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Complaining About Dinner Prep
00:15:11
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| We're back! Alright, so I don't know why women post this stuff, to be honest with you. | |
| They do it for attention. | |
| And sympathy, right? And sympathy. | |
| You're so hard done by. | |
| Alright, so the first thing I notice is... | |
| Messy is messy. Look how messy the counter is. | |
| Gordon Ramsay would be mad. | |
| The counter is messy, and she seems to have an Apple Watch. | |
| She also, I will say... | |
| She's got a huge kitchen and a very nice house, meaning her husband... | |
| Big TV? Look how big the TV is, and you know, there's like, you know, modern looking stuff, which usually means it's expensive. | |
| Well, actually, technically, sorry, the TV's only slightly larger than her watch. | |
| Oh my... So, I mean, if you get a little measurement... | |
| Okay. So, this woman, her husband, is making good money. | |
| Her husband's making good money, meaning he's probably working all day. | |
| Working hard, right? Yeah. | |
| Working hard. So, she's got an hour. | |
| Now, do you think this is a stay-at-home mom? | |
| I don't know. I think so. | |
| I think there's probably a good chance because she's wearing very baggy clothing and most women probably wouldn't change. | |
| Say they got back from work at like 4.30ish or 4ish. | |
| Nobody gets back from work at 4. | |
| No, way, way, way. Unless you start really early. | |
| So she's dressed... She's probably, yeah, she probably... | |
| She hasn't done her hair, she hasn't done makeup, she hasn't left the house, and it's 5 o'clock. | |
| She hasn't left the house all day and the kitchen's still that much of a mess. | |
| Now, did she say how many kids she has? | |
| No. I think just one, right? Probably one or two. | |
| Probably just one, yeah. So she has, so 5 o'clock... | |
| She has one kid and she's home all day and she's still struggling. | |
| In a big beautiful house. | |
| Yeah. So her husband is a hard worker. | |
| He's at work all day, right? Now, why he's home at 5 o'clock, maybe he works from home today or something like that. | |
| Alright. Or it could be a weekend or something. | |
| So... All the piano. | |
| Pause. That's good, everybody. | |
| We did five seconds. No, I think our husband's learning how to play two notes on the piano. | |
| I hate when people put music over their videos. | |
| I hate this in movies, too, and I think I've mentioned this in some movie reviews, but stop telling me what emotions I should feel. | |
| If it's a movie, and I'm not sad, but they'll put in sad music so that I get sad. | |
| It's like, stop doing that. | |
| Either write your movie better... | |
| So that you don't need music. | |
| Like, I mean, that's just what you should do because I don't like... | |
| Again, this is part for movies and just part for these videos. | |
| Just, when they put in music, it just makes me... | |
| it's just... it's manipulative. | |
| Yeah, it does feel controlling, right? | |
| Yeah. Now, I noticed this first. | |
| I noticed this first. | |
| Okay, so... He's making pancakes for dinner. | |
| Now, what's that word? | |
| Is he... Cook. Cook. He's mix... | |
| Okay, he's saying make pancakes. | |
| You mix some ingredients with a mixer. | |
| An electric mixer. | |
| You get your ingredients in the fridge. | |
| You clearly don't clean it, looking at the way this house is. | |
| You can even see some of the ingredients in the back. | |
| It's all a mess, right? It's all a mess, so she hasn't even cleaned up. | |
| So you take out your flour, your milk. | |
| I can't remember if you put eggs in pancakes, but I think you do. | |
| And some baking soda. No, but you can get a full pre-powder. | |
| If you want the pre-powder, you can, but we've never done that. | |
| Right, right. But she probably did. | |
| It's probably five or six ingredients to make a pancake, from what I remember. | |
| So, it maybe takes 10 minutes to mix the ingredients together, and that's a stretch. | |
| Right. Because you have an electric mixer and everything to eat, so basically you hold it and swirl it around. | |
| Right. And then you get your spatula or your scoop, and you put it... | |
| Or not a spatula, but your scoop, and you put it on the tray. | |
| A ladle. A ladle, yeah. You put it on the tray. | |
| The heating... The heating... | |
| The griddle? Whatever it's called. | |
| The heating thing. I couldn't care what it's called, but... | |
| You're not cooking. No, this is not cooking. | |
| This is like baking more so than anything, but it's not even baking because baking takes a bit more effort than that usually. | |
| So I'm going to do a tiny mantilla. | |
| So, we assume that she hasn't just given birth because the kid's a couple of years old, right? | |
| Yeah, years old. So, she's doing no exercise. | |
| She's taking zero care over her appearance. | |
| Yeah. And... | |
| Except dyeing her hair. Maybe. | |
| Her hair's dyed... No, she's young. No, her hair's dyed blonde at the end. | |
| Okay. It's dyed. Now, if we look at the TV in the background, what do we see? | |
| Kids shows. It's a kids show. | |
| Yeah. So, her job... | |
| It's to take care of the child and she's dropped the child in front of the TV so that she can make some PANCAKES which isn't even food! | |
| I can see that if it's like half an hour and it should not take that long to make pancakes, but if it's half an hour, I think it's fine if your kid watches a couple cartoons. | |
| I think that's fine. Because I watch cartoons, but I'm sure that TV's probably been on all day knowing. | |
| But bring the kid in with you because she's complaining that he's not doing enough work and she's just, she's making pancakes with the kid watching TV. For dinner. | |
| For dinner. This is what she calls dinner. | |
| So she's doing no exercise, no care for her appearance. | |
| She's home all day. She's putting the kids in front of cartoons and she's making pancakes. | |
| You know how easy it is to make a salad? | |
| And a salad would probably do her some good. | |
| But it's really easy. | |
| You get some vegetables when you're at the grocery store. | |
| You cut them up. You put some seasoning on and some dressing if you want. | |
| So good. It is good. It's pretty healthy. | |
| The dressing adds calories, but other than that, it's pretty healthy. | |
| It's really easy to make a salad, and if you wanted something a bit more complex, boil some pasta, sauté some vegetables, put the vegetables on, and then have an alfredo sauce or tomato sauce or something. | |
| That's good for, it's not, maybe it's not great for you, but it's not bad for you. | |
| It's not bad for you, veggies and, I mean, veggies and pastas, alright. | |
| It's not bad for you, and it's very easy to make. | |
| It may take a bit, you know, there's going to be some cleanup that she clearly doesn't know how to do. | |
| Right. But it will take a bit of time, a bit longer than making pancakes, but at least it's not a breakfast food. | |
| But look at the size of this kitchen. And it's healthy. | |
| Yeah, it's a giant kitchen and there's stuff everywhere. | |
| Yeah. It's not hard to clean with. | |
| So if we look down here, it says, why do women post stuff like this? | |
| The amount of time you spend filming could have been used instead to communicate and ask for help. | |
| Ask for help with the pancakes. | |
| Why do you need help? Why do you need help with pancakes? | |
| I don't know. Drives her a mess. Yawn a lot? | |
| Okay, so... What have you been doing all day to make you yawn? | |
| So maybe her kid is up at night and whatever, right? | |
| Maybe. Although you should have sleep trained the kid by now and the kid should have a regular sleep schedule. | |
| Maybe she's up late watching videos or TikTok or maybe she's... | |
| Probably or editing. Yeah, or she's editing or she's filming. | |
| So why is she so tired? | |
| Probably because she doesn't move. | |
| My guess is, I think when people just sit around all day, they get more tired. | |
| Yeah, that's true. So if you go out places and do stuff like that, you'll get less tired. | |
| For me, even when I'm home, I never wear baggy clothes like that anymore. | |
| I used to, but not anymore. | |
| It's just because I feel like when I'm in stuff like that, I don't want to move as much because I'm just like, oh, I'm comfy, I'm cozy and stuff. | |
| Right now, I'm wearing a dress, and it's not a very fancy dress, but we're literally just sitting at home, and we have been all day. | |
| So it's just... It's silly. | |
| So she's also complaining that she's tired. | |
| Now, the husband, if he's yawning and he's tired, he didn't have a great night's sleep, does he just get to complain about it or does he just have to go to work and suck it up? | |
| He has to go to work and suck it up. Yeah, he has to go to work and suck it up. | |
| All right. Take 27 calming breaths. | |
| I've never taken a calming breath in my 14 and a half years of life. | |
| Have you ever been calm in your 14? | |
| No, I've never been calm and I've never had to take a calming breath. | |
| You've got to be kidding. | |
| Who needs calming breaths? | |
| Grow up. She feels hard done by because she has to huck her child and make pancakes. | |
| In a big, beautiful house paid for by her husband. | |
| That seems like a pretty great life, honestly. | |
| Who doesn't want pancakes for dinner? | |
| Like, seriously. Well, and so, I mean, when you were little, I used to love putting you on my hip when I was in the kitchen doing stuff, and we'd chat, and you'd help, and, like, it was great fun. | |
| So, I don't know. Oh, my gosh, I have to take 27 calming breaths. | |
| Why? Because I have to cook pancakes and hug my kid while living in this beautiful house almost certainly paid for by my husband. | |
| All right. Negotiate with a toddler. | |
| Oh, there's a dog back there too. | |
| Alright. She's not negotiating, she's just hugging. | |
| Okay, pause with it. | |
| Do you think that the... I think she might have added in the crying. | |
| Why do you think? Oh, actually, actually... | |
| Wait, wait, wait, wait. Yes, she did. | |
| And you know why she did? Because when she talked, no audio pops up. | |
| You can't hear her talk, but you hear the crying. | |
| Right, so she says she's negotiating with a toddler, right? | |
| The crying happened, and she talked, and we can barely hear the talking. | |
| Right, so let's go back here for a sec, because I think this is really interesting, right? | |
| Now, if you look at the kid's hand, he's just stroking his mom's chest. | |
| That's a gesture of affection. | |
| Yeah. Right? So he wouldn't be crying at the same time. | |
| Yeah, and you saw the face, it didn't look upset at all. | |
| You can see the face of it in one corner. | |
| Okay, she didn't look upset, and if you hear the crying, it's like way, way, way louder than her talking. | |
| Can you hear her talking at all? A tiny bit, yeah. | |
| You can go back in here. So she says, negotiate with the toddler, right? | |
| It's a bit far, yeah it's far back. | |
| No, I don't think he's crying. | |
| Because I can't hear her say anything. | |
| I can hear her a bit. I can hear her. My ear's young. | |
| Alright. Now, proceed to cook with one hand. | |
| She's not cooking. It's pancakes. | |
| Okay, here's one thing. It's not hard to cook with one hand. | |
| I was stupid once and I accidentally burned my hand cooking. | |
| It wasn't a bad burn. Like, there's no scar or anything. | |
| So I didn't use that hand to cook and I finished making lunch or whatever it was with one hand. | |
| It's really not difficult to cook with one hand. | |
| Do you know how many things I can hold in one hand? | |
| I think women evolved this way over the last couple of years because of lack of pockets, frankly. | |
| I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I can hold five or six items in one hand. | |
| And she can't. | |
| So she's got a ladle? | |
| Just hold a few things. Hold your ladle. | |
| And hold whatever else you're using in the spatula. | |
| You can easily hold that in two hands. | |
| Put one between your thumb and your finger. | |
| And put the other two between your... | |
| What other two? The other item between... | |
| What other item? I don't know how many items she has. | |
| She's got one ladle and one spatula. | |
| What other item? I don't know, but I'm just saying, like, two items. | |
| If you need to hold both at once for some reason... | |
| But why would she need to... She's got a ladle and pancakes and flip them over. | |
| Well, I don't know. I'm just saying that she's complaining about cooking with one hand. | |
| So if she needs two hands, put both items in one hand. | |
| It's not that hard. Now, you'll also notice here... | |
| Ruined dinner. | |
| Ruined dinner! How do you ruin pancakes? | |
| How do you ruin pancakes? | |
| Oh, you put pineapple on them. Oh, my God. | |
| How do you ruin pancakes? | |
| It's not hard to cook pancakes. | |
| Literally, you're leaving them. | |
| She has an official pancake maker. | |
| She's not even using a pan. | |
| Like, put the... | |
| I can't! How do you ruin pancakes? | |
| No, so they don't look ruined. They look fine. | |
| They're maybe a bit undercooked, but that's it. | |
| Now, let's go back here just for a sec. | |
| So, she's got her toddler on her arm, right? | |
| You heard her talk right there. | |
| There. There. | |
| There. There. | |
| She doesn't really seem to be saying anything. | |
| Oh, now she's talking to her toddler again, but she's probably complaining about dinner. | |
| So she's considering running away. | |
| What is she running away from? She's running away from holding her toddler and... | |
| And she's running away from undercooking the pancakes. | |
| Those are undercooked. They're undercooked. | |
| How do you mess up pancakes that bad? | |
| Literally leave them on longer. | |
| You don't even need to use your hands to do that. | |
| They're undercooked. | |
| Plus you can use your toddler's hand to put it under the pancakes. | |
| Oh my god. How did I survive that? | |
| What's she doing here? Laugh instead of cry. | |
| What's she doing? Because you have nothing to cry about! | |
| I don't know, maybe it's sauce or something. | |
| You have nothing to cry about, so that's why you're laughing. | |
| What's she doing here? I don't know, it doesn't matter. | |
| No, I'm curious. It doesn't matter. | |
| She's scraping something in the bucket. | |
| Oh, hang on. Is that her... | |
| I won't do the... Oh, that's this thing. | |
| Oh, it's the rest of the pancake mix. | |
| Life instead of crying. | |
| She considers running away. | |
| Because you have nothing to cry about. | |
| She doesn't... | |
| She doesn't know. | |
| She doesn't know what I don't know. | |
| So, what's her husband doing? | |
| He's on his phone. He's on his phone. | |
| Probably doing work stuff. It could be work stuff, for sure. | |
| It could also be that he's just had a day, and he's just doing some relaxing, right? | |
| She's been home all day with her toddler. | |
| A toddler's nap, you get a chance to relax. | |
| Maybe she chose to film videos instead of relax, so she's tired. | |
| Maybe she hasn't sleep trained to her child, which is kind of her job, but she's a stay-at-home mom. | |
| But this resentment. Now, why is he not in the kitchen with her? | |
| This is the funny thing. She's like, well, why isn't he in the kitchen with me? | |
| Because he spent the whole day working. | |
| You wouldn't have the kitchen if he wasn't working. | |
| Well, also, if your wife is angry and upset and bitter and having to take calming breaths and considering, do you want to spend time with someone like that? | |
| No. No! If I was just sitting there, oh, I hate being a parent, oh, I want to run away, would you want to spend time with me? | |
| No. Oh, my gosh. | |
| So, let's just figure out what he's doing. | |
| So the only thing that's moving is his right thumb. | |
| I don't think he's typing. | |
| No, I think he's just touching someone scrolling. | |
| Yeah, he could be reading. He could be watching a video. | |
| But his thumb is still moving. | |
| Yeah, but I think barely. I think he's watching a video. | |
| Right. He also could be just scrolling through email. | |
| Could be any number of things, right? | |
| So he's got his feet up. | |
| And there's an old thing which people say, nothing annoys an immature woman more than the sight of a man. | |
| Reluctantly on a couch. Yeah. | |
| Now, I mean, I work fairly hard. | |
| What does mum always tell me to do? Relax. | |
| Relax, yeah. Put your feet up, you know? | |
| And so she's just enraged. | |
| And I don't know. | |
| It's just terrible. Why would you post this? | |
| So you're giving... | |
| You're insulting your husband. | |
| Yeah. You're saying, I'm miserable in my marriage. | |
| I hate being a wife. I hate being a mother. | |
| My husband is so lazy. | |
| Why would you post this so everyone can see it? | |
| I don't know. It's incomprehensible to me. | |
| Yeah. I mean, I don't... | |
| Mom's great. I don't have any problems with mom. | |
| But if I did, the last thing I would do is secretly film her. | |
| Secretly film her. Not because I bet you she didn't tell. | |
| So this guy is going to... | |
| It's going to be spread around at work. | |
| People are going to laugh about this. | |
| And they're going to lose respect for the guy. | |
| Yeah. It's going to be very tough in his business career when people realize that his kind of obese wife is miserable, has no respect for him, somewhat. | |
| She's overweight. She's not obese. | |
| Well, it's a really baggy top, and I'm sort of looking at the double chin. | |
| But okay, yeah, fair, fair. She's not obese, but she's overweight for sure. | |
| And she is destroying his reputation. | |
| She's destroying any respect people might have for him. | |
| The reputation that got her that kitchen in the first place. | |
| Yeah, oh my gosh. | |
| And look, this is a guy, no disrespect, but he's a hard-working guy, it seems like. | |
| This is not a guy making money off his looks. | |
| No. So he's got to be doing something, I'm guessing in the trades, because he looks like a trades guy. | |
| He does, yeah. He doesn't look like a lawyer guy or something like that. | |
| So imagine how hard you have to work in the trades to afford a house like this. | |
| Yeah. That's crazy, right? And I think that's it. | |
| Yeah, so I just, I don't know why. | |
| Don't do this. What else? | |
| Yeah, it makes him look bad and makes you look bad. | |
| And all the women in the comments scream divorce. | |
| Scream divorce! Oh my gosh. | |
|
Cooling System Issues
00:02:04
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| Well, because she can get the house and then she only has to make pancakes for one person. | |
| Two people. Child. And a dog. | |
| Oh my gosh. I don't know. | |
| It's just nuts. I don't know why women do this. | |
| I don't know what the purpose is. | |
| And, you know, what I would love to do, I'd love to take a woman like this. | |
| Sounds mean. I'd love to throw her back in a time machine. | |
| Oh, yeah. 150 years. | |
| And have her live the day of a life of a pioneer woman. | |
| Yep. Because this level, every single day, I'm telling you, I don't want to sound ridiculous with my gratitude, but because I grew up without air conditioning in a very small place, like every day, it's like, well, we have a nice place, we've got air conditioning. | |
| A friend of mine had a car who used to drive me around because I didn't have a car, and his cooling system was so broken that he actually had to pump hot air into the car. | |
| to keep his engine cool because he couldn't afford to fix it. | |
| So we had to drive around in the summer with maximum hot air blasting in our faces, dying from the heat. | |
| And so for me, it's like, yeah, air-conditioned car. | |
| I don't have to, you know, even when I started my show back before you were born, | |
| I had to drive for like sometimes three hours a day back and forth to work. | |
| I don't have to do that anymore. | |
| So I'm just incredibly grateful for all of this stuff. | |
| And I don't know, like how can you sit there and say I'm so hard done by because I have a baby, my husband's sitting down for a moment, and I've got to cook pancakes with one hand. | |
| Good lord. She doesn't have to cure her own meat, make her own jams, make her own pickles. | |
| She doesn't have to slaughter her own pigs. | |
| She doesn't have to do any of that stuff. | |
| She doesn't have to chop up her own wood. | |
| She doesn't have to go to the well a quarter mile away to get water and bring it back. | |
| She doesn't have to boil her own water because it comes out of the tap already decontaminated. | |
| Like, we're so lucky and people are so ungrateful. | |
| It drives me crazy. All right. | |
| Anyways. Anything else you want to add? | |
| No. Don't do this, ladies. | |
| Only one thing I want to add is, I mean, like, no hate, but he's got, like, a southern head. | |
| Cool thing. That's perfectly normal to me. | |
| You don't have a southern head. | |
| No, here's what happened. | |
| He looked up too quickly and the hair just placed down to his chin. | |
| Because upside down is pretty much the same. | |
| Exactly. All right. Thanks, everyone. | |
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