Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - Never Ever Let a Woman Tell You What a Man Is!
Aired: 2025-03-12
Duration: 04:56


=== Never Let Women Define (04:20) ===

[00:00:00]  Do not let women tell you what a man is.
[00:00:05]  This is my foundational advice to you, man to man.
[00:00:12]  Never, ever, ever, ever in a million years in any dimension, anywhere in the spider-verse, never, ever let a woman tell you what a man is.
[00:00:21]  Never, ever let a woman tell you, well, a real man would do this.
[00:00:24]  And if you're not a real man, if you don't, it's like, don't even...
[00:00:27]  It's funny.
[00:00:29]  It's absolutely funny.
[00:00:31]  Especially woke women, they can't even tell what men are.
[00:00:34]  They don't even know what men are.
[00:00:35]  But they'll tell you what a real man...
[00:00:36]  I don't know what ex is, but I can sure tell you what a real ex is.
[00:00:42]  Yeah, make her a real ex, ex-girlfriend.
[00:00:45]  So, yeah, you never, ever, ever let a woman tell you what a man is.
[00:00:49]  Never.
[00:00:50]  It's inconceivable to me.
[00:00:52]  I would never let that happen in a million years.
[00:00:54]  I would shut that down like that.
[00:00:56]  A real man, but nope.
[00:00:57]  You don't get to tell me what a man is.
[00:01:01]  Or try doing a real woman with X, right?
[00:01:04]  She's like, tell me.
[00:01:04]  So, do not let a woman ever tell you what a man is.
[00:01:12]  It's just manipulation.
[00:01:16]  That's number one.
[00:01:17]  And number two, never ever let a woman ascribe your rational standards to insecurity.
[00:01:26]  You're just giving off small peeing energy, right?
[00:01:29]  Just never let a woman...
[00:01:31]  And, you know, I've got lots of advice for women, right?
[00:01:34]  Don't let men intimidate you and all of that kind of stuff.
[00:01:37]  And don't let men control you.
[00:01:39]  But if you have rational standards, then don't let a woman ascribe your rational standards to insecurity.
[00:01:49]  That is an appeal to smallness.
[00:01:53]  And if a woman is appealing to smallness, saying, well, if you don't want me going and shaking my ass at a nightclub in front of a hundred hyperlusty guys, then you're insecure.
[00:02:06]  Well, if you trusted me...
[00:02:09]  But it's sort of a self-defining thing.
[00:02:12]  So if your woman wants to go and shake her ass at a nightclub in front of a hundred other guys, she's not engaging in trustworthy behavior.
[00:02:20]  It's like somebody who...
[00:02:22]  Takes your wallet out of your pants and runs away with it, screaming, well, you should trust me with your property.
[00:02:28]  It's like, but you just stole from me.
[00:02:29]  So, a woman would not want to go to a club when she's in a monogamous relationship because she would want to get her validation from her boyfriend, fiancé, husband.
[00:02:43]  And this is to do with social media, thirst traps, bikini pictures, and so on, right?
[00:02:47]  You want other men to lust after you.
[00:02:49]  That is not monogamous.
[00:02:51]  It's not monogamy.
[00:02:52]  Which means that you can't be trusted.
[00:02:54]  If you want to go to a nightclub dressed in tight clothes with heavy makeup on, teased up hair, shake your ass in front of a hundred guys who'll have sex with you at the drop of a hat, then you're not trustworthy, right?
[00:03:05]  So if you trusted me, it's like, well, if I trusted you, you wouldn't go do this.
[00:03:08]  Like, you wouldn't go do this, right?
[00:03:11]  And of course, you can, if you want to do sort of mild experiments, you can just say, oh, man, this ex-girlfriend of mine is in town.
[00:03:17]  She's just always wanted me back.
[00:03:19]  We're going to go.
[00:03:20]  We're going to go have dinner together at a nice hotel.
[00:03:23]  She'd be tense, right?
[00:03:25]  Like, why would you want to go?
[00:03:27]  If you're in a relationship with me, why would you want to go and have dinner with an ex-girlfriend at a nice hotel when she really lets after you and wants you back?
[00:03:37]  Well, that's just, honey, that's just coming from a place of insecurity, man.
[00:03:41]  You know, you've got to trust me.
[00:03:42]  It's like, but if I'm to trust you, you have to act in a trustworthy manner.
[00:03:47]  It's not some platonic thing you just...
[00:03:50]  Attached to people like a post-it note called trust, right?
[00:03:52]  They have to act in a trustworthy manner.
[00:03:54]  But no, never, ever, ever let.
[00:03:55]  And of course for women, don't ever let a man tell you what a real woman is or what a real woman would do and so on, right?
[00:04:00]  That's not an argument.
[00:04:02]  And the moment you let a woman define your masculinity, you've lost her.
[00:04:06]  Like you might hang out for a while longer, but she's going to cheat on you.
[00:04:10]  It's a shit test, right?
[00:04:12]  You can't ever let a woman define to you what masculinity is.
[00:04:15]  I mean, you can share with her.
[00:04:16]  What it's like to be a man and so on, but you can never let a woman define.

=== Never Let a Woman Define Masculinity (00:35) ===

[00:04:20]  All right.
[00:04:23]  I'm thrilled, says Oscar.
[00:04:25]  For my first live with you, Steph.
[00:04:27]  Happy to see the local stream is working well because Rumble is blocked in France.
[00:04:31]  Oh, no.
[00:04:33]  Is a tiny bit of fact and reality getting through to the hypersensitive, hysterical French mind?
[00:04:42]  Man, talk about a matriarchy, man.
[00:04:45]  Frenchmen are, well, you know, post-World War I, World War II, the soy in male French veins is second only to being made entirely of tofu.