Pearl Daily and guest Caitlin examine the "curse of the modern mother," critiquing women who opt for single motherhood—via IVF, adoption, or choice—to avoid compromise in parenting, careers, or relationships, citing cases like Michaela Peterson and Kim Kardashian’s clout-driven parenting. Caitlin defends her decision, dismissing conservative advice as impractical by age 35, while Pearl contrasts it with traditional mothers prioritizing children over validation. Lara Trump’s claim of balancing motherhood with politics is mocked for relying on nannies during her kids’ formative years. The episode argues that societal enablement—subsidized daycare, alimony—fosters selfish parenting, leaving children statistically worse off and extended families fractured, questioning whether modern feminism prioritizes women’s autonomy over children’s well-being. [Automatically generated summary]
Good afternoon, good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
I am your host, Pearl.
Welcome to the show.
So, I want to tell you guys today about a realization that I had.
So, when I first got into red pill content and like watching, I saw a stream that Rolo Tomasi did about Michaela Peterson.
And when I first saw the stream, I thought it was a bit harsh, right?
He was, I can't remember exactly, so I'm paraphrasing, but it was insinuating that she was having someone else raise her kids.
And I thought to myself, how would he even know that?
And it was something along the lines of her putting on social media looking for a babysitter.
And hindsight 2020, this was absolutely insane.
This woman was asking her Instagram to essentially watch her kid.
And there was a red pill that once I saw it, I just couldn't unsee it.
And that was the curse of modern mothers.
Now, what is a modern mother?
These are women that put anything else above their children.
Now, there was a time when I was younger.
There was, so I had about like three really good friends that I was friends with when I was a kid.
And I remember collectively, they all really found out that their moms were crazy.
They spent most of their life thinking that up to like 13 years old, everyone else that the dad was the bad guy.
So they thought, you know, one woman had her dad that was deployed.
And, you know, all throughout the year, her mom would tell her all these terrible things about her dad till she hit about 13, 14 years old, figures out the mom's crazy.
One mom was cheating on the dad.
And what I figured out is there's all these different archetypes of mothers that just really do not want to be parents.
Now, I need to make a disclaimer.
I am not talking about all mothers.
There are mothers out there that are amazing, that put their kids first, that would do anything for their children.
And I don't want to be flagged by YouTube for hate speech on this video.
So when I am referring to the modern mothers, I am referring to the mothers that did a bad job and put everything above their children.
Now, when I think of the classes of mothers, there's like an A team, right?
I mean, just like a classroom, not everybody can be an A student.
So when there is an A student mother, I think of a woman who gave up her career or maybe still obeyed and submitted to her husband, even with a career, trusted his judgment.
But you knew that that mother would do anything to be with her kids.
She was not letting outside people watch the kids.
She was not putting her kids in daycare.
She would work night shifts.
She would do whatever it took to be the one that she would become, she would work at night if she had to and take her kids to school in the morning.
You know, there are some mothers that are really, really dedicated.
These are not the mothers I'm discussing today.
A gentle parenting mother.
Now, these are the mothers that really want to be their kids' friend.
They don't like to tell their children no.
And the reason being is they don't like the icky feeling of being the bad guy.
And they want all the benefits of being a mother, raising good kids, having a good relationship with those kids, but ultimately often raise their kids to be terrible people because they want to do the gentle parenting method.
Now, I'm not one to say you should abuse your kids.
Like that, that would be a terrible thing to say.
I don't say that.
I'm not one to say that you should, you know.
Now, these are women and they will tell you themselves that will do anything.
They would much rather raise a kid by themselves than do the work of getting along with somebody for the child.
Let her tell you herself.
Oh no.
I recently came across like, let me go back.
Okay, so some people wonder.
Here we go.
Or why someone would want to be a single mom by choice?
I know I've mentioned to people, oh, I'd rather just be a single mother.
I think once you get to a certain age, people start to ask you, when are you getting married?
When are you having kids, et cetera, et cetera?
And I've said, like, I would rather just have my kids on my own and be a single mom.
I've had people ask me.
Now, single mothers, you know, it's one thing if you put your all into a marriage and it just doesn't work out.
I think we've all seen two people be married that just should never have been married in the first place.
They weren't the right people.
Their temperaments were completely different.
They would argue, but they can break up amicably and do what's best for the children.
And then there's the women that can't even try.
I don't know, maybe they're afraid of failure.
But usually it's because they're so insufferable, they can't get along with anybody.
And they think, you know, I can't get along with anybody.
So let's make the kids suffer.
You know, let's make the, and oftentimes these people have dehabilitating problems.
Maybe they can't, maybe it's their personality.
Maybe it's bordernut line personality disorder.
Maybe it's their weight that they can't control.
But in some way, generally, these people cannot take care of themselves to some degree.
Not all, not all, not all.
YouTube.
Like, why would you want that?
For me, I don't have to compromise.
And so I don't have to compromise in how I raise my kids.
I don't have to compromise in where we're living, in moving for someone else's career.
Mimi, Mimi.
What I want.
Decisions, etc.
And I'll be honest, initially, I did look into having a known donor or like a co-parenting situation.
And I'm really glad that I didn't choose that route because I don't want to share these decisions with anyone.
And so that's pretty much why I chose to be a single mom by choice.
There's so many ways someone can become a single mom by choice.
You can go the traditional adoption route.
So going to an adoption agency or maybe you know someone who's having a baby.
Now, I can't say adoption and IVF are the same thing.
Now, I'd like to say, as somebody that's been on both sides of the adoption system, right?
At least my family did.
You know, we adopted.
I had a brother that was given up for adoption.
So I've been on both sides.
It's one thing to take a baby.
Now, babies, they tend to have a long wait list from what I understand.
The kids that nobody takes or signs up for as much are the children that are in foster care.
You know, maybe their mom's a crackhead and like the state had to take them away.
And now this kid has seen some terrible things.
He wants to raise, you know, that's a ton of work.
Maybe special needs, you know, could I see the case for someone being a single mother and taking care of a kid that nobody wants?
That is not the same thing.
What these ladies do is they go and they pay for egg, you know, egg donors, IVF, they get all the technology, sperm donors, and make a baby that they are not prepared, ready for, because they can't find a guy to deal with them.
No, I wasn't adopted.
Don't, no, I had a brother I found out about later in life.
I'll tell you that story a different day.
Sorry.
Okay.
That would like to put their child up for adoption or would prefer to.
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My friend here, Richard Evans, says white people are doomed to fail because they're the only race that cares about what women think and say.
Andrew Tate.
That is not true.
That is not true, Andrew.
If we're going to talk about mother issues, there's a lot of people that they can't move away from their mothers.
I've seen this across races.
Can't move away from their moms.
Always have to live their life on their mom's terms.
Like, let's not, come on.
Tate, I don't agree with that.
To place their child, you can, I wrote them all down.
So one second.
Well, not all of them.
I'm sure there's some that I'm missing, but embryo adoption or donation.
So embryo adoption is when someone does IVF and they have extra single parent looking to start their family.
You good?
And then There's IVF, IUI, ICI, and of course, foster to adopt.
And so, I did IVF.
I think people pretty much know what IVF is.
So, IVF is when you stimulate your ovaries to create eggs or more eggs, and then you will fertilize them with sperm once they're fertilized.
After like it could go from three to seven days.
I'm not sure if it can go longer than that, but I know three to seven is what I've seen.
And at that point, they're okay.
We get the idea.
So, you know, she's telling you herself, I don't want to get along with a man because I don't want to share any of the decisions.
Now, what is interesting says across race, culture, and country.
You know, I've talked to people from Nigeria to India to white America, black America, southern America, northern America.
Most houses are decorated the way the mom wants.
Most kids go to school where the mother wants.
Most things are done the way the mother wants.
What percent of people had a dad that knew how to say no and that couldn't be manipulated?
I mean, how often do women overreact?
Not all?
Do many women overreact just to get the man to do something for them?
Now, we're going to continue to the single mothers by choice.
So, this is another woman saying her journey to being a single mother by choice.
Everyone, and welcome to my channel.
And welcome to my journey on becoming a single mom by choice.
My name is Caitlin.
I'm 34 and will be 35 in April, and I live in Maryland.
So, what is a single mom by choice?
A single mom by choice is someone who seeks out solo motherhood for a variety of different reasons and a variety of different ways.
You can seek out motherhood by a sperm donor, an embryo donor, adoption.
There's a variety of different ways.
It is different than someone who gets pregnant and the relationship doesn't work and they decide to still have the baby and be a solo mom.
So, how did I get here?
What started off as an egg-freezing journey turned into a lot of research and just some soul searching.
And I was in a seven-year relationship, and that unfortunately didn't work out.
I knew I wanted to be a mom, and I thought so.
She was in that relationship trying to find Prince Charming.
If women know they want to be moms, they're not waiting around to do it, it's on the table as soon as the man wants it.
I thought that he would be the one that I would have a family with.
He had three kids of his own, which sparked my motherly instincts.
But up until this point, I've been really focused on my career, and I'm fortunate to have gotten a promotion, which gives me off weekends again.
And that is just giving me a little bit more of a work-life balance where I feel like I'm ready to start my family.
Unfortunately, the right guy hasn't come along.
I've dated on and off since that relationship ended four years ago.
I've met some amazing people and some of my greatest friends.
However, I haven't met the one and the person that wants to commit and have a family with me.
So, throw everything into dating, or do I go about solo motherhood?
I am the type of person who, when I want something, I just go after it.
Um, and now, did she think, okay, what's better for the kid?
She thought, this is what I want.
Me, me, Did she think, is it eating in a pressure cooker?
I wanted that family so bad and I wanted to have kids so bad that every date I went on, I was looking at it.
Does this have the potential to progress to an engagement in six months to a year?
Now, this is the anxiety that women make men's problem.
Look, I'm no spring chicken, you know.
But is it fair for me?
And I'm asking you guys, is it fair for the women?
If we decide to settle down 25, 26, 35, as opposed to 20, 21, 22, is it fair to put that on the men?
Then a marriage quickly after, and then kids, because I don't want to start having kids.
In the show.
If I get 10 signups this show on theaudacitynetwork.com, I want no excuses, none, because it's on the website.
It's on, I mean, sorry, it's on Apple Store and it's also on whatever the other one.
I have an Apple phone, the other one.
So if I get 10, we can do call-ins and I'll take like a couple callers at the end.
Assuming my producer says we can do it, which I'm sure he will tell me soon.
It's a holiday season, you know, he's at home.
But I got, I officially got one sign up from Elliot.
I won't say the last name, but did get a sign up.
So yeah, yeah, I will blackmail you guys.
Yep.
Yup.
Andrew Wilson LARPing again.
Well, too bad.
After 40, that just personally isn't for me.
I really wanted to start having kids around this time.
And I actually always said it tongue in cheek that if I'm 35 and I'm still single, then I'm just going to do it with a sperm donor.
And I never really thought that was going to happen, but yet here we are.
So in doing research, I turned to YouTube and I found some amazing women who have chosen this path that I felt a connection to.
And I okay, what would I do if I was 35 and I wanted children?
I don't believe in IVF.
So what would I do if I was coaching her?
I would first say, all right, lady, we need to let whatever your list is for a husband, we need to cut it in half.
He needs to be attractive enough that you can have sex with him.
That's one.
He needs to have to be a good person to raise the kids.
And I would say you get like three things that you want.
You want them to be tall and hot?
Pick one.
Pick one, lady.
And I would say, all right, it's time.
You know, the ladies will say, no, I don't want to use the dating apps.
I would say, it's time to use the dating apps.
You get like 5,000 matches on there.
And I would say, I'm sorry, lady, but it's time.
You're going to have to sleep with these guys pretty fast.
You're 35.
No guy is going to wait.
So if you like a guy, you think he could be it, use protection.
But this is the only way that that whole waiting thing.
You know what?
I'll be nice.
I'll give you three dates.
If you don't want to sleep with him by three dates, keep going.
Move on.
Next, next.
I need you to fill out your schedule with these dates.
This is your job.
This is a part-time job.
You know.
And will she get picked?
Will it work out?
Probably not.
But look at, we got to do the best we can.
It's better than being a single mother.
I felt that, wow, I really could do this as well.
I also threw myself into podcasts.
The single greatest choice podcast is one of my favorites, and I have done some of her community.
Okay, guys, what would you say?
If she wants to get a husband, if that's what she's looking for, she's got to go on dates.
How else is she going to get there?
Oh, you know what?
I would do a matchmaker, too.
I would say we're going to go all angles, lady.
I need you to approach one guy you find hot every day.
So every day you go out.
If you see a guy you find hot, I want you to go say hi.
Ask him out.
It's time.
Yeah.
You got to hunt like the men do.
I mean, you're not 22 anymore.
Groups and she has to date 40-year-old men.
Yeah, I would say go older.
You don't, I wouldn't go divorced because I think once a guy's done that once, he's done.
But would you consider rushing the rushing forcing a marriage to meet the biological clock leading to increased divorce rates?
Yeah.
But I'm just saying, if I was, guys, we're trying to be pragmatic here.
Feel free to give your take in the comments.
Activities and that's what I would say.
I would say, all right, download Bumble and Hinge.
Now, I would say go hinge.
You're going to buy, you're going to buy the premium version of it.
And you're going to, four nights a week, you're going on dates.
Four nights a week until you find your first date.
You have up to three dates to want to sleep with them.
If you don't, it's on to the next.
I wouldn't go there.
For the ladies, though, I would say, you know, you're going to have to start booking that calendar.
Okay, so you guys get the idea.
This is a so the other, the thing that inspired this live stream was the social media mothers.
So these are the women that either are Kim Kardashian or think they're Kim Kardashian and are using their women, sorry, are using their children for clout.
Now, as you guys know, I get a lot of flack for pointing this out from the Trad Cons.
When they'll put their throw their kid on an app like Twitter with pedophiles and say, you know what?
I need to virtue signal using my children today.
Look at my amazing, awesome family for clout.
Zach says, pump and dump.
Pearl, stop giving away my moves.
No, no, I would tell the 35-year-old woman to expect it.
The trad cons will say, wait till marriage.
They're idiots.
At that age, that's not going to work.
They're dumb.
I would say, look, lady, there's something wrong with you.
I don't know what.
But I would expect to get pumped and dumped a couple times before you find Prince Charming, just realistically.
I mean, anyways, so now she's putting her 12-year-old daughter on TikTok in a mini skirt with her boobs out at like 12 years old.
They also do the thirst traps with the children.
You see that she's she's doing the booty thing.
Oh, where's the hold on?
Let me go to her page.
There's two on this.
Have a holly jolly.
Have a holly jolly Christmas.
XOXL.
Look at this.
She's got her boobs out at like 12 years old.
Do you see this?
This nonsense.
Have a holly jolly Christmas.
XOXO.
Gossip girl.
Last Christmas, I gave you my heart.
But the very next day, you give it away.
Now, oftentimes, the ladies like Kim Kardashian, they have nannies raising their kids, a lot of your Trad Con influencers, and they don't really want to be mothers.
They like the clout of the children.
They like having the kids so they can be told, I am a good person.
I am special, awesome, and amazing.
And motherhood, trendy, trad wife, trendy.
I know.
And so these are what I call the social media mothers.
Now, next are what I call the mothers that really are not meant to be mothers.
These are the mothers that there is not a bone in their, you know.
Sorry.
I'm a little spacey today, guys.
Don't know.
I'm kind of tired.
There are people.
There are mothers that get absolute joy from watching their children.
They look at their kids and it lights up their life.
And then there's women that don't have a nurturing bone.
Reasons why I don't want any more children.
I gave up my entire 20s to being a mom.
I became a mom at 21.
I had another child at 26.
Shorty is trying to claim her 30s back.
Like, period.
Okay.
I spent my entire 20s trying to find the balance between being a mom and figuring out who the fuck I was.
And I didn't even know that at that time because I thought I was just living.
So let's start there.
Your 20s are supposed to be your selfish years.
And anybody who tells you that that is not true, I don't know what planet they're on.
But your 20s are your selfish years.
Is the years that you are an actual, you're transitioning into being an adult mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc.
So, no, you shouldn't be nobody's parent, especially in your early 20s.
And I had a son at 21.
So we were riding this wave together, just getting smacked with the waves, you know.
And then by the time I was 26, I mean, it wasn't as hard, but still, like, I didn't have my 20s to myself.
So she resents her children.
She says, you know what?
I had these kids young.
I wish I didn't.
I didn't get to party.
I didn't get to do all the fun stuff.
So, no, I don't want any more kids.
And let's not even get into this, Barbara.
We are.
Everywhere I go, that they see me with my two children.
They're like, oh my God, you look so young because I am.
I'm only 30 with a nine-year-old and a four-year-old.
And don't get me wrong, like 21, you're an adult.
I was an adult.
I had a child at an adult age.
But are you really an adult at 21?
Yeah.
Are you really?
You are.
For all you people out there or mamas who think you want to have children.
Oh, I got my allergies in my eye.
Before 25, don't do it.
And you know what?
30 and after is a great age to become a mom.
Honestly, it is like, especially if you treated your 20s as you should.
It was tough being a mom.
I love my son and I loved him and I had such a great time with him.
But I still wanted to do me and becoming like I had to be selfless before I can even be selfish.
That was tough.
And then I have my daughter.
And let me tell you, having a child at an older age, I saw the difference when you reflect between being a mom at 21 and being a mom at 26.
And even being a mom now at 30, like my patience is so much more now.
Like so beautiful.
But imagine if I would have been selfish and then became selfless.
They wouldn't have had to ride these waves with me.
But it would have been simpler waves.
I don't know.
But the reason I don't want no more kids is because my son is going to be nine and my daughter's four.
And I finally made it.
I'm not on survival mode anymore.
I am just a mom living life and life will just continue to elevate from here.
And I want to claim that life before, like, I just want to claim it with my kids.
So I'm two and done and 30 and claimed, period.
Okay.
Why do mothers get away with saying that they don't like their children?
What effect is that going to have on the kids one day?
You know, children, they don't always process things right away or understand what's going on, but they're not stupid and they figure it out eventually.
And, you know, many times adults figure out what happened in the past or are able to process things that happened during their childhood.
But they used to be able to process those things privately.
Now the ladies are on social media documenting how much they don't like their children.
Now, I'm going to take a second and read the Audacity chat.
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You normally on most chats have to buy super chats, but here you don't.
It's just on the website.
Okay.
Bob Miller says, sorry, first names.
Bob, especially if they've been run through, I'm not saying you're run through.
I'm just saying if, especially if other women are run through, yes, it's not the way God designed it.
You mean nine, I have already signed up.
I said today, guys, I don't work for free.
This isn't, I'm already signed up.
Come on.
You're gonna, if we're gonna go off the plan, I need you guys to get the 10 during a show.
I'm not asking for a ton of money.
10 bucks.
I signed up ages ago.
Somewhere in an alternate.
Do you guys want the calls that bad?
I mean, is this?
Okay.
Maybe I'll do one or two.
Let me make sure I can because my producer is.
Oh, he said he can do it.
Okay.
Maybe I can.
Bob.
So why is the man ever wanted to settle down with her?
Pearl, tell the YouTube people you're only posting the Zoom link on the Audacity Network, and so they have to join to get it.
It'll be a perk for us and drive those losers to your side.
You know what?
I like that idea.
I think that's that's a good idea.
Okay, Charles, being a single mom by choice should be illegal.
Yes.
And it's crazy because the conservatives will freak out at the gay guys that want to have kids.
Rightly so.
I don't think that's right either.
But a man, sorry, a woman tries to do the same thing.
Nobody bats an eye and it's encouraged.
That woman is a sex trafficker.
I see it because she's a sex trafficker.
She's a disgusting human being.
Look how she's got dressed like a good little Catholic girl.
Three daughters, and it's disgusting.
I think the average age of woman a thousand years ago was like 12 or 13, so was her husband.
When the life expectancy was 40, how old do you think mothers were?
There must be six million years of human evolution.
There has to be known or knowable.
If not, you wouldn't make it past 60.
Okay, let me look at the next one.
I have so many girlfriends.
No, this is women figuring out that motherhood is hard.
Girlfriends that are like, I love my kid, but I still want my life from before I had my kid.
I want to work even more now that I've had a kid because I realize being a full-time mom is hard.
There has been this weird stigma around women who decide to not have kids.
I've been seeing it much more normalized now.
On TikTok, I've been seeing all these videos where people are saying, I had kids and I love my kids, but if I could go back and do it over, I wouldn't do it.
And that's something that was so taboo to say and it's super controversial.
People are so scared.
For a reason.
For a reason.
If you think it's super taboo to say, why would it be taboo?
Why would that be a good idea to say that?
And it's one thing to say it in private.
Let's not pretend like the way we talk in public and private is the same thing.
Your mom yelling at you in private is one thing.
Your mom yelling at you in front of everyone is a completely different thing.
And social media has allowed women to do this.
Garrett, if they do feel that way to actually say that out loud.
But it's a real feeling that people actually have.
Why is that so horrible to talk about?
Doesn't mean you don't love your child, of course.
You would never give them back.
It's not like you have to regret it to say, hey, if I knew what I was in for, I wouldn't do it.
Let me do another.
Can't even believe that.
I regret having kids.
I'm 35 female and I regret my decision to ever have children.
I'm constantly burnt out and touched out and exhausted, being the only one doing the caretaking.
I love them and make sure that they know it, but this is not a life I will never choose to live for myself again.
How do other single parents in relationships make it happen?
I feel like I'm going to explode either from depression, exhaustion, or rage.
My family's help is minimal, but I'm grateful for what they do give.
I haven't had a child-free night since Christmas Eve 2020 and before that, March of 2018.
I'm so angry inside.
Every time I have to take on one more burden myself, I want to run away some days, but I would never inflict that trauma on my children.
My mom left me and I would never hurt my kids like that.
I'm not some checked-out parent either.
I give hugs.
I read books.
I give nightly baths and I ask about school.
I give words of encouragement and I'm exhausted by it every single minute.
Am I a piece of garbage?
Yup.
Probably.
But I really just wanted to get this off my chest.
Now, these are the women, you know, feminists have a point to an extent.
Put a one in the chat if you think that there are certain women that were just not meant to have children or be mothers.
And I'll tell you what, interviewing a thousand women, I used to think pretty much every woman had it in them until I started interviewing women and seeing what they prioritize.
And there is a woman, mother of four, that would come on my show constantly.
And I would always wonder who's watching her kids.
I knew she wasn't watching them.
She was at every event, everything we would throw.
She would come.
Nice enough woman, but you know, you beg not to mention the single mothers that have a revolving door of men in and out of their life.
Okay, next.
Okay, next, the next archetype we have is the competing.
Wait, the next archetype of mother we have is the competing mother.
These are the mothers that compete with their daughters.
Many of them flirt with their daughter's boyfriends.
Whenever something good happens to the daughter, they need to steal the attention.
They cannot deal with their children getting more attention than them.
Many men told me that their girlfriends' mothers would hit on them.
These are the mothers that try to be young forever and dress like they are in their teenage years.
Next, we have the I did so much for you mother.
These are the mothers that want a ribbon for having a kid.
Having a kid is easy.
Anyone can do it.
And these mothers resent their children because they missed out on their youth.
Often married young and gave up a high-powered career in order to be a mom.
You can't serve two masters.
You can't have it all, at least not at the same to do so.
They are women that gave up things in order to have children.
But does it count if the women feel as though they should have chosen the alternative?
I found that many women feel as though they missed out on a career or partying in their youth when they were young.
They regret the decision and they make sure their children know.
This is where the I did so much for you mothers come from.
This is where the mothers that want recognition for doing the bare minimum of raising a child.
They chose to have.
I did so much for you means I give only in order to get.
I missed out on this means I wanted to party more than being a mom.
Next, there are the I hate your father mothers.
These are the mothers that hate the fathers of their children so much that they make the kids pay for it.
These are the mothers that say things like, you are just like your father.
These women married men that they don't really like and every chance they get, they belittle him.
These are the mothers who make passive aggressive jokes and disrespect the father in front of the kid.
When these women get divorced, they make sure the entire town knows and they play victim even to the point of filing abuse allegations.
The social media moms are the ones that use their children to build their brand.
Growing up, children deserve a sense of privacy, but for whatever reason, the moms think it's more important to show off that they are a good mother.
It's very obvious by their social media posts.
They are trying to signal, look at me, I'm a great mom.
This in itself is not traditional because traditional women bring the least amount of attention to themselves.
Now, I wanted to react to, this is what I call the hope.
And what women will do is they'll make decisions that clearly are not the best for their kids.
And really, if I were them, I would just advise being quiet.
But what they tend to do is they tend to have to rationalize these things.
And I want to show you guys two modern mothers.
And I do, I am fans of both of them.
So if you see this, it's not personal.
But what you're saying makes no sense at all.
And it makes you look like a bad mom.
I hope you're not.
I hope you're a good mom.
But based on this, I wouldn't bet on it.
Okay.
So I'm going to play this.
Tower.
And the top cars.
I mean, I am in New York City.
We're here.
Hey, is this your daily view when you're here?
Well, when I'm here, I try to be not in New York City as often as humanly possible.
But yeah, when I'm here, this is not a bad gig.
It's insane, which I expected, but then you're like, okay, I get it.
Okay, we have a lot to get to, not much time.
Day in the life of Lara Trump right now is what?
Often it changes.
I mean, that's the thing.
But if an average day, I try to get up as early as I can and get a workout in.
Honestly, sometimes it's in the three o'clock hour I wake up.
It depends on right now.
In between, trying to fit in many things that I'm personally doing, like a podcast that I have or, you know, interviews for the RNC and campaign.
And I try to make a trip, a day trip if I can.
And so sometimes it means that I am the first one up and out of my house in the morning and the last one back and in bed at night.
And as many moms know, I am also, if I come home at midnight and there's stuff that's not in the right spot, I'm putting it away.
Absolutely.
You can't wake up to mess to crap.
No, no, I can't do it.
I can't function.
But, you know, it changes every day, but it's a lot of travel.
It's a lot of hustle.
But honestly, it's the thing that I feel most inspired to do right now and I think is most important to do.
And I know that I can do it.
So they have slips.
Is the most important thing the kids or the job?
Do it because it's not forever.
There's a finite amount of time attached to how crazy things are right now.
But no two days are alike.
And but it's always a hustle.
The finite time period.
You're talking specifically about like the job stuff because the home stuff is the exact same thing.
Oh, well, the home stuff is right.
I mean, and that goes, and then it flies by.
And we were just talking.
Your kids are babies, six and four.
Yep.
Mine are 22, 28.
They said, oh, great.
She's a wonder woman.
She forgot to mention the nanny.
Yeah, these women all have nannies.
And I'm so like, I'm excited for this new chapter, but I'm sad because they're not six and four.
Right.
And so that's the hard part is trying to balance all of the work stuff.
And it's more than work.
It's a passion.
It's a career with the fact that your babies are not going to be babies for long.
Yeah.
Like you have to be present.
So how it's not a lot of sleep.
I think that's generally how I operate now.
And you're right.
I'm so acutely aware because so many people have told me, enjoy this time, really take it in.
And look, you only get a certain amount of time to really impact the lives of your kids, to impact the lives of another human being.
And I don't want somebody else to do that job.
So, I mean, the mom guilt is real sometimes.
My kids don't like when I leave.
I don't like when I leave, but I have to do it a lot in the times.
Now, the question is, does she have to?
Is there a man that could do the same job just as good?
I'm not saying it's right or wrong.
But what I am, what I'm showing is she's admitting she's not prioritizing the kids.
She's prioritizing what she wants to do.
If your kids are counting down the days till you get back, it's showing something else as the priority.
She's married into the Trump family.
They have enough money for her to not work.
Now, you could argue.
You could argue that the country's in danger.
Okay.
Okay.
I get it.
But this is why I'm not the biggest fan of women in politics because you can't do it all.
And generally, these women, it's at the expense of the children.
As I'm away, I try to make sure that they're very busy doing things.
You know, obviously, when they're in school, that's one thing, but camp, sports, activities, things to keep them busy.
But I don't know.
I don't know that anybody has it fully balanced.
I feel like I always have loose-ins everywhere, and I'm always kind of crazy.
And at night, when I'm trying to go to sleep, I like wake myself.
I'm like, oh, I forgot to do this.
I get up out of bed, I go do it.
But I think a lot of, especially moms, feel probably the same way.
I actually have tried to not use the word balance as much because that makes it sound like it's equal.
That's true.
And there's no such thing.
Yeah.
Like, never.
Even before you had kids, and you have kids, and you're like, wow, I was a slacker.
I thought I was busy.
What was I doing?
What was it doing?
Yeah.
Exactly.
What are the conversations like with your kids?
And again, they're young, but when you're like, I promise I'll be back later tonight or tomorrow, or, you know, because they're old enough to understand.
Yeah.
But what are those conversations like?
Well, you know, they, I think nobody's better than the mom and dad, right, in a kid's life.
And I always try to let them know that I will always come back.
Mom always comes back.
But, you know, they understand, I think they're starting to understand why I'm traveling like I am right now.
And it's, it's for grandpa.
And whenever we talk specifically about that and about the fact that right after Halloween, mom won't have to travel as much because all of the, but they always want to know exactly when I'm coming back.
When exactly will you be back?
Will it be tonight?
Will it be tomorrow?
If you're coming back tonight, will you come in and see me before you go to bed?
Of course, I always do.
But I think it's, you know, I don't know that it's much different than any other parent.
You know, it's no matter if you're going for two hours away from your kids or two weeks away from your kids, it's always hard to leave.
And I do everything I can to make sure that I'm able to get back.
Look at that's a long time.
Kids develop attachment issues when you're gone that long.
Now, is it the end of the world?
Who has a perfect childhood?
I mean, hell, these kids are Trumps.
Choices and trade-offs.
Dane says, Pearl, first lie in history was if you eat of the fruit, you will be like God.
Women are swallowing it, no pun intended.
There's always a new fruit, and that will complete them.
It's because they have no fulfillment.
They have no spiritual connection.
It's all material, they say.
They might say that they have a spiritual connection, but that's BS.
Pearl, she is so selfish and she's messing with her kids and they're going to deal with it the rest of their lives.
Their nanny will probably be closer to them than their mother.
So she's selfish.
Yeah.
And the other thing, so guys, I was, I was a product of nannies.
I grew up with nannies.
And the challenge you have is the nannies will not stay forever.
It's really rare that you have a nanny that'll stay for 18 years.
And it's, you know, how there's like a rotating door of like fathers that like single mothers deal with when they're dating.
The challenge you have with the nannies is it's a rotating door of random women that are in your house.
And it's really hard on a kid.
Like when I think of like the worst memories I ever had as a kid, it was like sobbing because my nanny left.
And it ultimately is selfish.
Not saying like my parents were, but, you know, because we had like 10 kids, they did the best they could.
But, you know, it's women in that position when it's Very difficult on the children when the mother is not there as the primary caretaker and she's leaving for two weeks at a time.
I said, Pearl, you grew up with nannies.
I did.
I had, it was a program called Au Pair in America.
And to be fair, I don't think nannies necessarily are bad in itself.
But what this program does is it's very cheap.
It's like subsidized, I think, in Illinois.
So it's like a cheaper version or something.
But it's essentially an exchange program.
So people from Europe, they don't tend to go to school right away.
They work for a couple years.
And so one program they do that through is Au Pair in America.
And the nannies come, they live in your house, they stay for a year, up to two years.
I think the most we ever had was like three.
And then they go back to Germany, or mine were mostly Germans.
But I could tell you the best countries to get wives from, because I grew up with like, like I had one from South Africa, from Russia, from Brazil.
But yeah, I remember like crying for like a week because I was so sad that this woman, it's like you fall in love with the woman and then they just leave.
And, you know, I don't, I don't like to, I don't, this isn't a pity party, right?
But a lot of these mothers, they don't consider.
Was it like an exchange student program?
Yeah, but it was with, they weren't in school.
So they were just a nanny for a year.
They'd go back.
As quickly as I possibly could.
But anyways, they don't consider the effect that has on a kid, right?
What about you?
What about you, time?
Do you know what I'm saying?
I know.
I know.
Here's the thing.
But see, this is the modern, this is the modern mentality.
Sage, my thought is: what about the kids?
It's like the women, they almost see it as selfless that they give up any time for their kids.
When I'm thinking, you leave for two weeks, who the your poor kids.
And the modern mentality is, what about you?
What about me?
Because I'm older than you and I ignored that.
And it takes a freaking toll physically, mentally, spiritually, like all of it.
Yeah.
So, okay, the 345 workout, which is insane and quite obvious.
Well, but it's not always 345.
That's only if it has to be.
I'm like, today it was not.
Just to be fair, it was like 6:30.
Good, because that was reasonable.
If you're doing 345 or 6:30 makes me feel guilty, you're going to inspire me.
But anyway, point being, like, that actually is, and I don't think everybody understands, that workout and getting that sweat on, it is for you.
It's part of it.
It isn't just okay trying to look a certain way.
It's mental.
It is so mental.
I mean, a lot of times that's the only, honestly, the only time I'm alone in a whole 24-hour period.
Like, that's, that's it.
That's what I get.
And I force that in a.
I should interview my former nan.
You guys have to understand.
You guys are going to get me in trouble.
You know, I get, if I say the wrong thing on this show, I get in trouble.
You know, I mean, because I never want it to be like a pity party.
You know, it's not, but I'm just, I'm just being honest when I'm saying I would not recommend, wouldn't be my first choice.
I don't think it's bad.
Like, okay, a baby, like a nanny once or twice a week on the weekends.
Who cares, right?
I mean, kids go to school for the day, they're fine.
But it's just when it's the primary caretaker, when that's who's picking you up from school every day, it's like I remember, I remember being a kid and I would like go out to school and I remember I would just want it to be like my mom or my dad and it'd be kind of sad.
I'd be like, oh, dang it, if it was the nanny.
No offense, I like the nannies, but you know, they said, someone in the chat said you should only let your subscribers through the Audacity Network able to call in.
I think it's a great marketing tool.
Yes, guys, I do have the Audacity, the call-in link, but yep, I'm gatekeeping it today.
It's on the Audacity chat.
You guys got to pay to get it.
Sorry, I don't work for free.
My schedule in a lot of ways because I think it is so Pearl won't tell us the best country for a wet.
You guys are distracting me.
I'm sorry.
Today I'm just spacey.
Look at it.
I can't.
Some shows are just not going to be A-level.
They're just not.
Like, you know, sometimes it's a B or a C.
I don't know what to tell you guys.
You guys will just have to deal with it.
The nannies, the best nannies.
So Brazilians, very loving, very fun.
We had spending issues with the Brazilian nanny.
I remember I loved her a lot.
I really did.
But I remember we had spending issues and they don't do well with discipline.
I had a South African nanny.
I wasn't the biggest fan of her.
I had German nannies, I would say, were my number one draft pick.
Maybe it's because I'm part German and it was just an easier transition.
But out of all the nannies I had, my favorites were all from Germany.
My favorite nanny married my uncle, actually, so she became family.
But Pearl has the audacity to put the link on the Audacity Network.
Yes, I do.
Yes, I do.
Pearl, did you grow up a millionaire?
How did you have so many nannies?
Well, I mean, my family did well, but they weren't crazy until I was a little bit older.
But the nannies, it's not that expensive, I believe, in states where it's subsidized.
So the price isn't what you guys would think.
Like, I know it's an option for like upper middle class people too.
They said the black-haired German nanny was my favorite.
Do you don't?
My favorite, she was, I had two.
I had two that I remember a lot.
And they were, I offered them all of my piggy bank money to stay.
Like, I really, you know, and again, I'm so lucky.
Like, I got nothing to complain about.
So I'm not trying to make this a pity thing, but I know how difficult that is as a child because you don't really understand what's going on.
You just know this person that you've grown close to for like two years is leaving.
And then the worst part is when you get a nanny.
Oh, the worst is when you don't like the nanny.
Oh, there was this one nanny that was so annoying.
My gosh.
The worst nanny I ever had.
The worst.
And she stayed for two years and I was so mad.
I remember being so, oh, you know, it's one thing if you don't like somebody and it's like in your family.
Like you don't like them, but we're family.
It's another thing if you're forced to interact with someone every day that's a stranger that you don't like.
Oh.
So important and it balances me.
You talk about a balance, but it really does.
It settles me.
And if I, if I don't have that, if I don't get that little bit of time to just break a sweat and feel like I did something for me and just set my mind in a good spot, then I feel kind of off the rest of the day, to be honest.
So that is my me time right now.
And it's not as much as I want it to be.
But again, I know that it won't be forever.
Yeah.
You know, there's sort of the conversations with the kid part is what I wanted to get back to because I remember having the, and the kids understand, right?
They get it as they get older.
But I remember, I haven't probably fully forgiven myself for moments where I missed the dance recital, missed just the class field trip, the basic things that's part of the reason why we become mothers.
Yeah.
Right.
There will always be guilt.
But how do you handle that part of it?
They know it's wrong.
They do.
They just, you know, they don't admit it.
Can't quite be there for everything.
Yeah, it's the worst.
It's honestly the worst.
I think that it's like they don't, how do your kids handle?
Not one question about the children.
The thing that I hope is that, first of all, my kids look back on this time and they'll realize what I've been doing.
And I hope they're very proud of what I was doing and why I was doing it.
Because honestly, I'm not out doing it for me.
I'm doing it for them.
I'm doing it because I hope that the result is that they have a great life on the other end.
And all kids in this country have a great life on the other side of November 5th.
But I also hope that I am an example for them.
You know, and I think that's really important because I think as much, as easy as it would be to just say, you know what, I'm only going to focus on my kids.
I also don't know that that is the best model for them.
And not that anybody's perfect, anybody's got it all figured out, but I think the fact that they see that I'm out doing something that doesn't involve them and they're okay.
There's somebody's taking care of them.
My mom comes a lot.
God bless moms out there and they call her Mimi.
She takes care of my kids a lot.
And I'm so lucky that I have her and that ability.
But they see me out there doing something that's meaningful to me.
And I think that's really powerful.
And I think that's really important for both my daughter and my son.
You know, I hope one day that my son meets some tough chick out there who he's like, wow, she and my mom could get down because like she goes hard.
And my mom went hard.
And I hope that that is of value to him one day whenever he's, you know, seeking a wife down the road.
And for my daughter, I mean, what a better example for a girl than having a mom who's out there hustling.
And I hope she takes that away.
I'm so glad you said that because it took me way too long to realize that.
You know, well, that's good.
Yeah.
I'm ahead of things.
You are, you seriously are, which is, again, the balanced thing, whatever.
But when they see you help out there, like you said, all kids, helping others, helping this country, literally and figuratively helping the country.
Now, the question is: do we need conservative women fighting for this country?
What's wrong with conservative men?
You know, this is why I say there's no such thing as a conservative woman, even me.
And I'd like to say, for all these people that said I claimed, I never claimed that.
I don't, I'm like, when did I say that it was saying there's like a hierarchy?
There's a hierarchy of trad.
I'm going to make it one day.
And, you know, Candace Ellens is saying she's going to run for office in 2028.
Is there really not a man that could do it?
No man could do to have done what she could have done in the RNC.
I don't know.
None?
America's pretty big.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'm going to listen to this for another minute and then we're going to take callers.
Thank you to Dan, who had the great idea.
The link to the Zoom, if you want to call in, is on the Audacity Network website.
That's theaudacity network.com.
You can get it on the Apple Store also or Android.
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So you go there, download the app, and then you can go into the chat.
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That's unlimited super chats.
So normally on a show, you got to super every time to put your comment.
How many comments?
You know, Bob Miller has had like a million comments this show.
I'm about to read the rest.
You know, that's the value you get.
I may have to put something in the beginning where if you want it read, because sometimes you guys interact with each other.
And I don't know if that's the, you know, I think I'm not trying to read you guys' conversation.
It's your comments on the show.
So I might add something.
But, okay, so Bob.
Yeah, that's right.
You got to get it.
And I pay how I would pay more for your program.
My mother's German, best mother in the world.
Look, I'm just as someone that had nannies across the world.
That was my experience.
They're looking for guilt to be assured.
Bad example, me, Get my point.
You support Trump.
That makes you conservative.
Even if you didn't say if your actions speak louder than words, where is the link?
Sorry.
Bob, it's in the can I pin it?
Okay, I'm going to play this a little longer.
But also, doing it because you get a lot out of it.
Like, isn't that the kind of career we want our daughters and sons to choose?
Yes.
Is to not just do it because of a paycheck.
Like, it has to mean something.
So that's beautiful that they are able to see that.
And I hope they do.
Well, eventually, but oh, by the way, documenting.
Social media, we hate it, right?
It's evil.
And at the same time, with all this technology, they're going to be able to look back on all of this and hear these crazy interviews that you're doing with all kinds of random people.
Yeah.
Because it's going to exist.
I got to be honest.
You guys tell me your thoughts.
I think mothers overvalue the photo albums, the memory boxes, the books.
I don't really look through any of it.
I don't know.
You guys tell me.
You tell me what you think.
I think the kids kind of grow up.
They want to do their own thing.
I don't know.
And they will see and fully comprehend more, right?
I hope so.
That's the plan, at least.
Give me 15 years.
I'll report back.
Okay.
I will.
What is today?
Yeah.
June 2024.
I'm putting him in the calendar.
Yeah, put it down.
Okay.
But do you know what would be a better way to report back?
Put the kid there.
The kids aren't going to answer honestly.
We're all afraid of our moms.
Everybody.
Okay.
Let me put okay.
We can bring up the Zoom now.
I believe Doug MPA.
Pearl, if you see this, I'm playing and chilling with the unheard chat, homie.
We're drifting and socializing.
Keep the chat interactive, free of charge.
You're welcome.
Well, the YouTube one is always free.
I read these sometimes.
Okay, is the Zoom ready?
Let me just text my producer.
I'll play this a little longer.
I unmuted it.
Down.
Um, couple time.
Happy time.
Yeah.
We don't get any, we don't get enough.
We actually, it's so funny.
My husband and I were talking about this Sunday afternoon, and we try to make a date and stick to it.
Like, every if it's right now, it's probably like once every two weeks, but we have that time.
It's nobody good.
Well, and no matter, yeah, no, I agree.
No matter what else is going on, we had one night, I think like a week ago.
Oh, okay.
Sorry.
Okay, now we can go back.
All right.
Apparently, Doug is on the line.
Doug, MPA, you there, Doug?
I can't hear him.
What is the problem?
I mean, I can hear him like over there, but it's weird.
I can't.
I have a tech issue.
I can't hear him.
Are you sure it's Mike Five?
All right, guys.
I'm going to go work out this tech issue and play this for a second that we had planned, and it was going to be just the two of us.
And we had some friends who we haven't seen in a long time who happened to be in town.
And they said, Oh, are you guys available for dinner?
We haven't seen you in so long.
And I told him, I was like, We're not doing that.
It's yeah, because you got to stick to it honestly.
Because there are always going to be people, there's always stuff.
There's always things coming into your life as far as I'm concerned.
And I think it's so important that we have that time together because both of our lives are crazy.
And it's very easy, I think, as a couple when I'm over here going in this direction and he's going in this direction.
And, you know, we're both very focused on the things that we're doing to not be a cohesive team anymore, to really live your separate lives.
And oh, you, you know, you sleep in the same bed at night, but not to really connect in any way.
And so I think it's so important.
I think it's vital, honestly, to a relationship.
But our 10-year wedding anniversary is November 8th of this year, which is three days after election day.
Yeah.
Our wedding anniversary was on the two-year wedding anniversary was Election Day 2016.
Oh my God.
Yeah.
So what I said to him, I said, We have to plan something for, I don't know when it's going to be end of November, December or something.
Yeah, but how will there ever be a good time based on November 5th going the way that it needs to go for your family, right?
Like when we, when will we ever actually be able to do it?
To take some romantic trip.
What's 10 years?
Yeah.
And another 10 years.
You'll have to wait till 20.
We'll figure it out.
I don't know.
But we never went on our original honeymoon because you and I were talking about riding horses.
I broke both of my wrists three weeks before my wedding jumping a horse as we're crazy.
No surprise to anybody who does that sort of thing because that's we're just full crazy.
You can't get it out of your blood.
You really can't.
Once it's in, you're done.
No, no, that's it.
It's over.
And so we didn't go on our original honeymoon, which was supposed to be.
Okay, I'm sorry, guys.
I had to go check something.
All right, let's see.
Okay, Doug, I can hear you now.
Hey, Pearl, how are you?
Good.
Sorry about that.
We're because of the holidays.
We're doing a virtual producer.
So I had to go.
Yeah.
I had to go fix something.
Always good to talk to you.
I got a lot of opinions on this single mother by choice stuff, man.
Like, I'm just going to let me start out by saying all the problems in the U.S. are from single mothers and simps.
Okay.
But on the scale of single mothers, single mothers by choice are the absolute worst.
Single mothers by choice are absolute scumbags.
You want to know why?
It's because you're putting not only you're putting your child at every statistical disadvantage, and these women are going solo.
If you get IVF or insemination, that child will never know their father ever.
Ever.
And listen to this: only 2% of births come from insemination, and only 2% of births come from IVF.
The fastest growing group of single mothers are ages 33 to 37.
Because what happens at 35 between that age, they smash into the wall, right?
So if only 2% of births come from IVF and 2% come from insemination, that's only a small amount.
So most of the single mothers, how are they going to get their child, Pearl?
How?
One night stands, hookups.
But he's a deadbeat when you met him.
And society is going to give them a pass saying, oh, you got pregnant by a deadbeat.
He's terrible.
And then she's going to tell that child his whole life that his or her dad was a deadbeat, which he never should have had a kid with them in the first place.
Yeah, because he didn't want to be a dad.
Or a dad with her, anyways.
100%.
These are guys that already have multiple.
I'm just curious what the difference is.
What percentage of white women have more than one father for their children?
Of white women.
I'm guessing it's probably 40 to 45%.
Father for their children.
So he's okay.
Yeah.
22%.
Yeah.
B dubs is 65%.
Wow.
Yeah.
So, and also this whole myth of single mothers being able to do it by themselves.
I have a sister who decided to have a child with a total ray ray, right?
And I wouldn't trade my nephew for the world, but the biggest problem these women don't understand is they're making a unilateral decision that'll affect the lives of everyone around them.
Everyone.
They can't do it by themselves.
So if these single mothers by choice, they should talk to their father, their mother, their aunts, their uncles, their brothers, their sisters, especially if they have uncles, because they're going to have to pick up the slack.
Their family is irrevocably changed from their unilateral decision.
Single mothers by choice are the scum of the earth.
Yeah, I know one I met, and I really like her as a person.
I'd like to say really nice person, but she's had a weight problem for years, as long as I've known her.
And I'm like, you can't take care of yourself because you're morbidly obese.
Like, that was what was standing in the way of her finding someone.
Go ahead.
I'll bounce off that.
You have a lot of single mothers by choice that one they can't stay with, they can't attract or keep a man.
Yeah.
And if you can't get along with an adult, what makes you think that you're going to be able to raise a child?
And then also, also, you've seen multiple studies and analysis of these women that I just wanted someone to love me so I had a child.
So you're making a child try to love you the way that a man would.
It's not fair to the child.
Or they need someone to take care of them when they're old.
How is that fair to the kid?
Not like now the kid comes to the planet and he's in indentured servitude to you when you get old because you can't afford to pay someone to take care of you or to be a pleasant or to be a pleasant enough person that they want to.
Yeah.
Because that's the thing.
Like, you know, if someone was a really good, involved parent, the kids will want to do it.
But we have this whole generation of parents that weren't parents.
I think it started with the like 50 to 70-ish people today.
Like, I would say that's roughly where it started.
They're like late, late generation X.
Yeah.
And, you know, that's why, that's why the kids, you know, they're early Gen X.
They shame the kids for throwing them in a nursing home, but it's like they weren't involved parents.
You know, like, you, you know, I'm sure people on the channel have heard me talk about, like, I adore my dad.
I adore him to death.
And if he needed help, like, I would want to do it because he is a great father.
Do you know what I mean?
I'm like, it wouldn't even be like a, it wouldn't really be a burden.
It would be like you would want to do it.
But the thing is, it's different when they want to versus they feel entitled to it, you know?
Yeah, I agree.
In fact, you can see articles where a lot of millennials are complaining that their grandparents don't want to help them with their grandkids.
Because that's another thing.
Kids aren't entitled to take care of the grandparents, but grandparents aren't entitled to take care of their grandchildren either.
And that's something that men learn.
You guys learn that you're not owed anything, but women feel entitled to handouts from their grandparents, their parents, and their kids.
Yeah, especially when they're single mothers.
Single mothers are the most entitled, selfish women in the West.
And the only, the one woman I know that's a single mother by choice, the only reason she can do it is because of state-sponsored daycare in the country she's in and her parents.
And like, isn't that pretty selfish?
I mean, kids are pretty cute, I won't lie, but I've met the kids, but it's, you know, it's, it's just kind of selfish, you know.
Yeah.
And there's one other thing I want to talk about.
Who was the woman with Sage Steele's chicken neck?
Who was the woman that Sage Steele was interviewing?
Laura Trump.
Laura Trump.
So, so, guys, there's actually a burgeoning version of area of therapy where these professional women, they miss their child's milestone.
First step.
Honey, our daughter said her first word and she was at work or she was at a conference.
And your children are only little ones.
There's nothing women can do.
I'm sorry, Laura Trump.
There's nothing she's doing that's that's as important as being a mother to her children.
Someone else could have done it.
Exactly.
And, you know, there's so many jobs.
I don't know if you've heard my stuff.
You listen to a lot of my streams, but I'm not even necessarily against women working, but there's a million work from home jobs.
You could go be a teacher, right?
You could be a teacher at the school your kid works at.
Like, I understand it's like 82% of people of both parents working.
Okay, fine.
Maybe it's not for everyone, but there's a difference between having like a, you know, work.
Like, I had a friend whose mom was a nurse and her mom would work overnight shifts so she could be there for like the kids.
And she would sleep for an hour, get up and take the kids to school, sleep during the day.
And that was how she made it work.
And it's like you're leaving the kids for two weeks at a time.
That's a long, that's like half the month.
Yeah.
And for what?
It's not for money.
They don't need money.
Yeah, the sad part about it is I always say on my channel, we are in the great experiment right now where the women my age, you know, 40s and younger were lied to about the past.
They thought that women were shackled in the basement until 1975.
So now women can truly choose to live alone.
They can choose to focus on the career.
But the problem is, so the pipeline is women spend their early 20s going to some high-priced institution to get some degree that nobody cares about to get a job that's not going to make them any money.
They give their 25 to 30s, early 30s, to some job that can care less about them.
It's just making the wall smash even harder and harder, right?
And that even happens to mothers.
It's not till later when their child starts to grow up that they realize, I missed a lot and you can never get it back.
And kids know too.
They do know.
Because just how most women have that one friend who's married to a man of substance who just skips through life without a care in the world and they're jealous.
Most kids, like whose mom is trying to do all this independent crap, have a friend whose mom is Susie homemaker, super positive, you know, a traditional mom, and they all wish they had that mom.
I know I did.
Yeah.
We had a colonel who lived who lived who lived in my neighborhood, and his wife was a stay-at-home mom.
She was the greatest thing ever.
Like, he was a colonel.
He was a stay-at-home mom.
They had three kids.
Their son was my best friend.
And I used to go over there.
She always had home-cooked meals every single day, the day of the week, always had cookies made.
She was, she was like, she was the mom that we all saw on TV for real.
And I used to wonder, why do I have like, why don't I have that?
So kids know.
And it's kids grow up with regret.
And it's easier than ever to cook your kids' food.
There's air fryers.
Like, there's Roombas.
It's easier than ever to, you know, cook for your family.
Have you ever had a friend who, well, you're not old enough yet, but when you hit about 33 to 35, you're going to hear your friends start talking about, well, if I don't have a child by the time I'm this age, I'm going to do it by myself.
What would you tell one of your friends who would say, Pearl, you know, I decided something.
If I don't have, if I'm not married by the time I'm 35, I'm going to get inseminated and do it by myself.
What would you tell her?
So are you telling me or are you asking my opinion?
That'd be my first question.
What if she was asking about what if she was telling you?
Well, both scenarios.
Telling me.
I would probably just ask her questions: like, have you tried this?
Have you tried that?
But, you know, I probably wouldn't say anything unless they asked.
Because if I know anything about women, it's like they're going to do what they're going to do regardless.
You can't stop them.
Yeah, but the problem is a lot of women have to talk about it somehow, some way, which is why so many of these women post all this garbage all over social media.
So your friends are going to tell you about it.
It's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when.
Well, I'll tell them you can do that.
But I mean, what about the kid?
Don't you think the kid deserves a dad?
No?
You know, single motherhood, single kids from single mother homes fare out way worse.
Have you thought about who's going to take care of the kid when you have to work?
Or what if the daycare is near you?
You know, so.
Yeah, there's one more part.
So, guys, on my channel, I always say women can't stand each other.
They really can't.
Okay.
And a lot of women have to learn a harsh lesson because all of their friends, so a woman will say, oh, I'm going to be a single mother.
Or, you know, I got pregnant by nug nug and all their friends are like, oh, we'll help you, girl.
Give you a baby shower, and then when that baby's born and it's crying at night and you need a break, or so addicted to babysit, they're not going to pick up the phone.
You're doing it all by yourself.
Yeah.
Anyway, but that's that's all I got.
I'm just going to say once again: single mothers by choice.
Guys, no single mothers.
Don't sleep with them.
Don't date them.
Don't marry them.
Do not play another.
Anyone else on the call?
If they don't know, someone has to tell them.
Women know, they just do not care.
They don't.
I'm telling you.
I'm getting tired.
Okay, let me see if anyone else is on the call.
Oh, two people.
Okay, let's go next.
Hello?
Cameras on off.
Oh, hello.
Oh, how are you?
Hello, I can't hear you.
That'll be why.
Oh, there you go.
Wow.
We're really out of sync.
Like, so, what do you think about the single mothers by choice?
Like, what are your thoughts on the show?
That was really cold, isn't it?
That was just really sort of the word, the word of the month, I think, is egocentric.
To be honest, like, I looked at the wiki of Egocentric the other day, and it was scary, actually.
When you get into the developmental issues in childhood and stuff like that, you know, it's just stupid crazy.
I don't know, man.
It's just cold, just absolutely cold.
If they're deciding to have kids without a dad, you know, like destining that kid never to have a dad.
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You can pull it up.
I think there was one more.
No, again, we have a virtual.
Usually, he's here in person, but we're going virtual today, so bear with us.
Oh, hello.
Hi, can you hear me?
I can hear you.
What's your name?
Hello?
Yeah, it's Richard.
Oh, Richard, nice.
I don't know if you have your camera on.
I can't see.
Do you have your camera on or no?
No, I've been flying around on a holiday, so I don't know.
I don't want to do the video.
Okay, no worries.
So, what do you think of the show?
What do you think?
All of your topics are great because I mean, I put the comment in there that women, don't they know this is wrong?
I mean, it just seems so obvious.
And I'm just wondering what it is that got women to this point where there's no rules and there's no laws and, you know, they don't seem to have any morals, you know, and they just rough, you know, like one of my theories is that like a thousand years ago, the neighboring tribe would maraud and steal women from the other tribe and they would just take these women to their tribe and then they would just become their wives.
I don't know.
I don't, you know, is there some sort of weird evolutionary thing going on where women just roll with it and, you know, it's like, I don't know, it's very strange.
Have you got any explanation about why this behavior even happened?
No, you're right, actually.
That's why women get over men so fast is because the women that survived had to get like get over the guy they were with initially.
Like you wouldn't survive if you like pined for like the guy that you used to be with.
Right.
So we're in this modern world now and you know everything is a lot different.
So what is the answer?
I mean, I'm always looking for a solution to this because it's just a disaster, absolute disaster.
I mean, I think at some point it will, like, things will come back together.
I just sadly don't think it'll be in my lifetime.
I think we'll have another 50 years of feminism.
Like, I don't see the birth rate going up anytime soon.
The only way I could, the only thing I could see as a solution is more feminism.
So I'll give you an example.
If women start getting put on alimony and child support like men, the women will start to protest the laws.
If women actually have the responsibility of being a single mother, the way that men have the responsibility of being a single father, and men stop, you know, their parents stop bailing them out, the government stops bailing them out, that's when you'll see change.
Or like in New York, you know, everyone, all the women are freaking out that that woman was burned alive and no one helped.
But, you know, how many of those women voted for leftist policies that allowed that, right?
It's not an, I don't see it changing until women start to be treated like men.
You know, if you give women selective service, you say, okay, you want to vote?
Here's selective service just like the men.
How many women would say, you know what?
It might be time to give that up.
But the problem is we have all the freedom now without the responsibility.
I think Trump maybe could help, but I'm just still skeptical because I just think women have too much power now, sadly.
Well, I'm really curious of what life must have been like a thousand years ago in these villages where at any moment some marauding tribe can come in.
I mean, what do you think women were thinking?
What do you think men were thinking?
I mean, what do you think men were doing?
What do you think women were doing, right?
Like the mental attitude at that time must have been crazy.
And they were as modern as we were, right?
They had exactly the same capacity for thinking as we do.
So this must be crazy.
So that's my, that's the end of my comment.
Thanks, Pearl.
Thanks for calling in.
Is there anyone else on the line?
Let me text him.
Anyone else?
Thank you for calling in, guys.
I always appreciate my members.
Okay.
You guys are amazing.
Truly, you guys keep this thing going.
I mean, I've been demonetized for a year.
I couldn't do it without you.
Let me message.
They said Trump ain't helping.
I think that maybe Trump could help cut some of the government programs and the spending.
That's a step in the right direction.
White women, white men, you guys are awesome.
You've always been pro-Trump.
Thank you guys.
You guys are amazing.
White women, for the first time in a long time, voted conservative more for Trump.
And I think that was our way of saying, sorry about the last four years.
We want lower taxes rather than abortion.
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