Jan. 13, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
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| All right, here is something for your show. | |
| My sister only dates men who tell her what she wants to hear. | |
| I tried to talk to her about her selection process and suggest better guys. | |
| Now she's mad at me. | |
| She's now 31 and still single. | |
| Well, first of all, she's welcome to do a call-in with me, freedomay.com slash call. | |
| And vetting is easy. | |
| Vetting is easy. | |
| Would you like to know how to vet? | |
| Hit me with a Y if you'd like to know how to vet. | |
| Because you guys are looking for probably one person in 100 or one person in 200. Right. | |
| So, do you want to know how to vet? | |
| Because... | |
| Do you want to know how to vet? | |
| Thank you, James. | |
| All right. | |
| For those of you who haven't donated, if I can tell you how to vet in one minute or less, is that worth a donation? | |
| Come on! | |
| That's worth a donation. | |
| Because you've got to eliminate, eliminate, eliminate, eliminate. | |
| Right? | |
| If you're going to take a drive across the desert, everybody wants to jump in their car and go. | |
| Even though there's no gas stations out there and there's no repair shops. | |
| So what you need to do if you want to get across the desert is you need to vet like crazy, make sure you've got a really good car. | |
| You don't just start driving and hope for the best. | |
| Hope for the best. | |
| So, here's how to vet. | |
| Here's how to vet. | |
| Disagree with someone. | |
| That's it. | |
| It's not more complicated than that. | |
| Just disagree with someone. | |
| You're dating some girl. | |
| Sally, right? | |
| You're interested in some girl. | |
| You're texting with some girl. | |
| You're going to disagree with her about something because you're two different people. | |
| All you do is disagree with her, right? | |
| All you do is disagree with her. | |
| Let's say she says, I don't know, I'm fine with circumcising boys, right? | |
| Okay, so you disagree with that if you're into the non-aggression principle and not bad, right? | |
| So she says, I'm fine with circumcision. | |
| And you say, well, what do you know about it? | |
| You have to figure out if you are... | |
| If she's speaking from a state of ignorance or not, she's, oh, tell me what you know about it. | |
| Well, I don't know. | |
| It's just that I think it reduces penis cancer or it's just a, you know, a boy wants to look like his father and he doesn't want to get made fun of in the locker. | |
| Like, you've just got nothing, right? | |
| She's got nothing, right? | |
| Okay. | |
| That's fine. | |
| That's fine. | |
| So then you say, well, you know, it's not medically needed. | |
| It doesn't actually really reduce cancer at all and cancer is incredibly rare of the penis. | |
| And it does. | |
| Slice off a third of the boy's foreskin, penis skin as a whole, which is horrible. | |
| And you would absolutely oppose genital mutilation for girls, right? | |
| And it's often performed under local anesthetic, which is not nearly enough. | |
| And the baby boy is born and he's immediately genitally mutilated. | |
| And by the way, the stress hormones in babies are higher six months after for those who have been circumcised. | |
| And it is brutal, and it also cuts down on the sexual satisfaction of both the males and the females, because you don't get the sheath that helps with intercourse. | |
| Right, so you just talk about it, right? | |
| You just talk about it. | |
| See how she reacts. | |
| Does she get cold? | |
| Does she get distant? | |
| Does she get annoyed? | |
| Does she get defensive? | |
| Does she gaslight? | |
| Then you're... | |
| You are vetted, baby! | |
| Because if you can't disagree with someone, you cannot have a relationship. | |
| All you can have is a slave chain. | |
| That's all you can have. | |
| Can you disagree with someone? | |
| Is she willing to listen? | |
| Is she willing to meet you in reality? | |
| And she may not agree with you, but she says, oh, that's interesting, but here's what I've looked up and here's what I've read and you have a good debate about it. | |
| Doesn't mean you're right, doesn't mean she's right, but are you allowed to disagree with her? | |
| Are you allowed to disagree with her? | |
| Are you encouraged to disagree with her? | |
| Do you guys enjoy exploring knowing that neither one of you has a monopoly on truth and that conversation is the best way to get To reality. | |
| Just disagree. |
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