Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux - Men Don't Care About Women?
Aired: 2025-01-13
Duration: 05:19


=== Women And Power (03:02) ===

[00:00:00]  It was 25 years, and I've got to figure out the right and wrong of things, right?
[00:00:03]  Again, not many people, but maybe a little bit more women than men, they don't care about the right or wrong of things.
[00:00:09]  They care about who's got power.
[00:00:11]  They care about who's going to screw up their lives more, right?
[00:00:14]  So you are a reasonable guy, so you will lose to the mob because the mob is full of unreasonable people who bully and threaten other people, and they don't care about what's right.
[00:00:23]  They don't care about what's true.
[00:00:25]  They don't care about what's moral.
[00:00:26]  They don't care about what's noble.
[00:00:27]  They care about...
[00:00:28]  What is going to give them the least amount of problems?
[00:00:30]  Kicking you out is going to give them the least amount of problems.
[00:00:33]  They don't care about the relationship.
[00:00:35]  They only care about not getting in trouble.
[00:00:37]  They only care about people not screwing up their lives.
[00:00:40]  Right?
[00:00:40]  Sorry.
[00:00:41]  I mean, you just got to wake up to this shit.
[00:00:43]  Like all of you.
[00:00:45]  Listen, I say this with great humility.
[00:00:46]  It took me an embarrassing amount of time to wake up to this stuff.
[00:00:50]  But yeah, you are disposable.
[00:00:53]  Women fear women.
[00:00:55]  Right?
[00:00:55]  Women fear women.
[00:00:56]  Women dress for women.
[00:00:57]  Because they don't want to be put down.
[00:00:58]  Women lose weight for women because they don't want to be shamed.
[00:01:01]  Women fear women, for the most part.
[00:01:04]  Talk to women about their experiences as children and as teenagers with other girls.
[00:01:10]  Seriously, seriously, have these conversations with women you know.
[00:01:14]  Talk to them about their experience with the hive mind of gynocracy and the mean girls and the tough girls and the bad girls.
[00:01:22]  Talk to the women in your life about their experience with female friends.
[00:01:32]  Oh my God, nuclear shadows of former trust and virtue.
[00:01:35]  Go talk to the women in your life about what it's like for them to be around women, modern women as a whole.
[00:01:45]  Talk to the women in your life, and I say this with great sympathy because I'm sure you've got good women in your life.
[00:01:49]  Talk to the women in your life about what it was like for them in female social circles when they were children.
[00:01:57]  And when they were teenagers, in particular.
[00:02:01]  It's terrifying.
[00:02:03]  See, if you've got a problem with a male friend, he'll just call you an asshole, you'll yell at each other, maybe you'll throw some hands, and then that's it.
[00:02:10]  Maybe you're friends, maybe you're not, but it doesn't go after that.
[00:02:13]  But people don't spread rumors that you have a sexually transmitted disease.
[00:02:17]  People don't spread rumors that you slept with half the football team.
[00:02:22]  That's not how men fight.
[00:02:24]  Men fight face-to-face, Cussing and throwing fists.
[00:02:28]  Women fight through poisoning the well and reputational destruction, which is a cancel culture.
[00:02:35]  It's just mean girls aligned with state power.
[00:02:41]  I'm sorry because I'm older now and all of that, so let's go over this again.
[00:02:46]  I confronted my wife's sister for cheating on her husband and also confronted my in-laws for allowing this man at family events.
[00:02:55]  Right, so they sided with the woman against the man.
[00:02:58]  They sided with the woman who's more dangerous over the man who's less dangerous.

=== Reasonable Guy, Unreasonable Threat (02:17) ===

[00:03:02]  See, here's the thing.
[00:03:03]  If you are a rational, self-restrained, virtuous person, male or female, let's talk about men for the moment, if you're a rational, reasonable, in-control-of-himself man, you pose no threat to crazy people.
[00:03:20]  The only thing that poses threats to crazy people are crazier people.
[00:03:24]  And that's all that they respect, and that's all that they defer to.
[00:03:27]  So they scan, and they say, well, you're sane, so you're not going to fuck me up.
[00:03:32]  You're crazy.
[00:03:33]  You might fuck me up.
[00:03:34]  Okay, dips the sane guy and appease the crazy person, because the crazier person will screw me up.
[00:03:40]  The sane guy, the guy who's nice and good and moral and ethical, well, he's not going to spread rumors about me.
[00:03:47]  He's not going to try and destroy my life.
[00:03:49]  He's not going to try and get me fired.
[00:03:51]  He's not going to endlessly make falsehoods about me.
[00:03:54]  He's not going to try and poison all of my relationships.
[00:03:56]  You're safe, man.
[00:03:57]  You're safe because you're honorable.
[00:03:59]  Nothing to fear from you because you're reasonable.
[00:04:02]  And to be reasonable in this social world as a whole in general is to be fucked.
[00:04:11]  To be reasonable is to be completely fucked in a crazy social environment, which is why you have to surround yourself with sane, virtuous people who trust and respect you for being virtuous.
[00:04:23]  Not walk all over you because you're not crazy.
[00:04:29]  Right?
[00:04:30]  I want you to think of how most people assess.
[00:04:32]  Right?
[00:04:33]  There's two people.
[00:04:33]  Two people are trying to get them to do what they want.
[00:04:36]  Right?
[00:04:37]  Two people.
[00:04:37]  Right?
[00:04:38]  It's Bob and Doug.
[00:04:40]  Now, Bob is trying to reason with you.
[00:04:42]  Right?
[00:04:43]  You're this person, right?
[00:04:44]  Bob and Doug are both trying to influence you.
[00:04:46]  Now, Bob...
[00:04:50]  He's trying to reason with you, trying to patiently give you evidence and facts and all of that.
[00:04:55]  Reasonable guy, not raising his voice.
[00:04:57]  He's not yelling.
[00:04:57]  He's just saying, you know, it is kind of this way, and this is what I've seen, and this is what I've noticed, and these are the facts, right?
[00:05:02]  So that's Bob, right?
[00:05:04]  Now, Doug has a gun.
[00:05:09]  Who are you going to defer to?
[00:05:10]  I mean, this is how people calculate.
[00:05:13]  I'm not even saying they're wrong.
[00:05:14]  I'm just saying this is how they calculate.
[00:05:17]  Well, you're a reasonable guy.
[00:05:19]  You're unarmed.