Whatever Podcast - Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast?! 4 Dates In 1 DAY?! HEATED Chivalry Debate!

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Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast?! 4 Dates In 1 DAY?! HEATED Chivalry Debate! | Dating Talk #266

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	Go ahead.
	Hi, I'm Marley Jay.
	I am 37.
	I just turned 37.
	I'm from Southern California, Inland Empire, originally, UCSB alumnus, and I do a variety of things.
	I call myself a 1099, so I do bartending, side gigs, booking, promoting, and DJ selecting.
	And that's just like a little selection of some of the things that I do on the side.
	Okay.
	And sorry, could you repeat your age?
	I just missed that.
	I just turned 37.
	Just turned 37.
	Happy birthday.
	Thank you.
	I read on your Instagram that, let me see the notes here.
	You describe yourself as a model.
	So do you do modeling?
	I do, so collab brand modeling, which I wouldn't call professional modeling.
	So most of the time, brands either I link them or they link me.
	A lot of times it just happens that I tag them and then it starts a relationship.
	I wouldn't say that's my mainstay.
	It's more about networking in that.
	I would say holistic therapy and coaching and DJ and bartending is like my main income.
	You wear many hats.
	You have to.
	Holistic, yeah, on your Instagram, holistic wellness consultant.
	And you said you do consulting?
	Is that?
	So I do a variety of different things.
	Are you a therapist or?
	I am not a licensed therapist.
	I have what's that?
	Life coach.
	I like that term life coach, but I didn't ever brand myself as a life coach because I never felt like that spoke to me.
	So I basically, most of the time, sit down with clients and I believe in a holistic mind-body-spiritual connection.
	So a lot of times I feel like things that are deficiencies in our physical go back to a mental or spiritual blockage of some sort.
	So that's where the word holistic came from.
	Do you do Reiki?
	am attuned to reiki i just recently attuned i was just recently are you familiar with reiki A little bit.
	So I just recently received my second attunement to Reiki.
	So I've had my first and second attunements, which means that I can practice as a healer, but I am not a master Reiki healer or anything in that discussion.
	Do you, when you're talking about attunements, have you been attuned to like Molten Core?
	What do you mean?
	Like MC, MC40.
	Like RAG, Ragnars?
	Like BWL?
	Like BWL attunement, Blackwing Lair.
	It's pretty easy.
	Have you been attuned to BWL?
	No, I've never.
	Yeah, it's pretty quick.
	Like you just kill this guy in Black Rock Mountain.
	You just kill him.
	Yeah, in the video game.
	Wait, Reiki, I thought it was a form of yoga.
	No, it's like pain stuff.
	I would say shocking is shocking.
	It's energy work.
	That is the best way to explain it.
	Oh, I could just want to have been at like a yoga studio and they were doing Reiki.
	A lot of yoga teachers may have been all over.
	Oh, is that what it is?
	Okay, because I've been...
	Yoga is a gateway to Reiki.
	Oh, exactly.
	I've been somewhere where they're doing Reiki, and I'm like, what the hell is this?
	So I've done something, but it's...
	A lot of people that practice Reiki have infused it into different things they do.
	So you could go and get a massage and they'll say this is a Reiki massage.
	So it just kind of depends on what their trade is.
	I have just recently been attuned to my second Reiki.
	There's usually three, the first, second, and third, the third being the master.
	I think I received this second attunement a couple months ago or something like that.
	Wait, so, I mean, but like, are you ONI?
	Are you ONI attuned, Anyxia?
	No, no.
	My Reiki attunement was.
	AQ40?
	AQ40?
	I'm sorry.
	Nax, at least, I mean, it's Night Slayer PvP realm.
	It's phase six.
	Like, how are you not attuned for Nax Ramas?
	I feel like we're speaking different languages right now.
	I like that.
	And then you also, also, just really quick before we move on, you do sacred sessions.
	Sacred sessions come from my podcast.
	So I just recently started a podcast down in San Diego called Eighth House Discussions.
	But because there's multiple podcasts that I'm working on, I just put sacred sessions because I go in and I act as an audio engineer a lot of the times.
	So sometimes I'm not booked as a host or a guest.
	I'm doing the back.
	Gotcha.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	All right.
	Hi, I'm Amelia.
	I am from Florida and I am 26 years old.
	I am a content creator/slash OnlyFans model.
	And my level of education is my boobs.
	No, but I got my huge boobs.
	No, I got my esthetician's license and no longer have it.
	And I graduated high school, so there we go.
	No college, though?
	No.
	Okay, and then college for you?
	Yeah, I'm an alumnus from UCSB.
	Okay, what did I?
	Sorry if I missed that when you said that.
	What did you get your degree in?
	I have two degrees: cultural anthropology and religious studies.
	I did a double major when I was there.
	Double major.
	And you graduated when?
	So my age.
	I graduated in 2011.
	Okay, so you said cultural anthropology.
	And religious studies.
	Religious studies.
	Are you religious?
	I would say no.
	I'm a spiritual person, but I think that religion, there's always defects.
	So take what you can.
	Cultural.
	So you have a bat.
	Is it a Bachelor of Arts or Bachelor of Science?
	Actually, a Bachelor's of Science for Cultural Anthro.
	Yeah, which I found surprising.
	I know it was a while ago, but maybe we can kickstart a little something here.
	Tell me, like, the number one thing you learned studying cultural anthropology.
	That history is written by the person that succeeds and is the victor.
	So take everything with a grain of salt, everything is subjective.
	But I mean, I'm like a city college dropout and I knew that.
	But I think when you study something as deeply as anthropology, you really see the flaws because most of it is called armchair anthropology, which means that it's people who are studying subjects from a removed setting.
	And so I think the majority of the time, especially when we look at specifically historians that are anthropologists, almost everything is subjective.
	Everything is from a second or third party.
	If it's not, you have to look at if it's from a first-hand account, what was that person?
	What was the culture that they came from?
	What was the culture that came in, etc.?
	So although I agree with you that you don't need an education to know what I just said, I would say that through studying it, I learned to take everything with a grain of salt after that.
	Okay.
	Do they teach you about like Go Bekli Tepe and stuff like that in college?
	Go Bekli Tepe, do you know what that is?
	No, we most like because it was cultural anthropology, even though I did have to take a few of the films.
	It's like the oldest church of all time, Gobekli Tepe.
	No, I didn't really study Christianity and religious studies.
	It doesn't ascribe to modern, you know, the modern timeline.
	Yeah, I would say because that wasn't my niche of study.
	No, I'm not familiar with it.
	So what do you learn in cultural anthropology?
	Well, it depends what you want to do your emphasis in, and it depends what your interests are.
	And then it also depends.
	Like for me, I did a double major with religious studies and I did my independent studies or thesis on the cultural impact and spiritual crisis of basically focusing on the Vietnam era and Ford on how basically civil religions take place in a country like the United States where it's not so much necessarily people are spiritual or religious, but they do have a moral code of ethics.
	And then I was studying specifically the crisis that happened after the Vietnam era in this country and the division that happened between all the, what I would say, the civilians versus veterans.
	Were you smoking a lot of marijuana?
	Of course.
	I mean, I was in school.
	That seems like some subject that you would have to be very high to even.
	I mean, not necessarily.
	That I feel like was more of a personal.
	I'm sure there were people there that weren't high.
	Yeah, but I mean, probably not in your life.
	Oh, I mean, you were probably hanging out with all of them.
	I mean, I can remember being in really intimate class discussions and talking to people and they were sober.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Maybe the older students.
	But yeah, that sounds interesting, kind of.
	Yeah, kind of.
	Exactly.
	What about you?
	Me?
	I am Colette Fair.
	I am a licensed marriage and family therapist, a licensed mental health counselor.
	I'm from New York, a little town called Rye outside of New York City, but I now live in Florida.
	And I have two podcasts.
	I'm an author, and I work with people who are divorced.
	I specialize in couples therapy, breakups, everything relationship-focused.
	All right.
	And age?
	Oh, I'm 52.
	Gotcha.
	And degrees?
	So I was a history English major in college.
	Okay.
	Best thing to study if you have no idea what you want to do.
	And I went into the magazine business for a while in New York, and then I did sales for a while.
	And when I got divorced, I got married really young, what I think is really young, 24.
	I got divorced at 31 and went back to grad school because I had a horrible marriage counselor.
	And it showed like who did more harm than good.
	So it really showed me the importance of knowing what you're doing and being well trained if you're going to do couples work.
	And I went back to grad school at a place called Rollins College in Winter Park, Florida, and got a master's in counseling.
	And I'm now certified in emotionally focused couples therapy, which is the gold standard and evidence-based treatment.
	And also EMDR, which is a gold standard treatment for trauma.
	What does EMDR stand for?
	So it's eye movement desensitization and reprocessing.
	And I do this because basically whether you use a light machine, maybe some of you guys have done it or heard of it.
	It's become the number one thing to treat trauma.
	That they have, you use either your hand, it sounds so weird, to go back and forth and have the person's eyes move when you hit a target.
	And this is thought to stimulate the occipital nerve in the brain, which helps your brain to process basically that something traumatic from the past is now over and you can feel safe in your body again.
	And that's simplifying it greatly.
	But that's the test.
	Gotcha.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name's Camila, but I go by Cam.
	I am 29 years old and I'm originally from Orange County, but I have now been living in Los Angeles for the past 11 years.
	I used to be a realtor, but today I'm a pursuing actress and slash TV coordinator and host.
	So I removed myself from the real estate industry and now it's stepping foot into the entertainment world.
	Any college?
	In and out, but I didn't graduate.
	What were you studying when you were?
	Just business econ.
	So, yeah, regularly.
	What about you?
	Oh, we're already holding on me.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Hello?
	Hello.
	Here we are.
	My name's Jenna, but I go by Paris online.
	I'm a porn star.
	I've been in porn since 2013, so pre-OnlyFans.
	And majority of my time is spent being a mother, though.
	I only work one week out of the month.
	Age?
	I'm 31.
	All right.
	When you say you work one week out of the month, you're an active sex worker, is that correct?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I'm Megan.
	I'm from Pennsylvania, Central State.
	I am a parole agent.
	I'm 34 now.
	And my education, I have two degrees.
	I have in administrative business.
	And then I also have a bachelor's of science in psychology.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Melissa Pereira.
	I'm 32 years old.
	And I was born and raised in Canada, Ontario.
	And I am a professional ballroom dance instructor.
	Yay.
	In college?
	I did do some college.
	I took interior design.
	I did pass.
	Unfortunately, it's not my passion.
	I don't have any desire.
	I know.
	I'm stupid because it's a money field.
	I love dancing.
	It makes me happy.
	So it's what I've studied most of my life.
	And if, say, I should break a leg and, well, actually, I've already done that.
	If I just can't dance anymore, at least I have a fallback plan.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	I'm Taylor.
	I'm 18.
	I'm from Northern California.
	And I'm a helicopter mechanic.
	Cool.
	Helicopter mechanic.
	Okay.
	Any college or anything like that?
	I took some college courses or like dual enrollment in high school, but that's it.
	Okay.
	And do you do any other kind of mechanic work?
	Like I saw on your Instagram, you ride motorcycles.
	Do you do any motorcycle?
	I have worked on, like, other stuff, like automotive, motorcycles, but I didn't really pursue it as a...
	I have, like, national industry automotive certs, and I have my smog license certificate, but...
	Okay.
	All right, Alex, what about you?
	Am I the only one?
	That's scary as hell.
	You are working on helicopters and we're just not going to make that a movie.
	I mean, I don't want them.
	I mean, flying them is bad enough.
	You're working on them?
	Is that real?
	Yeah.
	Is your dad like a mechanic or something?
	My dad actually used to work there.
	Okay, see, that kind of makes me feel a little better.
	Why?
	Is it because she's your dad?
	Because she's a girl or because she's losing her DNA a little bit, you know what I mean?
	So she's kind of around like gear and stuff.
	So she kind of got to learn it through osmosis is what I'm just guessing.
	But like if she just has like a boyfriend that's in a helicopter's like, come work at the plant with me and you're working on my helicopters.
	I'm a pimp on a blimp.
	I go on helicopters.
	And blimps.
	And blimps.
	And I, you know, no offense.
	I mean, I'm just saying, I don't want a female pilot.
	Let's list a female mechanic.
	I haven't even thought about that.
	Let's go.
	Come on.
	You guys like female pilots.
	Let's be real.
	Listen, let's just be real for a second.
	You guys, when you walk on the plane, you don't feel a little better when it's a white guy compared to like, you know, a woman that could be on her cycle and, you know, or just got dumped by her boyfriend.
	It's emotional.
	No, we do not have a period.
	Okay.
	So no, first of all, that's.
	I'm flying it myself.
	I prefer flying the airplane myself.
	Oh, I love that for you.
	Okay, no.
	Do you have a pilot license?
	Yeah, I'm getting it.
	Do you?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	That's so cool.
	Actually, my pilot on my way to LA was a woman.
	And you were scared to death.
	I was not.
	But I will admit that I was surprised.
	I did.
	I am.
	I was surprised.
	Look at that.
	Because that's just your natural inclination.
	Well, that's because back in the day, we didn't really see that.
	Because there were junior roles, yes.
	And, you know, let's be real.
	It's like, you know, we'll probably argue about a lot of stuff tonight.
	I think we're already ready.
	Well, I think we already are.
	But what I'm saying is, like, there are things that women can do better than men, and those things men can do better than women.
	And I think flying or driving a car, I mean, could you imagine getting on a plane and it's a Chinese woman?
	I would not get on the plane.
	I mean, you know what I mean?
	A Chinese woman can't even drive a damn car.
	Actually, I would feel very confident with a Chinese woman.
	I would feel confident with a Chinese man.
	Chinese woman?
	Chinese women?
	They're not only legally allowed to fly.
	But my point is, it's just, you know, there's some natural inclinations that, you know, maybe it's not polite.
	It might be impolite to say these things, but we're all feeling them, you know?
	Or some of us are feeling.
	I don't think we're all feeling that.
	Yeah, well, we all should be.
	Okay, so who am I on Primetime 99, Alex Stein?
	Model, actor, comedian, mainly model.
	And yeah, I'm an international sex symbol.
	I'm only 29 years old.
	Wikipedia has it wrong because it's made by Rival Control, so do not believe that.
	And yeah, I graduated from LSU with a general studies degree, so I'm smart, I'm sexy, and I'm ready to freaking dive in.
	Let's do the damn thing.
	Also, People Magazine did, in fact, rank him as sexiest in conservative.
	I thought Derek Hoffman is the sexiest time right here in the last sexiest man in the live.
	Oh, and Tucker Carlson is my biological stepfather.
	You guys didn't know that.
	Yeah, so I'm rich, bitch, I'm rich.
	Biological separate.
	Right.
	He's confusing, but yeah.
	You said you're 29 or the grays that's died.
	That's from stress because I have to deal with flying with women behind big floppy titties like that already in the beginning of the show making fun of my gray hair.
	You know, no, it's very sexy, but you prefer the big booty Latinas, right?
	Well, I want amnesty for big booty Latinas.
	See, because this is the thing, is a lot of people they misunderstand who I am.
	They think, oh, Alex, you're right-wing.
	You know, you like Donald Trump because I am good friends with Laura Trump.
	I'm good friends with the administration.
	You know, am I calling shots?
	In a way, I am because Donald Trump campaigned on a very strict immigration policy.
	You guys saw that.
	And then you can see a lot of people are protesting all the ICE immigration stuff.
	But Donald Trump did make a condition saying that illegals that work in hotels are granted amnesty.
	That's because I've been working with Ed Martin.
	This is true because who works in hotels?
	Who cleans the rooms?
	Big Booty Latinas.
	So Donald Trump is on board for amnesty for big booty Latinas.
	If you're a nine, you're fine.
	But once again, Brian, not one big booty Latina here, all a bunch of whites and one African-American lady.
	And the one that has dreads is a white girl.
	That's insane.
	I'm like, wait, who's that for?
	With what?
	Why do you say it like that?
	Are you white?
	Yeah.
	You could be Asian.
	No, I'm not.
	You could be Tiger Woods.
	I'm half Filipino.
	You get mad at me.
	You get mad at me.
	How am I supposed to know that you're half Filipina?
	You just ask.
	You just have to ask.
	You can't assume things just because you think that's a good thing.
	You should have bitched.
	I know one of them's black.
	I mean, I'm not trying to be rude, but I think we can tell one combination.
	I don't know what the other one was.
	You're right.
	I am black stomach.
	And I guessed right.
	I said Tiger Woods vibes, and that's Tiger Woods.
	His mom was Asian.
	So I'm already betting 1,000%.
	So I'm doing pretty good so far.
	Nice.
	We're trying to think where we.
	Yeah, I do want to apologize.
	I did have a, as you call them, big booty Latina.
	I did have one scheduled, but unfortunately she canceled.
	So you know what panel?
	Did she know I was going to be here?
	Is that why?
	No, but you know what?
	Round two, the entire panel.
	All Latina.
	All Latina.
	Well, then I would be the simp on a blam.
	But see, tonight, I can't be the simp on a blam, but I got to be the pimp on a blamp.
	Really, really quick here, going to you.
	You know, he had some thoughts on the female being a mechanic.
	Do you, how do you feel about what he said?
	I mean, that's his own opinion, but I'm not qualified, but.
	Wait, you're waiting right now.
	They don't qualify when you're in the middle of the way.
	Say that again.
	My work is checked by licensed AMPs.
	Once I work in my shop for three years, I can have my boss sign off and I can go and take my AMP license test and get my AMP.
	So how long have you been there currently?
	She's 18.
	Over a year now.
	Oh, wow.
	I started working in high school.
	Any black hair?
	Blackhawks?
	You done anything on a Blackhawk helicopter?
	Our shop has had Blackhawks in.
	I have not personally.
	No.
	No.
	No Apaches.
	Well, you know, it's sad because, like, you know, I don't want to make something light about it, but like Kobe Bryant's helicopter.
	No, that was so funny.
	That one was worked on by a woman.
	Well, but I'm just saying helicopters are very dangerous.
	Like, you know, there was just a crash.
	Yeah, there's just a crash in a day.
	I'm just saying helicopters are dangerous.
	What made you want to do that?
	I mean, that's not a typical thing you hear from an 18-year-old.
	Okay, so my school had my school had an ROP program, and it's like hands-on mechanics, like medical, that kind of thing.
	And I was in Auto Shop and I was like kind of the top of my class.
	So I got offered that internship and I was like, yeah, I want to go.
	Plus, my dad had worked at that shop.
	So I was like, yeah.
	So I drove in there and I was like, I want to talk to boss man.
	So instead of going to my ROP class for first and second period in the morning, I'd go to work and then go to school after that.
	Very cool.
	That's pretty admirable.
	Working in high school.
	Grid one Motorsports donated $200.01.
	My man, Alex Stein.
	I still owe you the $65 from Debate Can in NJ.
	$5 every time you call Jasmine or who are in your debate.
	Awesome to see you on the show.
	Is that a common tactic that the super traders use to get?
	I don't need the money, but maybe.
	Jasmine, you're a whore.
	No, he's saying he owes you money.
	Oh, oh, because that one debate.
	Your name's not Jasmine.
	Well, no, yeah.
	Yeah, well, you don't know me.
	I know Brian appreciates it.
	Just keep super chatting the stream tonight.
	The Broad Aces donated $200.
	Thank you, man.
	Goddamn, those are some delicious cities.
	What the fuck?
	Holy shit.
	Who cares about all dad's boring BNC cups?
	What the fuck?
	You guys are off to an interesting start already with some of the comments here.
	I think this would be a good moment to also just, I got rid of my disclaimer, but I feel like I got to bring it back for tonight's episode.
	The views expressed by the chatters and panelists do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or the whatever podcast.
	So anyways.
	So you don't like boobs?
	I don't see how that was just the comment that they made before you said.
	Is that?
	That was just what the comment was about before.
	I'm more of a labia guy.
	Oh, yeah.
	The big labia.
	I've heard boobs.
	I don't really like that.
	Okay, I understand.
	It's like labia, but them boobs, like in order of order of importance.
	All right.
	So, okay.
	We're going to go around the table once more.
	What is everybody's current dating podcast?
	What is everybody's current relationship status?
	If you're single, how long have you been single?
	And longest relationship you've ever been in.
	Go ahead.
	I am single.
	I've been single for, I want to say like two and a half years.
	Like, I've talked to people, but I've been single through that whole process.
	The longest relationship I've had is eight and a half years.
	All right.
	And sorry, you've been single how long?
	Like two, two and a half years.
	Okay.
	In the two years you've been single, has there been any guys in the picture?
	I mean, like, I've been in talking stages, but I feel like it's never gotten past a talking stage.
	That's also like an issue with interacting with people online first, is a lot of times it never aberrates into a physical aberrates.
	Yeah.
	Aberration.
	Okay.
	A lot of good words from you.
	And they all start with A, attuned.
	Aberration.
	It's good.
	The alliteration.
	The alliteration is good.
	What about you?
	So I have been single since the end of 2022.
	And so like three years?
	Yeah.
	I was in an age gap relationship.
	I was 23.
	He was 43 at the time.
	Yeah, 20 years.
	All right.
	Is that your longest relationship?
	It was about six months.
	My longest relationship was my high school relationship.
	It was about three years.
	But I don't know how much that really counts.
	We were children.
	Okay.
	So single for three years.
	Do you shoot content with men?
	No, I am strictly solo content and it is only topless.
	And then the three years you've been single, any guys in the picture?
	I've definitely dated, but I would say right after that relationship ended, I started my OnlyFans.
	And since then, I've kind of realized in dating that a lot of the guys I was dating before are very similar to the guys who follow me on my OnlyFans.
	And so kind of being a walking fetish for the majority of my life, I have to be very picky and choosy about the men that I choose to be with.
	And so that has left me a little bit preferring to be single until I find the right person.
	Wait, you have to be choosy because of your breast size?
	Well, it's more so based off of like the intention of why they want to date me.
	You know, a lot of men love dating big boo women, but they don't really want to get to know who I am.
	They just want to have sex with me.
	Which, you know, I also want like a relationship where we have conversations and they're not always just trying to suck on them.
	You know?
	That's fair.
	I feel like that's fair, right?
	That's fair.
	I mean, the origination of most people's romantic interest in any particular individual would be physical attraction.
	know 100% but sometimes it's just like I suppose if it's super like a fetishization like an obsession that could be weird but But it's like I get really annoyed after like five minutes of nipple pinching.
	Like I'm like, please stop touching me.
	Do you have that weird thing where like the guy's like trying to feed you and get you to game?
	Oh my gosh, yes.
	I do have feeders.
	I do.
	I have Amberlynn Reid.
	I don't know if you're familiar with her, but she's a YouTube icon.
	But yeah, you know, people are always trying to feed her.
	She's like 600 pounds.
	It's definitely a problem for me because I don't want to be 600 pounds, but they give me so much money.
	To eat.
	Yeah.
	To eat.
	I mean, literally, they want you to eat it on camera.
	Yeah, and I always throw it up afterwards, though.
	What?
	Well, that doesn't sound good.
	Well, it's because I'll eat until the food is at my throat, and then there's no way to not then throw up afterwards.
	Why are people paying you to feed you?
	Because they want to see me be messy.
	They want to see me.
	With like all of food on your boobs.
	I'll put ketchup on my boob and dip my burger in the ketchup and eat it.
	There's like a turn on for a while.
	There's weird stuff too, actually, because I've actually looked into it because I'm like, why do I, and I don't watch that much mukbang, but I looked into it.
	I'm like, this is kind of interesting.
	You know, what is mukbang?
	But there's like two folds to it.
	There's like the sexual aspect, and there's also people that have like weird eating issues.
	Yeah.
	And so they like to watch other people eat.
	Like it's because they're eating.
	It helps them eat.
	Either they're like overeating or they're under eating.
	So sometimes they like to watch other people eat.
	Because you can, people don't realize you can actually look at somebody eating in your brain.
	Like if you see somebody eating a hamburger, you can kind of taste it in a weird way.
	Your body just has that weird muscle memory.
	100%.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	I'm still thinking about making her eat.
	What was the question?
	Dating, single.
	Okay, I'm married, and my longest relationship is 13 years with husband number one.
	Husband number two is closely pulling up at 12 years, married for nine.
	And I had 11 years between marriages where I was in some serious relationships, but I did a lot of dating.
	And it was really hard and illuminating and eye-opening.
	And I think has helped me be a better therapist than if I had been just married for 100 years.
	Gotcha.
	So two marriages?
	Two marriages?
	Any kids?
	Yes, I have two daughters who are 22 and 24.
	From the first marriage?
	From husband one.
	Husband one.
	Yep.
	Both of them from both of them from husband one.
	And husband two has two kids.
	So I have two steps.
	Yeah, but they're like in their late 20s.
	And so we're in that empty nest phase.
	Empty nest.
	Gotcha.
	Okay.
	The first marriage, it was 13 years, you said?
	Well, we were married for seven and a half years, but I'm, yes.
	So I met him when I was 18 on the first day of school in my sophomore year at Tulane.
	And that's actually how I got to Florida.
	He moved me there for his job.
	Was he your age?
	He was two years older than I was.
	But we graduated at the same time.
	Gotcha.
	Yeah.
	And who initiated the divorce?
	I initiated the divorce.
	What was the reason?
	I mean, okay.
	So the easy answer, of course, is that we grew apart, but there was a lot of, okay, we were young and we didn't communicate well.
	And really for me, if I'm honest, it said he was emotionally disconnected.
	I felt alone in the marriage.
	I tried really hard to find ways to get through to him and I couldn't.
	And so eventually I checked out and became very resentful and angry.
	And finally, I got to the point where even though I had two little kids, no matter what he said or did, wasn't going to turn it around.
	I see.
	And was it a contentious divorce or was it a divorce?
	It was.
	It was.
	I think that for some people, this is my personal opinion about him.
	He would maybe tell you something different, but I think it wounded his ego to be left.
	And at that point, even though he was very quick, I was very quickly replaced by somebody who had nothing to do with the divorce.
	And I really believe that.
	But it wasn't two months into our separation until another woman was living in my house, you know, part-time mothering my kids.
	And I thought that I encouraged a friend of mine set them up and I encouraged it, thinking he would be nicer to me and we would be amicable once he was dating.
	And it didn't help at all.
	To this day, I feel like it's not as amicable as I wish it was.
	But we can get along on the surface.
	You know, we go to the graduations and the birthdays.
	Did you still with that girl?
	Yeah, yeah, they're married.
	Yeah, and they seem very happy, and I'm happy for them.
	I really don't care.
	Did he pay you alimony?
	He paid me two years of alimony.
	Okay.
	But I think that he really got away with not paying me much at all because my own parents got divorced when I was young and it was very contentious and I was afraid of fighting.
	So I just bowed out and said, you know, I think his tactic was, if you leave me, I'm not going to give you a lot of money and you won't have anything.
	I had no career at that point.
	None.
	I had been a stay-at-home mom.
	And I basically was like, screw off.
	I'm smart.
	I'm smarter than you.
	I'll figure it out.
	I don't need or want your money, which sounds noble, but it really was a shit show as I was a young single mom and didn't have any career for a while.
	Shared custody.
	Shared custody.
	50-50.
	Yeah.
	I'm really close to my dad, so I didn't want to deny him that.
	Was he paying you child support?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	And I did get child support all the way through until my kids went to college.
	But it really didn't amount to that much.
	I went through a lot of really hard years where I had to work, go to grad school, live on student loans, take care of my kids.
	And I didn't feel like he was really very helpful or understanding.
	It was more like, look at the bed you made and now you have to lie in it.
	How much, just curious, how much was he paying you?
	I'm sure it changed over the course of 18 years.
	Yeah, I mean, this is, I'm divorced for 20 years.
	So at the beginning, I think I got, I probably got around six grand a month in like child support and alimony.
	But this is a man who made a lot of money.
	Can we separate the alimony and the child support?
	So the alimony was two years, right?
	Two years.
	So from the initiation of the divorce, at that point, he was paying you $6,000.
	$7,000.
	So he was paying me, I just remembered.
	So I got about $2,500 a month for child support, something like that, and about $5,000 a month for alimony.
	Was he a high earner?
	Yes.
	And this is, again, I got divorced in 2005.
	So it's a long time.
	Alimony went further back then.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Well, so, but you said you only had alimony for two years.
	Yeah.
	For how much was the child support once the alimony stopped?
	So the child support, I actually got less child support when the alimony stopped.
	But again, and this is why for any of you young women, if you ever find yourself in this situation, I was so traumatized by what my parents went through in New York State where it's very hard to get divorced, watching them fight for years over money and custody that I didn't want to haggle at all.
	And I should have because it may, maybe it sounds like no money to you or maybe it sounds like a lot.
	But relative to what my ex-husband made, I really got very little money.
	And it was never enough to feel remotely comfortable, even working and going to school.
	So I wish I had fought a little harder.
	What are you thinking?
	Well, I mean, I think this child support thing where the child support is for the benefit of the child.
	Yeah.
	Right.
	And so children, I mean, I don't know if the children had any illnesses or anything like that.
	They're not that expensive.
	And I think the child support system doesn't really take into consideration the actual cost of raising a child.
	So, I mean, I find it a bit dubious that, well, I wasn't getting paid enough.
	It's like, it sounds like you're getting paid, what, two, three, or sorry, $2,000 to $3,000 a month.
	That's pretty good.
	Okay, I mean, that seems fair.
	You are entitled to your opinion.
	But on the flip side, I made a decision with my husband at the time to relocate away from my family.
	I did better in college than he did.
	I graduated cum laude as a double major.
	We made a joint decision for me to stay home with the children.
	I then could not move.
	At the time that I got divorced, I had not worked for, I don't know, four or five years at his request.
	So the point of this is that I can't afford at this juncture to even rent a place and provide a home for the child.
	So it's not just a matter of putting food on the table.
	The courts want you to at least give a decent standard of living for your children.
	Now, our standards of living, most people will argue in court, which I did not do, that you should maintain the same lifestyle you had.
	I was living a very high lifestyle at the time, and I went into living a very middle-of-the-road lifestyle.
	And none of that money was like keeping me.
	And I went to work immediately.
	Like, I mean, whatever the opinion is, I didn't have enough money to do anything but go to work and immediately try to build a career so that I could support myself.
	What state were you living in?
	Florida.
	So, I mean, you said, though, for the first two years, you were receiving the alimony combined with child support.
	That's $7,000 a month for a two-year period back in 2002.
	Five?
	2005.
	It's $84,000 a year.
	So, I mean, and the housing prices back in Florida, maybe what?
	You could rent like a two- to three-bedroom house in Florida for $1,000, $2,000?
	Maybe it's a huge number.
	No, not that low.
	Not that low.
	I bought a house.
	I bought a house.
	2005 in Florida?
	Well, I don't know.
	Well, where I live in Winter Park, it's not inexpensive.
	It's not expensive taste, O'Brien.
	No, no, you know what I mean.
	I do have expensive taste, but I lost my ability to have an expensive taste.
	I hear what you're saying.
	It may sound like that, but I felt very poor.
	That's the reality.
	Wait, it's not, but you had, first off, it probably wasn't just that.
	I'm assuming there was like a distribution of community property.
	There was like no community.
	It was just that.
	Was there a house?
	There was a house, and at the end, I walked away with about $20,000 in the bank.
	Can I make a point?
	That seems pretty good to me.
	Okay.
	Well, it definitely didn't seem good to me.
	I think that's fine.
	In about 2012, I was living in Florida and my parents got divorced while I was in the seventh grade.
	There was, my dad kind of bankrupted our whole family.
	And out of the divorce, my mother, for three children in 2012, got $400 a month, no alimony.
	And yeah, and she had to restart her whole life.
	She hadn't worked since I was born, besides being a freelance photographer.
	And she had to find a job and do everything on her own.
	And that was definitely a struggle for her.
	There's a bit of difference in circumstance here.
	No, for sure.
	$400 a month versus $7,000 a month.
	Yeah, it depends what the husband earns.
	I personally object to that metric.
	I think there ought to be some caps on child support.
	For example, you know, in California, it's just based off income.
	There's no cap.
	So, and I think most states, there's no cap.
	So, I mean, if you're making millions and millions of dollars a year, what you're going, you're basically, it's just wealth transfer.
	Yeah.
	It's not actually has anything to do, it's not commensurate at all with the actual costs of raising a child.
	So, I mean, I think some of these ridiculous child support payments are not in line at all with the actual cost of raising a child, which I think is what it should be for.
	Yeah.
	It shouldn't be wealth.
	It shouldn't be wealth transfer.
	It shouldn't be, it should be child support, not I'm going to continue providing a luxury lifestyle for the woman who divorced me.
	So, what do you think of the perspective that, you know, if a husband makes more money and the wife divorces, and so the husband should not have to pay for the wife to have, you know, an equal lifestyle, should the husband not then be the one taking care of the children?
	If the mom can't afford split custody.
	They did, but if, you know, if he's not giving all that child support.
	I mean, in the split custody situation, I would actually make a compelling argument that there should be no child support.
	Yeah.
	No, but if the kids are then going to live a much worse life half the time, shouldn't the dad just be the one to take care of them?
	He can provide a better life for them.
	Or the mom.
	If the mom makes more money and then the mom pays.
	Give the dad full custody.
	I'm in favor.
	Why not?
	I mean, it is like if it was children and she chose to leave.
	I mean, look, to be fair, I'm fine with 50-50 custody.
	Yeah.
	And I think, you know, if there's some, look, if there's some compelling argument that she's completely skillless and she's going to be homeless, I can see some compelling arguments for child support in this situation.
	In any case, she had two years of alimony, which should have covered that.
	And you graduated from college.
	It takes years to build up income.
	How old were you when you were divorced?
	I was 31 when I got divorced, and I had not worked since I was 24, and I had worked for like two or three years at a college.
	I kind of think that's a windfall for women.
	This idea that everything for you was paid for for years, you didn't have to work, your rent was paid.
	Make mothers a job.
	Imagine me as a dude.
	I was just living off my girlfriend, didn't have to pay rent, didn't have guys.
	Flip the rules, and y'all will be very tilted about if a man tries to siphon money from women.
	This idea that, oh, she never, she didn't have to work and the guy was paying for everything.
	That's a, I think that that's a windfall for the women.
	Well, here, let me ask you guys a question.
	What about Kevin Federlein?
	You guys know Kevin Federline.
	He just wrote a book.
	I know, and what happens when I say Kevin Federline?
	W?
	I think of Brittany.
	I know, you think of Brittany, but why?
	Because Brittany had to pay him all the alimony.
	And what did you guys think about that?
	Why was that a big story?
	Because you're like, why is Britney Spears paying for this guy all of his stuff?
	Everybody thought it was so ludicrous.
	So, Brian has a point.
	I'm just using that as the example of how crazy it sounds when you have Kevin Federline getting millions of dollars from Britney Spears for only being married for a year when that instance, you know, if you reverse it, there's so many more examples of women doing that to men.
	Yes, but being married for a year and alimony is different from child support, and there are realities.
	I guess they did have kids.
	Yeah, but I do agree that you shouldn't just transfer wealth and like expect 50 grand a month to like take care of your kids just because your husband made that.
	But I think it's harder to support your children if you haven't worked for a while, even for somebody who was as educated as I was.
	It took me a while till I paid an I didn't even want any money.
	I tried not to take any money to get out.
	Holy fuck, what do you, Nick?
	Can you get fixed that?
	Here, here, I'll do it.
	Minimize minimize OBS.
	Minimize OBS.
	Hit try again.
	I think we just lost the internet.
	Oh, shit.
	Pull up OBS.
	Move.
	Move, move, move.
	Pull up OBS.
	We're getting lag.
	Oh, my God.
	Hold on.
	Fuck.
	We're not.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	Started my period last night.
	My dogs.
	Those of you who are.
	Those of you.
	Stop.
	Stop.
	Those of you who are watching on Spotify, we are experiencing lag in our live stream.
	So we're going to have to get this fixed.
	I apologize for some hiccups here.
	Was there a wire that was pulled or something?
	I don't think so.
	Here, fix the hide.
	Here, just hide this street.
	No, Go center.
	Hide the stream yard thing so that it's not white screens like this.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Hold on, guys.
	I'm going to have to step away and figure out what's going on.
	My God, I thought that was fake.
	No, why would it be fake?
	Cool.
	I don't know.
	It looked like soggy kind of stuff.
	I thought they were just too big plastic things for, like, show.
	I tried to hear one for the first time.
	Talk to yourselves about dating or something.
	How old are you, kids?
	It's hard to date with modern Internet.
	I need two inches.
	We need one at a time, one at a time.
	So we are still online.
	Yes.
	I think it's audio only.
	Have a chat.
	Glad to know.
	I almost told you nothing.
	And we're still actually live.
	Okay, where were we?
	Where were we?
	Child support.
	Child support.
	We're talking about Kevin Federline.
	How's ridiculous?
	Yeah, all I know.
	If I marry a man, if I, anything like that, because I know that I'm the one who makes, I don't know if I'll find a man who makes more money than I do.
	I am all for prenups.
	And like, everyone is too.
	And I have that with my husband now.
	We're totally.
	That is good.
	Yeah.
	And I think we're back.
	And I would never make those same choices I made.
	Yeah.
	Again, having lived through whatever.
	That's very thoughtful.
	No, I would never do that.
	And I did not fight for money at all.
	And there was a lot of money on the line.
	So, you know, that's not like I don't, that's not my personal value system.
	All I can tell you is, in my experience, it was much harder to support myself than I envisioned.
	Like, I was like, I'm fine.
	I'll go get a sales job.
	I'll make a great living.
	I found it very hard to having all those years out of the workforce.
	I think things have changed a little.
	Again, this is 20 years ago, but I would never, ever.
	I tell my daughters every day, whatever you do, don't give up your career completely because you don't know what's going to happen and it's too hard to recover.
	It couldn't even be a divorce.
	It could just be your husband dying.
	And then that's, you know, or your husband could leave you.
	You think your life's great.
	And all of a sudden, you get like a post-it note on these stairs and now he's dating a man.
	I had a client whose husband she came home and they've been married 30 years and there was literally a post-it note on the wait.
	You said something interesting.
	You had that?
	You had that?
	A post-it note?
	No, you.
	No, no, go back.
	So you're dating a guy and then he came out gay.
	This was years ago in high school.
	I dated a guy for about a year.
	I guess high school, they're kind of young.
	And he then told you he was gay.
	Well, actually, no, he refused to tell me.
	I found out on Facebook back when it first, I guess, came out that he was making a lot of, you know, when Zance videos were a thing with your Twitter balls.
	Yeah, YouTube.
	Oh, you can't.
	Before TikTok, way before TikTok.
	Sorry about the lag there, guys.
	It looks like we got it fixed.
	It was about two or three minutes there.
	My apologies.
	Really quick, getting back to the topic at hand.
	Alex had brought up a point that Brittany Spears was paying child support to Kevin Federline.
	And I just Googled it really quick.
	She was paying him by the end of it $40,000 a month in child support.
	I believe they have two kids together.
	$40,000 a month in child support.
	Personally, I think this, although it's a woman paying it to man, even then, I think this is incredibly excessive.
	It doesn't cost $40,000 a month to raise children.
	So, and then also recently, Hallie Berry, she was married to like some male supermodel.
	They got divorced.
	I'm not sure who initiated it.
	And she's having to pay him child support.
	I don't know if anybody in the chat can tell us how much.
	Do you guys know how much Hallie Berry, Hallie, Hallie Berry is paying her ex-husband in child support and alimony or whatever?
	I think it's even more than what.
	Let me, Hallie Berry, like child support.
	I mean, the theory is to maintain an equal standard of living for the kids, but it does seem outrageous.
	I think kids will be happy as long as $5,000 a month.
	They see that they're $10,000.
	That's not too bad.
	It's not crazy.
	I mean, it's a lot.
	Plus, $4,000.
	It's still weird that she's paying him, though.
	I mean, it's still, I love it.
	Yeah.
	I mean, there you go.
	Yeah.
	Well, it's like all these women, you know, they complain about the gender wage gap when in reality, OnlyFans, that's where the biggest gender wage gap is.
	Guys make no money and girls make all the money.
	So you guys are a bunch of hypocritical hoes, so we're sick of it.
	But that is true, you know.
	These are all new phenomenons that women have these ways to make money.
	I know.
	But I mean, I guess there's not that many different ways, though.
	I mean, I mean, only thing.
	I mean, is that the new thing?
	What is the new thing?
	You could be doing TikTok live streams.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Social media.
	Social media.
	Your mom had to work while getting $400 in child support.
	Single fathers have to work and they get no child support.
	Is that equality?
	Does the single father who's getting child support have the kids?
	Or is he just a single father now without kids?
	Because I mean, I mean, I think we've talked about, you know, with Bernie Spears, her.
	I mean.
	Like, where's the mom at in the picture?
	Yeah, like, dad, actually.
	Who's taking care of the kids?
	I mean, you know.
	I ended up choosing my dad, so I lived with my dad because me and my mom just were so explosive.
	So I think after a while, she was making good money and didn't need child support.
	Moving on, relationship status.
	Happily single.
	Single.
	Happily single.
	Not just single.
	Happily single.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	I love it.
	I love my freedom.
	How long have you been single for?
	Two months now.
	Two months?
	Yeah.
	Well, that's not that long.
	You're acting like you've been single that long.
	She's Filipina.
	They're spicy.
	I'm just glad it's over.
	She's like, I'm so single.
	I'm so single.
	How long have you been single?
	20 minutes.
	Exactly.
	And longest relationship?
	Two and a half years.
	For some reason, it's always two and a half years with me.
	It's like the weirdest.
	I don't know why, but it just.
	So the one that ended two months ago was two and a half years?
	No.
	Oh, how long was that one?
	That one?
	A year.
	One year.
	Okay.
	How many two and a half years have there been?
	Three.
	I think three, yeah.
	Three, okay.
	Yeah.
	And in all three of those, who broke up with who?
	It's always me with them.
	You always break up with them, even the most recent one?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What's the reason typically?
	The most recent one or any of them?
	Most recent one, yeah?
	I would say broke up with him because he actually stood me up on my birthday.
	He was?
	He stood me up on my birthday.
	He stood you up on your birthday.
	Yeah.
	So I was like really, really heartbroken by that.
	That was like a huge like, you know, like a punch to the gut.
	Clearly, he didn't like you.
	Yeah.
	It was like, and the thing is, he made like so many promises before my birthday, like, oh, you know, we're going to do this, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	And then he wished me a happy birthday, but then it was just kind of like no follow-through.
	So I went to Paris by myself and did my best.
	Have you had a rebound?
	Sorry?
	Have you had a rebound in the past two months?
	No.
	I've been just super focused on myself.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	So I am in a poly relationship, but I have one partner currently.
	Right.
	For how long?
	About two years, no?
	Does your partner have any partners?
	Yes.
	Yeah, he does.
	So two years straight, like it hasn't been on?
	No, two years straight.
	Okay.
	And it's a poly relationship.
	Can you explain that?
	So we take our relationships very seriously.
	We're not just like sleeping around with whoever.
	So in that instance, you know, he found somebody that he really enjoys spending time with.
	So he spends time with her quite often.
	Okay.
	And you see other guys?
	Well, I do porn for a little bit.
	Well, besides, sometimes, yeah.
	I tried to date somebody for about a year, but it didn't work out.
	Like, also.
	Okay.
	And is the guy who you're seeing, the poly relationship guy, is he in the industry?
	Is he a cop or whatever?
	No?
	No, he's a cop.
	He's a cop.
	Yeah.
	A cop.
	Cop and porn star.
	Cops like to bang.
	They like to bang.
	You know, that's why they're in the field.
	They like to bang in multiple ways.
	That's what I'm saying.
	They need that adrenaline rush.
	And then, yeah, I'm not surprised.
	A lot of cops get freaky.
	I've got commenting on someone's neck than hang another girl.
	That's a pretty deadly combo, cops.
	Deadly combo star.
	I know.
	Think about when he does that nightstick.
	Oh, yes.
	What about you?
	Currently in a relationship since about May, April.
	Two divorces.
	Two divorces?
	Okay, wait.
	So six months, your current boyfriend?
	Okay.
	And two divorces.
	Yes.
	You're 34.
	Let's do a bit of a timeline.
	First marriage?
	First marriage was 2014.
	That lasted about four years.
	And then second marriage, 2021 to just this year.
	Kids?
	Yes.
	How many kids?
	From how many fathers?
	Two.
	So I have two to my first marriage and then one from a guy I dated in high school.
	Okay, so high school father, then you got married, but not to him.
	Correct.
	So two fathers.
	Yes.
	Did you plan on having more kids or are you tapping?
	I'm done.
	You're done.
	Okay.
	Has it been an issue dating, like the two father thing?
	Is that a problem?
	It's been okay.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then question the two divorces, who initiated them?
	I did for both.
	For both.
	And briefly, what was the reason for the first one?
	The first one, just he was kind of manipulative and controlled.
	Controlling?
	Yeah.
	Anything else?
	Not really.
	That was kind of it.
	Really quickly, how was he controlling?
	I couldn't spend any money.
	I had to get permission to spend anything.
	I didn't work.
	I stayed at home.
	I had to cook.
	I had to clean.
	Oh, wait.
	Hold on.
	We can dive into those first few things, but cooking and cleaning is completely different.
	Well, no, So he was to the point where if I didn't have dinner ready when he expected it to be ready, he would be upset.
	What did he do for work?
	He worked at a phone store.
	Like a retail team?
	Like a sales team.
	Like sales, yeah.
	So he's on his feet all day?
	I mean, kind of.
	Is that like a minimum wage job?
	Well, it got based off of commission.
	Well, he makes sales commission.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and you stayed home and he provided everything?
	Yeah.
	And you wouldn't have dinner ready when you got home?
	Well, I had to maintain two small children at the time.
	Was he like strict about the recipe or something?
	Was he like, it's got to be hamburger?
	No, no, no.
	He wasn't anything like that.
	No, no, no.
	I mean, that really wasn't like the main thing.
	The main thing was I couldn't go hang out with people.
	I couldn't, like, if I wanted to go to the gym, like, I had to be home within a certain amount of time.
	Okay.
	Just little things like that that's kind of like added up, if that makes sense.
	Okay.
	And, but you said manipulative too.
	How was he manipulative?
	Like, just kind of like made me feel bad for wanting to do something.
	Like what?
	Like if I wanted to buy myself like a new outfit, he'd be like, well, we got to use this money for.
	And you guys have kids, right?
	Yeah.
	Mind you, you had a kid from a previous partner.
	Yes.
	Ah, so okay, he's, I mean, this guy's already a fucking saint as it is.
	So.
	Well, he didn't really treat my first child.
	Well, I don't know all the details.
	But in any case, just off of what you're telling me here, Isn't it prudent, especially if you're the one who's actually making the money and it doesn't sound like you had a high-paying job?
	Isn't it kind of makes sense that he's like, no, you're not going to buy that because we have to, we have rent, we have to pay for food, we have two children.
	I'm assuming this guy made fucking no money.
	You would be correct.
	Well, then, yeah, it's like, hey, babe, we can't go buy X thing because I'm working a shitty retail job.
	Of course, that makes total sense.
	But was she trying to shop at like Gucci or like TV?
	Doesn't matter.
	It doesn't matter if he's like, nah, we can't afford it.
	End of story.
	But was it like that or was he mean to you about your choices and your desire for freedom outside of the relationship?
	He would make it sound like he wasn't mean.
	Like, do you know what I mean?
	Like, he would just kind of, he was very good with his words.
	Did you have friends that you were allowed to go see?
	Yes.
	No, no, no.
	So his friends kind of became my friends.
	And one of our friends, and this is going to sound bad, who ended up being my second husband, stopped coming to our house because he said he didn't like the way he talked to me.
	Wait, so you started dating one of your buddy's good friends?
	The friend he was worried about and didn't want to ended up.
	I know I'm not a good person.
	Yeah, that's a good idea.
	I'm a shitbag.
	That's a good idea.
	Wait, what's the, sorry, what's the timeline on that?
	So you were friends with a guy and then you started dating a friend group.
	She started banging her boyfriend's best friend.
	No, they weren't best friends.
	No, they were close and still.
	Let's get this straight.
	They were not best friends.
	Not anymore.
	They're not.
	True.
	The two guys, the two guys, you had been with both of them romantically?
	After she divorced the first one.
	After I divorced the first one.
	Was there overlap?
	I'm so confused.
	Yeah, there's an overlap.
	No, there wasn't.
	There was no overlap.
	Explain it.
	Sorry, maybe I'm just stupid.
	Explain it to me.
	So, okay, there's a friend group.
	You slept with one of the guys in the friend group.
	After the divorce.
	Okay, I see.
	Okay.
	Oh, okay.
	So, and wait, did you meet him?
	Doring.
	That's fine.
	That's fine.
	You met him.
	He was first friends with your ex- They worked together, yes.
	Oh, a co-worker.
	Oh, my gosh.
	That makes it way more complicated.
	I know.
	Do they continue to work together when you guys well?
	After, so.
	So you caused them both to lose your job.
	No, My second marriage, he left prior to us getting together.
	Okay.
	I guess that's a little bad.
	Wait, so you're married now to the friend?
	We're divorced now.
	Okay, okay.
	But you did marry the friend ultimately.
	Oh, the second marriage was the friend.
	So you have a thing for the friend.
	So do you just have a thing for phone salesmen then?
	No.
	Okay, but here's what I'm curious about.
	I mean, it sounds like I'll take your word that the first husband was manipulative.
	I mean, he was a dick.
	But with the second friend, there's no overlap.
	But when he was picking up on, was he picking on something up on something legitimate?
	Did you have like a feeling for him or a flirtation?
	Even if you didn't consummate it, there was nothing.
	No, I actually tried to hook him up with my sister.
	But you didn't have like a little side crush.
	Your ex, after you divorced your ex, you said.
	No, the new guy, the new guy.
	When she wore weird.
	Yeah, that happens.
	Girls date, guys.
	They try to recommend to somebody else.
	Okay.
	I know.
	Listen, I'm not a good person.
	I know that.
	I don't think any of the people who are.
	I mean, I'm sad.
	I don't think that that's good, but I feel like you saying that there's other skeletons in your closet.
	Why do you say it like that?
	I mean, it can't be just because you're banging your ex-size with me.
	No, because people look at that and they're like, oh, you're messy.
	Yeah.
	Do you see yourself as messy?
	I don't think so.
	I just try to make, I just try to be happy.
	Yeah, you're being unapologetically yourself, and I guess that is good, but also, yeah, that sounds like a coincidence.
	You knew the guy, and after the marriage ended, maybe you developed an attraction.
	All right, a couple clarifying questions here.
	You had a kid with somebody, your guy you were dating in high school?
	Yes.
	That was the first one before the first marriage.
	Then you had your second kid with the guy from the first marriage.
	The first guy, yeah, two kids.
	Was he paying you child support?
	The first guy.
	Yes, for a little bit.
	I don't get child support at all.
	I applaud you for not getting an abortion.
	That's good.
	Thank you.
	Well, in high school, I'm sure you contemplated it.
	Well, I was a year out of high school.
	So, yeah.
	That's awesome.
	Yeah.
	And then your second kid.
	Do you get child support alimony from your ex-husband?
	I got about $124 in alimony for about two or three months, and then a couple hundred in child support.
	Okay.
	And that's still ongoing.
	No, I don't get any child support from either father anymore.
	Oh, okay.
	They just stopped?
	So things have changed, and we've become more better co-parents, I guess.
	And it's just, yeah.
	All right.
	What about?
	Oh, a reason for second divorce.
	Or did you divorce the second husband?
	Yeah.
	Why is that?
	He made me become vegan.
	That's a good reason.
	And then I've never heard that one.
	So I was forced to be vegan.
	Forced.
	Forced.
	Yeah.
	He said if I wasn't vegan, he wouldn't be with me.
	Wait, was this before or after the marriage?
	During?
	During.
	Well, before and during.
	During.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then hold the door.
	And then while I went to the academy for my new job, he made me feel bad for being there and trying to make new friends.
	And he said, I'm here at home dealing with everything and you're just down there doing whatever.
	But I would be in a classroom.
	Of course, he doesn't want you to make new friends.
	You didn't.
	You're just going to fuck him.
	You're going to marry the new guy.
	Do you remember how he met you?
	You should be.
	Oh, wait until you hear the rest of the story.
	It's not over.
	You should be lucky he didn't keep you locked away in the cellar.
	With the vegetables.
	Yeah, with the vegetables.
	Yeah, vegetable garden.
	Yeah.
	So.
	Yeah, what's the rest of the see that it gets messy?
	While I was done at the academy, I met somebody.
	Called it.
	Right?
	Yep.
	and not just him like the girls that i hung out with out of the academy too they're like single No, some of them, no, some of them were in serious relationships.
	Okay.
	They're like, this is not normal.
	And also, he had a huge falling out with my dad.
	And I ended up going no contact with my family for over a year because of him.
	So your family kind of took his side in a little bit?
	No, they no.
	So no, no, no.
	He had a falling out with my family.
	What's the whole deal with the academy or whatever?
	Yeah, what's the academy?
	You said you met a guy, you met some girls.
	What?
	Oh, so my training for my new job, for my job that I do.
	Correct.
	Yeah, where's that bringing us, though?
	Oh, what's the right thing?
	Okay, okay, okay.
	I met my current boyfriend there.
	Okay.
	Oh, boy.
	Yeah.
	So you met your current boyfriend while you were still married.
	Yes.
	Bruh.
	Can we get this one?
	Sorry, keep going.
	I feel like there's more details.
	Keep going.
	There's more.
	Okay, keep going.
	So this time, things actually did happen during my marriage.
	So you're cheating.
	This is what I want to say.
	So you were cheating?
	I was cheating.
	I cheated.
	Yes.
	Not happy about it.
	Not happy about it at all.
	Not good.
	So there's that.
	But so, I mean, like, did you, well, did you tell your husband?
	Like, immediately, or how did it, or did you?
	Yeah, when I got home, we had a discussion.
	Yeah.
	Turn him into a cuck.
	And you told him as soon as you home?
	Not well.
	He drank like a whole bunch, fell down the stairs.
	Wait, what?
	Fell down the stairs?
	He fell down the stairs.
	You pushed him.
	Wait, so she pushed him.
	She pushed him.
	I wasn't home when that happened.
	Right.
	I wasn't home.
	Why originally, though, like when you framed it like he was controlling because he didn't want you to go to the place?
	That was the first husband, I think.
	No, I think the second one.
	I don't like it.
	Keep up, all right.
	Don't do it.
	The second one wasn't controlling.
	He was fine with me going to the academy.
	He was more concerned that I was going to eat meat while I was there.
	She fell.
	No, like, cow.
	Cow.
	He's pretty good.
	Yes!
	Not vegan on that show.
	Vegan has a whole new vegan.
	She's a different kind of beast, I guess.
	Yeah, different kind of yikes.
	Damn.
	I'm a messy person.
	I'm trying to do better, though.
	Wow.
	Any other things besides this that you want to reveal to us?
	Any other other, just, you know, I'm a terrible human being.
	We should bring a priest.
	I don't think so.
	I think that's the main terrible thing that I do.
	Did you receive alimony from husband number two?
	No.
	I didn't ask for anything.
	Nope.
	We split and he kept the house and that was it.
	Damn.
	Did you pay for it?
	And how long were you married to husband number two?
	We got married in 21.
	We got together in late 2018.
	So five years?
	Four years?
	Married?
	Yeah, four years married.
	Good times.
	All right.
	What about you?
	So I actually just got out of a relationship.
	And a lot of people don't know that until now.
	So it's great.
	How long have you been single?
	I guess officially about a month or so.
	Okay.
	How long was the relationship?
	Since I think that it was since last Good Friday, or sorry, 2024 Good Friday, but he says it was August 16th when he asked me out at an Apple Libyan concert.
	Ooh, okay.
	I think it's the Good Friday one.
	So what?
	Like a year or so?
	A year and a half or so?
	I'll say two.
	Longest relationship?
	Three and a half years.
	Ever married?
	No.
	Any kids?
	No.
	Okay.
	Fur babies?
	Baby eyes.
	The most recent relationship, who broke up with who?
	I did.
	Okay, and then the three and a half year one?
	I did.
	Okay.
	Most recent one, why did you break up with him?
	He's actually a really great guy.
	I still love him.
	But we don't communicate well.
	We have two different love languages.
	What's that?
	What are the two different ones?
	I know it's hard for you guys to see it, but I'm very mushy.
	I love the stuff from the notebook and the vow, all that.
	Do you want a guy to build on his hands?
	What?
	Oh, yeah.
	I'll help.
	I'll even help.
	That sounds like a date.
	Are you being like kind of joking with it?
	No, I would help.
	I've done it.
	No, but you genuinely want the notebook romance.
	Is that I try it?
	See if I try to get it.
	You're saying you broke up with your year and a half boyfriend because he wasn't meeting your I need the notebook threshold.
	Okay, if you want to get specific, I'd like to sit on the couch and actually watch Dancing with the Stars without you being on your phone the whole time.
	Maybe cuddle a little bit without you yelling at me saying I don't care.
	Yes.
	Hold on.
	Maybe hold my hand once in a while when we're walking.
	It's not going to be all the time.
	But it's dancing with is he gay?
	Is he gay?
	No, no, no, no.
	Dancing with the stars?
	I mean, hang on.
	I'm the dancer here.
	He's watching for you.
	He is being plugged in to you.
	He only watches it when I guilt trip him into watching.
	I know, but think about that.
	You're mad.
	He broke up with a guy because he's on his phone because you're forcing him to watch a TV show he has no intention.
	So I watch sports games with him and I'm not on my phone.
	Right.
	I think she just wants him to take an interest in her life.
	At times he doesn't have to actually have a chance.
	I'm just saying I think that there's probably more toxicity in the relationship other than he's on his phone during Dancing with the Stars.
	Well, all the time, not even just the show.
	That was just an example.
	Yeah.
	We could be sitting at the dinner table.
	One example you gave us.
	Yeah.
	Well, we only just got started.
	Yeah.
	That's a good example.
	It was important.
	That's a good example of somebody.
	That's part of my profession that is important.
	Well, hold on.
	Wait, hold on.
	I think it's less about.
	Hold on.
	Stop, stop, stop.
	So I think typically if somebody is going to say, well, I was abused.
	I'm not saying that's what you're saying, but I'm just throwing this as an example.
	You typically start with the worst thing.
	And if the first thing you start for is fairly benign or minor, that's my position.
	I'm like, what's the, then what's the next thing you're going to tell us?
	Yeah.
	Like, he didn't put the toilet seat down.
	He was abusive.
	So it's like, you know, like there, look, I know some people that doesn't necessarily like technically somebody could lead off with, oh, yeah, you know, I was an abusive relationship.
	He didn't put the toilet seat down, dot, dot, dot, ellipses.
	He beat me.
	Also, yeah, he fucking beat me.
	Like, I guess, I guess you could, technically, that could be the case.
	But typically, people will start with like the worst thing.
	Yeah.
	So in this case, he was on his phone watching Dancing with the Stars.
	No, he was on the phone during Dancing with the Stars.
	But you seem to think it could be anything, but that's what I watch.
	We have a licensed relationship therapist, whatever.
	What did he do wrong there?
	What did he do wrong there?
	I don't think there's anything.
	I'm sure if he was sitting here, if you guys were on my couch, he would have his own story, and then there would be sympathy for his side too.
	So I'm not villainizing a guy.
	I'm not even talking to him.
	I'm like, she makes you want to play fucking dancing with the stars, stupid bitch.
	In fairness, but this does not surprise me because there's so much distraction now.
	So many people are addicted to their phones.
	And I think the deeper thing is this is a story that's illustrative of trying to get someone's attention, explaining something that would matter to you, that's meaningful, that he could do for you.
	Not maybe every week to watch Dancing with the Stars, but hey, could you sit down and pay attention to something I care about?
	Pay attention to me.
	This is why relationships end.
	It's not big things most of the time, like abuse.
	Sometimes it's the daily drip of disconnection of someone expressing what they want and need, and their partner not listening, not tuning in.
	Eventually, that's what creates distance, disconnection, loss of intimacy, and people end up breaking up.
	Can I just add something?
	Sure.
	So there's more to the story.
	It just now we're talking about.
	Tiny, tiny little things like that will, of course, set me off a little bit.
	Give us the biggest thing, and then what is like one other thing?
	Okay, so right now I'm only here in, I guess, California because I have the time.
	I never had time in my life before.
	I worked full-time hours from the moment I woke up until I went to bed teaching ballroom dance lessons without even having a break.
	I stressed myself out so much.
	I was throwing up constantly, so unhealthy, but I love what I do.
	So I lived in London, Ontario for about a year, a year and a half, most of our relationship, and he lives in Hamilton.
	And so we barely saw each other.
	We barely went out on dates.
	Like the most we saw each other was late at night after the studio through like a big party.
	We have them every month.
	And I would drive all the way down to go see him.
	Because we are in the United States of America.
	Right, sorry.
	What is the distance between, what was it, Hamilton?
	About an hour and a half.
	In London.
	Yeah.
	An hour and a half.
	Depending on traffic.
	Right, medium distance relationship.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So you guys wouldn't see each other very much.
	Not often, no.
	I missed a lot of family events because of it.
	The family makes jokes about how they think they'll never meet me because I was always so busy.
	And like, it's not just teaching lessons.
	We do competitions and stuff.
	So like your time is very dedicated to what you do.
	So anyways, trying to cut this short, we would do short visits on the weekends for like one or two nights, and if anything.
	And so then I ended up in a car accident, which is why I have all this time available to be here.
	And I don't work right now, but I'm currently like receiving like payments from insurance.
	So like Tracy Morgan.
	Tracy Morgan.
	The comedian who got hit by a Walmart truck and had a big insurance settlement.
	Did you get a big insurance settlement?
	I only got, so for my car, I got.
	I mean, you're getting money.
	It was a write-off.
	So I got like close to seven grand back.
	Sorry.
	When you go on the insurance podcast, we can talk about that.
	Right, okay.
	Great.
	But let's move off of the preamble.
	Can you get to the meat of the.
	Yeah, so I have all this time in the world to spend with him, and we don't really spend time together still.
	So yeah, Dancing with the Stars is going to bug me.
	He's busy or you're busy on his computer, gaming, watching.
	Yeah, he has a job.
	He works like 5, 6 a.m.
	No, he starts at 8.
	Sometimes he leaves really early, but yeah, 8 a.m. until like 5, 6.30 job.
	He's a purchaser at a factory that I won't say.
	But I mean, like, this idea of trying to, I get it's cool that you're into sports, but if my girlfriend wasn't into sports, I personally wouldn't take offense if she wasn't attuned to sporting.
	I wasn't into sports.
	I got into sports for him.
	Okay, but that's you.
	I think, though, to, and look, I'm sure there's other details here, but at least in the specific example you provided where he was on his phone while watching Dancing with the Stars.
	Mind you, you're watching Dancing with the Stars.
	Your attention isn't on him.
	It's not like you're sitting at dinner and he's on his phone.
	Actually, yes.
	Well, maybe he was very while doing that.
	In any case, though, you're saying like there was no amount of time where you guys ever had, what's the love language thing?
	He's actually aware that he's got an addiction to his phone.
	I actually had him admit to it.
	He knows it's a problem.
	So it's not distracting attention.
	Yeah, you know, the phone thing's called fubbing.
	It's a real phenomenon.
	Yeah.
	Fubbing is when you ignore your partner for your phone.
	Like take the dancing with the stars out of it because fair enough.
	Like my husband doesn't want to watch that shit either.
	And I love that show.
	And I do not make him and I do not care.
	Once in a while I try, but if you're sitting there at dinner and your partner's looking at the phone and you're like, hey, can we put the phones away?
	And they keep looking at the phone.
	I mean, it sends a message that you're not that important to me.
	My biological stepfather, Tucker Carlson, was on Dancing with the Stars.
	Do you remember that season?
	Was he?
	He was.
	He was.
	Yeah, he was on there.
	Yeah, and he was the first person kicked off, so I'm mad at it.
	Okay, he went out on week one.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I think I vaguely remember.
	I'm trying.
	Tucker, come on, dad, hook me up with ABC.
	They probably won't because if some of my tweets are a little inflammatory.
	But they have people on who are inflammatory.
	They usually get voted off quickly.
	Did you see Yoshi the Conservative ones?
	Stepdad?
	I love that.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Well, that's definitely some interesting stuff.
	I don't know.
	They're dancing with the stars then.
	Okay, it doesn't have to be dancing with the stars.
	That's just something that means the most to me.
	Put the phone.
	What I like to say is anytime I'm spending quality time with someone that I actually love and care about.
	But I'm not saying he doesn't.
	I know he loves me and cares about me.
	He'll do a lot of nice things for me.
	He'll open the door for me.
	He'll, once in a while, make food for me, take care of me if I'm sick.
	He's not a piece of shit.
	But we don't communicate properly.
	And so some things that I need to be happy in a relationship, I'm not receiving.
	And that's just one example.
	So if I'm spending time with you one-on-one, yeah, it's okay to glance at your phone every now and then, check the score or whatever.
	But if you're on it, like glued to it, and I feel like I'm being ignored, then there's a problem.
	And it's happening all the time.
	It's not just once in a while.
	If he watches this, is this the message you want him to see?
	Like, this is what you want to hear.
	Oh, we've already talked about this.
	This is part of the reason.
	Yeah.
	So no surprises for him.
	No.
	If he hears this.
	No.
	Yeah.
	I promise him popcorn.
	Thanks.
	There you go.
	Even when we're like eating all of it.
	And it sounds like you ended up.
	Now if I said he was a piece of shit, that's a surprise.
	And you said he isn't.
	Yeah.
	He said he is that.
	Oh, I didn't realize.
	He's eating all of it.
	Oh, you're eating it all.
	You can eat it.
	He's allowed to eat it.
	I can't.
	Only men get popcorn.
	Wow.
	Yes.
	I love that.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and it's my longest relationship.
	Only a relationship?
	I would say it's my first real relationship.
	There's been talking stages, situationships, but I don't know.
	And you guys pretty serious?
	You guys going to get married?
	What do you think?
	Is he the one?
	I would like for it to end in marriage, yes.
	Okay.
	By the way, your hair is cool.
	Thank you.
	It's like very severe.
	Yes, hair faucet.
	That's what I was thinking.
	What I was originally going for was so nice.
	All right, we have some chats coming through.
	Oh, wait, no, sorry.
	Alex, your relationship.
	Yeah, guys, I'm Primetime 999.
	I've been dating a girl for almost three years.
	She is the girl that I am going to marry because I finally found a Division I volleyball player.
	And we're going to have some big, tall babies and have some Division I athletes.
	I'm an ex-Division I athlete myself.
	So, yeah.
	And I've been in, I would say, two other kind of serious relationships, but this one is definitely the most serious one that I've ever been in.
	That's nice.
	It's awesome.
	Rock and roll.
	All right.
	Maybe we'll do.
	Should we do a cameo?
	Yeah.
	Later.
	Yeah, my patriot.
	Come on.
	Yeah.
	Do the cameo at the end of the show.
	We'll do that.
	Yeah, definitely.
	We have some chats coming through.
	Then we have some, we actually have some clips from you, Alex.
	Oh, great.
	Yes.
	It's taken us a little while to get to it, but are you fine if we pull up some clips?
	Please.
	All right.
	Pull up some clips.
	First, we have some chats coming through.
	We have Pasty George.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	Hey, do your little special thing.
	My mother cooked, cleaned, and did all the laundry.
	And she still had time to take me and my siblings to the park and see her friends.
	Not once did she complain about not having freedom.
	Do you want to respond to that?
	For you, real quick.
	Well, this was back in the 40s.
	Oh, so.
	I mean, I don't know how old you are, but I was young and I wanted to have friends.
	I felt disconnected from society.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	George, if you want to give her a response, feel free.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, Adzils.
	Adzils donated $200.
	EOBrian, your favorite Brit is back.
	Looking slick in the jacket bee, give your boy a salute.
	In the wise words of Michael Jackson, the cheater can beat it.
	Hashtag free felicity, hashtag Michael is king.
	Yo, Adzils, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Free Felicity.
	This is like Halloween coming up, so I thought I'd do my Halloween costume.
	You know, Tyler Durden from Fight Club.
	You know, I got the glasses too.
	I was wearing these earlier.
	That's what that was.
	So, yeah, if any of you guys want to stick out your hand, I'll give you guys a chemical burn on.
	Anyways, whatever.
	Let's see here.
	We have Adzils again.
	Thank you, man.
	Adzils donated $200.
	Felicity with the eyebrow raise.
	Yeah, I know.
	Chair 7 is jarring with this dead description.
	I can see why your man was on his phone.
	Boring.
	Brian, again.
	Looking great, bro.
	Yo, Adzils.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate it.
	Appreciate it.
	We have.
	Let's see.
	Thank you, Adzils.
	We have Actually Religious coming in here.
	Ooh, I don't know.
	Oh, that's weird.
	Do you guys prefer that?
	I don't know.
	I don't know what I did there.
	We could end high divorce rates tomorrow by making the spouse asking for the divorce to pay alimony child support and let the other spouse keep the house/slash kids.
	Why award the one who wants out?
	Yo, chat, do you guys prefer the little stroke?
	It's called the little black outline.
	You know, it makes it a little easier to read.
	I don't know, chat.
	What do you think?
	Let me take a look what the chat says.
	You guys prefer it?
	Hello?
	Chat?
	Brian Durden?
	Oh, it's still catching up.
	Chat, you prefer it?
	Some people, the outline is awesome.
	Easier to read.
	Looks layered on itself.
	Anyways, whatever.
	Okay, we have a super chat.
	Can you pull that up for me?
	The first one?
	The Crucible.
	That's Andrew, I'm assuming.
	Sup, Alex.
	Andrew here.
	Pimp on the blimp, number nine.
	Primetime 99.
	99.
	Andrew Wilson.
	Yeah, he probably ran out of.
	Well, he didn't have ran out of letters.
	He was $100 super chat, but he hadn't matter.
	What's up, Andrew?
	By the way, we're going to have Andrew in the studio pretty soon here.
	In November.
	In November.
	So stay tuned for that.
	Shout out to Andrew there.
	Hope you're having a good time, man.
	You and Rachel.
	We have Pelagic, $100 Super Chat.
	Oops, sorry.
	We all knew it.
	She was cheating the whole time.
	Do you want to respond to Pelagic?
	Not the whole time.
	Not the whole time.
	So listen, the cheat happened.
	So it was a six-week or nine-week academy.
	It didn't happen until week seven.
	You keep saying Academy, Academy of What?
	Did you say for my job training?
	Were you like a cop or the police academy?
	What kind of a cat?
	Parole agent.
	Oh, parole agent.
	Oh, yeah.
	Oh, shit.
	Academy.
	Oh, yeah.
	I knew you said that.
	And one thing, can you tilt your mic down a little bit?
	And good, perfect.
	That's perfect.
	Have you cheated multiple times before in other relationships?
	No.
	Just this one?
	Yeah.
	Two?
	Well, I didn't cheat the first marriage.
	Okay.
	Well, cheating in like just any relationship, I guess.
	Oh, no.
	No cheating.
	Just this one.
	Yeah.
	Good times.
	Does that get you in trouble with like no?
	Isn't that just the military?
	Like, they frown upon cheating in the military, right?
	Yeah.
	Like, it's punishable.
	Yeah.
	It's punishable.
	I don't know if it's like if you're a cop or if you're parole.
	No, that's not military.
	That's not a government job, right?
	No.
	Well, it's a state.
	Well, yeah, it's government basis.
	It's definitely government.
	I mean, I don't think they want you to cheat like you're hooking up with your parole person, right?
	What?
	Like, you couldn't like hook up with your, I don't know what to call them.
	Them.
	They're not clients, like the people who you're like my offenders.
	Yes, you're offended.
	That is very crown director.
	Not that I would want to thank you anyway.
	But I think the military has that specifically because they get deployed.
	So they wanted to protect the soldiers.
	Yeah.
	And I think it still happens where all their wives are banging everybody when they get to the phone.
	But it has to be your married spouse, too.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Message from the government of Canada.
	Hasty George donated $200.04.
	I agree with Chair 7 about the phone thing.
	When I used to date a few decades ago, the young women would always be on their phone, and it made me feel like I wasn't essential to their attention.
	Well, clarification on this, though.
	So if you're on a first date or second date or third date and you're out to dinner and they're on their phone, that's an issue.
	You've been dating somebody for a year and you live together.
	Now, if they're like always on their phone, yeah, that's an issue.
	But if like, I think there's a bit more leeway when you're in a relationship and you're like, see each other every day and you're just, yeah, whatever.
	Checking the phone.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	Appreciate it.
	Appreciate it.
	Although, you know what?
	I was thinking about this.
	If I was showing a girl, she'd never seen The Matrix, one of my favorite films.
	If I was showing her The Matrix, and it was like the part where he's about to get, oh shit, I'm not the sort of climax.
	Well, I guess there's the climax, whatever.
	Whatever.
	It's been out for 25 years.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	You can't spoil it.
	All right, when he gets the red pill.
	Yeah.
	And she's on her phone during that segment.
	I'm like, what the fuck?
	Something's right.
	What's wrong with you?
	I've been married to her for three years, divorced.
	Sorry.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	Fucking not paying attention to The Matrix.
	The Matrix is my favorite movie too.
	I have a Matrix plug tattoo.
	Are you pandering right now?
	No, I do think of a plug on your neck.
	Yeah, it's like.
	Can someone pull my shirt down for me?
	Well, not from the front.
	All right.
	I designed it, so it has 369 kind of thing.
	Oh, that's so cool.
	Wait, stay there.
	Turn to your left.
	Yeah.
	Oh.
	Damn, you really are a matrix.
	You know what, though?
	They put in the wrong spot.
	No, I mean, they fucked your tattoo up.
	It was my choice because, like, I designed the tattoo.
	It's supposed to be at the base of the movie.
	I know.
	I know.
	It's more symbolic for me because I feel like I try to step outside of The Matrix.
	So it has like 369 interwoven into every aspect of I drew it too.
	So cool.
	You really did love The Matrix.
	I really did.
	And it wasn't interesting.
	So the big thing was, I actually didn't watch The Matrix until I was dating the last guy that I left.
	And people would tell me the way that I talk about life and my life experience sounds like I just watched The Matrix.
	And so he was like, you haven't seen The Matrix.
	And we watched all of them in a row.
	Not the fourth one, though, right?
	All of them.
	The fourth.
	Well, there's the trilogy, and then there's the piece of flaming dog shit that came out semi-recently.
	We went to Walmart and they had all four of them on one CD.
	That, I refuse to acknowledge that that's canon.
	The fourth Matrix film is not part canon.
	It's not the part of the universe.
	It's bullshit.
	No, the first one was the best one.
	Well, the Wachowski brothers, you know, they became trans, became sisters.
	You didn't know.
	No, I didn't know that.
	The directors were both men and they were both of them?
	Yes, the Wachowski brothers.
	Look them up.
	These are famous men.
	And after this movie, you know, The Matrix was a huge hit.
	And then, like, literally right after that is when they started their transition.
	I think they were a female, maybe starting during the second one, I think.
	But yeah, they're full-blown women and they're ugly women.
	It kind of makes a difference for different interpretations.
	That's what they say of The Matrix.
	Yeah, now they're trying to say that The Matrix was subliminally a trans thing.
	But you always heard that it was a Jesus thing.
	You know, that was Neo, was the Jesus arc.
	I've never seen The Matrix.
	Oh, my God.
	Watch it.
	Devil.
	I know.
	I know.
	When you go home, I'm going to watch it.
	With the hubby.
	But is the first one the best one?
	Yeah.
	Well, I really like the other two in the trilogy.
	But yeah, the first one's really good.
	But yeah, the other two kind of give you some more canon, you know, a little more background.
	Also watch the Animatrix because there's a bunch of cool.
	It's like gives you backstory about robot.
	Start with The Matrix.
	I mean, I know it's all with the animatrix.
	But wait, just to be clear, this is like the Keanu Reeves.
	Yay!
	Okay, okay.
	And in the passport, it's so crazy.
	His birth date in the movie, his passport, is September 11th, 2001.
	And it's before 9-11.
	Oh, that's a good idea.
	Okay, that's spooky.
	Very spooky.
	Really?
	What year did that movie come out?
	99, I think.
	So right there.
	Pimp on the blimp.
	That's the year I was born.
	Alex Stein, 99.
	On the grind all the time.
	I love it.
	Brian's blowing my mind.
	Let's pull up the clips from Pimp on the Blimp.
	Alex Stein, the first clip.
	If you would.
	You don't want your clip?
	We'll pull my clip up afterwards, I think.
	Okay.
	So first clip, we'll do video tab for that one.
	This is AOC Alexandria Casio-Cortez.
	She's a New York Congresswoman.
	She was a bartender to Congresswoman.
	She might be running for vice president.
	Let's not forget that.
	Do you think it's running for Gavin?
	I think it's going to be Gavin and potentially AOC.
	I mean, AOC's been campaigning with Bernie, but I mean, I don't know who else really on the left.
	Like, they're saying Josh Shapiro and maybe Pete Buttigieg, but I think that they would go with a woman.
	And I think AOC is probably the most popular woman on the left.
	I think we need Kamala to run again.
	No.
	Yeah, I mean, that would make a lot of fun.
	Yeah, I mean, it would help.
	Yeah, it would help conservatism, but I don't.
	She's so unlikable.
	I mean, they didn't want her to run the first time, so I don't know.
	I don't think she'll run.
	Go ahead, Nick.
	All right, let's play the clip.
	AOC, my favorite big booty Latina.
	I love you.
	My favorite.
	She wants to kill babies, but she's still beautiful.
	You look very beautiful in that dress.
	You look very sexy.
	That's her.
	Look at that booty on AOC.
	That's my favorite big booty Latina.
	Oh, healthy.
	I love it.
	My favorite AOC.
	Nice to meet you.
	Look at that baby.
	She looks at that dress.
	Look at AOC.
	Hot, hot, hot, like it's a moment.
	See, Brian, this is the one thing, though, you don't get the full context.
	So, like, that video blew up, right?
	But what AOC did that really blew me up is that right after that, and you can find it's like AOC's reaction, she went, and I'm not kidding, made 16 Instagram stories about me and posted me.
	I'm in her Instagram story.
	Yes, so because she, like, if she just would have ignored that, you know, I mean, maybe it would have got some hits, but because she made such a big deal about it and like said that she was sexually harassed, which she maybe was a little bit, but it just made it, it made it a much bigger deal.
	Like, everybody wrote about it.
	So, like, I'm indebted to AOC.
	I might actually have to vote for her now.
	I don't want to, but I owe her.
	What was she saying when she came up?
	You want a piece of little selfie?
	She loved it.
	Oh, my God.
	She's lost.
	She loves it.
	She's like, do you want a little selfie, like piece?
	She thought I was being nice.
	She didn't hear what you were saying.
	I think she did hear what I was saying.
	Like, she wants to kill babies?
	Well, no, she might have heard that at first because that was like, that was now almost three years ago, I think.
	But that was like right when Texas passed the Heartbeat Bill.
	So she had been talking about abortion.
	It just didn't seem like congruent behavior had she heard.
	She might not have heard that.
	She did not.
	She did hear the big booty list.
	Yeah, she likes it.
	She was like, everybody, everybody.
	Latina lady likes it when you say you have a big booty and you compliment them.
	Nobody doesn't like a compliment.
	I mean, you know, so it's just, so she liked it.
	And, you know, we had our little romantic moment and her fiancé, Riley, total cuckold, didn't say a word, didn't come back, didn't want any of the smoke.
	AOC wears the pants.
	She's the one that calls the shot.
	So, yeah, yeah, that happened.
	Nice.
	We have a clip number two.
	Clip number two.
	Nick, were you able to find the AOC reaction?
	Like reaction or whatever?
	Oh, no, I didn't.
	My girlfriend might be able to find it, babe.
	Well, let's start the clip that we do have.
	Then we can try to find the AOC clip.
	All right.
	Big Booty Latinas can stay.
	Protect Big Booty Latinas.
	You should have the ice protests in Dallas, Texas.
	Well, I'm trying to protect them.
	I don't want them to get deported.
	Fucking racist asshole.
	I want big booty Latinas protected.
	Dude, I'm on your side.
	Dude, what are you doing?
	Scared, but I'm not scared at all.
	What's going on?
	I'm trying to protect you.
	Yes, I am.
	You're a big booty Latina.
	If he says that one.
	What I say!
	Big Booty Latina.
	What are you going to do?
	Big Booty Latina.
	Oh, my God.
	Big Booty Latina.
	Big Booty?
	Fuck you.
	Big Booty Latinas get to stay.
	There's going to be the background.
	And if you're in the background, I'll figure it out.
	Oh, I'm real scared.
	I'm real scared.
	Protect her.
	I want to protect all Big Booty Latinas.
	If she's a nine, she's fine.
	Protect Big Booty Latinas.
	He's telling me else that he wants to go to the back movie real quick.
	I'm not going to wrestle with two twinks and some fat max.
	There's a taco chart back there, maybe.
	We want to protect Big Booty Latinas under all costs.
	Big Booty Latinas.
	Big Booty Latinas are welcome to stay.
	Not Big Booty Latinas.
	His ass, he's got to go.
	All right.
	You're too funny.
	Any reactions from any of the panelists?
	Why do you do this?
	What are you lame?
	Why is that lame?
	Why is that lame?
	Is it because you're not a big booty Latina?
	Well, yeah.
	And also, like, why didn't she shout out her plastic surgeon that BBL was hot?
	What?
	Wait, who?
	What BBL is?
	Who had a BBC?
	Yeah.
	You talking about AOC?
	Yes.
	AOC had a BBL.
	She has a BBL.
	I don't think.
	No, that's like me.
	I think it's natural.
	Maybe.
	You think it's natural?
	Are you reacting to the first clip or the one we just watched?
	Both.
	Not both.
	But why this?
	Why the.
	Oh, it was just lame.
	Oh, you don't like that?
	I'm trying to help big booty Latinas.
	You don't like that?
	Why is it lame?
	Why is that lame?
	Yeah, why is that lame?
	I don't know.
	I feel like it could have been better.
	Listen, I mean.
	Like what?
	I know.
	I mean, Alex, you're not up to snuff.
	I know.
	I want some constructive criticism.
	What did you not like about it?
	It could have been more realistic.
	I was at a literal ice protest.
	It didn't seem like it.
	Well, do you think those were actors?
	Yes, all of them.
	Oh, well, that wasn't.
	That was real.
	And I almost got stabbed.
	Yeah, yeah.
	They were crisis actors.
	Wait, that's what I want to know.
	Are you scared at all next time legitimately?
	Because I would be terrified.
	I would be afraid to confront people like that.
	They all looked like they wanted to rip your face off.
	And a lot of people.
	Like, they're all on SSRIs and they're all detached from reality.
	And if they're not on SSRIs, they're on fentanyl or some sort of like, you know.
	Yeah, they seem like they're on fatal.
	Because SSRIs in French.
	You don't think those people seem like that?
	Yeah, all those people were definitely on fentanyl.
	Some of them have done fine.
	They would be sleeping.
	Have you seen people on fentanyl before?
	From experience.
	Let me know.
	Let me take you real quick, Skid Rob.
	Well, I'll tell you this much because I do go to a lot of protests, and I'm telling you, like, in the protest scene, there's a lot of like drugs and CDs.
	Yeah, not Saturday.
	But probably not SSRIs and stuff.
	I mean, maybe not every person there was on fentanyl, but I guarantee you at that protest, one person there was using opiates.
	I can guarantee it.
	It was you?
	Is that why you're guaranteed?
	I know one person for sure.
	No, people were on drugs right in protest.
	Have you ever been to a protest?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	A real one.
	I know.
	So, and I've been to a bunch of real protests.
	I'm saying the type of people that go to protests, you know, sex workers like yourself and drug addicts and you know, all kinds of people, media people.
	So, yeah, I'm telling you, at that protest, there's a lot of green goes probably selling fentanyl.
	There's brown berets.
	Like, they're basically like, you know, a de facto cartel member.
	So, yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if there were some people not only using fentanyl, but maybe potentially dealing it as well.
	I don't know whatever.
	We have the AOC clip.
	Let's pull that up.
	Start here at the beginning, I guess.
	Is this AOC's reaction?
	Oh, okay, sure, go ahead.
	Yes, this.
	See this guy right there?
	Right there.
	He, when I was walking up, he said, Hey, look at that big ass.
	It's a big, juicy booty.
	You know, I'll consciously racist sexist stuff.
	She pointed out that it happened in front of a capital police officer who she says did nothing to help her really hard.
	AOC tweeted that she wanted to deck the guy but needed to catch a vote more than a cake.
	What the hell was that?
	Alex, actually, I did something a little bit similar in 2020, 2021.
	Nick, pull up my clip.
	Well, you have a bunch of like viral clips, Brian.
	I'm not even just saying, like, you cover a bunch of stuff.
	So, I actually went to a protest and I have a sign of my own.
	This is like, well, you know, when, when, when, what was that?
	Before we show it, what was that movie that came out in like the mid-2000s?
	There were two like magician movies that came out.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Like the revenant.
	And it's called like Not the Benefactor.
	I can't remember the name of either of them.
	The Revenant and the Magician or some bullshit.
	It's like, wow, what's that term called when like two creative geniuses synchronicity?
	Synchronicity, something like that.
	So I, you know, Nick, if you pull up my clip, so this is me at the protest.
	This isn't synchronicity.
	Played it.
	So the sign reads, Eastern.
	You know, bring them over.
	European gymnastics.
	Preferably just the women.
	Okay.
	So I'm, you know, I'm on board.
	I'm on board here.
	I actually, you know, you say big booty Latinos.
	I say, you know, female pole faulters.
	Eastern European.
	Female, preferably, you know, but look, I'll accept Asian female athletes, Latin American female athletes.
	I think let them immigrate illegally.
	I don't, that's fine.
	Female athletes, all of them are fine, except for the shot put softball or softball.
	Yes, no softball.
	Shot put, nah, they're a bit not really my speed.
	Two masculine.
	Well, they tend to be a bit the shot putter putters, the stone put, you know, where they throw the they spin and throw the stone or whatever.
	They're a bit plump for me.
	They got big midsections.
	I mean, a bit hefty.
	Hefty.
	Hefty.
	Yeah, Rubin-esque.
	So I think we have a lot in common, Alex.
	I mean, we do.
	And great minds think alike, and that's why we're at these protests.
	And really, it makes me actually think of a serious thing, though.
	What is her name?
	Irina, the Eastern European refugee that got stabbed by the black dude on the thing.
	You know, it sucks that like you were actually bringing Eastern European.
	I think she might have been a gymnast or something.
	And then you come to America and you get stabbed.
	So be very careful.
	You come to this country.
	It's not that safe.
	Well, public transportation, please.
	Have you ever had someone do something violent to you?
	Like actually attack you?
	I've been spit on.
	I've been attacked.
	I've been spit's not that bad.
	You've been made from somebody that is AIDS.
	It's not good.
	Fair enough.
	Fair enough.
	Although you cannot transfer her aid.
	Still, you want them to spit in your mouth or spinning on you?
	No, no, thanks.
	Not even Magic Johnson and his rich aids.
	I don't want him spitting on me.
	No.
	But yeah, no, I've been in like vulnerable situations.
	One thing, I like, obviously, with what happened to Charlie Kirk, it was like incredibly sad.
	But I don't think, like, personally, I'm going to get attacked in that same way.
	Like, I think that whatever happened there was like, you know, it was a really, really unfortunate situation.
	So I'm saying, in general, I'm not worried about getting shot, but yeah, maybe potentially getting stabbed or something.
	Sure, I mean.
	Speaking of getting shot, I was looking at, I think it was your Instagram.
	Man, you got, I gotta admit, you got some balls because you walked up to these like Antifa guys with guns.
	Those are real guns.
	John Brown.
	I was messing with them that they were fake guns, but they looked real guns.
	No, they were real guns.
	I call them fake guns.
	I call them sword guns.
	They were real guns in Texas.
	We have open carry, so you can just walk around.
	So you walked up to them and you were provoking these two guys.
	I was provoking all black.
	And then listen to the one of the guys, you can look this up.
	It's a guy by the name of Ben Song.
	Benjamin Song is an Asian guy, and he actually was on the run for nearly a month.
	He was a guy that set up the coordinated attack at an ICE facility to shoot ICE people.
	So that guy, Brian, was the good.
	Well, one of the guys I was making fun of was the Asian guy later on ended up going to jail.
	He's in jail right now.
	And they did an ambush attack at an ICE facility.
	So that is crazy that that guy actually ended up becoming a shooter on something.
	Oh, that's wild.
	Yeah.
	I didn't see the time stamp on it.
	Well, that was a while back.
	Yeah, that video is actually old.
	That video is almost two years old.
	I was just reshared it.
	Okay.
	And long story short, though, the guy that I was actually antagonizing ended up becoming a really bad guy.
	His name is Ben Song.
	He's in jail right now, and they ambushed an ICE agent.
	I don't think they killed him, but they shot the guy.
	I think it's a good thing.
	We have one more clip from Alex.
	We'll play the final one.
	Hey, guys, it's.
	Pull it up.
	All right.
	Go ahead and play it.
	We have a theme tonight.
	Hey, guys, it's me, Alex Stein.
	I just want to say, this has been a terrible meeting.
	I mean, it's been so boring.
	I just listened to all these people drone on.
	And let me tell you something, Jennifer.
	I love big booty Latinas.
	I sit here and I see, yes, I love out of line.
	Why can't I say I love big booty Latinas?
	How do you figure that?
	How is that a response?
	So, my first amendment, right?
	I'm allowed to say I like big booty Latinas.
	How is that a crime?
	Is that because you're a big booty Latina?
	That is the second time.
	I do have a comment about technology, but you're yelling at me because I'm talking about big booty Latinas.
	Listen, AOC is my favorite big booty Latina.
	You're my second favorite big booty Latina.
	So don't get all butthurt about that.
	I still think you're a beautiful lady.
	A little thick, but I like him thick.
	I mean, I don't want some skinny mini girl.
	I want somebody that has some cushion for the pushing.
	You know what I mean?
	So this is the problem: is the tech here in New York City, it's absolutely ridiculous.
	Now, my wife has got her OnlyFans on mycity.com.
	She's on MyCity showing her vagina for like $5.99 a month.
	And I know that you could probably make some money.
	Yeah, that's my city, Jennifer.
	What?
	Yeah, I was going to say, no one's remote.
	Keep it clean.
	Well, do you know the First Amendment?
	You know, I'm allowed.
	Hey, no.
	Twice already.
	Do you not understand the First Amendment?
	I'm going to say whatever I want.
	No, you don't understand the First Amendment.
	Then I'm allowed to say Big Booty Latina.
	Big Booty Latina is not a crime to say that, officer.
	But this guy is such a dummy.
	He doesn't understand.
	It's not a crime.
	I can go to a meeting.
	I can call him a dummy.
	I can call you Big Booty Latina.
	I can call you an idiot.
	I can call you a mask wearer, probably five times vaccinated.
	And I know you're probably going to get my.
	Oh, my God.
	I can say all that.
	I'm a pimp on a blunt.
	Y'all don't understand this.
	I've seen y'all, and I've won.
	It's true.
	So I can call you a big booty Latina.
	I can say whatever I want.
	Thank you.
	Prime time 99.
	Are you in my law?
	Look me up.
	Can't be on a blank.
	Look me up.
	You wouldn't waste the data on me.
	How are we lying?
	It's not easy.
	It's not easy.
	So explain the big booty Latina thing.
	Because I know that your girlfriend, I believe she's not a big booty Latina.
	I was a bit confused there.
	Well, born and raised in Texas, there's a big Spanish culture.
	I think it goes back to the Battle of the Alamo and remembering what we fought for as Texas citizens.
	And a lot of you guys probably don't know about Santa Ana and the Mexican-Texas Revolution and what America was built on.
	And it was built on this battle for Texas against the Mexicans, and we won.
	And I feel like Santa Ana killed a lot of our Texas men.
	And Brian, that pisses me off.
	I love Sam Houston, Davey Crockett, rest in peace, David Crockett.
	So I feel like the best way to help my ancestors like David Crockett is to take all their sexy women and keep them here in America and just make their men deport their men.
	And, you know, they're stuck being gay or whatever.
	And then we have all their beautiful women.
	I think that is just revenge for what they did to some of my Texas brethren.
	Go off, King.
	Wow.
	Any reactions?
	You seem to be a little distressed by what Alex is saying.
	Do you have a response to just cringe?
	You just cringe?
	Okay, come on.
	What's more cringe, though?
	Like the fact that you have kids and you are a porn star.
	I mean, isn't that my thing?
	I'm not a kid.
	Because you said your favorite thing is being a mom.
	I've never said anything about it.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	You did say that.
	Do you have kids?
	I'm not talking about her kids.
	No, you're like, I love being, I love being a mom.
	I don't think there's anything, and I'm not even trying to attack you right now to start that, but like, you want to call that cringe?
	Yeah, I know every joke is not going to be the funniest joke, but literally, you are a porn star.
	And imagine how cringe it is for your kid to have to talk to other kids about what their mommy does for work.
	You don't think that's a little more cringe?
	I'm pretty sure they're not talking about that at nine years old.
	Oh, you don't think that comes out?
	No.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah.
	You really don't, you're that naive.
	You don't think that comes up that mommy does this?
	You don't think the other parents?
	You don't think the other parents know?
	Oh, absolutely.
	Yeah, so if other parents know, you don't think they're telling their kids, oh, talk about it.
	Yeah, so you don't think that comes up?
	No.
	But do you talk to your child about what you do and you explain it in an age-appropriate way?
	Absolutely, yeah.
	Yeah.
	I mean, that's cringe.
	I couldn't imagine like my mom being a porn star.
	I think that is actually cringe.
	Like looking at a joke and not finding it funny.
	Yeah, sure.
	I mean, you can say that's cringe, but I mean, it just.
	It's great, but also you grew up very differently, right?
	What?
	Like, you grew up like silver platter, right?
	No.
	I mean, yeah, I mean, I'm a pimp on a bunch.
	I mean, I'm not broke.
	I didn't grow up that hard, but I don't, who cares about how we grew up?
	I'm saying you said something's cringe, and I look at you and I'm like, listen, I want to be respectful, but I think what you're doing is probably the most cringe thing and most disrespectful thing you could do to your child, having a mom that every other parent is going to sit there and they're all going to gossip about how this mom does his sex work and this and that.
	And I think it puts your kid in an unfair advantage and it probably makes them have a lot of cringe conversations.
	But do you think it's, don't you think by providing a life for her kid, she's really doing her child the best service she could?
	I mean, I understand that people gossip and are judgmental, but she's out there earning a good living for her kid and cringe on like a joke level and cringe on someone's livelihood.
	And being a mom, it's kind of apples and oranges, don't you think?
	Yeah, but everybody has their price.
	So it's like, I mean, you're trying to provide for your kid, and I understand that's hard, but you're selling your soul in the process.
	You know, it's like you're, it's like, is the juice worth the squeeze?
	So it's like, yes, you have money, but like guys are literally using you as like a sex doll.
	And basically, like when it comes down to it, like when it comes to sex work, you are a prostitute.
	You're getting paid to do this.
	And I don't think any girl grows up wishing, oh, I want to be a prostitute one day.
	Or I don't think any child's like, I'm happy my mommy's a prostitute.
	And I'm not saying this is an attack on you.
	I'm just saying as an objective fact that that's a tough situation to be in as a child having your mom that's a prostitute.
	I think it could totally depend, though, like depending on how good of a mother you are.
	I know when I was in middle school, I went to school with a couple kids whose mother was a porn star, and she was very bad at, like, he told me at one point that he came home and his mom was recording porn in the house and he walked into it.
	Those kids were also selling cocaine and jerking off on the bus at school and like sticking their appendage in vending machines and getting expelled.
	So their mother, you know, and that was once they got to high school.
	So like, you know, as long as you're not affecting all the children of that, are you like aggressive?
	I might have said, Jesus.
	Like, that's extreme.
	And I'm sure that's not the kind of mother you absolutely.
	There's definitely situations where.
	I think if your mom's a porn star, you know, you don't put your penis in a vending machine.
	You sit there and learn where to stick it.
	But yeah, and I mean, once again, I do agree that like, you know, maybe a woman, she's trying to provide for herself.
	Like, is there something I guess maybe admirable for a mom providing for a kid?
	Yeah, I do think so.
	But as a kid, I would guarantee that they would rather their mom be poor and work a normal job than have a little bit of money and be a prostitute.
	And that's just how I honestly feel.
	But hey, listen, we're all trying to make a living.
	We're all struggling to make ends meet.
	I'm not going to fault you on that.
	But, you know, yeah, I do some cringe stuff on the internet, but at least I literally don't let men, you know, ejaculate on me for, you know, but you're also projecting, in fairness, your own viewpoint about sex working.
	Yeah, I want your response.
	I don't really have any response.
	Like, he's entitled to whatever opinions that he has.
	How do you explain that to a nine-year-old?
	Because you said you like explain that in a child way.
	Yes.
	So my daughter, she has parental restrictions on everything, but she does have a cell phone.
	She does have an iPad.
	It is through the Apple software that she cannot even make calls or receive calls unless I personally put the contact into her phone.
	Same thing with searching the internet.
	Anything that's beyond G rated, it won't even come up.
	So, you know, we sometimes are looking on my phone, like Instagram or whatever, and maybe like a Britney Spears pops up dancing crazy and showing her tits, whatever, right?
	And my daughter says something like, oh, wow, that's crazy.
	That's, you know, or the girls on TikTok bouncing up and down, making faces, whatever.
	So I just explained to her that what I do for work is much worse than that.
	And that at some point, she will have a problem with what I do.
	And that I don't promote what I do for work, you know, because it is very degrading, very demeaning.
	And I would never encourage young women to do what I do for work.
	Well, and so that is kind of a big statement.
	Like, you wouldn't even want your own child to do the same work that you do.
	No, of course not.
	But this is one thing, and this is not an attack against you, but there is a documentary called Hot Girls Wanted.
	If you were interested, people should watch it.
	And I'm not an expert in the porn business, but in that documentary, it does talk about how most girls have a short career.
	And it's because the industry is very, you know, challenging, to say the least.
	It sounds like you've had kind of a longer career.
	Like, why do you think that is instead of being like the typical person that goes in and out?
	So I've taken breaks.
	I started in 2013 when I was 18 years old.
	And the way that I kind of started, the way that I kind of started out was much different than how most people get recruited into that industry, like what you're referring to, the Hot Girls Wanted.
	I know the people that were in that.
	Yeah, that's like completely different from what I experienced.
	For me, it was more like a community and it was more like an educational thing.
	I started out at kink.com at the Armory in San Francisco.
	So starting out there on a very, very professional level, it was much more about consent.
	It was much more about safety.
	It was much more about acting.
	It was much more about pushing boundaries and like, what are you okay with?
	What are you not okay with?
	And I only did solo and girl-girl content for several years.
	Yeah.
	Do you think you'll ever do a normal job?
	No.
	I have.
	I have had normal jobs.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	But like, what are you going to do when you age out of porn?
	I don't really think that aging out is a thing.
	There are like all kinds of fetishes, probably.
	So I guess as long as you're willing to get naked, you could probably make a little money.
	But why continue to do porn and not transition to OnlyFans?
	You know, OnlyFans is like this new generation, and eventually I am going to kind of transition to that.
	But as of right now, I'm just, you know, getting back into the community and like kind of seeing where things are at now.
	You don't have to tell us because obviously it's very private, but like do you make that much money doing porn?
	I mean, yeah, you can make a lot of money.
	Wow.
	Because I thought it's like, you know, like it's like in that documentary.
	People think you get paid a lot, but it's really like $3,500 or something.
	Right.
	Is that really what it is?
	Like, yeah.
	So like, would you ever consider doing something more discreet rather than like doing the porn?
	And you mean like escorting or yeah, just something that not many people would recognize you for.
	So I have had like BDSM clients in the past, but not escorting.
	No.
	Okay.
	And then I just want to know how come you're not doing that anymore?
	Are you still doing it?
	Taking BDSM clients?
	Just anything discreet?
	Oh, there's like a level of safety that goes along with that, right?
	So, I mean, if people are like referring me to someone that they have like a good rapport with, then that could be fine.
	But for the most part, no.
	I mean, you could do it out of like, say, you know, those rubbing tugs or whatever.
	I know that.
	Oh, right.
	Something like that.
	I mean, there's some safety there.
	I do know some people who work in those.
	You must like it, though, right?
	You know, yes, like.
	You have to get some sort of sexual gratification.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Absolutely.
	Yeah.
	Because that's the only way you'd want to do it, right?
	I mean, I mean, because it's tough.
	I'm not even saying that to be like in a daycap.
	I'm just saying.
	I mean, do you like having sex?
	Yeah, but I mean, I don't like being like, you know, pooped on.
	I mean, what's the crazy thing?
	I've never been shit on it.
	I know, but you've probably done some crazy stuff.
	I actually haven't done anything that crazy.
	Right?
	Well, I mean, you know, it's like you know how it starts.
	Once again, I keep referencing that documentary, but it starts like, oh, you're just having sex with one guy, and then all of a sudden it's like 10 midgets and like a donkey.
	You know, that's what they say.
	What porn are you watching?
	I'm watching the documentary.
	It's called Hot Girls Want It, and they explain this.
	I'm getting shit on.
	You should watch that one.
	Well, that's what they say.
	Well, that's what, you know, I think they do want you to get.
	Well, that's like how it starts, like softcore, and then it goes into like hardcore.
	You know, so there is levels to like the stuff they want you to do.
	It's interesting how uneducated you are about just.
	I'm not a porn expert.
	I agree, but I'm just saying when you make these statements like that, I'm going to get fucked by 10 donkeys or something.
	No, I was trying to just make a joke about the slippery slope.
	It has cringe again cringe.
	It starts with how you're having sex with one person.
	Have you ever done a gangbang?
	No.
	I have never.
	Have you?
	No.
	Oh, you're the one watching the 10 donkeys or whatever.
	I didn't watch that.
	I'm just trying to get on the bus.
	You're the one that knows about it.
	I didn't even know about that.
	Okay.
	Listen, I love how you're trying to act like all naive, even though you're the sex worker, you're the prostitute.
	Like, you've never heard a gang.
	And what are you acting like then?
	I'm just calling it balls and strikes.
	Like, you're a sex worker, and I'm not, like, trying to even take shots.
	It's just, it is what it is.
	Like, I'm not even trying to take shots.
	But I think you're being naive if you don't think, like, in porn, they make you do weird stuff sexually.
	I think that is very common in porn.
	Do you feel like you're well compensated for the work that you do?
	Um, somewhat, yeah, somewhat.
	Yeah.
	Do you think what, like, what bracket does your job end up putting you in in terms of like lower, middle, upper kind of class?
	Currently, middle class because I don't work very often.
	I only shoot like maybe two or three scenes a month.
	So yeah, I don't really work very much.
	So, but you also said like you that you like it, right?
	That you went to do what you do.
	But then you also said that you feel like it's degrading to handle because people think that about okay.
	That's the reason why you're the way people do.
	The way people are uneducated.
	You don't feel degraded by it.
	Yeah, how am I uneducated?
	But I'm confused.
	How am I uneducated?
	Like, I know what you do.
	You have sex on camera.
	I mean, what are you doing?
	So, you think that's an educated statement?
	How much more education do I need to know that you have to do that?
	I don't know, $10.
	I mean, you lay on your back and you have sex.
	I don't know what donkeys.
	It's not that complicated.
	I'm not like 10 midgets and a donkey.
	What was the specifically uneducated statement that you're doing?
	He thinks I'm having sex with 10 midgets on a donkey.
	No, I was just.
	Isn't that just hyperbolic?
	Yeah, I was just literally being hyperbolic.
	It's hilarious.
	But you can turn, like, if they want you to do something, you can turn it down.
	Right?
	You have that option 100%.
	I had stepped away there momentarily and I was very irked by the fact you guys were bullying my friend here, Alex.
	I heard something from you, though.
	You said that you're giving a criticism towards Alex's criticism towards her involvement in porn.
	What was your objection there?
	Specifically, just that she's earning.
	I mean, I felt protected.
	Are you fine with that?
	About what?
	Drug dealers who sell drugs to minors.
	No.
	I am not fine with drug dealers selling.
	They're just trying to, you know, provide for their family.
	Okay, fair enough.
	But I would have a problem with her having sex with minors on film.
	I mean, I'm not okay with anyone harming minors in any way.
	Here, let me ask a super simple question.
	Overall, in general, is porn good for society or bad?
	Bad.
	Well, that's for you.
	I mean, I can kind of see, I don't have a black and white answer to that.
	I don't think porn is all bad for society.
	That's my opinion.
	On the balance of, you know, the totality.
	On the balance, I would say it's probably not great in that it's highly addictive.
	It can be really hard on relationships.
	What about the actual women who are in the industry?
	Is it bad for them too?
	I think it can be, but I do know.
	Well, I know women that feel very empowered by their jobs who are sex workers.
	Being a prostitute is empowering?
	I think if somebody tells me that they feel empowered in their life, that I'm going to believe them.
	It wouldn't be my personal choice.
	Did you feel empowered?
	No.
	But she's not every sex worker.
	I mean, I feel like a lot of sex workers put on that facade that, oh, I'm so empowering.
	Maybe.
	I'm not going to tell, like, I'm not going to paint a broad brushstroke and assume that every single person doesn't have any agency in the job that they choose.
	But I mean, if we want, if we want a cohesive, strong society, high trust society, like, look, I understand porn is legal.
	Like, there's no dispute there.
	It's currently out there.
	But I mean, if practically speaking, I don't think you can come away from looking at porn and think overall, on a balance of everything in totality, that it's an overall good force in the world.
	Okay, that's fair.
	But do you think all porn should be gone?
	Like, you think anyone using porn that it's necessarily a bad?
	I mean, I know a lot of people that they use porn in their relationship.
	They use porn in moderation.
	They don't have a problem with it.
	If two consenting adults are looking at porn that's made by consenting adults, I don't even watch porn, so I'm not here to like champion porn, nor am I saying there aren't probably like oppressive components that aren't good for women.
	I'm not trying to be the poster child of porn.
	But I don't, I also, I don't know.
	I know a lot of people that porn's a part of their sex life, but it's not hurt, it doesn't seem to be hurting anyone.
	Well, I mean, if you had a female client who came to you and said, you know, my boyfriend, he watches porn.
	He's not addicted, but he watches it and it displeases me.
	Would you say there's something wrong that the boyfriend is doing there?
	No, I would not.
	But what I would say is if what I would say as the person's therapist, as the couple's therapist, is that if it's a problem for you, it's a problem for the relationship.
	I'm not there to like kind of get people to see it my way.
	I see.
	And my husband, I don't think he's a big consumer of porn.
	I mean, maybe he's watching right now and laughing that this is what I think.
	But like if he's masturbating right now.
	I mean, he cooking.
	He cooking.
	I would like not be mad, actually.
	I really wouldn't.
	But I think if porn were interfering with our sex life, or if you, and I have dated someone who is a porn addict, so I am sensitive to it in that sense.
	Plus, I have worked with many, many couples where one partner is a sex addict or recovering sex addict.
	So I know it can be very, very destructive.
	But yeah, I mean, ultimately, though, the genesis of this conversation started when she was calling Alex cringe for making some jokes.
	And then, or no, no, for his job, I guess.
	He's cringe for his job.
	What was the phrase?
	The big booty link.
	Oh, the big boy.
	No one was doing about it.
	That particular video.
	You were used to staging.
	Alex is like, we were used to stages.
	That wasn't staged.
	It was a real person.
	It seemed so staged.
	That was the only reason why I wasn't.
	That was a real counsel.
	No, no, no.
	I mean the protests.
	No, it was real.
	But whatever.
	It doesn't matter.
	That seems like a lot of effort to do like a one-minute.
	Yeah.
	Like, I'm going to hire a bunch of Mexicans.
	They pretend to be the fuck out of me.
	I mean, I guess you could get away with it.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	But I mean, anyways, maybe we'll move off of the meta-conversation there, but you called him cringe.
	He called you cringe for being a porn star.
	I mean, I think that's very good.
	That's very good.
	It's disgusting and cringe.
	You know, to be cringe is to make money, and to make money is to be free.
	Yeah, and some things are cringe, you know.
	I mean, it is, I guess it's life, you know, and everybody has different perspectives.
	Like what some people might think is cool, some other people might think it's cringe.
	So yeah, I happen to think it's funny.
	Thank you.
	Oh, I thought it was hilarious.
	I appreciate it.
	And it takes balls, too.
	Yeah, I think it's funny too.
	And not everybody has to think it's funny.
	And listen, you know, people obviously have, you know, shared the same sentiment as you, so it is what it is.
	I'm not worried about that.
	I just thought it was funny.
	You're like, oh, cringe, cringe.
	And I'm like, but I don't even know why you're that cringe.
	Because I doubt you're not that political.
	No, no.
	Is it because Latinas are taking all your work?
	Yeah, is that why you're threatened by anybody else?
	Yes, exactly.
	They work harder.
	The ladies were voted for half the money, too.
	Literally.
	That's why that the illegals are taking over the porn industry.
	It's actually really damaging.
	I wonder how many illegal immigrants aren't porn.
	None.
	We have very strict rules on identification.
	Like a green card, though.
	No, you have to have a United States passport.
	You have to have your identification and make sure you're like over each other.
	Yeah, and then they take ex-consent videos.
	I'm surprised we didn't do that here.
	We have some messages here from Pasty George.
	Really quick, though, I think, let's pull up my tweet.
	It was the final thing on this.
	Again, I guess I'm on board with this.
	My final thing, tweet.
	We will allow illegal immigrants, if they are female pole vaulters, pathway to citizenship now.
	So I feel like me and Alex here have one comment.
	Anyways, we do.
	We have spirits.
	A message from the government of Canada.
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	Big booty Latinas.
	LMFAO.
	Awesome.
	Alex is the boss.
	Pasty George, thank you, man.
	Appreciate the chat.
	You have a few more coming through.
	Sorry for the delay on these.
	We were in the midst of heated exchange.
	Things haven't even gotten hot yet.
	Oh, we can work.
	Yeah, I know.
	It's interesting.
	I didn't get it.
	Two hours in.
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	The American Constitution guarantees the right to free speech.
	However, certain groups are slowly censoring and overwriting specific rights in America.
	It's time to wake up.
	I agree.
	The whole No Kings movement.
	I love the fact that it's like no kings but kings when it comes to their political stance in the way that, you know.
	Was anybody at the protest?
	I was there.
	I was there.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I got attacked at that one, too.
	But the no kings protest, even though I don't really agree with what they're, you know, their message is, but I actually agree with their right to protest.
	So, you know, I feel like more people should get politically involved and go if they're passionate about something.
	Oh, you don't like that?
	I feel like you should go and get involved.
	We're in the matrix, you know?
	It's all fake and going.
	I think that the political system is just to keep us divided because the top 1% are all going to Epstein's Island.
	So they're just trying to distract us so that they can do what they would like.
	Our lives are just pawns.
	I do agree that we have a unit party where both sides are in on it at the end of the day.
	So yeah, it's really hard to navigate that when that's what they try to do.
	They try to make it left versus right.
	And most people are like in the middle.
	And so that's why Donald Trump, I think, did well, because even if a lot of people don't like him, he is a populist at the end of the day.
	He does want to be liked by the left, even though I know the left doesn't like him.
	So I think if there was another populist candidate, more candidate, more people would get behind him because that's probably where more people are in the middle.
	Yeah.
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	Any child gets negatively affected once he or she discovers their mother was or still is a prawn star or a girl.
	Boys are particularly affected, especially when their classmates and friends find out.
	True.
	True.
	Yeah, I couldn't imagine if my mom was, you know, shooting porn and my friends are like, hey, I just saw your mom butt-ass naked getting plowed by some guy on the internet.
	I would just be like, mom, what the hell?
	Do you acknowledge that it's, to her point, like it's kind of suboptimal, at least for the kids?
	Absolutely, yeah.
	I don't think it's a good thing.
	And I think your kid is going to love you no matter what, no matter what your job is.
	So it's not like it really affects the way that your kid loves you, but it just puts an unnecessary burden on them around their peers.
	That's where I'm like, because, like you said, they're nine.
	they might not be talking about it, but I know those other parents are and those guys are sharing and they all have group chats and they're all like, I'm cranking my hog, blah, blah, blah, and being nasty.
	And I can only imagine that like the other kids might hear it or they might make jokes like that.
	And once again, it's just an awkward situation.
	And, you know, that really, the word cringe kind of makes me think about like, imagine your kid hearing from another parent about your job.
	Like that has to be a very challenging situation.
	Kids also find out about stuff like that way earlier than you think they do.
	And a lot of parents are really naive and think their kids are kind of dumb when kids find out.
	And the moms, like the wives are not going to like it.
	No, husbands are going to be watching it.
	Yeah, they're going to be threatened.
	I think that overall we need to focus on not raising snowflake children though so that they can take a little bullying.
	You know, a little bullying builds character for sure.
	Yes.
	Well, like, and I was thinking about, you know, Brian, do I want to outlaw all porn?
	Because I think we should go back to kind of like the idea when it was like Playboy Magazine.
	Yeah, she's good, clean porn.
	And no ejaculate, no spreading, you know.
	Maybe like, like, there's something beautiful about a woman's butt cheek, but we don't need her to spread it and have like, you know, what did you like?
	Ten midgets near it.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, there's something beautiful about the female.
	She has not done the 10 midget thing.
	She's like, wait, wait till she's over the hill.
	And that's when the midget stuff happens.
	So if I went into porn, I'd be stuck with the midgets at my age.
	That's all I'm getting paid for.
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	Care 5, you are a prom star, which is the most degenerate, degrading job any woman could do.
	What do you expect people to think?
	If you want respect as a human being, then start acting like one.
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	Pasty George should.
	We're going to get into kind of the first topic.
	It's sort of bouncing off of a note that Colette sent in.
	So, Colette, you wrote, hold on, let me find the exact segment here.
	Quite a few notes, but we'll start here.
	You want to push back on the idea that women don't automatically deserve chivalry.
	Yes.
	You say those rituals matter, they set the tone, and we all deserve to be treated well.
	Now, we talk about, this comes up on the show frequently, so I'll notice you saw the show and you're like, oh, Brian has this position.
	So when you say women push back on the idea that women don't automatically deserve chivalry, the rituals matter, we all deserve to be treated well.
	Just some clarifying questions.
	You think all women deserve chivalry?
	Yes.
	All women.
	Yes.
	So.
	Is this surprising to you?
	It is.
	And I have some pushback of my own.
	Okay.
	Really quick, though, I'm going to come to the all women deserve chivalry, but really quick, when you also say we all deserve to be treated well, does that include men?
	Yes, of course.
	Okay.
	But can you treat a woman well without doing chivalry?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	I mean, and also, I guess it depends how we're defining chivalry.
	I'm thinking like old school manners, like opening a door, paying on a first date.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	When I think chivalry, I think kind of like the bare minimum, like not even going over the top, like you said, like just paying for dates.
	Yeah, like having good, I would even call it having good manners.
	Yeah, that's kind of just being polite.
	I almost don't think that it seems like you have to go over the top to be chivalrous.
	Yeah, well, so my confusion here, though, is if a man can treat a woman well without chivalry, and then by extension, a woman can treat a man well without chivalry, then I mean.
	Then why chivalry?
	Well, then why the chivalry?
	And so it seems like when you say we all deserve to be treated well, well, I agree, you should be respectful.
	But I mean, my position would be you can be respectful as a man.
	You can not be abusive.
	You can treat a woman nicely, politely, respectfully without there being a component of chivalry, which I think adds an additional layer on top of just a sort of baseline level of respect and treating somebody with baseline dignity, right?
	So what I guess when you say we all deserve to be treated well, caked into that is there's a higher burden, a higher duty, a higher responsibility placed on men through chivalry.
	Yes.
	So I guess why here, why don't we start with this then?
	Because I think I know what you're asking me.
	Well, I guess let me go to this.
	Yeah.
	You say women don't automatically, or sorry, you push back on the idea that I say, for example, women don't automatically deserve chivalry.
	So for example, it's my position that in order to be deserving of chivalry, you should be a lady.
	So gentlemen provides chivalry for a lady.
	I don't think we have a lot of ladies in the modern day.
	And hey, look, I'm not saying you should be abused.
	I'm not saying you should be mistreated.
	But chivalry, again, goes beyond just respect and treated well.
	It goes into privilege.
	It goes into paying for dates, taking certain actions, opening the car door, which I think is pretty benign.
	But it's this perhaps expectation of it from women.
	If they don't receive it, they feel aggrieved or offended.
	What's the female version of it?
	Well, so my question, yeah, I mean, it kind of gets to my question here is I guess one, why should like, for example, no offense to her, she's an active porn star who fucks men on camera.
	Why should I be chivalrous to a porn star?
	If you want to date this woman and make her feel special to you, then that's why.
	But that's, see, that's something that.
	And I don't think what she does for a living should mean that she doesn't deserve it.
	Well, so, for example, I think doing the most optimum thing that will yield you the result, then if we're having like a practical conversation of like the most maximum, like maximizing dating strategies, like even if the woman's like a complete fucking degenerate feminist modern woman, it's going to be to your requirement.
	It's going to be to your benefit to pay for the first date.
	I don't mean it like that.
	But hold on, but it's going to be to your benefit to pay for the first date, even if she's like a modern feminist woman, because women still, whether on a conscious or subconscious level, enjoy those sorts of overtures from men.
	However, from a bird's eye view, if we're looking at the chessboard of dating and what's fair and not fair, or what's a raw deal for men, I can't help but feel like if women aren't holding up their end of the bargain, then it's not fair that men there should be an expectation on men to do it, or it's not fair if the man the man does do it.
	I understand it's what's most effective when it comes to dating, but I can't really get behind this idea that there should be an expectation on men or men should do chivalry to non-lady women.
	Then, what makes a woman a lady?
	What are you asking a woman to do to do her side of the bargain?
	Yeah, sure.
	I mean, I would say that I would say whatever those sort of traditional gender roles are, because if your expectation is for a man to pay for first dates, to be a provider, be a protector, do these sort of gestures, open the car door, observe the sidewalk rule, whatever it is, pay for dates.
	What are the corresponding more traditional gender roles in terms of cultural or societal expectations of women of yesteryear?
	So we're holding men to this 1950s bachelor standard, but women are modern women.
	Y'all are sex workers.
	Not all, by the way, I want to be fair.
	Most women are not sex workers, but a lot of women are promiscuous.
	A lot of women have high body counts.
	A lot of women are dating multiple men at the same time.
	A lot of women are not obedient.
	A lot of women are not submissive.
	So if you want us as men to be leaders, you need to be a follower.
	If you want me to lead, you need to be prepared to follow.
	What does that mean?
	Being obedient, being submissive.
	Women don't want to do those things anymore.
	Women don't want to follow.
	You want the benefits of male leadership, but I have to follow his lead.
	I can't lead somebody who won't follow.
	Okay, so I will say I will trade in a heartbeat a man opening the door and paying on the date if the bargain is going to be being submissive and obedient because I couldn't do that even if I lived in the 50s.
	It's not even in my DNA.
	But I also just want to push back in the sense that I'm not asking, I'm not, when I talk about men doing these things like opening the door and paying on a first date, I see this as dating rituals, rituals of courtship.
	Okay, courtship.
	Yes, but not, but not designed.
	I am not, this is just my opinion.
	I'm not saying this is a strategic, like you want to hook the woman, so you should do these things.
	I'm saying this is a way to show a woman that you respect her, that you admire her, that you're interested in her.
	To me, it is a ritual of mating that is somewhat wired into our innate manner of courtship.
	And I don't think that a man doing those things puts such a heavy burden on men.
	I disagree, but okay.
	Okay, okay.
	I mean, to take paying for dates, I think that does put a burden.
	Well, paying for a okay, it puts you're right.
	It puts a burden of paying for a dinner.
	Not a singular date necessarily, although it could.
	Paying for every date.
	But if, like, you know, as people do, they can be in the course of a year.
	Some people might go on 10, 20 dates.
	I mean, it depends, really.
	But yeah, that can absolutely place like a financial burden to men.
	It doesn't exist in the other direction.
	But also, I mean, even if we're just talking about one singular date, the expectation, some people do this sort of hand waving away in terms of this burden.
	But if I'm talking to a guy who makes $20 an hour, maybe he's a young guy, early 20s, he makes $20 an hour.
	Women have this expectation that men pay for the first date.
	Maybe, let's say you go out to a date and it costs $100 total.
	Yeah.
	And I'll be fair, he's only factoring in her portion of the meal.
	Let's just split it down the middle.
	He's paying $50 for him, $50 for her.
	That's two and a half hours of work for him.
	A man who's making $20 an hour, and well, that's before tax, after tax, whatever.
	He's making $20 an hour.
	Let's say he's working like a physically demanding job.
	Women are telling men, in order for you to get my time for you to go on a date with me, which by the way, I think that that's an equal value exchange going on a date.
	You have to work two and a half hours.
	You have to work two and a half hours.
	So when I sit here and I say, I expect my girlfriend to bow, I expect my girlfriend to be submissive.
	I expect my girlfriend to do X, Y, to cook and clean and all these things.
	Women have, I think, way higher expectations.
	Way higher expectations.
	You want a guy who makes $20 an hour to pay for your first date?
	Mind you, you're probably going on three or four dates with other men.
	So hold on.
	Let me do one thing at a time.
	One thing at a time.
	I just want a girl to bow.
	That's it.
	I want to bow.
	We'll play the bow.
	I don't know if you've seen the bow video on it, if you watch the show.
	That takes three seconds.
	It takes no effort.
	Y'all want men.
	Y'all want men.
	Y'all want men to hear he's like a, I don't know, he's digging ditches or something.
	He's a physical laborer.
	Totally.
	That's two and a half hours of work to take you out on a date.
	I mean, my other points here would be why women don't deserve it.
	Again, rampant promiscuity.
	You're not adhering to really any traditional gender roles.
	You're dating multiple men at the same time.
	Why am I going to, and look, there's women out there who are properly single, although perhaps they're few and far between.
	Why am I going to like treat her to a date when she's like, for example, one of your notes here.
	You said you went on four dates in a day.
	I did.
	Well, I'm sorry.
	Why am I going to pay on it?
	I'm getting in your sloppy thirds.
	I'm getting your sloppy second.
	There was nothing sloppy happening.
	Well, in any case, my perspective is, me personally, I only want to deal with women who are properly single and who are dating intentionally.
	A woman who's going on four dates in a day, I'm not saying you're sleeping with all the guys.
	I didn't sleep with any of them.
	That's totally fine.
	But like, that's a level of disrespect.
	I feel, I don't know, to me, that would be disrespectful.
	To be one of the guys who was among the four.
	Yeah, that does seem kind of like.
	You know what?
	Honestly, okay, first of all, this was not a regular thing, but I got to the point where doing online dating, I was in my 30s.
	I got so worn out from spending weeks messaging back and forth with guys who seemed really great.
	I got excited about, and then I went out with them and met them, and there was no connection, or they weren't nice.
	And by the way, let me say, I did not expect people to constantly whine and dine me at this extravagant level, especially if they're not making tons of money.
	Like, I don't think that's fair.
	Well, I mean, even you go to Chili's, that's 100%.
	Well, those, that four date, I never went to Chili's.
	I got very efficient about my dating, which is what I decided.
	And I only went on four dates one time.
	I mean, that's an ambitious strategy.
	But the idea was I don't want to waste a lot of time back and forth with you anymore.
	I want to meet you in person as quickly as possible.
	So I started doing like 15 minutes, Starbucks.
	I'll meet you for a coffee.
	And then if there's a vibe, then we can go from there.
	Well, if there's a vibe, but I'm going to have to cut it short because I have to get to my date number three.
	I did not make anyone feel rushed or pressured.
	But that's fine.
	In any case, me personally, if a girl, if a girl was open about that, and of course, some women might lie or choose to omit sharing the fact that they're going on multiple dates.
	If I was on a date with a girl and she tells me, hey, by the way, you're great, just letting you know, I have two other dates planned after this.
	I probably did tell them.
	I'd be like, I'd feel a type of way.
	I get that.
	I'd be like, well, you know what?
	They sound like great guys.
	You have a good night with them.
	I think that's totally fair.
	That's it.
	But so I guess my perspective here, and even if you were doing what you're doing, you could have done it, you know, one Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.
	But even that, I would take quarrel.
	Even that, a woman who had three other dates lined up in that week, I'm thinking to myself, she's kind of playing the field.
	I don't want to deal with this guy.
	But why am I playing the field?
	Why am I not just trying to meet someone that I actually connect with?
	And I mean, I wasn't dating people, multiple people a day.
	It's not even realistic.
	I worked a full-time job.
	But why if I'm going out on three dates in a week, am I playing the field and am I like seeming promiscuous or something?
	Because I'm not permitted.
	You might not be, but that would probably be the answer.
	That'd be what you think.
	And then you don't want to pay for me or open the door for me if I'm doing that.
	Okay.
	Absolutely.
	I don't think so.
	Now, I think men will do it anyways because they know that that's effective.
	And that's what even if chicks a total strumpet.
	It's still, it's still like, if you're just trying to maximize.
	Yeah.
	And I mean, like, some guys are okay, I guess, dating a strumpet.
	But I mean, I just don't think it's a fair shake for men to do the chivalrous thing if the women aren't uphold.
	Like what women are just not holding up their end of the deal on the chivalry thing.
	I hear what you're saying.
	And I will tell you, my husband sometimes jokes, and he's probably watching right now, and he's going to be like, I'm not really joking.
	But that there is, I'm going to admit, being 52 years old, I grew up at a time where things were a lot more traditional.
	And there were a lot of things I expected from men that I think some of them had a little bit of a double standard.
	Like I did want, in my first marriage, things were very traditional, but I didn't want to have less of a say or less power or agency in the marriage, even though I did want to be provided for.
	And I think in that relationship, I did look at my husband as more of a leader.
	Now, what I'm saying is that I do think there's still something to mating rituals that's very biologically driven.
	I don't think things should be financially unfair.
	I don't even know that my daughters at 22 and 24 expect men to pay for them.
	I think things are a lot more.
	I mean, I don't know if you guys even expect to be paid for on a date.
	If I went out on a first date and a guy, I went out on one date.
	This was not four in a day.
	This guy was the only date of the week.
	And we went to Gator's, which is like a Florida bar food place.
	And he made me split like a $20 chicken tender thing.
	And it seemed a little cheap and it was a turnoff to me.
	But if I were dating somebody today, I make plenty of my own money.
	I feel empowered by that.
	I don't think I would expect the same thing.
	However, on a first date or two, I would want a man to show me that he has manners.
	I would want him to open the door for me.
	And I would rather him do that and then me say, oh, no, don't worry about it.
	But I also think I probably have a lot of old school ideas because I'm old.
	You know, I don't know if you younger people even care about this.
	But I mean, you say you have these old school ideas, but what are the old school traditions you adhere to?
	Cooking dinner.
	And I don't adhere to them.
	I'm going to admit to you, I'm admitting that some of, I don't think chivalry is hypocritical, but some of what I would say I really want in a man is hypocritical.
	I don't, my husband cooks.
	My husband goes to the grocery store.
	I don't know that he's as thrilled with that as he acts like he is.
	I don't know.
	We'd have to ask him.
	Well, I mean, he married you.
	Yes, yes.
	He's accepted.
	Yes, he's accepted it, I guess.
	Some husbands like to cook, though.
	Yeah, I don't think he minds it totally.
	We need your husband to send a soup.
	I do say men are better cooks than women.
	I think that they're like, but I'm a good cook.
	I'm Italian.
	I'm actually a great cook.
	I mean, I am, but I feel like right now I have like five jobs.
	I feel like I'm in a working season.
	I'm not going to cook and go to the grocery store.
	Well, and Brian, I guess the difference I want to make is like chivalry, like opening the car door and even like paying like on the first date or something, because it's so awkward.
	I feel like that could be, you know, not, that's not even that chivalrous.
	That's almost just expected.
	Chivalry to me would be like giving somebody a ride to the airport if you just met them.
	You know, like actually going out if they had a flat tie or like you don't know the person and you're going out of the way.
	Like that's chivalry.
	I feel like opening a car door, like buying the first, you know, because but you also live in Dallas where that's very ubiquitous.
	Like in New York when I grew up, men like you like hooked up at a bar and eventually you were like dating after six months of that.
	There was no dates.
	There was no car door.
	Nothing.
	I think you're like got the southern gentleman thing a little bit.
	Maybe.
	I mean, I just kind of naturally to open up a door for a woman.
	I would think it was rude.
	Like if a woman is like coming through the door to not open it, that's actually, I would almost consider that rude.
	I mean, I even see men doing that for women they don't know.
	That's what I'm saying, right?
	Any woman, I have to open the door.
	And is that a huge burden?
	Is that unfair to women?
	Well, I think there's these smaller sort of gestures.
	But if we start looking at perhaps the financial component, the protection component, you look at men paying for dates.
	Women still want men to be providers, protectors, et cetera.
	And then there's sort of other expectations to there.
	I'm trying to think of a good example here.
	Well, I'd say that it's sort of the general men are still overwhelmingly initiators in relationships.
	Yep.
	You know, this is within the, maybe not the purview of chivalry, but it is within the purview of traditional gender roles where the burden of initiative falls on the man.
	And as women, you might not really think about that, but overwhelmingly, I think something like 99% of first dates, the guy's asking for the first date.
	And then every other first step that's involved in that entire process almost always, almost always exclusively falls on the man.
	What does that entail?
	It entails him approaching you, him, you know, carrying the conversation, asking for your number, following up on the phone, texting you, you know, maybe setting up a call, planning the date, maybe picking you up, or maybe you meet there, whatever, paying for the date, planning the date, moving things forward physically from there.
	He probably asked, most men have to go for the first kiss.
	Most men have to move things forward physically.
	If it even happens on the first date, then he has to do all the planning and all rinse and repeat.
	Second date, third date, fourth date, fifth date.
	All these sort of initial steps are all sort of initiative burdens that fall on men that women don't really think about.
	Because I think women, generally speaking, not to say, by the way, when I say these things, I'm speaking in generalities.
	Sure, there's that one guy a girl shot her shot with, your boyfriend, you asked him out.
	I'm speaking in generalities.
	I'm speaking 95, 97% of the time, the guy makes the first move.
	The guy asks you out.
	The guy asks for your number.
	The guy goes for the first kiss.
	The guy moves things forward physically.
	Not all the time.
	I know there's exceptions, but I'm speaking as a general principle the majority of the time.
	So there's this massive burden there that falls on man, but then you have the financial burden too.
	But again, I'm just wondering, like, where is what, if we can say men should, if we can say men should do X, Y, Z, men should pay for first aids, men should be providers, men should be protectors, what are we allowed to say that women should do?
	Yeah.
	What?
	What duties do women have?
	I, okay, so me and my last.
	It's nothing.
	You have nothing.
	Me and my last relationship, where I was in this age gap relationship, our first date was we met out at a bar, but we dated for like six months.
	And, you know, I helped him move into his apartment when he first found an apartment.
	How long have you guys been dating?
	Just a few weeks, to be honest.
	I helped that I don't know if that falls under that you you helped him That's like a good thing to do, I think, across the board.
	But I'm looking specifically what women should do, that like a traditional gender role that would really only fall on to like, what are the expectations on women?
	100%.
	And the relationship I was in was very, you know, he was a big, strong man.
	He used to be in the military.
	I definitely bowed down to him.
	I let him lead.
	I wanted to do that.
	And I also wanted to be as helpful as I could because as soon as I bowed down to him, anything that I could do to make him happy made me happy to be able to do for him.
	So at a certain point, I, you know, he was a superintendent for construction sites.
	So he was making about $200,000 a year.
	He was living in a downtown area.
	He would take me out on dates.
	At one point, he kind of felt financially not so great.
	So we stopped going on as many dates.
	I was fine with that.
	I would do his meal prepping for him every single week because when he would do it, he wouldn't put any flavor in the food.
	And I was like, no, my man deserves a tasty meal for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
	And I would do that for him.
	And I would still go to work and come home and give him massages and do the things that he enjoyed with him.
	And I really enjoyed being able to do that for him.
	And I think that that balance ended up being really nice because he was chivalrous.
	I did feel protected when I was with him.
	Once we weren't together anymore, I missed the level of protection that I felt like I had within that relationship.
	And I missed the level of submission I was able to give to him.
	It made me feel comfortable.
	It made me feel happy.
	So.
	You had something?
	I feel like it definitely takes a specific kind of man to like have a woman submit to.
	Like you can't just be any, you can't just be like, oh, you know.
	He was that person.
	Not protective, not secure.
	Like woman's always feeling insecure or like whatever.
	The man's not this powerful leader or whatever.
	You're not going to want to leave.
	You're not going to want to.
	Well, you shouldn't be dating him.
	You shouldn't be in a relationship with that guy in the first place.
	Sometimes, though, it's like you don't really know a person until you get to know them.
	I mean, he had Christian values right off the bat and he would, you know, speak on religion.
	He would preach as if he was trying to be a leader because he wasn't doing adult stuff at this time.
	No, he did encourage me to do OnlyFans because I had started doing social media for about a year at that time.
	But he was a Christian man who encouraged you to do OnlyFans?
	He also had a Coke addiction and was an alcoholic.
	But like I said, he was in the military.
	He was six feet tall.
	He was built.
	He had, you know, built this life for himself.
	And, you know, I did not like doing Coke, but I submitted to my man and allowed him to be who he was.
	Many modern women influenced by feminism do not deserve chivalry from men.
	This doesn't mean they deserve to be harmed in any way, but they have to earn it instead of demanding it.
	Yo, Pasty George, thank you for that.
	Appreciate it.
	Good to see you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Many modern women do not deserve chivalry.
	Yeah, it doesn't mean like if you're a feminist or modern woman that you should be like abused.
	Absolutely not.
	You should still be treated kindly and respectfully.
	But if you start demanding traditional treatment from men, you ought to be a traditional woman to some degree.
	Cygnus Cross donated $200.
	If she paid for the first date, I'd feel weird, man.
	Like I probably ordered knowing I was going to pay.
	Offerings cool, but her actually paying?
	Nah, that would throw me off.
	I'm not making the argument that the woman should pay for the first date.
	I mean, I guess it depends on the circumstances.
	Like, technically, they like to throw out whoever asks should pay.
	So, like, in the message from the government of Canada: Pasty George donated $200.04.
	Chair 3, these roles and mating rituals you talk about worked back in the day when women were ladies and acted as such.
	Unlike today, when many modern women are influenced by feminism and do not.
	Yo, Pasty George, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Just finishing off on Cygnus Cross, his statement.
	But I think if you're a modern woman, I think your expectation should be, I'll go 50-50.
	Like, that should, if you're going to be a feminist modern woman, you should want equality in all dimensions, in all realms.
	Are we talking first date or throughout the relationship?
	Even first date.
	First date, you bust out your wallet.
	Now, look, I understand that even feminist, liberal, progressive modern women probably still want or enjoy men.
	Like, it's hard to let go.
	They all want that, right?
	They are, no, they do.
	Even the most radical feminist wants the girls.
	They still want it.
	I don't know about that.
	My last assistant was a radical feminist, and she just wanted a twink boyfriend that she could call her girlfriend.
	That is a weird question.
	That's a thing.
	That is a thing.
	I go to these protests, there's a lot of twink guys where the girl is kind of the boss.
	I've actually seen that.
	They really enjoy it.
	In person, I've seen it.
	But I think that there are a lot of there are some feminist women who are like, you know what, we're doing 50-50.
	Yeah.
	I can respect that.
	At least they're consistent in their worldview or whatever.
	But like, I think a lot of women still want the perks.
	Like, you guys want to be modern women, but you want to be modern women, but you want the benefits of yesteryear.
	You want the benefits of historical traditional gender roles.
	You want men to be protectors and providers and leaders and pay for dates.
	Y'all not ladies, though.
	Y'all are modern women.
	If you're a modern woman, hey, you know what?
	Not my thing, but whatever.
	I accept it, but you shouldn't have these traditional expectations on men.
	If you're a modern chick, go date the soy boy.
	Date the guy who wants to go 50-50.
	That's who you deserve.
	Well, Brian, actually, to your point, though, and maybe the chat will get mad and people are going to fact-check me, but you know, really ancestrally, like in the hunters and gatherers' ages, you know, we always kind of think like traditionally we think it's a patriarchy, but actually, this is what they say.
	And, you know, we don't have really books.
	It's like even before they were writing.
	Is that actually the women were in charge because they did have the power sexually and they could, they were actually the ones like in the hunter-gathering era where they use like their sexual prowess for power because like they didn't even have currency and stuff there.
	So actually women were in charge, they say, during the hunter-gathering era.
	Like in charge of kind of like a lot of it is society or like the even often, this is what they say the channel get mad.
	No, I think that might be them.
	It could be, I don't know.
	No, well, this is what they say.
	Like, some of them.
	Oh, that's what they say.
	Oh, well, it's probably actually BS, but like in the hunter-gatherers.
	And then, you know, then once they're saying, once they got religious, that's where they had to make it like the Catholic priests couldn't, they had to be abstinent because they were banging everybody's wife.
	But before that, like, before they were even into organized religion and stuff, that the women actually had a lot of the power and that women would actually solve conflicts by sleeping with the same men sometimes.
	Oh, wow.
	Well, and even in domestics, I mean, in traditional relationships.
	I'm talking about a long time.
	Look at that.
	Maybe Chad GPT, but they just talked about the hunting when we're hunter and gatherers, before we even had like an organized language.
	I mean, I would imagine in the hunter-gatherer days, it was a pretty strong patriarchy.
	You would think.
	I know.
	I know.
	Very solid patriarchy back in those.
	But I don't know.
	I'm not an expert in.
	And this is ancient philosophy.
	So, like I said, I could be wrong.
	Maybe the men were just clubbing women over the head, but actually, they say that women were actually a lot more influential and had a lot more power.
	Well, I think women have always, throughout all time, have had massive amounts of influence, but it wasn't through force.
	It was through, you know, typically more of a soft power.
	Women have always had massive amounts of soft power.
	They've always had their husbands' ears.
	Women have had massive influence throughout all of human history.
	But I guess, like it's like men need to provide, back to your point.
	Men need to provide to protect.
	Men need to be, they need to be pure and strong and courageous and all these things.
	What do women need to do?
	Blow jobs.
	There you go.
	There you go.
	Why do you think my throat sounds like this?
	Just to be clear, I no longer have the expectation that men need to be the provider.
	Like when I'm talking about chivalry, and I think some of this is semantics of how we define it.
	I'm talking about like dating rituals.
	And I think there's something to some would say psychologically men like to be the hunters still that they want to pursue.
	A lot of women believe that.
	I don't know definitively if that's true or if that's just the way men have been socialized or if this is another kind of old school belief.
	But it's one thing to me when you're in the pursuing mode of a way a man treats me, I would always offer to pay on a date.
	But if it's a first or second date and a guy takes me up on it, it would bother me a little bit.
	Like, yeah, that's just my own personal thing.
	And I'm not even going to say it's not totally hypocritical.
	Like, I can acknowledge.
	You said you would give up.
	Like, if you had to be submissive and obedient to your husband or boyfriend, you would totally give that up.
	I would give up anything.
	I'm not being fancy.
	You had to go 50/50.
	Right, but so you're enjoying like a marriage.
	But I'm going 50-50.
	I mean, I have a very egalitarian marriage.
	We earn a very similar amount of money.
	We split bills.
	We have like a joint.
	We're a second marriage.
	So we had kids.
	You know, we had a first marriage with other spouses that maybe were more traditional.
	But we have like what, if we ever got divorced, what we came in with, we go out with.
	There's no alimony.
	Like, I'm not looking for my husband to support me financially, but I am looking for him to make me feel like a woman and open the door on a date.
	That's it.
	But okay, how many of the first few dates, he paid for the first few dates, right?
	Yes, he did.
	Like, how soon after how many dates did things equalize?
	Probably longer than you would approve of.
	Yeah, how long?
	Yeah.
	I mean, I don't know.
	Probably a couple of months.
	A couple of months.
	Yeah, it's 10 years in, and I just started paying for dinner.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Well, yeah, so I think.
	No, you're right.
	There's a hypocrisy to it.
	I don't deny that.
	But so, but the crux here is why?
	Why should men then, You know, if you want a 50-50 relationship, why aren't women contributing 50-50 from the get-go?
	Well, I feel that I am contributing, except for cooking, right?
	But you still wanted, hmm, let me do these like dating rituals, rituals.
	Yes, I wanted to be pursued and to feel that I was valuable enough to be pursued, even though some people would maybe not pursue me because I went on too many dates.
	I mean, I actually think my husband's very old school, very traditional.
	He's 10 years older than I am, so he's 62.
	He's super Catholic, he's like way more conservative than I am.
	Like, we are not the most likely match that you would, if you met us in public, I'm not sure you would put us together in a lot of ways.
	But I wanted to feel like I was being courted.
	Well, it's funny that you say that because that's the issue in modern dating: we have an asymmetrical problem when you go on the dating apps, that women are getting 90% more messages than men.
	Yeah, 100%.
	So, it makes it a lot more challenging when a woman has, you know, the pick of the litter and a guy is basically simping.
	So, so, and it's also made it very challenging for the guy to, I think they said that the lowest amount of men ever in recorded history is saying that they don't even want to have sex.
	Like, the amount of people that are having sex is the lowest.
	People are having so little sex, period, which is terrible.
	That's because the women are hogging it all up.
	You know what I mean?
	They're hogging all the guys that are actually like high-value males, you know, like only certain guys are banging all the chicks.
	Yeah, like the 80%, 20%.
	It's a very weird thing where, like, if a man doesn't, what is it, like, 6'6'6, if not six foot, 6 figures, and 6 inches?
	Okay, you never heard that one?
	That's a real thing where girls want a 6'66.
	You gotta have a six-figures, six feet tall, and six.
	So, think about this.
	You're on a dating app, you're 5'11.
	Women put on the requirement: no, I'm not gonna date a guy under six foot.
	So, think about how many people that swiped left on their potential soulmate, all because of an arbitrary thing about one inch.
	You're like, that's what's wrong with society.
	But men are also so visual and hard on women.
	I mean, for sure, for sure, for sure, for sure.
	But men can't really like if you're going to be an ugly man, what do you have to have, you know, to compensate?
	Money.
	You know, that's the only time you ever see like a good-looking woman with an ugly guy.
	But which you do see all the time, you do see, you know, if they got a lot of money, right?
	Yeah, but uh, that's the one thing as a man.
	So, imagine this: you're in a modern dating era, you don't make a ton of money, and you're trying to hit up a girl that's getting messages from thousands of other guys.
	Like, it makes it almost impossible.
	That would be really chivalrous.
	That's what I'm saying.
	That is why you gotta, because I think, like, in the past, I, you know, I'm 36.
	How old are you?
	39.
	Really?
	Okay, okay.
	So, I had a little bit of taste when I was like 18, 19, 20, kind of prior to, I mean, Tinder came out like 2012.
	Dating apps were pretty bad, but I had a little bit of a taste before, like, you know, the rampant proliferation of smartphones and social media.
	Granted, I think I was, I think I was a senior in high school when MySpace just came out, then Facebook.
	Oh, my God.
	So, but it was just the tip.
	But now, I mean, back and probably even before I was dating, you know, it was kind of the norm that people, my understanding was it was kind of the norm that people would kind of date one person at a time.
	And because I don't think people were meeting as many people as they were because there weren't dating apps, there wasn't social media.
	Instagram's definitely a dating app.
	Slide into people's DMs or whatever.
	But it's like, it would be kind of weird to be like dating all these different.
	Look, to be fair, Sex in the City, Sex in the City came out in like the late 90s, and them chicks were crazy.
	I don't know if that was like an accurate mapped on representation of NYC dating in the 90s or whatever.
	Probably was.
	Look, I'm not saying like people were super pious in the 90s and 2000s.
	Like people were hooking up, doing all that stuff.
	In fact, I think people were having more sex in the 90s than they are now.
	Definitely.
	I think that it tended to be more so like you meet somebody, you give it a chance.
	If it works out great, if it doesn't, next person.
	I agree.
	Now people have rosters.
	They're juggling.
	It's all disposable.
	Everyone's just, you just spiked it.
	The internet did ruin it because like when Facebook went from where you had to have a college account to where anybody could have an account, you know, going back to what I'm saying, Facebook, when, do you remember when it used to be you only had to have a college account?
	Yeah, you have to have an email.
	So once they changed it to where everybody could get on Facebook, that was a huge thing.
	And all of a sudden, divorce rates spiked because all of a sudden people didn't connect with their old high school sweetheart.
	They didn't have a way to do it.
	That is so common.
	And so many divorces skyrocketed when Facebook first opened up to the public.
	You know, my mom actually, before she asked for a divorce, my dad sent her to Key West for her 40th birthday.
	And she banged her ex-boyfriend.
	Well, she came back, asked for a divorce, and then started dating her high school boyfriend who was stationed in Key West.
	There you go.
	There you go.
	I knew that.
	How do we know that?
	Yeah.
	No, the digital dating, I think, is really bad for connection.
	It's not authentic.
	But yeah, to my point, though, I think, look, maybe in the 2000s or, you know, prior to Instagram, prior to dating apps, you know, maybe these dating traditions made a bit more sense.
	But like, there's this other thing.
	And again, I think most women, when they go on a date, you know, I'm not sure exactly where their level of interest necessarily lies.
	But I think there was a study done on these things called foodie calls, where instead of booty call, foodie calls, something like 33% of women have admitted in the past six months or a year to have done a foodie call where they went on a date with a guy, but they didn't really have much interest in that.
	See, that's bullshit.
	What you were saying, I just want to be nice.
	Because at first I'm kind of like, Brian, you know, I don't know if chivalry is that big of a deal.
	Like, I can see how there is not the female version of it.
	But, like, you know, opening a door, it just seems like almost just being polite.
	But you are right.
	There are women that are so sick, but there's actually a thing called being a hobosexual.
	Yeah.
	And they say we're homeless, and they'll date you for a hour.
	They're dating people.
	If you're a homosexual or a foodie call, fuck you.
	Like, get a fucking job.
	I mean, I'm not trying to go on it on my own, you know, soapbox right now, but that is so ridiculous.
	Did this happen to you?
	No, but I know you're traumatized.
	Somehow.
	If they're actually just going out and they just get a free dinner, that pisses them.
	And that's why you should always go to somewhere that's like, you know, casual, not expensive.
	I mean, that's ridiculous.
	If women are that sick that they have no interest whatsoever with a guy, that they just want to get a triple dipper of chilies.
	No, you deserve to go to jail for that.
	Yeah.
	That's like that.
	Don't be someone's.
	Don't manipulate him.
	I hate that.
	No, I was manipulative.
	Well, and I do want to be clear.
	I don't want to say that this is like every single time.
	I think that this is more unlikely than it is to actually be the case.
	But it does happen.
	There's girls that do say that they're doing foodie calls though, Brian.
	I've heard that.
	I've read about it.
	I've never heard one person I know admit to doing that.
	Have you?
	Have any of you?
	I've never even heard of that.
	I know there's girls online that have posted that.
	We're like, I've been on five free dates a week.
	I think some New York Publishers wrote an article.
	That's gross.
	That's gross.
	That's shit.
	I think there's a difference, though.
	I think sometimes women, even if it's not like a conscious foodie call, I think sometimes women will go on a date with a guy where there's like really, really low levels of interest.
	And they're like, I mean, look, you're giving the guy the shot, I guess.
	But I think sometimes you women will just like, you'll just go on a date.
	And it's not, you're not necessarily doing it for free food, but maybe sometimes you're bored.
	You're like, eh.
	I have a very viral clip.
	I think it got like maybe somewhere between five and eight million views of me talking about, you know, the question was: what do you do when you're not enjoying a date?
	Yeah.
	And my biggest tactic at the time was to pretend like the date was going great and that I was enjoying myself.
	And then to afterwards just not go on another date with them and not talk to them ever again.
	You know, most things should be illegal.
	Yeah, but I mean, and this would just be a first date.
	I wouldn't continue this on multiple dates.
	But for me, at the age of 19, when I was doing something like that, 19 to 21, I was partially like really, it was hard for me to communicate how I felt to people.
	And I was also really scared of upsetting people.
	So I was doing it more so to keep peace.
	But the reaction that I got was that I was doing the foodie kind of thing and that I was being mean to them.
	But my, you know, trying to make the date feel as good as possible was me trying to put in as much effort as I could and be as kind as I could, even though, you know, because sitting at a date and being like, you know, I'm really not enjoying this.
	I'd like to go home.
	That felt like that would be a slap in the face to the guy.
	So I wanted them to enjoy it.
	Well, I don't think, okay, just because the guy pays for dinner, you're not, you don't owe him continuity of like anything.
	You don't owe him another date.
	You don't like it's fine to go on a date with somebody and it's not a good match.
	Yeah.
	That's fine.
	I mean, I would, I think it's actually the polite thing to do.
	You know, you go on the date within the first five minutes.
	You're not really feeling it.
	I mean, unless he's being really weird or whatever.
	I think it's okay to just have a pleasant, stay there and have a pleasant convo.
	And we always did.
	Like, I feel like I'm a very personable person.
	But really quick, just to, I guess, finish off on the chivalry conversation.
	I just think if we expect men to act like gentlemen, I think we should also encourage women to embody the qualities that inspire that behavior in the first place.
	So it's like, I don't know.
	I don't think there, look, I just think there's a certain threshold of like women who don't who don't deserve it.
	Now, there's a few caveats here.
	They don't deserve it, but even a lot of strumpets, so that's the polite term, I guess.
	They still are going to get the treatment.
	Like a lot of, there's a lot of guys who are simps who are still going to, okay, she's a former prostitute, whatever.
	She's, she's, uh, well, some guys like that too because they want to fix her.
	Some guys like her.
	Oh, yeah.
	People are rescuers.
	Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
	Some people like that.
	I'm sure you have to deal with this.
	Some people probably like that you're like a porn star and they probably want to like make you not do it anymore.
	Have you met a lot of those guys?
	No.
	Like Captain Rescue Seva Ho or Captain Seva.
	Captain Sevajo.
	Yeah, you dealt with Captain Sevajo's.
	Captain Sevajo all day.
	See, like you're smiling because you know what the Captain Sevajo is.
	Captain Sevajo.
	I have a question, because you've said a lot about like how should modern market?
	You've said how to like how should modern women be dating, and I feel like you know I'm a modern woman who has been kind of out of the dating field for you know a bit.
	I make quite a bit of money And I do want to find a partner that I can submit to, but I also, you know, when I make, you know, five times a man's yearly salary in a month, like, what can I do to still be a feminine woman and get the treatment I want from a man?
	but not be using a man?
	Because I have no problem paying for dates.
	I have no, especially when it comes to I live a certain lifestyle and I want to keep living that lifestyle.
	And if a man can't provide that, I want him to live in that lifestyle for me.
	But how do I find a man who's not going to feel threatened by that and not be masculine with me because of that?
	This idea that men, like if you out-earn a man, like he's going to be intimidated by that, I don't think that men aren't intimidated.
	Well, I don't think men are intimidated, period, by women.
	I don't even think they have like an objection or quarrel with a woman who makes money.
	I think it's the other characteristic and characteristics and attributes that tend to come along with a highly successful boss babe career woman.
	One, she's probably more feminist, probably more liberal, probably has prioritizes career over some other things.
	But specifically with you, you're a sex worker.
	I mean, like, I think it's good that you're going to, or at least you say you want to do the, like, you want to be more traditionally feminine and like submissive and all that sort of things.
	But it's kind of like it's kind of like there's just a missing piece there.
	Yeah.
	And the missing piece is you've, in terms of like an overall assessment of you as like falling into being a more traditional woman, you can't even enter into that category because you're a sex worker.
	I have one question when you call me a sex worker because I have no problem being a sex worker.
	But when you look at your Instagram, yeah, yeah.
	No, no, no, but 100%.
	100%.
	They're out right now.
	I mean, 100%.
	I can't really hide them.
	90% of them are.
	Wait, can I ask you a question?
	Because my audience is a bit more conservative.
	Are you like pandering right now?
	No, no, no, no.
	Like, not at all.
	No.
	I mean, like I said, my last boyfriend was a very conservative person, and I do have very much some more conservative views.
	Call that into question a little bit.
	That's totally fine.
	Now, when you call me, but when you say like sex worker, like say somebody's catch-all.
	No, for sure.
	But when someone's like in a movie and they're a movie star and they do sex scenes, does that make them a sex worker?
	No.
	Okay.
	Now, to that, I only work with myself.
	I only do topless content.
	So like someone who's in a movie will be topless and they're showing just as much as I am.
	And I'm not interacting with other people.
	So I have heard at least from men that they're more okay with what I do because I'm not having sex.
	I'm not fully natural.
	It does make it less bad.
	Yeah, so I mean, I would say that there's levels to sex work.
	So like you're a sex worker, but they're, you know, like, well, you're taking tasteful lingerie photos and then that extends all the way to like a prostitute who does like gang bangs and like illegal, illicit acts that are like really kind of disgusting.
	There's levels to that shit, you know, but at the end of the day, you're on OnlyFans.
	Of course.
	You're probably doing, I mean, guys are very cranky.
	Not to shit.
	Not too sure.
	Not too sure.
	Yeah, you're like, you message the dudes.
	I mean, let's be honest, you have a typer.
	You have a child.
	No, I mean, I'm you have a management who types to your like some dude in Singapore or maybe not.
	When you interact with them, they get hired virtual assistants today.
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	I have stops up.
	A lot of these, a lot of these OnlyFans girls, you know, the way they make a lot of their money is having an engagement with their guys.
	So they'll, and they'll send messages, but it's not always them.
	A lot of these girls, especially the big girls, they have not big, like fat, like the, you know, with the big followings.
	They will have like, maybe even they're having AI do it at this point, but they'll have a person in fucking Bangladesh or Vietnam or India, some guy who 24-7, they have somebody chatting, trying to, trying to siphon money from these guys because these guys will send money, money, money.
	And if they're talking, they think they're talking to the girl.
	And some of these guys will do full-on romance.
	Yeah, usually it's the boyfriend.
	Usually it's like the cook boyfriend will be like doing gay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I mean, it is kind of.
	Pretending to be a girl.
	That is gay.
	If you're a guy pretending to be a girl.
	Yeah.
	It's also forcing the customers into being unconsentingly gay because they're not.
	They're like, messaging a guy and jacking it to a guy.
	They're talking to a dude, like sexting with a dude.
	That is gay.
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	I will say for myself, you know, I do have, you know, like 7,500 people following me right now.
	I have like intro messages set up and certain things that you can set up through OnlyFans to send out, you know, that are pay things.
	Just, you know, just let me, you know.
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	And there's a lot of men who just want to see my boobs.
	So with OnlyFans, it's very easy to set up a way where you can send people initial messages and photos.
	And if they engage with that, then it's easier to then be like, okay, I'm going to communicate with this person who's going to be a money whale for me or whatever.
	You have a team who does that.
	No, I mean, my main guys know we, you know, it's you.
	No, even I just did a live stream the other night.
	And, you know, like, I have conversations.
	I have conversations with them on Instagram.
	I'm the one doing all the messaging.
	Regardless of what you do.
	Why would I?
	Hold on.
	Regardless of what you do or don't do.
	Yeah.
	By the way, even if you would have to acknowledge a girl who does have a, as I call them, typers or chatters.
	Even if she has one, she's not going to admit she has one.
	So that could be the case here.
	Yeah, why wouldn't you?
	You wouldn't admit it.
	It's like Amora's husband did everything.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You do acknowledge that.
	There are chatting agents.
	There are chatting agents.
	I have 50 chatting agencies in my DMs every single day being like, I can make you so much money.
	Come with me.
	I've gone to influencer events where the whole influencer event is just set up so that management teams can get women from these events and make money off of them and take obscene amounts of money.
	And then they romance scam a lot of these mental health.
	100%.
	But yeah, a lot of these OF girls are basically duping these men into thinking there's a chance.
	And they find out they have a husband or something.
	Most of these OF girls, by the way, they have boyfriends or husbands.
	All of them do, yeah.
	I wouldn't be surprised if you do.
	But so the quarrel with OnlyFans, I get that you do solo content, you're not getting like gangbanged or you're not on like blacked or whatever.
	Oh, God.
	You know, where you're like sitting on the couch and it's like seven black dudes or whatever about gangbang you.
	I get fine.
	I get you're not doing that.
	That would be worse, right?
	Yeah, of course.
	Some guys might be okay with your level of it, but I would take it to this other level of, well, okay, you're inducing these men into lust.
	I'm not even approaching this from like a religious perspective.
	You're inducing them into lust.
	There's like men are like jerking off to you.
	You're like, wait, and it's actually, in some ways, the fact that you, at least you allege or claim that you don't have an agency, it's actually worse.
	My girlfriend is fucking like sexting with these dudes in her OFs.
	It's actually worse from like a relationship perspective that you're the one who's actually talking to the dudes.
	My girlfriend's like getting random dudes off and like sending them stuff.
	I think a lot of men don't want this at all in a relationship.
	Although I'm sure your DMs are full.
	I'm sure I'm not saying I just don't answer the DMs because we talked about at the beginning, like how many of these high-profile men that reach out to me are just sexualizing me.
	I do want something, and that's why I choose single.
	Yeah.
	That's all they want.
	Yeah, no.
	And so I choose to be single because I would rather have my life like that.
	Whatever.
	But I don't know how we were.
	I just asked, like, how I should be dating.
	Even when it comes to the first couple of dates, I make so much money.
	Should I be offering when I know that I want to submit to a man?
	Or, you know, because I don't want the twink boyfriend that I call my girlfriend.
	I mean, ultimately, I think for you.
	Do I have to stop doing what I'm doing to be able to find a relationship?
	Is it open?
	Just follow the guy's lead.
	Yeah.
	If he wants to go 50-50, whatever, go 50-50.
	I'm assuming, though, most dates, even for you, the guy's still going to pay.
	Yeah.
	The conversation I'm having here is not, I'm speaking, I'm looking at it more bird's eye view perspective.
	Okay.
	I'm looking at it as like I view this.
	I'm looking at it and like, that's fucking bullshit.
	Okay.
	But I are men paying for first dates for modern non-trad women all the time.
	Yeah.
	I totally acknowledge that.
	Even, and by the way, when I say women who are like porn stars or who are not ladies, when I say they don't deserve it, what I say doesn't matter.
	Yeah.
	Because you, you could have, you could have shot a porno yesterday.
	I did.
	You.
	I did, actually.
	You.
	You could have shot a porno yesterday.
	You can find some simp or sucker who will pay for your date tonight.
	You can find a simper sucker who will pay for any date.
	So there's no dispute that you can find a man who will pay for dates.
	I'm just looking at it from an outside perspective, fly on the wall.
	That's a raw deal.
	Yeah.
	Raw deal.
	You should go 50-50.
	Sometimes I do.
	Sometimes I pay for the date.
	I'm proud.
	Final couple things here on the chivalry thing.
	Then I'm going to move it on to a different topic.
	Look, I just think, I don't know.
	I think that women should embody those traditional qualities if you want to inspire that behavior in men.
	And then I just, I guess, I don't know.
	Men are supposed to be this perfect picture of a male, a knight in shining armor.
	That's the original chivalry code.
	Like knights, knights, right?
	And men need to be everything and more.
	But again, just what is the expectation on women?
	Is there any expectations?
	That they look good.
	Yeah.
	I mean, but that's a big expectation, and it's a lot of pressure on women.
	And when we talk about men getting discarded or how hard it is for them to date, if a woman doesn't look hot, she's treated completely differently throughout her life.
	Same for men.
	Not with women.
	No way.
	I think women are way harsher when it comes to looks than men.
	I don't.
	Well, I'll tell you, here's why.
	A lot of women like ugly guys.
	Well, here's how I know.
	Well, perhaps it's true.
	Perhaps it's the case that women are a bit more forgiving on this front.
	And I would probably grant that to be true.
	However, if you look at dating apps, for example, or if you look at women's assessments of male attractiveness, you'll have, and they've done studies on dating apps and they've looked at the data and it's really robust.
	Like we're looking at millions and millions of users.
	Women will rank like 80% of men as unattractive, physically unattractive, whereas men will like do a more equal distribution in terms of who they will category in terms of women, who they will categorize as attractive.
	And you might say, well, okay, well, women are more invested in making themselves look better.
	So there's just more better, there's better looking women.
	There's quite a bit of nuance there.
	But I mean, I would say that women are really harsh judges of male attractiveness.
	And they're actually, in addition to that, though, which compounds the situation, while women are harsh judges of male attractiveness, they're very generous judges of female attractiveness and their own attractiveness.
	So women will often rate other women.
	Like, for example, they'll say Lizzo's beautiful, but if you tell a woman she looks like Lizzo, they'll be offended.
	You'll do this sort of thing where this sort of thing where, oh my God, you look at the one, you look at like a girl's Instagram comments and it's like, oh my God, you're so beautiful.
	And it could be like, I'm not trying to be mean, but it could be like it could be an unattractive woman.
	And oh my God, you're so slay queen.
	You're beautiful.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	Women gas each other up like that.
	Yeah.
	And like men don't really, men don't really do that.
	My comment section is straight up Indian men going, show bobs open.
	Like, please send pics, give me your phone number.
	I want to marry you now.
	There's no I could pull up like, you know, like an average college girl's Instagram profile.
	And I've, I've seen them.
	I pull up an average college girl's Instagram profile.
	Yeah.
	Like 20, 10 of the compliments, 20 are compliments for what I'm saying.
	Oh, my God, you're beautiful, slave, blah, blah, blah.
	All this shit, right?
	Even if it's like the most sexuality.
	Yeah, yeah.
	But what do you want women say to each other?
	Young girl.
	To what you said about the dating apps with, you know, like hot guys being in that 20%, getting all the women.
	Dating apps have been made incredibly unfair.
	For most men, if you're not paying the dating app, you're not going to be getting the service you want.
	And the dating apps have made it that way so that more men will pay for the premium so that they can send their super likes and they can do this.
	And, you know, it's not just the women only choosing a certain demographic of men, but the actual apps themselves trying to Tinder used to be free.
	Hold on.
	Now you can spend.
	I have to cut you off.
	I need to finish up this conversation on chivalry and then time permitting.
	Later on, we can talk about paying for dating apps.
	Yeah.
	I want to open it up to the rest of the panel because it's mostly been YouTube.
	Yeah, we need the Filipina.
	I want you, the spicy Filipina, to join in.
	Why are you so quiet over there?
	You're asking anything.
	If any of the other women, you've heard this discussion about gender roles and chivalry.
	I guess my final thing is on this, and I'll open it up to any other women who want to weigh in.
	Is that I think I have responsibility in a relationship.
	I need to have authority then.
	But women, again, this women want leaders.
	They don't want to be followers.
	What gender roles do women have?
	Part of the bargain, I believe, is if you want me to be a provider and a protector and a leader, I need to have authority in my relationship.
	Women don't want to allow for that sort of authority to exist.
	You said no.
	Like, let me ask you a question.
	In your marriage, does somebody have veto power?
	I think we both do.
	Let me change it.
	Who's the tiebreaker?
	I don't think either of us.
	I think it depends on the situation, but my husband does not have authority.
	Okay, so what if there's a stalemate?
	Who gets final say in some decision?
	I think some go his way and some go my way.
	That's the honest answer.
	He is not the authority.
	But Brian, to be fair, Colette does seem like a type.
	Oh, she does seem like a type A woman, though, right?
	She doesn't seem like you're sure.
	You know what I mean?
	I mean, so I could just see that she does seem a little more, you know.
	And what does type A mean to you?
	You know, not that you're masculine or all that.
	But I don't know how else to describe it, you know, just a little more type A, a little more aggressive.
	Like, it seems like you can handle yourself more.
	Just because I guess you are a psychiatrist, so you know, that kind of makes you a leader because you have to lead couples.
	So it's like, you know, I feel like you're, I don't know, lack of a better word, a little more masculine, even though you're not masculine.
	So I hear you, like masculine energy.
	I think I'm assertive, but I would tell you, and this might surprise you, that I do still really value being feminine.
	And you definitely seem feminine, so I'm not trying to say you seem trans or anything like that.
	But you know what I mean?
	Like, you just seem like you're a vocal woman.
	I am vocal.
	I am vocal.
	But I do want to have, I want to make my husband happy too.
	Like, I don't want to rule the roost.
	I don't want to emasculate my husband.
	I'm not looking for it to be my way or the highway.
	I'm not looking for him to provide for me or any of those things.
	But when I hear words like submissive and authority, those for me make me cringe a little.
	That feels too far for me.
	I'm not going to, nobody is going to be the authority of me at 52.
	Now, I will say I was more traditional and submissive when I was younger, but I think culture has changed a lot.
	I don't, my daughters in their 20s are not that way at all, but they're not looking for like a knight to ride up and save them.
	They want an equal relationship where they feel respected and valued and seen and heard.
	And I don't think they're looking for like a traditional man to be the leader.
	They just want like a good dude who's going to treat them well.
	And that's what I want too.
	Yeah, and I think that is, you know, a simple way of putting it.
	But I want you to comment the Filipina because you just got out of that relationship.
	So why did y'all get out of that relationship?
	Well, really quick, I'll have her answer your question, but really quick before I have her jump in, you said it's cringe, like obey, submissive.
	Yeah, I'm like, ah, yeah, that's cringe.
	Your job's amazing.
	Your job's amazing.
	Submissive.
	I don't think that's cringe for a woman to be submissive.
	I mean, I think there are some.
	Yeah, it is for me.
	I'm just speaking for me.
	The word submissive, to me, that makes me feel like I'm losing my power.
	Yeah, I think the word submissive is very misunderstood.
	Yeah, it is.
	I mean, it means to submit.
	And that's not something that at this stage of my life I am interested in, but I nor do I want my husband to submit to me.
	We're equal partners coming to the table making decisions.
	You're not equal partners, though.
	Why?
	Okay, a couple questions.
	One, you said for the first few months of dating, he paid for all the dates.
	Yeah.
	Immediately, you're not equal.
	Second.
	Fair enough.
	Where do you live again?
	I live in Florida.
	Okay, do you own a firearm?
	No.
	Does your husband own a firearm?
	No.
	Somebody, okay, no firearms.
	That's fine.
	But my ex-husband owned all the money.
	So you do.
	Somebody should.
	There's a lot of people who watch the show.
	You have a bunch of guns.
	Okay, yes.
	We have guns.
	We are stocked up.
	Do not come to my house.
	Somebody breaks in.
	Who goes and checks on it?
	Definitely my husband.
	That doesn't sound very equal to me.
	Okay, fair enough.
	So, but the entailment there.
	Hold on.
	The entailment there is.
	My husband has to be willing to die.
	The least then I can get as a man, if I have to be willing to risk my life and die for a woman, the least she can do is obey and be submissive.
	The way you said that.
	My husband wants me to go.
	We'd all die if I'm the woman.
	She's a great pastor.
	Oh my gosh.
	Yeah, like a televised church.
	I think, even secular relationships, the woman should be submissive.
	Yeah.
	Can we just, can we have a patio and if somebody breaks in, we run out the back door together?
	I don't want to.
	I die.
	That would have been so sad.
	Perfect test.
	Perfect test for this.
	Should your boyfriend or husband be willing to take a bullet for you?
	Did you see that?
	That's kind of a hard one.
	That was a good test.
	That is hard.
	Say no just because let's go around the table, starting with you.
	So, your question is: should they be willing, or I just expect them to take a bullet for me?
	Both, I guess.
	I mean, well, no, because I feel like there's their perspective, and then my okay.
	Well, in a scenario where one person has to take the bullet, do you take the bullet, or should the husband boyfriend?
	Can't we just go matrix on them and just do that?
	Somebody has to take a bullet.
	I've never thought about that answer or question before.
	No, no, no.
	First time.
	Like, I guess, like, in that scenario, I don't have an answer for you.
	How about this?
	It's like if somebody shot at you guys, and instead of your husband, like, Alex is my guy.
	You guys have my life.
	And I protected him.
	I grabbed him and I brought him away.
	I can see it.
	Let's get the wig for him.
	In your scenario, it's not necessarily that he got shot.
	They're protecting me, right?
	But instead of protecting you, he scampered away out of fear.
	I mean, if he scampered away, that's not the kind of man I'm going to be attracted to, so I don't even know how he's getting.
	I wouldn't say it gives quick answers, please.
	I can get the other girls.
	I can't remember what the scenario was.
	He's pushing me in front, or he's just running away.
	Ew, I'm running away.
	He's using you as a bullet.
	You can either answer the original bullet question.
	Should he take the bullet or should he like protect you or like would you have attraction or relax?
	If I'm getting shot, I would rather die because if a man takes a bullet for me, I'm going to miss the mirror.
	He should take a bullet.
	He should love it.
	Thank you.
	Simple.
	Yes.
	Yes, what?
	He should take the bullet.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I think it's kind of situational.
	Okay, great.
	What's the situation?
	You're going to get a shot.
	I don't know.
	What is the situation where I'm getting shot at?
	I don't know.
	Someone break into your house.
	If I'm stupid where I'm not going to run and he runs, that's on me.
	Like, what?
	I don't know what this is.
	Okay, how about this?
	Somebody breaks in and my boyfriend's a cop.
	Why are we running?
	Oh my god, bro, you're overthinking this fucking bad.
	What about your getting jumped on the street?
	Getting jumped on the street.
	Do you want your man to protect you?
	There's one bullet.
	I have a child, so I would hope that maybe he would go and take the bullet.
	So he dies.
	Okay, I guess.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yes, I would want that, but I would also take a bullet for him.
	Right, but in the scenario, only one person can take the bullet.
	I get that you would do it too, but it's just kids.
	Who takes the bullet?
	Standing in front of each other, too.
	Oh, I got a girl from the camera.
	The intruder.
	We team up on him, Mr. and Mrs. Smith style.
	But who takes the bullet?
	All right, fine, you win you.
	The guy.
	The guy.
	Who takes the bullet?
	I would say the guy.
	The guy takes the bullet.
	So, okay, now we're kind of getting to the meat and bones here.
	So women will even say, you know, I'm kind of traditional or less traditional.
	But when it comes to protection, like if, for example, if my girlfriend runs away scared at something, my like attraction towards her doesn't diminish.
	Like cowardice in women is not going to really be like there's you can be a coward in other ways, like betraying your family in some way.
	That would be cowardice that might change your assessment of your partner.
	But like cowardice in terms of like physical violent threat, I'm never going to look at a girl and she screams and she freaks out.
	Don't care.
	Won't be less attracted to her.
	If you're with your boyfriend and he cowers and he screams and he's a bitch in some physical confrontation, violent confrontation, whatever, maybe he sees a spider and he screams.
	You're like, damn, pussy dried up forever from that shit.
	That's a fact.
	And I didn't plan this babe.
	Come here real quick.
	She's going to have to make her cameo babe.
	Do you know the story that I'm referencing?
	Come here real quick.
	Tell them the story that just happened that I'm referencing and I have not told you anything that just happened.
	And how did I react and how did you react?
	No, to the ice at the ice facility.
	The black dude.
	Oh, yes, yes.
	We always say that.
	Wait, lean into the church.
	We went to the ICE facility in Chicago to see if it was actually crazy or not.
	And there was this black guy that did look a little sketchy.
	He scared me.
	And the guy had said a bunch of inflammatory stuff about Charlie Kerr.
	Yes.
	And he had reached in his pocket and I got scared and took a step back.
	And now he acted like it was a gun.
	Like we have it on camera.
	I don't, I mean, I didn't even post that part, but he's like fiddling around and he was definitely pretending like it was a gun.
	I'm not even kidding.
	And he noticed that.
	I had noticed that.
	And he's like, oh, don't worry.
	It's not a bad thing.
	As soon as he started fiddling around, because him and her arguing, all of a sudden he's like reaches in her thing.
	You're going to think it's fake.
	This is real.
	He reaches in like this and then she starts scampering away.
	I get closer to the guy because I think if he's about to pull a gun, I'm about to just jump him.
	You know, I mean, I don't have a choice.
	And so I stayed right there in the situation and she ran away.
	And he's like, oh, you don't need a run.
	It's not a gun.
	So, I mean, I do feel like in that situation, yeah, I would have taken a bullet.
	So I thought that Alex was talking about the cockroach thing because I'm terrified of bugs.
	He always, he like tells him about no problem, but I like want to start crying.
	If I see a cockroach, that happened the other day.
	That's why I was like, wait, the cock.
	Thank you for making an appearance.
	Thank you.
	But to that point, I guess to finish off there is when we're making assessments of partners, like a woman who gets scared or fearful in this sort of situation really isn't going to have some sort of negative consequence or negative impact on the relationship.
	But a woman witnesses her boyfriend or husband be a coward in this situation.
	It's like devastating.
	The relationship's fucking over.
	Relationship's over.
	I've heard stories like a girl sees her boyfriend get beat up.
	And I mean, it depends on the circumstances, but like he's just, I don't know, gets his shit rocked.
	And it's like she loses attraction for him, whether consciously or subconsciously.
	This does happen.
	And I guess what I'm trying to say here is that there is then an expectation.
	Here, actually, one more question to really nail the point home.
	The sidewalk rule.
	Chivalry.
	Should the man walk closer?
	If you're walking along a sidewalk, should he walk closer to the road, the street?
	You know that thing?
	Oh, yeah.
	I answer that.
	Me, yes.
	Obviously.
	So, I mean, look, yes, do you, what about you?
	I didn't even know it was a thing until it was pointed out to me.
	And yes, because it does physically make, I don't have a preference, but I have noticed most men do have that preference, and it makes them feel more confident about going.
	I have been on the outside of the sidewalk, and they have been like, you need to switch.
	And I was like, I do.
	And then, because I don't think that way, but men, and that's what I was alluding to is that a lot of times, like a man running away from a bullet, to me, that comments on the type of leadership he carries.
	Okay.
	I would say I prefer a man to have me on the inside.
	When I'm with a man, I want to turn my brain off so if they're on the other side, they can see if a car is about to hit us.
	Right.
	What?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	You want the guy to observe the sidewalk rule.
	What about you?
	I also think this applies to like children too.
	Like even whenever I'm just out with my child, I always put her on the inside.
	So I guess maybe.
	So are women children?
	No, but I mean whoever the protection is.
	But you put your children on this.
	Yeah, whoever the protector is, like that's who should be on the outside.
	Okay.
	Your thoughts?
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Sidewalk rule, sidebar.
	So what's so interesting to me is you have an issue with submissive, obey.
	But a lot of these things, we just sort of take them for granted.
	The bullet thing, the guy running away thing, the sidewalk rule thing, the ultimate manifestation of a man protecting you is to die for you.
	Women expect men to, I know it's rare, but the expectation is there, whether consciously or subconsciously.
	You want men to fucking give their life and die for you.
	Yes.
	You better fucking obey me.
	You better be submissive.
	If I have to fucking die for you, you better fucking be, you better obey.
	You better be submissive.
	Fucking, you can't nag me.
	You can't nag me.
	You can't.
	Shit, I don't know.
	No, but the goal is just to find a man that I feel like I can listen to him and I can trust because there's so many men.
	The man you pick, you should listen to him.
	If you pick him, you listen to him.
	So if he disagrees with what you want to do in your life, you should obey that.
	But why did you pick him if he disagrees?
	Well, because life is complicated.
	Is it a man's duty?
	Wait, well, hold on.
	Is it a man's duty to give his wife everything that she wants?
	No, but I do think it's a woman's duty to pick a man that she will be happy with.
	Because ultimately the woman gets to decide whether or not to be in a relationship.
	So if you're picking a man and he has a lot of values that don't align with you, why did you pick that?
	But should a man fit her whims?
	No, but she should pick a man that supports how she feels.
	You know, like I'm not going to submit to a man whose views I do not align with.
	And that's just that.
	Like, why should I?
	Well, should a man be obedient to his wife?
	No.
	I don't think anyone should be obedient.
	I don't like the language obedience in a marriage.
	In a relationship, rewire your biology and start being attracted to cowardice in men and start being attracted to men who would never protect you.
	You know what?
	How about this?
	I want my woman to, I think my life is more valuable, no offense.
	I want my woman to walk closer to the road so when a fucking, I don't know, a Ford Bronco comes barreling down the fucking street.
	Strip her.
	She can be my meat shield.
	Throw her into the fucking car, she can be my meat shield, and I get to survive, and I then get to, most of these women, by the way, when their boyfriend dies from a Ford Bronco, they're back on Tinder within a week.
	They're fucking another guy within two weeks.
	I mean, it's ridiculous.
	You're on Tinder secretly.
	You're on Tinder low-key like this.
	You're at the fucking funeral.
	You're downloading him.
	Oh, my God.
	They're on their fucking phones.
	You're on fucking Craig's list of things.
	Okay, but if your girlfriend's on the outside of the sidewalk, does she have to obey you?
	If she's the meat shield, does she have to obey you?
	Exactly.
	Well, I have a very sexist perspective.
	What do you think?
	What do you think about men who are not dating women who do that innately?
	Because there are a lot of men who are like, I'm not dating.
	And in my circles, we call each other brethren and sister and they brethren and sister.
	Brethren, how do you spell that?
	Brethren.
	Anyways, it's like a biblical.
	It doesn't matter.
	But my point being is that there is a lot of people.
	Yeah, I know what it sounds like a cult, guys.
	But it's not.
	Lord of the Rings here.
	So give me some hobbits.
	My point being is that a lot of men do that for women they're not romantically invested with because it's just something culturally that a lot of them are taught at a very young age.
	I get it, but it's like, why?
	Why are women being held accountable for something that you're teaching men when they're young?
	It's a society thing that we need to like.
	And I mean, it is a societal condition.
	Actually, you know what?
	I understand that there is this sort of societal expectation that men do these acts even for women that aren't their girlfriend or wives.
	Yeah.
	I think that that's ridiculous.
	This idea, and maybe, you know, Alex might disagree with me on this.
	Like, I personally think, like, maybe this is a really precise example.
	If you're out with your girlfriend or your wife and some shit's going down, you know, and you see a woman over there being like harassed by some homeless dude on the subway, me personally, I got to consider protecting myself and my wife.
	And well, if your kids are around, I'm not going to go be the hero and like go get fucking shanked by this homeless guy who it means nothing to him.
	I'm going to extract myself, my wife, and my kids from the situation.
	I'm going to protect those people who are important to me.
	But I don't know if that's even right.
	But maybe someone who doesn't have as much of that kind of responsibility, they might try to diffuse the situation.
	At this point, even women, I don't know, but Brian, do you think men and women are equal?
	Because I think they're just not.
	And the reason why I bring this up is that well, this is why I look at the trans you were talking about that video.
	I was talking about the transgender bathroom bill.
	And the only reason I bring it up is not even to get political because it's an asymmetrical problem.
	It's that it's only men going into women's spaces because a man doesn't care if like a twink girl that's dressed like a guy comes in our space.
	That doesn't make us feel uncomfortable, you know, like some girl just like a guy.
	But a guy in a girl's dress does make them feel uncomfortable.
	So it's like we're just two different people.
	Like the idea of equality is impossible.
	100%.
	I agree with you guys.
	Are these senators to women like prey?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I mean, there's so much violence against women.
	It's insane, you guys.
	We have a couple chats we need to let through.
	Some of these came.
	Oh, my, I need to apologize to these guys.
	They came in a while ago.
	I'm sorry.
	I missed these.
	George donated 200 George.
	I apologize.
	In many indigenous tribes in olden days, the men protected, built, and hunted.
	The women maintained the camps, cared for the children, and cooked the food.
	Both knew their duties and never complained.
	Well, that's kind of what I was saying, though, Pacey.
	Because the women stayed at home, they kind of ran the whole thing.
	Yeah, the home everything back then.
	It's like a whole lot of people.
	We have adzils here.
	Thank you, Daisy.
	Sorry for the delay.
	Ad.
	Sorry for the delay.
	I'm sorry, guys.
	Chair three out here saying men hard on women.
	Please.
	Of course, that comes from a woman.
	It's that time again.
	What is everyone's favorite Michael Jackson style?
	I love Michael Jackson.
	You know, that's one conspiracy.
	I don't know how deep you guys are into conspiracies, but there's a documentary called Leaving Neverland, and it was about this guy, Wade Robinson, and James Safechuck, who both said that they were molested by Michael Jackson.
	And one thing I want to say, I'm a big Michael Jackson truther.
	He was killed by Conrad Murray.
	That's the doctor that went to jail.
	But Michael Jackson was investigated for 19 years, never convicted by the FBI.
	And the guy that was in the documentary that said that he was molested by Michael Jackson was the lead character witness, not once, but twice defending Michael Jackson, saying that he was never molested.
	And I know you're going to be like, well, what kind of old guy sleeps with young kids?
	First of all, he had arrested development.
	He was, you know, became an adult at a very young age.
	And he did sleep in that room with Macaulay Culkin and Corey Feldman and both said that they were never sexually molested.
	So my point is, I don't think Michael Jackson was a pedophile.
	And I will take that semi-grave.
	I agree with that.
	I actually did a report on Michael Jackson in like seventh grade and all that stuff.
	And how he spent millions of dollars helping kids in Africa, too.
	He actually loves children.
	I mean, they were just looking for money, these people.
	I actually have an anecdote.
	I actually went to Neverland Ranch when I was a kid.
	Oh, and I met Michael.
	You met Michael Jackson?
	Yeah, I met Michael Jackson.
	Okay, timeout.
	I'm not just saying this because I love Michael.
	I think he's one of the greatest pop stars of all time.
	And I actually was going to dress up as Michael Jackson to go to the No Kings protest and be like, I'm the king of pop, but I didn't.
	Now I should have not hearing you guys laugh about it.
	But you met him.
	This is what they say.
	One of the guys that said that he was molested was a kid that before they said they got molested by him said that Michael Jackson cured their cancer.
	You can look it up.
	There's a documentary that debunks all this.
	You can look all this up.
	I'm not making it up.
	I know it sounds far-fetched.
	But they do say that Michael Jackson had this aura, Brian, that like if you just touched him or got near him, did you feel that?
	Aura, they say that this is what just normal people said that Michael Jackson had a special aura around him.
	Did he?
	I do think there is something like famous people have this.
	Yeah, but they say he had it.
	I know.
	Yeah, like, yeah, they say Michael Jackson could cure cancer with his aura.
	I'm not saying it was like that, but you know what I mean?
	Like, that's that's a vibe that he had.
	Massive aura.
	Big aura, huge aura.
	One of the biggest.
	One of the biggest.
	No, he's cool.
	And it was.
	I mean, I met him for 10 seconds, you know.
	And he didn't molest you?
	No, no, no.
	No.
	10 seconds.
	That's fat.
	You wanted him to?
	What the fuck?
	What's that Dave Chappelle joke where it's like, why didn't he molest me?
	And it wasn't by the King of Pop.
	Anyways.
	Okay, dark humor there.
	We have George again.
	Message from the government of Canada.
	Thank you, man.
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	Care two, smart, self-respectful men will avoid women like you like the plague.
	However, many simps in the world will date and even marry you.
	At least you have that to look forward to.
	And you know how that's true?
	Or I know you want to respond to that, but if you guys ever watch the show, My 600 Pound Life, if you guys ever seen that show, they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
	It doesn't matter how fat and disgusting they are.
	So that is one good thing for you ladies here.
	And I'm not saying you guys are fat and disgusting, but if those ugly gargoyles, yeah, there's always going to be somebody.
	I understand how it's so hard to find a man.
	Oh, keep going.
	Well, I was just saying, if you see the My 600-pound life, where there's a guy or girl, they always seem to have a significant other.
	So it's like if you really are trying to find a significant other, I think it is obviously possible if they can do it.
	Like we've talked about, I have so many conversations with my simps online that I think that that is enough for me, and I don't need to marry a simp.
	Adzils, we're going to pull it right back up.
	Sorry for the delay on these.
	Guy, Pasty George, I have the cell phone here and I still messed it up.
	My bad.
	Adzils donated $200.
	I stand by what I said, but chair three seems based.
	Respect.
	Care two is full of waffle.
	Talking, talking, talking.
	Chair one, love the orange shirt.
	Feel bad for you being sat next to that.
	Oh, shit.
	What does waffle mean?
	I don't have an issue.
	The dreads.
	Oh, yeah.
	I saw someone said it was smelly.
	They don't.
	Do you think they smell?
	Tell me.
	How long have you had dreads for?
	I am in my 12th years of having locks.
	Yeah, so everyone's entitled to their opinion, and I know it's offensive to some people, and that's fine.
	What does waffling mean?
	Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
	Waffling is like kind of changing your opinion.
	Waffling, like maybe you're like kind of saying that you're only anti-OnlyFans, but then at the same time, you're like a big ones.
	I mean, I kind of am low-key anti-OnlyFans.
	I started it because to empower myself because my nudes had been doxxed online, and so I'm going to go.
	And make money.
	But wait, real quick, I want to go back to $200.
	We'll just finish these up and we'll come back to it.
	I take it back, chair three.
	You ruined it.
	You never should have spoken on the submission talk.
	More waffling.
	Brian, is anyone on a yellow card?
	Hashtag free felicity.
	Hashtag Michael is king.
	No yellow cards.
	Oh, favorite song from Place with No Name.
	Just shout it out if you want.
	A man in the mirror.
	Billy Jean.
	Sure.
	Why not Billy Jane?
	Billy Jean.
	They don't care about us.
	All right.
	Thriller was always Earth song.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	Thank you, man.
	Many women say what they want in a relationship or how they would like it to be.
	But this means they want it their way.
	But what about what the men want?
	Why are men's wants stigmatized?
	Why are men's wants stigmatized?
	Definitely not the best one to respond to that one.
	You're not the best one?
	No, because I think their wants are valid.
	Yeah.
	Especially when I want to be a more submissive kind of traditional girlfriend.
	Like if they want me to be attractive, if you know, if they want me to cook, if they want me to do this, I don't think that that is asking too much.
	Sure.
	Adzils donated $200.
	Michael is the most famous person after Christ.
	Statistical fact actually.
	Big ups for the prop.
	You really like Michael Jackson?
	Yeah.
	You're a big MJ, MJ fan.
	MJ Rules.
	All right.
	He's a global phenomenon.
	But I want to go back to what you were saying, though, about how people say sometimes your hair is racist.
	No, I didn't say that.
	Don't put words in my mouth.
	I said sometimes people aren't triggered or they don't.
	They're not offended.
	They're offended by it.
	Okay, so you say people find it offensive.
	I call it a racist.
	I mean, I find lots of things offensive.
	Okay.
	But do I make that a big deal?
	I don't think it is offensive for you to have that.
	So I'm on your side, but you're making me not on your side.
	My point is, I want to ask the one African-American Filipino chick: is that cultural appropriation or her wearing her hair like that?
	Because she has faced scrutiny.
	Is it fair for me to say you have been scrutinized at least?
	It's not from people I do not know, yes, but it's never from people.
	Most of the time, it's from this talk.
	So most of the time, it is white people that have an issue with it.
	And I would say it's people who are probably less educated about the reasonings of why people wear locks.
	Is it racist?
	I'm going to state my own personal opinion.
	And you look great.
	I don't want you to feel like I'm not.
	And you're in time to opinion.
	I'm not offended.
	So for me, I don't have an issue with anyone wearing any type of style of hair.
	Truthfully, like I've seen, you know, different races pull different styles, different braids, different dress, different locks.
	This is my thing as being, you know, the only African-American on the panel is that you do need to know and educate yourself on where it stems from and where it comes from and to respect the culture.
	What are they?
	What is the so basically from what I've learned from people in my family and just people before me that a lot of certain hairstyles were inrooted in slave runaway routes?
	So when people were enslaved, they would braid their hairs or have their braiders braid their hair a certain style so that they knew how to escape whatever, you know.
	They were maps.
	Yes, exactly, like maps.
	And so, again, like, I don't have an issue.
	People want to style their hair all types of ways.
	Like, it's hair.
	You know, hair is beautiful.
	I do my hair all types of different.
	I'm half Asian, I'm half black.
	So some days I feel like wearing my hair curly.
	Some days I wear, you know, feel like wearing it straight.
	I think you just people that aren't of that community or of that specific ethnic group, you just have to be mindful of, you know, what message you're trying to send out and at least educate yourself and educate others.
	If you mean well by wearing a certain hairstyle, that's totally fine.
	But if you're, you know, again, it's just a hairstyle of people find offense to it, that's them.
	But for me personally, yeah.
	But to be fair, though, can somebody like, could a white supremacist wear dreadlocks racistly?
	Yeah, because if you don't like African Americans or African Americans, why would you want to wear dreadlocks?
	I know, but that's what I'm saying.
	Like, if you're not.
	That's like somebody saying, I don't like, I don't like Asian people, but I'm going to eat sushi and I'm going to listen to you.
	You can't do that.
	You can't.
	But wouldn't that mean they like Asian people, though?
	Right?
	If they like this.
	Like, I'm saying, like, even if you said a guy's a white supremacist, a white guy that uses the N-word, you're going to be like, oh, he hates black people.
	But if he's adopting black culture, wouldn't that make him not racist?
	No, because you can like.
	No, I get what you're saying.
	I get what you're saying.
	But this is my thing.
	Because if he's racist, you'd be like, I don't want that black hairstyle.
	You know, obviously he's trying to take it.
	You're racist if you oppress a certain type of people.
	That's what makes you racist.
	Having different perspectives and opinions, that doesn't necessarily make you racist.
	I agree.
	Being racist is oppressing a certain group.
	And it doesn't have to be just black people.
	It could be Middle Eastern.
	It could be Asian.
	It could be Jewish people.
	Jewish people get oppressed.
	You know, we all get oppressed in different ways.
	Every single person on this planet has faced some sort of racism.
	I'm sure all of us have been, you know, you get put in a category, you get put in a group.
	And if you don't like people because of their skin or their culture or where they come from, that does make you racist.
	Well, one of the guys that comes on the show a lot, Andrew Wilson, him and I have obviously a well-known debater.
	Him and I've actually debated this topic, systemic racism.
	And I believe in systemic racism, even though I'm conservative, a lot of conservatives would disagree with that because I do believe in the 60s and 70s.
	Obviously, there were laws that were racist towards black people.
	But now I believe laws are racist towards white people when it comes to DEI.
	That if you're a white person, you have to have a higher test score to get into medical school than a certain other race.
	And then you see other people lying on their college exams saying they're black when they're really not to try to get in.
	So people cheating it.
	So I feel like this system is racist towards white people.
	And that's why I'm more empathetic to African Americans and black people because we do have a system that I believe is racist.
	And it just kind of switches.
	And once again, I do believe that our system, even though it does happen to races, it attacks the most marginalized people, the people that are the most vulnerable.
	So that's kind of why black people now, you're like, white men are vulnerable, but it sounds crazy.
	But in this day and age, the global population of white people is less than 8%.
	So actually, like of a global scale, white people are marginalized, even though the highest population of America.
	But people don't have that perspective.
	You know what I mean?
	Like a black person from America wouldn't have the perspective that whites are the minority in the overall scheme of things.
	So yeah, I believe in racism and systemic racism.
	And a lot of conservatives disagree with me on that.
	I did want to say one more thing while we're on that subject because I very much was aware that it would be a topic tonight.
	So when I first started my LOX journey, I was living in Hawaii.
	My hair started naturally doing it.
	I had already wanted to do it for about three years, and I was like, this is a sign.
	I should just experiment.
	So I started experimenting.
	I just braided my hair.
	And then because of the humidity where I was living, I was living in Hilo.
	It just started to naturally dread.
	And I wanted them, so I didn't stop it.
	And then at a certain point, you really can't go back without cutting them off.
	And for the first few years, I really am very sympathetic to that argument because I do think a lot of people do it for trends.
	And I'm not talking about like any certain skin color.
	I'm just talking about like, I think it was like three years ago, it was very in trend for people of many different cultures to wear them.
	For me personally, because I've worn them for so long, I've heard every single thing that you could possibly think of thrown at me.
	And I just kind of roll with it because it doesn't mean anything to me.
	It's part of my own self-journey.
	And I don't really care how people feel about it as long as people like yourself aren't actually offended by it.
	And I'm telling you, it's never people I'm expecting to that seemed offended.
	The people who come up and touch my hair, they're older white ladies.
	Always, 100% of the time.
	And what do they say?
	It makes me uncomfortable, which I think is good because now I know what that experience is like.
	Because it's not, it doesn't matter what race you're from.
	You shouldn't be touching people without permission.
	But what are they saying?
	Like, you should be black.
	Like, what are they doing?
	No, no, no.
	They go, how interesting.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Something like that.
	Something very passive-aggressive that doesn't sound bad, but it's like, what do you, okay, what do you mean by that?
	And I just don't think anything of it because usually they're over a certain age.
	And I get it.
	It was very different 20, 30, 40, 50 years ago.
	And like I said, it's part of my journey of who I am.
	So I'm not, I don't know, I'm just not consumed with it.
	I'm sorry if it offends people.
	Like, I would argue that you should be unapologetic about it because if your intentions aren't racist, why would you, why do you think that's a good idea?
	My spiritual journey.
	And if you know, I don't like that you feel guilty at all.
	Like, I don't think you should.
	I don't feel guilty about it.
	I just feel bad that so many people feel such a negative way about it because to me, like, wearing my hair this way has a lot to do with my spiritual identity.
	It goes back to my heritage.
	I'm half Hebrew on one side.
	At one point, historically, Hebrew people wore their hair that way.
	So it goes all the way back to, I believe, India, Vedic culture, the Brahmins, they all locked their hair and they brought that to the rest of the world through different various ways of movement that doesn't need to be discussed right now.
	But the point being is that it's not just one place that it came from, it was an involvement.
	And then I think when certain parties decide that they are like-minded, they might choose to wear their hair that way, but it's not necessarily a cultural, racial, or even a social discussion.
	It has most of the people that I know that wear locks, it has to do with their spiritual journey, and that's cross-race.
	Have you dated a black guy before?
	I've dated every race that you could probably think of.
	But like more black guys?
	I would say my longest relationship that I told you about was with a white guy, and that was eight and a half years.
	The longest relationship I've had with a black man was, I want to say eight months to a year.
	That's the only long, long relationship I've had is that.
	Well, you're definitely not racist.
	I grew up in California, so I feel like Californians do openly talk about these subjects from time to time.
	And so that makes it a little bit easier to come to an understanding between individuals.
	There's a chat coming through, a little vulgar, but I'll have you read it.
	Tear number two, get your nasty tits off the table, hang down to your knees.
	You're nasty.
	Christine, I'm sorry.
	How do I say last night's time?
	Tear these idiots apart, please.
	Is that a reverse BBL?
	Because I definitely don't have a butt.
	No, big booty Latinas.
	Oh!
	You put a little flair around.
	Oh, yeah.
	Excellent.
	You gotta have a little Spanish.
	Oh, you have to have a little Spanish flair.
	You know, big booty Latinas.
	If everybody wants to tip $200 and roast me, I'm totally fine with that.
	At the end of the last one that I was on, I was like, please roast me.
	I love it.
	She enjoys it.
	I do.
	I do enjoy it.
	She likes the roasts.
	She enjoys the rest of the world.
	Yeah, it used to make me cry.
	Now I'm just now trooper.
	Did you have another question for her, or was that it?
	Well, no, but I do want to talk to the Filipino more because, you know, you are a multicultural representation that we don't have on the panel.
	Not diverse enough for you to do that.
	It's not.
	No, because I like big booty latinas.
	So I'll take a spicy Filipina as a substitute.
	And I want to see a little spiciness because I know Filipino women like to talk shit.
	And I haven't heard you say a damn thing.
	And I'm guessing, I'm guessing, though, Brian, and I don't know this, I'm speculating because I don't know you that well.
	You came here, you're kind of talking about that relationship and about how you're so happy to be single.
	But I'm not trying to take a shot.
	I don't think you're that happy to be single.
	I think you're probably going through a transitional phase like anybody out of a breakup.
	And after two months, if it was serious, it's almost impossible to not have feel some sort of way, you know what I mean?
	Because it's that fresh.
	No, I'm going to be honest.
	Of course, I have my moments of being sad and you know, just feeling like lonely.
	But when I say that I'm happy, I feel like when I was in that relationship, at least with this particular individual, it took so much of my time and energy because, I mean, any relationship takes time and energy.
	Let's just be upfront and real about it.
	It's not just romance, you know, friendship, relationships with family members, people, the people you work with.
	When you indulge in another human being, you're giving that person and the other person on the other side your time, your energy, your thoughts.
	It's like a full-time job.
	And, you know, that's a real thing.
	And for me, when I let go of this particular person, I felt, at least in these past two months, okay, what does Camila want?
	You know, what do I want to do with my life?
	Where do I want to go from this point on?
	You know, I now feel like I have a lot more time to focus on my career, where I want to go, what countries I want to visit, and not have to focus on arguing and just differences.
	It becomes a lot, and it's to the point where sometimes relationships can consume who you are as a person where you lose yourself and you start forgetting your mission and your purpose in this life sometimes.
	And I'm not saying all relationships do this.
	It's just with him because it was so much and it started to feel draining.
	I'm not going to lie to you.
	I do feel happy.
	I feel like I'm slowly getting back to me.
	And what is your dating life like over the past few months?
	Have you tried to get back into it?
	Are you just taking time for yourself?
	No, I'm taking time for myself just because, again, I don't want to keep giving time and energy, especially to people that I know.
	If you're not the one, I'm not going to not only waste your time, I'm not going to waste my time because it's not fair to me and or the man.
	If the man's seriously looking for someone and he has the intentions of dating someone serious and getting married and I know I'm not there, why would I reel him in for what?
	I don't get anything out of it.
	You what?
	You take me on a stupid dinner date, so what?
	I could take myself out on, I take myself out to dinner all the time.
	I like to date for people.
	I'm on the same page as a man.
	If I really want to be with someone, I'm going to invest my all.
	But if it's not, you're not the person I'm looking for and you're just not aligned, I'm not going to waste my time.
	I'm not going to waste my time.
	I'm not going to waste your time.
	It's a waste of time.
	And we only live this life once.
	Why would I waste my time with someone?
	YOLO.
	Did any of the girls, when we were talking about the chivalry topic, did any of you want to weigh in while that was on the chivalry topic?
	I wanted to say that I believe in like traditional gender roles.
	Like the man has his traditional, like, and also with women expecting a traditional man, like, how can you expect tradition when you're not giving tradition?
	True.
	Your thought?
	Any thoughts from you?
	I'm a very 50-50 person.
	50-50 gal.
	i'd also respect the traditional way so i go both ways but what does it when you i know Here's my confusion.
	You say you respect the traditional ways.
	It's always you respect the part where the man has to do something that benefits you.
	If I'm dating a guy who wants the traditional ways, I'll do it.
	But my personal opinion is 50-50.
	Okay.
	In all ways?
	50-50?
	Yeah.
	So 50% of the time, you ask guys out?
	Yeah, actually.
	50%.
	I asked my most recent one.
	I'm the one who actually hit on him.
	That is like the concept.
	I think that's like the current thing where more girls are being aggressive.
	I mean, that's the whole bumble, like the whole bumble.
	Yeah, I know they had to change this.
	Yeah, but I'm saying that was like the whole theory.
	Your thoughts?
	Any thoughts on the chivalry topic?
	I guess it depends.
	I like chivalry.
	I can't.
	It's cold, I guess.
	Words are hard.
	My last marriage was very not like that.
	He was not very much a leader.
	Well, he was trying to lead you.
	He was like, I don't want you doing XYZ, but you were being rebellious.
	By not wanting to.
	You literally cheated on him.
	But some girls have daddy issues and they want to be treated bad by a guy.
	I'm not getting that.
	You should never treat women poorly.
	No, but I'm saying girls want it.
	Like, I'm guessing, and I don't know you from Adam, but I mean, maybe you did have daddy issues and maybe that this guy was kind of being like the bad dad that you had.
	So maybe that's why you were like subconsciously attracted to him.
	And I know that sounds crazy, but I mean, am I wrong?
	I don't think so.
	Wow.
	You said he was controlling, but you ended up cheating on him.
	I did.
	So, men, when it comes to protecting, protecting doesn't just mean protecting you from immediate threats of physical violence.
	Protecting can mean a couple things.
	It can mean protecting the relationship against your own, no offense.
	Do I want to put this politely?
	Retarded.
	Retarded desires.
	Oh, I want to have a bunch of single girlfriends who are invariably going to end up hating my boyfriend or husband or whatever.
	And by the way, single girlfriends are like the worst thing ever for a relationship.
	They want their girlfriend back.
	They want to do hood rat shit.
	They want their girlfriend back because you, as man, you kind of took her from that.
	You know, she can't go out to the club or whatever.
	She, you know, she's prioritizing the boyfriend, the husband, over the single girlfriends who want to do hood rat shit and go get drunk at some bar and go fuck some SoundCloud rapper.
	So men have a duty to protect women against their own blind spots in a relationship of like women will put their own relationship at risk.
	And it's our job as men to be like, no, you're not going to do this really stupid shit that puts you in a high probability position of cheating.
	Self-sabotage.
	You're not going to do that.
	You're not going to do that.
	But we also need to protect there's threats of mind, which is like this other layer where it's like, okay, is government trying to propagandize you?
	Is government, do you want to get your fucking 10th booster shot?
	No, is it?
	So men have to also protect women just not of body, but of spirit and of mind.
	So if the if society, it's not even the government necessarily, it could be culture or society.
	Oh, what kind of messages are women getting from the media to make them feel insecure about themselves?
	Oh, I'm in a marriage with a woman and she wants to get XYZ plastic surgery because society has dictated to her that she isn't enough unless she gets fake tits, a BBL, lipo, buccal fat removal, all this shit.
	I think it's your duty as a husband to not indulge her in this petulant child, not childlike, but this sort of insecurity that is propagated on them by society.
	You need to be like, no, you're beautiful as you are.
	You're not going to, first off, you're not going to waste my money so you can get fat removed from your face.
	That's stupid.
	That's dumb.
	You're not going to do that.
	I need to protect you from society destroying your mind to the point that you're going to under, you're going to go get, what's it called?
	When you get put under, what's the term?
	Anesthesis.
	Sorry, yeah, it was evading me.
	Anesthesia, always a risk of death when you go under the knife.
	Look, if you have cancer, you have some serious illness.
	Okay, risk reward.
	You need to mitigate that.
	There's a medical indication for going under anesthesia.
	Oh, you want to get, I know you like big booty Latinas.
	You need to get a BBL.
	No.
	You're not getting a BBL.
	I'm not spending my money.
	Even if it was her money, it's your money.
	Nope, you're not spending that shit.
	Well, I would argue most of the time, the reason why women fall into the trap of materialism is to impress other women.
	Because you're not.
	They don't like a woman like.
	That's true.
	Hold on.
	So my ex, my previous husband, right?
	Yeah.
	Changed my whole political views.
	Based?
	Well, moved me.
	Is he a lib?
	Yes.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, F.
	He was a vegan and made me vegan.
	Vegan was the lib.
	Were you conservative before?
	I was.
	Bro, and are you now conservative again?
	I am populist.
	Centrist.
	I'm like middle.
	Yeah.
	Like, I agree with a lot of conservative views, but I also agree with some liberal views.
	I want to make this point.
	And I think I don't know everybody's political leanings, but I, Brian, I know there's people have different variations of conservatism, but I think the basis of conservatism, if we really just want to break it down to the most simplistic form, well, I mean, that's a good description, but it's less government.
	We want less of the government involved in our everyday lives.
	And I think that a lot of people would agree with that.
	And if you made it that simplified, I think more people would say I'm conservative because I want the government less involved in my life.
	So I think that's why a lot of people are afraid to say I'm conservative, but really it just means I don't want the government deciding every single decision of my life.
	Would you be like libertarian, though?
	And yeah, I think most people fall into that.
	Which I think a lot of people confuse the yellow, like don't tread on me flag with being like racist, but it's really a libertarian flag, which is like the Gadson flag?
	So don't tread on me as a libertarian.
	People do think that's racist.
	Yeah, they step on snakes.
	My buddy Kim Cool.
	Yeah, people think they thought he was racist because he had that flag.
	Well, I guess it's more associated with a bit more like right-wing or even more libertarian.
	Libertarian, yeah.
	A lot of libertarian people will fly that flag.
	And I agree with that.
	It's not, you know, it's not racist.
	There's no historical.
	People think the American flag is racist.
	The left thinks everything that doesn't agree with them is racist.
	But okay, so your boyfriend, he made you a vegan and soy, I guess.
	Yes, and like my job, he did not like my job.
	So if I would come home, I couldn't talk about my job because he didn't like that I would arrest people for using drugs.
	Oh, so you're a narc.
	Yeah, that is some issues there.
	Yeah.
	My current boyfriend now is a veteran and does the same thing I do.
	So we can do that.
	That makes sense.
	Final thing on the chivalry, then we're off to something else.
	Nick, we should play the bout video.
	We, you know, the bout video, we'll play the bow video.
	This is a video I took my ex-girlfriend.
	It's like a tutorial.
	I show future women, like, hey, this is my ex-girlfriend.
	This is what I expect.
	Like a tutorial, you know, because sometimes it's like, you know, you got to put the girl in recruit mode for a little bit just so she knows like how to operate in the relationship.
	Are you being 100% honest when you say, say, that this is, you show this to future girlfriends?
	Or are you just being funny?
	They watch the show.
	Is that a requirement of a future girl?
	Like, I just, whoever submits the future, look, you know, there's a lot of, there's a lot of, I need a deprogram.
	Yeah.
	I need to deprogram my future girlfriend.
	I got to un-brainwash her and new brainwash her with my ideations.
	I'm done.
	I'm going to say the video last time, but I want to see it again.
	The psychologist is loving this.
	She's like, this man is so dysfunctional.
	At least I'm self-aware.
	I can't wait to say it.
	No, I love it.
	I love it.
	Go ahead.
	Play the clip.
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	Window tab.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Boom.
	Huge bow.
	And then what did you just throw at her?
	My sandals, I guess.
	Look, you know, there's my shirt.
	I'm like, hey, you got to get the laundry done right away.
	It was after a long podcast, so I was really tired.
	She has my dinner ready.
	Beautiful.
	Scampering around.
	She cracks open a beer for me.
	Now, I actually, you see those in the corner there, the right bottom corner, the red tomatoes.
	I actually dumped her because of those.
	That is disgusting.
	How would you, how could you ever just have rod who eats tomatoes like that?
	So I dumped her after I finished the dinner.
	You dumped her?
	And after we had sex, but what?
	You dumped her?
	Of course.
	I've been hearing some little tricklings through the grapevine that she dumped you.
	Okay, well, now you're making it.
	No, no, no, someone, a podcast person from the opposite side of your spectrum said that she dumped you.
	Asian woman dumb tomatoes.
	Yeah.
	Not true at all.
	No.
	No, not true.
	A liar.
	So, what was the situation?
	Why just legitimately the tomatoes?
	Because I don't believe that.
	It was definitely the tomatoes.
	Okay, okay.
	Definitely the tomatoes.
	But yeah, how to break up with her, how to break up with her.
	But yeah, that's OCD.
	Probably sure.
	It definitely wasn't the tomatoes.
	Come on.
	No, I'm just curious.
	No, with everything.
	That's sort of my expectation.
	Well, you know, honestly, the dinner, whatever.
	I do want laundry done and this sort of thing.
	But the big thing I want is the bow.
	I come home every time I want to bow from my bow.
	Would you have her bow?
	No, why would I bow back?
	Because it's a bad thing.
	You don't bow to the gay show.
	The gay ship bows.
	The gay ship bows to you.
	That's how it works.
	What if she went above and beyond for you and did everything you wanted, but even more?
	Would you then bow for her?
	No, I don't bow.
	I was going to say, in Japanese culture.
	Hold on, repeat the question: if she does everything, yeah, and more.
	And she's the perfect woman.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, sure, why not?
	Okay.
	That's what I'm doing.
	It's a sign of respect.
	Like, I'm not going to get the perfect woman, so no.
	Although you just manifested that you're not going to get the perfect woman.
	Here, show of hands.
	Who here has ever dated the perfect person?
	There's no such thing.
	Okay.
	I would get crushed.
	She's right there.
	You better say that.
	She doesn't.
	She never pisses me off.
	He said, I want to marry her.
	I'm not going to say she's.
	But look, when I'm talking about perfect, right?
	When I'm talking about perfect.
	Nobody's technically perfect, but that's why I'm saying.
	But perfect for you.
	It's amazing.
	I think people make, I don't want to say subtle, but people make compromises.
	Like, look, people are not going to get the ultimate in every single dimension.
	So if we talk like looks, if we talk personality, if we talk, in my like perfect world, like the perfect woman would technically be a billionaire.
	Of course.
	And then like, I don't have to work ever.
	So like built into that, it depends how ridiculous we make the scenario.
	Like how caked in, you know, is she a billionaire?
	But even absent her being rich, a perfect woman would be like, in terms of looks, like every single metric under looks, maximized personality, everything maximized, like never nags, never argues, perfectly pleasant, submissive, et cetera, et cetera.
	You could buy a robot.
	Yeah.
	You could buy a robot.
	She would give you everything.
	I wish to God I could get a robot.
	Hey, come on.
	Hey, it's just going to be a few years.
	Pale, what is his name?
	Pale Greg?
	Greg?
	Pale eye.
	Casey.
	Pale.
	Casey Greg.
	He's donating enough that you should be able to buy.
	We've got two right here.
	We just need a robot one.
	I'm going to get a robot.
	I'll get a robot.
	I think you deserve one from your point of view.
	No, I'm behind you.
	I don't understand.
	Like this idea that, oh, you want a woman who just agrees with you on everything and is just perfectly pleasant all the time?
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	I think you would get bored.
	No, I wouldn't get bored.
	You don't even want like intellectual conversation of assimilation in that?
	Because I feel like sometimes that turns into a debate, even if you do agree.
	I don't want to debate with my girlfriend.
	But you're in a safe space.
	That's the place you do it in.
	I don't want to debate.
	Your relationship should be a safe space for yourself.
	I debate for my job.
	You think I'm going to go, even if it wasn't my job.
	I'm just saying, sometimes talking with someone having an intellectual conversation, every once in a while it might be that you don't see immediately eye to eye, and there's a little bit of a debate of type of essence to that.
	I mean, I would put it like this.
	If I could maximize the intelligence trait in my girlfriend or wife, yeah, give her like the highest IQ possible.
	I don't want some idiot or dumbass.
	I mean, for a couple reasons.
	I think if you're a proper dumbass, you're a liability.
	But I would add on to that.
	Like if one of the reasons we find somebody attractive, like the traits that we find attractive in them, is to, and I think you can be attracted to people absent children, right?
	Like wanting to have children.
	But we want to, one of the reasons we are attracted to people is they are going to confer these traits to our children.
	And so one component of it, whether consciously or subconsciously, is I'm attracted to this woman because she will, you know, give me D1 babies, you know, whatever.
	That's me, literally.
	I mean, because you said you want a billionaire.
	I'm like, I'm just happy that my girlfriend played college volleyball.
	There we go.
	But we do these assessments of partners, not just on our own selfish interest, but also, I mean, look, if you don't want to have kids, then you're just going to probably maximize for different things potentially, I guess.
	I mean, well, the thing is that the traits that will confer benefits to your children, even selfishly, you'll still, you're just going to be inherently attracted to those things regardless.
	Like, okay, if they're good looking, they'll confer perhaps good lookingness onto your children.
	So, like, kind of what I'm trying to say is that for me personally, intellectual engagement is super important in attraction for me.
	It's what I like.
	It's like safety asexual.
	Yeah, I would say.
	But more importantly, I am kind of looking for someone that not necessarily doesn't see the same viewpoint, but has their strengths or my weaknesses and vice versa.
	So they can help me see a clarity in a subject that maybe, first of all, I'm not the authority on, so I don't know as much about.
	And they can help me see another point of view that helps me expand my own point of view.
	So maybe I don't agree with them, but it helps me see the other side of the discussion.
	One thing to be careful of with that, though, is that there isn't perfect symmetry between what men want and what women want.
	So I wouldn't, don't always map onto, well, I as a woman desire X, Y, Z thing in men.
	Ergo, men surely must desire these things too.
	Not, I mean, there's certain things that go both ways, right?
	But there are certain things that are clearly asymmetrical.
	Sure.
	So I think some of that desire there, I think men to a less care about that to a lesser degree.
	Like, for example, money.
	I think women have a more invested stake in a man being successful, a man being ambitious, a man being a high earner.
	I'm not saying that, I'm not saying it's the most important thing, although the majority of divorces are because of financial issues.
	I'm not saying it's the most important thing.
	I'm not saying that that's the only thing women care about.
	It's not the case at all.
	Women care about a bunch of other things too.
	And I think oftentimes that can be like very secondary or whatever.
	But compared to men, men care very, like, don't care at all.
	Men really don't care about a woman's money or success or any of these sorts of things.
	But he does care about her mental state.
	When I say mental state, I mean the point of view that she has, that she carries through life, what her maybe opinions are or her expression and how she intellectualizes and comes across.
	So what I'm trying to expand on is, at least in the type of talking situations I've been in, I do feel like me being an intellectual has always helped me because a lot of times when I'm talking to these men, they really appreciate, whether it turns into something or not, they appreciate that I'm able to put my thoughts into a presentable way that I can come across and have a discussion with them.
	No one gets upset or angry even if we don't see eye to eye, but we're able to better ourselves and expand what we're talking about so that I can better understand my life and people that I run into and have more conversations like that.
	Honestly, look.
	But I don't think all men are that way.
	I'm just no, I think it's very vital.
	But that's a good thing.
	But for you in your life, for the kind of woman you're looking for, that's not important.
	But for another man, that could be a deal breaker.
	You get what I'm saying?
	No, I get for you that that's not important.
	Well, I think I want to say for the majority of men, I don't think men really prioritize deep convo.
	They should, though.
	That's not the right issue.
	I have to disagree with you.
	The only reason, and it's not that I 100% disagree because I have friends that have male-order brides that don't even speak English that love their wife and it couldn't be any happier.
	I would date a mute woman.
	Yeah, or one that barely speaks English.
	I would just say that for me, one of the best things, I guess, in my relationship is like being able to vent sometimes.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, it's like a therapy thing.
	Like, oh, I'm mad about this at work or that.
	Safe space.
	Yeah, so I feel like, you know, talking, I mean, but you could vent to like a one-sided vampire.
	But the same as when you vent to her, right?
	There's privacy within venting to yourself.
	I do think talking matters, I guess, Brian.
	That's the one thing where I, you know, like, I'm just saying that we were talking about deep conversations.
	Yeah, I mean, look, you, of course, want somebody who you get along with, and it's not like awkward or like pulling teeth.
	I mean, I've had experiences where, you know, I've been on dates with girls and it's like, it's a, it's, you're, you're horrible.
	You can't even have a conversation where you're just like carrying the conversation and they're not given.
	They're just saying, yep, yeah.
	But I mean, like, I'm not looking for a woman who's like Shakespeare over here, who's like got some massive depth and I can talk about philosophy with her.
	No, and that makes sense with me.
	I value other people.
	Why would you need that if you get that from your job?
	Why would you need that?
	So I'm kind of having an epiphany about you, actually.
	It's not about you think I'm having a lot of things.
	No, no, no.
	I'm just saying I get why you don't need to have deep conversations with your significant other because you probably are burnt out from these conversations.
	Well, I'm conversationally burnt out from the show.
	That's probably true.
	Once a week, come on.
	When you get off the show, you're like, I don't want to talk.
	I don't want to talk.
	Yeah, you just want to chill.
	But I mean, it's not even that the conversations on the show are super like high-level, deep philosophical conversations a lot of the time.
	They typically aren't.
	Although, I mean, they're fun condos and whatever, but I don't think my job necessarily is like even before I did this podcast, having deep convos with women was not like a high priority.
	Of course, I want to be able to like us to have good communication and for it to be like a good vibe.
	I hate to use this term, but vibe.
	The vibe is good.
	Sometimes it's applicable.
	But like, I don't need to have like deep convos.
	Sure, that's not for you.
	I get it.
	But I think a lot of men feel that way.
	And it depends and feel your way.
	I think a lot of men feel that way.
	I think there are a lot of men who do want an intelligent wife, but they're not necessarily craving deep convos.
	However, over the long term of relationships, when we're talking 5, 10, 15, 20 years plus, it's a big thing I see in therapy why women, women seek more than 70% of the divorces.
	And the biggest reason really is that over time, women do crave those deeper convos.
	They want to be emotionally connected.
	And a lot of times they don't feel like their men want to go there with them.
	What about?
	I'm sure that's fair, I guess.
	You know, his name is Andrew that comes on here a lot.
	Andrew Wilson.
	And his wife.
	Rachel, yeah.
	Yeah, they have very similar viewpoints, but they both are very good at debating and talking.
	I'm sure.
	But so I'm sure that that is a very big thing in their relationship.
	That if they weren't able to have those kind of conversations with each other, they wouldn't want to be with each other.
	So they kind of have that kind of situation.
	I mean, I don't think Andrew.
	So Andrew would still be with Rachel, even if she's a very good debater.
	Yeah.
	Even if she wasn't a good debater.
	No, but he did choose her, and I'm sure he really enjoys the fact that, you know, once she shares, I would say disrespectful to Andrew, but Rachel's smarter than Andrew.
	I would say that straight up.
	Well, they're both very intelligent.
	But Rachel's an actual author, and you know, I mean, Rachel's pretty smart.
	And I'm sure, but I'm sure he would not be mentally stimulated if she wasn't.
	I don't think Andrew.
	But that's why he picked her.
	Are they bothered?
	Rachel.
	I think it has less to do with Rachel.
	I mean, that's sure, it's a perk to have a high IQ wife or whatever.
	Yeah.
	I don't think that that's like that would have been the primary thing.
	There's probably other traits that he valued in Rachel that were prioritized.
	Yeah, I don't even know what I agree.
	But debating is not the same as a deep convo.
	Yeah, we just differentiate that.
	I don't think most people want to debate.
	We have two chats coming through.
	Pasty George $50.04.
	My brother met a young woman in rural Southeast Asia and he married her.
	They have been together for two years.
	She is traditional, respectful, and submissive.
	That is what many men are looking for.
	Here you go.
	Yeah, is Pasty George single and a lot of men are doing that?
	Oh, Brian specifically.
	Oh, what?
	I mean, he did have a beautiful Asian girlfriend.
	She's gorgeous.
	Indeed.
	Indeed.
	Is that really his girlfriend?
	No, I'm pretty sure.
	Yeah.
	I believe it.
	But what's it called?
	No.
	This is not his girlfriend.
	These are so funny.
	Good apartment.
	Did that look like an apartment in America?
	I don't know.
	I think it was like one of those weird fake character Asian videos that they post.
	He plays that.
	He played it on the last podcast I was on as well.
	It's just evolved over time.
	It hasn't.
	She's become my girlfriend.
	I dumped her.
	We Brian's jacket double Ogle American flag in the studio.
	Is this the Ogle?
	But happy to be back.
	Hope everybody is doing well in the world.
	I think it is Ogle.
	Oh, shit.
	Welcome, Ogle.
	The Top G, The Legend.
	Good to see you, man.
	It's been a while.
	$200.
	Ogle.
	Yeah.
	Why does Pasty George's come in as $204?
	Because he.
	Don't worry about it.
	Okay.
	Sorry.
	It's a little code.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	It's the Illuminati.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Yo, Ogle, good to see you, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you for the compliment on the jacket, doing a little Halloween.
	It's a little Halloween.
	I should have told you guys to wear a costume, I guess.
	I know.
	I have a cop one in the car, a cop costume.
	I had costumes for everybody.
	Maybe we should send you out to change into it.
	Okay, I will.
	Yo, Ogle's a homie.
	He's been a longtime contributor.
	Is Ogle the one he sent in Ethereum, I'm pretty sure, right?
	He did the theory.
	What a fucking legend.
	Anyways, thank you, Ogle.
	Good to see you.
	You can't even get a hold of my Bitcoin anymore.
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	My brother has noticed that many Western men, especially young ones, are moving to areas throughout Southeast Asia to find and marry traditional rural Asian women.
	Why is that?
	I feel like I see more younger men going to South America and more older men going to Asia.
	That's why I guess it depends.
	I mean, if you're in Japan or Thailand.
	No, definitely not Japan, but I would say it's more the Philippines and Vietnam.
	Big Ogle here with the gifted 50.
	Guys, can we get some W's in the chat for Ogle?
	Wogle?
	Can we get some Wogles in the chat?
	Yo, Ogle, what a legend.
	Good to see you back, man.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate the support.
	What a fucking legend.
	I'm going to play this.
	What is brave and a decent man?
	He's a pioneer.
	He's a pioneer.
	Thank you.
	Thank you for that, Ogle.
	Appreciate it.
	W's in the chat for him.
	What is 50, whatever he's saying?
	A membership?
	Gifted memberships on YouTube.
	Oh, okay.
	Wait, so okay.
	Oh, Japan.
	I don't think Japan is so much of a sex thingy.
	Oh, well, I'm not.
	I mean, most of these passport bros, I don't think it's just for sex.
	I mean, maybe.
	I'm trying to find a girlfriend or whatever.
	I think it's more South America and then.
	Well, it's Eastern Europe, South America, and Southeast Southeast Asia, but even like Japan.
	I think Eastern European women want men with more money, but for the regular man, it's easier to go to the Philippines or Vietnam or somewhere where the income is a lot lower.
	Well, I think they go there because these women have a reputation for being more traditional.
	Yeah.
	More submissive.
	Yeah.
	More.
	Now, you know, I definitely think some of the more modern Western bullshit has seeped into even Japan, even Thailand, even Vietnam, even the Philippines, all these countries.
	But I think there is still a bit more of a traditional overriding.
	But I got to be honest, though, some of these guys, passport bros, got to be careful.
	Yeah.
	Because some of these women, once they get the ring, once they get the green card.
	90-day fiancé scam.
	Yeah.
	After that 90 days, they say see you later.
	But I even know in Colombia right now, it's a really big issue where American men are going there to meet women in South America, especially Colombia.
	They're going back to a hotel with them.
	They're getting drugged.
	They're getting stolen from, and they're dying.
	Like, it's been an alarming night of it.
	Well, Cardi B admitted to doing that.
	Yeah, and that's in America.
	In the strip club.
	But yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, just be careful, guys.
	Do whatever you want, but be careful.
	Well, yeah, that's why, honestly, I feel like some of the Asian countries are probably a little safer.
	I think so.
	I would love an Asian wife if I swung.
	Pretty safe.
	Pretty safe for the past broads.
	But yeah, you go to Colombia.
	Yeah, you got to be careful.
	That one's a little sketchy.
	Like, where do they go?
	Medelline or whatever?
	Medelline, Cali.
	Medelline.
	Is that how you say it?
	Yeah, it's Medelline.
	Or they go to her country, they go.
	I thought it was Medellin.
	Maybe it's Medelline.
	Maybe it is Medelline.
	It's a double L.
	I think when the white men call it, they say Medelline.
	Oh, yeah, they say Medelline.
	They do.
	We have a thing here from Stiffler.
	Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to 10.
	You can't pick seven.
	Rate your own looks.
	On a scale of one to ten, can't pick seven, starting with you.
	That's not personality.
	It's just looks or just looks.
	Yeah.
	I would give myself an eight.
	What is it?
	Just curious, what is it with personality?
	Well, because sometimes personality, the way that we view ourselves, our personality is considered, and that's why I just asked you because I wasn't sure.
	All right.
	Eight.
	What about you?
	So I've also asked people before I come on the show what I should rate myself and they say that I should say an eight.
	And I, you know, what do you think, though?
	I would have said seven myself, but if I have to choose, I'm going to go higher than lower.
	Because I, you know.
	What about you?
	I'm going to give myself a nine for my age, a six for like without age.
	So just in general.
	Okay, gotcha.
	Well, I feel like it's fair as an older person.
	Like if you're going to compare me to like 20-year-old models, I can't give myself a nine.
	But for like by 50s, I think I'm doing it.
	She definitely is.
	I see what you're saying.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	A 7.5.
	Can't pick.
	She said 7, not 7.5.
	Those are two different numbers, but I use fractions.
	No fractions.
	8.
	8?
	Okay, what about you?
	Probably like a 4.
	4?
	Okay.
	4.
	4.
	8.
	8?
	Okay.
	I'd say an 8.
	Eight.
	Alex.
	I'm a 9.9.
	I would be 10, but I'm circumcised, so I'm missing like if I still had my four skin, I'd be a 10.
	What a travesty, honestly, though.
	Somebody has that.
	Some Hollywood celebrities rubbing it on their face because they're facing like perfumes.
	Yeah.
	I love it.
	Would you try it?
	Five.
	I give myself a five.
	No, I wouldn't rub four skins on my face.
	What does it say, Brian?
	And I'm not trying to harp on you ladies, and I think you guys are trying to be modest or trying to be, you know, not too egotistical, but a four is low.
	I mean, you work, you make money by selling your body.
	I mean, if you're a four, don't you think you'd be out of business, right?
	I mean, don't you at least have to be like a six or seven?
	What were you saying earlier?
	I do.
	You're a 600-pound woman having a boyfriend.
	Well, I'm just saying, if you really think you're a four, then I mean, I feel like you wouldn't be doing sex work because you'd be like, I'm a four.
	Who really wants to, you know what I mean?
	I feel like it takes confidence to do sex work.
	Maybe it's like a comparison thing where it's like there's so many beautiful women in the industry that there's like a comparison thing going on.
	I don't know.
	That's not really it for me right at the moment.
	Honestly, they're I'm just like a four like today because I have like a breakout right here.
	My skin's bad today and I feel kind of oily and bloated.
	So it's like a four today.
	Oh, so what's the average though?
	Like, yeah, like a four or five, maybe.
	Okay.
	Yeah, yeah.
	But occasionally, you know, I have those days where I'm a 10.
	Some of those days.
	Yeah.
	It's a scandal.
	Good shit.
	Good shit.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I mean, nothing too crazy here.
	Was there a lot of eights, though?
	Yeah, I know eights, the new seven.
	Yeah, I have to go with that number.
	I think some of you were a little generous.
	All right, back in April, I would say it was more like a nine.
	In April, what?
	Yeah, I was 130 pounds back in April.
	Now you're more.
	I was in a car accident, so I haven't been dancing, so I'm now 169.
	Yeah.
	Wait, so how tall are you?
	How tall?
	163 centimeters.
	What is that?
	5 for 80 inches.
	Oh, yeah, like, what's the centimeter?
	Yeah, we do.
	What's happening?
	How do you know how many centimeters you are?
	We're going to fucking invade Canada.
	We're going to annex it.
	This is ridiculous.
	Centimeters.
	Centimeters.
	We need to introduce some fucking American music.
	I heard that.
	She's like, my boyfriend's penis is 95 centimeters.
	Sounds huge.
	Wait, so how tall are you?
	5'3.
	Okay, oh, that's the same as me.
	Okay.
	You said you're 169.
	Is that right, mathematically?
	I'm 5'3 ⁇ .
	Someone sent a super chat with her fans.
	And so you were 130 when you were dancing, now you're 160.
	That was literally April this year.
	Yeah.
	In that car accident.
	The car accident.
	Yeah.
	No, I can show you guys pictures.
	It's very depressing.
	Yeah, that's hard.
	You got to get on that Ozimpic.
	You got to get on the gym.
	I don't want to get sick.
	I don't want to look like Ariana Grande.
	I understand that.
	And some people are like going blind from it.
	Yeah, I'm already half blind.
	I'm sorry for that.
	You might not want to get on it.
	We're having a camera difficulty, but I'll address that in just.
	Is it the center cam again?
	Yeah.
	Nick, without moving that top camera, just try going, turning it off and on.
	Just the actual camera itself.
	I don't know.
	You guys probably see it on stream.
	Our cameras.
	One of our cameras froze.
	Not a big deal, but.
	All right.
	We have.
	Hmm.
	Do we have the gender swap and the age?
	Can we do it?
	Did we check on the last one?
	We had to get here.
	So really quick, going around the table.
	I don't know.
	Chat, do I?
	There's some eights and nines and shit.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, what is the chat?
	You know what?
	Fine.
	I'll say.
	I'll say one thing on the rating thing here.
	I think they're, I'm not going to pick on anybody, but I think there are a couple elevated ratings.
	I asked my question.
	Why don't average women just be like, you know what?
	I'm average looking.
	Because you wouldn't let us pick seven.
	That's the average.
	No, average is five.
	Average would be five.
	Yeah.
	Seven's a good, like seven's really good.
	Like you're a good-looking woman if you're seven.
	Yeah.
	But why do we, why not be excited that people think they look good, even if other people don't?
	Like that's good self-esteem.
	That's not confidence.
	Why?
	It's the opposite.
	These are purists.
	Do you want people to feel like they're not that attractive?
	No, I want people to just accept realism.
	Well, women do have higher standards than men.
	And I think that's probably because they have a false sense of security or a false self-esteem.
	I find most women to be incredibly insecure and hard on themselves more than they're overinflated thinking they're hot.
	I know, but it sounds crazy.
	Like a person can be incredibly insecure, but also really picky.
	I know that.
	Yeah, no, I think that's very accurate.
	I know that as I've gotten older, I don't look as good as I did 20 years ago, but I rank myself higher now than I would have because I have better confidence.
	But I could argue that the more insecure a girl is, the more picky they are going to be because they're going to feel like they're less than.
	They're going to feel more secure.
	So they're going to feel like they need more in their partner.
	So that they would actually maybe be more picky.
	I don't know.
	I was just afraid this one here, though.
	Well, I'm saying like how you said when you have confidence, because when you have that confidence, you're not, you know, it gives you more power in the situation.
	Yeah, I just think for women, and I can, as the only one in her 50s here, I will just say that for a lot of women, as you get older, you become more confident because you're less worried about men finding you hot, which I'll just speak for myself, dominated a lot of my thoughts and my feelings about myself when I was younger.
	Maybe you know why that is, though, because then you guys are going to like, call me misogynistic.
	No, no, no, no.
	Maybe it is a little bit, but this is why women get more confident and they do get a little more sexually aggressive in their older age because whether we want to admit it or not, men, I'm definitely not more sexually aggressive.
	Well, maybe not.
	Maybe they're menopausal.
	Maybe there's a menopausal age where you don't, you know, you're menopausal.
	Well, okay, maybe your hormones aren't, you know, you know, hitting on all cylinders.
	But what was the point I was just making?
	The word menopause comes up in things shutting down.
	I know.
	You're like, your brain is just like shutting up.
	No, no, no, no.
	What I'm saying is the women that are older are more sexually aggressive because their value as a woman, I hate to admit it, it's not like wine.
	The older you get, the less your value is.
	Your value goes down with that.
	On a societal level.
	But there are definitely people who still value women who are not.
	I agree.
	I agree.
	But I think that's kind of why women are forced to be more confident because you're like, hey, look.
	But confidence isn't something you can force.
	Inner genuine confidence is something that's not.
	I would disagree.
	I would disagree.
	But the definition of confidence is that you feel a certain way about yourself.
	Not fake it till you make it.
	A lot of older women also feel invisible for the very reason that you bring up because they're no longer sex objects.
	I think also being a therapist, a lot of my value and confidence comes from something, what I do.
	And I'm in a job that the older you get, the wiser you are, the more valuable you are.
	So I think my looks are deprioritized in my life at this point.
	Well, see, I disagree because I would say that confidence, you can't choose to be confident because what is confidence is basically the lack of fear.
	So you can choose, you don't think so?
	No.
	Well, I would say being scared is the opposite of being confident.
	I disagree.
	I think confidence.
	The opposite of being confident is insecure.
	To me, confidence is feeling afraid.
	I mean, feeling afraid of certain things is human.
	Confidence is being afraid and doing it anyway.
	Confidence is a good thing.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Choosing to do it anyway.
	Right, but that doesn't mean you're not afraid.
	So you can choose to be confident.
	So when you choose to do something, my argument is confidence is a choice.
	You're choosing a baby.
	No, I'm saying something completely different.
	I'm saying that when you choose to do something you're scared of, that can build confidence.
	That's what I'm saying.
	That is not faking confidence.
	Confidence is something you genuinely feel.
	I'm saying anybody can be confident.
	Anybody can work on building their confidence.
	But you should go, I'm pretty confident.
	I don't think I understand what I'm saying.
	It's like you said confidence is not a choice.
	I think that that's wrong.
	I think you can choose to be confident when you're in a situation that you might find scary and you continue to do it.
	You're choosing to be confident.
	So confidence in that aspect and that example is a choice.
	So what I'm pushing back on is that confidence is not being afraid, number one.
	Number two, I'm okay.
	Well, you said confidence is not being afraid.
	And I don't agree with that.
	I think confidence is being afraid and doing things anyway.
	And I think you build your confidence by choosing to do things that scare you 100%.
	I'm just saying I don't think you can just decide that you want to be confident and feel it.
	It has to be something that you authentically cultivate by doing things you're afraid of.
	You just not live in fear.
	It's something you have to exercise.
	It's like a muscle, like a figurative muscle.
	But you can't just turn it on.
	You have to continually participate in and choose to do the actions.
	But when you're doing it, I'm just saying confidence is a choice.
	I don't know.
	But it's a choice you exercise.
	You use, and it's a process.
	It's not just one day you're like, I can become more confident.
	But what she's trying to say is that through her career, she's built confidence by doing certain things that have improved her self-esteem by practicing that mode of having confidence.
	I'll just tell you this much.
	I'm not a role model, but if you're watching this, guys, right now, if you're, you know, you have confidence issues, you can choose to be confident in your everyday life and you can make decisions and do it confidently.
	And if there's situations that scare you, like these women are saying, if that will train you, go do the stuff that makes you scared.
	I think the biggest way that we grow as a people is putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations.
	I did a whole TEDx talk on that.
	So I 100% agree.
	The way you worded it before sounded just like that.
	You choose to put yourself in that to do the things that you're doing.
	Public speaking is when people list their biggest fears.
	Public speaking is oftentimes bigger than spiders and death.
	And so any person, though, can choose and go speak, unless you have a disability and you actually are mute.
	Anybody can have confidence and go do it.
	That's exactly how I overcame my fear of public speaking.
	All I mean, what did you do?
	You chose to be confident.
	I'm not disagreeing with that.
	I'm just saying one day you don't wake up and go, I'm going to be confident.
	That's fake it till you make it.
	And that's a completely different thing.
	Confidence is built with what you're saying now.
	Taking action in the face of fear, doing things that scares you and that scare you until you build that natural and inner confidence.
	It's not a light switch.
	That's all I'm saying.
	I think a good example of this, at least just from my personal life, you know, to come on the whatever podcast a year ago, I could not do that.
	I was so scared.
	I thought I would cry.
	I thought I would break down the first time.
	You know, I had to build up my confidence, especially with the internet and having people say mean things to me and me growing and being able to do that.
	Then one day I finally felt confident but nervous and I came on this show and I was, you know, it was scary for me.
	And now today I come on and I'm like, I feel good about this.
	I feel like I can, you know, roast me in the chat or, you know, something like that.
	A year and a half ago when I, or two years ago, when I started doing social media and people told me, come on the whatever podcast, I was like, I'm not good enough for that.
	I can't do that.
	You know, I was insecure about it.
	And now, you know, I am talking too much.
	Yeah, but all you did was choose to come on the show.
	Right.
	No, of course, but I had to build up the confidence to be able to do that.
	So now I'm feeling.
	Really, not really, because all you had to do is say one time, yes, I'm going to go on the show.
	And then that one time, that one decision, now you're confident for the rest of your time is on here.
	But think about somebody, go and watch them do public speaking in the first time they've ever done it versus the 20th, 50th, 100th time, how different those two discussions are.
	Well, I'm saying, well, I would argue that you can go speak publicly and be scared to death, but you're still confident because you're doing that.
	What I'm talking about is the comparison between the first time and the 50th time and how much confidence has built over doing it over and over again and knowing how to present yourself in that situation.
	You weren't the most confident here before.
	I understand.
	And people, and this isn't a confidence podcast, some people are like, you know, talking, probably bored.
	I just, I just, the only reason I'm even like being abrasive when it comes to this thing, because I don't feel like confident is a talent that people are born with.
	I think you choose to be confident by putting yourselves in tough situations and deciding to do things that we don't want to do, because there's so many things every single day we don't want to do that we go and do, and I think that is what confidence is.
	I think we're all agreeing on that.
	I think everybody's really just said, in different ways what, like how is this really telling you?
	And get confident in your life.
	I heard you guys saying something about older women are confident, and then you went on about older women are confident because they don't have a choice, because they're trying to bang, and that's the other thing.
	You know we always misconception yeah, a little bit, but well, maybe not the menopause over older women.
	When you get older, you care less.
	Older women are usually more, you know, they're just sexually active than younger people.
	I feel I have some.
	I have some guy friends who have in their 20s and have slept with women who are almost in their 60s because that woman was attractive for her age, she was confident, she knew what she wanted, and younger men love that not all of them, but some.
	That's well, this is a misconception too when we talk about different roles.
	Is that, Brian?
	I don't believe we're equal, but I think women and men equally want to have sex.
	Like people think that women don't have sex, they want to.
	Just it's equal yeah yeah, so they just want to.
	There's double standards, because a woman that has sex with a lot of men is a whore and a guy that has sex with a lot of women is a badass, you know.
	So that is a double standard, but it's just hysterical that you're basically telling me if i'm getting this right and it no, it's.
	It's funny and interesting that I am confident, sort of because I have no choice.
	If I want to get laid, I have to be confident a little bit.
	Yeah okay, that is not why i'm confident, but I appreciate your hypothesis.
	It's like you know.
	I mean I guess i'm talking about my personal thing is, you know, I have a little adh, but I actually I graduated college but uh, like sometimes I needed that pressure, like knowing that the test was sooner for me to be able to cram, and I think that's kind of how society is, the older you get, you kind of need that societal pressure, because a lot of women feel like they have to have a kid by the time that they're 30 and I don't know if you know, society says that that's fair or not, but that push does encourage women to have babies At that age.
	Or at least freeze their eggs by that age.
	Yeah, but so.
	Okay, but what does this have to do with like having to be confident to try to get away from that?
	I'm saying society.
	So women feel like, oh, I got to have a baby by 30.
	Oh, I got to be a little more aggressive, or I got to be maybe if a guy's not as hot, maybe they'll lower their standards a little bit.
	So I think that only increases as you get older and you're trying to find a male value.
	You know, you're trying to find another high-value male when your value is declining.
	Just, you know, it's like, I hate to be, it's like, what is it?
	What are those sand clocks or whatever?
	You know what I'm talking about?
	You know, you flip over.
	No, I do.
	Thank you.
	It's like there's just a lot less sand.
	So you got to be a little aggressive.
	You got to move a little faster.
	And you do, and there's less sand.
	It falls faster.
	And that's why there's less sand.
	And I would argue that men, maybe when they get older, maybe it can be a little more aggressive and worry less about the opinions of strangers or worry less about getting rejected.
	Go to an old folks' home and everybody's getting weight, okay?
	Where I live in Florida, and they have the highest STD rate.
	They're so horrible.
	Yeah, they all have her piece.
	Look at her face.
	I don't know about you.
	Ever heard about this at old folks' homes?
	Yeah, they're freaking nasty.
	No, I would think like old people's back doesn't move as good as he used to.
	They be hunched.
	They use swings.
	So it takes the weight off their backs.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, my God.
	Swings and stuff like that.
	There's a bunch of things that can help old people out there.
	People get down and dirty or freaky.
	They are still getting it, right?
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah, so I mean, I'm not trying to take a shot at you.
	I just feel like, you know, when we get older, we get a little aggressive.
	Because, like, even my dad, you know, he's, you know, he's now dating.
	And I feel like he probably has lowered his standards as he's gotten older.
	I feel like we all do.
	Does he date in his age range, though, or does he?
	Do you know what?
	Does your dad date in his age range?
	Yeah, he does.
	How old's your dad?
	He's just turned 70.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And he dates girls in his age range.
	I guess, I guess he does.
	Does he?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, like 50, 60.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
	What percentage do you think?
	Probably not mainly, probably mainly 60s.
	What percentage of men who are like your age and older do you think are really trying to date young women versus looking for someone who's around their age, like within 10 years of their age?
	Well, I think, I think, I mean, it's kind of different because, you know, it's like another double standard.
	You know, I know guys that married girls older than them and they like that relationship, but I kind of think that's weird.
	You know what I mean?
	But I don't think it's weird if the guy's 10 years older than the girl.
	No, me either.
	But I do think it's kind of weird when the girl's 10 years older than the guy.
	But do you think that a lot of more mature men are wanting to date a girl who is either in her late teens or early 20s?
	Well, I think 19 is a little young, but like there's a lot of men who specifically want to date.
	There are people that people want to date the young girls because the pedophile.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	But I think subconsciously, genetically, like you almost want to date somebody younger because we're looking at somebody you want to mate with and have a baby.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	There's straight.
	So I'm just saying instinctually, like 19 or 20, you're just kind of attracted to that because you're like, oh, that would be the best character.
	That is the reproductive ideal, actually.
	I could see someone who's in their like mid to late 30s having that point of view.
	But once you get to the point, you're like 60 or 70.
	Yeah, I know.
	I think, yeah, yeah, that's weird.
	My dad's 80, and he's dating someone who is 39.
	Yeah, see, that's yeah, and they're both doctors.
	She is not like she likes him.
	Yeah, she's smart.
	I mean, she is of a different ethnicity, lives in a different country, super, super smart, well-educated.
	I mean, green card scam.
	No, no, no.
	She's not even ever.
	I don't even know that they can ever live in the same place.
	It's kind of an unusual situation, but sometimes I'm like, Dad, I mean, my brother's 10 years younger than I am, and I'm this woman's younger than my brother.
	Like, it is so crazy, but you know what?
	I've come around to it in the sense that I feel like he's only got a how long left be happy.
	And it seems to be like a respectful, loving relationship.
	But most of my friends are like, What a baller!
	Like, Brian, go collette's chat, you know?
	Yeah, like when I was in the 20-year age gap relationship, there was clearly like by the end of it, his maturity.
	Like, he carried himself as a very high-value, like, leader-type man.
	And I do still think of him as a leader, but his maturity level, he would even admit, you know, that mentally he's probably stuck somewhere in his 20s-ish, you know, where a lot of his trauma kind of happened and whatever, you know.
	And so, for him, when he dates younger women, it's more like he mentally isn't on par with dating women his own age.
	I understand that women seek out older men because women typically mature faster than men do.
	Yeah, they do, they do.
	When I was dating older men, it was because I wanted someone who was like a father figure for me because I felt like my father was not there for me in the way that I wish he was.
	And so, I was looking for that within relationships.
	And I don't do that anymore because I've gone to hypnosis, which is kind of I've been recommended the subconsciously, though.
	You don't even mean to kind of find a guy.
	No, it wasn't on hypnotism.
	I know, but I think that's how most women are.
	It's just instinctually.
	It wasn't until I went to therapy and healed those inner problems that I didn't even realize I had that I then was like, oh, I'll never date the same way that I was.
	Oh, a lot of things.
	Touch more on the hypnosis thing.
	Like, I'm really curious about that.
	Oh, I loved hypnosis.
	It actually changed my whole entire life.
	Like, what did you have to do, though?
	Like, process.
	So, for me, I really wanted to change.
	I knew that there was a lot of things in my life that I was doing that were not for the betterment of myself.
	And for some reason, I mentally could not make the changes I needed to break the cycles that I was within.
	So, going to my hypnotherapist, I wrote out everything that I thought was destructive of myself that I was doing.
	And I went there asking, please, like, help me reverse this, help me.
	Boring, ask your question.
	Yeah, I know.
	That is ask your question.
	Sorry, guys.
	No, that's right.
	You just want me to do like the end part of the questionnaire?
	Or the.
	Okay.
	What years were World War I?
	I believe that was 1917 through 1920 or something, 1918.
	Okay, what do you think?
	Oh, I didn't go to college.
	I know when World War II maybe happened in the 40s, but World War I.
	Yes.
	Oh, okay.
	Then, I mean, I'll go with like the, I think, I think it was, I think, no, because I know that, like, the Great Depression was after World War I.
	So, like, I don't know, like, the 19 teens of the 1900s.
	Okay, and by the way, if you know it for sure, don't say it.
	Just say it.
	Okay, I know it for sure.
	I was a history major.
	What do you think?
	I'm just going to guess, probably 1940s.
	1940s?
	That was World War II.
	Is that what you said?
	That was World War II.
	No, I'm clarifying.
	Is that you said 1940s or 1914?
	40s.
	Okay.
	Oh, 1913 and 1914.
	Okay.
	You said if we know it, don't say it.
	Yeah, if you're right, I know it.
	Next.
	I actually don't even know.
	I'm sorry.
	You gotta guess.
	Yes.
	You have to guess.
	Shit.
	Yeah, into the mic for you.
	I don't want to be embarrassing to myself because I don't really care.
	A million years ago.
	You got it.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	19, whatever she said.
	Well, whatever she said or whatever she said.
	I like her answer.
	Because I'm going crazy because I'm pretty sure Hitler died in 1942, but didn't World War I end in 1930?
	To World War II.
	I'm guessing.
	I thought it did in 1937 or 1939.
	1939 sounds accurate, actually.
	1937 end in 39 or World War I.
	Okay, so what was your answer?
	1939.
	Okay, what's your answer?
	I fast, fast, guys.
	I don't really know.
	I have to guess.
	You have to guess.
	World War I happened in the early teens because my great-grandpa grew up in the Great Depression and then he was in World War II.
	So like the 1930s, 1940s.
	Wait, World War I. We're talking about both wars right.
	No, the first one.
	Just the first war.
	The early teens.
	Okay, so what's your guess?
	The early 1900s, like the teens of the 1900s.
	what's your guess Alex okay so now if World War II of World War II started in like 39 and it's like we're not don't We're talking World War I. Did it end in 1924?
	We're about to find out.
	It was from 1914 to 1918.
	Okay, now we'll talk about World War II.
	Well, everybody knows World War II because of the Holocaust.
	Everybody knows World War II.
	They don't know.
	They don't know.
	Nobody cares about World War II.
	Nobody, I mean, people care about it, but I mean, World War II is the one everybody talks about.
	Now we're all talking about the new genocide.
	So if you know, don't answer.
	Okay.
	I'm not 100% positive, but I'm pretty sure it started around 1936 and ended in the 1940s, early 1940s.
	It was over by 1945.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I think it was like 1936 to 1943, 44.
	Okay.
	I know.
	100%.
	1939.
	To when?
	No.
	Nope.
	No, no, no.
	Actually, never mind.
	She just told you.
	No, she didn't.
	I swear, she did.
	She really did.
	She didn't say it.
	She was just laughing.
	I swear.
	I swear to God.
	She didn't say anything about that.
	I believe she didn't say it.
	She didn't say it anymore.
	Okay, okay.
	She didn't.
	Just guess.
	You're not going to get it right.
	She's already wrong.
	Yes.
	Let's keep it moving.
	Yeah.
	Just guessing.
	I'm guessing like 1939 to 1945.
	Okay, next.
	I know it.
	Okay, next.
	1939 to 1945.
	Next.
	1937 to 1945.
	It's 1939 to 45.
	Oh, yeah.
	1945, whatever.
	I mean, who's going to be?
	Well, I mean, I got a college degree and I don't remember shit from last week, but one number that is the most important number is 6 million, though.
	That's the only number that matters.
	What?
	Is that the real number?
	Okay, so name a continent.
	Antarctica.
	America.
	North America.
	Okay.
	Sorry.
	Australia.
	We're not going to get to everyone, but.
	North America.
	Sure, you said North America.
	I have to pick another one.
	Yeah.
	There's seven continents.
	Asia.
	Okay.
	Europe.
	Okay.
	Mexico.
	South America.
	Wait, no, no, no, no.
	What?
	Mexico's a continent?
	Well, South America.
	Nope.
	That's not even South America.
	I don't fucking know.
	Okay.
	Do you know what continent Mexico is a part of?
	How does nobody, why didn't you say Africa?
	I don't know how you didn't say Africa.
	No, no, no.
	Stop.
	Oh, my God.
	My boyfriend.
	There's only two.
	I would say it one at a time.
	One at a time.
	Please, guys.
	What was your question?
	Okay, so do you know what continent Mexico's in?
	South America.
	No.
	Oh, it's in North America.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, it is in North America.
	Oh, yeah.
	This isn't.
	For some reason, nobody seems to know Mexico.
	This happened last show, too.
	Some girls.
	It's the Gulf of America now.
	I don't even know what.
	All right.
	Next question.
	Or, yeah, we said all the, we also said all the continents.
	Okay.
	Name three countries, and you cannot repeat.
	Name three countries.
	Let's see.
	Uruguay, Venezuela, and the Philippines.
	Let's do Ukraine, Switzerland, and Germany.
	Okay.
	France, Spain, Italy.
	Dang, she took all mine.
	Great, mine were taking two.
	Australia, Canada, and what's a third country?
	Mexico.
	Oh.
	Oh, Stiffy's changed.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Just went from a five to a nine point ten.
	Calm yourself.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Keep going, keep going.
	Okay.
	So Indonesia, Thailand, and United Arab Emirates.
	Next.
	Oh, God.
	South Korea?
	I have no idea.
	Keep going.
	Okay.
	No.
	Vietnam.
	Let's go a little quicker if we can, please.
	Okay.
	Germany, Brazil, Portugal.
	Finish, finish, finish, finish.
	Poland.
	Okay.
	Lebanon, Kuwait, and Turkey.
	Peru, Canada, America.
	Did we say America?
	I said Canada.
	Did you already say Canada?
	Okay, Ecuador, Belgium.
	There we go.
	Wow.
	Granted.
	Josh Brooks.
	I don't know.
	I wasn't here.
	Oh, okay.
	Yo, Josh, thank you for the gift.
	Now I have a good question.
	Okay, name three black people.
	Oh, my God.
	I like this.
	Yes, go.
	Let's come.
	Five.
	Bob Marlowe.
	I'll play it again.
	I want to go.
	I'll play it again.
	I'll play it again.
	It's fine.
	Give me a bit.
	You want them to see?
	Yeah, name three black people.
	Hurry.
	Five.
	LeBron James, Michael Jackson.
	It still counts.
	And Bob Marley.
	We're going to go with Obama.
	Jimmy.
	No, that's Jimmy Buffett.
	No, sorry.
	I was going to say the one that has the.
	Jimi Hendrix.
	Is that even.
	No, I'm so sorry.
	Martin Luther King Jr.
	Okay, name three.
	Malcolm X.
	Oh, God.
	Diana Ross, Hoda Coppi, Michael Jackson.
	Hoda Kochi's not black.
	She's Indonesian, I think.
	She said Michael Jackson just a second.
	Okay, name three whites.
	Donald Trump.
	I could do this.
	Donald Trump, Hillary Clinton, and Joe Biden.
	Here we go.
	Oh, I thought she was naming black people.
	She has no name whites.
	Name three black people.
	Why black people for me?
	Because you're white.
	Am I?
	Oh, my God.
	You don't even know your own color.
	No wonder she's a porn star.
	She didn't even know in America.
	Yo, Blafest.
	Thank you for the gifted 10.
	Appreciate it.
	Okay, well, I'm going to pull this back up.
	We have.
	As donated $200, my husband makes about $500 a week.
	Is it possible for me to stay home with the kids?
	I want to be home with the children so badly.
	I just want them to have a good life.
	$2,000 a month?
	I don't think so.
	That's like maybe about $500 a week.
	How many kids?
	I think that's $10,000.
	$2,000 a month.
	Where does she live?
	I think it's impossible for me to say.
	It really depends on where you live.
	I mean, I saw that.
	Thank you for the TTS pro.
	No, you're fucked.
	I saw the price of comfortable living across the United States, and the lowest one for a family was like $177,000, and that was in Missouri.
	In Missouri.
	Yo, AS, thank you for the TTS, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	First time.
	It looks like it was your first one.
	So thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	We have our boy.
	Our Canadian friends.
	George donated $200.04.
	Chair 3, many in the chat have been saying and thinking this for a while now.
	You look like the evil version of Rachel Wilson from the World Burns Universe.
	I don't know what that is.
	I was not thinking it.
	Yo, Pacey George, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Felicity, so you just did country and country, War 1, 2.
	World War II.
	Okay.
	Well, Brian, I want to ask one question real quick.
	Because we do talk about, I talk about conspiracies a lot, and I don't know how much you love conspiracies, but this is the one thing.
	And I actually appreciate the whatever podcast, but this is a famous podcast.
	What is it famous for?
	It's kind of like, you know, people arguing, you know, OnlyFans, girls, you know, it can kind of, it can kind of get out there.
	You know, it can be a little crazy on this show.
	But I think that these conversations are very important.
	And now I'm forgetting the main topic I was trying to do.
	Not this ADHD.
	I know.
	Now I've lost my totally trained thought of.
	Oh, this is what I'm talking about.
	Of society.
	Sorry, the conspiracy.
	This is the point is this show has a lot of tough conversations between people, but it kind of pits men against women.
	I think in society, men have purposely been pitted against women on purpose to make us fight one another because this sounds crazy.
	I'll go into the conspiracy part.
	The same reason they say there's global warming, they actually want population control.
	They don't want us to be married.
	They don't want us to have a family.
	They want all the girls to be whores.
	Because the reason why I also believe this is you look at the prices of homes have skyrocketed exponentially, but the wages have just stayed the same.
	So that is another threat on the we can't even have, what did you say, 70% of divorces are because of financial issues.
	So that is the financial hardships that we're facing is another reason why relationships aren't working.
	So I think society, we try to make it male versus female, but they're almost just a product of their society, nature versus nurture.
	And I think that's why this show is actually important because we can have this conversation and we might not ever have that if this didn't exist.
	Sure.
	Yeah, I mean, well, you know, I would even take it a step further, Alex.
	I don't think it's a conspiracy theory.
	I actually think, I mean, you look at the influence that feminism has in institutions.
	Feminism.
	Every single college.
	Yeah, every single college, the media, journalism, government, all these institutions, they're steeped in feminist ideology to some degree or another.
	Feminism has massive ideological capture.
	And I would say that a big component of feminism, even going back into the 1800s, if you look at the history of feminism, it was very anti-natalist, anti-family.
	They want to destroy the nuclear family.
	They don't want the nuclear family because under the feminist prism, the feminist lens, the family structure, the nuclear family structure is oppressive inherently.
	Well, that's their proposition.
	Is oppressive to women.
	And so any sort of structure or institution or system, the nuclear family, that can be oppressive to women should be smashed, should be demolished, should be taken down.
	So it's not a conspiracy theory.
	I think they probably, they're very famous feminists who are very anti-family, anti-husband, anti-natalist.
	Sounds a conspiracy theory.
	I think we're just fought on, Alex, to be honest.
	I'm pretty sure one of the original feminists, I don't know her name, but she was one who started Planned Parenthood, and they strategically put Planned Parenthoods in lower income areas.
	They put them in lower income areas so that black women will have more abortions.
	And William Gates Sr., Bill Gates' dad, was one of the, and he's a eugenicist himself, and he was one of the big donors and worked with Margaret Sanger.
	And there's this whole theory that, you know, these fetuses that they're using, they use them to do vaccines on young children, which inevitably, I remember this one topic was making young black boys autistic and giving them issues.
	And there's like this whole theory about, you know, abortion clinics and what they're doing for the group.
	Sell the fetuses for this kind of scientific research, and it's like really.
	You're talking like abortion being like eugenics against black people, basically.
	Well, that is a theory.
	Margaret Sanger, you got to look into it.
	That's one of the things she actually said before she developed it.
	And there's actually a lot of like weird stuff too with abortions, how they actually want to have the late-term abortion because those baby body parts are incredibly valuable because you can't get those body parts just for not just like if they needed you think, oh, maybe they needed you donate your organs for like surgery, but it's actually for like medical testing because they want to like test stuff on baby's body.
	So that's why like the fetuses are really valuable, and that's why you can look it up.
	There's been Planned Parenthood people that got caught like keeping some of the fetuses like in their house.
	Oh my god.
	Let's see.
	We are going to blast through some of the notes here.
	We've got a lot of notes left.
	What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband?
	You guys, just whatever you filled out here, just say it here.
	I said six figures, $300,000.
	Minimum yearly income?
	Yeah.
	$300,000.
	Have you even?
	Yeah, a year.
	Have you ever even dated a guy who makes $300,000 a year?
	Like long term?
	Yes.
	I mean, I don't know their entire history, but to my knowledge, yes.
	Okay, that's nearly top 1%.
	What about you?
	So for me, I say $100,000 because that's what I'm offering to pay.
	Okay.
	$200.
	$200.
	Well, you're already married.
	Does your current husband, does he make that much?
	He makes more than that, but that would be my minimum.
	That would be your makes sense.
	What about you?
	Realistically, at least $80,000 a year.
	$80,000 or more?
	Okay, what about you?
	Well, I'll date a cop, so like $50,070.
	But if you've been on the forest longer than a year, you make good money being a cop.
	They make six figures.
	Where do you live?
	I live in Northern California.
	Not even that many cops.
	That's far north.
	Yeah.
	I feel like if you were in like LA, I feel like some of these LA cops make they do make more, but I don't live in a California.
	Yeah, like some make a lot.
	If you were dating a CHP, then you'd my cousin's a cop in New York and he does really well.
	Yeah, you're in New York, yeah.
	Let's say like $50,000 minimum.
	What about you?
	$160,000?
	That's very specific.
	$160,000.
	That's very specific.
	Is that what your current boyfriend makes?
	Neither of her past husbands were making that.
	Your current boyfriend?
	Not at T-Mobile.
	What does he work?
	What does he do for work?
	He's a parole agent plus his VA benefits.
	So he probably gets like four or five grand a month just from the VA, so that's $50,000 a year.
	So yeah, maybe.
	That's nice.
	I had to do mine on a calculator, but whatever, $35 an hour working eight-hour weeks, days a week.
	$14,560 a year.
	That's very specific.
	Maybe it's like Canadian centimeters.
	$14 centimeters.
	Poverty level.
	That's what my calculator said.
	$25 an hour?
	That doesn't sound like a bad thing.
	I mean, $14,000.
	Only working three days a week, though, right?
	No, I know what you just said.
	Yeah, she needs somebody to watch Dancing with the Stars with her.
	You're not going to take that much money to watch Dancing with the Stars, so maybe you did have a point.
	Now I'm tending, I tend to agree with you that you weren't lying.
	If your boyfriend only needs to make $14,000, so he doesn't have that many requirements.
	So maybe you should fucking watch Dancing with the Stars.
	I don't think the chat likes my suit, by the way.
	They do not like the suit.
	I like it because it's better than the other.
	I don't think I've ever worn a suit on the show, by the way.
	Do you have a red tie?
	It's pretty.
	It would look better.
	Are you supposed to be the other character from Fight Club?
	Is this Halloween?
	Okay, okay.
	Who are you now?
	I thought you were.
	This is political, Brian.
	They don't like it.
	I'll take it off.
	I'll take it off in the house.
	Who are you supposed to wear you?
	No.
	A guy who's just himself in a suit.
	Yes, he's out of cost.
	I thought it was Halloween, so I thought it was another costume.
	We had Fight Club before this.
	Yeah, that's why I'm not sure.
	I like it being a team character.
	It looks like a Timu suit, fucking Target, got it in Target.
	Oh my God.
	Oh, he's got a hang.
	They're boxers that have a hole in it.
	They're farting around.
	Yeah, and you can't even see it.
	I really saw Teddy Westside.
	I suited up for this guy.
	Super good.
	I think that red would make it pop more, you know?
	The red tie.
	No, his eyes.
	You're right.
	The blue with his eyes.
	Yeah, I was going to say you need to be more like Alex.
	I wrote $100K a year, but it doesn't really matter to me too much because I'm literally only 18, but it's kind of more so a goal to work.
	In the future, yeah, a goal to work for.
	Okay.
	But you say it doesn't really matter.
	I don't know.
	Some of you, $300,000.
	You said what our ideal would be, right?
	No, minimum.
	What would you want the minimum your legal?
	That's my minimum ideal.
	Well, if it was truly the ideal, you'd say billionaire.
	I mean, I'm trying to be realistic because we're having a discussion.
	There are people that make $300,000.
	Not a lot.
	No, you're right.
	Not a lot.
	But maybe that weeds out a lot of people that are a waste of time for me to talk to.
	Somebody who makes $200,000 a year be a waste of time.
	I'm not saying that it's a factor that would determine me saying yes or no.
	I just answered the question.
	the minimum so it's like but if he checks every box and he only makes two hundred thousand dollars i'm not gonna throw him out the window I'm just answering the question.
	You're still so generous of you.
	Like, what I'm trying to say is that there's all these boxes, right?
	And check, check, check.
	So if he checks that box, great.
	But if he doesn't, then he better check all the other boxes.
	You've never been married, right?
	No.
	You want to get married?
	Possibly.
	Do you want kids?
	Possibly with the right person.
	Do you want kids?
	With the right person?
	Yes.
	But if the right person has to make $300,000 a year, you've eliminated 98% of the time.
	I'm okay with that.
	She said that if they check off the rest of the boxes, it's okay.
	But then that's not true.
	I don't believe there's a guy that made $300,000 a day to do dreadlocks.
	I would disagree with you.
	I would disagree with that.
	Woozy White?
	I would disagree with you.
	Woozy in the NBA.
	It doesn't matter.
	No.
	They weren't a professional athlete.
	Have you ever been with a professional athlete?
	No, I haven't.
	Only.
	I got to be honest, $300,000 a year.
	That's a lot.
	That's a big ask.
	I mean, in the state of California, they say that's like what you need to make as a minimum.
	Guys, guys, guys, guys, she's talking.
	Please be clear.
	I'm just saying, like, when I look at a census of numbers and it shows all the states, $300,000 is what they say to live in California is the comfortable life.
	You get what I'm saying?
	Well, how much do you make?
	That's not what we're talking about.
	What do you make about that?
	Well, you don't have to give me an exact number, but you make six figures.
	I don't make six figures.
	But I'm also doing 1099 work trying to make it as like doing all these different trades.
	So I'm at the beginning of a career, so I don't think it's applicable.
	I mean, I guess somebody could turn their shit around all crazy at 37, but I do think it's a massive ask.
	Look, I mean, again, men don't really care about your money, but like, I don't know.
	Genuinely, no one's ever asked me that question because I don't think about that kind of situation.
	This is the first time I've ever answered a question or asked.
	You did think about it.
	I did.
	I had to think about it a long time.
	$300,000.
	Yeah, because I was like, what would you want?
	That's what I said to myself when I sat down.
	I guess I'm just trying to manifest things by writing them down.
	And then you're also.
	Words have power, Brian.
	You write it down.
	And when you write it down, it's more powerful.
	I'm sorry.
	I was just trying to answer your question.
	Let me manifest here a little bit.
	I want a 10 out of 10 virgin virgin, I don't know, who is a billionaire and has giant labia.
	And I wish that for you guys.
	Magnet does exist.
	I know it sounds great.
	I'm sure he does exist.
	No, but there's some billionaire and his daughter, and he's going to pass away and leave her.
	That's fine.
	Yeah, Alex, you're a connected guy.
	You know any female millionaire?
	One day, I mean, this is the thing.
	You have to wait a little while because, like, her dad's probably not dead yet.
	But yeah, there'll be some billionaire and like some Batman style chick that will inherit that.
	And she will be hot and she will be a virgin because her dad was like Batman.
	And yeah, you know, sign me up.
	Can I say something?
	Sure.
	No.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So you're saying $300,000 to live comfortably in California, right?
	The recent numbers I saw, I believe California is the third most expensive state.
	Okay, so then you're choosing.
	No, I live comfortably.
	So you're choosing to live in a state that costs that much.
	You could choose to get a lot of things.
	I mean, that's not my long-term plan to live in this state, though.
	I'm from California originally, so it's a little different because I know a lot of you aren't from here, but my roots are here and I keep getting stuck in California.
	I went to live in Hawaii.
	I've lived in Jamaica.
	I've never.
	You lived in Jamaica?
	Okay, you are culturally appropriating stuff.
	I can't help that I went to live in Jamaica.
	The blackest country on earth.
	Yeah, how long were you?
	That's not true.
	Well, one of the blackest.
	How long were you in Jamaica?
	I lived in Jamaica for about three months, but when I lived in Hawaii, I lived there for a year and a half.
	How many Rastafarians were you banging?
	Oh, I wasn't doing that.
	Yeah, right.
	You didn't bang one Rasta while you were there.
	Did you bang one Rasta?
	Be honest.
	I was seeing someone at the time.
	And was he a Rasta?
	I wouldn't classify him as Rastafari Fair.
	Was he Rasta adjacent?
	I would not classify him as Rasta adjacent.
	He was Rasta adjacent.
	How did he just?
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	I agree with Alex, but I believe that feminism is a cleverly disguised tool by Talmud Zionists that convinced women to be 304s and reject anything male, including patriarchy, including Jesus and God.
	Oh.
	Preach it, Pasty George.
	No, 304 means.
	Oh.
	You're a Pasty George thinking man.
	It's a slang term.
	When people call you 304, it means like you're for the streets.
	That's what that means.
	Do you have any disagreements with the show?
	I believe you're the only one who, at least here in the past.
	Oh, wrote it down.
	You said that you believe the podcast is not genuine, but rather rage-bit.
	So how's it going?
	I feel like today's podcast was a lot more genuine.
	And the last one that I was on, I feel like we had a few.
	Was Andrew there?
	He was on the computer.
	He was on the screen.
	but we had a few more pretty uneducated women who really didn't know what they were talking about and I felt like- I don't even remember.
	Yeah, but I felt like you particularly, you gravitated towards having long conversations with them, even though what they were saying made zero sense and it was just like going on forever.
	And I was like, okay, there are people with better opinions.
	There could be better conversations had here.
	Overall, this panel seems much more educated.
	And I feel like we're having a great banter.
	But the last one was a little different.
	So wait, wouldn't that the blame then be placed on the stupid female girl?
	Yeah, but I think that you were particularly talking to the stupidest girls on the panel for like long periods of time.
	Did you recall the episode number?
	I just heard that.
	I don't, but there was one girl with dreads and you were talking to her about manifestation for like 20 minutes.
	I'm like, they're much more educated.
	She was like 19 years old or 18 and was it was like really stupid.
	It was like two months ago.
	There was like the girl who looked like Jade Leno on there and all of her teeth were gone.
	Jade Jade Leno.
	And she was saying that she was like, she was saying that she was asexual, but then she texted me afterwards asking to like cuddle with my boobs with her and like her friends.
	It was like so weird.
	But then there was another girl who was like in her late 30s and said she wanted her man to make like $10 million and she like rage quit because you just went at her for so long and she had like no opinions in her brain.
	And you said And yeah, you were there.
	It was like two months ago.
	I was here.
	I was here in like August.
	I think it was more.
	Sorry.
	It was August.
	I think I was here in August.
	Is a girl wearing like a cheetah shirt, the one you're talking about?
	I think she had blonde hair and she like had this accent and she was very skinny and just like, yeah, I remember her.
	Yeah.
	And she just was very uneducated.
	So like she was getting fatigued by the fact that you were constantly talking at her and then she eventually like left.
	Andrew, she's like, you're twisting my words.
	Yeah, but it was like also they'd been talking for so long.
	But today was great.
	I really like the conversation.
	I love that you brought Alex on here.
	I want to come every time we have, you know, a political person.
	You're going to get me in trouble.
	Everybody's like, you better tell these horses.
	Close your legs.
	But you're like it, but you're a different kind of whore because you're like a Groyper.
	I can already tell.
	Are you a Groyper?
	What does that mean?
	Oh, my pleasure.
	Well, I mean, you were a little bit, you were denying the Holocaust earlier, right?
	I'm very conspiracy theory.
	I'll deny the moon landing.
	I'll deny just about anything.
	But I didn't deny the Holocaust.
	I said, was it really 6 million?
	Oh, boy.
	I don't even think there are 6 million Jews in Germany.
	Yeah, probably.
	Well, they killed many more than just Germany.
	They denied Jews.
	I'm sorry.
	Paisty, George donated $200.04.
	Chair 1.
	Why do you have to live in California?
	Why not live in a less expensive place even if you have roots in Carlos?
	$200,000 is pushing it.
	Any wise man would tell you to hit the road.
	And that's completely fine.
	I stated earlier my roots are in California because that's where my family lives.
	I grew up here.
	I raise an honestly, anything over six figures, I kind of raise a bit of an eyebrow.
	I really believe in manifestation.
	So when you told me to write something down, I wrote it down.
	Manifestation.
	I mean, how did I get here?
	I don't even know how you guys contacted me.
	I mean, I believe it.
	So how's your life going?
	My life's great.
	Thank you.
	I appreciate you.
	How can manifestation?
	When it needs to be there, it will be there.
	When I ask for it, why would you?
	manifestation at all i feel like i believe in like positive feedback loops Well, dude, there is something that you do.
	Oh, boy.
	Well, you know, I'm very woo-woo.
	What I'm saying is you do have to imagine something before you do it.
	I do believe that you have to see yourself do it before you do it.
	Whether you're an athlete, you have to see yourself dunking the basketball.
	Even on this podcast, I guarantee you envisioned yourself doing the podcast before you did the podcast.
	Well, I'll think about arguments or topics.
	That's manifesting what it's going to happen.
	It is technically manifesting.
	That's exactly what you're doing.
	That's what it is.
	I'm not trying to get you.
	You probably had to do it.
	When you're doing thought experiments, that's exactly what you're manifesting.
	Are you messing with me?
	I'm not even trying to be too woo, but I'm saying when you're like Jupiter rising for you.
	And that's another thing is I'm not necessarily an astrology guy, but the sun, moon, and stars do have some power.
	There is some weird stuff.
	Like, I'm a Libra.
	Like, I don't know.
	There is some weird stuff because this is another thing.
	This is the biggest lie I think they tell us other than the fact that they tell us that we evolved from Pawn Scum.
	I don't believe that we evolved from nothing.
	But, you know, it's the idea that when it comes to our history, that our ancestors are really stupid.
	They were not stupid.
	Whoever built the pyramids were really smart.
	Like, we think that we're the smartest people ever because George Washington had leeches on his body and like killed himself.
	Yeah, he got it a weird.
	But that's not, that was meta.
	With history.
	With history.
	What did I say, Lincoln?
	With history, there was a, I mean, our knowledge base was different.
	But people living 2,000 years ago were just as, like, they had the same intelligence.
	They had to be smarter.
	I would argue that they had to be smarter because they were able to map the stars without a computer.
	They didn't have plastic and all their shit.
	Their air was clean.
	Dietary stuff was a bit weird back then because a lot of people, there's malnutrition and stuff.
	But I bet there was a lot more animals.
	I bet it was actually probably easier to hunt.
	The soil columns are not.
	In some ways, they might have been healthier, but in other ways, there could have been like malnutrition.
	Well, but see, that's the thing is, like, I think, like, you know, there was that Uncanny Valley where like people started dying at like 40 and stuff, like where the life expectancy was shorter.
	But I'm talking about like thousands of years ago.
	If you just think like people were in caves being stupid, no, the fact that they built the pyramids is people historically were absolutely smart.
	What about the aliens?
	Actually, I think to myself, and maybe this is just this idea that as things become more complex, it's harder to, like, for example, inventions.
	If you're living 200 years ago, like the barrier to entry for like inventing something was kind of minimal.
	Like you could be a Tesla, you could be an Edison, you could be X, you know, I keep trying to think of other famous, trying to think of other like famous inventors.
	Yeah, but now like it's so advanced that I think it takes groups of people to make these like additional leaps, I guess you could say.
	But I do wonder like who is the Einstein of today?
	Who is the Tesla of today in terms of well see, I would argue, I would say, and I'm not even trying to be annoying when I say this.
	The only reason why I don't think that's necessarily that accurate because if you go and you look at like Uber Eats drivers in New York or even taxi cab drivers that have been driving in the past like 10 years, they've been driving in the same city over and over for 10 years, but because they've been using GPS, they don't even know where they are.
	And that's the same with us because if we don't actually train our brain, it's like a muscle.
	It just like doesn't get strong.
	It just stays weak.
	So I think that in the olden times, people had to challenge their brains differently.
	And now we don't because of AI, because of whatever things that make our lives easier makes us dumber.
	And that's why deep conversations are important because it expands perspective.
	And what you're so familiar with, when people challenge you, it's actually a good thing.
	I always tell people you shouldn't always have yes men around you.
	That's very dangerous because when you're surrounded by yes, yes, yes, you're never going to see the opposing side.
	Yeah, especially like an echo chamber.
	And like, that's the worst thing.
	And that's, you know, like you were saying how this show does rage bait.
	Yeah, like maybe a little bit, but also it does set up debates where people argue.
	And I watch a lot of debate content.
	I'm sure you guys have.
	And like, you know, usually when you watch a debate, it's kind of confirmation bias.
	Like, you just want to hear somebody argue your side.
	But I'm telling you, like, even if you don't convince a person of your opinion, if you can kind of get somebody to question it, question the subject, that's enough.
	So that's why this.
	Well, I'm saying, yeah, that's what this show I think does is kind of just, it may not convince somebody to be on your side, but it'll make them question their own side.
	It was kind of like Charlie Kirk's like main message.
	It's like when you guys are divided and don't talk, that's when bad things happen.
	But if you guys can come together, talk, find common ground, that's when real change can happen and when people's minds start changing and when they, you know, can see beyond what they're being told.
	Yeah, and it's like these conversations are awkward, sometimes they're cringe.
	You know these awkward, you know, but it is important and I'm actually kind of mad, though that you're saying this is all too nice, and I thought it was.
	I thought this was gonna be like a fight.
	I thought this was like MMA.
	It could still happen, something could still happen.
	We still have about three hours left.
	But No, I did think I was going to come in here and we're going to be like throwing bows the whole time, but everybody's been pretty chill.
	You know what?
	I'll make it spicy for you.
	I'll take a couple of things.
	Oh, why'd you make that face?
	Oh, because he looked at me.
	Because you're the only one that we've had.
	I mean, really, we need to be fighting more.
	I mean, that's what the people want.
	But also, I don't want to just fight for the sake of argument to rage bait.
	I would like to actually talk about something we're passionate about.
	You guys have some beef?
	No, no, no.
	We're trying to show you.
	It goes way back.
	It goes back just a few minutes ago, but it's like four hours ago.
	Do you have some beef?
	Have some beef with him?
	No, no, no.
	Actually, I'll say.
	You've changed my opinion about you.
	When we first came in, I thought you were kind of stubborn-minded, and I see you're very open-minded.
	I am very open-minded.
	That's the one thing I'm really.
	Wait, what did you say?
	What did you say?
	I said, I still don't like him.
	I've had fighting.
	That's right.
	It adds to the content.
	Yeah, if the one girl that gets paid for sex doesn't like me, that's good, right?
	Because at least the other natural ones that value personality and friendship like me.
	So what you value is money for you.
	Did you want to let him say that to you?
	Oh, I mean, I'm not even trying to show the fight, but I'm saying your value is different because you would let a stranger literally blast you for 500 bucks.
	Yeah, I mean, so we do have a different opinion.
	Like, you've had sex with a lot of strangers.
	And midgets and donkeys.
	Okay, now I'm trying to be sarcastic, but I mean, you do Sleep with Strangers for money.
	So you'd value like you would literally sell yourself for a finite cash amount.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I think I even have an opinion about that because, you know, while I respect what you do, I think it's very unfortunate that porn stars, like you said, you're living kind of like a middle-class life.
	Yeah.
	I only work like three, four days a week.
	I would not do OnlyFans if I did not think that it was going to make me wealthy.
	Yeah, I want to make this point too because this is, I guess, my one complaint, really, other than like, you know, you do sex work.
	At least she's making a bunch of money.
	She owns the, you know, she is the one that's in charge of the production.
	Like, she owns the means of production is what we'd all want as a business.
	You know, we want to own the production and the distribution, which you have that ability because now of OnlyFans, which we didn't have 10 years ago.
	And you now have that ability, but you're still choosing to let other guys pay you.
	You say a lot, but not a ton, ton of money.
	And you don't have any control or power of the situation where the content goes.
	So I would think business-wise, she seems like a better businesswoman for doing that.
	I think it's almost just unfortunate because like, yeah, you're doing this job.
	You're being controlled by the men in the industry that are paying you and telling you how much you get to make for that.
	Whereas for me, you know, I, you know, I don't have to do the summary.
	Sorry, we were trying to start beef and saw face.
	Yeah.
	And they were kind of about to start fighting.
	She was about to call her a bigger whore because she wasn't.
	Okay, sorry, continue.
	Yeah, like, well, I was talking about the fact that, you know, being a porn star and making $500 on a scene versus me who gets to live comfy in my apartment.
	I get to take lewd photos and videos and I get to make, I mean, I am, you know, making well above.
	You want to respond to her?
	What?
	What am I?
	What do you want me to?
	You should be like, well, at least I don't have to do romance scams.
	I get to just bang them and leave them.
	I don't have to like pretend to lead guys on.
	I would even say there's more effort I have to put into my own job because I have to market myself and I don't know if porn stars take the easier route of laying there and getting paid the $500 versus I'm making content every single day of my life and I'm putting myself out there and I'm putting out my controversial opinions.
	Porn stars don't have to have controversial opinions, but I have to have a personality to make people want to give me money and I get a bigger reward than you do.
	You're right.
	I have no personality and I get paid $500 to fuck 10 midgets.
	It is not fun.
	We're just going to fight no shit.
	What in the fuck you are doing?
	Hold on.
	Your guys' like perspective is nuts.
	You said she's not putting herself at any time.
	Nicely in there for men.
	No, I think that she's putting herself at a higher result with less out, with less reward.
	Okay, well, maybe we have the wrong perspective of you.
	Can you describe yourself so we can have a better understanding of how you would view yourself?
	So we can know.
	Or what your job is.
	Yeah.
	Because I'm curious.
	So there are many different things that happen in the adult industry, right?
	As well as sex education, okay?
	So a majority of the work that I have done has been like workshops for married couples, you know.
	And some of them, like when I was at Kink in San Francisco working with Madison Young, I was a live demonstration model.
	So it's not always like, oh, I'm just getting railed by Tom.
	I'm sorry, I'm thoroughly forward by $200.04.
	Care to Brian was doing what he does best in every podcast he hosts, exposing the naivety and retardedness of certain feminist female panelists.
	It didn't make for a good conversation the last time, though.
	I don't think you clipped anything from that podcast and posted it.
	No, no.
	I didn't see the podcast clipped at all that episode.
	It went straight to someone who, like, I don't know, had actual arguments on the podcast.
	But I don't think you clipped anything from any of the podcasts.
	We clipped from almost all the episodes.
	I didn't see it anywhere, and I follow you in a few places.
	Oh, no.
	Okay, well, that's fine.
	I'm not saying me.
	I'm just saying any of the podcasts.
	Let's dive into some of this more interesting stuff, I guess.
	Let's see.
	I'm trying to help it out.
	Hold on.
	I am.
	Really quick.
	We'll come back to the bear.
	Let's see.
	18, starting with you, Colette.
	Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.
	Who, bro, Jenna?
	Yeah, I didn't understand the assignment.
	Sorry, I scribbled on everything.
	No, it's just we circled.
	You wrote it.
	I only circled one thing.
	Oh, and everything else was a no then?
	Yeah.
	Okay, I guess whatever.
	All right.
	Why is that Colette?
	Okay, technically, women have equal rights under the law, but there's still so much discrimination against women.
	Women are paid less on the dollar than men.
	Okay.
	They're going to have more rights because you guys don't have to be drafted.
	Okay.
	True.
	True.
	I'm just going to fix yourself.
	Okay.
	I don't.
	Well, what are some of the other things, though?
	So women are still discriminated against.
	There's still sexism in the workplace.
	And I don't think women have the same power in the workplace that men do.
	Still.
	Women don't have the same power.
	I could disagree.
	Yeah, I disagree wholeheartedly.
	I mean, OnlyFans, we were talking about the wage discrepancy.
	They're making a lot more in that industry.
	That's one industry.
	I know, but it's a pretty big one now.
	It's hard out here for, are you going to start an OnlyFans?
	I might have to.
	Yeah.
	I mean, you know, I mean, maybe I'm just in the wrong industry.
	In my lineup, not even just like OnlyFans where women are like, you know, the top earners in that industry.
	Like the military and stuff, women get offered like promotions in rank up way faster than men do.
	And I work with like half ex-military.
	Affirmative action.
	Yeah.
	I mean, look at Kamala Harris.
	Like Joe Biden literally said, I'm going to pick a woman.
	So every man was not even eligible for the vice presidency.
	So that woman had more rights than any man.
	Also, Trump does a bit of that too.
	Not that I'm a crazy person.
	Everybody does it.
	This is one thing.
	Brian, everybody wants to say conservatives are racist.
	That's not true.
	If you're a black person and you're a conservative, trust me, conservatives want to help you out more than anything, especially with women.
	Like people say misogyny and conservatism.
	If you're like an outspoken conservative woman, trust me, the conservative movement will be.
	Well, Trump Trump hires a lot of women.
	He does that on purpose because people, he wants to have women around him.
	He wants to be equal.
	And Trump wants to be liked by the left.
	People think it's like he wants to be hated because he shares these mean memes.
	No, he wants to be liked, just like everybody wants to be liked.
	I think he also does Trump wants to look at women.
	Is there any guy?
	Anything else?
	I think it's hard if you're not a woman and you haven't been on the planet for a while to see all the ways that women are still discriminated against.
	And I'm not saying there is an opportunity and there aren't like Kamala Harris's, but I don't think that women really have the equal opportunity that the facts might suggest they do.
	So you're saying because there's more male CEOs, there's more male executives, men hold certain higher positions of power, whether it's government or in corporations.
	Is that yeah, I don't think that's necessarily men's fault, but I think it's a reflection of where society has been.
	And I think there still needs to be some changes to equalize things.
	But I'm not in favor of hire a woman just because she's a woman.
	Yeah, but I don't actually think that because there's more male CEOs, that this is because of some sort of ingrained institutional racism in the corporations.
	I actually, well, I think it's very nuanced and varied.
	There's a couple things here.
	I'll wait to give my dating perspective because it's tied into dating a little bit.
	So there's this concept called the greater variability.
	Hold on, I don't want to butcher it.
	Greater male variability hypothesis or theory.
	Is it a theory or hypothesis?
	Well, in any case, I'm not familiar with that.
	Men and women have, they're about equivalent in terms of average intelligence if you average it in total.
	However, what you'll see, Nick, could you Google this, please?
	So it might even be in the discord, just so I can show you just to give, hold on, let me just see if I just even have it in the infographics.
	Do I have just Wikipedia greater male variability hypothesis?
	So men and women are of equivalent average IQ.
	However, here's where there's a bit of a difference.
	When it comes to greater male variability, there's way more genius IQ men than there are gene, like high, high, high IQ men.
	But, but hold on, don't, don't, there's also way more really, really, really stupid men.
	So there's more women in the middle.
	There's more women who have like an average IQ than there are men who have an average IQ.
	So you have really, really stupid men, but also really, really smart men.
	Nick, do you have it?
	Well, you know, you know this.
	So click on the image really quick, Nick.
	I have it.
	So you're going to have to make us smaller a little bit.
	So the blue is women and the green is men.
	So this means essentially that you have more women in the middle who have like an average IQ or whatever.
	And then you have a bunch of men who are really fucking stupid and dumb as fuck.
	But then you also have another proportion of men who are just really, really highly intelligent.
	To be clear, that's not to say that there aren't women who are just as intelligent.
	It's just that there's more men who fall into that high, high, high IQ intelligence.
	And IQ is only one form of intelligence, though.
	There's many different emotional intelligence.
	I don't know what the chart would look like about that, but I guarantee women are winning that.
	Well, I think there's two parts of our brain.
	Well, I want to just make this one point though.
	This is why this is true because I talk a lot about transgenders and women's sports, and this is one that people don't talk about.
	There's actually a transgender chess player, a guy that identifies as a woman that was dominating chess and chess made rules.
	This is serious.
	Chess made rules outlawing transgenders because women didn't want to compete against men because men are better chess players than women.
	And that's because their IQ is higher on average.
	And that's why women want to keep men out of their chess league.
	So even if there are more male CEOs because men have higher IQs, let's just say that's the reason or that's a primary reason.
	Not all men still.
	Okay, I'm just, I'm okay.
	I'm not even saying you're saying that.
	I'm just giving into that argument.
	I still feel based on my own experience in life and what I've seen with other people that there's still a lot of discrimination against women.
	Even the way women are treated for, I mean, just look at even for example, to me, this is a form of what I'm talking about in this room.
	You know, I pushed back on being submissive or described the kind of relationship I want, and you guys called me masculine and aggressive.
	That's true.
	That's true.
	He did say that.
	Okay, he did say that.
	I didn't say that.
	I didn't say that.
	I didn't say that, but I was kind of more trying to describe your personality because you're very outspoken.
	But that's my point.
	Hold on.
	He said you were type A. You know, he said that he then said the exact words masculine and aggressive.
	I'm not picking it up.
	He did.
	Yeah.
	I can't.
	He said type A, and I asked him to elaborate on what he meant by type A.
	And then you said more masculine and aggressive.
	Not assertive.
	You said aggressive.
	So this is one of the things I mean is that if a woman has an opinion or she pushes back or she has a strong personality, that it's type A, masculine, aggressive.
	And none of these things are compliments, by the way, when they come from men.
	And when a woman acts like that, she's seen as a bitch.
	I know, but there's a lot of women that act like that and are bitches.
	Okay, but I'm not a bitch.
	And there are a lot of women who aren't.
	And I know you didn't, but there are a lot of women who aren't bitches who are smart and capable.
	But if they try to assert themselves, they're seen in these negative lights and they're kept down.
	That's what I have observed.
	You are right.
	Alex Stein.
	Let the record reflect.
	I literally impressed you.
	And he also told me I'm only confident because I'm dead.
	I'm not sure if I can do it.
	I literally said.
	I'm not even trying to say that.
	It's an exact shit.
	When you have less time on the clock, you're more urgent.
	It's like in a football.
	But then the last thing I'm trying to do is get laid.
	I don't even hold.
	The whole thing is called the Hail Mary.
	It's because you don't have any time left.
	You got to do a long pass.
	What you're missing as a woman at my age doesn't care about that anymore.
	Oh, you got a bunch of Hail Marys there's her name score on.
	It's different.
	Not a lot of time left on the clock, so you got to take, you know, bigger chances and more risks.
	We have a chat from Pasty George.
	Pasty George.
	Speaking of, speaking of, one moment here while it gets going.
	Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, please.
	Like the video for Alex Stein.
	Yeah, hit that like button, guys.
	It helps us in the algorithm.
	Guys, we're going to do how about this?
	Let me see.
	What are the likes at?
	hold on if we get the likes to why isn't it showing me the likes Hello?
	Rude?
	Here, I have to just pull it up in another tab.
	We will have Alex back for round two.
	If we get the likes to 3,000.
	Get the likes to 3,000.
	There's like 5,000 watching.
	We're only at 2.2K.
	Hit the like button.
	I will bring Alex Stein, Pimp on a Blimp, 99, back on the show.
	Full panel of big booty, not even one white woman, all big booty Latinas.
	And I'm going to do brown face.
	I'm going to be in brown face now.
	I'm kidding.
	That's your joke.
	I'm not doing that.
	There's enough brown in that room already.
	And no aggressive, masculine old women.
	I'll wear a sombrero.
	And you know, no Hispanic would ever get mad at you for wearing a sombrero.
	And I would argue, and this is to the one black woman.
	I know you were kind of saying earlier, like, oh, it depends on how they wear dreads, but I feel like you just kind of gave a politically correct answer.
	Like, is it racist for a white woman to wear dreads?
	Because I know you gave that long answer.
	Like, again, I think it just depends on her intention and just like, you know, the message behind it.
	If you're racist, you shouldn't be wearing any type of hairstyle that does not belong to a Caucasian blood.
	Which is fine.
	I would argue, because I consider myself, I am, I'm prime time 99.
	Obviously, I'm a wigger.
	You know, I'm, you know, my god.
	And so I feel like that means I like black people more because, like, I try to be black.
	I am ULA black.
	Like, I yes, I talk black.
	I don't pay child support.
	I, you know, I have, you know.
	Kids, you don't know me.
	That's what I'm saying.
	No, that's obviously those are jokes, but my point is, on a serious note, I like black culture.
	I like black people.
	I love Kanye West.
	So, you know, like, I can't be racist because I love black people.
	So, well, if you love black people, then you're not racist.
	But if you say racist or do racist things to just like a specific community, then you're doing racial, you may have racial behavior or racial statements.
	Well, no, but the example I'm talking about is like a wigger, like culturally appropriating.
	Is that bad?
	Like, is it bad if a white guy wears like you know, a do-rag?
	I don't think that is.
	I think that's kind of okay.
	I will say this: white folks can do whatever they want.
	At the end of the day, they'll never be black.
	That's true.
	So, let me, I'm going to say this.
	I know, like, you could know every Eminem song.
	You can know every Drake song.
	You will never be black.
	And that's okay.
	I have white friends.
	I have white ex-boyfriends.
	I love everybody.
	I don't care what you are.
	You just need to be comfortable and confident in who you are.
	You need to, it needs to come from a genuine, passionate standpoint.
	If you love soul food and you genuinely love soul food, there's nothing wrong with that.
	I don't think, you know.
	Can somebody AI Alex Stein with cornrows?
	Yeah.
	Oh, my God.
	In the research tab, maybe on Discord, anybody in the Discord, like Michael Scott, give Alex Stein some white boy cornrows.
	Let's see how it looks.
	Hit that like button.
	Hit the like button.
	We need a big Latina special.
	We just need 800 likes and we're going to do a bigger.
	I want to bring in four ice agents, all guys.
	But if you're a nine, you're fine.
	But if you're a six, you better hit the bricks.
	Oh, shit.
	So when you do the self-rating, you better not say a six or else you're getting deported.
	If one of you Latinas are watching this right now.
	No, I love it.
	We have Pasty George coming in.
	Message from the government of Canada.
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	I think Alex is referring to the transformation of thought into action.
	Manifestation is wishing or believing that something will appear before you out of nothing, such as wealth, fame, or a person.
	I don't know.
	Maybe you think different.
	I don't know if manifestation is that.
	Like you just wish for something, but I think manifest, you have to envision yourself doing it.
	And then you're just like cash on it.
	Yes.
	I do have a game.
	That's the cash.
	George donated $200.04.
	Jebus Sage Cripes.
	Chair 3 is the exact opposite of Rachel Wilson.
	Alex Stein, Pimp on a Blimp 99.
	I'm manifesting that.
	Do you have any cash in the wallet?
	I don't think so.
	I am manifesting.
	In fact, I am manifesting that every single woman here at this table gives me all their cash.
	I don't carry cash.
	I just have cards.
	I'm sorry.
	Give me your Starbucks gift card away.
	Oh, I don't have that.
	I haven't had cash and like 10 credit cards.
	I have a red lobster gift card.
	Give me your shit.
	This is a fucking shakedown.
	That's how manifestation.
	That's how manifesting works.
	That's intimidation.
	Manifestation is also, and I would argue, like, give me your money.
	Well, it's a stick up.
	Well, Brian, and I would argue, give me.
	You manifested this, like, and I know you were making content before you started the podcast, but the first time you ever podcasted, you kind of had to manifest that.
	You didn't know how to podcast.
	You just podcasted.
	Well, I guess we have to define the terms.
	When I think of manifesting, it's this idea of if you just think enough, if you, in your brain, you're like, you think it, you envision the, I don't know.
	The big booty Latina.
	Yeah, see, I don't think it works like that.
	I think in order for something to be successful, you'd have to have some preconceived thought of it.
	There's self-work you have to do.
	Because there are people on websites that be like, if you write down a thousand times, like, you know, something, if I write down, there's like people that say this on these manica assignments or whatever.
	Like, if you write it down a certain amount of times, it'll come true.
	I don't necessarily believe that if you just write it down, it'll get a magic wish, but I do believe that you have to envision your goal before you achieve it.
	And you can't achieve your goal unless you have a clear vision of it.
	But then wouldn't just, if that's the definition, you just think about it or envision it.
	Isn't that just like almost any action is, well, not any action.
	But it's the most like actual intentional actions, like building a business.
	Like that's just not, that's not done absent thought in your mind.
	Exactly.
	So like every single, so then technically everything is.
	Accomplishment.
	Everything is accomplished.
	Technically everything would be a manifestation.
	But no, it is.
	But there's a reason.
	I'm thirsty.
	I am manifesting my cup in my head and drinking.
	But the intention of your hair.
	I'm doing the movement to bring it to your energy.
	And you got water that you're doing.
	You're all after hungover.
	And I'm telling you, there's actually been stories where people are on the border that were dying coyotes.
	Rain dance.
	No, right there.
	I believe in that shit.
	There's been times where people in the desert, like having a drug coyote mule, and they're a kid and they go off track and they're about to dive dehydration and they're just thinking about water, thinking about water, and they find a random jug of water in like the desert of Mexico in America.
	Isn't that like survivorship bias though?
	Like what about all the people that just well, this sounds crazy too, but another people don't want to think about it like this.
	But Brian, every single thing that you've gotten in your life has you've gotten in collaboration with the universe.
	And if you actually want something in this world, you have to work with the universe, not against it.
	So like everything, every single thing that you've gotten has been you working hand in hand with the universe.
	Let me ask you this.
	Pimp on the blimp.
	Alex, 9-9.
	Fight, fight, fight.
	No, we're not fighting.
	No, no, no.
	You know, before every show, I think to myself, all the single women, you know what?
	Sometimes I'm even like getting, I'm a little confident.
	I'm like, even the women who got boyfriends, I'm thinking, I'm manifesting a post-show orgy.
	What?
	Involving me.
	And the rest of the female panelists.
	What?
	I've done nearly 300 shows, Alex, and I've yet to manifest the post-show orgy.
	What am I doing, Brock?
	I already did.
	I'm already one of those guys.
	Brian, I don't know you.
	I know, bro.
	I just want to anger this real quick.
	If Brian, I guarantee you'd probably bang some chicks from this show, right?
	I mean, you don't have to agree to anything.
	I'm a virgin.
	I'm just saying, I bet you probably, maybe you haven't had a 10-person orgy, but you probably have.
	Yeah, but why can't I manifest the budget?
	You probably could.
	You probably could.
	I hear you.
	You really want to have an orgy on the show one day?
	I bet you it could happen.
	I know that sounds crazy.
	Watch it happens next week.
	It's like, you know what?
	I'm going to sit here for seven hours and like argue with girls and be kind of abrasive and whatever.
	And then afterwards, they're just like, wow, Brian, I had a great time.
	Let me just have an orgy with you.
	Well, it's never going to happen.
	I don't know.
	They see you have a big following and they'll just bang.
	Or some people want it for money, she'll do it for $500 or $5,000.
	So we just get a couple more of her and then, you know, $2,000.
	We have a whole party.
	Brian, one person who has a podcast who did manifest exactly what you're asking for is Brian22.
	Him and his wife, Leah Plug.
	Adam 22.
	Sorry.
	Adam 22 and Leah the Plug have a podcast where they bring on porn stars and they fuck them every single time.
	That's the requirement of being on the podcast.
	You could have made that if that's what you were looking for.
	That's all I'm really getting at.
	You didn't manifest it.
	What do you mean?
	You didn't manifest the porn.
	You didn't manifest the after-podcast sex.
	What?
	That doesn't make I'm trust me.
	I'm manifesting.
	I'm like, I want all these women, you know, I'll give a pass to the married women here.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I want all these women, whatever, to just have an orgy with me after the show.
	So what's funny is you don't really want that.
	You don't want, see, and that's the other thing: you actually have to believe your bed upstairs for her.
	You really wanted that to believe that you wanted this to be a successful show and you manifested that.
	To be fair, I'm more of a one-on-one thing.
	There you go.
	I'm not a bad person.
	See?
	You don't even want it.
	See, I'm just saying.
	I mean, her rage baiting us.
	Talk about something.
	If you wanted it.
	I bet if you thought about it enough, Brian, you got it in life.
	Look, I'm telling you, okay, fine.
	I prefer to disappoint only one woman at the time.
	But she's just spit out everyone, buddy.
	I'm just saying, I'm just saying, you know, there's there, I manifest, I manifest, okay?
	And it doesn't work.
	But if you really want that, you can have that orgy because it works psychologically.
	The reason it works isn't because you can just dream of something and sit on your ass all day and it's going to come true.
	But psychologically, whatever you think about and focus on, you will end up taking action to bring to fruition.
	And you attract it like an agonist.
	Do you really want the orgy?
	No, no, fuck the orgy.
	Right?
	Because that's not what you really want.
	Because that's how you realize.
	Let's see here.
	We got some.
	I will proposition some of the single women at the table.
	Well, how about this?
	How about this, Brian?
	I don't know.
	What kind of car do you drive?
	Just for privacy, I would guess.
	Okay, you won't say that, but okay, that car.
	Okay, and I have a couple cars.
	One of them is a Toilet.
	It's a great car.
	No, no, no.
	I got a Tahoe truck and I have a 4Runner.
	But before you got that nice car, I'm guessing it's a nicer car.
	Nope.
	You didn't manifest it at all.
	You didn't think about your car before you got it?
	I'm driving the same car that I've had since 2020.
	Oh, you take a new car.
	Okay.
	Oh, I forgot that.
	I might buy a new car soon, though.
	It's nice.
	But you kind of manifest that new car.
	It's because you're manifesting.
	Every good thing that happens to you isn't necessarily manifested.
	I want to get back to you.
	Good things happen to you out of your control.
	But things that you control, like if you can't see it, you can't achieve it.
	Yeah, I mean, visualization is extremely powerful.
	And it's not woo-woo.
	It's the brain's power.
	All right.
	So Tiger Williams.
	I'm ready to talk about it.
	I'm going to manifest.
	I'm going to manifest.
	After the show, I wish to have carnal knowledge with you and well, everybody's got fucking boyfriends and girlfriends.
	It's like manifestation is dead.
	With you.
	No, sorry.
	No, no.
	Oh, man.
	That's actually.
	Come on.
	And you have to dump your boyfriend and then we can live happily ever after.
	Can I manifest?
	Can I manifest against her free?
	See, manifestation defeats free will.
	Or well, it's in contravention of free will.
	If that's how you feel about manifestation, and that's why you don't manifest, but real people who manifest manifestation.
	It's in contravention of free will, because if I you're saying, if I had enough belief that I could manifest sleeping with who's like the hottest girl right now I don't know who's a hot chick.
	No, Sweeney.
	Do you think, Sidney Sweeney, could I have manifested sleeping with Megan Fox back when we were both younger?
	All I mean maybe.
	Yeah, you can't change fast.
	Manifestation isn't about that.
	That would have an impact on somebody else's free will.
	But if that was really what you wanted and you were obsessed with it, you would probably take action to make it happen.
	A good relationship with a celebrity.
	But if you're like crazy, you're obsessed with Taylor Swift, you could manifest a thing where you're so obsessed with them, then you go to their house, and now you got to go to court with them every day for a year.
	I know that sounds like a training order, but it's a restraining order.
	So you manifested a relationship with this person.
	Like, if you thought, if you think about it so much, I know that you can't make it happen.
	You really can't.
	I mean, it's not going to all necessarily come true exactly as you envision, but I've made a lot of things happen that I was told were impossible by really, really focusing on them, visualizing them, writing them, and then taking action to support them.
	It might take you more than one night.
	She does like white people.
	I prefer little spoon, though.
	I don't know if that's a deal.
	Are you going to big spoon me after this?
	I'm going to draw a picture of a half Filipino, half black.
	Love is in the air.
	A beautiful black Filipino woman.
	I'm just drawing people.
	I feel like there's definitely been an orgy on this table at some point.
	On a zero family of AST.
	This is not comfortable.
	This is not a comfortable orgy spot.
	We have some chats coming.
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	Men who abnegate their authority to women allow delusional feminists to destroy the family unit.
	It's true.
	Very so true.
	Very spot on, Red Guy.
	Yeah, you know.
	You know?
	Yeah.
	He's so spot on.
	That guy, that's a smart man.
	Is that also another little thing?
	The 2022.
	Yeah, it's Adzils donated $200.
	Tatu's third appearance in 2025.
	Factors in chat can't remember her name says it all.
	This is your third?
	Plug your crap elsewhere instead of here.
	You're not smooth, but you're a criminal.
	Hashtag free Felicity. Hashtag free Nick.
	Wait, can we keep it?
	Wait, where's the Michael Jackson fucking hashtag Adzils?
	What the fuck?
	Free MJ.
	Whether you blah fest with a 30.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Look, I'm just saying, I've been manifest.
	I've manifested.
	I've attempted to manifest a lot of pussy come my way.
	I think that's my favorite.
	And it has not come.
	Look, I've had success, but I'm like, if it was up to me, every single woman in the world, well, maybe not every single woman.
	Most women in the world would want to fuck.
	I think you just need to buy an online course and it will really help you.
	$5,000 on an online course and you will.
	I could teach you how to manifest in an hour for free.
	Yeah.
	And then you haven't probably actually manifested.
	You might want you might want it, but I don't know if you've done the practice of manifesting.
	I've been trying to manifest.
	I've manifested.
	I haven't manifested.
	I've tried to manifest.
	Who's that girl I have a crush on?
	The Megan Fox.
	Kristen Kruick.
	Well, young Kristen Kruik.
	But she's still a babe.
	She's in her 40s.
	Babe status still.
	You know.
	You like older women.
	I like.
	Betty White.
	Look.
	Betty White's dead.
	Oh.
	What?
	Where's Kristen Kruwick sliding into my DM?
	I don't know who that is.
	I'll find her for you.
	I'll do my Brian.
	I will find you.
	Look, she's in her 40s, but she's still a babe.
	She's a babe.
	Well, you don't just manifest for material things, but I would also argue sex is not a thing.
	It is an achievement, but it's not like a thing.
	It's something you have to cuddle.
	You have to like manifest.
	Manifesting in a relationship with somebody, I think, is probably possible if you're obsessed with that person.
	But I think you're losing the point, Brian.
	It's more like, you know, manifesting is like something that you can't achieve.
	Other than that, personal goals.
	That's how I got my book deal.
	I mean, I manifested that everything.
	You know what?
	Here's what I don't like about manifestation.
	I think.
	It's gay.
	Yes.
	I think everything that I've achieved, I refuse to buy into this idea that it came to me through the ether.
	It literally came from the universe.
	No, I know what you're saying.
	No, no, no, no.
	Are you an atheist?
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	Wait, wait to have that combo.
	Okay.
	Like, you say you manifested your book deal.
	No.
	I think probably through your own specific right action, you made that shit happen.
	I agree.
	You're discounting the discounting?
	The efforts that you made to make that happen and all the hard work you did.
	Everything good that has come to me in my life is because of me.
	My hard work, not because I thought about it and the universe bestowed it upon me.
	Fuck that shit.
	I'm a hard worker.
	I deserve.
	I deserve that.
	Lots of pussy.
	Well, you had to work hard to manifest it too.
	Like, this is the example, and I really should post this clip, but it's years old now.
	Before I called AOC my favorite big booty Latina, I spoke of this.
	This is a true story.
	That same week, I spoke at the Dallas Young Republicans Club, and in my speech, I talked about how I was about to go to DC and I was going to run into AOC.
	I said it at that thing.
	And I didn't know who she was.
	I didn't mean it because I was like, I said this, Brian.
	I know you're not going to believe it.
	But I had to put in the effort.
	I had to go there.
	I had to go stand on the Capitol steps for two hours and look like an idiot, you know, and just sit there.
	But I'm telling you, I said it out loud in front of a group of people, and it literally happened less than a week.
	And that was like one of the biggest things.
	So I do think you can say something and think about it, and the likelihood of it happening increases.
	You still have to work for it.
	Yeah, I like the point you made because I did work my ass off to get that book deal.
	Don't discount the hard work by talking about this manifest bullshit.
	I think the manifestation is not that difficult.
	But I think the manifesting helped me feel excited to do the work.
	You know what I mean?
	Like I kept manifesting it and that's what made me write every day and pitch to age.
	Don't discount the actual actions and effort and work that you did.
	She's not.
	She's definitely not.
	But that's my issue with manifestation.
	Somebody wants to tell me, well, Brian, you sent out positive vibes to the universe and the universe handed it.
	They gave it to you because you manifested properly.
	No, I worked hard.
	I worked hard.
	I hustled.
	I struggled.
	I dealt with bullshit.
	That's what got me.
	And that not just me.
	Every time I visit your bunker, I'm going to show you never got lucky.
	What do you mean got lucky?
	You've never, in your time in doing this content creation, you've never gotten lucky.
	Every single bit of success you've had is from hard work.
	The girl with the red hair really helped put you on the chart.
	I really feel like I know she did.
	Yes, she did.
	That's one of your most viral clips.
	Don't even lie.
	Nala, that's ridiculous.
	You don't think so?
	This podcast would be in the exact same position.
	You'd be fine without that.
	Nala.
	Came on the show.
	I'm trying to think of other things.
	Sure, did you tell me along the way you don't think that you ever got lucky?
	I've never seen that.
	I think lucky.
	There had to be time where you had a guest, like Charlie Kirk or something.
	It had to be luck or something.
	You know what I mean?
	I don't know if that would even be luck.
	But look, I think there can be moments captured or certain guests that, but I don't know if that'd be, I don't know if that's, yeah, sure.
	I've been lucky.
	Sure.
	I've had luck.
	I've had luck.
	And that's what it takes.
	It takes a little bit of time.
	Maybe it's like 2% luck, 1% luck, and the rest is creating an environment for those moments to...
	But a cake without baking?
	Yeah, but like a cake without a few tablespoons of baking soda doesn't rise.
	Like a little bit of something doesn't make the finished product work.
	You need sometimes.
	It's right place, right time.
	But Brian, to your point, I think if you really want something and you want to work so hard, then let's even just describe it as focus, putting all your energy on that thing and working your ass off.
	That's what makes it happen.
	Some people call that manifesto.
	You built the scenario you have now, and it brings on people that help you grow your brand.
	If you were just sitting here by yourself, you wouldn't get the recognition you do by building a community where you can have people on and have these kind of discussions like that.
	And you put that into existence, you thought about it, you worked hard to make this happen.
	And look at it now.
	You've done a great job of manifesting your reality.
	Thank you.
	And I'm sorry that there's not more orgies.
	He doesn't really want that.
	If he wanted that, he could have.
	You're right.
	If he wanted that, it would be.
	I've offered myself.
	He doesn't want me.
	So he doesn't really want orgies because he'd let me be a part of that because he does.
	Okay, getting back to the original thing, though, we were talking about women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.
	Are you the only one that does anybody here else agree with her?
	I do.
	Oh, women don't have equal rights.
	Yeah, but I mean, do you?
	I wanted to finish.
	I was talking about, we were talking about wage gap, men occupying higher positions of power.
	I brought up the greater male variability hypothesis.
	The other one that I wanted to relate to as it relates to dating is women's own dating preferences and standards creates a mating pressure that is one directional that applies to men that doesn't apply in the reverse.
	You guys all want a guy who makes six figures, you want a guy to pay for first dates, you want a protector, provider, et cetera.
	So I believe because of this mating pressure that exists on men that never really exists in the opposite direction.
	So women, when it comes to making money, women have a survival basis for wanting to earn money.
	Or, you know, you want to have recreation, you want to have leisure, you want to have travel, whatever.
	Men have that too.
	But on top of all those things, survival, you know, you need rent paid, you need to have food, health care, whatever.
	Men and women have, I would just say, equal survival motivation for making money.
	Men have an additional motivation that I don't think women have when it comes to making money and being successful and having status.
	Women want men to pay for dates, they want men to be providers, et cetera.
	Men really don't want that in reverse.
	If the bottleneck, I guess, for lack of a better word, for men getting really anything, any sort of level of anything from a woman, whether it's a date, whether it's even if they just want casual sex, they want casual sex, they want a date, they want a long-term relationship, they want a wife, they want a girlfriend, they want children one day.
	For men, there is a component of I need to be financially in a good spot, I need to be financially or economically attractive, as it's sometimes called.
	Women don't have this pressure on them.
	They don't, from a romantic perspective.
	That is true.
	Like, you guys don't have that pressure.
	And so this creates an asymmetry in terms of motivation for men because, and by the way, I think men are, I think men are more, they're definitely at least more sex motivated.
	Men have a higher sex drive.
	Men are more sex motivated.
	I don't know if there's a difference in terms of like romance.
	When I say romance, I just mean like more serious long-term dating motivation.
	It's probably comparable because men actually, you can make an argument men want it more.
	Because I saw this study, and I don't know if we pulled it up.
	Nick, in the Discord, I think it's in infographics.
	It's one sec, guys.
	Wait, shit, did I post it?
	Dang, maybe I didn't.
	That men wanted Gen Z men and Gen Z women.
	So at the top of the priority, well, okay, hold on.
	Let me be fair.
	It was comparing men who voted for okay, so it's not men who voted for Trump versus women who voted for Kamala.
	Men who voted, Gen Z men who voted for Trump, their primary definition of what success means, have children, get married.
	That's at the top.
	It's above have a high-paying job, be successful financially.
	For Gen Z women who voted for Kamala, having a job, making good money, that's at the top for them.
	And having children and getting married is at the very bottom for Gen Z women who voted for Kamala.
	And so I might actually be, I think maybe in some ways, men are more even romantically motivated.
	Men might even want the more long-term serious family than women do.
	Even then.
	But so for men to get, whether it's casual sex, long-term relationship, wife, especially for the long-term for the wife, they need to be economically, financially attractive to women.
	Men really don't care from an attraction perspective.
	There could be an economic reality like most households, you need two bread or not two bread, you need two income, two incomes to be able to live, whatever, whatever.
	But if they, there does come a point once a guy makes enough money, doesn't care.
	Like he doesn't care about a woman's income.
	Doesn't matter.
	I'm a high earner.
	I'll date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A.
	Don't give a fuck.
	Doesn't matter whatsoever.
	It'd be nice if she's not in like debt or something.
	I'd probably still date a girl who even has debt.
	Don't care.
	Whereas women, it's a little different.
	It's a little different.
	So I would argue that the reason, the reason that men occupy this, that they're the CEO, that they're in the C-suite, that they're executives, that they make more money.
	And there's a lot of fact.
	I don't believe the wage gap exists if you control for it.
	But even if it did exist, even if this wage gap exists, oh, it's unfair.
	There's 80% of CEOs are men.
	It's women's own dating preferences and women's demand for providers and for men to pay on dates.
	That creates enough of a social cultural pressure, a mating pressure on men that doesn't exist in you.
	And that's men are more motivated to succeed.
	Y'all can get dick without, you don't need money.
	You can get dicked.
	That's true.
	I need to be at least.
	I can't be.
	If we could fuck women in cardboard boxes, trust me, we would.
	But I can't fuck a girl in a cardboard box.
	See, some of y'all.
	What is the question?
	Well, I mean, there are like broke.
	Well, there are broke guys that can still get laid, but generally, though, you do need to be successful males.
	I agree with that.
	To be fair, yeah, of course.
	Like, women deal with broke men all the time also.
	But it's not favorable.
	A guy with debt, a guy going on a first date and saying, I got $25,000 in credit card dad is going to be a non-starter.
	Pull it up to this.
	Yes.
	Where did you find it, by the way?
	Okay.
	Oh, I posted on Twitter.
	And this is for Gen Z. Gen Z, men who voted for Trump, having children, 34%, being married, 29% at number 4, financial independence.
	Women who vote for Harris, fulfilling job career, 51%.
	It's the very top.
	And then if you look at the bottom there, having children is at the very bottom.
	Being married at the very bottom, 6%.
	Massive difference there.
	I mean, probably would be different if we were comparing conservative men to conservative women.
	Definitely.
	Harris voters also want free abortions for everybody.
	Word.
	Word.
	Let's see here.
	But I don't know.
	That's my perspective on.
	Well, I don't.
	I almost wonder if it's sexism from women.
	Oh my gosh.
	Okay, this is a very interesting theory.
	I mean, it could be part of it.
	I don't disagree with you that men have to be successful and have an unfair pressure that has been around forever.
	But you have to also keep in mind women weren't even allowed to really enter the workplace a couple of decades ago.
	I mean, when I was in the city, you didn't get credit cards to their 80s.
	No, no, no.
	Yes, a couple decades ago.
	You didn't get credit cards to their early 80s.
	I could not get the year I was born.
	I could not have signed a mortgage without my husband or daddy signing it like it should still be like that.
	I hope you don't get married at like one year old.
	No, but I mean, that's the point.
	That if I was alive at that time, so there definitely have been things that have changed, but I think there's a backlag.
	I don't think we're going to see the same thing of rates of CEOs 20 and 30 years from now, in part because of those Gen Z stats for Kamala Harris.
	Women are not wanting to get married anymore.
	Women are not wanting to have children.
	Women are not wanting to date men.
	But women have, hold on, women have been in the workforce for a very long time.
	And there were specific banks who had sexist practices.
	This is true.
	However, I think part of it, I think we're ignoring some components of it.
	Like, for example, historically, men were husbands were responsible for the wife's debts.
	Right.
	So there was some degree of, I think we have to look at it with some deeper analysis here where, yes, men had like certain additional privileges or whatever and women didn't.
	But this was because of the way the laws were.
	But women have worked throughout all of human history.
	But women were not, it was not a predominantly typical thing.
	Even in the 80s, I knew very few moms that were working that I grew up with.
	I mean, this is not.
	It's really new.
	My grandmother is the second woman to graduate from SMU law school.
	And she's not, I mean, she's passed away now.
	So it wasn't that long ago women couldn't go to law school.
	My mom went to Fordham and she was the first year that women were allowed to go to the school.
	Within the last 50 years, women could go to law school.
	Well, speaking of college, though, you bring up college.
	So starting in the 1980s, I think it was 1979, 1980, ever since that year, women have been going to college and graduating from college at higher rates than men.
	1980s.
	So that's when there was more women going to college, more women graduating from college, getting diplomas.
	That's 45, 46 years ago.
	So women who graduated at that point, when there were more women who started going to college, it started in the 1980s.
	They're retired.
	If you graduated college in 1980, you're 65, 66, you're retirement age.
	You may be.
	So you've had, there's been an entire generation of women who have had that experience of, yeah, going to college.
	The majority of people are aware of that.
	My mom's a lawyer.
	And they're retired now.
	So more, by the way, more women do go to college.
	I think the split is 60-40.
	60% of women, 40% of men.
	It varies from institution to institution, but overall.
	But there's attitudes too.
	Like a couple decades ago, the only jobs it was really acceptable for women who went to college to have were being teachers or nurses.
	Yes, this is true.
	It is true.
	It is true.
	It was not acceptable for women to go into the boardroom and take over.
	This is still a relatively new phenomenon.
	I don't think it's going to look like sexism in the 60s and 70s.
	Yeah, sure.
	But there's still sexism now.
	I don't really think there's a boys' club anymore.
	I think it depends on what it is.
	I think it's like reverse sexism when you see people like Dylan Mulvaney and that Bud Light campaign where that woman decided to run a beer company.
	And Bud Light's famous for their great beer ads.
	And then the first time you put a woman in charge of it, they almost tanked the whole company.
	No, listen, I'm not saying it's across the board in every industry.
	Like in my industry, it's actually better to be a woman.
	We can't even find enough men who want to be therapists.
	I'm in a very female-centric business.
	But there are certain industries like hedge funds.
	I mean, there's a million things where it's still a good old boy's company.
	You know, oil rigorous.
	They make a lot of money.
	Industries that make a top dollar are a lot of them are still male-dominated.
	But I don't know if I don't really think women are really getting like historically, I don't really think women got had a raw deal here.
	It was like, okay, you could support a family on one income, one breadwinner, the man works, the woman stays at home.
	That, I don't know, working like most women, or not even just women, most people are not going to have some ultra-fulfilling, like you wake up in the morning and you're like, yeah, get out of bed.
	Yes.
	I think a lot of people have either like tough jobs, shitty jobs, or they're working for some corporation.
	They're sitting at a desk, a cubicle, some open office space, fucking bullshit.
	That's, you think like these women on their deathbed, they're going to be like, yeah, I worked for, I worked for IBM and I, I, I, I was in Toledo, Ohio, or I don't know where their fucking corporate HQ is.
	I, and I was an HR, I was a project manager, HR.
	That's my mom.
	Yeah.
	It's like, and oh man, that that one, you know, I was in the corporate office and like I hired those people and I was the HR and I, those people that said rude things, I had that one time, I, I had that really like, I fucking schooled that person who was like being rude to his co-work.
	You're not going to think about that shit on your deathbed?
	Who gives a fuck?
	Well, not if it's that job.
	But I think the point is to be able to choose.
	For men and for women, to be able to choose.
	If I'm a woman and I want to be the CEO, which I don't, by the way, then I want to be able to have access to that.
	That's awesome.
	I believe women should have the choice.
	But in so doing, you have taken the choice away from the women who want to be stay-at-home.
	But I don't want to take away that choice.
	I think that's beautiful.
	The unintended consequence of doubling the labor pool and having like unhinged feminism is that women really, the economic reality now is you need two incomes.
	You need the man and the woman.
	But we're not blaming that on women, are we?
	We're blaming that on the women.
	Why are we blaming that on women?
	The cost of living, inflation.
	Yes, the economy is very nuanced, very complicated.
	Lots of factors.
	But the reality is, when you double the labor pool, if you double the supply of labor, you can pay people less.
	Companies can pay people less.
	You have less negotiating power from the labor side.
	So look, I think women should obviously for the sake of equality, I guess, women should have the choice, be Allowed to work, no dispute there.
	But we should acknowledge the unintended consequence.
	Now you've become women no longer really have.
	Some women can meet wealthy guys, but most the reality is 90%, 95% of women, they're going to have to work too.
	You've taken the choice away from the women.
	Some women want to work.
	That's fine.
	You've taken the choice away, though, from the women who would have been like, you know what? Fuck work.
	I want to just.
	Totally.
	And there are lots of those ones.
	Yeah, but you've taken the choice away from them because a lot of women who'd be happy being stay-at-home moms.
	It's not affordable for most people anymore.
	So you've turned them into slaves.
	And society doesn't view a mom as successful.
	You know, that's how we brainwash young children to think that their only success that women can have is by being a boss babe or being, you know, doing some sort of job or corporate America, which is the farthest thing from the truth.
	So I think that a lot of it's our society.
	It's like I was saying earlier, nature versus nurture.
	Because women don't envision being a mom as like this achievement.
	That's why less people are choosing to even.
	But some women, I think, I hear you.
	I think some women definitely do.
	I think the hard part is there are women who don't feel totally fulfilled by that alone.
	But then there are some, I mean, I have friends that are stay-at-home moms and they love it.
	They are so happy to do that.
	They do see it as a success.
	And they're in economically privileged circumstances that enable them to do it.
	All the power to them.
	I think, regardless of my own financial circumstances, I would have wanted to do something for a career where I felt intellectually stimulated.
	Personally.
	We have a couple chats that I need to step away for just a moment.
	We have Pasty George here coming in.
	Message from the government of Canada.
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	I believe in thought into action, such as an artist thinking about what he wants to make and putting in the time and hard work to make it real.
	I don't believe in the idea of instant manifestation.
	I don't think anybody's going to be able to do that.
	We agree with you, Pasty George.
	Thank you, Pacey.
	I think we agree with Pacey on that.
	Yeah, totally.
	But no, you know, the conversation about, you know, male versus female, I would, I just think that what you're saying, how it's harder for women, like there are some truths to that, but there's some stuff that's harder for men, you know?
	Yeah, yeah.
	And I'm not like a, I hate the idea that feminist is synonymous with wanting to break up the nuclear family or being against men.
	I love men.
	I love family.
	Like I'm for all those things.
	To me, being a feminist just means, and I don't even walk around calling myself a feminist, but I am a feminist and that I believe things should be equal.
	I don't believe men and women are the same, but I don't think it's cool that a couple decades ago, I couldn't get a mortgage or a credit card.
	I agree that women are new to the workforce.
	Well, you know, it's not that long ago, you guys.
	It's really not.
	And, you know, you might disagree as the one African-American woman on the panel, but like there, you know, there's well, there's an argument.
	There's so much more than that, by the way.
	Well, I know, and Filipina, and Filipina, but, you know, there's actually some argument, and you might not agree with this.
	I don't know if I 100% agree with it, but maybe a little bit.
	That actually segregation was good.
	Desegregation was bad because during segregation, black communities had to lean on each other, so it made their communities stronger.
	Like, you know, I know that sounds crazy.
	Okay, wait, wait.
	Please say again, you're saying segregation.
	I know this sounds crazy.
	This sounds crazy.
	I'm not saying I'm pro-segregation, but I'm saying societies.
	Black people were more successful in a segregated society because they were able to lift each other up within their own community.
	And so like a workforce that would be segregated, it would be easier for the woman to be in her role as a mom if every woman was a mom.
	Does that make sense?
	It does.
	Maybe there were some accidental, unintended positive consequences floating around there, but I'm never going to get behind anything that says segregation was good.
	It's inhumane.
	You've never heard of that.
	You've never heard of that theory.
	I have.
	Have you ever heard of that theory?
	I've heard of that.
	No, no, no.
	Like, like the reason why, like, desegregation was bad, because in theory, like, you're like, of course that's good.
	You know, it sounds like it would be good.
	But there's also like the idea that once everything got, you know, segregated, or excuse me, once everything got desegregated, it made their community a lot weaker because then like a lot of the powerful white businesses where they people weren't allowed to shop with, now like a black person, a black-owned business might have had a monopoly on these black customers.
	Now they're competing against a white business owner and like the KKK was started by Democrats.
	And you know one of the reasons the KKK was actually started, a lot of people don't know, was because a lot of black businesses, they would go burn down black businesses.
	And it wasn't just because they didn't like black people.
	They didn't like that they were making money.
	When they were making money, there's so I'm just saying there is something to it sounds good.
	Overall, friends all need to come together.
	And I'm not saying that I want to stay segregated, but do you see how like in a society it sounds crazy, but believe it or not, black people could have been more successful.
	So from a competitive economic standpoint, I can understand that, but it shouldn't have been segregated in the first place.
	And then we would have just had like a free marketplace of normal valuing human beings at the same time.
	Yeah, I would bring it up.
	So it's unfair, right, that women, you know, couldn't work or whatever, but they were like traditional generals.
	Bring up the war.
	Men had to go to the war.
	Yeah, well, I mean, we're talking about conscription, the draft.
	I mean, women don't even have to get drafted.
	They don't even have to.
	Maybe, do they now have to do that?
	No, no, they don't.
	I don't think that.
	But to what you just said before, I mean, there were even very large, predominantly black communities where these communities liked having their own, you know, in the middle of New York City where they have is a Times Square that used to be a booming black neighborhood with businesses and, you know, white people, Central Park and white people, you know, did not like that.
	And they went in, they burned it down.
	They turned it into, you know, so black people did like having their spaces.
	They liked having their towns.
	They liked their communities.
	And it was taken away from them to a certain degree when they would become successful because they wanted to.
	Well, that's freaking out.
	You're having like a, I know it's a weird argument.
	And we're not trying to argue segregation.
	We're just saying there's unintended consequences that you don't really think of because you think all of a sudden the world's going to get better, but then really the world's not better.
	So it's like all these women, oh, hey, you're going to be, you're going to have the opportunity to be the CEO of McDonald's one day.
	But really, most people aren't going to be that CEO and they sell you this idea that you're going to be super successful and that's not really the case.
	Totally fair.
	I think I'm just saying in principle, these things should be options.
	It should be an option.
	For the woman who wants to stay home, stay home.
	For the man who wants to stay home and have a sugar mama, stay home.
	Like everyone should live their life the way they want to and have the opportunity to.
	And you said this earlier, like you know stay-at-home moms that still went into business because they're just so passionate about something.
	Yeah, I mean, that's me.
	Although I guess I was forced economically to go to work, but looking back, I was not really that happy as a stay-at-home mom.
	And maybe if my marriage had been better, I would have been happier because when I got married, I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.
	Like 100%.
	I was all for it.
	But then I found myself feeling disaffected.
	And I'll never know how much of that was not having a career and how much of that was just my marriage sucked.
	But now that I have a career I do really love, I'm very grateful to have it.
	And I'm grateful to have a husband that, I mean, we're very equal economically.
	And I'm grateful that my husband supports the fact that I work and even though he's super traditional.
	But he does, it's funny, he does make jokes a lot about like, I think at heart, and I don't know if he's still awake because it's really late on the East Coast, but that's okay.
	Because I've said this to him out loud.
	I secretly think on some level he would like it if I was a little more traditional and submissive.
	I mean, he's 62.
	He's from the South.
	Yeah, especially a guy who's in his 60s and grew up in the South.
	Yeah.
	But, oh, well, he stuck with me, so it's not going to happen.
	Well, I don't think you're like a crazy psychofeminist.
	No, I'm not.
	I am not.
	I am not.
	And that is the problem where people like myself and maybe Brian a little bit, where you look at radical feminism where it's been hijacked because, like, I don't think Brian wants women to feel like they can't go and achieve something if they're passionate about something.
	Right.
	You know, it's not like we live in 1922 or whatever, 1970s, where women couldn't get credit cards.
	So it's just some of the women, I guess, we get mad in society.
	The idea, like, feminism is these radical leftists that teach women to be sluts.
	And then all these women get ran through by guys, and now the guy doesn't want to be there.
	So now these guys all have microplastics in their balls, and all these girls are whores and slept with all their best friends.
	So it creates this horrible, vicious psychology.
	Yeah, this went south fast.
	I know what I'm saying.
	That's what's happening where everybody's screwed.
	The girls are screwed and the guys are screwed.
	And I think that's true because the amount of people they say men are having sex is less and less less.
	And I always hear blue chew ads.
	Guys can't get their dicks hard.
	Like, what is going on?
	That's true.
	And the girls still have boobs.
	Girls are still hot.
	So you don't have to do that.
	You guys in therapy.
	People are having so little sex.
	Even my young couples, people are having so little sex.
	Society is definitely fucked on many levels.
	And you know, one thing my colleague and I, who do our podcasts, it's for women, middle-aged therapy stuff.
	But we talk a lot about how men are not doing okay right now and things aren't really fair to men.
	Nobody wants to hear that, but I think there's a lot of truth to that.
	Well, you know what it is, though, too.
	And I mean, everybody kind of already knows it, but like we were talking about earlier, but the amount of pornography, too, is causing men.
	And now we have access to it where it wasn't like that.
	When I was in high school, we had one Playboy magazine that we all shared.
	And now steal it from your mother.
	That's how we originally got it.
	And now, I mean, I didn't grow.
	I mean, the internet came out when I was like in, I mean, it was out before I was in high school, but high school was the first time I started to use the internet.
	And then, of course, I looked at boobs.
	But now kids are on the internet at 7'8.
	And I don't care how many parental locks you have on the phone.
	I'm not trying to call you out.
	Kids can figure out a way, you know, to get passive parental laws.
	And you can see stuff that a young developing brain shouldn't be exposed to.
	The first time you're talking about that.
	Yeah, I have a question.
	I have a question.
	I have a question.
	How tall are you, and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
	For me.
	Yeah.
	So I am 5'8, and it's not important to me, but like, I would like them to be a few inches taller than me.
	So like 5'10, 5'11.
	Okay.
	I'm 5'6, and I would like them to at least be 5'9.
	I'll tell you 5'6.
	5'6.
	Okay.
	And you.
	So I'm 5'3 and I put 5'10 because that was my shortest boyfriend ever, my ex-husband.
	Okay.
	I think 90% of women put, they have to be over 6 feet tall.
	Somebody can fact check that, but it's like that range that they put six feet.
	Not me.
	You guys are liars.
	I want to feel small.
	I'm very petite.
	I'm like legit five feet.
	So the shortest for me has to be like no shorter than 5'6.
	Because if I wear heels, you know.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'3, and obviously they have to be midgets, right?
	That's a good call back.
	That was good.
	You'll take it.
	I'm 5'4, and I think I would have to be a minimum of like 5'7.
	I'm 5'3, and I guess minimum 5'3.
	I'm 5'5, and there's not really a gauge.
	My boyfriend's like barely taller than me, so.
	You're 5'5, you said?
	5'5, yeah.
	Okay, gotcha.
	I just said you were lying this whole time.
	So, you're going to date a five-foot-three guy that makes $14,000 as long as he'll watch Dancing with the Stars.
	Like, you got to be the crazy.
	All these women up here, and you're the craziest one.
	I mean, seriously.
	You're a simple woman.
	You're a nice lady.
	I also want you to dance with me, too.
	I can see that.
	Maybe not all guys are going to be a little bit more.
	Once the car accident heals, though, right now, I did have one thing while I was while I was away.
	You were saying how well women that couldn't, they couldn't work.
	It was so unfair.
	You know, I have some thoughts there.
	I think, you know, if we look at that in a vacuum, women couldn't work.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, my God.
	They couldn't work.
	Oh, my God.
	In a vacuum, oh my God, this, what crazy evidence of sexism.
	But if we if we zoom out and we look at society as a whole, this historical, I mean, I kind of contest a little bit that women couldn't work, but, you know, just for sake of conversation, sure, maybe certain fields they wouldn't have access to.
	It was like societally frowned upon.
	But I kind of think if we look at do a comparison of the two traditional roles, and we have men and we have women.
	Okay.
	And I, you're doing an assessment of who had it worse in total.
	Okay.
	I think women had a pretty good deal.
	I think, well, yeah, you couldn't work in the UK, fine, it's sexist, whatever.
	You could get valium though, you know.
	You're chilling at home, having a good time.
	Man, take care of everybody.
	Also, this is getting to stay at home with kids.
	Maybe some women had bad experiences, but also I think there's probably like really good experiences.
	Like, I don't have to work.
	That's dope.
	I get to stay home, take care of the kids.
	I think a lot of women today wish they could have that, but they can't because of feminism.
	But I would just say, like, if we look at the negative outcomes when it comes to men, like, I think it was kind of a good deal.
	Okay, men, you go work, you be the workhorses of society, you be the little worker ants, the worker bees, the slaves, essentially.
	And you provide for your family and your wife and your kids, and the woman gets to stay within the comfort of home.
	And it's the men that go out into the, I mean, sometimes these men were, they're going out into the fucking wilderness.
	They're going, the men are going to war.
	So if we look at like historical trades, World War I, World War II, all these wars, men, women were, I don't know if spared is the right word.
	Women were protected from the barbarisms that many men did have to witness and see.
	And so, I don't know, this sort of like you're looking at like specifics.
	And sure, I, whatever, it's, it was sexist, whatever.
	Women couldn't work.
	But, but men had to go to war.
	And then if you look, I know you want to come in, just one final thing on this.
	If we look at the work that was historically available, let's go back 100 years, 150 years.
	What is the Apple headquarter called?
	The Apple, they have like a term for it.
	Campus.
	They call it a, it's a campus.
	Trust me, in the 1800s, there weren't fucking campuses with free masseuses and free food and coffee and fucking, I don't know, ping-pong tables.
	No, the work that was available 100, 200 years ago was primarily physical labor.
	And the biological physiological reality is men are better suited to physical work.
	And I think it's actually kind of a privilege that men were like, you know what?
	We got this.
	We'll destroy our bodies.
	We'll get black lung so that you women can stay in comfort inside the home and in the fucking cabin with the fire and we'll go down into the mines and we'll get black lung and fucking destroy our bodies and die at 40.
	I think women got the better deal.
	Yeah.
	I mean, but the jobs that were available to women, you know, what do we think those were?
	Because what is the oldest profession?
	Wait, why do you want to bring it to prostitution?
	Hey, well, you're, you know.
	I'm saying that, I'm saying that it's only until fucking air conditioning was invented that all these jobs, you know, there wasn't like a big feminist push in the 1800s, like, yes, we want to be fucking beaver poachers or I don't know what the fuck people were doing back then.
	Oh, yeah, I want to go hunt or do all this shit.
	Women, nah.
	Yeah, if you weren't having a family, you were a teacher or you were a nurse or you were.
	Yes, and women did.
	Hold on.
	Okay.
	Most women were not prostitutes.
	No, I'm not saying that they were.
	You were a mother, you were a teacher, you were a nurse, or you slept with women throughout history.
	Like if there's like the family business in the 18, 1900s, they'd be secretaries.
	They'd help out around the shop.
	They'd help out around the farm.
	Women worked.
	And also, I mean, look, I think women had a pretty good deal.
	A pretty good deal.
	If you look at historical, again, I mean, I can just only reiterate this.
	The work that was available 100 years ago, 150 years ago, not glamorous work.
	You weren't a boss babe.
	You weren't, you know, oh, I'm going to fucking, you know, get my PTO and get my vacation days.
	No, the work was like, we're sending the men into the mines.
	You're doing dangerous, dirty, physical, grueling physical labor.
	You're working all day.
	There wasn't, there wasn't OSHA back in the fucking 100 years ago.
	There used to be child labor 100 years ago.
	Exactly.
	We had to do child labor laws 100 years ago.
	Exactly.
	And Brian, I agree, because you and I are both, you know, we're both Billy Zayn feminists.
	And I think that we believe if the Titanic is sinking, it shouldn't just be women and children on the ships.
	Men should go too.
	Oh, like, yeah, of course.
	I agree with you.
	Sorry, my brain was like.
	No, but I'm saying, like, if the boat is sinking, you know, they say on the Titanic, so men and women are allowed to get on the boats.
	But Billy Zayn and Titanic gets on the boat.
	That's a good thing.
	Alex, you bring that up.
	That's good.
	When it comes to the Titanic, should it be women and children first?
	You mean that go into the lifeboats, right?
	That's what we're talking about.
	Yes.
	Well, how about this?
	The lifeboats is what we're talking about.
	I think it should just be the rich.
	No, because we're the first class we're getting on the boats first for sure.
	Okay.
	But maybe, I mean, maybe we can agree children first.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, but if they don't have their parents, how good are they going to turn out as orphans?
	Come on now.
	Even kids that go into the system now end up living really bad lives and end up in drug addicts.
	Not all of them, but a lot of bad things happen to children.
	Who gets on the lifeboats first?
	Women or men?
	Like I said, I mean.
	Starting with you.
	So I agree with you.
	It would be children first, obviously.
	We'll put that aside.
	Yeah, we'll put it aside.
	So I would say specifically thinking about the Titanic, it would be those of the highest value, both split between male and female.
	So the people that are essential to continue with whatever it is.
	So Dr. Fauci gets on the raft.
	Who?
	Sorry.
	Dr. Fauci, because he's essential.
	I haven't seen that one.
	Even that would be controversial.
	Dr. Fauci.
	You remember the essential workers during the pandemic?
	You know what I mean?
	Oh, sorry.
	That's whatever everybody said.
	My last two jokes is just a bit bong.
	We're getting late.
	I'll get one at the end.
	What I'm saying is I would think it would be the most essential people.
	So, the people who are in the leadership roles, I don't know if that's male or female.
	I feel like it would be split pretty evenly, but there would have to be women in order to take care of the children.
	I mean, we can talk about what the protocol was historically or whatever.
	Who do you think, though?
	Should it be the best?
	I just gave you my answer.
	I said it should be split fairly because the fucking Titanic is sinking.
	Well, tell me, who is the most valuable to society?
	It wouldn't be that cold.
	But I mean, think about it.
	If you have a bunch of children going onto a lifeboat, there needs to be a few women because they don't die in families.
	I mean, no, there has to be adults there.
	I think it would be, I do agree that I think that the people who are wealthier would think that they are the priority, but I think it's the people who are in those leadership roles that can survive on those boats until they're rescued.
	Yeah.
	Like, you know, I said the rich, right?
	The richest should be there.
	What do you think?
	Because you'd want one guy on the boat, right?
	Let's say you're saying, like, the men and women, or the lady, excuse me, let's just say they said all the children and women can get on the boat first.
	I guarantee all the children would look back and be like, let's get one guy on the boat.
	But that's what I mean is a male in a leadership role to help in the survival.
	Yeah.
	I don't really think it's fair that it's women and children getting on the lifeboat, but I think that it would look really bad on those men because I think that's still societally obstructed.
	I know.
	That's what I'm saying.
	These are uncomfortable.
	So I'm a woman, so I'm going to say women because I want to live.
	I think we need to be putting enough life rafts for everyone to get on a boat.
	Well, this is carnival cruise, baby.
	We don't have enough.
	If we got enough hamburgers, we don't have enough life rafts.
	What do you think?
	I would say women because men are physically stronger, so they can swim against currents.
	I mean, well, you throw a woman in the ocean versus a man.
	I'm serious.
	Like, a man would probably have a better survival rate at swimming to a nearby island versus a woman.
	I would agree.
	I would agree that a man would be able to swim farther than a woman.
	Physically.
	Well, I agree with that, but I don't think it helps you in, like, I don't know what the temperature of the water was.
	Oh, my God.
	Hypothermia affects men and women.
	Titanic, you're done.
	Whether you're a man or a man, you can maybe tread water for a couple minutes and you're done.
	Top.
	You're done.
	But you asked for between a man or a woman tieboat, a woman, because a man.
	What do you say?
	So the question is: who deserves to be on the lifeboat or who will end up being on the lifeboat?
	No, who do you think should get on the lifeboat first?
	So strong to survive, no?
	Like, they're going to be fighting for it.
	Yeah, they're going to be fighting for it.
	Well, no, not necessarily.
	They should be if it's life or death.
	Well, they should, but I think sometimes you have like men's benevolent sacrificial nature.
	While they're dying.
	Yeah, men sacrifice themselves.
	The captain always wants to go down with the ship, though, you know what I mean?
	Yeah, men will do it.
	Women.
	Women?
	Women.
	Women?
	I think try and keep the families together.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I would say only transgenders deserve to get on a boat.
	Save the transition.
	No, trans.
	They were trans back then.
	Trans men, trans women.
	Leave them on the boat.
	Transition to a man or transition to a woman.
	I mean, who do I like in society?
	Sorry.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	There are a lot of men in North America who want to reproduce and have families, but it's just that feminism has brainwashed women into thinking those men are trash.
	Hence why men are moving on.
	I'll take them.
	Also, y'all have traded.
	Sorry, you had something.
	I think you had something.
	Yeah, I think I might have.
	No, it's already moved past.
	I know.
	In my head, I was already thinking, like, you know, gay son or thought daughter for some reason.
	What is worse for society?
	Well, he's talking about having kids, and I think that's another reason why people are afraid to have kids is because, you know, the sun can turn to be gay or, you know, and the rate of autism is higher.
	I'm just saying there's a lot of like external factors with having kids that people are worried about.
	And it's like the movie Idiocracy, right?
	I don't know if you guys have seen that movie.
	I've seen that.
	But at the very beginning, they show this white trash family, and they used white people because they didn't want to be racist.
	But they show this white trash family.
	This guy's like banging his cousin.
	His family tree just starts expanding.
	Then they show this other couple, and they're like, well, the market's not very good.
	I don't think we should have a kid right now.
	Then they fast forward five years.
	They're like, oh, well, you know, this, you know, they're giving like all these like reasons of why it's not a great time to have a kid.
	And then it's like 30 years.
	She's like, well, I can't have a kid anymore.
	And they're financially fine.
	And why the other guy has hundreds of family members and they, you know.
	But that is really what happens in the world.
	And you talk, you look at India, has a billion people and they're all coming to Canada and they're all coming here.
	And it's because people are afraid to have kids because of the external factors because the world's so fucked up.
	India man.
	All right.
	We have some notes to get into.
	So let me see here.
	The first, I'll try to blast through these.
	Okay.
	Camilla.
	Yes.
	You say husband should be willing to die protecting you.
	Take the bullet.
	They should pay on dates, should be providers.
	I'll come back to that in a bit, though.
	Jenna, men should be chivalrous.
	Megan, husband should be willing to die protecting you.
	Take the bullet.
	Melissa.
	Okay, I have some qualms with you here.
	Uh-oh.
	So you say men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous.
	Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
	Take the bullet.
	You also circle, though, you will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.
	Yeah, I didn't really know how to answer that.
	I just couldn't.
	Do you want to keep your last name?
	Oh, I totally misunderstood that.
	Yeah.
	So you don't care about it.
	I don't mind.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I would lose my last name.
	Or I would add it.
	Like, I don't know.
	I'd have to think about it.
	What about your kids?
	What about for your kids?
	Can they take well date?
	It's something that we'd have to discuss.
	Well, your husband says a traditional guy.
	Okay, yeah.
	I want my kids to have my last name.
	Yeah, I see no problem with that.
	But he doesn't even want to have the discussion.
	There's no discussion.
	He understood that this is.
	Is he a Leo?
	No, this is how it is.
	You know what?
	At the end of the day, I really don't care.
	As long as it's not an embarrassing last name, like Yikki or something.
	Yes, let's assume it's embarrassing.
	Oh, like gay.
	Cause of the con.
	Okay, there's a discussion there then.
	I probably wouldn't marry you.
	Gosh.
	You wouldn't marry a guy because he has a bad last name.
	I know.
	I'm so shallow.
	It's like the love of your life.
	No, I know men with your absolute soul mate.
	Probably wouldn't date him.
	No, there are a lot of men with bad last names and they don't want to keep their last name.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	But in this situation, he has a bad last name.
	He's traditional.
	He wants to keep it.
	I'm such a terrible person.
	Yeah, no, that's, I can't.
	I can't do it.
	If my last name had to be gay, I know, I know, you would not like that.
	Like, not tailbreaker, really?
	If you married a guy named Rudy Gay, NBA player, and you had to change your name to Melissa Gay, you wouldn't do that.
	No, even though he's a multi-millionaire.
	Wait, genuinely.
	I've had genuinely here.
	I know we've been bantering, but is this your actual genuine position?
	I never realized this about myself.
	Yeah, I think so.
	No, genuinely, though.
	Like.
	So he meets.
	I wouldn't change my last name.
	Like, if he was my soulmate, like.
	Wait, just to clarify, you wouldn't change your last name if it's a, like, let's say he has an average last name.
	Still won't do it.
	Well, if it was an average last name, then I would do it.
	But if it's a bad last name, no.
	I would just debate him until he hated me.
	And the relationships are not.
	But so the other things you wrote here, you say men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous.
	Husband should be willing to die protecting you, but you won't take his last name.
	I'd do those things for him.
	I just circled it because that's what it said, but I would also do the same things for him.
	Well, there would be, okay, you'd reciprocate, but remember, I'm a 50-50.
	Okay, you're 50-50.
	Well, then, if you're 50-50, why should men be chivalrous?
	Why shouldn't they?
	Are you chivalrous?
	Yeah.
	How so?
	I've opened the car door for someone before.
	For someone?
	Sorry, I've got a date.
	I'm not sure if I can do it.
	I'm not a damn guy that's 5'3 ⁇ .
	And I would do it again for Doug Avery.
	I've given plenty of back massages if they've had a long, hard day.
	It's not chivalrous.
	I do the whole spa treatment thing.
	It's not really chivalry, though.
	I think it is.
	Not really.
	It's just nurturing.
	It just depends.
	Well, I think you said chivalry for men is different than what women at Timmy's door in Canada for men before.
	Well, that's what I'm saying.
	So you're willing to die for your husband?
	Absolutely.
	100%.
	some of these things tend to be if I love them Actually, I would die for a stranger.
	Here, let's get into this.
	Past should not matter.
	Referencing body count.
	Marley, you say past should not matter.
	No, but I think that there needs to be a conversation and be honest about it.
	Okay, sure.
	Colette, you say past should not matter.
	Jenna, you say, I guess past does matter.
	Megan, you put a line through it.
	I don't know if that, what that means, but that it kind of depends, I guess.
	Oh, okay, sure.
	Melissa, you say past should not matter, body count shouldn't matter.
	I guess why?
	Why is that?
	Why should the past not matter for those of you who said it shouldn't?
	Because that doesn't define the person.
	Like your past doesn't define who you are.
	Yes, it does.
	Yeah, it definitely does.
	Yeah, it does.
	But people change.
	Yeah, you can change, but to say that the past is completely irrelevant, I don't know.
	I'm not saying it's completely irrelevant, but...
	Well, how about this?
	Is it wrong for a guy to make a determination as to whether he'd want to date somebody based on her past?
	Is that unfair?
	Yes.
	Is it insecure?
	I wouldn't say it's no.
	It's unfair, though.
	You should be totally forgiving of somebody's past.
	Well, it depends.
	Did you murder somebody?
	No, but let's say you, I don't know.
	Well, use her as an example.
	Do you think your current boyfriend should be weary of you hanging out with other men considering the fact that you left your first husband for one of his coworkers and then you cheated on your second husband with the man you're with?
	Shouldn't he be weary of your past?
	Well, I mean, if we're going to do that, then I should be weary of him too because he cheated with you.
	Yeah, cheated with me and called off his wedding.
	So we're not holding it.
	Oh, that gets even messy.
	You didn't say that earlier.
	So he was engaged to be married when you were banging him on these work trips, and so you broke some other poor woman's heart too with your whoreness.
	My whoreness.
	Well, I mean, yeah.
	I mean, you spread it in your legs.
	I mean, he put it in between my legs.
	No, we're both relationships.
	We're both a person.
	Yes, we are.
	And we both admit that what we did.
	Did you ever talk to the woman?
	No.
	Did she ever confront you or anything?
	Nope.
	Not on Facebook.
	She didn't send you any message on Facebook.
	Yeah, there was no communication.
	Gone.
	But are we talking about past behavior body counts or past behavior, period?
	Well, I think past behavior, like if you have a criminal record, that's their first example of murder.
	So I mean, I think it obviously.
	I want to know the history of someone.
	Yeah, it speaks to character.
	Well, I know, so wouldn't that be like kind of similar to their sexual history?
	I mean, I know my history is very hard for men to get through unless, you know, they want to sexualize me.
	So I know why I have a hard time finding a partner.
	It's because of the choices I've made.
	And, you know, I want to find a partner who is okay with that.
	And it's a lot harder.
	Also, couldn't this even be applied to, like, for example, in order to be at some point in the future, you need to have taken certain actions in the past.
	So, like, manifestation.
	What's the difference?
	Like, you know, maybe I could have been a professional athlete.
	And if I was a professional athlete, I'd be like more attractive or appealing to women.
	Why you laugh?
	What the fuck?
	You don't think I have the, I don't have the dog in me?
	You could do that.
	I got the dog in me.
	I got dog in.
	You could be a pickleball player.
	You could do pickleball.
	Yeah.
	Travis Kelsey.
	Hey, I can do it.
	I got the dog in me.
	I got the dog in me.
	He could be a kicker.
	I believe you.
	Okay.
	So, anyways, but I'm saying, like, or how about just whatever.
	Like, a guy, had he been more ambitious when he was younger, he would have been richer.
	Yeah.
	Women care about a guy's financial standing.
	So it's like, you're kind of like, if the guy's not rich enough, it's like, well, you could have fucked up.
	You fucked up in your past.
	You didn't go to college or, well, fuck college, but you didn't do the steps necessary when you were younger to be wealthy or at a place financially that I would have otherwise deemed you attractive.
	So why don't I do these sorts of past assessments too, but then sort of roundabout way.
	But anyways, going around the table though, I guess body count doesn't matter.
	We always ask this question.
	What's your body count?
	Like my personal body count.
	Yep.
	How many guys have you been?
	Have you ever dated seriously or just carnal knowledge?
	Carnal knowledge.
	It's got to be like 11.
	I thought God of the people.
	Because one of them, I don't feel like it counts, but like maybe by his standards, so we'll just say 12.
	Why did he have performance issues?
	He couldn't get it hard.
	I've never been with a woman.
	Poor guy.
	Okay.
	And your longest relationship was eight years?
	Eight and a half years, yeah.
	So gotta be 11.
	Okay, what about you?
	34, I believe.
	30.
	34.
	Yeah, I was just, I mean, somewhere in the 30s, I had a very blackout point of my life from 19 to 21.
	I was in abusive relationships where I was.
	You abused him?
	I was in abusive relationships where they would bring me places to have sex with people without telling me.
	Wow.
	Yeah, no.
	And, you know, that's why the hypnosis was so important for me to be able to choose.
	You told me to stop talking about that.
	You said it was boring.
	What about you?
	14.
	14?
	14.
	What about you?
	No comment.
	But it's not bad.
	Give us a range.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, my God.
	Kimmy?
	No, because I film, so I don't want to.
	You film?
	Yeah, like acting.
	No.
	Like TV stuff.
	She's an actress.
	Yeah, it's just a little harder, too.
	Do you want to do like a range, though?
	Like, instead of, okay, it's.
	I'll just say this.
	I believe in monogamy.
	So every relationship that I've been in has always just been me and that one person.
	So I mean, serial.
	No, I think.
	Some people can be up there.
	Oh, my God.
	Boyfriend, the boyfriend, the boyfriends.
	Well, that's me.
	Yeah.
	I mean, all mine are monogamous.
	Is it over 10?
	No.
	No.
	What about you?
	Body count?
	I knew this was going to be a question.
	So I actually sat with a calculator.
	No shit.
	Do you have a list?
	In my head.
	Not on like a phone, right?
	Wait, question.
	I'm not going to ask anybody to show it.
	Does anybody have a list?
	No.
	No.
	I know men.
	I have a diary, a notebook.
	No.
	What is it?
	So this is also not just penetration rate.
	Like, this is any kind of sexuality.
	You're talking blowies?
	No, I'm talking like even with women, right?
	Let's do women and men.
	Separate the two.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	More math, yes.
	More math.
	Math and shit.
	Okay, so, but I'm pansexual.
	So are we counting transfer?
	Just solve with the music.
	Just how many 79 was the number total?
	79 total.
	79 total.
	But that's even like if it was just a little bit of a bad thing.
	But that didn't make sense.
	Okay, so if you got 79, what's 80 times 5,000?
	So what is that?
	I'm just trying to think how much money you make.
	So if it's like roughly, so what is that?
	Like 40 million.
	You think I'm getting paid for all of those?
	Well, 79.
	Do you think every single time that I have sex?
	Well, no, but okay, so let's say 50 of them you got paid.
	Way less.
	So you can pay all your bills, but only having like 40 sexual encounters?
	I also webcam, and like I was telling you, I do other.
	Oh, I didn't know.
	I thought you said you didn't do OnlyFans.
	I thought you just only do like videos.
	No.
	Porn.
	Sorry, I didn't know that.
	You made a little 13.
	13?
	Okay, what about you?
	I'm just going to say 10 and up because my mom might be watching.
	Give us a range.
	Come on, give us a range.
	That's a good range.
	10 and up.
	Yeah, give us a range.
	Come on.
	10 and up.
	So that could be a million.
	What's a count?
	Oh, dear Lord.
	I'd be impressed.
	Bonnie blew a thousand and an hour in a day.
	Come on, all the other girls were good sports.
	I need a shot.
	Okay, how about we say 30 and up?
	Ooh.
	How do you have 10 to 30?
	Honestly.
	Can we?
	But if I were to throw out, could it be 40?
	Let's not talk about this.
	They say you're supposed to multiply it by three.
	You know that, Brian.
	You know, you're supposed to multiply it by three.
	I got you.
	I got you.
	One.
	One.
	Multiply it by three.
	That's the real number.
	Oh, Joe.
	Alex Stein, pimp on the blimp.
	Yeah.
	You know, I would say this is a lot because I'm a badass that is a dog, but I do think like meaningless sex is like so bad for you.
	I 100%.
	I have had that, and it's not something I'd encourage other people to have.
	So, yeah, but no, I've got that dog in me.
	I mean, yeah, I'm not.
	Speaking of which, we were actually at furry.
	She was a dog girl.
	I tried to get you a trans girl.
	Yeah.
	Was that the girl?
	That was the girl that I was trying to get on.
	She's no, no, no, the girl that I, yeah, the puppy one.
	Yeah, she was.
	She's trans.
	She is, yeah.
	Well, they all kind of identify as strange.
	We had this furry on our show, and then my producer went to this furry festival.
	And like, yeah, because they are transitioning to an animal, they actually kind of consider themselves trans because like she is a woman, and she like will say she's a woman, but because she's an animal, she considers herself trans.
	Like, it's like, it's all kind of like Therium or whatever.
	I don't know, but yeah, being trans is part of being a furry.
	I see.
	Alex Stein, can you look into that camera right there?
	And I think her name is Alice.
	We'll just call her.
	Wait, is it?
	What's that?
	And she was too scared to be.
	No, Olivia.
	It's Olivia.
	Say Olivia.
	I'll just let you actually just imprompt this.
	She's a dog, but sometimes I think she's a rabbit, too.
	Let me tell you something, Olivia, you stupid canine, you dumb bitch.
	And that's okay because dogs are bitches.
	You didn't have the balls to come here.
	And as a female bitch, which is the dictionary term for a dog, so I'm not calling her that to be negative, even though you are a bitch.
	You're a pussy.
	A real dog would have come here and eaten with another fellow dog like myself.
	You're a bitch ass.
	You'll always be a bitch ass, and you'll never get any pussy being a weird furry transgender hanging out with Big Tits McGee over here.
	So get a life.
	I met her doing a podcast just the other week.
	Well, if you're going on podcast at Big Tits McGee, then you're really fucked up too because I'm on one with her and I'm fucked up.
	So trust me, I know.
	And Olivia, fuck you.
	She did say that she will come.
	No, by the way, it's a different furry.
	It's not your.
	It's a damn furry.
	It's not your furry.
	It's not her furry.
	It's the one who was scheduled.
	Oh.
	Who just like bailed?
	Bailed.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	And then I sent her a picture of that meme of Hassan's dog being shocked.
	Shocked.
	Nick.
	She blocked you.
	Nick.
	Nick.
	Can you Google the Hassan dog shock meme?
	The photo.
	I fucking sent her a picture.
	I was like, fucking bad dog.
	I told her.
	I was like, you fuck bad dog.
	Here, I'm going to ask you.
	She probably liked it.
	Yeah, that's a weird thing.
	I'm going to message her right now.
	I'm going to be like, you know what?
	Send me a photo of you in the corner with your dog hat on.
	What?
	Dog hat?
	You're validating the kids who has the ears and wears the collar and wants to be a dog.
	I sent her that photo.
	I was like, you motherfucker, you flaked on us.
	Fucking she at 3 p.m., that's an hour before fucking me time.
	Oh, wow.
	Rude.
	Huh?
	I can see your text with her.
	She's got like a dog.
	Is it the girl who wears the little puppy ears?
	Has she been on before?
	She has some, she's got weird, she's got crazy shit.
	Has she been on before?
	No.
	First time.
	So we're going to see.
	Maybe she'll come back, but I'm going to have to actually put some collar on her or some shit.
	She might like that.
	I'm going to put her in the corner.
	I'm going to put a shock collar on her.
	Oh, wow.
	And I'm going to, the whole podcast, if she annoys me, Olivia, Olivia, if you annoy me when we get you on the podcast, Olivia, you're going to be wearing a dog shock collar the entire time.
	And I'm going to be very generous with it.
	I'm going to be very liberal with it.
	Liberal.
	I'll be very liberal with shocking.
	You're going to get shocked.
	I'll shock the shit out of you.
	She's dripping right now.
	If you wanted to manifest that orgy, you're getting it.
	The furry orgy.
	Oh, my God.
	It'll technically be reality.
	She'd be very curious.
	Okay, wait.
	What about your body count?
	You never started burking and you slithered out of it.
	I don't know.
	I'm probably like 20.
	Okay.
	Any conservative gals?
	A lot.
	A lot of celebrities.
	A lot of celebrities do.
	I don't want to name them, but Jayla.
	Roseanne Barr.
	Rose.
	That's a you don't know who Roseanne Barr is?
	Yeah.
	No, I'm too young.
	I'm sorry.
	You don't know who Roseanne Barr is?
	No.
	She just had a rat.
	Did she have a TV show called Roseanne's 20?
	Yes.
	Oh, okay.
	I'm 26.
	Yeah.
	She did a rat video from the government of Canada.
	Pasty George donated $200.04.
	Care 6.
	Yes, cheating is called whorness.
	Women have unquestioned control over who they are letting between their legs.
	So why couldn't you keep yours closed?
	What's your feminist excuse?
	Your response?
	I don't really have a response.
	I just, I don't know.
	Gotcha.
	We have a few more from the questionnaire.
	A woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
	You agree.
	Camilla.
	Camilla, am I saying right?
	You agree.
	Camilla, you agree.
	I agreed.
	Megan, agree.
	It looks like you know.
	And then, no, that's it.
	So you, you, and then Megan.
	Why is that?
	Why should a woman not be rejected?
	Because of her weight.
	I don't think that that's a valid reason to reject somebody based off of just their weight.
	I feel like it is.
	Wait, hold on.
	Whoa, whoa, wait, hold on.
	So you can reject a guy who makes $250,000 a year.
	But I haven't rejected men like that.
	See, you're taking that one question and you're like going crazy with it.
	I'm not going crazy with you.
	I'm not going to reject a man just because he doesn't make a certain income.
	You asked me what my ideal, like what I would want, and that's what I would want.
	Isn't you saying that the minimum yearly income for a man to be your future husband being $300,000 isn't baked into that that you would reject, like it logically.
	But aren't there a lot of people who, like when they get married, in the prenump they put in that fat clause of the woman gains over a certain amount of weight?
	What does that have to do with anything?
	What i'm saying is is that a lot of people go into relationships and they have certain standards and requirements that they want not only met but upheld, and I feel like, even though they're not fair comparisons, that is something that is used against women.
	I just don't think someone should be based off of their weight.
	I, that's all it.
	That's all my answer was is, I don't think you should be rejected based solely off of your weight.
	Um, but okay also, what if they have diabetes or something?
	no not who like that's i'm sorry you have diabetes but like so i'm not saying people don't get rejected but hold on i'm not saying that should be the only reason to hijack someone to the height question uh you're 5'8 you say the minimum height of a man you would date is 5'10 5'11.
	Like I just want them a couple inches taller than me, but you would, would you reject a guy who's five foot seven?
	No, i've dated someone who's who's shorter than me?
	Okay, i've, sure, but i've also dated.
	I've also gone on a date with a woman who's a bit overweight.
	It's not my preference to date sure, but did you guys stay in a relationship long term?
	No, but when you say I dated like yeah, I went on a date with a girl who's a bit chubby, like that's not my preference though okay, I don't mean don't, but you did.
	Sometimes, you know whatever, it's all good, but height's not that important.
	To be honest, height is not a huge important thing.
	She's got a cute face, whatever she can get it.
	Have you ever dated a morbidly obese guy?
	I don't.
	I dated like a really chubby guy, but I don't.
	No I, I don't feel like that's happened.
	No, but I don't understand.
	So, weight you can change, height you can't change uh-huh, but I mean like it sounds like income you can change uh, that's you can.
	I know it's debatable, but it is something you can change.
	You can't change your height without.
	I don't know if they have surgery.
	They do have that surgery.
	Now they do.
	Okay, they do.
	I didn't leg lengthening yeah, but I mean, i'm just confused, so like what?
	So, for example, let's say me I wouldn't want to date a woman because she was obese.
	That's wrong.
	No, i'm saying that you shouldn't reject her, because I take the word rejection as being kind of brutal about it.
	No, I mean a rejection no no, No, no, so okay, when we're talking about rejection, it could just be like deal breaker.
	Swipe left, swipe right.
	Yeah, it could be that.
	It could be like, I am not interested in this person because of this character.
	So because of her weight.
	I've been told that.
	I've been told that my weight.
	But rejection doesn't have to be necessary.
	I guess I just, I think of it as like a preference, and that's fine if you don't want to date them, but I don't feel like you should just base the decision solely based on their weight.
	be wrong with even that though i just feel like that's that's like not in a place where i'm at where i would do something where i would basically deny someone reject someone whatever the term is that we're using based off of one simple characteristic you Also with weight, with weight.
	Micropenis?
	Micropenis.
	Again, I know there's surgeries to change that.
	With weight, you can lose weight.
	Wait, what?
	Hold on.
	But hold on.
	Would you reject?
	Assume the guy doesn't want to get them for.
	I don't think there's a micropenis surgery.
	I don't know.
	That's what there is, to be honest.
	Would you reject a guy who has a micropenis?
	I mean, I definitely don't think that's my preference.
	So you would reject him?
	I mean, eventually you would find out, right?
	Because you would get intimate with them.
	So at some point, I guess there would be a rejection, but I wouldn't.
	Well, how about he just told you up front?
	Wow.
	I don't.
	I guess, like, it just depended how much I was into that person because, like, for me personally, I sex is important.
	Couldn't have to be a personal personality.
	Well, I'm outside right now.
	I'm not with anybody.
	I'm not doing that.
	So to me, that's not my main focus.
	So when I'm getting to know someone, I don't bring up that topic immediately.
	Brian, you might have picked that.
	That might be the best sex technique ever on a first date with a girl.
	You tell her you have a micropenis.
	Because like, you know, some girls are going to be like, oh, gross out, but I guarantee you.
	A girl's going to be like, I want to see his micropenis.
	I want to see how micro it is.
	Because I'm not even kidding.
	And then they pull it out.
	It's not micro and you're like, well, now my dick's out.
	Let's do something.
	But that is actually a good way to break the ice because they're like, I want to see this.
	Also, wait, here's another thing, Alex, is if she's like, she's like, I don't really care.
	That's a good sign.
	that's a great time if she stays and then that's what I'm saying it's It's a good test for everything.
	The micropenis test.
	We just invented it here tonight.
	I love it.
	I actually, I think you got, as a guy, these guys who like claim they got a big dick.
	Wait, question for the, we got some women here, right?
	We got one.
	Yeah.
	Have you ever had a guy like say he had a big dick, but really he didn't?
	Have you had that experience?
	Like, oh, baby, I got, and it's, like, average or whatever?
	I don't know.
	Ever had that experience?
	Never.
	Where guys just say, like, I'm going to bang you.
	I don't know about that, but like, where guys have been all sexual and then not been sexual.
	I'm sure that's happened.
	What do you mean not been sexual?
	Like, they send you sexual messages, and then when it's time to get sexual, they're like, nah, that's weird.
	That happens.
	I've never had that.
	All the time.
	I don't know.
	Like that.
	It was a blur on the button.
	Well, anyways, I think, I don't know.
	I think you got to, like, on everything, though, not just penis eyes, like, you got, you got to manage expectations.
	All these guys promising the world, no.
	You have to, you have to be like, say this, you know, the sex is going to be like under promise, over delay.
	Yeah, definitely.
	And then when you're like, keep your existence low.
	If you're a little bit above average, they're like, okay, cool.
	But if you tell the girl, I'm going to blow your fucking mind.
	And it's like, it's like, what?
	But if you tell them, you know, I'm like, whatever.
	I'll give it the old college try.
	We'll see how it goes.
	And then you do like decent job.
	I'll do decent.
	Pull out the vibrator and you make it come one way or another.
	Manage expectations.
	Manage expectations.
	Message from the government of Canada.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	Yeah, thank you.
	Thank you, Pace.
	Share one.
	If you and other women believe that females shouldn't be rejected based on weight, then women shouldn't reject men based on their height, which they can't change without painful surgery.
	True.
	Yeah.
	Okay, but we heard your take there.
	I'm trying to, why should, what's wrong with a man rejecting a woman because of her weight?
	I mean, if you're going to reject a woman based off their weight, then it just shows that you're shallow.
	The same way you guys judge women for only wanting to be with a man who has money, a successful career, it's the same thing.
	I mean, there's more to a woman than just her weight.
	And let's say in circumstances, does it have to be before or during or after the relationship?
	What if she stayed with you while you had cancer for five years?
	And let's say she gained weight by 40, 50 pounds.
	Would you reject her and break up with her just because she doesn't look the way that you wanted her to at the start?
	No.
	The question is more so, like, you've met somebody.
	I think there's obviously circumstances.
	They have your children and then they have a hard time losing weight after.
	Sure, you give grace and stuff.
	But I mean, look, I think, I do think, though, even in longer-term relationships, if the like one person has really let themselves go, I mean, I would be remiss to say that that's not going to have an impact on the attraction that your partner feels for you.
	And that can change the dynamic of the relationship.
	Definitely.
	If it's bad enough, I mean, you know, I don't know if I would fully blame somebody if they've lost attraction for being like, I'm no longer, if that's important in the relationship.
	You know, I don't know if I totally blame somebody for, you know, wanting to end the relationship.
	I suppose it would, how long you've been together?
	I mean, can you show them grace?
	What are the, why did this happen?
	Have they tried to fix it?
	Is there a situation in the relationship where the woman is like really stressed out and unhappy?
	And so because the relationship hasn't done well, she's kind of found other vices, which include like overeat.
	Like, is the relationship bad and that's why she gained weight?
	Or is she just gaining weight because she's lazy?
	No, no, no.
	It can be, no.
	I mean, obviously not.
	It's his fault.
	But what are the factors in which you have the factors?
	Yeah, of course.
	Well, she does have the problem where guys literally want to pay for her to eat food.
	I know.
	That is a unique thing.
	And part of it is like they want you to get fatter.
	Like they actually want to see.
	There's this girl, Amberlynn Reed, who started a weight loss channel at 400 pounds and now she's 600 pounds.
	And it's hard to, you have to watch her stuff.
	But like the people that pay her like want to see her get bigger.
	It's weird.
	Like they're happy that she's bigger.
	Yeah.
	And, you know, I have a personal trainer because the last thing I want, as I get older, I find it harder for me to lose and keep weight off despite the fact that I have to do that.
	Who pressed that, Nick?
	Nick.
	You pressed that.
	You got the little button thing right there.
	So, and then it was Megan.
	Wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight.
	Why is that?
	Well, after hearing your argument, kind of.
	You've been convinced.
	You've convinced me.
	You rescind your disagreement.
	Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
	Cami, K-Dog, you said it's wrong.
	Anybody else?
	I think, Taylor, you said it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
	Why is that?
	Let's start with Taylor.
	I feel like if there's a reason that the woman's not wanting to be intimate with the man, I feel like if there's like the connection, like if everything's good in the relationship, the woman's going to want to be intimate.
	Yeah.
	So she should be the one to leave if she's not happy and not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend.
	You got a point there.
	Yeah.
	That's a good point.
	So she should just be big enough to be like, I'm not happy enough to or communicate.
	Yeah.
	I don't even, I don't know if that's always true, though, that there's something wrong.
	Yeah.
	Like.
	There isn't.
	I mean, sometimes over the long term, I just see so many.
	This can get so complicated.
	But if the girl's constantly saying no, though, that's.
	Oh, no, no, no.
	I agree.
	I didn't say, I mean, I don't think it's where sex is a big part of a relationship, but I've just seen so many relationships where there's so many different reasons that like a woman loses her desire to have sex.
	And it's not always hormones, mental load, having young kids.
	Like, there's so many issues.
	Yeah.
	I think the fact of like, oh, you're not having sex with me anymore, I'm leaving.
	And rather than like trying to address like what she said, traumas and stuff, I feel like that would be the more mature space for her to be comfortable and then, you know, be able to figure out why it is she doesn't want to have sex because there's always a reason.
	It's not just, I don't want to have sex with her.
	Can men do this though?
	Like, you know what, Ben?
	I'm kind of, I don't feel like providing anymore.
	I kind of am tired of going to work.
	Let me tell you.
	I am tired of going to work.
	Peace out.
	I'm just not going to work anymore.
	You know, I worked at a Jamaican restaurant.
	My best friend at the Jamaican restaurant, she had a deadbeat boyfriend.
	They were living in a crack house that had five rooms.
	She was going to work every single day to pay for that.
	He got thrown into jail.
	She sold her car to bail him out.
	He still didn't have a job and played Xbox on their air mattress every day.
	And she had to take the bus to work at the Jamaican restaurant.
	God, it was crazy.
	And then she asked me to have a threesome with him.
	And I was like, what the fuck?
	What?
	I did not do it.
	I was like, man, your boyfriend, no, thank you.
	But okay.
	And then, Cammie, why do you call me Cam though?
	That's easy.
	Cam.
	Why, why wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex?
	I'm going to be honest.
	I'm going to say it's like a 50-50.
	I guess I didn't understand it the first time, but after hearing it, I would say it just really depends on the situation.
	Like, if she's regularly turning him down and he's not sexually satisfied, I can understand why a man would be like, all right, I'm out.
	Like, I'm going to find another woman that I feel more physically, you know, involved with.
	And, you know, love is a big factor of a healthy relationship.
	So I understand that.
	But as far as like leaving her completely, I kind of agree with the other women saying that there should be an open discussion before just bailing out.
	Nice.
	Let's see here.
	We have women are oppressed in the USA.
	Colette, you agree?
	Cam.
	Surprise, surprise.
	Cam, you agree.
	We kind of talked about that, didn't we?
	Though, we talked about rights, but I feel like oppression is a little different.
	So I guess it's just you two.
	Women are oppressed.
	Can I just have you scoot your mic?
	Yes, yes.
	Scoot your mic to the edge of the table.
	Sure.
	And then like two inches, one inch that way, I guess.
	So women are oppressed in the USA.
	That's the position.
	Women are even back to your original point of like what a good deal it was to be at home for so long because the jobs were so crappy and it wasn't like a bougie Apple campus.
	The other side of that coin is that if women were in a relationship where the guy was abusive or violent or had an addiction, which is often the case, she had no way out.
	I still think despite modern times and women working, a lot of women feel trapped financially in relationships that they can't leave.
	They feel trapped by having children.
	They feel disadvantaged in the workplace.
	Same stuff I said before.
	And I see all of those things as a form of oppression.
	Well, I mean, all of these are active choices.
	So, if you choose to partner with somebody, you choose to have kids.
	That wouldn't be, I don't think that's oppression.
	If you're not able to leave because of your situation, well, I'm not saying it's like any one person's fault.
	I think it's an oppression by the societal system, by the economy, by the patriarchy.
	Well, so should women just abandon their children if they're not happy with others?
	Well, then they're being what's the solution to the oppression?
	I don't know what the exact solution to the oppression is, but I do think women are still oppressed in modern society because so many women cannot afford, if forget the children for a minute, although that's that is part of it.
	So many women do not.
	I see it at my office all the time where people are in situations where they're not being treated well.
	They're emotionally or physically abused and they don't feel like they have the means to leave.
	Well, yeah, that's wrong.
	That's obviously wrong.
	But I mean, I'm not even sure, acknowledging that, of course, like physical abuse, emotional abuse, other kinds of abuse are wrong.
	I don't know.
	That's not what I would characterize as oppression.
	Okay.
	When I'm thinking of oppression, I'm thinking of like the government is oppressing you.
	You're not only oppressed by the government.
	Well, Brian might disagree in the chat's probably going to disagree, but and this is another lived-tarted take, but um, I do kind of think women are a little bit oppressed.
	I know that like uh sounds like I know that sounds insane to be like you gotta read Rachel Wilson's book, but this is why this is why I believe, and Rachel and I have debated this stuff because she caused me to snimp on a blunt.
	Oh, shit.
	Women have been oppressed by society to make them kill their baby, and that's why so many women have abortions.
	That's due to oppression.
	So, that because of the oppression, that's why so many women are motivated to kill their baby so callously.
	And I think abortion, if women weren't oppressed so much, there would be a lot less abortion.
	So, yeah, I do think that women are oppressed because the abortion thing just like society encourages them to not have a baby.
	They tell them it'd be better if their baby was dead than had to be a poor baby.
	So, yeah, I think women like have it harder than men in certain circumstances.
	So, I do think women face oppression.
	I see.
	Okay, interesting.
	Because of society more brainwashing.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Women are brainwashed, yeah, and oppressed by society that it's like okay to just have very easily brainwashed.
	Yeah, so I do, and I feel like I feel like women are more vulnerable than men, so they're easily to they're easier to oppress.
	So women are more vulnerable than men.
	And I think black women, and I'm not trying to make it about black, are even the most oppressed because they lead the league.
	Part of Philadelphia.
	Don't forget that.
	Black women actually lead the league in abortion.
	They've actually, they've killed more young black women through that oppression, through convincing other black women to have abortions.
	And that's what kills the most women is actually abortions because some of those babies, half of them are going to be women.
	So people don't even realize that women are oppressing their own people, their own other women, by having the abortion.
	And I think just the fact that women have to fight 10 times or if not 50 times harder for their rights and their voices to be heard, that is oppression.
	The fact that choices are being made by a man such as Donald Trump and all these other people, is that not oppression?
	Why is a man telling a woman what to do with her body, when to do it, all these different things?
	That's not up for a man's choice to make.
	And that itself is abortion or in general.
	Well, I'm being opposite.
	You and I actually have opposite viewpoints.
	I think that the fact that you're letting them kill their baby and convince him to do it is like evil and sick.
	I'm not saying, I'm not saying abortion.
	I'm just saying in general, like just the fact that women's rights have been a topic for men.
	That is oppression.
	That's part of the ones, though.
	Since the beginning of time, abortion or non-abortion, whatever you guys want to label it as.
	I'm just simply saying, regardless of your Democrat or Republican, I'm not trying to get political about it.
	I'm just simply saying, why is a man telling a woman what to do with her body?
	Is that not oppression?
	Well, I don't think men want to.
	Men don't want to tell women.
	First of all, men do not want to tell women what to do with their bodies, but I just think the men that are pro-life want the baby to have that choice.
	They value the baby's life just as much as a woman.
	Like the reason why I'm anti-abortion, because if a pregnant woman gets hit by a drunk driver, they charge the drunk driver with a double homicide if she's pregnant.
	So according to the law, that is a life.
	And I think that that life should be protected.
	Now, I understand how women are like, well, I'm not going to be able to financially afford this baby, but most people are having abortions out of convenience because they cannot afford to have the baby.
	That's the majority.
	In the instance of rape and incest, I think abortion is okay in that instance.
	But that's the only instance, and I don't really like it in that instance.
	But of course, rape and incest, that's a horrible situation.
	But that's not what is happening.
	What is happening, the majority, the mass majority of people that are getting abortions are doing it purely for convenience.
	And that is wrong.
	And that's why I don't like it.
	So I don't think it's really people trying to tell people what to do with their body.
	They're trying to protect the bodies that can't speak for themselves.
	Also, Taylor, you're Gen Z, right?
	Or are you waiting Gen Z?
	I am Gen Z. You're Gen Z.
	I saw a stat that one-third of Gen Z was aborted.
	Oh, yeah.
	I think it's even more than that.
	Yeah.
	The amount because I asked ChatGPT for all the right numbers because I'm not good with numbers and rumblings.
	But the amount, Brian, like the U.S. population should be like triple or something.
	It's something crazy.
	The population should be so much higher.
	Actually, because people our age, our generation, have had the lowest amount of kids, I think, ever.
	And that's why, like, I was talking about earlier, when like we talk about racism and like people want to blame white, but like globally, white people are less than 8% of the population and shrinking dramatically.
	So it's like everybody has a different perspective.
	You know, Indian people feel like they're oppressed, black people feel like they're oppressed.
	You know, everybody feels like they're oppressed because probably everybody.
	Nick, a couple things.
	In the research tab, we got Alex in Dreads in the research tab.
	And there's another thing in Discord I want you to pull up.
	Do this first.
	It's the research tab, research tab.
	You're going to go to MISC, Miscellaneous, and then you're going to scroll halfway up.
	There's like an anime.
	Oh, that's just interesting.
	There's an anime thing that it's like a guy in glasses.
	Do you see it?
	Miscellaneous.
	Misk.
	And then you're going to scroll like halfway up.
	You got it?
	And then, I'm sorry, can you say the little glass or whatever?
	So I'm going to add the.
	There's like an anime thing where there's a it's next to like a circle graph.
	Yeah, just pull that one up.
	Men killing one billion people in wars over all of human history, women killing 1.3 billion people via abortion since 1980, and then tab over to the next one, United States Deaths, Roe V. Wade, and then Civil War, World War II, World War I, Vietnam War, Korean War War yep, is this, is this accurate?
	Yes yes, and half of those, half of those people that were killed were women.
	Wow, and half yeah, of those were men.
	Yeah, that's how it works.
	Well, that's how math works there.
	Um, and then wait, there's the oh, Alex Stein and the dreads in uh, Cornrows or Cornrows.
	Yeah, you should do it, I will do it, i'll, i'll literally steal anybody's culture.
	I'm a culture vulture.
	I don't give a damn.
	If we get the likes to 3000.
	Oh, that looks badass, That's sick.
	You look a little older, though.
	I know I don't care about Mario.
	I feel like in that Mario movie, I know, dude, I look badass.
	I look like a gamebanger.
	Yeah, like a mouse.
	You look for the make the background blimp, though.
	No, I kind of like the whatever podcast.
	Put a little like, make my nose like I have cocaine on it.
	Looks like I am using cocaine in my picture, but it's a good picture.
	Oh, no!
	Oh my god!
	The other thing is better, but I like that.
	I like the language.
	You look bad, though.
	How does it know my Charlie Kirk thing like this?
	I took that picture of you, a screen grab.
	You already did that.
	That's a fair profile picture.
	Yeah.
	Wow.
	AI is crazy.
	Really quickly, we'll do the age and then the gender.
	Do we have those?
	Yeah.
	Okay, we do a fun segment where we put everything.
	Oh, I didn't.
	Did I ask the question?
	Okay, I'll do it super quick.
	Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?
	Better looking, 10 years' time.
	Yes.
	At 47 versus 37.
	20 years' time, better looking at 57?
	Maybe.
	Then now at 37.
	Okay, let's go back to 27.
	Better looking at 27 or better looking now?
	I'm better looking now.
	And then let's go to 18.
	Better looking at 18 or better looking now?
	No.
	Okay, to you.
	26, better looking in 10 years' time?
	36.
	You know, maybe.
	Maybe 36, but after that, maybe not.
	Okay, what about you?
	100% now.
	And then 52, were you better at 42, better looking?
	Yes.
	32?
	Definitely.
	That was my peak.
	22?
	Yeah, then now, yeah.
	22 versus 32.
	32.
	22 versus 42.
	Ooh.
	Ooh.
	That's hard.
	I'm going to go 22, but it's like kind of close, maybe.
	What about you?
	Oh, better looking in 10 years' time?
	39?
	Say yes or no?
	Yes.
	Based, submissive housewife.
	Black don't crack.
	I think we got to remember is submissive, but that's Filipino.
	That's like a defect of good ages.
	No, it's true.
	He's a good person.
	Filipino women are nice like that.
	You know, they try to be, and they love you.
	It's in our culture to be like clean and I don't know what it is.
	It's like a real thing.
	He's not lying.
	Well, is your mom Filipino or is your dad?
	My dad's black.
	And my mom's Asian.
	Gotcha.
	And your dad was in the military?
	No.
	Surprisingly, no.
	Yeah, and everyone else.
	Better looking 20 years, 49.
	Yeah.
	59?
	I hope so.
	69?
	Black don't look at it.
	Okay.
	Are you better looking today at 29 or better looking at 19?
	Yeah.
	Better now versus 19.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	In 20 years?
	Well, you're 31.
	I'm 31.
	Better in 41?
	Yes.
	51?
	Yeah.
	61?
	No.
	And then let's go back 21?
	No.
	Better now?
	Yes.
	Better at 31 versus 21.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Going to you, 34, 44.
	Better looking?
	No.
	34 going back, 24.
	Better looking now or 24?
	24.
	Okay.
	Sorry, for some reason, I didn't have to put your age down.
	I'm 32.
	Okay, 42, better looking?
	Sure, yeah.
	52?
	Yeah.
	62?
	No.
	Okay.
	22.
	Better looking?
	No.
	Okay.
	Better looking now.
	Yeah.
	Do you think you'll be better looking at 42 or when you were 22?
	Okay, 22 probably now.
	Taylor, you're 18, 28, better looking?
	Yeah.
	38, better looking?
	Yeah.
	Then now, at 18?
	Oh, no.
	But 38 better than 28?
	Okay.
	Maybe.
	So 28 peak, I guess.
	There is this weird thing like you were saying.
	Like, you can be hotter at 30 than you are.
	My mom is like 200.
	My mom's really good looking, too.
	You kind of.
	Well, I know, I know, Brian, you would think 20 would be like your peak, but I would argue that like 30, maybe you've gotten your health and wellness better.
	I don't know.
	You've grown into a womanly shape rather than you're not.
	It could be the other way, yeah.
	But I just had my high school red.
	30 is the best.
	I just had my high school reunion.
	There's actually a lot of girls there that were pretty in high school, that were ugly now, and girls that were ugly in high school that look good now.
	Totally.
	Of course, of course.
	People have glow-ups and things change.
	People lose weight, gain weight, whatever, whatever.
	Wait, hold on.
	20-year-old women don't have child bodies.
	That's ridiculous.
	I mean, some people develop at different ages.
	I think that like 18, 19, 20, like once you get to 25, your body starts.
	Puberty.
	No, it's not all about puberty.
	Sometimes your hips widen, you get a bigger butt.
	My mom didn't get her shape until after she had children.
	She was like stick thin, and now she's got triple D's.
	And you know, when I was in high school, guys were saying that my mom was a MILF.
	But, you know, I still think she was attractive when she was younger, but she has a different body.
	Yeah, but this idea that, okay, then how about a woman who actually her body shape doesn't really change all that much throughout the course of her life?
	I'm not going to attribute to like, I'm not going to attribute that she has a childlike body and she's like 30.
	That's ridiculous.
	There are definitely some women who, like, my grandmother has the body of a 12-year-old boy.
	You know, like, and there are women who have no boobs.
	Yeah, but they stay skinny their whole entire life.
	I don't necessarily think that like not having shape to you is attractive.
	Hold on.
	That's, I feel like that's super insulting to women with small boobs.
	Whatever.
	This idea.
	I don't care.
	I have big boobs.
	I like big boobs.
	Well, no, no, but what I'm saying is, it's like, first off, you're suggesting that what are these women with small boobs to do?
	Are they supposed to have concern that any man who finds her attractive is like a pedo?
	Is that what you're suggesting?
	No, I'm not.
	I don't know.
	I mean, you think men in order to not be a pedophile, you can only like women who happen to have large boobs.
	No, but you know, maybe they're okay.
	I don't know.
	But you do acknowledge like a woman with a man's body, then maybe.
	I don't know.
	Hold on.
	Women, hold on.
	First off, women with small boobs don't have a man's body.
	Boobs are maternal.
	They are feminine.
	They're feed life.
	Do I have a man's body?
	No, I think you're very, well, I mean, you, I love your corset, by the way.
	But you do have smaller boobs.
	But, you know, her boobs are fine.
	You're also.
	Don't come for my girl Taylor.
	She asked me.
	She asked me to.
	First off, by the way, I want to say something about the boob thing.
	First off, I'm part of the itty-bitty titty committee.
	I'm a small titty defender.
	I'm a little bit more.
	I know.
	You like the big labias.
	Yeah, I'm sure.
	I'm a more and more.
	I'm like labia-ass boobs, whatever.
	I actually think an argument can be made in terms of beauty.
	Now, I think women with giant can knockers like yourself, can crushers, excuse me.
	Give me a can, I'll crush you.
	You got big, giant titties.
	You can be hot.
	You can be sexy.
	Oh man, I'm going to get a lot.
	I have macromancia.
	My boobs are unrealistic.
	Love that for you.
	So, anyways, but I think there is something elegant about smaller breasts.
	You look at these statues, Greek and Roman statues.
	These women don't have giants.
	The guys have small penises.
	Yes, statue of kids.
	There's a reason for that.
	That's why I'm a 9.9.
	Elegant, elegant.
	These Greek Roman statues, these women have beakups.
	I don't know.
	In Greek Roman statues.
	The statue of Aphrodite, I don't know.
	She has a little bit of a body.
	She has boobs.
	She's not skinny.
	She doesn't have a boyfriend.
	But she doesn't have giant feminine hand crusher titties, lady.
	I'm not saying that I said I have macromancy.
	I'm not saying my level of boobs is a humble B cup.
	Well, what I think would be listening, you have great boobs, but they're not huge.
	They're like a good handful.
	They're probably above average, right?
	I mean, I don't know.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	They're bigger than mine.
	I think everyone besides you has a decent handful of boob.
	Well, I don't think that's what you mean.
	But when you're describing 20-year-olds, I don't think she was like describing like pre-pubescent.
	She's a child.
	She said child.
	Oh, you did?
	Okay, hold on.
	You said child.
	She did, actually.
	Yeah, which is insulting.
	I mean, if they're flat, completely flat.
	But you acknowledge.
	It is a child body.
	You acknowledge not going through puberty.
	That's not true.
	You do acknowledge that there are women who they're adult women.
	They're older than you.
	And that's their genetics.
	They have small boobs.
	Yeah, okay.
	But like what boobs?
	I don't understand the question.
	Also, I feel like it's a little bit, it could be a little racist.
	Racist?
	Well, because maybe this is, I don't know if this is like a malnutrition thing.
	I think it's a little racist because I think, you know, in certain, you know, for example, Asian countries, the women in Asian countries have tend to have smaller boobs.
	I'm deeply offended.
	Every Asian woman I've slept have had boobs.
	Real?
	Are you a lesbian?
	Is that real?
	So you're bisexual, too.
	You're probably gosh.
	Were you counting women?
	She's pants and counting women.
	Yeah, I was just counting bodies.
	She fucks silverware.
	No, I would just say men and women.
	I don't have sex with women anymore.
	That was a certain time in my life.
	I just don't understand.
	So I don't understand this, though.
	So, like, I don't know.
	It's kind of weird.
	Just like a woman with small breasts is a woman.
	I'm just strictly talking about women that are flat as a board.
	Okay.
	And like, yeah, even though flat A-cup, I don't know if you'd consider B-cup with her.
	I don't know.
	Flat A-cup.
	These are still, they don't have childlike bodies.
	There's other areas of a woman's body that can be, you know, more womanly, as you would say.
	Or even if it's not, though, if a girl has a small butt, she's not less of a woman.
	I didn't say that they were less of a woman.
	Well, her.
	They're fully a woman.
	Women come in.
	It's different to be a man.
	Women come in different shapes and sizes and trying to like pathology.
	I think you're trying to pathologize.
	Men who have like an attraction to like heaven forbid a man value something beyond just she's got a big ass and uh, giant titties, like there's.
	But we're in swipe culture, like that's what men are judging first.
	They're judging the way a woman looks, just like women are judging the way a man looks.
	Do some hip, hip thrusts and you're good, you get literally, but that's still you building a figure.
	That's still building a more desirable thing.
	I don't think it's wrong.
	Like if a guy's like I, what if she's got a fucking lethal face card but she's got no ass and no boobs?
	Plenty of guys will still date her.
	Yeah no, i'm not saying that they're not desirable at all and that there aren't people who want them, but they're not weirdos they're.
	These guys aren't weirdos.
	Could be they.
	I mean, they could be, just like the guys who want to be with me because I have big boobs.
	They are weirdos too.
	What do you Is a bigger weirdo thing.
	So, the guy who sees a 30-year-old woman who has small boobs and no buttons and no butt, and he's like, I'm attracted to that 30-year-old woman who has those characteristics.
	Or what's more weird, uh, you acknowledge that there are-I mean, this is, I feel, this is weird to even say, You acknowledge that there's like women who are underage who are like developed, so to speak.
	Yeah, what's more weird than having an attraction to the 30-year-old or having an attraction to the undermined who has the body, like you know what I mean?
	The 30-year-old isn't what I'm talking about.
	The men who want to date a girl who is between the age of 18 and 22, who has an undeveloped body, that's what I'm talking about.
	If I'm not talking about older women, I'm just saying it's weird for men to want to date very young women who have no body.
	I mean, it is, you know, that's what I'm a little bit more concerned about in the creepiness.
	If they're 25, or if the woman's 30, 25 is still getting older.
	What?
	I mean, no, no, but I'm confused here.
	So, the confused too.
	We've gone on with this a long time.
	Yeah, I know.
	The original thing was, oh, a woman who's like small boobs, flat, less butt, whatever, not as curvy, whatever.
	That's like that's an indictment of men.
	No, I think we were talking about like attractiveness, and I was saying, like, a woman once she gets older and fills her, you know, womanly figure out, is more attractive than a child who does not have a figure or someone who is 18, 19, 20, 20.
	You understand that?
	These women are developed.
	That is the extent of their development.
	No, it is not.
	What about athletic women?
	I'm saying, what about like fit athletic women?
	I who have no chest or whatever.
	I'm literally talking about the younger age range that don't have completely developed bodies.
	Once you get older, when you're in your 30s, you do develop more of a body.
	But I did.
	Your hormones change, things change.
	I didn't, though.
	I was 34 with a double A cop and I was very insecure about my body.
	And I got I'm insecure about my body as well.
	Everybody is going to be insecure about their body no matter what, because everybody is going to want something different than what they have unless you are incredibly confident in yourself.
	Yeah, comparison is a thief of joy.
	You shouldn't compare titties to other girls.
	Magic and Alex Stein.
	Don't compare titties to other girls.
	The thing that is damaging is all the OnlyFans chicks that are really good looking that pose themselves naked.
	It's damaging to young girls' self-esteem.
	100%.
	Go in, Taylor.
	Unrealistic.
	Go in, Taylor.
	Go off, Queen.
	Yeah, because you're like the MAGA princess.
	I want to see some more fire.
	Like, yell at the porn star, yell at the younger people.
	Yeah, you're going to have someone yell at me.
	I just think women who coming from somebody who is very small statured, who I had three children and I still didn't have any boobs.
	And I have three children?
	I think three children.
	One in child, or one as a teenager, and then two with a surface.
	Yeah, two.
	Okay, yeah, yeah, that's right.
	And your boobs didn't get bigger at all from the baby.
	They did, and then they shrunk smaller than what they were before.
	So I red guy 40.
	I made the decision to get breast augmentation.
	A lot of very skinny women, especially OnlyFans women, who don't have any boobs but have a nice figure end up getting boobs.
	And that is a societal pressure that is placed on the sex community that is damaging.
	Excuse me.
	And it's damaging to the rest of they are just as pressured to have a good body.
	I am just as pressured to have a sexualized body.
	And it's damaging to me as well as the rest of the community.
	But this is what society expects from us at this point.
	All these women just want to, you know, I just want these like giga-chats.
	I don't know.
	I'm just living up to other people's expectations and live up to your own.
	100%.
	100%.
	Thank you.
	I haven't gotten any surgeries on myself despite the incredible, like, you know, people wanting me to get a tummy tuck or BBL, like, you know, anything like that.
	I will not do it.
	Don't wear makeup on my social media.
	I try to be as natural as I possibly can.
	You guys do.
	This is the conversation we're having.
	I'm the only one who gets interrupted like you know the most popular cosmetic surgery is.
	Do you know what it is?
	I actually know's job maybe.
	Liposuction.
	Yeah, I better use breast implants.
	Isn't that the most popular?
	I know.
	I was shocked too.
	Yeah, I guess maybe because maybe men get it too.
	I don't know.
	But yeah, liposuction is.
	Yeah, you can fact check that.
	But why don't you give a liposuction?
	You ever thought about that?
	I haven't.
	No, I have, but I refuse to do so because I it's definitely damaging to women to feel like in order for me to make more money, I need to be a certain way.
	Gosh, I wish I definitely wish that I was skinnier.
	I pay tons of money to a personal trainer.
	I, you know, try and change my diets.
	I try to exercise.
	I try to do whatever it is I can, and I still can't even fit my own idea of what I think a woman should be.
	Care to stop being a frigging weirdo with the bunnies talk.
	Just stop it already and move on.
	Changed the pedo to when did I talk about bunnies?
	It was furries?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Oh, the program changed it.
	We're going to do the age thing really quick.
	Blast through it if we can.
	Oh my God, I can't wait.
	All right.
	Or should we wait?
	We'll wait until chair four is back really good.
	Guys, I've lowered the read.
	Oh, I need to do that.
	TTS is going to be 69.
	We're going to do a roast session, then try to finish up a few notes, then get finish up with the show.
	But we are lowering the TTS here.
	So $69 TTS.
	Nice.
	That's the roast.
	It's already, we'll probably just leave it there.
	That'll probably be the roast session, the threshold.
	$69 TTS.
	That's streamlines.com slash whatever.
	Get it in.
	$69 TTS.
	And you guys, you can roast me.
	You can roast the legend himself, Alex Stein.
	Alex Stein, Pimp on the Blimp.
	Please roast me.
	You can roast Taylor, the helicopter mechanic.
	She's worked on some Blackhawks, some Apaches.
	I have not worked on Blackhawks.
	She actually worked on Kobe Bryant's helicopter.
	She also worked on the.
	Remember the helicopter that crashed in the river or whatever?
	She did work on that one.
	I heard through the creepy.
	You can roast her, you can roast her, you can roast everybody.
	Roast everybody.
	Have a good time.
	$69 TTS, a roast session.
	You can also do QA if you want to ask a question, whatever, whatever.
	All right.
	Final few things here.
	Oh, the.
	Okay.
	Yes, of course.
	Let's.
	Oh, wait.
	She's not back.
	We got to wait.
	Hey, yo.
	Let's go.
	Don't make me bust out the Tagalog.
	I'm going to.
	I'm a Tagalog.
	Tagalog.
	All right.
	We've aged advanced, all of you.
	Oh, now.
	Love this part.
	Oh, my God.
	But like, that's definitely not 50 than 60.
	I think that's like 60 than 60 smaller.
	Yeah.
	That's painful.
	Yeah.
	Oh, now I know what to expect if I ever get it.
	Oh, thank you for being back.
	Go back.
	You're so cute.
	I think I'll be cute as an old person.
	Next.
	My glasses.
	Ah.
	Ah!
	Cute.
	That is scary.
	Next.
	Oh, my God.
	You look scary.
	You look more Hispanic than Filipino or black.
	All of a sudden, you're a big booty Latina.
	Next.
	Okay.
	You look really good.
	Nice.
	Classic surgery face looks next.
	Oh.
	I don't presumably not that bad.
	Like, I don't know.
	You're not really cute.
	Just wrinkles.
	Yeah.
	We could be friends.
	Yeah.
	Next.
	Okay, you're looking good, okay?
	Yeah, yours is one of the best ones so far.
	Next.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Yours looks hot.
	I'm also 18.
	Oh, my God.
	That looks like my dad.
	That looks like my dad.
	That's so exciting.
	Yes.
	Oh, my gosh.
	I do not like that.
	You're still going to get pussies.
	My baby over there.
	Next.
	Oh, God.
	Oh, God.
	Felicity back there.
	I don't know why your nose looks like it morphed more at all.
	Next.
	That's weird.
	Oh, Santa.
	It seems like you just became an alcoholic.
	I love the rosy cheeks.
	Yeah, your face just got red.
	I'm a little red.
	You know, I'm a little red naturally.
	I think you're having those orgies in the.
	And then we have gender.
	We've swapped your genders.
	So the question is: would you date the male version?
	I'm going to look like my brother.
	Really quick, actually, I have two chats coming in.
	Two chats.
	Chore XD donated $69.
	Love you out.
	Broke up with a girl over your original AOC video.
	Funny enough.
	Andrew needs to beat some more simp out of you.
	Now that we're having full small hat convos, can we get Sam Hyde on next?
	That's who you need to have on, my buddy, Sam Hyde.
	That would be sick if you had Sam on.
	He does fish tank, right?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Wait, you were on.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And it's going to come out again.
	I can't reveal too much.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I work on that project.
	But Sam, dude, you would get millions of views.
	Do you think you'd do a show like this?
	He would probably.
	Sam is this is one thing.
	He's a character, right?
	He's an interesting guy.
	He's actually really down to earth, but he does his thing where like everybody wants him on his podcast and he'll only go on a couple podcasts because like he doesn't he's just like an artistic guy.
	He doesn't want to be on every show.
	You know what I mean?
	But I feel like he would come on.
	Nobody.
	Yeah, you don't have Sam would probably come on this one because it's kind of iconic.
	You know what I mean?
	So he would like that.
	You just have to get him on a good month.
	Yeah.
	Do you know Sam?
	No.
	I mean, he's the one who is kind of like Charlie Kirkenham, kind of blooded head.
	No, that's Nick Quentin.
	Can you beg Rachel Wilson about feminism, including your claims about female oppression in North America?
	Oh, that can be fun.
	Sure.
	Well, we have Andrew Wilson coming soon, so I don't know if you'd want to hop on another panel, but I think I'd like to.
	Pace to George, thank you for the TTS.
	Appreciate it.
	We're going to do the gender swap.
	Where's my girl?
	Where's my girl Cam?
	Where is she?
	Where is she?
	Did she leave again?
	Yeah, she's not.
	Oh.
	Is it because she saw the photo of her when she was oh no, stop.
	Felicity, you want to take the seat then?
	All right.
	Gender swap.
	Boom.
	Oh, wow.
	I feel like a Russian man.
	Yeah.
	He looks like he might have a little bit of depression.
	You look like an actor, but I can't think of the actor.
	He's looking.
	A little bit.
	A little Edward Norton.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	I love the middle picture of Edward Norton for sure.
	I look way better in this guy.
	Next.
	I think I'm going to look like my brother.
	Oh, yeah.
	I think I'm skinnier.
	That's all right.
	You look like Ryan Goslinger.
	Oh, you do.
	A little bit.
	He kind of looks sweet.
	He looks Swedish, so I feel like I wouldn't say no to a date.
	It depends on if he's got a good personality.
	Wait, are those actually glass?
	Yeah.
	Oh my gosh.
	I don't have it.
	Oh, God, those are really great.
	I can't actually read any of your water bottle or the popcorn thing.
	I can see the whatever, but.
	Next.
	What?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	He's not bad.
	I don't know.
	I would not date him.
	I was like, no, but he's not bad.
	He looks like Twin.
	He does.
	And he just.
	He doesn't look like he'd be into women.
	I think my guy version is definitely gay.
	Right?
	Maybe a little bit.
	Wait.
	Oh, I forgot to ask.
	Would you date him?
	Oh, yeah.
	He's not my type, but sure.
	A little closer to the mic.
	You date the male person.
	Oh, yeah, sure, sure.
	Would you date the male version?
	I would go on a date with him for sure.
	Definitely not.
	I guess we'll show hers if you want to.
	I'm not into it.
	Oh, he's cute.
	He's definitely a little bit more.
	Don't think that guy is cute.
	That guy's definitely on the podcast.
	He's definitely Asian.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Maybe without the facial hair.
	He would need to be deported immediately.
	I would call ice on him immediately.
	Yeah.
	I would lie.
	I would make up a reason to deport him.
	Oh.
	Okay, he's not bad.
	I won't date him because he's a corn star.
	I won't date him because he's a corn star.
	I love you.
	I feel like you should have an accent.
	So, are you Asian?
	Am I Asian?
	My family is from Guam.
	Oh, so it looks good.
	It's funny how AI can pick up that you're Asian.
	That's crazy.
	I don't want to be careful.
	She is, obviously.
	AI detected it.
	They made her Chinese.
	He wants to learn more.
	I love Larry David.
	Ew.
	Are we clipping this?
	Okay.
	All right.
	I guess she's Asian.
	All right.
	Next.
	Ooh.
	Okay.
	Why is he so red?
	We have a parole officer vibes.
	Yeah, for sure.
	Cop.
	Next.
	Oh, okay.
	He looks a little short, though.
	He's five centimeters.
	Yeah.
	Like 5'3, 163 centimeters.
	Short thing, but he's cute.
	He's cute.
	He's nice.
	He looks like a ballroom dancer, right?
	Yeah.
	Oh, he's the kid.
	He's in the Asian stars.
	She's Canadian.
	Oh, yeah.
	Brazilian portico.
	I feel like they're going to.
	There's really some opportunity here with Taylors, but I don't.
	They probably.
	Why are you saying that?
	Oh, okay.
	No, he could be a model.
	They could have made him all 80s or something there.
	I don't know.
	Very nice.
	Soon, I'm going to go in.
	I'm going to be the hottest.
	You're going to be chicken.
	Taylor, would you date her?
	Oh, my gosh.
	Dude, I am not hot.
	I'm ugly.
	I'm not ugly.
	Would you date her?
	No, go back to me.
	No.
	I feel like that's a really bad picture.
	There we go.
	Yeah, dude.
	No way.
	So creepy.
	She's confident.
	She's confident.
	Yeah, I don't know that.
	That is ugly.
	It looks like that.
	That's Mad TV sketch where it's like creepy.
	You agree.
	She's trying to seduce you.
	He's like killing me in the middle.
	He's not a good healthy man.
	Go back to Taylor really quick.
	Yeah.
	Taylor, would you date the male version of you?
	I think I kind of already am dating the male version of me physically.
	Oh, actually.
	I saw who.
	Yeah.
	He looks like people have questioned us being twins, not siblings, twins.
	This is what I look like.
	This is, I don't know if you guys ever seen me.
	Do you have like a photo?
	I don't remember.
	No, you look better than I think.
	I think he looks more like me than that picture.
	Yeah, we see a mad TV.
	Yeah.
	Next.
	Whoa.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	That did not do you justice, Felicity.
	I'm sorry.
	Don't get us such pain.
	He needs going on there.
	Why is he like turning green?
	Yeah.
	Next.
	Malnutrition.
	Of course.
	Hey, you know, she's cute.
	She's babe.
	Absolutely.
	She's pretty.
	Sign me up.
	Okay.
	All right.
	We have donated $69.
	Definitely looks like it's not going to be a good detected opinions rejected.
	Care to Brian, but trade substance for spectacle.
	Bring arguments, not outfits.
	It reads like marketing copy with a pulse.
	This is one of my comm outfits.
	I'm not even going to lie.
	The last one I wore was way more booby.
	You guys thought my nipple was popping out.
	I don't like to have color, to be honest.
	You don't?
	It's just very neutral.
	Has anyone noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?
	They're gorgeous.
	Yeah, they're kind of scary.
	Diving in.
	Like, look at his eyes.
	They are blue.
	They're like the scary blue eyes.
	Somebody told me that.
	I don't know if this is a compliment.
	Some girl told me that I have eyes like Hitler.
	They were more blue when you were younger.
	I was like, what the fuck?
	No, they were more blue when you were younger.
	You look like you could be.
	Did you want to go to Art Store?
	Can we see that?
	Young Brian.
	Young Brian.
	Okay.
	It's a smile.
	Fucking gooner, Felicity, ever.
	I think the panel would appreciate it.
	Alex, what are your thoughts about the Zionists who follow the Talmud and the loved who live in other parts of the world?
	The world who follow the Torah.
	The Torah believers denounce the Talmud worshipers.
	Why?
	Well, you know, the Talmud and the Torah are two very complicated books with a long-standing history.
	And I just want to say Israel's the greatest country on earth.
	They deserve our undying support.
	And if you don't support them, you deserve to go to jail.
	So we love it.
	And six million people died in the Holocaust.
	And Jewish people deserve our sympathy 24-7.
	Oh, boy, Pasty George.
	What?
	You just don't want to.
	Well, people don't know the Talmud.
	No, because apparently there's parts of the Talmud that say like Jesus is burning an excrement or something.
	I don't know if that's true.
	I've read that part.
	But yeah, there are some weird parts in it for sure.
	Oh boy, Pasty George, he's going to.
	He's just going to give $3,000 in super chats.
	We can have a tough conversation, but I just want to say that Israel's the greatest country on earth, and they will pay you $7,000 per tweet if you say that.
	So it's worth it.
	And if you don't agree with them, bad things happen.
	Yeah.
	Could we not send Israel a shot to the max?
	Let's not.
	So, anyways, anyways.
	Somebody doesn't want to make $7,000 over there.
	I'm only for tweeting it.
	Yeah.
	You start tweeting it.
	Start tweeting.
	I love Biju and Nanyaho.
	How much could I make if I became you'd make a lot, Brian?
	You'd make a lot.
	Have you not gone out and have beat?
	Timeout, timeout.
	I don't want to get too deep into Israel conspiracy, but I don't want to get in any trouble with censors anymore.
	I'm not going to say anything like that.
	But you know, they've been trying to send me on the free trip.
	Have they not tried to send you on the free trip?
	No.
	I can get you on the trip tomorrow, and they would send you to the business.
	They've invited me, and I know the person that does it.
	I could get you a first-class trip to Israel leaving next Monday.
	You don't have to be.
	Look, they tried to get Charlie.
	It's called the Macabre Task Force.
	I know.
	Do you think they would bring you in Charlotte?
	How much could I sell my podcast to Israel?
	I don't know that.
	Do you think I could sell my podcast to them?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Bijun Nanyahu, yes.
	Do you want to do that?
	I don't know about buying your podcast.
	That's all pure speculation.
	This is not speculation.
	I know the company's called Macabre Task Force.
	I could get you on a business class flight.
	I said first class is business class, life flat seat, to Tel Aviv next week for free if you want that.
	And I've been invited on this trip.
	I have an open invite.
	They've been trying to get me there.
	I don't really fly.
	I appreciate the invitation.
	I'm not really.
	I don't want to go on the trip.
	They've been begging me to go.
	As a matter of fact, I'm not going to travel.
	I'm not a travel guy.
	Take your girl.
	Take your girl.
	I don't know.
	Do you want me to take my girlfriend to Israel?
	And then they film us having sex in the hotel room and then blackmail us every 10 years later.
	Stay away from it.
	So, anyways, anyways, Pacey George here.
	Stay away, but don't speak out against them.
	Okay, where were we?
	We were.
	Oh, I need to finish up some of the notes here.
	We have notes that you guys sent in.
	I'm going to blast through these here while we let the roast come in.
	$69 TTS.
	Excuse me if you want to do that.
	So, okay, we have Alex Stein.
	I think I pulled up.
	$50,000?
	No, not yet.
	I don't think that's a good question.
	Guys, hit that.
	I got to come back with all the big booty Latinas.
	If you guys do not hit that like button, I don't get the big booty Latina buffet that I'm promised.
	And, you know, you guys are all about keeping promises no matter if they're thousands of years.
	300 likes away.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Just hit that like button.
	It's free to hit the like button.
	I know some of you broke boys in the chat.
	You guys, anyone in a super chat, we can't afford that.
	Well, hit the like button, okay?
	Can you hit it multiple times or just once?
	Yeah, and they can log into different accounts and that's not TikTok live stream.
	So, anyways, let's see here.
	We did that.
	We have Melissa.
	She's Canadian.
	That needs to be mentioned.
	Just speak French or enough.
	Like a couple words, like and the Blue Jays are in the World Series.
	Yes, they are.
	That's a big deal.
	Watch the Dodgers, though.
	They want Go Dodgers as well for you guys, but damn it.
	So you said that you've certainly been the bad guy in some dating situations where you made mistakes.
	You write, you once completely forgot about a date you had planned because you just got in home after a long day of drinking with a different date.
	Oh my God, I said that.
	Damn.
	Chivalry.
	Chivalry?
	So yeah, like back in the day, I was a different human being.
	Body count changes a person, by the way.
	I am very particular now and do not just open my legs.
	So let me rephrase that.
	You used to have sex with men fairly quickly, but now the man has to do XYZ to go partying and get drunk and wake up and not know where I was.
	I don't do that now.
	Hey, Pacey, get your girl, bro.
	Pacey George, get your girl.
	I don't do that now.
	He's Canadian, eh?
	You'll literally learn either.
	Yeah.
	Oh, is it true?
	Is it 19 again?
	I didn't realize that.
	Let's see.
	You said you got home.
	You just gone home after a long day of drinking with a different date.
	That was fun to explain.
	You dated girls in the past.
	That was an experience.
	You're more interested in men now.
	Lol?
	Yeah, why do you think you were interested in that temporarily?
	Was it like society that women are attractive?
	Well, I get that because, like, obviously, I think I can see a guy and be like, that guy's, you know, handsome or something.
	But like, for you to want to have sex with a person, that's that's more than just being like, oh, that girl's pretty, right?
	So, like, what, what was like, oh, I'm going to eat her out now, you know?
	Yeah, I don't really like that.
	Yeah, it's just not my thing.
	I know, but do you think if society would have put in more guardrails and kind of like demonize people for being a whore like that?
	Then maybe you wouldn't have had that experience.
	And that would be better.
	His mom is God.
	Sorry.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I try to think about like where I see myself in the future.
	If I walk down the aisle, do I see myself getting married to a woman?
	No.
	Exactly.
	It is ludicrous.
	Don't want to bring a woman home to my mom?
	No.
	Yeah.
	Two women in tuxedos walking down an aisle.
	I mean, it's like a cartoon.
	Yeah, some men.
	Yeah.
	Let's see.
	You some dude who you used to go to high school with DM'd you on Facebook, and then like you weren't.
	It seems like you didn't know this, but when you show up to the date, what happens?
	Are we talking about the midget?
	We're talking about the midget.
	What?
	By the way, it wasn't even me.
	It was her first time.
	Dwarf.
	Yes.
	The polite.
	How tall?
	Don't be a height supremacist.
	Dwarf or little person.
	He was literally four foot.
	Please be respectful to the dwarf.
	Did he have a normal sized thing?
	Do you know anything?
	Oh, I didn't get that far.
	Yeah, he got really mad at me.
	Was he proportionate, just small?
	He was like an angry chihuahua.
	Like, did you show Chihuahua?
	Did you have carnal knowledge with him?
	Carnal.
	Sorry?
	Was he drinking?
	Did you get that far?
	He and the V. No, like, did you see that?
	We didn't even really go on a full date.
	So did you meet him at a carnival or something like that?
	Female.
	No.
	That's where they actually asked.
	Sorry.
	Oh, expose yourself, please.
	No, I'm trying to.
	I'm like, just for can someone set him up so he'll stop.
	Does anybody know?
	Like, does anybody know a female dwarf?
	Like, I'm trying to do that.
	I do know one.
	Yeah.
	Married.
	I know, but I do know one, man.
	That's not work.
	I mean, I don't personally.
	You want me to reach out to somebody?
	Oh, you actually don't want her to come on the podcast.
	You just want her.
	Well, actually, she can come on the show.
	And if we're vibing, we're violent.
	Because there's tons of influencers who are like little people.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Little people, big world.
	Yeah.
	Is there a dating app for little people?
	Because I'm trying to get on that show.
	That's probably interesting.
	Would they kick me off?
	Because I'm down.
	Why don't you make the app?
	A dwarf, huh?
	Yeah, you might make the app.
	You can develop apps with AI.
	Yo, anybody in the chat down to team up with the whatever podcast to develop a dwarf dating app?
	Dude, you just have to use like the upgraded AI and they'll make you apps now.
	I think the craziest thing about that, though, is that two dwarves can have a baby and it can be a tall baby.
	Yeah.
	That's crazy.
	That is crazy.
	The child can dwarf the parents.
	Parents.
	Yes, they can.
	Yeah.
	So, okay, you went on the date with the dude.
	You said that you're still willing to give it a try, even though it's not your usual type.
	But you're not physically attracted to people shorter than you.
	He got really mad, though, when you kind of turned him down.
	He was harassing you, and you never heard from him again.
	And then another little person also reached out to you.
	Oh, sorry.
	Yes, I'm mixing my story.
	Sorry, A.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so the first one was a guy that went to the same school as me, and he asked me out on a date.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay, all right.
	And yeah, we don't talk now.
	The second one also messaged me on social media, and I didn't know that he was a little person.
	And so he showed up at my door.
	I agreed to the date.
	My roommate was sitting on the door, the what do you call it? The porch, whatever.
	Was he like in a trench coach?
	He wouldn't get out of the car.
	He wouldn't get out of the car.
	He just wanted me to get in the car and we'd go on our date.
	And I said, No, you got to come out of the car, my roommate.
	That's the door.
	Katie, if you're watching this, you know who I'm talking about.
	Anyway, sorry, I'm going to move on.
	Wait, no, but this story is.
	That's why you like the 5-3 guy.
	Israel has recently bought out Express VPN and a few other VPN service providers.
	So the chance of Israel buying out the whatever podcast is high.
	No, you really are, Melissa, a really nice person.
	You've dated multiple dwarfs.
	Even the porch are over here, just me insinuating that she might have had to have sex with a dwarf is like the rudest thing she's ever heard in her life.
	Like that I would even make that joke.
	And you're so kind and nice.
	You've dated, gone and dates.
	Not just one little version, but two.
	Like, you.
	So, like, you're even nicer than the prostitute.
	That's pretty much.
	That's like.
	I have a type, but I will give you a chance to see if maybe my mind could change.
	I want to date with a short celebrity.
	Girls like short kings.
	I think he was like five, three.
	I don't know if he's shorter than that, but he's.
	And he was a celebrity?
	He is a celebrity.
	Who is he?
	Is that nice?
	I mean, no, no, no.
	He was on child TV show, children's TV show, and now he does other TV shows, something similar.
	I'm sorry.
	Was he in the sand lot?
	What, what?
	No.
	Oh, my God, my baby.
	Magic.
	Brian was nice enough to like me.
	Do you think that you got to talk to the mic though?
	Because they'll be on you.
	You know, before we came on the podcast, I am the simp on a blump, and I'm obviously in a very loving relationship.
	But did I simp too hard tonight?
	A little?
	No.
	It's been worse.
	I have been worse.
	Bless you.
	I have been worse.
	Yeah, no, I don't think it was bad.
	I mean, I feel like I was just being nice, you know?
	I mean, Colette, I kind of argued with her, but I wanted to be more like fighting, like be like, get your fat tits out of my face, stupid bitch.
	But she's really nice.
	You're really nice.
	You really are.
	And you're a pretty bass.
	Thank you.
	Everybody's been really cool.
	Oh, yeah, please.
	Oh, I'm Paige.
	I'm obviously Alex's girlfriend, and I'm 26 years old.
	How did y'all meet?
	I was working at One America News Network in San Diego, actually.
	And I worked for a talk show.
	He filled in for my boss, and then we went that way.
	But I'm from Texas originally and graduated from TCU and Fort Worth.
	And he's in Dallas.
	And I wanted to move back there anyway because I have friends there and all that stuff.
	So moved back and then we just go to dating.
	Very attractive call.
	I know, because we're going to have big babies.
	They're going to be big, good actors.
	Yeah, they better be.
	You just got to propose sooner because she's 26.
	We've got four 30.
	And I know.
	And Paige is smarter than me.
	She has a finance degree from TCU.
	And I got just a regular general studies degree, a bachelor's degree from LSU.
	So she's smart.
	She's tall.
	She's sexy.
	Come on.
	She's vibrant.
	She's not a whore.
	No.
	That's lovely.
	Unlike some people on this panel.
	Like the whores.
	Like the whores, like me.
	No, you're a semi-whore.
	I mean, I'm a recovered whore.
	Well, you're like a whore in training.
	Okay, this is the hard thing.
	This is a hard conversation.
	I didn't really want to get dark like this, but this is what I think.
	And once again, I'm sorry if I was being derogatory.
	I'm really not trying to be, but I feel like a lot of people have issues with sexuality later on in life because they face sexual trauma as a child.
	And you were talking about earlier how you were in a tough situation where people are moving you, or it sounded like it was kind of like a sex trafficking situation.
	I don't want to get too deep.
	I don't know how personal you want to get.
	But like, did you have any issues with sexual trauma growing up or anything?
	Do you think that's kind of what forced you into sex work or I guess pushed you in that direction?
	No.
	The way that I got into sex work was completely different from whatever assumptions you've had.
	Well, that's why I asked.
	Yeah.
	What is the, why did you, how did you get into it?
	Oh, I was 18 and I took a little I did because I thought you guys have like I thought you guys I saw you guys opening like shit.
	When they took $1,000, then we open up a bottle of champagne.
	Oh, I don't know.
	I just thought maybe people would bring it out or something.
	Yeah.
	So just brought something.
	Wait, but was like a boyfriend encouraged you to do it?
	Like Hawaii at 18, you're like, I'm just going to do this.
	So I was 18, right?
	And at the time, working minimum wage and going to school full-time, studying neuroscience, actually.
	And during that time, I had scholarship money, right?
	And that paid for part of my schooling, but not all of it.
	And I wanted to travel, but I wasn't privileged growing up, right?
	So I didn't have funds to do any kind of traveling outside of California outside of that area that I grew up in.
	So I was actually looking for a sugar dating situation.
	I was talking to people online, but I never actually met anyone.
	One of the gentlemen paid for a trip for me to go to San Francisco.
	He already had it booked for a work trip, but he needed to go to Vegas.
	So he just asked me if I wanted to just go there to San Francisco.
	So I went to San Francisco and I was wandering around by myself and I saw this big castle building and they were doing tours.
	I thought it was some kind of like renaissance place.
	So I went and took a tour.
	It was Kink.com is a BDSM porn studio.
	Kink.com.
	Yeah, and I had never.
	Your clothes fell off and your penis fell inside you?
	I mean, how?
	Yeah, exactly.
	That's exactly what happened.
	Well, but okay, well, but tell us.
	Well, sorry, I'm not trying to be sarcastic.
	Okay, so you go there, you go on the tour, and then what happened?
	They're like, yeah, so they did recruit me, yeah.
	But as an extra.
	Oh, yeah.
	So my first at one of the parties?
	No, on one of the films.
	And I know that they do like party films where it's like they have women.
	They're a public disgrace.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So I was on an all-female public disgrace as an extra.
	Well, I am interested in this.
	But no, no mask.
	There's an extra.
	Why didn't you, if you could already be with these like sugar daddy guys, like, why not just keep doing that?
	Why did you finally be like, all right, you know what?
	I'm going to do it.
	I guess that's my only question.
	It's like, seems like you're smart enough and attractive enough where guys are interested in you.
	They're flying me around.
	Like, why were you like, you know what?
	I'm just going to do it.
	I'm going to, you know.
	I never met with any of those guys.
	They weren't flying me around.
	Well, they flew you to San Francisco.
	No, I took a train.
	I paid for my own train.
	I was just staying.
	I could have sworn you said he took you on a trip to San Francisco.
	No, I said he had a trip paid for in San Francisco for himself, but then he needed to go to Vegas for work.
	So he couldn't get a refund and asked me if I wanted to use that hotel for myself, like just to take a little trip by myself.
	So, yeah.
	So I did.
	And then you went on a tour and then that's.
	And then I went on a tour and then they offered me a lot of money to just be an extra.
	It was a lot of money.
	At the time, so this was 2013.
	I was working, I think it was around $9.50 an hour.
	And so getting paid $1,600 to just be an extra.
	Wow, yeah, that was pretty good.
	Was really good.
	Yeah.
	And yeah, so it was a tough choice for me, you know, to say no when it was great.
	So do your parents know that you got into it?
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Yeah.
	That had to be hard, right?
	Yeah, no, it was really hard because, so I graduated from high school early with a lot of scholarships at 16.
	I was in college.
	And then, you know, everybody was kind of paying attention, like, oh, what is she going to do next?
	Right?
	Like, what's she going to do?
	Expecting a lot from me.
	And then I ended up doing porn.
	And of course, everybody found out because I live in a small town.
	And kink.com is, I mean, did you?
	King.com is here.
	But in a way, yeah, primarily for years.
	In a way, and I'm just maybe on Monday morning quarterbacking this.
	Like how you're saying that people expected a lot from you, and that is a lot of pressure.
	And so that causes, could you have done this knowing that they would take the pressure off you for whatever reason?
	Now people would have a different viewpoint of you because you did it.
	So like, do you think maybe you kind of self-sabotaged on purpose because of that pressure?
	I wouldn't necessarily say it was like self-sabotage.
	I would say that at the time, you know, being 16, 17, 18 years old in college, partying with college students, having sex with college students, put me kind of in a different mental state where I thought, you know, I'm doing all of this.
	I'm not getting paid.
	I'm getting nothing out of it, right?
	I'm getting nothing out of it besides like low self-esteem.
	I feel used.
	I feel degraded just in a regular life, right?
	Just dating, just trying to date in college.
	And so this did empower me to some degree.
	Yeah, it did empower me.
	It made me feel safe.
	Everybody's tested, right?
	Because to me, when I tell you, you just seem like you're smarter than a sex worker, you know?
	And I'm not trying to take that as a shot.
	I'm just saying it seems like you want to be successful.
	You're very articulate.
	So I just feel like you do.
	Maybe you're the best sex worker in the world, but I feel like you didn't take advantage of some of your talents.
	And maybe you still can't take advantage of your talent.
	So like any negative energy fell from me, it's not because I dislike you or I judging you.
	I just think that you could be incredibly successful.
	Thank you.
	You are worth so much more.
	You are worth more than letting strangers blast.
	We're doing the segment where everybody, every, everybody, everybody takes off their makeup.
	I don't even know if there's anything in there.
	There's one.
	I am not.
	Are you down to take your makeup off?
	I'm like, I don't really even wear it.
	Down those two people's phone.
	I don't have any makeup on.
	Down.
	I'm not being oppressed tonight.
	You're not being oppressed.
	I can't wait to take the makeup off.
	I'm freeing you.
	I'm freeing you.
	I hate using makeup wipes personally.
	I'm going to wash my face.
	That paint is oppressing your form.
	Free at last.
	Free as last.
	Somebody's going to send some baby wipes.
	Like, I'll go washing my face.
	Yeah, I'm going to need like three.
	Okay, here, we got some chats coming through.
	Pasty George, is everybody going to take their makeup off?
	Yes.
	I'm not wearing it.
	Pasty George said he would buy me a laptop.
	A laptop if I grab it.
	Takes off their makeup.
	Sure.
	Pasty George.
	We're going to have to wait till next year.
	What the?
	I should have left it on.
	Damn, bro.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	Brian, I'm First Nations Cree.
	Jeff Seven is gross to me, not because of her looks, but due to her past.
	Who's seven?
	Oh, well.
	Okay.
	Seven.
	Thank you.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	Thank you.
	Wow, that was very polite.
	Everyone acts their own type, right?
	Wait, wait, why?
	Gross is a strong word, Pasty.
	Gross is a strong word.
	Okay, we have wisdom here.
	Wisdom.
	Barrio Wisdom donated $69.
	Exquisite show tonight, Brixton.
	The rhetoric of empowerment rings hollow when purchased at the expense of tomorrow's stability.
	Time presents its invoice to every ego unbidden and undiscounted.
	That was beautiful.
	Yeah, posting.
	That's some Shakespeare shit, dude.
	Gorgeous.
	His name's Wisdom, so he's definitely barrier wisdom.
	Hold up the makeup wipe.
	Hold it up.
	Spread, spread, hold up.
	Hold it up.
	Show the damage.
	Show the damage.
	I'll take the makeup wipe just to prove that I have nothing on my face.
	Show the damage.
	You guys have been such great sports.
	Look at you, ladies.
	Yay.
	Oh, there you go.
	There it is.
	Okay.
	Cool, cool, cool.
	I love it.
	Hold on.
	Mary, can you just close the...
	Oh, I keep bumping this.
	Close the.
	Yeah.
	All right, we have...
	Okay, we're going to...
	TTS 69.
	We have some bit more notes.
	Marley, you wrote the...
	Or wait, hold on.
	Let me see if I'm actually there.
	Okay.
	Marley, you wrote the importance of body-mind-spirit connection, being established in mental and spiritual to the additional physical, deep intimacy.
	How the sex is transferring energy.
	I mean, actually, you touched on that a little bit like hours ago about how having a lot of partners, there's you didn't say it in these words, but the energetic exchange.
	100%.
	And oxytocin, like the hormonal response.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You said that with the majority of social interactions occurring online dating.
	Oh.
	What are the effects of the talking stage in comparison to what we call courting and dating?
	Do you think men should court women?
	Well, so this question, or sorry, this answer to what I was saying was when I'm not on like official social media apps, but like we've talked about, Facebook and IG are basically dating apps.
	I feel like there's so much time spent in the talking stage, and a lot of people, they feel like they develop a deep connection from talking because you get into very deep conversations usually, but it's still not sufficient to courting.
	And what I have to point out to continuously is just because we're at a talking stage doesn't mean that we're dating.
	That's what I was trying to establish because I think there's confusion because you have these really deep talks with someone and you feel close to them, but it doesn't.
	Is that closeness or is that an artificial thing from having a deep conversation?
	But to me, you have to go meet in person and have that personal exchange.
	I'm not saying for everyone, just for me, and that's why I thought it might be an interesting topic.
	Well, I feel like you can't have a deep conversation with somebody and then you're not courting them at all.
	You're not even sure you date them at all.
	100%.
	And it doesn't have to be romantic to have that.
	But I think there's confusion because we're able to cross so or we're able to gather so much information from people by having these conversations online without ever meeting that there's a false sense of closeness that isn't actually developed yet.
	Well, Brian has had, we have a bunch of parasocial relationships.
	There's people, and some do become my friends, but there's people that just watch my content and they think that they know me.
	Yeah, sure.
	That's what it happens.
	Or do they just know your persona?
	And that's the other problem with interacting strictly online is you're only presented a fractal of what that person wants you to know about them.
	They're giving you their best or whatever it is that they want to present to you.
	True.
	So like when women wear makeup and stuff.
	I will take it off everything, but not with this.
	I want to wash my face for real, not use this.
	That's my issue.
	Okay, moving on.
	Amelia, did we do your notes last time?
	Yeah.
	We went through them.
	Yeah, you didn't ask me for anything this time.
	Yeah.
	Like, for example, the whole swingers party stuff.
	Did we cover that?
	Yes.
	When you were on?
	Something about, let's see.
	And then you said, like, how porn's bad.
	Yeah.
	Okay, we talked about that.
	Yeah, I was in the first grade when I first was exposed to porn, and so I had a porn addiction.
	So I understand how it also affects other men.
	And porn addiction, I mean, is the main reason.
	I know, but we talked about it previously, right?
	I mean, maybe like gentlemen who are watching, she's been on the podcast before.
	Find her previous episode.
	We went over her notes on that one.
	Megan, let's see, state parole agent.
	You had a friends with benefits relationship in high school.
	You've been divorced twice, and you're not so keen on traditional rules.
	So I guess traditional dating, but you admit they do exist.
	But I mean, we did.
	I'm trying to remember here.
	Whoops.
	Are you more in favor of like tradition?
	You say men should provide, protect.
	Husbands should be willing to die protecting you.
	Take the bullet.
	But, yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, no, I think we talked about most of that.
	We have Colette, LMFT, LMHC, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, author.
	You were single for 10 years between marriages.
	You had every kind of dating experience.
	You did multi-millionaires, 15 years older, and you also dated a 22-year-old, younger guy, a cowboy, when you were pushing 40.
	You also dated a professional Italian soccer player who spoke no English.
	You once went on four dates in a single day.
	We talked about that.
	No sex.
	Your date.
	You got set up on it.
	You went on a blind date, and the guy said, I know your ex-husband.
	And wow, his new wife is really hot.
	What?
	That dated it fast.
	No, it wasn't.
	You had your first date where a guy literally pounded on the bathroom door so you wouldn't flush the toilet because he wanted to save water.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	If it's yellow, let it mellow.
	I mean, it was like, talk about a turnoff.
	I'm like, you're so into conservation.
	I can't flush your freaking toilet.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	Interesting.
	This was a guy you were dating for.
	No, no, no, no.
	This was the first date I did go back to.
	The first date.
	Do you not flush?
	Like, that's very interesting.
	Yes.
	It was nasty.
	Which did he want to put in?
	Did he catch it?
	You got loved bombed for four weeks and then ghosted on your 40th birthday.
	Yes, at my 40th birthday party.
	But you know what?
	The beautiful part of that story.
	I almost gave up on dating because I was so sad.
	And then I met my husband three weeks later.
	There you go.
	Yes.
	When one door closes, another one opens.
	Exactly.
	The universe will provide.
	Let's see.
	You wanted to talk about why compatibility is overrated.
	Yeah.
	So you're fine with age gaps then, I'm assuming.
	With what?
	Age gap relationships.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Like, because people often say, you know, these age gap relationships, what's the compatibility there?
	You know, I mean, I think if it works for the people in it, anything like I'm really not against anything that's legal and non-traumatizing, I guess.
	But I think that compatibility is not really the thing that people think it is.
	Nobody's really compatible.
	It's two people who choose to make it work because they want to.
	Okay.
	We already talked about the chivalry stuff.
	You let's see.
	Yeah.
	You said you'd also push back on asking women their body count.
	Yes.
	Even though I offered mine.
	You did provide it.
	That was appreciated.
	Yeah.
	You say it can carry implicit shaming, even if not intended.
	I do think that.
	I think I don't think society judges women the same way they judge men.
	Nobody's going to look twice if a man says he's had sex with you know 20 plus people.
	But if a woman says it, a lot of men and women will judge it.
	It's like double standard.
	Yeah.
	Just like a lot of things are in both directions, in fairness.
	But I mean, women can actually be the ones to uphold this.
	Women can just say, we don't want these promiscuous men.
	Women can say, we don't want to be dealing with these promiscuous men.
	If you're a man slut or whatever, then nah, fuck you.
	I agree.
	But they don't.
	They don't.
	We don't.
	But I think the reality is.
	Men also try to hide their male sluttiness.
	Well, men.
	Not back in my day.
	Men and women did tonight.
	Yeah, a little bit.
	But this is the other thing is I think some of you guys might not understand is that women, you guys actually do have a lot of the power because you have the, you know, you have the divinity portal.
	Your uterus literally is where life comes from.
	It's the portal of divinity.
	That's what they call it.
	Like without that, we all came from that same portal.
	Yeah.
	And I feel like a lot of women have disconnected with the power that they truly have.
	Like, they don't want you to know that the power of the pussy in the house.
	I read that book.
	That is literally the portal of divinity.
	We all came through here, that portal.
	Every single one of us came through that portal.
	And it's a magical portal.
	That's why you shouldn't let a bunch of guys nut in it.
	Oh, shit.
	Go off.
	Well, you know, it's like, you know, a baseball bat can, you know, get hit.
	It's not going to mess up.
	But a catcher.
	Sometimes they crack and house.
	They do, and a penis can crack and hat.
	But I'm just saying, like, a baseball mid, the more you use it, the looser it's going to get.
	You can't, it's like you can't put the toothpaste back in the toothpaste too.
	It's better, though.
	You know, you got to get that good.
	Sometimes there could be a little more moisture and all that.
	This and that.
	Yeah.
	I mean, yeah, there's no, there's truth to that.
	There's some benefits to it, but just remember.
	Kegels.
	Yeah.
	You got to do your kegels.
	It's like a used car.
	You want less miles on it to give its value.
	Just remember that.
	That's simple mathematics.
	But that said, it may not seem like it, but I actually am an advocate for waiting to have sex, not having sex quickly.
	I tried briefly the idea of like having one night stands when I was single because I went to Catholic school.
	I was 18 when I lost my virginity.
	Like I just thought maybe this idea I've been fed about being so chaste is bullshit.
	And one night stands did not work for me.
	Like I'm a relationship girl.
	I want to at least be dating you and having you yell at me not to flush my toilet or you know speak to me in Italian before I'm going to have sex with you.
	And of course this is all academic now because I'm married.
	But I do believe people benefit from getting to know each other more before they start having sex in an ideal world.
	Yeah.
	Word.
	We have Taylor's notes here.
	We're going to, you know what we're going to do just for the final five minutes or so, five, ten minutes of the show, because we are wrapping.
	We're going to reduce the TTS.
	If you guys want to get the final roast in $30 TTS, well, $29.99 TTS, we're going to wrap this here soon.
	I have Taylor's notes here.
	I just need to change a few things on the YouTube side.
	While I'm doing that, before I finish up the notes, anybody, any final thoughts from anybody here?
	I just want to ask you everyone who took their makeup off, like, looks amazing.
	And you, you were worried about your acne.
	You're like glowing.
	You look gorgeous.
	Gorgeous.
	Oh, my God.
	I don't know if you've caught me looking at you, but I'm just like, no, you look great.
	Everyone here looks, everyone looks great without the.
	I would love for you to take your makeup off.
	I know you don't want to, but I know you're beautiful underneath it.
	And I kind of want Brian to get his laptop.
	Yeah, excuse.
	It's so rare.
	I do want to say to whoever it was that all of a sudden found me unattractive because of my past.
	I find that interesting.
	Like, I want to know what I'm saying.
	Like more, because like I'm not like that anymore.
	Actually, I'm probably the least sexual person besides you at this table.
	Pasty George.
	What's that scene from Inglorious Bastards where they're about to like the bear Jew or whatever?
	Oblige her, Pasty George.
	Oblige her.
	Okay, TTS has been lowered.
	$30 TTS.
	I still need to just change it here in one place.
	So the description reflects it.
	$30 TTS.
	Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, kindly like the video, like the video.
	If you enjoyed the stream, like the video.
	And then, okay, that should all be set.
	$30 TTS.
	to go.
	We do have, hold on.
	Wait.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	Brian, Chair 4 didn't remove her makeup or wipe her entire face with a YP.
	So you won't get a MacBook Pro or a high-end laptop in this episode, but maybe in the following podcast.
	LOL.
	Yeah, I thought she was my Caucasian, but I guess not.
	I thought she was my homie, but I thought we were cool, but she just, you know, whatever.
	Not my Caucasian.
	But what if I sing the full Canadian national anthem?
	I know it.
	In French.
	Hasty loves my singing voice.
	Just FY.
	He's a big fan.
	Big fan of me singing.
	Okay.
	Taylor's notes, Taylor's, isn't that like a, never mind.
	Helicopter mechanic.
	You plan on enlisting in the military start of next year.
	Honestly, I don't know.
	Probably don't do that, but don't do that.
	I want to do it because I can go in to be at, like do helicopter mechanicking and get military education to find out.
	I mean, honestly, I guess if they're working the free college, but I just would tell you that going and serving our country is very admirable.
	I'm like, I really appreciate your service, but they're going to chew you up and spit you out.
	So, you know.
	Nah.
	I feel like, you know, I appreciate it.
	The helicopter mechanics, though, they probably keep them back.
	They'd probably help you out.
	Yeah.
	Aviation get very treatment.
	Yeah, maybe she could, you know, she could jump that into, I don't know, she could get some gig.
	I feel like a helicopter mechanic.
	They got to be paid pretty well, right?
	Yeah.
	I make $25 an hour.
	But you're not expecting starting out.
	Never get on Alley.
	Yeah, I'm pretty close.
	Dance teacher.
	Well, like the top paid AMPs make like $55 an hour.
	50 in the 50s.
	She's just starting out.
	Yeah.
	She doesn't have her degree.
	She has to do her basic work to be able to go take her tests.
	So that people have to check her work.
	Like no one's flying by.
	You said you've been doing it for like a year, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So you're at the beginning.
	I still, I'm not like at the bottom of the shop.
	No, obviously.
	Like there's people that I make more than and I'm trusted to do more stuff than they are.
	Yeah.
	Of course.
	But the potential is big.
	Okay.
	25 at 18.
	Taylor, you say you believe in God, you hold traditional conservative values.
	You're in a committed relationship with plans of marriage.
	You're opinionated and outspoken.
	And I feel that you say you feel you could add some spice to discussions on the show.
	Taylor.
	Let's see a little spice.
	Where's the spice, Taylor?
	Well, I mean, I was kind of like, I watched, like, listen to the podcast while I'm working in my headphones or whatever.
	And I feel like everyone here has just been really nice, not disrespectful.
	Like, I feel like that's my promise.
	I want to come on here and fight with you big titties.
	I want to be punchy with titties.
	I was so excited to release you.
	People want me to do that.
	They want us to, you know, like Stone Cold Steve Austin, Tombstone, those titties.
	Yeah, you know what I mean?
	Tell me what you want me to be, and I'll be it for you.
	No, but I mean, I came on here with the expectation that I was going to just be fighting, and everybody here has been very nice.
	And like, if anything, I feel like I might have debated with Brian the most.
	And I agree with him on the most, too.
	So it's just kind of funny.
	It's like, I mean, nah, I wish we would have been fighting more.
	Shit.
	Manifested a nice spot.
	You know, the furry flake.
	The furry flag.
	And then the person I tried to get come, you know, she said that she would come anytime, but it was just too last minute.
	But like, Colette is nice.
	Like, she's just.
	You give me some shit.
	You give me some shit.
	I know.
	I'll give you a little shit, but we were like arguing about something inconsequential.
	Well, not my sex life.
	It's a matter of a bit mad.
	I called you a little masculine.
	Yes, I'm aggressive.
	I'm masculine.
	I'm desperate.
	You are that.
	I'm just saying because you took that as a negative, but I actually was saying that complimentary.
	I wasn't even trying to get it.
	I know it comes wrong.
	I came across wrong, but I wasn't saying that.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	Some of the comments I have said have been a little derogatory towards you, but I didn't mean that.
	And I apologize if I was derogatory.
	Some of these girls that are watching this, you don't want to be a porn star.
	No, you don't.
	No, you don't.
	You don't want to do that.
	I could try to do a little alley oop here.
	Is it straight to date a trans woman?
	No.
	No, is it straight?
	Well, let's let the gals announce here.
	Is it straight?
	So me, for example.
	Okay.
	If I was dating a trans woman, is that straight?
	Like, are you straight?
	Am I straight if I did a trans woman?
	I guess that would depend where they are in their transition.
	Full-blown?
	I guess not.
	I don't know.
	I never thought of that.
	I guess not.
	Oh, not straight.
	Yeah.
	Your thoughts?
	I feel like there's a small percentage of people that do the full surgery.
	I feel like it makes you more bisexual.
	Unless they're like literally 10 out of 10, look like, but still then it's, I don't know.
	Your thoughts?
	I don't know.
	Technically, no.
	Yeah.
	Your thoughts?
	I don't know.
	You don't know?
	No.
	So, like, two dicks.
	Is that straight or gay?
	That's not straight.
	Okay.
	I thought you said they would have the full surgery.
	Well, I was granting it for her that it would be post-op.
	Okay, so that's not post-op.
	Regardless, I would say maybe you're pansexual.
	Just to make it simple.
	Maybe you're queer.
	Maybe you identify as being queer then.
	But can you ever be straight?
	I don't think that you're straight if you're dating somebody that's trans.
	Well, there is a way it could be straight because this is how it could be.
	And you see it on Jerry Springer all the time.
	Okay.
	If it's a post-op trans woman and the person has sex with them and didn't know.
	Oh, sure.
	Yeah.
	But then that's not even a thing.
	Yeah.
	I feel like that should be a criminal offense.
	Oh, yeah, I agree.
	That should be a sexual crime.
	Yeah.
	Some straight to jail, probably.
	Your thoughts?
	I agree.
	I think it's you're bisexual.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Well, Taylor.
	I feel like she was very opinionated, you about like race.
	And you said something like, you can dress up as black as you want, but you're always going to be a white boy.
	I feel like that applies to biology as well.
	Like you can dress up as a woman.
	You can try to cut your wiener off, but you're never going to be able to change your biology.
	I agree.
	And red-filled.
	W Taylor.
	W Taylor in the chat.
	You said you haven't really dated, though.
	You have some interesting interactions with men that were traumatizing.
	The first thing a guy said to you once was, trade?
	I don't understand what's happening.
	So like on Snapchat, a lot of people will just add you, and sometimes you'll add people back.
	And like the first time.
	The first thing a guy will say to you sometimes is trade.
	Like meaning train nudes back and forth.
	Train?
	They're called W-Y-L-L-Petts.
	Warriors.
	What do you look like, warriors?
	Child predators.
	Yeah, that too.
	Okay.
	Gross.
	And then you said, final thing for you, Taylor.
	You say how women demand a man acts like a traditional chivalrous man, but they do nothing to deserve that kind of man.
	You didn't have my back.
	I thought we weren't saying it.
	I thought I said that.
	I don't know if you did.
	And I feel like I couldn't find a good spot to join in.
	I thought you were my Caucasian, Taylor.
	Like, I'm sorry.
	You were supposed to have my back.
	You were supposed to have my back to it.
	I let you down.
	I'm talking about it.
	Let me down.
	You say you are what you attract.
	You say porn and OnlyFans ruined the dating scene.
	Blame her, blame her.
	Well, social media in Welsh.
	And then one thing led to another.
	My nudes got doxed.
	I couldn't work a regular job, and I had to make a decision.
	Do I want to keep doing social media and having OnlyFans, or do I want to kind of live in fear of creepy men coming to my job and to my house and saying that they're going to rape me?
	Thank you for sharing that.
	That was really necessary.
	So, going back to Taylor, going back to Taylor, you know, it's not always about you.
	Anyways, let me make it.
	Can I get more attention?
	Because I get so much good attention from saying bad things happen, you know?
	Taylor, your final thing here: you say, How everyone wants all these traditional romantic things to happen, being with your partner for your whole life, beautiful family, but out here acting like they are trying to catch him all trying to catch him.
	Like Pokemon, like STDs.
	Yeah, no, people, I guess, sleeping around.
	Yeah, I mean, they're not like acting like they're trying, they're not dating with the intention to marry, they're not putting the effort in their relationship to push towards marriage and that kind of thing.
	I feel like it's just super very super.
	Where's Miss Hughes?
	Miss Hughes.
	Come back here.
	Gotcha.
	Final person, final notes, our friend Cam.
	Cam, you went to Mexico with someone you were dating at the time and he left you there.
	Oh, yeah, that's actually a real story.
	That was very traumatizing.
	Never again.
	It was with this one guy from Newport Beach.
	Was it a white guy?
	Yes.
	Rhode Island?
	A rich white guy now here.
	Actually, he wasn't rich.
	But he lived in Newport.
	I thought he might have been.
	No, no, he didn't.
	Why did he leave you there?
	What was his because he was a weirdo and he had like legit mental issues?
	I'm going to get into the story.
	Okay, so he was just crazy.
	Yeah, long story short, he was a travel nurse.
	So he obviously had a lot of access to certain medication.
	Yes.
	And, you know, while I was on this trip, I felt like it was like this complete switch.
	Like, just somebody I didn't even recognize.
	And I was just like, whoa, like this is not the person I've been, you know, getting to know for the past eight months.
	And he got really mad.
	He didn't like the attention that I was getting down there.
	He didn't like that I spoke better Spanish than him.
	He just like had that.
	Could you?
	Yeah, you know, and I was just like, what the hell?
	So while we were down there, he just was getting more aggravated every day.
	We were, he was just like fighting with me over the smallest things.
	And I kid you not, the last straw for him was me taking a picture on the beach.
	He was like, why are you taking photos in a bikini?
	This is ridiculous.
	I'm like, I'm on vacation.
	Like everyone takes pictures.
	Like, even if I wasn't in bikini, let's say I'm fully clothed, I'd still take photos.
	People capture memories when you travel.
	I don't care.
	I don't care.
	Yeah, that's not weird.
	To take a picture on vacation.
	Yeah, right.
	Yeah.
	I was like, and so he got so fed up and he's like, you know what?
	I've had enough of this Kim Kardashian lifestyle that you just live and I'm so over.
	And he just blew up.
	And I was like, okay, bye.
	So you never.
	I'm actually on his side because you do have Kim K vibes.
	So yeah, you do.
	Did you have a ticket home or did you have to like get by a new one?
	I had a ticket home.
	Thanks, Lily.
	And you know, I've, I've, I'm a very independent woman.
	I've traveled to many countries alone by myself.
	So it didn't really spook me, but it was just the principal.
	Wait, was this a first date?
	What?
	No, no, no.
	You've been dating him for eight months.
	Was it a seven-day chip?
	Five-day chips?
	Eight months?
	Yeah.
	But if you got on pills.
	But you said he was crazy?
	On the trip?
	I was crazy.
	He was acting just back home.
	So do you guys, that was the end?
	Yeah.
	I never, never spoke to him again.
	I blocked him.
	He tried reaching out to me, I think, like through WhatsApp.
	And like, was it the first day you got there?
	No, this was definitely, I think, within the third or fourth day.
	It was supposed to be a six-day trip, but then like towards the end.
	You didn't want to smash?
	No.
	It wasn't that?
	No.
	Like, no.
	That's in.
	Come on.
	I was just like, no, no, no, no.
	It was just, he was a nice guy until that happened.
	And obviously, I feel like the more time you spend with someone, the more other true colors come out.
	Start to see how people act, not just when you live with them, but when you travel with them, because that's how that's a real thing.
	Because you're in a different country, you're in a different setting, stress comes in, and people you know react to certain situations differently.
	And it was very eye-opening for me.
	So I was just like, Yeah, that's a no-go.
	Yeah, absolutely not.
	All right, cool.
	Well, that's it for all the notes.
	We're gonna let some of the chats come through, then we're gonna get this all wrapped up, guys.
	Final call: if you want to get a little TTS in final call, you guys still have time.
	$30 TTS if you want to get a final message in.
	We have Chaw XD Chaw XD donated $30.
	The thing is, Chair 7: You're not a bad-looking girl, minus R tattoos.
	Men have a built-in disgust response to women's promiscuity.
	We accept that you may have changed, but we're repulsed anyway.
	Okay, fair.
	Thank you, Chaw, for your message there.
	We have Wisdom.
	Thank you, man.
	Barrier Wisdom donated $69.
	Chair 8: I was a Marine Aircraft mechanic and air crew.
	Hard work, solid money.
	I got out, went to college.
	100% VA and GI Bill now.
	If you're joining any branch, make it the Marine Corps.
	Semplify.
	Semper Fi.
	Thank you.
	You're shaking your head already.
	No, because then you're hanging out with Crane.
	I want to join National Guard because I'll make more money with a civilian job and a military job.
	Yeah, Marines are hard work.
	So you'd be a reservist or yeah, pretty much.
	I see.
	Techno Trooper donated $45.
	When dating apps reward attention over connection and I starts replacing affection, are we people searching for love or chasing validation in a system to keep us lonely?
	I recognize your name, Techno.
	This is deep right there.
	That was a good one.
	Yo, Techno, thank you for the message, man.
	Yeah.
	Was that a rhetorical question?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Techno, thank you, man, for the message.
	We have Charles.
	Charles Sterling donated $30.
	I think, therefore, I am.
	If I quit thinking, am I still not me?
	What?
	That's deep, bro.
	That's deep.
	I love the deepest.
	We have Pasty George here.
	Pasty George donated $30.
	What a legend.
	I want to thank the panelists for attending the podcast.
	Our guest, Alex, and Brian, our host.
	Respect to the women who remove their makeup.
	Thank you all and good night.
	I think I got all but one, right?
	This Cam wouldn't do it.
	She's Filipina.
	But Pasty, thank you.
	You don't want to hear me sing, I guess.
	And then we have great.
	We have this below the threshold, but you guys can just see it on screen, I guess.
	Just saying, great show, Alex.
	Thank you, Acidic Touch.
	Thank you, Acidic.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right.
	Well, if there's any that come that trickle through here at the end, I'll let them come through.
	Any final thoughts from anybody?
	Speak now, forever, hold your peace.
	Well, I reiterated earlier, I'm mad that we didn't fight enough.
	You know, some of you dirty whores are pretty good people, and you guys deserve a little less than what I get.
	So thank you guys for actually, you know, this is the other thing.
	Even though I disagree with what you do, we do have a loneliness epidemic, and you guys are getting a lot of disrespect from people probably in the chat, even though I probably agree with them.
	You guys probably do help out a lot of lonely guys.
	So even though what you do is disgusting and horrible, it does have some.
	There's only two girls, right?
	It's just you and you who do like sex work.
	But for OnlyFans, I really do think what I'm selling is not porn or you know, masturbation.
	Massive titties.
	It really is like there's no better products to sell.
	If I could sell my titties, I would.
	My biggest clients, like we have, there's like a talking relationship.
	It's not all just transactional, buy this picture, buy this video.
	It's conversation.
	Titties and talks.
	Titties and talk.
	It's not all about full-on therapist.
	Oh, my God.
	Okay.
	Emotionally, let's not go crazy.
	I mean, that is not physical therapy.
	Oh, boy.
	I think there's a lot more to therapy than people realize.
	No, 100%.
	And you are so well-spoken, and you've clearly done so.
	I feel like you'd be a great marriage counselor if I need one.
	Thank you.
	I guess a question for you.
	Me and Alex here, you know, we're a bit controversial, whatever.
	Have you, throughout the course of this, we've been together for a while now.
	Have you done a psychoanalysis of me?
	I know that we're not like in a clinic right now or whatever.
	Yeah, I mean, not a what's your diagnosis?
	No diagnosis.
	No, no diagnosis.
	You're not very professional because I have schizophrenia.
	So you're obviously not a very good doctor.
	There you go.
	There you go.
	I'm uncovered.
	She doesn't get the research.
	I missed it all.
	But any diagnosis?
	I won't be offended.
	No, no.
	I mean, I think it's just more interesting from like a socio-cultural aspect.
	I would have to ask you different things to get a diagnosis, really truly.
	And I think anyone in my field that takes their job seriously is very careful about throwing those things around anyway because they're so misused.
	But I just think you guys are regular dudes with strong opinions.
	About regular, but.
	Well, regular has a big spectrum, okay?
	Do you detect any autism?
	I mean, from either of us, I guess.
	Mostly neither.
	I am retarded.
	Okay, well, now that is not in the DSM, but thank you for telling me.
	I mean, look at ASD, like that, again, it's literally a spectrum, and it is such a spectrum that I think that can be hard to detect too.
	But that would not have been a problem.
	It's almost impossible not to.
	The spectrum is so big, it's almost impossible not to be on it.
	Is what you're saying?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I mean, I think it can manifest in so many ways.
	So many different variations of retardation.
	It's almost impossible for us to not be slightly different.
	We are not equating ASD with mental deficiencies, if you will.
	It's men.
	Autism is a superpower, okay?
	But I do think it's interesting to hear people using the R word.
	Is that a bad word?
	Is it your eyes?
	Well, you can have like retarded growth or like growth that gets stopped.
	It doesn't mean that the growth has autism, right?
	So like retard, like something can be retarded.
	That means you stop it from growing.
	So I just.
	I mean, when you're not applying it to people, you get to get to choose what makes you offended, right?
	You get to choose that.
	So I'm not offended.
	I mean, I'm a child of the 80s.
	Like, that was like the most common word said.
	Very common.
	But I try to think about the impact I have on other people without.
	In the 80s, white guys are allowed to say it.
	This is the 80s.
	I'd be saying it to you the whole time.
	Oh, God, no.
	Why do you think you're hard when you look at me?
	Because you're the only black one.
	What are we worried?
	But you have.
	No, I'm joking about that.
	I'm making a joke.
	I wouldn't be using it like that, but I'm just...
	I think you owe the sister an apology.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm taking back my lack of diagnosis.
	I never said it in the 80s.
	I just said it was worse.
	Oh, my God.
	I want you to have reparations.
	You know, Dave Chappelle has a joke on this, though.
	Man, I'm probably going to butcher it.
	But he was going to see somebody who worked as a censor at Comedy Central, and they wanted him to stop saying, I'm not going to say on stream, but a bundle of sticks.
	The F-word, right?
	Because he was saying it and they were like, you know what?
	Can you not say?
	And then he would, and then I'm trying to remember exactly the framing here, but he goes and says something like, and he was like, well, why?
	And she said, well, because you're not, you know, you're not gay or whatever.
	And he was like, oh, okay.
	And then he goes back to her and he's like, well, hold on.
	I say the N-word on my show all the time.
	Yeah.
	And then she's like, well, Dave, you are black.
	And he says, well, that's right.
	But I'm not the N-word.
	Anyways, that's probably not the best.
	No, no, no, it is.
	It is.
	But anyways, well, Chris Rock is a famous joke.
	The N-words are different than the.
	You know, there's the black people and then there's the N-words.
	You know, it's the famous.
	You know, this set.
	You have to watch it.
	It's a famous Chris Rock thing, but there is a difference between black people on the N-word.
	Oh, boy.
	I know.
	Is that really how we're?
	I'm black, so I can say all this.
	And I would be using the word, but I don't want to disrespect my soul system.
	But yeah, I am black.
	I'm not going to have to say it.
	You don't call retarded people retards.
	Bad taste.
	Yeah.
	You call your friends retards when they're acting retarded.
	Yes.
	It's true.
	It is true.
	Okay, we have two chats coming through here.
	We have Alou.
	Elu.
	Alou donated $30.
	Chair for get your strong and independent as back in the country on your own.
	What the fuck?
	Cherry, stay away from aircrafts for military's sake and stick to sandwiches.
	All Yalo F thoughts/slash grannies are cooked with cats.
	What the?
	That was the most unhinged one second.
	Well, in response, I did get myself back into the country.
	Thank you very much.
	And yeah, I'm forever independent.
	So now what?
	Also, I'm technically African-American.
	You are.
	Like, how much?
	You're from South Africa?
	Also, my dad was born in Africa, and my mom's American.
	So technically, you're African-American.
	I'm African-American.
	I love that for you.
	I love that for me too.
	What part of Africa do you know?
	It was Elon Musk vibes.
	My dad was born in.
	Well, I don't know if I want to give too much details, but he was born in an African country.
	Cool.
	He's white.
	I believe you.
	But he was born in Africa.
	We figured that.
	Okay, final one here from Cha.
	Oh, we have one more.
	To finish my thought to chair seven, you might be asking, what good does this advice do me now that I did what I did?
	Unfortunately, none, but it might lead you to point young girls in a better direction.
	Okay, really?
	Okay.
	Go off, Kim.
	Anything?
	Okay, I guess.
	Thank you.
	That's ridiculous.
	Acidic Touch donated $29.99.
	Thank you, thank you.
	Oops, donated in Canadian.
	Happy to support the show, though.
	And also, yes, very hyped to see the pimp on a blimp tonight.
	Thank you, Acidic Touch.
	All right.
	Do you know the other languages?
	Me?
	Yeah.
	Whoever.
	I speak a bit of French.
	Not super fluently, but I speak it.
	I speak Ubonics.
	Oh, love that.
	How do you.
	You made a look there.
	I feel like you did a look when he said that.
	No, it's just disassociating.
	Me too.
	I'm sick of these bitches in here.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Disassociating with you.
	All you nappy-headed hoes.
	I'm tired.
	I'm trying to go home so I can make love to my wife.
	You ain't finna do shit.
	I'm about to get some.
	We're about to get some in-and-out.
	I'm about to eat some freaking that secret sauce off my baby's titties tonight.
	I'm putting the sauce on the titties tonight.
	Y'all can't stop me.
	I'm getting that.
	I love that.
	You know that special sauce?
	The mayo and ketchup mixture?
	I have some bad news.
	The spread?
	It's clothes.
	No.
	Yes.
	In and out clothes.
	Do they sell the spread at the grocery store or something?
	Because I still need a bunch of.
	We have some applesauce in the refrigerator.
	I'm going to put some mayonnaise on our titties.
	I don't know, man.
	I'm going to put something on her titties.
	I'm going to wait a few.
	I love mayonnaise.
	I put mayonnaise on the titty.
	I do barbecue sauce.
	All right.
	We're going to wrap there.
	Okay.
	Let's see.
	I just have to do the outro.
	So, so, GG.
	Well played.
	Well played to the panel.
	I guess we'll call to action.
	Would you be willing, you and you, would you guys be willing to commit tonight to quitting sex work on the whatever podcast?
	For what reason?
	Just for fun too?
	For your soul.
	Oh, no.
	For your soul.
	To get into heaven.
	Oh, God.
	Will you, Jenna?
	Gertrude Worthington.
	Yes.
	Will you quit sex work tonight on the whatever podcast?
	Join the Church of Scientology.
	You're so.
	Oh, my God.
	Scientology's not blocking me anymore.
	Were you blocked by Scientology?
	Yeah.
	She actually did a porno.
	They blocked me.
	No.
	She did.
	She did an L Royal.
	She did a Scientology porno.
	I wouldn't be saying that.
	They're aliens and shit.
	The Scientologists, they're horny.
	I'm just kidding.
	But why'd they block you?
	Why did they block you?
	I actually think she did, though, because she's taking it really seriously.
	I know, why did they block you?
	Well, she lives a lifestyle that you can't have to be in Scientology.
	But then they send me letters all the time.
	Okay, will you stop?
	Will you stop?
	No.
	You?
	I just don't, I don't really have anything.
	I'm going to retire, ladies.
	All right.
	Guys, last call.
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	Thank you to everybody.
	We will be, I'll be live again Wednesday, most likely Wednesday, doing a whatever Wednesday episode.
	I think Felicity might be joining me.
	We'll see.
	She currently has like, I don't know, Ebola or some shit.
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