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Roosh Live #16

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	Welcome to Ruch Live number 16.
	It is July 29th, 2018.
	My sidekick, Arnold, is right there, like he always is, my overactive heterosexual pug.
	So I went to a party on Friday night.
	And at this party, it was mostly younger people.
	I was the oldest guy there, probably.
	And you know what young people, they like to be social and drink and other things.
	And I was talking to a friend of mine.
	He was from the UK.
	And then some freak came up to me.
	This girl had ear gauges, tattoos.
	She had bangs, but they only went halfway down her forehead.
	Like she rode the short bus when she was young or just got out of a mental institution.
	I don't talk to freaks.
	You know, I structure my life so I don't have to interact with them.
	If I wanted to talk to freaks, I would be back in the USA.
	But she wanted to talk to me.
	She wanted to interact with me because I'm just good looking.
	And she asked me what my name was.
	I didn't want to tell her.
	I didn't want to tell this freak what my name was.
	I didn't even want to give a fake name.
	Why?
	I don't want to talk to her.
	I'm sorry.
	I don't care.
	This is a house party.
	And I don't care that we both know the host of the party.
	I don't want to tell you what my name is because you're a freak.
	Okay.
	If you didn't come up to me, I wouldn't have come.
	I wouldn't have done anything to you.
	I wouldn't have made fun of you.
	I wouldn't have interacted with you.
	I wouldn't have done anything.
	But you came up to me.
	So now you must get rejected because you're a freak.
	And I don't talk to freaks.
	So then she asked me what my name was, and I didn't answer.
	I didn't give her any response.
	And then she got angry.
	So she comes into my personal space and gets angry at me because I don't want to talk to her.
	And then now I can see her eyes are darting around.
	Her jaw is shifting.
	I heard that that's when you do impure cocaine.
	That's what I heard.
	I don't do that stuff.
	My mind needs to be at 100% for me to do the things I do, such as this live stream, taking care of Arnold.
	She was getting angry.
	She was moving rapidly.
	She said, it's never happened that someone didn't tell me what their name is.
	And I said, well, it's happening right now because you're not going to get it.
	And then she said, you're lucky I'm having a good time here or else I would fuck you up.
	That's what the Eastern European girl said to me.
	You're lucky I'm having a good time here or I would fuck you up.
	Bitch.
	And you're lucky I don't want to go to jail or I'd slap the shit out of you for talking to me like that.
	The nerve on her.
	Because I didn't want to give my name.
	I looked at my friend.
	He rolled his eyes and I'm just silent because again, I don't want to go to jail or else I would start a brawl in my friend's apartment because I know after all said and done, I would repay him for all the damage that I caused, and we'd still be friends after that.
	You know, next time I'm going to raise my hand up and bluff and be like, Don't make me slap, don't make me slap, say it again.
	But you know, girls, these days, they would get ready to fight.
	You know, this is why I'm not concerned if the Muslims take over because right now I've a hand that's soft and smooth, it hasn't really seen a lot of action.
	Yeah, once the Muslims take over, she won't speak to me like that.
	You don't have my consent for my name.
	No means no, freak.
	So that was the highlight of my Friday night.
	And, you know, I think I was kind of in a bad mood because the gay guy at that party was trying to convert me, was hitting on me as gross.
	He tried to give me a cup, like a shot that he had used.
	I said, I don't want AIDS.
	And he stopped after that.
	So, all right, what is going on in the chat?
	Oh, Arnold Muhammad.
	That's not his last name.
	It's Akbar, Arnold Akbar.
	If you went to jail, which gang would you try to join?
	I don't think I have a choice.
	I think the whites aren't going to have me.
	The blacks, obviously, not.
	The Mexicans know the Muslims would.
	So there was a little bit of e-celeb drama where a famous e-celeb female by the name of Brittany Pettibone, I am pronouncing it in its original French pronunciation.
	She got banned from Instagram.
	She had 21,000 followers and got banned.
	Banning a girl from Instagram is like cruel and unusual punishment.
	It's against the Constitution.
	You can't do that.
	It fucks them up.
	I mean, this is like if something happens to Instagram right now and it goes down for one week, two things are going to happen.
	One, the female suicide rate is going to skyrocket.
	Girls, you're just, there's going to be so many dead young girls that you're going to have to walk over.
	Like you're going to go outside and there's going to be dead bodies everywhere.
	Just girls just dropping dead.
	I mean, it would be an epidemic of just dead girls because Instagram is gone.
	And the second thing is the casual sex rate would skyrocket too.
	Guys are going to be calling in like Rosh, it's so easy.
	Suddenly, what's going on?
	I'm getting late like every day.
	Like girls are wanting to interact with me.
	And I know what you are thinking: that Instagram is just girls can always go to Tinder and Facebook, but still, Instagram takes a lot of their attention a lot.
	And girls love it.
	Man, it's and it's daily.
	They need it daily, a daily dosage.
	Like, if it just goes down for one day, I think the suicide rate and the casual sex rate would both go up.
	If we were smart, we'd team up and hack that thing.
	We'd hack Instagram and like put a virus in it where it just collapses.
	No backups.
	Shut down all, shut down Tinder, Instagram, and Facebook, and the lives of men everywhere would go up.
	Women would actually have to interact with men again.
	Real interactions.
	So anyway, Brittany Petabonet, she was, I imagine, I don't know.
	I imagine she was in tears and stuff like that because what do you do?
	If you're a girl, if you're a girl in 2018 and you don't have Instagram, are you alive?
	I mean, do you still exist?
	If you can't share an image of yourself to the mass public, did you make a sound?
	I don't think so.
	So she was, I think, I don't, again, I don't know.
	I don't know her.
	So, but I think she was in tears and she was being consoled by the people who love her.
	And they, because she was in such dire straits, Instagram made a humanitarian gesture and brought her Instagram back.
	That's how serious it is.
	Like, have you ever heard of a girl getting banned from Instagram?
	It doesn't happen because they would kill themselves.
	Not even one girl has been banned.
	not one so i'm glad that she got it back because i don't want people to die And the third bit of news is that I'm doing a 24-hour sale on one of my older books to keep you entertained until my new game book, Game, because that's what it's called, Game.
	Until that comes out.
	So which book are we doing a sale on?
	A Dead Bat in Paraguay.
	This is my South American memoir where I quit my job and decided I was going to bang my way through the third world with a backpack.
	It didn't work out as good as I wanted it.
	But this story is like my origin tale, man.
	It like really describes how I ended up the way that I did.
	I want to read a passage from the early part of the book.
	So this is when I had a corporate job.
	I don't know if you know this.
	I was a microbiologist.
	Okay.
	And I had a boss.
	His name was Dr. Wang.
	Okay.
	The closer I got to giving Dr. Wang my two weeks' notice, the more insolent I became.
	I started coming in extra late to minimize the time I would see him.
	I went home for lunches so he couldn't find me.
	I took walks to the convenience store nearby instead of hanging out in the break room.
	Just a bit longer, my wall calendar told me, and I could go until finally the day arrived.
	I asked Dr. Wang if he could talk for a minute.
	He knew something was wrong because I never asked him for a private conversation.
	I just came out with it.
	Dr. Wang, I like to put in my two weeks' notice.
	What?
	Yeah, it's just time for me to move on.
	I want to take some time off.
	But I thought you were so happy here.
	You were going to start working on getting your master's degree.
	Why would you want to leave?
	I just want to take a long vacation, I guess.
	I'm not sure, but I want to take a break.
	I wanted to tell him all the reasons I hated him and his work.
	I wanted to tell him why working for a corporation is a one-way path to a stale, monotonous life where the only thing to look forward to are increasingly dull weekends.
	But what would be the point?
	I would just waste my energy on a man who believed in the system.
	There was nothing he could do to change my mind.
	I already told my roommate I'd be moving out.
	I believed in this decision too much to be convinced otherwise.
	And if my mom couldn't talk me out of it, then definitely not Dr. Wang.
	Wow, it's deep.
	So this book's, I'm doing a sale for $3.
	Normal price is $9.
	And this is on the e-book in the link below.
	You can get on the Amazon Kindle, or you can do a direct download.
	I got PDF, Momi, and EPUB.
	So this is going to, the sale is going on for the next 24 hours.
	I want to do one more passage, guys.
	Do you like the way I read?
	I read with intensity.
	All right, let's do one more passage and then we'll start taking calls.
	All right.
	So then I went on this trip.
	I went to South America and it was nothing like I thought.
	I was a newbie and it was difficult.
	I kept getting sick and stuff.
	But finally, when I got to Argentina, the girls started, it started to meet them.
	So that went.
	Was someone crying?
	Oh, that's something outside.
	OK, it sounds like it's close.
	It's right outside my window.
	Okay.
	I'm sure someone online is going to be like, Rouch has slaves locked up.
	Okay, so then I started going out.
	I met some dudes and then we were hitting on girls.
	Okay.
	I sat in the front seat and the chubby girl got on my lap.
	Chubby means fat.
	I positioned her body in a way that much of her weight was against the door instead of crushing my body.
	The Irishman was in the back seat with three girls.
	And during the commotion he caused, my girl started giving me kisses on my neck and cheek.
	But inexplicably, she pulled back two times when I tried to kiss her on the lips.
	She eventually gave in, but the kiss was a lot shorter and less sloppy than I imagined based on the attention she was giving me.
	Maybe she held back because her friends were watching.
	The cab dropped us all off.
	And at that point, the game became one of endurance to outlast the cock blockers before they succeeded in their mission.
	One girl vanished into a house while another girl pulled my chubby girl, fat girl, into another cab.
	All that was left was a girl who the Irishman talked to a bit in the club.
	He won.
	He endured and he outlasted and he banged his girl at her parents' place while I got nothing from my troubles except a long walk home.
	I felt like I got close, even though I really didn't.
	Wow, man, this book is like I was when I was younger, I really wanted it.
	Man, I wanted to experience these things.
	I really tried.
	You know, I thought changing my environment would open the doors.
	And well, you want to find out what happens?
	Well, you kind of know, but if you want to see how this all went down, check the link below.
	I'm putting the book on sale, $3 for one day to keep you busy until the game comes out.
	So, and when you read it, if you read it, let me know what you think about it.
	There's some embarrassing things in there, too.
	I really don't hide.
	There was a few things that happened that I wouldn't willingly share today, but the book is written.
	So, anyway.
	All right.
	And before we start with calls, we got two super chats.
	We got one from Oliver B.
	He donated five pounds.
	He said, Hey, Rouch, hope you're good.
	Will you be doing a Europe book tour?
	No, because the European Union is going to ban me if I do another meetup there.
	I already have a file with the European Union thanks to a UK minister of European Parliament.
	She started to file on me.
	And after my Icelandic experience where I was detained, I don't think Europe is going to is going to go down.
	James Allen donated $199.
	He said, Alu Akbar, do you do shout out?
	R-Okay, right?
	Okay, I think he's a newbie.
	He doesn't know.
	And then you donate another $2.99.
	I want to play for Chelsea.
	What can I do?
	He's just trolling, but he can keep the super chats coming.
	Okay, are you ready for the first call?
	Dude's like, finally, man.
	What is with that long intro?
	Look, I like hearing myself talk.
	Okay.
	Is that so wrong?
	I have things I have to share.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Uncle Rushi, what's going on, brother?
	What is up?
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm calling you from a rocking chair outside of a cracker barrel in the UX South.
	Nice.
	So what is going on?
	Is that what?
	Before I say anything, you know, I watched that You On the Ukrainian Variety show.
	Oh, God.
	You kind of reminded me a little bit of Ben Affleck and Argo, your look.
	Yeah, when I had that shaggy haircut, that's what I got a lot.
	But I can't do it anymore because my hair is starting to thin.
	Doesn't look as good anymore.
	Oh, shit.
	Yeah.
	Getting old.
	Okay, so I have a few things for you.
	I'm going to try and keep it as brief as possible.
	So my first question is: What do you think, in your opinion, is the main driving force between the animox, the animosity that is right now between the sexes?
	In other words, girls like men, men like women.
	End of story.
	Why is it so complicated?
	I mean, I wish there was only one cause because if there was one cause, then maybe it's easy, easy to solve.
	And the reality is that there's multiple causes to it.
	But I think the two biggest ones, I can talk about the two biggest ones.
	The one is that men don't tell women what to do.
	They don't command authority from them.
	They don't tell, they don't assert their natural dominance, which nature gave them.
	Do not assert themselves.
	Right.
	They don't assert themselves over women.
	So therefore, they completely survive.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Are you surprised?
	Let me talk, though.
	So then, so they don't assert themselves.
	And then they encourage women to make choices on their own to live life as they want it.
	But women ultimately don't know what they want.
	They only know how they feel.
	So they go by moment to moment.
	So that's the first thing.
	And the second thing is that we have given women too many choices.
	And just like if you were overwhelmed with choices on what TV to buy, what car to buy, it becomes impossible for you to be ultimately satisfied with what you do end up with.
	So we're giving women unlimited choices in men, jobs, entertainment, and they're miserable.
	They're miserable.
	And if you are miserable, guess what happens to the people who are around you?
	You make them miserable too.
	So women are not happy because we're not asserting ourselves over them and because they have a lot of choice.
	And so therefore they make those that they have to interact with, you and me, miserable too.
	It's completely counterproductive for everybody involved.
	But that's just the way it is.
	The way that modern society is set up, I mean, you can't, I mean, you can try to stop it.
	You can have a blog like mine and reach tens of thousands of people and red pill everyone, but you're just a drop in the bucket.
	So really, the best thing you can do is individually navigate this problem as best as you can.
	Absolutely.
	And my next question to you is: where do you see the United States?
	It's the year 2050, racially, economically, and culturally.
	It's probably going to be like Brazil, probably a very diverse country, slums everywhere.
	You're going to have the managerial elite at the top controlling the fumes left over from the economy.
	And I don't see any reversal of the demographics that we're starting to see now because no American has the stomach to deport or kill people who they feel are not American, not white, and so on.
	So I think a Brazilian future combined with some elements of South Africa where the minorities are allowed to kill and hunt and marginalize the previous dominant race.
	That's probably what's going to end up happening, especially on the coast, East Coast and the West Coast and the existing blue cities.
	That's what's going to happen.
	So in other words, demographics is destiny.
	Yeah.
	And even if you cut off the immigration supply right now and deport 10% of the Mexicans, you still have a ton of minorities in the United States that is reproducing at a greater rate than the white people because the white people are most susceptible to the paws that the cosmopolitan elite are pushing onto everybody.
	Yeah, very good point.
	And my final question: 2020 election.
	Does Trump take it?
	Why or why not?
	You know, it's really hard to tell.
	I feel like we're going week to week and, you know, Trump gets the upper hand and the media is going to bitch slap him.
	And I think, though, one indication that he will win is how desperate the left is to one, they've been talking about lower the age to vote to like 16.
	And two, how they are really doubling down on allowing non-citizens to vote.
	They're starting it in local elections.
	I know Boston and California.
	So this means that their prognosticators have calculated that they can't win through their current modes of cheating and they need to cheat more that no matter because they flooded the country, but some reason, for every Mexican they allow to enter the country, one of their traditional allies, maybe it's a white person, a black person, decides to jump ship and like that movement to walk away.
	And so they decide not to vote or vote for Trump.
	So it's like this game they're playing is like, man, we're doing everything we can to screw to win these elections, but it's not enough.
	So they have to keep lowering the bar to the point where the whole election system is just going to be a complete massive joke.
	But I think Trump is going to win.
	Gotcha.
	Well, I appreciate you taking the call.
	Appreciate all the material.
	Keep up the good work and much love.
	Thank you very much.
	Thank you.
	Bye-bye.
	Bye-bye.
	Okay.
	So we got Guillermo Fuentes.
	He donated $5.
	He said, should I get a kid?
	I'm 30 years old.
	What are the pros and cons?
	I'm not married.
	I mean, if you have to ask someone else if you should have a kid, maybe you're not ready yet.
	It should be such a strong conviction of yours that you want a child.
	Pros and cons.
	I mean, I don't think you should look at having a child as something that you would approach getting a job, like the pros of this job versus that job.
	It seems like you're trying to use logic.
	I don't know if that works.
	James Allen donated $9.99.
	He said, I'm the caller who called last time, bought bang and day bang.
	I was nervous last time, just wanted to help out, Roosh.
	He helped me when no one else would.
	I was a beta who had nothing.
	Thank you, James.
	See, I care.
	I care.
	And I hope I can help you, James, and millions of other men.
	Okay, let's get the next caller.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Oh, hey, Roosh.
	How's it going?
	What's going on?
	So I've been, I'm calling from the West Coast and U.S. I'm one, I've been following your work for a long time.
	I'd say, you know, read a lot of your books, studied a lot of the world, and, you know, have really familiar with a lot of the different cultures within the cities and countries around the world.
	But what's finally come to my mind is collectivist cultures versus individualistic cultures.
	So I was wondering what your opinion is of that.
	What I'm noticing is that generally I'm seeing that a lot in a lot of the individualistic societies, women are worse.
	Whereas in a lot of the collective societies, it seems like most of the countries on the forums and the places we talk about generally have better women.
	So I'm wondering about your opinion of that.
	Well, I mean, I don't really use that as a judge.
	I don't use that to determine what's good or not.
	I mean, it's such an subjective metric.
	You know, I don't really think any woman is individual anyway.
	She's so attached to what others are doing.
	She's a part of her social group.
	So even in individualistic countries, if we can agree that this country is individualistic, the women are still collective.
	And they're only, so I mean, I'm not sure what use that that's going to give us by analyzing this or that.
	Because even if you find the most ideal country today, it's going to change within a couple of years anyway.
	I see.
	So you feel like there's too many other measures to use, to use culture as like a metric.
	The only measure you need to use is to put your body physically in the country that you are interested in and stay there for a few months and evaluate if you enjoy it or not.
	That's it.
	Because while you can make a prediction if this country is going to be good in the future or bad in the future, all you really have to go by is what you see right now.
	The even the history of a country is meaningless if it conflicts with what you're seeing now.
	So, I don't play this type of game.
	I don't play the type of game of looking at a society as a whole, where it's going, why it is.
	I don't like to answer the why.
	I don't care why a country is.
	I just care what it is and if it serves the needs that I want right now.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	That's it.
	And my, you know, my second question here is: I remember a long time ago you made like a forum post about this.
	But as far as I remember you wrote like a story about how your little brother was being raised in a public school in Washington, D.C., how like he was, he was told he couldn't be friends with a guy because the guy was like taking on other kids or something.
	And you were kind of upset because he should be able to be friends with anyone.
	So I was wondering if you have advice and tips on how to raise or teach a little brother in like in the U.S. society that kind of makes men like women.
	Really, the best thing you can do is spend time with him.
	If you are a red pill man, just spending time with those around you is enough.
	You don't have to lecture him, give him a program, you know, put him through these kinds of challenges.
	Just be with him.
	He will absorb.
	I mean, young kids, especially, they absorb the energy that is around them.
	If their dad is masculine, the child will absorb it without the father consciously teaching his kid anything.
	You know, you don't have to do anything.
	There's nothing to do except spend time with him.
	It's just the FaceTime.
	That's all.
	Just talk to them.
	Just be with them.
	You know, because why should your goal be, I want to change my brother instead of I want to be with him?
	I want to love him.
	That should be the only concern.
	You know, if you want to change your brother, then you're getting your ego involved.
	I want to assert myself over him.
	I want to assert my views over him.
	A lot of parents, they do this.
	They want to create mini-mis.
	Or even worse, you have women, single moms, raising their sons to be gender neutral and putting makeup on them and female clothing.
	They have an outcome.
	They have an agenda, a goal for their child, and they're doing everything possible.
	I say have no goal.
	Just be with him.
	You know, if you are a man, he will learn what being a man is from you just by spending time with you.
	I get you.
	And do you feel like playing sports or doing certain activities also?
	Do not ask that.
	Just spend time with him.
	Enjoy the time with him.
	If it's sports, do it.
	If it's going for a walk, do it.
	But if you don't like sports and then you think in your mind, well, playing sports is a masculine activity, he's going to sense from you that you don't like it.
	So now you're doing forced activities.
	Do what you want.
	If it's just sitting in a room and staring at the wall, watching the paint dry, that is fine too.
	Then he's going to learn maybe a stoic quality.
	So I'm not saying don't have a goal.
	Don't do any, don't do anything.
	Just spend time with him.
	And maybe you're going to get in the mood to get ice cream and you go for ice cream.
	That's it.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Thanks, Roosh.
	Okay.
	I think that's about that's about it.
	Okay, good.
	So if anything comes up, call again.
	All right, all right man bye bye, all right.
	Someone asks, what if your son wants to be a drag kid?
	Well, how?
	How could that happen if you are spending time with him?
	If you're not a gay dad?
	If you're, if your wife is not an sjw, how could that even?
	Where could he even get the idea?
	You know, kids don't just randomly come up with, oh, I want to be a tranny.
	You have to push it on them.
	You know, it's like they did studies where even a baby that's super young, a male baby, is gravitating towards these tough, tougher toys and trucks, and girls are gravitating towards dolls.
	You don't have to teach them anything.
	They naturally want to fulfill their sex-linked roles.
	It's only when you want them to go opposite that, when you want to teach a kid to be gay or a tranny, yeah, then you have to bombard them.
	You have to steer them.
	But if you're a man, you don't have to steer your brother or your son.
	Just be with him.
	That's it.
	Does banging eight plus broads count as a sport?
	At times does.
	You know, maybe banging one broad is not a sport, but to do it around the world, you're traveling.
	You develop your system, your methods.
	You know, you know how to perform at peak level, peak masculinity.
	You know, Arnold, he knows how to do it.
	He has a checklist before he goes out.
	Okay, Alex Keeley donated two pounds.
	Big up, Ruch.
	Thanks.
	Jar donated $5.
	Tell us about the time you and Hartise banged the same Asian groupie.
	Wow, that's that's old, man.
	That's like 2005.
	I don't know.
	So you must have been in the DC sphere.
	You know, this was, I don't know if Hartise is the Roycey, but yeah, me and Roycey in DC, we had, we engaged in fornication with the same blog groupie.
	And I hit it first, though.
	That's right.
	I hit that groupie first.
	But there's nothing to really say.
	Okay.
	And we got Eric T donated $50.
	Thank you, Eric.
	I'm engaged to an Asian girl.
	Hopefully not the same girl.
	I'm not sure if this is more because of the awful state of white women in the USA, but especially California, or because of the ultra-feminine qualities that Asian women tend to exhibit.
	What's your opinion of Asian women?
	Some of them are really nice, man.
	Some of them are really feminine and cute.
	They have quirky personalities.
	That's it.
	I mean, if you like them, it doesn't matter what I think.
	I don't prefer them.
	I don't know why.
	I mean, have you ever met a Persian guy who likes Asian girls?
	It's just not in our genes, I don't think.
	It's very rare to find Persian dudes with Asians.
	I just don't feel a natural, a natural connection.
	As for you, if she's serving your needs and you don't mind her race and having children that are mixed, it shouldn't matter.
	You know, it shouldn't.
	So it's really up to you.
	Don't listen to what everyone else says.
	Just do you love her?
	Do you want to have a family with her?
	And that's what really matters.
	Okay, let's go to next one.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hello, I'm alive.
	Yes, you are.
	All right.
	Hey, Ruth.
	I was going to say, I'm a big fan of your work and help me out.
	Sure thing.
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm calling from New Jersey.
	Jersey.
	Uh-oh.
	I already know.
	Jersey is a tough place.
	All the guys that have called from Jersey are really struggling.
	Yeah, dude.
	So, yeah, it's been pretty bad here.
	But I just have a first question.
	So I'm still like in school, still high school.
	I'm senior right now.
	And I've just been noticing how, you know, this generation, everybody's like, I'm going to have a huge career, even like the girls, everyone's planning like medical school, this, that.
	And nobody's really thinking about families anymore, being less family orientated.
	So I'm like 18 now.
	When I, you know, enter the workforce, grow up, become older, do you think there's going to be like a massive shift in society in terms of like people not marrying or not really?
	Well, the one guarantee in life is change.
	Things constantly change.
	Don't get too attached to how things are today because it's going to change.
	And I mean, just when I started game in 2001 compared to how now the changes are massive, massive changes.
	So unfortunately, it got worse, but the world doesn't always get worse constantly.
	Sometimes there's a blip where things go up.
	So there's no way to know.
	You know, there's no way to know how it's going to change.
	We only know that it will.
	As for, unfortunately, your generation, I mean, they, you know, some people say Generation Z is going to be the most red pill generation ever.
	And I see some of that, but I don't think you can just wait, just wait till things magically get better.
	So you're going to have to figure out starting now what you can do to maybe separate yourself from the things that you don't want to be a part of.
	So if you're going to a university, I guarantee you're going to see that.
	You are going to see career-minded girls, but before they get their career established, they're going to want to have fun.
	You know, they're going to want to bang all the frat chads.
	And if, you know, so I can tell, I can hear from the tone of your voice, you don't really want to just bang.
	You know, you don't mind finding a girl right now.
	And that's one of the biggest problems that guys have.
	They don't want to bang around.
	They just want a nice girl.
	They want to love her.
	And I wish there was an easy way.
	But the only way I can think of is, you know, building yourself up as a man, building up your value, your attraction, becoming competent at the game, playing the field a little bit until you know what you're doing.
	So that when you do meet the girl that you like, you don't lose her due to a simple mistake from not having any experience.
	All right.
	Yeah, that makes sense.
	So, I mean, second question.
	So I've been at parties.
	I've been thinking about this.
	So if I'm in a social scenario where there's like a bunch of chicks that don't know me, you know, they're obviously trying to get an idea of my status and like where I stand.
	So if I was to approach like a five and there were like eights around, would they then, like, if they had a high idea of my status, think I'm lower?
	And then if I were to approach them after, would kind of think, oh, this guy approached a five.
	He's obviously not worth it now.
	Yeah, this is usually you want to not display the low quality girls that you sleep with.
	Usually.
	All right.
	A five is not a five is like average.
	So that's not something you have to consciously hide.
	It's not, I mean, a girl will be like, why is he with her?
	You know, in some ways, if you get with a five or six, a seven's gonna be jealous of the girl and like, wait, is she as hot as me?
	That's if they're only a point or two away, but if she's like a two, I mean, then, yeah, you want to hide that.
	I mean, if you're banging twos that are huge, like you don't want to even show anybody, you just want to not even go to the make the McDonald's for a double cheeseburger.
	You just want to get her to your place, make sure there's no cameras in your apartment hall.
	But in terms of a five, and the girl is an eight, uh, I don't, I think it's probably if the eight doesn't even know you exist, but by getting with the five, it puts her on your on her radar somewhat.
	I think it's gonna help you a bit.
	Yeah, yeah, I understand, I see what you mean about that.
	Yeah, and yeah, just quick last question.
	So, there's this hot chick I wanted to get with in my class, and she literally just texted me yesterday.
	I'm gonna read this right now.
	Oh, nice.
	She said, Oh boy, yeah, you're gonna love this.
	She said, Not, I literally, I just basically asked her out, and she said, Not sure if I want to date you, but I'll keep you in mind.
	That's a nice way of saying that, yeah, exactly.
	That's okay.
	I would you wouldn't recommend keeping her around.
	The best thing, I mean, she's not around now if she's sending you texts like that.
	But listen, it's very when a girl is not like she's she's like commenting on my Instagram.
	No, no, no, no, no, stop, stop, stop.
	You are trying to rationalize being her beta orbiter.
	Stop it.
	She rejected you, she is not attracted to you.
	She does this to a lot of guys, and she loves the attention that guys like you give her.
	So, that's why she's keeping you on the line with her very low investment comments on your Instagram.
	She is not attracted to you, she rejected you.
	Accept it, let it flow through you.
	It sucks, it doesn't feel good, but it's there.
	Now, when a girl makes a decision to reject a guy, it's usually very firm, very firm.
	It's very difficult to change a girl's mind unless you wait 10 years after she's banged out 100 guys and then she is looking for the good guy.
	So, if you want to go on the 10-year plan, that's fine.
	The only other alternative is for her to find out that you're banging other girls.
	That's it.
	That's the only way that you can change her mind, but that's not even a guarantee.
	And if you're banging other girls, you're going to get over her anyway.
	So, I can see that you like her, and shoot, we all like hotties, but I do not involve advise keeping her around because you're in the friend zone now, so you're going to be a beta orbiter.
	If you want to sign up to be a beta orbiter, that has like a 0.0.1, I can't even do math, 0.01% chance of going anywhere.
	And you have to wait till she's given up her prime body to other men and wait till that sagginess and the cellulite starts to develop.
	Yeah, because I mean, she's still trying to nag me now.
	I just got to tell her to screw off because obviously, she's not hurt, she's with other people right now.
	So, yeah, I'm sure, but just do it in a way that doesn't reveal you are butthurt.
	Don't do it in a way like, I don't want to talk to you again, or don't text me again.
	Just freeze her out, just go, just go cold and let her hear from the grapevine how much fun you're having banging at least a five.
	All right, all right, thanks for the advice, Russia.
	All right, man, bye-bye.
	Yeah, I mean, when you're a young guy and the first girl puts you in the friend zone, especially if she's hot, that it hurts.
	You know, I'm not going to say that I wasn't hurt the first time I was friend zoned.
	Arnold was alive and I was just crying with him.
	You know, he's my emotional support pug.
	When I fly, I take him because I get all this anxiety.
	Okay, Arnold is very patient and respectful.
	Yes, he is.
	He is a well-trained pug.
	All right.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Hello.
	Yes.
	I can hear you.
	I'm from Michigan.
	You are the Michigan caller.
	Yeah.
	With the autism.
	Yeah.
	And how is life?
	Well, a lot of stuff has happened.
	Oh, okay.
	going pretty well and so am i i'm in the closet You're in the closet.
	I'm trying to hide from my dad because I don't want to hear stuff.
	I thought you meant that you were gay now.
	Oh, no, no.
	Okay.
	You know, some guys have to be in the closet when they do call in, and that's okay.
	Anyway, so I do have a couple of questions and then some for my sister.
	If she's not here, she's at camp.
	Okay.
	Well, tell her I said hi.
	All right.
	So this one's for career.
	I mean, you said you were pre-med, I remember, right?
	So I was wondering, like, what are some alternatives that are high paying?
	Because I was, like I said, going to be pre-med, but then I switched out because I really wasn't interested.
	But I want like a high income with my dad because he's a doctor himself.
	And he actually was bashing me a lot for leaving medicine, the pre-med stuff.
	You know, asking me for career advice, like what pays well, you're asking the wrong guy.
	I don't know.
	Anything outside of the social sciences, but why would you, but anything that pays well, you have to work for other people, work for a corporation or firm.
	I mean, you're in the stock market.
	I don't know.
	I don't have I have almost no experience with the current labor market.
	You're asking the wrong dude.
	Sorry.
	I know when to stay in my lane.
	And I don't know.
	If you want to work in a corporation, go online, Google that stuff.
	What pays well?
	That's going to tell you more than what I know.
	All right.
	So yeah, I guess that was a good thing because I got like a bad grade during the summer and basically I was definitely affecting my GPA.
	Okay.
	I got G, I think.
	That sucks.
	So yeah, I definitely couldn't get into med school.
	Well, you can always do those two-year masters programs where you didn't do well enough in undergrad, then you do the two years masters, then you use those grades to get into med school.
	So if you really want to get in, you can get in.
	Or just on your application, say you are black.
	Yeah, I guess I could pass for black.
	Yeah, that's what one person said.
	All right, so back to game.
	Like I said, I know something when I talk to people, I feel like I say the wrong things, you know?
	Because during this one, I was talking to this one older woman from Els, and I was actually mentioning like her age.
	And I was like, oh, shit, I can't believe I said that.
	And she started freaking out.
	I forgot how it was because it was actually a couple of weeks ago.
	I feel like I say the stupid things, you know?
	That's okay.
	I mean, you're still a young guy, and I've said a million stupid things.
	Just got a threat of violence from a female on Friday, and I'm an old guy.
	So, you're never going to not, you are never going to be completely perfect.
	And having an expectation that you're going to say perfect things is unreasonable.
	So, just when you say an imperfect thing, just let it apologize.
	Oh, I'm so sorry.
	Just like, oh, it was a joke.
	You know, maybe you can nag her, like, well, maybe if you had a sense of humor, you would love my awesome jokes, or you just raise your hand up and threaten to slap her.
	Like, what?
	Yeah, thought so.
	Yeah.
	Also, I seem to notice, too, is that I get really jealous whenever I see a couple.
	I mean, I'm not, I'm not like the incel jealous, but I'm like, why am I not like, you know, like, why am I not okay?
	Well, we can talk about that.
	So, when you see a guy in a Lamborghini, do you get jealous?
	Somewhat.
	Okay.
	And then, do you think, though, what he had to do to get that to get that car, how much it cost?
	I mean, yeah, I understand that part.
	So, then when you see a guy with an expensive car, or when I do, I appreciate this car, you know, but a hundred thousand dollars and my that's not like that, actually.
	Hold on, it's not that type of jealousy.
	Okay, I mean, I actually appreciate the guys who do that, even the alpha males with the girls.
	I appreciate that.
	It's just that it's like it's really more towards myself, if you get what I mean being hard myself.
	So, you want the girl that he has.
	No, no, no, but I'm like, why am I not getting this a girl like her?
	You know, well, if you let me use, well, because either your standards are too high, or you're not trying hard enough, or unfortunately, life is not fair.
	That even if you work as hard as you know, a man going to the moon, you maybe can get that type of girl.
	Yeah, it isn't fair.
	And in the old days, you would live in a village and just you'd have one option to get married to you know, I don't know, Helga, and then on the right is Beatrice, and Beatrice is fat, and your wife is fat, so what?
	But now, like, all these fine young women, fresh meat is being shoved into your face, so you feel bad.
	So, you need to move to like a village, yeah.
	Actually, I'm in a village right now.
	I'm actually one of the my family's like one of the only good-looking ones, not to be condescending or anything.
	I mean, listen, this I mean, it's this is a common problem, guys have this problem, they they see, but you didn't let me finish earlier when I tried to give you the analogy.
	There is a cost to whatever you see that a guy, a guy has.
	If you see in a guy, if you see a guy in an expensive car, you wonder why I don't have that car.
	But you could get it if you just are willing to pay a price for it, and it's a high price the more expensive that the car is.
	For some of these girls, you see the beauty of the woman.
	Oh, she's beautiful, and you see them holding hands, they seem so happy, but you don't know the price he had to pay.
	And for some men, it's very high because guess what?
	She's not only dating him, you don't know how badly she has had to cuck him in order for her for him to publicly show her off.
	What abuse this guy has to take.
	So, when you see the couple, you're like, oh, I wish I had that.
	But there is a cost to anything beautiful in this world, a big cost.
	You know, I mean, I know there are guys.
	Okay.
	There's, I mean, I don't want to get into people I know, but on the outside, I know couples that seem happy.
	But when you peel that back, the guy is not happy because of the price that he has to keep paying, the maintenance costs to keep that pretty girl.
	It can be very high.
	So, don't.
	So, what I want you to do is when you see that couple, think of the cost.
	And there is a cost.
	There's always a cost.
	There's nothing free in life.
	You know, when you're willing to pay that cost, and even you can get it if you become a rich dude, you can buy her.
	Let's just say, right?
	There is a way.
	There is a path.
	So, do you want to pay it?
	And it doesn't, and you are jealous, but you're not willing to pay that price.
	So, who are you jealous of?
	It's your own issue that you don't want to pay.
	Why would I get jealous of a guy in a Lamborghini if I'm too cheap to buy that car?
	Let's just say, you know, yeah.
	Okay, so that's what you can do for the next time.
	Think of the cost.
	And then, once you do, and if you're willing to pay that cost as well, then you can get a girl that makes you happy.
	Okay, for my final question, and then to my sisters, I was wondering, like, for any since I'm going back to school within two months, I was wondering, like, if I get rejected by a girl, what do I do with her when I see or see her in class?
	Nothing.
	I mean, you don't do anything.
	Just like that, just say hi and then you don't have to do anything.
	Nothing.
	She doesn't want to talk to you.
	That's fine.
	So why would you keep on trying to talk to her?
	Okay.
	All right.
	So for my sister, she also if she wants to ask me something, she has to be here.
	Uh, she said she's in camp.
	Well, tell her when she comes back.
	Next time I do a live stream, then she can ask me.
	Also, I was wondering: what do I is there a way I can contact you by email or something?
	All right.
	Okay.
	So if you want to talk to me again, you got to call in.
	All right.
	All right, buddy.
	Bye.
	Okay.
	Bye-bye.
	That's enough questions.
	Come on.
	How many was that?
	Four.
	Oh, so there was a guy that I know.
	He got married three months ago, and he is a nice guy.
	And his girlfriend is cute.
	And then I saw him at the party on Friday night, the epic party.
	And he says something that scared me shitless.
	He said, so before I got married, when I wanted to watch a movie, I would ask myself, what do I want to watch?
	But now, when I want to watch a movie, I have to ask, what do we want to watch?
	And I was like, yeah, marriage.
	That's.
	And everyone keeps pushing me into it.
	Like, Roosh, you got to get married.
	Roosh, you got to get married.
	You first, man.
	You first.
	I think I'm okay now.
	I got, I got Arnold and we can watch whatever the fuck we want.
	What do we want to watch?
	Or, and he said, like, what do we want to eat?
	Oh, man, to get approval on the basic things.
	And he's cool.
	He's not like being actively cucked by her or anything.
	I don't see her with other dudes.
	But yeah, I'm good, man.
	I'm good.
	Please don't put me in any box.
	The Roosh wants to be free.
	Me and Arnold are free.
	So, Arnold, what do we want to do now?
	We want to take another call.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now alive.
	Hello?
	Yes.
	Hi, I'm from the UK.
	Okay.
	And what is going on there?
	From the country I'm not allowed to step foot in.
	Unfortunately.
	I'm just wondering about going to university.
	I'm 18.
	Okay.
	Increasing social value.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Just like, what will be the best way to be about?
	Have a lot of friends.
	When you're 18, the guy who is popular seems to get most of the rewards socially.
	So just to be that social guy, that fun guy who people can't wait till he arrives at the parties to be fun, exciting, make jokes, make people laugh.
	What else does a girl at your age wait to?
	Yeah, to make friends.
	You got to be, you have to give value to people.
	Make them feel good.
	Make them laugh happy.
	Buy the booze at the parties.
	You know, help them find out, find out what the answers to the exam is and give it to people.
	What do you think about like sports?
	That's one of the things.
	People like men who play in sports and who win games.
	That's another.
	If you're good at sports, by all means.
	You know, the only thing is if you're 18 and want to get the women at that age, being an extrovert is key.
	That's the one rule.
	An 18-year-old introvert doesn't get shit.
	Doesn't get anything.
	He gets male friends who like to play chess and poker and video games.
	But it's not fair because I was an introvert at that age.
	I wasn't a party guy.
	I wasn't even confident enough to roll into a party and check out the scene.
	But that's at your age, that's what it takes.
	So when like meeting these people, how would you like go about that?
	It's not step by step.
	I know you want a formula, a step-by-step say this, then it's, but it's not a logic tree where if then, then do this.
	Like if you have to ask this, that means you're probably, it's going to be tough.
	You know, so it's, it doesn't sound like it's already in you.
	So then if it's not in you, you're going to have a problem.
	Because at your age, the key is having a social circle and friends.
	Do you have a lot of friends?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So leverage that.
	Hang out with them.
	Go out with them and keep on doing that.
	And when you see a girl at a party, find out who knows her and get someone to introduce you.
	And then you spit game.
	But they're not going to come to you.
	Even if you get this high social value, you still have to work at it.
	You still have to make the moves.
	Yeah, I think small talk is like the biggest problem I have, to be honest.
	I wrote a book on that.
	Daybang.
	Daybang is basically, I can rename that how to have conversations.
	Buy that book.
	It gives you, gives you examples after example to have non-sexualized conversations.
	You got to start somewhere.
	Yeah, I've uh I ordered um one of Rolo's books as well.
	No, don't buy that book, buy my book.
	He's an old man, Rolo.
	I don't think he's even picked up a girl in the smartphone era.
	Why would you get advice from a guy who's not in the game?
	Me and Arnold are in the game, still in the game.
	Yeah, I'm just thinking about like why to read and like lots of different people like I spend a lot of time on.
	I just told you what to read, I told you what to do.
	That's it.
	Now go do it for a couple of months.
	I will do all right.
	All right, thanks very much.
	No problem.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	Bye.
	Yeah, there's no magic trick.
	You just need a couple tips and you go do it.
	You know, when I want to learn how to swim, I don't read a book on how to swim as much as I just watch a YouTube video of some guy swimming.
	Then I go and swim.
	Then I come back, I watch another video.
	Oh, I did my legs wrong.
	Then go back and swim.
	It's mostly doing.
	I mean, learning how to talk to people and being a friend, the book can only take you so far.
	I think a lot of what my books do is gives you permission to be a man.
	It's like, oh shit, I can do this.
	It's already in you.
	You just need someone to unlock it.
	And God put me on this earth to unlock the masculinity and sexual power of a lot of men.
	Let's do the next call.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Oh, hi, Rush.
	How are you?
	Oh, I'm good.
	I'm calling from Albany, New York.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	And do you have the video on because I can hear like an echo?
	Maybe you got to get closer to the microphone.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	So you can just mute that.
	Okay.
	How's okay?
	How's that?
	Is that better?
	I think it's better now.
	Okay.
	So I'm anyway.
	I'm calling from Albany, New York.
	Okay.
	So I like to talk today about first I like to talk about like office relationships and then move on to something more general.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So like I'm a grad student and two of my colleagues, one male and one female.
	Okay.
	So the male basically asked the female out in a half-assed way.
	Okay.
	And female respond responded with a no, like no surprise.
	And she also added because you shouldn't date like co-workers or neighbors.
	So wait, she said that it's not a good idea to date a co-worker.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And or neighbors, et cetera.
	Okay.
	So, but to me, it sounds like she's using that as an excuse.
	And what I think the real reason is that the attraction is just not there.
	Do you think that's a plausible assumption?
	Well, then the one thing I would ask you is if the guy was Brad Pitt and Brad Pitt, or he was a 10 out of a 10 Chad, would and he and the Chad asked her out, would she then say while her vagina is leaking fluids, leaking sexual lubrication, oh, I don't date co-workers.
	Okay.
	Okay, no.
	So the race and age of those two are the male was a Chinese or a national and he's about 30.
	And the female, she was in fact a 29-year-old Iranian girl.
	Aware?
	Aware.
	A Persian.
	Iranian girl.
	Persian.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So my assumption is that she's just using that as an excuse.
	Like the attraction was just not there.
	Okay.
	She's just using it as a cop-out.
	Is that correct?
	You know, I don't think it matters.
	I don't think, I mean, anyway, we should ignore any explanation a girl gives because even she doesn't know why she says yes or no to a man.
	So you're trying to interpret her logical explanations to another man on if you should ask out a co-worker type of co-worker or not.
	And, you know, I think you're having some doubt on doing this.
	And I can understand that.
	So one thing I would ask you is how, if you, if she says no, how often do you have to see her?
	Like, is she going to be a part of your daily work life?
	Yes.
	So why don't you go hit on other girls?
	No, well, well, that's not my question right now.
	Like, I'm not, I haven't disclosed this to anyone like so far.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You're the first to disclose this to.
	I feel special.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So so what do you okay?
	So what do you want to know?
	Okay.
	So in general, I think that, so like, do you think if as long as there is attraction between like a man and a woman, that no, it does, it would not matter if like the woman in question is already married or is your coworker or is or etc.
	Like she is only if she says that it only means that she's using it as an excuse.
	Like do you think so?
	It doesn't matter.
	Listen, I don't care about the logic behind attraction unless I'm teaching it because logically minded guys want to understand it.
	But when it comes to a specific girl, who cares?
	I don't care.
	I don't care what she wants, what she doesn't want.
	I don't care what she told another guy.
	Do I want to have sex with her or not?
	If not, then it doesn't matter.
	You know, because it just doesn't matter.
	Girls are different enough that what works on her may not work on the next girl.
	But if I want to have sex with her, then I figure out how I'm going to do it.
	So do you want to sleep with her or not?
	Okay, well, it's not something.
	It's not a girl that I would.
	So why are you calling in about this girl?
	Why would you call in to ask about a girl that you don't even want to sleep with?
	I think you do, but you haven't admitted it.
	No, no, Roosh.
	What I'm getting at, my more general is that.
	Is that, so do you think it's very hard right now to guarantee loyalty?
	Like if you're married.
	Yes, it is.
	I've been talking about this for a long time.
	Girls have a lot of options, but man, I'm just, I'm just confused about you because you call in about this girl and about how you're like, you're trying to understand what she's doing with this other dude.
	You seemed a little bit happy that she said no to him.
	And I said, do you want to ask, do you want to sleep with her?
	And you said no.
	And then you change the subject in a really random way.
	I think you need to stroke your balls.
	Like, okay, put your hand on your balls right now.
	And I will wait.
	Do you want to fuck her?
	And your hand should be on your, on your balls.
	Feel the masculine essence.
	Be honest.
	Be honest now because you've been on hold for a while.
	So there's something about her that has gotten her stuck on your mind.
	You don't have to play games.
	Be honest.
	No, Roche.
	So why did you call me?
	Okay, so my general point is.
	You have no point.
	You have no point.
	There is no point.
	You're making it up as you go along.
	You're trying to logic your way out of this.
	Okay, so I see what you're doing there.
	You're trying to like.
	I'm trying to help you get to the point, but you're not getting to any point.
	And you're just dancing.
	You're dancing around.
	No, that is my point.
	What I want to talk about is: so you said it's hard to guarantee loyalty, right?
	Like marriage does not matter.
	Like whether you're in a relationship does not matter.
	So do you have that girlfriend?
	Yes.
	And you're thinking of getting married to her?
	And yes, that actually, yes, that is something I'm contemplating right now, okay?
	But what I want to ask you is that since you think it is very hard to guarantee loyalty, okay, like marriage, relationship.
	So like what, so what's the solution to that?
	Like, because marriage definitely is not.
	Listen, you can't guarantee anything in life.
	You can't, you can have the best game, the best fame, the big bucks doesn't guarantee anything.
	You can have a prenup.
	There's no way to guarantee anything.
	So you can't guarantee it.
	You can maximize the chance of success as much as you can, but you can't guarantee it.
	If you're going into a marriage thinking, oh, I'm guaranteeing this, this is going to work because this is checked off and that's checked off.
	You're going to be the first guy to get burned.
	Whenever a guy tells me, oh, no, my wife is good.
	Like, she's probably already fucking other dude.
	I mean, I'm sorry, but she's already like the guy who thinks it's impossible for his girl.
	I'm not saying you are, but the guy who thinks it's impossible for his girl to sleep around, that's the one that commits suicide after she does it.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay, oh, by the way, I forgot to tell you, you can take your hand off your balls now.
	Okay, I didn't do that anyway.
	Okay, I knew you were bullshitting me there.
	No, you're the one who is bullshitting me, man.
	What do you mean?
	I'm giving you good advice.
	You can't even pay for advice that's better.
	I mean, this is how you know.
	The fact that you're scared to put your hand on your balls is concerning to me because you have a crush on that Persian woman in your grad thing and you don't want to admit it.
	And you have a girlfriend that you know is going to cheat on you, probably.
	You got some issues, buddy.
	Okay, Roosh.
	Like, try to understand, okay?
	Like, no.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So, okay.
	So, my next question is, you said something about like the technology is such as like Instagram or like Twitter, like just like gaining the like just sucking up all the attention from like women, right?
	Caller, listen, I tried to get through to you, but you, I think you are trolling me softly.
	I don't think you really like, you're just ignoring what I'm saying.
	You didn't follow my instruction to feel your balls, to give me an honest answer.
	You haven't been honest with me.
	You just want to bullshit.
	Listen, I got 15 other callers who want to be honest.
	They want to tell me what they're really thinking and feeling.
	I'm sorry.
	I don't think you are that.
	You are that type of guy.
	So, what I want you to do is after this call, massage your balls and ask yourself what you really want in life.
	Then, call me back with your hand still on your balls.
	Thank you.
	Jesus Christ.
	You know, but what annoyed me more was that dang echo.
	I can talk to a guy, but the echo was really bothering me.
	Okay, let's take the next caller.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hey, Roosh.
	Yep, that's me.
	Hey, man.
	So I've been dating this girl and I wanted to just kind of get some advice on the situation.
	Sure thing.
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm in California.
	California.
	Okay, great.
	So what's up?
	So, okay, basically, I've been have a good feeling about her, but I read a lot of your stuff and it makes me really nervous about like infidelity and stuff.
	The first thing is I have to know what is your general age because if you're nervous, then my early 20s young, yeah, okay.
	And how old is your girlfriend-ish?
	Is same age?
	She's about two years younger than me.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So what?
	So let's talk about it.
	What are the good vibes that you're feeling with her?
	What is the relationship like?
	Well, for one, she told me I'm only the second guy that she's ever slept with.
	Okay.
	For another, she doesn't really like wear a lot of makeup or dress in revealing clothing.
	Or she lets me see her messages and she doesn't really post anything on Instagram that would be like attention hoary.
	Okay.
	How many followers does she have?
	I don't know, man.
	Probably just her friends.
	I don't use Instagram, so I haven't looked at it too closely, but she barely even posts pictures of herself on it.
	Okay.
	And when she said that she was the second guy, is that after you asked her, or did she just tell you?
	Oh, I asked her.
	So you asked her and she said too.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Carry on.
	Yeah.
	So, and she's an Eastern European immigrant.
	Okay.
	That's relevant.
	I mean, how long has she been in the U.S. for about eight months now, I think?
	So, so you met her pretty soon after she got there?
	Yeah, well, so she actually works with me.
	She's like an intern at my job.
	Okay.
	And I got to get to know her.
	What country is she from?
	I'd rather not say the country just because.
	Can you narrow it down to three of them?
	Like just name three.
	Yeah, it's either Greece, Romania, or Belarus.
	Okay.
	Area.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So has she given you any warning signs?
	So the main thing that I'm most concerned with is she has more, she has some male friends.
	Where?
	That before?
	In her home country.
	Here.
	Here?
	How?
	She's only been there.
	Everywhere, wherever she.
	Yes, well, she's got some friends that are also interns from Europe.
	Okay.
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	And I know how that is because we used to have these Eastern Europeans.
	They would come to the USA in the summer to work as lifeguards.
	And even though they were there for a month, they would hang in this big group.
	Okay.
	Yeah, exactly like that.
	So before I got with her, she was hanging out with them a lot.
	She would go out drinking with them.
	Okay.
	And then as we started dating, she would still do that.
	And I just had a huge problem with it.
	But why?
	Okay, then I would ask what there must be something specific about her drinking that bothered you.
	Does she drink a lot?
	Or have you noticed that the other guys were trying to get with her?
	No, I've never noticed them trying to get with her.
	They don't seem like very aggressive guys, honestly.
	One of them has his own girlfriend, actually.
	Because, yeah, I mean, the average two-year-old girl is going to know a lot of dudes.
	So, again, so far, you haven't told me anything out of the ordinary.
	Okay.
	So, okay, so is that the thing?
	I don't know.
	That's the worst of it.
	Is there anything else?
	So, the other thing is when she was living in Europe, she would go out clubbing.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So, the only thing that I see, there's only two things I see.
	If usually a girl, she's probably been with more than one other guy.
	A girl who travels to the USA to live there for opportunity is more westernized than the average Eastern European.
	And Greece technically is not Eastern European.
	I would say Southern European.
	But anyway, so I would, and if she's early 20s, these girls, they get around more than you think.
	So I would say that's probably not honest, but all girls are going to lie when you ask them.
	I had a, I mean, I had a girl once where she was, I was the second guy too, you know.
	And okay, and I'm going to also say that she probably, the first guy, she told you about him, they were boyfriends for like seven years.
	Boyfriend, girlfriend.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	That's, yeah, I know, because that's, they want you to think that they were only with the boyfriend.
	They all, they all do it.
	And they were, I was with him for five years.
	They all say it.
	Don't be upset about her for that.
	They all do it.
	So it's nothing something that your girl is doing, but she's been with you.
	Well, go ahead.
	How do I go about finding out if she's lying or not?
	Because I've asked her the same.
	A man can never find out how many men a woman has been with.
	It is impossible.
	Impossible.
	You have better luck putting a man on Mars than really truly finding out, unless she's a virgin and you have, but even now they have these vaginal reconstruction surgeries where this I heard is really popular in the Caucasus, Georgia, Armenia, and Azerbaijan, where the girls, they sleep around a couple guys and then they get the vaginal reconstruction.
	So even that now, you don't know, you will never know.
	So really, when you ask a girl, you just really are finding out how big of a lie she's going to give you.
	That's it.
	So I don't, when you get older, you will know by just feel.
	But anyway, so it doesn't matter.
	She's not a virgin.
	She's not a trad girl.
	So that's all you need to know.
	And that's fine.
	I mean, I'm not saying that you want that.
	But I would say based on what you told about her, yeah, she's been with like five or six dudes, you know.
	And so anyway, I was going back to what I said.
	This girl, I was the second guy, but her blowjobs were out of this world.
	Like, I was like, damn, it was so good.
	So, yeah, maybe she's been with one other guy, but she's blown like hundreds.
	So there's always a shortcut that these girls, yeah, I've only blown one, but I took it up the butt, you know, hundreds of times.
	The second thing is that she says she shows her text messages to you.
	That don't mean shit.
	And the reason it doesn't is because, well, two, one, the guys that she's banging could be under name like mom or dad or brother.
	And the second thing is a girl doesn't have to leave an electronic trail to sleep around.
	A girl can go to a bar right now, meet a guy and blow him in the bathroom or bang him in the bathroom within like an hour and there's no electronic trail anywhere.
	So so just because she shows, so if she's showing, is she showing you because she because she offered to or because you asked her?
	I just kind of asked her, you know, who are you talking to?
	And she'll just show me.
	That's all.
	She just showed you.
	Show me the conversation.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Because, I mean, look, I know you don't, I know that you like her and you don't want her to bang other dudes.
	But the best you can do is just satisfy her needs as much as you can while expecting her to satisfy yours, of course, and enjoying it while it lasts.
	Because unfortunately, a girl of her, I'm guessing she's a good-looking girl, yeah?
	Yeah, she's pretty good looking.
	I mean, she's yours for today, but I don't know.
	I don't, I don't, I think that odds are in the long run, are you going to marry her, have kids with her?
	Could be, but here's the thing.
	I have a daughter already.
	I'm a single dad.
	Okay.
	So I'm looking to marry her to be like a stepmom.
	She knows that.
	I think she, I think you're being more needy than she is.
	I think you're wanting this relationship to work and it doesn't work.
	It doesn't.
	She has to be needing it more than you.
	And you're going to have to tone it down.
	You're going to have to chill out.
	I know you like her and I know you want a good stepmom, but it's in an age when girls have so many options.
	Unfortunately, this neediness can push her away into the arms of an alpha, a guy who's playing hard to get with her and treating her mediocrely.
	So how do I balance not being needy, but still aiming for it?
	It's okay.
	Have the expectations.
	Always convey those, but don't be more willing to get into a relationship than she is or to go to the next step than she is.
	Well, that's the other thing is, you know, her visa is going to expire.
	So, I mean.
	Has she talked?
	Does she want to do it?
	Did she say, I want to marry you?
	It's kind of, we've only been dating for like three months.
	Don't know.
	That visa expiration.
	Ignore that.
	Don't, you can't get married when you, with a, with a timeline that's just going to push you into doing something dumb.
	So, so what?
	She goes back to her and she gets another one.
	Don't use that.
	Like you're trying to rush into it.
	You're trying to find the reasons to get into it, but you have these doubts too.
	And the doubts are not that bad.
	I mean, is she the marrying type?
	I don't know.
	She could be okay.
	She doesn't, she doesn't sound like a raging slut.
	I mean, compared to what I've seen, Jesus.
	But I think you're being too needy.
	And I think your game is okay right now.
	She's still with you, but you're really a month or two away from giving her that boost to start entertaining options from other men.
	What do you mean by that?
	I mean that she is tolerating you now by keep by continuing to do what you're doing.
	By, you know, keep asking her to see the messages, by keep talking about marriage, you know, by showing more jealousy than she does by checking in on her.
	I mean, yeah, that works up to a bit.
	But if a girl like her who left her, if a girl left her home, home country, she has this high, impulsive need, a higher need than average for excitement, for novelty.
	So you're just going to bore her to death.
	Do you think I should just give up on her?
	No, no, I'm not saying that at all.
	No, no, no, no, no, no.
	I'm saying, just work out.
	I'm not saying, yeah, which is fine.
	Just be less needy than her.
	You're being a needy guy.
	And I understand your situation.
	You, you want a stepmom and she's a good-looking girl, but you're being a little bit too needy.
	Just ask yourself, who's being more needy?
	If it's you, that's not good.
	Because girls with options, they maintain the needy guy, but they fuck around because she still has that craving for that excitement.
	Yeah, I try to mitigate that though.
	Like, I always wait for her to message me first.
	That's good.
	See, so your game is not completely.
	I know I have.
	This is why I said you're on the verge of going bad.
	Like you're getting, you're approaching the line where she's like, oh, this guy is too, he's too this, or he's too needy.
	He's trying to rush me.
	I'm just, I'm new in the United States.
	I still want to have fun.
	So scale it back a bit.
	Scale it back 20%.
	And then enjoy her while it lasts.
	And she should be giving you like, so where are we going?
	You know, I love you.
	I care about you.
	I like your kid, but she should be doing that stuff.
	Yeah, I guess I already ruined that a little bit.
	No, you didn't ruin it.
	Don't worry.
	Don't be so hard on yourself.
	I think you're being a little bit too hard on yourself.
	You're still a young guy.
	I mean, that's when I was 20s, early 20s, I was an idiot.
	I didn't know anything.
	It's okay.
	But you didn't do anything crucially wrong.
	But I sense that it could push her away a bit too much if you continue.
	So just be so just be you know, cool.
	Enjoy the relationship.
	Don't worry about her past now.
	And let her come into you a bit more.
	Let her start asking you about the future more.
	She should be doing it more than you are.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right, man.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	Thanks.
	No, he's not in a bad spot.
	He has a girl.
	He's just, I think he's a little too eager.
	That's it.
	And maybe she wants to get married too.
	But even if that's the case, she should be bringing it up more.
	She should be asking him to see his phone.
	She should be wondering about his past just as much.
	All right.
	Super chat time.
	Oh, it's already one and a half hours in.
	Wow, time flies.
	Okay.
	We got one five pounds, no, five euros from Callie Gula.
	Hey, Roosh, which country cities are best for Persians that like white women, especially Ginger's freckles.
	Oh, Ginger's freckles.
	You're not like me then.
	You got to go to South America.
	Maybe Colombia, Argentina.
	Well, Argentina, no.
	Colombia and South Brazil.
	But Ginger's a red-haired, freckled Persian dude.
	Are you trolling?
	But if not, Eastern Europe, only marginal improvements to what you can get in the West.
	Maybe go to Iran.
	Maybe the Ginger is like a god there, like the albinos are in Africa, how they use the albinos for their rituals to do crazy stuff.
	Okay, Dre Henley donated $5.
	Call her nothing in this life is guaranteed, my brother.
	The only thing guaranteed is death and taxes.
	Martin Crespo donated $5.
	He said, Being desperate, and then this is in all caps, being desperate in life is a bad place to be when getting a girl.
	She will notice it fast.
	Yes.
	But some girls, but some girls like that in the sense that they keep the desperate guy because he provides her needs for stability, comfort, and routine.
	But she's creeping around.
	You'll be shocked.
	Like some, some beta's got some beautiful girls, but they're sharing her.
	That's the problem.
	So, yeah, if you're a super beta, it's possible to get a girlfriend when you're a beta, but she's not only your girlfriend.
	You know, she's she's getting that Chad cock on the side.
	And I know this because I've been the, I've, I've been the sidecock, I've been the Persian Chad Sidecock where girls have these dutiful boyfriends that are very average.
	I mean, the more I know about the boyfriends, the more I get turned off.
	And they use me because I'm like a piece of meat.
	Okay.
	Let's get next caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller?
	Hello.
	How are you?
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm in California right now.
	Another California, back-to-back California.
	Yeah.
	So I'm like 21.
	I used to trip across Europe and got lucky a couple of times, but like, I don't know.
	Overall, I mean, I just had a backpack and was in hostels and stuff.
	So it was kind of hard.
	But I was wondering, like, does it get easier as you get older?
	And like, I mean, have more funds and stuff?
	I would say that my game in terms of the results and fun peaked when I was 32, 33.
	So at this age, it was like, oh, this is awesome.
	I'm going to do this for life.
	But the peak was actually a sign that the end was coming soon.
	But yeah, it gets easier because I mean, no girl really says she wants a 21-year-old guy.
	I mean, girls usually want someone with more value, a little bit more optimized.
	He's spent some time developing his charm and look and muscles.
	Yes.
	So, but hey, if you're getting some now, that's just a great sign that when you get older, that you can get even more.
	But yeah, is it more of a grind for you today?
	Yeah, it is a grind because you're basically like, I'm not scared personally at all.
	I can, and if I put the numbers in and stuff, I do okay.
	But one thing is hard, like finding somebody else to like wing with kind of because it's just like they kind of don't understand how much it takes.
	And then, like, I mean, in terms of just like going out and then talking to random people, random girls and stuff, you know.
	Yeah, it's it's hard.
	I mean, I'm lucky that for me, it's pretty easy because of who I am.
	But sometimes you have to go solo.
	But if you hunt often, you're going to keep your eyes open.
	You're going to see other men hunting too.
	And it's okay to chat with a guy in a club.
	If you see, if you see him doing things similar to you, it may be worth talking to him.
	You know, it isn't good.
	Yeah, I've done that a little bit.
	Yeah, and just seeing.
	Yeah, or I mean, but like, it's all kind of different countries and stuff.
	So it's nothing really ever like long-term, I guess.
	So, and then everybody else's minds can't really travel.
	Okay.
	But yeah, does it get easier?
	Yes, it definitely does.
	Okay.
	Unless, unless the only way it doesn't is if in high school and college, you were like a jock and then you immediately get fat and you move to another city.
	Then it's oh, I don't have that.
	Yeah, that's like the only way.
	But if you're working, you're working on your game month after month.
	Yeah, it definitely gets easier.
	Yeah, I think since high school, I've actually just been getting better and better.
	Yeah.
	But yeah, I had another question.
	I eventually, yeah, I do want to get married and stuff, but like after being somewhat like red-toed, I mean, you lose trust in a lot of the process.
	I kind of want to, yeah, do the Ukraine thing.
	I'm kind of set up to where I can make money kind of off the internet, like with computer programming stuff.
	So I was wondering, like, do you think, like, I kind of worry myself with these things, but like from what I've read and heard, like, Ukraine is kind of westernizing and like all these other places and smartphones and stuff.
	Like, well, if I'm 20-something right now, like early 20s, should I hurry up and go over there while it's still good?
	Or you shouldn't have to rush anything.
	I mean, there's always going to be somewhere.
	It just may be a shittier place than it was for, say, me.
	But Ukraine generally is for the older guys.
	Ukraine is for 30 and up.
	Younger guys complain a lot.
	It's hard there because a Ukrainian girl likes those older men, likes the more of like a good income and stuff by the time I'm like 25.
	Yeah, but you can try it.
	You can try it.
	But I've young guys complain to me all the time.
	You need more of a fun place.
	You need like maybe Poland.
	Poland can be fun for the younger man.
	South America is good.
	Colombia, Brazil, a bit.
	But I'm not saying, I'm not telling you don't go, but it's you're not going to Ukraine is when you're tired.
	I'm kind of worried like with the geopolitics.
	I've been reading about how the East is just getting worse and worse.
	Everywhere is getting worse and worse.
	So really, it isn't like, oh, you have, you know, a lot of guys try to scare me like, Roosh, Minx is only going to be good for a year and then it's done.
	Nothing is ever done.
	There is always options.
	Yeah.
	Is it harder to get those options?
	Do I have to be a little bit smarter about it?
	Do I have to put in a little bit more effort?
	Or do I have to maybe trade a bit of comfort to go to a second or third tier town?
	Yes.
	But if you really want something, there's always, I mean, the world is huge.
	There is not the window doesn't close until you die.
	So don't worry about that.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Well, thank you.
	Yeah.
	That's pretty much all I had to ask.
	Great thing.
	Okay.
	Have a good one.
	You too.
	The window is closing.
	Actually, this is a good opportunity since he talked about travel and banging to announce my special one-day sale on a dead bat in Paraguay for $3.
	That's 67% off, people.
	What a deal.
	You can go down in the links in the description box to buy your e-book copy.
	And I want to do a reading from the end of the book.
	So if you joined earlier, I did a reading from the first part where I told Dr. Wang, my Taiwanese boss, to F off.
	I'm not working in your fermentation laboratory anymore, Dr. Wang.
	And then a middle part in Argentina when I did not bang the chubby fat girl that was sitting on my lap in a car and crushing my testicles.
	And now we're at the end of the book in Brazil.
	And I'm going to read something from there.
	So now there was a girl in Brazil, Mariana, beautiful girl.
	She was a stage actress.
	Most beautiful girl I've ever been with.
	Even better than some of these Eastern European girls.
	And when she was on her period, I told her I didn't want to spend the night with her because I was a big dickhead.
	But so then I felt bad.
	So I'm going to speak in her voice so you know the difference between me and her.
	I felt used that you wouldn't want to be with me unless there would be sex.
	I cringed.
	She did nothing to deserve feeling that way.
	No, it's not like that.
	My head is messed up.
	I think from the rabies vaccine, I wasn't thinking right.
	Have you ever met a man who blamed the rabies vaccine on treating a girl like shit?
	Whew, I've gotten away with some doozies.
	I thought it was over and we were only going to be friends.
	I grabbed her hand and said, I never want to be just friends with you.
	Dinner was quiet, and we went back to her place.
	In bed, she was tense and stiff.
	Because she didn't expect us to have sex, she didn't fantasize about it during the day.
	For her, sex is a multi-hour process.
	We fell asleep early.
	In the morning, she bought me an acai breakfast.
	I gave her a tight embrace goodbye before leaving.
	There was less emotion than I thought there would be.
	My cab driver took the scenic beach route on my way back to the hostel.
	Only two nights remained in South America.
	The radio station was set to American love songs.
	Damien Rice's blower's daughter played as Copacabana Beach flew by on my left.
	I don't think I was in love with Mariana, but I was just now starting to care.
	I'm slow and stupid and selfish, but I'm not a monster.
	Maybe our relationship would play out only after a couple months.
	But now in this cab, I'm wondering when I'm going to meet a girl like her again.
	I had to see her one more time.
	Wow.
	So that was from my book, Dead Bat in Paraguay.
	Link below to take advantage of the $3 special sale.
	What a book.
	If you like, if you're a man who likes traveling and women, I think you'll like it.
	Okay, man, I should read books.
	I'm a good reader.
	I duplicate that intense emotion.
	Okay.
	And someone said, worst ASMR ever.
	You're just a hater.
	The fact that even ASMR came in your mind was how strong my reading was.
	And if you're a girl and you heard that, you probably got a little excited.
	I'm going to get some DMs in my Instagram very soon.
	Okay, a couple more super chats.
	Kali Gula said he donated five Euros.
	He said, Roosh, I meant where is the good spot for a Persian guy who likes red-haired women.
	I'm not ginger.
	Oops.
	Okay, so if you're a Persian guy who likes ginger girls, I would try Scandinavia.
	I would go to Helsinki, Finland.
	I would do that.
	Sweden, not so much.
	Oslo, Norway.
	I would try that.
	And Iceland is played out, man.
	Since 2010, the tourism has gone up.
	Glasgow, Scotland has the most amount of ginger people.
	So I think you could do okay.
	I've never been to Glasgow.
	Last time, a lot of people there, they threatened to beat me up during my meetups.
	So I would try Scandinavia first.
	It's going to be expensive.
	So you need a bankroll.
	If you're a little bit short on cash, Estonia could work.
	I think there's a few there.
	Dylan Bob donated Swedish 20.
	I think that's like five bucks.
	He said, why do women like old men?
	Because they know how to thrust with experience.
	And they like interest because they like interesting guys, they'll like established guys who can give them a better, better future.
	They like a man who makes them feel good.
	And a man who's had experience with other women is more likely to know how to make a woman feel good.
	You know, because young guys don't know what the hell they're doing, I'm still in business.
	Business Avalanche donated 58 SEK, another Swede.
	He said, How to answer back when a girl says, 'I'm only looking for a serious relationship on online profiles that say contact only if you want a serious relationship.' I don't do online game, but from what I've heard about other guys, just proceed as normal that she's just saying that to not have to admit that she's a slut that is on Tinder that has had more than 20 sex partners.
	So just maybe tone down the sexual talk a bit, but make a move after the end of the first date.
	Okay, next call.
	Let's see.
	Okay, hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Oh, hey, Rouge.
	How's it going?
	Um, I was actually the second call, the one who asked them about my um okay.
	Well, you better hurry up because there's other people too.
	You can't be selfish.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, I guess I'm a selfish guy.
	You know what?
	All right, go ahead.
	I'm giving you time.
	Come on.
	All right.
	All right.
	Let me see.
	I don't, I don't, I don't know.
	Okay.
	Let me are you still there?
	Okay.
	Oh, I am still here.
	I am still here.
	Come on, hit me with it.
	So, um, Rouge, Rich, okay, let me hit you with this.
	You know, do you never think about complaining women whatsoever?
	Do I never think about complaining women?
	When a woman is always complaining, right?
	Tell her to shut the fuck up.
	Shut up, bitch.
	And I get my hand up.
	Don't make me slap.
	Okay, not when you're growing up, right?
	I'm still growing up.
	I'm not done yet.
	No, but not you're living on your own.
	So when this is not a situation that I'm in, but what do you suggest to guys who grow up in a house who have a complaining mom all the time?
	Oh, you just got to take it, man.
	Your mama, you can't tell your mom what to do.
	She's probably over 50, 60.
	She's not going to change at all.
	If you don't like how your mom's treating you, you need to move out.
	That's it.
	You can't use game on your mom.
	I mean, I'm not saying to like let her beat you up, but I don't advise that.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So basically, you just endure and embrace it.
	Just charm her.
	Just be like, yeah, mom, I got it, mom.
	Don't worry about it.
	I'm going to clean my room.
	I'm going to get the dishes after I finish this level on my video game, mama.
	And you still, but you, and you still respect, you still have to respect your mom as well when you move out.
	But I guess you just driven by her feelings and emotions.
	And when she's having a bad day, she'll take it out on you.
	That's just how it is.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Bye.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	See ya.
	I noticed there's a lot.
	I have a lot of young callers, 18, 18, 21.
	You know, I think it's because I'm like the older brother that they didn't have.
	I'm not old enough to be their dad, like Jordan Peterson.
	But that's good.
	That's good.
	Well, it's good for me in the sense that, hey, at least I know what's going on, the pulse of the youth.
	But I hope these guys have, because these guys don't have someone to really talk to about these things.
	They're not allowed to learn how to get good with women.
	And if they ask for relationship advice to a normal person, they're basically going to make the woman the superior.
	You got to bend, you got to kneel before her.
	What do you mean?
	She's upset.
	You better satisfy her.
	Ruch is an uncle.
	Yeah, I could be actually.
	All right, let's go here.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello?
	Yes.
	Hello?
	Do you know what this is?
	You are my Toronto number one fan.
	How are you?
	Oh, and you can ignore all that me slapping girls.
	I would never slap.
	Never.
	I would never only freaks.
	Okay, no, it's okay.
	I forgive.
	No, but that person you were talking about in the beginning, she disarmed.
	Oh my God.
	Girls are crazy.
	Girls are feral.
	I mean, girls are, it's like they think they're equal to men and they can just challenge them to brutal combat.
	I actually see that a lot in Toronto.
	A lot of girls do that stuff.
	So that's why I don't like to go out.
	But you would never do that, right?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	I don't like that stuff.
	Okay, good.
	I was ranked.
	If I'm around that, I die.
	So no.
	But then there's one.
	Okay.
	But anyway, since before you ask me something, I have to ask you something.
	Since you were watching from when I started, what would you do if your Instagram got banned?
	What would I do with my Instagram?
	Like, would you be suicidal?
	Or would you be like, no, I'm going to get a man today?
	Like, because you need the validation.
	And I'm not saying you're on Instagram to get validation, but I'm saying that if you didn't have that option, you would be like, oh, I'm going to get married tomorrow.
	And you do it.
	Because Instagram is like a backup.
	You know, it's like a boyfriend, virtual boyfriend.
	Like, Instagram for a woman is like what a sex doll is for a man.
	You know what?
	I don't know.
	My Instagram is actually not popping.
	Like, I have a lot of females.
	I have to tell everyone watching, I know what her Instagram is.
	She's not ugly.
	And she uploads, she uploads photos that are to the average man tantalizing.
	And she's thank you.
	But I'm not the average man.
	Hold on.
	Let me see.
	I'm going to see how many likes your photos get.
	I'm going on your profile right now.
	Let's see.
	I want to see.
	Because I think you get a lot.
	All right.
	Let's see.
	Your last photo.
	Her last photo got, oh, 52 likes.
	Okay.
	That isn't.
	That's a lot.
	No, I know girls who get okay.
	There was one.
	I like this one in the yellow shirt.
	85 likes.
	That was a professional one.
	Oh, yes.
	Thank you.
	And it seems like the more skin you show, the more likes you get.
	That's, I would have never guessed that.
	Oh, my God.
	Actually, okay.
	I do have more.
	Your Instagram isn't that bad.
	I think your head is not blown up to a point where you are undatable.
	Okay.
	It's actually good that you're telling me this because if it is, then like I'll take it down.
	But no, it's okay.
	And if for all the photos that is too racy to put for the public, you can just send them directly to me.
	Okay.
	But the comments that I get, like, I do.
	Like, it's mostly girls.
	Like, it is.
	But anyways, I don't get PM's or anything like that.
	I really don't.
	I have a lot of girlfriends.
	But anyway, what was the point?
	Oh, yeah, no.
	If I had to ban, if my Instagram got banned, I would probably take it as a sign.
	Like, okay, I'm not meant to have it for whatever reason.
	And then put myself out there more in a normal, old-fashioned way.
	I wouldn't fight it.
	Based on the likes you get, I don't think you would commit suicide.
	No.
	Oh, no, no, no.
	No, why would I do that?
	But my sister is the reason why I'm calling.
	And she's got a lot more followers than me.
	But anyways, anyway, she's a very different person than me.
	And I worry that I'm going to try to keep it short because I don't want to annoy people.
	But your second caller kind of has something similar.
	And I'm just, I was with my sister recently.
	And I just, I understand that we're both completely different people.
	So what is she doing that you don't like?
	I know I'm being dramatic, but I sometimes I say, like, what is this Lindsay Lohan lifestyle you're living?
	Like, for instance, my mom and I love you.
	My sister would hate you.
	You know, hate and love is the same thing, I think.
	It still involves intense emotion.
	Oh, but you get what I mean.
	Okay, so, okay, so she likes to party.
	Yeah.
	She likes to display photos that are sexually suggestive.
	No, she's she's more hipster.
	Like if anything, she goes very like anti-beauty, you know?
	Oh, so she's like social justice.
	Maybe a little more, yeah.
	Because you are not, you know, you have long hair and feminine clothing.
	Recien, see.
	Like, that's what she doesn't speak Spanish.
	Yes, you do.
	I do.
	I'm not as good as I used to.
	But anyway, so I mean, okay, what this is a common problem.
	The problem is her influences are more than just you and mom.
	You know, now the world has her.
	Now the university has her or had her.
	Now whatever entertainment memes she's consuming on her phone, her friends have her.
	So you can try to steer a human being into a certain direction.
	But when they get become an adult, what control can you do unless you lock them up?
	Unless they're dependent on you for, say, shelter and you can give them that, you can tell them you have to act in this way if you want to continue to stay here.
	But once an adult, once a woman or man becomes an adult in a society where they are encouraged and allowed to choose how they want to live, what can you do?
	You know, and I'm glad, I hope she's not on like drugs and shooting up heroin and things like that and doing gangbangs.
	Okay, well, at least that's good.
	But unfortunately, you only have so much control.
	And, like I said to the earlier caller, the best thing you can do is just to be with her.
	Don't give her a lecture.
	No one likes that.
	No, no adult over 18 likes to be told what to what to do.
	And in fact, to piss off the person who's telling them how to live, they'll often do the very opposite.
	So you can't tell her what to do.
	Yeah.
	So it's not going to work.
	So don't strain the relationship by getting her to think, oh, I don't want to hang out with my older sister because she's just going to tell me what she doesn't like.
	She's just going to lecture me and nag me.
	So then what happens is the influence you have, the subtle influence you have, have gets smaller and smaller.
	Because really, it's the amount of time you spend with her, the amount of time you talk to her that determines how much of a positive role model that you can be.
	But then I would ask you why.
	No, go ahead.
	I was just going to like, I mean, it's like she cares more for people that don't care for her.
	Her family, like she's not family-oriented.
	She does not care for me and my like, she doesn't want to have family time.
	No one else is like that in my family.
	How old is she?
	26. 26. 26.
	You know, some people are just colder in some in some ways.
	But let's just say that is true.
	Let's say she doesn't care about the family.
	Is there anything you can reasonably do to make her suddenly care?
	You know, because care and love, that's in that's internal.
	That's not something you can teach or train someone on.
	It's either there or it's not.
	It could be that she's going through some kind of phase, some kind of late stage rebellion, you know, like a teenager would to shut because she wants to assert her independence.
	I don't need them.
	I'm free.
	I have my own life.
	It could be that.
	And sometimes an event has to happen to get her back.
	You know, I look at me when I was 25 to 30, me and my mom, our relationship was very difficult, strained.
	You know, I wasn't really helping her out as much.
	I did the bare minimum.
	And even in 32, 33, we got into a lot of arguments.
	And now I'm 39, we have perhaps the best relationship that we have ever had.
	And because I can understand her, I'm not trying to change her.
	She still tries to change me, but she knows what the limit is.
	So it just, and it didn't.
	And she wants to say, I like whenever I do something good, my mom says, you got it from me.
	And then whenever I do something bad, she says, you got this from your dad.
	I said, no, I just, I just became that person.
	So she wants to take credit for who I am now.
	But really, you go in phases in and out where you're just closer to these people, then you go farther away.
	Things are going to change in her life where probably it's going to push her closer to you.
	But I think I like to think that it's just the phase because deep down inside, people do have strong love for their mother and sister.
	Okay.
	And just like, I know this is going to make me sound very selfish, but if someone I'm with, you know, is involved with me and I'm attracted obviously to people that are very family oriented and that have always been very close with their families.
	And I don't know.
	It just, it does kind of embarrass me that she behaves so differently from the rest of us.
	Like, how do I, because I just feel like that will be a turn off to a guy if, like, listen, no guy is going to be like, I'm not going to marry her because her sister is weird.
	And also, I have to tell you, I think you're trying to, I mean, it's like you, you can't, she is an adult at the end of the day, and you have to accept that.
	I mean, I think you're a little bit too stiff in trying to change her to put her into the mold that you are in.
	But I don't, that's not going to work.
	That's just going to push her farther away.
	You just need to, I mean, accept her for who she is, unless she's doing serious harm to people.
	If she's doing harm to you or to your mom, you have to speak up.
	But if she's choosing how to live her life, we live in Canada, at least in the U.S., women have been taught they can live how they want.
	And you're not, only two people in her life is not going to change that.
	So, I mean, it sucks, but the more you try to control her, the farther away she's going to run from you.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, that's all I wanted to ask.
	I just want the best for her, but yeah.
	Yeah.
	So, I mean, just kind of let her fly away.
	I mean, let her fly a bit.
	She's like a bird trying to find her way because 26 is still young.
	I know people in the West, they mature at a later age.
	So technically, she's like 20.
	But let her experience life because she needs to know that when things get really hard, those friends that she loves so much right now is not going to be there for her.
	They're going to disappear.
	They're only there because there's good times.
	Only family is there when there's bad times.
	But she doesn't know that yet.
	But when she does know it, and it may take a year or two or longer, I think your relationship with her will get better.
	Okay, well, thank you so much.
	And if you want some advice before you would upload your next Instagram photo, send it to me first and I'll tell you if it is acceptable and I'll give you my honest thoughts on it.
	Actually, I bought your t-shirt.
	It's extremely comfortable.
	Send me a photo.
	Let's see it.
	Don't worry.
	I'm not going to share it.
	Send a photo.
	Okay, I'll do that.
	And also, whenever you go on your world tour kingdom, please go to Miami.
	I want to see you.
	That is that I am planning on going to most of the major cities.
	So I'll reserve a VIP ticket for you.
	But you still have to pay.
	No, no, no, of course.
	No, no, no.
	Of course.
	I'm just supporting you.
	I know.
	I know.
	But yeah, I'm probably going to go to Miami.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Good to know.
	And then we can take a selfie and that's it.
	My mom would be so happy.
	Good.
	And tell your mom that I said hi and not to worry about the younger girl.
	Okay.
	Thank you.
	Have a good day.
	Bye-bye.
	Bye.
	Look at me bringing families closer together.
	Okie dokie.
	So that wraps up this Ruch Live number 16.
	And just know that we're doing my one-day sale on Deadbat in Paraguay.
	If you're just joining in, start over and you'll hear beautiful passages that I did read.
	So thank you to everyone who called, who donated a super chat.
	I hope I got to everybody.
	And hopefully, we'll do this again next week.

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