Panel Show: Can a Conservative Man Date a Woke Woman? explores Thanksgiving dating tensions, where Doug MPA and others critique liberal women—like Aisha Curry or Akash Singh—for allegedly weaponizing virtue signals and financial demands. Nicholas Pepe’s NFL exit for an OnlyFans model sparks debates on athletes’ reckless decisions, while panelists dismiss claims of ICE-related abuse as fabricated. Early vetting (e.g., debt questions, political red flags) emerges as key, with Spirit Chili arguing younger women are impressionable but older ones resist change. Ultimately, they agree politics rarely matter long-term—most opinions stem from social media echo chambers—but extreme ideologies still risk toxic relationships. [Automatically generated summary]
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
I thought I would start a little early before we bring up the panelists later.
I first wanted to say thank you guys so much for supporting me these last couple years, as you guys know.
I just fought off demonetization after two years.
And, you know, being back and able to do what I love has just been amazing.
So, thank you guys so much for supporting me this entire time.
Did you guys have a good Thanksgiving?
Can you put a one in the chat if you had a good Thanksgiving?
Put a two in the chat if it was trash.
You guys already know sometimes family members, you know, there's the relatives that are fighting.
Sometimes people are excited to see family, sometimes they're not.
It just is what it is.
We got ones, ones in the chats.
Once any twos, if your Thanksgiving sucked, put why.
Put why it sucked.
I was thinking about calling this show petty because I really did start this show to be petty.
You know, I'm not, I'm not saying like, I'm not saying it was the right thing to do.
I'm not saying it was the mature thing to do, but I'm standing on it.
I'm standing on it.
You crash out on me on a panel.
Then I'm just going to do a panel at the exact same time as your panel and we'll see who wins.
I'm not saying it's the right thing to do.
I'm not saying it's what I should have done.
But sometimes you got to do what you got to do.
You were alone.
Oh, no.
No.
You know, honestly, if you're alone, go out and make some pals.
Go on and make some pals.
Get out there.
You got to learn to bake or something.
That's your gateway to friendship.
If you're ever wondering, say, I got no friends.
You got to learn how to bake because America's fat.
Okay.
America is diabetic damn near.
So you just got to bring some cookies and be like, hey, I got some cookies wherever you go.
And then you're going to be the person with cookies.
Who isn't happy to see the person with cookies?
I bring cookies to my gym sometimes, my literal gym where people go to lose weight and people are still happy to see and they're jacked there.
I'm the fat one in that environment.
You know what I mean?
I'm the obese one there.
Okay, so you know, it's been a little bit since I was live.
So I guess I maybe will go over some thoughts I've had for the week.
Some of these are related to the topic, some aren't.
Now, the first thing that I was thinking about is I joined, I recently joined Are We Dating the Same Guy groups?
You know, there's like in every city.
I joined like five of them for research purposes, right?
So I'm like, I'm kind of like documenting some of the problems women are having in different cities.
It's all the same problem, right?
The problem women always have dating the same men.
I mean, we always have the same problem, right?
But what I was thinking about is I would say the lack of good faith in dating now.
And I do think women, I know for a fact, women started this.
Like women were kind of assholes to men, right?
And, you know, when I see the difference between women that win and women that don't win, is the women that don't or the women that win go in with good faith regardless of what happens to them, right?
You know, if they get cheated on, they're not going to go in thinking the next guy's a cheater.
This is impossible for women, right?
We always make the next guy pay.
And it's very apparent in these groups because, like, the women, women fight each other and police each other.
So they'll post a guy.
And this will be a guy they some of these women haven't even gone on a date with yet.
Can you imagine?
Like, you're just like, oh, I got a match.
I have a date this week.
You're excited as a guy.
And then now you're in a group with like 50,000 women and she goes, NET.
And you're asking the general public to comment anonymously on if there's tea on you.
It reminds me of that app, Yick Yak.
Put a one in the chat if you in college had yick yak.
So my first year at college, that was a thing.
And people could anonymously like talk about you.
And I think it like disappeared after a day or something.
And I remember this was, this is my first experience with the like negative reviews.
Now I get them all the time.
It's okay.
It's normal.
Now I get, but this is my first negative review as a young, young woman.
I was 17 when I went to college.
So 17.
And someone put that I was a bitch.
And I'm like, a bitch?
Me?
No.
I was devastated.
I was, I couldn't believe it.
Now I could believe it, right?
But back then, I was a young, I was a young woman.
No one had ever told me anything negative in my life.
The men, the men are like, we've been hearing this negativity since we were born, since we were born.
Yeah, you got kicked out of the are we dating the same man because I called them out for being bullies.
I know women are the worst bullies.
Do you know what's so crazy?
Women, especially on Twitter, they'll have Jesus crosses in their bio.
I swear on my life, Jesus crosses.
And the thing is, women, we just have this tendency to think we are something if we say it.
So it's like, instead of learning to be a good person, we'll just say, I'm a Christian.
Why do the hard part of like being nice when you could just say I'm a Christian and wear a cross on your boobs?
That's always the, that's always the caveat.
They have titties out with the cross.
And they're diabolical.
It's crazy.
I'm like, oh, wow, you just, you guys keep going.
You keep going.
But anyways, going back to the good faith thing, negative reviews.
I know, can you believe it?
I get negative reviews sometimes.
So back to the are we dating the same guy thing.
So these women, they come together.
And what I've noticed is hot women tend to be a lot more good faith because men treat them better.
It's a lot easier to be good faith when you're a hot woman.
I mean, the hot women are like, you guys don't get called back.
And the fat women are like, yeah.
And the hot women, you know, I think it's the mids that are the most bitter.
I think it's the upper mids because they're so close to being with the hot guys, but so far.
You're right there.
You're right there, but you're not quite.
You're not quite.
You're not quite there yet.
I do think fat women have a little bit more humility, right?
Because fat women, they kind of a lot of times know their place.
Like they know, they can't not know they're fat.
Like when I was fat, I knew I was fat.
Do you know what I mean?
It wasn't like I didn't know.
So they come with a little humility.
Like a lot of times the fat women will come in with a smile.
But the upper mids, you know, because they're banging the nines and the tens, but they just can't quite get that commitment.
They can't quite, they're like, I'm so close, but so far.
Oh, I'm in the door with Tyrone, but he ghosted.
Oh, I'm with the door with Brad.
He took me on this nice dinner.
And then I never heard from him again.
And it's the yeah, and you know, they're going to get the range of offers.
Like a mid, you would be shocked at the dating apps of a mid.
Now, I've seen the dating apps of fat women.
You would also be shocked if I'm being, if I'm being for real here, you would also be shocked with the dating apps of fat women.
You really would.
I mean, these are in-shape men matching.
But somebody's got to do it.
Do you know what I mean?
There's somebody's going to do it.
Stream idea.
You and Carlin, Borisenko, and Rachel Wilson, a show called BLTC Coven, because that's the accusation against you three.
Idea you could restore the image of the witch, which didn't used to be an insult.
What's the accusation?
Oh, I'm a bitch.
Yeah, I do.
I understand.
I understand.
You know, I don't really think I'm a bitch, but I think that's for the general public to decide.
You know, I don't really get to decide what other people's perception of me is.
You know, it just kind of is what it is.
You know, you just, you take it or leave it.
Okay, but back to the are we dating the same guy group chats.
I was thinking about this and I'm like, it's kind of crazy how big of bullies women are in these chats.
Like I have a friend and he dumped his girlfriend like five years ago, five years ago.
And he got put in this chat as like an abusive monster.
And he's so nice.
And he dated this girl for like two years, five years ago, not one year, not two.
She's still not over it.
You know, it just is what it is.
Okay.
All right.
Let's get into the topic today.
I'm monologuing.
I'm spitballing.
You know how it is.
Okay.
So today we're talking about political beliefs.
So when I was younger, I used to kind of think that political beliefs, you know, I grew up just, you know, I grew up, my mom took me to Sarah Palin abortion rallies.
I argued about abortion on the on the playground.
Okay, this was, this was me as a child.
Like I was literally 12 on the playground debating with people about abortion.
I can't say I was the most likable child.
And so I always thought this was really, really important in dating and friendships.
And I think at one point in my life, I maybe thought like it makes you a more moral person.
It doesn't, but when you're young, you know, you just think that.
But then I get older and I started having developing friendships with the most unlikely of people.
I've never, to be fair, I've never dated a liberal.
So this is kind of in pract, this is more in theory than practice for me.
That's why I brought on a panel today to talk about it.
But I did, one of my really good friends is, now, mind you, I don't think women should, I don't know if I could say it on YouTube anymore, but the voting republic, I think, should be smaller.
I'll just say that's my extreme beliefs.
And I somehow befriended a vegan activist that used to do nude activism.
Who would have thought?
We met through music, right?
We're like the best of pals.
Now, I never, I never would have thought in a million years that this would matter.
Or to be fair, this is not dating.
This is just friendship, but hey.
And it made me realize that maybe politics and all that stuff doesn't matter as much as I thought.
I also had the privilege of interviewing a thousand women.
And when you interview a thousand women, you really do, you really start to see patterns, right?
And you can kind of identify people more.
And I just did not notice a difference between liberal women and conservative women in terms of how much of a bitch they were.
I really didn't.
You know, I just didn't, it didn't really seem to make a huge difference to me.
And so this kind of changed my view a little bit where I thought maybe like politics isn't as important in friendship and in dating as I as I originally thought.
But me and Doug MPA, a lot of times these panels start because of conversations.
And this kind of started because me and Doug MPA were talking and I was like, you know, I don't want to, I'm going to bring him up in a second.
You know, he had a negative dating experience with more liberal women.
And I was just like, well, does it, does it matter?
Don't we just like change our mind if we like you?
You know, maybe, maybe not.
But I'm going to bring up Doug MPA to give his side.
Now, I can be swayed because, again, I don't date women.
I don't.
I know there's rumors on the internet, but I really don't.
I don't, I don't, I don't.
I'm just, I'm a little bit of a tomboy.
But the, so I can be swayed.
And to be fair, I've never, I've, I've dated guys that aren't maybe political, but I've never dated a guy with opposite beliefs as me.
So this is a little bit not speaking from experience, but I am going to bring people up to give their Charles Kruthammer.
I also think that liberal women are a little bit hotter.
I don't know.
That's just what I've noticed.
And I thought about it.
I'm like, maybe conservative women, it's like almost a cope.
And this is a theory.
This is not a fact.
This is a theory for being ugly.
So it's like, we got to make up for it.
So we're like, I guess we'll believe the conservative.
Maybe it's like a subconscious thing.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I'm a little weird.
My mom took me to Sarah Palin rallies.
And I met Sarah Palin when I was 12.
I'm not even kidding.
I'm not even, I was, I was born on election day.
My birthday is November 4th, and presidents are elected.
I think I was just born to be a political person.
Charles Kruthammer, conservatives think liberals are dumb.
Liberals think conservatives are evil.
Yeah, I could be a cope, you know, but I, you know, I'm one of the conservative women.
So, I mean, this would be like admitting to myself.
All right.
Doug MPA, what do you think?
So we have this conversation.
Do you want to tell them about your experience and why you think no to the liberals, to the liberal ladies?
Doug MPA.
Sorry, I was still on mute.
Can you hear me now?
I can hear you.
Hey, panelists after Doug MPA gives his little intro and his story that kind of sparked this show.
So go ahead.
Okay, so I'm not going to, I normally try to not make things about race, but guys, you know, on my channel, I always say that black women, American black women, are the worst women on the planet.
No men have worse women to choose from than American Black men.
I'd say 80% of them, right?
So in our community, our men are supposed to serve the women.
So you're not supposed to be an independent or a conservative in black culture, right?
So, so the existence of a black conservative or a black supporter is antithetical to most black women.
I'm sorry, wrong word.
It can't even be conceived by a black woman most of the time.
So it's really bad in our community.
And the reason why I brought this up is I was actually out on a date with a woman.
Everything was fine.
And then we started talking about Aisha Curry and Michelle Obama.
You guys know, no, Aisha Curry keeps going on these podcasts and excuse my language, but keeps shitting all over Seth Curry because she has nothing to offer except shitting all over her husband and making him look stupid, right?
And it's the same thing with Michelle Obama.
You may not like Barack Obama, but you, but men respect work ethic.
He became president of the United States, right?
But his wife just rinses him out.
Michelle Obama, Big Mike, says all these horrible things about him on podcasts.
She has nothing to offer except saying bad things about him.
And so, you know, I asked this girl about that at the end of the date, and she's trying to explain to me why it's okay that a wife should be able to say things publicly about her husband.
I'm like, no, it's not okay.
No.
Right?
And that was enough where I never saw her again.
I'm like, no, because that's indicative of her mindset.
She will find it okay to wrench.
If you court this woman, marry this woman, protect and provide, she will feel it's okay to wrench you out.
No.
What about tell them about the, and you can, you can not tell these stories if you don't want, but the BLM girl?
The BLM girl.
Isn't there like a BLM, like a white girl that was like a BLM girl?
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
So I went out with this white girl and I went on her Instagram and it's her around a whole bunch of black people.
I'm like, uh-oh.
You know, she was the slim shady in a group of black people.
And so she, you know, she was in the law field and she does all this work to better the black community and this, that, whatever.
And so we're talking and she's just, you know, Black Lives Matter, all these different things.
And then she's talking about how she's been familied by so many black people and this and that, whatever.
And so, you know, I'm a, you know, I'm an independent, but you know, I voted for our current president.
And that short-circuited her mind because I didn't fit her idea of blackness.
So, and she's trying to explain to me why my version of blackness is wrong.
I was like, you have got to be kidding me.
No, no.
And that's, and guys, I always say, liberal women, liberal white women in particular, are the most dangerous group on the planet because they can play every piece on the chessboard.
They can be strong and independent.
They can be damsels in distress.
They can be stay-at-home mothers.
They will talk about the patriarchy and the evil white people, but then they will marry a white guy, have his children, and then call him a misogynist and all these different names all at the same time.
It's insane.
If you were going to date a liberal woman, what race liberal would you go?
Liberal white, liberal Asian, liberal black, or liberal Latina.
What you pick him?
Anyone but black.
Sorry.
All right.
I would make all the rest of it work, but I can't do B-dubs now.
All right.
Okay.
So we're going to go over the rules.
The panelists at the back can hear me, or you should.
If you can't, then you might have audio issues.
So we got to keep it respectful.
This isn't too contentious of a topic.
So today should be fine.
What do you think the talking limit per person should be, roughly?
We're going to try to keep it around two to two and a half minutes.
And if there's a good back and forth, we'll let it go.
But we have one, two, three, four, five, six people plus Pearl on the panel.
I'm going to be moderating and don't take it personal if I have to mute you.
Once again, I put in the chat, we've had a couple of people that try to do main character syndrome on here.
You got to leave it at the door.
Everyone's equal here.
And don't bring up your personal life unless you want what you brought up about your personal life scrutinized.
And don't do the, oh, not all women, not all.
We're all adults here.
Yeah.
You make generalizations on this channel.
Yeah.
So we're going to, I mean, this is a new show.
So we might, you know, think of rules down the road.
Audience, feel free to interact, you know.
But I think today will be all right.
So, okay, let's let me start with, I want to do a special warm welcome.
I wasn't sure if he was coming.
Aaron Clary, welcome to the show.
Hey.
Hang on.
I didn't.
I got to get my camera.
I didn't know we were going to do three-way here.
Aaron, well, I'm going to bring up the whole panel in a second, but I do need to give him a special shout out because Aaron broke down the economics of dating women.
I did.
And you know, it's crazy.
So he broke it down from a numbers point of view.
And Jesse's like a dating coach.
So he went out and dated on Vajrayana.
What's going on?
Good to be on.
Good to me, everyone.
Welcome to the show, Jesse.
Thank you.
I got, I don't think we've met before as a dating with Al.
You got it.
Good to meet you.
Glad to be here.
Thank you.
We got Spirit Chili.
Are you muted?
You got to unmute, but welcome to the show.
Dirty Rotten People, welcome to the show.
How's it going, everybody?
Good to be here.
And we got AJ's rants and reactions.
Welcome to the show.
What's going on, everybody?
All right.
So I'm going to toss it over to Doug MPA.
He is going to moderate the show today and give us some openers.
But welcome, everybody.
Thank you for coming.
Okay.
So we want to do a trending topic first.
And then we're going to do like a micro about the topic and then of the panel and then a macro.
So let me, the trending topic is, I don't know if you know who this is, but I'm going to bring up the screen.
Guys, make sure to like the video, subscribe to the channel.
I really appreciate it.
And Athena is in the chat.
I hope everything is going well with you, my friend.
Hope to have you on another panel soon.
Thank you for getting all the panelists together.
She has brought so much value in a short amount of time.
So thank you, Athena, and say hi to Athena in the chat, everyone.
And let me share my screen real fast.
Share.
One second.
What's the first one?
It's the Indian chick, right?
No, no.
We're going to do.
Remember Nicholas Pepe?
Oh, yeah.
So Nicholas Pepe, he is a popular football player.
He's worth $30 million.
And he was worth.
Oh, I know, right?
It's 15 now.
So this is him and his ex-wife right here.
You can see Nicholas Pepe left his wife and two kids for a porn star, a cornstarch Tiana Trump.
And so this is him and her right there.
And this was him and his ex-wife.
And I saw this tweet.
And this is what, right, this person, Salt of the Earth, says, see, why we say as a man, you need to get it out of your system when you're still a bachelor.
Get with all the baddies you can.
You can get your hands on, fulfill your wildest fantasies.
Only when you're done should you get married or else you'll get married and then ruin your own marriage later.
I want to go around the pan once again.
This was his first life with two kids, whatever.
He's 30 years old with $35 million.
He's leaving his wife behind to get with a corn star, Tiana Trump.
Please tell me.
I mean, I mean, he's dating that chick with like a sleeve, you know, and she's kind of overweight.
So he's probably just like, he's probably, you know, just like he's probably thinking that either one probably has a past.
So at this point, he might as well get the hotter one.
Anyone else want to jump in?
Why would Nicholas Pepe divorce his wife to get with Tiana Trump, a corn star?
Probably retarded, but it's not.
I mean, when you're inexperienced as a guy and something like this comes across your lap, you don't think about it.
You just jump on it.
So inexperience.
And also don't underestimate these Jezebels and the power they have over these men.
So I'd like to jump in if I could.
Go ahead.
You know, this is what I tell a lot of the women I coach all the time.
Speaking of a woman in the audience, you will never be your man's only sexual outlet.
Okay.
Whether that's him looking at corn, a Playboy, magazine, IG models, OF girls, the reality of the fact is you will never be your man's only sexual outlet.
Okay.
I don't know why he decided to divorce his baby mama or go about it that way.
But maybe if he had the conversation like, hey, I'm a man.
I can either look at porn or I can get a side chick.
Maybe it's because he avoided that kind of tough conversation.
I think it's maybe because he's his family's African, right?
So he was born in Paris.
You know, he's probably like the son of immigrants and they're really, really like Catholic or really religious, right?
And then maybe this chick just laid it on him and opened up his whole universe to debauchery that he never had experienced.
You know, maybe he's doing lions off for labia.
I don't know.
You know what I'm saying?
So that, I mean, that has to be it.
You know, like, it's probably like a cultural thing.
He thinks it's a status thing.
I don't know.
But if any of you have fallen for a really promiscuous woman, tell me what did she do that made you fall for her?
Tits.
Got 5,000.
She fucked really, really well.
Okay.
I want to hear what Spirit Chile has to say.
Why do you think a man left, you know, a relatively unknown woman who wasn't, I'm pretty sure back in the day she was, you know, attractive before the two kids or whatever.
But to leave for a corn star, what do you think?
They're married too.
So it's not like his girlfriend, it's his wife.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, there's obvious reasons.
Lust is the obvious one.
I mean, OnlyFans is on the rise definitely lately, more so.
A lot of women like to take their independence through OnlyFans.
I have a won't talk about it very much, but I do have a little experience in that department.
So I do know where that lifestyle comes from.
I know that when you have more money, you tend to have less discipline.
That's not necessarily always the case, but marriage takes a lot of discipline and lust and that type of behavior in life is just normalized now, basically.
That's all I really have as far as input.
I don't really follow trendy things like that.
Did he get a head injury in a game or something?
Didn't he get?
Maybe he got kicked in the head in the last football season or something.
I don't know.
I could definitely agree with that.
There's a lot of stupidity that comes with lust.
So it's based off of your private instincts.
So I have to say, all these athletes are not good with their finances in general.
It may just be financial education.
If you look, whatever, NBA, NFL doesn't matter.
How many of them have baby mamas?
How many of them have kids?
It's almost, well, I've made it.
I have unlimited wealth.
And I don't even know if marriage-I mean, you said he was 30 or he is 30.
So he got with this gal pretty young.
Yeah.
I don't think the concept of marriage was all that serious within him as it would be per a lot of the professional athletes.
So this is just, I'll throw money at it and it goes away.
It could have been cultural because he's African.
So they got married early as a cultural thing, right?
And then he started making more money and all that stuff.
And obviously, but I think that Kevin Samuels, he said that athletes and entertainers don't count as what he would call kind of like the high value value thing, right?
They're in their own category because they're different than like a lawyer who had to work to become partner at the firm or a guy who built his own business up who did the long game to actually build up so he understands what a mistake could cost him.
Whereas these young athletes, you know, they're just shoving dump trucks of money up to their house, you know?
So, okay, okay.
Uh, everyone should know this, but what are the two biggest reasons why athletes go broke?
Uh, it's got to be divorce or alimony and child support.
Okay.
Here's the nice man's net worth goes up.
His sex drive goes up.
Okay.
So maybe he wasn't getting it at home, and now he's got this porn star who does everything, right?
And this is the outlet that he chose to unleash, if you will.
Okay, so real fast, I'm going to shotgun the panel real fast.
A quick answer, everybody.
Prediction five to seven years from now for Nicholas Pepe.
What does his life look like?
Go ahead, shambles.
Shambles.
Not good.
Definitely not good.
Down to seven and a half million.
Did he marry the porn star?
Did he marry her?
No.
Wait, did they get married?
I thought they were in talks of getting married.
They're engaged.
Was it kids and what?
Next year, he'll have a kid with them.
They're engaged.
Largely, I think he's got a big you coach women.
I do.
This is the win for women everywhere.
It's like if she can stick the landing, anybody can.
I want to introduce Nuke to the panel.
Nuke, what's up, May?
What's going on?
You guys hear me?
Hey, what's going on?
Nice to see you guys.
Give your opinion on the Tiana Trump Nicholas Pepe situation real fast.
You know, I think a lot of the reasons athletes date like turbo sluts like that is just ego.
The thrill of being able to lock down a girl like that.
I think that's why Kanye dated the Kardashians, just to say he to lock them down and stuff.
It didn't work out.
I mean, they had kids and all that stuff, but I think it's just ego.
Like these, these kids think they can rule the world and control everything.
And, you know, they're like, hey, I can do it.
I can make a hoe into a housewife.
I swear I can.
I'm different.
And then lo and behold, this happens.
So that's my opinion on that.
Okay.
And then, you know what?
Normally, I do one tuning topic, but I'm going to have to do two because Pearl Night were talking about this earlier.
If you're not familiar with the Akash Singh drama, is everyone up to date on that?
It's worse.
Worse by the hour.
Oh, yeah.
We heard a little something about that.
This has been terrible marketing for Indian women.
They were kind of seen as like better.
It was a terrible marketing.
So, so you know, she's getting flamed for disrespecting her husband.
Uh, who's typing?
Yeah, I muted him.
So, this is the latest version of her podcast, and this is her response to all of us red pill influences.
Watch like 45 seconds of it.
Where the fuck has chivalry gone?
Yeah, that's where has chivalry gone.
Like, why do these men who make $60,000 a year talking about gold diggers, you don't have any gold to dig?
You don't have to worry.
You don't even have to worry about it.
It's like, bro, we're not even talking about you because the guys that are actually in the 1% tax bracket, they want to do like the things that my husband and Nav are doing.
They want to take care of women.
They don't want us to be stressed.
They want to be in our divine.
They want us to be in our divine feminine energy.
So, dude, just quickly, she doesn't work.
She's trying to start her own social media following by rinsing out her husband.
She said all these things about, you know, messing around with guys in college and how she doesn't cook or clean or anything like that.
She's pretty much trying to build her social media experience at the cost of her husband.
And she's saying stuff like that.
And he's paying for it, is the worst part.
Yeah, dude.
Yep.
Yep.
Wife is the biggest ROI that you'll ever have.
Investing in your wife.
They want us to be in our divine feminine energy.
Investing in your wife is the biggest ROI that you'll ever have.
Investing in your wife is not a financial burden because when you treat your wife like a princess or a queen, you spoil her, you give her stuff, you just let her be able to relax.
She gets into this divine feminine energy, this divine feminine aura.
In return, she starts taking care of you in a much better way.
She's so emotionally supportive of you because women are so strong in their EQ and how they can take care of men and like really comfort them on this, like this level that they, you know, really haven't gotten since they were with their moms, you know, and not.
I mean, can we just stop?
It gets worse.
She starts talking, talking about Eastern physics and all this foolishness.
All the, but she said, all the modern woman talking points.
Oh, men are brokeies and men don't have any gold to dig and all this foolishness.
But there's also a follow-up on his part where he was on stage.
He addressed this and he told this story about like how he was broke and she stayed by him.
And it turns out that that story is not true.
That she left him in 2818 when he was broke and went to India.
Then he had to go to India to like track her down.
So he's like trying to do damage control on the road while during his comedy specials.
You guys, speaking of comedy specials, I guess you guys know Bill Burr's quote: Women are surrounded by this tornado of misinformation.
Nobody corrects them because we want to fuck them.
Yeah.
So I think that's a perfect example of this.
She's very attractive.
I'm top 5%, whatever.
And when they start spewing nonsense like EQ and women are, you know, marriage is the number one with the highest ROI, which I have an entire book and audited by an actuary that says the contrary, that it's the worst investment in many regards.
This is a person who just had everything handed to her and is not an adult.
And that's, I mean, I couldn't, I mean, like nails on the chalkboard listening to her manage to talk for four minutes and not say a damn thing.
And so she's hot.
He went with her.
Now he's got to deal with this because this is not a responsible adult who's even capable of selflessness or thinking that other people exist, including her husband.
So it's just a spoiled child who's painful to listen to because she's never lived in the real world.
This is proof that guys who have money who get these chicks, you can have money.
She still won't respect you.
And she'll treat you like absolute crap.
Pull up that picture again.
Just look at his body language, right?
We need the green lines absolutely terrible.
And there's so many examples of him trying to kiss her lips and she does an uh-uh and denies him in front of everyone.
She's like disgusted.
Yeah, she doesn't have body language.
That is not indicative of attraction in the slightest way, shape, or form.
That's performative.
Yeah.
It's sad.
It's actually sad.
There's a compilation going around of every time that he's gone to kiss her and he's, he's done this to her.
He bought her like a new ring, like a new expensive wedding ring.
Like four or five different times, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And in front of everyone, he goes to kiss her and it's a big ring and she goes, uh, cheek, kiss me on the cheek in front of their whole family and friends.
So dude's a simp.
Yep.
Dealing with one on the panel, dealing with Al.
I guess to be fair, I mean, to be fair, she kind of has a point.
Like, as a man, your most important investment will be the partner you pick.
So if we want to throw her a grain of salt, she is right there.
If you wife off the wife up a hoe, she's going to fuck your friends and take half your shit.
If you wife up a wholesome girl, that's a good investment, right?
She'll take care of you.
She'll have your children.
She said, though, I'm pretty sure she just wanted the dude to invest in her finances.
That's true.
I don't think she was talking about her personally.
I don't like her farming clock.
Like, she's already rich.
Now she wants the cloth.
I'll tell you this.
Not once I've ever said, do I want feminine energy in my woman?
I've never, and that was like her selling point.
Give me a couple million dollars.
I'll give you feminine energy.
Oh, wait.
It's the divine feminine.
Get it.
Divine feminine.
Yes.
High-grade feminine energy.
If that means calm and collected, sure.
But I don't think that's what she was going for either.
I think a lot of women have that feminist mindset and they don't really think what they say they do.
So I just think that she doesn't either she doesn't know or doesn't care.
Probably doesn't care the amount of damage that this is doing because he's a comedian.
So think about all the ammunition.
All comedians rag on each other.
All the ammo is going to give even his co-comedians just rip this guy to shreds.
Yeah.
And she just keeps going.
Like she did another video today talking about if she wouldn't have married him if he if she had to sign a prenup.
Oh, what is her background?
Is she just from a wealthy family or something?
I mean, she's not an engineer or served in the military, I'd imagine.
She's pretty enough.
That's her background.
Right.
And it's crazy because, guys, Indian chicks are either gorgeous or they're gargoyles.
You know, there is no in-between, you know?
So she's just one of those like rare Indian chicks that's kind of up there in looks, you know, but the ones that aren't are, you know?
So I get it.
From what I saw when they first met, she was just working like a regular job.
So she might have a college degree, but she's not like a doctor or a lawyer.
She's not that type of Indian woman where she's super accomplished.
So.
Okay.
Okay.
Anyone else will be able to do that?
He seems like a short guy, like a short guy.
You know, he probably grew up getting bullied.
Yeah.
And the only way that he thinks he can get a woman was probably just to throw all his money at her.
And he thinks it's a tough situation that he ended up in.
I think a lot of times that happens to guys who might have been picked on or bullied because they were smaller or whatever.
And now he's basically bullied by his wife.
Well, she kind of answered her own question.
You know, she, I mean, she says, she says, where's all the chivalrous man at?
But I mean, she said it herself.
She can't even think about her own husband whenever she's using the vibrator, right?
Yeah.
She gets dried right up, you know?
So that's why nobody wants to be that guy.
Okay, okay.
I put the video with him trying to cope on stage in the private chat.
You want to go to six minutes on a separate show because I want to move to the main topic.
Anyone else want to comment on this, nuke?
Anyone?
I think it's his fault.
I think a lot of women will become this if you just don't have any balance.
If you have no backbone as a man, this is what women become.
It's like two plus two equals four.
This guy probably never told his girl no.
Like she's like, hey, I'm going to go do this with my girls.
He's like, okay, whatever you want.
Here's my credit card.
Spend whatever you want.
That for like 10 years, this is the outcome.
It's just a woman that thinks she can say or do whatever she wants.
Of course, she's going to act like this.
It's because women are men, we create, we're, we're a Dr. Frankenstein.
We create this.
This is our fault.
Not saying that, you know, like if women, if you do everything right, women will be perfect, right?
But it's pretty obvious that this guy is a beta by definition.
And if you can't even get your wife to look at you like with admiration, despite who you are, this is the outcome.
This is it.
Like, you know, he created this.
So good job, Akash.
You did it.
Congratulations.
Yeah.
I'm just going to say, I don't know how long, I don't know what started this whole trend of rinsing your husband or your boyfriend out for clout.
I don't know when it started, but it's just getting worse and worse as time goes by.
Awful.
Okay, so we're going to move to the main topic.
So, you know, it is the holiday season.
Hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving and you're going to have be set up for to have a Merry Christmas if you celebrate whatever.
But this polarizing political environment, you have all sorts of people saying the views say that you should just leave your family who are on the right behind and don't spend any time with them, whatever.
So the topic is how do you navigate?
We're going to start with how do you navigate the holidays, Thanksgiving, Christmas dinner with people of opposite political beliefs?
I'm going to share my screen and give you a couple of examples.
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All right.
Good examples right here.
God cares about getting women being wish to win their own women's solid was an immigrant.
Yes, it was.
God was an immigrant.
Jesus Christ.
What I find funny is that she made it a point to wear a shirt that says fuck Trump and fuck you for voting for him to her family's Thanksgiving gathering.
Here's my thing.
If you know that you hate your family's political views and can't be mature about it, why would you show up just to start problems?
Ruin everybody's night because you're too fucking emotional and don't know.
And where the fuck do y'all get this?
There's that one, and then let me share the other one real fast.
Other ones even better.
Give me one second, y'all.
One second, and then this other one right here.
Buckle up.
This girl's nut.
Hold on one second.
Oh, where'd you go?
Okay.
Share the screen real fast.
One second.
Share.
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One more time.
The entire screen.
Are you guys ready?
Because my family's all MAGA.
Oh.
Do you know who that is?
Uh-uh.
Who's that?
That's her mother, is the one that's suing me.
I hate her, mom.
No, is it?
Cost me grand this morning.
Ain't this the girl who had a falling out with her dad?
Yeah, yeah.
Her dad came on my show, and then her mom decides to drag everybody to court.
And that's why it makes me laugh and be like, All you have to do is get a peanut when you get married.
All a woman has to do is challenge it.
And even if it stays, you have to spend thousands upon thousands of dollars going to court because she wants to say she didn't understand what understand meant when she signed the preno.
Yeah, even if they have no case, they can just waste your time and money.
It's amazing.
I love this.
I do not spend Thanksgiving with my family because my family's all MAGA and I'm gay, etc.
And here's the thing: here's the freaking rub egg on my face.
Because you would think that because I'm not spending my Thanksgiving with my MAGA family, that it's like I'm escaping all of the turmoil and fighting.
You would think that I'm free.
You would think I've set myself free by refusing to attend, but uh-uh-uh, because what did I just do for the last 45 minutes while I was getting ready for my friends giving?
I had imaginary arguments with my conservative, extended family in my head.
Like, I'm actually so heated right now by these hypothetical arguments.
Like, I was dipping in and out, I was bobbing and weaving, I was pulling out statistics, I was pulling out anecdotes, I was pulling out, you know, arguments in their own skewed Christianity worldview.
I was using those things against them.
I was flipping things, I was uno reversing, I was turns tabling, you know, like me and my uncle in my head just really got into it about snap.
Me and one of my Republican aunts, we had this huge fight about trans women in sports.
Like, I'm telling you, like, I literally just enacted all of the Thanksgiving table fighting that I was trying to avoid.
I guys, someone say something on her shirt.
I was, I was distracted by the stain on your sweater, sir.
I could not get past that.
So, I think, I think I'd be going to Whataburger myself.
This woman's mother cost me seven grand.
I got geef with her.
So, so I think she so, so, once again, how do you navigate?
We're gonna start with just the holidays: holiday dinner, Thanksgiving dinner.
They say, like, you know, I'm an independent, but I voted on the right.
Like, if you're on the right, how do you deal with someone like the first girl?
Yell.
How do you deal with that?
How do you navigate it?
Anyone?
I don't think I've ever had anyone that liberal at our team.
I've been lucky because my family's pretty conservative.
Have any of you had that problem?
I've never had that problem.
Not on a personal level.
I know that my aunts are polar opposites on the political spectrums.
One's definitely more vocal.
One's definitely a little more insane and vocal.
Both um and the other.
One's definitely Democrat but a little bit more conservative if that makes sense at all not really probably um, but she gets a little psychotic.
She's tds up the uh, up the ass.
Sorry, I don't know how much I can curse on here, but I know how to put that uh, bluntly.
Um, but yeah, without taking it too personally, i've just tried to separate myself from both of them um, and i've gained a lot of independence, just being by myself and not surrounding myself with my family.
Nuke, you said you call the police.
Yeah no seriously, like you take out your phone, record them and you call the police because i'm worried about their safety.
These people are crazy.
They're no longer your family right, your family is supposed to like, have your back and and like you're supposed to be able to talk to them.
Be like hey, we're gonna have thanksgiving, no political talk.
Can we keep it civil and that's it right.
But if there's a little bit of political talk though, at the thanksgiving table right, and there needs to be a little bit of something no, no one might.
This is America, there should be.
Yeah, like i'm not gonna take down, like my American flag on the front porch or anything like I get that, but like, at the end of the day, it's just like, hey uh, you're in my house right, this is my house.
I invited you.
Either you act like a civil adult or you get out, and if you don't want to get out, i'm calling the police.
It's over, like we're done, it's 2025, we're done, it's over, i'm not dealing with this anymore.
Yeah, there's only one way to handle that if somebody crashing out, and that's to take out your phone and record it so we can talk about it and the internet can see it.
That's the only way to handle a crash out like that just, I don't know, to just grab it to go play and leave.
But I think a lot of the time when this happens is when you have like a mom and a dad that are, you know, fairly conservative and then their daughter or daughter goes to college or will go off to college and they come back with the bull ring and the tattoos, because it happens like a semester, like the little nice girl that they sent off to to, you know, to college, one semester back.
Who's paying for it?
That kind of goes.
It kind of goes back to what Nuke said earlier, how monsters are created because the parents are the ones paying for it, but like they'll still pay for it, even though they're like basically paying for their daughter or son to get indoctrinated.
I don't think the majority of the um arguments people are going to have is with veritable psychos like that where police being called to be requirement.
But generally you want to get your goal is to make mom happy.
So whether you're a Democrat or Republican, you shut up.
You know, just let it.
Don't feed them fire, don't give them oxygen.
You just make mom happy so that she can have her Thanksgiving and her Christmas and that's it.
And then in the rest of your life you have nothing to do with those people.
But you know it really is for mom.
So I, you know, just just practical advice.
But yeah, if they're crazy and flying off the handle yeah, that don't show up.
I think the second video that girl was kind of coping in a way, because she's like oh, i'm not going, but I really want to go so I can talk about everything I believe in.
So i'm playing it in my head.
I think that was like an elaborate cope on her part.
Her dad's so nice too.
That's so nice.
You gotta wonder what happened from the mom.
I could tell you what happened.
Her mom's literally dragging me to court right now.
It's always the mom I could.
I yeah, it's definitely the mom.
Um, has anyone had?
Has anyone had a crash out like that at thanksgiving dinner or where you had to leave or kick somebody out?
Anyone never no, I mean, I was expecting a good story.
I have one liberal aunt that sometimes we'll go back and forth with, like, but it's always respectful.
Like, I usually the conversations I can think of, I mean, nobody gets mad or anything.
Like, they just kind of give each other shit and then move on to the next topic.
Okay.
Okay.
So now we're going to move on to can you date someone who has a different political opinion or opposing political beliefs.
And of course, I have some examples that these are short and sweet, but let me, before everyone says, oh, yeah, I don't know, let me bring this up real fast.
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And let me hit this real fast.
okay today if i had a friend ask me today if i could ever date someone with different political views than mine and even like five years ago i would say maybe if we could compromise on different things agree to disagree But honestly, nowadays, with everything that's going on in the world, I actually don't know how you could.
I don't know how you could sit at a dinner table with your spouse as you're talking about where to send your kids to school, how to raise your children, what decisions to make with your income if you guys have differing views on policy.
I mean, does it work for anyone?
Like, I'm genuinely curious if it can.
Well, see, that's a problem.
She assumes we're making that decision together.
One more.
One more.
Move fast.
Wait, one second.
Listen, quick too.
You know how they say not to talk about politics and religion on the first date?
I could not disagree more.
For a matter of fact, I like to ask guys about their faith and political beliefs before we even go on a date because I'm personally very passionate about what I believe in.
So why would I want to go on a date with someone whose values and beliefs don't align with mine?
I'm Catholic and conservative.
So if you're an atheist liberal, that's fine.
Live your life.
But there's no way that we're compatible in the long term.
Plus, I'm dating for marriage, and my future husband's also going to be the father of my children.
And we need to have those same fundamental beliefs.
I don't want to waste either of our time and energy and the guy's money.
Also, some of the best dates I've been on, we're talking about God the whole time.
So girls, listen up.
It's not just about dating a cute boy who treats you well.
Those are both very important, but we can't avoid the crucial conversations about values and beliefs.
It's not healthy or beneficial to develop strong feelings for someone before you ever have those conversations.
Get them out of the way in the beginning and you'll save yourself from heartbreak.
She's banged a liberal guy with that money.
Men will just lie.
Men will just lie.
Men will lie anything to get laid.
She just, she's filtering for liars.
That's what she's doing.
Yeah.
Dirty writing people.
I want to hear your opinion on this.
Yeah.
So I think it, I think nowadays it has a lot to do with the political extremism, you know, when it comes to the division.
Like right now, like people aren't really, their political differences and the discussions that they have, they're not like, they're not like, well, I think more, you know, funding should go to our local schools.
And, you know, my husband thinks that they should go to infrastructure.
You know, right now it's like, it's more like, if you don't believe in what I believe in, you're trying to unalive everybody like me.
You know, like, say, like, I'm on the TikTok streets, right?
We got most of the tea people, you know, all your transformers.
Their general belief is that like, if you don't affirm their pronouns, you're contributing to mass trans genocide.
Right.
So it's like, and this is, this is a lot to do with the politics, the politicians and the media.
You know, That's how they try to spin their narratives.
Super extreme, right?
So, uh, so yeah, right now, there's there's there's no, there's just not going to be much, uh, you know, meeting across the table, right?
You know, uh, there's not going to be a lot of people dating.
As a matter of fact, uh, I pulled up some statistics I could share at some point on Grok that's uh pretty interesting that that talks about how you know, people, uh, people now more than ever really are uh they're more politically divided, they're not interested in dating people with uh different political opinions.
Uh, and and they they're very comfortable with separating or divorcing over difference in political beliefs.
So, yeah, we're very, very separated politically right now for sure.
I love liberal chicks, they're the easiest chicks you could pull.
They're so easy, they're so easy.
So, I love them, all right?
But listen, would I marry one?
Absolutely fucking not.
All right, there's no shot in hell I would marry one.
So, hey, they're sexually liberated, bro.
They're easy.
Yes, actually, I will say this, though.
Women believe what they want and they'll change their beliefs for the right guy.
Okay, so as long as you're able to get them to like you and fall in love with you, they'll change their beliefs in a fucking heartbeat.
I've done it, I've seen it a million times.
Should you marry those type of girls?
If she's been a liberal for more than two years, even six months, she's probably been through the block.
So, you should probably not marry that, you know.
But women are very, you know, they're like clay, so they'll believe whatever they want to believe for the right guy, even more so.
Okay, dating without you're you're a dating coach, go for it.
Yeah, I mean, that's basically stole some of the words out of my mouth.
My toxic masculinity take on the subject is a woman will take on the views of the man that she's with.
If she's truly in love with a man, she will conform to his world views politically, religiously, etc., etc.
The reality of the fact is, most women today are liberal, and you can look at the voting numbers and it's clear as day.
So, honestly, I think it's our job as men to date these liberal women to take them back from the state, if you will, to sigh up them into our worldviews, right?
It's our responsibility.
We have to take our woman back from the state propaganda.
Um, it can be done, it can be done, New.
Do you want to expand on the point you had put in the chat that both of the women are feminists?
Yeah, I think uh, both these women are feminists because they both uh well, it's like all women are feminists to an extent because they all kind of like watch out for their own first.
The second girl was like, Oh, he's gonna be my future husband, blah, blah, this, but it's just like you could just tell through her body language how like she's like a nag and she's like, My man has to be like this, this, is, and that.
She doesn't sound like a fun woman, she sounds like my husband.
My children, uh-oh, yeah, you see what I'm saying?
Like, this kind of like energy of like, she doesn't want to get to know you, she wants a plowhorse, she just wants a guy she can put on the plantation and work for him while she does absolutely nothing and pretends to be Catholic all day.
We see it on Twitter.
I mean, you debate them all the time.
Those, those are the type of women, the Lila Roses of the world, the whatever.
That's what they do.
They nag men all day and then do 1% of the wife stuff.
It's just like, no, I could, I could easily tell.
I don't think first dates are for planning the future.
I think men should just focus on having fun.
And it's the relationship is her problem.
If you want to be a good woman for me, figure it out.
You're a woman.
It's your problem.
I'm Republican.
I'm right-wing, whatever, but I'm not going to try to convince you.
You have to do that yourself.
If you don't meet my standards, then I can go find another girl.
You can find another guy, really.
Aaron, what do you think?
Very much what people have echoed here before.
Younger women, the more attractive women, as you said before, they tend to be liberal because they're younger.
Most of these girls have been given this ideology because absent children and husband and marriage and family, what other God are they going to have?
And so they go with the God that schools gave them.
So it's, you know, feminism, rah-rah, girl, boss, and all that.
Um, but then when it comes to more serious matters, like if you're going to commit to that, uh, yes, the girl, if they, you know, this is why you should not, well, I will never date a Democrat or a woke girl.
No, go ahead, you know, as long as they don't got hairy armpits, go date them, you know, if you like, you find them physically attractive.
And then if they really like you, I mean, they'll throw all of that out the door, um, unless it is absolutely, you know, core to their being.
And in which case, they're not.
I will tell you this: woke women, left-leaning women, are basically antithetical to marriage because being woke, being left, and all that generally is parasitic and selfish.
There's they have no capability of responsibility, self-supportation, or selflessness, which is what love is.
And so, you, you know, yes, you got you kind of got to discern: does she have good morals?
Because all young girls are going to be Democrats, leftists, woke, whatever.
They're going to say the popular thing.
Is there a quality woman inside there who's like, you know, you could sit her down shore of the budget?
Hey, look, sweetheart, this is how really it really works.
Oh, yeah, you're right.
Okay, I was just phase or whatever.
But if this is the hill they're going to die on and it's become part of their actual moral fiber, not just a platitude or something they regurgitate to be popular on social media, you cannot.
I'll say this: it is to be happy and have a successful marriage, you cannot marry a leftist, a socialist, a woke woman, or a Democrat.
They just, they're not, their moral code is not compatible with marriage.
I don't know if you would have these numbers, but when you were writing your book, was there a difference in debt between liberal and conservative women?
I never pulled the data.
Okay.
No, I would imagine there is because only in SOFAR is liberal women tend to choose worthless degrees more.
And that's the number one financial thing affecting young women in particular is their student loan debt.
If and not to say there isn't like a sociology majoring Republican girl out there, but generally leftist women will skew towards your worthless degrees and have the debt and the um and the student loans that come with it.
So you would probably find a positive correlation, but it wouldn't be, oh, you're a Republican.
Well, you must be a STEM major with 300,000 in the bank.
That's that's not a good thing.
And when you were dating, did you find that any liberal women like started to adopt your beliefs?
Like, did you ever do that?
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
No, there's a couple gals.
Um, yeah, one realized, yeah, being a teacher is stupid.
Anyone can do it.
Um, some gals started, they would appreciate uh my hustle because when I was younger, obviously, like all of us, we were, you know, whatever, living in basements.
And I'd say, no, I can't do it.
I don't have the money, or I'd fix my own car or something like that.
So, your actions, which are kind of apolitical, they started coming around and like, yeah, this is or helping them with taxes was a huge thing where I'm like, yeah, here's what you paid in taxes.
I'm like, oh my God.
I'm like, well, you voted for it.
So, you as a person, as you date them through apolitical behaviors, morals, ethics, they'll start to, or just simple adult responsibility.
They will probably come along or at least understand.
Yeah.
But it doesn't happen.
It's not like the third date we sat down and read Atlas Shrugged.
And now she's like, oh my God, I'm totally conservative and let's have sex.
And here's the lingerie of it.
Then it took a little longer than that.
But yes, you can change them over time.
And Actually, I was going to ask you, Jesse, when you were dating or when you're dating, how long does it take for a girl to go from liberal to conservative if she ends up adopting your beliefs?
Like three hangouts.
They hang out with her three times.
They're like, how do we?
But one armpit shave washes a liberal away.
All right.
That's how it works.
Just really quick, before I go on, I think this is a really good point.
Women sell purity and they're going to catch on eventually where they're like, oh, wait.
Men want conservative women.
And so to automatically go in and assume, oh, she's not a slut because she's a conservative is kind of like a big flaw that you want to take a step back from, right?
That's how guys get played.
So take it with a grain of salt and judge her based on her behaviors, right?
How she treats us, stuff like that, rather than just saying, oh, she's conservative.
She must not be a slut, right?
Because I've been to those country clubs where they're all wearing boots and they're all conservative.
And I'll tell you something, they still get around, all right?
Whether they're conservative or liberal.
So don't base it off of that.
Base it off her actions and really do a background check on these women before you dive into any sort of marriage talk.
I want to hear from Spirit Chili.
I kind of wanted to piggyback off of what he said because liberal women do tend to be way more impressionable than conservative women because conservative women tend to get their views from their lifestyle and their youth.
I will say I did live in Portland.
I was a vegetarian for four years, a vegan for two.
I did have a septum.
I never identified as liberal, but I was definitely a Democrat and I'm from Democrat states.
I was an activist.
I did all of the things.
I wasn't necessarily liberal.
I never identified as liberal.
Don't lie to me.
You have the pink hair.
I will, I will continue.
This is red, first of all.
I did have a pink and I did have it purple.
I had all, you know, I'm an alt.
This is, I'm actually kind of dressed up kind of decent today because this is my first podcast.
But I do know that I red-pilled myself based off of logic and reasoning.
And the reason why those liberal women will tend to change their narrative and their perspective based off of the men that they are with is because they're impressionable women.
Who red-pilled you?
What creator?
Honestly, I don't think it was necessarily a specific creator.
Oh, well, I had a natural DMT experience, a special spiritual awakening, hence the name Spirit.
No way.
What content were you watching?
Like what YouTubers?
So it wasn't influencers.
It was personal experience.
I've been around.
I lived in New Mexico and I experienced Trump derangement syndrome firsthand.
I was actually there.
This was before I was supportive of Trump.
I was in the Trump rallies.
I don't know if you guys are familiar with what happened in Albuquerque, New Mexico a long time ago.
There was a big riot.
They put out tear gas.
I was in that crowd.
I was there for observation.
And I realized that something kind of clicked in my mind.
And I was still back in New Mexico.
And I eventually did move to Portland.
But that's when the wheel started turning for me that I did not fit in with all of this social media influence.
I didn't fit in with the narrative of activism because my policies, my ideas, my beliefs were more independent focused.
And I've always kind of been what's the black sheep.
And I think that's kind of where it comes from.
I didn't grow up with my mom either.
I think that's the biggest, the biggest influence is I did not grow up with my mom.
And I grew up with my dad and he was super hyper independent.
I kind of had to raise myself.
So everything I learned, I've just learned from experience.
not a lot of women get that and that's still in portland No, no, no.
I was going to say move.
No.
Actually, I left as soon as COVID happened because my instincts did kick in because I was a part of the petitioning for like psilocybin therapy and drug reformation there.
And I had some doubts with the drug reformation that did happen in Oregon.
And a lot of that when COVID kicked in, I knew- You have to say the cough cough.
Don't say.
Oh, cough, cough.
Yeah, you're right.
Sorry, I forgot it's you too.
Sorry.
Trust me, I've been demonetized.
I had more social media influence before I started talking about this topic.
So I understand.
Sorry.
But yeah, so my instincts kicked in as soon as 2019 happened.
And I left that state.
And I've kind of just been on the observation end of everything and just kind of seeing things from a broader lens.
So I'm going to bring you back to the topic.
Yeah.
How would you, just with that, take 20 seconds?
Do you think it's worth dating someone with oppositional political beliefs?
Give me 20 seconds.
I don't think it's worth it.
I don't think that's where your values or your strong characteristics with relationships.
We forgot one question.
We forgot one follow-up question.
How good-looking are they?
How good-looking are they?
The person with the opposite political beliefs.
A lot of people say that, but they'll put it aside when they see how good-looking they are.
Yeah, especially guys.
If a girl is like a high mid, a lot of these guys would start to snip and be like, yeah, I'm going to go to the women's march.
Or just clouded.
Do you see how many hot girls bang Destiny?
Oh, yeah.
That's true.
Okay.
I grew up around Man City.
I don't really look.
I don't really.
I think Destiny is the only cuck that outcucked his wife.
Like he cucked his wife harder than she cocked him.
So I'm going to move.
I'm going to move it on to, so now we can talk about what I know.
Look, guys, we could talk about men shouldn't get married all we want.
But in my lifetime, I think that the majority, maybe just below the majority of men are still going to get married.
So should a guy marry a woman who has oppositional beliefs?
And if he does, what is his life likely to look like?
So I'm going to share this real fast because I thought this was interesting.
One second.
Look at this.
My experience marrying a Trump supporter as a Latina.
Before I go into the story, I want to preface by saying that I believe there is a difference between a Trump supporter.
I married a Trump supporter and this is how it went.
Before I go into the story, I want to preface by saying that I believe there is a difference between a Trump supporter and a Republican.
He would constantly say things like, build the wall, even after I told him how hurtful and disrespectful hearing that was, because I came from a family of immigrants.
Because of this experience that I had with my ex, being a Trump supporter is a deal breaker for me.
The main reasons for this is because anytime me and my ex argued, he was always threatening to call ice on my family.
And the relationship did not happen.
Okay.
Hell yeah.
All right, let's go.
The relationship was very abusive, but I stayed ice on my family.
And the relationship was very abusive, but I stayed because of these threats.
I felt guilty a lot of the times for putting my family at risk.
He consistently used me as an example as to why he's not racist because he married a Mexican.
He basically treated me as an exception.
One time we were at his family's house and his Trump supporting family cornered me and harassed me about my political views.
Can we just stop?
None of this is true.
This is an attention whore with tits.
Just this, none of this happened.
I knew this.
I love how she tried to spin it like she felt like she was imprisoned in this relationship because of fear that her husband might call ice on her family.
That's great.
I love that.
Did you ever notice how women are either the heroes or the victims in their own stories, but 99% of the time they're to volunteers?
You know, that's that.
She goes from the victim to the hero.
I have a question for the guys on the panel.
How many times a day do you have to hear a woman say something and you have to just listen and think things that never happen on the internet?
No, just day to day.
Oh, it's so difficult.
I catch myself rolling my eyes after it's too late.
I have such an expressive face that I'm literally trying to work on not showing my disgust and my disbelief.
I'm actively trying to do it because I can't hide it.
But I think the most important thing about that clip is that the way she's speaking about it, it groups every single guy or whoever's watching it as, oh, they're all assholes who are going to call ice on these people, right?
If you're conservative, which is not true, right?
Even if it did happen by any slight chance, that guy's just probably a fucking asshole, right?
So it's like, did that really happen?
Probably not.
But why group everyone that, you know, that we would threaten them and manipulate them in that way, shape, or form?
So that's the real problem that I see there.
It's why is she grouping everyone as that they're going to take that action and just be very toxic in a relationship like that?
You know, well, once again, that's a real problem.
It's the female-friendly version of the story.
She's the hero and the victim at the same time.
That's why she's doing it.
I'll tell you this.
If you guys ever see me doing my makeup while I'm doing a video, I'm a liar.
Contact the executor of my estate and have them shipped off to Montana where I'll be euthanized.
But yeah, you can tell she's lying.
She's doing makeup on the that it's it was all theater.
This goes to this goes to show you guys that what women say online doesn't really matter, you know, like always watch what they do, not what they say.
Like if she wanted to be in that relationship and she stayed, or she, if she's in a relationship that long and she stayed, it's because she wanted to be there.
No one's holding a gun to her head.
No one's, I know, I know she had to add in, oh, but then he was going to call ice on my family.
I'm like, no, like that, that's not, no one believes that.
So it's like, you love that man.
You enjoyed being in a relationship with that man.
As a matter of fact, you liked him saying those things because everyone else was treating you like a princess and this guy was making fun of you to your face and you like that.
I know that because that's how a lot of Latinas are.
They like guys that are Republican or something because of this dynamic.
They love the colonizer dynamic.
So trust me, I've seen it with my own eyes.
I'm Dominican.
It's very common.
Women will complain about guys that are right-wing and then, you know, they'll be the victim, but they just cannot, they love the colonizer dynamic, man.
I've just seen it too much.
Have you guys seen that TikTok of the girl whose boyfriend cheated?
And so he was, like, Hispanic, and she brought him to the other side of the border.
What?
What?
Yeah.
No, I didn't see that.
He was, like, an illegal immigrant.
found out he cheated and then she pretended they were just going to a day trip and was just like oh just sleep just sleep it's okay kind of deserved lucky though hey um cappy we salute you brother thank you so what does so for a man what does what does his life look like being married to to a woman like this If I could chime in,
because I have a friend of mine who's getting divorced right now.
And he was kind of liberal when he first met his wife.
I think Pearl and Doug and B.A. vet, you might have heard this story, but my friend, he's a PhD in engineering.
He makes a quarter million dollars a year.
He's a good-looking dude, pause, you know what I mean?
And his wife won't give him kids, right?
And she all of a sudden is a non-gender conforming LDHC TV person.
And he's been trying to make it, he could work for like 15 years.
In the last six years, things have come to a head.
And now he's like, she didn't think she'd divorce him, but he wants to be a father.
He wanted to be a father six years ago.
And her and her feminist friends, I'm not a brood man.
You can't make me have children.
So now he's kicking her out to the uprights.
And that's it.
But she didn't think that he'd leave.
So that's his whole life.
They've been together since from 28 to 42.
And, you know, she just went all super far left.
They were both left.
Now he's a conservative.
But yeah, no kids, you know, LDHD TV, even though they live as a heterosexual couple, you know.
But it's just, it can't work.
It cannot work.
Basically, wasted his whole life with her.
It's like he didn't do a good job vetting her, you know.
Say that?
It sounds like he didn't do a good job vetting her, you know?
Well, they met in a different state in grad school.
And then when they moved to DC, you know, she started, her friend group completely changed.
So about six years in to the relationship, four years into the marriage is when she dropped the bomb, like no kids.
And then he wasted the next six, seven years trying to change her mind.
Now, I say, if you guys, if you want kids, you're with a chick, and she says no kids, you can't convince her.
Just get out, period.
That's the one thing you can't compromise on.
And well, I would say politics, two things, right?
But I would say that when he started seeing signs, he should have kind of bowed out earlier, you know?
So, because we had said how impressionable that women are.
So, once their entire friend group changes to more blue-haired, Septim Ring-Pierce chicks, it was just cooked.
That's that.
Yeah.
And a lot of people get forward.
A lot of men get forward because a lot of these women, especially in the Hispanic community, they come off as conservative, but really they're covert feminists.
As it turns out, a few years later, a few kids later, they promote divorce, and they need that child support and that alimony.
Yeah, it's the Yas Queen culture.
Latinos are very susceptible to the Yasque and Yugo girl girl bosses.
Yeah.
Well, here's how I see it.
Like, from what I've seen in my family, it's like they innately have the software or the hardware to be good women, but they are very susceptible to ratchet culture.
They're very susceptible to you go girl stuff.
But the thing is, that's why they kind of stopped dating Latinos because Latinos come from very conservative Catholic families and they don't really deal with that.
So they date other races because they want to be that.
They look at white women and black women like, I want to be that because it looks better.
Because being Latina is like, you got to serve your husband.
You know, it's very ingrained in the culture.
But all right, guys, I got to go, but nice talking to you guys.
I'll talk to you guys later.
Thanks, Profile, Meon.
Thanks for coming.
Yeah, I mean, he's right, though.
That's why Kosh Singh's wife's online right now talking about popping her pussy.
I mean, they can only stay so conservative for so long.
You know, it's too boring.
Such bad marketing for the Indian women.
I feel like Indian women have generally had pretty good marketing pitch at this point.
Yeah.
I mean, you know, white women have kind of ruined our marketing with like the transition kids and like the liberal feminine, you know.
But Indian women haven't had a real L in the media.
Black women don't need to say more.
But Indian women, they had decent marketing till now.
Now it's sober.
I mean, like when I did my interviews, I think that's one of the number one races that I would hear like the divorce rate mentioned.
It's like, oh, go to India.
They don't have divorce.
But now they cooked.
Cooked.
They used to be Latinas until Nuke just ruined it for everybody.
No, the jigs up on the Latinas.
They've seen what happened to Selena Gomez.
They get fat.
Men will forgive a lot, but they won't forgive.
And also, Giselle's Brazilian.
That counts as Latina.
So Giselle will just cook, you know?
Yeah, I mean, Latinas, I just, I can't think of any Indian woman that's like been terrible marketing before this.
I can't think of one.
Mandy Kinley.
Mia Khalifa now.
Isn't she?
She's Aaron.
No, Mia Khalifa is a Middle Eastern.
Okay.
Okay.
I'm going to go around the panel.
I want it now.
I'm going to do Aaron Spirit dating with Al, dating about people, Jesse.
Wait, your brother or a man close to you comes to you and says, I want to propose to this woman and she's a raging liberal.
Okay.
Give me like 45 seconds to a minute and tell me what would you say to this guy that you cared about who was about to get on one knee and marry this liberal crazy person.
How would that conversation go?
Aaron, go ahead.
I would basically say you're about to ruin your life by marrying someone who's parasitic and doesn't want to work who is not capable of love because she is woke or leftist or whatever.
And her god, her ideology is not you.
It is other people, Rando's kids, immigrants, criminals, anyone else but you.
And you cannot form a relationship with that person because, frankly, they're inhuman because they are not capable of respecting other people's life and time and money.
And me being a misanthrope, I just walk away at that because I've learned to be a stoic and not stop people when they're making mistakes because they're going to make them anyway.
So that'd be my 45-second pitch.
Okay.
I'm very stoic myself.
I would definitely not chime in in this situation, but given her of having to chime in with the situation, yeah, definitely she's a narcissist.
She's going to make a lot of decisions for you.
And if that's what you want to lean into, go forward, but that's what's going to happen.
But that's about it.
30 seconds, 10.
Sorry.
That's all I really have.
She's got a decision.
I'd say do it because you're going to do it anyway.
Yeah.
In this deep with the, she's Glutt Gluck 3000.
She's doing something.
I don't know what, but she's doing something right.
So I'd say you might as well just do it.
But I would get a prenup.
Best way to learn is from your own mistakes.
I just, you know, I'm kind of with Aaron on this.
I think most people are just going to do it anyway.
So, I waste my breath.
Don't get emotionally involved.
It hurts.
But say your piece so you're free.
Hey, I did my podcast.
Yeah, I guess I'd maybe add in.
Stop simping, please.
And then, you know, just move on.
You can do better.
Yeah.
Go ahead.
I would say, don't do it yet.
Your job's not finished, brother.
I would say, like I said at the beginning of the panel, you know, a woman will take on the worldviews of the man that she's in love with.
So if my brother is conservative, she's not ready for that ring, bro.
She's not.
You got to continue to reprogram her from the Netflix programming.
So I would say, hey, man, I know you like her, but job's not finished, bro.
You got to keep it going.
Hold off on the ring.
Tell her no.
Okay.
Men, this is where men get in trouble.
They and like he can have good intentions.
Like he's a nice guy.
He wants to be kind to his partner.
So he says yes to everything.
But women crave being told no.
And it's actually a great test to see if they deserve marriage, right?
Can they handle being told no?
Or if they don't get their way one time, then shit hits the fan.
Yeah.
Let's uh let's shift the word marriage to assets, right?
Do they deserve assets?
I think we thought about it like that.
We would shift our perspective.
But also for the record, if I become good friends with all of you and you come, you see me doing something like that, please shoot me in the fucking head.
Just don't let me actually do it.
All right.
The first thing I would do, though, it's something that was covered earlier on that's really important.
Vetting is a two-step process.
All right.
In order to be able to vet, you have to earn the vetting right, right?
So the first thing I would ask him is like, how many other women have you been with?
Because if he's willing to do that mistake, he probably hasn't been with many women.
He doesn't know how they operate, probably.
So I'd start there.
It'd be five seconds and get the conversation going.
So I could convince him not to do that if I truly cared about him.
Okay.
Can I ask something?
Or are we going to?
I just, as far as like the I was just wondering, as far as like the vetting goes, is there any like necessity, like as far as like dating in general, where you feel like that, that's your obligation?
Or, I mean, like, is that why you feel the need to waste the time or is that just not a waste of time at all?
It's the best investment a man can make.
Okay.
Men, men get better with experience, right?
That's why older men are more attractive, right?
A young man who has never had any experience in the world is worthless.
Right.
And the same thing goes with women.
So it's one thing back in the day, it was different because you had guidance, right?
From your family, like, oh, this is a good woman, right?
There's protection here and there.
That guidance is gone.
It's no longer existent.
So we have to seek that guidance on our own.
And a man has to go out into the real world and learn what's actually proper with women, what works, what doesn't, how he, so he doesn't get fooled in the long run.
So it's not a waste of time in any way, shape, or form.
Now, I'm not saying go sleep with every girl you meet, right?
But get an idea of how they behave before you get down on one knee.
So I wanted to ask, so, you know, we have guys out here who are who are trying to build themselves up, you know, using all the bandwidth to make themselves better.
How much is too much when it comes to vetting?
Because like, should a guy know how have like a set criteria as to how much time and how much effort before he starts going out there to vet?
Is there a such thing as too much?
Like, if a woman's a liberal raging feminist, but she's high, how much time should the guy put into trying to change this woman?
How much time and effort?
Just enough to hit it and then bounce.
I was gonna say, he shouldn't.
If she's that's a good point, are you about people?
Go ahead.
Yeah, I think just a couple dates, man.
I mean, uh, the thing is, like, you don't have to tell her everything that she needs to believe in the first date, but you at least need to let her know that you are a man of depth and strong views and opinions on things.
And therefore, she just kind of knows how to operate around you, you know.
But yeah, I think if my brother was, man, if he was going to marry a raging liberal, I would just tell him, I hope you're not too attached to your balls, bro, because they're going to be in her purse for a long time.
I can almost guarantee you that it's not going to work out.
And even if it does, you're never going to be respected again, and you're going to have to deal with her cheating every once in a while.
So, yeah, I just think I would, well, I tell him, you know, I'm probably going to have to distance myself from you, but that's probably not going to be a problem because she's not going to let you hang out with me anyway.
So, engineering women fool around a lot.
This is code for don't know bird fur.
Thank you for the super bird fur.
Engine woman.
Okay, I don't really understand what he's saying, but thank you for the super chat.
I will read it.
AJ, go ahead.
Yeah, well, if my brother had decided to be a liberal chick, I would just tell him, Be just be prepared to come last in your relationship behind Transformers, Palestine, all this other stuff.
They climate change, even that comes before you.
These liberal chicks make everything issues in the relationship that don't really matter.
You know what I mean?
Like, you know how many guys I know who are with liberal chicks, and they'll be like, Oh, you know, Milwaukee passed some anti-LDHG TV law.
And they're like, I don't care.
How can you not care?
It's like, so all these issues.
Sorry, keep going, keep going.
Sorry, no, But like, or the whole, you know, you know, geopolitical thing that these chicks know nothing about, they're going to argue, they're going to come home and you've had a long day's work and make that issue your issue.
It's like a lot of guys just don't care because we're working, so you will come.
And if she has kids, it'll go her bastard kids, the dog, Palestine, transitioning kids.
Yeah, but the don't you think conservative women do that too?
Like, I was talking to a conservative relative because it's in my family's mostly conservative.
And this relative kept going on about the food supply.
And this was like 45 minutes.
I just had to listen to how there's pesticides in the food supply.
And I'm like, I don't care.
I'm going to eat it.
Like, a girl's got to eat.
Like, what am I?
I can't.
I'm not going to buy your bullshit, like, anti-pesticide.
That's too much work.
I'm just going to die.
Like, I'll die early if I have to.
But, but, like, I don't know if I see a difference between conservative and liberal women that much.
I would say dating anybody, typically women who are super politically inclined.
Sorry, Pearl, this isn't a jab at you.
Oh, no, I get it.
It's a deficit.
It's not a good idea.
Yeah, you're walking uphill.
You're running uphill.
Yeah.
I wouldn't recommend it, to be honest.
Well, it's a really, and this would go for anything, whether it's politics, career, or any, look, and I'm not Christian, but she should have no other God before you, whether that's her career, her politics, right or left, which is why I don't believe any of these mommy soccer mom blog YouTube influencer types lecturing men about having sex and they're Christian and or, you know, TradCon wife.
Like, you know, or a classic tell is they're posing their kid.
You know, they use it as a prop or Pearl, you had that run-in with the gal who took the picture of her posing and it was supposed to be some Orthodox church.
It was all about her.
The girl needs to put you first.
And truthfully, the politics of the career or whatever else might truly come second, which would inevitably lead towards, if you want to get into political assessment, they're probably going to lean right.
But yeah, it's their behavior.
And like, am I coming first?
Or, you know, where we started with the comedian guy, and she's using him as a prop.
So that it really will tell you everything you do with her actions.
Kathy, you have to find yourself a vodka drunk in a public porter potty before the rumple mints.
No, I think drinking the rumple mints of the porter potty was good enough.
Someone put in the chat that you have to find a woman that can't speak.
Maybe there's like mute women out there.
They can still use fine language.
He'd cuss you out.
Yeah, but you can't.
You just, you know.
They can still hold the frying pan.
Exactly.
Is there a mute woman events in Dallas?
I'm going to.
You can go and interview their boyfriends.
They're probably the happiest guys in the world.
Okay.
I'm going to ask the next question.
What has been said on a date or dating someone that you're like, I can't do it.
No way.
Like that was just an immediate red.
They say something, they say something about a belief or a political issue and you do this right then.
Because like me, I'll start.
So like, remember when the whole thing popped off with Tiger Woods?
That was what, like 2008, wasn't it?
2009, something like that.
I met up with this girl in Portland of all places, and a white girl.
And we went to zoo lights.
It was in the wintertime, and everything went good.
And then we went out to dinner and we started talking about Tiger Woods.
And I said, look, like everything going, I mean, Tiger Woods is the greatest golfer of all time, and nothing's going to take that away from him.
And she's like, yeah, but he was cheating on his wife.
And blah, blah, blah.
I said, like, so what?
He's still the greatest.
She's like, I think that the PGA should take all of his titles back because he cheated on his wife.
What?
And then she's like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I said, but he's still the greatest golfer of all time.
And then she had the nerve to say, if I was black, I would consider him a traitor to my race because he cheated on his wife.
You go to the hit real quick.
Do you go to like the barking bin at Walmart to find your white women or where are you going?
It's called Washington.
Yeah, I've got good stories, man.
It's called a woman.
You've never been to Portland.
Oh, yeah.
This is back when I was in the northwest.
Yeah, but Portland is full of those women.
But yeah, yeah, yeah.
So, right when she said that, like, I don't right when she said that, I was like, check, please.
I'm out of here.
I went on a date with a guy a few years ago that this is before I had social media, like before I had the channel and stuff.
Um, and he told me he was a male feminist and he like talked about feminism for like 45 minutes on the date.
I'm like, you are barking up the wrong tree.
You don't know it, but this is not the right audience.
Is that even a real person, a male feminist?
Is that like a person?
I don't know.
He was in like law or something.
So I think like people in law, especially if they're like fresh in their career, tend to be more liberal.
I don't know.
I've heard that liberal men tend to be the ones that are just trying to sleep with you.
They're not actually liberal, but I don't know how true.
You don't say.
I don't know.
Maybe that was his strategy, but I was like, this is the wrong tree.
I'm like, no, I'm like a male feminist, bro.
I'm not like one of those agro-conservatives, bro.
Come on.
Who are you trying to fool?
Hey, Pearl, I let, you know, have like a dream catcher, bro.
Hey, I don't know.
I don't know.
That was the last day we went on, but I mean, if that was his strategy, it was the wrong target market.
I can play some Jason Raz on my guitar, bro.
Anyone else have any stories where you're dating someone or you're out on a date and they say a woman or anyone has said something?
You're like, nah, this is it.
I'm cooked.
Check.
Horses.
And she mentioned she had horses.
That was it for me.
No, more seriously.
I had one gal where we're talking about sex and she says, well, I believe if you're in the middle of having sex and you do, and she says, stop, you do one more thrust, then it is the arrestable offense of sexual badness.
And it's like, okay, yeah, you know what?
I agree with you, but the fact you brought that up, I'm just like exit stage, right?
And get the fuck out.
Like, I won't do that, but what else is going to land me in jail with you?
So that was a lead.
The fact that you brought it up, that's yeah.
By the way, I think it was like, oh, good for you.
I'm out.
I had a girl tell me about her abortion on our first date.
What?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
She was talking about her ex and blah, blah, blah.
Because we all know how these chicks love to talk about their exes and just be totally Massanders on the first date.
Oh, men, this, men, that.
And then she was like, and then we this and that.
And then after my abortion, I'm like, check, please.
Time to go.
And she was just nonchalantly just flippantly talking about it.
So, yeah, that was a time.
Didn't you without stories about it?
Yeah.
I mean, no particular stories, man.
Just after trash talking, their fathers, that's a big one for me.
You know, I got to be out of there pretty quick.
Bringing up their exes too much.
Yeah, that's always a no-go.
I've never had nobody bring up an abortion on the first date, but man, if they did, I wouldn't even pay the check.
I would say I'm going to the restroom and I'd sneak out and leave it with them.
Fuck it.
Yeah, I don't have any stories in particular.
If they're a nurse, I think that's a red flag based on my show.
If they use the term patriarchy, like unironically, probably should reconsider.
But on a serious note, I think a line in the sand here, like really considering, you know, is this worth my time at all?
Is I don't know.
Maybe you're not having this conversation on the first date, but essentially how she feels about Charlie Kirk and what happened there.
Oh, that's a good one.
Yeah, a lot of people we thought were like kind of normal seem to celebrate, you know, his death.
And he was really a moderate at the end of the day.
So if somebody's celebrating the death of a moderate, it's like, okay, they're too far gone.
I'm like, I'm getting up and I'm leaving.
That's a really good one.
I got a dip, guys.
But thanks for having me on.
Bye, guys.
Thanks for coming, AJ.
Hurry up.
Jesse, do you have any stories?
Yeah, yeah.
But one thing I'll say is when you guys are going out to meet these women, especially like the smart ones that, again, that's cell purity.
Last thing I want to anybody like listening to this to get played is when you're out with these women, try to be as non-judgmental as possible.
Oh, that's tough.
That's how you're going to get the real true colors.
Okay.
That's how they start talking about these stories, right?
But I do have a story when I was, I had this girl in rotation.
I was talking to her about her friend who was a bartender.
And, you know, we were just talking about it.
And she was like, yeah, well, you know, she slept with like 50 guys or something.
And, you know, what's that saying?
Birds of the feather flock together.
So when she talks about stories about her friends and like what her friends do and how her friends are behaving, that's a huge red flag because if her friend has done it, she's probably done it too.
Right.
So always take a notice at how her friends behave and how she's behaving with her friends and how she talks about her friends, the crazy stories they've done.
They could indirectly tell you what they've done through those fun stories.
Okay.
Spirit Chile?
Well, I've definitely never dated a liberal woman, but I know from my separation, my ex, he was my ex-husband, he was definitely a more oppressionable person and didn't have that strong backbone.
So definitely definitely need somebody who has a strong backbone and has their own beliefs, but you should definitely let somebody reveal themselves in dating.
But I definitely don't, I don't think that you could definitely, I know for a fact that I'd never date a liberal man because I don't really think that they truly exist.
I think a lot of that is performative.
So that's my only take as far as dating liberals.
I don't really have a whole lot of input besides that.
Unfortunately, I just don't, I don't date crazy, strong, opinionated people.
Could I ask you this?
Have you ever tried like going on a date with a liberal and then just telling them that you're conservative to see if they switch?
Be like, oh, yeah, actually, you know what?
It's not that bad.
And try to like pander out to you.
I tend to not date so much anymore because I'm a lot more reserved because of how polarized people are.
And I tend to just kind of stay away from that.
I will definitely pull that on somebody.
I mean, I know that I'm pretty abrasive with my points of view.
I used to have a channel where I talked about my views all the time.
So I don't do that so much anymore.
I kind of got a little bit quiet.
Maybe you should so you could start saving one liberal man at a time.
I, you know, I have been shadow banned because I'm so anti a lot of the things going on right now, but we won't talk about because it's not the topic.
So that's just why I've been a little bit quiet, but I'm definitely a vocal person when it comes to my beliefs.
I'm a woman.
I mean, at the end of the day, whether you're a liberal or a conservative woman, you're a woman.
You're going to be strongly opinionated.
That's just kind of how it is.
And I think, I think your best vet, I do want to give the advice.
Like, like, I'm sorry, I'm not sure what your name is, but you were the one talking about vetting.
Definitely let them reveal themselves in the first few dates because that will save you a lot of time and trouble and arguments.
Because when you are good at that type of questioning and trying to get the right information, you're going to spark some type of debate with a very loud opinionated woman.
And that might. put a sour taste in your mouth in the future.
So just kind of be level-headed and smart about your questions when you do do that.
It's already happened.
And I always say, I always say, guys.
So it's better.
I always say, guys, do not afraid to ghost these women, dude.
I missed a ghost.
Seriously, just ghost them.
Don't argue with them.
Don't try to prove any point.
Just ghost them.
I love going online and seeing them.
Oh, guys, ghost and it's terrible and blah, blah, blah.
Just go.
You don't have the time to explain to a woman why you don't want to talk because women want closure.
Even when you go out with them on one date or two dates, a relationship, they want closure.
Don't give it to them.
Just ghost them.
Don't even tell them what they said to turn you off.
Just leave and don't talk to them again.
I actually asked a girl once.
I was like, would you prefer for me to ghost you or tell you the truth?
And she's like, could you tell me the truth?
And I told her the truth.
And from that point forward, I decided I'm never going to tell them the truth ever again.
There you go.
What did you like the truth?
What did you do?
Wait, what did you say?
I was like, it was actually, I posted on my Instagram story.
It was something along the lines that, hey, it's just like, I think you're great.
I always started like, yo, I think you're great, but it's just not a good long-term partnership.
And I don't even think I'm, I thought I was ready for a relationship, but I actually am not ready for a relationship.
So I didn't even give her the whole thing.
And I had to bring to the case that she kind of grew up with no dad.
And I was like, and I don't want to show you what like, you know, what a true, you know, masculine figure is in your life.
I think that's too much work for me at this moment.
So I'll just kind of like go from there.
I really have to chime in here between these two.
I'm sorry, but can you please just take one for the team of women?
We don't, there's so many strong vocal women.
Can you just every once in a while put your two cents in just because they probably need to hear it from somebody?
I mean, you don't have to do it every single time because it's not going to work out.
Let's be real.
But if you put that in the back of their mind, it would be better for us too, because I don't get along with most women because I'm not.
Okay, panel, panel, ghosting.
Yes or no?
Aaron, go ahead and start.
Dirty rotten people, dating without ghosting.
What do you think?
Men ghosting.
Men ghosting?
No, if you said you're showing up on the date, you show up on the date.
That's just basic aspect.
No, but I'm talking if you go out on a date and everything's going along and then you just don't want to talk to her anymore.
You know, you show up.
You have integrity stuff.
But like, let's say, you know, you go out on a couple dates and then she says something and then you just, you pay the bill, you stop talking to her.
Yeah.
You do not owe her any more of your time.
No one knows it.
Yeah.
And you don't have to follow up with closure or I didn't like, no, you absolutely ghost.
And if I wanted to be retributive, I rarely had girls give me closure or anything like that.
So no, gloves are off, ladies.
We're going to start treating you like you've treated us.
So you see how you like it for a couple of years.
Who do we learn it from?
Right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Okay.
Journey rotten people, go ahead.
Oh, I'm pro-ghosting, man, all the way, dude.
Yeah.
Yeah, all the way.
To be honest with you, I try to run all my dates off as quick as I possibly can because I've kind of gotten to the point where I consider my successes to be the numbers in which females I can run off, right?
If I can just sit and running for the heels, I'm just like, that's time not wasted right there.
So, yeah, like first five minutes of the first date, I'm giving them my harshest views, my most offensive outlooks and worldview right out the gate.
And if they fucking run off, then great.
I can sit there and eat dinner by myself in peace.
No, but I'm talking ghosting.
So, like, let's say you've gotten past that phase.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
First dates, second date, or how about this?
You guys are together long enough where you take her to meet your parents and then you ghost her right afterwards.
Is that okay?
Oh, man.
No, I mean, if she made it to the meeting the parents phase, man, she must be something special.
She must be something special, man, because I'm not a get past the first date kind of guy.
But yeah, I mean, you know, but yeah, still pro-ghosting all the way.
Like, if the food's good enough on our first date where I actually stick around and eat, then yeah, you know, I'll ghost her afterwards, I guess.
Food's got to be good, though.
Dirty Rod, Dirty Ron, I got to chime in.
I'm a dating coach, okay?
You got to stop.
You got to cut that out.
You can't tell your most fucking radical beliefs on the first date, bro.
Oh, dude, it saves so much time.
It saves so much time, bro.
Like, it's considerate on my behalf.
Like, I don't want to waste my time, but I don't want to waste yours either.
You know what I mean?
So, just a psychopath, bro.
Like, you slowly bring, you know.
Oh, well.
A little finesse, brother.
A little finesse.
No, no, I don't know.
I can't.
Wouldn't it not save you any time?
Because women, we're women.
We're liars.
So we'll just like lie.
Yeah.
No, that's, I mean, that's fair.
I mean, most women that I've dated, they'll come off as conservative, but it turns out they'll be covert feminists the whole time.
Yeah, because you told them up front.
Then we'll just, now we figure out how to lie.
That's a good point.
I have a question for Dirty Rotten people.
For me, you know, not guys, we know that we're going to ease up.
We have fundamental foundational views, but we're not going to be living this like super red pill craziness in a relationship.
I would think that it's better to overshow and kind of pull back as you get to know a woman than like undershow and then find out later you're being yeah, absolutely.
I think that's where most people go wrong is that they themselves don't go on the first date.
Their representative does.
You know, I think, I think put all that, I think put your worst foot forward right off the gate.
You know, yeah, no, no, no wasting any time, dude.
Like, look, I'm not, I'm not hard up enough anymore to where like I'm that desperate to get laid.
Like, I don't, I don't care, dude.
I'm not, I'm not wasting my time, bro.
Fuck it.
Okay.
Jesse, what do you think about ghosting?
About what they're saying about showing too much on the first date.
You coach guys.
And ghosting.
Yeah.
It's actually funny.
I teach guys not to show anything on the first date because the way women operate, it's like they will look at you.
They perceive you however they want to perceive you.
They're into you.
They will justify the attraction to you.
Right.
And so a lot of times on the first date or the second date, women are like, wait a second.
I don't know anything about you, Jesse, right?
Or from my clients.
I don't know anything about these guys.
Like, tell me more about you.
But by that time, I already figured out everything about them.
Right.
It's kind of like a game of chess, really.
And you're trying to say as little as possible to learn as much as possible when it comes to this type of stuff.
Pearl always tell me, Doug and P, why do you keep talking so much on dates?
Why don't you shut up and get laid?
How many stories have I told you, Pearl?
How many stories have I told you?
I know.
I'm like, don't you?
You're already on the date.
Don't you want to get laid?
Okay, you're doing people.
What's the most of the things that you tell a woman on the date?
What's the one that's gotten most women to be like, whoa, wait a second?
If you don't mind me, if you don't mind sharing, what do you mean?
Yeah, well, I mean, especially if it's like a single mother, you know, because my thing is like, I'm not completely against dating single mothers, but if she is first five minutes, first date, we got to address that elephant in the room.
I'm basically, I'm going to have to let her know that, you know, I will be inflicting as much physical pain on her child as I see fit in order to undo all the damage that she probably did to it because she probably fucked him up or her.
Jesus Christ, man.
it's a child um yeah i don't know about that I think you're on your own on that one, brother.
I know.
I love eating in peace.
I don't think so.
Yeah, I don't think I've ever said anything outrageous in the first date.
I usually ask a woman what her most controversial political opinion is and see what she says.
And yeah, I've heard some pretty crazy stuff on the first date.
And then they don't have shame.
Men have shame.
We're too scared to tell people what we think for some reason.
Women, they just bust it wide open.
Or, you know what?
When you're having these deep talks, it's not like about politics.
I just think it's not that flirty.
You know what I mean?
It's not like, yeah, like, what do you say exactly though?
Like, when you go in and she's like, oh, I'm a single mother.
Do you just go, like, I'm going to beat the shit out of your child?
Like, what do you, like, what do you actually say?
I am legitimately curious.
I mean, yeah.
I mean, I mean, probably more like word for word.
Like, you know, when I said it the first time, you know, that's, that's pretty much that's pretty much like my line, you know.
That's hilarious.
Without a doubt, you screwed up your kid.
I mean, without a doubt, you know, more than likely.
I've seen some single mothers that are surprising, but for the most part, their kids are brats.
And I'm not putting up with that bullshit.
So it's either successful first date.
You know what?
When was the last time you had a successful first?
Oh, successful first date?
You know, to be honest with you, dude, most of my first dates probably, yeah, I mean, if you consider it to be successful, you know, I smashed.
But I mean, like, they weren't really traditional dates.
They were more like we met and we fucking smashed and when they just kind of stayed together.
So the other thing.
Yeah, it's been a long time.
It's been a long time.
I'm not surprised.
I'm not surprised.
But of course, I don't really date anymore.
So it's not on the first date or the second day or the third day, but usually before I get serious with a woman, especially in the area I live in right now, I ask them about their debt, especially student loan debt.
In the area I live in, women are getting crushed by their debt.
And so you have to have that conversation sooner rather than later, because in my opinion, a woman's debt is a reflection of their decision-making process or lack thereof.
But you can tell a lot about a woman by how much debt they're in.
Big time.
So, and then one last question.
I guess dealing with Al kind of answered this earlier, but I'm just going to go around the table.
Do you believe that women change their political beliefs if you're that guy, Aaron?
Spirit Chili, dating with Al.
Jesse, if you want to reiterate and then you're right in people, go ahead.
But Aaron, go ahead.
Will they change their political beliefs if you're the guy?
If you're that guy, like you're that guy, yes, that 80% of the time they will.
Yes.
Unless their true God is their politics, whatever form that might take.
But yes, they will generally throw that away.
Yes.
Okay.
Spirit Chili, go ahead.
Yeah.
I mean, like I said at the beginning of the panel, women are very impressionable.
So like I said before to you, just let them reveal themselves.
And you can honestly groom most women into being better people.
That takes a lot of time and effort, though.
It's like what your willingness is and how deep they are in that mindset too.
So if that's your boat that you want to sell, go ahead.
But at the end of the day, you're probably going to have to groom somebody to be your partner and they're going to have to groom themselves to be your partner as well.
So it takes a little give and take.
Okay.
I know that my aunt, she's super, super duper liberal and her husband's super conservative.
It doesn't always work, but sometimes it does.
It's just.
How old are they, though?
They're much older.
So they're there.
Yeah.
So yeah, younger, not so much.
we're a lot more polarized in our youth nowadays because oh yeah You know, I gave my stance on this.
Of course, they will.
A woman will take on the belief system of the man that she's in love with.
To take it a step further, I think to all the young men out here, it's our responsibility as Americans, as patriots, to date these women, right?
Most women aren't super politically inclined.
They're just default liberal, just because everything around them has the same message, right?
Their Netflix account, their Instagram, blah, blah, blah.
They're default liberal.
So it's our job to date them and then deprogram them from the state and reprogram them to more sane political beliefs.
So I just want to say, you say that most women aren't deeply political, but the problem is they get surface level politics from TikTok, though.
How do you deal with that?
They're not super political, but they have an opinion on some of these things because of social media.
So how do you deal with that?
You just like anybody else, just have a frank conversation and logical debates.
I think a great one to begin with is just the whole gender debate.
Like if you want to talk about your future with a woman and say, oh, you want kids, right?
I want kids too.
That's great.
Well, say if we have a little girl, so they relate more.
Do we want to dress her up as a girly stuff, pink, bows and stuff, and the cute little dresses?
Or how are we going to dress them up?
What toys are we going to buy them?
And then they're going to think like, hopefully a light bulb goes off and a flitch is swimming like, yeah, you know what?
My little girl, I do want to dress her up in cute little outfits.
So I think starting with an easy win, like the gender debate is a good tactic.
So if you could clarify your position, you're telling us that to save America, we have to sleep with these women.
Oh, yes.
Well, okay, go ahead.
Want to make sure, okay, yeah, we're here to save America.
All right, yeah, really quick, support them, have children with them, but it's it's it's more like flipping them because I think we all saw you know how they voted this last election, like overwhelmingly uh to the left, right?
I don't know what exact number was, but we have work to do as men.
If she uh, if she doesn't register as a Republican right in front of me, it's all facade, okay?
So, I will say though, if you aim to deprogram a woman, you're gonna aim for failure.
I would leaning lean into the grooming and the cleaning aspect versus just trying to be abrasive and change her, change your mind because you're gonna get a combative woman.
I'm just that was my only two cents for that.
Sorry, go ahead, yeah.
Changing your TikTok algorithm is definitely probably the hardest thing.
Um, you could probably hire probably like an Indian for like five bucks to just solely scroll and engage with conservative memes and reels, and that could probably work to uh to change your feed.
But um, outside of that, the real problem with women is that feminism now is so strong in these women groups.
So, you have like you know four chicks trying to figure it out all together, and it's obviously not working.
And so, you could maybe flip one, right?
But if the other three are always going to overpower with their liberal ideas and those group chats, it just makes it really, really difficult.
So, yeah, I agree.
It's going to be a team effort for everyone to flip these women around.
You don't have to sleep with them.
I don't think you have to sleep with them, but you definitely have to be attractive enough so they could start changing their ideology of what a quality man is.
I think, I think that we kind of pick whoever the best-looking conservative or liberal commentator is.
Like, I feel like more young women are conservative now.
Um, like, like I've noticed, like, there's more Trump supporters now amongst young white women.
And I think it's because Trump's more attractive than Biden.
Just like, just like as a person, I think more like charismatic for sure.
I love Pearl Davis, defender of men, how she destroyed Lila Rose, my Catholic sister.
Yeah, look, I've been telling you, I grew up around conservative, Catholic, white women.
I don't see much of a difference.
So, it's just my two cents.
Um, people you want to, yeah, absolutely.
If you're that guy, uh, you can you can absolutely tell her what to believe in and what her new opinions are, uh, but you got to do it right.
I mean, the only way to go is to uh got a date down and dating market value, and she dates up, she's got to look at you, uh, look up to you, and see you as a leader.
And uh, so yeah, it's absolutely possible.
You know, I've dated both, right?
I've dated uh truly submissive women that uh uh thought I was the greatest thing to sliced bread, and I've dated uh women that straight up really wanted to be the man in the house, and I'm telling you, if you do it right, uh, yeah, yeah, you can you can sway their political views, opinions, all that good stuff, absolutely.
Oh, wait, pearl, pearl, any last uh, any last before we close on that subject at all?
Um, yeah, I think women can be swayed.
Like, I don't know, when I interviewed a thousand women, the biggest difference I found in how nice they were was actually age over political beliefs.
So, like, if they're over a certain age, like 25, they're kind of cooked and just combative and brood.
I'd say even 23, bro.
23.
Yeah.
So, because like even if they were young and liberal, like if I would say a combative opinion or like a difference, like it was a debate show.
So, like the younger women would giggle and be like, oh, Teehee, I think this Thee.
But the old women would get angry, crash out and get mad.
And I'm like, I see why men like the younger women makes sense to me.
Okay.
Well, we're going to close it out because we just hit the two-hour mark.
I want to thank everyone for coming.
If you can go around and say where people can find you, I'd really appreciate that.
And then we'll put your information in the description box of this live stream so people can find you.
So we'll do Aaron, Spirit Chili, Diddy With Al, Jesse, and Dirty Rock and people bless.
Tell people where they can find you, please.
You can find me at assholeconsulting.com.
And then I got my YouTube channel, which is my flagship social media.
You can just search Aaron Clary on YouTube and you'll find me there.
Aaron Clary, let's go.
The man, the myth, the legend.
I'm on Instagram, guys, Jesse underscore Steele and YouTube as well.
Just look up Jesse Steele as well, and I'll be there.
Okay.
You're on mute, Spirit.
Sorry, I forgot.
Yeah, I'm spiritual.
You can find me on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch.
That's a hobby of mine.
You can finally add dating with Al on TikTok and Instagram.
I run, I'm a live streamer on TikTok, giving dating advice to kind of a call-in show.
I'll help anybody.
Eileen conservative, but if you're a liberal, come on the show.
I'll try to help you out.
We love helping people.
At Dating with Al.
Cool.
Dirty Rotten People, go ahead.
Yeah, so I'm Dirty Rotten People on all the platforms.
I'm mostly active on TikTok, usually live streaming, but I'm also on YouTube, Instagram, NX.
Just look up Dirty Rotten People and you'll find your boy.
Cool.
Thank you guys all for coming.
Oh, Aaron, did you go?
No, I'm here.
No, I'm not like, did you say your final thoughts?
Yeah.
Oh, you did?
Okay.
I can remember.
Okay.
Thank you guys all for coming.
I appreciate it.
If you guys could go follow their channels.
What?
Also, guys, Nuclear Cadillo is live now.
If you guys want to go stream his chat, he's talking about how to win cuffing season.
I'm going to put his, I'll put that link in the chat.
I think it'd be funny to get him to like 50 viewers or something.
So, you know.
Any final thoughts on the stream, my friend?
When I was younger, I thought politics mattered a lot.
I don't think it really matters that much.
I think there's people that have different political opinions that have good hearts and are good people.
I thought this especially when I did my interviews of women.
Again, I just didn't think that politics mattered that much, nor do most women care that much.
They just have these talking points they repeat from TikTok.
So that's my two cents.
But I don't date women, so take that with a grain of salt.
Yeah, I would say, guys, you have to, you know, I have met women that don't really have an opinion on stuff, and then they meet you and they'll be like, oh, well, I like him, so I'll get into what he's into.
But if a woman is a straight-up liberal feminist, dude, you guys, you don't have time to deal with that.
I know that they're saying, oh, you have to, you know, convert her, especially if you're young.
You got to build yourself into something.
You don't have time, guys.
So, you know, that's just in three hangouts, though.
You got to find his system.
That's not too bad.
Three hangouts?
So, yeah, that's my opinion.
Especially as you get older, it's just too much headache.
You know, you do get to an age, especially in your 40s, where sex isn't that important.
You know, if you get laid, cool, whatever, but it's about your time.
And don't spend your time with some liberal feminist who is going to go back and forth.
So that's just mine.
Yeah.
Fair enough.
Fair enough.
I don't date women, so take it with a grain of salt.
Okay, guys.
Make sure you like the video on your way out.
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Let me see.
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