So all I said was that I'm here with my energetic co-host, Arnold.
Arnold, not Roger.
Arnold.
Sounds working.
All right.
Glad we got that fixed.
So we got, I got some news, people.
I got some news.
Some pretty significant news, actually.
I'm going back to Washington, D.C. really soon because of a family issue.
I'm staying for at least a month, but this could be a long-term thing.
I may have to permanently move back.
This isn't a joke.
When you get that call, you know, your expat fantasy life comes to a screeching halt.
Thank God I banged all the girls that I wanted to, all the European bangs, because I think going back is going to be a little bit different than the fun I had when I was in D.C. in 2007-ish.
It was a different time then.
Now I'm scared as fuck to have sex with an American girl.
Are you kidding?
I don't want to go to jail.
So anyway, we'll see.
We'll see.
We'll see if I only have to stay for a month or two or if I end up having to really move, move, move back.
You know, I think this expat lifestyle is really easy when your family is fine, when everyone's fine, when they don't need any, you know, help.
But the second someone needs you, what the hell are you going to do?
You're just going to stay in Europe and or wherever Asia and South America and have fun while someone back at home, they need you.
You're not going to have fun when someone needs you.
Well, it's a good thing that I don't have any family or kids here.
How would that work?
Can you imagine if I had kids here, if I had a wife, and I have to go back home?
How do you do that?
You know?
So I don't know.
I don't know.
I'm starting to think maybe that expat deal.
Oh, yeah, just go leave where you're from.
Leave everyone.
Ignore the fact that your mom and dad is going to get old.
And what are you going to do?
Just put them in a nursing home and then send a check every month?
I don't know, guys.
But yeah, I've been in Europe now for seven years.
Seven years since 2011.
Let me add yeah, seven.
That's a long time, huh?
It feels like longer than that.
But I did it all here.
Seen it all.
Banged it all.
I don't know.
Maybe this is it.
Maybe this is the end of my European chapter.
Maybe I have to, you know, I don't think you can ever really escape from where you come from.
I don't, I don't think, as long as your roots are still there, how can you fully escape?
Unless you do what the Muslims are doing and they're just their whole family is leaving the Middle East and coming to Europe.
That's like the entire clan is coming, you know.
So then all the ones that come, if the grandma back at home gets sick, they're like, come to Germany.
We got that free health care here.
And she comes in, she gets the best health care.
It's a little bit easy.
But when you expatriate from a first world country and your family doesn't want to go to the shitholes that you want to go to, what the hell is my family going to do in some Eastern European former communist shithole with weird, cold people who barely speak English?
They ain't going to do anything here.
So anyway, so that's what's going on.
I'll be back soon.
The good news, good news, is now I can do a meetup again.
Now I can get shut down even faster.
But the bad news is, I don't know when I can do a live stream again because I don't have the setup, you know.
So I don't know.
If I can't set it up, we're not going to have one for over a month.
If I can figure it out, maybe in a couple weeks.
So that's the only bad news.
So enjoy this live stream.
Enjoy it.
I don't know when the next one comes.
Enjoy Arnold, who's moving constantly.
Arnold is like jittery today.
He's shaking.
You can see him.
All right.
So that's enough of the intro.
Now let's go to our first caller who's been holding.
Let's see where is he.
Hello, Caller.
You're now live.
Well, unmuted.
Okay.
Hello, caller.
Hello.
Yo.
It's me from Michigan.
I know who this is.
So you are the autist that cucked another man last week.
Right.
Okay.
And did you happen to cuck any other man?
Or?
Well, he ran off.
He wanted to do more than just wife.
What?
So I said no.
He wanted me to do stuff with me.
So I said no.
Okay.
So hold on.
So you cucked another man, then he got in touch with you.
Yeah.
So did he get in touch with you or the woman did?
I could all him, really.
And what did he want to do to you?
At first, he just wanted to watch, but then he started to touch more and more.
And I said, no.
Okay, hold on.
So you actually saw them once more.
Yeah.
So you expected the same thing where you get to get head from his wife or whatever and him to watch to furiously masturbate in the corner.
But this time he wanted to participate.
Yeah.
And how did you feel about that?
I said no.
Stop it.
So I'm on just the normal way now.
Now, did he rape you anyway?
So, even though you said no, he kept going and then he raped you.
No, I just left.
I was actually on text, but yeah.
Oh, I think I don't think you should see them again.
Yeah, I said stop on or stop texting, and he hasn't texted in a while.
Okay, well, uh, thank you for that update.
Did anything else go on?
Well, I want to do it like the normal way, like I said, like online or it's a cold approach.
Okay, uh, when you walk like normally when you go out, do girls ever give you eye contact?
Yeah, approach those girls.
I'm like, uh, I'm a soft seven, hard six, so most people look at me at least.
They notice me.
So, I would focus on the girls who give you eye contact first, but like I said, it's just like when I start interacting with them because I feel like my game's not good enough.
Well, look, you are on a live call, 300 people.
I mean, if you can talk in front of 300 people, I'm pretty sure you can talk in front of one other person.
And if she doesn't like you, then so what the thing is, it's escalating because one step at a time, just one step at a time.
First, you meet them first, then you go from there, then don't jump ahead.
What do you mean by that?
That means don't worry about the end goal yet, worry about the initial goals, the meeting them first, having a nice conversation, exchanging phone numbers, and things like that.
Okay, this is-I mean, we already wrote the book on game, it's no exception for you just because you have some issue going on.
You follow the book just like everyone else does.
There's no exceptions, there's no special rules for you.
Okay, so just do it's it's really hard to meet single people.
So, then you go and off and go somewhere else where there are girls.
If there's a venue that doesn't have what you want, then go somewhere else.
If you have to leave the city, the country, hop on a train, a bus to get what you want, then do it.
All right, it's that easy.
So, just do the work like any other man does, do the work like I have to do.
You'll fail most of the time, and then you will hit.
And when you bang a girl, her husband is going to watch.
Okay, all right, man.
Okay, bye-bye now.
I think I'm really getting to him.
Yeah, I think he's improving every day.
I like how this time he stood up for himself and he said no when a man tried to rape him.
You know, that takes a little bit of balls, you know, because if you're a complete beta and some man tries to rape you, maybe you just may go along with it.
You know, I mean, can you really say for sure that you would deny another man who tried to penetrate you?
I mean, I would okay.
How's our live chat?
Let's see.
Live chat is in a state of amused excitement.
They are pretty happy.
Oh, I think a new YouTube feature is they're going to replay the live chat afterwards.
So tomorrow, if someone watches this, they're going to see your very intelligent comments, I think.
So we'll see if that works.
All right, let's go to the next caller.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hey, Roche.
Thanks for taking my call.
How's it going?
And where are you calling from?
Calling from Northern New Jersey.
Okay.
That is a problem area.
I've had a lot of callers from there where things are not going well.
That's an understatement.
Yeah, I'm kind of asking, I'm not having much success like anyone in.
I'm sure you've heard this before about the Sierra.
It seems like it's kind of gotten worse over the past like seven or eight years.
Like there's not, I'm kind of like in the suburbs here.
And I'm not like pussy about putting in approaches.
Like I can do cold approaching.
And but I think that there's just not enough like approach opportunities around here.
And like logistics to go to New York City are not really workable.
And the local bars around here are usually like sausage fests.
The ratios aren't good.
And I guess like the girls have like a corresponding attitude due to the ratios being bad.
And like I seriously like wanted to suck a bitch a few times, like the way that they treat you sometimes.
I don't advise that.
I don't advise hitting a girl.
But look, if your environment is bad, you got two options.
First is to deal with it, find some hidden gem or leave.
That's it.
I wasn't happy with my environment in Washington, D.C., so I left.
Now I have to go back.
But the point is, if you don't like it, then you have to move.
If you don't want to move, then you have to accept it and bang the garbage that is there.
What else are you going to do?
I know I have to move.
I've been visiting like different cities lately.
Anytime I get vacation time, I'm saving up my money.
And do you think there's a better strategy I can do in the meanwhile other than like going out to bars?
I mean, you only got really three options, night game, day game, and internet game.
Usually one guy due to his personality is going to do better in one of those three.
By default, unless you're a Chad, unless you're a nine out of 10, internet game is basically out because you're guaranteed to only me girls way lower than you.
I mean, the entitlement, the expectation that girls have online is really, really high.
At night, you seem not to be doing well.
So that leaves a third option during the day, hitting coffee shops, the malls.
Maybe there's a town center or some kind of local concerts and things such as that.
But that's it.
Unless you plan on doing social circle and going to church or going to some kind of group stuff.
Okay.
I mean, you know, in one way, it's very easy in the sense that you don't have many, many options.
So you either hit those options hard or you got to leave, you know.
But if you're going to leave, hurry up because everywhere is getting worse at the same time.
No, I know.
Yeah, I just went to Austin a few months ago.
I mean, it wasn't like pussy paradise, but it was definitely a lot better than here.
Like I told you, Jersey seems to be a problem area.
This is, I have never, I have not gotten one good call email from there.
It seems to be bad there.
Oh, no, I've gotten some of the harshest treatment anywhere.
Like I've, you know, guys have laughed at stories I've told them about, you know, approaches.
Like I just ran like an opinion opener on a couple of girls, and then she gave me a one-word response, and then she said, Any more questions?
Is that it?
Well, it doesn't help your cause that you're running 2005-era type of game either.
But yeah, I do expect that.
I do expect the attitudes to be extremely harsh.
Yeah.
I know.
But all right.
So I hope that helped out.
Thanks, Rush.
Bye-bye.
Mental no, don't move to Jersey.
Jersey is not good.
All right.
So if you're on hold or if you want to ask me a question quicker, you can always send a super chat.
I like to get to those.
It's only 20 minutes in and I have to pee.
All right, let me take this call.
We have a foreign number.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hello, I'm live, the Brazilian guy.
You are now live.
What is going on?
Okay.
So a few weeks ago, there was a carnival here.
Do you know?
The Brazilian carnival?
Yes, I do.
I've been to two of them.
Good.
Actually, it was my first time out in the carnival.
I got some friends like who approach women and everything.
So I went out and I got much better results than I expected because I had been watching some videos from, I don't know if you know this movement online, there's a lot of people that claiming that appearance is everything, looks are everything.
So if you're ugly, you're damn, you're fucked.
Well, if you are ugly, it's going to be harder, yes.
Yes.
No, but there's a channel.
It's called Face and LMS.
So it's like, your face is everything.
If you're ugly, you're fucked.
You're out of game.
So your whole game is to improve your face?
Yeah, they call it looks maxing.
Like you have to get handsome or you're fucked.
Okay.
So you got somehow handsome and then you went to Carnival?
No, no, no.
I am not handsome.
I would say I'm slightly below average, like in face, what face is concerned.
But I went out and I got so many girls and foreign, beautiful girls from Denmark.
It was actually funny because I got foreigners from the countries that you say they suck, like Denmark and England.
It's very funny.
What do you mean when you say you got them?
Did you kiss them?
Unfortunately, that is going to my question because I only got to kiss them because I tried to close, like to fuck them, but I didn't manage to show.
And that was my question.
Like, there was this English girl, the British girl, and I approached her and I kissed her.
It was really easy to kiss those foreign girls.
I was a little bit baffled because the Brazilian girls are so entitled.
They reject you in very harsh manners, like because I'm Brazilian, so probably they don't know.
But these foreign girls, they were so lovely with me.
They treated me so well.
It was so easy to kiss them.
Okay.
I'm sure you're not the only one that they kissed, though.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But anyway, once you, I mean, if you want to go from kiss to bang, you're going to have to get them in a private room at some at some point, right?
So you invite them, yeah.
That English girl, like I kissed her, and I will stay a little bit with her, and then we moved.
My group moved, and I asked her if she wanted to come, and she came with me.
Like, we spent a day together around like the central, I mean, Rio, actually.
Yeah, so we stayed a little bit, but then she went to a restaurant with her friends, and like I didn't feel well inviting myself to it.
Like, and I didn't have any money to eat in a fancy restaurant because she's rich, probably.
That's what I'm saying.
I don't think she picked you because you have money.
So, no, no, no.
So, anyway, she has already other money she needs in this case.
You would have to get her number, hit her up, say, Hey, let's do this.
Let's go to this bar.
This bar happens to be close to you.
Unfortunately, Rio is a city that's very large.
A lot of these tourist girls are getting hit on constantly, especially the blonde ones.
So, I mean, honestly, getting a number is not going to do much.
You have to bang in the moment.
So, you had one close, close call.
That's not enough.
I mean, you're going to have to play the numbers game.
I got her number and the next day, the day after, it was actually her last day here in Rio.
So, I had to rush.
Like, it was very funny because she wasn't bringing her phone with her to the streets, like because she feared being robbed.
And so, I couldn't contact her during the day when she was out with her friends and taking guys or whatever.
So, at night, she appeared like on WhatsApp, and I was very, very, like, as soon as she got online, I said, Hey, let's do something.
And it was already like late, like it was 9 p.m., 10 p.m., something like that.
So, I told her, I'm going to, no, I'm going to where you're staying.
Like, I think it was.
So, where did this go?
Okay, can you fast forward?
What happened?
What happened is that I met her and like I went to her hotel and like I was like prepared to like today's my lucky day.
I will get it because normally I'm not very good at it.
Okay, and then what happened?
Just tell me what happened.
Sorry, I'm very tempted.
So, I tried to convince her to like to pick, get her to go to the hotel with me and have sex with her.
But she told me she didn't want to have sex because she doesn't have technical girls.
Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
You are a newbie.
You are new at this.
This is probably the farthest you've gotten in, I don't know, God knows how long, which is fine.
Yeah, but don't try to micro-analyze your first close bang.
You're trying to micro-analyze it.
You can't do that.
That doesn't work ever.
I mean, instead of, I mean, instead of thinking about her, you just go do it again.
Go find another girl and keep going.
There's going to be one that wants to bang you.
You know, but doing this microanalysis is not going to work.
So, I mean, I can't tell you specifically what happened, why she didn't want to bang you.
Bottom line is, she didn't want to bang you strongly.
I mean, obviously, if she did, she would have banged you.
So, that's the case with that girl.
My question was about like, what do you think is the probability that she said the truth when she's who cares what a woman is saying?
Doesn't matter.
I don't care.
Either you get the bang and she treats you well, or she fucks off.
I don't care.
Is she lying?
I don't, I don't know.
I'm not going to analyze her.
How much energy are you going to spend trying to analyze a woman?
They don't even know why they do things.
They don't know why they bang a guy.
You think you can ask them in a logical way why they do things?
They don't know why.
They're like children possessed by these primal needs.
They don't know why they're doing anything.
So I think you're in the wrong frame.
Your frame is, I need to figure them out.
Your frame is: I need to know why.
No, that's gonna make you lose again and again and again.
Never try to analyze it, never try to understand what a woman wants.
Just either she's attracted to you and wants to be intimate with you or not.
And if not, then as long as you give her an opportunity to come through, it's done.
Yeah, you're right.
It's probably because the most advanced friend I had told me the same thing, dude.
Maybe we got like really close, and maybe you wouldn't have got anything.
Don't analyze it.
Stop, stop, stop.
Stop analyzing it.
Don't analyze it.
Just think what are you going to do tomorrow to go back out there, find the next German slut, Danish slut, and do it again.
That's it.
Don't analyze this.
You analyze.
I'm guessing you probably spent hours on this.
Don't analyze anymore.
Do not analyze.
Just go try it again.
Thanks.
A little last question.
Very, very fast.
I'm giving you a lot of time.
Are you planning on coming to Brazil again ever?
I hear that the women are very fat now.
I actually have a friend who just came from there.
He said they are getting huge.
Huge.
He said 90% are fat.
Just F-A-T.
T-H-I-C-K, not T-H-I-C-C.
And I'm like, I don't want fat.
I mean, I'd rather take a frigid Eastern European girl who doesn't really talk but is thin than a passionate Brazilian, fun, entertaining, but she's fat.
I don't want a fat girl like that.
So probably 90%, but a lot of them are fat.
Yes, probably not right, right?
All right, man.
Uh-huh.
Bye-bye.
Yeah, I don't advise analyzing like that on such a micro level.
It's okay to analyze a group of experiences to see how to improve your odds, but not the individual ones diving into a girl's mind why she's doing that.
Don't work.
That don't work.
All right, we got a couple super chats.
We got JMAA TV.
He said, Brittany Venti looks like a mud shark.
Okay, and a mud shark is a racist term about a white girl who goes after black guys.
Thing is, Brittany is like half black, so I don't think that term applies there.
Pete Piper22 donated $5.
He said, If a girl you're interested in recently got out of an abusive relationship, should you skip her because she's probably damaged goods?
Well, do you plan to abuse her?
Because that's what she wants.
If you don't plan on abusing her, giving her what she wants, I'm guaranteeing, I guarantee she has some kind of daddy issue, then she's probably not going to mess with you.
If a girl was voluntarily in an abusive relationship, that's not an accident.
She wants the abuse.
So, I mean, unless you have that really amped-up asshole game, and I don't, of course, encourage you to abuse anyone, but that's what this girl wants.
And of course, the same girl who's getting abused by a guy and loves it is the same one who goes online and says, How men are evil, me too.
Hashtag.
All right, let me go and pee.
I'll be right back.
I'm surprised no one has commented on my shirt yet.
This is the ugliest shirt that I own.
I must have been in an artistic mood when I bought it.
But it is ugly.
This is an ugly shirt.
It doesn't match anything.
What is this?
Okay.
Ruch has bladder issues.
You know, the days I drink coffee, my bladder acts really weird.
Like I drink coffee and then I'm really thirsty.
So I drink all this water, but I pee out the water back out.
You know.
All right.
So in case you're just joining now, the announcement I made earlier is that I'm going back to Washington, D.C. because of a family issue.
I may have to be there for a long time.
If you're from D.C., hit me up.
We're going to start an army.
We're going to start the resistance.
No, I'm only joking, but I do want to do some meetups.
Okay, let's take the next caller.
Hello, Collier.
You're now live.
Holy shit, am I on?
You are on for sure.
Yes, the Ruchian Army show.
I love it.
That's right.
I actually called a few weeks ago and I think people didn't really get my message.
It wasn't about the number of guys that I beat up.
It's about how one woman was able to white knight all of them.
So there were a lot of comments after that.
You did the white, so you beat up the white knights in the nightclub.
That's right.
Yeah, just a couple of them, like maybe 30 or so.
So what do you have to share today?
Hopefully, something real.
Yes.
So I've been a longtime reader of Return of Kings.
Okay.
Great website.
I don't know what it means that it's a hate website now that doesn't mean shit to me because it's not.
But ever since Return of Kings opened, I've been taking this thing.
It's called Kratome.
Have you heard of it?
I have heard of that.
Yeah.
I think it's pronounced Kratom, but anyway.
Kratom.
Yeah.
So originally I had begun just taking maybe like a little bit of it, maybe like 100 milligrams, 200 milligrams.
And then I just got like this tolerance to it until I was like taking the maximum dosage of like 14.88 kilograms of it per day.
I went to the doctor and my T levels were like over 9,000, but it had a terrible side effect.
I began hearing Jewish voices every time I read the newspaper.
Well, I hear that if you take a high enough dose, your dig gets really big.
It's so big, sometimes it just explodes.
Did you have that?
Yeah.
Yeah, that's, I mean, that was my problem.
Like, so I went to my neurologist, Dr. Schecklestein, and he's just like, he's like, are you trying to get me banned from YouTube?
You know that the ADL is watching right now.
They have their finger on the ban.
And you're trying to get me banned.
I'm pretty sure they are.
Well, I mean, they already banned Kratom.
It's a scheduled one controlled substance.
Also, I heard that Alex Jones received his third YouTube strike today.
Supposedly his channel is supposed to go offline, but it's still there.
So, you know, Alex Jones, sometimes he says things that doesn't really happen.
But I don't know.
I mean, I think that I don't have, I'm surprised I'm still allowed to do this.
But I think when you give moderator tools to the ADL and the SPLC, you can be surprised if they shut down anyone who doesn't go for the social justice viewpoints.
Well, maybe this is a more pertinent, non-trolly question.
Finally.
To what extent does, yeah, yeah, right?
Well, I mean, I was going to talk about how I bought a zebra, but I mean, we can save that one until next time.
Yeah.
But I was going to say, to what extent does YouTube sort of play into your like viewership, subscribership?
Could you like organically grow through your website?
Like, because I know all these people, like Alex Jones, he's got his own stuff set up.
How much is like YouTube really going to hurt people at the end of the day?
Well, most of the people who are watching me right now, I would guess that they found me from Return of Kings or my website.
So that's like the main place.
And most people find me when they Google things like how to pick up girls, Polish girls, Colombian girls, and things such as that.
YouTube, I'm doing this mostly for fun.
I like doing it.
It's a great way to connect with people who follow me, to talk to them.
It's entertaining.
It is a good outlet for me just to speak on things that are on my mind that a man who calls in, he brings it out of me.
So it's fun.
So if they shut me down here, that's like a fun outlet that is gone.
But one thing I tweeted about is that in the past, if you're trying to censor people, you have to kill them or you have to put them in jail because otherwise what they're doing is like they're censoring us from the internet like a public square.
Yeah, they maybe get us offline a bit, but the idea is they don't die and we're still free.
We're still free to organize.
We're still free to do other things, legal or not.
So I don't think they're thinking through what they're doing.
So, okay, you are going to ban me and Alex Jones from YouTube.
Maybe 90% of the people who got banned, they drop out.
They just like, you know what?
I don't want this.
I don't want to deal with this.
But the 10% who stay in, they're going to be warriors, man.
They're going to be pissed.
Because sometimes, I mean, a lot of the people who are online, a lot of the people who have a big audience, their egos are large.
And when you step on a large ego, that ego is going to fight back.
It's going to prove to you that, hey, it's not weak.
So, a lot of these, I mean, and I think Alex Jones is one of them.
I mean, he has an ego, you know.
I mean, he has a big empire, so I expect him to.
You step on him.
Do you think he's just going to give up?
I don't think he's going to give up.
I don't know what he's going to do.
But what you're basically doing, what the left is doing, is filtering warriors.
They're filtering the weak out.
The ones that are left, the ones that are willing to fight, will be formidable.
They will be strong.
You know, because if they can go through the grinder, if they can go through the censorship grinder, that means they're not scared.
They don't give a shit.
They're not scared.
They're ready to lose it all.
I mean, you know, even me, I've had to think about what will I do once they start seizing domains of mine.
Am I going to give up?
Well, that's what I'm going to say.
It sort of begs the question: where do you stand on that spectrum?
Are you going to be one of those warriors?
I really don't know.
Okay.
I think I'll probably take a break, a month or two, or three, just to think about it.
Just to think, what do I want?
You know, what do I want to do?
Do I see an alternative?
Or is this my fate?
Am I fated to do this?
I don't know.
You know, I can't really tell you.
I don't know.
But I do fully expect them to shut down.
I would say from your perspective, any work that you put out is going to be contested in some way.
And that through whether or not you wanted to or not, even with your book that you have coming out, I mean, you're going to kind of put yourself.
So what I think two key moments to look for is when my new book comes out and when I start doing private paid events, excuse me, speeches.
And then, so we'll see.
But if I put out a book and the book is legal and they try to censor that and they remove all possible outcomes for me to get a paying job because my because Google for my name, I can't go get a bartender job, even probably.
And they take away all possibility for me to make money on the internet to write, to do anything.
What am I going to do?
I don't know.
You know, I can't tell you what I'm going to do because I don't know what's how it's going to feel when I'm actually there.
It's going to have to depend on where I am.
What are the options?
You know, am I feeling like going out with a bang or am I feeling like maybe just hanging in there just because I think in the next five or 10 years, things are going to change on their own.
So I don't know.
I don't know when it's going to happen.
And I think if you ask anyone else what they're going to do if they shut them down, I don't, I think, you know, a lot of people want to put on a brave type of face.
I'm going to fight back.
I'm going to go up against them.
I'm never going to give up.
I mean, that's a common thing that you're going to actually hear, but I think a lot of people, they're just not going to be able to deal with it because it's a big story.
It's a big difference between just doing some YouTube, doing some internet stuff, and really being someone who is an enemy of these powerful people.
It's very different.
And I was just put on that SPLC hate list.
Now I'm officially, me and Arnold are officially a hey group.
Hear that, Arnold?
So, you know, I don't know, man.
I don't know.
Maybe this is all meant to happen.
Maybe this is what I'm supposed to do.
Maybe I'm supposed to go back home.
Maybe I'm supposed to go back to Washington.
Maybe the shit is going to hit the fan when I'm there.
Maybe it's all meant to be.
You know, I don't believe in fate.
I think it's a more romantic idea, but who knows, man?
Who knows?
But all I can tell you is that I'm ready for anything, anything.
And I think that you are, I mean, people would say more extreme than most guys because we're anonymous, calling in, posting on forums, stuff like that.
And you're sort of like the public face of us.
But the way that you go is sort of what we can expect.
So we sort of look at you to sort of lead us and to be like, whoa, what the fuck are we going to do if Ikrush goes down?
Because he's sort of our guy.
So, I mean, I appreciate your courage in those regards.
I just had one, I just had one question for you.
It's very quick.
It's not trolling.
So it's pretty much, where do you find the motivation to like stay disciplined in achieving your goals?
That's it.
Thank you.
Okay.
I mean, the only goals I have is just to do what I like.
I like to write.
It's either in you and me.
Excuse me.
It's either in you or not.
If you write, you know, it's like a compulsion.
It's like you just need, it's like a sickness.
You just have to express yourself because you feel your ideas are so valuable.
You feel that people are going to get value.
You just have to share.
But the act of writing is tough.
I mean, there's a lot of famous writers have said how writing is so difficult.
It takes a part of their soul, blah, blah, blah.
I'm not going to go in that angle, but it is tough.
And it's either in you or not.
Right now, I can tell you, I'm not really trying.
I'm not trying to do anything.
I'm not trying to be somebody.
I'm not trying to change the fabric of my life.
I'm just trying.
I'm just riding this wave, man.
I'm riding it.
Just like how on Saturday, I get the call.
Just 24 hours ago, I get the call.
And within a couple hours, I'm booking everything.
I'm cleaning my apartment, getting ready to go.
Once you get that call, what is it in that movie, in that movie Heat, when Robert De Nero, he's like, you got to be ready when you get the call, when you feel the heat on the corner, 30 seconds.
And I got to do it.
I don't have an option.
I have to live that life.
All the plans I have in the future, it's gone.
I don't have any plans other than the work I want to do, the books I'm doing.
Other than that, I don't have any plans.
Future is completely empty.
As soon as I put my mind into the future, I bring it back.
The future is an illusion.
It doesn't exist.
It's a fantasy.
And when the future comes, when it comes, it's going to feel like how we feel right now.
It's going to feel in the moment.
So while, of course, you know, a smart man is going to play a couple of angles, a couple of what ifs, what if this actually happens?
What if that?
But you know what?
I find that doesn't actually help me.
When the moment comes, I deal with it.
When I get the call, I deal with it.
And you adapt to it and you be the best man that you can be.
Awesome.
I love it.
Thank you.
All right, buddy.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Oh, boy.
Oh, boy, guys.
I think the next few months are going to be very, very interesting, very, very interesting.
But like I told, I told the caller, you have to be ready for anything, man.
Ready for anything.
I'm ready for it.
You know, I don't, it's kind of like you hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.
It's like a stoic mindset.
I feel like all my readings on Stoicism, on Zen, Buddhism, you know, is actually finally, I can feel it.
It is in me now.
The years of, you know, because it's easy to read a book and you like the book, but it doesn't become a part of you.
You have to train your mind.
You have to focus on these ideas, practice with them, feel them, put them inside you, shape them.
And then I think once you do that for a long enough time and this big event comes, then you act in the right way.
Okay, we got a super chat.
Okay, Indrid Cole said, as a new father of twin boys, I am getting concerned about them being in the public school system where feminization and SJW dogma are peddled.
Considering private school or moving to Asia, any ideas?
I wouldn't put my kids in a public school.
I'm seeing now news that they're teaching kids that gender is a construct.
Unless you're ready and how, you know, it's okay to feel like you're a girl when you're a boy.
The whole public school idea is this.
There's only one thing it does.
That's it.
It doesn't educate.
It changes boys into girls.
It makes boys gay.
The goal of public schools is to make boys gay, to reduce their masculinity so they're never a threat to power.
That's the goal of public schools.
For girls, they don't care.
They just, it's like a baby, babysitting time.
Public schools is meant to destroy boys.
That's all you need to know.
You got twin boys.
I'll just tell you what I would do.
I would try to try to homeschool or find a private school.
Public schools are going to get them.
Thank God that, hey, I went through public schools.
A lot of men who read me went through public schools, but we're still men.
Thank God.
Thank God.
And I think it's because we must have something in our character, some kind of natural resistance to this pause, to this liberal sickness, something.
You know, I don't know.
I don't know why.
I don't know why you are here.
You are here with me.
I don't know why I came out the way I did.
I don't know why Arnold is the most masculine pug, but that's just kind of how it is, man.
But public schools, the only goal, if you just think of that goal, that public schools is meant to make boys gay, everything that public schools do, it makes sense.
Everything.
It's like that's what the goal is.
To just take out all the individuality, all the strength, all the power, all the masculinity from these young boys.
Take it all out and make them these wimpy, gay, weak, you know, transgendered freaks.
Because we know that we see a lot more men changing their sex to women than the other way around.
And I think one reason is because it's easier to be a woman in the Me Too culture.
But the second is because they're doing it in schools.
They're doing it.
They're going to put your boys through this.
They're going to make them gay.
That is what they're going to do.
Okay.
Okay.
Isn't Arnold gay?
No, he's not.
That was just a bad day.
He just had a bad day.
He thought he was gay for like a minute, but he's not.
No son of mine is gay.
All right.
No son of mine is gay.
And don't you say that again.
All right.
All right.
Let's go to our next caller.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hey, Rush, what's going on?
What is going on?
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from Southern California.
Okay.
And I'm calling because I've had a high notch on a lot of luck in my past.
And I wanted to know how you dealt with your breakup and what you ran afterwards.
What kind of game you ran afterwards to recuperate from that?
Because I have been with, I don't know, around 150 chicks, and then I got involved.
And, you know, I actually like coffee ones and shit, which was really really weird for me.
It's really out of character.
But I finally met someone who was probably as manipulative and shit as I was, and I really bad my match.
You know, so that made me backslide pretty hard.
I want to know if you had any advice on that.
How long were you going out with her?
It was about two years.
And how long ago since it ended?
It's about four months, but I am poking the bear because I'm continuing to talk to this person.
You know what I mean?
And so, okay, so since you're continuing to talk to her, technically it didn't end yet.
So that means the wound is still wide open, wide open.
You are peeling any kind of scab that's growing on it every single time that you talk to her.
So technically, no time has passed since the breakup.
Now, have you been with any other girl in the four months?
I have been.
I've probably been with like 15 or 20, but I am going to guess that it did not help.
I am going to guess that being with those girls did not help at all.
Did not help.
No.
Okay.
I'm going to tell you how to get over her.
First, you got to cut off all contact.
Then for the three to six months after you in your room in private, if you need to cry it out, do whatever you got to do, you're going to feel sad.
You're going to feel sad.
You have postponed the sadness that you need to feel.
You need to feel that.
It's going to take about three to six months.
If you've been going out with her for two years, a conservative estimate is you're going to need two years to get over her.
The amount of time that you were with her, you're going to need.
So that's it.
Now, you can bang other girls.
It ain't going to help though.
But if you like a girl and you want to bang her, do it.
But there's nothing you can do.
Time is the only one.
And you're going to go through various stages as you get over her.
The first three to six months is going to be tough.
You're going to feel lonely, despair.
You feel, you're going to feel like you're never going to meet another girl again or another girl on her level.
It's going to be a general, you know, hopelessness.
You're going to feel like you should contact her.
You want to see her again.
You want to be with her.
You want to hear her talk.
You want to smell her.
But if you want to get over her, which I think you do, the only way to do it, cut off contact, wait the same amount of time as you were in a relationship with her.
And that's it.
Yeah, it's stupid on my part because I am the one that ended it.
But there's something I feel like you shared too that I knew I needed to do, you know, for my own reasons.
Right.
And I've noticed like when I go to the club or I'm digging, I don't drink.
So I've almost entirely been relying on girls approaching me, and that does happen.
But my game is taking a massive toll.
Is there anything that you did?
Don't worry about it.
It's like if you're at the gym and you injure yourself and you can't work out for a couple months and then you're getting small and you feel it.
And then when you're feeling good again, you go back and the muscle memory kicks in and it only takes a short amount of time for you to have the muscle that you had.
So really, it's just, you know, your game is going to be in the dumps.
I mean, it is going to be like, damn, do I even know how to do this anymore?
You're going to go approach a girl and the words aren't even going to come out right, even though you did it a million times before.
But that's okay.
I mean, game is something that it's like riding a bicycle.
You know, just because you're wobbly now and I expect you to be, it'll, it'll come back.
You know, in fact, me, my, my game for almost a year was kind of off.
It wasn't, I mean, I was still getting girls here and there, but it was kind of off.
But then something happened after like a year.
I really got over that ex.
You know, I mean, she was, it was done, done.
I wasn't even, you know, trying to, I was no longer going through the emotional states that it was done.
And then my game, it started, I started to notice things again.
The right words started to come out again.
But it's really the only way to solve this is time.
That is it.
I mean, it's good to have a group of friends around.
So at least in the moment, you can get out of the dumps.
But other than that, banging other girls, working on your game, that's not going to help.
Yeah, it is hard.
I mean, I've always been a smooth guy, but I want to say thank you.
I bought my books for your friends.
I'll buy a few more.
There's some other friends.
So it's a solid thing.
And I longtime for a member, and I appreciate you, dude.
Sure, man.
Okay.
Thank you for calling.
Thanks.
Bye-bye.
Appreciate it.
Yeah, I didn't used to get that sort of question where, you know, how to get over an ex.
You know, it was always with me, it was how to bang.
But, you know, I think when guys who are good at banging at some point, they're going to meet a girl that they like.
There's going to be one that sticks out, one that they want to be with.
And, you know, unfortunately, we're living in a modern climate where for a relationship to last, it's very hard.
It is very difficult.
It seems like there's everything in the culture is trying to separate you, trying to prevent these bonds of love from actually happening, to prevent you from having a family.
And the marriage laws don't help, doesn't encourage men either.
Who wants to sign that kind of contract where if it goes out of her, if it doesn't work, she gets everything.
There's no punishment.
But for you, there's everything.
I mean, you know, I can understand how some men, they go through a divorce that's bad and they consider killing themselves.
You know, I think it's easy to be an armchair commentator and say, oh, those men are weak.
But man, they had the expectation that this woman loves him, that this woman's going to be there and kids are involved.
You know, when you've been with a woman for 10 years or more, part of you grows on her, you know.
And it's once it's cut off, it's a sad thing.
Let's see how our chat's doing.
Ruch is our Obergruppenführer.
That sounds German.
I don't know German.
I don't know German, guys.
This is in Hamlet Ruch.
I don't know what is in Hamlet.
Okay, let's go to the next caller.
Hello, Collier.
You're now live.
Yep.
Yeah, do you hear a lot of noise, Peter?
I hear a bit of noise, but I can still hear you.
Where are you calling from?
Okay, I'm calling from southern U.S. here.
It has been a freaking cash period now in the past.
Okay.
Okay, yeah.
Hello?
Yeah.
Okay.
So I missed your intro earlier today, but I just heard you mention how you're going back to DC.
And I don't know whether I caught the right point or something where you mentioned like different continents like Latin America, Asia or something.
Maybe you're saying you might consider those places.
I don't know.
No, what I was saying is how my expat Disneyland lifestyle has come to an end in the sense that you can be enjoying your life in South America, Asia, and Eastern Europe.
But if you get that call and you have to go back, all that fantasy, the pleasure, it just ends.
So that's what I was saying.
Okay.
In that case, because this does relate to my first question, in that case, are you allowed to say where you are right now?
No, because I'm going to keep this apartment.
So I'm going to continue to pay the rent.
So I'm not going to.
So it's not sure what the situation is.
I'll know in about a month, but I may be, you know, maybe in a month I'll come back and me and Arnold will resume the live streams, but it's possible I can not come back.
Oh, okay.
All right.
So my first question is concerning Eastern Europe here.
So the thing is, I don't know whether you're in like an Eastern European country where the English level is high, like one of the more westernized Eastern European countries, or if you're in one of the more post-Soviet countries where Russian is the second language.
But I just had a, it seems to me, like, I'm a long time follower of your forms.
I'm kind of a young guy who likes to travel a lot or has a strong interest in it.
And the patterns that I always seem to notice looking at so many different countries in Eastern Europe is that the places where like the more English there is, the more positive the exotic sector becomes, yet the girls become less and less conservative.
And with like the post-Soviet countries, it seems like those ones are more meant to stay traditional.
However, it's like we all know that it's harder to bang them.
And that the exotic factor can maybe hurt in some ways, whether you like look different or you're from somewhere else or something.
I don't know.
But are those kind of the right thoughts?
I find that the exotic factor depends almost entirely on your look, almost entirely.
So the language ability, yeah, I mean, I have, it could, it could make a difference.
But if there's too much English, what exotic factor is there?
If she already can speak fluent English, has practiced with a billion other dudes and so on.
So I don't think that helps.
It's really the look.
The look, the look, if you, okay, I know a lot of guys who come through Eastern Europe and they look like a local dude.
It is indistinguishable between them and the local dude.
These guys don't get anything.
They do not get anything.
I see them like, bro, why are you here?
Go to South America.
You're like a blonde-haired dude.
It just does, they don't get anything.
I mean, it's so weird.
You would think, well, okay, maybe he has, just because he's blonde, maybe he has game and he can still get something.
They still don't get anything.
It's that bad.
And I'm not trying to tell you if you're blonde not to come to Eastern Europe.
Maybe you can.
But let's just say the guys who I know who are in Eastern Europe long term are darker guys.
Let me pause you for a second, though.
But do you mean anywhere in Eastern Europe, like even Ukraine or the very or Belarus or any of those?
Painting a broad type of brush because I don't want to share where I am.
But generally speaking, generally speaking, if you look like the local dudes, you ain't going to get shit.
If a girl cannot tell before you start talking that you're no different than a local dude, you're going to grind it out just like you would grind it out in your own home country.
Gotcha.
So even you would say that even applies to the most conservative places you've been to where they almost like, I mean, listen, I don't want, I don't analyze it like this deeply.
If you're interested in a country, just go there.
You know, just go there and you can find out.
Because listen, there's so much variance between individual guys.
Yeah, I can give you a guideline, but once you, an individual, is has your boots on the ground, you can have an experience that's totally different.
So I don't, I mean, you know, Eastern Europe is not that big.
I mean, you can, you can, in like a month, you can hit a lot of places, take trains.
It's not that expensive.
So there's no, so you need to focus less on trying to come up with these general guidelines and just finding your own place that's good for you.
Okay.
Okay.
Basically, based on the place that seems, yeah, that seems good and stands out as kind of ignoring those other side factors.
Okay.
And I guess my last question also has to do with traveling.
I remember that on the last stream, you said that you've never been too interested in Southeast and Asia, but in the last stream, you made it clear that like the El Fever is gone or something.
And so just to ask you here, do you really feel like on a scale of like one to ten, maybe, do you, what do you know about Southeast Asia in the first place?
I mean, do you, I'm not an Asian guy myself, but do you really know whether like the white god factor exists in certain places in Southeast Asia?
For Southeast Asia, most of what I know is based on the men that I meet and what they and what they tell me.
I don't, you know, I don't think like I don't like Asian girls and Asian girls don't like me.
I don't think it's I don't think it's a match.
So my yellow, yellow fever lasted like a day.
And that's about it.
Okay.
Gotcha.
All right, man.
So you just don't know much about the place in the first place.
Not no, no, no.
So basically what you know from reading the from reading the forum is based is what I know too.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
All right, man.
All right.
Catch you later.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
Yeah.
Bye.
William says, Rushvi is in Moscow.
Moscow is expensive, man.
It is an expensive place.
It's so big.
It's a huge place.
It's ugly, man.
Yeah, maybe the stuff in the dead center, the touristic stuff, is that's an ugly city.
That is, if I lived there, I'd be a sad person.
All right, let's get our next caller.
We got one more hour.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hello.
Yep.
Hello, how are you doing?
So, my name is, I can say my name is Lewis.
I'm from Bronx, New York.
Okay.
I'm 28 years old.
Look, I wasn't given or I wasn't granted good genetics.
I'm about 5'2, 5'3.
I'm not a bad-looking person.
I'm actually an attractive-looking guy, but I have had very few sexual, good sexual experiences with women.
And I'm not a big guy, as in I'm not, I don't have necessarily the tools to really please.
And I'm being very honest about this.
And I wrote in the chat, would you talk about true forced loneliness?
Because I feel like I've become more of a MGTOW kind.
And I, I, not to go MGTOW monk, but more monk, because it just seems that the MGTOW community doesn't want to talk about true force loneliness.
Everybody wants to talk about the average guy.
And I'm not an average guy.
And I've been studying philosophy, all this kind of stuff to try to figure out the answers.
And I've become suicidal over this, you know?
One thing, okay.
Well, one thing I can say is that 5'3, it is on the extreme lower end.
Game was not made to help men on the extreme end.
So even if you approach a thousand girls, I don't expect that to give you a return on investment.
I think it could actually maybe make you feel more hopeless.
Now, what did men in the past say who were short, as short as you?
I mean, they didn't have to approach.
They weren't judged immediately by their appearance, you know, because marriages back then were based on the family, on the values, on the job that you have.
But unfortunately, we don't live in that time anymore.
So you're judged, not just you, but all men are immediately judged.
Women give a snap judgment of you based on a high entitlement filter.
Even when these girls don't got shit going on, they still want the eights and nines.
And I think if you use a dating app like Tinder, that's even more obvious.
As for you, I don't think game is the answer as much as if you have the will to experiment with another country where a man of your appearance is not hit as hard.
Because in the West, you're hit very hard, very, very hard.
So I would try Asia.
I mean, I would try it because the people there are really small.
I have heard stories of men five, five, five, six going there and getting, and getting some action.
So that's what I would try.
That's what my advice to you is.
Can I just mention something?
Yeah.
It truly just crushes me inside that there are beautiful women who seem to be attracted to me, but yet they look at my pants.
And I'm not trolling.
I'm not bullshitting here.
I'm being very honest here.
I can't please them.
And I hate myself for it.
And I understand, you know, and I'm listening to your advice.
This is the first time I've ever gone about doing something like this because my father walked out on me.
I haven't had a father figure.
But it just, I've literally thought about committing suicide over this situation.
And I keep asking myself, despite studying stoicism, despite studying all these philosophies, why couldn't I have just been like everybody else, every other guy?
You know what I mean?
You were born in the wrong time.
You know, I don't think you're the only one.
I mean, I'm sure you've heard other calls too.
Maybe they don't have your specific problem, but they have some other problems too.
I wouldn't give up, though.
I think the world is a big place.
And I think you can find a place where a woman will see you as a valuable man enough to get into a relationship with.
You are in Bronx, New York.
That's the most shallow place in the world.
The world, you know, London, Toronto, D.C. These are shallow places.
So I'm not surprised that you are upset.
I would try to get out of there, just see a different part of the world and see what happens.
But I'm not going to advise you to run game, game, game, game.
I'm not going to advise you to do that.
I don't think that is going to help.
The only other angle you can pursue is like a fame angle.
You know, try to get some local status, maybe open a bar or something, open, you know, something where you're known.
I mean, that's a long-term thing that takes years and years.
But really, the best options for you is to go somewhere else where the people, where the women are not going to judge you as hard or try a fame angle where you can combat that shorter, shorter height.
Now, for other guys that are like, I get a lot of comments from guys that are 5'6 and actually higher that are complaining.
I don't think it's hitting them as hard.
I think, yeah, being 5'6 is not an ideal type of height, but there's a lot of girls that are 5'2 and 5'3.
But if you're 5'3, then you got to go for the, you know, it gets a little bit tougher.
So I would focus on either developing a local fame angle or going somewhere else.
Just one last piece of advice, please.
Okay.
Okay, sir, I think that a lot of the times that I'm essentially women are just false qualifying me.
There's a lot of women, beautiful women who talk to me and try to get close to me, but it's because I don't pay attention to them because I don't think I can do anything with them.
And there was a Brazilian girl I was recently, I really, really cared about her.
I even went to a college that she was going to to make things work with her despite getting on the D's list and all that G table, all that bullshit.
And she basically sent me a message while we were contacting after I contacted her and she said, okay, if I don't return a message to you, it's because my guest is going to be the last guest who's going to be coming before New Year's Day and he's going to be on his way.
So if I don't answer, you know why.
And she also asked me if I was still going to be going to the same school if I wasn't willing.
And she was talking to me about why I should consider marriage and all this other bullshit.
Should I just pretend that every woman here, besides, I could go to an Asian country, but should I just pretend that every woman is false disqualifying me and literally pay it no mind?
And do you think this Brazilian girl was playing around with me?
It sounds like she probably was, but the problem I see for you is that your confidence is so shocked that even if a girl likes you and wants to sleep with you, you will interpret it as she does not, not even try.
So you need to build your confidence one step at a time.
Because like I said, it's very possible that some girls will not care.
Maybe you've met some girls that do want to mess with you, but you're just, you are in such a place that you can't even recognize that.
So you need to get your mind out of there.
And I wonder if getting it, going somewhere else to make maybe a new place, new people, you know, to get rid of all the baggage that you have and where you live.
Because I mean, if, because, I mean, you, you're not able to separate your problem versus a woman's genuine attraction.
You kind of combine them.
It's yours, you're seeing the world through the lens of your problem.
So you're going to have to get rid of that.
And the only reason, the only way to get rid of that is start to have positive experiences with women.
Can you have positive experiences with women where you are?
I don't know.
That's only you.
You can answer that.
But for a lot of men, a fresh start, going somewhere new where you're just an anonymous guy, that could begin helping.
I just want to take this moment to thank you very, very much.
I've been asking everyone to just give me advice and just help me, you know.
But thank you.
Sure.
Thanks for hearing me out, buddy.
Anytime.
Anytime.
Okay.
Good luck.
Yeah, I think guys that are a little bit shorter, 5-6, 5-7, that's a little bit tough.
But, you know, there's a lot of Asian girls that are short or a lot of shorter girls.
But 5-3, 5-2, that is starting to get to the extreme end.
Okay.
And some guys in chat are saying he should sleep with a prostitute.
How is that going to actually help him?
Yeah, for the moment, it's going to feel a little bit good, but it's not going to change anything.
Because for him, the problem is not sex.
The him is trying to get into a relationship, trying to be with someone.
I think for him, just sleeping with prostitutes may take him away from that.
Okay.
All right.
Let's go to we have an international number here.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
We were king and shit, niggas.
I put a gun, man.
Hello.
Hello.
Caller.
I don't hear you, man.
That's a shame.
He was on hold for quite a while.
Okay, we have another international number.
Maybe the telephone wires got mixed.
Maybe that's what did it.
Hello, Carla.
You're now live.
Hello, Rush.
Hello.
Yes.
Where are you calling from?
First, I want to.
I'm calling from Sweden.
Sweden?
Oh, wow.
Yeah, it's pretty far away, you know.
But first, I just want to begin with.
I remember seeing you on that, like a YouTube, like TV show from in Moscow, I think, or Russia.
And you were talking about your book.
And I was, I just found that to be really funny.
Anyways, like, yeah, moving on.
Right now, I'm 19 years old, so I'm pretty young still.
And like I've been properly red-pilled, you could say, both because of experiences on my own and from other people's experiences.
And I've come to know that like what you say is, I mean, what you say is mostly the truth.
Like most of the women, I don't want to offend the women, but they're kind of stupid, you know.
And they seek, all they seek is like they want attention and they want like very basic things and so on.
And I just wanted to know, like, I just wanted to know, like, sometimes I find myself wasting also like I waste my money and I waste my like energy on like on the women and like the girls.
And I'm not sure if it's productive or what I mean, like after a while it gets meaningless.
Do you understand?
One thing I can tell you is that to be pretty good with women to develop the skill, to meet them, go on dates with them and sleep with them, takes a lot of time that you will waste totally, money that you will waste totally, energy, waste, and the opportunity cost is also high.
I actually have a guy here that I know, and we like to trade stories, and he hates it when a girl wastes his time.
Like, if he spends half an hour on a woman, he feels entitled to maybe doing some more.
And I tell him, bro, you're in the wrong game.
You're never going to be a player.
If you are upset when a woman wastes your time, find something else.
The game is not for you.
It is not for you.
He's not worried about wasting money, but for him, his time is valuable.
Well, if your time is valuable, do not get into the game.
It's going to be, I mean, I would say 90 to 95% of my time spent on women is a waste.
At least it's a waste because for every one bang I have to get and a bang is in, let's say a bang, the first bag I get with a girl is 10 minutes, you know, maybe even three minutes.
Let's say it's okay, let's say it is 10.
And then how much time did I have to spend on her and all the previous girls from the last bang?
I don't even want to count that because if I did count it, I go crazy.
If I did count it, I go sick.
I'd be like, oh my God, I am spending all this time just for a 10 minute just to feel that simulation of love, that intimacy, that deep intimacy penetrating another.
But listen, if you're counting hours and you're counting the money and you're counting your, you know, energy, you're, you're gonna, you're gonna hate it.
You're not gonna put the time.
It is a waste.
This is why I like, I do my work first.
I do all the work I want for a day where if I do more work after that, I'm just gonna be tired.
I stop and then the rest, I'll waste it on anything.
I'll waste it on women.
I'll waste it on walking around on YouTube.
I waste it.
So you have to have a certain amount of hours every day where it's okay to waste it because you did something else.
You already did something productive.
But don't do not count women in the pro productive space.
They are not.
It's a waste.
But I will say this.
I enjoy the feeling of meeting a new woman and finding a way in there.
It's fun for me.
Even though most of the time it's not going to go anywhere, it's fun.
I like it.
I like it.
I like the thrill.
You have to like it a bit.
You have to enjoy it.
It's like when you hunt an animal, only 1% is when you actually shoot.
99% of the time is you sitting, you waiting, watching, aiming.
The wind is getting cold.
You need to eat.
So 99% of when you hunt is not actually shooting.
It's not at that action.
It's not the orgasm.
When you shoot, that's like the orgasm, right?
So you have to, so you have to see game from this full 360 degree angle.
It's not just sex.
It's everything.
It's the mental exercise that you have to go to get the courage.
It's finding the girl.
It's identifying them.
It's talking to them.
It's dealing with cock blockers.
It's everything.
And if you hate that, if you hate, you're not going to put the amount of time you need to get good at it.
Yeah, I understand exactly what you're saying.
Like the thrill of it is a part of the game, you know, it's a part of the fun.
And then when you finally get to like smash, and it's like, it's this amazing feeling.
I mean, to be honest, I would describe it as like a biological drug.
I don't know how you would, but it's kind of like that.
You know, I do meet some men who just are incompatible with it.
They just, they just, it's not, it's, I don't want to say to be good at game, it's, it is in you, but to like the game is.
If you don't like the game, you're never going to like it.
Like me, when I started it, I first started approaching in 2001.
I was nervous.
I was maybe scared something could go wrong, but I liked it.
I liked it and I still do.
You know, and of course, I don't like the bad parts of it.
But if you put a good-looking girl in front of me right now, I will enjoy it, even if I don't sleep with her.
You have to like it.
Yeah, I mean, that's, I think most of us do like it, but it's like sometimes like the guy previously who was a little bit short.
I mean, I can understand his struggle and like why he wouldn't like it because there's no point to playing a game if you can't win, you know?
And then it comes to the point where we are giving so much power to women because simply of our like desire, you know, because we're so horny.
And then you have to evaluate if it really is worth all your like energy.
I'm telling you right now, it's not worth it.
If you're only looking at it from the standpoint of what do I get out of it, what do I receive?
It's not worth it.
Almost nothing in life is.
If you think about it, to work a nine to five, just to have a comfortable apartment, just to do this, almost nothing is.
So really, I believe just be things that you enjoy doing.
So whether you get the reward, whether you get the carrot or not, it doesn't really matter.
So me, I don't see, okay, I went out X amount of times and I got this amount of action.
I mean, of course, I do a little bit of it to see which places I should go to, but I can't say, hey, guys, if you spend thousands of hours in game over the next 10 years, there's going to be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Probably not.
Probably not.
So do it for you.
Do it because you like it and do it because you enjoy intimacy with women that you meet.
And some of these bangs are going to turn into long-term things.
Yeah, I understand what you're saying there.
But that's like, it's true.
It's not worth it, but like it's life, you know, it's kind of like you do your hobbies and what you think is fun.
But I have another question.
And it's actually, because I'm pretty young, you know, there's this movement that says like you shouldn't watch like porn, for example.
It's bad for you.
What is your opinion on that?
Like, do you support that view?
I think for many guys, watching porn will just desensitize them to the real thing, will get their expectations misaligned.
I think if you're going to watch porn, don't watch it with another man in there.
So try to watch only women alone with like a dildo or something.
But once you start training your mind to watch a woman get fucked by another guy, that's like, I don't know.
I wonder if the cuck problem with more men wanting to watch their woman get banged by dudes has the root in porn.
Because imagine how many hours the average 25-year-old man has watched women get banged by other men.
It's probably hundreds of hours.
So, don't you think that in a subtle way, you are being programmed to watch a woman that you're attracted to get banged by another guy?
Don't you think that for some men, it seeps deep into their psyche that they're thinking, wow, I mean, I'm jerking off all the time to this hot girl getting banged.
What really separates that from the real thing?
What really separates that from your wife getting banged by, I don't know, some other dude?
I don't know.
I think for a lot of men, you can paint a rise in being a cuckoo to online porn.
Yeah, that's and the thing is, like, after you're like your orgasm, it's like you don't feel good, even you're like even worse.
What are you talking about?
I feel great, I feel great, I feel empty, I feel calm.
I mean, I feel like I wasted like energy, or like, like, you know, when you're hungry, you have so much energy that's that's basically like feels it's lost, but uh, yeah, everybody's different on that, I guess, right?
So, anyways, okay, but thank you very much.
I hope things in Sweden are going well.
I hear you're having some new people come in to move in.
You know, you got some new neighbors.
You know, be nice to your Muslim neighbors because if not, then the liberals are going to get you.
Yeah, of course.
It was really nice talking to you, right?
Okay, man.
Great thing, uh-huh.
Bye-bye.
All right, let me go pee one more time and then I'll power it through.
We got another half an hour.
Okay.
Okie-dokie.
Let's take our next caller.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hey, Roose.
How's it going?
How are you doing?
And where are you calling from?
Calling from St. Louis in the U.S.
Okay.
And what is going on there?
Yeah.
Pretty gray day here today.
But just calling in to ask you a couple questions.
My first one, I guess, is, you know, you like to, you know, focus on, you know, teaching men, you know, to be the best version of themselves they can be.
And so my question for that is, you know, why not focus on the long-term relationships with women that create, you know, lasting intimacy rather than, you know, going out and kind of contributing to the problem almost.
Well, who said that I don't?
Who said that I don't have my eyes open for the potential long-term girl?
Who said that I am not active in looking for that type of girl?
Yeah.
No, I know you do.
But my question is, you know, why don't you preach that a little bit more to what percentage?
Okay, what, let me ask you, what percentage of women in your city would you say is attractive enough and has good values enough that is worth a long-term relationship that leads to a family?
Yeah, it's, yeah, when you're talking about local, yeah, local places in the U.S., give me a number.
Is it one percent, 0.1%?
It's low, isn't it?
So, I mean, and you have to understand a lot of men call me from the same type of towns that you are.
Sometimes they call me from a worser place.
So really, you have, I would estimate, less than 5% of women have the values and are good looking.
Okay.
Less than 5%.
A lot of those women are already taken.
So really, you're looking at 1% or less.
I believe it's less than 1%.
So to have a strategy to find your wife when there's not many of them out there, what is that going to happen?
What is going to happen?
Many men are going to fail.
In fact, almost all of them will fail.
If you teach them this, if you say, don't worry about the sluts, just go for the 0.5% that are good and you're going to marry them.
They are going to fail.
Doing that, doing what you're telling me is going to fail for almost all men.
Because what really gets a man into a relationship is not game as much as it is having a healthy local community, local bonds, knowing your neighbor, going to a church.
It's more of having a healthy country, a healthy city, a healthy neighborhood.
That's what I think how a good, healthy marriage comes from, not from game.
I mean, of course, you're going to need a little bit of game to make sure your wife stays attracted to you, but you can't game at what you can't game into a marriage.
I don't think you can.
This is why I'm not going that route.
What I've noticed for many men is getting the long-term girl is accidental.
It just so it, because you put yourself in so many interactions with women, you're starting, you've met 200, 300, four, maybe even 400 girls.
And guess what?
Because even when less than 1% of women are worth the long term, now you're starting to meet them.
So unfortunately, the only way I can see it from my viewpoint, from me being a teacher of game, of trying to make men as attractive as they possibly can, is to approach game from the sex viewpoint.
And if you find a good girl, keep your eyes open.
If you find her, then hold on to her.
Okay.
And, you know, what do you feel about the effect that might have on, you know, an individual's psyche in the long term, you know, just going around trying to have relationships with, you know, women that are, you know, generally pretty meaningless?
I do advise men that they don't need to sleep with a lot of girls to know how game is to be an attractive man for the potential long-term girl that they meet.
I think, you know, for some, I find that it doesn't hurt men nearly as much as it hurts a woman.
If a man has slept with 25 women, I don't see any kind of damage.
You only start to see damage when a guy has been with 100, 200, 300.
I've met guys.
You start to see more of that thousand vag stare.
But 20, less than 50, you don't, I don't see it.
In fact, I see what I see is like a gleam in his eyes.
He's actually happy.
He feels like a man.
So, I mean, for some men who have, okay, maybe some men have like an anti-social personality.
Maybe they have some kind of issue going on.
Then any interaction with a random girl is going to, you know, hurt them.
Maybe it's going to hurt you.
I don't know you.
But I find that a man, I can't think of something more compatible for a masculine man than to bang girls.
Now, I'm not saying men should do it, but in terms of me, I've been with, you know, more than more than the average.
I feel fine.
The fact that, you know, in fact, I was actually scared of that.
I was scared that I wouldn't be able to love a girl, but it was quite the opposite.
It was because I banged all those low-grade women that when I found a girl that was, that was above them, I dived into it and it worked for as long as it did.
Okay.
But yeah, so that's a lot of good advice.
But, you know, what about long-term?
Because, you know, obviously you've pursued relationships with girls.
They haven't worked out.
You know, I've done the same.
I'm 27.
I just got a long-term relationship with an Italian girl actually.
I met.
She was studying at Mizzou.
And so, you know, you've seen the value in creating intimacy with one woman and trying to create memories that last a lifetime as opposed to a bunch of memories with random people that are kind of all over the place.
So, you know, if you see the value in that, why don't you continue to pursue it?
Because I feel like a man like you.
It's not up to me.
I feel like it's not up to me whether I meet her or not.
It's not, it's not a matter.
See, meeting the right girl is not a matter of work.
You can't work your way into it.
You can't apply a lot of effort into it.
For sex, yes, you can work your way into sex.
But to find a quality girl, I find that work doesn't get you there.
You need something else.
And most of the men I've met who have met her, it didn't happen because of work.
I find there's a luck component, a very big one.
To meet, to get laid, there's not as much.
You need some luck.
But to meet the right girl, I find the luck component is very, very high.
This is why it's so hard to teach it.
I mean, many men will try to teach it, but you can't teach it.
It's just, it's a lot.
There are many factors that you cannot control when it comes to meeting the right girl.
All that men can really do is have your eyes open and have your game ready for when she is there.
Because if you're going to meet her, she's going to want a good-looking, attractive, confident guy.
So at least game, you'll be mentally and physically ready if you do meet her.
Okay.
And then I just want to give a quick shout out to Jordan Peterson.
He's just a philosopher.
Sure.
You know, like a clip.
A lot of people maybe.
Okay.
Yeah.
I thought maybe that could help other guys who are calling in.
And then for you, then for you, Roosh, just real quick, I just wanted to throw out a new site called DTube.
It's like D.T.
I have heard of it.
Yeah.
In case YouTube, they shut me down.
Right.
Yeah.
Maybe that could help you out because it's decentralized and that's regulated.
But yeah, I won't take any more of your time.
So thanks for your time.
Thank you, Color.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Now, in the nicest way possible, that guy doesn't approve of me.
He doesn't approve of game.
I could feel it, but I don't think I convinced him totally.
But I can tell that I addressed the main concerns that he actually has.
And I can see it.
You know, I wish it was that easy, guys.
Listen, if there was a surplus of good girls, it'd be so easy.
But like I told him, it's less than 1%.
It's so random when you meet them.
And unless you have a big social circle, big community bonds, you're not going to meet them that often, maybe once every six months.
I mean, we are so atomized now.
We're rootless.
It's tough.
It's tough.
This is why, you know, the best you can do is improve your game.
Make yourself as physically good looking as you can.
Go to the gym.
Keep your game fresh.
Keep it going so that if you, because sometimes the universe sends you a girl when you least expect it.
You were like you're wearing your ugly shirt like mine.
And then you go outside and this beautiful girl is looking at you like, oh shit.
I wish I didn't wear this goddamn ugly shirt, but oh well, I gotta, I gotta try anyway.
All right, we got two super chats.
One, Smash House says, got out of a relationship of 10 years almost two years ago.
Girls changed, bro.
Easy to kiss girls, but getting bang is hard.
Feel like a total noob.
Yeah, 10 years ago.
Okay, almost two.
Okay, so he's been out of the game for two years.
No, 10, 10 years.
Yeah, man.
10 years, everything's changed.
Everything has changed.
It's getting, I don't know who girls are banging anymore at times because what I believe is that women are having less sex because they're getting the positive feelings of sexual attraction and attention from their phone.
So I think for a girl, 100 likes is equivalent to being hit on in the flesh by a good-looking guy.
So if she uploads a photo and she's capable of getting 100 likes, that means she's not going to entertain a good-looking guy who comes up to her.
So unfortunately, I mean, even sometimes I feel it.
Like if I do a live stream and I'm talking to guys, do I really need to meet with a guy face to face?
I mean, I do it, but my need to communicate with men is satisfied.
So when a girl is getting likes from 100 dudes, her need for sexual attention is at least partially satisfied.
So is it getting harder?
Yeah, it's getting harder.
And I'm sure when I go back in DC, I'll know how hard it is.
But shit, you know, I honestly want to take a crack at it in the sense of, because I'm still, you know, I'm one of the few guys that are still in game and teaching.
I want to tell you guys what has changed and what could potentially work well.
And FilterGuy 2525, he asked, good luck in DC.
I would expect my low levels of protest since the alt-right has been pretty much defanged.
Yeah, I'm kind of, I am kind of curious if I do like a happy hour at a bar.
If are they really going to show up?
But I'll just say this.
You're coming in.
If you're going to come to one of my meetups in Washington, be prepared.
Don't bring anything.
Don't bring any weapons.
Don't bring any pepper spray because if you use that, you're going to jail.
So I have to actually now spell out.
Don't bring anything like a knife, gun.
Oh, shit.
Can you believe if, how about if there's like a false flag, I do a happy hour, and then a guy in a ruche hat like kills people.
Holy shit.
I'd be dead.
I'd be in trouble.
So I have to actually have this kind of code of conduct.
Don't bring anything.
Don't bring, just bring you, just bring you and keep your eyes open.
But yeah, this may be harder than I actually think.
So, but I'm going to do a test case.
If the violence comes, it comes, man.
All right.
Let's take another caller.
Hello, caller.
You are now live.
Oh, hey, Roche, can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
And where are you?
Oh, it's me, Matt, Matt 40.
Hey, Matt, how's it going?
All right.
Well, that's good.
Calling you.
I wanted to ask you about this pertaining to your move back to DC.
Okay.
How are you preparing for culture shock or just reintegrating back into American life?
Because like you said at the beginning of the show, you've been living in Europe for seven years, more or less continuously.
So that one breaks here and there.
And I'm just, and I'm just, you know, curious because, I mean, I haven't, I've been out of the U.S. only for about a year.
And previous to that, I'd spent three months in the Philippines.
And just three months out of the country back in 2014, I came back to the U.S. and I was almost entirely disoriented.
Well, some of that was just because of the, you know, the change.
Like I went from a country that was sunny and tropical and had nice weather.
And I landed in Chicago in October and it was cold and gray and shitty and depressing.
And it kind of put me out of commission for a week in many respects in terms of just culture shock and depression.
It's like, how are you, you know, you know, just sort of preparing yourself mentally to go back to live in the U.S. indefinitely after being gone from it so long and having been acclimated to a foreign culture?
It's going to be very easy.
And it's going to be very easy because I don't have any other option.
I don't have a real choice in the sense of I have to be there for the person who needs me.
So I'm not going.
There's no way I can have fun in Eastern Europe when someone at home, they need me.
So it's going to be easy.
It's very easy to deal with something when you have no other option.
Your back is against the wall.
You accept it.
So the acceptance is going to come very, very fast, you know, as opposed to when I go voluntarily and I'm there for a short amount of time and then I'm counting the days to when I go back because I have this hope that, okay, tomorrow I'm going to go back.
Next week, I'm going to go back.
But now this, you know, hope is gone.
I may never come back.
I may be stuck there forever.
And it's not my fault.
It's not my option.
So, but I have to be there.
So it's going to be easy, I think.
When you're going for just a trip, just a visit, the family, you're like, oh, I got to go back.
It's such a drag.
But when you're going back because you're going to help someone who needs you, it's very easy.
I guess that makes sense.
That's a stoic way of looking at it.
I'm trying to figure out how I would react in that position.
I mean, I mean, I mean, I come from a different place than you, Rouge.
And frankly, I would rather pull my own fingernails out than be forced to live in my hometown for the rest of my life.
I take whatever life gives me whatever life gives me, man.
I mean, life is going to throw curveball after curveball after curveball.
It's going to do some crazy shit.
And as you get older, too.
But I'm ready for it.
I'm ready for anything.
I am mentally ready for some crazy stuff.
I'm ready for good things to happen to me and bad things.
And this is, I think, it could be bad, but I'm going to make the most of it.
I'm going to go back.
I'm going to build relationships with not only my family, but with the local guys.
I know if I can get a meetup going where we can exercise our freedom of association, that would be good.
But you got to look at the bright side too.
I mean, we have to be honest, a lot of guys have been in Eastern Europe for years and years, and they're as rootless as they ever are.
You know, I've been here for seven years, and what do I have to show for it besides a lot of fun?
You know, and I've had some experiences that were actually helpful, but I don't have who do I leave here?
I leave a couple of friends that I really trust.
But other than that, man, I mean, sometimes I wonder why would I be upset?
I mean, yeah, the girl's situation is going to get harder.
The money situation could get harder.
But I don't think I'm really leaving much.
Anyway, guys, I see where it's coming from.
And that pretty much answers my question.
That's really all I have to say.
So thanks for taking my call, man.
Thank you, Matt.
Bye-bye.
Yeah, I mean, it's, I mean, I don't, I don't believe that I should be here.
I don't believe I should be there.
It's like I let life push me around because life is always going to be stronger than you, man.
Life is a wave.
Have you ever been into the ocean?
You try to stand at the wave that's coming.
It's going to knock you down.
So, you know, while I don't want to be completely passive, at least I'll ride the wave.
I can point in the direction I want to swim.
So the wave is taking me, but I have a little bit of option, a little bit of choice on which way I can kind of steer.
And if you've ever surfed, you know that you can definitely steer, but you're still limited by the wave.
You have to ride the wave.
If you fight the wave, you will drown.
It's as simple as that.
So the wave is here.
I feel it.
The wave is taking me, not just with me going back, but in life in general, in terms of the girls, in terms of the censorship online, in terms of where the culture is going, is the wave is here, guys.
It's here.
And the best you can do is polish your surfboard, get that wax on it.
Make sure you know how to ride it and ride that thing.
That's it.
All right.
Smash House sent another super chat.
He says, talking to my ex off and on for 10 years, we have a dog together.
Good friends, roommate vibe.
I think it's going to take me 10 years to overcome.
Yeah, because earlier I said for a guy who's been in a relationship for two years, it's going to take him two years to get over it.
I think the max is like three years.
I think there is like a max, you know.
So for you, if you've been with a girl for 10 years, I would, it's probably going to take you two or three years until you are mentally clean.
After six months, you'll probably be able to move on a bit, but I would say two or three years.
I'm not sure because I don't know many guys who've been in a relationship for such a long time.
Okay.
And on that note, unfortunately, guys, I have to go.
Sorry to everyone who is holding, but it is Pizza Day.
I want to go because I'm leaving this town soon.
I'm leaving very soon.
So I'm meeting up with a couple of guys I know just to say goodbye to them because I don't know when I'm going to see them again.
So I'm going and I'm glad I got to do this.
I hope that I can do another one at the soonest, maybe three weeks from now.
I don't know.
I don't know.
You know, I don't know how bad things are going to be or how good they are, but I definitely do want to hold a meetup.
So look for that.
Look for Washington, D.C. something.
I don't know if, I mean, I don't want to start a war over there, but I just want to hold a freaking happy hour of friends of mine, people who like me.
Is that going to be hard?
Is that going to be hard?
I mean, do I have to approach it like a counter-terrorist operation?
I don't want to.
I just want to hold a happy hour.
But hey, man, if that's what it's going to be, I have a right to hold a happy hour.
I have a right to do it and I want to do it.
So if someone wants to stand in my way, then I wish them luck because, you know, when you're on your home turf, you feel a certain confidence.
I'm in a foreign country.
If I do a freaking happy hour here and it's in the news, I can't even understand it.
But when you're in your hometown, you do feel better.
You do feel like, okay, if they want to bring it, then hey, man, I live close by.
Okay.
So anyway, thank you everyone for coming.
I, you know, again, I hope we can do this again soon.
But if not, then not.
But just know that future work I do is going to be shaped by the fact that I'm going back to the USA.
I don't believe it.
But hey, that's what life is going to give me.
Then that's what life gives me.
So thank you again to all the super chats and to everyone.