Pearl Daily’s host critiques conservative Christian women like Allie Beth Stuckey, Erica Kirk, and Candace Owens for hypocrisy—benefiting from feminism while attacking it—while blaming women’s adversarial mating strategies for Christianity’s decline. They dismiss pornography debates as misplaced, arguing women consume more violent content (e.g., romance novels) yet avoid accountability, and claim men’s struggles stem from unrealistic Christian demands like late-life celibacy. The episode also pivots to weight loss, framing it as a skill requiring strict calorie deficits (1,200–1,500/day), mocking intuitive eating, and insisting mastery—like learning piano—reduces long-term effort, with their own 200+ pound loss cited as proof. [Automatically generated summary]
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Thank you guys for tuning in.
You guys can bring your time and attention anywhere and you choose to bring it to me.
So I thank you guys so much.
I think that I am kind of behind on this live stream.
I think this is long overdue, but I have a ton of topics to get into today.
Now, the first topic I really wanted to bring up, we have a couple things we're going to go over.
And the first is I want to talk about people being on the internet.
Now, I've said it before on this show.
I believe that being a YouTuber and a streamer is one of the best jobs that you can have.
I mean, I get to talk for a living, and you guys can listen and donate if you like it.
Do you know how many, how few times that's happened in my life where I get to talk and people are, you know, so excited to hear me talk that I get paid.
And I think for us talkers and idea people, we're all very lucky to be here, but we all understand there is a cost to doing the cost of doing business, you could say, the cost of being on the internet.
I can work on my own schedule.
I don't have to go into an office.
I get to do this from the comfort of my own home.
I get to wear what I want, do what I want, say what I want within YouTube guidelines.
And the cost is that people make fun of me.
People are overly invested in my personal life, you know.
People are mean to me.
People insult me.
They call me ugly.
you know, they, they say I'm not a traditional woman, which I never did claim to be, but I could see how maybe they would think that with some of the arguments I do make.
Um, but people can be very mean on the internet.
And I think that's a reality that as YouTubers, really, we just have to accept and deal with.
And I think as women, we have an especially hard time because we care a lot more what people think about us.
Men know that they're hated and not liked from a young age.
They're kind of used to it.
But us, we get on the internet and we're like, someone thinks I'm ugly.
And men, they just think, well, that's the default.
People always think I'm ugly.
People always think I'm ugly.
And with that being said, I need to call out some people on the internet that I think it might be time for you to log off.
I think it's time for you to hit that log off button to put the internet away because you can't handle it.
And I think Nick F is somebody that really shows people's true colors on if they are strong enough for the internet.
And I think it's really revealed that just a lot of people, you guys don't have it in you.
You know, I have three-hour hit pieces made about me.
I'm not even joking.
Okay.
I'm really not.
Oh, it's not this one.
I'll share this tab.
I'm not even kidding.
Like if I YouTube my name, and I haven't seen these because in all honesty, you know, you kind of have to have best practices.
And I, you know, I don't really watch the hit pieces on me, but I know they exist.
And if I YouTube my name, You know, like every time one drops, I get like a string of whatever, you know, share this tab.
Rolo Tomasi says he cut just pearly things off.
Um, Pearl Dalis, Davis, and the ant and the red pill to alt-right pipeline.
Two hours.
This woman did an essay video on me, but I think she's kind of fat, so it's kind of like, eh, do I care what a fat woman has to say?
Like, really?
You're gonna, I mean, I'm supposed to worry.
This love that look at her.
This is whose opinion I'm supposed to worry about.
I'm supposed to, you know, did numbers.
It's got a million views of two hours of my life.
Um, and I don't mean this in a way, uh, to how do I put this to make you guys feel bad for me.
I don't think you should feel bad for me at all.
This is the cost of being on the internet.
Just early things is a danger to her.
Really?
This is who I, you know what I mean?
And that's kind of how you have to put it into context.
Like, I am going to be worried about this woman with purple hair's opinion of me.
Truly, really.
Anyways, now there's this guy on Twitter named Dave Limbaugh.
Now, I don't know who Dave Limbaugh is, but it looks like he has half a million followers.
He says, a lawyer and an author.
More impressively, a progressive media titan.
Rush Limbaugh's even Euler.
So apparently they're comparing him to Rush Limbaugh.
I never even watched that guy.
And all right.
So Nick F is known.
I think we kind of have the same sense of humor.
He's known for making edgy jokes, right?
Now he's making jokes about JD Vance, his wife.
Okay.
So we're going to watch this.
All right.
Why would we let this fat guy who's married to a Jeet and works for a gay CIA Fed?
Why would we let him grow?
It's like so insane.
The JD Vance operation is in full swing, man.
Think about it.
Andrew Tate and Bronze Age Pervert and all these people for years, all they talk about is going to the gym, being a vitalist, fighting the Matrix, India smells bad, all this kind of shit.
And now they're all in favor of a fat race mixer who's married to a Jeet who named his son Vivek, who was mentored by a Jew.
Okay, whatever.
I'm not going to go into the J stuff.
But in all honesty, David, he said, anyone who's not repulsed by this evil lowlife, please do the courtesy of, oh, I guess this is Rush Limbaugh's brother.
Okay, whatever.
I don't know who he is.
I just came up on Twitter.
How can anyone approve of his heinous views, much less his low-class manner of expression?
I'm no prude, but I'd have to be a gutter rat to tolerate this.
And you know what?
I thought about I just thought, David, I don't know if you're strong enough to be here.
You know, I, you know, if you can't handle that, one, you can mute him.
And two, I just wonder, like, why are you here?
It's time to log off.
And Officer Tatum was another one.
Everyone just seems to be mad at Nick.
Hey, Candace, put some respect on Nick's name.
You want to call me out?
Sit, sit down, and shut the F up, bitch.
That's what it means.
Oh, this is funny.
This is funny.
You know, and Nick has that kind of show.
And above all else, you know, put some respect on my name.
And I hit the nail on my head at the end.
I kind of went off.
And I said, Look, I was 17.
What's your excuse?
You know, you got married later than me.
You got red-pilled later than me.
You became a truth teller later than me.
And you haven't gone through a fraction of what I've gone through.
And you and she wants to call me out.
That's what she texted me.
She goes, I'm calling you out.
And my response to that is, you have no right to call me.
And maybe it's time for you as a woman to sit down and shut the fuck up.
That's me, a man.
You want to say, make me a sandwich?
Okay.
This is me, a man, telling you, a woman, to sit down and shut the fuck up before you call out anybody else.
Sit down and shut the fuck up, bitch.
I'm so sick of it.
She's got her book, Make Me a Sandwich.
That's the book cover.
Her book cover is her sitting cross-legged.
I'm going to sit.
Her book is her sitting.
Okay, so now Brandon Tatum, and this is a guy with almost a million followers.
He says, Calling Candace a bitch in 2025, I just, I sometimes think these men must be hen pecked by their wives.
Why are you on the internet?
Why are you here?
Why, like, I just don't think you're strong, and I think it's time to log off.
And I'm really tired of seeing these men fighting on behalf of women's interests.
Women are the ones that police speech, not men.
Men talk it out.
Maybe they fight it out.
Women are the ones that henpeck and nag.
Why are you guys hen pecking for women?
You know, Hannah Cox is another one.
The bra problem is making Twitter completely unusable.
Right now, every single large conservative account in my feed is denouncing the Tucker Fuentes heritage racist grift and separating from them.
I don't know a single conservative in real life who would support that trash.
And yet, in the public square, Elon claims to have built, there are countless annots trolling those pushing back and defending the racist trash.
If you can't tell who is real and who is American on here, then it's impossible to gauge where the public truly lies on the issue.
My guess is the majority of the conservative base is on the good side, and the bad side is being driven by foreign interests.
But who can say?
Either way, the damage is done because now the perception is now I heard some dog.
Okay, is that there is huge support for this trash on the right.
And I just want to remind you guys: the law got this is all you're opting in to all of this, especially us ladies.
Like, if you're not strong enough to be on the internet, oh, this they have lost says it lost the audio.
So I got to stop sharing and then reshare.
Okay, this woman says, I will not defend this.
I won't debate this.
Sensitive.
It's just like my whole life.
I'm not surprised why women don't support me.
Women are irrational and sensitive.
It's just like my whole life.
My whole life.
Because I was always like the class clown.
I was always like bullying women.
And women have always been like simultaneously charmed, but also like, oh, stop it.
Oh, oh, you're so annoying.
You know, you know what I mean?
Kind of thing.
That's oh, it says my browser.
Could you guys hear that?
Could you guys hear that?
All right, don't play into this chat.
It's fine.
Can you guys hear it?
it's saying it lost connection to the audio.
Oh, you hear it.
Okay.
Okay.
You know, and so my number one point right now is what happens is men make something cool.
They want to share ideas or whatever.
And then women and simps just they always have to nag men.
And I just think, why are you on the internet?
Okay, so today's topic, we are going to talk about, and this is a topic I love, the trad con dating scene and just the general dynamics of religion nowadays.
Now, this is something I'm pretty familiar with because I did do 12 years of Catholic school.
And conservative Christian women, I just know like the back of my hand, those women tortured me growing up.
Whether it was relatives of mine, people I went to school with, your tactics aren't going to work on me.
So the red pill is undefeated.
I'd like to say, first and foremost, I am not red-pilled because I am a woman and I can't be.
The red pill is not tricking people into some kind of idea that you're going to change the world.
It's the study of human behavior.
Conservatives are selling you salvation.
They generally have an ego investment in selling you their religion.
They want people in the pews.
Liberals are selling you some sort of empowerment, whether it's LGBT, black empowerment, whatever minority you are.
But I am not selling you anything except the belief in being accurate, which you can support at theaudacitynetwork.com, 10 bucks a month.
So let's take a look at the female behavior of the week.
Remember for years, we have heard from conservatives that not all women are like that.
That's just those evil red pill guys and the sluts you guys talk about.
Now, they are trying to sell you on the dream and being able to order something that is not on the menu.
Family.
Family is not on the menu in 2025.
It does not matter if you want to blame weak men, crazy women, or the J's.
Family is not something most people will be able to get.
And that's something you can either accept.
Oh, it's my washer.
I was like, what is that noise?
That is something you can either accept or pretend it doesn't exist.
So you can either say, you know, we're probably all going to be single parents.
Whatever relationship I get into, it's probably not going to work.
We're going to do our best.
We're going to make a plan.
We're going to look at people that maybe made it work and hope for the best.
But you can either live in delusion and do make a wish and pretend that you're not going to be a statistic or understand that you probably will be.
And this is okay, right?
You know, some generations had world wars where they died in battle.
Our generation, our struggle is we can't buy a house and we can't get into relationships and we hate each other.
Women cannot be happy with or without men.
Conservatives keep selling you that if you just pray enough, you'll find a trad wife.
Now, here's the thing.
Men that aren't smart or have an ego investment in religion tend to get caught up in movements or groups, whereas smart men have a tendency to think for themselves until reality hits the men that aren't as smart.
Now, remember, when Charlie was alive, rest his soul, everyone was settling.
He was selling to you that you just had to find a good woman like Erica Kirk.
But anybody that's red pill aware knows that Erica Kirk was in her late 20s looking to settle down after getting banged out in New York City and in Arizona state.
We did not get her information from books or studies.
Again, we get her information from real life experience.
Who would you rather listen to?
You know, the men that said, I tried this, this didn't work.
It's kind of like somebody who did a study on how to shoot a basketball versus the guys playing the game.
That's the difference between a lot of the red pill guys and the commentators.
Feminism is using feminism is women using men's protector instinct against them in order to get resources.
Men respond very easily to shame, guilt, and their want to be a hero.
This is how we are in this mess.
Now, let's look at women on the right who are red pilling us in real time.
Again, the red pill is undefeated because the women in these positions are going to red pill men.
Christian women that are pointed to as conservative are crashing out in real time.
We're going to do a few examples.
Erica Kirk was sold to us as this Christian trad wife we should all look up to.
I believe that if Charlie did not pass away, she would have divorced him at some point.
Erica Kirk was half naked when she was younger, competing in modeling competitions.
She has a tramp stamp.
She went to Arizona State University.
She'd not marry till her late 20s, and she had kids in her 30s.
She was very public facing and even giving speeches at TP USA.
This is not to say that any of this was immoral or wrong of her to do, but this is not what they were selling you.
They were selling that she was some Christian conservative woman.
And the challenge you get, especially in religious circles, is they shame the male sex drive.
So you get a lot of sexually inexperienced men.
Because the question is, how many women have you slept within the past year?
And if the answer is zero, one, sorry, you're in the sexually inexperienced men category.
You're not in the category of men playing the game.
And this isn't bad or good, right?
But again, it's people commenting on basketball versus people playing.
It does not matter how much you watch the game.
When you go up against a woman who has an adversarial mating strategy to you, you are a mark.
This is the difference between the conservatives and the guy in the red pill.
In my professional opinion, Erica picked her mark.
Now, in the red pill, they have something called widow's fire.
Now, widow's fire refers to the intense and often disoriented surge of sexual desire experienced by widows, widowed individuals after the loss of a spouse.
This feeling can be a confusing collision of grief and physical longing for intimacy, including both sexual and non-sexual touch, and a natural part of the grieving process for many.
This term is used to destigmatize the experience and also this is the name for online communities for widows and widowers to connect and discuss romance and intimacy and dating after loss.
There's a surge of desire.
I mean, basically, it's a whole phase.
I mean, I mean, that's to summarize.
Now, while the conservatives are out here moralizing, we're out here describing.
And I have some empathy for Erica.
She is a young widow with two kids, and um, she probably feels guilty to some extent that she doesn't feel a ton of loss for Charlie, and it's very apparent in her the way she's acting.
Um, this isn't to pick on Erica, um, because I think on some levels, women have a tough choice.
We have to pick between who we love as women, which is Alpha Fucks, and who we have to be with, which is Beta Bucks.
Um, this is a choice men will never understand.
They are pragmatic, we are emotional.
Um, not all women are like that.
The red pill is undefeated because of all the people's wives, all the people who said not all women are like that, and there are still good women.
Their wives are acting exactly like that.
Women will run cover, and inexperienced men will defend it to no end.
So, this week, Erica Kirk is going viral because she's kind of we're gonna show some clips that are going viral of Erica Kirk.
No one will ever replace my husband, no.
But I do see some similarities of my husband and JD and Vice President JD Vance.
I do, and that's why I'm so blessed to be able to introduce him tonight because okay.
Now, men like you, Zesty, this is gaslighting.
This is all speculation.
Some people show their sadness and grief in weird ways.
My brother starts laughing when someone tells him something sad.
Give Erica a break.
They want you to not trust your eyes and your gut feeling because they're always running cover for women that won't sleep with them.
I don't understand it.
I don't get it.
They're not, she's not going to, you know.
Um, now, again, it's really obvious.
She was at the right age.
Um, I mean, she was a hot girl in pageants.
She probably had opportunities to date A-level celebrities.
She gets banged out by them.
Charlie's her bailout plan.
Now, women, it's not like we consciously think, oh no, um, I don't love this guy, and I just want to use him for resources.
But at some point, women have to make a choice, you know.
Um, he understands the fight that we're up against, and he can articulate that in a way that transcends he's an amazing man.
No one will ever replace my husband.
Okay, I see a lot of my husband and JD Vance.
Now, she's also getting super touchy with all these high-level men on TV.
You know, she's wiping tears that aren't there, she's got like a whole face full of makeup, she's wearing leather pants.
Um, now this isn't yeah, I mean, it's a little bit late.
I have a little bit of coffee, forgive me, Michael, you know, and again, this isn't to criticize, you know, she probably feels guilt on some level that she's not as sad as she should be.
I mean, what would you do if you're in a situation where you married someone you didn't really love, he dies, and now you have to pretend to be sadder than you are?
Yeah, you feel Charlie here.
Okay, you know, y'all are nasty for this whole thing.
Don't you have better stuff to do?
No, Mal.
That's why I'm here.
If you're not strong enough for the internet, you got to get out.
Be gone.
See him now.
I know you do too.
I feel them too.
Well, God bless you.
And God bless Turning Point USA.
What do you hope to achieve for Charlie and for the country?
Oh my goodness.
All of his wildest dreams for this organization and more.
He left me a blueprint in all of his journals.
But more so than that, I was his bulb for literally everything.
He shared everything with me, his vision, his dreams.
And I know now more than ever.
I mean, he was always a hard worker, but now more than ever, he's up in heaven orchestrating and sitting and strategizing.
And I can just feel it.
I can feel it.
And so now, Rad Pill guys, they know women don't accidentally touch you.
Have you ever seen women touch an ugly man?
No.
Hot men?
Yes.
Look at, I don't have an Israel pipeline.
I don't really know what that means.
I'm staying out of that.
I just think that if Nick has his opinions, I don't understand.
If you don't like him, mute it.
You know what I mean?
I'm not even like.
All I want is to be able to make sure we honor Charlie.
We keep fighting the good fight and we do it in such a bold and powerful way.
Okay, so that's one.
Oh, wait.
Sorry, I didn't mean to ex that early, but it was almost done.
Now, the next thing that's going viral on Twitter is, you know, her past is kind of coming to bite her in the butt.
And none of this would be bad.
Look at she's got a tramp stamp.
None of this would be bad if she didn't signal purity.
The problem is the women signal that they're different.
All right, here is her.
You know, this is the outfits she's wearing now.
She's the best in all the world.
Surely the best in all the world.
You know, she knows what she's doing.
She is my hero and the love of my life.
next one.
Hold on.
Where's the one of her?
Oh, do you know what?
Sorry, the you know, then she hugs JD Vance like this.
Now, again, this isn't like a close family friend.
And what happens is, again, sexually inexperienced bats.
So, you know, and I like Seamus.
I think I did a stream with this guy a few years ago, but he'll even tell you, you know, he's not out there slaying hoes.
He's not out there banging chicks.
He doesn't know.
And these guys don't understand the true nature of women.
They just don't.
They can't.
The same way a guy that's, you know, commentating on basketball for years will never know what it's like to shoot the game-winning shot.
The party of emphasis, empathy, geniuses is failing to understand the phenomenon of agreement, grieving widow hugging her husband's friend.
Yeah, you guys just are not beating the blue-pilled allegations.
You're not, I don't think you're ever going to beat it.
And this is why Christianity, to some extent, is really dying in 2025.
All right, so.
So, wait, let me go back to full screen.
Some tenants I see in Christian women.
Christian women have never seen an ounce of masculinity in their lives, and it is very apparent by their behavior.
They overshare online because they have no fear of recourse from their husband.
They shame men that are selfish and act in their best interests.
Examples of this are when Brett Cooper crashed out on Fresh and Fit, Candace Owens crashed out on Nick F.
These are women crashing out on men, living life on their own terms, because they're just so they're not used to seeing men live life on their own terms and they think it's appropriate to nag other people's boyfriends and husbands.
Usually their husbands are very feminine looking.
Motherhood is a side quest.
The purpose of their life is to do the show or do whatever on social media.
Motherhood is just like a thing they do on the side.
Oftentimes they very obviously have nannies.
You can see that they are not what they say they are by how they react to correction or being told no, there's a lack of humility, a need to be right.
All of them are like this.
They all overshare.
Every other story is oversharing about how they are different and not like the others, even though they are exactly like the others.
All of them claim if they sinned, they were tricked.
Now, this leads to Allie Beth Stuckey.
Now, Allie Beth Stuckey is going viral this week because she just cannot help herself.
She can't stop nagging men.
Now, Ali Beth Stuckey is a Christian woman, or she claims to be a Christian, traditional conservative that stands up for Christian values.
But the thing is, she benefits from feminism.
And in terms of her life decisions, she still made choices very similar to liberal women.
And her behavior really isn't much different.
She's the primary breadwinner in her house.
She's traveling all over instead of raising her kids.
She's speaking to and nagging men.
And we're going to watch the speech in full that everyone's reacting to.
And then look at the internet's response.
So hold on, share screen.
Feminism has failed women.
Okay.
So notice from the beginning, feminism has failed women.
It's not women's choices.
It's not women failing women.
It's this, they're getting tricked.
Never any accountability on the women.
Never.
First one, feminism has failed women.
Now, feminism in theory might sound good because it's supposed to be about equality.
And we like recognizing the equal value of people, of course, but in practice, it has nothing to do with equality.
It doesn't have to do with being equal to men.
It has to do with being the same as a man.
It has fed us this lie that in order to be respected, that we women have to talk like men, that we have to act like men, that we have to be like men.
And feminism.
But you and itself, you're taking away a spot from a man that could say the same thing that you're saying.
You know, part of if you really want to say, I'm not a feminist, then don't accept the opportunity to be a speaker at these events.
But they'll never do that.
You know, Brett Cooper, don't accept the Fox News opportunity.
Say, give it to a man.
They won't do that, though, which is fine.
I'm not saying they shouldn't.
But, you know, you're still benefiting from it.
Been advertised to us as pro-woman, but the ideology over the past several decades has convinced us, has attempted to convince us that babies are a burden.
Convince us.
A third of women are having abortions, and we're convinced that babies are a burden.
Babies are a burden.
Can we just keep it a buck here?
Children are a major inconvenience.
They're not this blessing that conservatives like crack it out to.
They're hard.
They're really inconvenient to your life.
Now, you could say they're fulfilling long term, right?
But let's got to keep it like a buck here.
They are a burden.
They are.
Like, let's just speak of reality, you know.
Women see them as a burden because they are.
They are.
Sorry, kids.
You guys are annoying.
Very cute, right?
They are fulfilling.
But I mean, my dad had 10 kids.
My dad's more trad than all of you people.
That's the annoying thing.
I'm from one of 10 kids.
Do you know what my dad said growing up?
He said, have less kids.
My sister, my youngest sister just turned 18.
He was so happy.
He's like, I'm done being a dad.
And my dad loves us so dearly.
He really does.
But the day-to-day, like the responsibility of parenthood, do you know what I mean?
Okay, let me continue.
Femininity is weak and gender is a construct.
Feminism has spent billions of dollars glorifying abortion and promoting promiscuity, and it's left each and every one of it.
It promotes promiscuity.
It's not something women want to do, right?
It was just, oh, women don't want to be whores.
They're just tricked.
Really?
Come on.
Every time we've whored, we wanted to whore.
Can we just, can we just keep followers lonelier and more broken?
Feminism laid the groundwork for transgenderism because you cannot get to a woman can be a man without first believing that a woman can be like a man.
Let me tell you the truth, women, that feminists will not tell you.
And remember, Allie did not have kids young.
She did not have kids between 18 to 24.
She still prioritized other things.
They'll tell you that your equality, that you're worth, that your value comes from their activism, their ideology, your ability to exercise your bodily autonomy, even if that means your child paying the price.
They'll tell you that your value, your recognition comes from the government or some kind of superficial form of representation in the media, but your value, your worth comes from the God who created you.
That you women.
Now she's coddling the women.
You are worth so much.
God, like, you don't have to do anything to be worth a lot.
God just made you worth a lot.
You have a special purpose and you have infinite worth and equality inherently because you are made by a God who loves you because you were made in God's image.
And your equal worth, your inherent worth comes from that reality.
It doesn't come from feminism.
It doesn't come from any political ideology.
So I just want to tell you that you can be strong and you can be courageous and you can be brilliant and you can be hardworking and you do not need to act like a man to do that.
You don't need you don't need to forsake your gentleness or your softness or your femininity to succeed, to be fulfilled.
God has made you a woman.
And the God that we serve.
No, I didn't mean to click it out.
Okay, so again, it's kind of like expert gaslighting because she's saying you don't need to be a man while being a man.
Okay, hold on.
I didn't mean to.
I didn't mean to do that.
Let me go back.
Okay.
Full screen. Fulfilled.
God has made you a woman.
And the God that we serve doesn't make mistakes.
He does nothing accidentally or arbitrarily.
He does everything with purpose and intention.
Now, in my opinion, Christian women are worse than regular women.
And the reason is because women that are actually godly, they don't have to quote scripture all the time.
They let their behavior speak for themselves.
But you'll notice with Christian women, they're always running cover on their reputation.
They're always quoting you scripture.
They're always telling you about what they did differently.
And it's just like, shut up.
God, shut up.
I don't care.
You're all hoes.
All of you.
Attention.
And your chromosomes, which were determined at the moment of your conception and cannot change, tell you so much of who you are.
Women, you were given this unique capacity to create and then sustain life.
And for so long, feminism has told us that this is an obstacle, that this actually inhibits our fulfillment, but actually it is a vehicle of fulfillment.
And we have to start seeing motherhood and being a wife as the high callings that they are.
Yeah, and here's the thing.
Again, she says this, but you know, the amount of effort she's got to put into doing her show, I know your first priority is not your kids or your husband.
Now, I'm not saying that's wrong.
People need to make sacrifices to make ends meet.
I don't know what their family's priorities are, whatever.
But again, it's kind of like you're saying one thing, but doing another.
We have to honor these roles as the high callings that they are.
But here's what I want to say, because God doesn't always promise to give any of us exactly what we want.
What I want to say to you women, that even if you are not a wife or a mom, maybe you will never be a wife or a mom.
Maybe that's not the road that God has for you, that you are still called to mother.
You are still called to mother.
Okay, well, now.
All right, so you see she's coddling the women.
Now we're going to get into the porn argument.
Okay.
porn has weakened men and you know charlie charlie was so good at talking about this and so good
Now, is she going to address the fact that if you really include female romance novels, all these Netflix shows that are basically cornos for women, and females' consumption of corn, women watch it more than men.
Women consume it more than men do if you include all those avenues.
Talking so courageously and sternly.
Does she address women's social media addiction?
No.
no it's always nagging the men clearly to the young men here's what we know about porn and why it is so detrimental not only to men although it disproportionately affects men porn objectifies women and children It commercializes sex, which is.
The women love being objectified, Allie.
Women are it doesn't porn doesn't objectify the women.
Women objectify themselves.
And I'm tired of this bullshit Christianity.
Why don't you hold the women accountable?
Why don't you stop nagging the men?
Why don't you watch your kids?
A gift from God for a married couple between one man and one woman, and it glorifies violence.
Women are the ones consuming the violent porn.
It's actually not even the men.
The really messed up porn, that's the women.
That's why I'm telling you guys, this Christianity, women like this are going to run Christianity into the ground.
They are going to run Christianity.
And the simp men are going to let them.
It creates addiction and shame.
It destroys marriages.
It ruins your perception of other people.
Now, she blames porn for destroying the marriages, not the women being insufferable bitches, not the women not having sex with their husbands, not the women getting fat.
Oh, it's the porn, really?
But why don't we talk about the reasons men are watching the porn?
If you're an insufferable, fat bitch of a wife and your husband watches porn, what's his other choice?
He can't divorce in Christianity.
He can't cheat on you.
And now he can't even rub one out to some random chick on the internet.
Really?
Fuck you.
Fuck you.
And that's how I feel really about Christianity.
You know, I just want you to know that stuff like this has, it has pushed out the most reasonable people from the church because Christians are just so unpragmatic in 2025.
And again, they shame the male sex drive.
They do.
People, it is the legal loophole for sex trafficking.
It is evil in every way.
Okay, let me get this straight.
10% of Gen Z women are on OnlyFans.
Who trafficked them?
Women are fucking trafficking themselves, Allie.
Jesus, like, God, this stuff just pisses me off.
Sorry, this really gets me angry because we're tired of hearing about this.
You have no right to nag men about anything, Allie.
You don't.
That's not your place as a woman.
And, you know, it's especially evil because you drive away the most, the people that want to be a part of the church the most.
And it will destroy.
Or sorry, the people that would be the most useful to churches.
You drive away with this stuff.
For life.
And this is what I would want to say to men.
And I hope that you hear it from strong men in your life: that men, we need you.
And we need your masculinity.
Nothing about what we need from women.
With women, she says, you deserve more.
You are valuable because of God.
God gives you this value.
Men, we need you to do more, men.
Do more, do more, do more.
I don't know, Allie, red are running all of society.
Is that not enough?
They built all the buildings, all the infrastructure jobs.
They pretty much do.
They make the money.
What more do you want?
And we need your strength and we need your boldness and we need your courage.
And we need those things to be harnessed for good.
We need you to be solid pastors.
We need you to be strong leaders.
We need your voice.
We need you to bravely stand up for the most vulnerable, to stand up for women and children and for the unborn.
We need you to stand.
We need you to do more.
Allie, men can't do more while you're actively taking their positions.
And I know the pushback they get.
Well, she was offered a slot.
What's she supposed to do?
Not take it.
Yeah.
Demand, demand has that spot.
Say it's not my place as a woman.
You know, it's like I grew up Catholic.
It would be like if somebody, I'm, what if they offered me the spot of being a priest?
Should I take it?
When it's not my place as a woman to do that job.
But she's preaching, you know.
She's a respectful ruckus for the things that matter.
need really strong men and porn makes you weak chivalry is not dead Virtue is not extinct.
And you, men, and your wife and your future wife deserve better than porn.
And what I heard Charlie say over and over again: take responsibility, work hard, find a Christian woman, a solid Christian woman who loves her Bible.
Where, Allie?
Where?
These Christian women don't exist.
Were you a virgin on your wedding day?
Because, and she was married in her late 20s, past the age of like 22.
I can't remember the exact age, but it was like she was 22 to 26 age range round.
Nothing wrong with that.
But I'm not these stupid church simps, okay?
You're not going to convince me you are 100% pure.
Who loves spending time in God's word, who loves to pray, who loves to go to church.
Find someone like that.
Women, be someone like that.
Get married if you can.
Have babies and lead your people well, men, because we need you.
That's the second lie.
Okay, so now this erupted a war on Twitter.
Everybody is crashing out.
Apparently, Allie Bathstucke does her show prep at night after the kids go to bed.
That means her husband gets zero time with her apart from the kids.
Very healthy marriage.
Recipe for success.
Allie Beth Stuckey puts on this bass trad wife facade while girl bossing around at events in her podcast and lecturing men on stepping up while telling women it's okay to be imperfect.
She's spiritually no different than the shit lib HR later who talks about toxic masculinity in the workplace.
Just feminism with conservative talking points.
Absolutely insufferable.
Now, then you get the women, but now, so there's a mix of people on Twitter.
You have the men saying what needs to be said.
Shut the fuck up, Allie.
Then you get the women coming in.
And this is from Keely, Kaylee Triller.
Allie Beth Stuckey is as conservative and complimentarian as they come.
No female pastors, wifely submission.
Nearly all of her activism is aimed at women.
I strongly disagree with her on plenty of sex and gender role, but she's undeniably a conservative heavyweight.
Then this last week, she had the audacity to tell men to stop watching corn.
The backlash was instant and brutal.
Men came crawling out of the woodwork, demanding her head on a platter.
How dare she presume to instruct men?
Overnight, the poster of a female submission became a covert feminist.
These are exactly what many of us have been warning about.
The misogyny in these circles don't just target liberals, it devours its own women, and it devours its own the moment a woman dares to step out of line.
So, what you'll see is the women will run cover because women, we can't give up this power.
We have all this power being on social media, we have all this power, you know, girl boss of whatever.
And instead of just being honest about it and saying, hey, I like talking on the internet, it's fun.
I probably like it more than I should.
we just, you know, we just gaslight.
Okay.
Then she reads all these bursts versus.
don't care um hold on let me do the latest We do not, Allie Bestucci, whom I respect, is wrong.
We do not have a corn problem.
We have a women will not assume their role problem, where men for six decades have been scolded for being men.
The brutal provocateurs are the brutal protectors we are designed to be, told to sit down and shut up.
It is time for women to shape the world in our image, not yours.
Now we have a matriarchal society.
Now we have castrated men, massive divorce, high crime, drug abuse on an epic scale, rape through the roof, birth rates falling to extinction levels, and 12-year-old prostitutes.
Women, in their desire to make all things equal, have become rather successful at failure.
It's time for men to set the world right as the godly sheepdogs kill the last wolf.
Okay, let me get some of the other ones.
Hold on.
Now, oh my gosh, I did it again.
Now, what happens is what you can see, when you can really see what a woman's about, is how does she react when she's offended?
Now, I want you to know that I think that's the number one tell of women.
It's not really political beliefs.
I don't think that means a ton.
It's really when she is corrected or offended, how does she react?
Does she crash out or does she accept the correction?
And it's interesting because Allie Bestucki, who's arguing that women should be teachable and have a gentle spirit, she actually crashes out when men do correct her, when they say, hey, we don't want to hear this from you.
Can you stop nagging us about porn?
Can you just stop?
We don't want to hear it from you.
And she could have option A said, oh, you know what?
She could have like taken a step back and said, hey, you know what?
Maybe I was in the wrong.
Maybe men don't want to hear from me.
Maybe I should talk more about women.
That was option A.
She could have had a gentle, teachable spirit.
Or B, she could have gaslit and crashed out.
what do we think that she chose?
Most of this speech is about how feminism has infected the minds of women and how there's a better, more fulfilling direction women should go.
If you'd like a lecture, I'll give it to you.
Don't nitpick speeches without looking at the context.
This is part of my talk about how porn is weak in men and how men's masculinity and strength is good and necessary and should be channeled towards better things than cheap sexual objectification.
Allie.
So was there any, she could have stepped back and said, you know what?
Maybe I was wrong.
Or she could double down and she just doubled down.
And it's just, you know, it's just incredible.
It's just incredible.
So then a man comes in and says, men, we need you, proceeds to talk instead of stepping down for a man to leave.
These girl bosses are stuck.
These girl bosses suck up all the funds and oxygen that qualified men could be using to make a public stand.
Then what does she do?
She gaslights more.
No one is stopping you or anyone else from speaking or leading.
I know many of you imagine that if I stopped speaking, suddenly you'd have a bigger platform.
That's a fantasy.
That's not how it works.
If you have something to say that people want or need to hear and have the ability to convey it well, you will have an audience no matter how many other commentators are out there.
If you don't, you won't.
So this is again, she thinks that she's really special and awesome.
And that's why she has this platform, that she's really good at what she does.
It's just not true.
Women, we're just, we have an easier time on social media.
So we just kind of get platforms for not doing very much.
And then the problem is we get this big ego like she's getting where she thinks she's really smart, but she's not that smart.
And it's really apparent to everybody.
You know, it's not like she's this awesome, entertaining personality.
She doesn't.
She's okay, but it's really just pretty blonde girl says conservative talking points.
It's kind of, she's kind of like a clone of Tommy Lauren, Brett Cooper.
They're all kind of the same, right?
Turning point asked me to speak.
Charlie asked me to speak as they have many times over the years.
So many of y'all who y'all hate who Charlie championed and champion who Charlie hated.
Yeah, Allie, but here's the thing.
Charlie was a simp.
You know, he was a good man, but he was a simp.
So, you know, just because he championed you, it doesn't really mean much to me, if I'm being honest.
Here's another guy coming at, at, at Allie.
And again, she could go back and say, you know what, guys, you know, let me think about what you guys said.
She just can't help herself.
She will find a way to preach to men.
She's a feminist in the conservative garb.
Men counsel men, period.
Men preach to men, period.
Me at a campus event, men, you are necessary.
We need your strength.
We need you to be strong leaders and solid pastors.
You are better than porn.
Unhinged critics.
This is feminism.
Women just cannot read the room.
She can't.
At LSU, I explained five of the most controversial truths Charlie taught.
Feminism has failed women.
So it's not women being whores.
It's feminism failing women.
Remember, none of the accountability is on women.
Porn is weakened men.
Remember, again, even though women consume more porn if we include romance novels than men, it's still the men are watching the porn.
Merit Trump's DEI: America is a Christian nation.
Jesus is the only way to heaven.
Then you get Liz Wheeler.
It's kind of like an Allie Bethstucke clone, if I'm being honest.
The women, the women in the simps will always run cover for this stuff.
It's weird.
And this is why men walk away.
They just see it's a clown show.
Every religion has this.
And I'm really tired of people selling their religion as not having this.
Catholics, I grew up around you guys.
You have it.
Orthodox, I know people in the Orthodox faith.
You guys have these same problems.
Oh, but it's to a lesser degree, not by much.
Really, not by much.
It's weird to see to falsely accuse Allie Bethstucke of being a feminist.
Allie is obedient to Jesus, submits to the headship of her husband and their happy marriage, and strictly limits her working hours to be present to her children whom she adores.
She elevates masculinity and celebrates femininity.
Contrast that with feminists who hate men, hate women, hate marriage, hate God, hate children, are promiscuous and money-seeking, unstable, refuse to tend their homes and outsource their children, child care to strangers.
They pay.
Okay, when she's traveling, who's watching these kids?
Husbands are your wife.
You know, this absurd claim comes from a pastor that women shouldn't speak publicly certainly contradicts the Bible.
Should Mary Magdalene not have proclaimed Jesus' resurrection to the apostles?
Should she have stepped aside so a man could do it?
Sometimes it seems these so-called pastors are triggered not by actual Allie, but by the truth she's speaking.
So, again, women will always find a way to manipulate the Bible to do whatever they want, whatever's convenient.
Here's another woman: the comments show you that when you speak against porn, the golden calf men get angry.
Be easy on them.
They've bonded with it as they should have bonded with a wife.
They hate anything that gives men power.
Porn gives men power to some degree because when the wife's nagging them, they can just say, I'm going to rub one out, you stupid bitch.
Mal, you're just simping too much.
I'm banning you from the chat.
You're in a timeout right now.
You're just simping.
I just can't, I can't take this simping.
Why don't you go defend a woman who will sleep with you?
Please, God.
And then we got Lila Rose, who's another one.
This is a false representation of Allie's speech.
The majority of her messaging is woman-specific, cheering you on.
And you guys are the same people that had Nala Ray on all your podcasts.
So she crashes out for like two days straight saying how she wasn't wrong.
Oh, $5 super chat.
You're very attracted.
Not hitting, but wow, stop hitting us.
Yes, that is hitting on me.
That is hitting on me.
That is.
I mean, stop at one.
I'm a mid.
I know I'm a mid.
I'm not that attractive.
I'm like, I'm like an ugly post-wall woman.
Okay.
So, you know, so stop it.
You know what I mean?
It's just like, please, you're giving me money for what?
For what?
Go that should have been used to buy a girl a drink at the bar.
That at least, oh, I'm an eight now.
So you need to go see hotter women because I'm certainly not an eight.
I'm certainly not.
oh my god oh i'm better than med Yeah, well, then why don't I?
Why don't I?
Why do I have to work?
I'm a six.
Yeah, that's generous.
Generous.
Okay.
It was a woman.
You gave me energy on this app today.
If you want to lead, lead.
If you want to speak up, speak up.
You're worth following and listening to.
People will.
If you're not, they won't.
Again, it's they get this big ego.
I know I'm here pretty much because I'm a woman.
And somebody's got to come at these other women because they get way too big of egos.
I got to tell them that they're mid.
You know, somebody's got to do it.
Somebody's got to nag these other women.
But, you know, I just like to say I'm not that special.
I'm not, I'm entertaining to some degree for a woman, but it's still for a woman.
I'm not the smartest, you know, I could be better in a lot of ways.
But I just, I don't really have an ego like that.
You know, I really don't.
I've never had a huge ego, but it's just very obvious that none of these women have soft, teachable spirits.
I'm not even saying I do, but we got to, you know, this whole argument of, oh, if you're really good at your job, people will follow you if you're really smart.
That's just not true.
Rolo Tomasi is smarter than me in every way.
Ryan Stone, those guys nuke.
I mean, they're all smarter than me.
They know the material better.
I have more followers.
I, you know, I kind of have a more commercial look than them because I have a more trustworthy face.
I was really described this actually.
My face apparently is very high in the trustworthiness because I'm not too hot.
And that's good for conservative media.
I actually had a, I had not my man, he's not actually my manager.
Rolo Tomasi always spreads this lie about me that I have a manager.
I don't.
But, but I was actually told he thought I would be famous because I had the right look because the other, he compared me to another chick and he said, she's too hot to be that famous in the conservative sphere.
And she was pretty hot.
She was much hotter than me.
She was.
And that's the problem.
All these women get these huge egos.
But to be honest, my boyfriend says I have a big ego sometimes.
So maybe, maybe I do.
You know, sometimes he's like, and I think it's because he knows this material so much better.
It's not really fair that my following's bigger than, you know, it's not really fair.
You know, because it's kind of like, why do men follow me?
I haven't even ever taken a woman on a date.
Pearls of four at best.
Thank you.
That's really, I think, where I stand.
Rolo isn't at all that smart.
Pearl will call it simping, but she's smarter than Rolo when it comes to religion and politics.
Oh, no, I'm not.
I'm definitely not smarter than him.
But I'll tell you what it is.
He is stupid when it comes to certain things.
Like, I remember when he, there was a few years ago through the grapevine.
I knew about he got like set up by Brittany Venti because they sent him like fake abortion documents.
I think he got real ones too.
I don't know.
But it was basically some nurse came to him and gave him like Lauren Southern's abortion documents, allegedly.
And I remember telling our mutual friend that that was a setup.
There's no way someone would violate HIPAA.
No way.
Some random streamer.
No way.
And then he went on stream and showed the like fake email that Brittany Venti and he ended up looking kind of dumb.
Now, I think she really did abort Destiny's baby to some degree.
But he's like kind of dumb, but like smart.
I don't know if that makes sense.
I don't know if that.
Yeah, you know, that would get you in serious trouble with HIPAA.
Yeah, and he's got to stop talking about how he should be more famous.
He probably should be.
But it's, you know, Rolo, you're just not, you just don't have that like it factor.
You're not that like, and I, I'm a big fan of him, but you just, you're not the, I don't know how to put it.
You're just not that likable.
Like, like, I just can't, you know, if I showed your stream to like intelligent men that I know, like the richest ones, and they would look at you and you talk for 20 minutes about how you should be more famous.
They're just going to think you're an idiot, anyways.
You should talk about Nick F and how he thinks he is special when it comes to women.
No, Nick's going to have the same problems.
Again, Nick can't really talk about it because I don't think he's ever really taken women on a date or like that, you know.
So again, he's still a guy commenting on dating instead of like the dating.
Nothing short of a Christian Taliban who can lead to any meaningful change.
Any Christian women not calling for this are either controlled, opposition, limited hangout, or self-serving.
I know, I love Rolo.
I really do, but I just, how do I put this?
I know he's just got a, I hope he gets his Nick will get Steven Crowder treatment.
Yeah, he will.
I thought about something that women are better at than men.
Qui fa.
I don't know what that is.
Yeah, you know, I hope Rolo one day gets over his obsession with me.
You know, and I'm not one to say that lightly, but he's done a lot of streams on me.
And Rolo, you know, I really only offered you my friendship.
I understand you were upset with the Nick.
I put him on a stream with Nick F because I asked him if I could bring other YouTubers on.
He said, yeah.
And Nick F's a YouTuber.
Now, he saw it as a setup.
And I really, I didn't really understand why he saw it that way because I really did defend Rolo.
I really did on this stream that we all did together.
And it's been years, and he just has not let it go.
I'm like, Rolo, you gotta, you gotta move on.
We didn't even date, you know.
We didn't even like, you'd think we like hooked up or something with the way that you just spurred at me.
You gotta, you gotta, um, you gotta get over it, my guy.
I get it, you know, I'm an attractive woman, mid, but attractive, you know, for, you know, for America.
And, but you got to let it go.
You know, you gotta, you gotta move on.
I beg you.
Now, another thing that you get from these conservatives is they always think they're changing the world because they get Instagram messages.
Now, I don't really think, because Allie Bestucky, she's going to say, you're a feminist making a speech.
How dare you say porn is bad?
Instagram, thank you for changing my mind about hormonal birth control.
Here's a sonogram picture of our new baby.
Now, people, again, YouTubers get these big heads and they get these big heads because they think everybody that messages them, like they take credit for all the changes.
Like if some, you know, I've had a lot of people message me and say, oh, you were responsible for me losing weight for my husband, or you were responsible for this, this, or this.
The only person I'll take credit for for being responsible for their weight loss or any change in their life is my little sister.
She was a blue-haired, fat feminist, and I did fix her.
I did.
I spent a lot of time with her and I did that.
That's the only one I'll take credit for because I think people seek the information they want.
My sister, I did shove it down her throat.
I did.
And I always want better for my sister than I, you know, some of the fuck ups I've done in life.
I really try to warn her and give her better information.
And that I did shove down her throat.
I really, in my heart of hearts, I shoved it down her throat.
I really did.
I did.
And, but everybody else, you know, you found the information you wanted.
So if you found me, you wanted conservative channels.
It was on you.
You're a solid six for me with the red hair.
I agree that Rolo is very informed and educated.
He's great, but he needs to cool out a bit.
I know.
I just, I need you to, and you know, it's crazy.
I tell everybody to buy his book.
If he was smarter, like, you know what I mean?
He's just a little bit emotional.
It's like, if you were smarter, I actually would have worked with you and funneled people towards your book.
You could have used me for marketing.
Oh, but and like, do you know what's so crazy?
I wanted him to mentor me so, but you don't even, I could give you a list.
I'm going to list out.
I traveled across the country.
I paid all this money to go interview him a few years ago.
He canceled on me a few days before and said he had COVID.
And then within a week, he was filming with someone else.
You know, I don't, forgive me if I'm a little hesitant and I don't think he had COVID.
And then he's like, Pearl's a hater.
I'm like, I don't know.
I just, I don't really believe that you had COVID.
I don't.
sorry.
You know, and like, I remember his dog died.
And I sent him money for the surgery for his dog.
He sent it back.
I was like, all right.
I raised like 15 grand for his friend who was dying.
And he refused to show up to the fundraiser and even see his dying friend.
I mean, I don't.
And then he's like, Pearl's a terrible person.
I'm like, I just, and I don't do it for the recognition, but I'm, you know, I didn't get anything out of raising money for your friend.
Your friend was just really nice to me before he died.
15 grand I raised.
And by the way, I haven't even raised enough money for my divorce documentary.
By the way, by the way.
By the way, that was while I was demonetized.
I was hurting for money.
It wasn't like I got, but he's just had this fixation on me for years.
Rolo published books before it was cool 20 years ago, and he's salty.
I get it.
I understand it.
I really do understand it.
I understand that.
Like, I understand it.
But I'm like, Rolo, if you were a little bit, if I were you, I would have just worked with me.
And, you know, as a funnel, but you know, whatever, whatever.
He's a cra.
Sorry.
This really hurt my feelings when I was younger.
Now I don't care.
Now I don't care.
I've gotten a little older, but when I was younger, I was very hurt by this.
I think I actually, I really cried the first time he made a video about me.
I was so hurt.
I wasn't strong enough for the internet.
I know, Pearl, get over Rolo.
It's been years.
I can't get over him.
He's just got my heart.
Sorry.
Okay.
Pearl, some people you can't reach.
I like you both.
I know.
I know.
Okay.
And I remember, and then he was going around telling everybody I was on, I was a Daily Wire employee.
And I'm like, really?
I'm losing a lot of money right now.
That would be really nice.
I would love to be, anyways.
All right.
So back to the so, anyways, we're going back to the porn argument.
Allie Beth Stuckey has never had an ounce of masculinity in her life.
That's why she is reacting the way that she is.
She outearns her husband.
She travels for work and she clearly does not take correction from men.
When it comes to porn, women watch more violent porn than men.
If we include romance novels, women watch more porn than men.
If we include Netflix shows that may as well be pornos, women watch more porn than men.
There's no accountability on the women for blame.
There's no accountability on women for creating the porn.
And actually, we blame the men for objectifying them instead of them getting naked to be objectified.
Getting naked comes first.
They can't rape us.
You know what I mean?
They can't legally traffic us.
We get naked first.
There's no emphasis on women having sex with their husbands.
They just blame men for watching porn.
There's no emphasis on women being hot for their husbands.
Christianity is done, not just the non-denominational ones, all of them.
When it comes to Erica Kirk, why is a woman who's supposed to be mourning, acting so thirsty?
Christian men are in unhappy marriages because they punish women that opt out of their mating strategy for theirs.
Women that make you wait for sex, the sex is not worth the wait because she does not desire it to some level.
As much as we try to suppress it, we are slaves to our biology.
You can see this because even the men that are celibate and the women that are celibate, they watch porn or some sort of outlet.
This is why you even see pastors and priests succumb to their morality.
They may preach one thing, but they do another.
And to some degree, I think Christian men want to be cucked.
It's not reasonable to ask people to wait for sex till their late 20s and 30s.
Most people can wait till they're 18 or 20, but most people cannot wait until they're late 20s.
Oh, yeah.
And on top of that, women are currently advertising on social media.
They have open, open Instagrams while being married and the
red pill remains undefeated, because the women in conservative media will red pill you faster.
Oh my gosh, wait.
Holy crap.
Wait.
Wait, wait, wait.
She charges 30 grand?
Holy crap, 30 grand.
That's crazy for God's word.
No one red-pilled me faster than Tommy Lauren.
Should I drop an OnlyFans and red-pill you guys even faster?
I'm just kidding.
Why would a man pay to get lectured?
It's all about money, baby.
Yeah, you know, they say they care about their families, but when it comes down to it, they use their families to build their brand and they never put it away when they have the children.
Brett Cooper doesn't.
Allie Beth Stuckey doesn't.
None of them.
None of them.
I should do OnlyFans use the money for the divorce documentary.
Well, is there anything else you guys want me to react to?
I kind of got through all my talking points today, but I'm kind of having fun.
You know, I might do a segment right now on the I kind of wanted to do a segment on losing weight because I used to be a fat ass.
And I don't like the current weight loss stuff.
Although it's not like I have a great body, like I could be a little thinner.
So maybe I shouldn't talk about this.
But I think the way that people go about losing weight is like, I was on a nectar dating video.
If it has more than like maybe.
No, I have done no Ozempic or anything.
But what annoys me about the fitness community is when you go to personal trainers, it's like they want you to do everything at once.
They want you to do mobility.
They want you to learn to lift.
They want you to like, okay, if you're fat, you need to learn to eat, in my opinion, before you need to learn to lift.
And I always, I learned to work out before I learned to eat healthy.
So if you're fat, there's probably a few skills that you lack in.
You probably eat too many carbs.
You probably eat too much sugar.
And you probably eat too much food in general.
Now, the first skill you have to get, and I would really recommend doing this for one to two months, is weighing your food and training your body to eat like 2,000 calories a day.
Depending on how fat you are, but like roughly 1500.
I'm tall, so I can eat a little more and I'm like athletic.
Because you'll actually get to the point where you can feel there's people that can intuitively eat, right?
And if you're fat, it's probably not you.
But there's people who their whole childhood was very structured and they ate three times a day.
They ate within a certain window and they ate a certain amount of food.
So they don't have to count calories.
If you're fat, you likely missed out on that.
And this is going to take you a few months to get the hang of because you're going to do it for a little bit.
You're probably going to crash and you're going to go again.
You know, for me, it took me one to two months.
And you need to figure out what strategy most people don't eat enough.
That is just not true.
That is just not true.
So before you even worry about working out or anything, I think I personally, I have only have so much problem solving and learning ability a day.
I cannot mentally keep up with a workout plan and a food plan at the same time until I get past a certain level of skill.
It's kind of like when I first, when you know how to play piano and you play a song, it doesn't take you a long time to play.
But when you're learning the song, it takes you forever.
That's kind of how you have to feel about eating.
There's all this stuff you have to think about and learn.
I can't keep up with a workout plan, a stretching plan, all this.
For me, it was too much.
And I actually lost the most weight.
And I swear to God, I'll swear by this.
I was, I, my best cut was eating two meals a day and I ate culverts and chipotle every day.
And I said, Do you know what?
I'm actually not going to worry.
I'm not going to worry about the nutrition level.
I'm going to learn that stuff later.
I'm first going to worry about the calories.
And it really simplified it because then the next step was, okay, I need to learn to cook healthy foods better.
So I'm not eating Chipotle and Culvers all the time, right?
But by that point, I didn't, then I didn't have to think, and I had the money, obviously, to buy it, but I didn't have to think through like weighing every food and all this stuff.
Like, I just said, I know these are each 800 calories each.
It's 1600 calories a day.
Because in my opinion, the worst part of weight loss is the cut.
Now, I want to lose 15 more pounds.
And the problem is, I really hate eating 1,200 calories to 1,500 calories a day.
But you only need to do that for like two months.
Then you can go back up to your maintenance.
It's just the cuts that suck.
So when you're fat, you eat less than when you just want to maintain the weight.
So like the way you got to really prioritize what's important to you.
And again, you got to ignore this intuitive eating bullshit.
Intuitive eating is for people that grew up with a very like I did not grow up eating at the same times every day.
My mom didn't really always cook.
I never, I didn't learn how to cook as a kid.
So, you know, I didn't have that, you know, it's your stomach is like a muscle, I think.
This isn't, this is my real life experience.
And this is not based on studies.
I used to be able to eat just so much, it felt like a bottomless pit.
Like I could just eat.
I could eat and eat and eat.
And I really had to train.
And I did the math on how much I used to eat based on how much I used to work out because I could always eat a ton, but I also worked out a ton, but I was still overweight.
And I think it said I was eating like 3,000 to 3,000 something calories a day.
But remember, I used to work out like four hours a day.
So I was like chubby, but I knew, and every time I stopped working out, I would just blow up really fast.
And then I'd work out a lot.
And it was just a cycle that never ended.
And I realized I'm like, I already know how to work out.
I can pick that back up later.
I have to learn how to eat.
And it's really a math equation.
And for me, with my BMI and whatever, I lose weight at about 1,500 calories, give or take.
I lose weight really fast at 1,200, 1,500.
I'm losing 2,000-ish, I maintain, 2,500, I gain.
So my first step, if I had to do it all over again, if I was, if you're eight, if you're a young woman, this should be your number one priority in life.
Ditch, like, look it.
If I could tell you the level of attention, even being older, I get more attention now that I'm thin.
I wish it's such a waste.
I was chubby in my early 20s.
It's such a waste.
So your first step is you want to train your body to do the calories.
And you don't.
So what I noticed is if my maintenance is 2,000, when I get 500 calories less than what I'm used to eating, that's when I'm really hungry.
When it's 300 calories less than what you're used to eating, you're not that hungry.
So, you have to decide how fast you want to lose the weight.
I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm making sense.
Um, so I don't know.
So, you got to, so okay, the way I did it personally was my first step was eat the same amount of calories every day.
I started at about 2,000 calories, which when I was a little heavier, I would lose weight at, but now is my maintenance.
And then I just kept going lower and lower and lower.
And if it was, if I was too hungry, then I would just eat a little bit more.
And I personally hate doing food logs, but what I would do is I would use chat GPT and Grok.
I would use the talk to text every day.
I would tell it what I ate.
Now, obviously, this is not going to be exact, but over time, if you tell Grok and Chat GPT what you ate every day, you start to notice patterns of what makes you fat and what makes you not fat.
Two, you need to weigh yourself every single day.
If you're afraid of the scale, you're just not ready to lose weight.
You're not ready to be thin.
If you're too soft to weigh yourself every day, because and I wasted a lot of time on all these stupid diets.
I've really done every single one.
I've done juice cleanses, I've done carnivore, I've done keto, I've done all of them.
They're all just ways to get less calories.
If I had to recommend one, maybe keto, but what usually those diets are people that are too lazy to count calories.
So they want a shortcut.
So they just think, oh, I'll do these diets.
And then now I don't have to do the work of learning to count calories.
Look, if you struggle with weight, you need to, you need to know everything you're eating autistically.
Yes.
Yes, yes, yes.
It is really annoying, but my experience with carnivore: you lose weight fast, but you gain it because you don't do the work.
You don't do the work of learning.
And I just know this time I will never gain the weight back because I know too much.
I know everything I'm eating $50 super suit.
Thank you, William.
Okay, you know what?
I'm going to actually do a little, a little, a little sidestep about weight loss.
Okay.
So what I realized with weight loss is that being fat meant I was lacking in a skill.
Okay, I'm going to share my screen.
Oh, wait.
I'm going to, I'm going to.
So I'm going to do a bigger thing so you can see it.
I realized that I was fat because I was lacking in a skill.
And by the way, if someone wasn't fat and they just say, oh, eat less, tell them to go fuck themselves because they don't understand.
Sorry.
This is a skill.
Look at if you don't naturally do this, this is going to take a lot of time and energy and effort, and it's really annoying.
But once you have the skill, okay, calorie counting, cooking healthy foods, knowing your macros, nutritional,
like cooking healthy foods.
So I'm just going to put cooking.
All right.
So the way I personally prioritize this stuff when I had to like figure out what I cared about, because again, I only mentally can solve and think about so many problems in a day.
I've noticed I can solve three things generally in a day in like four to six hour blocks.
So if I want to learn music for an afternoon, four to six hour block, four hour block, four hour block, whatever.
Calorie counting, and you can do this in two ways.
You can either make the food yourself and weigh it at home, or you can eat out.
I opted to eat out at first.
My first choice was to eat out because then I don't have to think about cooking.
This is if you have the money to do that.
I actually found that it's, I find when it's one person, it's actually cheaper to eat out.
I ate Chipotle and Culver's every day.
I had a grilled chicken sandwich from Culver's and or spicy, depending on what I got from Chipotle, and then either a burrito from Chipotle or a burrito bowl.
What you'll find with most eating out is actually it can be healthy, but you can't get the fries with it.
So, like, you can eat a spicy chicken sandwich.
That's not bad for you in terms of calories, but if you eat the fries with it or like the Coke, it's just the sandwich and water and you're good.
Then my next option was I wanted to learn how to cook the same foods I was eating out, but that was later.
I personally stopped working out knowing your macros.
Actually, that was probably second.
Knowing your macros is knowing first, I wanted to track protein, carbs.
So then it's usually increasing protein, lowering carbs.
And then cooking.
If you're going to cook, I recommend some of the meal prep stuff first because it's very overwhelming.
You want to like cook everything.
There's a few Instagram accounts I'd recommend.
So once you get through these three skills, then the nutritional stuff, that like vitamin A, like vitamins and minerals, I just think that's later.
Minerals, whatever.
that to me was last.
Um, so for me personally, counting calorie was first.
Knowing your macros was second.
Cooking was third.
Increasing cardio, fourth.
And I liked to start.
I just liked getting 10,000 steps a day.
And the reason I liked it was because I didn't have to think.
I didn't have to think, oh, what am I lifting today?
What am I doing?
It was just easy.
It was simple.
I never brought back lifting.
I probably will this year, but I actually wanted to do mobility.
So, but that's a personal thing.
Yeah.
So if you want to lose weight, you cannot learn it all at once.
If you spend three months learning something, then you can add another thing.
So if you spend three months learning to count your calories, whether you cook or you eat out, either or, then number two, then you can, now you can do your macros or whatever.
Calorie counting and macros can be one in the same.
Those can kind of be combined, but Chipotle would be better if the rice was salt.
Oh, no, it's pretty high in sodium, actually, because a few things you should know if you're trying to lose weight.
As a woman, if you do the eating out route, your weight's going to go up at first because you're eating high sodium stuff, but it's not, you're not gaining fat.
It's just like water weight a little bit.
As a woman, you are going to gain weight the week before your period.
It tends to go down on like day three or four of your period.
So don't get discouraged that week.
Other people have done this in different ways.
I'm just saying what worked for me was, again, I only have so many hours in a day.
And like, if you don't know how to cook, it's going to take you longer.
Like they'll say it's a 30-minute meal.
And I'm like, yeah, it takes you 30 minutes if you know how to cook.
But if you don't know how to cook, you might mess it up one or two times.
So I'd rather, you know, because even the gym, I just consider it like a four-hour time block.
You're going to have to shower.
You're going to have to go to the gym.
You have to do the workout, drive there, drive back.
Like, you know, and same with cooking.
You got to cook.
You got to wash the dishes, whatever.
Meal prep once a week.
Yeah, I personally think that's the best way to do it.
I've done sauna.
I don't really think that helps that much.
Again, I don't know because I've lifted for over a decade.
So the way I thought about it was taking a year off of lifting.
Like I already know how to lift and I can get really strong again if I need to.
I don't know how to eat.
So I'm just going to stop lifting.
I know I ran a marathon.
Like I know how to do cardio.
I know how to lift.
I don't, I don't need those skills.
What I don't know how to do was I didn't know how to cook.
And there's a few skills, even in cooking, like one skill that you're going to learn is cleaning while you cook.
That's when you know you can really cook.
It's because you start to actually clean up after yourself as you cook.
Cause that's the, that's the challenge.
You start learning to cook and you're trying to figure out that problem, but you're also messy because most people that can't cook aren't the cleanest.
I wasn't anyway.
But the last few years, I've improved so much.
It's amazing.
It's like amazing.
I can't even mobility.
suck out but i i'm working on that now this is crazy talk Well, let me know how much weight you lost.
What let me think because I lost wait 200 to 40 pounds, and then I want to lose another 15.
I'm about to do another cut.
I'm going to be crabby soon.
I'm going to do a full video on everything I know about this, but and this is mostly for women.
I know men, like maybe they want to do lifting first because muscle is more important to them.
But as a woman, I mean, really, guys, your biggest enemy is just like eating.
She's right about everything except not lifting.
Had she, well, okay, I might have a different opinion if I didn't lift, but you have to understand I could lift.
When I stopped lifting, I was almost at like a 300-pound deadlift.
So, like, how much stronger do I need to get?
I think I was at like three, I don't remember because I would do sets of six or seven, but I calculated what my one rep max.
And I think when I ended, it was like three something.
So, I just thought, you know, if I'm at like two something when I get back to it, it's fine.
But I really want to learn how to eat because my whole life, that was my problem.
Was I just always ate too much?
Um, a couple things.
Oh, you know what?
I'll show you guys things that were keeping me fat.
Um, number one, I would put sugar coffees.
I would get like venti lattes, um, caramel lattes.
They have like 40 grams of sugar, um, which I still haven't personally gotten over my sugar addiction.
I'm still pretty addicted.
Um, I am just really good.
I'm good at high protein, and I know my macros, and I'm good at calorie counting.
Sugar, I just, my sister, she cut sugar like a year ago, and she's much better at it than me.
I, that's my kryptonite.
Um, she's still high carb where I can like cut carbs, but I'm still high sugar.
Um, sugar coffees, um, sides.
So, if you go through a drive-through, um, it's okay to have like um it's okay to have eat eat out, but you just need to make sure that you're um not getting sides if you drink.
You basically need to be zero carb.
Um, if you drink, you need to take shots instead of like sugary drinks, vodka, so it's I mean, honestly, guys, you can have one to two beers maybe and vodka sodas, but alcohol.
Again, I'm addicted to sugar, so you kind of got to pick your poison.
I think you can have one bad habit and still be relatively thin, but not two.
And I've just never been able to cut sugar.
Um, so I've never been a big drinker because I just I really struggle with eating.
Um, Let me find the.
I wonder if I'm logged in on this computer on Instagram.
I can show you guys the page.
Oh, yeah, I am.
Okay, let me show you the page that I.
This is the guy that I like his I like his meals the most.
Um, oh, I don't know how I just derailed this whole show, but I've been wanting to talk to you guys about this forever.
Okay, I like this guy's meals because um, they're high protein, they're pretty good, and they don't take a lot of time to cook.
And if you're a beginner cook, um, it's hard to explain, but there's hard ways of making things and easy.
And I think in the beginning, um, there's a there's another guy I follow on Instagram where he's called that's not cooking, that's just mixing stuff.
And I think in the beginning, it's not the worst idea to just kind of mix stuff until you can build your way into like cooking more intense things.
Well, meet, let me show you this guy: 12 eggs, one cup of egg whites, peppers and onions, pre-cooked sausage, Kinder's cowboy butter.
Mix it all up.
Once your eggs are cooked, a full bag of fat-free mozzarella and a cup of salsa verde.
And then put this onto six low-carb tortillas, wrap them up, and heat them up and enjoy all week long.
Yeah, I mean, I like his food.
I've made like three of these.
Oh, I love this for the Starbucks people.
This is good.
Pumpkin, cold brew, Greek yogurt, cinnamon protein powder, pumpkin spice, blend it.
You get the best way to start every fall morning: caffeine and 45 grams of protein.
I like this guy's food.
Um, if you want abs, stop going out to eat for lunch.
Instead, take some chicken, fajita seasoning, enchilada sauce, diced tomatoes, bone broth, peppers and onions.
Cook on hot.
And see, I actually did it the other way around.
I learned to cook not meal-prepped stuff.
And almost like I almost did step 10 before I did step one when it comes to cooking.
Like I was doing all this multi-step cooking, and I learned how to do it.
Like I learned how to make bread.
And it's kind of a useless skill.
It's not a bad skill to have.
But I mean, even for men, this, if you're a girl and you want to cook for a guy, men find these type of meals way more pragmatic anyway, because a lot of them want to be in shape.
Oh my God, women's, he's a hot guy.
I love his food.
No, I'm telling you, I've, I've, I've tried a lot of different foods.
Stop it.
It's not the abs.
Oh my God, stop it.
What's wrong with making bread?
Um, there's nothing wrong with it, it's just not the best use of your time because I didn't find a huge difference.
I know there's this like school of thought where like the pre-made stuff isn't as good for you.
There's chemicals, whatever.
All I can say is what I experienced.
And when I cooked with pre-made stuff and like making it myself, when I made the bread myself, a lot of times I would eat the whole loaf.
Because remember, if you're here, if you're listening, you're probably a food addict to some degree.
So if you're baking a lot of really good stuff, you want to eat it, you know.
But if I just get a loaf of normal bread that doesn't taste that good, I mean, I'm not, I'm not going to be that tempted to eat a whole loaf of 80 calorie pieces of bread.
Yeah, there's a little chemicals in it, but that's probably better than downing three things a flower.
You know, this guy, this guy is my favorite pre-made meal guy.
Again, I have found that when I want to overcome a bad habit, and I'll give you some bad habits that I have that I'm either in the process of overcoming and/or I overcame them.
I have found that it takes a significant amount of effort and work to overcome something you're naturally bad at.
At times, it might not even be worth the effort.
I'm naturally a messy person.
I spent like six hours cleaning today, and I thought I could have hired somebody and gotten some reactions done.
This is cost-benefit analysis.
You got a way in your life.
Um, I have become a lot less messy as a person.
I'm still a naturally, I'm just a messy person.
I've gotten a lot better, a lot better.
And it's taken me about one to three years.
I would say it takes to overcome eating.
I started overcoming my bad eating where I paid really close attention to it.
Um, it's it was about a year ago.
I'm about a year in, I've gotten a lot better.
I expect it'll take me another one to two years.
I think that bad habits take two to three years to figure out a good system for you.
In the last two to three years, I did a lot of trial and error.
I only ate out for a while.
I actually personally, for my weight loss, I found the most success eating out twice a day to two places I really liked.
Currently, I'm going the cooking route where I'm just pre-making meals.
There are benefits to that.
Um, we're gonna see if I have a better cut this time around.
In the past, the struggles I have had is it is, I have found it was more expensive to cook and more time consuming.
Um, you know, but the challenge is, I'll just want to eat more.
So, like, if I make a really good meal, I'll want to eat more of it and it's right in the fridge.
You got to treat yourself like a food addict, right?
So, I would find the eating out would be better because I don't have it in the house, so I can't go to the fridge and like grab more.
Does that make sense?
Now, you might say, But Pearl, why don't you just have self-control?
Well, you're an addict.
I mean, that's like saying, you know, you're an alcoholic and you have beer in the fridge.
Cooking takes less time than commuting to eat out.
For me, it didn't.
I'm just being honest because I was so close to Chipotle and Culver's, like it was like down the road, it didn't take long at all.
I would eat it in my car, it would be like a 20-minute ordeal, it would be so fast.
Um, but I did find so I found that the eating out was a good first step to just do the calorie management.
And then once my body got used to eating that much, then I switched to cooking because now I have a little bit more willpower.
I don't know, you're men, so you might just have more willpower.
You know what I mean?
Like, I'm saying this from the point of a woman.
I also tried, I've tried a lot of different things.
I did not like the meal prep delivery services.
I just didn't think any of them tasted that good.
I wasted a lot of money on those, and I hated most of them.
That's my experience.
Maybe there's some exceptions, but I tried like three and I thought they were all disgusting.
They all taste bad.
Yeah.
So if I had to recommend it, if you were like a fatty, this is what I would tell you to do.
This is what I would tell you to do.
And you can take this or leave it because I am sure people have done this in like better ways than me.
I am sure that people like, I am positive.
I am positive there are better ways to do this, but this is just from somebody that's tried every way.
Number one, I would pick, I would do the route of picking two meals.
First, you got to figure out how many calories you eat in a day.
Now, if you don't want to track it, what I would do is go on to Grok, tell it your height and your weight, and say, how many calories do I likely eat in a day?
Now, what you're going to want to do is subtract 500 from it and see if you have the willpower to eat a 500 calorie deficit from whatever you're eating before.
Now, you might not, you might have to do 300.
It depends how fast you want to lose the weight.
And then you want to tell Grok, say, you tell Grok the meals, the foods out you like to eat and ask it to give you a meal plan eating twice a day, maybe three or whatever.
And then I would do that for three months.
If you can afford it, that's your meal plan.
It's a ready foods you're idiot.
I liked, I did Culver's, Smoothie King, Chipotle.
Those are my three.
And I loved them so much, I could eat them every day.
Then step two, you can, if you like that, you can keep eating out.
But step two could be to learn to meal prep.
So then you switch it to meal prep where you're cooking in the house.
And cutting your sugar or increasing your protein or your macros.
Consistency beats variety.
Yeah.
But I wanted to, the thing is, you need to have a system for all aspects in your life because there's going to be times in your life where you're eating out all the time.
You need to have a system when you go out drinking.
And that's what I realized: there were all these different environments I would be in.
And I really needed a system for all of those environments.
So if I eat out all the time and I'm going to dip, like if I'm being taken out to a nice dinner, I need to know what I can eat before the dinner.
If I'm going out to the bar with friends, I need to know how much I can eat before going out to the bar.
Why is there a broom on the side?
Because I was sweeping today.
All right.
And so you really, and you need to figure out every single environment that you're in that leads to a bad choice.
And what I found was: so one weekend I went out with my cousin and we had a lot of fun and I just ate a ton and I drank a ton and it was just bad.
And I put in Grok and I said, Can you calculate how many calories I ate this weekend?
I listed everything I ate.
And I realized that when I went out and I drank and I also got food, I was in a 1,000 calorie like surplus.
And that's if you're in a 300 calorie deficit daily, that's going to ruin your week.
And if you do that once a week, you're cooked.
You've got to cut alcohol if you're committed to weight loss.
Not, there are people that are that still drink, but they do really low carb and low sugar.
I didn't have that type of willpower.
Coffee, I also found that if I just, what you can do, so you're not like the weird one in social situations, you can order a drink and just not drink it.
You get some red wine that you don't really, I mean, personally, like I'll just order a drink I don't like and I'll drink half a drink.
Nobody really is paying attention that closely.
Alcohol is not high calorie.
If you do a shot, it's like 60 calories or 100 calories.
You know, it's not.
Look, I know it's bad for you.
I'm not a big drinker because I can't be.
I'm saying I know people that drink and still do cuts.
So I'm like, there's a way to do it.
Yeah, I've heard some people smoke or do coke.
Not me, but yeah, that's my two senses.
I really recommend cutting working out in the beginning, unless you have eight hours a day to spend on this.
For the first three months, for the first three months, I don't, you need to learn how to eat first.
You can add in working out later.
that's a later problem trying to think if there's anything else um
You can't, you can outwork a bad diet, but it takes about four hours a day of working out and you'll still be a little bit chubby.
So you can be like okay weight, like not obese, but you'll just be like slightly overweight.
You cannot work a bad diet, but it takes a lot of time and a lot of energy.
Like I was still a healthy BMI in college when I was playing basketball, but those were like three hour practices and I was really tired after.
So build your own system.
Yeah, I would not outsource the work of a lot of times people want to buy other people's like diet systems or meal plans or whatever.
And it's because they don't want to count the calories and learn the nutrition themselves.
That's what you're, you're trying to skip that step.
I don't recommend skipping it.
And the reason is The reason is like it's just going to be easier to fall back into bad habits if you don't know.
Like, if you are a food addict and you know every calorie you're eating, you just naturally start to make better choices because you know how bad it is.
But usually, it's a lack of knowledge of how bad you're eating.
Like, I used to get these venti chai lattes from Starbucks, and I don't remember the last time I got one.
I'll either make my own coffee at home or I'll get like the iced brown sugar latte, which is like 150 calories.
It's still high sugar, which again, um, yeah, you got to retrain, and it takes, I think it takes one to three years.
Um, there are people that do it faster, um, but let's just say you're an idiot because I'm kind of an idiot.
Um, one to three years.
And also, the worst part, in my opinion, is the cut.
Because remember, like, okay, so the weight I want to be at right now, how many calories?
I'm not going to show my screen because I don't want to say my weight.
Um, how many calories do I have to eat a day to maintain at 1 or at six feet tall?
Okay, let's see.
Okay, so if I'm active, the weight I want to be at, and I would say I'm always going to be lightly active.
So it's roughly 2000 calories a day.
If I want to lose, and this is what I want to get to, 20 pounds to get in, let's say, three months,
how many calories do I have to eat a day to go from 20 pounds is 70,000 calorie deficit.
So, I, this is this is the worst part: it's the losing it because, um, okay, wait, wait, wait, so I can't, so it's telling me to lose one to 1.3 pounds a week, five in 1700 calories.
Oh, it's actually not as bad as I thought.
No, 1500 to 1700.
Yeah, so it's like once I get once you get to the weight, you can eat a normal amount of food, not like you were eating before, but you're not hungry.
But I've found, and I've calculated this, when I get to like a 500 calorie deficit, that's when I'm freaking hungry.
Two to three hundred.
You're not hungry, but you lose the weight so slow.
It's kind of demotivating.
But I'm about to I'm I'm about to lock in these next three months.
Um, so you have to understand if you're overweight, it's going to take you longer than you think because you have, unless you're willing to starve yourself, um, it's going to, it takes forever.
And usually, when you starve yourself, you gain it back because you didn't go through the proper learning period, which is learning to cook/slash/cleanup after yourself, learning to naturally be able to count calories.
Once you can count calories and your body's used to counting calories, now I can kind of intuitively eat.
But it was a skill I had to learn.
Like, I could not intuitively eat two years ago because I would intuitively eat freaking everything.
But now, because I've weighed myself every day for a year and counted my calories pretty much every day for a year.
Um, now if I can feel how many calories I ate in a day based on how hungry I am, but that took me, nobody starves themselves.
No, you kind of do starve yourselves.
Like, if you lose 10 pounds in a month, you're going to be pretty hungry, which is fine.
You know, you can, some people get used to it.
You look fine at your current weight.
I don't care.
I'm, I'm getting there.
Yeah.
The challenge is if you're overweight, just do strict keto and eat as much as you want for three months.
Challenges, again, you're still gonna, you're still not gonna, when you go off keto, you're not gonna have the systems in place.
Eat when you're hungry.
Yeah, that's for thin people.
There are thin people that can eat when they're hungry.
When you're fat, you're always freaking hungry.
Always, always.
Like, I mean, that's the worst lie ever.
Anyways.
Okay, I'm ending this show.
I'm ending the show.
That's my nutrition rant.
Take it or leave it.
I'm not an expert.
I'm literally, I'm literally just, you know, as someone that's done trial and error for pretty much everything.
Oh, wait, let me see something.
Someone's, I'll do pro looks lovely.
No simping or pimping, just the truth.
Well, thank you.
Here we go.
Pastor, I guess.
I did not.
I saw someone say, I did not like that my wife was listening to.
This is like a pastor, I guess.
I did not like that my wife was listening to Ali Sucky.
It's not because of what she said.
All these people say the same thing.
What she says is right.
What she says is true, but I don't like how she says it.
Me, me, me, me, pepp, boo hoo.
That's what I hear.
You sound just like the little high school progressive girls with their pronouns in their profile who say, You have a mean tone when you say, Yeah, women just are not strong enough for the internet.
Anyways, okay, thanks for watching.
Do you have a picture?
I'll show you guys when I finish this last cut.
When I finish this last cut, I'll show you my fattest.
The problem is, my fattest picture was a really good picture of me back then.
I was in this beautiful dress and I was very done up, and I was 23.
And so the reaction I always get from men is you weren't fat.
It's usually black guys.
They're like, oh, you weren't fat.
I'm like, yeah, because you date fat women.
Yeah, of course.
But, and when you're younger, I don't know.
They just give you a pass because they don't see it.
Like, you have the nice skin.
So the men like kind of look up.
Yeah, I know 23 is peak, and I spent, I was 210 pounds.
Yeah.
I always had a lot of muscle, though, because I was always really strong.
But I blew up right after college because I was an athlete and I worked out like four hours a day.
And again, I was still a little chubby, but I got kind of fat right after because I didn't know how to eat.
I didn't know how to eat.
If you're happy with yourself, that's all that matters.
Go fuck yourself.
Oh my God.
Nothing wrong with a few healthy curves.
It wasn't healthy.
I mean, I had a huge gut.
This last cut, though, I'm telling you, it's going to be over with.
Because I can eat 2,000 calories a day easy.
It's the, I hate, I hate going down to 12 to 1,500.
I hate it.
Oh, the cuts.
I hate them.
But my sister, she lost over 100 pounds.
She was fat, fat.
She said, we're going to lock in.
She said, we're going to lock in.
And she's like, I'm catching up to you and weight.
I'm going to, I'm going to get thinner than you.
And she's like, we got to lock in.
And I'm like, I guess we're locking in.
I was like, all right, if my sister's locking in, then I'm locking in.
And I remember like, I would even, I wouldn't even want to go on dates because they would be too high calorie.
I didn't want to drink.
And, you know, or I didn't want to go get dinner because I'm like, I'm afraid to like eat out.
So I don't know.
That's actually another system as a girl you should have.
Because you're going to want to date your young woman.
And really, I would say you should go to the dating apps because, I mean, that's, it's just going to be easier than going out and doing all this stuff.
People don't really meet in person anymore.
But then on dates, it's either dinner or drinks for the most part.
And I would just recommend shots, vodka soda.
That's it.
That's it.
Twice a week you can get away with more than that.
As long as it's literally three vodka.
Look, you can't do that.
You can do one sugary drink and then two vodka sodas if you go up to three drinks.
Eat Skittles.
Okay, you're probably fat.
Yeah, red wine.
That's another.
It's hard to do dating without drinking.
It's hard because women, we get too anxious to like have anything happen, especially if you're young.
So anyways, all right, guys, I got to go.
I got to, I got to end this stream.
I'm just, I'm, I'm having a good time with you guys tonight, even though I'm going real off topic.
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