	But I mean, like, to what when you're drunk, it's like a bit of a spectrum.
	I feel like my relationships moving forward, there needs to be like a verbal consent.
	Verbal consent.
	From my personal experiences.
	Okay.
	I mean, I'm fine with people doing that, but do you think absent verbal, like a affirmative consent, verbal consent threshold, if they're if that doesn't occur, do you think an essay occurred?
	Again, it's all about coherence, and that's what makes them.
	No, but assuming, no, no, no.
	Let's say both people are sober, are sober.
	There's no alcohol involved.
	Well, if both people are sober, then there's no like power dynamic.
	But if one person is not sober and the other person is, see how there's an imbalance?
	Like depends how drunk they are.
	And exactly.
	That's why I said it goes back to coherent.
	Like if I had two white claws and I have sex with a girl, I don't think I was essayed.
	Okay.
	And I'm sure probably coherent.
	Well, no, but I would say women would probably feel that way too if they're like, they like the guy and they have two white claws.
	1,000%.
	And I'm not saying every situation like that is.
	Yeah.
	But you said that there has to be verbal consent.
	For my personal relationship.
	Even in sober situations, if yes.
	No, not sober.
	Because I think like some non-verbal, like a because I think people frequently have sex without there being like a clear affirmative.
	I am giving you consent to stick your penis inside me.
	Yeah.
	Like I think there's like the vibe, you know, you don't.
	Oh yeah, no, yeah, but that's what I'm saying to like prevent future experiences like that happening.
	I think that if there is an imbalance in the alcohol, there should be more consent because of the coherence.
	What if both people are super tanked?
	Like they're both equally messy.
	They're both equally incoherent.
	Did they rape each other?
	That's just messy.
	I, yeah.
	But like you do acknowledge, like, for example, and I agree with you that there's definitely cases where, I mean, it could go either way, right?
	Yeah.
	But like way too far gone.
	The only cases that I consider that I've been in with essay is I was not coherent.
	Well, that's, yeah, of course.
	But if I drank with somebody and was coherent, then I don't consider that SA.
	Right.
	But I'm thinking about a situation where like you would agree, I don't know if you went to like a party school, but at least here in Santa Barbara, very, very heavy party scene.
	And like both men and women drank way too much and they'll drink a lot.
	And I think you'll have situations where like a really, really drunk woman will get with a really, really drunk guy.
	And I'm in that situation where did they rape each other?
	Was the woman raped?
	Was the man raped?
	And it's like, I don't know if the purely just if you've consumed alcohol, if that's enough of a threshold there.
	Yeah.
	Because I mean, honestly, I know there's things are shifting in this realm, but I think one, I think especially when you're young, people are like really nervous.
	I think a lot of young people are uncomfortable.
	Some people are uncomfortable with sober sex.
	Like some people cannot have sex sober, which is kind of sad.
	But so people also like alcohol is a social lubricant.
	So people will drink to feel more comfortable.
	I think especially for somebody who's maybe sexually inexperienced, although I wish they felt more comfortable with engaging in sex.
	I think that a lot of people will resort to alcohol, both men and women, to sort of, I mean, literally socially lubricate themselves to being more comfortable.
	Some people can be uncomfortable being naked in front, whatever it is, right?
	And so I wonder, though, like if the standard is, okay, you've just been drunk and you have sex.
	I mean, people have been getting fucking shit-faced and they fuck for a long time.
	Men get fucking too trashed.
	Women get too trashed.
	They hook up with each other.
	Maybe one's more drunk than the other.
	The man's more drunk.
	The woman's more drunk.
	Whatever it is.
	I do agree with you that there's definitely a point of intoxication that's like she definitely.
	There's no consent there.
	Like definitely too far gone.
	And that's what I mean.
	And that's wrong.
	When it's incoherent.
	But if it's too drunk, people doing whatever they're doing.
	Yes.
	Fine.
	But like, I think so many people do hook up when they're drunk.
	It's like, what is the standard?
	It's like.
	But see, I'm talking about times like drinks have been spiked.
	That's what I'm talking about.
	I'm not talking about too despicable.
	Trying to be chill and relaxed.
	That's fine.
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	I kind of wanted to touch on something real quick because you were saying that women are oppressed based on essay of those kinds.
	Would you also say that men also are oppressed?
	Good question.
	And actually a little bit because I feel like men also have a harder time opening up emotionally because they're shamed for it.
	So I even, especially talking about SA, I'm sure that the statistics aren't even right with what men experience.
	It's not just the emotional aspect of them not opening up, but it's also false allegations that happen happening in schools with teachers, you know, diddling boys, as well as grown women that are trying to have sexual relationships with small children as well.
	I'm going to move those as well off of this topic, but I guess like one quick final thought here.
	You say that it's underreported because some women don't go to the police.
	I think that definitely happened.
	Like 100% sure.
	I actually think if it's the case that women underreport, then it has, I actually think men underreport a lot more.
	And I agree to that.
	But moving on, you say men are more privileged in society.
	Or, well, there were some other women who said women are oppressed.
	Isabella, women are oppressed in the USA.
	Why is that?
	Can you please define oppression for me?
	Typically, at least from my perspective, like severe, unjust treatment.
	Okay.
	Historically, they have been oppressed.
	I kind of read it.
	I didn't read the wording are oppressed.
	I was looking historically.
	I prefer a different definition, but she meant the question itself.
	Well, she asked me.
	No, she's right.
	I wanted another prolonged, cruel, or unjust treatment or control.
	I mean, there's control over abortion, but I mean, I was thinking historically.
	What do you think, Wyatt?
	I was going to touch up on the abortion part.
	Like, that's our body.
	We should be able to do what we want with it.
	And then there's just like a lot of stuff, like not getting the same type of jobs just because you are a woman, or like you don't get picked for it because you're a woman.
	But I don't just think that it's women that are oppressed in America.
	I could have some arguments there, but just for the sake of time, I'm moving on to the next thing.
	Women can't be sexist towards men.
	Lauren, you agree with that?
	Why is that?
	Oh, no.
	I said no.
	I said they can.
	Oh, no.
	I said women can't.
	Oh, you circled.
	I must have said that.
	Oh, okay.
	That's fine.
	Then I'll skip that.
	Lauren, do you believe that there's a patriarchy?
	Yes, I do, because when you divide the world's wealth, men are still leading in wealth.
	Well, I mean, depending on certain metrics, for example, there are more women, single women who own households, who own homes in the United States.
	So worldwide.
	Oh, well, I'm talking about the USA.
	Okay, well, my statistics were from worldwide, but I think that just in the USA, is there people's money?
	Yeah, and I think in the USA, we're kind of like setting that forward.
	So, of course, we're more forward.
	But I feel like if women in general, I feel like because men still hold that primary, you know, 75% to 25%, I think that it does, we're still under a patriarchy.
	But typically, wealthy men typically have wives.
	They have families.
	So, and women, isn't it the case?
	Women are like 80% of the consumer base.
	Women make 80% of consumer decisions.
	Women hold the majority of debt.
	So it's like I think when a woman is married, she has actually quite a bit.
	Yes, technically the money is like would be viewed as the man's money, but women actually wield quite a bit of economic influence in their marriages.
	A lot of women run their households and they wear the pants and they peg their boyfriends/slash husbands.
	Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	She knows what I'm talking about.
	NYX, she pegs men for a living.
	Just kidding.
	I made that up.
	By the way, you're welcome back to the table.
	You're like, hey, Brian, let me show you my schlong in the bathroom.
	And then we get there, low, cold feet.
	What happened?
	I don't know.
	What happened?
	You didn't want to show the penis?
	The non-existent penis?
	Latrice, do you think she's a man or a woman?
	I don't know.
	Okay, anyways.
	I think she's trans woman.
	She's not lying.
	Why would she lie?
	Transfician.
	We went over this earlier.
	Some chicks lie.
	I mean, okay, fine, I'll show you.
	Not that.
	Huh?
	Not here at the table.
	No.
	You're going to make me go back there again here.
	And then she'll get me out of my face.
	In 10 minutes.
	In 10 minutes.
	She showed the Adam's apple.
	Did you not see it?
	Yeah.
	I even confessed it.
	You guys, let's close the conversation.
	Fake news.
	I just want to see it.
	You got me.
	I'm just trying to see some she-dick.
	You're right.
	You were like, I'm like egging in there, bro.
	I'm trying to see her in penis.
	That's you got to do it.
	Hashtag need that.
	What the fuck is that?
	Hashtag for the babysitters for that.
	Hashtag.
	Let's see here.
	Adult age gap, Isabella.
	Adult age gap relationships are wrong.
	Example: 30-year-old dating 20-year-old.
	310 is not bad.
	Why do you say that?
	Thank you for that addition.
	Why do you say that?
	I believe with age, you mature more.
	You have a lot more experience.
	can be bad things that happen I say there's a different there's a shift in power and you can abuse that What's up?
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	Oh, it's recovering.
	Hey, chat.
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	You might have to refresh if you guys are watching.
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	Where were we?
	I forgot.
	I got lost.
	Age gap.
	Who here is, does anybody else object to age gap relationships?
	It depends.
	You?
	Okay.
	I say wait till your friends are going to be a little bit more.
	Like, wait till you're 25.
	And then you can.
	But before that, no.
	I think, I mean, my perspective on age gaps, I think, generally speaking, when I defend age gaps, it's not, I'm not trying to like, oh, women should date older men.
	That's not the case at all.
	I think generally speaking, most younger women, you know, 20, 21, 19, whatever it is, the vast majority of them prefer dating men their age.
	So it's not like women should.
	I'm just saying in situations where the woman wants to date the older guy, I think that's fine.
	I don't see an issue.
	Or even the reverse, the older woman dating a younger guy, although I think that's more rare.
	But I also acknowledge, yeah, most women typically prefer to date men.
	Most women prefer to date men their own age.
	But I don't, like a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old, don't care.
	I think that's fine.
	I mean, I say you could do what you want, but I say it could also be dangerous.
	Have you ever dated a guy your age who treated you like shit?
	Yes.
	Well, I mean, dating men your own age.
	No, but like, what if you're following this man?
	You're doing what this man wants.
	You don't have to do anything.
	He's older.
	He's going to probably provide.
	You're not going to establish yourself.
	You're not going to become like who you can be.
	I feel like you have to grow a little bit.
	Possibly.
	Or you date an older guy who, okay, you're in college.
	Cool.
	Do your college thing.
	I mean, perhaps timelines, maybe he's.
	You want to wait seven years to have kids.
	He wants to wait three years.
	I don't know.
	Timelines might be off, but yeah, I'm fine.
	I mean, I don't think there's anything morally wrong there.
	30-year-old with a 20-year-old.
	Lauren, your thoughts?
	Until she's 25.
	Wait till okay.
	Yeah, I mean, I think ultimately, like, I think it's the one time it can be weird is if the guy like if he's kicking it at college parties and he's 35, yeah, that's kind of weird.
	But like, if the guy, for example, like, I would even date a woman older than me.
	I would date a woman who's my age.
	I'd date a woman who's 33, 34, but I'd date a 25-year-old.
	I'd even date a 20-year-old.
	Why not?
	But I'm not like exclusively like, I will only date a 20-year-old.
	But if a hot 20-year-old girl slides into my DMs, who am I to say no?
	Can I add?
	But do you know?
	Anyone ask me how to date?
	Okay.
	No, I just was just going to say, I was 19 dating a 25-year-old, so I kind of know what it's like.
	I don't know.
	And I feel like that's like six years, but that's like, we met when I was 18, remember?
	And this guy lied about his age.
	Okay, well, yeah, yeah, I remember that.
	That's kind of crazy.
	I feel like it is very circumstantial.
	Like, ordinarily, I would be against it, but then I feel like in this situation, I was willing to make an exception.
	But generally, like, it can be really bad.
	It was just like in this situation, it was passable, but it was still definitely weird.
	But when I just feel like relating to his age, what was he doing wrong?
	Like, that you can attach to how old he was.
	He lied about his age.
	Well, but you can lie about like, what did he do wrong relating to the money?
	10-year-olds can lie, you know?
	This is true.
	But I just, like.
	He was hiding her from his family because he was ashamed of how young she was.
	It's just like he felt weirded by it.
	He lied about my age to his family.
	Like, he went to your modify and wouldn't let me meet them and he wouldn't let me meet any of his friends because I was like so young.
	And also weird.
	Wait, he said that?
	He said that?
	Yes.
	Okay, well, that's weird.
	He was like, he was like, oh, like I told my friends about you.
	Like, I told them your real age and they were like really into it.
	And I was like, I don't like that you're friends with people like that.
	You know what I mean?
	Wait, they were into it.
	They were into it.
	They were egging him on.
	They were like, oh, yeah, you go, man.
	Like, get that 18-year-old.
	So the friends did like it.
	The friends did.
	He said that it made him uncomfortable, but I was like, why are you friends with people like that?
	You know what I mean?
	But it's just like, and like, I was thinking about it in terms of like, he was telling me about how he was like at the hospital with his older sister and she was giving birth.
	And I was like, hey, you're getting to that stage of your life too.
	Like, what about me?
	You know what I mean?
	How old are you?
	20?
	I'm 19 now.
	19?
	I mean, shit, you could start pumping.
	But I'm like, I'm still in college.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, we're still, we're definitely in very different parts of our life.
	So that's why I feel like it's like, it's a little risky, but I don't think it's end-all be-all.
	It's always bad.
	But it's definitely proceed with caution.
	Okay.
	You had something?
	Yeah.
	So the man I get married to, I was 18 at that time.
	Well, not.
	Okay, how marriages work in Saudi Arabia.
	There are like arranged marriages.
	And so basically what they do is that after whatever happens and they ask for the girl's hand or whatever and they agree, whatever.
	They actually do like the marriage vows or whatever, which is like basically in terms of like religion and in the eyes of the government, you are married, but society consider you as engaged until the wedding day.
	So we were like in that period for like two years and then we so I was 18.
	He was well he lied about his age too.
	So he said he was 28 but his Okay, so when he was born back in the day, Saudi Arabia did not like really keep track, you know, keep records of, you know, birth or whatever and like the villages.
	I like I grew up in the villages.
	His mom said he was at least 30.
	So I don't know his exact age.
	And like despite all the other issues regarding like the whole arrangement or whatever, just like the mentality like differences between like that totally different generation and me coming from like a newer generation, it was just like just how we think and like everything's like we're on a totally different level.
	And just like.
	But I mean people who are the same age can also have these differences of values.
	True.
	So like I think you can have a matching up of values and desires and relationship goals with somebody of a different age.
	Correct.
	That's what I'm saying.
	It depends.
	So like I see.
	Is it perhaps more likely?
	I think generally speaking, sure, I'd be willing to say that, yeah, probably a 30-year-old, 35-year-old guy dating a 20-year-old girl.
	He's probably a little timeline-wise.
	He's probably a bit more, assuming both of them are desirous of having a family at some point.
	He's probably a little closer to wanting that sooner than the typical 20-year-old woman.
	And he's more mature too.
	Well, assuming, hopefully.
	Not all of them, but yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Moving on to the next topic here.
	Let's see.
	We have Taryn.
	Deadly P.
	A woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
	Why is that?
	Because, like, what does weight have to do with it?
	Into the mic.
	Into the mic?
	What does weight have to do with it?
	Like, you're telling me that if I was bigger, you wouldn't want me, but because I'm skinny, you want me?
	Yeah.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Would you.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	Okay, so Taryn, in your questionnaire, how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
	You said you're 5'4 ⁇ .
	The minimum height you would date for a man is 5'9.
	How is this any difference than the weight thing?
	You're telling me because a guy's 5'7, you wouldn't date him?
	Or 5'5 or 5'3?
	Well, you can't change your height, but you can definitely change your weight.
	But what is it with the fat girls?
	and like there's always that suppression of it and it's always like what's wrong with no women can not Hold on.
	Women cannot want to date a fat guy.
	I'm fine with that.
	But why does it matter?
	Why does it matter?
	Because physical people care about physical attraction.
	And the reality is, if you're overweight, you're fat.
	Some people are not attracted to that.
	Well, not just some.
	Most people are probably not attracted to that.
	i mean like so why is it wrong for a guy not want to date a i mean it could go either way A woman doesn't want to date a fat guy.
	That's fine.
	I'm fine with that.
	Yeah, just know that there's like a very small percent.
	There's like not a large percentage of men that are over six feet tall.
	So it's like, you know, there's a lot of women out there that are always talking about, I want a guy who's six feet or he's got to have abs and he's got to make six figures, but that's a very small percentage.
	And, you know, as far as weight goes, it is something that most of the times we do have control over, you know, and it's okay to have that preference.
	You know, if you don't want someone that big, it's okay.
	If you want someone skinny.
	Can I give you like a practical answer to this?
	Like for a fat chick?
	Like, are we talking obese?
	Are we talking?
	Are we talking?
	I'm, I'm, like, I was chubby, so I'm thinking, like, what do you mean?
	Can I ask you something?
	No, you can't because I'm in the middle of my.
	Wait, so you used to be chubby, is what you're saying.
	That's my question.
	Yeah, but I mean, do you acknowledge that maybe you got less attention when you were chubby?
	Yeah, I got a lot less attention.
	And now you lost some weight and you're getting more attention.
	It's not like I lost it to lose it for attention.
	No, I'm not saying that's the reason, but you acknowledge that that's the reality.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So it's like.
	But I feel like it shouldn't be the reality.
	Well, I don't know how useful talking about should is because men are attracted to what they're attracted to.
	Women are attracted to what they're attracted to.
	Let me give you a practical reason.
	Now.
	All right.
	So a big girl, a big girl, even let's say she's just thick.
	Like she got thunder thighs and a big fat ass.
	Sometimes that's nice to look at, you know?
	But like practically speaking, sometimes that makes sex complicated, you know?
	Like if she like if her legs are big, like it can be nice to kind of look at, but it can complicate the procedure.
	I mean, I wouldn't know because I have no difficulties when I'm with my thick girls.
	So I'm just saying with your girl?
	Yeah.
	Dick girls.
	Thick.
	Oh, thick girls.
	Yeah.
	I have no difficulties.
	And in a threesome, they still don't have any difficulties.
	I could.
	You could have a dick?
	Should we go to the bathroom too?
	You going to whip it up?
	Nigga, I said, I mean, there's a lot of people.
	Wait, wait, say it again.
	Say it again.
	Wiggle.
	Oh, I thought you said the N-word.
	Did you call me that one?
	Do you want to be like my like, am I your you say it because I can't say am I your nigga?
	Yes, am I?
	Am I your say it?
	No.
	Okay, I'm not.
	No, it's just like we're not homies.
	We're not like good friends.
	Because you're my Caucasian.
	So we homies, we good homies.
	We too?
	Yeah, we're homies.
	You're my Caucasian.
	You're my Caucasian.
	You're my Filipina.
	Yeah, like if we homies, like I call all my friends, trans Caucasian, you're my half-Caucasian.
	Or the U.S. government, it is.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So y'all my Caucasian.
	You're my Caucasian.
	All of y'all my Caucasian.
	W. Except for the Filipina.
	She doesn't like white people and that.
	So I'm like doubly fucked.
	I'm doubly screwed.
	She doesn't like white people and men.
	And I'm pale.
	So I'm screwed.
	I'm screwed with that.
	No.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Come on.
	Josh and you.
	I was just giving you some flack.
	Real quick before you start, you have lipstick on your teeth.
	Oh, good colour.
	Wait, really quick before you do your thing.
	Okay, so sometimes if a girl's like a thicky icky, look, I'm going to be honest.
	I've gotten the average penis size.
	And like, sometimes some positions become difficult if she's, you know, you're talking about she's got a big bedonk.
	I just.
	Smaller sizes because the sizes I've been with in the threesome.
	You don't got a dick.
	You don't know.
	How do you know?
	You don't have a dick.
	Show me a dick.
	There's more than one way to work out.
	Yeah, like with a thick woman and a guy.
	But you don't know because you don't have a dick.
	I see it happen.
	I'm just saying.
	I'm just saying, if she's thick, like her on top becomes a bit more difficult.
	If she's big, like, well, one, I'm getting crushed a little bit.
	But two, it's just it's hard to maneuver.
	Like it's hard to maneuver a little bit.
	Who her?
	No, like it's hard to for the dick to find.
	The dick's never moving when you're on top.
	The girl's moving.
	You got to find the grooving.
	Well, I top from the bottom, I guess, or whatever.
	So it's hard for you to find motion.
	So you're talking about yourself personally?
	If she's on top, I want to be in control.
	So how are you going about that control?
	If she's on top, okay.
	Do I have to be graphic?
	Do I have to be graphic with it?
	All right.
	So here's like you holding her waist.
	Hold on.
	Here's me.
	And like, you think a girl on top is, she's like this, right?
	The girl on top should be like this.
	And I'm, she's, she's here.
	So we're chest to chest.
	And I'm.
	I got her by the hair.
	And I'm like, you know, her ears right there.
	And I'm, I'm, I'm talking my shit.
	And I'm controlling.
	I'm controlling the situation.
	Uh-huh.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Chill out, Isabella.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Sorry.
	It seems like you're talking about personal experience from because from what I've seen and what I've done.
	I don't like it when I'm laying down and the girl's like this.
	No, chest to chest.
	But I'm saying I've seen that.
	And I've seen that.
	And I literally did it when I was bigger.
	Like, I don't understand what you're talking about.
	I'm just saying.
	It sounds like you're talking about people with smaller.
	That means.
	It's average.
	Okay.
	It's average.
	Trust me.
	It's average.
	I'm just saying.
	Some positions are harder.
	If you average, it should be fine.
	No, it's still.
	Is she thick?
	If she's a thin, if she's dumb thick, I still think the same thing.
	If she's dumb thick, it's like there's only there's not, it's the ass is find your maneuver.
	Figure it out.
	Protect the pussy.
	The ass is not protected, but the ass is blocking the pussy.
	Okay.
	I mean, whatever.
	I totally get what you're saying, but it's still like.
	Is that really going to be the reason?
	Because like you could figure it out.
	It could be harder for you to do it with a skinny girl.
	Anyway.
	A skinny girl?
	No, it's the easiest to do with a skinny girl.
	A bit bony, but.
	Yeah.
	Well, now, now, I mean, what do we mean by skinny?
	Anyways, let me get it off the sex talk because we got a fucking Isabella here clutching her pearls.
	Oh my God.
	Yes, I'm scared.
	Because I'm frightened.
	Oh my God.
	Give her the ear muffs so we can do ear muffs.
	Yeah, you want them?
	Wait, how did we get?
	Oh, the rejecting a fat.
	It's wrong.
	Women should not be rejected because of her weight.
	Well, can a man be rejected because of his height?
	I mean, like, yeah, but no.
	Well, what are we talking about?
	I don't think it should.
	If women can reject men for their height, men can reject women for their weight.
	That's fair.
	And women can reject men for their weight.
	And men can reject, I think it's rare, but men can reject women for their height.
	But it's not as much of a hate thing, and it's not as much of a big deal.
	Yeah.
	Oh, no.
	There's a lot of chubby chasers.
	You can find somebody.
	You found people, right?
	No.
	Okay.
	How about this?
	Let's see.
	Ooh, okay.
	Men should pay on first dates.
	You say, Lauren, men should provide protection.
	Men should be chivalrous.
	Husbands should be willing to die protecting you.
	I personally, honestly, because I'm such a feminist.
	You can have it for as long as you want.
	I think the woman should take the bullet.
	But that's not what you asked.
	I would have said yes for both ends.
	Even if she's really small, I think you use the.
	Excuse you?
	I'm sorry.
	Bro, we got.
	Okay.
	So, anyways, if you use the woman as a meat shield, like how tall are you?
	Five foot.
	Five foot.
	Yeah, if like home invasion and like we're in like a bickering married couple or whatever.
	And you're using her as a shield.
	He's just going to pick her up.
	Like you pick her up and put her in front of you?
	Yeah, like the guy's just shooting bullets and I'm using a woman as a female.
	You shouldn't pick up the man and put him in front of you.
	You shouldn't pick up the woman and put it in front of you.
	That has to be your choice.
	You better get in front of that bullet from your own choice.
	If I love you enough, I'm going to get in front of that bullet.
	I'm a trans person.
	It don't matter if I love you.
	Can I, is it cool if, like, because you know, she's transferred to her.
	If I love you, you're gonna do it.
	This is true.
	If you're using them as a shield, you don't love them.
	So, what are you even there for?
	Because it's like, I was gonna do it, but why are you using me as a shield?
	I will put you on the street.
	Look, I'm thinking about our children.
	Like, if I have kids with her, then I want to protect her.
	Why are we talking about them?
	I'm father enlisted because I will be the one who murders you.
	Whoa, like, why would you use me as a shield?
	You know, for reasons.
	You sound like you got some hate in there.
	There's no hate.
	No, it's love.
	No, it hates you.
	You hate your woman.
	If you love somebody, you're going to be the one who gets in front.
	It doesn't matter if you male or female.
	If you really love somebody, you're going to get in front of that bullet because you want them to be safe.
	You want them to be the one that lives.
	You should insist on taking the bullet for them.
	Yes.
	I think the woman should sacrifice.
	I said it could be both.
	We were talking about kings and queens in chess.
	If you lose the king, the game is over.
	I'm not a misogynist.
	You never chill out, Isabella.
	Isn't the queen the most powerful piece, though?
	Yeah.
	Yes, exactly, which is why she should sacrifice herself.
	In fact, there's a move called the queen sack.
	Queen sack.
	You sacrifice your queen to save the kid or whatever.
	I don't know what the fuck you actually do.
	Are you playing checks?
	I'm playing lonely.
	No, I'm playing checkers.
	I might sacrifice you.
	You never lose the king, though.
	You just okay.
	Really quick question for you, I guess, or the whole panel.
	Imagine, consider a scenario.
	A ship is sinking, and only one functioning life preserver remains.
	A married couple face, I guess, you in this situation.
	You and your husband faces the reality that it can save only one person.
	There's no loophole.
	There's no workaround.
	There's no additional options.
	One life preserver.
	One of you must die.
	Who should volunteer to sacrifice themselves?
	Do we have kids in this scenario?
	Give me your answer for both.
	No kids, yes, kids.
	No, no kids.
	Both of you just duke it out, figure it out.
	I think it's situational.
	Fight with the kids.
	No, don't literally duke it out.
	It's literally just like, okay, which of us wants to fucking die?
	Is the kid on the boat?
	No.
	Okay.
	The kid is like offshore safe already.
	Yes.
	It's just you and your husband on the boat.
	Okay.
	Then I think if we have kids, it's like literally whoever is more capable of taking care of our kids.
	W, the man.
	Not inherently.
	I don't think so.
	Yeah, that's not always the case.
	W, the man.
	Most of the time.
	That is not always the case.
	You can milk.
	I think.
	Can men produce milk?
	No.
	I think.
	I think they said yes.
	Were you raised on male breast milk?
	Does that explain?
	Yeah.
	What?
	Explain that.
	I don't know.
	What does it explain?
	I can't.
	He doesn't know.
	You know.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Is that your final answer?
	It's the autism, guys.
	It's the autism.
	Okay.
	Look, I don't know.
	Well, okay.
	Getting into this, Lauren, you do say the man should take the bullet.
	What's your answer to the sinking ship one?
	I don't know.
	She was zoned out.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	No, because I think if I was genuinely in love with someone, I would have survivor's guilt.
	So I think we would just die together.
	Oh my God.
	Wait, you both just died?
	Yeah.
	What about the kids?
	I'm going to take a bunch of times.
	Yes, because that has to do with the kids.
	Because if I was in love with them, I couldn't, you know.
	Kill the kids too while we're at it, bro.
	Like, she literally said we gonna have to get away from the girls, you know.
	Yeah, question for you.
	We're sinking together.
	Lauren, so you say, in terms of last name, do you want to get married?
	I said, whoever has the coolest last name.
	Oh.
	Let's say, well, let's say the guy has a really bad last name.
	Yeah, no.
	I did traditional with his last name, Duty.
	And I was like, there's no way.
	What's wrong with that?
	That's fine.
	But mine is LaPalia.
	It's like hard.
	Men should pay for your babysitter when you go on the first date.
	Men should pay for dates.
	Men should provide.
	Men should protect.
	Men should be chivalrous.
	Husbands should be willing to die protecting you.
	But if you draw the line, if he has a bad last name, you're not taking the last name in marriage.
	You don't deserve chivalry.
	If he doesn't deserve children, if you're divided last name, then I'll consider it.
	You don't deserve chivalry.
	And I did this guy's cool last name than me.
	She belongs to the streets.
	Yeah.
	Can I named my son a different last name than me?
	Let's see here.
	Wait.
	Hold on.
	Body count.
	Going around the table.
	What's your body count?
	starting who's gonna uh who wants to start Who's down to start?
	Okay, go ahead.
	Nine.
	Going this way?
	Three.
	Going this way?
	Three.
	Going this way?
	I'm opting out.
	Range?
	30.
	Range.
	70.
	Whatever you want it to be.
	It's okay.
	Whatever I want it to be.
	Yeah.
	6-7.
	You could just go back to the last podcast.
	Did you say it on the last show?
	Did I?
	Yeah.
	Oh, come on.
	Then you already said it.
	Be a good sport.
	Then you guys can find that information if you so please.
	You already said it, homegirl.
	Okay, just because she did that, whoever's, if my editor is watching this, I want you to go back.
	We already edited that episode.
	Go find it.
	Go cut a clip that's like three minutes long of her just repeating her body count over and over again.
	You want me to make up your body count?
	6-7.
	Whatever, you know, honestly, I'll be your last body count.
	Huh?
	So whatever the number is after me, I'm the last.
	Oh.
	Oh.
	I'm avoiding looking at you right now.
	I don't.
	Anyways, moving on.
	What about you?
	Body count?
	I'm not going to give y'all an exact number.
	Give us the girl number.
	How many girls have you just, how many of these hood rats have you just ran through?
	Hood rat rats?
	Well, okay.
	You fuck some classy women too.
	How about that?
	Like, let's not.
	Okay, fine.
	I'll be fair.
	I fucking went over hood rats.
	You fuck some bougie chicks.
	You fuck some hood rats.
	You fuck some.
	Look, it's okay.
	We all slay.
	We all, you know.
	Who's we?
	You.
	I would say for women, it would be.
	I would say like...
	Is this what you're singing like?
	Six?
	Six women.
	How many men?
	The range is four to five.
	Okay, what about you, Isabella?
	Say it.
	Two.
	What about you, Lauren?
	15.
	15?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I said I'm not going to answer Pride's question.
	Thank you.
	Do you want to do a range?
	No, because it will have that clip that says.
	All right.
	Whatever.
	It doesn't matter.
	That's fine.
	I mean, multiplied by three, so.
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	There's something about body count.
	No, we did body count.
	did nick are we were there's another video or something All you did was ask us about it.
	He didn't ask us about the question on the paper.
	Oh, well, I'll move ahead for the sake of time.
	But Nick, there's a video.
	Let's pull that up.
	a woman's career money status does not make her more attractive to men Oh, makes her more attractive, a woman's, okay, we'll touch on that really quick.
	A woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men.
	Isabella, you agree.
	Taryn, you agree.
	Knicks, you agree.
	I think it depends on where you live.
	I mean, I'll tell you guys this.
	Men don't really care about your career.
	But don't you want to be asked out on dates and don't you want to have dates paid for?
	Like, I don't get your logic there.
	And you literally said earlier, if she had 10 billion bucks, you'd fucking know.
	The difference here is that it has really no impact.
	That would be like a life-altering thing, but in terms of like a sort of attraction that men feel, like, yeah, that'd be nice for my life.
	And that would.
	Isn't that attractive?
	Well, I think in this like crazy hypothetical that I described, I don't realistically ever expect that to happen.
	But I think realistically, women can and do encounter men who have a provider mindset and who are perfectly like down, assuming they make the appropriate amount of money to be like, hey, listen, I'm fine with you staying at home.
	I want to take care of everything.
	That's the kind of dynamic I'm fine with in my relationship.
	I'm making good money.
	You don't have to work.
	I'm going to take care of everything, take care of the rent, take care of the food.
	Well, if we're living together, I'll take care of everything, right?
	And when we have kids, you don't have to work.
	You can take care of the kids.
	And that's the dynamic that I'm fine having.
	Very, very few women are okay with the reverse dynamic where they're the ones doing that.
	So I guess, for example, there are guys who might find that attractive or care or whatever.
	I think most men, though, they don't really care.
	They're going to primarily care about your personality and they're going to not, well, they're going to care about your physical appearance and they're going to care about your personality.
	Your job, your status, your money, your education, that's secondary.
	If you're pleasant and you're good looking, honestly, that's really it.
	That's really it.
	I live in Silicon Valley and like I had a lot of first dates who like literally asked me that they require that if you want to have babies.
	Are you a little ups?
	You want to go to the bathroom?
	Is that you're waiting to show me the caca?
	Is that what's going on?
	You seem a little pouty.
	So anyways, continue.
	All right.
	So as I was saying, I did have multiple dates where the man on a first date, they were saying that if you want to have babies, we both have to make at least $150,000 or $200.
	Oh, you're dating like lefty computer programmers in fucking San Francisco and Silicon Valley as well.
	Super lib.
	Well, look, a lot of these, I mean, $150k, if he's making $150K, I mean, that's good money, but not, I mean, in Silicon Valley, that's not, I don't know if you can, in Silicon Valley, I don't know if you can.
	Is anybody here from like SF, San Francisco?
	I know that San Francisco's median is about $100,000.
	I don't know if like $150K in SF or Silicon Valley, you can have like raise a yeah, but they are saying we both have to make that much.
	Like they are requiring me to not only have a job, but also have that minimum.
	so that's a economic and financial reality in terms of a man's attraction i don't think that that's like a guy's not going to be more maybe that's a consideration for like okay realistically like the economy is fucking dog shit you It's bullshit.
	Whatever.
	You need two incomes to have a household, have a family, have kids.
	You need two incomes.
	But in terms of a man being more attracted to a woman because of her career, I don't think that's the case.
	I think it's purely like a financial economic reality.
	Whereas I do think it's the case that women will have more attraction for a guy, regardless of her own financial standing.
	A woman will have more attraction for a guy based off of status, based off of money, based off of his career.
	Like a woman will have more attraction even beyond the financial reality if she's dealing with a doctor versus dealing with a guy who works at Chick-fil-A.
	For me, there's actually, I think there's benefits.
	Is it the estrogen or whatever you're taking?
	The shit.
	It knocks you out when you're taking the picture.
	You're waiting for me?
	Yeah.
	To go to the bathroom?
	Matt, last time we went to the bathroom.
	By the way, I didn't go in the bathroom.
	I stood outside the bathroom and you just flicked me off.
	Very rude.
	I'm very upset.
	You're going to have to go get some cash or something.
	Okay, at least you.
	You got to repay him.
	You got rid of the daddy.
	That's an improvement.
	I think you're agreeing with me.
	You're just worried it differently.
	We're in different levels of dysfunction.
	I don't know.
	Does anybody dispute this at all?
	That I personally think...
	Career-wise, you're more established than the average man, I'd say.
	You make, I mean, I'd say you're well off.
	Yeah, no, I'm doing well.
	Not many, not all automatic, not all men are.
	Sure.
	And they will literally stop talking to her if she doesn't reach this quota of money they want.
	That's like completely cutting off attraction altogether.
	Yes, I agree with you that, yeah, if a guy's like, look, I need to date a woman who's making this much money.
	But I don't think the reason for that is because of an assessment of attractiveness.
	I think that's just like a pragmatic economic and financial thing.
	Whereas for women, I do think it's the case when a woman sees a successful guy, a wealthy guy, a guy with status, that triggers attraction.
	Maybe not all women, especially, I think young women don't care that much about money generally.
	I think it's a little women don't.
	Well, I think when women get into their mid-20s, late 20s, they start caring about different things.
	I think when you're a 19-year-old girl in college, you probably just think, is he hot?
	Is he fun?
	Do I like him?
	That's it.
	Whatever.
	And people in college aren't making money.
	So it's like most college girls aren't going to be like, oh, you doesn't make six figures?
	No, they're not thinking like that.
	It's not a consideration.
	But if we're talking about like a larger portion of the dating pool, which is, I want to say, like 22, 23 to 35, yeah, I think then, okay, the guy's status, his career, his money plays a bigger factor.
	But like me, to give you my own perspective, and maybe you think, well, Brian, that's just you.
	Other men are different.
	Maybe you can ask your male, well, I don't know.
	A lot of male friends just lie about this shit, but I will date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A.
	I probably make, I probably 3X what she makes in a year.
	I make it in the month.
	I don't care.
	Don't care.
	It's not a consideration.
	I'll date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A.
	I'll date a girl who doesn't even have a job.
	She's in college, whatever.
	Don't care.
	I'll date her.
	It doesn't matter.
	Is she a good person?
	Do I like her shared values?
	Is she attractive?
	Money, don't care.
	It'd be nice if she's not like has 100K of debt, which becomes a liability for me.
	But even then, that's not even necessarily a deal breaker.
	If she's the perfect woman and she has 100K of debt, I'm taking, I'm she's the perfect.
	So I have to pay $100,000 for the perfect woman instant.
	Okay.
	Instantly, instantly.
	I do it.
	I feel like you'd buy a woman, bro.
	Like, you just wanted to bounce.
	Just flat up.
	Bring the sex robot now.
	Oh, my God.
	Bring an AI girlfriend robot.
	Let's fucking do it.
	No, I think, I mean, I'm joking a bit there, obviously.
	Like, there's a humanity that's important to me.
	I was about to say I have two of them over there, but I can't utilize them, though.
	Well, they're not robots.
	They're just lifeless.
	Okay.
	Sex balls.
	I was going to make a joke, but never mind.
	And I'm scared.
	That's good.
	About the AI robots or whatever joke you want.
	It wasn't going to be that bad.
	Okay.
	I think we're pretty much done with the questionnaire.
	We have a few more pre-show notes we got to get to.
	The video, yeah, we'll do.
	Lauren needs a bit of attention, so we're going to give her a bit of attention infusion.
	Attention.
	Lauren scooted into the table.
	Lauren's going to pay for the bad.
	Okay.
	Play it.
	You guys are dating in order to end up being with a guy who won't pay the bill.
	But let me tell you guys what I do in order to make sure that I only hang out with guys that will absolutely pay the bill and pay for the sitter.
	Because I also ask, like, I'll talk to them for a little bit, but it's like, hey, if you want to go out with me and you want me to go out in the town at all, like, you have to pay for the sitter.
	Because if they don't want to pay for the sitter, then I don't even want to leave my house anyway.
	And what if I pay to go on this date and they suck and then I just lose money to hang out with a guy?
	Like it just doesn't make sense.
	I never want to spend any of my money in order to hang out with a guy.
	And a true man who like values you and the connection and what energy it takes for women in the dating process will absolutely pay for the sitter.
	So all the guys that I date pay for the sitter.
	And automatically, once we get that conversation out of the way, well, then I already know that I'm only messing around with people that already value me as a mother, value my time as a woman, and who are in that providing energy.
	And if they're not in that providing energy, then I can't waste my time and my energy getting to know them because I have limited time as it is as being a mother.
	And I need someone who not only respects me as a mother, but respects that I have a child.
	And for me personally, just because I don't co-parent, whoever comes into my life next is essentially going to be my son's father.
	And so I'm not going to date a guy who is going to see my son as a stepson and push him aside and only care about me.
	Like he needs to care about me and my son just as equally because he is the extension of myself.
	He is my entire world.
	So I'm not going to ever be with someone who cannot see that and love that about me and who respects that.
	And that's how I stay away from dusty crusty men.
	And if you don't have a kid, you don't want to be with dusty krusty men.
	Well, here's the thing.
	Here's some like little Easter eggs in the beginning process how you would know if he was a good guy or a bad guy and a guy who's going to waste your time or guys who can pay for the dinner and respects you as a woman.
	Usually high quality quality men.
	We get the idea.
	Guys, we're going to lower the TTS as we kind of wind down the show here pretty soon.
	$69 TTS.
	If you want to get the final message in, you want to get a roast in.
	You want to roast me.
	You want to call me a fatty.
	You want to make a comment about Saudi Arabia.
	Latrice is pretty cool.
	I don't know.
	Blue eyes over there.
	Something about trans people.
	something about, um, you want to, I don't know, you, the, the, the, the.
	Her.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	You want to, do you want to roast somebody?
	$69 TTS.
	Can you make it 6-7?
	Next time you come on the podcast, I promise you I'll make it 6-7.
	Pinky promise.
	Pinky promise.
	Garrett, it'll be 6-7.
	But with conditions, you have to hit one bow and you have to reveal your body count.
	W. Shit, guys.
	She.
	Guys, is it funny enough for me to do it?
	I think it's funny enough.
	I definitely think it's funny enough.
	Is it worth it?
	I get your viewers $2 off to.
	I think that's fair.
	I think that's a fair trade-off.
	$69 TTS, guys, if you want to get in.
	$69 TTS.
	Okay.
	I have a question for you.
	Your ex or whatever, does he pay you child support?
	I don't want to speak on my son's father.
	Well, I mean, you don't.
	Yeah.
	No, no, I just think it's for my son, you know?
	So I don't want to go there.
	I won't ask you any other questions, but so I won't probe further.
	But to be clear, even just that question, don't want to answer.
	That's fine.
	That's totally fine if you don't want to answer that.
	I think about when my son gets older and he sees like anything that I do, I just want to respect his privacy with his.
	I don't totally fully understand, but I mean she's not going to answer.
	Next question.
	Boy, relax.
	I'm not going to press it too much, but it seems like a pretty I don't fully understand, seems like a pretty benign.
	She's thinking about the child.
	No, but I'm not asking her to like talk shit about her.
	No, what if it's like the dad doesn't provide?
	Yeah.
	And that could be something that the kid doesn't like or makes him not like the father.
	Like she's thinking about if her kid finds the video later on.
	Not about shit talking.
	Wait.
	Why do you need to know this information, anyways?
	Not really.
	It's within the purview.
	It's within.
	Hold on.
	Child support is definitely within the purview of a dating podcast.
	Sure.
	Wait, question though.
	On your social media, so you do post about an abusive ex.
	Yes.
	Is that the same person who's the father of your children?
	I'm not going to.
	But hold on.
	I'm confused.
	You make TikTok videos.
	No, anyway.
	Wait, wait, hold on.
	You make TikTok.
	Look, look, I think this is fair, okay?
	No, it is.
	You make TikTok videos talking about an abusive ex.
	I'm not asking you to talk about the abuse.
	I'm not asking you to say anything negative about him.
	I'm just asking a pretty basic, I guess, biographical question.
	Yeah.
	If you're comfortable saying that your ex was abusive, I think you revealing if he does or doesn't pay child support, I can't see how that would amount to allegation, like comparatively, how that could be.
	Okay, I'm fine calling my ex an abuser, but I refuse to disclose the child support.
	I have more than one ex but no, the the the you have one child though, but she has multiple exes.
	She's only talking about AX, like you just said.
	That doesn't matter.
	She never says the child of the father of her child.
	Wait, what?
	She never said that.
	No, I asked her.
	I asked her.
	She makes videos online.
	So it's not like I'm not, you know, this is private information.
	On your TikTok, you talk about having an abusive ex being an abusive relationship.
	That's terrible.
	I'm sorry that happened.
	Yeah.
	But I guess my confusion is, well, I didn't ask if, so you have the father of your kid, that's the one who you talk about who's abusive.
	Am I correct?
	So I don't want to say anything that could hurt my son one day.
	You have TikTok.
	I can be open on my social media.
	And I feel like I've made some mistakes in the past with how like certain topics that I brought up, but I would like to keep that part.
	But okay, I understand.
	My confusion, though, is I'm asking about child support.
	On your TikTok, you have videos.
	I believe, I mean, you're kind of refusing to acknowledge whether the dad is the one that you're talking about who's abusive.
	My understanding is it is the case that that's the one who you claim.
	And like, I don't memorize all your videos, but I'm pretty sure the abusive ex is the father.
	Maybe.
	I don't know why you're being coy.
	It's like you, can she explain why she's beating it?
	I'm not being aware of that.
	Okay, so if you care so much, go find her TikToks where you talked about it.
	Like, it's really, guys, I would prefer this.
	Is my son we're talking about?
	So can we take a moment and put a pen in this conversation?
	We're not talking about it.
	And talk about something else.
	She works to heal traumas.
	It's not talk about her personal information.
	She just doesn't want to.
	Next up.
	But I think if, hold on, is it my podcast?
	So I can't.
	And it's my Instagram so I can edit certain things.
	And I just don't want to get into this topic that could possibly hurt my son.
	Okay, but look, the reason I'm kind of pushing back on this, the whole night you've been like a bit evasive and not, you've participated in some things, but you've also been like, nah, I don't want to talk about it.
	I know, I don't want to talk about that.
	I don't know.
	I'm not paid, though.
	I know, I know, I know.
	To a degree, but there were some things you didn't want to weigh in on.
	And if I was just like blindsiding you and like you, you didn't have a TikTok, you didn't have a public, you have hundreds of thousands of followers, I believe 100,000 followers on TikTok, 100K on TikTok or something.
	You have TikToks talking about this.
	I don't want to get into the abuse.
	I don't want to get, I don't even want to get anywhere near there.
	I don't want to touch that.
	I'm just asking if the guy pays you child support.
	That's it.
	That's it.
	I don't think that's crazy.
	It's not crazy, but she's also not crazy for not wanting to talk about it.
	So that's.
	But how about, like, okay, here's how I'm viewing it.
	Here's how I'm viewing it.
	Let's say I had a video online where I was, I don't know, I was saying, oh, man, this one time, you know, I was, I had really bad food poisoning and I was barfing and I, you know, and you have to look up legally.
	Like, I don't even know if I'm legally allowed to speak on that.
	Like, see, I don't want to get into a legal case.
	So this is why I'm saying out of protection.
	Okay, but just to finish my point, I had this video where I was like, oh my God, I had food poisoning and blah.
	I got into details.
	And then somebody asks me, oh, Brian, do you like pepperoni on your pizza?
	And I was like, I'm not comfortable.
	I feel like the question of I'm failing to see parse how asking if someone's being paid child support.
	I don't know.
	Like that's seen, that's where you draw the line.
	But you have videos of you talking about your abusive ex, but I just asked about child support.
	Anyway, whatever.
	I'm not going to push it, but I'm just trying to explain myself.
	Your hypothetical isn't hypotheticaling.
	It's not.
	Your what?
	It's not.
	Your hypothetical is just not.
	It makes it.
	It's not lining up.
	It's clocking.
	It's not parallel.
	It's not comparable in my opinion.
	He does make sense, to be honest.
	I mean, think about it this way.
	Like, my mom didn't want to tell me about the child support.
	Wait, here, I'll make it.
	Hold on, really quick.
	I'll make it super simple.
	You say the hypothetical isn't parsing.
	Yeah.
	I think if you're willing to be so open.
	How about this?
	I think it's weird.
	I think it's weird.
	How about this?
	How about this?
	A woman who's a sex worker, she has, she's shown her pussy.
	She's a body count?
	No, no, no, no, hold on.
	She's shown her pussy.
	She's shown her titties.
	She's shown her ass.
	She's getting fucked on camera.
	But then somebody's like, oh, can you show me your elbow?
	Oh my God.
	How dare you want to see my elbow?
	It's like, you've already.
	So what?
	What are you doing?
	I'm going to move on.
	Finally.
	Does that make sense?
	I don't know.
	Well, I guess you're giving different examples and that's why it doesn't make sense.
	But to me, the way I see it.
	And remember five minutes ago when she asked if we could stop talking about this and we're still talking about this.
	He doesn't give a fuck.
	Exactly.
	Well, hold on.
	If you've just not thinking about it from the kid's point of view, like if this kid finds this later on, it's like that's what she's just trying to protect her from him from.
	Like, let's say, like, literally, that's just like a kid finding that.
	And remember when she said, stop talking about it?
	Yeah, what if, yes, what if the kid finds all her TikTok videos of her saying, she never says that that's your fault, correct?
	But remember when she said the child wouldn't know which ex she's talking about.
	And if she, if he asked her and she refused to say, then he would just assume it's that one.
	You see what I'm saying?
	Yeah.
	He won't know that.
	So I look, it's an interesting.
	I'm not going to press it, whatever.
	It's an interesting hill to die on or whatever.
	It's kind of ridiculous here.
	We have a chat here.
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	Lulu Lu, thank you for your message.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, we'll finish up.
	Was there another React, Nick, or did we do all the Reacts?
	I think we did all the reacts.
	All right.
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	Camille, all you look tired girl.
	Oh.
	I'm not a girl.
	I'm just kidding.
	Okay, we're going to go to Lore.
	This Lauren.
	Lauren.
	Your ex stalked you.
	Is that the older guy?
	Yes.
	Okay, so he's stalking you.
	Yeah, I kind of thought about it and I feel like I shouldn't have brought that up because it is like an active thing that I'm going through.
	Like men?
	For like legal reasons.
	Okay, that's fine.
	He doesn't follow me.
	Why does it seem like in today's dating world, men hate women and women hate men?
	Oh no, you should ask her.
	Why do you hate men?
	I don't.
	Oh, okay.
	Actually, no longer hate.
	White people.
	Sorry, you hate white people, my man.
	Let's see.
	You said in modern dating, you feel like women want too much from men and men don't know how to treat women.
	Relationships are partnerships.
	You feel many people fail to see.
	You know, I was thinking about this.
	I think we teach boys and men how to treat women.
	We teach women how to expect to be treated.
	However, we do not teach girls and women how to treat men and we do not teach men how to expect to be treated.
	I think that's the case.
	Also, don't treat men to like respect themselves.
	That's true.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	Like when it comes to like your emotions, like those are valid, but some men think it's not manly to cry.
	It's not merely to show your emotions.
	Okay.
	Sure.
	I just don't think women are holding up their end of the deal.
	It's like, okay, you want chivalry, you want men to pay for dates, you want traditional treatment, but you're a modern woman.
	I don't know.
	I think traditional men should be with traditional women.
	They should treat each other traditionally.
	I think women want to reject their traditional expectations and they want to maintain the benefits of traditional treatment, receptive traditional treatment from men.
	You want the benefits.
	It's great.
	Oh, wouldn't it be wonderful?
	You don't have to pay for dates.
	That's great.
	But I'm a sex worker.
	I'm a sex worker.
	I'm a woman who's a sex worker.
	Men should still pay for dates.
	I fuck dudes on camera.
	Men should pay for dates.
	that's outrageous why are you making the argument when none of the people at the table are like i i get i get the point but yes i know none of you none of you Okay, how about this?
	Anybody here a virgin?
	I'll use a super extreme example.
	Is anybody a virgin?
	Okay, you're not a virgin.
	So it's like, okay.
	I mean, how far do we talk about tradition?
	But even if you're not like, y'all, okay, you want a man to protect, you want a man to provide, you want a man to be chivalrous.
	He should be willing to die for you.
	But if his name isn't cool, I don't want to take his last name in marriage.
	I mean, she got a point.
	Are you putting us all in?
	No, she doesn't have a point.
	No, no, she does not have a point.
	I don't care if the man has the worst name ever.
	If you want to move in a traditional way, I don't care if his name is fucking Dick Wad.
	You're taking his last.
	I don't care if his name is Rumpel Dickskin.
	You're taking his last name.
	I don't care if his name is, I don't know, fucking Dick Sucker III.
	You're taking his last.
	I don't know.
	What's some dumbass name?
	Gaylord.
	I don't even know why that's debatable for some women to sit there and want that.
	You think that?
	No, no, no.
	I said, I'm who?
	She was fighting me on this.
	She says, oh, yeah, that's fine.
	If the last name isn't cool, the woman doesn't have to take the last name.
	You want to be a wife?
	You want to be married?
	You want a guy to get down on one knee to protect him?
	You want a traditional man.
	Yeah, but if you want a traditional man, you have to be willing to uphold those traditional values as well.
	That's the thing is that a lot of women are asking for that.
	Miriam, you circled.
	Men should pay on first dates.
	Men should provide protection.
	Okay, husband.
	You have to read my notes.
	If he wants to have babies, great.
	He does want to have babies.
	You want to have babies too.
	Husband should be willing to die protecting me.
	I'm willing to die.
	And you write, you circle.
	I'm willing to die too.
	Okay, fine, but men should pay on first dates is unique.
	Men should be chivalrous, unique to the man.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Let me make the point.
	Let me make the point.
	You also circle.
	I will keep my last name or hyphenate in marriage.
	So I'll explain that.
	So where I came from, it's like your family tree.
	That's your name.
	So like it's my name, my father's name.
	So maybe somebody in the chat can clarify.
	In Saudi Arabia, is it the woman keeps the last name in marriage?
	Yeah, we never change.
	What about for the kids?
	Well, the kids take the father's name.
	That's what I'm saying.
	For your kids, will they take your last name?
	My father's name, all the way to like the last name.
	For your kids.
	For your kids.
	They will have the father's name.
	They'll take the father's name.
	What about for you, Lauren?
	Whoever is a coolest last name.
	No, let's say you meet a new guy.
	Do your kids get the father's name?
	I mean, I don't know.
	You said, is it whoever has the coolest name?
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Because I just think that there's just like a cute thing to it.
	Like, I think my last name is cute.
	Like, I would love to continue that unless he has a cooler last name.
	How about this?
	Let's say that the guy's last name is cool.
	Then he, yeah, we'll take it.
	You'll take it.
	Yeah.
	But if it's, and you get, you're the final arbiter of what's cool and what isn't.
	So you can reserve the right at any time to change your mind.
	Yeah, I had the baby.
	Oh, I guess continuing his bloodline is not what matters.
	I guess not.
	You want a man to pay for, not just pay for the date, you want a man to pay for a babysitter hundreds of dollars just to take you out on a date.
	Yes.
	And you won't take a guy's last name.
	That's crazy.
	And you want to give it a name.
	That's crazy.
	You know what's interesting?
	Weren't you saying how you do that?
	You want the guy to pay for the babysitter because you want to see if he's serious, if he's intentional.
	You won't take his last name.
	You have no seriousness.
	You have no intention.
	I mean, honestly, it just depends on what it means to him.
	You, let's, well, if he's a traditional guy, yeah, that's typically pretty important.
	And then we would have.
	But it's a bad last name.
	You said it would.
	Hold on.
	Can I ask you a question?
	You say it can be a conversation, a discussion, a negotiation.
	Yes.
	How would for you?
	Would you appreciate it?
	Would you go for it if the guy wanted to have a conversation about paying for the babysitter or paying for the first date?
	Hey, let's have a, we're on a date.
	Hey, let's have a, we should have a convo.
	Let me, let's negotiate this.
	Let's have a, let's have a disagreement.
	Let's have a negotiation.
	I don't think you would be okay with that.
	I've had those conversations.
	So you're telling me you don't you want the guy to just acquiesce?
	Yeah, of course he's paying for the first date.
	Of course he's paying for the babysitter.
	Really?
	You don't think it's a weird, like for example, if a guy was like, I want to negotiate with you.
	I want to have a conversation with you.
	I want to discuss having to pay for the first date.
	That's not going to fly for a woman like you.
	No.
	Didn't you have a girl on the podcast that had the same situation?
	Old girl with the tattoos?
	I remember.
	Something like that.
	I find this hard to believe.
	You were so gung-ho on the man paying for the date.
	I think I've never had anyone this like passionate about it.
	But I mean, if it meant something to him, okay.
	To take the last name?
	Yeah.
	I'm sorry.
	I can't go to the bathroom with you now, but maybe later.
	Yeah, it just depends on like if it meant something to him, like, of course.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	I've just never really had this.
	It's conversation.
	That's traditional.
	Can I genuinely ask, like, what's the point of taking a last name?
	Like, it's different.
	Because I have traditionally.
	what's what's the point is to keep track of well as far as children goes to continue his bloodline What the fuck does bloodline mean?
	We're like, this is the 21st century.
	Like, what?
	Bloodline.
	Okay, continue.
	Not let it end.
	In Filipino culture, you take both last names.
	So this argument literally means nothing to me.
	We're in the United States.
	We're not in the Philippines.
	She lives in the United States.
	You live in the United States.
	You're born in the United States.
	Okay, and people do this even outside of culture.
	Like, literally, I just don't understand what this means.
	In the United States, the traditional thing is for the wife to take the husband's last name.
	But like, literally, what's the point?
	I mean, if he's not.
	What's the point?
	What's the point of anything, though?
	Exactly.
	What's the point?
	Great.
	What are you a fucking-nihilist?
	I named myself.
	No, I just like, I just don't.
	I named the son after not my stepdad or his dad.
	I named him after my grandpa because I respected him.
	that's totally fine so and that's and that's how like that's wait after you're Wait, wait, hold on.
	You named your son after your grandpa.
	My grandpa.
	How does that benefit the man?
	What do you mean?
	Do you know what solipsism is?
	Solipsism is the idea you think you're the son.
	You think, or I guess you think you're, well, it depends.
	You think things revolve around you.
	Me, me, you is me, Okay.
	You don't consider the other person.
	I mean, I just considered my son about how he'd feel.
	I've also considered and I said, hey, if I had a man and it meant something to him, then I would.
	So I feel like that argument actually doesn't work.
	I think if the man is asking you and means something to him, he's not going to ask if it doesn't mean anything.
	No, I think he would tell me.
	Why does it have to be a conversation?
	Why isn't it just a given?
	If you're getting married.
	Some people don't care.
	That's what I'm saying.
	But it's like, how can you be, how can you say?
	Not only should the man pay on the first date, he's got to spend hundreds.
	How much is a babysitter for a few hours?
	Pretty expensive.
	How much is a babysitter?
	Maybe for like a night out, maybe about, it depends on how long we're gone, like 60 to 150.
	Okay, so let's say it's $150.
	Not only does he got to take, and I'm assuming you're not going to be satisfied with Chili's or McDonald's.
	Like, you'd like a decent place for me.
	For the first date, something sweet, but then after that, then it doesn't matter.
	Okay, so this guy's looking at spending $300.
	That's a lot.
	And then you won't take the...
	Plus guess.
	You won't take the last name.
	I didn't say that.
	You're trying to make me say something that I didn't even say.
	You did say it.
	You're gaslighting me right now.
	She didn't say she never would.
	She said, it will only have to be if the name is cubed.
	And his name is.
	But if okay, if he has a really bad last name.
	Because I could swear, I swear to God, I'm pretty sure the guy that had the duty last name, I think he's the one who's like, it doesn't matter.
	You know what I mean?
	That's him.
	Exactly.
	So I'm talking about my experiences.
	And this is a dating podcast, and I'm talking about my experience.
	Sure, but what I'm saying is, if you do, I guess he was fine with it, but it's conceivable that you have your own viewpoint on it.
	And the viewpoint that you articulated was, oh, you know, regardless of you being able to find a guy who's like, yeah, whatever.
	I don't care about the last name.
	It can be yours.
	It can be mine.
	We can invent a new one.
	Who fucking cares?
	Yeah, you can find that.
	However, your position, your position is: if it's not a cool name, I think I'd keep mine.
	If it's not a cool name, I don't want the kids to have his name.
	In a situation, though, where you do meet a guy and he comes across like a traditional guy, and maybe you haven't had the conversation yet, but maybe you get the impression based off of how traditional he is.
	He's like, Look, you almost assume that this guy wants you to take his last name.
	You assume that if you have kids with him, he's going to want you to take the last name.
	Why does it have to be a discussion then?
	Like, when you say discussion, can I let, I guess we can hypothetical it.
	You guys have been dating for six months.
	You guys start talking, hey, maybe we can, you know, this could, this could go the distance.
	I'd love to have how many more kids do you want to have?
	Oh, I want to have this many kids.
	Hey, yeah, so I want the kids to have my last name.
	Is that there a discussion beyond that?
	I think there, I no, no, not after you have the discussion, but the reason that I also think it is a discussion is because I've also had friends that I grew up with and they didn't take their husband's last name.
	So for me, this is like what I've also seen.
	So I've seen it not being as big of a deal as because something happens in another relationship.
	If you okay, but do you agree that the traditional thing is for the woman to take the last name and for the kids to have the last name of the husband?
	Yes, but I've seen relationships on all sides.
	Well, yeah, but you've probably heard of relationships where the dude gets pegged.
	Like that exists.
	That exists.
	So I don't think that that's a super common.
	And then you have discussions.
	I asked you guys that on a date.
	But can we role play it really quick?
	All of that matters.
	Can we roleplay it really quick?
	So, okay.
	I'm a traditional guy.
	I want the kids to have my last name.
	Okay.
	Wait, that's the discussion?
	That's the discussion.
	So you just acquiesce.
	Yes.
	Now I know that means something to you.
	Well, when you say discussion, I would, oh my God.
	I guess I don't know.
	I was assuming, like, no, let's have prolonged conversations.
	And, but if it's then that's fine.
	It just sounded like you were basically just asking permission.
	Like, like you were asking him for him to ask for your permission for his kids.
	No, it just doesn't seem like you're not yourself.
	Get ourselves.
	It just doesn't.
	Do we have shots?
	Hold on just one sec.
	We got chats coming through.
	Uh-oh, they're coming for you.
	Chair 1, you're single, not finding the man you want, cause you're the problem, and God is just protecting others from you.
	All defensive about your son, but yet you put him all over your social media smh.
	Actually, I don't put my son's face on my social media.
	I kind of wanted to touch on that part for a second because, you know, women are asking for this out of men to be traditional, yet, you know, like I said before earlier, they're not upholding those traditional values.
	And then the thing is about when it comes down to marriage, the whole point of having the last name of your husband is to honor him.
	It's not necessarily just, oh, I'm taking a last name, whether or not it's nice or it sounds cute or it sounds cool.
	It's about the fact that you're honoring him.
	We're still talking about last name.
	Yeah.
	And then I do have to say, how are you going to make TikToks, but then don't want to talk about it?
	El Sisterhood, y'all are all soft and weak as hell.
	You let him get it raw.
	Didn't have second thoughts.
	Now you're a single mom.
	What the heck?
	Okay, Nick, I sent you a text.
	Diesel, thank you for the TTS.
	Lulu Lu, thank you for the teacher.
	Lululu donated $69.
	Chair 1, no offense, but you never had a conversation about last names with a guy.
	Of course, nobody ever intended to lock you down.
	You got the looks, but your personality is vapid.
	Come down to earth.
	There's a compliment that I've been engaged.
	Chivalry used to go, final thing on this: chivalry used to go hand in hand with the idea of a woman being a lady.
	It was a mutual reciprocal, not quite symmetrical, but at least it was mutual and reciprocal.
	The man had his roles, the woman had her roles.
	Women have forsaken and completely abandoned any duty, any responsibility, any variance or even interpretation of a traditional gender role.
	But if you were nine, you basically act as if you're 1950s bachelorettes.
	It's 1950 for the man, and it's 2025, 20 coming into 2026 for you.
	So for you, you're a modern woman.
	For the man, tradition.
	That's a raw deal for men.
	Raw deal for men.
	Let's see here.
	I'm trying to think if.
	But what about those women who are like slightly traditional?
	Yes, of course.
	There are definitely traditional women out there.
	And by the way, there's also men who are definitely not traditional.
	But it seems like women, even if they're super modern, super feminist, super egalitarian, still seem to desire because they can get it.
	Still seem to desire those traditional things because they're beneficial.
	Of course, it's optimal to not have to pay for the meal.
	You get to save your money.
	Somebody else pays for you.
	That's a privilege.
	That's a benefit.
	But what duties do women have?
	Do women?
	Do they?
	Do women have any responsibilities or duties?
	I think so.
	Well, let me ask you this.
	This came up last show.
	Men will get women flowers.
	Has anybody here ever received flowers from a man?
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	I hit flowers.
	What is the female equivalent of that?
	I get the flowers.
	What did you say?
	Head.
	What did you say?
	Also, BJ, but the guy could give you oral sex.
	No, but I would most definitely get my man flowers.
	Like, I would most definitely open the door for my man.
	Like, I'm a cleaner.
	I'm a cook.
	But I also expect you to do the same thing.
	I don't think a BJ is the equivalent of flowers.
	She's one person.
	She's not everyone.
	Okay.
	I just asked whoever I'm dating.
	What is the topic you wanted to hit on?
	I was just going to say, like, when it comes to men paying on the first date and stuff and like being chivalrous, I feel like when you're asking the question, like, what does a woman do or whatever?
	I feel like because a lot of that has to do with like The further you go in a relationship and like marriage, like once you get married and move in together, then it's the woman's job to like cook and clean and take care of the house and raise the kids and stuff like that.
	But I feel like if you're talking about traditional gender roles, then like while you're dating, like then I feel like it's easy to say then, yeah, a woman's job is just to be like, look pretty and like let the guy treat her.
	So prior to the marriage, she doesn't have to do anything.
	I'm not saying, I'm not saying that like that's what I think, but I'm just saying I feel like that's how some women and maybe men like look at it.
	No, I think there's I mean that bow video that we played, you be submissive and you can be submissive very early on in a first date that one for you in a first date.
	Well, you can.
	It's not even the bow, it's just a general submissiveness.
	You acquiesce to his leadership.
	You fought.
	He leads, you follow.
	What?
	If I want to lead and you follow, I'm gonna come home from my job.
	I'm gonna be the one paying for the house, but I want you to come back.
	I want my dishes clean.
	I want my clothes washed like she's she.
	She's just upset, I haven't seen her yet, but so um Camia, we're getting into uh, Camia's notes here.
	Uh okay we, we did your videos.
	You think red pill men are sabotaging themselves in the dating world and they're really kidding.
	I actually feel like red pill men are so hot.
	What is a real.
	After she came on this podcast, everything changed, I guess.
	Yeah, after seeing you.
	Um, all right, Deadly Pee.
	You said, men being okay with staying in the friend zone but still buying you things.
	Bruh, that's a yikes.
	You're telling me that you have guys in the friend zone who buy you shit.
	Well, it's more like we're in the friend zone and you want to hang out, but i'm not gonna go do the thing that you want to do because it costs money and i'm a college student.
	But if you're down to pay for that, that's fine like, as long as you pay for what you want to do.
	Okay, it's not like you're buying me objects, like because i'm totally fine with like going and hanging out without spending money.
	But most of my friends and all these other people want to go spend all this money, which i'm not down to spend.
	But you want me there and you're begging for me to be there.
	So if you really want me there, you can pay for it, because i'm down to do something else and still be in your presence.
	Wouldn't that have to apply to all your other friends?
	It does, huh.
	So like, if i'm the one who is asking you to do something but you don't want to pay for it sure like, if i'm begging to be, for you to be there, i'm gonna pay for it.
	But if it's the other way around you you gotta pay for it or we can do something else.
	I mean, I guess it makes sense.
	I only do that with my friends.
	If I invite them somewhere, i'll pay out of pocket, but if it's a guy that I friend zone, I don't even talk to them.
	So you did not friend zone, wait.
	Also, you said you would punch him in the face.
	Oh, you wrote in your notes for the this guy you're talking platonically, after saying you'd punch him in the face for what you said you were punching.
	That's the question.
	Okay it, It was men being okay with staying in the friend zone, but still buying you things and taking you to do and paying for what the fuck you want to do want platonically, after saying you'd punch him in the face.
	That's your notes.
	Oh, yeah, people, a lot of the men who've been friend zone really harass me about it.
	Like they want sex and all this other stuff.
	And I'm like, bro, I will punch you in the face if you keep continuing to do this.
	But then they want to go continue to beg me for sex, continue to slide into my DMs and tell me, hey, I want to jerk off to you.
	Okay, well, that's weird.
	These guys in the friend zone, though, I mean, this idea that I think men and women can be friends, but friend zone implies that initially he had a romantic or sexual interest in you.
	I don't think you can be friends with somebody really if it started off with him wanting to fuck you.
	Yep.
	Like, I mean, logically, it's possible, but practically, yeah, you friend zone.
	First off, if a girlfriend zones you, next, next.
	But I don't know.
	You friend zone.
	I mean, if you're harassing me about it, eventually I might say yes.
	Oh, that's crazy.
	Don't say that.
	I guess it's completely different when there was, when that was not initiated, if there was no any sort of.
	All right, I'm going to the bathroom.
	If it wasn't, if actually, oh my God, you guys are going to be able to get away from it.
	If there wasn't anything, she's running.
	She's running.
	That is.
	I was saying, if there was like, it would have been different if you weren't romantically involved in that person at all and it was just strictly platonic, then yeah, that would make more sense on your end.
	But it's like, if that person was trying to get romantically involved and you just told them, you know what?
	This is not going to work out.
	I think we should just stay friends.
	And then that continues on.
	I'm not really sure where that's going with that one.
	I'm not really sure if that, it doesn't really make too much sense to me.
	Then again, I also, the whole dating scene, the way that you guys are struggling out there, I'm not going to lie.
	It's a big ghetto.
	It is.
	It is.
	I don't know how you guys are managing.
	It's even struggling with the girls because they be saying they lesbian and hopping on the dick the next day.
	Oh, wow.
	I just don't know how that works out for you guys.
	I'm so sorry.
	That's all I can say.
	Like, to hear the amount of first dates and all of this, I don't know how that works.
	Then again, I've never done online dating.
	I've never been on a first date with someone I have no idea about.
	That's one thing I could say.
	I've never experienced that.
	So for me, when I was getting slowly romantically involved with a guy, I wanted to get to know him first, had some conversations, talked, actually made time with that person to get to know them on a personal level.
	Then I then proceeded to the first date.
	I never really did the whole like first date, first date, buy me steak dinners.
	I mean, like, I get to know them and everything.
	And it's just like, it's chill until it's not because a lot of men be like, oh, you're, which by the way, I have, I am fully clothed on my Instagram.
	I'm not super sexual, but those men be like, oh, you're presenting yourself in this way.
	So I deserve sex.
	There are so many men that tell me, oh, we went on this first date.
	Now I am expecting sex.
	And it's just crazy because it's like, well, we just spent weeks getting to know each other.
	And now you're telling me I owe you sex.
	Yeah, then obviously that guy was just.
	And it happens so much.
	And people say that my prettiness is the excuse for their behavior.
	And it makes it so much harder for me because I want to just get to know you.
	I want to have an actual relationship.
	I'm not down to just have sex on the first date.
	And then they're like, but I just bought you food.
	The problem that we're seeing on both ends, though, if you really want to look at it from both ends, not just from one side.
	We see that women are going through the situation with where men are expecting something to come out of that date that they're having.
	And then you have and then you also have.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm messing around.
	Sorry.
	I was saying that, you know, when it comes down to the negatives and dating and stuff, where women are sitting here dealing with men that are expecting sex out of their first dates or just because they bought them a steak dinner.
	But then you also have women that are sitting there, they utilize men as a free meal as well.
	So it's like, I mean, that's the problem.
	I mean, like, it is a problem, but like, I'm not part of that problem.
	I'm not using it for a few meal.
	I'm here to make an actual relationship.
	Just shifting gears to move things on a little bit.
	You said no standards are too high.
	Sorry.
	What is this girl doing?
	What's she doing?
	Sorry.
	All right.
	No standards are too high.
	So if like a morbidly obese woman is like, my standard is I want to date Brad Pitt.
	Do you think it's a bit too high?
	Young Brad Pitt, like in the 90s.
	Like a morbidly obese.
	I've seen a morbidly, more, more, I can't say morbidly.
	Yeah, it's fine.
	Yeah, obese woman with more than over 10 type men.
	I don't like name.
	I want that.
	But like, shit, I hate that.
	I think honestly, they're just being fetishized.
	Yeah.
	That's what it is.
	Okay.
	And if they found their niche and it makes them happy.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Are no standards, no standards are too high for women?
	For both.
	For men too.
	Yeah.
	Like you have standards.
	I want to know your standards.
	So if my standard is I make no quant, like I think I'm an average, like at best average guy.
	At best, average.
	But I obviously get myself a 4.5, so that's a bit below average.
	You even think I'm lower than that.
	You think I'm lower than that.
	Not upset by that whatsoever.
	Do you think there are no standards are too high for me?
	No.
	So if I'm holding out, if I don't want to deal with an average chick and I want to fuck a 10 out of 10 20 year old supermodel, am I being realistic?
	I mean, if you're not realizing that you're not realizing about you, is that realistic?
	100%.
	Okay.
	100%.
	There's many 20-year-olds who would do that.
	In the past, fucking, I don't know, three years or whatever?
	Two years.
	When did I start the bow video?
	Two years ago?
	I don't know.
	They all do it.
	You think if a girl likes a guy.
	Can you invite me to your wedding, please?
	Sure, you can be there.
	You can be my can we be the flower girls?
	Yes.
	Sure.
	I want to see that.
	But you have to take the Septum Piercing out.
	I will.
	You think if a girl, if a girl really likes a guy, she'll.
	I don't know if I want to be graphic here.
	You think a girl who really likes a guy, the bow is going to be the what's the term for it?
	No, she can, but you're all talking about these expectations.
	Like, just be a model.
	I'm like, I feel like there's more models than people that bout you, in my opinion.
	When I'm talking about standards, I'm talking about.
	There's a lot of agencies out there.
	She's a model.
	Hold on.
	You think it's more likely I get with a 10 out of 10 supermodel than find a woman who's willing to bow?
	I don't know what you consider 10 out of 10, but I do think you could get with an attractive woman for sure.
	100%.
	What does attractive mean?
	A girl that you like.
	I don't know.
	You're tight.
	She's not attractive.
	Not everybody's going to see what you see as a submissive girl.
	I can get the bow way easier than a 10 out of 10 supermodel.
	How about here?
	She's a virgin too.
	Let's add that on top.
	No standards are too high.
	But when I'm talking about standards, I'm not talking about.
	She has the biggest labia ever.
	I'm not talking about that.
	No standards are too high?
	Can I finish what I'm saying?
	Go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	When I'm talking about standards, I'm talking about what people are expecting.
	Like you expect to go on first date and a man might expect you to do that too.
	Like I'm talking about actions.
	What do you expect?
	What are your standards?
	I'm not talking about looks like standards over preferences.
	You can have standards related to looks.
	Okay.
	But that's not what I'm talking about.
	Like when I'm saying no standards are too high, that's what I'm talking about.
	Okay, can a woman have a height standard?
	Like can a woman say, I'll only date a guy who's six foot six?
	Is that a standard?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So I would think if regardless of how tall or short or whatever the woman is, I would tell a woman, I mean, look, if you're a really, really beautiful woman, yeah, maybe you could get a guy who's 6'6 ⁇ .
	It's a really small proportion of men who are that tall.
	It's less than 1%.
	So I would tell her, like, look, that's kind of unrealistic.
	I think that's a bit, let's say it's an average chick.
	Then I'm like, okay, maybe you can find it.
	Unlikely, though, you've shrunk your dating pool to less than 1%.
	So I don't understand though.
	If women can have height standards, why can't I have like, she's hot standards?
	She's beautiful standards.
	You just get caught up.
	Girls can have any standards they want.
	I mean, I already said, like, you could, I already said, like, I answered all your questions when you said that.
	And I was like, yeah, like, you could have that standard and that's not too high.
	If you're looking for a girl that's 10 out of 10, like, that's your preference.
	Latrice, you, interestingly enough, leads right into this.
	Women and their outlandish expectations on men.
	You wanted to talk on that?
	Yeah, because I think that's the problem.
	And that's why it's a lot harder for, that's why I'm actually seeing a lot more women that have been single is because of the expectations that they have upon men.
	You know, again, we've already went over this earlier that we were talking about how, you know, men are expected to be the providers, the protectors, to be able to make certain financial expectations within the woman's standards.
	Also, X, Y, Z, whatever.
	But then when it comes down to women, what exactly do they have to offer that?
	What do they have to offer in order to meet that and meet those qualifiers that they have and those expectations that they have upon men?
	What can you offer is the question.
	Your man provides for you and you offer health skills.
	You help around the house.
	Yes, there's women that won't offer that at all.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I feel like you should offer more than just that.
	Like go to work.
	Get a job.
	Why do I want to work for a white?
	Why do I want to work for a man who's not going to give a shit about me?
	While I get to be at home for a man that does care for me and provides for me.
	Because you're getting money and you're also helping provide for the family.
	I'm definitely getting money.
	I don't have a problem.
	I'm getting money with a joint account too.
	I'm actually in charge of the finances in the household.
	He does not have control of money.
	I do.
	I got to move it on.
	I'm going to move it on.
	Going to Lauren, there's a few more notes for you.
	You write, you don't split bills.
	You don't pay for sitters to go on dates.
	The man pays.
	You expect men to lead financially and show effort.
	And what's interesting is that even with those standards, you've dated men who are fully aligned with that.
	This is the simp epidemic, I think.
	So Symp epidemic where men will like, for example, a woman could be like a prostitute and she'll still find a guy to like who's willing to she'll find a sucker, she'll find a guy who's willing to pay for dates and stuff.
	I think if you're, I'm not calling you a prostitute, but like there are, we've had actual literal prostitutes on the show, and they're like, I don't think there's anything further from being traditional than being a prostitute.
	Chivalry should be completely out the door.
	I'm not saying she should be mistreated, but if you want chivalry, you got to be a lady.
	And trust me, prostitutes are not ladies.
	They're not, they're women, but they're not ladies.
	And so I think there's this dynamic going on here where I agree with you.
	Like, even if you're a totally modern woman, even if you're a stated feminist, you can still find men because men are just that motivated.
	And men, maybe, maybe they're too horny, maybe they're too whatever.
	Maybe they don't have enough options.
	Because women, when it comes to dating, y'all move in abundance.
	Women move in abundance.
	Y'all don't, there's no shortage of men who want to sleep with you.
	There's no shortage of men who want to be with you.
	Whether you find them attractive or not, that's another story.
	Whereas a lot of men, the experience of most men, most men live lives of quiet desperation.
	Most men don't have like 10 women in the friend zone who would readily fuck him.
	Most men don't have 10 women in the friend zone who are like dying to be in a relationship with him.
	The same way that women have.
	Women, y'all always have a man in the pocket.
	You might not like the guy, but there's a guy who's like, would absolutely be a total fucking simp.
	You could run that relationship and he'll be a simp.
	He'll pay for dates.
	He'll simp for you.
	He'll give you money just to have access to you romantically and or sexually.
	You keep men in the pocket, the friend zone.
	And so y'all come from abundance, but a lot of dudes, like an average girl, she has a lot of sexual options.
	Like an average chick, you move through the world with the sexual optionality of a rock star.
	As a man, for us to have the same level of sexual access, you could have.
	Now, I realize a lot of you don't want.
	I totally get you guys don't want to just fuck anybody.
	But it's so easy for men.
	What do you mean?
	Hold on, let me finish my point before we get into that.
	You move through the world as if, like, in terms of the men that are just like, want some dick, want some dick, want some dick.
	Y'all are rock stars in that sense.
	For a man to have women coming at them like that, you gotta be, you're a 1% man.
	You're either top, top-tier looks, like you to get that level of sexual attention from women, you gotta be a not, you gotta be a Chad, you gotta be a nine out of ten to get that kind of sexual attention from women.
	An average woman, a below-average woman, is getting bombarded with dick proposals.
	Want some dick?
	Ew, want some dick, want some dick.
	Y'all, y'all, you just get on a dating app, you'll have 10 dudes ready tonight to sleep with you.
	An average guy goes on a dating app, an average guy goes to the bar, no girls are going to go talk to him, no girls are sliding into an average dude's DMs, no chicks, excuse me, sir, want some pussy.
	No, it's not happening, it's not happening.
	So y'all move through it with abundance.
	A lot, most men don't have abundance mindset.
	So when they do find a girl, they're gonna, shit, they'll do a lot of, they'll do some desperate shit.
	And that's where simping comes in.
	So even if the woman isn't meeting a standard, a lot of men, whatever, I'll do what it takes to get her.
	I'll do what it takes to get pussy.
	I'll do what it takes to get a relationship.
	And that's not criticism of women.
	That's a criticism of men.
	Correct.
	these men out here be fucking shit up.
	Men are fucking shit up too in a lot of ways.
	A lot of people say, Brian, you only criticize women.
	These simps out here be fucking shit up because y'all are used to a certain y'all, y'all ain't doing anything.
	Y'all ain't holding up your end of the deal as women.
	Since dating is like hard and unjust for men, do you expect women to owe you something?
	How did you come?
	How did you draw that from what I just said?
	Because you're talking about how hard and unjust it is.
	And then you're like.
	Hold on.
	Not.
	I'm not saying men.
	Look, I'm not saying it's unjust.
	I'm speaking descriptively.
	I'm saying this is what is.
	It is true, whether you like it or not, whether it is true that an average woman, she can be bombarded with sexual options.
	An average man, like honestly, you put most women into a man's body.
	They're incels.
	You put most women into a man's body.
	A lot of women think, oh, if I was a man, I'd be running through chicks.
	No, you, women don't have game like that.
	Like, you think if you were a dude, oh, if I was a dude, I would know exactly what to, no, you would, y'all be simps too.
	Y'all would be simps.
	So the issue is that, sorry.
	Well, men are not selective and they're not shooting towards like their league, you know?
	So like they, they just like, if they see 10 women, they would try with every single one of them.
	And that's the problem that men have.
	Women concentrate on their goal and they are more selective when it comes to dating.
	They are more selective.
	And we also like, I mean, almost everywhere in the universe, we're just waiting for the man to make the first move, which put too much pressure on the man.
	I acknowledge that.
	But also like, we're not just like, you know, going after every man.
	So we also not get in unless if the man approach first.
	And a lot of men nowadays don't approach.
	So I mean, like, and that's as women, I agree that yes, men are not approaching women as much anymore.
	Men are not putting in, you know, certain, well, some men are putting in tons of effort, the simp.
	But yes, that, but there's a lot of factors to that.
	There's, there's a different, there's a shift in the social dynamics between men and women.
	But the reality is, as an average guy, if you don't make the first move in your life, you're dying a virgin.
	As an average woman, you don't got to do shit and men will come to you.
	Whether you like them or not is a separate conversation.
	And there's a lot of factors that go into that as well.
	Yeah, and I think men like that.
	Unfortunately, women are the sexual selectors.
	Women are pickier.
	Women are the sexual selectors.
	I'm not, it's not an injustice.
	It's just reality.
	It's just reality.
	Women have more sexual optionality than men.
	If I want to get honestly people change reality.
	A girl who's a three can get just as much sex if she wanted to.
	You know, props to you guys, because if men had the sexual optionality that y'all had, that would be like a crazy fuck fest.
	Holy shit, that would be a good thing.
	I mean, it kind of is.
	Times are kind of changing.
	At least, congratulations.
	You guys are selective.
	Good.
	Good.
	Because if the roles were reverse, hey, Brian, did you ever see that one video where the girl had she made a post on?
	I don't know if it was TikTok or Instagram.
	She said that she made a post pretending to be her friend, her male friend, which was actually, he was a very attractive dude.
	Dating apps, yeah.
	And went on a dating app, she realized just how hard he had it.
	Oh, yeah.
	You put an average girl on a dating app, she has a thousand matches in 24 hours.
	You put an average guy on a dating app, maybe he has three.
	Like, there's so many, there's so many differences.
	I'm not trying to be like, oh, feel pity for us.
	I'm just talking about descriptively what is the case.
	What is the case?
	And honestly, I think a girl who's a three, she has more sexual options than fucking a dude who's a nine.
	A dude, at least you have more options.
	Quality is going to be different.
	The guy who's a nine is going to get better quality.
	But in terms of parity for sexual optionality, yeah, y'all, it's crazy.
	Here, I have to move it on.
	But you don't split bills.
	You've dated, oh, right, the Simpsons, you've dated men who are fully aligned with that.
	Look, women can still get it.
	I think it's a raw deal for men.
	We have to be traditional.
	You can do whatever you want.
	You can be modern women.
	Benefits of modernity to you, the woman.
	Benefits of tradition to you, the woman.
	Downsides, excuse me.
	Downsides of modernity to the man.
	Downsides of tradition to the man.
	That's the dynamic that I see.
	You said you've experienced the full range of relationship dynamics, 50-50, man took the lead.
	You said you consider yourself a feminist in a realistic way, meaning you believe men and women aren't identical.
	You think modern dating should operate like you're the same.
	We kind of, I think we already talked about that quite a bit.
	I guess just final question on that, anyways.
	How do you reconcile being a feminist and holding men to traditional gender roles?
	When I define like feminism, I define it as just women being able to have the option and autonomy, whether to be in a relationship or not, and whether to be in a traditional dynamic or not.
	Like I feel like women should have that choice whether they want to be in that relation, that type of relationship or not.
	Okay, you also say that his money is your money?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Should he be doing, maybe this is just my notes from one of your TikToks.
	Should he be doing the dishes every day or am I just, you know, he should do the dishes.
	Relationship depends.
	It depends on like what his job is, how demanding it is.
	I think relationships should be equal and it just depends on what, you know, who's doing what and who's bringing in what and who the demands of labor and things like that.
	You say that misogyny is normalized and even desired in the media.
	How so?
	Sorry, really?
	Don't mean to interrupt you.
	Just so we understand the terms, can you define misogyny?
	I define misogyny like what the first thing that just comes in my head is like the example of that video of that woman like serving the man.
	That's how I define misogyny.
	Wait, wait.
	The videos that you played earlier of like the woman bowing, that's how I define separately.
	Wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	That's how I definitely define it.
	So that I'll be charitable.
	That would be, from your perspective, that would be an example of misogyny.
	Yes.
	How do you, with words, how do you define misogyny?
	What does that mean?
	I think men expecting servitude from women.
	Servitude.
	So, and just a reminder, for a guy to take you on the first date, he has to pay for the first date and he has to take you to a decent place, it sounds like, and he has to pay for your babysitter.
	How is that not servitude?
	Yeah.
	That because I've explained this earlier, that when, if I were to get pregnant, it just shows him like what type of guy he's willing to do.
	Like, I'm willing to take care of you when you're vulnerable.
	So why don't you, why wouldn't you apply that logic to, okay, well.
	We would have a relationship where we're doing that for each other.
	But why was that video misogynistic?
	Which one?
	The first one or the second one?
	Or both?
	Both.
	Both are, so cooking a meal for your man.
	It was like the concept of she was like bowing and like.
	Why would that be misogynistic?
	Even if it's culturally weird, how would it be or like strange?
	Why would it be misogynistic?
	Well, I mean, because it's not showing them doing it for each other.
	It's just showing one as like.
	The woman doing something for the man.
	Wouldn't paying for your babysitter and paying for the date, that's him doing something for you that he doesn't get in return.
	So are you a misandrist?
	No.
	But so why would it be if it's misogynist that way?
	Why isn't it misandrist your way?
	Then, yeah, then I think you have a point.
	So you're a misandrist?
	No, no.
	I was, I'm agreeing with you.
	So it's not misogynist.
	No, I'm agreeing with you.
	So your entire position just crumbles?
	Well, yeah, I can say that I'm wrong.
	Okay, if that's genuinely your position or you're just conceivable.
	You know, if they're both, as long as, see, I just grew up in households where I've seen unequal dynamics.
	But if they're equal in the relationship, then I don't see anything wrong with that.
	If they're equal in the relationship.
	Like, if they're both equally taking care of each other, I don't see anything wrong with that.
	Okay.
	What I'm against is power dynamics.
	That's it.
	What's wrong with power dynamics?
	One person having more power than the other.
	One person.
	It's inevitable.
	But it's inevitable.
	Don't you think that's inevitable?
	Well, I guess.
	Like, well, how about this?
	Men are physically stronger than women.
	So on that, in that, at least, what's the word for it?
	In that way, there's clearly a power dynamic.
	Yeah.
	Unless like the woman's a crazy bodybuilder and like super whatever and the guy's super weak.
	And I'm just where I'm coming from is I'm coming from a place of experiencing DV and unequal relationships.
	But if he respects his woman, then I, you know, like, I don't.
	I guess one thing.
	So do you, do you think the bow, though, is like misogynistic to one?
	Then I just said no, if that's what if okay.
	Okay.
	I guess one further explanation on that.
	You originally viewed it that way.
	Maybe other women might still consider it like kind of crazy or misogynistic.
	Yeah.
	My thing with the bow is as a woman, a lot of the women here at the table, y'all want men to pay for, not all of you, but some of you want men to pay for first dates.
	And you can probably at least acknowledge that maybe we can just say to be charitable, 50% of women want men to pay for first dates.
	What does that mean, though?
	You might think, well, it's a second thought.
	It's not, it's just, you don't even think about it.
	A man paying for the first date, let's say he makes $20 an hour.
	When a woman says the man has to pay for the first date, what does that actually translate to in practice, in action?
	So if a guy makes $20 an hour and he's, I think a reasonable first date spend would be $100.
	I think that's reasonable.
	You go to Chili's, you get a drink, you each get a drink, you get an appetizer, main course, dessert, tip.
	I think you're getting to $100.
	Chili's is not like exactly the most impressive first date.
	If he's making $20 an hour, that's five hours of work for the both of you.
	To be fair, if he's eating his own food, so just your portion of that bill, let's say it's $50, yeah, a man who makes $20 an hour has to work two and a half hours.
	Now, I'm not even factoring in tax.
	I'm not going to make that.
	I'm not going to make the math complicated.
	But factoring in tax, it's actually a bit more.
	But just for simplicity's sake, if a guy makes $20 an hour, let's just say after tax, to make it simple, he has to work five hours or just for your portion, two and a half hours to take you on a date.
	When I think about the bow that I desire, three seconds, done, that's all she has to do.
	It's effortless.
	Any woman can do it.
	Whoops, almost lost my laptop there.
	When women say, and I think I'm a unique snowflake in this regard, I don't think any other man in America has this expectation besides me.
	I'm a fucking weirdo.
	I don't think men really expect all that much, really.
	Really?
	You might say, well, they expect sex.
	Well, if we fuck, y'all are the ones who can come 10 times in a row.
	And I don't know.
	I think sex is a mutual value exchange.
	Honestly, and because y'all be coming 10 times in a row, I think women have the better deal when it comes to sex.
	But if we have sex, that's equal.
	We both get something.
	But when it comes to paying for a date, that's one direction.
	Unidirectional.
	So I guess ultimately, the bow thing seems completely effortless, but the translation of a woman saying men should pay for first dates is go work.
	Let's say the guy, your husband does construction, whatever.
	Let's say he works a construction job.
	Let's say he works, let's say he works a job that's that's uh that's labor that's difficult and he makes $20 an hour.
	When a girl says men should pay for first dates, the translation there, at least how I view it, is go dig a ditch for two and a half hours.
	If I said, instead of the bow, if I told a woman, you have to go do fucking physically labor for me for two and a half hours to go on a date with me, y'all would be like, that's way worse than the fucking bow.
	That's bullshit.
	I'm not fucking digging a ditch for you for two and a half hours.
	But if I'm already working, and if I'm already working and that's what's like you, you want, and especially if it's something that's more expensive and that's something that I wanted to go to that's silly at time, though.
	But that's that's getting away from the point.
	My point is, people look at this expectation for, even if, forget the bow, if I want a girl to cook for me, some women object to that.
	If I want a girl to cook, if I want a girl to clean, I want, how about this?
	Tell me if you object to this.
	The first time a girl comes over to my house, I want her to do my laundry.
	Do you object?
	Would you do it?
	How about that?
	No.
	Would you do that?
	No, but I'm not the son.
	No, but she's like the sun, like you said.
	Haha, that's funny.
	No, I'm not trying to be funny.
	What do you mean?
	She thinks this way because she really views herself very high, obviously.
	She really thinks she's like everything.
	She wants her men to do everything for her.
	Like, you're not going to say that.
	Like, no.
	You want a lot.
	Oh, okay.
	Maybe I misunderstood then.
	Excuse me.
	But you won't do the laundry the first time you go to the guy's house for him.
	I don't know.
	Will you do a guy's laundry?
	No, but I'll cook for you.
	Can you come back, Miss Miss Nick's?
	Can I fix your computer?
	It's bothering me.
	What's there to fix?
	Just it's sitting wrong.
	Oh well.
	She's my mom.
	This is my mom.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	First time you go over to a guy's house, will you do his laundry?
	What about you?
	No.
	What about you?
	Sure.
	You'll do it.
	W.
	Okay, W. Wipe this girl up.
	What about you?
	Well, I did it when we were together.
	First guy you go, time you go to a guy's house, what do you do with his laundry?
	I don't think men and women should expect husband and wife treatment if they aren't married.
	Yep.
	That's kind of like a music.
	Well, I guess you don't pay.
	You don't care about.
	Wait, hold on.
	End your fucking notes.
	But isn't that in the traditional sense?
	Wait, wait, Miriam.
	Hold on.
	Men should, hold on.
	Men should pay on first dates.
	Men should provide.
	I said if they want to have babies, yes.
	But you're not married.
	Yes, I want to have babies, but I'm not married to you yet.
	Why should I pay for that?
	I'm fine, half and half.
	I'm fine with that as long as I'm not paying for his daughter.
	But are women going to be satisfied if I'm boyfriend and girlfriend with a woman and I tell her, you know what?
	In some sort of situation where you would expect me to protect you, oh, sorry, we're not married yet, so I'm not going to protect you because I only do that for my wife.
	Yeah, I would protect you.
	Yeah.
	But okay.
	But your hold on.
	Your position is that should be saved for marriage.
	The husband-wife treatment should be saved for marriage.
	Can I clarify?
	So I said they should not expect, but if it can be done?
	Right.
	So like, let's say I want to cook.
	I can't cook for the person, but I'm not going to do his laundry because that's correct.
	And that's the aspect I don't expect from the man to like spend money on me or pay my bills or whatever because we're not married.
	You see what I'm saying?
	Like, I'm fine with like, we're all I know the testosterone is getting to you.
	Chill out.
	Okay.
	Look, I was never in a healthy state of a relationship.
	I always paid for myself.
	So if I'm with a man, if I'm with a man and he's like just paying for himself and I'm paying for myself.
	Okay, I'm okay with that.
	I mean, like, doing the laundry is extreme, but you know.
	No, no, no, but I don't think it's extreme because I don't even wash my own laundry.
	My sister has to come to the house and wash it for me.
	I mean, like, you're 21.
	How about your sister wash your boyfriend's?
	Shit, man.
	Get this.
	I'm not touching TBA.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	So the point I'm trying to make here is, is that, again, and by the way, the first time you go to a guy's house, that might not, you might have already been on two, three, four, five dates.
	Or maybe it's the first time.
	I don't know.
	I mean, it really depends.
	If you've been on two, three, four, five dates, I might just do it to do it because you haven't done it.
	I might just cook for you because.
	It's always the exception with you.
	It's always the.
	Yeah, I love that.
	It's not an exception.
	It's the fact that we've been in a relationship.
	What I'm trying to say, what I'm trying to say, when you guys give me pushback on the bow thing, I don't think it's in terms of a traditional expectation.
	Within a traditional dynamic, perhaps it's, you might dispute the, you know, how soon the laundry doing gets done, but I don't think it would be unrealistic in a traditional dynamic to expect the woman to do the laundry.
	Maybe you might fight me on how soon or whatever.
	You said, but your question was if you.
	Why do men have to pay for dates and that means they have to work two, three, four, five, six hours?
	Who said they have to pay for all the dates?
	Even if it's just the first date, that is still an expectation placed on men that doesn't exist in the reverse.
	So if the expectation for the man is you pay for the date, translation, you have to work two, three, four, five, six hours to make enough money to be able to pay for said date.
	I didn't get to pay.
	I'd pay more than that, though.
	What if you just get anything?
	That's $5.
	You could work for like five minutes to get $5.
	You can go on the street and go give out stickers and promote and get $5.
	Most people live paycheck to paycheck.
	You think all these dudes are fucking ballers?
	Most people are living paycheck to paycheck.
	Fucking the, we got a translation.
	You guys are fucking passed out because of this shit.
	But what was I saying?
	Look, I'm just saying.
	Can I also add sorry?
	Hold on, just wait, just wait.
	So ultimately, my confusion here is on one hand, women have this expectation.
	Men pay for first dates.
	I get it.
	There are some women who don't care.
	That's fine.
	I think the majority of women, it is their preference.
	So if the woman wants a man to pay for the first date, translation, the man has to work three, four, five, six, seven hours to pay for said date.
	That I think working for seven hours at whatever job you have, I don't care if you're in an office.
	I don't care if you're digging ditches.
	I don't care if you're a janitor, you're cleaning toilets, you're hustling as a waiter and cleaning tables and taking orders and dealing with fucking annoying ass Karen customers.
	If the girl comes over, you good?
	If the girl comes over and she's like, doesn't want to do the laundry, that takes 15 minutes.
	You put the clothes in the laundry machine.
	That takes maybe a minute.
	Turn it on, 20 seconds.
	Transfer it, then you wait.
	Transfer it to the dryer.
	One or two minutes.
	Turn the dryer on.
	The folding is probably the longest part.
	Maybe that's different.
	Chill out.
	She's liking that process, so I got you do it yourself.
	What?
	Laundry takes maybe 20 minutes total.
	20 minutes total.
	But first date, first date, work seven hours.
	Men should work seven hours, but oh my God, if the woman has to do 20 minutes of work doing laundry, washing the dishes or like cooking, like you're like, I don't know.
	It's better, I think.
	Bro, I don't want to touch your planet underwear.
	That's the problem.
	We didn't have to say that.
	So like, that's not everybody.
	Like, I don't know your hygiene.
	I don't know you.
	All right.
	Guys be stinky sometimes.
	The issue is not that you're asking something.
	It's what you are asking.
	Just imagine what it was like back then before the washer and dryer even existed.
	They had to hand wash it.
	I know that had to be horrendous.
	She's literally sleeping.
	Let me just talk.
	Yeah, I'm moving it on.
	Okay.
	Really quick, finishing off on the misogyny is normalized.
	I disagree.
	I think if you're misogynistic, if you're misogynistic, say you go to university, you're getting kicked out of the university.
	If you're a misogynist and you're on social media, you're going to get the wrath of these social media platforms.
	You're going to get canceled.
	If you're a misogynist at work, you're going to get canceled.
	I see the reverse.
	I actually think misandry is normalized.
	It's totally fine to hate men.
	It's totally acceptable.
	Anti-male rhetoric is way more prevalent on social media.
	I see it all the time on TikTok.
	If you doubt me, I post four clips a day on my Twitter.
	I'm documenting this shit.
	Women can be openly misandrist and there's like minimal or no pushback.
	The social media platforms completely tolerate it.
	So can men though.
	Do you think men can't do that?
	I think there's okay for you.
	There's way more pushback.
	For example, I'm trying to remember the, I could get it wrong, so somebody might check it and question me.
	So the hashtag on TikTok.
	I might be getting the exact hashtag wrong, but it's it's a basically this.
	The hashtag women suck completely blocked on TikTok.
	Hashtag men suck completely allowed and there's like 20,000 videos.
	These platforms, if if I some of the shit I see on TikTok, the man hating I see on there, if it was the reverse, you would be canceled.
	Andrew Tate had governments putting out, oh, you can't, we got to combat the red pill.
	We got to combat blah, blah, blah.
	All this shit.
	Andrew, perhaps you might think Andrew Tate has said some controversial things.
	I might not even disagree with you.
	The shit I see from feminists on TikTok, the things they say about men, I've never heard Andrew Tate say anything even approaching as bad as what Andrew Tate has said.
	These feminists on TikTok, these massandrists on TikTok, they say crazy shit.
	They say crazy shit.
	And there's nothing.
	Nothing happens.
	Nothing happens.
	So, anyways, I'll move it on though.
	Can I just comment on that?
	Bro, what is your deal, lady?
	Sorry.
	Holy shit.
	All right.
	Okay, something about dating a doctor.
	We're going to skip that.
	You dated a girl.
	You said you owe a lot of things to Tana Mojo, Monjo.
	Into the mic.
	Yeah, you did.
	Oh, but discovering that.
	You didn't grab me a ball of water.
	Discovering that I was pansexual.
	Because I think the way that she described pansexual helped me understand myself.
	You owe a lot of things to Tana Mojo.
	Okay.
	Yes, because it's not.
	You said you were stood up, the crying video.
	We already covered that.
	You said you share all text with your friends.
	What?
	I think in some video you said you share all texts.
	Could you also get me a room temp, Nick?
	No, I don't think that's not.
	That's not true.
	So I'm like, maybe like.
	I don't know.
	It was one of your TikToks, but I'll skip it.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Let's see here.
	I think that, I mean, there's more notes from you, but we're already.
	Yeah, just put it.
	I'll take it.
	Thank you, man.
	Unfortunately, there are more notes, but oh, Miriam.
	Oh, boy.
	Okay.
	We have Miriam, and then we have NYX, and I believe that's it for.
	Yeah, that's it.
	Just two more people, and then we're wrapped.
	Okay, Miriam.
	What did I say?
	You said you're looking for a man.
	You might still be married.
	You got married 20 years ago in Saudi Arabia.
	You can't file for divorce.
	You tried many times.
	He was abusive towards you, towards your children.
	You came to the U.S. to get your master's degree.
	You've been solely raising your child, no child support, no financial support.
	IRS taxes you as a single person.
	I guess you're okay.
	You can't claim a dependent because you're not a citizen.
	You're a magician.
	All your friends are magicians.
	Finally decided to have your first date in his house.
	Oh, that's he got mad saying it's not safe for a man to have a woman in his house and you should have been flattered.
	That's the first date he wanted, his house.
	Whatever, that's fine.
	You haven't dated for like 10 years before you started having a baby fever last year and started searching.
	Only two men you found may be on the first date.
	And they both told you they aren't looking to settle down and we couldn't move forward.
	Yeah, so the last, well, the last guy I've dated and the one and one I've dated last year, they both like, these are the only ones that like moved.
	Well, okay, so there's a third guy that I want to mention, the period, because like if you want to mention the story, I don't want to like people place what company he works for because the story is you say how millennials ruin dating not only for their generation, but for every generation coming afterwards.
	Are you Gen X or are you millennial?
	You're millennial.
	I think I'm millennial, yeah.
	Okay, I'm millennial, Latrice, millennial.
	Wait, so how did millennials ruin dating for their generation, but other generations?
	Quick answer if you can.
	Oh, I think it just like back to your point, how like women expect certain things, but Men don't want women to expect the traditional treatment because women are not giving them the traditional treatment and all that.
	You know, it goes both ways.
	Actually, men and women are contributing to this.
	And I think what is happening right now in the dating scene, it gets translated through social media.
	And all the tips that I see, like men giving other men, you know, dating tips or women giving other women dating tips, they all like questionable and they don't necessarily apply to everyone else or like maybe just like their own trauma or whatever.
	You said that millennials, so there are Gen X, there's Gen Z, who is also making this dating content or whatever.
	How specifically have millennials ruined dating?
	Because you say not only for their generation, for millennials, but every other generation.
	What is it specifically that millennials did?
	I think like back in the days, well, I cannot speak, you know, obviously about, you know, the US in general, just like from my observation of like the people I hang out with and stuff like that.
	You know, like back in the days, people would settle down faster than today.
	Today, people are setting up way higher expectations and they want like how do I say this?
	Like they want an elongated period of like an audition, basically a wife audition or a husband audition to like last for a long period before they actually want to settle down.
	And that's like not how things should work.
	I mean, yes, you need to know and understand the other person, but there are people who like they would stay together for 10 years and they still haven't decided to like move forward yet.
	Like you either want them or you don't.
	I mean, but isn't this a phenomenon that you can find in like Gen X and Gen Z?
	So I don't know why this is like specifically millennials or why like millennials are having this because they are like the tip in point, I guess.
	Because like the previous generations did not seem to have that issue.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Well, final person here with notes is NYX.
	And there's really only one thing I wanted to touch on, which was are we just going to do a round three?
	Huh?
	Like for your notes?
	Are we just.
	I guess we could touch on it super quick.
	Like I was.
	Take your time.
	It's okay.
	Okay.
	I was just, I think last show I was confused.
	There, like the whole situation with like your, I think your first boyfriend, and there was like confusion as to the sex life was a little funky.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Is there a question you're asking?
	There's nothing else I want to add to it.
	What's that?
	There's nothing else I want to add to it.
	But are you fine talking about it?
	Well, what are you asking?
	Well, okay, you were saying, like, okay, my understanding was, and perhaps you can refresh my memory a little bit, but you were dating a guy as your first boyfriend.
	And you would both, you would have consensual sex, but then also non-consensual sex in a cycle.
	Cycle, sure.
	Well, like, my confusion, I mean, look, I guess my confusion is like if I was dating a girl and she non-consensually had sex with me, like, that's the end of the relationship.
	Like, that would be, whoa, But like, and then my confusion, though, is like one, like, okay, Monday you have consensual sex, Wednesday, non-consensual, Friday, consensual.
	Yeah, that's kind of confusing.
	Like, isn't it?
	Logically, it's possible.
	Like, logically, on Monday, I could have sex with my girlfriend.
	On Tuesday, I don't want to have sex, and she holds me down and has sex with me.
	On Wednesday, I could have like logically, it could be the case, but it seems kind of like, how do you end up in this situation like that?
	I guess.
	Complicated.
	And you can withdraw consent at any time.
	Yeah, I agree.
	And I'm not saying, I'm just saying, like there can be times where you consented and didn't.
	Yeah.
	wait, hold on.
	There can be, when you say there, just to clarify what you just said, there can be times where you consented and there can be times where you didn't consent.
	Yes.
	Or can the same singular time be a time where you both consented and didn't consent?
	No, no, no.
	That's not what I said.
	Okay, sorry.
	That's how I took it, but I misunderstood.
	Yeah, sure, of course.
	But it's like, were you verbally saying no, or like what was happening?
	I already talked about this last time.
	I don't have anything else to add.
	You didn't provide any new notes.
	No.
	I think it's fair to revisit it just because I and I'm choosing to opt out.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Well, okay.
	Because somebody sent me, like, said you, you said on the previous show, you never verbalized saying no.
	You just disassociated.
	Like, so you froze up, I guess.
	I said that.
	Okay.
	I told you I have nothing else to add.
	Why did you want to come back on the show then?
	What else is there to talk about?
	I said a couple things here.
	All right.
	Okay.
	I did my big one.
	It's okay, guys.
	You did your big one.
	All right.
	She doesn't want to talk about the hating white people thing.
	She doesn't want to talk about this thing.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Guys, we're going to wrap the show.
	$69 TTS.
	Any final thoughts from any panelists before we wrap the show?
	Our final segment.
	Who's down to take their makeup off?
	How did I do this before?
	Yeah, you got to do it again.
	You'll do it.
	It's the final thing, and then we wrap the show.
	You down to take the makeup off?
	Well, are you guys even wearing your makeup?
	I'm wearing makeup off.
	Will you take makeup off?
	I don't have foundation.
	Just I. Warren, will you take makeup off?
	Who?
	Okay, who will take makeup off?
	I've done it before.
	Be a good sport.
	Do it again.
	Be a good sport.
	Do it again.
	Brian.
	Will you take your makeup off?
	Not after you guys ask me to do all this work.
	I haven't got much.
	You guys asked me to put on.
	It turned off.
	I mean, that means that.
	Yeah, but you're going to take it off eventually.
	Will you take your makeup off?
	I don't have anywhere to put my lashes.
	I'm not doing that.
	Keep your lashes on.
	How about that?
	No.
	Camilla.
	Kamiya Maya.
	If she's alive.
	Kamiya Maya.
	Okay, you'll do it.
	You'll do it.
	You're just wearing some eye stuff, though.
	It looks like.
	Camilla, will you take your makeup off?
	Careful on the on the bottom.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Good sports here.
	All right.
	You want to see some magic, though?
	Do we end it with some magic?
	Some people say yes.
	Nick, is there anything we're forgetting about?
	No, we're good.
	Sure.
	Sure, sure, sure.
	Just his Instagram, I guess.
	Just his Instagram.
	All right, guys, I'm setting up my friend Asmund Gold, trying to get him set up.
	He's a really great guy.
	He's a successful streamer.
	His real name, Zach.
	His streaming name is Asmund Gold.
	I'm trying to get him set up with a girl, trying to get him a date.
	I'm going to show you his Instagram.
	And just really quick, you can just give a yes or no answer.
	I'm not going to answer this.
	Oh, man.
	You got solipsism too, man.
	Everything's about.
	No, well, not that.
	Just like, I don't want to, like, if I don't like the person and I said no, that's.
	He doesn't care.
	He's not going to see it.
	And if and if I like the person and said yes, and then he said not to me.
	Just let me look.
	Okay.
	I'm trying to move it forward.
	We're so close.
	We're ready.
	No, it's okay.
	Take your time.
	We've only been here eight hours.
	It's okay.
	We're right at the finish line here.
	So, Nick, do you have the Instagram?
	All right.
	So he has an axe, so he'll protect you.
	Scroll up.
	He plays.
	Do you say Warcraft?
	World of Warcraft.
	He plays.
	Scroll up.
	Scroll up.
	So he's a popular Twitch streamer, very successful.
	Why?
	He's wearing a wig.
	No, no, that's his real hair.
	Into the Mike, into the mic.
	So that's Zach.
	No, you can scroll up.
	It's fine.
	So he's a streamer, $130k.
	Well, on Instagram, but he's big.
	He's like one of the top streamers on Twitch.
	He gets 40,000 concurrent.
	super rich successful.
	Um, would you, can I, I mean, we've got some single ladies here, so can I set you up on a date with Zach?
	Yeah, maybe, because I've dated like nerdy guys before.
	Nerdy guys?
	Okay.
	So that's a yes?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay, would you be down if he flew you out and paid for your babysitter?
	Babysitter's still.
	He lives in Austin, so maybe you just go for like 24 hours just for the date.
	Texas?
	Yeah, Austin, Texas.
	Yeah, so he's in Texas.
	If he flies you out and he pays for the sitter, will you go on a date with him?
	Yeah, okay.
	If you were single, though, would you?
	I'm not single.
	Does he play DD?
	Do you play DD?
	Like your guys' vibe?
	That's cool.
	I fuck with it.
	I'm just curious.
	No, what about you?
	Would you date him?
	You get to peg him, though, because you like to dominate.
	I never said I peg.
	I mean, I would.
	You would?
	I never said that.
	What if he was submissive?
	Like, because you're dominant, right?
	Would you date him?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	Would you date him?
	No.
	Okay.
	Would you date him?
	He already knows who I am, and I don't think he likes me.
	Oh, I did.
	I think he actually saw he reacted to your question.
	Really?
	But would you date him?
	Yes.
	Yo, wait, Zach.
	This is the trans girl.
	I don't think, I think it's.
	I think it's Rage Bait.
	I think she's not trans.
	She showed me her vagina.
	I think you want to ask him to check for you.
	That's exactly what I want.
	So, Zach, I got her here in the flesh.
	Actually, that's why we brought you on to see if you would date Zach.
	Zach, in the flesh, I got this girl here.
	Zach, will you date her?
	Will you date him?
	Okay.
	All right.
	Tell him you have a cock before the kiss, though, okay?
	Would you date Zach?
	If you're single?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	Well, you're married, so kind of in a bind there.
	I'm still married.
	That's my execute.
	Okay.
	I said I'm not going to answer.
	I said I'm not going to answer.
	But okay, would you.
	Okay, she's not going to answer.
	All right, well, I'm not going to press it.
	I'm not going to press it.
	I wouldn't have it.
	Oh, that was priceless.
	Sorry.
	Any final thoughts from any panelists?
	You want to say anything before we wrap this up?
	Anybody?
	No, no, have fun with this.
	I heard about champagne.
	Nobody did champagne for me.
	No pizza.
	Only for a thousand bucks that the person sends.
	Dang.
	And you guys didn't have the cookies.
	Y'all.
	I will keep them in the studio.
	Maybe I don't know if we should freeze them.
	Can we just freeze them in the bottom?
	I'll put them in the fridge.
	Oh, yeah.
	Will they be good for a week?
	I can give them to the next, some of them to the next people.
	And we can send the girls home with some cookies too for you.
	But like you all had the sugar-free.
	No one touched the sugar.
	I don't know.
	Why would somebody go sugar-free?
	Sugar.
	That's they all had the same thing.
	I'll eat them after.
	All right.
	We got the chat here.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	I would never pay to have any feminist woman flown to me.
	What a waste of money.
	Besides, they're gold diggers.
	Yes.
	True.
	True, I guess.
	Hold on, let's see.
	Just double-checking, making sure everything's all good to go.
	I think...
	Oh!
	Okay.
	Tonight's show is a little.
	This is Lauren's favorite segment.
	I want to end the show with some like fun little, fun little rapid-fire questions just for Lauren.
	It takes like five minutes to get through it.
	Okay.
	Name three countries besides the USA, starting with you.
	Europe, Asia, and Russia.
	Oh, is that country?
	No.
	Oh, continents.
	That was our continent.
	Okay, countries.
	Okay, so Indonesia.
	Yep.
	And then we also France.
	And then also Japan.
	What country is north of the USA?
	Canada.
	What country is south of the USA?
	Mexico.
	You killed it.
	Good job.
	Good job, Lauren.
	What about to the first question?
	Name through countries.
	You can't repeat.
	Okay, Netherlands, China, Russia.
	Name through countries.
	You can't repeat.
	Closer to the mic?
	I wouldn't say that.
	What do you mean?
	Come on.
	I didn't learn that.
	No hands.
	You didn't learn that?
	What do you mean?
	I mean, like, it was kind of skipped for me.
	They learned it the year after I got back here.
	Have you traveled outside the U.S.?
	Well, I grew up in Germany.
	So that's one.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	So, okay.
	Countries next to Germany.
	Okay, so.
	So, name.
	I know Germany, but like we'll give you one.
	Name two other countries.
	Did anybody say Asia?
	Wait.
	Asia?
	Okay, give us a country in Asia.
	Nobody help.
	No helping out.
	A country in Asia.
	Hey, I'll give you a hint.
	No.
	A country in Asia.
	Give us one country in Asia.
	Here, give us one country in Africa.
	Nobody help.
	Nobody help.
	Why you pick Africa?
	Because I'm black?
	Yes.
	No, I'm just trying to help.
	It's okay.
	We've only been here nine hours.
	Give me a second.
	Country.
	Texas?
	Country?
	No.
	Texas is a country?
	That is how you're going to get it.
	Hey, just wait.
	Just wait.
	Did you take Texas?
	When you analyze her, it's going to be a different thing.
	Hey, I feel bad.
	Do you guys, it might take, you know, 20, 30 minutes to get here.
	The show has gone long.
	Can I treat you guys to food?
	Like, I'll get some DoorDash delivered.
	Are you guys?
	You might have to.
	Let's do it.
	Let's do it.
	Let me see what's available, but let's continue on with the picture.
	Damn.
	Yeah, thank you.
	I appreciate it.
	Come on.
	I'm falling for the rage bait right now.
	Korea?
	No, I think two countries.
	Two countries.
	You just said one.
	Korea?
	Yeah, that's the last.
	That's one.
	Which one?
	Which one?
	He's both.
	Do your big one.
	Do your big one.
	Wait, West or.
	What?
	Is there more than one Korean?
	West Korea and West Korea and North Korean.
	Look to God, Atlas.
	South Korea?
	There you go.
	Which one do you have any face?
	East Korea?
	Thank you.
	Oh, no, you got it, right?
	I fell for the real run.
	Wait, wait, I'm sorry.
	I got it.
	One country in Africa.
	Nika, I don't know.
	Why are you asking me that?
	It kind of sticks with them black.
	My country.
	Do you want to know something I know?
	Is that my tribe was one of the first tribes to settle here.
	I don't know much about my African country.
	How about a country in Africa that has Pennsylvania?
	My dad has no contact.
	Oh, well.
	Oh, my God.
	How about a country in Africa that has the name Africa in it?
	Huh?
	Africa.
	Tours.
	Bro, everything is fucking tourists.
	Oh.
	I'm going to tell you the one that I do know.
	I can't remember right now.
	The word you just called me.
	Nigeria.
	Okay, gosh.
	I was thinking you're doing South Africa, by the way.
	Let me get moving.
	Three countries?
	Uzbekistan?
	Cambodia and Thailand.
	What about you?
	Thailand.
	He said, don't repeat.
	Yeah, you can't.
	Oh, she already said that.
	Pangea.
	Transylvania.
	Oh, my God.
	This girl's a troll.
	And she's.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	Some of these trans girls, fake trans girls, will put like a thing down there to make it seem like that.
	Packers.
	Is that what it's called?
	Packers?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Come on.
	Come on.
	For real.
	America.
	I'm trying to end this.
	I'm trying to get this.
	Third one, third one.
	Come on.
	United States of America.
	He said nothing.
	Besides the USA.
	Panama.
	Okay, yes, South America.
	Keep going.
	Or is that Central America?
	You want me to list South America?
	Yeah, South America.
	Brazil.
	One more.
	One more.
	Argentina.
	Go ahead, quick.
	Italy, Turkey, and Switzerland.
	Thank you.
	Singapore.
	Oh, she said Italy.
	Oof.
	Jesus.
	All right.
	Sorry.
	Singapore, Vietnam, and you said Brazil already.
	That was already in my head.
	Let me think of another one.
	The only thing open is Denny's.
	Think of an angel.
	And actually, there's Taco Bell.
	Singapore.
	I said Singapore.
	Dang, my brain is starting to fog up a little bit.
	Hold on.
	I know.
	I feel like I'm on drugs.
	Like, oh my God, I'm three.
	You know, I'm not sure.
	Do I just make this like super easy?
	And you said African country?
	Yeah.
	Burrito Supreme, please.
	And potato talk.
	I think I just got to get everybody to make a symbol.
	Crunch wrap supreme.
	Is everybody just calling Crunchwrap Supreme?
	Just so it's simple.
	I don't eat Taco Bell.
	Can I politely request for a Baja Blast?
	And a potato taco?
	I feel like this is too complicated.
	I think it's too complicated.
	Okay, here, let's blast through this then.
	Okay, countries, countries, countries.
	It's just been, my head is just not right.
	Miriam, Miriam, go ahead.
	I would go with Saudi Arabia, Qatar, Ira.
	Can I say Saudi Arabia or do I want to pick up?
	Lauren, we need you.
	Okay.
	Lauren.
	I can say Pakistan.
	Wait, who said Pakistan?
	No one.
	I said Uzbekistan.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Pakistan, Singapore.
	Starting with Lauren, starting with our good friend Lauren.
	How many continents are there?
	Oh, I think there's like eight.
	Isabella, how many continents are there?
	Okay.
	Quick, guys.
	Quick, quick, quick.
	Five.
	Five continents?
	Seven.
	Okay.
	Name one continent.
	Antarctica.
	You can't repeat.
	Asia.
	Korea.
	No.
	You got to be.
	You got to be famous.
	Continent.
	Earlier, you mentioned continent, though.
	Hold on.
	Shh.
	Shh.
	Be a good, submissive Saudi Arabian.
	If I find a continent.
	I'm going to get the Burka.
	No.
	No.
	I'm going to get the China.
	No, no.
	Continent.
	Get the rocks.
	Abdul.
	Yeah.
	Get the rock.
	Get the rock.
	Where are you originally from?
	Germany?
	Here?
	San Diego?
	What?
	Okay, all right.
	Name a continent.
	Europe.
	Continent.
	North America.
	Australia.
	Wait, how many was that already?
	We have five so far.
	Oh, yeah.
	Five?
	So there's.
	North America.
	Already said.
	You already said?
	We said Antarctica.
	I forgot the ones that people are saying.
	You said Antarctica, Asia, Europe, Europe, North America.
	Australia.
	Africa.
	South America.
	Beautiful.
	Okay, what two countries, don't help her.
	What two countries border the USA?
	Border Mexico?
	And so is Mexico's where?
	Down south?
	Yeah, next to the south.
	Okay, and then what's the other bordering country?
	Oh, which above.
	What's above America?
	She said it earlier.
	No, hey, shh, don't help.
	Don't help.
	Yes, Germany.
	You think there's no way.
	There's no way.
	I'm getting high.
	Oh my god.
	Germany is above.
	And you lived in Germany.
	She drove from Germany to here.
	She drove from.
	I like that.
	That's good.
	Okay.
	How many these some of these are super easy.
	How many states in the USA?
	Actually, I'm just, I just got laser.
	Until she gets it right.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Good, good.
	I like that.
	How many states in the USA?
	I want to say 50.
	Yes, good job.
	Yeah, see if we got it.
	We got to give her something.
	Positive reinforcements.
	What is the capital of the USA?
	No.
	Slovenia?
	Were you about to say Slovenia?
	No, I thought it was like Florida.
	Oh, Florida.
	But I think I was about to say the capital of Florida.
	Yeah.
	Where does the president say?
	Washington, D.C.
	Okay, I helped you out a little bit.
	How many stars are on the U.S. flag?
	Isn't there 50?
	What is 34 plus 66?
	I don't know.
	34 plus 66?
	That's 100, isn't it?
	Oh, sorry.
	Bro, let's freeze.
	Sorry, sorry, sorry.
	What the frick?
	Okay, what century are we in, starting with you?
	Lauren?
	The 21st?
	20th century.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	What century?
	Kamea?
	Kamea Mea?
	21st.
	Okay.
	How many in one dozen?
	12.
	Okay, well, I. 12 except for the because I guess.
	Who did the U.S. gain its independence from?
	Britain.
	I'll kind of like jump around on who I pick.
	Who was the first president of the USA?
	Kamiya.
	Kamehameha.
	Wait.
	Kamehameha, can you scoot into the table a little bit?
	Maybe pull the screen.
	Abraham Lincoln.
	Abra.
	Wait, George Washington.
	Yeah, sorry.
	Thank you.
	Okay, what country for you, what country is the Great Wall of China in?
	China?
	Hey, CNN!
	Hey, don't sleep on my girl over here.
	Don't sleep on it.
	That's your Caucasian.
	That's my Caucasian over here.
	All right, now say it back.
	You're my Caucasian?
	No, the other thing.
	The other word.
	The one you said earlier.
	Why you want me to say it?
	Why do you want to say it?
	Okay, whatever.
	How many inches in a feet?
	Foot, feet, foot.
	12.
	How many seasons are there?
	Four.
	How many days in a year?
	365.
	Except for how many letters in the alphabet?
	I'm stumped.
	I'm not going to lie.
	How many letters in the alphabet?
	Wait, 50?
	Is it in the 50s?
	In the 50s.
	Do you want to narrow it down?
	How many number letters are?
	5, 56.
	20?
	26?
	Letters.
	How many numbers?
	Wait, infinite.
	Wait, how many letters in a number?
	Oh, boy.
	Okay.
	How many days for you?
	204.
	I'll talk about the alphabet.
	Deadly P. Deadly P. How many, how many, oh my, how many days of the week end with the letter Y?
	All days?
	All days?
	Yeah, good job.
	Good job.
	That one's kind of a trick one.
	What's a shape with four sides called for Kamehameha?
	Square.
	Yes, good job.
	All right.
	And the rectangle.
	How long does each president serve their term?
	Four years.
	Okay.
	What language do the people in Idaho speak?
	That's for you.
	For you.
	Idaho.
	Idaho.
	What language do they speak?
	English?
	Good job.
	Nice.
	Okay.
	All right.
	These are just some fun questions at the end here.
	What ocean is California next to?
	Like that thing that's like five miles away.
	Not even like what ocean?
	Yeah, what ocean?
	Atlantic.
	Do you know what time we use?
	Do you know what time we use for California Pacific?
	Good job.
	You killed it.
	Hell yeah.
	I'm not even trying.
	What is half of one million?
	Half of 500,000?
	Yes, okay.
	How many years in a decade?
	How many years in a decade?
	10.
	Okay, how many are in a century?
	100?
	Yes.
	If a dozen eggs costs $3, how much is each egg?
	Wait.
	I don't know.
	I'm not good with math.
	Just math it.
	Math it out.
	If a dozen eggs, each egg costs $3?
	Yeah, so you have a dozen eggs.
	No, no, no.
	So a dozen eggs total costs $3.
	How much is one egg or each egg?
	25 cents.
	Yes.
	You killed it, Lauren.
	Good job.
	What is the closest star to Earth?
	Sun.
	That's her.
	I had to ask you that.
	Let's see.
	Do you know?
	This is Lauren's favorite.
	Do you know what year the War of 1812 started?
	1812?
	Nice, Kamehameha.
	You killed it.
	Okay.
	What country is the Panama Canal in?
	What is a Panama Canal?
	Oh.
	It's a canal.
	What country is it in?
	It's in a country.
	Yeah.
	Is it in Germany?
	Is it in Korea?
	In South America?
	Why do you always go to Korea?
	I don't know.
	It's in South America.
	It's in South America.
	Hey, I got it eventually.
	But what country?
	Oh, shit.
	It's not a country name.
	Panama Canal.
	Hey, don't help.
	Don't help.
	There's no way.
	Come on.
	You're fucking with us.
	You got to be fucking with them.
	You're messing with us, right?
	Okay, what country is the Panama Canal in?
	Kamehameha, what do you think?
	Urawai.
	I was getting no Panama.
	Okay.
	Ooh, okay.
	Here's a fun one.
	Where?
	I'm sorry.
	I just got to pick you on you.
	Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
	In Pearl Harbor?
	Actually, yes.
	I mean, why would you call it Pearl Harbor attack if it's not that?
	Yes, it's the name.
	It's a Panama Canal thing, game.
	Hawaii would have also been acceptable, but yes, Pearl Harbor, that is actually yet.
	To Kamehameha, what country did the Vietnam War happen in?
	Vietnam.
	Yes.
	To NYX, how much is a quarter of an hour?
	Quarter.
	Fuck.
	15 minutes.
	Okay.
	To Isabella, what is 100 minus 34?
	100 minus 34 is 66.
	Yes.
	To Lauren, what is 3 times 3 plus 1?
	3 times 3 is 9.
	Sorry, she was doing the 6.
	Yeah.
	Wrong emote.
	Yeah, I'm sorry.
	Yeah, wrong emote.
	3 times 3 plus 1.
	Did you see it red?
	Oh, she said something.
	Sorry, I didn't.
	I wasn't even.
	Yeah, okay.
	We're waiting on you.
	For you, what is 3 times 3 times 3?
	27.
	Yep.
	If yes is spelled Y E S, what does E Y E S spell?
	Said E Y E S. E-Y-E-S.
	If yes is spelled Y-E-S, what does E-Y-E-S spell?
	I can't do your big one.
	E-Y-E-S-E-S?
	I can't.
	Where did you get X from?
	Hey, Isabella.
	Oh, there is no.
	You didn't say S?
	No, no.
	It's just this.
	Brian, give me Taco Bell.
	Hold on.
	E-Y-E-S.
	Honestly, I feel like I gotta back up.
	Oh, I am.
	You probably said Need Jagging us out.
	Oh, please.
	Can I have a burrito?
	Get something.
	Oh, my God.
	Are you sure I only take a look?
	We appreciate it.
	Does everybody just want to give everybody a burrito?
	Yes.
	A burrito.
	Are you fine with a burrito?
	Wait, no beans.
	Just slide us at 10.
	I don't want to have any allergy issues.
	We all get a Baja Blast while we go.
	Yeah, get water.
	I can't drink Mountain Dew.
	Sorry, as long as it's a bad thing.
	Okay, who wants Taco Bell?
	I'm fine with Taco Bell.
	What options do we have?
	I'm in a bind here because some women don't want that's the yeah.
	What other options do we have?
	Nothing.
	Nothing.
	Nothing's going to be.
	There's McDonald's.
	I mean, it's almost two.
	Okay, no.
	No food for you?
	No, I'll talk about it.
	I'll talk about it.
	Yeah, just do like maybe like half roots, half tacos, or something.
	Yeah.
	Beefy five-layer burrito or whatever?
	Because I can have top bean and cheese.
	Hold on, let me see what there is.
	I will have an allergic burrito.
	I got to feed these girls.
	It was a long show, so I feel like I got a few.
	You're not yourself.
	Let me tell you something.
	Yes.
	The food?
	Yeah.
	Well, you just give me that or whatever.
	I'm glad.
	I got it.
	I'll do it quick.
	I'll do it quick.
	I'm glad you're here.
	Where the fuck are the burritos?
	Sorry, guys.
	I'm just.
	Here, what was the.
	Oh, what does what?
	Here, while I'm doing this, answer the question.
	E-Y-E-S.
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
	For you?
	Maybe 10.
	Yes.
	How many world wars were there for you?
	Two?
	I mean, two.
	Is that a question?
	I'm talking to them.
	Okay, burritos.
	Sorry, we've got.
	Excuse me.
	Oh.
	Hiccup.
	Okay, burritos.
	Grilled cheese.
	Grilled cheese burrito, bean burrito, burrito supreme.
	Burrow supreme, please.
	Okay, I'm going to just do a bunch of burrito supremes.
	Wait, what's in the burrito?
	What's in it?
	They're good.
	They're good.
	No beans?
	Yeah, it does have beans.
	I'm allergic, so can we get like her one taco?
	A taco.
	This is too complicated.
	Why don't we just hear?
	You know what?
	Fuck it.
	Hey!
	There's cookies back there.
	There's fucking cookies.
	We're going to blast through this.
	Do the whole thing the same thing except for her because she has like she's emotional.
	Can you just slide us a 10?
	Should I just order the food?
	Yes, please.
	Can you get Bella and I a Baja Blast for these?
	We'll split it.
	We really appreciate you, Brian.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Yeah, yeah, I'm doing it.
	Wait, can you guys talk, though?
	Yeah, here we can talk.
	Oh, yeah.
	You want me to talk about it?
	Okay, okay.
	What do you want to talk about?
	No, no, no.
	You guys talk about it.
	But we want to talk about it.
	I got y'all.
	Yeah, please.
	Burrito.
	Yes.
	Or, okay, it is going to take like, it'll probably take 30 minutes to get here.
	I'll do it the fast shipping or whatever.
	Okay, we'll walk in.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Do you want food?
	Yes.
	Want food.
	Food.
	But no beans.
	Food.
	Food.
	No, you'll just take off.
	Okay.
	Food?
	Food.
	Food.
	Okay, so one, two, yes.
	It can't count, it's five.
	Okay.
	And deal with the bread.
	Yeah, I know.
	I should end up blasting.
	Nick, do you want a burrito?
	No, I'm getting it.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay, yeah, go ahead.
	So, since we supposed to, like, you know, occupy ourselves, you know, I got a real quick question for y'all.
	You know, I'm a singer and all.
	I could sing for y'all right now.
	Yeah, let's do it.
	Shopping doubted.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	I've been counting out.
	I'm gonna know These are my deepest secrets Thought I'd take them to the grave But I gotta be real right now.
	Trust me, I mean what I say.
	Trust me, I mean what I say when I say you don't notice me most days.
	No, you don't see that dynamic done change, but you don't know what to say.
	I'm shamed because you really was my fave.
	Now I gotta push you away, making me feel this way.
	That shit for real, not okay.
	Woo!
	Plug the socials, plug the socials.
	Oh, yeah.
	Deadly P, deadly underscore, P underscore dangerous.
	I know that's right.
	Don't you ever quit singing for anybody?
	Oh my God.
	Not even for $10 billion.
	And that even for $10 million.
	And that's beautiful.
	All right.
	So magic?
	Magic, yes?
	Yeah.
	You want cards, coins.
	I don't want to see them cards again.
	Yeah, can you get me all frustrated?
	Can you explain the trick?
	Like, is that okay?
	Done.
	Ordered.
	Okay, back to this.
	Back to this.
	No, sorry.
	No magic.
	Fuck magic.
	Don't love you.
	What the fuck?
	Okay.
	How many world wars were there?
	Or did I already ask that?
	Okay, what decade was World War I?
	Decade.
	Decade.
	So like 1830s, 1870s, that's a decade.
	I don't know.
	Guess.
	Just take a guess.
	Yeah, I would say like in the 1800s.
	In the 1800s?
	Okay, Isabella, what do you think?
	What decade?
	19.
	19, what?
	19?
	No, not century decade.
	Oh, fuck.
	19.
	I don't know.
	60?
	1960?
	Okay.
	1930.
	For World War I?
	Yes.
	What decade was World War I?
	18.
	1830s.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What decade was World War I?
	Wasn't it 1920s, Great Depression?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	1910s.
	It was 1920s.
	Good job, bro.
	1914 to 19s.
	1910s.
	18.
	What was the primary decade of World War II?
	I don't know.
	Wild guess.
	Wild guess.
	Yeah.
	19.
	There's no wrong answers.
	40.
	There is.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, there is.
	1940, okay, Isabella?
	1960.
	1960?
	1970?
	70, okay.
	1970s.
	1960s, I think.
	1960s, World War II.
	Okay.
	1940s.
	1940s?
	That was 1940s, yeah.
	The primary one you said, 1930s?
	Because it's 1939 to 1945.
	So it's going to be 1930s to 1940s?
	Yeah.
	Well, the primary decade would be the 1940s, but yes, it started.
	No, I see.
	I say primary decade because it started in 1939, but most of it was in the 1940s.
	Can you name three Kardashians?
	Yes, like Chloe, Kim, and Courtney.
	Okay.
	Can you name three K-pop stars?
	Yes.
	Lisa, Rosa.
	Rosa, Rosa, Rosa.
	Rose.
	Rose.
	Yes.
	Rose.
	Mexican pop star, but okay.
	Rose?
	No, Rosa.
	She's a Mexican pop star.
	No, I just said her name wrong.
	Okay.
	Continue.
	Oh, okay.
	Was it John Cook?
	John Cook.
	John Cook, yes, yes.
	I'm exposing myself.
	My bad.
	Stop snoping.
	What is this girl doing?
	Okay, sit down and pull your skirt down, lady.
	Huh?
	No, what are you doing, ladies?
	No, you can't do that.
	Here, sit normally.
	Sit normally.
	Scoot in.
	Oh, my.
	Scoot.
	What the fuck?
	Here, scoot in.
	Scoot your fucking skirt down.
	That shit is riding up way too much.
	Scoot.
	Oh, my God.
	You like that, don't you?
	No, I don't.
	Here, let me let Pacy George.
	We have a few more questions.
	Sorry for the delay, Pasty.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	A lot of the female panelists, except Chair 7 and maybe Chair 8, on this episode do not have any practical skills, values, and morals, which makes them unqualified for being marriage material.
	You know us very well.
	Can I?
	What skills are you talking about?
	Because I'm studying to be in business.
	Like, what do you mean?
	Just because I prefer not to do job like that.
	Pasty George started becoming $70.
	Never pay to have any feminist woman flown to me.
	What a waste of money.
	He gets can I start at something?
	Oh my god, no, you can't.
	Okay.
	What percentage of men do you think are over six feet?
	These are gonna be more dating related.
	I only think like 15% of men.
	Okay.
	I have no clue.
	Guess.
	Well, I'll guess.
	No clue.
	A low percent.
	Guess, guess, guess.
	Fuck, I don't know.
	Quick.
	Six.
	Food.
	Okay.
	Okay, sorry.
	Food?
	Yeah, six, six percent.
	I feel like it's five percent.
	Okay.
	Fuck.
	Six, seven, six, seven percent.
	I'm sorry, I'm brain rotted.
	Yeah, she's all dind and done.
	Come in, man.
	She did her big one.
	I think she's losing it.
	I think we're gonna have to check her into this insane.
	Oh my god, what the stutter here?
	You know.
	Insane asylum.
	What percentage of men are over six feet?
	I'd say like 10%.
	What was that her answer?
	Probably one or less.
	Oh, well, I don't know the percentage, but given that a lot of people, do you have to know how to do that?
	I'll go with 15% with that explanation.
	In the U.S. Constitution, there was a preamble.
	Like the shit before the Constitution or whatever the fuck.
	Every answer is like, well, let me just waste 15 seconds just saying some irrelevant shit.
	God damn it.
	It's about 15%.
	Oh, it's at 15%.
	Holy shit, I'm right here, lady.
	Don't fucking scream.
	God damn.
	Holy fuck, I'm dying over here.
	What percent of men make at least $1 million a year?
	A little closer to the.
	I would say like 8%.
	Okay, 8%.
	Wait, what is 1%?
	Bro, shut.
	3%.
	Shut up.
	Maybe Saudi Arabia had it fucking right.
	Goddamn, just let people.
	You'll get your turn.
	I didn't hear that question.
	I was asking about that question.
	I wasn't.
	Bro, listen, you were talking over him.
	Let my homegirl, my Caucasian, talk.
	Wait, sorry, what did you say?
	Oh, like 3%?
	3%.
	What was the question again?
	Percent of millions.
	You're killing me here, guys.
	Come on.
	Help me.
	Let me help you get you out of here.
	We got off track.
	I forgot.
	What percent of men make at least $1 million a year?
	2%?
	2%.
	1%?
	1%.
	You're just fucking grunting.
	We fucking lost her.
	Okay, what about you?
	2%.
	It's better content if you answer, but.
	I would say 5.
	Okay, what about you?
	I would say 1.
	guys it's it's less than one percent uh what percent of millionaires yeah million uh maybe Make a million a year.
	What percent of men have yachts?
	I would say 10 is 1%.
	1%?
	Okay.
	Isabella?
	What percent of men have yachts?
	1%.
	Okay.
	2%.
	Guys, just quick.
	Give me quick, quick, quick, quick.
	2%?
	2%.
	Less than 1%.
	Go, I don't know the question.
	She's not going to go.
	What percent of men have yachts?
	Zero.
	Okay, good answer.
	Less than 1%.
	Yeah, it's less than 1.
	Less than 1%.
	Into the mic, please.
	Pass that on you.
	Do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with?
	Like on your phone, do you have like, okay, what was the answer?
	What do you mean by this?
	That's way less than 1%.
	Way less than 1%.
	I'll know the exact percentage.
	Do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with?
	Like on your phone?
	What do you mean?
	Like on your phone?
	Yeah.
	Like a physical list?
	No, like on your phone.
	I don't need to because I'm so pure and tight.
	I don't need to.
	I don't know.
	I think it's time to go home, bro.
	It's too late and the hormones are acting up apparently.
	The testosterone is getting weird.
	Testosterone and blockers.
	Okay.
	Nobody has the list.
	Okay.
	Does anybody here have a roster?
	Have you ever had a roster?
	No.
	Never had a roster.
	Oh, like people on?
	Like dating multiple people at the same time.
	Okay.
	Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Hey, no judgment.
	I've done it.
	I've done it.
	Same day, 24 hours, same day you met them.
	Really?
	Yeah, it pisses me off if you ask me.
	Wait, you finished the message.
	Wait, you finished the sentence.
	Really?
	Yes.
	No, no, you finished the sentence.
	Really?
	No, nigga.
	No, really?
	No, you.
	Okay, what?
	I'm not finished.
	I don't get it.
	Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
	No.
	Okay.
	Anyone here ever had a actually really quick.
	How quick was it?
	How quick was what?
	Like, for example, like you, you met somebody.
	I've talked to them.
	And then it was like five hours later.
	No, I mean, talk to them.
	I would talk to them for like weeks.
	It's never completely random.
	We had a girl on the show last week, and again, no judgment, but she was like, okay, I met him on Tinder.
	I went to his house.
	And then pretty much 30 minutes after walking through his door, we were having sex, you know?
	Yeah, yeah.
	It was like, but it's usually like I talked to them first, like it was like a talking.
	A couple hours.
	Okay.
	Maybe.
	Quickest.
	Quickest.
	Quickest time you hook from meet to hookup.
	I don't remember, but it was a couple dates.
	Okay, a couple dates.
	How would argue with my husband?
	It was like after date number two.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Quickest hookup?
	A couple weeks.
	A couple weeks?
	Kamehameha?
	Let's see like a month.
	Okay.
	Did you answer this?
	Okay.
	Gate number two.
	By the way, I got your burrito without beans.
	Okay, have you, oh, anyone ever had a threesome?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Yes.
	More than the threesome?
	More than a threesome?
	Yeah, like a four-some.
	Oh, no, just a threesome.
	Have you had more than one?
	No.
	Okay.
	Threesome?
	Threesome?
	Foursome?
	More than a foursome?
	Orgy?
	Threesome?
	No, no.
	Threesome?
	Okay.
	I've never had a threesome.
	I don't believe you.
	Why?
	I only like to disappoint one woman at a time.
	Oh, totally.
	Are you setting low standards for yourself?
	How about a man and a woman?
	I'm a one-girl kind of guy.
	You know what I mean?
	You said disappoint, though.
	I know, it's a joke.
	Has anyone here had a ho phase?
	Define ho phase.
	Sleeping with multiple people in relatively rapid.
	Explore and finding myself.
	A ho phase.
	A ho phase.
	Kamehameha over there, she had a ho phase in fucking Oahu.
	Shit.
	She was known on Waikiki.
	She was the Waikiki.
	I was literally like six.
	Okay, well, I didn't remember what time you moved from Hawaii.
	Okay.
	You went back there to visit a week ago or some shit.
	Okay.
	Has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
	No.
	Kamehameha?
	Your silence is telling.
	Okay.
	Are men the problem?
	No, I think it's both.
	Both a problem?
	Filipina?
	Nick's?
	Are men the problem?
	Nick's, what the fuck?
	Hey, say that shit with your chest.
	Say it with your chest.
	I know how you really feel.
	After the podcast, she's going to be fucking dropping bombs.
	Man, fuck men.
	Fuck these hoes.
	Everybody fuck these hoes.
	There you go.
	She's going to be eating that Taco Bell like, yo, fuck you, Ryan.
	Thanks for the burrito.
	But fuck you.
	Fucking copy.
	I would sense the problem.
	Yo, that's.
	Hey, come on.
	You said women.
	I know.
	I know you'd like to get freaky when you're getting down with a guy.
	You'd like to degrade guys in the bedroom, but like, you know, you got to keep that private, okay?
	Keep it to yourself, okay?
	I'm not trying to kink shame you.
	If you're into that, maybe just a little bit.
	Okay.
	Do men suck?
	No.
	Nobody?
	Okay.
	Come on.
	Do men suck?
	Come on.
	Hey, what did I suff?
	Do they, what do they did?
	What do they suck?
	This girl's getting a lot excited here.
	Hey, 10 years of celibacy.
	That'll do that to a woman.
	Men suck.
	Men suck, but so do women.
	Cobwebs up there.
	She's tired.
	I think women suck.
	Men suck, but so do women.
	If I would, if I'm being completely honest, women almost suck more than men.
	Wow.
	Evil.
	Evil less than a men.
	And I think women.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	It'd be on a whole nother level.
	It'd be on a whole nother level.
	You're bite, right?
	Yeah.
	Well, pansexual.
	Question: What with the women?
	Do you have a different like do women do you go 50-50 with women?
	Yeah, that's you.
	That's a car.
	I feel like that's a conversation for another day.
	But yeah, like.
	Yeah, yeah.
	We don't need to get too detailed.
	But yeah, I mean, it just, like I said, I feel like every relationship depends.
	It depends on like what they need more in that moment in time.
	Do they need to cover the babysitter?
	I kind of feel like.
	My ex did cover the babysitter when we went out, but I also like bought her dinner and bought her flowers and things like that.
	So you know what I mean?
	Like when I'm in a relationship with someone, well, we weren't like, well, whatever, we were hooking up, but I do like also take care of my partner.
	Just like on the DL.
	Uh-huh.
	Like you live, you live, where would you live again?
	You just moved to LA, right?
	No, I've been on and off living in LA, but I was in Austin for three years.
	Question: Were you just like just between us?
	Like, were you just like running through Houston?
	You said Austin?
	Austin.
	Were you just like running through these Austin hood rats?
	No.
	I think Austin are so gentlemen.
	Oh, not the gentleman.
	I've only had one.
	Because I feel like you got a game for chicks.
	Like, you could run through some chicks, you know?
	Like, you have a roster of girls just running through these hood rats.
	Yeah, I mean, I feel like girls are going to be a little bit more.
	Yeah, maybe we will go mash you.
	What?
	Sorry.
	Okay.
	Are men trash?
	Hey, answer the question.
	I just got you a fucking.
	Do you know how much I spent on that burrito?
	Fuck.
	How many hours of work?
	I'm so sorry.
	Do I have to do his laundry now, guys?
	Actually, I do need.
	Do you want to?
	No. Okay.
	Um.
	But you want to hit a bow really quick?
	Just.
	Here.
	Okay.
	How about this?
	Instead?
	I'm scared.
	Okay.
	If you refuse to answer a question, you have to wear the put that on.
	Okay.
	And then, can I have you spin the helicopter on top?
	Okay.
	If you skip a question, you get a punishment.
	Okay.
	Whose head has been in that?
	Yeah, that's what I'm wondering.
	Hell ice.
	Candace Owens actually wore that.
	Did it smell?
	Yes, I remember that.
	Hey, okay.
	If you could, I think this is the last question.
	Oh, my goodness.
	If you could snap your finger and all men disappeared.
	And to be fair, let's not make you a mass murderer.
	They just get sent to an island and they gotta like kick it there for the rest of their life.
	It's like a tack on time or something.
	They're fucking tight.
	They'd be having the time of their lives.
	If women could reproduce without men, would you do it?
	No.
	Would you do it?
	I little woman, so I'm pretty great.
	I don't know.
	Like, we reproducing.
	Hey, y'all come here.
	I'm right here for y'all.
	Like, all women.
	Can anybody tell me what she just said?
	I couldn't.
	I didn't understand the words.
	Some gay shit.
	Some gay shit.
	What I said was gay.
	Exactly.
	It was some gay shit.
	Oh, it was literally gay.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I thought you were being a person.
	No, no.
	She was saying some gay shit.
	That was kind of homophobic.
	What are you saying?
	A little bit.
	I mean, come on.
	That was a little bit.
	I would love to have just women around me.
	That sounds fun.
	And I've always been.
	We can all get together.
	Nick.
	And I've always have your finger.
	Do you do it?
	I live on my lesbian fantasies.
	Absolutely.
	I'm right there with you.
	Kamehameha.
	I can't even reproduce.
	Right.
	Okay.
	Maybe you'll get your cock working one day.
	We'll get it working.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Unfortunately, you can't get a man pregnant.
	Well, but she can get some pregnancy.
	Get him boy pregnant.
	Get this girl some Viagra.
	She'll be pumping out babies any second.
	What about you?
	No.
	No?
	What about you?
	No?
	Okay, I'm pretty sure that's it.
	Any final thoughts from anybody?
	No, you didn't ask me.
	This that you did not.
	You just like you asked him and then you went bye guys.
	Bye.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I gotta do the outro.
	Okay.
	Let me just check.
	Let me just check on the status.
	Yeah, what's the ETA?
	Oh, my God.
	What?
	They're close.
	I hit submit.
	I didn't.
	You rage-made at us.
	He's a liar.
	No, look, look, look.
	I can't.
	I thought it went through.
	It's okay.
	I'm a fucking idiot.
	Slightest of 10, we'll call it even.
	All right, well.
	Do it again, do it again.
	Unfortunately, there's just the food that we have back there.
	Wow.
	I have half a.
	I have half of a like.
	Let's wrap it up.
	See, that's why you're single.
	You'll get us next time, though, right?
	Next time, I'll get you.
	Say swear.
	Say swear.
	Even if you guys come on different episodes, I will hook you up food-wise.
	And I'm going to bring up this clip.
	You can, yo, yeah, I'm a man of my word.
	I will hook.
	If you guys come back, maybe you won't, but if you do come back, I'll give you guys the hookup food wise.
	You'll get a dessert.
	You'll get whatever.
	Okay, okay.
	Nick, are we forgetting anything?
	Are we good?
	We're giving a big shout-out to Twitch.
	Yes, thank you.
	Okay, guys.
	Really quick, if you're watching, wow, we still have 1,200 viewers on Twitch.
	That's dope.
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	Drop us a follow here as we end the stream.
	I hope you guys enjoyed the stream.
	It was a long one, but it was good.
	I thought it was pretty fun.
	So thank you guys.
	I want to say, hold on.
	GG to the panel.
	Last call, guys.
	Hit the like button, please, on your way out.
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	I read them.
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	You know, say something nice about the girls and or me or Nick, you know.
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	Thank you for tuning in tonight.
	You guys could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
	I appreciate that.
	Thank you to you guys.
	It was a fun panel.
	You guys were fun.
	You guys were a blast.
	I mean, except for you.
	I've had success from me.
	I can't.
	Kamehameha.
	I'll make it up to you.
	I'm down there.
	Come down there, Florida.
	Getting him excited.
	So, okay.
	But thank you to everyone who's super chats, donates, and supports the show.
	We will be live again Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific.
	Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM out whatever on Instagram.
	If you can make it to Santa Barbara, thank you guys for watching.
	Thank you.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you to everybody.
	Pacey George, it's always good to see you.
	Pacey George might end up becoming the new owner of the show.
	I don't know if you're even watching, but yo.
	Thank you guys.
	Thank you guys.
	You guys were dope.
	I know there were disagreements, but it was a fun night.
	We had some fun, fun convo.
	So you guys are dope.
	And I will honor the food offer.
	So if you guys come back, I'll make sure the food's proper.
	So 07's in the chat.
	If you guys want to just wave goodbye to the audience, 07's in the chat.

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