Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - HOW TO VET WOMEN!
Aired: 2025-01-13
Duration: 03:49


=== Vetting Partners? (03:49) ===

[00:00:00]  All right, here is something for your show.
[00:00:01]  My sister only dates men who tell her what she wants to hear.
[00:00:04]  I tried to talk to her about her selection process and suggest better guys.
[00:00:08]  Now she's mad at me.
[00:00:09]  She's now 31 and still single.
[00:00:11]  Well, first of all, she's welcome to do a call-in with me, freedomay.com slash call.
[00:00:15]  And vetting is easy.
[00:00:17]  Vetting is easy.
[00:00:18]  Would you like to know how to vet?
[00:00:21]  Hit me with a Y if you'd like to know how to vet.
[00:00:23]  Because you guys are looking for probably one person in 100 or one person in 200. Right.
[00:00:36]  So, do you want to know how to vet?
[00:00:39]  Because...
[00:00:39]  Do you want to know how to vet?
[00:00:41]  Thank you, James.
[00:00:42]  All right.
[00:00:43]  For those of you who haven't donated, if I can tell you how to vet in one minute or less, is that worth a donation?
[00:00:49]  Come on!
[00:00:49]  That's worth a donation.
[00:00:50]  Because you've got to eliminate, eliminate, eliminate, eliminate.
[00:00:53]  Right?
[00:00:54]  If you're going to take a drive across the desert, everybody wants to jump in their car and go.
[00:00:58]  Even though there's no gas stations out there and there's no repair shops.
[00:01:02]  So what you need to do if you want to get across the desert is you need to vet like crazy, make sure you've got a really good car.
[00:01:07]  You don't just start driving and hope for the best.
[00:01:10]  Hope for the best.
[00:01:11]  So, here's how to vet.
[00:01:13]  Here's how to vet.
[00:01:15]  Disagree with someone.
[00:01:16]  That's it.
[00:01:17]  It's not more complicated than that.
[00:01:18]  Just disagree with someone.
[00:01:21]  You're dating some girl.
[00:01:22]  Sally, right?
[00:01:23]  You're interested in some girl.
[00:01:24]  You're texting with some girl.
[00:01:25]  You're going to disagree with her about something because you're two different people.
[00:01:28]  All you do is disagree with her, right?
[00:01:30]  All you do is disagree with her.
[00:01:31]  Let's say she says, I don't know, I'm fine with circumcising boys, right?
[00:01:35]  Okay, so you disagree with that if you're into the non-aggression principle and not bad, right?
[00:01:41]  So she says, I'm fine with circumcision.
[00:01:43]  And you say, well, what do you know about it?
[00:01:47]  You have to figure out if you are...
[00:01:53]  If she's speaking from a state of ignorance or not, she's, oh, tell me what you know about it.
[00:01:57]  Well, I don't know.
[00:01:58]  It's just that I think it reduces penis cancer or it's just a, you know, a boy wants to look like his father and he doesn't want to get made fun of in the locker.
[00:02:04]  Like, you've just got nothing, right?
[00:02:05]  She's got nothing, right?
[00:02:06]  Okay.
[00:02:07]  That's fine.
[00:02:08]  That's fine.
[00:02:12]  So then you say, well, you know, it's not medically needed.
[00:02:16]  It doesn't actually really reduce cancer at all and cancer is incredibly rare of the penis.
[00:02:21]  And it does.
[00:02:23]  Slice off a third of the boy's foreskin, penis skin as a whole, which is horrible.
[00:02:29]  And you would absolutely oppose genital mutilation for girls, right?
[00:02:33]  And it's often performed under local anesthetic, which is not nearly enough.
[00:02:38]  And the baby boy is born and he's immediately genitally mutilated.
[00:02:42]  And by the way, the stress hormones in babies are higher six months after for those who have been circumcised.
[00:02:48]  And it is brutal, and it also cuts down on the sexual satisfaction of both the males and the females, because you don't get the sheath that helps with intercourse.
[00:02:58]  Right, so you just talk about it, right?
[00:02:59]  You just talk about it.
[00:03:04]  See how she reacts.
[00:03:06]  Does she get cold?
[00:03:07]  Does she get distant?
[00:03:08]  Does she get annoyed?
[00:03:08]  Does she get defensive?
[00:03:09]  Does she gaslight?
[00:03:10]  Then you're...
[00:03:11]  You are vetted, baby!
[00:03:14]  Because if you can't disagree with someone, you cannot have a relationship.
[00:03:17]  All you can have is a slave chain.
[00:03:20]  That's all you can have.
[00:03:21]  Can you disagree with someone?
[00:03:23]  Is she willing to listen?
[00:03:24]  Is she willing to meet you in reality?
[00:03:26]  And she may not agree with you, but she says, oh, that's interesting, but here's what I've looked up and here's what I've read and you have a good debate about it.
[00:03:31]  Doesn't mean you're right, doesn't mean she's right, but are you allowed to disagree with her?
[00:03:37]  Are you allowed to disagree with her?
[00:03:39]  Are you encouraged to disagree with her?
[00:03:41]  Do you guys enjoy exploring knowing that neither one of you has a monopoly on truth and that conversation is the best way to get To reality.
[00:03:48]  Just disagree.