I don't want this YouTube video to get flagged for showing nudity.
So the title of my new game book is Game.
That's it.
Just one word.
Game.
I know there's already a book called The Game, but this is completely different.
The game has an article, The.
Mine doesn't have the.
It's just game.
When someone asks me, what do I do?
I'm going to tell them, I wrote the book on game.
And then they're going to ask, what is it called?
And then I'll say, game.
Wow.
It's so authoritative.
Game.
That's it.
It's just game.
So the text is done.
It's 140,000 words, guys.
140,000 words.
To put things in perspective, bang, also the one-word title.
Bang was 60,000 words.
This is like two bangs.
Two bangs in one night in one book.
I don't know.
I don't know how people are going to respond to this.
Maybe you'll be blown away.
I really hope so.
So I got to get the audio book done.
I've never done an audio book.
It's going to take another month, I think.
And once that is done, then just get it ready to sell.
It's going to be, I'm trying to condense it.
I mean, not condense it, but make it fit within 400 pages because I get charged.
My book, paperback book cost is based on how many pages the book has.
So while I would love to have a 600-page doorstop, I make less profit per book if it's too long.
So I'm going to, I mean, everyone's young here.
You can write, you can read minuscule type.
So it's going to be 400 pages on game.
The book title is game.
I'm getting excited about it.
It's a burden.
I've been working on it for about two years.
And soon that burden will be lifted.
And you can enjoy the fruits of my labor.
Okay, what else is going on?
So there was a bit of drama on Twitter this week where a nice guy, Mike Cernovich, he got a Hollywood director fired, James Gunn.
He got him fired because James Gunn made some inappropriate jokes about children.
Now, I believe you should make jokes about anything, but this particular fellow attacked conservatives for their jokes.
You know, when you make them live by their own playbook, they freak out.
You know, give them a taste of their medicine.
So good job, Mike.
One down, 10,000 more to go.
You know, I made a lot of jokes in life.
I've made some rape jokes.
I still do, but not in public anymore.
Yeah, child rape jokes.
I've never done that.
I don't find child rape funny.
I think people should have a right to make those kind of jokes.
But if you try to get other people fired for their race or sex jokes, then you got to go.
And a third bit of news before I start taking calls, since I think that's why you are here, is I started reading the book The Gulag Archipelago by Alexander Solzhenitsyn.
And I've read a few Soviet Union books.
I read a book on Stalin.
I read The Day in the Life of Ivan something written by him, Denisevich.
I think I've read some academic book on the Gulag.
I've read a tale of an American man who lived in the Gulag or who was processed.
He was tortured.
But this book hits me a little bit harder.
It's more visceral.
You know, it's like, damn, this is rough.
It's just amazing to see what humans are capable of, not only of inflicting upon others, but of going through themselves.
And so, as much as we like to complain that we have it bad right now, how there are forces aligned against us to silence us, to take away our bread, we don't got it bad yet.
Unless that torture is applied to you or your family, it ain't bad yet.
Google changed their search results so your blog doesn't get hits anymore.
Big deal.
YouTube demonetized you.
So what?
PayPal shut you down.
I don't care.
You know, if you're going to get into the cultural war, these are minor speed bumps.
Let's see how much of a warrior you really are.
Are you ready to get tortured, physically tortured?
I think one guy that's getting tortured through solitary confinement is Tommy Robinson.
He's in a UK cell, ironically, for trying to expose the child molesters, the grooming gangs in the UK.
I don't know.
I have a feeling that there's a lot of child abusers out there.
So I can't really complain right now.
I don't got it bad yet just because they try to shut down a speech of mine.
All right.
So how are we doing in the chat?
Let's see what you guys are doing.
Bring back the Gaj.
If you watched last week, we had Gagandeep, who I have named Gaj.
He's an Indian fellow living in Spain who is having some problems getting white women.
And I think I gave him some advice before he started crying.
And hey, I don't, I understand that when the carrot of pleasure is tossed in front of you and it's just out of your arm's reach, it causes a lot of mental pain.
So Gagandeep was experiencing that pain.
I don't know where he is right now.
I hope that I think he wanted to do the Gondu train.
I hope he catches that train.
How's Arnold?
Arnold's doing great.
He's a little active today, as you can see, moving around and licking things he shouldn't.
He loves picking up cigarette butts and disgusting things out on the street when I walk him three times a day.
But otherwise, he's doing good.
Oh, that was asked, Louise Frampton.
Louise Nice Girl Frampton.
That's a nice name.
Frampton.
Sounds like a band.
Isn't there like a singer named Frampton, something?
Something Frampton.
Oh kidoki.
So if you want to call in, you got the numbers in the YouTube description box.
You can also ask by leaving a super chat.
I appreciate those.
And I'm doing laundry again, so I've got to get up to close that door, and then we'll start taking calls.
All right, the first caller.
Let's get to him.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hello.
Can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from Orange County, California.
Orange County.
And what's going on there?
Not a lot.
Just a lot of materialism and, well, vapidness.
What can I say?
Welcome to the USA, huh?
Oh, yeah, absolutely.
But I would just like to commend you on all your work, all your dedication, and whatnot.
And I just have two questions.
I'll just narrow it down so you can take it to the next caller.
So, number one is: how come you haven't done any material for East Asia?
Is it East Asian women just not appealing to you, or what?
Is that just a personal preference?
It's a personal preference.
I'm not that attracted to them.
Even though they hit a lot of check marks that I would like in a woman, it's just the look.
I don't like the Asian look in women.
I don't know why.
I think it has something to do with my Middle Eastern background.
I mean, you don't see a lot of Persian guys and Asian girls.
It's not common.
So I think it's a genetic cause that I can't change until I get really.
I mean, if I get so old that the only women that are going to sleep with me are, you know, tiny Asian girls, and I have a feeling that my genes will not hold firm.
But until then, I'm going to pass.
Gotcha.
And last question is: are you planning on doing, are you still planning on doing that nationwide tour?
Yeah.
So after my book is done, I'm going to try to sell it for a couple of months and then visit my family over the holidays.
And tentatively, I'm hoping to start after Christmas.
But the USA, I'm looking on the map and I was trying to roughly plan it is huge.
Like the country is really big.
And now I'm not sure how I can even start it.
So I'm probably going to do the Northeast first because I have a lot of readers in DC and New York, maybe do Boston and Philly.
And what I'm planning to do is, if there's a city that has a lot of readers, I can do an event, like do a proper lecture and hang out in our own private room.
And if the city is really small, but there's a few of you, then I'll maybe just do a brief stopover, happy hour at night where we have a beer or two.
But that's going to come after the book is released and I promoted it a bit.
Excellent.
Excellent.
All right then.
Well, thanks for your time and have a great day.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Okay, that was an easy first call.
And we got a super jar, super jar, super chat from Jar for $2 saying, how do you think Trump is doing so far?
As well as he can when it's one man against the entire elite establishment.
I mean, you know, one man put at the top is nice, but one man put at the top with a thousand other statesmen around him that are supporting his cause every minute, every day, instead of the vipers that are around him that seem to be mostly out for their own selves instead of genuinely making America great again.
I think he's doing better than I thought he could, but I don't, I can only imagine the amount of pressure that he's having to face.
It's constant because the media is composed of hundreds, thousands of people.
They can keep this up for years.
But Trump is one man, and no matter how strong he is, I mean, every man has a breaking point.
Okay, male sentenced sentient void asks, so I've been talking with a girl long distance for a few months.
That's a bad sign already.
We're ready to meet.
Still a bad sign.
Only thing is, I haven't told her I'm short.
Is this a deal breaker?
Well, it depends on how short, but I mean, she probably has a secret too.
So her secret and your secret will balance out.
I'm sure it'll be fine.
And then break your bonds, donated $5.
Thank you.
I know you're not a fan of Rolo, but any chance of you going on the Red Man group stream would be interesting to listen to you talk to BLL or Anthony.
I haven't watched that stream.
I don't really go on people's streams anymore.
Last time I did, I got into, I had to embarrass some women.
Seems like every stream I go on, it's, you know, people are itching like, oh, we're going to get Ruch finally.
We're going to destroy him.
And then they don't want to talk about the issues.
They don't want to have rational dialogues.
They just want to get me.
You know.
Okay.
Let's go to the next caller.
Hello, Caller.
You're now live.
Say what?
is this one of those sound boards i've had better prank calls than this Come on, guys.
You got to bring it.
Impress me with your amazing wit and skill.
Okay, next call.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hey, you can hear me?
Yes, I can.
All right.
Great, great.
So I'm currently in Kiev, Ukraine.
And yeah, so let me kind of give you a breakdown.
I've been here for a better part of a year, kind of just figuring out what works best.
And so far, it's only been day game.
Okay.
Like nightlife sucks just from a quality perspective.
I'm not talking about, you know, getting laid, not getting saying from quality.
So a couple, a few questions.
First, do you have any tips getting around just reducing day game burnout?
Because, man, it is mentally straining.
Yeah, just do one approach every day.
One a day.
Yeah.
Okay.
If you do more than that, it's just a matter of time.
You know, I mean, yeah, you can do two a day.
It really depends on you and your age.
You know, if you're a young dude, if you're 20, early 20s, you can do 30 a day and you're fine.
But if you get to 39, even one a day, it's like, oh, that's a lot.
That's a big deal.
So, but if you're experiencing burnout, anything, burnout in anything, you have to reduce your commitment to it.
Yeah, so it's somewhat seasonal here.
So, I'm trying to not do any until early September through November, then take a break, then do the spring.
How old are you?
Around 26.
26.
Well, yeah.
I mean, you should.
I mean, if you're doing a serious campaign, like a burst, you should be able to do three to five a day and sustain that for like a month or two.
Yeah.
Okay.
That's I took notes.
I just in my head, I'm trying to remember what I want to say.
Um, there's only 370 people waiting, right?
Um, I'm sure I made it better.
So, how is it there now?
Like, how is the scene?
Because I'm getting word that you know, all the high-quality girls left, their standards in Ukraine are higher, they're not wearing high heels as much, and so on.
They're not, yeah, they're not wearing high heels, they're dressing less feminine, but it's not so there's a bit of a dilemma.
So, the girls under 22, which are the kind I'm going after, they're usually taken and their English levels tend to suck.
But when you get lucky, it's the greatest thing ever.
But you can't really sustain a relationship with someone like that because you have nothing in common and you can't communicate with them.
Yeah, this is a common problem that men who travel abroad face.
I mean, it can, if you work, it can be easy to bed women that are very beautiful, maybe more elegant, more with more grace than what you can in the USA or the UK.
But to maintain longer relationships, that can be a problem.
It can be no easier.
In fact, it could be harder because I'm pretty sure I had more relationships, at least many relationships with American girls than I have in Europe.
A lot of European girls see you as a as a little distraction, a little toy to play with to keep her life a little bit exciting before going back to the local guys.
So, there has to be a real reason for her to stay with you, something that the local guys cannot provide her.
So, if you're not really giving anything that she can't get from the locals, why would she stay with you?
So, usually, I mean, from what I've seen, the Ukrainian girls will attach themselves to a foreign guy if he can offer her a significant improvement in her standard of living.
But a lot of players that go there don't want to do that.
They don't want to whine.
I mean, I'm not saying whine and dine, but they don't want to present themselves as a wallet, as a long-term beta provider.
So, okay, the girl bangs you a few times and then what?
Those girls are smarter in that they logically evaluate being with you.
What can he give me that I can't otherwise get?
And if she can't, and if she can't answer much, then she's not going to stay with you.
Yeah, so I'm seeing this exactly.
That's my in my case, since I'm not loaded, I'm seeing this polarization with most of the girls I've been with.
They don't want to be with me that long, and it's just they're seeing me exactly as a distraction.
I remember one date I was on, a girl told me, Do you want to know a secret?
I hate Kiev.
So, it's but the problem is the older girls, the ones who are more communicative, they're they're kind of yesterday's news.
Well, if you are 26, yeah, a 26-year-old girl is old, but when you're 39, a 26-year-old is young.
It's like, ooh, she's like almost a virgin.
So, at least maybe, maybe, you know, I think you're too young to be there.
Ukraine is not a young man's place.
Of course, you can get stuff, you can get stuff, but it's not, you're not leveraging much of your power there.
You're just grinding it out for a couple bangs.
That's exactly what it seems like.
Yeah.
My second question is: what do you think the best way to go about forming a social circle and how effective would that be to leverage that to get laze?
Well, usually people make friends to make friends.
They make friends to enjoy other people's company, to have someone to talk to.
So you are doing it in a goal-oriented way, how to make friends to get laid.
So now you have to look at it from a business transaction where, okay, I got to give value to people so they give value back to me.
So that could include making friends with local guys where you always take them out and pay.
Because why would they be your friend when you're not trying to be a friend?
You're just trying to use them, right?
You're trying to leverage them.
And that's, I mean, that's a lot of people do that.
I'm not saying that's wrong.
But if you want to use someone for a benefit, then you have to allow them to use you.
So what will you offer?
Some men just want to practice English.
Some men want benefits in terms of you can show them nights out that are fun where you're paying.
I know guys who they would make local friends by buying bottle service and not letting the dudes pay.
So, but if you want to become someone's friend, that's different.
But if you want to become, you know, just gain an acquaintance to get laid, then you have to give value to guys in that way.
Right.
One final question for you.
What do you think about all these guys?
And I know what you're going to say already, but I kind of want more of an in-depth answer.
What do you think about the people who hype Instagram as the next greatest way to meet girls?
And for me, it's basically become like Tinder.
You know, guys are flooding girls thousands of messages.
And it's yeah.
Well, I mean, usually when something is new or when it means to meet a girl is new, it's hot.
It works.
You know, I remember back in the day of like match.com and that used to work.
Even Craigslist, many guys use the missed connections and the personals.
That would work.
So there's a window where something where a new gambit works.
I remember when Tinder first came out, guys were like, Roosh, you got to get on Tinder.
It's this was back in I started hearing about it around 2012.
And it works, you know, but now the same guys today are like, Roosh, last year, Tinder was all right, but now it sucks.
I can't get anything.
So really there's a window.
And if there is a window for Instagram, I think that window is more than 50% done.
But if it's open, then yeah, you know how to do it.
You have to upload photos to show you're exciting.
You have to gain some followers.
You have to use the hashtags, maybe hire some bots to help optimize things.
But then you have to ask how much time you're putting into that versus if you use that time to just directly approach instead, you have to ask yourself, is the quality, is the quality of the girl and the relationship higher in one way or another?
Some guys I notice what they do, they have an Instagram that's good.
You know, they have a lot of cool photos and exotic places.
I'm sure girls are getting numb to these travel photos anyway.
But they, so they have these photos that are really great, suited up even, and then 2,000 followers, 150 likes per photo, which isn't bad.
And then so he'll meet a girl normally, like at night or during the day.
Then when it comes time to close to get her number, he instead gets her Instagram so that she can see it.
I think the marginal, I don't think that's a big jump over closing.
If you're having to depend on Instagram to help you close it, that means the attraction wasn't that strong in the first place.
And I'm sure if she sees an Instagram that's really populated, that's very popular, she'll feel some kind of spike.
Like, oh, I didn't give a shit about this guy, but I guess he's somebody.
But I mean, can she draw that somebody-ness back to meeting you?
Once that spike goes down, you're still just another cock that's trying to bang her.
So I am, I've seen it a million times.
Things are hot and then they die.
But the ability to talk to a girl face to face, in the end of the day, that's the only thing that will always work until they ban that.
So I would say if you already are going to interesting places and it's easy for you to make an Instagram, then do it.
But don't just do Instagram because you think it's going to help you get laid.
It should be a side benefit.
It shouldn't be like your main source of value that you're giving to women.
Yeah.
I mean, the situation in Kiev right now, everyone is using it, but there are also all these guys who are hyping it and trying to sell services.
I'm sure the first guy that a girl meets that has 3,000 followers, she's like, wow, he's like, he's the most famous guy I know.
But a year after, oh, another guy with the exact same profiles and pictures, you know, I mean, so you, this is why by the time you hear that something works, especially if it's a gimmick, the effectiveness is already gone because that means there were tons of guys doing it before someone decided to monetize that gimmick, you know, kind of like game.
Before game was game, before guys started to write books about it, those assholes, you know, I'm sure the effectiveness was really, really powerful.
But then, especially when the game was written, that ruined everything.
Girls, their guard was so strong after that.
They thought everything you were telling them was a nag.
I'm like, bitch, I'm not nagging you.
I don't even do that anyway.
Yeah, I'm reading the chat.
People are saying 26 is too young.
I mean, it does seem, at least in terms of getting a relationship, it seems like I don't, I don't know what you are doing there, honestly.
26.
I knew a guy who was 28.
I was like, dude, you're too young.
But hey, I mean, you stayed a year.
It can't be that bad.
But how are you staying for a year?
Did you get like a visa?
Yeah, yeah.
So I'm sure there's a way to do it, right?
There is a way.
I mean, you just have to be lucky and know people.
Yeah, but it seems there is this issue where girls will just put you in the fun time box.
And it really, it does seem to be really one or the other with Ukrainian girls.
Like I see a lot of girls who are dating students who are of Asian or Middle Eastern ancestry.
And to me, I was first I was like, ah, it's kind of weird because girls tend to be really racist here, but no, they're seeing these guys as providers.
They're only as racist as their options.
If they got unlimited supply of local men that are, you know, treating them well and these Germans and Italians coming, they're like, oh, I would never date a Turk, an African.
But once those options dwindle and a lot of Ukrainian men, they left Ukraine to work, all of a sudden, hey, that Turk is good looking.
I like beards now.
So don't never, whenever a woman says, I believe, you can ignore everything after that.
Everything.
She doesn't believe anything.
A woman doesn't believe anything.
A woman is just, she feels good in the moment because she's getting benefits.
So therefore, she believes that.
But a woman can hate, let's just say a woman hates Trump.
She hates him.
He kills babies.
He separates babies at the Mexican border.
But then the Chad, like a 10 out of a 10, a 10 out of a 10 Chad who's charming comes up to her and then she notices a Trump bumper sticker on his car.
And then she's going to be like, well, it's probably his dad.
You know, a woman doesn't believe.
A woman just believes what will allow her to continue feeling good, getting the men that she wants.
But as soon as there's a dip in the benefits that she can get, those beliefs magically change.
Well, my point was that the foreign students and probably a lot of local, local guys also, so they just see these guys as providers.
And because of my age and circumstance, I think a lot of them put me in the lover category.
That's what you seem to think, and what I'm also increasingly seeming to think.
I mean, listen, it's hard to know.
It's hard to know, but I think with you, girls don't see any benefit to continuing because you're not going to add anything.
You know, they don't see you.
Are you taking them on like trips and stuff?
No.
Well, Ukrainian girls love travel.
How do you think they're going to populate their Instagram account to show off to their friends?
You got to take them on trips.
If you don't take a Ukrainian girl on a trip, you're useless to her.
Useless.
Gotcha.
All right, man.
Gotcha.
Okay.
All right.
Sounds good.
All right.
Bye.
Have a day.
You too.
Bye.
Little Ukraine.
Yeah.
Don't believe a girl when she says she believes in something.
She doesn't believe anything.
She believes in receiving benefits, and those beliefs can immediately change to increase the benefits or maintain the benefits that she is receiving.
All right.
We got a super chat from Barisha.
He donated $1,250.
He said, you should do a video on your thoughts about the Gulag Archipelago book.
You know, I'm still on volume one.
There's three, three volumes.
I'm only 150 pages in, but I actually have a big backlog of books that I have to write about.
And working on my book has prevented me, but I'm sure I'll share my thoughts on it someday.
Fernando Salazar donated $150.
Oh, wait, MX, Mexican.
Oh, that's okay.
It's still appreciative.
Thank you, Fernando Salazar.
Okie dokie.
Let's get to the next caller.
Hello, Carler.
You're now live.
Hey, what's up, Bruce?
What's going on?
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from the Hampton Roads area.
Don't really want to say where, but.
Okay.
The what area?
Handsome Red?
Hampton Roads.
Oh, Hampton.
Is that in Virginia Beach?
Oh, Virginia Beach.
I was there once.
I was there.
Yeah.
So like.
Anyway.
So like, it's like, yeah, I'm the person who.
All right.
So I bought your books, Bang and Bay Bang.
Okay.
And I'm thinking of going to Virginia Beach to day game, but like, I'm not sure if.
Yeah.
So like, let me.
So like, is that.
Are you from America?
Let's get your, let's get your background first.
What is your age, roughly?
Um, I'm 19.
Okay, young man.
And how would you rate yourself on a scale of one to 10?
I would say it's like five, maybe four and a half.
Five.
Okay.
Four and a half.
That's average, right?
In terms of beach, usually in the beach, girls have a higher expectation for your body.
Do you lift?
Yeah.
I mean, no, not really.
Okay, you don't lift.
At 19, are you in a university student or are you out of school and working?
I go to a local college.
And do you have any friends there?
Oh, yeah, yeah.
I have like, yeah.
Do you get introduced to girls through your social circle?
Occasionally.
Not too often, though.
You know, a guy in your position, especially your age, I don't think you're going to get a lot out of day game on the beach.
I don't think so.
Unless you're ready to really work.
I mean, look, if you're a five, let's say you're a five, you're going to get threes and fours.
So what I would do is focus on increasing your value to at least a six while nurturing your social circle because you're a young man.
Most girls don't want a 19-year-old guy usually unless they're also in school with him.
So I would focus on increasing your value first.
I think if you just, if I just throw you on the beach and go approach 100 girls, I don't think you're going to get a lot out of it.
Especially if it's just random girls that you just look at them and they're really, you know, hot.
If you're approaching girls who are above a five, it's going to be very tough.
Why would a girl who's a six go out with you when eights are hitting on her?
So is your standards low?
Do you have like low stuff like low?
That is good.
Okay.
So if your standards are low, then it isn't bad.
Then yeah, you can go day game.
I would focus on threes and four that give you some kind of signal.
Maybe they're walking slow, giving eye contact and things like that.
And especially since you're young, you know, I would tell a young guy, focus on your social circle because once you graduate, you are 21, 22.
That's going to slowly die every year.
And then you can start to compensate with cold approaching.
But at 19, to start cold approaching will forsake your social circle, which I believe in your age and time and your value is going to get you more.
Okay.
All right.
Well, what I meant by that, I wasn't actually going to go to the beach because, yeah, I know I don't live.
But like, I was just talking about like going to like malls or like places with like a lot of girls and stuff.
Okay.
What I would do is this.
I would only cold approach as long as it's not sacrificing your ability to develop a social circle.
That's what I would do.
So I would, you know, hang out with your social circle friends, you know, give value to them, be fun, buy six packs of beer or whatever it is kids do these days.
Well, I guess you can't buy that since you're under 21.
And then, and then use cold approaching as like an add-on.
So cold approaching for you shouldn't be the main thing.
Social circle should be.
Make more effort in school to ask, you know, your fellow students what the homework was, how to understand this concept.
Are they studying in groups?
That's, I mean, even me, when I was in university, I was shy, but you can still get into groups that way and have an attempt, maybe one solid attempt on a cute girl every month or two.
Okay.
That sounds good.
But so yeah.
Yeah, thanks for thing, man.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
All right.
Yeah, I wouldn't want to throw a guy like that into the fire, man.
A 19, if he's a five out of 10, it's going to be rough.
It's going to be rough.
Okay.
Ruch never talks about wounded bird game.
I don't know what that is.
Wounded bird.
Oh, you mean when you approach a girl who seems like she's lost?
I always talk about that.
All right.
Let's go to the next caller.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Bruce.
Yes, that's me.
Hello.
Yeah.
What's up?
What's going on?
Let's call him, say hi.
And where are you calling from?
Connecticut.
Oh, you may be my first Connecticut caller.
Yep.
Oh, as far as I arm anything.
You don't want to ask anything?
No.
All right.
Well, thanks for calling and saying hi.
Okay.
Nice guy from Connecticut.
I like nice people.
Nice people are good.
All right.
Let's go to this caller.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hello.
What's going on?
Yep, I can hear you.
All right.
Sorry.
It just unmuted when I started the chat the men's out.
So that's all right.
And where are you?
Where are you calling from?
I'm calling from Miami here.
Miami Beach.
Yep.
It's one of the best places in the U.S., in my opinion, for women because of the majority Latino population and also the heavy amounts of immigrants from Eastern Europe and the Caribbean.
So I really do like it out here.
A lot of good talent.
And because it's majority non-American, I like a lot of the values of the girls around here as well.
And are you a white man?
I am not a white man, actually.
No.
Because I do enjoy benefit.
Oh, yeah.
Can you share what your race is?
I am an Asian dude with lighter skin who speaks Spanish and I'm learning Portuguese.
So I kind of have a thing with these girls.
A lot of them seem to be pretty receptive to that.
So, I mean, because you see a lot of Asian guys online, they complain endlessly about how Asian men are not received well.
But I'm starting to see, at least in my trips to the USA, more Asian men with white girls, too.
So have you had any issues there, or do you find that it isn't a big deal?
Here's what my personal opinion is of that.
And by the way, I'm going to get to my next questions here, but here's my personal opinion.
I personally think that historically and even currently, that the Anglo-Saxon culture has always put Asian men at a general disadvantage compared to the Latin American or the Slavic cultures in my experience, I would say.
Kind of because of the history with like wars with Asian countries and the demasculinization and stuff with Asian men.
But I just, I think that looking different in my experience with a lot of these types of women and being able to speak their language, it's just, they always seem to be pretty receptive.
And I don't want to jump to this topic too quickly, but in Brazil, you know, you've been to Brazil.
Brazil is a very mixed race place where they actually, some of them tend to count Asian men in the white category because of the white, brown, black categories out there because they tend to measure whiteness more by like lighter skin or straighter hair.
Right.
A lot of them women have told me that.
So, yeah, I just all in all, I think that location does matter for can make a difference for Asian men.
But I think if you have your stuff together and find your exotic factor in certain areas, I think you can do well.
One thing is, I find that Eastern European women are way more open to dating Asian men too.
Way more.
I think even more than Brazilian.
Yeah, I would say so.
I mean, if you look at the freaking Eastern Russia and the Central Asian Soviet area, I mean, Asian and Europeans have been mixing for quite a long time.
And one thing that's helping you out is the K-pop craze.
That is getting huge in Europe, huge.
I mean, there's like K-pop meetups and conventions that Asian guys I know tell me about.
I'm like, what?
K-pop convention?
He's like, yeah, man, it's great.
So there's like 10 Asian guys there and 50 foreign girls.
And it's like, holy shit, you know, and unfortunately, I'm not Asian enough.
So I can't take advantage of that.
But hey, you know, I mean, I'm glad I had my day in the early 2010s in Eastern Europe when they had this Spanish thing.
They were like, oh, Spanish culture and salsa dancing in Poland, especially.
It was insane, man.
Girls were just, they, all of them asked me, are you from Spain?
I said, no, but they didn't even care because I looked it.
But now I don't get that anymore.
I hardly, I mean, maybe once anywhere in Europe, you don't get that anywhere.
No, I still get it, but not.
But in Poland in 2011, when I came, it was crazy.
It was every single girl.
And now it's like maybe one out of five will ask me, are you Italian?
But they don't care.
I mean, it's not with that same passion.
You know, in 2011, it's like, are you from Spain?
And then now in 2000, say, 18, they'll be like, are you from Spain?
They don't even, they don't even care what the answer is.
They're already taking out their phone.
But so I enjoyed it.
So I think if you come to Eastern Europe, you know, if you know where the K-pop stuff is going down, then you will do well.
Right.
I'm seeing, like, hey, listen, I don't want to reveal where I am, but I'm seeing a lot of Asian guys dating up here, like dating up.
These guys are fours and they're dating sixes.
And I'm like, damn, you know, and I'm not.
And I've seen a couple Asian that are, you know, good looking Asian dudes.
They don't lift hard.
Maybe they're not like fat, but I've seen a couple with 7.5s.
Holy shit.
I don't see that anywhere.
I mean, because they're dating up.
In the USA, when you see an Asian dude with a good-looking girl, he's big.
He has a chiseled face.
You know, he's still good looking.
But I'm seeing some scrubby Asian dudes fresh off the boat that are pulling above their weight.
I'm like, damn.
And I'm sure I'm going to get a million emails from Asian dudes telling me, where is this?
Yeah, it'll come sooner or later.
You know, that ruch.
It's like, you know, the sorts of things that we talk about, these, these things will always unroll at some point.
Every dog has, every dog has its day.
If you're not happy with the state of the world today, don't worry.
It's going to change quicker than you can believe.
Well, I guess I advise Asian guys to come to Miami when we're still exotic out here in a sea of Latins and Caribbeans and European women.
But anyway, that was a long conversation before getting to my first question to you.
Okay.
I thought that we were done.
Okay, go ahead.
Go ahead.
Dude, you, you like pushy.
I just like to talk.
I like to enjoy.
This isn't like a factory where I'm like, boom, boom, boom, when I take all these calls.
I want to sit here and think, get into the topic.
I'm sure the people that are, you know, holding right now are not happy about that, but I'm sure they will appreciate when it's their turn and I'm taking my sweet time.
All right.
Anyway, I'm glad this answered your question, but if we have time, I'd like to get to mine here.
Okay, sure.
So, so, Roosh, I know it's been a long time, but what was your, given that I'm in Miami, have a lot of Brazilian friends, and I'm learning Portuguese.
I've always had a strong interest in Brazil, particularly Northeast Brazil.
What was your experience in Northeast Brazil, Hesse?
I know you've written a little bit about it, but how did you like it overall?
I didn't like it.
It's very black.
Very black?
And very unsafe.
But if you're a white dude, like from what I would hear, there was that one Amazonian city.
I think it's Manaus.
It's one in like the basin of the Amazon.
Yeah, okay.
Like really.
It's more north.
That's not really hot and really dark.
But there was like guys who were maybe a little bit darker than me.
And in 2000, this was this was a long time ago.
2007, 8, these guys that were the same as me would go there as gods.
Like they would show me, okay, they would send me pictures of nude African type girls.
And it was like, it was a lot of spice in that.
I mean, it was spicy.
You know, I was like, damn, that's, that's exotic.
And I was not, I did not go there.
I, I didn't, I didn't want to, because listen, I'm from the Washington, D.C. area.
We have a lot of black people.
It's nothing new to me, but I wanted something different.
So I stayed in Rio.
Got it.
So that's, that was, that was actually part of the reason why you decided to stay in Rio though.
And plus, I mean, I was there for like two weeks and I met my dream girl and I went back to have this romantic love story that fizzled out anyway, but then I was already stuck.
And Rio was cool.
I don't know how it is now, but I'm hearing that the Brazilian girls, especially in the lower classes, are getting huge, like really big.
They're drinking all that soda pop and drinking all that beer.
I don't know.
But the more well-to-do girls still look good, but they are well-to-do.
And you know how that is.
They're not going to be as impressed with you.
But I don't hear a lot about guys going there.
I think most guys, when they do South America, they do Colombia.
That seems to be, for the typical guy, a little bit better.
Brazil is like a beast.
It's a big country.
There's a lot of moving parts there.
And one city can be very different than the next.
But if you like these girls, then go, you know, go for a trip and see how it is.
Right.
I mean, I know Brazil is huge.
I've done a lot of research within the country, within the many different cities.
And yeah, there's a lot of variation.
I feel like some of the reasons why guys might not choose there and such, it's because they're not quite sure of the hidden gen. There's kind of a lack of info on it.
I'm going to tell you why.
It's because the younger guys, the millennials, not the ones who follow me, but in general are lazy, man.
These are lazy dudes.
They don't want to work.
You know, they don't want to go to a place for a month with no guarantee that I'll get a reward out of it.
They're like, hell no.
Why am I going to?
They all say the same thing.
It's too much work for too little gain.
I'm like, you big dummy.
To get the big game, you got to put in the work first.
Yeah, the first couple months in anything or the first year in game, even your game is small.
But there's like guys that never even approached a girl, made a Tinder profile, and after one week, they're like, oh, I don't do game.
Game is hard now.
All the girls are stuck.
I'm like, you tried for a week and you give up.
You must not have wanted to get laid anyway.
Like, guys are so easy to give up.
I'm like, okay, so then just give up.
I don't care.
That's one less guy I have to compete with.
But Rich, did that specifically singling out Brazil is exactly so?
That's like the reason why it's singling out men who don't want to find spots that are best for them.
I can tell you what spots are best for me.
I've been on the road for shit.
I've been outside the U.S. now for like 10 years or more, maybe.
I don't even know.
But I know for me, and I know you want to hit this is not a lottery game where you play or you roll by a ticket and you want to hit the first time.
Life doesn't work like that.
That's luck.
Yeah.
Sometimes you get lucky and your first trip is great, but life is long.
You're going to be doing this forever.
Women are always going to be on your mind as long as you're not a soy boy, as long as your testosterone is good.
There's always going to be that ache.
Like, I want to be with a woman sexually, intimately.
I want to experience love.
And you're just going to give up and you're in your 20s.
I don't understand that.
I don't understand that at all.
You know.
But in terms of Brazil, it's, I mean, everywhere is getting, I don't want to say harder, but with the smartphone, things are getting worse.
And we haven't hit bottom yet.
I think bottom is going to come in our lifetimes, but we still are a ways away.
So until bottom comes, just feel that what I experienced in 2007 is going to be different than what you experienced in 2018.
So don't go in there with these high expectations.
But one thing I can tell you about Brazilian women is that they're passion, man.
They are the way they look at you, the passion compared to Eastern Europe.
Eastern Europe girls are ice cubes, man.
But I'm kind of like an ice cube too.
So it matches.
But I couldn't handle it.
In South America, I can't handle that intensity, that passion that a Brazilian girl hears a song that she likes and suddenly she's getting up and dancing and singing.
I'm like, oh, what?
You know, I was like, people are looking at us.
But no, I can't, I can't handle that.
I'm more of a quiet type, believe it or not.
And I can't handle a girl singing and dancing constantly and loudly talking.
I don't know.
Right.
Right.
I remember you writing about that and mentioning all that.
I know kind of the type of person you are.
I guess the sort of person I am is kind of like that Latin passionate vibe, at least in this stage of my life, because I'm in my young 20s.
So that's kind of the type of girl that I enjoy.
And, you know, the main use of Tinder to check different locations and stuff just to kind of get a feel.
I think generally I've done quite well in the Northeast and North meeting.
What I mean well is like over 100 matches within a few days.
You know, I'm pretty sure that my looks don't hurt with that.
And there's, I'm sure there's not a lot of Asian guys around there.
Also, of course, lots of people are dying to know what is your rating on a scale of one to ten.
Oh, okay.
I haven't even been looking at the chat.
Okay.
But I would, okay.
I know this is, I don't know whether people believe, but yes.
I mean, but besides my body, I mean, you are a hard eight?
I am a hard eight of my face, but in terms of muscles and body, I'm average to the slimmer side, but so I'm not like a huge rhythm.
No, no, it sounds like a soft eight to me.
Okay.
You know, because if because if your body is average, how can you be a hard eight?
Oh, I don't, I don't know.
You know, like I would give myself a hard eight because of my expansive musculature.
But if your body's average, unlike mine, then I don't know if I can give you a hard eight, buddy.
Okay.
Okay.
Then I'm a seven or something.
I don't know.
Enough women tell me that I'm handsome throughout my life.
Okay.
That's what I'll say.
Okay.
Anyways.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
I don't know how much more time we have.
Do you have another question?
Maybe if you can make it fast.
Because I've been talking for hours.
Can't you just come over to my house sometime and have a drink?
I mean, how about we meet in a couple of days?
We've talked to you for days on end.
Roosh V found missing after going to fans house.
His whereabouts are unknown.
I'm scared.
Mommy.
I mean, why does it have to be your house?
Isn't there like a cool place on the beach where we can have a beer?
Yeah, there is.
So yeah, we can do that.
Okay, make that your meeting.
Make that your meeting.
I've never been invited directly to a man's house.
I'm scared.
Hold on, I got to breathe.
I've trained for this.
Deep breaths.
Okay.
So I went to, I went to Wrotclaw last summer with my friend of Indian descent.
Believe it or not, I have a high school friend who was born and raised in Wrocław.
And we went to the city.
And for people who don't know where this city is, can you say the name of the country?
Poland.
Okay, good.
Poland.
Roklaw, which it looks like Roque, but it's Wrocław.
And I noticed that during the summer, there were a lot of internationals and foreigners, but still, you know, still overall in the eyes of most Polish people, I don't think it's super in factuated by foreigners entirely, like still most majority Polish, but there were a lot of foreigners during the summer, like everywhere I look.
And do you think that was mostly because of the summer?
And what month did you go?
In, let me think, let me think.
Midsummer.
So I'm pretty sure it was July.
Yeah.
The worst time to go in Poland and many European cities is June, July, August.
Those are the worst.
But Poland, from what I hear, is saturated, saturated with foreign dudes, not only from the West, but from the East.
From what I hear, the Indians, not like cool Indians from Toronto, but Indians, Indians from Pakistan, they're here there.
So, you know, that's what you have to understand is that the shine on the foreign man is basically over.
Got it.
And in Poland in general is what you're saying.
In Poland, particularly, I mean, from what I hear, the guys in Poland, of course, the country that I'm not in, is they, it's basically a parade of sixes.
Like sixes, non-stop sixes.
I don't, I mean, because Poland anyway doesn't have a lot of sevens.
And above that, I mean, sevens, yes, but above sevens, eights in Poland, you don't see that.
You just see it in the Warsaw club sector, the plastic surgery type.
But sixes and sevens, and it's so surprisingly hard to go from a six to a seven in Poland, even though they're very, very close.
I got you.
I got you.
So these days we don't even suggest Poland anymore.
Unless you want to bang last summer.
If you want to bang fives, Poland's very easy.
Okay.
But who gets on an airplane to bang?
Well, some guys do.
But most guys leaving the West want to bang higher quality, you know?
But my caller from last week, Gagandeep, I think if he goes to Poland, he would do fine.
Okay.
Okay.
And also noticing lots of hipsters, tattoos.
Oh, my God.
It's horrible.
So it's like.
I'll just say that the last time I was in Poland, I mean, I was sitting at a burger place and there was like a girl whose face was kind of cute.
I was like, yeah.
And I look at her and on her forearm was a gigantic tattoo of a wolf.
I'm like, what?
Why?
Where did that happen?
How does, I mean, it was huge, too.
A wolf, like a sweet-looking girl with a wolf tattoo.
Is that irony?
I don't think it was.
I think she's trying to be like strong and stuff.
Anyway, once I saw that wolf tattoo, Poland was over for me.
That's good to know.
Granted, this last summer I was mostly there just to see my friend.
I wasn't really there to see women too much, but I can't say I gave it a good try.
But anyway, great, great talk, Roosh.
I can only have dreamed of having a talk.
No, anytime.
And next time I'm in Miami, I hope the invitation to your place still stands.
Sure.
Okay.
It all starts here.
Okay.
All right, man.
Bye-bye.
See ya.
I'm going to now write a new book based on some recent experiences.
Gaybang, how to get invited to a man's house from having a popular YouTube stream.
No, but you know what?
Most of my friends are from guys who recognize me when I'm walking outside.
You know, a lot, like two of my, so I have three.
I don't know how many close friends I have here.
I have, there's like a group of us, but there's a core group of three.
And two of them, they recognize me.
And I've known them for a long time.
So, because I mean, it's so great that, oh, this guy, he believes in almost the same things as me because he enjoys my work.
And it's so, it's such a great filter.
You know, a lot of guys in my age don't have a lot of friends.
That's the one good thing about doing the work I do is that I have no shortage of friends who see the world in a similar way as me.
Okay.
Gaybang by Rooshberg Schecklstein.
Rushberg.
It's Goldstein.
God.
Okay.
All right.
Let's take the next call.
Dude is next.
He's like, damn, that was a long call.
Hello, Collier.
You're now live.
Hi, Rich.
Can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from the Washington area, Washington State.
Washington State.
Okay.
And what's happening?
I think a previous caller sort of addressed a similar point, but since I was waiting for so long, I'll bring it up anyway.
I've noticed a lot of your material doesn't really have much stuff about university age because I assume you didn't really start game until you left university.
Yeah, because I started game, like I did my first approach two months before I graduated.
I was in spring break in Miami in 1997, 20 years ago.
Jesus.
And I did my first approach on a girl in line of a nightclub.
And she was like a seven out of 10.
And she was so nice.
She gave me her hotel name and room number.
And I called her.
I was so nervous.
It was the first time I had called a girl and I did it there.
And I was, oh, anyway, I called her and I talked to her for a minute and found out where she was going, but it didn't meet.
But that was my first approach ever.
And if you do it now, if a guy who's 21, 22, I look like a doofus, does a first approach on a seven out of 10, she's going to call the cops, like, get away from me, creep.
So, but yeah, things have changed.
This is why for guys like you, I recommend try to maximize your social circle.
I mean, you're never going to be around all these girls who share some things with you, share some things in common, even if it may be as minor as having the same class.
So I wouldn't put, I would only do cold approach game as a supplement.
Okay, that's fair.
Because one more thing I want to add before you get to your second question is if you're in college, but you have difficulty making friends, and I'm not saying you have to have a lot of friends and be throwing epic parties every day, but if you have difficulty making friends in a college environment, that's going to be an indicator that cold approach game for you will be a bit tough because making friends is like a stepping stone to building attraction with the opposite sex.
So, you know, if you, I mean, usually guys who have a lot of friends and they're social, game is not a big deal after that.
Now it's just a little step.
But if you can't make friends and now I'm telling you to go build attraction with some cute girls outside, that's a big step, you know.
So you're going to have that learning curve that's going to be brutal.
So making friends and being social, giving value to people and parties, making them laugh, that's important.
And I think a lot of guys who teach game, they don't account for that.
They kind of sell you.
You don't have to know anyone, be a total loner introvert, and suddenly go outside and bang girls that are cute.
No, it doesn't work like that.
Okay, that's really fair.
My second question would be: I think you've had a lot of people call in who have been from more traditional backgrounds.
Myself, I am from Central Asia, and you've recommended a lot of them.
If they're looking for something long-term, maybe they should go back to their cultural resources to find somebody like through their parents or such.
Yep.
Yeah, if, you know, if a guy is looking for a wife, I mean, and he's from, let's say, India, Iran, you know, and he speaks the language, unlike me.
I'm useless.
I only speak English.
And his father can, you know, hook it up.
I actually talked to my dad about it.
And if you have some kind of setup back home with family that can hook you up with a wife that could be a virgin and she cooks and cleans, that may be an avenue that you should talk to your dad about it.
But if, like, an Indian man in the USA, he kind of assimilated, or he, a lot of my Indian readers are in Toronto, let's say, and he's going to find a Toronto girl using game.
I mean, are you really going to find a good wife in that way?
You know, but then again, you once you put the pedal to the metal and be like, holy shit, I'm asking my dad to find me a wife.
You know, real quick whether you want to get married or not.
And when I started asking my dad this, I asked him over a year ago.
I asked him, and then we were talking about it.
Then afterwards, I was satisfied.
I didn't want to pursue it.
I was like, I started finding logical reasons in my head.
Like, no, it's going to be too hard.
I don't speak the local language.
I don't speak Far C.
It's, I would have to live in the USA.
You know, suddenly a rush of reasons were like, no, you don't want to do that.
But if you really want to get married, those obstacles are very small.
So I kind of have to, I had to admit to me that, yeah, I talk a big game about I want a good girl, but when I had the opportunity to really pursue it, I balked.
Yeah, okay, that's really fair.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Thanks, Ruth.
Okay.
Uh-huh.
Bye-bye now.
Yeah, I was going to say something else about that.
I was, you know, one thing about me is that I had a list of goals I wanted around.
I was 24, 25.
And, you know, in terms of wanting to travel, wanting to bang a lot of women, wanting to be a writer who can be location independent.
Those were my dreams, and I did it.
And then that marriage children stuff was like came more about because I was done with the things that I most cared about.
So it's like, yeah, I did everything.
I did my money.
Got my job is nice.
I traveled, banged all the nice girls I wanted.
I guess next is a family, a wife.
You know, so really it was bolted on.
It wasn't the original plan.
So that's why I'm not pushing hard towards it.
I keep my eyes open for a good girl.
I do, but I could be doing more.
You know, I know I could, but I'm not sure.
Maybe I'm still not sure.
I'm sure what I don't want.
I'm sure I don't want to go back in that club.
I don't go out much now.
This is when I do a live stream on Sunday, it's probably because I didn't go out on Saturday night.
So I have this energy.
But I don't go out that much.
I don't really hit on girls.
Once in a while, I'll approach a girl because she has a face that I could love.
But if a girl doesn't have a face that I could love and only has a pussy that I could fuck, I'm probably going to pass.
Okay.
Oh, we got a Skype call.
Skype calls can be from anywhere.
So let's see where this man is from.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hey, Roosh, how are you doing?
I'm calling from Thailand.
Thailand.
Okay.
And where are you from, though?
I'm from Spain.
Spain?
Okay.
We had a call from Spain last week, actually.
But anyway, I didn't check it out.
Roosh, I wanted to ask you regarding the situation in Spain.
It's actually quite not nice in the sense that recently there was a famous rape case about, I don't know if you've heard about it.
It was La Manada.
They got accused without any proof.
And everyone was asking, wanted jail for all those guys.
And now they have uh uh, they are making new laws in which uh basically like, the most recent one is a is, if a woman doesn't give her express consent, then everything in between falls in in rape.
So basically, people are making jokes that now you need to go out with a condom and with a contract, with a concept form yeah, and with a contract.
I don't know if that is the same in United States, but seeing it in Spain has been like uh, really shocking, and i'm considering like, because i'm a location independent, that uh, when i'm in Spain, I no longer want to have a relation because uh, there are like uh, all these new laws which are actually absurd.
There is also one which in which, if you say anything to a girl in the street like hey beautiful, or something like that, that's right.
She can also fine you for sexual harassment and you would have to pay a fine like for seven hundred, seven hundred or eight hundred euros.
So like, what's your intake?
Do you think it's a good idea, like to abstain myself of uh, any relation in Spain when i'm over there?
So the first thing is, a lot of guys don't know how bad Spain is, because a lot of the focus on Europe is on like Sweden, is on the Uk France, but Spain from the and I know a lot of Spanish guys.
I meet a lot of them Spain is bad.
Spain, because of of the women are really.
They take to feminism very easily there, even though they maintain their appearance somewhat.
You can find a lot of hot Spanish girls, a lot of hot ones, and they don't sleep around as much as say, a Uk girl or a Swedish girl, but in their mind is poisoned, and also a lot of the Spanish girls i'm seeing that travel to eastern Europe, usually on the Erasmus study program.
They are repulsive in that they're getting bigger and they're so loud you know they have no class.
I don't know if that matches what you see.
Maybe they're more vulgar when they leave, but so yeah.
So the first thing I wanted to say is that Spanish girls I know what is going on there Spanish girls love the feminism.
They, they love it, even though it doesn't match them as well as it would an Anglo girl in the Uk and Scotland right.
As for you, in terms of you're saying well, if I go back to Spain, should I not get into a relationship?
Thing is, there's no matter what laws on consent and cat calling a girl past the most horny guys are going to stay in the game.
It's not going to stop them, you know they're still going to keep on going.
So when you drop out, you help those guys out.
You know, and those guys they don't give a, especially like the lower socioeconomic men who have less to lose.
If you have a good job and you enjoy your freedom and your comforts, You're going to get scared because you don't want to lose that.
But if you're living paycheck to paycheck and you can't think more than one week into the future, you just want to get laid and put your penis in anything, you don't care about me too.
You know, you don't really care about that.
So even if you drop out, you know, the guys there in Spain are going to be like, oh, great.
This is again, it's like with MGTOW in the USA.
It gets a lot of white and Asian guys out of the game.
So you're going to have to ask yourself how much you want to be with a Spanish girl.
If you just want to use, if you just want short-term fun, I have a feeling that you more are towards the short-term mini relationships, then I would more avoid them.
But if you're thinking of having a family, things like that, you may not want to do it in Thailand.
You may want, I mean, I know a lot of guys are having fun in all these other countries, but then they want to eventually one day reproduce with a girl from their own background.
So in that case, you know, you just have to ask yourself, is it worth it?
And if it is worth it to sleep with Spanish girls, is there any defense mechanism you can take to prevent a false charge?
Some guys, they record their sex with audio, video.
So there's things you can still do.
But it's up to you what your goals are.
I understand.
That's a good answer.
And also, I wanted to ask you a second question about actually motivation.
I've been like, I had for a long time my goals, which were basically becoming location independent to be able to travel and to make money to increase my sexual market value.
Those goals have been achieved.
And now I'm finding my family for a long time.
No, so then once you achieve your goals, you don't know what to do next.
Yeah, like there's that motivation that is lacking and actually made me quite happy to feel that fire inside of me that made me want to improve my market value, made me want to improve my finances.
And I no longer feel that fire, that motivation that actually was the best part of all this process of achieving my goals.
Once you have achieved basic material comfort and you have relationships based on love with family, girlfriend, maybe even pets, there's nothing else to do.
Nothing else.
You are done.
You know, of course, if you want to feed your ego still, you would achieve more money, more fame.
You don't want to stop the party because right now your ego is in a starvation state.
You're like, but we were achieving these goals and I felt better.
I felt like I was self-improving.
I felt more confident.
I was becoming a stronger man.
But now you're not achieving goals.
And you're like, oh, I feel kind of empty.
I don't have the meaning that I used to have.
But I would argue that the meaning was false.
You know, it was just busy work, that you're really the same man as before.
So this is the time that men move into what?
Stoicism, Buddhism, Tao, Zen.
You know, this is where, well, shit, more material achievement, more ambition is just going to postpone time.
It's just going to keep me busy.
You know?
Okay.
So now, and what is your age?
How old are you?
I'm 33 years old.
Do you sound like me almost to a T, you know, you're like the Spanish ruche.
So yeah, I was about that age when I started to wonder.
So then this is when you start to think, well, maybe I should get a girlfriend, a wife, you know.
But if you stay on the ego treadmill, you're going to have more countries to go to, more flags, more sex to get, more money to make.
But that's just, then all it's going to be, you're going to be busy for another 10 more years, and then you're going to be 43 calling in, being like, Roosh, I achieve a new tier of goals.
I have millions of dollars, but I still feel that emptiness.
It's never going to go away.
And feeding your ego just makes you feel like you're doing something, but it's just going to come back to you.
This is why some men, they have to keep themselves busy forever.
They can't stop.
Because the minute they stop, the minute all activity stops, suddenly they ask themselves, what is this for?
And the only possible answer that can come back to them is nothing.
It's for nothing.
It's this busy work.
You know how when you used to be in school, your teacher would come in and you would do a lesson.
And then when your teacher got sick, the substitute teacher would come in.
Almost always in the U.S., I don't know how the schools in Spain were.
When the substitute teacher came in, they would give you worksheet after worksheet, busy work that you knew was meaningless, meaningless work that your own teacher is not going to even grade.
That's not going to even go towards your overall grade.
Meaningless work.
That's what after you achieve basic material comfort and you've nurtured all the love that is in your life that is possible.
It's all busy work, man.
It's all busy work.
But you're going to see all these men on their Instagram showing more wealth, more fame, more women, but it's not bringing them joy.
Because then they're going to be, once the moment the music stops, they're going to be like, oh, where's all my hoes now?
They don't really love me.
All this money I have, I'm so anxious.
I'm scared I'll lose it.
You know?
So unfortunately, this is a problem.
This is a good problem to have in the sense that you've, in terms of all the human beings that have lived, the amount of comfort you have achieved and experiences you have achieved is in the top 1% out of all humans that have lived.
You know, go if you still have grandmothers and grandfathers, go ask them how their life was when they were 33 years old.
And you'll see that this is a problem of when your life is too good, but you think it can get better.
Yeah, it could get better marginally.
So I would say, you know, stop and just enjoy what you have now.
If there are, if there are only thing worth pursuing after basic material comfort is love.
That's it.
More material is not going to help.
More money, more, if you are ready, if you have a good home, good food, you can take trips here and there.
More material is not going to do anything.
Love could.
Yeah.
No, it's obviously all this is a trap because I'm always saying, no, I'll finish.
I'll do a few more trips.
I'll check out the Philippines.
I'll check out Japan and then I will connect myself.
And then I find myself like again, again, and what about Poland?
And what about this place?
And what about, and I'm like, fuck, man.
It's like, and it's also burning me a little bit because it's hard to travel solo, like finding a new place, eating healthy stuff.
And it's, yeah, it's bringing a bit of a burden.
You know, there are really two roads that you can take from this point.
One road is to chain yourself more to these material goals, to chain yourself to your inferiority complex of wanting to be bigger and better.
And the second path is freedom.
Freedom from being able to not have to worry about your material existence, to just live, you know, not have to do anything.
Once you achieve material comfort and love, there's nothing to do.
There is nothing to do.
There's many times I get up.
Yeah, I have things to do, to write, but I tell myself, there's nothing I have to do day after day.
There's nothing.
I can go for a walk, smell some flowers, have a cup of coffee, but there's truly nothing to do.
Nothing.
And you can let go of all that shit and let everyone play that game, play that game of their running in the wheel.
Let them play it.
Don't judge them for it.
Let them live their lives.
I don't bother anybody who wants to play the game.
Guys still come up to me.
How do I bang 100 girls?
I'm going to tell them.
I'm not going to tell him, don't.
He made up his mind.
Let him do it.
Let him go.
Guys are asking me, how do I make that money on the internet?
I'll share everything that I know.
But I know deep down, there's going to be a point.
And he's going to ask me, and then what?
And I'm going to tell him nothing.
There's nothing else.
Great, Roosh.
Thank you very much for your answer.
Sure thing.
Bye-bye.
Okay.
Take care.
Bye.
You know, if you were raised in the West, what I just said is blasphemous, horrible.
How can you be against the materialist treadmill, Roosh?
There's always something to achieve, to earn.
There's always a way to prove yourself.
Don't you want to prove yourself to be a bigger man?
No, I don't.
Because you're always having to prove yourself in the eyes of others who are trying to prove themselves.
There is no objective judge of value.
You can stop it now.
It's like, no, I am who I am.
That's it.
It's done.
Game is over.
You know, it's a rigged game anyway, because there's no end.
Tell me what the end is.
If you tell me what the end is when the moment I know I'm finished playing this material existence game, then you can sell it to me.
What's the end?
And then you realize there is no end because there's always more material that you can gain.
There is no end to this game, but there's an end to my life.
I'm not going to live on this life forever.
And unfortunately, you know, not everyone gets to live until they're 80.
Okay, I think we got a couple of super chats.
All right.
James Allen donated $5.
He said, hey, Roosh, I was not sure to say, even though I wrote it down.
Oh, I was not sure what to say, even though I wrote it down.
This is a caller.
Did not want to keep the other people on hold.
Thanks for the value.
Thank you, James.
If you want to call back next time, that's fine with me.
One man's way donated $5.
He said, here's a few bucks so you can afford to drink tea again.
Oh, thank you, man.
That $5 where I'm at is two cups of tea.
Thank you.
And Jar donated another $2.
He said, would you bang Laura Loomer since her nose job?
You know, because she, listen, I try to stay away from American girls, but Laura Looma is a Laura Loomer is a fine person, you know.
Okay.
Let's go to the next caller.
Hello, caller.
You're not live.
Hello, Roosh.
Can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
This is forum member Messo calling from Southern California.
And what is happening?
I like your shirt.
What is happening?
Actually, yes, one of your super chats had actually yoinked my question before I was able to get online, asking you about if you would consider appearing on the Redman group.
You know, after this live stream, I'll go and see what it's about.
But listen, I like, let's see, I like having all the attention on myself.
You know, I'm just so used to being the most famous man in the room, and all eyes are on me.
And these group chats, I can't get as much attention as I want.
You know, I'm not that different from, yeah, I'm not that different from an Instagram model.
You know, I like, see, I don't take selfies.
I do live streams and I feel so validated.
These group chats, they don't do it for me.
I wanted to elaborate.
I singled out that particular group because I was watching one of their latest episodes.
And it just struck me, given the group of participants, the first thing that occurred to me is like, you know, there's one guy missing here.
And echoing what you had mentioned earlier, is that you wouldn't want these things to turn to some kind of a personal attack where they can target you on there.
I don't think that that particular group, it would degenerate into that type of thing, like, say, the Dr. Os fiasco, which at least that gave you some real attention there.
Imagine how many people had never heard of you until then.
But I think you should try out that particular one.
Okay, but then I would say this: I would say they're going to say, okay, Ruch, our show is on Wednesday at 9 p.m.
Then I have to plan my schedule to be in front of a computer at 9 p.m.
How about if I just want to take a walk?
I don't like making appointments unless they're doctor appointments.
Even those I don't like.
So I just valid this is why I don't tell you guys when I'm doing a live stream more than like two hours because I have to be in the mood.
How about if I wake up and I was like, I don't want to do a chat with a group of men I don't know.
But then if I can, so I would like to look like a flick.
Yeah, with that in mind, perhaps if at a later date, if the timing comes about within a proper window, I think you would provide an integral perspective in that particular group.
But it's just a recommendation.
That's fine.
I will.
All right.
And let me just add that I'm very forward to seeing your latest book and I'll be among the first to check it out.
Thank you very much, man.
Okay.
Thank you, sir.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
You're very welcome.
Okay.
Bye.
Okay.
Cool stuff in the chat says, can you please bang Lauren Southern and tell us about it?
Thank you, sir.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
Well, I hear she's in Australia with Stephen Molyneux and like some Australian liberals try to shut him down, but they failed.
So that's good.
I'm glad that they won.
As for banging, you know, I don't bang anymore.
I'm looking for something.
Like if I bang a girl, I have to want to bang it twice now.
You know, I want something where no more one and outs.
The amount of energy I've spent to bang girls only once is obscene.
I could have written eight more books.
Jesus.
Arnold knows.
He is watching every girl I bring home.
You know, girls think he's like a stuffed animal.
Nope.
He is taking notes because when he becomes a big boy, he can bang too because he's not gay, like some of you said, spreading rumors.
The media, man.
Hello, Collier now live.
Oh, hi.
Good to finally get through here.
Okay.
Let's see.
I wanted to start by telling you I was visiting Terrisson, Ukraine a few months ago, and I was a guy who was a big fan of yours.
And can you first say where you are from?
I am in the People's Democratic Socialist Republic of Austin.
Austin, oh, okay, and you met someone who knows me.
Yeah, right.
Okay, well, he doesn't know you, he knows of you.
Okay, and is that how you found out?
I know it's kind of cool.
Tears on the small place.
And is that how you found out about me?
Oh, no, I've been following you for years now.
What a small world, yes, it is.
And Tearson is not what you call the real metropolis.
Um, anyway, I've got a question that's a little outside your area of expertise, but uh, I'm an older guy and I've been looking for quite a while.
I really, really want a family, and everything I've tried so far has failed pretty miserably.
So, uh, any words of wisdom?
Um, how old are you?
Um, and mute the video in the background because I can hear I can hear an echo.
Uh, the video is not playing.
Oh, it's not okay because I'm hearing some kind of echo.
All right, so you are what?
How old 60.
60.
You got do you have, yeah, I know.
I mean, do you have like game?
Like, can you go up to girls and charm them?
Uh, um, I'm not that good at it.
Have you?
I mean, we had a caller last week that was considering using a mail-order bride service, like an introduction service.
I mean, 60, that's yeah, that's beyond if you're 60 and can't really walk up to say a 40-year-old and you want to start a family, right?
Family is really where it's at.
So, you need to be in girls, you need to be talking to girls who are like 30.
Uh, yeah, I'm figuring 30 to 35.
Okay, well, you got to go to Asia then, right?
Yeah, if I like yellow girls, that would help, dude.
I mean, at your age, I don't think you can be picky.
I know.
I mean, this is like even in Asia, you're pushing it, you're really pushing it.
I mean, 60 trying to start a family with a 30-year-old girl, man.
I honestly, I have never heard of a guy pulling that off.
Granted, most men who read me are not over 50.
This sounds like a I don't know, man.
It sounds a little bit tough.
I don't know if you can get this done.
I mean, I don't want to deflate your hope, but this sounds unreasonable almost.
60, you want 30-year-old girl in Ukraine, that ain't gonna happen, probably not.
Asia could be it, but you're gonna know, uh-huh.
I was gonna say, I've met a few couples with the 25-year-old, uh, 25-year age difference, and okay, that was when she was way younger.
Okay, but you're working a 30-year gap, that's that's different, right?
All right, well, if I mean, you are very hopeful, you think you can do it, so you can stay there and try it.
I mean, shit, if you think you can do it where there's a will, there's a way, right?
You just got to lower your standards and bring that sweet cash so she at least has some incentive to do it.
You're going to have to roll up with super beta provider game and just hope that works as bait.
Yeah, that's kind of my thoughts.
I mean, I really don't know, man.
You know, I'm just taking a guess.
Like you mentioned, this is out of my area of expertise.
I'm still working on pulling 15-year age gaps, so 30 is it's not just 30 to bang, it's 30 to marry.
That's the that's where the difficulty is.
Yeah, I'm sure I can.
We can figure out how to bang girls that are 30 years younger if you get fit and things such as that and look younger.
But for marriage, I don't know, you know.
But I know that if I'm 60 and I haven't started a family, I mean, for me, since I've been in with been playing the game for such a long time, I would call it a day at that point.
But I don't know how involved you were, you know.
Yeah, that plan B is to go move someplace where short-term rentals are available.
But in the meantime, I really do want a family.
And I've looked at particularly Ukraine because I've actually been there a couple of times now.
The marriage market value for women goes down dramatically over 30, particularly if they have a child.
So I'm looking at how do we match the marriage market value, not the sexual market value.
Yeah.
Yeah, they, all those girls that are desperate, you'll, I would, you can consider using like an introductory service.
I think they're more catered for guys your age specifically.
That could be worth a shot.
I don't know what your cash flow is like, but honestly, I really don't have much advice for you, except if you go to if you liked Asian girls, that I hear big age gaps can be pulled off there.
Yeah, I tried the romance tour thing and it went badly.
I got there, told them, look, family is what I'm looking for.
That's what I want to do.
I get there and they're telling me, oh, you shouldn't even consider having children.
It's like, well, guys, I just gave you a bunch of money and now you tell me this.
So I'm a little angry about that.
Yeah, I'm sure they'll say anything to get the sale.
That shouldn't be shocking, right?
Yeah.
But I don't know, man.
I think you're asking for something that's extremely difficult, extremely, but I don't know.
I really don't know.
This is one of the few calls I really don't know.
Okay, well, I figured I'd ask the expert.
That's fine.
You know, maybe if I'm 60, if I can pull that off, you know, get a 30-year younger wife and have kids, and I'll write a book about it.
Yeah, that won't happen.
You'll be any good.
All right, man.
Thank you for calling.
Okay.
Uh-huh.
All right.
Bye-bye.
Say, bye.
Yeah.
I'm not a miracle worker.
Damn.
But yeah, if I hit 45, I'm just going to buy dogs and be done.
I'm not going to, you know, sometimes if it's not meant to be, it's not meant meant to be.
If you, it's not our fault.
We were born in the West and we're messed up and the environment is messed up.
But listen, 60, I don't know, man.
I don't know.
All right.
We got a super chat from Dan S donated $5.
He says, greeting from Michigan.
Thank you, Dan.
One man's way, donate again.
He said, to that caller, 60 is nothing.
Look in the Bible.
Abraham was 100.
You got this.
Ask our creator for a wife.
He will give you one.
Just build a relationship with him.
Yes, I agree.
You know, man, they had some ages in the Bible that were old.
Like, and Lot lived till he was 160 and he died young.
Like, what?
160?
Damn, humans used to live a long time.
We must be the inferior specimens dying at younger ages.
Okay, boomer.
PUA.
Shit.
You know, I'm not going to make fun of guys like that who are still hunting because I may, that may happen to me.
I may, you know, maybe I'll get into a coma, be asleep for 20 years, and I wake up like I'm 62 and then I want to have a family and it's TikTok, right?
And straight to Thailand, I'll go.
Shit, I love Asian girls.
All right.
Hello, Collier, now live.
Hello, caller.
Caller.
I don't hear anything.
He's been a whole for a while, too.
Let me give him a second.
Maybe he'll show up.
I don't know.
We'll try him later.
Okie dokie.
Hello, Collier now live.
Caller?
Two for 0 for 2.
Rush.
Oh, here we go.
Bruce, can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
Oh, okay.
Hey, hey, I'm in Indiana.
Okay.
I'm 31.
I'm fit.
I just had a feminist boss that tried to fire me.
Yeah, I worked there for two years.
And I knew that she was into me the entire time.
And I was just kind of playing along with like smiles and looks to kind of take advantage of the situation.
And a week after I told her I was looking to move to a different job in the company, she makes up some bullshit charge and tries to get me fired because she felt rejected.
The moment she felt rejected, she was going to get you.
She was going to leverage her power to screw you.
Oh, she's, yeah, that's exactly what she's doing.
But I'm not that worried about it because I've been saving money the whole time.
Yeah.
But I just kind of wanted to share that with the other listeners.
I mean, listen to save as much as possible.
On a long enough timeline, if things proceed on its current pace, and of course, things are going to change, but if they continue on its current pace, every heterosexual male will be fired from his job.
Every single one.
So that makes me feel better.
I mean, it's, it's getting, I'm hearing a lot of stories like this a lot.
It's, you have to, unless the exception is if you're a really good actor.
If you're a good actor, then you can soy boy globalism now.
You know, you can, oh man, I love that pussy hat you got on, babe.
It's, it's, I wish I can't wait till I have a daughter.
I'm going to give her a pussy hat too.
You know, if you can women's march and be like, me too, yay, if you can fake it like real good, like you're an actor and keep that mask on and make sure it doesn't slip, then you can be gainfully employed in the rat race and maybe hit your $120,000 a year salary.
That a lot of hands take that prod out personal taxes, income, healthcare.
Anyway, so, but yeah, I think it could be a blessing in disguise because if this will prevent you from working a similar type of job in the future, where you're, you can lose your job in such a way.
Yeah, yeah, I agree.
And I just, yeah, I wanted to share so that the other guys know to keep an eye out for companies that have too many women and definitely avoid any companies.
Any, if there's any women, which is basically any, but if you can work a blue-collar job, I know a lot of guys don't want that physical type of work, but if you can do a blue-collar job where you can be an independent contractor, you can own your own business.
Oh, you're probably safe.
It's very the worst that's going to happen to you is a feminist leaving a bad review of you on Yelp, which won't help, but it's not going to keep you.
But if you are dependent on women who are above you or you work with a lot of them and they are ugly and they feel unattractive and they want to punish good-looking men for not wanting to flirt or sleep with them, you're going to get it.
It's just a matter of time.
Oh, yeah.
Just a matter of time.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I don't know if it's just because I'm still upset about it, but I would say I would advise a hard no if the female if it's a female boss, even if it's a good job, I would just pass on it if I were easy no.
If I were another guy.
So what are you going to do now?
Anyway, I'm just looking around.
I just probably just get some bullshit part-time job.
Like I said, I could live off savings if I wanted to.
So she kind of did me a favor anyway.
Okay, good.
All right, man.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Anyway, I got, I'm looking forward to that new book, and I want to buy one.
My brother just had his first son, and I want to get one for him.
Is that material going to be relevant for when he's of age?
It's how old is he?
He's just born.
Oh, it's going to be, it's going to be 15 years.
Okay.
Yeah.
I mean, I would say it's this book is mostly targeted for guys at the end of college and up.
In terms of a dad, if that's what you meant for your brother, for a dad, you know, unless a guy seeks the advice out and is like, this is what I need, and he does some independent research on his own to find it.
My experience is he's going to thank you for the book, but not really get into it.
If you have to give advice to someone that they don't come to you for it, they don't use it.
You know, it's just wasted on them because they don't value it.
No one values free advice that they didn't have to seek out.
So unless he's been asking you advice for how to deal with his marriage, the opposite may happen where giving him this book may insult him and it may insult him and he's going to resent you.
For what?
What?
Do you think I have problems?
Do you think that I'm not a man?
So I would be a little bit careful.
Unfortunately, you're absolutely right on that.
He's kind of, I don't want to talk bad about my brother, but he's kind of a lost cause.
He married a woman who didn't take his last name.
Oh, God, that really burns my ass.
But that's why I was mainly wanting to, yeah, I was mainly wanting to get the book for my nephew to save him.
Yeah.
So a lot of time.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Anyone, okay, before I let you go, I was just going to say that you can't help someone who won't help themselves.
You just can't.
There's nothing you can say.
Nothing.
There's nothing.
There's really nothing you can do because the person has to want to help himself.
And the way they help, they give you a sign.
I need help.
If you don't get that sign, if he doesn't ask you what to do, don't say anything.
Just keep your lip, just bite your lip.
Just try to maintain as healthy of a relationship as possible until he denounces you for liking Trump or some weird thing, you know?
Well, I hate to say it, but I've kind of given up on my brother.
Is it different like with the uncle-nephew situations?
Like, is there a way for me to prevent his mind from being poisoned?
Like if I swoop in early enough with it is not your job anyway.
You know, you can't.
Yeah, I know.
It is not your job.
Just if you have time with him, just be a good role model.
Don't give him lectures.
Don't give that little kid.
Don't try to squeeze in a lifetime of red pill knowledge in the little time you spend with him.
Just be with him.
And if that kid has character where he wants to be a man, where he doesn't want to be a cuck whose wife doesn't take, let's say, his last name, then he's going to remember the times that he spent with you.
Maybe you went fishing or you played sports.
But giving a lecture, I find, to young boys, unless you have a lot of time with them, like 10 hours a week, it isn't going to really get into their minds.
All right.
Well, I appreciate your advice.
I got one more thing to bounce off of you before I let you go.
You've got a background in biology, right?
Yeah, microbiology.
Okay.
Okay.
Well, have you heard of apost?
I don't know if I'm pronouncing it right.
Apostmatism, like the animals who have brightly colored markings.
It shows like they're poisonous.
All right.
Have you heard of the zombies?
Yeah, I saw the meme.
That's where I'm going with this.
Yeah.
Have you heard of the zombie ants?
Like they have some sort of like infection and it makes them go to like the end of a leaf so they get eaten and like the fungus then grows in the rabbit and that's like its life cycle is part of taking over the ant to make it do self-destructive behavior.
And then what the ant does, it climbs up like a blade of grass and then exposes itself in such a crazy way so that the fungus can like spread.
Yeah.
Yes.
Okay.
Good.
I was where I'm going with that is, do you think it's possible that feminism is some sort of viral infection that they're exhibiting this behavior because they're infected with something?
Well, you know, a lot of there is that also another meme of where feminism is a mind virus, you know, but I think that viruses tend to be like a literal virus infection.
Oh, literal, like a biological agent?
No, I don't, I don't think I don't, I don't, I think, you know, they say that some cat ladies are infected with toxoplasmosis from their cat doo-doo.
And this could alter how they see certain things.
But I mean, it would be like a side effect from maybe their HPV infection or their, you know, herpes, syphilis.
You know, syphilis does cause a lot of mental problems.
But I don't think so.
I don't think it's a biological agent.
No.
I mean, I, yeah, I mean, you would know.
I don't have a background in biology, but I think it's something to keep your mind open to, given these other examples in nature.
If Bill Gates donates hundreds of millions of dollars to my research facility, then I will, that's, that is going to be the first study that I do.
All right.
I appreciate it.
Hey, if you ever come to the Midwest, I want to buy you a beer.
I will be there next year, hopefully.
Hey, I'll be looking out for you.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Okay.
So, guys, it looks like we've come to an end to Ruch Live number 15.
Sorry for everyone who's on hold, but it is time to go eat pizza.
It's pizza day.
And we didn't have Gagandeep call.
There was no Gondu train.
And I'm pretty upset about that.
I was really hoping, you know, that Gondu, that Gagandeep would call me, but he didn't.
So thank you for everyone who left a super chat.
Did I get through all the super chats?
Okay, actually, there's one left by Jay Dyer, who has prank called me a couple times.
But he keeps that money rolling.
You can prank call me.
$14.99.
He said, tell the boomer to go thug and get a ghetto black chick.
Well, if he's in Ukraine, Jay, I don't think he likes ghetto black chicks.
Not like there's anything wrong with black people.