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| Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. | |
| I'm your host, Brian Atlas. | |
| Before we get into a few quick announcements, I'm going to have the guests introduce themselves. | |
| So go ahead. | |
| Hi, my name is Amelia. | |
| I'm from Los Angeles. | |
| I'm 21. | |
| I'm a caretaker and a phlebotomist. | |
| All right. | |
| Caretaker, phlebotomist. | |
| And you also are a techno. | |
| What is in your thing? | |
| How do you describe yourself? | |
| It's just like an aesthetic. | |
| Like I like the cyber aesthetic. | |
| I do a lot of raves and festivals, things like that. | |
| Techno-cyber doll, as you call it. | |
| Okay. | |
| So any college? | |
| I did some college. | |
| I did some nursing. | |
| I didn't complete it because I decided to go to trade instead, which was phlebotomy. | |
| I might return to nursing school in January or continue with medical assistant. | |
| I'm not quite sure yet. | |
| And you're from LA? | |
| I'm German, but I live in LA, yes. | |
| But were you born in Germany? | |
| No, my family was, though. | |
| And my dad moved here when he was a baby. | |
| Because I detect a bit of an accent, although I can't quite place it. | |
| Do you speak German? | |
| Bissian. | |
| Was German your first language? | |
| Yes. | |
| No, it was at the same time. | |
| I went to German school when I was a child. | |
| My family spoke German to me, but what's not practiced is lost, as most things go. | |
| Oh, you went to a German school here in the United States? | |
| Yes. | |
| I see. | |
| Okay. | |
| So German was your first language? | |
| It was a sequel to English when I was growing up. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, you used both. | |
| Yes. | |
| And then do you speak any other languages? | |
| A little bit of Spanish. | |
| A little bit of Spanish. | |
| Okay. | |
| And sorry, you grew up where? | |
| In California? | |
| I grew up in Los Angeles. | |
| Oh, in California. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm Kayleigh J. I'm 28. | |
| I'm a personal assistant and massage therapist. | |
| And I live in LA. | |
| I grew up in southern Oregon, though. | |
| All right. | |
| Any college education? | |
| No, no. | |
| I make music. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you make music? | |
| Yeah. | |
| You sing, you rap. | |
| I write and sing. | |
| Write and sing. | |
| Okay. | |
| I have some songs that I maybe rap a little bit on, but it's more of like a hip-hop RB flow. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| All right. | |
| And what about you? | |
| Hi, my name's Lynn. | |
| I'm 30 years old. | |
| I'm from the San Francisco Bay Area, but I've been living in LA for the past two to three months. | |
| I'm a business owner. | |
| I own the Hourglass, where I sell voice trainers and post-surgical fajas. | |
| And as far as education, I have a degree in sociology. | |
| From what university? | |
| Sacramento State. | |
| Sacramento State. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's, you have a bachelor's degree in sociology, you said. | |
| Yes. | |
| And you're 30 now. | |
| When did you graduate? | |
| Four years ago. | |
| Four years ago. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so it was four years ago. | |
| Can you tell us maybe, I mean, you do have your degree in it. | |
| Have you been using your degree at all for what you do currently as your profession? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Do you feel like it was a waste of time? | |
| I wouldn't say a waste of time because, you know, it gives you the basis for understanding society and having people skills. | |
| However, I don't use it. | |
| Can you tell us, seeing as it was your major, I assume there must be something still there. | |
| Can you tell us maybe the three biggest takeaways from having studied and majored in and gotten a degree in sociology? | |
| I couldn't. | |
| It was just four years ago. | |
| That's true, but I don't use it. | |
| How about, okay, maybe three is a big ask. | |
| How about one? | |
| Biggest takeaway? | |
| The biggest takeaway is that everyone's influenced by something. | |
| You think your opinion or your thoughts are original. | |
| However, it's all based on how you grew up and your environment. | |
| But aren't there technical terms in sociology? | |
| Nature versus nurture. | |
| Well, I'm a city college dropout, and I think I heard about nature versus nurture in elementary school. | |
| Right. | |
| Can you is there like something you could point to that perhaps the common person might not know from your education in sociology? | |
| No. | |
| Nothing. | |
| Nothing. | |
| And question for you. | |
| Did you, Sacramento State, that's a public school. | |
| And you're from California? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And did you like, do you have student loans? | |
| No. | |
| Did you get a scholarship or how does it work? | |
| No, I paid for it. | |
| You paid for it. | |
| How much was the total tuition? | |
| I think probably like $15,000. | |
| $15,000. | |
| It wasn't much. | |
| And then, I mean, of course, taxpayers subsidize some of that. | |
| You know, I kind of wonder if we should do away with some of these soft sciences. | |
| I don't know if, does sociology contribute anything to, I guess, question for you. | |
| Does sociology actually contribute anything to society? | |
| It can if you plan on being a social worker or something of that nature. | |
| However. | |
| Do you need to take sociology to be a social worker? | |
| Isn't that its own discipline, social work? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Why can't you major in social work? | |
| Yeah, it can be. | |
| Okay, so sociology, it's just, did you have to take like feminist studies classes for that? | |
| Women's studies, yes. | |
| How many women's studies classes did you have to? | |
| Just one. | |
| One class, okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, my crosshairs aren't uniquely only on sociology, but a lot of these soft sciences, soft sciences, I don't know. | |
| I think they got to go. | |
| At least the taxpayer, you look, you want to go to a private school where they teach that shit, and the taxpayer isn't subsidizing at all. | |
| But dance? | |
| Why are we subsidizing dance, dance majors for university? | |
| What are the other bullshit majors? | |
| No offense to you. | |
| There's dance. | |
| I'm not saying like dance has an artistic value, but you can go to ballet school. | |
| That should be a more private endeavor. | |
| I don't think taxpayers should be funding women to learn jazz at fucking Berkeley or whatever, you know, these universities. | |
| But what are some of the other soft sciences? | |
| All the grievance, all the grievance studies, the gender studies, all the grievance studies. | |
| I think we just got to do away with it, to be honest. | |
| No offense. | |
| None taken. | |
| But I mean, you yourself even admit, in your current field of work, you don't utilize really anything from sociology or that you learned in college. | |
| Probably less than like 10%. | |
| Yeah, and I mean, look, you could probably say that about even disciplines that are worthwhile, you know, the STEM fields, the science, the, you know, the math, physics. | |
| You could go study physics and go into a field that has nothing to do with physics. | |
| Although I do wonder if the taxpayer should be. | |
| STEM, I'm fine. | |
| I'm actually, my prescription would be, we fully pay for, you want to study physics, you want to study some sort of engineering, we pay for that fully. | |
| But we have to completely defund soft science bullshit, sociology. | |
| What are the stupid soft sciences? | |
| Calm. | |
| Calm. | |
| Calm can go. | |
| Psychology probably can go. | |
| I think I'm okay with. | |
| Is that what you studied? | |
| No, you didn't. | |
| Well, no, but I took psychology classes. | |
| I think psychology is very helpful for even just moving through life every day. | |
| Yes. | |
| I think it is. | |
| I think I've applied more in my psychology class that I learned and I took for one half of a year than any other class in my entire that I've been doing. | |
| Have you ever been to therapy? | |
| No. | |
| No? | |
| So psychology, typically people who study psychology. | |
| I think there is some, I'm not saying psychology is completely useless, the study of it. | |
| But like as it's in terms of its application for counseling therapy, all these therapists are seeing a therapist. | |
| Your therapist who's giving you advice, they're all fucked up too. | |
| And they're seeing a therapist. | |
| I'm like, hold on. | |
| You're telling me how I got to think, but you're all fucked up. | |
| Really? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I think therapy is kind of bullshit, but that's another conversation. | |
| Okay, good talk. | |
| Nothing, one thing from sociology? | |
| I couldn't tell you. | |
| Nothing? | |
| You don't even remember? | |
| I don't know. | |
| You wrote an essay. | |
| You remember your essay you wrote? | |
| I couldn't tell you, honestly. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's fair. | |
| That's fair. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm Tavie. | |
| I'm 22. | |
| I'm a barista and a life insurance agent, and I'm a college dropout. | |
| College? | |
| Okay, you were in college, though. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And sorry, you said you're from where? | |
| I'm out of mission. | |
| Stockton. | |
| Stockton. | |
| Like, grew up there, born there. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| College dropout. | |
| So were you in city college four-year city college? | |
| What were you studying? | |
| I was doing psychology. | |
| And then I was going to stop. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I was going to stop that and then do radiology. | |
| So that way, my only goal was to be in Pink Scrubs with my bestie. | |
| But then we both decided we hate chemistry and dropped out. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Good times. | |
| Good times. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm Samantha. | |
| I'm 25. | |
| I was born and raised in Los Angeles. | |
| I went to community college for like two years, dropped out. | |
| I'm in marketing. | |
| I am just kind of like a team member who helps out. | |
| All right. | |
| And you went to college, you said? | |
| I went to community college for like two years. | |
| I went to community college for like two years. | |
| What were you studying? | |
| Business. | |
| Business. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| My name's Natalia. | |
| I'm McHugh's, which is a long last name I could spell, but I'm not going to talk about my age and location respectfully. | |
| Well, I mean, are you from California or can you say your state? | |
| California. | |
| Okay, and can you, you won't talk about your age? | |
| Why is that? | |
| There's like supernatural things that I don't understand. | |
| So just to protect myself, I would like to be a little restrictive about the information I send, share it with publicly. | |
| There's, what do you mean, supernatural things? | |
| So God spoke to me, and there's also other forces that are dangerous. | |
| What are the other forces? | |
| Like demonic forces. | |
| So just to be just casual conversation. | |
| They are. | |
| So when you say God, God spoke to you, He spoke to you. | |
| Through my thoughts. | |
| Just now? | |
| This was in 2023, March, March 3rd, 2023. | |
| There's a preclusion from you sharing your age. | |
| God spoke to you directly and said, if you go on any podcast, be sure not to share your age. | |
| Do I have that correctly? | |
| He didn't say that, but I just want to be careful about the information I share. | |
| How so? | |
| For what reason, I guess? | |
| Just to protect myself because I'm going against very big forces. | |
| And I would like to protect myself and my family as much as possible. | |
| How would sharing your age? | |
| It's not about the age, but my point is, I just don't want to deal with bias because I'm a young person and people in their 70s tend to run the government. | |
| And I would like to reduce the bias as much as possible. | |
| Well, even if you didn't reveal your age, I don't think people are going to assume that you're in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or 70s. | |
| So just on the basis of your physical appearance, people are going to come to a range, a determination on your estimated age range, which based on your appearance, probably most people would put between 25 and 35. | |
| Yeah, it's between the 20s and 30s. | |
| Well, you're fine saying that. | |
| So the bias that you're concerned of still exists. | |
| How would the okay, so the people in the government. | |
| I think the people in the government, because of your unwillingness to share your age, would actually have another bias and think you're fucking loony because you're like not willing to share your age. | |
| That seems a bit peculiar. | |
| They could certainly look me up and figure out all the information about me, like all the agencies that know a lot about me, but I just don't want to share everything I've trying to hide from the agencies. | |
| I'm trying to hide from evil forces that are in the world, basically. | |
| Like in the government. | |
| In the whole world. | |
| But some of those are these government agencies. | |
| Like the CIA, the what's the other like Intel ones? | |
| CIA? | |
| NSA. | |
| NSA? | |
| Is that one? | |
| There's tons of them. | |
| You do, just to be clear, though, you think if the CIA was so inclined to give a fuck about you, which I doubt they do, you don't think the CIA would have a way to figure out your age? | |
| They wouldn't. | |
| Absent you disclosing it on the whatever podcast? | |
| They, like, it's easy to figure out my information, but I just, on an online platform, I just want to be restrictive is what I'm saying. | |
| Well, I'm not asking for your date of birth. | |
| I don't need the day. | |
| I don't need the month. | |
| I don't even need the year. | |
| I just need your age. | |
| And that could be. | |
| Okay, I could, we could move on for this. | |
| 29. | |
| Sorry about that. | |
| Well, shit, now you're fucked. | |
| Now the demons are coming for you. | |
| Well, I just want to like, I just wanted to let you know that things happen and I want to be careful is my point. | |
| I mean, you just disclosed it, though, with a little bit. | |
| You think little chubby Brian over here is going to put the fucking boot on your neck? | |
| Imagine that CIA interrogator. | |
| You completely folded to the most minimal amount of verbal pressure. | |
| I got the answer from you in three minutes. | |
| You just completely folded and there's demons and there's demons after you completely folded. | |
| For the sake of time, I will fold, but I don't want to have. | |
| I don't want to let you know if I know where I stand. | |
| You're not afraid enough of the demons. | |
| Well, anyway, I'm like, I'm just trusting in God to protect me, but there's a lot of stuff that happens, and I feel like it's intimidation. | |
| So it's just how it is. | |
| Can I ask a question? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Why, like, what do you feel like your mission is on the planet? | |
| Like, why do you feel like there's evil forces specifically offered? | |
| We're not going to get into that right now. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I thought your question was related to her age denial. | |
| But perhaps we can get into some of that stuff a bit later. | |
| Anyways. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, five minutes later. | |
| Okay, off to a good start. | |
| Can I mention my degrees and my job real quick? | |
| Oh, right. | |
| We didn't get to that part because I was so busy being ruffled by the fact you would not disclose basic biographical information about yourself. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Sorry about that. | |
| I really don't want to be rude, and I wanted to thank you so much, Brian, for this opportunity to be on your podcast because there's really not much out there to give random women who are like not famous this opportunity to talk to potentially millions of people. | |
| So like this is why I was like, this is where I have to go and other places. | |
| But I'm not a famous person, so and I didn't want to be for a long time. | |
| So yeah, I just wanted to thank you. | |
| And I'll try not to take too much time, but I got a degree in a bachelor's degree in neurobiology, physiology, and behavior. | |
| I went to medical school for one year. | |
| Really quick clarifying questions. | |
| Were you triple majoring in those three? | |
| No, that's one degree. | |
| Oh, wait, can you list the three different ones again or just list it again? | |
| My first bachelor's is neurobiology, physiology, and behavior. | |
| Oh, that's all one? | |
| Okay. | |
| Can you say which university? | |
| You don't have to. | |
| UC Davis. | |
| UC Davis. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you have a bachelor's or a master's? | |
| Sorry, you said bachelor's duh. | |
| Continue. | |
| I have one year of experience in medical school from USF, Morsani College of Medicine. | |
| Okay. | |
| You wanted to be a doctor? | |
| Why did you drop out? | |
| I was poisoned by pesticides, and I also, because of the residential spraying, and I... | |
| Sorry, the residential spring? | |
| Yes. | |
| Sorry. | |
| The residential spraying. | |
| So they were spraying the pesticides from trucks. | |
| People were spraying it on the volleyball sand. | |
| It was going into the pool. | |
| And I was doused with glyphosate, which is the same issue that Robert F. Kennedy Jr. sued Monsanto against. | |
| And it's also in our food. | |
| It's in organic food. | |
| It's in pretty much all food. | |
| And that's a big reason why we're super sick is because of the pesticides in our food. | |
| Okay, so you had health issues and you dropped out of medical school. | |
| Is that it for the education or is there more? | |
| Then I got a bachelor's degree in computer science from Western Governors University. | |
| And then I got a master's in smart educational technology from Université Côte desur, which is in French. | |
| French? | |
| French. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sorry, you got a what from there? | |
| Master's. | |
| In computer science? | |
| In smart educational technology. | |
| Smart educational tech. | |
| What's that? | |
| What I was trying to do is I was trying to create health education apps, and I had an issue with what they were teaching in medical school in America. | |
| And so I was trying to prevent health issues. | |
| I see. | |
| You've done a substantial amount of schooling. | |
| You have a bachelor's degree. | |
| You did one year of medical school. | |
| You got a bachelor's degree in computer science from a different university, and you have a master's from a different university. | |
| How much student debt do you have? | |
| I paid it off. | |
| How much was your, I guess then, the price of your education in total? | |
| How much was that? | |
| So my family supported me. | |
| I also worked. | |
| I also went to community college. | |
| I went to the cheapest non-profit online school I could go to. | |
| I was really trying to minimize my student debt. | |
| I ended up with about $20,000, and then I paid it off. | |
| All right. | |
| Not bad. | |
| Okay. | |
| So that's the school. | |
| Is there anything else I need to do? | |
| Occupation. | |
| I have tons of jobs, so I'm going to try to be brief. | |
| But I have, so I'm a business owner, and I created a website, created a basic app, created a basic game, and I'm like on LinkedIn most of the time. | |
| And I'm trying to share health education information and potentially prevent violence and wars if possible. | |
| So yeah, that's why I work so hard. | |
| I work like pretty much every day of the week. | |
| My sleep's all crazy and whatever, but yeah. | |
| You're trying to prevent wars. | |
| It's a big dream, yes. | |
| Which war are you currently trying to prevent? | |
| So many future wars, potentially, so many current wars. | |
| But I'm concerned about Venezuela. | |
| I'm concerned about Greenland because, well, so there was some activity. | |
| I was barely watching the news recently, but there were some activity in Venezuela, and there's so much oil in Venezuela, so they're going after it. | |
| And then I saw a thing from BBC that said that Trump's envoy is trying to make Greenland part of the United States. | |
| So I'm worried that we're just going to create more crazy wars and colonialism. | |
| And that's why I'm trying to get to Donald Trump as respectfully as possible and his family as much as possible to help him because he's eating banned McDonald's ingredients and all sorts of things that's going to mess with his head. | |
| And he could potentially be dealing with evil forces and all sorts of things. | |
| So it's really complicated. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm sure we can get into some of that stuff a bit later. | |
| I noticed you're wearing a cross. | |
| Are you a Christian? | |
| Yes. | |
| What denomination? | |
| I don't really, I don't, I try not to group myself with certain groups as much as possible. | |
| So I learn from Buddhism and all sorts of religions. | |
| You learn from Buddhism? | |
| Yes. | |
| But you're a Christian? | |
| Yes, I learned from as many people. | |
| You know the theologian isn't, if you're a Christian, isn't it, I don't know if it's heretical or you're Orthodox, right? | |
| I'm working towards it. | |
| Working towards it. | |
| It's a process. | |
| You don't just become Orthodox in one day. | |
| You have to get guidance from a pastor and you have to attend church. | |
| You're a Christian. | |
| Right, yes. | |
| And you're becoming Orthodox. | |
| Yes. | |
| I guess. | |
| Maybe you can speak on this. | |
| Isn't it heretical? | |
| I don't know if that's the right word. | |
| I don't know if it's a sin, whatever. | |
| For a Christian to be exploring other religions? | |
| I could be wrong. | |
| I don't know. | |
| No, you're right. | |
| It says in the Bible that you're not supposed to have other religions because it's technically like idols and God is a jealous God. | |
| So he wants your attention on him. | |
| And plus, if it's not in the Bible, it's not true. | |
| when these other things are said and people add to it then no so um okay so you're do you go to church Yeah. | |
| No, you. | |
| Oh. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, what is the denomination of the church you go to? | |
| Presbyterian. | |
| Presbyterian. | |
| Okay. | |
| Huh. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you are Christian, but also study Buddhism, I guess. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Maybe it's not contradictory. | |
| Oh, blasphemy? | |
| I don't know. | |
| One of those. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, okay, you're Christian. | |
| At the beginning of the show, you said you have autism or before the show? | |
| I haven't been diagnosed, but I struggle with emotional tone. | |
| Emotional tone. | |
| What does that mean? | |
| Like, I have trouble understanding people's emotions based on their tone. | |
| I also have trouble looking at people's eyes because I'm thinking so much. | |
| And I also perhaps have special interests, things like that. | |
| I was looking at the traits and I was just like, man, I really like nailed it on autism. | |
| Have you been diagnosed with anything? | |
| I don't want to say because there's such a pressure towards taking medication for things. | |
| And the sorry to interrupt. | |
| Sorry to take so much time, guys. | |
| But like the medical system is so focused on taking God out of the picture. | |
| And it's like, well, what about all this evidence? | |
| What about healing? | |
| What about the body healing itself? | |
| What about the natural medicine? | |
| What about like physical therapy? | |
| What about Eastern medicine? | |
| Like, there's so many things to help people help their body. | |
| And there's also more, there's so many side effects with medications. | |
| The studies are so biased. | |
| not asking what treatments you plan to undertake or could undertake. | |
| I'm simply asking you if you've had another... | |
| Because you said you think you have autism. | |
| You may very well. | |
| You may not. | |
| But you have another diagnosis of some other thing. | |
| Definitely depression is most likely on there. | |
| I haven't looked at my medical records, so I don't know exactly what they've diagnosed me with. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is there anything else? | |
| I mean, like, things like I had kidney infections, like, there's certain random things. | |
| I'm looking more so at related to like autism or your depression. | |
| These are more like mental health diagnoses. | |
| Have you had anything else besides, well, you're suspected autism, which mind you, it's not, that's not diagnosed, but you strongly suspect. | |
| And depression was diagnosed. | |
| Is there any other mental health diagnoses that you have? | |
| Schizophrenia, which is what people would be like, yeah, like you're hearing voices, you're seeing things, blah, blah, blah. | |
| But like there's a whole other side of the picture where it's like, what about all these people that say they speak to God? | |
| And what about all these people that say they're psychics? | |
| What about all these people that are reincarnations of Buddha? | |
| They say, like, there's so much evidence to say maybe there's like a third eye. | |
| Maybe there's like, if you look at the chakras too, it's like, are you at the ultimate truth enlightened nirvana stage, or are you at the root chakra stage where you're just focused on the ego? | |
| Are you at the super id or are you at the id and the ego? | |
| It's like that's why you learn psychology. | |
| It's like, whoa, there's so much to understand about the brain. | |
| I have one question. | |
| Does Christianity, maybe I'm going to read the chat here to any Christians in the chat? | |
| Do Christians does Christian theology does it reject the chakra stuff? | |
| Does Christianity reject the chakra new? | |
| I don't know if that's New Age or if it's like Eastern stuff. | |
| I don't know what the categorization is, but Christianity does reject the chakra stuff. | |
| Yes. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| My dear, I think you're a Presbyterian. | |
| Well, you go to Presbyterian church, which I think the Presbyterians are pretty based. | |
| Like more based than like non-doms or whatever and like the, I don't know, some of the other mainline denominations. | |
| And you got a cro you got it, you're wearing a cross. | |
| You can't be doing chakra shit. | |
| Look, I don't have a dog in the fight, but I believe it's contradictory. | |
| Look, I don't really care. | |
| I'm just pointing it out. | |
| I haven't. | |
| So I read the New Testament like about twice, but I haven't read the entire Old Testament. | |
| So like I used to be agnostic, atheist, a believer, like scrolling around. | |
| So I kind of come a lot more from an atheist scientific perspective. | |
| And then I wasn't believing in God until 2023 about, and then God spoke to me. | |
| Okay. | |
| Question for you. | |
| We don't need to go too deep down the rabbit hole. | |
| You mentioned schizophrenia. | |
| Is there anything else? | |
| Any other personality disorders or borderline personality disorders? | |
| NPD, ASD, anything like that? | |
| You said ASD, which is autism spectrum disorder. | |
| ASPD, anti-social personality disorder. | |
| Anything like that? | |
| I'm not implying you do. | |
| I'm just asking. | |
| I only think it's like depression, schizophrenia, and then just like that's what I know as far as the mental health issues and the rest. | |
| Have you ever taken medication for the schizophrenia? | |
| Yes, I was forced to. | |
| So what age were you diagnosed? | |
| Let's see. | |
| This year. | |
| Oh, this year you were diagnosed. | |
| What was the context in which you received the diagnosis? | |
| Like you've never been. | |
| Perhaps I'm jumping the gun here. | |
| You've never been committed to, like, have you ever been 5150 or placed, like had a mental hold or anything like that? | |
| So I went to the psychiatric. | |
| First of all, I'm like a super curious person. | |
| Like I try to learn everything. | |
| So like I go to places where it's like, oh, what's happening over here? | |
| Like I'm not like someone who usually abstains and protects myself and like hangs out with a certain crowd and whatever. | |
| So I was taking Accutane, which is for acne. | |
| And the doctor was warning me this has suicidal ideation. | |
| And I was like, all right, like I'm just going to tough it out. | |
| And I was literally crying like within a thought, like just like crying, crying, crying. | |
| From the medication. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah, I mean, I've heard that Accutane can have very strong and severe side effects. | |
| But you were diagnosed a year ago. | |
| Have you been like, have you been involuntarily committed in your life? | |
| I've voluntarily been committed to a hospital. | |
| To a mental hospital? | |
| Okay. | |
| And they, and that was the point, just once? | |
| Twice. | |
| Twice. | |
| Okay. | |
| And this was the past year? | |
| So in 2022, I was taking Accutane. | |
| I was dealing with suicidal ideation again and again and again. | |
| And then I was, and then I was talking to a therapist and they were like, you need to go to the hospital. | |
| So I go to the hospital. | |
| I have a lot I could say about that as far as improvements. | |
| Notes. | |
| But like, then I go to the second time, sorry, second time I go to the hospital, I felt like I was chased by a bunch of ghosts and dangerous things. | |
| And if you look at, if you look at like the conjuring series, for example, then you could look at evidence of like what people might experience with evil spirits, for example. | |
| And then, so I, to protect myself, I went into the psychiatric hospital because I wanted cameras, I wanted staff, I wanted 24-7 protection. | |
| But then I was not allowed to leave until I took the medication. | |
| So the doctor went to the court, required that I take medication, and they injected me with medication because you can't like leave. | |
| So, yeah, so I'm just trying to not be in the hospital because you have to be forced to take the medication sometimes. | |
| So you did take, and I'm on the same page with you in the sense that the Accutane has really bad side effects. | |
| And the ideation you referenced, it's actually, they warn you specifically about it. | |
| Just curious, no homicidal ideation? | |
| So like I would never harm people as much as possible. | |
| I eat meat. | |
| I eat animal meat that is not human, nothing weird. | |
| But I also like weirdly empathize with like whatever forces I could possibly can because I'm just like, why are they violent? | |
| Why are they abusing these people? | |
| No, but you yourself have not had homicidal ideation. | |
| Well, I'd say I would never ever hurt someone. | |
| So in a way, I've never had homicidal ideation. | |
| But in another way, it's like, well, but like my thoughts could maybe be like, why is that person killing someone? | |
| And do you think that the Accutane, like, okay, you were diagnosed a year ago about, or in the past year with schizophrenia. | |
| Do you think, and you're 29 now, do you think you had schizophrenia, like going further back? | |
| Or is the schizophrenia, because some people can develop that at a later, later age? | |
| Is it a new development? | |
| It's a new development, but I question the diagnosis of schizophrenia because I wonder, Is it possibly being psychic without God, without spirituality, without the supernatural? | |
| Because, like, it's true, I do see and hear things that are not what other people see and hear, but I don't think it's 100% just my own brain activity. | |
| Okay. | |
| And what is you said you were on a medication briefly for the schizophrenia? | |
| Is that correct? | |
| Yes. | |
| But you went off it. | |
| Is that correct? | |
| Yes. | |
| And so you're not currently on any medications? | |
| For schizophrenia? | |
| Yes. | |
| Maybe you take something else? | |
| I have an IUD, that's all. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Not on because it must have been. | |
| I'm not sure one of the hormonal ones. | |
| I have the hormonal one, and I'm just like, I should probably stop messing with my hormones too. | |
| Okay. | |
| How many different, was it just one medication that you did take for the schizophrenia? | |
| It was at least two. | |
| At least two. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you were on them for a couple months? | |
| Sure. | |
| For about a month. | |
| One month. | |
| And you didn't like them. | |
| Or? | |
| I just am really careful about the medical system because in some ways, if you're not treating the root causes, then it's like, okay, like it's life-saving. | |
| But in other ways, it's like, well, but do you need to be taking this for like 50 years or can you fix it? | |
| Gotcha. | |
| So I know that when it comes to schizophrenia, it can manifest itself in different ways in different people. | |
| The severity can be stronger. | |
| It can be weaker. | |
| It's a bit on the spectrum in terms of the severity, the impact, and how it manifests itself. | |
| For you specifically, how does, I guess, what are your symptoms? | |
| How does it manifest itself in you? | |
| So I'll see like what I believe is God's Eye, which is in the Muslim mosques. | |
| You'll see like a huge eye, and that's the all-seeing eye. | |
| Wait, you have visual hallucinations? | |
| Yes. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you have auditory hallucinations? | |
| Yes. | |
| But then the question is, are those hallucinations? | |
| Do you have tactile sensory hallucinations? | |
| What are the other... | |
| Do you smell? | |
| All... | |
| Olfactory hallucinations? | |
| I don't have a great sense of smell, so I don't think so. | |
| Okay. | |
| What are the so, okay, hearing? | |
| You have visual and auditory hallucinations. | |
| You have tactile, what was the other word I used? | |
| Sensory hallucinations. | |
| I also don't taste. | |
| Taste? | |
| No. | |
| Not that I notice. | |
| Okay, are you, do you have visual Hulu? | |
| Are you having visual hallucinations right now? | |
| Am I, do I look normal? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, you don't see like, I'm not like a demon or some shit. | |
| No. | |
| Okay, what about this girl next to me? | |
| I get some weird vibes from her a little bit. | |
| So. | |
| What's going on? | |
| Like, sometimes I see auras, sometimes I see visual signals. | |
| sometimes i see auras uh Auras, like the color auras. | |
| Wait, oh, so you don't see. | |
| But mostly just with myself, I'm not angry. | |
| You don't see like, like, you know, an aura around me? | |
| It's really hard. | |
| I've never really, like, tried to look at other people's auras that much. | |
| But like with myself, if I'm thinking like loving thoughts, I see the color pink. | |
| Have you seen Dragon Ball Z? | |
| My cousins have Super Saiyan and they have the. | |
| Wait, do I have a sound for this? | |
| Hold on. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| Do I have a sound? | |
| I might have taken it off. | |
| I don't think I have it, Rip. | |
| I'm sorry, but does anybody at the table have an aura? | |
| I don't have it. | |
| Shit. | |
| Like, I'm not an expert at all with the supernatural, so I was kind of thinking, like, I shouldn't talk about the supernatural stuff. | |
| But I was, like, just with my personal experiences, that sometimes I see auras because of people, because of my thoughts, I mean. | |
| But it's hard to like look at other people's auras for me. | |
| Do you, we used to have this, he didn't speak English. | |
| His name was Gustavo. | |
| And unfortunately, he like passed away. | |
| Sometimes I think his spirit haunts the whatever podcast studio. | |
| Have you seen a guy in a Chilean military uniform? | |
| Like a visage visage? | |
| Like a phantom? | |
| Have you seen? | |
| So like I'll ask God for certain things. | |
| My thoughts are kind of out of control. | |
| I'll say that. | |
| Did you see him? | |
| But no, I generally see spirits in the studio. | |
| I generally don't see ghosts. | |
| Okay. | |
| But I see like a light. | |
| It's basically a vertical light. | |
| I'll see like moving around really quick. | |
| So I saw like a white flash right there. | |
| So it's like hypothetically it could be him or it could be an angel. | |
| I have no idea. | |
| Okay. | |
| So what you said you do experience visual hallucinations. | |
| Are they 24-7? | |
| I mean, when you're awake, I suppose. | |
| They like reduced for part of this year. | |
| And then when I was asking, like, how can I serve you, Jesus Christ, more, then it came back. | |
| More. | |
| Okay. | |
| And they're kind of lights. | |
| Are they ever like very detailed objects or people? | |
| I'll see like cartoonish reactions. | |
| So like if I'm thinking of something that angers an evil spirit potentially, then I'll see an angry face. | |
| If I think of eating, I'll see like the big things. | |
| If I make a random joke, it'll laugh. | |
| Like it's weird. | |
| Okay. | |
| It just responds. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, huh. | |
| Well, I don't know. | |
| I'm kind of at a loss for words, honestly. | |
| I think we can go around the table again. | |
| I'm sure. | |
| Does anybody else here have, I guess, since we're getting into mental health diagnoses, does anybody, you got, maybe we could all, this could be like a bonding moment. | |
| What do you, do you have anything, any, any issues? | |
| Nothing? | |
| Come on. | |
| I mean, come on. | |
| I was, when I was younger, I had really bad depression, but thank Jesus that's not present anymore as the way it was before. | |
| You're Catholic, right? | |
| I'm Catholic Christian. | |
| Catholic. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I used to, but I think Jesus said I was saved for the most part. | |
| I used to used to have depression. | |
| Just depression. | |
| Major depression disorder. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Any into the mic? | |
| I've never been diagnosed with anything, but I'm definitely autistic. | |
| Definitely autistic. | |
| I can tell. | |
| What about you? | |
| I don't have anything, unfortunately. | |
| Unfortunate? | |
| Maybe fortunately. | |
| I used to be crazy, but what does that mean? | |
| Like drugs? | |
| Oh, that too. | |
| But I used to carve into people type spirit. | |
| Carve? | |
| Yeah, like you stabbed people. | |
| Yeah, like blood. | |
| Wait, what does that mean? | |
| Can you? | |
| I'm sorry, I'm confused. | |
| Like carved into people. | |
| Like when I had a boyfriend, I would be like, hey, like, my initials, your skin, blood. | |
| Like, consensually? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Or you would force them. | |
| Oh, no, no, no, no. | |
| Consensually. | |
| Do you still do that? | |
| No. | |
| He saved me. | |
| Jesus. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Saved you from carving. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes. | |
| So was it a kink thing or was it not sexual at all? | |
| I think it was a kink thing. | |
| I think I just liked blood for some reason. | |
| And then I did also used to be depressed. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I actually have episodic depression where I'm not sure. | |
| I'm not always depressed, but sometimes I fall into episodes. | |
| So I'm not like sad all the time. | |
| Tilt your mic down a little bit. | |
| So grab it from. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Tilt it from. | |
| Yeah, there you go. | |
| Episodic depression. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Huh. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, I guess we need your intro, so let's just get into that. | |
| Give us your intro. | |
| Yeah, I'm Alina. | |
| I'm 21 years old. | |
| I'm from Penza, Russia, but I currently live in Philadelphia. | |
| And I'm a student studying for a Bachelor of Business Administration. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| I think this is your third, fourth? | |
| Fourth? | |
| I believe it's the fourth. | |
| All right. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| And any mental health diagnoses? | |
| No, when I was a child, I was evaluated for autism because everybody thought I was autistic. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But it turned out negative. | |
| Okay. | |
| Really quick going back to you. | |
| When I was asking about your medication, you said you had an IUD. | |
| The non-hormonal or was it the hormonal one? | |
| It's the hormonal because I didn't want to have periods. | |
| But I don't recommend. | |
| Are you active? | |
| No. | |
| In a biblical way? | |
| Are you biblically carnal knowledge? | |
| Can you elaborate, please? | |
| Are you having carnal knowledge? | |
| Could you elaborate, please? | |
| Biblically. | |
| Have you been with a man biblically recently? | |
| Or any time? | |
| In February, I broke up with my last boyfriend. | |
| Okay, and that was the last time you had carnal knowledge. | |
| Sex. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Intercourse. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Okay, but you kept the IUD, though, just in case. | |
| Is your boyfriend, is he good? | |
| Or was he? | |
| Is he alive? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, just so like, I want to be careful about what I say because I want my family to watch this. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Just I was curious because I feel like, you know, the saying, I'm going to make a joke. | |
| You know the saying, like, don't stick your dick in crazy. | |
| I feel like schizophrenia pussy gotta be the bomb. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| They say crazy girls, the sex is the best. | |
| Like, you don't really, you can't really get much better than schizophrenia. | |
| So, I mean, you have that going for you. | |
| Sorry, it was a crude joke. | |
| Crude joke. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Wow, okay. | |
| That's a complication. | |
| I don't, I don't want to make people feel embarrassed about their mental health diagnoses, but I have a joke I could tell you after the podcast. | |
| What is it? | |
| Okay, is it about autistic? | |
| Let's just say, hypothetically, people who are manic perhaps are better at the bedroom department. | |
| Oh, like border BP bipolar, bipolar disorder. | |
| Maybe. | |
| Yeah, they're crazy. | |
| Like, in a, I mean, it doesn't, it's not worth the trade-off. | |
| But, like, my philosophy is: if you're going to be a crazy bitch, not you, but you seem kind of tame, I think. | |
| But, like, if you're going to be a crazy bitch, the least you can do for the guy you're going to be dating, the sex has to be the bomb. | |
| Like, it's got you. | |
| Like, you can't be a crazy bitch and the sex is trash. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| You know what I mean. | |
| She knows what I mean. | |
| Like, you can't be, you can't. | |
| You got to make up for the craziness, is what I'm saying. | |
| Now, some guys bite the bullet and they're like, this bitch is crazy. | |
| Not you. | |
| You're a very nice lady. | |
| I would never refer to you as a bitch, but I'm saying, like, you know, I'm using it in that way. | |
| You know what I'm talking about. | |
| Because I'm part of the movement and the culture. | |
| But, anyways, you know, if you're dealing with the crazy, a crazy bee and like, she won't suck your dick. | |
| And, like, pussy's not, it's like, what, as a guy, what are you really even doing there? | |
| You know, like, I, to be clear, if, if a girl's got bipolar, I'm avoiding 100%. | |
| You know, the other mental illnesses, it's in the void. | |
| Even if the, even if she's really hot, and the pussy would be bum. | |
| But I'm just saying. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Okay, good talk. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, here. | |
| Wow, that was a good convo. | |
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| Link is in the description. | |
| We have a Discord, discord.gg slash whatever. | |
| Post our stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail, research, studies, a bunch of other stuff. | |
| I'm in there. | |
| I'm chatting with the people from, you know, I'm not like in there fucking three hours a day, but you know, I was chatting a couple days ago. | |
| So asking for feedback from the peep. | |
| So join the Discord. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Oh, I'm hiring for two positions. | |
| You need to either live or be able to make it to Santa Barbara every Sunday. | |
| Position one: a new helmet girl or side, helmet girl sidekick. | |
| You don't really need any, you just need to be good looking. | |
| That's pretty much it. | |
| Position two, a new soldier sidekick. | |
| So think Gustavo. | |
| His aberration does is still in the studio, though. | |
| So, but you will wear the Chilean soldier uniform. | |
| You can DM at whatever on Instagram if interested in either of those two positions. | |
| And then we have a TTS, and then I'll finish up the stuff. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Yo, Brian, your favorite Brit is back. | |
| Hope you had a great Christmas, bro. | |
| Been a few weeks, but sure you ain't forgotten the name. | |
| On to the next year, brother. | |
| Hashtag Big Labia Matter. | |
| Hashtag Michael Jackson is king. | |
| Yo, good to see you, man. | |
| Of course, I remember your name. | |
| You're the Michael Jackson guy. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Really appreciate your patronage. | |
| Thank you, Adzils. | |
| I hope you have a great 2026. | |
| And yo, Dariel Hampsta, thank you for the gifted 20 subs on Twitch. | |
| And then we had another, we had this guy, W41N, and then Juicy Eric, also gifted. | |
| I think I pulled that up earlier. | |
| So I think. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| I see your chat too. | |
| We're going to get to that in a second. | |
| Here, why don't I just do it now? | |
| Alina, can you read this? | |
| Chair one, how's your relationship with your father? | |
| Brian, is Andrew coming back to the show? | |
| Chair six, you watch too many rabbit hole conspiracies. | |
| Wait, where is she, bro? | |
| Oh, she's back in there. | |
| Really quick, I'll answer the Andrew Wilson. | |
| Look, here's what, how many people are watching right now? | |
| I think like four or five thousand people. | |
| All right, here's what I need you guys to do. | |
| I need you guys to fucking bombard the shit out of Andrew. | |
| Be like, listen up, Mr. Wilson. | |
| Get back on the whatever. | |
| You guys got to harass this guy. | |
| Like, don't, not like in a terrible way. | |
| You just send him a chat message when he's live. | |
| You got to be like, hey, the invitation there is there. | |
| But, you know, Andrew's a busy guy. | |
| He's got a lot of big moves for Andrew. | |
| He's got a lot going on. | |
| So you got to lean on him a little bit. | |
| You guys got to lean on Andrew. | |
| Be like, get on, get back on the whatever podcast. | |
| But hey, anytime, anytime, he's always welcome. | |
| Always welcome. | |
| W. Andrew, by the way, he did, if you guys want, he recently was on the PPD PBB Patrick Bett David podcast. | |
| He said, he said some very nice things about myself and the show. | |
| So thank you, Andrew. | |
| Really appreciate it. | |
| Thank you for the shout out, by the way, Andrew. | |
| W, guys, W. Andrew Wilson in the chat. | |
| W, Brian, are you pregnant? | |
| Says somebody in the chat. | |
| Yes, I am pregnant, actually. | |
| Thank you for asking. | |
| I am pregnant. | |
| I'm actually a trans man. | |
| That's why I can do the gay voice so well, because I'm a trans man. | |
| Alina is actually the one who got me pregnant, believe it or not. | |
| She happens to have a penis. | |
| That's a crazy accusation. | |
| Well, it is crazy, but it happens to be true. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| So anyways, big end of year reveal. | |
| So yeah, you want to answer the... | |
| Yeah, you said, how's your relationship with your father? | |
| That's one of my two best friends. | |
| One being my brother, second being my dad. | |
| He taught me everything I need to know about how to live by myself. | |
| I've been living by myself up until recently. | |
| I moved in with my partner. | |
| He taught me things that my mom couldn't teach me. | |
| He was a sergeant sheriff in LA County for 35 years. | |
| He taught me things about politics and social concepts and things that just wasn't taught in school. | |
| He had me invest in stocks at the age of eight, which has grossed, I don't even, I don't even want to say the number here, but he set me up for success. | |
| And the way that I look is not a reflection of his views because he doesn't like the way that I look. | |
| But because it's an adult-to-adult relationship, not a parent-child relationship anymore, we're able to have mutual respect and have good conversations and love each other the way that Jesus loves us. | |
| Word. | |
| Good times. | |
| I love you, Dad. | |
| All right. | |
| And then we have, also, I'm just going to pull these up because people are, they made some merch purchases. | |
| So guys, if you do do a merch purchase, it comes through our Streamlabs thing. | |
| You can include a message. | |
| You can't include your name. | |
| Some people just leave it blank and then it comes through as someone, duh, thank you for the big. | |
| Looks like you bought like two hoodies or something. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Hold on, let's see. | |
| We have one other chat come through. | |
| We have Juicy Eric. | |
| Oh, you also, wait. | |
| Oh, I already pulled it up. | |
| Okay, hold on. | |
| Wait. | |
| Am I getting confused? | |
| Here, let me do this. | |
| Can you read this one? | |
| Chair six is getting ghosted between the sheets. | |
| Brian, need a protection spellcast over you on this episode. | |
| Yeah, I have a lot of stories that I can mention about hauntings and things. | |
| Let's not get into it. | |
| Sven, thank you for the gifted five. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Thank you for that super chat, by the way. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| We read this one, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| I accidentally pulled it up again. | |
| We have our good friend Adzils here coming in with the chat. | |
| Will Gustavo ever return? | |
| You'd be surprised with the comments and other. | |
| Hey, I actually spoke with him recently. | |
| We might get a cameo. | |
| We might get a little reunion. | |
| Actually, we're in 2026. | |
| So, guys, we started the podcast in 2022. | |
| We're gonna bring that's like almost, we've been doing this for like three and a half years now, I guess. | |
| We're gonna be bringing back some old characters for like a re not a dedicated reunion episode, but we will have people come on as like a reunion, get a life update. | |
| Uh, so there's gonna be some people coming back, so that'll be fun. | |
| But Gustavo, I'm pretty sure we'll have him come back. | |
| Uh, but I am hiring a new one, a new Gustavo. | |
| Uh, final thing, Nick. | |
| Here, let me ask the chat. | |
| I'll ask the chat if we do this. | |
| Uh, so chat, we have one girl running obnoxiously late, but she's flying in, and there was a flight delay. | |
| So, I'm not gonna harsh on her too much. | |
| But we had two no-shows, but ultimately, with that girl who's coming late, we're gonna have a full panel for us. | |
| A full panel is nine. | |
| So, look, we had two no-shows that I kind of put on blast. | |
| So, the question for chat is: do I pull up the Instagram messages of the two no-shows? | |
| Do we put them on blast chat or do I just, you know, be the bigger man and just don't put them on blast? | |
| Yes, blast or no? | |
| No blast or blast. | |
| Do we blast? | |
| Are we fucking blasting boys? | |
| Okay, fuck it. | |
| Let's do it really quick. | |
| All right, fuck these people. | |
| Hey, it's a fun, you know what? | |
| Hey, hold on. | |
| Let me play this shit one more time. | |
| For the two fucking no-shows, these people are by the way. | |
| One of them is 33, one of them is 27. | |
| It takes 10 minutes, 10 minutes. | |
| Sorry, 10 seconds to just be like, hey, fuck your podcast. | |
| I'm not coming. | |
| I prefer that. | |
| Anyways, whatever. | |
| Fucking. | |
| Fuck you, all of y'all motherfuckers. | |
| Fuck you. | |
| Die slow, motherfucker. | |
| My phone phone makes sure all y'all kids don't. | |
| To the no-shows. | |
| You motherfuckers can't PSOC us. | |
| We motherfucking thuglike riders westside till we die. | |
| Out here in California, nigga. | |
| We want you. | |
| We'll bomb on you, motherfuckers. | |
| We do our job. | |
| You think you mom, nigga? | |
| We the motherfucking mob. | |
| Pull up the first one. | |
| All right. | |
| All right, fuck you, Susie. | |
| So she DM'd us. | |
| Hi, I'm in Santa Barbara. | |
| Would like to be on your podcast. | |
| That's on next. | |
| This is just her bullshit. | |
| Whatever. | |
| Fucking three kids. | |
| Okay, whatever. | |
| Next. | |
| So we send her the confirmation. | |
| This is our message. | |
| And she says, yes, I confirm. | |
| By the way, all the women here, I'm sure you can. | |
| Did we send you two reminders? | |
| We sent you one on Friday. | |
| We sent you one on Saturday. | |
| So we're not like, you know, we do send reminders, just, you know, whatever. | |
| We send one 48 hours, typically, and 24 hours before. | |
| Pull it back up. | |
| So she confirms. | |
| Now, by the way, we tend to book people like way in advance, but for, you know, this show, this was on Friday. | |
| But she says she confirms and she acknowledged the reminders. | |
| Next, today, this is today, 4:11 p.m., because all these other lovely women were here on time. | |
| Thank you, by the way. | |
| I'm like, hey, are you coming? | |
| And she says, no, sorry. | |
| And I'm like, this woman is 33. | |
| 33. | |
| And it's 4.11 p.m. | |
| It takes, oh, wait, wait, there's more. | |
| There's more. | |
| It takes 10 seconds. | |
| I'm not coming. | |
| You would have known that not at 4.11 p.m. | |
| Not prompted by me asking you if you're coming. | |
| Like, I don't know about what you guys think. | |
| I feel like, and this applies to dating too. | |
| If you have a date scheduled with somebody and say the date is for 4 p.m., you don't wait until 4.11 p.m. to be like, and for them to text you to be like, hey, I'm not coming. | |
| You don't do that. | |
| No, you tell the person, you give them as much advanced notice as possible. | |
| I'm not coming. | |
| Pull it back up. | |
| Are you coming? | |
| No, sorry. | |
| Next. | |
| Okay, that's her. | |
| Fuck you, Susie. | |
| Next. | |
| It's like a dog? | |
| Do you have, or wait? | |
| No. | |
| Oh, that's somebody else. | |
| Oh, the other no show. | |
| Yeah, fuck you, Susie. | |
| What's that? | |
| Yeah, yeah, next one. | |
| Okay, DMs us. | |
| Interested in being on the podcast. | |
| They're DMing us. | |
| And then next. | |
| 4.11. | |
| So you can't see it. | |
| Maybe just hide it temporarily. | |
| I'm just like, what's your ETA? | |
| Estimated time of arrival. | |
| Because all these other really polite people showed up on time. | |
| I'm like, hey, are you coming? | |
| You agreed? | |
| Whatever. | |
| And just, I won't make it this week. | |
| Bitch, you're supposed to tell us this shit two hours ago, not 4.11 p.m., you fucking scumbag. | |
| Now, pull it up. | |
| Pull up the next one. | |
| Yeah, pull up the next tab. | |
| Now, this fight, and then she's trying to say that she's, oh, you don't know what's going on in her life. | |
| This is her dog's Instagram page. | |
| Click on the stories. | |
| Click on the stories. | |
| No, the stories, the profile picture. | |
| Click on that. | |
| Oh, she blocked us. | |
| Okay, well, we can't see that. | |
| She blocked us. | |
| We can't see the stories. | |
| But she had time to post. | |
| That's not her Instagram. | |
| That's her dog's Instagram. | |
| How are you going to have time to post multiple stories on your dog's fucking Instagram? | |
| Oh, but you don't have time. | |
| You don't have fucking time to be like, take 10 seconds. | |
| Hey, Brian, I fucking hate your podcast. | |
| I'm not coming. | |
| I don't even care if you tell me you hate my shit. | |
| I don't care. | |
| But at least tell me. | |
| So fuck, what was that bitch? | |
| What was that bitch's name? | |
| Rachel? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, fuck Rachel. | |
| Fuck Rachel. | |
| If you guys want to send a little happy new year message to them, you shouldn't do that. | |
| And then that other chick, Susie. | |
| Wait, wait, go to Susie's Instagram profile and then click on the stories. | |
| This chick posted seven fuck. | |
| Click that shit. | |
| She's put and tab through them. | |
| Just click the arrow. | |
| Fucking seven stories. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Tap through. | |
| Yeah, next. | |
| Just keep going. | |
| You got time to post these dumb fucking retarded fucking stories, but you can't be like, oh, hey, we're not coming to the podcast. | |
| Fucking scumbags. | |
| Anyways, it's all good because we have a lovely panel. | |
| Thank you, everybody, for being on time. | |
| Thank you. | |
| You guys are wonderful. | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Oh, she was watching? | |
| She was watching. | |
| Somebody in the chat was like, she might have to. | |
| Blocked us during it. | |
| She knew her dog's account is pretty crazy. | |
| Yeah, man. | |
| No, but she was like, she was at the beach. | |
| She was at the beach with her dog or some shit. | |
| Oh, I have something. | |
| You don't know what's going on. | |
| She literally said, You don't know what's going on in my life. | |
| Bitch, you're at the beach with your dog. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| So like you got in a fucking car crash. | |
| Oh my God, these people are retarded. | |
| Big moves. | |
| Oh, so the dog chick is 27 and the other one is 33. | |
| I don't know about y'all. | |
| Maybe when you're fucking 17, 18, you're such a scumbag, teenage dirtbag dip shit that it's like you have an appointment and you don't let the other person know you're not going to show. | |
| When you're 33, I like to think you've had enough life experience to be like, you know, the courteous etiquette thing would be if you've agreed to an appointment, you let the person know, hey, I'm not coming. | |
| That's like bare minimum manners, etiquette, courtesy. | |
| We got 33-year-old women, 27-year-old strumpets, not even showing humanity. | |
| This is subhuman behavior. | |
| These people are subhuman. | |
| It's subhuman behavior. | |
| It's bare minimum basic human decency. | |
| Hey, look, I changed my mind. | |
| Let's find. | |
| Give me fuck. | |
| Tell me two hours before. | |
| Hey, I'm not going to, it's going to inconvenience us, whatever. | |
| At least tell us. | |
| But don't leave us holding our fucking dicks, our metaphorical production dicks. | |
| Fucking four. | |
| I shouldn't be messaging these chicks at 411, prompting them to tell us, you know? | |
| This is my therapy session, by the way. | |
| But yeah, that's subhuman shit. | |
| Fuck them. | |
| And, but by the way, I just want to say, this is relating it to dating. | |
| And I know you want to come in. | |
| You know, there's a lot of criticisms of age gap relationships. | |
| A lot of criticisms. | |
| Oh, these older men dating 35-year-old men dating 20-year-old women. | |
| That's a 33-year-old woman and a 27-year-old woman. | |
| If I'm going to deal with the same immature bullshit from a 33-year-old and a 27-year-old, I might as well deal with a 20, 21-year-old. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| These girls have no idea what I'm talking about. | |
| I'm just saying, I feel like if you're going to deal with the same bullshit, like you're going to deal with a flaky 30-year-old, I might as well deal with a hotter chick who's younger. | |
| I might as well, if I'm just going to, if she's going to, if she's a, oh, well, the 33-year-old women, they're more mature. | |
| No, they're not. | |
| I might as well just get a hotter chick, less bodies. | |
| Less bodies, less trauma, less dick, less run-through. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| Fair. | |
| I might as well deal, like if a girl's, I'd rather have a 20-year-old flake on me than a 30, 33-year-old. | |
| That's embarrassing. | |
| Not like that. | |
| Like a 33, like if I'm dating and I'm getting, I'm getting fucking a 33-year-old is 30 minutes late to the date. | |
| That's actually, it's actually worse if she's older. | |
| If she's older, because if you're young, you can inexperience. | |
| If you're young, you know, it can be excused by any, bitch, that chick's 33 with three kids. | |
| And maybe it's just one guy, right? | |
| It could be just one guy. | |
| But it's like, you've had, how do you not know? | |
| That's actually why I started being okay with dating younger people because I have always dated just naturally like older men than that's good. | |
| I'm so happy for you. | |
| And I felt like I was putting up with these people who were like, exactly, like, you should be a grown-ass man. | |
| Like, you should, you should have the foresight. | |
| Like, you should have the communication skills. | |
| You should have all these things. | |
| And you don't. | |
| And that's pathetic. | |
| And then I feel like also you're jaded. | |
| You've been through, you're like scared to be in love and be hurt again. | |
| And you can't pay for something because of that girl relationship. | |
| Someone has used you before. | |
| So every girl's going to use you. | |
| And you're just like jaded by life when you're freaking past your 35. | |
| Like these men are fucking heartbroken, like on the ground crawling, just begging for love. | |
| And they don't know how to fucking still treat you or be a person. | |
| So I'm like, okay, I guess I'll be okay dating like some guy who's my age or like 20. | |
| Like hopefully they'll be less jaded and maybe we can teach communication, you know? | |
| Like we can teach a younger guy like, hey, communicate with me like this. | |
| They're more open to it. | |
| Like they're like, oh yeah, okay, that's what I'm supposed to do. | |
| Okay, just teach me. | |
| Hey, if you're a woman and you're a bit older and you want to date a younger guy, I don't have any issues with it. | |
| I tend to think women generally, though, women generally are more inclined to dating men that are their age or a bit older. | |
| But hey, I don't have a you want to date a younger guy by all means. | |
| I'm just saying, because I get this argument. | |
| Look, by the way, on the age gap topic, I date women my own age. | |
| I'll date women younger than me. | |
| I've dated women older than me. | |
| In fact, when I was in my early 30s, I dated a woman in her 40s. | |
| So I'm not like hanging out at college parties trying to pick up fucking college girls. | |
| But if a 20-year-old girl slides into my DMs, who am I to object? | |
| Can I ask how old you are? | |
| 36. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I wanted to quickly respond when you were mentioning the. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| I'm not done with my mom. | |
| Sorry, go ahead. | |
| So, anyways, I'll let you respond here in a sec, but I do think this, there's this, there's this argument when we're having conversations about age gap relationships. | |
| What do you have in common with a, what does a 30-year-old have in common with a 20-year-old? | |
| Or, oh my God, they're so immature. | |
| Bro, anybody who, by the way, women can, I feel like women who deal with men in their late 20s, early 30s, this idea that this demographic of men is they're so profoundly wise and mature. | |
| No. | |
| This idea that when you get older, you become some paragon of wisdom and you're so mature. | |
| No, these people are honestly, a lot of times they're fucking worse. | |
| These older people. | |
| So, and it's like, so if I'm going to be dealing with the same bullshit, I'd rather deal, like, I'd rather deal with the head. | |
| And it's more excusable to deal with that bullshit from somebody younger because at least it's like, look, okay, they're naive or they're inexperienced. | |
| But you should really have your shit. | |
| Like, you shouldn't be fucking 30 minutes late to a date in your 30s. | |
| You shouldn't be, you know, canceling on fucking no-showing. | |
| Anyways, whatever. | |
| I wanted to quickly respond. | |
| Wait, I'm not done. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Sorry, I got to get this rant out. | |
| I got to get this rant fully out of here. | |
| I'm just saying, I don't know. | |
| This idea that these, I don't know, this idea that like the 30-year-olds are all mature, the younger, you know, 20-year-olds, that they're immature. | |
| It's fucking bullshit. | |
| It's total bullshit. | |
| In fact, I have this theory. | |
| I have a theory. | |
| It's called the, I'm just making up the name right now, theory. | |
| Are they a keeper? | |
| And the reality is there's a greater proportion of keepers at a younger age. | |
| Because you got to really, not to say that everybody in their 30s or late 20s is fucked up, but most people, by the time they're 30, huh? | |
| What? | |
| You're good. | |
| You're good. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's tell you stuff reading it. | |
| Well, better, whatever. | |
| Yeah, I got you. | |
| Sorry, I lost my train of thought. | |
| My bad. | |
| I have a comment real quick when I was a lot younger. | |
| I'm going to get it. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| I got this. | |
| Yeah, the keeper theory. | |
| It's like, there's a, not to say that there can't be a keeper in older age or whatever. | |
| But the proportion of them are fewer as you get into older age groups. | |
| Whereas like you're dating younger, there's more keepers. | |
| There's just more people single, period, but there's more keepers in that age group. | |
| So I think actually as you start getting older, and if you're dating people your age or older, you're going to encounter actually more bullshit than you would otherwise encounter, like, you know, when you were younger dating people your age, or if you're an older person, whether you're a man or a woman, dating somebody younger. | |
| So ultimately, look, if I'm going to be dealing with this bullshit, you know, flakiness, I, bro, and it's not even just the age. | |
| Like, they can appear on paper to have their shit together. | |
| I remember I was some like chemistry, like, this was a couple years ago. | |
| I, I was, I'm, this was from a dating app, matched with this woman on a dating app. | |
| She was like early 30s, 32, 33. | |
| I think she was either a professor of chemistry at the university or she was a PhD student. | |
| I'm like, how are you? | |
| And then, like, she fucking, I don't know, we're scheduling a date. | |
| And then she's like, you know, I'm not sure if I'm actually ready to like be out there. | |
| I'm like, why the fuck are you on a dating app? | |
| Why you shouldn't you have figured that shit out before you were on the dating app? | |
| And I'm like, why are you on the date? | |
| And look, whatever. | |
| We didn't go on a date. | |
| It wasn't a big waste of my time. | |
| But I'm thinking like, if I'm dealing, I guess ultimately, final point. | |
| If I'm going to deal with that bullshit from like highly educated career women who are in their 30s, I should just date the hot 20-year-olds. | |
| Low body count, less trauma, less ran-through. | |
| That's pretty much it. | |
| Hotter. | |
| Okay, that's anybody want to respond. | |
| I would say very interesting points. | |
| I think that a few points. | |
| So with trauma, you could overcome trauma. | |
| So the whole age trauma measurement is a little, I disagree with that. | |
| Okay, really quick. | |
| I guess quick response to that. | |
| Well, point by point, I'll respond. | |
| People, yes, people can overcome trauma. | |
| Would you care to present a percentage of people who overcome their trauma? | |
| I don't have that specific statistic. | |
| I don't need the statistics. | |
| What does your gut tell you? | |
| I can't. | |
| I don't want to. | |
| Okay, here's my philosophy. | |
| Most people don't overcome their trauma. | |
| So I don't care. | |
| If they can, don't care. | |
| You're coming to me with all your bullshit. | |
| Don't care. | |
| I'm not here to be your therapist. | |
| I'm here. | |
| So if a long-term relationship partner that you were dating for a long time came to you and was like, hey, I'm really struggling with my depression or something. | |
| Like a family member just passed. | |
| How would you respond to that? | |
| I'm just curious. | |
| Like, are you saying, like, exempt or like hold on? | |
| I think when you're okay, if you're like, you've been dating a girl for two years and her mom or dad passes away, like, there's exceptions, right? | |
| Yeah, but did you just meet them? | |
| Like, are you telling me that? | |
| That's just being a good person and a good partner. | |
| If they're going through something, then you can be there for them. | |
| But I think it's fair at the onset of a relationship to be incredibly discerning. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, if even if it's something to some degree out of their control, if a girl, like both her parents, just died in a tragic train accident, that's fucking terrible. | |
| I feel terrible for her. | |
| That's awful. | |
| However, I might make a determination based off that and be like, you're going through some shit. | |
| I just met you. | |
| Maybe you got to figure that shit out. | |
| I'm not the person you should be dating. | |
| Yeah, that's fair. | |
| People. | |
| I don't know if I want to be at the onset, like I'm talking first, second, third, fourth date. | |
| I don't know if I want to be dealing with somebody. | |
| And look, some people deal with grief in different ways. | |
| But yeah, it could be an issue. | |
| But I'm talking about like, I feel like we're using a kind of a, it would be obviously traumatic to lose your parents, but I'm talking about other kinds of trauma, like either mental illness or some other thing that's like going to have potentially like your parents died for a lot of people. | |
| It's awful. | |
| You don't fully, I don't think a lot of people ever fully, obviously, it's going to be something you carry with you. | |
| It takes time. | |
| Almost everybody's parents die eventually. | |
| Everybody goes through it. | |
| Well, yes. | |
| People do, you know, recover from that. | |
| I'm talking about like other kinds of trauma, I guess. | |
| I wanted to briefly mention that I got a bachelor's in neurobiology, physiology, and behavior, and the brain changes. | |
| So there's the prefrontal cortex that reduces the activity of the amygdala, which is the emotional center of the brain. | |
| So by growing your brain in various ways, by reducing your neurotoxic load, then you could potentially, and also taking probiotics, eating organic food, tons of things, meditation, a therapist really does help. | |
| Understanding psychology helps. | |
| Like what I do is I've avoided potentially violent relationships because I recognize here are the patterns of domestic violence and I'm distancing myself from that because I don't learn how to like fight and I don't want head trauma and things like that. | |
| But I wanted to briefly mention, you mentioned, sorry, you mentioned that people are just out of control of their lives. | |
| And we have an issue, especially in the United States, with our chronic disease epidemic. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can I add something? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| On the topic we were on, I feel like this is an issue in the dating world. | |
| And I think that we should all know ourselves. | |
| Like we should all evaluate ourselves. | |
| And if you're going through some serious trauma, if you just lost your parent, if you just lost your friend, if you just feel like you're not quite emotionally ready, like that girl who you tried to plan a date with, you know, like, oh, I don't know if I'm ready. | |
| Okay, then delete a dating app. | |
| You know, like go do whatever you need to do to figure out yourself and your life. | |
| Like there's an issue in the world where people are like, oh, I'm just going to go and, you know, try to be in a relationship or try to find love, but like you're not in a place for it. | |
| You're not emotionally even able to take care of yourself. | |
| You're not emotionally able to like communicate the issues you're going through. | |
| And you shouldn't carry all of that weight onto somebody else and be like, hey, want to carry everything for me and like be with me together and be somebody that I just throw everything on and like, oh, that's what makes me happy. | |
| I think we all need to evaluate if we're even ready for something to be with somebody. | |
| And that is a big issue with even these people. | |
| Oh, I want to be on the podcast. | |
| Okay, but clearly you're not ready to be in the public eye to make the trip out. | |
| That girl's like, oh, well, nothing is there that I need. | |
| Well, this is here. | |
| This, like the entire thing, you know, like we need to evaluate and focus on what we are ready for and what we need from people. | |
| And if that's actually something that's reciprocal and it's not just something that we're going to go into and we need somebody to take care of us, we need them to carry our loads. | |
| Like, if that is you, delete your dating apps. | |
| Like, stop going out and trying to meet people. | |
| You're ruining people's lives and you're taking energy from people who actually maybe do want a relationship, who do have time, who do have emotional availability. | |
| And like the dating app should be cleared of all those people who don't have that because that is what they're for. | |
| You download it and you delete it to show up and say, hey, I'm here, I'm ready. | |
| Or I'm not. | |
| I think it's just like a lack of thinking overall. | |
| And on the topic of like the dating apps, earlier, like way earlier this year, beginning, I went on like one date with somebody that I met on Hinge and then I went on a second one. | |
| And the second one ended with him crying, like sobbing, saying how he misses his mother who lives in Florida and how he doesn't want to go out anymore because he's just so emotional. | |
| I was like, I'm dealing with a man child. | |
| I'm dealing with a mama's boy. | |
| I'm dealing with a little boy. | |
| Like, take yourself off the app. | |
| It's my mistake for even going on the apps in the first place because, like, I want to meet you in person. | |
| I don't know who you are, what you're about. | |
| That was the last date. | |
| That was the last time I used the apps. | |
| I met my current partner in person, but that was like just an accurate representation of really who's on these apps, which I believe they're there more for the instant gratification and like the oh, I can't get the like from this person. | |
| Like, oh, like, I am worthy of that. | |
| But it's like, no one ever really takes it. | |
| Like, every once in a while, no one ever takes it to like the next level. | |
| Every once in a while, you hear, oh, I met my spouse on Tinder or something like that. | |
| That's great. | |
| I know some people like that. | |
| But overall, I don't think if you're on the dating apps base take, you're looking for anything serious. | |
| That's what it seems like recently. | |
| It's just this for gratification and to like show off, you know, your best pictures and then not follow through. | |
| That's what I've seen. | |
| That's what I've heard and experienced. | |
| Maybe if someone else has a different opinion, I'm open to listening. | |
| I agree very much with what you said about people's lack of thinking. | |
| There's about half of the people in the world don't think and half the people do think. | |
| And when I was poisoned by glyphosate, the weed killer that is in our organic food in 81% of Americans' urine, according to the CDC, and RFK. | |
| Damn, bro, I step away for 30 seconds and y'all let her hijack the shit. | |
| She's talking about glyphosate. | |
| Was that unprompted? | |
| How did y'all get to fucking glyphosate? | |
| It always leads back somehow. | |
| Try to keep it on topic if you can, please. | |
| Did you hear my story? | |
| It was about. | |
| Did you hear what I said? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Was it related to what? | |
| We were on top. | |
| I'll do like a 10-second recap when she's done. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I don't need you to repeat it. | |
| But did it lead into glyphosate? | |
| Respectfully, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, but I'm open. | |
| I guess just a final thought here. | |
| I do think related to the age gap conversation. | |
| I know it was kind of a segue from like, those are obviously not women I'm dating or have an interest in dating, but it is kind of like it is behavior that I see, even from adults, I guess you could say, that I think, and look, men do this too. | |
| Men will flake on women. | |
| Although I do think it is the case that I think in a dating context, women flake more than men do. | |
| I mean, my own experience, and this, by the way, all these experiences I would cite to are before the podcast. | |
| So there's not some cope about, oh, well, Brian, they didn't know about your toxic podcast. | |
| So they, you know, they agreed to a date and then they looked you up and then they discovered your toxic podcast. | |
| No, it was well before I started being toxic online or whatever. | |
| So I can't tell you the number of experiences. | |
| I think from like 2021 till I started the podcast, there was like 2019 to 2022. | |
| I was doing a lot of online dating and I was dating women older than me. | |
| I was dating women my age. | |
| So at the time, this would be between the age of like 30, 32, 33. | |
| I was dating women my age, really not dating younger, like 25 to 35 was probably the average range or whatever. | |
| And I can't, like, the amount of professional, like women who had good careers, who seemed to have their life together, who were, you know, in their mid to late 20s, early 30s, some even older, who would, who would like be inconsiderate in terms of just kind of flaking last minute. | |
| I had, luckily, I mean, I've heard some not horror stories, but I've heard from other guys, they'll just get stood up. | |
| That only, I think that happened to me once, luckily. | |
| But like the women would be obscenely late all the time. | |
| And, you know, I try to give a bit of a grace. | |
| I think sometimes things can happen or whatever. | |
| But it did make me think that this, there is this related to the age gap convo. | |
| There's this huge idea that is being this idea that younger women, so women perhaps say in their early 20s or even 19, 20, 21, 22, are these completely chaotic, immature, unreliable, immature, whatever. | |
| And then, you know, you have late 20s, early 30-year-old women who are the paragon of maturity. | |
| And it's just not the case. | |
| I had my time wasted so much by women in their late 20s, early 30s. | |
| And I was like, finally, I just came to this conclusion. | |
| Not to say that I wouldn't date a woman in her 30s. | |
| No, that's not the case at all. | |
| But I did come to the conclusion that I at least reject this idea that young women are immature and older women are mature. | |
| It's total bullshit. | |
| Total bullshit. | |
| And it's actually a really, I think, a good justification for might as well just date younger because you're going to encounter the same kind of bullshit with younger women as you will with older women. | |
| So you might as well date hotter, less trauma, less body count. | |
| Okay, anyways, moving on. | |
| We need to get everybody's relationship status. | |
| A little bit delayed on that. | |
| What's your relationship status? | |
| I'm in a relationship. | |
| All right, for how long? | |
| We've been dating for, I think, 11 months. | |
| And then we've been official for going on seven months. | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| This one. | |
| This one, okay. | |
| Which is only like one of two. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Relationship status? | |
| Single. | |
| How long have you been single for? | |
| I've been single for like two and a half, maybe three years. | |
| Three years? | |
| Okay, longest relationship? | |
| Like two years. | |
| Is that the one that ended three years ago? | |
| No, that one was just a year. | |
| One year. | |
| Okay. | |
| The most recent one, the one year, who broke up with who? | |
| I broke up with him on Christmas, actually, of the year. | |
| Any reason why? | |
| He was just, well, there was a lot of reasons. | |
| Yeah, he was a drug addict, and it slowly showed throughout our relationship. | |
| Like, you know, he was a functioning drug addict, and it slowly started to show itself. | |
| And he went from being like a very calm, level-headed person to being like really angry and aggressive. | |
| Sure. | |
| And then the two-year relationship, who broke up with who? | |
| I broke up with him. | |
| Any reason? | |
| Drugs also? | |
| No, he was just old. | |
| Like, that was my first and only open relationship. | |
| He was a lot older than me. | |
| Like when we met, I was 20. | |
| He was like 37. | |
| And we dated for a couple of years and he was just when we first met, he was like, oh, I, you know, I want to be open and still see other people. | |
| And I was like, yeah, of course, I'm super young. | |
| I want that too, you know? | |
| And then after like a year and a half or so, he would have these convos like, oh, I want to just be with you. | |
| I want to just be with you. | |
| Like, it's going to just be us, you know? | |
| And then, yeah, we would have like a really fun night or we would go on vacation somewhere or have some nice trip. | |
| And then suddenly he would be telling me like about other girls. | |
| Okay. | |
| Relationship status? | |
| I'm currently single. | |
| How long have you been single for? | |
| About three years. | |
| Three years? | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| Four years. | |
| Is that the one that ended three years ago? | |
| Yes. | |
| Who broke up with who? | |
| It was a mutual breakup. | |
| Mutual breakup. | |
| Okay. | |
| So for the past three years, nothing? | |
| I've been dating here and there, but nothing has been official. | |
| In the past three years, the longest period of time you've seen a guy? | |
| Like, have you had a situationship? | |
| Two, three, four, five months? | |
| Maybe a situationship, but it wasn't that long. | |
| Maybe three months. | |
| Okay, and then for you, single for three years. | |
| I've had a couple situationships. | |
| How long? | |
| One was like three months, one was like six months. | |
| Probably like four months. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Relationship status? | |
| I'm currently single. | |
| All right. | |
| For how long? | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| For about three years now. | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| A year. | |
| Is that the one that ended three years ago? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Who broke up with who? | |
| He broke up with me. | |
| Single for three years? | |
| Anything in that three-year period? | |
| Yeah, the rebound, and then the one you try again that doesn't work out. | |
| The rebound. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Single. | |
| How long have you been single for? | |
| Maybe like two years now. | |
| Two years. | |
| Okay. | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| Five years. | |
| Five years. | |
| Is that the one that ended two years ago? | |
| No, that one was like maybe like over three years. | |
| Three years ago? | |
| Or the most recent relationship? | |
| What was three years? | |
| Three years. | |
| Okay, the three-year one who broke up with who? | |
| I broke up with both. | |
| You broke up with both? | |
| Okay. | |
| Any particular reason? | |
| Things just weren't working out. | |
| Things just weren't working out. | |
| Okay. | |
| What does that mean? | |
| Were they cheating on you? | |
| The first one turned out to be like a monster. | |
| He was a horrible person, and I didn't know until like he became really until well, we moved into with like one another like after a while, like maybe for like our fifth year. | |
| I was really young. | |
| I was probably like 20 at the time. | |
| Wait, the fifth year? | |
| The five-year relationship, the first relationship. | |
| He only revealed himself as a monster in the fifth year? | |
| Yeah, like the fifth year. | |
| So the first four years were they were okay. | |
| They were like good, yeah. | |
| And then the last year he became extremely like aggressive. | |
| I think we spent a lot of time with each other and he just didn't really know how to process his emotions. | |
| So he just became extremely like aggressive and like he just didn't really know how to like handle his emotions and stuff. | |
| Did something happen in his life? | |
| Like a like a major event or a trauma? | |
| I think he like experienced like domestic violence in like his household. | |
| And I think that's what made him like super like crazy. | |
| Oh, so was there DV in your relationship? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| But then there was one day that he like punched me in the face so that I broke up with him. | |
| Well, that's because I was like, that was David. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So it was like, okay, this is crazy. | |
| I have to leave. | |
| Like he, like on the side of the face, the front of the face? | |
| Like on like the side of the face. | |
| Like he probably got like the left side of my face, the right side. | |
| Like it was just one punch. | |
| It was one like hard punch. | |
| It was crazy. | |
| Yikes. | |
| Well, okay, that's, I mean, yeah, completely warrants, completely warrants the breakup. | |
| That's completely unacceptable. | |
| Okay. | |
| But you said he was also aggressive too, so he would like to be able to get away from it. | |
| He was like slowly becoming aggressive and like yelling and like he was like slowly becoming aggressive. | |
| By the way, you don't have to repeat it. | |
| Oh. | |
| And was like yelling and stuff. | |
| And then eventually one day, I guess he just like snapped. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Damn, that's tough, too. | |
| It was a lot. | |
| We were in a relationship for five years. | |
| And then I moved in with him. | |
| We were so young. | |
| I think we met each other at like 16. | |
| Oh, so you guys met in high school? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then same age, yeah. | |
| And then I broke up when we were like, I was like 20. | |
| That's brutal, though. | |
| Because I feel like a lot of red flags, you know, maybe there's like three months, six months. | |
| People can hide them a little bit. | |
| No, it was multiple years. | |
| It was so crazy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Now I feel like I can't really trust people. | |
| I'm like, you never really know what happens behind closed doors. | |
| I mean, it's definitely crazy. | |
| Yeah, what people are capable of. | |
| Like you think you know somebody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then to be in a five-year relationship. | |
| And I mean, I'm assuming maybe prior to that, there might have been, you know, people have arguments or disagreements or whatever. | |
| But then like, imagine just spending essentially almost wasting. | |
| I mean, maybe you don't view it that way. | |
| But like only in the fourth or fifth year of a relationship for that level, that to materialize, that's that's both scary and sucky. | |
| What about you? | |
| I've been single since February and I observe domestic violence and kind of notice the patterns. | |
| And so I noticed the patterns in my last relationship where he started becoming more controlling. | |
| And so God also spoke to him is my understanding. | |
| And exactly the prayer I was asking for. | |
| And my boyfriend at the time grabbed my arm and was really frustrated that I was saying like, hey, so-and-so's friends. | |
| God also spoke to him. | |
| And he was just like, stop saying that. | |
| And that the, you said he grabbed your arm? | |
| Is that the, you said you were in a DV, you observed, I'm a bit confused with the phrasing, but you observed domestic violence. | |
| the domestic violence you're referring to as he grabbed your arm there's or was he also like was there more There's domestic violence that I've observed in my childhood. | |
| No, but you said your most recent, how long were you dating the guy most recently? | |
| About two years. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is that your longest relationship? | |
| The other one was about two years. | |
| I had like two long distance relationships, yeah. | |
| Or long term, I mean. | |
| Long term. | |
| Okay. | |
| But the most recent one was he was violent domestically, I guess. | |
| Well, he was showing the early signs of domestic violence. | |
| So I was like, and then also he was drinking a lot. | |
| Okay. | |
| And the things I would hear he said, I was like, and then also I was. | |
| You said he like he grabbed your arm, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Was there more than that, or was that just... | |
| He wanted me to stop talking about God speaking to me. | |
| He wanted me to take medication. | |
| There was just a lot of things that I was. | |
| But I'm asking specifically about domestic violence. | |
| Those things you just listed, while you might object to them, wouldn't fall under the purview of domestic violence. | |
| They're very early signs, and the reason why I found that out. | |
| I don't think your boyfriend saying, while you might find it objectionable, your boyfriend saying, don't talk about these things, that's not domestic violence. | |
| It's not. | |
| Him grabbing you could be categorized as domestic violence, though. | |
| So it wasn't like so serious. | |
| It was just like, I'm seeing the trickle down of like, okay, this can become domestic violence if I stay with him. | |
| Okay, I see. | |
| And the reason why I knew that is because I was listening to a woman that went to Harvard, and she was talking about how she dated another Harvard student, and she experienced domestic violence that was so extreme that the guy was like pointing it, like beating her up, pointing a gun to her head. | |
| Like the last step of domestic violence is death, but it can stop. | |
| You can reverse the trauma. | |
| You can reverse PDSD. | |
| There's tons of things for veterans and all sorts of things. | |
| Yes. | |
| So I acknowledge that, you know, domestic violence can be an escalation over time. | |
| You've been single for since February, well, just 10 months or whatever. | |
| Has there been any guys in the picture in the past 10 months? | |
| No, because I'm focused on reading the Bible and no rebounds. | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Have you been celibate? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm in the relationship for five years, and it's my longest. | |
| Has he proposed or? | |
| No. | |
| Well, you said it's at the store. | |
| You said it's not smart for guys to get married, so maybe he's just a smart guy like you. | |
| So have you told him you don't want to get married? | |
| I don't want to. | |
| Wait, wait, hold on. | |
| I got to respond to this. | |
| Yeah, so myself, I don't want to get married. | |
| I think that there are certain risks as it relates to marriage. | |
| However, you're a Christian, and he's a Christian, right? | |
| So I don't have objections for those who are religious. | |
| Well, I guess I should clarify. | |
| I don't reject to the religious motivations for marriage. | |
| Now, even if you are religious, regardless of whether you're religious or not, there are still risks, whether you're agnostic, whether you're Muslim, whether you're a Christian, whatever. | |
| There's still risks regardless. | |
| But it makes sense to me, at least, if you're a Christian, the motivation for wanting to get married and the justification thereof. | |
| So I don't think I'm going to, you know, this idea that because I say I dislike marriage, I don't know what that has to do with your relationship. | |
| Right. | |
| Unless he's a big fan of the show or something. | |
| I would never want to push a man into something that he's not fully ready for. | |
| And I want him to be ready. | |
| And when the time comes, it will. | |
| We met at a very young age. | |
| So when you're 16, 17, you're not often thinking about the bigger picture and what you want your life to look like and all of your life goals and what you want to do. | |
| You're kind of just more focused on, I like this person, let's date. | |
| It's not really that deep at that age. | |
| But when you start to get older, like into your 20s, you start to thinking, you start to think about what you want your life to look like. | |
| So that's what we're, that's a stage that we're at right now. | |
| Sure, and I do acknowledge that the age is obviously a factor here. | |
| Although, in terms of the length of your relationship, I would, it is a bit of a question mark. | |
| Typically a five-year relationship, especially one where you're both practicing Christians, it does raise a bit of an eyebrow that they're, I'm not, at least, you know, a proposal, an engage. | |
| Hey, look, I don't know. | |
| I could be off base, but I feel like a lot of women, if they've been dating, and look, I'm going to because you're young, there's obviously a lot of leeway here. | |
| But I think, for example, a woman who was, say, 30, and now she's 35, and she's been dating a guy for five years, wouldn't you be like, whoa, where's that? | |
| Where is the age? | |
| I know I have a plan for my life, and I have an age and a time by which I would like to. | |
| Be straight with the mic. | |
| Just go ahead. | |
| The age that I would like to settle down and have children by. | |
| So I know all that stuff in my head. | |
| I would not be 30 meeting a guy and then waiting five years for a proposal. | |
| It's all about the age. | |
| The age is the main factor here. | |
| Alina, give a salute to Pasty George. | |
| In this camera. | |
| Yo, what's up, Pasty George? | |
| Good to see you in the chat, man. | |
| Good to see you. | |
| I'm going to have you read two chats here. | |
| We have Juicy, Juicy Eric. | |
| I'm not. | |
| All right, go ahead. | |
| For chair one, thank you for clarifying. | |
| For chair six, you're not a true Christian. | |
| You actually insult them. | |
| Following ideologies go against the Bible itself. | |
| You're insane and need to be in 24-7 care. | |
| Response? | |
| Do you want to respond, chair one and six? | |
| What do you disagree with exactly? | |
| I don't understand. | |
| I do want to say that I am ignorant about the Old Testament. | |
| I've read the New Testament. | |
| And I also want to say that I've been an atheist and agnostic. | |
| So I don't, I'm not an expert in the Bible by any means. | |
| So I'm sorry to offend you. | |
| I just want to talk about what I know basically based on the evidence that I know. | |
| So that's all. | |
| So I have a comment. | |
| I did my senior thesis when I was 18 on the spiritual realm and demons and angels and things like that. | |
| And it's always been a topic that's fascinated me. | |
| And I really wanted to see like what constitutes blasphemy? | |
| What constitutes somebody being a false prophet? | |
| What constitutes a false leader in Christianity? | |
| And what I came across was that Hollywood, A, because I know you mentioned the conjuring, I heavily criticize the conjuring in my senior thesis, actually incorrectly portrays a lot of the instances, obviously because it's Hollywood. | |
| More or less, almost to mock what real, what real prophets and what you like to say, exorcists do when they're taking like a spirit out of a person or something like that. | |
| There is no addition to Christianity other than what is in the Bible. | |
| And in Leviticus, it actually says, I'm pretty sure it's Leviticus, which is Old Testament, which I know you said you haven't read. | |
| I read part of it. | |
| Okay, yeah, yeah. | |
| There's a spot that says, don't quote me on this. | |
| I don't remember it fully. | |
| It says that we should not engage with necromancers or the spirits of the people who claim to be mediums. | |
| And in the conjuring series, Ed and Lorraine Warren were actually historically the first Catholic exorcists to wait. | |
| Okay, just wrap it up, please. | |
| This is the same thing. | |
| To be combined, they were the first ones to be acknowledged by the Catholic Church. | |
| And they worked with the Catholic Church. | |
| But she claimed to be a spirit medium. | |
| What does that tell you? | |
| That's direct contradiction to the Old Testament. | |
| I believe that the Bible has all we need to know about Christianity. | |
| No chakras, no Zen, no Buddha. | |
| I have, so again, like I'm not an expert in the Bible or religion, but I have heard that people say that you're not supposed to try to contact the dead, which is not something I try to do. | |
| I just feel like there is something trying to contact me potentially. | |
| Couldn't it be the manifestation of your schizophrenia? | |
| Well, I want to challenge the whole healthcare system, but how is that? | |
| Wait, what? | |
| What does that have to do with what I just said? | |
| It's our car's extended warranty. | |
| You have a definition of schizophrenia from medical doctors, and I challenge the healthcare system on their definitions of things. | |
| Some things are just not taught in medical school. | |
| Okay, I'm just saying, I think part of the reason you could, and like from a loving point of view, that you could be having like all these stuff you're dealing with is because you are channeling with the chakra stuff, and all that is demon stuff. | |
| So it's like, it's so easy for them to get a hold of you. | |
| What? | |
| Okay. | |
| How about this? | |
| If it is the case, though, that the chakra shit, the Buddha shit, whatever, is incompatible with Christianity. | |
| Like, let's assume that's the case, right? | |
| Are you willing to make a commitment right here, right now on the whatever podcast, that you completely reject the chakra shit? | |
| I reject things that Jesus Christ would reject. | |
| So if it is the case that Jesus Christ would reject chakra, blah, blah, blah, whatever, all that stuff, would you reject it? | |
| Hypothetically, I would reject what Jesus Christ rejects if that includes those things. | |
| I just am curious as to why certain religions and beliefs and evidence are ignored. | |
| Okay, but you're basing your beliefs off Jesus Christ, which is Jesus Christ is only existent in one religion. | |
| Read this. | |
| Wife and I, 16-year-age gap. | |
| I'm 42. | |
| She's 27. | |
| Best relationship we've ever had. | |
| I work and provide and she's loyal, cooks, cleans, and supports. | |
| Was a Hooter's girl. | |
| I definitely lucked out. | |
| Was a Hooter's girl. | |
| I see nothing wrong with that. | |
| I think he won, and I think she also won. | |
| Yo, Shannon Lacey, thank you for your message, man. | |
| Wait, 16-year age gap, 42. | |
| She's 27. | |
| How long y'all been together? | |
| That's what I'm curious about. | |
| Like, what was the age gap? | |
| Like, or, well, were you 35 and she was 20? | |
| What was the gap? | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Really appreciate your message. | |
| All right. | |
| Has anybody here have a roster starting with you, since you're single? | |
| Do you have a roster? | |
| Is that like people I'm sleeping with right now? | |
| What is the roster? | |
| People I'm dating? | |
| It could include, yes, it could include people you're sleeping with, but it could also just be people who you're dating, I guess. | |
| I just started going on a couple of dates. | |
| I've gone on two dates with one guy and three dates with another guy in the last two weeks. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Do you have a roster? | |
| I wouldn't call it a roster. | |
| I would say that I'm weighing my options, but I am dating. | |
| How many people are in the picture right now? | |
| Two. | |
| Two. | |
| And then at any point in your entire life, you've had rosters at previous points, maybe? | |
| No. | |
| Just now, okay. | |
| And what about you? | |
| You've had a roster at previous points? | |
| I prefer to date like one-on-one. | |
| I'm a very big, if my heart is with someone, I'm all in. | |
| Even if they're not, that's just how I am. | |
| Have you ever had a roster? | |
| No, I don't understand what this really means. | |
| Like seeing, like going on dates more with more than one person at a time. | |
| Yeah, like basically dating multiple people, whether or not you're having sex with them. | |
| I wasn't to be of conversation. | |
| And to A, I was, there was like a time when I had like a like one date with one person at the beginning of the month. | |
| It didn't work. | |
| And I tried with somebody else later, but never like. | |
| Yeah, that's fine. | |
| Have you ever had a roster? | |
| Like dating multiple people at the same time? | |
| BC TV, yeah. | |
| The what? | |
| BC? | |
| Before Christ. | |
| Oh, BC. | |
| Before Christ. | |
| How big was the roster? | |
| Oh, no, they just kept coming. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Estimate? | |
| Yeah, 10. | |
| 20? | |
| Oh, no, no, no. | |
| 15? | |
| No, probably 10. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Ever had a roster? | |
| I don't think so. | |
| I mean, I've like dated like people, you know, like at the same time. | |
| But your friend is. | |
| Oh my god, you're your friend was like dated people at the same time, but like. | |
| Your friend was squinting at you, which would indicate a disbelief in what you're saying. | |
| So, okay, you've dated multiple people at the same time, though. | |
| Yeah, like going on dates and like getting to know like other people. | |
| Like at the same time, yeah, I've done that. | |
| Like hooking up with hooking up at the same time as other people. | |
| I mean, I feel like it was like one month, this person, next month, that person. | |
| Oh, this person's gone. | |
| Let's go back to this person. | |
| Okay, sure. | |
| You know? | |
| All right. | |
| Have you ever had a roster? | |
| Before Christ. | |
| How big was the roster? | |
| How big was it? | |
| I'm going to have to pass for my family's sake. | |
| Well, I mean, there's not an implication that you were sleeping with them necessarily. | |
| Just a roster could just be, hey, I'm dating. | |
| You know, you're dating Billy, Bob, and Brad. | |
| It's okay. | |
| I'm a waste of time on this question, Brian. | |
| Don't worry about it. | |
| Alina, ever had a roster? | |
| No, I think almost every single woman has a roster because isn't it just people who you could be in a relationship with? | |
| People that you have people that are your options. | |
| People who give you romantic attention. | |
| You don't even have to necessarily give it back. | |
| But they are still an option for you. | |
| Could be. | |
| Could be. | |
| Okay. | |
| I feel like on your roster is like the people you are interested in, you know, like that you would wake up and text, hey, let's hang out Friday. | |
| Or like that you would want to go on a date with right now. | |
| Not every guy in your DMs. | |
| Because if that's my roster, I have a really big one. | |
| But like it's not. | |
| I wouldn't even, I wouldn't ever want to make plans with any of those people. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What's your name, by the way? | |
| Amelia. | |
| Or Leah, for sure. | |
| Okay, for some reason I wrote Barbie. | |
| That's okay. | |
| Amelia. | |
| My clients call me Barbie. | |
| Because that's your Instagram or whatever. | |
| So you met your current partner at a rave. | |
| You don't normally go out to men, but God told you to go over to him and get his Instagram. | |
| Yeah, period. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you're Catholic. | |
| Is that correct? | |
| I don't identify as Catholic or Christian, but a combination somewhere between the two because I was raised between the Catholic Church, Mass, and I was raised also in Protestant. | |
| It kind of varied because my father was Catholic German. | |
| My mom was a little bit more interested in the Protestant faith. | |
| So I meet somewhere in the middle. | |
| I take my relationship with God and I don't follow a church. | |
| I follow Christ. | |
| Okay, and because, yeah, in your notes, you said that you're a Christian Catholic, you're a registered Republican voter, you hold many conservative beliefs, although you no longer vote or engage in most politics due to reasons. | |
| Yeah, so a family member of mine. | |
| Well, we don't need to get into the reasons, but you did write that you were a Christian Catholic. | |
| That's correct. | |
| So you're somewhere between Christian and Catholic? | |
| Yes, I hold practices from both ends. | |
| I see. | |
| Okay. | |
| By the way, a question for the chat. | |
| For the chat, I'm going to prompt you on something. | |
| I just noticed this. | |
| Her little cat ears or whatever, they have bells on them. | |
| And I am detecting a bit of a noise. | |
| Chat, do you have you guys been hearing it? | |
| And is it bad on the audio or is it okay? | |
| No, it's okay. | |
| I think it's probably okay. | |
| Chat, are you guys hearing the jingling from your ears? | |
| Reply. | |
| It's annoying. | |
| So can you keep the caviars on but take off the I can't do that, but I'll be more careful. | |
| Okay, well, I mean, if it continues, we'll have to you'll have to take them off. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, Nick, can you monitor? | |
| Because I'm going to forget. | |
| I'm a bit confused, though, on the Catholic thing. | |
| So, typically it raves, and you say you're Christian. | |
| You do write, you believe in freedom for a woman to dress however she wants, whether in a relationship or not. | |
| The right man will accept her the way she is. | |
| You also write, you are covered in tattoos. | |
| You believe it makes you more attractive. | |
| Well, that's a different topic, but again, I'm not a theologian, but I do believe in the Christian doctrine that there are some prescriptions as it relates to how you present yourself to the world as a Christian. | |
| Now, it might not specifically say you shouldn't wear, you know, a thong. | |
| It probably doesn't, that language didn't exist back then. | |
| But I think it provided general guidance on how Christians are to conduct themselves. | |
| I agree. | |
| And so, I guess being identifying as a Christian and a Catholic, don't you think this is a bit conflicting? | |
| So, I first want to clarify because the first thing people hear, they think rave is drugs. | |
| I am completely sober from all of that. | |
| I don't participate. | |
| I go for the music and I like to meet new friends there. | |
| B, I think that the way you dress is situational based on where you're going. | |
| Are you going to be respectful in the space? | |
| Is what you're wearing appropriate for church? | |
| Obviously, I wouldn't wear a skirt that I would wear to a rave to church. | |
| I think it's very, you got to think about where you're going. | |
| You know, use your head. | |
| There's a like when it comes to okay, like modesty, period. | |
| The Bible says all sin is equal. | |
| I know it might not be the best decision, you know, in the realm of like the Catholic Christian thing, but I pick my poison. | |
| I enjoy doing costumes, not to the point where I'm naked, obviously. | |
| Like, come on now, but it's fun to do costumes. | |
| I do different costumes. | |
| And well, it's also fun to participate in various sins, but if you're a Christian or Catholic, you don't or attempt not to. | |
| Yeah, no, that's for sure. | |
| Um, I've had this discussion so many times. | |
| I believe that the way that I present myself actually opens up a bigger door for conversation when I express that I'm also Christian Catholic. | |
| Because the amount of times people have come to me and say, I thought you were a Satanist. | |
| I thought you were a devil worshiper. | |
| You know, I used to be way, way goth back in the day. | |
| My mom would come in when I was a kid, because this is this is, you know, not a phase. | |
| She would come and draw crosses on my wall because she thought that I was like possessed or something. | |
| But the amount of conversations that I've had that have sparked from the way that I look and also me being like full of faith at the same time, I believe has brought more people to Christ than if I didn't look this way because it's a conversation starter. | |
| It is. | |
| What are you doing at a rave? | |
| Oh, do you need some water? | |
| Do you need like a prayer or a hug? | |
| Like, I'm also a medical professional. | |
| You can help people if they're overdosing. | |
| It gives up whole, who else is in that space, an alternative space doing the same thing? | |
| I'm just hearing a lot of cope and justification. | |
| You got to make this life livable. | |
| That's what I like to do. | |
| So when you go to these raves, I'm almost wondering if it'd just be helpful to like pull up your, maybe we just like pull up your Instagram just so we have an example of kind of what it is. | |
| But can you describe your outfits when you, even if it's not for a rave, but I imagine you kind of do dress a bit more revealing, not for a rave, I guess. | |
| I'm sorry, you're saying like in general, I wear scrubs every day to work. | |
| No, I mean, I'm assuming you're not wearing like a thong to your phlebotomy job. | |
| I'm talking about when you go to events, when you go to raves, you are wearing pretty revealing clothing. | |
| Is that fair to say? | |
| Yeah, that's ethnic. | |
| I'm not disagreeing with that. | |
| Okay. | |
| We'll just pull up your Instagram really quick. | |
| By the way, do you want to just take it yourself? | |
| Yeah, it's jingling. | |
| Is it that bad? | |
| It's jingling. | |
| I'm sorry, guys. | |
| Okay, that's fine. | |
| Okay. | |
| Ready for the Instagram? | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Scroll down, scroll down, scroll down. | |
| Just go. | |
| It's lower. | |
| All right. | |
| Pause. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, like, that's you. | |
| I mean, click on the one where she's in, like, the cop costume or whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Tab through those. | |
| The arrow. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like, is this for a rave? | |
| Yeah, that was for hard summer. | |
| Okay, exile that. | |
| And then it's like see-through top with the nipples covered or whatever. | |
| You're wearing like a pasty, I guess. | |
| Ass visible through the mesh. | |
| Scroll down. | |
| Bikini photo. | |
| Don't click unless I tell you. | |
| Scroll down. | |
| Bikini photos, whatever. | |
| Okay, so, and you don't do, you don't do OnlyFans, correct? | |
| I never have and I never will. | |
| Okay. | |
| Look, I don't really care if girls dress like this, but my confusion is, for example, if I was talking to a vegetarian and I saw them eating a hot dog, I don't, if people want to eat hot dogs, I'm totally fine with that. | |
| But if you tell me you're a vegetarian or you tell me you're vegan and I see you eating a juicy steak, I'm kind of like fine with eating steaks, but it's kind of confusing. | |
| So you say you're a Christian, you say you're a Catholic. | |
| I heard all the kind of the cope and the justifications. | |
| But again, I don't really, I personally, look, I have a preference for my own girlfriend dressing modestly. | |
| That's like whatever. | |
| I don't really care all that much if women are posting their straps or whatever. | |
| It's probably better they don't. | |
| Probably better they dress modestly, whatever. | |
| But like going to these raves, and I do understand that in these rave environments, yes, it is common for women to dress super revealing, to basically be in lingerie, to be almost naked. | |
| I understand that in that environment, that's kind of normal. | |
| Although I don't think it would be like weird for you to show up to a rave in, you know, dressed a bit more covered up. | |
| It's not, and I have. | |
| But my confusion here is you claim to be, and it's in your own notes, not just that the fact that you're a Christian Catholic. | |
| You say that, hold on, where is it? | |
| You said you believe in freedom for women to dress however she wants, whether she's in a relationship or not. | |
| The right man will accept her the way she is. | |
| This is in contravention completely contradictory to Christianity. | |
| Wait, I have a rebuttal first because I don't want you to walk over me with my response to the first part. | |
| Is that if we apply that same logic of because you dress this way, you don't look Christian, you can say the same thing about a person who identifies as Christian and cusses in front of regular people. | |
| You can apply the same thing. | |
| It's there's all sin is equal. | |
| How many times have you heard, oh, you're a Christian, but you're saying that? | |
| Look, I don't know about this all sin is equal thing. | |
| It's in the Bible. | |
| I don't know what the actual, you know, if it is a sin to curse, that that is in equal severity to unjustified, well, I guess murder would imply it's unjustified or whatever. | |
| Well, it says there's no greater sin than to reject the Lord thy God. | |
| Okay, great. | |
| In any case, though, you pointing out that all sin is equal, so you are acknowledging that you are sinning. | |
| I think to a certain extent, definitely. | |
| But it's my self-expression. | |
| I enjoy it. | |
| There's a line in. | |
| So just to be clear, your self-expression supersedes Christian doctrine. | |
| I think it goes by like what does what does a person, who is perceiving me, you know, because most of my outfits, I don't really think are like crazy. | |
| Do you think God wants you to be like dressing revealing? | |
| I don't think he minds because I'm with a partner. | |
| And the partner doesn't mind. | |
| Mind wouldn't matter. | |
| I don't see how you're. | |
| I'm not seeking attention from nobody. | |
| But it doesn't matter. | |
| I don't see how your relationship status matters at all. | |
| In fact, perhaps it could be the case that you might argue it might even be worse that you're in a relationship. | |
| But whether you're single or in a relationship, what bearing would that have on, you know, do you really, do you think God wants you to dress revealing? | |
| Didn't they say that Jesus died for our sins, right? | |
| So what would the point of life on earth be if people weren't able to live like that? | |
| So does it mean nothing to be a Christian then? | |
| Well, the book says this, but I'm just going to continue willfully sinning. | |
| My understanding is part of being a Christian is Christians are humans. | |
| Christians make mistakes. | |
| However, in her case, she's in defiance, clear defiance of Christian doctrine. | |
| So it's like, it's one thing to be like, whoopsie, I accidentally did this, and then take proactive steps to correct it. | |
| She's in active defiance and she's going to continue a behavior which she seems to acknowledge is sinful. | |
| Okay, I want to say real quick. | |
| So I think, because, you know, only God knows the heart. | |
| And at the end of the day, only God can convict you. | |
| So when he's ready for you to stop going to the raves and all that, he will stop you. | |
| And for all we know, you have been reaching people going to the raves. | |
| Who cares? | |
| Who cares if she's reaching people? | |
| That's all that matters. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| No, that's not all that matters. | |
| Who cares if she's reaching people? | |
| And by the way, it's not a criticism necessarily of going to the raves. | |
| I don't think there's an issue with going to the raves necessarily, unless a Christian in the chat wants to correct me. | |
| It's the dress that she's wearing at these raves. | |
| Like it's not, I don't think it's not against Christianity. | |
| A rave is essentially a music concert festival. | |
| Yeah, like I said, I don't do none of the drugs. | |
| No, no issue with that. | |
| No issue with the rave. | |
| It's your dress. | |
| There's a lot worse. | |
| And I'm going to say, I don't want to look like that. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Look like what? | |
| To the extent that some people go with like sheer stuff, stuff where it's just like that belongs on a website, not here in front of, you know, 18-year-olds at the rave. | |
| Those photos we were looking at, it's pretty revealing. | |
| I don't consider it to the extent where I would be like, oh my God, I need to delete that. | |
| And that's my personal stance. | |
| I mean, so are you, do you think it's modest to be a different person? | |
| Is it different than going to the beach in a bikini? | |
| I think that's a bit of a different context, I would say. | |
| Is it the same clothes? | |
| Well, I believe that Christians might have a strong opinion on women who wear bikinis, even. | |
| 100%. | |
| And I've dated people like that. | |
| It's not pleasant. | |
| But tell you what, I'm going to go ahead and concede, and I'm going to say I don't know about the bikini component. | |
| However, let's get right back to the conversation about wearing essentially lingerie at the rave. | |
| Yeah, do you want to continue? | |
| So, I mean, again, how do you reconcile being a Christian? | |
| And I do believe there are prescriptions under Christianity. | |
| Here, I just pulled it up. | |
| One Timothy, women adorn themselves in modest apparel with shamefacedness and sobriety. | |
| Adorn, women, adorn yourselves in modest apparel. | |
| Do you think that the apparel you're wearing to the raves is modest? | |
| No, because it's not supposed to be. | |
| But when I go to church, when I'm with my family, sure, I believe you. | |
| I believe you. | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| I believe you that you, when you go to church, you're not wearing your rave attire. | |
| I totally believe you that when you go to church, you dress modestly. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm still stuck on the rave attire. | |
| I feel like we should refer back to the beginning when she was saying that she takes some ideologies from Christianity, some from Catholicism. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Catholicism is Christianity. | |
| They're different. | |
| They're different religions. | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| They're classified as different religions. | |
| Catholicism is a denomination of Christianity. | |
| Right, so she has pieces that she takes inspiration from because she grew up that way. | |
| Hold on. | |
| If you're a Christian, I don't care if you're Presbyterian, I don't care if you're Catholic, I don't care if you're Orthodox. | |
| My understanding, this is scripture. | |
| But then she says, Can Scripture be wrong? | |
| But she said after that. | |
| Can scripture be wrong? | |
| Is God's word wrong? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, so what is there to argue about? | |
| And I want to also say that if you said 1 Timothy, that's New Testament. | |
| Oh, so it should especially apply to you because Christians don't. | |
| I wasn't that talking. | |
| But hold on. | |
| Christians don't adhere to the Old Testament. | |
| That's not true. | |
| Well, okay, hold on. | |
| Well, okay, I could be wrong on that. | |
| Again, I'm not a Christian theologian, but Christians refer to the New Testament. | |
| I guess. | |
| And the Old Testament. | |
| Maybe I was wrong on that. | |
| Perhaps I was wrong. | |
| I don't know. | |
| My understanding was that the New Testament is the primary source of guidance for Christians. | |
| But I guess you can also, I don't know. | |
| But in the New Testament, which we are talking about, or are you saying you reject the New Testament? | |
| No, I was just making a point that 1 Timothy is in the New Testament. | |
| Which you follow. | |
| Yes, and I also follow parts of the Old Testament, but in Christian theology, it's like the old laws of like the Jews were like washed away with like Jesus' blood when he came, which was in the New Testament in Matthew. | |
| But I think that also over time, this is not a justification for my choice of sin or whatever. | |
| Over time, the Bible has been translated so many times that we don't really know what it might have been modest back then. | |
| There's room for error. | |
| Also, if we're talking about the crazy justification, by the way, is this the hill you're going to die on as a Christian? | |
| I want to keep dressing revealing. | |
| Like, I could understand, like, okay, you probably, I don't know. | |
| I feel like it's an interesting hill to die on. | |
| Like, I don't know, you probably engage in premarital sex. | |
| There's probably other things you do, but it seems like a really weird hill to die on. | |
| Well, I'm going to like, what is it, sola scriptura? | |
| I'm going to be the arbiter just from well, actually. | |
| No, sorry, I misspoke. | |
| I don't think it would be, this is not under the guise of sola scriptura, singularly from scripture, I guess. | |
| But you're saying, you're saying that the Bible has been mistranslated as it relates to Timothy. | |
| No, sir. | |
| I'm saying it could have possibly switched over time. | |
| Like there's been words and things. | |
| Wait, I'm almost finished. | |
| Okay, I'll let you know. | |
| Also, that it was a different time when it was written. | |
| I think modesty and what's acceptable and not has changed a drastic amount depending on who you're asking, what translation of the Bible you're reading. | |
| But at minimum, we know, yes, that's what God wants. | |
| Am I 100% fully adhering to that? | |
| No. | |
| Am I convicted for what I wear? | |
| No, because I don't see it as that drastic and it's situational for where I'm going and what I'm doing. | |
| But it occurs to me that the way you dress is something that you have really immediate control over. | |
| So you're in willful defiance of scripture, of God's word. | |
| I guess I understand that you think it's kind of a small thing and it's minimal. | |
| But I guess if it's ultimately up to you what you pick and choose, what does Christianity even mean if to you, Christianity is a buffet? | |
| Hmm, I like that, don't like that. | |
| Don't put words in my mouth. | |
| She started saying that she lets God guide her life and that Christianity and religion doesn't guide her life. | |
| That was the first thing she said. | |
| She said she lets her relationship with God guide it. | |
| And then there's inspiration from the Christianity that she grew up in. | |
| But she ultimately lets God guide her life. | |
| So if she feels like she's being with God at this music festival, if she feels like she's spreading God's word at the music festival, if she doesn't feel like she's a terrible person, she can still go to God's relationship with God, though. | |
| You can go to a rave in a fucking burqa. | |
| I'm not saying, by the way, Christian. | |
| She's not trying to be orthodox like this. | |
| No, but she can wear like jeans and a t-shirt. | |
| She can wear jeans and a t-shirt. | |
| She could. | |
| She doesn't need her ass hanging out in a mesh thing. | |
| I was just saying, I think that's where it's all stemming from. | |
| Is you're like, you're stuck on this religion thing. | |
| And I think she's like, I think, I think Christianity to her means I believe in God. | |
| It's a person. | |
| Like, I have a relationship with God. | |
| I believe in God. | |
| I believe in the scripture. | |
| But I don't think she's saying, oh, that is what guides my life. | |
| And that's the difference here. | |
| There are some people where scripture guides your entire life and Christianity is your entire life, like the outline of your life is the Bible. | |
| But there are some people who are like, I'm a Christian because I believe in God. | |
| And that's like mostly what it means to them. | |
| So it means nothing. | |
| It's completely conflicted. | |
| Well, some people don't believe in God. | |
| The Bible, God's word is final. | |
| God's word has final authority. | |
| Final authority. | |
| It's not, I'm a 21-year-old chick who likes to go to raves and I'm going to supersede the Bible's authority and call myself a Christian. | |
| It's ridiculous. | |
| I'm a vegan. | |
| Nick, pass me the fucking hot dog back. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| But it's honestly realistic. | |
| It's not real. | |
| It's realistic to be thinking that the Bible has been interpreted and rewritten. | |
| And who is no? | |
| I mean, there is no evidence that God wrote the Bible. | |
| I'm sorry, but I'm not a Christian. | |
| So, you know, maybe I'm treading on waters, but there is no evidence that God wrote the Bible. | |
| Who are these people to say that this is what God said? | |
| Explain the mistranslation to me. | |
| Explain the mistranslation. | |
| Of what word? | |
| From your perspective, since you're the arbiter of scripture, tell me what the translation actually intended in Timothy. | |
| I don't have the answer for that, but to control women. | |
| How would it be controlling? | |
| Honestly, if you think about it for the time that it was written, I don't know. | |
| I might sound silly saying this. | |
| Might have been to do with like all of the aggression that was going on towards women in the Bible times. | |
| Think about it. | |
| There's wouldn't you argue that there's aggression in modern day? | |
| I'm not being beat by, I don't even know what I can say on here, but it's not the same extent that it was back in like, you know, where the Bible was being written from. | |
| Think, just, just think logically. | |
| Don't have a rage bait reaction. | |
| I'm saying over time, it could have gotten switched up a little bit. | |
| Words, you know, get lost over time with the scrolls, the translations of the languages and things like that. | |
| I think, look, I don't know. | |
| Baseline, modesty as a society, we can agree is like almost being covered up, right? | |
| But it's like, to certain people, that means different things. | |
| I consider this outfit more on the modest side. | |
| I do. | |
| But it's like when I'm going to church, it's extra modest. | |
| And it's like, I make this life livable. | |
| I have a relationship with God. | |
| I believe in God. | |
| This doesn't sabotage my entrance to heaven. | |
| You can live your life without wearing mesh, I'm basically naked clothing to like you're. | |
| It doesn't. | |
| It doesn't dim your life. | |
| If you were to wear jeans and a t-shirt to a rave, I disagree with the jeans part. | |
| It's better to wear shorts because of heat exhaustion okay true, I believe in God than some mid-thigh shorts. | |
| So it's, if you're dancing, sure it's more comfortable to. | |
| Or you could wear like uh, some loose uh, soft pants or something. | |
| In any case um, I agree, you can do whatever you want and I exercise my free will. | |
| Your free will is in contradiction to your Christian faith? | |
| It's not, though. | |
| I just described what my faith is and what that entails. | |
| Like I said, I don't feel well. | |
| Just call yourself a spiritual woman, but I don't think you're. | |
| You can consider yourself Christian. | |
| That's disrespectful. | |
| How is it disrespectful? | |
| You're being disrespectful. | |
| I'm not even a Christian and i'm going to. | |
| I'm going on the offense or the defense for Christianity. | |
| I'm more of a Christian than you are and i'm agnostic. | |
| I thought you were Christian. | |
| Why are you? | |
| Why are you agnostic? | |
| I'm happy to get into that, but we need to finish off this. | |
| So i'm again. | |
| Modesty is a component of the religion that you claim to identify with. | |
| Okay, you're completely in control contradiction with the Christian faith. | |
| So that's more in definitely how I was raised, like the older Presbyterian Catholic way. | |
| I know people any Christian. | |
| Sorry, go ahead. | |
| You're being very rude. | |
| I'm trying to speak, it's okay, go ahead. | |
| I believe that my faith is Christ is, is a is, like I said, taken from these two that are more traditional, and in those two traditional ones, it encompasses yeah, that exact verse, however you want to translate it, whatever the preacher or priest is going to tell you. | |
| But it's like this is what I feel comfortable with in my relationship and I classify it as a combination between Catholicism and Christianity. | |
| Catholicism is Christianity. | |
| There's two different traditions. | |
| You know, in orthodox they wear the head veil, and Catholic I understand. | |
| No, but I understand there's different denominations. | |
| So okay you're, you draw from Catholicism, Catholicism, what's the other denomination you draw from? | |
| Presbyterian. | |
| Presbyterians are pretty based, is my understanding. | |
| There's definitely not an allowance under Presbyterianism or whatever the word is that would allow for wearing basically being almost naked at a rape. | |
| It also wouldn't submit drunkenness or cursing. | |
| Okay. | |
| All the other things. | |
| I don't know about any of those other topics. | |
| Right now, we're just talking about how you dress. | |
| So do you go to church? | |
| Occasionally. | |
| And when you go to church, is it a Catholic church or do you go to Presbyterian church? | |
| I've been going to Mass, Catholic. | |
| Okay, so if after the Mass, I guess the, was it the priest? | |
| This is priest, yes. | |
| The priest, they hang out afterwards or whatever. | |
| If you were to go up to him with your phone and be like, hey, I would never dress like this in church, but here's my Instagram. | |
| Is this an appropriate way as a Christian, semi-Christian? | |
| I don't care about his opinion. | |
| How can, hold on, you don't care about the opinion of the priesthood of Catholicism? | |
| Yeah, I think the priests have a lot of issues. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Why would you even go to church? | |
| Because I haven't really found a good place to go to church yet. | |
| So when I do go, it's with my grandmother at Mass. | |
| I'm trying out the different, you know, Masses. | |
| How can you say you don't care what the priest about that specific topic? | |
| But if he were to say, not asking a 50-year-old, 60-year-old man what he thinks. | |
| Why would this? | |
| What if the priest is in his 20s or 30s? | |
| Even more or less relevant. | |
| It's less, okay, it's less relevant. | |
| He's 20, he's younger than me. | |
| I'm not letting anybody on this planet dictate what I do with my life. | |
| If I really felt convicted, if I listen, can God? | |
| Yes, if I really felt convicted, maybe there will be a turning point in my life. | |
| And I accept that. | |
| I used to be really modest when I was young. | |
| That's how I was raised. | |
| But maybe in the future there'll be a turning point, but right now I don't feel convicted. | |
| I don't feel like it's in the wrong because I am spiritually right with God. | |
| And I love him and I trust him. | |
| It doesn't sabotage nothing in my life. | |
| I wanted to ask, I believe you said that God spoke to you at one point, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can you please talk about that? | |
| Are we still talking about this, Brian? | |
| I don't want to take up one. | |
| What? | |
| I missed the question. | |
| She said that God spoke to her. | |
| I was wondering if she could talk about that. | |
| Not relevant. | |
| Well, perhaps it is relevant. | |
| It was just him saying to go ask this tall Russian man for his, to give him my phone and say, put your Instagram in, and that's my current partner. | |
| But did God, has God spoken to you as to your attire? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, so not relevant. | |
| Wait, so wait, so did you hear words from God? | |
| Not relevant. | |
| Not relevant to the topic at hand. | |
| I'm confused, though. | |
| So you would acknowledge that a priest, a Catholic priest, or Presbyterian, are they priests, I guess? | |
| Presbyterian. | |
| Priest pastor. | |
| Pastor. | |
| You go to a church service, you go speak to them. | |
| These are typically experts or at least highly knowledgeable, educated in theology. | |
| If you were to go to them and because you said, well, we don't know the translations. | |
| And they told you, well, in Timothy, it does say this. | |
| And you're like, can you look at these photos? | |
| And they're like, listen, it's wonderful that you're here in church. | |
| It's great that you're a Christian, but that is unbecoming of a Christian to wear that. | |
| If you heard it directly from a pastor or a priest, not from the fucking. | |
| It'd be the same thing as you telling me. | |
| It would be the same thing as a fucking agnostic telling me. | |
| I listen to what God says to me. | |
| Now, I would take with definitely more consideration what a religious leader said to me. | |
| But like I said, I don't follow church. | |
| I don't follow Christians. | |
| I follow Christ. | |
| I think it's better to read what's in the Bible, which is something I need to completely finish and read multiple times. | |
| But sometimes there's materialism in the church and there's a lack of charity and things, and that turns people away from churches. | |
| So sometimes it's hard to like completely put your faith in a religious leader compared to reading the Bible and getting a base. | |
| One thing that I'm thinking is, you know, to each our own convictions. | |
| So, you know, when the time is right, but something I heard that I really like is this isn't to come at you anything, I promise, but it says that if the Bible says it's sin, our opinion doesn't matter. | |
| And I thought that was really convicting, and I just wanted to, at least for myself. | |
| Yeah, totally. | |
| I don't know how you get around this. | |
| I'm just looking at a few things here. | |
| Christian tradition teaches that Jesus Christ is God's definitive and final revelation to humanity. | |
| And it says that, hold on. | |
| Where was the God's word, which is the Bible, is considered the final ultimate authority and revelation. | |
| It is the definitive expression, Jesus Christ being the definitive expression of that word. | |
| So, do you believe in the supremacy of the Bible? | |
| Timothy, women adorn themselves in modest apparel. | |
| I don't know how you get away from that. | |
| It's completely contradictory. | |
| I think sometimes when you reject guidance from a pastor or a priest, it leads you to interpret scripture the way that it's more convenient for you, the way that you kind of want to. | |
| And I do this as well. | |
| This is why guidance is important when you're coming into a faith, especially like me. | |
| I was not familiar with Christianity because I was not raised Christian. | |
| Most of my family is agnostic. | |
| So it is something that you can't really figure out on your own because our brains are only capable of so much. | |
| And you do need guidance from somebody who's more experienced in that. | |
| For sure. | |
| I think there's certain topics that definitely the church has helped me through. | |
| But there's some things that I'm just not seeking help with right now that I don't feel I need help with. | |
| And I think what help do you need? | |
| I've just pointed to you to scripture. | |
| Scripture is God's final word. | |
| You consider yourself a Christian. | |
| Really, the only solution here that I see in terms of your potential moves on the chessboard of life, you're going to either have to completely reject Christianity or acknowledge that you're wrong and from this point forward be like, you know what? | |
| If I go to a rave or I go to a party or whatever, I'm going to wear something appropriate. | |
| I'm going to wear something modest. | |
| I think it's okay to be ignorant about the Bible and still try to follow Jesus Christ and figure out. | |
| So you're saying she's ignorant. | |
| Excuse me? | |
| Are you saying she's ignorant? | |
| Yeah, I'm ignorant. | |
| Great. | |
| I've just got you caught up to speed. | |
| I just educated you. | |
| You've just been educated, right? | |
| So, Timothy, Timothy says women are to be modest in their dress. | |
| Who is this, Timothy guy? | |
| That's one of the books. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| I think you're kind of, this is a checkmate. | |
| Your checkmate. | |
| That also means I have to be perfect in all the other categories of my life? | |
| No, I don't think Christianity. | |
| Like, not drink again or smoke or, you know, am I supposed to? | |
| I don't know. | |
| You know what? | |
| I don't know about any of that. | |
| I don't know anything. | |
| I'm so ignorant. | |
| I don't know. | |
| But on this specific topic, I think it's clear. | |
| I'm just going to leave it at this. | |
| I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ as my Savior. | |
| I will see him in heaven. | |
| That's great. | |
| These things on the earth I feel are just not in the same capacity as that belief. | |
| Maybe someday I'll change, Brian. | |
| And I accept that. | |
| And I agree with you on certain things you're saying. | |
| So God is wrong. | |
| I never said that. | |
| The translators. | |
| I think it could have been lost in translation. | |
| Maybe one day I'll change my mind. | |
| Is that genuinely what you believe? | |
| That the translation is incorrect. | |
| In 1 Timothy, women adorn themselves in modest apparel. | |
| The translation is incorrect. | |
| I already said earlier it could have been about the violence that was occurring back then. | |
| I don't know what the context of this was. | |
| It's never good to take things out of the way. | |
| Like, words change over time. | |
| Like, what did modest mean back then is what she means? | |
| Like, were people covering themselves with a rag and that was modest because you were covering your private parts? | |
| Like, was that modesty where you're not going out and showing your boobs in public? | |
| Is that modest? | |
| Like, or today, nowadays, it's like, you know, if you're Muslim, you need a cover from your, you know, wrists all the way up to your ankles. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's modest. | |
| So it wouldn't really matter, I think, because ultimately we could even make a determination. | |
| We could even make a non-religious determination as to what modern-day modesty would dictate as it relates to attire. | |
| I don't know. | |
| There's zero of the photos that we looked at on her Instagram, there's zero argument that that is modest. | |
| Nobody can tell me that that is modest attire. | |
| I'll agree with that. | |
| It's not. | |
| But it's also not over the top to where I'm like, oh my goodness. | |
| I mean, yeah, I guess your vagina's not out. | |
| You're one step away from nipples out, pussy out. | |
| That's your butthole out. | |
| You're very close to that. | |
| But I'm not. | |
| But you're not, but you're still not modest. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sorry, I heard from a Christian preacher that all you have to do is accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and that's the big thing. | |
| And then also read the Bible and get good guidance. | |
| And your sins are forgiven, but like it's not that easy. | |
| Sometimes you're still dealing with stuff, even if you're a fervent Christian. | |
| I mean, Christianity, I don't, my understanding, it does not call upon Christians to be perfect. | |
| Christianity gives grace for mistakes. | |
| But I think if you're in willful defiance, if you're in contravention of scripture, if you're disregarding scripture and you're continuing a pattern of behavior that is contradictory, then yeah, you're doing something that is, I think, probably not reconcilable with the Christian faith. | |
| I mean, that's really all I have to say. | |
| I mean, at this point, we're just going around in circles, so I guess I'll move on, but I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Dalimar donated $200. | |
| Stop using Catholic to describe yourself just because your panties are wet over modern Gothic interpretation and Bunny's culture. | |
| She is not remotely Catholic, just another unicorn heretic using words. | |
| I hate to be rude, but there's a thing called karma. | |
| So just be careful. | |
| That's all I'm saying. | |
| Is karma. | |
| I don't believe in karma. | |
| Is karma also kind of not a Christian thing? | |
| Like, I don't think it's not cool. | |
| I don't think they're cool with karma either. | |
| Take that cross off. | |
| She's more Buddhist. | |
| She's more Buddhist. | |
| We have a chat coming in. | |
| If you can read it in just a moment, it's going to take just a sec. | |
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| Go ahead. | |
| Chair six, listening to false ideologies goes against Jesus' teachings. | |
| Chair one, you're being ignorant. | |
| Submit yourself to Jesus and his teachings if you want to go to heaven. | |
| Read the Bible and pay attention. | |
| Well, maybe this is like your first time hearing about it and all that. | |
| So now that it has been brought to your attention, you know, whatever you want to do next, then you can follow him in any way if you want. | |
| But if you never heard this before, then we can't really come at you if it hasn't been brought to your attention and then you willingly defied. | |
| Isn't there also something in the Bible that says that if you like wear multiple different fabrics? | |
| Fabrics. | |
| You're a sinner. | |
| Yes. | |
| Maybe you should go to hell because you mix cotton with like linen. | |
| I think that's the Old Testament, maybe. | |
| I don't know. | |
| But didn't like Jesus kind of like be like, yo, new covenant, don't disregard the. | |
| Right? | |
| Well, we should probably rewrite it again. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Think about it. | |
| Think about it. | |
| No, thank you. | |
| I will. | |
| You should just go up to the priest and be like, yo. | |
| I just have issues with priests. | |
| Like I said, I don't go to church very often. | |
| My grandma likes to go to Catholic Mass. | |
| I go with her. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| But, well. | |
| I'm still learning. | |
| I'm 21. | |
| Maybe in five years I'll think differently. | |
| I give myself that. | |
| I'm not that hard-headed. | |
| But thank you for putting thoughts, guys. | |
| Like, thank you. | |
| You are really young. | |
| You once dated a Muslim man for a short amount of time. | |
| Tell us the quick story about the Muslim guy. | |
| I'm yeah. | |
| What closed the door? | |
| Like the one or two of what I said. | |
| You said he never lets his parents see or meet you because you're white. | |
| Yep. | |
| When you arrived to his house to meet him, you had to like park down the street because you had a Blue Lives Matter sticker on your car. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Based. | |
| No, he made me park. | |
| Yeah, yeah, he made you park down the street. | |
| Because he was scared of how his friends would pre-perceive me before they met me and who he was. | |
| We weren't like dating. | |
| We were going on a couple dates. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that was like the nail in the coffin. | |
| I was like, excuse me if you can't accept me for who I am. | |
| Like you're trying to hide this A from your parents because I'm white. | |
| And this was at his house, mind you. | |
| A, because I'm white. | |
| B, because of my political beliefs. | |
| What are we even doing here? | |
| Then later on, he suggested polyamory and I was like, I can't. | |
| And I was like, you are something else. | |
| Boy, go back to the rock you crawled out from under. | |
| And I was just like, he's a Muslim, though. | |
| I think they believe that. | |
| And that was a first and a last time doing that. | |
| Okay. | |
| So respectfully. | |
| So I guess opening up to the rest of the panel, I don't know if anybody has ever had a dating issue because of a political thing or whatever. | |
| Like, I don't know. | |
| Either you did something or they did something and a mismatch in politics. | |
| I remember back in 2020, this girl I was seeing at the time, she dumped me. | |
| We'd only been together for like a couple months or something. | |
| She dumped me in June of 2020 because I didn't post a BLM black square on my Instagram. | |
| I was like, I'm not going to do that. | |
| You know, like everybody just posted the black square. | |
| Yeah, I lost friends over that too. | |
| So has anybody had a situation like that? | |
| Well, okay, no, you go ahead. | |
| Well, not the same thing, but I would say the most recently was I met this guy and we were out and he approached me, you know, asked if we could hang out sometime. | |
| And then I saw his Instagram. | |
| And yeah, he had some views that I thought were terrible. | |
| And so I wanted to talk to him about them, though. | |
| So when I saw him, I just brought them up and he wasn't even comfortable talking about views that he's comfortable posting online on his Instagram, posting public things saying, F these people, this group of people, like being racist, being terrible. | |
| And I'm like, oh, so what are your views on this? | |
| And why do you feel like it's okay to talk like that publicly? | |
| And he couldn't even talk about it privately. | |
| That's wild. | |
| Yeah, so I left, but I just, I just really wanted to hear what somebody who's comfortable sharing something so publicly about political values and about people, about, you know, free Palestine. | |
| And he wasn't along that base of values. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| So I just cut him off and I just left. | |
| But I've never been cut off by someone because of my values, I don't think. | |
| What kind of things did he post on Instagram? | |
| He had a, basically it was a freestyle rap on his page. | |
| Like he was a music, you know, he's like some dude who's like, I make music too. | |
| So I'm like, okay, let's see if this guy's any good. | |
| And I'm looking at his rap and one of his raps. | |
| He said, something, something, something, like supporting Israel. | |
| And he said, fuck Palestine and fuck Gaza. | |
| That's what he said. | |
| And I was like, oh, wow. | |
| So you believe in genocide? | |
| I think it's crazy that he turned into a rap. | |
| Like, that's just crazy. | |
| He put it on a, and, and, and then I bring it up and he's scared to talk about it in person. | |
| He's like, um, well, are you Palestinian? | |
| And I'm like, no, are you? | |
| He's like, well, I was in, I lived in Israel and I was in the war. | |
| And I was like, oh, so you're okay killing innocent people. | |
| And he is like, I really don't feel comfortable talking about this with any, you don't, you're not Palestinian and you're not from Israel. | |
| So we can't discuss. | |
| You don't deserve to have an opinion on the matter is what he actually said to me. | |
| And I was like, well, at least mine isn't ignorant as fuck and I could communicate about it, you know, when brought to attention. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| You got to stand on your stuff. | |
| If you say something in a rap song or anytime, like on social media, you got to be prepared to back it up. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You can't be like, I'm not comfortable. | |
| Get comfortable. | |
| You are comfortable posting about it, so be comfortable talking about it. | |
| Yeah, how are you going to freestyle a rap and say, fuck these people? | |
| I don't care about a war or a genocide happening right now, but I'm not comfortable talking to somebody in private about that situation. | |
| I'm not comfortable expanding on what is happening, you know? | |
| Like, obviously, that just screams ignorance to me, you know? | |
| That's somebody who doesn't actually know what's happening, who's been brainwashed by media and who just has a hateful mind on their mind, you know? | |
| And that's it. | |
| And they don't have anything real to say. | |
| They don't have anything real to add. | |
| I've like great points. | |
| I just think about violence a lot. | |
| And there's this thing called the Next Soul podcast. | |
| And there was a person who died and came back to life. | |
| Right? | |
| We can believe it or not. | |
| Welcome back. | |
| But they asked, like. | |
| Is this related to the prompt? | |
| We were talking about wars. | |
| No, but the prompt was. | |
| Okay, sorry. | |
| Have you ever. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| What was your reply to if you've stopped dating somebody because or you've been turned away because of a political view? | |
| Sorry. | |
| Sorry, could you repeat the question? | |
| I'm moving it on. | |
| I'm moving it on. | |
| Nick, really, I just wanted to finish up really quick on this conversation about the, what's it called? | |
| The wearing revealing clothing. | |
| And then, so Nick, 1 Timothy 2.9, can you pull it up just for reference? | |
| And then there's two others we'll pull up too, but pull that one up first. | |
| Just going in circles. | |
| Circle back. | |
| It's just, it's the final thing I wanted to pull up. | |
| Oh, this is, oh, this is good. | |
| This is the one that has like all, wait, zoom it out, Nick. | |
| Zoom it out a bunch. | |
| So this has like 50 different translations. | |
| So it's, you know, we could read, can you read the first like three, just the first sentence or whatever? | |
| I also want the women to dress modestly with decency and propriety, adorning themselves not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes. | |
| Let's just do like the first sentence or so. | |
| And I want women to be modest in their appearance. | |
| They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold pearls or expensive clothes. | |
| Next, just the next one. | |
| Likewise, also that women should adorn themselves in this respectable apparel with modesty and self-control. | |
| Okay. | |
| Not with braided hair. | |
| Nick, can you on that on that same website? | |
| Can you do Hebrews 1026? | |
| No braided hair. | |
| Hebrews 10 26. If you just Google Hebrews 10 26, it'll probably pull it up. | |
| You got it? | |
| Okay, and then after, it's going to be John 2.4. | |
| 1 John 2.4. | |
| Just pull Hebrews. | |
| Okay, you're going to read Hebrews. | |
| If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice of sins is left. | |
| Dear friends, if we deliberately continue sinning after we have received knowledge of the truth, there's no longer any sacrifice that will cover these sins. | |
| For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there is no longer remains a sacrifice for sins. | |
| All right, and then you're going to do 1 John 2.4. | |
| I don't know if I'm saying these right, but it's going to be so much. | |
| I know it's just Google John 2.4. | |
| That should get you there. | |
| Shout out to Michael for sending me those. | |
| You got it? | |
| 1 John 2 colon 4. | |
| Okay, you're going to read. | |
| I don't think that that's it. | |
| Here. | |
| 1 John 2.4 Whoever says, I know him, but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. | |
| Okay. | |
| Anything there? | |
| Is there anything there? | |
| He's rage baiting you so hard. | |
| How is it ragebait? | |
| She's rage baiting. | |
| Now, how am I ragebaiting? | |
| Well, I feel like she's made it clear. | |
| I'm thinking, I'm listening to what you're saying. | |
| Supersedes all of us. | |
| God's made it clear. | |
| She's refusing to acknowledge God's word. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| And she already said that. | |
| She's rage-baiting. | |
| Right. | |
| I don't refuse to acknowledge. | |
| I just don't know how I interpret that in my life at this point. | |
| Like I said, my views might change in a little bit. | |
| But right now, I'm not convicted like that because I feel like what I'm doing is not crazy like that. | |
| But okay, how about this? | |
| These verses are in the Bible. | |
| Yes, so maybe you weren't aware. | |
| Now, would you agree you've been made aware? | |
| To a different extent, for sure. | |
| So Hebrews 10, 26, if we deliberately continue sinning after we have received knowledge of the truth, and that Bible verse would be 1 Timothy, where it says women should dress modestly. | |
| Yes. | |
| There's no dispute about the translation. | |
| But I also cannot continue sinning. | |
| I have to also stop braiding my hair and wearing earrings according to that as well. | |
| Perhaps that's the case, but I think it's pretty clear. | |
| Perhaps it's pretty clear. | |
| Maybe those things, but let's just push all those aside. | |
| I think I've made a compelling case for dressing modestly. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm not even going to comment on any of the other things. | |
| I want to say that one thing that's especially important is to focus on what Jesus Christ says in the New Testament and really focus on loving your neighbor. | |
| What the fuck does that have to do with anything? | |
| Actually, Brian, I respect and agree with a lot of your point, and I'm going to think about that. | |
| What is there to think about? | |
| Why can't you just say right here, right now, on the whatever podcast? | |
| Maybe I was wrong. | |
| You're right. | |
| God is right. | |
| The Bible is correct. | |
| The Bible is correct. | |
| So, okay, so stop dressing like a strumpet. | |
| Okay. | |
| Stop dressing like that. | |
| Stop going to raves like that. | |
| Dress like that. | |
| I'll do some thinking. | |
| What's there to. | |
| It's a big, it's a big, like, anyone expressing myself that way. | |
| That would be a big loss. | |
| And I know, like, to trust Christ is to die to salvation. | |
| It would be a big loss to stop dressing like a strumpet. | |
| No, that's not. | |
| Me and my partner do like costumes like for holidays. | |
| So? | |
| So? | |
| So maybe I could do that better in a better reflection of God. | |
| If anyone says, I know him, but does not keep his commandments, he is a liar, and the truth is not in him. | |
| John 2:4. | |
| We're talking about the commandments. | |
| There's 10 commandments that you have to go by. | |
| With the other biblical scripture. | |
| Commandments are different than scripture. | |
| Do you have to mean you have to follow the commandments? | |
| Scripture is authoritative. | |
| Scripture is God's word. | |
| God commands you. | |
| God commandeth thee. | |
| But I'm saying, like, so ridiculous. | |
| It's so ridiculous. | |
| Okay, well, that's it. | |
| Those are some other Bible verses that I thank you for sharing that. | |
| That continue to contradict her. | |
| Whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm going to think on it. | |
| Maybe John. | |
| Maybe I'll come back to another show with a different perspective. | |
| Maybe John 3:16 would be a good one. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's see. | |
| You wanted to talk about with your other notes, men versus women's roles and what a man should let his partner wear during a relationship. | |
| Oh, we talked about that. | |
| You're an advocate for filler, Botox, plastic surgery. | |
| Not to the extreme, but as someone who has had Botox and filler, it changed your life. | |
| How did it change your life? | |
| I think it absolutely made me like look like accentuate the beautiful God-given features that I had. | |
| If I could make it look even better, like I had kind of like, I don't know. | |
| I feel like it made me look a lot better. | |
| And I'm okay with that. | |
| And I accept that. | |
| And I'm open about that. | |
| I've talked about that on social media before that I haven't, I've done no plastic surgery, but I have had Botox and filler, and I'm very open about that. | |
| Do you have the four pictures on your Instagram? | |
| Not on my Instagram, no. | |
| But I was like, I started at 19, so that was two years ago. | |
| And I haven't had anything crazy done, but if it makes you feel better, you do you. | |
| But no, no, no. | |
| Who else here has had any Botox or filler chauvins? | |
| Where? | |
| I had Botox stuff in my nose and it messed it up, and now it's lopsided. | |
| What do you have? | |
| I try to fix it. | |
| I've had Botox, buccal fat removal, chin lipo, lip filler. | |
| Oh, damn. | |
| Breast reduction, breast lift, three rounds of lipo, three BBLs, and thilipo. | |
| What? | |
| Wait, three BBLs? | |
| Three BBLs. | |
| What was wrong with the first two? | |
| So for me, I like a dramatic look. | |
| That's more of like my style. | |
| So yeah. | |
| Do you have breast implants? | |
| No, just a lift. | |
| And you had three lipo suctions. | |
| And they take the lipo and they put it in the booty. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Just I, you don't have to do this. | |
| I'm just curious. | |
| Can we can we see the BBL? | |
| You can, but I don't want to show it on camera. | |
| Did you have complications with your BBL? | |
| I hear so many stories about that. | |
| No, no complication. | |
| I couldn't sit for like two months maybe. | |
| And what do you do? | |
| You just stand on delay on your stomach? | |
| So you're either on your knees or you can use a BBL pillow, but I don't feel like it's comfortable. | |
| So I'd rather just was the butt. | |
| Did you have a small butt before the BBL? | |
| I had a base. | |
| It wasn't too small, but it definitely needed some work. | |
| So here we are. | |
| Wow. | |
| How much total do you think you've spent on? | |
| Oh, brother, who knows? | |
| You lost count 50,000? | |
| I've lost count. | |
| Probably upwards of there. | |
| 100,000? | |
| No, definitely not. | |
| Okay, but around there. | |
| Okay. | |
| So a bunch of stuff on the face: buccal fat, lip filler, Botox, chin, something. | |
| What was the chin? | |
| Chin lipo. | |
| Chin lipo. | |
| Breast reduction. | |
| Then a breast lift. | |
| Breast lift. | |
| Three lipo. | |
| Three BBLs, yes. | |
| Reducing the titties and lifting the titties. | |
| Three lipo, three BBL. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Anything else? | |
| Thy lipo. | |
| I think we've covered all the bases. | |
| BBL diamonds. | |
| But the first one, did it, was it botched? | |
| No. | |
| You just wanted more? | |
| Yes. | |
| Because I've heard some girls get the lipo and then they use the fat or whatever for the ass with the BBL. | |
| Do you have butt implants or is it fat transfer? | |
| It's just fat. | |
| Okay. | |
| So like they get the lipo and then they eat a lot to get fat again and then they lipo, put it in the butt, get fat again, and then lipo again, put it in the butt. | |
| Is that so? | |
| That's a possibility if you're a smaller girl, but I've always been a curvier girl. | |
| So I've had a lot of fat to work with. | |
| So I didn't have to do the most. | |
| Was it just too dangerous for them to take as much as you wanted the first time? | |
| So that's why you had to do it multiple times? | |
| Or what? | |
| So danger is subjective. | |
| In the U.S., there is a limit. | |
| You can only get four liters of fat removed. | |
| So you got to go to like Tijuana. | |
| And if you go to places like Mexico, Colombia, Brazil. | |
| I went for the third time. | |
| Yes, I did. | |
| They can move, remove as much fat as to where. | |
| Wait, question. | |
| You said for two months you can't sit. | |
| You can, but it's not for two months. | |
| And you had three BBLs. | |
| Yes. | |
| So six months of your life total, no sitting. | |
| Right. | |
| That's like once you're 30? | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's like 1 60th of your life. | |
| Probably. | |
| Has been you suffering through BBL recovery. | |
| Well, it wasn't suffering. | |
| So to her point, surgery has changed my life dramatically. | |
| So I don't feel like I was suffering. | |
| If anything, I feel like it was beneficial for me. | |
| I'm just curious, did you drive while you couldn't? | |
| No, that's what I was wondering. | |
| So I didn't drive. | |
| I stayed at a recovery house where they take care of you for two full months each time. | |
| No, not the entire time. | |
| Anybody else had surgeries? | |
| You said you had Botox or Botox on the nose. | |
| What about the face? | |
| No, just my nose. | |
| Now it droops to the side. | |
| Are you high right now? | |
| Did you smoke weed? | |
| I smoked weed yesterday. | |
| Into the B into the mic. | |
| You got this. | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| So sorry. | |
| I spoke to it yesterday, so I feel like I'm a little tired today. | |
| Like sluggish. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sorry. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| She wouldn't smoke with me on our way here. | |
| No, yeah. | |
| I didn't smoke on the way over here. | |
| Okay, you're sober. | |
| Yeah, I'm sober. | |
| Yeah, but it's just in the eyes. | |
| I just saw it yesterday. | |
| Also, my eyes, they just naturally like fall. | |
| I just look high all the time. | |
| What are those like Japanese eye things called? | |
| I do have freaky eyes. | |
| Wait, what are they called? | |
| You have like. | |
| There's like bug eyes or something. | |
| No, you have Mona Lisa face. | |
| Oh. | |
| Where like wherever you are in the room, this is like my eyes are falling. | |
| You're looking. | |
| Yeah, it's intense. | |
| That's cool. | |
| That's really intense. | |
| That's kind of freaky. | |
| Is your third eye opening, Brian? | |
| Yes. | |
| Are you talking about my penis? | |
| Are you talking about my penis? | |
| yeah sure but um no you have oh what are those japanese it's the thing that like billy eilish has like you can see like what's that called though All the way in there. | |
| Can somebody in the chat tell me what the there's like four different eye types? | |
| Does anybody know what I'm talking about? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Yondare or some shit. | |
| Does anybody know what I'm talking about? | |
| In the chat, like the girls with the yon yondairi, yon yonder? | |
| Is that what it's called? | |
| Like the crazy girl? | |
| Does anybody know what? | |
| I think it is that thing where they're like, oh my god, she's seen me. | |
| So she's like developed like that thing. | |
| I've heard of that. | |
| That's just sanpuku eyes? | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Wait, there's like different. | |
| It's like when the whites of your eyes on the bottom is showing. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Right? | |
| But there's like different categorizations. | |
| Oh my, whatever. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| They're nice, though. | |
| You have nice eyes. | |
| It's not a bad thing. | |
| Have you had any stuff? | |
| I mean, I know you have a tongue piercing, but. | |
| In terms of like procedures, no. | |
| But yeah, I got my. | |
| But yeah, I got my tongue pierced. | |
| I really like it. | |
| Wow. | |
| Love it. | |
| The personality change. | |
| All right. | |
| We have a message coming here from Clay. | |
| Good to see you, man. | |
| Claim donated $200 for Taymu Victoria Secret Model. | |
| Do you think the same amount of Palestinian deaths would have occurred if it weren't for the Hamas attacks that precipitated the response? | |
| How would you have responded? | |
| Aw, you think I'm a Victoria's secret model? | |
| That's pretty iconic. | |
| I think I'm so sorry that you're so ignorant to think everything started on October 7th because this has almost been 100 years of a battle of people trying to steal and colonize the Palestinian land. | |
| So it's been over 100 years. | |
| October 7th is really irrelevant to the entire situation. | |
| Okay, can you read this one for me? | |
| Image and likeness of seen in men are a word. | |
| The mind verbalized, goes out as in a breath with the spirit. | |
| Heart will desire intent for that word. | |
| Expression of self, Jesus Christ, the perfect expression of all who is the Father, is John 1, John 5, Revelation 1. | |
| Jesus is Lord. | |
| John, thank you for the super chat. | |
| Very much appreciated. | |
| Clain, thank you for your TTS. | |
| Much appreciated. | |
| I guess just finishing up the conversation about the lip filler, Botox, plastic surgery stuff. | |
| I am a natural body supremacist. | |
| I'm not a fan of the plastic surgery, the filler, the Botox, the labia plasty. | |
| That's a big no-no. | |
| Look at labia matter, by the way. | |
| Yeah, I don't appreciate it. | |
| I think it's a sad state of affairs that we have a society and a culture that has women feeling, and I'm not placing the blame on the individual women, but you have these massive financial incentives for individuals and companies to profiteer off of women's, essentially women's insecurity. | |
| And that's the makeup industry, the cosmetic industry, the plastic surgery industry, Botox filler, whatever. | |
| And what I would like to see is women accepting of how they look. | |
| That's not to say that you should come, like, obviously hygiene is important. | |
| You should take good care of yourself. | |
| You should have a healthy lifestyle. | |
| If you're, you know, if you're a fat ass like me, you should try to lose weight. | |
| I'm, you know, I'm on the journey. | |
| I'm on the journey also. | |
| But I don't know. | |
| Can we talk about what causes fat gain? | |
| God damn, lady. | |
| What? | |
| I'm going to lose my mind. | |
| The root causes how to reverse obesity. | |
| Calories in, calories out. | |
| There's more. | |
| Problem solved. | |
| So, anyways. | |
| Can I ask you a question? | |
| Is it about what you're saying? | |
| Okay. | |
| Because I'm a firm believer in that too. | |
| I mean, you know, power to the ladies who have anything done. | |
| I think everyone should feel confident about themselves, but me personally, whether it's due to psychedelics or whatever I've been through in my life, like for me, accepting my body as it was created and as I was given it, like is really important for me, just being able to accept myself and have confidence. | |
| So, you know, I've never had any procedures, but like I, you know, we go armpit hair. | |
| Oh, I've armed hair. | |
| Wow. | |
| Show. | |
| Okay. | |
| Move the black thing. | |
| Can you just take the black thing off? | |
| Because it's kind of covering the armpit hair. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Or put the, but it's so cute, though. | |
| Like, guys, it is really cute. | |
| Wow. | |
| I'm so stylish and we trim it. | |
| You know, like keep it costume trim. | |
| That is armpit. | |
| Anybody else have armpit hair? | |
| You're her friend. | |
| Are you rocking the. | |
| I don't think I have pit hair right now. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so is that, what is that? | |
| What is the armpit hair thing? | |
| Well, it's, I mean, it's just what you're saying. | |
| Well, part of it, I think, is being autistic. | |
| Grooming is different. | |
| Well, I trim it. | |
| Look how short it is. | |
| It could grow this way. | |
| I think you don't need to show me again. | |
| It's already bermed into my retina. | |
| Well, exactly. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, so this is the thing. | |
| Men are like, oh, I need a natural woman. | |
| I need a natural woman. | |
| I want somebody who's never gotten anything done. | |
| But then, oh, but you should shave your legs and you should do this and you should shave this. | |
| And you should, like, if you have a mustache, you should do it. | |
| You should cut your unibrow, you know, whatever. | |
| Like, which part of it is natural upkeep. | |
| But at the same time, I think there is still an issue in society with, like, oh, I want something natural, but you don't, like, people kind of forgot what natural is. | |
| Naturally, women have hair all over their bodies. | |
| And, like, for me, it's an odd, it's a texture situation that it's uncomfortable for me to have shaved hair. | |
| Like, the way the skin rubs, it's like an issue for me personally. | |
| But, like, I think. | |
| I mean, my challenge here to you is that I think when men are referencing natural, that typically is related to, especially when the context of the conversation relates to artificial things. | |
| So, the most extreme here would be plastic surgery, filler Botox. | |
| Secondary to that would perhaps to a lesser degree would be makeup, which is something artificial that does not magically appear on your face, your armpit hair. | |
| That sort of is, you know, that's something that can grow naturally. | |
| But I think what men are talking about, I don't think it's inconsistent for men to say, I prefer natural women, and that's related to they don't have lip filler, they don't have Botox, they don't have plastic surgery, they don't have fake tits. | |
| Do they have hair dye? | |
| BBL, what? | |
| Do they have hair dye? | |
| What if a girl does highlights? | |
| It could mean that. | |
| I think hair color in the hair is kind of low on the priority scale of what men mean when they're talking about natural. | |
| But because that would constitute natural, arguably, right? | |
| A natural woman would have natural hair. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| And I, are we talking, but we could even break that down further because some hair dye would replicate the color of hair that a woman could naturally have. | |
| Like, you could be she's graying. | |
| No, but I'm saying, like, a girl who has dark hair could have brown hair. | |
| She could, or women do have natural brown hair. | |
| However, if her hair is like blue, women never can have natural blue hair. | |
| Of course. | |
| But I think grooming is different, is a different preference. | |
| So the armpit hair, I think that's a different preference than a man not wanting to a woman who's like plastic. | |
| I think I agree, and it can be, but at the same time, it is like it's on the same level of an issue because the way that shaving got introduced to society for women was the idea that a woman is dirty because she has hair. | |
| Like if you read old magazine articles and old promotions, that is how it got introduced. | |
| Women are dirty with hair, they don't take care of themselves, blah, blah, blah. | |
| So it's this idea that a woman is more beautiful or whatever, which is why people get surgery because you're more perfect or whatever. | |
| So it's like you're more perfect and you're more cared for if you do these things. | |
| Do you shave your legs? | |
| Sometimes. | |
| Okay, what about down there? | |
| Are you jungle, rock in the jungle? | |
| I do a little trim. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And like on the edges, you know, a little trim. | |
| I mean, I don't know the history of, you know, the origination of, you know, some of that stuff. | |
| I'm going to go ahead and just say, yeah, you're probably right. | |
| But from just a purely practical perspective, at least in terms of what men find attractive in women, like if a woman is hairy or she like infrequently shaves, | |
| this is just like, look, just being blunt and realistic, if she's got like spiky legs, I guess this would be different if she doesn't shave at all and her hair is like not spiky and soft or whatever. | |
| Although I don't know, it's actually just physically uncomfortable to be intimate with a woman who has like spiky legs or she's like spiky down there. | |
| Yeah, so I but it's not spiky if you don't, yeah, if you don't shave it, then it's not spiky. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, also just I mean, for other reasons, even if the hair in the pubic area isn't spiky, but it's like a fucking bush, uh, that can like kind of complicate it gets in, yes, per well put, it gets in the way, yeah, it gets in the way, so it's like it could. | |
| I think there's, you know, we can hypothesize about like historical reasons or whatever, but from like a modern day practical perspective, and women could probably say the same thing, at least about men's bush. | |
| It's like, you know, if you got a fucking jungle, like it's a little different though for men and women because, you know, our hair is protecting, you know, from STDs and stuff. | |
| If you don't have any hair, yes. | |
| I don't know about that. | |
| You learn about that in health class. | |
| It could maybe both go both ways. | |
| Like the hair could trap the fucking, like catch the fucking pathogen or whatever. | |
| But then similarly, the hair could also trap it in, trap in the pathogen. | |
| I don't know, whatever. | |
| Who cares? | |
| But I don't know. | |
| I think we got to get women. | |
| Y'all got to cut this plastic surgery shit out. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Let the ladies be free. | |
| Can I say something? | |
| So men typically say that they want natural women, right? | |
| But if you look through their Instagram following, that seems to be contrary to the truth. | |
| And then on top of that, I feel like if you have money, you're going to change something about yourself. | |
| Nine times out of ten, the people who say, oh, I want to stay natural, or I love myself, and this and that, which could be true. | |
| You probably would change something if you were in the financial position to do so. | |
| And men also get surgery. | |
| They get hairline, what do you call it, hair transplants. | |
| They get ab etching. | |
| If they're uncircumcised, they'll pay money to get circumcised. | |
| Steroids, steroids. | |
| I mean, the list goes on. | |
| So, you know, it's a two-way street. | |
| Yeah, I mean, there's no doubt that men also do all those things that you listed. | |
| I have no disagreement there. | |
| I do think the frequency women participate higher. | |
| I don't know if that's the right framing, but women do get plastic surgery at higher rates than men do. | |
| But it is true that definitely, and it's on the rise for both men and women. | |
| But I don't know if some of those things are completely one-to-one comparisons to the kinds of surgeries that men get. | |
| Also, I think there's probably a bit more stigma. | |
| And I think like the there are some men who dislike plastic surgery. | |
| There are men who like the look, I guess, although that is a curiosity for me. | |
| But I think it's more socially acceptable for women to get certain plastic surgeries. | |
| Like I think women would clown on a guy if he got like bicep implants or chest implants or ab implants or like the synthol. | |
| Like I think women would look at that and look at the guy who did that and be like, what's wrong with this guy? | |
| Like there's something wrong with him. | |
| He should just get that naturally. | |
| Like he should just work out or whatever. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I agree. | |
| I think, look, I'll just say this. | |
| You make a good point, though. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| These men who, on one hand, say, oh, I want a natural girl, but you look at who they're following on Instagram. | |
| And they're probably not following these women for their philosophical takes. | |
| No. | |
| You know, the IG models with the fucking fake titties and the lipo and the BBL. | |
| Yeah, that's hypocritical. | |
| And they're retarded. | |
| But I don't think that what they're ultimately saying is like maybe they're lying or they're hypocritical, but I agree with what they're saying, like natural body supremacy all day, every day. | |
| For example, and I'll take it this far. | |
| You might be like, well, Brian, like, don't get me wrong, like, nice boobs, nice ass. | |
| I'm not going to say no to that. | |
| Like, I'm not going to say that that's not an attractive characteristic that women can have. | |
| But if you were to present me a choice, Brian, giving you a choice, you can have a woman with a perfect BBL. | |
| I don't even, I don't know what that even looks like, but whatever. | |
| Or she's flat, like no ass. | |
| I'm taking the flat no. | |
| I'm taking no ass. | |
| You boobs. | |
| Brian, she's got the perfect gummy bear, fucking implants, whatever. | |
| Perfect. | |
| They look so good. | |
| Whatever. | |
| I mean, you can still tell what. | |
| Or a girl who ache cup. | |
| I'm taking the A-cup. | |
| Belly fat. | |
| Now, look, I know I got to lose a bit of weight, so I feel like I'm in a precarious position here. | |
| But I'd rather a girl with a little chub, a little belly than the lipo belly. | |
| Now I don't want to date an obese girl, but like give me like the same girl, pre and post-op, like a little belly fat. | |
| I don't know, lipo belly, it looks no offense, it looks kind of weird. | |
| Do you genuinely find it more attractive if she has a natural body, or do you kind of find the plastic surgery body more aesthetically pleasing, but you don't want her to get this kind of attention from other men? | |
| No, it has nothing to do with other men. | |
| This is just my own aesthetic preferences. | |
| And then I also think, no offense to any of you who've had procedures done, I do think it can be proxy for mental illness. | |
| So you have some degree of body dysphoria. | |
| I agree with that. | |
| Actually, I have some stuff done. | |
| I was, this is crazy, actually. | |
| And I accept that it's crazy that my mom actually took me to the nurse to get my lips injected for my 19th birthday, which I believe was a horrible decision on her part. | |
| Fast forward years later, she is struggling with what you're describing. | |
| And I don't have contact with her, but that's exactly correct what you're saying. | |
| Is that I think it does feed on mental illness, especially like the insecurities of young girls, what's pushed by social media. | |
| In what universe should I have gotten lip filler at 19? | |
| Probably zero. | |
| At this age, I would get it now. | |
| I would have gotten it when I was 20, but when you're still a teenager, any age, any age. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| Honestly, two each their own. | |
| Look, I think one day I'm going to have daughters, and I don't want them growing up in a world that is so hyper-focused on. | |
| Look, I acknowledge that looks are important. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But this obsession with vanity and to the point where, look, I think it's okay to care about your appearance and you want to look good and be presentable. | |
| And I think that's to a degree is okay. | |
| But to the point where you have women who anytime you go under anesthesia, there's a risk. | |
| It's not just the financial price, but the potential health price. | |
| You can die under anesthesia. | |
| BBLs are notoriously dangerous. | |
| People have died getting BBLs. | |
| You've had three BBLs, the lipo. | |
| I just, I don't want to, I think if all women just collectively agreed, hey, let's just not do this plastic surgery thing, wouldn't that just level the playing field a bit? | |
| I mean, obviously, people are always going to want some advantage in life, but I don't know. | |
| I wouldn't want my daughters, or even just regardless of my own selfish motivations for the well-being and mental well-being of my potential future daughters, even for complete stranger women, all of you, I don't want any of you living in a world where it's so much vanity where it's like, I'm going to get like toxic chemicals injected into my face. | |
| I'm going to like get fat suctioned off of me. | |
| I'm going to implant plastic into me. | |
| I'm going to go under the knife. | |
| I'm going to go under the needle. | |
| I'm going to go under anesthesia. | |
| I'm going to potentially risk death for beauty. | |
| I don't think, I think it's, look, you can take care of yourself. | |
| You can try to look good. | |
| But risking death, I don't know. | |
| Well, if your argument is death, then, I mean, that's not really valid because you can die at any point. | |
| This roof can come down and kill all of us. | |
| When you get in your car, you don't know if there's, you know, going to be a collision. | |
| So if the argument is death or danger, that's not really a reason. | |
| I think that's a fair point. | |
| I think that if we're talking about driving, for example, you're right. | |
| Every time you get into a car, in fact, I don't know the exact stats, but I'd probably say that I don't know, actually. | |
| You're probably getting into a car, I think, I don't know, I think is more dangerous than getting a breast implant. | |
| I don't know, actually. | |
| We would have to see. | |
| We would have to see. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Maybe somebody in the chat, Nick, can you Google the comparative rates, maybe chat GPT? | |
| What is more likely to result in death? | |
| A standard breast implant procedure or driving? | |
| But it'd have to be over the course of a lifetime. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Brian, you have a really good point about warning people about toxic chemicals and how that affects mental health as well. | |
| Oh, thank you. | |
| Well, you know, that's why I'm scared of Botox. | |
| You can't live your life in fear, though. | |
| But they don't promote that. | |
| It's toxic. | |
| It's illiterate. | |
| People are always like, oh, what if this happens? | |
| What if that happens? | |
| What if anything happens? | |
| Like, you can't control it. | |
| Sure. | |
| You can't control the outcome. | |
| You could get in your car and you're driving and you could die. | |
| And it might not even be your fault. | |
| some fucking DUI, drunk idiot. | |
| I think, though, the difference is... | |
| One is necessary. | |
| Mm-hmm. | |
| Yeah, the argument I was going to make is about utility. | |
| So travel, not traveling, but driving serves a specific utility. | |
| And for most people in the United States, leaving your house to get somewhere is a sort of necessity of life to some degree. | |
| I know some people are fucking hermits and they have online jobs or whatever. | |
| I don't know. | |
| But for most people, you got to go to school. | |
| You got to go to work. | |
| You got to grocery shop. | |
| And you can mitigate that in various ways. | |
| But driving serves a utility. | |
| Now, you might say, well, being beautiful serves a utility because I get treated better if I'm more physically attractive. | |
| That is an interesting argument. | |
| However, getting these procedures are completely voluntary, completely voluntary. | |
| So whereas, I mean, yes, you could, you know, to the best of your ability, try to stay home to avoid driving. | |
| But I think most people acknowledge the trade-off. | |
| From my own perspective, I think the trade-off of Plastic sur like getting plastic surgery, like getting a fucking giant bedonka donk in your case, and like there's a say there's a 1% chance of dying. | |
| I mean, I'm sure your BBL is top tier. | |
| It's you're you've had three two revisions or whatever. | |
| I learned that fasting and saunas really help with reducing the chemicals in the body. | |
| Bro, where you're crazy, lady, you're you're all over the place here. | |
| Um, what does that have to do with it? | |
| Um, yeah, so we were talking about um plastic surgery, and I was just wanted to mention that um to reduce the chemicals that are in your body. | |
| You want to talk about cold plunging too? | |
| What do you want to talk about? | |
| Cold plunge? | |
| Oh, so I heard, I heard it's really good with when you wake up to get some sunlight on your balls, too. | |
| Vitamin D is important. | |
| You get you get some sunlight on your genitality, butthole, honey. | |
| Yep, butthole. | |
| You gotta, you gotta raise your butthole to the sky. | |
| Yeah, get that sun every morning. | |
| Get that fucking, anyways. | |
| So, anyways, yeah, yeah, so I don't know. | |
| I just'm looking at society, I'm with a bird's eye view, and I don't know, it's kind of sad. | |
| It's really cooked, and there's so much, there's so much pressure to look a certain way, and I think at this point, it's almost like a status symbol for women to look good, especially for their age if they're an older woman or middle-aged, like Melania Trump, for example. | |
| It's such a huge status symbol to look good for your age in this day. | |
| That's why there's that's why these pressures exist in the first place. | |
| Yeah, and I mean, look, even before the, I think the plastic surgery thing, I mean, it obviously breast implants have been around for a long time, people, 80s, 90s, people were getting breast implants. | |
| But it's really been, I want to say, starting in the early 2010s. | |
| I mean, it's crazier now, but starting in the early 2010s, like it used to be pretty rare to like going about your day, seeing somebody with anything. | |
| Super rare, like in 2000s, 2010s. | |
| Now it's like incredibly common. | |
| The uptick in plastic surgery procedures is huge, massive. | |
| But I feel like, even, you know, if you going back 90s, 80s, 70s, whatever, 2000s, I don't think women, like women, even in those eras, even back then, when plastic surgery wasn't as big of a thing, y'all were being women, women have always had insecurity issues related to appearance. | |
| And now I feel like it's on this fucking crazy level. | |
| Like maybe in the past, it was like, all right, I got to be thin and put a bit of makeup on and maybe do XYZ. | |
| But now women are going under the knife. | |
| Women are getting, I don't know, and men are too. | |
| And it's a, I think it's sad. | |
| And I think, sorry. | |
| Ozempic's linked to health issues as well. | |
| So it's really risky to try to lose fat with certain medications that are new. | |
| Everything is a risk. | |
| I think reality TV made it popular, like reality TV and then social media. | |
| Yeah, the Kardashians normalized surgery. | |
| Oh boy. | |
| So what has changed? | |
| In your opinion, who deserves the land and why? | |
| Hope you know history. | |
| And remember Tamu versus stuck on the T-Mu thing. | |
| I didn't take it. | |
| I really don't take it as a negative remark. | |
| I know you mean it that way, but who deserves the land? | |
| The Palestinians. | |
| Duh. | |
| Free Palestine. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm going to get into your notes. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| It's Kaylee, right? | |
| That is I. | |
| Oh, I got to wait for this one. | |
| I noticed on your Instagram, you posted a lot of political stuff. | |
| Can you tell me a little bit about your political positions? | |
| I just believe in freedom. | |
| I believe in sovereignty, personal sovereignty. | |
| I believe that I believe that everyone should have a right to food, shelter, and water. | |
| Like, I think they should have a right. | |
| Yeah, I think we're all born onto the planet, and the planet naturally provides clean water. | |
| Everyone should have that. | |
| You shouldn't have to pay for it. | |
| It's naturally there. | |
| And I think everyone should have it. | |
| And that's mostly what I think. | |
| And when things go against those beliefs, then I think that's a problem. | |
| I think people shouldn't be able to infringe on other people's ability to have a safe place to live, to have somewhere comfortable, warm to sleep, to have food on their table. | |
| I think when people start to try and infringe on rights and say, oh, you don't deserve that because ABC, you're from here. | |
| You're this religion. | |
| You look like this. | |
| We believe this. | |
| This is our land. | |
| Whatever you want to believe. | |
| I think any of those things, like that takes away from people being able to have a healthy, happy life. | |
| And I just don't think that anyone should have a right to do that to anybody else. | |
| Okay. | |
| You got to be careful on this angle here. | |
| Okay. | |
| And just curious, going around the table, who did everybody vote for in the past election? | |
| I didn't want to vote, but I did vote for Trump. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I don't believe in voting for the president. | |
| You didn't vote for like Kamala or whatever? | |
| Oh, no. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I voted for Trump. | |
| Trump? | |
| I was too uneducated to vote. | |
| I didn't vote. | |
| I sorry. | |
| I voted for Trump some of the times. | |
| Trump. | |
| You didn't vote? | |
| I didn't vote. | |
| If you could have voted, who would you have voted for? | |
| Who did you want to win? | |
| How about that? | |
| Regardless of if you voted or not, Trump or Kamala? | |
| I didn't want any of them to win. | |
| Well, knowing that there were only two options, did you have? | |
| I was like, okay, I can't choose. | |
| But you didn't have any leaning, like, I'd prefer this person to win. | |
| No. | |
| And no preference. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, because I asked because I look at everybody's like Instagrams before they come on the show. | |
| And I, you had like a lot of political Instagram stories or something. | |
| My kleptocracy highlight. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| I looked at that. | |
| And I guess you maybe you either went or I don't know if these were your photos, somebody else's photos. | |
| I don't know if it was like the No Kings protest. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Did you participate in the No Kings protest? | |
| For sure. | |
| You too. | |
| Were you there? | |
| I don't know. | |
| No? | |
| No? | |
| Okay. | |
| And I think the No Kings protest was covering a couple different things that people were upset about the current administration. | |
| I did notice, I think most of it has to do with the immigration stuff and ICE. | |
| And a lot of the protest signs that you posted were kind of anti-Trump. | |
| They were about ICE. | |
| And so I'm curious on the immigration issue, are you? | |
| Do you think what the current administration is doing is do you think it's wrong or what do you think? | |
| Very, very, very wrong. | |
| I mean, there's so many ways to take this, but I'm indigenous to this land. | |
| Okay, Native American. | |
| Yes, I'm Native American and very white as well, clearly, white passing, but this land is stolen, just like Palestine. | |
| How was the United States, what do you mean? | |
| I mean, this isn't, I mean, the people who are running our country, the people in politics, the people in the government, like none of those people were born here. | |
| We came and we conquered the people who owned this land. | |
| Conquered. | |
| You know, we conquered the land and we took it. | |
| Yeah, conquest throughout all of human history has been deemed a valid means. | |
| Well, that's a bit disputable, but that is how most nations formed one way or another was through conquest of one form or another. | |
| So if we think it's okay to hop on our boat, sail across the ocean, say, this land looks better. | |
| I would prefer to be here. | |
| There's more resources. | |
| There's more whatever. | |
| Do you, sorry, continue. | |
| You know, if you think it's okay to do that, which is how our country was formed, then how is it not okay for somebody else to do that? | |
| You said you're indigenous, part indigenous. | |
| Do you know which tribe or tribes? | |
| No, I was adopted, actually. | |
| You were adopted. | |
| I don't really have a lot of connection to my roots. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So to which tribe do we return this supposed stolen land? | |
| Well, I don't think it needs to be returned, but I don't think it's owned by anybody. | |
| I don't think if there's an immigrant who needs to come to be here to be safe or who wants to escape their land because it's being bombed or because they don't have opportunity to feed their children and, you know, like if that needs to happen, I think people should have a right to do that. | |
| And also, what's happening right now, that's actually not even targeting. | |
| Like there was a CDOT film that was taken down and blocked from going public like last week, two weeks ago on C. | |
| Yeah, I'm familiar with what you're talking about. | |
| Right. | |
| So that was exposing that what's happening from with ICE and with the administration, it's actually not even focused on illegal immigrants. | |
| A lot of the people that were taken were fully legal immigrants who went through all of the paperwork, who have had constant jobs their whole times here, who have been adding to our tax system, paying their taxes, adding to society, and not having any criminal record. | |
| A lot of those men on that film, the documentary that was supposed to be exposed that was then later exposed by a different network, it showed that a lot of the people ICE is targeting are not illegal immigrants and they're not criminals. | |
| They're literally just immigrants, just people who are from a different place who wanted to move here. | |
| A couple things here. | |
| So I haven't seen the documentary you're referencing. | |
| I would have to verify this claim that U.S. citizens are being actually deported. | |
| But just for the sake of conversation, I'll just go ahead and say, yeah, it's definitely possible that a true genuine United States citizen could be perhaps mistakenly deported. | |
| And that's terrible and that's wrong. | |
| Do you have an issue with true illegal immigrants being deported, though? | |
| I mean, if somebody's causing crime, if somebody is doing violent crimes and they're doing violent things that are negatively affecting society, I think they shouldn't be here. | |
| But I honestly, it's really hard for people to legally get into this country. | |
| And I think if you made it here and you've been living here and you have no criminal record and you have a job and you do everything that you can, I think those people should be here. | |
| I think they deserve to be here. | |
| They made their way across the fucking ocean, across the border, across wherever. | |
| They fought for a better life. | |
| They risked their entire life to have a better life or to provide it to their family. | |
| I think those people 1 million percent deserve to be here, just as we deserve to be here because we crossed the ocean and we decided we wanted to be here or any of our ancestors. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, I don't think that because you had a piece of paper or because the government accepted you in, that those are the only people who should be in America. | |
| Okay. | |
| But I mean, there are immigration laws that do make it a crime to illegally enter. | |
| Right. | |
| Like outside of a designated port of entry. | |
| Right. | |
| Which I don't consider a violent crime that negatively affects society. | |
| It might not be violent, but there is this idea of like, for example, like crossing the border illegally. | |
| That is a crime. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So that's a crime. | |
| But I mean, I'm just confused. | |
| So I mean, I guess putting aside, yeah, we should not be deporting genuine citizens of the United States to the degree that that's happening, I'm unsure. | |
| Although of the people that are being apprehended by ICE and being deported, I mean, would you tend to agree that while it might be the case that some genuine citizens are mistakenly being deported, which is, again, wrong, shouldn't be happening, probably 99 point something, something percent of the deportations are valid? | |
| No. | |
| I don't think that's, I really don't. | |
| I mean, these men, when they got pulled over and when they got asked, they had proof of citizenship and they still took them. | |
| I think that the administration is racist and they don't want people of color walking around. | |
| I think that's the issue. | |
| Like they, they're targeting people of color and people who look like they have Spanish roots or roots that are from somewhere. | |
| I mean, Trump, there's literally a video of him saying, oh, where are all of our immigrants from Sweden? | |
| Like, why don't we have immigrants from Sweden? | |
| Because he just wants white people, which is disgusting. | |
| I think they're targeting people. | |
| And no, I don't think there is a 99.9% of them are terrible, like actual illegals. | |
| I really don't believe that. | |
| Well, wouldn't it make sense that of the people who are being deported, there's probably because of the population that is here illegally, that is a, perhaps you disagree with that classification of a illegal immigrant, this population typically comes from South America, or well, Latin America, we could say, Mexico, | |
| and I guess that's not really South America, but North America, Central America, and South America. | |
| I do agree, but being but targeting people because they look like that and then being like, oh, well, even though you have proof of citizenship, you look like you do. | |
| You better get on the bus. | |
| The documentary, you should watch it. | |
| It was following multiple men who have whole families in America and who have been here for such long time, like 30 plus years. | |
| And all of these people showed proof that they were citizens and had legal right to be here. | |
| So I'm going to go ahead and go ahead and agree with you that targeting U.S. citizens who are Latino or who are Hispanic is wrong. | |
| If you're a U.S. citizen and you're brown and you are, you know, and just you're stopped or whatever by ICE or whatever, obviously if you're deported, that's a massive infringement. | |
| Let's put that aside though, because we agree on that. | |
| If you're a United States citizen, under no circumstance should you be deported from the United States. | |
| It's my position that I think probably 99% of deportations are genuine illegal immigrants. | |
| Can you agree with me that that's warranted? | |
| I think that's nice that you think that. | |
| You think, okay, so you don't think we should, so should we not have a border? | |
| I mean, borders don't, borders aren't real, let's be real. | |
| Borders are definitely real. | |
| In our minds. | |
| Well, I suppose, well, they're to some degree a social understanding. | |
| Well, it's a social construct, but they're actually like physical. | |
| Yeah, I mean, sometimes. | |
| Sometimes you walk across the border and you don't know. | |
| Your house, for example, it has physical, in the physical realm, there's walls to your house. | |
| Yes. | |
| You know, just curious, would you be willing, do you have your own house? | |
| No, I don't own my own house. | |
| Do you live with your parents? | |
| Do you have a nice finance? | |
| I rent it. | |
| Would you be okay, maybe, when you do end up owning a house, would you be okay housing some immigrants? | |
| One of my life goals is to be able to provide housing for people all over America. | |
| So I would love to do that for people. | |
| In your house. | |
| In my personal home, I don't want strangers living with me. | |
| No, I don't trust most people. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| But I would love to have a safe place for them to go that's not in my personal home where I have to sleep at night. | |
| I see. | |
| Okay. | |
| Really quick, just going back to this. | |
| You mentioned stolen land. | |
| Yes. | |
| You said the United States American citizens are living on stolen land. | |
| Right. | |
| I mean, we agreed we call it. | |
| Yeah, which tribe? | |
| There's a bunch of them. | |
| Okay. | |
| And what if America is such a vast inter-tribe conflict? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And certain tribes, the Apache would, I don't know the specific conflict. | |
| Skin where they kill each other, skin their heads, cut their heads off. | |
| Right. | |
| They would take their game. | |
| You know, the Navajo would take the game of the, I don't know if I'm actually naming two actual tribes that had conflicts. | |
| They would take the game and the land of the Apache. | |
| So to which tribe do we return the stolen land to? | |
| Well, everyone should just have their own space. | |
| The most recent tribe that was in possession of the land. | |
| I'm not saying any person owns it. | |
| I'm saying everyone should have a right to land on earth that we are all born here. | |
| Like it is, it shouldn't be any one person's land. | |
| It doesn't make sense for somebody or this government or that government to own the land and no one else is allowed to go on the land unless you pay or you do this or you do that. | |
| Like who are those people? | |
| We were literally all God given this planet. | |
| Like we were born onto a planet. | |
| I think she's here in Mexico. | |
| Sorry you're here. | |
| I think that's her if you want to check the messages. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm just can Mexico have like let's say I moved to Mexico illegally. | |
| Okay. | |
| And the Mexican government was like, look, you overstayed your visit or whatever. | |
| Do you think the Mexican government would have justification to deport me to the United States? | |
| I mean, are we talking about in society today? | |
| Because obviously in society today, that's just a thing that is, you know? | |
| I'm not acting like this isn't real life. | |
| Like I know what real life is and I know that that's a real thing. | |
| What about Japan? | |
| Japan has to some degree strict immigration policy. | |
| If I and Japan, I haven't been there before, but I hear it's amazing. | |
| I hear it's dope. | |
| A lot of people would like to live there. | |
| It's a very safe country. | |
| The culture is solid and strong. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can I move there and live there illegally? | |
| Or how about let me frame it like this. | |
| Would you understand Japan deporting me from Japan? | |
| I would understand that. | |
| I think I'm more standing up for the people who are escaping something, which is the reason most people immigrate to the United States. | |
| So people are escaping either a corrupt government that's owned by the cartel or an area that is ran by the cartel where their kids can't sleep safely at night, where there's guns and people riding around, militia is happening and you know like i think where people don't have opportunity to feed their children or where life is unsafe they come to america to try to have a safe life where they can just so you're talking about asylum | |
| Yeah, I mean, yes, I think that's the reason most people immigrate to the U.S. illegally. | |
| You think most illegal immigrants here, it's asylum seekers? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So one thing about international asylum law is my understanding is I'm not an expert on immigration law, but my understanding, if you're coming from South America, asylum law would dictate that you have to basically stop in the first country that would grant you asylum and that is, I guess, safe. | |
| In this case, there are certain South American countries, I believe, that have severe conflict or severe issues going on. | |
| Asylum law, though, would dictate that you need to, you got to stop in the first country that would grant you asylum. | |
| So there's a lot of countries between like these South American countries and eventually the USA, in this case, Mexico. | |
| Mexico, while there are issues in Mexico, Mexico's kind of chill. | |
| Mexico has issues, but I think you'll have an okay life in Mexico. | |
| They're coming to the United States specifically for economic reasons. | |
| The idea of opportunity, the American dream, right? | |
| Which is what America is built off of. | |
| Wouldn't you argue that the pilgrims who came here were getting political asylum from Britain, the British government? | |
| Or do you think the Europeans should have just stayed in Europe? | |
| No, I think everyone should be able to go wherever they want. | |
| So you're okay with the pilgrims coming here and conquering the land from the Native Americans? | |
| I wouldn't say I'm okay with that. | |
| I don't really believe in like raping and pillaging and conquering and murdering people. | |
| But that's what the Native Americans were doing to each other. | |
| That's what everyone has done. | |
| The Europeans were doing it to themselves, too. | |
| So do you think they should have came here or they should have stayed in Europe? | |
| I think everyone should go wherever they want, but I think everyone should have a place as well. | |
| Like if the people who think that Israel is their promised land want to go be in Palestine, then they should still let the Palestinians have their land and they should still let them have their homes. | |
| Just like if someone wants to come be here, they shouldn't come and take my house. | |
| They should go build their own house. | |
| Just like if someone here wants to go to Japan, they should not take somebody's home and not kick them out of their place and not bomb their streets. | |
| They should just go peacefully integrate into society. | |
| So I have a very respectful question for you. | |
| In the same topic of modern immigration and asylum seeking, how does what you're saying about no R word, no threats, no in the streets, how does that apply to all of the Africans, respectfully, who are immigrating to the UK and the statistics of the R word and the threats and the stabbings that go on? | |
| Because that's an example that I can think of in the modern time where it's very much destroying society. | |
| Recently, watched a video about this where locals are saying, like, violence is at an all-time high, we can't walk at night. | |
| Um, you know, I don't really know what you're talking about. | |
| So, if in the UK, uh, correct me if I'm wrong, anybody knows more about this. | |
| Like, there's a mass amount of Arabic people who have sought asylum there and they've taken over. | |
| And now, the I forget the name of the person who runs the country in the UK, is it like prime minister or something? | |
| They're uh, they are also Arabic and they're moving towards Sharia law, which the UK is a Christian nation, it was for many years, and now it's slowly shifting. | |
| And the UK people are getting kind of nervous. | |
| Like, what's going on? | |
| You know, the stabbings are at an all-time high statistically, it's one of the most dangerous places to travel. | |
| I had to cancel my trip there because of that. | |
| And I'm wondering, like, where is the middle ground? | |
| Like, I'm just, I want to have a fuck the middle, there's no middle ground, you can't, you cannot be here illegally. | |
| No, yeah, I think she's talking about that. | |
| Deport, deport, fuck the middle ground. | |
| No, I'm asking her, like, her opinion was we can have limited legal immigration in this country. | |
| The illegal immigrants need to be deported or voluntarily leave. | |
| I agree with you on that. | |
| I was asking her a step. | |
| What do you think? | |
| Well, I don't get her question still. | |
| Okay, what do you think about what I just said? | |
| Since you don't understand, we're not going to parse that. | |
| I just think the concept of being legal and illegal is just like ridiculous. | |
| That's my friend. | |
| That's my belief. | |
| Okay, so question: What percentage of the world, if they could come here, would like to come and live in the United States? | |
| Not a lot. | |
| You know, a lot of countries have banned travel to the United States right now because they're afraid that they're entering a dictatorship. | |
| Baron, thank you for the gifted. | |
| There's at least a billion. | |
| Let's start there. | |
| It's probably more. | |
| At least a billion people would like to live in the United States. | |
| I've been to every continent except for Antarctica, multiple countries. | |
| Everywhere you go, they ask, where are you from? | |
| Specifically in Europe, when you say that you're from Los Angeles, they are absolutely jealous. | |
| In Asia, it's like, that's my dream. | |
| I want to go. | |
| Everywhere I've been, every country, every continent, like I said, I've been to Antarctica. | |
| They've been like, that's my dream to come there. | |
| Can I ask you a question? | |
| If we could instantly just snap our fingers, they don't have to travel. | |
| We could just teleport all the people that want to be in the United States, instantly just transport them here. | |
| They can never be deported. | |
| Would you do that? | |
| I don't know. | |
| You don't know? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Like, why do they want to be here? | |
| Economic reasons, prosperity. | |
| Yeah, if they want to come and have a better life and they want to better their life and better the world around them. | |
| If that's their intention, hell yeah. | |
| I'm convinced, like, for example, 99% of Indians, if they could just instantly teleport here and become citizens of the United States, like India would be like 99% of them would come here instantly. | |
| And what's the population of India? | |
| Like a couple million. | |
| No, it's high. | |
| That's a lot. | |
| I don't think I don't think it's a billion, but population of 800, 900. | |
| Oh my God, I'm retarded. | |
| It's 1.4 billion. | |
| I'm retarded. | |
| Yeah, I thought it was like 800, 900. | |
| Do you think it would be good for the United States? | |
| And by the way, it doesn't even have to be India. | |
| It could be China. | |
| It could be African countries. | |
| Do you think it would be, it could, do you think it would be good for the United States to just instantly have one, like 2 billion people here? | |
| Well, I mean, obviously, our infrastructure is not built for that. | |
| So that would probably cause economic collapse. | |
| How much do you pay for rent in Los Angeles? | |
| I pay $1,000 because I just rent a room in a big house. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What if I could tell you that, you know, if, I mean, look, there's a lot of reasons for housing prices beyond just immigration. | |
| But what if I told you that you could, for that much money, if we had more supply, you could have a three-bedroom house for $1,000 a month. | |
| And a pool, you could have a pool, and it'd be nice. | |
| I'm just saying the immigration has a pretty big impact on the economy. | |
| Well, I mean, if inflation kept up with the housing prices, the housing market kept up with the inflation of the rest of the world, the average price of a home today would only be $150,000 to $70,000. | |
| So there's no, I don't think we really like, I don't think logically we could say immigration is the reason that we can't afford to live right now. | |
| There's something way deeper and way like worse happening with just our government and with the economy and with the Federal Reserve. | |
| Like, I don't think that has to do with immigration and it's already happening. | |
| They're already basically making it so people can't own homes anymore. | |
| Well, I mean, I would agree that there's other factors as to, you know, costs of good, cost of rent, cost of housing. | |
| But I don't think we can completely, we certainly can't completely ignore the impact that immigration, both legal and illegal, would have on pricing for rent and housing. | |
| If it is the case that there's, I don't know, I don't know what the number is, 20, 30 million illegal immigrants here, they're not homeless. | |
| They're living in housing stock. | |
| Yeah, that probably drives prices up. | |
| And the real, are you millennial or Gen Z? | |
| I consider myself millennial, but some people like to say I'm Gen Z. | |
| Yeah. | |
| 28. | |
| I'm a millennial. | |
| Okay. | |
| I didn't have a farm until I was in 1600. | |
| I was like, actually, but the reality is for millennials and Gen Z and eventually Gen Alpha, yeah, we're never going to own a house. | |
| Most of us are not going to own houses. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that's fucking bullshit. | |
| That's fucking bullshit. | |
| And one of the reasons is because of immigration. | |
| It's not the only reason, but it's because of immigration. | |
| I don't agree. | |
| It is. | |
| And you see it in Canada, you see in Canada, their major cities, all these super wealthy people are just buying up housing in like Toronto and Vancouver, all these places. | |
| And Canadian-born people can't afford, they can't, the prices in Canada are fucked. | |
| The prices in the United States are fucked. | |
| How about the U.S. citizens should be able to buy a fucking house? | |
| How about millennials and Gen Z and eventually Gen Alpha should be able to afford a house? | |
| They should be able to afford rent. | |
| And I think it's honestly more about the Federal Reserve. | |
| We need to ban and completely destroy and destruct the Federal Reserve and privatized owning of the U.S. dollar. | |
| That is the main problem. | |
| And most of those people are the people who are literally causing fires to happen in Maui in the Pacific Palisades, and they're buying out all of that land. | |
| And those are not immigrants. | |
| Those are the rich, wealthy people. | |
| Sorry for the delay. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Nothing like being told by some rich, privileged white girl telling us how terrible this country is. | |
| And what if I told you the current area of Israel belonged to them around 1200 BCE? | |
| Who deserves it? | |
| Do you have a response to that? | |
| I don't think they would be bombing and murdering every person on the land if they already owned it. | |
| Okay. | |
| I guess final thing, we're not going to linger on the immigration stuff, but do you think Donald Trump is a fascist? | |
| I think he's leaning towards that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, what is fascism? | |
| Well, I mean, white supremacy. | |
| He wants everybody to be white, and he thinks that America should be ruled by white people. | |
| I mean, and he thinks that there's a certain people that are better than everybody else. | |
| And like, Donald Trump believes that's white people, which is a slight lean towards fascism, in my opinion. | |
| I mean, I don't know if I've seen much evidence for that, but you're saying white supremacy, but white supremacy is something separate from fascism. | |
| Can you tell me what fascism is? | |
| Okay. | |
| Fascism when I don't know the definition, really, but fascism is like when you need people to think and follow a certain thing. | |
| And anyone outside of that, like, they don't believe that those people deserve to be, right? | |
| Like, they need, if you don't follow a certain strict guideline of rules, whether that's what the dictator or the leader or whoever's trying to cause that like separation between the people believes, like, you know, Hitler at the time, he believed that Jewish people were planning to take over the world. | |
| That's what Hitler believed. | |
| So he thought to save the Jews and to save, like, or the Jews, the Germans, to save the Germans and to keep their bloodline, to not have it be taken over by the rest of the world. | |
| Like Hitler, by Jews specifically is what Hitler thought. | |
| He thought that Jews slash Zionism was a plan, which it was at the time. | |
| But anyways, but so Hitler believed that if you weren't somebody who abided by this belief that they were going to take from us, so we need to keep our, we need to keep what we have, like then you don't get to be a part of society, basically. | |
| Like if you're not willing to do this, this, and this to be able to keep whatever they had, which for them was fascism, their bloodline, what they looked like, blue eyes, whatever. | |
| If you're not willing to be that person and then turn in somebody who you know is a Jew or who you know is this who isn't following those guidelines, then they deserve to die or they deserve whatever, like to be imprisoned for life. | |
| So it's following a very strict form of guidelines that says one person, one type of being is the ultimate like higher being on earth. | |
| Okay, perhaps you could point to Nazism as an example of fascism, but I'm looking for a definition of fascism. | |
| I don't have the dictionary definition. | |
| I would love for you to say it to me. | |
| Okay, I mean, the reason I bring it up is because some of your political stuff, you were saying, well, like. | |
| Well, I don't think we're in a fascist society, but I think we're in a kleptocracy. | |
| What do you think? | |
| Which a kleptocracy is when the leaders of a country or of a group of people benefit in a small amount. | |
| There's a small amount of people who benefit rather than the greater good at the detriment to the greater good. | |
| So that's what a kleptocracy is, and that's what I think we're in. | |
| I don't think we're in a fascist society, so I don't know the dictionary definition. | |
| Okay, well, I'm waiting for her to get back. | |
| I've been trying to wait until there's a moment where everybody's at the table for this, but I guess ultimately, though, do you think countries' immigration laws should not be enforced? | |
| No, I don't think that. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't necessarily think that works, but I just think if people don't have a safe place to be, they should. | |
| You wanted to discuss monogamy and polyamory? | |
| Have you ever done poly? | |
| I was in an open relationship one time with this guy who wanted who was with multiple people. | |
| And I prefer monogamy, definitely. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm really waiting until I wish everybody's been getting up a lot. | |
| Susie, no, that's the fucking chick who no-showed. | |
| No. | |
| Samantha, she's in the bathroom. | |
| Rachel, that's a no-show. | |
| Alina. | |
| Here, we'll do your notes, Alina. | |
| I'm going to just skip that one. | |
| Sake of time. | |
| You also don't really believe that I don't eat pussy. | |
| You claim to be a labia guy. | |
| Like, boob guys, boob guys want boobs in their face. | |
| Ass guys want ass shaking happening near their face. | |
| So I just think it's rage baiting. | |
| I think you're trying to set up. | |
| I think you're trying to set up something where the women will say, oh, don't you want to please your woman? | |
| How dare you not eat box? | |
| And then you can una reverse it on them and say, well, it's not wrong for you to say that, but it's wrong for a man to demand his girl to suck his penis. | |
| So, you know, me, I'm a steak and potatoes kind of girl. | |
| You know what I do to steak and potatoes. | |
| I destroy it. | |
| You destroy penis? | |
| What if she has, like, no, that's not what I mean. | |
| What if she has world record labia? | |
| World record labia. | |
| And she's like, please, Brian, it's all I've ever wanted. | |
| I only listen to Pearl Jam. | |
| You told me you wouldn't potatoes. | |
| He's natural. | |
| I mean, he's folding. | |
| So is this like, would you do it for the perfect woman, basically? | |
| No, no one's perfect. | |
| But she just has giant labels. | |
| Labia is world record. | |
| Is she virgin? | |
| Yes. | |
| And like in this hypothetical, can we grant that she would never cheat on me? | |
| Yeah. | |
| She's the one you chose. | |
| Like you're already with her. | |
| That's more appetizing. | |
| But I still have some hang-ups with it. | |
| So yeah, some hang-ups. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm sorry, but it's kind of gay. | |
| Don't eat pussy. | |
| Why would that be? | |
| Why would that be gay? | |
| Why is it gay to not do that? | |
| Is it lesbian to not want to give you a-dick? | |
| Yeah, is that lesbian? | |
| It's kind of gay, yeah. | |
| If you don't want to be gay. | |
| Because it's a little gay, too. | |
| I think when guys don't really like vagina as much as other guys. | |
| I don't love vagina. | |
| Vagina is great. | |
| You don't if you don't want to eat it. | |
| If you don't want to eat it, I think it's a little gay. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| This is kind of getting a little rapey a little bit. | |
| Like, you're going to force somebody. | |
| So I think, yeah, a little bit because I think people, whether you're a man or a woman, I know you're laughing, but I feel like you're going to be like, Oh shit. | |
| I said, I just said some retarded, dumb shit. | |
| Um, I think people are allowed to have, I think, what's that? | |
| Are you going to say something really serious right now? | |
| Can you talk to me? | |
| I'm going to say something really serious right now. | |
| Well, I think people are allowed to have sexual boundaries, whether you're a man or a woman. | |
| And so I don't think that makes you homosexual. | |
| It's kind of interesting. | |
| Like you guys are both more liberal and you're like probably like, yeah, pro LGBT, but like you want to use gay as an insult. | |
| I don't think that's an insult. | |
| I just don't think that you're fully straight. | |
| If you don't want to eat a woman's vagina. | |
| But the implication there is a man who has a sexual boundary is a homosexual. | |
| I don't think they're fully straight. | |
| How would that? | |
| Because the only men I've ever known who didn't like eating pussy were bisexual or kind of gay. | |
| Yeah, that logical. | |
| You're not as attracted to a woman's body. | |
| You don't look at it and think, I want to eat that up. | |
| Like there's something that's a little less sexually, you have less of a sexual drive when it comes to looking at the opposite sexes parts and putting your face on it. | |
| I mean, that's kind of giving like you're less straight than other people. | |
| Yeah, but you're using gay as a bit of an insult. | |
| I didn't mean it as an insult, but I just think it's gay. | |
| If you don't eat pussy, I think it's kind of gay. | |
| I wouldn't want to date a guy. | |
| I would think that a guy who was like a little bit gay. | |
| Are you genuine? | |
| No, genuine. | |
| I think you're a little bit gay. | |
| Like homosexual. | |
| Like you're genuinely not attracted to a woman's vagina if you can't eat it. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So logically, this is completely incoherent. | |
| I think people are allowed to have sexual boundaries. | |
| They're allowed to not do certain things sexually, and this would have no bearing on their sexual orientation or their sexuality. | |
| So do you, so do you still like playing with a woman, like with your hands? | |
| Absolutely. | |
| Yes. | |
| In fact, a woman should come first, preferably multiple times, and certainly before you. | |
| And if you can achieve that through hands or, you know, if through hands ideally, but shit, if you even want to employ toys, you can, or just from intercourse. | |
| Okay, as long as it's not just about you putting your dick in and getting your nut, you know what I mean? | |
| No, it's not a selfish. | |
| It's not a selfish thing at all. | |
| In fact, I want my girl to, I want her to come before me. | |
| If she can come multiple times, she's going to come multiple times. | |
| However, I just, there's ways in which I guess you could give somebody an orgasm that would be a sexual boundary for you and not wanting to do. | |
| So if a woman, don't get me wrong, receiving oral sex is great. | |
| However, if a woman doesn't want to do that, I don't think that makes her a lesbian. | |
| I don't think that has any implication as to her sexual orientation if a woman doesn't enjoy giving or doesn't give oral sex. | |
| Do you think that would you feel like they were less attracted to you? | |
| No, not necessarily. | |
| If you don't just didn't want to suck your dick, would you be like, eh, I kind of feel like not as, you know? | |
| No, it's not a deal breaker. | |
| Don't get me wrong. | |
| Receiving oral sex is great. | |
| I'm not going to turn down the oral sex. | |
| Giving it, on the other hand, is a bit different. | |
| But yeah, I don't, if a woman doesn't want to do it, I don't think it makes her a homosexual or more of a homosexual. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What do you think? | |
| Would you consider that they maybe might have like low libido? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| I think you could have a really high libido, but have a sexual boundary. | |
| Like, for example, a woman could have a really high libido, but not want to engage in or have receptive anal sex. | |
| That isn't an implication on her libido because she has a sexual boundary. | |
| Like, what if scooter chair? | |
| Yeah, scoot your chair. | |
| I know. | |
| I'm soft-spoken too, so it sucks. | |
| But I just don't see the I don't see how it would logically imply that you're gay or more gay, I guess. | |
| I think that just comes from hearing two gay men, their coming out, they're realizing they were gay story. | |
| Both of them was, oh, I went to eat a girl out and I did not think that was delicious. | |
| Like it was not hot to me. | |
| It wasn't something that turned me on. | |
| It was gross. | |
| And they're like, and that's what helped me realize I was gay. | |
| So I think that's where that story comes from. | |
| And it's true, recounts. | |
| But I didn't mean to offend anyone. | |
| Like, if you don't like eating pussy and you have a sexual boundary, have your boundaries. | |
| Everyone deserves their boundaries. | |
| And I think my beliefs kind of like stem from something similar because I like I'm like partially like bisexual, but I don't think I would enjoy going down on like a girl because it's like slimy. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Wait, so you would understand. | |
| I would say I'm more straight than a bisexual because I wouldn't go down on a girl. | |
| So I'm like, oh, I lean more towards men. | |
| Same. | |
| I like men more. | |
| Because sure. | |
| I mean, look, if a woman, as a woman, you want to give oral sex, that, okay, cool. | |
| If you don't, I don't think that makes you less of a woman. | |
| I don't think it makes you homosexual or lean. | |
| You become a suspected homo as a woman if you don't suck dick. | |
| Like you can be 100% straight. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You're straight. | |
| It's okay. | |
| You're straight. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Maybe you don't like bodily fluids. | |
| I don't like bodily fluids. | |
| They gross me out. | |
| I think it, I mean, I think people, again, are allowed to have sexual preferences, sexual boundaries. | |
| I'm sure for both of you, there's probably certain sexual acts that you're not inclined to participate in. | |
| And that should be respected. | |
| And it doesn't have anything to do with your sexuality. | |
| It cannot, maybe. | |
| Like, it cannot, but it also could be an indicator. | |
| Yeah, but we could say this thing could be an indicator for anything. | |
| Right. | |
| But I guess to your thing, Alina, I don't do it. | |
| I have. | |
| Like, fucking, it was the Bush administration. | |
| Maybe, I think it was 2007. | |
| The last time I gave a woman oral sex. | |
| Yeah, it's been a fucking long time. | |
| It's just not my preference. | |
| I think also you definitely can't do that with, I mean, my advice to men, if you're inclined to do it, you can't be doing that on a one-night stand or even some chick who you just started seeing her because you haven't vetted her. | |
| I agree. | |
| Because the reality is, a lot of the way y'all move, not all women, but y'all be fucking other men. | |
| And women. | |
| The man. | |
| And women and men are different. | |
| If I fuck a chick, if I fuck a girl and I shower, I'm good as new, basically. | |
| Let's remove STDs from this conversation. | |
| If I shower in soap or whatever, my fresh and clean, outcast. | |
| So fresh and what's that? | |
| How's that fucking sound? | |
| It's so clean, clean. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| I'm good if I shower because men's parts are external. | |
| Women, you're not really supposed to clean up. | |
| You're not really supposed to like douche. | |
| You're not supposed to soap up there. | |
| You're going to get, you're going to throw your pH balance. | |
| You'll fuck your shit up. | |
| So if a guy comes inside of you and you deal with a new guy the next day because a lot of y'all women, I'm not talking about, maybe I'm not talking about anybody at this table, but I know how some women move. | |
| And y'all be fucking multiple men at the same time. | |
| If one dude comes inside you, that shit lingers, and you've just created a fucking cocktail, fucking cocktail of cum and pussy juice, and it throws your fucking pH balance off, and that shit is fucking stewing in there. | |
| Another man's seed is stewing in your pussies. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so it's the reason for a man to be like, have a different, like a revulsion to this is because we can't with certainty guarantee that you're not fucking around with other men, especially in 2025, going into 2026. | |
| Y'all deal with multiple dudes. | |
| Y'all fucking multiple dudes. | |
| And so I'm not taking that risk. | |
| Maybe you can make the argument if that's your girlfriend and you know she like you know for sure she ain't fucking around. | |
| Even your girlfriend can cheat well, I think for one though, but with a man, you have your pre-com like oozing out all the time, like that's. | |
| That's terrifying. | |
| For all I have to say though, is, can we just mention how atrocious and terrifying it is that women will let a man come inside of them when they don't know them. | |
| That's scary. | |
| This is terrifying to me. | |
| I couldn't actually imagine that some woman would let someone on their first night meeting come inside of them and then want to go have sex again. | |
| I mean if, if the girl's on birth control, that is sick. | |
| They be letting. | |
| That's disgusting. | |
| Yeah, they're letting guys hit a raw. | |
| They're let all this stuff right. | |
| I mean, I'm not even talking about STD, that's another component here too. | |
| Also, the I mean, the big argument here is, they've actually found that men who engage in oral sex, so men who go down on women, they have a way higher likelihood of getting throat, neck and face cancers. | |
| What yeah, so men who, men who give women oral sex, you have a way higher risk of throat neck face, mouth cancers. | |
| Why is that HPV most? | |
| Mostly, I think so. | |
| So is that where it stems from? | |
| For you, is it like a fear? | |
| I mean it's? | |
| It's a couple different factors. | |
| It's the I who was that? | |
| Michael Douglas? | |
| Is that the actor? | |
| He had throat cancer. | |
| I think it was Michael Douglas. | |
| He had I believe I could be getting the name wrong. | |
| He got throat cancer and he was like yes, from eating pussy. | |
| He was like I was eating so much pussy, too much pussy, and this motherfucker got throat cancer. | |
| And yeah, I don't know if you want to pull that up. | |
| And so that's one concern. | |
| The other concern is, look also, there is, there is a smell, there's a taste. | |
| Some women it's minimal, some women it's almost nothing. | |
| Some women it's noticeable. | |
| And then also, if it is your girlfriend and you're blasting inside your girlfriend, then it's like I don't want, like I don't want that in my even if he should, even if she's loyal yeah, even if she's loyal and she's a virgin and I'm and I'm coming inside of her, I don't want my own seed, I don't want that girl. | |
| No fuck no, I don't. | |
| Where are we right now? | |
| What's up? | |
| Pull it up. | |
| Oral sex caused my cancer. | |
| Yeah, so uh, he said yeah, so read it and weep yeah, he says in the article it caused his cancer. | |
| So there's that, there's like. | |
| Don't get me wrong, I am not grossed out by pussy. | |
| Pussy's great love pussy. | |
| Okay, fine with hands, fine juice, the more juice the better. | |
| I'm not don't, I'm not scared of the pussy, I'm not scared of the juice. | |
| More juice the better okay, Okay. | |
| But in terms of my mouth, very intimate area. | |
| Also, if a girl gives me head, can't kiss her for like 24 hours. | |
| That gives you head? | |
| You won't kiss her after? | |
| If she gives me head, can't kiss her for two. | |
| Deal breaker. | |
| Hey, sexual boundary. | |
| Oh, ham and all. | |
| I need a good deep hardcore makeout off dry. | |
| Eating boss is kind of degen anyway, so it's all good. | |
| Eating, what is that? | |
| It's kind of degen anyway, so good for you. | |
| Isn't it technically? | |
| I mean, look, I'm not a Christian, but isn't it technically sodomy? | |
| Like you're technically. | |
| No, I think that's anal. | |
| No, I believe sodomy biblically, historically, also referred to oral sex. | |
| Was it sodomy? | |
| Sodomy. | |
| Well, now I think it's more so referred to anal sex. | |
| What does it mean, though? | |
| I actually don't know. | |
| I mean, like, what's the actual definition of it? | |
| I'm not actually sure, but sodomy definition. | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| So sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation. | |
| So I was right. | |
| And what, and what does it say in the Bible? | |
| What's that? | |
| What does it say about sodomy in the Bible? | |
| Like, it says that's bad. | |
| No, sodomy Bible, I think it's... | |
| It's like a sin? | |
| Uh... | |
| There shall be no Deuteronomy 23. | |
| Wait. | |
| Nor a sodomite. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That's referring to Sodom and Gomorrah. | |
| That gets really messy. | |
| Like, it's kind of hard to translate here. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm not, I'm just. | |
| I don't know either. | |
| She was saying it was based. | |
| So I was like, yeah, kind of based, I guess. | |
| Okay. | |
| Nobody has any thoughts. | |
| Nobody has a flyer. | |
| Well, I don't think it's really a sexual boundary for you. | |
| To me, it sounds like it's more bacterial boundaries. | |
| Right. | |
| I mean, because you're like a queen freak. | |
| Because you like big labias and you said you like vagina, but you don't want to eat it. | |
| So I don't think it's because you're gay or you don't like it. | |
| I think it's just a bacterial thing. | |
| I mean, that's a component, but also neck problems. | |
| That's another reason. | |
| They can hover above you. | |
| They haven't invented their hair yet. | |
| No way. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Can't be afraid. | |
| Someone get making it. | |
| I'm trying to think where we. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh. | |
| I'm going to do is this segment. | |
| I don't know if it's going to work tonight. | |
| Nobody here does OnlyFans, right? | |
| And you've never done OnlyFans. | |
| Not X. Anybody been a stripper? | |
| Anybody? | |
| Okay, no sex workers. | |
| Great. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| We're going to do it anyways. | |
| So I feel like, you know, at least for the, well, for the OF girls, they're just, all these simps are sending them money. | |
| Now, who here has ever had a sugar daddy? | |
| How about that? | |
| Sugar daddy, sugar daddy? | |
| How about this? | |
| Have you ever had a guy just like send you money? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like a guy, oh, here's 200 bucks. | |
| Or a guy who gave you some fucking gift and you didn't deserve it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| So we're going to do a role reversal. | |
| You women have had for years simp after simp after simp giving you free money, giving you gifts, all this stuff. | |
| And these guys, I've heard women tell me stories like, oh, yeah, some guy, I was at the gas station and he just gave me like 30 bucks. | |
| Like guys just give y'all money sometimes. | |
| I don't know. | |
| So I think we should finally do role reversal. | |
| This is your chances boss, babe, feminist. | |
| Maybe you're not that, but whatever. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| Even if you're not, this is a shakedown. | |
| I want all of you one by one, go to your who here, show of hands, who has cash on them? | |
| Cash, cash, cash, cash. | |
| Do you have cash on you? | |
| Apple pay. | |
| No cash. | |
| I accept Venmo and Cash App. | |
| Do you have cash on you? | |
| Ab Apple Pay and MX. | |
| Cash. | |
| Do you have cash on you? | |
| No cash. | |
| Give me your cash. | |
| I'll give you my cash. | |
| What do you have? | |
| Yeah, yeah, go get it. | |
| Some amount. | |
| All of it, though. | |
| Sure. | |
| All your cash. | |
| Alina, she has like, I only have rubles. | |
| I'll take the fucking rubles. | |
| I didn't bring them inside. | |
| Bullshit. | |
| No, I actually didn't. | |
| Oh, look at this. | |
| Mary here, my employee, gave me $340. | |
| Scripted. | |
| I've got her on a leash. | |
| I've got you whipped, Mary. | |
| I actually really need you. | |
| Actually, there's more, right? | |
| You better. | |
| You know what? | |
| Go to the fucking ATM, Mary. | |
| Get me the rest. | |
| Give me the rest, Mary. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| She has more. | |
| Look at that. | |
| She gave me that. | |
| That looks like about 20 bucks there. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Yeah, Mary, Mary. | |
| Mary, disappointed. | |
| I'm not angry, Mary. | |
| I'm just disappointed. | |
| I'm really sorry. | |
| She was late today. | |
| Very late. | |
| Very late, Mary. | |
| In fact, I'm hungry. | |
| I'm hungry too. | |
| So get ready. | |
| Get ready to get some food for me. | |
| So, yeah, thank you, Mary. | |
| I think that was like 300, 400 bucks. | |
| Alina, can you get some cash for me? | |
| Who's going to give me a cash? | |
| You're going to give me cash? | |
| No? | |
| No. | |
| Not just for the novelty of being like this one time I simped for Brian. | |
| What the hell? | |
| I simped too hard like three months ago. | |
| She didn't even give me the fucking coins. | |
| I'll take the coins. | |
| Wow. | |
| So she gave me, guys, she gave me $100. | |
| Those are precious pennies, limited supply. | |
| Wow. | |
| You're a fucking. | |
| Is this a bit? | |
| Do you give it back? | |
| I love you for this. | |
| I feel like I owe her an apology. | |
| This is a little harsh. | |
| I've been a bit harsh with you tonight. | |
| No worries. | |
| It's the food sometimes. | |
| No worries. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I'm not myself when I'm hungry. | |
| Wow. | |
| I need a Snickers party. | |
| Where's the commercial? | |
| Wait, what's that face you're doing? | |
| I'm just like, what the heck? | |
| That was gangster? | |
| That was just so easy. | |
| Like, I wish I asked first. | |
| I know. | |
| You're crazy. | |
| She should have told me I got a hustle. | |
| I know I'm not supposed to, but I think I'm jealous right now. | |
| I'm going to have to pray. | |
| I'm not a jerk. | |
| Stop. | |
| Join hands. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Dear me to end this jelly season. | |
| That is amazing. | |
| With $5,000. | |
| $100,000. | |
| Please next to see. | |
| Amen. | |
| Amen. | |
| Hey, Mary, can you come grab these coins from you can stay here? | |
| Can you grab these coins from Alina? | |
| And don't pocket any of those, Mary. | |
| I know you want to fucking pocket those coins. | |
| I just gave you like $500 tonight. | |
| Yeah, don't pocket those coins. | |
| I want those coins accounted for, Mary. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You better. | |
| If you pocket any of those, you're getting a what? | |
| What's it called? | |
| Demotion. | |
| Can we ask Mary for water? | |
| Oh, yes. | |
| If any of you need water, she will hook you up. | |
| All right, let's get back into some topics here. | |
| Let's get into some topics. | |
| Boys, I just want to play this for scratch me, boy. | |
| What the hell? | |
| Boom! | |
| Linkalute! | |
| You know, you're, you're, you know, you, you, you're, uh, thank you. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Thank you for the contribution. | |
| Thank you again. | |
| I'm a starving college student. | |
| I'm a starving artist, struggling artist. | |
| So I appreciate you supporting with your patronage. | |
| You should post your videos on Rumble more. | |
| Yeah, you should. | |
| Wink wink. | |
| You're right. | |
| I should. | |
| I should. | |
| Wow. | |
| Thank you so much. | |
| You're welcome. | |
| You're a legend. | |
| And I thank you again for this wonderful opportunity. | |
| Not many random women could just jump on podcasts. | |
| Well, you're welcome. | |
| I do want to make one thing clear, though. | |
| This is a recurring thing. | |
| Now you're in my you're in my web, my spider web. | |
| So once a week, I'm going to need you to send me a tribute. | |
| All right, fair enough. | |
| Once a week. | |
| Once a week. | |
| Maybe, you know, I'll let you pick. | |
| Sure, I'll just like just keep bringing. | |
| Yeah, it's tidy. | |
| You want to keep that maybe behind you, just so it's off the table? | |
| Sure. | |
| Can I just put my cards in my wallet real quick and put that? | |
| I'll take your credit cards too. | |
| Just write down the pin for him. | |
| So this is paid away on. | |
| I'll call my bank account. | |
| Yes, actually, I will be less harsh on you. | |
| Actually, you can talk more. | |
| If you don't give me money, then I'm just going to go for you. | |
| No. | |
| All right. | |
| We have. | |
| Ooh, let's get into this. | |
| Why not? | |
| Stiffler, ask everyone to rate their own looks. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Should we wait? | |
| Nick, have you heard from... | |
| Here, we'll do. | |
| We're going to wait on the looks rating thing, I guess, really quick. | |
| How about this? | |
| Who here, just curious, was anybody here not born in the United States? | |
| Anybody? | |
| What about your parents? | |
| Anybody here? | |
| Your parents, maybe you're second generation American? | |
| My mom was adopted, but my dad was born in Australia. | |
| Okay, so you're in Germany. | |
| You have German citizenship? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, but your parents are German citizens. | |
| You Mexican or my dad born here, Mexican, but then my mom, she's an immigrant from California. | |
| Bruh, from Cambodia. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So you're part Cambodian, part. | |
| Do you have citizenship in. | |
| You were born here. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I was born here. | |
| Just my mom was born. | |
| You don't have dual citizenship? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I was born here. | |
| My parents are. | |
| American? | |
| American? | |
| Like oral. | |
| Alina? | |
| From Russia. | |
| You were born there? | |
| Yes. | |
| What city? | |
| Penza. | |
| Penza? | |
| What was Penza? | |
| Never heard of that. | |
| P-E-N-Z-A. | |
| Is it near Moscow? | |
| Not very close. | |
| It's about a 12-hour train ride. | |
| Okay. | |
| So I guess for you, for you, and for you, in a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United States and either your birth country or, let's say, the country of your parents' or family's origin. | |
| So for you, Germany, for you, Mexico, for you, Russia. | |
| Where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance? | |
| Starting with Alina. | |
| Look, so I love this question, and I do believe that immigrants to the U.S. should have allegiance to the U.S. | |
| However, some countries, especially in times of world conflict, make laws around expressing allegiance to nations that are considered to be enemy nations to your country. | |
| So if you plan to have ties to your home country still, like you plan to travel there, for example, there's things that you cannot talk about or you will get in legal trouble. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Just curious, are you a citizen of the United States? | |
| Yes. | |
| I have a dual citizenship. | |
| Dual citizenship. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you, when did you move to the United States? | |
| In 2015. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so were you. | |
| Is one of your parents a U.S. citizen? | |
| No. | |
| So you guys immigrated here? | |
| My biological parents were both Russian citizens. | |
| Do they live in Russia or are they here? | |
| No. | |
| My mom is here. | |
| I have a stepdad because my father passed away. | |
| Okay. | |
| I see. | |
| So you guys moved here. | |
| Has your mom gotten American citizenship? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you did go through the naturalization process, though. | |
| Yes. | |
| So you took the oath of allegiance? | |
| I did take the oath of allegiance. | |
| Isn't it even by virtue of you admitting that if we know what the content of the oath of allegiance is, Nick, can you pull it up really quick? | |
| You saying that you took the oath of allegiance, which is, I hereby declare on oath that I absolutely and entirely renounce and abjure all can you make it a bit bigger? | |
| Allegiance and fidelity to or to excuse me to any foreign prince, state, or sovereignty of whom or which I have heretofore been the subject or citizen, that I will support and defend the Constitution and laws of the United States of America against all enemies, foreign and domestic, that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same, etc., etc., etc. | |
| You guys can read the rest. | |
| I mean, even that admission alone, doesn't that give you some concern that you took the oath of allegiance to the United States? | |
| But it definitely does give me concern now with how things are going in the world. | |
| But when I was reading the Oath of Allegiance, I don't know if I'm schizophrenic or something, but I did see a part that said, all countries except for Russia, unless you're Russian. | |
| Maybe I'm crazy. | |
| I don't know. | |
| What? | |
| Okay. | |
| I guess, okay, going to you, what would your answer be? | |
| So to which country is your allegiance? | |
| Let's say the United States went to war with Mexico. | |
| United States. | |
| Okay. | |
| The food. | |
| United States goes to war with Germany. | |
| To which country is your allegiance? | |
| U.S. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| That's pretty much it. | |
| Just curious on that. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's get into. | |
| Oh, we got to wait for that one girl. | |
| She's going to be here soon. | |
| Have you been checking the Instagram messages, Nick? | |
| Indeed. | |
| Rock and roll. | |
| 10 minutes, roughly. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, hold on. | |
| Let's get into Lynn. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You've dated a professional athlete. | |
| Athlete or athletes? | |
| Just one. | |
| Just one? | |
| NFL? | |
| Maybe. | |
| NBA? | |
| Yes. | |
| Which one? | |
| I don't want to say. | |
| Aw, come on. | |
| You don't have to tell us the team. | |
| Just. | |
| She signed an NDA. | |
| Now just seeing that. | |
| Exactly. | |
| You said you were on Tinder in the past and you went on a date with someone on house arrest. | |
| Yes, that is true. | |
| Okay. | |
| And can you tell us like the quick 30-second version or shorter, I guess, of the house arrest story? | |
| So I was on Tinder when I was about 18 years old and I met this guy and we had chemistry. | |
| So we decided to go on a date. | |
| And he does well for himself. | |
| We went to Nobu. | |
| It was nice or whatever. | |
| And at the end of the day, he's like, I have to leave. | |
| I'm like, why the rush? | |
| And then he pulls up his pants leg and I see the ankle monitor. | |
| I'm like, oh, that's why you have to leave. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| You should have told me that at the beginning of the date. | |
| And come to find out, I googled his name. | |
| He was on house arrest for domestic violence. | |
| So there's that. | |
| Well, that's why he didn't tell you. | |
| Right. | |
| But that's why I don't do dating apps. | |
| I feel like dating apps just put you in front of a whole bunch of people you were never supposed to meet. | |
| So I agree. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sorry, like apparently violence is linked to lead poisoning. | |
| And there's like a third of the children are poisoned by lead too. | |
| So we have it in our pipes and everything. | |
| And so I was looking at like a map of like the lead poisoning per country and I was like, holy moly, this needs to be addressed because it's like the violence, the migration, like the crime, whatever, all the chaos. | |
| It's like, how much of this is due to lead? | |
| And heavy metal, just heavy metals in general. | |
| Come trellis, you guys. | |
| Heavy aluminum poisoning, everything, heavy metal detox, we should all do. | |
| She's 100% right. | |
| So, cilantro helps. | |
| Like, I know it sounds silly, but take wormwood. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Take oregano oil. | |
| Yeah, I mean, certain herbs do remove heavy metals from the body. | |
| So, um, like, I recommend just like, oh, you can detoxify from glyphosate. | |
| I hate to mention it again, but that's like it has heavy metals in it. | |
| So it's linked to a lot of stuff. | |
| I know I'm on repeat, but if you listen to RFK Jr., we'd be like, oh my gosh, I came back again to this fucking conversation. | |
| I want to repeat it because I feel like I can potentially prevent violence if I tell people to eat organic food, but the price is just ridiculous. | |
| My parents actually hate me because I eat organic food. | |
| It's like the funniest thing ever. | |
| It's really hard with my family as well, honestly. | |
| They're like, oh, Kaylee can eat that. | |
| She has to eat organic. | |
| I'm like, sorry. | |
| Yeah, I get made fun of about like plastic or whatever. | |
| And I'm just like, but, but, but, but, like, Dr. Shanna Smith. | |
| What about y'all? | |
| Do you guys do dating apps? | |
| You're in a long relationship. | |
| You don't do them? | |
| You? | |
| Sorry. | |
| Dating apps? | |
| No, I just don't date anymore. | |
| I just need to like focus on my own knowledge. | |
| Like, people mention, like, you're very ignorant about the Bible. | |
| And I'm like, exactly. | |
| That's why I'm just not 100% ready to be out here. | |
| But I'm going to be out here. | |
| Good. | |
| Now it's good to be self-aware. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you want to get married one day? | |
| So I'm like so focused on like health education, for example, that I just feel like it's really hard for me to focus on dating because I just want to work all the time and I just really want to focus and I feel like I am neglectful because it's like, oh, I have to clean all the time. | |
| I have to cook all the time. | |
| And I'm trying to save the world over here in my own mind or on research or whatever stuff. | |
| So I'm just like, yeah, I just don't really have the interest in raising kids right now because I just like can't really focus on kids right now. | |
| I just am like, it seems like there's a lot of problems in the world and I want to like try to address them. | |
| But I'm just like, I don't want to be like in politics, but I feel like I just kind of need to be like going in there. | |
| Wait, one question. | |
| So, okay, we talked a bit about the schizophrenia. | |
| In a relationship, how does the schizophrenia uniquely manifest itself? | |
| Well, with my last relationship, I was just told, no, God didn't speak to you. | |
| No, you need to be on medication. | |
| Just like, so I was just like, I can't be here. | |
| I need to live in the truth as much as possible, which is focusing on the Bible. | |
| I mean, you told us about the side effects, or not the side effects, but the symptoms. | |
| There are visual, auditory, sensory, tactile hallucinations that you experience. | |
| But like, does it, in terms of your behavior, like, are you, do you have, I don't know if it's like mood swings, are you violent? | |
| You're peaceful, schizo. | |
| I've never dated a woman who's a schizo. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Maybe. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Sorry. | |
| I've got to focus on the Bible. | |
| But hey, I'll keep giving you money. | |
| I'll keep driving. | |
| Like, I've done date. | |
| I've dated a BPD. | |
| I'm trying to, this is Pokemon to me. | |
| I got to catch them all. | |
| I dated a BPD girl, borderline personality disorder. | |
| I dated bipolar. | |
| And, you know, of course, you've got, you got to throw in a couple like anxious chicks, a couple depressed, you know, throw those in. | |
| But I've never, as far as I know, I don't think I've dated a full-blown schizo. | |
| So I think just for research purposes, you know, maybe we should, you know, you know, you know what I mean? | |
| She's focused on the Bible. | |
| Yeah, I'm sorry. | |
| I got to focus on the Bible. | |
| Hey, don't let that IUD go to waste, but just kidding. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| Is that like, oh, I'm kidding, guys? | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| Is that one of the first things you disclosed to somebody like your last boyfriend? | |
| How soon into dating did you just close like, oh, I have this mental illness that I have to deal with every day? | |
| I, um, so it's kind of a long story, but like, I was dealing with symptoms after this Accutane, and I was feeling like I had suicidal ideation. | |
| And then I was begging God, like, please, can I just find someone who loves me? | |
| Ironic, like, terrible. | |
| Um, and so then I find someone, and I'm just like, uh, and then God speaks to me within like a week of the relationship starting. | |
| And I was asking, like, is this the one? | |
| And it was kind of like they're dodging the question. | |
| And I was just like, like, okay, I guess this is the person I'm supposed to be with. | |
| So then I just stayed with them for about two years. | |
| And then I was like, but he doesn't want me to read the Bible. | |
| This doesn't make sense. | |
| So it just like layers upon layers of just like, this doesn't make sense. | |
| I don't think I'm supposed to be with that. | |
| What's the word for enabling where your previous boyfriend stifled you? | |
| I would enable. | |
| I will enable you. | |
| I will be like, yes, God told you. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| He knows that you can be peer-pressured. | |
| So watch out. | |
| Yeah, I'm sorry. | |
| I got to like just really like three minutes. | |
| Sorry. | |
| I'm yelling in the microwave. | |
| Three minutes. | |
| I would enable. | |
| Good talk. | |
| Good talk. | |
| Wait, hey, I can help you with dating advice. | |
| I just don't want to tell you everything on the podcast because don't want to, whatever. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I get it. | |
| I get it. | |
| That's fair. | |
| That's fair. | |
| Tell him when he takes you home later. | |
| Going to Lynn, were you able to get through the house arrest guy story? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Tavy, is that how you say your name? | |
| Tavy. | |
| You got the tongue piercing. | |
| Can you show it? | |
| All right. | |
| You're a single mom, correct? | |
| Whoa. | |
| No. | |
| I'm single, but not a mom. | |
| Oh, where did I... | |
| Wait. | |
| Where did I get the single mom from? | |
| I don't know. | |
| You're not a single mom. | |
| You don't have a child? | |
| No. | |
| Wait, really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Let me double check the notes. | |
| I could have sworn. | |
| I had a dog once, but I didn't tell you that. | |
| Tavy. | |
| Let's see what you wrote up. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Let me confirm this. | |
| Well, while I'm looking at that, can you tell us about the Valentine's Day thing? | |
| Do you want to pose it to the table? | |
| Valentine's Day. | |
| Oh. | |
| Okay, so how would you guys feel about your man? | |
| So like your partner, like for sure dating, like you're going to marry this person. | |
| In a relationship? | |
| Like how long into a relationship? | |
| Oh, a year. | |
| Okay. | |
| How would you feel about them getting your bestie like a flower for Valentine's Day? | |
| Because I want my man to also get my bestie flowers. | |
| Maybe not the same bouquet as me, but because I feel like they should be friends. | |
| And I want her to have a flower too. | |
| Bye. | |
| Bye. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| I took this guy to Mexico like a couple months ago. | |
| And he got, there was this person on the street making everybody, you know, those like palm tree flower roses. | |
| And he got everybody one. | |
| And I was like deeply pissed off. | |
| And I was like, how are you going to make it not special like that? | |
| And he was like, well, I had her make this one special for you. | |
| Those were already in the bouquet. | |
| And I was like, okay, that justifies it. | |
| As long as there's some type of special differentiation, then that's fine. | |
| But if, but I, but if it's my boyfriend and it's Valentine's Day, you could get my friend, my best friend, one rose, and you can get me an entire everything else. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Does anybody here have kids? | |
| Anyone have kids? | |
| Okay, I'll know where I got then. | |
| Excuse me for that. | |
| But you did write one time your ex slapped you because he couldn't get what? | |
| Ard. | |
| Oh. | |
| Yeah, I don't know why he was mad at me. | |
| Was that a one-time thing, or did that happen? | |
| Yeah, that happened one time. | |
| And I was just like, dang. | |
| He slapped you? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know what I did. | |
| Did you dump him after? | |
| No, because we never brought it up. | |
| And I'm not going to lie, I was kind of like dumb and all that. | |
| I was attached. | |
| I was going to say, no, I was perplexed. | |
| Perplexed. | |
| Yeah, but it was kind of an emotionally abusive relationship. | |
| So I knew that you abused him. | |
| Huh? | |
| You emotionally abused him? | |
| No, no, other way around. | |
| Oh, my bad. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Oh, no, it's okay. | |
| But I would have loved the honesty on my end if it was. | |
| But yeah, so. | |
| Yeah, it was just kind of emotionally abusive. | |
| I'm not saying I was perfect, but yeah, so he had a good way of like bringing things back to me. | |
| So like there's this one time I caught him watching porn, which was something I was against. | |
| And, you know, when I left all mad, he was like, yeah, but like you used to cut yourself. | |
| Like, how do you think that makes me feel? | |
| And I was like, dang, like, you're right. | |
| No, yeah, you're right. | |
| And so I ended up apologizing. | |
| So I just, it was just something I kind of like brushed off. | |
| Yeah. | |
| True story. | |
| Oh, he also wore the jacket I wanted to wear on my birthday. | |
| He wore the jacket that I wanted to wear. | |
| I was like, oh, yeah, it's my birthday. | |
| I want to wear this. | |
| And he was like, no, I'm wearing it. | |
| And I was like, okay. | |
| That's your boyfriend. | |
| That's your aw. | |
| You said okay, girl. | |
| Hey, I never said I was perfect. | |
| This needs to grow up here. | |
| BC Taby. | |
| Also, you said you had probably a lot of disagreements. | |
| Was there anything that came to mind as far as disagreements go? | |
| Not so far that I could think of right now. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, actually, yeah, one thing. | |
| Well, I know, obviously, you don't claim to be a Christian or anything. | |
| Sorry to circle bad guys, but it just made me a little sad. | |
| The way that you were coming at her, I was just like, oh, and I wanted to be like, yeah, we don't come at each other like that. | |
| But then I was also like, oh, but you know, I can't hold him to Christians. | |
| That was the only thing. | |
| Maybe just the tone. | |
| I knew you were not going to let it slide. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Oh, no, that was for her. | |
| Wait, really quick, can you do me a favor? | |
| Can you just like stand back up? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| No, go back up. | |
| And then keep it on this angle, Mary. | |
| Keep it on this angle. | |
| Okay, come in. | |
| Go ahead and sit. | |
| Go ahead and take your seat. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Okay, good one. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, why don't you tell us your name, age, et cetera, et cetera? | |
| Okay. | |
| Hello, everyone. | |
| My name is KKDNA. | |
| I'm 26 years old. | |
| I am from New Orleans, Louisiana. | |
| And I am a singer and artist and songwriter. | |
| From New Orleans? | |
| Yes, I'm from New Orleans. | |
| Okay, all right. | |
| And unfortunately, there's a delay with your flight. | |
| Nothing you can do. | |
| Luckily, we did have an open seat, so welcome, welcome. | |
| Glad you were able to finally make it. | |
| I wanted to so bad. | |
| I was so upset, but it just kept getting worse and worse and worse. | |
| It was there like a lot of, I wonder if there's a lot of like is it weather-related? | |
| Because the weather is good here, but I figure in like other parts of the U.S. | |
| It's not it actually was the plane itself. | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| So, yeah, they landed and they were like, they're changing the tire. | |
| I'm like, okay. | |
| Everyone's upset because we already got delayed twice already. | |
| So we're watching them change the tire and everything. | |
| But I guess there's like a bunch of paperwork that has to clear right then and there before you can even take off. | |
| And then they're like, oh, well, never mind. | |
| The planes actually broke. | |
| So we're going to switch planes. | |
| Everybody had to run to the other side. | |
| It was terrible. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You're here now. | |
| We're here now. | |
| And there's nothing you can do. | |
| There's flight delays. | |
| Yeah, next time I'm just going to fly in the day before. | |
| Sorry, repeat your age for me. | |
| I'm 26 years old. | |
| 26. | |
| Yes. | |
| Tell us your relationship status. | |
| So I am single. | |
| Single? | |
| How long have you been single for? | |
| Oh, it's 2025. | |
| So about three years. | |
| Three years? | |
| It's been three years. | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| I've been in a relationship. | |
| That was about a year. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's your longest ever? | |
| Yeah, because it was my first relationship, my last relationship. | |
| Is that the one that ended three years ago? | |
| Yep. | |
| Who broke up with who? | |
| It was almost kind of mutual. | |
| It was really because I moved. | |
| Okay. | |
| I was in Vegas at the time, but I moved back to New Orleans because my producer was here. | |
| And we just didn't, yeah. | |
| Don't they have an accent there in New Orleans? | |
| Yeah, they do. | |
| What is it? | |
| It's the term like the French infusion. | |
| Are you talking about Creole? | |
| No, not Creole. | |
| It's Cajun. | |
| Oh, Cajun. | |
| Yeah, see, that's the Cajun's for white people. | |
| The Creoles are black. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| There's no black people that speak Cape or that are Cajun. | |
| Oh, yeah, there's definitely, but like, Cajun is like, it's for like swamp people. | |
| You ever seen that show? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you know how to do the Cajun accent? | |
| No, no, not like that. | |
| Not like that. | |
| Not like that. | |
| Anybody here know the Cajun accent? | |
| It's kind of cool. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It has like a rhythm to it. | |
| It's the best spices, though. | |
| I'm telling you. | |
| Okay, they know how to cook. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Going back to the show notes, why don't we actually, Barbie, we'll touch on one of your notes quick. | |
| As soon as my favorite schizophrenic returns to the panel, you know, I don't know many. | |
| She's actually one of the more pleasant schizophrenia. | |
| Is it, by the way, is schizo, is that offensive? | |
| Is it offensive? | |
| Is it schizo? | |
| Like, I would say it in an endearing sort of way. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| She's like, hi, is that rude? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Watch, by the way, we did take the knives off of her. | |
| No way. | |
| So you're the reason why they was wanting down to. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| No problem. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| We took all her wet. | |
| Okay, gotcha. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| But is schizo offensive? | |
| Is that a schizo? | |
| Sorry, about I just ate some pumpkin spray. | |
| She is. | |
| So the only reason I'm just like, like not super thrilled with that term is because people are saying, so it comes from the healthcare system where they basically take out God and so much information. | |
| And it's like, but what about actual Voices that are speaking to you from the supernatural realm, from God, from dark forces, from good forces, angels. | |
| Like, who's just a bad person? | |
| So, I should just refer to you as schizophrenic. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not schizo, not schizo. | |
| I don't know if I'm psychic, so that's why I'm just like, I believe. | |
| I'll just say maybe I'm schizophrenic, but I think I'm in my mind right now. | |
| What am I thinking? | |
| I can't. | |
| I maybe can read some minds, but it's hard to figure out. | |
| I'm just like a really ignorant person on this. | |
| Hey, whoa, whoa, whoa. | |
| Let's not do the negative self-talk. | |
| Okay. | |
| You'll get there. | |
| You know, Barbie, actually, while I have everybody at the table, let's do this. | |
| And then we'll get into some of Barbie's other notes. | |
| We have a question. | |
| Alina, can you read this? | |
| Ask everyone to rate their own looks, face, body, total on the scale of one to ten. | |
| Can pick seven. | |
| Okay, I know the meme about saying like you're a ten. | |
| In my eyes, I'm a 10 to my standards. | |
| To society standards, I believe I'm an eight. | |
| Can you break it down, though? | |
| Face, body, total for your standards and society standards, I guess? | |
| Face, body total? | |
| Yeah, like somebody could have like a lethal face card, but their body is whatever. | |
| A lethal. | |
| Okay, so I work really hard on my body. | |
| I go to gym very often and I do lots of diets and supplements. | |
| I know my body is a 10. | |
| I'm going to accept that. | |
| And my face, I think, is an eight or a nine. | |
| What are you looking at, by the way? | |
| You're just. | |
| Oh, I was, there's like a weird reflection, and I was zoning out. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Okay. | |
| Can I ask what the deduction is? | |
| Like, since you gave yourself an eight or nine, like, what about your face? | |
| Like, well, I said, like, if I was to say, like, for myself, to my standards, I'm a 10. | |
| I've reached what I want to look like, what I wanted to look like when I was a kid. | |
| I've reached that point now, which means in my standards, I'm a 10, my face. | |
| But I know 10. | |
| I would say, yeah. | |
| But to society standards, I know I meet the beauty standards. | |
| So are you 8, 8, 8 for society or whatever? | |
| I would say so, but it's objective, you know? | |
| What about you? | |
| 10 all across the board. | |
| Okay. | |
| 10, So 10. | |
| Can you say 10 face, 10 body, 10 total? | |
| Period. | |
| 10. | |
| 10 face, 10 body, 5 million, 10%. | |
| Period. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| 8 face, 8 body, 8 total. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Sister. | |
| 6.5 face, 6 body. | |
| 6 total? | |
| 6.5? | |
| Like I said. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Okay, I recently gained weight. | |
| So I think I'm a six. | |
| Six body, a six face. | |
| If I was my normal weight, then I would be an eight. | |
| But right now, you look. | |
| I don't know. | |
| She's perfect. | |
| You look good. | |
| I mean, come on. | |
| You want to lose more, though. | |
| Yeah, I gained a lot of weight. | |
| So a lot of weight. | |
| I gained like, yeah, like probably like 30 pounds. | |
| How tall are you? | |
| 5'1. | |
| How much do you weigh? | |
| Like 120. | |
| Yeah, you're fine. | |
| You're totally fine, actually. | |
| Yeah, but I miss being like. | |
| That's not crazy. | |
| But you would be 8-8-8. | |
| I would be. | |
| All right. | |
| We can start Ozenpic together. | |
| No, please do not take those Zenpics. | |
| Weight Watchers. | |
| Okay, I won't. | |
| I'm going to raw dog the diet. | |
| Sana's in fasting, and I have a sauna. | |
| I'm one step ahead of you. | |
| Should use it more. | |
| But it's infrared. | |
| It's not working. | |
| Which is even better. | |
| I think the traditional saunas are better. | |
| I agree. | |
| I don't know about... | |
| Well, the traditional songs get hotter. | |
| Infrared, at least mine, it caps at like 145. | |
| I want, I need a toast. | |
| I need it. | |
| Yeah, it's not. | |
| Well, if you're in there long enough, like you get a good sweat, but it's I need to get a new one. | |
| Okay, rating. | |
| I'll put one one one because don't be silly. | |
| Don't be silly. | |
| Good be on it. | |
| I heard that God said we are all one, so I'm just like, well, I guess the scale is one to ten. | |
| One being ugly, ten being super most attractive person ever. | |
| I would rate myself a bunch of ones because I have like really bad thoughts, and I'm just like, I gotta like change those thoughts and they take it. | |
| It's about your looks, not your thoughts. | |
| Oh gosh, the inner beauty, though. | |
| I have terrible thoughts. | |
| Do you want to decide me? | |
| No, just I used to be really like hateful against pollution and stuff. | |
| So that's why it used to be. | |
| It's hateful. | |
| That's valid, though. | |
| We love pollution. | |
| It is, but it's full of stuff. | |
| Fuck pollution. | |
| No, you gotta be like, hold on. | |
| You gotta be like this with pollution. | |
| Fuck you, chicken. | |
| All of y'all motherfuckers. | |
| Fuck you. | |
| Die slow, motherfucker. | |
| My phone, phone makes so much. | |
| Oh, you know the baby, bro. | |
| You motherfuckers can't be us or see us. | |
| You're gonna stay there like Rise Westside till we die. | |
| Out here in California, nigga, we rain with you. | |
| Okay. | |
| You got enough. | |
| Annie's. | |
| So, okay. | |
| I'm just, I, I'm not. | |
| Okay. | |
| Um, I'm just gonna put um, you know, the prince symbol. | |
| No, you know, the artist formerly known as Prince, the musical artist. | |
| You know, his symbol? | |
| No. | |
| You don't know the music. | |
| It was like a like a okay. | |
| I'm not even gonna put a number. | |
| I'm just gonna put one. | |
| Like a Norse symbol. | |
| There's some Russian letters in there. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Are we not doing like halves or seven? | |
| Let me see. | |
| You can do halves. | |
| That's okay. | |
| Face face 7.8. | |
| Body. | |
| Body 6.9. | |
| Total 10. | |
| I know that shit makes no sense, but I just love this. | |
| Well, the total rating is still the looks rating. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So probably I get myself like eight all around it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Alina? | |
| I say face six and a half. | |
| Body, maybe five. | |
| Body five total. | |
| Oh, total six. | |
| Total six. | |
| Okay, I give me. | |
| I give me. | |
| I don't know if I've actually done the breakdown before. | |
| I mean, my total, I'll go with 4.5 for me. | |
| Body. | |
| Shit. | |
| This kind of puts me in a bit of a pickle. | |
| Got to use that sauna. | |
| I mean, just for easy, I'll say body four face. | |
| I guess to end up at a 4.5, I guess I would have to say there's potential in the face if it wasn't fat. | |
| So I'm going to just, I'll just, for simplicity's sake, I'll say five face, four body, 4.5 total. | |
| Okay, so we have a 10, a 10, an 8. | |
| And I think most of my attention will be there. | |
| Although I do think, Alina, you underrated yourself a bit. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Well, you rate your face 6.5. | |
| I think at minimum, you're probably face. | |
| I'd give you a 7 face. | |
| You can't pick 7. | |
| Well, I can because I'm the dictator. | |
| Oh, would you have picked 7 then? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, well, there you go then. | |
| And body, I mean, I haven't really given you an up-down glance, so I'm not going to do that. | |
| But I won't. | |
| I'll just say face, though. | |
| You know, I feel like it's rude to be like looking at titties and shit. | |
| Face, though, at least, I think at least a seven. | |
| Chat, what do you think? | |
| For her, Alina, do you think she underrated herself a little bit? | |
| At least a seven. | |
| I mean, maybe. | |
| She might mog. | |
| She might be a mogger. | |
| I feel like you could, you might even be like 7.5, 7.775. | |
| No, she's like minimum a nine. | |
| Like her face is literally the most symmetrical perfect. | |
| Yeah, she has a very symmetrical, perfect face. | |
| Like literally. | |
| Well, I mean, honestly, I think her big failing. | |
| What do you want? | |
| Yeah, like her big failing. | |
| It's literally perfect. | |
| Her interpupillary distance is a bit. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You're like a dude. | |
| Maybe that can make it like a nine. | |
| But she's, she's, she's good. | |
| She's like at a 9.99999. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm not going to find any. | |
| I think, you know, some people in the chat are saying eight, saying she's elite. | |
| Some, oh, somebody said she's a five. | |
| Wow, that's rude. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| You guys need to zoom into her face. | |
| She has a perfect. | |
| You can't even see from that picture. | |
| It's very symmetrical. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, to be fair, our cameras and lighting do me a lot of favors. | |
| Yeah, but my face don't look like that. | |
| But she doesn't even look as good on there as she does right now. | |
| She's between, I think between a seven and an eight for sure. | |
| For sure. | |
| You're getting a couple nines, though, in the chat. | |
| She's a 10, you guys. | |
| Six, seven. | |
| Okay. | |
| Eight, nine. | |
| Okay. | |
| I do need to draw my attention to the ten, the ten and the eight at the table. | |
| So, a couple questions for you guys. | |
| Hmm. | |
| Actually, you know what? | |
| first statement is why don't average women why don't they view themselves as average um who would be an average woman though Yeah. | |
| Define average. | |
| Kind of like what we're working with at this table right now. | |
| You know, it's. | |
| I don't think it's about anything being wrong with average. | |
| I do think people just don't want to be average. | |
| I think people want to be special. | |
| I think people want to feel special. | |
| And like, I think it's I don't think we talk about enough how it's okay to be average because average doesn't mean like below par. | |
| It just means like in group with everything else. | |
| I think like even just in all areas of a person, not just their looks. | |
| Like there's just certain strengths that certain people have and weaknesses that other people have. | |
| So she, that person may be beautiful, but they may like this. | |
| They may be average in this area. | |
| But people just, they don't want to be. | |
| They want to, you know, have confidence in themselves. | |
| I think it's more confident to be like, yeah, I'm a five. | |
| I'm a six. | |
| I'm average. | |
| Acknowledging average. | |
| I guess, okay. | |
| Hmm. | |
| Do you think in terms of your looks for the two tens, are you perfect? | |
| Yeah, God made me perfect. | |
| Are you religious? | |
| I didn't think. | |
| I'm not religious, but I believe in God. | |
| Which God? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Whatever one created us. | |
| You do begin. | |
| I know that there was something that created us. | |
| God created that. | |
| That created you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you think, are there any women who, from your subjective perspective, are better looking than you? | |
| Oh, yeah, lots. | |
| Well, how could you possibly be a 10 then? | |
| Well, we're all tens. | |
| Okay, sure, I can work with that. | |
| So are all women 10s? | |
| Probably not. | |
| But you just said we're all tens. | |
| Everyone who I think is better looking than me. | |
| Oh. | |
| Plus me. | |
| Wait, didn't you say I was a nine? | |
| No, I said you were a 10. | |
| I said you were a 10. | |
| I said bare minimum. | |
| He's saying minimum, you're a seven. | |
| I said, no, minimum, you're a nine. | |
| Like, like on the lowest. | |
| Let's not be. | |
| And if I was being honest, you're a 10 in my mind. | |
| I think you're a 10. | |
| But what's the point of the scale if everyone is just a 10? | |
| Well, I don't think everyone is a 10. | |
| I just think you are. | |
| Are there any women who are not 10s? | |
| I think it's a range of perspective, you know? | |
| For me, I think I'm a 10 for many reasons. | |
| One is I just have worked really hard in my life to find love for myself, but also people get surgery to have my features. | |
| People get surgery to have lips like mine. | |
| People get surgery to have boobs like mine. | |
| People get surgery to have cheekbones that I have. | |
| They get implants in their faces. | |
| Like I was blessed with beauty and maybe it's not the, I've seen women who I think are more beautiful than me, but I don't think because there's a woman who I think is more beautiful than me, that makes me less beautiful. | |
| I don't think that's a true. | |
| We're just so different. | |
| Let me, you know? | |
| Okay, so there are women who are better looking than you, but also they're a 10 and you're a 10. | |
| I guess a bit confusing, but are there any men who based just on their looks you think are out of your league in the sense that I don't mean below your league. | |
| I mean, are there any men above your league looks-wise? | |
| No. | |
| There's no man, no man out of your league just on the basis of looks. | |
| No. | |
| All men, assuming they're single, maybe even if you're so beautiful that even if they're in a relationship, you could convince them or persuade them away. | |
| There's no men outside of your looks league. | |
| Well, I mean, I'm sure there's people who wouldn't find me as the attractive person that they want as their partner. | |
| No, but from your perspective. | |
| No. | |
| There's no men that you get. | |
| No, I could get any man. | |
| Any level of attractive man. | |
| Any man? | |
| Yeah. | |
| You could get any man. | |
| Like male models? | |
| I've dated male models. | |
| Huh. | |
| Okay. | |
| How about this? | |
| Instead of using 10, are there adjectives you would outright use to describe yourself? | |
| Adjectives? | |
| Yeah, like beautiful, gorgeous, stunning. | |
| To describe my looks? | |
| Yeah, your looks. | |
| I glow. | |
| I'm radiant. | |
| I like that. | |
| Radiant. | |
| And people see me as that. | |
| When you walk down the street, you live in LA? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Closer than Mike. | |
| Yes. | |
| When you walk down the street, do people. | |
| Maybe not every man, but maybe 50%, one in three, one in four, do they turn as you walk by? | |
| Yeah. | |
| All of them? | |
| A lot of them. | |
| What percent of men? | |
| I mean, you could ask. | |
| As you walk by. | |
| You could ask Sammy or you could ask one of my good friends, but it's like a thing. | |
| It makes my friends uncomfortable how many people stare at me. | |
| And Kaylee has really nice boobs. | |
| Like, people love her. | |
| You know? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| They just stare at me. | |
| It is. | |
| Even if my boobs aren't out, but like, it is. | |
| It's just, it's a thing. | |
| It makes me go out less often because I don't boobs. | |
| No, because people are just so they're enamored by like my radiance. | |
| It's not even, it's like an energy thing, too. | |
| It's not just my energy. | |
| It's an energy that I carry. | |
| People think that they want to approach me. | |
| They want to be my friend. | |
| They want to be comfortable. | |
| A lot of people do gravitate towards her because she's just like a light. | |
| Like she's very like, you know, positive. | |
| Actually, I can see auras much like our friend here. | |
| And you know what? | |
| I don't. | |
| I hate to be the bearer of bad news. | |
| Don't see it. | |
| I don't see the aura. | |
| So heartbroken. | |
| What do you see looking at each person? | |
| And what do I see? | |
| I mean, in what context? | |
| What do you say? | |
| What's the word? | |
| Oh, the aura. | |
| Everyone has a color. | |
| Interestingly enough, the only aura I'm getting from anybody is her. | |
| What color is it? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Indigo. | |
| That's good. | |
| Indigo. | |
| And there's like this, this, this sort of almost there. | |
| The aura has an aura. | |
| The internal aura is indigo. | |
| And the external aura is this, is gold. | |
| A golden serenity. | |
| Wow. | |
| All right. | |
| That was a good idea. | |
| I can literally see it. | |
| Right. | |
| That was definitely. | |
| Like, you guys were saying, oh, Brian, you don't go down on women. | |
| That's good. | |
| No. | |
| Me, what I just said, that. | |
| Okay, anyways. | |
| Hold on, I'm going to let this chat come through, but then I have to roast you guys more. | |
| Claim donated $200. | |
| These women out here doing girl math. | |
| 4, 5, 4, 3, 3, 5, 6, 7. | |
| The delusion is strong with this panel. | |
| The average is above all but two on this panel. | |
| Beauty is universal. | |
| Y'all ain't got it. | |
| Thanks for the 200. | |
| Thank you, Clay. | |
| By the way, actually, do you have any cash on you? | |
| I don't ever carry cash. | |
| You don't have any cash? | |
| Shoot. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| No cash. | |
| I got, I got Zoe. | |
| We did a segment earlier that you missed out where I asked the women to just give me cash, and two of them actually did. | |
| Our good friend here, she gave me some cash. | |
| Very nice of her. | |
| Marry my employee/slash slave. | |
| She gave me, she gave me some cash. | |
| Are you down to Venmo or cash at me? | |
| Like as a reversal, because you know how like women have sugar daddies and men just be given women money sometimes. | |
| I feel like just once in your life, just as a, you know, a bucket list. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not, I'm not saying you guys should do this regularly unless it's for me. | |
| You want to be just a girl. | |
| That's okay. | |
| I want the Gwen Stefani song. | |
| I'm just a girl. | |
| She's a 36-year-old man. | |
| That's right. | |
| Fucking finessing. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| I don't know how it's working, but all power to you. | |
| I just made 500 collective. | |
| Yo, I'm doing good, okay. | |
| Are you down to Venmo? | |
| I have Zell and I have Apple Pay. | |
| I will accept Zelle. | |
| Okay, perfect. | |
| You will Zell me after the show. | |
| I will Zell you after the show. | |
| Okay. | |
| I will somebody on taper. | |
| I got you. | |
| How much? | |
| I got that. | |
| Like, whatever you need. | |
| You got me back. | |
| You got me back. | |
| I got it to me after two. | |
| I could tip these two key. | |
| Back to the looks thing, though. | |
| Back to the looks thing here. | |
| So, okay, there's no men. | |
| Question. | |
| Tell me this. | |
| Tell me a woman who's like a celebrity who we can Google who you think is a 10. | |
| I think is a 10. | |
| Kylie Jenner. | |
| Kylie Jenner 10. | |
| Perfect. | |
| Okay, Nick, you can pull that up. | |
| And then tell me a guy who you think is a 10. | |
| Okay, so just to be clear, Kylie Jenner is your looks match. | |
| She's perfect. | |
| Is she your looks match, though? | |
| Well, I mean, she gets surgery to have my features. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| But she has a better body. | |
| Her body's bodying better, you know. | |
| Like, she's right. | |
| If I could afford a little light bow, like, we would just suck the fat out once we became a woman, you know. | |
| I broke my foot, had to sit on my ass for seven months. | |
| We gained a little extra weight. | |
| But, like, it's okay. | |
| But it's like, I'm a woman, you know? | |
| You, me, and Samantha are all gonna get on this journey together. | |
| We'll hop in your sauna. | |
| It's a one-person sauna. | |
| We'll take turns. | |
| Well, that's why I have to get a new one. | |
| I don't. | |
| He doesn't like talking in his sauna or sharing. | |
| Anyways, I remember that no part. | |
| A guy who's a 10. | |
| Who's a guy who's a 10 for you? | |
| Ooh. | |
| A guy who's a 10. | |
| Yeah, like Jason Momoa. | |
| Some girls say he's a 10. | |
| No, wait, wait, what's Jason Momoa? | |
| Like a seven. | |
| Hold up. | |
| He's too big. | |
| Maybe now. | |
| Maybe now. | |
| In his heyday, though. | |
| In his heyday, maybe now. | |
| Google Jason Momoa Baywatch. | |
| We went and saw him perform the other few months ago. | |
| We saw Jason Momoa at Venice Beach. | |
| He was playing his guitar and singing. | |
| He ate. | |
| Do you have a singer? | |
| I'm so corporate. | |
| He's an actor, actually. | |
| How about, yeah, pull it up? | |
| What about Clinton? | |
| When he was young, I've never seen Kylo like that. | |
| He looks great. | |
| I'm telling you. | |
| Maybe that's a tough one. | |
| I was talking about that the other day. | |
| Bro, yeah, just pull it up. | |
| No, that's fire. | |
| 10? | |
| Is he a young Jason's a 10, but now not? | |
| Okay. | |
| I think a perfect man today would be like, I don't even know, but like some black man who's a rapper. | |
| Chris Khalifa? | |
| No. | |
| I can't think of what his name is. | |
| I have somebody in my mind. | |
| I just don't know his name. | |
| I'm terrible. | |
| Old dirty bastard. | |
| Old dirty bastard. | |
| Odin. | |
| I don't remember his name. | |
| I'm sorry, you guys. | |
| Michael A. Jordan. | |
| Oh, Michael B. Jordan is perfect. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think he's perfect. | |
| Michael B. Jordan. | |
| Okay, so Michael B. Jordan. | |
| Perfect. | |
| Is that your looks league? | |
| I mean, if I, yeah, I think if we met and we had a good chemistry, I think I could get it for sure. | |
| Tell me another guy who's a 10. | |
| Did you not notice how hard it was the first time? | |
| I know, keep trying. | |
| I don't really know like celebrities like that. | |
| I just don't know the name of people I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Tom Brady. | |
| What's he? | |
| He's hot. | |
| What is he a 10? | |
| I can't even picture his face right now, so I don't know. | |
| He's hot, though. | |
| Brad Pitt. | |
| Young Brad Pitt. | |
| Young Brad Pitt? | |
| I think he was like a 10, yeah. | |
| You think he was a 10? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What about Leonardo DiCaprio? | |
| Oh, that was my biggest crush when I was like 12. | |
| Was he a 10? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Titanic. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| Okay, so Titanic Leo. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Young Brad Pitt. | |
| Let's just say Troy or Fight Club or whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Tens. | |
| Yes. | |
| You're a 10. | |
| Your looks league? | |
| Yes. | |
| Because you said that there's no men that you think are out of your league, looks-wise. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So let's take away the status, the fame, the money from Leonardo DiCaprio, from Brad Pitt, from Michael B. Jordan, from young Jason Momoa. | |
| You could land all these guys. | |
| If we had like a chemistry, yeah. | |
| I think we would walk up to each other and find each other attractive for sure. | |
| Posture. | |
| Yes. | |
| Rush and Ballerina must observe good posture. | |
| Would you be willing to date an average man? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I've dated. | |
| I've dated African. | |
| Is it your preference? | |
| Is it my preference? | |
| No, I mean, I think one of the men that I dated, I decided while we were dating, the one who kept wanting to be with other people and be open. | |
| There was a point where I looked at him because I was like 21 and he's 38. | |
| And I was like, this man is not hot enough for me to want to marry and spend my whole life with. | |
| Like, I wouldn't feel confident going out living my best life and know that like this man could hold me down at home. | |
| Like, he would have to be hotter, you know? | |
| And that's a real thought that I had. | |
| And I think I have a higher expectation for what my partner will look like because I think I know that I can get really hot, guys. | |
| And I would prefer to hold, be held down by somebody who I think is so hot that if I'm out and about anywhere, I'm being hit on by the hottest guy. | |
| Say it is Brad Pitt, say it is Michael B. Jordan. | |
| And they're like, hey, girl, you're a baddie. | |
| I want to be able to be like, well, my man is at home and he's a baddie, you know? | |
| So that's important to me now, but it didn't used to be. | |
| And then to the other 10, I guess. | |
| Well, you said you think society views you as an hit. | |
| Yeah, I thought I said like eight. | |
| But you think you're a 10, okay. | |
| Yeah, to my own standards. | |
| I am to other people's standards. | |
| I'm probably not. | |
| All right. | |
| I guess question for you. | |
| Do you think if, say, 100,000 men were to rate you, do you think that the average rating, would it be, would it deviate from 10? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What do you think? | |
| I think I would probably be like a seven. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Interesting. | |
| So, but I guess knowing that, what, I guess, what are all these men who are rating you getting wrong? | |
| Well, I think society's standards, like we talked about at the beginning of the podcast about how, you know, there's this expectation around women being perfect and women nowadays need plastic, think they need plastic surgery. | |
| They need this, they need that to feel confident. | |
| It's like what's in a magazine today. | |
| You look at a magazine and I mean, a lot of men, I mean, it's actually terrifying. | |
| A lot of men don't know what a BBL looks like. | |
| A lot of men don't know what a natural woman's body looks like. | |
| You'll show them a picture and they'll be like, I like that for you, but if you're around a bunch of men and you show them a picture of a natural looking BBL, there are too many men who are like, that's not a BBL. | |
| That's a natural body. | |
| And so I think society doesn't understand what women actually look like anymore. | |
| And people are confused to think that women have these features that are what is in magazines and what's on the movie screen, which is surgery. | |
| And it's all of these edits. | |
| And it's, you know, Photoshop and blurring and taking pores away and taking this and that. | |
| And people are confused with beauty, what real people look like. | |
| I have a question for you, Brian, if that's okay. | |
| Yeah, one quick response to her. | |
| I mean, honestly, I think while I would agree that some men might be confused visually by like BBL or not be able to identify what's real, what's not or whatever, I think, at least specifically related to BBL, I think the majority of men, so at least 51% of men, would be able to spot a BBL. | |
| Anyways, I think maybe 50%. | |
| I'm going to let one chat come in and then feel free. | |
| Hey, grid one. | |
| Could this be motorsports donation? | |
| $200.1 cent. | |
| The copium is flowing tonight, Brixon. | |
| You would need Korean-level makeup artists to turn these dog tens into something resembling mid-chicks. | |
| Stay cool and have a great show. | |
| Thank you, Grid. | |
| I appreciate the message. | |
| Very good to see you. | |
| I hope, I don't know if you're going to be sticking around for tonight, but I hope you have a great New Year's. | |
| I hope you had a good Christmas. | |
| Hope you have a good 2026. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Did you want to respond to that or I don't know? | |
| Oh, I'm sure Dog Water is a really attractive person. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Your question? | |
| Do you think that unrealistic standards and like the definition of natural has been skewed by the oversaturation of OnlyFans and also porn and editing? | |
| Do you think that that has an effect on how men view women, how men, especially young men, how they rate and how they view and how they pick their partners? | |
| Do you think that subconsciously it's based on all of the heavily saturated media that they're consuming? | |
| Because I believe that it is. | |
| So you're okay. | |
| Your question is, has men, men's assessment or impression of women been warped by social media and porn? | |
| Yeah, like the OnlyFans and everything. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| I think, well, I think on social media, you have Instagram, you have TikTok, you have filters, you have makeup, you have lighting, you have posing, you have all these things that, you know, I see these girls and the some of the filters, you can even apply them to video now. | |
| Like some of the, I mean, sometimes they still fuck up, but some of these filters, you know, if your background isn't all fucked up, there's no like vertical lines in the background, like a door frame. | |
| These filters, like they can, you know, do crazy shit to the waist. | |
| Like they can give a girl like literally like a 99 percentile, is that, I think that's the right word. | |
| Like insane waist that like maybe 0.001% of women might naturally have, or in some cases, just like completely impossible. | |
| The face filtering is insane. | |
| The butt stuff, all that, it's all crazy. | |
| It's all crazy. | |
| So yes, I do think there's absolutely men who, you know, they see some girl who's got those fucking lifting yoga pants or whatever the fuck. | |
| They got pads in. | |
| They're doing a super specific angle that don't show the hip dips or whatever. | |
| The women are doing a lot out there. | |
| They're doing filters and the men, yes, if you keep being exposed to certain kinds of visuals and you're like, oh, wow, that's really attractive. | |
| I want that. | |
| But if in reality, like very few women actually have that in real life, which is probably most women don't have like as have the body or the face as it's portrayed on social media, then yeah, that's going to skew men's perspective. | |
| And that's going to be an issue. | |
| That's definitely going to be an issue. | |
| Okay, I'm going to go ahead and do that. | |
| But the same thing exists for women too. | |
| Men are, you know, men, y'all are getting these like super model men on your TikTok feed. | |
| You're getting super insane physiques. | |
| I don't think men use filters quite as much as women, but they still do use them. | |
| And you like, there's this funny thing I saw the other day. | |
| This woman who I guess watched a bunch of Korean dramas, K-dramas, she like went to Korea with this expectation that like Korean men are so fucking handsome and beautiful, whatever the fuck. | |
| And then she gets there kind of rudely. | |
| She's like recording the like average Korean man, which looks absolutely nothing like what she was consuming in media. | |
| And she was all disappointed and she thought her super hot Korean boyfriend was, but in reality, most people in any country, whether it's Korea or anywhere, most people are average. | |
| Most people are average. | |
| So I do think, yeah, it's fucked up, I guess. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Looks rating. | |
| What else was there? | |
| No other guys that you could think of that are tens, I guess. | |
| No, I'd have to look through just the list or something. | |
| All right, well, how about this? | |
| We'll do this. | |
| How do I want to frame this? | |
| Hold on. | |
| Who here? | |
| This is opt-in. | |
| This is opt-in. | |
| I will give you, I will be fair. | |
| I won't intentionally be a dick. | |
| I will be. | |
| I'll give you a fair, impartial rating. | |
| Who wants to opt in? | |
| Who's okay essentially being rated? | |
| I'll give you a number rating. | |
| I don't care. | |
| Will you do it? | |
| I'm good. | |
| No? | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you want to do it? | |
| I'm good. | |
| You sure? | |
| I don't know. | |
| What if it changed your life? | |
| I don't need yourself. | |
| Yeah, I don't need your offer, but I mean, okay. | |
| I'll opt in. | |
| W, fucking legends. | |
| Courage. | |
| Why not? | |
| No, thank you. | |
| I'm on the fence. | |
| Yeah, I opt in. | |
| Yeah, by the way, I'm going to, I'm not. | |
| I'll keep my tone neutral and polite. | |
| At the end of the day, it would just be my opinion. | |
| I'll give you a rating one out of ten, and I'll include at least one positive and one negative. | |
| And I will only give you a rating if you opt in if you agree to it. | |
| So, game, game. | |
| I want to opt out and give Donald Trump a 10. | |
| Okay, well, what about you? | |
| Opt-in. | |
| Alina, yes. | |
| Okay, so did you change your mind by chance or not? | |
| Still out? | |
| Out? | |
| Out? | |
| Okay. | |
| So it's her, her, four people. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think first I need, did I rate myself? | |
| 4.5? | |
| Give myself a 4.5. | |
| Okay, I'll start with myself first. | |
| A few positive traits. | |
| Blue eyes. | |
| I'm tall. | |
| Decent, so decent eye area. | |
| Although in the eye area, I'm definitely lacking poor under eye area. | |
| Quite poor under eye area. | |
| Negative. | |
| Fat, chubby. | |
| Need to lose weight. | |
| Big nose. | |
| And I won't get. | |
| I have some more I could get into. | |
| But I'll leave it at that, I guess. | |
| Okay, fuck it. | |
| That's fair. | |
| Skin clarity could be improved. | |
| Unbalanced facial thirds. | |
| Did I mention the big nose? | |
| Facial redness. | |
| But that's related to skin clarity. | |
| Okay. | |
| You. | |
| I think I'm just going to do face. | |
| I'm not going to do body because then I'd need you guys to like stand up and do whatever. | |
| I'm not going to do it. | |
| We're not going to objectify too much at the whatever podcast. | |
| Okay. | |
| Did you say you've had a lot of surgery done, though? | |
| Yes. | |
| This is going to be hard to judge. | |
| And you've had lip filler. | |
| Wait, on your face? | |
| You've had lip filler? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Although I want to think that actually your lips were nice naturally. | |
| They were. | |
| Before, right? | |
| It's bottom lip filler, though, you've had, right? | |
| It's on both? | |
| Okay. | |
| It seems a bit more noticeable, the lip filler on the bottom as opposed to the top lip. | |
| Can you turn your face that way? | |
| Do you have a lip flip or filler? | |
| Both. | |
| You have both. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'd say I'd give you either a 4.5 or a 5 in the face. | |
| Rich. | |
| You have nice lips, although they've been enhanced artificially, which Not my preference, but you have good facial symmetry. | |
| You have a nice nose. | |
| Your interpupillary distance is slightly off. | |
| You have good eyebrows. | |
| Skin clarity could perhaps use with a bit of improvement. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| You, you've got this like Mila Kunis, I'm pissed off thing going for you, so that's good. | |
| I think you are perhaps a bit above average. | |
| I want to say some people might say you're average, but I think I'd give you 5.5. | |
| You have nice eyes. | |
| You have can you turn your face that way? | |
| Yeah, my nose isn't the best. | |
| Turn it more? | |
| Actually cute. | |
| I think your nose is good, actually. | |
| I think your nose is good. | |
| Although you said you had the filler that like. | |
| I like, yeah, I got Botox and it leans to the side now. | |
| Okay. | |
| Are your lips natural or no? | |
| They're natural, yeah. | |
| No lip flip. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, I got a lip flip months ago. | |
| I don't know if it's still there. | |
| Bad. | |
| But I did get a lip flip. | |
| You had a lip flip. | |
| Okay. | |
| I did, yeah. | |
| Yeah, lip flip. | |
| You do have nice lips, though. | |
| Although the lip flip. | |
| I didn't see much of a difference, but I think it did get rid of like my gummy's smile. | |
| You know, when people smile and like their lip disappears, I think it fixed that. | |
| Okay. | |
| You have good facial symmetry, good harmony, good eyebrows, slightly unequal facial thirds. | |
| You're wearing full face of makeup, so. | |
| Pretty much. | |
| I can't really tell much on skin clarity. | |
| Oh, my skin's not the best straight down. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I think 5.5 is fair. | |
| And you've got that brooding thing going for you. | |
| Like you should be a vampire in a TV show. | |
| With baking age, a lot of people get made it like Wednesday. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then you. | |
| I'm going to just look in the TV for this one. | |
| Actually, I should look real. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| He's rating you. | |
| What did I rate you? | |
| 4.5? | |
| 4.5 or 5. | |
| 4.5 or 5. | |
| I'd give you maybe between a 5 and 6. | |
| So I think 5.5 to be fair. | |
| Nice lips. | |
| Are they natural? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| They're a little arval line. | |
| Nice eye area. | |
| You have feline hunter eyes, which is good. | |
| I like that. | |
| Okay. | |
| Skin clarity perhaps could use improvement. | |
| I'm having a moment. | |
| Good, good face shape. | |
| Good. | |
| Can you turn your face that way? | |
| Yeah, good. | |
| All right. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| 5.5, I think. | |
| And then Alina here. | |
| Didn't I already rate you? | |
| I already rated. | |
| I think what I said minimum seven. | |
| I'd say face, minimum seven. | |
| Can you scoot in, Alina? | |
| Scoot in. | |
| Good posture. | |
| Ballerina posture. | |
| go on uh unequal uh interpupillary distance What is that? | |
| What does that mean? | |
| The distance between your pupils. | |
| There's like if your eyes are either too close together or too far apart, there is, you basically want like one eye width apart, essentially. | |
| Very strong facial symmetry, strong facial harmony. | |
| Good, pretty good lips. | |
| Perhaps the upper lip. | |
| Do you have lip filler? | |
| No. | |
| Lip flip? | |
| Upper lip could be a bit bigger. | |
| Am I being autistic right now? | |
| Probably a little bit. | |
| Nice eye color. | |
| It's what? | |
| Hazel or whatever? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think probably, uh, what was it? | |
| What else? | |
| Did I say eyebrows? | |
| eyebrows um i think you might be aware of your perhaps flaw uh I would say face towards me. | |
| Your side profile, probably your nose is slightly, you have a slight bump in your nose. | |
| Hey, look, I got a big nose. | |
| I'm fucked in the nose department. | |
| But it's pretty minor, but you do have a bit of a, you know. | |
| From the front, the nose is good, but okay. | |
| All right, I've just given all the women at the table insecurities for the rest of their life, but not at all. | |
| But no, you're a very attractive woman. | |
| You're a good-looking woman overall. | |
| Hey, you opted in. | |
| You opted in, okay? | |
| All right. | |
| I know. | |
| I actually want to answer your question from earlier. | |
| Yeah. | |
| About the confidence thing and like why do people not want to be average? | |
| I just sat and I thought about it for a little while. | |
| I think people convolute like reality and confidence sometimes. | |
| I think that there's this weird thing objectively. | |
| If there's beautiful people, there's ugly people, right? | |
| And I feel like what makes it weird now that we're talking about it, it's almost like you're saying ugly people don't deserve to feel confident when you say that, oh, like I'm a 10. | |
| Like I'm confident. | |
| I have to be. | |
| Because if it's like you're basing your confidence purely on your looks a little bit. | |
| I don't feel like that's really what confidence is. | |
| I think it comes from self-value and more like self-worth more than just like what you look like. | |
| Because there's people that are like there's people who are not like conveniently attractive, but they still are allowed to have confidence or they have confidence in how they go about life. | |
| And then there's beautiful people and they're so low and like confidence. | |
| So I don't think people convolute the reason why they don't want to be average is because they don't want to seem like they're insecure. | |
| And I don't think that that, I don't think that those two kind of go together. | |
| But I think you can be confident and also be self-aware and realistic and not delusional and be like, okay, my looks, you know, I'm confident. | |
| I'm fine with how I look. | |
| I, you know, whatever. | |
| There's maybe people better, there's people better looking than me. | |
| There's people worse looking than me, whatever. | |
| I think you can be confident and be like, yeah, I'm average looking. | |
| I'm a six, I'm a five, whatever. | |
| By the way, just to be clear, with these looks ratings, I'm like, I give myself a rating below average. | |
| Like Alina fucking mogs the shit out of me. | |
| Like, just for people like, oh, Brian, who are you to judge Alina? | |
| Alina mogs the shit out of me. | |
| So don't people are always like in the chat or whatever, like fucking comments. | |
| Well, who's he to judge? | |
| I think that you don't need to be a weatherman to know it's raining. | |
| Like you don't need this idea that, oh, well, you should, if you're average or you're below average looking, you can't come to determinations as to other people's attractiveness. | |
| Just wanted to put that out there. | |
| Yeah, like they have eyes. | |
| Ugly people have eyes too, guys. | |
| Thinking you. | |
| Wow, thanks. | |
| Going around the table, going around the table on this, next thing. | |
| Do you think, and then Nick, we're going to do the bumble segment here in just a sec if you want to start getting that going? | |
| You okay? | |
| Are the lights too bright? | |
| Gosh, I think I would just want to tell you after the podcast, but you're in love with me. | |
| Sorry, I don't want to reject you. | |
| Don't go into this cycle, Brian, with me. | |
| Because I just yeah, anyway, I just really got to focus on the Bible and Jesus Christ. | |
| So, I'm sorry, but let dogs lay as they say. | |
| But yeah, I can't stare at that screen. | |
| I just have it. | |
| Yeah, even in the corner of my eye, I'm trying to figure out how to not look at that screen. | |
| Do we have anything? | |
| I don't know if I should like turn around or what, but I don't want to look at that screen. | |
| All right, well, what if we give you some sunglasses? | |
| Sure, yeah. | |
| I mean, like, I just need to kind of act blind for a bit, I think. | |
| So, yeah, that's fine. | |
| We'll get you some sunglasses. | |
| I do need like a headache. | |
| We also have a lot of stuff. | |
| There's just like stuff going on that I can't look at. | |
| And if I'm looking at the screen, I feel like I'm making things. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| No, it's stuff going on specifically. | |
| Because Samantha was saying that she has an aura. | |
| And people just okay. | |
| Well, she can't stop looking at me. | |
| If you can, get her some sunglasses. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do I need to wait until she's gone? | |
| Here, try these. | |
| These might help a little bit if you want to throw those on. | |
| Thanks. | |
| All right. | |
| Do you want to? | |
| We might also have. | |
| This might help. | |
| Here. | |
| Put this on. | |
| It'll cast a shadow. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay, never mind. | |
| It's okay. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I mean, whatever you want me to wear, I could wear a freaking crazy mask and stuff. | |
| What about that? | |
| I just want to close my eyes. | |
| Alina, do you want to grab the pickle Haba down here? | |
| Do you want to wear the helmet? | |
| By the way, yo, chat. | |
| If we get a champagne pop, guys, it's an early celebration. | |
| New Year's is right around the corner. | |
| If we get a champagne pop, Alina told me she would move to Santa Barbara and become the new helmet girl. | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| If I move to California right now, I'll be on Skid Row. | |
| That's not true. | |
| That's not true, Alina. | |
| Not true. | |
| Let's rock the helmet. | |
| Mogger. | |
| Yes. | |
| That's actually really cute. | |
| Great. | |
| The camera's right. | |
| Looks good. | |
| Solid. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, actually, we should do a little segment here. | |
| Can you remind me before the end of the show, we'll have you do the standing in front thing? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| We'll have you do that. | |
| That's kind of crazy. | |
| That's so. | |
| That's not crazy. | |
| You're crazy. | |
| That's crazy that you were crazy. | |
| That's Alina. | |
| Alina, scoot in. | |
| Good posture. | |
| Good etiquette. | |
| Rude. | |
| Okay. | |
| We were going to. | |
| Oh, let's do age really quick and then AI. | |
| Do we have the AI stuff? | |
| Yep. | |
| I need to wait for her, though. | |
| Why don't we just jump right into the bumble segment? | |
| Oh, she's back. | |
| We'll do one of the. | |
| Maybe we should do it all at once. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Here, let's do. | |
| Okay, we'll do age. | |
| Then we'll do bumble. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time? | |
| Better looking. | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 28, better looking at 38? | |
| Maybe. | |
| 48 better looking than now? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Wait, can you take the thing off, the little beads or whatever? | |
| No, not your top. | |
| Can you take your is it? | |
| Is it these? | |
| No, the beads. | |
| The beads. | |
| Can you take the beads off? | |
| Like a necklace? | |
| Or like, I don't know, throw it. | |
| Why? | |
| I don't know. | |
| It's jangling a slight. | |
| That's good. | |
| That's good. | |
| Whatever. | |
| We'll just leave. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 28 now. | |
| Were you better looking at 18? | |
| No. | |
| You are 30, better looking at 40. | |
| Yes. | |
| Better looking at 50. | |
| Maybe no. | |
| Okay. | |
| Were you better at 20? | |
| No. | |
| Better looking now at 30. | |
| Yes. | |
| You're 22, better looking at 32. | |
| No. | |
| You're 25, better looking at 35. | |
| Yes. | |
| 45. | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yes. | |
| 29, better looking at 39. | |
| Yes, for all the aging. | |
| You look like Bo Burnham. | |
| She looks like one of the three blind mice. | |
| I love his music You a hater dawg You a hater. | |
| Let that girl live back there. | |
| She ain't bothering nobody. | |
| She's bothering me. | |
| Better looking at 39. | |
| Are you still talking to me? | |
| Could you use my name? | |
| Sorry. | |
| Oh. | |
| I have to go. | |
| Yeah, bro. | |
| Sorry, I'm going to just act like a blind person for the moment. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| Just to make sure I'm doing the best I can. | |
| Yeah, thank you. | |
| Yeah, that's good. | |
| I knew that. | |
| Better looking at 39. | |
| Yes. | |
| 49? | |
| Yes. | |
| 59? | |
| Yes. | |
| 69. | |
| Yes. | |
| Were you better looking at 19 versus now at 29? | |
| Spiritually, yes. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 26. | |
| Yes. | |
| Better looking at 36? | |
| Body, yeah. | |
| Body, body? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What about face? | |
| I feel like I'll look the same, honestly. | |
| Okay, what about 46? | |
| I feel like that's when it'll start going down. | |
| Alina, 21, better looking at 31? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, here's what we're gonna do. | |
| I do need to step away. | |
| My expert producer, Nick, is gonna guide you guys through our bumble segment. | |
| So, and Nick, if we get no's, we'll do. | |
| Do you know where to do a photo search? | |
| We'll do that after. | |
| I'm gonna step away for a sec. | |
| So, guys, we are going to do a bumble dating app experiment. | |
| You each get 20 swipes on a dating app, and we're gonna, you just get the first photo. | |
| You don't get the bio, you don't get other photo. | |
| Just for quickness, we just do one photo, and it's basically just a yes or no. | |
| And just if you can, try to give us quick answers, and that's pretty much it. | |
| Um, Nick is going to be asking you guys the age range of the men you would date. | |
| Uh, do you want to do this segment? | |
| No, I'm opting out. | |
| I love my boyfriend because, yeah, it is a bit awkward if you're in a relationship. | |
| But those of you who are single, we are gonna have you guys participate. | |
| So, why don't you tell Nick the age range if you were on a dating app that you would want to deal with? | |
| 27 to 37 and Nick is going to walk you guys through that. | |
| And just remember to change the is this real profiles or is this like Photoshop? | |
| So, go ahead. | |
| Um, yeah. | |
| No. No. No. No. No. | |
| Which one is it? | |
| I'm holding it. | |
| I'm holding it. | |
| The mall. | |
| So the one on the right? | |
| Wait, who's the hot one? | |
| Who's the hot one to you? | |
| The longer one is going on the right. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| Um, yes, even though he's a mama's boy. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| yes no yes no no no no no why is it showing just a bunch of hicks No. | |
| I actually thought I might say yes. | |
| Okay, next person. | |
| Or you know what? | |
| Give her ten more. | |
| Okay, ten more, ten extra bonus round. | |
| Okay, I'd say Yachtna him. | |
| Yes. | |
| No, Yes. | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Next person, so what's your age range? | |
| Twenty-seven to seventy-five. | |
| Okay, girl, sugar daddy. | |
| Yeah, I'm serious. | |
| All right. | |
| I'll add no yes no yes yes no no no no no no yes yes | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| No. | |
| Okay, who's next? | |
| Uh can I do twenty three to twenty nine? | |
| Yes, no, no, yes, yes, no, yeah, no, no, | |
| no, no, no, no, no, yes, yes. | |
| No No, No No. | |
| 25 to 36. | |
| No. No. No. No. | |
| Yeah no yeah no no yes | |
| okay no, if it's the one on the right, then sure okay uh next, I think it was like two, like three or four. | |
| No, I can't see his face. | |
| No no no yes no, that last guy there, that one's yeah sure no okay, ten X, ten more, ten more no no no oh, he's gonna hot. | |
| No no no actually maybe yeah no, not him no no no no yes uh, I don't know. | |
| No no no, it was kinda hot. | |
| No yeah no yeah um sorry, I I'll just whatever Jesus Christ's age and whatever. | |
| I'm just choosing Jesus Christ sorry, what was your age? | |
| Whatever, Jesus Christ has been around for a long time, thousands of years. | |
| Oh, I can't look at screens, unfortunately, right now. | |
| I'm sorry um, like like twenty-five to thirty. | |
| Okay well, this is gonna be short, but you're gonna say yes to everyone. | |
| No. | |
| No, No. | |
| No. | |
| No. No. No. No. | |
| No, no, yeah. | |
| No, no one on right yeah no, no. | |
| No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. | |
| And another no. Inhale no. Like no. No. No. No. No. No. | |
| No no no, where is the okay? | |
| no no yeah yeah sure yeah but no no no all right yeah yeah no no no no captain no | |
| I can't. | |
| I like no captain, take me on helicopter ride, I know, but the black and the bird beat it no okay you yeah, that's the type of white boy lobster you know. | |
| I was like how many nuts? | |
| Yes, do I need no lobster? | |
| All right okay, I'm sorry. | |
| No cousin no no, I don't know. | |
| I hate when post with their shirt off like no, all right yeah, he's cute. | |
| No no okay um, that one's no for sure. | |
| Yeah no, all right Craig, I'm gonna give it to you. | |
| No yeah Chris, that's what I'm talking about. | |
| Okay no athlete no, all right. | |
| Yeah no, all right no, who is that? | |
| Why would you girl? | |
| No hell no Chris, get off the dating app. | |
| Somebody say that to her seriously. | |
| Yeah no no, I'm so sorry y'all, you yeah, | |
| you could really just yeah, you could really just keep doing that, No. | |
| Okay. | |
| No. No. No. | |
| Yes. | |
| Oh, Dan. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. | |
| Nah. | |
| Nah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nah. | |
| Santa. | |
| What? | |
| No. | |
| Uh-uh. | |
| Not me. | |
| Not I. Not this one. | |
| Can't be. | |
| Could not. | |
| Would not. | |
| Shouldn't ever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Hallelujah. | |
| By the way, by the way, I was looking at some of those and you passed on some decent looking guys. | |
| I like black guys. | |
| You even passed on some black guys. | |
| Yeah, that don't mean I like every black man. | |
| I'm not attracted to kind of reasonable a little bit for some of the panelists, although you're very picky. | |
| Very picky. | |
| I don't know if that was like maybe two or three out of a hundred or something. | |
| Really quick on the racial preference. | |
| Do you only date black guys? | |
| Yes. | |
| I mean, I have spoken to like and dated like one or two white guys, but like the attraction is just not really there for me. | |
| Okay. | |
| Does anybody else have like a preference on that? | |
| I prefer European. | |
| Okay, white? | |
| I prefer just people of color. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like the less super white looking, the better to me. | |
| I like dark features. | |
| So you prefer like black? | |
| I love black people. | |
| What about Asian guys? | |
| Indian? | |
| I don't think Asian people have like dark enough features to me. | |
| They still look like really soft and white. | |
| Well, I mean, if you get into like East Asia, like Thai, Vietnamese, Indo. | |
| Yeah, they just don't grow enough hair. | |
| They kind of look like kids to me. | |
| I don't know about that, but okay. | |
| No, white guys. | |
| You don't like white guys? | |
| No, I do like some white guys, but more commonly, you will see me attracted to a darker person. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I have no preference. | |
| You'll date white, black, Asian, whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yes. | |
| No preference. | |
| What about you? | |
| I don't have a preference, but I do gravitate towards like Middle Eastern men. | |
| Nick, we need to do mic adjustment here. | |
| I don't know if you shifted. | |
| No, it's just you've shifted. | |
| I think she shifted over. | |
| Move this way. | |
| Can you scoot that way? | |
| Right? | |
| Screw the chair to the right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Maybe you could. | |
| Okay, good. | |
| Thank you. | |
| All right. | |
| Do you have a racial preference? | |
| Sorry, could you say my name? | |
| I have to keep my eyes closed, but I don't mean to gosh. | |
| I don't really want to answer that, honestly, but like, let's just say there's a racial bias in my family, so I don't want to bring someone into that racial bias. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay, makes sense. | |
| Alina, do you? | |
| I guess a slight preference towards my own race. | |
| Okay, why? | |
| Just a question for you. | |
| Would you object to a white person who said they only want to date a white person? | |
| Would I object? | |
| Like, do you think it might be racist? | |
| Do you think it could be wrong? | |
| I think everyone has preferences. | |
| Like if you're not sexually attracted to people. | |
| But I do object. | |
| I knew this girl who would only date people who had red hair in their genetic line because she had red hair and it's a recessive gene that's supposed to go extinct one day. | |
| So she believed that she needed to carry that line on. | |
| So she will not ever be with anyone who does not have a red hair person in their genetic line. | |
| And I kind of oppose to that. | |
| Opposed. | |
| I just think that's not really cool. | |
| But like, you know, to each their own. | |
| Wait, but when you say not really cool, what do you mean? | |
| Is it racist? | |
| I think it is. | |
| To me, it stems from a certain form of racism. | |
| If you want to only, if you are only willing to be with somebody because they have the same hair color as you, like, that's a little bit to me, it doesn't seem fully acceptable. | |
| I don't know if hair color is necessarily, I don't know if there's necessarily an implication of racism. | |
| Well, that's true, but she would also say that she would prefer them to be white. | |
| Yeah, because there can be black people with red hair in their genetic line. | |
| My grandma's a red hand. | |
| There can be, but she would say specifically that she would want them to be. | |
| And white's not to be. | |
| There are two preferences at the same time. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think you can also want to be with a white person and also, well, your primary thing is you want somebody with red hair and they should be white. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, it's okay to each their own. | |
| Everyone has their own preferences. | |
| If you're not sexually attracted to someone. | |
| Yeah, but what about this? | |
| What about you specifically want to have white children? | |
| Is that wrong? | |
| I think that's wrong. | |
| So would you say it's wrong for two black people to, or one black person, to want to have black children? | |
| I think it's racist for anyone to not be willing to date outside of their race. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Now we're getting somewhere. | |
| But earlier you said it was preference. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You can have a preference, but if you were unwilling, there's a difference, I think. | |
| Because I have a preference. | |
| I find darker people attractive, but there are still white people I find attractive and I would be open to dating them because I don't have a bias against a certain color of skin. | |
| But if I did, then I would only want to date certain color of skin people. | |
| Well, I think just be, okay, I don't think that it necessarily means that if you have a preference for one race, it doesn't mean you have like negative sentiment towards another. | |
| No, no. | |
| But if you're against ever being with, if you're black and you will never be with a white person because you think you have to be with black people, I think that's a little bit racist. | |
| Well, I don't think it's racist. | |
| What's racism then? | |
| The weird thing is we humans came from Africa, so we migrated from Africa. | |
| Are you a troll? | |
| You're fucking trolled. | |
| I'm not. | |
| This is a fact that people don't. | |
| Poxism did not come from Africa. | |
| It's interesting that the human, like if you look at the human ancestors, like Lucy and everything, they come from Africa and then they migrated to Europe and Asia. | |
| Oops. | |
| Do you want to give us an anthropology lesson now? | |
| Yeah, because it's weird. | |
| It's weird that we deal with racism because it's like, wait, we're all from Africa, and then we migrated from Africa. | |
| Yeah, but the origination... | |
| Hold on. | |
| Somewhere else. | |
| You acknowledge that people possess different skin color, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| And different people. | |
| Yeah, but even if a white person acknowledges, well, my origination, I came from Africa. | |
| Well, their current state of affairs is they're white. | |
| Yes. | |
| And they want to date a white person. | |
| And somebody who's black wants to date a black person. | |
| It's fine. | |
| It's totally fine to, like, we have free will and it's good to just choose what is racist. | |
| Do you have any more cash on you? | |
| Go get me some. | |
| Sorry, I gave you all of it. | |
| I don't think it's racist at all, honestly. | |
| I don't think it's racist. | |
| But do you think it's racist? | |
| Like, let's say a white person's like, I don't want to have mixed race kids. | |
| I want to have white kids. | |
| That's racist. | |
| Why would it be racist? | |
| Because why don't you? | |
| Because of the color of their skin, that's the only reason you don't want that. | |
| Would it be racist if a black person wanted to get with a black woman so that he could have black kids? | |
| Is that racist? | |
| If he wanted to get with a black woman, no. | |
| But if he was opposed to ever getting with a white woman, if he fell in love with a white woman and was like, I'm sorry, I only can be with black people because I need black babies. | |
| I think that's racist. | |
| Well, I mean, I don't think you can really fall in love with her. | |
| Well, how is that racist? | |
| Like, what is racism to you? | |
| Well, it's racist if you're opposed to being in a relationship with someone or co-creating with them because of their skin color. | |
| If you're against doing something with somebody because of their skin color. | |
| So by this logic. | |
| I don't think it's just only their skin color, though. | |
| If by this logic. | |
| But it is. | |
| Hold on. | |
| It's not, though. | |
| If by this logic, I didn't want to be with like an obese woman, does that make me fat phobic? | |
| I don't think that's the same thing at all. | |
| I think it's good to just try to avoid labels because you can change so quickly. | |
| It's like... | |
| No, you can't. | |
| You can't. | |
| You can't change your race, though. | |
| Well, I mean, not really. | |
| I mean, you could change your skin tone and stuff, but only Michael Jackson. | |
| For example, if you call something racist, it's like, well, but can they move out of that racism? | |
| Can they move out of that bias? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I just like don't have a I don't think of labels as a concrete thing. | |
| I think that people can change if they really want to. | |
| Okay, so I got to be careful what I say on here because of healthcare, my career, but I have never dated an African-American. | |
| I personally am just not attracted to those types of men. | |
| Does that make me like a bad person because my biological components, like I'm just not? | |
| Like, does that constitute something in the gray area? | |
| I'm like wondering what your guys' opinions are. | |
| Not at all. | |
| Because it's like, I just think that's fine. | |
| Yeah, I am physically attracted to someone. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You can't force it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But that goes down to the kids, too. | |
| So it's like, if you want white children, I wouldn't think that you're racist because of that. | |
| And that's why I find that interesting. | |
| Like, why do you feel that way? | |
| I really would like to know. | |
| Like, if she wants to, she's white. | |
| She loves white men. | |
| Can you make that face again? | |
| Can you make the face that you made again? | |
| I don't even know. | |
| Say it again. | |
| Say what you said again. | |
| It's like, I said, if she wants to have white children, I don't think that's racist. | |
| I think it's no. | |
| I think it's normal to have like preferences to maintain your culture. | |
| If you have like certain languages or certain traditions that go down your family, then like it makes sense to have that interest in like maintaining those norms. | |
| Yeah, so there's like this other component of like what I share in common with my boyfriend now is so much greater because he is Russian. | |
| He was born there. | |
| Oh, sorry, Belarus, but he speaks Russian. | |
| And I have a lot more in common just like on paper with him versus an African-American individual with cultures, tradition, religion, food, family, etc. | |
| So it feels like the best fit for myself, but you know. | |
| But if you were to, like, if you didn't have your boyfriend now, and if you were to meet some guy who was like half black and you thought he was hot somehow, like, you know, he didn't have super black features or something, and you thought he was attractive and he spoke Russian and he and he had like roots similar to you. | |
| Would you be open to connecting with that person? | |
| Um, I guess, yeah. | |
| Yeah, so I don't, I think there's no form of racism there. | |
| It's like it's it's if you're you know, I want my kids to look like me. | |
| I don't think that's racist. | |
| Do you think it's racist? | |
| I think the only way it would be racist. | |
| Hold on, let her answer. | |
| Let her answer. | |
| I do because your kids are gonna look like you no matter who you be. | |
| So, okay, then is it racist for a black person to want to have black kids? | |
| I just think it kind of is, yeah. | |
| And honestly, I'm speaking from a raw. | |
| I'm speaking from a raw place where I was just dating a half black man and slowly found out that his type is everyone who looks anything except for white, which was really offensive to me. | |
| And the way that he would talk about like his struggles with blackness and his being half white, half black, being raised with all white people. | |
| Now he's introduced to his black family and like wants to have this like connection to his roots that he didn't have before. | |
| There's like this bias that comes out while he talks about it, that he like wants to be able to have this thing that he didn't get to have when he was raised, which is being around black people, which is fine and beautiful. | |
| But at the same time, like sometimes he would just say things that I thought were kind of racist about, he just was too thinking about the color of people's skin. | |
| It really wasn't about anything else. | |
| It was just about the color of your skin. | |
| And at the end of the day, if that's all you're thinking about and it's stopping you from connecting with somebody deeply, if it's stopping you from being willing to have a relationship, to being willing to communicate with someone, to being willing to pursue something simply because of the color of their skin, that is what racism is. | |
| Like there is a bias and a hatred towards something that he that was obvious to me when he was alone. | |
| I mean, there's no negative sentiment towards black people. | |
| It's not wrong or bad or anything like it's to be mixed race or to be black. | |
| I just think it's okay for any race to who you date. | |
| You can date within your own race. | |
| You can date outside of if by if somebody else wants to have an interracial marriage, interracial relationship, interracial, that's totally fine. | |
| I don't care. | |
| But I think people are allowed on my own level, but I can also speak for like other people. | |
| If you're black, if you're Asian, if you're Indian, if you're whatever, if you want to date your own race, that's totally fine too. | |
| You want to date outside of your race? | |
| Totally fine too. | |
| Yeah, if you want to. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But if you're opposed to connecting to people because they're not your race. | |
| That would be a preference. | |
| That would just be preference. | |
| I don't think it is. | |
| So what makes a preference and what makes racism? | |
| Well, that's what I was saying earlier. | |
| Was if you're let this come through. | |
| Grid one motorsport donated $200.01. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Brixon, I like the girl who was super late. | |
| She's cool, but the racist in Chair 2 is giving me Max Karen vibes. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| He's calling you a kid. | |
| He's going to report you to the HOA and asking for the manager. | |
| Uh-oh, shit. | |
| He's calling you a Karen. | |
| Do you want to respond to that? | |
| Aww. | |
| Haters can hate. | |
| How did she give Max Karen vibes? | |
| I don't get that vibe. | |
| I don't get that vibe. | |
| I just guess she has a different opinion, but I guess. | |
| I do have to move it on to the next topic, though. | |
| We were going to do, we did the age stuff. | |
| Let's just do the age stuff. | |
| That's a fun segment. | |
| So we aged advanced all of you. | |
| Just to show you guys, some of you said you'll be better looking in 10, 20, 30, 40 years. | |
| Go ahead, let's pull it up. | |
| Love this part. | |
| We're going to have to make shifts on the. | |
| All right. | |
| All right. | |
| Thoughts? | |
| I just know that's not accurate because I'm taking like so many steps to prevent looking exactly like that. | |
| You still look pretty good, not gonna lie. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, I look exactly like my German grandmother there, and she's 90 and she beat cancer three times, and she has the best skin and the best hair in the world. | |
| So if I look as good as her, that's a blessing. | |
| Next. | |
| Okay, picking a horrible first photo. | |
| That's 36. | |
| Ain't no way. | |
| That is not good. | |
| Girl, that's me when I'm 70. | |
| That's literally 60. | |
| But go ahead. | |
| All right, look next. | |
| Oh, she look cute. | |
| That was too fast. | |
| What? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is she a baddie? | |
| Crickets. | |
| All right. | |
| That's not accurate, but. | |
| Not accurate. | |
| Next. | |
| She literally looks the same, though. | |
| I say yeah. | |
| Stop it. | |
| I look like I cook good. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| At the end, though. | |
| That's where you at. | |
| I look like I cook good. | |
| All right, next. | |
| Wow. | |
| Show it again. | |
| I look like a witch. | |
| Can you tilt your mouth? | |
| Wait, come on. | |
| Here, grab it from the. | |
| Yeah, that's good. | |
| That's good. | |
| That's good. | |
| Here it is. | |
| I look like a witch. | |
| I look like the evil witch from Snow White. | |
| I look like the evil, like, decrepit witch from the Snow White. | |
| Decrepit witch. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You do. | |
| She does. | |
| Literally. | |
| Not a nigga. | |
| Also, I notice you're wearing a cross. | |
| Are you Christian? | |
| Oh, I grew up Catholic. | |
| I consider myself spiritual. | |
| I don't identify as Catholic or Christian. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, that's interesting. | |
| Next. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, she's not here, but. | |
| Oh, she's cute. | |
| Yeah, she looks holistic. | |
| She's like the lady from the conjuring. | |
| Stop. | |
| No way. | |
| That first picture don't even look like it makes everyone look the same around the eyes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Chicks of MILF. | |
| Next. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Santa! | |
| You look like Robin Williams on the end. | |
| That's right. | |
| I am Santa Incarnate. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Is there next or for the next photos? | |
| Gender. | |
| Gender swap. | |
| All right. | |
| The next segment, AI segment, we gender swapped all of you. | |
| So the question is: would you date the male version of you? | |
| Chill like Brian Mondo. | |
| Let me see again. | |
| It's too fast. | |
| He looks like a zesty version of my brother, so no. | |
| No? | |
| No. | |
| Next. | |
| Kais. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| This photo needs to be redone. | |
| Like, what is that? | |
| Like, literally, what is that? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Skip it. | |
| On to the next. | |
| No, I don't want to be here, though. | |
| That's not the one. | |
| I'm going like this. | |
| I'm going like this. | |
| You have to suspend a bit of disbelief. | |
| Assume the eyes were. | |
| If the facial expression was anything not moving, honestly, it's kind of kiddie. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| That's wow. | |
| They changed race. | |
| You're like Asian now. | |
| Yeah, that's crazy. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| You're like Arabic. | |
| It looks like it, but definitely not. | |
| Oh, damn, Pedro. | |
| Unfortunately, no. | |
| Oh, my girl. | |
| I look like my name's Diego. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| You look like you play good soccer. | |
| Yeah. | |
| On the far right, far right. | |
| Good soccer player. | |
| Next. | |
| I'm scared. | |
| Oh! | |
| Wait, man. | |
| What? | |
| Y'all skip her? | |
| Y'all skip chair five. | |
| You guys can skip me. | |
| Can you check the Discord on that? | |
| Oh, somebody else did a... | |
| Oh, that's interesting. | |
| Hey, we have a different version of the. | |
| We might do a different version of it. | |
| No, they did skip her. | |
| They did? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Where is it? | |
| The research tab? | |
| Maybe they'll send another one. | |
| No, it's there. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| Research tab. | |
| Yeah, Rona. | |
| It's there. | |
| It's right between. | |
| It's not even late. | |
| Her. | |
| Chair five. | |
| I see it in research. | |
| Okay, we might have to reload ours. | |
| It's like coming up as a poop emoji. | |
| What are you dragging? | |
| Are you dragging it? | |
| Put a poop over it. | |
| If they were going to do for thought for someone, it would have been mine. | |
| For some reason, but probably not. | |
| To say I did my hair night Uber. | |
| Okay, ready? | |
| It's holding up. | |
| You got it? | |
| Fire. | |
| Thank you. | |
| You look good. | |
| I would do that. | |
| I do. | |
| I will crack that. | |
| I will. | |
| I will. | |
| Here, remove the cursor. | |
| Dang, even you as a man like you're perfect. | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| I would give them a chance. | |
| So generous of you. | |
| It's not your type. | |
| Not my type. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's do. | |
| Give me one moment so I can pull up late guess. | |
| Damn, man. | |
| Y'all got me. | |
| It's the late guest. | |
| Late guest. | |
| I was wrong today. | |
| I'm sorry, y'all. | |
| I won't be late next time. | |
| You're good. | |
| But that's why I'm going to tip my man, Brian, y'all. | |
| So we're going to be good. | |
| Okay. | |
| I've flown from that airport so many times. | |
| There's always something wrong. | |
| Yeah, are we good to go? | |
| All right. | |
| Every time. | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| Bro, don't waste time. | |
| Come on. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| I just have to keep my eyes. | |
| Okay, next. | |
| Okay. | |
| She messed up. | |
| Her eyes are literally closing. | |
| Look, look, please. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Don't do me like that. | |
| Wait, it's it. | |
| Pull it up. | |
| Pull it up. | |
| Yo. | |
| My eyebrows on flick, though. | |
| Wait, in your lips. | |
| Nah. | |
| She's definitely degraded. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, there's like, I don't understand. | |
| You're wearing a skirt. | |
| Yeah, but I'm wearing shorts and tights under. | |
| Okay. | |
| I swear. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Wait, can I say that one more time? | |
| The one on the right. | |
| Speak vertical align. | |
| The one with the beard is kind of a Chad. | |
| So. | |
| Okay, next. | |
| Yes. | |
| Also, Nick, can you go into the Discord? | |
| So you're going at the very top on the left, it's direct messages. | |
| You're going to have a direct message, the very top one. | |
| Please don't click it on any of the others from Noe. | |
| Did you see those? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Pull all of them, the age and the gender for all of those, please. | |
| And then once you're done, take it off of DMs, okay? | |
| Got it. | |
| So what happened with the evil eye? | |
| What about? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Did it pop on the screen? | |
| What? | |
| Oh, I just thought I heard something about evil eye. | |
| Never mind. | |
| No, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| No evil eye. | |
| No evil eye. | |
| Nick, just let me know when you got all those. | |
| And then Alina, remember we have to have you do at some point later the in front of the camera thing. | |
| I have a question going around the table. | |
| Actually, you know what? | |
| Let's do the segment first. | |
| Going to your notes, Barbie. | |
| Or wait, Amelia. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Yes. | |
| Where is it? | |
| Okay. | |
| Your notes. | |
| You. | |
| Oh, really quick, we'll do the tattoo topic. | |
| You're covered in tattoos. | |
| You believe your tattoos make you more attractive, not less attractive, although you never get face tattoos. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| So if any other panelists want to weigh on this, so my position is this. | |
| I think, at least in terms of men's general assessment of women's attractiveness, I believe that tattoos, generally speaking, there are obviously men who have fetishes. | |
| There are men who have a type or whatever. | |
| I'd say in general, for most men, majority of men, tattoos are either neutral or negative. | |
| Does anybody disagree? | |
| Besides her? | |
| I don't disagree with that. | |
| I don't disagree. | |
| You don't disagree. | |
| No, that's the general stigma, and I accept that. | |
| You're just saying you believe it makes you more attractive. | |
| Okay, that's different. | |
| That's a different argument. | |
| It sets up like a perfect storm for a stereotype. | |
| They are ready. | |
| They're ready? | |
| Okay, we'll do that in a sec. | |
| Okay, any no disagreements? | |
| No. | |
| All right. | |
| I don't think tattoos are a deal-breaker necessarily, but I would say most men, it's not like, I don't think you're going to be more attractive to a man because your tattoos. | |
| At best, it's neutral. | |
| At best, it's tolerated. | |
| For most, I think a lot of men, they're going to view tattoos on women. | |
| It's going to lower your attractiveness. | |
| I think for certain people, it's like an extra attractiveness. | |
| Also, he's like, preference, yes. | |
| I prefer to date men who have tattoos. | |
| So it's just going to, it's on the same playing field, you know? | |
| But I think it's different between men and women, though. | |
| I think, I don't know if it's a majority of women, but I think women will deem tattoos to be attractive. | |
| Definitely. | |
| More so. | |
| Versus the latter where most men deem it kind of like a red flag or like, ooh, like what's she been into? | |
| Or what is she substituting for in her life where she likes to sit for eight hours in pain and get this ink scratch into her permanently? | |
| It's a stereotype. | |
| When I was in high school, I graduated late. | |
| This is very quick. | |
| I graduated late because I have a late birthday. | |
| I was 18 in high school. | |
| I had some tattoos. | |
| I went to a Christian school. | |
| I ended up, private Christian school, ended up dating for a short amount of time a very, very, very traditional, conservative Christian boy who was in my grade. | |
| He said, you got to get these removed. | |
| This is like, this is like, you know, a deal breaker. | |
| And I actually started that process and it cost a lot of money. | |
| And then I broke up with him eventually because he started to go into like a spiritual psychosis, which was really bizarre. | |
| And I realized these are representations of myself, you know, Bible versus things. | |
| I have my surgery date tattooed. | |
| But if somebody's getting like demonic stuff tattooed, that's on you permanently. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But men a lot have preferences, and I accept that. | |
| I wouldn't date a man with face tattoos. | |
| Going around the table, do you, for you, do you think that tattoos make a guy more attractive, more appealing? | |
| Yes. | |
| Not necessarily. | |
| Not necessarily. | |
| Do you think that whether you're attracted to the guy or not? | |
| Like, can I ask you a question? | |
| Do you think that there are men who you would characterize as masculine, but you're not attracted to them? | |
| Like, whoa, that guy's really masculine, but I'm not attracted to him. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you think that tattoos make a man more masculine? | |
| Or can, I guess? | |
| I think if a man has really nicely done tattoos, then they could make him appear more masculine. | |
| What do you think? | |
| I don't believe so. | |
| And are you more attracted to men with tattoos? | |
| Honestly, it doesn't matter. | |
| I don't date men for tattoos, so you could have them or not. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| Well, I understand that, you know, if they don't have tattoos, it's not a deal breaker. | |
| If they do have tattoos, it's not a deal breaker. | |
| But you don't have any preference one way or the other? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, and do you think tattoos make a man look more masculine? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I like them. | |
| You like them? | |
| And do you think it makes men look more masculine? | |
| It depends. | |
| Like, if it looks like it suits them, then yeah. | |
| Your thoughts? | |
| Tattoos? | |
| I don't. | |
| No, I feel like people with shitty tattoos look really ugly. | |
| People who have nice tattoos look like hot. | |
| But like if they're bad tattoos, then it just looks like shit. | |
| I agree. | |
| Let's assume that the tattoos are good. | |
| I've dated more people without tattoos than I have with you. | |
| No. | |
| Alina? | |
| It's pretty neutral for me. | |
| Just certain face tattoos would be a negative. | |
| Okay. | |
| going back to your notes then uh actually before we do yeah let's let's just do the photos um All right. | |
| So this is a different batch. | |
| We're going to rapid fire through them. | |
| Here, let's just do this. | |
| What? | |
| Switch the thing? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Actually, try the GH5 one. | |
| Yeah, I'm preferring this. | |
| Okay. | |
| You know what? | |
| Let's just tab through. | |
| Next. | |
| Next. | |
| See, now these are a little better. | |
| Whoever did these. | |
| Hey, I got it. | |
| But like more than the other thumbs. | |
| Next. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Okay, next. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think you look different. | |
| You look like snow white. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Next. | |
| Next. | |
| Okay. | |
| Your eyes became blue, I guess. | |
| Wait, they aged you in the first one, too. | |
| Oh, that's kind of like only a few. | |
| It's a MILF, though. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| What? | |
| Oh, this is just like. | |
| Gender swap. | |
| Would you date the male fruit? | |
| Let me see again, boss. | |
| A little too fruity for me. | |
| Is that a no? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Next. | |
| Wow. | |
| What? | |
| Okay. | |
| Also a bit fruity. | |
| Too fruity for me, yeah. | |
| Yo, yay. | |
| Hey, Mary, can you get me a water bottle? | |
| Yes. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Room. | |
| Would you date him? | |
| He's like kind of fruity, but he's cute. | |
| Next. | |
| Would you date him? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Is he a bit too ashy? | |
| He's a bit too much of everything. | |
| I don't like his look at all. | |
| Okay, all right. | |
| Next, would you date him? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is that an Edgar? | |
| Does he got the Edgar cut? | |
| The cut is clean, though. | |
| It really is. | |
| I like the little eyebrows. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Yeah, actually, they're pretty generous there. | |
| They are. | |
| All right, next. | |
| Wow, it's like your match. | |
| Raw, next. | |
| Raw. | |
| Like, yeah. | |
| I mean, I would date. | |
| What do you mean by raw? | |
| Like, it's like smosh pass and then there's like raw, like, raw, like, over-the-cover. | |
| Like, I would let him fuck me raw. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Rawline's piper, my guy. | |
| You'll let him. | |
| He looks like a bit of a fuckboy, though. | |
| He does. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, if you were a dude, you would be the biggest fuckboy ever. | |
| If she was a dude. | |
| If she was. | |
| Oh, she is a fuckboy. | |
| As a chick. | |
| Oop. | |
| Are you a fuckboy? | |
| Fuck girl? | |
| Fuck girl. | |
| Are you a fuck girl? | |
| It takes one to know why I could do. | |
| Let's see. | |
| But yeah, that guy kind of mogs, not gonna lie. | |
| Yeah, like he looks really trans. | |
| Maybe. | |
| I should. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You should become trans. | |
| Don't do it. | |
| Somebody. | |
| If you were a dude, would you have a big dick? | |
| Do you think I'd have a big dick? | |
| I think I'd have like over seven inches. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, Alina, you were all shaking your head like, yeah, I think she would. | |
| Oh, I thought you were talking about yourself. | |
| Oh, wait, going around the table, just if you were a dude, this is the most retarded question ever. | |
| If you were a dude, would you have a big dick? | |
| Yeah, for sure. | |
| Yes. | |
| Average. | |
| Average. | |
| Okay, W. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Wait. | |
| Oh, this is a. | |
| I don't know if I've ever asked this. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, look, this isn't exactly choir session here. | |
| Of the men you've been with, I'll keep it general at first. | |
| Maybe then I'll get more. | |
| Are big dicks rare? | |
| Whatever you consider a big dick. | |
| Pass. | |
| Oh, come on. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Of the men I've been with. | |
| Can you take that off the table, please? | |
| I don't think big dicks are rare. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You don't think of the men I've been with. | |
| Damn a lot of black guys, apparently. | |
| I guess is that a stereotype? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Are they rare? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| I really don't know. | |
| I don't have that many to go off of. | |
| Alina? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You don't know? | |
| I don't know either. | |
| What percent? | |
| If those of you who answered, who had a good sense of it, could you do like a one in four, like one in four guys that you've been with? | |
| What's the breakdown? | |
| One in six, one in ten guys have hooked. | |
| So of the guys you've hooked up with, like, is it one in four, one in five, one in ten? | |
| Has a big dick. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, I haven't hooked up with like a ton of people, but I would say a large percentage of them usually have big dicks. | |
| Like at least every other guy, every one. | |
| I mean, at least three out of four guys has a big dick. | |
| Oh, three out of four. | |
| 75%. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about? | |
| I would say more like 50%. | |
| 50%? | |
| Zero. | |
| Oh. | |
| Aw, somebody help her. | |
| I guess. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I mean, like, not a lot of people have big dicks. | |
| I would say like one in four. | |
| Like one out of four people. | |
| One in four. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And does it spoil you? | |
| Fuck. | |
| What? | |
| Does it spoil you? | |
| Once you've had a big dick, it's like, ah. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah. | |
| They have to put a lot less work in. | |
| Less work if they have the big dick. | |
| But what's big, though? | |
| In the bedroom and also like life. | |
| Are we talking length, girth? | |
| Like, does it matter? | |
| I'm talking about it. | |
| It could be both. | |
| It could be both, I guess. | |
| Okay. | |
| Interesting. | |
| I wouldn't say it spoils you because sometimes if it's too big, it hurts. | |
| Yeah, I mean, that can be a thing. | |
| You know, I think you can get pussy spoiled too. | |
| Believe it. | |
| It's too tight or what? | |
| It could be, it could be the feeling. | |
| It could be the tightness. | |
| It could be the labia. | |
| If she's got like ginormous labia, at least for me, anyways. | |
| Some guys don't like that. | |
| I think that's weird. | |
| But it could be the wetness. | |
| Like some women are more wet than others. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The juice. | |
| And you prefer more or less? | |
| More is better. | |
| More is more. | |
| More is better. | |
| The more the merrier. | |
| The more the merrier, for sure. | |
| It is Christmas time. | |
| But yeah, I don't know. | |
| Like, I feel that's the problem with if you start getting around a little bit. | |
| You start comparing. | |
| And it's not even sex, right? | |
| It's not even the dick or the pussy or whatever. | |
| It's like, once you've dated enough people, you start creating an amalgamation. | |
| So amalgamation, like a combination. | |
| Okay, this guy was really funny. | |
| This guy was really good in bed. | |
| This guy had a big dick. | |
| This guy was really good looking. | |
| This guy had a really good personality. | |
| This guy was rich. | |
| And then it's like, oh, this guy, whatever, X, Y, Z, other characteristics. | |
| And then it's like, ah, you like kind of want all of it. | |
| You get greedy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that's the, I think that's the big problem if you sleep around, you know? | |
| Yeah, you're like, oh, I can't settle for this because I haven't seen that it's better elsewhere. | |
| Like, how's a girl gonna like fuck a professional athlete? | |
| And then you gotta, you gotta date Jimbo from Target or from fucking CVS? | |
| Well, dating Jimbo is a choice. | |
| It's funny. | |
| Yeah, that's it's the conversation I was just having with my brothers yesterday. | |
| Guys really don't get that. | |
| Like they don't understand like, okay, you can go in their head, they really, I want to say logicalize everything. | |
| I think they really underestimate the romanticization and emotional feeling that women actually carry. | |
| Because it's like if a girl has messed with a guy with a lot of money, right? | |
| And they get with a guy who's average. | |
| I'm not going to say broke, but just average. | |
| The guy in the back of his head is always thinking that, yeah, she thinks, like, you know, in the back of her head that, you know, oh, this isn't the lifestyle. | |
| This guy's way better. | |
| When really, that's half the time that's never going on with her head. | |
| Her choice was you. | |
| It's different. | |
| I feel like men, that's a very masculine thing to do. | |
| Men tend to get with women and use them. | |
| And if something better comes along, they string them along and go like that. | |
| Women don't necessarily tend to do that as much as men, I feel like. | |
| I feel like overall, that's something that on average, there's way more women that, unlike social media like Superman, there's way more women that are with average men. | |
| I think there's severities to it. | |
| Like you mentioned the money thing, like if you're a girl and you date a rich guy and then you date like an average guy or whatever. | |
| You know, I don't know if that's, I think that can be a case where like the lifestyle difference could be a factor. | |
| But I think the biggest thing would be once you've dealt with a guy, I would say the two big things would be a guy with like just you're drawn to the personality and then the guy who's really good in bed. | |
| That's gonna fuck you guys. | |
| Like the money thing, eh, a little bit. | |
| Or like the really, really, the really, really good looking guy, the really, really good personality guy, and you're fucking in love with him, blah, blah, blah. | |
| Oh my. | |
| He's, you know, you're just in love, whatever. | |
| And then the guy who's really good in bed. | |
| That's going to get y'all fucked up. | |
| I think. | |
| More so than money. | |
| More so than money. | |
| I agree with that. | |
| Whatever. | |
| I can agree with that. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| Unless the guy's really fucking simping for you to the point where it's like everything's taken care of. | |
| He's paying your rent. | |
| He's fucking bought you a car like that level. | |
| Because a lot of times I think women will deal with women will deal with a guy who's wealthy and maybe he takes you on dates or whatever. | |
| But like he's not fully simping, you know? | |
| Your life doesn't change all that much. | |
| And then honestly, I feel like for me, after I dated a really, really rich guy, I was more willing to date a less rich person because I realized that having money doesn't mean anything on how they're going to treat you and like how you're going to be happy at the end of the day and how much love you're going to feel. | |
| Like at the end of the day, that's what it should be about. | |
| And then we can work on the money together if we would need, you know, but a man having money. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's not going to make your relationship better for the most part. | |
| Like it's not going to make him love you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like it's not the only thing I'm prioritizing for sure. | |
| There are other redeeming qualities that I would want in a man that I'm taking serious. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| All right, next. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Very American. | |
| He needs to cut that hair and then it'd be perfect. | |
| These are pretty good. | |
| Did they do next? | |
| Is there next? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, that's fine then. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Getting into Amelia, your notes. | |
| You don't believe in bowing to your man. | |
| You feel it's very old school and strange and degrading. | |
| In what? | |
| A woman should respect her man as the man respects her. | |
| Let's, for the context, let's do the bow video. | |
| So this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend that I show to new girls to train them. | |
| This was actually your ex? | |
| I'm sick. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I thought it was a video from TikTok. | |
| Let's just try. | |
| Let's do the regular right corner. | |
| All right. | |
| Go ahead, play. | |
| Huge bow. | |
| As soon as I get home, she's got to hit a bow. | |
| That's like an Asian culture thing. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I'm white. | |
| So. | |
| Well, she's Asian. | |
| Yeah, but I mean the bow, like kings and shit. | |
| I'm on some king shit. | |
| But that's not really necessarily something that they do with. | |
| I feel like. | |
| Oh, I'll have the whitest girl ever bowing, trust me. | |
| How did you know that? | |
| Absolutely disgraceful. | |
| This is not his actual. | |
| Disgraceful, the raw tomatoes. | |
| No, he didn't. | |
| And then get ready to. | |
| One more time. | |
| Just the bow portion. | |
| All right. | |
| Do you see the submissive hand posture? | |
| Do you see the depth? | |
| Do you see the depth of the bow? | |
| So you say it's degrading. | |
| You say it's strange. | |
| You don't believe in bowing to your man. | |
| Because in my culture, that doesn't exist. | |
| And in my partner's culture, it also doesn't. | |
| And I feel like it's kind of like a kink almost. | |
| And we don't hold that kink, you know? | |
| Like, I respect my man 100%. | |
| Kink shaming? | |
| No. | |
| I'm just saying me and my partner don't possess that kink. | |
| Yeah, that's fine, but why is it degrading? | |
| Because that feels awkwardly like making yourself less than. | |
| I don't think that's that. | |
| That's how it feels to me. | |
| That's why I said that. | |
| I would feel like less than if I was to bow when he got home. | |
| It's not a part, it's just not Asian culture is not existing in my house. | |
| I believe in cultural appropriation, although the bow, the bow, the bow was seen in Western cultures. | |
| It wasn't some for sure. | |
| Like if you're the king, people bowed to you. | |
| Right. | |
| And in fact, they couldn't really look at you, I think. | |
| So sometimes I also enjoy that. | |
| Like, no, don't fucking look at me. | |
| You're not allowed to gaze upon me. | |
| You can't. | |
| Peasant woman. | |
| If my partner ever said that to me or viewed me like that or said what you said, I would be say bye. | |
| Okay. | |
| You know, that's okay. | |
| You can do whatever you want in your house. | |
| That's cool. | |
| As long as she's consenting and she's cool with that. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| All power to you. | |
| They do that shit. | |
| Then hell yeah. | |
| But I don't think it's degrading is the thing. | |
| But let's get into it. | |
| So. | |
| A consensual kink setting, then? | |
| Of course not. | |
| No, it's not even a sexual thing necessarily. | |
| It's just pure, pure, not even sex related. | |
| Well, what is it? | |
| I mean, it's good if she does it, but... | |
| Oh, it's basically just a temperature test to see if she's willing to do something essentially completely harmless, completely effortless. | |
| If she's willing to acquiesce to a simple ask, let's say. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And it just tells me the type of woman she is. | |
| If she's going to fight me on it, she wants to negotiate. | |
| She wants to have a conversation. | |
| I don't even need the bow. | |
| I mean, look, it's nice if she does it, but I don't actually need it. | |
| It's simply a temperature test to see where she's at in terms of her submissiveness. | |
| If she's going to fight me on it, okay, cool. | |
| You're feminist. | |
| We're probably not going to get along. | |
| How far into feminine are you at for this request? | |
| And do you say, how do you word it? | |
| I got to give some context here. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I probably don't date how most men date. | |
| For the past three, four years or whatever, the majority of women I've dated, not all of them, but the majority of women I've dated, they contact me. | |
| So this is a dynamic that most men probably aren't going to enjoy. | |
| If you're reaching out to me, things are going to be on my terms. | |
| In the same way that you women have had this shit on lock for a long time, when men come to you, you have all the leverage. | |
| You have all the negotiating power. | |
| If a woman comes to me, yeah, I'm leading that relationship. | |
| And it can be my way or it can be the highway, essentially. | |
| And they're more than happy to do that. | |
| And like, how do you word this? | |
| Are you like bow for me right now? | |
| They watch the show. | |
| What do you say? | |
| They should know this shit if they're messaging me. | |
| They should already know it's about. | |
| I don't even need to ask them. | |
| Interesting. | |
| But if you do, how do you say it? | |
| Yeah, well, to be clear, some girl off of a dating app, I don't think the bow is going to fly, at least initially. | |
| Only the ones that are. | |
| If she's submissive, well, no, even if she doesn't know you, I'm just talking for a normal guy now. | |
| I think a normal guy, you can screen for general her being submissive, if that's what you want. | |
| And then, yeah, she actually probably would be down for the bow. | |
| but like a feminist liberal chick nah not gonna happen i'm very submissive but you wouldn't do a If I was like in a relationship with someone and they asked me to as like just a cute fun thing, why not? | |
| Or if they were like, you know, saying it all sexually. | |
| Yeah, like if it was like a hot thing that they were like, you know, being my dom, then I think that's hot. | |
| But yeah, it's, it's not some guy who I'm on a first date with. | |
| I'm not going to bow to some random dude. | |
| Just show of hands, who here kind of agrees with her and disagrees with me going around the tube. | |
| About what? | |
| Well, yeah, what ask the question. | |
| Okay, well, she's against the bow. | |
| She thinks it's kind of degrading. | |
| She thinks it's, I think, weird. | |
| I don't know if that was the word. | |
| Strange, degrading. | |
| Like if he asked, or like a let's just go around the table though, just if it was like addressed to me in the way that Brian is describing it, like when my partner was like, You like on first date, like you have to be on the first date. | |
| I think that's degraded. | |
| I think that's weird. | |
| Vibes, but I think it's hot. | |
| It could be hot if you guys are closer and you're into being a dom and I'm being into being submissive. | |
| It could be, I think it's hot in normal dating scenarios, not Brian's dating scenarios. | |
| Yeah, it's probably going to be an unrealistic ask, at least on the first, like at least initially. | |
| Yeah, no, it's weird at the beginning. | |
| Yeah, yeah, perhaps, perhaps. | |
| But if the girl comes to you, yeah, that shit's on the table. | |
| That's on the fucking table for sure. | |
| Your thoughts? | |
| So, I don't think the act itself is degrading. | |
| Um, I think it's simply a bow. | |
| However, on the first date, I probably would not do that, but your thoughts, yeah, I would never. | |
| You would never love it. | |
| You're Christian, by the way, right? | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Yeah, we'll get into that. | |
| What do you think? | |
| I agree with Kaylee. | |
| Um, if it were like something that is like fun and like cute and like a joke, then I would do it, but I wouldn't do it in a literal sense where it's like, uh, what do you think? | |
| Yeah, no. | |
| Um, like, like I said, if like if it was a joke or a cute little thing, yeah, like I'm gonna do my little man, no, but like on a real life thing, probably not. | |
| Alina, yeah, I think it's hot. | |
| I would do it, W, Alina. | |
| You did it to your boyfriend, right? | |
| Yeah, he liked it, right? | |
| He's not much of a bow guy, he doesn't care for it. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Um, okay, Christian, Christian, wouldn't do it, wouldn't do it. | |
| Um, you're Catholic, you're pres, what is your uh non-dom Christian, non-dom Christian. | |
| Can you tell me what the Bible says about submission? | |
| So, in the Bible, it says to submit to your husband, to respect your husband, uh, for he is the leader of the household. | |
| Husbands should love their wives the same way that Christ loved the church. | |
| That's direct, yeah. | |
| That that doesn't conflict with him requesting you to bow, right? | |
| But it also doesn't promote it, yeah. | |
| That that's fine. | |
| Well, to the degree that and I only bow to one person, and that's God. | |
| So, in Ephesians, in the Bible, it says, wives, submit to your husbands, right? | |
| So, do you think submission is arbitrary? | |
| Like, you are the authority on when you get to submit to your husband? | |
| I think I'm allowed to do what I'm comfortable and not comfortable doing. | |
| Um, and also, respectfully, my boyfriend is not my husband yet, right? | |
| But I'm saying, if you were married, would you okay? | |
| How about if you're married, would you do the bow if your husband requests? | |
| Okay, so cool, you're not submissive. | |
| Congrats, you're in contradiction once again. | |
| You're the Catholic, you're the friend. | |
| I'm not comfortable with that. | |
| If that feels, is doing the bow in contravention of Christian ethics? | |
| I feel like it is because it says, like, a man and a woman come together in a partnership, like together to build each other up, not to make each other feel like kaka. | |
| I would feel like kaka if that was like requested in the sense, like maybe if it was like a cute little thing, like we were saying, okay, whatever. | |
| But, like, if I was being like shut down for what I'm saying, my feelings, I don't feel comfortable. | |
| I would feel that would be the same thing as, like, you know, Jesus would never disrespect the church. | |
| How about this question? | |
| Same way I wouldn't want my partner to disrespect me. | |
| Let's assume in a have you ever had an argument with a boyfriend? | |
| No, you've never with my current one. | |
| Okay. | |
| Could it be logically possible that you could down the road with your future husband, whether it's your current boyfriend or somebody else, could you have a disagreement with your husband? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Now, let's say you guys reach an impasse. | |
| You want one thing, he wants the other. | |
| Neither of you are morally wrong. | |
| Let's just say it's about a move. | |
| He wants to move to Kansas. | |
| You want to stay in North Dakota, wherever the fuck you're living, doesn't really matter. | |
| And he's like, look, we got to move here. | |
| Do you defer to him? | |
| But you want to stay where you're living. | |
| That's just like so situational. | |
| Depends on why are we moving? | |
| Like my elderly family's here. | |
| I'm not sure what the answer to that would be. | |
| I would like to think that we'd find a middle ground and talk like adults to see like, hey, I could stay here, take care of my elderly family, maybe something in the middle. | |
| I don't really have an answer for that. | |
| Because there's certain things that are on an equal level of okay, let's assume in the hypothetical, there's no sick family members. | |
| You just like where you're currently living. | |
| Then I would go. | |
| You would go. | |
| If he's providing. | |
| Okay. | |
| I will go. | |
| I wouldn't give up my career, but my career is transferable. | |
| In terms of moving? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, I would trust that God speaks to him because I wouldn't just marry anyone. | |
| So if he wants to go to a different city, I would trust him. | |
| Different cities to do. | |
| So under that circumstance, you would be submissive. | |
| But you wouldn't be submissive if he asked you to bow to him. | |
| The only person that I should ever bow to is Jesus, and my husband would know that. | |
| So I know that God wouldn't even want me dating someone who wants to be aware of that. | |
| Ephesians, wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. | |
| Submit to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. | |
| Yeah, but he's not saying treat your husband like he's the Lord. | |
| Because then you would be idolizing your man and you're not supposed to idolize. | |
| It's more of like a relationship partner. | |
| And I know, like, I would be so convicted if I bowed down to my man. | |
| My husband. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you, how about this? | |
| Do you think, do you want to get married one day? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you want to get married one day? | |
| I think so. | |
| You think so? | |
| You're not sure? | |
| I think so. | |
| You think so? | |
| Okay. | |
| Isn't that kind of like the normal thing that Christians do? | |
| Yes. | |
| Get married. | |
| Technically not supposed to be having sex outside of the marriage, but. | |
| Yes. | |
| I want to probably eventually. | |
| I don't know timeline, though. | |
| Okay. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Let me check something really quick. | |
| Thank you, Nick. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think it's degrading for a man to get down on one knee and spend a month's worth of salary on some bullshit diamond ring that, by the way, they do some weird, shady shit with the supply. | |
| Sex. | |
| Yeah, what's that called with the diamond supply? | |
| It's they're not actually worth anything. | |
| Like the lab diamonds. | |
| It's just coming from chip. | |
| You're going to spend a couple thousand Gs on a fucking diamond that's worth like. | |
| You lose like 60%. | |
| Yeah, it's fucking horseshit. | |
| You want me to get down? | |
| I think getting down on one knee is more bitch made than bowing. | |
| At least you stay on your feet if you bow. | |
| I think it's important for people to learn how to respect each other. | |
| So like everyone should try to respect each other. | |
| Thank you for your contribution to the condo. | |
| I don't see how that is the same. | |
| How do you see like yeah, I think it's worse to get down on one knee and to enter into a bullshit contract that is going to financially fuck you in the event that your wife, she gets bored, she gets on, whatever, she's vaguely unhappy. | |
| You're going to get fucked in divorce. | |
| You have to get down on one knee. | |
| Please, will you marry me? | |
| It's fucking simp. | |
| It's fucking lame. | |
| And you have to spend all this money on a fucking diamond ring. | |
| then whoever pays for the the wedding you're going to waste a bunch of money on the fucking bullshit ceremony wedding so it's like yeah i agree with that You agree with that? | |
| With the wedding part and the wedding cost. | |
| Okay, that's fine. | |
| But I think the specific act of proposing, which is almost only men do it, that's like degrading. | |
| But y'all expect that shit. | |
| To express your love to the girl that you love with all of you. | |
| Bowing. | |
| Express your love to me. | |
| Show me you're submissive. | |
| Show me you care about me. | |
| Show me you love me. | |
| But that's custom, though. | |
| And that's what he's doing: he's getting on his knee to show you. | |
| There it is. | |
| It's a moment. | |
| It's a little bitch. | |
| No, it's showing I'm willing to get down and kneel to you, to this relationship, to ask you to create something new together and to move forward as one. | |
| Why can't she bow to you? | |
| I never said she can. | |
| You said you wouldn't do it. | |
| You said you weren't. | |
| No, I didn't. | |
| I said I would. | |
| Maybe I got you mixed up. | |
| No, I said I would. | |
| I would love to bow to some dude who wants to marry me. | |
| Hell yeah. | |
| I can bow to you. | |
| Like, I think that's hot. | |
| It could be hot and fun, but I'm not going to bow to some random dude and I'm not going to bow to some dude who I've been on some dates with. | |
| I would bow to some guy who I take very seriously, who takes me very seriously, who has respect for me. | |
| And I want to do something that makes him exactly that makes him feel good. | |
| That makes him feel hot, whatever it is, like a kink for him if that's what it is. | |
| Is it in your lab? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, just can you put on the ground's clean if you can just put it on the side there? | |
| But yeah, then he should get on. | |
| What you got for me? | |
| Come on, you're Christian. | |
| Yeah, I just submit yourself to your own husbands. | |
| Yeah, so if he's like, yo, go make me a sandwich. | |
| all right i'll go make him a sandwich but if he's like isn't that more degrading than the bow No, because I'm hungry. | |
| Oh, yeah, more effort, but it comes from a different place, I feel like, because that would come from like genuine love, like, oh, like, I want you to eat. | |
| But if he's like, oh, my ego's feeling low, I need you to make sure you love me, even though you do this and that, and that, and that. | |
| It's a bowing is a form of respect. | |
| It's a form of respect. | |
| I won't even bow to a priest. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, because, you know, sometimes I see Catholic, like, they go up and they, like, bow. | |
| That's why I mentioned it. | |
| Okay, I guess. | |
| Yeah, but okay. | |
| I just think it's interesting if we start to break down what women expect of men. | |
| I think you guys might change your tune a little bit on the bow because I think the bow takes no time. | |
| It's effortless. | |
| Any woman can do it. | |
| It's not really physically demanding. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| From my understanding of the Bible, marriage is recommended, but the issue is people get divorced due to money is like the top reason. | |
| So it would be nice if we had financial education in schools more often for people to avoid debt and things like that. | |
| But it's not easy to avoid debt when you're in the United States. | |
| Yeah, definitely. | |
| A lot of divorces are due to financial reasons. | |
| But I guess while we're doing kind of empty platitudes, war is bad, peace is good. | |
| And it would be great if there were no homeless people and no starving children in Africa. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I have 30 pages in our notes, but it's just too much for this podcast. | |
| But you're hitting the light. | |
| You're hitting it. | |
| She's hitting the notes. | |
| So I want to ask, how do you feel like it's comparable that analogy you just did about a man proposing and a woman bowing? | |
| Like, what about that is comparable? | |
| Well, the actual physical motion is, it's of the same nature. | |
| So it's like the bow is like in the same way you would kneel for a king, you would bow to a king. | |
| A kneel is actually more effort, more physically demanding, puts you in the lower position, and it is, I think, more submissive to a degree. | |
| You're looking up. | |
| So I think they're comparable. | |
| They're comparable in the sense that the actual action itself is lowering yourself. | |
| Physically. | |
| Yes. | |
| But what about just like what the meaning is? | |
| Because I just see it as very different. | |
| I don't even see how it's comparable other than the physicality of it. | |
| Well, it's comparable in the sense that this is something that women expect or want. | |
| I'm sure. | |
| That's not something that women expect and want. | |
| That's a custom that men made. | |
| And only during that performance. | |
| So I don't think most. | |
| Here's a, here's a. | |
| I don't think most women are going to be cool if I'm like just because it's tradition at that time. | |
| This is therapy for Brian and Oi. | |
| It's talk therapy. | |
| I don't think women are really going to be all that cool with that. | |
| Most, some women are probably fine with it. | |
| I don't think a lot of women are going to be okay with the proposal being. | |
| Because when you are asking someone, at the end of the day, that's a real question. | |
| It's not just like a, it's not just like a thing, like a statement. | |
| You are asking me to let you conquer me and to be above me for the rest of my life. | |
| That's me bowing down. | |
| I'm bearing your children. | |
| Like, I'm already in a lower place between you. | |
| That doesn't make sense. | |
| Yes, it does. | |
| I'm not saying lower. | |
| It does. | |
| When you are talking about it. | |
| Talking about how a woman with a lower body count is more preferable. | |
| What does that have to do with anything? | |
| A woman having your children. | |
| Everything. | |
| A woman having your children ought to elevate her in your esteem. | |
| It ought to, but it is. | |
| It elevates her in being. | |
| It does. | |
| It elevates her and being your wife. | |
| No, but it doesn't lower her. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| I'm not saying it for other people. | |
| It devalues her, like in your sense. | |
| It devalues her for a future partner. | |
| She's saying she's giving her body to you. | |
| She's giving the future of her womb to you. | |
| You're putting her on a pedestal saying, you were the woman I'm going to put on a pedestal for my whole life. | |
| Will you be everything to me? | |
| Like, will you be the one that I'm with? | |
| It's not like, oh, bow to me. | |
| Oh, get on your knee for me just for the moment. | |
| It's you were asking to give my life to you. | |
| It is, though. | |
| It's so much deeper than just, hey, can you marry me? | |
| Like, no, the reason why they ask, the reason why we even ask each other questions is because we're supposed to do it politely. | |
| We're not supposed to just throw the ring and be like, hey, no, can you pass me that water, please? | |
| Like, you know what I'm saying? | |
| When it comes to the reason why he's, I don't know specifically in history why, you know, that custom was made, but I'm pretty sure the reason why men made that was because they felt like they needed to. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| Queen. | |
| Yeah, I guess that's a tradition. | |
| I mean, then we can just get into like, well, what are the ways in which men or women or both are failing to adhere to traditional standards? | |
| But I guess, how about this while we do this? | |
| Just a reminder, who was against, like, who wouldn't bow? | |
| You, I think you. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Show of hands. | |
| Who would not bow? | |
| You bow? | |
| Did you say you would bow? | |
| I would, yeah. | |
| You would? | |
| Like, as a joke. | |
| Like, you know, cute things. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But like, if it was an everyday thing. | |
| I'm serious. | |
| How serious. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay, how about this? | |
| Going around the table for the perfect man. | |
| Perfect man. | |
| So this, let me, some people don't fully understand what I mean by perfect. | |
| You can, it's, or wait for a little bit, Nick, but you can show it later, just for 10 seconds. | |
| Uh, when I say perfect man, I'm talking about perfect looks, perfect personality, uh, per and whatever your determination is of what perfect looks is. | |
| Perfect personality, perfect loyalty, uh, never will leave you. | |
| I guess you could technically want to leave them, although if they're perfect, why? | |
| Um, they would never want to leave you. | |
| They would stay with you forever, uh, perfectly loyal, uh, perfectly rich. | |
| So, I guess technically, like, could be the richest person in the world, or maybe whatever you're fine with 10 bill, 10 billion, uh, perfect, perfect father for your future children if you want children, perfect everything, right? | |
| Perfect man. | |
| For the perfect man, would you bow? | |
| My perfect man wouldn't make me do that. | |
| Okay, here, I'll frame it like this: I mean, there's a magic genie, and so the perfect man, it's not something he's asking you to do, but the genie says, in order for you to have this perfect man, you need to bow for him. | |
| So, it's a third party who says you need to bow to get the perfect man. | |
| That's a very like loaded question. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It's not loaded. | |
| Well, it just feels like, I don't know. | |
| I don't really have an answer for that because I am with my perfect partner and now he would never make me do that. | |
| I want to say he's perfect for me, yeah. | |
| And I want to say, like, well, none of us are perfect. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, you could get the perfect guy. | |
| I don't, I don't have an answer for that because, I mean, I don't want to bow to nobody but God. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Actually, so your current guy is perfect for you. | |
| For me. | |
| Yes. | |
| So, your current boyfriend asks you to do it. | |
| If he's perfect, he asks you to do it. | |
| Do you bow for him? | |
| Hypothetically. | |
| The magic, the magic. | |
| In a huge sense, yes. | |
| The magic. | |
| In the submissive sense? | |
| In the submissive sense, yes. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| But it would be a long conversation. | |
| Perfect man. | |
| It's a long conversation. | |
| Got it. | |
| What about you? | |
| For the perfect man? | |
| Yes. | |
| For the perfect man, you would? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| I do know the perfect man. | |
| His name is Jesus, and I be bowing every night. | |
| Okay. | |
| Realistically, though, if Jesus comes back to earth, no offense, you're not the first pick. | |
| So, like in human form, if he comes back in human form or whatever, like he's probably not going to fuck, just saying. | |
| That was her. | |
| Oh, whoa, he would never be able to do that. | |
| He wouldn't fuck anybody because he's a virgin. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Jesus wouldn't even think that. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, you're the one fucking trolling with your answer. | |
| Is Jesus and God the same person in your mind? | |
| Yeah, no, Trinity. | |
| So, okay. | |
| The corp uh the in the in the real world, like of the men that exist, right? | |
| The perfect man, hypothetical, would you bow for him? | |
| Nope. | |
| Not even, not the, what's the justification again? | |
| Because I will only bow to Jesus. | |
| Wives submit unto your husbands as you do unto the Lord. | |
| Wives submit to your husband. | |
| Wives don't idolize your husband. | |
| That's not idolizing. | |
| Yes, it is. | |
| No, it's not. | |
| Oh, you're not in your word enough. | |
| Well, obviously not. | |
| How would doing a bow? | |
| Okay, can I ask you a question? | |
| Yes. | |
| Do you think in Asian cultures that even there is Christianity in various Asian countries? | |
| Do you think Asian cultures that observe this bowing behavior, do you think they're idolizing their husband? | |
| Or is it a show of respect? | |
| Different. | |
| Yeah, I feel like that's so different. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| It wouldn't matter. | |
| They bow to each other. | |
| Logically, it wouldn't matter. | |
| No, because they're not Christian like me. | |
| I can't hold them to the same standard. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Asian countries do have Christian populations. | |
| But people are also on different levels with Jesus, so people have different convictions. | |
| People have different convictions. | |
| You could go ask your pastor or your priest. | |
| It's not like idolizing somebody to bow to them. | |
| No, it is. | |
| No, it's not. | |
| No, he wouldn't. | |
| Uh-huh. | |
| No. | |
| Okay, so these are, are you saying that these people in Asian countries who happen to be Christian, when they do a cultural bow to one another, that is in contravention of Christian faith? | |
| Well, that's literally the difference. | |
| They're bowing to one another. | |
| No, but they do the bow out of respect. | |
| So if I want to do each other, but they, and no, when they get married, they have a show-off where the woman is supposed to bow and the man is supposed to bow and whoever goes. | |
| I saw the stupid video. | |
| I know. | |
| It's the truth. | |
| Right, so why are you saying it, though? | |
| And I'm not commenting on anything that, you know, like I'm not a part of. | |
| Like, if someone's Catholic, I wouldn't hold my standards to them. | |
| This is just my own personal opinion. | |
| So I especially don't know what's going on in Asia. | |
| But you acknowledge that there are Christian people in Asia. | |
| Oh, I would hope so, yeah. | |
| And they still bow to each other, and it's not in contradiction to the Christian faith. | |
| Oh, no, I'm not them. | |
| Well, I'm telling you. | |
| Okay, thanks. | |
| Yeah, you're welcome. | |
| You're totally welcome. | |
| So the perfect man. | |
| You wouldn't bow for the perfect man. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, Jesus. | |
| This girl's the most Christian girl I've ever seen. | |
| If she's saying it, then she knows. | |
| Perfect man. | |
| Would you bow for the perfect man? | |
| I would like for him to bow to me too. | |
| I want both of us to bow. | |
| It's only one way. | |
| It's only one way. | |
| Okay, if he takes care of everything, like all the bills, everything, then he's like, oh, yeah, he's a billionaire. | |
| He's rich. | |
| Perfect. | |
| Okay, sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| Perfect man, do you bow? | |
| She's not answering questions right now. | |
| That's my understanding. | |
| Tell me when you're ready to participate. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| So I agree with her. | |
| I just feel like as a personal thing, I would just be like, well, I'm in Japan. | |
| Maybe I'll bow to people out of respect because even as a perfect man, would you bow to him? | |
| It's not about the perfect man. | |
| That's the analogy. | |
| You're not in Japan. | |
| You're in the United States. | |
| Well, then I'll put Jesus Christ as the perfect man. | |
| Great. | |
| What about you? | |
| Yeah, I would. | |
| For the perfect man. | |
| Alina? | |
| Perfect. | |
| All right. | |
| That's interesting. | |
| How about this? | |
| For the perfect man, do you give up your career entirely? | |
| Can't work. | |
| I've heard this discussed so many times. | |
| If you can keep it as like an interest, I don't know what we concluded. | |
| Like if it's able to not make money off of it. | |
| How about let's do a couple things. | |
| Do you sing? | |
| Are you singing? | |
| Who's the singer? | |
| Who's the singer? | |
| That's you? | |
| Yeah, that's me. | |
| Us too. | |
| That's you too. | |
| Okay. | |
| You can't go to raves anymore for the perfect man. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| I really like working in medical, though. | |
| I feel like I would still like to study that on the side if I gave that away. | |
| No, you can't. | |
| For the perfect man. | |
| Then so be it. | |
| For the perfect man. | |
| Okay. | |
| I mean. | |
| You sing, is that correct? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you give up your career for the perfect man? | |
| My passion or my career where I make money? | |
| Well, that's two different questions. | |
| Your career to start. | |
| My career where I make money if I don't have a passion surrounding it, then I would love very happily to give that up for my man. | |
| I'd be so grateful. | |
| Come through. | |
| And then do you give up your is singing the passion that you're referencing? | |
| Yeah, writing, songwriting and singing, yeah. | |
| Okay, do you give that up for the perfect man? | |
| I never would. | |
| And honestly, he would never want that because I would go insane. | |
| It's my therapy. | |
| It's your therapy. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Perfect man. | |
| So you're perfect man, billionaire, good looking, your type, perfect personality, perfectly loyal, perfectly everything, everything, everything. | |
| You don't give up singing for that? | |
| Like he would be like, you're not allowed to write songs anymore and saying. | |
| Well, do you do that at all for money? | |
| Like for work? | |
| Or is that strictly hobby? | |
| Both. | |
| I would love for that to be my main career. | |
| Still sing in the shower, but that's it. | |
| No, my therapy is writing songs. | |
| I have over 700 songs in my notes. | |
| I would never be able to be with someone who was like, oh, you can't write songs and sing. | |
| That's actually a good thing. | |
| What if you can write songs for him and he pays you? | |
| Like, he provides for you. | |
| So that's as long as he if he would let me write songs and sing and he would let me have unlimited studio time and I could make the songs to fruition. | |
| But how about you can't publish them? | |
| They can't be public. | |
| They're private for you and him. | |
| Well, so my life goals have to do with being successful in the world, which comes from using my voice and using my passion. | |
| But if he was already a billionaire and he had all of the money and resources in the universe and I did not need to use my voice to be able to gain that level of resources, which I need to change the world. | |
| Nick, correct the door, please. | |
| And he wants to give those to me to be able to freely do what I want. | |
| Then that's great. | |
| That's skipping a whole step that's a really big step for me to take. | |
| So he's like cutting out this whole middleman thing and letting me actually get to like the life that I want, which is, you know, building orphanages, providing clean water for people in the world, providing food for people. | |
| Like if I was able to do that without having to release music, I would not care about releasing music. | |
| But I would still have to write it for my mental health. | |
| But it could be just private for you. | |
| Okay, you do it for the perfect man. | |
| You give up your career for the perfect man? | |
| So I wouldn't classify being a business owner as a career. | |
| However, if my man wanted me to stay at home and be a real housewife, I would definitely do it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Give up your career for the perfect man? | |
| Absolutely. | |
| Anybody else a singer here or creative or something? | |
| Okay. | |
| Give up your career for the perfect man? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Give up your career. | |
| For Jesus Christ, yes. | |
| But I also write musicals. | |
| That's a random side note. | |
| All right, what about you? | |
| No, I wouldn't. | |
| And what do you do for work? | |
| I'm a singer, and I'm a songwriter. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you're an artist? | |
| Yes, I am. | |
| Okay. | |
| So perfect man, billionaire, perfect good looks, perfect everything, everything, everything. | |
| Perfect in bed, perfect personality, perfect loyalty, never cheats on you, never leaves you, perfect everything. | |
| I mean, the only way I can. | |
| The only way I could give that up is if I've already accomplished what I wanted. | |
| Right now. | |
| Yeah, no, I would never. | |
| I could be like, I will introduce you to this perfect man right now, but you got to give it up right now. | |
| I would never be able to do it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Question for you. | |
| If I were to just give you $100 billion right now, really no strings attached, except you have to give up your career and it's your money. | |
| You can use it however you want. | |
| Do you do that? | |
| No. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I wasn't born to be a wife. | |
| Or I wasn't raised to be a wife. | |
| I was literally raised to be a woman. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I'm not talking about the man now. | |
| I'm just saying I have to. | |
| I'm saying I was raised to be an artist, not just. | |
| Like, that's just, I'm going to die on it. | |
| I'm going to die on that L. | |
| I really am. | |
| I've been doing it too long. | |
| Something's going to get. | |
| Damn, y'all don't really know much about sacrifice, I feel like. | |
| Well, actually, I know a lot about it. | |
| I sacrifice a lot for my career. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Perfect fucking question. | |
| Perfect question. | |
| You have a child. | |
| Do you sacrifice your singing and songwriting for the life of your child? | |
| I would never have a kid before I was successful. | |
| That's not the question, is it? | |
| You have a kid. | |
| Well, what are my circumstances? | |
| Do you want kids? | |
| To adopt them. | |
| Hold on. | |
| You don't want to have biological children? | |
| No. | |
| So, okay, you want to adopt kids. | |
| that complicates it to a degree. | |
| Although I believe you can have, can you have the same love for an adopted child as that? | |
| Yes. | |
| I'm deeply in love with the kid I used to nanny. | |
| It's possible. | |
| Like he's my world. | |
| Logically, it's possible. | |
| It is. | |
| It does complicate the question a little bit because I do think there's a blood component. | |
| I would give up anything for if I had a kid and I had chosen to have that kid. | |
| Yeah. | |
| If it was for the betterment of their life and for them to be, if it was saving their life, I would do anything for them. | |
| So for your kid, would you give up your singing and songwriting? | |
| To save their life? | |
| Yeah. | |
| If it was to save their life. | |
| Sure. | |
| Sure. | |
| What about the betterment of their life? | |
| I don't think that's possible. | |
| They would be better off if I was singing and songwriting. | |
| I wouldn't be able to be a mentally fit person. | |
| Like, I wouldn't be able to be happy. | |
| Maybe you could just go to therapy for that, though. | |
| No. | |
| You do realize that a lot of people. | |
| My therapy is songwriting. | |
| As soon as I write a song and sing it, my therapy's up. | |
| It's total cope. | |
| People can survive in life without singing and songwriting. | |
| Some. | |
| Even you. | |
| Some people who are not born artists will never know. | |
| This deep drive. | |
| If you don't create something, just like God, you know, we are born creators. | |
| We are natural creators. | |
| The less you create, the less happy you're going to be in life. | |
| Humans have an amazing capacity for adaptation. | |
| I think you could find other coping mechanisms. | |
| I think through your own force of will and constitution, if singing and songwriting was off the table, I think you could be a functioning adult human. | |
| I just don't think there's a world where that is, though. | |
| So if, hold on. | |
| So if you, if somebody like somehow prevented you from doing that, would you rather be dead? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think there's no, I don't have a purpose on earth if I'm not going to get where I'm going to get with music. | |
| Which is where? | |
| Where are you going? | |
| Helping people. | |
| With music. | |
| Yeah, with my voice. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Repeat that. | |
| Helping people with my voice. | |
| With your music. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I mean, that's the start, you know, there's a starting point and where that takes off. | |
| But when you share your voice, for one, people connect to you, and then you build a community, and then you build a like-minded community, and then there's more and more support. | |
| And then you can take over the world. | |
| You can clean the water. | |
| You can clean the ocean. | |
| You can clean the planet. | |
| You can help the children have food, help the children have homes. | |
| The more people are connected to each other, the more people sharing their voice with each other and connecting through that community, the more possibilities there are. | |
| And that's, in my mind, getting there is through my music. | |
| I've already connected to so many people. | |
| I would have never connected to you. | |
| Could you do all of that with money? | |
| All of those things? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, that's what I'm saying. | |
| But my purpose in life is to get there with music. | |
| Like God has shown me my path, given me my gift, and my gift is writing and telling a story that connects with people through music. | |
| Let's say your musical dreams could all be achieved, but you can't do all those things you listed that were secondary to your achievement in music. | |
| So like paying for the orphanages or whatever. | |
| Getting clean water for everyone on earth. | |
| So let's say that you had to pick one. | |
| Clean water for everybody, building orphanages, all the other things. | |
| Yes. | |
| No music career. | |
| Yes. | |
| Or music career, but none of those things. | |
| The latter. | |
| So with the perfect man. | |
| I was telling you, if he had everything and I could do all of that stuff, I would love to skip the step of trying to get out in the world and whatever, spread my whole voice. | |
| I would be okay with just doing it. | |
| No, but I'm confused. | |
| Let's say, no, but in the scene. | |
| But I would still make music in my face. | |
| No, but in the scenario, hold on. | |
| But in the scenario, I said you can't do music. | |
| You can't songwrite. | |
| If you had to choose between the two. | |
| So it's songwrite, do music. | |
| Well, publicly, right? | |
| I mean, I can do whatever I want at home in bed. | |
| No, just you can't do anything at all. | |
| You say you would pick the cleaning the water over. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So if you had the perfect man, not only do you have the perfect man, he's got the perfect money. | |
| He can, through money, that problem can be solved. | |
| But when I asked you, you have to completely abandon music and singing and blah, blah, blah for the perfect man, you said no. | |
| Well, I said if he would pay for all of that stuff and let me have free will, I would choose that over it. | |
| But you can't even do the songwriting singing privately. | |
| Well, that's just weird. | |
| Why? | |
| It's a hypothetical. | |
| This just doesn't make sense. | |
| It's just not consistent, though. | |
| Like, am I not allowed to write at all? | |
| I'm not allowed to write poetry. | |
| I'm not allowed to write stories. | |
| Like, where does this end? | |
| It's a magic genie. | |
| So it's not even him asking it. | |
| It's not like, well, this is a weird ask. | |
| Okay, so the magic genie says, oh, you can have the perfect man with all of the money in the world. | |
| You can clean all of the water. | |
| You can provide food to people who are hungry. | |
| Through the perfect man. | |
| You can build. | |
| Through the perfect man. | |
| You can build all the homes you want to build. | |
| You can do everything you really want to do at the end of your goal. | |
| You can't sing. | |
| In public? | |
| Both, privately or publicly. | |
| I don't know because I'm just depressed if I don't sing or songwriting. | |
| I'm just depressed. | |
| Okay, I'm just not even going to repeat it at this point. | |
| I jumped in circles. | |
| For you, do you want to have children one day? | |
| Not necessarily, no. | |
| Is it possible you could have children one day? | |
| No. | |
| Are you infertile? | |
| Fertile? | |
| Oh, no. | |
| Like, no. | |
| You just don't want kids? | |
| Yeah, no, I don't. | |
| That's, yeah. | |
| I just don't want kids. | |
| Do you have any siblings you care about? | |
| Absolutely. | |
| To save your sibling, would you give up your singing? | |
| Yes, of course I would. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about your parents? | |
| To save my mom or dad? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes, I would. | |
| But although they would kill themselves because they're the ones who invested so much in my career and they'd rather me not. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's just interesting. | |
| Y'all, I don't know. | |
| Where's the sacrifice? | |
| I mean, there's a lot more to sacrifice. | |
| There's a lot of sacrifice in this. | |
| Do you know how much sacrifice I've put into this? | |
| Like, really? | |
| There's a lot of sacrifice, a lot of things that I wanted to do. | |
| A lot of discipline I had. | |
| Y'all are so just. | |
| What kind of music? | |
| All day, every day. | |
| So as an artist? | |
| So, like, army. | |
| But I write like pop, all of that. | |
| Rap, all of that. | |
| So I work with a lot of different artists. | |
| Very cool. | |
| Thank you. | |
| How are you going to help people with singing, though? | |
| Like, your actual singing? | |
| You could inspire me. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| Music is healing. | |
| Music is medicine. | |
| Music is powerful. | |
| I think music can have a positive effect on somebody, but. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Or you may be one of those people, like, you know, they say there's like a thing. | |
| There's people who like, when they hear music, it literally is a body thing. | |
| It's healing to people. | |
| Like, that's why there's so many people who have huge fan bases. | |
| It's not just because they like their music. | |
| It's touching them. | |
| It's healing them in some way. | |
| But it just may not be. | |
| You may not connect with music like that. | |
| And expressing, like, it's like you help express something that people don't know how to. | |
| And you, and you can express that for somebody across the world that you don't even know. | |
| Like, the amount of messages I've gotten from people in random parts of the world. | |
| Oh, this song, these lyrics, this, like, changed my life. | |
| This gave me confidence. | |
| This did this for me. | |
| Like, you, music is such a beautifully powerful connective tool. | |
| I really love the comedic songs. | |
| I listen to like Bo Burnham and Fight of the Concords and like so many different musicians, but like I love comedy in music too. | |
| Sabrina Carpeto kind of does that a little Jack Black. | |
| Period. | |
| How about this? | |
| Perfect career but lame man or perfect man and lame career or no career, I guess. | |
| Perfect man and lame career or lame career and perfect man. | |
| Correct? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I need the man to be perfect for me. | |
| Next. | |
| Is he set on his career as a non as a perfect man? | |
| He's set on this shitty career. | |
| That doesn't sound perfect. | |
| You get the perfect career, but your man is lame. | |
| But he's, but he's like a perfect man. | |
| You get the perfect man, but your career is lame. | |
| Which do you pick? | |
| Oh, I would never want to be with a lame man. | |
| So which do you pick? | |
| So whichever man I end up with, that's an icon. | |
| So lame career. | |
| For me. | |
| For you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, by the way. | |
| Perfect man, lame career. | |
| I would unfortunately pick lame man, perfect career, because I would love to be hired by the Trump administration. | |
| It's a big, big ask, but I'm asking. | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| And I have to choose a man. | |
| Like, I have to. | |
| Is one or the other? | |
| Yeah, one or the other. | |
| Okay, yeah, I guess. | |
| Nah, perfect man, lame career. | |
| Wait, but because like I said, I wouldn't have chose a man at all. | |
| That if you're gonna have a man in your life, he might as well be as close to perfect as he could be. | |
| We agree. | |
| Here, we're gonna do, I need to do like the Twitch and pull up my Instagram and all that shit. | |
| TTS is 200, read 100, VenmoCashapp, whatever pod, twitch.tv/slash whatever. | |
| Yes, David. | |
| Guys, drop us a follow. | |
| Drop us a Prime sub. | |
| It's been 31 minutes since we got a Prime. | |
| Drop us a Prime sub. | |
| Guys, get some merch. | |
| Shop.whatever.com. | |
| Get some merch. | |
| Get some merch. | |
| Discord.gg slash whatever. | |
| Like the video if you're enjoying the stream. | |
| Also, can you pull up my Instagram, please? | |
| Guys, I'm trying, can you, the personal, can you hit refresh? | |
| Fuck yeah, let's go. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Guys, guys, I'm trying to hit 400,000 followers before the end of the year. | |
| So we have like basically three days at this point. | |
| So guys, I think we can do it. | |
| We just did 2,000. | |
| So I think we can do it. | |
| Maybe by the end of the stream, you guys can help me get to 394. | |
| Here's the QR code if you want. | |
| Just drop me a follow, guys. | |
| I post reels. | |
| Like I post three or four every single day on my personal Instagram. | |
| Get me to 400,000 before we hit 2026. | |
| And then let me think if there's anything else. | |
| Oh, we already did this. | |
| Hashtag Big Labia Matter. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then let's see what we had to. | |
| Okay, we're going to do some questionnaire stuff. | |
| And I think you oh, you don't want children, don't plan to have children, medical condition. | |
| Yeah, we're not going to get into that. | |
| Sarro get our adult. | |
| You're pro-life, but you believe abortion should be accessible due to under-the-table abortions that happen. | |
| Yeah, that is true. | |
| Definitely, even if abortion is illegal, women will go get like illegal abortions, and there are probably health risks there because it's being done illegally. | |
| But as a Catholic and as somebody who considers themselves pro-life, it seems a bit conflicting. | |
| How do I justify in the 0.1% chance that an Autistic Girl ends up in that? | |
| I know it's only one point, whatever. | |
| What do you mean Autistic? | |
| Like a disabled person. | |
| Autistic. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Autistic people can have kids. | |
| That's not like. | |
| I work full-time as a caregiver for fully disabled adults. | |
| I'm talking very low-functioning. | |
| They're dependent on an external source. | |
| Listen, if that poor girl was to be assaulted and she had a medical condition on top of, because most of the time it's stacked, if there's a chance she's going to die, how can I justify? | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| Let's get one thing clear here. | |
| If your, I don't know what the right word is, mental incapacity or your mental retardation, fuck it, whatever. | |
| What's the PC term? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Special abilities, but I say special abilities. | |
| If you're that mentally, yes, there is a degree of mental deficiency that, yeah, they can't consent to sex. | |
| But you said autism. | |
| Like autistic women. | |
| You didn't let me finish what I was saying. | |
| Well, I don't know. | |
| I think no, you could have been more precise in your statement. | |
| Okay, I apologize. | |
| Yes. | |
| So the individuals that I work with are fully dependent on external humans to take care of them. | |
| They can't consent. | |
| This has happened. | |
| Sure. | |
| And there's like, I know of stories. | |
| So it's like, in that case, who am I to say if you're both going to be at risk, why not have it accessible for the individual, you know, mother and child? | |
| Like, who has a better chance at? | |
| Because what's the latter? | |
| You know, I don't like it. | |
| I don't like. | |
| Well, this is actually, I've never actually heard this argument. | |
| What if a retard? | |
| Sorry, sorry, sorry. | |
| What if a what is the term? | |
| What's the fucking term? | |
| Mentally what? | |
| Intellectually. | |
| Intellectually disabled. | |
| I don't know what the term is. | |
| If you're intellectually disabled and you're essayed, that's a new angle for the but it's valid, right? | |
| But is it only if they're intellectually disabled? | |
| Like you're not okay with anything. | |
| So how about this? | |
| Let's go ahead and grant in instances of rape. | |
| Hold on. | |
| In instances of life of the mother, rape, and incest, abortions are allowed. | |
| It should be accessible, yeah. | |
| But how about like the 99% of abortions that are completely elective? | |
| There was no incest, life of the mother is not a concern, there was no rape. | |
| Are you fine with banning abortion in those circumstances? | |
| I would never, I could never, but I can't speak for other people. | |
| So you're pro-life? | |
| I'm against it. | |
| I would ban it. | |
| You don't even want children. | |
| You say you're pro-life. | |
| Then what does this mean? | |
| Did you hear what I just said? | |
| I would ban it. | |
| Oh, you would ban? | |
| Except for those circumstances because it just doesn't sit well in my soul with my religion. | |
| Well, I'm not going to have a deep dive on an abortion. | |
| That gets that, but everyone. | |
| But, okay. | |
| What were we getting into? | |
| What was the next thing? | |
| You were using that. | |
| Oh, the questionnaire. | |
| Okay. | |
| As soon as she's back at the table, I'll get into it, I guess. | |
| I'll get into those in a bit. | |
| Here, why don't we actually do Samantha? | |
| You say people of color can't be racist towards white people. | |
| Why is that? | |
| Can't be or can be. | |
| I think they can be racist towards white people. | |
| I think if you are discriminating somebody against their like the color of their skin, then you're being racist. | |
| So a black person can be racist towards a white person. | |
| I think a black person can be racist towards a white person. | |
| Can be. | |
| Not can't. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, so then that was just perhaps a mistake. | |
| You say that men are more privileged in society than women. | |
| Why is that? | |
| I think they're a bit more privileged because of like their mentality towards one another. | |
| I feel like women are typically pinned against each other when it comes to anything. | |
| And men have more. | |
| Yeah, that's like a known thing. | |
| Like women are always pinned against each other. | |
| Like when it comes to like reality TV or when it comes to like when it comes to like a corporate job and stuff like that. | |
| Like women tend to like hate on one another, which really sucks. | |
| They like divide them. | |
| When it comes to men, I feel like men are very like buddy-buddy and they get along with each other really well. | |
| So that gives them an advantage in my opinion. | |
| I mean, I think that there's more collectivism among women than men. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I've had a personal different experience. | |
| I think women tend to back each other more. | |
| Like the sisterhood, the girls-girl shit. | |
| I see more. | |
| I don't know if cohesion is the right word, but I don't know. | |
| Solidarity? | |
| Solidarity is a good word. | |
| There's more like female solidarity, I think. | |
| I would say I see more solidarity in men than I do in women. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Unfortunately. | |
| No. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Tavey you say you agree women are oppressed in the USA. | |
| Yeah, okay, so Well, I think of it more towards safety. | |
| Like, even just the other day, I was having a casual chat with my coworker, and she told me that she almost got kidnapped five times. | |
| I'm like, dang, that's like more than usual. | |
| Like, dang. | |
| And I don't know. | |
| I don't hear a lot of guys getting as targeted or kidnapped. | |
| I know it happens, but I just feel like when it comes to that, and I feel like safety is such a big thing. | |
| So, I mean, maybe it is the case that women are more likely to be kidnapped. | |
| However, I don't know what this has to do with oppression. | |
| Oh, that's about when I thought of oppression, I thought, ah, kidnap, ah. | |
| So if the government was kidnapping women more so than men, perhaps this would be oppression. | |
| But like individual criminal actors, I don't know if that has to do with oppression. | |
| Like typically, I think there needs to be some degree of like authority or like society oppress. | |
| Like I don't know how I just don't see how that is oppression. | |
| Okay, yeah, that's it. | |
| Like bad things definitely happen to women. | |
| Bad things also happen to men. | |
| I don't know if I would consider any or every bad thing that happens to somebody. | |
| I wouldn't categorize all bad things that can or do happen as oppression. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oppression seems to be something more specific. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm just like, okay, I guess I didn't understand the definition of oppression. | |
| Okay, here I can Google it just for clarity. | |
| Typically, it's like unjust treatment, typically at the hand of so prolonged, cruel, or unjust treatment or control. | |
| I guess maybe under this definition, it might. | |
| Poor Christina. | |
| I usually think of it more like in the structural or systemic sense, though. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not like, I don't know. | |
| Like, even if your girlfriend or boyfriend is being like physically violent towards you, that's definitely fucked up behavior. | |
| But I don't know if I would be like, you're being oppressed. | |
| Like, I don't know that I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Amelia, you say men are more privileged in society than women. | |
| How's that? | |
| There's only like one example, which is why I circled that, which comes to safety. | |
| Which is what? | |
| Safety. | |
| Like people have, like, recently somebody tried to get in my car when I parked in my back seat. | |
| That doesn't happen to my boyfriend or to men as much as it will happen to women. | |
| Men get carjacked. | |
| Trying to get in and attack you. | |
| Yes, I understand that. | |
| But overall, it's just unarguably a fact that women are at more of risk by themselves in society. | |
| It's not true. | |
| Men are actually more likely to be victims of violent crime. | |
| And the crime statistics show this. | |
| Of violent crimes, yes. | |
| In total. | |
| Violent crime in total. | |
| Low-key, they be picking fights, though. | |
| Like, whenever they see each other, like, oh, you're staring a little too hard. | |
| No, I'm not. | |
| So, I mean, maybe fighting. | |
| Yeah, if, if, yeah, if a guy's, like, staring at another guy, there's a chance, like, depending on like the background, the socioeconomics, the culture, yeah, that's, like, that's, you want to fight. | |
| Uh, if you're a chick and you're, like, staring at a dude, you want to fuck. | |
| I'm, I'm concerned about Logan Paul's health because he's getting, he's getting like attacked at his head, and that can sorry. | |
| Sorry, I mixed him up. | |
| So, one of them, one of them who's boxing is creating head trauma, and that can cause serious brain damage that is really hard to regress. | |
| What does a consensual boxing match have to do with like stranger danger violence in the street? | |
| Because if your brain is more damaged, you're more likely to be more violent. | |
| Sure. | |
| From my understanding. | |
| Did you guys see the Wilson? | |
| Hold on. | |
| But the proportion of the population that engages in professional boxing is really small. | |
| Well, like, if you look at like Mike Tyson, for example. | |
| I got here. | |
| Take it away, Alina. | |
| Brain damage happens when you're punching. | |
| Oh, I'm not the host. | |
| Since when am I the host? | |
| You're the host now. | |
| You're the captain now. | |
| You don't ask the country. | |
| You guys talk, whatever. | |
| I don't give a fuck. | |
| Guys, I'm so hungry. | |
| Me too. | |
| If I can eat anything, I would have ramen. | |
| How about you? | |
| Just literally anything. | |
| Like a fruit, a watermelon. | |
| Ooh, yummy. | |
| Kahin? | |
| Oh, no. | |
| Fresh. | |
| Maybe with some lime on it. | |
| Oh, that's good. | |
| Facts, chat. | |
| What y'all want to eat, chat? | |
| Yo, matter of fact, y'all should follow me on Instagram so I can like be better at my career. | |
| You can follow me at KKDNA99. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| You need a song. | |
| Hit us up. | |
| We'll write it for you. | |
| Yep. | |
| Follow me at Kaylee J Music, K-A-Y-L-E-E-J-A-Y Music. | |
| And go watch my YouTube video called Just Be Sometimes. | |
| It's a song about just wanting to be, not think about surviving so much. | |
| I thought it was interesting, though, about the conversation that he was having about the violence thing because it's like he said that men are more likely to like be more victimized in a certain way, but it's just like, yeah, like by other men. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes. | |
| Sorry. | |
| The man with a bear. | |
| I feel like we kind of skimmed over this, but like, in what universe, not the LA that I've lived in, is a man walking alone at night in less danger than me, 115-pound blonde girl walking in LA at night, which I don't know in what context either one of us on. | |
| Either one of us would be doing that because that's just dangerous, period, for both sexes. | |
| Yes, obviously bad things happen to men and bad things happen to women, but it's like, don't you guys think like just physically you're at a bigger risk? | |
| Yeah, men are more capable of defending themselves. | |
| Yeah, they're more capable against other men. | |
| Brian was saying, arguably, it's confusing to me. | |
| I'd like you to elaborate if you want to talk about that more. | |
| The violent, we're talking about how violent crimes, we're all a little bit confused, how they're more often against men and how she's confused. | |
| Because I was saying, like, in, I don't know in what case, we'd be walking down LA at night. | |
| My partner versus me, you know, who is statistically at a higher risk of being grabbed? | |
| Who's 100%? | |
| Boyfriends. | |
| Who's statistic? | |
| Who's 115 pounds and who's almost 200 pounds? | |
| Wait, so that's a real thing. | |
| If we're talking about statistics, yes, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. | |
| Anecdotally, I don't really know. | |
| By other men, you know? | |
| But like, who do you think is more scared at the gas station at night? | |
| I don't know, actually. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| Speaking from experience, it feels like the females. | |
| One time. | |
| Who's more likely to be victimized versus who feels more scared? | |
| I don't care about how you feel. | |
| Like, it's just happened to me before. | |
| It is maybe true that women feel more scared, but your actual threat level might be not match up or coincide with the actual threat level that exists. | |
| No, real question. | |
| Can you like? | |
| I did not know that. | |
| Can you bring that stack? | |
| Chat GPT at that time. | |
| Chat GPT lies. | |
| So Google. | |
| Chat GPT lies. | |
| It's better to use. | |
| AI is not a good accurate. | |
| Google will give us AI institutions. | |
| Don't use Google either. | |
| Who's more likely to experience violent crime, men or women? | |
| And at what percentage? | |
| But it's also, think of it. | |
| I have another question. | |
| You statistics. | |
| Man-on-man versus like women are typically abducted my size by larger people, right? | |
| And most likely a man. | |
| If it was forceful or it was violent, who stands a better chance? | |
| I think my fear is pretty justified. | |
| Well, we're not talking about fear justification. | |
| We're talking about just raw crime statistics. | |
| I understand that. | |
| So the perpetrator irrelevant. | |
| I'm just talking about who's more likely to be the victim of violent crime, and that's men. | |
| Especially if they have lead in their brains. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is it because men, like because they have more money usually, and they walk around with, you know, like with things on that make people attack them for their things? | |
| Or what, like, what is it? | |
| Nick, do you have the. | |
| Most of us do to gang violence, honestly. | |
| To what? | |
| Gang violence. | |
| Let me make sure I have it. | |
| And then the gang violence, too, again, led is a big reason. | |
| And this is 2025? | |
| Hold on. | |
| It says women are less likely. | |
| Who's agreeing with that? | |
| I mean, I just saw the title, and maybe it actually confirms myself. | |
| I thought there was about to be some fucking bullshit fucking women. | |
| All right. | |
| All right, pull it up. | |
| Let me see what it says. | |
| I was hoping for just an AI thing. | |
| No, just pull it up. | |
| Pull up what you have. | |
| Pull up what you have, please. | |
| I do not trust ChatGPT. | |
| I wanted to make that real case. | |
| Women are less likely than men to be victims of crime. | |
| The title of the thing is Women in America, but it's saying women made up like females made up 70% of victims killed by an intimate partner. | |
| Women are a thing. | |
| Here, make it bigger, please. | |
| Women are less likely than men to be bigger. | |
| But what's the percentage, though? | |
| Like, is it like 50%? | |
| You know, like, is it barely? | |
| The probability of being a victim of a violent crime, assault, robbery, homicide, has declined among most men and women less than AI. | |
| Don't listen to these girls, bro. | |
| Just ask AI. | |
| AI is going to give you a fine answer. | |
| But be careful about chat. | |
| Chat GPT. | |
| Always fact check like crazy. | |
| Yeah, you can, but AI can give you the correct answer. | |
| Holy fuck. | |
| I like ChatGPT a lot. | |
| I think Chad would be better than that. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Do you want the AI overview? | |
| Is that what you're asking for? | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay, this is from Google. | |
| Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime overall than by strangers. | |
| You should try duck, duck, go. | |
| The IPV thing's bullshit, and then even the SA stuff is questionable. | |
| But women face disproportionate risks in specific areas like... | |
| And men face disproportionate risks in other areas. | |
| That's due to gang issues. | |
| But what's the percentage of gang is it? | |
| Where's the percentage? | |
| I don't see any real numbers here. | |
| Like I'm sorry, but just ask for numbers from like ChatGPT or something, and then we'll have it. | |
| But I mean, in any case, we have a couple different sources there affirming that men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. | |
| I didn't know that, actually. | |
| Yeah, they are. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And actually, just I guess one perspective on this is you'd say if you're just walking around alone, let's say you're walking around in a crowded area. | |
| I think if I get jumped by a random person, nobody's coming to help me. | |
| You? | |
| How much do you weigh? | |
| How tall are you? | |
| 5'3 ⁇ , 115. | |
| Yeah. | |
| If you're in an area where there's other men present and some fucking whack job man starts beating on you versus beating on me, I'm getting my ass whooped and nobody's coming to intervene. | |
| The police because the odds are disproportionate. | |
| Some guy starts, hold on. | |
| If some guy starts thrashing on you, you have free bodyguards. | |
| And in fact, if stranger men see a stranger woman getting beat up by a stranger man or any man for that matter, that guy's going to get fucking curb stomped by totally random other men. | |
| This is undeniable. | |
| No, not just maybe. | |
| Yes, it's a thing. | |
| It's absolutely a thing. | |
| If men will intercede on behalf of completely random, non-familial, fucking random ass women. | |
| We would hope that, but my friend just got attacked in West Hollywood. | |
| Tons of witnesses by some random homeless man started beating her face in and not a single person tried to help her. | |
| Not a single person until that call. | |
| She's saying that this is 100%. | |
| And she's a beautiful, tiny little blonde girl. | |
| Like she, if someone was going to help some cute little girl, it was going to be her, and no one helped her in the middle of West Hollywood. | |
| Were there other men around? | |
| She was in the middle of West Hollywood. | |
| There's tons of people. | |
| So what I'm talking here is not a monolith. | |
| I'm not saying in every single instance where a woman is getting attacked by some random dude, there's going to be like a brave, by the way. | |
| You'd like to say by who? | |
| The men are, you know, the men are committing all these crimes. | |
| If somebody's going to intercede on behalf of a woman, it's not going to be another woman. | |
| It's going to be a man. | |
| Men dominate when it comes to courage. | |
| Men dominate when it comes to bravery. | |
| So yeah, maybe men do some of the bad things. | |
| Also, when it comes to life-saving, when it's going to come to bravery, when it's come to courage, when it's coming to pull you out of a fire out of your burning house, when it's going to be saving you in some sort of emergency situation, overwhelmingly going to be a man. | |
| So we need to put a little respect on men's name in that regard. | |
| I agree with that, but I do feel like it's just a little odd to make that comparison because I feel like, okay, yes, a man would like more than likely probably come to jump to help the woman, but it's because it's a disproportionate odds. | |
| You stand a better chance at defending yourself against another man. | |
| She wouldn't. | |
| And I think the question would be: would a man come in if she was getting jumped by other women? | |
| He would let that rock and she would be there by herself. | |
| He wouldn't be pulling them apart because that's the equal to that. | |
| You're equal to you getting jumped to a man is equal to that. | |
| It's not equal when men are jumping women. | |
| So I would say in response to that, that so a man attacking her versus a woman attacking her, I would tend to generally agree with you that men are less likely to intervene if it's two women fighting. | |
| I think that that's fair to say. | |
| However, I mean, I don't really care comparatively in the sense that, you know, I think would a man be more likely to break up two women than break up two men? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I see, I see that. | |
| I see what you're saying. | |
| But there's no, there's no counter where, like, women don't intervene, period. | |
| So, like, if a woman sees, like, will stranger women, like, let's say you see a guy getting his ass whooped by a chick, or you see a chick getting her ass whooped by a guy. | |
| Women aren't really going to intercede in either. | |
| And if a woman sees two men fighting, they're not going to intercede either. | |
| I don't agree. | |
| I would. | |
| Okay, congratulations. | |
| I have before. | |
| Generally, yes, of course. | |
| Great. | |
| Someone's going to be a little bit more. | |
| Okay, so you feel like that's an exception, not the rule. | |
| It's the exception, not the rule. | |
| Do we have the thing? | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| I got something that's a little bit better. | |
| I had to be careful. | |
| Male homicide victimization. | |
| Yeah, this is homicide. | |
| It looks like there's multiple. | |
| There's like going to be other things like violence. | |
| So yeah, men are almost like four times as likely to be murdered. | |
| Wow. | |
| I did not know that. | |
| Men's violent victimization rates are usually higher assault robbery than women's. | |
| Women experience higher rates of sexual violence. | |
| Okay. | |
| There are some studies that seem to counter that, but I'm not going to get into that right now. | |
| So, I mean, ultimately you were talking about men are more privileged in society because of safety. | |
| But it seems like men are not. | |
| Like SEX trafficking, like stuff like that, like assault and stuff. | |
| That's what it just said right there. | |
| It's except for that category. | |
| I think in violence, yes. | |
| Violence and then the assault for women. | |
| It's two different categories, but they're at the same field. | |
| They, you know, they dominate the side. | |
| Violence is way more frequent than trafficking. | |
| You have a statistic on that? | |
| That's like it's a huge thing. | |
| I mean, we can probably just pop it in AI. | |
| Can you just be right about that? | |
| How many of you have to do that? | |
| But that poses a bigger threat to me statistically, according to what you just showed me than violence does. | |
| Right? | |
| So are you saying that? | |
| No, but men are still sex trafficked, especially boys. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I feel like boys are almost more taught on the women. | |
| Most of the time, that's women who are approaching younger women. | |
| I mean, that's even a lower rate of getting help if you see three women fighting. | |
| You know, two women come up to me. | |
| All right. | |
| We're just not going to linger on that too long. | |
| Kaylee, you say women do not have equal rights to men in the USA. | |
| Why is that? | |
| There's still a wage gap. | |
| Men still make more than women in America and have the opportunity to do so. | |
| Is there, okay, besides the wage gap, is there any rights, unequal rights, I guess? | |
| Well, they're trying to take women's bodily autonomy away. | |
| Trying. | |
| Well, I mean, Roe v. Wade was overturned, but that pushed it back to the States. | |
| Women still do have abortion rights in the States. | |
| So I don't think women are approaching. | |
| What would this have to do with equal rights, though? | |
| Well, it's equal rights. | |
| If a man gets to pick what he does with his body, then a woman should get to pick what they do with their body. | |
| Men don't have bodily autonomy. | |
| Well, depends what we mean, but what do you mean by that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I mean, men and women have generalized bodily autonomy, but like it's not bodily autonomy is not, at least for men, completely free. | |
| I don't know if free is the right word, but like in what regards. | |
| Forced military conscription. | |
| Men are subject to the draft. | |
| Women aren't. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Also, but just relating it to abortion, I don't see what that has to do with equal rights. | |
| Men don't have any reproductive rights. | |
| Well, they can get a vasectomy without having to ask their husband's permission for their men. | |
| Women can't do that. | |
| Women have way more birth control options. | |
| And also, yes, women, you can sterilize yourself if you're so inclined. | |
| Well, yeah, but most doctors won't unless you're over 25. | |
| And if, and especially if you have a partner, they want your partner's consent. | |
| That's not true. | |
| Fake news. | |
| No, no, it's common. | |
| My mom got her. | |
| My mom got her shit tied. | |
| They wanted, if she didn't have medical issues that led to that. | |
| It's a myth. | |
| It's a feminist myth. | |
| No, it's not. | |
| It's a complete feminist myth. | |
| In the modern day, in recent, maybe some doctor fucking 70 years ago was like, oh, you need your husband's permission. | |
| It's fake news. | |
| A woman does not need her partner's consent to be sterilized. | |
| No, you don't need it. | |
| But a lot of doctors ask, like, I've asked my doctor about being sterilized, and they're like, oh, well, just wait till you're older. | |
| Like, they want women to have, like, to have some, oh, I want to have a baby one day. | |
| You know, like, they want you to get to a point where someday you'll think that instead of letting you choose that when you're at a younger age. | |
| Well, I mean, I think it's kind of a prudent thing for doctors to do to be like, hey, this is irreversible. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Maybe one day you might want to have children. | |
| Women have robust birth control options as compared to men. | |
| So. | |
| Well, they didn't make birth control for men because there were too many side effects. | |
| So they just gave birth control to women because they wanted women to have to deal with all the side effects. | |
| It's physiologically easier hormonally to create birth control for women. | |
| So they say. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| It's just actually true. | |
| Like the manner in which you need to, to be able to stifle men's ability to generate sperm or whatever, that is, I don't know if the right word is like chemical. | |
| That's biologically, chemically more complicated. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| But they tried it and it was very easy and possible. | |
| They just didn't want men to have to deal with the side effects. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, also, the side effects reported were far more severe than side effects reported by women. | |
| No, they weren't. | |
| There's been severe side effects. | |
| There are severe side effects in all the birth controls right now. | |
| The study was discontinued. | |
| The side effects in this male birth control study you're citing were far more severe than the sort of generalized reported side effects that women experience from like your sort of basic hormonal birth control. | |
| Chemically speaking, it's far easier. | |
| The birth control mechanism for women is far easier to control for than like changing that in men. | |
| I mean, there's some pretty severe side effects for women either. | |
| Yeah, absolutely. | |
| But like, so that's why I'm asking, like, what were the side effects for men? | |
| Like, was it death or something? | |
| Like, I don't remember off the top of my head, but I mean, here, I'll just Google it because I don't remember that. | |
| What were side effects for failed male birth control experiments or whatever? | |
| I mean, a side effect of the birth control I used to be on for seven years was brain tumors and cancer and death and suicidal ideation and every possible bad thing there could be. | |
| So, how is it worse? | |
| How could it possibly be worse for men? | |
| It's the worst possibilities. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| The researchers decided the side effects were too frequent. | |
| Mood-related effects were especially concerning. | |
| The risk-benefit balance wasn't acceptable at the time. | |
| They're saying major mood swings, irritability, depressive symptoms, emotional changes. | |
| I think they're downplaying a little bit. | |
| My understanding was it was very severe side effects for the men. | |
| Not to say that that can't happen in women, but my understanding is a lot of women, while they can have really bad side effects from the birth control. | |
| I think for most women, birth control is decently tolerated. | |
| Well, they've made so many different kinds that, you know, if one is causing those issues in one woman, you can try again, you know? | |
| There's a lot of options, but okay. | |
| Instead of equal rights, though, equal rights. | |
| Women do not have equal rights to men. | |
| You said the abortion thing. | |
| I don't see I was mostly thinking about the wage gap and omnidity. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, just really quick, men don't have any choice once a woman gets pregnant. | |
| Women do have quite a few different choices. | |
| I think if you actually wanted to have equality between men and women, you would actually have to completely like to match to match women to the current status of. | |
| So I think women are up here right now when it comes to reproductive rights, men down here. | |
| In order, and you can't really bring men up here, I believe. | |
| So in order to have equal rights between men and women on the reproductive rights abortion topic, you have to bring women down here. | |
| To match men, to make it equal, that means completely getting rid of abortion rights. | |
| So women could not get abortions. | |
| That would be clearly her body. | |
| No, but technically if you think about it logically, would that be equal? | |
| So if a woman gets pregnant, does the man have any say whatsoever? | |
| Okay, so then to bring, to create equality between men and women, you would have to bring women down to not having any say. | |
| That's the only way you would have equality. | |
| That's why feminism isn't actually about equality. | |
| Or them having equal say. | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| But even the pro-choicers are going to have a massive issue with a man having a say as to if a woman gets abortion. | |
| Yeah, I see. | |
| That's not going to fly for pro-choicers. | |
| But that's what would have to happen for it to be, you know, they would have to come down from that authority. | |
| But that's never going to happen. | |
| It's never going to happen. | |
| Of course not. | |
| Pro-choicers would probably fight that more than I feel like they would object. | |
| Actually, let me think about that. | |
| I think pro-choicers would if they had to choose between men being able to force women to get abortions versus not allowing to get abortions. | |
| I'm almost thinking they become pro-life. | |
| I'm almost thinking. | |
| You really think they are that? | |
| To prevent men from being able to dictate to women that women have to get an abortion, I think they become pro-life. | |
| I think that's the case. | |
| I do not agree with that. | |
| I'm too tired to follow. | |
| Like, I kind of got lost. | |
| He's basically saying that he doesn't think the real problem, when it comes to men having a certain authority or say if a woman can have a baby or not, he doesn't think the actual problem is if the woman wants to have the baby at that point. | |
| It's the fact that the man has the say. | |
| Oh, so if you, if you have say in if I can have this child or not, or let's say you can tell me not to have a baby, oh, I'm pro-life then because you have a say kind of thing. | |
| Is that kind of like what you're saying? | |
| No, but sort of, I guess. | |
| Yeah. | |
| In some dumbed-down way, you know? | |
| I'm lost. | |
| No, I'm saying that, okay, well, so if we're having a conversation of making things equal, so well, but okay, if we're making it equal, then men need to be able to carry the child too, okay? | |
| Because it's not equal that one person has to carry and give life to this thing. | |
| That's not equal. | |
| The decision obviously should be up to this person, and it is more equal that it is up to them because they're the one who have to go through the experience of bringing this life to be. | |
| Versus this other person has literally no attachment to this in the physical at all. | |
| There's no mechanism for men to carry a child. | |
| Well, I know. | |
| So I'm just saying exactly. | |
| It doesn't make you can't make it ever be equal. | |
| It's never going to be equal because a woman still has to go through that. | |
| So if you drop a woman's ability to choose down, that's still not equal because the man isn't going to have to do shit after that. | |
| I mean, the only, so there's equal and then there's equity. | |
| So I think equity would be in any state where a woman can have an abortion, men should be able to completely, let's say the woman wants to keep the kid and the man doesn't. | |
| Obviously, you can't force the woman to have the abortion, but the man can completely relinquish any parental responsibilities and not be subject to child support. | |
| If women can murder their children, men should at least be able to abandon their children. | |
| What's that? | |
| And they do on the wreck. | |
| So if you're. | |
| So if you're a man and you don't want to have a kid and the woman keeps the kid, that woman can force you through the state, through the government, to pay child support. | |
| So you can be like, look, I don't want to be in the kid's life. | |
| Yeah, he can do that. | |
| You can't force a man to be a father, but you can definitely force the man to relinquish large portions of his income to a financially supported child that he didn't want. | |
| Nobody if he had law inside Joculi inside of a woman. | |
| Great. | |
| That's a great bronze age argument that we could use against abortion. | |
| Nobody forced the woman to have consensual sex. | |
| Nobody forced the woman to allow the man to come inside of her. | |
| So these same arguments would have to be, you'd have to accept them for abortion. | |
| I personally. | |
| Or is it only men that have responsibility? | |
| It's only men that are accountable. | |
| Women, you get pregnant, you can get out of it. | |
| You have no accountability. | |
| It's both. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, they share equal parts. | |
| There is a dual responsibility. | |
| Yeah. | |
| She doesn't agree, though. | |
| No, I do. | |
| You said, yeah, but you would not accept the argument. | |
| You wouldn't accept a pro-life argument of, well, you just shouldn't have opened your legs. | |
| You shouldn't have got pregnant. | |
| You should have used protection. | |
| You should have been on birth control. | |
| No, you probably believe, are you pro-life, or sorry, pro-choice, my mistake, pro-choice? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| I suspect that if a woman, assuming she, let's say she had consensual sex with her boyfriend and she got pregnant, let's say it's an unwanted pregnancy, and let's say she's not ready or she's not financially ready, she just doesn't want the kid. | |
| I'm assuming your position would be, yeah, she can get an abortion. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's her body. | |
| Okay, so why don't you grant that same exemption to men? | |
| Well, it's just not the same thing. | |
| Why not? | |
| Well, one person has to carry the baby and go through it and one person doesn't. | |
| But so in instances where the woman doesn't want the kid and the man does, he has no say. | |
| He wants to keep the kid. | |
| She's like, nope. | |
| Get an abortion. | |
| Nothing he can do about it. | |
| In an instance where the woman wants to keep the kid and the man doesn't, he has no say. | |
| She can keep the kid and then she can take away his bodily autonomy by siphoning his financial resources for 18, 19, 20, 21 years of his life. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's called being a wage slave. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I mean, yeah, that sucks. | |
| Oh, that sucks. | |
| It sucks. | |
| I mean, I don't make the laws. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| There's no compassion. | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| I think there should be an option where, which there probably is free will for this situation. | |
| If you're a man and you get somebody pregnant and you don't want the baby and this woman is like, no, I need this baby. | |
| Like, this is my, you know, this is my calling. | |
| I'm going to be a mom. | |
| Then write up a contract that says you're not ever going to be a part of this child's life. | |
| You own no financial thing. | |
| Have a lawyer find a way and make it reality. | |
| So that. | |
| So a woman could allow for that, but she is 100% the final determiner if she will allow for that to be the case. | |
| So a woman gets pregnant. | |
| That's still not men's free will. | |
| Well, the woman, let's say the woman gets pregnant. | |
| She wants to keep the kid. | |
| The man doesn't. | |
| Now, yes, the woman could be like, you know what? | |
| I don't want child support. | |
| Go be free. | |
| Go. | |
| Go. | |
| Run. | |
| Run. | |
| You need to be wild. | |
| Or what? | |
| Fuck. | |
| Hold on. | |
| I have something for this. | |
| Hold on. | |
| I got to play this. | |
| That's funny. | |
| Wait, fuck it. | |
| I don't care how long it takes. | |
| I'm going to find it. | |
| I have a fucking sound for this. | |
| I don't care if it takes me 50 minutes to find it. | |
| I can't even find it. | |
| I'm fucked. | |
| That's a fair. | |
| It's really good. | |
| Wait, that's not it. | |
| But for now, this wild buck has to roll free or he can die. | |
| I think that's the first time I've heard that. | |
| The buck has to roam free. | |
| Now, yes, that could be arranged. | |
| However, even if, let's say you even do the contract. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's say you do the contract and the guy's like, look, the woman's like, yeah, let's sign this contract and you don't have to pay child support and blah, blah, blah. | |
| At any moment in the 18 years, even if there's a contract in place, the woman could go to court because contracts can be illegal. | |
| In this case, this is technically, even if you willingly agree to it, if the woman at any point in her sole determination changes her mind, maybe she needs money. | |
| Maybe she's like, oh, fuck, this is really hard. | |
| I need money. | |
| She goes to the guy, hey, look, can you give me money? | |
| And he's like, nah. | |
| She can just be like, okay, well, I'm going to go to court. | |
| And now the government's going to force you to pay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So the equitable thing, I think, in this situation is, yeah, the guy, legally, in a state where women have abortion, men shouldn't have to pay child support and have no responsibility to the child. | |
| I think if there's a contractual agreement at that time, then yeah, I mean, people should be able to do that. | |
| Well, they're just. | |
| If they agree if she's like, I know you don't want this kid, but I want this kid. | |
| This is my, you know, it's going to be my kid. | |
| It's not your kid. | |
| It's mine, you know? | |
| Like, right, but can't you like relinquish like your parental rights too or something like that? | |
| You can, but that doesn't change your child support liability. | |
| So she can still get child support from that. | |
| So you could be like, give her full custody, but she could still get child support from you, even if you have a contract in place, because the court would just ultimately be like, ah, you know what? | |
| That's not enforceable. | |
| It's not legally enforceable. | |
| Best interest of the child. | |
| So you can voluntarily, either informally or formally, enter into an agreement, but the woman reserves the right at any time to be like, eh, fuck you. | |
| Give me your money. | |
| Basically. | |
| Interesting. | |
| So, yeah, I don't know. | |
| Anyways, I think equal rights are a myth anyway. | |
| I'm not going to lie. | |
| Okay, moving on, wage gap. | |
| You said wage gap thing or whatever. | |
| The wage gap doesn't exist. | |
| Yeah, it does. | |
| There's no wage gap. | |
| Yes, there is. | |
| You can look it up. | |
| Nope. | |
| It's bullshit. | |
| There's an earnings gap, but there's not like a sexist gender wage gap where women, you know, in the same field, they're getting paid less. | |
| That's bullshit. | |
| Yeah, it is. | |
| No, it isn't. | |
| The pay scale, do you have it? | |
| Yeah, yeah, that's the one. | |
| So the uncontrolled gender pay gap, 82 cents for every $1 earned by men. | |
| Controlled gender pay gap, this measures median salary for men and women with the same job and qualifications. | |
| Women earn 99 cents for every $1 earned by men. | |
| Is this pay scale, this website? | |
| Or do you know? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So basically the, can you explain to me what your sense of the gender wage gap is? | |
| It was like that. | |
| Like, it's only a few cents now. | |
| No, but it's like 20 cents. | |
| Is it? | |
| Well, what is it actually? | |
| Men are just more, men have more opportunity. | |
| Like women weren't allowed to own homes. | |
| That's not true. | |
| Yes, it is. | |
| Women could own homes at every point. | |
| Women weren't allowed to own land. | |
| No, they didn't. | |
| Yeah, they couldn't. | |
| No, they couldn't. | |
| Yeah, they could. | |
| Women could own property and own. | |
| Since the beginning of America, no. | |
| Yeah, since the beginning of the United States, yeah. | |
| So, okay, let's say you're a man and you have two daughters and no sons and you die. | |
| To which man who is not your blood relative does your property go to? | |
| Well, I mean, that's different. | |
| Women weren't allowed to buy and own land. | |
| Well, they could if they have money. | |
| You're telling me. | |
| Well, but they didn't. | |
| Exactly. | |
| So that's where it all started at the beginning when men had more opportunity and it has slowly still been a thing because that has still affected the way society is run. | |
| You're telling me America, the bed, the founding, well, not the founding, America, the great capitalist nation. | |
| You're telling me in the 1800s, 1700s, some wealthy widow or some wealthy woman, either for however the means in which he got this money, goes to a property owner who's trying to sell their house. | |
| He's not going to, he legally can't sell it to her because she's a woman. | |
| That's completely ridiculous. | |
| Okay. | |
| It's, I mean, look, there, women have been disadvantaged in some ways historically. | |
| Well, yeah, when everyone was, when we, when, when everyone, when America started, people were given plots of land. | |
| And who were given those plots of land and who was given that sum of money to start? | |
| Men. | |
| And their families. | |
| By extension, their families. | |
| Men, and but the men are the ones in charge and who get to have that and make the choice of what they own, where they go, what they do, and where it goes. | |
| Have debt. | |
| Women couldn't have debt, which is kind of a privileged position to be in. | |
| That's like saying somebody, they that's like saying, yeah, like you didn't have life, but you didn't have death. | |
| Not really. | |
| It really is. | |
| Like, you don't owe you anything, but that's good because you don't owe any. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I think women to some degree had a privileged position in society. | |
| You might say it was like benevolent sexism or benevolent protection or whatever. | |
| But yeah, overwhelmingly, I would say women, I don't know. | |
| You have to take it in the full context of the historical disadvantages and advantages that the respective sexes had. | |
| But really quick, just getting bringing it back to the wage gap. | |
| What is the way? | |
| Like, because so the wage gap that you're citing to that number 82 cents that doesn't factor in all these variables. | |
| It's literally this like feminist retarded math. | |
| Like it's literally retard math where it's like, we're not going to consider the multi-varied nuance and the complexity of the massive economic structure and comparisons between men and women's income and wealth and blah, blah, all this stuff. | |
| It's not factoring in any variables. | |
| It's literally just looking at. | |
| Well, let me ask you this. | |
| Do you think it would be a good way to analyze this specific topic by simply only looking at all the money that men make and all the women or excuse me? | |
| All the money that women make? | |
| No. | |
| Like, wouldn't you, if you were doing a study on the wage gap, you would want to perhaps look at do men work more hours than women? | |
| I would research all of the highest financially holding positions that there are in America. | |
| And then I would research how many of those jobs are held by men and how many are held by women. | |
| And then I would research how much the men are making and how much the women are making. | |
| And that would determine it. | |
| And determining by that, women, there are less women in those places and the women make less. | |
| You should stop all your head on that one. | |
| So that's a different thing. | |
| That's a different thing. | |
| So we can do an analysis of the gender breakdown of like high-paying jobs or CEOs. | |
| However, you do acknowledge that most men, most women who are in the workforce don't have super glamorous, high-paying jobs. | |
| So you have to look, you would have to look at kind of everything. | |
| But do you think it would be fair to do a determination, like try to determine if society is sexist by simply looking at all the money that men make and all the money that women make and comparing it and drawing a conclusion from that? | |
| If it was an equal amount of men and women and their fields were balanced, I guess. | |
| The fields are definitely not balanced between men and women. | |
| Well, that's what I'm saying: is the pay gap is more relevant the higher up jobs that you have. | |
| Like the lower that your job is, the more commonly men and women will be paid the same. | |
| But the higher up and more, like the CEOs and like the people who are making more and more money, that is where the pay gap is bigger between men and women. | |
| That's perhaps a component of it. | |
| But would you agree? | |
| And that's all I'm saying. | |
| But would men have more opportunity to make more money in these higher positions? | |
| Don't really agree. | |
| Would you agree, though, if the commonly parroted gender wage gap, that number here, I mean, I'll just give you, I'll give you the cards. | |
| I'll lay my cards on the table. | |
| That number, it doesn't factor in hours worked. | |
| It doesn't factor in type of job. | |
| It doesn't factor in geography. | |
| It doesn't factor in seniority. | |
| It doesn't factor in level of educational achievement. | |
| It doesn't factor in overtime work. | |
| It doesn't factor in hazard pay. | |
| It doesn't factor in, I think I'm probably forgetting like maybe a dozen more variables. | |
| So do you think that it's statistically coherent to do an analysis without factoring in variables? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, so that's what the gender wage gap is. | |
| Men, all men, they're not looking at any of these variables. | |
| Men make this much money, women make this much money. | |
| Don't you think that's kind of retarded? | |
| I don't really support the use of the R word like you're using it, but okay. | |
| Okay, don't you think that's really stupid? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| I mean, yeah, it doesn't show everything, you know? | |
| That's why earlier I wanted to see the statistics of the, you know, of the violence against men because you do need to see more details to really see more about what's real. | |
| Yeah, but so always. | |
| How about this? | |
| Do you acknowledge that there is a gender gap between men and women? | |
| Men work more hours than women. | |
| Oh, I'm sure that's true because men are expected to provide in America or in a society, you know. | |
| In most societies, men are expected to provide. | |
| Speaking of, this gets me into my final point on the gender wage gap. | |
| But a lot of these variables that we're talking about, so men work more hours. | |
| Okay, well, so if you start controlling for hours worked, the gender wage gap that is alleged to exist starts to shrink. | |
| And then as you start adding in more variables, you control for the type of job, you control for geography, control for all these things, it shrinks to the 99 cents. | |
| Now, that's just looking doing an economic assessment. | |
| Men should pay on first dates. | |
| Men should provide and protect. | |
| Amelia, you agree. | |
| Kaylee, you agree. | |
| Lynn, you agree. | |
| Tavvi, you agree. | |
| Samantha, you agree. | |
| Natalia, who's taking her schizo meds, agrees. | |
| Just kidding. | |
| Joke. | |
| Alina, agree. | |
| Do you agree? | |
| That men should pay for dates. | |
| On first dates. | |
| Yes, if he asks, for sure. | |
| Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? | |
| I've never. | |
| Convenient. | |
| Men should provide, protect. | |
| Every single woman at this table says men should pay on first dates. | |
| Men should provide, protect. | |
| I would argue the wage gap, even removing all the economic factors, like men work more hours, men work more overtime, men work more dangerous, dirty jobs, men are more likely to have injuries and death in the workplace. | |
| Women's own dating preferences are the sole, I don't, again, wage gaps bullshit. | |
| Women themselves, with your own stated standards, men should provide, men should pay for dates. | |
| You create a social pressure on men to be more motivated. | |
| Men actually created that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Men used to trade your, somebody's father would trade with somebody else's father, their daughter, for their cows or for their land or for whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| Back in the background. | |
| We're talking right now. | |
| Well, I'm saying, but everything leads into what it is now. | |
| It stems, yes. | |
| Dowry, that shit is bygone. | |
| It's not, though, because this is the new form of it. | |
| No, that's ridiculous. | |
| It comes from something that men created. | |
| Y'all decided women were up for trade and that women were worth a certain thing if you wanted to get out of you. | |
| Are you feminist? | |
| Sure. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Do you believe men and women are equal? | |
| Do I believe men and women are equal? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, how? | |
| I mean, I think men and women both have their own superpowers and we're both beautiful divine beings. | |
| Should we be treated equally under the law? | |
| I mean, just I would say yes, except for as we were just talking, like women have something that legally is theirs that they have to go through that men don't ever have to go through. | |
| So there's different laws that I think should apply to different people. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you reject gender roles? | |
| Do you think gender roles are sexist? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| So I guess finishing up on the wage gap conversation then, I believe that because of women's preferences, nobody, no man, no patriarchy is forcing you to insist or want for men to pay on first dates. | |
| No patriarchy is insisting that men should provide for you. | |
| The reality is men, excuse me, the reality is women have an inherent biological evolutionary urge for provider and protector. | |
| And you find it repulsive the idea most women. | |
| I'm going to speak. | |
| Yes, there's someone who are going to be fine with what I'm about to describe. | |
| The idea of you being the breadwinner and the man stays home and takes care of the kid, somewhere deep down, that's disgusting to you women. | |
| Somewhere deep down, that's not acceptable to you. | |
| A guy whose only ambition is to be a stay-at-home father, that is an issue for most women. | |
| Not saying all women, most women. | |
| And I think it's evidenced by the fact every single woman here says men should pay on first dates. | |
| Can we take a poll though? | |
| I don't care. | |
| Every single woman here circled men should pay on first dates. | |
| They should, but I don't think it's bad if a man wants to be a stay-at-home dad. | |
| Would you split the – oh, okay. | |
| It's not cool. | |
| It's not cool for you to go 50-50 on a first date, but you're fine with the man staying at home? | |
| If you want, if... | |
| How's the guy going to pay on the first date? | |
| It's such a complete influence. | |
| Well, if a guy asks, if somebody asks you on a date, which like her, I would never ask a man on a date. | |
| Right. | |
| So convenient for you. | |
| Actually, I mean, I have, actually. | |
| I've hit on guys. | |
| Like, I've asked. | |
| It's not a convenience. | |
| It's not. | |
| Not with the same frequency. | |
| No, but exactly. | |
| If a man asks me to take me out, duh, you're going to have to pay. | |
| You're the one who just asked me to take me out. | |
| You can't map on my experience as somebody who has like a very popular podcast to like the average guy who has an average job. | |
| Well, that's, but that, yeah, because it's unequal. | |
| Women have, it's a different dynamic. | |
| And it's just, it's just what it is. | |
| But I'll tell you this, an average woman who, like just an average woman, she's going to be asked out like dozens of times in like maybe a month even, in a year. | |
| You look at an average guy, he might get asked out once, twice, maybe three times his entire life. | |
| Maybe. | |
| And I think most average men maybe never get asked out ever their entire lives. | |
| So this, you can't map on my experience where women come to me because I have some clout and map that on to the average guy who doesn't have any clout. | |
| Like that doesn't, it doesn't work like that. | |
| I agree. | |
| Most guys aren't going to be all star. | |
| Yeah, but that's, that's, yeah, that's a different, because I, you know, I kind of don't agree with that. | |
| I actually kind of, I don't believe in like, I don't believe that men and women are equal. | |
| I know. | |
| But I don't believe in a lot of things. | |
| So I feel like certain dynamics happen and that's what it is. | |
| Women, there's going to be, I feel like men are like, how do I say this? | |
| I don't feel like we're equal in rule. | |
| I don't feel like we're equal in rule. | |
| I feel like we're equal in value. | |
| I feel like we're human. | |
| We all deserve life. | |
| Like, you know, stuff like that. | |
| But I feel like certain things are. | |
| Should go to the woman certain and certain authorities should go to a woman or certain authorities probably should go to a man in this case. | |
| So that's a little tough for me. | |
| But I feel like, as I said, like you, you, you are, like you said, you've got some clout. | |
| You've had that, this, is, that, and the third. | |
| But that's the average woman regardless. | |
| And that's not a woman's fault. | |
| At the end of the day, like, if a man is going to approach her, it's because that's just in a man's nature. | |
| They like to accrue multiple. | |
| Women don't. | |
| Well, not, are there women that do? | |
| Yes. | |
| But no, that's not really wired in a woman. | |
| That was a bit of a sidetrack, though. | |
| I guess finishing off on the wage gap thing is ultimately, I believe the wage gap could be explained away entirely by women's own dating preferences. | |
| You are creating a mating pressure in men's direction that doesn't exist in the reverse. | |
| I've never had the expectation for a woman to pay for an entire date. | |
| Most men can never go into a date ever expecting the woman's going to pay for everything. | |
| Maybe you can go, like, maybe you can do 50-50, but generally speaking, not all women, but a majority of women do prefer men to pay for first dates. | |
| So that creates a pressure on men that doesn't exist in the reverse. | |
| Men also have the burden of initiative. | |
| Just like you said, well, whoever has should pay, but you've never asked a guy out, convenient. | |
| Women don't initiate like that. | |
| So even if the standard was, well, men shouldn't pay, but whoever ass should pay, if you never approach men, I mean, we're talking about the same thing here. | |
| I think the other component is, how do I frame this? | |
| Ultimately, because of women's traditional sexist gender role expectations of men, you create the wage gap. | |
| Men are more motivated to make money. | |
| Men are more motivated to make money because women expect to be provided for. | |
| Women, like if the if the bottleneck, if the barrier for me as a man to get laid is I have to be financially attractive or provide or even pay on the first date, that's a financial burden on me that doesn't exist on you. | |
| So, oh, am I more sexually, am I a more, am I more attractive if I'm wealthy? | |
| Am I more sexually appealing if I'm wealthy? | |
| Do I have better options if I'm wealthy as a man? | |
| Not as a woman. | |
| Men don't really care about that. | |
| Generally, I don't think money, money, if you're a fucking clown, maybe it helps a little bit, but you're still going to struggle. | |
| But will it give you a bit of an edge? | |
| Yes, it will help a little bit. | |
| I think other things are probably a bit more important than money. | |
| I think looks and personality are probably going to take you further than strictly just money. | |
| But if you're obscenely wealthy, obscenely rich, that's going to give you some degree of access. | |
| But women's own preferences, women's own, it creates a massive pressure on men to be more, men are just more motivated to make money. | |
| If you want dick, does your job or your money situation have anything to do with your ability to get some dick? | |
| No. | |
| Now, to be fair, broke men can get pussy. | |
| Usually they got to be charming or good looking or something else or just, I don't know, be in college, I guess. | |
| Be young. | |
| That helps, you know, because young women probably don't care that much about money. | |
| Like, if you're a college girl, you don't care that much about money. | |
| Maybe some of them care. | |
| Most college girls, they know the college guys are broke or, you know, don't have money, right? | |
| But if I'm not willing to pay for, if I go on a date with a girl and I don't, I'm not willing to pay, that's going to maybe fuck my chances up of getting a date, getting a girlfriend, getting sex, whatever, whatever. | |
| Men are very romantically and sexually motivated. | |
| I think they're more romantically and sexually motivated than women are. | |
| Maybe that's due to testosterone. | |
| Maybe that's just by, I think men are more. | |
| The romantically, that's a little debatable. | |
| That's a little debatable. | |
| Perhaps romantically, but I think there's no doubt that men are more sexually motivated. | |
| Yeah, that's accurate. | |
| Like women don't pay for sex. | |
| Maybe it's because they can get it so easily for free. | |
| But men are so desperate for sex, they'll pay for it. | |
| They'll pay for it. | |
| You as women, you're not paying for sex. | |
| Women really, there's some women, really rare, that pay for sex. | |
| But anyways, I don't know. | |
| I don't think the wage gap is an example of equal rights, I guess. | |
| Let me see if there's anything else for that. | |
| Here, let's do this. | |
| Was there anything else? | |
| Men should pay on first dates. | |
| Men should provide. | |
| Men should be chivalrous. | |
| Husband should be willing to die protecting me. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Tavvy. | |
| Tavy. | |
| Tavy. | |
| You say men should pay on first dates. | |
| Men should provide, protect. | |
| Men should be chivalrous. | |
| Husband should be willing to die protecting you, but you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage. | |
| I don't think there's anything wrong with hyphenating the marriage. | |
| I mean, is that traditional? | |
| I never said I was traditional. | |
| Oh, but to answer your question. | |
| Men, hold on. | |
| Let me just repeat this. | |
| These are your wants. | |
| Okay. | |
| Men should pay on first dates. | |
| Traditional. | |
| Men should provide, protect, traditional. | |
| Men should be chivalrous. | |
| Traditional. | |
| You're a Christian. | |
| Traditional. | |
| Husband should be willing to die protecting me. | |
| Traditional. | |
| So I have to follow it all because I followed a couple of them? | |
| Well, so technically, technically people... | |
| Did you make the rule? | |
| I did, actually. | |
| So yes, technically, you are technically able to and allowed to pick and choose. | |
| And maybe you get it, maybe you don't. | |
| What I'm saying here is that's a raw deal for the man. | |
| That's unfair. | |
| Now, you might say life is unfair. | |
| No, what I would say is, okay, we won't get married. | |
| Or if anything, I'll just ask Jesus what to do. | |
| I'm pretty sure Christian under, I don't know if there's a prescription in the Bible. | |
| Hey, anybody in the chat, is there anything in the, I don't know if there is. | |
| I don't, I. | |
| I don't have the impression there is. | |
| Is there anything in the Bible about a prescription as to the woman taking the husband's last name? | |
| I think this is a traditional thing, but I don't know if it's in, like, if it's, is there anything in the Bible about it? | |
| Submit, be submissive. | |
| Oh, actually, I mean, maybe it's under the purfew of submission. | |
| This goes exactly what I was talking about earlier, though. | |
| About how as a woman, you step down when a man asks you to, he expects all of these things. | |
| Like, you're under his care. | |
| But what about the kids? | |
| Hyphenate? | |
| Oh, no, that could be my husband's choice. | |
| Okay, but you won't take his last name, which is common. | |
| Why not? | |
| I'm the only sibling that has my dad's last name. | |
| My other two siblings, they have my mom's hyphenated, and so I just want to keep my dad's last name. | |
| Okay. | |
| But let's say my husband was like, Ephesians. | |
| Honestly, I don't really like that. | |
| Then I take it up with God, see what he has to say, and then listen. | |
| Oh, Ephesians 5.22. | |
| Submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. | |
| Yeah, so I'll definitely have my husband. | |
| So hold on. | |
| So is there anything immoral about taking your husband's last name? | |
| No. | |
| Is there anything that in terms of Christian doctrine contradicts with a Christian wife taking her Christian husband's last name? | |
| Maybe like a different doctrine, but I'm non-dominational. | |
| So in my book. | |
| You're a Christian, though. | |
| Yes, but there are different dominations. | |
| Well, there's nothing in the Christian faith that would say it's like wrong to take your husband's last name. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you believe that wives should be submissive to their husbands? | |
| Absolutely. | |
| So if you're, I suppose, soon to be husband, well, I mean, you could change your name after the wedding, obviously. | |
| So now your husband's like, I want you to take my last name. | |
| I'll be like, oh, fine. | |
| Let me go talk to God about it. | |
| God said to listen to you. | |
| Give me the real answer, not the troll answer. | |
| I'm not. | |
| I'm literally for real. | |
| Okay, so you will do it then. | |
| Yeah, if he wants it. | |
| And if God says... | |
| Why were you arguing with me then for the past three minutes? | |
| Because you just asked for my opinion. | |
| Like, if I wanted to, if I want to, no. | |
| But if my husband's like, oh, babe, like, I want you to, then yeah. | |
| Well, that's kind of implied. | |
| You asked for my opinion. | |
| No, the question is, or the statement is, I will keep my last name or hyphen in marriage. | |
| This would suggest to me, regardless of your husband's want for the name change or not, you saying you will keep your last name regardless of his wants. | |
| My bad, I didn't know you were going to be a lawyer about it. | |
| Yeah, it's just logic. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, it's crazy. | |
| Natalia, is Natalia still here? | |
| What's her deal? | |
| Right, I want water. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| What is she? | |
| Is she on the couch or not? | |
| I mean, OK. | |
| I just had to ask a lot to make sure that I'm doing what I am doing as best I can with ignorant knowledge. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said you would keep your last name in marriage. | |
| So it's a, I had a name that was so popular that when I looked myself online, I was like, I can't find myself. | |
| And so then I changed my name to something that is unique just to literally work with the algorithm. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I need to wait until everybody's back before I get into some more of these. | |
| Adult age gap relationships are wrong. | |
| We talked about this a little bit at the beginning, but you guys just let me steamroll that convo. | |
| 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old wrong. | |
| I don't know if anybody else. | |
| You circled adult age gap relationships are wrong? | |
| I think to a certain extent, like my max is 10 years before I think it becomes a little strange. | |
| Okay, I'm just talking about age gap. | |
| Let's see. | |
| A woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men. | |
| That's from my own personal experience. | |
| Yeah, I would say generally speaking, Tavvi, you also agree with that. | |
| Samantha, you think you also agree a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men? | |
| Okay. | |
| So disagree. | |
| I strongly disagree. | |
| Your career, your status, your money. | |
| Men don't care. | |
| It doesn't make you more attractive. | |
| It could be financially beneficial, but it's not, it doesn't make you more attractive. | |
| I have a question for you. | |
| Wait, one quick thing. | |
| And one of the reasons I think men don't care about, you know, your money, your status, your career, is because of number one, men should pay on first dates, men should provide, protect. | |
| Even when you guys do make money, you don't share your resources the same way men share their resources. | |
| So when y'all make money, that's your money. | |
| Y'all not really like simping on men in that kind of way. | |
| You don't really simp on men. | |
| Even your boyfriend, like you don't really be spending money on men like that. | |
| Some women do. | |
| I'll be fair. | |
| Some women do. | |
| Some women buy you buy them in Xbox one time a year. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| Men really be simping on women in terms of money. | |
| Men be giving money to women. | |
| They're not even fucking. | |
| They're not even sleeping on. | |
| It just depends. | |
| Yeah, but that's because he wants to. | |
| He's not doing that. | |
| Yeah, he's a fucking simp. | |
| He's a trick. | |
| He's a mark. | |
| He's a sucker. | |
| But when I have my money, when my money's super up, like, I'm so happy to give it all to my man if he's, if he's struggling, like, I just spent all of my money to get this. | |
| Take this guy to Mexico, get him there, have the best time, whatever he wanted to do. | |
| Like, because I could and I wanted him to be there, you know? | |
| And I think. | |
| So I don't dispute that women do do these things. | |
| However, men typically don't see the benefits of a woman's wealth or a woman's money. | |
| I exact that. | |
| Even when a woman's, like, I remember when I was a young buck in my mid-20s, I remember I matched with this girl on a dating app who was an attorney. | |
| And back then, so she was out earning me. | |
| I mashed with her. | |
| And in her bio, she's like, yeah, I'm an attorney. | |
| I make good money, blah, blah, blah, but I still expect the man to pay on dates. | |
| I'm like, so, okay, then what the fuck? | |
| Why should I care about your career? | |
| Why should I care about your money? | |
| You still expect, even though you out earn me, even though you have more money than me, even though you, you make more money than me, I still got to pay. | |
| So it doesn't matter if you have money because I don't reap any benefits. | |
| I don't reap, you could be super rich and successful. | |
| Most men aren't going to reap any sort of benefit by being in a relationship with a girl like that. | |
| I agree. | |
| But I really want to say this because you even said something earlier about how we were talking about when there's a certain way that you've been spoiled in a certain way. | |
| It's always in the back of a guy's mind. | |
| I just had this conversation last night with my baby cousin and my brother. | |
| I think I agree with you. | |
| I don't think it's because of the reasons on those papers. | |
| I think it is innately wired in a man to not do that. | |
| Like even when you do what? | |
| To not take, not even take money from a woman. | |
| It does not feel good. | |
| I did that shit tonight. | |
| Well, that's a certain kind of man. | |
| That's all I would say. | |
| Literally every opportunity, Brian, I will keep giving you money. | |
| But like all around, she's simping. | |
| All right, well, you gotta, I do expect, I expect the Venmo and cash app payments once a week. | |
| Okay. | |
| Right, is this a bit? | |
| No, you gotta get it. | |
| Get yourself some sunglasses or something first. | |
| Yeah, I'm a nice guy. | |
| I need a, like, I need a blindfold, to be honest. | |
| Let's just give her a fucking blindfold. | |
| Hold on, wait. | |
| That would really make it easier. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| I have an idea. | |
| I have an idea. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Nah, I was going to get one. | |
| I was going to get one of the fucking Spartan helmets, but that's. | |
| The sweatband. | |
| The sweatband. | |
| Look at my hair. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Do we have something? | |
| Red, white, and blue sweatband. | |
| Where? | |
| This, that's kind of too tight. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That's what I was thinking earlier, the Spartan thing, but that's too much, too big of eye gaps. | |
| Here, show us your mothering nature. | |
| You don't have the black baby anymore? | |
| Here, this you get the Asian baby, and then I do have a black baby here. | |
| Oh, God, let me guess. | |
| It's for me. | |
| We also have a pre-like, what's it called? | |
| Why is this a preemie? | |
| Yeah, he's a bit, he's a bit small. | |
| He was born early. | |
| Okay, I think this has to go to you. | |
| It's only death one. | |
| I'm correct. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You do it to the only black baby. | |
| See, I can see this. | |
| See? | |
| Shit. | |
| Hey, clip that. | |
| Exposed. | |
| Fucking racist. | |
| It's over. | |
| It's so over. | |
| Wait, what the fuck were we talking about? | |
| We're talking. | |
| Oh, I was saying about it. | |
| Oh, her eyes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But I don't know. | |
| I have a black hairband if you wanted. | |
| That would be great. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Here, just hook her up. | |
| Somebody help this girl. | |
| It'll probably be better. | |
| I don't know. | |
| A trash bag? | |
| I mean, I was thinking, like, what are we going to use for a barn full? | |
| Never a trash bag. | |
| I still have my question for you. | |
| I still have my question for you. | |
| I try to be humble. | |
| You know, look, ultimately, I don't know. | |
| I just don't think women share their resources with men to the same degree in the same way that men will share their resources with women. | |
| So even if she's like, also, I think that women, a successful woman, she's going to want to date a successful guy, generally. | |
| Yes. | |
| I think women want to date same or up when it comes to like, you know, like a male attorney, a male doctor. | |
| How about this? | |
| A male doctor will date a female nurse. | |
| A female doctor ain't dating a male nurse. | |
| A male attorney, he'll date a barista. | |
| A female attorney, she ain't dating a barista. | |
| So I think women move differently. | |
| I'm not saying that that's wrong. | |
| It's just different values. | |
| But ultimately, and yeah, maybe you do get into a relationship with like a girl who makes good money, but you probably make good money too. | |
| And even if she, like, at that point, it does, whatever. | |
| Okay. | |
| I already make good money. | |
| I don't care. | |
| But so, but you said earlier that a woman that something like the career doesn't make her more attractive to you. | |
| Is that correct? | |
| Yeah, her career, like for example, I'm doing decently well, let's just say. | |
| Right. | |
| She could work at Chick-fil-A. | |
| Don't care. | |
| Okay, so a girl who, in theory, would give up her career later on for you, have kids, meets all the boxes. | |
| If she was doing her nursing or doctorate and she wanted to finish that to and she has ambitions and goals and dreams that she don't want to let her inner child die off like that, she wants to fulfill that. | |
| You know, that was her dream since she was a kid. | |
| How is it more attractive to be work or the same for somebody to be working in a fast food at 25 versus a oh my god yeah I'm listening I'm just curious what your opinions are because for me like I don't really understand I want to understand what your thought process is there The thought process. | |
| Because doesn't that make it infinitely more attractive that she has goals and ambitions and she's not working a dead-end job, that she's working towards something maybe as you are, but she'll still give that up for you in the future because that's what you want. | |
| I don't think it would really change the attractiveness level. | |
| A woman's ambitions should be to serve her man and have a bounty of children and raise those children and take care of the man, take care of the family, take care of the household. | |
| Women can, a woman could be, uh, work at Chick-fil-A and have ambitions that transcend material and financial gain. | |
| She could want a bounty of children and she's infinitely more ambitious than the woman who wants to have the who wants to be the CEO. | |
| I think that's to me, I think that that's more ambitious. | |
| The woman who wants to fucking create a dynasty with a fucking real motherfucking G than just, oh, I want to be a boss babe and make money and be a CEO and have like maybe one kid by the time I'm 40. | |
| Nah, the real gangster woman is the woman who wants to have 10 kids with a motherfucking G. | |
| The top G. | |
| So when you're that's gangster. | |
| So hard R. | |
| I love it. | |
| That's gangster. | |
| That's gangster. | |
| Gangster. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| For me, yeah, like piggybacking off that. | |
| For me, it is, yeah, it's attractive when a man has ambition and is has a drive, has a passion. | |
| So for you, you're saying that attraction comes from a woman having that ambition drive to a fan, like to having a family. | |
| Yes, ambition for family, ambition for children. | |
| Ambition for me. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think that's what I can see that's respectful. | |
| I don't regret. | |
| I don't like knock anything you're saying because at the end of the day, like I just think you're using the wrong words. | |
| I think a wife's ambition is not everybody's meant to be a wife. | |
| Not everybody's meant to be. | |
| This is how you create people who are unhappy and bitter and bad mothers because they feel like they've given up dreams or certain things that they really didn't want to. | |
| And I think that we should trust women when they say that they don't want children or that they are more handy like they belong in artistry or I don't know, doing nails, hair, things like that. | |
| I think that's two different types of women. | |
| I don't think that's a woman's thing. | |
| I think that's a wife's thing. | |
| Hey, look, I mean, I'm not super hard line on this. | |
| There are some women who don't want to have children or maybe just want one kid or two kids or they're not whatever. | |
| You don't want to have kids. | |
| I honestly don't even care. | |
| Some people are like, oh my God, you're so. | |
| That's, I don't care. | |
| Do if you don't want to have kids, that's totally fine. | |
| Don't care. | |
| I'm just saying the woman that I want from my perspective, from my worldview, the ambitious woman is not the woman who wants to work some fucking wage slave corporation job sitting in an office under what are those lights? | |
| The LEDs are literally. | |
| Wants to sit under fucking fluorescent lights looking at, honestly, most of these corporate jobs are fucking adult daycare. | |
| Your little email jobs where it's fucking adult daycare. | |
| It's fucking all these jobs are bullshit. | |
| You're barely doing anything. | |
| You're serving a corporation. | |
| Serve me instead. | |
| And I will give you a bounty of children and I'm going to take care of everything. | |
| You're never going to have to work a day in your life. | |
| All the bills are going to be paid. | |
| I'm taking care of all the finances. | |
| Take care of me. | |
| Take care of the family. | |
| Take care of the house. | |
| Take care of the kids. | |
| Perfect. | |
| To each their own. | |
| I think if you have enough children, you need to find a woman who wants to be married and you'll easily find that. | |
| You know, like that's that's a I think that is a consciousness that's oh shut up, but hey, uh, whoever I end up long-term with, everything's gonna be taken care of. | |
| She never has to work, she's never gonna have to work a day in her life. | |
| Uh, wait, so why not marry birth your children? | |
| Seven, preferably, while you're not married to her, while you're not married, yeah, um, yeah, so like here comes my ignorance on the Bible. | |
| Like, oh my gosh, I'm saying that, girl, sorry, by the way, this, I'm not, this isn't a religious thing, it would be, it would be contradictory, in fact, to religious, uh, to Christianity for me to not want to be married. | |
| Yeah, I'm not definitely, I have pro-Christian sentiment, love it. | |
| Maybe one day I will become a Christian, but uh at the at the moment, yeah, so I'm not coming at this conversation from a religious perspective. | |
| So, nothing at all, no marriage. | |
| Are it spiritual? | |
| No marriage, no, but I can I can be loyal to one woman and stay with her for the rest of my life and have kids with her. | |
| Why wouldn't you want to get married? | |
| Why not have a wedding? | |
| L-marriage, L-marriage, raw deal in the West. | |
| Fix the laws, then we can talk. | |
| Is it like a financial thing? | |
| Yeah, financial thing. | |
| Would you like to have a cute little wedding and stuff? | |
| Tell you what, if she's a billionaire, I'll be the standard. | |
| Then you can have a prenup. | |
| Then I'll get married to her. | |
| Then we can get married. | |
| Not legally one thing. | |
| You could have a prenup. | |
| I don't care about prenups. | |
| Prenups are bullshit. | |
| So where's the point where you tell this woman, like, oh, I want to be with you forever and I want you to have my kids? | |
| If it's not like proposing marriage, it's just how does she know that's where you guys stand? | |
| Do you know what I mean? | |
| Shit, I'll tell her. | |
| Oh, we've been dating for a year and a half, two years. | |
| Let's pump out some kids. | |
| Yeah, that's crazy because I just feel. | |
| So, what's more important to you, marriage or children? | |
| Because I just don't see one without the other. | |
| Marriage is not important to this person. | |
| Well, you would agree that you can have children outside of marriage, right? | |
| Well, yeah, you can, obviously. | |
| A lot of people do. | |
| Yeah, a lot of people do, but I don't, I personally don't think that you should. | |
| I don't see how that's going to be. | |
| Did you have sex out of marriage? | |
| I've had sex out of marriage before. | |
| Okay, but I haven't had children out of marriage, though. | |
| Okay, well, yeah, it's a little more. | |
| It is. | |
| So you'd rather commit to children before somewhat interrelated, but you'd rather commit to children before marriage. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Interesting. | |
| Well, I don't want to get married. | |
| So, yeah, of course I would have children before marriage. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Did you have a question on the money thing or whatever? | |
| I think I asked my question. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think there's just one or two more here. | |
| Oh, past should not matter. | |
| Lynn, you agree? | |
| Past should not matter. | |
| Tavi, Tavy, Pass should not matter. | |
| Samantha, passion not matter. | |
| Should pass matter? | |
| I have a really body count. | |
| Oh, like for a woman? | |
| Yeah. | |
| It depends. | |
| Going around the table. | |
| What's your body count? | |
| I'm not disclosing, but you could cut some fingers off and still have one hand and body count. | |
| No clue. | |
| Come on. | |
| Wait, no clue? | |
| Like you forgot? | |
| Like I used to have a list and I deleted it. | |
| Oh, like on your phone? | |
| Like, like you had a little. | |
| Yeah, like nine years ago I deleted it. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| That's funny. | |
| It might be in your deleted. | |
| Oh, no, I've checked. | |
| Maybe you should. | |
| I know. | |
| If I had it, I would actually, because I regretted it. | |
| I did regret it. | |
| So did you lose track? | |
| No, I just had a traumatic experience that made me not want to keep track anymore. | |
| Understood. | |
| I'd be such a good father. | |
| Don't have a baby with this mouth. | |
| You lost track, though, of the body count? | |
| There was just a traumatic thing that happened that made me not want to keep track anymore. | |
| Well, just to be clear, body count, I think it only factors in consensual. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah, so if it was non-consensual, I wouldn't consider that body count. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For the sake of that. | |
| But that's when I stopped counting. | |
| Do you know, do you have a range that you want to estimate? | |
| No. | |
| Ballpark? | |
| No. | |
| Guest? | |
| I don't think that's anyone's business. | |
| Wait, do you put the body count passion on this? | |
| Damn, who's going to be a trooper and answer this question? | |
| What about you? | |
| I'd rather not. | |
| Come on, be a good sport. | |
| Come on. | |
| Body count? | |
| Lead the fifth. | |
| Body count. | |
| More than five, less than 20. | |
| More than 10, less than 20? | |
| More than 5. | |
| Yeah, I know, but more than 10 less than 20. | |
| Maybe like around 10. | |
| Okay, give me the Asian baby. | |
| Don't throw it. | |
| Be gentle. | |
| take it um i feel like there would be I'd get clipped if I did it to a black lady. | |
| You already did it for a first one as odd. | |
| Put it back, Alina. | |
| That's what I'm talking about. | |
| Your boyfriend. | |
| He proposed to her. | |
| Proposed to her. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| Body count? | |
| You? | |
| Blindfold? | |
| Blindfold? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Call me blindfold or something. | |
| Natalia. | |
| So, like, there's these things called rituals that you don't realize that you're actually potentially like creating bad interruptions really quick. | |
| Do you know how the Constitution had a preamble? | |
| You got that where you ramble. | |
| The Constitution has a preamble. | |
| Which preamble? | |
| The preamble of the Constitution of the United States. | |
| Yeah, the beginning of it. | |
| Similarly, have a preamble to every fucking thing you say. | |
| I would love to talk more, but I'm just not a great communicator, and I am trying to just really be like, here's a thing, here's a thing, here's a thing. | |
| But I'm just like, I don't really have a lot of time to talk for hours, you know? | |
| So that's okay. | |
| So he asked you your body count is just a number. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Either say the number or something. | |
| All right. | |
| It's like perhaps in the hundred or something more. | |
| Could they be the one? | |
| Wait. | |
| That you slept with? | |
| Wait, no judgment. | |
| Yeah, absolutely. | |
| That's pretty funny. | |
| If you could see me right now, my face is completely judgment-free. | |
| Well, so I think I really messed things up, though, with that. | |
| One question. | |
| Did you say it's in the it's like a hundred to one hundred ninety nine? | |
| Or when you say hundreds, do you mean it could be 200, 300, 400, 500? | |
| It's like over 100. | |
| And I below what? | |
| Gosh, I want to say like maybe below 200, but my point is it's really like something that I regret because I think I did so much damage that I didn't even realize how much damage I did. | |
| And I like thought it was like, oh, you know, like free love, oh, male loneliness epidemic. | |
| Oh, you know, whatever. | |
| I'm a hippie. | |
| And I was an atheist for a while. | |
| I was an agnostic. | |
| And then I was like, oh my gosh, like, what did I do? | |
| So there's like some real bad stuff that can come from like all sorts of crazy supernatural whatever stuff. | |
| You're opening portals with your STDs. | |
| Sexual patterns. | |
| Well, herpes. | |
| Was it herpes? | |
| It was herpes, wasn't it? | |
| No, it wasn't. | |
| Well, I mean, I did get the. | |
| Gosh, did I get the vaccine for herbies? | |
| I don't know. | |
| But, no, I don't have AIDS or anything. | |
| Syphilis. | |
| No. | |
| The black death. | |
| Whooping cough. | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Chlamydia. | |
| It's the demon. | |
| I mean, look, that's treatable. | |
| But I warn you guys that. | |
| You still have it? | |
| No, I warn you guys. | |
| You never got it. | |
| Don't mess around with sex too much because it can really damage things in ways that I don't understand. | |
| Well, I mean, if you don't get some of those things treated, it can lead to infertility. | |
| Besides the STD stuff, there's like spiritual stuff that I don't understand. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For sure. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you believe in God? | |
| That's an interesting question. | |
| See? | |
| Do you believe in a God? | |
| Yeah, do you believe in anything? | |
| I'll say this. | |
| I have very pro-Christian sentiment. | |
| I think religion and Christianity is a force for good. | |
| However, my own personal belief is not there at the moment. | |
| Maybe one day it will be there, but I wouldn't lie. | |
| And I think part of being a religious person, believing in God, believing in some higher power, should point you towards being a truth teller. | |
| And I would not lie. | |
| So at this point, no, I don't have a belief, but that belief may manifest at some point down the road. | |
| And hopefully, maybe, I don't know if hopefully is the right word. | |
| Maybe it does. | |
| Yes. | |
| But at this point, at this point, I am lacking in belief of a God. | |
| Right. | |
| Just the faith itself. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I'm just being honest, though. | |
| It's not there. | |
| I don't want to lie. | |
| I'm just being honest. | |
| So when she says that it has a lot of spiritual effects, that doesn't really necessarily hit you for a while. | |
| Maybe I was interpreting that more from a psychological perspective. | |
| So yeah, you can get STDs, but I do think that there can be a psychological scar, a psychological harm from engaging in a lot of sex. | |
| Yeah. | |
| There's also, like, I didn't believe in the supernatural world for so many, so many years. | |
| I was like, oh, okay, like, maybe there's evidence for ghosts. | |
| Maybe there's evidence for Jesus. | |
| Like, I was just like tiny, tiny bits of data, like just challenging everything. | |
| And then I like realized how much I like hurt myself by being in a ritual that maybe caused a lot of damage, unfortunately. | |
| And I didn't. | |
| I was like, ritual? | |
| You had an orgy? | |
| It was something. | |
| I don't want to explain too much. | |
| I don't want to explain too much because I don't want people to do these things. | |
| I just want to say that there's stuff out there that is very dangerous. | |
| Okay, no, sorry. | |
| From what I can tell. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| As a person who doesn't know that much about the supernatural world or psychics. | |
| For whoever's going to end up clipping this episode for my editor, yo, I don't know if you're going to ever... | |
| Christian, send me an Instagram message if you see this. | |
| Also, my homeboy. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Demetria? | |
| Is that? | |
| Wait, fuck. | |
| I can't even pronounce her. | |
| My Greek homeboy who helps me with the editing and Christian. | |
| Tell me if you see this part. | |
| Just for the clips, because people are going to be like, why the fuck is she wearing a blindfold? | |
| Can you just say something right now? | |
| Like, I'm wearing the blindfold because I'm overstimulated or over sensory something? | |
| Explain it, I guess. | |
| So I was seeing things on the screen during our podcast that made me feel bad. | |
| And I was praying and asking about what I should do. | |
| Oh, I thought it's not the bright lights. | |
| No, it's you saw very we were talking about very controversial subjects. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then it was like, oh my goodness, like, what do I do? | |
| So, yeah, that's when I just closed my mouth. | |
| Just say that you have like, just lie. | |
| Just say you're something. | |
| You can say I was bright in here or something. | |
| I feel like that's easier to. | |
| I want to tell the truth as much as possible. | |
| Okay, whatever. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So, body count in the hundreds. | |
| And, question, was this like what was it like a you said it was because you referenced male loneliness, loneliness epidemic, which is a term that I've really only heard the past three years. | |
| Are you saying that you accrued this body count in the past three years? | |
| No. | |
| Oh, because you're 29? | |
| Okay. | |
| So when did this start? | |
| Was there a period of time where you just were running through these little fuckboys? | |
| Well, I was darn, you know, I was really hoping I work for the Trump administration, but I don't know. | |
| I just got to like focus on telling the truth. | |
| I mean, shit. | |
| You're going to see if you end up working for Trump. | |
| Trust me, you're going to see way worse shit than some of these comments. | |
| Well, certainly. | |
| Liberals and Democrats are not going to like you, let me tell you. | |
| I know. | |
| I really challenge the norms. | |
| But okay, can you just answer the question, though? | |
| So I was like, I was in like a long-term relationship, and then I switched around polyamory, and then I switched around celibacy, and then just like, like, whatever, just not really looking for a husband that desperately because I was focused on becoming a doctor, and I was like, well, I'm going to move for residency, I'm going to move for medical school, I'm going to move for this degree. | |
| So, like, I can't really focus on pulling a guy around the country to go on this medical school journey with me, basically. | |
| So, how many years was it that this all happened? | |
| Yeah, thank you. | |
| What was the time frame? | |
| It was since you lost virginity when you were 15, or it was since you and this one guy broke up, which is only the last two years, or it's the last six years, or how was the time frame? | |
| The majority of the bodies that you slept with, not murdered was in one year, in six years. | |
| What when were they acquired generally? | |
| gosh i would say i have to think about that for a second um i'm sorry i was like it was age like 20 to 26 about or something like that One to 10 later. | |
| All right, thank you. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Body count. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Range, give us a range. | |
| I can't. | |
| Alina? | |
| Two. | |
| Body count? | |
| Going this way now? | |
| You said five to twenty. | |
| I said 20. | |
| I said boo. | |
| You guys, you guys, boo. | |
| None of your business. | |
| It's because it doesn't matter. | |
| What about man one day see 19 years old? | |
| Like, you know what I'm saying? | |
| I don't want him. | |
| What if one day I do meet a man? | |
| I like, I don't want to see me talking about like. | |
| Exactly, girl. | |
| Come on. | |
| Just in case you never stay in private. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let me just check the questionnaire. | |
| I'm pretty sure we're mostly done with the questionnaire. | |
| A few more things, and hopefully, I'm going to try to get this wrapped up here soon-ish. | |
| Okay, man, come on. | |
| Career, blah, blah, blah. | |
| High body count, blah, blah, blah. | |
| Skip, skip, skip. | |
| Can you guys like order us Taco Bell? | |
| Taco Bell. | |
| Did you watch live? | |
| Y'all said we would have snacks and there's cookies and plain chips. | |
| Hey, that's it. | |
| There's a lot of stuff. | |
| There's cookies and chips for eight and that's for nine hours, y'all. | |
| Since 4 p.m. I'm supposed to eat cookies. | |
| They came here straight from the studio. | |
| I was skipping energy drinks. | |
| That's what hey, we're very hook it up here at the Whatever Podcast. | |
| I'm hungry. | |
| You saw that money you just put in your pocket. | |
| I want to please. | |
| Sammy. | |
| Yes. | |
| Sammy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you like? | |
| Are you fine with Sammy? | |
| Sammy's okay. | |
| A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. | |
| What did I do? | |
| What did you do? | |
| You circled that. | |
| I said yes. | |
| Did you agree with that? | |
| Because of her weight. | |
| Okay. | |
| If somebody's not physically attracted to another person, then yeah, rejection is okay because that's like, you know, their preference. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't think anybody should be like, like, what is it called? | |
| Like, bullied for their weight. | |
| Like Mona. | |
| Did I tell you? | |
| Mona Lisa. | |
| I already said that. | |
| She gets genuine or take up. | |
| Doesn't she get everywhere we go? | |
| Like every person gets dead printing. | |
| I think that's what it is. | |
| And I'm living for it. | |
| Stay. | |
| Let's make it up. | |
| Just what is behind your eyes? | |
| My eyes. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Just some kind of glare. | |
| I think I do like over-analyze everything. | |
| And I'm like, hmm, what's wrong with this person? | |
| This is probably why, you know, they're acting that way. | |
| I think I overanalyze people. | |
| I psychoanalyze them. | |
| People are saying I'm wrong. | |
| I guess. | |
| I don't know. | |
| What are they saying? | |
| The girl from the ring? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's a bit insane. | |
| I'm just saying it. | |
| That's a bit inspiring. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| She looks. | |
| She looks perma stone. | |
| People are evil. | |
| They are. | |
| Dead glare. | |
| They are. | |
| Dead glare. | |
| But I guess why did what's the thing with the a woman should not be rejected? | |
| Like, if you're a guy and you're like, I don't want to date this woman, I don't think you should be like, oh, I don't want to date you because you're fatty. | |
| No, that's rude. | |
| That's that's okay. | |
| She should, she shouldn't be like rejected from like life. | |
| Like, people should accept her food. | |
| She's a dating podcast. | |
| Of course, we're talking about dating. | |
| She said, hire fat women. | |
| Hire fat women. | |
| Your next helmet girl should be fat. | |
| I mean, I have married small guy. | |
| Girl, you ain't fat. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You think you're fat? | |
| I think I'm really fat right now. | |
| I'm not going to stand up. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Let's see. | |
| You try to make her flex our whole entire insecurity. | |
| I know. | |
| She's like, stand up and show everybody. | |
| He's like, and do the face. | |
| And do the face from the ring. | |
| Lift up your shirt and show them your stomach. | |
| Oh, they know. | |
| And put your hair over your face and look over it. | |
| No, run into the camera. | |
| Now start running and screaming. | |
| Some guys are into that. | |
| Some guys are into it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm like the little emo ones, and I'm like, oh, great. | |
| I like the emotions fed. | |
| Alina, can you read this one? | |
| Brian isn't a misogynist, but he's definitely a mass witchist for willingly putting himself through these debates with brain-dead e-girls. | |
| Also convenient that women started to fight for high-paying jobs when air conditioning in office buildings became common. | |
| Good play. | |
| Yes. | |
| I actually think if we were to go back, I think there would have been less of like a feminist push When the majority of jobs were not in office environment, I agree. | |
| Like when shit was like fucking physical and labor and working in a mine or some shit. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Women did not want equality then. | |
| I actually think though, even though, yeah, you might say women had, you know, historically, you know, the men could go out and work and make money and the woman had to stay home and traditional gender expectations, blah, blah, unfair. | |
| I think women had kind of a good deal. | |
| I agree. | |
| As they should. | |
| Think about this, right? | |
| Here's just one example, and you might be able to point to other examples that are contrary to this. | |
| Let's think of the example of the man. | |
| Is any somebody you're in Philadelphia, right? | |
| So I believe in Pennsylvania, a long time ago, in parts of Pennsylvania, there was a heavy coal mining industry. | |
| So men would go into the coal mines in Pennsylvania. | |
| The women would stay home, cook, clean, watch the kids. | |
| The men would go into the coal mine, be covered in suit, and like most of them would fucking die of like black lung or some bullshit in their 40s, 50s, 60s, something like early, whatever. | |
| Or they just, there's a mind collapse. | |
| They just fucking die, not from lung damage, but from something else. | |
| I think women had the better, at least in that specific context, in that example, I do think women got the better deal. | |
| Even if they, you could say, well, women couldn't work. | |
| I feel like not working kind of was the good deal. | |
| Is the vibe? | |
| I feel like that was the good deal. | |
| In that context, I have a question for you, Brian. | |
| Sure. | |
| Do you believe that the origination of feminism was a natural push or was it government-funded? | |
| Like a psyop? | |
| Well, I mean, feminism started in the late 1800s. | |
| But when it got really radical around the 70s. | |
| Oh, the 60s and 70s. | |
| Yeah, I think there's a psyop component. | |
| But I agree because the benefit was the extra taxpayer. | |
| But like originally. | |
| Separation of the American family, it all adds up to the benefit of the government, arguably, but that's all hearsay. | |
| Oh, okay, and preaching. | |
| Yeah, I think there's there could be. | |
| Look, I haven't investigated the, I guess you would call it conspiracy theory. | |
| I haven't investigated it. | |
| I think there's probably a good chance that I mean, I think there's actually some evidence that what's her there. | |
| There was a famous feminist that I believe was a CIA asset. | |
| Yes. | |
| I can't remember her name, though. | |
| Chat. | |
| It was. | |
| Is it who was it? | |
| I forget her name. | |
| She's like a major feminist. | |
| I forgot her name. | |
| But she was it Gloria Steinem? | |
| I think so. | |
| I think one of them. | |
| I think the origin, original, was it Gloria Steinem who was she was a CIA asset or something? | |
| So, but originally in the 1880s, or I don't remember exactly. | |
| Way back, it's different. | |
| But when like the huge revival came in the 70s, what I allegedly, allegedly believe is that, like, I'm curious if you agree or not, that this was a government-backed operation to separate the American family, to put both parents in the working class, double taxes, voting, create more conflict among the population. | |
| Your attention is away from the children who are now being raised by the public education system, who's also funded by the government. | |
| Now you've got the government controlling two aspects when it should be a man and the wife in the home with his kids. | |
| And now, where do we end up in this day and age? | |
| I don't agree with modern feminism. | |
| I think that what it's evolved into is exactly what the government wants. | |
| Overpopulation of OnlyFans, destruction of the modern family, and to each their own, do what you want. | |
| But this, we are playing exactly into their side that they started so long ago, and it hurts my brain because it's like we're watching the destruction of like masculinity and femininity. | |
| And it's like we're falling for like liberal, Republican, and like feminist. | |
| And it's just a big distraction from the core values that we're really meant to, you know, love each other, have a family. | |
| I agree with that. | |
| And I think that a lot of the feminism is just so damaging because now you got, you know, like violence going on. | |
| This is the opposite of what it originally was, but we've lost the fucking plot. | |
| Is that too based? | |
| Allegedly, allegedly. | |
| That's what I believe. | |
| I have a very strong opinion on this. | |
| I think there is some evidence pointing to this being a possibility towards it being true. | |
| And it's certainly plausible. | |
| I don't know if there's like any major smoking guns. | |
| I believe there are famous feminists who were confirmed to be like CIA assets. | |
| And I think you already acknowledge this, like early, early feminism. | |
| I don't believe anything. | |
| It was different. | |
| Yeah, I don't think any there were intelligence agencies in the 18 was there intelligence agencies in like 1800s. | |
| It was a really slow start. | |
| Was the I don't chat. | |
| Maybe somebody wants you to think there was somebody tell me. | |
| Were there intelligence agencies in the 1800s? | |
| Anybody in the chat? | |
| Secret societies? | |
| There's always been, for sure, there were conspiracies and there were elites and there were powerful people throughout all of human history. | |
| But like an intelligence agency psyop, that's something else. | |
| Kings had spies, Brian. | |
| True. | |
| True? | |
| True. | |
| Okay, the Pinkertons. | |
| Weren't the Pinkertons like just they were like hired hired muscle to some degree? | |
| Were the Pinkertons like a conspirat? | |
| Well, I don't know, whatever. | |
| We're getting down the rabbit hole. | |
| Thank you for answering my questions, though. | |
| It's just a hired muscle, basically. | |
| That's meant to be kept secret. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Okay. | |
| By the way, I don't know if anybody's seen the show Deadwood. | |
| Great show. | |
| So good. | |
| Such a good show. | |
| A bit slow, at least by today's standards. | |
| I still think it's a really good show. | |
| A bit slow, like probably it's like 20 years old, but it's got like, I don't know, I like it. | |
| But they had the Pinkertons in Deadwood. | |
| And what's that name? | |
| Fucking Woo. | |
| Yo, chat, who's seen one in the chat if you've seen Deadwood? | |
| The series that was on HBO in like the early, mid-2000s, I think. | |
| Fucking Swearing, that guy, cocksucker. | |
| All they just say, they did a compilation of how many times the term cocksucker was said, and it's hilarious because they said like 300 times they said cocksucker in this entire show. | |
| And then Swidgin, that's funny too. | |
| Good show, guys. | |
| A little recommendation for you guys. | |
| Mosquito. | |
| I just killed him. | |
| Did you get it? | |
| Hell yeah, girl. | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| I killed a mosquito. | |
| We saw it at the same time. | |
| You now have. | |
| I killed one in the bathroom. | |
| You have malaria. | |
| It's on the bottom. | |
| Where are they coming from? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Final few things from the questionnaire. | |
| I'm going to blast through these. | |
| What is the just these questions here? | |
| What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband? | |
| Quick answers, if possible. | |
| I don't even know what's like a legible answer. | |
| Like, to be honest, I said like 60, 70. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It doesn't have to be crazy. | |
| If we love each other, we love each other. | |
| Okay. | |
| I put we'll figure it out. | |
| Oh, come on. | |
| I don't know who he is yet. | |
| But would you date a guy who works at McDonald's? | |
| Like your future husband? | |
| I don't think I would. | |
| Match with a guy who works at McDonald's. | |
| Six figures, you think? | |
| Or what? | |
| Yeah, I think if, I mean, yeah, if I was seriously dating someone and they were wanting marriage, which is what I want, and wanting to build a future together, then I would expect them to have a job that could pay for both of us to live. | |
| I see. | |
| Oh, by the way, for the chat, I'm really disappointed that there were no champagne pops today. | |
| Speaking of Deadwood cocksuckers, but we will half the price of, just for funsies, because it's our final show of the year, final show. | |
| We're half the champagne pop price if anybody wants. | |
| So champagne pops will be $499, $500. | |
| $499 if anybody wants to have a little celebration here at the end of the show, a little champagne pop. | |
| Yes. | |
| Minimum income. | |
| I said $100,000. | |
| What about you? | |
| $100,000. | |
| What about you? | |
| I said the same. | |
| $100,000? | |
| What about you? | |
| As much as I possibly can. | |
| Well, but what's the minimum? | |
| Because, yeah, you'd want a billionaire. | |
| I know. | |
| Damn. | |
| Okay, skip. | |
| Belina? | |
| I said 90. | |
| What is it? | |
| Come on, just tell us. | |
| Like, I really don't know. | |
| If I could get. | |
| Like, 500K? | |
| Nah, like, I want mils. | |
| Okay, give us a number. | |
| 3 mil? | |
| 2 mil? | |
| Two. | |
| Any, a couple. | |
| What minimum, though? | |
| More than 2 mil? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Minimum $2 million a year. | |
| Okay. | |
| It's very possible for me. | |
| Oh, it is. | |
| I have that. | |
| I have those options. | |
| You have those options? | |
| Wait, can you bring your microphone down? | |
| Yeah. | |
| How do I do that? | |
| Grab it from the back. | |
| Tilt it down. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Too much? | |
| Yeah, good. | |
| You have those. | |
| Right now, you could date a guy. | |
| Marry a guy who makes two mil a year. | |
| I don't know about, I don't want to be married. | |
| I'm just saying if I were to get a man and I find a man, he's definitely going to be very rich. | |
| That's just me. | |
| Because I have those options and I can do that. | |
| The question is, will you settle for less? | |
| I would not settle for less. | |
| I would just be by myself. | |
| You would just end it, end it all. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's why I'm by myself. | |
| I'm just letting you know it's going to be really, I think it's really, like, if I'm a betting man, I don't think you're going to get a guy who makes two mil. | |
| I could see how you could say that, but, you know, in my culture, what culture is that? | |
| The black culture. | |
| Oh. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| I thought it was the New Orleans. | |
| Oh, like, oh, no. | |
| I ain't going to lie. | |
| You know, not a lot of people got it like that. | |
| But I'm rich. | |
| A lot of rich people. | |
| They don't have a lot of. | |
| Wait, the black culture? | |
| Yeah. | |
| In my cop culture, I would be top tier. | |
| And I get top tier men. | |
| That's what I get. | |
| It's not even a, you know. | |
| If you know, you know. | |
| You're saying that you're betting that I wouldn't. | |
| I'm saying that I definitely can. | |
| could do it right now well because if she's a songwriter yeah i'm saying like i'm choosing to not do that because i around already That's like her community is millionaires. | |
| And it's more likely to end up with a millionaire. | |
| Did anybody see the fucking Diddy documentary? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| They're taking these. | |
| These fucking record companies are fucking screwing these young, talented black men over. | |
| Screwing them over. | |
| That's true. | |
| The fucking music industry screwing them over. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But I, you know, I'm not really into artists anyway. | |
| Like, I wouldn't want my man in the same industry as me. | |
| Young, black, and rich. | |
| Good song. | |
| Period. | |
| Okay. | |
| I that's my anthem. | |
| That's yours? | |
| Okay, sorry. | |
| Black and rich. | |
| Sorry. | |
| And I fucking rock out to that, especially the part where it's like the black part. | |
| That's the next t-shirt. | |
| That's the next sweatshirt. | |
| I'm actually, this is going to make me some fans. | |
| I'm actually technically African American. | |
| But whatever. | |
| I'm young, black, and nobody wants to bite on the African American. | |
| We're going to start calling you YBA. | |
| You're going to be YBA like young boy. | |
| You go beyond young, black, rich. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| YBR. | |
| YBR. | |
| That's what it is. | |
| You go beyond. | |
| But I actually am technically African-American. | |
| No, you're not. | |
| Oh, totally. | |
| Well, hear me out. | |
| You're not. | |
| Hear me out. | |
| I don't care. | |
| Hear me out. | |
| Then so am I. Because we all came in America. | |
| Okay, so I'll tell you why. | |
| I'll tell you why. | |
| It's a technicality. | |
| So my dad was actually born in North Africa. | |
| My mom was born in America. | |
| So if my dad was born in Africa and my mom was born in America, technically African American. | |
| I'm African American. | |
| Do you take any traditions or identify with any part of that culture? | |
| So my dad was born in Algeria, which is in North Africa, which at the time of his birth, anyways, he didn't stay there long because Civil War. | |
| Algeria was a French territory. | |
| So technically, because of his birth in Africa and my mom's birth in America. | |
| We have a you are colonizers. | |
| You are black by you are Algeria's not black. | |
| They're like Arabic, I guess. | |
| Or I think they're Arabic. | |
| Algeria is not black. | |
| What did they mean? | |
| I'm not going to get into that. | |
| In the U.S.? | |
| No, I'm just curious, like what the circumstances was. | |
| If that's okay to ask. | |
| They meant the United States. | |
| Well, I mean, like, like at college. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So would you consider yourself an African-American? | |
| Okay, not really. | |
| I'm just curious. | |
| I'm not black, if that's what you're asking. | |
| Right. | |
| So you said that you're technically black. | |
| I'm technically African-American. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You know how words can have multiple meanings? | |
| Yeah, you're right. | |
| You're totally right. | |
| You know how like bitch could be like an insult to a woman. | |
| It could be an endearing term to a woman if you're a rapper. | |
| Or it might mean a female dog. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm African-American. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You are. | |
| You guys are not enjoying this conversation. | |
| You're not. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| Here, tell you what. | |
| Will you call me God? | |
| Hell no. | |
| How about here? | |
| I'll do it for you. | |
| Would you call me? | |
| Not that one. | |
| All right, then you're not African. | |
| You're my Caucasian, though. | |
| I'm Caucasian. | |
| You're my Caucasian. | |
| What's up, girl? | |
| And you, you're also my Caucasian. | |
| My Caucasian, my Caucasian. | |
| I don't think I'm yours. | |
| Mexican, my Caucasian, my schizo, my Slavic Caucasian. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Never mind. | |
| What is this? | |
| What? | |
| Y'all heard it here first. | |
| Like, you know how, look, I can't say the word. | |
| I would never say the word. | |
| I don't say the word. | |
| Oh, I see. | |
| You know how, like, black people can. | |
| Hold on, hear me. | |
| You know how black people, you wanted to take me. | |
| I just pause. | |
| He said, he said, please don't call me. | |
| Here we are. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Like, you know how y'all will, you can call each other like my N-word. | |
| Yeah. | |
| My Caucasian. | |
| That's like, because I'm white, I can say I can, my heart. | |
| Right. | |
| But I'll give you the Caucasian pass. | |
| Do you want to call me your? | |
| Am I your Caucasian? | |
| You, my wigga. | |
| Wigga. | |
| Yeah. | |
| My wigga. | |
| With wigga with a w. | |
| I get it. | |
| I'm not allowed to say that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's better. | |
| Do you want to call me your n-word, though? | |
| I don't want to. | |
| I'd rather just call you by your name. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm just look. | |
| I'm trying to, I'm trying to get some motion. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I feel like if a, like the biggest, not the biggest compliment. | |
| I don't want to say that. | |
| I feel like it's a big compliment. | |
| Actually, a black girl, I think last show called me the N-word. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not as an insult, but like as a. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That is a compliment. | |
| I think it's a compliment. | |
| If a black person calls a white person the N-word. | |
| I could see that. | |
| Is this conversation getting a little on the fence? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't feel nutsizer. | |
| All right. | |
| Well. | |
| This is all. | |
| Y'all scratched that. | |
| So what's up? | |
| You know? | |
| Clara Air. | |
| Blindfold up. | |
| What's up? | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, so anyways, happy. | |
| Anyways. | |
| But in LA, let's hang out. | |
| How tall are you? | |
| Oh, how tall are you? | |
| And what's the minimum height of a man you would date? | |
| I'm 5'3, and my minimum is probably like a little bit below 6 foot. | |
| Okay, well, 6'. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'5 and a half, and I would prefer to date a man my height or above. | |
| Mary, could you get me water? | |
| I'm 5'2, and I would like my man to be 5'6 and taller. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'4, and the minimum height, 5'7 ⁇ . | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'1, but I'd like to date somebody who's like 5'10 or taller. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| i would say it kind of depends on their martial arts skills where are we right now girl I would say, like, I used to think like my same height or higher. | |
| Martial arts skills? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| But if they're like really small and like able to defend me at a small height. | |
| Like, are we talking like what kind of martial arts? | |
| Judo, taekwondo? | |
| Just like karate? | |
| Just like as a woman, you get stalked and stuff. | |
| So it's good to have someone that could protect you. | |
| Taekwondo. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| You go lambs. | |
| You not my wiggle no more. | |
| Why? | |
| Cuz, brother, you can't be doing that to my sky. | |
| Like, come on, gang. | |
| Relax. | |
| I'm one that she's accepting me. | |
| You see how she's talking to me? | |
| I'm accepted. | |
| You get it. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| I'm 5'5. | |
| I want a 5'9 in you. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I want mine to be 5-9. | |
| Elena? | |
| I'm 5'6, and I would date 5'7. | |
| Word. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Oh, boy. | |
| Do we do the bear? | |
| Okay, really quick. | |
| Would you rather cross pass with a random man or random bear on a hike? | |
| Probably a man. | |
| What about you? | |
| Black bear. | |
| Okay, you. | |
| Random man. | |
| What about you? | |
| Man. | |
| You? | |
| I think a man. | |
| You. | |
| Bear. | |
| I used to be a park ranger. | |
| Oh, boy. | |
| Oh. | |
| She got all the Pokemon. | |
| In the woods, you said? | |
| On a hike. | |
| On a hike? | |
| Yeah, hike. | |
| I mean, a bear. | |
| That may not even see me. | |
| A babe. | |
| A man. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not gonna, we won't get into the bear convo. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| There's a few more things. | |
| Let me just make sure I let's see if did I get everybody's notes? | |
| We have okay, Susie, no show. | |
| Ah, Samantha. | |
| You went on a date with this freak who tried to scare you at the end of the tell us the quick story there. | |
| Oh, there was this kid who I wanted to date with. | |
| And the whole date was horrible, but the worst part was towards the end of our date when I was getting like, he decided to pick me up at home. | |
| When I was getting like dropped off back, you know, at my place, he decided to like miss the turn to my house and then speed up and just like stare at me. | |
| I'm a very like a monotone person and I don't really have like fast reactions. | |
| So I just kind of like stood there and stood at him and like stared at him and I was just like, what are you doing? | |
| And then he was like, oh, I was trying to scare you, but you're not really giving me the reaction that I expected. | |
| So I guess I'll just take you home now. | |
| And I was like, what a fucking psychopath. | |
| He wants to kill me or something. | |
| And like, it's just so weird. | |
| Yeah, it is weird. | |
| I'm wondering what reaction he expected from that. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| He wanted like fear from me. | |
| And because I was just like there, he was like, oh, this is boring. | |
| I'm going to take you home. | |
| Yeah, because first he took her to his house. | |
| Oh, she goes. | |
| Oh, I'm cute. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| She's like, oh, I want you to take me home. | |
| And then he just drives and pulls up to his own house. | |
| And he's like, oh, I have to get something here. | |
| So he's like trying to creep her out. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| And then she's like, no, take me home. | |
| And then he starts speeding up, like driving all crazy looking at her. | |
| And he's just like trying to creep, you know, like trying to get a reaction. | |
| Yeah, to elicit fear out of her. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's so. | |
| So how did you get out of that situation? | |
| Well, I basically, well, I didn't really have a reaction. | |
| So he was like bored. | |
| And then he like decided to like take me home. | |
| And then I was like, oh, thank God. | |
| I could totally be hers. | |
| I can totally see her being like, oh my God, I'm so scared. | |
| Take me home. | |
| I was literally just like, I was just like sitting there and I was just like, what are you doing? | |
| And then he was like, he wanted to scare you. | |
| And I was just like, oh, take me home. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That was not what he was looking for at all. | |
| Was his house far from your house? | |
| Like, how long have you been here? | |
| Yeah, we lived in the same neighborhood. | |
| He lived maybe like less than a mile away. | |
| That's so crazy. | |
| All right. | |
| You also says, why do men date the people they date? | |
| Yeah, I also, yeah, I'm like curious about like why men choose certain girls and also like the whole marriage thing. | |
| Like why do they choose to settle down? | |
| Like do they choose to settle down just because they feel like they have to? | |
| Or I feel like there's a small percentage of men who are actually born like wanting to be a husband. | |
| I feel like that's not common at all. | |
| So like what kind of like makes a man settle down? | |
| I was curious. | |
| Aren't we all curious? | |
| I feel like it's just like a looks thing. | |
| Like if something's like super like cute and like easy to get along with, they're like, oh, yeah. | |
| You fucking misogynist. | |
| She said if something's cute and you say to it. | |
| If someone is cute. | |
| I feel like men are just like, oh, this is fun. | |
| This is convenient, so I guess I'll just keep doing this, you know. | |
| Yeah, I think good looks as a woman can bring you pretty far. | |
| Being pleasant will bring you pretty far. | |
| Having both is kind of going to be the ultimate combination. | |
| Honestly, look, you just got to be a based, submissive housewife. | |
| It's just like companionship, isn't it? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Like just companionship. | |
| Like they just like crave to have like a little companion. | |
| Are you lacking in your ability to be a companion? | |
| No, not really. | |
| I don't like dating. | |
| There's people who want to date me that I'm like, I don't really want to do that right now. | |
| But I don't know. | |
| I've always just been so curious. | |
| Like, I feel like I'm too young to get married and I'm too young to settle down. | |
| Maybe in like two years, I'll start dating for marriage. | |
| But yeah, I've always just been so curious about like the dating pool and like why men do the things that they do. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| Okay. | |
| We're doing your notes. | |
| Then we have a rapid fire segment. | |
| Then we're pretty much done. | |
| So your notes, Natalia. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Oh. | |
| Oh, the blindfold comes in? | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| I'm going to leave that shit. | |
| If I don't look at the screen, I think I'm okay. | |
| Yeah, you're probably good. | |
| Oh, you do, you take it off of yourself. | |
| Okay, so if you can, try to stay on topic and try to just like answer the specific thing or like try not to derail too much. | |
| But you said you had drinks with a military contractor on accident who wanted to have a war with Venezuela. | |
| Yes. | |
| I was in Miami and I was with a girlfriend and she was interested in one of the guys who said that he didn't feel empathy. | |
| And I just was like, oh, interesting. | |
| Didn't seem like a violent person. | |
| And his friend ended up being the military contractor that wanted a war with Venezuela. | |
| And that was back in 2020 or so. | |
| And I was a military contractor. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So he wasn't in the military. | |
| He was a military contractor. | |
| So he had something to do with. | |
| It was like Blackwater or whatever that company. | |
| I just don't know exactly the specifics, but he told me he was a military contractor. | |
| But military contractors aren't active military. | |
| They're shit. | |
| What's the word? | |
| What's the word for when you mercenary? | |
| They're mercenaries. | |
| So they're not like, I'm a sergeant in the U.S. Marines. | |
| They're just maybe they, I don't know if they wait, chat. | |
| Do mercenaries have ranks within their military contractor organization? | |
| Do mercenaries, do contractors, military contractors, do they have ranks? | |
| And do they have a say in anything? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Like, I don't think they have a say in whether they're going to warn them. | |
| So he wanted to go to war with Venezuela. | |
| Did you sleep with him? | |
| No, I just was. | |
| No, I would never. | |
| And I was just too late. | |
| Let's not get ahead of ourselves. | |
| I was just, well, I don't like people that promote wars. | |
| And your whole thing now is we're about to go to war with Venezuela, right? | |
| But, right? | |
| Isn't that what you started with? | |
| That's a big concern of mine, yes. | |
| So this guy who you, military contractor who wanted to have war with Venezuela, you didn't sleep with him. | |
| Whoa, I just realized if you did sleep with him, we would not find ourselves in our current predicament. | |
| We could have had world peace. | |
| Could have not, you should have slept with him, and now because you didn't sleep with him, now we're about to go to war with Venezuela. | |
| That's fucked up. | |
| I think you owe the Venezuelan people an apology. | |
| I would love to stop the wars if I could. | |
| I just would you stop the wars if you had to have sex with Donald Trump. | |
| If you could stop the war, but you had wait, hold on. | |
| I feel like I asked the liberal girls. | |
| For you, would you have sex with Donald Trump if it meant an end to the Palestine? | |
| Wait, isn't it over? | |
| No, I thought it ended. | |
| No, they just keep lying about it. | |
| No, if there was a million percent chance, if it was for sure secured in the future of humanity that there would be no more wars and that they would stop the genocide in Gaza and they would give Palestinians their land back and we would all say fuck Israel. | |
| I would for sure fuck Donald Trump. | |
| Would you, Natalia? | |
| For the greater good. | |
| Would you elate Donald Trump? | |
| I just like I would only listen to Jesus Christ as much as possible. | |
| Like so. | |
| Like I just don't think that. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| I just don't think that that's going to make sense at all. | |
| All right. | |
| Yo, chat, would chat to end world hunger, would you guys have sex with Donald Trump? | |
| Bro. | |
| To end all these men. | |
| I know men included. | |
| To end racism. | |
| This is so. | |
| To end racism, chat, would you have sex with Donald Trump? | |
| You know what they're going to say. | |
| They're going to be like, nah, let's keep that shit. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, fuck. | |
| That's funny. | |
| To end climate change. | |
| Yo, men, men in the chat, would you. | |
| If you had to be gay for 24 hours for a billion dollars, would you be gay for 24 hours? | |
| No. | |
| Would anybody have sex with Donald Trump at the table for a billion dollars? | |
| Oh, no. | |
| On camera? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Wait, the camera coming. | |
| What? | |
| Chat, chat. | |
| A lot of chat. | |
| My chat is super gay tonight. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They're all down for a while. | |
| What about one thing? | |
| Oh, they're like, yeah, I'd be gay for 24 hours for a bill. | |
| But you gay recession. | |
| You know, everyone's going to say it's tough out there. | |
| Paying for a billion, though? | |
| A billion? | |
| Shit, that's a lot of bills. | |
| A bill, I mean. | |
| So would you have sex with Donald Trump for a billion dollars? | |
| Hell no. | |
| A billion? | |
| What about you? | |
| Would you have sex with? | |
| I'm not giving it all. | |
| Would you have sex with Trump? | |
| That's disgusting. | |
| A billion dollars. | |
| I just feel like I have to preface this by saying, fuck Donald Trump. | |
| Like, hell no, that man is a pedophile and a rapist. | |
| But he is. | |
| But for one bill, I would probably do it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What about you? | |
| You could change the world. | |
| Yeah, I would. | |
| I don't know. | |
| A billion dollars. | |
| He looks like Mr. Krabs out of his shell. | |
| How about this? | |
| He's disgusting. | |
| You're blindfolded. | |
| No, but it's the late afternoon in winter and the lights are off. | |
| I mean, you're just super drunk. | |
| The lights are off. | |
| I'm like extremely obliterated. | |
| And he lost like two seconds. | |
| There is a bit of light coming through. | |
| But she's deaf. | |
| She doesn't have to hear his voice or his grunt. | |
| It's like this. | |
| And it's like two seconds. | |
| It's just like in and out. | |
| He has a lot really. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm sure that's how long. | |
| But it's evening time, so it's like twilight. | |
| So there's some light coming through the window. | |
| Where are we right now, Brian? | |
| There's like a slight glow on his face. | |
| So disturbed. | |
| It's so sterile. | |
| Okay. | |
| Question. | |
| Natalia, Natalia. | |
| Let's see. | |
| You said you really want to stop the Venzone war before it starts, an all-out war. | |
| You're concerned it'll get much worse after the holidays. | |
| You believe you could potentially prevent wars with healthier food and detoxing. | |
| Yeah, I think, you know, I think there's something to that. | |
| If people are healthier, I think that would be good for geopolitics. | |
| Your hypothesis, toxic chemicals have you believe Trump has toxic chemicals because of McDonald's and like other stuff, and it makes him angry and emotional. | |
| In 30 seconds, describe the toxic chemical hypothesis. | |
| Okay, so the big thing is that when it's a synthetic chemical, our body doesn't recognize it very well. | |
| So it stores in the body. | |
| It stores in the fat and the bone. | |
| It stores in the brain. | |
| Examples are pesticides, plastic, forever chemicals, heavy metals. | |
| There's not any mean comments, by the way. | |
| You've been covering your eyes. | |
| I don't think there's really been any mean comments for. | |
| They call me the story. | |
| That's called black and the haters. | |
| They just can't even. | |
| She can't even see us. | |
| They hate us because they ain't us. | |
| She prayed to! | |
| They hate us because they ain't us. | |
| She prayed to God to blind the haters. | |
| They hate us because they ain't us. | |
| Oh, my soul. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I did not mean to interrupt you, my dear. | |
| Continue. | |
| You were talking about storm fet, and so you have 15 more seconds. | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| So if you look at how pesticides interact with the gut microbiome, it kills off the gut microbiome, killing off lactobacillus. | |
| And that reduces the amount of GABA hormone that goes to the brain. | |
| So you have more anxiety if you're not eating organic food. | |
| But if you're eating probiotics, then you can reduce your anxiety and think more clearly and perhaps not think of protecting yourself with money rather than protecting yourself with Jesus Christ and natural healing and dealing with your pain and everything. | |
| Like there's so many people that deal with pain and they don't fix the root causes. | |
| Sorry. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| You know, like red 40 is tied to like aggressive aggression in people and like ADHD. | |
| Hey, look, I think eating healthy or eating poorly has a really bad impact on a lot of things. | |
| You said that hypothetically Trump may be able to speak to God if he had amazing nutrition and avoided McDonald's. | |
| I am not an expert because there's people that claim to be psychics who are not as not very healthy. | |
| Are you psychic? | |
| I believe I'm probably psychic, but I so like, sorry. | |
| So the pineal glands calcified, and that's what people say is the antenna basically for people to be able to communicate to different minds and everything and to communicate with God better. | |
| So that's why I'm eating magnesium like crazy and trying to avoid fluoride and trying to avoid toxic chemicals as much as I can. | |
| But then my exercise hasn't been very great lately or whatever. | |
| Like I'm not the healthiest I could be, but it's not 100% about health. | |
| It's also like God can just like do so much amazing healing where it's like, wow, you just decalcified my pineal gland. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| Now I can communicate with you better. | |
| And those chemicals do a lot of the effect of the chemicals in our food that are in non-organic foods, they do calcify your pineal gland, which if you don't believe in spiritual powers and psychic and stuff, it also like physically makes you less motivated. | |
| The fuck up. | |
| Less motivated to follow through with tasks and all sorts of things like that. | |
| So the calcification of it is affecting people either way. | |
| You also wrote, you think you could maybe help convince him to eat probiotics to improve his mental health. | |
| By improving his mental health, it may prevent wars. | |
| You're just too hopeful. | |
| You think Venezuela is just the first war for now and that we may have more wars at this rate? | |
| Yeah, not the first war, but like one of the next wars where it's like, okay, Venezuela, then what about Greenland? | |
| And what's the next like oil mine? | |
| Sorry. | |
| So I'm not a great health expert. | |
| There's so many better people than me. | |
| There's so many better people that are great sources on the Bible and all sorts of things. | |
| And I want the Trump administration to allow more excellent experts to come in and help the healthcare system from its crazy demise, help the American. | |
| Alina, you said you were going to stand in front. | |
| No, she didn't say that. | |
| I don't get paid for that. | |
| I'm not doing that for free. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I will give you a $2 bill right here, right now. | |
| Do you know how much a $2 bill is worth? | |
| That's what I thought. | |
| Rule number 76, no excuses, public a job. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| Alina, no excuses. | |
| Play like a champion. | |
| You just want her to serve you because you think that's so gangster. | |
| It's not gangster. | |
| It's not a gangster. | |
| It's not a gangster. | |
| It's a gangster. | |
| She and boyfriend watches. | |
| I know your gang is con and everything like that, but it's just a little too much because it's not my job. | |
| Period. | |
| I'm about to hire you, Alina. | |
| This is your tryout. | |
| I'm telling you, if I move to California, I'll be on Skid Row. | |
| Compton, if I'm really lucky, like Alina, yo, Mary, can she crash with you for a bit? | |
| You're going to crash with Mary. | |
| We got you. | |
| We got you hooked up. | |
| And we're going to get you. | |
| We're going to get you, man. | |
| You're going to start doing content with us. | |
| Like, for real, for real. | |
| Like, I was before a woman who shall not be named departed the podcast. | |
| We were going to do some gangster shit, but it wasn't meant to be. | |
| You just got in the way. | |
| Why were you doing this? | |
| That's kind of crazy. | |
| Can you please not be disrespectful to other people's culture? | |
| When did I do that? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I didn't. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| So, anyways, I'm just saying we were going to do some, we were about to go on a generational run with some different formats on the whatever podcast, the whatever channel. | |
| You're going to be the replacement, and you're going to fucking kill that shit harder than anybody possibly could. | |
| Are you ready for this? | |
| Are you ready to change your life? | |
| Because I'm ready. | |
| Look, I was born ready, but when that happens, that's when I'll stand in front of the camera. | |
| It's happening right now. | |
| This is your moment. | |
| Mom, spaghetti, knees, cold arms, weeks. | |
| How's it fucking go? | |
| How's it fucking going? | |
| I thought that was John Wigger. | |
| You supposed to notice. | |
| It's been a minute since I'm going to be able to do it. | |
| How's it go? | |
| He's ready to drop bombs. | |
| I'm on his sweater already. | |
| But he's too nervous. | |
| Who just helping the mood? | |
| No, but what's the part about it's the moment. | |
| What's the part about the moment? | |
| You only got one shot tonight. | |
| The 10th of the world, yes. | |
| This is opportunity. | |
| It's in a lifetime, Leonardo. | |
| You know. | |
| We got there. | |
| Yes. | |
| MM, Slim Shady, yo. | |
| You want me to stand in front of the camera or my life is over? | |
| It's the beginning of your career, girl. | |
| It's the beginning of a beautiful, beautiful partnership between Russia and the whatever podcast. | |
| Look, I have a Russia-United States friendship pin. | |
| There's no friendship. | |
| So I'm not going to jail because I'm all for friendship. | |
| She's not going to jail. | |
| All right. | |
| Anyways, well, I guess. | |
| So you're hired. | |
| You're already hired, Alina. | |
| Do you want to do that? | |
| Congratulations. | |
| Do it, girl. | |
| Do it. | |
| Yo, chat, should she do it? | |
| Yo, chat, are we going to? | |
| Do we have, have we hired a new, are we going to hire a new sidekick for the whatever podcast? | |
| I hope it's not. | |
| Wear this forever, and then you have to do it. | |
| You have to wear it. | |
| I'm selling it. | |
| I'm selling it. | |
| Okay, where the fuck were we? | |
| We were doing. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| We're all done with the notes. | |
| We just have the rapid fire segment. | |
| Do you want to do the read the rapid fire questions? | |
| You know what I'm talking about? | |
| So what I'm going to have you do, you're going to like read, read them from, hold on. | |
| Okay, starting here. | |
| And then like, but try not to like, as you read it, like just look at it, have it in your brain, and then look at them as you read it. | |
| Like, don't be reading it off the computer, if that makes sense. | |
| Name three countries besides the USA. | |
| Cambodia, Thailand, Laos. | |
| You can't repeat next. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| All of us are writing down. | |
| We're going one by one. | |
| And try to be quick because what did you say? | |
| This is our final screen. | |
| Cambodia, Thailand, Laos. | |
| Countries? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Come on. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm scared. | |
| What's scared? | |
| It's name three countries. | |
| Come on. | |
| You can name some. | |
| Come on. | |
| You can name three. | |
| No. | |
| I did it wrong. | |
| You can't. | |
| You're not. | |
| Did what wrong? | |
| This answer in some way. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Take a deep breath. | |
| Three countries. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm scared. | |
| Denmark, China. | |
| Switzerland. | |
| Beautiful. | |
| Next? | |
| Serbia, Netherlands, Ireland. | |
| Yep. | |
| Russia, Germany, Japan. | |
| By the way, you're not allowed to repeat from anybody previously. | |
| Did she say Switzerland? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Africa. | |
| Okay, what else? | |
| That's a continent. | |
| In my modernization, I've been thinking of all the continents. | |
| What else? | |
| Two more countries. | |
| Africa's one. | |
| What's the other? | |
| Alaska. | |
| That's a state. | |
| That is a state. | |
| It's part of U.S. territory. | |
| Okay, two more. | |
| I'm done. | |
| Come on. | |
| You're welcome. | |
| Then fine. | |
| Keep going. | |
| Keep going. | |
| Africa is the continent. | |
| And we learned that. | |
| So you still don't need to name three countries. | |
| Where's my dad? | |
| Three to go. | |
| We can't move on. | |
| Australia. | |
| Yep, perfect. | |
| One more? | |
| Two more? | |
| They said Greece. | |
| I don't think it's been said. | |
| Greece. | |
| Yeah, Greece. | |
| America. | |
| Yep, we'll take it. | |
| You Madagascar, New Zealand, Morocco. | |
| Beautiful. | |
| Sudan, Algeria, Angola. | |
| Poland, Portugal, Belarus. | |
| Well done. | |
| And you'll just keep going down the list. | |
| How many continents are there? | |
| Seven? | |
| And name one. | |
| Yeah, starting over here, name one continent. | |
| I believe it's seven. | |
| I did geography and elementary, and then what was the second part of the question? | |
| Name one. | |
| Name one continent. | |
| Name one continent. | |
| Antarctica. | |
| Okay. | |
| Africa. | |
| Asia. | |
| Excuse me, sorry. | |
| Europe. | |
| Korea. | |
| I was going to do Asia. | |
| You guys don't know the song? | |
| Well, somebody did more than one. | |
| Somebody did more than one, so I mean, you can. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Asia. | |
| Africa. | |
| South America. | |
| Wait, didn't somebody already say that? | |
| I said somebody. | |
| Well, I said Asia already. | |
| No, she said multiple ones, is what I meant. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| You can't repeat. | |
| Well, there's only okay. | |
| This already got fucked up. | |
| All right, we're gonna have to do the next one. | |
| I'm trying not to talk about it. | |
| What's your country's border the USA? | |
| Wait, starting with you. | |
| Okay, border the USA, Canada, and Mexico. | |
| Okay. | |
| How many states are in the U.S.? | |
| Is that my question? | |
| 50. | |
| What's the capital of the U.S.? | |
| Washington, D.C. How many stars are on the U.S. flag? | |
| 50. | |
| What is 34 plus 66? | |
| Mary, you got to make sure that it's on her when she's asking the question. | |
| Let's do ask it to Samantha. | |
| What is 34 plus 66? | |
| 34 plus 66. | |
| Closer to the mic. | |
| 34 plus 66. | |
| 34 plus 66. | |
| 99. | |
| 98. | |
| 9 100. | |
| I don't know. | |
| 34 plus 66. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody help. | |
| No, nobody help. | |
| She's there, though. | |
| She got it. | |
| She got it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The third time. | |
| Wait, can you post? | |
| Posture. | |
| Into the mic. | |
| 100. | |
| What century are we in? | |
| 21st. | |
| How many is in one dozen? | |
| 12. | |
| What year was the U.S. founded? | |
| I know the answer to that. | |
| Okay. | |
| 1982. | |
| 1882. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Wait, wait, hold on, hold on. | |
| You know the answer? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Let's let her answer. | |
| Ocean blue. | |
| Something else. | |
| You're the one who jumped in and said you knew, girl. | |
| I don't know the answer. | |
| 1982. | |
| I don't know. | |
| 18. | |
| The United States was founded in 1982. | |
| Damn it. | |
| It was a joke question. | |
| That was a joke answer, obviously. | |
| So if Columbus sailed. | |
| 1492. | |
| 1492. | |
| That's when he discovered it. | |
| Sailed the ocean blue in 1492. | |
| That's the question, right? | |
| But that's like the riddle to answer the question, isn't it? | |
| Isn't it like Columbus sailed the ocean? | |
| I'm trying to think what band was popular in 1982. | |
| Kiss. | |
| It was Queen. | |
| Or was Queen? | |
| Kiss, Def Leopard. | |
| It was Glamross. | |
| It was Queen later 80s. | |
| I think Queen was later 80. | |
| Probably Aerosmith. | |
| Duran Duran, Arrowsman. | |
| Well, Freddie Mercury. | |
| That's when Columbus. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| The United States. | |
| They were both alive in time. | |
| Not so much on Queen game. | |
| Not so much on Queen. | |
| Who was founded? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's. | |
| Anybody else want to take a crack when the U.S. was founded? | |
| What about you? | |
| 17 something? | |
| 1776. | |
| Yeah, that's going to be in 92. | |
| This one? | |
| Who? | |
| Who was the first president of the U.S.? | |
| We skipped one, but George Washington. | |
| Abraham Lincoln. | |
| Who did the U.S. gain its independence from? | |
| Who did? | |
| Who did the U.S. gain its independence from? | |
| England? | |
| France? | |
| France? | |
| We brought this up earlier. | |
| Really early. | |
| France, Europe? | |
| France? | |
| I think. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Damn it. | |
| Wait a minute. | |
| I gotta brush up on my. | |
| When we talked about pilgrims, we brought this up. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Getting political asylum from somebody. | |
| What country is the Great Wall of China in? | |
| Mary, for the questions, just so it's easier for my editor, just try to keep it like just here. | |
| This is the angle for because it's going to be complicated if he has to go from here like this. | |
| So just left when she asked the question, and then to whoever's answering it. | |
| Fine, China. | |
| How many inches are in a feet? | |
| In a foot? | |
| 12. | |
| How many seasons are there? | |
| Four. | |
| How many days are in a year? | |
| 365. | |
| How many letters in the alphabet? | |
| 24. | |
| 27. | |
| 26. | |
| There's 26, I think. | |
| A, B, C, D, F, G. You're so cute. | |
| You're right. | |
| How many days of the week end with the letter Y? | |
| Every? | |
| What's a shape with four sides called? | |
| Like a square? | |
| Like a square, yes. | |
| Or like a technical name. | |
| Right. | |
| Let's skip that one. | |
| This one. | |
| What a stupid question. | |
| What language do people in Idaho speak? | |
| In Idaho? | |
| Yeah, what do they speak there? | |
| French. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| It's English. | |
| You know what I know? | |
| She is. | |
| She's that girl in Me Girls who's good at having you. | |
| She's a digest. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| What ocean is California next to? | |
| The Pacific. | |
| What is half of one million? | |
| 500,000. | |
| How many years are in a decade and in a century? | |
| Decade is 10. | |
| A century is 100. | |
| If a dozen eggs cost $3, how much is each egg? | |
| Oh, all together? | |
| God, I really don't want to do math right now. | |
| You got this 12. | |
| Once each one all cost $3. | |
| Yeah, I'm not good at divining. | |
| There's six cards. | |
| It's not divisive. | |
| There's four eggs in the card then. | |
| Well, I guess it is division, but four corners. | |
| Okay, if a dozen eggs cost $3, how much is each egg? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I just don't want to do that. | |
| It's like 40 cents or some shit. | |
| I don't know. | |
| How much is $2 million? | |
| Like a million and a million. | |
| I'm just wondering if maybe like when you say two million, maybe you mean like 200,000 just because of numbers. | |
| Nah, it's like, you know, like a 1 million plus 1 million. | |
| That's like too many. | |
| That is true. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, how much is a dozen? | |
| A dozen is 12. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So if a dozen eggs, 12 eggs, 12 eggs. | |
| 12 eggs are $3 is, excuse me, is $3. | |
| How much is each egg? | |
| How about this? | |
| 12 divided by 3. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| I know it's 4, but it can't be $4 each. | |
| Otherwise, they have 40 cents because I just didn't feel like doing all that. | |
| I hold that. | |
| $150. | |
| $1.50 divided by $6. | |
| That's like the easiest I could get. | |
| Wait, actually, it wouldn't be $12 divided by 3. | |
| Well, I mean, that can help you get it. | |
| Well, if you cut it in half, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Or wait, wouldn't it be 3 divided by 12? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I got it mixed up. | |
| I'm screwing her over. | |
| Yeah, you are. | |
| Like, that's so much shit to do, gang. | |
| Like, I don't want to do all that here. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Let me give you a hint. | |
| Let me give you a hint. | |
| How much is four eggs? | |
| What, like, out of the three? | |
| If a dozen eggs costs three dollars, how much is four eggs? | |
| Four, four, four. | |
| That's a third. | |
| So right, I'm getting there. | |
| Trust me. | |
| I just hate math. | |
| A dozen eggs is three dollars. | |
| Yeah, a thousand. | |
| How much is four eggs? | |
| So each batch would be like one dollar. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like of that third. | |
| Yeah, and then from there, if four eggs costs one dollar, how much is each egg? | |
| Okay, 25. | |
| There we go. | |
| I should be a math teacher. | |
| Period, girl. | |
| What is the closest star to Earth? | |
| That's for you, Natalia. | |
| Gosh, it's the sun. | |
| Correct. | |
| How many degrees is in the full rotation of a circle? | |
| 360 degrees. | |
| This one, here, do this one. | |
| That'll be for her. | |
| If you're walking perfect north and you turn 90 degrees, which direction are you now going? | |
| Perfect north and you turn 90 degrees. | |
| Which way? | |
| Which direction are you going? | |
| Which way are you now going? | |
| Can't you be going two different directions if you turn 90 degrees? | |
| You can only be going one direction. | |
| You turn right 90 degrees. | |
| So you're going north, you turn right 90 degrees. | |
| 90 degrees is like a perfect this, right? | |
| So I'm going north and I turn this way. | |
| So I'm going east. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But if you turn the other way, you have you're going west. | |
| So that's why I was saying. | |
| But if she turned right, right. | |
| Well, that's why I asked what way she turned. | |
| We turned. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because you acted like it could only be one way. | |
| But either way, one would be west, one would be east. | |
| Well, you'd have to turn left for it to be. | |
| Well, I know, but she didn't say that at first. | |
| No, she said turn right. | |
| Anyways, whatever. | |
| This one? | |
| Do you know what year the War of 1812 started? | |
| 1812. | |
| What country is the Panama Canal in? | |
| Panama. | |
| Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place? | |
| You? | |
| Pearl Harbor. | |
| God. | |
| Where did it take place? | |
| Oh, where did it take place? | |
| Yeah, where, the location. | |
| I always get it mixed up with the Boston Tea Party. | |
| Um, I don't know. | |
| I gotta go. | |
| Massachusetts. | |
| Help me redeem myself. | |
| Don't, don't. | |
| Boston? | |
| Boston. | |
| Would that be Massachusetts? | |
| Hey, don't help. | |
| No fucking hints. | |
| I didn't. | |
| I did it. | |
| You said. | |
| Wait, so okay, hold on. | |
| The attack of Pearl Harbor took place in Boston. | |
| Is that your answer? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I really don't. | |
| I'll tell you what, let's say this. | |
| That first guess is incorrect. | |
| Let's go with a second guess. | |
| Don't fucking, don't fucking. | |
| I hate it so bad. | |
| I literally don't know. | |
| Just guess another guess. | |
| Give us two more guesses. | |
| A harbor? | |
| Alaska? | |
| Just guess. | |
| Guess anywhere. | |
| I'll give you a hint. | |
| It's in the United States. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Guess, guess. | |
| Baton Rouge? | |
| I don't know. | |
| It ain't nowhere in the south. | |
| It's somewhere in the north. | |
| I just don't know. | |
| North. | |
| I don't know. | |
| In Canada? | |
| No, like in the north of America. | |
| Yes, you're right. | |
| What province of Canada did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Guess, guess. | |
| Was it Toronto? | |
| Here, I'll give you three options. | |
| Vancouver, Montreal, Toronto. | |
| That's not America. | |
| I know, but I'm telling you. | |
| You said in the North. | |
| Okay, I meant the North and I'm like the Northeast America. | |
| Was it Detroit? | |
| Was it Chicago? | |
| I think Chicago, think about it. | |
| Detroit, Chicago. | |
| There is a Great Lakes around there. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So what? | |
| What do you want me to say? | |
| Just guess, guess. | |
| Two locations. | |
| Random. | |
| Just guess any two locations. | |
| Okay, I said one for Boston, Massachusetts, or I don't know. | |
| What's the other two? | |
| I'm going to give you one. | |
| Give me two. | |
| I'm going to give you one. | |
| Okay, give me one more then. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Rhode Island? | |
| Pearl Harbor attack took place in Rhode Island. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| I'm not into history. | |
| The only reason I know is because I visited it. | |
| You did? | |
| Is it possible? | |
| Like, do you think maybe it took place in Japan or something? | |
| It could have because I always get mixed up like the Boston Tea Party. | |
| I know that it happened because of the Japanese, but I don't know. | |
| Wait, the Boston Tea Party happened because of the Japanese? | |
| Like, I heard the Boston Tea Party was like, it was like a retaliation type thing. | |
| Like, the Japanese did that. | |
| And then we did the Sherashama, some shit like that at the bottom of it. | |
| Wait, so. | |
| The bombing of Nagasaki and Hiroshima is a result of the Japanese attack dubbed the Boston Tea Party. | |
| Is that what it is? | |
| The attack on Boston? | |
| The Japanese attack on Boston. | |
| There was something like that. | |
| The Boston Tea Party when they poured all the tea in it. | |
| Was the Japanese attack on Boston the precipitating factor in the U.S. entry to World War II? | |
| That's the real question. | |
| No, I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| Was the Japanese attack on Boston what resulted in the United States going to war to World War I? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Was the Japanese attack on Boston the what led to the Vietnam War? | |
| What? | |
| No. | |
| I mean, it makes sense. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It's likely because I don't know the Japanese probably didn't do the boss of tea party. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| What country did the Vietnam War happen in? | |
| That's for you. | |
| 1977. | |
| Can you read the question one more time? | |
| What country did happen in this? | |
| Yeah, what country? | |
| Vietnam. | |
| There you go. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's a quarter of an hour? | |
| That's for you. | |
| You got this. | |
| 15. | |
| 50? | |
| 15. | |
| Oh, yeah, you got it. | |
| What's 100 minus 34? | |
| For you. | |
| More math. | |
| 100 minus 34. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No help. | |
| 76. | |
| Do you want no? | |
| Do you want to guess again? | |
| 100 minus 34. | |
| 100 minus 34. | |
| How much is that? | |
| Guess. | |
| 76. | |
| 5 seconds. | |
| Are you wrong? | |
| 5 seconds. | |
| Guess the next? | |
| 100 minus 34. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What is it? | |
| Maybe like... | |
| 56. What is 3 times 3 plus 1? | |
| For you. | |
| 3 times 10. | |
| Is this like a joke? | |
| Like, it's 10. | |
| Hey, some people. | |
| What's 3 times 3 times 3? | |
| 3 times 3 times 3. | |
| 18. | |
| 12. | |
| 9. | |
| What's the question? | |
| 3 times 3 times 3. | |
| 3 times 3 times 3. | |
| 27. | |
| 3 cubed? | |
| Yep. | |
| She got it. | |
| This one. | |
| If yes is spelled Y E S, then what does E Y E S spell? | |
| E Y E S. What does it spell? | |
| ES. | |
| So repeat the question again. | |
| E Y E S. If yes, if yes is spelled Y E S, then what does E Y E S spell? | |
| Say it again. | |
| ES. | |
| Yes. | |
| ES. | |
| Anybody, how about you? | |
| Eyes. | |
| Into the mic button. | |
| Eyes. | |
| Eyes, it's eyes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today? | |
| If I was born how many? | |
| What? | |
| Years ago? | |
| If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today? | |
| I would be 10 years old. | |
| Quicker on the transitions, please. | |
| How many world wars were there? | |
| For you. | |
| Two. | |
| What decade was World War I? | |
| Yeah, we'll go around the table on this. | |
| What decade was World War I? | |
| God, I just hate this. | |
| He's asking us. | |
| I haven't heard this since 5 p.m. | |
| Y'all. | |
| It was like no food. | |
| Very good. | |
| There's food. | |
| There's cookies. | |
| There's chips. | |
| There's plain tortilla chips and cookies. | |
| That's delicious. | |
| No nutrients since 4 p.m. | |
| You know what? | |
| That's what he does. | |
| We also have pickles. | |
| Maybe you should get yourself a pickup. | |
| He's trying to make us look stupid. | |
| That is not true. | |
| I'm trying to make you guys look smart. | |
| Then maybe ask at the beginning. | |
| You know what? | |
| Because, honestly, I was trying to get this done sooner, but you guys just wanted to talk about oral sex. | |
| Is every podcast 10 hours long? | |
| It's usually eight or nine, but I want to say that you guys took a long time. | |
| Let's blast through this, though, so we can get out of here. | |
| Decade. | |
| Just guess, I guess. | |
| I'm so tired. | |
| It's the early 20th century. | |
| I don't know the answer to that right now. | |
| Was it 1918? | |
| Well, I'm asking for a decade. | |
| Yeah, what would that be in a decade? | |
| So it'd be 1910s, 1920s, 1930s, 40s. | |
| 60s, 70s, 80s. | |
| 1910s, what do you think? | |
| Right before the Roaring 20s, yeah. | |
| So 1910s? | |
| I think. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Guess. | |
| 1960s? | |
| I have no clue. | |
| Just guess. | |
| Just guess. | |
| 1600s. | |
| Beautiful. | |
| 1600s. | |
| 1900s. | |
| That would be century. | |
| Let's do decade. | |
| Like 1910, 20, 30. | |
| 1910. | |
| 1910. | |
| For World War I, 1910s? | |
| Yeah, like 1910 or 12. | |
| Okay. | |
| What was the primary decade of World War II? | |
| Starting this way. | |
| But what was the primary what? | |
| decade of world war ii um no maybe like 19... | |
| I don't know. | |
| Yes, just guess. | |
| I know, 1940s. | |
| Okay. | |
| 1940s. | |
| 1940s. | |
| Should I just listen to everyone else? | |
| That's what I remember. | |
| We can just answer the question rapid fire so I can get to the next one. | |
| Okay, sorry. | |
| I thought it was like... | |
| No, go against the grain. | |
| I thought it... | |
| Yeah, I thought it was later because my grandfather was in it. | |
| So I'm like, I don't think he was old enough. | |
| What? | |
| So what then? | |
| But maybe he was. | |
| That's what everybody else just said. | |
| Well, I'm saying I don't think he was old enough in the 40s. | |
| So you're thinking 50s or 60s? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Which one? | |
| 60s. | |
| I think it was 1940s. | |
| Okay. | |
| Can you name three K-pop stars? | |
| No. | |
| Like, like, like Black Pink or some shit? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like either the people in the band or I guess you could name three different K-pop groups. | |
| Okay. | |
| Jenny, Rose, and Yisu. | |
| Huntrix, Haja Boys, and Love Pink. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I know Johnny, she's great. | |
| Okay, let's do this one. | |
| We're skipping that. | |
| This. | |
| Can you name three Kardashians? | |
| Kendall, Kylie, Courtney. | |
| Okay, almost done. | |
| Have you ever gotten flowers from a man? | |
| Yes. | |
| Actually, we're going to skip that one. | |
| Let's start here. | |
| What percentage of men do you think are over six feet? | |
| I've seen this so many times on here, like what you think it's a lot lower. | |
| I don't know. | |
| But what? | |
| Less than, I don't know, maybe less than 10%. | |
| Okay. | |
| 10%, I guess. | |
| I don't know, maybe like 15. | |
| Okay. | |
| Around 10%. | |
| Probably like 5%. | |
| I think like 10%. | |
| I don't even remember what you said. | |
| Super low. | |
| What percentage of men make at least $1 million per year? | |
| It's a good question for you because you want to date a guy who makes $2 million per year. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like way less than 1%. | |
| That's like 0. | |
| Maybe about 0.3%? | |
| I don't know, less than 1%. | |
| 2%? | |
| Less than 5%. | |
| Probably 2%. | |
| Less than 2%. | |
| What percentage of men have yachts? | |
| Less than 1%? | |
| Less than 1%? | |
| Less than 1%. | |
| Less than 1. | |
| Less than 5. | |
| Less than one. | |
| Send like the decibels. | |
| Do you keep a list of all the men you've slept with? | |
| Be honest. | |
| Used to. | |
| Used to. | |
| Anybody? | |
| Just show of hands. | |
| Anybody? | |
| Okay. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Let me see which one's next. | |
| Here, let's do this. | |
| Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them? | |
| Yes. | |
| L. | |
| I think I have. | |
| Okay. | |
| No. | |
| Yes. | |
| Once. | |
| Yes, before Christ. | |
| No. | |
| Quick. | |
| How quick. | |
| Quick, have you ever slept with someone? | |
| Didn't I just say that? | |
| No, you're just answering if you slept with someone on the same day you met them. | |
| This is just asking how quick. | |
| Like an hour or five minutes. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh. | |
| Was it five minutes? | |
| No, like how long did it take for you guys to like sleep together? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Okay, from meeting them, if you suck with them the same day, from meeting them to having sex with them. | |
| Honestly, I'm trying to think if I've actually ever done that. | |
| I don't know if I've actually ever done that. | |
| So I'm. | |
| I'll actually answer this question. | |
| Or should I answer this question? | |
| I'm typically kind of... | |
| Hmm. | |
| Do it. | |
| Uh... | |
| Probably less than an hour. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Why not? | |
| I'll be honest. | |
| I'll be honest. | |
| Anyone had a threesome? | |
| Wait, wait, no, no, no. | |
| We're going to do this question. | |
| The same one? | |
| That I just answered. | |
| The amount of time. | |
| Probably like within six hours. | |
| About three days. | |
| Pass. | |
| A couple hours, maybe like more than five. | |
| W, Samantha. | |
| Yes, gosh. | |
| How quick? | |
| What was the question again? | |
| From meeting the guy to having sex with him, how quick? | |
| The same day. | |
| Okay, but that could mean one hour, 24 hours. | |
| What's the quickest? | |
| One hour? | |
| from meat to sex um gosh it's like when you're drunk i think it was less than six hours so Okay, what will you? | |
| Maybe like a month. | |
| Alina? | |
| It was months. | |
| Anyone here had a threesome? | |
| Show of hands. | |
| More than the threesome? | |
| More than foursome? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, so you've not had a threesome, but you've had a foursome? | |
| I've done a lot of things. | |
| I didn't want to talk about it, but here I go. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It's just to show that people can don't have to be embarrassed about things and you could always turn the tide following Christ. | |
| You could be a sinner and move to Christ. | |
| Was it a guy, guy, girl threesome? | |
| Guy, guy, girl. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Both. | |
| I've done both. | |
| Okay, you've done both. | |
| Okay. | |
| But you've done a guy, guy, two guys. | |
| Preferably guy, guy, girl. | |
| You prefer two guy. | |
| You've done more than well. | |
| I've done it where there's two girls, one guy, and I've done it where there's two guys. | |
| But you've had multiple of those kinds of threesomes. | |
| I've had a couple. | |
| A couple threesomes. | |
| How many guy, guy, girl threesomes? | |
| Just one. | |
| How many girl, girl, guy threesomes? | |
| Two. | |
| Okay. | |
| Anyone had a ho phase? | |
| Raise your hand. | |
| Ho faze? | |
| Ho faze. | |
| Samantha? | |
| I text people. | |
| I don't really like sleep with them. | |
| Oh, yeah, does texting go? | |
| Or like talking? | |
| I don't think. | |
| I think to be a hoe, you at least gotta at least gotta give a guy handy or something. | |
| Like at least. | |
| Ask this. | |
| Has anyone in here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period? | |
| Separately? | |
| No. | |
| Three guys? | |
| Two guys, 24 hours? | |
| I don't think I know. | |
| Sammy? | |
| I don't think I know. | |
| I don't think I'm gonna. | |
| Be honest, Sammy. | |
| Sammy? | |
| I don't think so. | |
| Sammy? | |
| I think I might have. | |
| Sammy? | |
| I would like remember. | |
| Sammy? | |
| Okay. | |
| Homegirl. | |
| Natalia. | |
| Have you had sex with two men in a 24-hour period? | |
| Not including threesomes or whatever. | |
| Before Christ, BC. | |
| Avec le français avant le Christe. | |
| I love her. | |
| I'm not trying to relate that. | |
| Like I said, don't follow my footsteps on the back side. | |
| Are men the problem for you? | |
| Are men the problem? | |
| No. | |
| Anybody think men are the problem? | |
| Do men suck? | |
| A majority. | |
| A majority of men suck. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What is the majority? | |
| 60%, 70%? | |
| More than 50%. | |
| More than 51%. | |
| Is it 60 or what? | |
| How many men suck? | |
| It's probably like only like 25% don't. | |
| I would say. | |
| Like maybe 30%. | |
| You just said it was a majority. | |
| Like don't. | |
| That don't suck. | |
| So like 70% suck. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think like 70% suck. | |
| Okay. | |
| 70% suck. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you think men suck? | |
| No. | |
| Men suck? | |
| No. | |
| Do men suck? | |
| Sometimes. | |
| Sometimes. | |
| Is it a majority? | |
| Do you think it's like 70% like how they say? | |
| Nah. | |
| So, Samantha, 70% of men suck. | |
| Is that correct? | |
| I think so, yeah. | |
| You know what? | |
| Tell me my answer. | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| 70%? | |
| Yeah. | |
| 70%. | |
| Do you agree, disagree? | |
| Like 64%? | |
| 5%, 10%. | |
| 70% of men suck. | |
| What percentage do women suck? | |
| Yeah, the same amount. | |
| Same amount of women suck or lower? | |
| Is it lower? | |
| Is it lower for women? | |
| Same for women? | |
| Into the mics if you can. | |
| Probably the same. | |
| Final stretch here, guys. | |
| Are men trash? | |
| The same amount that suck. | |
| 70% of the men are trash? | |
| Okay, fine. | |
| Maybe only like don't let me influence your men are trash. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What percent? | |
| At least 65. | |
| Samantha? | |
| I would say like at least like 40 of them are absolute like dumpster fire garbage and then like maybe like 50% are like just like bad people. | |
| Bad. | |
| Bad people. | |
| Like bad people. | |
| Bad people. | |
| Bots people. | |
| Bad people. | |
| Bots people. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Wow. | |
| I'm disheartened to hear hear this. | |
| We got some real misandras here at the table. | |
| Majority of men suck. | |
| 70% of men are trash. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Y'all crazy. | |
| But people in general. | |
| I don't think that's good. | |
| I think most people are good. | |
| Most? | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| I don't know. | |
| How about this? | |
| I think this is the final question. | |
| Is it the final question? | |
| Let's have a group prayer. | |
| Praise Jesus real quick. | |
| Full circle back. | |
| Okay, sorry. | |
| There's a few more. | |
| But we're almost there. | |
| I swear I'm almost there. | |
| Final, final stretch. | |
| It's the final. | |
| It's the final. | |
| Ta-da-da. | |
| Ta-da. | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| It's so fun. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's wrap it up. | |
| Let's get it. | |
| I agree. | |
| I agree. | |
| To my two women here who think men are trash and men suck. | |
| If you could snap your finger and all men disappeared and women could reproduce without men. | |
| So all men gone. | |
| Now, maybe they don't disappear. | |
| You could also opt to, they just go to an island somewhere. | |
| We could go visit them. | |
| If not, I guess if you wanted to, but. | |
| I mean, I would want to. | |
| All men disappeared. | |
| Would you do it? | |
| I'm attracted to men. | |
| So I think that would suck. | |
| I think that would suck a world. | |
| How about if you were a lesbian? | |
| If I was lesbian, hell yeah. | |
| I mean, when you're gay, you know. | |
| But you're straight, right? | |
| I'm straight, yeah. | |
| Okay, so would you snap your fingers all men disappeared? | |
| No. | |
| Why? | |
| Because I like boys. | |
| But you could reproduce without men. | |
| I'm sexually attracted to boys. | |
| I'm not going to like the girls that are. | |
| But if you were a lesbian, you'd be here like, fuck it. | |
| Send them to the island. | |
| I mean, I guess so. | |
| All right. | |
| Not really, though. | |
| I feel like that's inhumane. | |
| If there were no moral obligation behind it. | |
| Just a little bit. | |
| How about this? | |
| Oh, boy. | |
| Did we go here? | |
| Do you think white people are inherently racist? | |
| Me? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do I think white people are inherently racist? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, hateful towards people of other races? | |
| No, they're just inherently racist. | |
| Well, what does that mean to you? | |
| No, do you think that? | |
| Well, that's what I'm saying. | |
| Does that mean that they're inherently hateful towards people of the other race? | |
| Sure, it could be. | |
| Or prejudice or all white people. | |
| Do you think white people are inherently racist? | |
| I don't think that's a natural thing that comes naturally to people. | |
| I think that's a taut thing. | |
| You think it's just nurture? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What do you think, Samantha? | |
| Do any the other girls want to weigh in? | |
| What do you think? | |
| No, they're not. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| I was just going by who he was calling. | |
| What do you think? | |
| I don't think racist is the word. | |
| Okay, we'll move on. | |
| What do you think about white people? | |
| What? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Okay. | |
| What about white people? | |
| Do you like white people? | |
| I don't really spend my time thinking about white people. | |
| But do you like white people? | |
| Do you dislike white people? | |
| I like people based off if they have good spirits and good energy. | |
| I don't really care what they look like. | |
| I don't really care if they're black, white, brown. | |
| That's purple. | |
| I find that like, I don't know, some people have an issue with white people. | |
| Especially white women, white liberal women. | |
| For some reason, don't seem to like white people. | |
| It's weird. | |
| I think white people, to some degree, culturally, just looking at history, there is an innate, almost kind of genetic thing where they need to dominate. | |
| A genetic wait, for white people? | |
| Yeah. | |
| They need to dominate. | |
| Yes. | |
| I do. | |
| I don't know about that. | |
| That's kind of the men thing. | |
| Is that just human nature? | |
| That's just a men thing. | |
| No, because I don't think anybody to any other culture, to any capacity, has done what the European has done. | |
| I mean, to go to all four corners of the universe and almost murder to mass extinction, that's kind of crazy. | |
| You do realize that. | |
| Those are all men, though. | |
| That's true. | |
| That's true. | |
| Women partake in a lot of atrocities, but you do realize that almost all cultures throughout history have had slaves, regardless. | |
| Not white, not just white. | |
| You had black people who were slavers. | |
| You had Arabic Middle Eastern people. | |
| Yeah, but that was a different type of slavery. | |
| In South America. | |
| A different type of slavery. | |
| The Barbary slave trade. | |
| They were abducting people, white people. | |
| So, like, I don't know how you get around that. | |
| Because I think at the end of the day, to commit mass murder the way that white people have done culturally in history, there's no other culture that's even coming close to it. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| That's what I just said. | |
| Let's look at Asians. | |
| We can look at Genghis Khan. | |
| If we look at on scale, Genghis, do you know Genghis Khan? | |
| On scale. | |
| This mother around the world. | |
| Yeah, Genghis Khan got into Europe. | |
| That was his goal for people. | |
| He got into Europe. | |
| Great. | |
| Europe got into South America. | |
| Europe got into Australia. | |
| Did you see what they did to the indigenous people there? | |
| Did you see what they did to America? | |
| Hold on. | |
| I'm talking about that. | |
| Do you think that the white conquests into the Americas was more or less barbaric than the Mongolian conquests? | |
| Okay, I don't know about the Mongolian conquests. | |
| But I'm talking about these people. | |
| They were fucking brutal. | |
| I'm not saying they weren't brutal. | |
| I'm saying that white people have gone to. | |
| I'm talking about on scale around the world where they've gone and they've mass murdered to literal Asian people. | |
| Muslims did that too. | |
| Muslims. | |
| They went around the world and colonized. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| The Muslims were like snatching up the Muslims. | |
| Yeah, where they were, though. | |
| No, the Muslims were snatching up, I think, even as far women in fucking Ireland and all over the place, all over Europe. | |
| It is not to the same capacity. | |
| It's not to the same. | |
| Snatching up white people. | |
| It's nowhere else. | |
| It's giving up white people, making them slaves. | |
| It's not even close. | |
| Trust me, the Barbary slave trade lasted way longer. | |
| Oh, come on. | |
| I didn't say anything about slavery. | |
| Google the Barbary slave trade just for white. | |
| I didn't say anything about slavery. | |
| That's a different type of slavery. | |
| You know why it looks like slavery? | |
| I mean a different type of slavery. | |
| There's a different type of slavery when the slavery that... | |
| Oh, it was worse. | |
| It was worse. | |
| The type of slavery. | |
| You were. | |
| The type of slavery that in the Barbary slave trade was worse than the African slave trade in the United States. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, the Wikipedia, please show it. | |
| Look, just to be clear, the African slave trade was terrible, but it involved the capture of Europeans and selling them at slave markets in the Ottoman Barbary states of North Africa. | |
| Europeans were captured by Barbary corsairs in slave raids on ships on coastal towns from Italy to Ireland, coast of Spain, Portugal, as far north as Iceland, and into the eastern Mediterranean. | |
| Can we get dates for it? | |
| Scroll down. | |
| It continued as late as the 18th century. | |
| It came to an end in the early years of the 19th century. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| When did it start? | |
| Let's look at the extent. | |
| Extent really quick. | |
| Scroll down. | |
| The barbarous. | |
| 35,000 slaves. | |
| Right. | |
| Held throughout the 17th century. | |
| It's probably more. | |
| Come on. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| But when the fact is in your face, though. | |
| Well, triple E. 1 million to 1.25 million enslaved Europeans. | |
| How are these numbers so different? | |
| Wait, I'm confused. | |
| How does it go from like 35,000 to 1 million? | |
| Because that's Wikipedia. | |
| I think that says through the 17th century was 35,000. | |
| That's just the place in the 16th century. | |
| 17th century. | |
| So the beginning of it is more a million. | |
| Right. | |
| To 1.2 million. | |
| And it's gone to 1.1 million, 1.25. | |
| 250-year period. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Millions. | |
| That's 1.25 million. | |
| 1.25. | |
| That's the fuck tong. | |
| Right. | |
| That's no comparison at all. | |
| So what? | |
| What do you mean to at all? | |
| That's the one. | |
| Which one? | |
| What do you mean to which one? | |
| There's literally. | |
| Do you know how many slaves were killed just when you just when they were taking them to America? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Let's Google it. | |
| Google it. | |
| Google it. | |
| Google it, please. | |
| How many, what was the, for the American slave slave? | |
| That's not even the Holocaust. | |
| That's not even the Holocaust. | |
| That's not even comparable. | |
| It's pretty bad. | |
| It's pretty bad. | |
| Let's see what it was for the American African slave trade. | |
| Maybe it's more. | |
| Maybe it's less. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Let's just see. | |
| Let's find out. | |
| Estimates suggest 1.2 to 2.4 million Africans died during the middle. | |
| Wait. | |
| No, but how many were taken slaves? | |
| Just curious. | |
| How many were taking slaves? | |
| That's just on the sea journey? | |
| Yeah, that's just on the sea journey. | |
| Can we get a wiki? | |
| Is there a wiki maybe? | |
| I mean, AI should be fun. | |
| How many slaves were like total taken or whatever? | |
| 12.5 mil. | |
| Hey, you know, I can admit if I was incorrect a little bit more. | |
| What is that? | |
| But that's just the black people. | |
| I can admit when I'm wrong. | |
| That's just the black people. | |
| I can admit when I'm wrong. | |
| You know, I was wrong with the numbers. | |
| I'm just saying. | |
| That's why I'm saying. | |
| I'm not saying that they're the evil of that kind. | |
| I was wrong on that specific fact. | |
| I was incorrect. | |
| I'm not saying that white people are evil and they're innately evil. | |
| I'm saying that they have, I just feel like they have more of something in them where it drives them. | |
| They had ships. | |
| But they also, I mean, that's not comparable either. | |
| I mean, okay, here. | |
| I think we will. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Do you want to finish your point? | |
| No, you can let it go. | |
| I made mine. | |
| I was going to say, final fun thing. | |
| Make a machine gun noise. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Because apparently women can't make machine gun noises. | |
| Machine guns noise. | |
| Definitely can't. | |
| Well done. | |
| I can't do it. | |
| You can't. | |
| That was terrible. | |
| Part of me wants to do something really cringy. | |
| Do it. | |
| Do it. | |
| The whole like. | |
| No, I'm not going to do it. | |
| Do it, Sarah. | |
| That was good. | |
| That was good. | |
| Pop, bop, bop. | |
| Whoa, wait, do that again? | |
| Okay. | |
| It's like a laser gun. | |
| You want to give it a shot? | |
| I can't do that. | |
| There you go. | |
| That was the same as mine. | |
| You cannot tell me that was not the screen. | |
| Yours were scuffed. | |
| All right. | |
| We're going to wrap. | |
| Any final thoughts from any panelists? | |
| Where's my homegirl? | |
| Where's my favorite schizo? | |
| Come back here. | |
| Go listen to my music, guys. | |
| Kaylee J music. | |
| K-A-Y-L-E-E. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| K-A-Y. | |
| Go do it. | |
| Just be sometimes on YouTube. | |
| Go look at it once we get home. | |
| I'm trying to wrap. | |
| Get her to the table. | |
| Get her to the table. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Is this the longest show we've ever done? | |
| God. | |
| Probably. | |
| I blame you. | |
| You talked way too much. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Really? | |
| Also, you talk too much. | |
| That's fucked up. | |
| And you talked way too much. | |
| Too much expression coming from you. | |
| Facial expression. | |
| Yeah, you're too emotional. | |
| Too much. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, Alina, stand in front of the okay. | |
| Nice headband. | |
| Looks good. | |
| It brings out the color of your eyes. | |
| It's beautiful. | |
| Just gotta. | |
| Okay. | |
| Any final thoughts from anybody before I get this all wrapped up? | |
| Final thoughts? | |
| Free Palestine. | |
| Okay. | |
| I love you, Nessa. | |
| This was 10 hours long. | |
| Almost 10 and a half. | |
| Yes, that is correct. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, I'll do, I'll get the intro going here, guys. | |
| Am I forgetting something? | |
| Oh, hmm. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| Well, it was a good way to end the year with a long final show. | |
| I want to say GG to the panel. | |
| You guys were fantastic. | |
| Thank you guys for coming. | |
| Last call. | |
| Hit the like button, please, on your way out. | |
| Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends. | |
| I read them. | |
| Positivity is nice. | |
| Helps the algorithm. | |
| Thank you for tuning in tonight. | |
| You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Thank you to everyone who supports the show, who's a patron, who super chats, donates. | |
| We couldn't do it without you guys. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| We're going to be live again. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Maybe I'll do Whatever Wednesday on, is that the 31st? | |
| Wait, 29th, 30. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Maybe we'll do a Whatever Wednesday on New Year's Eve. | |
| Maybe. | |
| We'll see. | |
| Possibly. | |
| I'll see how I'm feeling. | |
| Otherwise, we'll be live again Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific with another dating talk. | |
| Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM at whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara. | |
| I feel like we're forgetting something. | |
| Shit. | |
| Are we forgetting? | |
| What are we forgetting? | |
| I have Twitch folder. | |
| Yeah, we'll do final Twitch call. | |
| Guys, twitch.tv/slash whatever. | |
| Drop us a follow, drop us a prime sub. | |
| 31 minutes since we last had a prime. | |
| If you enjoyed the stream, please drop us a follow here at the end of the stream if you enjoyed the stream. | |
| If you're watching on Twitch, drop us a prime sub if you have one. | |
| Let's do a check on my Instagram really quick. | |
| That'll be the final thing. | |
| Guys, drop a follow on my Instagram. | |
| I'm trying to get to 400,000 before the end of 2025. | |
| Hit refresh. | |
| I just did. | |
| Rip. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| Yeah, drop a follow. | |
| Show some love. | |
| Show some support. | |
| Trying to get to 400,000. | |
| Hit the milestone before the end of the year. | |
| That'd be epic. | |
| Any final thoughts or no? | |
| Just let us go. | |
| Follow me on Insta. | |
| KKDNA99. | |
| Yeah. | |
| By the way, didn't you say you're going to Venmo me? | |
| I am. | |
| Okay. | |
| I didn't forget. | |
| My phone's over there. | |
| Oh, and let me just. | |
| Okay, quick shout outs for people. | |
| Christopher, thank for the 10. | |
| Colin, thank for the 10 on Cash App. | |
| Troy, thank for the 10 on Vima. | |
| Thank you guys. | |
| Really appreciate it. | |
| Thank you, thank you. | |
| Mary, I swear we're forgetting. | |
| I swear we're forgetting something. | |
| What are we forgetting? | |
| What are we forgetting, Mary? | |
| Thank you. | |
| Well, I guess just some final thoughts here because it is the end of the year. | |
| It was an interesting year for the whatever podcast. | |
| Very interesting year. | |
| I shouldn't just let it go out on like a typical intro. | |
| So I want to do a bit more of a thorough thank you to the viewers. | |
| Thank you guys for watching. | |
| 2025 was a wild ride. | |
| It was a bit of a roller coaster. | |
| Thank you guys so much for tuning in. | |
| I hope you guys stick with us for 2026. | |
| Normally we take a break. | |
| I don't know if you guys know this, but we've been going just all gas, no breaks. | |
| There's not going to be any breaks. | |
| We're going to be here next Sunday. | |
| We've often taken one month, six weeks off around this time. | |
| We're just going to power through all gas, no breaks. | |
| So yeah, just keep watching, guys. | |
| Thank you guys so much for watching. | |
| It's been a whirlwind year, whirlwind entire podcast, three years. | |
| We couldn't do it without you guys. | |
| Thank you guys so much, whether you watch, whether you're a patron. | |
| Thank you guys. | |
| And I think there's some big things coming in 2026. | |
| I'm going to be stoked to have you guys here with me. | |
| What's that? | |
| Is it the longest? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I think we've maybe, I think we've, I don't know. | |
| Well, we'll see. | |
| But yeah, I'm trying to think if there's anything else. | |
| I guess really quick, I just want to thank everybody. | |
| I want to thank everyone on my team. | |
| Nick, Mary, everybody who's been on the team previously this year. | |
| I want to thank, obviously, the viewers. | |
| Thank you to the panel tonight. | |
| Of course, thank you to all the people who come on the show. | |
| But big thanks to everybody who watches. | |
| Could not do this without you guys. | |
| And I am wishing all the people on the panel. | |
| I hope you guys have a wonderful 2026. | |
| I wish you prosperity. | |
| I wish you good health. | |
| I wish you guys the best. | |
| To the viewers, I wish you all the same. | |
| I wish you prosperity, good health, and a fantastic. | |
| I think 2026 is going to be a good year. | |
| I think 2025 was rough for some people, but I think 2026 and then definitely 2027 is going to be a strong year for people. | |
| So yeah, I wish everybody a happy new year's. | |
| I hope everybody who had a good Christmas too. | |
| Anyways, I'm going to stop rambling and prattling. | |
| I hope you guys have a fantastic new year. | |
| We will see you in, unless I do the whatever Wednesday, we're going to see you in 2026. | |
| This is the next time we'll see you. | |
| So everybody have a safe new year. | |
| Have a good new year. | |
| 07s in the chat. | |
| 07s in the chat. | |
| Good night, guys. |