RAGE QUIT! Drake Dated Her?! Her Boyfriend Bought Her Mom's ØF?! 2 Based Virgins! | Dating Talk #236
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| Really quickly, before I have the guests introduce themselves, I apologize for our late start. | |
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| With that said, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. | |
| So, please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from, and education. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| So, hi, I'm Agata Vega. | |
| I'm 27 years old, and I'm from Venezuela, and I work in the adult industry and OnlyFans and all this stuff. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Any college or anything like that? | |
| Nothing special. | |
| Just high school. | |
| High school. | |
| When did you move to the U.S.? | |
| I'm not living here. | |
| I'm just here for work for a few months. | |
| I live in Spain. | |
| You live in Spain, but you were born in Venezuela. | |
| I was born in Venezuela. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then when did you move to Spain, I guess? | |
| Like four or five years ago, yeah. | |
| Four or five years ago. | |
| Okay, got it. | |
| All right, cool. | |
| And you said you were in the adult entertainment industry? | |
| Yep. | |
| What do you do? | |
| Or how long have you been in it? | |
| I'm an actress, and I've been since I moved to Spain, like five years, yeah, already. | |
| And what kind of content do you do, like solo, BG? | |
| I do everything, pretty much everything. | |
| Do you do like orgy, like gang banging? | |
| No, I haven't done the orgy and gangbang, actually, those ones that you mentioned, but all the other things, yeah, I do. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right, what about you? | |
| My name is Frankie. | |
| I'm 23 and I work in a Japanese restaurant as a waitress. | |
| And I'm from California. | |
| All right. | |
| Any university or college or anything like that? | |
| There's literally nothing special. | |
| I'm just a waitress. | |
| Did you do any college, like city college or? | |
| No, okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Morgan. | |
| I'm originally from Ohio. | |
| I'm 23 years old and I'm also in the adult entertainment. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you said you're from Ohio. | |
| Any education? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Any college? | |
| I mean, high school graduate. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm Jazz. | |
| I'm from Long Island, New York. | |
| I moved to California about a year ago. | |
| Before I moved here, I did bridal makeup and lashes. | |
| I went to hospitality school. | |
| And now I am actually a bartender at a strip club. | |
| Age? | |
| 26. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Bailey. | |
| I am 25 and I am a dancer again. | |
| You're a dancer again? | |
| What does that mean? | |
| I just got hired last week at a strip club in Vegas. | |
| Okay. | |
| Cool. | |
| And I did one year of community college high honors, but I dropped out. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm Lindsay. | |
| I'm 20. | |
| I'm from LA, born and raised, and I'm a music producer and a music manager. | |
| Okay. | |
| My name is Kate. | |
| I am 37 and I'm from Seattle. | |
| I wash boats for work and sometimes clean the interiors. | |
| And not much college. | |
| I went to cosmetology school for a while, but I didn't finish. | |
| I didn't enjoy it. | |
| All right. | |
| You wash boats. | |
| Are there like yachts? | |
| What kind of boats? | |
| All kinds of boats. | |
| All boats. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like sometimes it's like 96, 98-foot yachts. | |
| Sometimes it's 35-foot sailboats. | |
| Sure. | |
| All different types. | |
| What about you? | |
| Hi, my name is Bella. | |
| I'm 18, born and raised from LA. | |
| I'm currently a full-time college student at the University of California, Irvine. | |
| I'm studying biomedical engineering on the pre-med track. | |
| All right, welcome. | |
| What about you? | |
| My name is Parissa. | |
| I'm 18, also from LA. | |
| Bella's my friend. | |
| I am currently a PR intern, but I'm an aspiring screenwriter. | |
| All right, welcome. | |
| My name is Eliezer. | |
| I do political street debates where I go into liberal worlds, cities, and I debate them and I destroy their views. | |
| I am one of the best street debaters on planet Earth. | |
| So I hope you guys enjoyed today. | |
| All right. | |
| Age? | |
| 26. | |
| And then I'm from Washington. | |
| Washington. | |
| All right. | |
| Ooh, Washington. | |
| Well, I move around a lot. | |
| So Washington, Oregon, right now. | |
| And did you do any college or university? | |
| Three months of college. | |
| Like City College. | |
| Okay, got it. | |
| All right. | |
| All right. | |
| Welcome, everybody. | |
| We're going to go around the table once more. | |
| What's your current relationship status? | |
| If you're single, how long have you been single? | |
| And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Okay, so yeah, I mean, relationship, I'm already five years with this guy, and the longest relationship is the same. | |
| Before I was five years with someone else, so same. | |
| Okay, got it. | |
| Can I have you just tilt your microphone up just a little bit? | |
| That's why I had up before, yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So sorry, you've been in a relationship for five years, is that correct? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that's your longest relationship? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Five years. | |
| And wait. | |
| And you said you've been in the adult entertainment industry for five years too? | |
| So did you meet him before or after you started? | |
| I met him on set, like one of my first scenes. | |
| On set. | |
| Okay. | |
| So he's also a performer. | |
| A P-Star. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Is he famous? | |
| Can you say his name? | |
| Yeah, well, yeah, he's Chris Sinclair. | |
| He's an Italian guy. | |
| He's very popular. | |
| In Italy. | |
| Who the fuck is that guy? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| They've probably seen him. | |
| They've probably seen him. | |
| There's many guys, yeah. | |
| So, you know, and so, okay, so you met him on set, but are you guys monogamous? | |
| Yeah, we are, but with the job we do, we always, you know, you'll sleep with, like, you sleep with other people for work. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| But outside of work, you don't sleep with other people. | |
| No, no, no, we don't do outside, yeah. | |
| I see. | |
| Okay, all right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I've been single for maybe like a year or two now. | |
| There's not much going on. | |
| Just like talking phases that fail because men are awful. | |
| Men are awful. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sorry, wait. | |
| What was the I missed the last part of that? | |
| Whatever? | |
| In this generation. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Men are awful. | |
| Why are men awful? | |
| Oh, God. | |
| All they want to do is hook up. | |
| And like, I want like an actual relationship, and all they want is to hook up and sleep and talk to a million other girls. | |
| And I'm not interested in that. | |
| Does any other panelists agree with her that men are awful? | |
| I disagree. | |
| Any panelists agree? | |
| I agree, kinda. | |
| Even if I have my boyfriend that is not a bad guy, but it's not easy. | |
| I know it's not easy to find someone to date. | |
| Okay, so men are awful. | |
| It's far and few between. | |
| You just have to serve. | |
| Hold on one sec. | |
| Anybody else? | |
| Somebody over here switches together. | |
| I think it's like women are also awful. | |
| Women also are equally as awful. | |
| It kind of balances it out. | |
| I think you tracked what you put out as well. | |
| I think I definitely disagree that men are awful, but I think it's good that you are waiting rather than putting yourself in a relationship that you wouldn't want to be in. | |
| So good to say single. | |
| Can I specify? | |
| I don't mean all men, just like a lot of them, a majority of them. | |
| So like 99% of them is 99%. | |
| Maybe like 90, not 99. | |
| That's a lot. | |
| That's quite high. | |
| I have a question. | |
| Where do you meet these young men? | |
| Work mostly. | |
| Yeah, that's pretty much all my experiences. | |
| I'm 23. | |
| Well, it's good to not lower your standard if you have a high standard. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Okay. | |
| So why are men awful, though? | |
| Well, they just want to hook up constantly. | |
| Everyone that I've met is just into hooking up and they're not like serious relationship type of men. | |
| Sure. | |
| Let me just ask you a question. | |
| Do you have any like female friends? | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| We can probably do split on this. | |
| Do you have any female friends? | |
| Yeah, yeah, I do. | |
| Are any of them like just looking to hook up? | |
| Yeah, one of them. | |
| Okay, are they? | |
| So you're, I mean, just using your own logic here, your friend is awful then. | |
| Oh, in that regard, a little bit. | |
| I'm sorry, I love you, Savannah, but. | |
| Oh, just a little bit. | |
| Wait, so then are you going to, I guess, change your position? | |
| Like, so are just men awful in that regard? | |
| Everybody. | |
| It sounded like you're just saying men awful because they just want to hook up. | |
| I wanted to chime in a little bit because I feel like equally, like, even myself, like, in the past, like, and even just some of my friends, like, yeah, like, there's times where you just want to hook up. | |
| Like, does it make you a bad person? | |
| Like, maybe, maybe not. | |
| But does that make all women bad? | |
| No. | |
| So I just want to make sure that there's consistency. | |
| Right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So if men bad because they want to hook up, women also bad because they want to hook up. | |
| I also think it's the industry, though. | |
| Like, I've done that. | |
| What industry? | |
| She's not a porn star. | |
| No, but serving. | |
| I've done that. | |
| I'm a bartender. | |
| I've bartended and served for many years. | |
| I was in bottle service, so I know like kind of that. | |
| It's very toxic. | |
| It's very, very toxic. | |
| I mean, a lot of the last guys that I've dated or even still talk to, I've met through my jobs, bartending, and like some of them are assholes and just want to hook up. | |
| And I just wanted to hook up too. | |
| But some of them are, well, yeah, I mean, obviously. | |
| But like. | |
| Ogle Bloom donated $200. | |
| Thank you, Ogle. | |
| Monogamous accept while I'm working is like saying I don't drink except when at my bartending job every night. | |
| Just accept that you're not monogamous or it's consensual rather than pretend. | |
| Do you want to respond to Ogle? | |
| Me, okay. | |
| Yeah, one second. | |
| Okay. | |
| Just read it. | |
| Hello? | |
| And I agree with whatever he thinks about you. | |
| Honestly. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I just think everybody has different ways to see life and I do the way I do and we are okay with that. | |
| But I understand if other people don't get it. | |
| Do you feel like that relationship you have is pretty ethical? | |
| I don't care if it's ethical. | |
| Like I feel good and we know what we do and we understand the relationship we have. | |
| You know, it's not for everyone. | |
| It's not easy to explain to everyone. | |
| And I get it if people don't understand it. | |
| But I'm not going to take like a bunch of time to explain myself. | |
| Everybody's different. | |
| Everybody thinks they can. | |
| Do you want to have kids? | |
| Oh, no, no, no, never. | |
| All right. | |
| So, okay, you've been single for one to two years, you said. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| So is it one or two years? | |
| Probably pushing two years now, closer to two for sure. | |
| Longest relationship? | |
| Five and a half years. | |
| Is that the one that ended one to two years ago? | |
| No. | |
| I had a rebound after him. | |
| How long did that last? | |
| Like seven, eight months. | |
| Decently long. | |
| Like I said, I'm more like a relationship type of person than random hookups. | |
| So when I do jump into something, it tends to last like longer than a week or two. | |
| In the last like two or a year or whatever, you said, have you like talked to anybody for a long term or it's all been a consistently men just want to hook up? | |
| I mean, I've met men at like bars and stuff, but I feel like when men go to bars, they're there to kind of find women to take home. | |
| Right. | |
| So it never goes anywhere. | |
| And I just don't know if you're not going to have to do it. | |
| Have you tried like going somewhere where it's not just like because yeah, bars and clubs and stuff, you know, there's a what people do there. | |
| Is there like somewhere else you've tried to like meet a guy? | |
| No, honestly, I'm not really looking. | |
| So it's not like I'm not actively going out of my way to try to find like where the nice guys hang out, you know? | |
| Okay. | |
| So there was a five-year relationship and then you said you had a rebound which lasted how long again? | |
| Probably around six to eight months. | |
| And that's the one that ended two years ago. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And what was the time period between the end of your five-year relationship and the start of your six-month, eight-month rebound? | |
| Okay, well, it was with my coworker. | |
| So we had known each other for already like two years. | |
| So like the day after? | |
| No, it wasn't the day after. | |
| We started hanging out the month after, like outside of work, just going out to lunch, whatever, when we would have our lunch breaks together. | |
| And then it ended up escalating probably like two, three months into us hanging out. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so that one, the rebound was the one that did end two years ago. | |
| There's been no guys in the picture for the past two years? | |
| Like random little talking phases, but nothing serious has ever happened with any of them, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| Talking. | |
| Stop talking stages. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| So what was the longest talking stage you had? | |
| Maybe like three, four months. | |
| And how recently was that? | |
| Oh, it ended like last month. | |
| So you were seeing a guy for four months? | |
| Not seeing him, not at all. | |
| Like we didn't do anything together. | |
| We were just like talking. | |
| I was kind of feeling it out, you know, to see if I was interested in him. | |
| For four months? | |
| A slow burn. | |
| Yeah. | |
| A slow burn. | |
| I'm not. | |
| Were you guys like hooking up? | |
| No, I don't. | |
| I've only been talking to you for four months? | |
| Well, he, yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Dude. | |
| I'm sure I wasn't the only one, but. | |
| Okay. | |
| He does not get bitches. | |
| No, he really doesn't. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, you dated him. | |
| All right. | |
| So there's no guy in the picture currently. | |
| No. | |
| Nobody? | |
| No. | |
| Nobody? | |
| Nobody. | |
| But you're not even sitting there. | |
| I would work things out with my ex, but like that's what I said. | |
| I would work things out with my ex, but that's messy. | |
| No, but who broke up with who? | |
| It was constantly me and him breaking up with each other. | |
| And then the final straw, he left on Valentine's Day and I was like, all right, fuck you. | |
| And then I started hanging out with my coworker. | |
| Word. | |
| Everybody is on Valentine's. | |
| And by hanging out, what do you mean? | |
| You're not like hooking up. | |
| No, like genuinely, we were just hanging out, like getting to know each other. | |
| And then about a month or two into that, we started getting close. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm currently single. | |
| I think nine months ago was probably my last relationship, a little bit before I came out to California. | |
| All right. | |
| So you've been single for nine months, longest relationship? | |
| Three years, I think. | |
| And that was in high school, though. | |
| So that was very immature. | |
| How long was the relationship that ended nine months ago? | |
| That one was a year long. | |
| Okay, who broke up with who? | |
| I broke. | |
| Well, I mean, like, we were kind of. | |
| He wanted to also, but I was kind of like, no, I'm going to do it first, type of thing. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| So three-year relationship, who broke up with who? | |
| I also left him. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm currently single right now. | |
| My longest relationship was four and a half years, and that was about six years ago. | |
| And my last relationship that I would consider an actual relationship was probably like a year and a half ago. | |
| Okay. | |
| Are there any guys in the picture currently? | |
| Uh yeah. | |
| How many? | |
| Plead the Fed. | |
| So you have a roster? | |
| I don't have a roster. | |
| No, right now there's only one. | |
| I kind of like. | |
| Why would you plead the fifth and if there were some? | |
| No, that was just a joke. | |
| It was a joke. | |
| But no, right now I like kind of like crossed off the roster. | |
| Now there's only one because the rest of them like pissed me off. | |
| Okay. | |
| So there is one guy. | |
| How long have you been seeing this one guy? | |
| Like four months. | |
| Four months. | |
| And you said the rest of them pissed you off, so there was a roster? | |
| Like two other ones, yeah. | |
| Two other ones. | |
| When did you cut them off? | |
| Like the last one I cut off like last week. | |
| And then the other one I cut off like two months ago. | |
| Two months ago. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| My longest relationship was about two years and I was single for about two and now I'm talking to someone. | |
| But I guess, yeah, not like super serious, but serious. | |
| How long have you been talking to them, I guess? | |
| A few weeks, three weeks. | |
| Okay, three weeks. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I've been single for a little over a year, year and a half. | |
| And my longest relationship was on and off five years. | |
| Four or five years. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I was married for nine years and I'm currently divorced. | |
| Been divorced for maybe eight years this summer. | |
| I've been single for several months now. | |
| I date a little bit here and there, but nothing serious. | |
| Any kids? | |
| No. | |
| And you've been single for a couple months. | |
| So you were dating a guy up until a couple months ago. | |
| How long were you seeing him? | |
| I was kind of dating. | |
| Like eight or nine months. | |
| It was a little conversation. | |
| Does he also wash boats? | |
| No, but he's in the boat industry. | |
| Oh, look at this. | |
| He's in the boat industry. | |
| Goes down in the boat industry. | |
| Okay. | |
| And who initiated the divorce? | |
| That was the whole relationship wasn't exactly super great, so there wasn't a lot of stability there. | |
| What do you mean it wasn't super great? | |
| How so? | |
| I got married really, really young. | |
| I got married before I turned 20. | |
| He was about 23 at the time, and just I didn't know who I was. | |
| I didn't know what I wanted in life, and I thought I was going to be somebody different than I ended up being, and it wasn't what he wanted in a wife. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| So I was thinking that I would go to cosmetology school and cut hair and all that sort of stuff. | |
| And then as I got into my 20s, kind of realized I wanted to be more of a stay-at-home mom and raise my kids. | |
| And he was not okay with that. | |
| He did not want to be with somebody who didn't have a job. | |
| He didn't want, he said he, for him to feel like he had an equal partner, he needed a woman who financially did stuff with the relationship as well. | |
| So when I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, it was like, that's not going to really work. | |
| And so after years of things kind of being pretty rocky back and forth, when the final time when he came to me and said, I think maybe we should do a separation, I kind of threw my hands up and said, if you're going to do that again, I think we should just end it because I'm not going to go back and forth with this. | |
| He had brought it up a ton of times years before that. | |
| And, you know, I didn't feel great about myself, wasn't in a great place. | |
| And it was like, I'm not going to make you happy. | |
| You're not going to make me happy for this. | |
| You know, both of us deserve to be in a relationship that we want and feel loved and all of that. | |
| So it was like, probably just time to end it. | |
| So you initiated the divorce? | |
| I guess you could say that. | |
| Who filed the paperwork? | |
| He did. | |
| So he initiated the divorce. | |
| But it was he, he brought up wanting to be separated. | |
| And he had already brought up divorce several times before that. | |
| And I had already begged him to try to make it work and all this stuff. | |
| So it was like, no, you didn't. | |
| The relationship was on the rocks. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And it was like, you've emotionally dragged me through the mud. | |
| You know, he had. | |
| So essentially, he wanted you to work. | |
| You didn't want to work. | |
| You wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. | |
| And we wanted to even have kids. | |
| And he wasn't even really sure about that. | |
| So it was just not a great fit. | |
| You did or you didn't? | |
| I wanted to have kids. | |
| He didn't. | |
| Okay. | |
| So there was just a lot of things that, you know, and in the beginning, it was like before he got married. | |
| Not very long. | |
| Okay. | |
| Did you know that he didn't want to have kids prior to that? | |
| No, he had said that he did kind of want kids at some point. | |
| And then as we got further into it, like his dad was never really in his life, and his stepdad wasn't great. | |
| And he was scared of being a parent and all of that. | |
| And was kind of like, you know, I don't know if I want to. | |
| So I'm really sorry. | |
| I don't want to be a mom. | |
| It's okay. | |
| Thank you. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I've been single for, I've never been in a relationship. | |
| I've been taking out on dates. | |
| But yeah, I've been sitting on the stage. | |
| You have been taken out on dates. | |
| Yes. | |
| But I've been single for but you've never been in a relationship. | |
| Not technically. | |
| I think when I was 15, I like high school, you know, like yo, chart. | |
| Thanks for the gifted 50 subs on Twitch. | |
| Thank you so much, man. | |
| You're a fucking legend. | |
| Guys, W's in the chat for chart with the big 50. | |
| Thank you so much, man. | |
| What did Chad? | |
| Okay. | |
| So you've been on multiple dates with like one guy? | |
| Yeah, for a month. | |
| That was when I was 15. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| Multiple dates throughout high school. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| So there's been like second dates, third dates, or whatever? | |
| Yes. | |
| Here and there. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| And wait, hold on. | |
| Y'all share a vape? | |
| Is that a thing? | |
| People don't kill the messenger. | |
| Aren't you guys scared of like herpes or something? | |
| You know, when someone tells you, like, pass this note to someone, like, I'm just in the middle passing the note. | |
| I'm not upset about the vaping. | |
| Just I find it weird that people share a vape. | |
| Like, you guys vape. | |
| We share water. | |
| I mean, I have my own in my pocket. | |
| I wouldn't share it. | |
| You and your friend? | |
| No, I have herpes. | |
| I'm not sharing. | |
| Right. | |
| I'm not sharing a drink with a friend. | |
| Like, if my friend takes a sip from like a I'm not taking a sip from it. | |
| What about like a girl you're seeing? | |
| I know that's different. | |
| Even then, would you spit in a girl's mouth? | |
| If I've been dating, yes or no? | |
| You're kissing someone. | |
| That's what I mean. | |
| It's the same thing if you're kidding me. | |
| No, it's crazy. | |
| I could just be kissing a girl, but then I'm like, you need a separate glass. | |
| No way. | |
| Would you're angry? | |
| It's crazy. | |
| Yeah, no, it's like, we're kissing, but like you have to eat your own sharing food. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Like, you know, you use the same for. | |
| You're eating ice cream. | |
| You know, you're speaking. | |
| She can have from mine, but I won't take from hers. | |
| Got it. | |
| Are you a germaphone? | |
| So you will spit in a girl's mouth, but she can't spit in your mouth. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| That was a joke. | |
| Wow, that was really good. | |
| Female comedian over here. | |
| Fantastic. | |
| It's my favorite. | |
| You want to share a cup with someone that you're dating? | |
| She can take from mine, but I'm not taking from you. | |
| What is the difference? | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Like the difference. | |
| Well, once she takes from mine, it's now her cup. | |
| Yep. | |
| Okay. | |
| Gotcha. | |
| It's her cup. | |
| That's the best way to get something from you then, huh? | |
| Oh. | |
| Like, they want a sip of it. | |
| They take it. | |
| It's theirs. | |
| Does that make sense? | |
| Oh, yeah, I see. | |
| I guess, yeah. | |
| Yeah, so if you sit down with a drink and she takes a sip of it, but it's hers, and then you have to go get it. | |
| I have another rule, too. | |
| So I'm going to show it on this camera here or here. | |
| Just put it back. | |
| So if somebody even touches a glass, they use their fingertips on the rim. | |
| Or this will move. | |
| I'm like, or it's like this. | |
| I need a new class. | |
| I feel like I'd rather share a drink with someone like this than have their hands touched. | |
| No, it's just like right here. | |
| That one. | |
| Like, I don't know why. | |
| That's my cup like this. | |
| That's grosser to me. | |
| But people touch. | |
| If you touch the rim, I don't want your hand on it. | |
| Yeah, it's crazy. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Anywho. | |
| Anyways, where were we? | |
| Okay, you were dating a guy. | |
| You've been single your whole life. | |
| Or not dating a guy, rather. | |
| And the longest, you've been on a couple dates with a couple different guys. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Fair to say. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you're religious, right? | |
| You're Christian? | |
| Yes, I'm Christian. | |
| What denomination? | |
| Non-denominational. | |
| Okay. | |
| Are you waiting until marriage? | |
| Yes, I am. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you're a virgin? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| A bit of applause. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you are waiting for, and I assume you only want to date a Christian guy? | |
| Yes. | |
| That's important to you. | |
| And do you find it's difficult to find men who match your values? | |
| Yes, especially in this dating pool and this generation. | |
| I think we can all agree that, yeah, that it's difficult because men want to. | |
| Well, it depends where we are in an environment, especially in college. | |
| I think people are in the hookup spree. | |
| But I think, yeah, I'm just trusting in God's timing who He has for me for my patience. | |
| Would you only marry a virgin? | |
| Well, I prefer a man who is who I don't care so much about his past, like let's say, but if he turned and repented to Jesus and gave his life to him, I would presume that he is waiting too, if that makes sense. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I am single and my longest relationship was about five months in high school. | |
| And I'm a Christian as well. | |
| And I think that my most important takeaway from my relationships has just been that I really am looking for a man who can lead me in my faith. | |
| And so that's just a standard that I hold. | |
| Are you also waiting for marriage? | |
| Yes, I am. | |
| Are there any guys in the picture? | |
| No, not really. | |
| Any guys in the picture for you? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| And also, you're, are you also a virgin? | |
| Yes, I am. | |
| And you're waiting until marriage. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you're also non-denominational? | |
| Non-denominational Protestant. | |
| Okay. | |
| Got it. | |
| Hmm. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm married. | |
| Have a kid. | |
| How long have you been here? | |
| We'll say we had a relationship like it's been six years now, but it was pretty on and off for the majority of it. | |
| And then it wasn't until I stepped up and we stepped up to reconcile things. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Cool. | |
| That's everybody's relationship status. | |
| And there were two things I wanted to pull up really quick. | |
| We have something from, it's a video from Agatha that I wanted to pull up. | |
| It's her and the guy, if you can get that pulled up, Blake. | |
| What? | |
| Yeah, this one. | |
| So just play it, I guess. | |
| Just play it. | |
| So I saw this on your Instagram. | |
| Is that your boyfriend? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, it's actually from her. | |
| Oh. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| So that's on your Instagram. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's like a baby arm. | |
| Fuck. | |
| That ass. | |
| Did you do a video with him? | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| Of course. | |
| Of course. | |
| And your boyfriend's also in a creator. | |
| Yeah, he is. | |
| It's monogamy. | |
| Okay, so. | |
| Sorry. | |
| My question for you. | |
| Do you think you're going to get married to your boyfriend? | |
| No, I'm not really interested. | |
| Do you want kids? | |
| No, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Well, I was going to say, in the event, if you do ever break up with your boyfriend, despite all the other stuff that's surely out there, that video alone, like a civilian guy can't date you. | |
| No, and it's fine. | |
| I guess you're not going to be able to do that. | |
| Like that video, if you go on the first date with a guy and you're like, hey, look at my phone. | |
| Look at this video of me. | |
| That's got to be a wrap for like 90% of dudes. | |
| Like if I was on a date with a girl and she showed me that. | |
| But I don't agree. | |
| Hey, it's nice to meet you. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| No, but I gotta go. | |
| I understand. | |
| You don't even need context for it. | |
| But you know, there's many guys that actually like to see girls, their girlfriends. | |
| That's not the kind of relationship. | |
| That was wild. | |
| Can you exist? | |
| Wait, there's a lot of people. | |
| I mean, she's talking about cops. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Yeah, this exists. | |
| And also, many of the porn stars, corn stars, I'm sorry, they have husbands and relationships. | |
| So people think that, yeah, like you will never find love, but they are actually wrong. | |
| I don't know. | |
| There's so many, like, millions of people in the world. | |
| Look at that one video. | |
| That one video was aggressive. | |
| Well, I mean, that's definitely like, that was a lot. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So to your point, though, you were saying how, you know, there's this, and I actually agree with you to some degree that these women who are involved in adult content, there's this cope online. | |
| Like, oh, they'll never find love. | |
| They'll never find a boyfriend. | |
| Get married, have kids, whatever. | |
| I think that's COPE. | |
| There's a lot of simps out there who... | |
| Hold some. | |
| Also. | |
| A lot of simps out there who will marry. | |
| But I think the approach that I'm taking to it is you, because of your involvement in porn or adult content or whatever, your pool of potential suitors shrinks. | |
| Like, there's a proportion of men, a subset of men, that will not want to date a woman who is currently or has been in that industry. | |
| No, I know, I know that. | |
| Yeah, I get it. | |
| But this idea that, oh, you'll never find a lot of these girls, yeah, they get married. | |
| They're pretty much of the girls, you know, they have a relationship. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| I do think, though, it does tend to close the door not just to a lot of men, but to a certain subset of men. | |
| Like, I'd say men who have like a certain morals or values, you're going to close the door for them. | |
| Yeah, and I don't care. | |
| Yeah, I'm not sure. | |
| You probably have to align with her morals as well, right? | |
| Right. | |
| The doing porn morals. | |
| Well, it goes with a lot of other stuff, I think, too. | |
| Sure. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then, oh, we have something from Frankie, her TikTok. | |
| So let's just get that full screen. | |
| So you were dating a guy, Frankie. | |
| And was this your five-year relationship guy who found the video? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's get that video pulled up. | |
| Hide that. | |
| All right. | |
| Go ahead and play it. | |
| I just found my mom on OF. | |
| Wait, pause, Can you check and see if the audio is boosted all the way? | |
| Even on TikTok? | |
| Okay, start it again. | |
| Just drag it back. | |
| I just found my mother. | |
| The woman that gave birth to me on only, you know. | |
| You know, the one. | |
| No, actually, pause. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Pause. | |
| No, no. | |
| I didn't find her. | |
| I didn't find her. | |
| My ex found her and then sent me this big paragraph about my ho-ass mom being on OF. | |
| And guys, my mom is a bop. | |
| My bop-ass mom has an OF page. | |
| And then also, tell me why I also found her hidden that she didn't hide very well. | |
| TikTok, K, and Instagram. | |
| And tell me why this woman that gave birth to me is about to surpass me on TikTok, bro. | |
| She's doing better than I am. | |
| She gets more engagement, more views, more likes. | |
| She's almost about to have more followers than me and my fucking, she's a bop. | |
| My mom's a bop. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Damn. | |
| So your mom's a bop. | |
| That was when I first found out. | |
| Can you explain what a bop is? | |
| Because maybe not everybody knows. | |
| Dang. | |
| A promiscuous woman. | |
| A strumpet. | |
| That's a nice way to say that. | |
| I never heard that. | |
| There you go. | |
| Would you think your mom did for work? | |
| Well, no, she. | |
| She injured her hand at work, so she hasn't been working. | |
| She's been dealing with disability. | |
| But like, I guess she has on the side, you know? | |
| She's been working hard. | |
| Is she doing it for money or just that's what she likes doing? | |
| Money, and then the TikTok thing she just thinks is fun. | |
| Oh, you talked to her about it? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| How'd that go down? | |
| It was a really long conversation, and we actually ended up deleting her OF page. | |
| We mutually agreed on that because she was uncomfortable with the fact that my ex had found it, obviously. | |
| And then we ended up she ended up making a new one How did he find it? | |
| How did he find it? | |
| I don't know. | |
| She ended up making a new one. | |
| She ended up making a new one, yeah. | |
| But that one, she's been less likely. | |
| Why did she make a new one, though? | |
| So that my ex doesn't find it again. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I mean, he found her once. | |
| I think he'll find it again. | |
| Yeah, she's not good with social media and she's not careful at all. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| There's no way to promote yourself also and be careful, you know? | |
| All right, that's like the difficulty. | |
| She could block him, though, you know? | |
| Well, yeah, but then he'll just make a new like. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Once you're out there, you're gonna be. | |
| So if you started dating a new guy and you found out that he subbed to your mom's OF, is that an instant breakup? | |
| Immediately. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so what is she doing on there? | |
| Is it BG or what? | |
| No, it's just like pictures and videos of her. | |
| I'd prefer not to look at it. | |
| So like I don't know specifics. | |
| Solid. | |
| But I've seen some of the pictures. | |
| Are you upset? | |
| It's not that I'm upset about like the page itself. | |
| It was the way that she did it was really trashy and like severely lacking any class at all. | |
| It was like fucking awful backgrounds. | |
| Yeah, it was tasteful. | |
| Awful backgrounds, like Shein lingerie. | |
| Like, it was so bad. | |
| Like, some Android quality type pictures. | |
| Literally, yes. | |
| And the quality of the photos was so bad. | |
| It literally looked like something out of a trailer part. | |
| Yeah, but if it was better quality, if it was like photo shoots, it would be a little bit more respectful. | |
| That's what her new account is now. | |
| I begged her to. | |
| If you're going to do that, at least do it like nice. | |
| Yeah, if you're going to do it, at least don't have some Android, low-quality, like. | |
| Yeah, she's having help now. | |
| Did she start after her hand injury? | |
| Yeah. | |
| How did she get her hand injury? | |
| I don't know. | |
| She works in a brand. | |
| Was it a work injury? | |
| Yeah, she works in factories. | |
| Was it an occupational hazard? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I didn't ask, honestly. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| We have a message here from N1 Grand. | |
| Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten. | |
| You can't pick seven starting with you. | |
| Go. | |
| Eight. | |
| Eight. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'd say like a four. | |
| A four. | |
| Okay. | |
| Um, six. | |
| Six. | |
| Eight and a half. | |
| 8.5. | |
| All right. | |
| I'm going to say 10 again because I look exactly how I wanted myself to look. | |
| I love that. | |
| 10. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is it with makeup? | |
| Even without. | |
| No, just like how I wanted my avatar to look. | |
| That's how I look. | |
| But you're wearing like full face and you got the light. | |
| Yeah, even without it. | |
| Even without it. | |
| So wait, you're a 10 before the makeup and the fake lashes? | |
| Yes. | |
| Then, okay, I'll cut. | |
| Well, why put it on? | |
| But okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Eight when I'm all done up. | |
| Six just regular. | |
| I'll just say eight then, I guess. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm going to say six. | |
| Six, okay. | |
| Six and a half. | |
| All right. | |
| I was going to say, I was going to say, well, I'll say eight. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'll say four. | |
| Four. | |
| Okay. | |
| I give myself a five. | |
| Wow, okay. | |
| All right. | |
| This is a reasonable panel, except for the 10 over there in the corner. | |
| And we do have an 8.5. | |
| Keeping it consistent. | |
| We got an 8, 8.5. | |
| Eight. | |
| Yeah, this is like the hot corner, I guess. | |
| Right over here. | |
| Right over here. | |
| It's subjective. | |
| Wait, wait. | |
| Like, this is how I feel about myself. | |
| Other people would probably say less, yeah. | |
| Huh? | |
| I said, that's how I feel about myself. | |
| Other people would say less, but society. | |
| Here, what do you think men would rate you then? | |
| Probably like average, I guess. | |
| Seven, but we can't say that. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Does it change for you? | |
| Me? | |
| Yeah. | |
| No. | |
| No? | |
| Probably the same. | |
| I guess like you think, wait, just to be clear, you think men would rate you 8.5? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Should we do a poll? | |
| Do you attract men? | |
| Do you attract men that would want an 8.5? | |
| Like they're of that status? | |
| I mean, I don't want someone that looks like less like. | |
| No, but I'm saying like the men that you usually attract, are they usually like on the higher end? | |
| Oh, yeah, I'm like really shallow when it comes to like looks, honestly. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Are you attracting men who normally would go for 8.5 women? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, yeah, I guess. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, that kind of answers. | |
| Because, like, just because a guy's attractive doesn't mean that he's going to be getting 8.5 women. | |
| You're going to have really attractive hobos. | |
| I see them all the time in Seattle. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| Maybe we have different types. | |
| I'm not going after them. | |
| I'm just saying I see them to each their own. | |
| But no, yeah. | |
| I mean, usually the guys that I attract, most of them kind of all look the same. | |
| And I feel like that they typically go for girls that all look like me too, which is ironic. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you describe yourself as the Duchess of Bay Ridge? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think that's in your Instagram bio. | |
| I think it's on my Twitter or X, whatever it's called. | |
| What is that? | |
| The Duchess of Bay Ridge. | |
| Wolf Wall Street. | |
| No, I know the movie, but like, what does that mean? | |
| Oh, it's just like the character. | |
| Honestly, this is going to be a funny story. | |
| Okay, tell us. | |
| So the guy that I did it for four and a half years. | |
| He was obsessed with that movie and we first started dating and he one sec. | |
| Yo, Chart, thank you for the gifted 50 subs. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| You're legend. | |
| Okay, go ahead. | |
| Yeah, the guy I dated for four and a half years, obsessed with that movie, and he wanted me to look like Margo Robbie from that movie. | |
| So like I started like spray tanning and my lips at the time, my lips were like ridiculous, like huge. | |
| Like my hair was like platinum blonde. | |
| Like I had to sleep with makeup. | |
| I slept with makeup for four and a half years. | |
| Like it was insane. | |
| I know. | |
| Wait, so wait. | |
| The lips were huge before he wanted you to change to look like Margot Ridge Really? | |
| No, he wanted me. | |
| No, before that, they weren't. | |
| Before that, they were just normal size. | |
| Marco's. | |
| I mean, no, but I had like, I had tiny lips. | |
| She's like, I'm pretty sure she has. | |
| No, but I had like nothing. | |
| But they were. | |
| Margot is stunning, by the way. | |
| I mean, but yeah, she had bigger lips than I did. | |
| Like, at the time. | |
| I mean, now I still have fake lips, but they're not as big as they were. | |
| But besides the point. | |
| Okay. | |
| But yeah, he wanted me to look like Margot Robbie. | |
| So then I just like kept running with this like look of that. | |
| And obviously I toned it down. | |
| But yeah, he like wanted me to look like that. | |
| I had to sleep with makeup on for four and a half years. | |
| If I didn't have a spray tan on, he was like, you look ill. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What if he wanted you to look like Lucy Lou? | |
| What would you do then? | |
| I don't know who that is. | |
| Lucy Lou. | |
| Charlie's Angels? | |
| Lucy Lou, Kill Bill. | |
| Oh, oh, the main chick. | |
| No. | |
| I don't know that. | |
| Probably not. | |
| I don't know who Lucy Liu is. | |
| What if she wanted you to look like, do you know Halle Berry? | |
| I mean, I think I'm a few shades too light for that. | |
| Yeah, but what? | |
| Wouldn't you get a spray tan? | |
| What if? | |
| I do spray tan and I'm still not dark enough, but. | |
| Yeah, but what if he wanted you to span? | |
| I get the concept. | |
| No, I probably wouldn't. | |
| Like, I did enjoy the aesthetic of the character. | |
| So I like kind of like went with the look of it, but I don't know. | |
| And then honestly, I don't use. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| Okalunda's Colt Glue.net donated $200. | |
| Yeah, one really handling that crystal. | |
| Oh, I what the fuck Okay. | |
| I am. | |
| I am. | |
| Just don't do it. | |
| Don't do it. | |
| Oh, we're promoting it. | |
| Promoting yourself. | |
| Robert Tanner. | |
| By the way, I'm chart166. | |
| Great shows always. | |
| Yo, Robert Tanner, good to see you, man. | |
| Thank you for all the support over there on Twitch. | |
| Really appreciate it, man. | |
| Ogle, thank you for the 200. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Robert. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Good to see you back in the chat. | |
| Okay, so boyfriend wanted you to look like Margot Robbie. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| I know. | |
| How did we get there, though? | |
| You were saying something about that. | |
| You said Duchess of Bay Ridge. | |
| Oh, Duchess. | |
| Because I don't really use my Twitter. | |
| I used to use Twitter a little bit more, but I kind of stopped using it. | |
| Where are you from? | |
| You do have an accent? | |
| Long Island, New York. | |
| Long Island. | |
| Okay, Long Island. | |
| I ramp up the accent a little bit, I think. | |
| I ramp up the accent? | |
| No, you need to fall into the accent. | |
| Lean into it. | |
| Yeah, but like you only hear it in some way. | |
| I feel like, yeah. | |
| Like, a lot of people think, like, because I'm from New York, like, they assume I'm like people from Brooklyn. | |
| Like, it's only like certain words. | |
| It's not like as harsh with the accent. | |
| But also, like, I feel like California people have an accent, and you guys don't think you do. | |
| Probably. | |
| Okay, so in any case, we got a 10, 8.5. | |
| Anywho. | |
| So, wait. | |
| And you, oh, I think I was asking you what you think men would rate you, and you said yes, you think 8.5. | |
| Are you talking to me or are you not here? | |
| I'm talking to you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, so. | |
| Okay, men would rate you 8.5. | |
| You think men would rate you, you said 7? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I guess my question to you is: why do you think you're 10? | |
| Like, what's the difference in men's assessment versus your self-assessment? | |
| Because I just, everywhere, all parts of my body, I looked how I guess I wanted to look for a specific magical reason, but I don't want to get into that because specific magical reasons. | |
| Yeah, like certain birthmarks that have certain like birthmarks. | |
| Facial features. | |
| I feel like if I was playing a video game, like I picked it out specifically, so why would I not think I was a 10 if I picked it out? | |
| I get you. | |
| I get you. | |
| That's kind of how I feel. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| That's interesting. | |
| Well, I do want to go around the table related to this one then. | |
| So do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time? | |
| Agatha, you're 27. | |
| Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time at 37? | |
| I don't think better than you. | |
| Do you make that face again? | |
| I don't think better than now, but I'm going to look good, I'm sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| And do you think you're better looking now at 27 than you were at 18? | |
| No, I'm looking better now. | |
| Better now. | |
| You're 23, better looking in 10 years' time at 33? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| I'm already aging poorly. | |
| I have wrinkles in my forehead. | |
| Botox. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 23, better looking in 10 years' time at 33? | |
| I think so, yeah. | |
| I feel like I've just continued to kind of like progress a little bit. | |
| So it's kind of weird. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Better looking in 20 years' time at 43? | |
| I would draw the line at like 38, maybe 37. | |
| When's the peak? | |
| 38, 39? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Something like that. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| I think so. | |
| And then if we go further, 30 years, so 53. | |
| Honestly, my grandma was still having a good time at that age. | |
| So I think I'd still be having a good time. | |
| No, no. | |
| When she was that. | |
| I think I'd still be having a good time. | |
| I don't know if I would make it necessarily right type. | |
| So just to be clear, you think you'll be as good looking at 53 compared to now at 23? | |
| I wouldn't say like as good looking, but I still think that I would be like having fun at least. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I feel like I could make connections with people that would maybe think that. | |
| Of course. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| You would meet somebody who would think you're. | |
| But also. | |
| Yeah, what do you think, though? | |
| There's Botox. | |
| There's a lot of different procedures you can do nowadays. | |
| So like, I mean, maybe down the line, I might consider it, possibly, but I don't know. | |
| Well, let's just, of the procedures available today, at 53, do you think you will be better looking than you are now at 23? | |
| Probably. | |
| Okay. | |
| 40 years' time, 63? | |
| Oh, that's drawing. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 26. | |
| Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time at 36? | |
| Honestly, yeah, because if my parents gave me anything, they gave me really good genetics, and they're both aging really fucking well. | |
| My mom's definitely a MILF. | |
| So at least I have good genetics aging-wise. | |
| 20 years time, 46. | |
| Yeah, I mean, they both still look like my parents, my mom is 53 and my dad is 60, and they're both, you know, aging well. | |
| So I feel like I'll be good. | |
| 30 years' time. | |
| I mean, my grandma, my grandma was pretty, so I feel like I'll be good. | |
| So, but you also love these people as well. | |
| So, like, I mean, with the average person, oh, yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, okay, you'll be at 56, you'll be better looking than you are now at 26. | |
| I feel like greater than or less than, probably equal to equal. | |
| Okay, I'll accept that. | |
| 40 years' time, 66 versus 26. | |
| I mean, I definitely feel like I'll be like a good-looking Gilf, you know. | |
| I don't think like I'm gonna be better looking than I am at 26, but you know 50 years' time, 76. | |
| I mean, I hope I live to that long, but you know, if I make it there, I'll be the hottest grandma in the nursing home. | |
| There you go. | |
| Is this like your genuine answer? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, like, you think 56, 66, 76 are going to be better looking or equal to now? | |
| No, not as 26 now, but I think I'll be like for my age, yeah. | |
| Here, repeat the question back to me so I make sure you actually know what the question is. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Yeah, do you think I'll be better? | |
| You asked me, do you think I'll be better looking at 76 than I am now? | |
| Yeah, but what about the previous questions? | |
| 36, 46, 56. | |
| Yeah, it's all the same. | |
| No, do I think I'm going to get better looking? | |
| I feel like my peak will probably be like 45. | |
| Your peak. | |
| So, 45, you'll be better looking than you are now. | |
| Yeah, I feel like. | |
| But anything after that, you're going to be worse looking or equal to. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's your genuine final answer. | |
| I'm just thinking of like my parents' ages and like how like they aged. | |
| They got better looking as they got older. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You can look good for your age while still not looking better than a 25. | |
| I saw pictures of both of them when they were like my age, and I'm like, you guys looked better when you guys were like in your 30s and 40s. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Looking back at pictures of my grandmother, like, I feel like she's not like, but like, she had like a good complexion as well. | |
| Like, she didn't do too much. | |
| I don't know. | |
| So, like, I feel like there's. | |
| I get it. | |
| What about you? | |
| Wait, ask the question about that. | |
| Yeah, so you're 25. | |
| Will you be better looking in 10 years' time at 35? | |
| Yeah, I'm aging super slowly like a vampire. | |
| So I think my peak would probably be 40, though. | |
| I'm not going to lie. | |
| It'd probably be 40. | |
| That's what I said. | |
| Okay. | |
| So if we go to 45, better looking at 45 than now? | |
| Okay. | |
| But peak 40, all right? | |
| You're 20 better looking in 10 years' time at 30? | |
| Yes. | |
| 20 years' time, 40? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 37 better looking in 10 years time, 47? | |
| No. | |
| You're 37. | |
| Were you better looking 10 years ago at 27? | |
| Actually, no. | |
| Better looking 37 versus 27? | |
| I'm better looking now, but that's because I was also kind of chunky and I didn't, you know, I wasn't really in shape. | |
| My skin wasn't great. | |
| If I was in the shape that I was in at that age, I would have been better looking then. | |
| You were like obese or? | |
| I was heavy. | |
| I was like over 200 pounds. | |
| Okay. | |
| So if I was this shape, then yeah. | |
| And then what about, let's say, 18 versus 37? | |
| Better looking one about the same-ish. | |
| I was. | |
| Same-ish. | |
| Yeah, because I think my face matured nicely and looked better as I got a little bit older. | |
| I lost some of the baby fat, but my skin was better. | |
| There was other things that would have been better looking at 18. | |
| Like what? | |
| Like my skin was better and have wrinkles, you know, just the youthfulness. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| So some things you feel improved, some things got worse. | |
| But in totality, you think overall better. | |
| 37 versus 18. | |
| No, not necessarily. | |
| Not better, but maybe equal, depending on what you're looking at. | |
| So as good looking, 37 versus 18? | |
| Probably. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Better looking in 20 years time, 38? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28? | |
| I think because I care a lot about health and fitness, and I'm hoping to improve, so I'd say yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| 20 years' time, 38? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| So do we have the age advancements? | |
| Did you check for it in Discord? | |
| AI hates me. | |
| They're still working on it? | |
| Okay. | |
| Those are going to come. | |
| We'll get to those in a sec. | |
| So we've put all of you through AI and we're still getting them going. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| But pretty much everybody here who said they're going to be better looking when they're older, like, that's, y'all are crazy. | |
| Because of money. | |
| No, because of money. | |
| I don't want to override money. | |
| But there's also procedures. | |
| Like, that's been all. | |
| Like, how do you think that's a good thing? | |
| Okay, tell you what. | |
| The procedures can make you look worse sometimes. | |
| And sometimes they look very unnatural, you know? | |
| We're not saying 50, 60. | |
| But I'm just curious, like, there's procedures. | |
| If it was the case that there were procedures that can make you look better, why aren't there like large swaths of like 18 to 20 year olds getting said procedures? | |
| There is. | |
| Well, no, there's women who are getting like Botox. | |
| They seem to look older. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But like they tend to look worse typically. | |
| It slows down the process. | |
| It's the filler when they start doing the filling into like, you know, like you could do Botox to avoid wrinkles, but if you start filling in like the wrinkles as they've already like come, that's when your face starts looking distorted. | |
| I think you're all lying. | |
| Okay. | |
| But I think if a guy came up to you and said, and if you were like, let's say 30, he said, are you 40? | |
| You would probably be offended. | |
| Whereas if you said that to a man, he'd probably take it as a compliment. | |
| Why do you say a guy would take it as a compliment at that time? | |
| Because guys want to look more mature and they want to come off as more mature. | |
| Whereas with women, they want to look younger. | |
| I feel like men peak when they're like 30. | |
| Definitely not. | |
| Like 40s. | |
| Mid-30s. | |
| Oh, it's so 40s, really? | |
| Mid-30 to 40. | |
| I feel like. | |
| I mean, you see like old Abercrombie ads. | |
| Like, I mean, there's no 40-year-olds, guys. | |
| They're 25. | |
| Yeah, they're like 15. | |
| And then like the abs with the Calvin Klein pants. | |
| I mean, they're not. | |
| Who's their audience that they're targeting, though? | |
| Their demographic. | |
| I mean, probably younger people. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, targeting all people wearing underwear doesn't really age out. | |
| What was that? | |
| Oh, I said you don't really age out of wearing underwear. | |
| I mean, they're targeting everyone, you know, like for Abercrombie, but you're correct. | |
| They are targeting younger people, but I mean. | |
| But wouldn't you be offended, though, if I came up to you and I said, are you 40? | |
| Well, yeah. | |
| I'm saying I feel like a guy would as well. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| No, definitely not. | |
| I feel like guys want to also, like, older men want to look younger as well. | |
| I feel like that would be like offensive to men, too. | |
| If that's the first question, it gets to a certain point, of course, but men want to. | |
| Like, if you tell a 30-year-old, are you 18? | |
| He's going to take that. | |
| Oh, you look great. | |
| You look 60 today. | |
| I mean, wouldn't like you're 26. | |
| Like, if I told you you look 45, you'd be like, oh, that's right. | |
| Right, because then there's such a huge gap. | |
| There's a fine line. | |
| There's a huge gap. | |
| That was like a 20-year gap, right? | |
| But if it's like, if you tell a guy that's trying to look mature and be mature, if you tell him that he looks 18, he's going to take a little bit of offense to that because he wants to come off as more mature. | |
| This is a reason why women want older men because they want someone that is more mature than them, more advanced than them. | |
| Valid. | |
| I agree. | |
| Yeah, you guys, I don't know. | |
| You're going to be better looking in 20, 20, 30 years' time. | |
| I don't want to see that. | |
| I low-key do. | |
| Don't say 30. | |
| I actually think I did it to myself once, and I sent it to my mom. | |
| She's like, I've done it. | |
| Why does it look like me? | |
| Well, we can test this out really simply. | |
| So, of all the women here who said that they're going to be better looking in 10, 20, 30 years' time, whatever it is. | |
| So I'll do two options. | |
| So the first option is the whatever podcast will offer to pay for plastic surgery to make you look older. | |
| So that means we'll put wrinkles on you, we'll put all these kinds of things that are associated with aging. | |
| And on top of that, we'll pay you $5,000 and pay for the surgery. | |
| But we're going to age-advance you 20 years or something. | |
| Love that. | |
| Anybody, any takers? | |
| Only if it includes liver spots. | |
| And you said only if we agree that we look better, right? | |
| You said only if we agree that we look better, right? | |
| Well, yeah, that's what we're doing. | |
| Does it include a social security check, too? | |
| If I do look better, women should not be comedians. | |
| That was fucking terrible. | |
| Wow. | |
| That doesn't include a social security check. | |
| Okay, bro. | |
| Good try. | |
| Yeah, so any takers? | |
| You said you'll be better looking in 30 years' time. | |
| I mean, I'll take it if I do think that I'll look better, but like I know that I won't. | |
| That's the thing. | |
| Okay. | |
| So when you reach that age, you would have surgeries to reverse your age, but you wouldn't take surgery right now. | |
| I'm not going to show that, though. | |
| They're just going to age me. | |
| They're not going to show the procedures. | |
| Is there even? | |
| I wonder, is there even a surgery to make someone look old? | |
| Like, is that a thing? | |
| Yeah, just mess up the Botox. | |
| Yeah, just shoot these surgery. | |
| No, like to like put like too much filler. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| No, like to like put like crow's feet. | |
| Is that even a thing? | |
| You get tattoos. | |
| The thing about the wrinkles and the age actors. | |
| Yeah, and that's like makeup. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| That's like specific makes. | |
| I wonder if there's like actually a thing. | |
| We can tattoo skincare on there. | |
| Yeah, we would do like tattooing and just like fully some extra fillers to get the jowls under, you know, down here. | |
| And body modification. | |
| People actually do it like with like raising. | |
| Oh, I know you like it. | |
| The little info like raised things. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm sure there's something because maybe people identify as be a little, if you can, be a little quicker with. | |
| We have her talking over here. | |
| We're just going to be quick on it, man. | |
| Okay, so how about this one? | |
| Magic wand. | |
| I wave a magic wand and you don't age internally, but everything about you that would age externally physically, you age forward 20 years and then you stay there for 20 years. | |
| You're not going to get any health problems anytime sooner. | |
| You're not going to die anytime sooner. | |
| We just advance your physical appearance. | |
| And then, so move you forward 20 years, then you stay there for 20 years, like how you look. | |
| So it's not like you continue aging once we've advanced your age. | |
| Do you take that? | |
| If I could, right now, in this moment, instantly turn you into a 40-year-old. | |
| Would I be like living just the same life that I am now? | |
| Like I'm in the same situation, like same life type. | |
| You're not going to die anytime sooner? | |
| No, I mean like literally like just copy and paste my life that I'm in now. | |
| Like my job, like where I live. | |
| Everything's the same. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean I don't think that a 40 year old working at a like a strip club as a bartender, I don't know if that would work out very well. | |
| Because you'd be less attractive. | |
| Well, I'd be a 40 year old working as a strip bartender. | |
| They're just as hot than it should be. | |
| If that's your peak, why would you? | |
| I'd be getting more money then. | |
| Situationally. | |
| I mean, but what situation? | |
| Situationally, like, it's like, oh, yeah, like, do people think that, I don't know, Jennifer Lopez is like super pretty. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And she's, what, 40-something. | |
| I bet when she was 20, she looked, you know, better. | |
| She looks really similar to how she looked at 25 because she's paid for a lot of plastic surgery. | |
| No. | |
| Even with the surgery, y'all, she's not the same woman. | |
| Yeah, I agree. | |
| She's not the same, but I mean, she's not the same. | |
| No, I agree. | |
| No, the thing is, you're seeing it wouldn't be a 40-year-old. | |
| I think it would be weird to see a 40-year-old behind the bar at a future club. | |
| But if you say you'd look more pretty, you should be making more money because you look better. | |
| It doesn't have to do with how I look. | |
| It just is no one at my job is over the age of 30. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| When you're 40, what job do you want? | |
| I want to own a fucking salon. | |
| Huh? | |
| I want to own my own salon. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Answer the actual question. | |
| Salon owner. | |
| What? | |
| Okay, so it's not like, heaven forbid you lose your bartending strip club job because you now look older. | |
| Do you want to answer the actual question? | |
| Magic wand, do you take it? | |
| No. | |
| Why not? | |
| Because I feel like being in your 20s, like a lot of people are like, oh, yeah, I wish I was in my 20s again. | |
| You would still be in the 2020s. | |
| You'd still be in your 20s. | |
| Your age doesn't change. | |
| You're still in your 20s. | |
| It's just your output. | |
| Just the way I look. | |
| Just the way you look. | |
| Just lost your look. | |
| Oh. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That would be weird. | |
| Yeah, it's a hypothetical. | |
| I thought you meant like I would be age 240 and stay a 40. | |
| Just your looks. | |
| And I'm still 26. | |
| Oh, that would just be fucking weird. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Here, let me ask you a question. | |
| Yeah, I wouldn't take it. | |
| Hold on. | |
| If you didn't eat breakfast this morning, how would you feel? | |
| Hungry. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, look, you would feel weird. | |
| I get it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But you said you would be better looking, right? | |
| So wave the magic wand. | |
| You get to instantly be better looking. | |
| You got me there. | |
| So you don't think that you would be better looking? | |
| All right, maybe not. | |
| Well, what he's proving is that your value in terms of the external is going to be based on what other people view you as. | |
| That's why I rate myself as a four because the marketplace has said that. | |
| So you, you have said that you're going to make less money when you look older. | |
| So it kind of goes against. | |
| Well, I didn't say the less money. | |
| She said less. | |
| She said less. | |
| You said I would make more money. | |
| You say you'd look prettier, but your job is like, you know, it's a strip club. | |
| It's based kind of on how people find you attractive. | |
| So by you saying you'd look prettier, therefore you'd be getting more money is what I'm saying in your head. | |
| But if you're saying you'd get less money, then your looks would be down. | |
| Yeah, the marketplace decides that you're of less value. | |
| All right, you guys might be right on that one. | |
| All right. | |
| You guys got me there. | |
| You got me there. | |
| All right. | |
| Do we have the age advancement? | |
| Photos? | |
| Wait, I thought you said there were like three of them or? | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| We're still working on them then. | |
| Here, while we're doing that, one sec. | |
| Were you able, did you pull up that super chat that came in? | |
| Yeah, I did. | |
| Just like 30 seconds ago or something? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| We have something from we have a chat here from Christine coming in Yo, thank you Christine Christine donated $200 we all know that your looks fade with age and we know that you know the point of the question is to show how delusional women are stop making us women look like idiots. | |
| This makes me hate my gender. | |
| Oh wow damn Christine we're off that's crazy. | |
| I only said that because of plastic surgery. | |
| So that's why I think that the way you said what I only said what I said because of plastic surgery and how accessible it is. | |
| So that's why I think the way I think. | |
| But even you know, you're admitting that you look better right now because when you use a plastic surgery, you're trying to reverse your age to what you currently are. | |
| I mean yeah, but if it ends up, if the process ends up looking good and I'm still advancing in age, I'm still gonna be in, but the point of plastic surgery is to make you look younger, so like you're at the right way. | |
| You look right yeah, right now. | |
| So you have to admit that you look better now than you ever will. | |
| What if we took plastic surgery out of it? | |
| What if you're not allowed to get any? | |
| If I'm not allowed to get any, then no, I'm probably gonna look worse, like five years, and by worse you mean older. | |
| Yeah okay, this is a high IQ conversation. | |
| Yeah, deep dive. | |
| So I'm curious though, you said you're a 10. | |
| Can you name like, a famous woman who you think is a 10? | |
| like Megan is Megan Fox a 10 I think she was. | |
| She's starting to get a little too much work by. | |
| I think she's her now. | |
| No like, maybe too much work. | |
| Oh, she's got too much transformers like yeah, I was gonna say Jennifer's body transformers. | |
| Okay she's, she's actually 10, but based on everybody's standards. | |
| I said seven, everybody else, I said ten for myself. | |
| Oh okay, I see, but in for your own self assessment. | |
| You like see a picture of Megan Fox and you're like we're on par. | |
| I know, I just base it off of, like how I wanted to look. | |
| I guess, like how I would want to look because of who I am. | |
| Well, so you're talking more like aesthetic. | |
| No, like I'm actually talking. | |
| Like I'm talking like body parts and everything too. | |
| Body parts yeah, which body parts? | |
| All of them, all of them. | |
| Knees, or some shit, your kneecaps, all of my knees, all of them, all of them. | |
| But my knees I never looked at. | |
| Or my elbows, but everything else I guess I looked at and I paid attention to. | |
| Okay, like your elbow right now, check that elbow. | |
| I mean, the amount of opium on this panel is crazy. | |
| The strippers have hit the wall as hard as they hit the pole. | |
| I have seen that dupe debate. | |
| He is legit. | |
| That's for you. | |
| Thanks for being on the show the other night, Brian. | |
| Yo-ho, good to see you in the chat man. | |
| It was uh good speaking with you uh, the other day. | |
| Appreciate the uh, appreciate you dropping by, thank for the uh tts man and thank you for the compliment and uh hopefully uh, nobody clips the. | |
| You know the little song um, anyways. | |
| So uh wait, how about? | |
| Oh, I want you know what I want. | |
| Let's do this. | |
| Uh, do I have everybody do it. | |
| Fuck it yeah, why not? | |
| Um, so okay, I want everybody here at the table to rate me and i'm not gonna be offended if you rate me low. | |
| I'm not gonna be upset, i'm not gonna insult you. | |
| Um, so you can be brutally honest. | |
| I want you to rate me on the scale of one to ten. | |
| Just looks, just looks. | |
| You can't include my rather uh, you know my short-tempered personality. | |
| You can't include what did you say? | |
| You said we can't include what just looks. | |
| So you can't, With my shitty, toxic personality. | |
| Is five the average or seven or sassy manifesto? | |
| Five would be average. | |
| Okay, go ahead. | |
| Six. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm going to say five. | |
| Five and a half, six. | |
| Okay. | |
| Six and a half. | |
| Six and a half. | |
| Okay. | |
| Six. | |
| Six. | |
| Okay. | |
| Seven. | |
| Seven. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Real quick. | |
| No, real quick. | |
| No, you don't need to justify that's a good idea. | |
| No, I already need to say that. | |
| All right, we need people in the world. | |
| Like, there's some ugly people, you know. | |
| I mean, that's what's going on. | |
| Oh, we're talking about like the entire population of Earth. | |
| No, no, we put it on 43. | |
| The whole Earth's population. | |
| She's comparing me to 5'6. | |
| 5' 5'2. | |
| 5'2-6. | |
| 5.5. | |
| 5'2. | |
| 5. | |
| Okay. | |
| 5. | |
| All right. | |
| Wait, so I think I got, let's see here. | |
| You gave me 6.5, was it? | |
| 6.5, yeah. | |
| 6.5. | |
| What did you give me? | |
| 6? | |
| 6. | |
| 6? | |
| Okay. | |
| So you're 8.5, right? | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| 8.5. | |
| So if you and me were dating, like you're, you would feel like you're doing me a favor. | |
| Like, you're settling for me. | |
| I mean, if you want to put it that way. | |
| I mean, that's what it would be. | |
| Yeah, I mean, if we were talking hypothetically, like, yeah, I guess. | |
| There's a lot of things that make up. | |
| Like, where does the, is that just, that's the whole question? | |
| Yeah, pretty much. | |
| And then you'd also be severely, you're a 10, just a lowly six. | |
| You would also be settling for me. | |
| Is that correct? | |
| You can't handle me, but it has nothing to do with looks. | |
| I can't handle it. | |
| It has nothing to do with looks, though. | |
| Remember, I can't handle. | |
| I would be settling. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| It's like, yeah, I can. | |
| Okay, that's interesting. | |
| I can't handle you. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| That reminds me of those TikToks. | |
| What's that song? | |
| It's like he can't handle the... | |
| Wait, what is that? | |
| Stupid TikTok noise sound. | |
| Do you guys know what I'm talking about? | |
| He can't handle the stallion. | |
| He can't handle the stallion. | |
| He's scared of the. | |
| Do you know that song? | |
| He's scared of the pussy? | |
| I remember the Crystalia. | |
| The Crystalia stand-up where he's like, that's not what I'm thinking about. | |
| My mother, like, that's what I was talking about. | |
| In recent time, like, it's like, abort, abort, he can't handle the stallion. | |
| Something like that. | |
| I don't know. | |
| His mega stallion. | |
| But, so, okay, that's just, that's just interesting. | |
| Um, okay. | |
| That's fun. | |
| It's funny. | |
| Um, look, the reason we asked this question, it's basically just a delusion check, I guess. | |
| Um, I think what it kind of boils down to is a couple things. | |
| So, I do think women tend to self-assess their attractiveness very generously and pretty highly, whereas men are typically more realistic when it comes to their physical attractiveness and their standing in the marketplace. | |
| Uh, and this is for a couple reasons. | |
| So, women will do a self-assessment with what's the word for it. | |
| It's evading me. | |
| With enhancements. | |
| So, it'd be like, okay, this is what I look like with makeup and filters and like the most charitable light or not, like good lighting or whatever. | |
| And then you're going to look at the dude, and he doesn't have like really good photos, and you're like, okay, you're looking at him that way. | |
| Also, if you pull up a girl's Instagram page and you look at her comments on her Instagram page, it's like all her friends. | |
| Oh my God, you're so beautiful, blah, So, y'all are getting gassed up by your peer group. | |
| You individually, on your own, you look at yourself wearing makeup and you're like, this is how attractive I am. | |
| And then the third thing is you have short-term sexual access to men who are outside of your league. | |
| And so, for these reasons, women, I think, are totally delusional when it comes to their physical appearance. | |
| What do you mean by outside of your league? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| So, what I mean by that is, as a girl, you can sleep with men who are just outside of your league. | |
| It doesn't necessarily always have to do with the looks, but it definitely can be. | |
| Like, financially, the way you look. | |
| Yeah, it can be financially, it can be status. | |
| Like, a girl who's a 19-year-old, like a hot girl in college, can go fuck like the world's most famous rapper, celebrity. | |
| Yes, and I mean, it depends on her attractiveness, too. | |
| What if we could do that? | |
| Yeah, she has to be attractive, but like you, a normal, like, 19-year-old college girl can get sexual access to like really high-status men. | |
| So, that's one component of it. | |
| Question: If we can date high too, does that raise a rating even if we think we're like down here more? | |
| What do you mean by date, though? | |
| Because y'all get caught up. | |
| Let's say high-status men. | |
| Let's say, like, someone that thinks they're maybe like a seven or six. | |
| Would that raise their rating if they could get like anybody? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| What do you think? | |
| Like, on the inside, or like would another guy look at a girl and think that she is better or more attractive because she's been able to achieve a high status? | |
| What does that mean to achieve, though? | |
| Like, a girl who can fucking begin with. | |
| Yeah, she's not fucked. | |
| She's been with high status. | |
| Yeah, what does that mean, though? | |
| Like, girls, you guys be, you'll, you'll be involved with a guy for a while. | |
| Let's say she's been in a serious, like, relationship. | |
| Like, maybe it was, like, only we're not talking about Elon Musk either because Elon Musk. | |
| No, usually the more men that a girl's been with, the less attractive she is. | |
| So, I don't, I mean, I don't think it makes her more attractive if she's been with, you know. | |
| That's valid. | |
| And also, it's just like a lot of guys will just keep a girl around for sex. | |
| Like, a lot of girls will think that, like, I think personally, a very unattractive guy is attractive because of his wealth or things of that nature. | |
| I guess I'll make it more clear. | |
| So, when I'm talking about women can get men outside their league, so men will sleep down, but they'll never be in a long-term relationship with that girl. | |
| They'll never marry that girl. | |
| A man will like sleep with a girl and just instantly disqualify her from commitment or relationship just on the basis of her looks alone, but because he's just like, ah, okay, I just want to have sex, whatever. | |
| And this doesn't necessarily even mean, oh, as a girl, you can only get this guy for a one-night stand. | |
| Sometimes you can be like friends with benefits. | |
| Hey, can you not fucking talk while I'm talking? | |
| Like, you can be quiet while they're arranging the chairs. | |
| So a girl can lost my train of thought. | |
| This is why we tell people not to. | |
| All right. | |
| A girl can sleep up. | |
| No, I'm recalling the topic, but I forgot exactly what I was going on. | |
| Yeah, just totally lost it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, whatever. | |
| Thank you, though. | |
| I gave you the warning before the show to not be fucking talking. | |
| So appreciate that. | |
| I don't know. | |
| What was I saying? | |
| I heard you saying sleep around. | |
| Yeah, I don't think any of the girls are going to be listening. | |
| A girl can sleep with a guy that she can't actually get to commit to a long-term relationship just because she's young and attractive, but it doesn't mean that she can actually change it in her own. | |
| Yeah, essentially, I mean, but it's cues that they then think that they are of a higher value than they are because they have banged a few guys who are high-value men. | |
| Yeah, essentially. | |
| I mean, and it's not even necessarily just in the framework of a one-night stand. | |
| A guy could keep a girl around for a couple, couple dates, a couple weeks, a couple months, sometimes even longer. | |
| But if you don't get the ring, you don't get the long-term commitment, you don't get monogamy, that's not your league. | |
| Your league is the guys who are willing to commit to you and wife you up and have kids with you. | |
| Because it's easy for y'all to fuck anybody, really. | |
| But you can't say the same thing about men. | |
| Like, men, if we step to a girl who's outside of our league, we don't get anything. | |
| We don't get a conversation. | |
| We don't get a kiss. | |
| We don't get a date. | |
| We don't get sex. | |
| It's an upfront rejection. | |
| Y'all get rejected on the back end. | |
| We get rejected up front. | |
| I want to know what the definition of outside of like a guys league. | |
| Like what would be like the definition of that for like as a woman? | |
| Like what would be outside of a guy's league? | |
| Like as a woman? | |
| Just based on physical appearance. | |
| No, like that's why like what's the definition of like an out of your league type of girl? | |
| Because we went over like out of your league type of guy. | |
| It would be strictly looks typically. | |
| Oh, just strictly looks. | |
| Yeah, strictly looks. | |
| Okay. | |
| What else do men really date for? | |
| Well, that's what I was asking. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Who would you consider like in the same like league as you that like we would know, I guess? | |
| I mean, I rate myself averagely. | |
| So this question typically would apply to somebody who thinks they're 10 and they could point to like a celebrity. | |
| No, no, I think it would be interesting. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| I haven't really considered it, but you haven't considered it at all. | |
| I can't think of a specific celebrity that is like. | |
| It's kind of off-the-top question. | |
| Yeah, I couldn't think of one. | |
| Plus, men don't want celebrities. | |
| Women do. | |
| Men don't. | |
| I don't like keep track of like female celebrities. | |
| I don't care. | |
| I mean, you watch movies. | |
| Yeah, but not to date them and take them serious and marry them. | |
| And I watch movies, but I don't know any actors' names, so that's fair. | |
| That's fair. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I don't know if what was your question? | |
| Mine? | |
| Yeah, I think. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| I just said, like, what would be, like, the, like, out of your, like, what would be, like, Men can't be. | |
| It's just like just physical for like a guy to consider a girl out of their league. | |
| The only types. | |
| Okay, here's the difference. | |
| So like an average girl can like at least get a one-night stand with a guy who's outside of her league. | |
| Whereas in order for a guy to be dealing with a girl who's outside of his league, if we're talking looks, he needs to be bringing something else to the table. | |
| Right. | |
| And typically it's going to be like massive amounts of status. | |
| So like a really famous rapper or musician, typically, these guys, a lot of them, typically not the best looking dudes, but they can date women outside their league because they're bringing status. | |
| Women are attracted to status. | |
| Men don't care about status. | |
| So it wouldn't really, there wouldn't really be a correspondence there. | |
| Like, that's why when we said like the difference between like a girl hooking up with or dating a guy outside of her league, it didn't come down to just like what the guy looked like. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like it has to be like if a girl's going and going with a guy outside of her league, it has to do with more than just looks. | |
| It has to do with, like you said, status. | |
| It has to do with financial. | |
| It could be just looks too, though. | |
| I feel like you could be. | |
| I feel like it doesn't just come down to that because you could like outside of your league doesn't mean like a super hot hobo. | |
| You know, like it doesn't have to do with just looks. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like I feel like you said. | |
| Well, I mean, actually, who is that guy who got arrested? | |
| The mugger's a lot of people. | |
| I talk about the blue-eyed black guy. | |
| Blue eyes. | |
| He's literally fucking criminal. | |
| And now he's rich and married to this. | |
| I mean, like a supermodel, like looking at fucking. | |
| Some fashion or error or some shit. | |
| All right, that's an anomaly, but like... | |
| Sure, I agree. | |
| That's an anomaly. | |
| Yeah, that's not a common thing. | |
| But yeah, for like, like you were saying, like, guys to think a girl is outside of their league, it's just looks to guys. | |
| I don't understand your. | |
| Can you clarify? | |
| What's the difference between a girl being outside of a guys' league than a guy being outside of a girls' league? | |
| Will a guy look at a female? | |
| So if a guy sees a woman and she makes more money than him, is she out of his league then? | |
| In the same way that like if a man has good fi if a man is financially extremely rich, that's what I'm saying. | |
| She probably thinks that he is. | |
| That's what I mean. | |
| It's just not about looks. | |
| But men don't value a woman's earning potential. | |
| Some do. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Some guys are cucks. | |
| No, I mean, like, most of them in my area do. | |
| I mean, you also don't want an unemployed check either. | |
| The reality is, though, if you have if you have a male attorney, here's the difference. | |
| A male attorney is going to look at like a 20-year-old barista and be like, wow, she's really attractive. | |
| I want to date her. | |
| And say that male attorney is like 35. | |
| The 35-year-old female attorney is not going to look at the 20-year-old male barista, even if he's really attractive, and be like, I'm going to take this guy seriously long term. | |
| No, because I'm not going to be able to do that. | |
| That's what I was getting at. | |
| It was like, I wanted to know, like, how do we distinguish the difference? | |
| Like, what are the categories for each boy and girl? | |
| Like, what's the difference between being out of a league in one gender besides the other? | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, like how you just said, like, and I agree with that. | |
| Like, yeah, a 35-year-old attorney is not going to see a 20-year-old barista guy and be like, I'm going to fuck. | |
| Like, no. | |
| The female version of the attorney. | |
| Yeah, the reverse way. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The reverse way, that's 100%. | |
| That's why. | |
| I just wanted to get down to like what is like the actual like determination between the both. | |
| Well, so when I'm when I'm speaking about league as it relates to the like rating one to ten question, it's strictly about looks. | |
| Okay. | |
| So typically if we if we're looking at looks and we're looking at average people. | |
| So I was giving an example in a way which men, even despite their looks, can get women outside of their looks league through things like status or sometimes it can be personality. | |
| Okay, yeah, that's what I was asking. | |
| Sometimes it can be personality. | |
| You have to be pretty charismatic to do it. | |
| But ultimately, like looks is probably the most important thing for everybody, really. | |
| Can I also say, women don't think about this, but we're like exactly the opposite. | |
| So the less a woman does, the more attractive she is. | |
| The more a man does, the more attractive he is. | |
| So when you're asking, you know, when you say men want women with more money or more status, it's the exact opposite. | |
| The less status you have, the less known you are, the less followers you have, the less promiscuous friends you have, the less partners you have. | |
| Everything that you have less than, they're going to value that more. | |
| Whereas with men, it's the opposite. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Some men, though. | |
| Well, obviously, there's six fingers on some people. | |
| I feel like those are the only like valued things. | |
| Like, you know what I mean? | |
| Like, those aren't like an important thing. | |
| Like, all the things you just listed aren't really, like, the top things to look for. | |
| Like, I feel like... | |
| From a man's perspective? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, I want to know, is it like an independent woman is less attractive? | |
| Like, to where, like, I don't need you. | |
| I don't need the things that you're offering. | |
| I would like them. | |
| I would appreciate them, but I don't need them. | |
| Like, a man wants to feel like a man sometimes wants to feel needed. | |
| So everything comes with the cost. | |
| So if you say a woman is, she has a good career or she's an independent boss woman, that looks good externally, but you have to, it's all a projection of what's internal. | |
| So the way she acts, the way she projects, the way she thinks, when you're independent, you usually have more masculine traits. | |
| So you're more assertive, more dominant, you take bigger risks. | |
| These are all masculine traits. | |
| So even though you can look at that and say, oh, there's no problem with making more money, we're not judging the external, we're judging the internal. | |
| Well, not even more money, just like being financially stable. | |
| I feel like a lot of the times men want or are attracted to women who need them. | |
| men want to feel needed they want to feel like is it is it attractive to you if a guy wants to take care of you No, I love that. | |
| But I'm also independent and I don't need it. | |
| I would like it. | |
| But I also don't expect something from a man that I can't do for myself. | |
| That's exactly why marriages are falling apart. | |
| You don't need each other. | |
| But there's this, it's a thing called the law of contingency. | |
| We're all contingent upon something else. | |
| So there's a starting point, which is, you know, if you want to say God, but everything is contingent upon others. | |
| So for you guys to survive, for myself to survive, we need water that was filtered by someone else. | |
| And then that water had to exist from someone else. | |
| Your marriage should depend on both of you needing each other as well. | |
| Your kid needs you. | |
| Your family needs you. | |
| You need your partner to be a good leader. | |
| It's the law of contingency where you're all contingent upon another. | |
| So you should want to need each other because you can't survive on your own. | |
| This is something Bella and I were talking about is that equality doesn't mean the same. | |
| And like reliance on another person isn't a weakness. | |
| But would you say you're like more of a 50-50 or 40-60 type of person in a relationship? | |
| What was the question? | |
| Like a 50-50. | |
| Are you asking, should it be 50-50? | |
| No. | |
| I mean, it depends. | |
| Well, it always depends, you know, because with you, you say with marriage, you don't have a goal, right? | |
| So with someone that doesn't have a goal, you can't really tell them much because just whatever, whatever feels good. | |
| If you have a goal, if you want to get married, if you want to have a good relationship, if you want to raise kids and raise a better generation than the one you guys are being raised in, then you probably want to have a specific set of standards where my man is the leader and I follow his lead and we're not 50-50. | |
| Because once again, the law of contingency means you're going to be contingent on him, but he's also going to be contingent on you to make sure that you play out your part. | |
| So the less you guys can be equal to each other in the sense of how you guys are and operate, the better it's going to be. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And like you were saying, you probably want a man who wants to protect, who wants to provide for you in the same sense that he's going to want a woman who is nurturing, who is going to, right? | |
| So there has to be like a balance. | |
| Like checks and balance kind of like. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Like I think many women in our generation or today in this day and age want to expect a lot. | |
| And like we say we deserve all these things, but what can we, not in the sense bring to the table, but like you said, like what you want to provide or you want to protect her. | |
| So that's what you value. | |
| You can also like reflect internally and I think kind of that's why I think working on yourself and like becoming the person that the person you want, this is going to sound jumbled, but working on becoming the person that the kind of person you would want to be with would want to be with. | |
| I value my independence a lot as well. | |
| So like I find that very hard to balance. | |
| That's the only reason. | |
| Independence in which ways like your job like you want relationships. | |
| Like I still value that. | |
| Like you want to be your own separate person. | |
| I want to like I obviously would love to have both of us have our things that we do together and everything as well. | |
| But I would like to separate that and have time to like breathe on my own. | |
| And like, you know, I don't want to be ridiculed or something for, say, I go out for a night or whatever. | |
| Like I don't want my phone being blown up. | |
| Like, oh my God, you're out cheating. | |
| Like, you know, like insecurity type of stuff. | |
| Let me ask you, the man that you're looking for, is he, do you think the man that you're looking for is going to look for the things that you want as well? | |
| Like a family, a long-term stability situation? | |
| I'm not necessarily looking to build a family at the moment. | |
| I'm not really looking into relationships either. | |
| So, I mean. | |
| So, well, at what age are you going to start thinking about that? | |
| I haven't thought about that yet. | |
| And you're 23? | |
| 23? | |
| Okay. | |
| So you're going to spend your best years, your most fertile years, the years where you're going to be at the highest value and you're going to be kind of wasting them? | |
| I don't think I'm wasting them. | |
| So let's put it this way. | |
| If you keep racking up more bodies, you keep having pictures of you at the club more often, you keep making more money, you're going to try to look for a man that wants the exact opposite because I'm assuming you're probably going to want a guy that is of high value, right? | |
| I mean, it depends on what your like description of. | |
| So how would you categorize it? | |
| Honestly, I'm more of a personable person. | |
| I love someone that I can connect with on like more of a like spiritual manner and in a sense. | |
| Okay. | |
| But are you going to want him to lead you or do you want it to be 50-50? | |
| I don't want it to be 50-50, but like a 50-40 or 60-40 would be acceptable. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, the thing that, because I think these women are, you know, they said they're virgins, right? | |
| And I think that's the absolute best thing that a woman can do. | |
| If she restricts herself and saves herself and they start making good decisions from the very beginning, where I, once again, I do less to be more attractive. | |
| I think that's the absolute best thing you can do. | |
| And one thing that I wish my family, because we grew up pretty liberal in my household, one thing I wish my family would have told me is make good decisions. | |
| Because I was making bad decisions, but with good intentions. | |
| So we can have good intentions. | |
| We want to have good lives, but we make bad decisions. | |
| There's many circumstances where purity isn't necessarily like valued. | |
| You know, not valued, but like it's not a thing anymore. | |
| And it's not because of your own decisions that you've made. | |
| Right. | |
| And do you think we live in a better society now because of that? | |
| I mean. | |
| If we look at the stats, I mean, 26% of women are on antipsychotics, antidepressants, anxiety meds. | |
| 26% of women, where we have pushed this liberation movement of feminism. | |
| So we've given you ladies more rights, quote unquote. | |
| We've given you more freedom. | |
| And you guys have over doubled the rate of antipsychotics than men. | |
| It's made women unhappy. | |
| I'm not on them. | |
| Most women. | |
| I'm not saying you are on them. | |
| More women are unhappy now than they were when less women were working. | |
| And the reason I highlight that is because you're kind of appealing to the world. | |
| Like the world does this, or this is our current culture, therefore this is okay. | |
| But I'm asking you, do you want to live the way the results are showing? | |
| I don't know if that has to do exactly. | |
| Like it's, oh, women are on meds more. | |
| I mean, they've also pushed more meds on us. | |
| You know, like, I'm on meds and, you know, I've been trying to get off of them, but it's like you go to a psychiatrist, you know. | |
| Right. | |
| And I don't know if you're afraid. | |
| I don't know if they're actually done studies on the happiness, though. | |
| Yeah, there was a sense of therapy. | |
| The workforce, women have become unhappier than they were in like the 1990s. | |
| It was one of the biggest studies. | |
| I feel like with the dynamic and how men are nowadays as well, there is a lot of aggression behind certain things. | |
| So like, I don't know. | |
| I feel like therapy and things like that could benefit a lot of people as well. | |
| I've worked in treatment. | |
| I know that women are more open to being in therapy and taking meds than men that think that they can like handle things on their own and do that. | |
| Do you know why that is though? | |
| Because women are more open and in tune with emotions. | |
| Well, emotions. | |
| You can stay open. | |
| That's a euphemism for propaganda. | |
| They're more propagandized. | |
| That's why they make up a huge percent of the marketplace. | |
| I mean, women that have mental issues, they're more open to being like, okay, I'm going to go to a therapist, meaning they have more opportunities to go see someone that's going to prescribe the men's than men who are just going to go out and, let's say, the guy is bipolar. | |
| They're going to go out and like go with these manic episodes rather than a woman. | |
| So you can't direct. | |
| No, but here's the problem. | |
| When these women are going to the therapist, are they going to male therapists or female therapists? | |
| I have a female therapist. | |
| I have both. | |
| Okay, but generally, do you think it's more women or men that are the therapists? | |
| Right. | |
| So now women are taking advice from other women through therapy. | |
| Who are just as unhappy as unhappy and they're going to push the same exact propaganda that got them there in the first place. | |
| Lots of things. | |
| I think anytime that you make a decision and you're going to someone else, even a doctor, to rely on them to make a decision for you. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| I think having your own discernment is really important. | |
| But people don't have discernment anymore. | |
| I mean, we have had debates, but it's like one of the things that I talk about with when people say, I trust the science, they don't care about the science. | |
| They don't look at the studies. | |
| They care about what the experts told them. | |
| So when we say that women are, we act like they're analyzing all the medicine, they're checking, make sure everything, the prescription is good, they're not. | |
| You guys just follow blindly. | |
| And this is because women are easily propaganda. | |
| That's why when Kamala was running, her number one message was reproductive rights. | |
| Because she knows that this appeals to your emotion, and women want to follow that movement because they feel liberated from it. | |
| Yeah, I just think it's hard to put two things that are so like not core. | |
| I mean, that's not true. | |
| They could have some correlation, but at the same time, like I said, people are open and not everything is a direct result of the other thing. | |
| Would you say that people should go to like some something religious for therapy instead? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Right. | |
| I think finding, I mean, I say finding God and being spiritual or whatever helps you. | |
| I think they could go hand in hand. | |
| I like practice Judaism to a certain extent. | |
| And I also see a therapist. | |
| I've worked in treatment. | |
| I've been in treatment. | |
| And I've been on meds. | |
| I've been off of meds. | |
| Can I ask you, if you don't want to share, obviously, but what kind of meds are you on? | |
| Currently just got off of a few meds. | |
| Right now I'm on, I mean, pain meds. | |
| I have a lot of chronic pain, but I also take an anti-anxiety med. | |
| Okay. | |
| Not like Xanax, but one that I take in morning and at night and medication to help me sleep. | |
| How long have you been taking the anti-the anxiety one? | |
| Around three years. | |
| Okay, and are you going to continue taking that for another 20 years? | |
| No, I'm currently working to get all of my meds right now. | |
| Well, I think this is important because we would agree, we would find common ground that the cycler society that we live in, they do push meds like crazy. | |
| I mean, when I was 18, I had so much anxiety. | |
| I had gone evicted from my apartment. | |
| I was so much, I was like 12 grand in debt, but I was under so much stress trying to start my business. | |
| And I went to the doctor and they prescribed me, I think it was Adderall or like something for focusing. | |
| I forgot what it was. | |
| And she didn't care to dig in deep and actually understand the core of the problem. | |
| If I would have gone on those meds, I would have been like three years now, right? | |
| Now I'm going to work on a cycle to get off of them. | |
| So we live in this society where we have to be very careful with who we trust and why we trust them. | |
| Because they throw out these buzzwords. | |
| Trust the expert, trust the people that are, you know, and they learn it. | |
| Yeah, then it always comes back to who did they learn it from? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think another thing is that there is a double standard with men and women. | |
| See, me and my brother, we would do the same things. | |
| I'll use that as an example. | |
| My parents would be like, okay, like you're a female, like you're going to come home at a certain time. | |
| Or like, oh, he's acting out, but that's just what a guy would do. | |
| And then I'm a woman, so I'd go to therapy. | |
| And I think that there's like a double standard. | |
| And I'm all for like, you know, I'm not like the big Kamala supporter. | |
| I don't really like her. | |
| But there is that, like with men and women, where there's like different standards, like you're going to come home at a certain time or you're not allowed to do this. | |
| Like, you know, you see a woman drinking beer, you're like, eh, that's a little, you know. | |
| But you see a guy drinking beer and it's like, oh, it's just like a guy drinking beers. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So there's a double standard with that. | |
| See, me and my brother, you know, one of us would be doing something, but I'd get more not in trouble, but I'd need more help because it's not a feminine thing to do. | |
| You're held to a higher standard, right, in some ways. | |
| Yeah, you said it exactly. | |
| I was looking for that. | |
| But so therefore, I went to therapy. | |
| He didn't. | |
| I got meds. | |
| He didn't. | |
| So we have a lack of masculinity. | |
| That's the problem that we haven't seen. | |
| A lack of what? | |
| A lack of masculinity. | |
| And then this leads to a lack of identity. | |
| So do you ever see people that are trying to act away that you can tell they're not genuine? | |
| It's because they lack an identity, right? | |
| And that identity comes because they weren't given good values and good virtues when they were growing up. | |
| So with men now, when you say women are going through therapy, it's because men don't have the leadership capabilities to now lead themselves. | |
| And for me, the number one rule that I found is that I'm the happiest in my life when I'm more masculine. | |
| So the more I strive away from my masculinity, the more depressed I am. | |
| Anxiety, I don't have that anymore because I got rid of that. | |
| When you change your mindset on that, but the problem with that is with the society, through the stigmatization that we push through the propaganda, men are obviously pushed now to seek therapy, to go to college, to lower their standards. | |
| They have these habits. | |
| I think men are pushed to go through college. | |
| Yeah, they're pushed. | |
| They're pushed through all these. | |
| I mean, women obviously are pushed through college. | |
| That's why it's like a 60-40% rate on that. | |
| But men are taught to be less masculine, which is why we have these problems. | |
| So now you, instead of seeking your man for guidance, which is my man should lead me, he should give me my therapy that I need. | |
| You're going to someone externally that knows nothing about you nor cares about you. | |
| Well, I started, I mean, I was going through some like drug addiction stuff. | |
| That's why I went to therapy at a younger age and worked in treatment. | |
| That's what I meant by that. | |
| So, I mean, you know, there's a lot of depressed people, but what man do you think I should be going to? | |
| Like, my father, you mean? | |
| Yeah, your father. | |
| I mean, your father would be, if you don't have a husband, your father would be ideal, but do you have a good relationship with your father? | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think he's watching. | |
| So shout out. | |
| Okay, good. | |
| So, well, can I ask you, like, between you and your father, what do you think led you to get into drug problems to begin with? | |
| Wrong crowd. | |
| Okay. | |
| I grew up in a great family. | |
| My parents are still together. | |
| Okay. | |
| I have a great, my mom's my best friend, like, you know, great relationship. | |
| And I think that I took that for granted at the time. | |
| And I went with the wrong crowd. | |
| And it was all a product of myself going with the wrong people. | |
| But I don't, I mean, I'm not saying my dad can't help. | |
| I call him for advice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But, I mean, at the time, I don't think my dad was like, you know, I don't think he wants to hear about his daughter doing drugs and hanging out with the wrong crowd. | |
| You know, like, he'd be there for me if I told him, but I mean, he wouldn't want to hear it. | |
| And he probably would give me more of like the, like, let's figure this out. | |
| Like, you need to go to treatment. | |
| He would be pushing treatment on me rather than him being like, all right, we're going to sit down and talk once a week and, you know, have a conversation. | |
| I feel like going against the crowd is also, in that scenario, it's almost like going against the propaganda because it's like the crowd is what is normal. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| And so it was almost like that lower standard was the standard. | |
| And so I think that's just like the main struggle is the standard is not where it should be. | |
| And so we shouldn't be following that. | |
| Right. | |
| And he's been there for me a lot. | |
| Same with my mom. | |
| I have three years sober. | |
| So they, you know, now I go to them for more advice, but I'm also like a little bit more grown up. | |
| You know, I'm open to them about my past while they're, you know, it's different because I'm older to go for them. | |
| Thanks, Charlotte. | |
| But let's say something happened to me or something. | |
| You know, I don't think a parent wants to hear about their 13-year-old doing things. | |
| I think they'd go straight to anger rather than help. | |
| Real quick, can you agree with me then that your decisions matter? | |
| Like making good decisions at a young age would be the absolute most optimal thing for your life? | |
| No, I think, I mean, honestly, no. | |
| Because you made decisions and now you're trying to reverse them because you're not happy with it. | |
| I'm trying to reverse them, but I think it led me to a great decision. | |
| I'm not saying you regret them. | |
| I'm not saying live in regret. | |
| I'm just saying you made bad decisions. | |
| Yeah, but I think, I mean, I agree that we should. | |
| But you're looking at it from an optimistic lens, right? | |
| I'm saying, you know, obviously it would be great if nobody made any mistakes, but I think it also, you know, I worked in treatment, so I think my mistakes also helped me help others. | |
| I'll say this, a master learned from his mistakes. | |
| A grandmaster learns from other people's mistakes. | |
| You don't have to make the mistakes to learn from them. | |
| So that's why I'm telling you, be very careful with the decision you make. | |
| You know, I feel like kids would. | |
| Emotionally, though, like, you're never really going to understand and kind of like. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Like, there's just like emotional things that come into it as well. | |
| Like, you're never really going to fully understand something until you go through it. | |
| But if you had children, would you want them to do? | |
| Would you be like, hey, you should definitely make good decisions? | |
| I mean, I'm not going to wish something bad on a kid. | |
| I'm not going to be like, yeah, I hope you fucking. | |
| But that's the point is that I don't want children. | |
| If you're making better decisions from the beginning, it might be better. | |
| You know, it might go better and just go. | |
| No, actually, I am so thankful for all of the things that I've done wrong in my life, honestly. | |
| But you wouldn't jump in front of a bus to know that you shouldn't get in front of a bus. | |
| I mean, no. | |
| Right. | |
| You take precautions. | |
| You do your best to mitigate those bad things. | |
| There's a certain extent to things. | |
| Like, obviously, there's things that are avoidable, and like, but like emotionally, the things that I've gone through have. | |
| What are the wrong things you've gone through? | |
| Or what did you say? | |
| The bad things? | |
| No, like, any, like, just traumatic things or anything. | |
| Like, I feel like it has made me who I am today, and I'm thankful for it. | |
| You're thankful for the traumatic things you're through. | |
| It was a sufficient condition, but not a necessary condition. | |
| Like, you didn't have to go through that, but you can look at it from an optimistic lens now and look at it. | |
| No, and I think optimism is the only thing that is genuinely keeping me going. | |
| But if you had a daughter right now, you wouldn't put her through the same exact stuff. | |
| You would want her to live a better life. | |
| Therefore, you would teach her better values, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, you would show her that I don't know how to make good decisions. | |
| You try to gear towards people in the right direction, but at the same time, there's certain things that you need to learn from by yourself. | |
| Like, would you say drug problems? | |
| Because I had a brother that went through drug problems as well. | |
| Would you say that he had to go through the drug problems to know he shouldn't have drug problems? | |
| Or could I have taught him better? | |
| Or my dad? | |
| I'd say teach them the best you can, but you know, I think, I mean, I'm grateful that I had it young rather than when I was older and I had to do it all by myself. | |
| But I'm saying kids are going to smoke weed, kids are going to drink, and that's just like how it goes, you know? | |
| But they don't have to. | |
| It's not necessary. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think his point is like you don't have to learn by going through it. | |
| You can learn from other people's mistakes. | |
| And that's societally, though, there's always going to be like different crowds. | |
| And like you could be in a very good family dynamic and still go through those things. | |
| Like it's just depending on your susceptibility and like how you feel towards another person, if they're convincing enough to convince you to drink, if they shoot up, whatever it is. | |
| But you're putting it dependent on if they're convincing enough. | |
| I mean, like emotionally, if you build a bond with someone and like they're like, say you build a bond with your pastor and you're religious, like obviously you're believing what they're telling you. | |
| But I still will have discernment. | |
| I mean, yeah, there's a certain discernment to it. | |
| Right. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| Absolutely. | |
| But people need different reactions. | |
| You're still going to. | |
| Right. | |
| You know, you're going to believe what you want to believe regardless. | |
| I guess, but I don't put it dependent on how convincing the other person is. | |
| I put it based on my own standard of discernment. | |
| Values. | |
| So peer pressure, things of that nature. | |
| I'm sure you've done things you're not proud of. | |
| I'll just say the last thing real quick. | |
| Women live off deeply off temporal myopia, which is where you make short-term decisions and at the expense of the long term. | |
| So you do what feels good right now. | |
| But once again, you don't have to, if you have a daughter or a son, you don't have to encourage them to go through the same mistakes. | |
| You can just tell them to resist the selfish, fleshly desires that you have and make good decisions. | |
| Right, but it's a yeah. | |
| I know they're gonna go through it regardless, but you're not gonna put in their head, hey, you're gonna go through this. | |
| You're gonna put them on a lot of not doing it if you're I wouldn't be able to like relate or like, I guess, with anyone if they hadn't kind of necessarily gone through some of the things that I've related to. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| Wait, what do you mean? | |
| Like, I don't, I would find it hard to make a relationship with someone if they didn't have like relatable things that have happened. | |
| Relatable trauma. | |
| Kind of, yeah. | |
| Which is understandable, but I don't think that that necessarily means that it's a good thing for our entire life. | |
| I don't think it's a good thing. | |
| To be collectively going through trauma so that we can all relate to each other. | |
| I never said it was a good thing. | |
| Well, the man that you're saying, the man that you find next, do you want him to have that same level of trauma that you have? | |
| I mean, knowing me, probably. | |
| And if he has it, do you want him to be able to be advanced in terms of how he handles it the same way you are? | |
| To the same level? | |
| I mean, actually, I feel like I handle things mentally very well. | |
| Okay. | |
| I feel like mentally, yes. | |
| Actually, yeah. | |
| Because I'm just saying, if you want a man that's going to have a lot of trauma as well, men do have a lot of trauma, but if they live in that trauma, if they're an emotional wreck, you're not going to have a leader. | |
| You're going to have the same person that you're probably counseling that night. | |
| I think I'm mentally strong. | |
| I mean, I feel like I'm pretty mentally strong myself. | |
| If they can handle it just as mentally strong as I am, then it's fine. | |
| Yeah, I'm just saying it's not a necessity. | |
| It's like what we're saying. | |
| No, I don't think it's necessary. | |
| It's not a necessary condition. | |
| But it does make it a lot more intimate as well, though. | |
| Like to have that relation on certain things as well. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know. | |
| We have the age advancement, so we'll do that. | |
| But before we do, really quick, I'm going to read Austin. | |
| He says, good show, Broski. | |
| Yo, Austin, thank you for the $100 super chat, man. | |
| Guys, W's in the chat for Austin. | |
| Look at this fucking legend here. | |
| Thank you so much. | |
| Appreciate the super chat. | |
| We have Jason Wells, just an observation. | |
| The only attractive women on this panel don't have tattoos. | |
| Coincidence. | |
| Who here has tattoos? | |
| Show of hands. | |
| Tattoo, Oh, just you two. | |
| You guys don't have tattoos? | |
| Wow. | |
| You look great with the black screen. | |
| That's a good idea. | |
| I don't know if you can get it. | |
| It's a great photo of you. | |
| It's really cool. | |
| Wow, was that a roast? | |
| You talking shit on the page? | |
| Well, I can't really roast him. | |
| I don't see him. | |
| You're talking shit on fucking, what is his name? | |
| Jay Wells there? | |
| Jay Wells. | |
| That's my boy. | |
| Jay Welly. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's my boy. | |
| I mean, it's easy to call other people unattractive when you're not. | |
| You talking shit? | |
| Talking shit. | |
| If he showed a photo of himself, I could. | |
| This is the roast of Jay Welly right now. | |
| Yeah, man, Jay Well. | |
| Beat in Cheeks on Twitch says, no man wants a woman with baggage. | |
| That's true. | |
| So I have a thought on that. | |
| Okay, what is it? | |
| If men don't want women with baggage, they need to work a little bit better about not contributing to giving women baggage. | |
| A good chunk of my baggage comes from guys being assholes and dicks. | |
| The new guy you're dating, he didn't contribute to your baggage. | |
| He did not. | |
| I know. | |
| But that's so. | |
| So, how are you going to hold somebody accountable to blame a new dude? | |
| It's not blaming responsible for the freedom. | |
| It's not blaming the new guy. | |
| It's just saying, like, as a man, if you want women to have less baggage, it helps you if you also don't contribute and give women baggage. | |
| That, sure, I guess. | |
| So, because a lot of men out there do. | |
| And then they complain that women are crazy when most men do a lot of things that don't make anything any easier for women. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Here, let's do the age advancement. | |
| Or wait, fuck. | |
| We got to wait till everybody's back here. | |
| We'll just wait for a sec. | |
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| From are you guys coming back or? | |
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| Here, while we're doing that, I guess I'll just pull up a note here from one sec, guys. | |
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| Here, I'm a put it over there. | |
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| Let's see. | |
| What were the notes? | |
| One sec, guys. | |
| All right. | |
| Oh, Agatha. | |
| Okay, really quick. | |
| Agatha, so is that your real name, Agatha? | |
| No, of course not. | |
| Okay. | |
| But you don't like to share your real name. | |
| No, I prefer not. | |
| Okay. | |
| How does somebody dirty talk with Agatha? | |
| Like, I just couldn't. | |
| Like, how does it got? | |
| Oh, Agatha. | |
| Like, how does. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I love that you asked, just to make sure you're not making fun of her real name. | |
| Oh, I would have still said this. | |
| I never said. | |
| I would have still said it. | |
| All right, that's fair. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know, it's like, what if the guy's name is like Bartholomew? | |
| Like, you're not. | |
| Walter. | |
| Walter is a bit. | |
| Or like, oh, Walter? | |
| Walter, that's a tough one. | |
| Walter. | |
| What about, I don't know, his name's like. | |
| Henry. | |
| Henry's not that bad. | |
| Henry's fine. | |
| That's normal. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That one gives me. | |
| I don't know why Henry always gave me. | |
| She's got to give nicknames. | |
| It gets creative. | |
| Eugene. | |
| Yeah, Eugene. | |
| Eugene. | |
| Eugene. | |
| Like, how do you call that? | |
| And you say Gene. | |
| Gene, that's even worse. | |
| Devon Jackson donated $200. | |
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| To the 37-year-old blaming men for women's trauma. | |
| It's almost as if that's why we advocate that you date/slash sleep with less men before you us. | |
| The men who don't give women trauma. | |
| I did that. | |
| Did what? | |
| I didn't sleep with anybody until I slept with my husband. | |
| I followed that and then got shit on for it. | |
| He didn't value it. | |
| He didn't care about it. | |
| He didn't care that I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. | |
| And then when I was single again, I think it was men who, it didn't matter if I said, I don't want to sleep with you. | |
| I don't want to sleep. | |
| I don't want to hook up with you. | |
| I want to wait to sleep together. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| If I go on a date with them, they try to get into my pants. | |
| And that is, you are going to mess women up if you do that. | |
| And it would help if there is good men out there that see shitty men act that way and go, step the fuck up, quit treating women like that. | |
| Be a better man so that we can have better women. | |
| Men are the leaders and they do need to lead a little bit. | |
| The women will not be better if men keep doing this. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, it kind of sounds like your first husband was a dipshit. | |
| But it's not just, it's people I've encountered since then. | |
| And I know it's not all men. | |
| I'm not even going to say that. | |
| I have a wonderful dad. | |
| I have two brothers that are wonderful. | |
| I've seen my brothers dragged through the mud by shitty women. | |
| I think that both genders are actively destroying each other right now and looking at each other and going, it's your fault. | |
| Be better. | |
| I am not going to be better. | |
| You need to be better. | |
| And we're just destroying each other and it's not helpful. | |
| I don't know anybody who enjoys dating. | |
| And I think it would make a huge difference if the good men out there actually called out the shitty men and said, stop acting like that. | |
| You are ruining women for the rest of us and we don't want it. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, look, I agree with you that there are bad men out there, but you're placing a disproportionate amount of the blame on men. | |
| I'm not even saying it's just men. | |
| Women go along with it too. | |
| I think it's going to take both. | |
| Yeah, but it's all about y'all. | |
| It's not men's fault. | |
| Y'all fucked up. | |
| Kind of. | |
| There's shitty people out there. | |
| I'm saying that, like, when I'm dating, and I'm not putting any fault on my ex or anything like that, I don't care. | |
| But when I'm dating and I tell a man, I don't want to hook up with you. | |
| I do not want to sleep with you early. | |
| And then when I'm hanging out with him, he is trying to stick his hands down my pants actively. | |
| And he's trying to do everything else that he can to get into my pants. | |
| But then what do you do when he does that? | |
| Initiated in any way. | |
| I think it helps rule. | |
| I think it helps rule guys out. | |
| Yes. | |
| But that is extremely difficult when it is in a woman's nature to be more sensitive and submissive like men want. | |
| I've never been there in the world. | |
| So you are forcing women to fight against their submissiveness to fight a man off, to tell him no. | |
| And then you want her to still maintain submissiveness when she's grown up having to not be submissive. | |
| Yeah, first of all, submissive, for a woman to be submissive, it's to her husband, right? | |
| So a man worthy of submission, not just any man. | |
| Yeah, I agree with that. | |
| I mean, we live in a society that we... | |
| So a woman's supposed to be a boss babe until she's married. | |
| No, but that's kind of my point is that when men act that way, you force a woman to have to be, to assume that role of boss babe. | |
| Not just to any man. | |
| Can you, right? | |
| I mean, we submit to teachers in school. | |
| We listen to what they tell us to do. | |
| But that's a different level of submission. | |
| It is, but I don't think we are still such a shitty person. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But how do you submit to be led by somebody if, you know, when you look around, if there's, doesn't seem like there's really a good choice for somebody to follow? | |
| Yeah, that's not simple to claim donated $200. | |
| Is it men that cause baggage or your bad choice in men? | |
| Accountability works both ways. | |
| It's both. | |
| If there's no good choices in men, that makes it really hard. | |
| But if there's no good choices, do you settle or do you wait until there's a better choice? | |
| That's hard. | |
| When you want to be a mother and you have a time clock on that, you know, I might never. | |
| Can I ask you a random question? | |
| Have you considered removing all your piercings? | |
| I have. | |
| I actually, that's part of why I said I look better, maybe better now than I did when I was younger, is because I had very short hair when I was younger. | |
| I used to have way more piercings. | |
| I have made changes to things to try to be like, okay, if I want this type of man, I need to vary things a little bit and do things a different way. | |
| It's also, I'm in an extremely liberal area, which plays a big part in it. | |
| And I know that. | |
| That's why I know it's not all men. | |
| But it's part of why, as a woman, when I say this, men say, it's your fault for picking bad men. | |
| If there's a lack of and that's where I'm like, other good men helping lead men to be better. | |
| Yeah, that all helps overall. | |
| I mean, I feel for you and I get that you want to be a mother, but if you think about the fact that I guess in your head, maybe you're thinking, I'm willing to settle so I can achieve. | |
| Oh, no, I haven't done that. | |
| That's why I'm still single and I'm not a mom because I don't want to settle for it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, I'm just asking it. | |
| Rich guy loves strong women donated $200. | |
| There are plenty of good guys out there. | |
| The problem is that they are five feet six and are cashiers at Walmart. | |
| She's upset because she goes for guys outside of her league. | |
| Not true. | |
| And Chad won't commit. | |
| Not true. | |
| I go for plenty of guys who are not. | |
| I can show you the last guy. | |
| I can show you both of you guys, not online. | |
| I can show you a picture of the last guy I was talking to for about. | |
| Are you a Christian? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| So do you like, do you ever wear like nice dresses that are like very traditional looking? | |
| If I'm going somewhere where that's the case, yeah. | |
| For the most, I mean, I wash boats. | |
| I don't, I don't dress up a whole lot. | |
| Because I would say like as a like as a Christian man, if I want a family and you have the piercings that you have, and I just say this in a nice way because you're open-minded and you seem like you do have good intentions and I want the best for you, I would remove all the piercings. | |
| Yeah, because they don't see it. | |
| Right, you're going to attract what you are partially. | |
| And I also do understand the lack of masculinity. | |
| I definitely agree with that. | |
| That's why we have to make cultural shifts, such as like this podcast that enables us to do more of that. | |
| But I would start with the external looks because that's what they're going to judge right off the bat. | |
| That's what they are trying to get in your pants right off the bat as well. | |
| And also, what matters is like your own intention. | |
| Like, for example, I think a lot of Christian women struggle with modesty because they feel like being immodest is maybe empowering. | |
| But really, if you think about it, like the type of person that you want is going to value you for so much more than your body showing that off. | |
| I dress modestly. | |
| I always have. | |
| I've never been big. | |
| And that's part of the problem is, you know, when as a woman in your teens and 20s, when you're dressing modestly, and I'm sure you guys, if you guys dress modestly, you've noticed it, you don't get attention from guys. | |
| At least where I'm at. | |
| I'm not the wrong kind of guys. | |
| I don't get attention from any. | |
| Well, I'm going to say quantitatively, you're going to get less attention, less numbers, but quality. | |
| You're going to attract more. | |
| 100%. | |
| But it's even just, you know, it's just, I just mean in terms of if it's going to get changed at all, it doesn't just blaming everything on the women doesn't help. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I agree. | |
| But you have to start with your part purse. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Right. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| And then, and then we can start complaining about the men. | |
| But I still understand once again. | |
| And I think, once again, making the cultural changes and having men listen to stuff like this where they are being encouraged to follow more ethics and virtues, the immaterial aspects that we don't push. | |
| We push all the material. | |
| Look for a guy with looks. | |
| He's got to be tall, make a lot of money. | |
| But they negate the actual stuff that matters that they have to pass on to their kids. | |
| Respect, honor, integrity. | |
| These are the things that people need to be doing. | |
| I agree. | |
| Yeah, and honestly. | |
| One sec. | |
| Devon Jackson donated $200. | |
| Yeah, thank you, Devon. | |
| We can play this accountability game all day if all women required marriage before sex. | |
| Then marriage is what they get. | |
| Sex has been so readily available, it's fried men and chivalry with it. | |
| Well, I waited till marriage. | |
| I will say, though, some the most like high-quality and kindest men I know, I asked them, like, what's your biggest red flag for women? | |
| And they said signs of them not respecting themselves. | |
| And an example of that is posting really revealing pictures on social media. | |
| I don't post reviews. | |
| I'm not saying you do. | |
| I'm not saying you do. | |
| I'm just saying that those are, these are the kindest men and high quality men. | |
| They do exist. | |
| They're out there. | |
| And that's what they value. | |
| And so I'm just saying, like, it's not that, yeah, like what you said. | |
| I mean, quality over quantity. | |
| But when you're like, I mean, in the area that I am in, it is so against the norm to at all try to wait for marriage or anything. | |
| I have. | |
| But against the norm is what's good, and that's what. | |
| Yes. | |
| But I mean, I mean, against the norm to the extent of, like, if a woman wanted to wait till marriage, there is like a 1% chance that she's going to find a guy in my area that's willing to do that. | |
| Like most, even most of the churches, everything is extremely liberal. | |
| They don't 1% is pretty good. | |
| The 1% of men is the good ones. | |
| Yeah, but I tried to wait, and now I know that my pool is a lot smaller. | |
| I'm not young. | |
| I'm not 25. | |
| I mean, biblically, though, like, modesty never used to have to be a thing or lust in that sense because, like, I mean, they were naked. | |
| I think they weren't naked. | |
| No. | |
| That ended in the Garden of Eden. | |
| They had shame because of it after the Garden of War. | |
| I think also, like, look, I have tattoos and piercings, but I'm also looking for something different. | |
| Like, you know, you have tattoos, piercings, you have highlighter color nails and like, you know, smoke. | |
| Like, it's just like I'm looking for something different. | |
| But at the same time, like, a very Christian man who wants like a modest girl isn't like having tattoos and piercings and like brightly colored nails and stuff. | |
| That's just like, it's just like how it is. | |
| It's not common. | |
| Well, it's not not common. | |
| It's also just how it, like, I've never met someone who has like the same like look as you and like also waited for marriage. | |
| Like good for you, you know, but it's just like, it's kind of different. | |
| Luke has donated $200, 6.7, given the litany of bed men, including your ex-husband. | |
| What would you say is the common denominator here? | |
| Learn discernment, be exacting and choose wisely. | |
| You have agency. | |
| You all know choices. | |
| Do you want to respond to that? | |
| I would agree with that. | |
| I do. | |
| And I've tried to. | |
| I have varied the diff, you know, I've been like, okay, I'm going to do online dating. | |
| That doesn't work. | |
| Okay, I'm going to try to meet a guy here. | |
| I'm going to try different ages. | |
| I'm going to, you know, different looks. | |
| Maybe I'll hang out with a guy that I'm not necessarily like, oh, he's hot. | |
| I don't ever go for the guys that I'm like, oh, they're hot. | |
| I usually go for an average-looking guy that I'm like, he seems like a good, decent, stable guy. | |
| And a lot of times, it's really hard to find that with how a lot of people are nowadays. | |
| Would you be willing to settle for a man with kids? | |
| Possibly. | |
| It's hard for me because I want kids. | |
| Right. | |
| And if I don't ever have them, I don't know if I can be with somebody else raising their children. | |
| I know I'm saying you can still have kids with him. | |
| I'm just like if you had like one or two kids. | |
| Yeah, it'd be fine. | |
| Let's say he's like 43. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I've dated older guys. | |
| I've dated guys that are 50. | |
| I've dated guys who are my age. | |
| I've dated tons of different guys. | |
| I do want to say I don't think you're doing anything wrong in the sense now you want to change. | |
| You know, like this is a kind of guy that I want. | |
| And because the dating pool is, it's going to become smaller and smaller. | |
| Trust me. | |
| Oh, I know. | |
| I know you're saying, oh, I'm older, but I have not dated anyone. | |
| And it's because I have, you are going to marry one person, right? | |
| You're not like, it's the dating pool is so small. | |
| Technically, it's going to be two because I've already had one marriage. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| But you see what I'm saying? | |
| Like, you're going to submit to your husband, right? | |
| Not to like multiple guys. | |
| So all things through Christ is possible. | |
| I'll just say that right there. | |
| And I've seen my older cousin. | |
| He was dating someone for seven, six years, I think. | |
| And they separated because he didn't see someone, a potential future wife, right? | |
| And he was like older, 29, almost 30. | |
| And so he was like, I'm going to have to revert to women who have already kids, who, you know, and in that sense, he wasn't trusting God's plan. | |
| But four months, and then he was single for a year, I believe. | |
| And then he met a young woman. | |
| She was in her 29, late 30s, or early 30s. | |
| And they got married four months within meeting of each other. | |
| So it's like, don't, I know there's, you might say, oh, those are exceptions, but it's possible with Jesus. | |
| You submit to the Lord and give it to him and cast all your cares onto him and he will give your heart's desires. | |
| Yeah, and honestly, I will say that when you were talking about how in your marriage that you were, you know, like kind of pleading with your husband to stay in the marriage and that, you know, I guess he eventually walked away. | |
| I will say it's nothing to do with you. | |
| It's not a reflection on you, but like the Lord will remove people from your life who are not. | |
| It could be. | |
| It could be a little bit. | |
| I wasn't a perfect wife. | |
| But my point, though, is that the Lord will remove people from your life who are not adding to it and who are not meant to be in your life. | |
| And so, I mean, I think every rejection is a redirection. | |
| And so, I mean, I definitely think that you should take it that way. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Are you going to do $200? | |
| Now it's all men's fault that other men aren't good. | |
| If women were better and taught other women, we wouldn't have gold diggers. | |
| Be picky and stop having unrealistic expectations. | |
| I'm not saying it's all men's fault. | |
| I'm saying people need, if it's going to get any better, both genders need to work together. | |
| We need to stop beating each other up constantly. | |
| Wait, so you're 37, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| And so you've been you divorced like nine years ago? | |
| Eight. | |
| It'll be eight years in the summer. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then you've been on all these dates with these men and they're really handsy and they're trying to stop. | |
| Not all of them. | |
| I don't just spend a ton of time going on dates, but the dates that I do go on, it's been a handful of not great guys, and then there's other guys who are good guys. | |
| But so you described a scenario where, you know, they're putting their hand on your leg. | |
| You don't want that. | |
| And has that been like, was it one guy, two guys, all the guys? | |
| What? | |
| There was one guy in particular that was worse than a lot of the others, but a lot of guys, because I try to make it very clear before I even hang out with them that I'm not interested in hooking up. | |
| But like, when, so the guy puts his hand on your leg, are you like, whoa, stop. | |
| And you're like, yeah, with one particular guy, yes. | |
| I removed his hand multiple times and he would not stop. | |
| So he wouldn't. | |
| Oh, he kept his hand there? | |
| He kept putting it in. | |
| And then we're getting into criminal damage. | |
| Yeah, right. | |
| But like, I think one of the potential problems here is you're 37. | |
| Probably like the cohort of men you're going to be dating is probably like 35 and up. | |
| Yeah, generally. | |
| Like 35 to 45, maybe even older. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like I'd say this age cohort of men probably isn't looking to wait like six months to have sex. | |
| Are you waiting until marriage again? | |
| I haven't entirely decided because you need to figure that out before you go on dates with men who might want to fuck you the same night. | |
| I always tell them that I don't want to sleep with them early. | |
| It's something that I at least want to wait. | |
| I want to get to know somebody. | |
| I don't want to hook up with anybody. | |
| That's totally fine, but I need you to be realistic in the dating marketplace. | |
| I think that's a perfectly acceptable standard. | |
| However, you have to realize these dudes are dealing with women who like, well, right, not interested in hookups in the bio and they fuck the same thing. | |
| I know. | |
| That's why you got to be really like screening these dudes out probably. | |
| I know I try to. | |
| And but like, so are you going back to their place on the same night? | |
| No. | |
| Are they going to your place? | |
| No. | |
| Like one of the things that you can't do. | |
| I used to hang out with, I've learned that I can't go hang out with them at your place on the same night. | |
| And look, I think a guy should respect your boundaries regardless of the venue. | |
| But one thing a woman can do, like if you genuinely are like, I want to wait, don't go to his class. | |
| And that's what I've started to do. | |
| He can't go to your classroom. | |
| That's what I've started to do. | |
| I think it should be okay that you could do that and boundaries should be respected regardless of where you're at. | |
| But like one of the things that you can do to kind of like make that situation less likely is you can't be going to their crib. | |
| Yeah, and that's what I've started doing where it's like, okay, I'm not hanging out with your husband. | |
| Like you can't be laying in bed with like you got to, if that's really your position, Again, they should be respecting your boundaries, but maybe you got to move things a bit slower. | |
| You got to pull back on yourself. | |
| And that's what I'm working on doing is what adjustments do I need to make within myself to help this go better than it is? | |
| Because the definition of Saddam is doing this. | |
| But I'm a little bit confused. | |
| So you said you don't know how long you want to wait. | |
| So do you want to wait until marriage or do you not? | |
| I, at the for the last several years, I have not been waiting again until I'm married. | |
| But as things are not working out great, I am debating if that might be a better policy to take up. | |
| Wait, so question, have you only been with your ex-husband? | |
| No, I've been with other people. | |
| Okay. | |
| And was this obviously after your marriage? | |
| How recently was that? | |
| I haven't been with anybody for about a year. | |
| A year. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that guy, were you dating him? | |
| How long were you dating him for? | |
| Eight or nine months. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then, like, how quickly into eight or nine months did you guys hook up? | |
| Oh, I didn't sleep with that guy. | |
| Oh, we were seeing each other, but I never slept with him. | |
| You were dating a guy for nine months and you didn't? | |
| It was not entirely. | |
| It was complicated. | |
| Our work schedules made it really hard for us to even see each other. | |
| And then there were other things that happened where I was. | |
| Like what? | |
| Just things with trust where it was like, I'm not entirely sure if I can trust you. | |
| And I'm giving you a chance to see if we can build some of that back a little bit and see how things go. | |
| But it just kept kind of getting broken. | |
| So it finally got to a point where I was like, I can't trust you. | |
| So we can't really see each other. | |
| So you guys would see each other once a month? | |
| Like every other weekend, usually. | |
| When you say trust was broken, what do you mean by that? | |
| Just things that he did that involved other women that made me feel like I'm not. | |
| Well, I mean, waiting nine months when you're that age, I feel like, is like. | |
| I mean, no, it was from early. | |
| It was from early on in the relationship that things had happened where I was. | |
| Were you guys exclusive? | |
| Not entirely. | |
| We were dating and talking, and it was a sense of like we both wanted to see where this is going to go. | |
| So, but there was a few things that happened that broke my trust. | |
| I think you should only let the trust be broken or you shouldn't. | |
| Yeah, once, and then you need to walk away. | |
| So were you dating other guys? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| Were you guys boyfriend, girlfriend at this time? | |
| We never really had a talk about it. | |
| It was. | |
| At any point? | |
| No. | |
| Prior to the. | |
| Okay, what are you upset about then? | |
| Somebody can still confirm, I guess, like what you were too in a way. | |
| You don't want to sleep with a guy, but you don't want to be boyfriend, girlfriend, monogamous relationships. | |
| But he's talking to other women. | |
| I don't see what the problem is. | |
| If I'm supposed to be waiting to have sex with somebody, I'm not going to jump into a relationship and be exclusive with them because then most men are going to expect sex. | |
| So I'm trying to meet somebody and actually get to know them for a few months. | |
| You were talking to him for eight to nine months. | |
| I mean. | |
| And the things that happened weren't massive, but they broke my trust a little bit. | |
| So I said, you know, I'm giving you a chance to regain the trust. | |
| Do you meet them on Tinder? | |
| No, this one I didn't meet on Tinder. | |
| How do you meet them? | |
| It was through work. | |
| Work stuff. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, okay. | |
| Just some points of clarification here. | |
| You have been with other men besides your husband. | |
| It's not my husband. | |
| I'm not married anymore. | |
| Excessive. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then, like, what was the timeline with those other men? | |
| It varies. | |
| And that's not really something that I'm comfortable discussing. | |
| I'm not going to tell the whole world how long I wait to sleep with people. | |
| But, like, were any of those men, like, did you sleep with any of them quickly, like first couple dates? | |
| Yes, and I deeply, deeply regret it, and that's why I don't. | |
| I mean, that's such a hard sell for a guy. | |
| Like, oh, okay, this guy's waiting for nine months, and then like a guy you were dating three weeks ago. | |
| So if I, so, if, so, if a girl makes Girl makes the mistake of sleeping with a guy too quickly, she then has to sleep with every guy too quickly. | |
| That's so unfair. | |
| No, you look. | |
| So I don't have, I can't make the decision to choose to wait because I've already fucked up with a guy. | |
| Hold on, I'll explain it to you. | |
| You can be the biggest whore in the world. | |
| I just have to keep being a whore. | |
| Stop, stop, stop. | |
| Let me finish and then you can respond. | |
| You can be the biggest whore in the world and fuck a thousand men within 10 minutes of meeting them. | |
| And then after that, that thousandth men that you fucked immediately, you can now make a new determination and say, I am, I'm waiting until marriage now. | |
| That's not what happened. | |
| He's using it as an example. | |
| Hypothetically. | |
| I'm saying to that extreme, I'm saying that a woman can do that. | |
| And that can be her new standard. | |
| What I'm saying, though, is if you're dealing with a guy and he hears this and he's like, well, hold on. | |
| You slept with all these other guys like first, second, third date. | |
| Now you want me to wait indefinitely while you're trying to figure out whether or not you want to wait until marriage before we have sex or you want to wait three months or eight months or nine months. | |
| I think men can be like, I accept your choice to not want to sleep with me, but that's kind of bullshit. | |
| I don't want to date you. | |
| And I feel like that's kind of a full disclaimer. | |
| That's fine. | |
| I feel like it's a full disclosure when you first meet them. | |
| One at a time. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I said, I feel like that's like a full disclosure when you first meet them. | |
| Like if you do decide to, like you said, like completely change your whole value system and completely flip a switch, you can totally do that. | |
| But like you said, like he can't just be like, oh, well, you did all these things and now you're not going to do it with me. | |
| Like, I feel like that's a conversation that you have to have kind of like from the jump. | |
| So I have a question though. | |
| So if a woman has made the mistake of sleeping with men too early on and you're telling women that that's a bad thing and they shouldn't be doing that anymore, the woman who has done that isn't allowed to quit doing that because then every guy is going to be like, that's not fair. | |
| You have to sleep with me too because you already slept with me. | |
| No, I literally granted that you can be the biggest whore in the world and change and that's your prerogative. | |
| If you did change, like I said, I don't want to question why. | |
| However, men can be like, wow, that's okay. | |
| You're free to do that, but that's kind of bullshit. | |
| I don't want to date you. | |
| I don't want to wait. | |
| And if you want to wait, goodbye. | |
| That's fine. | |
| I mean, you want the truth. | |
| You want the truth of what I'm thinking? | |
| I mean, I just don't think that the like modesty and like waiting, like kind of like, no offense, aligns with like, I mean, you're wearing a shirt that says eat trash and like have gauged ears. | |
| I mean, if I'm being real, I mean, I just. | |
| I know it doesn't fit the pattern. | |
| I know, but you're looking for something. | |
| And like, I feel like it takes less time than eight months to get to know someone. | |
| And I also think that like guys that want to wait are looking for someone who like, like I have tattoos and piercings. | |
| Like it's no judgment. | |
| We're looking for something different. | |
| But I don't think that those two align together. | |
| Like if I saw like a person on the street, it matters. | |
| Like you're wearing a shirt that says eat trash. | |
| You're 37. | |
| I think it's a fun shirt. | |
| I'm not saying it's not a fun shirt. | |
| I'm just saying that's a good thing. | |
| Sorry, I've always went into. | |
| I don't really. | |
| I don't really have criticisms of her shirt. | |
| I don't think there's necessarily clothing choices like that specifically that fit with, oh, whether or not you have this belief or this belief. | |
| Like I can hear, let me let me ask you here. | |
| I don't care about your t-shirt. | |
| So, okay, in terms of timeline here, you got divorced eight, nine years ago. | |
| There's been some men that you've hooked up with quickly, some that you're making wait. | |
| At this current moment in time, though, you're like not sure if you want to wait until marriage or not. | |
| Like, I think you got to tell a guy definitive. | |
| It should either be like, yes, I am 100% waiting until marriage or I'm open to something sooner. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That's why I'm saying I'm not sure about that yet because I'm not going to tell a guy that I'm going to wait for marriage unless I've made that decision. | |
| I haven't made that decision. | |
| When I said I'm not sure, it means I mean in the sense of that is something I'm considering doing going forward. | |
| I haven't yet made that choice. | |
| Like, oh, I'm definitely not. | |
| I've been thinking about this. | |
| What's there to decide? | |
| I feel like men, though, like, if they know, like, if you. | |
| Watch, check this out. | |
| I don't want to wait until marriage. | |
| Boom. | |
| Just made that decision right now. | |
| If you're getting to know men intimately, though, and you're telling them, like, you have slept with a guy sooner than you have with them, though, like, they're going to look at that and be like, okay, well, like, well, she gave this to him. | |
| Like, you know, it's like feeling valued as well. | |
| But there's quite, there's quite a few women out there. | |
| But there has been many people partly on and then try to wait. | |
| I think that she has been many of partners. | |
| They'd be like. | |
| She does have like the, she can totally flip her whole entire like view on it. | |
| Like, she has totally like that option. | |
| But like, there are guys that there's going to be guys that are going to question it. | |
| And they're going to like, and I think they don't care about that. | |
| I think that's fine. | |
| They can question it. | |
| Some guys might be like, oh, like, what? | |
| Did she not like me enough? | |
| Did she like those guys? | |
| And then all of a sudden, there might be like a tad bit of it insecurity as well. | |
| I can understand. | |
| I think, though, that you need to decide for yourself and not be like, it depends on the person I'm with, you know, what their standards are. | |
| It doesn't depend on them. | |
| It's me. | |
| That's why I'm thinking about making that decision. | |
| Okay. | |
| It's just not. | |
| But you shouldn't make that decision strategically based on, oh, what could help me date someone better. | |
| You should have a reason to back it up. | |
| Like if someone were to ask you why, like, I'm not saying have to, but like, what would make sense is if someone asks you why is this decision, like you should have an explanation for yourself and not just what would be more successful for me in finding someone to marry. | |
| I agree with that. | |
| Can I ask you, what dates do they ask you on? | |
| Like is it like food, bowling, movie theater? | |
| It varies. | |
| Like the first date. | |
| Usually it's like, hey, let's go get some food somewhere, hang out, have a drink, see how it goes. | |
| You know, I've got other guys that are like, hey, just come over to my place and hang out. | |
| And I don't go do that. | |
| No. | |
| Would you remove your piercings tomorrow? | |
| Would I remove them tomorrow? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Honestly, if I was with a man, then everything was, if I was with a guy and he wanted me to take them out, I would. | |
| Well, I think that would be the problem, though, right? | |
| So I think if you want to attract that man to begin with, you have to give off the impression that you are changed, that you are a specific way. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I can agree with that. | |
| Or that you're wanting to attract a man of that sort of value that you are talking about. | |
| I can agree with that. | |
| Because you have a good personality. | |
| Like, if you walked into my church and you didn't have the piercing and you had a nice dress on, and the way you are, you're like more feminine, you're more respectful, I would look at you as just like as a normal, good human being. | |
| Whereas I would judge you more if I saw the tattoos and the piercings and all that. | |
| I can understand that. | |
| And even what he said, like where you are matters, like the place, I mean, I don't know. | |
| If you're going to church, obviously that's the impression that you're giving off. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But it's just like here you are saying, okay, I can't find the guys who don't want to fuck me right away. | |
| He's asking you to make really an effortless change. | |
| Hmm, try this. | |
| Lose the nose piercings. | |
| Lose the earrings. | |
| And you have to think about it. | |
| What's there to think about? | |
| Okay, I'll just do it. | |
| I'll try it for a month. | |
| There's no guarantee that that's going to find me those guys either. | |
| Bro, she's not willing to take her piercings out to potentially find the love of her life. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| You're way too attached to your outward physical appearance. | |
| And if it doesn't work, you can just put him back in. | |
| Virtuous guy to like, what? | |
| Is there a sense of comfort to get with you? | |
| A guy could be okay with the piercings. | |
| And you might deal with a guy. | |
| He has piercings or tattoos of his own. | |
| But it's like, have you? | |
| Why not try it? | |
| You're so like caught up in like, hmm, I'm attached to my like outward aesthetic. | |
| I'm not willing to do this minor change to potentially see if it helps with my dating prospects. | |
| I can see your point. | |
| I get that you can see my point. | |
| Why don't you just say, Yes, I'm going to try it? | |
| Okay, yes, I will try. | |
| Especially the tongue one. | |
| When I see the tongue one, I'm not saying that. | |
| Oh, you have a tongue piercing? | |
| Stick your tongue out. | |
| Oh, stick your tongue out. | |
| Stick your tongue out. | |
| Let's see. | |
| What is it? | |
| I didn't even notice that. | |
| Oh, you got a double fucking tongue. | |
| I got that after I was married. | |
| If I see that, I'm not saying you're not. | |
| I didn't even see that. | |
| All my shit would change. | |
| Bro, dude's looking at a girl with a tongue piercing and thinking, oh, yeah, I'm going to wait six months to fuck her. | |
| I will say, though, what you just said, though, you are driven by the fact that you want to be a mom so bad, and that's just the thing is just based on impression. | |
| I don't think like just what they're saying. | |
| Like, that wouldn't be the assumption. | |
| Yeah, I think that's what I'm saying. | |
| I will tell you, I see that piercing, and I'm not saying you are at all, but I think of a slut. | |
| I know. | |
| Do you know the history of one tongue piercing? | |
| Yeah, it's for slutty, yeah, forgiving like that. | |
| Yeah, yeah, no, it is like that's what that's my bad. | |
| Some people are better. | |
| It is. | |
| Wait, are you taking a break from dating? | |
| Is that what you said? | |
| Or is it no? | |
| I'm not taking it. | |
| Oh, I'm still. | |
| Maybe if you're asking for advice and taking a year. | |
| I'm not celibate. | |
| So it's been like a process. | |
| I'm not technically celibate. | |
| It's been like a year since I've slept with somebody. | |
| You've been celibate for a year. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sure. | |
| Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sorry, were you asking us about that? | |
| Oh, yeah, maybe taking a step back and allowing, like she was saying, work on yourself. | |
| Do you want kids? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I know. | |
| No step back. | |
| Fucking to not go in the bathroom right now, take that shit out, take it out. | |
| Put on a little zipline. | |
| Is that what's going to make you guys happy? | |
| You guys want me to go take some of my things out right now? | |
| We might as well do that right now. | |
| That is unsanitary. | |
| Feel comfortable. | |
| But it's just a little bit of a test. | |
| I think you're asking for advice and we're trying to tell you it's not going to make us happy. | |
| We're trying to make you happy. | |
| It's not, though. | |
| I'm not giving you advice. | |
| I'm giving you reality. | |
| If you want to take it, then you can. | |
| I don't care if you take the advice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I just say it because you do seem like a good woman. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And you have good intentions. | |
| And you want the best thing that I think people should strive for, which is a family, which most people will never accomplish, sadly. | |
| And I hope you do get that, but you have to make these changes if you want that. | |
| Yeah, and like, I'm sure what Bella meant is like taking a step forward, but chasing after the version of yourself. | |
| Yeah, like I said. | |
| Taking a step back so I can work on me a little bit and then going into dating. | |
| Sorry, you said you were a Christian, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| So are you actively in a church or no? | |
| Okay. | |
| My advice would be to actively engage. | |
| Get involved in a community. | |
| And with women your age, it's very hard. | |
| It's very hard for me to find a church in my area that I actually agree with. | |
| Why don't you move like two hours north? | |
| My job. | |
| Is that you can't move? | |
| My job is like right in Seattle. | |
| Okay. | |
| Because I live very in the middle of nowhere and I meet a lot of great people. | |
| I wish I could live in the middle of nowhere. | |
| I wish I could. | |
| Yeah, it's my job. | |
| Everything is like right in the city. | |
| So I can't really. | |
| I feel like it is hard to find a good church that isn't like hypocritical in a sense, though. | |
| So like they could say that they're following one thing and be completely acting a different way. | |
| Have you had a bad experience with this? | |
| Yeah, I've had, I've gone to multiple churches as well. | |
| I'm not really doing that necessarily or going out of my way to try to go to church, but I do want to practice something that like I consider myself polytheistic, so I take things from each religion as well. | |
| So I mean, I'm just trying to practice what makes me feel more comfortable as a person. | |
| How soon after your marriage was there a rebound? | |
| Faster than it should have been. | |
| Yeah, how fast? | |
| A few months. | |
| Can we? | |
| Hey, we gotta look. | |
| We really got to get the cameras on the people when they're speaking. | |
| Okay, faster than a few months. | |
| Or what? | |
| No, faster than it should have been. | |
| Faster than it should have been. | |
| Okay. | |
| I made very poor choices after I got out of that because. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm just still caught up on the tongue piercing. | |
| But there's something I don't understand. | |
| I've had a lot of piercings. | |
| I've had over 20 piercings. | |
| But what it means, what we're saying is that girls with piercing cannot have a nice relationship or find love. | |
| They're sluts. | |
| You had them? | |
| Okay. | |
| You got to put it on. | |
| Please put it on. | |
| That's insane for me. | |
| Prioritize that, please. | |
| Well, it depends on, once again, the goal. | |
| You don't have a goal, so you can have 100 piercings and you're good. | |
| She has a goal. | |
| She wants family. | |
| She wants a Christian management. | |
| That's the goal we should all have. | |
| Like, I don't understand. | |
| If you don't want to have family, it's not the description. | |
| I just explain what the reality is. | |
| I don't know. | |
| For me, it's insane. | |
| I mean, if that's what you're looking to achieve in a suitor, I guess. | |
| Well, let's look. | |
| What's more valuable? | |
| You getting raw dogged every Friday by the whole football team or her wanting kids and a family? | |
| Honestly, just the fact that you guys are saying that the girl with piercing or tattoos cannot have a goal or relationship or love. | |
| We never said that. | |
| But you can't even say it. | |
| Like, why she has to take off all these stuff? | |
| I'm not even telling her she has to. | |
| I'm saying if you want this specific lifestyle with a specific man that can lead you, it's going to require this. | |
| That's the type of man that you want. | |
| Not necessarily that it requires it. | |
| She could find it. | |
| It's just going to be a lot of fun. | |
| It's hard to look from your lens because you're like, once again, you're taking a bunch of dicks every day. | |
| But from her lens, it's a lot different. | |
| Okay. | |
| Because people perceive things in a different way. | |
| And I very much appreciate it. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| You get it now? | |
| Wow. | |
| Well, people are crazy, you know. | |
| I agree. | |
| And you are one of those also. | |
| I don't take dicks in my ass. | |
| And you can also be a crazy person without taking dicks in the ass, my friend. | |
| Yeah, but being so fucking rude and judging people like you are who? | |
| Like, who are you? | |
| Aren't you judging me right now? | |
| No, my friend. | |
| Like, yeah, because why are you speaking to the, like, like, you believe all what you say is what it is. | |
| Like, you couldn't. | |
| If you're getting offended by what I'm saying, it's probably because you're not proud of what you do. | |
| You can judge me and criticize me all you want. | |
| It's not going to affect me. | |
| Okay. | |
| Because I'm okay with how I live. | |
| But you're getting offended. | |
| I don't know why. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, you're so smart, my friend. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| There's a chat coming through. | |
| All right. | |
| We have Ashy here. | |
| Ashy B. Thank you. | |
| Ashley donated $200. | |
| Standards are higher than in realize. | |
| I'm over 30 and divorced too. | |
| I have two wonderful children and a great stepdad to them with a third child on the way. | |
| I'm very average looking. | |
| Screwed yourself. | |
| Is he married to the second one? | |
| With the third child? | |
| Stepdad? | |
| I wonder. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know if this is for you or I don't need to respond to it, but I'm happy for them that they have that. | |
| That's wonderful. | |
| Ashy B, thank you for the TTS. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| We have Lucas here. | |
| He says, don't be naive. | |
| Your outward appearance, the way you dress, piercing tattoos portrays an image contrary to what you're looking for. | |
| My wife has no tattoos and no body piercings, which is why I took her seriously. | |
| Thank you for the input, and I will consider removing my piercings. | |
| That is absolutely after the advice I've gotten today. | |
| She won't agree to it. | |
| She's going to just go on with her life. | |
| No, it's strongly leaning towards agreeing to it. | |
| After what everybody has. | |
| I thought that tongue piercing was what lesbians get, personally. | |
| I just liked it because it was different. | |
| It is. | |
| Guys in prison, actually. | |
| That's why it's even better. | |
| Yeah, you use that in prison? | |
| In prison? | |
| For guys? | |
| For head purposes, yes. | |
| Wait, guys, you use that to like identify themselves. | |
| I'm pretty sure that's where it originated was. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh. | |
| 78% sure. | |
| What about the other 2%? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I know a bunch of gay girls with, that's why I said that. | |
| Yeah, no. | |
| I mean. | |
| Look, ultimately, when it comes to tattoos and piercings, all this stuff, like, it's for most men, it's going to be either neutral, but that's the best it's ever going to be. | |
| Like, when you get all tatted up, piercings, it's either going to be a neutral and you're doing that shit for yourself because you like it, or it's going to be a negative for men. | |
| It's either a neutral or a negative. | |
| But all your tattoos, all your piercings, it's almost never going to be a positive. | |
| For me, there's some dudes who have like tattoo fetishes and shit, but it's a guy's never going to be like, I didn't want to fuck her. | |
| Now that she's all blasted in tattoos and has a septum piercing, now I want to bang her. | |
| No. | |
| For me personally, like those decisions knowing that. | |
| I don't know about the piercings thing because I don't have any, I only have my ears pierced. | |
| But like as far as the tattoo thing, like I started getting tattoos because, first of all, I just wanted them, but like I saw, like I'm also like attracted to men that have tattoos. | |
| Like not that like I wouldn't date a guy that didn't have them. | |
| But like personally, like I think that a guy that has tattoos would be more like obviously accepting of a girl that has them. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| And if that's like the type of person that you want to attract, like. | |
| Well, so I suppose I sort of agree with you. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like it's the same type of like attracts like as far as that. | |
| Like I don't think it's the same as like. | |
| Here's what I agree with. | |
| Okay. | |
| A guy who has tattoos is probably more accepting. | |
| That's the word you use. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Accepting of a woman who has tattoos. | |
| Whether or not it makes her more attractive. | |
| Oh no. | |
| I don't think that's the case even for men who have tattoos. | |
| I think it's a neutral or it's a negative. | |
| Well, did you see Pete Davidson got all of his tattoos removed and he's not as attractive now? | |
| Did you see that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Pete Davidson got all of his tattoos removed. | |
| That's because you already have like a visual representation of what it is. | |
| I think women, for women, tattoos, well, they can either be negative, they can be neutral, or they can be positive for women because tattoos tend to be perceived more in a more masculine sense. | |
| Some guys like tattoos. | |
| Well, when I see tattoos, I think of trauma. | |
| Some guys are cucks. | |
| There are Kuwaitis people who like them because there are magazines full of women. | |
| The oldest civilizations got tattoos, girls and guys. | |
| They also ate each other. | |
| What's your point? | |
| Yeah, the phone. | |
| Yeah, but we evolved from them. | |
| But we evolved from them and we've always been doing that. | |
| Yeah, we evolved. | |
| What I was getting to before was just like, I know a lot of the guys that like I have seen or I've dated, like majority of them do have a lot of tattoos. | |
| And they're a cohort of men that's more likely to be accepted. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| And like they, not even that it's accepting, but like they have even said like it's like they are more attracted to girls. | |
| Like it makes them more attractive when girls have tattoos. | |
| But it's like that type of guy like that, you know what I mean? | |
| Like, so I think it's just like a different type of like person. | |
| Yeah, but men will say all kinds of things to flatter you because they're not flattering me. | |
| I mean, I like to see pure. | |
| But it's also like their track record. | |
| Men are typically trying to compliment women. | |
| yeah of course but like even just like if a guy's trying to fuck you he's not gonna be like hey by the way your tattoos make me less attracted to you actually You're going to be, it's permanent on your skin as a woman. | |
| You're going to be really upset by a guy saying, I think your tattoos make you less attractive. | |
| You're less likely to fuck him. | |
| He's going to lie. | |
| Literally, when I got like this tattoo and then I got this tattoo, I hung out with a guy that like I was like on and off with. | |
| He like moved to like a different state and he would come back to Long Island. | |
| And I was like, he was all tattered up. | |
| And he was like, I was like, oh, do you like. | |
| You're like out of frame. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| All right. | |
| Yeah, a guy that moved and he would come back to Long Island. | |
| We would hook up when he would come back or whatever. | |
| But he was all tattered up. | |
| So I started getting tattoos. | |
| I was like, oh, you like my tattoos? | |
| He's like, oh, you asked him that? | |
| No, because I just got it. | |
| Like, it was like my brand new tattoo. | |
| Like, I was showing him like. | |
| Wait, no, wait, so hold on. | |
| He didn't, he didn't offer up the compliment. | |
| You're like, you asked him, do you like my tattoos? | |
| Well, no, I just got the tattoo like that week. | |
| I don't care when you got the tattoo. | |
| Oh, I was just. | |
| Well, no, I didn't say I liked it. | |
| I mean, like. | |
| Did you say, do you like my tattoo? | |
| No, I said, I just got a new tattoo. | |
| Like, what do you think of it? | |
| But the whole point is. | |
| Do you think of it? | |
| The point I was getting at is he's like. | |
| You're sleeping with him? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And the point. | |
| Okay. | |
| You know what he's going to do over well if you're dating a girl and you say, no, your tattoos are. | |
| No, this is. | |
| That's what he said. | |
| He's like, I don't, honestly, I don't like girls with tattoos. | |
| I was like. | |
| What? | |
| Wait, wait. | |
| That's what he said. | |
| Yeah, that's literally, that's what I was getting at. | |
| That's literally what he said to me. | |
| I'm like, well, it's on my skin permanently. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| So you're bent out of shape about it. | |
| No, I just thought it was fucking weird for someone to say that. | |
| Like, that's it. | |
| Why would it be weird for him to say he doesn't like tattoos? | |
| Like, first, he has them, and like, also, he's like sleeping with me. | |
| So it's like, if you're, like, what's the point of that? | |
| Why would you say that? | |
| Like, just weird. | |
| Like, it's just a weird thing to say. | |
| He may have had an expectation that you'd like to get. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So you're affirming my position that it's not a good move for a guy to be like, no, you're not. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's why I was like, I wanted to say a story that literally was that same exact thing. | |
| Like, he was like, yeah, honestly, no, I don't really like girls' tattoos. | |
| I was like, well, it's on me forever. | |
| So. | |
| W for him, I guess. | |
| I was like, I mean, weird thing to say when you're about to sleep with a girl. | |
| I mean, you asked, he was honest with you, right? | |
| You were like, what do you think of my tattoo? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, yeah, good point. | |
| Just fucking no, no game. | |
| No game. | |
| Did you still have sex with him? | |
| I think that's game. | |
| Yeah, she did. | |
| Yeah, I did. | |
| I still had sex with him. | |
| But that's besides the point. | |
| I mean, I wouldn't personally if someone said that to me. | |
| Yeah, but he was really pretty and really like fun. | |
| Okay. | |
| I know. | |
| This was when I was like 21 years old. | |
| Like. | |
| You were probably more attracted to him when he didn't give you what you wanted. | |
| Yep. | |
| Honestly, no, it made me less attracted to him because I was like, that's fucking weird to say. | |
| Like, it just, it gave like a weird, like, like, I'm like, you have no game now. | |
| Like, that's just weird. | |
| That was one part, but the other part of it was like, I don't like this. | |
| Yeah, you still fucked as if it was a clear. | |
| I mean, I was there. | |
| I mean, apparently. | |
| You were laying on the bed like a dead fish? | |
| It was physical. | |
| No, oh my God. | |
| Now we were in the car, of course. | |
| That's a terrible thing. | |
| Or in the car. | |
| Where else would you be? | |
| I know, right? | |
| Obviously. | |
| It's a bad. | |
| Listen, I was 21 years old, and I don't know. | |
| I just didn't really care. | |
| He was pretty enough. | |
| So enough. | |
| What's the whole time? | |
| I don't get the tattoo thing, to be honest. | |
| What? | |
| A girl's having tattoos. | |
| I don't think I like tattoos. | |
| I mean, I get what you guys are saying about impression and stuff, but I do think some people have tattoos with a meaningful story or something special to them. | |
| So I think that's the thing. | |
| And mine, like most of the tattoos that I have gotten now since like. | |
| So this is all of this entirely is a cover-up. | |
| I want to laser off my entire arm at this point. | |
| But like all of the other tattoos that I've gotten since this have had good meaning to them. | |
| Like something that is actually, I mean, I'm just like, do you guys think that's the case though? | |
| So I'm just curious if, like, so I said that for most men, they're going to view tattoos as either neutral or negative. | |
| Do you agree with me or like that? | |
| I disagree. | |
| Probably. | |
| Like, These guys overwhelmingly like tattoos, and it makes you more attractive. | |
| I think it depends on the guy. | |
| I'm not. | |
| Here's the claim: I'm not, or I'm not making the claim that you can't fuck men. | |
| That's not the claim. | |
| I'm not saying that men are not going to be attracted to you because men make assessments in totality. | |
| So, like, if you're dropped dead gorgeous and you have a full sleeve, trust me, you're still going to be able to fuck men. | |
| But, like, those men that you fuck, it's not clear to me if like that's not the primary contributing factor into as it relates to their attraction towards you. | |
| If you didn't have that set, the tattoo, oh, they would still, yeah, they'd still have sex with you. | |
| Yeah, there's a good probability that I think they'd actually find you more attractive after. | |
| I mean, I think it just depends. | |
| Like I said, like, I think that tattoos make a guy more attractive. | |
| So, like, yeah, but men and women aren't the same. | |
| That's right. | |
| But, like, for guys, like, it's just, I think it depends on like what, like, just like how some guys like girls with red hair, some guys like girls who are tall, some guys like girls, like, you know what? | |
| I think it's just a type. | |
| And, like, even like what I was saying before is that, like, yeah, like, guys will say, like, oh, I like girls' tattoos, but, like, they will, their whole track record will be just all girls with tattoos, like, their whole, like, roster or their whole, like, past of girls that they've dated. | |
| Like, it's just like a type. | |
| And I think that, yeah, if the girls didn't have tattoos, they'd probably still fucked them anyway. | |
| But, like, does do some guys think it's more attractive? | |
| Yeah, I think so. | |
| I tend to also think it usually is there's a strong correlation to potential drug use, potential mental illness, and higher body count. | |
| So, like, if a woman has tattoos, I like what goes through my mind is probably like higher body count. | |
| It's not necessarily true. | |
| Um, I know it's sure, I agree. | |
| That's a perception. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| It's not, I think it depends what tattoos they are. | |
| Sure, yes. | |
| Like, a girl with a little heart tattoo. | |
| You got a bunch of roses all over your arm. | |
| You need a snake, the big snake. | |
| What do you think of or a butterfly? | |
| I also have a big snake tattoo. | |
| Yeah, I mean, I got all my tattoos because I really, like, I'm an artist and I enjoy art. | |
| So, like, all of mine are like super duper. | |
| It doesn't really tell the reasons. | |
| It's just like, I'm saying, like, I think it depends. | |
| Like, when you were saying, like, the three reasons, like, which you probably are right. | |
| But I think, and it also, you can determine which ones they are by what the tattoos are. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Like, a girl who has a spider web tattoo on her elbow probably like drugs or crime. | |
| Right. | |
| Or both. | |
| Or both. | |
| So, like. | |
| Right. | |
| See, the girls with the tattoos know exactly what I'm saying. | |
| No, we will. | |
| It's funny because I showed a picture. | |
| Don't you have a spider right here on your arm? | |
| I'm actually removing it. | |
| No, I actually have already gone to a laser appointment. | |
| I'm currently getting them removed. | |
| So okay. | |
| We have a couple chats coming through this. | |
| Michael, sorry for the delay on these. | |
| Michael Jones donated $200. | |
| Women can have tattoos, but if you have a single tattoo that doesn't have true meaning, or you have hands slash neck slash face tats, you are disqualified from dating a large amount of men. | |
| Yeah, that's a good point. | |
| That's fair. | |
| I mean, it's like, it depends on the severity. | |
| Like, I don't think tattoos are a deal breaker. | |
| They can be a red flag. | |
| I think it depends what the tattoos are, too. | |
| Like, sternum tattoo? | |
| No? | |
| That's yikes. | |
| What about sauce? | |
| You have a sternum tattoo right here? | |
| The little chandelier bullshit that every girl has. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I do want to get. | |
| You know the fucking chandelier sternum. | |
| That's like the modern-day tram stamp. | |
| It is exactly that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you have it? | |
| Frankie, you got a sternum. | |
| Okay. | |
| I have my stomach. | |
| It ends right there. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| You have the snake, don't you? | |
| No, it's a mermaid. | |
| Oh, I forgot. | |
| I have four pet snakes, so I feel like for me to get a snake, though, wouldn't be like crazy. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, that would actually make sense. | |
| We have Chris here. | |
| Yes. | |
| Thank you, Chris. | |
| I've lied to many women and told them that I liked their tattoos in order to be in their good graces to sleep with them. | |
| I also tell them I like independent women who are strong lol pump and dump F2W. | |
| Oh, yeah, I mean, I've I don't think that if a guy told me, I like your tattoos, that's not the selling point where I'm gonna sleep with him. | |
| Like, you know what I mean? | |
| That's not like, oh, yeah, he likes my tattoos. | |
| Yep. | |
| Yep. | |
| Now he's in. | |
| So men are typically not going to be honest, though. | |
| Except for that one dude that I told you guys. | |
| You feel like that's a big problem. | |
| Well, yeah, but you're already sleeping with him. | |
| Like if you've already fucked the dude, you're in the comfort zone with him. | |
| Yeah, that's fair. | |
| They'll be more honest. | |
| But like if they haven't slept with you yet. | |
| Oh, and they want to be in your, like you said, the good graces. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So. | |
| I mean, even if a guy said that, I don't like your tattoos. | |
| I mean, he's not like a deal breaker. | |
| Like, okay, fine. | |
| Who? | |
| Who's chair 10? | |
| Him. | |
| Or six. | |
| He's a weird guy. | |
| I'm weird. | |
| Yeah, you are. | |
| No, you probably take a lot of dicks. | |
| By who's dying? | |
| But you just don't show in the public and you believe you are better than other people. | |
| By whose standard? | |
| By your standard? | |
| No, no, whose standard am I? | |
| You are the one who believes that everything you say is what it is. | |
| So choose coin from the bottom. | |
| Are you triggered or what's going on? | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| You said I'm weird. | |
| I'm asking you by whose standard? | |
| By your standard? | |
| Yeah, hold on. | |
| As you want to see it, yeah. | |
| Can you, look, scoot the microphone to the edge of the table? | |
| Just leave it there. | |
| Here I am. | |
| Here I am. | |
| Just leave it where it is. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're saying he takes dick? | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| What? | |
| Yeah, because he says it like that, not to me. | |
| Very rude right away that if I take dicks in the ass, yeah, I probably do in front of the camera and you do it in private. | |
| You got a little fucked up. | |
| That's what it happens, and that's why you're so fucking rude with people. | |
| I'm only going off the data, the information that you told us at the beginning of the show. | |
| I'm not making up things about you. | |
| If you're proud of what you do, why are you getting offended? | |
| I'm confused about that. | |
| But why are you getting offended? | |
| Because you are so rude. | |
| Because you know there's disgust in what you do. | |
| You're ashamed of what you do. | |
| You probably do a lot of disgusting things in your house. | |
| So shut up. | |
| That's the point. | |
| You understand? | |
| So you're pulling the what about is I'm like what about you? | |
| No, no, we're judging you right now. | |
| Okay, we're going over your life. | |
| Well, and I'm judging you. | |
| You're calling me weird. | |
| Well, you're so fucking hypocrite, yeah. | |
| And then what you do in your house. | |
| So even if, even if I did, even if I granted that I do disgusting stuff at home, it's not my whole life. | |
| It's not my whole personality. | |
| How can I look at the image that you're talking about? | |
| And I know you're probably lying and you just judge them and you do a bunch of dirty things in your house. | |
| No, you're projecting once again. | |
| And then you speak to the girls like that, like that guy say in the comment, you are fucking weird because you do this kind of comments. | |
| I'm actually really respectful to them. | |
| And I'm being respectful to you as well. | |
| You're just ashamed of what you do. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| Okay, so you're not ashamed of what you do, right? | |
| I don't think it's the best, but I think people are so fucking hypocritic like you and many other people that blame and judge girls that do this kind of job. | |
| But then everybody, including people like the father and the papa, and this bullshit, they fucking update. | |
| Do you sell your body? | |
| Do you sell your body for money? | |
| Would you be happy and would you feel really good if your dad bought your OF? | |
| No, of course not. | |
| But people if you do. | |
| Aren't you proud of what you do? | |
| Not also proud. | |
| Yeah, you're not proud of it. | |
| You're ashamed. | |
| I'm okay with it. | |
| You're ashamed. | |
| You're okay with it in the sense that you're settling. | |
| What's the point? | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| You're getting offended. | |
| All I was, I wasn't making up anything about you. | |
| I was just saying the information that you're talking about. | |
| The way you speak is rude. | |
| So everyone's not afraid of the potential. | |
| Oh, so you're tone policing. | |
| You're tone policing. | |
| Once again, even if your tone was off and you were criticizing me for something that I admitted I do, I wouldn't be offended because I'm not ashamed of what I do. | |
| You're ashamed of what you do. | |
| Okay. | |
| You know what you do is wrong. | |
| So even though you're saying, I don't care about my relationship, I don't care about my future. | |
| I don't want kids. | |
| You are ashamed. | |
| That's why you wouldn't want your dad seeing you naked. | |
| Am I right? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| You can criticize me, but you can't say I'm wrong. | |
| You can't say that. | |
| You're right here. | |
| You're right. | |
| Everything you say, you're right because you are. | |
| You're saying. | |
| You're a guy who doesn't have tattoos or piercing. | |
| You know everything. | |
| You're a fucking Catholic Christian, so you know everything. | |
| And you are God. | |
| And you say what is good and what is bad. | |
| You're saying I'm weird. | |
| And I ask you by whose standard. | |
| Because I don't think you're. | |
| I disagree with the guy who said that. | |
| Yeah, but I don't know. | |
| Like, why do you do this kind of thing? | |
| He's trying to buy your OF. | |
| That's why. | |
| He's trying to buy your OF. | |
| Who? | |
| The guy that said that. | |
| Okay, okay, yeah, probably. | |
| I just asked you though, by whose standard? | |
| By your standard? | |
| Because I don't care about what you think. | |
| And you're judging everyone in here and giving your opinions by the standard of who? | |
| Of yours, no? | |
| So what the fuck are you saying? | |
| There's an objective standard. | |
| There's a telos. | |
| There's a purpose. | |
| That's something that you're not meeting, nor will you ever meet, sadly. | |
| And I hope I'm wrong, by the way. | |
| I hope you do live a great life. | |
| I'm just, I want you to see how offended you're getting. | |
| I am. | |
| Because you're ashamed of what you do. | |
| Because the way you speak, excitedly. | |
| Is there nothing intimate about sex? | |
| Hey, enter this. | |
| Is there nothing intimate about sex? | |
| Is there? | |
| Or is that your life or is sex just a random act? | |
| I think it's part of the nature, so you can see it as you want. | |
| Random or not. | |
| Okay, so would you have sex with your dad? | |
| No, me not, but people do. | |
| Some people do. | |
| No, no, you don't. | |
| Okay, would you find it disgusting if you did that with your dad? | |
| If I find it disgusting? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| But there's other people that doesn't do that. | |
| I don't care about other people. | |
| I'm talking about you. | |
| So now let's go over the boxes. | |
| You're ashamed. | |
| You would be ashamed and grossed out if your dad bought your OF, and you would definitely be grossed out and disgusted if you had to have relations with him. | |
| So you're ashamed of what you do, and this is your whole identity. | |
| I'm not making up anything about you. | |
| I'm just saying the information that you've already given me. | |
| Okay. | |
| Whatever you say. | |
| Yeah, you're right and everything. | |
| It's just you have legal parents. | |
| You're right, my friend. | |
| You don't fucking dance. | |
| While we're on the topic, what do you think about me? | |
| You also rude this fight. | |
| Weird? | |
| Weird or rude. | |
| No, rude. | |
| Rude. | |
| Yeah, the way it's all going answered to people. | |
| Yeah, I'm rude as well. | |
| I thought you were asking if she would have sex with you. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| Because he said, would you have sex with your dad? | |
| No, no, I was because she was talking shit to him, and I wanted to know if. | |
| You wanted to hop in on their cat. | |
| Yeah, I wanted to see if she felt the same way towards me. | |
| You have no place to judge anyone. | |
| Oh, we got Peanut. | |
| $200. | |
| Peanut. | |
| I have a tattoo of a Penith on my panel. | |
| I love that Peanut. | |
| It's great. | |
| Nice. | |
| He has a tattoo of. | |
| That's good. | |
| What was that girl's name? | |
| Lesbie Larry? | |
| Priscilla. | |
| That's a good one. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Oh, I just triggered it twice. | |
| Okay, well, Peanut. | |
| You get it twice. | |
| What the hell? | |
| It's coming in. | |
| Oh, my. | |
| I just triggered all of them a million times. | |
| My bad, guys. | |
| Guys, like the video if you're enjoying the stream. | |
| Like the video. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I have a tattoo of a penis on mine. | |
| Peanut. | |
| Thank you for that one. | |
| That's really great. | |
| Guys, like the video. | |
| Read is 100. | |
| TTS is 200. | |
| Venmo Cash App, whatever pod. | |
| We're about, guys, we are just about to do the age advancement. | |
| And I hope gender swap. | |
| Do we have gender swap too? | |
| I don't know. | |
| All right. | |
| We have age advancement and gender swap coming up. | |
| Peanut, thank you for that. | |
| Like the video, guys, if you're enjoying the stream. | |
| Also, hashtag BigLabia Matter. | |
| Chris donated $200. | |
| Thank you, Chris. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| I lied to many women and told them that I liked that. | |
| With the weeds to the other side. | |
| Yeah, we already did that. | |
| I also tell her. | |
| Did she leave? | |
| Huh? | |
| Did she leave? | |
| She's not, she's coming back, I'm pretty sure. | |
| We have, what was that? | |
| Was it bugging? | |
| Oh, that was okay. | |
| We have Lucas coming in here in just a moment. | |
| Sorry for the delay, guys. | |
| The thing got all scuffed on our end. | |
| Lucas says, I don't want to be mean, but I'm a very white shoe tip professional and navigate conservative social circles. | |
| My wife's appearance, especially at my law firm's events, reflects on my, reflects on my reputation. | |
| And that is continued in this following message that he sends in. | |
| Lucas, I do appreciate your message here. | |
| Says, continued. | |
| I'm assuming since you want to be a stay-at-home. | |
| Oh, shit, she's not fucking here. | |
| You're looking for the same high-caliber of man who's also a man of high competence, virtue, and integrity. | |
| Okay, I'm just going to read it when she's back, man. | |
| Here, I'll pull it back up. | |
| Okay, let's do damn, what the fuck. | |
| Everybody, I'm trying to do the age thing, and everybody fucking leaves. | |
| All right. | |
| Sure, yeah, we can try to get her back here. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Okay, Agatha, you said, I'm getting into your show notes. | |
| You said, yes, you have some cool stories of dating where I live, where you lived, unique experiences traveling in another country. | |
| You lied to your family many times to travel with guys they never knew. | |
| But you lied to your parents. | |
| How old were you? | |
| When that happened, probably 19, something like you lied to your okay, to travel with men. | |
| Did they pay for the travel? | |
| No, not really, no. | |
| Just for fun. | |
| No, did the men pay for the I mean, off cars, they pay for the flight, but not that I went there. | |
| Like, you said one of the most fun and unique dates ever going to a strip club, and the guy paid for a girl to do a private dance on you. | |
| Yeah, that was fun. | |
| Love that. | |
| You said you're not sure what you'll talk about exactly about dating, but you said you met and fuck with a lot of people, but you usually have had long relationships during your life, and they all started with sex right away. | |
| You guess that that's something very important to you, the sex, and you feel it's something important to know and have connection, connection with the person before actually starting to date. | |
| Uh-huh. | |
| Okay. | |
| And so, okay. | |
| I mean, that's cool, I guess. | |
| Congrats. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And your final thing here: you said it's hard to date nowadays for all the pressure social media does to men and women. | |
| It's becoming harder for many people because of technology and all the loneliness that is actually happening in the world. | |
| Okay. | |
| Here, let's put here. | |
| Wait, I need to pull up that chat from Lucas. | |
| Then we're going to do the age advancement. | |
| Okay. | |
| This one's for you. | |
| He says, I don't want to be mean, but I'm a very white shoe-tip professional and navigate conservative social circles. | |
| My wife's appearance, especially at my law firms, events, reflects on my reputation. | |
| Continued, to which he says, I'm just going to read it before it's up. | |
| I'm assuming since you want to be a stay-at-home mom, you're looking for the same high caliber of man who's also a man of high competence, virtue, and integrity. | |
| You're well-intentioned, so get rid of the piercings. | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you very much. | |
| Take them out. | |
| I have very, very pure intention. | |
| That is from Lucas, who is a top top. | |
| I'll take them out. | |
| He's a high-value man. | |
| So part of the top attorney. | |
| Part of the other reason why I kind of wanted to be on the show was because I was raised with the values of you should wait, and I did that. | |
| And then after my marriage and everything, I was told by numerous people, you should sleep around, you should sleep around, you should sleep around. | |
| And I gave into that. | |
| And so part of why I wanted to be on the show was kind of to be like, hey, if you're a girl and you want these things, don't make the same mistakes I did. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Make different choices. | |
| A warning. | |
| It's a warning. | |
| Yes. | |
| You hear that, ladies? | |
| Don't worry. | |
| So if you guys want to be married, if you want to be married and you want to have kids, don't sleep around all of your 20s and stuff. | |
| Like, it's think about it in your 20s because it will, you know, I got piercings when I was young. | |
| And like he was saying, I was told by my mom, you know, I was told by people, if you want a man like this, you should present yourself this way. | |
| And it was like, no, I like piercings. | |
| I like tattoos. | |
| I like punk rock music. | |
| I'm going to do what I want to do. | |
| And it hasn't gotten me where I wanted to go. | |
| I mean, even like, if I was to move into like abstinence or whatever, like, I don't think there would be any form of me feeling more pure either. | |
| So, like, it's not necessarily like, because I do wait at least a little bit into like talking to a guy or whatever to get into the intimacy type of thing. | |
| But, like, I mean, I don't want to wait until marriage because, like, well, I also don't want to get married, so there's that. | |
| But there's that. | |
| That's what I'm doing. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I just don't think like you're. | |
| I would rather know that it's going to be good type of thing. | |
| Get married and then the sex sucks. | |
| That would be so upsetting. | |
| I think that's the thing. | |
| Don't you women are so porn burning? | |
| Don't most women. | |
| Don't most women think that it's better when you make a connection? | |
| This culture has removed the significance of sex and it has created into something that is very out of its meaning and it's not, it's meaningless. | |
| Can you agree with that? | |
| I don't think it's meaningless because I've had very intimate relationships with people as well. | |
| So like I've learned from them. | |
| So like I'll do five minutes after no, emotionally like what it means though. | |
| I'm never gonna do that. | |
| No, that's not. | |
| I know. | |
| I'm throwing it out there. | |
| I want to know. | |
| What do you guys think? | |
| What is the meaning of that? | |
| Hold on for you guys. | |
| I have everybody at the table. | |
| Let's do the age shit. | |
| Because people get nothing. | |
| Oh, we're going to get back to it. | |
| Don't worry. | |
| Are we ready? | |
| Yeah, we're ready. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Oh. | |
| Damn. | |
| My God. | |
| Make it. | |
| When do we switch back to it? | |
| That's scary. | |
| I literally like my grandmom a lot. | |
| She's so cute. | |
| We love it. | |
| Guilt. | |
| Next. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| She said, oh, God. | |
| Okay, Batty. | |
| Betty. | |
| When did you say your peak was? | |
| At 64? | |
| Right now. | |
| I mean, my peak right now. | |
| Passed when I was 19. | |
| Well, this is what is in store. | |
| Oh, good. | |
| Prepare yourself. | |
| Very long. | |
| Horrible. | |
| Okay. | |
| Next. | |
| No, absolutely not. | |
| That's scary. | |
| That's you. | |
| No, that's scary. | |
| With the hair and everything. | |
| No, she's in a horror film. | |
| I know she is. | |
| Dude, she's that girl that climbed up the wall in the visit. | |
| Wait, do you accept that that's reality? | |
| That's what you're going to look like? | |
| No, I don't accept it. | |
| I think you think you're not going to have wrinkles and stuff, but you are. | |
| You're going to have a ton of wrinkles. | |
| I'm not accepting that. | |
| Well, you want to see what mine's going to be. | |
| That's what you're like, when did you say your peak was? | |
| I said, I think 35 is what I'm going to do. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I'm so scared for mine. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Valid. | |
| No, that is so bad. | |
| Why don't I look like the Crips Keeper? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Damn. | |
| I'm so scared. | |
| That's cute. | |
| Take out everything I said earlier. | |
| You're so like, stake it out. | |
| Take it out. | |
| No, but it's 40. | |
| Yeah, but that's probably 50 in the middle. | |
| Cut it out. | |
| Nah, in the middle, that's 40. | |
| Dude, that is bad. | |
| Nah, that's good. | |
| No, that's hip. | |
| At least I got tips, though, so that's good. | |
| I guess. | |
| At least you got those. | |
| Yeah, at least they didn't say, so that's good. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, the hair. | |
| Why do I look so red? | |
| I'm super pale. | |
| Why did I look red? | |
| Anyways, I love that you still have the hair, though. | |
| Like, hair did not change. | |
| You look like those women that go to the protest right now for the Elon thing. | |
| And the muscle. | |
| I'm dead. | |
| Oh, can you straighten your mic? | |
| Like, scoot your mic. | |
| Oh, just like scoot it that way and then straighten it. | |
| Like that? | |
| Yeah, that's good, I guess. | |
| Good job. | |
| Mine scared the shit out of me. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Oh, I love that. | |
| My God, wait. | |
| I don't accept it. | |
| I love that. | |
| Who took these screenshots? | |
| Not accepting reality. | |
| I want you to make me cookies. | |
| That's you. | |
| Not accepting reality. | |
| Except for Fate, dude, except for Fate. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| I can't tell you what age. | |
| Katie Perry. | |
| That doesn't look like reality. | |
| The age on the last one's supposed to be. | |
| Dude, why am I like the scariest? | |
| I'm the scariest grandma though. | |
| If I keep going down the same path. | |
| Dude, I'm the scariest grandma. | |
| Next. | |
| You guys are all cute. | |
| Hers. | |
| That's cute. | |
| Hers is not cute. | |
| Wait, I think you look really pretty. | |
| You got like incense burning in the middle. | |
| No, literally. | |
| You guys are all the cutest grandmas. | |
| I look like I would fucking murder you guys in your sleep. | |
| It looks like that chain mail that you were supposed to forward to everybody. | |
| And this will be at your bed at the end of the night. | |
| That's what my pictures look like. | |
| Like a jump scare? | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's pretty accurate. | |
| I know. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| See? | |
| Oh, that one's so cute, too. | |
| That's you in 10 years, Bella. | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| 10 years. | |
| Uh-oh. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| You look like you're in politics. | |
| Like, literally. | |
| She looks like a congresswoman of some sort. | |
| I'll take it, guys. | |
| It's so extreme. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Aww. | |
| Walter White. | |
| We love you. | |
| It reminds me of the UP movie. | |
| Yes. | |
| You look like Up from Mexican to white. | |
| Yo, I want to tie balloons to your house and fly you up and everything. | |
| You won't live that long, so that's crazy. | |
| Yeah, well, let's see yourself, too. | |
| You're going to be white when you get older. | |
| I won't get that old. | |
| I won't live that long. | |
| Next. | |
| Right. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Jesus the old one. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Come on. | |
| Come on. | |
| I look good old, though. | |
| Look at that. | |
| Right, right, right. | |
| Look how handsome young bro. | |
| You look like you'd play golf on a Tuesday. | |
| You look like you'd help me out with my car problems. | |
| Wait, who's that? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Oh, we're doing the job. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| This is so funny. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I see what's going on. | |
| Okay, so here's what we're going to do for the. | |
| Now, this is the next segment is: would you date the male version of you? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| That's so good. | |
| I love that. | |
| Looks-wise or personality-wise? | |
| Looks. | |
| Bruh. | |
| If you don't know that man's personality, the picture that it's going to be up on the screen. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| So go ahead, pull it up. | |
| And then I think you got to maybe move us over or something. | |
| Dude, he looks like he'd pump my guests. | |
| Maybe hide us. | |
| Can you hide us temporarily? | |
| I like the short blonde hair. | |
| It looks like he's got his hair highlighted. | |
| I like the beard, though. | |
| Right? | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| Looks like his name would be Carl. | |
| Carl. | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| You date Carl. | |
| Yeah, why not? | |
| This one is not great, though. | |
| The AI kind of got fucked up. | |
| Okay. | |
| Next. | |
| Make it down. | |
| Oh, he's cute. | |
| Brother. | |
| Ew. | |
| Fuck. | |
| No, I look identical to my brother. | |
| There's no chance. | |
| Ew. | |
| You wouldn't date yourself? | |
| No, I look exactly like my brother. | |
| You wouldn't date your brother. | |
| I wouldn't fuck my brother. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Am I Asian? | |
| No, I'm not. | |
| He looks kind of Asian on there. | |
| A little bit low-key-looking. | |
| We're Mexican. | |
| He looks like Mexican-ish, Asian-ish. | |
| He looks like he would work for like Google or something. | |
| A little Native American or something. | |
| I don't know. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, hell yeah. | |
| He's cute. | |
| I'm scared. | |
| I'm scared. | |
| You would date. | |
| You would date. | |
| I would date me. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I'm so scared. | |
| He's cute. | |
| No, he's actually cute. | |
| He's like a little. | |
| He looks familiar. | |
| He looks like my brother. | |
| I'd date you as a dude. | |
| All right. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| What does mine look like? | |
| Oh my god, scared. | |
| What the hell? | |
| Why do you guys use the worst ones of me? | |
| Oh my god. | |
| That looks like he licks a window. | |
| He licks a window for sure. | |
| Wait, that kind of looks like. | |
| Wait. | |
| The one at the end doesn't look like Cole. | |
| It kind of looks like the Australian guy. | |
| What the? | |
| Why do you guys use the worst pictures of me? | |
| It does. | |
| It does. | |
| The middle one. | |
| The middle one. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Maybe we're related. | |
| Could be. | |
| I don't like me as a guy for that. | |
| Sorry, Cole. | |
| Maybe. | |
| What? | |
| Yo, he is at an LGBT pride parade for sure. | |
| He's kind of fine. | |
| He kind of fine. | |
| You kind of look like Brian. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| I like how they turned your pink hair into like a fucking thing. | |
| Why are they making everyone look Asian? | |
| Well, she looks Wasian. | |
| That's like that. | |
| Yeah, kind of Wasian a little bit. | |
| AI is racist. | |
| They're making everyone look Asian. | |
| It's wild. | |
| Or white in his. | |
| So would you date your male? | |
| This one was better than the last one, so sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| You should have thought of like names to give yourself. | |
| Would you? | |
| Why did I get a buzz? | |
| Oh my god. | |
| I literally look like I sell drugs and just got out of it. | |
| Yeah, you look like a cheap Miami drug dealer. | |
| I mean, I guess they look like that as a girl too, but you know, no. | |
| So it's a good fit. | |
| I look Mexican. | |
| Yeah, I'm like Mexican. | |
| You're a Miami drug dealer. | |
| No, maybe Italian. | |
| I wouldn't. | |
| I wouldn't go. | |
| No, Italians are really attractive. | |
| That's kind of considered. | |
| I'm Italian. | |
| Do you think I'm attractive? | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| The eyes do. | |
| I couldn't grow facial hair like that. | |
| You gotta, you know, the eyes all fucked up, unfortunately. | |
| Asians made me Asian. | |
| Just kidding. | |
| All right. | |
| Well, your eyes fucked up in the girl version. | |
| Not as bad as that. | |
| Damn. | |
| Next. | |
| Wait. | |
| Why did that one turn out so good? | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| No, just because it looks too much like my brother. | |
| No, I better say. | |
| It reminds me of my brother too much. | |
| I'm like a normal guy. | |
| You wouldn't. | |
| You look like an actor right now. | |
| Yeah, if it didn't remind me of my brother. | |
| I look like a guy that goes to Comic-Con. | |
| I'm dead. | |
| That's so specific. | |
| All right. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Oh, he's cute. | |
| That looks like cute. | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| No, it looks like I date that version. | |
| Or my brother, no, it looks like my brother. | |
| No. | |
| Any other girls? | |
| That's what your dad looks like. | |
| No, my brother was. | |
| Can I have your dad's number? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| He doesn't look like that anymore. | |
| All right. | |
| What about the brother's number? | |
| No, I want her. | |
| I want her dad's number. | |
| Would you date the male version of you? | |
| No, I would not. | |
| Nope. | |
| Nah. | |
| Don't do my brother. | |
| I said, don't do mine. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| We're doing your own. | |
| We're doing yours. | |
| That's what we are. | |
| The female girl. | |
| No, I'm saying, I'm definitely going to say no. | |
| Next. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| He looks so fast. | |
| Yeah, that's an ugly. Dude. | |
| It looks like Gypsy Rose. | |
| Yo, Gypsy Rose. | |
| Works at a cell phone store. | |
| I was about to say. | |
| Or like HR. | |
| That's the name I recognize. | |
| She looks in fucking HR. | |
| Oh, where's yours? | |
| Where's yours? | |
| Where's your Brian? | |
| All right, pull that shit. | |
| Pull it up. | |
| It's going to be all fucked. | |
| Oh. | |
| I was like, Felicity, would you. | |
| Ew. | |
| That's you, but a dude. | |
| But a dude. | |
| It just kind of cuts the hair and gives a beard. | |
| Low-key. | |
| It makes it Asian. | |
| I like the movie. | |
| Why'd they show? | |
| They keep giving you bangs, Felicity. | |
| I don't know why. | |
| It's having bangs. | |
| They got to change that shit to see, like, bangs. | |
| You can't rock bangs as a dude. | |
| It's a dude. | |
| It's like a boca. | |
| It's like a boca. | |
| Some guys talk. | |
| Oh, boy. | |
| Okay. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Bro, you made me a special Ed fuck. | |
| The first one taught. | |
| The first one taught. | |
| I look. | |
| Yo, you literally look like you wear a helmet. | |
| The second one needs a chance. | |
| Yo, you lick the window, for sure. | |
| For sure. | |
| For sure. | |
| Are there more? | |
| Or is that it? | |
| That's it? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Dude, he did his job. | |
| You can X out. | |
| Give that guy a raise. | |
| What if his girl version looks like you? | |
| Well, it's the Discord version. | |
| Yo, wait, yeah. | |
| Cole, I want to see your girl version. | |
| There is no. | |
| You can talk to him after the show about that, I guess. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Oh, well, why didn't he just put his own face on it and see if it looks like me? | |
| He didn't make. | |
| I think you're really interested in seeing what Cole looks like as a woman. | |
| That's kind of weird. | |
| Well, I look like him as a guy. | |
| Oh, I see what you're doing. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's what we were like. | |
| I'm like, I want to know. | |
| Yeah, I know. | |
| I know you're a little. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Don't forget your helmet on the way out. | |
| You're just as slow as the rest of us. | |
| I want to see if he looks like me as a girl. | |
| Just like flipping it. | |
| Have you been to a lot of loud concerts? | |
| You just talk loud. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I know. | |
| Like the volume. | |
| Is your family loud? | |
| Everyone in New York is loud. | |
| She's around loud. | |
| New York. | |
| She's in New York. | |
| Your mother. | |
| And that's why bartending is like, I'm like screaming and they're like, oh, right. | |
| And I'm like, you know, well, that's, but I'm like, I picked the perfect job because like this is my indoor voice. | |
| They're an ebrian. | |
| Oh, my goodness. | |
| That is so cool. | |
| Shut up. | |
| Wow. | |
| So, anyways, all right, I'm going to get into my these notes here from the questionnaire. | |
| Only four. | |
| I didn't finish mine. | |
| Yeah, you only printed four. | |
| Yeah, I only printed four because my I printed them out, but I forgot to bring them, so whatever. | |
| I'm prepared. | |
| But so, okay, what would you want the min this is for the whole panel? | |
| What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband, starting with our good friend who really likes us, Agatha? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I just want someone who can take care of himself, but I don't really need a number or someone who is crazy racing. | |
| So you'll date a guy who works at McDonald's. | |
| I mean, if he's a nice person, yeah, why not? | |
| I mean, you don't care about the personality. | |
| Well, you know everything. | |
| You know everything. | |
| You know more than me. | |
| Am I wrong? | |
| You know everything. | |
| Am I wrong? | |
| You are God, my friend. | |
| You know everything. | |
| I'm going to counter this. | |
| Do you need to be God to know more than you? | |
| No, but you're a God. | |
| You can be spat in no more than you. | |
| You can know everything. | |
| You could be his picture in no morning. | |
| Yeah. | |
| He knows. | |
| Interesting. | |
| By the way, this is impersonal, Agatha. | |
| I'm a Christian. | |
| We don't judge. | |
| We do not judge. | |
| He doesn't judge. | |
| Christians are not supposed to judge. | |
| Remember that. | |
| The hippocampus. | |
| Don't they judge like Gabriel? | |
| They're not supposed to do a lot of things that they do anyway. | |
| Are you a Christian? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Are your parents? | |
| No, I'm same like her. | |
| I just take things like different religions. | |
| Are you party? | |
| Are you an asshole? | |
| I think so. | |
| Yeah, I think so. | |
| What's funny to me is you want me to treat you with respect, but you're not worthy of respect. | |
| You are the first one who came up with the shit way to speak. | |
| I only use Christian. | |
| Yeah, whatever. | |
| I only use the information you gave me. | |
| I'm telling Latino and Latino crime. | |
| No, I'm just saying. | |
| Look, if you want to be a woman worthy of respect, you got to treat yourself with respect first. | |
| If you're going to sell your body on OS, you're probably going to be able to do that. | |
| You respect yourself because you don't have to be aware of yourself. | |
| I don't know what you're saying. | |
| I don't know what these kind of things. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But who the fuck knows what you do in your private life? | |
| If people don't respect me, if I come into this room and people don't respect me. | |
| Hey, if people don't respect me in this room, you probably treat your wife. | |
| I'm probably treating you like shit. | |
| How you treat the animals. | |
| Like, what the fuck? | |
| You cannot judge like that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The difference between you. | |
| Yeah, how do you treat the world? | |
| The difference between you and me is you're projecting and you're making up stuff about me that you know nothing about. | |
| All I'm using is information. | |
| And you take out. | |
| All I said was what you told us. | |
| Because what do you know about me? | |
| You give your question. | |
| Have I said anything wrong? | |
| Have I said anything that was wrong? | |
| Have I said anything that was wrong? | |
| You don't like it, I know. | |
| No, because you know everything. | |
| No. | |
| You're right. | |
| I know you don't like it, but have I said I was wrong? | |
| Jesus Christ. | |
| So you know I have a lot of people. | |
| But the truth is, you're ashamed of what you do. | |
| I said only what you said. | |
| If you need to, and I'm not making up any lies. | |
| So you can call me what you want, but you can't call me a liar. | |
| He knows everything. | |
| He's very. | |
| You don't need to know everything to know more than you. | |
| Exactly. | |
| You have like a 73 IQ. | |
| You know. | |
| No one needs to know much about you. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| You know, I know you're right. | |
| I still got love for you. | |
| We just need to, you know. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| Make some adjustments. | |
| Thank you so much. | |
| It's not personal. | |
| All right. | |
| Yeah, of course. | |
| Do you have a good relationship with your dad? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I do. | |
| I do. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| What kind of virtues and values did he instill in you when you were young? | |
| Here we go. | |
| Nice values. | |
| But you know better, so you tell me. | |
| What do you think? | |
| No, I'm just asking a question. | |
| Did you implement it? | |
| But you know better. | |
| Did you implement it? | |
| I know better than anyone. | |
| For the work I do, how do you think he raised me? | |
| What do you think he teached me? | |
| Tell me, tell me. | |
| Well, first off, I would actually question whether he was in your life. | |
| Second off, I would question, I think he taught you to value money and quote-unquote success, but maybe not the virtues and the values that are important. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| You know, exactly. | |
| Like, well, if you respected yourself, why would you treat your body the way you do? | |
| Is your father still with your mother as well? | |
| I started with my mom. | |
| Is your father still with your mother as well? | |
| No, for many years. | |
| Why would you if you admitted that there's something intimate about sex, which is the same reason why you would restrict your dad from going into that territory, why do you treat your body that way if you know it's something to be ashamed of? | |
| Look, I'm just asking a question. | |
| It's not personal. | |
| I know, I know, I know. | |
| Yeah, no, not personal. | |
| I just believe that it doesn't matter that much, like, what we do with our bodies, because everybody do bullshit with their bodies. | |
| Like, it's what I'm telling you. | |
| Just because I do porn, you know, the way I do in private or whatever, and who knows what you do? | |
| Who knows whatever any of the person in this room do in private? | |
| Like, there's people who do way worse shit and don't do porn. | |
| So, what's your point? | |
| No, we'll agree. | |
| Look, we'll agree that we're all sinful people. | |
| We all sin, we all make mistakes, but okay, no, and there's worse people that respect their body because they're not porn, but they are motherfuckers who abuse from women from animals and whatever kind of bullshit, and they don't do porn. | |
| So, what's your point? | |
| Yeah, if we have a grapist in the room or down the street, I don't think you should lower your standards to meet his. | |
| I think you should be above that. | |
| So, the fact that you're saying, oh, society does bad things, so I'm going to do some worse things too, that's incoherent. | |
| I don't think that's fallacious. | |
| That's fair. | |
| Like, you can respect yourself to an extent as well. | |
| You can respect yourself, but also, you got to understand yourself is your identity. | |
| If you were doing like this stuff in private, like having sex with men, we wouldn't know about it. | |
| But this is your whole identity. | |
| You come on and you answer these questions in the way that you do, and it's fine, but you're explaining your reality. | |
| So, this is your whole identity. | |
| Even if I grant that we all do horrible things in private, I'm not publicizing it. | |
| I'm not making it my whole identity because you're better than me. | |
| At least for me. | |
| At least for me, because if you want to talk about me, when I do sin, because I do, I am a horrible person in some ways too, right? | |
| But I have conviction. | |
| I want to change from it. | |
| I want to grow from it. | |
| For you, you're like, I'm okay with this. | |
| I don't care if I take 100 dicks in one night. | |
| That's the difference. | |
| So, I wish you would feel that conviction because eventually everyone's got a clock, and everyone has to own up to their own mistakes. | |
| Sadly, you're going to have to go through it to actually experience it. | |
| Am I wrong once again? | |
| No, no, because you know everything. | |
| You're right in everything. | |
| Once again, if you have a 73 IQ, I don't need to know everything. | |
| I just need to know a little bit more than you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't need to be God to know more than you. | |
| Exactly. | |
| No, but you know, exactly. | |
| And you don't. | |
| Exactly. | |
| So learn it. | |
| Exactly. | |
| So you know, my friend. | |
| The mind. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Amazing guy in the room. | |
| Latinas, man. | |
| They're too feisty. | |
| They're too feisty. | |
| That was good. | |
| That was good. | |
| That was like a therapy session. | |
| I was really, I learned a lot there. | |
| So, okay, minimum yearly income, you said doesn't really matter to you. | |
| What about you? | |
| Same. | |
| As long as he's employed and working hard to make money. | |
| It doesn't really matter how much. | |
| What about you? | |
| I like to have more of a connection. | |
| I'm not really concerned with that either. | |
| Okay, so you guys would all date McDonald's burger? | |
| I wouldn't say like that. | |
| I mean, if I knew that like right off the bat, and that was like the only thing that I knew about the person, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sure. | |
| What about you? | |
| I said equal to me or more. | |
| Which is what? | |
| It's a good number. | |
| You said you're a strip club bartender? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like 8K a month. | |
| What is this? | |
| I'm not disclosing it. | |
| Tax reasons. | |
| I'm not disclosing my number, but equal to me or more. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| 100K minimum. | |
| Okay. | |
| 100k minimum. | |
| What about you? | |
| Probably around there where I just want to have a comfortable life. | |
| You know, I would prefer to be able to be a stay-at-home mom if I ever have kids. | |
| So just somebody that can provide a comfortable life, but it doesn't need to be anything crazy. | |
| Can I just have you tilt your mic down a little bit? | |
| What about you? | |
| Yeah, he has to be able to provide for a family because I want kids. | |
| And so maybe 90 to 100K. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| Yeah, I think the same as Bella. | |
| I think the most important thing is having a drive and if he has the ambition to get to a point where he could provide for a family and make that income. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I'm just going to go to the next question. | |
| How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man that you would date, Agatha, starting with you? | |
| Same height like me, at least. | |
| How tall are you? | |
| 20 centimeters. | |
| Okay. | |
| Exactly. | |
| All right. | |
| Same height or taller. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'4. | |
| I'd just prefer him to be taller, like 5'8 and above. | |
| Sure. | |
| What about you? | |
| I could see myself being with a guy that is same height or even the slightest bit shorter. | |
| How tall are you? | |
| I'm 5'4. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you date a guy who's 5'5? | |
| Yeah. | |
| How tall was your last boyfriend? | |
| Probably like 5'10. | |
| Okay, and then actually going back to you, how tall was your last boyfriend? | |
| 5'7 ⁇ . | |
| How tall is your current boyfriend? | |
| 3 centimeters more than me. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Height? | |
| Me? | |
| Yep. | |
| I'm not like a has to be six foot and up. | |
| I'm 5'3, so I usually do like 5'9 or 5'8 to 5'10, 5'11 tops. | |
| Okay. | |
| And your boyfriend of four and a half years was it? | |
| Yeah. | |
| How tall was he? | |
| 5'10. | |
| Okay. | |
| And all the guys seem to be 5'10 for some weird reason. | |
| It's like the average male height about, but what about you? | |
| Girls, I like my height or shorter. | |
| Guys, I like my height or taller. | |
| Wait, you're a lesbian? | |
| Or bi? | |
| Bi. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'7, and pretty much 5'6 and above would be fine. | |
| 5'6 and above? | |
| Your husband, ex-husband, how tall was he? | |
| 5'10, I think. | |
| Maybe 5'11. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'm 5'4. | |
| I prefer 5'8 and above. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I'm 5'7 ⁇ . | |
| I think that, I mean, height doesn't matter to me. | |
| I could see myself dating someone shorter than me. | |
| A midget? | |
| A midget. | |
| I mean, I understand, like, initial attraction. | |
| Maybe, like, if someone's a lot shorter than me, it wouldn't be there immediately. | |
| But I think if I got to know them. | |
| Five foot, it wouldn't matter to me. | |
| Honestly, yeah, I don't think. | |
| Stop it. | |
| I don't think so. | |
| If I really have to do that. | |
| What if it's a midget and when he picks you up for the date? | |
| You have to put him in the booster seat. | |
| No, she has to pick him up. | |
| They're an adult. | |
| They could do it themselves. | |
| Can't kill those. | |
| You don't have to put her into the car. | |
| Okay. | |
| We're going to go around the table on the next question. | |
| Would you rather cross paths with a man or a bear in the forest? | |
| I guess the bear, yeah. | |
| Oh, the bear. | |
| A man. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm really indifferent about this question, honestly. | |
| If you had to pick. | |
| If I absolutely had to pick, probably the man. | |
| Okay. | |
| Depends how hot the man is. | |
| Here comes a joke. | |
| Are you sure? | |
| No, that was it. | |
| That was it. | |
| That was no joke. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| No, I know. | |
| There was no punchline to that. | |
| Oh, it just depends on how hot the guy is. | |
| Yeah, but probably the guy. | |
| Okay, probably the guy, sure. | |
| For me, it's obvious. | |
| What if he's ugly? | |
| How about that? | |
| How ugly are you talking? | |
| Hey, how ugly am I talking? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Fucking Jonah Hill. | |
| How about them? | |
| No, the is he that funny, though? | |
| He is a funny guy. | |
| Yeah, he's just funny. | |
| So he's funny. | |
| I find Jonah Hill funny in the woods. | |
| Sure. | |
| I would love to. | |
| It's not Jonah Hill, but he looks like Jonah Hill. | |
| Well, is he as funny as Jonah Hill? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Yeah, you'd rather the bear? | |
| No. | |
| It depends on how funny the guy is, too. | |
| If he's funny, it makes up for fun. | |
| Yeah, then it's fine. | |
| Yeah, definitely the guy. | |
| All right, what if he's just very serious? | |
| Not funny. | |
| Are we talking about Ted Bungie serious? | |
| Or like. | |
| That guy's a fucking serial killer, lady. | |
| Probably still a dude. | |
| Probably still a dude, even though he's a serial. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, in that case, I'd be choosing a bear. | |
| That's a good one. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you? | |
| Oh, I said, for me, it's obvious the guy. | |
| Obviously, the guy. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Man. | |
| Man? | |
| Man. | |
| I think bear maybe. | |
| I think my dad's taught me. | |
| Shout out, dad. | |
| He's taught me a lot of what to do if you see a bear in the forest. | |
| I'm like, what would you do? | |
| He had this whole thing about making yourself look tall and like standing still. | |
| You think that would work if you saw a bear in the woods? | |
| I'm too short for that. | |
| If it's black, attack. | |
| If it's brown, get down. | |
| That you don't. | |
| And if it's white. | |
| I was going to say. | |
| I was about to say, if it's black. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| If it's black, sip up your perks. | |
| Brown. | |
| And I said brown as well. | |
| So I guess that's fair. | |
| And racism doesn't exist, so it wouldn't matter. | |
| Right. | |
| Racism is not. | |
| Wait, who picked Bear? | |
| Just her? | |
| I picked. | |
| Anybody. | |
| Did somebody. | |
| Oh, you picked Bear? | |
| Why'd you pick Bear? | |
| Well, she's so cool. | |
| Just if I'm going to die, I just prefer to die by a bear than a man who's going to rape me. | |
| And then you don't know if you were. | |
| But probably. | |
| I mean, who knows yet? | |
| But let's think about the bad case. | |
| Like, I prefer a bear. | |
| I mean, statistically speaking, like, it's not. | |
| It's. | |
| It's what? | |
| It wouldn't. | |
| That wouldn't be probable. | |
| But, I mean, on the off chance that it would happen. | |
| Like, obviously. | |
| Obviously, what? | |
| I would prefer the bear in that circumstance. | |
| Well, yeah, if it was a guarantee that you were going to be SA, maybe I should say that. | |
| I mean, if I knew that prior, then obviously I'm choosing to be a bit more. | |
| Yeah, but not every guy is going to essay you. | |
| What if the bear essays you? | |
| Since I don't know that statistics. | |
| Would you rather get essayed or eaten by the bear? | |
| I'd rather get ripped to shreds. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's interesting. | |
| Yep. | |
| My parents live by a mountain, and so my mom was walking alone late at night. | |
| She encountered a bear, and my dad's strategy worked for her. | |
| So she was eating. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| What was the strategy? | |
| I get up and beat the tall. | |
| I guess looking tall and walking. | |
| How do you like make loud noise? | |
| My mom is like 5'2, though. | |
| Okay, maybe it'll work for me. | |
| I had to climb a tree. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, wait. | |
| That was an interesting question, though, that you posed. | |
| It's like, would you rather die or be essayed? | |
| Not even die. | |
| You get eaten piece by piece. | |
| I mean, am I dead before I'm eaten piece by piece? | |
| No. | |
| Or am I alive while I'm eating? | |
| Am I cooked medium rare? | |
| Major arteries run all throughout your body, so you're not going to die fast, regardless if that's going to be the case, because the bear's not going to stop. | |
| Do you know what I find so interesting about that essay thing? | |
| Like, women think. | |
| Well, women say that SA is worse than death, right? | |
| But it's funny because there's only one thing in the middle, and that's consent. | |
| So, like, that's the only deciding factor. | |
| So, like, if a guy says, or if you say yes to a guy, then it's perfectly fine. | |
| But if a guy, if you say no, then all of a sudden this is worse than death and getting eaten alive by a bear. | |
| That's not exactly true. | |
| Consent's like a consensual thing where you're both engaging and like enjoying it, but assault, it could mean so much. | |
| Yeah, but let's assume that you'll say it. | |
| Let's assume in this hypothetical, like the guy wasn't being like, like what you would think of in a back alley, like, come here. | |
| Like, it wasn't that. | |
| It was just like, you just don't consent. | |
| You'd rather take the getting eaten piece by piece? | |
| Actually, in that case, if like I'm just getting to know him as well, I would much rather, like, that's even more like raising the bear? | |
| I would rather the bear. | |
| Because the only thing I don't want to put something in like say I'm not sure. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| The only thing that changes is consent. | |
| This word, I consent. | |
| And with surgery, the only thing between not having surgery and being in excruciating pain, getting your stomach cut open, is the anesthesia. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you get what I'm saying? | |
| Yeah, I would say that's a little bit different because I would say pain. | |
| So she's going to go through pain either way. | |
| I'm just saying, it's hard for me to imagine me getting eaten piece by piece slowly by a bear. | |
| No, I mean the thing is, would you, if, if, would you rather be essayed by a man or be eaten alive by a bear? | |
| Well, I'm as straight as can be, so I'm going to choose a bear. | |
| Wait, really? | |
| Exactly. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Exactly. | |
| why are we so dumbfounded by this like you can you can go to therapy or but at the same time like you can you can No, but I'd rather be, yes, I'd rather continue living. | |
| I'm a survivor. | |
| Like, who here, zombie apocalypse, zombie breakout? | |
| Are you going to attempt to survive? | |
| Or are you going to take the bullet right away at the output? | |
| I prefer the bullet, yeah. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Many people that's being abused never leave the same. | |
| So even if they go to therapy. | |
| Okay, zombie apocalypse, zombie outbreak, do you just end it at the beginning? | |
| Or you're like, no, I'm going to survive. | |
| I killed myself. | |
| What do you do? | |
| I'd fight for a little while and then kill myself. | |
| Oh, what the fuck? | |
| Just have a fight. | |
| Wait, just say that. | |
| Don't say that. | |
| Say like delete. | |
| What do you do? | |
| I feel like I'd be like one of the last ones standing, low-key. | |
| Okay, so you tried to survive. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I would survive and then find the cure. | |
| Okay, okay, with your crystals. | |
| I'll try to survive probably on a live surface. | |
| Somebody was supposed to bring it here. | |
| Okay, just leave it. | |
| Whatever. | |
| What would you do? | |
| Oh, I said try to survive, but I'd probably be deleted super quick. | |
| Okay, you would just die from the zombies. | |
| Yeah, there's no. | |
| Yeah, but you tried to survive. | |
| I'd try. | |
| I'd try to survive. | |
| I don't know if I'd last very long. | |
| That's fine. | |
| But I'd give it a shot. | |
| What about you? | |
| I'll try to survive. | |
| And humans' natural instinct is to survive now, right? | |
| Yep. | |
| Like, to run away from you? | |
| Definitely try to survive. | |
| Yeah, bro. | |
| Come on, dude. | |
| Well, I'm going to change your mind, though. | |
| If a guy slaps my wife's ass, I'm going to have to probably try to die too. | |
| Because a man has to die for what he believes to be right. | |
| So if you're giving me an option beforehand of like, hey, you have to take this thing in your booty hole, or you're just going to have to die for what is right and not give up your principles, I'm going to have to die. | |
| Right. | |
| Like, I would take a bullet for you right now, Brian. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can you just Uber me back home? | |
| What a bromance. | |
| No, I'm kidding. | |
| Well, that's nice of you that you take a bullet for me. | |
| But like, okay. | |
| Would you? | |
| Here, you have, here's the scenario then. | |
| Do you have kids? | |
| Or you have kids? | |
| You're married. | |
| So you, if it was, hmm, my kids lose me, lose my wife, they lose that support, but I gotta get essayed. | |
| How much more of a beta would I have to be to come home to my son and say, hey, I took like a cock in the ass? | |
| That's so hard. | |
| That's horrible. | |
| And also, you don't ever have to survive. | |
| You were trying to get a college. | |
| Yeah, that's horrible. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I get what you mean because you're like, I couldn't fight him off, but like, there's a gun to you. | |
| That's horrible. | |
| Consensual. | |
| Wait, but this is crazy. | |
| Would you rather consensually have sex with a man or get as essayed? | |
| Oh, if he wouldn't buy a bear, he wouldn't. | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| Oh, consensual. | |
| Would you rather consent? | |
| This is getting a lot of fun. | |
| I'm not going to do it that way. | |
| He's not going to consent to you. | |
| That's like me asking you: would you rather blow off your uncle or I mean kick off your uncle or your dad? | |
| That's like me asking you that. | |
| That's pretty bad. | |
| That's pretty gay. | |
| That's pretty bad. | |
| Okay, fair enough. | |
| It's a false dilemma. | |
| I can't. | |
| That's fair. | |
| That's fair. | |
| But I will die for a principle. | |
| I would rather get an SA'd than be, that's the end of your life because you can. | |
| That's a lot of trauma, right? | |
| But you can overcome that trauma. | |
| People deal with trauma all the time. | |
| People deal with, you know, parents die, traumatic things, and then they go on and many people recover and live a fulfilling life. | |
| But after trauma. | |
| But if my son knows my dad didn't sacrifice his values. | |
| That's horrible. | |
| I don't know. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Because my son is my son told me it's not values. | |
| Like, that's something that you could have avoided. | |
| Wait, what if your son got what if your son got SA'd? | |
| Why would you want to make him feel like that? | |
| Wait, how about this? | |
| Would you prefer your son get killed? | |
| That's horrible. | |
| Oh, that's a this is a dark thing. | |
| Yeah, I can't. | |
| Yeah, don't go over. | |
| I literally come back and this is what we're still on this. | |
| This is wild. | |
| Can you answer my question? | |
| Because that's horrible. | |
| But it's a bad thing. | |
| If your son told you that he got SA'd, you would really be like, oh, wow, you're a beta. | |
| You should have done that. | |
| Well, that's a whole different conversation, though. | |
| You're asking me, would I rather choose this thing? | |
| So beforehand or after it happened, how would I deal with it? | |
| I would deal with it much. | |
| Honestly, though, it's not a choice, though, if consent isn't part of the question. | |
| It's like it's not a choice. | |
| I know, I know. | |
| So if you guys want to. | |
| I wouldn't want to go home and tell my son that I lost and I would rather die over principal. | |
| That's what you said. | |
| What if your son? | |
| Yeah, I would go to war. | |
| Like I would go to war. | |
| Like if you had to go to war for this country, you would die for a principal. | |
| You wouldn't die for, or you wouldn't stay at home being lazy without consciousness. | |
| You're changing it. | |
| Because I said, you said you would, for the principal, you would rather die than get SA'd. | |
| So I said, if your son came to you and got SA'd, you would want him to feel like he's a beta or could be a daughter. | |
| Once again, you're like, this is really stupid. | |
| First of all, we're assuming it's a kid, so they don't have that. | |
| He's a grown man. | |
| You're still his dad. | |
| But you're asking me how would I deal with it, right? | |
| Like, how would I deal with him? | |
| Like, you said I would call him a beta and all these things. | |
| Obviously, I wouldn't. | |
| Like, that's how you would treat those reasons. | |
| Like, if it was my daughter or something, too, like, if I had a daughter, I wouldn't say like, like, put her down for it. | |
| You would help them go through the trauma. | |
| That's a whole different question, though. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you see how it's a different conversation, though? | |
| Like, no, I really don't. | |
| Because you want to raise your son to be just like you, don't you? | |
| No, we're going to be a lot better. | |
| Like a man. | |
| A lot better. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Exactly. | |
| But I'm just like, for example, I know this is a little bit different, but let's say someone offered a billion dollars and I was dead broke. | |
| All I had to do was take a cock once. | |
| I would say no, there's a principle there. | |
| Same thing. | |
| I would die for a principle. | |
| Like if someone slapped my wife's ass, even though I wouldn't want to get into the middle of it, that's why we have situational awareness when we go out and I don't put us in bad situations because I don't want to have to deal with this. | |
| If someone slapped her ass or assaulted her in some way, I'm going to have to get in there and risk my life. | |
| Sure. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So that's the problem of being a man is you have to be willing to die for certain principles. | |
| Women don't. | |
| You guys can, you know. | |
| Yeah. | |
| We can. | |
| Would you rather get with a trans woman or wait, fuck. | |
| What's that? | |
| What's the, oh, I had this one. | |
| No, shit. | |
| I'm trying to. | |
| I'm trying to remember. | |
| Fuck. | |
| It's a question for men. | |
| Like a woman that was a man or a man that was a woman. | |
| Like the reverse. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| It's, it's. | |
| I don't even know. | |
| Never mind. | |
| I'll come back to it. | |
| I'll come back to it. | |
| Let him marinate. | |
| Let it come. | |
| Yeah, thank you for that. | |
| Okay, we have Brian's Forgotten Burrito. | |
| Oh, this is Natalia. | |
| Hey, Natalia, thank you for the gifted 50 memberships. | |
| You're a legend. | |
| Really good to see you back in the chat. | |
| Thank you so much, Natalia. | |
| W guys, W's in the chat. | |
| For Natalia. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Excuse me. | |
| Let me see if we have any. | |
| What? | |
| Green screen? | |
| What? | |
| Her hair is green screen. | |
| The what? | |
| Oh, it's okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, what was the thing? | |
| What were you talking about? | |
| Would you rather. | |
| No, but it was a would you rather question? | |
| The bear thing, yeah. | |
| I think, bro, you gotta survive, man. | |
| I wouldn't. | |
| I would rather survive. | |
| I could get over that. | |
| It would suck, don't get me wrong. | |
| I wouldn't like it. | |
| I definitely wouldn't enjoy it. | |
| But I gotta survive. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Okay, good talk. | |
| Okay, let's see here. | |
| We were bear. | |
| Bear? | |
| Okay. | |
| So you don't like. | |
| What do you think of men? | |
| What type of question is that? | |
| No, I like a human race. | |
| I think we are the worst thing that ever happened to this world. | |
| But in general. | |
| it's like a statistics like uh they do more bad things than women but women are also very can be very bad but if you see the things in the story the man is the one who abused more who create the worst for bullshit or whatever so So I would say, yeah, I hate men. | |
| I don't know however you want to say, but no, I don't do, but you understand my point. | |
| Wait, so you do hate men? | |
| No, no, I mean, I have great family members that are men, but I believe that most of the men in this world are fucked up. | |
| What percentage of men? | |
| I don't know. | |
| How can I say that? | |
| 50%, 60%? | |
| Yeah, 70%. | |
| I don't know. | |
| 70% men are. | |
| Maybe. | |
| What percentage? | |
| You said women were also bad. | |
| What percentage of women are bad, then, I guess? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Like, comparing, I just think guys are more propensed to do more evil things. | |
| But also, women, like people in general, human beings, like we are like this. | |
| We are a disaster. | |
| We create wars. | |
| We bullshit. | |
| So you think men are the cause of war? | |
| No, also women sometimes. | |
| But guys, yeah, like they fight for whatever kind of stuff. | |
| And yeah, they create war. | |
| So they actually looked at monarchs, kings, and queens, and they actually found that queens were more likely to wage war than kings. | |
| War can be for good reasons, sometimes. | |
| Oh, only when women do it, though, right? | |
| No. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I'm not like that. | |
| I'm not like that. | |
| Okay. | |
| It could be for good reasons, but yeah. | |
| So, but you'd rather be in the force with a bear than okay, that's interesting. | |
| I'm just curious if we changed it a little bit. | |
| So would you rather come across a random man in the bathroom or a bear in the bathroom? | |
| I'm always going to choose the animals, yeah. | |
| The bear. | |
| You'd prefer the... | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about if it's a trans woman? | |
| A trans woman or a man? | |
| Yeah, no, a trans woman walks into a bathroom. | |
| Or a bear walks into the bathroom. | |
| So you're in the bathroom, trans woman walks in. | |
| Or a bear walks in. | |
| So it's a male. | |
| It's still a male. | |
| So the bear. | |
| You're still the bear. | |
| Same, yes. | |
| Whoa, that's so transphobic of you. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Wow, that's wild. | |
| Canceled. | |
| So you don't think we should let trans women go into the bathroom? | |
| I didn't say that. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| It's okay if that's. | |
| I mean, I agree with you if that's the case, but... | |
| No, no, no, no, no. | |
| I just, I prefer animals more than any human being, you know? | |
| What if you know the bear was gonna kill you? | |
| I prefer to be killed by a bear than any woman that there was a camera rolling. | |
| Wait, question? | |
| No, no, that's my opinion. | |
| I don't know why I have this written down. | |
| If you could turn all men into slow zombies, would you? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| In general, nah. | |
| I mean, I just want to say that. | |
| Like, you know, slow zombies. | |
| They're pretty easy to kill. | |
| Can you still, like, make a relationship with the zombies? | |
| No, you definitely don't. | |
| Well, there was one movie. | |
| I'm pretty sure like the zombie's like STD. | |
| Like, you can get the zombie thing. | |
| No. | |
| Like, you let a male zombie like inside you, it's over. | |
| It's kind of hot. | |
| Like, you're definitely hating. | |
| You just want a zombie. | |
| Disgusting, but okay. | |
| That's cool. | |
| Do you think men are needed? | |
| Needed. | |
| Do we need men? | |
| I mean, yeah, of course, for living. | |
| Yeah, we complement each other, yeah, like human beings. | |
| Woman and the baby's out of bone marrow now, though. | |
| That's fake news, but okay. | |
| Is it? | |
| I never looked into it, but like, I'm pretty sure there was someone that went through with like a pregnancy from it. | |
| Probably not. | |
| How'd the baby turn out if they did? | |
| That's another great question. | |
| Another great question. | |
| Oh, going around the table, do you need, do we need men? | |
| Yeah, they're providers. | |
| Yes, I think it provides like alchemy. | |
| Alchemy? | |
| Alchemy. | |
| Like balance. | |
| Balance. | |
| Alchemy. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not sure what that is, but okay. | |
| You don't know what out of me? | |
| Yes. | |
| I mean, the transmutation of base metal into gold, but. | |
| No, not that one. | |
| No, like alchemizing, like balancing. | |
| Like checks and balance. | |
| I'm just going to say yes. | |
| In this dimension, yeah. | |
| In this dimension? | |
| In this world. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Can you scoot your mic? | |
| Scoot that mic down too? | |
| Corner. | |
| Wait, that mic. | |
| Your mic just corner that mic. | |
| Scoot it into the corner? | |
| Yep. | |
| Then scoot that one down. | |
| Okay. | |
| Goodness name spot. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Next. | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes. | |
| Definitely yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Any disagreements? | |
| Nope, nope. | |
| Birth control use? | |
| Not really an interesting debate, but let's get into the questionnaire. | |
| Agatha, so the statement is: a man dating a transgender woman is not straight. | |
| You disagree. | |
| Again, sorry. | |
| A man dating a transgender woman is not straight. | |
| You disagree. | |
| All right. | |
| One second. | |
| Venezuela. | |
| Venezuela. | |
| Is it? | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| So, yeah, I mean, I think he's straight. | |
| That's my opinion because he's looking for something that looks like a woman, but depends. | |
| I mean, if he's dating with someone with a trans woman that has a dick, still has a dick. | |
| I mean, I still, I believe that he probably, of course, like guys or something related. | |
| But if he's dating with a trans woman that doesn't have a dick and it looks 100% like a woman, I think it's, yeah, it's straight. | |
| So. | |
| Okay. | |
| Wait, Frankie, it looked like you maybe crossed this one out. | |
| I'm like 50-50 on it. | |
| It depends. | |
| Like, are they transitioning or are they just saying that they're not? | |
| I'll just go ahead and grant that the transgender woman is like full-blown, transitioned, bottom surgery, fake titties, gender, facial restructuring or some bullshit like that. | |
| I feel like if that's the case, no, not really. | |
| I mean, I feel like they're still kind of straight because they're still, at the end of the day, fucking a pussy, not a penis, you know? | |
| Well, it's not pussy. | |
| I mean, they're putting their dick in something, though, right? | |
| So if I like surgically created a hole in my like in my armpit. | |
| Yeah, that's fair. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Is that a pussy? | |
| No, you're right. | |
| They go as far to make, like, labios and everything, so, like, I'm, like... | |
| I don't know how the surgery goes down there. | |
| There must be one. | |
| It doesn't even look like a hole. | |
| Your butthole is also a hole, too. | |
| I mean. | |
| Sothole is a hole. | |
| I'm not into that hole. | |
| Because she said it's a hole. | |
| I'm not afraid of that. | |
| I agree if there is sole. | |
| So if a guy's doing another dude in the butt, it's still a hole. | |
| Tries to fuck your ear or some shit. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Just ear fuck. | |
| Dude, I knew someone that had gauge actually and they used to fuck that hole. | |
| I've actually had a sex that was into the ear shit. | |
| That's it was really disturbing. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Did he like nothing? | |
| He used to ask his tongue for his ear and like I would like shove him off. | |
| You don't even have to buy q-tips anymore then. | |
| No. | |
| Well, I mean, like if a guy's like kissing your earlobe, I don't know. | |
| No, that's different. | |
| It wasn't kissing. | |
| Like it was like full-on tongue down. | |
| Maybe he did. | |
| Like earwax and everything. | |
| Maybe he thought that was a thing, but that's pretty. | |
| Yeah, that's pretty weird. | |
| Well, I have really small ears, so I don't know if that's a good idea. | |
| Frankengina. | |
| We have a chat here that I'll just pull up super quick. | |
| It's Frankenginas from Moonlight, Frankenginas. | |
| Love that. | |
| Like Frankenstein plus. | |
| Dude, we get it. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| I'd explain it for some of you. | |
| Thank you, Moonlight, for your soup chat. | |
| Wait, so okay, so you say you're like on the fence about it. | |
| You think it would be straight. | |
| Anybody going around the table? | |
| Do you think it's straight for a guy to date a trans woman? | |
| Also, kind of indifferent. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I feel like the intention, obviously, and it depends on when it's disclosed, everything as well. | |
| Yeah, I'm going to go ahead and grant the following. | |
| This is like the most convincing trans woman ever. | |
| They have the neo-vagina, and the trans woman discloses on the first date, BTW, I'm a trans woman. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| Like, if it's like first interaction, and like, obviously, when you're first interacting with a person, you don't know who they are at all yet. | |
| So, like. | |
| Yeah, the guy knows and then proceeds to have sex with the trans woman. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| I think his intent behind it is like under the first interaction, he thought it was a female, then yes, but I don't know. | |
| No, but he knows it's a trans woman, so he knows it's a male. | |
| But you're saying, like, fully passable as like a full-blown female, like entirely looks like a female, right? | |
| Right. | |
| Well, no, I don't think you can look like well, I suppose you could look like a female, but you're not a female. | |
| There are relationship dynamics like that that I have seen where it's like been disclosed and like a guy has been completely straight. | |
| Yeah, he's gay. | |
| But, well, that's your opinion. | |
| It's not my opinion. | |
| It's just factual. | |
| How much of that do you think it is that he's attracted to the woman he sees versus the idea that this is actually a man looking as a woman? | |
| I don't think that, I mean, if he considered himself straight prior, then I think it would just be based off of like the person looking like a person. | |
| But would you agree? | |
| You would agree that people have weird fetishes? | |
| I mean, yeah. | |
| Yeah, so what if he like got off to like the idea of a man dressed as a woman? | |
| I don't know. | |
| That would be like something that would have to be like disclosed like well ahead of time as well then in that case because it wouldn't be a first interaction type of conversation to have. | |
| Yeah, I'm not judging the like what he says, what he professes. | |
| I'm asking his intention in his heart. | |
| Even if he pretended he was like he said like Matt Dillahunty, that guy that Andrew Wilson debated, he's dating some weird thing and like his intention seems weird, but he says it's a woman. | |
| But he could have also like a weird fetish. | |
| I mean he could, but there's also the off chance that maybe he doesn't have a fetish at all and he saw that person for like their genuine personality to the person who's a person Find a woman. | |
| I mean, we're all kind of jumping to conclusions. | |
| I know, I mean, what do you mean we're jumping to a conclusion? | |
| Because, like, obviously, if you're first interacting with a person, you're saying hi, hello, whatever. | |
| Like, you've never spoken with them before, they're not just going to come straight out and be like, oh, I'm transgender. | |
| Yeah, I think they should disclose, but like, you're going to walk up to a person and be like, oh, I'm transgender. | |
| I mean, every single five minute in the first five minutes, yeah. | |
| You don't think that would get kind of like repetitive if it's dating. | |
| I mean, it is dating, yeah, but like, if it wasn't. | |
| I feel like you have the right to know. | |
| And maybe that's just how I go for my relationship. | |
| I don't initiate anything with relationships either. | |
| So, like, that's, I don't know. | |
| Well, I agree that like men can be tricked, men can be deceived. | |
| So, a male could dress up and look like a woman. | |
| And that, I wouldn't fault a man for being like, some of these trans women look like a woman. | |
| Right. | |
| They can do trickery with makeup. | |
| And having sex with them is a different story. | |
| But just because the guy falsely believed, it's kind of like, I don't know, this is going to sound fucking crazy, but whatever. | |
| It's like you see somebody with long hair and it's like the back of their head. | |
| And then as a dude, you're like, oh, that's a chick. | |
| And then they turn around. | |
| It's like, whoops. | |
| It's actually just a dude with long hair. | |
| So men can be tricked or not fully aware of all the details. | |
| But upon closer examination, either once you've made that determination that this is a male. | |
| But I think the intention behind it was that he would see that as being a woman, and that's what made the attraction. | |
| I feel like it comes down to when he finds out. | |
| But you could make a potato look like a woman. | |
| Like, have you, I don't know if you've seen that meme. | |
| And someone would probably literally a potato and they'd make her look like a woman. | |
| I think it comes down to when they find out that it was a man and where they go after that determines if you're gay. | |
| So if there's the scenario I'm granting here, this is the most beautiful trans woman who looks like a woman, who's had all the surgeries, who's had bottom surgery, whatever. | |
| Disclosed. | |
| But has disclosed up front, BTW, I'm biologically male, but I'm a trans woman. | |
| That would not be straight for a man, a male, to date a transgender woman in those circumstances. | |
| I feel like that wouldn't even come up unless you were really hitting it off, though. | |
| So you already had all this conversation. | |
| Let's just assume they don't. | |
| Okay. | |
| They meet on the dating app. | |
| They meet on the dating app. | |
| And then that should be disclosed from there. | |
| Third message. | |
| Maybe not on the profile. | |
| Let's just say third message is just like, hey, by the way, I'm trans. | |
| And then from that point, if the guy's like, hey, let's meet up for a date, and then they fuck on the date, yeah, that's not straight. | |
| Yeah, what he does after he finds out determines. | |
| Yeah, that's fair. | |
| I feel like if he saw it as possible, I mean, but he also has attracted. | |
| He's perceived all these photos of this person, maybe as like the most dropped egg girl. | |
| It's like, but if he decides to fuck her that he's gay. | |
| Yeah, he's gay. | |
| He would be gay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because he knows that it's a guy. | |
| So after even if it's the hottest fucking tranny you've ever seen in your life, but if after he finds out he'd probably be bisexual, but anyways. | |
| I mean, I don't know about that. | |
| He could be bisexual, leaning straight, you know? | |
| No, I just think he's gay. | |
| Yeah, well, I'll even grant that he could be bisexual, but the specific, the specific act of him. | |
| Yeah, deciding. | |
| Like he could sleep with a trans woman, but also like it would still be, I guess it would be pan or buy or whatever. | |
| But like that specific sexual act and their relationship would be gay. | |
| Like technically, yeah. | |
| 100%. | |
| Like he could, like, you can, there, I'm not dismissing that there are bisexual men that date women and men, but their specific relationship, that's definitely not straight. | |
| But you're saying he would be straight, right? | |
| I would agree, but I mean, like, I do think it depends on, like, the person's intentions and everything prior as well. | |
| So, well, would you classify that trans woman as a woman? | |
| Or would you always have in the back of your mind that's a male? | |
| I think a straight man would always have that in the back. | |
| Like, a actually straight man would always have that in the back of his head. | |
| Oh, this was a man. | |
| This was a man. | |
| Well, then he's not straight. | |
| If he's actually straight. | |
| Valid. | |
| But would you classify that as a woman or as a trans woman knowing that it's a male? | |
| I think, I don't know, for the purpose of like just being a good person, you can be whatever the hell you want to be. | |
| It's not going to change my life in any manner. | |
| So, like, call yourself whatever you want. | |
| I'm not asking you how do you make someone feel good. | |
| I'm asking the reality of it. | |
| I don't really have an opinion. | |
| Okay. | |
| Here, why don't we go around the table on this? | |
| What is a woman? | |
| A woman. | |
| How can I say? | |
| Biologically, we born with some characteristics that makes us woman. | |
| So that's like woman is we have these characteristics. | |
| Some different than guys. | |
| I don't know how to explain better, but I make myself understand. | |
| Okay, what is a woman? | |
| A human with reproductive organs, like vagina, ovaries, all of that. | |
| Okay. | |
| I would say kind of, yes, but no, because you can be born with different things that, I mean, you can be born intersex as well. | |
| So, like. | |
| Okay, but so what is a woman, though? | |
| Reproductive organs, things of that nature. | |
| I mean. | |
| Yeah, men have reproductive organs too, though. | |
| So which, what do you mean? | |
| I mean, like, a uterus. | |
| Like. | |
| Okay, all right. | |
| What is a woman? | |
| A human that's born with two X chromosomes. | |
| Okay. | |
| A human that can give birth. | |
| Human-female. | |
| A human that can give birth. | |
| Okay. | |
| Some can't, but biological adult female. | |
| Okay. | |
| Human-female. | |
| Biological female. | |
| Okay. | |
| Cool. | |
| What was my last question on this? | |
| Oh, can a male become a female? | |
| I mean, not. | |
| You're never going to be a female, but you can do whatever you want. | |
| So, I mean, you can look like a female, but you can dress up like a wild guy. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Yeah, technically with like surgeries and stuff, but biologically, no. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think you're probably talking about gender. | |
| Like, can a man become a woman? | |
| I'm not sure what the advancements that the medical field is making. | |
| There will be a day eventually. | |
| I don't want to feel like you guys think I'm tricking you into this. | |
| So I'm talking about, so when I'm using male and female, I'm talking about sex. | |
| So male-female pertains to sex. | |
| Man-woman pertains to gender. | |
| So just for the sake of the conversation, I'll just go ahead and grant this isn't actually my position. | |
| I'll just say that yes, men can become women, but can males become female? | |
| Not currently, no. | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| And their next life, but not this one. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| Here we have some super chats. | |
| We have Moonlight with 100. | |
| Thank you so much, Moonlight. | |
| Brian, listen on Grid One's podcast. | |
| I paid $100 to get you to rap Poundtown and you ran away. | |
| I don't remember the details. | |
| Please do it. | |
| I'm doing my Poundtown now. | |
| Moonlight, the best answer to what a woman is I've ever heard is ironically your mom. | |
| So Moonlight, thank you for the soup chats. | |
| Look, Moonlight, I don't think I agreed to allow you to select the song that I was going to rap. | |
| Please do Poundtown. | |
| I'm definitely, I'm not a rapper, so, but you know what? | |
| Just honestly, just so there's no drama. | |
| Oh, God, here we go. | |
| Just so there's no fucking drama. | |
| Let's do it. | |
| Let's go. | |
| I don't want to. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| He's a scammer. | |
| I'm not going to rap it. | |
| I'll just read. | |
| You know what? | |
| I'm going to read the lyrics. | |
| No, rap it. | |
| Shakespearean. | |
| Wait, I can't say the N-word. | |
| What do you fucking? | |
| No, I can't. | |
| I give you the pass. | |
| You're. | |
| You're what? | |
| I'm half-blacked. | |
| Wow. | |
| No, you're not. | |
| Kind of. | |
| You're definitely not. | |
| Kind of does not count. | |
| I identify as Black. | |
| Have you seen a talk a little bit? | |
| All right. | |
| I have the N-word pass, though, but from various people, so you can say it. | |
| Oh, you're just going to give him IOU. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm out of town thugging with my rounds. | |
| My coochie pink. | |
| Bro, what the fuck? | |
| What kind of degenerate fucking dog shit is this? | |
| I listened to fucking Leonard Skynerd. | |
| What is this? | |
| I'm not saying this shit. | |
| Hey, I got a veto on this shit here. | |
| I'll do WAP, though. | |
| Why not? | |
| WAP lyrics. | |
| Look at them op. | |
| I'll do WAP. | |
| Okay, here we go. | |
| You'll do WAP. | |
| You won't do that one. | |
| Like, how much worse is it than WAP? | |
| You fucking. | |
| Wait, I can't. | |
| Give me a song where there's not like T-O-S words. | |
| No Panties by Sexy Red. | |
| Okay, I'll Google it. | |
| No, I have to let Moonlight pick. | |
| Moonlight. | |
| You got to give me a song that doesn't have like TOS. | |
| Don't know another 100 and tell us a different song. | |
| Yeah, you got to tell me a different thing. | |
| Here we go. | |
| Southerner in Pulley Up area. | |
| I would love to take out the gal in the trash pans of shirt on the date. | |
| Oh, there you go. | |
| Yeah, but look. | |
| You can't, it's Puel up. | |
| You gotta say it right now. | |
| P-P-O off. | |
| I fucking. | |
| Puyall up. | |
| P-P-O-P. | |
| Pu-L-A. | |
| Would you do that? | |
| P-op-P-O-P-L. | |
| Would I do that? | |
| He donated 100, so he's probably dead. | |
| Probably. | |
| If he hits me up, I might be up to it. | |
| No, but see, I'm her matchmaker. | |
| I'm her dating coach. | |
| So you gotta get through me before you can get access to me. | |
| You gotta get her. | |
| He's centering through Brian. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Screenshot, Brian. | |
| I need to know. | |
| I need to know how tall are you? | |
| As long as he's above 5'6. | |
| What's your job? | |
| Would you be a good dad? | |
| Have you ever committed any violent felonies? | |
| Are you a Christian man? | |
| Will you wait nine months? | |
| Dude. | |
| No, too many. | |
| Do you like women who scrub boats for a living? | |
| Hell yeah. | |
| Dude, I'm strong. | |
| She's strong. | |
| Double by? | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| God damn, bro. | |
| Yeah, you're pretty strong. | |
| Damn it, bro. | |
| Shit. | |
| Death by snoozo. | |
| All right. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| And then also, will you date? | |
| I don't know. | |
| What are you looking for in a guy? | |
| A good, stable dude. | |
| That's emo face. | |
| Like my chemical room? | |
| Not my chemical room. | |
| It's taking back Sunday. | |
| You seem like a my chemical room. | |
| Taking back Sunday. | |
| Taking back. | |
| Did you have the emo swoop? | |
| I had really short hair and spiky in the back and long things. | |
| I had the emo swoop. | |
| Nice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nice. | |
| Total emo face. | |
| Yeah, you got to let us know some details because I can't just let my girl go on a date with you without knowing who you are. | |
| So we got to vet you, Wad Denu00. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Oh, we have Nuller sent in gifted five subs. | |
| Thank you, Nuller. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| And then, oh, no, this is not a new one. | |
| Moonlight. | |
| You got to pick something acceptable for me to rap, okay? | |
| I don't know. | |
| No Panties by Sexy Red. | |
| What the? | |
| Please do Yaglo. | |
| She's just, you got to pick something else. | |
| I can't do that song. | |
| There's the N-word and stuff. | |
| Okay, so moving on to the next thing. | |
| Agatha, you think that it is not possible to be racist towards white people. | |
| Can you explain that? | |
| Not yet. | |
| I think it's possible to be racist to white people. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I say yes, no. | |
| You circled it, but maybe it was just a little bit of a case. | |
| Some of the questions were kind of. | |
| They were a little confusing. | |
| I know it's difficult for some of you. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| It's okay. | |
| It's okay. | |
| I get it. | |
| I understand. | |
| Right. | |
| Right. | |
| It's all right. | |
| Here, let's do body count. | |
| Men are not. | |
| So do you think men are insecure for caring about a woman's body count? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yo, Ogle, thank you for the gifted 50 man. | |
| Guys, W's in the chat for Ogle. | |
| So do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count? | |
| I'm in the pants, but yeah, I guess because, like I say, people is very hypocrite. | |
| And many guys have done many things, but if a girl do the same and the girl is bad and they are okay, they can do it. | |
| They are a man, whatever. | |
| So they're always going to judge the woman for the body count and whatever, but they can do whatever they want. | |
| So yeah, I believe they are insecure with that. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't think it's necessarily an insecurity. | |
| I mean, it depends on how he reacts after. | |
| You did indicate here that you do think that it's men are insecure for caring about a woman's body count. | |
| I think it depends on how the reaction is after this. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| The girl's like, my body counts 15, and the guy's like, I don't want to date you anymore. | |
| Yeah, I mean, I feel like, yeah. | |
| Especially like if it hasn't been disclosed, like if you guys have been talking for a while, there's a lot of different things that would change my opinion on that. | |
| You had a question? | |
| Well, just what if it's just based on a difference in values? | |
| Like, and that's the reason. | |
| That's completely fine. | |
| I mean, everyone has different values. | |
| Everyone sees things differently. | |
| You know what's interesting about this? | |
| The way you value your body, right? | |
| So when we were talking about the bear thing earlier, you'd rather get Ian alive by a bear because he's not following a specific standard, which is consent. | |
| And then because you value your body, you know there's something intimate about inserting a penis into the vagina. | |
| But when it comes to taking 15, 100 people inside of you, and you think that a man's insecure, that's kind of incoherent in my view. | |
| A lot of people. | |
| But because you're saying that he would be insecure for rejecting you from that? | |
| Right? | |
| I mean, depending on the reaction. | |
| No, if he just says like what Brian said, which is, I don't want to date you. | |
| I don't think it's necessary. | |
| No, like, that's your thing. | |
| That's your, like, that's fine. | |
| It's not basic. | |
| It's not basic. | |
| It's different values. | |
| So, like, that's how you feel about it. | |
| Then, move on. | |
| Right. | |
| So, he's not insecure. | |
| He just has a standard. | |
| He has a standard. | |
| That's fine. | |
| No, I don't think he's insecure. | |
| I would just think he's probably just curious, but no, not insecure. | |
| Because you said on the form, you did say a man would be insecure. | |
| Did I circle it? | |
| You did circle it. | |
| Did it say not? | |
| Yeah, men are not insecure for caring about a woman's body count, and it's circle if you disagree. | |
| That's why you're the thing. | |
| It's like, not, not. | |
| Yeah, double negative. | |
| I'm changing it to just agree. | |
| Like if you were to give it a bad question. | |
| No, not. | |
| Yeah, no, I do. | |
| I don't. | |
| People just struggle with. | |
| Circle if you disagree, but then it's like not, not. | |
| Okay, here, I'll repeat the statement for the viewers. | |
| I don't think men are not insecure for caring about a woman's body count. | |
| Do you disagree? | |
| I understand, like, it's sort of a double negative, but I don't really think it's that difficult. | |
| Well, we were also dealing with all that craziness when I was filling that out. | |
| But fair enough. | |
| No, I don't think. | |
| I think it's just a guy just being curious. | |
| No, I don't think it's insecure. | |
| What about you? | |
| For the most part, probably not. | |
| Some cases, yeah. | |
| I'm sure. | |
| Some. | |
| But for most guys, I think it's all preference. | |
| Sure. | |
| No, I don't think that's insecure. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, definitely not. | |
| All right, going around the table, starting with Agatha. | |
| What is your body count? | |
| A lot, my friend. | |
| A lot. | |
| More than, I don't know, 80, 80 dudes, maybe? | |
| 80 or something like that. | |
| Yo, Kat, thank you for the gifted 50 memberships. | |
| Really appreciate it. | |
| Thank you, Kat. | |
| 80, you said? | |
| Yeah, probably something. | |
| And is that if you had to break it down between, because in your notes, you wrote, hold on, let me pull it up really quick. | |
| You said that you've met and fucked with a lot of people, but you usually have had some long-term relationships. | |
| So which of the 80 or so, how many from work and how many from regular lives? | |
| Yeah, no, majority from work, yeah. | |
| So how much in real life and then how much from work? | |
| In real life, maybe like 20 and the rest for work. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Okay. | |
| And those, wait, so you've been doing content since you were 22, right? | |
| 23 or something like that. | |
| 23. | |
| And you've been in a relationship since you were 23. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And you haven't been with anyone else like, well, I mean, you do your shooting, you do your, yeah, you mean in private. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No, no. | |
| So the 20 in real life, that was all before your current. | |
| Yeah, that was before, yeah. | |
| Yeah, that was from like, what, 17 to 22, 23? | |
| Yeah, well, since I'm not virgin 16 years old. | |
| 16. | |
| Okay. | |
| Got it. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Okay. | |
| Body count? | |
| Two. | |
| Two? | |
| Okay. | |
| Less than the hands on my fingers. | |
| I'm not going to disclose the exact number. | |
| Ten? | |
| Less. | |
| Nine. | |
| Okay, it's nine. | |
| All right, that's fine. | |
| Twelve. | |
| Twelve. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not going to answer because people are going to be mad if I even just say one, so I'm not going to miss. | |
| Nobody's going to be mad. | |
| No one's going to be mad. | |
| Well, in the future, so that's why. | |
| Who's going to be mad? | |
| They're going to be mad about other things that we're going to get into, but. | |
| Wait, so do you want to do range? | |
| Did you say, did she, did she say it? | |
| Like between ish A and B. | |
| I just don't want to answer because people. | |
| Yeah, I just don't answer. | |
| You got to answer the question. | |
| Come on. | |
| I can't. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is it a dozen? | |
| Ant or won't? | |
| Ooh. | |
| I won't because I can. | |
| Did she answer it on the last show? | |
| No, I didn't. | |
| That's kind of lame. | |
| I think it's a roughly. | |
| I can't. | |
| I just can't. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| With men and women around 20. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not going to answer that one. | |
| Range? | |
| Not doing a range. | |
| I think that that stuff's private. | |
| I don't think that the whole world needs to know that about me. | |
| That's something that's going to be a good idea. | |
| Look, if I'm going to be your matchmaker, I need to know all the nitty-gritty. | |
| We need the car facts. | |
| I need the car facts. | |
| You got to tell me. | |
| Nope, still not. | |
| Here, just do some. | |
| Because it's not just you. | |
| It goes out over everything, and that's private to me. | |
| Nobody's watching my podcast. | |
| Nobody watches it. | |
| Not at all. | |
| Yeah, it's just for fun. | |
| I'm still not going to answer. | |
| Yeah, it's not even. | |
| We're not even recording right now. | |
| I forgot to press record. | |
| Right. | |
| Nope. | |
| Still not going to answer. | |
| That's private. | |
| That's for between me and my partner. | |
| Do you want to do a range? | |
| Nope. | |
| Do you want to do an above or below? | |
| Nope. | |
| Is it above 100? | |
| Nope. | |
| That's all you're getting. | |
| It's not above 100. | |
| That's the only range I'm giving. | |
| Between 50 and 100 now. | |
| I'm not doing any other ranges. | |
| I think people are going to make some assumptions. | |
| Yeah, you might as well tell yourself. | |
| It's not above 50. | |
| You might as well say that. | |
| That's between me and my partner. | |
| That's private. | |
| That's something that I am going to disclose with them and what the rest of the world doesn't need to know. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Zero. | |
| Zero. | |
| Waiting until marriage. | |
| What about you? | |
| Hello. | |
| Were you a Playboy? | |
| Mine's pretty low. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| That's cool. | |
| What's yours? | |
| I'm a virgin. | |
| Of course. | |
| I'm a virgin. | |
| Yep. | |
| We're all virgins. | |
| I think some people believe it. | |
| Well, when the new year starts, it starts over. | |
| Yeah, my body counts. | |
| I'm a virgin. | |
| Yeah, virgin. | |
| What is it? | |
| Isn't that like, I've heard girls say this. | |
| Their body count resets every year or something. | |
| Well, that's true. | |
| What? | |
| There we go. | |
| I'm a virgin. | |
| It resets when you move states too. | |
| It resets when you move stage. | |
| It resets at the next rat party. | |
| It's only in the zip code you're in. | |
| It resets every new boyfriend you have, so it's back at zero, right? | |
| I think girls won't count certain bodies too. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like they, if the sex was bad, they won't count it. | |
| If it was just the same. | |
| No, you always still have to count it. | |
| If a dick goes in there, it doesn't count. | |
| If you're being honest with yourself. | |
| I've considered the bad experiences as well. | |
| If she didn't climax, it doesn't count. | |
| Like all kinds of loopholes. | |
| Oh, so none of the girls that you've had sex with. | |
| I mean, in that case, then I would definitely have to do that. | |
| That's good. | |
| Actually, you know what? | |
| I think my success rate in that, in that, I'm doing pretty good. | |
| Oh. | |
| I'm doing pretty well. | |
| Keep telling yourself that. | |
| Women lie. | |
| Look, I know it's difficult for me to get a lot of people live. | |
| I've been doing okay. | |
| This girl's busted her clit with all these fucking dildos she's using and shit. | |
| Oh, on you, right? | |
| Pecking you. | |
| Look, I know you're into some weird goot. | |
| I'm not. | |
| You are. | |
| I don't know what you're doing at the fucking strip club, bartending and shit, doing all kinds of crazy whatever. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| With their drink, I just pull out a dildo and I just fuck them with it. | |
| I could see you doing that. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| That's cool. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Anywho. | |
| How often do you fake your orgasms? | |
| Me? | |
| I actually don't. | |
| It literally takes me like a minute for some reason. | |
| And it has like since I started. | |
| It takes me literally like a minute. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| I'm like a dude. | |
| I'm like a dude with like low stamina. | |
| Like it takes me literally a minute. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| Can't really. | |
| I mean, it's congratulations for me. | |
| It's enjoyable. | |
| Even if it's like pizza, even if it's bad sex, it's still good. | |
| Just like pizza. | |
| Even when it's bad pizza, it's still good pizza. | |
| You're like the only woman who like comes easily or is like multi-orgas. | |
| I mean, as far as like the girls that I'm friends with, like some of them are like, yeah, like it takes me like so much. | |
| I'm like, it literally doesn't take me like really any, like, like go like that. | |
| And I'm like, all right, we're good. | |
| Wait, are we talking about like nobody touching? | |
| Wait, are you talking about squirting? | |
| Are we talking about like fully getting off or just like stealing it? | |
| Squirting or creaming? | |
| Cream team or squirt squad? | |
| No, I'm just wondering, wait, which. | |
| Do we have more water? | |
| Oh, Felicity. | |
| Cream team or squirt squad? | |
| Some water. | |
| Same! | |
| Can I get some too, please? | |
| That's why. | |
| Felicity's the new water boy. | |
| All right. | |
| I don't know what we were talking about, trans shit or something. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Body count. | |
| Oh, we did. | |
| Okay, we did body count. | |
| Let's see if there's – I don't know if I want to linger too long on the questionnaire. | |
| I'm going to get into the pre-show notes. | |
| You know what? | |
| I feel like we also should do. | |
| We should do a little roast. | |
| I don't think I got any questions. | |
| Do you want to do a roast intermission? | |
| I don't think I got any pre-show notes. | |
| I think we need to do a roast intermission for this group, chat. | |
| Fuck it, why not? | |
| We'll do it. | |
| We'll do a little roast intermission, but we'll do 69. | |
| I think the girls need a lollipop or something. | |
| They need to pick me up, you know? | |
| Yeah, for real. | |
| A lollipop. | |
| All right, here. | |
| We'll do a $69 TTS, streamlabs.com slash. | |
| All right, guys, for the next, like 15, 20 minutes, we're going to do a $69 TTS. | |
| If any of you want to get like a roast in or something here. | |
| And then, uh, can you Felicity, I'm going to have you get Felicity. | |
| Can you, but open it back there and like bring them like two at a time, uh, lollipops for the, or wait, not lollipops. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Popsicles. | |
| I would love a lollipop. | |
| Popsicles. | |
| Oh, that's fine. | |
| I'm looking at that. | |
| Was that the rainbow one you were eating before? | |
| I was like, I saw that, and I was like, I bought mine. | |
| No, you gotta have. | |
| No, you're not, you don't like popsicle? | |
| I fucking love popsicle. | |
| It's not for free if it's from her. | |
| Oh, yeah, sure. | |
| Okay, can you give me one? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| It's just a little warm. | |
| They're rainbow. | |
| Oh, paleo. | |
| Okay. | |
| I feel like I know where this is going. | |
| You want one? | |
| Do you want one? | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| $69 TTS if you want to do it. | |
| If you want, we're going to do a brief intermission here. | |
| The girls need a little sugar. | |
| Sweet. | |
| Sugar infusion. | |
| Yeah, come on, Chuggas. | |
| I just told you. | |
| So, do the girls have. | |
| I have some notes. | |
| I know I took one. | |
| Any girl here have any disagreements with myself or the show or anything like that? | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Can you open them? | |
| It's going to be way too noisy. | |
| Can you open them BTS because it's so noisy with the packaging? | |
| BTS. | |
| Behind the scenes. | |
| No, so one, two, three, four, five, six. | |
| Yeah, but open them back there and just hand them to them, the girls over here. | |
| All right, guys, TTS is now set to 69. | |
| If you guys want to get a roast in, you can roast me, tell me I need to lose weight, stop being a fat ass. | |
| Whatever you guys want. | |
| Whatever you guys want. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Let me make sure everything's all whoops. | |
| Because we're in intermission. | |
| Yeah, you guys. | |
| Okay, so. | |
| Any disagreements from any of the panelists? | |
| Hello? | |
| What you got? | |
| Not even a disagreement. | |
| Sometimes we all can get a little mean. | |
| Like, I know you say not to be mean for other people's views, but it can get that way, even from you guys sometimes. | |
| Or you, I mean. | |
| And usually the guy, the other guy. | |
| But that's it. | |
| Nothing else. | |
| You're cool. | |
| The truth hurts, doesn't it? | |
| No, it's just because it's not the truth sometimes. | |
| It's really just people being mean based off. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| Just with different views. | |
| You guys could get mean sometimes, even though you said not to do that. | |
| I think it is important to play Devil's Advocate, though, too. | |
| Just to like, I mean, it's important to have these types of conversations. | |
| I don't play Devil's Advocate. | |
| I actually hold back a lot, but. | |
| Hey, stop hitting on Cole back there. | |
| Leave him alone. | |
| Oh. | |
| I know he likes. | |
| I know. | |
| I know you think he. | |
| Well, hold on. | |
| You asked if she date the male version of herself. | |
| She's trying. | |
| Let's not get ahead of ourselves, okay, Jess. | |
| Okay. | |
| She's trying. | |
| It's good to shame women. | |
| Please respect Cole. | |
| I think shame for everybody. | |
| There's a healthy dose of shame that people do. | |
| Why is it good? | |
| Because if someone's doing something that isn't. | |
| Like, we go back to what we were saying earlier that men should be setting a better example for like. | |
| Yeah, you don't do that by affirming their delusions or their wrongdoing. | |
| I mean, no, but the delusions come from somewhere, no? | |
| And sometimes you don't. | |
| You're blaming the men for the delusions. | |
| I mean, there's a lot, dishonesty that you're talking about. | |
| I mean, no, just, I mean, I'm just curious. | |
| Are you poor and leave on the ground? | |
| So, like, if a girl wants to do OF, is that a man's fault? | |
| I mean. | |
| You can say a man enables it by buying it, but is it his fault? | |
| It's not his fault, but that's probably a majority of the reason why that's even a thing at all. | |
| What? | |
| Because men buy it? | |
| Oh, she's like saying demand. | |
| Yeah, that's why it's in a demand, is because of. | |
| No, I know that, but I'm saying we could still shame them. | |
| I mean, to deter them from acting on that thing. | |
| Sure, but if you're wanting to set an example for other men, how would you set that example? | |
| Change that, then why wouldn't you be different? | |
| So I'm saying, like, what would be the alternative of shaming? | |
| I mean, obviously, you don't want to praise them for what they're doing either, but having a mature conversation about these types of things, that's why I do think like these types of conversations. | |
| So being nice. | |
| Yeah, you can still come across and get your point across respectfully. | |
| You don't necessarily have to instill something in someone's head by being aggressive. | |
| So what I was criticizing at Agathon, how would you like to rephrase that? | |
| I mean, there's a little animosity in the situation, but also like it's personal beliefs and situations that people have been through as well. | |
| So that's why they perceive things the way they do. | |
| And having more of a backstory on someone is also important. | |
| Yeah, I think it was important. | |
| I think because she felt insulted in a way. | |
| And I think he didn't want to come across as that as a Christian man. | |
| He wants to let you know that the Lord loves you so much that that's not what he said. | |
| Yeah, that's not what he did. | |
| I know. | |
| Even if he wanted that to say. | |
| Yes, but he said that she fucked 100 guys or something. | |
| We're right away. | |
| I don't think you've done it. | |
| A whole football team. | |
| 100 guys. | |
| Sorry, the whole neighborhood. | |
| Football team is a little too much. | |
| You're not perfect, right? | |
| We all have our flaws. | |
| Yeah, I'm not perfect. | |
| So I'm ashamed of all some things I've done, right? | |
| And the shame is good because it leads to conviction. | |
| And I want all of you guys here to know that the Lord sees you and he loves you. | |
| Sees you worth dying for. | |
| He thought of you when he died on that cross. | |
| So we value that you have value. | |
| And we don't want the Lord values the temple that he's made, right? | |
| That we are all seen as valued. | |
| And so I guess that he wants to preach to young girls like this is not how the Lord has intended for your body to be. | |
| It's not something I recommend or anything like that. | |
| No, yeah. | |
| Of course, I'm ashamed of many things, but he was rude. | |
| And that's it. | |
| He was rude. | |
| That wasn't rude. | |
| That was direct. | |
| It was direct. | |
| He was rude. | |
| And he made up a lie. | |
| You are the report who owned it. | |
| You made up a lie. | |
| You got upset with her for making up a lie about, oh, what you do at home, but you did the same thing to her. | |
| It was only slight, but you still did it. | |
| I think, I mean, I've insulted some people in the way that I've come across. | |
| Here's a problem, though. | |
| Women nowadays, especially not just women, but institutions that are run by women specifically, they have no problem stigmatizing men and having hashtag like kill all men. | |
| Men are evil, men are grapists, men are abusers. | |
| They have no problem doing that. | |
| And they hold men to this impossible standard. | |
| But all of a sudden, when I criticize you for something that you admitted, and I say in a very direct and blunt way, then you have a problem with it. | |
| No, you don't. | |
| You made up a lie. | |
| The only thing it comes down to is you just don't like my tone. | |
| You don't like how I said it. | |
| But you also have to. | |
| I just lie just like she did. | |
| You only said one, but you still made up a lot of people. | |
| Which lie? | |
| But I will say fucked a hundred guys and a whole football. | |
| Is that hyperbolic? | |
| I mean, it's just a lie. | |
| I mean, she just went to you and you got upset about it. | |
| Do you think that when I said 100, I actually counted and I like it. | |
| That's not saying a million years. | |
| Yeah, but it's hyperbolic. | |
| You're making it pretty broken. | |
| She said her body count was 80. | |
| If you multiply that by two, which is the most real answer, probably, it's over 100. | |
| So I was being generous, if anything. | |
| Why would you multiply it? | |
| Because women lie. | |
| Come on. | |
| Generalizations. | |
| Like, things that you said, like, obviously. | |
| You know, like when we ask, what's a woman? | |
| And then you start saying, well, what about hermaphrodites? | |
| Well, we're not talking, we're talking about general. | |
| I know, I know, I'm not saying you did. | |
| I'm just saying we speak in general. | |
| I know we speak in generality. | |
| That's how we speak. | |
| That's a reality. | |
| Well, we have five fingers. | |
| We don't speak about people with six fingers. | |
| We speak in general. | |
| You keep saying shame women. | |
| And then you're like, oh, women. | |
| Are men constantly shamed? | |
| Yeah, are women constantly shamed? | |
| No, women are not completely. | |
| That's a problem. | |
| Men simp for women. | |
| Men simp for women, yes. | |
| Women are hyped up and they're gassed up in their comments. | |
| Everything else, they're going to think that they're... | |
| Yeah. | |
| Their ego is inflated constantly. | |
| 24-7. | |
| A man, it's the exact opposite. | |
| Exactly. | |
| And you guys aren't as emotionally in tune because you guys are told to keep that all boxed in, whatever the case is. | |
| I think if men were to tap into the mindset. | |
| I don't want my male friends to be like slay queen. | |
| Right. | |
| Like well. | |
| I don't care. | |
| I think if more men were to tap into their emotional side, a lot of issues solved. | |
| I feel like you wouldn't be attracted to that. | |
| Like I told you earlier, the less masculine a man the more depressed and unhappy he is. | |
| Raise their hands if you agree with her about that. | |
| Like if men were more emotional and not like in an unbalanced way, in a more balanced way. | |
| Right. | |
| I'm not a guy, so I couldn't tell you what their brain chemistry is. | |
| So let me ask you then. | |
| If you find a man, right, and you like everything about him, he's masculine Monday through Friday and then on Saturday, he says, I want to put on an apron and high heels. | |
| Would you like that? | |
| That's not the same. | |
| I didn't say it was the same. | |
| I'm just asking you a question. | |
| But that's not the same thing. | |
| I'm not saying it's the same thing. | |
| I'm asking you a question. | |
| That's not even you're saying tap into a feminine side. | |
| Why not be feminine on the weekend? | |
| If that's what emotionally makes him feel good and confident. | |
| Yeah, you would like that? | |
| Fuck it. | |
| Okay, great. | |
| Do it. | |
| By nature, men are decision makers. | |
| So if they were to tap into that emotional side, can you agree that maybe their decisions would be based off of feelings instead of logic? | |
| In a way, yes, but no. | |
| I feel like it's important for guys to understand when and where to be vulnerable and not to box shit in because it just leads to bigger problems down the road. | |
| No, I don't think so. | |
| You guys got to understand, like, this is a hard concept to understand sometimes, but everything comes with a cost. | |
| Again, discernment. | |
| I know, but everything comes with a cost. | |
| So like, would men like to be relaxed and like take it easy? | |
| Yes, but at what expense? | |
| Like, there's going to be a con on the other end. | |
| No, but we have to acknowledge that. | |
| But I'm not telling you to stay in that energy either. | |
| I'm saying you can, you have to have the discernment to know when you can tap into that and like when you can be that vulnerable and open with another person. | |
| A girl holding the door open for you is in a girl that's also going to put on a strap on and like tell you to suck. | |
| Like that's just like when we think of masculinity, we have to define that as well. | |
| Because I think when you think of masculine, you're thinking of like raw, raw, like never talk, never like answer, like don't talk about your problems. | |
| Like that's not what I'm referring to when I say masculine. | |
| Like not taking things on the street. | |
| Not necessarily, no. | |
| So like because would you say with masculinity, there is a balance. | |
| Like there's like you said, like the emotional side, but even that I would question. | |
| You want to say like that's masculinity from your view? | |
| The last part? | |
| Or like where they have like an emotional side? | |
| I think you can definitely unleash your emotions. | |
| But like unleashed, do you mean like crying in front of their girlfriend? | |
| I mean, I've had guys crying before. | |
| Where are they now? | |
| My ex. | |
| Yeah, not here, right? | |
| Well, yeah. | |
| But also, like, I still stayed with them, and I feel like we did bond a little bit closer to the power of the family. | |
| Yeah, of course we did that as well. | |
| But I'm just saying they're not here. | |
| I don't feel comfortable enough to express that with me. | |
| But I mean, it takes a lot of time to do that. | |
| So I appreciated him being vulnerable as well. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, you say that, but I guarantee you, if a man came to you and he was super masculine and he led you, you would love that feeling. | |
| And even though you say you don't want a relationship right now, you would change your mind right then and there. | |
| And you would love that safety and security that he makes you feel. | |
| No. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You say that right now. | |
| I'm not ready for a relationship. | |
| I know. | |
| You say that right now. | |
| It's because you're finding feminine relationships. | |
| No, I'm not ready. | |
| Oh, thank you. | |
| Do you want it? | |
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| You should be a singer, American Idol. | |
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| Oh, I gotta let some of these come through, guys. | |
| I apologize. | |
| I was away from the panel there for a bit. | |
| Okay. | |
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| Usually like when you wake up. | |
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| I listen to it before the podcast. | |
| It gets you feeling manly. | |
| I feel like you put it on right as you're having sex, too. | |
| Also, then you do it when you're getting drunk. | |
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| Mark Coriola donated $69.69. | |
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| Brian puts the W in whatever. | |
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| I don't know if he if Mark intended that as a compliment, but it is. | |
| Dogewow donated $70. | |
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| If you heard in the news that the man ran away from the woman because of what she might say, then died, what would your opinion of that man be? | |
| If you heard in the news that the man ran away from the woman because of what she might say, then died, what would your opinion be? | |
| Is that a joke? | |
| No, it's like men attacking you like you'd rather die, but then they're saying, oh, if a woman said something, would you rather die? | |
| Like, it's just no, I think he's saying if a man randomly encountered a woman in the woods, he would rather leave her to die by herself than risk helping her than risk helping her because she might accuse him of doing something. | |
| Oh, he would rather not, he would rather let her die than risk being accused when she comes and says, oh, but he essayed me even if he didn't. | |
| That makes a good point. | |
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| I think there's a lot of interpretation going on right now. | |
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| Clay donated $69. | |
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| Thank you, Y though. | |
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| It's actually rubbing off on me after doing 200 plus of this 200 plus episode. | |
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| Six feet zero inches. | |
| Assistant superintendent for low-income multi-family apartment construction. | |
| No violent felonies ever committed. | |
| I own 20 acres in Arkansas. | |
| We'll be moving back in several years to build homes. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Six feet. | |
| I like how he had to say no violence. | |
| Super internal. | |
| Do you have racial preferences? | |
| Like, you only date black guys or anything like that? | |
| Not really. | |
| So you'll date white guys. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Asians. | |
| Native Americans. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Indians. | |
| It's like as long as I'm attracted to them. | |
| As long as you're attracted. | |
| A little bit. | |
| It has to be like a little bit of attraction because then the personality takes it the rest of the way. | |
| Okay, so no racial preferences. | |
| Not really. | |
| Like everyone but natives. | |
| Wouldn't being attractive to someone be considered the witch thing, though. | |
| But what? | |
| She would date a nativity. | |
| Oh, I thought you said something else. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| She would date a Native American. | |
| I think she said that. | |
| Like, what about peen size? | |
| Oh, there's no preference there. | |
| I don't really care. | |
| What if he has a micro? | |
| Like, is it okay or not? | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay, that's cool. | |
| I don't really care. | |
| I'm of the opinion that when you love somebody and you want to be with them, you can make sex with them. | |
| I agree. | |
| That's true. | |
| So I don't really care that much about that. | |
| You would know. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You're so clever with your little. | |
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| All right, we have Dayvon Jackson. | |
| Thank you, Dayvon. | |
| Devon Jackson donated $69. | |
| What she's really saying is if men emoted more like women, then the world would be a better place. | |
| Which is backshit insane. | |
| Say, no. | |
| What did you say? | |
| I didn't say that the world would be a better place. | |
| And if they emoted like women, because women are definitely more emotional beings. | |
| If it was like a balance to us, no, absolutely not. | |
| But I feel like you have to have the discernment to know when and where. | |
| There's a time and place for everything, obviously. | |
| So I think being vulnerable with another person definitely makes a relationship more intimate. | |
| You know, it's an interesting, I want to get your input on this, on this argument. | |
| A compelling argument I've heard from, well, not just women, but anybody on this, is that this idea that women are more emotional than men. | |
| And but here's like the counter argument is like, well, if you look at men who are in prison, for example, for violent crimes, typically when you're like committing a violent crime, that tends to be like a really emotional violence tends to typically not be steeped in reason or rationality. | |
| You're typically emotional when you're in a, like you're angry, you're in a violent state. | |
| Although I think like probably a lot of people who are in jail or prisons are drugs, there's even with some violent crimes, it's like premeditated. | |
| But you could even argue that premeditated violent crimes are, there's like you're using emotional decision making to be like, okay, I want to get revenge despite like the negative repercussions of, well, you know, whatever it is. | |
| What do you think about that? | |
| The fact that there are more men in prison for violent crimes. | |
| So this would indicate that actually men are maybe more emotional than women. | |
| Yeah, that's the only thing that stops women from having higher stats of abuse and domestic violence than men is their inability to actually act on that. | |
| Like they don't have the force. | |
| They don't have the adequate force. | |
| So if they had the adequate force, they would be much more dangerous. | |
| And also, since women are young, since like the day they're born, they are humbled. | |
| They are humbled in life, knowing that as a female, if I hit a boy and he's the same age, he's going to beat the shit out of me. | |
| So they're always humbled since the beginning. | |
| I feel like that also comes from a place, though, like you, like with the imprisonment, whatever, like that would be from maybe bottling stuff in way too long to where it's just like gotten to a boiling point and you overreact about something. | |
| It could be like things that I've seen is like it's people who are in prison for the dumbest shit, honestly. | |
| Yeah, and just to be clear to the viewers, I'm not actually making the I'm not, that's not my position, but that's an argument I've heard been made. | |
| I know the proportion of men who are in prison for violent crime is incredibly low. | |
| So I don't think it would point to like a sort of general thing that you could attribute to all men, that they're just like more prone to violence. | |
| Most men are not violent in any capacity, but it is like an interesting argument that I've heard. | |
| So that is a good point. | |
| Like if we just leveled the physical strength of women, would we see higher incidence of physical violence? | |
| Yeah, well, this is why women want to be the same. | |
| Like, there's a reason why the propaganda that's pushed is to make you equal to a man because you want to feel like you have the same level of dominance as a man. | |
| You want to have that same assertiveness. | |
| You want to be louder like a man. | |
| You want to be able to dominate. | |
| You want to have 50-50 in the relationship. | |
| So now imagine if you actually had the brute force to be able to act on that. | |
| You guys would be control freaks. | |
| You know, like those women cops that aren't used to being in positions of power, and then all of a sudden they have power. | |
| You don't think guys are too, though? | |
| Yeah, but with our nature, like the way we're designed, our telos, men have a specific leadership tendency in them. | |
| So men, here's the thing: there's two groups of men: there's evil men that lack masculinity, and then there's good men that say protect the rest of us from these bad men. | |
| So we need good men that are guided by a moral compass to prevent us from living in this chaotic world. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, I'm not disagreeing with that. | |
| Word. | |
| Okay, so wait, real quick. | |
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| These 304s need to take accountability for their own actions. | |
| They friends own the good guys and fuck chats and Tyrons. | |
| The wall is undefeated. | |
| Get used to your cats. | |
| All y'all wishes gold this cell. | |
| Damn, that's crazy. | |
| It sounds like a guy who got friends on. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It sounds like, I don't know. | |
| You sound like you need to get your emotions out and like wrestling or something. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Wow. | |
| Well, who should they get their emotions out to? | |
| A female? | |
| Or a therapist? | |
| No, probably a therapist. | |
| Like audio. | |
| A therapist. | |
| Even if I have a podcast. | |
| A female. | |
| How about just their other dude friends? | |
| Or other, like, yeah. | |
| Other dude friends? | |
| Other dude friends. | |
| Anyone. | |
| No, but don't bring it. | |
| You can't just say anyone. | |
| You can't just say anyone. | |
| Because when you keep saying they need to get help, but help by who? | |
| Don't bring it into a relationship. | |
| I know, but I'm asking you. | |
| A therapist? | |
| Sure. | |
| Because you believe in therapy. | |
| Yeah, and they're all women. | |
| Do you think women give good advice to men? | |
| They don't believe in therapy. | |
| They're not all women. | |
| They're not allowed to women. | |
| I don't think therapy is general assistance. | |
| Okay, good. | |
| But you've got to understand women can't give advice to men. | |
| Especially, they can't give advice to men on how to be men. | |
| So then why are you giving us advice on how to be women? | |
| But also why are you giving us advice on how to be woman then? | |
| I'm not giving you any advice. | |
| I haven't given any advice. | |
| I've given perspectives and I've given like my lessons. | |
| I don't tell you to apply it. | |
| You don't think that we should give you advice, then you shouldn't be able to give us advice. | |
| Yeah, there's a difference. | |
| Men are the leaders. | |
| Men dominate. | |
| Men run this. | |
| I mean, women can be leaders too. | |
| If someone's thinking that it just makes us feel a certain way, then why wouldn't we voice that opinion? | |
| It's just open conversation. | |
| Do you think men have the ability to like not saying it's perfect, but do you think men have a better ability to tell a woman how she ought to be a woman? | |
| Or do you think a woman can tell a man how to be a man? | |
| Both. | |
| I feel like it's yeah, it's a balance there. | |
| No, kind of. | |
| Like over a huge percentage now are in single mom households, meaning they're being raised by a single mom, and those all have the highest depression stats, highest suicide stats. | |
| Because of being aware of that. | |
| As far as men being emotional, I think the problem lies within the home, first off and foremost. | |
| Like I think that a lot of fathers in these relationships need to have more conversations with their sons and let them actually express that to someone. | |
| Yeah, but what ruined it was what the thing that we talked about at the beginning, which is like the no-fault divorce. | |
| So it's easy for you guys to just get out of a relation marriage now. | |
| And so this is causing all the problems. | |
| The women are the ones that are initiating the divorce. | |
| It's not the men. | |
| So now the women think I'm going to be independent. | |
| Why are they? | |
| Hold on. | |
| I'll answer right now. | |
| But the women are thinking, I'm going to be independent. | |
| I'm going to give my family a better life only to raise the worst kids that we're seeing right now. | |
| That's not always the case. | |
| Yeah, you can look at the momentum. | |
| It's not always the case. | |
| Statistically, it is true, though. | |
| Look, you guys keep reducing it to always or never. | |
| I know it's never like 100%. | |
| I know it's not. | |
| Generally, we look at the stats, like 70 to 80% of a lot of these horrible crimes that are committed by kids that were being raised by a single mom. | |
| So you can say not always, obviously, but the majority of the time. | |
| Most divorces are also caused by cheating by the male. | |
| No, they're not. | |
| No, they're usually just the woman leaving because she's unhappy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, no, no, no. | |
| Not even. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's like half. | |
| It's like half now. | |
| Not just unhalf. | |
| No, but you just caught it. | |
| What has caused it to get to that point to where the woman feels that there's no. | |
| Yes, I'm going to break this down for you guys super easy, okay? | |
| So I believe that God gave us a gift, which is the ability to make kids for $0. | |
| Like, imagine the most valuable thing in this life. | |
| Yeah, you know, I mean obviously I have to pay to like keep it But I'm saying all you have to do right now is walk outside and let a hobo nut inside you, and then you have a kid nine months later. | |
| Like, to me, that's crazy. | |
| But the thing is, it's so easy. | |
| It's so easily accessible now, which is why women don't value the fetus in their womb. | |
| And they have abortions left and right. | |
| Because the easier you make something to be accessible, the less they value it. | |
| Same thing with marriage. | |
| The easier you make it to break that commitment that was supposed to be a covenant between man and woman and God, it's so easy to break it now. | |
| So you don't value it. | |
| Same reason why the body count. | |
| We don't have a reason why you should have a low body count, which is why you guys don't value your own body. | |
| Anything pink hair? | |
| Pink hair, anything? | |
| Anything? | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| I zoned out. | |
| Okay. | |
| You see pink? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is that pink? | |
| Is there any ink? | |
| It's like lavender, fuchsia. | |
| Maybe magenta. | |
| Lavender. | |
| And most divorces are initiated by the woman, and it's usually not for anything major. | |
| It's just because she's kind of unhappy. | |
| Yeah, then they want to make the woman. | |
| But what does the man not provide? | |
| You know, in that circumstance that would make her feel a lot of times, what I've seen a lot of women do is they want a man who will do everything they want him to do. | |
| They want him to basically simp for them. | |
| They're like, you got to do this. | |
| They just want, they're like, this is what's going to make me happy. | |
| You have to do it. | |
| The man does all of it because he's like, I'm trying to make my woman happy and they naturally want to make their woman happy. | |
| Having expectations is the biggest fault in any relationship. | |
| Then what ends up happening a lot of times though is when the guy does everything for the woman, he becomes emasculated and the woman is not attracted to him because he's not showing leadership. | |
| And then they get unhappy with the relationship and they leave because they're not attracted to him anymore. | |
| When it's partly, it's like a huge chunk their fault that he has been that way because they beat the man down if he tries to step up. | |
| And you know what's so funny about that? | |
| This reflects in reality? | |
| If with my son, he's young and I don't know how they're born with this. | |
| But when we give him more things, he wants more and more. | |
| And that thing that we give him, he's never satisfied with. | |
| So we have this innate desire to always want more. | |
| And the easier we give something to someone, the less they value it. | |
| So that's why I'm saying the marriage thing. | |
| The easier you remove the no-fault divorce, you give a woman the ability to break up or leave their family, their entire family, for independence and career and money, they're going to take it. | |
| And people also make divorce such an easy option nowadays. | |
| I think a lot of people go into a marriage almost preparing for it to fail. | |
| And that's why people are getting prenups and stuff. | |
| And so I think that if you go into a marriage with the value that this is a lifelong commitment to this person and it's also a choice to love this person every day and just accepting that not every day you're going to be happy. | |
| Happiness is an emotion, but like the one eternal joy that's found like in a relationship built on honoring God like as a union. | |
| But even religiously speaking, biblically, Abraham had multiple wives, multiple children from each of these wives. | |
| Well, there's a lot of things you could find in the Bible that you probably wouldn't want to do yourself. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I know. | |
| What's your point? | |
| I'm just saying, like, I don't. | |
| The Bible has descriptors and prescriptors. | |
| You're probably conflating the descriptions that were in there, things that we're doing versus the things that we ought to do. | |
| I mean, he was still viewed in a high manner, though. | |
| Like a high-value man. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| But I mean, the only since she's Jesus? | |
| No, she's not. | |
| No, Abraham. | |
| I thought she was talking about Father Abraham. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I mean, the only s person with no sin is Jesus, you know what I mean? | |
| And so it's like, just because people, I mean, the Bible is filled with stories of humans. | |
| Like, and again, like, we all sin, like, that's we're imperfect. | |
| We come. | |
| Yeah, I mean, the only reason I get like a little bit, like, when I go into biblically speaking or whatever, I know you guys are Christian, but like, I don't believe in everything in the Bible either. | |
| Christianity wasn't the first founded religion, so I don't necessarily is it the most impactful? | |
| I would say that. | |
| Not in a positive way, but kind of. | |
| And what year is it? | |
| Not in a positive way. | |
| Now? | |
| 2025? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Why do you say not? | |
| Year of the Lord? | |
| I'd say it's like half positive, half not. | |
| I didn't say you were. | |
| What is it? | |
| It's AD. | |
| Anno Domini, year of the Lord. | |
| Of the Lord. | |
| Which is who? | |
| Which is Christ. | |
| So you can dismiss all these other religions. | |
| They don't matter. | |
| This is the one true religion. | |
| That's. | |
| I mean, I'm not Christian. | |
| Not necessarily. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Hinduism was the first religion. | |
| Prothilla. | |
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| Digus. | |
| That's good. | |
| You dig us. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| So the TTS, it's not back up to 200. | |
| I just, I'll, for the rest of the show, we'll just do 99 plus. | |
| We'll do $100 TTS essentially. | |
| So if you want, for the rest of the show, $99 TTS. | |
| Here, let's get into a couple of the topics for tonight. | |
| Actually, I want to pull up your video, but I'll wait until our good friend Agatha has returned. | |
| Where'd she go? | |
| There she is. | |
| She's doing some Venezuelan cocaine or something. | |
| Share. | |
| All right. | |
| So our good. | |
| What the? | |
| oh well you got you gotta like kind of lean in a little bit because you get well now you're now you're blocking my home girl frankie Yes, it is. | |
| Pause, All right, so E here, easy. | |
| He does these like street things, and he's a Christian man, so he's okay. | |
| I guess we're gonna get into. | |
| He is pro-life. | |
| Any who's here? | |
| Who's pro-choice? | |
| Just at the table? | |
| Pro-choice, pro-choice, pro-I'm pro-life. | |
| Pro-life. | |
| Pro-life. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Undecided. | |
| All right. | |
| Like, just different for me. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, circumstantial. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Are you pro-choice, pro-life? | |
| Everybody can do what they want with their bodies. | |
| Wait, what's your name with the pink hair again? | |
| Bailey. | |
| Bailey, are you pro-choice? | |
| Undecided. | |
| No. | |
| In certain circumstances, like really rare. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's pull up the video tab and we'll watch this video. | |
| He hide the. | |
| Hide that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Make us. | |
| Wait, wait, pause, pause. | |
| Put this on the left side. | |
| Just put us left small is fine. | |
| You're going to have to hide. | |
| Okay, good. | |
| Have you looked at statistics? | |
| Most abortions are cleanups after miscarriages, and women can't even get those. | |
| I know. | |
| It's less than 1.7%. | |
| Miscarriages are extremely common. | |
| And most women ought to have. | |
| Miscarriages and abortion are different. | |
| What is abortion? | |
| No. | |
| A miscarriage is a medical abortion. | |
| No, no, it's not. | |
| Okay, let me educate you, okay? | |
| Yes, it is. | |
| Oh, yes. | |
| Okay, get back on. | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| Okay, so you're kidding. | |
| Hey, what the fuck? | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| All right, that's it. | |
| That kid was with us. | |
| That was her good. | |
| What a bad example. | |
| When I put her down, well, I put her down as gently as possible, so I grabbed her hand and I grabbed the back of her neck so she wouldn't have hit her head. | |
| So I protected her a lot, but I also said, I can't do that. | |
| I also said, can you get away? | |
| Because I don't want to be a little bit more. | |
| Unless they're six years old and I'll stream. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| Physical interaction in front of a child, I don't think, is ever okay. | |
| Like, who's at being physically aggressive? | |
| Who do you think was a problem? | |
| Oh, no, definitely. | |
| She was definitely at fault. | |
| She was not definitely at fault for initiating it to begin with. | |
| But I think. | |
| Let's hear the butt. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think continuing with the aggression in front of a child is a lot. | |
| So he just needs to stand there and let her slap me. | |
| Beat him up. | |
| Walk away. | |
| Run away. | |
| She had her hands. | |
| She was clawing at him. | |
| I mean, yeah. | |
| So he, what did you do? | |
| You grabbed her wrist? | |
| I grabbed her arm, pushed it against her body, and then I grabbed her neck to bring her back. | |
| I think I do agree with that, but like, you could have taken her hands on the bottom. | |
| I was the nicest guy, the nicest way you could ever treat someone like that. | |
| And no, I understand in the heat of the situation. | |
| But no, the reason I did that, you guys have to understand, I'm very good with situational awareness, and I've been in a lot of tough situations. | |
| So I'm reading a lot of little things that people don't read. | |
| I played in slow motion. | |
| So what happened with her was when she did it, hit the milkshake, I wasn't gonna let it go. | |
| I was smiling, but her force kept increasing. | |
| So if her force is increasing, I need to de-escalate that. | |
| I think that's fair. | |
| But yeah. | |
| I mean, someone at UIC just, I just uploaded like two, like a week ago. | |
| I'm not sure it was a complete de-escalation that gone even the way that you were thinking it should have gone. | |
| I mean, you know, but he didn't initiate anything. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, my goal is to get out of that situation as fast as possible, though, because when I'm filming on those kinds of videos, I'm like, I'm protected, you know? | |
| So I have to be very careful. | |
| And there were three guys before that were heckling at me that they were around. | |
| So in my head, I'm thinking while I'm putting her down, they could also be coming from behind me and attacking me because they already had something against me because of my sign. | |
| So I'm reading these little situations pretty fast. | |
| That's why I have to get out of there. | |
| That's why we left as soon as possible. | |
| I didn't even file charges on her. | |
| Good. | |
| Good. | |
| Which, someone on whatever, if you want to find her, go do it, please. | |
| Yeah, that was crazy. | |
| Not in front of her child, please. | |
| And what, did you get a taste of the milkshake, though? | |
| I mean, yeah, it was nasty. | |
| It was like melted. | |
| Well, I like that. | |
| What was it? | |
| What was that? | |
| Salt and straw. | |
| I love salt and straw. | |
| If you guys want to sponsor me after that, please. | |
| They're very liberal. | |
| It was a salt and straw, except that flavor she got, it was the same as her neck. | |
| It was horrible. | |
| Her neck? | |
| You tasted her neck. | |
| Oh, I see. | |
| She said, like, the easier neck. | |
| She had like, I don't even know what she said. | |
| She smelled. | |
| She smelled poorly. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Where was this? | |
| Portland. | |
| Portland. | |
| Of course. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| So I do things, tree debates. | |
| I do things that other people wouldn't do. | |
| I did a PSU one where I put transitioning kids' guru and I put the whole table set up in Portland. | |
| And we had like 20 hecklers at once. | |
| It was super dangerous. | |
| But Portland is scary to do. | |
| It kind of reminds me of Caitlin Bennett. | |
| She goes. | |
| Oh, yeah, Caitlin. | |
| We're going to do stuff together this summer. | |
| Caitlin Bennett. | |
| She's super cool. | |
| You don't like her? | |
| No. | |
| She's super cool. | |
| Nope. | |
| She's super nice from a personal level. | |
| People judge her based off what they see on social media, but she's super nice. | |
| Don't agree. | |
| Okay. | |
| But delivery shouldn't matter a ton if you're telling the truth. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Delivery and tone definitely play a big part into getting your point across. | |
| It doesn't matter that much. | |
| Getting your point across, you don't have to do it in disgusting. | |
| If you're just stating facts and you're not even talking about getting a point across, it's just literally these are the facts. | |
| Yeah, but she asks it in a certain way to get the reaction that she wants. | |
| I don't really care about talking about that other girl. | |
| You know what's interesting, though, about your reaction to him is like your perception of it. | |
| You're like, and look, I think in any situation, people can handle all sorts of things in different ways. | |
| But I think looking at it just reasonably, I think he was actually quite reserved, but what's generous? | |
| I mean, yeah, I'm not saying it was completely wrong. | |
| I just think in front of the child, like, I don't think any child should have to wait. | |
| I don't think any child should have to be around and witness violent things like that, especially she started it. | |
| I think that's CPS. | |
| Yeah, but when this happened, it was in Portland during the Biden administration. | |
| Like they're going to find a reason to put me as the guy that's going to be. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, it's on video too. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, I mean, but I think CPS is like a different story than like, oh, I'm not going to press charges. | |
| I don't care. | |
| But then now you're putting your child in danger. | |
| And I feel like that's the problem. | |
| But also, I just think that some women shouldn't be mothers as well. | |
| So I do think it was wrong of her to even initiate that in front of her child in the first place. | |
| The thing we have, though, is we don't have like a mom issue or a dad issue. | |
| We have a moral issue. | |
| So when, like, for example, when I say women shouldn't get abortions or we're going to restrict all abortions, what they say is, well, what about the women that are going to kill themselves with the hanger, or I'm sorry, unalive themselves in the back alley with a hanger? | |
| That's not an abortion issue. | |
| That's a moral issue. | |
| The fact that you're even considering that is a moral issue. | |
| Yes and no. | |
| What's the no? | |
| I mean, like, if she just doesn't want to have children and she knows that after hold on, before we get into the abortion conversation, I just want to make one quick point that I was about to when it came to the video and the attack. | |
| But what I was going to say is that you were like, wow, he could have handled that like a little better. | |
| Like maybe he shouldn't have like grabbed your arm. | |
| I mean, like, I didn't hear him yell anything like stop or like, you know, like, don't do that. | |
| But it's interesting that that's your perception. | |
| Whereas like my perception is, is that I actually think he handled that like really well. | |
| And he could have, that was a self-defense situation. | |
| Like even, so there was the initial like cup throw and then she took a swipe at you or something. | |
| I finally took her down when she swung at my filmer, who's a female. | |
| So she's doing something. | |
| So she like smacked you almost in the face with the drain. | |
| Oh, she tried to call her. | |
| Like you can see in slow motion, she like has her hand like right on my cheek. | |
| No, but so there was there was the drink throw or toss at your face. | |
| And then there was like another hit and then she tried to go for the film or whatever. | |
| Honestly, just off of the drink alone, that's a slap. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think you mean that's a fucking slap. | |
| And the fact that he, like, if you get a fucking liquid in your face, I don't care if you're a man or a woman, you get a fucking smack in the face back. | |
| I don't care. | |
| So he had a lot of, oh, fuck, what's the word? | |
| Restriction? | |
| Restraint. | |
| Restraint. | |
| That was a lot of restraint. | |
| Like, if I have a liquid in my face, I don't know if it's hot coffee. | |
| I don't know what it is. | |
| If I get a random liquid in my face from somebody, you're getting a fucking smack in the face. | |
| But not even emotionally. | |
| I feel like you could have a physical reaction out of like fear, like self-defense. | |
| And I feel like you didn't even do that. | |
| Your first reaction was to just get out of the situation. | |
| It was a very measurable. | |
| Well, that's why when I've gone through a lot of tough, scary situations in my life that make my brain process really fast. | |
| So I have to think of solutions really fast. | |
| And it's a fight or flight situation. | |
| Like, I'm not saying either party was like completely wrong or right about it. | |
| So like that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I would say she was pretty wrong about it. | |
| But I do find it comical when women say equal rights, equal rights, but when she's trying to beat the shit out of me. | |
| She's equal fights. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then I'm the one that's a bad guy for defending myself. | |
| No, if that had been a man, he would have punched him in the face. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So if women want equality, then all right, if you act like that, get ready to be punched in the face. | |
| I just don't think violence does it. | |
| I don't think violence does. | |
| Well, can we flip the roles real quick? | |
| If I would have done that to her, like let's say I was pro-choice, same exact size and everything, and I just slapped her across the face. | |
| What would happen to me? | |
| From a perception of the media and the world, and then punishment. | |
| Yeah, horrible, right? | |
| So why did she get away with it? | |
| I mean, you would have been on the news. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The world saw. | |
| She would have shot me. | |
| That would have been the news. | |
| Oh, so she was like, she had a pro-choice sign, and you came up to her. | |
| No, she had a pro-life sign. | |
| I was a pro-choicer. | |
| And I slapped her because I was so emotional. | |
| I think you'd be on the AC side. | |
| I think she'd be bigger if she was the pro-choice, if she was pro-choice. | |
| Okay, and you were just a conservative guy. | |
| But same size. | |
| She's like 110 pounds, and I'm like double her weight. | |
| Yeah, either way, if he did what she did, he would be in way more. | |
| Right, right. | |
| It would be, I think, I'd be on the news. | |
| Yeah, 100%. | |
| Oh, for sure. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| They would be trying to put you away for years, probably. | |
| If it were roles were reversed, this would be the biggest thing on the media. | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| I would probably like increase abortions by like a million times at least. | |
| What the hell? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| But wait, so I'm trying to think what I was. | |
| Wait. | |
| What was it about? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay, here. | |
| We have, did we have a chat come through? | |
| I forgot. | |
| Oh, let me do the, I'm going to do some of the show notes here, everybody. | |
| So, okay, we did Agatha. | |
| That girl walked out at the beginning of the show. | |
| We have Parissa. | |
| Is it Parissa or Paris? | |
| Parissa. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said you're very pro-opportunities for women. | |
| However, you don't believe they should be shamed for wanting to be mothers and taking on their role in the show. | |
| Or wait, what did you mean by that? | |
| Oh, I think it's just that I think the word feminism has changed so much over time. | |
| And so I think that what it means to be a feminist now, I'm absolutely against. | |
| But I just meant that I do think women have equal opportunity right now. | |
| And I disagree with that. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said you're very much pro-life and Christian. | |
| You're very pro-motherhood, but you believe in equal opportunity for women to achieve their career goals. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So what do you mean by that? | |
| I think that if a woman decides that she wants to be a stay-at-home mom, or like, you know, that should be respected. | |
| But also if she has a certain like aspiration, like career-wise, that also doesn't need to be something that she's shamed for. | |
| Like, I just think it's definitely up to the women. | |
| And I think you can also do both. | |
| But that was my main position on that. | |
| What do you think is most optimal for society though? | |
| I think that definitely a mother should take care of her children. | |
| Like, for example, like I think a mom, like taking time off work to be in the home and raise her kids is definitely optimal for society instead of having like a nanny or something taking care of the kids. | |
| So I definitely think prioritizing motherhood is optimal for society. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's see. | |
| You also said that. | |
| Do you think women should vote? | |
| Wait, what? | |
| You think women should vote. | |
| Why? | |
| Because I think that our opinions and like our minds are equally valuable. | |
| I think everyone should. | |
| We have to avoid the topic just because YouTube's kind of. | |
| Oh, really? | |
| Yeah, they're kind of glad heard about that one. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Question for all the girls here at the panel, but this relates to Parisa. | |
| Where is she? | |
| She keeps leaving. | |
| Who? | |
| Oh, I think that's what I'm saying. | |
| No, this is. | |
| Well, there's Agatha. | |
| Okay, I was like, Bailey. | |
| Okay, I keep forgetting everyone. | |
| Sorry. | |
| Was it a rage? | |
| Wait, Bailey? | |
| Oh, because she's in the bathroom? | |
| And then is Agatha? | |
| Where's Agatha? | |
| I think Agatha left. | |
| Wait, really? | |
| Oh, she left. | |
| She's so funny. | |
| I was warming up with her. | |
| Wait, oh, really? | |
| Dude, she might have been into it. | |
| Yeah, we're going to scoot down. | |
| I'm like, so warm in here. | |
| It's so hard. | |
| Yeah, can you keep the door cracked? | |
| Just crack it a bit. | |
| So I'm going to have everybody scoot down that way. | |
| Did she say anything? | |
| Actually, wait, here's what I'm going to do. | |
| I'm going to have Bailey take that seat. | |
| So can I have you guys, why don't you guys just all scoot down that way? | |
| And we're going to have Felicity take that seat. | |
| Okay. | |
| So wait, it's super simple. | |
| You four scoot down one chair. | |
| Well, this girl, she went to the bathroom. | |
| Yeah, that's what she said. | |
| And she's going to take that seat. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Male brain logic here. | |
| Oh, I'm sorry. | |
| Right, right. | |
| Keep up. | |
| Whoa. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'll try. | |
| I know it's difficult. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| We had our first rage quit. | |
| I didn't. | |
| Rage quit. | |
| She could have. | |
| Wow. | |
| She didn't even say goodbye. | |
| She Irish goodbye to us. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| She Venezuelan goodbye to us. | |
| It was, yeah, it was a Venezuelan goodbye. | |
| Rage quit. | |
| I don't know if it was a rage quit, it was just like a, it was a seething. | |
| A seething rage quit. | |
| Wait, where is she going? | |
| Oh, okay, I see. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| We have our first rage quit of the night. | |
| Isn't that fantastic? | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Let me know. | |
| You're on her name. | |
| And then. | |
| Wait. | |
| Wait, is it? | |
| Wait, no, let's do this. | |
| Wait. | |
| Here, I'm going to. | |
| Wait, Felicity, you take this seat, and then I meant to. | |
| Okay, it's fine. | |
| That's the way you said it. | |
| I thought. | |
| Yeah, use your nail brain. | |
| Yeah, it's hard. | |
| I'm so confused. | |
| All right, rage quit has been added to the title of the video, I guess. | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you for that, Agatha. | |
| That was Gridge, who's really just contributing there, leaned back all the way in her turn. | |
| Main character. | |
| Oh, whoops, it's below. | |
| Kate, if you'd like to reach out. | |
| Oh, my God, you fucking. | |
| I got a silver. | |
| You're a fucking idiot, bro. | |
| Bro. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| What? | |
| He put his little kits on. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I'm dead. | |
| Silent set. | |
| Silent. | |
| Thank you for the $100 soup chat. | |
| When a man speaks, he's supposed to watch his tone. | |
| When women speak, you're supposed to listen. | |
| It doesn't matter how rude and crazy she period. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| Period? | |
| I don't get the shit. | |
| She sounds. | |
| I don't get that. | |
| I think that she sounds silent. | |
| She was a little hypocritical. | |
| I just still don't get it either way, though. | |
| Like, I'm. | |
| Okay. | |
| She was telling him not to be rude, but then she's a little bit more. | |
| Is it weird for you to scoot this way? | |
| No. | |
| A little bit. | |
| More like seats. | |
| I'm just trying to get you in frame here. | |
| That's it. | |
| Push yourself in frame on center if you can. | |
| All right, there you go. | |
| That's good enough. | |
| All right, cool. | |
| So let's see where the notes. | |
| So the question was, if your boyfriend, if you were dating a guy and your boyfriend said, don't wear that, would you? | |
| Like, would you not wear it? | |
| Where are we going? | |
| You're just going out by yourself, and he's like, don't wear that. | |
| I guess. | |
| I guess I'd probably reconsider. | |
| I might change. | |
| I'd probably change. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Probably change, okay? | |
| I would, I would. | |
| Most likely. | |
| All right. | |
| Here, what if the outfit here? | |
| I'm going to send something. | |
| One sec, guys. | |
| Let me get this set. | |
| Where is it? | |
| I have an outfit in mind. | |
| I'm going to show you a specific outfit. | |
| Okay. | |
| You guys can tell me. | |
| Here, just let's go around the table, though, while I'm trying to find it. | |
| So would you. | |
| Yeah, it would depend on the outfit and if he's being reasonable about it or not. | |
| Okay, sure. | |
| I would agree with that. | |
| Like, if I'm dressed like a fucking slot and I have a boyfriend, then obviously it's weird. | |
| Obviously, if I'm going to a funeral and something like and he's like, you should change. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know. | |
| I'm dead. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| No, I wouldn't change. | |
| You wouldn't change? | |
| Okay. | |
| I send something private chat. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| I guess it depends on the circumstance, but no, I wouldn't just like change. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| Yep, I would change. | |
| I would change. | |
| I don't think I would ever wear something in the first place to. | |
| Oh. | |
| Wait, before you pull that out. | |
| I'm a pretty modest person when it comes to dressing. | |
| Wait, you're what? | |
| Modest when it comes to like clothing. | |
| This is not that bad. | |
| Oh, my shoulders. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Don't you have an OnlyFans? | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| But being out publicly. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| I dress modestly. | |
| Publicly, I dress modestly. | |
| I'm going to have to look at your Instagram and see if that's actually true. | |
| Well, yeah, there's probably going to be like a bikini picture or two, but like a bikini picture or 90% of the time. | |
| All right, we're pulling up our good friend Peru here. | |
| The back of the beach is behind there. | |
| So like obviously I had a reason. | |
| Pull that one up first. | |
| All right, so here's the photo item question. | |
| All right, pull that up. | |
| All right. | |
| Hide the Streamlabs thing just while we have this. | |
| Go down. | |
| Let's see. | |
| Where is it? | |
| What about okay? | |
| It's really not even that bad. | |
| Scroll down a bit more Wait, scroll up. | |
| It was the Halloween one, I think. | |
| Scroll up. | |
| Scroll up. | |
| Up, up, up. | |
| That one, click it. | |
| All right. | |
| What's wrong with that? | |
| Next. | |
| I understand. | |
| The arrow. | |
| Next. | |
| So question, like, if you, if you had a boyfriend, he was like, I don't feel comfortable with you wearing that. | |
| Would you fight him on it or would you? | |
| I definitely wouldn't. | |
| And you know what's interesting is like I've even considered like taking that post down because I mean like it was a Halloween costume. | |
| It definitely doesn't like I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all. | |
| But yeah, I would definitely take it down if someone wasn't comfortable with that. | |
| Look, I don't even think it's that. | |
| It's not that bad. | |
| I mean, I definitely, I didn't wear that with the intention of like our custom almost looks like. | |
| Let's look at the next one. | |
| I mean. | |
| Wonder what? | |
| The other one that I sent in the private chat. | |
| Mute the audio. | |
| We don't need audio on it. | |
| Make it bigger. | |
| Bigger. | |
| That's good. | |
| Scroll down just a tad. | |
| So do you think like that this is do you think that this outfit is too much? | |
| He's a baddie. | |
| She could get to it. | |
| Yeah, sure. | |
| She's got a nice launching. | |
| That's just like too much to walk out in public. | |
| I mean, it depends on what clubs you're going to. | |
| Like, do you think if a boyfriend, like she's in a year-long relationship with the dude and the boyfriend's like, don't wear that? | |
| I mean, yeah. | |
| Do you think that's valid? | |
| No, that's bad. | |
| I thought it was like a little like crop top or like a no, that's just absurd. | |
| Like that's what girls wear at my job. | |
| Like that's absurd. | |
| Do we even wear in public? | |
| Even if she didn't have a boyfriend, that's just right. | |
| I would bizarre. | |
| Personally. | |
| This is bizarre. | |
| Wow. | |
| More power to the women that do. | |
| And then, wait, I was going to look at Morgan's. | |
| She's modest. | |
| Oh, my. | |
| Okay. | |
| I told you, I'm being honest. | |
| I have a couple of bikini pictures. | |
| That's it. | |
| Yeah, here, I'm going to send the more. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| We'll pull it. | |
| All right, chat. | |
| So chat, here. | |
| Is she modest? | |
| Is Morgan over there modest? | |
| She dressed down for the podcast. | |
| She's like, you know, I'm going to wear my modest. | |
| This is regular attire for me. | |
| This is the vagina just right there. | |
| Looking right down Main Street. | |
| Staring us in the face. | |
| Okay, listen. | |
| Scroll down, keep going. | |
| Is it modest? | |
| And then from here, you're in like a bikini picture or two. | |
| Whatever. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Did you think he was not a bikini on the way? | |
| I think he's going to obviously pull it off. | |
| I'm not the way I regularly dress when I'm just like out doing things. | |
| Like, obviously, if I'm in a bikini, like I'm probably around a beach or something that makes it make sense. | |
| Romantic. | |
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| Wait, hold on. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| That's right. | |
| You see that clutchness? | |
| I am fucking clutch. | |
| I am a fucking legend. | |
| Yes. | |
| About time I got a fucking lucky break in this fucking game. | |
| Motherfuckers, and I clutched the goddamn name on this thing. | |
| That's fucking right. | |
| Woohoo! | |
| Groups me, boys. | |
| Boom! | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Yo, guys, guys, thank you so much for getting us to 100,000 followers. | |
| Imagine if they started all unfollowing. | |
| Oh, man. | |
| I can't believe I just said that. | |
| Oh, fuck. | |
| I don't know why I would. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Don't put that into the universe. | |
| That's, oh, fuck. | |
| Now. | |
| Wait, hey, don't do it. | |
| Don't do it. | |
| We're not looking back at Twitch. | |
| So if you think you guys are going to get like a little moment where it's like, oh. | |
| Oh, whoa, what the? | |
| False alarm. | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| Michael Jones donated $500. | |
| So yo, Michael Jones. | |
| Congrats. | |
| Yo, dude. | |
| Yo, Michael Jones, thank you for the big 500. | |
| Dude, that's a. | |
| Yo, guys, can we get some W's in the chat for MJ for Michael Jones? | |
| What a legend, dude. | |
| Thank you so much, man. | |
| Yeah, we've been grinding on Twitch for a while. | |
| So I really appreciate it. | |
| Thank you, guys, everybody who followed over there on Twitch. | |
| We hit that big milestone, 100,000. | |
| So Michael Jones, thank you so much, man. | |
| You're a fucking legend. | |
| W's in the chat for Michael Jones. | |
| California underscore DMV donated $200. | |
| Bro, Brixon, the doctor's informed us you've been cruising around with an unregistered dump truck. | |
| We need you to bring that absolute unit in for inspection. | |
| Make sure there's no cracks or leaks. | |
| I got you too, boy. | |
| That's crazy, man. | |
| I gotta lose some weight. | |
| You're right. | |
| I gotta get in shape. | |
| I'm gonna be ripped in in two years. | |
| In two years, I'm gonna be. | |
| Why not one? | |
| It's a work in progress. | |
| I got a lot. | |
| I got a lot of time. | |
| Rome wasn't built in a day. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you, Roman. | |
| That was my comment. | |
| Thank you. | |
| No, that was not a mute. | |
| He could have specified a mute, but I think he was just doing a large donation. | |
| So, thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| And I can't be muted. | |
| I'm the host. | |
| So, thank you, man. | |
| We have Dark Omen. | |
| Dark Omen42 donated $100. | |
| Oh, I heard the cheers. | |
| Congrats, bro. | |
| Giving him a podcast. | |
| Congrats. | |
| Congrats. | |
| That's cute. | |
| It's congrats. | |
| Oh, like with a list. | |
| Oh, congrats. | |
| Thank you, Dark Omen. | |
| Oh, you got the lisp that you wanted out of it. | |
| You're a legend. | |
| Dark, dark omen. | |
| We love him. | |
| He's the darkest omen there is. | |
| I don't think there's a darker one than him. | |
| Not a darker soul. | |
| Okay, let's see. | |
| Oh, Kate. | |
| Kate, who's Kate? | |
| Right here. | |
| I knew that. | |
| Bro. | |
| I knew that. | |
| I'll just be a dick. | |
| No, you are. | |
| Look, I knew her name was Kate. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said you've had too many bad dating stories. | |
| You're crappy at relationships. | |
| Yeah, I'm not great at them. | |
| Why? | |
| Why are you crappy? | |
| Yo, Marcus, thank you for the gifted 20 memberships on YouTube. | |
| Thank you, guys. | |
| W's in chat for Marcus. | |
| Why are you crappy at relationships? | |
| I'm just, I get, I get trust issues, and, you know, it fucks stuff up. | |
| So I'm working on trying to get better at it and trying to be like, hey, you got to get your shit together if you ever want to get with somebody because guys don't want somebody that's just causing them drama all the time. | |
| Okay. | |
| Sure. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I feel, aren't men like more attracted to someone with when they get stressed out? | |
| Isn't that like a thing? | |
| Yeah, it's like that's why it's like a good stress type of it's uh their hormones. | |
| Yeah, something with the hormones. | |
| I saw when you cry, they get it's like just the right amount of stress, but like they feel like they need to take part in helping relieve that, I guess, which gives them something to do. | |
| Stop looking at yourself in the uh sorry in the monitor. | |
| I know. | |
| I was looking at all of that. | |
| I know you're a perfect 10 or whatever. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| I was looking at all of us. | |
| She wants to make sure she's in it. | |
| And that too. | |
| Trying to back you up, dude. | |
| Okay. | |
| And you said that you think men should lead and women should allow them to do it. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Men should lead and women, in order for men to lead, the women need to allow them to lead. | |
| True. | |
| It's true. | |
| So. | |
| Would there, I'm trying to think of a scenario on this. | |
| I can't think of anything. | |
| Actually, I want to bring it back really quickly to Parisa and also you. | |
| Bella. | |
| Bella. | |
| Bro, this dude does not know any of our names. | |
| I definitely know everybody's names here. | |
| What's mine? | |
| Gertrude. | |
| Mine. | |
| Do I look like a Gertrude? | |
| You definitely. | |
| You kind of do. | |
| That's so offensive, actually. | |
| What's mine? | |
| Why is that offensive, Gertrude? | |
| You've never met a hot Gertrude? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| I meet them all the time. | |
| You should get outside a little bit. | |
| We don't need to know what you do when you're by yourself at your house. | |
| You know, like the Venezuelan girl said. | |
| The fuck? | |
| Okay. | |
| That one was good. | |
| Yo, chat, do you think Jess over there is funny? | |
| Do you think she's funny, chat? | |
| Shut up. | |
| You know that you laugh at my jokes. | |
| You try not to, but I know you do. | |
| She's had a couple good ones. | |
| I see you smirk when I say shit, and you're like, you try to laugh. | |
| It's more like a smirk of disapproval. | |
| It's not like an approval smirk. | |
| It's a disapproval smirk. | |
| You got to learn the difference. | |
| I mean, there's got to be someone making jokes around here to lighten up the air. | |
| No, all the deep shit that everyone's talking about. | |
| There to be this tension. | |
| You guys are talking about religion and SA and then married. | |
| We have you to think for all the comments. | |
| Yeah, I'm just like the Peanut gallery, and like Brian's like, shut up. | |
| Words. | |
| Okay. | |
| Prison Bella. | |
| Yes. | |
| This is not related to dating at all, but I was just curious. | |
| So you're both non-denominational Christians, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| Do you think that women can be pastors? | |
| I do not. | |
| I don't. | |
| Or they can, like, have a role in the clergy or whatever. | |
| I'm going to let you speak on this. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Well, it's a question for both of you. | |
| I was just curious. | |
| Yeah, the scripture is clear. | |
| It's kind of clear-based. | |
| It says scripture is clear. | |
| What a based answer is. | |
| Yeah, even a pastor said a 10-year-old can read the Bible and understand it. | |
| Pretty. | |
| I'm not sure the straight scripture, especially like I don't know. | |
| A lot of people look at it like. | |
| So here's where I was just discussing this. | |
| It discusses in several places in the Bible. | |
| And I've wrestled with this, wrestled with this, and I've given it to the Lord. | |
| And it's become clear that it says that people who teach are judged harshly, are going to be judged harshly. | |
| And so that being said, so women giving the position to teach, and we're like we were saying we're more fully. | |
| I mean, everyone has a testimony, though. | |
| You know, like personal life experiences, I feel like it's important to discuss those things with other people as well. | |
| Giving your testimony is different than being the pastor of a church. | |
| I mean, if you're doing it in a public manner in front of a lot of people, though. | |
| It's still different than being the virtual pastor of a church. | |
| So yeah, like I was saying that it says those who teach are going to be judged more harshly. | |
| But if it taught us to guide people closer to God, you know. | |
| Women could teach amongst women. | |
| Like we can teach, like have women Bible studies. | |
| And like I think you were mentioning how men, that men could kind of speak on women. | |
| Yeah, more to women. | |
| And then women understanding a man's position, if that's what women don't have the capacity to criticize men. | |
| Oh, we do. | |
| Or not criticized, sorry. | |
| They can't tell a man how to be men. | |
| How to be that. | |
| Yeah, there we go. | |
| But we do. | |
| It's not common for a man. | |
| I don't think a man, like he was having conviction and dealing with the sin, he would feel comfortable going up to a woman pastor talking about. | |
| And Parisa, what do you think on this? | |
| Honestly, I just don't feel educated enough on this topic. | |
| I mean, I'm still. | |
| The scripture is clear. | |
| Bella is telling you this is clear. | |
| Starting this year, I started reading the Bible every day, but I haven't. | |
| I don't know that. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| And yeah, I was just, it was just a short time. | |
| I mean, I feel like if a man is feeling uncomfortable with that, like, women have a lot more. | |
| We're more emotionally in tune. | |
| Like, we would have a lot to offer as far as the truth is not about motion and feelings because feelings are deceiving. | |
| And so that's the whole thing is saying the truth. | |
| Right. | |
| I think a big part of it, too, is that it's men are supposed to be the leaders. | |
| The pastor is the leader of the church. | |
| And men are supposed to be leaders. | |
| That doesn't mean women cannot prophecy. | |
| There's many prophets in the Bible that were women. | |
| Deborah being one of them. | |
| And so she would have been a pastor, right? | |
| The prophets are. | |
| A what? | |
| She would have been like if the intent behind it is to lead people closer to God. | |
| Say, like, a female is telling her testimony, though, like, then that would be a hand in hand and it would fall hand in hand into that. | |
| Anyways, I can't linger too long on that, but Jess, you said you dated drug dealers. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I mean, yeah, most of them, yes. | |
| You see how far away you are from the mic, though? | |
| Well, I'm sorry. | |
| So you've dated drug dealers. | |
| I mean, I'm going to say like 45% of the guys have dated, yes. | |
| Hello? | |
| 45% of the men you've dated are drug dealers. | |
| And then you comma mafia. | |
| Okay, I'm not gonna get too deep into that, but for obviously like the Italian mafia, like different, yeah, I'm not even gonna get, I'm not even gonna touch on that. | |
| I feel like that's more of a safety type of thing, though. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Like, yeah, I'm not even gonna touch on that. | |
| She wasn't if you don't know, but like, you don't know who's gonna be. | |
| She's killer because she's taught who they are if they are to talk about like a certain subject or anything. | |
| But why put it on your thing then? | |
| I didn't think that he was gonna say it out loud. | |
| W Frankie coming in. | |
| That's what I wanted to do. | |
| That's what I was raising. | |
| I didn't think he was gonna say it out loud like that. | |
| Well, that's why he was asking. | |
| Have you watched the show? | |
| Yo, W Frankie. | |
| When you text him something, assume it's gonna be 400 IQ Frankie here. | |
| I thought he'd hoard it. | |
| I also texted you guys a funny prompt that we could go over, and you guys didn't even like. | |
| Oh, I'll get to it, but are we actually gonna get to it? | |
| Yeah, I'm going through it. | |
| That's what I'm doing right now, lady. | |
| He's going through your lady. | |
| I thought it'd be funny because of your other Instagram account. | |
| I thought it'd be funny to like. | |
| Sure, okay. | |
| Go ahead, tell it. | |
| Let's hear the joke. | |
| I'm not doing it. | |
| I'm not. | |
| We'll touch on it later. | |
| Just tell the joke. | |
| You were just like, are we going to finally get to it? | |
| You put her on the spot. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, it has to be like a surprise. | |
| Now I need to hear it. | |
| Watch. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Okay. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Was it not like an interesting topic? | |
| Are you ready to say it? | |
| Yeah, let's hear it. | |
| You ready? | |
| What's your go ahead? | |
| What? | |
| Shut the fuck up. | |
| Dude, you asked me the question. | |
| Wait, let's hear it. | |
| Tell us. | |
| He was supposed to come up with a prompt. | |
| What? | |
| Oh my God, you're thinking. | |
| You're doing too much. | |
| Just now. | |
| What do you want? | |
| What's your thing you wanted to talk about? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| So he was supposed to come up with a prompt for it, but like any or outie vaginas. | |
| What? | |
| That's hilarious. | |
| For us? | |
| Like, do we want or do we prefer? | |
| No, like, having. | |
| Why? | |
| Do we have or like, would we rather? | |
| Are you asking what? | |
| No, I'm not asking you guys about it. | |
| That's what a man would prefer. | |
| Well, yeah, I mean, that's just like the topic. | |
| Like, I only found out that there was a difference like two years ago. | |
| I mean, he likes Big Labia. | |
| I think he probably did. | |
| Well, that's why I thought it'd be. | |
| Yeah, but like, I only found out like two years ago that there is a big labia, though. | |
| I didn't know that until like two years ago. | |
| What do you think it was? | |
| I didn't know any. | |
| I didn't know there was a difference. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| I had no idea. | |
| No two vaginas looked like a woman. | |
| There was what? | |
| What did you think? | |
| I just thought it was just the ones that looked like mine. | |
| What is that? | |
| What's yours? | |
| No, and I talked to my roommate about it too, like yesterday, and she was like, wait, there's a difference. | |
| I was like, yeah. | |
| I mean, shoot. | |
| I was too young. | |
| I knew that before that. | |
| She thought they were all like hers. | |
| Yeah, I just thought they were all any. | |
| They were all any. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's why I thought it were all any. | |
| That would be a very depressing world for Brian. | |
| It'd be really depressing. | |
| I'd be very upset. | |
| Yeah, but even like my roommate, she's 34, and she was even like, wait, there's a difference. | |
| And I was like, yeah. | |
| And I like showed her pictures on Google. | |
| And she was like, wait, there's a difference. | |
| I was like, yeah. | |
| And the first time I found out there was a difference, like me and my friend were in Fire Island and she was wearing a bikini and it was like, she's like, oh, it's falling out. | |
| I'm like, what do you mean it's falling out? | |
| My kind of girl. | |
| She's like, you're lucky. | |
| And she was like, she was Italian. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Crazy. | |
| She was Italian and Puerto Rican. | |
| She's like, oh, you're lucky. | |
| Like, you're white. | |
| I'm like, what is that? | |
| I don't know what that means. | |
| Like, oh, like, mine's like, yeah, she's like, it's falling out of her bikini. | |
| And I was like, what? | |
| And then what does that have to do with that? | |
| That's a bodily movie. | |
| I didn't think so. | |
| And I asked ChatGPT if there was a difference, and they were like, no, it's not race. | |
| I feel like Latina women are less likely to have. | |
| I asked. | |
| I asked ChatGPT. | |
| I did some research on this topic. | |
| So you do know what I'm talking about. | |
| Yeah, I know. | |
| Bro, Big Labya Matters. | |
| There's a whole Instagram page. | |
| But I got an Instagram page. | |
| Yeah, and she was like, we were just walking around and she was in her bikini and she's like, it's falling out. | |
| And I was like, what? | |
| She's like, oh, I'll show you. | |
| And then we went back on my friend's boat and she fucking pulled it out. | |
| Whipped it out. | |
| And I was like, whipped the lips. | |
| I was like, I've never seen that before. | |
| It was a culture shock. | |
| Yes. | |
| And I was like 24 years old, 23 years old. | |
| I was like, what the fuck? | |
| And then. | |
| So you wanted to ask all the girls here? | |
| No, I was going to ask. | |
| No. | |
| I wasn't going to be like, any outie, any outie. | |
| You're saying you never watched any type of porn? | |
| Right. | |
| No, and I watched I watched porn and I've never seen it. | |
| I've never seen that's insanity. | |
| I've seen it. | |
| I've never seen it. | |
| And that's why I was like so shook when I was like 23 years old and I saw that and she was like, yeah. | |
| And I was like, oh, that's that's a little weird. | |
| And then she would always say she was dating a guy for like two years and she's like, yeah, he's never eaten me out. | |
| And I'm like, that's weird. | |
| And then I saw that and I'm like, oh, maybe that makes sense. | |
| I'm under Almora. | |
| It's a roast beef sandwich. | |
| Thank you. | |
| That's what I said. | |
| Damn, you're loud, bro. | |
| Yeah, but I'm this is my indoor voice. | |
| Okay, but so I don't know if like men's objections to giving head has to do with whether they're innie or outie. | |
| Well, it's the same as like a circle, yeah. | |
| Kind of. | |
| And like I've asked my guy friends. | |
| No, I've asked my guy friends about it once I found it out. | |
| I'm like, this is a thing. | |
| And they're like, yeah, that's like how we know if we're going to do it. | |
| Like not, that's not the only factor, but like that's like one of the factors where they're like, if they're going to give head or not. | |
| Really? | |
| That's really. | |
| That's interesting. | |
| Yeah, that's what I mean. | |
| That's what at least my guy friends are. | |
| Innies are a lot harder to stimulate. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| But yeah, that's at least like from what my guy friends have told me, they're like, yeah, like that's like one of the factors. | |
| Not the only factor, but yeah, it's one of the factors. | |
| I didn't even know those existed. | |
| I feel like innies make it a lot more complicated, so I don't know what he's on, but I don't know. | |
| Are you saying you have a out? | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| No, I'm saying give. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| Innies are a lot harder to stimulate. | |
| Like, there's more. | |
| You have more to play with when it's right, you know? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Versus like an innie is like that part. | |
| What do you do? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Bicker flow. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Well, you're by, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you have a preference? | |
| Yeah, do you have a preference? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you prefer innies or outies? | |
| Like the healthy medium. | |
| You like the midi. | |
| Sometimes it's this and then sometimes it's this, but like, you know, there's like a bit. | |
| You like the MIDI. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's what I mean. | |
| It's easy. | |
| There's a MIDI. | |
| These girls are here. | |
| Like, what the fuck are they talking about? | |
| There's a MIDI. | |
| There's like in the curtain either. | |
| of thing yeah it's like a little bit out there but not like it's not it's not hanging out the fuck It's not like that. | |
| It's not falling out of your bikini. | |
| All right, so going around the table, have you ever been shamed for your packaging? | |
| No. | |
| Never Frankie. | |
| Actually, my boobs. | |
| Oh, yeah, that's not what we're talking about. | |
| I know, but I'm just saying. | |
| You got shamed for that? | |
| Yeah, I get called fucking flat all the time. | |
| Damn, that's fucked up. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm getting it fixed eventually, so it's fine. | |
| No, don't get fake titties. | |
| I'm just doing that. | |
| Big L. L's and I can't live the rest of my life without knowing what it's like. | |
| Like, I just want to take one. | |
| You know, like, I want like a good handful. | |
| Stop. | |
| Don't do that. | |
| Stop. | |
| You fucking retarded or what? | |
| If I tell you that. | |
| I thought you can't say that. | |
| Well, I'm about to say it. | |
| If I tell you to stop doing something in that tone, you got to fucking cut it out. | |
| I thought you couldn't say it. | |
| We're on fucking stream, lady. | |
| Holy fuck. | |
| I thought you couldn't say the R-word. | |
| Huh? | |
| I thought you couldn't say R word. | |
| Yeah, I like how you're trying to redirect this. | |
| I know. | |
| You can't be playing with your titties on stream, you fucking retard. | |
| Oh my God, bro. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you want to say sorry? | |
| You want to apologize? | |
| I just said sorry. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'll need the accompanying attitude, though. | |
| If I'm telling you to stop doing something, it's for a reason. | |
| You don't need to like do it extra. | |
| Oh, I thought you were just joking about it, but we're on fucking. | |
| I got it. | |
| Bro, aren't you online? | |
| You know, you can't do certain things on the platforms. | |
| Fucking so dumb, bro. | |
| You're 27, bro. | |
| You know, these. | |
| I'm 26. | |
| Or you're okay. | |
| You're 26. | |
| You know, YouTube and Twitch have standards that you can't be playing with your titties on fucking YouTube. | |
| I didn't know that. | |
| Really? | |
| Well, I don't really use Twitch. | |
| Just don't do it. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| All right. | |
| We have Michael Jones here. | |
| Michael Jones donated $100. | |
| Chair 4, you're not funny. | |
| Stop trying. | |
| Chair 5, can you talk some sense into her, please? | |
| For us. | |
| Sure. | |
| What? | |
| Gotcha, buddy. | |
| Won't you comment some sense? | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you, Michael Jones. | |
| I appreciate it, man. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| All right. | |
| Is that all you wanted to talk about when it came to that? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| It's just a story that I just like, I didn't know it was a thing. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| Thank you. | |
| All right, Bella. | |
| You said that you're waiting for the man God has for you, waiting. | |
| You're waiting until marriage and trusting his timing, even though that's rare these days. | |
| You said masculinity is declining with many men no longer feeling the call to provide, protect, or lead, partly due to modern feminism. | |
| As a result, women aren't drawn to truly masculine men who seek Jesus and guard their purity. | |
| While many women desire a godly, protective, and loving husband, few recognize that such a man will also expect purity, strength, and nurturing from his wife. | |
| You want to add anything to that? | |
| No, I think I pretty much said everything that I think. | |
| And I think to go more on men almost being shamed to be more masculine these days. | |
| And it's kind of that's the toxic approach that, yeah, the agenda has made it toxic. | |
| It's not toxic masculinity, but yeah. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| No, like they're making it seem that being more masculine is toxic. | |
| Like they made up the term toxic masculinity to shame them. | |
| And masculine. | |
| Yeah, and masculinity doesn't necessarily mean some men do use it for their advantage, though. | |
| So that's not being a man. | |
| It's not like using it, using it to minimize or treat women as less than when they're supposed, they're called to be gentle, protecting, and loving to their wives. | |
| I think many women have it twisted where they're like, okay, I have to submit to my husband, but my husband is called, what is pleasing in the side of the Lord is for him to be gentle and loving towards his wife and also honoring his wife. | |
| And by doing that, is leading, protecting, providing. | |
| And women, we need to realize, like, okay, this is not all to blame. | |
| The men, we can't all blame the men for this, but um, that's a great point. | |
| Um, so when they do say we have toxic masculinity, toxic masculinity doesn't actually exist, it's the lack of masculinity that does. | |
| So, when you see the most dangerous men, they lack masculine virtues, like she said, you have to be gentle and caring and loving. | |
| That's why when I was asking you earlier about the emotional thing, um, it doesn't mean like you have to be like men are dangerous, right? | |
| They're aggressive. | |
| That's not being masculine, that's having a masculine trait, but the fulfillment of masculinity is something like what Jesus would live according to. | |
| Yeah, like you learn usually. | |
| I personally think men need to know how to be that like kind of a monster and a beast so they can protect what they love and they care about. | |
| But the manly part of it is that you control that and you keep taking care of a woman. | |
| That's math being that, like, for a prime example would be my dad. | |
| He, um, I never see him get angry at my mom. | |
| He's never been angry. | |
| Um, but when it came to like we'd go on camping trips and someone would mess with his children, he would get in that almost like anger like in that mode. | |
| And that, so I view my father as a masculine man of God. | |
| People don't even know, but like I know for me with my family, when I'm out in public, I don't even like going out in public with them as much is because I feel so paranoid because I know I have to protect my family. | |
| And they don't, women don't have to go through that. | |
| You know, you're being protected, you can relax, and you don't even realize it. | |
| But the man has to bear responsibility for the child and the wife. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Frankie, you said that you feel like your entire last relationship was just a mess of toxicity. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Mental abuse, physical abuse, controlling on both ends. | |
| I think our entire relationship kind of started with dishonesty, and then I was too far in after that. | |
| After find, like, at the point where I found that out, I was too far in to kind of like backtrack and be like, oh, never mind, I don't want to be with you. | |
| So I tried to make it work, and it just got really, really, really toxic. | |
| You said there was mental abuse, physical abuse on both ends. | |
| Yeah, it got really bad. | |
| You were like punching him, or what were you doing? | |
| And him back, but so you would punch him first? | |
| We would get into really bad arguments. | |
| Sometimes he'd shove me and then I'd hit him. | |
| Or vice versa, I'd hit him and then he would shove me. | |
| There's been multiple times that he had like hit me in the face. | |
| It was really bad. | |
| So it was like both of you were abusive towards each other. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| How long? | |
| And this is the five-year guy? | |
| That was the three-year-old. | |
| No, five-year guy. | |
| Yeah, that was. | |
| The guy who found your mom's OnlyFans. | |
| Correct. | |
| Yes. | |
| Wow. | |
| I forgot about that. | |
| Where's your dad at, Frankie? | |
| My dad. | |
| Is he in the picture? | |
| He was in and out of the picture growing up. | |
| I really only saw him on holidays. | |
| And then, but I'm fully aware that the relationship I ended up in fully mimics the relationship that I grew up watching with my parents, which I'm grateful for, honestly, because now I know, like, if I ever have kids, I don't want them seeing that because then that's what my kids are going to go through when they grow up. | |
| So in a way, it was kind of a good thing, I guess. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I'm trying to recall here. | |
| It was on again, off again, you said. | |
| Yeah, very on and again, off again. | |
| Got it. | |
| The only reason it even went so long and so far, and that I let it go so much, knowing that that's not the situation that I wanted to put myself in when I did start dating, was because, like them, I wanted to wait until marriage. | |
| And then I fully got manipulated, kind of. | |
| Obviously, I know it was my decision to sleep with him, but he had like showed me the ring. | |
| And he's like, oh, this was my grandma's ring. | |
| I'm going to get it resized for you. | |
| And like, you're the only girl I can ever imagine marrying and yada, yada, yada. | |
| And you made the decision with like the expectation that he was going to be your husband. | |
| Yeah, fully. | |
| Expectation is the biggest fault of any relationship, honestly. | |
| I should have stuck. | |
| I had a purity ring and everything, and I just didn't. | |
| So did I. Wait, so you just, you said that he, like, manipulated you into having sex? | |
| In a sense, I mean, obviously, I know that was. | |
| I was very young. | |
| I was still a teenager. | |
| So, like. | |
| Wait, how old were you? | |
| I was 17. | |
| 17 years ago we had sex. | |
| He was 23. | |
| Okay, that's healthy. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| Yeah, no, I know. | |
| But the thing is, if you make a mistake and you acknowledge that it's a mistake, I mean, you can go back to like waiting. | |
| Like, obviously, like, you know, right, yeah, that's what I'm forgiving God. | |
| It's been so long since I've been with someone because like it's in my age group, it's really hard to find people that are okay with not having sex. | |
| They all expect it, and I don't want to. | |
| So wait, you were like a junior in high school when you met him? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, no, okay. | |
| I've known him basically my whole life. | |
| High school made it a lot easier to make religious relationships, though. | |
| So I find that interesting. | |
| So did he go to your high school? | |
| No, he was my brother's best friend. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, so I trusted him, though. | |
| He was like six years. | |
| Is that six or seven years older? | |
| Six. | |
| How'd your brother react? | |
| He was like 19, 20, 21. | |
| Yeah, 16. | |
| He wasn't happy. | |
| He immediately, from the get-go, the second that we started hanging out, because we started hanging out when I was still 16, and he immediately was like, no, that's not happening. | |
| And obviously it did anyways. | |
| Maybe he was wrong. | |
| That's disturbing. | |
| Yeah, I mean, I thought, like, since I'd known him for so long, you know, I could trust him, but no, it was really bad. | |
| I think if you ever have to, like, give up like one of your core values or like morals to fit someone else's like ideology or like ideals, like that is like the immediate red flag. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that age is always a red flag. | |
| Like, any of it. | |
| Yeah, the age gap should have been the underage being intimate at that age as well. | |
| That as well. | |
| Shouldn't have been fooling around. | |
| Not young. | |
| I mean, hindsight, hindsight, you know, but you know, it's not your fault. | |
| Like, to the, it's like hindsight to have remained, you know, and not done it and been like, okay, just learn from it. | |
| You know, I don't think you don't have to feel guilty. | |
| You're also like core words. | |
| I can't, you know what I'm trying to say. | |
| Coerced. | |
| Coerced. | |
| Wait, what core word? | |
| What state did you grow up in? | |
| I grew up in California. | |
| Okay, yeah. | |
| Like California, Vegas. | |
| If the age of consent was to do. | |
| That's horrible. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| All right. | |
| Going to Morgan, your notes, you said typically you go for older men. | |
| I do. | |
| So what's the oldest guy you've dated? | |
| 42. | |
| At what? | |
| What age? | |
| 21. | |
| Okay, so you're 21 and he was 42 at the time. | |
| When you guys met. | |
| Actually, no, I think he was 41. | |
| He was 41. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's the biggest age gap. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| What do the girls think about that? | |
| Is that 21, 42? | |
| That was bad. | |
| She can drink. | |
| Well, I was, I mean, I don't know. | |
| I mean, it was a co-worker, so like it made it convenient, I guess. | |
| Like it was j it was a relationship found out of convenience, pretty much. | |
| That's fair. | |
| Okay, going around the table. | |
| What do you think? | |
| Acceptable age gap? | |
| That's right. | |
| Or 21, 21, 21, yeah. | |
| It was 20-year age gap, right? | |
| Acceptable? | |
| I don't think. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I mean, he seemed a lot younger, though. | |
| So he seemed like that makes it worse. | |
| Yeah, right. | |
| No, but like, he still seemed like old enough to have like maturity and like that aspect to him. | |
| But also, looking back at it now, I'm like, when he told me his age and I thought he was like more immature, that should have been a red flag as well. | |
| What do you think, Frankie? | |
| I'm really against age gaps after everything I went through. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you don't find okay. | |
| Your thoughts, Jess? | |
| I feel like if she was a little bit older, not like just turning 21, and there was that age gap, it'd probably be a little bit better. | |
| Okay. | |
| What do you think? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Sorry. | |
| No, okay. | |
| Age gaps are okay as long as the guy is a good guy. | |
| She was sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| So it was 41, 21. | |
| That was the age gap. | |
| It's a bit much, but you know, if the guy is a good man and treating you, he was to an extent, yeah. | |
| What was like the nature of the relationship? | |
| Like, what was sex? | |
| It was good as well, which is why we stayed together. | |
| So okay, all right. | |
| Yeah, I say no, but I don't object to the idea of having like dating someone that maybe not that. | |
| But yeah, yeah. | |
| For me, it's not the age gap, it's the intention. | |
| I just don't agree with hookup culture, I guess. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| I actually, I mean, I don't even really want to debate the age gap stuff, but I actually think that's a fine age gap. | |
| 21, 41. | |
| No problem. | |
| No problem whatsoever. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Anybody can bite? | |
| I mean, it's consenting. | |
| It's consenting, but I mean, it seems like a red flag. | |
| I feel like he's just been through a lot more life experience as well. | |
| That's my problem with it. | |
| I don't know. | |
| There's a lot to different wavelengths in time. | |
| I'm going to frame it like this. | |
| I'll see if I get any bites. | |
| Younger women. | |
| So like a 21-year-old versus, say, a 31-year-old, typically more physically attractive, less baggage, less bodies. | |
| I think a majority of men are going to find that like more appealing, more attractive for both short-term and long-term dating. | |
| Okay, I'll just take the W then. | |
| Thank you, guys. | |
| That was a great. | |
| I mean, it makes sense. | |
| All right. | |
| We have Graffita then. | |
| Thank you, Graffito. | |
| Graffiti Totect donated $100. | |
| Question for the panel. | |
| Would you rather be with a guy who was already rich with no ambition, perhaps has a trust fund or inheritance, or a guy making minimum wage with incredible question? | |
| All right, we'll start with you. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Making minimum wage with ambition. | |
| You don't know. | |
| Anything's possible. | |
| Okay. | |
| Same as her. | |
| Same. | |
| I feel like a team dynamic could make a lot work with that. | |
| Jess? | |
| It's a tough one. | |
| I don't like trust fund babies, but I also don't like minimum wage. | |
| But I'm going to go with the minimum wage. | |
| I'm going with the first one. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| The trust funds. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you, Kate? | |
| I'm going to go with the minimum wage. | |
| All right. | |
| Minimum wage. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Definitely minimum wage. | |
| I think ambition is like just a quality I very highly value. | |
| Felicity? | |
| Trust fund. | |
| Shit. | |
| Trust fund. | |
| E, easy. | |
| Would you rather a woman who has a trust fund, rich, no ambition, or a woman making minimum wage with incredible career ambition? | |
| Rich. | |
| Yeah, no ambition. | |
| Same. | |
| Because if she had a lot of ambition, then she's an independent person and you want to take care of someone. | |
| She's a strong boss, baby. | |
| Like if her dad was the one that gave her or had the money, right, he must have had some masculine traits that allowed him to get to that position. | |
| And then he would have passed down this mindset to her of you have to do less, which is what I was saying at the beginning. | |
| The less you do, the better and more value you have. | |
| Is that your stance? | |
| That would be my stance because I think they know what they want. | |
| So if they saw their dad achieve a high level of success. | |
| How do they know what they want and don't have any ambition? | |
| What do they need ambition for? | |
| Have your own identity and like there's things that, you know, I mean, I'm passionate about being a writer. | |
| Well, I guess what do we mean by ambition, though? | |
| Like a boss babe? | |
| Or like, are you talking about being a mom? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Like, is it a ambition for a career or is it ambition because you're like, I want to be a good career and reach good job? | |
| I have an ambition for a career and I have like a trust fund. | |
| How much? | |
| Don't fucking ask me. | |
| No, just no, if she didn't have an ambition to be a good mom or a good wife, obviously not. | |
| I'm thinking of a career. | |
| I wouldn't want her to have an ambition for a career. | |
| I mean, for me, like, my mission, like, as a screenwriter is like to glorify God through my work, and I want to reach as many people as possible. | |
| Like, do you think that's a bad thing to want? | |
| Just kidding. | |
| No, but I think everything is going to come at an expense. | |
| So if that means you have to sacrifice raising your kids, then I would say that's wrong. | |
| I don't want to sacrifice raising my kids, but I do. | |
| But do you think just in general, like me having that ambition to be a successful writer in order to reach people with these values that I want to instill? | |
| Is that bad? | |
| I think you should find a husband that does that. | |
| And then you do it alongside him. | |
| So me do it also. | |
| We both want to. | |
| Sure, but your number one priority should be kids above everything else. | |
| Yeah, I agree. | |
| It would be kids above everything else. | |
| Because there's always going to be a time expense. | |
| Like, there's got to be, it's an opportunity cost, so you have to invest your time into something. | |
| So if you're doing that and then you're getting success and you're seeing you're getting more bookings or more opportunities, you're going to have to sacrifice leaving the kids with someone else. | |
| I was thinking, I would not sacrifice my kids for my work, but I do think that just I think if you don't have kids right now or a family and you want to occupy your time with something else, then yeah, that's great. | |
| But once you get to that point, then you should be willing to give that up. | |
| I think once you reach a certain point of success as well, though, then you kind of have the upper hand in saying like. | |
| But what happens if that's when she is 35? | |
| Yeah, usually a woman reaches that success when she can't have kids anymore. | |
| Well, yeah, but if the children are already a part of the picture, you know. | |
| By success, you mean money, though, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I don't value it. | |
| I don't like think of that as success. | |
| For me, by success, I do not mean money. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Fair. | |
| And would you be willing if you found somebody that you wanted to be with, like putting what the aspects of wanting to send your message out to people? | |
| Would you be willing to put that to the side, have children, and then do that after the kids are raised? | |
| I would do that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But I also think just in general, like, I feel like if what you did like with your scripting, whatever, was like super successful as well. | |
| And like you are making the money off of that, you don't necessarily have to, what's the word? | |
| Like give up like anything because it's already reached its success, if you know what I mean. | |
| I guess so, but again, like it depends on what your idea of success is. | |
| I mean, there's a guy I really look up to who he like gave up his career as being like one of the top like writers in filmmaking to like turn his company into like a Christian filmmaking industry. | |
| And like he gave up the like financial success, but I mean he's happier than he's ever been and like he feels successful in that. | |
| So I think that it just depends on what your idea of being successful is, I think. | |
| I would value the success being, instead of you doing that work yourself, why don't you create kids with good virtues, and then they're going to leave a bigger and better legacy. | |
| So you're saying? | |
| So, like, if you had to sacrifice that career to instill a better living for your kids in terms of values and virtues that they have that they can pass on, and they can share that to the world, I think that would be a lot better. | |
| Okay. | |
| I just don't think that you have to like entirely give up your ambition, but I do think I would always prioritize my family over career and yes. | |
| Yeah, like I said, it's like the way you preoccupy your time. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So if you have nothing better going on yet, do like college, go get a degree, whatever you want. | |
| Everything's just going to come with an expense. | |
| So that's why if we look at college degrees right now, I think women get like 60% of it and then men get 40%. | |
| But on average, women are 40 grand in debt. | |
| They wasted their most fertile years, which is their 20s, and then they're making an average of like 40 grand a year. | |
| So now when it's time to start a family at their 30, 31, 32, they're not at their peak, right? | |
| They already lost a lot of value, but they also have so much debt and such a burden on their mind that they can't actually start a family because they're thinking, I have to pay $2,000, $3,000 a month in my student loans. | |
| How am I going to afford a kid? | |
| Well, you think once you're like 30, like you can't have kids? | |
| No, you can, but it's harder. | |
| Brad Wilcox, for example, if you guys look him up, he's a sociologist. | |
| So he shows, he does this very in-depth in terms of like the more religious you are as a Christian, the better results you have. | |
| But he shows that Christians that get married at a younger age have much better results, like the religious Christians. | |
| And so what this shows is that they're making good decisions at a young age. | |
| Instead of having a higher body count, instead of getting in debt, they're prioritizing the nuclear family, which is the most important thing. | |
| So by the time they're 30s and they have so much debt and stress, it's going to be a lot harder to want to have kids. | |
| Okay. | |
| Also, I think this is just, I mean, statistically, like living with a partner before marriage, like I think there's divorce rates go up like 50%. | |
| It's just another random thing, but it said something like divorce rate goes down from like 50% to 5% if you like pray with your partner every night. | |
| So I just think having that foundation and building your marriage on glorifying God, like that is why, you know, that's how you stay together. | |
| If you met a guy who, let's say he was pretty successful and he earned an income where you could stay at home, but you also, it sounds like you have some degree of career ambition. | |
| And he was like, no, I can take care of us. | |
| I want you to stop working. | |
| Would you? | |
| I would say because my ambition in my career is not like for the drive of making money, I would still want to contribute to that, but it would just be because I want to do it for myself, not necessarily. | |
| I would work for free. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I would donate my time then if I was being provided for. | |
| What if he didn't want you to, though? | |
| He's like, no, I'd rather you just take care of the household. | |
| And then when you eventually have kids, 100% of your, or well, most of your focus is towards the kids. | |
| I mean, I would definitely not neglect family responsibility. | |
| Yeah, but he said, I don't want you working at all. | |
| That's hard. | |
| I mean, I wouldn't like that, but I guess it really depends on circumstance. | |
| I think either way it goes, you have to be willing to make a sacrifice if that is the case, like of something. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, if I had to sacrifice a career or a sacrifice my career for my family, I absolutely would. | |
| Yeah, that's not the question, though. | |
| So your husband earns enough to provide for the household exclusively, and he says, no, I want you to just stop working whatever you're doing. | |
| I think your time could be better spent doing taking care of the household, taking care of the kids. | |
| Do you do it? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't think you realize, but having kids is a full-time job. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What if he wants you to homeschool the kids? | |
| Because in a lot of places, Yeah, like where I live, there's not a chance in hell I'd put my kids in public school until they're at least high school age. | |
| I will say this: I've always wanted to raise my kids in the South, and so I know that having that fully means like I'll have to leave the Hollywood industry. | |
| And so I've definitely always been willing to give that up for a family and to raise family. | |
| So then I think, yes, that's so would you do it, though? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Would you argue with him about it or would you just be like, yes, sir? | |
| You better just do it. | |
| I mean, again, what's the circumstance? | |
| He just wants you to stay. | |
| He wants to provide for you. | |
| He doesn't want you to have to work hard. | |
| He wants you to. | |
| How would you sincerely tell your wife if that was the case? | |
| I'm just curious. | |
| Like, how would you guys tell your significant other? | |
| Like, I don't know. | |
| I want to take care of you. | |
| Please don't work. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, it's pretty direct. | |
| I mean, if she trusts your judgment, if you've had a track record of consistently making better decisions, even if they can't see it at the beginning, then she needs to not argue and just you were saying earlier, like they want to argue sometimes, but men that are higher educators that have big goals and big missions in mind, they don't want to argue with you. | |
| They don't want to go and work all day and stress, and then they have to come stress at home with you telling them no. | |
| I think a statistic shows that most successful households is when the woman stays at home. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And women's dream of being a stay-at-home mom, and it's the most beautiful job ever. | |
| They act like doing laundry and washing dishes. | |
| It's an ugly thing, but that's, I mean, we can't live without food. | |
| And you're telling me you get to cook and provide the food that I need to live. | |
| I'm not afraid of it. | |
| Like, that's a beautiful job. | |
| You know, honestly, the man I know, and I'm confident the man I marry, I will trust to lead me in my faith, and I will fully submit to. | |
| So I will say yes to that answer then. | |
| Yeah, and it's better to, like, if you think, okay, right now I have to make a sacrifice at what expense will I get a good family and I don't have to stress my husband out and I just get to live life on easy mode, you know? | |
| So like women have to be okay with just giving up their selfish desires, even though I know yours isn't like selfish. | |
| You have a purpose, but at the end of the day, you have to weigh out the pros and cons from each decision. | |
| Yeah, because I do think that something that just altered in my mind is that it's not that I'm saying yes to any man, it's that I'm saying yes to my husband. | |
| And so, you know, that's sorry. | |
| That's definitely very different. | |
| It's sometimes hard to wrap your head around, especially since you don't have that person in your life yet. | |
| But I think anything would be circumstantial, though. | |
| Like the way he says it, whatever the situation would be, like, it would be your response, you know? | |
| Like, how you respond would be based off of how it's a situation. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Would you want it to be a conversation or is it like he said it, like, so it goes? | |
| I would want it to be a conversation because I think that with anything that someone tells you, I think that there always is a why. | |
| And so I think that you should know the why, you know, as well. | |
| No, like to have a conversation, would it be like a why or would it be like kind of like a like kind of back and forth for a second of like, I want to do this. | |
| I'm not saying, but having a conversation about it isn't necessarily like resisting it or like fighting against it. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But if someone ever tells me to do anything, I'm always the type of person who's going to be like, oh, like why? | |
| And I'm a curious person. | |
| So even if it's like, you know, yeah, I would just always ask. | |
| I think anyone would want to know why their partners like quit your career, you know? | |
| Well, sometimes people are like, but also that going, like what if your husband told you to off someone, would you do it? | |
| No, it's like sometimes people are like, I want you to be fully submissive and don't ask questions type thing. | |
| That sounds great. | |
| See, that's what I mean. | |
| That's what I mean. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| See? | |
| What's wrong with it? | |
| What would be wrong if a woman was like that? | |
| No, I asked her for If a guy said, I know the noise, but if a guy asked her to quit her career. | |
| Can I ask you a question? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, let's go ahead and finish and then he'll. | |
| I said if a guy asked her, or her husband asked her to quit her career, would she just do it or would she ask why? | |
| And it would be a conversation or just like, oh, you said so, so it must be right. | |
| I'm just going to trust that. | |
| Well, but it's not necessarily that I wouldn't. | |
| No, just explaining him what the. | |
| Oh, okay, okay. | |
| I kept it would have been back and forth. | |
| Like, you know, yes, I want to do this because, or, like, if it would just be like what he says goes. | |
| What was your question? | |
| Why are you gay? | |
| What? | |
| Why are you gay? | |
| Why? | |
| Why are you? | |
| I like women. | |
| So, the way I see same-sex attractions are like, it's just lust. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not Christian. | |
| I know that. | |
| $299.01. | |
| One of the most intelligent panels you have had. | |
| Respectful and logical conversations. | |
| Except for chair four and previous chair one. | |
| And pretty sure pink hair has been perpetual confused for a decade. | |
| Do you want to respond to that? | |
| I'm not confused. | |
| I just like to listen. | |
| She's observing me. | |
| Are you happy that you're in front of the pink crystal now? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And in this chair, I love this chair. | |
| Y'all into spirituality? | |
| Yo, thank you. | |
| Thank you, Clane. | |
| Really good to see you in the chat, man. | |
| Clain, you dropped the champagne pop, right? | |
| Or no, was it it? | |
| Wasn't a Christoph pop like two weeks ago? | |
| Three. | |
| Good to see you in the chat, Clain. | |
| Okay, Jay, 28, matched with a 43-year-old lady. | |
| She admitted I was too old for her and she liked 18 to 20-year-olds. | |
| No. | |
| She convinced her son's friend's mom that he could temporarily stay with her. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| I'm sure she slept with her son's friend. | |
| That's weird. | |
| Women are predators, too. | |
| That's true. | |
| I mean, you see a lot of these stories, Jay. | |
| Oh my god, he has all the stamina. | |
| Female high school teachers. | |
| A lot of those stories, a lot of crazy shit. | |
| So thank you, man. | |
| Thank you for the super chat. | |
| I was at my high school. | |
| The female teacher. | |
| It was the guy. | |
| With like a football kit. | |
| But here's the thing: they actually got married and had a child together after as well. | |
| He was in the high school during all of this. | |
| So he was actually going to school when she got. | |
| Oh, you're talking about the famous one? | |
| No. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So that's a similar situation, though. | |
| But he had like ratted her out years, years later. | |
| And then that's what she got. | |
| Which is kind of messed up because you already went through the act of doing all this with her, making a family with her. | |
| Like, you went that far. | |
| I had a hot biology teacher in high school. | |
| Right. | |
| Smashed. | |
| Anyways. | |
| Right. | |
| How would you feel about it now? | |
| How would you feel about it now? | |
| Smash. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That's fair. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Anyways, okay, whatever. | |
| Going to Morgan, you said you go for older men. | |
| We already talked about that. | |
| You think in your experience, you're expecting more maturity when it came with age. | |
| Maybe it sounds like it didn't. | |
| You said you were poorly mistaken. | |
| You said you like being in a dynamic where you feel you can let go of your sense of control so you can prioritize your focus on your nurturing feminine side. | |
| And you feel like you experience this with men who are more experienced. | |
| I feel like that's very blocked off for me at the moment, which is why I'm not interested in any relationship in any manner right now. | |
| You wanted to talk about family dynamics, past experiences, and how that can affect the relationship with your partner. | |
| Like, I guess, traumas that people go through, I feel like men don't typically want to be with women that have experienced a lot of trauma. | |
| Probably not. | |
| So do you think women want to be with men who've experienced a lot of trauma? | |
| I can fix him. | |
| I've tried it so many times. | |
| Yeah, I definitely think that's definitely seems at least more prevalent in women than in men. | |
| I don't know if like either, well, maybe, I don't know. | |
| Men definitely don't want to deal with that shit. | |
| No. | |
| Maybe it's maybe more common. | |
| I feel like they want to also like nurture as well in an aspect, but like they don't want to have to deal with the emotional side of things. | |
| They would rather take things, take care of things in a material manner. | |
| Like men don't want to deal with the emotional. | |
| Like the emotional bad, like they don't want to feel like I have to fix her this type of thing emotionally. | |
| Yeah, we don't want to fix her. | |
| Right. | |
| Right. | |
| But like in a material manner, that's the way they want to take it. | |
| Come unbroken. | |
| I feel like the best quality in a partner would be that they make you a better version of yourself. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I just agree. | |
| I agree. | |
| You also wrote you don't think modern dating has any of the traditional values we have witnessed within recent generations. | |
| You said historically speaking, though, polyamory or having multiple partners was and has been normalized. | |
| What part of history? | |
| What I just said earlier with like the father Abraham, he had multiple wives and multiple children. | |
| Like it's been a thing for a while. | |
| I feel like 2,000 years of Western culture, Christianity, like monogamy has been cherished. | |
| Yeah, it's definitely cherished and valued, but I mean, it's been a thing that's been historically, yeah, there were people who were a lot of people expect monogamy nowadays, but like it. | |
| You don't think it's realistic? | |
| I think it's also a good value for like a man to be upfront about like his intentions with that as well. | |
| Because I've been with men that are like, I want a polyamory, polyamorous dynamic. | |
| What do you think is better for society, monogamy or polyamory? | |
| Polyamory. | |
| You think polyamory is better for society? | |
| Why? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I think having connections with different people in. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I think I value connections with people. | |
| So you think, like, for example, let's say you have... | |
| I like to learn. | |
| Let's say you have one man who has 100 wives. | |
| Do you think that that's good for society? | |
| I mean, that's a lot of wives. | |
| Okay, fine. | |
| 10. | |
| He has 10 wives. | |
| Too much of anything is a bad thing. | |
| Yeah, but do you think it's good for society? | |
| It's actually kind of bad for society. | |
| That's the point I'm about to get to. | |
| Well, build up society is the family unit, and I mean, you know, people raising up. | |
| Yeah, I agree with that. | |
| I agree with that. | |
| What do you do in a society where you have fighting age men who see that 10% of the men are getting all the women? | |
| So that leaves 90% of men without a wife and the ability to have children. | |
| Do you think that that would be like a good dynamic for society? | |
| I mean, in terms of war or potential violence or? | |
| No. | |
| You think it would. | |
| So if, okay, if all the women could procreate and only 10% of the men could procreate, and those 90% of the men are like, whoa, this is kind of like kind of preventing me from preventing me from fulfilling like my biological imperative of having children. | |
| You don't think that would have a negative impact in society in some conceivable way? | |
| I mean, I never said that, but like also we have like millionaires and we also have homeless people. | |
| So like it's a dynamic. | |
| We can talk about that. | |
| Right. | |
| It's just a dynamic. | |
| Like obviously it's going to be. | |
| Yeah, I get that it's dynamic. | |
| Do you want to answer the question? | |
| I don't really have. | |
| Okay, in your worldview, would you prefer society was polygamy? | |
| Polygamy? | |
| No, I wouldn't prefer it. | |
| Obviously, I think everyone would. | |
| Didn't you just say that polygamies would be better for society? | |
| I think it could be beneficial for people to have more relationships with open-minded individuals as well. | |
| Why? | |
| I feel like a lot of people who are too close-minded in their opinions and everything are kind of can't you have connections and relationships with people without it being sexual? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So why does the polyamory have to be in there for you to have connections with people? | |
| I mean, I'm not saying like change. | |
| I'm not saying strictly that it has to be like a relationship dynamic like that either, but like, I don't know. | |
| I feel like also modern dating, it's hard for women to even have guy friends as well. | |
| So but I guess I'm looking for an answer to my question. | |
| So in a society where all the women get to procreate and only 10% of the men get to procreate, do you think that this would be tend to stabilize a society or destabilize it? | |
| It would definitely destabilize. | |
| So it'd be bad. | |
| I mean, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| So don't you think it'd be better if it was one man and one woman? | |
| Obviously it's not gonna not everybody's gonna get to people will die early. | |
| Some people won't find a partner. | |
| But like wouldn't it be fair to say that monogamy would probably be like the most stable society in that specific move away from polygamy then? | |
| I mean yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Cool. | |
| I'm glad I changed your mind. | |
| Are you still gonna be a polygamist? | |
| Like you want like 10 husbands? | |
| No, I don't want it for myself. | |
| Like obviously I don't. | |
| Why don't you want it for yourself? | |
| Because like everyone wants to feel valued, but also I'd like to feel more valued if like 10 dudes are blasting inside you. | |
| I'm just trying to understand like what no, I'm saying you would feel more valued if it's just like one person and it's reciprocated. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So neither of you are dating. | |
| It's a strong case for I know, I know, but I'm just saying like I don't know. | |
| I find connection very important and like talking to people, being open-minded with people, and then having like intimate conversations is very important. | |
| What's the biggest your roster has ever been like talking to people at a time? | |
| Yeah. | |
| One. | |
| You've only talked to one guy at the same time? | |
| But like one. | |
| One guy, yeah. | |
| You've never been sleeping with two or three different guys? | |
| I don't know why that's hard to believe. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You seem kind of really excited about the polyamory thing. | |
| So no, I had an ex that kind of opened my mind about it. | |
| You said that you think you're for yourself within your personal journey, your opinion would be that souls naturally fall into place with other energies that either flourish or feed off your own. | |
| Most people inherently become surrounded by the same energy that they are emanating. | |
| I think you are kind of like what you hang around. | |
| Okay. | |
| And if you want a different energy frequency in your realm, then you have to change yours. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then you said that you don't think, going back to this, modern dating has any of the traditional values we have witnessed within recent generations. | |
| Like your grandmothers, things like that. | |
| I feel like what do you mean by traditional values? | |
| I think the religious construct is like, at least in my experience, I've witnessed a lot of people, even that I've grown up with, like very religious homes growing up around that. | |
| So I feel like monogamy has been kind of more inherent in that sense. | |
| Would you prefer a traditional relationship dynamic? | |
| Are you talking about chivalry? | |
| Is that what you're talking about? | |
| No. | |
| Traditional, as in like marriage and things of that. | |
| Okay. | |
| So do you want to see a return to traditional values or what are you going for? | |
| Or are you just no what? | |
| I don't necessarily want anything traditional. | |
| So okay. | |
| But in your notes, you write, I don't think modern dating has any of the traditional values we have witnessed within recent generations. | |
| So are you simply just making an observation? | |
| Yeah, that's just what I'm observing about. | |
| But you're not saying prescriptively we should go back to more traditional values. | |
| What about not for yourself? | |
| I'm not saying we should do anything at all. | |
| Everyone has their own things they do, and that's fine. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Do you think, do you want a guy to pay for first dates? | |
| Yeah, that's fine. | |
| No, I understand what you want. | |
| Like, okay, here. | |
| The guy paying entirely for the first date? | |
| No, let me ask it differently. | |
| You go on a date with a guy. | |
| He asked you out, and he's like, I don't know, it's a $100 dinner or something. | |
| And the waiter comes, and he's like, two checks, please. | |
| That's fine. | |
| No problem. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's fine. | |
| All right. | |
| I'm glad you're consistent, I guess. | |
| Thanks. | |
| Thumbs up. | |
| Cool. | |
| All right. | |
| And then finally, our girl, Bailey. | |
| Save the best for last, Bailey. | |
| You're a rapper. | |
| Wait, why do you keep bringing this up? | |
| Bro, you can't duck every question that's asked of you. | |
| Okay, so you can wear a freestyle finally. | |
| No, hell yeah. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Let's go ahead. | |
| No, you do. | |
| Why do you. | |
| Okay, actually, fuck it. | |
| I don't want to hear that shit. | |
| Yeah, we don't want to hear this. | |
| You're a stripper. | |
| Right now again, yes. | |
| Not when I was on last time. | |
| Oh, in my notes, it says stripper. | |
| So you used to be a stripper. | |
| No, I am right now. | |
| I'm saying I wasn't one. | |
| No, but you last time you at the moment you weren't stripping, but you used to be a stripper. | |
| So it's like. | |
| I used to do drums. | |
| I still do what I used to do. | |
| Used to do. | |
| Okay. | |
| And I think you described yourself as a godly girl. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because God is balanced. | |
| Masculine, feminine, dark, light, bad, good, feminine, masculine. | |
| I mean, not feminine, masculine. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Because God. | |
| God is everything. | |
| So if there's bad that exists, that means God is part bad. | |
| No. | |
| But the Lord is just half of God, really. | |
| By bad, do you mean evil? | |
| I mean, it can get to that, but. | |
| Some people don't take the Bible in a completely literal sense either. | |
| I think to clarify, are you Christian? | |
| I also just, for me, I intuitively listen to my soul about what's true from each religion, so I just follow all of them. | |
| Okay. | |
| And yeah. | |
| So she's not Christian. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And you have an OnlyFans, right? | |
| No. | |
| I thought. | |
| Didn't you have an OF? | |
| Have you ever had an OF? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| I don't know. | |
| She used to. | |
| Okay. | |
| But you're currently a stripper. | |
| I just got hired right now. | |
| So I can't be like, how do you reconcile being a stripper and godly girl? | |
| Okay. | |
| You said that, let's see. | |
| There's a lot. | |
| You write me paragraphs. | |
| No, this is the same. | |
| Okay, by the way, the first one was the same from last time. | |
| I just shortened it. | |
| I'm going to have Felicity read them for me. | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| I'll read it. | |
| No, no, I'll read it. | |
| I can't give you the, you want to get your- Because the last time the girl kind of butchered it. | |
| Wait, did you end up reading it last time? | |
| No, one of them. | |
| Were you on the show? | |
| Someone else read it. | |
| It was, what's his name? | |
| Chase's girlfriend. | |
| It wasn't so bad. | |
| She read one of them more normal. | |
| Alexa, it was Alexa. | |
| Oh, right. | |
| She was trying to read it. | |
| Okay, so do you have it in your brain? | |
| Do you want to just. | |
| Okay, go ahead. | |
| About which one? | |
| The last two are short, so you mean the first one? | |
| Yeah, we're just going to do all of them. | |
| Oh. | |
| Okay, so the first one was crazy dating experiences. | |
| We're like, right? | |
| I think we just got to read these verbatim, otherwise it's going to take forever. | |
| Do you want to get your phone and just read it? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I'll just loose the details. | |
| It's off the top of your dome. | |
| I'm not going to say all of it. | |
| I'm going to give me a concise paragraph off the top of the dome. | |
| Yes. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Okay, so I was saying for me, when I was in relationships or I guess friendships, that were, I guess, considered situationships, because yeah, the reason why I knew I was supposed to be with them was for like very obvious spiritual reasons. | |
| So, and they were really intense and crazy. | |
| Like people having tattoos for me or like that have to do with where I lived and it's like okay. | |
| But just because they had that doesn't mean they were like a forever soulmate or twin flame. | |
| It just meant that I was supposed to be with them for a period of time. | |
| A lot of them are karmics. | |
| So a lot of the people that I wrote about like having tattoos for me and all these things, they were karmic. | |
| I'm just gonna have Felicity read the notes and then yeah, you could just read it. | |
| Yeah, let me just move my mic, okay. | |
| So one way I know I'm supposed to date someone or be in a friends with benefits relationship with them before I do is seeing things that involve their physical appearance, but also what's spiritually happening. | |
| That involves that as well. | |
| So, for instance, the last guy I was in a friends with benefits relationship with, he has tattoos that match the murals outside of where I currently live. | |
| He even got one of these tattoos that was dedicated to me literally right before we started to hang out hang out more often. | |
| He also has tattoos of some of my favorite music artists and some of my favorite famous figures of all time. | |
| He even has tattoos from some of my favorite movies of all time or favorite movie characters as well. | |
| He also lives near me and the name he goes by has to do with who I am as well. | |
| So, like stuff like that happening where, like I knew I was supposed to be with them for synchronicity like yeah, synchronicities like at least five, even though a lot of them were karmics, I just I had to be with them more romantically to learn or to go through karmic. | |
| Yeah, and what's the difference between someone that's not a karmic and someone that is? | |
| You don't know until later on. | |
| Okay uh, Felicity. | |
| Do you want to read the next one? | |
| Oh gosh. | |
| Then before I ran into a guy who looked very similar to my one and only twin, twin flame Drake, aka Aubrey Graham. | |
| He told me to call him Cam and he is a lifeguard at a beach in Chicago, and at the time the New Barbie movie was my favorite movie. | |
| So to me, this was a huge sign. | |
| This guy I was in a situationship with for half a year, he was also. | |
| He also had tattoos for me as well, but just one that I remember. | |
| When I say of me, I mean who I was in my past life, or a famous movie, tv character that I am real life muse for. | |
| Yeah, so Drake is your twin flame. | |
| Yes, have you dated? | |
| Have you smashed? | |
| This came up, but no hello, damn. | |
| I'm sorry that you and Drake haven't been able to link up yet. | |
| All right, let's no, we linked up, but Oh, wait, what? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Oh. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| No, like, we've, like, hung out a few places. | |
| You and Drake have hung out. | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| Like, Drake. | |
| I kind of believe you. | |
| Drake, like, the rapper. | |
| I know his friends. | |
| I actually met his friends first. | |
| I met all of his friends first. | |
| That was crazy. | |
| Wait, so you didn't smash, though? | |
| No. | |
| Darn. | |
| You were hanging out with Drake and he just wasn't feeling it? | |
| How old were you? | |
| It was just really intense. | |
| I was also younger. | |
| I was 21 when we met, I think. | |
| Does he know you guys are twin flames? | |
| I was about to ask. | |
| I think he does now, yeah. | |
| But at first. | |
| When's the last time you talked to him? | |
| A while ago. | |
| If you guys know. | |
| Not in the dream world, the spiritual world. | |
| We have a lot, but physically, it's been a while. | |
| But I talked to his friends a little bit. | |
| In the dream world? | |
| Did anyone else catch that? | |
| Have you met him first? | |
| He has a dream together or something? | |
| I know he has dreams about me. | |
| I have dreams about him. | |
| Has he told you he has dreams about you? | |
| Astral pretenders. | |
| No, but I'm not. | |
| Astro world. | |
| I know. | |
| Okay, I talked to his friend a few days ago. | |
| What's a twin flame? | |
| Okay, so yeah, that's what I wrote about. | |
| You should watch a wonderful documentary. | |
| Yeah, there's soulmate lovers. | |
| There's Karmics, and there's like twin flame relationships. | |
| Those are like the main three. | |
| Can you be twin flame towards somebody, but they're not twin flame towards you? | |
| Or you both are twin flames. | |
| You both are. | |
| Can you be a twin flame with somebody and not be attracted to them? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like they're, oh my god, this is a family. | |
| I mean, the runner chase dynamic is always going to be a thing in that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| There might be points where I'm not attracted to what he's doing. | |
| You were twin flames, but he just wasn't feeling it. | |
| No, that's not what happened. | |
| getting he wasn't into it no it was more so like it's giving it's giving it's giving No, no, no. | |
| What happened was actually way more fucked up. | |
| I don't really want to go into detail, but like he was being told lies about me and actually was told to do bad things to me before he even realized he was my twin flame. | |
| So it was really a complicated situation. | |
| Yeah, it was really complicated. | |
| It was really complicated. | |
| Very. | |
| This is not helping his case at all. | |
| Oh. | |
| Let's call him. | |
| But to his defense, like he didn't know we were twin flames and he didn't know. | |
| He also in his defense. | |
| Does he know now? | |
| I do think he does know now, yeah. | |
| I think he's known at least for a few months now. | |
| But you said you haven't talked to him in like a year or something, right? | |
| A while. | |
| What's a while? | |
| It's a while. | |
| Years? | |
| Years? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I've talked to his friends. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| I talked to his friends more recently. | |
| I don't even know if he knows this, but I think he does. | |
| Apparently he's got quite a hammer. | |
| He's got a fucking hammer. | |
| I've seen the video. | |
| Oh, by the way, let me clarify some things. | |
| You don't actually have to marry your twin flame or... | |
| It's a hard relationship to have. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, you don't have to marry them. | |
| How many twin flames does Drake have? | |
| I feel like he has a lot of them. | |
| One. | |
| No, you can only have one. | |
| He's not a soulmate lovers. | |
| He's had a lot of soulmate lovers, yeah. | |
| Soulmate lovers? | |
| The fuck is that? | |
| You can have multiple soulmates, but you can't have multiple twin flames. | |
| Yeah. | |
| There's only one twin flame. | |
| The purpose of it is to deal with people spiritually. | |
| Yeah, faster because they have a higher calling in whatever life that they have a twin flame. | |
| What's your higher calling? | |
| And is it when you're in the, is it, is it on the, like in front at the strip club or is it? | |
| No, the reason why I strip is because of constant sicknesses that I can't work in normal jobs. | |
| Wait, you strip because you're sick. | |
| Yeah, a lot. | |
| A lot. | |
| That doesn't make sense. | |
| Because it's a job that you can have where if you're sick, you can miss like a month and still have the job and still keep it also. | |
| You meet him at the stream. | |
| You could be like an Uber. | |
| You could do research. | |
| Oh, no, I also do DoorDash too. | |
| Oh, you do? | |
| Okay. | |
| I do all the jobs. | |
| And I do reselling. | |
| All the jobs that you can work that aren't like nine to five, I do. | |
| So I also do reselling, DoorDash, dancing. | |
| I told you last time, remember? | |
| I love that for you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's great. | |
| I just started dancing. | |
| Do you ever do deliveries to the strip club and you see the girl? | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| No, but there was one time I did right near one of them, but nah. | |
| Would that be awkward if like some girl? | |
| Some girl ordered like a bird. | |
| That would be awesome. | |
| Or not, not she ordered like a pregnancy test to the strip club because you can buy all kinds of things. | |
| I mean, better be me than someone else because someone else would be definitely judging. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| What if a girl orders some like crazy, like a bean and cheese burrito and you're like, fuck, I don't want that shift. | |
| Like she just gets some crazy, like she's going to be farting back there in the locker room as a strip club. | |
| Would you date somebody else knowing he's your twin flame? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| No, I have after. | |
| I actually dated a sexual relationship with a man who's not your twin flame. | |
| No, dating, yes. | |
| I've also dated someone with a twin flame as well. | |
| I dated someone with a twin flame as well, and I'm dating. | |
| What's the point of dating? | |
| Are you allowed cosmically to not end up with your twin flame? | |
| Yeah, yes. | |
| Like the cosmic universe will allow you to not be with your twin flame. | |
| How do you know if someone's your twin flame? | |
| Why would you not be with your twin flame, though? | |
| Because it's a very hard. | |
| It's complicated. | |
| It has to look like relationships. | |
| Parties have to kind of be the same level. | |
| And if one's up here, one's down, or one's that you don't agree, then why get married? | |
| How do you know if someone's your twin flame? | |
| Okay, so can two people with herpes probably be twin flames? | |
| It's pecked out, it cancels itself out. | |
| You know, because of the burning sensation. | |
| Because flame. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That was great. | |
| You tried. | |
| You tried. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait, wait, yeah. | |
| Wait, I want to answer her question. | |
| So, not everybody has a twin flame, and the easiest ways to tell, for me anyway, it was a lot. | |
| It was so many things. | |
| So, so many. | |
| But so many synchronicities to where it's like, okay, I dream about him more than everybody. | |
| We're one zodiac sign away from each other, one, both Chinese and regular. | |
| Our first and last names are one letter away from each other in the alphabet. | |
| So his starts with A, mine's B, and our names Rhyme, Aubrey, Bailey. | |
| And then his is Greyham, mine's Hammer. | |
| And our names are similar, but G and H, one letter away. | |
| See how it's all one away? | |
| So that's one weird thing. | |
| And then we're also born, he was born in one country away from me as well. | |
| So a lot of synchronicities like that will happen inside. | |
| It sounds like it's all one away. | |
| I think there's honest shit. | |
| And then, for instance, my ex, he also has a twin flame. | |
| All these fucking connections. | |
| But yeah, then our sounds are like, what is so much? | |
| It's just like a psychological phenomenon where you're like seeing patterns. | |
| What's the term for that, though? | |
| Schizophrenia? | |
| Could be. | |
| I mean, yeah, but if it's happening, it's happening physically. | |
| So for you to deny it, you're schizophrenic. | |
| Like, it'd be like, whoa, the back of my iPhone is black, and I'm dating a black person. | |
| Are you just like, oh my god, it's fake. | |
| But the things I'm saying. | |
| She's your twin flame. | |
| No, but yeah, the things I'm saying are physical truths. | |
| So if you were to deny or go against it, you're the one that's schizophrenic. | |
| Yeah, but can you find patterns and all kinds of shit? | |
| Yeah, but it's like undeniable. | |
| She's white. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| How far off is that from numerology? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Oh yeah, we also have the same, like, one of the same main numbers too when it comes to numerology. | |
| Some numerology. | |
| Numerology. | |
| So would you live your life according to whatever matches the numerology or whatever you're going? | |
| I actually didn't even look at mine. | |
| I don't really care too much about numerology. | |
| I know a lot of it lines up. | |
| Do you hold that crystal in your hand while you're telling us about this? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Hold it. | |
| Yep. | |
| No, don't know. | |
| No, you're not right there. | |
| No, just one hand, one-handed. | |
| What? | |
| Other hand. | |
| No double fists. | |
| Other handed. | |
| Yeah, right. | |
| In the other hand, there you go. | |
| Keep it. | |
| Yep. | |
| Okay. | |
| Tell us about your, I don't know, whatever it is you're talking about. | |
| Well, because you think it's true, right? | |
| Whatever you're. | |
| Because I'm not too familiar with it. | |
| That's why I'm questioning. | |
| But if you think it's true, why wouldn't you live your life according to trying to find that pattern and only adhere to that pattern? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Numerology does benefit. | |
| Yeah, it does benefit. | |
| I don't know if that crystal, by the way. | |
| I actually can a little bit. | |
| Yeah, do you feel? | |
| Is it good? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is it fake? | |
| No, I think that's what I'm saying. | |
| You know what they say about that pink crystal? | |
| It imbues it's rose cords. | |
| It's self-love. | |
| I can't think of anything else. | |
| Self-love. | |
| Yeah, pink. | |
| Self-love. | |
| Because something like numerology, you'd be able to predict specific features, right? | |
| Specific things that happen in the future? | |
| Probably, but not like exact, exact. | |
| They say roughly if you have this life path number, it'd be best to work these type of jobs. | |
| But it's really exact, I guess. | |
| Is that what you were talking about? | |
| No, I was just talking about how just all these things that just shows that we are just connected. | |
| That's more like, I guess, astrology in a sense. | |
| I feel like a lot of people take more into account of astrology and planet alignment. | |
| It was just everything, though. | |
| Not even that, just everything. | |
| Both of our parents were separated. | |
| We both have this connection with owls, rabbits. | |
| It's just so many things. | |
| It was just in every aspect. | |
| But I think. | |
| Same number, same favorite number. | |
| We both have the same favorite number. | |
| Oh, because what you do, though, is you presuppose that that thing that you're following is true, and then the way you view the world is exactly through that lens. | |
| I mean, so you're going to always find those patterns. | |
| I mean, yeah, it is true. | |
| He is my twin flames. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Can I ask you a question? | |
| How did you feel about the Super Bowl? | |
| Kendrick sold his soul, so he's a puppet as well. | |
| People don't know because he makes it really hard to tell that he is. | |
| But is it true, like the allegations against Drake? | |
| Okay, so I don't know if what he's done under. | |
| Okay, actually, it's kind of cool. | |
| We brought this up. | |
| I don't know what he's done in the dark, but when it comes to all these other outer allegations, if you look at all the girls, what did they have in common? | |
| They're similar to me. | |
| That's why he was just making sure they weren't me. | |
| Or, no, like Billie Eilish, me and her have. | |
| Did he date Billy? | |
| I don't know. | |
| He talked to her. | |
| So the thing with me and her is that she's a really old soul like me. | |
| So, and then her name. | |
| What? | |
| How old is your soul? | |
| I don't know. | |
| We've had past life. | |
| Like, haven't you been reincarnated and shit? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, whoops. | |
| Do you tell guys this when you go on dates with them? | |
| Of course. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do they go on second dates? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Damn. | |
| The guy I'm with now, I told him everything, literally everything. | |
| How's he feel about you having a different twin flame? | |
| Yeah. | |
| He doesn't care because he knows too, like, it doesn't mean that you have to be married to them. | |
| It's just a different type of thing. | |
| But if Drake hit you up right now on the podcast, like, let's say he sent a super chat and he was like, yo, I miss you, boo. | |
| Let's kick it. | |
| On the way. | |
| Let's have sexual intercourse. | |
| On the way. | |
| Would you have to do that? | |
| You wouldn't need to be your twin? | |
| It's your twin flame. | |
| Yeah, but he's we're not at the same, like, we don't have the same values right now and same frequency. | |
| So I wonder if Drake doesn't have the same values? | |
| No. | |
| So he needs to start stripping, is what you're telling me? | |
| No, he would just need to. | |
| Yeah, he just. | |
| What does he need to do? | |
| Tell us. | |
| I mean, he wants to, he doesn't want to get married. | |
| He wants to be with a lot of girls. | |
| What if he DM'd the podcast right now? | |
| He sends in a champagne pop because he's champagne poppy. | |
| We have some. | |
| By the way, let's go. | |
| We have Crystal in the studio. | |
| It's one Ethereum, if you want to pop a ball of Crystal, which is an all-time, what is the Ethereum price right now? | |
| Ethereum prize. | |
| God damn, that's terrible. | |
| Okay. | |
| It's like 1800, 1880 for Ethereum. | |
| So it's not, it's a little less than double of a regular champagne pop. | |
| If Drake through Streamlabs or through an Ethereum drops a ball of champagne and he's like, Boo, I'm going to marry you. | |
| I'll be with you for life. | |
| There won't be any other chicks right now. | |
| Maybe once a year. | |
| What would I say? | |
| Would you break up with your whatever it is you have? | |
| No. | |
| Wait, so is every decision you make based off an intuition that you feel like there's something internally that's telling you to make a specific action? | |
| I mean, yeah. | |
| So there's no justification behind it. | |
| It's just appealing. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What if you get a feeling that you want to like off somebody? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What the? | |
| Like, what if you're feeling like disagreed with maybe thinking on what you follow moral compass? | |
| What if you get a feeling that you want to turn to Frankie right now and just beat the doctor? | |
| Yeah, I'm not a violent way. | |
| Wait, not in a sexuality. | |
| Sound insexuality. | |
| Like, if you wanted to, I don't know. | |
| I mean, luckily for me, I never have thoughts like that. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know things. | |
| Tell us how you really feel. | |
| My interest. | |
| About Frankie. | |
| But Frankie's been kind of looking at you. | |
| She's giving you side eyes. | |
| She's been talking shit. | |
| When she went back there, she was like, man, fuck this. | |
| I mean, she told me that. | |
| I have good judgment. | |
| So, and obviously every thought is not my, like, my soul. | |
| Yeah, sometimes other entities can attach to you too. | |
| So. | |
| How do you know that, though? | |
| Because it happens to everybody. | |
| There's like a like the movie Soul kind of goes off on this and a few others, like animes, where if you're like in a more sad state, it's just easier for outside beings, humans, and other beings in other dimensions to influence you and give you ideas that aren't yours and thoughts. | |
| Now, how do you know the difference? | |
| You've never had a thought where it's like, that's not. | |
| Yeah, it's like if you never really think like that most of the time and you are like randomly every one, like rarely, then yeah. | |
| Do you know what epistemology is? | |
| No. | |
| It's how do you know what you know? | |
| The epistles. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So how do you come to a conclusion from a logical standpoint that that thing that you're following is true versus just a feeling? | |
| Yeah, so for me, it's just like every aspect of my life, everything that I believe, I've seen it in every single way. | |
| Numbers, colors. | |
| Right, but how much of that is the preconceived notion that that's true versus the reality? | |
| I mean, you guys follow religion where it's all just what you hear. | |
| Right. | |
| Right, but I would have an epistemic foundation to justify more so. | |
| Yeah, the proof is more so. | |
| Like, what I'm saying actually makes more sense for me to believe what I believe and follow than most people's beliefs because they're going off. | |
| There's tangible evidence that Jesus existed. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I know Jesus existed, and I know, I believe a lot of what's in the Bible. | |
| I also believe a lot of it was taken out, and some of it was manipulated. | |
| So here, wait, hold on, I'll let the chats come through. | |
| Mary Magdalene's book was taken out. | |
| I got three chats coming. | |
| This is what tism looks like in women. | |
| Are you, have you been diagnosed or anything? | |
| With what? | |
| Tism. | |
| The tism. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I actually do have autism. | |
| I have a form because I like to make my connection. | |
| I noticed a lot of autistic people, we kind of like make connections to like a lot of movies and things, but it's not that it's not true. | |
| It's just we see things a little bit differently. | |
| That's all. | |
| Everyone happens differently. | |
| I just want to say that's not what autism looks like in all my mindsets. | |
| No, I'm saying this happens. | |
| And then I have. | |
| I have to my Ethernorm's bisexual friend Frankie Bones. | |
| Frankie Bones. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| For now. | |
| She says these bitches don't know a twin flame. | |
| Frankie Bones? | |
| Is that your nickname now? | |
| Why am I Amanda, though? | |
| Frankie Bones. | |
| Crazy thing, my twin flame relationship is the easiest to see. | |
| So if they think about it. | |
| Wait, do you have braces? | |
| Yeah, I do. | |
| Do you get like weird shit from guys about that? | |
| Uh-huh. | |
| I really don't talk to men. | |
| Can you smile into this smile so we can see the braces? | |
| There it is. | |
| Okay. | |
| Frankie Bones. | |
| That's a cool name. | |
| All right. | |
| We have. | |
| Wait, chair one. | |
| Wait, did the chair this one come through? | |
| Drake donated $30. | |
| Chair one. | |
| I missed it. | |
| That's funny. | |
| Let's kick it. | |
| Let's have some kind of intercourse. | |
| No, you got a Drake. | |
| That is so good. | |
| I think that is actually Aubrey's and the British donated $30. | |
| The dye has reached the brain. | |
| The pink has entered the gray matter and completed fucked it up. | |
| You are welcome on my plane as long as you don't talk. | |
| Oh, this is Clay. | |
| Wait, Clayton, you've got to pay a SIM tax if you're going to SIM. | |
| ...scam donated $29.99. | |
| No. | |
| Chair one. | |
| Twin flame is a known scam where they tell Delulu women. | |
| Not because not everybody has one. | |
| So it's not a scam. | |
| Claim, were you? | |
| Who was the guy who was simping for Priscilla? | |
| Was that Clain? | |
| Kablask. | |
| Oh, Kablask was. | |
| Okay. | |
| Kablask, Clain. | |
| Look, actually, Bailey is a cool chick. | |
| She's a little, but she's a cool chick, right? | |
| So, Clain, the syntax is: I'll get you set up on a date with Bailey, but you got to do a champagne pop here at the end of the show, and I'll set you up with Bailey. | |
| Okay, sorry, you had something you wanted to ask? | |
| My question was: do you think this truth is for everyone? | |
| Was that what you were saying? | |
| It's true? | |
| Like, it's the truth? | |
| I mean, I think a lot of people take either the red pill or the blue pill, but there is a universal truth and like an overall truth. | |
| And I don't think any, no one's really all wrong. | |
| It's just a different way to view things. | |
| Well, if you believe one truth, then obviously people could be wrong, right? | |
| Because it could be going against the I mean, kind of. | |
| So let's say that there's not a your truth and my truth, it's just the truth. | |
| Yeah, I mean, you can have an opinion. | |
| It can be the truth to you, but it's too much. | |
| What happens if Jeffrey Dahmer had the same truth as she did? | |
| But he had to do that. | |
| Because he felt because he felt, oh, he felt like he wanted to do those things, so it's okay because it's a good idea. | |
| He had a feeling that it's good. | |
| What I would look at is these are feelings. | |
| This has nothing to do with almost anything. | |
| I think there are people who have certain experiences. | |
| Maybe that were in the middle of the world. | |
| No, but there's no epistemic foundation for you to feel. | |
| Yeah, everything I'm saying is. | |
| There's no epistemic foundation for you. | |
| Everything I just said was physical and spiritual. | |
| You can see it both. | |
| Yeah, because you have a preconceived notion of what is true. | |
| With no. | |
| I wasn't born thinking, oh, or knowing this is true. | |
| Yeah, how would you define truth? | |
| I mean, there's one universal truth, but a lot of people like to focus on one end or the other. | |
| You guys are more of like the, I guess, blue pill people, kind of. | |
| And then there's no, but when you say universal truth, like you're saying that universal. | |
| There's both pills, but you guys would be like more the blue pill. | |
| But really, it's both, but you just have to balance. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, truth can't be attached to the universe. | |
| The universe is changing. | |
| The universe has limited. | |
| That's also true. | |
| There's also ever-changing, but there's also set truth as well. | |
| Yeah, I'm talking about absolute truth. | |
| The absolute foundation, the ultimate. | |
| Yes. | |
| The invariant truth. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So how do you discover that? | |
| I mean, you just really have to want it spiritually and physically. | |
| So how do you know it's the truth then, though? | |
| If you just, if I want the truth and something off the head, I guess a lot of it is just the truth, intuition. | |
| But so for instance, let's see. | |
| So it changes based on your faith. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| It doesn't. | |
| The truth doesn't change based on your feeling. | |
| What you focus on. | |
| Intuition is a feeling. | |
| Do you see how it's almost like contradictory in a way? | |
| It's arbitrary. | |
| No. | |
| I mean, what we claim to be true has claimed to be the absolute truth, which is in Jesus, right? | |
| So there's no, and it's evidence in his death and his resurrection and in people being healed only in Jesus' name, not by feelings, not by. | |
| Did you know Jesus personally? | |
| Yes. | |
| Synchronicities are more true than what you guys are saying because this book has been passed down. | |
| It wasn't written by Jesus himself. | |
| Who was it written by? | |
| His friends, one betrayed by over 500 people. | |
| KJB is a very good person. | |
| They also took out a lot of the translation that would be an internal critique of Christianity. | |
| You have to represent it, right? | |
| So the view from Christianity is that it was God-written or God-breathed, but written by men. | |
| But everything is God. | |
| So why would a man write a book that would almost contradict every man's desire to have comfort? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Comfort. | |
| So a man has to sleep with one woman marrying her be man because man's nature is to sleep to confuse multiple women. | |
| But why would a man write a book saying I'm going to stay faithful to one woman basic instructions before leaving earth? | |
| It's because it's the absolute truth. | |
| Because God wrote and breathed that book. | |
| The word became flesh. | |
| Well, the way I would see Christianity is not, like you said, that like the books are passed down or whatever you want to say. | |
| At the end of the day, you don't have access to truth from your worldview. | |
| So if you deny Christianity, it's the impossibility of the contrary. | |
| Meaning you cannot justify or know what truth is without Christianity. | |
| So for example, when you say the universe has truth, the universe is physical. | |
| The universe has a specific time that it was created by. | |
| When we think about it. | |
| It's not only physical. | |
| Well, that's what I would question that from an epistemic foundation. | |
| How do you justify the immaterial from your worldview? | |
| I mean, some of it is just, it's always going to be. | |
| But it can't be attached. | |
| The reason the Christian God is true is because he's a personal being. | |
| So he has a mind, and the truth transcends from his mind into us. | |
| I thought you said Jesus is not God and his father is God. | |
| It's trinity. | |
| Jesus is God in flesh form. | |
| Like, personally, there's been times where I've asked for a sign or a synchronicity to confirm what I'm feeling, and it has been the most tangible thing. | |
| Like, it can't be true. | |
| What if that's God? | |
| Have you asked personally, Jesus, reveal yourself? | |
| Are you real? | |
| Like, has that? | |
| Jesus was real. | |
| Are you a Christian? | |
| I used to be. | |
| So you're not Christian. | |
| Jesus was a non-denominational Pentecostal. | |
| So then that doesn't apply to you because not everyone knows Christian. | |
| So you're correct when you're not. | |
| We're spiritual beings, right? | |
| But when we, there's good and evil. | |
| So the enemy, the devil, likes to create himself into a way that seems like truth, but he mixes up the truth. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Right? | |
| So he confuses it. | |
| And what you were exclaiming to, not to come off as rude, but it's kind of coming off as you're confused. | |
| If this is the twin flame or is this? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I was just too sure. | |
| It's actually a bigger problem than that, though. | |
| Yeah, the whole Catholic religion was infiltrated by Satan. | |
| So no, no, no, but you don't have access to that because evil is true. | |
| But I do. | |
| I do. | |
| No, I'll tell you why. | |
| Evil itself doesn't have ontology. | |
| Evil itself is a pervasion of good. | |
| So like if you look at a donut and you look at the donut hole, does the donut hole exist without the donut? | |
| I want to tell you. | |
| Technically, it doesn't. | |
| It's just a purvas of something. | |
| So if you get rid of the donut, you get rid of the whole. | |
| Or darkness is the absence of light. | |
| Quiet is the absence of sound. | |
| That's the same thing with evil. | |
| Evil itself doesn't have substance. | |
| So when you call something evil, when you say graphing is evil or estate is evil, you don't have access to that without an absolute standard of good that is unchanging, that is unvarying, invariant, and ultimate. | |
| Yeah, you're saying your truth. | |
| You're not saying the truth. | |
| I'm asking you. | |
| No, I'm saying the truth. | |
| No, I'm asking. | |
| No, because you aren't saying the truth. | |
| I'm saying the physical truth. | |
| Because the truth has to be connected to a mind. | |
| The universe doesn't have a mind. | |
| The universe is physical. | |
| It has a specific structure, uniformity of nature that God gave it, but it's not a mind itself. | |
| Well, that's just how you guys want it to be, but that's not necessarily true. | |
| No, because we actually, back then, we used to be more Back then. | |
| Way back when? | |
| Not logical. | |
| Oh, we have some chats coming up. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| I need to think of this. | |
| I need to think of a word. | |
| Hold on one second. | |
| $29.99. | |
| Chair 4 has a classic Habsburg chin. | |
| Clear sign of regressive genes and inbredding. | |
| Historical reference being the Habsburg family, which is noticeable worldwide effect in all races that inbred. | |
| Do you want to respond to the inbreeding accusations? | |
| Wild. | |
| Inbreeding? | |
| That's what that's he. | |
| I'm not saying that. | |
| That's what he's saying. | |
| I mean. | |
| Were you listening? | |
| It's not too hard to say. | |
| Like, I heard half of it. | |
| I didn't know it was. | |
| Here, I'll play it again just to give you a quick refresher. | |
| It was mean. | |
| Do I look like a girl? | |
| Demon Slayer donated $29.99. | |
| Does she? | |
| Chair 4 has a classic chin. | |
| No, she doesn't. | |
| Clear sign of regressive genes. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| Wait, I have a. | |
| Historical reference being the Habsburg. | |
| Do I look like a inbred? | |
| Wait, first off. | |
| We need to film a picture of this. | |
| I'll show you a picture of a Habsburg chin. | |
| She definitely does not have a Habsburg. | |
| I actually have a funny story. | |
| I dated a girl. | |
| Sorry, I shouldn't say I dated. | |
| I went on a singular date with a woman who I think was inbred. | |
| Oh? | |
| I don't. | |
| I didn't DNA test her. | |
| What gave you that? | |
| I didn't get the angling. | |
| What gave you that angling? | |
| Have you ever seen somebody and you're like, they have a higher proportion of Neanderthal DNA? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I was like, she's inbred. | |
| What's up? | |
| Her show. | |
| What's Habsburg? | |
| There were some royals that were there. | |
| Wait, pull up a picture now. | |
| Did she have the eyebrow? | |
| I'm trying to find it. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Here, Blake, I'm going to send you this shit in. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Where is it? | |
| I'm going to send you this in private. | |
| Yo, cat. | |
| Oh, my goodness. | |
| Cat, think of the gifted 50 memberships on YouTube. | |
| Cat, you're fucking legend and a skull. | |
| The Habsburgs were the joy, the German girls, right? | |
| Wait, let me just check it before you pull this shit up. | |
| Make sure it's copacetic. | |
| All right. | |
| Open and open. | |
| Right-click that shit. | |
| Open image and new tab. | |
| Cole's enjoying this one. | |
| I don't know if that was Blake laughing. | |
| Blake, do you have that? | |
| Open image and new tab? | |
| All right, pull that shit up. | |
| This is a Habsburg jaw. | |
| Yeah, that's bro. | |
| She got the reverse. | |
| She got the reverse. | |
| What's that? | |
| Yeah, that's not that at all. | |
| I feel like I have like a jolly, but I feel like I have a tiny chin. | |
| Wait, question for the girls. | |
| Smash or pass. | |
| Pass. | |
| Frankie, smash or pass. | |
| I mean, I feel like there's a lot you could do with that chin. | |
| Look at this fucking chin. | |
| Yeah, like is it going in there? | |
| That definitely. | |
| You could ride the chin a little bit. | |
| Yeah, right? | |
| Like, damn. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| Okay. | |
| Would you pass? | |
| Sorry. | |
| Fucking pass, obviously. | |
| I feel just like it might. | |
| You should. | |
| It would be a good match. | |
| I know. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I feel like it's white people. | |
| We'd have little Habsburg babies. | |
| Look at this fucking legend. | |
| I think we have the same chin and jawline, right? | |
| What about you? | |
| Pass. | |
| You wouldn't, really? | |
| Really? | |
| Okay. | |
| I think that was my own pass. | |
| Pass. | |
| This is so. | |
| Easy. | |
| Would you have personality? | |
| Okay. | |
| Felicity. | |
| Really? | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I was on a date with this girl anyway. | |
| And I swear she looked just like. | |
| She had the Habsburg jaw? | |
| She did. | |
| Was she German? | |
| I think that was the German royal family. | |
| She was a white girl. | |
| Wait, did you ask her? | |
| I think German is still white. | |
| Oh, it was like a dating app, but she was hiding that shit, bruv. | |
| What do you mean she was hiding it? | |
| She was contouring and getting all the angles. | |
| Oh, look at the pictures. | |
| It was angles. | |
| It was certain angles, and then she hit it heavily filtered. | |
| Was it like a long, like you know what? | |
| She was late to the date. | |
| I've told the story a couple times on the show. | |
| She was late to the date, and I would have gone through with it. | |
| I would have done her a little favor, you know. | |
| So, okay, okay. | |
| It would have been the pity fuck. | |
| And so, I'm kidding. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| I'm joking around about the pity part, but I did go on the date with her. | |
| It's a pity date. | |
| You wouldn't actually pity fuck her. | |
| But she was 30 minutes late, and I'm like, What's that? | |
| Her chin showed up before she did. | |
| Her chin was early. | |
| But no, I was like, What the fuck? | |
| And she, here's the thing, though: if you give me a token apology, oh, pay. | |
| I'm sorry, I'm late. | |
| My bad. | |
| How's your day? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| I'm okay. | |
| But she was 30 minutes late to the date. | |
| And she didn't even say sorry. | |
| No, sorry. | |
| What'd she say? | |
| She just walked up and was like, Hi. | |
| I'm well, she was like, Hello. | |
| Like, no, I was kind of looking at her apology. | |
| 30 minutes passed. | |
| I would have already been gone. | |
| Were you already at? | |
| Were you guys going on a date to like a restaurant? | |
| No, it was just like to get a drink. | |
| Yes, you're that's what I'm saying. | |
| So you were okay. | |
| So you were sitting at the bar, like waiting for her, and she just like walked in like 30 minutes after. | |
| Like you were just sitting there by yourself, and it's like, yeah, I mean, I've been waiting here. | |
| I was just, yeah, obviously, but like, if I was like not doing something to distract myself, I at 15 minutes, I'm gonna leave. | |
| Like, well, yeah, but like, that's what I'm saying. | |
| Like, you were sitting there, I didn't really and she didn't even feel like any type of way about it. | |
| She was like, hey, I'm here now. | |
| Like, yeah, exactly. | |
| Didn't even acknowledge the fact. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And then because you invited her there as a first date as well, she thought it would have been a little bit more. | |
| Wait, what do you mean? | |
| You invited her to a bar. | |
| It was the first date. | |
| So I feel like. | |
| No, it was. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I feel like drinks is like a casual thing. | |
| It wasn't a bar. | |
| It was a cocktail line type shit. | |
| It was a lounge. | |
| Okay, that's true. | |
| It was a lounge. | |
| I feel like drinks for a first date is like fine. | |
| Cause like, I feel like if I go on a first date with a guy and like they ask me out dinner and I don't like them from the job, like if I just meet them, then I'm like, now I have to sit with you for two hours and now it's going to be weird. | |
| No, I think it's like if you want to get coffee or like yeah, like coffee, drinks, like something like that. | |
| Like, so like if I don't like you, I can leave like right after the first. | |
| Was it good? | |
| Was it a good date? | |
| Oh, well, so here's the head of that. | |
| Right. | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| So she doesn't apologize. | |
| So I was already upset by that. | |
| And then she, there's no apology. | |
| So I was upset. | |
| So I was like, okay, I'll just be very direct. | |
| So I was just like, she walks up, we bullshit, chit-chat for five minutes. | |
| I was kind of looking at her, like, where's the apology? | |
| Yeah, you're like, waiting for it. | |
| Is it going to come? | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I was like, all right, well, do you want to get out of here? | |
| Yo, I mean, full sin. | |
| Hail Mary. | |
| And then I said that knowing that there's a very low probability of. | |
| But I was like, okay, you're already over it. | |
| I was like, yeah, I was like, okay, here's how you can redeem it. | |
| Yeah, it's like, I'm already over it. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Yeah, so then she was like, can I get more? | |
| She's like, no. | |
| And I was like, okay, well, hey, it was nice meeting you. | |
| See ya. | |
| What were your plans? | |
| Are we just going to bag her? | |
| What do you mean, bag her? | |
| That was like the best case scenario. | |
| At that point, that would have been. | |
| I don't speak to you. | |
| No, like, put a bag over her head. | |
| Is your marketing to her? | |
| Was that attractive to you? | |
| I mean, she looked like that dude that was on the TV, so I doubt it. | |
| You could get off looking at a chin like that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, maybe she has a big lady or something. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I mean, yeah, she could. | |
| She could have an Audi. | |
| Who knows? | |
| I only date women with Audis. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Just kidding. | |
| They could have been the biggest ever. | |
| Mostly. | |
| I think you'd put up with a chin for that. | |
| Maybe. | |
| I wonder if inbred women are more likely to have maybe. | |
| That's what you need to start going for. | |
| Is that a woman? | |
| I feel like they're more likely to have anys, to be honest. | |
| I mean, I haven't any, so I guess I'm not an inbred. | |
| So I guess we're good. | |
| Well, don't get ahead of yourself, but I didn't say anything else. | |
| Awkward. | |
| Where's Bailey? | |
| Is she in the bathroom doing peyote or mescaline or some shit? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'll let some chats come through It's my girl over here Nicknamed Frankie She wants to know if the girl with the money pieces Is single My chat has gone off the rails. | |
| Not me anymore. | |
| Will she go back to natural hair? | |
| No, I like your honey. | |
| I've considered it. | |
| No, I like that. | |
| I want to go all blonde, though, maybe before I try to go back through it. | |
| I like this, though. | |
| I've had this hairstyle. | |
| Hey, Brian, Frankie says you look like a creeper. | |
| Definitely take the bear over you. | |
| Okay. | |
| We've had the bear conversation multiple times. | |
| She ain't the brightest. | |
| Probably good on your podcast. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| That's like a two-edged sword. | |
| There you go. | |
| Seth Marshall. | |
| Seth Marshall donated $29.99. | |
| That's a weird number. | |
| Brian, your podcast has changed my life. | |
| First time TTS here. | |
| Andrew Wilson FTW. | |
| See. | |
| Five good to see you. | |
| Oh my god, you're so dramatic. | |
| Yo, Felicity, can you put on the Maddie cap? | |
| Asking for a friend. | |
| Tilt it down. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Looks good. | |
| It's a good look. | |
| How do you make that look good? | |
| What's a good look for you? | |
| Brian, Maddie, she is no longer with us. | |
| Oh, that's a bummer. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What are we talking about? | |
| She's no longer with us. | |
| Rest in peace. | |
| She didn't die. | |
| She's just not working for the podcast. | |
| Oh, I have no idea who you're talking about. | |
| She didn't die. | |
| Oh, it's like someone that used us. | |
| I was like, well, she's dead. | |
| I was like, what is that? | |
| We got some coming through for you over there. | |
| Bacon donated $29.99. | |
| What is this? | |
| $29. | |
| Sit one, stop eating your leftover hair dye. | |
| You're a prime example of the crazy BS men have to deal with. | |
| Sitch four has a sidna slow thighs. | |
| Brian, you're the kitty's titties. | |
| Keep on keeping on. | |
| Kitty's titties. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Thank you, guys. | |
| Send chair one to Africa and she will be fixed. | |
| Some 304s need some time in a third world country. | |
| That's fucked up. | |
| If I go to Africa, they'll just... | |
| Mugabe. | |
| That's fucked up. | |
| I'll be the same, or maybe more awakened. | |
| I'm Dotte Psychic, and I just had a vision for chairs one through four. | |
| I see a gas station bathroom five years into the future. | |
| Yellow are there behind the glory hole that pays in ramen noodles. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Repent. | |
| Very good psychic. | |
| Josh donated $30. | |
| The atheist can't defend their worldview without borrowing from the Christian faith. | |
| He knows each of you by name. | |
| God is love. | |
| Know him and be free. | |
| I'm not an atheist. | |
| We're not atheists. | |
| Polytheistic. | |
| Chair seven and ten-tenths. | |
| Chair. | |
| Oh, that's you. | |
| You want to do a wait? | |
| You're a 10 out of 10. | |
| You're a 10 out of 10. | |
| Thank you. | |
| You want to do like a wink into. | |
| Oh, my. | |
| There you go. | |
| Yeah, look at the camera. | |
| That camera. | |
| Wait, is it this one? | |
| Oh, my gosh. | |
| I can't wait. | |
| No, I can wink. | |
| Wait, which one? | |
| Fuck. | |
| I'm screwing the right here. | |
| Wow. | |
| It was an attempt. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| An attempt was made. | |
| Okay, here, Felicity, I'm going to have you read the rest of the notes, and then that's pretty much the last thing. | |
| Wait for me? | |
| Yeah, for. | |
| Wait, one sec. | |
| Give me a sec, Felicity. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, wait, Drake, we didn't finish on Drake. | |
| Oh, my God, Dad has on Drink. | |
| I've been waiting for it. | |
| Okay, what do you want to know? | |
| You're like, I can't say that. | |
| Wait, did you smash? | |
| No. | |
| Why? | |
| Does he have an NDA? | |
| No. | |
| He doesn't. | |
| Wait, Drake doesn't make girls sign NDAs. | |
| Oh, he does, but not you, because you're just a twin flame. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Nah, it just never got like that. | |
| We never got that close. | |
| But he was your twin flame. | |
| Yeah, but that doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with him. | |
| It's just. | |
| Smash at least. | |
| How many times did y'all kick it? | |
| One, two. | |
| So Drake just keeps waving around to hang out and talk. | |
| He just wants to hear you talking about it. | |
| I mean, it was like the universe brought us together. | |
| It wasn't even him even trying to be. | |
| Actually, yeah, he wasn't trying to be in my life. | |
| It just kept happening naturally. | |
| Like, we wouldn't run into each other at red lights, like randomly, stuff like that. | |
| So. | |
| Guys, I accidentally spammed the wrong thing in chat. | |
| It's a $30 TTS. | |
| $30 TTS, my mistake. | |
| I'm cooked. | |
| My bad. | |
| So, Drake? | |
| I thought you didn't know Gen Z lingo. | |
| Cooked. | |
| That's funny as hell. | |
| Felicity's been rubbing off on me. | |
| She's been teaching me all these Gen Z terms. | |
| I love that stuff. | |
| Did I screw this? | |
| She's doing a great job. | |
| She's killing us. | |
| How did I? | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, you don't have anything more to share about Aubrey? | |
| Just like, how was it to say about all those girls that he's talking to, the younger ones? | |
| I found all these crazy connections, although it's still kind of, you know, I probably shouldn't have been talking. | |
| I just found all these connections with them and me that were like, whoa. | |
| I don't even know if he notices. | |
| For instance, Millie Bobby Brown and my connection, and me and Billy's connection. | |
| And then all the other girls that were younger had like the same initials as me or like the same zodiac sign. | |
| So it was like something like that. | |
| Yeah, like the same exact initials. | |
| Stuff like Bella Harris. | |
| So for instance, Bella Harris, B-H. | |
| I'm good. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| Drake just said it. | |
| He says, no, I'm good. | |
| No, it's not him. | |
| Anyways, no, so for instance, Bella Harris was one of the ones that was like supposedly younger people freaking out about her initials, B-H-B-H. | |
| I just started finding all these connections with these specific girls, and I'm like, wait, I wonder if his soul was like thinking it was them or if these are karmatic relationships of girls that are similar to me, but not quite me for him to like. | |
| And there's a reason why it's being publicized and brought to the public as well. | |
| Exactly. | |
| For your attention, in a way. | |
| Yeah, I could see that. | |
| It's beautiful. | |
| That's so beautiful. | |
| It's rare that you hear somebody talk about a twin flame like that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's really beautiful, sad, crazy. | |
| It's all the emotions. | |
| Especially mine because it's so public. | |
| $30. | |
| Chair 1 is clearly rartoarded. | |
| Chair 3, not modest turd lulu. | |
| Wipe off death, stankar, look off her face. | |
| Chair 4, said she.5. | |
| Bro, look like Pepe the Frog. | |
| You loud, shut up, chair five, Adderall, Lavinia. | |
| I look like Pepe the Frog. | |
| No, but I make it $30. | |
| Chair 6, Stop Crying, Cry Baby. | |
| Put out or get out. | |
| Chair 7, Commu 8. | |
| Bailey Farmers. | |
| Chair 9, keep her pimp hand strong and slaps these 304 next time. | |
| Chair 10, Trail Swift. | |
| Chair 11, Burrito Dump Truck Fatty. | |
| Oh, that's me. | |
| Okay, thank you. | |
| Trailer, Trailer Swift. | |
| Oh, Taylor Drift. | |
| Wait, can we pull up the video? | |
| Should we pull up the video? | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's okay. | |
| We don't have to pull it up. | |
| Don't be humble about it. | |
| Not my video. | |
| I know it was a joke. | |
| What was the. | |
| Wait. | |
| Explain the joke. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I really didn't know what you guys were talking about. | |
| I would love to. | |
| Demon Slayer, here, I accidentally sent that. | |
| So, question: if the equally attractive black man, brown man, and white man were attempting to date you, which would you choose? | |
| Going around the table. | |
| I guess I've leaned towards more black just because all my soulmates and my twin flame is. | |
| So, I guess. | |
| Okay. | |
| Probably white. | |
| Okay. | |
| I would go based off of personality and how they treat me then. | |
| You have to assume that they're all I would probably go with the black man. | |
| Okay. | |
| Just in previous experience as well. | |
| Previous, a couple previous experiences with white. | |
| What signs? | |
| I'm just going to say pass. | |
| I get one. | |
| I've never passed that question. | |
| That's my one. | |
| This is the one you choose. | |
| This is like the easiest one. | |
| It's just that it's online. | |
| I'm not going to deal with everyone saying you're racist. | |
| It doesn't make you racist. | |
| I know. | |
| Trust me. | |
| I know it doesn't. | |
| I'm just. | |
| This is my one. | |
| There should give everybody a free pass. | |
| Like, watch. | |
| I only date Australian Aboriginal. | |
| People already accuse me of being racist. | |
| I'm not going to go along with it. | |
| Okay, what about you, Kate? | |
| Prejudice. | |
| Probably the white guy. | |
| What? | |
| Sorry, one. | |
| White guy. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| There were three. | |
| There is. | |
| White. | |
| Black. | |
| Latino, I think. | |
| Brown. | |
| Black, brown, white. | |
| I think. | |
| He's like, fuck, I wish it was. | |
| Where's the Asian? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Brown. | |
| Okay. | |
| Latino. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, we got to do a segment. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Put it off me. | |
| We got to do a segment. | |
| We got to have everybody remove their makeup. | |
| But what I want to do is only take off half. | |
| So just do the half. | |
| If that's too difficult, I mean, I don't know. | |
| Take off only one half, okay? | |
| So I got two options. | |
| We got that. | |
| We got that. | |
| You guys have to do it. | |
| I did it last time. | |
| I did it last time, so I'm not going to get sent to Purgatory. | |
| I did it last time, and I have somewhere to go, so I can't think of it. | |
| Or hold. | |
| I want to see which one is. | |
| Where is Purgatory? | |
| What does that mean? | |
| That's why they do $30. | |
| I'm with Drake on this one. | |
| I'm good too. | |
| Whoa, okay. | |
| This one's a better one than that one. | |
| He can't choose. | |
| I'm just this twin flame. | |
| We were born in mirror. | |
| It's not like it's a choice. | |
| Can we just do our full face? | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Just do the full face. | |
| I guess it's. | |
| Yeah, I was going to say, like, I feel like it'd be weird just to have like. | |
| Too complicated. | |
| I mean, Pat, hey, we got to get, you got to take it off. | |
| No, I did last time, remember? | |
| Wait, it's. | |
| Why are you double-fisting the fucking flame? | |
| I know you're going to say that. | |
| I just feel like spiritual right now. | |
| Ground me. | |
| I wish I could help ground me. | |
| Can you fix your posture? | |
| You look like a goblin. | |
| I was sitting straight the whole time. | |
| Just like just relaxing. | |
| I do look like a troll. | |
| That's cute. | |
| No, goblins. | |
| Seth Marshall donated $30. | |
| I don't know. | |
| You guys have to do it. | |
| You guys got to do it. | |
| You have to. | |
| Chair 5, you will be based one day. | |
| I'm not scrubbing the mascara. | |
| I'm going to use this. | |
| Chair 5, you will be based one day. | |
| Me, what is that? | |
| Justin Martin's donated $30. | |
| It smells like butterflies. | |
| Hello, for coincidence. | |
| It's celebrity. | |
| Everyone knows that's the twin flame and not one of the other billions of randoms. | |
| Can I speak about this real quick? | |
| Okay, so actually, every other girl I met too, or guy that has a twin flame, one of us is famous and one is not. | |
| I'm not sure what that's about, but every single person that I met that has a real twin flame, one of us has been famous and one not. | |
| And I think eventually we both will. | |
| The other one's Kirkland. | |
| But yeah, it's usually like one is more spiritually famous and one is more physically famous first. | |
| Oh my god. | |
| Who the hell? | |
| Interesting. | |
| This is really interesting. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| I like it. | |
| Oh my god, it's horrible. | |
| That's beautiful. | |
| Wow. | |
| I only met four real twin flame groups though, so I guess we're rare. | |
| You guys gotta take, hey, take, take the, you gotta take the makeup off. | |
| I'll take my Parisa, Parisa. | |
| No, but I did last time. | |
| Please give me a pass. | |
| I did. | |
| I have somewhere to go. | |
| I just don't remember. | |
| You're gonna see Drake. | |
| No. | |
| Drake. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| You're not your Twin Flame. | |
| The Drake Jet. | |
| Do it. | |
| Come on. | |
| You gotta do it. | |
| It's part of the show. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I watched this show. | |
| You guys can do that. | |
| Yeah, we do it all the time. | |
| I just scrubbed it all off. | |
| I don't want to throw out the screen. | |
| Yeah, she's thirty. | |
| She can do it. | |
| You can do it. | |
| All right, start holding up the damp. | |
| Oh my god, got caught in your ear. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Hold up the damage. | |
| Let's see the damage from Frankie. | |
| Franken beans. | |
| I'm still working. | |
| She's still working. | |
| She's still working. | |
| I'm on my second one, actually. | |
| All right, hold up the damage. | |
| All right. | |
| Wow. | |
| Cute. | |
| They also look cute. | |
| Black guy wipes. | |
| A lot of confidence being wiped away at the moment. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sorry, that was pretty good. | |
| 100% of it. | |
| I did it. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| What's wrong? | |
| What did I not wipe off? | |
| With your eyes, you like tight lined yourself. | |
| I don't know what that means. | |
| But if it's not coming off, wait, my skin is like super sensitive. | |
| Oh, this is all my skin. | |
| No, I'm serious. | |
| I only use the energy. | |
| I wouldn't use anything because I use my own makeup whips tonight. | |
| Why are you like that? | |
| Yeah, I'm hooking you guys up. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I'm hooking it up. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, he needs like a q-tip for that. | |
| I'm burning this up. | |
| I use like the corner. | |
| It's burning. | |
| Pull it down. | |
| You do know that some starving child in like India mined the materials that are in the makeup that you guys just put on your face. | |
| That sucks for that. | |
| I appreciate them and I love them. | |
| Actually, it contributes to the local economy. | |
| You fucking racist. | |
| Oh. | |
| Well, hopefully, it's not actually. | |
| I mean, you said it. | |
| If it wasn't for the global beauty industry, these poor people. | |
| No, they're making most of this thing comfy. | |
| Let me know. | |
| They would probably have to research it anyway. | |
| Like in these so poetic. | |
| I love it. | |
| They're making most of these in big companies. | |
| Look, I'm just saying, Brian, you are going to win the Nobel Peace Prize. | |
| Look, if it wasn't for the makeup industry, there wouldn't be a bunch of like dead child laborers in some mine mining the bullshit that you guys put on your face. | |
| Most of this comes from animals, so they don't really need children to do that job. | |
| Yeah, you can. | |
| Okay, you're brutalizing poor little guinea pig or some shit. | |
| Yeah, but they do say, okay, we didn't treat them cruelly. | |
| Have you ever seen a porcupine? | |
| You know how cute those things are? | |
| There's a lot of makeup brands. | |
| They're slaughtering them so you can put shit on your face so diff so hotter guys want to fuck you. | |
| There's a lot of makeup brands that are like no animal cruelty. | |
| They usually use hobby options. | |
| That was a good one. | |
| Actually. | |
| Beetles. | |
| What? | |
| Apparently they use force too. | |
| Y'all got forced. | |
| Whale come is a big one too, I think. | |
| Or something like that. | |
| I think it's whale vomit. | |
| Oh, my bad. | |
| It's called Vomit Money. | |
| That's for cologne. | |
| Or perfume. | |
| Yes. | |
| The snail semen. | |
| Damn, y'all be putting crazy shit on your faces. | |
| Frankie's like. | |
| I didn't know that. | |
| I'm not. | |
| I'm rethinking my life for you. | |
| I am. | |
| Okay, I got some more chats coming through. | |
| Here, I'll let these come through. | |
| Vizu Boy donated $30. | |
| Brune scape greater than Wow. | |
| Man. | |
| Nah, Wow's great. | |
| Wow's awesome. | |
| You can't beat that. | |
| Hold on. | |
| I don't know what. | |
| Mercy donated $30. | |
| Chair 4, you look like you were drawn in the dark. | |
| Me? | |
| I'm chair four? | |
| That's fucked. | |
| Damn, that's crazy. | |
| I was drawn in the dark. | |
| I actually think you look better without makeup. | |
| I don't know if you like that, but you look beautiful. | |
| Yo, thank you, man. | |
| Damn, Brian, why are you paying in burritos? | |
| Dude, you're weird. | |
| A kid now enjoyed the show. | |
| Wait a psychic. | |
| Power the crystals. | |
| Boys, we got a live one. | |
| Claim donated $30. | |
| Welcome to the second picture on the AI agent we saw earlier. | |
| Damn. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| I like how Brian has his pinky out with that. | |
| Where else is it supposed to go? | |
| The cup's too small. | |
| Sips his tea. | |
| Yes. | |
| Cheers up, Pinky Tail. | |
| Okay, oh, we have another one. | |
| Trash Panda coming in here. | |
| Uh-oh. | |
| Trash Panda donated $30. | |
| Chair one proves women aren't real with each other. | |
| Any man with this level of delusional schizo prattle would get checked by his friends. | |
| Chair six, your shirt is fucking awesome. | |
| W shirt. | |
| So you just confirm that men. | |
| You just confirm most men are spiritually in tune. | |
| Trash Panda. | |
| Anybody want to lick a window for a $100 donation? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Me. | |
| Everybody. | |
| I'll do it. | |
| I'll lick a window. | |
| Goes to me, but okay, for a $100 donation, you get to pick one singular person and you could send in more. | |
| One singular person, if you want Felicity to lick a window, because we got, you know, there's a lot of accusations of window lickers here. | |
| If you want somebody to lick a window, $99. | |
| $99. | |
| And yeah, okay. | |
| They will lick a window. | |
| If I lick a window, can I get a free t-shirt? | |
| No. | |
| I will give you one of my empty water bottles. | |
| Aww. | |
| so charitable and you can you can put it on your can i can i put it on ebay maybe I was about to say, sell it on eBay. | |
| I don't want somebody harvesting my DNA. | |
| What if I put it on my nightstand and it goes to an altar that I have built to you? | |
| You're certainly the type of person that would have a definitely seen. | |
| You know the Hay Arnold where Helga made a shrine for Arnold, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I could get in. | |
| I kind of would, if I was dating a girl, I'd want her to have a shrine of me. | |
| I would find that attractive. | |
| You got to be real careful with that, though, because that's on the borderline of crazy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Where it's like, if they are that crazy, they could be the level of crazy that you don't want to deal with. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you have to be real careful there because a girl that's willing to do that, she's going to be a little crazy. | |
| Like attempts to me, you know, but then you've got to put up with the other stuff that comes along with that kind of crazy. | |
| If she's that into you, it's not just a shrine. | |
| It's like she's going to be getting jealous and stuff too. | |
| Yeah, she needs a shrine. | |
| If she won't find someone who will. | |
| But she's going to get jealous and she's going to be a pain. | |
| If she wanted to, she would. | |
| She wouldn't. | |
| If she wanted to, she would. | |
| Yeah, have standards. | |
| Scrolls out here. | |
| Used to be build shrines. | |
| Now they're just you've built a shrine for your boyfriend? | |
| Yeah. | |
| You just like collect his pubic hairs for that? | |
| No. | |
| How do you build it? | |
| I keep like things from like previous dates we've been on. | |
| I put it in like a box. | |
| Can you take a picture? | |
| That's cute. | |
| That's just like a keepsake box. | |
| Yeah, it's not like it's not a full shrine. | |
| I'm talking like a used Kleenex on the dresser with like knickknacks of there. | |
| You got some candles. | |
| You can pray in front of it each day and be like, you know, more about twin flames than anyone. | |
| Oh. | |
| Chair one. | |
| Drake is not your twin flames. | |
| Just because. | |
| No. | |
| Maybe it's Drake. | |
| Actually, you know what, though? | |
| Kanye? | |
| Seth Marshall donated $30. | |
| We have a connection. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Every single one of you that took off your cake looks better without makeup. | |
| Brian doesn't lie. | |
| Uh, thank you, Seth. | |
| And thank you, Kat, for the soup chat. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Justin Martin's donated $30. | |
| Chair 4 looks like current day Bonnie Tyler. | |
| Great singer, though. | |
| Who the fuck? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Who's Bonnie Tyler? | |
| Hi, Tyler. | |
| Who the fuck is that guy? | |
| Okay, Felicity, we need you to read. | |
| Let's see here. | |
| Starting here. | |
| After him, I had a friends with benefits relationship for half a year. | |
| For half a year who looks like LeBron and Curry combined. | |
| Wait, can we pull this? | |
| Yeah, and I am the real life Bugs Bunny. | |
| This relationship happened. | |
| This friendship happened for us to work together on getting better at basketball, but also for us to spiritually awaken to who we are more. | |
| And he was also a Libra like myself on top of that. | |
| So we also had that in common. | |
| One funny and cool thing about us two is that the first time we hung out, we both accurately described each other physically and spiritually. | |
| He goes, you look like Barbie, but then he also goes, I feel like you could be a superhero, but also the daughter to a villain as well. | |
| Which he Bailey, I'm so sorry, girl. | |
| I wrote this last time and I was rushing. | |
| I did it like midnight. | |
| I'm like, oh, I got to submit this. | |
| No worries. | |
| Which he didn't say exactly who I am, but he, but he described me perfectly. | |
| Then for him, I said, you look like LeBron and Curry combined. | |
| Before I really found out how invested into basketball he really is and that he has the face of LeBron and the body of Curry. | |
| Then later on, I found out that he is in between their heights and he plays like both of them combined as well. | |
| Just like all these synchronicities. | |
| That's what I was trying to say. | |
| Like with all my relationships or friendships that were more romantic. | |
| Yeah, I was always like stuff like that happening. | |
| Why LeBron and Curry specifically? | |
| He just looked like them. | |
| Like the face of LeBron and he just looks like Curry too. | |
| And he plays like both of them. | |
| By sign of the Real Life Bugs Bunny, if you watch the new one, and then you'll understand more. | |
| The new Matrix movie. | |
| Oh, that one was terrible. | |
| That was so bad. | |
| Yeah, but I do like that they show Bugs Bunny as a person, not just the star rabbit. | |
| You said you wanted to talk more about what a soulmate lover is. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| What a karmic soulmate lover is. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So what's a karmic soulmate lover? | |
| So I guess a soulmate lover could be twin flame and a karmic, but also it could just be a soulmate lover. | |
| Meaning, if you do find the one that doesn't end up being a karma lesson or twin flame, but that you end up marrying and you're with forever, that's soulmate lover. | |
| But a soulmate lover can turn into a karmic or always is and you don't know until later. | |
| Same with like a twin flame. | |
| Could be, yeah. | |
| Just those different. | |
| Karmic typically also teaches you something as well. | |
| Twin flames do progress you in your journey though. | |
| Yep. | |
| In a spiritual sense, I can't. | |
| Warm. | |
| Spiritual, physical. | |
| It's beautiful. | |
| Twin flames, all that. | |
| So beautiful. | |
| Love it. | |
| Crazy. | |
| Karmic. | |
| Did she even answer the question? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Collect all those. | |
| Let's get those collected. | |
| Put them in the cup. | |
| Put them in the cup. | |
| I just can't even stand to see that grace on my table. | |
| It's just. | |
| Oh, did you guys, did she take it off? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| There you go. | |
| I didn't do the holdup, but it's okay. | |
| All right. | |
| There's the before and after for everybody. | |
| All right. | |
| I guess a few last things here from Bailey. | |
| Then we're going to get this wrapped up. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Huh? | |
| You said that this is from. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Just tell me some crazy shit at this point. | |
| Yeah, the rest of it is pretty normal. | |
| And like, yeah. | |
| No, that's about it. | |
| I think I don't want to say too much. | |
| I don't want to say too much yet. | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| Wait, that was from last time. | |
| Don't read all that. | |
| Look at that. | |
| We already went over almost all that. | |
| Augustus Caesar. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Wait, wait. | |
| We already went over this. | |
| That's why I deleted it from the new one. | |
| So you said, wait, Abraham Lincoln. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Wait. | |
| Oh, that's right. | |
| I'm related to Abraham Lincoln. | |
| Wait, we need to talk about that. | |
| I guess. | |
| Really? | |
| Maybe you guys are. | |
| I've done my gloves were found in my house. | |
| That's awesome. | |
| So his relatives were gloves were found in my house. | |
| And this gloves that were found in my house were now immune to the music. | |
| There's a reason we twin. | |
| That's you guys shouldn't hang out after the show. | |
| We're both going to go into psychosis. | |
| It's fine. | |
| Sounds good. | |
| Balance grounding. | |
| But spiritual psychosis is scary as fuck. | |
| Wait, so okay. | |
| Just here, in a past life, you dated Abraham Lincoln. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| In this life, I found him. | |
| He reincarnated, and I found him. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| So in your current life, you dated the reincarnation of Abraham Lincoln. | |
| And for some reason, I'm like the psychic that usually I'm like telling. | |
| I don't even try to tell them. | |
| It's just like so many synchronicities and then so much. | |
| I'm like, I have to tell them, right? | |
| And my soul keeps telling me, tell them, tell them. | |
| So I tell them who they were in their past life because I guess they were meant to know at that time. | |
| Finally. | |
| And do they like a lot of times they freak out at first or they like kind of see so you're like a cautious records like that you've tapped into? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But also physically too because a lot of it's like you can easily see. | |
| So everything that what I do is I do physically and spiritually equally. | |
| So everything. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I'll have to see it and here I just have to have Felicia read this in your life. | |
| See it, feel it, and know it. | |
| All right. | |
| No, wait. | |
| That's my old thing. | |
| Yeah, it's okay. | |
| No, I don't want to read it. | |
| It's okay. | |
| There's a reason. | |
| Go, Felicity. | |
| No, please don't. | |
| No, I'm talking about it. | |
| Dude, quick, read quick. | |
| So many crazy and unique dating relationship stories. | |
| No, it's the same one. | |
| It's the same one. | |
| Relationships and stories. | |
| Haha. | |
| Okay, so one way I know I'm supposed to date someone or be friends with benefits relationships. | |
| Pretty soon before I do is seeing things that involve their physical appearance, but also what's spiritually happening that here, I'm going to skip to the intro. | |
| Okay, how can I just say we already went through everything now? | |
| And lastly, he is a Leo and I'm a Leo rising. | |
| So we also had that in common stuff like blah, You ran into a guy who looks very similar. | |
| Okay, blah, blah, blah. | |
| We already did all that. | |
| See? | |
| LeBron and Curry. | |
| We did that. | |
| I said you look like LeBron. | |
| Okay, the day we met was on a holiday. | |
| We blah, blah, blah. | |
| Oh, that was. | |
| That was Augustus. | |
| Okay, that's we could talk about that on this one, but we talked about it last one. | |
| That's why I took it out. | |
| I really. | |
| Okay, how about this? | |
| Okay. | |
| So starting, I knew his soul meant who. | |
| Wait. | |
| Wait. | |
| We talked about this last podcast. | |
| That's why I took it out for this one. | |
| Here, I guess start it. | |
| Start it here. | |
| Okay. | |
| Also, I can speak to the souls of the living and the dead. | |
| And one of the ways I can do this of a soul who is alive is while they're asleep near me and I am touching them and focusing. | |
| I can hear communication from within, or I tell the soul to have the person twitch or even sometimes sleep talk. | |
| But this case, it was me just hearing inside and his soul. | |
| His soul said, find out who I am for me. | |
| I knew his soul meant, I knew his soul meant who he was in his past life. | |
| So since then, I really started to focus and I figured out that he was in this new life on earth. | |
| Now my other ex now my other ex, I'm sorry, there's like a lot of relationships. | |
| I know. | |
| So I wrote this at like 4 a.m. | |
| There's no punctuation. | |
| I know. | |
| The only one I really completely found out who he was easily, it didn't take super long to find out who to find out he was Emperor Augustus either because in this life he changed his first name as did Emperor Augustus to King Augustus. | |
| Then when we went to the Getty Villa towards the end near the gift shop, there was a beautiful stone bust. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| Stone bust of Emperor Augustus? | |
| And he pointed it out. | |
| And that was. | |
| Here, wait, I could just say what happened. | |
| That's okay. | |
| And that was the only one. | |
| That was the only one he actually pointed at and said, look at this one. | |
| His soul got him to do that for me to see LOL. | |
| Then one time we watched a movie about a wife poisoning her husband, which is how Emperor Augustus died in his past life. | |
| And my ex at the end of the movie goes, You won't ever try to kill me by poisoning me, will you? | |
| So that was when I, that's when the last clue while we were still dating. | |
| That's a bit specific that really. | |
| Okay, so basically, there was like many things that got me to see him. | |
| His soul told me, like, one of the first times we ever laid together, find out who I was for me. | |
| So yeah, there was like finding the bust. | |
| He changed his last name is Augustus in this life, and he changed his name from like he wants people to call him King Augustus instead of his real name, just like Emperor Augustus did. | |
| And yeah, at the museum, the only thing he pointed out was of Augustus, and then it was the whole movie with the poisoning, and then that similar. | |
| And then so many synchronicities after, actually, even more after we broke up than when we were together, which is crazy. | |
| His soul still, yeah, very much lets me know that he's watching me. | |
| But, anyways, yeah. | |
| It was a lot. | |
| This is his twin flame. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| And then his twin flame is Dualipa. | |
| So he's not famous physically, but he is spiritually. | |
| So that's what's happening to. | |
| He's actually famous. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, he was very famous in his past life. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, and I noticed with twin flames, like the real ones, yeah, it's usually one of them is more physically famous and then one's more spiritually. | |
| But then eventually it might balance out with both where they both are, both spiritually and physically more. | |
| And then you also dated a guy who was Abraham Lincoln. | |
| In his past life. | |
| Past life. | |
| Yes. | |
| God, you dated my Lincoln. | |
| Whatever. | |
| Where he was shot, he had a mole. | |
| Grand. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know if he was my grandfather. | |
| You're related to Abraham Lincoln. | |
| Actually, I can kind of see it, to be honest. | |
| You have to decide if that's a good man or not. | |
| I think there's a lot of them, right? | |
| He lives in LA. | |
| Is that reduced to humans or can that be animals in the world? | |
| I looked a lot more like her when I was young. | |
| I have past lives. | |
| So you would marry an animal? | |
| Wait, what do you mean, like for twin flames? | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| It's just human. | |
| You're saying reincarnated, right? | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| I mean, an animal can reincarnate as a human, and a human can reincarnate as an animal in their next life. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But there's not going to be a human with a twin flame animal, is what I'm trying to say. | |
| But a person that was a human in this life can reincarnate as an animal, and then an animal can reincarnate as a human. | |
| Yes. | |
| I would hate that. | |
| For instance, one of my dogs was a boy in his past life, and this one he's a dog. | |
| So would you marry a ladybug if it was that? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| My twin flame? | |
| That's not possible. | |
| There can't be. | |
| You can't. | |
| Because then they could reincarnate as an animal. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, anybody can marry. | |
| No, you can't even physically marry anything. | |
| But some people can say they want to marry whatever objects. | |
| There's people that are in love with their cars. | |
| I mean, you could do whatever you want, but what I know, and I you can't have a twin flame that's an object or an animal. | |
| So wow. | |
| Interesting. | |
| What about like family members reincarnating as animals? | |
| Do you believe in that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, they can't. | |
| Honestly, they can reincarnate as I think there's also some type of rules and regulations. | |
| Energy like transmutes into different things as well. | |
| Like it's not consistently just going to be like, I don't know. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know what I was going to say. | |
| Didn't you also, like, you dated a guy who used to be Hitler? | |
| No, you made that up. | |
| And then that's I was like, were you Hitler in your past life? | |
| I think Elon may have been Hitler in his past life. | |
| You said something about dictators. | |
| He made it up. | |
| He made that up. | |
| And then he said I said that, which I didn't. | |
| I mean, on the last show, didn't you talk about dictators or something? | |
| No, he said that. | |
| And he said, yeah, because he just made it up. | |
| It's okay. | |
| He's like, he also said I was Hitler in my past life. | |
| What if. | |
| Or what if? | |
| Okay, yeah, I remember now. | |
| Yeah, I know. | |
| For a weird reason, that doesn't make any sense. | |
| You can say wild. | |
| You'd have a lot of karma to pay off in many lifetimes, I feel like, if you were him in the past life. | |
| Oh, if you were Hitler? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Probably. | |
| Just a little bit. | |
| I don't think that's. | |
| I wonder if Hitler didn't even reincarnate. | |
| Who knows? | |
| Maybe he did. | |
| Do you think he had a hammer, though? | |
| Well, that energy had to have transmuted, but it could have been alchemized already. | |
| No. | |
| Okay, I don't know. | |
| Sorry, what was that? | |
| Hitler? | |
| Like, do you think he was like big? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Giant penis or probably not. | |
| No, I think this would have gone. | |
| I think he had a microphone if it was big. | |
| I think he had a micro, and that's where all that aggression came from. | |
| What do you think about Stalin? | |
| Do you think he gives me an average rise? | |
| Probably not. | |
| Isn't that what someone said you were last time? | |
| Giant pee-pee? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Stalin. | |
| Someone said that he was a ruler in his past life, a certain ruler, but I don't know if they just made that up. | |
| I don't know. | |
| All right. | |
| I'm going to let these final chats come through, then we're going to get this wrapped up. | |
| Bill Pickle27 donated $30. | |
| Tell the divorced lady, my DMs are wide open. | |
| 32-year-old single father. | |
| Conservative and ethical. | |
| I will save you. | |
| As always. | |
| Michael Jones donated $30. | |
| Chairs 1 through 4. | |
| You're all cooked, but mostly chairs 1 and 4. | |
| Chair 5, it's not too late. | |
| Someone could fix you. | |
| Cooked. | |
| Too late for you. | |
| Cooked to perfection. | |
| Chairs 7 and 8. | |
| Focus on the trad wife persona. | |
| You're Gucci. | |
| Chair 5, it's not too late. | |
| And people say women can't tell good stories. | |
| Brian, how much for them to lick the window from the outside? | |
| From the outside. | |
| It ranges. | |
| Well, it means you jump out the window. | |
| He's trying to get you guys to self-delete. | |
| That's fine. | |
| It's not too late. | |
| Michael Jones donated $30. | |
| Pink hair schizos go into the crystal. | |
| Also, chair one, did you forget that Brian is a burrito-loving psychic? | |
| Define schizophrenic. | |
| The definition has nothing to do with anything I've said, because what I say is physical. | |
| No, Frank, $300 and half. | |
| It's half-nots. | |
| Thou shalt not stripeth thy clothes and speaketh about the truth in the same life lived. | |
| Lil B the based God testaments. | |
| Yo, Tank, thank you for that one. | |
| Appreciate him, man. | |
| We have a Felicity admirer. | |
| Felicity admirer donated $30. | |
| Agatha walked fuck out the for dude subtly redefining in her job. | |
| What would she have done if it was Andrew Call in her prostitute 100x? | |
| Fel City, you haven't told me yet how to take my eyes off you, Inkwink. | |
| You got paid simply Brian. | |
| You gotta pay a sim tax for that. | |
| You gotta send in another one, and you need. | |
| I don't know. | |
| If you're gonna simp for a girl, you gotta pay a sim tax. | |
| You gotta send in another one, and it's gotta be like, I'm a simp. | |
| Okay. | |
| And, oh, by the way, she the girl who walked off, she posted some Instagram stories that are not particularly flattering. | |
| Can we see them? | |
| No, we're not gonna pull it up. | |
| But yeah, she's talking some shit after she walked off and then I want to see him. | |
| Big sass energy donated $30. | |
| Fun fact, no president of Argentina is releasing documents that will soon reveal that Hitler did indeed escape to Argentina and live there until his passing in the 60s. | |
| There's a lot of theories that he did, so who knows? | |
| Not Argentina, though. | |
| They said Antarctica. | |
| Drake donated $30. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| You really made up a count a new account. | |
| All right, guys, last call if you want to get a last-minute TTS. | |
| And this is the last call on that. | |
| Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, $30 TTS here at the end. | |
| Venmo Cash App, whatever pod. | |
| Instead of Streamlabs taking their 3% to 4% cut or YouTube taking their brutal 30% cut, you can do it via Venmo Cash App where we get 100% of your patronage and contribution. | |
| Guys, like the video, please. | |
| Also, final call for Twitch. | |
| Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever. | |
| Yo, thank you guys so much for getting us to 100 past 100,000. | |
| Thank you guys so much. | |
| Thank you for all the support there. | |
| Guys, check really quick, though, before we wrap the show. | |
| Check if you have a Prime sub available. | |
| If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch. | |
| Quick for easy way to support the show every single month. | |
| Be sure to check out our Discord, discord.gg slash whatever. | |
| And while we're getting that pulled up, Llama says she is white version of Rachel Zegler. | |
| I'm not sure who that is. | |
| Oh, put it on the behind the scenes. | |
| Yep. | |
| Yo, Llama, thank you for the $50 super chat. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| Guys, discord.gg slash whatever we post behind the scenes. | |
| I just posted this last night. | |
| The attack on Andrew, the kick. | |
| It's from the security camera angle. | |
| And because on the stream, I went to intro like this. | |
| So there's actually some pretty important missing context for the kickoff where like she's kind of saying some belligerent shape. | |
| Some more shit that wasn't caught on stream and wasn't caught from my point of view that I think further justifies Andrew's mocking. | |
| Some people were giving criticizing him for that. | |
| But that's discord.gg slash whatever if you want to check that out. | |
| Okay guys, like the video, please. | |
| I'm going to do a quick see if there's anybody I can raid on Twitch. | |
| Any final thoughts from any panelists here before we wrap the show? | |
| Speak now. | |
| Forever. | |
| Hold your peace. | |
| Nothing. | |
| Okay. | |
| It was a pretty chill panel, I think. | |
| Nothing too crazy. | |
| We had a girl walk off the show before the stream started. | |
| Another one. | |
| That's why you don't date single moms. | |
| Don't wait. | |
| Date one. | |
| A single mom. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| Because just it's like that same shit would happen on a date. | |
| It's true. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know. | |
| It's just a bunch of ETH. | |
| I'm just, I'm not, we're not going to pull it up, but I'm just going to raid somebody. | |
| Okay. | |
| Thank you guys for watching on Twitch. | |
| I'm going to send a raid to... | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| I need to do the outro really quick. | |
| Okay, GG to the panel. | |
| Last call, guys. | |
| Hit that like button on your way out. | |
| Thank you for tuning in tonight. | |
| You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show. | |
| We will be live again. | |
| We might do a debate Saturday, maybe, with Mystery Guest, but Dating Talk will be back Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific. | |
| Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara, guys, 07s in the chat. | |
| And really quick call to action. | |
| I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity to give you and you and you a call to action. | |
| Would you guys consider stopping sex work entirely tonight? | |
| Probably not tonight. | |
| No. | |
| Yeah, you have an OnlyFans. | |
| You said, what was the into the mic? | |
| I mean, yeah, yeah. | |
| Protocol. | |
| I don't use it anymore, but I don't use it anymore, but yeah. | |
| Would you delete it? | |
| Yeah. | |
| She's not active, so I feel like that's not a W. Would you delete it? | |
| No. | |
| What was the part prior to that? | |
| Like, circumstantial was like. | |
| Call to action. | |
| I'm calling you to action. | |
| Will you delete your OnlyFans right now? | |
| No. | |
| On the whatever podcast? | |
| Why not? | |
| Do you have a file? | |
| Will I stop dancing? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, will you stop being a stripper? | |
| If I was being provided for, yes. | |
| Drake, hello. | |
| He's your twin flame, super rich. | |
| Doesn't matter. | |
| Not here. | |
| Okay, I tried. | |
| I tried. | |
| Okay, 07's in the chat. | |
| I am sending on Twitch. | |
| I'm sending a raid to Grayson. | |
| I just might have already gone through, but thank you guys for watching over there on Twitch. | |
| And then, oh, there's two more chats coming through. | |
| I'll let those come through and then get this wrapped. | |
| Oh, man. | |
| They're coming for me. | |
| Are you playing? | |
| Michael Jones donated $30. | |
| Brian, her twin flame is a BP5 Leia Burrito from Taco Balance. | |
| And you have a soul make a lover, which is a cheesy gaudy to crunch. | |
| Tail Drift as a helmet girl is a W. L. Simps W's Brian. | |
| L Simps W. Brian. | |
| Yo, Michael Jones, thank you so much for the TTS here at the end, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| I'm about to go get me some food right after the show. | |
| So good timing. | |
| Kendrick donated $30. | |
| Please stop bothering Drake. | |
| That's my job. | |
| Yeah, can you not harass? | |
| I'm not bothering him. | |
| If anything, he's been bothering me more. | |
| Oh, really? | |
| Show me the DS. | |
| Wait, will you show me the text after the show? | |
| It's more than that. | |
| It's like a lot. | |
| Spiritually bothering me. | |
| Wait, so physically, he was told to, but told to what? | |
| Bother me in a way. | |
| Will you show me the text after the show? | |
| What? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| It was just all in-person conversations. | |
| Wait, so just to be clear, you don't have his phone number. | |
| No, I have all of his, I have a lot of his friends for some reason, but not his. | |
| Because we only had in-person conversations. | |
| It doesn't matter if I don't have his number. | |
| We're still twin flames. | |
| Like, the physical. | |
| So how's he, like, getting at you if you don't have his number? | |
| In their dreams? | |
| You don't have to. | |
| But yeah, in the dream world, spiritually, mostly spiritually, like you're always going to be your twin flame is always going to be your spiritual partner, but not always physically. | |
| You don't have. | |
| Not always physically. | |
| You don't have to. | |
| No, because that doesn't define a twin flame. | |
| I've met him in person. | |
| No, I've talked to him in person. | |
| So you've never talked. | |
| I mean, what's better? | |
| Over the phone or in person? | |
| What's more personal? | |
| So you like... | |
| In person. | |
| Do you have to give his friends BJs? | |
| No. | |
| To get access? | |
| I know. | |
| It's crazy. | |
| So how do you get... | |
| Is that the first letter? | |
| They just invited... | |
| They started inviting me around. | |
| Did you have sex with any of his friends? | |
| No. | |
| This is a good thing. | |
| No, I did not. | |
| Actually, and some of them asked, so I did not. | |
| If he's watching. | |
| But some of them are. | |
| I mean, are you guys playing WoW Classic? | |
| Are you guys playing WoW Classic? | |
| No, I played for like two weeks over the winter break, and then I quit. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Let me just double check, make sure everything came through. | |
| Okay, yep, we're good. | |
| All right, guys, like the video. | |
| 07's in the chat. | |
| Good night, guys. | |
| Good night. | |
| We will see you guys on Sunday. |