Pearl Daily examines the double standard in online deception, where women using FaceTune or extreme alterations face little backlash despite monetizing altered appearances, while men are swiftly labeled frauds for similar lies. She ties this to declining male testosterone—linked to environmental factors—and criticizes YouTube’s feminist-leaning censorship, citing demonetization after her "Catfish of the Year" awards and Tommy Robinson interview. Callers debate whether her blunt approach is necessary or harmful, but she insists on holding women accountable for setting unrealistic beauty standards, especially when targeting younger audiences. The episode underscores how societal hypocrisy and profit-driven deception shape digital culture, pushing her to launch a membership site (theaudacitynetwork.com) to bypass platform restrictions. [Automatically generated summary]
I am your host, Pearl, and today I wanted to start with a story.
So, recently, I have erupted the internet by storm because yesterday, what is it the second?
No, two days ago, I did a catfish of the year.
Now, as you guys know, I did a bunch of different award ceremonies that so you could submit your nominee for catfish of the year, 304 of the year, all different types of awards ceremony.
But there was one that got more attention than the other.
Than the others.
Apparently, being called a 304 is no longer offensive.
Apparently, you know, no one cares about men's problems, so saying calling men simps was not offensive.
But calling women catfishes was what landed me in a news article because apparently that is the worst sin.
Now, many, many people rush to these women's defenses, and it reminded me of.
Hold on, guys, I gotta fix something.
We're producerless.
Give me one second.
One second.
I'm sorry. Do apologize.
It's how the cookie crumbles.
Okay, so apparently the worst sin was saying that women do not look like they do in their profile pictures.
I thought it would be being a 304.
So essentially I did a thread on Twitter and I did a thread.
It was called Catfish of the Year.
And this got me in a whole lot of trouble.
I made a thread of and said, these are the nominations for catfishes.
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Okay, back to the show.
So I did this.
I did this catfish of the year.
Now, mind you, all I did was take submissions.
This is meant to be a funny thing.
I have a little talk show, right?
You know, it's not meant to be a big deal.
Kitties freaked out.
And I wondered, why are these women getting so angry for simply saying that they do not look like their profile pictures, that they are catfishes?
Why would that make a woman so upset?
You know, one of the women threatened to sue me.
One started calling me a pedophile because I told her to watch her kids instead of argue with me online.
And what I realized is a lot of these ladies are mentally unstable.
They are just not, they don't know how to take a joke.
They overreact and they aren't stable.
And the reason I think that is, is because of a game called Sims.
Now, when I was a kid, I loved the game Sims.
Wasn't naturally into video games.
It just was never my thing.
But when I played the Sims game, it was, for those of you that don't know, it's essentially virtual dolls.
So they have maybe the Truman show is another way to put it, but you can design your Avatar.
And your Avatar can go into this fake world.
And in this world, you can make yourself look like whatever you want.
So obviously, you know, when I built my character, you build a way better looking version of you.
You get the body you could never have, the looks that you don't have.
And you also could get the husband, the exact, you could design your husband that you married.
You could design what career you wanted to have.
You could have all the money in the world by putting in cheat codes and build whatever house you wanted.
But the thing was, when you're a kid and you're playing those games, you know it's make-believe.
But what I realized is every day, we are becoming more like a Sims game where people are playing characters on the internet and they really believe that's who they are.
Am I talking about the new Sims expansion?
No.
So what happened in the game?
You designed your character and I'm going to show you guys a little video.
So this is, I did a red-headed one just so you could.
I thought this kind of looked like the one I designed when I was a kid.
Oh, fuck.
You know, you can.
I think I prefer this one.
Need to get, yeah, like this shade.
I don't think I want to give her some eye makeup.
Maybe a little bit of eyeliner.
I'm going to give her like, that's really subtle.
I like that.
Now, blush.
I definitely want to give her some blush.
Oh, that one's cute.
Okay, I like that.
I'm going to go for it.
It's still subtle and it gives her a little bit of highlight.
Can you guys see it?
I don't think you guys can see it.
It's not showing up.
Oh, now you can.
Okay.
Lips.
I want it to be very natural.
Something like fear.
So you can literally pick your lips.
That's her face done.
Now we need to do her out.
You can pick your eye makeup.
What do you want to buy?
We want to go for maybe like some buggy jeans.
Actually, no.
I want to do a dress.
Now look at this.
Would be me in real life.
There's my pretend sim.
I had a little different hair back in the day.
Obviously, that's way better looking, right?
Way better, right?
So the challenge is now companies have taken this same concept and applied it to plastic surgery, face tune, filters, and they have allowed these ladies to live in a fantasy world.
So why did we play Sims?
You were better looking in the game than in real life.
You could make more money.
At the time, you know, you're like 10 years old, so you can go to the events that adults go to in this game.
And what I'm seeing now is essentially Sims.
This is the woman who won Catfish of the Year.
This looks like a Sims character.
real life, avatar.
Real life, avatar.
Real life, avatar.
And they point at me as the bad guy for pointing out fraud.
Most of these ladies post thirst traps, they post selfies.
And what can we learn from this situation?
So I'm going to look at some of the responses that we have on deck.
Let me get the.
Yeah, this is so crazy.
She starts posting selfies with more filters to prove she's still got it.
It's just, it's just getting sad.
So the first thing they do is they start to attack me.
They say, Pearl, you're ugly or catfish.
But the thing is, going on the internet, you become much more aware of your flaws.
So about five years ago when I went on the internet, I remember somebody in my comment section said you have a big forehead.
Was never something I noticed, never something I paid attention to.
I was always a tomboy.
I never was that into fashion or hair.
And the internet will point out your flaws and make you acutely aware of them.
Now, the thing is, you have two choices.
You can either accept and move on, or you can play pretend.
And unfortunately, you know, we would rather put on a pound of makeup and play pretend rather than just accept that nobody's perfect.
So the first thing they do is they start attacking me.
They start saying, Pearl, you're this, you're ugly, you're the catfish, you're this, you're this, you're this, you're this.
The next thing they do is they accuse me, they say, Pearl, you are jealous.
Now, I want to do the equivalent of a man.
The equivalent of a man committing this fraud would be a man having an account pretending to be a successful businessman.
Now, imagine he has an account pretending to make a lot of money.
And we see these gurus come up every couple of years.
And you find evidence that he is not the person that he says he is.
You find evidence that he is a fraud.
Nobody would call me a bad person.
They wouldn't call me ugly or jealous for pointing out that fraud.
But for some reason, men are expected to accept fraud and deception, where women are allowed to rage about being deceived.
You know, we've had the term hatfish for years and nobody's batted an eye.
Women will often talk about, and you know, rightly so, that men will lie about their height.
It's acceptable for women to ask men their height and then bring a measuring tape up to them.
But if I point out you don't look like your profile picture, not that they're ugly, never said that.
Just you don't look like that and you make money off of your appearance.
You wouldn't have a following without your appearance.
And the internet freaks out.
Exactly.
Now, let me go to the next.
Now, how is Sims becoming the real world?
FaceTune can do a lot.
FaceTune can get rid of the 20 pounds you don't like.
FaceTune can put on makeup when you don't have it.
FaceTune can get rid of your wrinkles.
FaceTune can give you a different hair color you don't even have.
FaceTune can give you thicker hair.
Someone said big forehead is high IQ.
Show some respect.
Look, I'm not even disputing.
I don't even want to defend it, right?
Because I like to come on to put an energy on an entertaining show.
That's what I love to do.
I love to entertain and I love to bring conservative ideas and red pill ideas.
I like to use them for my show and make it as entertaining as possible for you guys to watch.
I love doing what I do.
Obviously, you always want to look presentable, right?
You don't want to come in looking homeless, although I have done that a time or two.
I won't lie to you guys.
You know, it's happened.
I've been on the internet for a minute now.
But I don't know.
We used to have older women that would age gracefully.
And, you know, we just have this new, now that there's so many single women, we have this new phenomenon of women trying to compete with younger women and that just cannot accept the fact that they're aging.
So they will go through a ton of plastic surgery.
They will pretend to put on a whole different persona of what they look like instead of just accepting that I have flaws.
You have flaws.
What happened?
And then the men come up and start attacking me for pointing out this deception.
Again, it's meant to be lighthearted.
It's meant, it's just, it's funny the same way horror of the year is funny.
You know, someone gave me grifter of the year like a year ago or I didn't cry about it.
You just, you know, haha, move on.
But it amazes me the level of simpery we have in adult men where they will white knight for women that they don't know.
And I just keep thinking, what happened to the men that they just sell out their own gender so fast?
Because we all know that if it was a man committing fraud, nobody would bat an eye.
when a woman does it, it's expected to be accepted.
What is the difference?
Oh, wait, sorry, sorry.
So to end, I'm not sorry at all.
Not even a little bit.
I think that all you ladies that are crying about this are soft.
I think you have mental disorders.
I think something's actually wrong with you and you should get it checked out.
And you can't bully me into thinking that you look like your profile picture.
And you can't bully me into pretending to living and pretend that, and where I have to pretend that you look like something that you don't.
So I am going to do a call in.
I'm going to first try it on Twitter to do a space.
I don't know if it's possible.
If you think I'm wrong, I want to hear from you.
Call in.
I'm going to attempt to do a Twitter space.
I don't know if this is going to work because I think I'm live streaming on Twitter.
So I'm not sure if I can do a space, but I'm going to attempt really quick.
Please like the video while you're at it.
And also, guys, for example, they got my Catfish of the Year post demonetized.
Again, it's an opinion award based on opinion.
And these ladies flagged it.
They spam-flagged it, got it demonetized.
And this is a problem I've been going through for the past year where the ladies get angry at what I say and they demonetize my channel.
They go through, they flag everything.
And, you know, I ended up having to cut a lot of people because of this.
You know, you have to make a lot of tough decisions when, you know, essentially the ladies don't get their way.
So they try to not the post, but, you know, the channel.
They attempt to ruin your life.
They make up lies about you.
You know, one of them started saying that my ex-boyfriend beat me up, which never happened, wasn't true.
Start spreading that about me.
And it's because they have been revealed as frauds.
And so they want to destroy the person revealing it.
Anyways, but we need to get 3,500 members on the website.
We're almost 2,000 now, which is pretty exciting.
But this year, in order to be YouTube free, we have to get 3,500.
So I do read the chat on the website, which I'm about to do.
Hold on.
Sorry, I haven't this show because I was very, I'm about to read now.
So if you want your chat read, and then I'm going to do a call-in.
So, okay.
Richard Evans, they don't look like their profiles on match.com or sugardaddy.com either.
Jacob, you're right, Pearl.
Lack of sense of humor is a sign of low intelligence.
Richard, they put up 20 pictures and one, only one at the end will hint at the truth.
We can see it, Richard.
I would say that most are on the low, on the low effort type, so they lack the catfish effort exposes them.
Joel says, glad to catch a live.
I hope everyone has a good year despite what has happened.
Richard, men are very good at tricking women to sleep with them, LOL Dane.
Not that you're ugly.
I never said that.
No, Pearl, but maybe you were hinting at her thinking it.
Or maybe it was me.
Yeah, it was me thinking it.
No, I mean, there's like 10 ladies in there.
So, I mean, Sidney Sweeney's attractive.
I mean, on a table of mids, she's like the highest mid.
I just wouldn't put her at like Megan Fox level in her prime.
Margo Robbie.
I mean, that's peak beauty.
Peak.
I mean, okay, mama, the reason there, Dane, all right, mama, mama's the reason women look that way.
Dane says you're tall, six foot athletic, and Irish.
Who the hell could beat you up?
Yoku, the truth hurts, but if you can't hear it, the truth is even worse.
How do we call in?
What is the phone number?
Okay, I'm gonna attempt to do a Twitter space.
I don't know if this will work.
Can I do it?
Let me see something.
This may not work.
I'm gonna try it.
And if it doesn't, then I'm gonna do a Zoom link.
Oh, no, that doesn't work.
I may not be able to do it.
Can we actually?
Because I want to take in the challenge is I can't control it as much because the Zoom is over there and I don't want to get trolls.
Could we cut my producer's watching?
We're doing virtual today.
Could we cut the Zoom dual streaming on Twitter?
And that way I can do a space from my phone and then add people on here.
I'm going to try that.
It might not work.
Oh, wait, wait, wait.
Hold on.
Don't do it yet.
Don't do it yet.
Okay.
Call in.
I'm going to see if this works.
Call in for, so I'm going to put, is it wrong to,
why am I wrong for having a catfish?
of the year?
Call in.
Okay.
Can you guys hear this?
Because what I think I'm going to do is I'm going to do it this way.
Can you hear it?
I'm going to turn this down for now, but let me know in the chat.
So you guys can.
Okay.
Let's see if this works.
We're going to, again, we're trying it.
We're trying it.
It may not work.
You know, I used to have, so before I got demonetized, I had like a full production team.
I was in London.
I had like 20 people.
We started the network.
You know, I'm just going to start talking about my L's in life because, you know, there's just something when you get older, you just care a little bit less.
You know, it's like they're going to make hit pieces on it.
Whatever.
Let them.
So essentially, when I got demonetized, I had to move from London to Chicago.
It ended up being a good thing for me because I didn't really like London anyway.
But I used to have a full team and now it's like everybody, there's like two of us, three of us, and we're all doing like 10 different jobs.
So sometimes it is a bit of a struggle stream.
So it would be helpful because we still do have a full production because we have the equipment from before, but we just had to downsize a lot.
It would be helpful if you guys could go to theaudacitynetwork.com.
We do have a new membership plan where you can book two meetings a month with me.
it's like 300 bucks a month two meetings we all hang out um otherwise we have 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year you get access to all my old content and um first access to the documentary demonetizing made you less carefree but we still love you look you know okay so Now we're gonna,
all right, I'm gonna talk to the Twitter space.
We're gonna see how this is gonna work.
Okay.
So I'm gonna explain, guys, I'm gonna explain the rules of the call-in to the Twitter space, and we're gonna see if this works.
So hello to everybody on Twitter.
I'm currently live on my YouTube show, and we are trying to do a call-in.
Now, I recently did ADIS.
I thought it was funny, but there was a lot of backlash.
And my argument is: if a man comes on the internet and pretends to be rich and makes an account off of being rich, but he is poor, people would say that is fraud.
However, when women make accounts on the internet pretending to be hot, but they are actually normal looking, not ugly, normal, that is also fraud.
And I want to know, why am I the bad guy for pointing out fraud?
I would prefer it if you disagree with me to call in.
This is my first time doing like a dual Twitter space to YouTube, so bear with me.
I'm going to accept the callers.
But let's see.
Okay.
The mic is on.
Okay.
So I'm going to take the requests and then I'm going to read.
Okay.
we're going to start with manco smash um hello Hello.
Hi.
Hi.
What should I call you?
Hold on one second.
You're, it's weird.
So I have your actual space open and it closed when I went into the space, like your live stream.
So let me close that.
Okay.
We'll give it a second.
All right.
Yeah.
So your live stream open, and then when I joined the space, it like closed your live stream.
And then once you made me speaker, it reopened it.
And there's a time delay.
So there's this weird echo.
So go ahead.
Okay.
So the question is, why am I wrong for having a catfish of the year?
Yeah, we talked about this the other day, and I definitely don't think you're wrong.
I was going to mention to you, when you said you got demonetized, you got like community noted for it, right?
Yeah.
From what I understand, you don't make money if you get community noted.
That's so ridiculous because I read the community note just now and it's just complete opinion.
It's nonsense.
And you can totally tell people to go and downvote the community note.
And if enough people do that, it gets taken off.
So the people who do these community notes, it's just like brigading.
So you definitely have to like defend yourself and fight back against that.
But all you're doing is you're doing the same thing that happens with men every day, and nobody says anything about it, and everyone just accepts it.
But whenever you criticize women, women online come out of the woodwork and they like join hands in the sisterhood and they treat it like it's misogyny or something.
And they especially hate it from you because they can't use the same misogyny angle because you're a woman, the same way like black Republicans get attacked much more viciously because they're black and they can't just, you know, call them racist or whatever.
So what, why do you think?
Because Nuke had the same problem where he got community noted for the Sydney Sweeney.
So why do you think that the tech censorship always sides with the women?
It's the same problem that they have on Wikipedia.
It's the same problem they have on other VNotes are basically Jannies.
They're people who are volunteers.
They spend a lot of time doing it.
They're not paid.
The only way they're compensated is in like having the power of knowing that they get to mess with people.
And so that attracts the Janny mindset.
And the people who are Jannies on community notes, it's not as bad as Reddit, but it still attracts the same general kind of people, which is like you know from Reddit who are the mods on Reddit.
The Jannys, they are like the transgender dog walker people and stuff.
So it attracts very liberal, very like pro-feminist, you know, people.
So it definitely is skewed.
It's not as bad on X as it is on other platforms, but it's always going to be skewed at least a little bit that way.
Well, guys, make sure you go upvote it or what do you have to do?
Appeal it?
I don't know.
I just, I just accepted the L.
I was like, whatever.
I think that's what you rate it.
You can rate it negatively and say it's bad.
Okay.
Well, thank you for calling in.
Thanks.
How do I do the next?
Sorry, I'm new to.
Okay.
I'm trying to do one at a time, guys.
And I would give priority to people that disagree with me.
So if you disagree with me for having the catfish of the year, can you do like a thumbs down?
Nobody?
Okay, well, they had so much to say in the comments.
I'll try Josie.
I don't think this is the same Josie.
Hello?
Hey, what's up?
Do you go by Josie or is that just your screen name?
Josie is fine.
Okay.
Have you been watching the whole stream?
No.
Okay.
So the question.
I mean, the title was pretty self-explanatory.
Okay.
So the question is: why am I wrong for having a catfish of the year competition?
The problem is a catfish.
One catfish?
I mean, like, there's just so many to pick from.
Why does it have to be one?
I mean, there's so many like grifting catfishes out there.
We just got to pick one.
Well, well, you know, there has to be.
I mean, it's supposed to be fun.
So I like to get the people involved, let them vote.
Okay, so when it comes to like catfish, like what are we talking about?
Like catfishing off of the ideology, like catfishing off of the Christianity, catfishing off of Photoshop.
Okay, so I did a competition when women have a completely different avatar and they're trying to remain anonymous.
I'm talking about when they use FaceTune or other apps to make them look themselves around two points higher.
So if they're a six, they tend to look like an eight.
And I took some of the most obnoxious users of this and asked people to vote for Catfish of the Year.
The way that I was given the most obnoxious users was through submission.
So I had Catfish of the Year, Karen of the Year, Simp of the Year, Story of the Year, Breakout Star of the Year.
And I want to know, why am I wrong for having a Catfish of the Year?
Yeah, my only problem is that catfish would have to be plural.
Okay.
And yeah, that's a strong disagreement right there, but that's all.
Okay.
All right.
Well, thank you for calling in, Josie.
Thanks for having me, April.
Okay, it looks like Shaw.
Let's see.
I'll bring you in next.
Add a speaker.
Hello, Shaw.
Hi, Pearl.
How are you doing?
I'm good.
How are you?
Well, excuse me.
Thank you for choosing me.
So, let me see.
I think that you were wrong in that what you did was tactless and insensitive.
I think that you were right in that you're trying to poke out or bring attention to an issue in the culture.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
Why am I expected to be sensitive on the internet?
Why does it matter the medium in regards to how you conduct yourself?
Because the internet is the internet, and I think it's expected when you go online on the app Twitter.
I think it's pretty delusional to go on an app and completely think that you can police the way people talk.
I'm not talking about, I guess, an external policing, but who you are shouldn't be dictated by the medium in which you use.
So if I'm going to be, if I tell myself that I'm a respectable, well-mannered person, I'm a respectful, well-mannered person no matter what medium I'm using.
Whether I'm on the internet, I'm talking to someone in person or I'm on the phone.
I'm always going to try to be the exact same person because my character is my character.
Who I am is who I am.
Okay, so why is it a lack of class to point out that women are committing fraud?
It's not.
I said what you said is good in a way of pointing out something going on with society, which is that women are putting way too much makeup on their faces to the point of creating a whole different identity and presenting a face that isn't their own.
I think that you're right.
And a lot of stuff that you say, actually, are actually quite entertaining often with it.
But I think that you're wrong in that you do it in a way that's tactless and insensitive.
Because think of it like this.
If you create your entire identity around a thing, whether it's good or bad, true or false, and then someone all like you've invested so much time, so much energy, so much money, and then someone all of a sudden comes up and just destroys that identity or pulls that identity out from under you.
Whether they're right or wrong in doing it, how do you think you would respond to that?
Are you just going to be like, oh, that's great.
Thank you so much for tearing down something I've invested so much in?
Yeah, but to me, I don't think men are given grace when they commit fraud on the internet.
I think people will just say, you are a fraud.
So I don't know why we're giving adult women kid gloves.
I don't think men are given a lot of times as much grace as women are either for those types of things.
But I don't think the solution is to then be ultra evil and mean towards women.
I think that we need to look at the way we approach men and look at the way we approach women and reevaluate both.
So you don't want to respond with evil, to evil with evil.
That never actually ends up doing anything good.
I think that you like you totally, you are totally pointing out a lot of great things.
Totally.
But I think that on the men's side, it's great to point out the hypocrisy that's going on with women.
Women are definitely being, the culture is feministic, basically, which is true.
And it's anti-patriarchy and it's misandrous.
But I think that if you want to really make some moves, I mean some waves, keep doing what you're doing.
But I would learn how to do it with a little more tact, with a little more finesse in it.
You kind of go on in the edit like a bulldozer rather than like a soul, like a surgeon with a scalpel.
So how would you have pointed out the fraud with more finesse?
I'll take notes.
That's actually a great question.
And I had a feeling you want to ask that.
And I hadn't really thought it, I hadn't really thought it through, to be quite frank with you.
Because I get in trouble all the time too for pointing out things.
I'm a Christian, but I'm not the average Christian as much as I hate feminism.
And so some people may have seen, I had a post one time pointing out how that the women at Mardi Gras were dancing all crazily.
And then they got on me because I said that Christian men or men in general don't like women with that kind of spirit that are dancing crazily out there in the streets and whatnot.
But even when I get that kind of disrespect and that kind of confrontation, I'm not going to respond to you like you respond to me because I'm still who I am despite how you want to come at me about telling you the truth.
Because all you're doing is telling people the truth.
And that's all, you know, I like doing that too.
But the way that you respond and the way that you go about it in a respectful way actually does matter.
But the particulars, I don't know right now because you caught everybody, I think, off guard with that whole catfish of the year thing, which was, you know, totally true.
But thanks.
Oh, and one more thing.
Well, Pearl, if you don't mind.
Okay.
Let Patriarchy Hannah talk to you.
She's really good.
um all right i want to I want to get some of these angry ladies that have been screaming about me for days.
You think, Josie, it's your time.
Show up.
The sky fence sits more than Tim Pool.
You have to understand, guys, have to fence it.
I'm a protected class.
That's what, you know, I don't even like being called brave.
I don't.
Because I'm a like, you know, a lot of these conservative women, I'm gonna, I'm gonna get a next person, okay?
But they'll act like they're very brave for saying these things, but we don't have the same consequences for talking that men do.
I interviewed Tommy Robinson.
You know, I was demonetized, and that was rough.
That's really rough.
I won't lie to you.
I had Tommy Robinson.
He's in jail right now for saying what he believes.
Men face far more consequence.
So, yeah, anyways, two cents, two cents.
And I think that's why he's going to have that point of view, right?
Because men have to figure out how to say things with tact.
Otherwise, they actually have the threat of violence, fortunately.
Okay, so who disagrees with me?
Dan, you are one of my favorite super fans, right?
But I know you're not coming here to disagree.
I'll let you on eventually.
But not this one, because ideally I want to talk to people that disagree first.
Also, guys, can you hear okay in the chat?
I'm going to go to the Audacity page.
I need to figure out how to control the Zoom from my laptop because the challenge is when it's there, I just don't have enough control where I can't like kick people off or mute them during.
And I've had people put some inappropriate things on there, and I just need to move it here.
And I don't know how he wants to roast.
All right, Dan, only I'm going to let you up only because you're in the Audacity chat site.
If you guys want first, if you want first dibs to come up, you got to go to theaudacitynetwork.com and I'll give Dane, but keep it quick.
Don't go too long because I want to talk to disagreers, okay?
Out as a speaker.
Okay, Dane, what is your roast?
Dane.
Okay, well.
Can you hear me now?
Can you hear me now?
Yeah, I can hear you.
Also, guys in the chat, guys in the chat, if you have any audio issues, let me know.
But don't I have a producer for this?
Okay, why don't you sign up to my website and we'll get more help.
Okay, here you go.
Yeah, just as a reminder that that problem unmuting my mic is a reminder that I am 53 years old.
So, you know, I got fat fingers and I couldn't get it off mute.
So here I am.
Anyway, well, happy new year, Pearl.
Great to be here, man.
That Sean guy, see, that's the kind of feminist that just what we read next day here in Alabama called grind my gears.
They really do.
Because they'll tell you, I'm not a feminist.
I'm a defender of male rights or whatever, whatever, whatever, whatever.
But then they'll turn around and they'll say things that tell you that they are, in fact, a feminist.
I mean, they are feminists.
They just don't like being mistreated by their own people.
I mean, that's the bottom line with the Pearl because he said, well, what you said was true, Pearl.
These women are committing fraud, right?
But I don't like.
And we don't need to hurt the feelings of the ladies, Pearl.
You know, it's okay for them to put up pictures of themselves with all these filters and stuff and make them look like some kind of bango painting.
You know, it doesn't even look like a human being.
But we're just supposed to act like we don't notice it.
Just like the fat kid, just like the fat kid at T-Ball who can't hit the damn ball that's on the teeth.
Okay.
We're going to have to act like that Sammy Sosa's, you know, he'll be Sammy Sosa in the future.
You know, we can't tell him, you suck, you need to take up chess, you know, or so maybe you get into the audio video club.
That's what they called it when I was young.
Of course, like I said, I'm over half a century old.
So we can't tell him that.
We have to build up his self-esteem and we have to protect his feelings and make sure that they don't go to bed tonight thinking that they suck.
And that's the bottom line.
So these men, they're in the menosphere space or the red pill space or whatever you want to call this side of the internet and the social philosophy world that you and I are on.
But they're here because they're tired of their own people, feminists.
They're tired of their own people treating them badly.
I mean, they have pandered and sent to these feminists probably their whole life and they still ain't getting laid, at least not regularly, right?
So they're still not, they're still not getting what they want and they're upset about it.
So they come to the menosphere and they present themselves as someone that is masculine and stands up for and supports, you know, healthy masculinity in the culture.
But then they turn around with this man bun, right?
And a couple of tattoos and whatever, who's a feminist or extreme leftist or whatever.
At least I can respect the guy for just come right out and saying, you know, I ain't what I am.
But over here on our side of the internet or whatever, the menosphere, the red pill, whatever side, you have so many, they call you a grifter.
That dude, Sean, that's the grifter.
Because his only criticism of you really was, you weren't sweet enough to the ladies.
And you know, we have to treat the ladies nice because they'll get their feelings hurt.
That's bullcrap.
We've been doing that since at least the early 60s out in the town square in the marketplace of ideas.
And they keep coming and they keep coming and they keep coming.
It hasn't happened.
You know, shame, pain, uncomfortableness, exposure.
It's like President Trump said back when COVID first came out and him, when he was talking about the China virus, he said, sunlight's the best disinfectant.
You can't get these women out in the sunlight unless you really, really, really piss them off.
And then they'll get their pitchforks and they'll get their torches and they'll get their hammers and they'll come running and harping at you and they're going to report your video and get it demonetized and all that because they can't win the discussion out in the daylight.
Well, as long as we're handing them with kid gloves and we're like, well, you know, I know that you're just really self-conscious and you just really want to look your best and put your best foot forward because, you know, you never get a second chance to make a good first impression and whatever.
I understand all of that, darling.
So maybe we can talk and you can get off your chest.
But why you feel the need to commit fraud in public and that sort of stuff?
If you deal, you know, we should deal with them like that because, but we don't want to get them out in the daylight, get them out in the sunlight where all that makeup will, they'll start sweating and they'll mascara.
They go to the pool.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Their bondo and their fiberglass and their sheetrock mud will just flow right off.
Well, thank you.
Well, thank you very much, Dane.
I appreciate it.
Have a great, a great, great, great 2025.
And let's just keep catching these catfish, but let's not throw them in the live well.
Okay.
Don't throw them up on the bank.
Let them flop around and let a coyote or something get them.
Okay.
Let's keep catching them and put them where they belong.
Okay.
Thank you, Dane.
Take care, Pearl.
Okay, does anyone disagree?
On the can you guys hear okay?
Don't listen to these hyena.
Look, look.
I've accepted I have flaws.
You know, these days I'm looking kind of old.
I could have been born better looking.
I'll call my dad and complain, you know.
I mean, I, dad, mom, you couldn't.
But here's the thing.
And by the way, I'm not, I'm not saying I'm ugly.
I'm just, I'm like, I've, I've accepted being a normal looking woman.
Most women fall in that category.
It's okay.
Look it.
This, but the challenge is they get these personas.
Oh, God.
I dropped my phone.
And they think they're that hot.
And they're just not.
Okay.
I'm guessing the, I'm good on that.
Okay.
Hello.
Yo, what's good?
Thank you for letting me up, Pearl.
So I have a disagreement with how you were doing the catfish of the year award.
And my disagreement is a little bit opposite of what that other guy's was.
I think you're not going hard enough on these ladies.
I think you're too soft on them.
Okay, what could I have done to go harder?
That's actually a good question.
I really don't even know.
I mean, I think you did a pretty good job, you know, for the most part, but you know, I just think that there needs to be more of you, more pearls.
You need to recruit more women to do your job, you know, because you can't do it all by yourself.
I mean, they're all ganging up on you.
And I mean, you kind of know how it feels like to be a man who speaks up for himself now.
And I know it doesn't feel good, but yeah, that's the only critique I really have.
Other than that, I mean, you did doing a great job.
Well, thank you.
I appreciate it.
Yeah, thanks.
Okay.
Anyone else disagree?
Disagree?
Nobody on here?
It's like, you know, there was like responses to me with like 40,000 likes.
Not one of them could make this space.
None.
Nayski, Nada, none.
Okay, hold on.
I'm going to do a tweet and see if I can recruit all of the ladies saying I'm wrong for having a catfish of the year.
I'm live now.
Call in on X. I'm going to read the chat on the website.
If you guys have any questions on the site, I'll tell you about some of my L's.
I definitely have a lot the last year, but I have the best W ever, too.
Okay.
All right, Kenny Lee, the number one reason I like Pearl is free speech.
And you can beat a soyboys ass, lol.
You just need to get behind the barn.
80% of debt is held by women, 65% of bachelor's degrees, women.
Joel, okay, I'll dumb it down for you.
How does the noun adjoint list relate to the noun tactics?
What I feel is Pearl wants to build an income stream, but all she had in her eggs was the YouTube.
Was I wrong?
Yeah, I'll tell you what happened.
You know, this is a bit embarrassing, but to be honest, we were doing so well on YouTube.
I just didn't diversify.
I really didn't.
And then when I got demonetized, I had all these expenses, which were a lot because I hired a lot of people.
And I was actually investing in other YouTube talent at the time.
Unfortunately, I had to let a lot of people go.
It was really unit was really sad because a lot of them put a lot of time and effort into the channel, but I just couldn't afford it anymore.
So now we're after that.
I got the website.
I bought it.
Got the memberships up.
We had to delete pretty much all my content off of YouTube.
It was really depressing.
Three years of work, a billion views.
I had to remove it, put it on my website.
And now you have a monthly fee.
Like the website, I'm not going to, you know, it's expensive, right?
So the only way around it is to get enough memberships.
And if we get enough memberships, it puts us in a better position where for a year, because how do you, I had to pay the documentary people couldn't anymore.
So essentially, the goal is this year we want to get 3,500 members.
That's a crazy goal.
It's very difficult to get people to go off site, but I do think it's possible.
I do think we can do it.
And with that, then you can be YouTube free.
You don't have to worry as much.
The same way Crowder doesn't have to worry as much.
If he gets demonetized, he doesn't care.
That's my goal with the website: to get enough people.
So you don't have to stop projects if you get demonetized, essentially.
Okay, Yakov says the last caller was very correct.
It used to be that shame was a useful correction of women.
Shame for divorce, not having a family and abortion.
Joe will say your interpretation was wrong.
You don't need to be a mensa to understand grammar.
Kenny Lee, in fact, pearl picking the catfish is a form of shame.
She needs her own army.
Steven Crowder has the mug club.
Andrew Tate has his people.
Thousands of people have made that mistake.
Yeah, you know, I mean, people have kind of like done all these videos, the downfall, and they're kind of dog on you and you're down.
But it's like, you know, you make mistakes, you learn, you try to do it better the next time.
So I came back.
And that was a good thing because in England, guys, it was just very, it was too many people at the time.
And it was very stressful for me.
There were security concerns because I was living in the place that I did the show.
And like we had problems where people would like show up from the show.
Like one girl showed up at my house in the middle of the night.
One guy showed up at my door.
And I just prefer America overall.
London, you know, it just wasn't my favorite city.
So the Audacity Network, the idea was I wanted to fund multiple content creators, but it became a problem because I just didn't have the time and energy to put into like a bunch of different people or the resources.
So sadly, I really, I really loved all the talent.
And shout out to Christine.
She's doing great.
She's doing her own thing.
I gave them all their channels.
I said they could just keep them.
And who knows, maybe in the future?
Who knows?
But, you know, for now, it was just I couldn't keep everyone.
Can we not say my name on stream?
Oh, I'm sorry.
I don't, did I?
I just say the first name, but okay, fine, fine.
Maybe, can you change your username?
I might see if we can do that.
Okay.
Does anyone disagree?
I'm going to take one or two more callers.
Anyone disagree?
Put a thumbs down.
Thumbs up if you agree with me.
thumbs down if you disagree.
Okay.
I'm going to put this girl next.
Hello.
Hello?
Hi, can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you.
What should I call you?
Vince.
Vince?
Yeah.
Nice to meet you.
Same.
I do.
I do disagree with what you're saying, but I'm not here to attack you in any way because I don't think that that's productive.
My main point is: do you wear makeup?
Yes, a little bit.
Okay.
Why is it that makeup does make you feel good about yourself, or do you just wear it because you like it?
Or how do you go with your makeup?
Let's talk about that later.
Sometimes if I have acne, I just will hide it.
Okay.
So it makes you feel better.
Yes.
Okay.
Okay.
I get it.
I also have that.
And I think that you can see with a lot of girls, sometimes I also don't wear a lot of makeup because it's a lot of work and I really don't want to do it.
But one thing that I do can say is that other girls can maybe use it in the same way that you're using it.
But there's no reason why to point the fingers at those girls that are using it to hide the exact same thing that could make you feel better about yourself, you know?
Okay, so you're essentially saying I'm hypocritical.
No, at all, at all.
Like, I didn't use that word.
If not, I would have to use it.
I'm just saying that maybe you're coming from a point that you're not realizing that maybe your own actions are going against yourself as well.
But it's not saying that I'm not saying that you're hypocritical.
Do you want to know why I see it differently?
Yeah, yeah, sure.
So I'm not against makeup.
I'm not against light plastic surgeries, even.
I'm not against, like, you know, Melania Trump.
She's clearly had a bit of work done, right?
Yeah, of course.
Yeah.
I'm just using her as an example.
I just think that we are to a point where it's getting excessive.
Nobody really has a problem with light makeup.
No one really has a problem with, I guess, a little bit of work done.
Nobody's going to say anything.
But to me, when you decide, these aren't just regular women.
They're not just regular women doing nothing.
They're women that want to build a following off of their appearance.
They post selfies and they're trying to make money off of how they look and they don't actually look that way.
I think it would be different if they're normal women, but the way I see it, it's different because they are trying to make money off of their appearance.
And in general, I look the same as I do in pictures in real life.
Actually, you're going with a really feminist approach on that because, yeah, I mean, everybody can do whatever they want.
I mean, in a sense, for a long time, people like the Kardashians were really the main focus of what beauty should be like.
And it's something that is unattainable, 100%.
But doesn't take away the fact that those women feel happy doing those kinds of things.
I don't think that the women that you posted on that on that thread even care about the fact that you're saying that they're catfishing.
That's for sure.
they have enough money to not give a fuck about that.
But the reality is that this is something that can affect...
Well, some of them, that's not true, because some of them have been tweeting for hours about it.
The one threatened a lawsuit, that's not true.
They've been very the more famous ones don't care, but the less famous ones, the micro-influencers, I've been threatened with a lawsuit.
I've never liked the big ones, you know, like the smallest.
Yeah, but the winners, like the top three, weren't any of the big ones.
Those were influencers on Twitter.
My main point here is: I really don't understand what you're trying to actually do with all of this.
But what I think is, don't you have bigger problems in your life that you might think, well, I can maybe give all this attention into trying to see if other people also feel the same that I feel.
And then I can make a change about that instead of putting other people down.
And I'm asking generally, yeah, I'm not trying to attack you or anything.
Can you ask that question in a different way?
Let me see.
Look, I have enough problems in my life that I'm trying to put an example.
I have enough problems in my life that I truly don't give a fuck about how other people look like.
In a sense, I'm not focused enough in other people's lives and other people form that they present themselves into the world that I'm going to dedicate my whole life into that.
In any case, I would like to help people, and I do it, that I help people trying to see themselves in a way that, wait, I'm still talking, in a way that they are feeling better about themselves.
I think that that's a little bit more constructive in a sense of what I would like to see.
Okay, I understand.
I understand.
So the reason I do it is because I think it's fraudulent.
And I think it's wrong.
And if they want to, the same way if a man was going out and saying he was rich and he was really broke.
And if people came out and said that he's actually broke, nobody would say, why are you doing this?
They would agree.
They would say that's fraud.
I think these women are committing fraud.
I don't think it's a little bit of enhancements like Melania Trump.
I don't think it's a little bit of makeup.
I just think it's straight.
I think it's getting extreme and it's fraudulent.
And I also think that it makes it more difficult for younger women because they think they're supposed to age like that.
They're not really given realistic examples of what they're really going to look like when they're older.
And if they don't age like that, they're going to think something's wrong with them.
And I'm just pointing out that it's not real.
Yes, but don't you think that the way you're pointing it out can be a little bit aggressive and like discriminatory instead of trying to make it a constructive thing into like, hey, this is older.
Did I call them ugly?
You know, you know that you have used worse words than that.
So, no, what did I say?
Like, I'm asking seriously, what did what did I specifically say that was so mean?
No, I'm not saying that you're mean per se.
I'm just saying that the way that you sometimes talk about these women, saying like that they're catfishing or they're there being frauds, is a little bit of like, is it true?
Um, not really, but I don't think it's a fraud.
It's not ripping anybody from anything, except from like what do you said?
You said that is um, a little bit uh, misguiding for young women, but that has always been asked.
Do you see the?
Do you see the thread?
Can you see like the pictures on the thread?
Yeah yeah, do you see the woman that won it?
The one on the top?
She's the first one with the red hair.
If i'm on a zoo post a lot so I cannot see it, so here I can, I can pull it up just so I can show you who won it and you can tell me if you think these, these women, are at all similar.
But from my perspective they are not.
She, these two people are not similar at all.
From like what with my eyes, what i'm seeing?
This isn't just a little makeup right like um okay, Brett Cooper is an example.
Do you know who that is?
Uh yeah, i've seen her with and without makeup on her channel.
Like I can tell when she gets costume level makeup and when she doesn't have it on, she looks pretty similar.
Maybe it gives her half a point a point, but I I think it's fine.
I would never put her down because she put on makeup.
This on the left to me looks like a woman 15 years younger.
On the right she looks like my mom's friend not ugly, but she just looks like a mom.
And and do you think it's realistic that young women see the image on the left and think that's what they're really gonna look like?
Do you have enough money to do enough surgeries to look like that can?
With makeup, you're not gonna make it, but with surgeries yeah, of course that's not surgeries, that's filters.
I mean it changes her eyes.
Yeah yeah, in this case is an area.
Yeah, you can.
This is a filter, of course, but uh yeah, people can achieve that with easily with uh pain.
Basically, you understand what I mean.
I, I understand what you mean.
It is possible.
It's not a good example for young generations.
Yeah, of course it isn't, and you and I rob with that examples as well that they were not the correct ones and gave us a lot of in our lives because we were not up to the level of those women that we saw in magazines, of course, but the thing is, why not making it in a more positive way, instead of saying that they are fraud?
Why not trying to put it out into the world?
Because your message has a point and I agree on that, the way that social media is presented, sometimes with filters, and it makes young girls not see themselves the way that they could be.
But actually there's all of the other side, that people can also have their own identity, and if they want to wear a lot of makeup and look completely different, that's also fine.
So I won't say it a different way, because that's what I believe and I think it's malicious.
I don't, I don't um, maybe some of the ones where they weren't as bad, like um.
So i'll give you an example.
The third one down, Paige Spinnerack.
Yeah, her, I didn't think was terrible.
I didn't think hers was the worst.
I thought, you know, she did, it is definitely deceptive, right?
But she didn't react by, you know, a lot of these women, they're not good people.
One of them doxed someone in our space's daughter, you know.
And for example, you put a photo of like Sabrina Carpenter and like the photo is from like 10 years ago when she was 15 versus now that she's 25.
Okay, so the Sabrina Carpenter, I just put Sabrina no makeup and put them next to each other.
It's not really that deep, but you could get one of her today.
It's similar.
She looks very different with and without makeup.
That's the point.
I understand people age, right?
I get it.
But my in that case, it takes away a little bit of your credibility of what you're trying to convey if you're not using actual pictures of like recent times because I don't look the same as I was when I was 10.
And if you put a photo when I was 10 and when I'm now, I'm going to look completely different, of course.
That's my point, you know.
If you also okay, so then are you fine with are you fine?
Wait, wait, wait.
Are you fine with the other pictures then?
Because the other ones were recent.
So all other ones are fine.
Oh, I mean, the first one, she completely wears filters.
Yeah, that makes sense.
And the second one, yes, it's just a normal girl with makeup.
Like the Lolita, I couldn't even believe that one.
The redhead fourth.
I mean, she's hiding like 30, 40 pounds.
Maybe she feels bad about herself about that.
And she doesn't want to show it.
I know, but the thing is, what you're saying is women should cheat instead of doing the work.
And wait, wait, wait, wait.
So instead of doing the work and losing the weight to feel better about your, you know, I struggle with my weight sometimes too, right?
You know, they keep, I was bigger a couple of years ago and they keep tweeting me pictures.
But instead of using FaceTune, I just went and lost weight.
Okay.
So, you know, I would even respect surgeries more than this.
At least they would look like they do in real life.
Do you know if she's doing it now?
Surgeries?
No, no, I mean, do you know if she's working out and she's actually trying to lose weight?
Because I didn't know that you were trying to lose weight and I have been seeing you for a really long time.
And maybe, well, I didn't do that, but maybe one time I said, oh, yeah, she looks fat as fuck, but I didn't.
But well, totally fine.
But here's the thing.
I don't blame anybody for calling me ugly or fat.
I think that's their right.
And I came on to wait, I came on to the internet.
I made the decision.
I said, I want to have a show.
I love having a show and I want to have a show.
But what the women want to do is they want the best of both worlds.
They say, I want to have a show.
I want to make money off of my peer appearance.
And also, nobody can criticize it.
The first month I was online, someone told me I had a big forehead.
And I made the choice that I can either cry about this or keep going.
And so I just think what you're saying is that the ladies should have the best of everything.
They should be able to make money with the easiest, best job in the world and also have none of the responsibility and the problems that come with it.
No, what I'm saying is that I know that social media, it's uh I'm old enough to know that social media is a facade and that what actual people are living in their lives is a completely different reality.
And people can be dealing with health problems or can be trying to lose weight due to the comments.
But in a sense, that doesn't help to other girls.
That it's your point, you know.
Your point is that you don't want these women to be portraying something that they aren't and then they're a fraud, right?
But at the same time, maybe girls, little girls, are seeing the things that you're saying, and it's like, yeah, she's pretending this and she has 20 pounds more, 50 pounds more.
And it's like then they see themselves in the mirror and they are 14, 15 and they are not our age.
And then they go like, fuck, I do have 50 pounds more.
So I look like shit.
And they're not going to look at it in the same way that you and I look at it.
Like, oh, fuck, somebody thinks that I have 50 pounds more.
I can do something about it.
I cannot give a fuck.
Those girls are the ones that get the disorders and shit because they don't see themselves in those both positions, in the positions of those influencers that they portray something that they aren't, and in the position of somebody that is trying to help in a sense, but it's not conveying it in the correct way to actually be a voice that people can't.
Can I disprove something that you said?
So you said that women are going to get eating disorders from this or could potentially.
That's not a problem.
In the United States, 80% of women are overweight.
So if anything, they have an overeating disorder.
They're not going to become anorexic.
Women like to eat too much.
Not all, not all, not all, not all YouTube guidelines.
I'm going to also say something.
You're online.
I'm not even in the US and I know you.
I'm not the only one.
And a lot of people see what you post online.
And the fact that you say that a lot of girls have overweight are overweight in the US.
Okay.
I don't know.
I'm not going to say something that I don't know.
So I'm not going to say, yeah, you're not right on that.
Or maybe, yes, you're right on that.
What country are you from?
What country are you from?
I'm from Venezuela, but I'm in the Netherlands.
Netherlands.
You guys are, let's see, 35 percent.
51% of Dutch adults are overweight or obese.
Oh, no, I don't.
No, that's not true.
I know that one.
That's not true.
That's from Statista.
I can tell you for sure that's not true.
The amount of obese people are, I could even draw less than 50%.
People eat really, I will not say healthy, but they exercise and they have a really active life.
So it's completely different than the US, but like a whole different level than the U.S.
Well, no, we're worse.
We're like at 70%.
According to this, I'm seeing 35 to 50%.
I could agree maybe with the 30%, but I'm not entirely sure.
I would say that way less.
And I live here for a really long time and I can tell you that you don't see people overweight unless they actually have a health problem or something.
That yeah, you see overweight people, but that's not that common in here.
My point is, Girls do get and girls and males and everybody gets eating disorders out of social media.
My whole point in this is not saying how much people can get it or how many people can get it.
If one person gets it just from one comment that I made, I'm going to feel bad about it because I don't want people to feel like shit for a comment that was not necessary.
Okay, well, that's me.
Yeah, for me personally, I don't feel bad because you are completely in control of what you watch and listen to.
Yeah, but we're talking about kids.
We're not talking about you and I.
Well, then that's the parents' job.
So, anyways, I'm going to go to the next caller, but I do appreciate you calling in.
Okay.
Maybe, does anyone else disagree?
Anyone else?
Thumbs down if you disagree.
Sorry, guys.
She's just going on.
Okay, I think I'm going to end the space right now because I think everyone else agrees.
Yeah, I think I'm going to...
I did three.
Okay.
Anyways, guys, thank you for watching.
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My goal is 3,500 signups by the end of the year.
Let's see how many I got this show.
It's essentially eight or nine signups a show when I calculate it out.
Which this show we got, let's see, we got when did the show start?
Eight, one, two, three, but one was a yearly.
If you get a yearly sign up, that counts for eight, essentially.
Sort of.
I mean, for the monthly total.
But if you get a yearly, you essentially cover it's either eight or nine I need to show.
But anyways, thanks for watching, guys.
I do appreciate it.
I'm going to figure out a way to do Zoom where I can control it from my laptop because that's my next thing I need to figure out.
Please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel.
I do appreciate you guys watching as always.
And I'm going to end the Twitter space as well.
Like the video, subscribe, and I will talk to you.
Oh, we're going to move to a later showtime to be determined when it is this year.