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Ep 157 | Tommy Sotomayor | Get Off My Lawn
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That was Beyonce.
Halo.
Doesn't it sound like Umbrella?
Brella?
It sounds like Rihanna.
I think she ripped that song off.
Thief.
Beyonce's royalty here in New York.
I'm sure it's the same where you are.
There's a certain demographic, like white women in media who gave up their ovaries for some stupid career to blog at Huffington Post or something.
You can't criticize her, but I can criticize her because I don't care what you think.
And I saw her doing a shampoo commercial recently for blondes.
And I couldn't help but notice, that's not your hair, and you can't get it wet.
Just because you buy hair from an East Indian woman, dye it blonde, and stitch it into your weave, doesn't mean that you can tell us what it's like to have blonde hair.
You don't have blonde hair.
You wear blonde hair.
Can't say that, though.
In fact, Beyoncé likes to pretend that she's a mix of races.
I'm part Cherokee and blonde.
No, you're not.
You're black.
You would normally have a frizzy afro.
Just like your relatives.
But no, we pretend that you're Farrafaucid and it's ridiculous.
And, you know, if someone like Zach Efron had some dreads recently in some stupid picture on Instagram, which looked ridiculous, obviously.
I think dreads look ridiculous on all races at this point.
I don't even think Rastafarians should have dreads.
But he was accused of cultural appropriation for it.
Well, Beyonce is committing cultural appropriation.
And it just reminded me that in America, we have this bigotry of low expectations with black women where instead of treating them like they're equals, they get sort of double protected.
And criticizing them is just unthinkable, which I find kind of racist.
You can criticize white males, but you can't criticize black women.
Well, doesn't that mean white males are better than black women?
Because black women are so fragile?
You know, you can't call someone who's mentally handicapped stupid, but you can call a smart guy stupid.
Well, then you're saying that black women are inferior to whites.
Well, I'm an egalitarian, and I think we're all equal.
So when someone behaves badly, I'm going to criticize them regardless of their race and gender.
Which brings us to our extra special episode where we will be analyzing this exact subject, the double protectedness, the kid gloves we use when we discuss black women.
Very controversial subject.
And we'll be bringing in an African-American person of color, Tommy Sotomayor.
So let's first choose three examples of bad behavior that we are scared to discuss.
And then we'll get Tommy's take so I don't sound too white.
Tommy Sotomayor is an African-American person of color who is very controversial because he criticizes African-American women of color.
And his contention appears to be that they are double protected.
In fact, I believe that's his term, double protected.
And he claims because they're black and female, they get a pass and can get away with behaving more badly than, say, you or me or Tommy.
I'm not going to hazard a guess, but I will look at the evidence and we will discuss it with him.
I know Anthony Cumia lost his job when he was taking a picture of an African-American lady late at night in Times Square and she started beating him.
He was armed, by the way, and didn't shoot her.
She started beating him and he said, there's a problem in the black community where there's an immediate call to violence.
And he got in big trouble for saying that.
And what he was saying was, you get in trouble with a black dude or a black woman and it just goes from zero to 60 in one second.
There's no like, calm down or what's going on here.
It's just like, what are you doing?
That may or may not be true.
Another example of a black woman potentially being double protected was the whole Leslie Jones controversy around Ghostbusters and Milo Yiannopoulos.
Remember all that?
So the story was that he called her an ape on Twitter and he got banned.
That's not what happened at all.
Not even close.
He did make fun of her in Ghostbusters 2 and said that at least they had a man on the team.
But what really pissed her off was someone pretending to be her and saying Milo Yiannopoulos is a slimy F word, F-A-G-G word, and he's disgusting and he makes me sick, blah, blah, blah.
Leslie Jones never said that, but this hacker guy, this troll, managed to make it look like that using an app or Photoshop or something.
That hurt her deeply and she said to Jack, Jack, can't you do anything about this?
And Milo was instantly banned.
So he was banned for what one of his fans did.
Now later on, said fans were angry and they did make allusions to her looking like a gorilla, but that had nothing to do with Milo.
So she is so double protected in Jack's mind anyway, that if someone indicates they're her and it offends her, the person that that person likes is also banned for life.
But without making any judgments, and I'll let Tommy do it because he's black, so he can get away with much more than I can, because they're double protected, I guess.
But this happened at Applebee's recently.
So four women are sitting there having their Applebee's food, and a waitress bumps in to one of them as she's walking by.
This is not acceptable to these ladies, and they immediately go off and start pounding the crap out of her.
Do you have footage of that?
They were out of control.
Watch as four women get up and attack the 21-year-old woman who was serving them Their meal.
You can see one of them punch the young woman so hard it knocks her backwards.
Soon, all four were wailing on her.
Other employees and patrons at the Applebee's and McDonough break it up, but one of the four women comes back for one final blow.
She comes running around everyone and punches the victim again.
Police say the moment they stood up, one of the four customers grabbed a knife off another employee's tray.
It looked like this one and used it on the server.
And as she walked by, she grabbed the knife and stabbed her in the arm.
She needed 15 stitches to close the gash.
Police.
Now, the question here is, is there a pattern?
I know political correctness means you're not allowed to notice patterns, but I'm starting to see a pattern here.
It appears that African-American women of color seem to feel entitled and get real mad when things don't go their way.
I've had servers bump my knee when they're serving me a cheeseburger.
My reaction is...
Don't mention it.
My knee is still intact.
Knees are tough.
They've got little pads on them called kneecaps.
But we've seen these fights at Chuck E. Cheese and stuff like that.
And I think Tommy's contention is that this welfare culture has made them feel like they're entitled to things.
And that's damaging.
And I would argue, by the way, that welfare culture makes people economically libidinous less.
You following me?
It takes away their oomph.
Like, look at the nature reservations.
I think John Stalsa got in a lot of trouble for this.
Sorry, Indian reservations.
John Stoser got in a lot of trouble for saying that this endless welfare of Native Americans has sort of killed their will to live.
I mean, you give a Native American a house.
He doesn't own that house.
He can't use it to leverage any other purchases.
He can't sell it.
So he's really just staying in subsidized housing the way you would if you were in a mental institution or an asylum.
That's not empowering.
And it's quite possible that we've disempowered these women.
And I'm obviously not talking about middle-class black women.
This is a certain demographic.
That we've disempowered them to the point where they're just spoiled brats.
Here was another case.
So there was a 91-year-old Mexican man.
This was all over the news, and I thought it was very telling by the way it was described.
So the story is very simple.
He's walking along, he's 91, he bumps into a toddler, as we're wont to do.
This woman goes nuts, smashes the old man's face in with a brick, black woman, and then calls on her friends to go kick his ass, which they happily do.
But every time you saw this reporting on it, it was all about Trump's America and how racist it is towards Mexicans.
Check out the Young Turks talking about this.
They never mention the fact that this was a black woman.
I don't even know if they know that it was a black woman.
A 91-year-old man from Mexico who was visiting Los Angeles to see his family was violently attacked by a woman and a group of men that she encouraged to join in on the attack.
Rodolfo Rodriguez is his name.
And again, he wasn't here to immigrate or he wasn't an immigrant.
He came to visit his family who lives in Willowbrook, California.
It's a city in Los Angeles.
And unfortunately, things turned violent when this woman who was walking with her daughter decided to pick up a brick, a concrete brick, and start hitting him, beating him with it.
He was unconscious, bleeding on the sidewalk.
There was a witness who saw everything and claimed that the woman kept repeating, go back to your country, go back to Mexico.
And we do have a video where Rodolfo is with his grandson explaining what happened.
Let's take a quick look at that.
He said that he was just walking to the park and then the lady was walking with her little girl and he actually leaves again.
The media is totally incapable of discussing the real race war going on in California, which is brown versus black.
They can be confronted with it.
They can have a black woman hitting this Mexican man with a brick and they still, the black woman just fades away and all they can see is the Mexican victim.
Is it laziness?
Are they being purposely ignorant?
Is it willful ignorance?
I honestly don't know.
But jump to the end of that video and watch Chink, whatever the hell his name is.
Chank.
Talk about make America white again or something like that.
What is the banner?
He has a broken jaw, a broken cheekbone, two broken cheekbones, two broken ribs, bruises on his face, back, and abdomen.
Who picks up a brick and beats a 91-year-old man over the head with it while shouting, go back to your country?
Well, I'll tell you who does.
Insane, racist, right-wingers encouraged by the current administration.
Just pause.
She is a racist right-winger.
She is probably racist.
Right-winger?
How'd you get that?
Encouraged by this administration?
Where'd you get that from?
How many times are we going to see people yelling, go back to Mexico, go back to your country?
How many times are we going to see it, right?
What kind of monsters do that?
If a 91-year-old punched me in the face, I wouldn't hit back, let alone hit him with a brick.
If he accidentally grazed by me, the idea that I would, in a fit of racist rage, hit him over the head with a brick until I broke his jaw.
It's unconscionable.
And then she calls over the four other, three to four other guys.
Now, I thought it was worse because I thought, oh, they're like, oh, a Mexican guy who's 91, let's go kick the crap out of him.
No, apparently, according to the witness, she lied to them and said that he was trying to grab the kid and kidnap the kid or some stupid lie like that.
Now, that doesn't give them the right to beat up this 91-year-old guy as they did.
Make America hate him.
But at least it wasn't like based on the same level of race.
That's enough.
Here's the million-dollar question.
Do the young Turks know that this is a black woman?
I mean, how could you be so disingenuous?
I honestly don't get it.
So, of course, she's been arrested, right?
We have a picture of her.
She looks remarkably intimidating.
There was a whole Twitter moment I saw, and it listed how Twitter moments works.
It's the main story, and then a bunch of tweets.
So there's usually about a dozen examples of people tweeting about this big subject.
Not one of them mentioned that it was a black woman.
Not one of them.
And the million-dollar question is why?
Now, I often think that the demand for racists does not meet the supply.
So when they just get a morsel, they grab it and run off the edge of the screen without looking it up because they're so happy to finally get an example.
But there's your racist.
There's your Trump supporter.
Now, are we positive she's not right-wing?
Are we positive she doesn't support Trump?
No, no, but the odds are pretty low.
Pretty low that she's uh have you heard of one anti-Mexican black Trump supporter in your life?
I have I'm yet to see one.
Black Trump supporters tend to be very civilized.
They tend not to be 91-year-old Mexican bashers.
All right, so she's arrested.
And then here's the last example.
So this is three examples I want to talk to Tommy about because I think it's important when we're discussing people of color that we involve people of color in the conversation because it's all about a diversity of opinions and letting those disenfranchised people speak for themselves.
I don't want, I'm a white guy.
What do I know?
I don't know about things.
I'm not allowed to notice patterns, but Tommy can.
So this was a group.
This is kind of an old story.
Where was this now?
This was a Mexican restaurant.
So they go in in a group of 20.
Now, we talked about this on the show or maybe the podcast.
Never eat in a group more than four, ever.
Because when the bill comes, splitting it is a nightmare.
And you know what these people do now?
They do this thing where they bring different cards.
And now the waitress has to sit there playing some sort of four card Monty shuffle where 25% of the bill goes to each card.
If you're going to do that, bring cash, okay?
Stop wasting the waitress's time.
Or one person uses a card and they all pay him back.
That's how tricky it is with four.
With 20?
This bill was going to be cheap, by the way.
I think the bill was $420.
Is that $20 per person?
That's a pretty good deal.
This video from inside the restaurant shows a table of 16 people eating and enjoying themselves.
Frida's manager, Jesse Gonzalez, says they were one of the last tables seated around 10:30 Sunday night, a half hour before close.
And they came at the last minute and we didn't think anything of it.
He says they treated themselves, ordering some of the most expensive things on the menu, including $11 margaritas.
Burritos, the heifer ground burritos, the Frida special steaks, you know, steak and shrimp.
But soon he says the bartender got a whiff of something that didn't smell like grilled steak and peppers.
It was just one guy that was just smoking weed, and we asked him to stop, and I guess he was like the leader of the group, and they just went out and listened to him.
Just can you imagine being that arrogant?
It sounds awesome.
I've always said I don't do cocaine anymore, but as a young man, my goal was always to be so powerful that I could do Coke off a bar while it was open and no one would say anything or do anything.
This never happened, of course.
I never achieved this goal.
But the idea that you could be such a Mac that you can sit there and light up a joint in a restaurant, that's impressive.
Go back.
There's no sound in the surveillance video, but at this point, Gonzalez says the group started berating the staff.
They started getting louder and louder, getting upset, started yelling.
That's when they started making offenses to the server and talking about the table.
Making offenses to the server.
Eventually, one by one, people finish their drinks and leave the table.
Pause.
Look how obese she is.
This isn't a black thing.
I mean, tons of Americans are obese, but I'll never get used to seeing arms like that.
Looks like a chicken wing.
Go ahead.
The table.
Except for these two women left behind.
They didn't seem to be in as much of a hurry.
She even carries her blue margarita away from the table and continues to drink it after the group ignores staff and skips out on their $420 bill.
Gonzalez says they even pushed one of the servers in the stairwell.
He says he's never seen anything like it.
Our walkouts are, you know, hey, they forgot to pay or they'll come back the next day.
Major walkouts like that, that's our first biggest one.
Gonzalez says he thinks they planned the whole outburst so they could skip out on the bill.
You don't think that they're going to do that, especially on a Sunday night.
And yeah, just one guy got them all riled up and there he is, the king.
They all left at the same time.
And there's sort of subtext here, which has nothing to do with what we're talking about.
I have, I'm not going to lie, it would be kind of awesome to be that guy.
To roll 20 deep, which is already pretty cool.
I don't think I have 20 friends.
To get me and 20 people together, it would take me about a month.
I mean, Proud Boys, I guess, do that, but that's a meetup that takes a lot of planning.
So get 20 Proud Boys together, go to a restaurant, smoke a joint, and then have everyone just walk out carrying margaritas.
I don't know.
I would never do that.
So am I cherry-picking here?
Is this anecdotal evidence or is it a pattern?
Let's talk to the expert.
Let's talk to Tommy Sotomayor.
Tommy, are you there?
I am here, brother.
What's going on?
Not a lot.
Look, I'm going through these videos as a white man, and I'm seeing four women beat a waitress and slit her arm for bumping into her at Applebee's.
I'm seeing a woman beat a 91-year-old Mexican man for bumping into her daughter, toddler, maybe a boy.
And then I'm seeing this group at a Mexican restaurant start smoking joints, blunts, I assume, and then just walk out of the restaurant without paying their bill.
And I'm thinking, am I just choosing anecdotal evidence here and being a dick?
Or is there a pattern here?
I'd say you're a bit of a dick.
We know this.
That's unestablished.
But there is a pattern, and I talk about this all the time as well.
I mean, it's like when you talk about it, well, you're racist.
When I talk about it, I'm a sellout.
So how much evidence are we supposed to have stacked up before someone actually deals with the problem, even if you have a problem with the people bringing up the fact?
And you brought up three horrible incidences.
You remember when the Hispanic guy was beaten with the brick for bumping into the...
Okay, here's a million-dollar question, sir.
Did they know the woman was black and knowingly take that out of the story?
Or were they so excited to get an example of racism that they just ran out the door to the press room and said, we got a story, we got a story without looking it up?
I can't tell.
Well, Richard, you're correct on both.
I'm just going to call you Richard for radio play.
All right, Richard, you are the correct on both fronts, yet again.
I do see a little bit of the rush to judgment because they were thinking, Well, this is the best way for us to put this in light.
This has to be one of the Trumpers who did this.
So let's just go with that.
But then I do believe they knew because if you notice very, a lot of stories around, we don't have to worry about dealing with hate crime when it comes to what if I do something to you, I can whoop your ass and yell the whole time.
Damn white boy, I would never get charged with a hate crime.
As a matter of fact, the term hate crime is stupid to me because if I beat you, I rape you or stab you or shoot you, it's probably because I hate you.
That's why I did it.
So all crimes in that aspect would probably be that.
But you watch this, and I think they purposely hid it.
I think they knew, here's what happened, in my opinion.
They rushed to judgment, knew the answer, and then hid that part once they know the answer.
Just leave it out there as, well, just this person did this.
Because if it had been a white person, did it to a black person, day one, the race of the offender would have been published.
I think that guy, the black kids who kidnapped that mentally handicapped Trump dude and tortured him, I think one of those got charged with the hate crime.
Yeah, because of the public pressure.
You had people like me who were putting it out there.
You had a lot of people who were saying, you take this same instance and you switch it around, there would be a problem.
Why is there no problem now?
Oh, there would be riots in the streets.
Riots.
Well, the thing I can't help but notice, like when you see the Chuck E. Cheese brawls and all that, I know there's white trash people that do terrible things and I've seen fights and stuff, but I've never seen like 50 white women go off on each other, pulling out their hair and punching them in the face.
It does seem unique to black women.
Yes.
I tell people all the time, if you want to know why the black children, the black males, a lot of people are wondering, you know, these black males are violent.
Well, who's raising them?
When 76% of them are being raised in single-parent households, these mothers have 100% autonomy to be able to raise this kid up to be a nice, respectable young man who loves women and never wants to be like the guy who apparently left their mom.
But then if you ever go to a black household or hang around black women, who has more of a foul mouth than them?
Who is threatening violence against other people at the drop of a hat?
And then you wonder why the children are that way.
When you have an irresponsible being raising these children with nobody able to come in between them, a story in Cleveland.
Black woman jerks her infant two-year-old by the arm, lifts it.
White person and a couple of black people say, ma'am, don't do that.
She cusses them out, picks up her phone.
Mind you, she's riding public transportation.
Somehow, I guess she dialed 1-800 dialogue because she was able to get before her next stop a group of goons with AK-47s.
This is a real story coming up.
You guys have seen it.
It's amazing.
She gets off.
They shoot up the bus.
All because someone told her, you know, you might jerk the kid's arm out of its socket.
That's not a good thing.
You can't tell me nothing.
These my kids.
Whenever you have that kind of attitude, where do you think they got that from?
Why do you think they're so comfortable till they believe you can't tell them anything?
Is it fatherlessness?
It's though how they have a father.
It's called, I call him their white daddy, called the United States government.
Right.
So getting a welfare check every month, you start to feel like you're entitled to more than just a welfare check.
You feel entitled to everything.
There you go.
I did a video at Popeye's Chicken.
I'm probably going to get some watermelon as well, but that's not important.
I went to get this chicken, and the woman who was behind the counter, I told her, through the drive-thru, I told her what I wanted.
I wanted rice with my chicken.
When I got there and I opened up my stuff as I was leaving, I noticed I have french fries and not rice.
I said, ma'am, you forgot to give me the rice and you gave me french fries.
She said, I gave you french fries because we don't have rice.
I said, excuse me.
So you didn't tell me you don't have this thing.
You just gave me something else.
The woman was this big overweight black woman.
And I've noticed when I put the video up, I got a lot of comments from white people talking about.
And I used to date a white girl and she told me she was a waitress.
She said that they would draw straws on who would waitress the all black female tables.
Because she said, inevitably, what you would get was a fight.
What you would get is a bunch of complaining about what they serve.
They would eat half of the food, but want all of the money off.
And she said, or they would just walk away.
Saw a video where talk to people in the service industry.
The worst group of people to waitress are black women.
They will not tip.
They will complain.
Were you, did you have a rough childhood?
Was your mom not there for you?
I sound like I'm psychoanalyzing you, but I do remember something like that.
Well, no, no, no.
My mom was there.
My mom is still here.
And how is your relationship with her?
My relationship with my mom is good now.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, but here's the thing.
I will acknowledge what I see.
And that's where black women do what you just did.
Like they will try to get me that way.
Well, if you feel this way, you must have been hurt.
Well, I tell them, I say, well, apparently Martin Luther King and Malcolm X must have been hurt too.
I mean, could they not handle the racism?
I mean, my thing is weird.
Most of your people who are revolutionaries see a problem and try to fix the problem.
And it doesn't matter what they look like.
It doesn't matter where they were born.
It doesn't even matter if they didn't experience it.
Because if you look at, if you're just a Bible reader, what you will look at is Moses grew up in the Pharaoh's house.
Moses grew up without being a slave.
And Moses still recognized that slavery of the Hebrews was wrong.
And he switched sides in order to fix it.
Yeah, I just could have sworn that you had some story where there was some Anna Mossy there where she beat you or something, or the dad wasn't around, or there was something you were mad about.
What?
No, my dad wasn't around.
As far as being mad about something, my dad not being there, the idea of not having a father around being a normality.
I'm mad about that, yeah.
But at the time, it was normal.
We used to make fun of my cousin because he was the only one who had a father.
What a loser.
Seriously, no crap.
We used to make fun of him because he had actual chores.
He had to be in the house at a certain time.
We made fun of him for having a stable household.
That's amazing.
Where is he now?
Oh, he's in jail for life.
Oh, that's not the ending I was going for.
Well, let me explain to you why, though.
Okay.
Because when you have so much dysfunction around you and you're the only one functional, you try to impress the dysfunctional people because you think you're abnormal.
He spent his whole time trying to prove to us he was as bad and he could do the things we did.
So in a way, his criminal life was conforming.
Yep.
And it happens a lot in the black community.
It happens in a lot of communities, I guess, when whatever is deemed normal.
Before we came on, I was on a show and I was talking about this woman who put a sew-in weave in her four-year-old child's hair.
Oh, yeah.
I saw you did a video on that.
Now, how ridiculous is that?
The normal person, a white woman called into my show, she said, do you know if I bleach my three, four-year-olds' hair and send them to school or daycare, they would call DeFax and have a checkup at my house?
Remember, the white woman who tanned herself, they put her in a mental institution.
Right, right.
Tan mom.
I've never had a weave.
Is it painful?
Yes, and it's a long process.
What they do is they take their regular hair and they sew it up.
I mean, they cornrow it so it'll lay down enough.
So it basically creates a foundation.
And then they take a surgical needle and sew the hair into the cornrows all the way around.
And it's like a five-hour process you just took a four-year-old through.
Jesus Lord, what a complete waste of time.
What?
So she looks gorgeous?
So she looks sexy?
That's exactly what they said.
And I said that just, but it goes back to, again, no father.
If a father's there, he's not even going to let his child dress up in his whores outfit.
I say that with all these, they have these drag queen kids, these 10-year-old drag queens.
And I go, forget the homosexuality.
I don't want my 10-year-old girl dressing up in stilettos and tons of makeup and stuff.
Like, we don't even have to get into the gay part yet.
You're sexualizing kids in the name of equality.
Thank you.
And you're doing this.
Same thing with the hair.
You're making this child hate its natural hair before it even accepts its natural hair or understands its natural hair.
I did one about the trans kids too, and everybody got mad at me, but I kept saying, there's a through line here as well.
No father.
Yes.
Good point.
Good point.
That's both.
Well, the thing I keep saying about the black experience is they say, oh, you don't think America is racist?
Look how many black men are in jail.
Look how little money black people make.
And I go, before welfare, blacks had similar divorce rates to whites.
They appeared in the crime stats similar to whites.
Yes, I know it was a more racist society, but outside of that, there was more traditionalism.
And I would argue more joy.
When there's more families, there's more joy.
Yep.
And that was the sad part about that is they will bring up slavery to say, here's why we're in the situation we are.
But they won't bring up that anomaly of time between 1920 and 1960 where blacks actually had a better in-marriage rate than whites did and a lower single parent rate than whites did.
So how do you account for that?
Now, many people could say, well, because we couldn't integrate.
Well, then that would mean that integration might not have been a good thing for black folks.
Don't say that.
But then I would point to the great society.
When the great society, and then you turn around and your LBJ says, I'm going to give you a bunch of stuff.
But there's a little bit, anytime you make a deal with the devil, when that's what the demon crack, I mean the Democrats are, sorry about that, to all you Democrats.
But the point behind it is you make a deal with the devil, he's going to come back and he's going to want his due.
The deal that was made with the devil was you get rid of the man, you get these benefits.
They thought it would be a good idea.
And now look at the experiment.
The experiment has made it that the black community, and we, in my opinion, are the canary in the coal mine.
The government will do stuff to us before they realize how well it works on the rest of the public because it's doing it to you guys now.
If you watch it, your marriage rate is going down.
Your divorce rate is going up.
Your kids out of wedlock is going up.
And what is it doing to your community?
The exact same thing.
You know, I saw, they were talking about blacks having the lowest unemployment rate with Trump.
And some liberals said, yeah, but when it's those kind of jobs, who wants a job like that?
And I thought, that's such the left in a nutshell.
They trivialize fatherhood and they trivialize jobs.
If you have a dad who's just there, he's not the best dad in the world.
He's not making you a go-kart.
He doesn't say, wake up, kids, I'm making pancakes every day.
He just happens to be there if you need him.
And he'll put down the paper and say, what's the problem over here?
That dad and a job where you're making minimum wage, you're slogging away, you're flipping burgers.
So that's the worst case scenario with dads.
And obviously there's much worse case scenario, but that's a low-quality dad and job.
That person's life is 100 times better than the single mom guy with benefits and social security.
A father gives you foundation and a job, no matter how crappy it is, gives you an identity.
And these upper middle class rich liberals just don't understand that.
Well, look at this.
Just go to sports.
It's a beautiful place.
Because you get to watch it play out and people don't pay attention that it plays out.
Watch the NBA draft.
Watch the NFL draft.
Each one of the black kids who come up there is always saying, what's the first thing you're going to do?
Hey, I'm going to buy my mama a house.
I'm going to buy my mama a car.
You never heard Ben Roethlisberger say, I'm going to buy my mama a house.
You never heard Eli Manning say, I'm going to buy my mama a car.
Why?
Because they had this thing called a daddy, and the mama had this thing called a husband.
And the husband had already done that for her.
So she didn't need her kids to do It.
Now, you watch those black kids, though, when they say it.
They don't get their education.
They don't go get their degree because they know they have to pay for all of these people that are struggling at home.
So they will leave after a year just to go make a check so they can pay for all of these other people.
And then in 10, 15, 20 years, they're broke again because they had all this entourage and all these people and they didn't have this one thing called a foundation.
One of the main places where you learn the foundation of money management is usually from your dad because dad has to work to make the money and then he has to make the money, pay all of the bills, plus do some of the ancillary things that you want to do.
That's what he has to do.
So he teaches you money management.
When your mother is getting money from the government, what kind of money management can she teach you?
Zilch.
Well, you also, when you have a crappy job as a teenager that an illegal Mexican isn't doing, like cleaning pools or mowing lawns or shoveling driveways, you have your bills and you go around even with a paper route and you go, hey, 72 Lexon Avenue hasn't paid in two weeks.
Bing bong.
Guy, what is going on?
Bing bong.
You keep nagging them and you realize there's a thing called debt collection.
There's a thing called paying your bills.
There's always going to be these guys who don't pay their bills.
The best way to get them is at eight in the morning when they just woken up and they're sick of being bothered.
You learn valuable lessons that I don't think young people are learning anymore, especially young people in the projects.
And it's weird that we as black people will say, well, that's not a job I'd want to do.
So now you have these, like you said, illegals who will come over here.
And this illegal guy will work 12 hours a day and he can't speak any English, but he will do that job.
And then you'll see his little son, Paco, a Javier.
Paco will grow up speaking perfect English, perfect Spanish, and understanding how hard his father worked and how easy his father made it to where he could now do the normal things that he never got a chance to do.
To me, that's what a parent is.
I sacrificed my life to make sure you have a better life.
That's what used to happen.
Remember, we are now in the generation who will, the first generation or the near the second, that will do worse than its predecessors.
Yeah, I think we're the first generation ever where the lifespan is going to go down.
And when I say ever, I mean since cave days, it's been up, up, up, up, up.
And now with obesity and laziness and all this other stuff, it's finally dipping down.
That's shocking.
And these things can directly be attributed to something that liberals will not talk about, the importance of fathers.
We want to talk about everything else, but I have no idea how they glaze over that.
Well, I know why they do it, but I don't know how that we as a people won't say, we know that there's a glaring problem.
Why won't this benevolent side that's all about helping the people not mention that?
Tommy, we're running out of time here.
We only have a few minutes left.
Every time I talk to you, by the way, I always think we've only barely scratched the surface.
Even though my interviews with you are always three times longer than anyone else, and they still feel shorter.
Let's have some light at the end of the tunnel here.
Black unemployment is down.
Maybe with less welfare in Trump's America, there'll be less of this entitlement and then less bad behavior and less prison and more families.
And is there hope?
I had hoped that Trump would do more of cutting off the welfare because I honestly believe you cut that off and you try to make people more self-sufficient, they will be.
And you will stop having all these children who are being born in bad situations because they're only born that way because the person is benefiting financially.
I promise you, if you take away the financial benefit from having children, it's the same thing with all of these rape cases that are coming up.
And I know I'm opening up a different can of worms.
But when you see how men are being treated in the United States, there's no wonder why Bruce Jenner decided to put on a dress and tuck his wang.
He got treated, think about it.
He got treated better with a tucked wang than he did with all the gold medals.
Yeah, that's true.
Work to do.
He got ignored.
You can see that on the reality show.
He'd be standing by the fridge and they'd just be ignoring him like he was some sort of human garbage.
And so if you watch it, they're destroying masculinity.
And I was hoping that Donald Trump would do more in that aspect, would do more, especially a man who's been divorced as much as he has.
He needs to address this whole idea of alimony.
He needs to address child support.
These things are destroying the fabric of family.
There is no reason for a woman, a woman has no reason to even want to stay married.
She has a reason to get married because now she has a high chance of having children and getting alimony and child support from it.
But she has no reason to stay married because all the chips are in her favor once she does get married.
Yeah, and I've noticed that across the board with white people, even with upper middle class people, divorce now has just become like moving.
It's like, well, you don't like that house anymore.
The air conditioning is too expensive.
Why don't you just move?
And it's just sort of like a, and I've found amongst my friends, these women are realizing the seriousness of the move, and they're trying to get the husband back after the divorce, maybe two years later.
And the guy goes, I got a new girlfriend now.
I got my alimony thing set up.
I'm not interested in you.
You stab me in the back.
I think we're waking up to how stupid divorce is.
And let's give you something funny before you leave.
Black men rarely get married.
White men rarely get married just once.
I just have white men and they'll be like on their third day of marriage.
White men on the third marriage, I'm on my third baby mama.
Make that make sense.
I just want everyone to get married.
I want everyone to have a kid.
I want more American families.
That's all I ask for.
And we don't ask for much.
And we're asking to resew back the fabric of America.
So why are the Democrats trying to tear that apart?
Because they care more about votes than human beings.
Precisely.
Tommy, thank you for coming on the show.
Edifying as per huge.
Let's have you back again soon.
All right.
Beautiful conversation.
Thank you so much.
Love coming on.
Thanks, Tom.
I'm surrounded by y'all.
Hello, kids.
This is a favorite subject of ours, women's self-defense.
Ladies, be armed.
Get a gun.
If someone is going to attack you or rape you, take your gun out of your purse and shoot them and run away.
If you are unarmed, scream at the top of your lungs.
What I think is also very important to convey to you ladies is you're not Jason born.
The only way you are going to beat off two guys with a gun is if we use the other version of the word beat off, and no one wants you to do that.
So if two guys point a gun to your head, I would start crying and do whatever they want and hope that us men can catch them someday and throw them in jail.
Do not try to ninja your way out of a situation.
The only way that could possibly happen is if the two guys with the guns had absolutely no interest in shooting you, no bullets, and were just on the verge of falling asleep.
And this is evident in this instructional video.
I think Joe Rogan put this up on Facebook.
And we've talked about this forever.
I did a whole video on it, but it's the gift that keeps on giving because it really is this sort of pandering naivete that we encourage of so-called empowered women.
Can we cut to this video so they can see what I'm talking about?
And use their body mechanics against them.
So it's going to look something like that.
By the way, just pause.
Oh, too late.
Hey, men, if you have two guns pointed to your head, do not try this.
Suffer through whatever they're going to do.
I mean, if they're going to rape you, then maybe just die.
Die with your boots on is a good idea.
But I should make it clear that if two men want to shoot you and they're both pointing guns at you, you're going to die.
You're not going to knock it out.
Who invented this move, by the way?
Did she come up with this?
Or did she learn it in some bull roar class?
All right, let's see it again.
She does it several times.
You'll be happy to hear.
So you don't have to rewind.
Look at the guy with the gun.
He just has to sit there.
So, in super slow motion.
Turn it up.
Show you what that looks like.
To break down the mechanics.
What I'm doing here is not engaging, but using his body mechanics against him.
This hand floats as I move forwards.
Points the gun right into his own shoulder.
Now he shoots.
The fire side goes off.
Of course, it's going to be a little bit of a concussion for me.
No, it's not.
I'm moving forward.
Hopefully I'll be out of range.
So this hand floats as I move forward.
This hand does the same thing.
This hand is going to go right into the trigger guard.
As I step forward and off the line, he's going to shoot his friend.
I'm going to walk it forward.
Make sure that he's done before I escape.
And I'm going to escape fast.
So once more.
Just pause.
Could you be more delusional, please?
I guarantee that wouldn't happen if you were being attacked by two 13-year-olds who were carrying bananas.
They would still beat you with the bananas.
Have you ever been in any kind of kerfuffle in your life?
Do you not have siblings?
That's not how it works.
You don't just boom, boom people.
In fact, they've started doing this in movies with women.
And as Nick DiPaolo says, I cannot watch action movies anymore because my suspension of disbelief can no longer handle watching Angelina Jolie beat the crap out of six Green Berets.
This does not...
They don't go, well, that's the end of this gun.
I guess I'll shoot my collarbone off now.
One more time, just for fun.
Just so you can see it.
Chokehold, gun to the head, gun to the stomach.
Gun to the head, gun to my stomach.
You're dead.
And boom, boom.
Look how bored he is.
This is ridiculous.
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