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March 12, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
04:56
Never Ever Let a Woman Tell You What a Man Is!
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Do not let women tell you what a man is.
This is my foundational advice to you, man to man.
Never, ever, ever, ever in a million years in any dimension, anywhere in the spider-verse, never, ever let a woman tell you what a man is.
Never, ever let a woman tell you, well, a real man would do this.
And if you're not a real man, if you don't, it's like, don't even...
It's funny.
It's absolutely funny.
Especially woke women, they can't even tell what men are.
They don't even know what men are.
But they'll tell you what a real man...
I don't know what ex is, but I can sure tell you what a real ex is.
Yeah, make her a real ex, ex-girlfriend.
So, yeah, you never, ever, ever let a woman tell you what a man is.
Never.
It's inconceivable to me.
I would never let that happen in a million years.
I would shut that down like that.
A real man, but nope.
You don't get to tell me what a man is.
Or try doing a real woman with X, right?
She's like, tell me.
So, do not let a woman ever tell you what a man is.
It's just manipulation.
That's number one.
And number two, never ever let a woman ascribe your rational standards to insecurity.
You're just giving off small peeing energy, right?
Just never let a woman...
And, you know, I've got lots of advice for women, right?
Don't let men intimidate you and all of that kind of stuff.
And don't let men control you.
But if you have rational standards, then don't let a woman ascribe your rational standards to insecurity.
That is an appeal to smallness.
And if a woman is appealing to smallness, saying, well, if you don't want me going and shaking my ass at a nightclub in front of a hundred hyperlusty guys, then you're insecure.
Well, if you trusted me...
But it's sort of a self-defining thing.
So if your woman wants to go and shake her ass at a nightclub in front of a hundred other guys, she's not engaging in trustworthy behavior.
It's like somebody who...
Takes your wallet out of your pants and runs away with it, screaming, well, you should trust me with your property.
It's like, but you just stole from me.
So, a woman would not want to go to a club when she's in a monogamous relationship because she would want to get her validation from her boyfriend, fiancé, husband.
And this is to do with social media, thirst traps, bikini pictures, and so on, right?
You want other men to lust after you.
That is not monogamous.
It's not monogamy.
Which means that you can't be trusted.
If you want to go to a nightclub dressed in tight clothes with heavy makeup on, teased up hair, shake your ass in front of a hundred guys who'll have sex with you at the drop of a hat, then you're not trustworthy, right?
So if you trusted me, it's like, well, if I trusted you, you wouldn't go do this.
Like, you wouldn't go do this, right?
And of course, you can, if you want to do sort of mild experiments, you can just say, oh, man, this ex-girlfriend of mine is in town.
She's just always wanted me back.
We're going to go.
We're going to go have dinner together at a nice hotel.
She'd be tense, right?
Like, why would you want to go?
If you're in a relationship with me, why would you want to go and have dinner with an ex-girlfriend at a nice hotel when she really lets after you and wants you back?
Well, that's just, honey, that's just coming from a place of insecurity, man.
You know, you've got to trust me.
It's like, but if I'm to trust you, you have to act in a trustworthy manner.
It's not some platonic thing you just...
Attached to people like a post-it note called trust, right?
They have to act in a trustworthy manner.
But no, never, ever, ever let.
And of course for women, don't ever let a man tell you what a real woman is or what a real woman would do and so on, right?
That's not an argument.
And the moment you let a woman define your masculinity, you've lost her.
Like you might hang out for a while longer, but she's going to cheat on you.
It's a shit test, right?
You can't ever let a woman define to you what masculinity is.
I mean, you can share with her.
What it's like to be a man and so on, but you can never let a woman define.
All right.
I'm thrilled, says Oscar.
For my first live with you, Steph.
Happy to see the local stream is working well because Rumble is blocked in France.
Oh, no.
Is a tiny bit of fact and reality getting through to the hypersensitive, hysterical French mind?
Man, talk about a matriarchy, man.
Frenchmen are, well, you know, post-World War I, World War II, the soy in male French veins is second only to being made entirely of tofu.
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