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	All right, welcome to Ruch Live number 12.
	I'm not sure if this is working.
	Google's giving me some problems.
	So let's see if it pops up.
	Okay, I think it's working.
	So let me just verify in the chat that people can hear me.
	If you can't hear me, just tell me.
	Okay, it works.
	So this is the first live stream I've done in a couple months because my sister died.
	My sister, she died six weeks ago of breast cancer.
	She's seven years younger than me.
	You know, this obviously is one of the hardest things, if not the hardest thing that I've ever had to go through.
	And I can feel my life changing, and I'm sure it's going to change in a lot of ways that one day I will share.
	But in the meantime, I still want to do things that make me happy.
	And I do remember the fun I had taking calls.
	So we'll do that.
	Other than that, not much is going on.
	I am working pretty hard.
	I'm trying to get the two books that I've been writing done.
	One is my final game book.
	And the other one is a book for women on how to find love.
	So both of those books should be done at about the same time.
	So I'm looking forward.
	I'm going to release the game book first.
	That's probably going to be around September.
	So that's all I've been doing.
	All right.
	Let's see how the chat is doing.
	All right.
	It looks like chat is working pretty good.
	Okay.
	So I guess we'll take the first caller.
	And actually, this is the first time I've done a live stream where I didn't have to turn on a light.
	So actually, this is the natural sunlight.
	And Arnold is there.
	Okay.
	Let's see if we can get these calls to work.
	Oh, yeah.
	And if you do want to call in, the numbers are below.
	And the queue is very short right now.
	So if you want to get in, now is a good time.
	All right.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	I think.
	Hold on.
	Why don't I hear anything?
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Hello, caller.
	Hey, how's it going, Roosh?
	Hey, how are you?
	Doing well.
	Yeah, thanks for taking calls and doing a live stream.
	Looking forward to it from some time.
	I just got started.
	I just had a question about game and money and business and kind of balancing the two.
	Okay.
	So I guess I'm in my early 20s, took the red pill a couple years ago.
	I've been working on my game.
	I was before that.
	I was going straight towards the corporate, the shiny corporate cog blue pill path.
	And I guess like doing game and looking at things in a red pill lens has just made me turn from that path and try and go towards more of self-sufficiency and doing my own thing.
	But I find that to do both, to do game and become better at that, it takes a significant amount of effort and energy.
	And I feel I've been neglecting The more like the business and money side of things during that time.
	How old are you?
	And I'm in my early 20s, so between 20 and 25 there.
	You know, this has come up with many guys that I've met.
	They don't, because it's, it is hard to focus full time on to game and make money too.
	The only thing is your investment in the game is going to highly correlate to how to how horny you are.
	If you're a young man, a horny dude who's thinking of sex a lot, then that's going to make the most sense to pursue game during that time.
	Because if you spend your 20s just focusing on making money, thinking that in your 30s, you're going to learn game and run game.
	But when your 30s come, your body, it slows down a bit.
	You're not as interested in it.
	Then that whole game boat, it may pass you by.
	So I would just trust what your body is telling you.
	If you really want to be with a woman right now, you can get with women as you are.
	You don't need the money for them.
	And you can still work on money on the side.
	So what I would do is just listen to what your body says.
	And if you're in your early 20s, I'm going to guess you probably strongly crave to be with a woman way more than me.
	Yeah, I would agree.
	Yeah.
	So I would, and it also depends.
	I mean, there's a couple angles that you can work in terms of game.
	You can be good at cold approaching, which you have to do if you don't have any kind of social circle.
	Or you can focus if you think you're going to be in the same place for a long time in your city.
	You can focus on building a social circle so you kind of have that passive income in terms of meeting girls.
	But those are the two angles.
	And yeah, cold approaching, if you're starting from absolute scratch, it does take a year or two until you start to get the hang of it and you feel comfortable and your rewards is not as paltry as if you just started.
	So, I mean, what I would do is since you're in your early 20s, I mean, there's not working on money and game is not mutually exclusive.
	So you can do both.
	But the money, I mean, it's always going to be there, but your youth is not.
	So if you really want to be with a woman right now, I would give that a little bit more weight, at least for the next five years, than the money.
	Got it.
	When you say be with a woman, like, would you, do you mean more of like a long-term thing or just more so?
	Either way.
	I mean, it's up to you.
	It's up to you if you want to be with a woman or be with multiple women.
	But it also depends on the quality of girls that are in your local area.
	You know, if you're just going out to clubs and meeting girls who is basically just looking for fun for the night, then yeah, you're probably not going to have a lot of long-term things going on.
	But that's really up to you.
	But either way, whether you want a short-term or long-term thing, it kind of takes a similar time investment, at least to get to get the girls or at least to have a sex life that is stable.
	Got it.
	I definitely understand what you're saying.
	Just to add a little more context, I'm from Toronto and I find it it's relatively um tougher.
	I have I have had success, but um, I guess like the whole point of me with the money thing was to try and like become location independent, uh, like many members of the community have or are trying to and kind of move to greener pastures.
	Um, so I guess that's why I just kind of for that, you don't need a you don't need a whole lot if you want to live in another country.
	I mean, you only need 1,500 to 2,000 a month to get started, so you don't it doesn't it's not going to take a long time.
	So it's really up to you if yeah, if the kind of girl you want is not in the city you are in and you've given up, and then in that case, yeah, focusing on money for a year or two would make sense.
	But if but I wouldn't advise on leaving unless you've extinguished all options where you are, because it's really tough to leave.
	It's tough because you know, it just takes, I know some guys have been hunting for years and years, traveling from one foreign country to the next in this like search for El Dorado, like the dream girl, you know, so it's not just a matter of you hop on a plane.
	So I would first extinguish all options you have in your local area, unless there's something within you that seeks adventure and you want to try something else, which is fine too.
	But I would, I would, I mean, I was in Washington, D.C. Before I started to actually travel, I ran game there for about six years, you know, so I definitely put my dues in there.
	I really figured out what I can get out of it.
	I figured out what kind of happiness level I can attain there.
	So when I left, you know, I didn't leave with unreasonable expectations.
	But if you leave too early, if you've only tried game for one year and then you leave, you may actually get worse abroad.
	Right.
	Got it.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I appreciate the advice.
	Thank you so much.
	And yeah, I look forward to the rest of your call.
	Thanks, man.
	Great thing.
	Yeah, I mean, I want to be sure to tell guys that it's not a magic bullet just to get up and leave.
	You know, if you didn't work out your game in your local area as much as you can, really trying a lot of avenues, day game, night game, you know, different venues.
	If you didn't try that and then you leave, you may be shocked.
	You may be shocked that without a foundation of solid game, without a internalized program to meet a woman and to take her to bed and you kick Arnold out of there, without that, it's not going to be that much easier, especially now in these foreign countries that smartphone has come everywhere.
	Even in poor countries, you still got girls on their smartphone obsessed with Instagram.
	So what I find is that from the time that I left the USA in 2007, the gap between girls in the USA and abroad is getting smaller.
	There's still some kind of, I'm not saying do not go, but it's not as wow as it used to be.
	You know, when I first came to Europe, to Eastern Europe in 2011, there was a wowness to it.
	Now I was recently in the U.S. for a couple months and I came back.
	There was a wow factor for like three days.
	For three days, I was like, wow, the girls here are nice and thin.
	But then you start to see them.
	You start to observe them.
	And they're not that different than what you can get back at in the USA.
	All right.
	And our chat is trash talking about Arnold.
	I'm going to ban all you.
	If you talk bad about Arnold, you're banned.
	That is a lifetime ban, too.
	All right, let's go to our next caller.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Yeah, hi.
	Hello.
	I'm from Michigan.
	Yeah, I think I know who this is.
	Well, I've been doing some cold approaches.
	And can you tell everyone who you are?
	Since I'm the guy from Michigan.
	Yeah, but the guy called the guy who did what?
	Let's put the past behind us.
	No, we need context.
	So, anyway, since you don't want to say it, you are the guy who slept with a woman or got a blowjob from a woman in front of her cuck husband.
	Right.
	And you're still working on your social skills.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And Craig List is now gone to the U.S.
	That is true.
	Thanks to the new anti-sex trafficking law in the United States, Craigslist has removed their personal ads.
	But by removing a mechanism on the internet for women to seek customers, that's just going to empower pimps and bring sex trafficking back.
	So whatever the government does, whatever they intend to do, rest assured, the opposite outcome will always happen.
	What do you mean by that?
	I mean that sex trafficking is going to go up now because an independent whore can just go on Back Page or Craigslist and put up an ad to directly interact with a John.
	So now she has to go to a PIMP, a pimp, to get jobs.
	Now, pimps historically have been engaging in what?
	Sex trafficking.
	So the government is basically trying to solve a problem.
	They just worsen the existing problem.
	I see.
	But someone in the chat is asking if it's good in terms of the sexual market.
	You know, in a country of 320 million people, I don't think it's going to be a drop in the bucket.
	You know, I don't think the percentage of women whoring themselves out in the USA is that high because they have Instagram and Facebook.
	So they can actually whore themselves out, get the benefits of doing it, become a Cam girl, a Twitch girl without actually having to sleep with anybody.
	Yeah, it's definitely a bad thing.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	So what's going on?
	Yeah.
	Pretty much when I was interacting with all these people, there's like some sort of anxiety that comes out.
	Okay.
	I mean, I think it might be social anxiety because I explained a lot about my past.
	Like I, like, one person even knows I'm shaking constantly.
	It goes with both men and women.
	So when you're talking to anybody, you tend to with my family, I'm they'll have this problem.
	Even some friends, it's just strangers, like even right now, for some reason.
	How about if you stand beside someone you don't know without having to talk to them?
	Well, that doesn't like come up.
	It's just like casually chatting.
	All of a sudden, it just starts, it just starts shaking.
	I mean, this one girl noticed it, even what happens if you are talking, shaking, and then you keep on going as like you just keep, you blow through that.
	Does the shaking eventually subside or stop?
	Well, it minimalizes, but I just feel like someone's noticing it.
	You know what I mean?
	And I think that your fear of them noticing it just makes it worse.
	So, what you're going to have to do is adopt a belief where you don't care if they see you nervous and just hold that conversation for as long as you can and desensitize yourself in that way.
	One thing that could help you actually is joining a public speaking club.
	Because, in a safe environment where people don't, you know, judge you harshly in a supportive environment like Toastmasters, which is they have branches everywhere.
	So, a Toastmasters club, they give you a couple of speeches like five minutes in length, and then you go there.
	And then, afterwards, you have a mentor give you feedback.
	So, maybe you don't need the feedback as much, but just to desensitize yourself.
	Because if you can get yourself to do a little public speech in front of 10 or 20 people, one-on-one conversations should be a lot easier.
	I see you.
	I was also wondering how race plays into this, too.
	In your situation, yeah, because I think you were Asian, Indian, Indian, yeah, you don't sound Indian.
	My dad's from there, my mom's here.
	All right, well, being Indian is how you'll be perceived is more based on whether a girl is sexually attracted to you.
	But just because a girl is not sexually attracted to you should not cause you to be anxious and shaking, so that's something different.
	That's that's a lack of confidence with sex, and that can be worked on.
	I never really had a problem with race, really.
	I mean, just hearing you guys and even this incel group, they all talk about something.
	I'm like, is there a problem?
	The what group, the incel group, yeah, like based on LMS or that YouTube channel.
	Uh-huh.
	So, are you do you follow that stuff?
	Not really.
	I mean, it's pretty interesting to watch.
	Okay, because the last thing I need right now is a man who identifies with this these incel groups doing something crazy.
	So, don't worry, I'm not like Elliot Rogers.
	Okay, okay, good.
	Because, yeah, I don't advocate for an incel violent episode.
	And I have to say that the world is crazy.
	Actually, I made a tweet that got in the news.
	And I don't know if you know what tweet I'm talking about.
	Let me see if I can find it.
	All right, I think I found it.
	So, on April 24th, so do you know that guy, that Armenian guy in Toronto, who got in a van and plowed over like 10 people?
	Yeah.
	So, there was like a fake posting on Facebook that I'm pretty sure some 4chan people did.
	And they made it seem like, oh, I'm an incel and Elliot Roger is great.
	And it's pretty fake.
	But anyway, I decided to go with it.
	I was in a bad mood.
	I wanted to anger people.
	So I sent out this.
	I sent out Alex Minasian, who's the name of the guy, wouldn't have killed people with a van if the media had not inoculated him and other lonely men against effective game teachers like myself.
	Sleeping with only two or three Toronto Tinder sluts would have been enough to stop his urge to kill.
	That made it in the news, like a lot of articles, a lot of articles.
	Like they're trying to crown me king of the incels.
	I'm like, no, no, no, no.
	I'm trying to get, they are incel because you stop them from knowing me, because you stop them from learning game, because you stop them from the only reasonable avenue they have for solving this very painful problem of living in a culture that puts sex in your face every minute of the day,
	but denies the bottom 20, 30, 40% of men even the taste, the taste of a woman.
	You know, that's cruel.
	That is cruel.
	And then you had this failed executive CEO.
	Let me pull this up.
	I think her name is Ellen Powell.
	Ellen Powell.
	I think she, okay, yeah, Ellen Powell incel tweet.
	All right, let's see.
	So you have this.
	Okay, here it is.
	So you have this woman who drove Reddit into the ground, totally incompetent.
	And she last week sent a tweet that said, CEOs of big tech companies, you almost certainly have incels as employees.
	What are you going to do about it?
	Why don't you just kill them?
	See, women hate unattractive men.
	Even unattractive women hate them.
	And I feel kind of bad for these guys because I used to be one too.
	Yeah.
	And I like to think my work helped you lift yourself up and you're doing it.
	And I'm proud of you for doing it because you're actually trying.
	You are not giving up.
	So I like to think my work is lifting guys who, if they didn't do anything, wouldn't get anything.
	But people are, but people are still attacking me and for, you know, just to give good game advice.
	And it's really sad that what we have in the in the culture is that men are not allowed to change their situation, to improve themselves, to manually make themselves into a Chad.
	They're not allowed.
	But women need government help, academic help, media help to lift themselves up to empower them.
	See, this is why empowerment is such a zero-sum thing.
	Because if you empower someone, you have to disempower someone else to allow for that initial empowerment to happen.
	So this is what we have for decades of empowerment of the female.
	We have men who are so sexually frustrated that, you know, in some cases, like Elliot Roger, they just kill people.
	Yeah.
	I can also say what some of the guys who I worked with in the at school, like there was this one girl in biology.
	I mean, she had like an okay face, I guess, but it was close enough to me modeling.
	And then there was this new male-looking guy who was sitting next to her because me and her were sitting next to each other also.
	So one time he had that guy on the other side of her, she had me.
	I don't think I could give me three looks.
	I mean, I didn't really talk to her much, really, because she was basically SJW, even though she was pretty looking.
	Yeah, man, if a girl has green, pink, blue hair, you got to stay away, man.
	Because no, but she doesn't, she looks like a model, basically, a normal girl.
	It's just like when she starts speaking, yeah.
	But I know what's the funny thing is the guy, like he kept talking to her all the time, but she doesn't really pay too much attention to him.
	But when I start speaking to her, she's like, all of a sudden, really attentive.
	Excuse me.
	And the guy starts giving me really nasty stairs.
	Okay, well, good.
	Now, were you larger than him?
	Were you bigger?
	We're actually the same height.
	Do you lift?
	Yeah.
	Okay, good.
	I'm like, really.
	I have like a naturally skinny body, though.
	That's okay.
	All right, man.
	Well, I'm glad that things are moving forward.
	And yeah, just keep it up.
	And we all will be grateful if you call us in the future to let us know how things are going.
	Okay, if I can save one incel, then I save the world.
	Okay, one last question.
	Are you going to go on the face an LMS stream?
	Maybe Red Pillow's guys.
	The what stream?
	Yeah, that YouTube channel and LMS.
	Oh, what the hell is that?
	He's that one British guy.
	British guy.
	I don't know who that is.
	That YouTube channel.
	The YouTube channel.
	I don't know who.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I don't, you know, I don't want to go on the YouTube equivalent of Jerry Springer.
	And I did that with the Andy Worski stream.
	And he got smoked.
	He got smoked by the guy that he actually hired.
	The French dude.
	The French dude basically cucked him.
	Yeah.
	The JF guy cucked Andy on his own channel, then did his own channel that gets more views.
	Wow.
	Anyway, so I'm not going on that shit because what drives views is drama.
	Is that high school stuff?
	And I mean, right now, I'm not in the mood.
	I'm not in the mood to debate with stupid girls that just shriek and yell at me because they're so sexually attracted to me.
	All right, then.
	Okay, let me get to some other calls.
	Thank you for calling.
	Bye.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	So, what else is going on today?
	There was in speaking of England, there is the day of freedom.
	And the day of freedom is basically also known as the day of talking, where a bunch of e-celebs get together to talk about things that we've heard a billion times before.
	And who benefits from the day of talking?
	Do you benefit?
	I don't think you do.
	I think the people doing it, they're out of ideas.
	Did you see the promo for that shit?
	People putting duct tape on their mouth.
	And then while a fan is blowing in the background, dramatically peeling it off, how do they get everyone to agree with that?
	If I was invited to some kind of speech, which I was not, that's why it was a low-tee thing.
	If I was invited and they're like, hey, man, we got to do this promo where you got to put tape on your face.
	And when you tear that tape off, all your beard hairs are going to be pulled.
	I'm like, hell no.
	I ain't doing that.
	I don't know.
	Maybe I'm just.
	So one thing I have to say to you guys is that internally, emotionally, there's a little bit of chaos due to what happened to the family issue.
	And I know what is going on, but I'm a little, I'm scared that all that chaos is going to come out.
	So I have to check myself before I attack others.
	Because when you attack other people, that's more a reflection on how you're feeling.
	And obviously, I'm grieving.
	I feel like shit.
	But anyway, I'm just all the only point I want to make is that talking, more talking will not solve what they want to solve.
	Politics cannot be solved by talking.
	Politics can either be solved by having a billionaire capitalist capital or war.
	That's it.
	We're past the stage where we talk in front of cameras.
	So we feel popular and famous.
	Ruch, let the hate flow.
	I know, I know.
	I'm trying not to.
	I'm trying to control myself.
	All right, let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller?
	Caller.
	Yes, caller.
	Hello.
	Hello.
	Do you say anything?
	Good evening.
	Uh-huh.
	Good evening.
	I've been watching you for the last couple of weeks.
	Is this like one of those things, like a soundboard, where you push it and then some...
	We are going to make America great again.
	Oh, it's a Trump soundboard.
	The American dream is dead.
	Well, one thing I can say, Trump, is that what is with this freaking caravan that went to the border and you're letting them in, you're processing them?
	I wish I could do that.
	Just roll up in a border without any paperwork.
	And then to say, hey, I don't have any paperwork.
	Can you let me in?
	And they'll be like, yeah.
	You know, that doesn't happen to me.
	If I go to a border, say, hey, guys, I don't have my passport.
	They'll be like, border closed.
	But if you're coming to the U.S. border, I mean, do they say no to anybody?
	It's like you have to rape 100 people and kill people.
	Then maybe they will kick you out.
	Shit, that's why I'm going to go back in the USA because I can do what I want.
	And the only people that can attack me is the media.
	All right, we got a donation.
	I am going to film a wall around Mexico.
	Okay, great.
	I'm going to hang up on you now.
	So we got a donation for a weird amount.
	$14.88.
	That's kind of random.
	He says, watch the greatest story never told.
	Learn the source of modern anti-family brainwashing used against women who are naturally more mentally malleable.
	Shit soundboard, by the way.
	I wonder who he's talking about in terms of the source, because I don't know.
	Someone asked me, did I play Richard LaRuina's game?
	You should play Chad in his next game.
	Okay, I'll play that.
	All right, let's get to the next caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hey, Rush, what's up, man?
	How's it going?
	So I have a question.
	I'm 20 years old, and I've only had one girlfriend.
	So me and this girlfriend, we didn't have much sex.
	so basically i'm quite inexperienced if you can say so um my problem is some girls that i'm gaming and dating they expect they expect me to have experience you know as 20 years old But I'm scared that I can't live up to the expectations and perform, you know?
	I'll build something.
	I think it's called sexual anxiety, you know?
	Okay.
	And I've been trying to fix it.
	So there's two suggestions.
	What do you suggest?
	Should I sleep with as many girls as I can?
	Or should I find one girl and try to build my experience with her?
	What do you think?
	Okay, let's start with how many times, roughly, have you had sex with your first girlfriend?
	Yeah, so how many instances?
	It's quite embarrassing, but yeah, so like three, four times.
	Okay.
	One thing that's good about a man is that we are made, built, created to have sex automatically without having to learn it, without having to prepare.
	It's not like, say, writing a book, which you need to prepare and put effort until the final product, the book, is finished.
	Sex is something is, you know, something that just like how a tree can provide shade, it doesn't have to learn it.
	So you are already built to do this, whether you are experienced or not.
	Now, you are scared that a woman expects you to be experienced.
	Where do you think, why do you think women have this expectation?
	Right.
	So sex is very important nowadays.
	And most relationships even start with sex first.
	And the thing is, I was actually dating a girl a few weeks ago.
	And when we finally had sex, I was like, you know, prematurely ejaculating, you know?
	Okay.
	So because of that, after that incident, it kind of drove me off because she had it all going for me.
	And suddenly she stopped texting back.
	She stopped answering calls, you know, like she lost interest.
	And I thought, okay, so maybe this is why, you know, like I didn't perform in bed.
	Like I disappointed her.
	She was expecting more.
	So this is what's annoying me.
	Like I have no idea how I can fix this.
	I'm just okay, but you still didn't answer.
	I mean, where is just because a girl doesn't call you back, it looks like you are creating a reason in your head for why, but you don't know why.
	You are creating beliefs in your mind that even women themselves do not know for absolute certainty.
	Sex, how can sex be important when a woman will do it with you without knowing you deeply?
	How is sex important when it's everywhere and when people on the internet are doing it, meeting Tinder when they're drinking alcohol?
	So I disagree with you.
	Sex is one of the least important things in terms of the time of connection you have to put in to get it.
	I think making a friend is actually harder.
	That said, you said that girls expect a lot of experience from a man.
	Where did you get that from?
	How old are the girls that you are getting with?
	I haven't met any girl.
	who has stated an important thing for her is to have a man who is a pro at sex.
	And in fact, I mean, I haven't, only thing a girl may want, may want instead of normal sex is for you to go down on her.
	That's basically, but some girls, they like that.
	I don't do that, but other guys do it.
	So what you have, the problem, your anxiety comes from beliefs that are wrong.
	All anxiety comes from beliefs that are wrong.
	So what you have to understand is that you believe things that are not true.
	And the untrue things that you believe, especially if you're a younger, how old are you?
	20, 21?
	Yeah, 20.
	And how old is the average girl that you go after, that you are talking to?
	Like 19.
	Okay.
	A 19-year-old girl doesn't know good sex if it knocked her upside the head, man.
	The expectations a 19-year-old girl has for sex is basically zero.
	They don't know it.
	And in fact, most of these girls are doing it when they're under the influence anyway.
	They don't even know what they're doing.
	They have zero expectations.
	Zero.
	So I'm going to help you out now.
	I'm going to tell you the way to flip this is expect from them.
	What do you expect?
	I can already know you don't expect a girl to do anything.
	You just expect a girl to say yes.
	But you have to now expect from the woman.
	So get all that anxious thoughts you have, which is based on false beliefs.
	And now go into the next girl you meet with expectation with her performing for you.
	Expect it and focus on that.
	Don't think, oh, what if I can't do good if I can't?
	No, that's some weak stuff, man.
	That's not a manly thing to do.
	Instead, expect her.
	I expect her to treat me in this way.
	I expect her in bed to do this and this and this and to satisfy me.
	So that's what you have to do.
	You have to flip it.
	You have to channel all that anxiety from expectation of you to expectation of her.
	And that's, I mean, anyway, usually young guys don't expect anything.
	I mean, for them to get with a girl, it's like God smiled down on them.
	But in your case, I would channel that expectation on your side onto her side.
	Yeah, it makes sense.
	It makes sense.
	Maybe it's, I think it's a lot of it is just in my head, you know, because I keep comparing myself to other people like my friends.
	And they've had so many partners.
	And, you know, like obviously when a girl has had more partners than you, and then it's your turn and you can't perform, you feel like shit.
	You know what I mean?
	But I think you're right.
	But see, listen, you are creating a reality for you that is basically you're comparing yourself to other guys.
	You are creating expectations of yourself.
	You're believing in things that women don't really hold true.
	You're not expecting anything of a woman.
	So you're doing multiple things, multiple things that are just making it really hard on you for nothing.
	Okay, so you bring a girl.
	So I bring home a girl.
	She's been with a billion dudes.
	And I get her into bed.
	And then I fuck her, but she thinks that my sex is bad.
	So what?
	Who cares, man?
	Who cares?
	She's not the president.
	Who gives a fuck?
	So you bang her once and she's like, oh, that guy sucks.
	Then fuck off.
	Who cares?
	Don't put your, you're valuing them too much.
	Oh, you're also putting pussy on the pedestal, which I can understand because you're a young guy, but you're doing multiple things.
	But basically, you have to get, I mean, ultimately, you have to get into the mindset of who cares?
	These are just girls, man.
	Right.
	So your advice is just go with it, have sex with multiple girls and don't give a fuck about the outcome, right?
	For the next girl that you meet, have expectations of her.
	When you get these insecure, anxious thoughts, instead, kill them in your mind and say, wait a second, I want her to do this.
	I want her to do that.
	I expect her.
	Why isn't she treating me right?
	Why isn't she treating me in the way?
	Why didn't she buy me that drink?
	So put the expectation onto her.
	That's like, that's the most immediate thing you can do that's going to help you.
	All right, man.
	That makes sense.
	Really?
	Thanks a lot, Rush.
	All right, buddy.
	Bye-bye.
	Thanks, man.
	I mean, if you think about it, even a porn star, a male, he is, he has a failure rate in the sense of he can't, his cock cannot perform on demand, maybe.
	You know, I'm sure you've seen the porn where the guy is like they're trying to get him, you know, hard, but he does.
	Anyway, I don't watch that stuff anymore.
	That stuff is gross.
	All right.
	Even talking about it makes me feel weird.
	Why did this color shade change?
	I look orange now.
	I'm not that orange.
	I don't get faked hands.
	Something happened.
	Is that why am I orange?
	Anyway.
	All right.
	Let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Yes.
	Hello.
	Yes, I can hear you.
	And where are you calling from?
	South America.
	From where?
	South America.
	South America.
	Okay, that narrows it down.
	Okay.
	Just a couple thousand million people.
	Hey, Rosh.
	I read the article that you made about signs that a girl isn't worth your time.
	Because, well, it's very subtle.
	It's not things that you would normally think of as wrong.
	So I was wondering if you could come up with like signs that a guy isn't worth your time in a similar way.
	Because I know that nowadays it's hard for guys because you have to pretend that they're jerks in order to get laid back.
	Right.
	Is there a way for you to see through that?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	The way to tell if a guy.
	Well, so wait, you want to know what?
	You want to know if a guy is sexually attracted to you?
	You want to know if a guy is going to stick around after sex?
	No, no, no.
	It's easy to know that.
	Guys are not very subtle nowadays.
	I mean, because you said, okay, if a girl comes into your room and she changes your music without permission, that's something that I would not consider.
	But if you do think about it, it's very rude and it's not something that you normally think.
	You know, she's a horrible person, but it's um, it's that those kind of things that I'm looking for.
	So, before you have sex with them, like you have to know if they're worth your time or the effort, okay.
	Actually, the way to find out if a man is worth your time is if you don't sleep with him, if you don't have sex with him for a while and there is still some kind of connection and he sticks around, that means that he likes you more than just a bit of fun.
	But you're going about it the wrong way.
	You can't find out if a girl, if a man is serious about you after you sleep with him, because a man's going to do anything.
	Yeah, because a man is going to say and do anything to get you into bed.
	But if he waits, if you make him wait beyond the standard, what is the standard is three dates, but most girls sleep with a guy on the first or the second date.
	If you wait longer, and you see what is the guy going to do if you make him wait, you're going past four dates, five dates, six.
	What does he do?
	Does he have a temper tantrum?
	Does he get angry?
	Then he's a player.
	Because I know, because listen, if a girl makes me wait beyond the second date, oh, I have things that I say.
	There's, I know how to make her feel like she has to buy now because the product is almost out of stock.
	And she can't make me wait, or I'm going to leave her.
	I'm going to withdraw all that positive attention I'm giving her.
	But that's because I just want to get her into bed.
	If she was the girl of my dreams, I'm going to wait.
	I'll probably wait a long time, assuming she hasn't been with a ton of dudes and hasn't had some one-night stands under her belt and is just making me wait because she's some kind of fake born-again virgin.
	But if she's the real deal, if she's a good quality girl, I'm going to wait without throwing any tampered, temper tantrum or running game on her.
	It's just hard because you don't want them to become bored with you.
	So you don't like you don't know, like, should I kiss them on the first date?
	Or I don't know.
	I don't like it.
	This aggressivity or like aggressiveness?
	Is it aggressivity or aggressive?
	That doesn't matter.
	And so it's just, you know, it's just, I struggle with the, I don't want you to get bored because I do like you, but I do want to know if you're committed, if you're not saying whatever you have to say to get what you want.
	Let me ask you something.
	Is there any boredom in love?
	Is love a boring thing?
	No, I mean, that's the thing because I realize that when you love someone, that attraction and that's a fleeting feeling.
	Like eventually, especially if you're married, it's not going to be, you know, like the people I know who have been like really long-term relationships.
	I ask them, well, yeah, sometimes I get bored, and sometimes I'm not excited to see him or her.
	But that's okay because our values are like what the things that we believe are compatible.
	It doesn't matter if we know all the time it's real.
	Okay.
	Are you okay?
	So hold on, hold on, hold on.
	First of all, first of all, how old are you?
	I'm 20.
	20.
	Yes.
	For a 20-year-old, you still have, you seem to have made up your mind on a lot of things.
	You seem to have already figured it all out.
	Why are you calling me?
	You figured it out.
	You don't, you're not going to do anything.
	I'm telling you, you figured it out.
	You just want me to already agree with you.
	You know, I'm saying something and you just kind of ignore it.
	You ignore it because you have your mind for a 20-year-old made up.
	So you grew up fast.
	I wish I was as wise as you at 20, but I'm not.
	Or I was not.
	But you don't, I don't, I don't think you're going to take the feedback that I'm giving you.
	I don't feel that.
	I do.
	I do.
	I mean, what I'm asking really is: are there subtle signs that are subconscious signs that guys at a game can do?
	You tell me, like, oh, you know, he might tell me that, you know, that he likes being with you or that he thinks you're funny or whatever it is that he's telling you, just because.
	So, what do you want?
	Do you want a boyfriend, a husband?
	Do you want what?
	Husband?
	I want someone who's my boyfriend first and then my husband.
	So you want to have fun?
	No, no, no.
	That's how it goes, right?
	You become friends with a boyfriend and husband.
	Okay.
	And if you want a man who is going to see you as a wife, chances are you're going to have to find someone who likes you before you sleep with him.
	Because once you have sex with a man, 99% of men just want to sleep with you.
	And once you give up the goods, he's going to be gone.
	Or he's just going to call you when he's, you know, horny.
	But a man who wants a wife, so you got to find a man who wants a wife, not a girlfriend.
	A lot of 90% of men will say they want a girlfriend, but they don't want a wife.
	They don't want kids.
	You need a guy who wants a wife.
	A guy who wants a wife will wait for the right girl if he feels love.
	But if you just want to shop around, because I think you want to go out and you're meeting a lot of guys, I'm guessing, and you just want to see, okay, how can I better categorize them?
	How can I better figure out which ones I can go on dates for?
	You know, which one is safe to sleep with?
	That's the wrong idea.
	If you want a husband, you can't sleep around.
	But I don't.
	Okay, so do what I'm telling you.
	You have to find out how.
	How do I signal that out?
	How do I signal?
	I don't want you to see me as fine.
	I want you to see me as long term.
	Okay.
	The way I'm going to see you.
	Okay.
	The way a man is going to see you as long term, the way a man is going to see you as a wife is if you act long term, if you act like a wife.
	But that's hard to do when you're not somebody's wife.
	No, it's no, it is very easy to do because you are telling me, oh, a guy is going to get bored.
	So you want to be entertaining.
	You want to be what?
	Sexy and fun?
	No.
	No.
	Okay.
	So I'm telling you, meet a guy.
	Don't sleep with him until a long time.
	If he's still around after a couple of months where you torture him, torture him, and he doesn't throw a temper tantrum about you got to sleep with me.
	If he doesn't do that, he cares about you.
	Yo, ideally, if we spend time together, he wouldn't feel like it's torture.
	Well, listen, if a man who is in love, who wants to marry a woman, won't in mind a little bit of sexual torture.
	But if you just give up the goods on the third date, fifth date, Eve, and he's not going to see you as a wife.
	If a girl sleeps with me on the third date, am I going to see her as a wife?
	Hell no, because I know I'm not the only one, but if a girl doesn't sleep with me until the 10th date, like shit, this is like longer, you know, or if better, yeah, she's having been with any other guy.
	And okay, have you been, have you had sex?
	Um, no, no, that was that was a weak no.
	It's okay if you have people are listening, it seems like only 398.
	Okay, yeah, no, but I have done other things that I guess that's why it wasn't okay.
	You've done hopefully, okay.
	Anyway, yeah, whatever, serve days.
	Oh my god, this is a really uncomfortable conversation, but I understand.
	Anyway, um, okay, and that listen, I told you everything, I told you what you have to do.
	You just have to find a guy who can wait for you while you treat him like a wife, and then he comes to realize that he wants to make you his.
	That's it.
	No experimentation, no dating, dating doesn't work.
	Go on my blog.
	I have an article: dating doesn't work, it doesn't work.
	If dating had a failure rate, I mean, if flying airplanes had a failure rate of dating, we wouldn't have airplanes.
	All airplanes would just crash, like 99% failure rate.
	And people still do it.
	People are dumb.
	So, if you want to get married, you can't date.
	You have to find a guy that likes you, that wants you to be his wife, and that's that.
	Yeah, well, the outcome usually goes, uh, we go diversity, and then I text him or ask him how he's doing, and he takes forever to reply.
	Because you're dating because that is dating, yeah, that's not so.
	He is not the one.
	Move on.
	Hey, if I'm meeting, hey, I'm actually looking to get married.
	Is that what I should do?
	Just straight out say that.
	I don't.
	I just told you.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I just told you, dating doesn't work, and you're asking me how to date.
	Okay, you might be able to ask me.
	And let me ask you something.
	Hold on.
	What?
	Okay, on a scale of one to ten, how do you look?
	I mean, I know I'm attracted because guys talk to me.
	Well, actually, that's not a good because guys are so thirsty.
	I don't know.
	I think in the seventh.
	You're not from why, why do you know American slang words if you're from South America?
	Because I read your blog.
	It's really funny.
	When I was in 12th grade and then in 11th grade, there was this huge outrage because you wrote a book about how to ban women from my country.
	Colombia, Brazil, or Argentina, right?
	Close.
	So I kind of went into your blog instead of reading, and I thought it was funny because I went to school where we learned in English.
	So I spoke English from a very young age.
	That's why I can grasp all of this language quite easily.
	I don't know.
	I think I'm attractive because I'm not fat.
	What is your height and weight?
	Let me convert it to imperial units.
	That's okay.
	I can count.
	165 centimeters and 58 kilograms.
	Okay, so 58 kilograms.
	Let's do this.
	130 pounds.
	130 and 1.55 meters inches.
	Size.
	That is five feet one.
	Okay.
	So you have some foot one and five five.
	Okay.
	So would you say you are a little bit curvy?
	No.
	I have small groups, though.
	So I would like to disadvantage.
	So, okay.
	So on a scale.
	So on a scale of one to 10, you're like a seven?
	Yeah, I mean, just not being fat and having a long hair, that gives me like five minutes altogether, don't you think?
	Well, if you've been a fan of mine for so long, I'm surprised that you still haven't learned that this dating idea is not going to work out.
	So I'm just being honest now.
	I'm being honest that I know you're young and your hormones are going to, you know, and if I was in the same city as you and you are as attractive as you say, I would lie to you and say, oh, you have to sexually experiment.
	And by the way, I'm in your town.
	But since I'm not, I can be honest.
	Yeah.
	So I can be honest with you and say, no, you shouldn't sleep around.
	But from your tone, I don't think, I think you want to have some fun before you find a man.
	And I know what's going to happen.
	You're going to sleep around.
	I want to have fun with one person.
	You know what I mean?
	I know, but you can't have that fun unless he commits to you in a serious way or else it's going to die.
	Yeah, but you have to wait a long fucking time.
	I am willing to wait.
	I just, I just want to find someone who's willing to wait as well.
	Where do I find him?
	Well, if you tell me the exact city and street you're on, then I can tell you where is good.
	That would be dangerous.
	I know, I know.
	I'm joking.
	But okay.
	Listen, I am working on the book for women.
	It's going to have a lot of a lot of tips.
	But I'm just not convinced that you really want that guy.
	You want a guy for right now to get out all your sexual urges, you know, because I know the South American girls are more sexual than the white girls.
	Like the South American girls, they're more sexually charged.
	I don't know which country, I think you should say which country you're in.
	Brazil?
	No.
	Okay.
	So, okay.
	Because Colombia.
	Okay.
	So Brazilian girls are the most.
	They are obsessed.
	You know, they need a lot of sex.
	Colombian, not as much, but still higher than the average white country.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Well, at least that's your, at least one good thing about you is your English is very good.
	Yeah, thank you.
	Well, may I ask you a lot, where do I find a wife?
	And I know it's a very tough question, but where do I find a husband?
	I think that would be easier since there are, I guess, if there are more men willing to get married now than there are women willing to get married at a young age.
	Well, historically, women meet men through either their church, through their family, through social circles, through childhood friends.
	I don't even think about you.
	You know, why don't you go to church?
	Why don't you go with your mom and dad?
	We do go to church.
	So go with them.
	But, you know, haven't you been to church here?
	Well, probably haven't, but it's not, it's different.
	They just go and listen to the ceremony.
	You go home.
	It's not like you can socialize.
	I'm sure there's some volunteer work you can do.
	The church does some kind of activity.
	Sure, there's something.
	Okay, I'll end that.
	That's actually what I'm saying.
	But, you know, again, I think that you in a year are going to call me and you're going to be like, ah, Roche, I had a boyfriend, but he left me and now I don't know what to do.
	Because you're going to get with a guy who's not serious about you.
	That's what I fear.
	No, I won't do anything until you release that book.
	And after I've read that book and I know what to do, then I'll go into the church.
	From now on, I think if a girl follows me and she wants the best advice that I give her, she needs my approval before she does anything.
	So if you want to date a guy, you have to tell me about him.
	If I approve of him, then you can go on.
	Finally, it was the big brother I never had.
	They only have an annoying little brother.
	Yeah.
	Oh, by the way, everyone says that everyone else will be blind because I do see Arnold moving all the time.
	So, you know, you have to look closely.
	Right.
	But he does move.
	He's not inanimate.
	Okay.
	And, you know, I don't think you're really a seven out of ten.
	You're going to have to email me a photo to prove it.
	I think you're trolling.
	Because I think you're trolling me.
	You're probably like a beast.
	You're like 300 pounds and your hair is short and ugly.
	You're probably hideous.
	No, no, no, no, no.
	I'm not.
	I'm not that hideous.
	We can prove it.
	I think women shouldn't vote on, I think there are only two genders.
	And Trum is awesome.
	And I really do think that.
	No, you're a beast.
	You are a land whale.
	Unless I see photographic evidence in some way delivered to my email inbox, ruch at rushv.com.
	I'm being trolled.
	Everyone in the chat right now is saying I'm being trolled.
	And I think they are right.
	You are trolling me.
	You're a monster with blue hair.
	So I expect that photo.
	I'll email you.
	Okay, great.
	Yeah, I will.
	Okay, good.
	Okay.
	All right.
	You too.
	Bye-bye.
	Have a good one.
	Bye.
	Bye-bye.
	Yes.
	If a girl is watching right now, she's going to have to gain approval of any actions she does through me because I know what's best.
	I care.
	You saw the advice I gave her.
	Of course, I could have said some bad things, but no, I think I put her on the right, the right track.
	Okay.
	We got a super chat.
	I forgot what they were called.
	Trump's Avatar, donate $5.
	Thank you.
	Trump's avatar.
	Trump says she's probably a troll thought or something like that.
	Spoon clank.
	Maybe.
	All right.
	Let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Call her.
	Call her.
	Oh, he's doing a rap.
	That's some beasts dropping them bars.
	Yes.
	Are you going to just drop?
	Are you just going to drop bars, or are you going to talk?
	Yeah.
	What?
	I don't know why this history bus be lying to you because Julian sees it.
	Pretty good bars.
	We was kings, he was a real king.
	All right, let's go to this call.
	Hello, Collie.
	You're now live.
	Hello, can you hear me?
	Yes, I can.
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm coming, I'm calling from the United States.
	Okay.
	And what is going on?
	Um, so I just have three questions for you.
	I just wanted to, yeah, I'll be to the point.
	Um, so the first one is like a scientific question.
	So I've been on the Red Pill Reddit Forum for a long time.
	And my question is: if a man can go from being a beta to then becoming a Chad, so he starts out being rejected.
	We've seen this many times by women, but then he reaches the point where women desire his genetic material.
	I guess I just don't understand because genetic materials doesn't change, right?
	If you look into the Lamarckian school, I think that's what it's called.
	They think that your genes change as you gain more experience.
	So if you have a child at 20 versus 40, now this is a scientific theory that doesn't have a lot of backing to it.
	But I mean, I used the analogy earlier: like when a tree is small, it doesn't provide a lot of shade, and the wood is weak.
	But once it grows up, then that wood is really strong.
	You can cut it down and build a lodge.
	So it's the same genes, but it changed.
	So it grows.
	And you're no different.
	When you're young, you know, you were just a little sapling.
	Your tree was so weak, it's not even worth cutting down.
	You don't provide a lot of shade.
	Every human who wants shade ignores you.
	But then once you get nice and big, then everyone sits under you.
	They want your shade.
	And then the lumberjack comes like, oh, yeah, this is a good tree.
	And he chops you down.
	Just like when a woman marries you and divorces you, you're that tree that she chopped down.
	So, so, yes, your genes are the same, but you grow.
	You, you know, you grow like a plant.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I'll do some more reading on that.
	But so I can just look in the Lamarckian like genetic.
	I think that's what it's called.
	Hold on.
	Let me Google that for you.
	Because I know it starts with an L. Lamarckian.
	Is that what it was?
	Yeah.
	Lamarckism or Lamarckian inheritance is a hypothesis is the hypothesis that an organism can pass on characteristics that it has acquired during its lifetime to its offspring.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Great.
	Great.
	Thank you very much.
	Second question.
	So I have a very long-term goal in mind.
	And I do want to get married.
	I do want to have kids.
	That's the personal thing.
	I don't know.
	Everybody.
	I'm in my late 20s.
	Okay.
	And it's a very, very, I've thought very long about it.
	I've done a lot of reading.
	Like I said, your stuff and other people.
	And I don't just want to ruin game my whole life.
	That doesn't, if I'm being honest about myself, it's not going to fulfill me long term.
	But I'm also very aware of the risks of settling down.
	And so my question is, I'm, I'm, to be completely honest, I'm worried about the risks of learning game because I am, in certain ways, definitely a noob.
	Okay.
	And I do not want to get an SDI or knock a girl up.
	I personally don't believe in abortion.
	I know everybody has their own opinion, but I will not.
	I will not get an abortion.
	I won't pay for one or anything.
	So I want some, my question is, how do I balance learning game with my long-term goals?
	I mean, it sounds to me like the best girl for you would be a virgin.
	You know, someone, because I don't sense this, that I think you want to find a game to find your dream girl, but you don't want to run game just to bang a lot of girls.
	That's the impression that I get.
	I'm concerned.
	I've read a lot of Rolo, and I'm going to have to have solid game even after I'm married.
	And so I just want to make sure that I. Right.
	I mean, I just want, I'm, you know.
	You see, it really depends on the type of girl that you are going after.
	I mean, if it's a good girl, do you need some game?
	Yeah, but a lot of that game is just being a man and not a needy bitch.
	You know, you don't understand.
	I'm sure you've seen a lot of men who are married.
	They're so weak, man.
	I mean, it's just don't be weak.
	You don't really need tight game if you're not a weak man.
	You know, but a lot of guys, what you find is they started off kind of strong.
	You know, they were a bit, they were a bit confident.
	They were in shape.
	But then as that marriage goes on, they let themselves go and their woman.
	They let their woman dominate them.
	It's embarrassing.
	So as long as so, I don't think you need game game in order to avoid that.
	If you stay in shape, you are an attractive guy that your wife can see that other women either give you eye contact or they flirt.
	And you are still a man.
	You still got your balls.
	I don't think you need to learn much game after that.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay.
	My last question is, so I have moved around quite a bit in my young adulthood and I've been around a lot in a lot of different social settings, like white collar.
	I've seen it from a lot of angles.
	And I know that iron sharpens iron.
	And I have a very difficult time.
	You know, I understand Red Pillow Theory pretty well, but I just, it's almost impossible for me to surround myself with people who like just see things the way I do.
	And I can keep up.
	I can, my dedication, you know, lasts for a while, but like ultimately I have my moments where I just fall and like everybody around me, you know what I mean?
	Like you don't have like that brotherhood to help you, help keep you accountable, you know?
	Do you live in a town that is small, medium, large?
	Yeah, I live in a very rural area and I'm very poor at the moment.
	I'm working on my career and if I really stick to my guns as far as career-wise for two years, I'll be in a good position.
	I just, I'm afraid that I need more, you know, support, I guess.
	Somebody who.
	Right now, the best thing you can do is have men you trust online.
	You know, that is the second best thing to having friends in your, in your town.
	So just, you know, also, I have a forum and on the forum, a lot of men they have met.
	So, but if you live in a tiny town, the odds that another forum member will be in your town is small.
	But if you're near a city, chances are there is another guy there.
	So I would try that.
	You know, I mean, because I take for granted that any city I go to, there's going to be guys who agree with me on 80% of things, and we can bond and hang out and just talk.
	Yeah, but a lot of guys like you, who you know, don't have a public thing online, is not going to have that.
	So you're going to have to put a little bit more work.
	And one thing you can start to think, what kind of hobbies does a man, well, a man who shares the same beliefs as you, what is, what are those, you know, hobbies?
	So is it guns, you know, maybe something, MMA, boxing?
	Yeah.
	So that's the best thing you can do.
	But in a small town, man, it is a see, I really want to move to a smaller town.
	I want to have some land.
	I want to build a you know cabin, have some dogs.
	But I think about it and it would be nice, but until I just feel lonely.
	Yeah.
	I mean, a lot of people who just don't live in the city don't realize it, but a lot of those things, SJW and the Blue Pill movement has really penetrated a lot of the rural areas.
	You know, you see it.
	It's still very strong, even out here.
	I, and I, I, uh, no, I just wanted to say that I have been hearing a lot of this a lot.
	Yeah.
	And I, um, one of my issues is I, that's why my age, I'm very technically challenged.
	I understand there's something called Discord where a lot of people, because I'm very interested in meeting in person and I would travel quite a long distance if I could, you know, even just infrequently meet up with people who think like me.
	I would travel quite a ways, you know, but I just, I have, I'm like, in a lot of ways, I'm kind of technologically illiterate.
	Yeah.
	No, I think I mentioned, yeah, I mean, right now, as far as I know, there's no established meetups of guys.
	I tried to do happy hours.
	I tried to do happy hours, but you saw what they tried to do to me.
	They shut them down.
	Men, masculine men cannot organize.
	Even the NRA, they don't even let an established organization do its own thing.
	There is the Proud Boys, the Gavin McInnes group, but they're mostly in the cities.
	I think they're more about having fun and things.
	I don't know.
	I've met a couple of them.
	I don't know how Red Pill they are, honestly.
	But if you want to, I've watched a lot of Gavin McGinnis stuff, and I think he's very red pill.
	Sure, sure.
	But if you want the hard dudes, like you got to meet some of the guys that I know, like red pill, the crimson color.
	I mean, we, you know, I do think that I have taken the ideas of masculinity to where it should be.
	You know, so there's not many men that say, for example, women should not be able to vote, but I believe that.
	So, you know, what I love is the men that they read me when I meet them.
	There is a connection, you know, because we believe, because we feel so lost in the sense that we can't, it's hard for us to find men that don't agree with us.
	And I would estimate, we're less than 1% of the population.
	If you're SJW, like 50% of people agree with all the homo stuff that you believe in and the stupid stuff, anti-Trump.
	But if you believe, if you're following me, it's harder.
	It's harder because the mountain, you know, it's like the higher you go up the mountain, you leave from the valley.
	The valley is full of people.
	You know, it's a safe, safe place.
	You got a supply of water, but you're going up that mountain, it's going to get more lonelier and lonelier, right?
	Oh, yeah, I totally understand that.
	I totally understand that.
	Cool, yeah.
	But yeah, so oh, one thing is that once my game book is done, I am planning on doing a book tour in the USA.
	And in this tour, it's going to be not so much I'm going to do like I'm going to rent rooms, but just stop by towns that could be small and just meet up with even one or two guys in a bar.
	So, when this actually happens, I'm going to put a form on my site so you can say where you are, and then so I can go to towns where I know there's going to be a couple guys that I can meet with because I can tell how you sound, you could be in the Midwest, in the middle, maybe the south.
	You are, uh, you are, you're good.
	So, um, so yeah, hey, I really appreciate it, Rich.
	And I just want you to know: if I had all the money in the world, I'm poor right now.
	But if I had all the money in the world, I would give you a significant chunk of it.
	Oh, thank you.
	I just want you to know that.
	And please know that there are a lot of us out here who really need somebody like you.
	And I know that you don't, you know, get as much appreciation as you deserve.
	Thank you.
	No, I mean, and it means a lot to me.
	I don't need your money, but if I put a book a book out and it costs $10 and a guy buys it, that's that's the most that he can do.
	And it makes me, you know, happy too that someone wants to buy something that took me a lot of blood and sweat to write.
	But I'm thankful that I keep my expenses so low that I don't need a lot of cash.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay, sir.
	Well, thank you.
	And I'll be watching for the tour and the book.
	Thank you.
	Okay, man.
	Thank you very much.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, guys, it's tough.
	It's tough when you don't know anyone.
	You know, I mean, that's the one problem I don't have.
	The one problem in life I don't have is that I never need to go long without meeting with someone who sees eye to eye with me.
	But a lot of you, you're in your town, and it can be actually harder to find that.
	All right, let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, Colleer.
	You're now live.
	Caller?
	Caller.
	Caller's dead.
	Caller.
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	All right.
	That guy's not there.
	No caller.
	That's a shame he waited for a while, too.
	All right.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller?
	Two in a row that are not talking?
	That's suspicious.
	Caller.
	Speak to me.
	Let me try him later.
	Let's try this guy.
	Hello, Collier.
	You're now live.
	Oh, hello.
	Hello.
	All right.
	Hey, how's it going, man?
	Tell us to you and your family, by the way.
	Thank you.
	And where are you calling from?
	Yeah, I'm a 21-year-old dude from Florida, United States.
	I'm a university student.
	Okay.
	Yeah, so I've been seeing this chick since like December.
	I've been fucking her since December, right?
	And I just went exclusively early April.
	But the issue is, I haven't actually gotten here to finish yet during sex.
	And I mean, I'm telling you, the third grade, she loves me.
	She she puts support and everything she goes out of the way for it, but I don't know what the issue is.
	Oh, wait, okay, so you haven't gotten her to do what now?
	To I haven't gotten her to have an orgasm, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and I've never had an issue with the girl.
	And is that important?
	I mean, I don't know, man.
	Like, I've kind of dropped, I've kind of dropped hints here and there.
	Like you don't questioning it.
	Has okay, has she talked to you about it?
	Has she said anything about it?
	That doesn't matter, buddy.
	I mean, it don't matter.
	It don't matter.
	I mean, if it's important to her, what's the deal in that?
	Because I mean, how old is she?
	She's 22.
	Okay, a lot of girls that thing before her.
	I never had an issue.
	Okay, I'm sure you're good in bed.
	But a lot of girls do not have an orgasm through sex.
	A lot of them don't.
	And it's not your fault.
	Okay, but she's like a yellow flag, red flag kind of deal.
	Because what, what if she, because you know, deep down, she probably does want to, right?
	So over time, what if she starts getting kind of bored?
	And, you know, if she, okay, so now you see my brain.
	You think you think that a girl is only going to stay with you if you make her orgasm?
	So this is your own insecurity talking.
	It doesn't matter, man.
	It doesn't matter.
	You know, I've, I've heard.
	As long as I maintain all the other areas of my life, she'll just.
	If it's important to her, she will talk to you.
	It's not important to her.
	Probably because, you know, a lot of girls, especially in Eastern Europe, do not care how the sex is, especially the far easter you go.
	I mean, the far eastern, the far more east that you go in Ukraine, they don't care.
	Like, it is hilarious.
	This is a website.
	I know, but let me, can I finish?
	So these girls, they don't give a shit because they were not brought up to believe that their orgasm is something holy.
	Now, most girls in the USA are trained to believe that, yes, I am a princess and I deserve pleasure and goodies and money, but not every girl.
	So, but usually a girl who cares about it will let you know.
	I've had sluts over that after, like, I'm not even done the first time and they're already whining about their orgasm.
	I swear to God.
	Like, I mean, so quickly, I'm like, bitch, I don't care.
	I just got you in bed and you're already, I'm not done yet.
	I had an orgasm.
	I don't give a shit.
	But they tell you really fast.
	This is like the first.
	What are you saying?
	Uh-huh.
	So if it's important, I'm telling you, if it's important to her, she will talk to you about it.
	Okay.
	So it's actually more of a good thing that she hasn't brought it up because she sees value in other areas that I'm providing for her.
	The problem is this.
	You are projecting your own manliness onto her.
	For a man, the orgasm is God.
	I mean, I don't want to say God, but it is very important.
	I mean, it's like if we don't get the orgasm, did we have sex?
	I think I had sex, but it sure didn't feel like it.
	For us, it's very important.
	For a woman, it could be important, but not always.
	So don't project your needs onto her.
	She could have something else.
	She could just like to be with you.
	She could just like to watch you.
	I don't know.
	So I wouldn't, so I would just keep your ears open if she's dropping, dropping, you know, hints, but it doesn't sound like it's important to her.
	She may have never had one ever.
	And if she wants to have one with you when it's that time, she'll probably bring it up, probably by showing you some kind of book or showing you like an article.
	All right.
	What if she kind of brought it up subtly?
	Because she brought Uber a vibrator at one time.
	Is that just her wanting to expand things or is that her kind of hinting like, hey, maybe we should.
	So now you're going to have to.
	So now you're going to have to open a direct line of communication.
	And when the vibrator comes out, no, I don't know.
	We don't know.
	So the next time she uses it after that session is done, you can casually say something like, does the vibrator help you have like have an orgasm?
	You know, does, you know, does it help you?
	Because I mean, you can.
	I mean, I'm just telling you because a lot of people in the West, they have some issues with confrontation.
	But just say, I mean, you know, I don't want to, but see, at the same time, you don't want to make a big deal out of something that is really small.
	Like you're out of the blue.
	Yeah.
	So, I mean, the next time she uses her toy, just say, ask her how it feels and if it, if it, you know, helps her, if it feels a different way than you, if it helps her have an orgasm.
	That's what I would do.
	And at that moment, you're giving her, you're opening the door now for her to be like, okay, yeah, it actually does help me because during sex, blah, blah, blah.
	Okay, so I just leave that door open for her to walk through.
	Exactly.
	You don't need to like barge in through, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Cool, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Sure thing, man.
	Yep.
	Okay.
	Bye-bye.
	Okay.
	So we got a short cue.
	If you want to call, now would be a good time.
	I'm just going to get a bit of water.
	Hold on.
	Excuse me.
	Okay.
	Oh, yeah.
	I don't.
	I mean, listen, if there's anything that a girl feels is important to her happiness, she's going to tell you.
	She's not going to hold it back.
	She's going to hint at it.
	If a girl hasn't talked to you about having orgasm, it's not important.
	You know, I've dated girls for a long time and they would randomly tell me, oh, I don't have an orgasm.
	I was like, oh, yeah, really?
	That sucks.
	Because I do.
	Okay.
	We got, let's take the next caller.
	Hello, Collier now live.
	Hey, Roosh, what's up?
	Hello, how are you?
	Good, man.
	So I'm glad you're doing a show.
	I wanted to call in and talk about a few things I had on my mind and see what you thought.
	Okay.
	I've been paying attention to this whole how that, you know, the mainstream media is like taking this incel thing for a ride.
	Yeah.
	And I saw something very interesting.
	There was a tweet that you had.
	And I think that one, you know, basic skeptic, anti-feminist girl, shoe on head, did a retweet of you.
	Yeah, yeah.
	And you had said something, I don't remember what she said, but you had said something along the lines of, you know, this is why PUA is important so that guys like this can get some help.
	Yeah.
	You know, and she said something stupid.
	But what was interesting was I was watching Joe Rogan's podcast a couple of days later, and he had that super lefty girl, Abby Martin, on, and they were talking about incels.
	And she actually said something along the lines of aren't there, she goes, she's like, aren't there classes for guys like this to go out there and get help and learn what to do?
	So I thought that was very interesting.
	And how on the one hand, they sort of take guys like you and try to stop you from helping these dudes.
	And then on the other hand, when one of these dudes finally loses it, you know, they go off on it.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And now we can actually say that what an incel is, is turning into the average guy.
	Very soon, we're going to get to a point where the average guy is not going to get any woman.
	And as time goes on, the top guys are going to monopolize more and more and more of all of the women.
	You know, so it's turning into that.
	We're not there yet.
	I can't say that the average guy is an incel right now, but we're getting there.
	It's funny to say that because the next thing I wanted to bring up was, like I said, I've been working at my desk, like just trying to follow this incel story along and looking at what all the different people are talking about, you know, all the point of views.
	And I found the funniest MGTOW channel.
	It's a relatively new channel.
	Oh, please.
	And it's this guy.
	No, no, listen, you're going to like this.
	Okay.
	It's this guy.
	And by he's one of these guys who's actually on camera talking, right?
	He's not just a boy.
	And by the average, like, you know, basic societal standards, the guy is like a seven or an eight even.
	You know, he looks like a Chad.
	He's got the beard.
	He's got the haircut.
	He's fit, right?
	And he's a MGTOW.
	And I thought it was really funny that there's now, yeah, it is, but it's interesting because it goes with what you said.
	Like, and he has videos like, if you're an average guy like me, you're screwed.
	And I'm just looking at the dude like, hey, man, if you're average, I don't know what, then I don't know what hot is, you know, I don't know what we're, what we're, you know, you get what I'm trying to say.
	It's like, but I mean now the guys that two, three years ago would be considered looking like Chad, now they're all angry and they're all going MGTOW.
	Yeah, I think what is going to going to happen is that there will probably be a time where the, I think if you're a good-looking dude, your game has to be very small in order to seal the deal.
	But what's going to, what's going to happen is that even if you're good looking, unless your game is tight, you're going to have, you're going to have some, some problems.
	So I think maybe with this guy that you are talking about, because if you think about it, when game is out there and the standards of girls is going up, they want more and more and more, then you're going to need a higher bar of attraction.
	So that could actually happen in some of the bigger cities and some of the cities that have a lot of men.
	Because if there's tons of men, there's a surplus of men, women can just hold out for the hottest and they'll probably get it, even if they're not that hot themselves.
	So I don't know.
	But yeah, it isn't going to be going to be fun for men who are kind of average.
	Like you have to be above average or you're just going to get a below average girl.
	This guy is hardly average.
	I mean, honestly.
	Is he like a hard eight?
	Yeah, definitely.
	And he's fit too.
	He shakes.
	Like he sits there in front of his camera.
	His shirt's unbuttoned.
	Like clearly, he's at the bench press like three days a week.
	It's really funny.
	I'll send you the channel.
	It's almost like the 80-20 is turning into the 90-10.
	You know, like it's getting really ridiculous.
	I don't know.
	But yeah, I am definitely monitoring this.
	So we'll see where things go from here.
	Yeah.
	And then so for me, it's like I was thinking about this and I feel like, you know, you ever seen an old couple and the wife nags and nags and nags and nags and to the point where the guy just kind of tunes her out.
	Yes.
	And it's like you look at this old couple and you've got this hen-pecking wife that just won't shut the fuck up.
	And then the dude, it's almost like he can't hear her, right?
	It's like he's figured out the frequency and blocked it.
	I feel like collectively, what's happening is the collective feminine is going to slowly get tuned out by the collective masculine.
	Like men everywhere are just sort of like, yeah, yeah, and just kind of they're just going to tune women out.
	I don't know.
	You know, I don't know.
	I don't like to speculate too much with theories and things like that.
	I think seeing how things are as they are is enough to tell us where they are probably going.
	So, but yeah, I mean, I'll keep an eye out for hard eight men that are going MGTOW.
	I don't think it's going to be that common if he's really a hard eight, but we'll see.
	All right, Carler?
	Yeah, thank you.
	Okay, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Bye.
	You know, not everyone can be a hard nine like me.
	Not everyone can be a Persian, Chad.
	Persian aging, Chad.
	I'll be 39 this year.
	Jesus.
	All right.
	Hello, Carla.
	now live oh not this german caller again well i don't I don't understand German, man.
	These Germans keep calling me this angry guy.
	You're what?
	An incel?
	A hard eight incel?
	Oh, I don't know, man.
	Germany is bad.
	Maybe you have to leave there.
	Okay.
	Let's take another one.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hey, what's up, man?
	What's going on?
	This is a forum member in Ukraine.
	Ukraine.
	Okay, cool.
	But you're not from there, right?
	No, no, American.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I was just wondering.
	I mean, you've been to a lot of different countries, like obviously Poland, Ukraine, Russia, all over Europe.
	And it sounds like you kind of like Poland the most, but I'm sort of wondering what your opinion is on the Far East.
	You know, I don't want to say where I currently am, but I can say that Ukraine is a shithole.
	The women are the best part in some ways.
	But to stay there long term is really tough.
	It's hard.
	You know, it's just very backwards.
	You've been raised in the West, just small things start to wear on you.
	You know, you feel like I don't belong here.
	This isn't my land, and I like the pussy, but not that much.
	Yeah, well, I mean, like, I feel like for me, the biggest problem is actually the language barrier.
	I mean, you can, I mean, I've done pretty well with quite a few girls, but just never feel a connection because of uh, yeah, because you're from a different culture than her, completely different.
	Yeah, well, there's the cultural difference, and then there's the just a sheer, you know, language problem where you can't communicate subtleties, your relationship is a little strained in the sense that you're not really vibing 100%.
	Do you know what I'm saying?
	Yeah, because when, okay, so when there's a barrier in terms of language or culture, any connection that develops is going to be very superficial.
	So, either you value her due to her beauty, due to her femininity, due to the fact that she wears heels, and she values you because you're not a local beetroot, like one of these lame dudes.
	You're from the USA, there is a possibility that you can improve her standard of living in a significant way.
	So, it's just based on that, and that's not bad.
	I mean, I'm not saying that, I mean, I've done that and it can give you happiness, but usually for maximum the medium term, unless you have a genuine bond or you create some kind of business arrangement where you get married and have kids with the understanding that you provide for her in exchange for her, you know, popping out kids, that's the best you can really hope.
	But for a more romantic type of love, which I'm not saying you need, but which unfortunately for those who are raised in the West, they tend to want in terms of that deeper type of love, you know, that's unless the language barrier is small, unless you can see eye to eye in some way, it's not, it doesn't really happen.
	It doesn't help that the Ukrainian and the and the Russian they're kind of the best actresses, they kind of know, I don't, what you see is not what you get, yeah.
	I mean, I mean, I understand where you're coming from when it comes to the cultural barrier.
	I mean, I've actually had quite a few girls that I could have made into more serious relationships, but I suppose I kind of refrain from it because, you know, you're kind of like it's like a paradox of choice where I actually have a few options, but none of them in particular seems like enticing enough for whatever reason.
	Or, you know, you're always looking for like a hotter girl who you might also be personally compatible with, but then so you know, it's kind of but then the language barrier is there.
	It's a combination of things, like playing the field, language barrier.
	And how long have you been there, or how long have you been have you been hunting in general in Eastern Europe?
	I mean, just in Ukraine itself, I mean, nine months, like multiple trips, a lot of different girls.
	I mean, I've done like a lot of day game.
	Do you feel like you are probably the most of anybody?
	Okay.
	Do you feel like you are closer to finding what you want than when you first got there?
	I mean, man, not really.
	No, I mean, I just, I know, I know exactly what's going to happen.
	Do you know why?
	And the reason is your experience with hotter and hotter girls that I'm guessing you've had there raises your standards to a level that will at some point be unachievable.
	The problem with men like us who have been lucky or skilled or something to travel the world and sleep with very beautiful women, exotic women under very exciting circumstances, is that we start to believe that we can get a certain type of girl that in reality doesn't exist.
	So we price our standards out of the market.
	So this is why I find the more, the longer a guy spends abroad, paradoxically, the less likely he will find the girl.
	So the best case that you have is a guy who leaves for some country and he finds that girl within a year before his standards start to inch higher.
	But if you've been like me, I've been abroad.
	I left, I first left in 2007 and I've lived in the U.S. a couple of times, but I've been out of the U.S. for like nine years.
	My case is hopeless.
	Hopeless.
	I have a standard that doesn't exist.
	And, you know, I have to look in the mirror.
	The only reason I don't have a wife is because of me, because I have been lucky enough to be with girls that were very cool and good looking.
	And now there's, I'm like a widow of hot European sets.
	You know, so I can't lower that, man.
	I can't.
	I've experienced love, like really passionate stuff, Hollywood stuff.
	I've been with women that's beautiful.
	I've lived in towns, beautiful, all that without hardly spending any money.
	You know, now you want me to find a girl that I have to compromise with, deal with every day that's not perfect.
	I can't do that.
	Yeah, I mean, yeah, I totally agree with what you're saying.
	I mean, there's like a hedonic treadmill.
	Your standards go up and then, you know, you're like, you're spoiled in a sense, but you know that ultimately, if you do want to settle down with a girl, you have to make some kind of compromise.
	I mean, but what?
	Well, I mean, you have to compromise.
	You have to compromise your freedom.
	Oh, right.
	And you can't wait for a perfect girl.
	This is why I have given up.
	You know, if the universe wants to send me a girl, like earlier, we had a caller, 20-year-old Colombian who is a virgin, technically.
	If the universe wants to send me a girl like that, that she likes me, she follows me, she sees in me a good soul somewhere buried deep in the darkness.
	Then if I meet her, you know, let's just say that in I have met at least one girl who follows me.
	And, you know, anyway, so there is hope for me, but the problem is me.
	That's what the problem.
	And problem with guys like us, the fact that we left our, you know, home, our family, if our mom and dad couldn't tie us to the land that we are from, who's to say a girl will, You know, if all our friends, if the local town that we grew up in, maybe the university, if mom and dad, brothers and sisters, if they couldn't hold us down, you think a pretty girl will.
	So that's what the problem for some guys like us who stay abroad for a long time is that it's not so much we don't meet girls that are good, but the problem is us.
	The problem is our standards, what we expect is this high.
	That's not, I don't think that's bad, but we have to understand what is going to be the outcome of that.
	And usually the outcome of that is a lot of experiences that are nice, that are exciting, and we value them.
	But at the end of that road is a standard that's too high.
	Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean, I agree the standards go up, but at the same time, like, I mean, I know guys that are out here in their deep into their 40s, chasing girls, doing the exact same thing I am.
	And I'm like asking them for advice, and they have pretty much nothing to say on the topic.
	Of course not.
	I mean, you know, a lot of these guys, they want to be with beautiful women, foreign women, to make up for some kind of lack when they were a younger guy.
	Like me, I've talked about this a lot.
	I didn't get laid in high school and college, and I went crazy after that.
	I wanted better and better to make up for that.
	And then finally, I got full.
	Finally, I think around 35, I started to.
	And then I dived into relationships that one worked out kind of well until it didn't.
	And now I'm in that weird zone where it's like I'm not actively trying to bang, but I'm not actively trying to get a girlfriend either.
	So it's, it's, it's weird.
	But I can tell you that there is a time where you're just tired of it.
	Where I don't know, how old are you?
	Uh, late 20s.
	Late 20.
	So you're still young, dude.
	You probably got another 10 years of this that you can keep going.
	But there's going to be a point where you're like, enough, you know, what more?
	If I've been doing this for 20 years and you get good at banging girls, it's a blessing and a curse.
	Because if you're good at banging girls, why would you pick one unless she's perfect?
	So my advice to guys who want to get married, don't get good at banging girls because you're going to want to keep doing it.
	You know, because then you're, and then that your expectations and standards go really high.
	And to really settle down with one girl, you have to trick yourself.
	You have to trick yourself that, no, I can't bang anymore.
	I'm done.
	I'm finished.
	I'm done with that.
	You have to find God.
	Some guys have had to find God in order to stop.
	Right.
	Well, I mean, I mean, if the metric that you're judging the relationship by is the beauty of the woman, then you're definitely fucked.
	You know, if that's the only thing you care about, right?
	Which a lot of guys.
	A lot of guys do.
	I mean, I know.
	A lot of guys say a lot of guys say they want a relationship.
	No, they don't.
	But then they keep like a lot of guys actually say they want the relationship are the ones that are going to keep repeating the bangs over and over again.
	I know.
	I know.
	And I see it.
	And so there's a lot of younger guys I know.
	I see what they're doing.
	They're doing the same thing as me.
	I don't tell them not to do it.
	I mean, a man has to find his own path.
	But I know where the end of that road, end of that path is.
	But a man has to find out on his own.
	Look, if that urge is in you, if that impulse is in you, you're going to have to do it.
	Because if you don't do it, then you're going to hate yourself after.
	Then you're going to regret whatever outcome you do have.
	If you have this urge just to bang a lot of girls, you cannot settle down with the dream girl that is in front of you.
	You can't do it because you're going to be with a dream girl that any man outside would think she's a dream girl.
	But because of that sick impulse you have, you're going to hate her because she's holding you back from doing what you really want.
	I've seen it.
	So really, you know, it comes down to doing what you want to do until you can't do it anymore.
	And, you know, some men, when they're young, they don't want that.
	They know when they're young, they want to get married.
	They know it.
	They don't want to play the game, waste time banging shallow sluts.
	They don't want to do it.
	But other men like me, maybe you, something is different about us.
	We want to have our fun.
	We have a high need for adventure, dopamine, spikes.
	I don't know.
	But it will change, though.
	As you get older, your needs change too.
	It's just just because your needs change, however, the experiences that got you there is going to hold on to you.
	It's going to be like, hey, Roosh, you banged a lot of hotties.
	You can't get with that 6.5.
	Are you crazy?
	You banged eights.
	And now you want to get a six, even though she's a virgin.
	So what?
	She's ugly, Roosh.
	You know, that's what your experience is going to do to you.
	Right.
	But when you do have kids, I mean, I mean, if that's what you want, which actually ultimately I do want, and I think a lot of guys want that, but they're kind of deferring the decision further and further into the future to kind of play the field, experience things, yada, yada.
	But at some point, you do have to settle and not, you know, get to choose a girl and you have to invest time and have children.
	And I mean, she will get older.
	Like if you raise kids for 18 years, that woman is going to age and she's probably not going to look that great after 18 years, frankly.
	Right.
	I mean, so I mean, you have to look for qualities other than the looks.
	I mean, I think a lot of guys are.
	Are you convincing me or yourself?
	No, I mean, I'm just saying, well, I mean, it's a hard, it's a hard decision, obviously.
	Right.
	But I'll just say this.
	But what you're talking about is from the men I've met who have gotten married and have kids and are genuinely satisfied.
	They didn't have to convince themselves.
	They didn't have to logically conclude that that's what they should do.
	They didn't construct pros and cons, a spreadsheet or something.
	They just knew it was in them.
	This is what they wanted.
	You know, they started from that.
	It rarely happens that a guy starts off wanting to game and travel and bang.
	And then he's like, you know what?
	I want to get married and then eased into it easily.
	I haven't really seen that.
	It has definitely, it has definitely happened, but it's not a seamless thing.
	It's not a natural thing.
	He has to really convince himself.
	He has to make changes.
	He has to write off some of the experiences that he's had.
	So it's way easier to go from a guy who wants a family that then one day gets divorced and wants to bang than a guy who wants to bang and then decides he wants to get married and he seamlessly goes into that.
	Because when you want to bang, you're going to be a free man.
	You are free.
	I mean, you have the options.
	It's hard to leave that, you know.
	When you're a married guy, there is that compromise.
	You are constrained, you have responsibility, obligation.
	It's a little bit easier to leave that if it doesn't work out.
	Yeah, I mean, so my advice to you is for the next year, just bang fours and fives, and then after that year is done, wife of the first 6.5, and you will be happy forever.
	But don't bang hot, don't bang hotties, okay?
	Because a guy like me banging a nine is the same as a fat girl banging a Chad and thinking that she can marry a Chad.
	She can't marry a Chad, you know.
	Chad was just, I don't know, horny.
	But when we bang a nine, and some of us we've not only bang, but we date them.
	But it's still to marry a nine, nines don't really want to get married with any guy either.
	So we can't confuse these hotties that we get with with a girl that can be like a wife, you know, just like how a fat girl who bangs a Tinder Chad should not confuse him for being a boyfriend that she can marry.
	So bang ugly girls.
	Bang ugly girls.
	I don't think banging banging ugly girls doesn't sound very appealing.
	I know because I mean, if it was appealing to you, you wouldn't be in the country that you are in.
	But one thing I can say before I have to go is that the happiest guys I've met in terms of women in game have had standards that are low, low standard.
	Any girl makes them feel good, happy.
	But the guys with standards that are high, the end of the road is misery, frustration, depression, regret.
	The lower standards you have, the better it is.
	And the way to get high standards is incrementally, incrementally banging hot girls every year.
	If you do that, that's something that I kind of did.
	Even though when I started game, there was a couple girls that were good looking, but then I moved, I went to South America, and the Brazilian butts got me.
	And then European girls, it was game over, you know.
	So now I'm going to bang.
	Okay, if you don't want to follow my advice, I'm going to do it.
	I'm going to bang a four tonight tonight.
	I'm banging a four.
	I'm telling all 400 all 430 people.
	I'm announcing I'm banging a four tonight to lower my standards and be a normal man instead of this high standard crap that is going to make me and Arnold lonely.
	I'm banging a four tonight.
	I don't care.
	That's some dedication right there, man.
	That's honestly.
	But I mean, yeah, I mean, like, yeah.
	Well, last thing I'll say.
	I mean, I do have like girls here that are actually attractive and they kind of want to actually have something more, but then I'm like, well, you know, there's more girls out there on the street.
	So it looks like actually you have options to settle down, but it's weird that the having a model of abundance, which game actually teaches, makes it harder to get into relationships because there's so many girls out there.
	Yeah.
	I know, totally agree.
	Well, hey, Matt, I'll let you go.
	Thanks for responding.
	Sure thing, man.
	Take it easy, man.
	All right.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, the curse of wanting a dream girl.
	I actually wrote some art.
	I wrote an article a long time ago.
	I think it was called The Dream Girl.
	me see real quick dreamgirl richie.com
	dream girl paradise the perfect girl I don't know where it is anyway okay so we got a couple super chats we got one from MGTOW he donated five dollars he said Ruch do you consider yourself MGTOW no I consider MGTOWs mostly game denialists what are your thoughts on MGTOW I think they are crabs in a bucket.
	They're trying to drag down guys who are genuinely trying to make it work out there.
	And I don't agree with a lot of what they say, though my approach with the black pill of not trying to change things, just accepting things for what they are does overlap a bit with what they believe too.
	We got 21 Studios donated $20.
	Thank you, 21 Studios.
	He just said MAGA.
	Moz G donated $10.
	Thanks for taking my call.
	Okay, I didn't know that Moz was on the phone.
	Moz is a guy I met in DC last month.
	Good that he called.
	Trump's Avatar donated $2.
	He said, Ruch versus Zuckerberg boxing match.
	Who would win?
	Mark Zuckerberg would kick my ass.
	He's so strong and masculine.
	All right, guys.
	So I have to go.
	We had a pretty good live chat couple hours.
	And yeah, I'm just trying to get through each day.
	It's been a little bit hard, but it's great to know that I have a lot of guys out there that want to talk to me and share things with me.
	And I hope that I am also helping.
	I hope you're getting some value out of this.
	And that's all I have.
	So have a good night.

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