Aug. 20, 2025 - Louder with Crowder
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| And overweight women don't have to worry about being pregnant. | |
| He didn't take into account black guys. | |
| So there's little Gates that's like ninety percent there. | |
| So this overweight gender queer, food based activist didn't go over well with young Gen Z men. | |
| Oh, who'd have seen that coming, almost as failed as their campaign, the DNC to reach bloods in South Central. | |
| Oh yeah. | |
| They just can't read the bullet riddled room. | |
| Not quite there. | |
| What about their ill fated campaign pandering towards Mexicans? | |
| Vote DNC. | |
| Is muy caliente. | |
| Ha, ha, ha, ha. | |
| Also, by the way, Gates, just to be clear, his comments were not specifically directed at her. | |
| The View was the one who did that, and so people think he was personally attacking her, which by the way, I have no problem with, but he actually wasn't. | |
| No, he was just saying in general. | |
| That's I'm holding it against. | |
| Well, apparently she was fired by the DNC, but she says she was never hired, so it's an office space situation. | |
| Well, didn't they do that? | |
| Harry Sisson? | |
| Not Sisson, sorry. | |
| Who was the guy? | |
| Who was the guy that they put in charge, second, like vice chair of the DNC, not Sisson, sorry. | |
| I get like David Hogg. | |
| David Hogg. | |
| I get the pansy liberal guys all confused. | |
| And then immediately moved on from him very quickly. | |
| Put her in charge of getting Gen Z mails, but I'm like, who are you asking about this? | |
| Which consultant is telling you to do this because it doesn't resonate with anybody and it's failing? | |
| In fact, do me a favor, rehire her, please rehire, please put Gavin Newsom on the ticket. | |
| In fact, I can't even get excited anymore about any of this shit. | |
| They're insane. | |
| Yeah, they're insane. | |
| It's I can't even, I can't even, well, look at it this way. | |
| This might, because I've been paid to when I'm on stage. | |
| You and I have the tendency to, you know, look at the glass half empty. | |
| That's often the burden that those in comedy have to bear. | |
| Think of it this way. | |
| The fruits of your labor now, right? | |
| You get to reap what you've sown in that they're so crazy. | |
| You kind of just get to sit back and let them do their thing. | |
| and now everyone's going to know that what you've been saying for decades, all the missed opportunities, all the doors closed because you were too radical, everyone's going to know it's true because they say it. | |
| As long as they have a tribute for me at my funeral or some shit. | |
| I will. | |
| Because I got no ink, no love from this fucking business. | |
| Well, you do from I tell you what, I will personally build you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I will build you a mausoleum. | |
| You've done enough, Stephen. | |
| I'm going to build you a mausoleum and I'm going to turn it into a haunted house with negative ethnic Italian stereotypes. | |
| But everyone who wants to pay their respects has to get a heart attack. | |
| There you go. | |
| Well, no, it's going to say, Here lies Nick Topollo, the man who made Anna Navarro lose weight. | |
| That is the absolute And you know what? | |
| What's his name again? | |
| Gerald. | |
| I'm not. | |
| No, I'm serious. | |
| I take sleeping pills now and I'm all foggy. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| I'm forgetting what I'm going to say. | |
| Oh, Anna Navarro. | |
| Oh, Anna Navarro. | |
| I'm telling you, she should send me a Whitman sampler. | |
| And I introduced JB Pritzka into the fat jokes and a few other people. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I and I watch. | |
| I give him about a month. | |
| And sure enough, after God felt those nineteen of those jokes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, here's the thing. | |
| That's when I see it and I'm like, that's Nick because I don't think No, no, can I let me clarify though. | |
| But now they're doing way too many.. | |
| Yes. | |
| I introduce them. | |
| Of course. | |
| But then I back off. | |
| And then a lot of the other guys, you know, use them. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think they go to that well a lot, but whatever. | |
| Well, here's the thing, though. | |
| You know it well enough to know, like, Chris Christie knows he's thick. | |
| But you decided, like, you know what's going to sting more? | |
| The person who is kind of chubby, but no one else is pointing out, Anna Navarro. | |
| This is going to hurt more. | |
| And it did. | |
| It did. | |
| She went right in the bathroom, started purging, thank God. | |
| Yes. | |
| Dust face. | |
| Yes, she did. | |
| So yes, I introduced these little nuggets in that one. | |
| She really, I want to meet her and go, you're welcome. | |
| Here you go. | |
| It's just funny to me where it's like, okay., the negative stereotype of Democrats are that they are perpetual college activists, gender queer, who are gross, right, homely, unkempt, and then the DNC says, yeah, let's send one out to reach young men. | |
| And you know what, at the same time, let's demonize the hot girl, Sydney Sweeney, and say that's racist. | |
| Let's just tell white men that what you want is racist, and we don't want to be involved with the things that you and we'll try and force feed them abroad like this, and they wonder why it doesn't work. | |
| That's how you know it's not about politics. | |
| I always say this about these ugly left wing liberals abroad. | |
| They're pissed at how they were made by God. | |
| That's not good. | |
| What? | |
| It's not so hard. | |
| It's cuts like a laser straight to their soul. | |
| It's mean but accurate. | |
| That's their beef. | |
| It's their beef is with their maker, who's a guy, by the way. | |
| Of course. | |
| And that's who their beef is with. | |
| And this stuff bubbles up in school when they get picked on and they carry it the rest of their lives and it turns and they go to the Democratic Party for help. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's what we're fighting. | |
| That's what you're fighting. | |
| You're fighting ugly unpopular kids who get bullied. | |
| I'm glad I bullied the kids. | |
| They had a common. | |
| They grew up to be real assholes. | |
| Well, I was I was bullied. | |
| And I was bullied. | |
| Plenty of concern. | |
| By one guy. | |
| This is when you look at the. | |
| Together with a payphone. | |
| Can you bring up the Newsome, the first Newsome Vance picture again that they show? | |
| What they're effectively saying is, hey, look guys, look guys, our guy peaked in high school. | |
| Hey, sure, Vance was chubby, but you know what happened? | |
| Unlike liberals, he went into the Marines and he improved himself. | |
| I guarantee you he was probably bullied, right? | |
| That's the difference. | |
| He didn't just say, hey, everyone, actually, I'm going to require that you love me and praise me. | |
| He went into a fighting force and then he clawed his way. | |
| And people say the American dream is dead. | |
| Okay, let me prove to you that it's him and Ben Carson, which shows you it's not a race thing either. | |
| Very similar as far as their upbringing poor, drug problems, surrounded by violence. | |
| You know about MK Altra and Monarch thinking, monarch training. | |
| That's what, that's how he's bred, Newsom. | |
| Oh yeah. | |
| Those kids, they go to private schools when they're bred to do what they're doing today. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They are bred to, people don't realize. | |
| Yeah, I talked to one of his business partners when, I think it was when he was governor of, I'm sorry, mayor. | |
| And I didn't, I didn't, I wasn't really super into politics at the time, but he's, I just like, I don't really like Gavin Newsom. | |
| And he's like, oh man, he's one of his business partners. | |
| He's like, that guy has been bred, raised for one purpose. | |
| See that? | |
| Only he has been, I'm telling you, this was after like tons of great alcohol. | |
| So I was getting the joke. | |
| And this guy that I was talking to, he's a very, very cool guy. | |
| He was just like, yeah, this guy has one purpose. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They're just breeding him to run for president. | |
| There's a whole there's a bunch of them. | |
| I mean, there's a whole book about this shit. | |
| I mean, that's what he's put on the earth, literally race to do that. | |
| Like you'd raise a kid to be an athlete. | |
| Well, let's just look at let's look at what was her name? | |
| Julianna what was her name? | |
| Julianna a carbohydrate. | |
| Alylia Julianna. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you just look at the DNC. | |
| Let's look at what they're offering. | |
| And I mean this. | |
| Let's look at the problem in this country, okay? | |
| Particularly with young men that you see. | |
| Young men are struggling. | |
| You see those stats. | |
| You see them in college admissions. | |
| You see them in crime stats. | |
| You see them in depressive disorder stats. | |
| You see them in pornography stats. | |
| You see them in being single., struggling with relationships. | |
| Okay, so there's a struggle. | |
| So what does the left offer? | |
| If there's a problem, the solution they offer is, okay, let's use, first off, you have Chubby Panda. | |
| Let's just, I guess, scratch that out because I don't even know what that is. | |
| Hey, be a furry. | |
| It's fine. | |
| Was that going to help the young man? | |
| No. | |
| Just be whatever you want. | |
| Identify however you want. | |
| It's the world that needs to change. | |
| Does that help the people right now who need help? | |
| Let's go to Olivia Giuliana. | |
| Hey, are you young man? | |
| Let's say it's a young Vance. | |
| Let's say it's a young me. | |
| Okay, I went through a phase where I was pretty, pretty chubby. | |
| I was short and chubby and then tall and skinny. | |
| Hit a gross bird. | |
| So I'm going, all right, I have a problem right now where I don't know how to socialize. | |
| I don't really know what my future looks like with AI. | |
| A chubby young kid right now. | |
| Well, it doesn't really help me. | |
| Be a furry. | |
| I'm just going to be even more weird despite you trying to tell me that everyone else should accept that I can't change the rest of the world. | |
| Let me go to Olivia Giuliani. | |
| Hey, what advice do you have? | |
| All bodies are beautiful. | |
| Stay fat. | |
| That's fine. | |
| Don't need to change. | |
| Okay. | |
| Got it. | |
| All choices are legitimate. | |
| Okay. | |
| So I could just be gender queer, change it on any given day. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| That won't lead to happiness or stability or any kind of meaningful relationship. | |
| All right. | |
| Let me look at the joy reads of the world. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, I'm racist. | |
| So I need to take a back seat. | |
| All right. | |
| I got it. | |
| I'm just afraid of competing with black people, even though I have higigher SAT scores, even though I have higher scores in high school and I'm more extracurricular, okay, just take a back seat because I'm a white guy, okay, I got it. | |
| I'm still fat. | |
| I still don't have any future prospects. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Where should I move? | |
| Maybe there's more opportunity. | |
| Oh, I should be accepting of sanctuary cities and rampant crime and there's nothing I can do, catch and release. | |
| Okay, you know what, maybe I'll start, hey, I know you guys aren't telling me this, but I decided to start a business. | |
| Oh, wait, people can rip me off to the tune of 999 dollars because something, something oppressive, for fathers, okay, I got it. | |
| So now I'm bankrupt. | |
| There is nothing that they offer you as an individual that can improve your life. | |
| There's a lot that they offer you that will make your life. | |
| a worse place to be. | |
| If you followed all of the advice from the left, and I mean this, you would have a worse life. | |
| I would be surprised if you didn't end up contemplating suicide. | |
| Now, contrast that with, let's just use Vance as an example. | |
| Hey, I'm from a small town or I'm from the inner city. | |
| I'm thick, I'm out of shape, I don't have a father, my parents, uh, who I do have, or step parents, are addicted to drugs, there are no economic prospects here since the mine closed down. | |
| Oh wait, what can I do? | |
| I can take control over some facets and start, what did Jordan Peter, oh, I can make my bed okay, I'll start with that. | |
| Vance, oh, I can try to get to college, I can lose some weight, I can join the Marines, then I can go to an Ivy League school. | |
| legal school, wait a second, I have some control over my own destiny? | |
| Huh? | |
| If you're just talking, just treat it like a self-help book, right? | |
| Because we often just lose the policy, okay, it's national policy, a federal policy, it's a state policy. | |
| Your life. | |
| Who's giving you advice for your life that will make your life better? | |
| And even more importantly, who's giving you advice that will allow you to make your community better, to make your family better? | |
| It's clear as day. | |
| You can say you don't like judgment all you want. | |
| All right, fine. | |
| Let's do the no-judgment zone as far as morality. | |
| Let's take that off the table. | |
| Let's just look at the results objectively. | |
| Someone's reading the self-help book, all the advice, the proposed prescriptions from today's left, and someone's reading a self-help book, all of the advice and proposed prescription from traditional conservative America. | |
| Which one's going to give you a life worth living? | |
| Here's the thing. | |
| Conservatism in the United States. | |
| It's actually not new. | |
| It really isn't. | |
| The ideas, the philosophy, that's why it's rooted in Judeo-Christian beliefs. | |
| It's not new. | |
| It's just new to act. | |
| knew to actually codify it into practice to codify hey you because God gives you free will because you are allowed to make your own decisions because you are not to bow to a to bow to a king you can make your own decisions life liberty pursuit of happiness that's we're going to codify this to make sure that you can do it you can read Marcus Aurelius you can read meditations one of my favorite books you can read it in an afternoon If you want an answer to what ails you, | |
| it's, hey, why do you give these other people power over you? | |
| They can't harm you. | |
| Hey, get up. | |
| Set a routine. | |
| Do your intense activities at the beginning of the day. | |
| Make a plan, stick to it, and accept that you may not get the rewards that you anticipate, but do it because it's the right thing to do. | |
| And if you do that consistently, you're going to look back and find yourself better off than the people who didn't think about doing the right thing to do. | |
| Self Help book from the Democratic Party, the DNC Youth Summit, Self Help book from this show or from the Conservative Wing of America, which one makes your life better? | |
| We have a very clear answer. | |
| No wonder the Democrats are losing territory with Gen Z. And look, if you find yourself being a liberal fat piece of crap still, and diet and exercise are not enough. | |
| Ask your doctor if Nick Zempic is right for you. | |
| Yes. | |
| Cool. | |
| Brother, ooh. | |
| It's the same people who will shun that. | |
| That's just big pharma. | |
| More vaccine, more mRNA, please. | |
| Well, that's the problem. | |
| I know, and I now know why they can't be happy. | |
| It is the pursuit of happiness. | |
| These people can't go if pursu, if happiness is going at any more than like a brisk walk, they're never going to catch up. | |
| That's right. | |
| They're just too fat. | |
| It's the pursuit that's going to kill them. | |
| It's just, so, and I know we're joking about it's like this. | |
| Your blood pressure is 1100 over 971. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They think they can give you happiness. | |
| on a silver platter. | |
| Like it's something that can be brought to your house or downloaded. | |
| It's like, no, we give you the opportunity to find happiness. | |
| And you know where that is. | |
| Looking in the wrong places for it. | |
| Well, no, no, think about it. | |
| If the left is the party of the poor and the downtrodden, they want to keep you poor and downtrodden. | |
| That's right. | |
| And I've talked about this a lot. | |
| Like people used to say the Republicans are the party of the rich and Democrats are the party of the poor. | |
| No, it's actually really, really clear. | |
| Here's where you have a very clear voting split. | |
| The ultra, ultra wealthy billionaires, those in the too big to fail class, Democrat. | |
| The 43% used to be 47% Democrat. | |
| Okay, so Democrat, Democrat. | |
| Anywhere from middle to upper middle class, some actually lower middle class, but working class. | |
| Lower middle class, middle class, upper middle class, to wealthy, excluding the Jeff Bezos of the world, the billionaires of the world. | |
| overwhelmingly Republican, meaning someone who works and pays maybe a couple grand in taxes because they don't have that much to take home. | |
| If they are working, if they are paying anything in taxes, they're going to, you can bet your life if you had to, playing the odds games, they're going to vote Republican. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Democrat down here, people who will will never contribute, who only want handouts. | |
| Democrats, people who want the same handouts, the corporate welfare that you see, the Walmarts of the world, the Amazons of the world who loved COVID lockdown policy. | |
| Who? | |
| Who hated it? | |
| Who suffered? | |
| Anyone working, paying taxes in this country, lower middle class through wealthy class, Republican. | |
| Just to be clear, let's just put that to bed right now. | |
| The poor, the rich. | |
| Nah, nah, nah, nah. | |
| That's the only place where you see a very stark voting pattern. | |
| And yes, there's win some lose some in that sort of middle, but it tends to be overwhelmingly. | |
| Republican, you know, law abiding taxpaying citizens who don't own a giant tech company and don't take welfare. | |
| If they meet all those prerequisites, you know how they're going to vote. | |
| Okay. | |
| So they're not a liberal white woman. | |
| That's true. | |
| That's one exception. | |
| There's so many white women. | |
| And it's out of this false compassion. | |
| Well, that's because without, without the support of a man in their life, they would be that group that doesn't pay 43% income tax. | |
| Because liberal white women tend to get useless degrees and don't find employment, but they have a sugar daddy. | |
| And so they're protected and insulated. | |
| They go from dad, their real daddy, to new daddy, who they, you know, 70% of the filings they divorce. | |
| So they're insulated from the horrors of the world they haven't had to make make it through. | |
| Just think of a JD Vance what he had to go through. | |
| Just think of a Hegaseth what he had to go through. | |
| Just think, look, I'll say it's not killing people, but Nick, myself, do you have any idea how many times I've just slept on a couch or be in God knows where, United States for fifty bucks a pop for a gig to try and that's not the same as someone who takes out a student loan that they don't believe they have to pay back to get a gender studies degree. | |
| And I'm sorry, it's definitely more of a struggle than a black American in the inner city who's never worked or a Native American on a reservation who's never worked. | |
| Definitely, I, Gerald, Nick, people in here have faced more struggles than I have ever faced. | |
| The problem is that you blame people for overcoming it and you say, Yeah, it must be nice. | |
| Right. | |
| You think it must be nice? | |
| You think it must be nice? | |
| Do you know, do you know what the days look like to get to that point? | |
| The pride swallowing siege. | |
| I will never fully tell you about it. | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| Okay, let's take some chats. | |
| Okay, let's see. | |
| First chat from Revans Padawan. | |
| Hey, why is Dan Abash dressed like Don Sherry? | |
| Sorry, let's go. | |
| Revans Padawan asks. | |
| Question for the crew. | |
| Shouldn't the general philosophy with divorce slash alimony be if my money wasn't, jeez, wasn't enough for you to stay, you don't need it when you leave. | |
| you don't need it when you leave. | |
| Yep. | |
| Simple. | |
| Yep. | |
| I mean, listen, this has gotten, this has really gotten crazy. | |
| Like, so take an extreme example for this to kind of make the point. | |
| Let's say that a guy goes out there, gets married, doesn't really have anything to his name, and goes out and doesn't have any kids. | |
| The wife stays at home, doesn't really do anything. | |
| And he goes out and is an athlete or he starts a business. | |
| Let's call him Paul McCartney. | |
| Let's say he makes $100 million. | |
| Is there a fake leg involved in this equation? | |
| Giant number. | |
| $100 million makes $100 million. | |
| Never had kids. | |
| So wife is not really kind of doing that part of the equation, which a lot of people would say, okay, that'ss what you're in this relationship, like, I love you, I want to have a great life with you, I want to have kids and you're going to keep the family, the home and everything. | |
| Let's say she does nothing of that stuff. | |
| She's sitting around eating bonbons going out in the backyard in the pool on some giant, I don't know, stupid pink inflatable raft that costs 100 bucks. | |
| Wow, this is getting very specific. | |
| That kind of stuff, right? | |
| Just doing absolutely nothing. | |
| And then says, no, no, no, I want to apply for divorce and now I want to take the $50 million that is rightfully mine. | |
| Well, you didn't do anything for that. | |
| You can't say, like, oh, I supported him through that. | |
| No, you didn't. | |
| You sat there and basically used him as a wallet, like we've talked about. | |
| You just ran up the credit card bills and bought whatever you wanted, did whatever you wanted, had the girls weekend, did all those things. | |
| And I'm using an extreme example. | |
| example it's probably not all that extreme it's very common not all that extreme To make the point, do you really think that that person should be entitled to half in that situation and why? | |
| And women, you might get this like defensive thing that comes up, but ask yourself why flip it if you as a woman. | |
| were to be the one who's a model, an actress, or a businesswoman who started a business. | |
| And your man is sitting over there pounding beers all day, doing the Al Bundy, handing out. | |
| Let's call him Tom Arnold. | |
| Let's call him Tom Arnold. | |
| There we go. | |
| Would he be? | |
| And I would make the same case. | |
| I would make the exact same case and say, of course, he wouldn't be in line for half of that. | |
| I don't think that's fair at all for either one. | |
| Right? | |
| So why are we doing this? | |
| And now you can just go down the sliding scale. | |
| Like when is enough enough? | |
| Yeah. | |
| When is enough enough in these situations? | |
| Like it really is a it's a bad situation for a lot of guys to be in and especially with the laws the way they are in this country. | |
| And I'm coming at it from a Christian perspective when it shouldn't be like this in the first place and we need to do a lot of work on the front end to make sure the back end doesn't look so bad. | |
| Well, here's where I agree with the Muslims. | |
| Like, I mean, listen, you say stuff like that and it's kind of a joke and it's like, it solves parts of the problem, but it's not. | |
| Let's read in the middle something. | |
| You know, it's like, yeah, you gotta right now, you gotta be able to talk about this. | |
| You have a multi billion dollar. | |
| Can someone research, send me what the divorce, the legal divorce industry is in this country? | |
| I don't know how many billions. | |
| So there's a multi-billion dollar industry. | |
| By the way, you can see billboards for this that incentivizes someone to break a contract. | |
| There really isn't any other industry where that's the case. | |
| And this is not an extreme example. | |
| We know multiple people like this who were very successful, very wealthy, got married with the truest of intentions, were cheated on. | |
| by someone who didn't financially contribute, by the way, and also didn't contribute in other notable ways. | |
| Woman cheated on him and took half. | |
| I know people who are going through that now. | |
| That's not uncommon. | |
| That's not an exception. | |
| That's the rule. | |
| And I know you could say, well, it's not really designed against men. | |
| It's designed against sort of, you know, to sort of balance from the primary earner. | |
| Yeah, but then you look, women will leave men if they earn more than men statistically to an overwhelming degree. | |
| Women don't like to be with a man who earns less than them. | |
| Not all, not all, not all, not all. | |
| You have to say that, but that's a general rule. | |
| What's the number as far as a divorce? | |
| 28 billion. | |
| 28 billion dollars. | |
| 28 billion dollars trying to sell you on the idea of your freedom and your happiness if you just sign on this dotted line. | |
| They're the only ones that win, by the way. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Most people that get divorced don't have enough resources to pay those advocates. | |
| They scrounge everything together and at the end of the day they get the document. | |
| It's three and five years later and they've got nothing to their name. | |
| What's the breakdown ethnicity of lawyers? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'd be willing to. | |
| You had a lot of vowels in the last name. | |
| Choose have a lot of vowels in any? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean. | |
| Leave a Witch, Goldstein, Skywalk, Baldiol. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know, listen, you know where the money is, all right? | |
| There's a filtered bird. | |
| Divorce lawyers. | |
| Aaron, divorce. | |
| But yeah, no, it's that a good source of child support. | |
| Also, the problem though is that that's kind of imposed by the courts because many men would not only would many men like primary or full custody, it's almost never granted. | |
| But here's something you also need to know. | |
| That abuse, domestic abuse, is actually higher from women to men. | |
| It's just often not reported. | |
| You can see it reported in lesbian couples. | |
| Say that again, please. | |
| Domestic abuse is higher from women to men than men to women. | |
| What do you mean women hitting men? | |
| Women hitting men. | |
| Yeah, it's just not considered abuse. | |
| Because men don't report it, right? | |
| It's less powerful. | |
| Yeah, it's less powerful. | |
| I find that hard to believe. | |
| It's okay. | |
| It is, but here's the thing. | |
| It's often under reported. | |
| Then you look at couples, gay couples. | |
| Those are gay couples. | |
| It's it's almost doesn't exist. | |
| Lesbian couples, through the roof. | |
| And then you can look at the numbers of abusive children, both physical and other emotional, it's much higher in single mother households and single father households. | |
| We've been led to believe that that's just an inescapable fact, but the court system says, unless it's so beyond the pale, literally a current active drug problem, well, we got to err on the side of the mom and you have dads who want to take care of their kids, you have dads who want to step up. | |
| And I think there are plenty of men, believe me, I've talked about this for long enough, so I don't even do more. | |
| Plenty of men who refuse to step up, I get it. | |
| But what about the men who did step up and who want to step up, not saying they're perfect, who are excluded, excluded because of the system. | |
| The quickest way to get rich in this country, if you are in an attractive woman, is marry a rich guy and it doesn't matter if you cheat on him or not, take his stuff. | |
| And there's a 20 something billion dollar industry that will help you do it. | |
| And so what's the problem? | |
| Like, what's the problem? | |
| Where do we find ourselves? | |
| Young men are saying, I'm not doing it. | |
| And the more successful a man becomes, the less likely he is to sign that state marital contract. | |
| That's not a good thing. | |
| I'm not saying this because I'm pro marriage. | |
| And it's not going to last. | |
| And you're not going to like the way society ends up if you continue down this path. | |
| And it's just no matter what it is, it's like the men will be faulted for things that both people do. | |
| We're always going, and I'm not saying if the man does this and he shouldn't do this and he should, yeah, but no one should do it. | |
| It's a wash. | |
| It's a wash. | |
| There was a case of he was a black guy. | |
| I was listening to a radio talk show. | |
| So quite a while ago. | |
| But some woman he was seeing said, oh, this is your child. | |
| And he wanted, you know. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They did a test. | |
| And he still had to pay. | |
| And he still had to pay. | |
| Yep. | |
| That's when I went, holy, I mean, I knew it was off the rails. | |
| It was in Texas. | |
| It sounds like something. | |
| It might have been. | |
| I thought it was. | |
| You have women who have kept the, who have taken the used condoms from the trash from famous athletes and seminated themselves. | |
| Yes. | |
| To have children so that they can live on that. | |
| I tried that. | |
| It didn't work. | |
| I bust in at that paycheck. | |
| I grabbed Tom Brady's and I was guzzling it. | |
| Apparently, think about Tom Brady. | |
| Think about Tom Brady. | |
| Oh, I know. | |
| Think about that guy. | |
| I know. | |
| And people go, she goes, he wasn't a very present father. | |
| That was the big thing, right? | |
| Now, I remember so many people sided with him. | |
| Did Will say that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| He wasn't a very present father. | |
| On the pocket chair. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, she was, and now she's with her Jiu Jitsu coach, who by the way, was her coach while she was married. | |
| I'm sure nothing developed there. | |
| No emotion. | |
| Oh my God, that little hole. | |
| And who? | |
| It seems like he's pretty involved because he bought another house that's just a few houses down away from where he would be required to live as a primary residence so he can be near the kids. | |
| Also look at the story of before he got married and how he got took care of the kids. | |
| Hey, I know he probably isn't going to have a work life balance because he's the greatest quarterback who's ever lived. | |
| Kind of takes a little bit of work and effort. | |
| Did you get married to him when you were in the NFL or when he was in the NFL? | |
| Yes. | |
| Did he marry you when you had a supermodel career? | |
| Yes. | |
| What did you guys expect was going to happen that you guys were going to be like the, you know, nine to fiveers? | |
| Like that's not the case. | |
| One of you and why does she need any of his money? | |
| Did she get any? | |
| Yes. | |
| I mean, she was already a zillion. | |
| She was rich. | |
| I mean, I think the financial issue wasn't as big though. | |
| No, it wasn't. | |
| But the reputational issue that he has to deal with and I don't even I don't even I don't even I don't know all that much about Tom Brady. | |
| I just know what I see that that guy clearly wants to be involved in his kids' lives and the kids love their dad. | |
| And there was a black baby that really messed it up again. | |
| Yeah, wow. | |
| That was. | |
| Yeah, it was two yoga. | |
| Well, I don't know. | |
| It's just strange. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Downward facing communism. | |
| What? | |
| And it's like, look, hey, here's the deal. | |
| He's communist. | |
| There's no guesswork. | |
| Hey, you both have, you both have burning careers. | |
| Okay, one he has to put on the back burner. | |
| This idea that he'll support my dreams and I'll support his. | |
| He can't do it. | |
| Can't. | |
| You have to pick one. | |
| You have to support it. | |
| That has to be the primary focus if you're going to talk about earning and you want that kind of lifestyle. | |
| And that means someone has to put on the back burner. | |
| I would say in that case, the greatest quarterback who ever lived. | |
| Hey, that's a priority. | |
| And you know what's crazy? | |
| He came out of the big thing was when he didn't retire, like, and he should be home and he's he's not retiring. | |
| Yeah, I don't know if you know this. | |
| It's very, very rare for someone to come out of retirement and win again. | |
| Do you think that maybe he knew he had more in the tank? | |
| Guy was, I don't know. | |
| You know, what about people that are thinking about getting married? | |
| Don't you look at like Tom Brady and her? | |
| She's a supermodel. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Bazillionaire. | |
| He's the greatest quarterback and it still doesn't work out. | |
| Still doesn't work out. | |
| What's the chances of you that worked at CVS and your plumber husband? | |
| Yeah, not plumber. | |
| They actually make good though. | |
| What she took another and she filed against him?. | |
| He didn't filed against her. | |
| It was the old Bill Hickser. | |
| I think he was on a letterman. | |
| Do you remember that where he said, it goes back to Adam and Eve where God said to them, he said, Okay, you're in the Garden of Eden. | |
| This is paradise. | |
| You both are one. | |
| You will never suffer. | |
| You will never feel pain. | |
| You will never die. | |
| You will be immortal and you will be one with me for all eternity. | |
| And Eve said, There must be something more. | |
| And that's the message. | |
| Look, are men, and this is, let me laser in on this. | |
| Are men ever told, Hey man, there's something more out there for you. | |
| Go find yourself, leave your family. | |
| Never. | |
| Are there entire series and films and books that are praised that tell women to do exactly that. | |
| Yes, there are. | |
| And you know there are. | |
| Two very different lines of messaging. | |
| And guys, what did you think when Stephen said that part about men going and finding themselves and leaving their family? | |
| Immediately, we all had like a visceral reaction. | |
| What a piece of shit. | |
| Yes, exactly. | |
| Leaving and abandoning his family. | |
| How could he do that? | |
| And there have been men that have done that. | |
| And every single time that happens and it comes up in the media, we're like, what a piece of crap. | |
| Right. | |
| What an absolutely. | |
| Yeah, terrible. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Nobody. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For me, it's enough. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Gavin knew some piece of crap. | |
| Cheating on his wife. | |
| Yeah, absolutely. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Anybody who does. | |
| You want a culture fine Trump in that regard. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, take it easy, hold on. | |
| Hey, listen, it needs, but I've never held Trump out as a moral authority. | |
| No, of course. | |
| I've never said that this is the guy we need to look through to for our morals, but these guys are trying to paint him as someone. | |
| Well, I'm moral and he's not that. | |
| When I found out he cheated, I returned my steaks. | |
| Did you return your diploma from Trump University? | |
| I'm not saying yep, get it. | |
| And the wine. | |
| This is weird, yeah. | |
| And it says, It just has the word Phoenix crossed out and says Trump. | |
| Give me a little trumpage. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No trumpage. | |
| No, hey, Mark, give me some trumpage. | |
| It's the Trump Devry. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Here we go. | |
| No, look. | |
| We can't fix it. | |
| We have to fix it because there's just too many examples, high profile examples of this happening that get out in the media and guys are going, like, what are we doing? | |
| And it's not just that it happens. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because bad things happen all the time. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For people to cry it. | |
| It's that when this happens, nobody, nobody stands up for the guy. | |
| I've been. | |
| It's always what did he do? | |
| He's right, exactly. | |
| It's just this natural kind of tendency that we have. | |
| Did you fire flowers? | |
| That's what it is. | |
| For the last forty years, Hollywood, I don't care if it's commercials, sitcoms, movies. | |
| It's been about it's been hijacked by the women's movement, right? | |
| Everything I can sit down with you, watch anything and point to the women's movement. | |
| And point out the woman always has to get the last word in. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Whether it's a sitcom, I mean, there's a there's a lot of women's anger. | |
| Every other commercial is a woman kicking a heavy bag for maxi pads. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| Every commercial is a woman boxing or acting like there's so much women's anger and it's been going on forever. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And if I'll sit in a movie, I can't even my wife won't watch TV with me. | |
| I can't, it's been ruined. | |
| I read Judge Bork's book, Slouching Towards Gamora back in the 80s, and it just, it was all the stuff that I was thinking didn't have the balls to say. | |
| Right. | |
| And then this guy who's ten times smarter, a thousand times smarter, pretty smart much said, and I couldn't watch a movie or a TV show the same way again. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And once you're enlightened. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I can't. | |
| That's why I haven't gone to a theater. | |
| You know, it's funny is put it this way. | |
| Here's how you know it's true, okay? | |
| If you watch movies, if you watch TV. | |
| Have you ever, and I mean this, have you ever watched a movie or a television show where the man walks out on his family and it isn't immediately known that the writers are using this as a tool to paint the character as a piece of shit? | |
| The answer is no. | |
| Of course they immediately, okay, he's the bad guy. | |
| How often do you watch a show where a woman does that and she's empowered? | |
| Even if it's twenty percent, we know it's far more than that. | |
| That's how you know. | |
| Let's get another chat. | |
| Okay, next chat from Monsterette. | |
| After reality TV came to be, I witnessed people, especially women, emulating the behavior seen on those shows. | |
| Could it be blamed for the dating, divorce, gold digger issues of today? | |
| Partially. | |
| It's been going on forever. | |
| But it's all of it. | |
| It's like you say, it definitely is a culture, which media plays a role in. | |
| And by the way, of course, the Democratic Party would be on board with this because families, strong nuclear families, are much harder to govern. | |
| And that's why. | |
| That's why we have marriage laws. | |
| Before we get to the same sex thing, the reason we have marriage laws was to create strong nuclear families so we could have self governance before any other form of municipal or state governance. | |
| And you look at the welfare policies and the model cities program and great society and all this stuff, great societies. | |
| You go, oh, okay. | |
| Maybe it's an accident, but it's it is a little bit I guess it's one of those things at a certain point when you say, well, where is it how is this an accident where you couldn't have crafted policy to destroy the nuclear family more effectively? | |
| It wouldn't be possible. | |
| Yep. | |
| Incentivize single motherhood, okay. | |
| Scare men off from getting married through divorce laws, all right. | |
| Tell young women that they can have it all, okay. | |
| Tell young men that they don't have a choice. | |
| They should sit back and shut up and, by the way, abandon their post as leaders in the household and community, all right, got it, and then punish men financially if they still decide to take the risk and get married. | |
| And make LGBT mainstream, trans, yeah. | |
| Mainstream. | |
| That's all an attack on the nuclear family. | |
| It's all there is. | |
| It's right out of the Marxist playbook. | |
| Yep. | |
| I'll even go one step further and say before we get to, no, same-sex couple is not the same as a couple. | |
| It's not the same standard from a household that has clear roles. | |
| In other words, a dual-income household where both share all same responsibilities and it's a democracy is not as legitimate in the form of a nuclear family as a head of household, one person who's a primary earner and one person who takes care of the family. | |
| If you're paying someone else to raise your kids, that is not the same as that's not the ideal. | |
| Okay? | |
| Each one is less legitimate than the previous example. | |
| And it doesn't start with same-sex couples. | |
| It starts with the feminism. | |
| That's where it starts. | |
| And by the way, you do know when people talk about corporate overlords and corporate influence, you do realize that women getting into the workforce, it was post-industrial revolution where these guys thought, hey, we can get cheaper labor if we double the workforce. | |
| Hey, women, look, you can have your freedom. | |
| You can have your own thing. | |
| Isn't that great? | |
| Well, here's the thing. | |
| People will say, hey, if you're a domesticc woman, if you're a woman who stays home and takes care of the family and takes care of the kids, you're a slave. | |
| He's treating you like a slave. | |
| Okay, but what is it when you have to punch the clock nine to five to someone else who gets to dictate everything you do and doesn't even love you? | |
| That's not slavery. | |
| It's a life sentence. | |
| Enjoy it. | |
| It's a life sentence. | |
| Yeah, enjoy it. | |
| My dad reported to the same office for 46 years. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| Are you shitting me? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I do stand on something I love. | |
| I'm about year 38. | |
| I can't wait to get out. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No, folks, it's still good. | |
| Don't get me wrong. | |
| They pull you back in. | |
| Exactly. | |
| The funny bone pulls me back every single time. | |
| You chuckle hot, pull me back. | |
| Giggle fudge. | |
| You're being driven out of the funny town, aren't you, by the five families? | |
| Okay, next chat. | |
| Okay, next chat from Tahoe Micah. | |
| Do you think if women were held accountable for cheating, divorce rates would go down? | |
| Yes. | |
| Maybe young men would be more willing to get married in today's society. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I think so. | |
| I think if men look at the laws and go, wait, there's some protections if I'm wronged as in any other contract, yes. | |
| I think it would help. | |
| I think you have to get rid of no fault divorce. | |
| I've talked about this. | |
| No fault divorce was actually, funny enough, speared up by people like Hugh Hefner, Kinsey, who believed that men are sexual animals who should be able to have sex with everyone they want and not honor their marriage vows, and in which case, right, they shouldn't be punished for it. | |
| So they thought, hey, no fault divorce will allow men to cheat and it'll be consequence-free. | |
| Because before that, you kind of had one of three primary reasons. | |
| There were some exceptions, but it would either be infidelity, in which case you paid. | |
| It would be physical abuse, in which case you paid. | |
| But if it didn't meet those two, it would be abandonment by whoever filed for divorce, in which case, okay, you deal with your own consequences. | |
| So infidelity, we all knew that, abuse or abandonment. | |
| But then when we said no false, we removed. | |
| We removed the accountability for abandonment where it's a completely consequence-free decision. | |
| So Kinsey, Hugh Hefner wanted no-fault divorce. | |
| Then it got taken over by feminists who said, oh, you know what? | |
| We'll just change this so that it always actually harms the primary earner. | |
| So it didn't allow, and by the way, it shouldn't have allowed men to cheat, right? | |
| Consequence-free. | |
| What it allowed was anyone to leave at any point. | |
| And there's no actual moral grounds for cheating because either way, if you're the one who cheats, you can still leave and take half because you probably cheated because you're unhappy, right? | |
| That's his fault. | |
| That's right. | |
| It's his fault because he didn't make you happy. | |
| And then you look at the statistics where men typically don't, even when offered, take alimony when it's a very rare instance of them earning less. | |
| It's just often men don't. | |
| Like, I'm willing to bet that this guy, Jay Cutler, probably didn't take half of her makeup empire. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'd be surprised if he did. | |
| That would be a rarity. | |
| So yeah, I do think that all helps. | |
| Next chat. | |
| Okay, next chat from Eric. | |
| Sitting in the CEO's office with his feet on the desk. | |
| Oh, by the way, after the show Friday, can I, uh, can I, uh, can I scoot early on Friday? | |
| Just I just turn around and look at the book. | |
| Yeah, I know, but I just don't want to leave anyone holding the bag. | |
| Okay, fine, go. | |
| Because I have an MRI to do, and then I also wanted to do something else before the MRI. | |
| I still have to whatever. | |
| Buy a big gold, show that to Obrey. | |
| Buy a house. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm going to buy a house. | |
| It's like a hard day for you for you. | |
| And made some bad decisions. | |
| Okay, next chat. | |
| Okay, next chat, Eric the Camel. | |
| Since Nick is a huge fan, can you discuss the collapse of WNBA ratings without Clark since they allowed the players to beat the hell out of their money ticket for being a straight white? | |
| I don't know anything about the answers. | |
| Nick, has the ratings gone down significantly? | |
| They're saying ratings crash. | |
| Apparently this guy says so, I believe I don't follow these zombies, but I really, I mean, Zooloose. | |
| I got it all right. | |
| It works. | |
| It's terrible. | |
| But yeah, no, Caitlin Clark, it is, it's unbelievable. | |
| She, she shows up out of nowhere and she's unbelievable. | |
| Even all the ex NBA players, the black dudes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They actually disagree with like the young black woman that have beaten on her and stuff. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Going, she's that good man. | |
| She's that good. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And they treated her. | |
| If you do something called reverse the races on my show. | |
| If that was a black woman in a white league, I mean, there'd be lawsuits. | |
| There'd be. | |
| Yeah. | |
| They beat on that's their meal ticket. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And they treat why she hasn't packed, packed, picked up and went to Europe and made a ton of money. | |
| What she's probably still thinking of doing, right? | |
| Um, is beyond me. | |
| So they are, they're tearing up their own meal ticket. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Out of what? | |
| It's pure racism. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, it's not just racism. | |
| It's uh, well, she's a straight woman. | |
| Half the league's gay. | |
| Uh, and you know, the majority. | |
| are black. | |
| And she's a straight white woman. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And she's the best player. | |
| So it's pure racism, sexism, whatever you want to call it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All the stuff that, you know, white guys get blamed for. | |
| That's what's going on. | |
| And I, I, I have to believe, I mean, they didn't have ratings before she showed up. | |
| So why would they if she's not playing? | |
| The best thing for the ratings were the dildos. | |
| Didn't you have a proposal for that? | |
| Yeah, I'm trying to invent like a shirt cannon, only it shoots dildos. | |
| Can I make it? | |
| And you have a bunch of fat, uh, blow a fallx shaped hole. | |
| Yeah. | |
| to the guy who catches it. | |
| And a bunch of fat lesbies in the upper balcony. | |
| It's like throwing salmon into a. | |
| Anyway, I talked myself into a corner. | |
| No, I think the analogy is very, very apt. | |
| Let's grab another chance. | |
| Every league crashes and burns. | |
| Well, it's going to because research points out that Sophie Cunningham is also out for the season. | |
| Her other hot teammates. | |
| I know. | |
| That's a double blast. | |
| She did. | |
| And Steven, you girl like, she's like an enforcer. | |
| Oh yeah? | |
| She protects Caitlyn. | |
| And then they took her out? | |
| She got hurt. | |
| But there's some She would She said it was a normal play. | |
| Well, yeah, yeah. | |
| But she would take no crap from the Black Chicks. | |
| Right. | |
| She would go if they followed Caitlyn hard, she'd go right back. | |
| I'm a helm of the. | |
| And she's the best looking one in the league. | |
| Yeah, well, that's what counts primarily for me because I don't follow anything else with the WNBA. | |
| Here's your sync. | |
| I'm watching it for the dunking. | |
| Here's your stats. | |
| National league televised WNBA games starting 55 percent since Clark's injury. | |
| It's down 55 percent. | |
| Down 55 percent. | |
| That's tough. | |
| Do you understand how much power she has if that league made money? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Hey, Portnoy, you still want to buy a team for 500 million in Boston? | |
| Well, you know what? | |
| Oh, is that what he said? | |
| That's exactly what he said. | |
| If someone wanted to sell me a WNBA team, I would buy 500 million dollars. | |
| I would buy it right now. | |
| I just can't hide that I hate him, that I like him, that I hate him. | |
| He goes wherever the wind bl blows. | |
| But here's the thing. | |
| The left should be happy about it, because remember Joy Reid and not Joy Reid, what was the name of the SEALs saying that Harriet Tubman was only helped by people who benefited from white supremacy. | |
| So that's a problem. | |
| Well, I guess the white viewers who make up the majority of this country benefited from white supremacy and you didn't want their viewership, so they finally heard you. | |
| Next chat. | |
| Next chat. | |
| That's what you wanted. | |
| From Galadus. | |
| How can we convert more scientists and researchers? | |
| I'm talking about smart, capable Americans trapped in the left wing incentive structures. | |
| By the way, Galadus is a very good way to put it, trapped in the incentive structures. | |
| Because a lot of researchers and a lot of people who work in the scientific field, right? | |
| They're tied to grants. | |
| And so if you talk to them like, well, there's no way that this could possibly be funded. | |
| We need the government to do this when the fact is often the private sector would step up and do it. | |
| You'd be surprised how very intelligent people, for example, you see with Asians a lot. | |
| I'm sorry, excuse me, but in that letter, didn't she say left wing smart? | |
| Did I read that? | |
| She was trying to say, like, a lot of people who are scientists and work in those fields, the left wing smart. | |
| Yeah, they tend to be very left. | |
| So leave them where they are. | |
| I want not a duel. | |
| Well, yeah, but they're trying to say, like, how do we get these people who are smart over to our side? | |
| They're fucking left wing? | |
| They're not going to change. | |
| They're not going to change. | |
| They're not going to book smart. | |
| I think what she's also saying is that they're trapped in the incentive structure. | |
| For example, with, well, hold on, but for example with COVID and with climate change, no, Nick, that's the third time you've offered. | |
| If you came out against any of those things, came out against climate change or anything, with any other opinion scientifically, they would just excommunicate you. | |
| You would lose your ability to earn a living. | |
| You wouldn't be able to publish, you wouldn't be able to do research. | |
| Maybe there's a lot of people trapped there that are not actually left wing, but they're like, well, I can't, I can't do anything other than what I'm supposed to be doing according to the grant structure or according to what the dean says or whatever. | |
| Right? | |
| So that's probably a little bit of the point. | |
| I'll tell you this. | |
| Yes, I agree with you. | |
| There are a lot of people you can't change, but a lot of them just, they've never actually, they're very limited. | |
| in scope, so no one has spoken their language. | |
| It never actually affected them because the default is grant from government do work, that's great. | |
| You see it a lot with Asians. | |
| And what I mean by that? | |
| I mean that you look at Asian Americans as a consistent Democrat voting block and it doesn't make sense. | |
| And I've had conversations with quite a few, and many of them were blissfully unaware of the controversies at Brown and Harbor. | |
| I've had, yeah. | |
| The Supreme Court ruling. | |
| You go, well, wait a second, why do you vote Democrat? | |
| Well, I'm all pro immigrant. | |
| I come from China. | |
| Yeah, but what about the fact that your son's going to have to get, you know, about eighty points higher on the SATs and they've actually started declining people from the schools where you want to send them. | |
| because they're Asian. | |
| Well, no, no, no, no, no, fair. | |
| Exactly. | |
| So that's the party of the Democratic Party. | |
| They think that actually that should go to a black person, regardless of performance. | |
| Well, why do you reward lazy? | |
| Exactly. | |
| Raisy. | |
| And then, sorry, and it's pronounced Chinese. | |
| And you speak it and it plants a seed. | |
| I would say with the scientific community, and again, I'm not a scientist. | |
| People say, you're not a scientist. | |
| But I look like one. | |
| Delegitimizing it. | |
| Yeah, I look like Bruce Banner after taking too much serum that then led to shrinking. | |
| You won't like me when I'm angry. | |
| I need it. | |
| I can't even follow the shot. | |
| I don't know either. | |
| Like Jeff. | |
| With the scientific community, like, you know, I was actually, I believe, published, but certainly accepted with the fat pride as a method of self care in the era of Trump as C. Matheson. | |
| I just put on a sweater, a prothetic fake boob, said I was a tranny, and it was accepted. | |
| And so people who, even if they're limited in scope, they don't understand everything else, but many of them do value, even if they're led in the wrong, the scientific process or what they view as the purity. | |
| You can chip away at it by showing them the illegitimacy of that field. | |
| Go like, the more they see, hey, by the way, you weren't published, but this was. | |
| that pride as self care in the era of Trump. | |
| Hey, I don't know if you notice, this was published, this research that says a BMI of, well, it's not even on the chart, blood type pudding is just as healthy as someone who is fit. | |
| I don't know if you know this, but there's published research that now says, hey, maybe cholesterol, blood pressure and BMI don't matter at all. | |
| How much have you been, yep. | |
| How much have you been published? | |
| And if you do that, then they start to lose faith in their own institution. | |
| A lot of people, unfortunately, it's very selfish, and this shouldn't, this is why I don't believe you should vote merely in your own self interest. | |
| I understand many people do. | |
| They don't care about it until it affects their thing. | |
| thing until it affects their line of work, their milieu. | |
| Sometimes it doesn't affect them until it affects their family directly. | |
| And that's why you saw so many people change in COVID. | |
| I will tell you this, it's still a demographic problem, but I have never seen more politically apathetic suburban white women become rabidly anti-democratic in my lifetime than COVID. | |
| Why? | |
| Because it affected them. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And they believe the schools were looking out for their kids. | |
| And not only do they have to start homeschooling, right? | |
| That starts where you go, oh my gosh, the stress of this, I don't think I can do it. | |
| And then you realize, well, wait a second, actually, I'm kind of able to do this. | |
| And wait a second, I can do it in two hours a day. | |
| And wait a second, they're performing better than when they were studying nine hours a day. | |
| And wait a second, the teachers who are supposed to be caring for my children, whom I pay through my tax dollars, don't want to come back even though we know they're not at risk. | |
| Wait a second, my husband's business is shut down. | |
| What? | |
| And they start to realize that what they thought, this kind of prism that they've been viewing everything through, is not legitimate. | |
| So I saw it with COVID. | |
| A lot of people who didn't pay attention. | |
| A lot of people will never pay attention until it ends up at their doorstep. | |
| Do that more with the scientific community. | |
| And I can't do that. | |
| It would require scientists. | |
| I mean, I can only do so many silly fat papers to get them published. | |
| And that'll help a little bit. | |
| Or it could end up being like the black community where the needle never moves but you always hope it does. | |
| Next chat, final chat. | |
| All right, final chat from I suck at making usernames. | |
| Good. | |
| Question for the crew. | |
| My husband learned by watching his parents that mom is in charge. | |
| She has an explosive temper. | |
| So he doesn't take charge as much as I would like him to. | |
| How can we work on this? | |
| I can't blame him until he does. | |
| That's a, and by the way, that's a tough one. | |
| And here's the thing, you're going to see more of that because men have been told and they're they're wrong for wanting what men have always wanted and they're shamed for having expectations. | |
| So if a woman sets back boundaries often, these are general rules. | |
| There are exceptions, of course, of course, sleeping with the enemy, all that shit. | |
| If a woman sets boundaries, she's empowered, she's strong, she's independent. | |
| If a man sets boundaries, he's controlling. | |
| And you see that a lot where a man is afraid to say, let's say you're in a world, and this is very common, where the man is the only one who works. | |
| Okay, you know how it always was throughout the whole of society. | |
| So you're talking about white people, go ahead. | |
| Yeah, he's the only one who works. | |
| And he comes home after a ten hour shift. | |
| And what does society say? | |
| Like, you've been working all day, sweetheart, and you go, here, mommy needs a break, here are the kids. | |
| And the man deep inside was like, well, I kind of signed up for 100% of the earning. | |
| And since it's the hardest job in the world, being a mom, you treat it like a job. | |
| And so it's not 50-50, it's 100 and 100. | |
| Maybe there's 2% there. | |
| Maybe there's taking out the trash. | |
| Of course, fixing something if a drain gets clogged. | |
| I would like it if, oh, I can't say that I'd like it if I came home and there was a warm meal because you'll say, what am I your personal chef? | |
| I would like it if, oh, I can't say that if I came home and you were on all fours, my wife on the bedroom in a negligent way because you'll say you're a whore. | |
| I would like it if, oh, I can't say that I'd like to come home to a nice, welcoming, clean house because then you'll say that you're nothing but my maid. | |
| Well, I don't want to enslave you, so do whatever you want. | |
| And then, like you see, it's hard to respect that man. | |
| That's why we're talking about changing this, as far as you personally with your husband. | |
| That is, you know, a lot of people just kind of gloss over this. | |
| The toxic femininity. | |
| It makes a man scared to see a very unnatural dynamic that is the byproduct of feminism, a woman in charge of the household. | |
| And so he thinks that either he's emulating it because it's all he knows, he's scared, or he thinks it's the right thing to do. | |
| Now, unfortunately, to get him to a point of leadership so that you can, well, let's be honest, not only respect him, but likely be attracted to him, because it's an attractive quality. | |
| It is to all women ever. | |
| You don't need to feel guilty about that. | |
| You might need to lead him initially. | |
| And think of it more like this. | |
| Give him permission to. | |
| Say, look, I know kind of how you were raised, but don't say, you need to do this. | |
| And you just say, tell me what to do. | |
| Say, tell me what to do, daddy. | |
| What you say goes. | |
| That's what I like. | |
| Deal with a raging erection and continue to make baby steps. | |
| Give him permission to because you're trying to combat decades of societal collapse and he doesn't know. | |
| He may not be capable of that yet, of leadership because he never had it instilled in him, but I guarantee you this, at this point in time, he may have the ability, he may not, but he doesn't know. | |
| So first, figure out if he knows and don't coach him. | |
| Try to avoid taking the lead. | |
| Give him permission to do exactly what God called him to do and exactly what every single society ever before the year 1960 expected him to do. | |
| So if it sounds like I'm sh shaming women here. | |
| I just want to be clear. | |
| I do think that there is an imbalance and I do think that men don't have people who stand in the pocket and I certainly don't think that men often have someone who stands in the pocket who believes in being chaste where you can, who believes in being loyal, who believes in loving his wife as they love the church. | |
| You often get red pilled, you get the Andrew Tates of the world, or you get people who say be a doormat. | |
| But I do think that there should be shame for men. | |
| There used to be. | |
| You're not providing for your family. | |
| You're not protecting your family. | |
| You're not where it used to be. | |
| I guess we know who wears the pants in that household. | |
| And you're combating decades of feminism saying that that is an offensive trope. | |
| Why can't she wear the pants? | |
| Well, you're living it. | |
| You're living it. | |
| So let's bring back, I guess we know who wears the pants in that household, and that man going, what? | |
| No! | |
| Woman, make me a sandwich, because it's better than what you're living. | |
| Try it that way. |
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