Pearl Daily’s call-in show dissects modern dating through polarizing "whore" vs. "prude" categories, with guests like Donovan Sharp ($50 first dates, sex by the second) and callers (e.g., Jake’s $60–$300 dates, Doug’s Atlanta strategy) debating opportunism versus delayed gratification. Elizabeth, a 19-year-old Pentecostal studying business, defends abstinence until marriage, clashing with others who dismiss purity claims as deception. The episode reveals dating’s transactional nature—whether for quick hookups or long-term "chases"—while critiquing virtue signaling and societal shifts like anti-natalism, ultimately framing relationships as a gamble where trust is the biggest risk. [Automatically generated summary]
Today, we are going to be having a conversation on whores and prudes.
So, as you guys know, we all know what whores are.
Look, I talk about them all the time.
They're the OnlyFans girls, the college girls that bang the football team, the baby mamas in church.
And let's face it, whores are everywhere in 2025.
You really can't even go outside without hitting one.
And thank you to the super chat from I-80 Avery saying Pearl is my type.
I'd really advise you to stop simping.
You should save that money, take a woman on a date instead of sending it to me.
But hey, you know, and yes, it has been a long time.
Thank you guys for tuning in.
I'll do announcements after I do my monologue.
So, prudes are the women that abstain from having sex for one reason or another.
The definition of a prude is a person who claims who is or claims to be easily shocked by matters relating to sex or nudity.
The modern day prudes are women that are saying virgins for clout or women that are too socially awkward to get sex from a man they want.
So they just complain about everything.
But I really want to dive into the types of whores, right?
So in my experience, I've noticed that there are smart whores and there are dumb whores.
Okay.
So smart whores are women that, yeah, they're whores, but they do it in a smart way.
An example.
And I almost feel disrespectful saying this, but I love you, Melania, but I don't believe for a second you were pure before Donald Trump might have bought it, but I'm not stupid.
Okay.
I love you, Melania.
I think you're awesome.
But if you're going to pretend you weren't throwing it back when you were modeling in New York and in Europe, please.
Please, please.
Do you know what I mean?
Please.
So smart whores do keep everything off the internet.
So they, you know, women that are whores, I'm not talking about women that are paid to do it.
I'm saying the women that love having sex with different dudes.
They do it for the love of the game, but they know they got to cash out someday.
So what they do, they keep everything off the internet.
They'll move away for their reputation and they are likable.
And they just, you know, they like sex.
So these women, they focus on giving the guy a very good experience.
So he spends the night.
She might cook breakfast.
She might, you know, give him a massage.
But she's smart because she knows she cannot bring purity to the table.
She is not going to sell a low body count to this fella.
So what she's going to do is she's going to sell a great experience.
And the strategy is to hook a guy with good sex and be likable enough to get a ring and a kid.
And they wear protection so they don't get an STD.
Or if they do get an STD, they lie for the rest of their life.
Sorry, I hate to say it.
But ladies, if you're a woman and you have an incurable STD, okay?
The smart ones lie.
Now, we could talk about morals, but morals, you know me, I try to keep morals out of this.
Who's going to have better results?
The woman that lies about having something or the woman that's honest?
Okay.
So then we got the dumb whore.
So, you know, a smart whore would be Kim Kardashian.
Now, Kim Kardashian, she certainly doesn't sell purity, right?
I mean, what does she sell, right?
She sells sex.
And yeah, okay, she didn't get a classy guy to marry her.
It's kind of, but it's still, you know, one of the greatest rappers of all time.
So she said, you know what?
I'm going to be beautiful.
I'm going to be likable, at least until I get my children, and then I'm going to ruin his life.
Now, you could say that's immoral, right?
That's totally immoral, but it's smart, right?
You know, like we could say Wolf of Wall Street, right?
The guy from Wolf of Wall Street, you could say he's immoral, and he totally is, but he's smart, right?
So we're going to continue.
The next thing we got is the dumb whores.
Like Amber Rose, she was pretty enough to really get anything she wanted.
She could have even gotten away with the whoreing, but she was dumb enough to embrace the whore culture and make it part of her identity.
You know, Brittany Renner is another one.
She could have had it all, but she messed up.
I wish her luck with this Kevin Gates guy, but you know, now she can't be the wife.
She's got to be the second wife.
I mean, you got to accept that at some point.
All right.
So the next thing we got is the happy whores.
They embrace being promiscuous and they found ways to get fulfillment out of life while still being a whore, right?
They've accepted that they will just be a girlfriend and never be taken seriously.
The happy whores usually have their life or reputation as a whore out in public.
They're honest about their whoredom.
And these women can get married.
You know, sometimes they do it.
But they will divorce the men.
And the way they get married again is they just, they glut gluck.
They glut gluck 9,000, right?
And you guys, I love you guys because a lot of you guys just aren't realistic, right?
You guys pretend that those women could never pull one over on you.
But I need you guys to get not all of you.
Some of you do really well with the ladies.
But if you're not, if you haven't really gotten women like that, you can't say that, like, you can't say that these women could never get one.
I've seen too much.
Okay.
I've seen too much.
Okay.
So these women, they're just happy to be whores.
They'll be passed around for life.
This is kind of like the Lily Phillips, right?
Bonnie Blue.
They're both, they're not really contentious, right?
If you get them on a podcast, they're not arguing.
They're not really defending their way of life.
They're just kind of happily saying, look, I'm a whore.
I love pleasing men.
That's what they'll say.
They're like, yep, that's what I'm here to do.
If you don't think that they'll get married, idiots.
Guys, did Mia Khalifa get married?
Yup.
Did Riley Reid get married?
Yep.
Did Kim Kardashian get married?
Yep.
They'll all get a taker.
Somebody's going to do it.
Now, you might say, I would never do it.
I would never do it.
Okay, I'm happy for you.
Just because you wouldn't doesn't mean that someone will.
Lizzo has a boyfriend.
And I think that's why, like, men are kind of angry, right?
Because they're like, you guys make these terrible decisions.
You should not come out on top.
They're going to come out on top.
Bonnie has been married and Lily wants to be married at some time in an open relationship.
Yep.
Yep.
All right.
So now we're going to on being a prude.
So this is a article a woman wrote about being a prude.
So I realize the idea of sexual modesty might sound a bit quaint these days.
Some in the culture believe sex should be as casual as shaking hand.
And some self-proclaimed conservatives behave as if they do, even if hypocritically giving lip service to the idea of waiting till marriage.
But what sounds modest now seems increasingly radical.
Holding out, waiting, not necessarily for marriage, but until you know the relationship at least has a shot at going the distance.
Unfashionable, I realize.
Guys, women with this mindset, trust.
Trust.
I mean, you can, in the modern, okay.
For the men that women want, okay?
Now, I am not talking about the men that women pass over.
We all know women only go for a small percentage of men, right?
So the men that regularly and easily can get sex, the women, the men that women want to lock down.
Because I'm not with this idea that players don't ever retire.
I mean, they sort of don't, but there's levels, right?
It depends how far gone he is.
But they value their time too much to wait that long for sex.
I mean, Jeff Bezos, you know how he got locked down?
Does he have time?
Like, his time is worth like a million dollars a minute.
Does he have time to go get to know a new hoe, Right, high-level athletes, um, high-level businessmen, even just men that like you know, are busy, they're not gonna wait because they don't feel like it.
Like, you got like three days, okay.
The women, like at 20, right?
You know, it is funny, men will go to the ends of the earth to bang a 20-year-old.
It's crazy.
The things you can demand at 20, ladies, if you're the for the two women watching, if you're 20, just know they will not go to the ends of the earth like that forever, they're already going less and less, right?
But it's like at 20, at 20, you tell a guy you want to go on a date right next to your apartment, you want to be picked up, door, he'll say, Okay, I'm down, right?
You want to, you say, Could you drive like three hours to meet me?
They're like, When and where I'm 28 at 28, they're like, Yeah, you can near my house or Nayski Nada, unless they're really naive, right?
And the older and more experienced, you know, a guy gets really they kind of go through this.
The juice isn't worth the squeeze, right?
Because they bang a really hot chick and she makes his life hell, and they're like, eh.
They bang a mid, they, you know, they just keep going through this.
Women only stick around if they're getting something out of it.
Yeah, I know, anyways.
My point is this: the prudes don't make it far because remember, in the modern marketplace, unless you're going through church or some sort of community to get into a relationship, right?
But we all know communities are kind of on the decline, people aren't really going outside like they used to.
Um, so what does that tell us?
Remember, modern dating is sex first, traditional dating is sex after marriage.
Women that try to like play traditional, look, it just is what it is, it just is what it is.
Some will get the right guy.
And look, it when you say the right guy, look, I'm not saying none will, right?
But a lot of times, that's a guy with no choice.
Now, I'm not saying I think most guys who wait maybe a few weeks, like I don't know, you go on a date a week, like a month.
But the more and more experienced and the more options a guy has, the less waiting time you get, right?
Because, like, I have a friend, you know, he has 40 matches on Hinge that he doesn't even respond to.
Okay, now, if he has the choice between girl A, who he knows puts out and is gonna put out, or girl B, who he can wait a month to sleep with, who do you guys think that he's gonna pick, right?
Now, if she's really hot, that helps, right?
If she's young, that helps, but I'm all I'm saying is the older you get, the less, and the more experienced and options the guy has.
So, will a guy with no options do that?
I mean, they'll wait till the end of time.
I mean, they'll spend a decade in the friend zone.
But women, I don't even think the top 20% or alpha or whatever you want to call it.
I don't even think it's really just about money or looks, it's really an attitude.
And I can say this because I've seen broke, ugly guys slay.
I've seen them pull, right?
But they have an attitude of they're not afraid of women, they know how to flirt, and they don't really give a shit.
It's like, come or, women love the, you can stay or you can go, bitch.
Um, anyways.
All right, so I'm going to go back to this article.
Now, look, I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, right?
I'm just saying a balance of probabilities.
You know, men at some point are going to say, what am I getting out of this?
And if they're not getting that poo nanny, it's like, you know.
But anyways, but things don't become fashionable again unless someone puts in the effort.
Let's reclaim the word prude like the Patriots fan proudly owning the word mass hole.
So what does this entail?
You're absolutely right.
Look, I know I'm right.
I know I'm right.
All right.
All right.
This is not about religion.
It's not about any dumb culture war.
It's not about being asexual.
This is about what a prude is.
The prude is saving himself or herself for love.
This is the cardinal rule, and we'll get to why shortly.
It's all about being cautious with whom one gets involved with.
Heck.
One might even say being prudent.
The prude believes in committed relationships.
Now, this would make sense if prudes were actually prudes, but they become prudes after throwing it back for Chad, Tyrone, and Daequan, right?
Then they're like, now I'm a prude, right?
And the guys are like, wait, which are the prude believes in committed relationships, which probably means monogamous for both parties with an intended duration of the least.
Oh, my gosh.
Of at least the foreseeable future, if not longer.
The prude does not necessarily dress herself modestly.
Okay, this is where women, they want the best of both worlds.
They want to dress like a whore, but be assumed to be a prude.
Now, I will say women always lie with their clothes, right?
Because it's what they want.
You know, there's women that dress like whores that are complete teases.
Like, it's not one or the other.
But you're not going to get purity points when you dress like a prostitute, right?
Purity is entirely about behavior, not appearance.
One could leave little to the imagination and still not behave provocatively.
One could dress like a Mormon and still be the town bicycle.
Dress however you want.
That's a separate discussion.
Okay.
Yeah, that's true.
I agree with that.
The prude is not necessarily saving himself for marriage.
Obviously, such a stance is compatible with prudity.
However, people tend to save themselves for the wedding night for religious reasons.
And proper prudery takes no stance on specific religions or lack thereof.
The prude is saving himself for love for both ethical and extremely practical reasons.
But on the other hand, wanting to know if you're truly compatible in one of the more important categories might be reasonable before tying the knot.
The prude does not hate sex.
Quite the contrary.
Of course, that won't stop the frustrated dates from making accusation.
The prude's sex drive is no different than any other woman or man's.
In fact, the prude may be better than average at it, but wanting to protect herself is no different than staying away from a strange dog until you know it's friendly.
The prude might be more frustrated than her partner.
That does take some discipline.
The prude does not have a separate set of rules for women.
If your stance is women should save themselves, but boys will be boys.
That doesn't make you a prude.
That just makes you either a sexist pig or a self-loathing woman.
The prude does not ever want to be showing symptoms for STIs.
Getting routinely screened for STIs is definitely recommended for any non-virgins.
Disclosure, I am a physician.
And a good idea for both parties before financially making the bedroom plunge, but actually having discharge or itchiness because of important conduct would be absolutely mortifying to a prude.
Perhaps not the worst thing we could imagine, but pretty damn close.
On the other hand, the prude allows herself human error, mistakes happen, but on the other hand, we do not want to let them happen because they are mistakes.
So again, this is what I explained.
Like the two types of women.
And I don't, I mean, there's more than this, but categorize.
Like women tend to be either run by fear.
So when women are more of prudes, they want the benefit of a relationship, right?
And so they want the benefit of lifelong monogamy.
They want the benefit of a guy sticking around.
And they want to guarantee that nothing will go wrong, that they can't get an STD, that the guy won't leave them.
That if he does leave, I get the kids and, you know, child support, whatever.
So what essentially they're saying is, hey, I don't want to take any risk, right?
But then you have the other women that are super high risk.
They're like, let me fuck everybody raw.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, so, I mean, one isn't, you know, now, and I actually see, I got to be honest.
I mean, it's a scale, right?
And we could go through it, but different strategies work depending on how hot the woman is.
Really, you know, which strategy works, it depends how hot you are.
Like, you cannot be that mid of a prude.
If you're going to be a mid prude, be young, but over a certain age, I mean, guys will wait if you're hot enough, but if you're fat, it's time to glut gluck.
Like, that's the only way you're going to get in the door.
All right.
The prude knows and fears the power of oxytocin.
Okay, right.
So, this is the inability to take an L.
So, again, they want to, like, they're afraid that if they have sex, they'll get attached, which, I mean, that is a fear, right?
But you guys get attached to hoes all the time.
You know, you guys get attached to women you've invested and gone on dates with or whatever, right?
And you have to eat the L. You have to eat it.
You have to say, ah, that sucks.
We're not as good at that, right?
So, all right.
The bonding hormone is released in especially high amounts during good sex, and it's what ties us to our partners, whether we like it or not.
We're not pushing off sex just to be frustrating or to play it coy.
It's because we know how that stupid hormone is the greatest risk of sex there is, or at least to us.
So, in other words, the prude realizes sex can lead him directly to love, whether he wants to or not.
A woman I follow on Twitter once remarked that she could not wait for the pandemic to be over with so she could go back to freely having sex with her friends.
Sex with mere friends and they are just friends.
I was floored.
The idea was alien to me as breathing ammonia.
For most people, and most certainly for the prude, intercourse will most likely lead to an emotional bonding with the partner.
No matter how lousy a human being may be, and it may lead to said partner bonding with you right back, which can be a problem.
If they're completely for or borderline nuts, that's why the prudes must carefully screen potential mates beforehand, no matter how long it takes.
While the prudery has other benefits, ethics, aborting STIs, and pregnancies, the principle is straight up self-defense.
So, again, the prude thinks that they can avoid STIs, pregnancy, whatever.
But as soon as you have the sex, you're still now I understand it's a numbers game, right?
If you're taking like five dicks a week, it's gonna, I mean, but at the same time, if you're taking one, he still can cheat on you, right?
It just is what it is.
But the girls with the, like, I don't even call them prudes.
I call them high anxiety women.
That's really a better way to describe them.
And high anxiety women just have a very tough time taking L's.
And again, it's like they can't, they have to wait till marriage because what if he leaves?
Well, and it's in a way, it's like a way to escape the burden of performance, right?
You guys know that if you start sucking as a man, if you start sucking, your wife is going to leave you.
It's not if, right?
It's when.
If you get too fat and too broke, cooked, done, she's gone.
Now, unless you're like a very charming guy, I mean, I have met men that live off of women, but they're usually at least either like comedians or something like that.
But if you're not that, you know, men understand there's a burden of performance, but women, we're never told there's a burden of performance in relationships because you guys put up with everything.
We're never told that, hey, you know, if you act bad enough, if you get too fat, if you're too much of a bitch, I'm actually going to leave.
Like, how many guys have really sat their girl down and said, hey, I actually, you know, and meant it, right?
Like, because you guys, we can tell the difference between like, you know, how many times, how many, has a guy ever said, hey, you got three months to lose the baby?
Wait, I'll even give you six, but you guys put up with like six years.
Yeah, no one is exempt.
Right, right.
We all have a burden of performance.
But women, the prudes, what they want to do is, it's really easy to be a prude, right?
Like, it's not hard to not have sex.
Like, it's not doing something.
It's like not doing something.
You know what's more difficult?
Being a good listener.
Figuring out what your man wants without him having to tell you.
Yeah.
Being more empathetic.
Not getting offended so easily.
Shutting the fuck up.
Those are way harder.
I can, I have a show, right?
Those are way harder.
Way harder.
I really get the feel.
Yeah, prudes, they tend to be control freaks.
That doesn't stop.
Sorry, fellas.
All right.
So because she realizes she simply can't see above, you know what?
Sometimes I envy people like the woman who can spend a day relaxing, a relaxing evening with a buddy doing the reverse cowgirl and walk away without any lingering, irrational need to be around that guy anymore.
Or this dude my college friends called the scorpion because he was famous for every weekend getting any girl in the club he wanted by sheer command.
Get over here.
That's great.
They can hook up with lots of people.
The prude is simply not built like that and knows it.
Yeah, and partially, like this tends prudes tend to be the mids, right?
Because like if we were, if the prudes were getting offers from eights, nines, and tens often, two different types of prudes.
There's the sorry, two different types of mids.
There's the mids that try to sell purity, and there's the mids that sell easy sex.
Two different strategies, right?
Purity is, hey, I have a low body count, and therefore, hey, we could get together and I'll stay, right?
Selling purity.
The other option is, hey, I'm going to Gluck Gluck.
I'm going to Gluckluck real hard.
I've glucklucked everyone, and you're next.
I'm going to give you such a good experience.
And then hopefully, someone will stay.
Two different strategies, right?
Which one works better?
Whichever one the hotter woman picks.
No hymen, no diamond.
Yeah, James.
Riley Reed just got married.
You guys can say that, but that doesn't make it true, right?
Doesn't make it accurate.
I wish it was, right?
But I mean, it just is what it is.
Anyways, but the point is, women, we're up, we love opportunistically.
So it's what women, we don't really have morals like that.
We really just do what gives us the better results, right?
So, and the challenge is today, smart men know that women that seem pure very well may not be.
So the purity just isn't really selling like it used to.
Like 10 years ago, women could sell purity so much better.
I mean, nowadays, the men are like, yeah, right.
Okay.
Okay, the prude related above does not get herself into that situation.
Her brain might be still loudly be insisting herself to the world that they were just friends, but her heart has decided something else.
Note that the guy in question clearly was able to have casual sex without feelings, and good for him, no judgment.
Seriously, these rules are not for him.
The self-aware prude just realizes she cannot have relations without developing feelings and behaves like a prude precisely to avoid a classic psycho ex-girlfriend moment.
All right, so the next type of woman we're going to go through is the virgins.
Now, I know you guys are thinking, what virgins?
They don't exist.
Now, I have met a decent amount of virgins in my life.
And they're not really that different from, and by the way, stated virgins.
Some I believe, some I might not believe.
So these women go well into their 20s and maybe early 30s never having had sex.
And this is usually due to some serious mental health issues with these women or some kind of trauma that they're holding on to.
So the number one thing we got is anxiety prudes.
These prudes fear risk-taking for a better future, so they don't take any risks when it comes to sex or relationships.
And they're control freaks and they have neurotic tendencies.
Like basically, they can't give up the poo nanny.
And it's not for morals.
We don't have morals like that.
It's because they can't give up control because as soon as they give up the poo nanny, who's got control?
You do.
Well, sort of.
But then you got the socially awkward virgin women.
And these are the women that are prudes or virgins because of some kind of shortcoming.
So they're ugly as hell, no social skills.
These are women that are fives and sixes that are just so awkward that they can't make it to the bedroom with a man they want to sleep with.
There are hot ones that do it for morals.
Oh, you guys fell for that.
Yeah, okay.
Then there's the church virgins who just want to be worshipped, right?
And they're really set on like needing to be a good person and virtue signal and use it for marketing.
And that's not necessarily a bad thing.
Like, I think you should market your selling points.
And that is a selling point.
But like, we got to just be honest here.
If you're not cashing out, like, if you're really doing it for morals, then you're going to be married at 20.
25, you're just doing it for clout and to show that you're better than other people.
Right?
You got it.
You got to look at the incentives here.
Okay, so mids tend to get wifed up the most, or there's actually good women.
I knew, I always know I'm telling the truth because you have to think about this from a logical point of view.
And I'll explain.
I'll explain.
Oh, she thinks, she thinks she got me.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah, there's also the virgin women that they do workarounds, right?
Like they got finger banged.
And then they're like, yeah, I got finger bang.
Like, they're like, I got finger banged, and I'm definitely still a virgin.
Or I backdoored it.
I gluck, glucked, but I'm still a virgin.
I'm still going to sell purity.
And if she's over like 20, please expect this, guys.
They said, I think Pearl is a 304.
Well, you're smart, right?
You're smart.
You should just assume all women are whores.
Really?
That's a way better mindset to have.
See, Danielle, see, now she's calling me a whore, right?
Totally fine.
Totally fine.
But that's when I know when they start attacking me, I'm like, I've hit a nerf.
I really have.
Yeah, you guys can call in, right?
Just because your simp husbands believed you, it doesn't mean I have to, right?
I'm really tired of these trad cons.
You know, I can always tell a guy's a simp when he brags about waiting until marriage with a woman over 25.
You're just stupid, okay?
And I'm not trying to be rude, but again, you can fall for that.
It doesn't mean I gotta, right?
I don't have to.
Mary says I should call in.
I have some wild stories.
Please do.
This is a call-in.
So now I'm going to put what I actually think are mid to hoe body counts.
I'd say in this marketplace, under 10 is low.
I'd say 10 to 30 is mid.
I'd say 30 plus is a whore.
This includes oral.
I'm really tired of the women not including oral.
Okay, I'm really tired of you.
I'm really tired of this workaround.
If he finger blasted you, I'm counting that.
Sorry, not sorry.
I don't care.
I don't care.
And, but I thought about this when it came to morals, like if women had morals.
Now, the question is: back in the day, right, there was a point where, under certain rulers or leadership, your choice as a woman was to be a sex slave or like work in the fields, right?
Can we just be honest?
Like, if we had to, what we would pick.
Are we counting the ladies if they're biased?
Yeah, I'm counting all of it.
All of it counts.
He stuck it in for a second, counts.
Finger blasted, counts.
Oral counts.
Oh my God, I'm just tired of the workarounds.
It all counts.
Over 10 is normal when it isn't supposed to be.
I'm not here to tell you what the world is supposed to be, okay?
But what I don't want is you guys to be delusional out here.
I interviewed a thousand women, okay?
We need to really realistically do numbers here, okay?
Let's say women average lose their virginity at 16.
Now, what's the incentive?
Okay, what is the incentive to lie?
So if women are saying they lost it at 16, what age did they really did we really lose it at?
Oh, it's just in the West.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah, then why?
Then why did I meet all the Muslim women in London that love to throw it back?
Okay, I lived in a Muslim area.
They're not different.
Okay.
Why is it when my friends traveled in the Middle East, they said that the Muslim women love to give it back door?
So are they more pure now?
Matt, with the amount of D they've been with, when stacked on top of another is taller than you, no-go, 10 to 30 sounds gross.
Well, we need to, I'm just being realistic here.
Now, I'm not saying low body count women don't exist.
I'm just saying usually they're making up for a personality deficit, right?
I mean, that's why the men like the younger, right?
21, no older, right, fellas?
21 only.
Yeah, I am from Eastern Europe.
Most of them lose it at like 13.
Okay, let's, let's, for shits and giggles, say 16.
Okay.
Now, how long do you think women wait in between men to have sex?
And I want you, you guys can answer these questions yourself.
But I think a lot of guys don't, you guys are waiting months for women.
And you're not even asking yourself these questions, right?
Okay, 16, let's say 16 is the average.
Let's, for shits and giggles, let's go older and say wait till 18.
Okay.
Now at 18, how long are women going to go without sex?
Let's say the most a woman will go is six months without having sex.
I think that's fair, right?
Like if you guys could easily get sex pretty easy with a hot girl, maybe the control freaks will go longer and go a year, right?
But let's just say an average six months.
Wow, this is insane.
Less than 24 hours in a lot of cases, says Donovan.
Okay, let's do the math, okay?
Now, how many men do you think women have to go through to get a relationship?
Okay.
Let's say the first guy in high school, the woman dates for two years or college boyfriend, whatever.
Now, 20, we're at one.
Let's, you know, let's even say that the woman is so likable.
She gets a new immediately after the first guy she sleeps with, she gets what she wants out of.
Okay.
Let's do the math here.
20 to 22, that's one.
22 to 24, that's two.
24 to 26, that's three.
26 to 28, that's four.
Okay.
Now, let's assume, let's assume she shot out of her league a little bit.
Okay, let's assume she went for a 10, 10 didn't work out.
Went for a nine, the nine didn't work out.
Seven, let's say five guys to get a relationship.
There's 20.
So, the question is: how likable is the girl?
And that's important, right?
How many, and you guys can judge this, right?
If she's more likable as a person versus the want to be promiscuous, right?
Because some women, it's like some women, it's not in as much, you know, they don't want STDs, they don't want that, like now, by the way, this doesn't include the finger banging, the all this stuff women don't count 24 is general,
four to five to get a relation.
I mean, you guys can ask, you guys can, you guys can tell me a modern-day cum bucket, yeah.
24 hours all right so now we're gonna talk about and i want you guys to think about these questions talking about i am how i'm not I'm gonna show you guys some different types of whores, and we're gonna decide together what we think what type of whore this is.
I made a couple videos talking about I am how I'm not having sex right now, and lots of guys were like, I can help with that.
I just want to make things clear: this is completely by choice.
Um, and I'm not knocking the women who go around and have casual sex.
I love that for them, it's their body of their choice, women's empowerment.
Go for it.
Um, I am just simply crazy.
Um, if I sleep with somebody, I'm gonna become obsessed with you.
That's just how it is.
So, the next person I sleep with is gonna be my boyfriend.
So, this girl's trying to signal purity with an arm tattoo and a nose ring, right?
Now, let's look at her account.
Let's see.
Do we really think she's celibate?
Oh my god.
Oh, we got a nurse and a bodybuilder.
I took big t-shirt Billy Island.
Watch on my wrist, but I want that diamond with a chest tattoo.
Why don't you fall for it?
Okay, so this girl is claiming to be a prude.
Okay, I do not like this song.
Santa Claus is coming to town.
Do not come to my town.
Okay, next.
Let's see.
Oh, sorry.
These are the prudes.
So, this is what type of prude.
So, let me let me does it get exhausting to argue with people any day talking about how I'm not having sex right now.
Okay, so but she's saying right now, remember, that's what we got to keep.
You guys were like, I can help with that.
I just want to make things clear.
This, this is completely by choice.
Um, and I'm not knocking the women who go around and have casual sex.
I love that for them.
It's their body of their choice, women's empowerment.
Go for it.
Um, I am just simply crazy.
Um, if I sleep with somebody, I'm gonna become obsessed with you.
So, this is like a guy saying, I won't pay for a date because if I pay for this date, I'm gonna become obsessed with you.
The men have to do the character development, right?
I'm sure you guys felt that like you crashed out when you're younger, right?
You know, like they have to go through the character development of crashing out and then realizing how stupid they were, right?
Women, it's like the same thing, but we like avoid character development, so we just were kind of like, eh, I'd rather not be a better person.
Me, actually, let me watch the rest one more time with you.
That's just how it is.
So, the next person I sleep with is going to be my boyfriend, and he's going to have to deal with my psychoas.
Yeah, so again, prude making up for a personality deficit.
Crazy and not that hot, right?
This isn't.
I mean, she's got a great body.
I'm sure that really helps, but the chest tattoo doesn't.
Yeah, how to lose a guy in 10 days.
Yeah, so these are like the women.
And again, it's like they want nothing to go wrong.
So they're like, hey, I want this.
And then they got to put all this pressure that if they don't get what they want, she's going to crash out.
And a lot of them do.
You know, here we go.
She does have a great body.
I'll give it to her.
Okay, next, we're going to do.
Okay, so again, this is like a six.
Yeah, I'm going to give her a six.
No, because I kid you not, all of our friends, almost all of my friends, every time I ask, oh, how did you guys meet?
Oh, well, it's supposed to be a one-night stand.
What?
Some people say, I got it going in.
So you mean to tell me that I have to hook up with a guy to get in a relationship?
Yeah.
Yep.
I mean, this is the contentious, right?
Because these women don't know the rules of the game, right?
Sex comes before relationships.
90% of the time, unless you get a simp that has no other choice.
I mean, let me get this straight.
Men will have the choice to.
Or even the guys, they might give you a relationship that have choice, but they might just be screwing other girls too.
I'm not built for that.
Please.
Okay.
I'm glad.
Yeah, I'm not built for that.
Sucks, but it just is what it is.
All right.
Who's next?
I don't want to have sex ever with anyone.
I think I might be broken.
I have no connection to it.
Do you know what asexuality is?
It's when someone has no sexual attraction to any sex or gender.
It's when women aren't hot enough to get the women, the men they're attracted to.
That's what it is.
It's, I don't get attention from the men I'm attracted to, so I'll just be asexual.
Sex just doesn't do it for some people.
But I still want to fall in love.
Well, some asexual people still want romantic relationships, but they don't want the sex bit.
And others don't want either.
Yeah, sexuality is fluid.
Sex doesn't make us whole.
And so how could you ever be broken?
Yeah, lying.
All right, now we're going to go to the types of whores.
And then we're going to, I'm going to do announcements after these links.
And then we're going to put a link in the chat.
The idea that you should.
No good men will hook up with you on the first date.
Ah, she married a simp.
Sorry.
Sorry, Elizabeth.
I'm so sorry.
Just because your husband was dumb enough to believe you doesn't mean I am.
Doesn't mean I am.
That you shouldn't sleep with someone, particularly men, on the first date because they might not respect you or see you as like wifey material is antiquated.
It's stupid.
Yes, there are men who say and think this, but they just don't respect women, period.
So irrelevant.
For the most part, sleeping with someone on day one doesn't really impact your chances with them.
I personally have had many relationships and a couple of proposals with guys that I like slept with before really like dating them.
Like on the first date or even like before the first date.
And I dumped all of them.
The relationships did not work out.
And this is why I think you should not sleep with someone on the first date or the first few dates.
It's not because I think they're going to see you differently.
It's because I have dated people that I would never have dated if I had taken the time to go on a few dates with them and get to know them better before I slept with them.
Like I be getting digmatized.
Do not make my mistake.
Not to sex someone until you know that you fundamentally like them and are aligned with them.
See, I look at her.
That's like a chill slut, right?
The idea that she's just chill, you know.
If it goes wrong, she won't crash out.
She'll just bang the next dude.
Now, will she cheat?
Yep.
But at least, you know, you don't get the crazy stuff.
Okay, since I'm single, I'm trying to look like hotter at the gym.
So I got this three-pack of bike shorts for $28.
And they have the little like very slight ruching on the butt.
Donovan, you said, I translation, I slept with bad boys next.
Well, all you got to do is just change your language.
I'm definitely looking for something serious.
And then you can be next.
Okay, who's next?
What type of whore we got?
And okay, so I know we all have reached the age where we collectively just don't give a fuck about body count no more.
Cool.
But I will say this.
If you tell me that your body count is at a certain number, I ain't gonna lie to you.
I might be a little scared.
I ain't judging now.
Translation, I'm scared, but I'll still do it.
I'm scared, but it makes it better because I love the excitement.
I am not judging, but I will say this: if you sit up here and tell me that you want to fuck with me and your body count is over a certain number, I ain't fucking with you.
Because now it's like, what you take me for?
You didn't fuck the whole city and now you want to come settle down with me?
Yeah.
I don't like nothing about that.
I ain't gonna lie to you.
And I know y'all be like, I don't give a fuck about body count.
We too grown for that, this and that.
But realistically, if a nigga tell you his body count is a hundred plus two hundred plus three hundred plus, you still gonna fuck him?
Translation.
She did, in fact, fuck him.
Yeah.
What type of hoe is this?
What do you guys think your body count is?
What do you guys think?
All right, next we got okay.
I know a lot of people won't agree on this, but I lie about my body count.
Anyone know why?
And I learned that's called a smart hoe.
Well, she's dumb because she put it on the internet.
But the same way you guys lie about cheating if you're smart, women lie about their body count if they're smart.
From this one story, this guy asked me, he's like, hey, what's your body count?
I'm like, you tell me yours first.
I'm, I'm not telling you first.
He goes, well, like, a hundred.
I'm like, a hundred?
Like, you've been counting?
He's like, no, I just know it's around a hundred.
He's 34.
So I'm calculating and I'm not good at math, but that's a lot of people in years.
Okay.
I'm like, could you have maybe kept with one for a while?
No.
And he was like, well, what's yours?
I'm like, 15.
I don't know.
I did not know, but I think it was 15.
And he was like, that's kind of a lot.
Sir, sir.
Did you just hear what you said?
And my friends are like, this is why you don't respect men.
I do respect men.
But for some reason, I keep getting in cars and going on dates with guys who aren't respectful of 15, I guess.
So now just lie and say three every time.
Yeah, I think the numbers, I what numbers do you guys hear?
The women lie to me and they say three or six.
I think it depends on the age, like three to begin with.
They move up to six.
You get to the mid-30s.
I think they'll say like eight, seven.
I don't even care.
They don't even care.
They just want to put a picture of you that is so precious in their head until they meet my family.
Then you're going to start realizing.
What's mine?
Zero.
None.
Those three men have a lot of names.
Zero.
Oh, sorry.
One.
Okay, wait.
Okay.
All right, we're going to do a call-in show.
Ladies talking shit in the chat.
If you don't call in, I think I might ban you from my chat because if you're going to talk, if you're going to be contentious, then come in.
Go ahead.
Call in.
All right.
So a couple announcements.
This weekend, I'm dropping my documentary trailer.
Oh, and I'm so tempted.
I might show it to you guys tomorrow early.
I want to drop it on Sunday.
And we're dropping a trailer to raise money for it.
And I got off the phone with the team today and they gave me pricing.
And I'm going to give you guys rough pricing on what we're trying to raise.
100K, if we get to that, then it's like a low-budget documentary.
Half a million, pretty good.
Could potentially be sold to bigger networks like Netflix.
A million dollars, it's going to be like a high-budget film.
This is the divorce documentary where we interviewed men that are victims of divorce grape.
So the past two years, I've collected a lot of footage.
The issue is it's pretty, I don't want to say it's low quality, but for documentaries, it just wasn't.
The first team I picked just wasn't a great team.
They messed up some stuff.
I had to find a new one.
We have a really, really good team on it.
I can't really say the documentaries that they did before, but they're really, really good.
So I want to show you guys a trailer of what we already have.
The other thing is, too, I'm offering, if you donate five grand, I'll do a shout out to your ex-wife.
So if you have anything you want to say to your ex-wife, I'm putting that in.
20K, I will do, I will let you give a shout out to your ex-wife in the documentary.
So it really just, yeah, happy single Mother's Day.
I know that's why I'm dropping it Sunday, the commercial.
I'm thinking, I'm really debating.
I may give you guys, I'm very tempted to give you guys a sneak peek because I'm very proud of this trailer.
It's really good.
It's like super good.
So that's the first thing.
Second thing is we are launching our course on the 15th.
So, if you guys want to get into the Audacity Network at the price it's at now, which is $100 a year, $10 a month, I will honor it if you guys buy it now as a thank you, but the price is going up.
And the reason is I'm getting top tier content on this stuff, okay?
It's like top tier.
I'm bringing in a PI to show you how to catch your girl cheating if you want to check before you get married.
You know, trust, you know, don't go into things neurotic, but you can trust but verify, right?
I have Strickland is going to film some content that's about how to improve your life.
If you have any direct questions for him, DM me on Twitter.
I'll put it on.
And we have a lot of different creators that are doing some high-quality content.
We have one coming on that's going to teach you how to debate.
I have my own, which is how to be a YouTuber.
So if you want to go into YouTube or you want to sell clips or YouTube services, I teach you how to do that on the website.
Shiv also taught, Donovan wants me to.
I'll let Doug MPA decide.
Should I show him the trailer or should I, am I derailing the show, Doug, MPA?
I'll let him decide.
Should I show him or not yet?
Not yet.
Not yet.
He laid down the law, guys.
I got to wait till Sunday.
Yeah, wait till Sunday.
Wait till it's coming, though.
Anyways, come on, Pearl.
Not everyone is that kind of money.
$10 a month?
It's going to be expensive.
I've warned you guys for a few months now.
This is going to be expensive, but I'll honor it if you buy it now.
Okay, so the question today is, do you prefer whores or prudes and why?
And has your dating experience been with more prudes or more whores?
And why do you think that is?
So call in.
Ladies, if you have a disagreement, you're welcome to disagree.
The link is in the chat.
And yeah, Doug MPA, why don't you answer the question first?
So mine have been more, well.
Is it different based on where you lived?
Because you lived in a lot of different places.
Yeah, because I lived in 13 different states.
Okay.
And I would say when I was young, it was with a bunch of prudes.
But guys, honestly, once you start dating women over 30, like whores are all over the place, guys.
Come on now.
The older women get, the more desperate they get, the more whorish tendencies you'll see with women.
And what was your experience dating them?
Did you prefer the whores?
Did you prefer the prudes?
Can you give me some pros and cons of each?
Well, Pearl, we've talked about this in the past.
I think we have to redefine, because would you consider a whorish tendency a girl sleeping with a man on the first date?
No.
I mean, how many dates did she go on that week is the question?
Well, yeah, because you want to be the man that she wants to sleep with on the first date.
You don't want to be the guy that she wants to make weight, right?
No.
So I think that we need to redefine if that's a whoreish tendency or not is sleeping with a guy on the first date.
Because I don't.
And then also, guys, we won't consider a woman for a relationship until sex happens.
So if you sleep with her on the first date, then you can start auditing her to see if she's worth your time right away.
Yeah, it's kind of just getting to it faster.
Like, yeah, it's kind of it's I almost think when women want to get married, they kind of give it up more because it's like you kind of have to get to it, yeah.
And a lot of professional women, you know, who women with all these degrees and stuff don't have a lot of time because they're focused on their career or their education, whatever.
So they really want to get it in where they can fit it in.
So, but yeah, so when I was young, it was a lot of prudes because of the circles I was in.
I was a nerd and stuff.
But as I've gotten older and more accomplished, some of the best and brightest women have whores tendencies.
So I have a question.
Do you think they were prudes for you, or do you think they were actually prudes?
Like, do you think it was because you were younger and they just didn't like you that much?
Because obviously, when you're older, women like you more, Jennifer.
You know what?
Yeah, go ahead.
I'm not going to even lie.
You know, I didn't, when I was in my 20s, I was, I didn't start working out a lot until my mid-20s.
I didn't really play any sports when I was young.
So I was kind of just, I was always intelligent, but I was a skinny nerd.
So, yeah, they made it.
I probably took L's and they were prudish for me.
I'm not going to even lie.
Yeah, because, like, that's what I think.
Even the most prudish of women, like with the right offer, they're going to do it.
Yeah, I agree.
Yeah, like, I mean, it's just they didn't, it's just they're not hot enough to get any offers they liked, you know, or they're too unlikable or whatever.
And remember, I'm one of those, um, one of those, I was born and raised in the 90s, and I always say that as 90s raised men were the biggest simps ever.
We were the most romantic simps ever born.
So, yeah, I took a lot of L's in my in my lid in my early and mid-20s.
I'm not going to even lie.
What's the longest I saw the world through, huh?
What's the longest you waited when I was in my 20s?
Yeah, a while and never got it.
I think maybe like six months or something like that.
Yeah, damn.
I took some L's.
That's why I don't trust a guy who says he's never taken L or never simped because he's lying to you.
This is the United States.
This is the West, guys.
Come on, most of us have simped and taken L's.
Right.
Is there anyone that's called in or no?
Yeah, I'll let him in.
Oh, okay.
We got Lewis.
I'm gonna let Lewis in here.
Lewis, are you there?
Hey, Lewis.
How's it going, Louis?
Hello.
We can see you.
Hello.
Hey, guys, how you doing?
Good.
I hear an accent.
Where are you calling out of?
Hey, I'm fine.
How are you?
I'm good.
Where are you calling from?
I'm from Angola.
Do you know?
Do you know where Angola is?
I don't.
Yeah, it's in it's out on the African continent.
I'm from Angola.
You speak Portuguese, right?
Yes, I can.
Yeah, I know where Angola is.
Angola.
So what's your experience?
Do you prefer the prudes or the whores?
Well, I can't really say because in terms of, I mean, I would prefer, I would prefer like, well.
I don't know.
It's a hard choice, right?
Of course.
I would prefer prude, but you know, sometimes when you want to resist some stress or relief, I would say, you know, a whore would be good somehow.
But, you know, I'm not saying in terms of trying to degrade myself as a man, but you know, it's just basic male nature, you know, to have a sense of hunting and somehow conquering.
So how long would you be willing to wait like a month?
Yeah, okay, hold on.
I'll factor in something real fast.
So, let's say you guys are Lewis.
Hold on, Lewis, listen.
Listen, listen.
Let's factor in you dating her and spending money.
Let's say you have to take her on, take her out to dinner, do all the proper dating things.
So it's costing you money to spend time with this girl.
Would that affect how long you waited?
Is there a difference between waiting for sex from a woman if you're paying for dates and putting money into her or if you're not?
Do you understand the difference?
Does that change the length of how far you're willing to wait?
If you're putting time and money into it in some kind of way, there is because I mean, you know, I'm a man and we are naturally born or designed to just want to have sex because we use the mind more, and women are more, you know, sentimental.
You know, we're more strategic and we're all natural honors.
We're, you know, born to hunt.
Right, but you know, I just accomplish a mission.
Try to answer the question.
So, like, if you're taking her on dates, paying for them, how long are you waiting before you say this isn't worth your time and your money?
If you, you, let's say it's your okay, I understand, I understand it depends, but like, let's say you like her and she's what you're looking for, but you're spending what would you, what do you spend on a date, Doug, MPA?
I'd say, I'd say $150 to $200.
So let's say you're taking her on a date once a week for three months.
So what, what?
12 weeks times 50.
So that's $1,800 that you're having to spend waiting for this girl.
if you do not even not even factoring your time gotta get to it bud Gotta get to it.
How long?
A bunch of callers on the line.
I think I would just have to, you know, the child to walk off because she would just be wasting my time.
Okay, so for how long Kirk says, I only married my wife because she made me wait.
Kirk, I got bad news for you.
Okay, go ahead.
How long?
Okay.
I think it would be about two months.
Yeah, two months.
Okay, so you would spend At least if it's $100 a week, so like $800, so about a grand, not including your time.
So that's like $1,200.
But if you really liked her, she's worth $1,200 of wiggle room time.
Are you willing to take a $1,200 L?
Okay, we're going to move on to the next caller.
Yeah, because call on again another time.
We got to keep the cocky moving, okay?
Yeah, we got to.
I need you guys to like, we have a lot of people in the queue today, so just make sure we're answering the questions directly.
Okay, so we have Jake.
Jake, are you there?
Oh, hello?
Yeah, we can hear you.
Oh, yeah.
Hi.
Hey, Jake.
How's it going?
Not bad yourself?
I'm good.
Where are you calling from and how old are you?
I'm calling from the southwestern portion of the U.S. and I'm 39 years old.
Okay, cool.
So what's your experience?
Have you dated more prudes or whores and which did you prefer?
Definitely more whores.
I've dated a few prudes.
And even though it doesn't feel very good to say it out loud, I definitely prefer the whores.
I love it when guys are honest.
Now keep going.
Tell me why.
Why were they better?
So when you asked the question, I started to think about it.
I started to put some thought into it.
And I went back to a memory when I was 21.
When I was 21, I was dating this.
It was only for a couple of months, but I was dating this really nice Catholic girl.
And she was really nice.
And she actually, we met on MySpace.
She saw my pictures.
She found me attractive.
She added me.
She sent me a message.
She invited me out.
We started going out.
We started dating.
But here's the thing.
She was only like a five.
But, you know, hey, a 21-year-old five is nothing to shake a stick at, right?
Am I right?
No, yeah, right.
You were 21 at the time, too.
How old were you?
Yeah, yes.
We were both 21.
We were the same.
Bro, yeah, you're doing good because most 21-year-old guys ain't getting nothing out here.
Yeah, I mean, this was back in 2005, though.
But anyway, she was, like I said, a nice Catholic girl.
She was waiting till marriage.
You know, we dated a little bit.
We fooled around a little bit.
I mean, nothing, you know, too saucy, nothing, you know, too saucy or anything like that.
But it eventually ended.
And I wasn't exactly in the same place as her.
I wasn't the same faith.
I wasn't waiting till marriage.
And then a few months later, I lost my virginity to like a nine, a 21-year-old nine that looked like a Barbie doll.
Long blonde hair, blue eyes, big chest, big butt, perfect hip-to-waist ratio.
And I slept with her on the first date.
And it's like, who do you think I like better?
The nice prude Catholic girl that's waiting till marriage or that, you know, smoking bumshell Varbie doll?
Yeah.
And was that the only prude you dated, or did you date like more after?
In all honesty, yeah, that's the only one I dated.
I did have another experience with the prude, though.
Okay, go ahead.
She was my co-worker, and uh, she had a rule that she wouldn't sleep with the guy for six months.
That was her rule, and uh, you know, she was 26, I was 21, and that's about the age where my experience with prudes kind of ended.
But uh, anyway, um, you're done with that bullshit, sorry, yeah, yeah, yeah, for real.
Um, but uh, uh, I went home with her, um, because a bunch of co-workers went to a bar one night and she lived really close to the bar.
And since I was, you know, the youngest guy there, I was 21, um, you know, she, you know, everyone wanted to make sure that I'd be taken care of, so she let me go back to her place.
And I, I tried to, you know, you know, get in her pants, and she basically shot me down, she gave me a bunch of bullshit reasons as to why, and she told me, try to find someone your own age.
Uh, well, like five years later, we didn't work together anymore, but we still had a bunch of the same friends.
She came back into town, and by then, I'd already hooked up with her hottest girlfriend by then.
Now I'm 26, and she's like 31, and she'd put on a lot of weight, a lot of weight.
And we ended up at the same bar, and she was throwing herself at me crazy, like crazy hardcore, trying to like lure me back to her hotel room because she was back in town for the weekend.
And I was not having it because she'd put on so much weight.
But it's like, no, like five years ago, yeah, I totally would have, but now, like, no way.
Except I wasn't saying that.
I was just like, nah, I'm all hurt because you rejected me.
Guys are so nice.
Okay, God, God.
Yeah.
So, um, uh, basically, I mean, you know, I, I, I, I just kind of like the horrors because you know, that because they give you what you want, okay?
They're not playing the games, they're not leading you on and teasing you.
It's like they know what's up and they want what they want too.
You know, it's it's it's wonderful.
So, what's the longest you would wait now?
Like, what it?
So, what's the average you spend on a date, and how many would you wait before throwing in the towel?
And let's say you really did like the girl.
All right, so most of my lays have been within the first three dates.
Sometimes it's been the first, the second, or the third.
If I really, really like her, like you just said, um, at my age, like with what I know now and being RP'd, um, five dates max.
If it doesn't happen by date five, I need to move on.
Uh, and what do you spend a date?
Um, it's uh, it's it's circumstantial.
I think that the most I've ever spent was like 300 bucks.
Um, I don't know if that's a lot to you or to the audience or whatever.
What's your average, would you say?
My average is 60, 75.
Okay, so how big?
Okay, how big is the city that you live in?
You live in a major city, less than a million people.
Yeah, so you're still gonna be spending, yeah, 150 on a Friday night for a date.
Wait, you just do drinks, I'm guessing.
Uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, just drinks or concerts.
I mean, concerts can be a little bit more expensive.
Okay, okay, cool.
Um, that's all the questions I have.
Doug, do you have any more MPA?
I do not.
All right.
Well, it was nice to talk to you.
Uh, thank you for having me, Pearl.
Yeah, thanks for calling in.
Um, second.
One second.
Okay.
Really, Doug MPA, you don't ever do drinks?
Like, just drinks for first date?
I don't I don't drink most of the time, if at all.
Oh, okay.
And honestly, I here's the thing.
I don't mind doing dinner only because I waited tables for a long time, so I believe in the restaurant experience.
I like going to a nice restaurant, but I also don't like eating by myself.
So most of the time I'll take a girl to dinner just to go to a new restaurant.
Oh, because you want to go.
And I don't want to go by myself.
And you're just not a big drinker.
Yeah, I'm not a big drinker.
Yeah.
We're going to do Zach, and then we're going to do – Zach, are you there?
Zach, how's it going?
Zachie there?
He's still neglecting, apparently.
Zach going twice?
i'm gonna put you in the waiting room hey then we have guess who's calling in Who is it?
Dustin.
My guy, Dustin, what's going on?
What's going on, man?
Yo.
What's going on?
I have a feeling I know your answer, Dustin.
Hey, I gotta say, man, all my friends got girlfriends in the last couple weeks, so I haven't been able to, you know, talk about whores in a minute.
Okay, so whores are prudes.
Who have you dated more of?
Well, you know, no one's a whore until after I slept with them.
So that's what I date.
Yeah, but I probably whores.
It's just, you gotta, like, hang on.
Let me get this sun out of the thing about whores.
Is it you want to sleep with the whores that don't think they're whore yet and that say like oh, I don't sleep with guys on the first date, you know, or I don't?
Just uh, sorry.
So you want the whores that don't think they're whores yet?
Yeah, can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you fine.
Yeah, I want the whores that don't think they're whores.
Um, because they're less crazy.
But then um, like I remember this time I thought I was really picking up a cool chick, but I was just like really hammered and I had invited her to see a comedy show in Tacoma with me the next day that I had like I was gonna do a bit at and I I forgot that.
I told her that the night before and when she showed up at my place in the morning, I would, it was the worst thing.
Like she smelled bad, she was all crazy looking and when she came into my house she immediately jumped in my bed and she had like a choker thing on and she said, do you know what this is for or what this means?
I said I have no idea.
She goes.
This means I have a black belt and sucking cock, and this was the first time I ever hung out with this woman, after after that date, after I met her at the bar, and so that was a good, that was a good experience for you.
Well, hang on my let me turn my video off because uh, My microphone's not working, but um, we can hear you.
I wouldn't, yeah, but I can't hear you guys.
I don't know what happened with my phone, so I apologize.
But, um, I would say it was uh not a good experience because she was like too much.
Oh, she was oh, she like she had um owned the identity.
You like the ones in denial because they don't tell you, yeah, well, because like, yeah, because I'm from the same part of the of the nation where Dustin is, and the liberal whores that that are that aren't purple-haired with piercings and taxis, they can be pretty straightforward and get right to the whoreing right away in literature.
Yeah, yeah, he's right.
I was I was driving this girl, and we're driving, and she just takes her shirt off in the passenger seat, and and she's like all smiling at me and stuff.
And I was like, I'm driving, and so I turned the AC on and she put her shirt back on, and then like I was really hungover, so I pull over, we take a nap, and we start driving again, and uh, she just takes her shirt off again.
And I was just thinking, like, it was it was really strange.
And you know, for me to turn down like a some roadhead, that's a pretty big deal.
I didn't know what I was getting into, but um, yeah, uh, you want the you want the chicks that really think that they have a standard to set themselves to, and um, and then you just want to destroy it, yeah, because you can meet women in Portland, Seattle, that area that that have no standards at all, like none at all.
So, and so, what do you, Dustin, what do you generally spend on a date?
Oh, no.
So, I used to really lead with my wallet, and like, my favorite first date was like the melting pot.
So, I was spending on first dates, I like I was spending a lot of money, but the thing is, is like I did have an expectation, like if I'm spending that money, I'm getting something, you know.
And so, I'd make the dates be really like intimate, cool.
And I'm like, I'm sure that a lot of the women thought it was going to go somewhere, but it's just I really like to try new foods and go to fancy places and have just some eye candy.
I'm like, I like sometimes I'd ask girls out and be like, You don't even have to like me, just pretend to for like a half hour or an hour, just go out with me, and uh, you know, so just so what would you spend like a hundred bucks, 200 bucks?
Uh, like on the low end, like 80, and then on the high end, uh, I've taken a girl on a first date that was like 350 before.
Okay, so let's average at 200.
How many dates are you doing until oh, now, or how many days am I doing until I get laid?
No, until until if let's say you really like a girl, how long until you're just you're saying this is too much money?
Uh, like two.
I don't really like women, there's no way, man.
I don't think women nowadays, like women in my age range, if they're single, there's a reason for it.
So, I don't think that they even really know how to love, and maybe I don't either, but I really think they're all evil.
I feel like they're all plotting against me.
You're also in Portland, dude.
Oh, yeah, that too.
Yeah, I don't even know what's going on what's wrong with this place, but Portland, yeah, I don't think you can like a woman for longer than like a conversation over here.
Yeah, just move if you can.
I'm trying, dude.
I think uh, I think one of the Dakotas gave me a nice conservative lady.
Yep.
Cool.
So you've overall you've dated more whores than prudes?
Yeah.
Well, it just depends on what makes a whore like a whore.
Like if you say a body count of less than five, I don't even know that exists.
So probably a lot more whores.
Yeah.
Okay.
What do you think a whore is?
What?
What do you think a whore is?
Any girl that, one, is going to sleep with me on the first, second, or third date, but usually, you know.
So yeah, I guess that is everyone's a whore.
And then girls that, if you're on a date, they like talk about other men that have had expectations of them.
Like, oh, this other guy took me on a date and he thought this, or my ex would always do that.
Like the moment that happens, I'm just in my mind, like whore.
I wish I could have like a sign that pops up on my head and says, or you know?
Oh my god, that's so funny.
Okay.
That's all my questions I got, Doug MPA.
You got anything?
The link's in the chat.
Someone asked how to call in.
It's pinned.
Go ahead.
We're good to go because we actually have a woman on the line so we're going to let her in.
Oh, heck yeah.
Always good talking to you, buddy.
Yeah, have it going, guys.
Bye.
Okay.
Nope.
Nope.
Sorry.
Wrong person.
Wrong person.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Elizabeth, are you there?
It says connecting to audio.
Elizabeth.
Connecting to audio.
Elizabeth, are you there?
Elizabeth?
Apparently, she isn't connected.
Once.
Elizabeth, going twice.
We're going to put you back in the waiting room because it keeps saying connecting to audio.
Hello.
Yeah, we can hear you.
All right.
Hi.
Hi, Elizabeth.
How are you?
I'm good.
How are you?
Where are you calling out of and how old are you?
I'm in the United States and I'm 19.
Okay, how's it going?
Doing good.
What about you?
Good.
What did you call in to tell me?
I don't know.
I just don't agree with some of the things you say.
Like, oh, man's a simp if he's like waiting for something for you, you know?
Like, I don't agree with that.
I feel like.
I didn't say that he was a simp always.
I feel like that no man or woman would be with you.
I mean, would like have sex with you if on the first date.
Like, no good woman or man would let that happen, you know?
Yeah, I think that's a fun thing.
That's a pregnancy.
That's a fundamental misunderstanding of men.
Most men will have sex with you on the first date.
I feel like okay, well, how do I know you're good?
That's the thing.
You have to look at a person's actions and how they react.
Like, a good woman wouldn't let you hit on that.
Okay, so are you able to download a dating app?
No.
Do you have a cell phone?
Oh, yeah, but I wouldn't.
I don't like that.
Okay, but do you have access to the internet?
Yeah.
Okay.
Do you have an Instagram?
A private one, yes.
Okay.
Do you have Twitter, social media?
I don't have Twitter.
So, why should I believe you?
Like, why do I have to take your word?
I mean, I guess that's the truth.
Like, nobody can believe anyone saying that's true.
Like, I guess you just have to be with that person, go on a couple dates to truly know someone.
Like, I'm just saying, like, no woman would let you hit on the first date if she's good.
Okay, so how much money do you think a guy should spend on each date?
I mean, I don't care about like, I'm not my boyfriend.
My me and my boyfriend always go, like, we don't have a lot of money because we're just like young.
Like, we go to coffee shops, we go, like, on lakes, like sunset dates.
Like, we don't spend a lot of money on dates.
Like, right, but men view their time as money.
So, how many hours does a man have to put in to get sex?
Okay, so.
I feel like, in my personal opinion, I think people should at least wait until they're committed or wait until marriage.
Okay, but how do you know if he's even committed?
I guess how he's raised, how he like views the world, how his actions are.
So, but how do you know?
It's just a verbal commitment.
Like, he can say, You're my girlfriend and still be sleeping with someone else, right?
That's true.
I guess you just have to trust the other person.
Okay.
So, go ahead.
So, Elizabeth, I'm a lot older than you, right?
And it used to be where a man showed interest by being assertive, planning dates, courting a woman, and showing, giving her a preview kind of what life would be like with him.
So, a man would tangibly show that he was interested in a woman by spending his time and resources, right?
A woman would show she was interested and reciprocate his efforts by having sex with him and exclusively him.
And that's that, I mean, yeah, that's so, so, so, hold on, hold on.
So, how would you, how would you, how do you think a man should show interest in a woman?
And how do you think a woman should show interest in a man if they're intentionally dating towards something serious or marriage?
Um, I mean, I was raised in a more, uh, I was raised in a Christian, Russian, traditional family.
So, um, like a man asking you on a date, like bring like more like gentleman-like, you know, being a traditional man, and vice versa with a woman.
Like, you know, she shows loyalty.
She shows that she's traditional.
How does she show loyalty?
And how does she show that she's traditional?
By her actions.
Okay, what actions?
Like, you know, she having sex with him?
No, she cooks for him.
Like, she, she listens to him, like all those things.
Like, she, like, he leads her in the right direction.
Like, she listens to him.
She doesn't argue with him.
She, like, listens to what he says because he's not.
What do you think men care about more cooking or sex?
I think, I feel like most men in today's society care about sex.
I can tell you that most women in today's society don't cook.
I agree.
I'm not going to disagree with you on that.
I agree.
Well, then, what would you bring that up for?
As a way for a woman to show that women don't do that anymore.
That's why you got to find a woman who does that for you.
So you're a raised Christian, right?
Did you wait until marriage?
Yeah, I'm waiting until marriage.
Yes.
So you haven't slept with anyone?
no.
Okay.
Your boyfriend can believe that, but I don't have to.
I mean, I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14.
Yeah, but yeah, but why?
I mean, you still have access to the internet and dating apps.
I don't, I mean, I don't do dating apps.
I think they're stupid.
They're only for hookups.
Right now, why would I want anyone else if my boyfriend's the best out of the best?
Like, he's truly the best person.
I would move anything for him.
Do I care what women say?
Sure.
I mean, that's like, I feel like not to be mean or anything.
I feel like that's your problem.
Like, you just complain about women all the time.
You don't, you don't like show both sides.
Like, I don't know.
Well, I wouldn't have anything to complain about if women didn't keep doing crazy stuff, right?
I mean, I've had women that are as pure as you claim to be, right?
That waited till they were married, and they're some of the worst divorce stories I ever saw.
Terrible.
We have pastors out here, bishops getting divorced.
Their wives leave them and take them to divorce court, take their kids from them, alimony, all that stuff.
I agree.
So I have a question, Elizabeth.
If you did hook up with someone else, would your boyfriend know?
Yeah.
How would he know?
Because knowing me, I'd probably be too guilty and I would say something, which would never happen, though.
Okay.
And he has to.
Other than, so do people that lie generally come and give the truth out freely?
No.
But if you cheated, right?
How would he know?
He would just know because I would feel guilty and I would act weird around him.
And also the fact that he has access to my phone and everything.
Elizabeth, you know, the stat is 22 to 28% of men in the United States are raising kids who are not theirs.
Yep.
So there's a good chance, and that's a woman having another man's child.
So I would say it's probably triple that number, cheat, and get away with it.
Yeah, I agree.
There's some terrible women out there.
But why are you in this mindset that all women are terrible?
You have to.
I didn't say terrible.
There's some good woman out there.
I feel like I don't just blindly trust things I can't verify.
I get that.
I just feel like social media skews our perception into things.
I interviewed a thousand women.
A thousand.
Yeah, but that's not like women from the entire world, right?
It actually is.
I went to Ireland, England.
I interviewed women from Africa.
I interviewed women in the Midwest.
I interviewed women from Orthodox churches.
I interviewed, like, it goes on.
I mean, there's millions of women, so you can't really like.
It's a pretty good sample size.
Probably a better sample size than you've dealt with, right?
I mean, I know some good women.
Well, okay, who do you know that's a good woman?
I mean, you guys should go to Russian church.
Like, you'll find like the best woman there.
What is okay?
What's the religion called?
Well, I'm Pentecostal.
Pentecostal.
Well, my family is Pentecostal, but like we are Pentecostal Russian.
That makes sense.
Okay.
And it's a let's see.
There's look at Pentecostal churches, I don't know, in the United States that are Russian.
So, do you plan on marrying your boyfriend and being with him for your whole life and having kids and doing that whole thing?
Yes, 100%.
So, why are you guys not married now?
Because we're both young.
We don't have the money right now, sadly.
So, you're waiting for a dollar value to have a wedding?
No, it's not about the wedding.
It's about the housing, the general needs, and everything around that.
Because I'm pretty sure we're having our wedding at his cabin.
Yeah, but what would stop you from going to the courthouse and just getting it done?
I mean, that's true, but like you got to think about the housing.
What's wrong with a sex?
What's wrong with an apartment?
We just don't have the money for that.
You don't have a job?
No.
I mean, I have a part-time job.
He doesn't have a job.
He doesn't have a job.
No, he does have a job.
So what's he can't afford an apartment?
Like a one-bedroom?
Yeah.
He can't afford it?
Even with the combined income?
What does he make?
Yeah, like we don't want to struggle financially.
We want to be able to live.
Well, I guess what's more important?
Family or money?
I mean, would we want to stress and count our pennies every day?
You're doing that now.
We're both living with our family, so technically we're not really doing that.
Well, people used to just move in to their family's house together.
My mom doesn't want that.
She always tells me that.
And I don't highly, no, my boyfriend's parents would not like that either.
Sounds like an excuse to me, but hey, I'll take your word.
You sound like you have such conviction in your voice about this whole thing and your beliefs.
You think that you're going to be able to do that?
I just thought you'd get to it.
Yeah.
And lead by example.
You love this man.
Courthouse?
Are you guys part of the same church?
No, he's American, so he goes to his American church.
But you guys are both religious.
Yeah.
You're deep into your faith.
Yeah.
Why don't you just pull the trigger?
Get married.
Because, like I said, it's just like the financial aspect of it.
Huh.
Sure.
So what was your first exposure to Pearl's content?
Or did you just see clips?
I guess just TikTok and clips and all that.
So did you have any other groups?
So you don't like the fact that she just says that there's nothing but bad women all over the world?
I mean, from all, I mean, I watch her podcasts and all that.
I'm a person who believes that both genders in society do harm.
It's just not one-sided.
I just don't.
I feel like if red pill is just a gender war, I feel like just like both sides are wrong.
Like they're like, we shouldn't be able to do that.
What do men do wrong?
Oh, I can name a bunch of things.
Go ahead.
I mean, I see this all over.
I mean, men just want to hook up with women.
They don't respect women.
Like, you know, they look at like they watch a lot.
Who creates hookup culture, men or women?
I feel like both.
Both sleep.
If one didn't sleep with each other, there wouldn't be any hooks.
Are there more male virgins or female virgins?
There are probably more male virgins, but not by choice.
Who's in control of sex?
I guess women.
Okay.
So who makes the choice of when to have sex, men or women?
I guess can men take it from us?
Can they legally do that?
No.
Okay, so who makes the choice when sex happens?
I guess in today's society, woman.
Okay.
So who is responsible for hookup culture?
Men or women?
I feel like both, though.
Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like, if one didn't sleep with each other, then the other wouldn't have, like, you know, like, if both stopped sleeping with each other, there wouldn't all be hookup culture.
Okay.
So, checks notes.
Blames men still, even when it's women.
No, I don't blame men.
I blame both genders of society.
All right, who's what's the next one?
So you don't like that men sleep around just like women.
Okay, go ahead.
Um, you know, like I hear like in the halls or something, like, oh, she like I'll hit that or something, something like that.
Like, I just feel like why is society so based on hookups?
Okay, so you hear guys talking to each other about women in the halls, yeah, about hooking up.
It's just like gross, like there's no like, oh, she's really pretty.
I want to get to know her or something a lot.
Like, it's just sex.
Okay, do you think that men should want, sorry, do you think it's wrong that men are sexually attracted to women?
I think it's, I'm, in my personal opinion, I think it's wrong, like, if you're pursuing that.
So, it's wrong for a men to want to have sex outside, in my personal opinion, outside of marriage.
So, what's the difference between a woman that sleeps with her boyfriend and stays for life and a woman that's married?
I guess marriage is a commitment.
Right.
But is it still a lifelong commitment today?
Do people stay married?
No.
That's like the sad part.
Okay.
So then why is he ends up leaving most of the time?
Who breaks up these marriages most of the time?
Men or women?
Women.
Okay.
Go ahead, Pearl.
Did you have both?
Are your parents still married?
Yes.
Sorry, I couldn't hear my thumbs.
And so everyone around you is just married, huh?
And just doesn't, and just doesn't have sex at all.
They all just wait.
I mean, I don't really know that because it's like, no, like.
No, I mean, you said they just got to find like good women.
So I'm guessing the like women around you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You're going to tell them like what, where?
So they can go find them.
The Orthodox Church, huh?
I mean, yeah, just like.
Is that Orthodox?
Is Russian Orthodox different than just Orthodox?
Yes.
I think they're just different.
I mean, I wasn't raised Russian Orthodox.
I was raised Pentecostal.
So since you're all wise and knowing for being 19 years old, how would you recommend a guy find one of these good women that you're talking about?
A guy that won't leave him, take his kids.
I'd say just focus on God in your life and have.
Why is that fun?
Worked out for me.
Yeah, but you won't.
Six years, you won't pull the trigger, right?
Like I said, it's just financial aspects.
Right.
Okay.
Um, yeah, you're you're 19 years old, and all I can do is hope that the best for you.
Um, I would just recommend: um, if I were to tell you what a real woman should do as a man, you if I were to say a real woman would, you wouldn't hear anything I'd say after that.
And it's the same thing for women, like women don't get to tell men what real men should do, so just you keep that in mind because you wouldn't appreciate it if a man told you what a real woman should do.
I mean, sorry, sorry to interrupt, so conversely, the opposite is true.
I mean, I feel like men already say what woman should be and what are.
Am I not wrong?
Isn't that modern women?
Modern women don't listen to anything men say anymore.
Doesn't that back up your worldview, though?
Because if you're religious, don't you believe in a patriarchy?
What do you mean, a patriarchy?
Like, as in the man is the head of the household, the God man, woman, children.
Yep.
Okay, so if that's the natural order, then wouldn't it make sense that men can tell women what to do, but women can't tell men what to do?
But his logic was like, because you're a man, because you're a woman, you can't tell what men should be.
So as a woman, men don't know what women can be or what can they not be since they don't understand women, you know?
No, but I'm saying if you believe in patriarchy, then he's exactly right.
Like you're using an egalitarian argument and saying that, well, if men can't tell us what we should do, then we can't tell men what they can do.
And I'm saying if you're religious, which most people aren't, so if you're not, it's like that would make sense.
But it's like if you're saying that you're this like Christian trad chick or whatever, then like you would recognize the difference between men and women and have more of a patriot and have more of a patriarch or world patriarchal worldview.
But if you're nagging men on what they can and can't do, then that's out of order.
I mean, my views just go off of like traditional values.
No, because any woman, yeah, any woman that tries to say what a man should and shouldn't do is automatically a feminist.
How?
I'm just going based off like what like what the Bible says.
How is it your place to tell another man how to run his relationship?
I'm just going off what the Bible says.
But it says women shouldn't preach in churches and her husband.
Yeah, it's always the parts that like women don't like.
They just kind of like skip over.
I mean, I mean, you can read the full chapter.
That's literally what it says.
Yeah.
I'm going to smell a little bit of feminism in here.
Just a little bit.
I think it's deep down in there somewhere.
I don't agree with the feminist view.
Okay.
Well, you say the same things they say.
So I mean, I hope all goes well for you, Pearl.
I'm just saying, like, I sometimes like, I just disagree with some of the things you say it.
Yeah, but you don't say I'm wrong.
Some of the stuff I could agree on.
Like, if women have aborted an eighth of the world population, are they generally good people if a third have committed murder?
I mean, I'm not saying that.
You're Christian, right?
You think that's murder, right?
Yep.
So one out of three, it's not too good, right?
Yeah.
Doesn't even include plan B's if you think that's abortion.
So, what like where like you can say you don't like it and how it makes you feel, but you're not telling me where I'm wrong.
I agree with that part, right?
But where, like, where am I wrong?
I'm just, I'm there's obviously bad women out here, but I could say the same for men.
Like, the crime rates for men are high, aren't they not?
Uh, what percent of men have committed a violent crime?
I don't actually know that of men you know that 75% of abuse towards the elderly and children is committed by women, you know that, right?
Yeah, I wonder why, though.
Kind of curious about that.
Does it matter why?
I mean, I kind of want to know why, okay, because a lot of people try to find the why to make it okay.
No, no, I'm not saying it's okay, I'm just genuinely curious, like, why that is.
Men have it's because I'll tell you my reasoning why I think it is.
5% of men have a felony.
Sorry, the reason why women take out perpetuate violence on the elderly and children is because they are physically stronger, the children and the elderly.
And the reason why women don't abuse men more is because they can't because they're not as physically strong as men.
But women will abuse anything that they're physically stronger than that makes sense.
What else am I wrong about?
Um, I don't know, but I mean, I can't get it on the top of my head.
Well, okay, well, you can call in tomorrow if you think of something, yeah.
And you know, I'm hoping that you live by your convictions and you get married and have lots of kids because remember, you know, I hope you do.
What is it you you multiply?
You have a bunch of babies.
Isn't that what God commands you to do?
Yeah, actually, my uh aunt had 12 or 11 kids.
Yeah, I hope you do.
I just wouldn't bet on it.
I'm just saying, I'm just saying she had.
I hope you do.
It's just every stat tells me it won't happen.
So, I really, I really do.
I never wish bad upon anybody.
So, just one more question: Are you going to college?
Yeah, uh-oh, but um, I'm actually in um, I'm living with my mom and commuting to college, but I'm a digital.
What's your major?
Wait, why not?
Like, why not save that money for you guys's house?
Um, I'm technically on financial aid right now, so what's your major uh business?
Okay, well, keep us updated.
Let us know when the wedding bells are gonna ring, okay?
Maybe I can get an invite.
Can I get an invite?
Sure, I'll invite you.
Okay, all right, thanks for calling in.
Uh, if you think of anything, feel free to call in next show, okay, Elizabeth.
All right, have a great one, yeah, you too.
Bye.
All right, people have been waiting, but I'm gonna let the man of the hour in real fast, Mr. Donovan Sharp, yeah, Donovan.
You have to cleanse our palate, my friend.
Oh, hey, can you guys hear me?
Yes, yeah, I can hear you.
Okay, I didn't even, I didn't even realize, I didn't even realize I was on.
Um, hey, how are you guys doing tonight?
Good.
How are you?
I'm doing real good.
Um, I just thought, I just thought I'd call in and give my thoughts on what you were talking about.
I don't want to talk to the 19-year-old girl.
She's a feminist.
I was going to say, yeah, I was still waiting for you.
Last caller, please, dude.
Like, look, man, the facts are this: is women, most women say that they're not feminists, but they almost all, almost all of them have feminist beliefs.
That's just always, that's always the way it's been, you know, and you know, there, you know, there's a lot of virtue signaling there, you know.
And I think there were probably some details about what she was talking about.
She just, she was just flat out lying about, you know what I mean?
Like, she says they don't have money, yet they're going to have the wedding at his cabin.
If this guy doesn't have money, then how does he have a cabin, right?
It's like, come on.
Even the college, it's like, if you don't have money, why are you going to college?
Man, like, it's, it's, we, we live in a world.
And basically, what she was trying to tell you, Pearl, she couldn't, I think you nailed it.
She, she, she just doesn't like, she doesn't like that you're saying it.
She couldn't prove you wrong on anything.
She just doesn't like the way what you say makes her feel.
And so that's why she decided to call in and challenge the great Pearl Davis so she can tell all her little feminist friends that she told off Pearl Davis on her show.
That's all that is.
Well, and the other question is: like, what's the holdup if you want to marry him?
You know, when women want to marry a guy, they'll jump like, didn't you tell, didn't you tell Devin you were getting married?
Didn't even ask.
Yes, yes.
Yes, I told her.
I did.
I told her, I told her we're getting married.
I actually did it live.
Actually, and also, think about this.
If she isn't married yet, it could be that he hasn't opposed to her yet.
So there's listen, I got, I got a news flash.
She's not marrying that dude.
She's not marrying that dude, man.
Well, she's going to college, man.
It's over.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Exactly.
She's going to college.
And I think she secretly knows she's not going to marry this dude.
Number one.
Number two, I don't believe she's a virgin.
There's no such thing.
Dude, a 19, there are no 19-year-old virgins anymore.
Like, girls are losing their virginities at an accelerated rate.
We all know this.
And here's another thing.
She says, well, you can find good women everywhere or, you know, there's good women out there.
And I know lots of good women.
Okay.
If you know lots of good women, just like you said, Pearl, then those would be the women around you.
But she couldn't tell you what good women she knows, which means that her friends are all whores.
And as we say, birds of the feather flock together, man.
I'm not saying like she's a whore of epic proportions by any stretch of the imagination.
You know, I couldn't really, I couldn't really see her like, you know, reading her body language, but I could tell that she was being dishonest and being really disingenuous in a lot of what she was talking to you about.
So the question is, your dating experience was it mostly prudes or whores?
And when you were out there, which one did you prefer?
Which one did you prefer and why?
Oh, man.
When I'm feeling particularly devious, dude, whores for the wind, man.
Horse for the wind.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Why were they?
Why were they better?
You want to know why whores are better?
And this is something that a lot of guys probably don't realize.
The reason why dating a whore is so, is a better, it's a better experience, not overall, because of course, if you date a whore, eventually it's going to, the relationship's going to end.
She's going to cheat.
But what a lot of men don't realize is that experiencing dating sluts is because sluts have so much experience, they actually mimic good girl traits better than good girls themselves.
And so when you and and when and when you're dating a slut and she really likes you, she's going to turn on that good girl charm.
Good girls don't, good girls don't really know how to turn on the charm.
They don't know that good girls don't really have girl game.
They just kind of are.
If a girl's not sleeping or if anytime a girl is not sleeping around, she doesn't really understand, you know, how, you know, what, what men want, how they, how we operate, et cetera, et cetera.
You know, and again, you know, good girls, you know, we all want the virgins and this and that and the third, you know, but at some point, I think most of us have to realize that most women are sluts.
What did you say is a slut can turn on the good girl for the right man absolutely if it's necessary, but a good girl can't turn on the slut.
Oh, no, a good girl can definitely turn on the slut.
Look, man, look, man, every girl, listen, I don't care how much experience a woman has or doesn't have.
A woman could be all a woman has to do to be a slut is decide to.
So, what did your average date cost when you were dating?
Before I moved to Vegas?
You could get when I was a sim?
No, no, no, like after.
Oh, Jesus, 25, maybe 30 bucks.
Today, would that be like, because this was like 10 years ago, right?
Or no?
Yeah.
Oh, Jesus.
Oh, my God.
I'm getting old.
I was just wondering, inflation's bad.
It's probably like 20 years ago.
No, that makes sense.
I guess, well, I would always do this.
This was, this was my, this was always my first date to get delayed.
I did this almost every single time.
So we'd meet up for drinks.
Number one, I never, ever, ever took a girl out to dinner on the first date, ever, ever, ever.
Okay.
It would always be to meet up for drinks.
And I would have a plan to go to take her to another bar, but I wouldn't tell her that.
So I'm escalating.
I'm building, you know, I'm building things up.
I buy myself a drink.
I buy her a drink.
You know, we're, you know, we're drinking.
We're having fun.
I order a second drink.
Right.
And, and so at this point, I guess, I don't know how much drinks are these days because I don't, I don't go out and drink.
But what I do is I, I, I buy us drinks, then I buy us a second drink.
Okay.
I would, I would drink my drink a little bit faster and then, and I would make sure that she finishes second.
Then all of a sudden, and now during, during my first drink, I'm scheduling an Uber.
Okay.
So I schedule an Uber and I sit there casually, blah, And she's probably thinking I'm texting other girls or whatever, which is fine.
Okay.
So before she finishes her second drink, I say, I say, you know what?
I'm like, you know what, Cindy?
If I'm out with a girl named Cindy, you know what, Cindy?
I just had a thought.
I down my drink, then I down her drink.
I pay my tab.
I put a $20 bill on the bar.
I grab her hand and I lead her right outside into the Uber.
Now, at that point, she's going to want to know.
She's going to want to know, where are we going?
Where are we going?
And I'm just like, it's a surprise.
It's a surprise.
The magic is in the ride over.
Okay.
It's just, it is almost always to another bar that I would take other girls to.
The point is, is I would escalate until we got to the other bar.
And she's like, oh my God, I can't believe this.
It would be very exciting for her sitting there thinking, oh my God, where is this man taking me?
And so there I would probably buy another two drinks after that.
And then, of course, you know, you go for the lay.
So I would say, I guess inflation, 40, maybe 50 bucks.
Okay.
So 50 bucks.
How many dates are you taking a girl on before you just say this is a lost cause?
A lost cause for sex?
Yeah.
Like, how many dates do you just say, okay, she doesn't like me?
This is a waste of time.
Let's say you really did like her.
How long are you sticking around until you just say no thanks?
If I really like, maybe two dates.
Because the thing is this.
The thing is this.
If a girl really likes you, she is going to sleep with you.
That's just all there is to it.
She's going to sleep with you.
Now, every, and now every once in a while, I would run up on a hoe and take her out.
Oh, no, you know, I don't sleep, you know, with guy on the first date.
She gives me a little bit of plan A energy.
She pays attention to me, blah, She gives, she gives me the impression that she's not sleeping with, you know, sleeping with anybody else.
And then, of course, I'll take her on date number two.
And at that point, if I still don't sleep with her, then I'm assuming, then I assume she doesn't like me.
So it's two dates for me.
When you were in Vegas, I'm sorry, go ahead.
When you were in Vegas and like going through these, like hooking up with a lot of women, did you and your friends ever like cross over and find out you like hooked up with the same girl?
It's like, dude, we hooked up with the same girl, you know, five different times.
No, but I would say, I don't know, two, three times a year, you know, I'd, you know, hey, you know, I just fucked this girl over.
I'd be like, hey, you know what?
I think I hooked up with her this time last year.
Interesting.
So I have a question for Donovan.
So a lot of guys will say that a girl that sleeps with you on the first date is automatically whore, or that's whoreish tendencies, right?
But I always say you want to be the guy that she wants to sleep with on the first date.
You don't want to be the guy she makes weight.
So right.
Okay.
So do you consider a woman sleeping with you on the first date automatically whoreish?
Yes, 100%.
That's why I told you I wait until date number two.
Keeping it real.
Donovan, that's awesome.
It's look, it's, it's really, it's, look, man, one thing that I have learned, listen, I don't know much, but I know money and I know women.
And one thing that I have learned about women is that if they really like you, they will literally move heaven and earth to be with you.
And it doesn't matter whether she's in a relationship or not.
If a girl likes you, she will absolutely sleep with you.
She will absolutely sleep with you.
Now, a lot of, and now the thing is, is how do you get to that, that relationship, right?
Like if I sleep with a girl on the first date, I automatically put her in the sex only calorie.
Okay, Donovan, you said you've dated girls in Vegas.
You've been in relationships with them before.
How did that happen?
Well, the way it goes is this, is if I really like a girl and I don't sleep with her on the first date and I sleep with her, I sleep with her on the second date.
The way this happens is she gives me, you know, she gives me plan A energy, right?
And this is if she really, really likes you.
So for example, like availability.
If you're, if you're the, the one she wants to be with, she's always available.
If you call her to come over, she'll be there.
She always responds to your texts quickly.
You know, if she, if, if, if she has plans, she'll, she will inconvenience herself to see to see you.
She'll answer every single time you call at all hours of the night.
But if you're her backup guy, her text messages are sporadic, not always enthusiastic, sometimes hours, days apart.
She'll rarely pick up the phone or answer the phone when you call.
She can, you know, she can, she cancels meetups, all that good stuff.
You know very quickly as a man if a woman really does like you.
And I think, and listen, I have simped like I've simped a lot back in my day.
That's why I eventually became who I became.
But sometimes to go, you know, to go to get through the fire, you really have to walk, you really have to walk through the fire.
You really, really do.
You have to put yourself out there.
It's easier said than done.
But I'm glad that I was able to do it in the era that I'm in.
Cause I, dude, I feel honestly, I feel sorry for men today, man.
I feel sorry for men, man.
Donovan, I always say, I always say all that.
90s raised men were the most romantic simps ever born.
Jesus fucked.
Because we had the RB music.
We had Urkel chasing Laura.
We had Roger chasing the sister-sister twins.
We were the most.
And then remember, in the 90s was when men were like, why do all these, why do all these rappers follow you?
Yeah.
Is that Trey songs?
Right.
Is that you?
And I, you know, this is interesting.
This is interesting.
Actually, had a consultation client last weekend tell me that he was dating this girl.
He lives at he he he lives in the Middle East and he was dating this.
He was on a date with this girl.
And he drives like a Ford Raptor.
He drives like a Ford Bronco Raptor.
It's like a really nice, it's like a really nice car out there.
Yeah, it's like $170,000.
Yeah, yeah, it's crazy.
And so there's some kind of technology that he has in his car.
I can't even describe it because he went on and on about it.
But then the girl that he was with, she was like, oh, yeah, I've seen those before.
I've seen him on yachts.
I've seen him on boats.
I've seen him on this yacht.
It was like, wait a minute.
You've seen this on a yacht?
She's like, yeah.
He's like, okay, well, where have you seen what?
Where have you been on the yacht?
She's like, oh, you know, Dubai, the Maldives.
Told him all he needed to know.
Told him all he needed to know.
Yeah, she's getting pooped on by Sheikh Ahmed.
Sir.
Being said, a shit sandwich.
But yeah, I just wanted to, I just wanted to call in and, you know, say what's up to you guys.
By the way, well, never mind.
I shouldn't do that.
Listen, love what you do, Pearl.
You know, congratulations on your success.
Congratulations on getting remonetized.
I'm very, very happy for you.
And you gotta show us, you teased it, Pearl.
You gotta show us a preview of the trailer.
I can't believe that.
You did us dirty, Pearl.
We need to see the preview.
God damn it.
I'll let Doug MPA.
I said you gotta, I put a man in charge.
Hey, goddammit.
I'll talk to you guys later.
Okay, Donovan.
All right, guys.
Hey, we're gonna let some new people in because there's some new people that have never been on here.
This person C has been waiting.
Hold on.
C, are you there?
Oh, hey, you've called in before.
How are you?
Oh, yeah.
His name is.
Okay, now he's checked.
Are you there?
I am here.
How's it going?
Yeah, good to see you again, buddy.
How's it going?
Doing well.
Thanks for having me back up.
I appreciate it.
So, horrors are prudes.
Oh, man.
Isn't that the question of the hour?
I really enjoyed that.
Before I get to that, I really did enjoy that conversation with Elizabeth.
Donovan kind of recapped most of my thoughts on that, though.
So he beat me to it.
But yeah, I also want to second that she is a total covert feminist.
And I wish I was there to press her a little more just on that on that mindset there.
So that was interesting.
She's 19, bro.
How much can you press a 19-year-old?
And then she's in college right now.
Give it a year or two.
She's going to be a full-blown feminist.
And come on now.
Oh, yeah, definitely.
Definitely.
Yeah.
I mean, yeah, you're right.
She is 19.
And I think like being that young, they're probably like, I do almost want to give her the benefit of the doubt that sure she could be a virgin, but even if she is, I mean, especially with her probably not at college yet, I'm assuming, or maybe she just started.
But first semester, her boyfriend can't get an apartment, allegedly.
She's gone.
And also, also, like, with her, her boyfriend has gone six years of being with this girl and never gotten any man.
What kind of self-respect is that?
Yeah.
Yeah, that was crazy.
But I think it was good to have her up, though, because it really does show, I would say, how 90% of women feel when it comes to this.
It's just like, oh, I don't like how what you say makes me feel.
Or there's good women out there.
Like, they can't understand the basic concept of generalities and how the world operates in generalities.
Or they're narcissistic because they think they're special.
Like, you have to kind of be like, that's what they always do.
They'll come up and try to signal to me that they're this perfect woman.
I'm like, are you?
No flaws?
None?
Okay.
So I think he's ducking the question.
Whores or prudes?
And what's been your experience?
What do you prefer?
Lay it on us.
Oh, man.
I mean, I like to say I've had a mix of both.
I guess in general with most of my dating life, I mean, if I'm going on dates, it's like most of the time I am going with the mindset of, okay, this girl's probably a whore.
And that's probably what I prefer since I am just looking for fun.
But I will say, I feel like I maybe have come across a prude before.
But the tough thing with prudes is like, I don't think any girl that's really not a virgin can be a prude, if that makes sense.
Like, that's the only exception.
And I don't even know if I'm at that point now where I would, but that's the only exception where I would like maybe wait longer than I want to is if she actually is a virgin.
But then again, like, how can you actually verify that?
It's probably more than half the time they're lying about it.
The girls that were prudes, do you think they were actual prudes or just a prude for you?
Like they just weren't into you like that?
Yeah, I mean, I would say most of them were trying to put on the mask or cover of like being a prude, but they actually weren't.
But I want to say, I mean, it usually was like probably like my early years in college, maybe like one or two girls I'd come across actually kind of through the church.
But still now looking back on it, it's like, were they actually, so I'm kind of, I'm kind of doubting a lot of that, but I would say it's, it's actually really hard to find like a true prude.
Most of them are just putting on like a front, if that makes sense, to try to get that, make sure to read that super chat.
It says, Joshua says, here's my support to you.
Thank you, Joshua.
That's very kind.
Love the conversations you're having on your channel.
You're amazing.
And I love the mindset you have for the world.
Thank you very much, Joshua.
What is the average spend that you do on a date?
Like, how much do you spend on average?
Yeah, I mean, I would say now probably, I mean, it's going to be cheap because like I've, ever since like the last few years, you know, I probably have just opted out completely out of dinner dates and that whole concept.
So yeah, I mean, I would say I'm definitely spending under 100.
So 75 on average?
On average, probably like anywhere between like probably 30 to 60 on average, but never over 100 is what I meant to say.
So how many dates do you give before you just say this isn't worth your time and your money?
That she doesn't put.
Good question.
Maximum is definitely two at this point.
But again, the only time that I would wait more than that is if I was for some reason, reason actually convinced she was a virgin.
How long would you wait if you were convinced she was?
Six years?
Oh, man.
No, not six years.
Not six years, but it would be different.
Oh, that's a good question.
I mean, obviously, I haven't really, to be honest, I haven't been put in that situation where I've actually had to do that waiting for a virgin.
I think that's really rare and hard to find.
So, yeah.
But if I did probably, I mean, I don't even think I would really do that at this point, if I'm being honest.
So, okay.
But I guess if you really, if you really like a girl, does she get three months?
She could get three months.
Yeah, sure.
Like with a virgin, you're saying?
Sure.
Yeah, with a virgin, definitely.
And how many dates a week would you do for three months?
Definitely no more than one a week.
Okay, so you'd see her once a week for three months.
Yeah, I'd have to.
Yeah, exactly.
But I just think at this point, that's actually just an unrealistic situation because it's like, like you said, it's hard to believe these days that they're actually telling the truth about that.
And for me to wait three months, it's like, it's just not even real.
So the real answer is what a month?
Yeah, probably, probably like a month.
So if you go out with a girl and everything goes great, and let's say you think maybe she's not a virgin, but you think she's one of those, she doesn't do this very often, or you kind of really, really like her and stuff, but then she wants to go back to your, you take it back to your house and then she hops right on you, right?
So first date.
Does that affect your opinion of her moving forward?
Do you see her as more whore-ish?
That's actually a great question.
And I feel like I kind of have a hot take on this answer.
To answer your question, no, I don't.
I would totally, I could totally see myself committing to a girl that I have sex with on the first date.
I think that kind of, I mean, not trying to just feed off what Donovan said, but he really hit the nail on the head when he said, like, the way a woman, you know, a woman likes you is when she sleeps with you.
And that's going to be the case for, I would say, at least 99% of women.
So I, I mean, I think as a, as a man, though, you should look at it like, you know, if you do work on yourself, if you are, you know, trying to be quote unquote that guy, whatever that might mean to you, it's like, you shouldn't expect less.
So, I mean, I've dated girls.
I've had good relationships with girls that I've slept with on the first, on the first date.
And I don't necessarily think or like, I don't think low or pessimistic immediately as if like, okay, she's doing this with a bunch of other people.
There's other tendencies I'd look out for that would give me a red flag on if she's a hoe, not if, not when she's comfortable to sleep with me, if that makes sense.
Like what?
Yeah, I mean, there's going to be a whole bunch of other things, but one, her social media, her friends, you know, her lifestyle, if she's going out a bunch, you know, there's, there's so many things.
You know, for, I mean, there's been little things even like on first or second dates where I can even pick up, like, if her phone's blowing up with like dumb things like Snapchat notifications, a bunch of Instagram notifications, like you can kind of just, you know, I've seen it on a table before and like that's an automatic red flag.
So there's a, there's a handful of little cues that I would pick up on.
But again, I'm not just going to knock a girl for liking me and wanting to, you know, have sex with me on the first date.
Yeah.
I don't know if you caught me talking about, I talked to Pearl about this before.
I said, we kind of want to redefine what a woman's sleeping with you on the first date means.
Because I know it seems, oh, yeah, she's a whore if she sleeps with you on the first date, but would you rather be the guy that she makes wait?
Yeah, it's either or I'd rather be the guy that she sleeps with on the first date of the week.
I mean, when we're looking at it in this context, the whore that sleeps with you on day one provided more value than Elizabeth did to her boyfriend in six years.
Right?
I mean, six years you're not going to be a little bit more than that.
Pearl never lies.
She never lies.
Pearl, you're killing me.
Like, what's better?
You were so straight up with her.
I was like, oh, man.
But yeah, that's a good point.
Yeah, well, because the only thing I just think if you're going to wait till marriage, you better get the marriage soon because, like, what is he waiting around for?
Yeah, she was totally just like one foot, like, with the oh, I'm a traditional Christian, but then her other foot was like, she just had the total modern feminine.
I know, I know women that seriously were waiting till marriage, but they were like, if they liked a guy, they were marriage is coming like immediately so we so I can have sex with him.
Like, that's pretty much.
I mean, if anyone's been in a super religious church, like they move fast when they actually want to get married.
Um, yeah, definitely.
I actually had a high school sweetheart, um, pretty much dated her all through high school.
And um, yeah, I mean, like, I didn't lose my virginity until after uh, I dated her, but it was it.
That's basically how it was.
It was like right after high school, like, she was super religious and wanted to get married immediately.
Um, but yeah, I would definitely agree.
There is that pressure, so yeah, that is a red flag.
Maybe she's actually not a virgin, or I think because I've heard of this.
One of my friends, when I was younger, uh, he met this girl and they got married real fast to have sex.
He was 23, she was 20.
But all through high school and middle school, she had the same boyfriend, and they went through a rough patch.
She broke up with him and then got with my friend and married him after like six months and had sex with him.
But her boyfriend before him, they were getting it for like six or seven years, never had sex, and then she married my friend, had sex with him right away.
Yeah, that's that's definitely a reality of how it works.
I've actually seen stuff like that too.
It's actually crazy how they're giving up all your other options for life, and the only thing the woman had to do was not have sex with anyone else.
It's a good deal for us, to be honest.
Oh, man, you guys can Jack Hum.
Hello?
Yeah.
Hey, Jack, how's it going?
Hi, Pearl.
You could probably tell by my accent, I'm a Nausi.
Whether you can or not, it's not really the point.
But yeah, I just wanted to call in and just say I've been listening to you and watching you for the past, say it was about three and a bit years now, just coming up in three years.
And yeah, I agree with quite a lot of what you say.
And I do more of my due diligence of watching things in full in regards to videos and all that sort of stuff.
So instead of watching YouTube Shorts, which I just think is YouTube's TikTok, I watch all your full videos live and all that.
Even the Andrew Tate one where you have Andrew Tate, which was that three-hour or so long video.
I had that and it was really informative.
It definitely did change a lot of pre-thoughts I had about what they were trying to portray about Andrew versus what actually Andrew was trying to talk about with other people in the room as well.
So thanks so much for watching.
I appreciate it.
What's your thought on this?
Those episodes on her on her website.
So if you haven't gone to her website and become a member, all her Andrew Tate stuff is on the website.
Yeah, I appreciate it.
I'll get around to that as well.
It's on my to-do list.
I'm currently looking for work at the moment.
What's your thought, Sam?
Have you dated more prudes or whores?
Which one do you prefer?
Quite honestly, and I was listening to the previous guy.
I've forgotten his name now.
I've been listening to the previous guy before you guys got to me.
And to answer your question broadly, I mean, I guess it's a question I put to you, Doc.
I think, Doug, sorry, Doug.
Doug MP.
Yeah, Delgampier.
I'd honestly put a question to you.
If that's you in that situation and the woman's not a virgin and you take her out on the first date and then she sleeps with you in the first date, as opposed to waiting X amount of months, years, like another person we probably won't mention, do you what do you take out of that?
Do you take any value?
Do you take any equality?
Women will only sleep with men on the first night that they're actually attracted to.
So that shows the ultimate attraction if she sleeps with you on the first night.
Well, believe it or not, I actually happen to agree with you on that because there's a lot of cases.
And I'm not going to speak about any of mine because I'm going to be quite honest with you and I don't mind being roosted by anyone in your comment section or anything like that.
I've actually never been on a date.
I have had sex with a few women, but they haven't been dates as such.
They've just been me trying to get down at a nightclub trying to dance.
And over here in Australia, it's pretty different than in America or even the UK.
I mean, it's not as what's the weather I'm trying to look at, trying to figure out here.
It's not as you know, difficult, probably not difficult as such.
So people don't go out as much and they just hook up at like nightclubs.
Like that's been more your experience?
My personal experience, yes.
But again, I'm only speaking for myself.
I can't speak for the guy across the street.
So have you ever had a girlfriend or any like a situationship long term?
No.
So I'm 27 years old.
I'm turning 28 at the end of this month.
And in the 27 years that I've been around and since I've been 18, that's only where I really started going into the serious part of dating and all that sort of stuff, or even just hookups and all that sort of stuff.
Because for a long time, and this was even before I even knew Pearl existed on the internet or even in life, or if there was a woman that was like Pearl that would actually talk about this to this extent, you know, I was kind of one of those people that think that, you know, there are those types of women out there that will tell you one thing, but really they are only they mean the other thing when they just don't want to say it because they don't want to actually be that person you talk about all the time.
They don't want to be, the woman doesn't want to be the girl you're referencing or the women type of woman that you're referencing every time.
So sorry, that's my phone going nuts.
Yeah, but Dancy, to answer the question, which one would I prefer?
And again, going back to what you said, I think I would prefer the woman that actually wants to have sex with them on the first date because that is a sense of value that a man can find.
And whether it's a matter of having game or whether you want to use that word or not, you know, I can't really speak, speak out loud about it.
So, yeah.
I think you can hear me if you're in the middle of the world.
Well, thanks.
Thanks for calling.
Yeah, get your call.
Yeah, sorry.
Sorry, guys.
Sorry about that.
I appreciate it.
That's all right.
Bye.
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Okay.
We're going to let in Chad Chaddington.
And then we'll do like one more after this because we're going on two hours and 20 minutes.
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Chad Chaddington, are you there?
Oh, no.
Chad?
Hello, are you there?
We finally had a Chad call into the show.
Do you live up to the name or what?
Yeah, no, that's not my real name.
Okay, so love your show, Pearl.
Been watching you for a couple years now.
Thanks for watching.
So where are you out of?
You sound American.
Yeah, yeah, out of Louisiana.
Oh, nice.
Are there a lot of whores or prudes in Louisiana?
What have you dated over there?
Yes.
He just says yes.
I lived in Central Florida for about 35 years, so I have more experience in the Central Florida area.
Okay.
Are you there?
Yeah, yeah, sorry.
Are you, so what have you dated more of?
Hordes or whores or prudes?
What's your preference?
And I got to tell you, about more than 75% of the prudes are straight up whores.
Okay, so how did you find that out?
Like, what was like.
Well, let me put it this way.
If you ask me a question about women, I can give you what percentage women will do, blah, blah, blah.
Like how many women will sleep with you on the first day, second date, third date, fourth date.
Because I've been with around 185 to 195 women in my life.
Okay.
Do you want to go through the numbers?
The majority of them have probably been more whores, but I also don't sleep around.
I actually know everyone I've slept with.
So I don't prefer whores.
It's just it's no nonsense.
You go straight to the punch.
So out of, we're going to round and say 200.
What percent slept with you on the first date or first meeting?
A third.
Okay.
And how many, like what was the longest you waited out of them?
The longest I've ever waited for a woman.
And again, taking into consideration that I know people that I've slept with, the longest I've ever waited is probably four or five dates.
And that's if I really liked them and we really clicked.
And the one that made you wait four or five dates are the ones that did.
Do you think it was because that was their personality, like they were prudes, or because you just weren't that guy to them?
One specifically I'm thinking of, yes, she was, I would say she leaned more towards the prudish side, and she was definitely in the top 10 percentile of the worst physical relationship I've ever had.
What was wrong with it?
No, no zip, no pizazz, no natural chemistry.
Just, you know, no matter what we did, we went out for about three or four months.
No matter what we did, she was very, I guess she was just leaned more towards the prudish side.
Definitely, I wouldn't say she was a straight-up whore, but she had whore in her.
And so overall, did you have a better experience with the women that slept with you faster?
So that, you know, that's interesting.
You were talking about that.
And I got to say, I've never, and again, I prefer to know someone even before we go out type of thing.
I maybe had out of those, let's say, 200 women, I've only had probably two to three one-night stands ever in my life.
I prefer to actually know my partners because I like an emotional relationship too.
Yeah.
One of those guys.
But I was very lucky.
That's a lot of emotional relationships.
Sorry.
What's that?
I said, that's a lot of emotional relationships.
Well, I'm also, you know, nearly 50, you know, and I've been single most of my life.
And I live and I lived in a small town for 30 years where women talk.
You know this.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
So, but so back to the, did you have a better experience with the ones that slept with you faster?
And did you think you were special or they did it with everyone?
The ones that slept with me faster, no, actually, I think the ones that slept with me faster held out and made other guys wait longer.
That's how it usually works.
Yeah.
Because again, I had a reputation in town.
Everyone knew my preferences.
Everyone knew my abilities.
And they also knew I didn't sleep around just to sleep around.
I'm still friends with more than half of them.
And what percent wanted a relationship from you?
Maybe 30 to 40 percent, maybe up to 50 percent.
Like how?
And the majority of them, we did go out for a short time.
But being a very communicative person, I also know what I want and we would get to what they want.
And that's another reason we're more friends.
I'm friends with a lot of them is because we found out, yeah, we had great chemistry together, but our goals weren't the same.
So we stayed friends.
And yeah, of course, some of them still came around to knock on the door at two o'clock in the morning.
But some of them I'm still just friends with to this day as platonic friends because they're, again, very honest.
I'm very forthright.
That's another thing that I think helped me, you know, let them feel more comfortable with me sleeping with me sooner is because, hey, I laid it on the line.
Here's who I am.
You already know who I am because, like I said, I've slept mostly with people that I know.
And it was to the point of after two or three months or even a few weeks, you know, yeah, we had great sex, but our life goals aren't really the same.
So, and a couple of them introduced me to a friend, you know, like, oh, she'd be great for you.
And I've done the same for a couple of them, you know.
So when you say life goals, is that just like you didn't want kids or something like that?
Like, what type of life goals do you mean?
Well, yeah, I did run into a lot of that because I already had my son young and raised him.
And I was free by 38, 39 years old.
And I have schoolmates.
Again, I'm almost 50.
I have schoolmates that have, you know, school grade children.
And I wasn't at 30, 31 years old.
I made sure that wasn't happening again.
I made sure that was it no matter what.
So a couple of them we dated and had fun and we got along, but they were looking at the long-term kids-wise.
Fact, one of my close friends who I still love dearly to this day, I purposely had to stop myself from a relationship with her because she wanted a child and I wanted her to have, I knew she needed a child.
And she's with a great guy right now and they had a child.
But if we would have dated, it would have been years of our lives because we were that compatible and loving to one another and everything was great.
But I knew if I kept you know, years and years and years and I wasn't going to have a child with her, she would just keep getting older and older and older.
And so I kind of, in fact, I even told her one night, I said, look, you know, I would love to be with you.
We get along great together.
We were friends.
We were lovers.
We were everything.
But you want to have a child.
And I don't feel right keeping you in a relationship for a year, two, three, four, whatever.
And then, you know, you're 35, 40, just trying to have a child and blah, blah, blah.
So I kind of just said, look, let's be friends.
And we still are to this day.
Obviously, she's with her man, and there's animosity just because, you know, it's me.
And he knows me around town.
And two of his band members know me pretty well.
So I kind of just stepped back and they're happy together now and having fun and have a kid.
But if I wouldn't have done that, we would have still been together.
And then she would have had to wait years and years and years.
And then it would have maybe possibly led to her not having a child or not finding someone to have a child with.
So I look at that as well.
Okay.
But on the whole of it, because when I got married young and had my kid young, I was only with four women.
When she divorced me at like 26, 27, I went ape shit.
I went crazy.
I'm like, no, I gave my life to you.
I really love my ex-wife.
I still to this day, but only as a good mother and a good person.
She's an incredible mother to my son.
But yeah, I kind of went ape shit.
Then I got into a long-term relationship about three years with the woman.
She kind of just dropped me on my head and I'm like, oh, I went crazy again.
So that's why the numbers kind of piled up quickly type of thing.
Okay.
Cool.
But preference, I actually would like someone that's well balanced.
Tell you the truth.
I would like someone that's a lady in public and a freak in the sheets.
But most women want a gentleman in public and a freak in the sheets.
So kind of the balance in between is the best I've found.
But I've had some straight up whores and I've had a couple of prudes that once, you know, I knew they were a little prudish, but with me, they weren't.
Cool.
Okay.
Doug M.
It's just the truth.
Doug MPA, you got any other questions for him?
Nope.
Chad Chattington, a resident Chad.
Thank you for calling me, calling anytime.
Yeah, Colin.
Thank you so much, Burl.
I'd love to talk to you anytime.
Have a blessed day and good luck.
And I can't wait to see your little preview coming out.
Cool.
Thank you.
All right.
Blessing, God.
Take care.
Okay.
Can we do one more?
Yeah.
Well, let's do two more.
We have to, because he's been waiting since the beginning.
Our good friend.
We'll see.
You there?
Hello.
Hey, how's it going?
Hey, I so wish I could have been in that conversation with that 19 year old earlier on because trust me, I wanted to give her a piece of my mind because I have classmates right now in school that talk and think just like her.
Yeah.
Okay.
Elaborate.
A lot of them will sit there and talk about the same thing about waiting for marriage, this, that, the other, and or that they're loyal and faithful when in reality they're not because they have a whole train of simps that they cheat on their boyfriends with or cap about,
oh, I don't have my boyfriend on my Instagram or whatever because I just want to keep my relationship private.
Little does anybody realize that even though, yeah, okay, yeah, it's believable that like this chick may have a boyfriend, the dude's really nothing more than a placeholder until she finds the next sucker to mooch off of.
Yeah.
But and then also last fall, this one broad had the audacity to do a project that was anti-natalist, basically saying that motherhood is one big patriarchal scheme so that men and so that men don't have to compete with women in the workforce, blah,
which I took a lot of offense to given that not to sound like I'm telling a sob story, given that I lost my own mother two years ago.
But anyway, to answer the question, which also shout out to Donovan Sharp, I actually turned to him for dating advice every now and then and whatnot.
Now that I'm about to be out of school after next week, this may sound far-fetched, but I kind of feel like I want to jump into this space since I'll have time on my hands for the summer.
But I don't know.
I'm just thinking out loud, so I apologize.
But to get to the point, which would I prefer, I'm going to go with the whores, honestly, simply because honestly, the prudes, I really don't think that they're really just like waiting or whatever, or that they're really actually good girls, like they say they are.
They really are just nothing more than closeted whores, honestly, that like Pearl has said before in a couple of podcasts when one had the audacity to say, well, I just want to make sure that, you know, this nice guy is, you know, the one, you know, that I'm going to settle for or spend the rest of my life with.
And Pearl said, oh, no, what you're doing is you're weaponizing sex or this, that, the other because you gave yourself so easily away to Chad and whoever, blah, blah, blah, this, that, the other.
I mean, I've seen so many instances of that in my own personal life when I've seen like nice guys that will wait for years and years on end, you know, just for one night of sex and they'll have like one child with a single mom and then whatever.
But yeah, I think my other justification for whores is like, this is going to sound so beta.
At least if you can recognize and have self-awareness of what the red flags are, at least like you know what you're getting yourself into compared to with a prude, you don't know what you're getting yourself into because she might sit here and try to virtue signal and say all this cap that I was just mentioning a minute ago about being good or trying to make the right guy wait or whatever.
When in reality, let's just be real, they probably were just as bad as like the hot chick, the hottest chick in town that got all the attention when they were 19, 20, 21, and whatnot.
So, yeah, trust me.
Horse over prudes.
Go ahead.
I'm sorry, Pearl.
They said whores over prudes.
I gotcha.
Yeah.
Well, thanks.
Yeah.
Thanks for calling in, Gabe.
Doug MP, you got any other questions for him?
Congrats on graduating school in a week.
Oh, no, I haven't graduated yet.
I'm almost done for the semester.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
For the summer.
Okay.
I'm almost close to it, though.
Almost.
Okay, cool.
All right.
Well, call it anytime.
All right.
All right.
Bye.
All right.
You want to do one more?
Sure, we can do one more.
Okay.
Just for this person's name alone.
What is the name?
Oh, oh, hell fuck.
Nah, g are you there?
I'm not saying that.
I already said it.
Oh, hell, are you there?
He's on mute.
Going once, going twice.
I'm going to put you back.
Wait, are you there?
Yeah, can y'all hear me?
Yeah.
Where are you from?
You sound American.
America.
I'm from Atlanta.
Oh, nice.
You got a lot of whores or prudes in Atlanta?
Man, this is Magic City City, man.
What you mean?
Like, what?
I don't know.
I'm not from Atlanta.
You got to tell me.
Hey, yo, you remember the game, Bop It?
Yeah.
What's that?
It's like this handheld game where you have to bop.
Yeah, I know what you're talking about.
That's what these, that's what these 30 foes here, man.
They some damn boppits.
Pass it.
Pull it.
Hit it.
And do you, have you, have you met any prudes down there in my life?
Yeah.
But I'm 37.
At that time, I wasn't focused on no woman.
Like, you get what I'm saying?
But now, man, hell no.
You don't see this world?
Man, they celebrate bopping ass.
Okay.
Look who Kamala brought out there, man.
So, who, how much do you spend on a date?
Or do they just come straight to the house?
They're booping and bopping to the house, huh?
Me?
Yeah.
Me?
Yeah, you.
300 max.
Okay, so 300 a date.
How long are you waiting?
To the end of the meal, I need a decision.
And just being honest, because if I invite you out to eat, it's usually because I'm hungry as hell.
So I won't eat.
I want you to enjoy the food with me.
But I definitely do need a decision by the time I'm into the meal, Kunk, because What's happening?
And you go on the block list.
You get a 30-day probation period.
You make me wait.
You go on the block list for 30 days unless my phone gets dry and I can't get no yams nowhere else in the city.
So at the end of the day, you say, Are you coming?
And if she says no, she so at the end of the day, you invite her over.
If she says no, then you're blocking her discussion.
It's nothing to talk about.
It's not like this is not.
Look, this is not a democracy.
This is a fucking dictatorship.
I say, got it.
Answer no questions.
You get on my program.
This is my way, or you by way and get blocked until, like I said, you can't get no yams or off the block list.
Like, I don't like, I'm different.
Like the other guy who y'all had on here, man, he was a straight simp.
I don't know where they found him at.
But as far as me personally, I'm only rocking with prudes, man.
Like, I'm like the lion in the jungle.
Like, I know I'm gonna get the damn meal before I go out there and hunt it.
I know I'm gonna get the meal.
I know I'm gonna get the yams before I even go out there and hunt them.
I want to chase it.
Like, I want the thrill of the chase.
That makes sense.
But I thought she got blocked after your first date.
How are you gonna chase if she's got one date to put out?
I'm talking about a prude.
So how long does the prude get?
That's like what, that's what intrigues me.
Like, if you just willy-nilly, if you got community yams and everybody and they mama done seen it, hit it, and throw the doll at it.
Like, I don't want to be seen in the photograph with you.
So, what you're saying is, you can tell if a woman is a prude or a whore right off the bat.
If the whore don't put out on the first day, she's a 30-day block book.
But the prude presents a challenge.
That's what you're saying.
Yeah, like I like the challenge of it because, see, like, I'm like, I come from a different way of life.
Like, you get what I'm saying?
So, I can see through views through bank speak.
It's like, you can't, you can't camouflage it with me.
Like, I done sold it.
I done sold the yams before.
Like, and I don't own them.
Like, you get what I'm saying?
So, you can't run no bull job past me.
Like, Spider-Man got spider senses.
I got real homeless senses, man.
Like, I see through that shit like cheap tent.
You ain't like, you can't finesse me.
Like, you got to get up early and work a double shift.
Got it.
Well, well, Doug MPA, you got any other questions for him?
No, but stay safe down there in Atlanta, homie.
It's rough out there.
Yeah.
Thanks for calling in, okay?
Yeah, call at any time.
Okay.
Okay.
We got some more people on the line, but it is, I think we're coming up on three hours.
Yeah.
Yeah.
He's calling tomorrow.
I was thinking about doing a question of can women do it all tomorrow.
I saw this.
Trump's like has all these women working for him that are bringing their kids to work.
Have you seen that, Doug MPA?
Yeah, uh-huh.
It's like, that'd be a good show tomorrow.
Can women do it all?
Like, have you actually seen a woman that does it all?
No.
Well, any final thoughts on the topic, Doug?
MPA?
Yeah, we have to explore this thing of, you know, well, of women sleeping with a man on the first date and kind of redefining that.
I don't think that's whoreish material.
I think if you're a young man on the way up, you know, deal with the whores.
You don't have a lot of time.
So get him in, get him out, and focus on your grind.
And then maybe you have to deal with prudes a little more when you're ready to get, if you want to get married and you're trying to find a quality woman.
And you got to make sure she's actually a prude because she very well might not be.
Yeah.
What are your final thoughts on it, bro?
Well, my final thoughts is there's smart hoes and dumb hoes.
And smart hoes, they use their sexuality in a way that provides value to men.
So even though they give it out a lot, they provide so much value.
Somebody keeps them.
And then there's dumb hoes who are just unlikable.
And those are the amber roses of the world and really just the women that, you know, or they catch something, you know, herpes or something incurable and they're cooked.
But there's no, you can't get anything you want without risk in life.
So the problem with prudes is all they want is they want to get what they want without any risk.
And they see withholding sex as a way to get that because after sex, the burden of performance is on.
So there was a class of prudes who are just very unlikable.
And that's why you get the Christian, like Karen archetype.
But yeah, that's my final thoughts.
Anyways, guys, thanks so much, Doug MPA.
A pleasure, as always.
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