Pearl Daly’s Modern Woman LifeCycle dissects the financial and emotional pitfalls of women’s post-education trajectory, citing $29K–$94K in average student debt for degrees like social work (ROI: $67K salary) or history, while 64% of U.S. loan debt is held by women. She links career burnout (43% ages 25–34), solo travel (85% female), and luxury spending ($737/month car payments) to resentment toward perceived "settling" partners or children, alongside phases like the "wine mom era" and "OnlyFans hoes." Callers—including a divorced ex-wife with $60K debt and a teacher who rejected Jonathan for earning $80K—validate her claims, suggesting systemic misandry and institutional brainwashing drive women’s self-destructive cycles. [Automatically generated summary]
Good afternoon, good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Today, we are going to be talking about the modern woman life cycle.
So, many times we talk about the life cycle of careers.
We talk about the life cycle of, you know, a trend.
But today, we're going to talk about the life cycle of modern women.
But before we start, please make sure you like the video on your way in and subscribe to the channel.
So, the other day, I was thinking, if I had a step-by-step, sorry, the other day, I was thinking.
So, as you guys know, I moved from America to England and I interviewed a thousand women on dating, marriage, and relationships.
And during this time, you noticed a lot of patterns.
So, for example, there were different archetypes of women that even though they were in different women, they would maybe have the same patterns of behavior.
And I decided to take you guys's collective experiences and mine and put together a modern woman life cycle.
So, the first thing we have is to go to some high-priced institution to get a degree no one cares about to put themselves into debt.
Barely learn anything except how to use men for things.
Now, a lot of times on this show, I get the pearl, you don't know what you're talking about, Pearl, you're just making this stuff up.
Well, let's look at the stats.
64% of student loan debt is owned by women.
Women attending four-year institutions have an average of $29,611 in student debt, while those attending for-profit, four-year institutions have an average of $42,778 in debt.
The average student loan debt payment is $307.
The average student loan debt for graduate school, if the woman continues her education, is $94,141.
So if you go on a date with a woman who has a master's degree, she probably has about $100K in debt on average, meaning half of women have more debt than that.
The most common graduate degrees for women is business administration, education, social work, elementary education, curriculum and instruction, educational leadership and administration, special ed, counselor education, nursing school, and reading teacher education.
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Okay, so the first thing we do is go to a high-priced institution, get a degree no one cares about to put us into debt.
Now, the reason for getting this degree is not to learn.
As IQ has been dropping for years and the people coming out of institutions have not been smarter.
On top of this, at the schools, what we sign up for is propaganda and brainwashing.
I don't even like the word brainwashing because it takes accountability from our choices that we make in life.
However, they do rewrite history literally at these institutions and tell you that you're an oppressed victim and life is just really, really hard.
And so obviously you got to go out and crush the patriarchy.
And so you need to go out and get a job.
Now there's two different types of jobs that you can go out and do.
Number one is a salaried career.
And number two is an hourly career.
Now the first part we are going to talk about is the salaried employees.
43% of women will experience burnout at some point in their careers.
They usually experience burnout between 25 and 34.
So, you know, we go out and we crush the patriarchy and we think, this is kind of hard.
The men, you know, they have to work till they're dead, but we go out and say we are burnt out between 25 and 34.
The average salary for a woman in her 20s is $34,424.
The average salary between 35 and 44 is $67,652.
And the average salary of a 45 to 55-year-old woman is $69,620.
We do go out and do this, you know.
However, we do have a plethora of women quitting their jobs to be influencers.
Now, I mean, look at, I understand.
I quit my job to start a talk show too.
I did.
I was a part of this life cycle.
But, you know, when you're in this industry, you do see how competitive it is.
You know, there are 10 women trying to take my spot daily.
There is no greater job.
I always say this: there's no greater job than having a talk show.
I'm lucky.
Thank God every day I get to do this.
However, most women do not are not successful.
And if they are successful, it's not for a very long period of time.
So, the average salary, if she's an hourly employee in the United States, what do you guys think it is?
What do you guys put in the chat what you think it is?
$15.47 an hour.
On top of that, at school, you know, there is a lot of discrepancy in what the average woman's body count is.
How many bodies do you think women get a semester?
Because according to studies, women are not able to stay with men long term if they sleep with more than five.
So, on top of feminist propaganda, a bunch of debt and indoctrination, we also get the inability to bond for life.
Ladies, we're going out and crushing this patriarchy.
What do you guys think in the chat?
How many bodies a semester?
What do you think is the average?
This mouse stopped working.
Let me plug this in.
Now, examples of degrees that are common with a low ROI that women get is a degree from the University of Southern California's USC online master of social work program.
It costs $111,000 plus fees, and the average pay of a social worker is $67,000.
Now, the average body count a semester, we have 5, 15, 6, 9, 7.
Who knows?
There's a lot of discrepancies.
Six.
Okay, let's go with the most common.
Everyone's saying around five a semester.
That's the lowest number I got.
Let's say it's five.
Let's say she goes for four years: 10, 20, 30, 40 by the end of college.
Let's say two years she gets into a relationship.
That's still 11.
A semester is six months.
Next, get a stressful job that does not care about them.
And in reality, the job is not hard or stressful.
However, It's not like we're the ones digging the ditches, building the buildings, deep sea fishing in the sea.
But we do complain them.
But when you guys think about who is striking, I can almost guarantee it's not the men killing themselves to get oysters in Alaska, but rather the teachers that get three months off of the year and off at three o'clock.
Now, the top 10 female-dominated careers, you know, because we got to go out and crush the patriarchy.
One, a skincare specialist, 99% female.
Pre-K and kindergarten teachers, 96% female, making $37,000 a year.
Skincare specialists make $43,200 a year.
Legal, medical, executive secretaries and administrative assistants, $40,000 on the low end of those jobs and $60,000 a year.
Dental hygienists make $87,000 a year.
Speech language pathologists, about $90,000 a year.
Child care workers, $30,000 a year.
Dental assistants, $46,540 a year.
Hairdressers, 92% women, make $35,080 a year.
Billing and postal clerks make $45,590 a year.
Plethobotomists, what the heck is that?
I don't even know what that is.
$41,810 a year.
So again, on average, the ladies have are making average salaries with an average of $30,000 in student debt if they went to a public university, $42,000 for private.
Now, obviously, once you get that debt, you might think, maybe I should live a frugal lifestyle.
You know, so the ladies, they get out of school, they get the average paying job, and we think, hmm, I could A live with a bunch of roommates, live outside of the city, never eat out, really only eat in, only do fun things that are free, no concerts, don't travel, you know, live a very frugal lifestyle to pay this off.
Or I could ignore the debt, buy a house, travel and get a luxury car.
And unfortunately, us ladies pick option two, which is buy a house, travel and get a luxury car.
What percent of solo travelers do you guys think are women?
85% of solo travelers are women.
What do you think the average car payment is for a car?
It's $737.
So on top of the student loans, got to get a new car.
Between 33 to 37 years old and rush to get a husband, kids, or both.
The fastest growing group of single mothers is between the ages of 33 to 37.
Only 2% of births come from insemination and 2% come from IVF.
So where are us ladies getting these kids from?
The first man available.
It could be an irresponsible Pookie or Ray Ray.
Or a desperate guy that is just looking for anything.
Some pull it off with a buzzer beater baby and husband, which is to marry a naive or desperate guy with no options.
Or get pregnant by a loser that doesn't want to be a dad.
You know, a lot of us, us ladies, want an invested father, but only some of us can get it.
Unfortunately, hit that like button, guys.
Hit that like button.
The next thing of the modern woman life cycle is start antidepressants.
So by the time we hit 40, life has kind of hit us in the face.
We have a ton of debt.
We might have Pookie or Ray Ray's kids or a schlubby husband that we don't really like.
And we resent because, you know, settling.
So obviously we need drugs to help depressants.
24% of women between the ages of 40 to 59 take an antidepressant.
Not to mention the wine addiction to help us cope with life.
Now, some modern women do love their children.
Unless the kids love the dad too much.
Many women will hate the child because the child reminds them that they had to settle.
Or of the dad that just wouldn't stick around.
They also resent the father because they didn't want to be with him to begin with.
And last but not least, buy a dog or a cat.
60% of pet owners are female.
Women get a dog.
And 50% of pet product buyers were between 25 and 44.
So it's mostly millennial women.
Now, I want to know, today I'm going to do a call-in show.
So I am going to put a link in the chat really quick.
And I want to know, how accurate is this model?
And did I leave anything out?
And what events can you think of that started the whole thing?
So I'm going to go through it one more time.
The modern woman life cycle.
Number one, go into some high-priced institution to get a degree that no one cares about to put themselves into debt.
Barely learn anything except how to use men for things.
Number two, get a job that is too stressful and does not care about them.
In reality, the job is not hard or stressful, but women will convince themselves that it is.
Three, ignore the student debt, buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car.
Wake up at 33 to 37 and rush to get a kid, a kid, a husband, or both.
Hit late 30s and early 40s and try to get pregnant by a loser or choose IVF.
Let me join the Zoom link.
Also, I have a couple announcements that I'm going to do while I'm waiting for people to join the Zoom.
And the first announcement is that, guys, we are trying to get 3,500 members on the channel.
Unfortunately, these ladies get real mad at me.
They get real mad.
They flag my videos.
They get me demonetized on YouTube.
They just are very good at reputation destruction and trying to ruin your life.
And they try to do that to me every day, including doxing my family's family.
They do that all the time.
Making up lies about me.
And so I ask if you can go to theaudacitynetwork.com and go to the Audacity Network.
Oh no, what did I do?
Go one more time.
Go to the Audacity Network.
Go to the Audacity.
No, to the Audacity.
No, there's no there.
All right.
Producer, I gotta, if you're watching, it's echoing in my ear.
I gotta, I gotta, I don't know how to fix it, but if you could message me on how to fix it, anyways, they do try to ruin your life.
They make hit pieces, they do all this crazy, and whatever it's found on the internet.
But as a thank you, as a thank you, could you guys please go to theaudacitynetwork.com?
And you get access to all the shows.
These ladies flagged all my videos.
I had to delete three years' worth of work.
Imagine working for three years.
You're so proud.
You made all this great content.
I traveled to England, started a YouTube show.
It was going amazing.
And these ladies just say, Pearl, your opinions are too much.
You can't have a talk show where you give your opinions.
Flag.
Flag, flag, flag.
They say, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl.
You're so evil.
Okay, hold on.
Let me put this in the chat.
I'm going to put the Zoom link in the chat.
Hold on, let's try this again.
The mouse is off.
Why does this not work?
Oh, there we go.
Okay.
And anyways, so what do you get?
What do you get out of joining my memberships?
You're thinking, Pearl, why on earth would I have to download this?
By the way, it is on the App Store.
It is on both the Samsung and the Apple version of the App Store.
But you're thinking, Pearl, why on earth would I download this app?
It's annoying.
It's off the site.
Well, number one, normally, if you want your chats read, you will have to buy a super chat on a show.
I do read the chats from the website.
So that's one thing.
Number two, you get access to all my old content.
And three, you get first access to our documentaries.
For it's a good cause.
It's a good thing, you know.
And we are eventually going to do shows specifically on the website.
But, okay, produce it.
Can you just put the link in the chat?
I don't, you got it.
Put it in the chat.
Okay.
Keep your mic muted and your camera off.
It is muted and off.
It's still echoed.
We'll see if that works.
We will see.
Okay, so now I'm going to read the website.
Speaking of which.
Okay.
The live stream finished on the website.
No, it didn't.
No, it's not.
I don't know why it said that.
Okay.
Oh, my gosh.
Okay, guys.
On the website, I'll top you off $10.
Thank you.
Thank you, Rich.
I'm going to say Rich.
I don't know if I'm, I don't want to read you guys this name, so I'm not going to.
But one person said, I may or may not have hit some of these points to myself to a degree with my youth.
I was kind of forced to go to college and I didn't witness it.
At least I can admit I wasn't perfect.
That's a great first step, Mrs. Ziegler.
Richard says, IVF is subject to many brain problems.
Ms. Ziegler, I knew someone who waited till after 40, bought an egg, bought the sperm, and used IVF to get pregnant with a non-biological child just to be a mom because she waited till long and net too long and never got married.
Rich says, my girlfriends hated it when their dog liked me.
It's 100% a fact that antidepressants don't do anything.
Let's see.
Ms. Ziegler says, some could easily get more from just in one weekend.
I'm 90% sure of women's body count by 40 is around 1,000.
Being an employee these days is no more money.
These days, there is no way money is half of what you need.
It took me a decade to actually make a decent living as a dental assistant.
Okay.
And then Rich is good.
Okay.
Okay.
So let's see.
I'm going to try going on the zoom again, but it was echoing.
Otherwise, we're going to do the space again because I can't not have control of this.
I'm gonna try it again and see if this works oh shout out to by the way It is, if we get one yearly member a show, it's either eight or nine memberships a show or one yearly.
It's 80 bucks a year.
Just saying, if you guys want to, I'm going to get this Zoom to work.
Hold on.
Let me try it again.
I'm going to need to control it.
Otherwise, otherwise we're going to have to do Twitter space.
No, don't bring them up yet because I need to control the Zoom.
So wait, so it says I'm muted on here.
Okay, I'm going to hope this doesn't echo again.
Compute, join with computer audio.
Okay.
Is it echoing?
Oh, it's not echoing.
Great.
Okay.
Okay, then we gotta figure out a way to um okay, I think I think it's working now.
Sorry, guys.
One second.
No, I'm not doing Zoom unless I'm in control of it.
Uh, I, one time, guys, someone flashed me and I just won't do it again.
I won't.
I can either X them immediately or I just won't do it.
Uh, make sure your sound is off and you can host controls now.
Okay.
Okay, let's see if you can bring him up.
Um, I need to, how do I make him bigger?
So can I hide this?
Okay, I guess we'll just do work with what we have right now.
Okay, you can bring him up on the screen.
Hello, David.
What's up, Pearl?
How are you?
I'm doing good.
Where are you calling out of?
Oh, I'm in Texas.
Nice.
So, what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?
Was I accurate?
Yeah, yeah, totally.
I mean, I've seen it myself, like in my own life.
Like, I've seen a lot of chicks that go to college and they like take all take out all this debt.
They drive really nice cars and stuff.
And they always end up single because the men don't want to deal with it.
And they're always in a lot of debt and they're depressed or on antidepressants.
I've seen it so much in my own life.
It's crazy.
Like the accuracy that you have is pretty spot on.
How old are you?
I'm 28.
And where did you, you don't have to say like the exact university, but did you go to a public school, private school?
So I actually, that's a funny story.
I actually never went to college or anything.
I graduated high school and I just started working.
And like, it's kind of crazy.
Like I got involved with Bitcoin really early on and made a lot of money from that.
And I just, I figured like, why, why go to school?
Why, why even try to do any of this stuff when it's all dominated by women?
Like it's literally just all women professors.
They only really want you to join school if you're a woman.
Like they really press that really, really hard, especially in the area I'm in.
I'm in a really liberal area.
So like it's to be expected.
And so the women you're talking about, are they women you went to high school with and you saw them go off to get degrees?
Is that yeah, yeah.
And also just girls that I've dated.
Like I've dated a lot of chicks around here, mostly younger than me, but they're always in college studying some sort of psychology or some sort of like useless liberal arts degree.
Like, and whenever they graduate, they end up really not making any money.
Like they end up working at Starbucks or they're working at like, you know, fast food places.
My last girlfriend, she worked at a fast food place, got a degree in psychology.
She's in a massive amount of debt.
I don't date her anymore.
Thank God.
But yeah, it's so common and typical to see that stuff.
I'm 28 years old, never set foot in a college ever in my life, and I'm worth more than six figures.
Like, I don't need none of that stuff.
Never did.
And what's your opinion on what events caused this?
Oh, it's just the gynocentric society that we live in.
Like, women are told that everything that they want to do is right.
And you're fighting against the patriarchy and you're fighting against the men.
The men are evil.
You got to outperform them.
You got to like, they have a chip on their shoulder.
You know what I mean?
And it's like, it doesn't make sense in my perspective because I'm thinking like, why would you want to try to outwork a man?
Like, why would you want to have that sort of life?
Like, because from my perspective, it's like this, none of the stuff that we do is easy.
Like, our lives are so hard.
And like, it's actually difficult to make money and to like get people to respond to you and stuff.
And it's like, why would you want that for yourself?
Like, it doesn't make any sense to me.
But hey, I mean, it is what it is.
Yeah.
Is there any other thoughts you have, like stories that you've seen that kind of back up the life cycle or anything I missed?
Feel free.
I mean, I could go on and on and on.
It's, it's crazy.
Like, I mean, specifically, like my last girlfriend, like, she literally is just, she's literally insane, you know, like, that's why I had to stop dating her.
Like, what happened was like, I was getting attention from a different girl.
Like, I told her that we weren't going to be exclusive because she was leaving.
Like, she's graduating and she was like, she's not from here.
She was leaving.
And she saw that I was texting another girl on my phone after I told her multiple times not to go through my phone because she was going to find stuff like that.
Like, I told her straight up.
I was like, if you go through my phone, you're going to find stuff from other girls.
Cause like, it just, that's just how it is for me.
Like, I'm, I mean, I'm, I mean, I don't want to toot my own horn here or anything, but it's like, I got other options.
And she got really, really mad about that.
And then she went off and like, you know, slandered my name to all my friends and stuff.
And like, it's just a big old mess.
Like, I really don't even want to get into that specifically, but they're just evil, you know, like they really just don't, they don't want to have any sort of like disadvantage.
They want all the leverage.
What did she say to your friends?
Was it like you cheated or what was the no?
It was okay.
So my best friend, he has a sister, right?
Who's she's probably, I think she's like 30 something now, but she's like attractive, you know, like she, you know, she's, she doesn't look bad.
She's, you know, they come from a wealthy family and stuff.
So like she's, she's pretty attractive.
And I would just like, you know, I followed her Instagram and like she would always be posting these thirst traps and stuff.
And my ex, she like went through my, when she was going through my phone, she like went and screenshotted a bunch of her thirst traps and stuff and made it seem like she kind of framed me.
Like she sent all this stuff to my friend and like was trying to like frame me as like I was being a creep or something when I've never like that chick's older than me.
I would never try to go after her in any romantic way.
And it was just an easy attack vector for her.
You know what I mean?
And like they, they like looked at, they're looking at me like, oh, I'm a weirdo or something now.
And it's like all over some stuff that this girl said that, you know, was complete fabrication.
Did your friends believe her?
Like, did they take her side?
Oh, they took her side.
Yeah, they took her side.
That's the sad part.
Like, I realized that these people weren't actually my friends to begin with, because if they were, they wouldn't have taken her side.
Yeah.
You know, it's, it's crazy.
Wow.
Well, thank you very much for calling in.
I appreciate you sharing your story.
Yeah, yeah.
No problem.
I'm going to go to the next.
Hold on.
I think.
Oh, I see.
So I can do it.
Okay, guys, I'm learning.
Guys, if you want to call in, go, the link is in the chat.
Okay, someone asked me on the website.
Actually, let me tweet.
Should I tweet the link?
You get spam sometimes when you, I don't think I'm going to tweet it.
So somebody asked on the website and they said, how can you support my work?
Okay, there's a couple things.
Number one, monthly or yearly membership on the website.
You can donate memberships so your friends can join.
You can also, there is a membership tier where you get to meet with me once a month.
You can do that.
You also get access to my old content.
We also have a GoFundMe.
The link's in the description that we're raising money for a documentary.
We need about 100K to put it out.
Again, you know, when YouTube cuts you off, this is just the way you do it.
So every story is going to be a shit show.
All right.
Well, guys, put your story in the chat.
So I'm going to tell you guys a story of a guy I worked with a couple of years ago.
So there was, I worked as a saleswoman.
Like before I did this, I worked in copier sales.
And essentially, it's a really shitty job, and most people don't make a lot of money doing it.
So they get like fresh blood where you're excited and happy right out of school and they just put you in this job.
So I'm there.
One of the guys I worked with told me that he had a girlfriend that destroyed his room.
She went into his room and just tore everything apart.
Like, but he's amazing.
And he was dating a girl.
And this woman, when I started on TikTok, decided that it would be appropriate to message me, his sister, all of her grievances with my brother.
Now, as you guys know, I am not the one to feel bad for you.
Because this is the thing, my little brother.
He is a he's the type, he does things his way.
And the ladies, they always try to change him.
They're like, be different than who you are.
Well, if I'm a sister, I love my brother.
Why are you trying to get me to change my brother, you crazy bitch?
And I thought, my poor, my poor brother, this is the list of women he has to pick from.
This is years ago, by the way.
This is nobody recent if someone knows me watching the show.
And, you know, let's see what else we got.
You have to let people in.
Go to participants and allow them to join.
Okay, wait.
So participants.
So what exactly is it?
What the heck?
Depressants at 40.
Maybe love the child, but hate him for having to settle for the husband.
Buy a dog or a cat.
And do you know what I forgot?
When do the ladies get fat, guys?
I'm going to go back to the chat.
Can you guys tell me when the ladies get fat?
If a girl has a psychology days, has a psychology degree, don't date her.
Okay.
Well, what age?
What age are the women like?
So I'm kind of playing with some eras, too.
Guess I'll talk about while I'm waiting for them.
They said in their 30s, they get fat.
So there's a couple eras that kind of deter women.
So it's like these are our life cycles, but we go through phases, right?
It's not like we just wake up on antidepressants, fat, or whatever.
And feel free.
These are, this is going to be Monday's show where I'm going to go in depth into these phases.
But, you know, women have a hoe phase.
Now, for some women, this might be one one-night stand and they just move on.
For other women, you know, they do a decade of hoeing.
You look at all her male friends, she's fucked all of them.
But then, of course, we do the rebrand and hit the Christian phase.
So, you know, on things to make them healthier.
You know, they'll convince the women that there's birth control in the water and there's like seed oils making us fat.
But really, it's just our poor choices like bottomless mimosas at brunch, eating too much, liquid Starbucks calories.
But during the health phase, we also go to overpriced gyms.
You know, Equinox, yoga classes, HIIT classes.
This can be up to $300 a month.
So, you know, they will waste money on a gym memberships they don't need.
During the gym phase, they may sleep with too many men at one gym and then go to the next gym.
Sleep with too many men there, go to the next gym.
hook up with too many there go to the next gym then again back to the healing phase You know, they obviously, that's like, because, you know, when women do hard things, they view it as trauma.
And so, you know, that's when you get the fat women, like after they do the gym phase, then they say, you know what, I have trauma from this eating disorder I had when I was trying to lose weight.
Next, we have the influencer phase.
This is when you quit your job to be an influencer.
You know, I've seen TikToks of women that are doctors, lawyers that quit because they want to be what?
An influencer.
Then we have our career era.
This is where we try to compete with men and then burn out and fail.
There is a decluttering era.
This is where marketers market to women, selling us, decluttering stuff that we don't need because they know we are addicted to Amazon and nothing will stop us.
Raise your standards era.
This is when women try to sell a used product for a higher price.
And there's always a simp that signs up.
Independent women era.
The above-it-all era where women act like they've learned from their mistakes and petty drama, but really they do the same things over and over again.
Raising kids era.
This is where women use their kids for clout.
Why be a mother when you could be an influencer, mother?
Divorce era, where there's another healing journey where they go on trips and go to the bar.
Now, I've been playing with a couple options of boyfriends that women get during each phase of their life.
And you guys can contribute in the chat.
I've noticed that women, when we get boyfriends during our 20s, there is the alpha guy.
This is a personal trainer, musician, the more exciting hot guy that cheats and women never get over it.
They will be talking about that man that cheated on them five years ago.
Then there is the beta guy who doesn't have any standards.
So the women will give up nothing in order to be in a relationship with him.
And essentially, he acts as an accessory in her life.
Now, you might think, I always used to think that women that posted their boyfriends a lot were really into their boyfriends.
And I actually have changed my mind.
I think the women that post their boyfriends a lot have no fear that he will ever leave and are trying to signal, look at the investment I got.
Where women that post their boyfriends less don't want to post him because a girl might slide into his DMs and he might actually do it.
Oh no.
Hold on.
I got it unplugged.
The boyfriends women during the 30s, women enter their gold digger era.
This is where women, above all aisles, prioritize money because they think my beauty is fading.
Who is going to pay for me the rest of my life and all of my bad decisions?
Beta guys are often friends with benefits, guys.
Guys, the link is still up in the chat if you guys want to come up and let's see if anyone's joined.
Did we pin the tweet?
No?
Hold on.
We want to pin the link for the call-in.
Let me pin this.
There we go.
Now, I'm just sort of playing with these.
You guys are welcome to contribute.
What other eras do women have?
A nesting phase.
The shopping era.
Oh, the situationship era.
Wait, hold on.
The situationship era.
The shopping era.
What would you call it?
The, what do they say?
And Pearl Daly is the host now.
I'm going to read from the website one second.
Okay.
There is a donate button in the chat too.
Every story is going to be a shit show.
Pearl, I don't have any dating horror stories.
Dej is the only woman with standards low enough to date Nimi.
We were 17 and 18.
We're boring.
Ah, pulled an amber herd.
When I was in Toronto, I switched to a 30-year-old Chinese nannies for about two years, and that was plenty good.
Wow.
Earth girls are easy.
Oh, the biological clock age.
This is when women do not prioritize love, but they prioritize their biological clock.
That is a great one.
The biological clock.
biological clock era.
A nesting phase doesn't have to be a negative.
Oh, you know what?
The abstinence phase.
This is the phase where women claim they are sleeping with nobody, but really are sleeping with somebody.
What women, but they have to market the abstinence to a simp The misander era.
Ooh, these are good.
All right, what else do we got in the chat?
So, what are we talking about in the Zoom?
The question is: I read the modern woman's life cycle.
I want to know: is it true, and what do you think contributed to it?
How accurate is this model and did I leave anything out?
How accurate is this model and did I leave anything else out?
I'm gonna tweet also and tell the ladies on Twitter.
Ladies on Twitter, I am who have so much to say.
I am accepting call-ins on YouTube.
click the link in the zoom let's see Okay, the other question I have for you.
I'm moving, as you guys have noticed, I'm moving my show time to a later time.
I have considered doing a full-on night show.
I don't know either way.
I haven't decided yet.
I sometimes think we would get better callers if we did it later in the day.
I want to know if this is true for you guys.
Anyways, the new cat owner era, every chick goes through a wildly hippie phase.
Guys, we're not really getting any callers today, so I think I might end the show.
I'm interested in hearing from the ladies as I am interested in hearing from Justin Trudeau.
You know, never date a woman with kids.
Oh, a cougar phase.
That's a good one.
The cougar phase.
I'm going to do a show Monday on all of the different phases.
The don't as the bitter era.
You guys are getting good.
The swap your wife era?
The swap.
I'm just writing some of these down.
Swap your wife era.
Okay, the poison the coffee era.
I've never known a woman to be abstinence toward longer than 15 minutes.
Witchy crystals, sage.
Okay, so the witchy crystals sage.
The yoga phase.
I'm back to work next week, so it doesn't matter what time you're on.
Guys, give Pearl more ideas so she won't end the show.
the starter husband era.
My grandkids won't visit me phase.
my grandkids won't visit me phase.
So there is an era for everything.
I'm lost.
Really, it is.
Oh, the trad wife era.
The wine mom era.
The playing it safe era.
I mean, a shoe collection phase.
Isn't that just all phases of a woman's life?
I need to do a segment on the okay.
Okay, guys.
Well, how about the viewership going up?
It's going up right now.
I'm really confused because this is, I guess you guys, you guys like you guys like collaborating with me, huh?
Okay.
Like the video while you're at it.
Like it's free.
No, I mean, the women themselves are the ones that talk about these eras and these journeys.
Like, what are the journeys women do?
Like, why is it erasing journeys?
Why isn't it just living?
Do you know, why does it have to be like a marketing?
You know, I almost, I thought to myself, can they we really blame these institutions for selling us ladies degrees that we don't need when we're like begging to waste our time?
It's, you know, now that I think about it, we keep saying to men, please lie to us.
Please waste our time.
And the men said, no, no, no, no, I want to treat you right.
I want to be a gentleman.
And we said, please lie to us.
Please waste our time.
And the men said, are you sure?
I mean, I'll be a gentleman.
I'll keep being a gentleman.
And we said, nah, that's boring.
Nah.
And they said, F it.
It's time to waste your time.
And it was the same with the universities.
You know, they used to teach us things.
And then they said, oh, really?
You guys, you guys want careers where you don't make money and you want us to teach you nothing?
And we said, please teach us nothing.
And the university said, are you sure?
Are you sure?
And we said, please, please, I don't want to study important things.
Please give us the easy things.
I want to study myself.
I want to get a psych degree.
And the university said, this is the ROI.
Are you sure?
Okay, you can do it.
Oh, the self-discovery era.
The we should wait until marriage era, the Botox era.
The girl math era.
Okay, this is way too many.
Okay, guys.
Well, I think I'm going to end the show today.
Oh, I have three callers.
What the?
Why can't I see them?
It doesn't show me.
Like, uh.
Why can't I see them?
Oh.
Make sure you guys have your cameras on and your mic on.
I'm going to kick you if you don't have your mic on.
Why can't I kick him?
Okay, I can.
Oh, there we go.
Okay, more remove.
There we go.
Okay.
Okay.
And we're going to do the next one.
Make sure you guys have your mics and your cameras on.
Hello, how are you?
Yeah, I'm all right.
You guys?
How are you doing?
You gotta get a better air, like a quieter room.
The air conditioning's kind of loud.
Oh, shh.
It's okay.
It's okay for now, but just like.
Oh, no, sorry, man.
It is my computer fan.
Oh, it's the computer fan.
Okay.
So, what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?
And did you think it was accurate?
Yeah, there's some definite accuracies in there, some definite sort of common stages, I reckon, for sure.
Some of the later ones are a bit extreme, bit sort of sort of nonsensical, but yeah, yeah.
The first ones, like, are all pretty cogent.
Um, and was there anything I missed?
Any eras that you think or um any steps that I missed?
Yeah, hang on, there was there was one here that you didn't, you didn't call out.
I think, yeah, what was it?
Um, see if I can find it.
Um, no, no, it wasn't that.
Um, oh, yeah, I think we should wait till marriage era.
That's the one you've mentioned a few times.
What age do you find have you found that in your dating experience?
Um, I know the type.
I've been around church, churches, many churches, I know exactly what you're talking about.
And what age do you find women enter that era?
Um, well, it's pretty much like you say, you know, like once their beauty starts to go, they start to sort of think tactically, I guess.
And what events do you think started this whole thing?
Um what events?
Uh oh, Take it back to Seneca Falls, I guess.
That's that's pretty much where I'd take it, I guess.
Back to Seneca Falls.
Yeah, well, thank you for calling in.
It's a pleasure.
Yeah, and then one more thing, Pearl.
Like, what the hell is going on with your YouTuber subscriber count?
What about it?
It's been the same.
It was 1.99 for ages.
You never quite made it to 2 million.
Then it started coming down.
I know.
It was tough.
I had to delete like 10,000 videos.
So I used to get like subscribers every month from those videos.
And then tanked.
Like, if you look at my analytics for my channel, there's one month where it just dropped.
And it's because normally on a channel, you can like build.
So you have super viral videos and they'll still like make.
But I, yeah, YouTube just, I mean, they kept flagging my videos.
The ladies, I do streams like this, and they get mad and just start flagging.
They find something.
And yeah.
So I had to make a decision to just clear it or try to like, it was just too many videos to go through one by one.
I just said just clear it.
So now they're on my website.
Feminism has never been popular on YouTube though.
Not since I started watching YouTube.
Like anyway.
Yeah.
Anyway.
Anyway, yeah.
Take care, man.
Have a good one.
Thank you so much.
Have a good one.
Yeah.
All the best.
Okay.
Okay.
Next.
No, someone was here.
It said Chris's iPhone.
Where'd you go, Chris?
What are you doing?
Let me read the thing on the website.
They said feminism along with social media.
a guy has a nice chair being a single guy sucks at the moment I spend less money with a two-week flight round trip food hotel to South America than trying to go out with a modern American chick.
Okay, so on the website, I want you guys, if you have a comment you want me to read, because you guys talk to each other.
And, you know, I think sometimes reading all of them, put read Pearl or like read in caps and then put two dots and put your comment.
The Zoom is asking you for a password.
That's weird.
It shouldn't do that.
It should put you in a waiting room.
Every day I will struggle with this stuff.
Back against the people and women who are flagging your stuff.
Honestly, the only thing we can do is to get enough people on the website so we're free.
Because, you know, there's very few people that can pull it off, but like Crowder, he doesn't care if he's monetized on YouTube or not because website.
So the best thing you can do is get your friends to sign up.
You know, that's really the best thing you can do.
Where is see what he says?
But is it still saying you need a password?
Let me look on the have I done a show on Tom Brady?
You know what?
I have to say, I've noticed Leonardo DiCaprio's exes, he's just the kiss of death on those women's future relationships.
So I did see Tom Brady coming.
I think I'm going to have it on the record.
I think that Blake Lively is next.
She will go through a divorce.
That is my next prediction.
Looks like you have some sort of password set up on your settings.
Okay, let me see if I can fix it.
I don't know.
Oh, here we go.
Okay.
Hello.
Hey, Maud.
Yeah, you're on.
I think they might take a second to make you full.
Yeah, there you go.
Hello.
How are you?
All right.
So, what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?
So, you talk about all the everything you've been talking about, 30 minutes and stuff.
Yeah.
It's interesting.
I just think that there's so many opportunities to go to college now and learn absolutely nothing of substance and just waste money and get into debt.
And it's kind of like it's like a high school part two.
And so I just don't think that, you know, going to this extended, there's a psychological term.
It's called neoteny.
Excuse me.
It's not psychological, it's biological.
So there's a biological term called neoteny, and it's the retention of juvenile features into adulthood.
And I think that's a lot of what's happening in college.
I mean, with men and women.
But I think it definitely extends into getting all these useless degrees that don't really translate into going out and doing like an actual real world service.
So how?
Sorry, go ahead.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
How old are you?
Oh, I'm 44.
And have you seen the like the women in your peer group go through those stages where they get into a lot of debt?
Again, the women you've dated, is that something you've seen where women get into a lot of debt?
They go to school, they get a car they can't afford, buy a house they can't afford.
Yeah, I mean, people are buying all kinds of stuff that they don't, that they don't need.
But I mean, like, I'll give you an example.
So, so, like, I'm, I'm a, um, I'm a commercial driver.
I'm a Class A driver.
I'm a truck driver.
Okay.
You can go out and you can go out and get a CDL for $3,000 or $4,000 and turn around.
I mean, the turnaround time is, or you could go to, I got mine paid for by the Department of Transportation for free.
But the turnaround time on that is about anywhere from two or three months to six months.
And, you know, you could be making up to $70,000 to $100,000 a year.
Wow.
So, I mean, I don't, not that I don't make that much, but my point is, though, is that you don't have to go somewhere for four years and then get into $100,000 in debt and get a degree in underwater basket weaving and get out and make 30, you know, to 35K the rest of your life and try to pay off these loans and stuff.
So I guess what I'm saying is there's a lot of blue collar work, but I don't think a lot of women want to do that type stuff because it's hard.
And when you chose your career, did you think about passion?
Yeah, but I mean, I've done, I'm ex-military.
I've done a whole lot of, I've done a whole lot of stuff.
I mean, I used to jump out of airplanes.
That was a long time ago when I was skinnier and braver.
But yeah, I mean, yeah, I thought about passion.
I thought about passion way more than I ever did money.
And I can tell you, you know, as a man, it it's not all women, but it morally disgusts me how some women are obsessed with money.
I just find, I just find it morally disgusting.
There's kind of this attitude of, again, I don't think it's all women, but among some women, they see something as being valuable because it's expensive, not because the item itself is functional or it works well or it's a good product.
It's just, you know, they feel like they're elite or, you know, they're above the table or they're important, you know, because they have things that are expensive.
And that I never, as a man, think about something like that.
You know, so if I have a pair of shoes or boots or whatever and they cost X amount of dollars, I mean, if I can go into a store and find it for a lower price, I'm going to do that.
And I think some women have a different mentality where they think it's, you know, and go and buy a pair of high heels.
There's stores in Dallas that sell shoes that are $15,000.
I mean, I cannot fathom as a man how I would ever spend $15,000 on a pair of shoes.
I mean, I'd have to be able to like fly around the planet in them or something if I was going to spend $15,000 on a pair of shoes.
And so, or a pair of, you know, just stuff like that.
I mean, it's just ridiculous to me that a pair of high heels would be $10,000 to $15,000.
But, you know, there's ultra high-end stores that sell stuff like that.
And to me, as a man, that kind of stuff would never really exist in my universe, you know?
Yeah.
Well, thank you very much for calling in.
No problem.
Thanks.
Thanks.
Where is okay?
Let me get the next.
Don't really know what they want.
So they don't really have a goal.
And then, just like you said, it will change.
They will have like maybe the era, the heathy era, or I will tell you what.
I think all women I ever went out with, I was always the second guy or the third guy, always.
So either all of them were lying or I'm really special.
What do you mean you were always the second or the third guy?
Oh, that you that they slept with.
Exactly.
Yeah.
How old were they?
How old were they when they told you that?
20, 30.
So they would say they were 30 and you were the second guy they'd been with?
The second or third, or then there would be variations about the average.
Like, oh, you are the second or third guy that I ever fell in love with, or you're the second.
I had a special person forever ago, but now I came to know you and you are the love of my life.
My point is, there's always something that I'm gonna make you feel really special, even though it kind of sounds like a lie to me very often.
Did you believe it?
Not at all.
Oh, you didn't?
None of them, none of them.
Oh, so like the first time.
Yeah.
The first time you believed it.
So the first time you believed it, but then like the next time you were like, you wised up.
Exactly.
Yeah.
The first time I probably believed every little bit of it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But then after a certain point, I think we learn.
Is there anything I left out of the model?
Like any eras I forgot about or any stages in the modern woman life cycle I didn't include?
I cannot really think of one.
No, I think you covered it all.
I really liked, I loved your videos.
I think a few months ago that you had a board, like a flip chart in the background, and then you'd go into real big detail about those little things and how it works and pretty much a real like a mechanics of the relationship.
So I really like that.
Thank you.
And what events can you think of that started this whole thing?
Like in your lifetime, were there any events that you think really impacted the women you knew or maybe something in the culture, music?
That is a very good question.
But maybe if you were asking me how far does it go, I have no idea.
I think that's a very old thing.
Maybe I think it'll be very easy to point out to the 50s and 60s and the woman liberation movements and this kind of thing.
I think it's and the when women needed to go into the marketplace, I think those things changed the laws and the societies and how people perceived women.
And yeah, but I think it goes, I have no idea how far back it goes.
But for sure, with social media and Instagram and TikTok and the globalization of the love market, all of those things do not help.
Came into the picture.
I noticed a difference when social media came into the picture more and more, like 10 years ago or so.
But yeah, I always noticed a difference in terms of behavior.
I would feel since I was a teenager, I would notice that people would very much mimic how people spoke in the movies and how people spoke and behaved in series.
So yeah, now with TikTok and Instagram, that we have like this beautiful trailer of whatever people are living or not living.
Yeah, I think very often, mostly women, because I believe women are more influenced by those kind of things, that they will compare their lives and be sad to something that is not even real.
Because people have filters on and they go to a nice place and take pictures and they're not really happy.
I believe that I think you were talking something a little bit to that tune earlier today, that you have this perfect marriage.
Yeah, like, oh, I have a guy.
I don't want to advertise my boyfriend or my girlfriend all over social media and say, hey, look how great of a woman I got.
Look how great of a guy I got.
Say, that's my private life.
Why would I even advertise that?
For me, it doesn't really make sense.
I prefer to keep my private life private.
So why would I have all this advertisement of my great life?
I don't see why that would be the case.
Well, thank you very much for calling in.
You're very welcome, Pearl.
Get the night.
Okay, let's get the next person.
I just saw someone in the waiting room.
I try to give.
I don't know why it's not.
Pearl, you should have women call in.
Okay, send this to your sisters, guys.
I mean, like, I don't know what the ladies don't, I mean, they get mad at me.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, they start, they try to ruin my life the same way they try to ruin you guys' lives.
Do you know what I mean?
You're like, get the women, get the women, you guys, get the women.
Like, what do you, what do you mean?
They have miracles here.
Okay.
Like, this eventually calls.
Michael, are you at work?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
Are you a cook or something?
I'm a private chef.
Oh, that's cool.
What are you making?
I'm cleaning up.
I work for the church.
Well, what did you make?
Oh, I did Ahi Tunas here with Kimchi fried rice and roasted vegetables.
Oh, wow.
That looks sounds really good.
What are your thoughts on the?
So, how old are you?
You look 30s?
30s?
Yeah, I'm 38.
38.
Okay, I see.
I'm a good guesser.
Yeah.
Let me get it in because I was hearing like the other guy at the same time.
So I didn't even know I was on yet.
Okay.
So I'm asking what your experience has been, like witnessing the women in modern woman life cycle is accurate.
I feel like a lot of your points were extremely accurate, to be honest with you.
To be to be straightforward, I'm like, I just got like divorced this year.
You know, we were together for like a couple of years and we had like all these plans and shit like that.
And then, oh, I'm sorry about the language or whatever.
We had all these plans and stuff and like to have a family and all this.
You knew like what I wanted.
And as soon as we got married, I put a ring on it.
She's like, you know what?
I don't really know how I feel about kids anymore.
I want to go get my master's.
And I'm like, dude, you already have like 60 grand in debt.
And now you want to.
And she had a great job as a paralegal.
And she's like, oh, I want to leave my great job to now like become a history teacher.
And she has no history like that.
It was crazy.
It wasn't even study because you could study history on your own.
No, I would, we would have all these discussions.
Like me, I'm like pretty big, like audible guy, and I like a lot of history and stuff like that.
So she, we would like, I would proofread and like edit her papers for her and stuff like that.
It was wild.
It was really wild.
But I wanted to say one thing.
I think the big problem with nowadays is social media, period, and this status identity thing.
Everything's like status as opposed to like substance.
You know, it's like, I'd rather look like everything's great than everything actually be great.
And it was a really big problem I was having with my modern lady because as opposed to us having a healthy relationship, it was more important for her to, for us to look like we had a healthy relationship.
And then behind closed doors, it was pretty rough.
Well, not on my end, but I, you know.
What do you mean, pretty rough?
Like, what were some of the things you experienced?
Oh, dude, yo, like I threw a pillow at my wife one time playingly and she like punched me in the face.
Like, shit like that, you know?
I was like, these, these women nowadays, I don't know about all of them, but you know, they get a little, they get a little handsy.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, yeah, I've heard.
And be like, I'm Christian Catholic.
I would never, you know, I don't even want to put hands on another person unless I have like that violence, you know, but whatever.
That's not a no.
How old was she when you said you're 38?
What?
So you're both 38?
Yeah, we're one month apart for the day.
And then she wanted to go back to school and get her master's instead of having kids.
As soon as we got married.
Which was how long ago?
Last, well, no, last year was our one-year anniversary.
So two years ago, March 18th, right after St. Patty's.
Okay.
So it was a pretty short marriage then.
Yeah, shorter than I ever thought it would be, honestly.
And she filed on me.
She filed papers on, like, she kicked me out the house, had to move into my apartment again.
And I was trying to talk to her this and that.
And then, you know, we weren't finding common ground.
I don't want to like be nasty and like throw her under a bus or whatever.
So I'm just going to say we didn't find common ground, you know?
And yeah.
So then one day I got mail at my job and she had served, I had somebody process serve me at my church in front of like, and it was, it was heartbreaking, man.
I must have, I fell apart for like a good month, you know, and it was wild, you know?
I'm curious, how did your church react?
Did they, did they, did you both go to that church or was it just yours?
Like, no, yeah, I was the only one.
She wasn't really like, she's not like a God-fearing woman.
She's not really a believer, you know?
We had a lot of differences, man.
You know, it was just really weird.
I would say, just from my opinion personally, it's one of those things where like you, you finally get what you want.
And so now you don't really give a shit about it.
It's like the child that wants the toy.
Yeah.
You know, like they don't care about her wedding era and then she was done.
Yeah, that was it.
Basically, it was like, all right, notch, here you go.
Checklist, be married, get my ring, you know?
And then the gaslighting forever, always gaslighting forever and a day.
You know, for some reason, no matter what men do, we never do shit, no matter what.
I literally like, when we met, I was a biker in a biker club, right?
And I was a part-time caterer.
And she was like, well, we need this and that.
We need stability and better money.
So within a year, I doubled my salary.
I make almost $80,000 a year now as a private chef, full benefits, life insurance, 10 days PTO a year, five days sick.
Like I can't even, I don't know anyone that has a job like this.
And I only work like 30 hours a week.
So it's, it's sick.
I'm living good.
And it kills me because like, that's when she decided to be like, oh, this isn't enough.
The bar just kept moving higher and higher and higher and higher and higher.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
I would take her on vacation twice a year, dude.
Twice a year.
Fourth of July, she woke up.
She's like, let's go to Vegas.
Yo, six grand on a Vegas trip.
And like, and then, and I'm told, like, I don't do enough.
So it's, I feel like it's just like a status thing.
It's like this.
I don't know.
I don't know, Pearl.
Yo, you're one of the only females that makes sense on this planet.
So I don't know.
I don't know what to tell you because I let you know I'm from New York by the way.
So, if you didn't notice already, I'm curious: what was what did she say was the reason the marriage ended?
Um, well, how many reasons?
Um, so this is gonna be there's a lot, there's a lot of stuff.
A lot of it was like me putting my foot down on things because I didn't like the way I was treated.
I don't think uh physical abuse is acceptable at all, you know what I mean?
And then, um, it became an issue because like her continuous lack of accountability and gaslighting created this constant struggle for power, you know.
It was just and for me personally, it was like my biggest gripe was like, yo, you're not even nice to me anymore, dude.
You know, like I came home with flowers and chocolates, big dinner, you know.
And when she's with her friends, she would brag about all this and that, but together, like, I came home and felt completely unloved.
And everything in her life was like her main focus, period, and not really our relationship.
So, it created a huge void because I felt like I was killing myself to be everything she wanted.
And like, I couldn't even get like a fucking hug when I got home from work and a kiss without her being like, I'm busy doing some fucking school paper or whatever.
And so, I was like, Yo, do you think the best idea after you get married is to fill up your time with a master's degree as opposed to us like finding a way to come together as a couple first?
Right, you know.
So, that was, I can't even believe I'm on this call right now.
You're the man, man.
Pearl, like a huge fan, just saying, No, well, thank you so much for sharing.
I appreciate it.
Yo, I appreciate you, Pearl.
Like, you make me feel like sometimes we're not crazy, like that other people kind of think and see these things too, you know.
So, it's very refreshing.
I appreciate you.
It's okay.
They gaslight me too, these ladies.
Yeah, I bet.
I bet they're the worst.
You girls are worse to each other than you are to us.
I can't even believe it.
You know, it's crazy.
Hey, they can't falsely accuse me, but they would if they could.
All right.
I can imagine so.
All right.
Well, you, God bless you, and you have a great night.
I'm going to keep watching the show.
Thank you for your time.
Yeah.
Thanks for calling in.
Yeah, guys.
If you have a bye.
If you guys have an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, girl, you dated sister, whatever.
I'm just curious, you guys's stories.
You know, you could say, Pearl, you're completely off.
This life cycle was super wrong.
My sister went through none of those.
Just call in.
Let me.
I like the personal stories of like event.
When I ask the question and I have the call-in for you guys, I want you guys to tell me what happened specifically in your life.
You know, we got Jonathan.
Hello.
Oh, hey, how's it going?
I'm good.
How are you?
Oh, you know, just hanging in there.
Where are you out of?
I'm in Oklahoma.
Oh, nice.
How old are you?
I'm 33.
33.
Okay.
I like to know the age because then I kind of see what age group you guys are in, like millennials or whatever.
So I'm curious from your point of view, was the life cycle accurate?
Did I miss anything?
Did I add something that's not there?
Go ahead.
It's pretty accurate.
I feel like a lot of women are too heavily influenced by the music and, You know, content creators like yourself, but that they're on the complete opposite spectrum of what you're doing.
Um, they're they're they're pushing these women to do things that realistically, it ends up destroying them, uh, and they don't realize it until it's far too late.
And at that point, they're they're they're clueless as to why they feel the way they do.
And are you talking about women you've dated that you're thinking about?
Was this sister family?
Like, who are you thinking of?
Uh, well, women in general that I've tried to date or talked to.
So personally, I've been single and celibate for like 12 years.
Uh, the last girl I was with, um, I guess I technically cheated on her.
I went on vacation with my family to Hawaii and was on the beach drinking beer, and I didn't know it was 12%.
And I had a you know, 12-pack of bud white way through it.
And a girl and her sister came down to the beach, and I made out with one of them.
And I guess I could have, you know, had sex with her, but I didn't.
And I just felt so guilty about it.
And whenever I got home, I confessed to my girlfriend at the time.
And she just broke up with me.
And then two days later, I was having sex with some other dude.
And she had the audacity to call me on the phone while it's going on.
So she called you during, yeah.
Holy, where is she now?
Like, well, do you know what she's doing?
I have no idea.
No, I'm just, I want to see where she is in the life cycle because she's probably 33 now, right around the same age.
Well, I think she's closer to 28, 29.
And last I checked, she was married, but I mean, from the photos, neither of them looked happy.
Oh, no.
So it is what it is.
I just kind of moved on with life.
And just every woman that I've spoken to was either kind of in her ho phase or kind of influenced by, you know, what was that?
Six foot?
Oh, the six meters.
Yeah.
And do you think it's harder to date where you live?
I mean, it's probably hard everywhere, but I mean, I've, I was living in Tulsa until recently.
And most of the women that I would, you know, speak to, they would either not want to speak to me or they just wanted something different.
Now, I'm just wondering, is the celibacy because the women aren't interested or is it because of like religious reasons?
Like you just don't care enough to well, I uh in my younger years, I was quite promiscuous and I kind of came to a realization that that was part of the problems in my life.
So I just made a personal decision to wait until I found a wife and that just hasn't happened.
Okay.
And the women making the bad decisions that you're describing, could you tell me, like, is it you're dating them and you find out they're getting in a lot of debt or what's the could I get like a specific story maybe?
Well, let's see here.
The last girl that I was talking to, we were sitting down.
It's kind of like a little picnic thing, really.
We have quick trips around here, and a lot of the quick trips will happen.
And we were just sitting outside.
I was eating some ice cream.
She was, I don't know if she was eating something, some fast food.
And it was kind of funny.
She was a teacher, so what, $40,000, $45K a year.
And at the time, I was doing facility maintenance, but I was making $55,000 a year base.
But that year, I made like $80K.
And she heard me say $55,000 a year.
And it wasn't but five minutes after that she ended the conversation.
And I never spoke to her again.
How did the salary come up?
Did she ask?
Yeah, I mean, I asked her what she did.
She said she was a teacher.
She asked me what I did and told her I do maintenance.
And she asked me how much I made.
Got it.
So your experience is that, like, wow, that's so rude.
I can't.
I would never ask someone that.
That's crazy.
I've heard that like women just straight up ask it, like, but I was always taught that's like a rude thing to ask somebody.
I saw, I suppose it is kind of rude.
I mean, I don't mind.
I suppose I'm a little too honest sometimes, but it is something that one might consider in a relationship, especially if they're looking to immediately have children.
And with the way, you know, society is and the economy, it is a heavy consideration.
Well, thank you for telling me the story and thanks for calling in.
Yeah, thanks for having me on and you and your crew and everyone else listening.