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Jan. 13, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
05:19
Men Don't Care About Women?
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It was 25 years, and I've got to figure out the right and wrong of things, right?
Again, not many people, but maybe a little bit more women than men, they don't care about the right or wrong of things.
They care about who's got power.
They care about who's going to screw up their lives more, right?
So you are a reasonable guy, so you will lose to the mob because the mob is full of unreasonable people who bully and threaten other people, and they don't care about what's right.
They don't care about what's true.
They don't care about what's moral.
They don't care about what's noble.
They care about...
What is going to give them the least amount of problems?
Kicking you out is going to give them the least amount of problems.
They don't care about the relationship.
They only care about not getting in trouble.
They only care about people not screwing up their lives.
Right?
Sorry.
I mean, you just got to wake up to this shit.
Like all of you.
Listen, I say this with great humility.
It took me an embarrassing amount of time to wake up to this stuff.
But yeah, you are disposable.
Women fear women.
Right?
Women fear women.
Women dress for women.
Because they don't want to be put down.
Women lose weight for women because they don't want to be shamed.
Women fear women, for the most part.
Talk to women about their experiences as children and as teenagers with other girls.
Seriously, seriously, have these conversations with women you know.
Talk to them about their experience with the hive mind of gynocracy and the mean girls and the tough girls and the bad girls.
Talk to the women in your life about their experience with female friends.
Oh my God, nuclear shadows of former trust and virtue.
Go talk to the women in your life about what it's like for them to be around women, modern women as a whole.
Talk to the women in your life, and I say this with great sympathy because I'm sure you've got good women in your life.
Talk to the women in your life about what it was like for them in female social circles when they were children.
And when they were teenagers, in particular.
It's terrifying.
See, if you've got a problem with a male friend, he'll just call you an asshole, you'll yell at each other, maybe you'll throw some hands, and then that's it.
Maybe you're friends, maybe you're not, but it doesn't go after that.
But people don't spread rumors that you have a sexually transmitted disease.
People don't spread rumors that you slept with half the football team.
That's not how men fight.
Men fight face-to-face, Cussing and throwing fists.
Women fight through poisoning the well and reputational destruction, which is a cancel culture.
It's just mean girls aligned with state power.
I'm sorry because I'm older now and all of that, so let's go over this again.
I confronted my wife's sister for cheating on her husband and also confronted my in-laws for allowing this man at family events.
Right, so they sided with the woman against the man.
They sided with the woman who's more dangerous over the man who's less dangerous.
See, here's the thing.
If you are a rational, self-restrained, virtuous person, male or female, let's talk about men for the moment, if you're a rational, reasonable, in-control-of-himself man, you pose no threat to crazy people.
The only thing that poses threats to crazy people are crazier people.
And that's all that they respect, and that's all that they defer to.
So they scan, and they say, well, you're sane, so you're not going to fuck me up.
You're crazy.
You might fuck me up.
Okay, dips the sane guy and appease the crazy person, because the crazier person will screw me up.
The sane guy, the guy who's nice and good and moral and ethical, well, he's not going to spread rumors about me.
He's not going to try and destroy my life.
He's not going to try and get me fired.
He's not going to endlessly make falsehoods about me.
He's not going to try and poison all of my relationships.
You're safe, man.
You're safe because you're honorable.
Nothing to fear from you because you're reasonable.
And to be reasonable in this social world as a whole in general is to be fucked.
To be reasonable is to be completely fucked in a crazy social environment, which is why you have to surround yourself with sane, virtuous people who trust and respect you for being virtuous.
Not walk all over you because you're not crazy.
Right?
I want you to think of how most people assess.
Right?
There's two people.
Two people are trying to get them to do what they want.
Right?
Two people.
Right?
It's Bob and Doug.
Now, Bob is trying to reason with you.
Right?
You're this person, right?
Bob and Doug are both trying to influence you.
Now, Bob...
He's trying to reason with you, trying to patiently give you evidence and facts and all of that.
Reasonable guy, not raising his voice.
He's not yelling.
He's just saying, you know, it is kind of this way, and this is what I've seen, and this is what I've noticed, and these are the facts, right?
So that's Bob, right?
Now, Doug has a gun.
Who are you going to defer to?
I mean, this is how people calculate.
I'm not even saying they're wrong.
I'm just saying this is how they calculate.
Well, you're a reasonable guy.
You're unarmed.
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