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She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon?! | Dating Talk #116

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	Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
	So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
	Go ahead.
	Kaylee Killian.
	I'm 27 and I do OnlyFans.
	Okay.
	How long have you been doing that for?
	About three years.
	Three years?
	Okay.
	And what is it?
	BG content, solo content?
	What do you do?
	It's BG.
	Boy girl content.
	Okay, got it.
	I'm Jeannie Exam.
	I'm 21, and I do OnlyFans.
	And then same question.
	I do everything.
	BG, you've done BG.
	Boy girl.
	Boy girl, girl, girl.
	Yeah.
	Vibrator.
	Did you go to college, university?
	I went to a technical school for like... ITT.
	Or that in Georgia?
	Okay.
	I went there for a bit.
	No way.
	I'm from Georgia.
	Really?
	Oh, my God.
	Columbia, Georgia is near me.
	Really?
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's crazy.
	Maybe you guys know each other.
	Went to high school together.
	Did you go to college too?
	No.
	Okay.
	No.
	I didn't graduate.
	What did you do?
	Oh, you got my GED.
	Dropped out of LA.
	I dropped out of high school.
	The Hard Streets of Georgia.
	So you said you started OF more recently.
	I mean, what were you doing before that?
	I was doing regular modeling, like fashion modeling is what I started.
	And then I started doing like influencing, and then I started OnlyFans.
	Okay, got it.
	What about you?
	I'm Juliana Hernandez, and I'm 20 years old, and I'm currently unemployed.
	Are you at university?
	Quest of College.
	Quest of College?
	What are you studying?
	Just like general ed.
	You're currently unemployed?
	Yeah.
	I quit Walgreens.
	Walgreens.
	Okay.
	All right.
	There you go.
	I gave them a sympathy card.
	Like, sorry for your loss.
	For like two weeks.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How did they respond to that?
	They thought it was hilarious.
	That's funny.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Candy Lane.
	And that's not just a name, it's a destination.
	I'm 36.
	Until last Thursday, I was an Uber driver for three years, and I'm an OnlyFans Hopeful.
	36?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	An OF hopeful.
	So do you not have one, but you're hoping to start one, or you have one and you're in the process of developing it?
	I don't know how to do it.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, you got somebody.
	I can't help you.
	We can help you.
	I got some.
	All right.
	Collab.
	I guess that's a collab in the works.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Katarina Hammond.
	I'm 23 and I do Instagram content creating.
	Okay, but no OF.
	No.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Is there decent money in that?
	Yeah.
	How large is your following?
	18.6,000, I think.
	So modeling, content creation?
	Yeah, it's like promote for brands, all that fun stuff.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	I'm Zelda Merzuki.
	I'm 26 and I have a clothing brand.
	Okay.
	Is this one of your pieces?
	No, this is Chrome Hearts.
	Okay.
	What do you sell?
	Like what kind of clothing?
	Just streetwear?
	Yeah, like women's streetwear.
	I don't know.
	Oh, sorry.
	It's just stuff that I like.
	I don't make it for anybody else.
	If I like it, I make it and then I sell it.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	I'm Jessica Kirby.
	I'm 21, and I work at a retail store.
	Okay.
	I'm Priya.
	I'm 22 years old.
	I am a full-time student at ASU Online.
	I co-run a family business and I'm an equestrian.
	All right, Chase.
	Sweet.
	Do you do that professionally?
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	I'm Chase, 28, professional photographer and brand consultant.
	All right.
	Welcome, everybody.
	So we're going to go around the table once more.
	What is your current relationship status?
	Are you single, talking stage, situation ship, friends with benefits, married, polycule sex, cult harem, whatever it may be?
	If you're single, how long have you been single?
	And what's your longest relationship that you've ever been in?
	Go ahead.
	I'm in a relationship, and that's who I do the content with on OnlyFans.
	I see.
	Okay.
	How long have you guys been dating?
	A year.
	One year?
	Okay.
	Is that your longest relationship?
	No.
	What's your longest relationship?
	Nine years.
	Nine years.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Wow.
	From when to when?
	What?
	The long one?
	The long?
	Okay, so the long one was from like high school.
	I was like 16 till a little over a year ago when I met my new boyfriend, my current boyfriend.
	Nine years.
	Were you guys married?
	No.
	The nine-year relationship to certain states, maybe.
	What, like Vegas?
	You guys went to Vegas and the common marriage law.
	Like if you like.
	Oh, I see.
	Okay, I see what you're saying.
	Okay, so you're married for nine years.
	He was also in high school, I'm assuming, at the time?
	Yeah, we met in high school.
	We were the same age.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And so you were in a nine-year relationship.
	Why did it end?
	We just drifted apart.
	You know, I think it lasted longer than it needed to be.
	Probably like should have stopped at like four years, to be honest.
	Okay.
	It just kept going.
	So was it mutual or who initiated it?
	No, I broke up with him.
	How soon after the breakup did you get involved with your new guy?
	I think it was like eight months.
	Like had you been, was there any crossover?
	Not like infidelity, but well, but had you been talking, were you aware of your current boyfriend while in the midst of your nine-year relationship?
	No, I just met him like eight months later.
	How did you guys meet?
	We met through a mutual friend in Arizona.
	I was visiting her and we went to a bar.
	I met him and we hooked up that night and then we like talking.
	Was he kind of the rebound like for the nine-year relationship or other rebound?
	No, I had plenty of rebounds.
	Plenty, plenty of rebounds.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	How quick did you have a rebound after the nine-year relationship?
	Like probably like a week later?
	Three weeks maybe.
	I was like moving, so like had to move and then started going out in LA.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But you said like midway through the nine-year relationship, you were already checked out.
	It sounded like got it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'm single.
	Ready to mingle.
	Yeah.
	Single, ready to mingle.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How's the mingling going?
	Not well.
	Not well.
	Why is that?
	Why is it not going?
	I don't really go outside.
	You don't go outside.
	I need to go outside.
	I'm on dating apps.
	Like, I'm on hinge.
	Look me up.
	Like, I don't know.
	Put it in your hands.
	Oh, you know what?
	You should have got your, maybe.
	Why what?
	We do a dating app reviews segment of the show sometimes.
	We should have done that.
	Like, showed my hinge.
	Like, show your prompts.
	Oh, we should still do it.
	And then we see if.
	No, we should totally go get my phone.
	Someone.
	Okay, well, maybe we'll get to it.
	Time permitting.
	Maybe we'll get to that.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I mean, we got time.
	I'll make a note here.
	Dating app reviews.
	Okay, so you don't go outside.
	So you're like a recluse?
	You're a hermit?
	Occasionally, yeah.
	Okay.
	I mean, I travel a lot, but like, I don't know.
	Maybe, I don't know.
	When's the last time you went on the date?
	Oh, my God.
	Yesterday?
	No, it wasn't long ago, actually.
	But like, the date was like not well.
	The date was like the first date was like a funeral.
	So, you know what I'm saying?
	Was it funeral?
	Yeah, no, deadass.
	At a funeral.
	At a funeral.
	Like, that was the first time we met.
	Who invited who to the funeral?
	The girl.
	Invited me.
	She invited me.
	But I mean, like, she wanted me.
	Did she think that would be romantic?
	No.
	I think she needed their emotional support.
	And I was there.
	And it just kind of sucks.
	She's losing you.
	No way.
	Was she?
	That seems funny.
	You think so?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	That freaking sucks.
	What happened after that?
	Did you guys know?
	I went on talking more.
	Maybe I was used.
	Did you keep seeing each other after the funeral?
	Yeah, like, no, I flew to Mexico.
	So, like, I couldn't see her at all.
	Did you know this person prior to for like two weeks before?
	Got it, okay.
	Yeah.
	Interesting.
	I know.
	I know.
	No, it's my life.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I'm fucking up, guys.
	Oh.
	Oh, go ahead.
	No, it's not.
	So.
	Yeah, you provided in your notes here that you did go on a date to a funeral.
	Yeah.
	Maybe we'll get into, well, we can get more into that later.
	Later.
	I think kind of one of the notable things, though, is there were some news articles about you.
	Yeah.
	You are kind of infamous.
	It's okay.
	You're kind of infamous for having allegedly on alleged.
	Which, by the way, we had last show.
	I don't know why.
	This is like one of those.
	What was that?
	Like in early 2000s, mid-2000s, there's like three magic movies, like the prestige.
	Do you know what I'm talking about?
	Like these things always happen in threes.
	So I think we're going to get.
	In any case, we just had a girl who got charged with like attempted murder for trying to stab somebody last show.
	Oh, wow.
	So it's maybe.
	I didn't get charged with anything.
	They let me go.
	Okay.
	Wait, wait, so did you stab him?
	No, I didn't.
	I swear to God.
	There wasn't even that involved.
	Who stabbed him?
	Because it's freaking like self-defense.
	Oh, so wait, it was self-defense.
	I was self-defense with like, well, I mean, things happen, but there was no, eh-eh.
	Like, I ain't that crazy.
	I'm crazy, but like, not that crazy.
	Here, use this pen to demonstrate kind of the knives.
	The motion, there was no knife.
	There was no knives.
	Y'all, you know how cops and stuff, they love to sell things to the media.
	Was it a fork?
	No, there was cups.
	You stabbed him with the cups?
	Cups that were thrown and everything like that, you know?
	Were these cups plastic or glass?
	That's why they're like, oh, jeez, I don't.
	No, I didn't.
	Was this somebody that you were in a relationship with?
	Yes, my egg.
	What did he do?
	Everything.
	What was the straw that broke the camel's back?
	Okay, listen, there is so much that happened.
	But he, we, like, it was self-defense.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	But, like, was he laying hands on you?
	There was, there was hands.
	There was hands.
	There was cups.
	There was water.
	There was green juice.
	Who started it?
	Were there white walls?
	Any mugs?
	It was like pictures.
	Pictures.
	Kind of started with me.
	Teacups.
	Teacups.
	Did he go to the hospital?
	No.
	He was fine.
	No, yeah.
	But I went to jail.
	Okay.
	How long?
	Wow.
	I spent a night in jail, y'all.
	But I made some friends.
	They were so nice.
	They were looking nice as fuck.
	They were so nice.
	They were really nice, girl.
	They were like, this is your first time, isn't it, honey?
	I was like, yeah.
	I was like, I'm so tired.
	I didn't even know it was on the news.
	Like, I literally go, and like the police officer, he was like, oh, you're famous.
	You're famous.
	I'm like, what are you talking about?
	Like, how do you know I got Instagram?
	Like, how do you know he found my OnlyFans already?
	And so I was like, okay.
	And then he was like, no, girl.
	And I was like, oh, someone outed me.
	Like, someone was like, because they're about like this rich white girl on OF, you know, living in a high-rise, stabbed her ex.
	You know, so they sold, they sold the story.
	Are we going to pull up this new story?
	Yeah, we're going to do it.
	Yeah.
	I was like, I need to see my girl.
	Are you buying this?
	Don't put him though.
	Don't give him clout.
	I don't know.
	Scroll down.
	Just show my picture.
	Put us in the corner now.
	Put us in the other.
	OnlyFans modeled Sherry's video of herself smirking at police station after being arrested.
	I didn't know I was going to be that poppish.
	They were quote stabbing her boyfriend with a kitchen knife in their NYC apartment.
	22-year-old is released without bail.
	So this is how famous people are going to be.
	Wait, Where did this story about the kitchen knife come from?
	That's what I'm saying.
	I don't know.
	Really?
	No, I swear to God.
	Why do I not believe you?
	I don't know.
	So you're telling me they just made up the whole kitchen?
	They can.
	I think it's because he was cut up from the glass of the cup.
	So they were thinking, oh, she's not my guy.
	But like, no.
	Did you take the glass and stab him with the glass?
	No, it was thrown.
	That's what I'm saying.
	And we was like rolling.
	It's like some Johnny Duck show.
	I wonder what the chat thinks about this chat.
	Let me know.
	Let us know if you believe her story.
	Guilty or not.
	Was it a kitchen knife or a cup?
	Who called the cup?
	Y'all can't put me back in there, though.
	Are you sure you didn't black up?
	Okay, so how did people show up to the screen?
	Like, what happened?
	Like, someone called or like.
	No, like, we were, it was, like, loud.
	We're like, get the fuck out.
	You know, and like, then he was, somebody like called downstairs.
	They called.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then my doorman, and I was like, I told my doorman after.
	Like, why do you do that?
	And how many people showed up, like, cop-wise?
	Like, was it, like...
	A lot.
	Okay.
	Like, how many?
	Are we talking like 10?
	Five.
	Okay.
	Five.
	Not that many.
	So you, you, he was injured.
	Yes, so was I.
	Okay.
	You were both injured.
	Yeah, we were both injured.
	And he had wounds from a broken drinking glass.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	It was crazy, but we're going to pull it up.
	Can we pull up the article?
	Let's pull up the article real quick.
	Well, we'll read some of the bullet points here.
	So you were arrested.
	But were the charges dropped or did you take a plea deal?
	No, it was just, there was no charges.
	There was nothing.
	They detained you.
	Yeah, they were just like, you go home now.
	So it says, you return to Instagram, you post a clip of yourself smirking in custody.
	He was taken to the hospital in stable condition.
	Oh, maybe he was.
	It says that he was stabbed in the back and on his arm.
	Yeah, that's true.
	So how did the cup hit him in both places?
	That's like I said, we were wrestling on the ground.
	So you broke a glass and then you were arrested.
	Wrestling.
	Yeah.
	There's another article, too.
	If you can tab over.
	I'm going to ask if there was some sort of updated report because thrown cups don't exactly resemble stab wounds.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I don't know.
	Instagram model Jeannie stabbed Bo with kitchen knife what you're putting down.
	What?
	Wait, show that photo.
	Scroll down, I guess.
	That's the other thing.
	Oh, no, the next one.
	So, New York Post is saying an Instagram model stabbed her boyfriend with a kitchen knife during a fight inside her Midtown pad.
	Police said Tuesday, and later on.
	You flashed your breast?
	Oh, great.
	You flashed an NYTV cop car.
	Yeah, but that was before this.
	That was like six years ago.
	Wait, your boyfriend's name?
	Yeah, they added that.
	Your boyfriend's name was Baby Boy.
	Oh, my God.
	No comment.
	No comment.
	Shiver trauma.
	Wait, next article, Nick.
	Tab over.
	This is three years ago.
	This is an Instagram model smirks.
	I guess this is like a moment.
	Okay.
	Charged with stabbing her boyfriend.
	Does the New York Post here just have it wrong?
	Do all these news sources have it wrong?
	I'm sure if you ask any Kardashian Lawrence, they're like, I write the truth.
	They do this.
	They sold to the media.
	You know?
	That's what I'm saying.
	I'm basically Kim Kardashian.
	There were no charges.
	There were no charges.
	Okay.
	I mean, it says she was charged with stabbing him with a kitchen knife.
	No, no, I don't know.
	I think because cops sell stuff.
	Well, there's like arrested, charged, and then pro like detained and then convicted.
	Yeah.
	So were you charged but not convicted?
	Or just not even charged?
	Not charged.
	Or were you just held like in a whole bunch?
	I was just held.
	Yeah.
	All right, so here's what I want to know.
	Was this the first time this ever happened with a boyfriend?
	How many boyfriends have you had?
	Two.
	Two.
	And he's one of them?
	One.
	Nothing like that ever happened with your other boyfriend?
	No.
	Would he describe you as sane or crazy?
	Do you think that's true?
	Probably crazy.
	Yeah.
	Why do you think he'd describe you like that?
	I mean, because I am sometimes.
	But like, not like that.
	Not like that.
	Not like stabbing.
	That's stabby crazy.
	No.
	But that's crazy that happened right after this other girl stabbed Horborn.
	And then it got to the media.
	Like they were like, this girl stabbed her.
	Grid one.
	We'll move on.
	We'll move on.
	Thank you.
	No surprise there.
	Georgia.
	Say no more.
	Steak knives again, though.
	The daddy assues on this panel have to be legendary, deserve to be discussed.
	All may be saved through Christ, but there is no man on the planet that can help with this level of crazy.
	Amen, bro.
	You don't know that.
	Amen, brother.
	I will just say the accompanying behavior doesn't quite resemble innocent, but I'm not going to make the assumption.
	Okay.
	I can take that.
	All right.
	Well, maybe we can touch on that later, but what about you, your relationship status?
	I'm in a relationship with my best friend.
	Okay.
	Were you friends before?
	Yeah, we were friends before.
	Okay.
	How long have you been dating?
	Like, since March.
	So, what, six, seven months?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Is that your longest relationship?
	No, I wasn't in another relationship.
	Like, I think it was like three years on and off.
	Okay.
	Yeah, since high school.
	Gotcha.
	Could I have you just scoot your microphone this way just a tad?
	Like, thanks.
	What about you?
	I am single.
	I usually tell people I'm terminally single because I'm terminally single.
	I don't ever plan on.
	I mean, you know, the heart wants is something different.
	But there's just no possibility of it anymore.
	Yeah, well, we often hear terms like very single.
	So terminally single, though, that's a new one for the whatever podcast.
	So can you maybe dive a bit more deeply into what you mean when you say terminally single?
	I've experienced just about everything there is to experience as far as dating.
	And it just doesn't seem, and I know this goes round and round and round, the quality of people that are out there anymore and like who's available because a real genuine quality man they're really hard to find and they're very few and far between.
	So it's like a girl just ends up trying to have her needs met for the time and then that's all there is.
	So that's all there is.
	So what's the point?
	Sure.
	Longest relationship?
	I think it was about two years.
	Technically two and a half, but the last six months was garbage, so two years.
	Okay, two years.
	And then you're terminally single.
	When's the last time you've dated, I guess?
	Well, I go on dates.
	Okay, you go on dates, okay?
	You know, it's kind of like interview for the horizontal.
	What'd you call it?
	Interview from a horizontal?
	For the.
	For the horizontal.
	Interview for the horizontal.
	Where do you find the guys you go on these dates with?
	What?
	Where do you find these guys?
	Social media.
	Okay.
	I mean, dating apps, which is.
	Oh, just on the dating app thing, just show of hands.
	Who's currently on a dating app?
	You.
	Well, relationship, relationship.
	You're on dating app.
	Dating apps?
	Sorry, did anyone else raise their hand?
	Did I miss?
	No, I think it was just those.
	Well, damn.
	Okay.
	So maybe when we do the dating app review, we'll have you guys take screenshots of your profiles.
	We can review it later.
	Okay, so maybe give feedback, you know.
	Where do y'all go?
	What's that?
	Y'all go to the bar?
	Where do y'all go?
	How do y'all find people?
	Have dates at the bar.
	They're happily single.
	Craigslist.
	Just kidding.
	Craigslist.
	Facebook Markets about that.
	That's my favorite too.
	Days.
	Okay, what about you, your relationship?
	I'm in a relationship.
	All right.
	And how long have you guys been together?
	Together for two years.
	Have known each other for about four years.
	All right.
	And is this your longest relationship?
	No.
	What's your longest?
	A year and a half, two years.
	Wait, you said your current relationship's two-year relationship?
	Two months.
	Oh, two months.
	Excuse me.
	Two years.
	I think.
	Yeah.
	So, okay, one to two years.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	In a relationship.
	We've been together for a couple years, like two, three years.
	You're not sure on.
	Like three years, I think.
	I don't know.
	After COVID, I don't know what year it is.
	Has it been on again and off again?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Well, that's better.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	When you weren't certain as to how long you've been together, I don't know.
	It's better now, but yeah, the beginning was Rocky.
	How so?
	Just rocky.
	I don't know.
	You cheat on him with the NFL football team?
	No, I'm not.
	You don't tell me.
	I'm not making.
	I make assumptions if you don't tell me.
	Why was it Rocky?
	Maybe we'll get to that later.
	Maybe we'll get to that later.
	Get to it later?
	Yeah.
	Infidelity?
	Give us a little teaser.
	Infidelity.
	Just a lot going on in the world.
	War.
	My dad's $100.
	This unhinged, goofy white girl, better count her luckiest stars.
	She wasn't dating a real man like Mike Davis.
	I put her six feet under and bail right back to the motherland.
	I'm starting a condom business.
	Can I buy the rights to use your face?
	Damn.
	Who's this directed to?
	I feel like it's me.
	Yeah, it's her.
	I'm going to take it.
	Mike Davis is our res.
	He's a.
	That's him right there.
	Mike!
	Why do you feel that way?
	Do you like, could I set you up with him, maybe?
	Okay.
	I mean, I don't know if you know that.
	He owns a couple.
	Mike says he'll put her six feet under.
	She's just down to date.
	At this point.
	He's joking about the whole homicide thing, by the way.
	No, it's okay.
	I mean, he's definitely joking about that.
	It's a kink.
	Yeah.
	That's some intense BDSM.
	Okay.
	All right, we'll get into it later.
	What about you?
	Just single.
	Just single.
	Single?
	Single.
	Happy.
	Single.
	That's it.
	Okay.
	Longest relationship?
	Three years.
	Three years?
	How long have you been single?
	Probably three years now.
	When's the last time you went on a date?
	Yesterday?
	Like, last week, probably.
	Last week.
	I mean, I don't know if it's considered a date.
	We don't call it a date.
	What was it?
	Just out to dinner.
	Just out.
	Yeah.
	Just out to dinner?
	A couple of friends hanging out, just going out to dinner.
	Wait.
	What?
	Just a couple of friends?
	Just one friend.
	Just me.
	Me, a couple, two people.
	You went on a date with two people?
	Oh, I see.
	Me and another person, just a couple of friends.
	The English language is challenging for us.
	Wait, did he think you guys were going out on a date as friends?
	That used to be how I was.
	Now it's the other way around.
	Oh, so you got friend zoned.
	Couch.
	This 2020.
	Wait, he took you out on a dinner date and then friend zoned you?
	It's a long story.
	We've been.
	Okay.
	I know, but what if he's watching right now?
	Say hi.
	Say hi.
	So you've been single.
	You've been single for three years, but I mean, I assume you've, in that three-year period, has there been a situationship, friends with benefits, anything like that?
	We've had some wild moments in between.
	Some wild moments.
	That's why we're okay with just being single.
	When you say wild moments, can you give us a little more detail?
	More like I'm wild and then I ruin all the moments.
	Oh, that's interesting.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So how are you wild and how do you ruin all the moments?
	I don't know.
	I don't think we're quite picking up what you're putting down.
	Like, I'm crazy.
	Have you stabbed any boyfriends with a kid?
	No, no.
	No.
	Have I thought about it?
	Have I thought about it?
	Probably.
	Okay.
	Slashed any tires.
	No.
	No.
	How would these guys describe you if they were describing you?
	Would they say wild or would they say just straight up crazy?
	Probably crazy.
	Probably crazy?
	Oh, yeah.
	How so, though?
	Like, are we?
	Okay, maybe I can help to prompt this.
	Bipolar?
	No.
	BPD?
	I feel like this is a good idea.
	Are you jumping now?
	Straight to the mental illness, but I'm just crazy.
	Like, clingy?
	Probably.
	That could be.
	Like, show up, like, drive by the house.
	Like, stocking schizophrenia?
	I hope not.
	Possessive.
	Oh, for sure.
	Controlling.
	I would drive by the house, but then I would be really crazy.
	So I just keep on telling myself that it's not okay.
	Okay.
	I see what you're saying.
	Have you ever stalked boyfriend?
	No.
	No.
	Oh, God.
	Tired off-bedrest 123, donated $100.
	Case, why aren't you engaged yet?
	The dirty deed is done.
	Time to get married, son.
	Happily married here after four months.
	No time to waste.
	The next world war is looming.
	Is she blonde?
	I see you dating a blonde chick.
	Well, okay, here, we'll stick to all things in God's timing, brother.
	Anyways, let's continue.
	Yes.
	Give us some details.
	Give us some details so we kind of get a better sense of the situation.
	I'm probably just crazy and clingy.
	And how are you crazy?
	Like, how are you crazy?
	I don't know.
	What do you mean?
	I don't think I'm crazy.
	They did.
	They tell you that you're crazy.
	How many people have, how many men that you've dated have said you're crazy?
	One or two.
	One or two.
	I haven't actually dated five or six.
	Wait, you haven't asked them.
	Quick math, girl math.
	You haven't dated them, but there's one or two.
	You said how many people have you dated?
	No, they just we don't make it that far because I'm crazy.
	Have you ever been?
	What do you do?
	Okay, hold on.
	Let's slow down for a moment.
	What does this process look like?
	Like, what are you start talking to a guy?
	How long after talking to him is he like, yo, this chick's crazy.
	And what caused him to think that?
	Like, name a behavior.
	Give an example of a behavior.
	I would probably say after like a month or so, but just because I'm like fully invested and maybe they're not.
	So you're like, I'm like, yes, are you like totally in love with them, like super clingy right off the bat?
	I love everyone.
	And then okay, so have you seen the show Married at First Sight?
	Oh, yeah.
	I don't want to be on that.
	Okay, but I feel like it's like the same vibe.
	I think that's like kind of what you're saying, right?
	Like you're like super clingy, probably text like 500 in a row.
	Yeah.
	If you're annoyed, don't tell them.
	So you push them away because they're like, holy fuck.
	Yeah.
	Have you ever heard of insecure attachment?
	Yes.
	And I, yeah, sometimes.
	If you're asking me.
	You are that?
	Yeah, I would say sometimes.
	Yeah.
	Have you guys heard of that?
	Insecure attachment.
	So there's like three different attachment styles that people have in relationships.
	There's like avoidant attachment where people are like emotionally distant.
	Yeah, then there's like secure attachment where you're just like normal and secure with your partner.
	And then there's insecure attachment where you're like, often people are super clingy or like reaching out way too much.
	They're afraid the person's going to leave them.
	Like, is that you?
	I often think that I love to go for the first option that you said.
	What was that?
	The avoidant attachment side.
	So like somebody that's going to push me away, but maybe because I like feeling something, like they'll hurt my feelings.
	And I'm like, so you're saying they're avoidant towards me.
	And I'm.
	So they push you away and then you're like, no, come here.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	That's what I'm saying.
	So the extreme.
	I love the chase.
	I love the chase.
	Where does stigmatize come in?
	What?
	Dick?
	Did you say digmatized or stigmatized?
	I did.
	Yeah.
	What is that question?
	Dick Tid.
	Where does that fall in your categories?
	Oh, like being addicted to somebody?
	I mean, if you're insecurely attached, you could be addicted to pursuing somebody.
	Huh?
	Oh, okay.
	I guess.
	Yeah.
	Wait, what?
	Addicted to dick.
	Oh, no.
	Not that.
	Haram.
	Hooray.
	Get the wrongs.
	Abdul?
	Yeah.
	Good time.
	Get the wrongs.
	That was a legitimate question.
	So wait, what's the question?
	Where does that fall into your little categories?
	Being addicted to dick.
	To their particular brand they're throwing down?
	It doesn't fall into the categories.
	That's just like something women deal with individually.
	These are relationship attachments.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Yeah, good thoughts.
	Anyways, like your relationship with your parents.
	That's how it feels.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	That's often how those attachment styles form.
	A few more questions for you, though.
	So you say you're wild, but then the.
	Wild crazy, not wild.
	In the past three years.
	Not the fun wild.
	In the past three years, what's the longest duration of time that you've continued to see any given guy?
	Like maybe you had a one-month situation.
	Sorry, the last three years?
	Well, you said you've been single for three years.
	Yes, correct.
	In the last three years.
	And then your longest relationship was three years.
	Three years.
	And was that the one three years ago?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So in that three-year period, what's the longest period of time that you've seen any one given guy?
	What month is it now?
	Huh?
	What month is it now?
	November.
	Probably six months.
	Okay.
	all right well that's like a was it was just like i just don't know was it a friends with benefit situationship How do you categorize that one?
	I don't like the word situationship, but.
	Okay, which word do you prefer?
	Just a couple of friends saying that.
	So like friends with benefits.
	So friends with benefits.
	Yeah, I guess.
	Okay, all right.
	Priya, what about you?
	I'm in a relationship.
	It's relatively new, just over two months.
	My longest relationship is five months.
	Okay.
	That's exciting.
	All right.
	No, right?
	You don't want to.
	Yeah, I'd prefer to keep my personal life private right now.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And then we have.
	Let's see.
	Oh, let me see here.
	We have two chats.
	I'm going to get really quick.
	We have one from.
	Oh, AB Check.
	Thank you for the 20 gifted memberships, man.
	You could, oh, I was going to say you could, oh, it's okay.
	Oh, man.
	What a savage roast.
	The ladies on the panel expect to be treated like queens, but have taken more load.
	Wow, okay.
	Don't shoot the messenger here.
	More loads than the washing machine.
	Derek the Trader.
	Okay.
	Do you guys want to respond to that?
	They're here to roast, guys.
	I mean. I mean. Jesus Christ.
	I could respond to it.
	I mean, I would say that men probably hook up with the same amount of women that women hook up with men.
	And I feel like the ones that are definitely not true.
	That like him that say shit are the ones that like don't ever get anything at all.
	Sorry, on the internet, more so than probably in person.
	Did he pay to say that?
	Yes.
	Yeah, I paid 50 bucks.
	Yeah, I paid to talk smack.
	I enjoyed the comment.
	I like money.
	Even though I ain't getting on, we can discuss that later.
	We have Seaberg read, it has been my experience that you tend to find what you're looking for.
	I believe humans are problem solvers.
	If you look for ways for things not to work, that's what you'll likely find.
	If you look for a way to figure it out, you can likely find it.
	So true.
	Absolutely.
	All right.
	Thank you, Seaberg.
	Much appreciated.
	Much appreciated.
	Okay, so I had a some of you were so kind to provide some pre-show notes to us.
	So I'm going to go through a few of those.
	Let's see.
	Let's start with, I'm going to bounce around a little bit.
	So, Candy, in your pre-show notes to us, you said that you struggle with sex addiction.
	Yeah.
	Currently, in the past, or struggle to find it sometimes.
	Struggle to what?
	Feed it.
	Find it.
	Struggle to find it or you struggle to feed it?
	Struggle to find the supply?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	It's pretty easy.
	I mean, as a chip.
	What's your type?
	When you say, hold on.
	That's a good question.
	Yeah, it is.
	So what is your type?
	And also, how are you picky?
	There's got to be a measure of sanity.
	There's a lot of just straight up nuts people in the world.
	I mean, like, on both sides.
	Yeah.
	She's pointing to herself.
	Okay, so level-headed.
	I prefer to have a conversation with somebody.
	If the text is going well and they've passed the criteria test, then I like to actually have a conversation with somebody before, see if they can even hold, like carry on a conversation.
	So as far as your type goes, you want somebody who's a good conversationalist, who's mentally stable.
	Is there any physical traits when it comes to type?
	We like them tall.
	How tall are you?
	5'4.
	5'4?
	Okay.
	When you say tall, what do we, do you have a bare minimum?
	Some people like only date six feet and above.
	Do you have that?
	5'11 would be my minimum.
	5'11 minimum.
	There's something to say about short guys, too, so I don't know.
	What is that something to say?
	It depends on the personality.
	If they've got that six-foot personality, but they're 5'5.
	I agree.
	It's a big confidence.
	Yeah.
	Confidence goes a huge.
	Yeah, that's like crack.
	What about, do you have any other physical traits that you care about when it comes to your type?
	Circumcision.
	What?
	Oh?
	Yeah, that's kind of.
	Are you saying you don't want them circumcised or you do?
	Yes.
	I'm very vehement about that.
	Deal breaker for you.
	Pretty much.
	They have to be.
	I mean, when the peen is erect, it's pretty much the same.
	Not all of them.
	Sure, it's a bit different, but.
	No, there have been some that are.
	And I'm very oral.
	It's kind of pointy.
	You're orally fixated.
	very yeah so like i'm good talk Okay.
	So.
	Can I ask a question?
	Sure.
	So if you're simply just looking for sex, why all the criteria?
	Yeah.
	Because I'm picky.
	I have that picky.
	You say that it's difficult to feed your sex addiction.
	If you weren't picky, it'd be quite easy.
	I'm not advocating for it.
	If anything, I'm advocating against it.
	Why does someone that snorts Coke not want to go for heroin or alcohol?
	We all have our brand.
	It's an indication of that.
	Brian, we are going to have some fun tonight.
	The right side of the panel has been hurting more than all of these horses.
	The blonde peach is going to cost some poor sap-a-large divorce.
	Budget Carrotop needs to be careful, though.
	Might break a hip.
	Oh, man.
	Damn.
	If I read my Instagram comments, they'd be like this.
	Do you guys want to fire back?
	Anybody want to fire back?
	Who's Blonde Peach?
	Yeah, who's that?
	Is that Georgia?
	It's one of you two, I'm assuming.
	You're more blonde than me, no?
	I'm like dirty blonde.
	You like strawberry.
	Strawberry.
	No, she's actually strawberry.
	I feel like you just have straight up brown hair.
	Thank you.
	And all I'm going to say is that.
	What do you have to say?
	Tell us about it.
	It does not apply to me.
	Okay.
	Yeah, you're the one who's going to be.
	I'm a good girl.
	I'm a good girl.
	So you're picky.
	How are you picky?
	Besides some of the stuff you've already listed.
	Yeah, that's pretty much it.
	Oh, okay.
	So she likes circumcised, tall.
	A measure of sanity.
	San.
	And I like fit, but who doesn't?
	You like fit?
	Yeah.
	Some people don't.
	Do you pursue relationships with these guys or you just want to hook up with them?
	Well, I like buddies.
	So you don't want a relationship.
	You want a friends with benefits type thing?
	Yeah.
	Because I'm, like, I'm hearing, like, you're, like, man, where are the good quality guys?
	Like, really want to find a solid guy, but you're also, like.
	No, I gave up looking.
	There are.
	There are none.
	No, there are no.
	Here's the thing, though, Candy.
	There's actually a lot of solid dudes out there, but they tend not to want women that just want a bunch of fuck buddies.
	Yeah.
	It's that simple.
	Yeah, it seems like you're kind of throwing a victim card out there saying there's no good men out there, but you're not portraying yourself as a person that good men really want to look at.
	I looked for a lifetime.
	How long is a girl supposed to look before she gives up?
	Well, sometimes people don't know how viable candidates are.
	This behavior, though, this sex addiction that you're describing, how long has that existed in your life?
	Because you can say that you looked for a long time, but you've given up, but if the behavior's been the same the whole time, you were probably repelling the good guys that might have been.
	There was a long time that I fought it.
	Aren't you like for 10 years?
	You said you were celibate for 10 years.
	I was celibate for 10 years.
	What motivated that?
	10 years.
	Yeah.
	Well, I can give you a prompt on this.
	You said that you were raised in a very strict Christian household.
	You said you spent 10 years celibate.
	So can you tell us the frame, the years that you were celibate?
	Like, you said you're 36?
	It ended in 2020, the beginning of 2022.
	So from 2010 to 2020, you were celibate.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And my understanding is I think you wrote here you had two, which I'm trying to find it.
	Sorry in my notes.
	You had two ho phases.
	okay is that where the yeah yeah you You said you had a first ho phase before the celibacy, I'm assuming, and then your words, not mine.
	A second ho phase subsequent to your celibacy.
	Yeah.
	Are you still currently in the ho phase?
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Sorry, I couldn't hear.
	That was like whispered.
	Okay.
	Wait, so you had a ho phase prior to the celibacy?
	I went out as a teenager.
	Okay.
	And then you went celibate, and now you've ended it, and now you're in another ho phase.
	And during that phase of celibacy, were you looking for a good guy?
	I was more believing, you know, in the whole like, if I'm supposed to have faith in God, then that's what he'll provide.
	And I believed that wholeheartedly.
	That was, you know, I was back in church.
	I was doing everything I was supposed to be doing.
	But were you putting yourself in positions to meet single men?
	Like what positions?
	Like going out into the world and actually like putting yourself in social situations.
	Good conversation.
	Well, other than going to bars and, you know, which a Christian doesn't do, so I didn't do dating at the time.
	I wasn't on social media or dating apps at that time.
	Did you like look throughout the church that you were a part of?
	I went to a few different in order.
	I mean, it was like one church had nothing but way too young people.
	One church had nothing but way too old people.
	And just like the same story in my life, I've never really kind of fit anywhere.
	Okay, so are you more mad about like church and religion and like what that brought in your life?
	Or are you like mad at men and like the type of men you're coming?
	Because I'm getting like God.
	Yeah.
	Do you love yourself and happy within your own self?
	That's like 20 questions y'all just ask her.
	My bad, my bad.
	I got some rather upsetting news in 2020, which is what ended my everything.
	May I ask what that was?
	Maybe not right now.
	Okay.
	So let me ask a couple clarifying questions here.
	So in your pre-show notes to us, you said that there was a downward spiral leading to the beginnings of a raging body count until there was, let's see.
	Ouch, man.
	What?
	No, these are.
	This is verbatim there.
	You sent them.
	These were prompts I sent you before the show.
	You said until a stint with drugs led to a tragedy in your early 20s, which is also a very volatile subject to speak on.
	And if you don't want to, that's totally fine.
	You said, okay, we're going to skip that.
	But just to get a bit of a timeline here, you said you had an initial, your words, not mine, ho phase.
	You said that you were struggling with sex addiction and currently still are.
	You're in your second phase.
	Can you give us a scope of your sex addiction?
	Like what, when you say sex addiction, were you having sex with a new man every single day of the week?
	How did that look like?
	I had like no base self-worth, I think, in my early life, like my teens.
	And I think because the family that I grew up in was so cold, I was just desperate for, you know, the first, well, the first word you want to say is attention.
	But I think it was more like validation.
	Like, am I real?
	Somebody touch me, please, because I'm dying inside.
	Okay.
	So what is the scope of the sex addiction?
	On the weekends, probably Thursday, Friday, Saturday, it was, you know, if I was going out.
	Different guys?
	Yeah.
	Each night?
	Well, yeah, because multiple people.
	You know, to a teenage boy, you're disposable.
	Multiple men each night?
	Not multiple within the same day, you know.
	Have you ever had more than one guy in the same day?
	It's okay.
	We have actually had previously another woman who was a sex addict on, and she said that she had, she would regularly have sleep with like five men in a day.
	Yeah, I saw that one.
	Yeah.
	That's crazy.
	That's icky.
	Yeah, like who's the thigh?
	Like, I'd run out of solar.
	The energy.
	I don't know.
	That wasn't anything.
	So you would, so Thursday, you said Thursday, Friday, Saturday, just a new guy every day, basically.
	Yeah, but that was a very long time ago.
	Long time ago, sure.
	That was your initial.
	Got it.
	Was that kind of the crescendo of the sex addiction?
	Well, I started dating someone.
	I don't know how to answer that question.
	Well, you said like you would go out Thursday, Friday, Saturday, which is not so much of a different answer as you might hear from a typical college girl who parties Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
	Would you be hooking up with men, like new men every single day?
	It wasn't intentional.
	I mean, I would have stuck with one of those.
	No, I'm not making a judgment.
	I'm just asking for you to kind of, when you say sex addiction, what is the scope of the sex addiction?
	Always looking.
	Like, thinking ahead, planning ahead.
	Searching, searching, searching.
	You know, where is my next fix going to come from?
	Like, what do you think motivated this?
	What does motivate it?
	Because it sounds like you're not looking for a serious relationship.
	Is it male validation?
	Is there something inside of you that you're trying to fill?
	Like, what is it?
	Why are you pursuing this?
	I like the way it feels.
	Okay, so you like the physical pleasure.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you feel like it might have been motivated by some sort of trauma in your past?
	I'm sure, yeah.
	Because of the content that I am hoping to get into, that's definitely a trauma release.
	Okay.
	Do you feel like there might be healthier ways to release that trauma?
	Like what?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Yoga.
	Can I feel like it's worse, honestly?
	So it sounds like during your journey with Christ and when you were actively attending church was the duration of your celibacy, if I'm not mistaken?
	Did that, I know you said that you had some sort of event in your life that ended your belief in Christ, but was there anything other than pursuing God and attending church and pursuing religion that kept you from getting into your, or sorry, following after your desires?
	I don't really understand your question.
	Is there anything besides, during your time of celibacy, is there anything besides God that was stopping you from pursuing sex?
	No, that was kind of the point.
	So, okay, you said there was a 10-year celibacy and there was a hiatus from all things.
	You went back to the church, you walked away from it, and then after discovering certain defects that led me to be angry, you started another subsequent ho phase.
	You said that subsequent ho-phase started in 2020, is that correct?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And again, when you say there was a second ho phase, when you say ho phase, what does that mean?
	What is a ho phase to you?
	That's just like looking to hook up.
	No, but let me be more precise in my question.
	I guess what I'm trying to get at is, what is the frequency with which you were sleeping with new men?
	Two new men a week, three new men a week, four new men a week?
	Well, if I meet somebody and I hit it off with them and it's like crime banging, then that's where I want to stay.
	Okay, but so what goes through my mind when you say ho phase, that typically relates to promiscuity and having multiple many sexual partners.
	So I'm just trying to get some understanding.
	Are we talking a new guy?
	One at a time for me.
	What Brian's asking is what is the frequency of new partners that you would have?
	Would it be like one new guy every week, two new guys every week?
	Would it be like how many partners would you have in the span of a month?
	I think her answer is as long as you're not.
	Just please, please let her answer.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah, I can't answer that because it's like, I mean, if you want to know my history of it, it's, you know, if I meet somebody through Bumble or wherever and it goes there because of, you know, whatever, like, because the vibe has to be right.
	It's not just like you're a meat sack and I want to jump on you.
	There actually has to be a connection.
	We don't need the minutiae of how you feel about the guy.
	I'm just asking just a very factual question, trying to decipher.
	and I was trying to get to it actually during your first Ho Phase II, how frequently...
	That was a different phase.
	Right.
	And perhaps you can answer for both.
	And if you want to average it out, because perhaps there are periods where you were more active, other periods where you were a little less active, how frequently would you be hooking up with new guys?
	When I was younger, that would have been a different guy every night for those three days during the week.
	Okay, so for example, let's say over the course of the month, four weeks in a month, there would be 10 to 12 guys per month.
	Okay.
	Are you trying to get to a body count?
	No, I'm not.
	I mean, we could if you want, but I'm just, I'm trying to, because sex addiction is something very specific, so I'm trying to understand like the degree to the sex addiction.
	He's trying to understand the amount of turnover that you had with men.
	Yeah, exactly.
	I don't really like the turnover, but if they don't sex.
	I'm not asking whether it's a lot.
	What was the turnover?
	He's trying to understand the nature of the sex addiction.
	What was the turnover of men?
	In a six-month span, how many guys would there have been?
	I can't say that.
	I don't know.
	50?
	100?
	You don't need to give us an exact number, but arrange.
	Here, I'll do the math here.
	You said Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
	That's three guys.
	Let's say it's 10 times 4 for a month.
	Let's give her the benefit of the doubt.
	That's $10.
	Donated $99.
	Girl in the baby blue outfit.
	As a Taurus, I am forever chasing red flags, Lola Chemu.
	Okay, there you go.
	So here you're crazy.
	Yo, Cam H, thank you.
	Good to see you in the chat, man.
	So, okay, if it's...
	So, three dudes per week.
	Three dudes per weeks in a month.
	That's 12 guys in a month.
	How long was the whole phase?
	In a six-month period, let's say it's just 10 years.
	Four years, but I can't say that I kept that pace.
	Seaberg, though, naked $99.99.
	It is my belief that you can't spend life pursuing pleasure.
	It leads to a dead end where nothing brings you pleasure.
	You have to allow for the ups and downs.
	Without the dance, there are no ups.
	Try allowing yourself peace past the boredom.
	Try meditation.
	That was beautiful.
	Thank you.
	I agree.
	Thank you, Seaberg.
	So, okay.
	Yeah, three a week.
	Let's say it's 10 a month.
	I mean, she said it lasted for like four years.
	So 100 a year?
	That'd be like.
	100 a year?
	No, I remember when I was young, I tried to actually keep names at one point.
	And I didn't.
	You could just answer the question.
	It was like 50.
	You could just answer the question.
	For my younger life, I know that it wasn't more than 50.
	Okay.
	And then what about the second phase?
	Which I think you're currently in, correct?
	Okay.
	What is the scope of your current, since it's more recent, maybe it might be a little easier to recall, what's the scope of your current?
	Not necessarily, because once somebody is gone, they're gone out of my memory, too.
	I mean, literally, like an imaginary.
	I don't need a precise number.
	You don't need to say 77, just like a range would be good.
	I don't know.
	A range?
	Is it more than.
	Is it that you don't know or that you don't want to reveal it because it's embarrassing and surprising?
	I talk to a lot of people.
	I talk to a lot of people.
	When you say talk to, do you mean text sexual intercourse with?
	No.
	Okay, just curious.
	Brian, I think there's a 0% chance we're going to get a clear answer.
	I think we should move on.
	One more chance here.
	Here, in the past.
	I got the definition of insanity.
	I'm fucking insane.
	Here, in the past year, this is very recent.
	How many guys do you think you've hooked up within the past year?
	Tell you what, I'll be in calendar year 2023.
	Six?
	Six?
	Yeah.
	Okay, that's.
	Like I said, are we missing a zero on the end of that or no?
	Sex addiction?
	Hello?
	Relax.
	Ho-face.
	Like I said, I prefer buddies.
	You know, somebody wants to stick around and do the job, then.
	Sure.
	Gotcha.
	Okay.
	I have some further notes here.
	I'll come back to you later, though.
	Let me do a couple chats.
	We have Rippy here.
	Ladies, who think there are no good men left?
	Have you saw the man of God?
	If not, I would say to you, if there is no moral structure guiding a man and subservience to that structure, God, are you really surprised the men you find are not good?
	It's a banger super chat.
	A banger super chat from Rippy.
	Did you get anyone?
	Well, who said, here, who thinks men, there's no good men?
	Where are all the good men?
	Who thinks that?
	Anybody?
	You guys all think that there are good men out there?
	Yeah.
	The world's full of good men.
	Not full of good men, but there's enough good men out there.
	You just know where to look.
	You have to know where to look?
	Yeah.
	Like, I wouldn't look on the page.
	I think this is the first panel we've done together where the whole panel didn't say no, there aren't enough good men out there.
	Could be.
	I think every other panel we've done, every single time, they're like, no, there's like no good men out there.
	Well, we have relationship, relationship, relationship.
	Relationship.
	Single?
	No relationship.
	Oh, relationship.
	A lot of relationships.
	They just are what they expect.
	So they're just not getting a good guy.
	See, once they're not, you think there's good men out there?
	Yeah.
	Do you think your past boyfriend was a good man?
	Just stabby.
	Not to me.
	Alleged stabbing.
	I don't think so.
	No.
	You think he was a good man to other women?
	What I know of, he was probably not.
	No.
	No.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Well, thank you, Rippy.
	Derek the Trader.
	Oh my God, Derek.
	What the fuck?
	Ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only being 10, starting to the left of Sovereign Bruh.
	Hold on, we'll come back to you.
	Ryan's got donated $99.
	Jeannie Exum is queen and I'll simp for her forever.
	I am a good man.
	I love you, Ryan.
	She has the best only fans ever.
	Can't wait to see you online after this.
	All love always for G.
	She will grant your three wishes.
	Yo, in the chat, Ryan Merck is a simp.
	Okay, just okay.
	I love you, Ryan.
	All right, let me pull this one back up from Derek.
	Thank you, Ryan.
	Ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only, 10 being the highest, starting to the left of Sovereign Bruh, 7, 4, 3, 5, 2, 5, 5, 8.
	You guys want to respond to that?
	Do you want to respond?
	I feel like I should have got 7 or 4 3.
	3?
	I know I got 4.
	Girl, like I'm like, baby.
	I mean, I don't even want to be here, but I think I look pretty good.
	You do.
	How would you guys rate yourselves?
	You want to do that?
	Starting over here?
	Yeah, so we have Stiffler since it's related.
	Ask everyone to rate their looks, mind you, on a scale of 1 to 10.
	Go ahead.
	I think it depends on the day, but for the most part.
	Right now.
	Oh, right now?
	I mean, I feel pretty good right now.
	Here, look into this camera and tell us.
	I feel good, so I would say a 10 right now.
	I'm feeling confident.
	I feel good.
	All right, 10.
	I'm going to say the same.
	I think I'm a 10.
	I think I'm looking good today in pink.
	Okay.
	I'd say I'm probably like a six, five.
	You know, I agree.
	All right.
	Candy Lane.
	Pretty.
	I don't rate myself.
	You don't?
	No.
	But why not?
	Because I think it's rude to do that to anyone.
	Well, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Just my understanding is that.
	I think it, but I don't say it.
	You said it pretty clearly a few moments ago.
	You had a whole rating system for dudes.
	And what was a cut above and what was a cut below?
	You said you wouldn't take it.
	I didn't measure it one to ten.
	No, but you said like literally a numerical measurement of a guy's height.
	You said bare minimum 5'11 height.
	And?
	But you said you don't like to numerically.
	You wouldn't want to numerically rate somebody.
	On their looks?
	It's pretty sad.
	All those were ratings of a man's height.
	It's extremely shallow.
	So it's it's superficial, shallow.
	Sure.
	Well, don't.
	Just because we're pushing back, don't back down from your position.
	So it's it's shallow to care about looks.
	I didn't say care about.
	She said it's rude to rate somebody on their looks.
	Well, you also said after rating men based on all of these physical characteristics.
	So you feel like it's like it's rude to rate yourself, but not guys?
	Because if you saw, let's say you saw a guy, are you telling me that it would be rude of you to be like, oh, yeah, he's a 10.
	Or no, he's like a six.
	You wouldn't do that?
	I don't do that.
	But you do discriminate based on all of these different physical characters.
	It's just criteria.
	Everybody's.
	Hey, no, everybody absolutely does.
	Everybody's entitled to their personal preferences.
	Otherwise.
	But it's you just said a moment ago, you had all these discriminatory factors for a guy, but then when it came to rating oneself, you're like, no, it's rude.
	I think it's rude to rate people.
	That's you're taking that out of context.
	It's what you said.
	No, but you said what you said.
	You said shallow.
	People like what they like, right?
	Absolutely.
	I don't go around and saying, oh my gosh, you're a 10.
	Or you're a six.
	I'm not talking about it.
	Are you telling me you've never rated a guy with one of your girlfriends?
	No.
	Really?
	Yes.
	I'm con cap.
	Okay.
	A, I don't have any girlfriends.
	And thank you for clarifying.
	Anyways, on the friendship thing.
	Yeah.
	So are you like friends with males more?
	We should keep going around the table.
	You sounded pretty PO'd at your rating that that guy gave you.
	What would you rate yourself?
	Was that you or was that her?
	What did I get?
	Was that her?
	What did I get?
	I don't know.
	Well, somebody was mad over here at the rating that they got.
	Zelda.
	You're mad?
	Yeah.
	You got a five.
	Five?
	I got a five, yeah.
	What would you rate yourself?
	I don't know.
	Six, seven.
	I'm not going to put a number, but I know I look good.
	Okay.
	Really?
	Yes.
	Are you disagreeing?
	Do you think you're a 10?
	Probably not to everybody, but I don't assume everybody to like me.
	Everyone has a different type of.
	Are we saying what we need to ourselves?
	Is it just are we just talking about like looks?
	Just looks, yeah, just looks.
	I mean, yeah, I look good.
	Yeah.
	That's good.
	You're a 10.
	But I didn't plan for today.
	Like, I think everybody else knew that they were going to be on the show today, except for me.
	So.
	Wait, what do you mean you didn't plan for today?
	How did this happen then?
	She came with her.
	She was genie as a friend.
	Okay.
	And then I wanted her to still be here, so I made her come on.
	So I wasn't prepared.
	So she wasn't really ready.
	No, the only reason I pushed back is because before the show, you had requested to be sitting on that side of the table because it was your good angle.
	Yes.
	If you're a girl at this table, let me know if you have a better side of your face.
	But if you're, if you, sure, but if you're a 10, wouldn't it stand to reason that you look exceptional from every single person?
	No, I can see what you're saying.
	I do see what you're saying.
	Well, 10 out of 10 is perfect looks.
	That's like God's.
	But did I say 10 out of 10?
	Well, I asked you if you were 10 out of 10.
	I didn't say that.
	You refused to answer.
	You said I said I look good.
	All right, fair enough.
	That could.
	Sure.
	Go ahead.
	I think at least a seven.
	Okay.
	Pretty good.
	6.57.
	Okay.
	Everyone, that includes Chase over here.
	Chase, what do you?
	I'd give myself like a 7.5 or an 8 on a good day.
	I give myself a 6.
	I give myself a 6.
	Oh, we got the 2 10s over here.
	No, I feel like I'm just sober and objective, you know?
	Like, there's absolute giga chads out there, and like, I'm not an absolute girl.
	You're gorgeous.
	Do you want to answer or no?
	I don't even know what my rating was.
	I didn't have a spirit.
	Huh?
	Well, that doesn't matter.
	Just how do you feel about yourself?
	Like, I'm a 10.
	Is that.
	No.
	I am not a 10.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	No, I'm not a 10.
	All right.
	I'm not delusional.
	All right.
	There you have it.
	I'm saying that the other one is a little bit more.
	Yes.
	Are you saying that they're not?
	Are you saying that they're delusional for saying 10?
	They're like based.
	Fresh still.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm 27.
	I don't like that.
	Compared to other ones.
	They're fresh.
	Interesting descriptor.
	That makes a difference.
	Everybody knows that.
	Well, sure, youth.
	Everybody knows.
	Youth and beauty go hand in hand.
	So we got the two tens here.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I feel like I should change my answer now.
	No, no, no.
	Call me influence.
	No, no, no.
	Stay strong.
	Like, do I sound cocky?
	Like, do you guys think that all women should rate themselves as 10s?
	I would.
	Yeah, I think we should all love ourselves.
	But if every woman's a 10, then every woman is of equal attractiveness, and that's obviously not.
	I mean, asking us what we think of ourselves, though.
	Yeah, I think.
	So of myself, I think I am a 10.
	Like, in this moment, I have bad days where I think I'm lower.
	So you're saying you have high self-confidence right now.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	I have a question.
	Do you have plastic surgery?
	I do.
	Yes.
	Were you a 10 before the plastic surgery?
	I felt like I was a 10 before at moments, and then sometimes I didn't.
	Well, then why the need for plastic surgery if you're $199.
	Will you also be making Zelda stay on your OnlyFans Genie?
	New girl girl.
	Please.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Also, coming after the podcast.
	Those are friends who are going to be able to send in chats during the show.
	Go ahead.
	Because, like, if you were a 10 before, if your physical beauty was a 10 before, why the need to augment it with plastic surgery?
	I see what you're saying.
	Yes.
	So I would say a lot of that was influence.
	I moved to LA and like.
	Oh, rip.
	Yep.
	I mean, I don't know.
	I mean, she almost got easily influenced just by that.
	I changed her answer.
	But also, like, I started making more money.
	So I feel like when you, you know, when you start making more money, you know.
	You do what?
	You get unnecessary, dangerous surgeries to on.
	I mean, it's like, if you have more money, like, why not buy nicer clothes?
	And, like, for me, it was like nicer boobs.
	Nicer nose.
	What was wrong?
	I mean, not to dive too.
	What was wrong with the boobs before?
	Nothing.
	They were actually fine.
	I like them.
	$99.
	Hate the single number system.
	Here is what we have developed at my academic institution, which is a three-tier system.
	Zero or one, zero equals no, one equals smashable, zero to ten face, zero to ten body.
	This is a more comprehensive approach of a cosmopolitan age.
	Communication equals key.
	You're lost in that.
	I don't understand.
	That's like so complicated.
	That's so advanced.
	You're lost.
	Here, I have something for you.
	It's.
	I don't know, man.
	That sounds like a lot of work.
	Because, yeah, I just, if you were a 10, you wouldn't need to have gotten plastic surgery.
	Yeah, fair enough.
	But I mean, I wanted it and made more money.
	Can I ask a question?
	Yeah.
	So if you guys were to theoretically take what you presume would be the average answers for that question from men, what do you think you would be?
	Huh?
	So from other people, not from myself, like I would probably agree, like a seven or eight.
	You think that's what men would rate you?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Depending on the man, I guess.
	On average, what would you just assume?
	On average.
	Yeah, probably like an eight or nine.
	Okay.
	That's a good question.
	I feel like more the answer.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	I'm not going to be mean here.
	Not trying to be mean.
	Fuck.
	If you were to, like.
	I don't think a cohort of men is going to rate you on average eight or nine.
	Yeah.
	No offense.
	Andy Lane jumped in real quick on that one.
	Yeah.
	No, non-taken.
	What?
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, I take no offense.
	Why wouldn't they, though?
	I mean, she's pretty.
	She's attractive, but.
	Oh, I was thinking you meant that she would be.
	No, he was saying if we asked an honest cohort of men, they would not rate her anything.
	Yeah, he's asking your opinion.
	You mean higher?
	Here, why don't we ask the chat?
	Also on the type of thing.
	But chat, don't be a dickhead just to like don't intentionally rate her low.
	Like chat.
	Yeah, you could be honest.
	Nick, can you pull up the chat, please?
	Okay, go go.
	Nick, Nick.
	Shall we?
	Make it bigger.
	Make it bigger.
	Hartley, what's seriously wrong with this world that everybody's so hypercomputed, bro?
	Oh, God, bro.
	What's going on?
	Can you make it a little bit more difficult?
	So on average, between five and seven.
	Average six, it looks like six.
	I'm seeing some sevens.
	Be honest.
	Everyone nine.
	Just looks, by the way, not the whole stabbing thing.
	You can't factor in.
	Close the chat.
	I see a nine.
	Close the chat.
	Dude.
	You're like, y'all are done.
	Eight.
	No, don't factor in the higher.
	Zero.
	Attempted murder thing.
	Block them.
	Okay, six, seven.
	It looks like seven.
	Who said the negative?
	It looked like I saw a nine.
	I don't know.
	I'm happy.
	Who rated me nine?
	Jewett, do you have an accent?
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Alabama.
	Okay.
	Checks out.
	All right.
	Whoever did eight or nine gets a free subscription and photo.
	Good talk.
	Wait, so both of you said that all women should view themselves as tense.
	Do you think all men should view themselves as tense?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Really?
	Yeah, of course.
	Why?
	Because I want you to love yourself.
	I want you to think highly of yourself.
	I want you to feel confident in yourself.
	I don't want you to think down about yourself.
	This is why women give terrible dating advice, bro.
	Like, I don't want you to feel down.
	Yeah, I want you to love yourself.
	I mean, don't you think it's a confidence?
	I mean, you're going to hate yourself sometimes.
	But don't you think it's a bit delusional?
	I hate myself.
	It's not realistic, but it doesn't mean you don't want it.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I mean, you're going to hate yourself sometimes, obviously, but sometimes you're going to love it.
	Here's the reality.
	It's important for men to have self-confidence.
	But if somebody, if I'm a guy and I'm rating myself a 10, what I'm subconsciously communicating to myself is there's no room for improvement.
	I'm perfect the way that I am.
	Which is ridiculous.
	I think that's a really stupid way for guys to look at themselves.
	I also don't think it's a smart way for women to look at themselves.
	Well, when you say that, that makes sense.
	Right?
	Yeah.
	No, it's important to have self-confidence, but delusional self-confidence, I don't think, helps anybody.
	Yeah, definitely.
	I mean, I don't think I'm delusional self-confidence.
	I think I'm just self-confident because I still think I have room for improvement.
	But like I said, self-confidence is absolutely rational.
	Yeah, because I think a lot of the time I know if I'm at my healthiest and I work out every day and I do this, like I can be like the best, you know?
	So I'm just, but if I think low of myself that day, I'm not going to go to the gym.
	I'm not going to work out.
	So I'm going to think really high of myself so I can keep bettering myself.
	Okay, so you said like objectively speaking, you feel like you're like an eight or a nine.
	So you just barely have room for improvement.
	Yeah, I just know much.
	I mean, I got more room.
	I got to keep pushing.
	It's an incentive.
	I also see, I see what you're saying, but then I also think it's good to not be delusional in the other way where you constantly feel like you have to be better and better and better.
	Because I feel like that can be like.
	What are you striving for then?
	So I disagree with that.
	I think it can make you unhappy sometimes.
	Like, I feel like a lot of people can end up with certain things like self-loathing.
	I disagree.
	Like eating disorders of some way.
	That's $2,000.
	Go back to this.
	But again, that temptation is a good idea.
	I'm not going to follow you on Instagram.
	Chat, make sure to follow him on Instagram.
	Jesus is king.
	Hey, appreciate that, Zach.
	Yeah, if you guys want to follow me on Instagram, my username is at sovereign bra with an H on the end.
	Sovereign bra.
	To your point, though, yeah, with the eating disorder stuff, I think that's usually more common with women.
	But I would agree that if somebody's too hard on themselves, it can spiral into self-loathing, despair, depression, so on and so forth.
	What I disagree with, though, is the idea that men shouldn't be hard on themselves.
	I think men, personally, I'm like ruthlessly hard on myself and I have been for the first time.
	Do you think just men or you just mean like people and well, you know, women, it's different.
	Okay, here's the thing.
	Women who are hard on themselves, they typically have like Christopher would have donated $99.
	I feel really stupid for spending $100 to $10.
	I don't know.
	But at least I didn't pay way more than $100 to get a nose that is worse than my original nose.
	Fake noses do not look nicer.
	They are noticeably weird.
	Who is this directed to?
	I don't know.
	Me.
	It's directed to her.
	Oh.
	Do you want to respond to that?
	I mean, I don't think he would have noticed I had a nose job unless I said it.
	I would have never known.
	I didn't notice.
	It's important to know your objective looks rating of yourself for dating.
	I'm 24, already balding, slightly overweight, and way lower than average pee.
	I can be confident and working on myself, but still be realistic for my future.
	Respect, bro.
	Respect.
	To finish the point that I was making a second ago, I think when women are really hard on themselves, they'll be hard on themselves about their physical appearance.
	They'll be hard on themselves about their bodies, so on and so forth.
	That can spiral into self-loathing that can lead to, like you said, eating disorders.
	Plastic surgery is one way that women will try to fix it.
	And the solution for that oftentimes is, you're right, loving oneself, but also taking good care of oneself.
	With men, though, like, I think the issue in the world is that not enough men are ruthlessly critical of themselves and hard enough on themselves.
	I think a lot of dudes are lazy.
	Yes.
	I think women are very frustrated by how many men are just like not striving in life.
	Yeah, they're comfortable.
	They're not getting after it.
	They're not working to build their value.
	And like early in my 20s, I took like very sober inventory of myself and my life.
	And I was like, okay, I need to get this, and this in shape.
	And I worked really hard on it.
	And I still do to this day.
	And I think when men don't do that, they end up not building their value.
	And men find their confidence in their value, right?
	You guys are talking about men having like high self-esteem.
	Men should think of themselves as tens.
	As a guy, I'm not just going to think of myself as a 10 because I'm like, oh, wow, I just, I think I'm perfect.
	I'm going to have confidence in myself because I know that I have aspects to my life.
	Yes, that can back it up.
	Okay, I agree with you.
	Does that make sense?
	Yeah.
	And I also think that kind of goes like person to person as well.
	Like, you know, based on like mental and stuff like that.
	Certainly.
	And then I also think with the men thing, it's the difference between a boy and a man.
	I agree.
	Oh, yeah.
	Sure.
	And there's different ideals for what men and women have to achieve in life.
	And men strive to achieve success.
	And it's different for women.
	Women strive for, for the most part, vanity type of aspirations.
	But men strive for successful careers, successful attractiveness in terms of your physical fitness and etc.
	Yeah, and the message that I try to preach to dudes is like it's okay to not be enough and to realize it as long as you're working towards becoming the best version of yourself.
	You know, like you don't have to hate yourself if you're not enough.
	But like even successful dudes that are resting on their laurels, like if you get lazy, like your value is going to slip.
	Dudes that don't have much value, if they're just like sitting around not doing anything with their lives, like the right kind of women that they really want probably won't end up wanting them.
	You know, like it's as a man, it's good to always be striving to be better.
	I agree with you.
	I think just like the innocent like sweetness of me wants everyone to feel really good about themselves.
	Understandable.
	The only difference there though is that when it comes to getting sexual attention from the opposite sex, the treatment that men and women get is very different.
	Yes.
	So women can think they're a 10 and it's not going to slap them in the face.
	But if a guy thinks he's a 10, if a guy thinks he's hot shit, he's not going to be one, assuming he's not, right?
	If he's actually a 10 and he thinks it's a 10, that's fine.
	But men will get slapped in the face with the reality, whereas I think women typically don't.
	Because what I think ends up happening is typically women, when it comes to who they can sleep with, women can sleep out of their league when it comes to looks, when it comes to status, when it comes to all sorts of things.
	An average 19-year-old girl could go fuck like probably some famous celebrity.
	Now, what I would say to that is your league is the men who will marry you.
	Yes.
	Not the men who will sleep with you.
	So women, when you sleep with attractive men, and if you let that go to your head, assuming that that's your league, that's about as ridiculous as like an average guy who's subbed to a bunch of OF models and assumes that's his league.
	And I think women need to know where they stand looks-wise because if you think you're a 10 and you're gunning for a certain caliber of men for long-term commitment, I think you're going to be let down.
	I think women need to be able to accurately appraise themselves looks-wise.
	Yeah.
	But also in terms of like what are they bringing to a relationship?
	Are they argumentative?
	Can they cook?
	Are they sweet and feminine?
	Do they offer loyalty?
	Do they offer good support to a man, right?
	Because a lot of women want.
	He wants a partner.
	Yeah.
	And a lot of women want like the highest quality guy, but they're just frankly not the highest quality.
	Yeah, it works both ways.
	Like women are always looking for a partner.
	And like, I feel like men are sorry, wrong way.
	Like men are always looking for a partner, but then women aren't looking for that.
	Grid one motorsports donated $100.
	when evaluating yourself in the dating marketplace is a key to happiness for men's status earning potential and ability to provide is generally valued higher than looks for women the weight is on your looks attitude and purity yo thank you grid one last Last thing on this.
	I think another thing that's related to this is typically when it comes to dating sex relationships.
	So for a woman to sleep with a guy, typically that guy needs to be at least physically attractive enough for her to be in a relationship with that man.
	Whereas it's kind of the reverse for men.
	Yeah.
	Men will sleep with women of a certain like men will sleep with women of a certain looks level that they would never be in a relationship with.
	They'll sleep with her, but they will never be in a relationship with her.
	Whereas the reverse is for a woman to sleep with a guy, he typically has to be at least physically attractive enough for her to be in a relationship with him.
	Yeah.
	And typically they're going to break the rule the other way.
	Maybe they typically don't have casual sex, but they might break that rule for like a really fucking attractive guy.
	So that's the differential.
	Let me get caught up on a couple chats here because we're a little behind.
	We have Doc Vanablis.
	Gents, I think that you are missing the point.
	OF Grandma's behavior is like doing drugs.
	Think of the Hangover movie.
	Her life is practically a blur.
	Do you have a response to that?
	Was for me.
	Not my words from Doc Vanablis.
	I'm sorry.
	I wasn't paying attention.
	Okay.
	I didn't know it was for me.
	All right.
	He just says that.
	Oh, wait.
	There's.
	Oh, wait.
	That's another one.
	I'll read it while it's up.
	The one with the noticeably fake nose is constantly worrying about where she stands based on inscrutable social clues and then inevitably reframing it all in a reassuring way so that she can get to sleep at night.
	The hosts notice your plastic surgery first.
	I actually didn't know you had a.
	I just noticed the titties not gonna lie.
	I mean, they're fake, obviously.
	No, but I didn't even notice the nose.
	I don't really quarrel so much with that.
	But whatever.
	Well, yeah, I don't know why the nose is sticking out more than the boobs to them.
	Like, that's kind of different.
	It's like too perfect, maybe.
	I don't know.
	It could actually, that could be a real nice thing.
	Maybe it like upsets men more that like it's on my face.
	It could be a real nose.
	I didn't know.
	I didn't know.
	I've never had people think that it's not my real nose.
	But I also tell everyone because I'm not like ashamed of that.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Well, I think there's also degrees to plastic surgery.
	I think rhinoplasty is far less or far less invasive than like a BBL or breast implants or lipo or something else.
	So, you know, we have Avery here.
	Hold on, let me get this.
	Avery, not going to lie, hard not to send for a woman who is as absolutely stunning as Priya, especially after learning her outlook on life, religion, religious political opinions.
	Anyway, Brian, love the show.
	Your old pranks were hilarious.
	I wish you luck.
	Jesus loves you.
	Hey, Avery, thank you so much.
	Appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Priya, anything else?
	No, just follow Rippy's comment.
	I think you're going to pull it up soon.
	Yes.
	Let me read this.
	Ladies, do you think that most modern women respect working-class men?
	And do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation?
	So we'll go around the table.
	Do you think that most modern women respect working-class men?
	And do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation?
	Starting with you, and we'll go around the table.
	Go ahead.
	I would say most men don't respect certain jobs that women have.
	I would feel like a woman, like me.
	Talking like OnlyFans.
	Only fans.
	Yeah.
	And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
	I think that's just personal preference and what they view.
	Chase, I'm almost wondering if we do you think that, well, do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation, but excluding sex work?
	Because I think what he's perhaps trying to get at is most men will respect women when it comes to their romantic interest in them regardless of her career success.
	I think that's what Bender's trying.
	Yeah, so.
	I agree with you, Brian.
	Because I'd say most, like, yeah.
	Do you think that most modern women respect working class men and do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation?
	So who here thinks most men respect women regardless of occupation?
	You think most men respect women?
	Excluding sex work, yes.
	Excluding sex work.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay, excluding sex work.
	Excluding sex work for sure.
	But you recognize that men, many men don't respect sex work.
	Absolutely.
	Who here thinks that women respect working class men?
	We'll go around the table.
	Starting with you and we'll go around.
	Go ahead.
	Do you think the average woman respects a working class man?
	Hold on, we'll go.
	Mike Davis donated $100.
	Here's the thing.
	I realized early on I wasn't no looker.
	The good news is I have zero patience for women, so I'm glad I don't attract them.
	My one and only lifelong love is money, so I got in the lab and learned how to make a lot of it.
	Be realistic.
	He owns a lot of Burger Kings.
	The photo really quick.
	He's a handsome guy.
	Mike Davis, if there's any man who's a 10, I think it's this gentleman, right?
	Mike Davis is the perfect exemplification of your game.
	Donated $29.
	White top blonde, how do you force your relationships in the future affected by your career?
	Here, we'll actually answer that really quick, brief answer, and then we'll get back to the question.
	Go ahead.
	I don't see there being any problem because he does OnlyFans with me.
	Well, are you guys going to stay together forever?
	Yes.
	You are.
	Let's say hypothetically speaking, it doesn't work out.
	Do you anticipate that the fact that you have done the content that you've done could it conceivably have an impact on future relationships?
	No, because I was in that one and we had content together.
	The current one.
	The previous one.
	Wait, there's a previous relationship with the nine-year.
	Oh, you were making content.
	So I made content with him.
	Oh.
	And then when I was single, I was making content with, you know.
	Okay.
	Wait, did this guy propose to you?
	Your current boyfriend?
	No, but I know.
	You guys have made a plan to get married?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	We're serious.
	We share bank accounts.
	But, you know, God forbid the relationship doesn't work out.
	But if it didn't.
	You don't think that other guys would have an issue with it?
	I mean, I found him, and he didn't have an issue with it.
	Not him, though.
	Other guys.
	guys i mean i would assume there's more of him out there but like do you think have a difficult time It would probably take.
	Yeah, there's, like, people, like, I mean, I would tell a guy straight up, like, on the first date, like, this is what I do.
	And if they don't want to be involved, then...
	I think it might be, for some of the guys who are not so much in favor of girls who do S work or OnlyFans, there may be some degree of cope about, oh, they're never going to find a guy.
	Like, I think, granted, and she's also very attractive, I think that there's a lot of guys that are just going to overlook it.
	And it might not lead to, it might not lead to, like, it could cause problems in the relationship, but much in the same way that people frequently get into relationships that are rife with conflict and issues.
	We've had discussions where we've had to change.
	But I think we underestimate the degree to which, like, there's a lot of people who are.
	There's a ton of simps out there that would be so stoked to be with her, regardless of the OnlyFans.
	The question is, though, are those the kind of men that she would want?
	Yeah, exactly.
	There was this guy who paid like $10,000 just to have a hug with this girl on OnlyFans.
	That is like the most insane level of simping I've ever heard in my life.
	It's kind of pathetic.
	What does his name is?
	Because that is completely bad.
	But is that like a W?
	No, for him.
	Like, in terms of 10 grand.
	He's a trick.
	He's a mug.
	I mean, it was only a hug.
	Yeah, but does the girl that he wanted a hug from, does she view him as a romantic prospect?
	That probably isn't.
	No, because she has 10 grand after that with money.
	The second a man displays that type of behavior, every woman here, and you can deny it all you want, is going to write him off immediately.
	Okay, so Priya, you said you've been dating your guy for two months?
	Yeah.
	How would you feel if in the process of talking to him he had told you that at one point in time he had paid an OnlyFans model $10,000 to give her a hug?
	That would cause some serious problems.
	I agree.
	I think even for me, that would be a problem.
	I do OnlyFans and I think it would be a good idea.
	Denial is strong enough.
	Can you name a porn worker that has had a lifelong marriage?
	Was there not a guy on recently who said the same thing about his prom girl and that relationship went out down in fames?
	I have never wished to be a divorce attorney more.
	I would...
	I would love to know the statistics on long-term marital outcomes for people in the sex work industry.
	It cannot be good.
	Can you bring it back to the question about the working class?
	Yeah, so do you think most women respect working class men?
	Yes.
	Like blue-collar dudes?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I mean, as long as you're making money, yeah.
	Like, is it in the terms of a relationship prospect or just men in general?
	We'll say relationship prospects.
	I think it depends on the girl.
	Because some girls want to be like, you know, step up.
	Yeah, I agree.
	What do you mean some girls want to be like step up?
	Like, hey, that's not enough money that you're making at your blue-collar job?
	I guess so.
	How about you?
	I can't speak for other girls, but I do.
	You respect men with more respect for anybody out there in the grind.
	Cool.
	Because it's not an easy world, especially right now.
	Yeah.
	Mad respect.
	What about you?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I think a lot of girls don't, though.
	Like, they all want a really rich boyfriend that, like, takes care of them.
	Like, they look for somebody that's going to, like, spoil them.
	And if they don't get that, then they're like, no, I'm done.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, especially in the 21st century.
	What about you?
	I for sure think most women do.
	And if you don't, you should.
	Okay.
	I think on average, blue-collar workers are extremely underappreciated by women specifically.
	So if your boyfriend was working a blue-collar job, would you be chill with that?
	Let's say he's making like 65 grand a year.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Would you be okay with that?
	Yeah.
	I would pay for all his stuff.
	Yeah.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, definitely.
	Yeah.
	Well, that also goes to, you know, like what a guy thinks is okay for women.
	Hold on, hold on.
	No, no, no.
	Don't go down that rabbit hole.
	What I'm curious about is if you met a guy who's making that kind of money, would you consider being in a long-term relationship with him?
	If he was the right guy, yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I agree.
	If it's the right guy.
	Oh, wait, hold on.
	He's making like 65 grand, you'd be down.
	Nick, put it on the other camera.
	Can you scoot your mic that way, please?
	Left, right?
	That way, please.
	Go ahead.
	You're fine, you're fine.
	Thank you.
	Yeah, I think as long as you're happy.
	Yeah.
	Yeah?
	Yeah.
	You'd be cool dating a guy making that much?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	It'd be cool.
	Yes, absolutely.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Got some more chats here.
	Take this with a grain of salt.
	I can understand rating yourself a 10 to make yourself feel better, and some people also appreciate that.
	Most people will just think you're pompous or arrogant for that rating.
	I give myself a three.
	I've been told by friends I'm Higg.
	What's that mean?
	What is Higg?
	Hig.
	Maybe huge?
	Big?
	I don't know.
	All right, Folly, send in another chat.
	Clarify it.
	We have Christopher Wood here.
	The one with the, oh, did I already read this one?
	I already read it.
	My bad.
	My bad.
	Hold on, let me skip that.
	All right.
	I'm bringing up the nosy.
	All right, we have a couple chats here.
	We have Midnight.
	While I missed the prank and social experiment stuff, I love the new content too.
	Totally dig the channel.
	Excuse me.
	Progression.
	First impression of the table of just joining girl on the far left would be the one I'd walk up to.
	Also, to be clear, I'm a woman.
	Who's on the far left?
	Is it the girl on the...
	She's talking about Priya.
	Is she?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right, Midnight.
	This woman's hitting on you, Priya.
	What do you have to say, Priya?
	It's very kind of you.
	I don't bounce for that side.
	Sorry.
	And I am in a room.
	Nick, did you pull this one up?
	We're going to address it.
	What?
	Like I said, Julie, what is humble and probably the prettiest one on the panel?
	Dressed down.
	Dang, y'all shows some love.
	The one that said she didn't even want to be here should be kicked out.
	The old lady should stop lying.
	Did you show it?
	I believe I did, but.
	Okay.
	All right.
	All right, Lil Wretched ran through.
	And just a clarification, guys, normally that just, it's 50 and up.
	Okay, Lil Wretched ran through Redhead is great.
	Sneak preview for the younger chicks of where the road of promiscuity dead ends.
	Get married, raise a family, and follow Christ.
	Girl with white button down looks like a keeper.
	Good to see Chase back.
	My brother in Christ from Lil Wretched.
	Okay, cool.
	Thank you, man.
	Okay.
	We have Christopher Wood.
	I feel really stupid for spending $100 to talk to people I don't know, but at least.
	Oh, he sent it as a super chat, too.
	Okay, well.
	Thank you, Christopher.
	He doubled up.
	Rippy, overtly high self-ratings on physical attractiveness are a product of a self-love culture.
	Yep.
	I think we need a self-hate culture.
	This is exactly what I wanted to get into, actually.
	Let me finish reading.
	Than a self-sacrifice culture, self-sacrifice is what makes humble people always striving to help those close to them without massive ego agree.
	I like that.
	I think the self-love movement has bered narcissism, narcissism in our culture today.
	People need to be, honestly, frankly, most people do need to be a bit harder on themselves to strive for actually achieving something in life instead of just saying, oh, if I'm if life's not going to be easy for me, then why would I put any effort into it?
	I agree.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, we live in like a participation trophy culture.
	Yeah.
	Everybody's perfect just the way they are, which is complete nonsense.
	I think we need a self-sacrifice culture.
	Like we need a self-discipline culture.
	I think we need a self-control culture.
	I agree with that.
	I just hate the last guys I've been with, all they did was downgrade themselves so much to the point that I'm like, yes, I want you to love yourself.
	Like when you ask me that, I'm like, yes, I do.
	Immediately my brain was thinking about the guys.
	Like how would they downgrade themselves?
	Donated $99.
	Brian, I love the disapproving size you give when your staff isn't on point.
	It reminds me of me in the operating room.
	Thank you for making me feel normal, lol.
	You're welcome.
	What's this all about, Brian?
	Like you're doing surgeries and shit, and the fucking surgeons just like you're fucking up nurses.
	They give you a cutscene instead of a surgeon.
	It's just like, oh, yeah, he's dead now.
	Wrong instrument.
	That's how I feel.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Oh, here, I'll just read it while it's up.
	I don't know why Priya's wearing a tablecloth.
	Uh-oh.
	Jeannie looks like Barbie on heroin.
	Don't even get me started on the 90-year-old.
	Also, question for Kaylee Killian: Does your boyfriend hold the camera while you smash other dudes?
	Lol?
	Oh, no, he's lol.
	I'm smashing my boyfriend.
	Okay.
	Our OnlyFans is a problem.
	You guys are exclusive.
	Yes, it's literally our name is the OnlyFans.
	Did your boyfriend have any issues with you having content with your past boyfriend?
	No, he didn't.
	Does he have content with other women?
	No.
	He never did OnlyFans until we started dating.
	Wait, Candy.
	There's been a couple chats that have questioned your age.
	Noticed.
	Do you want to address that?
	Address what?
	The agenda is a lot older than everybody else here.
	Well, you said you were.
	How old did you say you were?
	36.
	Have you been honest with us about that?
	Yeah.
	There's a lot of skepticism from the viewers.
	Is it justified?
	Like what?
	Are you actually 36?
	Yeah.
	Is that what your driver's license would say if I looked at it?
	My driver's license would probably say a couple of things you weren't expecting.
	Oh, yeah?
	Like what?
	What?
	That you're an organ donor?
	She's not actually a redhead.
	Oh, no, she's an organ donor.
	I didn't expect that.
	Candy.
	All right.
	Surprisingly, Candy.
	Date of birth.
	What year were you born?
	87.
	Okay, that was quick.
	That was rehearsed.
	That is quick.
	Who doesn't know the date, the year that they were born?
	It's like, oh my gosh, what is that?
	If she's actually 36, we're being kind of alumini.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What else did I say in my pre-interview?
	I said, I am the cautionary tale.
	How so?
	Well, you know, one of your chats had to say, you know, this is what it's going to look like.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	This wasn't how things were intended, but when you're in your 20s and you're all bright-eyed and, you know, like, oh, my entire feature is in front of me.
	And then all of a sudden you're in your 30s and you're like, just happened.
	It comes up really quick.
	Okay.
	It happens really fast, especially when you decide to take out a decade, you know, to have faith.
	Is it possible that having faith could still pay off for you?
	Do you think that?
	Because I think I get the sense.
	I get the sense in your heart of hearts the addiction that you're trying to feed would probably be best fed with one guy for the rest of your life.
	What do you think about that?
	I'll think about it later.
	You know there's truth to what I'm saying.
	Do you think it might be a good idea to have faith that that could be possible for you?
	What if you became a nun?
	It's a complicated world.
	Is the nunnery?
	I think you make it more complicated than it needs to be by pursuing casual relationships with all these different men that you don't want anything deep with.
	I think you're making your world complicated.
	I agree.
	I think it's complicated, period.
	I think I'm doing what I can to survive.
	I feel like you kind of want it to be complicated.
	Yeah.
	That's what I get from it.
	I think you might be addicted to the emotional roller coasters, perhaps.
	No, because it's not about emotions.
	It's about release.
	Okay, so why don't you get like one guy and just have the same amount of sex?
	That would be great.
	Well, yeah, that would be great.
	That's kind of a relationship.
	But, you know, but it sounds like you don't even want to attempt to pursue a relationship.
	I've tried.
	I know you've said you've tried and it just has not gone well for you.
	And you have this outlook on life and men that there are no good men out there.
	I never said that.
	I think there are good men out there.
	I think that they are very rare.
	Okay.
	Yeah, please don't put words in her mouth, Priya.
	I'm pretty sure she did say that, but I apologize if that's not the case.
	But, okay, so you say that there are a few good men out there.
	Why don't you try seek them out and pursue them, if that's the case?
	I did try.
	I tried for a very long time.
	Were you just going to quit?
	Yeah, I quit.
	You can't quit.
	We believe in you, Candy.
	What's your name?
	Maybe you work on yourself.
	Candy, are you a quitter?
	You're not a quitter.
	No, I'm trying to.
	You are not a quitter, Candy.
	She's done a lot.
	She belongs.
	Oh, sorry.
	Sorry.
	I didn't mean to press that one.
	It was an action.
	I swear to God.
	I swear to God.
	No, but I did not think that it belongs to the streets.
	I think you will find the right one, Candy.
	I think you want to.
	Timing is like you need to work on yourself.
	Timing is a huge thing.
	Timing's a huge thing, but sometimes you can meet the right guy at the wrong time if you have the wrong patterns and habits in your life.
	Okay?
	And if you meet the right guy at the wrong time because you quit ahead of time, think about how much that's going to suck.
	Think of the suck, how much that might suck.
	I'm a big believer in you.
	You attract what you are.
	And if you're not behaving like the person that you want to attract and become your life partner, then you're just simply not going to find him because you're not candid.
	You're not going to find him.
	Not going to find him.
	What?
	Go ahead.
	No.
	Go ahead and say it.
	What?
	Like, I just feel like it's like kind of playing victim.
	Absolutely.
	And you're kind of just like, oh, woe is me.
	Like, at least I'm not going to go fix it with a bunch of surgery.
	Okay, fair enough.
	Kept my skin.
	Spicy.
	Let's go.
	You're going to have a white knight or something to sweep you off your feet and take you into the sunset.
	That I don't think exists anymore.
	So I'm not going to minimize anything that you might have gone through in your life.
	I completely believe that everyone goes through their hardships, but at the same time, you can't let those define you, and you need to overcome them.
	Must overcome.
	Yeah, and behave like the person that you want to attract and end up being in your life.
	And I do think you have to make some changes if you want to positively.
	You've got to make changes.
	I want to change this.
	I want to look at this real soberly and logically.
	Okay.
	A few moments ago, Candy, you said that men are attracted to younger women.
	You said that women who are more fresh, that's an advantage that they have in the sexual dating marketplace.
	Generally, yeah.
	Generally speaking, yes.
	On the trajectory that you're on, there's this, you know, messing around, playing the field, hooking up with different guys, this can only last for so long.
	True.
	So long.
	It can only last for so long.
	For so long.
	I don't know how long.
	Candy, I don't know how long it can last, okay?
	Like, you're probably not going to be able to do this as successfully as you are now, 15, 20 years from now.
	This is an intervention vlog.
	I would say...
	Maybe two.
	What'd you say?
	I said one year, maybe two.
	You think you have one year, maybe two left in you of doing this?
	Okay, that's not a long time.
	But if you found the right guy and you married him, but got married.
	You could get that supply that you're craving for the rest of your life, whole life.
	But you're not going to find that guy if you're playing these games that you're doing now.
	No games.
	Can I ask a question real quick?
	How is someone who gets surgery to get through hardships any worse than going around sleeping with people?
	Got her.
	I think that's a big difference.
	How?
	Like, to pay somebody money to actually change your physical being when you could, I don't know, just go ahead and get it.
	We were talking about fixing your behaviors, not your physical appearance.
	Yeah, and also I didn't mean like anything rude or mean about what I was saying.
	Stay friends.
	Yeah, I was just saying that I think the behavior is obviously negative.
	And, like, you could probably change it.
	I also want to say to you, I'm not attacking you.
	I don't, I can't speak for anybody.
	I'm not attacking you.
	I just see a woman who has a deep longing in her heart for love and also for dick.
	But like, I see a woman who has a longing for companionship who has been hurt by the world and who has been hurt by her life circumstances and who has kind of given up on true love.
	You know, and it breaks my heart to see.
	But I also know like that thing that you're looking for, you're saying that it's so rare to find good guys out there.
	That guy that you're looking for, he's not going to want this version of Candy that's engaging in this behavior.
	He's going to want a version of you that wants that true love with him.
	You know, and I don't want to see you.
	I mean, you said you've got two years before this game is up.
	I don't want to see you go the rest of your life single.
	You know, you clearly have a longing for companionship.
	You know?
	Does that make sense?
	I'm not attacking you.
	Not attacking you.
	You can still change for the better.
	Wait, hold on, hold on.
	Let her respond.
	Let her respond.
	I can tell I struck a nerve.
	Just because that's what the heart wants doesn't mean that it's possible in this world.
	Maybe God can.
	And I am being realistic by my choices right now.
	Y'all may maybe not like it, but I am being realistic.
	And a lot of this podcast has been, especially you, Brian.
	Oh, once you're 30s, oh, you should be put out to pasture.
	I didn't say that.
	I object.
	I object.
	I did not say that.
	I did not say that.
	Disavow.
	Point pastures.
	Put out to pasture.
	No pasture.
	When did you say that?
	I did not say this.
	I did not say this.
	Just about.
	Maybe once you get in your 40s, we can have another conversation about it.
	But definitely in your 30s.
	No pastures.
	No pastures, no meadows.
	No tundras.
	Nothing.
	All right, Candy.
	Wait, can I say something really quickly?
	Really quickly.
	My mom is like 61.
	She was born in 62, so however old that makes her, she's married to a 28-year-old, 29-year-old.
	So maybe she does have a lot of time.
	What?
	Wait.
	This is new.
	Your mom, who's 61.
	She was born in 62, so however old that makes her 61.
	61.
	Yeah, 62.
	And she's dating a 20.
	Married.
	When did they get married?
	Like two, three years ago.
	So he was like 25?
	Yeah, so I have an older brother and he was younger than my older brother.
	It's just his friends?
	No, no, they're not friends.
	They're not friends.
	The age is younger than some male.
	His youngest son.
	So don't you?
	How did they reach out?
	How did they meet?
	Did they marry me?
	Does your mom have a lot of money?
	Is she like a sugar mama?
	No, she's not a sugar mama, but I'm not going to put her business out there, but she's good-looking.
	She's a Kardashian mom, isn't it?
	She's pretty.
	Is that your mom?
	No, my mom is blonde.
	She's five feet tall.
	Chris Jenger?
	Is your mom Chris Jenner?
	$199.99.
	Candy.
	I know your feelings.
	Put your faith in Christ.
	He will show you the world you want.
	You will have to sacrifice.
	It's hard.
	I can't do it.
	You can.
	Amen.
	Thank you.
	I agree.
	Thank you.
	This ties in directly to what I wanted to say to you, Candy.
	You say that you're being realistic about the fact that it's just not going to happen.
	What you call realism, and this is, look, I understand this is probably hard to hear after your walk with God, but what you call realism, I see as a lack of faith.
	I know that God put those desires in your heart that he put there, and I know that he put them there for a reason.
	And I believe 100% he wants to fulfill them for you.
	I also believe God rewards us for our obedience in this life.
	You know, and look, you said you spent 10 years trying to be, you were celibate for 10 years, trying to do the best job that you possibly could.
	I obviously can't judge, you know, your obedience to God during that timeframe.
	And I know what it feels like to be obedient to God and to not feel rewarded for it.
	It sucks.
	You know, it like really crushes your faith.
	But I know, like, I see the longing in your heart, Candy.
	I know you want that companionship.
	Like, don't give up on it.
	Yeah, that just makes it harder.
	What does the longing?
	But it's there for a reason.
	You know, he implanted that in all of us.
	Absolutely.
	Life's not supposed to be easy, but that's the whole thing.
	I don't think it's supposed to be this hard, though, either.
	The longing.
	Says who.
	I've had a horrible life.
	I've had so many terrible, terrible things.
	I think that's our modern world.
	Yes, it is, but that's...
	Our ancestors went through hard checks as well.
	Yeah, Candy, just because life is hard doesn't mean it wasn't supposed to be this hard or that you can't still have love, you know?
	Yeah.
	Don't give up.
	Or that you can't stop pursuing the positive things in life.
	Don't give up, Candy.
	Don't give up.
	Don't give up.
	And also to what you're saying.
	Don't give up.
	Like about when you brought up your mom, none of us were saying that it's too late for her.
	If anything, we're advocating for that.
	It's not nearly too late for her.
	Also, everyone's on their own journey.
	Like, as much as we want her to be happy and be more, like, have a better outlook on life, like, she's only going to realize when she realizes.
	Yeah, and if you never do, you just never do that.
	I have something to say about that.
	She took Cougar to a whole other level.
	Side note, Pink Shirt tried to get the Donald Trump down.
	Oh, I was just in Mexico.
	Yeah.
	Because I look like that.
	I look like that.
	I was in Mexico.
	I'm on.
	What did you say a second ago?
	Roasting.
	Before that came in?
	I'm Mexican.
	Like, she's on her own journey.
	We can wish the best for her.
	She's going to want to, you know, have like a better outlook on life when she decides to.
	She's on her own path.
	So.
	But I hear what you're saying, but I also know that it's easy to slip into permanent pessimism until somebody comes along and is like, hey, no, there's a better way.
	Like, you can do it, you know, and that's...
	That's when you punch them.
	Come and hit me in the face, Candy.
	Come and hit me in the face, because I'll say it to you all day.
	You can do it.
	She might take you to the church.
	Candy, I have faith that God placed that longing in your heart for a reason.
	And I would encourage you to keep honoring it.
	Think about, you're probably familiar with the Bible.
	If you spent 10 years in church, think about Abraham and Sarah.
	They were childless and barren.
	They were childless and barren until they were like 100 years old.
	And God promised Sarah a child.
	And she was like, she laughed at it.
	She was like, that's ridiculous.
	But he still came through.
	They had to wait 100 years and he still came through and gave it to them.
	Jesus died on the cross.
	All hope was lost.
	The Messiah was dead.
	Impossible happened, rose from the grave.
	Like, we have a God who does impossible things.
	What feels impossible to you is easy to God, but God often asks patience from us.
	That was literally like a promise from God, though.
	What is that designer that didn't become famous until she was like 51?
	Like Versace or something?
	Not the same thing, but almost.
	But you got it.
	It took her a while, you know?
	She was not big and famous in the design and world, and now she is.
	Donatello?
	Donatello.
	Yeah.
	Donatello.
	Just don't give up.
	Don't give up.
	The kind of man, the kind of man that you want, like, like she said, you attract what you are.
	Be the kind of woman that he would want.
	That's what I think you should do.
	In the meantime, the sex addiction.
	The sex addiction, everything like that.
	Find other ways to fill that longing within you.
	I try, actually, with exercise.
	That's my anxiety relief.
	Exercise.
	You said you tried?
	No, I do.
	I punished the heck out of myself.
	Faced.
	I did the same thing.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Okay, awesome.
	We have grid one motorsports.
	It's in Trigger.
	Fear is the spare change that will keep you broke.
	Ginger, if you want a relationship, you will find one.
	If you choose, and it is a choice to be single, acting like a drunken slute, you will find that which you seek, make better choices, be a better human.
	He's right.
	It is a choice.
	It is a choice.
	Everything's a choice.
	Yeah.
	I chose it.
	You're resigned.
	You feel doomed.
	You feel doomed.
	And I'm telling you, you're not.
	Well, like I said, things have happened in my life that like what ended my celibacy.
	You know, I got some news about something, something that runs in my family that I did not think would touch me, and yet it did.
	And now it makes me feel trapped.
	An inviable candidate.
	So are you barren?
	Yeah, I can't have kids now.
	Okay.
	That's literally the first thing a guy wants.
	I want to break that narrative right now.
	You have a narrative in your mind that because you can't have kids, no guy will ever want you.
	And I want to break that narrative right now by telling you.
	I'm not all I ever want it.
	I hear you.
	That's all I've ever wanted to do.
	And I waited for the right guy, and I believed.
	And this is where I am now.
	So if it's a punishment to God, what I do with my body, then so be it.
	If he wants to cry every single day, that life that I have chosen to live.
	Wait, is this like revenge on God?
	God for my mom can't have kids and she's still got a man, so he don't pay attention.
	This is the outlook that you're putting on yourself.
	And her family, Candy, Kenny, think about it.
	And he's the one who's.
	Think about how serendipitous this is.
	You're sitting here on the panel saying, no guy will ever want me.
	I've only got so much time left to keep getting piped for my sex addiction.
	Like I'm totally screwed.
	Meanwhile, her mom is sitting here.
	She has a 28-year-old guy.
	But here's the.
	There's no different.
	Ladies, ladies, this is the narrative that I want to break right now.
	Who's to say that there's not a guy out there that would love to be with you and would love to adopt and raise kids with you?
	Who's to say that there's not a guy like that out there?
	That's the thing I need to share.
	Please hold on to that.
	Candy.
	Candy, what do you think about that?
	I've already made the decision.
	But don't you think it's possible that there's a guy out there, there's a guy out there who would love you even despite the fact that you can't have kids, who would want to be with you and to raise kids with you.
	Don't you think that's possible?
	If God wants that to happen, then it will happen.
	That's not an answer.
	Do you or do you not think it's possible?
	Are you saying it's not possible?
	I think that in all things with God, it's possible.
	But that's on him, not me.
	No.
	No, absolutely not.
	That is ridiculous.
	I spent what I did looking and waiting and being what I thought I was.
	I'm done with that now.
	Sure.
	Do you have one final response and then we're going to move on?
	What you just told me is that's on God.
	There's nothing I can do about it, so I might as well just keep getting piped by all these random guys and hope that the perfect guy comes along and just wants to accept all of that.
	That's what you're telling me.
	That's not a proper strategy for locking down that guy.
	There's absolutely stuff you can do right now in order to lock down that kind of guy.
	I've already told you, I don't know how many times I've stopped looking for that guy.
	Okay, then being alone is your choice, Candy.
	That's your choice.
	Temporarily.
	I want to hear more about the 61-year-old, the mom.
	I took some MILF.
	She's 61, he's 28.
	Yeah, I think he might have turned 29 this year or maybe like end of this year.
	I don't know.
	They're married?
	Yes.
	And how old are you?
	26.
	So you could also date this guy.
	I wouldn't.
	Oh, you wouldn't?
	Not that type.
	You could have gone to high school with him, though.
	Yeah.
	No, the beginning was rocky.
	Me and my older brother wanted to beat him up.
	Oh, shit.
	Kill.
	Oh, sorry.
	But yeah, we weren't happy because we were just like, what?
	Like, I don't know.
	Yeah, let's not talk about it.
	But yeah, how did they meet?
	Did you say that?
	I don't want to put her business out there, but I just wanted her to feel like hopeful.
	They're married, though, correct?
	Yeah.
	They're married.
	Let's say I want to find a 61-year-old woman to marry.
	What's the strategy?
	Where'd you go?
	Where'd you look?
	Trader Jones?
	TJ's?
	Joann's.
	I don't know.
	The fashion.
	TJ's a great.
	I wouldn't know because I'm not a 60-year-old woman, but and I don't want to put her business out there, but I don't know.
	You just need to find someone that likes younger guys.
	They're pretty.
	We have Lil Wretched here according to the Crystal Meth Calendar 30.
	Damn, that's a savage roast.
	Good thing she's out of the room right now.
	Okay, all right.
	All right, Rippy, Redhead, have you ever read the children's book?
	Oh, okay.
	You want to save it until she comes back?
	I'll save it until she's back.
	Yeah.
	Here, what did it say though?
	Pull it up again?
	I'll pull it up once.
	Translate to the surface, the voicing.
	I'll bring it back up.
	Let's see.
	We have Jessica here.
	You said, Jessica, you said you have a crazy ex who used to show up at your work and post up outside or post on his Snapchat story erotic things.
	What's that?
	What happened there?
	He used to.
	I never actually dated this man, but he was obsessed with me.
	You said crazy ex.
	Yeah, I know, but like I considered him.
	I was just checks out.
	Anyways, I wonder how crazy.
	Wait, that's it?
	No, like you consider him crazy.
	Oh, I worked at this retail place I still work at, and he knew like my schedule.
	So one night I would have been closing.
	I hadn't, but he posted on a Snapchat story.
	He was like, oh, just in the parking lot.
	And like, I don't even remember exactly what he said, but there was a weapon in his lap.
	And he would always threaten me and like talk about it.
	That's what I'm crazy.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So that's what I consider crazy.
	What other people consider crazy?
	Have you ever threatened somebody?
	We talked about this now.
	No?
	No.
	Wait.
	You have?
	She said no.
	I'm scared of any violence.
	I don't like violence.
	Okay.
	Let's see.
	We have Jeannie here.
	You said that you.
	Okay, and this is related to the stabbing story.
	Okay, I think you already said that you flashed the police officers.
	You said you were a sugar mama for three years.
	Yeah, to that one.
	And you said you're still in your sugar mama phase.
	Yeah.
	I'm like a mother at 21.
	I dated a boy who locked me in his room our entire.
	Oh, that's something else here.
	Yeah, that's when I was younger.
	Here, let's stick with the sugar mama thing.
	So you were a sugar mama.
	Did he adopt the name Baby Boy before or after you started dating him?
	No, before.
	It's like on his birth certificate and everything.
	Because you're like interested in the sugar mama stuff.
	Was that a turn on for you?
	Did he come up with that?
	That's going to happen.
	I have no idea.
	Yeah.
	I mean, a little bit.
	He's different.
	Can I be your sugar baby?
	Oh, yeah, you can.
	Damn.
	I'm into that now.
	Okay.
	So you were dating a guy for three years, or you were just a sugar mama for three years with very dating and sugar mama at the same time.
	And then I just like we stopped dating and then I just became just a sugar mama and like we were like just what were you doing to be a sugar mama?
	Like paying his rent, buying his food or like giving stuff to his kid.
	Oh.
	How long or how much, so how much do you think per month you were spending on this guy?
	Also, we did like everything together when we were like living together.
	Oh, you lived together?
	At one point, but then we saw.
	So you weren't, well, you weren't paying his rent, you were paying our rents.
	Well, no, I paid his rent whenever.
	I mean, he's still at his own place.
	Oh, he had his own place.
	So I was still paying that.
	And okay, so he, but he would spend a lot of time at your place, but you would pay his.
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Because I thought I loved him.
	You thought you loved him?
	Yeah, I was in love.
	Okay.
	Was this before you started OF or this was after?
	This was like a year after.
	Okay.
	So you'd pay his rent, you'd get him, buy him what else was something?
	Everything, like food, trips, flights, went to Europe.
	His daily life.
	Yeah, I just basically his daily life.
	Yeah.
	How much do you think you were spending per month on them?
	I mean, we, I mean, the same thing.
	I don't know, like, just double what I did.
	Double what I spend on myself.
	How much do you spend on yourself per month?
	Maybe like 20.
	Okay.
	You spent 20,000 months.
	What the hell do you spend 20,000?
	I just travel a lot.
	You travel a lot?
	I travel a lot.
	So fly to hotels.
	Yeah, so that plus another.
	I see.
	Okay.
	So then.
	Is this the only guy that you've ever been a sugar mama for, or have you been?
	No, I've been for many more.
	All your guys?
	Yeah.
	Sugar mama.
	It turns out that way.
	Because then I date like younger guys.
	Why?
	Oh, you date younger guys.
	Sometimes he was older.
	He was 33.
	But the last one, he was like younger.
	How old are you?
	I'm 21.
	But he was 18.
	Are you 22?
	You were.
	Wait.
	Yeah.
	Because in some of those news articles, it says you were 22 at the time of the articles.
	Yeah, I saw.
	They got it wrong.
	I saw that when I was there.
	This was like, don't put that.
	Okay.
	Wait, so you were 18 sugar mumming for a 29-year-old guy?
	Yeah.
	Damn.
	No, it was bad.
	Like, and then whenever he turned.
	No, he's 32.
	But yeah, I mean, he's turning 33 this month.
	Do you feel that you have to, you have to do this in order to compensate for some sort of deficiency you have when it comes to relationships?
	That's a great question.
	I feel like I just love taking care of someone sometimes.
	I love it.
	He can't take care of himself.
	No, he probably could.
	I like taking care of, and then I start resenting.
	Is it like a king?
	Because then I'm like, oh, why am I doing this for a man?
	Like, come on, do your part.
	But then again, I'm like, oh, I love it.
	Why don't you date guys that can take care of themselves?
	Because I guess I'm not attracting that.
	So usually what I attract.
	Power, the control that comes from it.
	It's like, do you like the power and control that comes from it?
	Because you're basically wearing the pants.
	Yeah.
	I guess is what they would say.
	So you're like independent completely.
	Because if he was to leave you or something happened, he could.
	And yeah.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And he has it.
	He won't be able to live without me.
	Yeah.
	Are you a dom?
	Yeah.
	I'm going to switch though.
	Because sometimes with girls, and with the girls that I've been with.
	You're submissive with women.
	Sometimes when they are, because they have been very dom with me.
	The girls that I have been with.
	They've been very like, you're not paying for this.
	You're not doing that.
	Your boyfriends?
	I've wanted to.
	You want to, but they're not going to.
	They wouldn't let me.
	Only one was down, and he's still down.
	The guy that I've been talking to, so I kind of want to do that.
	This is how you ended it.
	So you're.
	You were paying for everything, and they wouldn't let you peg them.
	That's what I'm saying.
	They wouldn't even have to stick my finger in his butt.
	Like, I'm like, come on.
	I would try.
	And he would do it back to me.
	And then I was like, okay, okay, I'll file.
	Okay.
	That's interesting.
	Has anybody else here at the table been a sugar mama for a guy?
	You have?
	Your current boyfriend?
	The nine-year.
	The nine-year.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How did that affect the relationship dynamic?
	Oh, extremely.
	I mean, that's obviously why it didn't work out.
	That's why it didn't work out.
	So did you feel like you were in the masculine and he was in the feminine throughout?
	Yes, and it like started like that and then it just kept going and then I could see like his self-esteem like going down and down and down and like I would try to pick it up for him and then like it comes to the point where it's like you make your own decisions like I can't help you anymore.
	Like you got to decide to get up, go get a job.
	Like I mean I can't make you feel like a man only you can.
	Yeah, that's facts.
	Here, we had cut you off.
	You had wanted to address something to her.
	Do you want to?
	Um yeah, somebody asked me wait.
	Hey, can you um could you like tilt your mic?
	Yeah, thank you.
	So speaking to your mic, somebody asked me for her number, like someone I know.
	Sorry, maybe.
	Maybe there could be something.
	Are you just how do you know this?
	Because I checked when I went to the bathroom.
	But like okay.
	So it's that's the thing that you had to say in that.
	He's trying to say you're giving hope.
	Like he's hope.
	Like here's someone that still wants that wants you that maybe this could work out type thing.
	Do they want a long-term relationship with her or just to smash?
	I don't know.
	What did he say?
	He said, oh, look, can I get the redhead girl's number?
	Isn't she redheaded?
	Can you stop that?
	She's a dirty blonde.
	I'm not going to let that super chat.
	Yeah.
	I'll get to it.
	I'm not trying to sound like rude.
	I mean, I'm not trying to sound like that.
	How old's the guy?
	Is it a friend of yours?
	Or just a random?
	47.
	Huh?
	47?
	Oh, he's a friend of yours.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	That's cool.
	Okay.
	I guess if he wants, he can DM her, I guess.
	Nice.
	Yeah, that's good to know.
	There you go.
	Maybe you're on the show.
	Maybe the guys are going to DM you.
	What do you think about them, apples?
	What do you think about them, Apples?
	Do you really want to know?
	Yeah.
	About a 47-year-old.
	I don't want to know.
	No, I really want to know.
	What if this guy wants to date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids and he loves you for who you are?
	What do you think about that?
	What if that was a possibility here?
	I only smash younger.
	You are committed to sabotage love life.
	Yeah, that's absolutely committed to sabotaging yourself.
	Yeah, but I get you, but self-sabotage.
	You only have sex with younger men?
	How young?
	That's pretty shallow.
	I don't like young.
	No, like young people.
	Don't you think that's a little shallow, Candy?
	Yeah.
	You had problems with shallow rating systems before.
	Seems a little hypocritical.
	A little bit.
	Yeah.
	Call it out, Candy.
	Candy's.
	You're absolutely committed to sabotaging yourself.
	Can't help people that don't want to be helped.
	Speaking, we have Rippy here, Redhead.
	Hold on.
	Seaberg, it's a native woman.
	you can live your life in a river and you can let your surroundings guide you or you can take control and get out of the river and climb the mountain of life and you can choose to climb as high as you want.
	Climb as you high.
	You have the ability to live the life you want.
	So true.
	That was fantastic.
	That was a comment, Seaberg.
	Thank you, Seaberg.
	That was beautiful.
	I want that.
	I want that on like a freaking frame.
	You got to write that out and frame that.
	Thank you, Cecil.
	Super chat.
	All right, Rippy, Redhead, have you ever read the children's book, The Little Engine That Could?
	Always say to yourself, I think I can, I think I can.
	It will translate to the surface.
	That voice saying, be realistic, is a demon bringing you down.
	That's facts.
	Ave Christus Rex.
	Christus Rex.
	Okay.
	So true.
	Thank you, Rippy.
	So true.
	Rippy.
	Much appreciated.
	You got demons whispering to you that the life that you want is impossible.
	And you're sitting here like, you know what?
	Absolutely, that's true.
	And then some guy miraculously comes along and he's like, hey, I want to date her.
	And you're like, no.
	I only want younger guys.
	You know that story with God and the boat?
	And they're like, the guy's on the boat in the middle of the ocean.
	And he's like, God, please send me someone, please.
	And then God sends someone.
	And then the guy's like, no, no, no, God's going to save me.
	And then he sends another boat.
	And then he's like, no, no, no, sir.
	God's going to save me.
	I prayed.
	And then another one comes.
	And then he's like, and then it goes, sinks down.
	And then God comes down and God's like, I sit three.
	And you weren't listening to me, son.
	That's exactly.
	We are seeing this play out in real time right now.
	There's your boat.
	She's in the middle of the ocean.
	She's like, no, I don't like that life raft.
	I don't like that one.
	I'd rather drown.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's a winning game.
	I'm not even religious.
	When you say you're not religious, but you're cooking.
	Yeah, I know.
	I'm in Alabama.
	John 316.
	I know everything.
	When you say you prefer younger men, what are you talking about?
	Like a couple years younger?
	Yeah.
	College boys, what are you talking about?
	28, 29.
	It's kind of my sweet spot.
	You said 28 or 29?
	Yeah.
	Just curious why.
	I don't know.
	I don't object to your preference.
	I'm just curious why.
	I don't know.
	Oh, okay.
	That's fine.
	They're easier to manipulate, huh?
	They all know nothing.
	I'm not a dom, so I wouldn't know about that.
	Okay, good talk.
	Good talk.
	Manipulative.
	Coming back to you.
	Coming back to you, you said that you dated a boy who locked you in his room the entire relationship and you weren't allowed to come out.
	What's wrong?
	Yikes.
	How would you do all your traveling?
	This one I was younger.
	This was like way younger.
	Like before the last one.
	Like 18?
	No, like 14, 15.
	You date the guy that would lock you in your room.
	He was older.
	How old was he?
	He was 20.
	And I was like 15 or so.
	And I could stay in his room and like no one knew that I was dating him or whatever.
	And we dated for like a year and a half.
	And like I couldn't come out of his room.
	Like one time I remember.
	He was in his room?
	Yeah, I was in his room.
	He lived with his mom.
	You were living with him?
	No, I would just go.
	I would like leave school and I would go stay in his room and I couldn't leave.
	I had to sneak out the window when I needed to go home.
	And like one day I was so hungry.
	And his like stepmom came and she was like, he was like, can you come?
	Like, can you come?
	She was like, do you want to eat?
	And I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Like, I want to eat.
	I'm hungry.
	And like, I went out and eat.
	He was so mad at me.
	Why would you come out there?
	And I was like, oh, I was hungry and they made crab legs.
	I think you are pretty bad at picking boyfriends.
	Yeah.
	No, I know.
	I got a lot of work on that.
	Therapy, inner healing.
	Wait, if we attract what we are, what does all of this say about that?
	That's what I'm saying.
	I got a lot to work on.
	Inner healing.
	Was this in Alabama?
	Yeah.
	Damn, Alabamas are a whole nother breed.
	I know.
	Them Alabamians.
	Okay.
	You say.
	I'd be paying for dates and shit.
	I don't know how to do that.
	I'd be paying for dates or shit.
	But you said, I also like being paid for and being pampered.
	Usually I pay when I date younger men and women.
	Yeah.
	That's what I said.
	Okay.
	It's probably nice to be pampered when you never had money.
	So like, no, I got money.
	I'm like, I got you.
	What do you want?
	You know, it sounds like you're really successful.
	I'm like, we all eat, you know?
	If you're comfortable sharing, like, how much you make per month from OF and enough, but I'm good.
	Six figures?
	Yeah, enough.
	Okay.
	All right.
	You don't.
	Lower artists.
	I'm just curious.
	I'm just curious.
	You said there were mediators.
	You lived in a trap house?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Alabama.
	Is this another boyfriend?
	No, this was just trapping.
	What's trapping?
	What is your draft straight?
	What are you just straight trapping?
	Nothing.
	I was just like.
	What were you slaying?
	Nothing.
	What is it?
	What was it?
	Well, no, I know, but.
	No, I mean, but I didn't do, I didn't sell them.
	Like, I was just with people that told them.
	I did them.
	Yeah, I did them.
	What were you doing?
	Like, you had everything.
	You did them.
	You did the people.
	The drugs.
	Oh.
	In the house.
	But probably.
	Probably.
	You don't remember?
	Okay, I do.
	What are we talking here?
	Some assumptions are correct.
	Like, I know, guys.
	Okay, I'll just say it.
	Mescaline?
	What are we talking about?
	Mescal.
	Mescaline.
	When?
	What is that?
	It's a drug.
	Mescaline.
	Oh.
	Not that.
	No, I used to do like Xanax.
	And if I really, really wanted to, like, I was like, I was so good on y'all.
	I would like go to the CBS and I would get like Nyquil or something and like chug it.
	Yeah.
	Some like sinus medication, take like 12 of them, start tweaking.
	Like, I would like just picture the situation in the house.
	Yeah, and like, I would like stay in like trap houses and we would like lace our weed with Xanax.
	Like a thousand lessons.
	That's how I was doing it.
	Chase, refresh yourself.
	Bro, you gotta send it one.
	Your behavior is quite inappropriate towards candy.
	Bro, Pete, it's so crazy.
	Like people be sending chats at the most inopportune times.
	She's just like, Demise, I will re-trigger this for you.
	That's having three times.
	We can't get up.
	Okay, so we have, let's see.
	Okay, there's the trap houses.
	Oh, right.
	The funeral.
	Here, wait.
	Let's come back to that, actually.
	I'll come back to that in just a sec.
	I have.
	Put it in a box.
	We had something here from.
	Let's see, one sec.
	Kaylee.
	Wait, actually, no, we're going to come back to Kaylee.
	Julie, the main thing that occupies your mind that you'd like to speak on is the topic of modern dating and hypergamy.
	Hypergamy.
	Did you have anything to elaborate on that?
	Yeah, I just feel like it's gotten out of control.
	And we should be warning young girls about how detrimental it is to mental health and their future and their lifelong happiness.
	Hypergamy, I mean, like, you know.
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	Anything?
	Was there anything else?
	Can you elaborate a little bit more, Chris?
	Like, on what part?
	Well, how do you warn somebody?
	It's like in the media, and it's like represented as something that's normal and even good, but it's everywhere.
	I just don't think it's like really good at all for girls.
	Can we first explain the word hypergamy?
	I don't know what it means.
	Yeah, backtrack.
	Well, what's your sense of the word hypergamy?
	Hypergamy.
	Like excessive sexual activities.
	No, that's not hypergy.
	Hypergamy is typically the tendency for women to date and marry up.
	So typically like socioeconomic status.
	Yeah, really?
	Marry a rich man?
	We shouldn't do that.
	I've heard the word hypergamy used in the context of what I was thinking, so I just thought that's what it meant.
	Okay.
	Yeah, typically it's the action of marrying.
	I pulled up the definition.
	Marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.
	Okay.
	This could also be for looks, too.
	What would be like a better word to describe than describe what?
	Describe what?
	Yeah.
	Oh, like promiscuity.
	Promiscuity.
	Promiscuity.
	Got it.
	Okay.
	The dump of feminism.
	Got it.
	Absolutely.
	This is getting real.
	I mean, it's just on its back.
	Okay.
	Here we have.
	Jeannie, you said that you met a girl, biggest crush on her.
	First date was at a funeral.
	I don't know if you told us the full funeral story, if I recall.
	No, yeah, that was really it.
	Oh, you just met at the funeral?
	Yeah.
	Did you know the deceased?
	No.
	You didn't know the deceased?
	It went as moral sport.
	This is like from Wedding Crashers where you'd like to.
	Yeah, but you know.
	It was definitely the most awkward and tense thing ever.
	And it was like really freaking sad.
	And like I cried a lot because it's obviously.
	Yeah, it's so sad.
	So you only knew this girl for like what, two weeks you said?
	Yeah, like three weeks ago.
	How did she approach the situation of, hey, do you want to come to a funeral?
	She texted me.
	And you said, hey, we were texting a lot.
	Like, yeah, I was like, you need me, I'll be there.
	But you flew.
	I flew there.
	Oh, you was coming.
	I'm pretty sure you said from Paris.
	To Miami.
	Yeah, I was in Paris at the time.
	Girls.
	You had been texting this girl for two weeks and you across the world to go to a funeral.
	I was down bad.
	Damn.
	But I know I liked her, though.
	Like, I was down bad, but I liked her.
	And I felt bad.
	Have you met her prior?
	No.
	Do you prefer men or women?
	Both.
	I like both.
	I mean, it just depends on.
	You only in one direction.
	One more towards the other.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I would used to say have men.
	I used to say, men.
	I mean.
	They're different.
	Yeah, they're like different.
	Okay.
	They're not the same.
	All right, whatever.
	I can't choose who's better in men.
	You said in your pre-show notes here, you said that you effed a whole platoon.
	Oh, yeah.
	What's the story there?
	Okay.
	I lived in Alabama.
	Marines or Air Force?
	Army, sadly.
	Oh, Army.
	Okay, my bad.
	That was the only base.
	Because you know, Army, everyone's like, Army, you know, the No, I don't.
	What does that even mean?
	Because they're like, Marines are like, mm, and then they're like, you know, and then they're like, the Air Forces.
	Air Forces, you know?
	And they're like, Army's like the Coast Guard.
	What about the Coast Guard?
	No, Coast Guard.
	I mean, the Coast Guard's good.
	No, they're like good.
	They're like, yeah, they're good.
	So what's this?
	Were you in the military?
	No, but like my family was.
	How did you, what, hold on.
	Chat, how much men are in a platoon?
	Let me Google this.
	Platoon.
	I don't even know.
	Platoon definition.
	A platoon is a military unit typically composed of two to four squads.
	100.
	Is it 100?
	Oh, specific platoons may range from 10 to 100 people.
	Oh, it can be composed of 20 to 50 troops.
	I've been in 100.
	Jeannie, Jeannie.
	What is it?
	I'm getting 7 billion.
	Jeannie, how many dudes were in?
	How many dudes did you sleep with?
	Probably at that time, like 20.
	The whole platoon.
	Was it the whole platform?
	What span of time was this in?
	This is a span of time.
	Yes, it was.
	Like, was this like over the span of like five days or like two weeks?
	Oh, oh, this is a span of like 20 and maybe one week.
	I mean, one month, one month, one month, probably a month.
	Because I was like, how did they all feel about it?
	Were they like fist bumping one another?
	Yeah, they would bring me new guys.
	They would be like, Genie, the next batch is here, like coming in from.
	How did this unfold?
	Where were you?
	I was in Alabama working at Buffalo Wild Wings.
	Okay, and one of them came in and he was like, Yeah, and then he would stay for me like after work and I'd be like, we go into my car.
	And like we would go to my car after work, like do it.
	And then how did that translate into, yo, you should sleep with my whole platoon?
	Was like, bring your friends to eat some wings.
	And then I was like, oh, they're cute.
	And he was like, I was like, put me on.
	And he like put me on.
	And then he put me on another and put me on another.
	And then they put me on a whole nother batch that would come in.
	And I was just going a little crazy then.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Did they pay you?
	I love my country.
	U.S. Did they pay up again?
	No, no, no.
	Like I said, a thousand lives.
	Yeah, I know.
	Because now I would like.
	How long ago was this?
	Yeah.
	This was like when I was into the mic.
	Oh.
	I thought it was my neck.
	This is when you were what?
	This was during the time.
	I feel like you can't say that.
	It was younger.
	Younger.
	Here's the real question.
	Here's the real question, Jeannie.
	What's your relationship like with your dad?
	Now it's good.
	It wasn't.
	He left before I was born.
	Blame the father.
	I do have daddy issues.
	How long have you been in?
	And mommy issues.
	How long have you been in contact with your dad?
	Since I was.
	Okay, so he came when I was 13, left, came back when I was 16, left, lived with him for a bit for like a year.
	That was bad.
	And then now we're back.
	Hold on.
	They were each asking each other how their blank taste.
	F sake, man.
	Get the rocks.
	Okay, get the rocks.
	Abdul?
	Yeah, get the rocks.
	Get the rocks.
	Bros.
	All right, let me just say something for all the dudes listening.
	Bros.
	This is why you must raise your daughters.
	Okay, dudes?
	Please raise your daughters.
	Thank you.
	Use me as a reference.
	Be there for your child.
	Huh?
	Yeah, I'll get it.
	I'll get it.
	I'll get it.
	Be there for your child.
	Just a couple before I do that.
	So did you precisely answer the period of time that this was going on?
	Yeah, I didn't want to say like the younger age because you were like earlier.
	Wait, she said it was over the span of a month.
	Oh, one month.
	Platoon?
	Yeah.
	And you said it was 20 guys?
	What?
	Do you have a platoon story too?
	I have a question.
	Okay.
	Did you think at any point that he may have been actually pimping you out?
	Like he was getting money from his friends.
	Didn't cross my mind.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I have hiccups now.
	From the platoon thing?
	Motor bread.
	Boom.
	20.
	Okay, the whole platoon.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	Hey, you know, sometimes it could have been a, what are some other units that in the military?
	There's it could have been a brigade.
	Is it wait?
	A brigade.
	A battalion.
	A battalion.
	Sorry.
	A battalion is a.
	Hold on.
	Let me look at the different kinds of form.
	Like a military.
	What is it?
	What?
	Military for groupings?
	Is that what it would be?
	Military group names?
	Is that what you're trying to say?
	Military units.
	Okay, so.
	Oh, my God.
	Why is it giving me this bullshit?
	Hold on.
	They were Rangers.
	Different kinds of military units.
	They were Rangers.
	So, oh, here we go.
	Okay, so there's a platoon.
	Yeah.
	There's also a company, Bravo Company.
	Okay.
	Do you think, like, maybe a company?
	A battalion?
	Battalion, I know that.
	A regiment.
	I don't know.
	There is a brigade.
	A brigade.
	A brigade is 3,000 to 5,000.
	You know what?
	We should start asking women not what their body count is, but the men in a military unit.
	Is it a unit?
	Well, has it been a platoon?
	Has it been a platoon?
	Now, if we start getting into divisions, if we get into divisions, we should definitely do that.
	There's Corp.
	There's Corps.
	Is it Corps?
	Corps?
	I don't know.
	Corps.
	Field Army.
	Field Army.
	Like, how bad are you?
	How about you?
	That's like 100,000.
	Oh, my God.
	My Vijay.
	Oh, my God.
	That would hurt, y'all.
	And then we'll be like, Candy's like, sign me up.
	I have a lot of stress to remember.
	I've already been there.
	Hey, Chase, this one came through while you were gone.
	My donated $99.
	Chase, refresh yourself on Gospel of John chapter 8.
	Your behavior is quite inappropriate towards Candy.
	All right, thanks, bro.
	That's probably relevant to me roasting her a second ago, but I don't know, man.
	don't know if i feel like that's fair i've spent like a large portion of this podcast trying to call her away from a life of sin towards having faith in god and believing that he can fulfill the longing of her heart so I like that you even did that.
	And then at the end, what I liked was at the end.
	What did you like?
	Tell us what you're talking about.
	I'm told to tell you.
	Okay, tell us what you're like.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	So at the end, like, I like how you were like, what do you know?
	Maybe forget.
	You were like, oh, if you don't want to, you can't help.
	You know, you can't change.
	Whatever if you don't want to change.
	And then you like kind of stopped.
	You know, you weren't like forcing it too much down her throat.
	You were just like, all right, if you don't want to change, that's on you.
	And I appreciate that.
	All right, all right, all right, all right, I get it.
	The fuck is that?
	Holy shit.
	Sorry, guys.
	There's like a contractor tractor going fucking by outside.
	Derek, for the Derek the Trader, question for the ladies when it comes to previous relationship.
	Can you name one thing your ex did wrong and one thing you did wrong before you broke up?
	Starting with you.
	I would say one thing I did wrong was not respect the relationship enough.
	You cheated on them?
	No.
	What is that?
	How did you disrespect the relationship?
	I feel like since we started dating at such a young age, I was more selfish than I think I would be in a relationship now just because I was young.
	So I was just like, oh, well, I want to go do this or I want to do that instead of just asking, like, how do you feel about me doing this?
	Yeah.
	Like, it wasn't really a partnership.
	Yeah.
	It was more of just like.
	Your world revolved around you.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	And then what he did wrong was the whole like laziness and then kind of like blaming it on me type thing.
	Like he felt like he wasn't a man and then it kind of like, I feel like always went back to me.
	And he should have taken accountability.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	And gotten on top of his life.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	100%.
	What about you?
	We literally lived the same relationship.
	No, and we're like literally the trap house thing.
	Like, so and I lived in Atlanta.
	Yeah.
	Oh, girl, you was ghetto too.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So there was part of it.
	You lived in a trap house too?
	I didn't live in a trap house, but there was moments where I was like going back and forth between like going to a trap house to do stuff like that.
	I got arrested at one point in my life as well.
	So I don't know if that's like a southern thing.
	I think it might be.
	Damn, I'm sure you're damn stupid girl here.
	Jeannie, what about you?
	What's your answer?
	One thing you did wrong and one thing he did wrong?
	I think I didn't take him seriously.
	I didn't respect him.
	I didn't take the relationship seriously.
	I was just like all over the place.
	I didn't really, I don't think I was ready for a relationship.
	I shouldn't have been in one.
	And then he was just really lazy.
	He didn't do anything.
	He wanted me to do everything for him.
	Everything.
	And then would blame me and be like, you demasculated me.
	Like, you said that you would help me, so you should.
	And blah, blah, blah.
	And like, he was like, you said this is this.
	And I was like, yeah, I said it, but now I'm like, all right, do something.
	Like, I take it back.
	So he should have taken accountability as well.
	Yeah, for sure.
	How do you feel like you disrespected him?
	Sometimes I feel like, because sometimes I feel like some of it was good.
	And I was like, I was like, okay, maybe I was gaslit.
	I was probably gaslit.
	Oh, you were gaslighting him.
	Yeah.
	No, I was gaslit.
	Oh, you were gaslit by him?
	Yeah.
	Like, but my question was: how did you disrespect him?
	I guess I didn't.
	I take that back.
	Oh, you never disrespected him?
	I mean, sometimes.
	We fought a lot.
	I guess I disrespected him by downgrading him.
	And maybe, like, I should have, I'm like, maybe I should have helped him more.
	But, like, I did.
	Like, I did a lot.
	What do you mean you disrespected him by downgrading him?
	What is that?
	Like, I'd be like, why are you being so lazy?
	Why aren't you working?
	Like, you could be working.
	That's, you're just pathetic.
	Like, you're not doing anything.
	Like, you could have got a job at Burger King.
	Like, I could have.
	I don't think that's disrespect.
	I think a woman should hold her man to the standard of working.
	I think we had similar things where, like, you start to feel guilty because they kind of make you feel guilty.
	Yeah.
	And so then you think that, like you said, you're not respecting them or like being sensitive to them.
	Yeah.
	But then there's also a point, like he's saying, like, they kind of have to, like, get it together.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I'll concede.
	If he was saying that you're being disrespectful to him for telling him he should get a job, that's absolutely gaslighting.
	He definitely being disrespectful to you by not getting a job and making it a partnership.
	He used to tell me, because hey, but one time I got him Ubers and stuff like that, and he was like, you should be giving me that Uber money, not getting an Uber.
	I'll ride the train.
	Give me the money.
	And I'd be like.
	Did he have a drug problem?
	No.
	No.
	He just wanted your $20.
	He's one of my money, yeah.
	Sounds like a cheap, cheap guy.
	Yeah, he's one of my money.
	Okay, what about you?
	So I'd say the thing that I did wrong was I had like, I would have male friends, like, I'd text them.
	But like, platonically, and the boy I was with, he didn't like that, but I just still kept talking to them because I mean, I was like lonely.
	Like, he would just play his video games all day, every day, and I would just sit there.
	And I'm like, what else am I supposed to do?
	You know, I had to have somebody to talk to.
	Grid one Motorsports donated $100.
	No, no, it is not a southern thing.
	It is a white trash thing.
	Please do better.
	I grew up dirt poor in Tennessee, but I made good choices and now I am no longer poor.
	Listening to the Bama girl is like listening to four pack a day off lizards to better.
	I love getting roasted.
	These are so funny.
	Keep on going.
	Grid Motorsports.
	Grid Motorsports standing up for the honor of the South right now.
	Very based.
	Very based.
	Props, Grid Motorsports for making something out of yourself, too, despite growing up dirt poor.
	So it sounds like your boyfriend wasn't giving you attention.
	You wanted attention, and you looked for attention from your male friends.
	I mean, look, if I was in a relationship and my girlfriend, if I was in a relationship and I was giving my girlfriend plenty of attention, but she was like texting other guys, I'd be like, yo, what are you doing?
	Stop or we're breaking up.
	But if he's not giving you attention, like, it's on him.
	And also, I like didn't stand up for myself.
	I would just like kind of just do what they wanted me to do.
	And I was literally like at some point, I was his mom.
	I was doing his laundry.
	I was picking up after him.
	Like, just because I felt trucked.
	The whole side of the table is filled with mommy issues.
	You have mommy issues as well.
	Yeah, I can't find issues.
	I never knew my mom.
	I was raised just by my dad.
	Sorry to hear that.
	No, it's okay.
	Yeah.
	Sorry to hear about your dad, too.
	Okay.
	She was like a bitch.
	Like, you know.
	Yeah.
	From what I've heard, she was like cluster B, you know, crazy, whacked out.
	Okay.
	Stop mothering your boyfriends, ladies.
	Well, now I'm good.
	Thankfully.
	Now I'm single.
	Candy, how about you?
	One thing you did wrong in a relationship with an ex and one thing he did wrong.
	I think it's, I don't know, in hindsight, the one that I miss the most that I feel like I messed up.
	I smothered him, but like when you are first getting to know someone and you're really enthusiastic about who they are, like you want to spend a lot of time with them.
	I think she could relate with that.
	I knew you were going to say that.
	And I was like, speechless.
	Yeah.
	What do you feel like he did wrong?
	He was just crazy.
	He was straight up, like super crazy.
	Defines straight up super crazy.
	You know, those like fringe types where they're an artist and they're passionate.
	But they're way off the other end.
	Like, he, I don't.
	Can you give an example?
	I don't think I ever saw him one day when he was sober.
	Damn.
	Yeah, I think he's self-medicated with like acid.
	Wow.
	I'm not.
	I'm not saying that.
	That will make a man crazy.
	That will make a man super crazy.
	As is like 13 hours.
	Yes.
	That freaking song.
	In a previous relationship, one thing you did wrong, one thing your ex did wrong.
	Go ahead.
	It'd probably be a shorter list saying what he did right.
	And the one thing I did wrong was not leave him sooner.
	That's not, that's, wait, what?
	Wait.
	There was too many things you did.
	What did you do wrong in the relationship?
	Women never take accountability for the...
	I know.
	Okay.
	It'll be a rare day when that happens.
	What did you do wrong in the relationship besides leave him sooner?
	Or not leave him sooner?
	What did you do wrong?
	I didn't really have time to mess up.
	He was always gone cheating.
	Okay.
	You just, that's putting the accountability on him again.
	Like, is there anything you did nothing wrong?
	She's perfect.
	She's perfect, I guess.
	That was the one relationship I can say I was perfect.
	Okay, what about a relationship where you weren't?
	Yeah, probably talking to guy friends.
	Same thing.
	Ladies.
	Yeah.
	If you're trying to hold on to your relationship, why are you talking to other dudes?
	I was, like, 18.
	Just, like, the attention, you know, like, it's a good conversation.
	Okay, there's a great lesson here for all men and women watching.
	Dudes, take care of your woman unless you want her to start getting attention from other guys.
	Ladies, if you start talking to other dudes, prepare for your dude to drop you.
	Yeah.
	I mean, that's fair.
	Wait, can I have your mic that way, please?
	Also, when you got up earlier, the clip, if you can.
	If it's too far into the, don't worry about it.
	I thought if it was next to you, don't worry about it.
	Don't worry about it.
	Don't worry about it.
	I thought if it was just next to you, you could grab it, but never mind.
	Wait, just really quick on, well, just really quick on you.
	You said that, and I was gone, I think, when she responded, but you said, oh, for my friends playing video games all the time, and he would never give her attention.
	So she started texting her male friends for attention.
	Okay.
	Which is on both of you guys.
	Yeah, I mean, he's on both the game.
	He's fucking up a little bit there for sure.
	He's completely messing up.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	One thing he did wrong.
	One thing you did wrong and one thing an ex did wrong.
	Okay.
	Can you center your mic?
	Yeah.
	Can I say what he did wrong first?
	Because I feel like.
	Like a lot of assumptions and projection and then it made me be like, well, if you're assuming it, then I'm just going to like do it.
	So I'm just going to like text other guys, delete messages.
	Like that was what I did wrong.
	But I was just like, what?
	If you're already thinking that I'm doing it, like, oh, when you go outside, it's, I mean, like, what difference does it make?
	What difference?
	I mean, let's let that evolve for a second.
	It's like if a guy suspects his girlfriend of cheating, but she's not actually cheating, but like using that logic, it's like, well, if you think I'm doing it, I might as well just go sleep with other guys.
	Not sleep.
	I never did.
	I know, but like, that's how you do it.
	Over time, like you keep assuming, like, oh, so you went out today and guys talked to you, like, okay.
	Like, you just get tired of hearing it.
	So, like, you're gonna, that's what I did wrong.
	So he was super jealous, and you were like, you know what?
	I'm tired of this.
	I'm gonna feed the jealousy.
	I guess, yeah.
	How long did the relationship last after that?
	Um, I mean, on and off, like, a couple years, like, two years.
	That sounds like a healthy relationship.
	I mean, yeah.
	Just saying what I did wrong and he did wrong.
	Okay.
	Appreciate you owning it.
	How about you?
	I think that he had a lot of trust issues and what I did wrong was probably not realized that I also did too.
	So I fed into it and we bounced off each other with the trust issues.
	Nice.
	That sounds like a vicious cycle.
	Same thing there.
	With you, actually, with you, this kind of reminds me of this Eminem song, I am whatever you say I am.
	If I wasn't, then why would you say I am?
	Is that the song?
	What song is that?
	But the ending part is like, I wasn't that before.
	So, like, I don't know.
	I don't know how to explain it.
	I also feel like projecting.
	Did you get anything out of texting those other guys?
	Like, did it satisfy you at all?
	No.
	Would you like compare it to if someone kept telling you like, you're ugly, you're fat, you're this.
	Like, eventually you start to believe I am ugly, I am fat, I am this.
	Like, would that be?
	I wasn't believing it, though.
	I was just like, you keep saying it.
	So, like, you're not going to believe me either way.
	So, like, if I answer to this text message or to this DM, like.
	It doesn't even matter.
	Like, it doesn't even matter.
	Like, I'm being a good girlfriend, but like, you're not believing me.
	So that's insanely frustrating.
	Did you go?
	Yes.
	Priya?
	An ex of mine hid certain vices of his that are traditionally deal breakers for me until we were a few months into a relationship.
	And hindsight is 2020.
	I should have just ended it there, but I fell into the I can help him and fix him mentality.
	But he perceived my help to overcome these vices as judgmental behavior, and maybe it was.
	No fault of mine is being very quick and harsh to judge certain behaviors and opinions that I don't agree with.
	But yeah.
	Interesting.
	I don't know.
	I feel like it's good to have standards where you're like, hey, I don't think these behaviors are acceptable.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	I feel like it sounds like what he did was kind of like gaslighting in a way.
	Unless you were very rude or mean about it.
	I never felt like I was, but that's how he perceived it.
	Yeah, I mean, he kind of brought it upon himself by hiding the vices from you.
	Were you clear with him that stuff like that wasn't acceptable to you beforehand?
	I was.
	And then there were certain incidences where it became very clear that he was engaging in certain behaviors and he finally owned up to it and I was prepared to break up with him.
	He begged me not to, said he wanted to change not only for me, but for him.
	And I encouraged it, but then he fell back into it and I became less sympathetic to those issues.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Well, want to move on?
	Yep.
	So, Jeannie, you said that you jumped out of a plane with your last ex for your first date.
	Yeah.
	Any details?
	I had some crazy first dates.
	I know.
	Now I kind of like it.
	Now I keep wanting to do it.
	Now I'm like, message people on hand.
	Do you want to jump out of a plane?
	And if you don't answer, you're not for me.
	Yeah.
	I guess a plan, you know, because of like the implication.
	What?
	What's the implication?
	You know, it's kind of like it's the same thing with like if you're on a boat, you know?
	Because of it.
	What is the way?
	Because of the implication.
	Sorry, it's from like this show, Always Sunny and the boat.
	It's a joke from, okay, you'd have to get the reference, whatever.
	You said that you had a boyfriend that you never effed for a year because his D wouldn't get hard because of all the cocaine he did.
	That's facts.
	Was this in the trap house?
	This was outside of the trap house.
	Okay.
	Yes, but it was like living in a trap house with him.
	You never, why'd you stay with him for a year?
	Yeah, that's a lot.
	I don't know.
	No self-love.
	How old were you?
	Younger as well.
	Like 15.
	I had like many relationships in one.
	You had many relationships at the same time?
	Yeah, some.
	Yeah, I was kind of just dating around.
	How many guys were you dating?
	Two at one time.
	One or another.
	What's the most that you've ever dated at one time?
	One or another.
	Yeah, sometimes we have girls who say they have like, and men too, who say they have a roster.
	They'll have like three, four, five, six, seven, maybe even more people that they're talking to.
	Maybe not sleeping with all of them, but they could be sleeping with two, three, four, five people.
	Mom was just two.
	Okay.
	One or another.
	Good talk.
	Okay.
	No, that was literally it.
	Did they know that you were talking to other people?
	Well, I knew they were too, but I mean, they didn't know that I was, but I knew that they were talking to other people.
	Because one time when I was dating my last ex, I, not my last ex, not my last ex, the one that locked me in the room.
	I came into the house he was in, and he had another girl sitting on the couch, and he threw a blanket over her head so I wouldn't see her face.
	And I literally just walked in, grabbed my shoes, and then left.
	And I was like, see you tomorrow, and then left.
	Okay.
	And then the last thing for you, Jeannie, you say that women should pay for guys if they make more money.
	Yeah.
	And we kind of already talked about that a little bit, that you are a sugar mama for men.
	And what do the other girls here think, though?
	On the first date, who do you guys think should pay for the first date?
	Should it be split?
	Should the guy pay?
	What do you think?
	I don't know. I kind of...
	You know. You know.
	I enjoy a man paying for me.
	Yeah, you could have just said that.
	Okay, that's fine.
	I feel like those are butts.
	I don't know if there's a butt.
	I think she just...
	I mean, but I wouldn't mind also pain is the butt.
	Like, I do see her point, like, but I do think that's like a later on thing.
	Like, if I'm in a partnership and we're, you know, married or something or getting to that point, then, like, it's okay if the woman makes more money and takes care of more things.
	Word?
	Okay.
	What do you think?
	Me?
	It kind of shows, like, I think, yeah, if he pays, it shows he's, like, a traditional guy.
	And if that's what you're into, then it's fine.
	What are you into?
	Fine.
	Like, traditional.
	Traditional.
	Why are you bashful about it?
	I don't know.
	No, it's just...
	Wait, here, here's...
	Let me add this.
	addition to who ought to pay or if you're okay with splitting actually let's go around the table first then I'll do my follow-up so you're you prefer guys to pay For the first date.
	What about you?
	I think it depends on who the pursuer is.
	I mean, if a guy says, hey, let's go out to dinner and he's the one asking for the date, that he should pay for it.
	Okay.
	Do you ask guys to dinner?
	I don't.
	Yeah, see, that's like the whole, I mean, saying whoever asks should pay, it's kind of ignoring the fact that de facto men are going to be the ones, generally speaking, always initiating.
	So your answer may as well be men should pay.
	Sounds like a good answer, though.
	I don't necessarily think a first-shake date should be different, though.
	It's the spin.
	It's the spin, but like...
	I like asking girls more.
	It's extremely rare that men get asked out.
	I leave you out.
	What about you?
	First instinct, I always reach for the bill.
	I feel weird when other people pay.
	So even if a guy asks you out on a date, you want, you would.
	That's like my first instinct, yeah.
	Well, because some women will do the Fame where they, oh, reach for the purse, but secretly want the guy to still pay for it.
	Is that what you're talking about?
	No, like I actually go to pay because I feel weird.
	Oh, so you'll pay for the whole bill or you'll split?
	Yeah, I'll usually just pay for the whole bill.
	How often do guys let you do that?
	Well, I don't really go out on a lot of dates.
	I'm picky.
	Oh, she's also Canadian.
	Yeah.
	Did we not mention that?
	No, she's.
	Because I heard the oots or whatever.
	Me and Jess are both Canadian.
	Yeah.
	You're both from.
	I think these are the first two Canadians we've had on the show.
	Hey, yeah.
	Congratulations.
	I mean, welcome.
	Welcome to America.
	You guys have been here before, I'm assuming.
	I barely have.
	To America, anyways.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think the man, but if you're a woman that makes a certain amount of money, I feel like you just don't care.
	Like, you get to a point of making so much money that you're like, if he pays, he pays.
	If he doesn't want to pay, I don't really care because money doesn't really mean.
	She's already got money.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay, that's fair.
	For me, I love a good power move.
	So if, and sometimes, like, when it's like more of a fight, if they're like, no, I'm going to pay for it, I'll like wait till they get all set up and I have my Apple Pay and I'll pay for it.
	I don't know.
	I just think it's funny.
	And then they're like, oh, you shouldn't have, but really, I think they like it.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	I always offer to split.
	I do appreciate when they pay, though.
	Okay.
	So for any of you here, whatever your answers were, if the guy wanted to split on the first date, and I know some of you said you're fine with that.
	If the guy proposed, hey, let's split the bill in as diplomatic or nice as in the most flattering light that one could say that, would there be a second date?
	Would you object to a guy wanting to split the bill?
	Would there be a second date?
	Because we've had girls come on the show say, no, if the guy wanted split, just there wouldn't be a second date.
	I think I would take that and like thought of like if I want a second date, but if he's like a really good guy and I really enjoyed it, then I wouldn't let something as simple as splitting the bill affect the next day.
	I think we know your position.
	You're cool with paying.
	What about you?
	Yeah, like in this economy, it's fine if both people pay.
	Oh, okay.
	I thought you could have taken that in either direction.
	In this economy, men should pay for food.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I also think it depends on the date.
	I mean, a lot of guys don't think outside the box anymore.
	Like, it's just dinner.
	But, like, there's all kinds of activities that you can do on a first date.
	You know, if the moon is full, go out and walk.
	Oh, so it's a fucking damn thing.
	You know, go out and walk underneath the full moon to nature or whatever.
	And if you happen to come across a street vendor, you know, buy your own.
	Or, you know.
	But what was your answer to the first question?
	You said that men should pay.
	If you ask he should for like a traditional setting.
	So let's say one of your young studs asks you out on a date.
	He asks you, do you want him or excuse me?
	Would you be upset if he said, hey, let's split this?
	I wouldn't be upset about it.
	I would probably have to wait for a payday.
	Okay, what about you?
	That wouldn't affect my decision.
	It's better than him telling you to pay.
	Okay.
	Second date.
	I don't know.
	You go on a first date with a guy.
	He says, let's split the bill.
	I feel like if you ask me to go on a date, like you should be prepared to pay or make it known before.
	Have you ever asked a guy out on a date?
	Not on a date, but I've gone out with the guy and paid and not mine.
	A guy you already knew who you'd been seeing for a while.
	Yeah, and not mine because I knew that they're like a little brokey.
	So I'm like, all right.
	I'm a little broken.
	Okay, but if a guy did ask to split the bill with you on a date, he'd ask me.
	I'd be like, why weren't you prepared?
	You wanted to set this up?
	Like, I wasn't.
	I don't know.
	I'd just be like.
	I probably wouldn't go back.
	CM donated 999 cents.
	If you want us men to act traditional and pay the bill, then be traditional women and not have a full roster.
	When the girl is exclusive, then our wallet is exclusive.
	Stop buying dinners for girls, talking to 73 guys on Tinder slash bumble.
	Don't be a sucker.
	Facts, that's facts, CM.
	Well, well said.
	Well said.
	So there wouldn't be a second date.
	You'd think he's a brokey.
	What was the other stuff he said?
	Just be prepared.
	Like be prepared.
	I feel like I date for both of you.
	He is prepared to pay for it.
	Like both of them should go into the date having money just in case.
	Yeah, I mean, like, I'm not a po, like, I, yeah, I'd probably pay for my share and then, yeah, be like, nah, I'm good.
	So you, but you, okay, so you wouldn't have a second date with the guy.
	I don't think so.
	I don't think so, no.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	It just depends on the vibes.
	It's not going to be.
	It's not a non-answer, okay?
	No, it is.
	Yes, there would be if it was like good.
	Like if we're splitting the side.
	Yeah, but there wouldn't be whether he vibes were bad, but he paid for it.
	Would you still go on a second date with him?
	No, there's.
	Yes.
	Is your face okay?
	Are you making a decision?
	Yes.
	Sorry, I was just, okay.
	It would not affect my decision for a second date or not.
	Okay, cool.
	All right.
	You ever offered to split the bill on a date?
	Oh, all the time.
	All the time.
	I'm the king of splitting the bill.
	What a rabbit hole.
	I am the king of splitting the bill.
	Look, if I can tell that the girl is worthy, then I'll pay for it.
	Then I'll pay.
	I'll pay.
	I won't make a big deal on it.
	But this isn't a girl I want to be dating, so.
	Yeah.
	But if she's like a non-traditional chick, but then you might ask me, Brian, why are you dating a chick that's Brian?
	Why are you dating a chick that's not traditional?
	Yeah, it's a good question.
	It's a good question.
	Why put money into someone you're unsure about, though?
	Well, yeah, exactly.
	Like first date, that's, yeah.
	Yeah, exactly.
	I think the women should pay the whole bill, actually.
	But they're unsure about the guy, too.
	Yes, not.
	So it should be 50-50.
	No, that's my troll answer.
	My real answer is, is that, okay, there's a couple different angles.
	First off, as a guy, if you want to min-max your success with women, you should pay for the first date.
	Let's get that out of the way.
	If you want to min-max your success, you should definitely pay.
	Because there are some women who are going to object to having to split or whatever.
	Now, on a purely principle level, I think that in the current dating landscape, people are moving in very shifty ways.
	People are talking to multiple people at the same time.
	People are dating multiple people at the same time.
	People are sleeping with multiple people at the same time.
	And my standard is I would feel very, I would feel like a sucker if I took a girl out on a nice date, did all the gentlemanly, chivalrous things.
	All the while she's fucking like one, two, three other dudes.
	And you might say, well, Brian, wouldn't you know if she's moving in that sort of way?
	There are some very unassuming women.
	They could be pleasant.
	They could be shy, even on the more introverted side, and have a roster and be sleeping with other dudes, talking to other dudes.
	So just the way the dating landscape goes, I feel.
	And also, I think that people go on so many first dates.
	Like You will hear from people that like, girls, for you guys to get a first date, it's super easy.
	Like, if you guys wanted, any girl here could probably, if you wanted to, go on five first dates a week, maybe more.
	I feel like that's kind of your ego, though, because like, what's like $50 or $100?
	Like if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.
	It's just food or it's just like.
	$50 or $100 for a lot of men.
	That's a lot.
	Huh?
	What does that have to do with the ego?
	Because he's like, I would feel, what'd you say?
	I feel like a sucker.
	Like, why would you feel like a sucker?
	Because you're paying for a girl's daughter.
	Well, I mean, if you take out a girl, if you take out a girl and she's got a roster of dudes, somebody sent in a super chat a few minutes ago.
	They were like, women want, women want the traditional treatment for men, but why is men, why, why as a guy, would I be motivated to treat a woman traditionally if she's not living a traditional life?
	Like, why would I want to roll out the red carpet for a woman and treat her so right if she's got like a whole bunch of dudes she's sleeping with?
	Why would I ever want to do that?
	To add to that, a lot of women want the benefits of being modern women while still receiving all the benefits of traditional male courtship.
	That's facts.
	So for example, here's one scenario that I've frequently given.
	Let's say I bring, you said a $50 to $100 date.
	Or $20 or $40.
	I don't know.
	It just feels like...
	Even if...
	I would not recommend men, even if you're inclined to pay the entire bill, don't spend that much.
	You...
	You can go get something reasonable like a cup of coffee.
	Actually, maybe you can do a free date.
	You can get a cup of coffee.
	You can go grab a drink, glass of wine, whatever.
	But I don't want to be in a situation where, for example, and this happens to a lot of dudes, you can go on a date with a girl, spend $50, $100.
	Maybe you get a nice dinner or whatever.
	And then date goes well.
	She gives you a hug at the end of the date.
	Date ends at 9 p.m.
	She then goes over.
	Oh, bear in mind, there's some leftover food.
	So she got a doggy bag.
	She took that doggy bag over to the guy's house who she's fucking, who, by the way, never paid for a first date, never took her out.
	He's just some hot dude who's always 11 p.m. on a Friday.
	What you doing?
	Come over.
	Never had to do any of that traditional courtship, but he's really attractive.
	He's charismatic or whatever.
	Whatever is the attraction trigger for her.
	She just goes over to his house immediately after the date, gives him the doggy, the doggy bag of the food that your date just paid for.
	You give him the food.
	I know, but why is the scenario always that the girl is like a hoe?
	Like there's guys that are hoes too.
	But you're portraying this whole like, oh, the bitch got a whole roster.
	Well, I mean, it goes the same way.
	If you're with a guy who's like a girl, girls invest into their date too.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	If you're with a guy who's a player and he's like sleeping around with a bunch of women, but you're a woman who wants to be with him, like you shouldn't offer him your exclusivity and your devotion.
	Okay, but like you said, like he just said about how the guy doesn't know what the girl has going on.
	The girls sometimes don't know what the guy has going on either.
	So, and girls put in a lot of work for their dates.
	They get their hair done, they get their makeup done, they get their nails done.
	It's just as money.
	Well, let me, okay, let me adjust.
	So, society, I didn't mean to interrupt.
	Do you want to finish your point and I'll respond?
	I'm just like feeling a lot of like, okay, like, why does the bitch deserve like a date for me to pay?
	I didn't say billions of people.
	Okay, like, why does the girl, why does the woman deserve to get paid for when like, I don't really know what she has got going on?
	Like, you, time, like, will tell everything.
	So the girl's taking that chance to figuring out who the guy is.
	Right, but there's the difference is, is that on a date, as a guy going in, the most that I can expect is to split the bill.
	There's no, very few guys can go into a date with the expectation that she's going to pay for everything.
	So it's specifically, it's not an equal dynamic in that sense, in that men are either going to be paying for the entire meal or splitting the bill.
	If you're a traditional man, you're the provider, right?
	And you're saying, but you don't want to lay out that red carpet for the girls.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	If I take a girl that I really like out on a date, I'm going to pay for the date.
	But if I find out, I mean, I wouldn't date a girl that was doing this anyways because I can just tell.
	But if I took out a girl who was talking to other guys and stuff, and I could detect that, there's a 0% chance I would roll out the red carpet for her.
	Okay, so.
	But, like, if I'm getting to know a girl, I'm still going to pay for the first date.
	Sometimes, though, there's been girls that I've detected like a possible princess complex with, and I've taken them to like very inexpensive places and then not paid for their meal just to see how they would react.
	That's a fun little test that you can do as a guy, too.
	But yeah, it's like what Brian is saying: look, he has a different style.
	Like, if he doesn't want to pay 50 bucks for a first date, you know, that's like his preference.
	If I really like a girl, I'm going to do it.
	Has that happened to you before where like the girl was like sleeping with?
	Is that why you think that?
	Or you just are.
	Well, I mean, the thing is, it's the modern dating marketplace.
	Like, you take a girl out here in Aya Vista for example.
	Because I would never do that.
	It's like this.
	There's a lot of a lot of women who move like this.
	You take a girl out here in Santa Barbara, for example, there's a pretty high chance that she's like talking to other guys.
	Yeah, talking to multiple guys at the same time.
	Guys aren't?
	It's not about whether or not the guys are.
	The point is, if you like a girl and you want to take her out around here, there's a high chance that she's talking to other guys.
	And if you know that she is, it's like, why would I roll out the red carpet for you if you're talking to these other guys?
	Completely flipped.
	Maybe she could be the one, though.
	Yeah, maybe.
	So like I'm rolling your dice, like, I'm not sure.
	Depends on whether or not the guy wants to take that gamble.
	Yeah, exactly.
	It's just like a chance situation.
	Wait, why do you do the princess treatment thing?
	Why do I do the princess treatment thing?
	You want them to like not be princessy, so you like test them.
	Yeah, I've like, for example, there was a girl that was a model that I took out like eight years ago or something like that.
	And she was like super sought after in the industry.
	And like fashion models often have like a lot of guys throwing themselves at them with a lot of money.
	And I was like, yo, let's go to Chipotle.
	I'm not going to pay for your meal.
	Let's just see how you respond.
	And she was totally cool with it.
	And she was super humble and down to it.
	She found out she's a good person.
	Yeah.
	And I was like, that, and like, when I found that out, I was like, I would be down to really invest money in future dates.
	Yeah.
	You know, because I was like, I really like your character.
	But if on the spot, if she had been like, are you kidding me?
	I would have been like, in this situation that we're coming up with, though, you would probably know that about a person if they're like talking to other people or like have that kind of attitude.
	Well, if you're asking them on the first date, you probably met them at some point.
	A lot of people meet on dating apps.
	That's true.
	That's true.
	I wouldn't recognize it.
	There's a lot of unassuming women who you might not think that they're seeing multiple people, but they are.
	And look, guys can move in shady ways too.
	Yeah, it goes both ways.
	Like, if you're a chick, feel out the guy.
	Like, don't commit yourself to a guy if he's not going to commit to it.
	And then that goes back to why you should just probably split it.
	Sure.
	Sure.
	You can.
	Well, you were saying something about how women do a lot more to get ready for the date.
	Did you want to elaborate?
	I don't know.
	I don't know if anybody can, like.
	I agree.
	I see what you're saying.
	Guys, they get a haircut, they take a shower.
	I wouldn't say that's a good idea.
	I have a question, though.
	I've got a lot to say about it.
	Go on.
	Go on.
	I've got a lot to say.
	You guys do.
	I would like to know.
	Men prepare themselves for years.
	See, if a guy is asking, listen, listen.
	If a guy is asking a girl out on a date and she finds him attractive, she finds him valuable, he's got confidence, he's got game, all that kind of stuff, and she says yes to going on the date with him, he prepared himself to become that kind of man for years in advance.
	All you have to do as a woman is just show up to the, put on your makeup and just show up to the date.
	The guy has to work on his career to be able to take you out to a nice dinner.
	If you're into fit guys, he's got to spend years in the gym working on his physique.
	He's got to make something of himself so that he's successful and has confidence.
	years of work that go into it beforehand it's not like the guy just guys that just take like there's guys that don't have a crazy career There's guys that don't have a crazy body that ask girls on dates.
	Yeah, for sure.
	But if you want, if you're a guy who wants a really high-value, very attractive woman, like it's, it's a different story, you know?
	And a woman like that is going to want to doll herself up and want the guy to pay for the date, but there's work that goes into that.
	I have a question, though, kind of related to this.
	So do women wear makeup for men?
	No, we do it for ourselves.
	But when it comes to feel pretty.
	So, right?
	Hold on.
	So women don't wear makeup for men, but men need to pay for first dates because you wear makeup.
	I didn't make it.
	But you don't do it for the man.
	But he has to pay for it even though you don't do it for him.
	We're not do, I mean, can anybody like do you?
	I would say I wear men.
	I would say, yeah.
	I wear not just for men, but for myself.
	come back to that donated $100 men do not to make bad investments of time efforts and money with the modern non-traditional women there can be no first dates meet at a social event such as cars slash coffee or a trip to the range get to know here and see if she is playing you yeah thank you Based, based comment.
	Very good input, bro.
	Go ahead.
	I think I would be lying if I said I didn't wear makeup for men.
	I would say I wear makeup to look pretty for other people.
	So, I mean, yeah, wearing makeup for men.
	Yeah, I wear makeup for the men on the menu.
	I wore makeup for all of you men.
	Is that a sarcastic comment?
	I'm dead serious.
	I got to cover up these underbags.
	No, but, like, generally speaking, though, when you wear makeup.
	But, like, when you feel pretty, you have a better day.
	Or, like, you know what I'm saying?
	Yeah, I see what you're saying.
	Also, I do wear it for myself because I feel pretty.
	But to say I don't wear it for other people to think I'm pretty, I feel like that's why.
	I think both.
	But what he was saying was for the date you, what did you say?
	Well, if I understood you guys correctly, you're like, yeah, the guy should pay for the first date.
	I'm putting on makeup and getting ready for it.
	I didn't say makeup.
	just said like girls also invest in themselves to you know look good for that in different ways I'm not saying it's is it a different investment than then than they would make on a daily basis though Do you do anything extra when you go on a date?
	Or like, I would say I do.
	Some girls buy outfits.
	Some girls fix it.
	Maybe I bought a new outfit.
	I do not.
	No.
	That's on you.
	I would say I have a lot of people.
	How much does like a fraction of it?
	But what do you do when you, like, get ready for a date?
	Just, like, what I would do if I was going to meet, like, a friend.
	You're way too far from the mic.
	Has that been the case the entire show?
	No.
	Okay.
	Go ahead.
	No, just anything that I would do if I were meeting some friends for dinner or something of that sort.
	If I was going to a business meeting, I do the exact same thing.
	So yeah, I do want to make sure.
	I do put effort into my appearance.
	I'm not denying that.
	But I don't do anything different on like I don't buy things specifically for the date.
	I already have the things that I use, the material items that I would use for that date.
	I already have them.
	I don't buy them specifically.
	I would assume most women do buy stuff, though, I think.
	You do more to yourself than you would sitting at home alone.
	Yeah.
	And like going out to the grocery store or something like that.
	But I mean, if you were going to work or going to class or meeting up with your girlfriends or something, would you.
	I think it would still be more for most women.
	I do more for a date than friends or work or whatever.
	What if I told you as a guy, me personally, I detest makeup.
	Maybe a little bit of an eyeliner is fine.
	I don't like women who wear makeup.
	If I said, you know what, you can have a pass.
	You don't have to wear makeup.
	And I've actually done this.
	I've said, you know what?
	Don't wear, you don't need to wear makeup with me.
	I don't give a fuck.
	I wouldn't wear makeup.
	Yeah, I won't wear my exemplary wearing makeup.
	Don't bother wearing makeup.
	I don't wear perfume.
	I don't like perfume either.
	I wouldn't wear how I do it.
	Wait, I have a question for you, though.
	If, let's say, conceivably the guy spent more money on his appearance in some way than the woman, should the woman now pay for the first date?
	Like, let's say I, you know, I did something special.
	Crazy, like a tux.
	Should the woman now pay for the date if I spent more money?
	I mean, getting ready?
	What if it's like, think, okay, here's the scenario: metrosexual dude who's like, gets his fucking eyebrows down and shit, gets a brand new fresh fucking haircut, exfoliates.
	I don't know what the fuck these guys are doing.
	Versus like a spiritual chick who's kind of like spiritual and doesn't wear makeup and doesn't shave her armpits.
	She doesn't put a lot of effort.
	She's no deodorant.
	They're two different people.
	I don't know.
	Let's say they like each other.
	Who should pay?
	I mean, isn't the guy always, sorry, isn't the guy usually pursuing?
	I mean, this guy's metrosexual and she's crunchy.
	She's pursuing him.
	She's crunch.
	Oh, my God.
	Then if she asked him on the date, then yeah, she should pay.
	Again, you can kind of read the vibes before this even happens.
	Do you think women wear makeup for men?
	I think women wear makeup to fit in with other women, but some women wear makeup to look good for men.
	It's like a, you know, like a bird with colorful feathers.
	It's kind of like to attract a mate.
	It's just.
	I think, what do you guys think about this?
	What if we just totally got rid of makeup?
	So that you wouldn't have to compete with other women.
	So it would just lower.
	Because I feel like it's a game of almost one-upsmanship.
	It's a competition.
	Like, oh, other women are wearing it, so now I need to, like, out of necessity, I must also be on this rate.
	In the same way with sports, right?
	You have these athletes who will start doing steroids.
	Now all the other athletes feel like in order to compete, I too must now do steroids.
	So when you think about that shit, I would be down for the no makeup.
	Like, honestly.
	Just get rid of fucking makeup.
	If you would have texted us and been like, I don't want makeup on the podcast, I honestly would have been fine with it.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I never wear makeup for this show.
	Maddie donated $100.
	Thank you, Maddie.
	I believe in wives submitting to their husbands.
	My XPF demanded complete submission.
	Do men, especially men, expect complete submission before marriage?
	Is it even right?
	God talks about submission in the context of a marriage.
	No?
	Panel's thoughts?
	I'll take this first.
	No, it's not right for a boyfriend to expect complete submission from a woman.
	Complete submission is something, biblically speaking, that is exclusively reserved for marriage.
	If you have a boyfriend who's expecting complete submission from you, who's referencing the Bible, that's not donated $99.
	Women wearing makeup is equivalent to a man renting a Lamborghini.
	Both are temporary, give a false sense of confidence, and are used to attract the opposite gender.
	Okay, I like that.
	That's a pretty decent one.
	I think when it comes to the whole makeup thing, I think you kind of have to pick a lane, though.
	So women constantly say that they don't wear makeup for men.
	They don't do the various things that they do to improve their physical appearance.
	They don't do it for men, but frequently use these things that they do to improve their appearance or when it comes to wearing makeup as pretext, as she just did, for justifying why men should pay for first dates.
	So I feel like you got to pick a lane.
	Either women don't wear makeup for men or they do.
	Fair.
	Good talk.
	Okay.
	I think whether they're conscious of it or not, they do.
	Yeah, there's no question.
	There's a comparison that women put on each other, and you might be doing your makeup to look like a certain person that you aspire to be or embody.
	Like a lot of people choose celebrities that they may somewhat resemble, and they try and emulate that type of look that they might have.
	But ultimately, it is to one-up other women so that you get attention from men.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, this is like honestly a silly conversation to me.
	I've noticed when women hang out in groups alone, not around other guys, hair's up, sweatpants on, no makeup, nothing like that.
	They go out in public, makeup.
	If there were no dudes where they were going out in public, they might wear a little bit.
	But when there's dudes, you know, they do all the work.
	Like, it's just, it's not a question, I feel like.
	You even said it at the end of your whole spiel.
	I was kind of, I was like laughing to myself a little bit because you were like, yeah, you know, like, even if I'm hanging out with my girlfriends, like, we'll put on a little bit of makeup, whatever.
	And then at the end of it, I can't remember how you put it.
	You were like, you're like, it's like a mating strategy, you know, like a peacock with its feathers.
	You know, it's like, it is a mating strategy for the opposite sex or whoever you want to attract.
	They aren't like conscious of it.
	They do it so consciously.
	No, but just because it's not a conscious action doesn't mean it's any less true.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	A man's face is his autobiography.
	And a woman's face is her work of fiction.
	That is a brutal quote.
	Who is that from?
	What?
	That's a brutal.
	What do you mean?
	That's true.
	It's true.
	What does your autobiography say about you, Brian?
	Yeah.
	What do you mean?
	My autobiography.
	You said a man's face is his autobiography.
	What does your autobiography say about you?
	I broke my nose in fucking junior varsity wrestling in high school.
	Is that a true story?
	Yeah, I don't know.
	You don't know whether a part of your biography is a true story?
	No, that's a true story.
	Oh, it is.
	I was thinking you weren't so sure about that.
	I did.
	I was on the JV wrestling school.
	Oh, congrats.
	Fucking high school.
	What an intro.
	And I broke my nose.
	Good talk.
	Nice.
	Really, I want to move on from the makeup thing, but one last thing related to this.
	Would you guys object?
	Actually, wait, hold on.
	Before I ask this question, going around the table, how tall are you?
	And then do you have, related to what you said, do you have a height preference when it comes to men?
	Like, maybe what's your height?
	And then bare minimum.
	Go ahead.
	I'm 5'7 and just taller than me, I prefer.
	So 5'8?
	Cool.
	Okay.
	I'm 5'6, and I think like 5'8, taller than me.
	Sure.
	Like almost 5'7, and I think just as long as they're like as tall as me, it's fine.
	How tall's your question, hold on.
	How tall's your current boyfriend?
	I think he's 6'6 feet?
	Okay, what about you?
	She doesn't have a boyfriend.
	5'7 ⁇ , I think.
	Oh, okay.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'4.
	Yeah.
	And you said, she said she likes dudes 5'11 over.
	Yeah.
	Have to be circumcised, 5'11 or taller, no older than 28 or 29.
	Depending on personality.
	Right, sure.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'7.
	I used to always want way taller, but my boyfriend now is 5'8, and I don't mind it.
	Okay.
	So you have that six-foot energy?
	Taller than that energy.
	Okay.
	Five-seven, just taller than me.
	How tall is your boyfriend?
	Probably like 5'11'6.
	Okay.
	I'm like 5'5 and just taller than me, is fine.
	All right, there's a lot of caps.
	Stop the cap!
	There's a lot of cap.
	Priya, what about you?
	I'm 5'8.
	I'd prefer men to be taller than me, but I have dated.
	The majority of men that I've dated have actually been the same height as me.
	Okay, all right.
	Well.
	How tall did you say you were?
	5'8.
	Now, I have a question here, though, related to the height thing.
	So, and related to the makeup thing.
	Would you feel cheated if you went out on a date on his Tinder bio?
	He said he was six feet, only for you to find out that when he was on a date with you, he was actually wearing shoe inserts to make him three to four inches taller.
	Do you feel that that would be, you know, you'd be upset?
	I wouldn't be upset.
	I would be a little confused, I feel like.
	Shoe inserts, you wouldn't.
	You wouldn't get the ick?
	Huh?
	You wouldn't get the ick?
	But why would you be in my?
	I would maybe get the ick because I would just be like confused about the situation, but I wouldn't feel like cheated or mad.
	You'd be confused, though.
	Why would you be confused?
	Or how?
	I just feel like, I don't know.
	I just, I've never came across that, so it would just be different, I guess.
	But you do acknowledge that women care about men's height?
	Yes, I do.
	Okay.
	So why would you be confused about a guy wanting to?
	I would understand why he's doing it, but I would just be confused about the whole situation.
	Sure.
	Okay, what about you?
	I would not like it.
	If he, okay.
	I'd like him to be like truthful, and I'd maybe feel like kind of bad for him because that he feels like he has to do that to get a date, you know?
	Okay.
	I'll go around the table.
	Go ahead.
	Is it for vanity or for a medical reason?
	There's no medical reason to wear shoe inserts.
	I'm not talking about like Dr. Scholl's comfort.
	Like, I'm talking shoe inserts to make him three to four inches taller.
	You were listening, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so it's not for medical reasons.
	No.
	Would you care?
	No.
	You wouldn't care.
	No.
	You just said, okay, he's 5'7 ⁇ , which is shorter than your preference of 5'11.
	He's wearing 4-inch shoe inserts to make him 5'11, but he's actually 5'7.
	Don't care?
	I'd be like, what's up with that?
	But I wouldn't hold it against him.
	But he's no longer 5'11.
	He's 5'7 ⁇ .
	Yeah, he takes off his shoes and all of a sudden he's short.
	Yeah, I'd be like, what's up, dude?
	So you wouldn't care?
	I'd ask why.
	Okay, but would you care?
	Like, he's like, oh, I wanted to appear taller.
	Would you care?
	If he said, I just wanted to appear taller, then I'd be like, okay, can you put your shoes back on?
	He's not actually 5'11, though, but okay, what about you?
	I'd rather him be honest, but if he wants to be taller, then go for it.
	I'd probably call him out and then...
	You'd call him out?
	Yeah, I'd just be like, why?
	How would you call him out?
	Here's, okay.
	You're on a date with a dude.
	He's sitting right here, and you're on a date.
	He says he's six feet.
	Uh-oh.
	Well, I know you said height-wise is not a big thing for you.
	In any case, he's wearing four-inch.
	I'd be like, was that a typo?
	Like, what's wrong with that bio?
	Or whatever?
	I don't know.
	I'd just be like, like, why?
	Sure.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think I would just laugh.
	But I'm sorry if you're insecure about your height.
	Insecure.
	I see.
	Okay.
	Priya, what about you?
	I mean, I wouldn't appreciate the deception, but I don't imagine myself being a lot of people.
	So, I see.
	Wouldn't appreciate the deception.
	And just remind me, you said something interesting.
	What was your thing again?
	I said that I'd feel like maybe pity for him that he feels like he even has to.
	Why does he have to do that?
	Because he thinks that that's what girls want.
	I mean, that is what girls want, but.
	Okay.
	So he has to change himself.
	I'm just curious, why, of all your answers that you provided, that feeling that it made you feel to know that this guy misrepresented his height by wearing these shoe inserts?
	Why'd you have to do that?
	Why do y'all do the shit you do when it comes to your appearance?
	And I think, I don't know if it was you who said insecure.
	I didn't know.
	Are women insecure by wearing makeup?
	A lot of the times, yes.
	Yeah.
	It's more of like an enhancer, I'd say, like to enhance your natural beauty.
	But so you're not.
	You're not secure with your normal beauty.
	I didn't say I wasn't.
	Okay.
	Of course there's degrees to it.
	Yeah, but a lot of the times.
	Well, sure, I don't think it necessarily indicates insecurity because a woman might recognize for some utilitarian purpose.
	For example, especially if you're in the entertainment business, that looking more physically attractive has some sort of benefit.
	So it doesn't necessarily indicate insecurity.
	It could be used for a utilitarian purpose, but you could still argue that you're, despite that, you're insecure.
	That's a very specific situation.
	It is a very specific situation, and I'd say most women who wear makeup are not involved in the entertainment industry.
	So I just called y'all insecure for wearing makeup.
	Hello?
	Do you guys want to fucking attack me?
	Hello?
	I can't generalize, though.
	It's not that we're insecure.
	It's just...
	I think it's different for every type of girl.
	It makes us feel better about ourselves.
	I think it's something.
	I don't think y'all have a high failure.
	You feel lesser than.
	Right?
	You said it makes you feel better about yourself.
	No, that's the words that came out of your mouth.
	I like to wear it when I'm wearing it.
	Why don't you just feel good about yourself without the need to paint your face?
	I don't know.
	People treat you nicer if you're prettier.
	And it's just, it's like a strategy.
	I do not think that is the case a lot.
	Well, yes.
	I know yes to it.
	Well, yeah, pretty privileged.
	Pretty privileged.
	yes it is but like if you're talking just kindness no if you're talking about getting like getting stuff Getting things.
	Yes.
	Your personality makes you prettier.
	I would say it depends on the day also.
	Like, there's days where I have no makeup on and I feel prettier than when I have makeup on.
	So again, that just goes back to like day-by-day basis.
	Like some days you're feeling really good, some days you're not feeling as good.
	And maybe to feel a little better that day, because something else was bothering you, you put on some makeup.
	Yeah.
	I just think this, men never asked for any of the weird shit that y'all do.
	Long nails, long nails, long eyelashes, makeup.
	Some do, though.
	Some pay for you to get that stuff done.
	Yeah.
	That is like a pretty rare, though.
	Me and all my friends.
	I don't know about here, but in Canada.
	Oh, yeah.
	Some guys do their makeup.
	Chase, do you prefer like a more natural appearance?
	I prefer a naturally beautiful woman.
	I do not like a lot of makeup on a woman.
	If it's to the point where I can like, it's obvious to me, I'm like, that's actually unattractive to me.
	But I will say there are guys who do like that.
	Like there's definitely girls on OnlyFans who have like that category where guys like that look.
	Like the, you know, huge fake tips and like big lips.
	It is true.
	There are guys.
	Like a lot of makeup, long nails.
	It's also just like that's like a sex kind of thing.
	It could be, but some end up with that woman and they like that girl that they can buy the nice bags for, the expensive shoes.
	Like they like a done-up woman.
	Yeah, all I know is if I go on a date with a girl and she looks like a drag queen on a date, I'm like not down.
	It's also taught to us from a very early age.
	Like, you look at any magazine, any beauty magazine, you look at Barbie, you look at Brats, you look at any of the toys, they all got painted on makeup on them, and it teaches us from a very young age that you have to look like that to be pretty.
	Down with Cosmo.
	And then, you know, you guys will say, oh, well, I like a natural woman.
	When, well, why are they teaching us from a young age then that that's because it's a billion dollar profit off of it?
	The cosmetic industry is a billion dollar industry.
	So we're all suckers and you want to punish us for it.
	No, we're not.
	No, we're literally sitting here telling you, don't wear so much makeup.
	Like, don't spend your money on this stuff.
	Like, that's not what we're doing.
	Most of the guys I've talked to like.
	You want natural beauty.
	I tell you.
	I tell you, this whole industry, this industry that you're describing, the whole thing is geared around making women feel insecure and like they're not good enough.
	So they have to buy makeup, so they have to buy implants, you know, get plastic surgery, do all these things.
	Like, I, as a man, am sitting here telling you that's toxic.
	Like, don't engage with that.
	Yeah.
	A lot of men like real natural beauty.
	And that naturally.
	Hold on one second.
	I'm sorry, but that natural beauty can be external, but it can also be internal.
	Women can cultivate natural internal beauty, and that is extremely attractive to a man.
	Well, I think that also goes to the confidence thing, how we said earlier, like we like men with confidence.
	Like typically, if you see a woman and she went to the club or a bar and she has no makeup on and is just wearing jeans, you're like, holy shit, that woman's like really confident in herself.
	So I think like you're saying, like it makes the woman more.
	What did you have?
	I do agree, but I feel like a lot of guys might think like, oh, this girl's natural.
	And like they'll have Botox or they'll have a little bit of lip filler and they won't even know.
	Or like guys on Instagram will look at girls and they'll be like, oh, she's like not wearing any makeup.
	Little do they know like they're doing like a natural beat or something.
	are a little bit clueless so then it's like well i'll tell you this If a woman gets like a little bit of that stuff done, then it's okay.
	Well, it can be difficult to tell.
	I mean, it's still like, I don't know.
	You can do it now.
	It doesn't like sit right with me to know it.
	But like a woman can get a little bit done and it's difficult for a guy to tell.
	But when chicks get a lot of it done, it's real easy to tell.
	And it creates like, it's like weird to look at.
	Okay, of course.
	Yeah, no, people start looking weird.
	I agree.
	But it's like, okay.
	what if you have like okay i'm trying to think of a scenario what if you is this boring No, no.
	Go ahead.
	What's your second?
	Go ahead.
	I'm just trying to think.
	Do more stuff.
	Okay, what if you got with a girl and you're like, oh my God, she's like all natural.
	Like, like, I love her.
	Like, she doesn't wear makeup.
	And then, like, you find out later, she's like, oh, yeah, like, I got my tits done like five years ago.
	Like, they just, like, felt natural or something.
	She's like, oh, yeah, I've gotten Botox.
	Like, I've gotten lip filler.
	I've gotten like.
	There's no such thing as natural feeling fake tits.
	Okay, my favorite.
	I've got a fucking laser vision for fake titties.
	I know.
	I know.
	I just look, boom.
	My fucking brain does the calculations.
	I mean, you haven't seen every girl with a boot.
	It's like fucking boom.
	Just like Gohan right there.
	But what if you never know?
	Titties.
	Fake titties, huh?
	I bet I could show you someone on Instagram.
	Like, I wouldn't want to because I wouldn't want to put them on here, but I don't think you would know.
	All doubt is removed once I feel the titties.
	I can tell.
	Okay, okay, well, then I can watch move and immediately be able to tell whether or not they're real.
	Okay, fuck the tits.
	Fuck the tits.
	What if you're dating a girl?
	I'm not big on titty fucking just saying she has had work done and you just didn't know and you think that she's beautiful.
	Like she has a great smile, great teeth, like clear skin.
	She's natural.
	And then she's like, oh, I'm going for like my filler appointment.
	Then you're like, ill, ill, what the fuck?
	You're getting your like lips done.
	She's like, Yeah, I've gotten it done like twice before.
	And you're already like, honestly, you're gonna like her lesson.
	You would not sit well with me.
	But she's so bad about it.
	Like, if the girl, like, because I feel like I've explained this on previous podcasts, I feel like I'm getting catfished as to who you actually are.
	And on like a deep biological level, it's like I want to know: okay, if I'm if I'm marrying a woman and we're gonna create kids, I want to know what are the materials I'm actually working with here.
	Okay, so you're gonna tell you up front then, and you still loved her as a person and you still found her naturally beautiful, even though it wasn't natural, but it looked naturally beautiful.
	That's that's a different story, that's a different story.
	But like, to her question, like hiding it in a way, yeah.
	Like, if she like hidden it, she's hiding it, like she said that she's going to her filler appointment, you just never knew.
	Like, well, I'm just telling you the instinct I would have upon finding it out, like something would like not sit right with me.
	Because it wasn't just me about what she looked, you're thinking about when I have kids with her, when I do this, when I have kids for her lips, it's not even like a conscious thought, it's like a biological, instinctual thing.
	It's like, oh, what I see is not what I'm doing.
	So, I can't mate with someone that has plastic surgery.
	Like, you guys look down on girls that have to be aware of that.
	I'm not saying I look down on girls who have surgery, but it's not my preference.
	Chase is a nicer guy than I am.
	It's not my preference.
	What about like dentist work?
	Like, how you guys think about that?
	I mean, I saw a video on TikTok like a year ago of some chick who like had more teeth and was like, Personally, I am looking for a life partner.
	I would not want a woman with fake breasts because they increase her risk of breast cancer and they have to be redone every few years.
	Risking your health to make yourself look like a Barbie doll is a Nick.
	Well put Raven.
	That's a fantastic point.
	We talked about this on a previous podcast.
	So, health is your concern?
	No, that's one concern.
	There's a lot.
	There's a lot of concerns.
	And we're just talking personal preferences here as well, okay?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Yeah, women can get breast implants and they can cause like severe autoimmune reactions over time.
	I think I read all the stuff, yeah.
	Okay, yeah.
	So, you've you've got that aspect of things, but yeah, for me, it's just like it's a personal preference not to have those things.
	And like I said, there's just like a biological instinctual thing that happens for me when I'm talking about it.
	Okay, but what about the teeth thing?
	I'm just so curious.
	There was this chick on TikTok who looked pretty rough before putting makeup on.
	I don't know what you're talking about.
	You know what I'm talking about?
	Looked pretty rough before putting makeup on, had no teeth, looked like a recovering mathematician.
	Could you find the video?
	Please, please find this video.
	The prompt you should type is hold on, hold on.
	She didn't just get you'll see.
	The prompt you should search for, Nick, is it's so gnarly.
	Like TikTok, woman with no teeth, makeup transformation.
	It's so gnarly.
	I mean, even veneers, like I wouldn't be a fan of veneers.
	Like, it's just like biological.
	Like, my DNA is like a freaking heat-seeking missile for daily.
	Okay, so I'm just like trying to figure out where is the line of like bettering yourself and then like bettering yourself too much.
	Getting classical surgery is getting so much.
	Okay, if a woman takes good care of herself, she eats properly, not just hygiene, like exercises, but also eats the proper foods to support a woman's nutritional needs.
	Because a lot of women, for example, they like way overstress their bodies, jack up their cortisol.
	It can make them gain weight, puts the fat in the wrong places on the body.
	That kind of gut health, but also like women should, like, if a woman can eat in a certain pattern according to her ovulation cycle, like a woman has, women have specific nutrition.
	Who knows her body, knows how to take care of it because women take care, when women take care of their bodies properly, you can look so good.
	Makes a woman look way healthier and more attractive.
	Taking care of herself like that and exercising, that goes way farther than a lot of this other stuff.
	That's why I've always said that.
	Not necessarily.
	If you just buy the proper foods and eat them at the top of time, exercise.
	What would you say?
	Because they basically ruined our food supply here in the United States.
	This is true.
	You have to buy all organic.
	Yes.
	I'll just have artificial bodybuilders.
	But that's easy.
	I know what it takes, and it can be extremely expensive.
	Meal honestly isn't amazing.
	In addition, part of the deal, though.
	In addition to what person Chase has said about the potential impact on health, I think it's also can be an indicator of her values, her personality.
	Typically, hyper-focus on one's own appearance to the point that you're going to spend thousands of dollars and undergo not medically indicated, dangerous, and unnecessary cosmetic surgery can be proxy for one, body dysmorphia.
	That's then proxy for mental illness.
	I think most people don't want to date someone who is mentally ill.
	So hyper-focus on one's own appearance, that's excessive, that's excessive vanity.
	And that's unattractive.
	Just on its own, excessive vanity is unattractive.
	Now, if it gets into the mental illness territory, that's a whole nother thing.
	And yes, I do think that women who spend thousands of dollars to mutilate their bodies and insert toxic materials into them for, again, not medically indicated, purely cosmetic reasons, are mentally ill.
	It sounds crazy, yeah.
	So, Ergo, I think it's a product of the illness of the modern world.
	Yeah, to be honest.
	I don't put the entire blame on women because there's a lot of pressure.
	There's a lot of messaging.
	There's a lot of messaging.
	James donated $99.
	Fixing teeth is completely different than getting plastic surgery.
	Fixing your teeth a direct benefit to your health.
	Any type of invasive surgery that is not a direct benefit to you health is not only unattractive but should be illegal.
	Sure, James.
	I don't know what the percentage of people who get veneers, if they're doing it for purely cosmetic reasons or if they have.
	It's what?
	It's cosmic reactions.
	It's mostly cosmetic.
	Don't they have to grind down some of those things?
	They like grind it.
	It's not dependent.
	It's obvious when you can't move you forehead and lips, you have 10 shots in your face, or the chick next to you has 10 pounds of foundation smeared on.
	Women tell each other men can't tell to make themselves feel better.
	They're wrong.
	Based facts.
	Nickelodeon.
	So just my last thing on this.
	I do think, yeah, I think choosing to date someone who has plastic surgery is a sub-optimal dating choice.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah, and so, like, for men.
	Well, I suppose for women too, but.
	Yeah, I got cosmetic procedures.
	Oh, my God.
	At least I got to do it.
	I'm going to be $100.
	Ladies, what are your thoughts about a man who would willingly have his leg bones broken and refused in order to lengthen his legs so he can be taller?
	$80,000.
	Don't say that.
	That's a good question, guys.
	How would you feel about a man who would do that to himself?
	It's a good question.
	I'll get to what I was going to say after.
	I think you guys should weigh in on that.
	Let's say a guy.
	Are you guys familiar with those surgeries?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Let's say a guy does that and he's six feet tall, but prior to that he was 5'10.
	Yeah.
	And you find out you date him for six months or something like that, and then you find out that he got that surgery and you had a preference for tall guys, but you find out he actually wasn't that tall.
	Would that change the way that you guys look at him?
	Me personally, no.
	Okay.
	Honestly, I want to battle it.
	It wouldn't bother me.
	You're talking about the foot guy that took off his shoes?
	No, this is like you're talking about the surgery one.
	I mean, I kind of want you to be taller.
	So would you be less attracted if you found out that he got that surgery?
	Or would you just?
	I wouldn't be less attracted.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think like back to the leg, the shoe lifting, it's kind of like, you know, sad.
	Okay, but would you be less attracted to him?
	I think so because, you know, my kids wouldn't be tall or this height that he is.
	Okay, exactly.
	Yeah.
	That's my point.
	Then we'll get them to.
	I'm going to, we're going to move on from that.
	I want to make the point that I wanted to make a few minutes ago.
	Cosmetic surgeries, oftentimes overcompensation with makeup, all of these different things.
	It's an effort to enhance beauty or simulate beauty or put beauty where it might not have otherwise been in your eyes.
	The thing about women, like, met a lot of different women in my life, met super healthy women, met very unhealthy women.
	The healthiest women that I've met who took good care of themselves, understood, like they lived healthy lifestyles, they cultivated a really strong and healthy sense of feminine energy within them.
	Those women glow.
	And like they can wear no makeup and look like the most beautiful woman in the world.
	And I think cosmetic surgeries and all these things are an effort to simulate that without actually having that true inner beauty like I was talking about before within them.
	And I think they're all like band-aids for actually becoming a healthy and whole woman.
	Does that make sense?
	I mean, yeah, I think when I was my healthiest, I would disagree.
	Because I honestly feel really good about myself from getting my surgeries.
	And I feel like, okay, so what I was going to say about the whole like when you want to get married and you're having babies and like it like makes you get like the ick or something because you're like my children wouldn't be that way.
	To a point like you've already invested so much in this person and I would say you love this person.
	Like you would do anything for them.
	Like they're your person.
	So like for me, it's like I don't care what this person has done to their body because I'm making a baby with my person.
	So like it honestly wouldn't affect me at all.
	So like I just like I'm like do you feel the same way?
	Like if you got so invested with that person like I think it depends on what the thing is.
	If it was the one, you know?
	Yeah, I mean like if I was if I was like with a girl and I really loved her but then I found out that like she had veneers or something like that.
	Like I can't deny some part of me would be like whoa.
	Like something deeply biological would be like whoa, what's you know, what's going on here?
	But you know for most cosmetic surgeries like you know girls come through this show and they've had a lot of work done and it's just immediately apparent and I'm like, okay, I don't like that.
	Yeah.
	You know what I mean?
	But yeah, I mean if you're really in love with a person, like that, that, if you're really in love with someone, that feeling of wanting to create children with them is going to come from that love that you're going to have.
	Yeah, it's going to over plastic surgery.
	Like it's going to come like, that will be so little at that point, I feel like.
	Yeah.
	I just, I'm the type of guy, like plastic surgery for me, like I can just, I spot it and I'm like, uh-huh.
	Yeah.
	You know, is that?
	Oh, shoot.
	CM donated $99.99.
	Yeah, thank you so much.
	God gave them hair and they died.
	God gave them nails and they paint them.
	God gave them faces and they use makeup.
	God gave them a chest and they get surgery.
	If God can't keep a woman happy, then we cannot either.
	You guys, you want to know something?
	Give me a rag.
	I'll take it at all.
	From a Christian perspective, there's a book, it's not in the Bible, but it's referenced by authors throughout the Bible.
	It's called The Book of Enoch, and we're about to get esoteric for a moment.
	In the Bible in Genesis 6, it says that these fallen angels came down and they visited humanity.
	And in the book of Enoch, it talks about how these fallen angels, they were angels that rebelled against God, and they gave humanity all sorts of technologies that humanity used to accelerate its own destruction.
	One of the things that these demonic forces gave mankind was makeup and knowledge of how women can use makeup.
	That was like a demonic thing that was introduced to humanity from a Christian perspective, which is pretty fascinating.
	What do you think is that?
	What do you guys think about that?
	The demons.
	Do you know what that means?
	Makeup is demonic.
	What do you think about that?
	What?
	Do not add or take away from this word.
	Solid reference.
	Okay.
	Solid reference, respect.
	All right.
	Yeah, I mean, with last thing on the plastic surgery thing.
	Because I think some women might say, well, would you rather have a girl who's totally flat or a girl who has some fake titties and she's got perfect boobs now that she has fake titties?
	Me personally, take any girl.
	I don't care if she was totally flat or maybe one was bigger than the other or whatever.
	I'd prefer her however she was before getting the fake titties.
	Then same thing with the fake lips.
	If she's got a small upper lip, I'd prefer her with the small upper lip as compared to lip fillers.
	BBL, if she's got a petite bum, flat bum, whatever, prefer that than a big giant fucking BBL, same with lipo.
	got a little belly fat that's prefer preferable to having the i've seen girl the lipo belly It just doesn't look right.
	Like it's uncanny valley.
	It just doesn't look right.
	That's facts.
	And then the last one, labia plasty.
	Wait, what's that?
	Sorry, Chase.
	It's when some women who have Audi labia, they have large labia, they will cut, they will cut the labia, and that is deeply hurtful to me.
	I find that offensive.
	Brian likes the roast beef.
	Brian likes the beef.
	I don't like the beef.
	I like to refer butterfly wings.
	Butterflies.
	Do you think we'll ever make it through a show without you mentioning this, Brian?
	Probably not.
	It's his thing.
	It's my thing.
	Wow.
	I'll pay for a first date.
	I will pay for a first date for Brian, by the way.
	You guys need to talk about Brian.
	He likes 4'11 women with beef curtains that are built like fridges.
	Wow.
	Well, what happened to the fridge?
	Where's the fridge thing?
	I'm throwing that in there.
	4'11.
	It's valid.
	Large labia.
	I don't like the meat references.
	I do prefer.
	But if she's got.
	You like natural, so it's just like whatever she's got, you like.
	What?
	No, he hasn't preferences.
	No, I like some of the cats preferences.
	I will pay for the first date if she has.
	Do you need to show proof?
	Yeah, do they need to showpoo the first proof?
	What do you expect them to do?
	I think women need to get revenge on men for all the dick pics that have been sent throughout the eons.
	They're very awful.
	Women disavowing them.
	This must start sending pussy pics to the bottom.
	I'm okay.
	We'll just stop sending pictures.
	What's your number?
	I'll send one right now.
	I'll go to the bathroom.
	Oh.
	All right.
	It's okay.
	Brian.
	I don't like it.
	Like, is it like enticing?
	Do we have to talk about it?
	Is it what?
	Do we have to spend five minutes talking about how much he loves it?
	Okay, do we have to talk about it?
	What's the question?
	What's the question?
	Is it more enticing?
	Does it like kind of like grab around your lips that grip?
	Yeah.
	Lips that grip.
	I think.
	Is it like tighter?
	Can we not do this to her?
	Shut up.
	Let's figure.
	Those don't grip.
	Why is it disgusting?
	It's pretty gross.
	She over here has a circumcision preference.
	Yeah, okay.
	So if you have a labia, how would you feel about that?
	Wait, that's a totally different question.
	I'm just wondering, because you're like all about the natural.
	So like, would you have to do it?
	I'm against your non-secular question, I am against circumcision.
	Okay.
	I'm against circumcision.
	Okay.
	It's biblical.
	Male genital mutilation.
	What does that mean?
	We need to end male genital mutilation.
	It's just like they are advocating in Africa.
	10,000 labia plasties a month, or excuse me, a year, a year in the United States.
	I wish I could reach out to those 10,000 women that are struggling.
	I want to help you.
	DMs are open.
	You know what I mean?
	Do you know what I mean?
	It's so sad, though, that women feel compelled, not with all this other plastic surgery shit, but to mutilate their own genitalia because they got a little extra skin down there.
	Do you want to know what would be a quick solve for the large majority of that?
	No adult content.
	Oh.
	That wouldn't be a good idea.
	If adult content women probably wouldn't try to, I mean, there would still be a woman who doesn't.
	I don't know if that's.
	It might help.
	I think eliminating adult content would fix a lot of control.
	That would probably help, but it was.
	Regardless.
	Women wouldn't have.
	Women.
	Oh, the video.
	Oh, the video with the mate.
	Let me do a couple chats because they're about to fall off and then we'll do the video.
	Yo, Fally.
	Oh, why is it not triggering?
	Hold on.
	Oops.
	One sec, guys.
	Oh, fuck.
	That's going to trigger a couple times.
	Sorry about the typo earlier.
	I rate myself a 3-4 on a good day.
	My friends have told me in the past few weeks that I look better than that.
	I struggle to look at myself in the mirror, so I can't agree.
	Hope everyone's having a good night.
	Hey, Fally, thank you very much, man.
	Appreciate it.
	It's really nice of you.
	All right, we have Seaberg here.
	Oh, fuck.
	Hold on.
	Let me skip that.
	It's probably going to trigger a couple times.
	Hold up.
	Oh, no?
	Okay.
	Seaberg?
	It's now scuffed.
	Hold on.
	Fuck.
	Do you have the video?
	We'll do the video while I fix this.
	That's her.
	She's done like a million of these, so there's one in particular that's really up here.
	Come back, come back, come back.
	Wait, wearing makeup is kind of a way of lying to improve your place in the sexual marketplace, similar to a man taking out a bunch of debt to make himself look better than he is to improve his place in the sexual marketplace.
	I don't think either will help create long-lasting relationships.
	That's facts.
	Very good point, Seaberg.
	Very astute observation.
	Good sir.
	Okay, we have last one here before we do the video.
	Monkey Brown, I stopped dating long ago and this show proves my reason why.
	Now I have here.
	Wait, now I have here, I'm a reed flag.
	Red, red.
	He's a reed flag.
	Okay, red flag to women.
	I'm 45, single, no kids, never married.
	So am I a red flag to women, to woman, and why?
	What do you guys think?
	If a dude's 45 and he has no kids and he's never been married, is that a red flag?
	Is that a red flag?
	Go around the table.
	Here, just starting here around.
	Yeah, I would say so.
	Why?
	Why?
	It would be alert.
	I mean, I would definitely be like put back and need to get to know him.
	Okay.
	Hmm.
	No.
	Okay.
	No, he probably just never found like the right girl.
	Okay.
	Maybe.
	Maybe.
	I used to think yes, but now probably not.
	Possibly.
	Why?
	I don't know.
	Kind of what she said is like everyone has their own time, that they're going to find their person.
	Maybe they just never did, and then maybe they just fucked up too many times and they yeah, I don't know.
	No, I would say that it's a yellow flag.
	If I were in, if I were dating that age range, if I were presented with, on paper, somebody that was that had the exact same criteria but had been married before, I would probably be more inclined to go out with somebody that had previously been married, because my first instinct as a woman is, okay well, you're 45 and never been married.
	Have you ever shown any sort of sign to committing to a woman, a woman?
	I immediately think you probably haven't really grown up.
	Yeah, to add on to that too, just explaining female psychology for whoever it was that asked that question, I think the reason why that would be a red flag to a woman, beyond what she just said, is it's going to subconsciously beg the questions, why have you never had a relationship that's worked out for you before up until this point in your life?
	Like what?
	What was wrong with you?
	This is how.
	I'm not saying that this, there's something wrong with you, but they're going to think to themselves, what was wrong with you?
	To the point where nothing worked out.
	Like, what shit do you have going on?
	Or did you have going on in your life to where things never worked out?
	Now that doesn't mean that you're like a bad person or you do have things wrong with you.
	Like somebody said, maybe you've just never found true love.
	Yeah, it's just like that's.
	That's like what's gonna go off in their mind.
	Yeah absolutely, that's why.
	Yeah, I would completely agree.
	That's why I kind of call it a yellow flag and not a red flag.
	Yeah, I agree.
	But yeah, like I said, if I were presented with somebody on paper that had the exact same qualities but had been married and divorced before, i'd probably go.
	I'd probably go on a date sooner with the person with the divorcee.
	I agree, do you see that viral video?
	That guy who's in his 30s, who's a virgin, and the guy asked him, why are you still a virgin?
	No, I didn't see that one.
	Yeah, it was pretty good.
	There's a guy, he uh, he looked like fit dressed nicely, one of those street interviewers who asked people questions, and he, this guy's like.
	He asked him his body counts or like how many women he'd been with and he was like oh, i'm a virgin.
	And the guy was like okay, why are you still a virgin at 30 years old?
	And the guy was like look, ever since I was a boy, i've dreamed of finding a girl who had never been with any guys, and i've wanted to save myself for my wife and I want to find a woman who saved herself for me.
	And i've never found that woman yet.
	So you know yeah, but he was like he was a solid dude, like he was a valuable guy.
	Otherwise, it was a good video, got it?
	Um oh the yeah, we'll do this is so wild.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	This is so wild.
	Mute the audio.
	Okay, just imagine there's some bullshit trap fucking bullshit music Oh wow, that's cute.
	Uh, that's crazy.
	Wait, what you can keep?
	Do it one more time.
	Just yeah, I gotta see that one more time.
	I've seen the.
	I mean, she does a bunch of tick tocks, but she'll do like putting on the makeup, she'll do the whole Process.
	This elicits like the most primal feeling of disgust and like uncanny valley in it.
	But yeah, that's a massive.
	That was a good video that you did.
	So did she get veneers or does she put teeth?
	No, well, she puts like this dentures.
	She puts them in.
	Yeah, she has her teeth.
	That's a huge, that's a huge difference.
	I got another question.
	Of the girls here, when it comes to the physicality of a guy, do you prefer men who are muscular?
	Maybe not like super roided up bodybuilder, but do you prefer men who are like strong and muscular?
	Means you're healthy.
	Around the table.
	I'm honestly a huge personality person.
	My boyfriend before was super scrawny, skinny dude.
	My boyfriend now is fit and strong.
	So I go either way.
	Sure.
	I think I like a lot.
	Because that means you work out and you take care of yourself.
	I actually like lanky dudes.
	I could see that.
	Okay.
	I actually love lanky dudes, but I'm not opposed to a guy that's built, just not like bodybuilder built.
	That's kind of an addiction, I think.
	What about you?
	More on like the thinner side.
	I don't know.
	My type's all over the place.
	Personality.
	What?
	Like, as long as you're not like 600 pounds or something, that like.
	But you don't find a guy with like who's got a strong athletic physique.
	He doesn't have to be like some super like jacked dude, but you don't find that like attractive.
	Yes.
	I'm not like, oh my god, abs so hot.
	Really?
	No.
	If anything, I'd rather you not have abs because then you're comfier to cuddle with if you do.
	I think girls say.
	No.
	I'm like, abs.
	No, wow.
	No.
	I feel like girls never own up to this because they don't want to feel like shallow or like just driven by.
	No, I'm totally shallow.
	I'm wondering if you're not going to be able to do that.
	But I feel like almost all women, when they see like a built dude on the beach, they're like, oh, who's that?
	I look at like Chris Hinsworth.
	100%.
	You have to be pretty.
	That's a good point.
	That's a good point.
	I have a question for you guys.
	What's more important, pretty face, but like a fat body or like...
	On the girl?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Or like, you know, a butterface.
	Nice face.
	But like a hot body, you know, a hard body.
	I wouldn't date either.
	What's the label?
	Like, what do you look at first at the beach?
	What do I look at first at the beach?
	Like if you're going to the beach.
	If I see a woman, are you looking at face or body?
	Well, I mean, like, naturally, my eyes are just going to see her body first and like the shape of her body and stuff.
	But I mean, both are good, but I.
	But what's more important?
	Like, I go running on the beach here in Santa Barbara, and like, if I'm running down the beach and I see an attractive woman, like, the first thing I'm going to notice is her body because I can't.
	For me, I look at the face first.
	Yeah.
	Well, I mean, it's even if a woman has like a really nice body, if she doesn't have a nice face, I'm just not.
	I think for a thousand-year dynasty, face matters more than her body.
	Yeah, you can change the body.
	You can't change ugly.
	That's true.
	That's true.
	I've seen some of that.
	I mean, unless you're rich, I've seen some amazing transformations of like super fat chicks.
	They look amazing.
	Yeah, I know.
	Have you ever seen a woman so fucking beautiful that you're like, if I were to have kids with her, like, that's a thousand-year dynasty?
	Oh, yeah.
	Oh, yeah.
	I mean, my extra money.
	If I were to breed with her, I have secured my fucking generations' worth.
	I would hate if my kids ugly.
	How do you know that those streets won't be bred out, though?
	Okay, I'm not a geneticist, so you have to raise your kids well to pick right.
	Yeah, but sometimes make them eat organic.
	You have to raise a eugenic family.
	I pray they don't get my autism.
	Yeah, and that.
	Not the tism.
	In the 21st century, autism is pretty beneficial.
	Yeah, I got a sponge of the tism, I gotta admit.
	Oh.
	Yeah, I can't.
	No, but like I love it.
	I have a lot of ribbonism.
	Like I'm not like formally diagnosed, but it's kind of automatic.
	My little brother, I think he has it.
	I like autistic women, sort of.
	Autistic BF, Autistic GF.
	Why not?
	There you go.
	So I think all the girls here.
	Come on, you like.
	It's almost like.
	Wait, what about you two?
	Preferences?
	Like, I was liking the muscular ones.
	They're nice to look at.
	Okay.
	Physical fitness is incredibly important to me.
	I'm physically fit.
	I'm in the gym five days, six days a week.
	So that's important to me in my lifestyle, and I want someone to emulate that.
	Period.
	Right.
	My follow-up question to that is, I feel like most of them were like, ah, give me a lanky guy, but whatever.
	My follow-up question is, and this is the last thing on the makeup thing.
	How would you feel if you saw this guy who looked built, you know, but he was wearing a long-sleeve shirt or something?
	You find out that this dude's been walking around in a muscle suit.
	No.
	Taking photos in it and shit.
	He takes it off at night.
	Oh, my God.
	You wake up to his natural self.
	Well, he's got to be a little bit skinny to fit in it.
	You know?
	We can work with that.
	Well, you see, anyway, I guess.
	We'll be like, get him a gym membership.
	That's kind of how, if y'all like a muscular dude and he tricked you into thinking he was muscular, that's kind of how we feel with makeup.
	That's the only thing you're doing.
	Or how about fake titties?
	Makeup enhances your beauty sometimes.
	You kind of tell the ones that are wearing a lot, a lot.
	You know, like that one, you knew she was wearing a lot.
	That's not how I feel about it.
	The muscle suit isn't enhancing your muscles.
	I don't know.
	You never know how under a sky.
	Yeah, but the surgery stays on you, so it's different.
	That's true.
	The girl with the extremes like that, for sure.
	Like, that was makeup transformation.
	That's huge.
	I think I look the best game on the other side.
	Like, muscle suit.
	And I'm wearing my makeup.
	When you're healthy, your skin's like glowing up.
	Yeah, your skin's glowing and stuff and you're healthy.
	And then your makeup looks cool.
	Did we read this one?
	Did we read this one?
	Yes, no.
	Hey, hey.
	Attention, please.
	Did we read this one?
	No, we didn't.
	Do you want to read it?
	Go ahead.
	Since it's about you.
	Pink shirt.
	I never date you.
	Okay.
	But you'd be fun AF to party with.
	I sure would.
	You have more than enough personality.
	You don't need to do Only Ryans.
	You can be a successful entertainer.
	The chick to the right of Chase should take you under her wing.
	What?
	That's you.
	Yeah, you should take her under your wing.
	I should take you under my wing.
	You can save her.
	Sorry.
	There's nothing wrong with her.
	She doesn't need to be safe.
	Okay.
	I take her back.
	Don't change her.
	She does.
	She has OnlyFans.
	Does she need to be saved, Chase?
	She's in a relationship.
	I think she's earlier that she has a lot of personal growth that she had to go through.
	Oh, yeah, we all do, but definitely.
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	She said there's nothing.
	She attacked her boyfriend with an alleged kitchen name.
	No, she did.
	Okay, she cut him up with a cup.
	And that's the past, so.
	No, no, no.
	We're moving on.
	Does that say, like, I have a healthy, like, disposition?
	No, she threw the cup.
	She threw it at him and then wrestled him on top of it.
	How do you know he didn't throw the cup?
	What'd you say?
	How do you know he didn't throw the cup and get her on the ground and start writing on her?
	Okay, no, no, no, no, don't know.
	Let's back up.
	We don't know.
	How would they know?
	Why are we looking at someone getting into such an unhealthy relationship?
	And we're like, there's nothing wrong there.
	I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with you.
	No, I know.
	She got screwed by an entire platoon of Army guys, which was her choice.
	But like, is that healthy behavior?
	No, are you saying there's nothing wrong with you?
	It was years ago.
	Y'all have the great points.
	And I'm working on myself.
	She finds that healthy.
	It's very healthy actually.
	It's just not healthy.
	I don't want to be like that.
	Sleeping with an entire platoon of Army guys.
	Like, who knows how many STVs you can get?
	Subjectively.
	I can't do anything.
	Thank the Lord.
	She's not even than you were five years ago.
	Still a deal breaker.
	No, I'm not.
	Okay, so we're not going to.
	Maybe if it was a squad, she could get telling me everything there is how to do it.
	Don't watch the rumor anymore.
	No, I'm just saying.
	There's nothing wrong with her.
	As a person or her actions.
	Everybody's in mistakes.
	So is there nothing wrong with making mistakes?
	I think you learned from them.
	She learned from them.
	Is there nothing wrong with making mistakes, though?
	Has she learned from all of her mistakes?
	Because she's sitting here saying, I got a lot of work to do on myself.
	I mean, I do.
	But I get what you're saying.
	Thank you.
	She's a great person.
	Thank you.
	Well, friends are always saying.
	I'm not saying she's a bad person.
	Yeah, no one's denying that she's a good person.
	She just has internal problems.
	Besides the stabbing thing.
	I just think it sounds a little harsher when you said there's something wrong with her.
	So you could say she's a good person.
	Did I say that or did she?
	I don't know.
	It just got brought up.
	I don't know who said it.
	Nobody's supposed to say that.
	I think that's just how she's.
	She said like that.
	It sounds worse.
	I think what she's trying to say is just like she couldn't.
	Look at women.
	Look at women cuddling.
	No one's saying that there's anything wrong.
	Let's go, women.
	No one outwardly said there was anything wrong with her.
	That was just a way that she phrased her statement.
	No, I think that what the question is essentially trying to get it.
	Raven DT donated $100.
	Girl in the pink.
	You're welcome.
	Would like to thank you for your money.
	Service is over, but thank you.
	All right, look, let me just keep it 100 with you, okay?
	If one of my bros was getting into fights with his girlfriend where she's even allegedly stabbing him with kitchen knives, I'm going to be like, dude, what the hell is wrong with you?
	Yeah.
	What are you doing?
	Yeah, little do you know, he's crazy too.
	It's the sex.
	Exactly.
	It's the what?
	But guys will never be.
	Like, if one of my bros did it, I'd be like, dude, what is wrong with you?
	But women, on the other hand, are like, girlfriend, there's nothing wrong.
	Everything is perfect.
	You're fine the way you are.
	Keep getting in those fights, girl.
	Guys say that to other guys too, though.
	No, me and my boys, absolutely not.
	We call each other out for each other shit all the time.
	You guys are way different here then, because in Canada, no guy will admit when they're family.
	It is Campbell.
	Canada is full of cucked men.
	Welcome to America.
	I think we're sensitive.
	There's quite a few here, too.
	Although, America's all women are very sensitive.
	I will actually say I am critical of my female friends, but I will say my delivery is much softer than how I would approach a male friend.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	But I will 100%.
	I mean, I would tell my friend that she's my friend, so I would want her to know.
	What do you have?
	What do you have?
	I feel like women are more sensitive, so you kind of have to tell them things.
	That's a very sexist.
	I feel like it's a huge hit.
	I see a pattern of behavior where women endlessly bend over backwards and do all sorts of mental gymnastics in order to justify terrible behaviors.
	That's what I see.
	Men do that too.
	Not me and my boys.
	Okay, you're a small percentage.
	Yeah.
	And that's the standard that I want to hold all other men to.
	Agree or disagree.
	Women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths.
	Agree.
	Agree.
	Ouch.
	In a general sense, yes, I personally wouldn't, but in a general sense, I do believe that.
	What drives that?
	What drives that?
	Zach West might have the answer.
	For everyone, what is a deal-breaker in a relationship also?
	How much could a woodchuck, if a woodchuck, could chuck wood?
	What does it do?
	We'll come back to that.
	What drives the actual woodchuck?
	Yeah, what drives women wanting to hear un What was it?
	How did you put it?
	So women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths.
	What drives that?
	Narcissism.
	Because the truth can be.
	It's narcissism.
	I think it's narcissism that is.
	Not all women.
	Just I want to.
	We finished Brian.
	Go ahead.
	No, but I think feminism has told women time and time again that women do not need men and women are perfect.
	Women can do all things.
	It's just simply not true.
	I think it's deeper than that.
	No, no, no.
	I agree that it's deeper than that in a lot of cases, but I think the narcissism does come from the messages that feminism tries to portray.
	What do you think it is?
	You think it's deeper than that?
	What do you think it is?
	Well, and I think you know what it is, Chase, but I've got a few ideas for sure.
	So I think when it comes to, and I feel like you've probably tweeted about this, when it comes to defending your ideas, when there are two conflicting ideals, two conflicting ideas, if it can never be resolved diplomatically, it will be resolved with violence.
	And violence is the realm of men, typically.
	Not to say that women can't be violent, but I think men are much more.
	I feel like I'm not articulating this as perfectly as I'd like.
	But I think that men are more prepared to fight.
	I'm not.
	Fuck.
	You know what?
	Okay.
	Okay, here's what I think it is.
	Like a revolution.
	I think the pattern I see, this is what I think it is.
	The pattern I see is women take criticism as an attack on their self, like their being, like who they are.
	Only if you're not wanting to work with me.
	You say it is, but like the thing is, if I receive, I literally welcome criticism from my friends and the people closest to me.
	You're a man.
	I know, but when I'm screwing up, I'm like, yo, like tell me all the areas where I'm screwing up because I want to be the most effective version of myself possible.
	People will tell me, Chase, like you're arrogant, you're hot-headed, you get angry.
	People will tell me you don't respond to criticism well, all these different things.
	And I'm not like, I don't hear that and think, oh, I'm just a terrible person.
	I hear that and it's like, okay, there's room for growth.
	But women seem to take it as like an assault on their being.
	Yeah.
	I knew when I was younger, why is that?
	I think for me personally, when I find myself getting like that, it typically is when I'm more emotional.
	Like something else is going on in my life or I'm already down or more sensitive due to other things.
	You know, obviously, like time of the month, that kind of stuff.
	Like I feel like that's when I catch myself being that way.
	So when you feel like you're in a stronger position and you're less frustrated by other stuff in your life, do you feel like you can receive criticism better?
	Oh, yeah.
	Because I agree with you.
	Then I take that and I think about it.
	I'm like, okay, yeah, I could have maybe handled that better, have done that better.
	And this is how me and my boyfriend talk.
	Like when we have fights, it's communication like that.
	And it's more of like, let's just see what we can do better for ourselves and like us as one.
	Yeah.
	Were you basically making the point that men are less conflict averse because we're more geared towards violence?
	I think I'll, yeah, basically.
	Yeah.
	I think.
	I just think that there was actually the most perfect answer to that that was in a movie.
	Where it was a line in a movie.
	Hold on.
	Is it about herpes?
	There's something wrong with that.
	It's called genital herpes and is highly infectious, even with the use of the condoms.
	60 bodies equals exposure to 12 partners who are infected.
	I can assure you, she's filthy.
	Silky, herpy, herpy, filthy.
	Jay Butler, every single show, every single show, Jay Butler brings, talks about herpes.
	He's a urologist.
	He's had herpes?
	No, he's a urologist, which is a peen doctor.
	So he's he knows he professionally deals with her.
	He deals with the he just diagnosed you via super chat.
	Hey, a lot of people would is he gonna give me medicine too?
	Valtrex, here you go.
	Okay, go ahead.
	What was the line from the movie?
	Where men think women feel.
	Very true.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	I got another line for you.
	Frederick Nietzsche said, Nietzsche.
	How did he put it?
	All things related to women, everything, it's something like everything of woman is a riddle, and every the solution to a woman.
	How did he put it?
	He said something like, woman is a riddle, and all things related to women have one solution.
	A man.
	And it is called pregnancy.
	Pregnancy.
	Speaking totally unrelated to the show, he who fights with mon this is from Nietzsche.
	He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster.
	And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.
	So true.
	Honestly, doing this show, gazing into the abyss, like it gazes back at me.
	I have become like a having done hundreds of these shows.
	I this shit has kind of fucked me up a little bit.
	I'm not going to fucking lie.
	Okay, all right.
	Brian, I think you need to touch grass.
	I'd probably go on a run.
	Okay, good talk.
	But hold on.
	Women underscore prefer underscore lies underscore because donated $99.
	Lies, incorporated makeup plus sex are their primary tools for the acquisition of power.
	Men have to earn their value via work, sacrifice, and disposability.
	Truth benefits men because it helps them adapt.
	Women prefer lies because it helps them usurp power.
	Plus, that was a brilliant super chat.
	We have one who is a brilliant super chat.
	Got one here from Grid.
	Thank you.
	A true friend gives you the cold, hard truth.
	People that tell you the lies you want to hear are not friends.
	It is at best being fake friendship and at worst enemy action.
	A true friend will value your happiness over everything, including the friendship.
	That's facts.
	Related to this, I get the impression that one of the differences between men and women is men will like talk shit to their friends to their face and kind of like a like men roast each other a little bit.
	Yeah.
	And then they'll like they'll flat they'll say flattering things about their friends behind their back.
	And it's I think it's the reverse with women.
	You'll say nice things to a woman's face and behind her back talk absolutely.
	And say what you want to actually say.
	Oh my god, I love you so much.
	Fuck that bitch.
	Type shit, you know?
	Unreal.
	Zach West, I don't want you to feel like we just jumped over your chat.
	So Zach West, he said, we never got to Rippies.
	Zach Quest 2000 donated $100,000.
	For everyone, what is a deal?
	What is a deal breaker in a relationship?
	Also, how much could a woodchuck if a woods could be a good idea?
	Deal breaker in a relationship?
	Go ahead.
	Probably cheating.
	Cheating.
	Okay.
	Lying.
	I wonder if he's curious, like something not obvious.
	Like he wears pink socks or some random.
	Oh, like, maybe, Zach, maybe you can clarify.
	But ugly.
	Okay.
	Hey, that's a good.
	That's honest.
	Yeah.
	Deal breaker.
	Pimples.
	Pimples.
	Pimple scars.
	Let's go to the face altogether.
	Let's go face that.
	Okay.
	Deal breaker in a relationship?
	I think it's like...
	Not being autistic?
	Let me know.
	Oh, sorry, Sarah.
	Heavy drug use.
	Oh.
	Yeah, that's super valid.
	What about light drug use?
	That's fine.
	I feel like here and there it's fine, you know.
	Just smoking like a little bit of heroin on a daily basis.
	True.
	No.
	Just a small bit.
	Just a tad.
	If they hide drug use or alcoholism.
	Hiding it.
	What if it's out in the open?
	Then it's chill.
	It's cool if it's out in the open, right?
	Only if they share.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, probably just drug use or staying out late every night or okay.
	Not ambitious.
	It's a deal breaker.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Huh.
	I had all this time to think, but I don't know.
	I can't think.
	You can't think of all the things.
	Just name something that's giving you the ick.
	Well, you were talking about those shoe insights.
	I would not be able to do it.
	What?
	The shoe inserts.
	These two inserts turn off.
	Well, I just think why lie.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I was going to say drug use, but another one would be no desire to marriage and no relationship with Christ.
	Yeah, amen to both of those.
	Also, history of sex work.
	Sorry, ladies.
	It's okay.
	Drug use, history of cheating.
	Yeah.
	The list goes on, but yeah.
	Yeah.
	What about you, Brian?
	I'll answer after this.
	If he has a dating podcast, a huge red flag.
	Just kidding.
	Love you, Brian.
	No homo.
	Thank you, Raven.
	That's actually, there's like news articles like beware of men with podcasts.
	Especially dating podcasts.
	That's like a double trouble.
	No.
	No, go.
	The feminist machine is in overdrive trying to shut her down, man.
	Heaven forbid a man have a podcast.
	The latest podcast trend is making women look dumb on.
	New York Post, such a funny.
	So funny.
	Should we pull it up?
	Just pull up.
	Just Google the article on you, bro.
	We won't.
	It's like you don't have to make them do anything.
	They do it their own.
	I'm pretty sure in the clip that they included, you didn't even say anything.
	A lot of the clips were just like the most tame fucking conversations ever.
	Nick, it's just New York Post, whatever.
	This article.
	No, no, no, it's podcast.
	Nick, find the New York Post and the Vice article.
	Oh, and the Vice article.
	Yeah, there's two.
	Red flags for me while he's doing that.
	Let's see.
	Goodness.
	If she's a funny article.
	Not red flags.
	Oh, deal breakers.
	Deal breakers.
	Fuck.
	In a relationship?
	No beef curtains.
	Taller than 5'2.
	Enemies are cool too.
	That's not a deal breaker.
	Let's see.
	Not bad.
	Quarrelsome.
	Quarrelsome is just an instant deal breaker.
	Huh?
	Argumented.
	Argumented starting fights.
	Oh, yeah.
	Just to like start them.
	Because once you've better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome wife.
	Yeah.
	It's the book of Proverbs.
	Proverbs 21.19.
	Check it out.
	That shit's dope.
	It's got to be stressful.
	Okay.
	We'll just pull it.
	Making women look dumb is a disturbing new podcast.
	Scroll down.
	I don't know why this video.
	That's just like an ad.
	A podcast.
	Wait.
	Scroll down.
	What the fuck?
	Oh, look at that.
	Hey, I know those guys.
	Oh, shit.
	Yeah, that's us.
	And then the vice one?
	I like that they choose the latest trend in podcasts is making women look dumb.
	Whatever podcast is bait.
	You can't.
	Okay, that's it.
	Yeah, they wrote some hit pieces.
	It's all good.
	So funny.
	So good.
	They got dragged so hard on Twitter for posting those articles.
	Yeah, all the comments were mostly super supportive.
	In any case, so I want to try to hit.
	Oh, we got Rippy here.
	Rippy, there's also a lot of women that you would assume have a roster but sit at home and they're PJs.
	Generally, you should always take someone at their word unless their behavior shows otherwise or you period, let's not blackpill ourselves into being single from fear.
	That's fair.
	That's a solid comment.
	That's fair.
	True.
	And I mean, there are women who do like, who strip and do sex work that are not promiscuous.
	But on its own, that's a can be a separate thing to what you were talking about before with your boyfriend who's constantly like you're texting all these other guys and all that kind of stuff.
	I think one habit that is worth fixing for just generally speaking for people in relationships, because a lot of people have like trust issues and whatnot, is not approaching a relationship from the perspective of finding the person guilty of whatever you're worried they're doing.
	Not approaching the relationship from the perspective of finding them guilty until proven innocent, but instead finding them innocent until proven guilty.
	You know, to his point, taking people at their word.
	You trust them until they break your trust.
	I agree with that, but it's also, I feel like a lot of guys, they're like, oh, this is a very attractive woman.
	Like, she must have a lot of sex or she must have a lot of bodies.
	But it's like, no, not really.
	Like, it's the average chicks that beat fucking.
	I could agree.
	That's facts, bro.
	That's facts.
	It's also, I mean, it's like, I think for guys, it's not just a physical attractiveness thing.
	It's also how you carry yourself as a woman, right?
	So if I see a really beautiful girl, but she's very modest and like wears modest clothes and like carries herself conservatively, I'm not going to look at her and think, oh, yeah, that girl's sleeping with a lot of guys.
	But she could.
	She might be, which is why it's still worth asking.
	Yes.
	And doing your due diligence.
	Showing their body, but like they don't.
	I don't know.
	Yeah.
	I mean, if a woman is like dressing very provocatively and like has like not very conservative attitudes, yeah, you're going to assume.
	Which is fair enough.
	Yeah.
	Jay Butler, Brian, you son of a bee.
	I'm not even remotely done talking about how this woman definitely has the herp.
	No one touch her skin.
	You will die immediately and there's no cure.
	All P-stars have it.
	Filthy, Yeah, I think, yeah.
	I think you think that's filthy, filthy.
	I love this guy.
	This guy's so funny.
	Can you check me?
	Every show.
	Can he check you?
	Yeah.
	You might have to see Nob Gyn for that one.
	I never heard of that.
	He could probably Butler, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Appreciate it.
	Good to see you in the chat.
	He literally, I'm not even joking.
	Every show, it's fucking hilarious.
	Yeah.
	Every show, he you've been here pretty much.
	She was here like two months ago.
	He was talking about herpes.
	No, he's funny.
	I like how he is filthy, filthy, filthy.
	He's the leading researcher for the whatever podcast on the page about herpes.
	About herpes.
	About herpes.
	Thank you, man.
	I appreciate it.
	So I got some more pre-show notes here.
	I'm going to try to get through all of them and then we'll do a brief after show and then we'll wrap.
	So I think we've got through Genie.
	We have Katarina finally.
	You said you were dating a guy for a year and a half.
	You just left him in June.
	He was a psycho.
	Psycho is an understatement.
	I find out that he was still dating his ex for almost our whole relationship.
	He was so good at lying that even when I had proof of him doing things, I'd still believe him.
	I now have a restraining order on him now because of all the stuff he did to me.
	So you like stalked?
	No.
	Okay, so two months into dating, we moved in together, and then two months into living together, we got a mandatory restraining order.
	That ended up getting dropped because I didn't press charges.
	I took him back, and then, yeah, in June, I left him when he went to the gym, just packed up and left.
	Wait, why did you get the restraining order?
	Neighbors called the cops because they heard a lot of stuff being thrown around and stuff.
	So cops showed up, took him to jail, and they're like, yeah, we're playing restraining order.
	No kitchen knives, though.
	No, it was a flower vase, actually.
	Did you throw it or him?
	He did.
	Yeah.
	What catalyzed this fight?
	Because we were supposed to go to a night market and he went out drinking or cheating, whatever he was doing that night, showed up, and yeah.
	And you were like, what the hell?
	Yeah, I was like, I don't really want to hear about how much fun you had tonight.
	Like, I just want to go to bed.
	And then that, like, flipped a switch.
	What?
	Why?
	I don't know.
	What did he say in response?
	Honestly, I don't even remember the first thing he said.
	It just, like, all of a sudden started to get away from me.
	He was getting into a rage.
	Yeah.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	Sounds like the kind of relationship that leads to domestic abuse, like hardcore.
	It's spot on.
	You said he was dating multiple other women at the same time, too, but you didn't know about them?
	Well, okay, so before moving in together, I saw on his phone him texting his, I guess, current girlfriend.
	And he just said that she was texting him about clothes he left behind.
	And then after moving in together, she started messaging me, sending me their tapes and stuff.
	And then he would just say that they're old and all that stuff.
	Old tapes.
	Yeah, it turns out it was like a dozen girls.
	Damn, a dozen.
	Or more of these.
	What kind of tapes were these?
	Like sex tapes?
	Yeah.
	I didn't know if I was older.
	His ex was sending you those?
	Yeah.
	Like two?
	To your phone?
	Yeah, of them together.
	Wow.
	Got free OnlyFans from them.
	That's so gnarly.
	How did you feel about that?
	How did you respond?
	Well, like I said, he was just so good at lying.
	I was like, oh, must have been from before we were together.
	She's crazy.
	That's horrible.
	Wait, so during your relationship, he was making these and then they were being sent to you.
	This sounds like the worst relationship ever.
	Yeah, and then after I left him when he was at the gym, I literally just texted my dad.
	I was like, okay, I'm packing up.
	Let's go.
	Moved out in like an hour.
	And then, yeah, he started stalking me, sending me like death threats and stuff.
	So I had to get a restraining order.
	That's horrible.
	That's a yikes.
	That lady's got to pick better guys, man.
	What the hell?
	Well, I did know.
	It's good.
	Yeah, you said you've been in a relationship for two years now, right?
	Two months.
	I misread that.
	We've known each other for like four years, though.
	Okay, got it.
	Wait, Chase, what would you do?
	You're dating a girl and her ex sends you a video of them having sex.
	Bro, I would, like, lose it and probably break up with her.
	I might have to.
	To be honest with you, I'd probably immediately break up with her.
	Because if you have sex with her again, that's like now in your head.
	Yeah, dude.
	So it's not even about having sex with her again.
	Like, yeah, it would be in your head then, but like just any time after that point, having that mental image in your mind, like I have no idea how you could have possibly dealt with it.
	We didn't really have sex because he was always too tired, but it was because he was having sex with other girls.
	Okay, that guy was a nutcase, yeah.
	Dude, I would like, yeah, I would like.
	That would break my heart.
	What would you do?
	Yeah.
	I'd probably end the relationship.
	Yeah.
	And it's almost, it's not her fault, but like the image scorched, burned into my eyeballs.
	Yeah, I don't know how you deviate from that.
	And I feel like it's kind of different between like guys and girls.
	Like obviously it would suck for any girl to see her boyfriend with another guy.
	But like as a guy, dude, like men are more territorial.
	So much more territorial.
	For me to have that mental image burned in my mind would like rip apart my mind.
	Well, now they're fucked together, so she's even crazier.
	Well, which is why I think a lot of men would struggle to date a woman who does OF, who does porn.
	No way.
	Because there's images out there of her having sex with another dude.
	It's hard to see.
	Yeah.
	It's not just hard to see.
	It hurts.
	It tears apart your mind and your soul.
	It stings.
	Ooh, it stings.
	Yeah.
	What's the difference?
	What's the difference of like seeing this stuff?
	And knowing she's fucked another guy.
	I mean, we're very visible.
	You don't have a picture of it.
	Like, I think most men like.
	But you can compare then, too.
	Like, you're seeing the situation, like, how they're being intimate, what he looks like.
	Like, I feel like it's more intimate than just knowing, like, oh, she fucked some guy at a bar.
	Yeah, definitely.
	I think a lot of guys want a woman's undivided, romantic, and sexual attention.
	100%.
	And anything, even if it's in your past, I know this sounds, this almost sounds crazy, but like, we don't want to think about or know the previous sexual things that you've done with men.
	We don't want to know it.
	It stings.
	It burns.
	I agree.
	I don't want to know it with my boyfriend either.
	What about the guys that want to know?
	That I literally ask you.
	What does that mean?
	What is it?
	Why are they asking you?
	They start kidding me.
	They just want to know.
	Is it because they're like vetting you and they're curious about your past, or is it like fitness?
	I hope with someone that he was like, I want to know everything about you.
	I'm not going to be able to know you unless I know everything you've ever done in your past and this and like how you grew up.
	He was like, I'm not going to, how will I know you as a person if I don't know your history?
	That's what he would tell me.
	And I had to tell him everything.
	But you got to tell him like fucking positions and shit.
	Like, no, just like everything I've done, if I had a threesome, if I've been with girls, if I've been this, and like, how many, like, he wants to know everything that ever happened in my life.
	I think that's fair.
	I mean, like, if you're having like a serious relationship, like, he's like, I want to know your whole life story.
	Yeah, I mean, like, those are questions that a guy is going to ask a woman if he, like, she said, is serious about her.
	Like, if I'm talking to a girl, damn well, do I want to know whether or not she's done a threesome?
	Because if she has, I'm like, a lot of stuff.
	Is it worse if it's a guy-guy versus a girl-girl?
	Well, like, devil's threesome versus two dudes.
	I mean, even a girl and a guy would be a deal breaker to me.
	But two guys is like, bro.
	Dude, when I was in college, you know, when I was a freshman in college, there was this girl in my dorm complex that had a train ran on her by guys at a party.
	It was in front of other people.
	Was it the platoon or a squad?
	Coast Guard?
	Dude, I remember when I heard that, I was like, I think that was the most disgusted I maybe had ever been in my life.
	It was so gnarly.
	Like, how would you feel if you found out that a girl had had like a threesome or a foursome with a number of other guys?
	A girl I'm interested in?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, like, dude.
	Okay.
	Like, if it's just some random chicken.
	No, no, a girl that you're interested in.
	I wasn't interested in this woman, by the way.
	But why did it bother you?
	That I would not want to date her.
	Why did it bother me?
	Because I'm just thinking to myself, dude, that's somebody's daughter.
	She's getting a chance to get it.
	Yeah, see, it doesn't bother.
	Like, stuff like that just doesn't bother me if I'm not, like, I don't know.
	I just wouldn't care.
	Like, she's doing what?
	Whoever.
	They're like doing their own thing.
	Like, they don't affect me.
	Like, I don't know.
	It's wrong.
	Abdul?
	Yeah, I still find a girl.
	I see your personality.
	It would be.
	I have a strong disgust response.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I completely agree.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I'd feel like that's kind of gross.
	Kind of very, very.
	Like you meet this girl, she's perfect.
	She's got the beef curtains, she's 4'11.
	Super passionate about your podcast.
	You find out a train had been ran on her.
	No.
	I can't do it.
	I can't do it.
	Okay.
	Can't do it.
	Dang.
	Can't do it.
	Yeah.
	No, well, I mean, I feel like I'm pretty extreme with it.
	Like, even on a first date when, of course, like, you've just met me, there's clearly no expectation of commitment or anything.
	If I find out on the first date that you've recently had sex with another dude, even before you even met me, I'm already like, ugh.
	Yep.
	Like, bro, there needs to be, I don't know what the minimum is, at least three months.
	You guys are very excited people for sure.
	Like, sex is very important and intimate.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	It's like the most sacred thing that you can do with another person, you know?
	So I have a question.
	What is like an acceptable body count for a woman to have?
	Zero.
	Virgins, then.
	That's what you guys are in.
	That would be the ultimate.
	Yeah.
	That would be the ultimate, but the lower the better.
	The lower the better.
	Okay, but do you feel the same way towards a man, though?
	Like, do you think?
	What's an acceptable body count for a men?
	Yeah.
	Well, I personally speak out against male promiscuity.
	I think one of the worst problems in our world is promiscuity in general.
	I don't support dudes like sleeping with a ton of women.
	Like somebody close to me recently was telling me that he's talking to a girl.
	He's going to have to leave California soon.
	And like this girl is like she really likes him and he like kind of doesn't care about her that much.
	He was like, yeah, I think I might go stay over at her place tonight.
	I was like, bro, but you're going to leave California and this girl's like in love.
	It's going to hurt her, you know?
	A lot of guys are like, if a guy has a high body count, dudes will be like, dude, nice.
	I just, I think it's degenerate.
	I'm still like a hot girl.
	Go for it.
	Yeah, I think it's degenerate, personally.
	Contributing to the problem with the business.
	Exactly.
	Exactly.
	And this is one of the problems I have with the red pill sphere as a whole is you've got a lot of influencers that are like, yeah, women with high body counts are bad, but also you as a man should go get laid as much as humanly possible.
	It's like, bro, you're literally advocating for men to contribute to the problem that you're calling it.
	It's not going to be like an equal situation.
	There are some differences, though, insofar as there's a small proportion of men who can be promiscuous as compared to the proportion of women who have the capacity and capability to be promiscuous because almost any woman, if she was so inclined, could be a slut, but not every guy can be a slut.
	Like it takes a certain degree of either look, status, or charisma for a guy to get laid.
	Whereas there's more women who can be promiscuous or have the capacity for promiscuity than it is the case for men.
	So there is a differential.
	There is a differential.
	But even an ugly dude is still going to try his hardest to be a slut if he wants to be.
	Yeah, he might if he wants to.
	But it's going to be much harder.
	He's not going to be able to his level of ugliness.
	It's going to be much harder for him to do that, though, than for a woman who's at the same level of ugliness.
	Yeah.
	Like if you take the point that he's making.
	If you take like we had a woman on the show, I mentioned her earlier on.
	This is the woman who had slept with five guys in a night and she did that for like weeks on end.
	She was, where's her father, dude?
	Actually, Nick, if you're able to find it, I think you've pulled it up before.
	It's the.
	I didn't hear what you said.
	You were saying.
	Oh, it's the girl who was on the podcast before.
	She was sleeping with five men in a day.
	I think you've pulled it up before.
	Unremarkable looking, overweight.
	Her looks equivalent.
	Like if she had a brother who looked like her equivalent, whatever, or just her looks equivalent, equivalent, would not be capable of sleeping with five women in a day.
	In order to sleep with five women in a day, you need to be Drake.
	You need to like Dan Bozera.
	That is like the top 0.001.
	There's a bunch of red flag peppers that the table equals wears war helmets.
	Blanket sweaters, blue neck yogas, double store capping, Alicia Keys, wannabe, cake face, capping granny, weirdo white blouse, pink nut job, fake nose blondie.
	What the fuck?
	Hashtag get the rocks number 304s.
	Hashtag get the rocks.
	Okay.
	Yo, LPE.
	LPE.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you.
	I have a pull-up also on a later super chat that came in.
	Just check their profile picture.
	Oh, dude, he just took a look.
	He just successfully roasted every woman at this panel.
	Wait, which one was I?
	But I've been called weirdo, so it really is.
	What was it?
	That's so good.
	Come up with something more original.
	Do you have the video?
	Yeah.
	There's probably a better version of it.
	I've slept with five guys per night for weeks.
	Yeah, can you find it?
	Just play it, just play it, just play it.
	Yeah, started with adult content when I was like nine years old or something like that.
	And eventually it got to a point where like I was 19 and I got kicked out of my house because I was like bringing over six dudes a night.
	Like it just was never enough.
	Enough was never enough.
	Wait.
	So you would sleep with six guys a night.
	So like would you slot them in like 7 p.m., 8 p.m., 9 p.m., 10 p.m.?
	Yeah.
	Yep.
	Okay.
	And then I would even, oh, sorry.
	No, go ahead.
	I'd say I would even like have like my backup guys to where it was like if this guy didn't come tonight, then I have, then I would invite this guy.
	And then if he did come, if the first guy did come, then I'd tell the other guy, oh, I'm busy, like I can't, you know, make it or whatever.
	So that like happens.
	Did you have a spreadsheet like an Excel spreadsheet?
	Kind of, yeah.
	I mean, I had to write, eventually, like I had to write people's names down because it got like so insane.
	Oh my god.
	That is why I hold that.
	I have so many questions.
	That woman's looks equivalent is not capable of sleeping with six women in a night, in a day.
	Yes, but I think the point is, is just like the mindset and the behavior that like upsets you guys.
	So even though a man can't get that mini women because he's ugly or whatever the situation is, he still has that mindset of a slut or whatever.
	So wouldn't it still be like the same?
	Actions are different than intentions.
	Your mindset's going to eventually.
	But it's just because he can't.
	I mean, there's a lot of things.
	So it's not really that he's like trying, his actions are the same.
	He's still trying to get it.
	His actions aren't the same, though.
	He's not sleeping with seven women a night.
	Because he can't, though.
	So it's not really like that.
	Even if he could, it would still be wrong for him to do.
	Yeah, but that's just what I'm saying.
	Like it would be the same.
	They're advocating against behavior, not for it, regardless of if it's the same.
	We're not upset that guys, like ugly guys can't do that.
	I think it's all degenerate behavior.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I was just like trying to get like he was just explaining why it's different between the sexes.
	Yeah, I still don't think, I don't think it's ideal for, I think men should be pursuing long-term relationships with women.
	I mean, lookup culture is bad.
	Any guy that's sleeping with seven women a night is for sure spreading a ton of SDGs to the population.
	Yeah, like that's also bad.
	This whole idea of like it's it's high value or alpha to like you may be able, like you might be such an attractive guy that you're able to and you have the capacity to sleep with a lot of women, but I don't think it's high-value behavior or alpha to sleep with a bunch of women.
	Granted, I do think that men need to get more experience when it comes to dealing with women, but not necessarily in a sexual sense, but I do think that...
	Like dating?
	Yeah, there's like a differential there.
	We don't need to go into that.
	We need to build game and conquer.
	Why does somebody have classes for that then?
	Huh?
	Societal classes for that.
	Well, so just to make my point, though, when it comes to men sleeping with a bunch of women and it's high value or alpha, it's the least alpha or high value thing.
	Let's say you want to have a wife one day, you want to have kids.
	It's not cool to like be bringing herpes or some other STD to your mother of your children, to your wife, etc.
	So you know what I think the most alpha behavior is, personally?
	Wait until marriage.
	Well, that half 10 cents.
	But I don't think that's like particularly alpha per se.
	I think like the most alpha behavior that a man can embody is like making the greatest success out of himself that he can, finding the most beautiful and virtuous woman that he can, having as many kids with her as humanly possible, repopulating the earth and creating a freaking dynasty, dude.
	Building a family that then like governs the earth, bro.
	That's alpha behavior.
	Tell us about the, what's the arrow one?
	I agree with that.
	The arrow.
	Sons are like arrows.
	Oh, yes.
	Proverbs says the children of a man's youth are like arrows in the hands of a warrior.
	So basically the Bible is saying your children are, it's describing your kids as artillery to send out into the world.
	So I'm curious on like adoption for you, like say like.
	I'm open to it.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I was raised by my stepfather.
	My biological father was never in my life.
	My stepfather.
	Yeah.
	I remember when I was 18, I had this feeling one day.
	I was like, I want like 30 kids.
	Like I just knew I wanted as many kids as humanly possible and it's just stuck with me ever since.
	That's nice.
	I got a lot of love to pour into my future children.
	And yeah, my stepdad raised me and he did an incredible job raising me.
	There's no way I would be who I am today if he hadn't raised me and like I would love to pay that forward someday.
	That's nice.
	You know, that's my take.
	Do you guys want to have a lot of kids?
	I would love to.
	Yeah.
	How many kids do you want to?
	I mean, I would love to have twins, personally.
	Get it done.
	Why?
	They're adorable.
	Like 50 possible.
	And like, yeah, then I would get it done.
	Would you be open to multiple sets of triplets?
	That would be a lot, but I mean, if it freaking happened, like, I guess it happened, but I would prefer just two.
	Do you guys want to have kids?
	No?
	No.
	Why?
	Maybe I'll change my mind when I'm older or something, but as of now, no.
	And I never don't wait.
	You never know.
	I'm for sure.
	It depends on my financial position.
	I would want to be like relatively wealthy to be able to give them the best schools, the best food.
	I want to give them the best of everything.
	But if you're in a good position, you want to have kids.
	Yes.
	You said you did.
	Yeah.
	We, of course, know Candy longs for children.
	I will pray tonight that God gives you the kids that you want, whether they're your own or from someone else.
	What about you?
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	I'm sure it's a yes.
	Yeah.
	Let me try to, I'm going to try to get through these notes as quick as I can here.
	So just finishing off with, let's see, Katarina.
	Okay, we did the whole restraining order thing.
	Modern dating with apps is definitely not for everyone.
	I've seen successful stories, but I personally hate it.
	It's based on looks.
	You don't know if the vibe is really there.
	And then you risk showing up to the date being a waste of time or them just looking for friends with benefit situation, Katarina, over here.
	You prefer meeting people in person.
	My boyfriend and I met four years ago, the party his friend invited me to.
	Oh, there's not much there.
	Okay.
	There's not.
	Let's see.
	We also have Kaylee.
	Oh, wait.
	Oh.
	The story of how you and your boyfriend met.
	Okay.
	You want it?
	Oh, is it good?
	We want it.
	Is it good?
	Okay.
	Give us the short version if you can.
	Okay, so we met through a mutual friend.
	I was in Arizona.
	I lived in LA at the time.
	And I was visiting her and we went to like a concert or whatever.
	She introduced us and then we all went out to the bar.
	He was really shy.
	I had to like make the first move.
	We, you know, I didn't know his name.
	It wasn't anything serious.
	We barely talked, hooked up, but we ended up hooking up on this dude's balcony in front of everyone at the afternoon.
	What?
	Yeah.
	How did you not know?
	No, we knew.
	Oh, you knew?
	Yeah.
	It would be kind of hard not to do it.
	Was it obvious to the bystanders?
	Yes.
	So we go to this after party.
	Did you go all the way?
	Did you go all the way on the balcony?
	No, so he just ate my ass.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So we go to this after party.
	It's like an intimate after party.
	So there's like 10 people, maybe 15 people.
	And me and him just go straight to the balcony.
	We're just like, let's.
	It was intimate, all right?
	Yeah, let's get out of here.
	So we go on the balcony.
	It just starts happening.
	We're both extremely drunk, obviously.
	And the dude who owns this like penthouse that we're at, like, is coming outside and like handing us shots.
	And he's like in our ear.
	And he's like, you guys are so beautiful.
	Like, yeah, like, and I'm just like focused on him.
	I think I knew then that like this was the one.
	I don't know.
	I think that sounds crazy, but like, I swear.
	And so I was just like focused on him.
	He was just focused on me.
	And we'd like get the shots taken and be like, yeah, man, whatever.
	Like, like, go, like, whatever.
	And he just like kept coming.
	And it was like five times.
	And then eventually we were out there for like two and a half hours.
	Wow.
	In front of people.
	Yes.
	Wow.
	Yes.
	And so then we go back inside and it's been like two and a half hours and we go inside and everyone's gone and it's just this dude who owns the place.
	I go use the restroom and my boyfriend told me like later on that he like came up to him and was like, you got to get her back here and we'll like record it and like I'll pay you guys and stuff like that.
	Did you do it?
	No.
	Wait, question.
	That was the line too far.
	That was the line too far.
	Not hooking up in front of all those people.
	So how long have you been dating your boyfriend again?
	One year you said a year.
	One year.
	You said that you so okay.
	The first night that you met your boyfriend, you hooked up and he ate ass.
	Question, do you really love this guy?
	Oh, yeah.
	You think you guys are going to get married?
	Yes, we are getting married.
	Kids?
	Do you think you guys want kids?
	How many kids do you guys want?
	I just said I want twins, so hopefully two.
	Question for you.
	When your kids, say they're five years old and they ask, mommy and daddy, tell us about the first night you met.
	I just will change the story.
	What are you going to tell him?
	Well, I'm sure he'll change it to, oh, I saw her from across the room and she was beautiful and I had to go up to her and I made the first move and all that.
	But what about the ass eating?
	Do you think you'll mention the ass eating?
	No.
	Not at that age.
	As they get older, we might like put that in there.
	Oh, wow.
	Good talk.
	Okay.
	Let's see.
	Oh, you love Tate?
	No, I'm just kidding.
	Oh, that's okay.
	It's fine if you do, I guess.
	I see.
	Let's see, we have, okay, Candy, we needed to wrap up.
	Oh, Candy, you mentioned hookup culture.
	You wanted to talk about hookup culture, breed culture.
	What is, I've never heard this.
	What is breed culture?
	It's nasty, is what it is.
	What's what do you mean?
	Wow.
	Like to breed.
	Can you define it?
	Yeah, can you?
	Yeah, it's like intentionally to emit inside a woman so she gets pregnant.
	There's a culture.
	Is there, you're saying there's a culture of this?
	Yeah.
	Sounds like just a thing guys do.
	What do you mean there's a culture?
	Are there like online forums where dudes are planning this out?
	Really?
	So they do it without telling the woman?
	I don't know about that.
	And I don't know if it's all like intended like that or if it's like people that don't know each other or if it's mostly like people that are in a couple that put out that kind of content, but it's its own culture.
	And that's just like, that's too far.
	Because I mean, that's basically feeding directly into the abortion mill.
	Women like, let's create a baby just to kill it.
	Wait, what?
	Yeah.
	It's hot or it's like a fetish.
	Well, okay, hold on.
	Let's differentiate here a little bit.
	So these are people that specifically, because like a man could and a woman could conceivably enjoy, not to be like vulgar, this isn't even that, like cream pie.
	Like a guy wants to come inside of a woman without necessarily wanting to breed her.
	So is that what you're talking about?
	Does a guy wanting to come inside a woman, does that constitute?
	Because I would make the argument that the vast majority of men want to avoid getting a one-night stand or even their girlfriend pregnant.
	Certainly there might be like a kink.
	But I don't think you can say that there is a culture.
	And there is a whole, yeah.
	No, but when, like, typically when I'm thinking of a culture, it means that there's a majority movement within a society that is desirous of this thing, where I would argue actually the vast majority of men who are engaging in sex either casually or with a long-term partner don't want to get their girlfriend or hookup pregnant.
	I don't think that we're talking about those though.
	And maybe I'm on ready.
	Okay, well, that's not, I don't think it's a lot of people.
	I've never met a guy who's into what you're describing.
	I think it's a fetish.
	It's probably like a there.
	There probably are some men.
	There's definitely men out there that are like want to.
	I've never met a guy who's into it.
	It's probably pretty rare.
	If I understand, let's see.
	Oh, you said in your pre-show notes to us, if I understood modern technology at all, I would be a top 1% multi-million dollar earning OnlyFans phenomenon.
	I'm not trying to be full of myself.
	This is currently.
	Yeah, I just know what I have and understand marketing enough to say that that with all confidence.
	Yeah.
	It's so that your lack of technological understanding is what you feel is holding you back.
	Yeah.
	And it's pretty bad.
	Like, I didn't want to mention the whole autistic thing, but I am pretty, yeah.
	Pretty far down there.
	And that is making it hard for the understanding of the technology?
	Yeah, I don't understand technology.
	Like, I can't.
	I can't even describe it or explain it.
	Yeah, and you continue to say, though I am cognitively disabled, diagnosed on the spectrum in BPD, you struggle significantly when it comes to, wait, sorry, sorry.
	Wait, my notes are all scuffed here.
	Hold on.
	Were you trying to, when you mentioned that, were you trying to say that that makes it more difficult when it comes to dating?
	I would say that makes it somewhat impossible.
	Impossible?
	Okay.
	That's a lot of baggage.
	Oh, yeah.
	That's a lot of baggage.
	I mean, that's like not just a suitcase, that's a carry-on, that's a shoulder bag, that's a makeup bag, that's all kinds of stuff in there.
	I will say, when it comes to comparing men and women who have cognitive disabilities, autism, Asperger's, I would actually argue that men who are neurodivergent are going to struggle significantly more when it comes to getting women dating than the reverse.
	Expand upon that, Brian.
	Please explain for the audience why that might be.
	Yeah.
	Well, I mean, it kind of comes down similarly to that video that we pulled up of that woman who was, no offense to her, she wasn't particularly attractive.
	She was overweight.
	She was able to sleep with five guys in a night despite her lack of physical beauty or attraction or any other redeeming quality.
	Okay, that was a bit mean.
	she was able to fuck five guys in the night.
	So similarly, what's the problem for dudes on the spectrum when it comes to dating?
	How do you see that?
	Well, I would say that a woman who is like autistic or deficient in some way with her cognition, that isn't really going to be a barrier when it comes to having sex.
	And we have, like, for example, you say you're a sex addict.
	You haven't struggled when it comes to getting sex despite your admitted cognitive disability, being on the spectrum, having borderline personality disorder.
	You might want to go that way.
	It might be a little easier for you.
	Rip.
	And so.
	You assume that you think it would be harder for a man in the same position?
	I would.
	Just because he's a man.
	Well, knowing dudes on the spectrum, The thing about dating, the thing about women is that I think the men that are most successful with women typically understand female emotions the best.
	Oh, okay.
	So social cues.
	Social cues, if you want a healthy relationship with a woman, as a man, you're going to have to be able to understand her emotions and stuff.
	Whereas the other way around, if the woman didn't understand social cues, the man maybe wouldn't care as much.
	Yeah, it's like less of a big deal, I think, to guys.
	Neurodivergent people should just stick with each other because they understand each other very well.
	It's honestly probably good advice.
	Is it though?
	you don't think so i don't i feel like it almost like double the but what if they're autistic in the same exact way how What are the possibilities of that though?
	What is the probability of?
	Do they matter?
	No, no, we have like three autistic people in the room right now.
	I wouldn't say that.
	It's a fancy weakness.
	I'd say it can be a strength.
	I wouldn't say it's a weakness.
	I'd say it's a strength because you see the world in a drastically different way.
	Autistic people, from what I understand.
	It's not something that should be looked down on.
	It should be.
	I agree.
	I think autism can actually be like a superpower, cognitively speaking.
	Like I've read that autistic people have like vast, like where they lack emotionally sometimes, they have like vastly stronger systematizing and like logical thinking.
	Israel right now has like an entire platoon of like autistic digital bro straight up.
	They straight up have like an entire platoon of like autistic soldiers like doing, yeah, doing like ground monitoring and stuff.
	This is real.
	I saw an article about this last week.
	They have an entire unit of autistic soldiers doing ground monitoring.
	What's the Moscot?
	What?
	What's Hamas?
	What's Palestine?
	Probably like IQ70 people.
	Oh, Jesus.
	Okay, Samuel.
	I think the average IQ of Palestinians is like 67 or something like that.
	I saw that online like a week ago.
	I don't know.
	Hopefully I don't get killed for sure.
	Somebody get canceled for that.
	If there's probably many very smart people in Palestine, please, I'm like not being racist towards you.
	It's just what I read.
	But anyways, maybe we should stay away from the current Middle Eastern conflict.
	But yeah, like bringing people like that together, probably, I would imagine they would probably get along much better.
	Just like have two parts of society.
	But you want to create a segregated situation.
	They should have two parts of society because I just don't think they're ever going to get along.
	Because neurodivergent people, they kind of like make people like neurotypical people feel uncomfortable in like this very deep down, like uncanny valley way.
	I'm not waiting on this entire show.
	No, I'm kidding.
	I don't experience that personally with autistic people.
	You could actually perhaps make the argument that a neurodivergent person could match up really well with a neurotypical person because that neurotypical person might be more suited to, for example, like someone who's kind of awkward and shy could best pair off with someone who's maybe more extroverted.
	Fuck, I'm doing a terrible job articulating this, but I think there's merit to it.
	That person that's neurotypical might be, or might be more capable of carrying the relationship.
	Whereas if there's two people that are lacking in the ability to build a relationship department, I don't maybe this is bro science on the navigating society.
	So yeah, I know like one of the partners could better carry the relationship, but if they're both like just like take them under their wing and guide them or they would have a good time to each other.
	Also just last point on this.
	I would also say a woman in a wheelchair could get way more fucking dick than the reverse.
	Like a dude in a wheelchair, bro, he's struggling to get some buttons.
	So I feel like this just nothing possible.
	It's true.
	It's true.
	Chicks and wheelchairs get mad dick, bro.
	It really was coming down to his chicks always.
	They get tight ears.
	What are you talking about?
	How many chicks in wheelchairs do you know that are getting piped down all the time?
	Well, because I feel like a lot of women are going to be less attracted to a guy who's in a wheelchair because part of an attraction trick.
	Nobody's questioning that.
	Well, you just made the claim that chicks in wheelchairs are getting a lot of action.
	No, capacity.
	Capacity.
	They have the capacity wise.
	They have the capacity, more capacity than their male counterparts.
	Bro, you should recruit an entire panel of wheelchair men and women and just ask them about their sex.
	DMs.
	My DMs are open.
	I need, maybe first, just to ease into it, we'll do amputees.
	And then, once we get the amputee show out of the way, we'll do the...
	Dude, you should try and load an entire panel of quadruple amputees that have to be placed.
	Jesus Christ because they don't have any arms or legs.
	And then you should ask them about their sex lives.
	Oh, man, that would be amazing.
	That would be a crazy episode.
	Well, also, think about it, right?
	Like if a guy is paralyzed below, like from the waist down, he can't, I don't think he can sexually perform, but like a woman who can still fuck.
	I know somebody who, a man who is paralyzed from, like, he has very minute sorry.
	I know of multiple men that are paralyzed from the waist down that absolutely still get booty.
	Yeah.
	But can my mistakes?
	Yes, they can get sexually aroused.
	You can still.
	I didn't know.
	I'm not sure about this.
	I didn't know that.
	I thought once you're not.
	They're not like their body's not chopped off in that sense.
	They're just true.
	There are definitely dudes in wheelchairs that are absolutely getting it.
	Yeah, but they still feel like sensation.
	No, there's a different.
	There are men in wheelchairs who still have certain function, but I'm talking about men who are paralyzed.
	Do they still have sexuality?
	The specific person that I'm referencing has minimal control over their fingers, and that's it.
	Everything like shoulders down is still working.
	Wow.
	Hold on.
	Because it's vascular.
	I know it works.
	That's insane.
	Because I think he has the same thing.
	Can you feel it?
	I'm presuming so.
	Go ahead.
	Because it's blood flow.
	It's vascular.
	But it's also sensation.
	Can he feel his legs and stuff?
	I actually don't know that one.
	Wait.
	I'm just paralyzed.
	Reminds me of that sound.
	He might not necessarily feel it.
	He stabs himself in the leg.
	Butler donated $99.
	The girl in pink has space tapped.
	Clearly, she's contemplating how much her Valtrex prescription is going to cost.
	I'll help you out.
	It's $70 a month, but over time, it's going to destroy your kidneys.
	Over 65, they won't even prescribe it to you.
	Oh, damn.
	Damn.
	I got to go get to work.
	Okay, I don't know how we got there.
	Okay, let me get through my switching in the bathroom.
	Oh, I had a couple questions here.
	Actually, you know what?
	We should maybe switch to the after-show.
	So, can we hit the lights over here?
	I love this.
	Can we hit the lights?
	We'll do a brief after-show, and then we'll wrap it up.
	Wrap it up.
	Wrap it up.
	Wrap it up, box.
	One sec, guys.
	I need to change.
	Change this.
	I don't think I've seen anything important.
	Okay, I've been staring at this thing.
	What is this?
	It's a red or blue pill.
	Red pill, blue pill.
	What is it?
	Have you seen the movie The Matrix?
	Are we going to swallow them?
	Oh my gosh.
	Preferably not.
	Yeah.
	You might.
	It's a prop for the table.
	Yeah, plastic's probably not healthy for you to digest, but do you want to swallow them?
	Yeah, you do?
	Yeah, just depends what he gets.
	You want to chew them?
	Yeah.
	You should go get some jelly beans.
	I don't know.
	I'm feeling hungry.
	Oh, you can't.
	Oh, they're bills.
	Oh.
	Okay, you choose that one, right?
	Are those like marbles for the baby click pills?
	Just some for the back.
	This is so crazy.
	Nobody's face a camera.
	So neurodivergent right now.
	Like talking to children.
	Take the pill over there so people can over there.
	Over there.
	Over there.
	Yep.
	There you go.
	I'm proud to be there.
	You mean over here?
	Nope, right there.
	Just closer.
	Yep, right.
	Yep.
	Where I was pointing the entire time.
	Okay.
	Okay, hold on.
	I'm just changing things here on our end so we can switch to the after.
	Oh, dude, this is all that's all fucked up.
	I turned it on and it was yellow.
	Somebody pressed the wrong one and said, it's all good.
	While I'm getting the after-show things fixed, does anyone have anything dating related they'd like to get off their chest?
	I'm still single.
	But no, I'm just kidding.
	Nothing, nothing.
	Do your best to find a life partner and get married in your 20s.
	Bad.
	Yeah, men, become the greatest men that you possibly can.
	Must be okay with her.
	Work on your value.
	Work on your careers.
	Don't run through women.
	Women, do your best to save yourself for the man out there that God made for you.
	Men, do the same.
	Save yourself for the man that God made you.
	Don't watch porn.
	Do you believe in twin flames?
	That's a joke.
	Nobody caught that name.
	Do you believe in twin flames?
	Can you define that?
	It's like where your soul is split into two bodies.
	No, I don't think so.
	Plato's not.
	I feel like physicality is not spiritual.
	He's like Christian.
	Yes.
	Yeah, he's a Christian.
	Do you believe there's multiple soulmates in like one?
	I think the concept of a soulmate, honestly, is a modern psyop.
	I think the idea that there's like some perfect person out there for you and like if you could find them, then everything's going to be perfect and your relationship will never take any work.
	I think that's like a total psychopath.
	Kind of like the whole like self-love culture.
	And I feel like that kind of ruins relationships because of that because people get in relationships and if there's one thing wrong, instead of working like to better it, they just like, like you said, they're just like, oh, not my soulmate.
	Yeah.
	Absolutely.
	And I think there's this like chronic thing with, I mean, you see it in divorce rates of people just falling out of love with people.
	And that's why I don't support no-fault divorce whatsoever.
	But I think this concept of falling out of love with somebody is majority of the times complete bullshit.
	I feel like people actually feel like it's not.
	Yeah, people fall out of feelings.
	There's different types of love, right?
	Like the Greeks identified, like there's eros love, which is like the desire and attraction you feel towards someone.
	Then there's also like agape love, which is Christ-like love, where it's like, I'm going to love you no matter what, for your good and your bad.
	To your point, I think a lot of people, like when they like get over a relationship, they're like, okay, I'm done with this now.
	Time for a divorce.
	I think my personal philosophy with the whole twin, what'd you call it, twin flame?
	Twin flame and soulmate thing.
	I think that there's probably a number of women out there who I could marry and have awesome marriages with.
	But the reality is that any marriage is going to take work.
	Two people also.
	So like they also have to have that other person who's willing to do the same amount of work.
	Exactly.
	And love is a feeling, but it's also a choice.
	There's going to be a lot of moments in time throughout marriage or relationships where you're not going to like the other person, but you still need to love them.
	Yeah.
	My mom told me that.
	I don't like you, but I love you.
	And there's.
	So, so sad.
	I think there's different types of love too, like you were saying.
	And you just have to choose what type of love is the love you want and what you're willing to work for.
	Yeah, and to actually build on that, I think you can experience.
	I don't think you have to choose one particular type of love.
	Like the most ideal marriage, I would argue, is one rooted in eros love.
	Like the relationship starts from desire and attraction.
	And like, I really want you.
	Yeah.
	But when you build that like Christ-like agape love into it, that's like when you have the desire, but also Christ, that's a recipe for like a perfect marriage long term.
	Not an easy marriage, but a successful one, you know?
	Oh, just wanted to announce, since we've now shifted into the after show, the TTS trigger has been reduced.
	The read trigger has been reduced.
	So it's 20 and up to read slash answer.
	TTS is now $69 and up.
	So thank you, guys.
	Okay, so let me do...
	Is it still on YouTube?
	Yeah, we're still live.
	We're still on YouTube.
	What's the official difference besides the lighting between?
	I just change, I change the lighting and I reduce the threshold for like super chats.
	So if anybody who maybe can't afford the higher rate or they want to change it, you make the poors wait till the end.
	I make them, yes.
	Yes.
	I'm a philanthropist.
	I'm broken, as somebody referenced them earlier.
	Here, let me do some of these chats that we got earlier.
	Let's run through the ladies.
	If modern day medical technologies like contraceptives and abortion were never invented, would you each re-evaluate your standards for dating on a scale of one to ten?
	How promiscuous are you for your age?
	Don't cap.
	We can only do one question per chat.
	So would you each on a scale of one to ten, how promiscuous are you for your age?
	Here, we'll do that one.
	We'll go right.
	I mean.
	What does that mean?
	I mean when I was single, I would say 10, but in a relationship, obviously, I'm not sure.
	Wait, you were a 10 on the promiscuity scale when you were single?
	I think so.
	Okay, we need detail.
	We need some details on that.
	That's like, what, seven dudes a day?
	No, okay, maybe I was over-exaggerating.
	I forgot that there's like a lot of things.
	Well, so what was it?
	How many dudes per month?
	It wasn't that many, but I was.
	So I was single for about eight months because, like I said, I was in the nine-year one.
	And so this eight months was basically my eight months of my life because I'm definitely getting married.
	So, I mean, it was probably like one every two weeks, maybe, or something like that.
	It wasn't really that many.
	Love that.
	Just kidding.
	That was well timed.
	Okay.
	So where would that be on the scale?
	That'd be like a seven, eight?
	I mean, if seven dudes per night is a 10.
	Yeah.
	You could do more than seven.
	So shit, I don't know.
	Maybe there's just like anything over a certain threshold.
	That's a 10, even if it's...
	What's the threshold then?
	Well, definitely.
	I mean, okay, here, we'll work backwards.
	So I think we would both agree one new guy a day, that's a 10.
	That's immediately a 10.
	Like one new guy a week is also a 10.
	Yeah.
	One new guy a month.
	I would bump down to like an eight or a nine.
	Probably a nine.
	One new guy a month.
	I feel like I didn't really like count though.
	It's like kind of just like when you go out and you just like, if you meet a guy that's like attractive and you hit it off, then like I would sleep with him.
	Yeah.
	But I'm not like going out.
	Like I go out to have fun with my girlfriends mainly.
	But if I see a hot guy and we hit off, I'm going to sleep with him.
	So it's not really like I'm searching for if it comes in my mind.
	Not consciously.
	Just to get through this quickly and just so we can try to wrap up.
	Scale of one to ten, how promiscuous are you for your age?
	Just if you can even quantify it.
	Seven?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I don't know what we're going to know the question really.
	I'm calling cap on seven.
	Quick answers, though.
	Quick answers.
	There's way too much crosstalk.
	Zero, I guess.
	Zero.
	Yeah.
	By the scale that you guys have already come to.
	I need quick answers.
	Four.
	I don't even know what it means.
	That's fine.
	That's fine.
	I just put that in.
	For your age, right?
	Please, into the mic, please.
	For your age, so you're supposed to be like more sexual to think about.
	Joe Murphy, this is like the most ridiculous question ever.
	Scale of one to ten.
	How promiscuous?
	That's a different one.
	Classify yourself as promiscuous or not.
	Can you be promiscuous with a boyfriend?
	No.
	Oh, then.
	Well, unless you're sleeping with other men.
	No.
	Okay.
	Like a two?
	Okay.
	Lack of two.
	Zero, or if it's only from one to ten, one.
	So like how much of a sleep?
	Okay.
	Basically.
	We have all neuros.
	Wait, what's 15?
	What the hell?
	15,000 yen is probably like five bucks.
	15,000 yen to USD.
	I feel like I'm getting scammed here.
	Oh, no, that's good.
	How much is that?
	It's $100.
	That's valid.
	Because sometimes they'd be like from Argentina and it comes in red and it's like $2.
	No offense.
	Sorry, what's going on in Argentina?
	Okay.
	It's been a while.
	Brian, I heard that the United States are going to make one man enter the military the same as men.
	How does it feel?
	How does it feel to be the same as men?
	Oh, probably most woman will not make it five minutes in the battlefield.
	Well, Ko Nichiwa, first of all, thank you, man, for the 15,000 yen.
	Ladies, how do you guys feel about the possibility of getting drafted into the military?
	It's not going to happen.
	It's not happening.
	I mean, I pass my physical to go into the army, so I feel like I got it.
	Be like a game of cards.
	I'm excited.
	Are you talking about the physical?
	The physical was the like you go and you go to MEPS, you take a physical and you take the ASVAP.
	Oh, wait.
	I thought you were talking the physical was the men of platoon that you had to do.
	I mean, that was a part of it.
	Oh, I mean, that's great.
	Yeah.
	Ha ha ha.
	I thought that was what qualified you for the front line.
	Okay.
	I mean, that probably does.
	Lil Wretched.
	A key that can open any lock is a master key.
	A lock that any key can open is a broken lock.
	I think it typically goes, a key...
	Wait, hold on.
	You've already confused me, Wretched.
	Do you know how it goes?
	It's basically the same as you put it, but just reversed.
	Richard said a lot.
	I think, yeah, a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock, but a key that can open any lock is a master key.
	So thank you, Lil Wretched.
	Appreciate it.
	We have RV.
	Thank Mercy Buku for the Canadian 50.
	The reason women prefer lies more than men is because the hierarchy of valuable men, financial stability, is based on merit, while that of women, beauty, requires lies and manipulation.
	Women are subconsciously wired to value lies and manipulation.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	Interesting.
	It's basically the same comment as somebody else made earlier in the podcast.
	All right.
	Thank you, RV.
	We have whatever.
	We have Rippy.
	The idea of soulmates is inherently unbiblical.
	Also, I married the wrong person isn't biblical grounds for divorce.
	How many marriages may have ended because someone came across a random who they thought was their soulmate?
	Yep.
	Ah, interesting.
	I know of at least one marriage that ended because of that.
	I know quite a few.
	But are they happy with this new person?
	They're not with the new person.
	Oh.
	They just, they like wanted to pursue it.
	Then the marriage.
	I feel like social media has a huge part in that too because you're always looking at people's posts being like, oh, I can do better.
	I should be looking for that.
	You're always presenting.
	You should be looking if you're married to an unobtainable ideal.
	If you're married?
	We have Alex P here just popping in to just popping in to tell Brian to stop using those crappy pens and be classy.
	You have a pen made out of a battleship, my dude.
	So, okay, Alex P here, he sent us a bunch of pens.
	I will let you know that we are still using your pens for all the talent releases that we have everyone signed before the show.
	But I am a man of habit.
	And so let me see if I can.
	Hold up.
	I'll come to that one later.
	We have Alex P. Penn guy here, also a SOF vet.
	She passed the same physical therapy.
	Doctor gives you to play volleyball, bro, not a fitness test, SMH.
	Is this directed at you?
	I'm confused.
	I have no idea.
	Not a fitness.
	Okay.
	It didn't make any sense.
	Thank you, Penn, man.
	Thank you.
	Thank you, Alex.
	Appreciate it, man.
	All right, we had.
	We had, oh, we have quite a few of the chats coming in here.
	So we have Jay Lyon.
	Breeding is a new Christian culture where abortion is illegal.
	They can't get a girl to marry them, so they will try and breed a girl without her knowing.
	Knowing she has to have, sorry, knowing she has to have his kid and will have to marry him because no other guy will want her with a child.
	It's a Christian culture.
	I don't think it's a Christian culture.
	I think that's fucked.
	I don't care what your background is.
	I think if you're intentionally doing that, that's pretty fucked up.
	That's way sick.
	So, yeah, that's not a good look.
	Okay, JC Brown.
	Back to the red flag for a single guy that is 45, never married and single.
	I'm a person with high morals in the Christian faith and never found a woman worthy to marry.
	How is that a red flag?
	well didn't you ask the girls i mean i think that's directed at well actually i don't remember what everyone's oh probably directed at you But it's probably directed at me.
	And I didn't say it was a red flag.
	I said it was a yellow flag.
	I don't think that it's always the case.
	I think there are some virtuous people that just haven't had the right luck in dating and in their love life.
	But on average, the guys that you would most likely be presented with, it would be a yellow flag.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	We have, and I'll wait for one of these because they are addressed to Chase and he's not here right now.
	We have El Mars 1983.
	Alabama girl, love your accent as a non-Anglo speaker and attitude.
	You could definitely become a comedian if you wanted.
	Let Priya guide you marry me.
	I found tonight's show very chill.
	Greetings to y'all from Ecuador.
	Would you, actually, you know, El Mars, Marsh 1983?
	We were in Peru, which is also another southern Latin American country.
	This motherfucker saved me from a gorilla.
	They don't have gorillas.
	Do they have gorillas in South America?
	Are there gorillas?
	I feel like not really.
	Saved you from the cartel.
	Yes.
	There we go.
	Saved me from the cartel.
	That's awesome.
	He's a really nice man.
	You should.
	Wow.
	So I'm basically going to marry him.
	Pretty much.
	Pretty much.
	I feel good.
	I'm married.
	Let me see here my notes.
	I think we got through most of them.
	We hit everything from candy, I think.
	Okay.
	We had.
	I mean, I don't think we've really perfectly defined the ho-face thing, but I'd like to go around the table.
	Who here, by show of hands, has had a ho-face?
	I mean, it really, well, you define that as, but.
	What do I?
	Whatever that might mean to you.
	Whatever it might mean to you.
	Like, okay.
	Huh?
	That was funny.
	Okay, these.
	What?
	Ho-face.
	I mean, if it's like sleepy with men, my single short brief.
	Short, short, brief, ho-faz.
	Short and sweet.
	Any hope?
	No, there might have been a ho-faze.
	You seem like you don't want to answer the question, like you're avoiding.
	Me.
	Okay.
	All right, we have Nickelodeon here.
	To Miss Alabama, how many of your exes or your family members have you ever run into Trump while getting your tan applied?
	P.S. I'm starving to worry.
	Brian has a knife kink.
	This is real for it all.
	Huh?
	I said, this is real, first of all.
	What's real?
	Only like one cousin tried to be with me.
	Only one cousin.
	Yeah, not multiple.
	That makes it.
	That's.
	I don't mean it's Alabama.
	Oh, my goodness.
	Just an Alabama family reunion without at least one fucking is a dole affair.
	Yeah, prom.
	Prom.
	What's her own?
	What are you talking about?
	What's she talking about?
	I know exactly what I'm talking about.
	I don't know.
	I don't know what you're talking about.
	Is it prom?
	Oh, I wanted to ask you.
	While I was gone, you said you were arrested.
	Yes.
	I missed it.
	What happened there?
	You were arrested.
	Yes.
	What happened?
	So I was 17.
	I was shoplifting with some friends and got caught and we were in the car already and they brought us inside and I got arrested.
	Wow.
	Because you were hotboxing?
	Shoplifting.
	Oh, shopblocking.
	That would also happen in Georgia.
	You could get in trouble for hotbox in Georgia.
	Oh, okay.
	I ate like an eighth of weed one time.
	I thought I was getting pulled up.
	Yeah, you'll get in trouble for weed for sure.
	Well, I try to show it in my vagina.
	My jail story is crazy just because of the people who were in jail with me.
	Like, it was, I went to the Atlanta jail.
	The Atlanta jail?
	Hardy B Wizard.
	So it was quite the experience for a 17-year-old girl.
	Wow.
	Good times.
	Oh, Nick, we should pull up the Twitch because we haven't pulled up the Twitch today.
	Was there a video too that we were supposed to pull up that we never got to?
	I don't know what they said, but I'll check.
	Okay.
	All right, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.
	Drop us a follow in the Prime sub if you have one.
	And sorry if I missed some of you.
	It won't scroll down all the way, but Gordon Freeman, thank you for the gifted sub.
	Shadow, thank you for the tier one.
	Sween, thank you for the prime.
	Riddick, thank you for the prime.
	Fuzzy, thank you for the tier one.
	Raven, thank you for the prime.
	Rot dog, thank you for the tier one.
	Much appreciated.
	Thank you.
	Thank you guys.
	Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.
	If you got a prime, Amazon, you got Amazon.
	You can link it to your Twitch, and it's a quick, free, easy way every single month to support the show.
	So drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.
	We have Austin Smith here.
	Off-topic question, but Chase, me and my friend were having a religious discussion, and he brought up the book of Deuteronomy talking about essaying women and deleting.
	We can't talk about this.
	And I never heard of the text until today, just wondering thoughts.
	Yeah, to make it quick, book of Deuteronomy, that was part of Mosaic law.
	Those were strict laws that God gave the Israelites in order to govern their society because they had a pretty lawless society without them.
	Is that the Old Testament?
	Yeah, it's Old Testament.
	Okay.
	Yeah, there's a lot of like super gnarly stuff in the Old Testament law that's like pretty difficult to stomach.
	But yeah, man, I mean, that's Old Testament.
	You know, people living back in the day were just complete degenerates unless they had laws.
	And God gave them to them.
	We have something here from LPE.
	Chase, I would wash your clothes immediately after the show.
	There was a nasty sharding incident on that seat.
	Hashtag burritos.
	madison here last show she uh madison did you did you poop yourself Yeah, she's kidding.
	She's kidding.
	She's nice.
	Brian Garden blamed it on me.
	No, it checks out.
	It checks out.
	Very chivalrous.
	I'm a gentleman.
	What can I say?
	What can I say?
	We have Simpy Simp, shout out to Kaylee.
	Been following you forever on IG and would simp for you any day.
	You're a goddess.
	Also, were your parents arrested for anything?
	Curious, who stole the stars and put them in your eyes?
	That was a pickup line.
	I hope so.
	Here, do you want to say something?
	Thank you.
	It's very sweet.
	Do you want to like wait?
	All right.
	We have Tickleflight.
	Brixon, you should reach out to Sean Coughlin of Freedom Tunes.
	He'd be a great guest.
	Actually, I think I did invite him.
	I need to follow up with him to have him on.
	But also, Maddie, hope things are good with your dad.
	Last I heard you weren't on speaking terms after that podcast with him.
	Maddie, do you care to weigh in here?
	We are now speaking once again.
	Thank you for your concern.
	I appreciate it.
	They're, you know, it's all good.
	Nitro.
	What happened?
	Nitro.
	I can't really explain.
	It's complicated.
	It's a long story.
	It's a complicated and long story, complicated and long story.
	Let's see.
	We had.
	Did you want to do the bow?
	The which one?
	The bowel video.
	The bow video.
	That's the only video.
	Well, I think we were, I wrote a note here down to ask everybody's type.
	So.
	So because I think oh, you were saying something about how you're picky.
	You're very picky, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, you said, oh, you said, no kidding.
	You said you like fit guys.
	So what's like a fit guy?
	Like a muscular guy or just thin or what are we talking about?
	I like lanky guys, but if a like, I don't really like gym guys.
	If a guy has a job where he's like lifting heavy things, like a naturally muscular body is beautiful.
	Like toned.
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	Do you like him toned or you like him big?
	Like if he was a farm boy.
	Farm boy.
	Okay.
	I mean, not necessarily a boy, but he's a farm boy.
	You know, all of that stuff.
	So it was like big forearms, big shoulders.
	You're into that?
	Not like weightlifting big.
	Right.
	You know, unnatural big is not.
	Go ahead.
	Natural.
	My time?
	Yeah, we'll go around the table on that.
	Your time.
	Looks, personality.
	Personality, gentlemen, very sweet.
	I like traditional men.
	Look-wise, I'm very into like, I guess what you would say, a classic, like white male.
	Blonde, like, yeah, that kind of.
	Cool.
	Yeah.
	Sweet.
	I like pretty guys with abs.
	Okay.
	And pretty girls.
	Ideally, like lean physique.
	Listens to my chemical romance.
	Huh?
	What?
	What?
	Huh?
	What?
	On the skinny side.
	You looked upset by that one.
	Okay, I said listens to my chemical romance.
	No.
	Not really into like emo boys.
	No.
	No.
	But yeah, like white, or there could be, like, ideally white.
	You know what I mean?
	Yeah.
	Blonde hair, blue eyes.
	Yeah.
	But, you know, that's, like, so hard.
	Yeah.
	We have the same type, it sounds like.
	Wait, but there, I will, like, allow for some slight, like, some variation.
	You'll allow.
	You'll allow.
	She allows.
	Personality suffices, you know.
	Personality is sufficient.
	How much variation will you allow?
	I don't know.
	I'm not.
	I don't really.
	Are you white, BTW?
	Are you lower?
	Half-race.
	Half-white.
	Half-breed.
	You're half-breed.
	I haven't heard that in a minute.
	She's a half-breed.
	Half dog.
	Half-porpoise.
	Me too.
	Or mongols.
	Yeah, half Mexican, half white.
	Oh.
	You probably can't tell, though.
	It's like more Spanish.
	Oh, I could tell.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	I feel like you could be a mad scientist.
	Has anybody ever told you that?
	I think it's just the white button-up, bro.
	It's the white button-up in her hair.
	Like, you're close to the Einstein hair.
	Oh, sister.
	I feel like I'm being mean.
	Your autism is showing, right?
	Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
	You're awesome.
	you got nice hair just you look smart do i have like the crazy eyes like the homicidal you know Into the mic.
	Into the mic.
	Do I have the crazy eyes?
	Just stare at me for like 10 seconds.
	No, not to me.
	Some chicks have like proper crazy eyes and like the sampaku, the sanpaku eyes with the white oh where the white's on the bottom where sometimes women, some people just can you tell wait make your eyes big?
	No, you don't.
	I mean when you look up you do.
	No, no, no, no.
	Just look straight.
	Look straight.
	Pair, look into this camera.
	Anybody has sanpaku eyes when you like open your eyes wide.
	You have like doe eyes.
	Like just yeah, have you ever slashed a dude's tires?
	Huh?
	Have you ever slashed a dude's tires?
	No, but I did very good someone's windshield.
	I threw a rock at it.
	Yeah, I get that from you.
	Why?
	I don't know.
	I just you don't know.
	I was just mad.
	It was an ex though, right?
	Not just a ramp.
	It's because he was looking like another girl.
	But they never found out it was me.
	No, they don't know.
	Now they do.
	Well, now they do.
	Wait, when was this?
	That was like four years ago.
	Okay, Statues of Limitations were good.
	Oh my god, we have JC of Brown here.
	Oh my God, with the $200.
	Wow.
	Yes.
	Talk there to be a bad thing.
	No, thank you, JC.
	Based on the panels over the last several podcasts, the chance of dying alone are 100%.
	Oh, come on.
	That's not nice.
	100%.
	Maybe another man's trash is another man's treasure.
	Yeah.
	That was a pretty solid client.
	Why did you gesture at her?
	I just heard the camera.
	No, you like.
	Why would you do that to Jeannie?
	That's super rude.
	It was unintentional.
	You were like One man's trash.
	You're like this.
	You're like this.
	Okay.
	Leave what you want.
	Good talk.
	What were we going around on?
	What the fuck was the question?
	Type, type.
	Oh, type.
	Did you finish telling your type?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You did.
	Raven DT donated $69.
	Thank you, Raven.
	Thank you, man.
	La Morenity and the Loss of Hughes Locos.
	The brunette has the crazy eyes.
	She is putting out overly attached girlfriend vibes.
	Okay.
	Thank you.
	No?
	No, I think he was talking.
	I think he was talking about her because he used Spanish.
	La Morena Tierra.
	Wait, can you speak a little Spanish for us?
	No, no quiero.
	Oh, okay.
	Jeannie.
	Adios Mio.
	What about the Canadian?
	No, I'm actually having a chance.
	Do any of you speak French?
	I meant to say French.
	Bonjour.
	What's that scene?
	Bonjour.
	What's that scene from?
	That's about all.
	We must see you.
	What's that scene from Inglorious Bastards where it's like Bradford and the two?
	Yeah, we're trying to be Italian.
	It's Gourlami.
	And he's like, say it again, Gourlami.
	And then the last guy's like, Dominic DiCoco, and he was the guy who spoke the least.
	Dominic de Coco.
	He spoke the least Italian.
	It was a brilliant scene.
	I went to that.
	That's a great version.
	And then instead of asking where the toilet is, I asked if there's a llama in the toilet.
	So then that's where I called it quits.
	What?
	Yeah, exactly.
	Good shit.
	Your type?
	Oh, I think we already talked about it for the most part.
	No, I'm definitely into comedians.
	Comedians?
	Yes, I have got to have comedians.
	In fact, your physical appearance can go out the window if you have me rolling.
	Louis C.K. He does like to par don a moi.
	Huh?
	You don't know?
	This chick says she likes comedians.
	She doesn't know who Louis C.K. is.
	Bro, he's not 28 or 29 years old.
	That's okay.
	I wasn't talking about like on stage comedian.
	I mean, she's like, if you're funny, yeah, if you're a funny guy.
	Oh, because why didn't you just say hella?
	Because I think of funny guys as comedians.
	Oh, when I think of a comedian, I think of a comedian.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, just sense of humor and someone that you can talk to non-stop.
	Looks.
	Never run.
	Let's do like one looks thing, one personality thing.
	I don't know.
	Eyes probably.
	Nice eyes.
	Yeah.
	Like dark.
	No, bright.
	Bright.
	Yeah.
	We have to have like greener blue-eyed babies.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What's your time?
	I was going to say good personality and good style.
	Good style?
	Like dress as well.
	Okay.
	Confident, like, and a family man.
	I like that.
	Okay.
	I like a family.
	What about you over here?
	I like nice eyes and dark hair.
	Light eyes, preferably.
	Did you think I was looking into your soul?
	No, you have blonde hair.
	It has to be brown, sorry.
	I have blonde hair.
	It's too light for me.
	He has browner hair.
	My hair is too light for her.
	Well, on the screen, in real life, it looks a little...
	If it was, like, brown.
	He has, like, darker hair than I did.
	It's brunette.
	Yeah, I know.
	But yes.
	It has to be.
	Like my hair is blonde.
	I'm black.
	My hair is black.
	It's brown.
	Dark, dark, dark.
	His hair is brown.
	No, not dark enough.
	It's not dark enough.
	So you want dark enough.
	Black hair.
	Black.
	I guess, but it's like dark brown.
	His is dark brown.
	One might call it black.
	One call.
	One might call it.
	It is.
	No.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	One physical attribute and then one personality attribute that we're doing.
	Okay.
	Other than the ones that I've, or aside from ones I've already said.
	Yeah.
	Hygiene.
	Good hygiene.
	Gotta have good hygiene.
	It's very important.
	Good hygiene.
	Gotta have good hygiene.
	Don't have good hygiene.
	What you got?
	You don't really have anything if you don't have good hygiene.
	There's no good hygiene.
	You gotta.
	Okay.
	Sorry.
	Sorry.
	You made me lose my train of thought.
	Thank you.
	But you can come back to me.
	I bet none of the people watching this like wash their ass.
	What the fuck?
	I did not expect that.
	It is so rude.
	The ones that tip do.
	Some don't have money.
	They think it's gay.
	Oh, it's gay.
	I'm judging my ass.
	What the fuck?
	I don't know that the most hetero thing.
	To just, bro, I got some baby wipe, son.
	Like, you gotta clean.
	You gotta clean.
	You gotta keep fresh.
	Please clean.
	There you go.
	You want to pull up a Mac Max Super Chat real quick?
	I don't understand that.
	Oh, well, let's go around on type.
	Chase, what's your type?
	Oh, bro.
	I love women from the Nordic countries.
	Big, big fan.
	Big fan.
	Personality-wise.
	Oh, man, I feel like I've run through this like a million times on the show.
	She's got to be a godly Christian woman.
	You know, she's got to love the Lord.
	What's up?
	You want to say something?
	No, You can finish.
	I was just, I drew my thought.
	Got to be a godly Christian woman.
	Got to love the Lord.
	Got to want a big family.
	Got to be feminine.
	Got to be in love with God, in love with the word.
	We obviously have to vibe well, but like that's not really a type thing.
	If there's no vibe.
	There's no vibe.
	What are you doing?
	It's all about it.
	Big, big fan of athletic chicks, all that kind of stuff.
	That's my type.
	I got a question for you, Chase.
	What's up, bro?
	You said you like Nordic women?
	Blonde.
	Blue eyes.
	Got Kaylee here.
	Now, she's got a boyfriend, and she does OnlyFans.
	But if it wasn't for that, would you say that looks-wise, this is the kind of girl that...
	Yeah, she's a very beautiful woman.
	Thank you.
	Okay.
	All right.
	OnlyFans thing, total deal breaker, though.
	Sorry.
	I'm not super religious, so that would probably be a problem.
	Oh, totally.
	I'm like, extremely religious, so.
	I'm not at all.
	That would be a problem, not at all.
	Extremist.
	Yes, you could call me a religious extremist.
	I like listening about it.
	Oh.
	I respect that.
	That would be fun.
	She respects the religion.
	I would like to hear that.
	You must have respect.
	It's essential.
	Gotta have respect.
	You can talk about it all the time.
	Priya, what was your thing?
	I was gonna say someone who's an intellectual sparring partner.
	Oh, it's a good quality.
	That's fun.
	It's a good quality.
	Isn't it?
	Yeah.
	Oh, that's what you like in the guy.
	Correct, yeah.
	Not in a combative way, but somebody that you bounce ideas off of.
	Someone who's stimulating exactly.
	Somebody that is mentally stimulating for you.
	Always have to stimulate.
	Stimulation, very important.
	Intellectually.
	I like to stimulate women all the time.
	Might do it later tonight.
	Just kidding.
	Just kidding.
	I'm a man of.
	I think goofiness is also really important.
	Like being able to be comfortable and silly and like not be serious also.
	Just like best friend thoughts.
	I'm going to break a rule about being able to be retards together.
	Yes.
	Super fun.
	I love that.
	Yeah.
	It's essential.
	Yeah, you got to be able to, you know, goof around.
	Goof around with your girl.
	If you're always too stern, you know, it's never good.
	Never good.
	Okay.
	Can you pull up that super chat?
	I want to.
	Oh, well, let me just do what I want.
	Nick.
	Nick.
	The bowing video.
	What is this?
	I'm going to play this fucking video every fucking show.
	Because this.
	Now, I want to just, I want to clarify one thing because it's obviously a skit and the guy's obviously intentionally hamming it up a bit, being kind of, what the guy is doing, I think is rude.
	But what the girl is doing, prime.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, can you zoom it in?
	Zoom?
	How about that top comment?
	Can you move us over to the other side?
	All right.
	Go ahead.
	You can top comment compared to the second comment.
	Go ahead.
	Goodness.
	Look at the boom.
	Did you see the bow, guys?
	Well, don't worry.
	It's so based.
	This is empire shit, guys.
	She's getting him the drink.
	Look, the dinner's ready.
	He just walked in the door.
	She's getting, I can do that with my noodles.
	You know, the girl doesn't have to do that.
	Right?
	Being attentive.
	Huge.
	Watch, watch.
	Boom.
	Fucking bow.
	I want my girl to bow.
	You know what?
	Can we do a bow check?
	I would like to go around the table.
	Can we do a bow check?
	Are you guys down to like demo a bow?
	Maybe not you.
	Yeah, that might.
	You think the titties will fall out if you do?
	Nervous, yeah.
	I'm nervous about how to pay 100%.
	Here, I think you better check yourself.
	Let's do a bow test.
	Let's do.
	I think you better check yourself.
	Maybe let's see you.
	Misogynistic much?
	How's it misogynistic?
	What do you got the senpai?
	Can we get a bow?
	Wow, that was a good one.
	Can you break up with your boyfriend right now?
	No.
	Okay, so I'm sure.
	Okay.
	That was a good low enough.
	I should have, my head wasn't.
	It should have been deeper.
	It should have been deeper, but I liked the senpai.
	Ooh.
	Wait, did you?
	You got to put it on.
	One more time.
	Okay, you're 90 degrees.
	It needs work.
	That's like serious commitment to the bow.
	That's good.
	How about you?
	We'll see you.
	Can we see a bow?
	I think I'm going to sit right here.
	That's fine.
	You don't have to do the bow.
	I'm just saying maybe when you go, when you see, give your boyfriend a bow.
	He might like it.
	Okay.
	Do you promise me?
	No.
	No, not for me.
	To give your next time.
	I think he would probably be a little freaked out.
	And be like, what did I do?
	Brian, would you be down for your girl to bow to you all the time?
	Would I?
	Would I be down?
	Maybe if you were dating, like.
	Yeah.
	Like, was that video?
	Or is that?
	Is that like.
	You like that?
	It's so base.
	You don't like it?
	I feel like at that point, it's just a slave.
	Yeah, it's weird.
	You don't want a slave?
	Not particularly.
	No.
	There's like a limit, and I think you're called on the dancing on the line.
	Pause the video.
	Dancing on what line?
	The limit.
	What's the limit?
	Like, there's like, there's like doing nice things for each other.
	And then, like you said, there's like slave.
	Bro, it's so base.
	It's dominating, you know.
	You know, you want to.
	Maybe like before like sexual act mod, if that's like your fetish, she can do it for you.
	So what's she talking about over here?
	What are you talking about?
	I don't know.
	So you.
	Are you down?
	You're down for the bow?
	I mean, it could be like hot in a way.
	Why are you guys exchanging rings?
	What is going on here?
	It just happened.
	I feel like it could be hot.
	I don't know.
	To what?
	To just have someone dominate you.
	Is this something that's lacking in your current relationship?
	Oh, God.
	You need him to bow for you.
	No.
	No.
	Like, because usually I'm the one that dominates him.
	How's the relationship going?
	How's that?
	Is it on the rocks?
	Is it what's it's okay?
	It's okay.
	Yeah.
	It's okay.
	It's just okay.
	Is there any trouble in paradise?
	Maybe, maybe.
	We can talk about that later.
	Uh-oh.
	That's a private conversation.
	I hope he doesn't see this.
	Yeah.
	He won't.
	He won't.
	I could see it being, I agree with her, maybe in like a sexual time.
	No, just even outside of the bedroom, you know?
	Have you done VDSM test.org?
	Have you taken that test?
	No.
	You don't know what I'm talking about?
	Where it tells, like, okay, are you submissive, dominant, switch, rope bunny?
	I think definitely switch.
	Yeah.
	Oh, so have you taken the test?
	No, but you just know you're switching.
	Are you not currently fulfilled in that way?
	Honestly, honestly, no.
	But I mean, what can you do?
	What can you do?
	Leave.
	We need to communicate.
	Find a woman.
	Yeah, communicate.
	You need to communicate.
	Oh, yeah, or that.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Good talk.
	All right.
	We have some chats here.
	FYI Chase.
	Duet doesn't condone.
	Wait, did it.
	So FYI Chase, Deuteronomy doesn't condone essaying women.
	I don't even know what that, what does that mean, essaying women?
	S-O-S-S-A.
	S-A.
	Yeah, of course.
	Of course it doesn't.
	The women is seduced, C-Strong, H7901, Second Infants, were deleted if they were a product of sorcery, meaning genetic manipulation, incest, etc.
	Y'all have to interpret better, okay?
	Yeah, to be honest, I don't even know what verses he was referencing.
	CM, as a veteran Marine who lives in Japan for years, Brian, the most submissive and feminine women on the planet are Japanese girls.
	Go to Osaka as far from it.
	You can and find your winner, ask the chat.
	That's very true.
	That's true.
	It's called.
	I heard they go crazy for white boys.
	Sex tourism.
	Well, there's like passport bros and all that stuff.
	But, oh man, like.
	Like, if you can't get late, if a man can't get laid here, he can just go to any other country and he'll find no problem.
	The red lights are not.
	I don't think that's not, like she just said, it's not a matter of getting laid.
	It's just like finding feminine quality women.
	Right.
	And I mean, I've definitely heard, I've definitely heard this, that like Japanese women are bueno, but uh, I think you have to, like, if you actually, like, you have to learn the language, and I'm like an English supremacist, I'm gonna admit it, like, bro, I'm sorry.
	I'm the same, what?
	I'm an English supremacist.
	Like, I got some beautiful people.
	Which is funny because English is a lot of people.
	I don't want to white women speak English.
	It's your first language.
	French.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	I was born in France and then I moved to the U.S. when I was five.
	So I am an American citizen, but yeah.
	Interesting.
	But English is, in my view, the superior language.
	Interesting.
	That's facts.
	That's what you mean.
	There should be, honestly, this is going to be a little controversial.
	I think that there should be, and Chase, I don't know if you disagree with this because it's kind of like globalist, you know, but is it globalist?
	I think there should be a one-world language.
	Totally disagree.
	Tower of Battle Terror.
	That's a bad idea.
	Not at all.
	That's a terrible idea.
	Colonizer.
	Let me defend it.
	That's like New World Order type shit.
	No, but let me defend it.
	Very true.
	Very true.
	Let me just defend it a little bit.
	Let me just say, the economic benefit and the communication exactly the argument that the globalists.
	No, no, no, no.
	Hold on, Chase.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	Just destroy every culture and nation.
	Screw all of the uniqueness of the cultures.
	Think about the money.
	is what they say but think okay from from a if i if i want to learn another language the amount of human capital and resource it takes to teach other languages learn other languages we would all be able to communicate way fucking better I'm not saying that's a better culture.
	Or everybody can learn English and we can keep rolling the way we're doing.
	No, no, I'm saying the one world language is English.
	Then nobody who speaks now.
	People behind their backs.
	Well, it's kind of the case now.
	English is the language of business.
	That's why French people hate Americans.
	What?
	Because of that precise attitude.
	Am I being cringe right now?
	Because of what?
	Precise attitude?
	That, oh, we shouldn't have to learn French if we come to your country.
	But he's French and American.
	No, French hate Americans because they're pompous.
	And any tourist who goes to their country.
	Yes.
	And any tourist who goes to their country, they just think that they're better than everybody else on the planet.
	I was just in Europe.
	Tourists think they're better than the French people.
	What?
	You said the tourists?
	No, no, French.
	This is what I've experienced when I've gone to Paris.
	Like, so many French people, Parisians in particular, look down on all of the Americans there.
	But it's like, guess what, bro?
	Your freaking economy depends on all of our tourism.
	So stop turning your nose up to us.
	Yeah, and that's not like a mentality based on if you're here, you should try and learn the language.
	They look down on people.
	They can obviously sniff out a foreigner very, very easily, especially if your French is not near perfect.
	So it's not, it has nothing to do with that.
	Yeah, even when I've tried speaking French to Parisians when I've been in Paris, they like to say that.
	I feel like that's your personal experience.
	That's not a universal experience.
	A lot of people are.
	As somebody who's French.
	I've had both really good.
	As somebody who's French, who was born in Paris.
	I love France.
	Were you actually?
	I was born in Paris.
	Paris fucking sucks.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	I love Paris.
	Trust me.
	Very dirty.
	It's a beautiful city, but it's also dirty.
	It has its beauty.
	It has some of its beauty.
	Watch out for those gypsies, man.
	Bro, here's the crazy thing.
	No, really.
	Yo, here's the craziest shit.
	When I was a kid, I remember going to the Eiffel Tower.
	This was in the 90s or some shit.
	Going to the Eiffel Tower.
	No security, nothing.
	Just like you could go.
	I went to the Eiffel Tower in 2014, and there were all over the place police and military people with Guns.
	Yeah.
	And there's like there's barriers and barricades and shit.
	That's not the Eiffel Tower.
	That's not the Paris that I remember.
	And not to get, I'm not going to get political, but Paris has changed.
	France has changed.
	It's because of immigration, man.
	They have so many terrorists that have like gone in there.
	Especially around that time period, 2014, there was a lot of terrorism going on.
	Yeah, I remember seeing the same, bro.
	You'd like get off the train on the subway, step off, just super beefy jack dudes with huge rifles looking at everybody up and down.
	Yeah.
	Pretty gnarly.
	But yeah, I remember as a kid, like going to the Eiffel Tower, never, there weren't armed soldiers every fucking, like, so, anyways, that's totally unrelated.
	They're not there anymore, though.
	I mean, like, four years ago, I went and there was a bunch of armed soldiers everywhere.
	Can you straighten your mic up a little bit?
	All right, let me get through these chats.
	Then we got to wrap up here.
	So we have Lil Recha.
	Julie, you can do a bow check for me whenever.
	Okay.
	Right now?
	No.
	No.
	I think he's okay.
	He's simping.
	Rippy, French are mad at everyone because they said that the English and Spanish empires had a lasting large impact in the new world.
	Boohoo, France.
	Based comment.
	Likely true.
	I feel like the French, though, had quite an impact.
	No, they kept like surrendering.
	No, that's fake news.
	That is fake news.
	Fake news.
	National flag should be white.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	I would actually love to dive into the phenomenon of why the French are so salty as a people.
	Like, I want to know why is that?
	Like, it's such a common thing with French people.
	It would be such an interesting thing.
	But have you only met Parisians?
	No.
	Mainly, yes.
	Honestly, Germans are pretty salty, too.
	I actually, I know a lot of German people.
	The Germans that I know are significantly happier people than the French.
	French, yeah.
	I think French are just moody.
	They are.
	It's because all the coffee they drink, all that caffeine makes you angry.
	What'd you say?
	On the espresso.
	Monty Python.
	I've never seen it.
	Maybe for another episode.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Thank you, Rippy.
	Let me get through these last chats.
	One nation under a coom.
	Jesus Christ.
	Question for the panel.
	If a Coomer gathered a bunch of images of you and decided to make an AI model of you, was then used to create a fake AI OnlyFans account of you without your consent, how would you respond?
	Would you want to cut?
	Legal action.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I think he's trying to strike a deal.
	Here, just show of hands.
	Would you, show of hands, would you object to someone making AI and making a fake AI OnlyFans of you?
	We should be doing anything AI.
	There's creeps out there everywhere.
	Oh, did this one.
	Oh, this one already came in.
	My bad.
	My bad.
	That one already came in.
	Thank you, Raven, though.
	We have...
	Whoa, bro.
	This one's heavy, Nickelodeon.
	Bro.
	Yeah, I wouldn't read that.
	It's going to trigger, though.
	So I'm not going to read it, Nickelodeon.
	She's nice.
	What are you talking about?
	Ah, I knew it.
	With a main mute?
	No.
	It's not triggering.
	I don't know why.
	Folky.
	Don't worry about that.
	Who's he referring to?
	Oh, Akman Pussy.
	Chase, my boy.
	Do you want to read this one, Chase?
	Yeah, the argument for a single language for the entire species is that information-sharing compounds leading to much more Rapid innovation, invention, and progress, and all information becomes available to all people, regardless of race, class, birthplace, etc.
	I mean, like, yeah, I get that that's like the utilitarian.
	Yeah, there's a strong utilitarian argument for it, just like there's a strong utilitarian argument for digital IDs and central bank digital currencies and stuff.
	But just because something like just because there's a utilitarian argument for something doesn't mean that you should do it.
	But so I agree with you, like on the what's it called?
	What's the acronym?
	It's like a four-letter acronym for the money thing.
	CBDCs.
	CBDCs.
	Look, with language in particular, like in the context of this conversation that we've been having, you know, we've been talking a lot of smack about the French, but like the French language is beautiful.
	Beautiful.
	It is a beautiful language.
	You don't think so?
	No.
	Okay.
	I think the French language is beautiful.
	I think Italian is beautiful.
	I think Spanish is beautiful.
	I think Spanish is beautiful.
	I personally think it's a good idea.
	I think German's beautiful, to be honest.
	Really?
	I like that.
	I like Russian.
	But the point being, like, just flattening everything out and making everything homogeneous for the sake of utilitarianism.
	Like, you just like, you wipe out culture and like all of the differences between us is what makes the world beautiful and interesting.
	Like, I don't know getting rid of that, you know?
	No, definitely not.
	Like, even if the whole world spoke English and there were no other languages, I think that would still be less interesting.
	Yeah, that's way less interesting.
	Yeah.
	Overruled.
	Wait, you said overruled.
	No, I mean, like, his point of view has been overruled.
	Yeah.
	Disavow.
	The nationalist patriarchy has been asserted.
	Bring on one world language.
	English.
	I'll fight you over this, Brian.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I'm not that.
	I'm not.
	You said when I brought up the Bang video that it was misogynistic.
	What did you mean?
	That needs explanation.
	Yeah.
	To have your woman act like that for you?
	Why doesn't she just be on her knees when you open the door?
	Based.
	Sign you up.
	You really walked into that one.
	Sign me up.
	Shit.
	Sounds like a good time.
	You just sweetened the deal.
	I have just decided to do an entire video of Tradwife for you.
	In your honor, Brian.
	I have not.
	You're going to make an entire video of Tradwife?
	What does that mean?
	What do you mean?
	Like, an entire series of a Trad Wife.
	Wait, I'm confused.
	Trad?
	Just for your, like, for your OnlyFans?
	Just discuss it.
	For your OnlyFans.
	I'm like, you know, I'm on my knees in my little apron when you open the door.
	Here's your dinner, but not before I blow you first.
	yeah is that are you like is that like some ridiculous exaggeration Because like you, that was terrible.
	You did a terrible fucking job.
	That was way too almost sarcastic.
	It was poor.
	It was very poor.
	You need to work on it.
	I give you credit, though, for attempting, but it was a nice attempt.
	I think I'll still do it.
	It's a video?
	It's a good idea.
	Please don't send it to me, though.
	I don't want to watch it, frankly.
	Don't send it.
	I'd rather not watch it.
	It's not, maybe you send it to one of.
	No, I didn't say it was for you.
	I said being in your honor.
	Oh, in my corrected.
	In my honor.
	Okay.
	Watch that be your best performance.
	Why is it?
	Wait, what?
	Okay, so it's misogynistic.
	How do you define misogyny or misogynistic?
	Like treating your woman like a slave.
	It's supposed to be a partnership.
	You know, if you come home.
	What if she wants to do that?
	If she wants to do that, if she lives for that role and you come home and it's not like expected, but it's like she's got everything ready for you, that means so much more.
	If you walk in the door and your woman has dinner on the table ready for you and you weren't expecting that, but if you're like, yeah, you better have that there, you better bow to me when I open the door.
	No, well, here's what makes it more attractive.
	Now, I think as a man in a relationship, you can try to guide your partner to be a better partner for you.
	However, it's way better if they just get it.
	Yeah.
	They just are like that.
	That's how they just are.
	Go to Osaka, bro.
	Bro, it's, it's.
	You'll have to.
	You got your break coming up.
	Nah.
	Japan, dog.
	I'll go eventually.
	I'll go eventually.
	Somebody sponsor a trip to Japan for Brian.
	That makes some funny.
	They'll do it.
	Yeah, it would.
	I should, bro.
	I'm bringing the show.
	I'm going to do, I'm bringing whatever podcast to Japan.
	Dude, can you imagine how interesting that would be the content?
	I wouldn't have anything to argue with the women over.
	They'd all just be super fucking based.
	Oh, you want to serve your husband?
	Okay, cool.
	Doe.
	You know what would be interesting?
	Do you want to bow?
	Doe.
	You know what would be interesting is asking them what they think about American women.
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah.
	I feel like most Japanese women, though, are innies.
	So what would you do about them?
	Are what?
	Innies.
	That's not true.
	As somebody who has researched this topic, that's not true.
	Really?
	Why are you just watching a bunch of Japanese porn?
	What are you up to, girl?
	No.
	Japanese pussy.
	What are you looking up?
	I think in some Asians typically have like a tighter inner, it's because the Asian guys have tiny dicks.
	Stereotypes.
	Canceled.
	Hold on.
	Guys, guys, guys, there's a different.
	I can't believe I have to articulate this.
	A girl with an Audi can still be tight.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	I'm just saying it's known that typically they have a tighter innie vagina.
	I'm not saying that it means that an Audi isn't tight.
	I'm just saying they're also.
	I've heard the opposite actually of both.
	I've seen that they can actually be, like the men can actually be quite big.
	None of them are circumcised, though.
	That's very disturbing to me.
	Is this fake news?
	Is it fake news?
	Okay, I'll do these last chats and then we're going to wrap up.
	Oh, well, why is it misogynistic?
	To expect your woman to be that slave-like?
	Do women expect men to be providers and sole breadwinners?
	I'm not saying don't take care of your man.
	I'm saying the bow is a bit much to expect from your woman in this culture.
	Really?
	I'm working.
	Keep in mind, in order to, I think, get that sort of treatment, you definitely have to be the sole breadwinner.
	You probably have to be a high earner.
	Perhaps there's other metrics where you can also get that sort of treatment.
	Yeah, like it's a kink.
	It's not a...
	Bro, it's not...
	Okay.
	It's not a kinky.
	I know what you're saying.
	It's a lot.
	Thank you.
	It's a fucking lifestyle.
	So, but do you want to be like the breadwinner and you want all that so that your girl does that?
	Or would you not be?
	I think as a guy, if you want that kind of treatment, you better hold up your you can't be some fucking, I mean, there are men who like there are there are men who are bums who are like leeching on their girlfriends that and they still want like that.
	And they can pull it.
	Some men can pull it off.
	But I think if you want that sort of treatment.
	I'm saying it gets both been, there's both.
	But why is it the case that women can say, I want a guy to be the sole breadwinner, to provide everything for the household, to be a high earner, but if I just want a fucking bow, is that so much to a fucking person?
	I think that like we didn't know that like you the both sides were benefiting it seemed like you just wanted a bow because you just wanted a bow, but now you're saying like I'm doing my end, so he does.
	Look at all that.
	And that's a different argument.
	That's a different argument because it's not misogynistic to want a chick to bow.
	Partnership.
	It's so what you're bowing is respectful.
	If a woman wants, expects queen treatment, she needs to treat her man like a king.
	Let's fucking go.
	There you go.
	Okay, so it's interesting you say that because the whole time I've been thinking to myself about that clip and I don't really like it.
	Like I wouldn't really be down.
	That's not your thing.
	No, it's a little too much.
	Chase doesn't like Asian women though.
	That's the problem.
	Because moving on beyond that comment, I actually want a woman who I view as my queen.
	Like a partnership.
	Yeah, a partnership, but like a bow to me feels like undignified on her behalf.
	And like obviously I want a woman who like wants to serve me as my wife and stuff, but like it kind of kills the whole queen vibe.
	You're very into like self-respect too.
	And I feel like when a woman bows, it might look like she has less self-respect for herself.
	Kind of, yeah.
	It's like I view you as my equal.
	Like I expect her to serve me within the marriage and I would also serve her.
	I wouldn't serve it back.
	Yeah, but it's like the whole bow thing.
	I don't know.
	It's like I want a queen vibe.
	The bow thing kind of queen or you could have a slave.
	So how about like as far as like queen blowjobs?
	Wait, what?
	What did you say?
	Like blowjobs.
	Like is that to you, does that make her look lower?
	Like this is a thing.
	Some guys don't like getting their dick sucked because they think it makes the girl like look lower.
	No way.
	Are you saying what guy doesn't like getting heavy with his woman?
	I've had a friend who dated a guy and they didn't do these kind of activities because Heidi said it looked like speaking of he was hiding something bro.
	It's crazy to me though.
	Like a girl would sooner rather get blasted on on the face than bow to a guy.
	Bro, these girls would rather get a facial than just do a totally fucking innocent bow.
	What the fuck?
	That's so true.
	No.
	When you say it like that, actually, I brought this up.
	So true.
	I brought this up in a recent podcast.
	A lot of women would, when it comes, like a lot of women would have, like, have trouble wanting to cook for a guy.
	They feel like that's like, oh, that's oppressive or something.
	Like, how many women, how many women are more quickly prepared to just like fuck a random dude?
	But when it comes to like cooking your man dinner, that's where you draw the line.
	I can kill it.
	What'd you say?
	You can kill me.
	I can kill it.
	You can kill what?
	Cooking?
	Good care.
	But it's crazy to me.
	It's crazy to me.
	There are women who are like, who will like fuck a guy on the first date?
	Heaven forbid you were to cook for him.
	Dude, who are these women that won't cook for me?
	They need to bring back home.
	I don't cook.
	My boyfriend's the cookie.
	Wait, what's that cooking?
	Would you cook for him if you wanted to?
	Of course.
	If you asked me to cook for him, I would try to figure it out.
	But I just don't cook.
	But I have to be like, no, I'm not going to cook for you.
	You should figure that out before you have kids.
	How much would it blow his mind if you just did that and he came home though?
	That's what I was talking about.
	I do sometimes.
	That's like not that intense of a meal.
	Honestly, I door dash most of my meals, so like a woman cooking, just give me a bow.
	That's all I need.
	A bow and a back scratch.
	That's it.
	And some takes that Cardi B song.
	Don't cook, don't clean, but once it's still got the ring or some bullshit.
	Yeah.
	Let me tell you how I got it.
	That was beautiful.
	Harrah saying that.
	Some Shakespeare in the flesh shit right there.
	Okay, let me get the.
	I've been saying this.
	We do have to wrap.
	So I'm just going to read these and we're going to wrap.
	Nah, culture is not language dependent.
	My French girlfriend shares her culture with me all night long in dirty, salacious English, as did my Brazilian girlfriend before her.
	You can say any sentence in any language.
	It's what you're saying and how you're saying it.
	Okay, Nah, thank you very much, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Jay Lyon, Brian does not want to have to groom his woman.
	He wants her to come to him pre-groomed.
	True.
	How young are we talking about?
	What the?
	Oh my God.
	I'm just kidding.
	Okay, we have women shit on men so much that they mindlessly, reflexively call men having any desires misogynistic as a control mechanism.
	Women can want a man to be romantic, know what she's known what she's thinking, make her gasm nightly, provide an entire exciting life for her, but a man wanting a bow is hate.
	Brian, you want to respond to that?
	Well, yeah, women have a long laundry list of criteria that they want in a either sexual partner, romantic partner, etc.
	And here I am.
	Literally, it takes no fucking effort.
	Literally, you just bend at the hip.
	And that's all you want in a woman.
	She'll be free.
	Whereas women, huh?
	You don't have a laundry list of things I want in a woman.
	Including a slave.
	No, I don't.
	Okay, I'm not going to fucking sit here in a cap.
	A slave would be a female.
	You're a feminist.
	No, definitely.
	Sounds like a feminist.
	Not at all.
	Who here's a feminist showcase?
	This is just a touchy.
	Is anybody a feminist?
	Wait, show of hands.
	Anybody a feminist?
	Come on.
	Don't hide.
	Don't hide.
	Okay, here's what I want to know.
	You obviously don't want to bow.
	But if he found a woman who was totally down to bow for him, would you have a problem with it?
	No.
	Okay.
	So then why do you have an issue?
	Why do you have an issue with him wanting it?
	I have an issue with that video.
	Okay, so your issue is with that video.
	Yeah, and I can very easily explain it's not just the premise, it's the fact that she wasn't even acknowledged.
	Okay, but I it's thinking $99.99.
	My last relationship, I worked 12 hours a day on weekends.
	My woman wouldn't even have dinner prepared.
	She did not work.
	She just fucking played League of Legends all day.
	Thank God she broke up with me.
	I cannot believe I caught up with that.
	Bro, rip in the chat.
	Sounds like the guys, but.
	Glad that you're out of that relationship, man.
	Look, I mean, women want a lot of different characteristics in men, physical characteristics, what they bring to the table when it comes to money, personality traits, etc.
	But it only seems to be the case that when men have preference and standards and boundaries, it's always met with some sort of shaming language or contempt or that's misogynistic or you're insecure.
	If you want a girl with a low body count, you're insecure.
	If you want a girl who's a young adult woman, you're a predator.
	It will be pathologist.
	Oftentimes it'll even get pathologized to the point where they're going to try to paint you as like literally a criminal for wanting certain things in women.
	So that goes both ways.
	I mean, I know you've held back at least on this show, but the whole fat girl energy thing that you've liked to throw around before.
	What are you talking about?
	Fat girl.
	Yeah.
	What are you talking about?
	You know what I'm talking about.
	No, tell me what you're talking about.
	It goes both ways.
	What goes both ways?
	And you want to say, you know, like, you want to call us misogynistic because we like this, or you want to call us this because, you know, we want a low body count.
	But you guys have the same list of things that you hold us to, the same criteria, you know.
	No.
	Most men accept women's preferences, standards, and boundaries.
	Like, for example, when it comes to women liking...
	Hold on.
	When it comes to women liking tall men, I'm not sitting here trying to argue like, no, that's not true.
	It's not true.
	Yeah, the point Brian's making is that women are allowed to have a laundry list of things that they want in men.
	But when men express preferences, like Brian has a unique preference of wanting a woman to bow.
	It's like, what the hell, man?
	You can't say that you don't want fat women either.
	Like, it's like, nobody bats an eye when women express all their preferences.
	We have this equal list, but like our list isn't like looked at badly.
	We don't have issues with your guys's lists.
	It's like we're just like, yep, that's.
	Except for the tall thing.
	Some people are sensitive.
	Yeah, usually short guys.
	But like, that's the thing, though.
	Like, men don't have, men just recognize women's lists, and we're like, okay, that's nature.
	That's reality.
	Big deal.
	It is what it is.
	Just become the best version of yourself that you can and work with it.
	But when men express our preferences, be it body count, submission, the way a woman ought to act and behave, whether or not a woman should cook, whether or not she should be subservient to her man, so on and so forth, it's just like a volcanic eruption from the men.
	It's because the women's list is mainly physical and like men's list is more like that style of stuff.
	No, that's not it at all.
	It's because of feminism, to be honest.
	That's entirely what it comes down to.
	Women are allowed to want a traditional man.
	They're allowed to want a man who's strong and a provider and confident and assertive, tall, that.
	They're allowed to want all of these things.
	But guys say, you know what?
	I don't want a fat chick.
	I want a woman who's submissive.
	Yeah, I want some guys have a preference for that.
	Men say they have all these preferences and women are like, no, you shouldn't want a subservient woman.
	You shouldn't want a woman that's cooking for you every night and stays home and just like dedicates her life to taking care of you and the kids.
	There's so much vitriol against it because of feminism.
	Well, do you think that's because of the past?
	Because of men treating women wrongly or like belittling them in a way?
	I think feminism was a response to that, but I don't think that was reflective of what the past was like as a whole.
	You know?
	Well, maybe that, yeah.
	And it's thinking maybe it's also evolved into something extremely dramatized in society.
	People still have the idea that women are constantly belittled and disadvantaged compared to men in society, and it's just simply not the case.
	You don't think like with work and stuff like that, they're not?
	No, not at all.
	In a previous podcast, I said that my preference was for a woman in her early 20s.
	Like I was like, yeah, somewhere around like 19 to 22 years old, that's ideal for me.
	This girl named Kiko lost her mind and accused me of being a word that we will not repeat on this podcast.
	Lost her mind and was like.
	What was the age you said?
	19 to 22.
	Okay.
	That was the preference that I expressed.
	She completely lost her mind.
	But if a woman says that she wants an older guy who's successful and established, nobody bats an eye.
	Our older woman says she wants a younger guy.
	Yeah.
	Like people don't care, you know, but whenever men express basic preferences that have existed in men for thousands of years because of feminism, women lose their minds.
	I see your point.
	I do think that there are instances where like a woman is like not able to be as successful as a man.
	Like I think it's not intentional, but I think if a woman goes to a job interview and then a guy does, I think you're just if anything because of gender equity and inclusion policies, they have an upper hip.
	Affirmative action.
	Sorry, affirmative action type policies.
	If anything, have the upper hand to men nowadays.
	So I think I think I even catch myself doing it.
	Like, if I have the choice to go ask a man a question, a woman a question, I'm probably going to go ask the man just because I'm like thinking in my head, oh, he's probably going to know.
	Yeah.
	Not like sounding bad, but like also, that's kind of a biological thing, if I'm going to be completely honest.
	Yeah, it is.
	Yeah, men are just more methodical and logical thinkers than women are.
	We're much more emotional, and we do, whether we acknowledge it or not, we look for men, regardless if we know them, to lead us in some sort of way.
	Yeah, you expect competence from men.
	Yeah, I agree.
	Competence is something that is expected from men.
	It's not necessarily expected from women in the same way.
	I turn my brain off when I'm with a man.
	You got it from here, baby.
	I'm taking a break.
	All right.
	I know I keep saying this.
	I'll try to wrap up.
	We've got a whole lot of super chats.
	Yeah, we have, let's see, op two, she's so narcissistic.
	Op two, that she cannot think outside of her own privileged existence to even understand the point you just made three times in the last 20 minutes.
	I'm dying.
	You should pull up that bottom one right there.
	It's a perfect segue.
	Which one?
	At the very bottom?
	Yeah.
	I'm a strong, independent woman who will go to work for a stranger's company, but cook for the man I love.
	Ha, F that Loser.
	By the way, I hear Priya has taken that.
	Oh no, Brian, I hope subs haven't gone down.
	It's true.
	He makes a fantastic point, though.
	Because of feminism, women feel dignified to go leave the home and work for some other man who's not, has nothing to do with the family.
	But we've been told this narrative that to work for the man whom you love is somehow oppressive.
	What do you mean?
	So, for example, like the idea that the idea that it's good for a woman to be a stay-at-home wife and mother and to dedicate her time towards taking care of her husband and her kids, that is presented as undignified in today's world.
	It's presented as like oppression of women, right?
	Like for a woman to be in the home and to be a stay-at-home wife and mother, it's like you're losing your independence, you're losing your power.
	But the reality is, you could either work for your husband if you guys want to have that kind of arrangement, or you could go and work for some other man.
	I see what you're saying.
	But women feel like it's a good idea.
	Because that's like a job for your husband, is what you're saying.
	Yeah.
	Absolutely.
	It's an incredibly difficult job.
	I think people underestimate how difficult that it can be to be a stay-at-home wife and mother.
	But it's a good job.
	It's a rewarding job.
	It's the most important job.
	Instead of sending your kids to daycare, you're taking care of them.
	Yeah, it's good.
	It's good.
	But feminism has psyoped women out of thinking that that's good.
	So as far as like a woman going to work for what you say is like a man at a company or something, you think that's like disrespectful to the man or you think that's a good idea.
	No, I don't think it's disrespectful.
	The point is that women won't have a mental hang-up with the idea of going and working for a boss.
	That's a man, usually.
	Yeah, that's a man, but they will have a mental hang-up with the idea of working for their husband.
	Raven DT donated $69.
	Modern day feminism is a sub and the lie sold to women.
	Women were kept in the home to take care of the household and the family to protect them because women are valued more than men who are disposable and work the dangerous jobs.
	Yeah.
	100% Raven.
	You know, it's a really interesting subject.
	There was a guy named Alexander Tocqueville.
	I think he was a Frenchman.
	And he went on a trip throughout America in I think the 1800s.
	And this was before, you know, feminism was a thing.
	Like throughout America, there were traditional family households and women were in the home and men were out working.
	And Tocqueville remarked that the reason why America was such a strong nation was because of the strength of the women in the homes.
	Women had their homes like dialed in.
	They were fantastic homemakers.
	They took excellent care of their husbands.
	They took excellent care of their kids, educating them, raising them, so on and so forth.
	And Tocqueville saw that and he was like, the strength of the American woman is like the backbone of this country.
	It's what everything rests on.
	I think part of the reason why the world is falling apart today is because that backbone has been ripped out and the sexes have been pitted against one another.
	You know, I've said many times, like my ideal relationship is one in which I'm going out, winning the bread for the family, providing for the family, protecting them, and my wife is, as the Bible describes, my helpmate, right?
	Like she's the woman, she helps me with everything, right?
	And I would view her as an equal, but we have different purposes.
	Like if I go out to work and I come home and I know that my wife has dinner ready and she's taking care of the kids and she's done an awesome job raising them and she's there to support me when I come back home, we're going to be a freaking stellar team.
	Like I'm going to be crushing it out there.
	She's going to be crushing it in the home.
	So how do you feel about like both of you guys going to work and having that kind of partnership?
	I personally don't want, I want to stay at home.
	You want to have enough money to wear your work.
	Yeah, I want to be able to fully provide for my family.
	You know, I don't want my wife to have to leave the home and go work for somebody else because I know that her energies would be best spent in the home.
	You know, when like men and women have complementary roles, you know, and when a man takes care of his woman and when she takes care of him and the two of them take care of their kids together, like you can, you can create a unit that works like a well-oiled machine, you know?
	But if like if I have to go out to work and she has to go out to work and we both come home and there's no dinner on the table and the kids were in daycare, like if somebody else is raising the kids at daycare, we've got like a screwed up family in it.
	Unfortunately though, that's how like most households have to be because of how expensive it is.
	Yes, because they've destroyed the U.S. dollar, but that's a different conversation.
	Well put.
	Well put.
	Let's see.
	We have Angry Casper.
	Thank you for the New Zealand 20 men.
	Thank you.
	Question for under 30 year olds.
	Instead of countries who are Amelia Earhart, Lulidima Pavlichenko, Marie Curie, two out of three is not bad.
	Instead of countries who are.
	He's asking who they are.
	He's not asking.
	Instead, he's going to ask this.
	Oh, who are Amelia Earhart?
	Does anybody know who these people are?
	Yeah, the plan.
	The plane lady.
	I don't know who the middle person is.
	Povlichenko.
	I don't know who that is either.
	I don't know that.
	I was like, scientist.
	I don't, that's all I know.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Thank you, Angry Casper.
	CM Brian would be happy to wingman for you, bro.
	Osaka, here we come.
	Konichiwa, Gaijin style.
	By the way, Japanese girls live to serve.
	You do very well there as a slim white guy, too.
	Book your tickets, Brian.
	Oh, man.
	It's tempting.
	You know, you want to.
	I like it here in California.
	I don't know.
	Maybe.
	We'll see.
	I'll go to Japan eventually.
	Someday.
	Someday I'll go.
	Thank you, man.
	CM, I love how the most unpleasant, quarrelsome one at the table is the one who was almost in tears about failed relationships, encounters all her life.
	Gee, wonder why, Chase, the desert is a better destination, right?
	It's certainly preferable to a quarrelsome woman.
	There's no question about that.
	Okay, and we have, it's just Jeff Takashi from Japan here on YouTube, has talked to Japanese women and men, and a lot of them are surprisingly into cheating and allowing prostitution, at least in Tokyo.
	Definitely go to the Japanese countryside for a good girl.
	I do believe there's quite a bit of prostitution in the major city video.
	Did you see that video that went viral?
	Yeah, I did.
	With the women being okay with their husbands cheating.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	And I do think there's actually quite a bit of hookup culture.
	Watch the most porn.
	I believe that.
	They also sell the most.
	I think they sell more adult diapers than they do baby diapers.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	We have JC Brown here just with the 20.
	Hey, JC Brown, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	I think we're all caught up here.
	Okay.
	I think we're.
	Let's see.
	All right.
	Did I ask who here's a feminist?
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Everyone answered?
	I think we're all wrapped up.
	Any final thoughts before I wrap up the show?
	Anybody?
	Anything?
	Live your dreams.
	Yo, chat.
	If Christ is Lord.
	Oh, oops.
	If Christ is Lord, drop Christ is Lord in all caps in the chat.
	Because Christ is Lord.
	Sub tomorrow.
	Oh, let me just shout out Twitch, then we'll wrap.
	Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.
	Drop us a follow, drop us a prime sub, dog thing for the prime, plime thing for the prime.
	Gals are at thing for the prime, silly thing for the prime, twitch.tv slash whatever.
	Drops a follow, drops a prime sub.
	Thank you guys.
	Okay.
	So, I don't think I'm going to raid anybody on Twitch, so we're just going to wrap up.
	All right, guys, last.
	Oh.
	What's your body count?
	Maybe like 20.
	20.
	Wait, wait, hold on.
	Platoon.
	Sorry, Sue.
	20.
	Platoon.
	Platoon.
	Huh?
	No, 20.
	I think what's missing is zero there.
	Stop.
	What's it actually?
	What's it actually, though?
	Gotcha.
	No, I swear.
	You swear?
	Yeah.
	On what?
	On God?
	The girl.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Two?
	Two.
	I don't know.
	Is it more, is it triple digit?
	No, no.
	Here we go again.
	I don't know.
	You don't know?
	Okay.
	Seven?
	None of your business.
	Valid, valid, valid.
	I stopped counting, but not because it's high, but because I'm forgetful.
	Valid button.
	Incoming.
	It's information reserved for myself and my partner.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	All right.
	There you have it, folks.
	Chase?
	It's eight.
	All right, guys.
	Oh, I'm not going to share.
	Okay.
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	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you to the wonderful panel tonight.
	We had a very full house.
	Thank you guys.
	You guys were great.
	I think this was one of our better panels.
	This was a good panel, I think.
	Thank you.
	Happy to be here.
	Yeah, thank you guys so much for coming.
	I know we went late, so I appreciate you guys staying late here with us.
	Thank you guys.
	You guys were awesome.
	Any women who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara.
	We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m. Pacific.
	We've got a very good show on Tuesday.
	Some great guests coming.
	Oh, wait.
	Is today Tuesday?
	Yes.
	Oh, sorry.
	I got mixed up.
	Sorry.
	We'll be live again Sunday.
	I always get mixed up.
	We'll be live again Sunday at 5 p.m. Pacific.
	Anyways, guys, 07's in the chat.
	07's in the chat.
	We will see you next time.
	Good night, guys.

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