Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast coming to you live from Isla Vista, Santa Barbara County, California.
Every Tuesday and Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
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Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.
My name is Hensley.
I'm 22.
I am a stripper and I'm majoring in psychology with a minor in philosophy and drug and alcohol counseling.
My name is Kelly.
I'm 18, turning 19 in a week, and I am a student majoring in psychology.
My name is Kanaya.
I'm 19.
I'm a student and I'm majoring in biopsychology.
At UCSB?
Yes.
Okay.
My name is Anna Eve.
I'm 21.
I go to UCSB.
I'm a bio-major, fourth year.
I'm currently a pharmacy tech.
Do you want to go to pharmacy school afterwards?
No, I want to be a doctor.
Doctor?
Okay.
All right.
We got two sort of kind of at some point, maybe we'll be doctors in the house.
Okay, go ahead.
Hi, I'm Aja.
I'm 21.
I go to CSUN and I'm a criminal justice major and I work at HomeGoods.
Hi, my name is Carla and I am 22 and I'm also a student at UCSB.
My major is architecture and environment.
Hi, my name is Dominique.
I am 19 years old.
I'm an environmental studies major at UCSB.
What's up, guys?
My name's Michael.
I am clearly from the Game of Thrones.
Joffrey Baratheon.
That's right.
And I'm a crypto trader.
I also have a crypto business, and my website's cryptocurrency.consulting.
Hensley, why did you chuckle at the crypto?
Yeah, what's up with that?
We got Michael Trilstein.
What was up with that chuckle?
No, I just think we had a wonderful array of ladies going and doing their own individual studies and then, of course, the guy, Crypto.
All right, then.
We got some super chats from Michael Trilstein today.
No, we got 99 cents so far.
Okay.
99 cents, but uh Trilstein ain't okay.
That was hold on it.
Okay, we do have a new member, by the way, 5XDM finally with the membership.
Thank you, man.
Really appreciate the support.
Good to see you in chat.
Thank you for becoming a member.
And just a reminder, all super chats will be read.
Well, sorry, all super chats, $10 an up will be read, answered.
You can ask me a question.
You can ask the girls a question, ask the panel a question.
All right, so going around the table once more: current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?
And that includes seeking arrangements.
Still single, and longest relationship was 10 months, and I'm on hinge.
I'm single, never been in a real relationship situationships, yes.
And I am not on any dating apps.
Wait, hold on.
So remind me, you're 19?
I'm turning 19 next week.
Okay, but never had a relationship.
Yes.
What's the longest anything you've had?
Six months, seven.
Are you cold?
Yes.
Wait, all right.
Let's help her out a little bit.
Eric, can you halfway close one of the doors?
So your longest thing was six months?
Yes.
Was it on again, off again?
Kinda.
Kinda-ish.
Okay.
And no dating apps?
No.
Ever?
Yes, never.
Okay, wow.
Go ahead.
I'm currently single and also never been in a relationship.
And then dating apps bumble, and I did Tinder for a minute, but that kind of sucked.
And yeah.
You've never been in a relationship?
No.
Okay.
Age again?
19.
19?
Yeah, I mean, that's right.
Makes sense.
And then there's COVID.
Yeah.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was two and a half years, and I'm not in any dating apps.
How recently did that relationship end?
Back in December, January.
Okay, so almost a year ago.
Yeah.
I'm single, single.
What?
What's that?
What's that mean?
Like, single.
I've actually also never been in a relationship, but I have been in situationships, if that's what you want to call it.
And I don't go on it that often, but I'm on Tinder.
Okay.
My longest relationship would have been a year-ish, like almost a year and a half.
And I just broke up a week ago.
What happened there?
Rip?
Just not a vibe anymore.
What does that mean?
So why did he dump you?
Excuse me, he dumped me.
Right?
That's what happened?
No.
Just like towards the end, we kind of were just not into it anymore.
And we decided to be like an open relationship.
And then I started to see other guys, and I'm like, you know what?
It's not even worth it to be in a relationship.
So then I just broke it off.
Who initiated the conversation about it being an open relationship?
Was it him or you?
Or mutual?
It was, well, I like brought it up.
And then he was like, yeah, I've been thinking about it too.
And I'm like, all right, that sounds good.
And then it went on for like a week, two weeks.
Yeah, like two weeks, and then we're like, okay, let's just, and I was like, I'm not feeling this anymore.
And yeah.
So you brought up the open relationship thing?
Yes.
So did you have your eye on another guy then?
Yes.
Aha.
See that?
That's always what happens, too.
Yeah.
it's an open relationship I mean you must have been thinking that far be far before you even started that you were thinking I feel like that's most of the case for a lot of open relationship like when they bring it up Unless you're just naturally like at the beginning of the relationship, you're like, hey, let's do open.
But if it's like brought up when you're already in a relationship, I feel like it's because there's already somebody else you're like looking for.
Yeah.
So whatever happened with the guy that you left him for?
I'm talking to him right now.
Oh.
Did he have another girl ready to go?
I don't know.
So wait, was this open relationship thing, was that, that was mostly you on your end?
I'm pretty sure it was also on his end.
But I just, I never like wanted to find out like who he was seeing.
Wait, okay, hold on, wait, wait, wait.
Let's rewind a little bit.
You were in a monogamous relationship.
Yes.
And you wanted to open it up because you had your eye on another guy, correct?
Yes.
Okay, so you were cheating?
No.
I mean, no, I never did anything.
But, okay, but you already had another guy lying.
Yeah, but I didn't do anything.
You didn't.
I mean, you were talking with them.
No, like, I had not.
I was just like, oh, like, you know.
And then I was like, when I noticed that I was starting to like catch interest in somebody else, then I was like, all right, you know, what about an open relationship?
And then once that was agreed on, then I started talking to the other guy.
That's cheating.
No, it's not.
Yeah, you already, I mean, you're already entertaining the option.
No.
All right, R.I.P in the chat for the dude.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Okay, I'm in a relationship, and my longest relationship was a year, but that's like a completely different one.
Okay.
Right on?
Yeah, I'm in a relationship.
I've been in one for three years.
It's the longest one.
I've never used a dating app.
I don't think I ever will.
I'd much prefer to meet women in real life than a dating app.
Rock and roll.
By the way, everyone's Instagram is in the description.
So show them some love guys, give them a follow.
So, okay, a lot of you said you were single.
Single, single.
So what does that mean?
Like, are you currently seeing anybody, but you just aren't official?
Well, like, what's the situation for those of you who are single?
I mean, I really have no interest in going into a relationship.
I've found a really, in this, like, past year, I've found how to be really happy with myself.
And so I love going on dates.
And a lot of times, like, I'll be very clear with my communication in the beginning.
Like, yeah, I'm not interested in a relationship.
And then the guys will be like, yeah, me either.
And then at the end, I see them get these little hard eyes.
And I'm like, hey, I'm going to remind you I'm not interested in pursuing this romantically.
And they're like, well, what the fuck?
I thought you were cool.
And I'm like, yeah, I can be cool and not want to be in a relationship with you.
So, I've been going on lots of dates, which is kind of breaking a lot of people's hearts, but I really enjoy being single.
I think relationships affect your emotions a lot, and I'm at a place where I'm really comfortable with myself with being alone, and I just don't have any interest in getting involved with anyone.
Do you feel like later you want to be in a long-term relationship or marriage?
Maybe in my 30s.
In your 30s?
Wait, do you want kids or no?
Not at the moment.
I'm not going to put any limitations on myself because obviously I'm still very young.
Currently, I kind of hate children, so but everything changes.
I'll grow up.
Word.
I'm kind of the same.
I am talking to someone, but I'm not really sure where that's going.
What do you mean by talking to somebody?
A situationship.
Is this your ongoing situationship?
Yes.
And are you currently like, but are you exclusive with him, kind of?
Or are you kind of dating?
I have no clue.
Well, is it closed on your end or open on your end?
Opened.
And on his end, too, I imagine.
Yes.
Okay.
So do you want it to proceed or what's the deal?
How long have you been seeing him?
Seven months.
Oh, can we get her a hand warmer or something, guys?
She's so cold.
Let's see.
Okay, seven months.
Hmm.
That's a while.
I mean, seven months, and you're still not really sure.
Well, that is a situation for sure.
He's in the military and he got deployed for a couple months, so that's kind of.
Where's like his home?
Santa Barbara?
Santa Maria.
Santa Maria?
Are you from Santa Maria?
No.
Oh, okay.
Air Force?
Yes.
Yeah, okay.
What is it?
Yeah, whatever.
Let's see.
Okay, so have you broached the subject?
Not really.
Or are you content where it is right now?
Well, I'm kind of happy where it is right now.
Okay.
With it being open.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Brian, can we get your little shaw for her?
The shawl?
I feel like maybe she needs like a sweater or something.
Do you want a sweater?
Don't you have a.
Somewhere over there.
My sweater's like somewhere over there.
Do you want to grab it or do you like that?
I think I'm chilling.
I'm also shaking my leg.
Oh, okay.
That's also why.
Well, if you get cold, just let it like proper cold.
Let us know.
We'll get you something.
So, okay, we'll continue on the single thing real quick here.
Go ahead.
For me, like, I go on dates and stuff, and you know, I have my fun, but I just haven't really met anyone who's like piqued my interest to date in a serious relationship yet.
So, yeah.
I'm not talking to anybody, but I don't want a relationship because my last one was really toxic.
So, why was it toxic?
It was like, like, people think, like, toxic, like, oh, like, you know, like, you fuck around with each other.
No, like, it was, like, actually really toxic, like, abusive, like, mentally, and, like, all that stuff.
So, how did you abuse him?
How did I abuse him?
Oh, that was the other way.
Right.
Because maybe it was mutually.
No.
It wasn't mutual, unfortunately.
So, when you say toxic, what are you talking about?
He was, he was.
It was like a lot of controlling and like manipulation that I didn't, at the moment, I didn't want to see.
Because I've known Aja for a while.
And she would tell me, like, all the time, like, dude, you need to get out of the relationship.
Like, he's super toxic.
Like, how is he controlling you?
Well, I had to cut off a lot of my friends.
Like, I couldn't go out unless he was there.
And, like, obviously, he didn't want to go out with me.
Okay, so he didn't want you partying or going to the bars or kids.
Even like just like hanging out with friends.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, and then like, um, just like being out, like, in general.
Did he not like your friends?
No, it wasn't even that.
Like, I would go to school, and he'd be like, why are you at school?
Like, you're doing too much.
I'm like, what?
For going to school?
Yeah.
Okay, that's crazy.
Yeah, that's why.
That's why I'd be like, that's a bit money.
In my head, I was like, no, he's cool.
So he was insecure about you going to school.
Yeah.
Okay.
Because, I mean, it's one thing if the dude's saying, like, don't go out to bars or clubs, but it's another thing to say, don't go to school.
That's like a little, that's pretty weird.
Yeah.
No, he's really crazy.
We were at Rolling Loud and he pulled up from like Vegas.
Well, like, it.
What does pulling up mean?
Like, he showed up.
He showed up.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
I thought that was like, never mind.
Okay.
Damn.
Yeah.
Good times.
Good times.
Okay, single, single.
Actually, I was talking to this guy on and off for like over a year.
And like, he was really toxic.
He would gaslight me.
Like, he would get mad when I would go out.
He'd call me like a hoe and like just all this stuff.
But I kept going back like a dumbass.
But I finally like, and we would block each other on and off.
Like we'd unblock, block, all that.
So I finally just like blocked him and now it's like done.
I don't have time for it.
Okay.
Okay.
Oh, me?
Well, I'm talking to that one guy.
Well, yeah, yeah, but next single person.
Oh, she's in a relationship.
Okay, all right.
We got everybody.
We got everybody.
Let me get these super chats really quick.
We got Dayvon Jackson with the $10 Soup Chat.
Hey, thank you, man.
I've never seen bigger, brighter red flags in my life.
Dayvon, you're going to have to clarify.
Hey, what's up, Peter?
Good to see you in the chat, man.
Peter Prankster.
Check out his channel, guys.
Who are you referring to, Dayvon Jackson?
By the way, because of your continued support week after week, I want to present something to you, Dayvon Jackson.
Hold on just a sec.
This is a BBC, the big black clock.
And maybe I'm making some assumptions about...
Okay.
Anyways, if you ever come on the show, you're welcome to.
This is for you.
Because I don't think Mike Davis is going to claim it.
Mike Davis, are you in the chat?
Okay.
And then, oops, sorry for the noise, guys.
And then we have Maximili with a Canadian $20.
Thank you, man.
Studies show that drinking pickle juice before you kiss increases serotonin levels by over 9,000%.
It's over 9,000.
Hey, Maximili, good to see you in the chat, man.
By the way, guys, Maximili, he's got sick channel, awesome channel.
He does these like kind of funny Omegle.
Did I say that right?
Omegal?
How do you say that?
Omegal.
Omegal.
Oh, Jesus.
I butchered that.
I don't know if you guys have seen any of the Kermit videos.
I wish I had.
Actually, Maximili, we're going to react to one of those at some point during the live stream.
So if you want to tune in during one of our next shows, I'll have the video ready to go.
We have to preload all the videos, unfortunately, just because our OBS is scuffed.
But guys, check out his channel.
It's really funny.
He does these funny little trolling videos with Kermit.
And he does a bunch of other stuff, too.
So can we get some cucumber emojis in the chat for our boy, Maximili?
Wait, Maximili, is it a cucumber or a zucchini?
Okay, cucumbers in the chat for our boy Maximili.
Thank you, man.
Much appreciated.
Let's also get you on the show at some point.
And Dayvon Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.
Thank you for the clarification, man.
Clarify all of them, these women learn psychology buzzwords and just apply them with no substance.
Okay, I need to see more cucumbers in the chat, by the way, guys.
Wait, oh, it's zucchini.
Sorry, guys.
Let's fix it.
Let's get some zucchinis in the chat for our boy Maximili.
Thank you, guys.
And Dave Vaughan, thank you for the $10 super chat.
Really appreciate the support, man.
Much appreciated.
We also have Peter Prankster in the chat.
Oh, I already mentioned that.
Sweet, sweet.
Do we have Trillstein in the chat?
Trillstein, are you here?
I know you did one super chat.
Sorry, we started a bit late, man.
Okay, moving on to our next question.
So, Instagram is sort of a dating app to some degree.
Some of you said you don't have any dating apps, but most of I think all of you have Instagram.
How many DMs would you say that you guys get per week from guys that are kind of trying to hit you up?
Hensley.
Also, any blue check marks?
Blue verified check marks, by the way.
Like a blue check mark every couple weeks, but it's not like the blue check marks with millions.
It's like 60K or something like that.
As far as DMs go, maybe like a dozen a week or something.
And are these from guys that come to your club or just randoms?
No, just randoms.
And it's not even very like, they're not much considered because they are just by like randoms who will have like private accounts and no posts or stuff like that.
It's not even people you're like, oh, they could be cute.
Are they typically from Santa Barbara?
I don't know.
All over.
Yeah, some of them don't have my location or their location on it.
And I don't know.
So do you respond to most of them?
No.
Wait, can you move that cup so people can see your bloodied?
Which ones do you respond to?
The ones that are cute, but I don't get DMs from like just random cute people hitting me up, honestly, a lot.
So like, who are they usually?
The ones that aren't.
The people that hit you up.
Just, I don't know.
Just totally random.
Yeah, just kind of random guys that probably hit up everyone.
Like, there'll be like kind of a chain they go through.
Like, then they'll go to the people you've tagged photos in and they'll hit up your friends as well with like the same message kind of thing.
They're just like people who DM people.
How often do you actually respond to them?
I don't.
Never.
No.
So you never will respond to random DMs.
Well, I feel like girls, we get enough where we're really good at sorting out DMs.
So it's kind of like on Tinder, like you can filter them out pretty quickly.
So it's like if they have a very abstract photo, or if it's like a picture of a sunset kind of thing, it's probably more of a spam account or like someone's like just random account that they use to hit up girls or if they've got like lots of numbers in their username or like they're following like a thousand people but only have like a hundred followers.
Like there's little things that give them away that this isn't really a person who's like, I don't want to say on your level, but necessarily like, I don't know, what would you all say?
Worth it.
About.
Worth it.
That's a good one.
Word?
I rarely get hit up like through Instagram.
It's more of Snapchat, never any blue check marks.
Never gotten the blue check mark on Instagram.
Okay.
For me, maybe I get around like five a week.
I've gotten a couple blue check marks here and there.
A couple blue check marks.
Athletes?
Athletes.
You don't have to say their name, but like what?
Of course not.
Rappers, what give us a sense of who they are.
Sometimes like producers or like musicians or like athletes, mostly NFL.
A couple.
A couple NFL guys.
Like new, newly.
Oh, new NFL guys.
Okay.
NBA?
No.
What do you say to them?
Usually nothing, because it's like probably not gonna happen and or it's like not like like gonna happen in like I can't go there, like I'm not gonna do whatever, so yeah.
I don't always respond.
Have they offered to fly you out?
No, it's never gotten that far.
Okay.
Has anybody here at the table been offered to been flown to be fl Jesus, I can't flown out, flied out?
Anybody?
No.
Okay, moving on, go ahead.
Probably like one a week.
One a week.
Yeah.
Okay.
Um, yeah, same like one or two.
Um maybe like five to six a week.
Any blue check marks for any of you?
One.
Yeah, a couple.
Athlete?
Wait, hold on.
Go ahead.
I don't know what he was.
I think he was like an artist.
Sure.
Go ahead.
Yeah, they were like producers or like upcoming.
How many blue check marks have you had?
A couple, actually.
But they were all producers.
Closer to the mic?
They were all producers or like DJs.
Producers or DJs?
No, never.
Tilt the microphone down towards you just slightly.
But you said of normal Instagram accounts, five or six.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you over here?
Well, before I started dating my boyfriend, it was like four a week, but then it stopped only when I post certain things, then I'll get those DMs again.
But that's pretty much.
Is that because you have pictures with your boyfriend?
Yeah.
I post my boyfriend, but when I don't, I do get those DMs.
Gotcha.
Rock and roll.
Cool, cool.
Let me get these.
I think we just got two new super chats in, so I'll just grab them really quick while we have them.
Let's see here.
Did we pull this one up yet, Eric, or no?
Evince, hey.
Good to see you.
Oh, from Dave Hawn, I'll get that one.
Hey, man.
Good to see you in chat.
Everybody, this is Evince.
Check out his channel.
He's got some funny compilation videos.
Make no mistake, this is the official rating for this evening's episode.
Oh, Jesus.
We haven't even gotten to the rating part yet, shit.
Wait, actually, Evince, before I read it, we have this from Stiffler.
I'll get back to it, Evince.
Stiffler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.
Hensley, go ahead.
You know, I always go at 10, but just because I'm wearing a costume, you're going to change it because you're in a costume?
Well, as far as the carry costume goes, there could be a lot more blood, so I'll give myself a nine just to be humble.
But normally you say 10.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
I would say 10.
Okay.
Tens across the board, baby.
10.
I'm going to say I'm a 7.
Okay.
I would say like a 9.
eat well brian i'd like you to look at this costume and just holy crap bro I mean, this has got to be 10 squared.
Okay.
Rock and roll.
Yeah, I mean.
I'll answer too.
I mean, I give myself a 6, 6.9 on a good day, and then let me get back to the soup chat here.
With that hat, bro?
I think, honestly, the hat, I'm a solid 7.5.
Okay.
Evince, man, thank you for the $20 super chat.
I really appreciate the support, man.
So the rating is Dominique 5, Carla 5, Aja 1, Anna Eve, 4.
Kanaya?
Yeah.
4.
Kelly 2.
Hensley, 3.
Wow, bro.
That's rough.
Should we rate him?
Should we...
Evince.
Am I saying your name right?
By the way, I'm on...
I want to make sure I got the pronunciation down.
Are you cool if the girls rate you back?
Are you cool with it?
Let us know.
But hey, really appreciate the super chat, man.
Much appreciate it.
Dayvon Jackson with the $10 super chat.
Yes, I am.
The clock is awesome.
Mike Davis has, I think, lost his claim to the clock.
So it's all yours.
But really appreciate the support, man.
Thank you.
Big Michael Trillstein with the $100 Super Chat.
Really appreciate it, man.
You're fucking legend.
Good to see you back.
By the way, we are going to get Trillstein on the show in two weeks.
About two weeks.
And I don't know.
We got Appa in the house too, the official mascot of the show.
I don't know if he's visible.
Unfortunately, he's not visible.
Maybe, can he jump on your lap slightly, Hensley?
Is his girlfriend coming on the show too?
His two girlfriends?
I think he's maybe Michael Trillstein.
Only my girlfriends are perfect tens.
Oh, there we go.
Oh, gosh.
All right.
We have another bitch added to the panel.
Okay.
Because female dog.
Okay.
Corny joke.
But hey, Michael Trillstein, thank you for once again.
Thank you for the big $100 super chat.
Really appreciate the support, man.
You're a fucking legend.
And yeah, looking forward to having you guys on the show.
Everyone, check out his.
Are you have you been?
You're posting kind of to your channel, right, Michael?
Anyways, uh-oh, wait.
Updated my profile pic for a face reveal.
Dayvon Jackson, we still have the Chargers thing here.
It might take a while for it to be updated, but yeah, we can get to it.
Sorry, yeah, I guess StreamYard's not showing it.
Red Misfit with the $10 Super Chat.
Hey, Brian, can you ask all the girls what is their sexual orientation?
I'm very curious.
Straight, bisexual, or gay.
Yeah, we can do that.
Hensley, why don't we start with you?
It's hard to leave.
I'm bi, but I'm gay on Thursdays.
Wait.
What?
What?
Does that explain that?
Is that the night that you strip?
No.
That would be very silly.
Well, maybe that's how you cope.
The cope?
No.
Okay.
Got it.
We're going to talk.
We should talk a little bit about the club.
Orientation.
I am straight.
I am straight.
I'm straight.
I have a question for you, though.
What's your preference?
Good question.
Men, except for Thursdays.
Okay.
What?
I think it's just because that's today, huh?
Yeah, today is Thursday.
Yeah.
Okay.
And I'm straight.
Would you be, Michael?
Would you be gay for pay?
No way.
Like, hold on.
What if we had enough cryptos?
Hold on.
No, I guess.
Let me qualify the statement a bit.
A billion dollars.
No.
You wouldn't be gay for a billion dollars.
No, well, first of all, that goes into a whole other discussion about money and a billion dollars.
Like, the whole thing, the whole purpose is to work towards it anyway.
So being gay for one day just get a billion dollars.
Like, I don't care about winning the lottery.
You know what I mean?
I wouldn't want to win the lottery.
Okay.
What about you, though?
Bruv, a billion dollars.
It depends what?
Like, if it's a one-time thing, You're set for life on a billion dollars.
Anyways, moving on.
Let me get the rest of these soup chats here.
Michael Trilstein, only my girlfriends are perfect tens.
Yeah, we got to go back to the 10 thing.
Okay.
Was in the checkout line at the grocery store and noticed the girl in front of me couldn't afford her groceries.
So like the good man I am, I helped her put them all back.
God is good.
Alex Mack, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
What a chad.
Hey, members, can we get Chad emojis in the chat for our boy Alex Mack?
Bobby Balsara, I'm just here to support the pod and Michael Trilstein.
Hey, Bobby, appreciate the support, man.
Thank you very much for the $10 soup chat.
You're fucking legend.
Okay.
There we go.
We got some chad emojis coming through.
Okay.
So all of you said you were tens.
Okay, not all of you.
But a lot of y'all said you were tens.
Our boy Evince gave his rating.
Evince, I got love for you.
Thank you for the support.
I disagree with you slightly on the rating, but now that he's given you his rating, do any of you want to revise your rating at all or stick into how you previously rated yourself?
Anyone?
I think you're sticking to it.
I don't think you changed our minds very much.
Okay, so if you guys are tens, of those of you who said you were tens or ranked yourself very high, you two said you were tens, right?
Did you say you're nine?
Did you say nine or ten?
I said ten.
Oh, you said ten, you said nine, you said seven, correct?
Nine, eight?
Yeah.
Do I have that right?
Okay.
Good memory.
Ten, ten, ten, nine, seven, nine, eight.
Okay.
So if of those of you who said you were ten, are there no women who are more attractive than you?
If you're ten, you must, there might be women who are as attractive as you, but there can't be women who are more attractive than you.
Agree or disagree?
Disagree.
But if you're a 10, that's the top.
Yeah, but still, there's women more attractive than me, I would definitely say.
Okay, what about you?
I agree.
By the way, this is 10 physical appearance.
Yeah.
Because I guess some people might say total package, right?
But still, physical appearance, still 10.
Hensley?
We're top tier in our own way.
Everyone's got different flavors, but we're definitely tens for ourselves, and that's what really fucking counts.
Don't you think it's a bit of hubris, though?
Define it.
Define hubris?
Excessive pride?
No.
What about the other people, though?
Like, taking away what you think about yourself.
What about what other people think?
Where does that matter necessarily?
Well, like, what if that's the question, though?
The question is, objectively?
Yeah.
I still think it doesn't matter.
It's whatever we consider ourselves.
Because if you walk around with the confidence of a 10, you're going to portray yourself a lot more confidently as a 10 and be closer to it.
And I also think with 10, there can be a lot of room for progress as well.
I think I've said this before on the podcast, but part of being a 10 is open to growth and continuing to grow and just get prettier in our mentally and physically as we get older.
But what about besides confidence?
Cause maybe, maybe let's just talk about guys, what they're looking for.
If they're just purely looking for, but if they're just looking specifically, yeah.
Yeah, I'd hold that thought.
But wait.
Just if guys are specifically looking for.
Their flavor?
Yeah, for looks.
Why does the conference flavor of a 10?
But that doesn't mean we're any less of a 10.
Well, it does to them.
Okay, it's all subjective.
That's why you can't answer that question objectively.
Okay, but you can have some more realistic approaches, too.
I think I'm being very realistic.
I don't think you are.
It's subjective.
Because I think that it's important that women realize that if they believe that they're all 10s, and then they're going to look for a guy who's a 10, that those guys aren't going to want.
That number isn't based off men, though.
That's what I'm also trying to say.
That's fine, but at the same time, if you want to find a dude that you're into, you know, if he's a 10 and you're actually like a three-year-old.
We actually normally, I don't think, put numbers on men as much.
We just look at them.
You do.
You do.
So who are all these guys asking us to rate ourselves?
Is this women?
Has ever a woman asked the men to do that?
Well, I wouldn't ask someone to rate themselves, but just that's the question here.
Like in this case.
So what are you asking me now?
I'm not really asking you anything, but what I'm saying is that if you have, if women, not you specifically, but women, have an unrealistic idea of how they look and they're inflated, like they think that they're all tens, and then they're going to look for guys who are tens and who are very confident, have all those good things.
The universe will humble them.
It humbles us all.
I do have, if anybody wants to potentially play a little game, I have some Neutrogena makeup remover, if that adjusts anybody's ratings potentially.
Geez, tough crowd tonight, eh?
Tough crowd.
All right.
So, okay, my next question is then.
So, of those of you who rated yourself a 10, just maybe we can try to get to the bottom of this.
So, is there maybe a celebrity that you can think of that you think is a 10 that you would, or just a guy that maybe who's famous that we can look up right now, who you think is your looks equivalent?
Do you know a guy that we could look up who's your you'd consider your looks equivalent?
A guy, yeah, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp when he was young.
Get back to me on that question.
Let me think.
What about you?
Is there a guy who you are like doesn't not your doppelganger, but who would be your looks match or your looks equivalent?
I'm gonna be honest.
Michael B. Jordan.
What do you rate him?
I personally am not that attracted to Michael B. Jordan, so I would say he's like a eight.
He's an eight.
In my book.
In your book.
Who's a 10 in your book for a guy?
Oof.
It's putting me on the spot.
Jadion?
Jideon?
Do you know Jideon?
Is that the YouTuber?
Yeah, that's the YouTuber.
I don't know now.
Okay.
Any guy that comes to mind who's a 10?
That comes to mind right now is Timothy Chalamet.
I don't know if that was just like a teenage crush or that's like an actual like Timothy Chalamet.
Okay.
So he's a 10, you're a 10.
I mean, I will have to say, you did ask us what we would rate ourselves.
So in my head, I see myself as a 10.
So, yeah.
Did you think of anybody?
Nope.
OK, so.
Oh, go ahead.
Go ahead, Michael.
No, no, I was just going to say for you to go next.
For me to someone who's a 10?
Yeah.
Well, she ranked herself nine.
Okay, so who's your equivalent?
Pretty high, pretty high, pretty high.
Odell, Beckham Jr.
Odell Beckham Jr.
Yeah.
Okay.
I guess the issue I think that me and Michael have with it is that if you rank yourself a 10, in order to find a partner that is commensurate to your level of attractiveness, you need to have a reasonable self-assessment of yourself.
So I think like if you're just, if you have this inflated ego of like, I'm a 10, then you're going to be looking towards guys who are 10s, but you're going to disregard men that are otherwise, if we come down to reality, are on your level.
I disagree because not, most girls don't just look at the looks.
Like you talk to someone and you want to like see how their personality is.
Like I know that's really cliche, but I feel like at least me, my personal experience, I don't like look at how they look like.
Like if they're cool and I really like their personality, then I'm going to go for it.
Even if someone says, oh, like he's so ugly.
You might, okay, so you might disagree with that, but if you look at statistically like what's happening right now, guys that are not seven, eights, nines, tens get like basically no pussy.
And, you know, so that's just how that's how girls are basically looking.
It's like they really look up.
And so when we have girls that are, you know, realistically threes, fours, fives, six, all looking for seven, eight, nine, ten, that's an issue.
Why?
Well, why are you so concerned about men just not finding women?
Because it's an issue.
Because if you look at, there's a lot of men that are out there that are actually really upset because they find, and when I say upset, these are the people that are school shooters.
These are the people that are actually upset.
So you're going to place their, you know, super bad, you know, like self-esteem on because women.
Well, I think that's a very, that is an extreme example.
That is a very excuse of a human.
It's extreme, but it's also like, I think in general, it's a bad thing when, because the direction that we're headed right now is really one of more polygamy.
Okay, so I'm going to talk straight.
So right now, from everything you've said so far, you're like validating men's feelings way too much over women's feelings.
You're like, no, but men, we can't find women because they think they're a 10.
Let me finish.
And then like you see us and then you're like, but you're like, you consider yourself a 10, but what if you're a four?
Okay, then, if I go up to a guy and he's like, yeah, I'm not interested.
We usually are like, all right, and we move on.
But men, when you reject them, they're like so hurt about it.
Like they just can't like seem to control their emotions.
And then they want to place it on us.
Like we are somehow like, like they are somehow the victims.
I'm not saying it's your fault, but what I'm saying is that in the current culture that we have, it's our responsibility to be able to do that.
I think in our current culture, lots of girls believe, they truly believe that they deserve the best of the best.
That's what they should.
That's a problem.
Because what about all the other guys out there?
Let me just come in really quick.
If you're an average woman, you deserve an average man.
If you're an average man, you deserve an average woman.
If you're an average woman, you don't get a top-tier guy.
Point blank, Pierre.
And you won't.
You won't get a topic.
You guys are so scared of being alone, and that's the problem.
Like, cope, like, really, like, cope with being single.
And if you're- You're talking about guys?
I'm talking about guys.
Like, if they want to, like, you know, go up in scale, then be better.
Why aren't you telling them, you know, be better, focus on yourself?
We do, we do, but they're not doing it.
And that's true.
That is true.
There's some truth there.
Like, if you're not going to do that, guys, have work to do.
Like, literally, I would say 90% of the men there.
I'm just like, nope.
And wait, 90% of the men in clubs are like, nope.
And then maybe, let's say one of them comes up and he's like, all right, like, let's dance.
From there on, it depends on how he talks to me, how he treats me, and the vibe.
Like, it's no longer just appearance.
So, let's say he's like, you like a five, you know?
And I'm like, all right, you know, like, let's dance.
Depending on how the conversation goes, depending on how he's being with me, even if he's a five, like, that can either go down or up depending on his, you know, actions, personality.
And I feel like men are just so stuck up on how they look that they don't work on the rest of them, like themselves, as if it's not as important.
Are you talking about money?
Like, finances?
No, that's not even like.
Well, you said work on the rest of themselves.
Yeah, like personality, like conversation.
Like, I have met so many attractive men that are just ass when it comes to conversations.
So, no matter how cute they are, like, if we can't even hold like a basic conversation, like, there's no point.
Okay, and that makes sense.
But even, like, when we talk about now looking for high-value men, because you're still looking for a man that's going to take care of you and that's going to provide and do all these things, and hopefully, he's good-looking too.
If you're looking for that type of person, but realistically, like that girl that's looking for him is not holding her, you know, maybe she doesn't look good, maybe she does look good, but maybe she doesn't bring other things to the table.
Okay, then he can move on.
Like, why is he so obsessed with that?
I would also say that women aren't unhappy if they aim high and miss.
We're unhappy if we aim low and we hit.
Yeah.
Or you could just be with someone who's on your level.
But why?
There's that too.
Like, why are you guys so obsessed with being like, oh, I'm average.
Why don't you pay attention?
Well, because this is what's leading to unhappy women later on in life.
No, where are you getting these stats from?
I'm sorry.
Are you enjoying being single?
Like, women are very happy being single.
Like, why do you think you're not very unhappy being single?
You might be happy right now when you're depressed.
You might be happy right now.
No, you might be happy right now when you're in your prime.
When you're in your prime, you might be happy.
But later on in life, you're going to want to have a companion.
You're going to want to have someone.
How do you know that?
Actually, a lot of people are staying single and just getting fucking happy.
They're not going to be a little bit of a young man.
The demographic of people that are on the most antidepressants are women in their 40s to 50s or something like that.
Chase, are you in the chat?
Can you get us the exact same thing?
But that's also because of like just society that like when you see a woman in her like 30s, 40s, all of a sudden you're like shaming her for not being in a relationship, not having a husband, not having kids.
So that adds to like their stress and their we're not shaming them.
We're not shaming them at all.
What are you saying right now?
No, we're not shaming them.
This is them saying, and you can start to see this now.
You can see them because more women are coming out about this, about how unhappy they are, that they did certain things when they were younger.
They're also a different generation.
Yeah.
They are, but do you really think when you're alone and you're in your 40s, like that's where you want to be at?
Sure.
Yeah.
Are you sure about that?
You don't want to.
We can be happy by ourselves.
But this is what concerns me about this modern day culture because I truly believe that you guys believe that, but I don't think that's the right thing that you have this belief.
You can have it and it won't upset me.
That's the thing.
It shouldn't.
And it doesn't.
It doesn't.
But it genuinely does concern me that so many young women have this belief.
But why are you so concerned?
That's my thing.
Well, I mean, one concern, one concern that he might have, and that I think a lot of people have, broadly speaking, for society as a whole, is the destruction of the nuclear family.
So society functions best when there's two-parent household, nuclear family, people aren't getting divorced.
That's how society functions best.
I think it functions best when you have adults who are able to, again, capable of managing their emotions.
And we are living through a mental health revolution.
And a lot of people are realizing that the unhappy divorce dynamic is leading to have the fucked up children.
Okay, but you have to look at what's going on with divorce.
Why are so many people getting divorced?
Because they're not happy with their partner.
Instead, you could have a lot of females that are single getting older who still decide to adopt children, which is also another issue.
But what if they've dealt with all their mental health problems so they can raise that child and communicate with that child and still just be as happy without having a partner?
Okay, but what if women actually decided that they're going to just find someone and be happy with him and not want to leave?
Because 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Why do you think?
Let me ask that.
Why do I think that?
Why do you think that?
Because they spend their 20s partying and hooking up with Chad.
As a child.
And then at 30, they get a nice provider guy, but he doesn't excite them.
We don't want you to provide.
That's the problem, though, because what we're here to do is provide.
Like, we as a man.
Poor guy.
No, no, we want to.
It's not being a poor guy.
It's about this is what.
We want to place this burden on you, though.
Men.
It's not a burden.
It's a human mentality that you have to provide.
This isn't a burden.
This is who we are.
This is what we feel.
Many of us feel that we're here to do.
If you didn't bring that provider mentality to the table and worked on your feelings, worked on your mentality, worked on your actions, trust me, women would not be bringing up divorce just because you're a provider.
You're not going to respect a man.
You're not going to respect a man that doesn't.
You're going to respect you at all if you're talking about the division.
You're not going to respect the man that you boss around.
You're not going to respect the man that you boss around.
You tell him what to do and all this stuff.
And if you're providing for him, you're never going to have respect for him.
But they're saying men don't respect women then?
Because we don't have to do that.
Yeah, it's much different.
We respect women in a much different way than the way that women respect men.
Well, I think we're coming to an age where we want to be respected in the same way.
And I don't think we're wrong for having that opinion.
Also, just to address the provider thing, I think most relationships actually break up due to financial reasons.
Most marriages, anyway, there's definitely a financial component.
I wanted to ask a question.
You said men respect women in a different way as women respect men.
Would you elaborate on that?
Yeah, absolutely.
So a woman wants to look up to her men.
Whether or not you acknowledge that, that's what you want.
You want someone with whom you respect.
Okay, because if you're going to walk over him and tell him what to do and all this stuff, you're going to lose respect for him.
You're going to lose attraction to him.
So when you ask about like when we talk about respect and what we're looking for in a woman, we're looking for a woman that respects us.
We're not looking for a woman to respect.
Does that make sense?
It doesn't make sense to me, but I understand what's coming out of your mouth.
Like, because if it seems like it upsets you a little bit, which but the thing is that if in order to really love you, like as a man, if we want to love you and take care of you, buy you flowers and be traditional and hold the door, like do those types of things, pay for dates, we want to be respected.
But even though you say you guys want respect, you still don't respect us, though?
You just said that.
It's in a much different way.
Because the respect will come from you being a good mother.
It will come from you being someone.
Yeah, yes, definitely.
Gotcha.
That's what, because what truly is valued for most men is like, is a woman that is.
Submissiveness.
Yeah, submissiveness and being feminine.
Being submissive is not slavery.
I mean, kind of the way you're saying is be a mother, cook for me, like do whatever I say, kind of don't mean that.
But that's what's valued.
Exactly.
And that's what's really valuable.
Silence is valued from women.
Not silence.
No, not.
You kind of just said that.
I didn't say silence.
I said you don't want us to talk over you, and you said exactly.
So did you want to talk about it?
Well, no, I don't want to be talked over, but that's, I'm not saying to be silent.
I'm just saying that if you want a partner who's really going to love you, if you show him respect, that's where you're going to get that sort of dynamic.
The feminine and the masculine go.
I mean, they're perfect.
They fit very well together.
When there's this sort of competitiveness in a relationship, that becomes very difficult.
And a man is not going to have any respect for that for a woman who doesn't show him that he is the man, that he can lead the way.
Interesting perspective.
I would definitely disagree.
I find it very attractive when we're on the same level and both pushing each other to be better.
That competitiveness is the positivity of capitalism.
We just keep growing and growing.
I thought you were a communist.
Some days, Thursdays.
Oh, my God.
I mean, you said be on an equal level, right?
Okay, first date, who should pay on the first date?
Split it.
Whoever wants to pay, whoever asks.
Yeah.
Whoever asks a good one, too.
Okay.
Whoever asks should.
We'll go around the table really quick.
Who should pay on the first date?
Split it.
I say whoever asks or split it.
Depends on the situation.
I like to pay for myself, so split it.
Okay.
I think that the girl should at least offer if the guy asks, but probably split it if anything.
You see, I've never gone on a date when that question is brought up.
You've never gone on a date?
That where that question has been brought up.
Like, has the man always paid?
Yeah.
Okay.
It's never been a discussion.
Right.
You've never offered to pay on the date?
It doesn't even get to that point.
Like, by the time, you know, we're like clearing up, it's already been done.
How many dates have you been on?
Quite a few.
And it's never occurred to you to offer to pay for the food you just ate?
Because if you're going to invite me on a date, I'm not going to bring up, or should, like, should I pay?
Like, no, you wanted me to come here?
All right.
But what about even when you're out?
You've been in a relationship, right?
Yeah.
Even in a relationship?
He's still.
In a relationship, it's like definitely like a conversation.
It's just like, but the guys I usually date, they are the ones who like bring it up that they don't want me to pay for things.
Do you like that?
I don't mind it, but it's not something that if you were to tell me, like, hey, like, can you get this?
And I'm like, yeah.
But I feel like none of you are admitting to the fact that you like when men pay for it.
None of you like that when men pay for it.
It's just a societal influence, again.
But so none of you like when men pay for dinner.
It's like honestly.
It's a nice gesture.
I don't like if they throw it in my face right after.
Yeah, like if they're using some form of I'm the masculine person, like if you want to do it out of something nice because you invited me out, that's great.
But if you want to do it and then be like, well, I paid for dinner.
Well, I paid for dinner.
Like, I owe you something.
Like, no, fuck off.
Well, I don't think it's not that maybe some guys are like that, but I just think that that is, if, because I think about relationships in a more traditional style.
We can tell.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So I think that the man should pay for dinner.
And it's not like to show off that he's the man.
It's just to say like that that's what we a lot of us feel like that is the role like that we play.
But you want to be considered as that role and that role and play that's throwing expectations.
It's not throwing it in her face if she's understanding if she's like the type of if she knows yes.
Yeah.
Okay.
Wait, so okay you said on all the first dates you've been on that the guy just pays.
Yeah.
Do you believe in equality?
Of course.
Okay, so why don't you pay on I like how this always comes up when you guys talk about equality because for you like you don't realize that the society isn't equal in any way.
Just for that.
How so?
How so?
That literally as women we have so many disadvantages and then you have to understand.
Give me a sec.
On the other hand you guys get so hurt so literally triggered when we're like no do you think talking to Brian like that is a nice way to communicate with people?
No because of his tone to me I'm reciprocating that same tone.
I don't think he was giving you a mean tone though.
He's literally telling me how I'm supposed to feel how I'm supposed to think about certain things like where do you think I like if I were to be talking with that same tone back you would be like why are you talking to me like that exactly what you're doing right now because you're not used to being talked to as an equal by your traditional motivation I wish I could have a conversation with your girlfriend.
I want to see what are her thoughts.
Yeah totally, are we next podcast?
Yeah, like when you have a girlfriend invited, like.
But seriously, like when you talk to people in that manner, like I think if a guy talks to another guy in that manner, that's not a good way to just present yourself.
Overall, like in general, would you agree that guys don't talk to each other in that way?
Well, some guys do because, for example, I do with most of my friends, like we're not gonna be talking to each other in a rude manner.
You know what I mean?
No, but that's what I mean.
But guys don't talk to each other in a rude manner, like from the get-go.
Let's move beyond the tone thing.
So you said that women are not treated.
I don't want to.
I want to make sure I'm getting it right.
You said women are not treated fairly or equally.
Yes, in society.
Yes, can you articulate how?
So literally, the best example right now is healthcare and our rights in especially, abortion right now.
But then, like I'll give you one right now, when I wanted to get, when I wanted to, this was like two years ago I was considering just like getting my tubes tied because I was like I don't want children, you know, like I just know that's not for me.
I had to either get, not my mother's.
I was already an adult.
So, mind you, I was already an adult and first, the first thing that was brought up is we need your father's consent, and I was like I'm not going to go.
How old were you?
I was 20.
Wait do you want kids?
I literally just I was gonna ask you on that note with kids is there like is there a reason that you don't want kids?
I'm just gonna finish this up just one sec.
So my father was brought up first and then second is are you in a relationship?
What does your partner think?
And I'm like I wonder why that matters.
And this is true like if you actually you know search it up if you actually you know went to it this is so true on so many cases where if a woman wants to get her tubes tied The partner is always brought up as if that were to matter when it shouldn't because it's what I want with my body.
And then, yeah, so that's one great example, aside from our abortion rights being taken away.
Not in California.
Okay, but you're forgetting the rest of America, especially portions where are so where they are really, you know.
Well, okay, so you said in respect to abortion, I don't really want to go down that rabbit hole.
But in respect to abortion, you said that's an inequality.
But the fact of the matter is, men have absolutely zero reproductive rights.
So in the framing of men having a benefit over women, the abortion thing is moot because men have zero reproductive rights to begin with.
So we can have a conversation of what's right, what's wrong when it comes to abortion, but from the frame of an equality between the genders, I don't think abortion is really the go-to there because men have no reproductive rights.
So your problem with this is that you don't get a say whether a woman wants to have an abortion or not.
that's not what i'm saying but i'm saying if you don't have a like i understand you have no way to give birth to a child I understand that.
If you wanted to have a kid, a woman would have to want to have a kid with you.
Right?
That's what you're saying, that you don't have any reproductive.
Well, okay, for one example, there's, I mean, there's a more politically correct term, but there's a concept of the paper abortion where men who they don't want to have a kid and they don't want to be financially responsible for it, they can say, I don't want to have any financial responsibility.
That's not available to men.
That would be one example of a potential reproductive right that a man could have.
But so men have no reproductive rights.
But the framing, the context of the conversation was women are disadvantaged or treated unfairly in respect to gender.
But I don't think abortion is really relevant because men don't have reproductive rights.
Okay, so abortion to you is off the table in terms of gender inequality.
I understand.
But I'm saying in a lot of this society, just another simple, this one is like, you know, I feel like more to your liking.
Just the fact that like as a girl, there's, you know, first of all, there's the wage inequality that so many of you are so afraid to, you know, go into, it doesn't even matter.
But then there's another thing.
You want, you guys want like the traditional nuclear family where a woman, you know, has kids.
So let's say your wife were to be like, you know what?
I raised this kid, what, three, four years?
All right, I'm ready to go back to work.
Would you guys be okay with that?
I think that ideally that's not what we're looking for still because it really depends, but work is very sort of competitive to lots of men because if they're going out and spending their time on a job and doing that, like, well, how are they actually providing value to us?
Like, we're not looking for, we're not looking for women that are working crazy careers and doing all this stuff.
Okay, so this is a simple societal.
But wait, I see you have a reaction right there, but what are your thoughts on it?
That's such a wild take to hear.
By the way, I just want to clarify one thing.
Me and Michael have different opinions on certain things.
Just want to make that clear.
Also, bro doesn't even have a bad idea.
No, no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Well, let me also just say the term for the more politically correct term for paper abortion is legal paternal surrender.
Right.
So that's another thing.
But my take, I mean, I'm not, I don't think I'm going to get married, so I don't want to get married.
Maybe have kids, maybe, but so I kind of lean a little differently on this one.
Yeah, but even in a relationship, for example, like, you're not really looking for, like, you know, in a woman that has a high-paying job or something, that's not something that matters to most of us.
It doesn't make her more attractive.
Right.
Like, I wouldn't.
It's not like in the same, it doesn't really matter to me.
Like, if I'm making seven figures, I'll date a girl that works at Chick-fil-A.
Like, I do not.
Exactly.
But I think most women, when they become successful, they're going to want to see a guy who's at least on their level or higher.
Absolutely.
So does that make sense to you a little bit?
Like, if, you know, let's say this girl's making 200K a year, if she meets a guy that's making 50K a year, usually that doesn't work out too well, typically.
Chase wants to come on the show, by the way.
Right now?
He wants to come right now.
Let me see.
He should come.
It's 8.24.
Chase, what time can you get here by?
clear a mic unfortunately we uh hmm Chap, what should we do?
Should we get Chase?
He could chair a mic.
We have a chair for him.
I'm not sure where we would put him, though.
Does he have a costume?
Yeah, do you have a costume?
that's the important thing um how did we get do we want to continue down no this probably i mean Probably not.
It's veering a bit more towards the political and away from dating.
I just wanted to ask you, though, why you said you don't want kids?
Is that something you've known your entire life, or did you have a rough childhood?
No, I feel like I just, as I grew up, I just never had that feeling.
How old are you?
22.
Okay.
Yeah.
And then when I had that in mind, I was just like, yeah, you know, I don't want to.
Right now, I'm just like, if it happens, it's not going to happen anytime soon.
So right now it's just like on the table.
Right now, I'm just like, yes, no, yes, no.
But I feel like this is something that, you know, is always brought up, especially in stuff like this, where it's like, why don't you want to have kids?
Why do you want to have kids?
No, I'm asking.
Yeah.
Because I believe that families bring the most happiness to people.
Like, I think what we're here, not for everyone, but I think in general, like being with one partner that you're really in love with and you spend your life together, and also just having kids, like being able to raise them and do all that.
I think that that's something, especially as we get older, like I think that becomes a really important part of life for a lot of us.
And not for everyone, but I think for a lot of us, it's quite important.
No, I think that's great.
I think, you know, a lot of people who want family and that's their goal, it should be that.
Like, that's what you should want.
That's what you should go for.
But it becomes a concern when women who don't want that all of a sudden become attacked.
Yeah, and I get that.
But one thing to be sort of just understanding of is that women typically realize this when they're reaching their 30s.
So a lot of girls don't realize that when they're in their teens and early 20s.
But then when they reach their 30s, they feel it.
They just feel this desire.
You can talk to a lot of older women about that, like how that became something that's really important to them.
Okay.
So with that being said, it's sort of like what you do in these years is pretty important, especially if you're going to, you know, I think that's where I think looking ahead a little bit and just imagine where you might be when you're 10 years from now.
I feel like for those women who are already in that stage where for some reason in their 30s, they feel like they ran out of time.
They might need therapy.
I feel like that to kind of like readjust their sense of time in the first place.
And if for some reason, you know, they can't find a partner or they can't have kids anymore.
Like she brought up, there's the adoption.
Like why is it that they have like this need to like physically have a child when there are so many kids that need a home?
Yeah, I mean that's you're making a point, but I think in general, I think a lot of people in general feel like they want to have their own kids.
No, yeah, I understand that, but I feel like something that's being forgotten here is the sense of responsibility.
So I myself, I don't want kids, but let's say I reach my 30s and I don't have kids, I don't have a partner.
I have to like, you know, look at myself and be like, I'm responsible for this decision I took.
I should have done this, but not be like, turn around to the next girl that I see passing by in her 20s and all of a sudden be like, don't be like me.
Like, don't, like, you should have kids.
And then this becomes an issue with men when they don't take responsibility about themselves and all of a sudden they're like blaming women for not paying attention to them because they feel like, oh, they have their ego.
Okay, we got to move on because, I mean, we're just going in circles here.
Sorry, but we got to get to some super chats.
We got, let's see, we got events.
Thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
I was not trying to tear down the women.
I was just being objective.
Much love to the ladies.
Okay.
Thank you, man.
Really appreciate the support.
You're a legend.
We got database diary, DB, diary, $10 Soup Chat.
If you're 10, you can't grow.
So 10 means you're perfect in every way.
When you say you keep growing, you conflict the statement of being 10.
When you're 10, there's no room for improvement.
Hensley, any thoughts on this?
I think we're human.
We don't just cap out and remain there.
Our entire evolution is continuing.
Tilt the mic down towards you just a bit.
Sorry, there's a dog in my lap.
Yeah, we are people.
We're not robots.
We don't just have a perfect model that works forever and ever.
The part of being a 10 is we're the best we are right now, and we continue to work on ourselves and continue to be a 10.
Also, too, nobody can be 100% perfect.
So then if you want to talk about it that way, then nobody's a 10.
You know?
Okay.
Maximilly with the Canadian $10.
Appreciate it, man.
Nothing wrong with loving yourself, but there's a fine line between confidence and conceit.
Maximilly with the smoke.
Thank you for the Canadian $10, man.
Toronto?
Was it?
I don't know.
Anyways, thank you, man.
Really appreciate it.
Good to see you in the chat.
Radiant and Dire, South Africa.
I believe that's South African 35.
Ruby, what is the R?
I don't know.
South African currency.
Thank you, man.
They definitely put numbers on men.
Six feet, six figures, six inches.
She even said they have to be on her level on social.
She is subjective.
We must be on her fake level, okay?
Not sure who that was in response to exactly.
But really appreciate the support, man.
Thank you.
Dave On Jackson with the $10 Sup Chat.
Women have an issue with being considered average when the average girl is fairly pretty.
If you call her average, she takes it like you're calling her a troll.
Nothing wrong with being average.
$10.
Another $10 soup chat.
Fucking chat over here.
Can we get some chat emojis for Dayvon in the chat to am I?
Okay, $10 Soup Chat, the one that's looking for new guys while being with another dude talking about cope with being single?
Okay, shots fired.
Dayvon Jackson, thank you, man.
Much appreciated.
Dayvon Jackson with the subsequent $10 Soup Chat.
You all really don't see the hypocrisy in your actions and what you're arguing right now.
One girl hopping from date to date, another going from man to man talking about being fine, alone, laughing, rolling.
That's a great point.
You guys are all cool with being alone, but you keep hopping from guy to guy, date to date.
Hopping.
Interesting.
That's the word he used right there, but yeah.
Oh, that reminds me.
I have a question coming up here soon.
Okay.
Shell shock 777 with the $10 Soup Chat.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate the support.
Thoughts on mental health?
What if your partner or lover is going through depression and is unwilling to part?
How would deal with it?
I don't want to go.
We're pretty behind as it is.
I guess what I'll ask is: is it a pro really quick, guys?
We're going to go around the table.
Yay or nay if your partner is in therapy.
Wait, like if they like start therapy?
If your partner is in therapy, is that a pro or a con for you?
If they need it, I guess pro green flag or red flag, maybe I'll put it that way.
Go ahead.
I would say green flag.
Huh?
Green flag.
Green flag.
If they're in therapy, okay.
Green flag.
Green.
Green flag.
Green.
Green.
It's green, but I just want to say, like, you guys all say green, but in reality, if the guy that you're with is suffering with depression or anxiety, that's going to cause some major issues in your relationship.
It's definitely going to cause some issues, but I think if they're seeking the help that they need, it's definitely a green flag because they're taking initiative.
Yep.
Okay.
And if you're willing to be there for them, then that's pretty much all that matters.
Exactly.
Let me just get through the soup chats here.
Dave on Jackson with the $10 soup chat.
The misandry in this room is palpable.
A man understands that for most normal women, if he tries to split the bill, there won't be a second date.
Yeah, I mean, I think it also depends where to.
I think, at least here in California, there's definitely women who are a bit more keen to.
I mean, it depends on the girl.
Like, even, yeah, in California, it depends.
But I've definitely encountered women, even on the show, who come on and say, if the guy, even they consider themselves liberal, they consider themselves feminist, et cetera, et cetera, they will still, if the guy doesn't pick up the tab, there's not going to be a second date.
So, Dave on Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
Let's see, we got Range M65 here, $10 Soup Chat.
What is everyone's kinks and/or fetishes?
We can go around the table on this really quick.
Michael, why don't we start?
Submissive.
That is the kink.
You're submissive.
Yo.
Yeah, clearly.
Choking.
Choking.
Okay.
Choking.
Oh, I have a neck fetish.
Like, if you have a nice neck.
A nice neck?
Yeah, some guys have nice necks.
What?
I feel like you're looking at our necks right now.
You are immensely.
like a big neck or like It's just like aesthetically pleasing.
Yeah.
can we anybody in the chat can you guys change your channel thing to zach's neck from do you guys remember zach with the big neck Can somebody in the chat change their profile picture and then we'll pull it up for her?
Actually, wait.
Eh, okay.
Go ahead.
I don't have any.
None?
No.
Come on.
Come on.
Nothing.
No.
Choking?
No.
All right.
Oh, go ahead.
Like, rope.
Rope?
Choking Hensley?
Sadus, masochism, and ice.
Are you a dumb or a sub?
Switch?
Okay.
You know what?
What's with the rough sex meta?
Like, I just don't...
I don't know.
It's kind of popped up.
Like, everyone wants to be choked and shit.
I don't know.
I think it's...
I'm not like...
Yeah.
I'll do it.
I'll do it, you know, but I'm not trying to catch a case.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm not, like, trying to fucking cop a murder charge to please my woman.
I'll go, you know, I'll do quite a bit, but murder ain't one of them.
Okay.
But look, I know you can do it safely, but everyone, I guess I should answer this.
Fetishes?
Dom's subdynamic, but I'm not like huge into the rough sex stuff.
And then I'll hashtag all labia matter in the chat.
Because outies?
Hello?
Okay, anyways, moving on.
I don't think the girls have any idea what I'm talking about besides Hensley.
Okay, Stephen Krug, $10 Soup Chat.
Nice job taking my harsh feedback and still going.
That's what it'll take.
Guests, this show are way overcomplicating.
Research says relationships work best when both partners don't have rigid opinions.
Stephen Krug with the $10 Soup Chat.
Good to see you back, man.
I know we had our disagreements.
By the way, Stephen Krug.
Hold on.
Oh, can one of you grab the Mike Davis thing back there?
Here.
Pass it to me.
Stephen Krug, you've been a big supporter of the show.
If you come back to the dark side, we will get you a photo in a frame and you can become an honorary panel member of the show.
Stephen Krug, think about it.
We can take this hockey pick of yours.
Thank you, man.
I appreciate the $10 Super Chat.
A lot of Super Chat's coming in.
I might have to bump.
It should be fine.
Dayvon Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.
I think the better question is, why do you want to date men if you don't want to have kids?
Her answer will be telling.
Do you want to respond to that?
Sexual, like, that's all.
Just sexual?
Yeah.
Well, I mean, what about like companionship and all that stuff, too?
I feel like if I want companionship, definitely that's something I will mention.
Just because I don't want a guy that's like, because, you know, that's a conversation you kind of have to have.
And if they want kids, I'm going to be like, yo, you know, maybe this might not work out because I don't.
Just because I don't want to lead the guy into something like maybe like a more serious relationship.
And then him finding out like halfway that I don't want kids.
And then he's like, he's like, we just wasted this whole thing.
Yeah.
Definitely get it over with.
Yeah, so if I actually want companionship like from someone like in a serious relationship.
Well, you can have companionship without having kids.
That's not what I'm saying.
No, that's what I'm saying.
It's a conversation I'd have.
Sure.
Sure, sure, sure.
Okay.
Events.
Damn, dude, thank you for the big $50 soup chat.
You're a fucking legend, dude.
Really appreciate your support, man.
A nuclear family will no longer be a staple in the United States.
The only purpose of a relationship marriage is to rear children.
We're headed towards World War III and a much-needed reset.
At this moment, just smash and keep pushing.
Pointless conversation.
A couple of you guys are laughing, agree, disagree.
I'm excited for World War III.
Oh, my God.
Well, I mean, we have all the men to fight, right?
Bruv.
That is true.
Women are not subject to military conscription.
So, Yeah, so equality, right?
Okay.
But Evans, thank you for the big $50 soup chat, man.
Really appreciate it.
You're fucking legit, man.
Okay, so this is related to our costumes.
Really quick, can you put the crown back on?
Yeah, all right.
Let's go.
All right, so we got, you know, obviously we're in Halloween costumes here.
Do any of you consider yourselves queens?
Or do you want to be treated like a queen?
Actually, let's just go with the first one.
Do you consider yourself a queen?
Prom queen.
No, answer seriously.
I don't know what that means.
Like British royalty?
Like in a non-ironic sort of way, not like slay queen, but so British royalty?
I was gonna say, no, not literally.
So not literally and not metaphorically.
So which way?
Okay, I said ironically.
So there's not ironically, not literally, but in the colloquial sense of the term, a queen.
I'm a queen.
No.
No.
Why the hesitance?
Come on.
Queen Kelly, right?
The third.
First of her name.
Protector of the realm.
Can you explain it one more time?
Well, you know, like how some girls might say, I want a guy to treat me like a queen.
Yeah.
In that sense of it.
I think it would be nice to be treated like a queen.
But do you consider yourself to be a queen?
How's the temperature, by the way?
You doing okay?
I'm a little cold.
Still cold?
Yeah, a little more.
All right, I'll get up in a sec.
I'll get you something.
On that note, you said you think it would be nice to be treated like a queen.
Many guys feel that it would be nice to be treated like a king.
Yeah.
Which is what sort of what I was talking about.
So do you see how that can potentially cause some issues if you want to be treated like that, but then at the same time, when I talk about looking at your man like a king, respect and all that stuff, you guys have, you know, you go a little crazy when you talk about.
Back on this.
Can't say that.
You can't say we go a little crazy by saying we want to respect our man because none of us ever said we didn't want to respect men.
I asked you a question about why you speak women differently than men.
Okay.
So you can't twist our words and say but it is different.
But it shouldn't be though.
Like respect should go two-way street even.
Right.
I don't want to bring that up again.
I don't think that's the same.
Let's come back to the queen thing.
So do you consider yourself a queen?
Me?
Yeah.
In the way that you're saying it, no.
Like I want to be treated like a queen by some guy.
But to my friends, I do be like, yeah, like I feel like I'm a queen right now.
Like I feel like I look good or like I'm doing queenshit, like whatever.
Yeah.
No, we're just yeah.
I'm gonna agree with her.
Okay, so you're a queen?
Sometimes.
Okay, what about you?
I feel like by her definition, yes.
By yours, no.
What is her definition?
Just remind me here.
Just you feel, you know, when you're treated like a queen, I feel like you're treated like, by your definition, like a human, like, you know, like an actual equal.
Like when I feel like a queen, I feel like I look good.
When they treat me like a queen, I just feel like, oh, okay, you know, I look good today, you know?
It's not about like, oh, I get to boss you around because I feel like a queen.
Yeah.
I don't feel empowered to like, you know, have like this shadow on you.
I just feel it about myself, like, oh, I look good today.
I feel like a queen.
But I don't want to be treated like, I don't want to treat others like less because I feel like a queen.
Does that make sense?
It on a pedestal almost.
I don't want that.
Yeah.
Like how I feel doesn't affect how I treat others.
Exactly.
And I feel like by your definition, it does.
It does.
Okay.
What about you?
No words.
Oh my gosh.
I would say it depends.
Like, for me, since I'm in a relationship, obviously, yes, because I have respect for my boyfriend and then he does treat me how I feel like I should be treated.
But if I were on a date, I don't want them to just like be kind of.
But do you consider yourself a queen?
Well, yeah.
Okay.
So just I want some clarity here because people got kind of got confused by my question.
Do you consider yourself a queen?
Yes or no?
By her definition, yes.
By yours, no.
Okay, yes.
Sometimes.
No?
Okay.
I said what I had to say.
Okay, sure.
So, um.
Me, we have two royal royalties here.
Um.
And we have, oh, yeah, the king.
Apa.
Um.
I don't know if anybody considers themselves a king or queen.
This goes for both men or women.
Let's be honest.
Y'all court jesters at best.
More likely a peasant.
Okay, anyways, moving on.
So next question we have here: five, seven and handsome, or six, two and unattractive, Hensley.
Five, seven, handsome.
Five, seven, wait, what was it?
So five, seven and handsome, or six, two and unattractive.
Five, seven, handsome.
Probably five, seven, handsome.
Same.
It's a hard one.
Yeah.
I don't really care about looks, but I guess the five seven.
Five, seven.
Five, seven.
Oh, sorry.
I guess you don't have to answer that one.
Let's see.
Okay, so I'm trying to think what was.
Oh, yeah.
So I wanted to go around the table on this one.
Hold on, guys, one sec.
This is a question I usually ask a little bit earlier on in the show, but is there anything dating-related that you want to get off your chest?
It could be so one thing you wish men did differently, something you don't get about men.
There's a trend in dating that annoys you.
Maybe you want some advice on the situation, dating-related.
Anything you want to get off your chest, dating-related.
Go ahead, Hensley.
I just hate this mentality that young people are looking for their other half.
And I'm like, no, you're a full person.
You just got to develop yourself as a full person and then look for another full person because then you get these two people who are filling this void or these people who are relying on their partner to be their happiness, to be their validation, to be their satisfaction.
And then you get out of this relationship that has been become so much of yourself and you don't know who the fuck you are.
And that's because you've just been relying on this other person for everything.
I think it's kind of silly to be in long relationships when you're young.
I think you should use that time to really find yourself, heal yourself, figure out who the fuck you are.
But it's been really, romance is romanticized.
And I think we've all been so excited to get to an age where we can fall in love that everyone's falling in love with thrift store boyfriends.
Have you had many bad experiences with guys where they were too attached to you?
Yes and no.
I mean, I think it's really easy in the young age to kind of fall into those codependent behaviors because it's new and it's love and it's exciting and there's all this dopamine and serotonin.
So like it's very easy for those habits to develop when you're young and don't know yourself.
And I haven't dated for a while and it's kind of because I've been on this journey of figuring out myself.
What have you figured out so far?
Honestly, that I like.
I've just become very comfortable with being by myself.
I've been able to sit by myself without being on my phone or having stimulation.
I've made my mind a very comfortable place to be in where I don't need all this outside environmental influence and I don't need another person to go have fun and be happy.
Like you always see people where it's like, you need someone to go to the bathroom with them or to go to a club with them.
I'm like, I'm perfectly fine being by myself and I think that's what makes it so easy that like moving forward outside of this, I wouldn't rely on another person for my happiness.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say the same thing.
We're all so young that we don't really know what we want yet and we still are trying to learn what we want.
But on a different note, I would say communication.
Trying to like communicate what like you and your significant other like are okay with or like something that's bothering you.
That's yeah I think open communication is extremely important.
So in your have you been in relationships?
Maybe you're the one that hasn't been?
Yeah.
You've never been.
Okay.
So if you were looking for someone that would be something that's important to you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What about you?
Oh, what was the question again?
I'm sorry, it kind of got like sidetracked.
Brian, the exact question is sort of.
It's kind of just like if you had anything to say about dating or any pet peeves or anything, just kind of in general, you're going to have to say that.
Something you want to get off your chest.
I actually do have a question.
I don't know.
Me and my friends have talked about this a lot recently and we just kind of like wonder why this trend has happened.
We feel like we see.
But like the trend of like open relationships, I don't know.
I feel like a lot of like in high school or like even when I was in like community college before COVID, like everyone was either like in a relationship or like not and then like that was kind of it or like you maybe like were talking to someone at the time but like it wasn't serious.
But I feel like these days a lot of like open relationships are just very common and I've just like never seen that before and I'm just like interested to wonder why.
Are you asking why that's the case?
Not necessarily but kind of I guess.
Maybe like if anyone has any thoughts.
Well I think it sort of has to do with this idea that less women want to commit to one man and so they have the ability to see many different people at once which then causes them to sort of want to have these open relationships and that goes also for the men that are at the top the high value men that have lots Lots of options would be open to having those types of relationships too, oftentimes.
I would also have to agree, like with open relationships, if it's kind of brought up halfway through the relationship, it's normally like you're kind of open to an upgrade, but you don't want to be by yourself yet.
Whereas, like, I know one couple that has an open relationship, and it was kind of from the beginning, like, they loved having three ways together, and there wasn't like jealousy involved.
Like, the girl could be like, hey, I'm going to go fuck this guy because you're doing something right now.
He's like, all right, cool.
And the guy can go fuck another chick, and she finds it hot that he fucks other chicks that other girls want him.
And it is the coolest relationship I've ever seen.
The only successful open relationship I've ever seen.
And it's very specifically, they're both very sexual people that communicate a lot and don't have jealousy involved in it necessarily.
Or if there is jealousy, it's communicated.
But when an open relationship is brought up halfway through and it's like you're kind of over your partner, you're not trying to have like three ways.
You're not very sexually experimental.
I think that's just an upgrade kind of mentality.
Sorry, the dog's under the table walking around.
Sorry, guys, I had to get up for a sec because I could not stand the fucking costume that I got.
I needed to get her.
You can put it on, by the way, if you want.
You guys are sharing it.
I don't know how much closing the door would be.
Yeah, just go ahead, close the door.
So, Hensley, I wanted to ask you, so, and I don't know if we've talked about this in a previous episode, but okay, so you're a stripper.
Is that the preferred way to refer to a I know some girls prefer dancer, for example?
I'm from a stripper.
Okay, so you're a stripper.
Can you, and so, guys come into the strip club.
Can you demonstrate?
Because women, in the strip club, you approach the guys.
You go up, maybe you talk to them, try to get a dance, whatever it may be.
Can you demonstrate to us right now, maybe a little role play, how you would approach a guy in a club?
In a strip club.
You're working.
Well, my stripper name is Dallas.
So I go up and I say, Howdy, how's it going?
Eric, can you hide that soup chat?
Go ahead.
That's pretty much it.
Let's see it.
Show us.
My name's Dallas.
Nice to meet you.
Conversation goes.
Here, okay, we'll do it right now.
You and me.
Okay.
I'm a Mark.
I'm a trick in the strip club.
Howdy, what's your name?
Bob.
Hi, Bob.
I'm Dallas.
How are you doing today?
I'm doing good.
Doing all right.
Nice tits.
Do you get that?
No.
Okay, would that be weird?
For a guy.
Not necessarily, although I don't think my tits are the ones they're complimenting.
They go for the bodacious, if they're going to do that street board.
Well, I'm Team Small Boob, so just entertain me.
They normally wait to see, say, nice tits until they see my tits.
Otherwise, I just have a really good gateway to be like, oh, would you like to see them more?
Let's go get a dance.
Okay, so then you would just say, let's get a dance.
Yeah.
Okay.
I thought that was going to be more exciting than that.
It's really not.
Okay.
I think you got to step it up a little bit then.
No, I make plenty of money.
I do fine.
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
All right.
Fair enough.
Cool.
I was meeting with the manager of the club.
Cello.
Yeah.
And while I was waiting for him, a girl came up to me, and I wasn't, I don't go to the strip club, right?
So she came up.
She was like trying to talk to me.
And I mean, I'm not there to spend money.
I was just there to meet with Cello and then leave.
So she comes up.
She starts talking, blah, blah, whatever.
I'm with Brandon.
Brandon, if you're in the chat, what's up?
And.
Scale of one to 10, how aggressive?
Pretty aggressive.
I don't recall her name, but she was pretty on me.
Not physically on me.
But then I was like, Brandon came in, or I think I came in and I was like, hey, I'm just here to meet with Cello.
Because she is obviously angling for whatever.
And then she's like, oh, are you?
And her attitude changed, shift immediately.
And she's like, are you spending money?
Yes or no?
And I was like, no.
And she's like, okay, boom, and walked away.
I mean, that's how we make our money is we go out and it goes by clientele.
So it's pretty much like, we're getting paid to talk to y'all.
So, and like, you can be honest with us.
You can tell us, like, hey, I don't want to dance or hey, I'm not here to spend money, but we're not going to give you our time for free.
Yeah, I mean, I honestly, no offense to her, just I was there to meet with Cello.
Trust me, she didn't take offense to it.
I imagine she didn't.
Yeah.
I imagine she did.
When you meet guys, does that come up typically pretty early on?
It can.
If I got to be completely honest with you, I kind of suck at hustling at the club, which sounds really funny because I'm a stripper, but it's not my main motive of how I support myself.
So for me, it's kind of easy because I don't have to be this very aggressive hustler who talks to every single John who comes in and it's very to the point like I'm able to actually enjoy company a little bit.
I'm actually talking about outside of the strip club.
Like when you go on dates with guys.
Wait, totally outside.
Do they take issue with the fact that you're a stripper?
Oh, no, most of them love it.
They sing that song where it's like, I'm in love with a stripper.
Really?
There's some type of stripper song that gets sung normally when they find out.
They tell their parents immediately.
Okay.
Are any of you, do any of you do OnlyFans?
No.
No.
Entertained doing OnlyFans?
Okay, there you go.
Let me get these super chats here real quick.
So let's see.
We've got.
Rain, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
Much appreciated.
We got Frank with the $15 super chat.
Hey, really appreciate the Sportman.
You're a legend.
Men, study women so you can meet them in their world and lead them to a better place.
Dating education is so important.
Word, thank you, man.
Appreciate the support.
That's the only super chat we have.
Okay, so let me see here.
What was my next thing on one of those?
So what do you guys think about men?
I like them.
Hensley, what do you think about men?
I know that's a broad question.
It's a very broad question.
I don't have any general.
I'm not one of those people where it's like, all men suck kind of thing, but I don't know.
They're different.
They're fun to play with.
Fun to play with.
What do you mean?
I think she means sex.
No.
Or just.
Emotionally.
They're very sensitive.
So I like taking advantage of that.
That's honest.
Do you feel like a lot of girls do that?
Yeah, that's a yikes.
That is a no, not really.
They should.
We need more female manipulators.
I don't think so.
I disagree.
I think she's taking the piss.
No, I agree.
It's fun to play with guys.
What?
Chase is outside of the studio.
Oh, God.
He's here?
Wait, he's coming?
I didn't know he was actually coming.
Okay, I'll control the camera angles.
Why do you guys like to manipulate men?
Wait, wait, wait.
But we don't have a...
We don't...
We don't really have them.
You sure?
Screw.
I mean, what other?
Well, he's here.
We'll figure it.
Wait.
Go grab him and then we'll figure it out while you're.
All right.
That's pretty concerning that you guys want to.
I mean, who doesn't want to simply?
It's the same.
It's like sort of the equivalent of you saying you want someone who's submissive.
You know?
No.
Yeah, it is.
No, not even close.
You also went to Simbo, where you're like, oh my gosh, you're my king.
Like, you take care of me so much.
And then you want the guy to be like, oh my gosh, you're so beautiful.
You're so excited to drove.
He drove over.
Sorry, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
It's just like fine.
You like to fuck with your feelings.
That's totally different, though.
That's not.
Wait, you like to fuck with the men's feelings?
Yeah.
Wait, question for you.
So we have an impromptu guest.
Would you be willing to sit out for like a few minutes?
You?
But you don't have to.
That's fine.
You sure?
You sure?
We'll get you back in, though.
No, that's fine.
Or if you want, do you want to just like sit on the ledge there?
Like next to Kiki?
No, I just sit out.
You sure?
Okay, we'll figure that out once he gets into the studio, probably in a couple seconds here.
So Hensley, manipulate, you think, just play with men, manipulate men.
What was it you said?
Yeah, no, I think they come to the table with these certain expectations that I'm a woman and that I'm going to fall for them.
And if we like have a fun time or go on a cool date, oh, she must really like me kind of thing.
So it's really just like humbling them and teaching them they should probably communicate better.
How do you humble men?
You know, just kind of letting them make their own interpretations about my feelings, which you seem really good at.
You're spicy.
You're spicy to the next one.
And then once I know that they have their interpretation, which they've never maybe consulted with me, I make sure they remember, hey, you probably shouldn't put these expectations on someone.
You know what you should do, Hensley?
What should I do?
After you hook up with the guy for the first time, here's what you do.
After you hook up, after he finishes or you finish.
Maybe, I don't know, whatever.
The hope is both.
You get up, you take out your wallet, and then you throw 100 bucks on the bed, and then you leave.
I'll do it to myself.
And you say, that's a fantastic fucking idea.
You say thank you.
And then you leave.
I'll do it and I'll come back to the next one.
I'll do that.
Will you do it?
But like, I'm not going to fuck him.
I'll just like make him eat me out.
No, you know what you should say?
It was okay.
And then throw the cash.
Or just say nothing.
Just hand him the 20 and walk out.
If you want to be really toxic.
Yeah, I'm for it.
Oh, gosh.
Chase.
All right, Chase.
What's up, bro?
Chase is in the house.
He had to throw your fucking legend.
What the fuck?
Support your boys?
Chase, they're talking about manipulating men right now.
They think it's a good thing.
Really?
Yeah.
I didn't say I think it's good.
I think it's good.
She did.
You did.
It can be good.
Who doesn't want a munch?
Wait, who doesn't want what?
A munch.
What's a munch?
You don't know what a munch is?
No.
Explain it to me.
A munch?
Yeah, what's a munch?
It's like someone who you use for your benefit, but they don't get anything back.
We're going to have a girl, just one girl pop out, and you'll just take her seat.
All right, I'll chill.
And if you want, we could put like a chair back there if you want.
You sure?
Yeah.
We'll get you back on that.
Oh, he got so much blood dial.
What's his baby?
Papa.
What's up, Alpha?
Thanks for giving up your sheet.
Appreciate it.
What's up, bro?
Good to be here.
What's up, man?
How are you, Brian?
Doing good, doing good.
How are you guys doing?
By the way, if you want, you can take the crown off.
Oh, yeah.
I am going to take this off.
No costume, bro.
No costume.
I came unprepared.
All right, so Chase, you were in the chat.
By the way, guys, Chase was in the chat.
He was watching the show, and he felt so compelled to come on.
He drove over in impromptu.
So Chase, what was the impetus for this impromptu visit?
Yeah, I mean, just felt like the boys needed some support, you know?
A lot of females on the panel, a lot of female energy.
It's good, but just got to balance things out, you know?
Bring some more masculine energy, help balance out the argument.
These two are studs, but just wanted to give you some backups.
They actually do have some masculine energy, I will say.
This is true.
This is true.
Hensley's like, yeah, you're damn right.
So we were talking about manipulating men.
What was the, how did this come up?
They were asking, basically, or they were saying that they like playing with guys' feelings as well.
Why?
I actually disagree.
I don't do that, but I think they're trying to, I don't know if it's like a payback thing or like a trying to get on the same level type of thing, but that's where I feel like they're coming from.
It sounded like they got upset when I was talking about submissive women and how lots of men like that, want that.
And then they were saying that manipulation is somehow justified because of that.
I didn't say I didn't get mad.
No, I was just saying it was an equivalent.
Well, I'm going to go back to the original question.
And the question was, what do you think of men?
Did you get to answer that question?
No.
What do you think of men?
They're men.
Okay.
This is true.
Yes.
Any further elaboration or thoughts?
I don't have an opinion on them.
Put the jacket on.
You're freezing.
We're sharing it.
Oh, my goodness.
So men good, bad, neutral?
Does it depend on what I'll start over here?
What do you think of men?
I don't have an opinion on men, like in general, just the ones I'm interested in.
I don't think about men like that, basically.
You're not that important in my mind for me to be like men.
Let's think about it.
I meant more like there's not specific men, but what do you think of men as a whole?
I don't know.
I really don't know.
Like, I don't think about it like that.
I think women are wonderful.
Okay, yeah, men are great.
Okay.
So last time I was on, there was a girl on the panel who made the statement that men are trash.
What do you guys think about that statement?
Agree, disagree?
I feel like there's some good and some men who are trashy.
It depends on their personality.
I think that's just kind of also a social media wave that's going around.
Like there's kind of this trend you can hop on where it's like you hate men and you get to be part of this community of hating men and it's more of just like a fad.
Do you feel like it's toxic or a good thing?
No, I definitely think it can be a little toxic.
I think that's why a lot of people don't like identifying as feminists anymore because it's more of this idea of like all men suck and I don't think that's right.
Okay.
Flowers.
Props for that.
Did you want to keep going down the panel?
You feel like we took care of it?
Sorry, what was the statement again?
What do you think about men?
Oh, yeah.
I feel like it's so general that like, it's kind of just like, yeah, men are cool.
Cool.
Right.
Because, okay.
Like, like, not all women are cool.
Do you feel like you appreciate men?
Yeah, yeah, most definitely.
Well, I kind of asked the question and Chase kind of made it make a bit more sense is that on a previous show we had a girl say all men are trash and there does seem to be this sort of undercurrent in society that there's a lot of women that are saying men are trash, all men are, you know, men suck, et cetera, et cetera.
And I wanted to get the table's sense of, or their thoughts on that.
What were the opinions on submission that came up?
Oh, submissiveness?
Oh, they were not too happy, especially her.
She was not liking it.
What do you think about the idea of female submission to men?
I think it's great in certain contexts, but the way he was putting it was just that, like, I need a woman to be submissive to me for me to even, like, respect her or be attracted to her or anything.
I don't like that.
Is that an accurate characterization of what you said?
I think that that's, you're on the right lines.
Yeah, I mean, I think that the respect between men and women is very different.
And I think that in order for us to really, you know, respect a woman, she has to be in touch with her feminine side.
And we're not going to respect women when they're working crazy jobs and doing all this stuff.
Like, that's not what we're looking for in a relationship.
He says that to a pre-med student.
Wait, what?
What?
You said that to a pre-med student, so that's just funny.
That most men aren't looking for women who are working jobs.
Yeah, that's true.
I mean, it's true.
It's not what, I mean, I think there are guys that would like that, but I think there's a lot of guys who would much prefer that their wife or girlfriend is not doing something super crazy, like a crazy career or working a job that pays very well.
Yeah.
Wait, so.
I just had to put on the crown.
Ryan handed it to me.
So I want to make a distinction here, too.
Like, I feel like what he said sounded like it was fairly triggering for you, understandably so, because he said men don't respect women for working crazy jobs and stuff like that.
That's true in the context of dating.
Yes, I would like to make that clear, too.
the context you see the you see the distinction there between like dating versus like like i I believe there are women out there that do amazing things.
And I think that's true.
Very good point, Joe.
Very good point.
Like, if a woman's, you said you're pre-med.
If you're a doctor, like, if you're going to become a doctor, mad respect for that.
No, I understood the intent of your comment.
Okay.
Yeah.
Cool.
But, I mean, do you take issue with the fact that men don't really, it's not a huge priority for us, a woman's career or her success or her ambition.
It's very low on the totem pole in terms of what makes a woman attractive to a man.
I do, yeah, kind of have a bit of an issue with that statement just because I don't think like what I'm doing or what any woman is doing in her personal life like when it comes to her work should kind of like count against her like about like attractiveness.
That just kind of seems like you never say that to a man like, oh, you're working so much, you're less attractive or like, oh, I'm not looking, you know what I'm saying?
It's just like, that's kind of a weird.
Do you think that men and women are attracted to the same things?
No.
Okay.
Not at all.
So there's an asymmetry there in terms of where a lot of women, if you a potential partner who's a doctor, that would be quite a match.
But a woman who's a doctor is not, for most men, that's not like, it doesn't make her more attractive.
Whereas a guy who's a doctor, that probably makes him much more appealing to women.
But it seems like to me, you guys are saying that like it's almost like it makes her less attractive.
Yeah, because it does in a way.
Well, I just want to come in.
For me, it doesn't make her necessarily less attractive.
But for some men, it might be the case.
Well, the reason for that is because if we feel that you're going to spend all your time at your job when you could be doing something that's sort of bring us up and bring value to us, that's what we're looking for.
Into the family.
Into the family.
Michael, I just want to point out the crown properly scuffed your hair if you want to fix it.
Sorry, I just I didn't want you that fucking scuff tear the rest of the show.
Yeah, and the crowd looks good on shades, too.
Did you want like a hat or anything?
No, there's like a dent in your hair.
Yeah, fuck.
Should we add to add like further distinction to what they were saying too?
Like for me, it comes down less to attractiveness and more to like suitability for me as a partner.
And that was right.
Like if let's say you have a woman.
In one reality, this woman is, I don't know, working some 60K job at some corporation versus in another reality, she's, I don't know, pulling 200, 300K as a doctor, working 90-hour weeks as a doctor.
In that reality, I'm going to be less drawn to her as a potential partner because it's like, okay, like if you and I get married or if you and I are dating, like you're also going to be spending a ton of your time at your job and it's going to be taking a ton of your energy too.
And that's going to be energy that we can't put towards one another and also energy that we can't put towards building a family versus if she's working some corporate job and I'm making enough money as a man to help her stop working.
Like that's so much more desirable for me as a partner.
Does that make sense why?
And that's you, yeah.
I just feel like that for a lot of men, though.
Men won't, don't want that.
It's just like a bit of a error.
That's all I feel.
I would agree that most men probably don't want that.
And I think a lot of women too, like if you look at the data, sorry.
You guys talk a lot about that.
And I think it depends how progressive you are.
You're also talking to Californian liberals that are, you know, California is a lot different.
If you want to, I like the comment that I saw on here earlier.
Go to a cornfield state and you'll find plenty of women who want what y'all want, that traditional mindset.
But I think we're mostly progressive women who want to work and don't want our income and our independence to be based off a man.
And again, that's fine.
You guys don't want that.
I think you say a lot of girls say that, though, now, but that might very well change in 15 years.
Maybe it won't, though.
This is a different generation and a lot of our happiness is not based on something.
We're learning how to be independent and how to be happy alone.
And I think that's something past generations haven't had to be.
I just don't think we're supposed to be independent.
Like, I think we're supposed to be together.
I do think men and women are supposed to be together.
I also disagree with the statement that we're learning how to be happy alone.
was one of the reasons why i wanted to come in here there's this idea that like women can Perfect, perfect.
There's this idea that women can achieve happiness on their own.
And I'm sure there are women that are plenty happy on their own.
But the number one demographic of Americans who are on antidepressants are single and childless women in their 40s.
And it's by a huge margin.
There's way more women in that demographic that are on antidepressants than any other demographic.
And they also developed a societal influence that was different and wasn't so mental health progressive as well.
Where like, you know, therapy wasn't necessarily as necessary.
And they also grew up with parents who were more traditional.
And so that's been really instilled in them that their happiness is based off this nuclear family and having a partner.
And they haven't been able to adjust that mindset to be happy in modern times necessarily.
We're like, we are a younger group.
We can do that.
I don't think it's from social conditioning that these women are unhappy.
I don't think they're unhappy because they've been told that they would achieve happiness with that.
And they've been programmed to be unhappy.
I think they're unhappy because human beings reach their greatest fulfillment on average, finding a loving partner and having a family.
Like that is, every single young person I know who's had children, they said it completely changed their life and it brought meaning to their life in a way that they'd never had before.
And they're happier now than they ever were before.
And I think that's just part of what it is to be a human being.
I think the idea that you can be super happy, single, childless, you know, drinking wine in your 40s and all that stuff, I think that's a complete lie.
I think that's just where our core beliefs differ then.
And like we can sit here and debate all day and all day, but that's simply like a split in our belief.
I think I would recommend talking with older women that are single and see truly what they believe.
See if you can, you should grab wine with them.
There's a generational divide.
Can y'all acknowledge that?
People are the same.
Can you acknowledge there's a generational divide?
Yeah, sure, that's fine, but that doesn't change that humans want to be together.
Humans evolve.
Okay, but they don't evolve to humanity.
We've been in technology for what, the past 14 years, the way we're doing.
Kind of.
I mean, our sociology evolves, but like what we are on a core level has been pretty consistent for the past 10,000 years.
And we're still, but we're still changing.
We're still evolving.
And yes, like having a partner can help if you aren't comfortable with yourself.
And like I said, with like the dating thing, like a lot of people date and rely on a partner because they can't be with themselves like that.
They look for validation, serotonin, and dopamine in ways outside of themselves.
If they can find a way to do it within themselves, like I said, you can be perfectly happy by yourself.
And you're still going to have company.
You know what I mean?
Like you're still going to have friends and family and pets.
And fuck, if you want to adopt children, it totally works.
You don't need a marriage nuclear family partner to be happy.
And I think that's what a lot of us also had issue with is like the submissiveness kind of went in the direction of like that is what our happiness is based off of.
Should we play that ta clip that you recommended, Chase?
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
Where he's talking about his grandmother.
Yeah, the grandma's a little bit more.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
I think I have it.
Eric, can you pull up?
I think I added it.
Eric, can you pull up the video tab?
Go down to Tate.
This is a very good clip.
Eric, just make it.
I think all young women need to hear this clip.
Eric, can you make it bigger so we can see?
Absolutely.
You know, you can see this.
I'm going to get some water.
Yeah.
Okay, having children.
Do you want us to wait for you?
Wait, what's up?
Do you want to stay because Chase has something, like real quick, because Chase has something to say?
wants to have a debate with you really quick eric bring yeah he wants to have a real quick debate with you and then we can get you out of here if you have to leave Eric, just put it back, Eric.
No, Fix the screen.
Fix the screen.
Center, censor, center.
This is news, and I want to have a debate with you.
Okay, so do we do that?
We could do the Tate clip first since we were talking about it, or let's do the tape clip real quick, and then we'll have you guys have a little.
What's the debate you want me to have with her?
Well, I think some of her points were the reason why you were like, I need to come over and talk.
It was just everything I was hearing, man.
Yeah, so let's watch the tape clip real quick and then we'll have you guys have a little conversation.
Eric, can you tate video?
You never told me.
It's the children one.
It's the last one, I believe.
Yeah, having children.
My life without children is vapious and it's inane and it's pointless.
And you may sit here and think that your career matters, but the truth is that your job will fire you out, women.
Don't give a second.
Don't give a solitary shit.
And when you're 52 and you're past it with no grandchildren in a house by yourself and all your friends have grandchildren, this beautiful life, and you're sitting there by yourself, do you think the fact that you can afford a few extra Gucci bags is going to genuinely make you feel happy?
I was at my grandmother's 93rd birthday.
I looked there.
My grandmother had nine children because there was my father and eight more.
They all had a bunch of kids, blah, blah, blah.
I stood there and I looked at my 93-year-old grandmother and there was a room, a whole room full with maybe 70 people that came from that one woman.
Isn't that remarkable?
That nobody cared about her career.
Nobody asked what job she did.
Nobody asked how many times she went to the club.
Nobody asked if she had time to go to festivals.
No.
You had 70 sentient beings, including myself, full of life from one woman who dedicated herself to being a mother and a good wife.
That is beautiful.
And if you sit here and genuinely think that you're going to work your ass off through your fertile years and by the age of 54, you're not going to be suicidal alone with a cat.
Then you're dumb.
You are dumb.
I'm not going to be able to do that.
You are dumb.
Invest in Chewy.
Bring the asteroid.
All these women are sitting here saying, oh, no, I don't want to listen to man.
I don't want kids to do.
I just want to walk sex in the city and drink martinis and go on a beach.
What kind of life is that?
That's like the worst life.
That's not even real.
It does me.
I never said real.
I never said I didn't want to.
Oh, now they didn't say it.
Everyone.
No, I said I wanted to be a little bit more.
Pull it back.
Pull it back.
Have children and a man who's paying the bills and their mothers.
The happiest people on earth.
I guarantee it.
Your mothers.
Ask your own mother, do you regret having me?
She's going to say, of course not.
You're the best thing that ever happened to me.
So now you're going to sit here and you're going to end your own bloodline.
All your ancestors were out there, surrounded by sabertooth fucking tigers, trying to survive on the streets out there in caveman days, just to get to the final end where we have all the medical care and you can live in a nice, warm house.
For your fucking selfish ass to say no, I don't want kids, i'm too busy in the fucking strip club or going to fucking Malorca to have a fucking, to have a pita colada on the beach.
It's absolutely insulting to your entire bloodline everything everyone above you has ever done and struggled for all the times your grandparents went to work but they didn't feel like it.
Just for you to exist.
For your selfish ass to say no, me and my passions and my dreams and my shit drawings and my instagram page is worth more than ever having children.
You're selfish that you should all have kids okay uh, by the way, big shout out to Fresh AND FIT.
That's a clip from their podcast featuring Andrew Tate.
Check them out on youtube.
Fresh AND FIT um, your guys's reaction to that.
Hensley, call me selfish, but my passions and my dreams do come before children.
I think it's also completely embedded, when you're old, you're not gonna be with your kids.
Your kids are not by your side when you're old, when you're 90, they're not by your side.
Every day they're gone.
They have their own family.
So to be like oh, I need to produce kids, I need to do this, I need to have a big ass family.
You're gonna be alone either way.
Why not be happy in the fact that you had a successful career, you're not gonna be alone and you put yourself up there instead of like focusing on like oh, I need a perfect family.
Who do you think is gonna be happier?
A woman who's retired with zero descendants, or a woman with 70 descendants?
I think it definitely depends.
Not every woman wants a child.
Her grandchildren love her.
They love spending time around her.
She gets hold on, hold on, hold on.
She gets to help raise her her kids, kids.
She gets to spend time around them all the time.
That's the light of these women's worlds.
Obviously, she's going to be happier.
Yeah, but it's not always the case that these people, these grandchildren and their kids, are around them all the time.
Sometimes they don't want anything to do with them.
So, regardless if they have like 70.
So are you telling me you're the kind of woman that wouldn't want?
No, i'm not saying that.
I'm just saying that there are.
There's not many women, but let's, that's not many women, but you're dismissing the fact that there is women.
That's fine, but they can.
They can have those views, but my the issue is that we want to make it clear that that's what does bring happiness, and I think a lot of young girls don't understand that later on.
It's really an important thing.
I think a really important thing is that Hensley has been bringing this up like we are changing as a society.
Yes, you're saying that oh, girls now, like we think that we can be independent and then, 30 years down the line, we're not.
Change can be in a bad direction.
Exactly yeah, is that change a good thing?
Exactly, we are already so overpopulated, like economically, children are not great.
That's such a lie, do you not?
So UCSB housing is like a great example.
There are so many, so many kids without housing at UCSB that need it.
You should drop out of UCSB then to make room for the other.
Stupid people should stop having kids.
Maybe UCSB should just stop enrolling so many people then and make the emission standards higher.
That's definitely true, but it's also like there's so many people who are on this earth.
What's your point?
The point is that we don't need more people and stupid people just keep having kids.
We definitely need to continue producing kids.
Who are those stupid people?
I cannot think of a few.
Like?
Like you.
Wow.
Why do you say that?
Why is he stupid?
Yeah.
What I'm getting down to is basically like that.
Let's keep it respectful.
Yeah, I guess.
He's been very respectful.
This is not a dumb man.
No, that's not respectful.
This is not a dumb man.
That's a complete ad hominem straw man attack.
Let's not resort to, like Chase said, ad hominem attacks.
Because if you disagree with him, attack his argument.
Yeah, just because he disagrees with you doesn't make him stupid.
Will you let me or are you going to keep talking over us like you've been doing this whole podcast, though?
Just go ahead.
I have not been talking over you, but go ahead.
Okay.
What I'm saying is you have very traditional values and we are progressive women and we believe in our dreams and our passions and our moral.
And we also know that we can't do that while we're having kids and while we're under a man's thumb.
So yeah, we're growing our own different way.
And you're saying that, yeah, we should have kids and have 70 more people and keep overpopulating the world, which is already like crumbling and not our economy and everything is not being able to keep up with us.
Right.
But the girls that are having kids, there's a lot of girls at UCSB, right, that would have kids from just having a one-night stand.
That's pretty, I mean, it's not super common, but that's when it happens.
What's your question?
That's not a question.
It's just, don't you think you should look at that and say, like you said, stupid people.
I don't think I'm the stupid person here in the situation.
I think the stupid people are the ones that are going out and having these one-night stands and getting pregnant.
So you're saying that like the only people who should be having kids are people in the nuclear family where the woman is submissive?
I didn't say that.
But I do think that in a family, that's when you should have kids.
Okay.
Why would you have kids?
Like, obviously, you don't need to be married to have kids, but why would you have kids with some random person?
It isn't healthy, though.
I feel like maybe you've had some really good examples in your life where you can look at an example of your family and say, yeah, this is how I grew up.
This is what I believe.
But there's plenty of people who are getting together and in families are unhappy and that's going to reflect in their children and that's going to just continue a family and generational line that I think lots of people should be broken, but they keep having kids because that's the only thing they know.
Think about how many single moms there are out there.
Do you think that raising kids as a single mom is a good thing for the son or daughter?
I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing and you can be a single mom from a nuclear family.
Yeah.
But you know what a lot of these unhealthy families have going on?
What?
The women are feminists and they don't like submitting to the men.
That's right, Chase.
This causes an insane amount of unhappiness.
So women need to be submissive to men in order to have a happy life and happy children.
I think men, and this is what we've communicated, this is what we've communicated.
This is what we've communicated on previous podcasts.
I think men need to earn submission from their wives, learn how to take care of their wives, learn how to provide for their families, learn how to effectively lead their women.
I think when men do this- Where do they learn that skills?
College?
Hold on.
Definitely not college.
Hold on, hold on.
I think when men effectively do this, it creates very happy and healthy family dynamics.
Healthiest families that I've seen where the husband and wife have a happy and healthy marriage, they're regularly having sex, neither of them resent one another, they raise healthy kids with solid values.
These families, they have a traditional masculine and feminine dynamic going on.
I came from a family, my mom did not want to submit to my dad.
It created an insane amount of tension in the household.
And there were so many moments in time where my dad needed to assert frame and lead my mother, and he didn't.
And it created crazy amounts of tension.
What situations are those?
I'm not sure how personal I want to get on a podcast like this talking about my parents' marriage, but I will say there were times when my mom was physically ill, she was dealing with illness, she would be emotionally spiraling out of control when it came to things that my dad was doing in the marriage that she didn't like, things that the neighbors were doing, things that were happening with their mortgage, all sorts of different stuff.
She would make poor financial decisions all the time.
My dad would try and convince her to not do them.
She would do them anyways, and it would bite us in the ass down the line.
My parents had to foreclose on a home, and we lost a lot of what we had because of my mother's poor financial decisions.
And my dad tried telling her, Don't do this.
And she said, no, she didn't want to submit to his leadership.
His leadership would have saved us.
And she caused us a world of hurt as a result.
And this is why that traditional dynamic can work.
I'm not saying that, like, look, like, one of the reasons why women don't want to submit to men is because men are unworthy of leading women at times.
Like, there's a lot of shitty guys out there who don't know how to take care of their woman.
They don't know how to take care of their family effectively.
And in those instances, women don't want to submit.
And it makes sense why.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Okay, you want to leave?
You have to leave.
What's the situation?
I have to leave.
So change.
Oh, because of the conversation?
No, I have to.
I have something to do.
That's right.
What you want to say to me?
I mean, I don't have anything that I want to address with you right now.
Well, okay, you talked about, you said that women are treated unfairly in society.
That was the big thing that you said.
Right?
Is that why you came down here?
I don't remember that part of the conversation.
It's okay.
You can go if you want to.
Are you going because of the conversation or what's up?
No, no, I just have a place to be at.
The strip club?
I should, but I mean, my friend is here.
She can switch with me.
Wait, did you say you should?
You should be stripping right now?
I should, but.
Are you a stripper?
No, no.
But the money they make is nice.
Yeah.
My last take, I guess, before I go is I understand your point, and I understand the women you want because of what you want, and that totally makes sense.
Like, if you want a nuclear family, if you want that kind of power dynamic, find women that are, you know, down for that.
Problem resolved.
But women who don't want that, like, just let them be.
Like, why is that such an issue?
We are letting them be, though.
That's the thing.
We're just simply putting this out there so that change can happen in a positive way.
Why do you want that change?
Because there's so many broken families out there and broken marriages and kids who are in divorced families.
Exactly, who shouldn't have been born in the first place if there wasn't this mentality.
Like, okay, this is a perfect, you know, kind of like solution for you guys.
Women like us, we're not going to want to have kids.
We're not going to have that power.
Yeah.
All right, great.
So then your mindset is going to continue down because of, you know, the kids you bring on and like how you raise them.
So it's up.
Hold on.
What's going on over here?
I like the comment that someone made.
I didn't read all of it, but I like the comment.
Oh, okay.
Sorry to cut you off.
Go ahead.
But yeah, that was basically my point.
Like, you know, you do you.
So you're going to the club?
Is that you gotta go?
No, I just have somewhere to be.
But so you said you want to swap your friend in, or are you both?
Yeah, like if she can come in since she's outside.
What's her name?
Dom.
Dom?
Yeah.
Dom, do you want to come in?
Do you want to come in?
It doesn't matter.
Well, she's leaving, so we have a open chair.
Sweet.
All right, then.
Okay.
Thank you for having me.
Thank you for coming.
Interesting conversation.
What was the last thing you wanted to debate?
Was it the wage gap?
Is that what you were going on about?
When.
Earlier in the conversation, you were talking about the wage conversation.
I was just mentioning because you were like talking about, you know.
Sure.
But yeah.
You seem very triggered by everything I've said so far.
Me.
And like your response to them.
And your response to them is very easygoing.
But when you have talked to me, you seem so mad.
What?
Don't be so emotional.
You're kind of attacking the boys earlier.
No, I'm just, you know, I feel like it's not attacking.
I was emotional?
Yes, very emotional.
I was very emotional.
Yes.
He didn't seem emotional to me.
Three of you have been very emotional this whole time.
We're very emotional.
That's maybe pretty much.
We're very level-headed right now.
Yeah, absolutely.
We're super level-headed.
But it's fine, you know.
This is a great way for you guys to actually express your emotions.
So I support it.
But I have to go.
Bye.
Alrighty.
Just throw in some shade before she leaves.
There you go.
Yeah, just make sure that just place the costume on the table or something.
Is that your Sailor Moon costume?
She's wearing my Sailor Moon.
We tried to get him to wear it.
Yeah, we were, well, we were trying to get, yeah.
By the way, Chase, do you want to take the crown off or how are you feeling?
digging it i feel like your point i i don't want people to take your points less seriously because you're wearing a ridiculous Where'd you put your costume, bro?
Bro, I was so uncomfortable.
You're wearing a hoodie underneath it, dog.
I had to take it off.
It was very uncomfortable.
But I wore it for a good portion.
Do you want me to keep the crown on or take it off?
I say take it off.
I should go change, too.
Oh, Jesus Christ.
What is going on, right?
It's kind of hot in here.
All right.
Take it off.
I put the heat on because she was shivering.
Okay, so where were we?
We were having a heated debate about children and then she had to leave.
you showed an andrew tate video did you get did that did you guys have any response to that yeah Yeah, I think Hensley gave her take sort of your thoughts.
We got to hear more from you.
I know you're dying.
I know you're dying to share.
Are you warm yet?
I am.
Okay, good.
Yeah.
Finally.
We got her.
Do you have any thoughts on the Andrew Tate clip?
Not gonna lie.
You love him?
I wasn't paying attention during it.
Bruv, what are you doing?
That's okay.
What were you doing instead of paying attention to Andrew Tate?
Zoning out.
Why were you zoning out?
Just chose something.
It doesn't matter!
What you think?
All right, fine.
You're just not paying attention.
Fine.
Okay, were you, hopefully you were paying some attention?
Yeah, I thought the video was kind of sad.
I felt like it just seemed that he was reducing women to like, fuck everything, have kids.
And if you don't take that route only, you're never going to be happy.
And I just feel like, why are we like making it so that all women or most, because I feel like that's also been a thing in this podcast, is like most this or a lot of this and a lot of that.
It's just very like blanketing comments.
And it's like, why do we have to put everybody in?
They have to have kids to be happy, or like they can't have a job, or this or that.
And I just feel like it's kind of sad that we need to force other people to do things that they don't want.
We haven't been able to do that.
Not force them to societally think like this should be this way.
There should be change towards this way, that kind of thing, when it should just be like, if you don't want to have kids, you don't want to have kids, cool, fine with it.
I don't want to engender this like societal change that needs to happen from what I've been getting from what you guys have been saying.
Yeah, we haven't been saying like you have to have kids if you want to be happy.
They didn't say that either though.
didn't say you have to have kids if you want to be happy as a general trend as a general trend like i said before the number the number one hold on hold on hold on one second Let me finish my point.
The number one demographic of people on antidepressants, single and childless women in their 40s.
I'm going to look that up.
Like, can I see that study?
Yes, I will show it to you right now.
I have it right here on my phone.
I will show it to you right now.
And this will be great because you will see how dramatic the difference is.
Look at this right here.
Okay, can I see the actual paper that this came from?
I don't have the actual paper handy.
I only have the data right there in the graph.
Oh, just a figure.
Okay, no data.
Yeah, so look at the figure.
I saw the figure.
Look at the figures.
Look how much higher childless women in their 40s are than everybody else.
I'd love to read studies.
What context do you need?
You can have a figure.
Look at right there.
Yeah.
Right there.
White women.
Look at right there.
White women in their 40s at the top of the graph.
White men below that.
Younger adults, minority women, minority men.
Everybody else is lower than them.
You don't need any more context.
Okay, no, we do.
Eric has just pulled this up like a chat.
Oh, awesome.
I don't know if this is the same study that that's from, but antidepressant use increased with age overall in both sexes.
Use was.
So this is a different study, and it found the same results.
Antidepressant use increased with age overall and in both sexes.
Use was highest among women age 60 and over.
Does it say anything about kids?
I doubt that, yeah.
Eric, did you just pull up a random ass unrelated study?
All right, I'd be willing to bet a large percent of those women that are 60 plus that are on antidepressants don't have kids.
That's an interesting bet, but okay.
But also, like, the point of saying this too is because, like, we actually do care.
Like, a lot of girls are, like, they'll say, like, oh, you don't, you guys don't care and all this stuff.
Like, I don't know why you have that reaction to it.
Like, I genuinely do care.
I think Chase does too.
And why don't you just go out and do some of your own research, all of you?
A lot of research.
So, what did it show?
Honestly, it shows that women these days, they are happy with having jobs.
They're happier with having freedom.
You have the studies?
Let's see them.
I don't have the studies, actually.
I'm not sure.
No, you have the studies.
But you don't have to do the students.
You don't have a figure.
You have a figure.
We just pulled up two data sets.
A figure.
Come on now.
It's a freaking study published in the New York Times.
Don't condescend to me.
You know, I just owned you with those statistics, and you're freaking wrong.
Okay, call it whatever you want to call it.
I'm calling it you being wrong, which it is.
It's a fact.
I just showed it to you.
You showed me a figure with no context.
Yes, based on a scientific study.
I'm not a figure legend, so okay.
I could present you with any amount of facts, and you'd be like, no, it's not valid.
It's not valid.
It's not real.
It's not legitimate.
I would love to look at it.
And if you're right, you're wrong.
We just showed you two studies.
You showed me a figure.
Stop calling that study.
Based on a study.
Based on a study.
When you do a study, when you do a study, you take the data and you impose it on a graph.
Wait, you guys.
One microphone.
Have you ever done research?
Guys, one microphone at a time, please.
If you've done research, you should know that you take data sets and you visualize them on graphs so that it's easier to do.
You have to write context for those graphs, which are called a results section and the methods and the discussion.
Yeah.
Okay, so after this, I'll DM you the study, the actual study.
I'd love to.
And you'll know that it's correct.
I love to read it.
Thank you.
Please do.
Great.
Yeah.
Again, all of you, I would recommend go and do your own research on these topics.
Just go and look and see that a lot of this stuff is true.
And I think we didn't come into this podcast either, though, knowing we needed to have statistics.
Yeah, you've shot it with us, exactly.
I would be shocked if any of you did that.
Right.
Yeah.
So maybe we have our own statistics and can defend ourselves a little better.
Yeah.
And what I'm sure you'll find, though, is when you start doing the research that a lot of these things really are true.
That's possible, but we're not going to take your word for it.
That's fine.
That's not even my goal.
Don't even take my word.
That's fine.
Go and do your own research.
That's my only goal.
Yeah, our purpose for arguing this isn't to like try and force women to do something they don't want to do either.
Like, I'm not telling you, you have to go out and have kids.
You have to go out and have kids.
Like, that's not what I'm telling you guys.
The reason why I'm bringing this up is because this narrative that you don't need to have kids in order to be happy and you can fuck your way through your 20s and then not be able to find a guy when you're in your 30s who's a solid guy that you want.
Like this is so damaging to so many people in our society.
The data is already here right now on the number of women that have been damaged by it.
A ton of them are living with regrets.
I don't want to see more women unhappy and childless when they're older.
I don't want to see them buy into the lies.
And if women can achieve happiness without those things, great.
I don't think that that's true of most women.
I think most women, if they buy into that, are going to be unhappy when they're older.
And I don't want to see that, you know?
But I do believe the overall tone of this has been pretty like directed of like, you know, this is including to us.
When I've already kind of mentioned, and I think I'm a little more defensive about it because I come from Texas where I see like these dynamics of like, oh, I need to have a family in order to be happy.
And then they have their kids and they're still not happy kind of thing.
And they don't have a way to grow because they were so reliant on that to be a way of their happiness.
And so it gets brought on their children.
And you see all these generational traumas, like especially my generation just being affected from it, which is why I wanted to go to California, where I'm going to have all these progressive women who want their own dreams and passions kind of thing as their happiness because we can find happiness in that.
I think you're making a good point there because there are a lot of families that are unhappy, right?
And they choose their partner in like the wrong partner, basically.
But you can also take things too far in the other direction.
Like you just said, like coming out and doing that, like I understand why you did it, but also I think that we're moving far too much.
And I do blame a lot of it on modern day feminism for teaching these things.
I do have to give you like one point I do like agree with you guys.
Kind of is like everything I think in society does move on, this very big pendulum, just like kind of with the men as trash thing, you know, like it was kind of like pro-women pro-men, and then it's like it goes in a pendulum and I think, like what y'all are kind of saying is like the pendulum's just very far in the other direction right now.
So, like hearing y'all's point of view from one side, it's really hard for us to find this clash of the middle because, when it comes down to it, we can have all our statistics but our core beliefs are different.
So yes, we both have different arguments and different discussions where it can lead different ways, but at the general thing of it, we believe we'll be able to get old and be happy without a family.
Y'all, Y'all believe that, and, like you, have some good basis for it, but in general, it is common to see, especially from past research of different generations where it wasn't as instilled of mental health and happiness within instead of without, that we would be able to do that.
And I mean, it's honest pessimism, and it's grounded in a good source.
So, I definitely give y'all props for that.
But I also think I have a lot of hope for the future of women and that we aren't going to need this nuclear family.
But I also, my values don't lie in the family.
My values lie in interpersonal, like loving myself.
Yeah, and I'll just make this point one more time, which is that if you feel that way, I would recommend go to women in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s.
Go to them, the single women, and talk with them and see if that really is something that you want to follow their projection.
But I just feel like there's such this huge divide because our generation is one with such a different access to technology.
You know, like just having the iPhone since 2008, like we've completely become different, a different generation.
But what is that really going to change in a relationship?
Access to information, information that can help us become the best.
You're still going to be lonely.
What does it change about what we are as core beings, though?
I think it provides us with teachings from all types of different places where we can find contentment in ourselves.
We aren't focused so much on just constant serotonin boost where we can find peace.
And I think that peace is much more important than necessarily overall happiness.
It's contentment.
So talk to those women about peace, how they feel peaceful, and all those things.
I just think it would be good to talk with them and be like, is that really what you want?
Do you really want to be going down that single path for your whole life?
Like, you can say it, but just go, it's like the same with business.
Like, if I want to become like this guy in business, I'm going to go and mirror what he's done his entire life, right?
So, in the same way, if you want to become that type of partner or single person or whatever, then just make sure that's what you actually want.
Let me get some super chats in and then we'll continue on with some more dating-related questions here.
I'll try to bring it back a little bit.
So, we have Mr. Let's see, I believe, oh, geez, Dave on Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.
Y'all are actually disgusting.
Oh, okay.
And no other girl is checking these shenanigans after talking about how men were toxic and controlling.
I believe this was in response to the whole discussion we were having about, I think Hensley maybe triggered this one.
With the whole, what did you say that we should put men in there?
What was it?
Correct their interpretations.
That's not what you said.
What did I say?
You said something like, it's good to bring men down.
Something like, bring down men.
It's good to humble men.
Oh, yeah, no.
Play with them.
I forgot to play with them.
Play with them.
Play with their emotions.
Something like that.
Okay, I think this was in response to that.
Dave on Jackson, thank you for why is it fun to play with men's emotions?
Give us your 15-second answer.
I don't know.
It's just fun.
Yeah, how would you like it if a guy said it's fun to play with women's emotions?
Some didn't care because they put themselves in a position to be played.
You wouldn't care about those women getting played.
You put yourself in your own position.
Either way.
So you don't have sympathy for all those girls out there that get played by fuckboys?
No, not really.
Okay.
That's pretty heartless, but okay.
Huccini with the $10 Soup Chat.
This one's for Chase.
Is this your buddy?
Thanks, bro.
He is now.
What up, Puccini?
That's definitely not.
What's that guy's name in the profile pic?
I don't know.
That's like Big Net guy, though.
Yeah, I forgot his name.
He looks like that guy from Neckbox.
Let's see.
We got Leonardo No Caprio.
Shout out to Chase.
Shout out to the IG chat boys.
Crazy-eyed Hensley.
Yeah.
By the way, Leonardo No Caprio, sorry I missed last show.
I saw that you became a member of the channel.
Thank you very much, man.
Appreciate it.
Sorry that I forgot to shout you out.
Or I don't know if you became a member or if you gifted a sub.
I think we missed it just because it was pretty fast moving last time.
But thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
And what's the IG chat, boys?
Am I not Chase?
We formed a group chat on Instagram, bro.
Yep.
Is this a mutiny, Chase?
Is this a what?
A mutiny.
No, no.
You're obviously welcome.
I'm teasing.
I'm teasing.
Rain Jim65 with the $10 Soup Chat.
Thank you, man.
Put the crown on Chase.
Ask everyone, what is their capabilities in the household as far as chores listed out?
I mean, these girls don't have any responsibilities in the household, bro.
Capability.
Sexes are equal, dude.
Capabilities.
Capabilities.
Split the chores.
50-50.
Okay, I'll frame it like Rain.
I'll frame it like that.
Do you guys, when it comes to chores, 50-50, split it?
Make the husband do everything.
Kelly, I know you're dying to come in on this one.
I know you're dying.
I can see it burning in you.
I know you want to come in on this.
Come on, Kelly.
What you got?
I would just say 50-50.
Split it down the middle.
Make a list.
I don't know.
Wait, your boyfriend sort of situationship kind of sort of quasi-boyfriend, not really situationship.
Is he currently deployed somewhere?
You said he's in the Air Force?
He came back about a week ago.
Oh, so it's been going down, right?
Or not?
What do you mean by going down?
Okay, so, but you're not a dependipotamus.
A dependipotamus.
A dependipotamus.
A dependa.
Because, like, military girlfriends.
Never mind.
Never mind.
It's like...
She's not his girlfriend.
Oh, she's not the girlfriend.
Is he seeing other girls?
Do you know?
No, she don't know.
Yeah, I don't.
Wait, were you the one that's been in a situation ship for like eight months?
Yeah.
Fuck.
How do you feel about that?
She likes it.
You like it?
you want him to commit bro he her boyfriend is like proper fighter pilot like damn doing the fucking what's it called the The F-11?
Is he top gun?
Is that still in service?
Does he have a mustache?
He's got a mustache, doesn't he?
Fighter pilot, right?
Top gun.
Top Maverick.
Top Maverick, what?
No.
Do you want him to commit?
I don't really mind.
If he does or if he does it.
You don't mind?
Yeah.
So you're cool with him leaving you?
It's not a big deal if he does.
Well, if he stays in my life as a friend, that's what it's like.
Hide that.
Okay.
So are you like if another guy, if a guy comes along and hits on you, do you tell them you're taken?
No.
Oh.
Okay.
Okay.
Interesting.
Does he know that too?
He knows that that would be your response.
I assume he does.
Now he definitely does.
Do you think he's watching the show?
Maybe?
I told him I was filming it today, but I. Would he be upset if he knew you were seeing other people?
Or is it pretty, has there been communication that this is kind of an open thing?
There hasn't been any communication.
That's what you said you wanted, too.
I know.
Is he a Chad?
Huh?
Is he a Chad?
Fine Chad.
Like a fucking legend.
He's a total Chad.
He's a fighter pilot.
No, I was kidding.
Top gun Chad.
He's probably like one of the lowly mechanics.
I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding.
Do you know his position?
Is he enlisted or is he an officer?
I literally don't know what any of you.
You've been dating him for eight years.
Sorry, eight months.
Sorry.
been dating him for eight months you don't what is what's his what's his uh he's an electrician You're right.
Well, no, I mean, yeah.
You know.
That's cool.
Okay.
That's a good job.
What if he was like, yo, I want to wife you up?
I'm going to take care of you.
You don't need to work.
All these military benefits.
Yeah, all these military benefits, still 50-50 chores if he's providing for you or not.
Yeah, 50-50.
So you make him go out and win the bread, but when he comes to the bottom.
I would want to work too.
You want to work, too?
What am I getting?
Wait, what do you want to do?
Remind us?
Psychology.
Psychology?
So you want to be a psychologist?
I don't know what I want to do yet, but I'll start.
Okay.
Fair enough.
Moving on.
Let's see.
So we got ammo with the thank you for the $10 soup chat.
Much appreciated, man.
Many of you seem to not care about what men are attracted to in a woman.
How do you expect a man to ever want to commit to you long term if you don't care about pleasing him?
Okay, we'll go around the table really quick on the super chat.
What do you guys think men want in women?
Totally depends on the guy.
Generally speaking.
Loyalty.
Okay, that's a good one.
Absolutely.
That's a good one.
Very good trick.
It goes both ways.
Of course.
What do you think over here?
What do you think?
feel like most men now just want sex um i mean so in the context of a relationship it's obviously more than the sex right Yeah.
There's loyalty.
Yeah.
And there's other things too, of course.
But generally speaking, young dudes, you're saying only want sex.
Okay.
Okay.
What do you think?
Chun Li?
Oh.
I would agree with her.
I've actually talked to a couple guys who are in relationships and have a conversation with them.
What is it that makes them want to continue in the relationship?
And they said, like, the glue is, I mean, the glutes.
Sorry, the sex is like the glue that keeps them together.
The sex is the main component that you know.
The girls said that or the guy said that?
No, no, no, the guy.
Okay.
That they've said.
Yeah, I mean, that's what keeps us together.
Hold on.
Let's just let the girls go around and then we can come in.
Go ahead.
Can you repeat the question one more time?
I'm sorry.
Yeah, hold on.
I got you.
Hold on.
Just one sec.
Fucking.
What do you think men want in women?
Oh, right, right.
Well, from tonight, submissiveness, but no joking.
Probably compassion, honesty, attractiveness, like in their form of attractiveness.
Go ahead.
Love, charismatic, loyalty.
Charismatic?
Yeah, caring.
Charismatic.
Good personality.
Okay.
This might just be for me, but fun intellectually and physically.
Okay.
Ammo Wammo.
That is what?
Brian, what do you want in a woman?
What do I want in a woman?
Yeah.
Obviously, besides being a 4'11 beef curtain queen.
Yes.
Yes.
Yeah.
Well, I definitely got to start with the height thing.
I mean, if her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one.
First off.
Y'all have high preference.
I got a high preference.
Five feet and under.
Okay.
Large labia, that's important.
Okay, but besides the trolling bullshit, peaceful, she brings me peace.
I don't want a headache.
That's pretty much one of the worst things.
Just a quarrelsome.
Someone who's really quarrelsome, that's an issue.
Someone who's pleasant.
That's kind of related to not being a headache, though.
Sexual fidelity from the jump.
Low body count is good.
And shit, I feel like I'm forget that something's on the tip of my tongue, but I'm kind of forgetting it.
That's kind of it.
What about you, Michael?
Sorry, there's probably like a couple other things, but honestly, peace is the big one for me.
Yeah, actually, Mickey Mick in the chat is saying everything that he's saying.
I completely agree with what you just said.
But I think it really comes down to, yeah, it's respect.
It's respect.
We just, we want to feel that you appreciate what we're doing and that you just, you see that.
And you see that we work very hard.
A lot of us want to work very hard to make relationship work with you guys, girls.
And I think a lot of times that respect isn't there or they feel this sort of competitive, they feel competitive, like they need to have that job and be doing equal stuff in the household.
But going to that, the equal thing in the household becomes a little of an issue because what happens is, let's say you want your guy to change the kid's diaper and do the dishes and do the laundry and all these things.
Well, oftentimes those activities, you start to lose attraction to the man because he's doing these things.
And that's not spoken about too much, but that does happen and that often leads to complications further down because when you met the guy, he wasn't doing the dishes and doing laundry for you and the kid and all that stuff.
But now that you're together, now he's doing that stuff.
Now you're starting to lose attraction to him and you wonder why the sex is as good.
You're not as respectful.
All these things.
Have you asked them what they want in men, Brian?
I have not yet.
Should we?
You think so?
Yeah.
What do you guys want in men?
Same thing.
Fun physically and intellectually.
Come back to me on that one.
Come on, Kelly.
Come on, Kelly.
Fighter pilot?
It's a deep question.
You know what?
I have a theory with Kelly and her situation, sort of kind of not really boyfriend thing.
If he was flying a fighter jet, you would be his girlfriend.
You would push to be his girlfriend.
But because he is an electrician in the Air Force, desk duty.
Right?
I don't know.
Anyways, I agree with that.
If he was just an absolute stud with a highly coveted position in the military.
And the fighter jet.
It would increase his attractiveness and desirability, no question.
So that's what's holding you back that he doesn't fly a fighter jet, right?
I think I've got it figured out.
Right, Kelly?
No?
It's not the fighter jet thing?
No.
Okay, fair enough.
Go ahead.
Respect, not because I respect them, but just because we have respect for each other.
Intellectuality, I think that's hot.
Loyalty, honesty, good communication, compassion, love.
Yeah.
Just respect.
I'd say I'd want someone to match my energy.
I would have to say the same thing.
Like, they have to be respectful, fun, and smart.
Chase, what do you want in a woman?
There's a lot of things I want in a woman.
I want to feel equally yoked to her.
Like I want her to be, in a sense, my equal as a woman.
I want her to be a good representative of our family name outside of the house.
So like one of the criteria I've recently come up with, like I want my wife to be like first lady material.
Like I want her to be a woman who's like capable of like earning respect from other people outside of the home.
Obviously I want her to be submissive.
It's not the kind of thing where like She has to be like a lapdog or like like I'm gonna command her around like a dog or anything like that But like I want to earn her submission and I want her to be happy following my lead and there's a lot of women out there who are happy following a solid man's lead Obviously faithful loyal all that kind of stuff.
I want her to be a good partner that I can build a life and an empire with you know I know you're out here trying to build an empire.
You're picking up what I'm putting down.
Absolutely man.
And I want to be able to.
Wait, I just want to ask you one clarifying question on that, Chase.
You said you want a woman to build an empire with you.
Yes, I want her to be able to be a partner with me in the process of building an empire.
I want to ask you a question, Chase, and maybe you've heard this saying before is that don't shoot the messenger here, guys.
Women don't build, they move in.
So and another way to say it is, oh shit, sorry.
There's another one that goes something like women aren't going to be with you on the journey.
They wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.
Yes.
So do you have any, I'm not saying I necessarily agree with that, but that's a common saying that is sometimes heard.
Do you have any thoughts on that, Chase, given what you just said?
Of course, bro.
I think it's generally true.
I think that women, they like to wait at the finish line and pick the winners.
And I think that's why a lot of young dudes struggle to find a girlfriend is because they're not a winner yet.
I think it can also be said, though, that women are very good at detecting ambition in men.
They're very good at detecting confidence.
I think women are very good at identifying a man that they think is going to go places.
And oftentimes when that happens, women will be like, okay, I want to ride the rocket ship with you on the way up.
So I don't think what you said is like a hard rule.
No, I'm not saying all women.
Yeah.
I'm not saying all women.
Yeah.
Does that make sense, though?
Yeah.
And I also like, like, too, like, I watched a clip of Grant Cardone this one time.
He was talking.
He was talking about how much he loved his relationship with his wife.
And he gave this example of like, I can't remember how much money it was that he was shooting to make.
It might have been like a billion dollars.
He said that he wanted to make a billion dollars with this one venture.
And his wife was like, Grant, you're so much more than that.
Why don't you shoot for $10 billion or $50 billion, right?
Like that's the kind of woman that you can build an empire with.
And when a woman recognizes the greatness in you and reminds you of it, that is such an awesome trait because it spurs you on.
It makes you more confident.
But it also, she's also benefiting from it too, because she's pushing you to build more for the family, for your guys' legacy.
And she's going to support you in that, ideally.
Like, I want a woman who sees the vision and is down to partner and support me in building that, you know?
I absolutely agree with you, too.
I mean, because we will fight really hard.
And that motivation and that love and having that from a partner is something really special.
And it's hard to find.
And on what you said too, Brian, it's this idea of women fuck the guys at the finish line.
It sort of gets into where value comes from.
So like guys are not, don't have a ton of value just for how they are.
They have to earn it, and it takes a long time to earn that value.
Whereas girls are born with it, and they're always from a young age treated with a lot of the time looked at and taken care of.
And when they're in their teens and early 20s, guys would love to simp over you, girls, and take care of you and do whatever.
But that gets a lot different the older you get.
So you do have to consider that when you're in your early 20s, that now you have a big selection of men, but that does diminish the older you get.
Let me just get through some more soup chats just because we're really behind here.
Let's see.
Okay, so we got, let me just make sure I'm on the right one.
Crispy Kim with the $10 Soup Chat.
Hey, man, appreciate the support.
You're a lad.
I hope Chase brought some holy water.
Don't waste it on Hensley.
Oh, my God.
Her demonic energy will evaporate.
Will evaporate it before it can get close enough to have any effect.
Asian Girl is the only one that gets salvageable.
Salvageable.
Shots fired.
Shots fired.
Okay, Crispy Kim with the $10.
Thank you, man.
Really appreciate the support.
You like the demonic part?
What part of all of it?
Okay, all right.
Okay, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
We got Dave on Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat ending her bloodline so she can dance on men she clearly hates for money.
Holy shit.
You laugh, so do you think there's some truth to that statement?
I just, I like that I picked today where this outfit.
Interesting.
Okay.
Why?
It just seems very, I don't know.
I guess I'm not sure.
Apropos.
By the way, do you hate the men in the strip club?
No, not all of them.
Okay.
Well, I mean, like, the ones who can still see me as human, and I understand it as a job where, like, you kind of go in and we're objectified, but, like, there are people who treat you as humans and people who don't.
And the ones who don't, it's definitely like, oh.
When they don't treat you like a human, like, do you, will you still stay professional?
Will you ever tell them, like.
No.
Well, like I said, I don't, because it's not my main hustle, I don't necessarily have to engage with those people.
And you can tell pretty quickly when you talk to someone within the first few seconds whether they're going to treat you like a human.
So I am lucky enough to where I can just be like.
Have you ever had to slap a guy while working?
No, I'm waiting to, though.
I'm kind of excited for that.
You're looking forward to it.
Do you ever look down on the guys in the strip club?
Sometimes.
Yeah.
Why?
I can imagine that.
It kind of, well, like, you have the ones who come in just for fun or they're in town traveling, and then you have the ones where they are in there because they can't interact with women in the real world.
And you kind of see from their personalities why.
Like, you'll get the ones that come in and they're just like, you know, why do women think they're just too good?
Or why do they always go for the shitty milk?
Like, where you're like, hmm, you just seem like an uncool dude.
What kind of percentage do you think that is?
Like, is it mostly men that can't interact?
It depends.
When you get weak to the weekends, it's a lot of like college party kids, people just coming for fun.
When you get like the Monday, Tuesday crowd, kind of, it's like 50-50.
Okay.
All right.
Hold on.
Let me get the next soup chat going here.
So we got Richard Joy.
Eric, if you could just star that other one that came in and we'll get to it.
Richard Joy, thank you for the Canadian $10.
Would you date a trans woman?
Wait.
But mostly women here are male to female?
Yeah.
Male to female.
Richard, clarify for us in the chat.
Is this male to female or female to male?
Male to female.
Whatever the preference is of what you're doing.
He might have meant, would you date a woman who's trans and has become a male?
I think they might have meant like trans men.
Yeah, because like most of the women.
I think so.
Let's just go with that.
Would you guys date a trans man?
A woman who turned into a man?
Yes or no?
No.
No.
Kelly?
No.
Even if he's a fighter pilot?
Still no.
Okay.
I don't know.
I've had this conversation actually a lot because I had a friend who.
A little closer to the mic.
I had a friend who was dating a trans man, and so we like talked about it a lot.
And I'm like 50-50.
I'm on the fence, but I feel like it would be depending on that person.
Sure.
He doesn't have a dick.
Jesus.
No dick.
Yeah, again.
50-50 still depends on the person.
No.
Okay.
We got so many super chats, so we just got to move on.
Uh-oh.
Okay.
I think I know this person.
Hip check.
Thank you for the $10 super chat.
Not all women want family success and happiness does not come only from having huge family.
Correction to ladies, though.
We have population crisis, not overpopulation.
That is true.
Yeah, we, yeah.
We're headed for population collapse.
Word.
And yeah.
I mean, my personal take: like, I'm not, I think if men or women, they don't want to have a family, I think that's totally, I think that's fine.
But thank you for the $10 super chat.
Appreciate it.
Evince, dude, thank you for the big $50 super chat.
Really appreciate your support tonight, man.
You're a legend.
By the way, guys, check out his YouTube channel.
Check him out on IG.
The chaos in today's society is directly due to the exploitation of women for the purpose of creating persuadable, impressionable offsprings, all for the sake of control.
It allows for any desired agenda to be effectively accomplished.
Brilliant.
Poetry.
Poetry right here.
The chaos in today's society is directly due to the exploitation of women for the purpose of creating persuadable, impressionable offsprings, all for the sake of control.
Are you saying that human reproduction is a psyop for the purpose of controlling humanity?
Or are you saying human reproduction is a psyop for the purpose of controlling a portion of humanity?
I'm confused.
I don't know.
But hey, thank you for the support, man.
Really appreciate it.
We got Mike Davis here.
I was about to bring this up.
I think this is his first super chat of the night.
Mike Davis, I know you sent this.
Oh, there we go.
Also, try, you can add shit, whatever.
I think this is the first super chat of the night, but I think he sent this probably like 30, 45 minutes ago.
So I don't know if you're still in chat, but man, really appreciate it, Mike Davis.
Chase brought out the flamethrower.
He's about to be called racist.
Okay.
By the way, Mike Davis, if you're still in chat, you have some competition for a few things.
Your BBC is on the line because we have Evince in the chat, and we've also had Dayvon Jackson in the chat.
So watch out.
They're coming for this too.
So just saying, Mike Davis.
Oh, my God.
Crispy Kim with the $10 Super Chat.
Hensley is actually a fairly intelligent girl, but she has gone so far down the progressive rabbit hole that I doubt anything but her own reality will convince her that progressivism, did I say that right, can go too far?
Hensley, you want to clap back at that?
Thank you for the $10, by the way.
Thank you.
I mean, I think I kind of did address that when I say, like, coming from where I'm at, I've just had a lot of examples of why I'm defending it so hard.
And I think you guys have kind of taken one side and I've taken the other side.
I don't necessarily believe in dogism, dogmatic.
You know what I'm saying?
That word, yeah.
That word.
Sorry.
Normally I do know it.
It's like dogmatism.
Dogmatism.
Thank you.
Yeah.
But I think can you just drop Mike Davis?
Bruh.
Sorry, Mike.
Mike Davis, I'm sorry.
Accident.
But yeah, definitely, like, I was even kind of debating a little far on that side, but that just kind of agreed down the rabbit hole it went down.
But real quick, while we're here, I do want to say I completely understand your perspective.
I've spoken with people from Texas.
There's a lot of unhealthy marriages there.
I can see why you feel the way that you do.
And I also agree that the idea that having a family will bring you perfect happiness in life, it's not true.
Yeah, and I think also I'm definitely like seeing it from like people in Texas having it at my age.
But I have seen examples of someone where it's like that is, they don't have the passions and dreams.
And all they've ever wanted to become is a mother and they become a mother and they do have a lot of happiness.
That is so far from like my understanding that to me it's easy to look at like this opposite side and be like, that's so stupid.
You don't know who you are.
Like you don't have your dreams or your passions.
But I am not able to really like get into that mindset of like, oh, like everything in my being wants to be a mother.
That's all I want to do.
Like I want to have this family.
Yeah.
Have you taken the NIQ test, Hensley?
No, I've done like my SAT and stuff.
Okay.
I just want to say to you, Hensley, to your point, broken people make broken families.
Yeah.
And there's a lot of them for sure.
Yeah.
But I can also, I think as y'all got further into your point, I definitely could see where I was leaning, but I was very far in my argument.
But also like a healthy family can produce healthy children.
I've just seen very rare examples of it.
And I think the way it's like romanticized now, there's so many people doing that for the objective of like the family is going to make us happy without them being happy individuals.
Word.
I would also say to you that I think a lot of those really broken families don't have Christ at the center of their households.
And I think when a father and a mother truly have Christ at the center of their household, you can build very, very healthy families.
Okay.
Now, of course, there's a lot of people out there who call themselves Christians, but they're also broken people and they do have unhealthy families.
That can definitely be its own argument.
And I could definitely agree, like, having a source of spirituality where you believe like those morals of like being a good person.
And I like that you brought up the fact like, you know, calling yourself a Christian is like standing in a garage and calling yourself a car kind of thing.
Like there can definitely, but I think there is, there can be something to it.
Certainly.
Yeah.
That we don't have to get in deeper now because I know we got super chats.
All right.
Mike Davis with the $10 Soup Chat.
These degenerates will learn their lesson when it's too late.
God already carving out a seat for Chase for gatekeeping these streets.
Doing community service.
By the way, Mike Davis, thank you.
First off, thank you.
Are you still in the chat, by the way?
Let us know.
Can you finally address the vigil, by the way, the photo in the frame?
Can you at least just say, I noticed it?
Okay.
Killing me, man.
Killing me.
Okay.
Mike, thank you for supporting Brian.
Thank you for your funny comments.
Yeah, no, thank you.
Thank you for the support, man.
Mike Oxlong with the $10 Sup Chat.
I find it funny that the stripper is trying to convince us that she's happy.
Jesus.
I would say I'm a lot happier than most of my peers.
Word?
Okay.
Mike, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.
Really appreciate the support there.
Mike Narciso, $10 soup chat.
The girls have been chuckling over this one, I think.
I know Oz's back is hurting from all the levitating at night.
What is that?
It's an inside joke with my housemates.
Will you levitate?
Can you explain that?
Explain it real quick.
Come on.
No, we were watching like a horror movie and the girl was possessed and she was levitating and they just started saying that I levitate.
Do you levitate?
I don't.
Are you a levitator?
Okay.
Michael, thank you for the $10 levitating soup chat.
I paid for that.
Appreciate it, man.
Mike Davis with the $10 Soup Chat.
Keep that electrician away from the fuse box.
You already know he about to get dumped.
She got low energy about him.
Kelly, would you like to respond to Mike Davis?
No.
Come on, Kelly.
I know you got.
Yeah, Mike's right.
Come on, Kelly.
Mike's right.
Y'all are lukewarm about one another.
If you find a guy that you like, you know you're going to leave him.
Well, that's if I find a guy that I like.
That's if I find a guy that I like.
Right.
Yeah.
Ah, okay.
So would you say that...
she did confirm it folks so would you say that i'm not impressed by your performance All right, moving on.
Oh, whoops.
Hold on.
We got Dr. Durden.
Thank you for the $10 soup chat.
What's up, Tyler?
Ladies, try to answer this.
Seriously, does that 50-50 mindset work if you're home with your guy and there's an intruder?
Good point.
Do you say you got this one, babe?
I'll get the next one.
Okay, so.
It's a great question.
Yeah, and I've been meaning to try to bring this up in previous shows.
Thank you, Tyler.
So, thank you, sir.
There's a home invasion.
Would you want the guy to protect you?
In that situation, do you want it to be 50-50?
When there's a home intruder?
I can grab a bat and start swinging.
Okay.
How much do you weigh, by the way, just curious?
Less than 100 pounds?
Last time I went to the doctor was in May was 93?
Less?
85.
100.
Down or up?
From what number?
From 93.
Just tell us how much you weigh.
Just tell us how much we're 98.
Okay.
Okay.
So you guys are both laying there in bed.
You hear a window smash downstairs.
He turns to you and he's like, babe, you got this one.
Are you pissed at him or no?
No.
Not if we have a gun.
I'm chilling.
I'm like, let me get it.
You have no gun.
I'm still let me get it.
I have a.
Yeah, no, I'm cool with it.
I'll get it.
Seriously.
Yeah.
Do you just like only date soy boys or what?
No, not at all.
It's just like, that's an opportunity.
Again, from Texas.
Intruder, that's an opportunity.
So there's two of them.
Well, I'll get the smaller one.
Okay.
What about you guys?
I've been like, oh, go for it.
No.
I was going to say, I feel like my natural instinct.
Hold on, one sec.
I got to address something real quick.
But Mike Davis here, since we have him.
Mike Davis, you said that you can't come on the show because of your identity.
Well, I was talking about a mask.
Will you wear this?
It's a guy Fox, Viva Vendetta mask.
You wear this during the show.
No one will know your identity.
Just saying, I'm throwing it out there.
Thank you for acknowledging the vigil, by the way.
Okay.
I feel seen.
Were we still talking about the guns?
Yeah, she was about to say.
Oh, I was just going to say, I feel like my natural instinct would be like, get up and grab something.
But none of you want a man to just protect you.
None of you go at it together.
This is such fucking bullshit.
I just don't buy.
This is all cap.
Your biological instincts.
No, your biological instincts are going to kick in and you're going to be like, okay, babe, like do something.
And if he doesn't and he's like, no, I don't want to and he hides behind you.
You're never going to look at him the same ever again.
Will any of you ever?
Ever again.
Will any of you be honest in saying that you would like a man to protect you?
Well, if we're going at it together, then like, well, he is protecting me.
We're protecting each other.
So Is that not true?
But if he really wants to protect you, he's not going to want you to fight too.
Yeah, but at the same token, like, if you both go at it, that's two persons versus one.
But let's just be clear, like, you're in a bar and someone and someone is causing some trouble and he's going to hide behind you and say, you got this one to you.
You want that?
No, I wouldn't want that, but at the same time.
But that's equal.
I'd say it was a different scenario.
Yeah.
You said home intrusion.
So that was the situation that I was thinking about.
But just in general, like protection-wise.
Protection, like if a bar, if we were at a bar and something like jumped off, yeah, I'm going to be like, don't like coward behind me, but like, let's go.
Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like, it doesn't, it's just a different situation.
Like, like, yeah, of course you want someone to protect you, but it's not like the way you're trying to like frame it, it feels like.
I'm just saying a man that will protect you in any circumstance, like who's going to get up and.
But that wasn't the question, though.
Well, but I'm bringing that up right now.
Okay, yeah.
I would be a little weirded out if a guy cowered behind me and said, go fight that guy for me that's bigger than you and all of that.
So why is it so hard to say that you want a man that would protect you?
I just said it.
Okay.
Because none of you spoke up.
Yeah, but there we go.
You're some honesty.
I agree.
And that's okay.
That's okay to agree.
Yeah, that's okay.
That's how it's been for all of humanity.
Brought up.
That's what we had answers for.
I feel like you guys said no because you guys have this, you know, feminist men and women should be equal kind of thing going on.
And that's why you guys wanted to say that.
I feel like it's to push that.
But I feel like in a real world scenario, it would be very different.
Yep.
But I'm glad we got somewhere.
Like, I'm glad that you just said that because I think you kind of spoke for all of them, which is that they do want someone, a man, to protect them, which is for the men out there watching to be someone that can protect you.
Yes.
You know?
Yes.
Let me get these other soup chats here.
Alfredo Montalvo, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
And the subsequent $10 soup chat from Alfredo.
Thank you, man.
What up, bro?
I'm a big fan.
Could you ask Gaza why she's always levitating?
All right, I guess this is one of your homies in the chat.
Why are you always levitating, though?
Huh?
Have you ever seen me levitate?
No.
I saw you earlier levitating.
You levitated right across the fucking table.
Just levitated.
Okay, Alex Mack with the $10 soup chat.
Chun Lee costume is a W. Christina Applegate, you got to put me on.
This podcast is dope.
West Coast FNF.
By the way, great merch I did would be putting it's whatever.
Just my thoughts.
Thank you, man.
Yeah, I definitely need to redo all the whatever merch.
Shop.whatever.com.
Okay.
Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
The Vigil.
Okay, nice.
He acknowledged it.
Sweet.
Also, we got to start a hashtag pray for the electrician.
Guys, in the chat, can we get pray for the electrician in the chat?
I want to see it blast it.
Blast it in the chat.
Hashtag pray for the electrician.
Thank you, Mike Davis.
Appreciate it, man.
Mike Davis with the subsequent $10 soup chat.
Hensley looking hot.
Not going to lie.
All this talk, but where can I see her strip?
Hensley, I'll leave that one to you.
We need more money first.
He'd probably be down to bring it in the club.
No, I'm here to support the whatever.
Good woman.
Hensley's a fucking lad.
Okay.
So that's it on the super chats.
So, wow, quite a few.
Thank you guys so much for the support tonight, guys.
You guys have been really great.
Really appreciate it, man.
Thank you.
Thank you guys so much.
So Got a question.
Is dating harder for men?
Yes.
Kelly.
Yes and no?
Okay.
I don't know.
Okay.
I hear a lot of mixed stories and things from people around me, so I'm going to say I don't know.
The question was, is dating hard for men?
Yeah, harder for men.
Is dating harder for men?
Well, shouldn't you ask yourself that?
I don't know.
Like, why are you asking us?
He's just asking what your opinion is, what you think.
Okay, do you think dating, I mean, I could reframe it.
Is dating easier for men or women?
I think it's easier for women because you don't necessarily have to try.
You know, like guys will come to you.
So yeah, it's definitely hard for men because they have to approach the woman and initiate it.
Most of the time.
Answer.
I'm going to say it's harder for men because I feel like women are really picky, especially about looks and personality.
I'm going to say it's a hard yes, but it's harder for men only because I understand where Kelly's coming from about the whole situation ship.
Because before I dated someone, they were like, took like seven months as well.
Dude, these were the most honest answers.
Yeah, I know.
I was hard from a female.
Seriously, thoroughly.
That was awesome.
Chase, what are your thoughts?
Yeah, I think it's much harder for men.
I mean, you know, you guys know the data.
Most women look at most men as unattractive.
What was it?
Like, girls on dating apps looked at 80% of the guys as below average, was it?
It's something really pretty crazy.
Yeah, and like, what's your name, by the way?
Anna Eve.
Say it again?
Anna Eve.
Anna Eve, like you said, girls don't really have to try.
Guys just come to you.
Chicks don't just come to guys.
99% of dudes don't just have women coming to them.
And I feel like if they are coming to the guy, it's because they're like really attractive.
Yeah, exactly.
And that's where when you get to a certain caliber of guy, like when you become the man, the 10%, 5%, then I think it switches.
then all of a sudden I think it can be even easier because all the girls want you, and then you're definitely.
And a perfect example of this is, I think earlier on in the show, I asked all of you about you guys getting DM'd.
And I think most of you answered like how, right, how frequently you get DM'd per week or something like that.
So I want to ask the guys now, how many times has a girl slid into your DMs?
And like, it's clear she's kind of interested.
Oh, it's extremely uncommon.
Like, how many times has it happened to you?
20.
I don't know.
20 times?
Yeah, I don't know.
It's pretty solid.
Yeah.
That's pretty good.
I've had gotten DMs two times from girls.
Two times.
Seriously.
My entire life.
Two DMs from girls.
But yeah, it's super uncomfortable.
What about you, Chase?
And.
No, no.
I would say, like, in my total life, probably, like, 20 to 30, maybe.
I had a girl ask me to marry her after watching one of our episodes.
Wait, the Swedish chick?
Was it the Swedish girl?
It might have been her.
Was it the Swedish girl?
I've only ever had two girls ask me to marry them in my DMs.
Wait.
So you came on the show and a girl DM'd you asking to marry you.
Two.
Okay, so the Swedish chick came into my DMs.
She said, I watched the whatever episode.
I think I'm in love with you after watching that.
A different girl asked me to marry her.
And then I made a video about why I was voting for Donald Trump and I put it up on November 2nd of 2020.
And after I put that up, then a different girl asked me to marry her in the DMs.
Also, I think maybe also for us to like.
You good, Eric?
Yeah, I mean.
The question, Maybe how many girls in real life have because that's definitely been more common.
Chase, I think you've just frightened the entire table.
Did I?
You guys think I'm the devil after saying I voted for Trump?
Is that why you said that?
I saw the looks on the girls' faces.
What were the looks on their faces?
They're petrified.
Why died over here?
I mean, hey, that's your preference.
I'm not going to go against that.
I voted for.
I didn't vote for Trump.
I didn't like either of the candidates.
I had to throw it away.
Well, fuck.
I can't.
Never mind.
Bro, I've never seen anything that can catalyze a mob of liberal women to come after you, like encouraging people to vote for Donald Trump.
It was the funniest thing ever.
I had so many girls I went to high school and college with just attacking me, dude.
And so many bros that were like, let's go.
A lot of conservative girls, too.
A lot of conservative girls were like, Chase, this is awesome.
Good job.
It's so funny looking at you guys' stunned faces on the TV right now.
Okay, we're going to move away from the politics there.
Hey, Eric, did we get a super chat that came in?
Can you check for that?
I think I started.
It's not start on my end.
Chase, have you been hit on in real life more than through social media?
I don't know.
It's probably been about equal.
About equal.
Yeah.
Okay.
No strings attached TV.
Thank you for the Canadian $10.
Women in 2022 can even say they need men?
Wait.
Women in 2022 can't even say they need men.
Oh, he meant to say can't.
They can't pay for a super chat and then totally typo it up.
Yeah, I think we get a lot of typos here.
Such an L. Get a lot of typos.
Okay, so they said that.
I think kind of like the last thing I want to ask is drum roll, please.
What do you got?
Okay.
Are you trying to pull it up?
Yeah, I try to fucking pull it up, but it's not fucking.
Okay, here we go.
Do you think it's wrong for men to care about a partner's sexual past?
So, for example, a woman's body count.
Do you think it's wrong for men to care about a potential partner's body count?
Hens League.
I don't think it's good to necessarily be biased about it.
You know, like, I've definitely, like, I don't know if y'all have seen the video where it's like, you go and ask men, like, how many bodies is okay?
And they'll be like, two or three.
And you go ask women and they'll be like, well, as long as they were safe and they're tested, you know, it really doesn't matter.
So I'd say, like, if you want to be really like skeptical about a woman's body count, that's fine, but you better have a low body count as well.
Kelly.
I agree.
You can't be skeptical about someone's body count if yours is like way up there.
I just got to hop in here because the issue with that statement is that girls want experienced guys.
So you're going to be attracted to a man that has lots of experience, which is going to mean that he's been with many women.
That's the only issue.
So do guys want unexperienced women?
Yes.
Yes.
No.
Do not believe I don't want like children What?
I don't.
Oh, she said inexperienced.
Unexperienced.
You want unexperienced experience.
Oh, I thought you said experience.
And both you guys were like, yes.
And I was like, bro, inexperienced.
No, she said inexperienced.
Oh, yes.
Yes.
That's what we want.
So like, why?
Yeah, elaborate, because that's an interesting take.
Well, I mean, it's, see, this is where we have to kind of learn about like what the opposite genders want, right?
We want inexperienced women so we can be the ones that sort of show them because they want us, they want us to show them.
Like, you girls want a man who has experience, who's better in the bedroom, who knows how to talk with girls, to take them out on dates, operate, all that type of stuff.
That's really attractive.
I'll give you a concise answer.
Two reasons.
First reason, I don't want a woman who I've shared with a bunch of other dudes.
Wow.
Wow.
Exactly.
But guys don't want that.
Why is that a wow?
Because the world is just way different than I thought it was.
It's kind of sad.
Wow.
That's crazy.
No, but this is realistic.
No, it's realistic.
I'm just, that's how I take it.
Yeah.
A lot of guys feel this way too.
Yeah, I know.
That's the first reason.
It's not sad.
That's the first reason.
No, it's not sad.
That's the first reason.
I don't want a girl who is the town bicycle.
I don't want a woman who's been ran through.
I don't want a girl who's been with a ton of dudes.
And I'm not a guy who's slept with a ton of women.
Second reason, and this is kind of a neutral thing when it comes to the sex, is pair bonding, right?
So the data is clear.
I know you probably won't believe the data, but the data is clear.
The more people someone sleeps with, the higher their chances of getting divorced.
So if you've only had one partner or if you were a virgin when you got married, the data shows that you have a less than 5% chance of getting divorced.
Once the number of sexual partners you've had goes above 15, the chances that you're going to get divorced are above 50%.
I want to have a healthy and strong marriage, and I want to decrease the odds that I'm going to get divorced.
When people sleep with more and more people, I think it blunts their hormonal pair bonding, excuse me, pair bonding response, right?
So when you have sex, you release oxytocin.
I think the more people that you have sex with, the harder it is to release oxytocin when you're pair bonding with somebody.
And I'll give you an example.
I spoke with a guy.
A guy, one singular guy.
I've spoken with many men about this, okay, and they've attested that this is true, but I spoke with a guy who has...
The guys in the friend group, what, the guys...
Hold on, Chase, I'll let you finish this.
One in the chat if you want a girl with a low body count.
Two in the chat if you want a girl with a high body count.
So just so you can get somebody.
Yeah, this is a great question.
Just so you can get some more male input on this.
Anyways, Chase, if you want to continue.
Yeah.
So that's the chat getting lit up with ones.
Almost everybody wants women with lower body counts.
We know you want to fuck children.
It's okay.
We know.
Did you just accuse them of wanting to fuck children?
You want to fuck like unexperienced people?
Like that's just so like you specifically.
A guy wanting a virgin, you're saying makes him a pedophile?
Kind of insane.
This has been the standard throughout all of human history.
And is it a matter of time?
This has been the standard throughout all of human history.
That's wild.
It's not wild.
It's how all of humanity has existed up until now.
You've never heard, even guys in your friend group are just, you've never heard guys say that they have a preference for women who have low body counts.
Like you've never heard this before.
I've heard it, but the mentality behind it is kind of just like, oh, you're used.
Another guy had you first, so you're used.
Like, that's crazy to think of a human that way.
Like, you're used because you have sex.
Like, you guys aren't used when you have sex.
Like, what is the difference?
Because you don't see it the same way.
You like it.
You like when we have experience.
Yeah, and the difference, too, is that it's extremely easy for women to have sex.
All you would have to do is go out onto Delta.
Just walk out.
Hey, you want to have sex?
A bunch of guys will have sex with you.
It's not the same for men.
It's hard for men totally to get laid.
It's hard for men to get laid.
It's very easy for women to get laid.
So it's not like for a guy to get laid, he has to be providing something.
He's bringing some sort of value.
Whereas for women, like you just kind of show up and you can get lid.
It's very easy.
You can get it at the drop of a hat.
But to finish the point I was making, I spoke with this guy.
He said he slept with over 150 women.
It's almost impossible for him to feel a deep connection when he sleeps with a girl now.
And it just proves my point.
The pair bonding becomes harder.
So the more women, you know, my future wife, or the more men my future wife has slept with, the more difficult I think it'll be for her and I to build a deep bond through sex.
And like somebody else said, that sex is in a healthy relationship part of the glue that holds it together.
And if she slept with a bunch of guys or if a guy has slept with a bunch of women, it's going to make it harder for the two of them to have a solid, successful relationship.
Yeah, and also I don't think that many girls can sort of even fathom the idea of how it feels for a man knowing that a bunch of other dudes' cocks were inside of you.
Like, it's terrible.
It is the worst.
It is the worst feeling.
Yeah.
It is the worst feeling.
I don't think girls can relate to that feeling, which is part of the issue.
But there are definitely women.
What'd you say?
Because we don't see men as objects.
Because obviously what you just are saying is you don't want anyone else to taint your thing.
It's like crazy to me.
I believe there's some girls who would think the same way.
Like they don't want.
There's a lot.
Yeah.
There's a lot.
Awesome.
That's what I was about to say is that there's definitely women who can have this exact same standard too.
I think it happens to be the case that women care about it less than men do, but there are certainly women out there that don't want a super promiscuous partner.
Yeah, I know plenty of women that don't want dudes that have just been completely run through.
But that wasn't the question super promiscuous.
It was like a completely unexperienced question.
Well, the less experienced, the better.
Okay.
Yeah.
The less experienced, the better.
Okay, we can ask, I want to ask you guys this question, and we can ask chat too.
Chat, you have a choice.
Even for just a one-night stand, would you rather hook up with a girl who's a virgin or a girl who slept with 50 guys?
Even for a one-night stand?
I don't know if I should do ones and twos for this.
Wait, can I add a stipulation?
What's the stipulation?
The girl who slept with 50 guys, it's going to be the best sex you've ever had.
I don't know if that's a fair stipulation.
And also, I think the one thing that's wrong, too, is if she is a virgin, don't just sleep with her and toss her aside.
Like value that it should probably be more than a one-night stand.
Right, but if that's what's on the table, even in the scenario where it's just sex, so suppose that's a good idea.
I would feel bad.
I would feel bad for doing that to a virgin.
But okay, I think you're up to the bottom.
Yeah.
But I mean, would you rather, okay, let's say the girl who slept with one other guy versus a girl who's slept with you.
Then obviously that girl, 50.
But yeah, oh, yeah.
Not 50.
The one with one.
With the one.
Of course.
Yes, yes.
Well, you're waiting till marriage, right?
Yeah, I mean, if I wasn't waiting for marriage, honestly, I'd probably want what Hensley said.
But if it's a girl with like a 50 body count, I'm not going to touch it anyways.
Right.
You just had to take that as a sexist comment.
You just said you wouldn't touch it.
Well, I think he meant it as in the sex.
I wouldn't touch her anyways.
Yeah, I did.
I did.
I meant it as in the sex.
As in the sex, nothing is not.
I'm not going near it.
Is that correct, Chase?
You meant it as in the sex.
Yes, exactly.
She doesn't just become an it because she slept with 50 dudes.
She's just still a person.
She's still a human being.
Okay.
You don't have to.
But look at everything I say through this lens of sexism and all this stuff.
Let me add one.
What you know you're doing.
I just picked up on what I heard.
Let me also add one other reason why someone with a low actually two other reasons why someone with a low body count is something that men value.
One is obviously the STD thing.
If you have a high body count, then there's a greater likelihood.
The more sexual partners you've had, there's a greater likelihood that you could have an STD.
The second thing is, it's an evolutionary biological thing for men to prefer sexual purity in women, to prefer women with a zero body count or a very low body count.
And the reason for that is fertility.
Sorry, sorry, not fertility, that's another thing.
The reason for that is paternity.
So a woman who is promiscuous, if she slept with a bunch of guys and then you get with her, and this is like in an evolutionary context, if she has a child back in the caveman days, you cannot guarantee who the father is if she's sleeping with a bunch of men.
So evolutionarily, men have a hard wiring to prefer, strong preference for sexual purity in women.
It's a biological, evolutionary, hardwired thing.
Just like how women have, there's evolutionarily, evolutionary biologic, biological hardwirings that they find attractive in men.
Height, for example.
Larger physical stature, these sorts of things.
This is an evolutionary thing that women.
I know.
We learn it in evolution.
Right, but I'm trying to explain to you why men care about...
No, I understand that, but when you devalue a woman because of that, that's the part that is like...
People devalue and value people all the time based on any number of factors.
I know.
It's really sucking.
And paternity fraud.
Paternity fraud is a real thing that's much more common than I think many people realize.
It can be anywhere between 5% to 20% of the father that's raised the kids is not the biological father.
And that's a really sad thing.
Is that really how high it is?
It's a 20%.
It's a shocking percentage.
It's pretty high.
Bruh.
Yeah.
I'm curious what the ladies think.
Yeah, did everyone get to give their take on the body count thing?
I don't even remember what the original question was.
Do they think men want, do they think men care about body count?
Was that it?
No, the original question was just, would they take issue with a guy, or is it wrong?
Do you think it's wrong if a guy cares about a partner's sexual past?
Did you guys answer?
Yeah, so I mean, I think it's valid.
Like, I would probably want the same thing.
Okay, what about you?
I feel like they shouldn't care.
The guys should not care about body count.
Okay, fair.
And then Chun Li, what do you think?
Oh, sorry.
What was the question again?
Is it wrong for guys to care about body count?
No, because you think about sexual health.
It's valid.
You don't want to be passing around diseases.
Excellent point.
Yeah, diseases.
And again, it's not even the disease part.
That's like even second.
It's just the fact that you gave yourself up to so many guys so easily.
I think that it's wrong to value that over the disease part.
I think that's what's wrong is that you shouldn't think like, oh, she's really experienced.
That's so bad.
I think you should more consider like, oh, you know, she's not a good person.
Well, it's going to lead to like more than likely, it's going to lead to a relationship that's unstable.
I'm going to then be dealing with all of her baggage from all of the previous men that she was with.
Yep.
But what baggage?
Women fall in love so easily with men when they have sex with them.
I've met so many girls that just never could get over that one ex that they slept with and was the best they ever had.
That's so common in women.
And if they don't, if they're having lots of sex and then they remove emotion, by that time it's far too late.
Then they're totally screwed.
Then it's like they've had 10 partners, 20 partners, whatever, and they can't parabond with the guy that they're with now.
Yeah.
All right.
By the way, guys, we're going to wrap up here soon in about 10 minutes.
So get your last-minute super chats in if you want.
I had a question for them on the body count thing.
Would you guys, if you had a preference, or if you had the choice between a long-term partner, maybe I know you don't want to get married, but like a marital prospect, if you had the choice between a guy with a high body count, we're talking 50 plus versus a lower body count, which would you guys prefer?
Hensley, do you want to go first?
This doesn't really answer your question, but I just, I wouldn't ask.
It's really just like.
So you don't care.
How.
Yeah, how well they could treat me, sexually.
Maybe I can also add to this.
If a guy told you, you met a guy, he was cool, whatever, but he told you, I'm a virgin, would that sort of dissuade you a little bit?
Yeah.
Okay.
So if you disregard my thing, but if you can answer Chase's.
It was high body count versus low?
Yeah, if you had the choice between a guy with a really high body count versus a low one.
I know Chad's in love with you, but you got to pay attention.
Go ahead.
I would say low.
Okay.
Probably for the same reasons that you guys are upset.
And for diseases as well.
I would say I wouldn't care as long as they were healthy.
So wait, hold on.
You wouldn't care.
So let's say you know he's a player.
He's slept with 100 girls, 100 girls before you.
You're special number 101.
No, nothing.
I mean, you said, what, the person you're in, like, a deep relationship with the money?
No, no, like husband material.
Yeah, husband material.
So if we're getting to that point, like, I should be special 100 number one because you're marrying me.
You didn't marry all everybody else.
So you'd prefer to be like the 100 first versus like the fifth or that?
I'd prefer.
I said I didn't have a preference.
It doesn't like, it's not a factor for me, how it is for you guys, it seems to be.
But between those two, the question was if you had the choice being with a guy with a high one, you know, let's say you're 100 first.
If you had the choice to be 101st or 10th, which would you prefer?
Or fifth?
And like, are they both like healthy?
Like, you know.
Yeah, they're both healthy.
Maybe 110.
110.
We moved from 100 first to 100.
100.
That was how it was.
A few more.
That's okay.
But that's what you just said too.
That's not a factor to you.
And it seems like that's a general.
What if I had to choose?
Yeah, but in general, it's not a factor.
No.
It's not a factor.
I don't go around asking like, oh my God, what's your body count?
Right, but that's where it's okay to acknowledge that we're different, that men and women are different.
And most guys do care about body count.
No, I know.
So that, and it's not like we're trying to be dicks or something.
We're not trying to say, hey, like, you have to be this way.
It's just like, no, this is what we want.
Like, we biologically want girls with lower body counts.
And I don't think there should be something wrong with that.
Cool.
Chun Lee?
Hello.
What?
Oh, sorry, low.
Low body counts.
I thought you said no, I was like, way whatever.
Oh, yeah.
Hello.
low um i would prefer low but um i feel like if i like you i would maybe get past the not the 100 that's a lot But like, if it's like 20-ish in there, I feel like I could get past it.
Yeah.
I would have to say low.
Okay, cool, cool.
We got to get through these super chats and then we're going to wrap up.
So we got Dr. Durden with the $10 Super Chat.
Ladies, because I'm so intrigued by the 50-50 concept, please educate me.
Do you go Dutch on first dates?
Do you stand in line with the guys at club entry and pay in the name of equality?
I think we talked about the who pays thing a little bit earlier on in the show.
And I don't know how many of the girls here have.
A lot of you are under 21, right?
So you're probably not standing in line at the club.
So I'll just ask once again: do you believe in 50-50 partnerships?
Hensley, go ahead.
Yeah.
Just a yes or no is fine.
Well, sorry, what was a question?
Do you believe in 50-50 partnerships?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yes.
Okay.
Chase?
No.
Okay.
No.
Smiling Cookie with the Australian $10.
Really appreciate it, man.
Thank you for the support.
Miss Ebony, okay.
He's shooting shots.
Do you want to strike back at Smiling Cookie?
He's Australian.
Tough comment.
What's going on?
Do you want to shoot?
Miss Ebony.
Do you want to shoot shots back at him?
No, because I know my life and I'm happy with it.
I'm chilling.
Okay.
Tyler Durden, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
Ladies, Durden's time to educate.
The reason men are not attracted to women with high body counts is because of the historical issue of paternity.
Remember, paternity tests is historically infant in its infancy.
Thank you, Tyler Durden.
Yeah, like I said, one of the big things is it's a biological thing.
You can't guarantee paternity if a woman is or was promiscuous, at least historically speaking.
Okay, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
Chase and Hensley on opposite sides of the spectrum, but they're about to have some hate sex after this.
Major cap on saving himself.
If not, then he's going to throw some paper at the strip.
Chase, have you ever been to the Spearman Rhino?
I have not.
No.
Okay.
Should we?
I'll take you there, bro.
I'll do it.
Disavow.
Disavowed.
Disavowed.
My future wife would not appreciate that.
Okay, fair enough.
I went there like 12 years ago, one time, just out of curiosity.
Anyways, Green Lantern, thank you for the 9 Euro.
Much appreciated.
Hensley, come to the UK and be my queen.
I need a new one.
Okay.
She's already got the Tiara.
Hensley, do you want to respond to Green Lantern?
Fly me there.
Okay, her DMs are open.
Okay, so that's all the Super Chats.
Guys, get your last-minute super chats in if you want.
Otherwise, we're going to wrap up here pretty soon.
I want to.
I have a question.
Yeah, I want to open it up.
Final thoughts or question.
Anybody, if you have a final thought or question, maybe for the chat, maybe for one of the other girls, maybe for the guys.
Final thought or question?
And let's start over here.
Go ahead.
Well, did you want to get your point out?
Why don't you make your point?
Thank you.
Earlier in the conversation, you said that a ton of dudes have slid into your DMs.
You don't really answer any of them.
You often don't get them from cute guys.
If a good-looking guy slid into your DMs, would you answer him?
And it wasn't like a creepy question.
Yeah.
No, it's definitely, like I said, you can kind of filter them out pretty quickly, but yeah.
Satisfactory.
Cool.
Yeah, I'd say the one main point that I really want to make is that I do think that we are in somewhat of a gender war right now.
I think that there's two polar opposite views.
And I think that if we can find a way to sort of communicate with each other, especially with younger women who are the next generation about these issues and we can talk about it in a way that comes across well and that it's not hateful, it's just working together to say, hey, men actually like these things, women like these things.
It's okay to be different.
We don't have to be 50-50 in a relationship.
Some guys can do certain things.
Girls can do certain things better.
That's okay.
And I think it's just having that discussion in a healthy manner.
Well said.
Well said.
I'm curious, do you guys think there's a war on masculinity?
Do you guys think that there's people trying to suppress masculinity?
I think it definitely goes back to that pendulum thing I was kind of talking about because so much of the 1900s was very much like white picket fence with the man being in charge and being the very masculine thing.
We're kind of in that counterculture of like going towards the opposite and we're not really finding that middle ground.
We're just jumping to the other side.
I think everything right now is super polarized and very radicalized and so it makes it really hard to find this middle ground even in conversations like I was definitely part of it that like during this discussion, you know, it's very easy to grab onto your opinion and then grasp onto it without really like being open, just having your defenses up.
Exactly.
It's sort of this trigger culture.
Yeah.
And I think that's part of it, like controlling that where you when you get triggered, that goes for men and women.
Yeah, those defenses come up.
Yeah, they come up.
Listening, and there's no way to even find that it needs to resonate.
It needs to go through into the brain.
It can't just go right over it.
Yeah, and I think that comes with definitely like how we are like communicate, definitely.
But I think even like social media has had a big play on it of how we're polarized because even our social media and the feed we get is very filtered to our opinion.
So we think there's so many people backing our opinion that ours is the only way that can be correct without actually having like the general perspective.
It's very well said, Hensley.
Do you think that Andrew Tate is a symptom of the pendulum swinging back in the other direction?
Or his popularity?
Yes, I think he's definitely someone who represents a voice.
And when someone with that type of influence and that many followers has a voice that's radicalized, it gives voice to a lot of things.
I think even, you know, like not to get political, but with the Trump, you know, that gave voice to a lot of like racist voices.
Or even like more recently with Kanye.
Like all of a sudden now the anti-Semitic is like becoming really popular.
Like there's signs and bridges on like in LA streets that are very like anti-Jewish.
And like if you give those people a voice who like are like nervous because they know that it's not woke or it's not as progressive, like they're going to latch onto that person and make them a figure that they can like claim to have, well, look at this person.
They're famous.
They have all this influence.
So I am part of a community.
I'm not alone in my opinion.
Right.
I would agree that people can easily take things too far.
And there's a lot of groups out there that they do take things too far.
So it's good to keep that in mind.
Anyone else final thought or question?
Final thought or question?
Final thought or question?
Chun Lee?
Yeah, I think we just need to work towards more communication and understanding and trying to, you know, maybe not reach a middle ground, but understand everybody and their own opinions and, you know, give them the props for that.
Amen.
Final thought or question?
Okay.
Hensley?
Just a question.
What if you guys met a girl, didn't know her body count, fell in love with her, and then ended up getting married or wanting to propose to this girl, and then later on in the relationship, after you've already fallen in love, realizing she has a high body count?
Is that just a deal breaker?
Because is she a 4'11 large labia queen?
Is that a flavor?
Absolutely.
She's got a large label.
It's a tough one.
You're in love.
You like the girl.
Every other part of it is.
It's so unrealistic.
But say it is.
The reason why it's unrealistic is because you're gonna tell, you're not gonna.
But you're that 1% who found that girl.
You found the one where it could work.
Could you do it?
Or is that just a straight absolute no?
It probably depends.
Are we already married?
Are we already married?
You said married?
No, but like you want to marry her.
It's that deep.
Oh, before marriage?
So if you're nine years deep already dating this person, you're like, all right, I want to put the ring on it.
It's a real thing.
I'd say it's a wrap.
It's probably a wrap.
Probably a rap.
Probably a wrap.
Probably a wrap.
Yeah, I have what if you guys are already married?
Say goodbye to half your money.
I have like a habit of asking the hardest questions first.
First.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And in my last relationship, I was with a girl who was totally wife material in so many ways, but there were like a couple things, not really the body count thing, but there were a couple things that were just like everything was there except for one or two things.
Deal breakers.
You know?
You're good.
Because when you make that, when you say yes till death do us part, that's a serious commitment, you know?
And like, I don't want.
So love doesn't trump all.
No.
Okay.
No.
No.
Cool.
yeah it's just unrealistic because you're yeah it just it would not happen because and also i don't even think you i made this point last time but you don't even need to really ask the number Like, I think you can easily sort of get an idea for it.
Yeah, you can feel it out throughout the relationship.
Like, if you start dating.
It's interesting.
Yeah, and then if they're going clubbing all the time with their girls and so you think their life is a direct reflection of their body count.
Yes.
Won't cry.
Like for stripping, I'd be cautious.
You know what I mean?
Okay, okay.
Yeah.
Well, I think the example that often comes up with this sort of question is let's say you're about to marry the girl and then you find a video of her having a train ran on her by four dudes.
Dude, this happens.
This actually happens, really.
Yeah.
If you know somebody, this is happening.
I don't know someone personally, but I've heard of these situations from male strippers who talk about this.
They talk about what goes down when they're having their, you know, their parties when they get married.
The bachelorette parties.
I've heard those too.
Like the male strippers will talk about how frequent there's cheating that goes on and all their friends are just like sucking dicks.
The male strippers are sleeping with the brides-to-be?
Yeah.
And you can go listen to them and say it's like so common.
Yeah.
Interesting.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Final super chat we have here.
We have casual meet with the Australian $10.
Thank you, man.
You're dating a guy and he takes you on a romantic trip to the Maldives.
Would that make you feel special?
Now imagine you found out you were the 50th girl he took to the Maldives.
Ladies, any?
I mean, our time in the Maldives was probably different than theirs, so.
I mean, I would be kind of pissed, but that's just me.
How do you know your time in the Maldives was different than theirs?
Or more special?
I didn't say it was more special.
I just said it was different.
And if it was the guy that I'm dating.
Oh, go ahead.
I was just saying, if it's a guy that I'm dating, I'm not going to be like, oh, my gosh, like, you did that, like, in your past.
Like, geez, we can't ever go to the Maldives again.
Kelly, your fighter pilot boyfriend flies you in his F-11 to the Maldives.
But you find out you're the 50th girl that he took on his fighter jet.
What do you do?
I mean, also, he flies helicopters too, right?
What's like a military helicopter?
That's in service.
Blackhawk, little bird.
There we go.
So he takes you.
Oh my God.
Okay, go ahead.
I was just going to say I would be pissed.
You'd be upset.
Yeah.
Really?
Oh, okay.
Here's an, I think this is an even worse one.
Let's say you're dating a guy and you really like him, but it's kind of just, you guys don't do much, right?
Maybe you just, you get food occasionally, but you kind of just hang out at the home and you like him, right?
And then you find out that in his last relationship, he did all this stuff for his ex-girlfriend.
Took her on trips, bought her gifts, all this stuff.
Bought her flowers, paid for dates.
Whereas with you, it's 50-50.
He doesn't buy you anything.
No gifts, no trips.
How does that make you feel?
Kind of like, what the fuck?
Like, you were able to do that for her, but not for me.
Like, what's the difference between us?
Hensley, any thoughts?
I mean, if the relationship's different, I guess.
Like, if you were doing all that for someone that you saw as marriage potential and now we're kind of in a communicated, hey, this is just a hookup, I wouldn't expect the same treatment.
But definitely, if it was the same type of situation, you would want the same treatment.
And if it's not there, then you got to question the energy that's being put into it.
There's not the same outlook.
Anybody else?
I agree.
Okay.
Yeah, it's late, guys.
We're going to wrap up.
So Glebis LA, thank you for the $10 super chat.
Three hours and 55 minutes.
Wow, that's a long show.
Sorry, guys.
We definitely went a bit late on this one.
You guys are pushing it.
Good to see you in the chat, man.
Thanks for supporting Brian, bro.
Yeah, I haven't seen you in a little bit, but good to see you, man.
Thank you.
Really appreciate the support, guys.
And to everyone else who'd super chatted, really appreciate all the support tonight, guys.
You guys were epic.
Thank you guys so much.
So did everyone get their opportunity last?
Let's just wrap up here.
We've been going long.
So guys, thank you so much for tuning in.
You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.
I appreciate that.
Big thank you to the wonderful panel.
Thank you guys so much for coming on.
I know we had some little heated moments, some heated discussion, but that's good.
That's good.
It's good to have debate and disagreement.
I think that's the basis of being able to communicate and share.
So anyways, thank you so much, guys, for coming on.
You guys were great.
Thank you guys for watching.
You guys are legends.
We will be live again on Sunday.
That's an off day for us usually.
I believe 7 p.m.
Pretty sure it's 95% sure it's going to go through.
We're doing a stripper panel.
All strippers.
Are you coming, Hensley?
I think Brandon's trying to coordinate that.
90% sure that's going down Sunday, 7 p.m.
All stripper panel, all dancers.
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