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She BETRAYED Brian?! FERAL Gen Z California College Girls?! She Says Men Are GROSS?! | Dating Talk #257

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	Introduce yourself, please.
	Hi, my name is Lexi.
	I'm an integrative healing arts practitioner.
	I specialize in yoga, health and wellness, lifestyle coaching, and I'm also a full-service escort.
	Okay, age?
	I'm 24, and I'm based in Arizona.
	All right.
	How long you been escorting for?
	For three years now.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Oh, and I also help women in the sex work industry either transition out or help them like guide them in the path of sex work.
	All right.
	What about you?
	It's hard to follow.
	My name's Ava.
	I'm 18.
	I'm from the San Francisco Bay Area.
	I'm a server at a sushi restaurant.
	And I go to the city college and I'm studying psychology.
	All right.
	Do you have a sense of what you want to do after you graduate from college?
	Yeah, I would like to go on and go to graduate school and then become a psychiatrist and not prescribe kids with crazy meds that they don't need.
	Oh, like which kinds?
	Like the antidepressant stuff?
	Yeah, honestly a lot, especially like ADHD medication.
	Honestly, I think Adderall is like really messing kids up.
	Like, I feel strongly about it.
	had like bad firsthand experiences or?
	Yeah.
	God, why are we talking about my psychiatric medications?
	Yeah, can you just list all the meds you're currently taking?
	Really?
	Yes.
	Okay, currently?
	Currently, no one's.
	Previously, then.
	Oh, fuck.
	I took Adderall from ages five to 16.
	Five?
	From five?
	They started you on Adderall.
	Five years old.
	How messed up is that?
	Yeah.
	question, was there, were you in school at the time?
	Yeah.
	And so did like, the teachers were like, what's wrong with this kid?
	She can't tell time.
	I was like, what?
	But was it something your parents noticed or did the teachers go to your parents?
	No, the teachers went to the parents.
	My parents were like, she's great.
	I have a similar story where I think I was maybe in second grade.
	Oh, yeah.
	And the teacher said I was disruptive.
	Oh, yeah.
	Disruptive.
	This was a while ago, but And then, luckily, I didn't, I was on Riddland for a month or two.
	But it is a common thing that teachers can't, and I think it's normal behavior for like five, six, seven, eight, nine-year-olds to be to sit them down in a seat for eight hours a day and sit there, listen to my boring ass, you know?
	Yeah, exactly.
	So, of course, maybe I'm just rowdy.
	Maybe I just like to have a good time.
	Damn, they screwed you over.
	The teacher screwed you over.
	Oh, my God.
	I know.
	That crazy bitch.
	Yeah.
	She's rude.
	So rude.
	She's so bad at karaoke, too.
	Wow.
	You keep tabs on her or you kick it with her.
	Or she was on this podcast.
	And sorry, you're from where again?
	San Francisco area.
	San Francisco.
	Okay.
	And you said you want to become a psychiatrist.
	That's the plan right now, but.
	So you don't have to prescribe people mindset.
	Yeah, well, yeah, pretty much.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Bella.
	I'm a singer-songwriter.
	I go by BB.
	I'm from Oregon and also the Bay before here.
	And I'm going to school for cosmetology.
	Is it the city college?
	It's through the SPC.
	They have a cosmetology.
	Yeah, it's not in the same location, but it's.
	Oh, it's a different location.
	It's through SBC, yeah.
	And then is that what you want to do?
	You want to be like a makeup artist or something.
	Definitely hair.
	Hair.
	That's just more of my plan for like income-wise.
	But my actual plan is to like pursue music fully.
	Okay.
	And what do you do for music?
	I'm a singer.
	Do you play any instruments?
	Yes, I play the guitar and the piano.
	Okay.
	And me and my sister make like tracks digitally for me to sing on.
	That's how we like make music.
	Are you soprano?
	I think I have a pretty good range.
	I think it can be all of them.
	Okay.
	Maybe you don't like it.
	Can we get a little demo?
	Maybe not yet.
	I'm still nervous.
	But yeah, if I can say this, Bella's vocals is my TikTok for music.
	Follow me.
	And you both are from San Francisco?
	Well, you're from the Bay.
	I live in like Concord.
	Okay.
	I lived in Marin County.
	Do you know Hyphi, the Hyphi movement?
	Hyphi.
	Hyphi.
	Never mind.
	Anyways.
	That, yeah, I don't.
	Ghost Ride the Whip.
	She might be kind of young.
	I am young.
	It is a bit of an older.
	I'm pretty young.
	Yeah.
	A bit older.
	Then I don't know.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Kaya.
	I'm 18 and I'm from the Bay Area as well.
	I go to SPCC.
	I'm a first year and I'm a business major, but I don't know what I want to do with that after yet.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And what about you?
	My name's Solo.
	I'm 18.
	I'm also a first year at SBCC.
	I'm from Santa Barbara County, and I want to be a radiation therapist.
	Okay.
	When you say you're from Santa Barbara County, are you from North, South, or Santa Barbara?
	I'm from like Lompoc, San Inez area.
	Oh, Lompoke, okay.
	And San Inez.
	You got to add that one in there.
	Don't just judge yourself with the first one.
	Right, yeah, yeah.
	Of course.
	All right, cool.
	And you said you wanted to be a radiation tech?
	Therapist.
	Therapist.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	I'm a sativa.
	I'm 30 and I'm a tattoo artist and I do like murals and stuff like that.
	Ooh.
	All right.
	And you've done a bunch of body mods too.
	Is that correct?
	Can you show us the body mod?
	I felt like this was gonna happen.
	What's a body mod?
	Like, ooh, whoa.
	Her tongue is split.
	Wait, you taste two things at once.
	Guess what?
	I can't.
	You can.
	I can put my tongue in like two different ice creams.
	Whoa.
	That's so cool.
	That would trip me out.
	Oh, my God.
	We'd have like 10 smoothies, probably.
	That is dope.
	How long did it take to heal?
	It only took seven days, so the tongue is like the fastest healing body part in the body.
	Oh, my goodness.
	Nice.
	And where are you from?
	I'm from Oceanside, California, but I live in Oklahoma.
	Gotcha.
	And any education?
	I went to college for a little bit, but then I dropped out and became an entrepreneur, pretty much instead.
	When you say, what were you doing?
	When I was in college.
	Well, you said you were an entrepreneur.
	Oh, I'm a tattoo artist.
	Oh, yeah.
	And I do.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And I do like custom canvases and murals and stuff.
	Sure, cool.
	What about you?
	My name is Kayla.
	I'm 27.
	I'm from Las Vegas, Nevada, but I currently live in Chattanooga, Tennessee.
	I have a master's degree, and I currently work as an addiction counselor.
	You have a master's in what?
	Forensic psychology.
	Forensic psychology.
	Can you explain to perhaps viewers who don't know what that is, what is forensic psychology?
	Forensic psychology is the study of criminal behavior and psychology, kind of combined, like what is behind people's behaviors and why they commit certain crimes and things like that.
	Never mind.
	Scratch that.
	I can't talk about it on this podcast.
	You're a spy?
	No, no, my specialty, and it's an essay offender registry and why sometimes it could be bad and what better ways to treat it.
	So yeah, that is my occupation.
	I am looking forward to going back to school for my PhD and maybe the next coming year.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Sina.
	I'm an influencer and I'm 19 years old.
	I'm from Canada.
	All right.
	Are you in school right now?
	Yes.
	What are you studying?
	Engineering.
	What kind?
	Mechanical engineering.
	Mechanical engineering.
	Okay.
	And you're going into your second year, third year?
	Second.
	Second.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	All right.
	Oh, we have a couple chats coming through.
	We'll get to those.
	Then we'll get into the relationship status.
	We have Desert George Jorge.
	Desert Johnson.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
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	Be kind.
	He really wants to help everyone learn something.
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	Yo, Desert Jorge.
	Thank you for that TTS man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	All right, guys.
	We're going to go around the table once more.
	What is everyone's current relationship status?
	If you're single, how long have you been single?
	And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
	I am currently single.
	My longest relationship was probably about four years.
	And what was the next question?
	How long have you been single?
	About two years.
	And longest relationship, four years.
	Okay.
	Is that the one that ended two years ago?
	The four-year?
	Okay.
	Who broke up with who?
	I broke up with him.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Sorry.
	I've been single for like two weeks now.
	Okay.
	My longest relationship was like just under two years.
	Is that the one that ended two weeks ago?
	No.
	Okay.
	The one that ended two weeks ago, how long were you seeing that person?
	Just over the summer, really.
	We just decided that we were going to be together until we each were like parting ways.
	Because long distance is not.
	Long distance, no.
	That's what I was saying.
	Okay.
	So you guys.
	What, two months, three months?
	Yeah, probably like three months, maybe?
	And so it was kind of pre-planned that you guys were gonna start with the best.
	Like, yeah, yeah.
	Yeah.
	So there wasn't a breakup?
	No, not really.
	It was just like later.
	It wasn't really like, all right, later, but it was definitely like, bye.
	And this is in your where you live at home?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Did he go off to college too or is he staying?
	Yeah, so he's older than I, he's a year older.
	He goes to school like on the East Coast, and he was just going back, and I'm going.
	Are you guys going to try to meet up like during holidays, like Thanksgiving?
	Christmas?
	No.
	Guys, this isn't.
	No, she's not.
	She's not going to do it.
	We'll see you.
	That's my complicated question.
	I mean, but did things end badly?
	No, things didn't end bad.
	No, they did not.
	They did not.
	No, they did not end badly.
	Someone I know.
	What happened?
	Yeah, so what happened?
	No, don't.
	I'm not going to go into detail.
	She cheated on him.
	No, I didn't cheat on him.
	What do you think?
	No.
	You stole his cat?
	No, literally nothing went wrong.
	I was just like, okay, I'm really busy.
	Like, stop reaching out.
	And he kept reaching out.
	He disrespected her boundaries.
	And he's not secure.
	That's not what happened.
	And that's basically.
	That's not what happened.
	He's a guy.
	He's a really good guy.
	Shout out.
	No.
	Shout out.
	If you're watching, no hard feelings.
	We're good.
	That's it.
	That's cute.
	Shut the fuck up.
	That's cute.
	This shit ain't cute.
	It is.
	All right.
	Good times.
	That's so good.
	Going to the two-year relationship that you had, though.
	Who broke up with who?
	For that one?
	We say now that it was a mutual thing, but I broke up with him.
	Good times.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	All right.
	any reason why or just it was just not We were just kids.
	Like, it just.
	Yeah, it was like, just wasn't working.
	Normal reasons.
	What about you?
	I'm currently single.
	My last relationship was, I think, a little barely under a year ago.
	And my longest relationship was two years total, but off and on.
	Is that the one that ended a year ago?
	No.
	That was my first boyfriend.
	How many times was the two-year one off and on?
	Like three times.
	Three times.
	Who would what was the breakdown for each of those times?
	Who ended things?
	I've never been broken up with.
	So you would end things with him?
	Yes.
	And then who would reach back out?
	Kind of just like both, I guess.
	Like split.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Like, yeah.
	All right.
	What were the reasons for it going off?
	Basically, when we dated, he was two years older than me, and I was only like 14 when we started dating.
	And he was like just barely 16.
	And I don't know, I guess I was just going through like kind of a rough patch in my life.
	And he didn't know how to like, what's the word?
	Cater to that, if that makes sense.
	So it was like on me because I wasn't like probably in the best situation to be in a relationship.
	So it was like no one's fault.
	Like I don't have anything against him, but it's just not working.
	Gotcha.
	And then the most recent one, you said it ended a year ago.
	Yes.
	How long were you seeing that guy?
	Probably like under a year.
	Okay.
	Who broke up with who?
	Me.
	You?
	Okay.
	Any reason?
	He's crazy.
	What was crazy?
	He just, he was just a very jealous person, I think.
	That was it.
	Because we were in the same friend group, this massive friend group, and we all went out together.
	Like, whenever we went to like parties, like hangouts or anything.
	And like, I don't know, I guess like even like speaking to like a guy friend, he'd get mad at me.
	We just fought a lot.
	I'm also at fault.
	Just didn't work.
	What's what's like one, two, or three things that you feel you think you did wrong?
	I think that I had poor communication because I would get angry and then instead of being like, hey, I'm mad at you, I would just be like, you know, like attitude.
	And that started fights and stuff.
	I think that I definitely could have been better with raising my voice sometimes.
	So would you yell at him?
	We'd yell at each other.
	But, like, yeah, like, I shouldn't, it doesn't matter.
	But when you say yell, what level of, because there's, there's degrees to that.
	Not, like, vocal fry screaming, but, like, raising my voice, like.
	Raised voice.
	Like interrupting each other.
	Because like we had completely different standpoints.
	What was the biggest blow up that you guys had?
	Oh my god.
	Like what was it over?
	So basically the biggest blow up, I have to like remember the specifics, but it was his birthday and he was like having people over at his house for like a party.
	And then he got like really drunk and like towards the end of the night he was like, oh like I'm gonna drive my, like some of the rest of our friends home.
	And I was like, no, you're not, like you're drunk.
	And I wasn't and so I was like, I can drive.
	And then he was like, okay.
	And he gave me his keys and I drove our friends and he came.
	And then after I had dropped off the second friend, he like wakes up and he was like, why the fuck are you driving my car right now?
	And I was like, what?
	And he was like, you have no right to be driving my car using my gas.
	I was like, what is wrong with you?
	And that turned into like a huge fight.
	Got it.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So you've been single for a year.
	You said that when you were 14, you had a rough patch.
	What was the rough patch?
	I was just...
	Grown the pants.
	Huh?
	Grown pins.
	Yeah, for sure.
	I mean, I was just like, there was just a lot of things that I was like finding out in that time.
	And like school was really hard for me.
	High school has always been absolute torture for me.
	Except for my last one, because I went to six of them.
	You went to six different schools?
	Six different high schools.
	Why is that?
	Because my stepdad's in the Marine Corps.
	Oh, he's in the military?
	Yes.
	And then also my mom just like often changes where she wants to live.
	For work or just like?
	Be like, oh, I want to live on the beach.
	Let me move.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So yeah, I went to a bunch of different high schools.
	But yeah, like 14 to 16 was just like rough for me.
	Gotcha.
	Like, I feel like that's normal, though.
	Like, the emo phase.
	Sure.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I'm single.
	I've been single for a month now.
	And my longest relationship was with my first boyfriend and it was like almost three years.
	Almost three years?
	Okay.
	But a month ago, you just got out of something.
	How long was that relationship?
	That was a three-year one.
	Oh, that was the three-year one.
	Gotcha.
	Who broke up with who?
	It was mutual.
	He wanted it more than I did.
	The relationship?
	No, he wanted to break up more.
	Oh, he wanted to break up more.
	I see.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Did you also kind of want to break up or?
	No.
	Oh, you wanted to stay?
	Yeah.
	Damn.
	Okay, three years.
	It's only been a month.
	Yeah.
	That's pretty fresh.
	That's pretty fresh.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I wanted to do the distance, but he did not.
	You wanted to do long distance?
	It's only a four-hour drive, so.
	Back in SF or the Bay or yeah.
	Not even bad.
	Because a lot of people, was he also your age?
	No, he's a senior in high school.
	Wait, he's younger than me.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Your first problem over here.
	Um, so I see okay, so you were going off to college, was that part of it?
	Like you're leaving, so I don't?
	I guess he, I like kept asking him, like like in the middle of school like okay, like we're in your distance right, and he'd be like yeah like yeah, like I only want you, like we're in your distance.
	And then, like a month before I like was like before, like I left, he was like oh, like I don't know if I want to do it anymore, and I was like you just told me you did, so I believed it, and then you changed your mind about it.
	All right yeah okay yeah, I mean uh that's, it is pretty common people uh, when they go off to college, oftentimes relationships even longer relationships like yours people opt to, you know, they want the college experience.
	They opt to break up everything.
	Okay there, what i've never seen, glass virgins grass, glass versions, glass versions of the cubs.
	Oh right okay, oh wait, I just realized the plastic version, a paper version.
	Yeah we, all of the above we yeah, you're star.
	Diversity yeah, diversity and inclusion right inclusion yes exactly equity yeah, whatever podcast, you very modern big ladies matter.
	There you go.
	Um, what about you?
	Um, i've been single for seven months now.
	Okay I, my longest relationship was probably like a year and a half-ish.
	Was it on again, off again?
	Yeah okay, how many times off?
	Three, three.
	Who would initiate um me?
	Who would initiate to get back mutual mutual okay well, what were the reasons for the off?
	Um, the first time he cheated on me?
	Um, good times, that guy uh, this is a funny story.
	I was at my sister's wedding it was two days before my birthday and I told him I loved him and he cheated on me that night.
	Oh hell.
	yeah And um, then the second time he thought I cheated on him, did you?
	No, okay.
	And then the third time he really pissed me off.
	So I gave him a letter and made him read it in front of me and told him he couldn't speak until he finished reading it and that was it.
	Do you have a copy of the letter?
	Probably, like it was it.
	It was a handwritten letter, but I took a picture.
	You have a picture.
	Probably can we read that you can like.
	You can like if I can find it.
	Yeah, can we get her a phone?
	Why not get her the phone?
	If I can find it, i'll read it.
	Let's go.
	It's a maroon case and it has like edges, like yes, and if you, you can omit, like if it says his name in it or whatever, just omit it.
	Um, while you're getting that, what's your relationship status?
	Um, i'm in a relationship okay, how long have you been in that?
	Uh, almost year now, all right.
	One year.
	Longest relationship uh, like close to five, like four or five years.
	Ever married?
	No, ever engaged?
	No, any kids?
	Yes, I have one.
	One kid.
	Is that from the five-year relationship?
	No, I had my son when I was 19 and his father died.
	So sorry, died of what?
	Uh mrs, he had a staph infection.
	Oh, how did he get it?
	So he had got um surgery in his eye at the hospital because he got glass in it and then he died two days later from a staph infection from the was it.
	Would you think it was from the hospital or from the glass getting in his eye?
	Um, so I started to like kind of look and do some research and one of the main places that people get staph infections and merca is actually from hospitals.
	So i'm so sorry, but I was like so young so I didn't even think about like malpractice or wrongful death or things like that.
	So um, but my son's 11 now.
	So oh, how's he doing he?
	He's great, it's actually.
	It's been very interesting.
	My son actually had a stroke two years ago too.
	Oh, my goodness, at nine, your son had a stroke.
	Yeah, he had a brain aneurysm at Avm.
	Oh holy.
	So i've had a very interesting uh, life very interesting, wow.
	I guess the lesson is, don't go to the hospital, never go to the hospital.
	You got glass in your eye.
	You gotta lose the eye on it.
	That's crazy, though.
	Sorry to hear about that.
	It's okay um okay, son 11 uh, and then you've been in the one-year relationship.
	Wait, the five-year relationship.
	How long had you been dating the guy uh, who had your son, or you had who you had your son with?
	So I, I actually, so I was like 18 19, he was like 22 or something like that and I was dating him for like two months before I ended up getting pregnant.
	Okay, so pretty early on yeah yeah, and then we uh, and then we were like on and off and very toxic up until he died.
	Honestly damn, it's like you know funny uh, what is it?
	A trauma humor?
	It's like not funny, but humor makes it better to deal with.
	That's how you cope.
	Yeah, all right uh, what about you?
	Or actually, really quick, do you have?
	Do you have?
	I'm getting there.
	I'm gonna go to my notes app.
	There's a lot in there.
	I hold up the notes app.
	I'm currently single.
	I've been single for like four years, on and off, dating my longest relationship, probably a year and a half.
	All right, what's your uh?
	I saw you showed me your dating app profile before.
	What's your orientation?
	Um so, it's kind of weird.
	I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I am with women, but I do like men emotionally, and that's why my last, my last relationship was with a man and he broke up with me because um, I wasn't physically attracted to him in that way.
	Um, so I don't really.
	I think i'm more homosexual, just because the sexuality of it but um, I guess you would say dimmy um emotional, um connection.
	Uh the, your longest relationship, the one and a half year one, was that with a man or a woman.
	It was with a man with men, okay.
	Uh, have you had a long-term relationship with any women?
	No, okay.
	And so you said you're not sexually attracted to men correct, I see okay, you're sexually attracted to women, but you is it.
	You said you prefer the relationship component with the man.
	Well, i'll put it this way, I have a lot of guy friends, only because for me it's easier to get along with them um, they're a little more laid back um, they don't really cause drama.
	Um however, I am physically and emotionally and all that, attracted to women.
	Um, If I could, I think that's probably why I struggle with dating, only because I really don't know where I stand.
	So, but I do enjoy the company of whoever is around me, I guess.
	By the way, are your glasses prescription?
	Yes, they are.
	Okay, all right.
	What's the correction level?
	Is it bad?
	It's really bad.
	All right, Sina, what about you?
	I've been single.
	Well, I'm single right now.
	I've been single for about two years, and my longest was about two years.
	All right, longest two years.
	Who broke up with who?
	I broke up with him.
	All right.
	Rock and roll.
	Do you have it?
	I cannot read it.
	You found it.
	Come on.
	You just don't want to read it.
	I can tell you the gist of it.
	Yeah, sure.
	We can do that.
	Also, why don't we pass the phone down that way and they can retake it?
	All right, go ahead.
	So essentially, he would get mad at me a lot.
	Like every single day, examples.
	I would be taking a nap and he would say, Solo, I can't fucking do this right now.
	I can't do this with you anymore.
	You're not answering me.
	And I would be like, bro, it literally took a nap.
	And another time I was updating my phone and my Life360 turned off because I was updating my phone.
	And he texted me after, like, I saw after it updated.
	And he was like, I can't fucking do this.
	You're cheating on me.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	And I was like, I literally have been home watching a movie with my mommy.
	And I don't know what to tell you.
	He was just really insecure.
	And I told him that.
	And I told him I didn't like that.
	And he also really liked to be right a lot all the time.
	He was always right.
	And that pissed me off really bad.
	So those were the things he did bad in terms of the letter that you had him write.
	Or sorry.
	Oh, I read it.
	Excuse me.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Oh, yeah, yeah.
	So how long, like, how long did it actually read it?
	He actually read it.
	It took him about seven minutes.
	Did he read it out loud?
	Like Dr. Seuss, or was it in his brain?
	It was in his brain because he was crying.
	So he had to.
	He was crying while reading the letter.
	Yeah.
	I hope he's a song.
	Wow.
	Cool.
	Can I interject that he's also like not cute enough to be acting this way?
	Not cute enough?
	Yeah.
	He's not anything.
	How tall is he?
	Oh, wait, no, that's not the one you know.
	Oh, it's the dick.
	There's been multiple letters.
	Yeah.
	That's how I break up with these people.
	You give them a letter.
	I handwrite them a letter and I give it to him.
	Wow.
	Damn.
	Have you done the letter thing?
	Twice, but.
	Okay.
	That's going to be your go-to movie.
	Yeah, I kind of like that.
	Yeah, I really like it.
	I like jotting that down.
	Because then they won't interrupt you.
	And you get to get all your thoughts out.
	You're not overstimulated or anything.
	And they can keep it if they're really butthurt.
	That's smart.
	What's those things called where somebody goes to your, you can hire a service and then they can deliver a message.
	Like a hitman?
	Like a telegram?
	What is that called?
	Like a hitman?
	Yes, a hitman.
	Like a server?
	Like where they serve.
	No, no, it's a messenger.
	Like a pigeon?
	But they'll read it.
	A scroll?
	Oh, a scribe.
	No, scribe.
	Like a telegram.
	It would be a scroll.
	Is it a telegram?
	I think it's a telegram.
	I think you should step it up to the telegram instead.
	Yeah, have them say a song.
	But then you don't get to watch the pain and fear in their eyes.
	I actually think you're going to break up via pigeon.
	I sent one of my friends to do it.
	Oh, yeah.
	You guys guys just one at a time.
	It's okay.
	Oh, what?
	Oops.
	I'm really confused.
	You were talking?
	Oh, yeah.
	I almost sent one of my friends well, for my last boyfriend, not the one that I just told you about, but my last boyfriend.
	I was like hey, like can we hang out?
	And this was before we broke up and he was completely avoiding me and I was literally just gonna show up to his house and hand his mom the letter, because he's such a mommy's boy clocking.
	Wow okay, all right, I got so much of that one sec.
	Guys, we have a chat coming through here.
	Sorry for the delay on this, just a couple minute delay.
	We have mr. Nobody.
	Thank you for the TTS.
	Oh my gosh, Mr. Nobody donated $200.
	Lexi Lovelace, when you walk in, do guys fall for you, or do they just trip over their own pickup lines?
	They can, for law, fumble all they want.
	I just know I'm lucky enough to say you've got my heart.
	Thank you, mr. Nobody.
	I appreciate you so much.
	Uh, we have a rule, if you send in a simpish TTS, you have to send in another one as an apology for simping.
	So, mr. Nobody, you need to, and we'll you know.
	If you want to do champagne pop will accept that too.
	We'll dedicate it to Lexi here, your crush, I guess.
	Do you know this guy in person, or is he?
	He's a a retweet guy, a reply guy on these socials.
	Okay, he shares a lot of love with me and your love never goes unnoticed.
	So, thank you, all right.
	Rock and roll, rock and roll, all right.
	Uh, we're gonna get into the uh show notes.
	So here's what we're gonna do.
	Actually, you know what?
	Hold on one sec.
	We have smoothies.
	They're coming right.
	I was just about to say all right.
	This next segment is called introducing a new one here, red flag, green flag.
	Oh, i'm gonna read to you 10 different things and you're gonna we're gonna go around the table one by one, or you know what.
	Maybe should we do a hand raise simultaneously.
	Yeah, I think we'll just do hand raise simultaneously.
	Felicity, all right.
	So raise your hand.
	Raise your hand if you think the following is a red flag.
	So if you don't raise your hand, I I guess that's either neutral or green flag.
	He's 30 and still lives with his parents.
	Raise your hand if it's a red flag.
	No, you're fine.
	You're fine with it.
	I'm okay with it.
	Okay actually, you're fine.
	I think it depends.
	Depends on the situation.
	I have red flag, red flag, okay.
	He has no instagram at all.
	Red flag or green flag, green flag, okay.
	No instagram either.
	I don't think it matters.
	I don't think that has any relevance.
	I love a man that has no instagram, right?
	The first, the first question, did you mean like who he's following?
	Is that what you admit?
	For the first question, you said I think he meant living with Living.
	No, he has no instagram.
	We have this coming in.
	Oh whoops, I can just call it donating $200.
	You messed that up.
	Fit check.
	My sprinkler goes like this.
	Nice.
	going comes back like this uh thank you mike lit Appreciate it.
	He asked for the fit check.
	I guess we could do that super quick.
	We have another one coming in.
	Pasty George donated simultaneous.
	I guess we just do simultaneous fit check.
	Don't be a pathetic sim.
	Yep, pay the sim tax.
	Well done, Pasty George.
	Thank you for calling him out.
	Pay the sim tax.
	You got to send in another TTS.
	That's what it is.
	Mike, it's one of those names.
	Okay.
	We'll do a fit check simultaneous.
	If everybody just wants to stand up, show the fit.
	All right.
	Fit incoming.
	There it is.
	Fit.
	Fit incoming.
	There's the fit.
	Wow.
	Great fit.
	Amazing.
	Best I've ever seen.
	Anybody want to do like a spin?
	Everybody do a spin.
	I don't think I have room.
	No room to spin.
	Okay.
	I have room to spin.
	All right.
	No spinning room.
	There you go.
	Mike.
	Underscore lit.
	Thank you for that.
	Appreciate it.
	And then we have Aria.
	Looks like you bought a piece of merch.
	Whoops, I messed that up.
	Hold on.
	Let's see if this comes through.
	Aria, I think for the purchase there of a looks like you got a t-shirt on the merch shop, shoptawatever.com.
	Thank you.
	If you guys want to get yourself one, feel free to go to shop.whatever.com, get yourself a t-shirt.
	All right, back to the red flag, green flag.
	Okay.
	He asks to split the bill on the first date.
	Raise your hands if that's a red flag.
	Can I stand up?
	Yeah, go ahead.
	Stand up again.
	She's doing a second fit check.
	Boom.
	That's how big.
	That's how big I think it is.
	Watch out.
	Elon Musk got in trouble for doing that.
	I'm just kidding.
	Okay.
	Whoa.
	Oh, man.
	All right.
	Next one.
	He owns a podcast.
	I have a podcast.
	Yeah, he has a podcast.
	I love Gary Breca.
	I think you're a little bit too much of like a little drama.
	Like if you own a pod queen.
	You're too much of a drama queen.
	You're a drama queen.
	Okay.
	I think it depends on what the podcast is.
	There you have it, folks.
	He's a gym rat and posts shirtless pics daily.
	Red flag?
	Yeah.
	For me.
	Like, or for real.
	Red flag.
	For you.
	Every single day is extensive.
	It's excessive, I mean.
	Yeah.
	It's run on why.
	I'll see you.
	Yeah, send them to me.
	Don't like that.
	Why?
	It kind of grosses me out when they send them to me.
	I'm kind of like, oh, I can see you making this like face.
	And also, like, imagining them, like, taking the picture and just like, especially, you know, when they like roll up their shorts and like they like flex their thighs and you're just like, I would rather die than ever see this photo ever again.
	Like, okay.
	We're going to rapid fire the rest.
	He uses Snapchat.
	Red flag?
	Uses Snapchat.
	Depends on the age.
	Yeah.
	Red flag.
	The age of the guy that you would dig.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	He claps when the plane lands.
	That's kind of cute.
	That's good.
	They're like funny.
	I don't know.
	All right.
	He uses way too many emojis.
	I like that.
	That's nice.
	Never enough emojis.
	I mean, this is sort of targeted towards you guys, but if a girl uses too many emojis, red flag.
	Huge red flag.
	Why?
	You've never, like, when it's in between words, like, it's.
	Oh, that's weird.
	You have to put that in.
	Emoji, words, emoji, words, emoji, words.
	That person is crazy.
	Trust me.
	Something's not right there.
	Why you do that shit, Cena?
	I bet you don't.
	Right.
	Cena does that shit.
	it's a red flag massive red flag Let's see.
	He says, I don't believe in therapy.
	Oh my God.
	Is that a red flag?
	Red flag.
	Red flag.
	She's.
	I don't think that's a red flag.
	Not a red flag.
	I mean, like, when you say don't believe in therapy, do you mean like don't believe in resolving your issues or don't believe in needing someone else to resolve your issues?
	Probably that one.
	The second one?
	Because I personally don't like agree with therapy.
	Personally, not as a whole.
	I think it's great for everyone.
	But like, I wouldn't.
	Psychiatrist, future psychiatrist.
	Think about that.
	I totally respect that.
	Yeah.
	I 100%.
	That's just a personality.
	No, that's a personal preference.
	I think that there is a type of something that can be useful to everyone, but that doesn't mean like sitting in a room and talking to a therapist all the time.
	Yeah.
	You know, I think it's silly to say that it's for everyone.
	Can I say something?
	Yeah, go ahead.
	I feel like if I feel like if you're constantly going through a pattern in life where you're running into the same issues time after time after time again, and you yourself are like talking to friends or family and you're like,
	this is going on in my life and everything sucks and is so shitty, I feel like then that could be a good tool to have a professional step in and like voice your thoughts and your opinions to a professional versus voicing those thoughts to like a friend or a family because sometimes you need somebody else to kind of like call you out for that pattern and that behavior.
	You know what I mean?
	So sometimes it can help somebody and sometimes it won't.
	It's just depending on where you are within yourself to seek that help or that guidance from others, you know?
	Can I interject?
	Go ahead.
	I think men who don't go to therapy have a lot of inner stress, a lot of anger, and a lot of things that can resolve because society tells them that no man can talk about it.
	And that's why a lot of men end up in jail.
	That's why most men end up addicts.
	That's why most men are.
	It's because society is telling them you don't need to go see a therapist.
	It is bad.
	Right.
	I don't think men are ending up in jail because of their lack of going to therapy.
	Well, that's not what I'm saying.
	What I'm saying is anger.
	That's the only anger they express because that's the only anger that society seems as necessary for them to feel.
	I'm not saying lack of therapy will resort in jail or prison time, but I'm saying it could definitely help them keep them out of it.
	Wait, do you genuinely think that, like, would you agree that the cohort of people that go to prison or jail, do you think they have the socioeconomics to be able to afford therapy?
	No.
	No, probably not.
	Like, typically, people in prison and jail don't are really low in terms of socioeconomic class.
	They don't have the resources to go to therapy.
	That's the problem.
	And one other thing I want to mention: I agree with what you're saying because it's like in society, we've built these walls up for men not to be able to seek those resources and hope.
	And so, as a society, how I think that we can help that is being able to hold space for the men that do suffer with severe mental health issues or problems so that we can kind of counteract that stigma of, hey, mental health sucks.
	You should be a man.
	Suck it up.
	And actually seek that help with somebody that's trusted in a safe environment for them to be able to share that.
	Yeah, plus men being able to talk about how they feel is actually a more powerful thing.
	Like being vulnerable is a good thing.
	I was going to say I think this, Brian.
	Get in tune with your emotions, Brian.
	I think a man.
	If a man can come to me and tell me how he feels in general or to me, that to me is like the strongest thing you can do.
	Well, let me tell you.
	Let's test this out though.
	First date, the guy comes to me.
	That's different.
	Listen, that's different.
	You don't cry to a girlfriend that you meet.
	Like, I didn't meet solo and start crying.
	That would be emotionally vulnerable.
	That would be funny.
	Yeah, but I'm going to say, so like, hold on one second.
	So if you're coming to me as a partner and you're like, on the first date, you're getting a little too vulnerable, I'd be like, that's too soon.
	Just like me and you and with anybody at this table to trauma dump anything on you guys, it would be way too soon.
	But if you're in a relationship with somebody and you want to build that authentic connection where you're able to like hold that space and create vulnerability with your partner in longevity, you know what I mean?
	Yes, you don't have to be at a restaurant and be like, oh my God, crying and like letting all those emotions out.
	But when you're able to express your emotions in a positive way, just simply communicating just like this to your partner, that's different.
	You know what I mean?
	Being able to talk to your partner and be vulnerable and be like, hey, I don't like this.
	I don't agree with this.
	This makes me feel some type of way versus being like crying or screaming.
	Because when you start to bring in those negative emotions, that's when that's not cute.
	And it's like, well, when we're talking about vulnerability, so you're just saying the guy has a base level of problem solving.
	I think in communication.
	I guess you guys will have to specify what you mean when you say men should be vulnerable.
	Emotional intelligence.
	What does that mean, though?
	What is emotional intelligence?
	It means to be able to regulate your emotions, talk about it.
	Yes.
	Be able to communicate and share.
	What's an example?
	Give me an example.
	Being emotionally regulated means being able to, A, identify the emotion that you're having.
	Once you identify the emotion that you're having, you can B, start to say, okay, how does this emotion resonate with me and how I'm feeling?
	Where do I feel this emotion?
	That would be three.
	Where do I feel this emotion inside my body?
	And how can I actively process that and vocalize that to the group of people that I'm speaking with instead of being like, hey, I'm pissed off, I'm upset.
	Because as soon as you're activated and your amygdala is activated, you can't calm down and relax yourself.
	So if you're able to recognize a pattern within yourself of being like, hey, this person said something to me, you upset me.
	I don't agree with what you said.
	And you're able to analyze that and be like, well, why would that trigger me?
	And, you know, go within and seek within.
	You can get a lot of answers for that.
	I'm going to respond in just a moment, but Mr. Nobody has paid the sim tax.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Mr. Nobody donated $200.
	All right, Lexi.
	I'll admit it.I have been simping.
	But don't worry, I paid the sim tax.
	Compliments up front, loyalty in full, and maybe a coffee.
	So yeah, call it simp energy, but it's all invested in you.
	Thank you.
	You guys are so sweet.
	Thank you for supporting me.
	All right, cool.
	Thank you, Mr. Nobody, for the TTS.
	Well, I think what you're describing is just healthy communication styles.
	I guess I'm looking for an example of a scenario in which a man would be hesitant to be vulnerable, but he should be vulnerable.
	Go ahead.
	During funerals, A lot of men, well, not a lot, but well, I guess I'd say a lot, do like kind of don't show emotions during time of death and grieving and grieving.
	Both my brothers, for example, you know, it's just men always say, I have to be strong for my family, but what's wrong with that, though?
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	Nothing at all.
	But what I'm saying is, sometimes it's okay to let go because if it's the other way around, let's say it's like the man's mom or dad, you know, and we woman has to be there to comfort them.
	It is okay to not be okay.
	And that goes for all sexes.
	It doesn't just apply to women, it doesn't apply to men.
	Women shouldn't be so emotional, and men shouldn't be so emotionless.
	And it's really the idea of it.
	Balance.
	Exactly.
	Well, I think you're using a very easy example there.
	I don't think even other men would find fault in somebody having a moment of vulnerability or even crying in a funeral.
	Although I would say it depends who, if your parents or something, I think that's totally justified for a man to cry under those circumstances.
	What kind of funeral are we talking about here, though?
	Like, who's what's the distinction when it comes to who's the relative?
	The mother of the boyfriend or the mother, I mean, the father of the boyfriend, just somebody on your spouse's family.
	Like, some people aren't close to their in-laws.
	Yeah, I'm totally fine if a man wants to cry because his mom or dad died, that seems justifiable.
	What I'm saying after the fact, though, you know, some men, you know, okay, yeah, the funeral's over, burial's over, but then after the fact, grieving is a long process.
	There's like 10 stages of it.
	And sometimes men don't, that's why going to therapy would be beneficial in this case, because to help them through the grieving process instead of just having one emotion, which is I'm angry at the world, I hate God, or so, so what, so forth.
	I mean, I work with men and women all day, and men go in there and say, I've never, I've never got the chance to grieve it because I just, and that's why they're in my rehab center.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So there's a lot of things that, I mean, essay abuse and things like that that happen in young boys and they never, they never, they're too afraid to come out and share what happened to them.
	And that's why they end up, you know, where they end up without the help of therapy or a counselor or somebody, just support in that level.
	Well, I think there are practical applications to therapy for specific things.
	If you're actually going to overcome a specific childhood trauma, or perhaps you're dealing with like anxiety or panic attacks, something like this.
	But sort of a generalized malaise, I don't think is, especially for men, is effectively treated through therapy.
	I think there's actually far better mechanisms for, you know, if you're just sort of vaguely unhappy, vaguely dissatisfied, vaguely slightly depressed.
	I don't really think therapy, especially for men, is helpful.
	So can I say something?
	I think that you're speaking for like 4 billion people right now.
	Yeah, I'm speaking in general.
	I suppose there are some men who can talk about their do talk therapy and it can help.
	But generally speaking, I don't think, and I think statistics show this when they've pulled people who are involved in therapy, talk therapy is not particularly effective, especially for men.
	Now, if you're trying to combat a specific thing, then yes, but I mean, I can give you my own anecdotal experience.
	And this is more so like when I've ever talked about an issue with like a parent or something, there's something that's bothering me.
	Oftentimes I find talking about it just makes me more frustrated.
	And I'd rather, and oftentimes I've, in situations where I don't talk about it, a day, two days later, I've already forgotten about the thing that was upsetting me.
	I find it's just much more easy to just be like, is this really going to be an issue in a day or two?
	Does that apply when the thing that made you upset is like another person who would like to talk about it?
	What do you mean?
	I mean, like, you're saying that instead of addressing the issue, you'd rather just like let it fade away from your brain?
	Well, so if there's an interpersonal issue that needs to be resolved.
	Oh, okay.
	So that's what I mean.
	Yeah, I wouldn't stonewall a girlfriend in a relationship.
	But if it's like more on an individual level, something's upsetting me or whatever.
	I find it far more effective.
	Like, you know, I recall when I was a bit younger, my parents would be like, what's going on, Brian?
	You want to talk about it?
	And sometimes I would engage there and I would just be ruminating while having the conversation about it.
	And I'd just, it'd almost be like reliving the thing that made me upset.
	And it would just get me upset.
	And then there'd be other times where they'd be like, hey, you want to talk about it and be like, no, I'm good.
	I just need a, I just need some time alone.
	And that was way better than just getting my parents all stressed out.
	Oh my God, he's upset, blah, blah, blah.
	It's way better for me to just go and deal with and just be like, eh, whatever.
	But the other, really quick, and I'll let you make your point.
	I think the other thing is people claim to be depressed or whatever dealing with something.
	I think a lot of time that's because their life circumstances aren't in check.
	And going to therapy, wasting your time in therapy for your life circumstances, you're not going to really have an improvement in said life circumstances by talking to a therapist.
	But you can like recognize that by talking to a therapist.
	Well, for example, another way.
	I think as a man, go get in really good shape.
	You're on to something.
	Hold on.
	As a man, go whatever, like, look, there's serious issues that I think seeing a professional is absolutely warranted.
	But if you're, again, vaguely unhappy, vaguely depressed, go to the gym, cut out the drugs, the alcohol, eat healthy, get money.
	And then if do those things, get those things.
	And then if you're still depressed afterwards, you've achieved the things you want to achieve, then maybe consider going to a therapist.
	Yeah.
	But if you're just like eating like shit and you're just, you know, whatever, not in good shape.
	Smoking all day.
	You're doing drugs and drinking and, you know, your sleep's all fucked up.
	No, definitely like correct your personal choices before you spend money.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So you're statistically proven your body wants to go through whatever trauma, whatever negative emotion you have for 90 seconds.
	So after you've processed it, so it's going back to what you were saying about how you were talking about it and then you want it to stop, like you feel worse when you keep bringing it up.
	Well, it's because your body processed it for 90 seconds and wants to get rid of that.
	So it's like you talk about it, you've talked about it for 90 seconds, and then your body automatically wants to return back to homostasis.
	So like if you're able to do that.
	Are you saying these conversations are 90 seconds?
	Anytime I've ever had like a let's talk about our feelings conversation, I'm saying it's been like body mechanically long congos inside your body.
	I don't care what the conversation with or who it is, your body naturally wants to get whatever was dysregulating your system.
	It wants to process it for 90 seconds and then go back to homostasis where you're regulable.
	Right.
	So if you continue to press the issue after 90 seconds and you're like, of course it's going to heighten your senses because it's like your body is trying to get back.
	If that was the case, why aren't therapy sessions only third or excuse me 90 seconds?
	I don't know.
	So what I was saying is, if you're not open to the idea of doing therapy, something that could be beneficial is lifestyle coaching because we're not here to fix, save, or rescue you from any of your problems, but we are here to integrate healthy lifestyle modalities into your life to be able to process those things.
	So like you mentioned, physical activity, breath work, sunlight, eating clean, all those things.
	Oh no, go ahead.
	I was just going to agree with you.
	No, yeah.
	And so that's why I've decided to be in the integrative healing arts therapy because it's like, that's what you're saying.
	You can do all these things, like get light, eat clean, and improve your mental health versus getting help from a therapist.
	You know what I mean?
	And these life coaches are just here to guide you.
	They don't necessarily tell you what to do or they make plans for you to kind of like what you want to work on and tailor that to that.
	You know what I mean?
	So.
	I have a response, but first we're going to let some chats come in.
	GMD Jim donated $200.
	Stop being our slurred.
	There is no intelligence in emotions.
	It is just the opposite.
	Men.
	Do not let 304s manipulate you into being weak and pathetic.
	Be stoic.
	Be a man, not a woman.
	Jim, thank you for the TTS.
	Lexi, can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?
	No, just to the edge of the table.
	Yo, Jim, thank you for the TTS, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Look, I do think there is a lot of value when it comes to being stoic.
	And then I do kind of want to quickly get back into, though, this idea of being vulnerable, especially in front of a girlfriend.
	I don't think it's a good idea.
	Don't think it's a good idea.
	Now, sometimes it's inevitable, but I do think it is the case that oftentimes women lose attraction for their partner when the man is vulnerable.
	I think it depends on the level.
	That's a line.
	That's for immature women.
	If you're, even as a woman, if you can't handle just hearing a man's point of thought, that's like a you thing.
	Like, you've got to at least be open to hearing your partner out.
	Well, I think even a very emotionally intelligent woman might run into something that just innately, regardless of your level of intelligence or IQ or EQ, you're going to witness a level of vulnerability in your partner that will give you the ick.
	If you're not able to manage it.
	Let me give you an example here.
	I, maybe I should, how do I preface this?
	Has anybody here been dating a guy and he got beat up?
	Like in a fight?
	Yeah.
	Oh my God.
	I would have to.
	Have to what?
	Say it.
	Say it.
	No, I thought about it and then I changed my mind.
	Well, your knee-jerk reaction was just even picturing it in your head.
	It sounds like you're going to say break up with the guy.
	What is his idiot self doing that got him beat up?
	Like, don't start a fight there.
	Maybe he didn't start it.
	Okay, well, if it is just like he got jumped, like he got jumped by like random people, I would not be able to.
	Let's say it's a 1v1.
	Oh my God.
	But even in that circumstance.
	And he started the fight.
	Even in that circumstance, I do think that not all women, but some women will look at their boyfriend in this vulnerable state.
	Yeah, but that's a them problem.
	Not a problem that makes it so that men should act any certain way.
	Yes.
	That's a good thing.
	I would say women should err on the side of just keep that shit to yourself.
	That's the problem, though.
	I'm speaking about vulnerability.
	Generally, about vulnerability.
	If you want to like go whine to your girlfriend, like for example, I don't know about some of y'all, but I've, no, I love it.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I've gone through a lot of difficult things in my life, many difficult things.
	It's never, even a girl I've been with for a long period of time, it's never occurred to me to sit down, unless it comes up organically somehow in conversation, to be like, okay, here's all the bad things that have happened to me.
	If I care, but if I care about you as a person, I would want to know how your day is going, how you're sleeping, what's keeping you up at night, what, like, you know, because I want to know you as a person.
	So I could have the most terrible day ever.
	And if my girlfriend asks me about it, I'd just be like, hey, that was good.
	That's terrible.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	Are you single?
	Let's all apologize.
	Yeah, that's why you're singing.
	We're sorry.
	That's why you're single.
	How many relationships do you have?
	No, but I don't.
	Look, there's been a lot of stuff.
	I'm serious.
	No, that's a good idea.
	That's upsetting.
	No girl wants to be with you just to hear you.
	I want you on my lap.
	Tell me about your day.
	Right.
	I think that you're confusing just like trauma dumping your day and then communicating how you're feeling so that your partner can be aware of that.
	And just if you're coming home, sometimes you just want a hug or just to be quiet a little bit.
	We're going to let this come through.
	HT George donated $200.
	Thank you, man.
	In Canada, residential school survivors had no resources for mental health.
	There are finally resources today, but First Nations women do far better in therapy than First Nations men.
	So going back to my point here really quick.
	Pasty George, thank you for the TTS.
	Much appreciated, man.
	Thank you for the send.
	By the way, guys, reminder, super chats are busted, so you have to send it through Streamlabs.
	Streamlabs.com slash whatever.
	This comes back to the rumination thing.
	And to be clear, sometimes like if some bullshit is going on, whatever, I might, might relay it to the girl I'm dating.
	But overall, generally speaking, even if I have a shitty day or there's some bullshit I could relate to her, most of the time I'm just like, yeah, I'd rather not ruminate about it.
	I'd rather not have to explain it again.
	Isn't you saying that?
	Sir, I'm pretty sure that, oh wait, you go.
	I was going to say, isn't you letting her know that that enough is still expressing your feelings so that she can be aware that you had something happen that day, whether you want to talk about it or not, so that she can cater to that.
	And that's what, like...
	She should be always catering to that to begin with.
	But what do you talk about?
	What do you mean I agree with that?
	Wait, do you, but when you have a boyfriend, all you talk about is the bad stuff that happens?
	No, absolutely not.
	No, but it's important to know that.
	What do I talk about?
	All the stuff that I talk about that you wouldn't otherwise talk about that's not.
	Talk about all that stuff that you normally talk about, plus, hey, this thing happened at work today.
	If I'm a little grumpy or sad, here's a heads up.
	Here's why.
	Yeah, here's why.
	Or you walk in on me and you're like, hey, just by the way, I had a bad day.
	If I have an anticipation that like it's going to, I'm going to be upset when we're hanging out, then perhaps I might be like, oh, yeah, it's kind of like, you know, annoying.
	But that's still expressing your feelings.
	Right.
	Because if you're able to just do that point instead of being like, expressing your feelings doesn't have to be like sobbing on the floor.
	Right.
	So I guess.
	Like when I was eight years old.
	Like you can just be like, hey, had a kind of a rough day.
	Like I'd like wind down.
	Simple, sweet, straightforward.
	Oh, that's the default though.
	Wind down to the default.
	That's still expressing your feelings, though.
	Like, I think that you think us saying vulnerable and expressing your feelings in your head, I feel like you think that's a guy going up to a girl and being like, I'm done.
	I think it's also okay, even if like something bad happened, you can also make a determination of not even wanting to bring it up and just be like, yeah, I don't need to bring this up.
	Yeah, but especially if there's not a bad idea.
	Would we say something and provoke you and then would you get mad over it?
	Or would you just be like, okay, whatever.
	So one component that I think is important in dating and relationships is showing the other person grace.
	So I think that it's really, it can be really bad if you feel like you're walking on eggshells with somebody where every single like micro aggression or perceived slight, you need to be like, oh my God, like sometimes, I don't know, sometimes you can just let shit slide in a relationship, showing grace.
	I think it's important.
	But if it was a big thing, like some really big slight, then yeah, I'm probably going to have a conversation with her.
	But I also think it's okay to show your partner grace.
	Brian, you're also speaking about yourself, whereas a lot of men, and we're not talking about you, we're talking about also a lot of other men that come home and like slam doors and like in general, not like your emotional feeling towards them.
	Yeah, and like they come home with such like aggression because they don't want to be vulnerable and be like, shit, I had a bad day.
	Instead, they act out like that.
	And then whoever they're home with, their partner is like, oh, Shay, what's wrong?
	Oh, I don't deal with my problems like that.
	Well, you know, other people do that.
	It's just like, let's lay in bed and cuddle.
	I've never slammed a door.
	That's great.
	Can we get the plates?
	Two pizzas, two pizzas per plate.
	I just looked behind me and saw those smoothies.
	One paper towel, please, please.
	They're hiding the smoothies right now.
	What happens?
	What's up?
	I see our smoothie.
	Do we have the smoothies?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Do we have cups?
	Here, Felicity, I'm going to go back for a sec.
	Felicity is going to take over so you guys can just pretend she's me.
	Direct your animosity towards Felicity.
	I have to save it.
	What are we talking about?
	How men shouldn't express their feelings is what he said.
	I think that he was saying, I think that what he was saying was way too vague because he said, he just said fully, men shouldn't express their feelings.
	But then he's also saying that he would tell his wife or let his girlfriend know if he had a bad day in the case that it would affect his feelings.
	I don't know what communication is.
	It's literally just validation.
	I mean, but also like the one thing that was like, but I just want to take a moment to honor all you guys because you guys are all so smart and beautiful and lovely.
	Oh my God, we're right back at you.
	We honor you right back.
	I mean, I think there's no reason to like dive into things that don't matter that you don't want to talk about.
	Honestly, if your partner's upset, they should tell you, hey, I'm upset, something happened.
	They don't really have to tell you every little detail about it.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, but we never, like, that's what we're doing.
	It doesn't have to be super in-depth every time.
	It's okay.
	Like, to have weird energy and animosity towards them, like, you said someone said, slamming doors, that's not okay.
	Yeah.
	But, like, as a girlfriend, like, if I can visually see that, like, you're hurt and that, like, you're angry, like, I'd want to know.
	Like, you can't just move past that.
	Some men, they just like to be left alone.
	Well, then they should voice it.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I think that if they think voicing that you want to be left alone is terrible.
	That's expressing.
	That's still communicating.
	That's still communicating.
	Yeah, but some people, not even just men, really.
	Yeah, some people.
	I don't like to get into it, and that's totally fine.
	I'll tell my partner that I don't want to.
	Yeah, like I just need a little bit of time to process, level out.
	And then there are women that are like, will jump down people's men's throat and be like, sit down.
	You know those women that will chase a man after a man has been like, hey, I don't want to talk about this right now.
	Let's talk about it later.
	And then they follow them into the bedroom and then they follow them outside like that.
	Or women.
	It's like attachment styles also.
	Yeah.
	Or women who get irritated when their man is voicing that they had a bad day.
	I don't think that should always cause it.
	Like I said, it doesn't have to be super detailed every time.
	But I think just having that open back and forth communication can help people grow so much better.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I agree.
	I think when two people are together, it's a lot of compromising.
	And if one person is more avoidant than the other, you kind of have to work around it if you want to work out as a couple.
	Yeah, 100%.
	I will give an example.
	So if y'all ever heard of Chris Watts, right?
	The man who did what he did to his family.
	He was actually silent, didn't express to his wife how he was feeling.
	There was text messages of her texting other people.
	He's distant from me.
	He has not looked at me.
	He has not touched me.
	He's not telling me what's bothering him.
	And next thing you know, it built up to some tragedy.
	He would have just said, hey, I want a divorce.
	I'm not saying that's very rare circumstance, but it's because silence could be deemed as something they're doing with something like that.
	Especially for women who are, I guess, are afraid or traumatized or jaded or whatever.
	They're feeling like, okay, he's being silent.
	He's not telling me how he feels.
	He must be cheating on me.
	I must have done something wrong.
	Not every, you know, so that's why it's important to communicate in a way of just because sometimes it does.
	Sometimes they are doing something they just don't want to say it because they don't want to hurt your feelings or they know you're just going to have a really bad like wreck.
	I think it took my boyfriend, my ex-boyfriend, a month to break up with me because he was like, I don't know how to do it.
	And I knew something was wrong though because he was distant and silent.
	He never, we used to text all the time and he completely stopped texting me.
	And so I was like, something's not right.
	And I was like, can you just tell me, like, be honest with me?
	You'll be okay.
	And then he told me and I was like, okay.
	I knew something was wrong.
	Now we can move Christmas.
	Watch the guy that killed his wife and put them in like at his construction site or something.
	But what?
	I've never heard of this.
	How did he kill it?
	Was that she pregnant or something?
	Yeah, she was pregnant, I think, with a son.
	Yeah.
	But I feel like also some people have a hard time like speaking up, you know?
	The thing is closed mouths don't get fed And I've learned You're absolutely right.
	And you're not struggling alone because mental health is like a big thing.
	That, yeah, I think it's what you talked about, too.
	Like, if you're filling your day with meaningless, like, whatever, like, constantly asking what you're doing every five seconds, someone's not going to talk to you.
	Like, it doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl.
	If someone's harassing, not harassing me.
	But if someone's like constantly trying to be in contact with me every single moment of the day, I'm going to get pissed off and I'm not going to say anything.
	I don't think phones should be as present in relationships as they are at all.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I agree.
	I would say that.
	Or I think it should be very open.
	Like, for me, you can have my passwords.
	I don't care.
	I have nothing to hide.
	I don't mute my notifications.
	My phone can be up.
	I like transparency.
	It just makes it easier for me to exist as well.
	Like, if you just cheat on me, like, I feel like you should be in touch all the time.
	Like, if I'm hearing everything about your day, then what the hell are we going to talk about when I see you?
	Yeah.
	You know, like, I don't want my phone is an extension of me.
	Like, I completely agree.
	I want my time with you to be time that I value.
	Being on your phone is really just something we do as a filler.
	Like, if you're hurt, you just go on it.
	But, like, you don't have a phone.
	I don't know.
	I feel more productive when I don't have a phone.
	And you never unlock.
	Conversations are so much more meaningful in person too.
	I know.
	They are.
	I want to see your expression.
	Look at me.
	So trying to talk to someone about everything on the phone 24-7, it just gets annoying.
	And I don't want to see you if you're doing that.
	Especially through text.
	Yeah.
	Like monotone.
	Like, just call me like once a day.
	That's cool.
	You don't have to text me every like five minutes.
	I've actually had guys get like upset with me before just texting, calling, snapping back.
	And to me, it's like, like, that really, like, it's just, it just means nothing.
	Like, yo, what you doing?
	Pull up.
	I have a question.
	So if you're in a relationship or if you're already in a relationship, ideally, how many times a week would you like to see your partner?
	Every day.
	Are you living every day or are you like right now?
	Like your life right now.
	Okay.
	I want to say as much as possible because our life right now for sure for us is filled with work, school, and friends, like time for friends.
	So, whatever space is in between that would be for a partner.
	I'm in a long-distance relationship.
	We live like 12 hours apart and have a one-hour time difference too.
	But damn, we definitely make it work, but it takes a lot of open communication back and forth and like being okay with almost each of us having some slight insecurity, especially being at a distance and being open.
	That is totally valid.
	Yeah.
	But I'm also, again, I'm also 30 and he's 28.
	So it's just we're a little bit older.
	So it's a little bit easier to like hold ourselves accountable in communication.
	I think it completely depends on the people.
	Like I'm a pretty independent person.
	Obviously, like I want to see you, but like if I'm going through stuff, I'm not going to want to see you like every day.
	I'm not going to be like, oh my god, let's hang out after I had three doctor's appointments and an interview.
	Like, no, I'm going to want to go, but I'm going to want to rest.
	I'm different.
	Hug me, please.
	No, me too.
	If I actually really like the guy, well, we both kind of both work for ourselves.
	So it's actually allowed a lot of flexibility.
	Do you want to start?
	The guys, one at a time, please.
	So we see each other almost like once a month to every other month.
	So it's still pretty awesome.
	It's still pretty often.
	He's supposed to actually come visit me next month.
	Have you ever lived close to each other?
	No, we actually met on Facebook dating and he thought I was a fake profile.
	So it's kind of funny.
	That has to be some kind of compliment.
	What'd you say?
	That has to be some kind of compliment.
	Yeah, that he thought I was.
	Yeah, yeah.
	And I have like a big social media platform, and he actually followed me on my platform, so he didn't think that I was the same person.
	So we exchanged numbers, and I sent him a video saying my name, and he's like, oh.
	And I was like, yeah.
	And then we just never stopped talking since.
	So Devon Jackson donated $200.
	Thank you, man.
	All of you would be so annoying to date.
	You all absolutely just fish for stuff to bring up in the next argument.
	And none of you are expressing the IRN shaming Brian the second he leaves.
	Oh.
	Hey.
	What did I miss?
	Brian takes over the conversation.
	It's pretty hard to talk shit when he's right.
	He just is taking up the rest of the talking.
	I'm the host of that.
	Exactly.
	So why are we?
	Of course we're talking about it.
	Why do we have pizza?
	I don't get it.
	What?
	What is this?
	He's probably talking about me.
	He's like, he's probably talking about me because when you're over there, I like was talking to her as if I was talking to you, like you said to do.
	So I was like, continue the conversation.
	I was just saying that because we were talking about the whole expressing your feelings.
	What was the shaming, though?
	He says you guys were shaming me.
	There was a small comment.
	I was just further.
	He's fishing.
	That guy was fishing.
	Here, can you just move your microphone back to where it was, please?
	All right.
	Thank you, Dave Von Jackson, for the TTS.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	All right.
	We have cherry creams here.
	So if I almost died on the job and you almost got fired, who had the worst day?
	Would you accept my bad day or make it about yourself?
	Is this directed at somebody?
	I don't know.
	I was going.
	What?
	Wait.
	Hey, can we only have one person back there, please, at a time?
	Can you guys get that figured out?
	What did it say?
	So.
	This pizza is pretty good.
	I'm so content and happy right now eating the pizza.
	If I almost died on the job and you almost got fired.
	Who had the worst?
	Probably the person who died on the job.
	Who almost died.
	Yeah.
	Or would you make it about it?
	Yeah, someone said that.
	Oh.
	There'll be some people who would make it about.
	Do you guys want to answer this?
	Wait, let me read it again.
	Of course, we would accept your bad day.
	You almost died.
	Yeah.
	Let's just hug each other again.
	I mean, I guess.
	Well, I think, like, obviously, one had a worse day, but you should acknowledge.
	Like, once they're okay, of course.
	Like, you could joke about it.
	You'd be like, oh, yeah, my name was Helly Clean.
	Yeah, like, I got fired too.
	Like, dang, it's bad for both of us today.
	Yeah.
	Like, let's almost like put all the outside stuff to rest and just focus on each other right now.
	Just let her do it at the table.
	Okay.
	Pasty George Donatello.
	Yeah, thank you, Pasty George.
	Appreciate it.
	Are these women serious?
	Women trauma dump all the time when they are not talking nonsense, nonstop in their boyfriend's ear.
	Whether it be from everyday life or past experiences, neat hearts.
	I don't relate to that at all.
	Me neither.
	I actually don't tell anyone anything.
	So kind of same.
	You know what's interesting, though, when I was asking about if you saw your boyfriend get beat up, this is a phenomenon that you witness in relationships and with women.
	Doesn't really go the reverse is this ick factor.
	So there's this famous clip of this woman who was on the Joe Rogan podcast, and she was describing how her boyfriend, who is a professional MMA fighter, got knocked out during one of his, oops, got knocked out during one of his fights.
	And even that, even though it was like, you know, a professional fight bout, he got knocked out.
	Somebody gets, somebody loses the fight, somebody gets knocked out.
	She dumped him shortly after.
	And she sided, she sided because she lost attraction for him because he got knocked out.
	He was put in a vulnerable position.
	So I think this idea that men should be vulnerable in front of women, look, I guess I'm not saying all women are heartless creatures, but what I'm saying is there is perhaps some degree of maybe not for all women, innate repulsion to male weakness or male vulnerability that y'all are going to lose attraction for your partner if you see him acting in such a way or in such a position.
	Yeah, I would say I dated one guy before where like I was always defending myself if something happened.
	Like there was it, and this is like a super specific situation, but we were at the laundromat before I had like my current place now.
	And this random guy was trying to take my cart and I'm trying to keep my cart.
	And I was the one who, like, that moment, I definitely felt unattracted.
	And the simple fact is you, he should have just said, hey, this is our stuff, you know.
	So I get that, but I think the example you use, she's a heartless woman for sure.
	Yeah.
	I want to say for me, I can totally agree with the fact that men being weak is a huge turnoff in regards to protecting me.
	Yeah.
	Not like, like if he, like if I was dating a boy and I wasn't even with him and he got home and was like, oh, I just got a fight and I lost.
	I'd be like, oh, like it wouldn't ick me out.
	But like I have actually been in a situation where I was punched by a man, like fully punched by a stranger, mind you, in the side of the neck, the ribcage, and my arm.
	And my boyfriend at the time was right there.
	And he didn't, I like fully got knocked out.
	And he didn't do anything.
	And then apparently somebody recorded it.
	And when I watched back the footage, after the boy punched me, he was like, oh shit, now I feel bad.
	And then my boyfriend was like, oh, it's okay.
	And then he told me the next day that it was only because he wanted to check on me instead of get mad at the guy.
	And I was just like, you are insane.
	Can I ask a couple questions about the details of what happened there?
	So he hit you hard.
	You said he hit you in the neck and the side.
	He just walked up to you and did that?
	Were you guys talking?
	What was the story?
	It's a pretty long story.
	Give us the short version.
	Okay, wait, let me do this.
	Okay, so basically, I was at a party with all my friend group.
	This is the most recent relationship, by the way.
	So yeah, me and him went to this party together and our ride basically canceled on us.
	Like when we got back to the car, the friend we were supposed to go with already had like a full car.
	It was basically like, oh, sorry, you're stranded.
	And so then this super drunk guy came up and was like, hey, I'm too drunk to drive my car, but I have a car.
	Are either of you sober?
	And he was like, oh, yeah, I am.
	So he could drive.
	And then basically on the walk to the car, this guy was just like saying like a lot of misogynistic things.
	Like, you're a woman, you can't drive.
	You're a woman, you can't talk.
	You're a woman, you can't do this, you can't do that.
	And I was just like, just totally rage-baiting me.
	And I was just like, like, you don't even know this guy.
	There's no reason to fight for your standpoint.
	And then he was basically saying, like, oh, I'm a big, like, da-da-da-da.
	And then later, later on that night, after I was drunk and he got more junk, then he like, that happened.
	Okay.
	So that happened, and your boyfriend didn't do anything.
	Nothing.
	Okay.
	Actually, yeah, no, you didn't.
	Was your question, was this guy large in size?
	The guy who hit me?
	Yeah.
	No.
	Smaller than your boyfriend?
	Yes.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	100%.
	My ex is 6'3, 6'2, or 3.
	And he's not, like, super buff, but he's like a strong-looking guy, kind of.
	Athlete?
	No.
	But tall.
	Tall.
	Okay.
	He has like the arm length to like win.
	I feel like.
	So he saw you.
	And you've been dating for how long?
	Two years?
	Was this the two year?
	Oh, no, I'm not with him anymore.
	Well, when you were dating him.
	It was a two-year relationship?
	No, no, no, no.
	Like.
	Like, like a two years?
	Under a year.
	First boyfriend was two years ago.
	How long had you been seeing him?
	Under a year.
	A little under a year.
	When this happened.
	Okay.
	Oh, no.
	At the time, maybe like six months.
	You stayed with it.
	Months?
	Yes, I did.
	Never again.
	Yeah, I know.
	Yeah, that was bad.
	So he did nothing?
	He did nothing.
	The only scenario I could understand that shit a little bit is if it's, like, a giant, like, imagine you're with your girl and, like, Mike Tyson does some shit.
	Picture, uh, picture, like, uh.
	I'm just going to accept the breakup.
	Like, you gotta dump me.
	You gotta dump me.
	I'm sorry, I'm not.
	You're not even gonna try.
	Imagine that.
	No, I'm not gonna fucking fight Mike Tyson.
	It was like, picture, like, an incoming, like, soccer player, senior boy, who's like, maybe 5'9.
	Oh, my God.
	Are you?
	That's it, that's, not even a, what are you doing?
	You're like, nothing.
	He saw it?
	He's right.
	Like, did you get knocked down?
	Yes.
	You got knocked down?
	I got hit here and immediately started falling forward.
	And then you show us the punch.
	Like, he threw.
	He wound up and threw a punch.
	Oh, my God.
	A full-blown.
	Wait, were there other guys around too?
	It was like, it was like, we used to have like parties at like parks and stuff.
	Not like actual parties, just like we made up to hang out there.
	And it was more like around the grass.
	Like, there were definitely people there, but nobody saw it when it happened.
	Okay.
	Other than your boyfriend.
	Other than my boyfriend.
	And the girl who recorded it.
	Even I would have done it.
	She recorded.
	Wait, you got the.
	Actually, no, we probably can't show the fight video on YouTube, but damn.
	No, it was really bad.
	But I got to bully him.
	I saw a launcher.
	You got to what?
	I got to bully him.
	Bully you.
	Like, I had something really great against him.
	Like, when we'd fight and stuff, I'd be like, hey, well, you let me get punched, so you're a bitch.
	Yikes, okay.
	But it wasn't an issue for you at the time that he didn't do anything.
	Yeah, like that's what I mean.
	Like, he didn't do anything in my defense, so that to me was icky.
	So yeah, you just totally reminded me where I was, what the whole purpose of that was.
	If a guy is like showing signs of weakness and it has nothing to do with me, totally not an ick in my opinion.
	Yeah.
	But if it has something to do with me, it's like ill.
	It's that protection stuff.
	Like if you can't protect me, how can I expect you to protect our household financially as well as physically and stuff like that?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I gotta feel like safe, I feel like exactly.
	I think a lot of girls do.
	But I think, so like, I think that they're like for me, like, I feel like biologically, sorry.
	It's okay.
	Go ahead.
	My bad.
	You don't need to apologize.
	Like, biologically, I think that like women.
	Yeah.
	So move the mic this way.
	Just move.
	Scoot the whole mic over and then straighten this so it's straight.
	Straighten it.
	Oh.
	There you go.
	Go ahead.
	All right.
	You're good.
	It's okay.
	Don't worry.
	Just go ahead.
	So I think biologically, like women probably want men to be strong or act strong, look strong just because like evolution.
	But I agree.
	I don't think it's like if it's not about you.
	But at the same time, if it's about, if it's, it has nothing to do with me, but like you like, okay.
	If you get into a fight and you lose and it's like kind of funny and you come home and you're like kind of drunk and you're like, dude, I started fighting.
	Like I lost and I'll laugh with you.
	Like it's okay.
	But if it's like you're super butthurt about something that you were really like, I think it's unattractive to like have no control of your emotions.
	And then especially if that no control of your emotions and you start to fight someone ends badly and then you're still butthurt about it, that's incredibly unattractive.
	But also if you can't like protect yourself, then how can you protect me?
	Yeah.
	In like some ways.
	And I think that that's just like another biological thing.
	But I also don't like, if you really think about it, I don't.
	Pasty George donated $200 years back.
	My friend got hurt at work and was in a wheelchair for some years.
	During that time, his wife had an affair behind his back and divorced him even when he was getting better.
	Wow, that's sad.
	That's so sad.
	Messed up.
	Women do that too?
	I just want to know what Pasty George is doing right now.
	Like, I wonder if he's a baller.
	In his kitchen.
	Many casinos in really?
	Or is he in the casino right now?
	Why do you want to?
	Yo, Pasty, she's Canadian.
	Here, do you want to.
	Hi.
	He'll get you some free chips at his casino.
	I'm not even old enough to be in the casino.
	Oh, they have like the.
	How old do you have to be to gamble in the U.S.?
	I thought it was 18.
	Is it 21?
	No, it's 28.
	Or the Indian casinos.
	No, it is 18.
	The Indian casinos, I think it's 18, right?
	Wait, no.
	Yeah.
	When was this early?
	I mean, maybe times have changed, but I was definitely in a casino before I was 21.
	Like, just being there.
	So I got this.
	If it is an Indian reservation casino, it's like the Chumash Casino right here in San Inez, you do have to be 21 because it is federal land.
	Ah, okay.
	So.
	Anybody done with their plates?
	Yeah.
	Done, done, done.
	So Felicity, you're going to grab those.
	Anybody done with their smoothie?
	Damn, I didn't even see this one there.
	Cena, do you want your smoothie?
	It's okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay, we'll leave it there for now.
	All right, we're going to get into the next thing here.
	One sec, guys.
	I'm going to pull up the others.
	One more thing for the red flag thing.
	All right, show of hands.
	I think these plates are probably done too, if you want to grab them.
	You're done, Cena?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	You're just picking it up.
	All right.
	Raise your hand.
	I don't know if she's done it or not.
	Just take it.
	Just take it.
	Thank you.
	He follows 500 Instagram models.
	Red flag.
	Red flag?
	Yeah.
	Show of hands.
	Okay.
	That's so gross.
	I don't even know 500 models.
	Yeah.
	I think men should follow no women on Instagram.
	You should follow anybody.
	I agree.
	Don't follow anybody on that.
	Don't even use Instagram.
	Fuck Instagram.
	You know what?
	I do not.
	I follow one account.
	Big baby on the Pasty George with a follow-up here.
	Thank you, Pasty.
	Appreciate it.
	George donated $200.
	Why are women going to dangerous places when they often feel unsafe?
	Wouldn't it be unsafe?
	Everywhere is unsafe.
	Raise kids and leave a tangible legacy in the world.
	Need hard.
	No, I actually kind of want to be a stay-at-home mom.
	I'm so sick of being an independent woman.
	I don't want to do it.
	I'm good.
	Why do you say that?
	Which, like?
	Why do you, you said you're sick of being independent.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Or you want to be a stay-at-home mom.
	Why?
	I like traditional roles.
	I used to be definitely on the other side in a very extreme way where I didn't want to listen.
	I wanted to be in charge.
	And that didn't get me anywhere besides crashing and burning.
	So, and even like with my relationship now, he actually challenged me so much.
	It actually led me into my faith and really following Christ and completely changed my life.
	So I think humbling yourself and actually hearing someone out when, and I had to admit I was wrong, and that was probably the greatest thing that I've ever done.
	So.
	Okay.
	Any of the girls here disagree with her?
	She says she's done with the boss babe independent shit.
	Yeah, I want to do it.
	Who here wants to be an independent boss babe that don't need no man?
	You?
	I like having a man.
	I just.
	Not that I don't need no man.
	Do you want to be an independent boss babe that don't need no man?
	I mean, I'm not actively striving to not have a man, but I'm also not actively striving to have a man.
	You do want to be a stay-at-home man.
	Into the mic if you want to.
	You mean do I want to be a stay-at-home mom?
	I wouldn't mind it.
	Okay.
	But do you think that all women should do that?
	Be stay-at-home moms?
	Yeah.
	No.
	Definitely not.
	You were going to give an explanation?
	No, I wasn't.
	But do you think they should not do anything?
	Oh my God, no.
	No, I think everyone should make their own choices.
	I think that everyone can be happy doing like, like, I think that being a stay-at-home mom is a job.
	Like, I think it's a really hard time.
	100%.
	110%.
	It's a pretty easy job.
	Oh, my God.
	Have you raised a kid?
	Pretty easy.
	Yeah, I have.
	Raising a kid.
	I think the worst part, the worst part of raising my son has been when he had his stroke.
	But other than that, like, I love being a mom.
	Not that it's not.
	But I'm saying, like, I love going to the movies, having movie night, or dying our macaroni blues.
	Was it difficult when he was like a baby baby, though?
	Like staying up late.
	Again, it's just, I loved it.
	I mean, even being a young mom.
	That's wonderful.
	Also, my mom had me when she was 15.
	So, and it's, and my point in saying that is, I'm not saying we should have babies that young, but it can be done in the sense that we turn out okay.
	Yeah.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And I think motherhood is a beautiful thing, even though it hurts.
	I totally agree with you, and that makes me super happy to know that that was like all good for you.
	And it wasn't difficult, but I think that you can't say that broadly, you can't just say like broadly that it's an easy job.
	Because like my mother, for example, my little brother, he's four now, and he has autism, and there's a lot of struggles for specific moms.
	Like there's a lot of moms who have really difficult situations, like single mothers who have to work and be a mom.
	I'd be a mom.
	Go, you girl.
	Being a mom is very difficult.
	I suppose I agree with you in the sense that if you start adding on, you know, if your child has autism or some sort of developmental disability, whatever.
	Behavioral issues.
	Behavioral issues.
	And just like staying up late and like having to, it's difficult to be a good mother and not mess up.
	You would have to apply this also to like if you're adding in that metric, you'd have to apply it to, okay, well, you have a job and you have like really, really difficult co-workers.
	If we're just trying to do a like-for-like comparison, so let's say, you know, you have a, I mean, again, it's going to depend on the job too, but like the sort of typical average experience raising a child and you are a stay-at-home mom, that's way easier than having a nine-to-five job.
	I suppose it would depend on like, do you mean like an office job?
	Yeah, I would say even an office job.
	But an office job you get to clock out.
	I think it's completely all situational.
	I mean, if you're locked out of being a mom, you don't ever get to stop being a mom.
	If I was a stay-at-home mom, well, it depends what age the kids are.
	And if you're doing that drama, make America great hat back there.
	Where?
	Right there.
	Oh, that's Felicity's.
	She's super MAGA.
	I wanted to.
	Okay, wait, can I say something?
	If I was a stay-at-home mom with a loving husband.
	I'm not a camera acceptor.
	It's not invisible.
	actually here.
	I think it's...
	Oh.
	Yeah, I mean, it's just a prop we have.
	But did you want to have a sign?
	No, I literally was just wondering.
	Do you want to wear it?
	Is that why?
	I think I'm actually good.
	You're good.
	Yeah.
	I think I'm going to keep something.
	I feel like you have a feeling about the hat.
	Oh, a hat.
	I mean, no.
	No.
	I mean, I have feelings for myself, but I have family that feels both ways.
	No feeling.
	You can have whatever hat you want, boy.
	Wear your hat.
	Rock that hat.
	You want the hat?
	You're not a fan of the hat, though.
	It sounds like.
	I'm not a fan of the hat.
	I wouldn't wear the hat.
	What do you think about the movement?
	Fucking you.
	Oh, my God.
	Can I go back to what I was saying?
	You brought it up.
	No, can I say, I literally was saying, yeah, okay.
	Let me go back.
	Let me go back.
	I was on track.
	I wanted to tell you that, like, if I was a stay-at-home mom with a loving husband who's going to work nine to five every day and working his ass off, and all I have to do is take care of like a child or two in a situation where we're like financially stable and like I can like have everything I need.
	Yeah, I would say it can be easier than having a job, but like as a whole, being a mom, you saying that that's an easy job, like that just doesn't make sense to me.
	I feel like that's an easier job if you have like a support system with your spouse.
	Also, if you actually really enjoy it.
	So to me, it only feels easy because I genuinely enjoy it like a lot.
	Like it is my favorite thing.
	And if you have like the stamina to like, if you like have the everything, then go, you grow like that.
	And then I think women have to understand that just because you're a mom doesn't make that your sole identity.
	So it's like my identity is still in Christ.
	My identity is still.
	I'm an artist.
	I'm an entrepreneur.
	Those still are aspects of who I am.
	But I still like, I absolutely, and you got it.
	You know, being a mother, it's a beautiful thing.
	That's amazing.
	I'm so happy for you.
	No, me too.
	That's great.
	And for your son.
	We're going to get into some of the pre-show notes.
	Some of you guys sent in some notes.
	So, Ava, is it Ava or Ava?
	Ava.
	Ava.
	You write hot take.
	What?
	Oh, I remember writing this.
	Oh, my God.
	What time?
	You wrote.
	What time was this?
	Oh, I'm so.
	This is like the seventh time.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Let's.
	Hot take is that most men are truly just gross.
	Oh, this is after a hard conversation.
	After you had a hard conversation?
	Yeah, this was that text.
	Oh my god, I'm literally.
	I'm sorry, that's not true.
	I really don't believe that.
	I really don't believe that.
	I was just upset.
	You know, there's a lot of truth in heated moments.
	I was very upset.
	I was very upset.
	I had some guys trying to break into my apartment the other night, and then one of them actually did.
	Whoa.
	Yeah.
	And then he said he was looking for his keys.
	And then he actually came back the night before last and said he was looking for his keys.
	Again, I think I'm going to kill him.
	Wait, I can't say that on here.
	I'm not going to.
	Do you have like a gun or cameras or alarm systems?
	I mean, we're in alarm.
	We live in Airbnb.
	We're getting an alarm system.
	We are getting cameras for not an alarm system.
	We're getting cameras.
	And we take a knife on the gun.
	I have a gun.
	The cameras are.
	I will once in 21.
	I'll have a gun.
	I don't want a hunting rifle.
	Speaking of firearms, would anybody here not date a guy because he owns a firearm?
	I would not date him if he didn't know how to use the firearm that you should.
	I wouldn't date a guy that doesn't own a firearm.
	Yeah.
	You wouldn't date the guy.
	I wouldn't die.
	You wouldn't.
	You only date men that own guns.
	It's not like only, but like...
	I wouldn't be a guy that went hunting.
	I don't want to be around a man that's scared of...
	Oh, no.
	I like that stuff.
	Because I use a gun or not.
	I wouldn't date someone who went hunting.
	I like it.
	Who went hunting?
	Redneck meat.
	What if it was not you?
	What if the hunting was not for it?
	He like hunted for food or something.
	I mean, it was like a survival thing.
	No, not survival, but like venison or something like that, fresh from the forest.
	That thing.
	You know, those like alligator hunters and they kill the alligators because the whole population has to be.
	Wait, do you eat meat?
	Look, I do, but as far as being like shot in front of me or knowing that somebody is doing, I don't know who's killing these people.
	Well, it wouldn't be in front of you if you don't go hunting with them.
	Well, what I'm saying is I know that he did it.
	I think what you're saying is ignorance is bliss.
	Yeah.
	Pretty much.
	But at the same time, it's like you're doing this.
	Is it just like the person, like you don't want to be, you don't want to be the person?
	I don't want to be part of the problem, right?
	Even if I don't know what's going on.
	But you're eating a part of the problem.
	I know.
	You still with the problem.
	I want to defend myself.
	I have a question.
	Does that mean, like, are you saying that, like, animals dying is a problem?
	No, no, no, listen.
	So, yes, I do eat meat only because I'm a protein, paleolithic diet.
	I work out.
	I need the protein, right?
	Yes, there are alternatives, but like for me, I do like meat, unfortunately.
	However, unfortunately, I have a lot of people.
	So the problem's not big enough for you to stop eating meat, is what I'm hearing.
	Yes, it's not big.
	It's like, it's not a big enough problem.
	I just don't know.
	So, but then you're going to pass the judgment on the people that are meat.
	It's just my personal preference.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I don't want to have like a deer head in my house.
	Oh, yeah.
	I look at it every day.
	My boyfriend has a deer head at his house, actually.
	I think my boyfriend's beaten or whatever.
	As far as I'm like, ethically speaking, though, ethically speaking, though, I mean, I think there's probably compelling arguments that the factory farming is worse than likely agree.
	100%.
	10 times agree.
	What do we say?
	I agree.
	I agree.
	I sound like I'm just saying that, but it's only because it's for, it's all the operators I work with.
	I can't sit in the morning.
	Do you eat like all organic, all-free-rage, all grass-fred?
	No, I'm not that extreme, right?
	I'm not like that.
	I'm a little bit of a dude.
	I don't want to know who did it.
	It's kind of like who here has an issue with guys who have post pictures of fish, like the fish pick.
	I don't care.
	That's just too much.
	That's so adorable.
	It's a hobby.
	Oh, look at my limbs.
	Look at that fish that's going back.
	No, every picture I see on a fish pic, I swipe the other one.
	Because if that's all their profile is fish and them, it's just like, dude, it's just their little part of California as part of their hobby.
	I think you'd like it better.
	I don't like the country.
	Going back to this, you said most men are truly just gross.
	Oh, yeah, Ava.
	Before we get into that, though, any women here agree?
	Show of hands if you agree.
	Men are just truly just gross.
	Guys, I don't.
	No, like, I'm gross-minded.
	Like, this age is.
	Yeah, at our age, absolutely.
	I agree.
	Most, you said?
	I don't say.
	Most men are truly just gross.
	At this age, our age, absolutely.
	It depends on the definition.
	Guys, please.
	Only one, just for audio reasons.
	One person speaking at a time.
	Go ahead.
	Well, I took a breath first.
	I think it depends on the definition of gross.
	Like, gross-minded?
	Gross-minded in like a weird way?
	Like a perverted way.
	I mean, like, like yeah.
	I think so.
	Because like we're like at our age.
	Yeah.
	What does that mean?
	It means that like boys our age aren't looking like they're can be kind of gross-minded.
	Like think, think gross and like be gross.
	How so?
	Like no shade to all my beautiful friends at home, but like walking, like walking into some of my guy friends' apartments, like damn.
	So if you mean like hygienic gross?
	I don't know.
	Have you ever walked into a woman's bathroom?
	Not that.
	Yes.
	Our bathroom looks nice.
	I'm guilty of that.
	My bathroom is kind of gross sometimes.
	I'm not saying that like if I walk into any of y'all's bathroom, I don't care if you're a man or a woman.
	I'm judging if it looks nasty.
	Exactly.
	Well, what do you mean by like a public?
	Public women's bathrooms are from what I've seen.
	Wait, no, yeah, yeah.
	That's usually worse.
	I can agree with him.
	Women are.
	I think women's is worse.
	Yeah.
	So at my job, when I clean the men's in the women's restroom, the women's restroom is always dirtier.
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Yeah, I don't know how to do it.
	First-hand experience.
	First-hand experience.
	I can tell you now.
	I'm not an epic experience.
	No, same.
	When I worked at a gym, there'd be like either tampons straight hanging out or like blood droplets.
	Because girls do way more in the bath area.
	Excuse me?
	That's fucking disgusting.
	Wow.
	That is.
	That is something.
	Okay, that's cool.
	So men are truly just gross.
	Yeah, sorry.
	Would you be okay, like, if a guy said that about women?
	No, I don't.
	Like, women are just.
	I told you I don't remember.
	Women are like little lizards.
	I don't remember their tails.
	That's what I'm saying.
	All right.
	I don't.
	Oh, I was like, oh, this automated run.
	We were sitting on the couch and you did it.
	I was like, okay.
	So you said you also wrote, one guy was stalking you and broke into your apartment because he wanted to fit.
	Yeah, that's what I was talking about.
	I was so mad.
	I was so mad.
	Like he did a BNE.
	He broke in.
	He broke in.
	He used a he there were a bunch of guys outside banging on my I was alone in my apartment.
	They were banging on the windows and on the door.
	And I was like, okay, what the hell?
	I like know one of them.
	Yeah, I know one of them.
	And I was like, why is he just texting me if he needs something?
	I don't know what it is.
	He was knocking on the door or banging?
	They're banging.
	Like, I mean, like, for like 15 minutes.
	They were.
	Okay.
	Did he make a post?
	Mind you, I have videos of them like in all the time.
	They bang on our door all the time, but it was like, this was different.
	It was like 2:30 in the morning.
	Are they your friends?
	And so what did you do?
	No.
	One of them was my friend.
	I called my guy friends.
	I'm like, you need to come to my house right now.
	I'm starting to get really scared because then they came around the other side and multiple, like one of them has my number.
	He could have just texted me and asked if they needed something.
	And they came around the other side, like where you can see from inside my place from the like balcony, like from the parking lot.
	And I like they came around and they were looking at me through the thing and then they were like, Yeah, she's in there.
	And then they like went back around.
	And I was like, why don't they just say something?
	And then so I wait for I call all my guy friends and like some of them are asleep.
	Some of them live in my apartment complex.
	And so calling them like, you need to come here right now.
	And so two of my guy friends just like ran over to my apartment and they and I opened the door and let them in.
	And then another guy, one of the guys that was banging on the door was still outside my door and he was like, oh, I'm trying to get in there too.
	And then my guy friends like came inside and they said and they like looked behind me and one of the guys was standing behind me in my living room.
	He had climbed my balcony.
	Oh my God.
	Gone and broken into my house and went into my living room.
	And then as soon as he saw my guy friends, he was like, I'm just, I'm looking for my keys.
	And I was like, I've never seen you in my life.
	You're not, you've never been in here.
	What are you talking about?
	So I went back into my, so I called the cops the next day.
	I filed a police report.
	Oh, like that was the picture of me with the cops.
	That was me filing this thing.
	Sorry, there was a picture of me sent to like 200 people of me talking to some cops.
	It was me filing.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	That's terrifying.
	This just got.
	And then he came back.
	I saw him at a party the other night and I was like, if you come near me ever again, I swear to God, I will either stab you or you will get arrested.
	And then he went into my house.
	Dope.
	Yeah, he was in our apartment probably two days ago.
	Creepy.
	But I wasn't there, so I didn't get to stab him.
	Shoot.
	Darn.
	Missed out.
	You also wrote in your notes that maybe that dating doesn't always need to be to marry and that we should enjoy our younger years.
	Yeah.
	Who agrees with that?
	Anybody agree with that?
	Depends.
	Particularly.
	I'll put my hand halfway up.
	But can you define when you say we should enjoy younger years?
	Like, I think that not everybody is meant to be in your life forever.
	I think that a lot of people are there just to teach you lessons and be a chapter and then like leave.
	Prepare for the forever person.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Like I think that most of my prepare you for the forever person.
	Exactly.
	Kind of bad.
	Yeah, I know.
	Definitely say that.
	Can I please talk about what I just said?
	I don't mean that.
	So the way the male brain processes that is.
	So it's like, okay, my future wife.
	She has to be.
	We're not talking about sex, you freak.
	This is what I was saying in my last thing.
	Took the worst word out of my mouth, girl.
	No, but hold on.
	That's kind of.
	I'm talking emotional.
	That's why I want to talk about it.
	Stop, stop.
	Stop interrupting, please.
	So it's not that, it's not a big deal.
	Just you got to let me finish my sentence here.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Go on.
	So go ahead.
	When a guy hears that, he's going to think, like, because you're talking about your future final guy being prepared for him.
	He hears she just got ran through in college and like fucked a bunch of dudes and had a bunch of casual sex.
	That's the male brain.
	That's what the male brain is.
	But we're not talking about sex.
	Yeah.
	I'm talking about like learning from like that's not, I'm not talking about, that's not dating.
	That's just I realize you don't speak with every guy you talk to, but like that's what I when I when I said that I did not mean sexually at all.
	I meant that like when you get that's a component, but go ahead.
	Yeah, but I didn't even think about that.
	I'm just saying that like when you date people, you like learn more how to be a good partner.
	And so then like after dating, when you find someone that you want to be with forever, you like have the intelligence through experience.
	You want to be in a relationship.
	But you could also generalize this, not just with relationships, but also friendships too.
	Yes.
	It's not just one person.
	Well, you can be my friend and then we not be friends.
	And that could have taught us something about our relationship and to be better next to your personality for me to be a show up as a better friend in whoever else's life.
	It's not necessarily about, oh, I'm getting ran through by all these guys so that I can be really out of pocket.
	That's not what I missed.
	And it's like, no, how can I show up as a better version of myself to this next person, whether that be as a friendship or a lover?
	Yeah, that's great narrative spin on your half.
	But again, I was explaining and describing the male interpretation and male understanding of when you say something like that.
	That's what adds to the men are gross problem.
	This men are gross.
	But also, because if you went immediately into that assumption, it has nothing to do with being gross.
	It's just, first off, it's the reality.
	And while I agree partially.
	The reality is that you're gross.
	No.
	I'll explain it to you.
	Yeah, please explain.
	Yeah, so there is a component of when you're in a when you're dating somebody, you the part I agree with, okay, cool, you can roll your eyes, but I'm telling you the male perspective.
	There is a component of how do I frame this properly?
	You were saying how you do learn things in relationships, and I agree.
	However, you also accrue trauma from your relationships.
	I'm sure most of you have had some degree of trauma or you've been in a toxic thing.
	So that typically doesn't manifest itself very good in your future relationships.
	You develop trust issues.
	You have like unresolved trauma, like I said.
	So this idea, on one hand, yes, I agree that you know past experiences, you can grow from that, you can learn from that, but also you kind of get trauma and you get trust issues and all this sort of stuff.
	Can I add on that?
	Sure.
	I think that, like, I think the whole like through trial and error is like 100%.
	Like, I think that even the negatives prepare you for the future in a way.
	Like, the things that, like, I'm a huge believer in everything happens for a reason, no matter what.
	That's just like, that's a myth.
	I'm not saying that's everything happens for a reason.
	That's what I think.
	And, like, for me, for like in general, because yeah, I've had like bad experiences with poison stuff, but it's like everything happens for a reason.
	I think so.
	Yeah, I think so too.
	Within a person's life.
	Cancer.
	Within a person's life.
	I don't think that it's good, but it happens for a reason.
	Everything has a child.
	Child, like.
	I'm talking about my life.
	I'm talking about like.
	Cancer happens for a reason.
	I never had cancer.
	I'm talking about like in my life.
	I'm not afraid of that.
	I think some children have cancer.
	Yes.
	She was speaking about her.
	Like, I'm talking about myself.
	No, she's, well, yes, but then also she's talking in general to myself.
	I heard I personally believe that everything in my life happens exactly.
	I'm not saying that's general.
	I'm not sure what I heard from her.
	Because like, that's just something that I use to like just like enjoy life.
	I'm like, okay, that happened, but now I know X, Y, Z.
	And next time I can this, that, and the third.
	Happened for a reason.
	Like, you don't have to hold on to the trauma and make it feel like it's not.
	Exactly.
	So then I don't have to be like, oh my God, why did that happen to me?
	That was horrible.
	And drag it forever.
	I could be like, okay, it happened for a reason.
	I learned.
	I'm a bit confused here because weren't you saying that men are gross because they just all they want to do is hook up?
	Like they just think about sex.
	No, that's not what I said.
	No, she said like mentally.
	I think it's okay.
	Guys, and I also think you need to take that with like a little bit more of a grand salt.
	Like I think that like men and women are just like different.
	And I think that at my age, guys are really, really like having a hard time not only thinking about sex.
	And like, I think that it's, yeah, I think it's kind of gross.
	And like also, just like my experience with men overall has been pretty nasty.
	So, and like, honestly, that's true for like a lot of other girls that I know.
	But I don't, I think if you only think, if you like sex, you like sex, girl, go have a lot of sex.
	Like, I think that's true for girls and guys.
	Like, have as much sex as you want.
	I don't care.
	But would it be safe to say that if he could you restate that again?
	You said that you are running into a lot of issues where you're finding a lot of gross men.
	So would it be fair to say that you're also picking a pattern of choosing?
	Oh, no, I don't get what these gross men.
	This is an observation.
	Just like the people around me.
	So the men that I'm.
	But you, so I'm some, but like the guys that I hang out, you are what you attract, and you are one of five people that you hang out with.
	So if you're hanging out in a room of five people and those five people are kind of attracting different vibe, wouldn't it be safe to safe to say that you're attracting those shitty individuals to gravitate towards you?
	Because what about you makes them feel like it's okay to gravitate towards you?
	What about you are you projecting out there to be like, oh, this one.
	Have you ever thought about that?
	I, yeah, no, honestly, I have actually.
	Like, cause my mom, like, sorry, yeah, I actually have.
	That's a pretty deep poll, but I have thought about that.
	Why does this stuff happen to me so often?
	Why is it me?
	Like, am I like enabling this kind of stuff?
	Right.
	And so that's one of the reasons that I, like, that's one thing that I went to therapy for.
	And I kind of like, I became a lot more like firm with like boundaries with men.
	But at the same time, the way that I'm speaking, it's more like general.
	It's like, I'll go to the grocery store and like these guys have nothing to think about me, but just like gross remarks, just stuff like that.
	It's not like my guy friends are like my boyfriends that I've had.
	Like none of my boyfriends have been gross.
	Like catcalling and stuff?
	Yeah, catcalling and stuff, and, like, just, like, a lot of experiences where I felt, like, unsafe and uncomfortable, where, like...
	Sexualized?
	Yeah!
	Yeah, just really sexualized like every single day.
	And it's like, all right, that's you get catcalled every single day?
	No, I feel sexualized every single day.
	In what capacity?
	Just like, can someone else help me with this?
	I know that you guys have been sexualized.
	Yeah, but you said you've been sexualized every single day.
	But personally, for you, like, what does it mean?
	I feel like as a woman, you're kind of like, like, I feel like a lot of being a woman, like, can make you.
	I think it's more fair for you to say that women are sexualized often.
	Yeah, no, I don't think that women, every single person is sexualized every single day.
	I think that, like, I can't take what I'm saying a little bit less.
	I can say this: that the way I used to post on social media, like over a year ago, I would always complain, like, why was I getting the attention that I was getting or why were people treating me how they were?
	But then I had to really look at how I was posting and what I was like, how I was presenting myself.
	And I was presenting myself like my tongue, my body under here, it was like the whole source of my power.
	And people treated me that way.
	And then I would complain about it.
	You know, so eventually I really had to like look inward and really like, why is this happening?
	And what's the definition of insanity if you do the same thing over and over and nothing and you're expecting a different outcome?
	You know, so just like how you said, sometimes we actually have to like hold ourselves accountable.
	Like if you know, like you guys are beautiful ladies, so there almost is more responsibility when you are beautiful.
	You know, it doesn't mean it's fair because life isn't fair, but that's just the truth of it.
	And don't ever forget that like you teach people how to treat you too.
	So literally, if you guys ever go to my page, look, if you guys ever go to my Instagram and look at stuff from like a year or two ago, very different person, you know what I'm saying?
	And I definitely got treated like that person I was presenting.
	And then the way that I post now and the way I treat my platform now, I get way more respect in the way that people conversate with me.
	Yo, Pasty, thank you man.
	George donated $200.
	I once worked as a janitor for a few years, and the women's public bathrooms had bloody, foul-smelling dampons overflowing in the trash bin, blood on the toilet, seat, and on the floors.
	He's not wrong.
	Damn.
	He's not wrong.
	That is.
	Wow.
	I wish I knew.
	All right, we have another one from Pasty George.
	Time check.
	Time check.
	Can you just stick 56?
	It's almost seven, I think.
	Oh.
	Hasty George donated $200.
	Chair 3 boldly stated that everything happens for a reason, and this was meant not just for her life, but life in general.
	So, by her belief, child cancer and pedoism happen for a reason.
	Neat hard.
	Again, I was just talking about myself.
	How can something be in general for you?
	It's literally like a memoir.
	It would be specifically for me.
	You couldn't.
	I don't think general.
	I don't know.
	Go ahead.
	You wanted to explain it?
	It's just, like, I just, I just, that's just for me.
	That's just my thing.
	Everything happens for a reason.
	I'm not saying that everything in the whole entire world happens for a reason.
	I just was just talking about myself.
	Like, I wouldn't be able to, I wouldn't be able to answer that.
	I can't justify why children are born and immediately get cancer and that type of thing.
	That is not at all what I meant to say.
	Yeah.
	So, do you want to do the singing now?
	Singing?
	You said you would sing later.
	Follow Bella's vocals, TikTok, please.
	A cappella is crazy, but Bella's vocals, TikTok.
	Go follow me.
	Bella Brown on Spotify.
	Going to, by the way, do you prefer solo?
	Do you prefer Mia?
	What do you prefer going by?
	Everyone calls me Solo.
	Solo, okay.
	You said your ex lost his virginity to a different girl two days before your birthday while you were at your sister's wedding and also told him you loved him that night.
	Correct.
	Nice.
	There's a lot to unpack.
	Wait, so you were dating him.
	He lost his virginity.
	How long were you dating him again?
	We were on and off for over a year.
	Okay, on and off for over a year.
	He lost his virginity to a different girl.
	Yeah, like we didn't do anything together.
	Okay.
	And I was out of town for my sister's wedding.
	Don't talk to each other when she's talking.
	Yeah.
	We went over it, like, at the beginning of the show.
	It's not a big deal, but just so she can not be interrupted.
	Okay.
	I don't even know what to do.
	I mean, there's just reasons for some of these rules that we have.
	No, no complaints.
	I just.
	It seems you're scoffing a little bit when it's just politely.
	It just takes my hand.
	Yeah.
	All good.
	Yeah, we just have a reason for it so that people don't feel interrupted.
	Go ahead.
	I don't remember where I was at with that.
	Okay.
	You wanted to talk about hookup culture, red flags?
	Oh, I think hookup culture is this is hard.
	It's bad if you don't understand what you're signing yourself up for.
	That's my perspective on it.
	Because people are like, oh, I don't want to be seen this way.
	I don't want to be doing that.
	Okay, then don't go do that.
	Don't go hookup.
	I need a bunch of guys.
	As long as you own it and as long as you, again, let yourself into it.
	And then both parties know that it's purely for sex.
	The hookup culture has ruined the dating scene.
	I agree 100%.
	It has ruined it.
	It is so hard to date now because everybody just knows that they can just hook up with somebody.
	There's no genuine, like, I will wait, or there's no genuine love there.
	It's just physically attracted or not physically attracted.
	Or people, like, making it like a trial run.
	Well, I need to know what it's like before I can come.
	You know, it's just sex isn't.
	No, I, yeah.
	Women too.
	The thing is, sex is literally a gift from God.
	It's not supposed to be exploited.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So I think, and I, I mean, even in when I answered some questions, like, I have to own up to my place in that side as well.
	But because of where, like, where I've came from and how I presented myself, I don't, like, sex is not my source of identity.
	It's not, sex is not, like, the end-all be-all of what my purpose is and stuff like that.
	It literally, it feels good because it was a gift and it should be treated as such.
	So it destroys relationships.
	It, um, no offense to those who do OnlyFans will not against, I mean, do what you want, but things like that has ruined it.
	Um, are you saying sex ruined relationships?
	Well, I'm thinking, like, having sex with multiple people and being able to just get in and see it anywhere and then taking that experience that they see online or on the and putting it into their relationships when it's really not like that.
	You know what I'm saying?
	But I disagree with that.
	I highly feel like men need to like have bodies in order to find the right one.
	Because like what if you're dating a man who hasn't experienced, oh, a skinny girl or a thick girl and he has those thoughts running around in his head?
	That's then he shouldn't have them.
	Yeah, that's that's like that's so that's just really immature.
	Like just a really immature thought process, especially like on the man.
	I'm never gonna justify any man I'm with to have those like lustful type of thoughts.
	Like it's it's absolutely a disservice to us as people to diminish ourselves to that.
	And literally this is like a common thing.
	Human beings are the only creatures that live below our means.
	But we've simplified ourselves to that.
	And it's just, it's such a disservice to ourselves as individual.
	We're so much greater than that.
	I agree with that, but sometimes like how some girls say like men are just girls.
	You know, they just have those thoughts.
	So like how would you like go about that?
	But she's, she's, that's, that was her individual opinion that is not general, just like he was saying as well.
	So not all men are gross.
	And the idea, the fact that men are only girls because there are people out there that are feeding into that.
	Yeah, like if I put my boobs in your face, I'm going to expect you to look.
	So right, I mean, me being liking women, like, of course.
	Whatever a guy feels, I understand it.
	Me being on both sides of the fence, I've dated men too.
	I think both sexes have an issue with sexuality.
	Their sexuality is supposed to be like they act on their sexual impulses and sexuality a lot.
	And sometimes it's hard.
	It's really hard.
	Well, Cena, going back to what you were saying, you said that what if the guy wants a thick girl and he done not ever had a thick girl, he's going to like cheat on you or some shit.
	Cena, you fucking betrayed me, by the way.
	It's in the title of the video.
	You, I told you not to get fake titties and you went and got fake titties.
	What the fuck?
	Okay.
	But I wanted into the mic, please.
	But kind of almost, you almost like did it in the relationship, though, because like if you were dating a guy and before you didn't have the fake titties, now you have the fake titties, so he got the best of both worlds.
	So he got, never mind.
	Is that making sense?
	Not really.
	No, no.
	I think it makes sense.
	I have no clue what you just said.
	You might have to say it again in a different way.
	Why did you decide to get some fake titties when I specifically told you don't do that shit?
	Are you guys dating?
	Me and her?
	Yeah, I don't know.
	Okay.
	What?
	No.
	I thought that that was.
	I know.
	I don't know why.
	Was I the only one that thought that?
	I was talking about that.
	Okay, because you were saying you told her not to.
	So I was like, oh, it's like, as if y'all were like together.
	Oh, a metaphor or something.
	Oh, I have a question for you.
	What do you think about plastic surgery?
	From a man's perspective.
	Anti-plastic surgery.
	Okay.
	I'm against it.
	Clearly, big labias matter.
	Big labias matter.
	And I mean, there's a whole bunch of different plastic surgeries, though.
	So, I mean, like, you have fake breasts, you have the BBL, you have the lipo belly, you have, like, the lip filler, you have the Botox, you have all these sorts of things.
	Generally, I think plastic surgery.
	I love it.
	Oh.
	You're good?
	Yeah, okay.
	Okay.
	I like your fake boobs.
	They don't like it.
	Disavow.
	Disavow.
	They definitely look pretty fake.
	Why are you looking?
	Oh, I see them in the monitor by the way.
	What if a guy gets a hair transplant?
	Would you say that's to boost his confidence, or would you say that's plastic surgery and that shouldn't be allowed?
	It's a form of cosmetic surgery, and I'm not saying that plastic surgery shouldn't be allowed, but I think that it's...
	People took it and murdered the heck out of it.
	No, like, I think, look, there's different levels to plastic surgery.
	Like, there's stuff that's non-invasive.
	But I think ultimately, I wish we lived in a society where there was less vanity and people felt more comfortable with how their body just is.
	I agree.
	So, you know, if a woman has small breasts, I don't think she should feel insecure about it.
	I don't think she should be shamed for it.
	I think it'd be great if, you know, and there shouldn't be shaming from other women, from other men, whatever.
	I think people should just kind of, you know, whatever they got, that's what they got.
	And they shouldn't feel the need to undergo dangerous, expensive, and unnecessary medical procedures to try to fix a problem that's not even really a problem.
	Yeah, I actually, I wanted to get like a breastlift and stuff because I used to be 300 pounds.
	So like, I mean, they're not the worst, but in my head, I'm like, I want better.
	And my boyfriend was like, you would be doing that for yourself because it doesn't matter to him.
	So, and the thing is, is like the same thing I was saying earlier.
	And I even said to these ladies here, like, our value shouldn't come from just our physicality.
	We are so much more than that.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So I think, you know what?
	I'll take a harder stance.
	If I was dictator, I would ban plastic surgery.
	I actually.
	I would ban that shit.
	What about plastic surgeries that are like a medical necessity?
	That's disturbing.
	Yeah, I'm okay with that.
	Okay.
	But the majority.
	So you'd have to like prove that you need it.
	Yeah.
	There would have to be a medical indication for needing the surgery.
	But why do you not know?
	No shit.
	Genuine question.
	Just like what, why do you care so much what other people do with their bodies?
	So I think.
	Like, I think it's like, okay, if you don't want plastic surgery, like, don't get plastic surgery.
	Why do you care so much about that?
	Would you let your 12-year-old child attached to her?
	She's 12.
	I would never let anyone know.
	Why do you care so much about her body?
	Because she's too young to make that decision for herself.
	Okay.
	What about your 18-year-old daughter and she wanted to undergo like significant body modification?
	I would talk to her.
	I would try and tell her that like everything is, you know, she is the way she is for a reason.
	But also like if she, what do you mean serious?
	Like a boob job or like Transferring gender.
	Like, I mean, either way.
	Well, it could be that, but I mean, I would use the example of sometimes people will, like the split tongue thing, for example.
	I would tell her, you know what, if you want to split your tongue, you're 18, split your tongue.
	I got tattoos when I was 13.
	I have them.
	I don't think that it makes me like a bad person.
	Signing off on that?
	Oh, they were pissed, but it didn't make them not expect, like, accept me for, like, if my 12-year-old daughter wanted a tattoo, I'd be like, you're an idiot.
	If you're going to get a tattoo, then you're going to live with that decision.
	But I'm not going to, like, you're going to be the one that has the consequences, not me.
	Like, I'm, you know, as long as it's not a danger thing, I think you should, like, I think that's.
	Right.
	Every time you undergo plastic surgery, there's a risk of death.
	There's plenty of complications when it comes to plastic surgery.
	Recently, I think a famous somebody, woman, died because it was like her third BBL.
	Women frequently die from getting BBLs.
	There's other, like breast implants, there's less chance of death.
	BBL, pretty high chance of death, relatively speaking.
	There's a lot of complications that can occur.
	I think anytime you go under anesthesia, there's a potential risk of serious side effects or potentially death.
	You're cutting into your body.
	You're sometimes years down the road.
	Well, I guess plastic surgery has improved a bit, but there's certain your body can reject these in some cases.
	You can have allergic reactions.
	Then it's just permanently in there for you.
	Then, you know, also just from an aesthetic perspective, I'm aesthetically, I don't like it.
	But my primary argument is these surgeries are not medically indicated and they're dangerous.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that a person who wants to like undergo plastic surgery and is fully aware of all of the risks and everything, isn't it fair to say that like they can just make that decision for themselves?
	Even if you don't have anything else, I think so.
	I mean, again, it depends on the level of the surgery.
	So have you ever seen some of these women who really overdo it, where their lips are massive, they've like their cheeks, it looks like it's like Jeff Bezos.
	I think that, where it's, no, not even Jeff Bezos.
	But she so overdid it because she's not.
	No, but you've seen more overdone than her.
	Yeah.
	You've seen an addiction.
	They look like a freak show.
	I think plastics, these people who get that, they're dealing with mental illness.
	Right, like body dysmorphia.
	But the plastic surgeons who do that shit, I think it's fucking criminal that they will ruin somebody's face just because they want to do it.
	They want the family.
	And they're profiting off of it.
	So I think that's my angle here is that, look, there's some that I'm, you know, whatever.
	You want to remove plastic.
	Okay, cool.
	And it's because they're targeting, and it's like women that don't feel a strong sense of self and like beauty within that go and get these done.
	And then like you said, like the doctors are advocating for it.
	And then it becomes an addiction of like, okay, well, I want to look better.
	And then you're constantly in there.
	And it's not like, it's like, girl, you're going to keep getting all these surgeries.
	But have you looked in the mirror and actually loved yourself or you?
	Because you're going to keep getting these surgeries and you're still going to hate yourself and want to change it again.
	But are we talking about, but like, I'm just, because I feel like there's a lot, like, I feel like everyone, we all kind of agree that like the surgeons, obviously, like, that's messed up.
	And there's people that overdo it.
	But like for little things, like, I think that there's an extreme end of everything where your opinions change.
	But overall, I think.
	Sorry.
	You know, so like overall, do you either think that like only the dangerous, like true, like, I know, I know, that's the, that's what you said.
	I didn't know that.
	I honestly have never thought about getting plastic surgery.
	Every time you do anesthesia, there's a risk.
	Yeah, I didn't, yeah, you're true.
	You're right.
	Blood plus.
	But also, like, you go under anesthesia to get your wisdom teeth removed.
	But that's medically indicated.
	Like you need to do that.
	Yeah, exactly.
	I'm just saying, like, do you think, like, do you guys think, honesty, everyone, do you guys think like that there is just the extreme end that shouldn't be allowed?
	But like, maybe, because you've changed your, like, because we've just kept going more extreme and then the argument is going to change.
	I mean, I'm happy to bring it to less extreme examples.
	So, like, let's just go with standard breast implants or BBL.
	How about, what about, let's just go for a nose job?
	Because does anyone at the table have a nose job?
	I feel like we're getting a little too specific.
	All right, let's go for a nose job.
	So, again, I have less issue with that because it's less invasive of a procedure.
	And also, it's a nose job is recreating a typically, I mean, sometimes they get botched, right?
	But typically, a nose job, maybe they have a bit of a hump on their nose.
	It's recreating a nose that would otherwise exist in out there in the ether.
	Whereas like no woman has boobs, has plastic in their chest.
	That's a different level of invasiveness.
	The BBL, that's a different level of invasiveness.
	So while I still have nose jobs, I have pretty minor nose jobs don't really care that much about.
	But when you start injecting stuff into you, that's like another level of invasiveness.
	When you get the breast implants, BBL, go ahead.
	I'm going to give you a situation because it's a real life situation.
	I had knee surgery, and I didn't necessarily need it.
	I could have done other things.
	I could have gotten a cortisone shot.
	I could have tried physical therapy another time.
	I could have done other things.
	I didn't necessarily, there's nothing technically wrong with my knee that I needed surgery for, but I got surgery.
	What do you think about that?
	It was just the quicker, easier option.
	Wait, so you had like an ACL tear or why?
	I'm about to.
	I didn't tear anything.
	My knee was intact.
	There was, I'll explain it so you kind of understand.
	Did you have knee pain?
	I had pain, but it was manageable.
	I could have lived with it.
	I was like, what was it?
	Can't it be bone on bone?
	Like, what was it?
	Hold on.
	But so we're talking about cosmetic procedures.
	Yeah, but you said there's a risk.
	There's a risk after you go under anesthesia all the time.
	I didn't, you don't need a cosmetics procedure.
	I didn't technically need my knee surgery.
	Well, did you do physical therapy beforehand?
	Did you try like more conservative approaches to managing your pain?
	Yes.
	I was an athlete.
	I did everything.
	Okay, and when you went to the doctor, he said, well, I recommend getting surgery.
	No, he said I would try this first.
	And I said, no, it's not going to work.
	I know it's not.
	And your knee is better now?
	No.
	Sometimes it's hurt.
	It's better most of the time.
	Sometimes it's not.
	Well, perhaps you made the wrong decision by jumping immediately to surgery before taking the professional's advice.
	You see, the medical professional's advice.
	Medical professional's advice.
	My mom had a really bad reaction to his other advice.
	So it would have been more dangerous for me to do that in my head.
	To get physical therapy?
	No, he wanted to give me a shot of cortisone.
	My mom had a really bad reaction to it.
	I was like, I'm not doing that.
	Did you try physical therapy though?
	Yeah, I did.
	I just said that.
	See, I actually can kind of, so I got into a car accident where like the whole right side of my body was messed up, including my knee, where like it would flare up all the time.
	And I had to get fluid drained, all these things.
	And they were saying that I would need knee surgery, but instead I started to do mobility and calisthenics.
	So really actually like strengthening the small muscles that surround the knee so that way my knee could actually be able to compensate and heal a little bit more.
	And that's why I'm saying like I technically would have medically needed it, but I went a longer route.
	I mean it took two years, but the stuff I can do in the gym now is like pretty intense, you know?
	No, I completely understand that, but what I'm saying is like I was a really intense athlete.
	It was, you know, I took care of myself.
	I went to physical therapy.
	Did all that, but my surgery wasn't technically needed.
	So what do you think about that?
	I mean, your example that you're providing is getting a little bit away from the the fuller context of the conversation here, which relates to purely cosmetic procedures.
	Um, what do I think about you getting that?
	Well, because you said, I mean, every surgery has a risk right yeah, I wouldn't not, me personally, I would not have gotten the knee surgery.
	I mean, that's really all I can say what we're talking about.
	Like what, like what, if you were in charge of her decision like, would you have said no, you can't have the.
	Okay, wait here Nick, you gotta, this is distracting here a little bit.
	Okay, go ahead, go ahead me.
	Yeah, you were finishing your sentence.
	Oh, I was just saying, I was just asking.
	But would you have said like no, you cannot have the surgery, or no, I don't think you should have?
	I mean, I already laid out my position, my position.
	No, I was just trying to restate, I think, what she was asking you.
	Yeah, my this, this hypothetical scenario where i'm the dictator and I would ban plastic surgery.
	I, it's laid out in that position in and of itself, I would ban plastic surgery, not knee surgery like.
	So it's not even within the purview of my.
	So you'd let people dictatorship.
	You'd let people choose to have surgery on say, their knee or their shoulder, or like someone had like a bones burst.
	Yeah, these two things are not modified.
	Where it made you look faster or something.
	No well, that that's what I mean.
	It's different than plastic surgery.
	You're not changing your knee or your appearance, you're appearing, you're repairing it.
	Yeah my, what i'm saying is a lot of his argument was because of the risks of it.
	There's risks in every single surgery, is what i'm saying.
	Yeah, the logic isn't really following.
	Yeah, it's not following.
	So then I can just, I feel pretty logical.
	Uh well, explain the logic okay, for the last time.
	Um, every surgery has a risk.
	Anesthesia has a risk every time.
	Any, anything you do, any procedure you do has a risk.
	Even getting a freaking teeth, tooth pulled has a risk.
	Tooth filled, sorry.
	Um, so you're saying, with plastic surgeries, one of your main points was that you are taking the risk to possibly get hurt or die or blah.
	If you have a procedure done that's not plastic surgery, but you don't technically need it.
	Wouldn't that fall under the same category in your eyes?
	Would it fall within the simple, then short, answer.
	I feel like yes, because you wouldn't need the damn surgery.
	So therefore you're modifying your body because you don't need it and you could have taken the longer run.
	Then I guess i'm willing to say like if somebody doesn't need a medical, then yeah, they probably shouldn't get said medical surgery, I guess.
	But in this case you were reporting that you, You were dealing with a knee pain or knee injury or something.
	The surgeon, I mean, if he like, if you just walked into the surgeon's office and you're just like, hey, I want knee surgery, he's like, Do you have any pain?
	And you're like, no, I'm pretty sure the surgeon's going to be like, well, why do you want me to operate on your knee?
	And you're, in this case, you're presenting with a medical indication for a potential, you know, treatment for a knee issue.
	Okay, well, so what if someone has lopsided boobs or they had cancer and got their boobs removed and they want a boob job to make themselves for the what's it called?
	For the breast implants.
	Yeah, I'd be willing to grant under that circumstance.
	Under lopsided or breast cancer, I think breast cancer.
	Breast cancer, yes, but lopsided.
	What's the verdict?
	No.
	I've got lopsided titties matter.
	Yeah.
	Lopsided titties matter.
	A new merch idea.
	I'd buy that.
	And also, I've actually seen like women who had to have both their breasts removed because of breast cancer.
	And then they get like just beautiful tattoos.
	And like, you know, I just think there's definitely lots of options, you know what I'm saying?
	So it just depends on the person.
	We have some chats coming through.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	Women who get any plastic surgery who don't need it other than for cosmetic aesthetics are a major red flag and are a sign of significant insecurity and promiscuity.
	I agree with the insecurity part for sure.
	All right.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	I mean, that's where you have to find your value in more than your looks.
	So you think that all plastic surgery is due to insecurity?
	Most of it.
	Because even why I wanted a boob job or like a breast lift was because I was insecure about them.
	So do you think that it's wrong?
	Hold on.
	Plastic and cosmetic surgeons who take advantage of patients who keep coming back for more surgery are like drug pushers and should be in prison.
	I agree with you.
	I agree with that as well.
	Yeah, Pasty George.
	That was a good take.
	I wanted to ask you, do you think that somebody getting it, like, like I said earlier, like if somebody is insecure about their nose and wants to change it and it's like something that they struggle with, do you think that it's wrong for them to want to change that knowing all the consequences instead of wanting to just find acceptance in themselves?
	I'm going to go back to where we should find value in more than our looks.
	So even like I'm saying like if somebody had like a giant nose and like it was like an everyday struggle, like people would point it out and stuff.
	You think it's wrong for them to change it?
	That's just the insecurity.
	So I hated my nose in school because it's like crooked and I'm so thankful that I never got a nose job because if I had a pretty perfect nose like everyone else that got a nose job, I wouldn't look like me.
	And I find beauty in looking unique because nobody can say they have my nose.
	Yeah.
	And you're beautiful and I'm sure that you also have value in yourself besides your physical appearance.
	So it helps you not even crave having those surgeries or even find more validity and not getting it.
	Because I love me.
	Like it's your me.
	And if anybody were to hate my nose, I'd be like, sorry you feel that way.
	But I'm not sure.
	Like that's a you problem, not a me problem.
	Yeah.
	And that's amazing that you have that self-confidence.
	No, yeah, I agree.
	And self-confident, you don't, you're not born with confidence.
	You teach yourself it.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Yeah.
	I think we live in a society, even before the sort of rampant increase in people seeking out plastic surgery, I'd say in the past maybe 10, 15 years or so after, you know, Kim Kardashian and all shit.
	I think it's been a terrible thing.
	There's been such a massive increase in vanity.
	I think, at least from the female, the female perspective, women have always had a lot of self-esteem issues, insecurities as it relates to their looks, even before this increase in plastic surgery.
	And I think now, if we're talking about unachievable beauty standards, well, it's one thing, okay, maybe you got to have a certain body shape.
	But now it's like if the beauty standard becomes everybody needs to get plastic surgery, otherwise, all women or majority of women are going to start feeling insecure, need to spend tens of thousands of dollars correcting or fixing themselves.
	I think, I mean, financially, it's not good.
	Like I said, there's certain risks with undergoing these procedures.
	And then also, I just think instead of approaching or tackling it from that, what can we do as a society to make people feel comfortable, both men and women, with just how they are?
	Why can't we do that?
	Why can't we, you know?
	Because we can't.
	Well, I think we can.
	I don't think anyone's ever going to always be comfortable.
	I don't think everyone's always going to have to.
	I think it's like it's a fear of your peers.
	Stop giving unrelevant people that energy, like the passions.
	They're irrelevant.
	But people have been living for hundreds and thousands of years.
	Plastic surgery is a new invention.
	It's a new invention.
	Men and women have been attracted to each other.
	No problem having kids and babies and being attracted to each other.
	Men, certainly, at least from the component of this argument about what men find aesthetically pleasing, a lot of women aren't even getting plastic surgery for the male gaze.
	Some of that shit's for the female gaze.
	Lip filler, definitely not for the male gaze.
	But look, my own perspective, I can say when it comes to plastic surgery, I prefer a girl with a small upper lip than perfect lip filler.
	I'd prefer a girl with small boobs, flat boobs, than perfect fake titties.
	I'd prefer a girl with a little belly fat than lipo belly.
	That shit looks weird.
	Lipo belly, weird.
	I'd prefer a girl.
	You can have that plant.
	And that's what I'm saying.
	I'd prefer that.
	I got a few more.
	I'd prefer a girl with a small butt over like the perfect BBL or whatever.
	BBLs look fucking weird.
	And that's what you prefer.
	And then other people prefer to have those big boobs.
	Other people prefer to have those.
	And like, why not let them?
	And just let them express it.
	Why are you guys so interested?
	Why are you guys trying to defend something that's like clearly social decay?
	That's how they want to express it.
	And I agree.
	But can I ask you fine?
	Okay, people want to get it.
	They want to get like a bunch of people.
	But do you agree?
	Like the rampant increase in primarily women getting plastic surgery?
	There can always be too much of anything.
	No, it's really sad.
	There's too many.
	I've seen people when they, there's too many tattoos.
	Like they have their eyes tattooed.
	I actually have my eyelids tatted.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Let me ask you a question.
	What is closer to a utopian society?
	All women just blasted in plastic surgery and them feeling great about it, or no women getting plastic surgery and feeling mostly okay about how they look?
	No.
	What's closer to a utopian society?
	Everyone getting plastic.
	No, no, no, hold on.
	This is for her.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know what utopian society means.
	Utopian.
	Somebody want to help out.
	It's like amazing.
	It's better.
	Like a perfect world.
	We're a perfect world.
	Like a perfect world where everybody's doing like the same thing.
	Everybody looks away.
	Everybody doesn't want to be a little bit more.
	But in my perfect world, nobody wants to take it.
	Perfect world is whatever.
	Like anyone wants to express themselves.
	That's my perfect world.
	However, anyone wants to express themselves.
	And that's what I was saying.
	Like, if you know the risks, fuck it.
	Do it.
	Because a lot of us don't care about others, that's why like, society looks how it looks and why, you know, others are just like.
	I feel like the plastic surgery issue is like, if there's like a pyramid, that's like starts with the base root issue, the plastic surgery is at the very tip of the pyramid and I feel like we don't need to start hating on women for getting plastic surgery when the actual issue is all the stuff underneath.
	I know the actual fallacious argument.
	Yeah, the actual issue.
	I know.
	That's why I'm saying that even talking about this internal and I think so what you're everything else is the problem, not the plastic, but what you're doing here is it's a fallacious argument.
	So you're saying well, there's XYZ more important things.
	So I just think that we need to start by supporting women at the top of the like.
	If there's not plastic surgery supporting women, the way we should support women is by a being emotionally regulated and having a positive outlook on your image.
	Embrace yourself, having a strong sense of self, because without that, you're nothing.
	If you're just a pretty girl, a 10 with a fat butt and big titties, but zero personality, zero emotional regulation and all that, you're just literally, in my eyes worthless because you can't provide me nothing than you're beauty.
	And if everyone like we're all tens with bbls and fat tits okay, and and then it's like, what else can I get from that?
	Where's the personality, where's the heart?
	I still stand by you.
	Do whatever you want.
	I think there's no issue in it.
	I could be a terrible person with fake tits or no tits, and I could be a great person with fake tits and no tits.
	Yeah, so you you, everyone's familiar with Kylie Jenner right sorry, Kylie Jenner.
	Yeah, do you think it's a problem for our young females to look at someone like Kylie Jenner, who is, by the way, ping.
	You can tell she's got if you go back to her teenage years and from.
	Not social media's problem, but but what, what?
	What the issue is is the fact that somebody who's got that much plastic surgery is when people are visualizing it and seeing it.
	I didn't even know who Kylie Jenner was until I just saw like this holy crap, night and day thing and i'm totally against that.
	I don't want my, if I ever had a daughter, I don't want my daughter idolizing the fact that you have to do this to make you look a certain, but nobody like that's a social media, not that's like social media.
	That's what i'm saying.
	I think that social media is what and is the problem with the beauty centers.
	That's what making people feel like they need to be xyz.
	I think that what i'm saying is like plastic surgery itself, like like who cares?
	Like if you, how much you want to have surgery, what are you gonna get and finally feel better about exactly.
	That's where you're almost like you're gonna already feel beautiful and just do something because they have a lot of people.
	Would you date a guy who has a beard?
	No problem, maybe.
	Is that your preference?
	No okay, so I mean just from the dating lens perspective of this, both men and women have generalized preferences towards what they like and dislike exactly, and you guys can have your preferences.
	But i'm saying you guys are saying it just like, straight up, should be banned, yeah.
	And i'm saying that no yeah, that's what i'm saying.
	Like I think it's totally rightful for everyone to have their own car for you.
	I'm not saying it should be banned.
	So wait, you don't think it should be banned.
	Like no, i'm no no no no, don't hold again.
	You're that's again.
	You doing the thing where you're like well, that means you think this and that's all.
	I don't think that there like there's stuff that are banned for a reason.
	I'm just saying, like plastic surgery in itself Is harmful.
	It can be.
	In totality, generally speaking, is plastic surgery harmful?
	Yes.
	To the individual?
	Is it harmful?
	Yes.
	And I don't mean to say that.
	But who, like, if, okay, it's harmful, but like, if someone wanted to do it, why can't they do it?
	Just do it.
	Like, they know the risks.
	They have the money and they want to do it.
	So I'm just saying.
	Right, obviously I'm not never going to become dictator and be able to see through my dictatorial plan to ban plastic surgery.
	I'm aware, but I'm saying from a social angle here, I think for a bunch of reasons, it would be better to have a social order where women weren't jumping to go under the knife.
	But that's social media.
	And there's constant comparison.
	But that's literally the same thing.
	Yeah, but that doesn't mean that we are supposed to hate on the women that did it.
	We're supposed to be.
	We're not hating on the women who do it.
	Can I just say something real quick?
	Me being a sex worker and the dance, like I'm a dancer and OnlyFans and an escort and everything.
	And nothing sucks worse about my job is when I'm sitting in the dressing room listening to a bunch of beautiful women complain.
	And that's my disconnect with a lot of these women is that I'm sitting there, you're sitting there, and all I hear about like 98% of the time, that's why I literally don't engage with others.
	It's like, oh my God, I wish I'm going to have bigger boobs.
	Tomorrow I'm getting surgery.
	Oh my God, her butt looks good.
	This is not.
	It's never a conversation in that locker room at the strip club where it's like, I love me for me.
	I love my body.
	I'm benefiting from my body, profiting off of this.
	You're getting so much good money and yet you're still not happy with yourself and you're still trying to alter your body.
	That's the disconnect I have with these women because I'm like, I can't sit in a locker room and sit with other women that don't value themselves and don't see them for them.
	And that's just actual, like, again, it is another good example of how it's an internal thing.
	But why hate on those women when they're victim to it?
	I never said I hate it.
	It's just you have to have a strong sense of self.
	No, I agree.
	I'm just hating on these women.
	Yeah, it's not.
	Nobody's hating on these people.
	It's just, I wish I could give them a hug.
	I wish that I could give them a hug.
	And literally be like, hey, it's okay to look like you because no matter what, like Brian said, like, if we all look the damn same, no man likes the same flavored lollipop, right?
	So it's like there's different lollipops for every man on earth.
	Like, you don't look a certain way, someone else is going to appreciate that.
	Someone will like you for how you are.
	And most importantly, you valuing yourself for how you look should be more important than what Brian thinks of me or what you think about me or whatever, right?
	Like at the end of the day, I just wish that women could like see that and love themselves instead of being like, fuck, I need surgery.
	Go ahead.
	Couldn't this also go for getting like micro bleeding done or your lashes done or your lips done or piercings?
	I have a lot of piercings.
	Nails.
	Ice nails done.
	Like this could go for so many other things.
	If you're saying women should feel beautiful, how they are completely natural, correct?
	Right?
	Their features?
	I'm talking body modifications.
	I'm not talking nails.
	I'm not talking hairs.
	I'm not talking piercings.
	I'm talking about real-life body modifications that you can't take back.
	That are dangerous.
	You can't.
	You say, hey, I want to get a BBL.
	You can't reverse that.
	You can't reverse that.
	You can get laser tattoo removal if you really wish.
	But I'm talking about body modifications.
	You can take out input jobs.
	Yeah, you can take out.
	It's reversible as well.
	It would not be the same.
	Yeah, but it's reversible, but a BBL isn't.
	Yes.
	A BBL is.
	Yeah, I feel like you just don't like it.
	I think it is.
	A BBL?
	I wouldn't know.
	Can I generally ask, like, this is a general question.
	So you're saying what I'm hearing is that who cares about them because it's their bodies, right?
	Wouldn't that be like saying, no, that's not what I'm saying.
	Well, I'm sorry.
	What you were saying is like, why do we care so much about somebody else's body, right?
	It's the same.
	It's the same thing about a drug addict.
	Am I gonna say hey, I don't care doing meth.
	That's your choice.
	We know we know what's the there's a huge what's the differentiation?
	I what the differentiation is or I don't know if I said that right, my bad, is that like I can I can go get my I can go get lip filler and be fine, but I'm not gonna that's you can't compare that to me going out and doing meth.
	Well, I also think that when you go to someone that you care about who's doing drugs, you don't go to them and say Ew, like you're doing drugs.
	You go to them and say, Hey, like, what's going on?
	Like, let's talk about this.
	These are things I do not think these should be composed of not the same.
	But I think a woman who gets a lot, a lot of plastic surgery, we actually should be like, hey, like, what's the problem?
	Oh, what else?
	Yeah, because at that point, it's an extra point.
	What I'm saying, guys, is that what I heard you say is that why do we care so much about them when they're doing it to their bodies?
	It's the same thing as a.
	Why should we care about a drug addict if they're doing?
	It's not the same thing, because one is meth and one is addiction and just like, simple change is two different things.
	Like a person who's addicted to body modificating or addicted to tattoos or addicted to plastic surgery yeah duh, that's bad.
	But that doesn't mean every single person who has plastic surgery gets addicted to it.
	Yeah, even if you're not addicted though, certain procedures are harmful regardless.
	Still bad yeah, but like, the person who gets the procedure is like, aware of that and wants to get like vaping right.
	Yeah, you shouldn't vape, but like, but it's, but like, I like like, if you're vaping now you're aware we're all really yeah well, it's like the same thing.
	I just want to say here I have to, I have to shift gears a little bit here.
	I want to do a couple shout outs.
	Troy, thank you for the 10 on Venmo.
	Taylor, thank for the 10 on Venmo.
	We have a couple chats coming through.
	Sorry for the delay for some of these.
	One moment here, Pasty George, I think I can't wait here.
	It is sorry for the delay.
	Pasty, my bad Pasty.
	George donated 200 care.
	Five spine, elbow and knee surgeries etc.
	Are not plastic.
	Don't be retarded.
	Yeah, my gripe has always been about the cosmetic plastic surgeries.
	That's that's my primary gripe there.
	Thank you Pasty, appreciate it we have.
	Uh, Paul looks like he bought a t-shirt on the merch store and he also did a ten dollar donation.
	Thank you Paul, that's coming in here in just a moment.
	Uh, simply put, yours is below the threshold, but we'll have it come up here after I let these come through for the panel, or?
	Cena, can you read this?
	It's okay, i'll read for the panel, what's the nastiest experience you've had with a man?
	To clear things up, actions, not words.
	Would you break up if a guy farted around you or didn't wash their hands?
	Oh, so this is like about um hygiene, picked their nose.
	What's the nasty, okay nasty experience you've had with a man?
	So like okay, that's an interesting question, Josh.
	I mean my first boyfriend like literally never flushed the toilet.
	Ew, like never didn't.
	Like just number one and two or no no no, just number one.
	He said he was like that's saving water, obviously.
	I mean like, I guess, but like you have a company over and your house has one restaurant.
	Oh, yeah.
	You know what I mean?
	He was like, it was something like, it was like, if it was, I don't even want to repeat it.
	It was like, if it's brown, flush it down.
	If it's yellow, let it be low.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Some shit like that.
	That's not a movie.
	I mean, I guess that's not very, I mean, it's like, I don't know.
	That was kind of gross.
	Mine wasn't too bad.
	I just, one time we were kissing, he burped in my mouth.
	That's gross.
	Gross.
	That was gross.
	Anything else from anybody?
	That's pretty good.
	My brothers are gross.
	I love them, but they're gross.
	Yo, Josh, thank you for that one.
	Appreciate it.
	We have Inapproachable.
	Beauty is culturally subjective, and humans have been modifying their bodies to fit a standard for thousands of years.
	Olmecs, Parcaz, Huns, Kayen.
	Plastic surgery is not so bad, but some docs are.
	1,000% agree.
	I agree.
	Some drugs like this disagree.
	Yeah, and the lips are fucking literally.
	How do you see steroids?
	If men take those steroid shots, I'm against that too.
	What about testosterone?
	That's bad.
	Taking testosterone.
	Some people, some men need it.
	Yeah, that's true.
	That's true.
	Some women need it too.
	But I mean, like, excess.
	That's different.
	There is medical indication for like testosterone replacement therapy.
	Excess, though, if you already have enough.
	Yeah, then probably shouldn't do it.
	But I mean, I would also just look at the risk profile.
	Like, is it the case that even young men who take TRT, does it have a low risk profile or no risk profile?
	Then if it helps them, then I probably don't have an issue with it.
	But I'm not an expert in TRT, so clearly.
	I'm not an expert either, so I'm not going to like.
	Okay, we have, this is below the threshold, but simply put, I do appreciate your chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, we're going to get into, oh, here's a fun segment.
	Roast your ex if you want to.
	Each panelist gets 30 seconds to roast one of their exes without naming names.
	Anybody?
	Oh, I'll go.
	I have never sleep into this camera.
	I have never seen anyone eat.
	Straight into the mic.
	I have never seen anyone eat anything as disgustingly as you eat any kind of food.
	It is the you is crazy.
	It is.
	I can't take you anywhere.
	Ever.
	And that's it.
	That was the okay.
	Anybody else?
	Bella, what you got?
	I got that one on my mind.
	You got a roast?
	Anybody?
	I don't see my roast.
	Nope.
	Anybody?
	Nobody?
	Okay.
	All right.
	Damn, nobody.
	Come on.
	You go, girl.
	Let's roast.
	Do it.
	No excuses, play like a champion.
	I have never seen a guy have so much dick cheese in their life.
	Oh, yeah, girl.
	So much what?
	Oh, yeah, girl.
	Oh, what?
	Oh, no.
	Excuse me.
	How long was he your boyfriend for?
	A year and a half.
	All right.
	That is exposing.
	When was the finest straw of all the dick cheese?
	I don't know what that is.
	Just like sounds horrible.
	Well, good thing you don't know, girl.
	Yikes.
	Okay, good times.
	Oh, here we go.
	Each panelist, Toxic Olympics, shares the most toxic thing they've ever done.
	Looks like Bella has something.
	Go ahead, Bella.
	I literally haven't even thought yet.
	I have something.
	I have to think of the most toxic thing I've ever done.
	Most toxic thing you've ever done.
	To a partner.
	Sure, yeah.
	To a guy.
	What do you think?
	I was probably 17, and I had this co-worker that really liked me.
	So I used him to drive me to another guy I was seeing.
	And he was really, really hurt.
	I lied and said that I was going to do homeschool or some crap, but he saw the guy come out and so he drove off, wrote on Facebook, like how much I like.
	And mind you, I don't know if I might have was given him like signals or whatever that indication that I liked him like that, but that was probably a toxic that I remember the most.
	And I just remember how hurt he was.
	And I was like, damn, I did not like you.
	And I'm sorry that I hurt you like that.
	I don't even think I even apologize to him.
	But if you're watching this panel, I'm sorry.
	Oh, way to take accountability.
	I think my most like toxic moment was when I like, and this was the relationship where I was with him like four or five years.
	So I like kept catching him actually talking to escorts all the time.
	So I ended up like driving to his job and he left his keys in his car.
	So I like got in his car and I was like, and it was like a charger.
	So I was like driving it around the parking lot and like honking the horn and like skirt skirting that thing.
	I'm not even gonna lie.
	Good job.
	Yeah, and then he ended up coming out and then we kind of like fought a little bit.
	But I've grown so I'm not like that anymore.
	But that was probably like one of my more toxic moments.
	I've done crazy stuff.
	I had a high-speed chase with my ex, crashed my car a little bit and then went back home and slept with him.
	Like in his bed, like you know what?
	Same, same girl, same.
	I've shown up to his house tons of times.
	He showed up to my house.
	He used to like break into my house and stuff when we'd have fights.
	It's pretty crazy.
	I've been there.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	I feel like I have a lot more stories, but I just can't think of them right now.
	Yeah, I definitely have more, but that one stood out the most because the way I was driving that charger, I'm surprised I didn't crash it.
	It was bad.
	Bad.
	How fast were you going?
	Real fast in a parking lot, too.
	And I remember that's good.
	I like that.
	I also like crazy guys.
	Same.
	Oh, yeah, a little bit.
	Yeah.
	I like controlling.
	So my boyfriend's definitely a little controlling, and I definitely like it.
	I do.
	Yeah, like I kind of like that he would show up to my house.
	Because he has a really loud car, too.
	And he would just like terrorize my neighborhood all night until I answered.
	Yeah.
	Call me from a bar.
	Yeah.
	That's not my thing.
	I like it.
	May that love never find me.
	Find me.
	I don't think I ever want a boyfriend ever again.
	Why?
	Oh.
	She's done.
	No, I'm just like, I just, I mean, not actually ever again.
	Just give me like a few years.
	I just, I just, yeah, just focus on yourself.
	Yeah.
	And you're in school.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Yeah, exactly.
	I got other things.
	Yeah, but that doesn't mean just like say like have sex.
	I mean, oh no, that's.
	And I'm just saying, like, in general, like, you know, working on yourself is still super valid.
	And that's still a beautiful thing.
	So, what do you think you need to improve?
	Honestly, like, I've done a lot of strong improvement over the past couple years.
	I'm sober.
	Not like, I'm California sober.
	I don't drink alcohol.
	And that's done a lot for me.
	And I don't know.
	I'm starting college.
	Like, I feel like I need to focus on all the things that I'm going to start going to AA again.
	Do some self-work.
	Wait, AA, like alcoholics.
	Yeah, like alcoholics.
	An alcoholic at one point.
	Yeah, I was.
	It wasn't alcoholic, but I'm good now.
	Congratulations.
	Ah, thanks.
	Thanks, guys.
	But, anyways, no, just like stuff that I learned there.
	I don't know.
	It's like less even like specific things that I want to work on.
	I just think that it's important for me at this time of my life to grow into myself and not into someone else.
	And like, I want to figure out who I am.
	And I don't know.
	I feel like it's a really prime time in my life where I'm going to like be blossoming into the final me.
	How long have you been sober?
	Two years and just happened.
	And you're 18.
	I was going to say, aren't you 18?
	Yeah.
	How old were you when this happened?
	I was turning 16 when I finally was able to like get that.
	How long were you like dealing with that?
	Four years, I think.
	Straight.
	It just got, yeah, it was just like.
	It's like four.
	Like, how old were you?
	I think I was 12 when I started drinking.
	Wow.
	Why?
	If you, if you're comfortable with me.
	Oh, yeah.
	I mean, like, um, it was just like around.
	Like, I grew up in a place where, like, I grew up in a, like, no complaints, a beautiful area.
	People were wealthy, but that people being wealthy also means that their parents aren't around.
	So, like, my friends would have alcohol and they would drink and it was like funny, but like, out drinking, it wasn't funny.
	Yeah.
	But nothing like, I have great memories, like, no regrets at all.
	Just like for my safety and the safety of others.
	I'm not going to ingest that anymore.
	Meth?
	Well, sorry, I just.
	Meth alcohol.
	Oh, sorry.
	Sorry, I missed that part.
	Yeah, no.
	Okay, that's cool.
	Anybody else, any most toxic thing done ever?
	This isn't as crazy as yours by any means, but I was at this 4th of July get-together.
	And I was, I happened to have been talking to my ex.
	He was there.
	He was talking to me.
	And he thought we were hanging out and everything.
	And I was like, kind of letting it happen.
	Like, it was whatever.
	And then the guy that I started seeing after I broke up with him walked through the door when he was supposed to be out of town.
	And I ditched my ex and ran up to the other guy and hugged him right in front of him.
	No, that might be worse, actually.
	And then I left with the other guy.
	And yeah.
	Yeah.
	But my ex and I are good now.
	We're on good terms, so it's okay.
	Which one is this?
	The one that called me for the friggin' flower thing?
	Yeah.
	I don't like him.
	We're gonna get into the next segment here.
	Actually, before that, I did have a question for all the panelists.
	Who hears parents are still together?
	Parents are together.
	Together.
	So why don't we just have you guys say into the mic just because we have some audio-only listeners?
	So your parents still together?
	Yes.
	No.
	Were they married?
	Yes.
	But divorced?
	Not together.
	Divorced.
	Divorced.
	Together.
	They're not together, but my parents were never married.
	They were together, but they never married.
	Gotcha.
	What about you?
	Not together, and they were never, never really together.
	Okay, what about you?
	Not together, never been married.
	They're together.
	Okay.
	So this next segment is, unfortunately, normally we pull it up through StreamYard, but it's not working.
	Rate your looks on a scale of 1 to 10.
	I was prepared for this.
	She's prepared.
	I watched these.
	I watched all the videos so I could like shit.
	She's ready.
	Pre-learn what you were going to ask me.
	She knows.
	She's ready to go.
	Okay, so what do you rate your looks on the scale of 1 to 10?
	You never seven.
	There's no right answer.
	There's a right answer.
	In my eyes, a 10.
	And that's all that matters.
	10?
	Okay.
	10.
	10?
	Yo.
	I think, I mean, like, I've, oh, yeah, like, I. I've never been hated on for my looks, and I'm pretty self-confident.
	So, in my current form, yeah, I guess I would say I would say your current form?
	Yeah, I used to be hideous.
	Are you Super Saiyan?
	You used to be hideous?
	Hideous.
	Hideous.
	Yes.
	Then what changed?
	I had like a hatred for men when I was a child.
	And so I cut my hair.
	I know.
	I cut my hair to look like a- Wait, were your parents, they're still together?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Gotcha.
	You hated men when you were younger.
	Not like all men, but just like the boys that were around me.
	Okay.
	And so I cut my hair to look like a little boy.
	I cut my hair like here.
	I had glasses that I didn't even need.
	I just liked them.
	And I had braces, and then I only dressed in clothes that were like two times my size.
	Nice.
	Like, completely unrecognizable.
	Do you still not like men?
	No, I have no like specific hatred.
	Oh, okay.
	Really?
	Do you have vague hatred?
	I have vague hatred.
	Not hatred.
	All men.
	Okay, what percentage of men are we talking about here?
	I mean, I guess just the ones that I don't like.
	Like now, because like I'm older now, and I don't like to put people in categories.
	Like, I hate this general amount of.
	But I just, yeah.
	Sorry, we're getting a little bit more.
	Anyway, I think I'd call myself, I think.
	Call yourself a what?
	No.
	I'd call myself a 10, yeah.
	A 10?
	A 10.
	What about you?
	10.
	10.
	Go ahead.
	If I'm being honest, probably like a 9 because I know I have things to work on and I know I'm not perfect and I know no one's perfect.
	And I think it's important to just, you know, accept your flaws and understand that you're working on them because I know that I'm not as good as I could be.
	You're a 10 in my eyes.
	Thank you.
	You're a 10 in my eyes.
	Same.
	I love you, Ava.
	I love you solo.
	All right, what about you?
	I think I'm like a seven.
	Seven?
	Okay.
	Five.
	Honestly, like a six.
	Why are y'all lying to yourself?
	I give myself a five.
	Okay, cool.
	Basically, I'm in their mind.
	Wow, you know, I always, we have multiple ten.
	She humbled herself.
	You know, I always get the most beautiful women on the show week after week.
	So, okay.
	Hold on.
	Wait, where was I going with this?
	I really don't know.
	I'll help you out.
	So you guys think you're put yourself up with the most hottest woman alive?
	No, I just don't think there's anything wrong with me.
	I like how I am.
	There's nothing wrong with you.
	Not physically, just there's nothing wrong with you.
	Oh, I was talking about like physically.
	What are you talking about physically?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, like when I look at physical.
	Like, I don't hate on myself.
	No, yeah, I need to.
	Like, I just, I don't look in the mirror and be like, oh, I don't know.
	Like, I, yeah.
	Okay.
	I don't dock points.
	Do you have anything to dock points on us for?
	Do I have anything?
	Well, even if I did, I don't think it would be rather rude of me to actually articulate that.
	Wait, was I rating myself like based on my looks or just like in your looks?
	Oh, yeah.
	Still tense?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I guess my question is, and this isn't directed at any one of you specifically.
	Why don't, you know, average, maybe a bit above average looking women, why can't they just say, I'm average?
	Or I'm a bit above that.
	You know, why can't they just say I'm average looking?
	Because everyone's wrong.
	But why even average?
	Like, why are we even like doing that?
	What's the beauty?
	Categorized.
	What's the beauty standard of average?
	Why are we putting people in a category?
	Like, what defines an average looking person?
	The majority of people will fall in.
	Like, that majority of people are going to be.
	What does the hottest girl look like?
	Like, the hottest girl look like?
	Why don't you tell me who you think is a 10?
	I think everyone's a 10.
	Everyone is different.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Hold on.
	All women are 10s?
	Everyone is different.
	Are all men tens?
	Sure.
	Really?
	Like we said, like we said, the preference.
	Everyone has a preference.
	Just based on look.
	Everyone has a pretty good one.
	You would consider every single one.
	She didn't say she, they're a 10 to her, but they can be a 10 to someone.
	They're every single person.
	No, but are they a 10 to you?
	Are all men 10?
	No, because she has preferences.
	We all have preferences.
	Going back to.
	But are there generalized preferences that a lot of people have?
	Absolutely.
	There could be.
	I could be in a room with 10 people and three of them could say I'm a two and four of them could say I'm a 10.
	But I'm like, if you're asking, no, that's so naughty.
	Like, me and my roommates, we all have different types.
	A guy who I think is a 10 is the sexiest man alive.
	My roommates, right?
	Yeah, me too.
	None of that.
	Yeah, if you're asking, literally.
	If you're asking us ourselves what I think of myself, I guess I would say a 10.
	I'm pretty confident.
	I don't really ever get called ugly, but I can't say I'm a 10 to everyone in the world.
	That's a good point you bring up.
	Let's change it a little bit.
	Because you say to yourself, this is my rating to myself.
	What do you think if you guys were in a room with a cross-section of different men, say a thousand men?
	Yeah, I know that's crazy, right?
	Intimidating.
	10,000, 100,000 men.
	What do you think they would rate you?
	Yeah, what would the average?
	who's a 10 but can you give me like i do like oh i'm sorry i I got a little excited.
	Can you give me like a one and then can you give me like a shot?
	Here's what I'll do.
	Maybe just give me a 10.
	Yeah, sure.
	I mean, I guess I could give you a couple examples.
	So like a 10 could be Megan Fox when she was younger.
	Adriana Lima, Victoria Sergeant.
	I love that one.
	Younger.
	Ah, well, Shami, that's the crazy scale.
	Those are not women that you see every day, though.
	Supermodel would make them.
	So is 10 like supermodel status?
	You have to give us more context.
	It depends where you live, I guess.
	But 10 is like you never see someone this beautiful almost ever.
	Oh.
	I think I'm like that would be a 10, right?
	I think I'm beautiful, but I think I'm like an average amount of beautiful.
	Yeah, and that's why even saying like how I'm a seven doesn't mean I'm not confident.
	I'm actually pretty sure of myself and I don't have a lot of problem when it comes to dating per se as like getting a specific kind of guy.
	What if we use this?
	Here's this.
	Here's one of my viewers proposed a chart.
	10.
	Absolutely stunning.
	Nine gorgeous, eight beautiful, seven pretty, six above average, five average, four below average, three frumpy, two unattractive, one but ugly.
	Honestly, I say I'm gorgeous.
	I think I'm gorgeous.
	I think I'm really pretty.
	Yeah, I think I'm pretty.
	I think I'm, yeah, I'd say nine.
	You could be like the hottest, I'm pretty.
	Is it ugly?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, like I've like this is kind of drastic.
	I'm not going to sit here and tell you that I'm the most beautiful girl you've ever seen and that I like am above the average person.
	Like damn.
	But so if the average person is five and you say you're a 10.
	If the average, if an average like good looking person is a five, that would change my answer.
	Average okay looking like it doesn't hurt you to look at them.
	Yeah five would be average.
	Average.
	Ava.
	That was great how you said that.
	Yeah five would be average.
	I would say a nine or ten heads are turning on a swivel as they walk down the street.
	Okay but that depends where you are.
	If I walk in Mexico, my bitch's heads are turning.
	Yeah.
	You're saying if you, if you live in Mexico.
	If I go on a walk in Mexico.
	Have you been on a walk in Mexico?
	I have twice this summer.
	I went to Mexico twice.
	Yes.
	Just this summer.
	But like, heads are going to be turning because I have a little white blonde American girl.
	Yeah, sure.
	So that's what happened.
	I mean, we couldn't.
	It depends where you are.
	Let's say stay straight.
	You're walking on.
	So that's also like cultural shock.
	I know, exactly.
	Like, what's this white girl doing over here?
	Like, you know.
	Yeah, maybe they're just trying to rob you.
	Oh, yeah.
	I think it depends where you are, too.
	I think that I'm more beautiful, considered more beautiful here than I was in Oregon.
	And I think that I would be considered more beautiful in Peru than I would be.
	That's what I'm saying.
	It's like girls in Scottsdale and Air Force.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	So a woman who's like, say, a 10 in one location, you can put her in another location.
	She's still going to be appraised as really attractive.
	That's why I think it's hard to find the exact number.
	Can we get a two number?
	Yeah, that's why I'm saying that.
	Can we skip this topic?
	I know I'm kind of bored of this.
	Going back to the market.
	I'm just getting shout-outs right now.
	Going back to the question that I was asking, though, if you have hundreds of thousands of men, it's true that one guy's going to rate you a 10, and one guy's going to rate you a 1, and some are going to rate you 3, some are going to rate you 7.
	But we're talking about average here.
	So what do you think the average rating would be?
	Starting with you?
	I don't know.
	Can you tilt your mic?
	Wait, you got to answer the question before you get it.
	Out of a thousand people, that thing.
	I don't know because I'm stuck on something else.
	Tilt, tilt, tilt.
	No, other way, other way.
	Tilt.
	I don't know.
	Skip because I'm stuck on something else.
	You got to answer.
	I don't know.
	But my argument is that I feel like in hotter climates in the U.S., the women are hotter because you're wearing less clothes, you're more fit, you're working out.
	And like you go to climate.
	Yeah, I know.
	And then you go to like New York City and then you see like not so beautiful women because summertime in New York City.
	Yeah.
	So that's my average.
	It's brutal in the summertime in New York City.
	Okay.
	So do you want to answer the question?
	I just did.
	Over and out.
	Thank you.
	Can you repeat the question?
	Okay, 100 or 10,000 men.
	What's the average?
	And what do you think?
	100,000?
	Sure.
	10.
	It could be a million.
	What do you think they would rate you?
	Like the average?
	Yeah, the average.
	Because I don't know.
	Okay, some guy would rate you a 10, someone would rate you a 1.
	8.6.
	Love it.
	7.
	7.
	6, 7.
	Okay.
	Go ahead.
	That was damn old.
	That was such a good little funny.
	Really bad.
	Shout out, Camin and Ernie, for that joke.
	You?
	They said it's all.
	He's no.
	I already, I just went.
	They were talking.
	It was probably hard for us.
	Okay.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	Oh, yeah.
	I said a seven.
	Okay, what about you?
	I still think a seven.
	Go ahead.
	Four, six.
	Okay, cool.
	Rock and roll.
	What about you?
	Yeah.
	A thousand girls.
	Women rate me four, five.
	Yeah.
	Coolio.
	Yeah.
	Like, I get.
	Julio.
	I mean, but this is just speaking strictly looks.
	You know, some might rate me higher, some might rate me lower.
	Yeah, it depends.
	No, so I wouldn't be surprised if somebody rated me one way or the other.
	We have some chats coming through, but we got some follow-up here.
	What the f?
	Hasty George donated $200, obese, sweaty, stinky people are tens as well.
	LA MFA.
	Okay.
	Wait, is Lizzo a 10?
	Lizzo?
	It's Lizzie.
	I think she's pretty.
	Anyone can be a 10.
	Yeah, you got it all fucked up.
	Is Lizzo a 10?
	Why are you looking at me?
	Because I was asking you.
	Why did you ask everyone else?
	Why are you just pointing at me?
	Because I feel like picking on you.
	How about that?
	Why me?
	Oh, my.
	Just to answer the question.
	I think she's beautiful.
	I think that she, I think that she worked on herself and she's beautiful.
	Because I know she done lost a bit of weight.
	Old Lizzo.
	She's still beautiful.
	They love and over a big lady.
	I'm saying, are you saying, do are you saying that, like, does she think fat people are pretty?
	Because you're referring to Lizzo specifically when she was fat.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I'm asking if she thought Lizzo was pretty, beautiful when she was a fat.
	Anyone can be a 10.
	Anyone can be a 10?
	Yeah.
	You could look at someone and be like, damn, that motherfucker ugly, and someone else can look at them and be like, oh, wow.
	That was actually, that was just funny how you did that.
	It's true.
	Can I ask you a question?
	If somebody said that you looked like Lizzo, would you.
	How would you feel about that?
	I feel like I look nothing like Lizzo.
	But if you did, if somebody did said you looked like Lizzo, you'd be.
	She'd probably be quite confused because you don't.
	But what if somebody was making a statement about her weight?
	Do you think Lizzo's ugly?
	Because you're saying it to me like I'd be offended by it.
	I think, Nick, do you have that clip, the rhino one?
	I kind of.
	You know what I'm talking about now?
	Thank you very much.
	It's on my Twitter.
	Like, okay.
	Thanks.
	We pulled it up twice.
	It's like the.
	It's on the Twitter on my personal account.
	Yeah.
	Wait, did I do you know if I sent it to you last time?
	Oh, on your personal account?
	Oh, here.
	It's in the here.
	Open Instagram, Nick.
	I'm pretty sure it's sent here.
	Oh, wait, no.
	Fuck.
	That's not it.
	Oh, I forgot we have school.
	I have a classroom shift tomorrow.
	Whatever.
	I'll move it off of that.
	Going around the table, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?
	Starting with me.
	I was also ready for this question.
	May I ask you?
	She's ready.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So you're 24 at 34, better looking.
	Do you think you'll be better looking 20 years' time, 44?
	I don't know.
	I can't predict that far ahead.
	Maybe.
	Perhaps not.
	Assuming you can't get any plastic surgery.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Hot.
	30 years' time, 54.
	Better looking.
	I'ma be that granny 100 years old in a G-string, baby.
	Hot.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	Hold on.
	I need to let a couple chats come through, then we're gonna come back to this.
	This is for Mary.
	Oh, shit.
	Thank you, Chris.
	Oh, my God, Mary.
	Oh, shit.
	Love you, Christian.
	Oh, yeah, you have to pay the symptax, I guess.
	He's telling me he has to pay the syntax.
	Oh, shit.
	Oh, Pasty.
	You're crazy for this one.
	Pasty's coming in.
	Hot.
	With.
	But, Christian, thank you for the TTS.
	Pay the symtax.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	Chair 3.
	So, according to your belief, Harvey Weinstein is a 10 as well.
	LMFAO.
	Third chair, me?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Somebody gotta think that motherfucker pretty.
	It's only a face a mother could love.
	I actually don't even know who that is.
	He's the.
	We shouldn't even get into it.
	We're just gonna avoid that one.
	Thank you, Pacey.
	Let's just say he's not a conventionally good-looking man.
	Is he like disabled or something?
	Is that what you're doing?
	No, he, anyways.
	Where's this?
	Let's just say he had a lot of accusations, Hollywood Me Too stuff.
	And that's not about his looks.
	True, but he's also not attractive the best looking dude.
	Then he's not at a 10.
	Anyways, let's see here.
	Okay.
	Oh, yes.
	Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time?
	You're 18 better looking at 28?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	20 years time, 38?
	I mean, I wouldn't say like better.
	Like, it depends on your standards because I feel like the standard is low-key, like 17 to like 28 is like to like society is like the hottest.
	But like, I think I'll still be really good looking.
	Okay.
	Like, I think I'll be a hot mom.
	So just as good looking?
	Yeah, just as good looking.
	Okay.
	What about just like older?
	30 years time.
	So just as good looking and just older.
	At 38?
	Okay.
	Yeah, just depends.
	I'd be 48, my mistake.
	Like to another 48-year-old, just as attractive as I would have been to another 18-year-old.
	Well, I think the question there would be to the, say, say, 40-year-old, would you be more, are you more physically attractive at 38 versus 28?
	38 versus 18.
	But to a 40-year-old or to a 28-year-old?
	The 40-year-old.
	I mean, yeah, 40-year-old's probably into an 18-year-old.
	Okay, there it is.
	But in terms of your own appraisal, better looking in 40 years?
	I would say the same amount of good looking.
	I don't think better at looking.
	When's the peak, I guess?
	I think 28 would be the best.
	Okay.
	What about like 78?
	Just as good looking?
	As now?
	No.
	68?
	Just as good looking?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28?
	Yes.
	I'm so excited to look like my mom.
	All the women in my family age like fine one.
	She got ID'd at restaurants till I was like 12, 13.
	Baddies.
	38?
	Better than now?
	Yeah.
	No.
	I think I look better.
	I think at 28, I'll look better than I do now, but I think at 38, I think 28 would be peak.
	Okay, sure.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Better look at that.
	Actually, I take it back.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I take that back.
	I might be a pretty good looking 40-year-old.
	You should see my grandma.
	She looks great.
	Took some milk.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	50 or 48 then?
	Better looking then?
	48.
	48 is when I think it would start colouring.
	That's the decline.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Better looking at 28 versus 18?
	Yeah.
	38?
	Yeah.
	48?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	28?
	Better looking in 10 years' time?
	Yes.
	Yes to all of them.
	38?
	Yes.
	Yes to every single one.
	58?
	Yes, You'll be better looking at 108 than you are now.
	Yeah.
	Like Bella said, the women in my family age like fine wine.
	And I think my grandma is the most beautiful person I've ever seen in my entire life.
	100 though?
	And I don't care.
	I think it is.
	I think being able to see life through a person is the most beautiful thing ever.
	It's weird, though, like that people on both sides are not going to the retirement home to like pick up some strange.
	Like it's weird.
	Like why aren't you know the most beautiful 70, 80, 90, 100, why aren't you know these guys macing on some grandmas?
	What's up?
	Retirement homes have hella STDs.
	I do not know what you're talking about right now.
	They have hella STD?
	Yes.
	Retirement homes?
	Yes.
	I mean, is this a stat that we don't know about homes?
	Let's not understate the STD prevalence among the college.
	Okay, we're not understating.
	We're just also stating freaking retirement home.
	So, guys, wait, you're telling me that guys are not trying to MAC on women in retirement homes because they're worried about the STD risk.
	What?
	No, I'm saying they do.
	So, wait, like, no, no.
	In that age cohort, I'm just saying if that's when you're most beautiful, and if men tend to have a-I didn't say most, I said even.
	I said, like, you're the same beautiful, like, as you age.
	Like, I think aging is okay.
	All right, what about you?
	You're 30, better looking in 10 years' time at 40.
	Um, yes and no, only because my mom aged really well, too, so she's 45, but looks pretty young.
	Do we have the AI neck?
	It's pulled okay.
	Uh, 20 years' time, 50.
	Um, I think I'll start to get a little wrinkly, but I also don't think wrinkles are bad, so and I can't wait to have gray hair, so it's kind of hard for me to answer.
	And going back in time, were you better looking at 20 or better looking now at 30?
	I'm actually better looking now than I was at 20.
	Okay, all right, what about you?
	Uh, you're 27, better looking in 10 years' time, 37.
	Probably, yeah, yeah, 20 years' time, 47.
	No, okay, and then going back, say 18, better looking at 18 or better looking now at 27 now.
	Okay, I was a hot teenager, though.
	19, better looking in 10 years at 29?
	Yeah, 39, yes, 49.
	No, okay, got it.
	All right, that's very interesting.
	Uh, so Nick, we've put all of you through AI.
	I'm excited.
	We've aged all of you.
	We're gonna see if we have aged all of you.
	Yeah, wait, what?
	And uh, wait, what?
	I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes and the right look, you could be very striking.
	All right, you got it ready to go?
	Are we watching the screen?
	I'm so excited.
	Oh, wait, we got a CTS.
	I'm gonna let that come through, then we're gonna get into it.
	Pasty, George donated $200.
	I don't mean to be rude, but I will just be realistic and try to read your smile.
	That is just life and how it is.
	He's a brave and a decent man.
	He's a pioneer.
	Oh, wow.
	Okay, that's a good one.
	Pasty, thank you.
	Appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	All right, let's get into it.
	I need a how many years in the future is that?
	It's like five years, tops.
	I think she looks hot as hell.
	Make us.
	Seriously, I feel like that's not 20s and 30s, though.
	That's what you asked us.
	Boo.
	And we got it up there for some of y'all.
	Yeah.
	I'm going to be swinging them titties just at that age.
	Oh, that's great.
	What the fuck?
	Okay.
	Hell yeah.
	All right.
	Next.
	Oh, my God.
	Oh, you're cute, though.
	Oh, my God.
	Wait, let's get it.
	I know if you scared her mind.
	Oh, my God.
	Bonnie.
	So I think the middle, that's probably 40s.
	No, that is not the 40s.
	You know, I wear sunscreen.
	That's going to make me remember.
	It's honestly like 50, 60s.
	But that's 40s.
	I'm going to have some numbs.
	It's creeping.
	It's creeping up.
	All right.
	Uh-oh.
	Next.
	Whoa.
	Whoa.
	Damn.
	Wait.
	You're a baddie.
	Apparently, just everything below the necklace still looking good, though.
	It's just the neck up.
	I don't mind this at all.
	She's good with it.
	Look, that's cute.
	I'll be wearing this like a little bit.
	You're gonna be like a cute little old lady.
	I'm excited to be a cute little old lady.
	I'm excited for you.
	Nice.
	So long as I end up wealthy by then.
	End up wealthy?
	Yeah, I want to be a singer so bad.
	Oh, with the music.
	Yeah, I want to be rich in your title.
	I can't do a cappella.
	That's terrifying.
	It's going to be your one pull.
	I'll pull videos.
	I love a beat right now.
	All right.
	Let's do.
	You're on the next.
	Uh-oh.
	Oh.
	Oh, it's not bad.
	It's not that bad.
	Oh, she's really cute.
	The girl from Coco.
	Oh, my gosh, a little bit.
	Yeah.
	Sorry.
	All right.
	Next.
	That's a good idea.
	Oh, that is not really cute.
	Cute.
	She looks like you would help.
	Lost puppies.
	Leave her alone.
	Yes.
	I'm nervous for mine.
	All right.
	Next.
	Period.
	Oh, my God.
	No, God's fire.
	God's fire.
	That's funny.
	That's good.
	The middle one's not that bad.
	Wait, hold on.
	This is kind of weird.
	You're like, you're black, right?
	I'm black, Colombian, Italian.
	You became a white woman over time.
	That's interesting.
	It is very good.
	That's interesting.
	But my mom is more like your color.
	Pale as fuck.
	Yeah, she is.
	If she sees this, she's going to get mad at me.
	Woman.
	Okay, we'll do.
	Let's do next.
	Sweet.
	Oh, you know what?
	You're kind of adorable.
	Oh.
	You look like you would help a homeless person.
	Really?
	You're definitely not skipping yours.
	You're not like.
	No, she's looking so good at hers.
	All right.
	I don't want to.
	Next.
	Look, you got to look.
	Look.
	Ready?
	Ready?
	Period.
	Oh, look.
	Okay, honestly.
	You look fierce.
	I literally have four different AI ones now at this point.
	Wait, hold on.
	Let me pull it up again.
	That middle one.
	You also kind of became white, too.
	I don't know what that is.
	Age is Agent.
	It's AI.
	It's very racist.
	It only wants to see old white people for some time.
	Do we have that on you?
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	Oh, yeah.
	Can we see it?
	Next.
	Oh, Felicity.
	Yeah, I've seen yours.
	Rip.
	Okay, next.
	We've seen.
	Oh, okay.
	Wait, hold on.
	That's.
	Oh, okay.
	Wait.
	Is there another one there?
	Not AI.
	Oh, they didn't.
	Okay.
	That's me.
	I was going to say, is that I still first off.
	This middle.
	That one's.
	They're all old.
	But funnily enough, the one on the right is the oldest photo of me.
	Because I was in.
	It was for a bad grandpa or something.
	Yeah, yeah.
	It was a gig I did like 10 years ago in Amsterdam, and they put on like prosthetics and made me look old.
	So that's, I guess, probably better than the AI, maybe.
	They didn't do a great job, though.
	Those makeup artists.
	I should have Bella do that shit.
	Me?
	Aren't you a makeup artist?
	Hair.
	Oh, hair.
	Okay, sorry.
	Cosmetology, whatever.
	Threw me off.
	Us men, we can't differentiate between cosmetic.
	Everyone immediately assumes makeup every single time.
	Like everyone.
	Exactly.
	Easy.
	Simple.
	Yeah.
	Hair.
	Wow.
	Period.
	Wow.
	Now we've done something else.
	We've done something else.
	We've also gender swapped all of you.
	Gender swapped?
	Women have always wanted to see me as a man.
	I really want to see what I'm saying.
	Oh, okay.
	Let's.
	You have it?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Oh, my God.
	Santa Claus for real.
	We expect you to cosplay when you get older.
	I will be able to gender swap.
	So, two questions.
	Would you rate the male version of you?
	And then would you date the male version of you?
	Two questions.
	Oh, my God.
	Absolutely not.
	But do we get to like add height and like buff like that?
	I'm going to assume he's taller.
	I'm going to assume he's tall.
	All right.
	Oh, oh, my.
	Okay.
	No.
	Not bad.
	Not bad.
	Stop it.
	Get some help.
	All right, here it is.
	Not bad, right?
	Would you rate him?
	Would you date him?
	Would I rate him?
	Would I date him?
	Can I see him for longer?
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Sure.
	Sure.
	I'd date my twin.
	That looks very weird.
	Sure.
	What do you rate him?
	I don't know.
	He has a nice facial structure, and I like his hair.
	And bro, the nose is literally like mine.
	It's literally my nose.
	The ears are huge, but I mean, he's not a bad-looking dude.
	I'd give it a go.
	All right.
	Own it, girl.
	Next.
	Not horrible either.
	That looks like.
	Can it wait?
	Let me.
	That looks like my uncle.
	And also kind of my dad.
	Would you date the male version of you?
	His forehead's kind of big.
	I'm going to be honest.
	Are they all going to have beards?
	Like, I.
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	His forehead's kind of big.
	His eyebrows are a little wily.
	Okay, one more time.
	Let me see.
	Give him a shot.
	He kind of reminds me of that guy who keeps coming to the door with the Tesla.
	Oh, my God.
	Driving.
	He looks like him a little bit.
	All right.
	Anyways, I don't think so.
	I'm so excited.
	All right.
	Next.
	I'm excited to see yours.
	Oh.
	Oh, my God.
	I lied.
	Can we see it again?
	So that is actually the most terrifying thing I ever did see in all of my life.
	I don't know why my ended up like that.
	Hold on.
	Everybody's a 10, though.
	Yeah.
	Somebody can make reference.
	You know what?
	I mean, my dude was pretty good.
	Yeah, I'm speaking from personal.
	Can I see one more time?
	Dude.
	Everybody's hot.
	Your dude was pretty hot.
	Everyone's really hot.
	Oh my god, I'd be a horrible man.
	That's ooh, and I end up like that.
	That's funny.
	Sometimes I think about that, what you just said.
	Like, if you put women, you gender swap them, damn, I think a lot of y'all would be struggling.
	Y'all would be struggling.
	Y'all would tell me how many people are.
	Like if we became men, like all of us as men would look like bad.
	Sorry, I've been talking about that.
	Maybe, but like the male looks equivalent of you.
	Like, because women have dating on easy mode.
	All right.
	I think it's that I don't have a single masculine feature on my face, I feel like.
	So like I just can't like the AIing me into a man, like that's obscured.
	To be fair, look, I'll be charitable here.
	This AI was not very honestly if the AI did AI did a little bit of a better job.
	I think he's a fan.
	Do you have a bro?
	Do you have a brother?
	Yeah, but he's four and it's from a different father, so he looks nothing like me.
	Okay, it doesn't.
	Yeah, never mind.
	All right, next.
	So you wouldn't date that guy?
	Hell no.
	Hey, hell no.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Oh, that looks like my brother.
	That looks like my uncle.
	Oh, that looks like my brother.
	Would you date him?
	No.
	Would you rate him?
	A 10.
	Yes To someone else all these girls are fumbling 10 out of 10 males Like he's a 10, but you're not to you to someone I Would be a really hot guy, but not to myself.
	I'm not a very hot guy.
	All right.
	She's a girl.
	Okay.
	All right next I think you're gonna be sexy Yeah, I think so oh why is his eye fucked up?
	Okay, ignore the fucked up eye.
	Just imagine the AI scuffed it.
	Oh, he's actually got you.
	Oh my god.
	You're so it looks exactly like this guy Ava showed me a picture of today while I was reorganizing our fridge.
	It's kind of funny.
	Oh my god.
	Would you date him?
	Yeah.
	He does honestly if he had like if I had your hair too.
	Yeah.
	I literally said this guy looks like a male version of someone.
	He's so hot.
	Would you rate him?
	Oh, a 10.
	Sweet.
	Period.
	Next.
	He looks a little boy.
	Why does it do yourself?
	Wait, oh, like go back to it.
	You know, it's just.
	Wait, just like the hairs warped you a little.
	Yeah, why isn't that?
	It's no for me.
	It's enough for me.
	But it's just, the thing is, it's funny.
	It's funny because, so I do have brothers, and like they, it doesn't quite look like them, but like the nose and the smile and the eyes are definitely still like my brothers.
	And it's probably because they're my brother.
	Most are yours.
	Yeah.
	But I would not date that at all.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Here it is.
	A little bit like my brother.
	Would you date him?
	Nah.
	Okay.
	Next.
	Yeah, it would.
	Oh.
	Wait, what?
	He's not bad.
	Do you want him?
	I think without the beard is better.
	With that.
	Ew.
	The second one was not bad.
	The second one was not bad.
	That's literally you as a dude.
	Get that get out of here, please.
	What?
	You don't date Asian guys or something?
	Do I have to rate him?
	Yes.
	A 10 out of 10.
	Period.
	Brian, your face.
	Fuck it.
	Cock it.
	Can you skip it?
	Did you not date?
	You don't date Asian guys?
	I do.
	Can you skip it?
	Would you?
	But if.
	I do.
	I do date Asian guys.
	Just not him.
	He's not.
	Not that one.
	Not good.
	Not good enough.
	All right.
	Okay, that's cool.
	Next.
	Oh.
	No, thank you.
	You're kind of cute.
	I feel like that one looks the most.
	No, let's say.
	Why does he have a unibrow?
	Oh, is it because you're trying to tell us something Felicity?
	No, that's just shadow.
	Or wait.
	It's not bad.
	The beard one is pretty good.
	Yeah, it'd be good.
	It's not, you know, whatever.
	All right.
	It's okay.
	All right.
	There you go.
	All right.
	Next.
	I've seen this.
	I've seen this one.
	Not the top, but I would date the bottom.
	I don't know.
	Looks a little crazy.
	I like the top better than the top.
	I like the top or the bottom.
	Well, the AI is fucking me up, though, all the time.
	That's crazy.
	Sweet, yeah.
	I would date her.
	Why did your eyes just get darker and darker?
	Maybe it's like the color of his shirt on the bottom one.
	Anyways, wow, that's really cool.
	Oh, it's dark outside.
	I honestly didn't even know.
	I know I've been missed that yet.
	Clocking the sun going down.
	I have no idea what time it is.
	To the women who are tens, can you guys name like maybe a celebrity or a famous person who you think is a 10?
	Male or female?
	We'll do.
	Let's start with women, then we'll go back, we'll do men afterwards.
	Go ahead.
	Mia Kunes, Zendaya.
	Can you tilt your mic down a little bit?
	Mila Kunas and Zendaya 10.
	Okay, what about you?
	I have mine.
	Sidney Sweeney.
	Sidney Sweeney, okay.
	Sydney Sweeney.
	10.
	Okay, what about you?
	Could we come back to me?
	I don't know that many celebrities off a name.
	I'm thinking.
	Can I name multiple?
	Sure.
	Alicia Keys.
	Zendaya.
	Janea Icon.
	Oh, I do have one.
	Okay.
	Oh, Margo Robbie.
	Margo Robbie, 10.
	Okay.
	Oh, oh.
	Well, this is only for the 10s here.
	Only for the 10s, you know.
	Tyla.
	So, oh, my gosh.
	She's so bad.
	So just to be clear, their tens, your tens, you guys are saying that you don't, obviously you look different, but you're just as attractive as these people who you listed.
	Oh, come on.
	We already talked about this.
	Perspective.
	Perspective.
	It's perspective.
	People could say that I'm just as attractive as Tyla, but that's not common, I don't think.
	I think there are guys that say I'm just as attractive.
	I can't generally say that I'm just as attractive as Tyla.
	What?
	Yeah.
	Remember, perspective.
	I think I'm a 10.
	I don't think everyone thinks I'm a 10.
	I think Tyler's a 10.
	How about this?
	Name a guy who's a 10.
	Celebrity?
	Gary Breca.
	Who the?
	Exactly.
	Who the?
	Look him up in the book.
	Who the fuck is that guy?
	Name a guy who's a 10.
	Actor or musician.
	Mark Wahlberg.
	Mark Wahlberg.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Mark Wahlberg.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Young Will Smith.
	Young Will Smith.
	Younger Will Smith.
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	I don't do like the guys.
	What's this?
	The only guy I could think of.
	I can't do it.
	Like an actor.
	Nothing's popping together.
	Yeah, same.
	I don't watch movies ever.
	Oh, I got this.
	Who you got?
	Who are you?
	Oh, the guy from Euphoria.
	What's his name?
	Oh, my God.
	Named Jacobs.
	No, yeah, but what's his name?
	Jacob Alordi.
	Jacob Alorde.
	Jacob.
	Oh, yeah, Jacob.
	Oh my God.
	Jacob.
	Oh, he's so cute.
	Tristan from Milan Girls.
	No, but like really conventionally attractive guys.
	Wait, okay, well, that's going to be a whole spiral.
	Let me not say that.
	Wait, I have one.
	Oh, my God.
	I have one.
	I don't know his name.
	Dude, Tristan from Gilmore Girls.
	Okay, no idea who that is.
	Which that guy?
	Who's a 10?
	Oh, Michael B. Jordan.
	Michael B. Jordan.
	Patrick Definitely.
	Patrick Dead.
	And Jason Mamoa.
	Jason Mamoa.
	Okay.
	What about the guy?
	Oh, wait, no, this is just for the 10s.
	Wait, and then another one.
	Adam Sandler is a 10 in my eyes.
	Love it.
	Love it for you.
	I love it for me too.
	Slay queen.
	Yes, baby.
	Spider-Man.
	Ooh.
	Which Spider-Man to animated the anime?
	The cartoon one.
	Love that guy.
	Question for you.
	The guys who are tens who you just listed, since you're a 10, they're 10.
	Could you get him?
	Could I get Adam Sandler?
	Perhaps.
	Oops.
	Okay.
	Mark Wahlberg, I like to think yes.
	Jacob Alordi, I'm convinced that he has to be gay because he's so beautiful.
	You could get him or if he was straight?
	I think I could get him.
	I don't think I could keep him.
	That's a great way to put it.
	Probably not a.
	That's not really a W for women.
	I'm just telling you.
	I just walk a guy once.
	That's not a W. Yo, I mean, okay, I think I could get him and keep him for a bit.
	Okay, well, okay, Jason Momoa.
	All right, Edika.
	Okay, we'll get to you.
	All right.
	When you say get him, do you mean sleep with him or be with him?
	Long-term relationship.
	Loki, no.
	Loki, I don't think I could.
	I mean, if you.
	Okay, I'm thinking about Will Smith right now.
	If he was the same age as me, yeah, I think I could bag that.
	Okay.
	I think I could do that.
	I don't think so because I'm not his 10.
	Does that make sense?
	Oh, yeah, same.
	I'm just saying.
	Okay, Jason Momoa, can you land Jason Momoa?
	Oh, dude, young Jason Mamoa?
	Well, yeah, you think he's hot, but can you land him?
	Yeah, yeah, I totally could.
	Say with Patrick Dubsey, and most definitely, Michael B. Jordan.
	If I was ever in a room with Michael B. Jordan, oh my god, I'm flirting my ass off.
	I love Michael B. Jordan.
	Oh, boy.
	You really don't understand.
	All right.
	We got some confident women.
	Does everyone on the Sidemen YouTube channel count as celebrities?
	Shit.
	Sure.
	I love every single one of them.
	There's just somebody you could name who.
	And the beta squad.
	I watched the review.
	Never seen that.
	No.
	Don't you like the challenges and stuff?
	And they have the awesome accent.
	No, I don't know who that is.
	You don't know Aiden.
	She knows.
	I don't know any celebrities.
	I told you.
	I don't watch movies.
	All right.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	I don't know, man.
	Why?
	I'll ask the question again.
	Why don't average women want to date average men?
	What?
	Wait, I thought they do.
	I don't even think you've asked us that yet.
	Why don't average women want to date average men?
	Who says they don't?
	Average women want to date like average men.
	I feel like they do.
	I feel like we.
	I feel like they honestly do.
	Well, here, let's do it like this.
	Would you date an average guy?
	Yes.
	What is average?
	Like, average-looking?
	Average-looking, average personality, average income.
	I feel like they would have to meet my average, if not more than that.
	Because if you're not meeting me where I'm at, I don't want your average.
	Average personality?
	Hell no.
	Absolutely not.
	Wait, what do you mean?
	I'm not going to date someone with an average personality.
	So you're saying your personality personality.
	Yes.
	Ava has actually amazing personality.
	Thank you.
	And I agree with that.
	Yeah.
	She needs a lot of fun.
	When you say you have an amazing personality, like, what do you mean?
	Like, you're funny.
	I don't know, okay.
	Solo, can you attest to this?
	I don't even describe my own personality.
	Ava is literally the most outgoing and like talkative and funny person I've ever met and she needs a guy that does the same.
	Thank you.
	But so from the male perspective, I don't think men prioritize those personality traits.
	I get as friends, you're like.
	Yeah, but I don't care.
	Well.
	But she wants someone that'll make her feel how friends feel.
	There are plenty of guys who do prioritize those traits, okay?
	Let me tell you.
	Prioritize humor.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Actually, yeah, there's lots of guys that like funny girls.
	Guys, generally speaking, don't care about a woman being funny.
	So I completely disagree and quiet.
	You got it.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	That sucks.
	Not.
	Do you think men want women who are not sweet and who are boisterous?
	There are men who want me and I'm not sweet.
	I'm boisterous.
	Okay.
	I'm sweet too.
	This isn't when I'm throwing these things out.
	No, I know.
	I'm just saying there are a lot of men.
	When I'm throwing these things out there, I'm not denying that there's no man on the planet Earth that wants you.
	That's not the case.
	I'm making it.
	But you're referring to average men who like average girls.
	I'm not an average girl.
	Therefore, I don't like average men.
	Average is going to be the majority.
	So yeah, a lot of guys probably don't prefer me.
	So, but what about you is above average?
	I don't think that I'm above average.
	Well, okay, but does average mean like average, like normal, or does average mean like average amount of goodness?
	Because again, preference.
	No, everyone's average is different.
	So, I'm so confused.
	Can you give me like average?
	You're neither hot nor average.
	It's all preference.
	Average to you.
	Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
	But average, like boring and normal, or average, like better.
	Because, like, I mean, I don't know.
	I don't think I'm like better than everyone else.
	I just think that like I'm not like super normal.
	Okay.
	Can you repeat the question?
	See, it does it.
	Which one?
	The original one?
	It was, why don't average women want average men?
	Oh, I thought you, oh, I thought we were like doing the whole circle thing.
	We'll be able to answer it.
	Whoops.
	Well, I guess I'll explain kind of quickly why this rating question is asked and why I think it's important and why I think it's important for both men and women, but I think this manifests itself more so in women.
	Having a reasonable self-assessment of your own attractiveness.
	So just because a guy will dick you down doesn't mean he'll wife you up.
	Whoa.
	No, it's true.
	Well, it's true.
	So very much it.
	Same thing with a girl, though.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Same thing with a girl.
	Tell my friends be sharking.
	Well, I would argue, while it is the case, I'm not denying that this phenomenon happens in the reverse.
	I think it's way more often the case.
	Like if a woman is going to have a one-night stand, that guy's going to at least be attractive enough, she would be in a relationship.
	No, actually, you're right.
	Just let me finish.
	She's going to be at he the guy is going to be at least attractive enough that she would be in a relationship with him on the sole metric of looks.
	Now, oftentimes, though, you'll see an even different thing.
	Relationship-minded women who otherwise wouldn't have hookups might break that rule if the guy is really fucking good-looking or really attractive.
	They might not otherwise really be into hookups, but he's so attractive.
	It's overwhelming.
	She's seduced, whatever.
	Whereas for men, when men are trying to engage in casual sex, they go the opposite direction.
	A man will have casual sex with a woman that on the sole basis of her physical appearance, he would never be in a relationship with her because she just doesn't meet his baseline level of what he wants for a girlfriend in terms of her looks.
	Brian, I'd be doing that to guys all the time.
	You're also a prostitute.
	Yeah, but I just, yeah, but I'm also avoidant also, too.
	All right.
	So, again, I'm not denying that women be slumming it from time to time for some dick.
	No denying it.
	Y'all be fucking some weird dude.
	But again, sometimes what else is the because okay, attraction isn't just about looks.
	There's other components too.
	So are you just like, it's like some of these bad-looking dudes, like they're also like terrible personality and whatever?
	Like, what makes me want to hit it and quit it and like never text them back?
	Is that the question?
	Sure.
	I don't know.
	Just the fact that.
	So you're just fucking dudes with bad personalities.
	No.
	So if I go out there, you would have seen.
	I'm like, girls are bad personalities and they're also ugly.
	Yes.
	Would that have to if I'm I didn't say that.
	I think she said that.
	Yeah, I know.
	Okay, so if I'm fucking a guy and he's attractive and he's hot, I mean, I'm gonna fuck him, but I also don't want a relationship, so but you said he's attractive.
	Yeah.
	I'm not gonna fuck an ugly guy.
	Wait, hold on.
	You're literally making my point.
	Okay.
	You're literally making my point.
	My argument here is that for a woman to sleep with a guy, he typically has to be at least good-looking enough that she'd be in a relationship with him.
	Right.
	But men don't do that.
	A guy who sleeps.
	With you here.
	Who's like, he would be like, just she could be amazing.
	She could be amazing, but just on the sole basis of her looks, he'd never be in a relationship with her.
	I don't think any of us are arguing.
	I agree.
	Right.
	You don't have to argue.
	I'm sure you agree with this because this is a well-documented, well, isn't documented.
	It's a phenomenon.
	Now, the issue is, though, is when if a woman isn't aware of her own standing in like the social order or whatever, she, I know it's, oh my God, he's explaining something to me that I disagree with.
	Oh my God.
	I don't know.
	You're rolling your eyes and shit.
	So I would say this because women have sexual act, like for example, if I step to a girl that's outside of my league, I'm not, she's never, it's never considered in her brain.
	Well, I'm not really that attractive to the guy, but he's offering dick.
	So I guess I'll fuck him for the experience.
	No, like if I step to a girl that's outside my league, instant rejection.
	So men, we get rejected on the front end.
	We get rejected up front.
	Y'all will get rejected on the back end where you're caught up in a situation shape.
	Why won't he commit?
	He's a fuckboy.
	All this stuff.
	Now, I'm not saying it's impossible for women to get into relationships.
	No.
	But what I am saying is guys will keep you around.
	They'll sleep with you once, twice, three times, situationship, friends with benefits.
	And on the sole basis of your looks, they're not going to give you commitment.
	You have at least that limited, limited sexual access to men outside of your league, whereas men don't get any access to women outside of their league.
	Instant rejection.
	You know, this isn't a blame game, by the way.
	Like, I think it's stupid as fuck for men to be sleeping with women who they don't have a genuine romantic interest in.
	But that's sort of besides the point.
	This is an actual phenomenon that happens.
	So what ends up happening is you'll have women who are dealing with a certain caliber of guy, and you'll be chasing those dudes who will never give you commitment.
	And maybe they'll string you along.
	You'll be able to sleep with them.
	And then you'll look at the guys who are actually prepared to give you commitment, who may very well be on your level.
	You're not going to give them commitment.
	Maybe when you're 30, it's time to settle down.
	But by that time, fuck, that's a bad scenario.
	So I guess ultimately my point here is it's important to know where you stand because it's very easy as women for you to deal with really attractive men that are going to be jerks or mistreat you or not give you the commitment you're looking for.
	Now, don't get me wrong.
	I understand not all women are looking for commitment.
	I know some women, baby, hold on.
	Here comes the whole thing.
	Some of them, look, some of y'all want to fuck around.
	Hey, whatever, whatever.
	You have no judgment.
	But that was wholesome.
	But I guess if I were to reframe it a little bit like this.
	Do you think, imagine like the average-looking dude, average, above-average-looking dude?
	Let's just say he could constantly be getting attention from like really beautiful women, but those really beautiful women never wanted a relationship.
	They'd fuck him once, twice, keep him around like friends with benefits.
	Never get a relationship, though.
	Do you think the average-looking guy would then go and look at the average woman who's willing to be in a relationship with him and be like, yes, I'm going to stop having sex with women who are way more beautiful than you and who are doing all these things for me and be in a relationship with you?
	I don't think they would.
	But that's not the case, of course.
	But it is the case in the reverse for women.
	Okay.
	Olivia, what are you trying to tell us?
	Are you trying to tell us that we need to lower our ranking?
	Well, I think because like you said, you started this whole conversation only the 10th.
	These questions are only for the 10th.
	I'm a little bit confused on like the point of the question.
	Yeah, no, well, the point is, is that the point is he's telling us we're not dance.
	That we're not.
	I'm pretty sure that's what he's doing.
	Is that what that whole thing is?
	I think he's telling us that we need to realize that we're not tense.
	Well, if you're fine.
	Look, I'll put it like this.
	It is a cautionary tale.
	If you're fine being used by really attractive men who have a bunch of people.
	Who's that I'm being used?
	I mean, if it's a mutual beneficiary.
	Well, sure, I agree that.
	Also, you don't know about my sex life.
	You don't know about any of our sex lives.
	Maybe you're perfectly happy engaging in like casual sexual encounters.
	I never even told you I engage in casual sexual encounters.
	Well, that's fine.
	But what I'm saying is this is a phenomenon that happens where women who are have access to men above their league.
	The reverse isn't the case.
	So once it's like this.
	And there's a whole bunch of ways I could break it down.
	I think we understand what you're saying.
	It's more so why.
	Like, how did this get brought?
	Like, what's the end?
	Like, what's the bottom line?
	Because if you, it's fun and exciting to be with that really hot, attractive dude, but just realize if you.
	Is this advice?
	It's advice.
	It's if you'd like to take it as that, take it as that.
	I just was like, I thought I was blanking for a second.
	I was like, how did we get here?
	Yeah, what's going on?
	I'm just saying, once you're used to a certain, there's this psychological phenomenon.
	Once you're used to a certain caliber of experience, this extends to, for example, you guys, some of you are roommates.
	Are you guys live in a room together?
	Yeah, we live in the same house.
	Is it a double or triple?
	It's a double.
	Okay, do you have your own room where you live?
	I have no roommates with either of them.
	Same like Aaron.
	But do you have, it doesn't matter where, but do you have a roommate, not a housemate, roommate, somebody who lives in your room?
	Yes, too.
	Triple.
	You have a triple.
	What about you?
	Yes, I have a double.
	Okay, gotcha.
	So this is a bit of an analogy here.
	Once you guys get out of college and then one day you guys are all going to be very successful career women, you're going to have your own snazzy apartment.
	You're living alone.
	You have your own kitchen.
	You have your own bathroom.
	Everything can be set how you want it.
	Once you've had that experience, it's going to be very difficult to go backwards to living.
	Living, like once you've had your own bathroom, you've lived alone, had your own bathroom, it's really hard to go back to sharing a bathroom.
	Once you've had your own bedroom, it's really hard to go back to having a fucking triple.
	Yeah, I think I get what you do.
	I disagree, but I just don't.
	I just don't know why.
	People do play comparisons when it comes to dating.
	So it's like, if the next guy you deal with doesn't measure up to another guy you've dealt with, perhaps on a more casual front, you're going to be like, damn, the sex was better with that guy.
	He was more attractive.
	He was XYZ.
	Maybe you deal with a rich guy or a guy with status.
	Once you've had that experience, it's like you are going to, whether upfront or not, you are going to be playing a comparison game.
	Like, I would say, if I was just running through like really hot, well, I guess I would be, if a bunch of really hot model chicks were running through me and then like, but they won't give me commitment, but now I got to like settle for that, settle for the average girl, I'm going to be like, damn, I'm going to be less stoked.
	I'm not going to be as yoked.
	That was very millennial of you.
	Yoked.
	Yoked.
	What is this?
	Equally yoked.
	But anyways.
	See, there's crickets because to each the raw.
	No, I mean, I'm just saying, like, I get like, I'm trying to, like, relate to the situation, like, to the situation.
	Sorry, I, yeah.
	You're good.
	I'm just, look, I guess my point is, a lot of average women don't want the average guy.
	I agree with that.
	A lot of average women don't want to date the average guy.
	And that's going to be a kind of a recipe for disaster for on the on the individual level, but also I think societally.
	Yeah, plus, I feel like women always want something better than they are anyway.
	I disagree.
	I mean, I'm not going to lie, even with my boyfriend, there's aspects of him that I definitely think are better than me in the sense that it's helped me grow.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I'm sure that there's parts of you that are better than him, though.
	Okay, we have some chats coming through.
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	Yo, thank you, man.
	I do have a chill as ice.
	I think everyone has given up on apps.
	I am not interested on breaking into women's apartments.
	Low-key in love with Chetune, though.
	Smoldering voice, personality.
	Gotta pay a hand-on's razor.
	Hey, thank you.
	You gotta send in another TTS.
	You have to send another one.
	But send it directly to my Venmo.
	It's AVA Z. Anyways, so that's cool.
	So thank you for that, Hanlon's Razor.
	You do have to send in another TTS as a syntax.
	We have more coming through though, oh, did that not, wait, what the heck?
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	Why do average women like yourselves not want average men?
	Why go after the above average men who will not keep or marry you?
	I don't remember any of us saying we wouldn't go for the average man.
	Oh, yeah, did I not ask the question?
	Did I not go around the table on that?
	Would you date an average guy?
	No, you didn't.
	I don't think I did.
	Would you say that?
	You got to date an average guy looks-wise.
	Yeah, I did stop at her.
	Would you date an average guy?
	Looks-wise, yes.
	Yes.
	By my definition of average.
	Looks-wise, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I think that's why we were so con I was so confused because I think you asked them to and then went on the whole thing.
	And I was like, what's happening right now?
	Word?
	Word?
	Word.
	But I do think, you know, we do have some data on this.
	Like, for example, on dating apps, and most people are meeting online nowadays.
	On the dating apps, what you see happening is you have like the vast majority of women on dating apps are primarily matching with the top 10% of men.
	And all like that top 10% of men, they're sharing all those women.
	So you'll have women who are dating these like top guys and they welcome it.
	It's like, okay, cool.
	I have like seven girlfriends.
	I've got 10 girlfriends.
	So these women think they're dating these dudes or it's just casual, whatever.
	And then meanwhile, you have the bottom like 70, 80% of men, they're not dating.
	And then the women who are not getting the commitment from the guys they want, those women Women are frustrated.
	They don't want to be situationship, bouncing the situation ship, next situation ship, not getting commitment.
	I don't think women are satisfied with that.
	Brian, yeah.
	Can we go to the text message I sent you like months ago when I was like the guy I had met with this dude and then he gave me his number?
	We met at like a house party or whatever and I punched it in my phone just to realize that he's tried to be in contact with me in the past because he's messaged me for my services in the past.
	Well, what does that have to do?
	Does it relate to the conversation in hand?
	Well, because it was like a, you know, I was at a party and I was getting introduced by all these people with like from my friends and stuff.
	And then I go to get his number.
	He punches his number in my phone and then I look and I'm like, oh, we already had prior conversation logs.
	And something else that I've noticed with these dating apps are guys are contacting me on my business email being like, hey, saw your account on so-and-so and I would like to book you.
	And it's just weird because it's like, okay, you see my profile on Bumble or Hinge or whatever.
	And I just have photos of me linked to my Instagram.
	But then you're finding me off different sources and then you're messaging me saying that you found me on these platforms.
	So it's like men aren't just using these platforms for dating either.
	They're doing the same thing, like seeking women out on dating apps.
	You know what I mean?
	And I thought that was weird.
	What do you mean, for prostitution?
	Well, yeah.
	It's weird because it's like I was a regular, like I had a regular dating profile.
	I'm sorry, what does this have to do with the conversation though?
	Like the bumble and the hinge and how like the interactions of dating on the dating apps and profile and tying it into like what are they doing?
	What are they looking for?
	You're saying they're looking for escorts?
	I'm confused.
	Basically, like they're just looking for girls to have sex with.
	Okay, well, that's different.
	Yeah.
	On Tinder, I would generally say I agree.
	Probably.
	And it's just weird because like in the real life, when I met this guy that was just trying to like have casual conversation or whatever, then they're like, okay.
	Oh, they're also trying to get your services, but not real, realizing that you're the same person.
	Right.
	And that's why I think it's so weird because it's like it ties into, again, dating culture, hookup culture, whatever.
	Like these guys are on these apps, but then they're finding me professionally and being like, hey, I found you on this app.
	And I'm like, whoa, like it's kind of like behind closed doors and not as genuine as they're trying to make themselves seem right.
	I just thought that was weird.
	Like a weird, like, you know.
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	Just look at how I often react to arguments.
	Neat hearts.
	Wow.
	I'd like to apply to that.
	I'm actually am a feminist, but so that's totally wrong.
	I actually, this guy did a on dating apps.
	This guy did an experiment where he went on Tinder and he was seeing how many women he could match with and how many dates he actually goes on.
	For me, being a woman who dated both men and women, I find it was extremely hard for me to find a mate when I was looking for a woman.
	And a guy, I mean, two days, within two days, I get like 200 likes and I match with like 50 of those guys and maybe go on one or two dates if I were into that.
	For women, it's like maybe one match in like four or five months.
	And even sometimes the conversation doesn't last.
	So dating apps is really, really bad for men.
	They can never, it's so harder for them, much harder for them than it would be for a woman for sure.
	I don't know that's kind of crazy.
	Yeah, women have dating on easy mode.
	I agree.
	And I would say like, I think for me, no, when I've used dating apps, when I've used dating apps, the problem wasn't getting a match or even going out on the date.
	It was kind of like how things progress after, you know.
	But my boyfriend now, like I said, that was kind of like super, that was like.
	No, actually, some of the people that I've matched with, they definitely wanted relationships pretty quick or wanted to get serious pretty quick, but it didn't.
	I don't know.
	So I think for women, it's probably easier dating.
	I don't know.
	So, and like if you want to be serious and a man wants that with you too, it kind of progresses really quick.
	So I would say though, a lot of the guys.
	Hold on.
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	Society is hurting because men always want the prettier option studies show men are nicer to prettier women and after much rejection the ugly duckling or plain Jane will run to plastic surgery slash fillers.
	I was going to say nicer to prettier people regardless of your gender or intergender like that.
	I do agree with that.
	Yeah, for sure.
	Pretty privilege is super real.
	The halo.
	Yeah, but this would be women are nicer.
	Well, I don't, I actually don't know if this is actually the case.
	I would say men are nicer to better looking men.
	Men are nicer to better looking women.
	Are women nicer to better-looking women?
	I don't know.
	Maybe there's like a competition thing there.
	I do.
	It's hard to say.
	I think there's a competition thing because that's why women, like people get plastic surgery.
	It's like a comparison thing a lot.
	Right.
	Or feeling insecure and then wanting to make it better.
	Right.
	We have bastronaut.
	Average women want above average men because they are better than average men.
	It's not complicated.
	It's how our species ended up smart and strong.
	Women take the best mate they can.
	It is what it is.
	Okay, so you're talking about hypergamy.
	That's absolutely not true.
	So like you can be the hottest guy alive.
	I've dated, you know, quite a good looking group of men before and they were all homeless or criminal records.
	You fucked a homeless guy.
	Yes, I have.
	Not, not, okay, look, what kind of homeless?
	He wasn't home, like, he wasn't on the street homeless.
	Like, I was dating him.
	He got kicked out of his parents' house, and then he was living on my mom's couch for a minute.
	That's what I mean by homeless.
	But yeah, not some guy on this, no.
	But like, that's not true.
	And then the richest men are really unattractive, but get the hottest girls.
	Like, freaking, what's his name?
	Playboy dude.
	Like, you couldn't pay me a billion dollars to sleep with that man, but he's got like one of the most baddest bitches on his, like, did.
	And it's just bizarre to me.
	So that's completely untrue.
	I wouldn't say better.
	No, not at all.
	I think geeks and those that are on that below standpoint would treat a woman much better, to be honest.
	I guess it's like if you're going to maybe like looks, but again, I know I keep bringing up my boyfriend, but he's attractive, but a lot of the other qualities he has makes him a little bit better than me.
	Not in a bad way.
	Yeah, like it enhances him.
	So I definitely was super excited when he was interested too, because he literally has a lot to offer.
	Oh, you mean better than us?
	Oh, I really meant better in general.
	My bad.
	I guess the best way I could just encapsulate what I'm trying to convey here is attractive men will sleep with women they don't find commitment level attractive.
	Yeah, I agree.
	The woman now thinks that she is deserving of an attractive man of that caliber, and she won't settle for someone who's perhaps her looks equivalent or looks level.
	She's not satisfied in relationships because she always thinks back to the attractive guy she had one night, two nights, three nights situationship, and it creates resentment.
	It's just a bad, really bad dynamic.
	This pathway is open for many, many women.
	You can't say the same thing about men.
	The pathway for that is not open to men.
	You don't have average dudes who are getting like bombarded and ran through by like top tier guys.
	Or sorry, top-tier women, misspoke, top-tier women, misspoke.
	I thought they had money, don't you?
	We're gonna move it off of the looks thing.
	I did want to get back.
	We have almost everybody here is single except for you.
	So, what does that actually mean, though?
	I'm just curious.
	So, you've been single for two years, but do you have any guys in the picture currently?
	Yeah, I've actually been casually just talking to how many people you have, like, a roster or no.
	Oh, just one guy?
	Um, actually, a girl.
	A girl, okay.
	Yeah, dope.
	Uh, you've been single for two weeks.
	Have you had a rebound?
	Once in the mic, please.
	I'm sorry, I'm putting my ear up.
	Give me one second.
	Um, no, I've been really celibate, actually.
	Everyone else.
	I mean, since we broke up, so two weeks, it's like a few weeks, yeah.
	And I haven't, I'm not seeing anyone else.
	Are there any guys in the picture?
	No, okay.
	Uh, have you ever had a well, I'm gonna go back to you.
	Have you ever had a roster?
	Yeah, what's the biggest the roster has ever been?
	Maybe like three or four, three or four guys.
	Have you ever had a roster?
	Does that mean I'm hooking up with them at the same time or just like talking to them and kind of interesting them?
	It could be or it could not be.
	Are you talking just like exploring like a connection with multiple people?
	Is that kind of where you're that's one way you could phrase it?
	Sure, okay.
	Yeah, how big has the roster been for you?
	Like a little bit of interest, like my feet dipped on a few different poles, maybe like six or seven.
	I don't know.
	Is this regard, like when you say roster?
	Six or seven, you said like six or seven.
	And was there any point like I'm not thinking of a specific situation?
	I know it wasn't all the guys, but were you like hooking up with maybe two or three of them?
	No, just yeah, okay.
	I've never like been able to like actually like continue.
	Like I've been able to like kind of hook up with one person, but two people at the same time is amazing.
	You've been single for a year, any guys in the picture?
	Uh, yeah, well, what I mean, when I say like, I've talked to people, but when I say like, I thought you were meaning like actual dating, like my actual, my last actual relationship was a year ago.
	But when you mean, when you say roster, like, does that mean like people that I'm interested in, like multiple people that I'm interested in?
	Sure, yeah.
	Yeah, I've had a roster.
	How big?
	Um, I mean, there was, I think I've liked, like, had slight interest.
	Like, I was like picking between maybe like four, but not like I was seeing all of them or talking to all of them, just like they were, like, the choices.
	Okay, all right.
	Um, let's see here.
	Oh, by the way, Razor, I see your TTS.
	I apologize.
	We'll get right to it once I finish this segment.
	Uh, what about you?
	You're 18, you've been single for a month.
	Um, any guys in the picture?
	Possibly, possibly.
	I don't know.
	Are you saying other guys?
	Is there guys in the picture right now?
	Just one guy.
	Are you talking about right now?
	Well, when I say, yeah, guys in the picture, I'm asking just for right now.
	But the roster thing, that's just any time.
	Roster?
	Do I have a roster?
	Yeah.
	No, I don't have a roster.
	Have you ever had a roster?
	No.
	Okay.
	Going to you.
	You've been single for seven months.
	Multiple people you were interested in.
	Yeah.
	Is there a guy in the picture?
	Ava, how do I know that?
	He thinks he's in the picture, but you've explained to him multiple times why and how he's not.
	Yeah, no, not really.
	A little bit, because you still like respond.
	No, I haven't all day.
	Since?
	I haven't since.
	Oh, okay, good.
	Since when?
	Today?
	9 o'clock.
	No, we got in a really big fight.
	We're not even dating at all.
	You're hooking up.
	No.
	Nothing.
	We haven't done anything.
	Wait, really?
	Yeah, really?
	I didn't know that.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Have you ever had a roster?
	Yeah.
	How big was it?
	At the biggest three people.
	Okay, what about you?
	Or were you in a relationship?
	Have you ever had a roster?
	Not really.
	I would like casually date, but one person at a time.
	Like, I can't really focus on multiple people.
	What about you?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you, Cena?
	Yes.
	There's a guy in the picture?
	No, no, just.
	You did have a roster, though.
	How big was the roster?
	Sorry.
	Like, 10.
	Roster of 10?
	And were you hooking up with a few of them?
	No, just one.
	Just one?
	But you were going on dates with some of them?
	Yeah.
	So, like, you had the guy who you were hooking up with, and then this guy took you out to dinner.
	This guy was really funny.
	This guy, I don't know, bought you flowers.
	These guys are different.
	They're different.
	That's like.
	Women have like compartmentalized, like, okay, he's really good and bad.
	He's really good looking.
	He's really funny.
	Is that what roster means, people, that you're seeing?
	Not always, but this guy drives me places.
	This guy gets me food, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	Like that's what I'm saying.
	I'm speaking out to somebody.
	Just like using, I mean, maybe that's a good idea.
	Just like using each guy for what they can give you.
	Maybe that's a good idea.
	It is something that happens, for sure.
	That's not what I bet.
	It's not what I meant by my roster.
	I just had like a crush on like three different guys.
	Yeah, I know.
	It's not like I was like actually like.
	Yeah, I changed my answer.
	Yeah, sorry about that.
	We'll do it.
	Where does he be 100 go?
	A V A Z O L E Z I. That's me.
	A V A.
	And A. Just the A.
	And A. A-V-A-Z-O-L-E-Z-Z-I.
	z like zebra uh where do you i'll let the penless I think where do you definitely take a Pilates class?
	Because I find that every time I take Pilates and I have like two or three guys in my class, I'm like, damn, what is he doing here?
	Does he have a girlfriend?
	Why is he here?
	I think it's so hot.
	In person is the best way to meet people.
	Yes.
	100%.
	Naturally.
	Ask for a number, not an Instagram.
	Don't go looking.
	Don't go looking forward.
	Like, go outside.
	Yeah, go outside.
	Yeah.
	But I mean, like, go about your day.
	Like, go do something new, but don't do it.
	Pilots.
	Restaurants, yoga, pie bars, pilates, pilots, churches, yogas, church, church, church.
	Yeah, fishing.
	Love it, the beach.
	Yeah, like if you're alcoholics and shut up for it.
	In a Naranon.
	Narinon.
	12-step.
	Oh, yeah.
	No, it's Alanon.
	Alan.
	Well, you can, there's one for narcotics addicts, too.
	And then.
	Sex addicts anonymous, like sex addicts meetings are pretty cool.
	Oh, like the kids from Shameless did.
	Yeah, that girl.
	Yeah, do that.
	A support group for sex addicts.
	You could try there.
	You could be a sex addict.
	Meet up.
	Anyone here could be.
	You can download this thing called Meetup or Meet Down.
	I didn't mean that.
	And you can put in what you're looking for, and there's a bunch of groups you can meet other single women.
	Sometimes they have speed dating.
	Hobby.
	Do you have a hobby?
	Hobbies.
	Could try a hobby.
	You know, if there's a hobby, a sport, something like that.
	Go to the beach.
	Go to the beach.
	What if he lives in like a girl you like her hair?
	Not her boobs.
	Patty donated $200.
	What's happened to society?
	How can any of y'all have a roster?
	None of you got it like that.
	Bricks and send the asteroid.
	Sure, man.
	I got you.
	Boom.
	Asteroid sent.
	Incoming.
	Yo, Patty.
	Uh-oh.
	Is this the Patty who did the champagne pop last show?
	What a legend.
	Patty D. Lexi over here was asking for more alcohol, but unfortunately we're tapped.
	Yo, good to see you, man.
	Thank you for the TTS.
	Appreciate the support.
	All right.
	What was the next thing we had to get into?
	I think, you know what, we got to get into?
	Oh, you know what?
	Do you think it's wrong for a man to care about a woman's body count?
	No.
	No.
	Wait, can you repeat that?
	I think that's justified.
	Wrong for a man to care about a woman's body count.
	Do you think it's wrong?
	If it matters, it matters to him.
	If it matters.
	Yeah.
	think it's wrong at all I think that's completely it's can you guess what I'm gonna say can you guess what I'm gonna say No.
	Preference.
	Is he insecure, though?
	No.
	No, I think it's normal to want to know.
	And I think it's okay for a man to care.
	Yeah.
	There's men who do care and there's men who don't care.
	And there's women who do and don't care.
	Yeah.
	I think I personally care.
	I care.
	About body count?
	Yeah.
	Like the guy's body count.
	Yeah.
	You don't want to date no hoe.
	I wouldn't.
	No, it's not what I wouldn't, like, I'm not going to like judge at all, but I don't think I would.
	I wouldn't want to be with a guy who slept with.
	Especially at my age.
	60, 60.
	18 years old, like just barely an adult.
	And if you have more than like 10 bodies, it's kind of insane.
	Yeah.
	Because it's like, okay, so then like.
	Okay, let's say it's 15, though.
	I wouldn't judge, but I judge if you lie.
	That's it.
	I'm not judging how many you have, but I'm judging if you lie.
	There's just no point to lie about it.
	I think there's no judging, but if it comes to someone that like I'm going to be with, I it matters.
	I see.
	Well, the question, it beckons the question.
	What's your body count starting with you?
	One, two, number of pie.
	Crickets, crickets.
	You've shared it before.
	One, two, three, the number of pie.
	Look it up.
	Oh, 1,234.
	3.14151972438.
	Number of pie?
	What the fuck was that?
	Number of pie.
	I like that.
	Come on, get her meds, please.
	Body count?
	I'm not going first.
	She didn't dull it right in.
	Okay, Cina, go ahead.
	We'll go this way.
	Three.
	Three?
	Okay, what about you?
	For both men and women.
	Break it down between the two.
	Okay, so with men, I'm probably in the 20s, but mind you, I've had most of them before I was the age of 18.
	And with women, I'm probably in the teens, 15.
	Okay, what about you?
	Mine's also probably in the 20s, too.
	Gotcha.
	What about you?
	Three.
	Three?
	Okay.
	Do I have to answer?
	Yes.
	No, I do not.
	Must.
	Must.
	You must answer.
	You have free will, girl.
	Yeah.
	You must answer.
	I'm uncomfortable.
	I'm personally uncomfortable answering the question, but I will.
	I'll participate in the conversation.
	Do you want to do a ballpark?
	Like, it's five to ten.
	Why are you looking at her?
	Zero to one.
	To two to three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten.
	I don't know.
	What about you?
	Ballpark?
	I'm uncomfortable answering the question.
	Like, my family's probably going to see this.
	People are going to assume.
	No, it's definitely, I promise there's your ballpark.
	It's under five.
	Okay, that's fair.
	I'm also going to give that ballpark.
	Boom.
	It's not.
	You want the ballpark?
	Give us the ballpark?
	I just said three.
	I just said it's three.
	Oh, three.
	Okay.
	That's the truth.
	Sweet.
	Ballpark or no?
	I just, no.
	I haven't.
	My ballpark is the number of pie.
	I say again.
	3.141592653.
	Okay.
	You guys know pie is a number between three and four.
	Somebody in the chat, she's been on the show like two or three times.
	She said it before.
	She's just being intentionally obnoxious.
	Oh, the times before the chat, babes, they were all also just like the number of pie.
	3.141492653.
	You could pull them up every time.
	Look, if I recall correctly, it's like we couldn't do the math if at 3.141519.
	It's literally those numbers.
	It's over a thousand or something, right?
	3.1415.
	Really a bonding experience.
	I can't wait to see you guys in the halls now.
	Awesome.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	I mean, you know, it's.
	Multiply it by three.
	That's the real number.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	That's the rule.
	That's the math.
	That's the boy math.
	Got to multiply by three.
	Okay, let's see what else do we have to do.
	Oh, Nick had some interesting.
	Hold on, Nick.
	Nick had some suggestions we're going to do.
	So let me pull that up.
	Oh, let me shout out.
	Yo, John, thank you for the 25 on Venmo, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Oh, should we do the bumble thing?
	Yeah.
	Also, anybody want to recharge energy drink?
	Anybody want to a little recharge here?
	How long do I go over there?
	A million years we have left.
	What's up, Nick?
	Wait, what time is it?
	It's like 9.
	9.
	Two more hours?
	9, 10.
	Two more hours.
	Of who I want to date?
	Adrian.
	Like 27 and up?
	27 and up?
	We're going to do the bumble thing later.
	Okay, Nick?
	We're just going to.
	Are you creating me a profile right now?
	No, no, no.
	Nope.
	Definitely not doing that.
	I do want to.
	I'm going to wait until she's back from the.
	Oh, it's all good.
	I need to say that.
	No, it's all good.
	All good.
	It's really pretty.
	Yeah, really.
	Stop, It doesn't stop.
	What?
	Okay.
	What happened?
	Just don't make comments about that.
	Yeah, Nick, pull up Twitch.
	All right, guys, if you're watching on Twitch, drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.
	Guys, it's been 13 minutes since we last had a Prime Voodoo.
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	So if you guys can drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.
	Quick, free, easy way to support the show every single month.
	We'll tab through some of the other shit too.
	Let's just do Venmo.
	Krill thing for the follow.
	Guys, if you want to support the show without these platforms taking their cut, whatever pod, Cash App, Venmo, whatever pod on both.
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	Also, go to shop.whatever.com.
	Get yourself some merch.
	Got some great pieces there.
	Big Laby Matter, hashtag Big Labya Matter.
	Okay.
	Pretty sure that's everything.
	Oh, let's do...
	Now we'll...
	Nah.
	Can I go into him?
	All right.
	Dirty talks and thing for the gifted sub.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Show of hands.
	Who here is a feminist?
	Feminist.
	What is that?
	Can you define it?
	I mean, there's varying definitions.
	Like, support women?
	Yes.
	Feminism would be made it into some extreme thing.
	I mean, a feminist doesn't mean that you're running at rallies and stuff every day.
	Feminist is someone who supports women.
	Nah, that's not really.
	Someone who supports that general idea of feminism.
	That's way too charitable.
	Someone who supports the general idea of feminism.
	Here's my nicest definition.
	No, do the real one.
	Do what you think feminism is.
	Well, I'll give you the – here, I'll give you two then.
	Okay.
	My charitable definition is feminism is a woman's advocacy movement, but baked into that means it's not an equality movement.
	So feminism is women's advocacy, but it has nothing to do with sexuality.
	So feminism means that like women who think women are better than men.
	That's all.
	They're extremists.
	Not under my charitable definition.
	There's nothing wrong with women's advocacy, but my own assessment, as charitable as possible, is women, excuse me, is feminism is not truly an equality movement.
	It's about advocating for women, which is fine.
	My real definition of it is it is a woman's advocacy movement, but it's also clearly, clearly, strongly anti-male.
	And has massive amounts of anti-male rhetoric.
	That's my definition.
	Based off your first definition?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, the first definition.
	Okay.
	Who here's a feminist?
	Off the first one.
	Yeah, off the first one.
	But what about this, though?
	Should we smash the patriarchy?
	I should have added...
	I don't think they're really...
	No.
	Some...
	There's another definition.
	A movement towards equality while simultaneously dismantling the patriarchy.
	That's another definition.
	I don't like that.
	I don't like that either.
	In favor of the patriarchy, I think women's advocacy is good for problems with women, like specifically women, but I think it's important to prioritize equality over that.
	You're explaining this as if people explain the Black Lives Matter movement saying that black people are better than white people, and that's not what it's about.
	Feminism is also not about women being better, and Black Lives Matter is also not about...
	That's a total straw man, didn't even say that.
	Well, I mean, you kind of are referring to it in the same way.
	You're saying that like a lot of feminism is people thinking that women are better than men.
	No, I see overt women overtime.
	There's overt anti-male rhetoric in the feminist movement and misandry.
	So misandry, the counterpoint to misogyny.
	I feel like you're missing, I feel like that line of thinking is part of the issue, though.
	It's like you're missing the point.
	I think people took the women move.
	I think that like there is anti-men and there's like also anti-like anti-men and anti-women.
	Yes, I agree.
	So like I don't think the feminist movement steeped in anti-male rhetoric.
	I kind of agree with that.
	I agree.
	I agree with that.
	I think they took the feminists and just like again made something that it's perverse.
	It's the mainstream feminism that's the mainstream feminism.
	I actually believe that it should be equality.
	I'm talking about across all boards.
	I don't.
	I think that women should be drafted.
	I think that women should get out there and do men's work.
	That's just me, but to me, if we're going to talk about women's rights and equality and all that, then it should mean everything, not just when it best benefits you.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Well, that's my first definition because if, for example, if there is a form of equality that comes to the detriment of women, feminists absolutely will not fight for that equality if it conceivably comes to the detriment of women.
	So, for example, equalizing the military draft.
	That would create equality between men and women.
	This is not a feminist talking point.
	Feminists don't argue for this.
	There's other certain things, like an example in Florida a couple years ago, I think it was the National Organization for Women.
	I could be mixing it up with another women's or girl, whatever.
	The court system was trying to equalize custody between parents, between fathers and mothers, with an assumption that both parents should have equal split custody.
	The way the law previously was was that women were treated preferentially in the court system.
	Feminist organizations, women's organizations fought against this because conceivably doing that would come to the detriment of women.
	That's why my position is feminism, while it advocates for women, doesn't actually seek to have equality if said equality hurts women in some sort of way.
	Yeah, I agree with that.
	How does having more or like more access to your child hurt women?
	I feel like women want to have their kid.
	I don't think that that's like no, they were arguing against the other position, saying it hurt, I guess it hurts women conceivably to their detriment because women often want more, they don't want 50-50 custody.
	They want more custody, but in the interest of fairness and frankly, what's best for the child, it is best for both parents to be involved, and we shouldn't like do this bigoted gender-sexist thing of defaulting women to getting custody.
	I've never heard any like feminist movement about that, though.
	Like, I feel like that's because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean that it's not feminist, really.
	That's not really about women.
	Like, that's not like, that's more like about child care.
	The organization, hold on, that's a component of feminism and gender dynamics between men and women.
	The organization I cite to is the preeminent women's advocacy or feminist organization.
	The courts absolutely do give usually the rights to.
	Oh, no, I know that.
	I know that.
	I'm just saying.
	Yeah, there's massive bias in the court system against men, especially as it relates to custody.
	It doesn't matter even if the woman, even if the man makes more money, the court's still in favor with the woman, usually.
	I think that it shouldn't be that way at all.
	I guess I'm not a feminist, but I mean.
	But look, there's nothing necessarily wrong with groups of people wanting to advocate specifically for their in-group.
	But I don't think feminists want to paint it as, it's about equality.
	Well, only equality when it benefits women.
	When it benefits them.
	If it doesn't, they'll fight against the equality.
	So just call it what it is.
	It's women's advocacy.
	Nothing wrong with that, but don't try to pick up.
	But what was the point of bringing up feminism?
	I'm pretty sure.
	No, I was just asking who's a feminist here.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	Okay.
	But do you think I don't know, do you believe No, I think that parents should have equal custody Yeah, sure.
	But that was giving you one example in which feminists will fight to ensure that there isn't equality in certain realms.
	So are you for, like, so what's your position on feminism?
	What's my position?
	I mean, yeah, like, are you a feminist?
	Do you care about that?
	Absolutely not.
	Absolutely not.
	Definitely not a feminist.
	You might even say I could be, I'm an anti-feminist.
	That doesn't mean anti-woman because they're male feminists.
	So I'm anti-feminist because feminism clearly, especially with much of the rhetoric that is espoused by feminists, is really, really harmful and misandrist.
	And it's clearly anti-male.
	And the whole foundation of most feminist teachings and theories is anti-male.
	And that's the patriarchy theory.
	If that's your basis for establishing, like, that's the lens that you look through.
	The basis for feminism was like women should vote.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	But that's how it started as.
	And it turned into, you know, certain things that women had that men or that men had that women didn't.
	But if you look at much of the rhetoric involved, even historically, but especially modern day, when women have secured all these rights and there really is equality between men and women, most of the rhetoric is incredibly misandrist and quite anti-male.
	I mean, I guess I would ask you, if feminism is about fighting for women's rights, I would just, I guess I would ask, do you think that men and women don't have equal rights?
	Well, 100% men and women do not have equal rights.
	Okay, well, I guess which ones?
	Because it's, you're saying it's, you're laughing because you think it's self-evident?
	Like, how could I even ask that question?
	Like, literally, the pay gap.
	Like, the what?
	Okay, I'll engage you on there, but men are moral.
	I'll engage you on the pay gap, but can you tell me, like, what are some of the actual rights that men have that women don't?
	I guess like rights?
	Like, do you mean like the right to bear arms and like the right to vote?
	Well, that was the conversation.
	I guess, yeah, legally, legally, no.
	But why did you scoff then if it is the case that women have equal rights to men?
	Well, I guess I was thinking more just like, are women seen as equals?
	I was thinking that way.
	I shouldn't have scoffed.
	Are women seen as equals?
	Yeah, I don't think that women are seen as equal to men.
	In what way?
	I think you have to be a menu.
	I think that we're looked at as more like stupid.
	And like, I think, yeah, it's true.
	Like, you don't feel like you get talked down to by men because you're a woman.
	I do.
	I feel that way every day.
	I get talked down to by women.
	So, I mean, yeah, but I don't think that they're talking down to you because you're a man.
	Maybe some women that are super anti-men.
	So maybe there are women that are anti-men that are like talking to you.
	But I think that like every a lot of people are born with like a stupid.
	Like what if a man is stupid?
	What if a woman's stupid?
	Then you treat them like they're stupid, but not because they're a man or a woman, because they're stupid.
	But I think one thing that's interesting to me about that is it seems like it's often the case when a bad thing happens to women or a bad thing happens to a minority, somebody in a minority group, whether they're Hispanic or they're black or they're Asian, whatever it is, there is this yearning to the bad thing that happened to them happened because they're part of this identity group.
	A bad thing happened to a woman and it happened because she's a woman.
	But we don't put this sort of same thing on.
	So give me an example of something that like someone like something that might happen to me and then I might say like, okay, it's because I'm a woman.
	Well, you mentioned Black Lives Matter recently, so I guess I'll take it in that direction.
	So I can't wait.
	Yeah, so what happened, you know, look, that whole thing is very complicated.
	The George Floyd killing, there's varying disputes over, you know, was, did he OD?
	Did the police contribute to his unfortunate death?
	You know, there are legal disputes there.
	However, nothing actually in the conduct of the police officer would indicate to me that it was racially motivated.
	But those, those were race riots.
	A black man did happen to die, and that's unfortunate, but there's nothing in the actual conduct of the police officers that would indicate that they was racially motivated.
	He did happen to be black, but where's the?
	Where's the racism?
	I think it's.
	I think that in that situation, I honestly i'm gonna say like this one thing, and then I think that I like what I was really asking was an example, like for myself, like something that would happen to me so that I can judge, like what I say, oh, is it this because i'm a woman or what, whatever.
	But in that situation, I think it's really just statistics of the things like that happening to black men over sure well, the exact.
	Then shifting off of that, then the exact example you provided.
	You say uh, men talk down to women and you're saying that it's because they're women.
	But then the reverse, but why would suddenly, after like so many centuries of sexism and women being less than, and like suddenly yeah okay, we have the same rights, but suddenly like, men are really gonna treat you the same like.
	That's just not how it is.
	That's not women also also women.
	I think that we have internalized sexism too and sometimes we might think a man is better suited to be our surgeon than a woman.
	Like, if you're like.
	You know, I think that it's like that.
	No, but I think that off first bat, a lot of people maybe myself, if I was given two options, the first thing because that's what we're trained to think is that like, men are gonna do a better job at certain things.
	I don't, but I don't think that it is true.
	I don't think that way actually.
	I mean um again, i'm not.
	I'm sure there's been studies on this.
	I'm not familiar with them.
	Uh there, there maybe has been some studies that actually that actually maybe point out that in some surgical practices women have some degree of better like hand-eye coordination or I don't know the exact.
	Anyways, that's be, that's besides the point manual dexterity, I like, for example and this would kind of just make sense without like a study needed like assuming women have smaller hands, they're better able to like make sort of like if you have big, big man hands or some shit, it's kind of like hard to you know, like with really small instruments, you know.
	So I think that men are better than women at some things and women are better than men at some.
	Biologically, I agree with that, but I also think that there can be women that are better than men at things that men are normally better at too, and vice versa, I agree.
	I think it literally doesn't matter, if you're good at something, you're good at something.
	That's the end of the story.
	So i'm saying, wait, I did it sound like I was saying that people should think that men are better surgeons.
	No oh okay, just making sure that's not.
	But so, I guess is there.
	And one thing actually, you mentioned that.
	You mentioned that there was a lot of sexism for lot long periods of time.
	Are you talking, like about the vote?
	I mean, i'm talking about like everything, like we don't know, like the history of sexism, like what?
	But you do realize, for example, men only got the right to vote very, very shortly before women, like it was not a long period of time.
	You mean like, like poor men or black men or Native American men?
	Are you talking about this country, other countries, all men free, because voting started happening?
	Yeah, so voting is a pretty new phenomenon for the vast majority of human history.
	I think we started voting in like like multiple hundreds of years ago.
	Maybe broadly voting is very recent, past 200, 300 years.
	Yeah, women's voting is like past 100 years.
	So I think the differential The United States, I think the difference is like 50 years from when all men could vote and from when all women could vote.
	Very small period of time.
	Yeah, but that's all men.
	Like they waited to allow like men who were poor or that weren't property owners and stuff to vote.
	Like that, like that was years after men with money or white men.
	Like first it was men that were property owners and like were also religious and also white could vote.
	And then it was men that were property owners and white.
	And then it was, yeah, and then like it kept going.
	Like there, but up until the very end, it was just men who were this and one who were that.
	Well, the point I'm trying to make is that for the vast majority of human history, most men and most women didn't have any power, didn't have any say.
	So the second thing.
	Yeah, no, that's true.
	Like monarchy?
	Yeah.
	Right.
	There were kings and emperors and this sort of thing.
	Yeah, most of that time it was men that were kings now.
	Yeah, sure, but that's a very small apex of men that had any power.
	I know, but it was men, wasn't it?
	It wasn't women.
	Right, but that's an apex fallacy.
	So just because, like, I would say that has been a lot of people.
	Yeah, but you're talking about everyone else didn't have power, so then the people that did have power.
	Queens came into power, so it wasn't just men.
	Okay.
	Do you deny that queens had power?
	No, I think that this conversation has gone really far off of where we started, and I just don't really feel like any of that.
	I'm totally fine having the conversation.
	It's yeah, no, I'm good having the conversation too.
	Does anyone else want to input anything though?
	All right.
	Let's have a new topic.
	No, I'm just.
	No, we can talk about it.
	I'm totally fine with it.
	Is it?
	No, I just feel like I'm trying to give a history lesson right now.
	I just don't feel like I just don't feel educated enough to be a part of this conversation accurately.
	So I'm just spectating for now.
	And that takes the level, it takes the level of intelligence.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I'm not talking about women.
	I just don't know about this.
	I don't want to weigh in.
	That's totally different.
	I don't know enough.
	So as far as equality goes, yes, women do have, like, they can do, they can own houses, they can own credit financially.
	So we did come a long way.
	However, there are still things that men are given more privilege to as far as pay.
	The pay rate is actually a serious thing.
	The girl from Shameless actually quit the show because they were not paying her the amount of money as the other guy.
	Yeah, that's okay.
	Go ahead, finish your thought.
	I'll respond.
	Presidency.
	We only have one vice woman president after so many years, and she still didn't win because she is a woman.
	and a lot of other reasons um women just wait hold on let's Let's do one thing at a time.
	Go ahead, knock yourself up.
	Because I'm going to have difficulty keeping up if we're just shotgunning all these things.
	Right.
	Okay.
	So.
	I think she didn't win because she was a woman, but there's all, yeah, I mean, there's a reason we've never had a woman president.
	Nothing to do with people don't.
	Had nothing to do with the fact that she was a woman.
	Part of the reason.
	It was one of the reasons.
	I think it was part of the woman.
	It wasn't all of it, but I think she would have gotten more.
	Would you push away from women policies when it was a man?
	Would you, if you could choose, not knowing their specific politics, between voting for a woman or a man, who would you vote for?
	A man.
	Oh.
	Absolutely.
	I don't, I think.
	Who would you pick?
	The man or the woman?
	I think, well, first of all, if just solely based on their sex.
	Yeah, I assume it's like your political affiliation, your political alignment, but they're just mostly the same.
	One's a man, one's a woman.
	Mostly the same.
	Woman, just because, just because men have been ruling all this time and it still has not been any different.
	I feel like it would probably be different if a woman did run and did run the country.
	How would it be different?
	Well, first of all, when far as dare say women can't be presidents because they're emotional, too emotional.
	Who do you think of the fact that the guy in office right now is a little too emotional?
	Guys are also emotional creatures as far as reacting on their anger impulses and setting things like, you know, overturning Roe v. Wade and all that other stuff.
	Why are they, you know, they're acting on...
	You realize there are multiple female justices on the...
	No, I agree.
	I'm not sitting there and saying that there aren't women who offer them.
	You know, he didn't overturn it, right?
	Well, I'm just saying.
	I just spot his decision.
	I'm just saying, like, wanting to do that.
	Did that happen during the Biden administration?
	When did that happen?
	It wasn't his first term.
	It wasn't during his second term, though.
	When was that?
	Was it?
	I thought it happened.
	I'm just saying, dude, like, honestly, the Queen of England has been ruling England for such a long time.
	Queen of England is dead.
	There's a king now.
	Well, okay, well, she's ruled for a long time outside of being dead, obviously.
	Yeah, she did rule for a long time.
	She did rule for a long time.
	My point is that that's prime example that women can run a country.
	There's also women in South America.
	The UK, the country which lost all its terror, lost its entire empire, lost its territory, and then has rampant crime issues in all of its major cities and has imported.
	Well, it's because the king or queen of the country and it doesn't actually, they don't have to be aware of that.
	That is true.
	At least they don't.
	Like, the queen does not rule the country.
	You do make a good point.
	In the UK, it's primarily a ceremonial position.
	They don't really have much say or power as it relates to the politics of the country.
	Although she probably had a bit more say, a little bit, like earlier in her reign.
	But the monarchy's like, over time, gradually lost power.
	Right.
	Okay, here, let's just jump to the wage gap then because you also mentioned that.
	Yeah, there's no wage gap.
	I agree with that, too.
	Well, how come there are CEOs who get paid more than women CEOs?
	And it's a factual thing.
	I mean, you can Google this that men do get paid more in certain fields that women also are in.
	Well, who brought up the actor from Shoe?
	Oh, you did?
	Emma Rawson.
	She actually did quit Shameless because they were not paying her the money.
	Same with the Scream Woman, the lady who plays Scream Woman.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Do you think the extra on the set of a Brad Pitt movie should be paid the same as Brad Pitt?
	An extra?
	Sure.
	Should a brand new actor who's also a mink.
	She's not brand new.
	Hold on.
	Just.
	Okay, go ahead.
	You can give your specifics after.
	Brand new main character co-starring with Brad Pitt.
	Do you think that person should be paid the same as Brad Pitt?
	No.
	Why?
	Because she's an upcoming actress.
	It would be like somebody with years of experience should not be getting paid the same amount of money as someone who's just came into the field.
	Okay, so now that we have that established, give me the specifics of this female actress in your show.
	So Emma Rawson is a very nomo actress.
	She played in numerous things.
	I don't even know the guy who played Frank.
	I don't know his name.
	Is he the main guy at the end?
	Yeah, he's the father.
	I've seen like one episode of the show.
	What's it called again?
	Shameless.
	Shameless.
	I love that show.
	Emma Rawson plays the Fiona, the bigger sister.
	However, the main character.
	Shameless?
	Yes.
	What's his name?
	I don't know the guy who plays Frank.
	William H. Macy is.
	Yeah, apparently he's a really big actor.
	I mean, I don't only know him in a minute.
	Okay, he's 75.
	And then Emma Rossum.
	Yes.
	Who's 38?
	Yes.
	Okay, and this show's been going on for a long time.
	A long time.
	And she wasn't in the last, I think, season or two.
	Wait, so hold on, you're comparing a guy who's been in Hollywood for like decades, and you're surprised that because of his seniority, he's being paid more for...
	No, not necessarily.
	She...
	She also is well known in a lot of other movies.
	She doesn't have and she removed her clothes on TV.
	So?
	Yeah.
	So, well, they typically pay you more money.
	They're supposed to pay you more money.
	Like, I'm not about to pay for that.
	Yeah, not more money than the guy who's been in Hollywood for decades upon decades.
	Okay, well.
	Wait, hold on.
	How long has this show been going on?
	Like, 12, 13 years.
	Okay, okay, it started 2011.
	And ended in.
	So she's 38.
	So she would have been like 22, 23, 24.
	I'm sorry.
	That's really young.
	That's very young in Hollywood.
	It's not surprising to me that the main character of the series was paid more than his super, much younger female co-workers.
	They were all like she was also a main character, is what I'm saying.
	And she's not like an upcoming new actress.
	He's trying to make the point that she's still not as experienced.
	She's not as senior as he is.
	Yeah.
	I don't even know.
	It's like seniority.
	Of course, you're going to get paid more if you have more qualifications, more experience.
	All those things are going to equate to more pay.
	He has William Macy has two-time Emmy Awards, four-time Screen Actors Guild Award.
	I don't know if this is from before.
	I think this is not a great example.
	Okay, I'll give you another example.
	Okay, the girl.
	Let's do the WNBA.
	We have a women's basketball.
	Well, I feel like the WNBA, we're getting paid based off views and tickets.
	So like the men basketball, like they're getting paid based off of views and tickets.
	Wait, hold on.
	We'll come right back to this.
	I need to let a couple chats come through.
	Sorry for the delay on these guys.
	I was so interested in talking about shameless that I lost track.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	A feminist is a person who dislikes or hates the male gender and seeks control of men under the guise of equality.
	They seek the overthrow of the patriarchy.
	All waves of feminism have occult origins.
	Excuse me.
	Wow.
	Anybody disagree with Pasty George there?
	She disagrees.
	Why is that really quick?
	I think that's a little aggressive.
	I think that's a little aggressive as well.
	But you did say that.
	He's Canadian, so just blame it for him being Canadian.
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	Pasty George donated $200.
	The Queen of England made many poor decisions during her reign, and she was responsible, along with the Vatican and particular churches, for the residential school era and other atrocities as well.
	Oh, are you talking about what was going on in Canada?
	Well, a Pope is a male in a Vatican, so I don't really know the point of that one, but a Pope is a male, so sure.
	Wait, when were we talking about the Pope?
	Well, because you thought it was a little bit of a moment.
	Here we have a chapter.
	No, I think they're talking about how stupid to still believe in the pay gap.
	Do some research, not just TikTok.
	If you own a business and can pay equally qualified women less, you would only hire women.
	All men would be fired.
	Yeah, I heard.
	Yeah, and I watched Candace Owens a lot, and she made such a great point that just a lot of the jobs that men do are just naturally higher paying too, especially because they're a little bit more dangerous, a little bit more intense, like firefighters.
	Well, I get job per job.
	I'm not talking about menu, but that's why the average, but that's why the average is different.
	Yeah, we're not talking about it should be based on the average.
	That is the wage gap.
	So the other.
	No, I don't mean the average wage gap.
	No, but the wage gap is they say women earn 79 cents to the dollar a man makes.
	That stat that they were always, whatever, it's 83 cents.
	I apologize.
	The wage gap there is what they're doing is they're comparing all the money that men make, all the women that money make, just doing a like-for-like comparison.
	It's completely, anybody who does statistics knows this is like actually like retarded.
	You can't do an analysis like that and say sexism.
	You have to start controlling for, okay, do men work more than women?
	Do men work different jobs than women?
	Are men more likely to relocate?
	Are men more likely to work dangerous jobs?
	Are men more likely to work overtime?
	All these sorts of different things.
	What kind of fields do men go in?
	What kind of things do men study?
	These sorts of things start to factor in.
	And if you do the controlled wage gap, it shrinks to one cent.
	One cent.
	Account for all these variables.
	Women earn one cent less than men.
	Yep.
	Well, that's great.
	I mean, even think about in the military, like when men do more of like, I don't know why I can't think, like when they're like the ones who shoot, I can't think of the infantry.
	Yeah, infantry.
	They have higher pay because it's a more dangerous and hostile job.
	And I get it should be that way.
	And I was talking about more so like the payment in the same career pillar issue.
	Sure, but even, so first off, back in the 60s, a law was passed.
	If you're a woman and you can prove that your coworker is being paid more because they're a man, you can file a lawsuit and make a bunch of money.
	So there's a law protecting women for that.
	In addition, we really just don't see it.
	We don't see it.
	Also, to his point, the person who sent in the TTS, if it was the case that you could genuinely, and corporations don't, there's not like this idea in a corporation where, oh, we're just going to be really sexist for the sake of sexism.
	And we're just going to ignore the fact if women are just as good as men, they work just as hard.
	Let's just go ahead and just keep hiring men and it's going to cost our company more.
	We're going to be less competitive in the capitalist system.
	We live in a capitalist system.
	If you could get away with hiring women and saving 70% on your payroll, corporations, trust me, would not hire men.
	They would only hire women.
	It's just not true.
	Yep.
	I mean, even with tattooing, like when I first started tattooing, it was like $30 a tattoo, you know, just to do flashes and stuff.
	But now, like, on average, I probably have $500 or more per client, but just as I've gained experience and stuff like that.
	And there's male tattoo artists who don't make as much as me.
	And there's also some that make more than me and vice versa.
	You're more in like corporate world where it's not really like controlled by like the per like you are.
	Yeah, but I mean still even in corporate world it's the same thing.
	It's the concept of experience, qualifications, like what like where your level is.
	That's how it should be, but it's not a lot.
	Like my mom was in a lawsuit like four years ago because it's like the concept of not all.
	I mean, there's always going to be like one or two instances.
	Did she win the lawsuit?
	She did.
	And she won under $20,000 and she was making over $400,000 a year.
	So it didn't exactly go in her favor, but that's so, well, she did get a payment, but it was.
	It was under $20,000.
	There was also sexual insult involved in the lawsuit.
	Oh, okay.
	Hold on.
	Now you're smuggling.
	And it was not smuggling in it.
	No, but if we're having a conversation about the wage gap, no, but when you bring a lawsuit and it's, well, these people were underpaid.
	Well, there was a lawsuit and then there was the...
	Yeah, sexual harassment is different, though.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	That's wrong.
	That's bad.
	They're separate things.
	Sorry, I was just throwing that.
	I'm saying that she didn't make a lot of money off of that.
	So, like, your argument that, like, you can make a crazy amount of money if you get paid less, that's like not always true.
	Like, even with the sexual assault, like, you were saying that you can, like, if you file a lawsuit because of that law, if you're getting paid less.
	No, if you can prove that there's sexual discrimination in your company and you are being discriminated against, paid less.
	But it doesn't always cook.
	Well, I actually don't think I made a claim.
	Did I make a claim about how much money you can make?
	You said you can make a lot of.
	I suppose it depends.
	Yeah.
	I was just bringing it up.
	You can bring a lawsuit.
	We have a chat.
	Actually, I'm going to wait on that chat.
	I do wonder, though, why does society care more about a female wage gap and not a male death gap?
	That's a good question.
	It's actually crazy that you said that because I saw this one video on TikTok where it was for men's mental health awareness.
	And it was like this girl, like, it was like the sound of a screaming noise.
	And it was like when they say a moment of silence for men who've like committed suicide and she's like screaming and dancing.
	And like, it's just crazy.
	Again, you bring that up.
	I have to move off the wage gap stuff.
	Really quick, though, the basketball player, there was recently this controversy, the WNBA, all these female players.
	So basically, NBA players, top NBA players make a lot of money, a lot of money.
	WNBA players, they make like $100,000 a year, don't make a lot of money.
	They were like, hey, we want to make more.
	We want to be paid the same as the NBA players.
	What do you think?
	They need it.
	Into the mic, please.
	Just scoot your chair and it might help.
	I can't.
	There's no room.
	Oh, okay.
	That's fine then.
	I feel like now for the, I honestly, I watched college basketball more than WNA and NBA.
	Here, I'll just go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	I think now it's different because I think everyone can agree that the WNBA got better.
	People started watching it more when Angel Reese and Paige Beckers came in.
	And I think everyone can agree on that.
	I don't know.
	Okay, sure.
	I'll go ahead and agree that the WNBA has gotten better than it used to be.
	But the NBA very different than the WNBA and I so the question is though, should WNBA players be paid the same as NBA players?
	No.
	If they want to be paid more, they need to.
	Does anybody here think that?
	Do you think that you mentioned the wage?
	I mean, no, like if it's like the supply and demand.
	You know what I mean?
	Do you think that?
	Should the NBA, WNBA players be paid the same?
	Don't they get paid based off fame?
	Yeah, based off news.
	That's why they need to.
	I'm on the fence.
	I would say it's a lot like minor league baseball players and major league baseball players.
	I mean, the more, not many people watch WNB.
	I don't think I've ever watched WNB, so I don't even know any of the professional players.
	So I would say it really depends on the player.
	I think that's NBA the same thing.
	I don't think that a good, fantastic WNB player, just as good as a good NBA player, should be paid the same.
	But I think it just depends on how much hate watch, though.
	It's literally, I don't think you understand the difference of physicality between men.
	No, I understand it.
	I do.
	The best WNBA female player, well, dot WNBA, will get absolutely scorched by like a top top-level high school boy.
	I was just about to say that.
	Oh, yeah.
	And this isn't just the case in basketball.
	It's the case.
	Can you play basketball?
	Why would that matter?
	I'm just asking.
	I'm literally just asking you.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	No, yeah.
	A WNBA player.
	Do you think an average high school boy could beat Paige Beckers?
	He said, I'm saying like a top high school boy will smoke a WNBA player.
	That's 100% absolutely not.
	No.
	Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	A top high school out of all the high schools or at like any, like an average given high school.
	Honestly, for, I mean, with like dialogue, like is he really tall in high school?
	Like, is he like really tall?
	Honestly, I cannot.
	Look.
	Go ahead, Toshi.
	Own it.
	In between.
	plays basketball.
	Because I'm thinking, I don't know if it will die.
	Brandon Tyron Stokes or Brandon McCoy.
	Tyron Stokes is a large, he's a man.
	He's a very large man.
	Yeah.
	Obviously, a man who is that big and that much stronger than a woman, they would obviously clearly be a woman.
	Don't worry about it.
	I appreciate you saying that.
	Thank you.
	We see this happen in almost all sports.
	Like the, for example, the women's national soccer team, and this happens in multiple countries.
	They will play against like the under-15 boys division and get fucking scorched.
	These are professional women.
	They're at the top.
	They're Olympics.
	They're the Women's World Cup.
	They are the national teams, and I don't know why you're looking like that.
	You look upset.
	Oh, no, you seem upset.
	You seem upset that I'm just speaking facts.
	Well, I literally, I honestly couldn't tell you what the last two sentences that you said.
	Yeah, you're zoning out.
	I don't want to hear the fact.
	No, I'm just, just give me a second.
	I'm waking up.
	Women are better at, hold on.
	Women are better at some things than men.
	I can say that.
	Yeah, that's the same thing we sort of said earlier that like biologically, women are just not like yeah, when it comes to sports, you can take like an amateur male athlete and he'll scorch a woman who's well.
	That's why we have the whole transgenders in sports thing.
	That's the reason that, or I honestly keep my face out of that issue and I'm not transgender and I don't have transgender feelings, I don't have transgender family, I don't watch sports, so I don't care, I'll take a strong position.
	I don't think transgender people should be competing with women.
	Hell no, I don't think.
	W Solo, do you play any sports solo?
	Yeah, I played water polo and I swam for 11 years.
	Wasn't there other than the same?
	Oh yeah, the uh, Leah Thomas yes, Leah Thomas, and she was beating the women and some women didn't get to get medals or get to go off to.
	I think that is literally the most stupid thing anyone has ever thought was to be W Solo guys W's in chat for based solo there.
	Based solo, yeah.
	And I knew I have transgender family members and I completely I agree with it.
	Well, even some transgender people, a lot of transgender people, say are against it, you should have your own division.
	Okay wait.
	You don't see no transgender to male competing in women.
	I mean males, I mean you know what I mean.
	Whatever trans, whatever one of the girls I love you guys I'm sorry if those that are watching are my friends are transgender.
	Okay, they don't care what they do.
	One of the girls at my like one of the high schools I transferred from, she recently just won state for a triple jump and the runner up, or like they tied for first place, was a transgendered female.
	So she technically won.
	But the person who like they they tied for first.
	They just gave them, they both gave them first.
	Yes.
	Not as good as being the only person who's first, you know?
	They still screwed her over.
	They did.
	And she could have very closely lost that, you know?
	Go ahead.
	Me and my sister had actually like a really long conversation about this topic because she's an excellent runner, always has been, heavily involved in track all throughout school.
	And I think it's completely unfair because like let's say a woman from birth and then a transgender woman both endure the same training all the way through.
	The transgender person will always win because they're taller and can have more muscle.
	And that is no discrimination towards transgender people at all.
	I'm all for everyone do whatever the hell you want and be that happy person.
	It's not by all of us.
	You just want things to be fair.
	Yeah, because honestly, I played softball and I played a little bit of college softball.
	And I'm not going to lie, I would be terrified if like a 5'10 transgender was up to bat and I played third base.
	I'm not gonna lie, I'd be scared.
	I would be mad if I lost like first place to a biological male.
	I would be pissed.
	Pissed.
	I would be really pissed.
	Pissed.
	Look, ultimately.
	It's such a hard topic, though, because then it's like, okay, it's not that hard.
	It's not that hard.
	So it isn't going to matter.
	What about transgender women who want to play sports?
	Where who are they?
	They should have had their own team.
	They either have their own team.
	They should be big as a child.
	Yeah, their own team or still be in play with males.
	And I feel like it would be unfair for the trans people not to understand where we as women are coming from because it's not fair for us to compete in that same room when it's like you clearly have an advantage.
	Isn't water polo like really physical?
	Extreme.
	People like.
	I wouldn't want a man touching the other there.
	I played with the guys.
	They're gross.
	I played hockey.
	I would shit my pants at like a 60.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Coming at me.
	Again, getting a line drive by a man right at their base.
	That's real close.
	She's real close.
	Have you ever seen South Park?
	Well, because I feel like for sports, it's not even about gender or what you identify as.
	Whatever the hell.
	It has nothing to do with it.
	It's about what you were born as and what you are.
	What you're capable of doing.
	Got pasty George.
	George donated $200.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	When the WNBA wasn't doing so well, it started to blame men for its slow ratings and low ticket sales.
	My question is: where were all the women and feminists?
	Why were they not supporting it?
	Women have different interests.
	I feel like women aren't, generally speaking, as into sports as men are.
	That's okay.
	Women just have- That goes into what you said earlier.
	Like watching sports.
	They pick and choose.
	Feminists pick and choose what benefits.
	What is actual business?
	Also, the WNBA loses money.
	It's been a.
	Nick was an NBA draft, but he hurt his knee.
	No.
	He's a tall.
	I'm serious.
	Nick?
	Tall guy.
	I don't like him, handsome guy.
	Very handsome.
	Very handsome.
	Looking very sharp in this little blue light.
	What do you mean by that?
	What are they called?
	Blue light blocking glasses there?
	He hurt his knee, man.
	And unfortunately, now he works for the whatever podcast.
	Fuck, man.
	That sucks, dude.
	Anyways, so, okay.
	We're going to move off the wage gap stuff, I guess.
	Oh, speaking of transgender stuff, though, I guess we could relate it to dating.
	Do you guys think that do you think it's straight?
	It's gay.
	As gay as him.
	I would never skay.
	Personally, it's by preference.
	I could have put it in.
	It's gay.
	Guys, Solo's pretty based.
	She's pretty based, you know.
	Played water polo.
	That's pretty cool.
	She's pretty based.
	Okay, good talk.
	Good talk.
	Anybody, you know?
	I don't think it's gay.
	You do or don't?
	I don't.
	You don't?
	I mean, like, if, oh, this is such a sensitive topic.
	If, um, if a man transitioned to a woman or a transgender woman, like, still had, like, everything of a man and then was with the opposite sex and they were, like, doing things together, I guess it's confusing.
	Yeah, but I mean, a fake Vajay isn't a Vajayj, so.
	It's not pussy.
	Yeah, not the same.
	I'm going to opt out of that.
	It's not labia.
	I think I don't.
	It's not vagina.
	It's okay.
	You don't.
	I think, look, even if you get the bottom surgery or whatever, nah.
	It doesn't make you.
	That's still a male.
	That's still a male.
	Still pretty gay.
	I think to each their own, but personally, I don't think I could.
	She couldn't do it.
	Solo over there can't do it.
	Yeah, but that just goes down to preferences again.
	Yeah.
	I guess ultimately, look, even granting that you can change your gender, you can't change your sex.
	So if we're talking about heterosexuality, homosexuality, gay, straight, this is short form slang for either homosexuality, heterosexuality.
	You can't change your sex.
	You can put on a wig, get fake titties, even chop your dick off.
	Get the fake vagina, whatever.
	You're still male.
	You're still a male.
	Your gender identity can be that of a woman.
	You're still a male.
	Two males having sex is gay.
	That's technically homosexual.
	There's like a meme that where I don't know how he says it, but he says it so funny.
	It's gay.
	Anyways, we have Pacey George here.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Pacey George donated $200.
	Trans should not be in women's sports at all.
	It is unfair to the biological women in their athletic fields and takes away their hard work and dedication.
	Yep.
	Word.
	Word.
	Look, the reality is...
	How much money has Pasty George donated?
	This is nothing to him.
	Watch this.
	Check the shit.
	Pacey George, hit me up later.
	Champagne, pop, Pacey.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, do you want me to set you up with him?
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay.
	Pasty George.
	Do you want to take her on a date, Pacey George?
	Hit me up.
	You want to take her on a date?
	I don't know.
	Do you like Canadian guys?
	If his name is Pacey George, I like him.
	He's tall.
	He's handsome.
	He's Native American.
	Huge penis.
	Oh, you know.
	So I actually like vaginas, fake vaginas.
	Okay.
	So he should transition into a, you want to just get.
	Everyone thinks I'm gay, but I'm not.
	Wait, are you joking?
	No. I'm not.
	I'm joking.
	I like men.
	Because maybe somebody or some people are into that.
	So I'm good, but yeah, hit me up, Pacey George.
	Boom.
	Hit her on Pacey George.
	Hit her.
	Oh!
	Wait, hold on.
	Did he send another one, this guy?
	Oh, my goodness.
	Oh, wait, no.
	He didn't.
	He's going to be like, I don't want you, you feminist hole.
	Wait, did he?
	Is this the one that just came through?
	Am I- Did this one come through?
	Or was it about the- Pasty George donated $200 Did it already come through?
	A straight man and a trans woman entering into a relationship is absolutely gay, as fack.
	Unless the trans woman gets an actual joyful.
	But the tech is actually that advanced level yet.
	Oh, wait, you're saying the vagina is really good.
	I guess.
	Joyful, it got the sensor or whatever, change it.
	It's vagina, an actual vagina instead of joyful.
	Oh, so like, what if a transgender person got a vagina transplant?
	So it's a real vagina.
	Still.
	There's still no uterus in there.
	That's still.
	Still no babies.
	I don't know.
	Honestly.
	Fuck.
	No.
	There was a video.
	I'm going to say it's still gay.
	Yeah, there's this video of this one transgender woman who said that she wanted a uterus transplant to be the first trans to get an abortion.
	What the fuck?
	That's like crazy.
	That shit.
	That's correct.
	That's like crazy people.
	Absolutely wild.
	The average trans person.
	Like, get pregnant just to get rid of it.
	Yeah, that's crazy.
	That's what she said.
	I don't do that.
	Yeah, you'll be the one.
	I saw that.
	I was taken off guard by that.
	It was just rage-based.
	Final thing on the wage gap thing.
	Quick.
	Why?
	Oh, my God.
	Relax.
	So, rapid fire, show of hands.
	Are you attracted to men who are successful?
	Rapid fire.
	Raise them high.
	Raise them high.
	Not like Elon Musk, though.
	Okay.
	Are you attracted to men who make a lot of money or will make a lot of money?
	Pacey George.
	Are you attracted to men with status?
	So this could be like fame or they're like at the same time.
	Purely off of this?
	Status.
	Like, so it could be fame.
	Look at my attract.
	Like, you're asking me if I'm attracted to a man purely off the fact that he has money?
	Status.
	So status would be...
	Like he's famous.
	Wait, no, but not only that.
	Just because he's famous?
	Or like as an add-on to it?
	Status could be fame, but it could also be he's like, he's not famous, but he's the top of his field.
	No, but do we mean, but do you mean like, are we attracted to him only because of that and everything else is bad?
	No, no, no.
	Oh, yeah, there's that.
	It's just a one, one thing.
	Okay, yeah.
	Like, are you attracted to guys who are funny?
	Obviously, you want more than just that, though.
	So, do you want a man who is a leader?
	Show of hands.
	Do you want a man who takes charge?
	Show of hands.
	Do you want a man who takes initiative?
	Do you want a man to make the first move?
	Might as well keep it.
	Do you want a man to plan the date?
	Do you want a man to pay for the first date?
	This is an important one.
	Show your hands.
	Okay, do you want a man to go for the first kiss, to make the move for the first kiss?
	Okay.
	Do you want a man like deeper into the relationship?
	Do you want to be 50-50?
	Or do you want him to still take care of things in the relationship?
	I know some of you guys are young, so you're probably not going to get that dynamic at 18, but yeah, that's the one thing that you like, for me, like as a college student, like a borough college student, like I know that everyone around me is also struggling to get on their feet.
	No, exactly.
	So I can't go on a first date with a guy and expect him to drop $50 on the both of us.
	I mean, even when we're both stressed.
	It's probably okay, but he's probably not going to be like able, a college guy's not going to be able to take it.
	Any first aid is first aid is, I feel.
	I mean, it would be nice, but like if it was split, I'm not going to sit there and be like, oh my gosh.
	Oh, no, me neither.
	You know what I mean?
	Oh, do you want a man?
	Yeah.
	Maybe, I know some of you are young, maybe when you're a bit older.
	Do you want a man to take care of all the bills?
	If I'm doing shit in return.
	Okay.
	Who here wants to have kids?
	Show of hands.
	No kids?
	Hell no.
	Hell no.
	Okay.
	She had a rough patch at 14 and ever since.
	She's been like, fuck that shit.
	Okay.
	Who here wants to, those of you who do want to have kids want to take a few years off from work when you do have kids?
	If I did, I would.
	A bit of time, some time off, a couple years off.
	Maybe you want two, three kids, you know, whatever.
	Anybody here want to be a stay-at-home mom while your husband works?
	Beautiful.
	Thank you, everybody, for participating.
	This is why the gender wage gap, it's not because of sexism.
	It's not because of sexism.
	It's because of a mating pressure that women one directionally put on men that isn't in the reverse.
	So all these things I listed, most of these things I listed, it's one directional for men, or excuse me, women want these things in men.
	Men typically don't want these things in women.
	If this is the case, if even just on one of these, and I listed like 10, 15 different ones, even just the men should pay for first dates, if that's the only thing you raised your hand to, if I don't know what the percentage is, let's say it's 50% of women.
	I think it's more, maybe, who knows?
	Whatever.
	50% of women want men to pay for the first date.
	This is a sociological thing that creates a pressure on men that doesn't exist in the reverse.
	Men would thus be more motivated to make money because there's no, there's no burden on women to be providers or pay on first dates.
	If women create cooking right now, thank you.
	Thank you.
	Thank you, Bella.
	Appreciate it.
	You're my cheerleader here.
	If men are then more, there's more of a reason.
	There's more motivation to achieve, to become high status, to make money, to make a lot of money so that women find you more appealing.
	This is going to create a dynamic where men are more motivated, where men are more invested in making money.
	Not to say that there's a complete lack thereof in women.
	Obviously, people want money for a variety of reasons, not just for romantic, having better romantic prospects.
	Obviously, you need money to survive.
	But there's this additional dynamic that happens to men that doesn't happen to women.
	Like, no guy's not going to, oh, you don't want to, you don't want to pay for me.
	Because some women, if the guy won't pay for the whole meal, she won't date him.
	There won't be a second date.
	Two checks, he says two checks.
	Oh, you want to be friends?
	Okay.
	Goodbye.
	This never happens in the reverse.
	Never happens in the reverse.
	So the wage gap is because of you guys.
	I'll own that.
	It's because of women holding men to more traditional gender roles, being the leader, being the provider, paying for dates, etc.
	I think that would, if the, I deny that there's a wage gap, whatever.
	If the wage gap even existed, though, it would be explained away by the fact that women have these expectations on men, and it's never in the reverse.
	Well, you expect us to be submissive, right?
	Yeah, sure.
	So aren't we providing stuff?
	Oh, well, so when I say providing, I'm just talking financially.
	Women do provide like in other metrics.
	I don't know if providing is the right word.
	You're bringing other things to the table.
	But I'm just speaking financially here.
	If we're talking about the wage gap, of course, it relates to finances.
	Y'all women want men to pay for first dates?
	I've dated.
	There should be a wage gap.
	Shit, I don't know.
	I've dated people before I made more money than them.
	So I can't relate to any of this because I've never really cared for, I mean, I don't want to date somebody who makes less than me only because it's that threshold of taking care of another grown person.
	Just to be clear, I'm speaking in very general terms.
	Women do date bummy dudes.
	No, they do.
	Women will sometimes even hold a guy down.
	Maybe you've done it.
	I don't know.
	You make a lot of money.
	Maybe you dealt with a dude where you were the one who was taking care of the stuff.
	Sounds like a yes.
	I have.
	Yeah.
	I have.
	Yeah.
	Me too.
	I was, I dated a guy who, oh, I'm so sorry.
	I dated a guy that I had a car.
	He didn't.
	So I drove us everywhere.
	I paid for everything.
	I did literally everything.
	And then that's like, that was a big part of our fallout because I was like, I want to be like, you got tired of doing it.
	Yeah, because that's just like, I don't mind like spoiling my partner.
	The guy was Big Spoon.
	Like, come on.
	You know?
	I agree.
	Wait, the guy was Big Spoon or Little Spoon?
	I was Big Spin.
	You were Big Spoon?
	Yes.
	I was top dog.
	I wore the pants.
	Look, women have had that shit on lock for a minute, but actually, Little Spoon is kind of where it's at.
	But every time.
	You have to jetpack, man.
	Oh, my God.
	That's the superior.
	The more comfortable, superior position is obviously the woman's the big spin.
	All right, tough crowd.
	I need to get up per sec.
	Felicity, you're going to do these ones right here.
	Okay.
	One sec.
	Or actually, let me do one chat coming through and then.
	Oh.
	Pasty George donated $200.
	I ran out of space.
	Unless the trans gets an actual Vega ja and the chroma somewhere.
	George is responding to my 2020.
	However, our tech is not there yet.
	And again, George.
	I get it.
	Pasty George, she wants to be.
	Give me some love.
	What's going on?
	You just ignored her.
	Anyways, so I have a question.
	Would you rather cross paths with a random man?
	Do the first one.
	Okay.
	What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband?
	Can you say it again?
	What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband?
	Oh, I don't know.
	I don't have that.
	Doesn't really matter.
	He'd have to match mine or at least more.
	Yeah.
	Mine or at least more.
	No, but like, what is that?
	Like, what's the number?
	Or a range?
	Whatever it is in the moment.
	Yep.
	Oh, you're saying like in the future, whatever you're making.
	Whatever I'm making now.
	And if he can meet that with me now, then that's fine.
	But that would also be a discussion between me and my significant other and whoever that is.
	The prospect, too.
	So do you have like a range or like an idea?
	What?
	Do you?
	Yeah, I do.
	Okay, how much?
	$150.
	Okay, cool.
	That's a good start.
	Yeah, but what's your answer?
	Definitely more than that.
	Okay, so what's more, like $160?
	If that's the answer that you want to give and roll for it, go for it.
	I'm asking.
	It's not like to hurt your feelings.
	I don't know if you're feeling offended.
	Roll back the clips from last time, if anybody can find that.
	Whoa, I wasn't there for that.
	What happened?
	All I'm saying is that he would have to meet mine, or if not, exceed that.
	So if you're looking for a specific number, yeah, I am looking for like a range.
	Okay.
	Okay, anyways, what about you?
	I'm 18.
	I don't know.
	My like last boyfriend worked at the gym.
	So I like it.
	Like an hourly wage.
	I don't.
	As much as however I make.
	I mean, actually, no, that's not true.
	If I love him, I love him.
	Maybe he's pursuing some like art stuff.
	He doesn't make that much money.
	It's not really that important.
	Do you want kids?
	Yeah, but that would be like a discussion that we would have about like which who's like, how are we going to make that work?
	You know, wouldn't be like, I expect him to be making the money.
	I don't know.
	It just kind of depends on the situation.
	I'm just not really there yet.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'm too young to know.
	A range or something.
	I don't really want to.
	Like in the future, do you want kids?
	How much?
	No, I don't want kids.
	I don't know.
	If I am successful in my ambitions, I'll be making hopefully a lot.
	What do you want to do?
	You want to do cosmetology, right?
	Like hair?
	Yeah, cosmetology, like extensions, braiding, dreadlocks, that would be like my stable income, but I want to like pursue music fully.
	Okay.
	Like I plan to go on The Voice.
	I already have a pretty good platform on social media and TikTok.
	If that goes well and I actually become a singer songwriter and I'm doing expensive extensions on people, I think it would be pretty good.
	Pretty loaded.
	I'm gonna hit you up for some extensions.
	Hit me up.
	I'm really good at taping.
	Oh, you are?
	I am.
	I shaved my head when I was 14 just for fun.
	Why?
	I lived in the middle of the woods.
	I had nothing to lose.
	I think.
	I literally just shaved my head.
	And as it was growing out, I was like, let me get tapins.
	And then they looked great.
	I missed them a lot.
	My tapins didn't work out.
	Really?
	I got you, girl.
	Hit me up.
	Thanks.
	Okay, what about you?
	I don't know because I don't know what I will be doing.
	I'm going to do some sort of business, but I don't know what specifically yet.
	But something in that field.
	You want kids?
	Yes.
	Do you want to stay home after you have kids?
	No.
	So you would like just take your maternity leave that you can then go back to work?
	I want to work.
	Okay.
	So you kind of like split it with your husband and there's not, you said business, right?
	You don't know a specific range, like over $100,000.
	I don't know.
	I just want to make a lot of money.
	We're just starting to grow.
	We're just starting.
	Well, where do you live?
	Or where do you want to live in the future?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	We're just babies.
	We don't know.
	Fresh out of high school.
	We don't know.
	Working on it.
	I got my shit planned.
	It's okay.
	I appreciate you guys, I guess, giving me a kind of answer.
	What about you?
	I would like my husband to ideally make $200K or over.
	And I do want kids.
	And I want to go to part-time after I have kids.
	Or stay home.
	Yeah, you live in Santa Barbara County, right?
	Yeah.
	So, makes sense.
	What about you?
	Probably like at least $80,000.
	But again, I live in Oklahoma and then my boyfriend lives in Ohio.
	So it's a little bit cheaper.
	What is the median income for Oklahoma?
	I couldn't honestly tell you.
	I think, like, minimum wage might be, like, I don't want to be wrong, but I really think it's under.
	I think it's $7.50.
	Yeah, I was about to say I think it's $7.50,000.
	But on average, like when I work, say, for dispensaries or $7-Eleven, I was making like $11.50 to $1,250.
	In Oklahoma?
	Yeah.
	Damn.
	That's where to work in Oklahoma, $7-Eleven.
	Yeah, overnight.
	They got hella dispensaries there too, huh?
	Yeah, dispensaries are like really big and you can get tipped pretty nice.
	Do you want to own a dispensary?
	Huh?
	Do you want to own a dispensary?
	No, I actually don't.
	I don't smoke or anything like that.
	Where did dispensary come from?
	Because I used to work for a dispensary, so I used to smoke.
	My name is actually a type of marijuana, ironically.
	Sativa.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	That's your actual name name?
	Like, you were born with that?
	Like, my mom named me that.
	She also got pregnant at 14.
	So that's pretty.
	That's cute.
	That's a cool name for you.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	In my future, I get where I need to get, hopefully I'll make about $150 to $200,000.
	And they just have to match that.
	Where do you live?
	Right now I live in Tennessee.
	Where in Tennessee?
	Chattanooga.
	Oh, I'm not from Tennessee.
	I'm not from there.
	I just moved there a year ago, but I just got a job.
	Did you come here from there for this?
	Yeah, I did.
	What's the median income in Tennessee?
	Really, really?
	It's maybe 40.
	No, not even that.
	I would say 40, average.
	$660 in California.
	Yeah, that's a lot.
	I'm not.
	But I don't plan on living in Chattanooga for the rest of my life.
	I plan on moving out eventually, so I know more money will have to be on the table, but as long as they match my income, I'm okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say like over 400K.
	Where do you live?
	Canada.
	Canada?
	What province?
	Ontario.
	Okay.
	I guess I think I'm pretty expensive closer to Toronto.
	Yeah, like I just want him to match what I'm making or more, I guess.
	What do you do for work again?
	Or what do you want to do?
	Okay, I'm an influencer, but I also do OF.
	Just influencer on TikTok?
	Yeah, on like social media.
	Oh, like all of them?
	Yeah.
	That's so awesome.
	Do you do like what do you do?
	Like story times, like beauty videos?
	I wish.
	I'm starting to do those stuff, but it was just mainly like food content or like, you know, just there's traps.
	And now it's like Twitch streaming and stuff.
	OF though, OF is a whole other story.
	Not making money there, but you know it's okay.
	Okay, next question.
	How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
	Starting with you, chair one.
	5'8 and 5'8.
	You date someone the same height as you?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think I'm like 5'4, 5'4 and a half.
	Maybe like 5'7, I think.
	5'7.
	Dated a guy that's 5'4?
	Yeah.
	You really?
	Actually, I did.
	Yeah, my most recent boyfriend was like 5'8.
	5'7, 5'8.
	He's a cutie.
	That tall in like freshman year of high school.
	I mean, sometimes the short guys are getting all the looks.
	It's really true.
	Honestly, yeah, I noticed that.
	Seriously, like, like Mark Walberg.
	What about you?
	I think I'm 5'3, and I have dated someone my height before.
	And like really tall guys, I like tall boys.
	I know it's generic, but like I think.
	I mean, I prefer a tall boy.
	I 100%.
	Like, I would date someone, if I really liked a guy, I would date someone that's like 5'11, but like, look, he's 6' and over.
	Okay.
	I like tall guys.
	What can I say about that?
	What about you?
	I don't, I think I'm like 5'3 ⁇ , 5'4.
	Or like the same height.
	Yeah.
	It's a strong preference.
	As long as you're tall as me, I don't really care.
	But I would prefer a taller.
	Same height?
	As long as you're taller than me, you just gotta be taller.
	I thought you said same height.
	No.
	Okay, 5'4?
	I really know.
	5'5?
	You gotta be tough.
	Yeah, 6' And you're 5'2, 5'3?
	5'3'5'4.
	5'3'5'4.
	We're the same.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'5, and I would date someone who's like 5'9 and 5'10 and up.
	You said you're 5'5?
	Yeah.
	I have the same answer as you.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'3 and I like like 6'2 and up.
	And my boyfriend's 6'4, so.
	I do.
	I do.
	I like him tall.
	What about you?
	I think I'm 5'4.
	I do like shorter women.
	Okay.
	What about men, though?
	Or I'm sorry.
	In my past, I've dated same heights or higher, taller.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'm 5'3.
	I feel like anything 5'7 and above, like, with heels, it's fun.
	Yeah, I get them.
	Like, I have to be able to wear kitten heels, at least.
	Okay, next question.
	Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?
	Starting with you.
	Is the bear provoked?
	I'd rather walk by a random bear because chances of me seeing a bear on a hike versus a man is really rare, and I'd rather take that sight.
	It'd be a pretty cool experience.
	What if that's like a brown bear?
	They're usually pretty aggressive.
	You said a random man.
	I know, but like random.
	It's like, what if it's a brown bear?
	It could be or could be.
	I'm sure if I'm just minding my business, it would go about its way.
	Is this like your average Joe of a man or is it some like scary man?
	It's just a random guy.
	Like a random guy you see walking down the street.
	Oh, is it daytime?
	Oh, it's scary.
	I hope it's daytime for a hike.
	Okay.
	So you still pick the bear.
	Am I alone?
	This is a complicated area.
	I'm literally going to go out.
	it's random so what's these are important details these are important These are important details, though.
	Keep going, keep going.
	I like bears, but also men are cool.
	If it's a grizzly bear, then a man.
	But if it's like a black bear, like, I like black bears.
	I'm a big hiker.
	If it's like, because the reason I'm so concerned about context, because if it's like one in the morning and I'm like walking down the street and there's no one around.
	I'm on a hike.
	What's happening?
	Then I've been hike.
	Because the man's probably on the hike too.
	Mining his business.
	Yeah, we usually go on hikes and like morning afternoon.
	Yeah, probably.
	But at the same time, seeing a bear would be cool.
	If it's a grizzly bear, no.
	It's scary.
	If it's like a black bear.
	I'd like to past a bear?
	No.
	Okay, yeah.
	I'd rather walk past a man.
	I'd rather walk past a man.
	5'3?
	I don't think you could intimidate the bear.
	If it's a black bear, if you get lucky.
	Could you take it on?
	Black bear, you're good.
	Yeah.
	I mean, it would be a brown bear in the distance.
	But a black bear is going to be a bit more dark.
	No, it's like black bear.
	Get a brown bear.
	What do they play dead?
	Lay down.
	What if you play dead?
	Brown bear.
	Wait, if it's brown, lie down.
	If it's black, fight back.
	If it's white, good.
	Good night.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I'd rather walk by a man.
	Yeah, you're going to scare off a black bear.
	That means you have a chance.
	Yeah.
	But it's my favorite.
	So it could be a white man.
	Yes.
	A grizzly bear.
	Okay.
	A polar bear.
	What about you?
	Oh, I'd rather walk past a man.
	Okay, what about you?
	Walk past a bear.
	Yeah.
	Walk past a man.
	A man.
	I would walk past a man.
	A man.
	Yeah, I don't.
	I would never want to see a bear.
	Or like a mountain lion.
	You're not surviving.
	Yeah, those are scary.
	There's a lot around here.
	There are.
	And coyotes, too.
	Coyotes you can scare off, though, if you like.
	Yeah, coyotes.
	You got to get like big.
	There's a lot of them, though.
	Yeah, not when it's a pack.
	Coyotes generally don't bother humans.
	I mean, where I live, I've seen coyotes walking down the street, and they just...
	They're really looking for, like, stray cats or, like, small dogs and stuff like that.
	Especially like where I'm from and Oceanside, coyotes are like a real big thing and cats beaches getting knocked off.
	I was in my cat a few years ago.
	Okay.
	Would you rather date someone who's amazing in bed but terrible at texting or amazing at texting but terrible in bed?
	Terrible text or amazing in bed.
	Terrible text or amazing information.
	Don't text me anymore.
	Because fuck texting either way.
	Don't text me either.
	Period.
	Texting should be purely for like short information.
	Like, I agree.
	Like, I don't know.
	I don't want to see a big dog carrier texting for big shit ever.
	Fuck texting.
	I definitely want someone who's better at texting and can be terrible in bed.
	I'm okay with that.
	I don't like texting.
	You could teach them.
	I hate texting.
	I'm more of a caller anyway.
	What about you?
	Yeah, exactly.
	Better at texting.
	Texting feels like a chore.
	Oh my God, every time.
	It's like makes sense.
	I think I agree because I'm not even the best texter myself.
	I'm a horrible text.
	I have some of my best friends on Open right now for like two weeks.
	I'm terrible at texting.
	I just FaceTime.
	And you guys can't.
	I won't forget.
	No.
	So we're happy to be able to do it.
	So you guys would have lack of communication.
	No, they cannot call in person.
	But I don't want to communicate.
	I never text either way.
	I think just in person.
	Texting is totally different, but if they're bad at talking, well, then I guess they have a bad person.
	And I'm more so perceiving that question as communication and just intimacy on a more than physical basis.
	I'm just saying, I thought she said just texting.
	Like literally just texting versus.
	Yeah, I would rather talk to my mom in person.
	I love updates.
	Like I love little pictures.
	Yeah, but wouldn't you rather a phone call?
	I like both.
	And I mean, we figured out.
	But wouldn't you rather, like, would you have, like, would you like choose like terrible sex?
	I have a question.
	Over not getting updates.
	Yeah, I would absolutely be okay with that.
	What's your question?
	Because again.
	Isn't it an ick if a guy is bad at spelling?
	No.
	Yeah, I am bad at spelling.
	As long as they're actually smart otherwise, then it's not on egg.
	I don't like when they don't know how to use the two, like two or two.
	Like, no, like us to grammar or two.
	Are you serious?
	You need to get that figured out.
	Unless you're dyslexic, you have no excuse.
	Guys, I went to too many schools.
	My education is school.
	Okay, next.
	Next question.
	Would you rather your partner be rich and boring or broke and hilarious?
	Broke and broke and hilarious.
	One at a time, one at a time.
	Starting with chair one.
	What's your name?
	Sorry.
	Lexi.
	Lexi.
	Broke and not.
	What?
	Would you?
	Broke and hilarious.
	He can be.
	He can't be broke.
	Next question.
	He can't be broke.
	He can't be broke.
	So rich and boring.
	Oh my God.
	I'm going to laugh regardless.
	What about you can laugh at him as long as it's not Ava?
	What about you?
	Broke and hilarious.
	Broken hilarious.
	He can get his money up, not his funny up.
	Right?
	Broken, hilarious.
	Broken, hilarious.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	I'm kind of torn on that question.
	He could get his money up, but he can't get his funny up.
	You can't change a personality.
	You have to change your personality.
	One at a time.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I think if you can't make me laugh.
	Like, imagine just laughing.
	That's like 99.9% of attractions.
	Well, as he's my age, if he's like 19, then sure.
	Good thing I'm funny because he doesn't need to be that funny.
	Or what if he has a lot of money?
	You don't know why.
	I'll laugh as loud as you want.
	Okay, next one.
	Would you rather date someone who talks about their sorry, talks about their ex too much or someone who never talks about their past at all?
	Someone who never talks about their past.
	Never.
	Never talks about their past.
	Never talk about it.
	I don't want to hear about your ex.
	What do you think, Lexi?
	What does Lexi think?
	I don't care.
	Probably that doesn't talk about their past.
	Okay.
	And then you all answered right.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Same thing.
	Okay.
	Where was I?
	Would you rather be ghosted after three amazing dates or date someone who double texts aggressively after every interaction?
	Ghost.
	Ghosted.
	It's okay.
	Double texted.
	Wait, can you repeat that?
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Would you rather be ghosted after three amazing dates or date someone who double texts aggressively after every interaction?
	What does that mean?
	Like double texting, like blowing up your phone.
	You can never just put it down.
	It's constantly ringing and like you have to answer otherwise.
	That happened to me.
	This guy I met in a grocery store asked for my number and then he would not stop texting me.
	I responded to like his first five texts, and then he kept calling me, blowing up my phone, calling me from like no caller ID.
	It was weird.
	Yeah, never hearing that.
	That's definitely creepy stalker activity, obsessive love bombing every year for me.
	I guess, again, I'm taking it as if it's someone that I'm interested in and like I want to receive that.
	You know what I mean?
	Yeah, but there is the thing as like too much.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I feel like you're into just like really clingy men.
	I am.
	I do.
	I like it.
	But I'm clingy to you.
	I'm also like cool.
	I like my boyfriend texts a lot, but not like the obsessive.
	Yeah, so not a random.
	Well, I kind of like the obsessive, but like not like just stop somewhere.
	No, I like it.
	I like when my boyfriend wants like a ton of pictures or like I like that.
	But I'm also like thinking about like her question as in like you guys have just met.
	Yeah, that's right.
	Not like you know what I mean?
	Because I've met guys that are like you send them their number at the grocery store or whatever, and then they automatically feel like, why isn't she texting me back?
	I just saw her at the grocery store.
	And it's like, how do you feel entitled to this type of energy or access to me?
	What yet we just met at the grocery store like two hours ago.
	Exactly.
	Your phone is not an extension of you, girl.
	He literally started inviting me over two hours later after.
	I believe you, girl.
	No, thank you.
	Yeah.
	You're scaring me.
	But when it's a guy that you're interested in, of course, that feels good to be like.
	And I think because I automatically go to that default just because I'm in a relationship.
	Right.
	So that's kind of like already where my head's at.
	Yeah, for sure.
	I understand that.
	If I was in a relationship, I would totally want like updated photos.
	Yeah, but exactly.
	Like, I bought him, I bought him these big balloons for his birthday, and he like sent me a selfie with it.
	Yeah, that's cute.
	No, like, that's adorable.
	That's the difference between stranger and really.
	Right.
	Yeah.
	Difference between strange and stalker.
	Right, because then you then stalker, I don't like it because I've actually had to deal with that where he literally sent me a message and was like, I like your new car.
	Right.
	It's like, how did you even know I got in your car?
	I had a guy text me.
	He asked me for my number at some restaurant and I was like, okay, gave it to him.
	I obviously didn't like respond for like he kept texting me for a long time and I was like, yeah, I'm actually, whatever.
	He sends me a picture of myself out to dinner with my dad and his friends.
	He sent me a picture.
	He said, what a coincidence.
	I was like, you fucking creep.
	Like, you couldn't just come say hi.
	No, he didn't say hi.
	He sent me a picture of myself.
	I haven't screenshot it.
	I literally like, and it was a horrible picture, too.
	I was really like, I was like, you couldn't do any better either.
	It's kind of crazy.
	Okay.
	That was done in so many different ways.
	Would you rather fall for someone who lives across the country or lives in your building?
	Middle of my building.
	That's like party next door.
	Yeah.
	Again, I'm in a 12-hour distance.
	But like, wouldn't you wish that he lived in your building?
	I would say, like, based on the beginning of our relationship, it was actually better that we were at a distance because it made us have a lot more value intellectually before it was physical.
	Distance makes the heart broke.
	Yeah.
	Separation makes the heart break.
	And honestly, because we were forced to really get to know each other before we met the first time, like our value in each other is just a different basis.
	Anytime I've ever dated someone that was in my city, it was either got toxic really fast or their intention wasn't genuine, especially because I'm sure we all have big platforms.
	So when you're well known, it's just the intention isn't always genuine.
	So true, true.
	And what was so you all said in your building?
	Well, I say no because it's like, I'm not going to shit where I sleep.
	Like, I'm not going to go fuck a guy from my gym or from my apartment complex.
	And then for me to break up or something happens, then me going downstairs to the gym or the pool and he's there.
	It's like, or with like him or having a moment.
	No, like, I would rather just pick another guy.
	You want the room.
	You want the room to be sneaky.
	You want the room to like date around, is what you're saying.
	I just like, don't want to like, I don't want to build like like a fuck buddy connection with somebody in my apartment complex or at my gym where like, if things go bad and I have to show back up in that area, it's gonna be like, oh yeah, especially if whatever works out, you know what I mean.
	Then you're walking through the mail room and you're like, oh fuck, it's like do that to yourself.
	The same with co-workers right yeah, if they start dating someone new, having to watch them, it's just right.
	It's kind of weird and it's almost harder to heal when you see them on a constant basis.
	Okay guys, I'm gonna do rapid fire.
	Um, would you rather date someone who hates pets or someone who has three emotional support reptiles, starting with three emotional support reptiles, because I have one.
	Okay, three emotional support reptiles, reptiles.
	I love them.
	Three emotional support reptiles.
	okay I agree I would I love people that love animals um would you rather only go on dates that involve hiking or only go on dates that involve karaoke karaoke hiking hiking hiking I want to get in shape.
	So hiking karaoke hiking, but yeah, four wheelers.
	My boyfriend has like three, four wheelers.
	I have a bunch of TikToks who just hiking and stuff.
	So okay, would you rather they say I love you too soon, or take forever to say it, take forever.
	To say it take forever yeah okay, I'm gonna go around, so I don't know, rather not you say it.
	That would take forever, probably.
	Okay, what about you?
	Probably take forever because the suspense builds.
	I agree.
	What do you mean by house?
	Like how soon we come, like after like three days oh yeah, take forever yeah, take forever.
	Okay, I care about perspective.
	My bad, it's cute, it's funny.
	What about you?
	So long what?
	Yeah, it said, take forever yeah, what about you?
	Um I, if you feel it, say it.
	So it could be, it could be too soon.
	That's fine with me okay, what about you?
	Take forever?
	Take forever yeah, I think it's more meaningful when they take forever.
	Um, would you rather date someone who's a 10 but smells weird or a 6 but smells amazing starting with you?
	Woof.
	Want me to come back to you?
	How weird is it?
	Like weird enough.
	Like what stench would be related?
	One time I went on a date with a guy and he had horrible breath, like we didn't even kiss, like he just no.
	Six, that's that smell good.
	Six, that smells good if.
	If somebody smells bad, it's like a genuine, like it doesn't matter how attractive you are, how great of personality you are.
	I can't bad hygiene, I can't do it.
	Six, but smells good.
	What about you?
	Six, yeah I agree um would you rather date someone who overshares online or someone who acts like social media doesn't exist acts like social media doesn't exist
	acts like social media doesn't exist I guess acts like social media doesn't exist acts like social media doesn't exist acts like social media doesn't exist social media doesn't exist yeah social media doesn't exist all right I'm back welcome back thank you appreciate it appreciate it we have a chat here from Pacey George sorry I missed this one oh wait oh wait no we already did this one
	shoot shoot uh okay I'm trying to remember if there's anything else we had to uh go over there a couple few more notes uh I think we should really go back to the feminist conversation no please no please no no we do have a couple chats could pick a new topic so yeah please $20 for Megan.
	Thank you for that.
	Rachel Wilson, $20 on Veno.
	She writes, Please tell them most of what they believe about the history of women's oppression is false and propaganda.
	I'm a woman and I'm against it because I'm an expert in this area.
	Well, I'm not, so.
	Oh, shit.
	Uneducated queen over here.
	Can we get.
	Wait, hold on one second.
	Oh, I see.
	All right, can we get champagne?
	A thousand?
	George.
	This one's for you, but don't be a greedy boy, LOL.
	Oh, you want me to share?
	Yeah, I can.
	I'll do that.
	Share with us.
	Do you have the other ones?
	One of the other.
	Yeah, yeah.
	That one.
	Did you hear that, Pasty George?
	The Canadian girl over here said that.
	He fell wealthy.
	Maybe he's a pasty true.
	You definitely said it like that.
	So, guys, we're going to do a roast session.
	But the roast, so the roast session, it's going to be, we're going to do a $69 TTS for the roast session, guys.
	So if you want to get a roast in, get it in.
	$69.
	I don't want to get roasted.
	Could you grab me that purple thing there?
	We're getting roasted.
	Give me one.
	Yeah, everybody's getting roasted.
	I'm getting roasted.
	They're going to call me fat and shit.
	Everybody's going to get roasted.
	It's going to be beautiful.
	It's going to be the best roast.
	The best roast.
	Why didn't you like the MAGA hat, though?
	Are you down to wear the MAGA hat?
	Just saying?
	You want to wear it?
	Honestly, it would really bring out the color of your eyes.
	Right?
	Give it to me.
	Oh, is she going to put it on?
	Go ahead, Felicity.
	Grab it for her.
	I'm going to get clipped and it's going to be hilarious.
	Plipping and shipping.
	Because everyone who knows me knows that I'm like a little bit of a child.
	Plipping and shit, boys.
	And clipped.
	Oh, shit.
	Wow.
	Look at this white supremacist.
	My dad.
	Oh, my God.
	Hey, dad, do you love me?
	Look at this fascist sitting here at the table.
	Oh, my goodness.
	Does anyone else want to turn it on?
	I'm doing it.
	I'm good.
	You're clipped.
	There's some like, there's some, like, does it smell good?
	Yeah, mostly Felicity wears it.
	Oh, my God.
	That smells like oppression.
	That is not true.
	Oh, my.
	All right.
	Take it back if you can.
	Good pro.
	All right.
	$69 TTS, guys.
	If you want to get a little roast in here, excuse the chair a little bit.
	Yeah, I want to do adjustments.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I want to leave that.
	I'm just like, 69 cents.
	I just don't want to be like a TTS.
	Do you guys want to refill on your champagne?
	Yes, yes, yes.
	Lexi, where is that?
	Where is that Lexi person?
	We'll get you.
	Pass him back down.
	I'll pour for you guys.
	Thank you.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	No, I have.
	Oh, did one of the cups get tossed?
	She also, I think, she needs a new cup.
	Okay.
	Easy peasy.
	All right.
	While I'm hopefully not going to.
	I need to be safe here.
	Desert Judge donated $69.69.
	The whatever podcast Discord Council consulted with representatives from the great state of Arizona, based Thornd Desert Jorge.
	For the record, they disavow Lexi.
	Share one as one of their own from as.
	Oh, Arizona.
	They're disavowing you.
	Huh?
	I think they disowned her.
	They don't.
	I'm.
	And pop on your eye.
	What?
	Be careful.
	Here, let me just point it towards.
	Is it Sina or Sina?
	Cina.
	Sina.
	That would be bad.
	Let's see here.
	Oh boy.
	I'm scared.
	I'm scared.
	Trauma's here.
	I'm scared, boys.
	Wait, normally I do the other hand.
	Fuck, hold on.
	Can you do it in the other direction?
	Wait, no, I do do it with this hand.
	No pressure.
	I'm like.
	Oh no, this is going to be a hard one.
	I feel like we're all crazy.
	Oh!
	Easy.
	That's the last one.
	I thought it was going to fly.
	All right.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	We're going to get these poured.
	Getting onto a dating conversation, though, I'm trying to think what there's a couple.
	What?
	What the fuck?
	Shut up, bro.
	Oh, I'm double.
	What the hell?
	Ridiculous.
	Ridiculous.
	I also don't remember which cup was mine already, so maybe.
	Oh, shit.
	Wait, we're popping the bottle.
	There's only one, right?
	Yeah, I was the only one who's okay.
	So pass that one down to her.
	Wait, are we taking the champagne for the last TTS that just came in, or was that $1,000?
	Oh, yeah.
	Okay, so this one is a little more.
	That one's yours.
	Pass it down.
	And then this one is for you there.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, let's do cheers if you guys want to hold up your water.
	Cheers.
	Cheers.
	To Pasty George.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	Salu.
	To Amnesty International or some shit.
	I don't know.
	Mayor Freed.
	All right.
	We have Hanlon's Razor here.
	Thank you, man.
	$69 TTS.
	Alan underscore Acer underscore 224 donated $69.
	Ever seen the Zodiac movie?
	It's about the serial killer.
	He shows up in military garb with a gun to a couple having a picnic.
	You know what the couple probably thought?
	Man, I wish that was a bear.
	Wow.
	Hey, Nick, did we get any super chats or no?
	I just checked about three minutes ago.
	Can I ask what time it is?
	10.39.
	Okay, we have a bunch coming in.
	We're going to let these come through.
	Hold on, guys.
	Why people are watching this right now?
	4,000.
	About.
	Hey.
	Hey, guys.
	1,000 on Twitch.
	Wait, what just happened?
	4,000 people are watching.
	Right now?
	Right now.
	That's like...
	Sing!
	4,000.
	Sing, sing.
	There's probably record executives in the chat.
	Follow my TikTok.
	Oh, my God.
	No.
	No, no.
	Bella's vocals.
	Sing.
	Why are you cutting that out?
	Yeah, I'm like.
	Bro, you gotta, if you're gonna deny us, you're gonna wait for me.
	I don't want to deny you.
	I just don't want to sing off the palette.
	You denied.
	You denied.
	What if we just like dropped a beat?
	Anyways, we don't want it.
	Never mind.
	We don't want to hear that shit.
	Oh, now you're offended?
	Now you're offended?
	I say sing.
	That's funny.
	Reverse psychology.
	You never know who's watching.
	Manipulated.
	Boom.
	You just got manipulated.
	At Bella's Vocals.
	Boom.
	Bella Brown on Sweden Five.
	Manipulated.
	Okay.
	You muted.
	DM me.
	Oh, my goodness.
	All right, guys.
	So, TTS should all, everything should be good here.
	$69 TTS if you want to get it in.
	We have some coming through.
	And by some, I mean one.
	Wait, can I ask what we're live on?
	YouTube and Twitch.
	Rachel Wilson donated $69.
	Button one gives all women a life of luxury, but no children, and humanity dies out.
	Button two gives women an average life, but no luxury.
	They all have children and humanity lives.
	Which button?
	Button two.
	Two.
	Wait, what lives in average life, but no luxury.
	Okay, I have some roasts coming in.
	I forgot to pull some of these up.
	Please don't hate me.
	Some of these came in a while ago.
	I apologize.
	There reads.
	I apologize.
	Inquisitor Zeal donated $100.
	Care 2, I have enough strength to be able to get away from the bottom.
	Oh my god!
	To unalign.
	Oh, shit.
	Was it bad?
	That was that.
	He told me that he could talk down to me because he could easily kill me with one hand.
	Yeah, and these are the men that are terrible.
	A gross man.
	A gross man.
	Now, you have to send it all to me.
	A simp message.
	I feel like that is your threat.
	Yo, don't be a gross boy.
	Christopher donated $100.
	6-7 is most attractive, soft-spoken, dressed modestly, easy-going smile, enough to hold on to.
	Able to admit when she's wrong, and humble.
	Too bad for me.
	Is there a simp tax since she's not into men?
	Yes, Christopher.
	Actually, there's not a simply.
	There's probably a double tax.
	Yo, Christopher, this came in a while back.
	It got lost in the sauce.
	I apologize.
	I don't know if you're even still watching.
	Thank you for the message, Christopher.
	If you want to send in a 10, I'll just treat it as a TTS just to make up for the delay.
	Same for Josh Brooks here.
	Sorry.
	Josh Brooks donated 100%.
	Usually pretty good with these, my bad.
	He has a different perspective of the question.
	For the panel, what is the kindest, nicest, sweetest thing you have ever done for any partner you've had?
	So for sex, do they exist?
	A definition of are we going down the line again?
	Yeah, in that order.
	Sweetest, nicest thing you've done for a partner.
	I took.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	Go ahead, Bella.
	I was just going to say, I feel like.
	I thought we were going down.
	Oh, yeah, yeah.
	Nobody's speaking, so go for it, Bella.
	Fuck that.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	I was just going to say, I don't know if I can think of a specific thing.
	I feel like that's like all I've done in relationships.
	What was the question?
	Girls I date fold my laundry.
	I feel like that's very nice and gentlemanly behavior.
	It's like, um, it's like what's it called?
	Acts of service?
	Yeah.
	Like a love language?
	Like, when I really like someone, like, yo, I'll pick up your room for you.
	Like, I'll do these like small things to like make yourself make your life more convenient.
	I'll take care of you when you're like disgustingly sick, like vomiting and like, yeah, like sweet.
	I hope a girl does that for me, but I don't think I would do it in reverse.
	Really?
	Yeah, she just needs to.
	I'll send her some DoorDash or some shit, but I got a show to run.
	That thousand dollars from Pasty.
	Like, you can do.
	I think the sweetest thing I've done for a guy is actually get him a job.
	I'm fried.
	Thank you, man.
	Fried pie.
	$69 TTS.
	Streamlabs.com slash whatever.
	I have a video of my ex-girlfriend that we can play here.
	I know what you're going to call it.
	You're a fan of the show.
	She watches.
	I'm not a fan.
	I just watched.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, I didn't even like that.
	I just watched every single video like last night to prepare myself for this.
	Base Thor donated $69.
	Brian, you need to have a limit on how many young, dumb, and full of bunnies women you can have on the panel.
	I legit got here cancer and lost brain cells listening to chair one through five prattle tonight.
	Oh no, it was good.
	Different perspective, you know?
	I hope you get well soon.
	Oh, as buddy.
	Maybe we'll send DoorDash to this one.
	Yeah.
	Yo, bass Thor.
	Thank you for the TTS.
	I appreciate it.
	All right.
	Oh, Christopher.
	Oh, Christopher, being.
	Thank you, man, for understanding.
	Sorry for the delay on that.
	Yo, W's and Chaffer Christopher being a good sport.
	There was a bit of delay on getting his chat pulled up.
	So thank you, man.
	Shout out, Christopher.
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	I'm literally just like leaning.
	I'm just like watching.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	LMFAO.
	Word.
	Thank you, Pacey George.
	Thank you, Pasty George.
	He really doesn't.
	It's been made clear.
	Oh, we'll go into this after the video.
	Go ahead and actually wait.
	We've got to wait for Pacey.
	I want his LMFAO to cover up my, okay, go ahead.
	All right.
	This is a video I took of.
	It was after a long podcast episode.
	Video I took of my girlfriend.
	I show future girls this video just to be like, this is what you need to do.
	I want to spoil it so bad.
	Okay, go ahead, play it.
	Boom.
	Huge.
	You know what?
	Somebody told me the bow wasn't deep enough.
	So she has to, every time she greets me at the door, she has to greet me at the door, has to bow.
	Has to get to my laundry.
	This is really you have such a laundry.
	Yes.
	Have my dinner prepared.
	She has to have my dinner prepared.
	Cracks open my beer.
	Yep.
	Well done.
	I actually dumped her about a day after this video.
	I was a little disappointed in her.
	Do you study professional rage baiting?
	She didn't mix those noodles fast enough.
	Rage baiting.
	What are you talking about?
	Rage baiting?
	Good at it.
	I was just thinking.
	Play the bow again really quick just to show the girls what is expected.
	Boom.
	Huge fucking bow.
	Giant bow.
	This is my expectation for a girlfriend.
	First date, laundry.
	And the bow.
	On the first date.
	Thank you, Cena.
	I appreciate your support for me.
	Wait, I have a random question.
	Go ahead.
	How old are you?
	I've been trying to figure out.
	I am a vampire.
	No, I'm 36.
	Yeah.
	You're 36?
	I know.
	Ancient, right?
	Shit's crazy.
	I'm 36.
	Do I look younger or older?
	No.
	Oh, wow.
	They were like, okay, let me dig.
	I actually thought you were younger.
	Okay, yeah, let me know.
	I'd say like 34.
	I thought you were older.
	Thank you.
	Oh, wow.
	I lied when I said 36.
	It's okay.
	I thought you were older too, Bella.
	Thank you.
	Is that a compliment?
	You got to think about it.
	I just hate it when people tell me, people tell me all the time I look like a 16-year-old.
	So if you tell me I look older, like, I appreciate it.
	You look 37.
	Period.
	Wait, really?
	You're going to be like, hell yeah.
	Remember, we literally said we were going to be more attractive.
	I don't look 37.
	Word.
	So question related to that video.
	Would you bow for the perfect guy?
	Name.
	No, because I would literally be using him as a footstool.
	I would be coming home and he'd be bowing for me.
	That's the only way.
	Thank you.
	Tilt your mic down, please.
	Okay, what about you?
	More, Go ahead.
	No.
	Not even the perfect guy.
	There's another perfect guy.
	Is he bowing to me too?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Is he bowing to me too?
	Nope.
	I don't think I would bow.
	Okay.
	No.
	I low-key would.
	If he's perfect.
	Based fucking solo.
	Based solo.
	If he's perfect, then after the show, though, your friends are going to call you a pick-me, by the way.
	Yeah, I know.
	Haters.
	Fucking haters over here.
	Okay.
	Would you bow for the perfect guy?
	I would more than bow.
	What about you?
	Nope, but I wouldn't do that laundry.
	Okay, what about you?
	I would bow.
	W fucking Cena.
	W's in the chat.
	Okay, do it.
	Yeah, but bow to the audience into that camera.
	You got to come stand like right here.
	Wait, are we?
	There's not going to be like a titty slip, is there?
	Okay.
	It's pretty.
	Okay.
	No, fuck.
	It's safe.
	Never mind.
	Okay, fuck that shit.
	You wouldn't do it.
	I would.
	This isn't even a masculine thing to do.
	I would fucking bow to get the perfect woman.
	I would fucking bow.
	Yeah, but you just suppose the guy wouldn't bow, so.
	Yeah.
	No, the guy.
	I think I got this out of context.
	I don't know.
	I don't really get it.
	I think this is kind of silly.
	I would not want my man to bow.
	If all I had to do was bow to get the perfect guy, if that's what you mean, three seconds.
	And then, like, oh, yeah, literally just that, and then boom, perfect guy.
	Well, you have to do it every day.
	Every day, you have to do the bow.
	No, I'm not bowing.
	Like, two of them are like, oh, no, yeah, no, that's all.
	I mean, you bow for Michael P. Every day.
	Oh, I would bow for Michael P.
	I think you guys underestimate how rare the perfect person is.
	There's no such thing.
	But also in my brain, I'm thinking, like, for at least you could think about it like this.
	Okay, perfect guy for you guys, trillionaire as the most attractive guy you could ever think of, treats you perfectly, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
	Like, most of y'all are not going to get the hottest guy ever.
	You're not going to get the guy who treats you 100% perfectly all the time in all the ways that you wish to be treated.
	People make compromises in relationships, but to get the perfect guy, by the way, perfect doesn't really exist, but under this hypothetical, it does.
	Shit, I would do a lot for the perfect woman.
	I would kneel.
	Huh?
	You would kneel, say it into the mic, say it with your chest.
	Or, well.
	I would do a lot for the perfect woman, too.
	For sure.
	Yeah, but it's a woman.
	I have given.
	Well, yeah, but I mean, even if I, even when I was, when I dated men, I did a lot for them too.
	What about, what about something more, you know, some people say, well, culturally, this is kind of weird because, you know, in the U.S., Western countries, you don't bow.
	Even though I think it's totally super arbitrary, you instantly manifest your perfect guy if you do the bow.
	Let's see.
	We got more pizza, by the way.
	We got more pizza.
	If you guys.
	We'll have to wait until later to do it.
	But we can't.
	When does this end?
	Soon.
	Relax.
	Soon.
	Just patience.
	We got school in the morning.
	I have roommates to feed.
	Patience.
	Okay.
	So.
	Yeah.
	Would you guys, in order to get the perfect guy, would you like to fold his laundry?
	Yes.
	For the first date.
	First hour.
	I mean, how do I know he's perfect if it's in a state, though?
	The universe.
	Hypothetically.
	Hypothetically.
	Yeah.
	He coalesces out of the ether.
	Yeah.
	Why are we at his house?
	Doesn't he out of the kindness of my heart, or did he invite me over to do his own?
	Yes.
	At the guy's house on the first day.
	Daddy, unless you pay me to do your laundry.
	Boy, why are you doing your laundry?
	Do something else.
	Okay.
	Oh.
	Wait, yeah, wait.
	Go to his house to do his laundry as the first day.
	Did he specifically request you?
	You're overthinking the laundry.
	Yes.
	Overthinking the laundry thing.
	I guess.
	I can't see myself doing a man's laundry in this house.
	I'm asking you guys a question.
	What do you guys feel about this?
	What do you guys think about a man saying women should do X?
	So women should cook and clean.
	I think he's against.
	You object to it or you're up to it?
	I object because I feel like if I cook, then you should clean.
	Nah, she does everything.
	No.
	Anyways, do you object?
	I want to cook.
	Can you just strain your mic a little bit?
	Straighten your mic?
	Yeah, sorry.
	It's all good.
	I believe in you.
	Thanks.
	I think they can say that we should, whatever.
	That doesn't mean I'm going to do it.
	I don't know.
	If you say, I agree with you, I think if I cook, you clean.
	Okay.
	Or if I clean.
	What about women should make me a sandwich?
	No, I don't like that because I wouldn't say men should provide for the whole family.
	Like, I wouldn't say that.
	Okay.
	What do you think about the should thing?
	Is it okay to say women should do X?
	I mean, like I've always, like I've said this entire time, people can have their preferences.
	Okay, skipping.
	But no wait.
	I mean, it is.
	Also, it's like me saying men should take out the trash.
	Or men should go to war and die for a country.
	They should.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, it goes both ways with like the traditional stuff.
	I don't think a woman should.
	We did get a way better deal there, by the way, but okay.
	I. Are you right?
	Yeah.
	But war.
	I don't think that, I don't think that anyone should do anything in a general way.
	When I said, you know, should men do X, Y, Z, like I had that huge list.
	Didn't you say men should pay for X?
	Yeah, but you had to choose yes or no.
	I didn't say that.
	I said that I don't, I mean, like, I would like it, but I'm not going to judge a guy.
	Is it okay to say women should do X?
	To you?
	Did you?
	Oh, she did.
	She answered it.
	Oh, you got the solo?
	I don't care what men say.
	Women should be submissive.
	I don't care what you say.
	Should cook and clean.
	Women should stay at home.
	I can just not agree with you.
	Yeah.
	That's fine.
	Yeah, I don't really give a fuck what you say.
	I might not agree.
	You should talk to somebody that would care about that because she's demonstrating that she would not care.
	Okay, cool.
	Yeah, sorry.
	Finds to say should.
	Yeah, I'm okay with that.
	Finds a stay should.
	Not okay to say should.
	Cena, into the mic, guys.
	Into the mics.
	It doesn't really matter.
	Okay.
	I just find it interesting that.
	Thank you.
	I'm going to tell you.
	I'm going to tell you.
	Ragebait incoming.
	No rage bait.
	No, it's actually no rage bait.
	Can we get a sound effect for the rage bait incoming?
	Yeah, sure.
	I got a single.
	I'll get a sound effect for that.
	Yeah, I got a sound effect for you guys.
	Shut the fuck up.
	Anyways, like I was saying, like I was about to say.
	Oh, wait, hold on.
	Do you have a bitch one?
	Anyways.
	I knew it.
	I knew this was coming.
	You're welcome.
	Thank you.
	You're welcome.
	So anyways.
	So anyways.
	Culp.
	I think in society, there's no issue when women say men should do this.
	Men should pay for first aid.
	Here we're back on the feminism.
	It's not feminism.
	It is.
	You are just quiet, lady.
	Oh, quiet.
	I can kill you with one arm.
	I can talk down to you.
	That's you right now.
	I didn't say anything about killing you.
	Feeling some reason.
	You did get a death threat today.
	I did get a dread threat today.
	Dread threat?
	Yeah.
	Dreadth.
	So anyway.
	There's no issues when women say men should do this, men should do that.
	Even women who say men should do XYZ, when it comes to your guys' portion of that, you always tend to object to women should.
	My question is, what duties do women have?
	Depends on the relationship.
	I agree, but if the typical duties one directionally for men to women, provide and protect, that's an expectation, it's a duty.
	What duties do women have?
	Nurture.
	Nurture, care, loyalty, respect.
	But all these things go both ways.
	Women are gonna tell me an example.
	Men are nurturing.
	Hold on.
	Tell me a way in which women nurture that a man can't do.
	Childbirth?
	Okay, well, hold on.
	So women should have children.
	I believe so.
	Yeah.
	That's a strong belief about it.
	I disagree.
	I can be the odd one out.
	I disagree.
	I disagree.
	I mean, like, yeah, women, like, we're the only ones that can have children, but, like, who the fuck is anyone to tell me to do so?
	I actually have intentions on being a, that isn't called a sorgue yet, like, have...
	Have a baby for someone who can't.
	A surrogate?
	Yeah, I just said it.
	Yeah.
	But, like, that's just an idea for me.
	I just like, I mean, again, I'm freshly an adult.
	Don't want kids.
	That could easily change in like two, three, four, five years' time.
	But I. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
	He's gonna make us take off our hair.
	We have a segment called Take Your Makeup Off.
	Go ahead.
	Dude, I barely have any odd.
	I'm not wearing it.
	I don't wear makeup.
	Can I have a mirror?
	You have the cake.
	You have a makeup.
	I'm like getting ready for bed before I can.
	Yay!
	I just ask, we have chats coming through, so be quiet while we let these come through and go ahead and take it off.
	I need a napkin.
	I'm traveling around Canada this year, but next year, I will visit some countries from the Passport Brothers site to find the traditional woman.
	I'm going to get so red.
	...feminist influence.
	She will vow for me.
	Oh my god, guys.
	I hope I see...
	Well put, Pasty George.
	This isn't even like moist.
	I know.
	Oh, try a different one.
	Some of them might have been a little bit more.
	It's completely dry.
	Try that one.
	That one looks a bit new.
	Juicy.
	Okay, go quick, Cina.
	Quick, quick, quick, go, go, go.
	Run, run, run.
	Pasty George donated $70.
	Fake Chess Tello L.
	Yeah, that was about you.
	Or, well, I guess it could also be about Lexi.
	She has smell weird.
	Am I going to break out?
	No, 100%.
	Why does it burn under my skin?
	My skin feels really good.
	Try the other kind.
	That's the honest brand.
	Those are the good ones.
	Can I have a mirror?
	I like candy.
	Here, just use the screen.
	Oh, hell no.
	Can you like zoom in?
	Look out some random music.
	We don't claim chair one along with desert judge.
	Yeah, say that to everybody in Scottsdale and Phoenix, Arizona.
	Stop, stop, stop.
	304 infected hands.
	Ooh.
	Little Miss Lexi with2xes.com, Arizona.
	I know it's a little bit of a drink.
	Thank you.
	Hell yeah.
	All right, quiet, quiet, quiet, keep quiet.
	Guys, stop, stop.
	When I was younger, one of my girlfriends did my dishes after the first date when she came over to talk and enjoy some wine.
	We were together for a few years until she cheated on me.
	LOL.
	Pasty George, thank you very much for the message, good sir.
	I appreciate that.
	We have Pasty George again.
	Oh, a little roast here.
	Give them in.
	Roast, guys.
	Quiet women speak only when spoken to.
	Pasty George.
	It's okay.
	All right, now what we're going to do: hold up the makeup wipes, spread them, show the makeup wipes, spread the makeup.
	She did not.
	That is.
	I don't wear makeup.
	I never wear makeup.
	Oh, yeah.
	I didn't wear makeup.
	I don't ever wear makeup.
	Take your lashes off then.
	Hold it.
	I'll do that.
	Hold it.
	Nice.
	There it is.
	Makeup segment completed.
	Well done.
	Let's see.
	That just took some time off my hands later tonight.
	We are looking out for you guys.
	We're very.
	You're so pro woman.
	Who?
	Yeah.
	I thought she said we weren't really wearing makeup.
	Looks like really good, too.
	She hasn't really wearing makeup.
	Oh, here we have.
	She's back.
	None of y'all need makeup.
	We know I love you to have concealer under my ass.
	You don't need it.
	Don't wear it.
	Your natural beauty is beautiful.
	You don't need makeup.
	I would not.
	I mean, if it makes you feel good, that's awesome.
	I just like dang it.
	It's kind of fun.
	Personally.
	I don't need it.
	But getting ready with my friends.
	Yeah, tell us some music.
	Fake chestello L. Again.
	All right.
	Good time.
	General thing, Brian.
	Can I say something real quick, though, about makeup?
	Sure.
	So I went on a date with this guy.
	He was pretty successful.
	He was in the military, made good money, took me out on dates and stuff.
	He was like, you know what?
	I want to date a woman that wears makeup.
	Can you do that for me?
	I said, fuck no.
	Bye.
	Well, I mean, I didn't feed into that.
	I was like, you want to date a woman that wears makeup?
	And because I don't, it freaks you out.
	That doesn't make any sense.
	But yeah, I just thought I would bring that up.
	That's weird.
	What duties, though, do women have?
	I don't know.
	Do women have duties?
	Work?
	What should women do?
	I don't know.
	Women work.
	Oh, here we go.
	Rapid fire segment.
	What?
	This is just like the fun question portion.
	What years were World War I starting with you?
	Oh, shit.
	Oh, yeah, I'm a fail.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Decade.
	Just tell me the decade.
	I am not sure.
	Great.
	Love it.
	1910s and 1930s was World War I and then World War II.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Or no, 1910s.
	Just World War I, just World War I. Whatever she just said.
	Well, say it anyway.
	I already forgot.
	What decade?
	Nobles English.
	Los Ciento.
	Don't 1910.
	Tenza.
	Ninja.
	1910.
	Tenza.
	I failed my history class dance.
	Dante estada biblioteca.
	That's great.
	I know.
	Feral.
	Okay.
	1910s.
	Okay.
	1910s.
	Okay.
	I'm just going to say 1910s too, because I don't know.
	I'll be honest.
	1916 to 1918.
	Okay, good.
	1910.
	Into the mic.
	1910.
	1910.
	All right.
	It was 1914, 1918.
	What years were World War II?
	I am not sure.
	Okay.
	Just guess.
	Guess.
	Decade.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Early 30s.
	Early 30s, okay.
	Late 20s.
	Nobles.
	Tilt your mic down.
	Or posture.
	That works too.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Guess, you have to guess.
	Go ahead.
	Come on, Bella.
	Be a good sport.
	Late 20s, early 30s.
	Okay.
	Late 20s, early 30s.
	All right.
	I'm saying late 30s, early 40s.
	Okay.
	70s.
	70s, World War II, okay?
	1939 to 1945.
	1930.
	1930.
	Just 30, 1930.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Cool.
	It was, oh, 1939, 1945.
	Yeah.
	Has anyone here ever had a ho phase?
	A what?
	Like, do you, like, what, like, sleeping around or, like, just, like, kissing a bunch of people?
	A ho phase, whatever that means to you.
	I've had a hoe.
	But what does that mean to me?
	It means you were a ho for show.
	What is a hoe?
	Oh, my God.
	A ho for show is.
	Do you have to do more than like when I was like 14, I guess.
	Damn, it's probably warm now.
	That actually that's not poison fucking scene in here while she's in California.
	Has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
	Hooked up as in sex.
	Just hooked up.
	So like make out and beyond?
	Sure, let's just start with sex.
	Okay, no.
	Okay, all right.
	Is it a deal breaker if a guy uses the word retarded?
	No.
	I don't give a fuck.
	Anybody?
	Not anymore.
	Deal breaker.
	Deal breaker.
	How did you read that?
	No.
	Flexing.
	I mean, if you're like, if I'm with a guy and he's using it towards someone who's genuinely disabled, like, yeah, that's fucking good.
	Yeah, well, that's just mean.
	I know what you want to say.
	It's like mean energy.
	Is it a deal breaker if a guy is conservative?
	No.
	No.
	You date a Trump supporter?
	Yeah, I'm not sure.
	She did wear that.
	By the way, she did wear the fascist.
	I loved.
	To you, Trump supporters, I love you.
	I'm just not one of you.
	Okay, would you date a conservative or Trump supporter?
	If he was like fucking crazy about it, I'd be like, no, if that's his views, he keeps it to himself.
	Like, whatever.
	He's not like insanely political, but he is a conservative.
	He did vote for me.
	I just want to mention one more time that I am not politically educated at all.
	So I was going to say, probably.
	Wait, did any of you vote in the election?
	No.
	Or maybe you weren't 18 years old.
	I wasn't 18 yet.
	Would you date a Trump supporter/slash conservative?
	Yeah.
	All right, we got some.
	Okay.
	My boyfriend is.
	Okay.
	Conservative, yes.
	A Trump supporter, probably not.
	Second.
	Oh, question.
	I know you guys are, you know, in school.
	You want to have a career one day, all of you, right?
	If you met a guy who he was a high-earner, say he made a million dollars a year.
	Oh.
	And he said, hey, look, we've been dating for a year, two years, whatever.
	I don't want you to work.
	And he's going to take care of everything.
	But you have to stop doing your work.
	Will you stop for him?
	But if you don't, it's going to be a major problem in the relationship.
	The relationship's over.
	We're not working no more.
	What I would do for my two work things that I have playing, the music and the hair thing, those are like hobbies.
	So I would have to stop what I love doing.
	But you'd be like, can I still make music and do people's kids?
	You can serenade him privately.
	Okay, I think so, yeah.
	But you can't pursue it as a career.
	But what if he leaves you?
	Then you're absolutely fucked.
	No, I wouldn't do it.
	Financial independence is important.
	If a guy came to me and told me to end my career for him, he's obviously got issues.
	No, I have way too much drive.
	Okay.
	Wait, question really quick on the bow thing.
	Would any of you, if you were paid for, like you were a greeter at a Walmart or something, and for some reason they wanted you to bow to the customers, would you do it for $500,000?
	Absolutely.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Totally.
	But question, question.
	Would you then would you bow for a guy who makes $10 million a year and he takes care of everything?
	No.
	Oh my goodness.
	No.
	No.
	I don't really like.
	What?
	The math isn't mathing, I guess?
	I'm tired and I'm hungry.
	I think it's more.
	Wait for the pizza's coming.
	I can't talk to you.
	I think it's a submissive problem.
	I think that women just don't want to be submissive to a man.
	That's how I get clicked.
	I agree.
	This is how I feel right now.
	That's how Bella feels.
	I miss my casa.
	Where's Felicity?
	Felicity, get back here.
	Rude.
	Oh, my God.
	Wait.
	You're Glet.
	You're Glenn?
	Oh, okay.
	And a pillow.
	Well, I guess my confusion is you would do the same exact thing for an employer.
	Because the money's for me.
	That man's money is not my money.
	But if you're married to everybody.
	If you're married, it legally is.
	You can ask her out loud.
	And the difference is, 10.
	Okay, so you make, what did I say, a million a year or something?
	$500,000.
	Oh, $500,000.
	Bow every day.
	But a guy who makes $10 million.
	But is it like I bow to him every time I see him?
	Like, I wake up and I bow once a day.
	Once a day.
	All right, fuck it.
	I'll bow.
	W. Bella.
	Is he like a good guy, or is it just for the money?
	No, it's a good guy.
	It's not like I'm in love with this man and he's rich as fuck.
	He just wants me to bow once again.
	Yeah, just all you have to do is bow.
	You get him.
	I'd do that.
	Yeah.
	There you go.
	Oh, my God.
	Beautiful.
	I love how you like twist a circumstance again and again until we agree.
	Yeah, I know.
	I love it too.
	It's like, yeah, keep making it better for me.
	Manipulated.
	Yeah.
	Gaslit.
	Okay.
	Please, can we have pizza or go to bed?
	Wait, hold on.
	I'm almost there.
	Almost there.
	I'm a starving coffee.
	This is needed me.
	I was promised dinner.
	Have you had more sober sex or drunk sex?
	Drunk.
	Sober.
	Fucking alcoholic over here.
	Sober.
	I can't say that.
	Sober.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Let's see here.
	Oh, question.
	Would you take a man's last name?
	Yes.
	Like, get married?
	When you get married?
	It depends on the last name.
	Like, I have a really cool last name, and I really like it.
	I like how she's like, let's say his last name is mediocre.
	You take too long to answer your fault.
	You can give me a chance.
	She answered for me.
	That would be tricky for me because, like, all of my music is.
	No, it's good.
	Okay.
	Sorry, I keep just talking.
	It's okay.
	Go ahead.
	That would be tricky for me because, like, again, with the music thing, like, it's under my name, Pella Brown, BB.
	Like, that's what I called.
	Huh?
	Hyphenated it.
	Yeah, keep it on.
	Yeah.
	I guess like legally, I'd take a man's last name.
	Guys, final call on the TTS because we're getting this wrapped up soon.
	So final call.
	$69 TTS.
	You have like five, six minutes if you want to get it in because we're rapping.
	If Kim did it, you can do it.
	Huh?
	Kim Kardashian.
	She's huge and she changed.
	She hyphenated her last name.
	True.
	She changed it?
	It was Kardashian West when she married Kanye.
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	Word.
	I would.
	I would definitely do it.
	Yeah, it's just, you know, that shit's crazy, son.
	That shit's crazy.
	It's weird, though.
	You want a guy to pay for the first date, but you won't change your last name.
	I said I would legally.
	Oh, okay.
	That's cool.
	Like, if I get married to him, I didn't know that was optional.
	Sweet.
	For a $25, $30 meal is different than legally changing it.
	This is a good one.
	Perfect man for life or perfect career for life?
	Career.
	Career.
	Man.
	Career.
	Perfect career.
	Bitch, I'd be bawling.
	My career just isn't like it.
	Damn.
	Wait, sorry.
	Just to show of hands, who picked career?
	Perfect.
	Career, perfect career, perfect career.
	Okay.
	All right.
	You know, I got different motivations.
	Let's see.
	I think I have two more.
	We'll let the last chats come in.
	Then we're going to get this wrapped up.
	Oh, should we do the measuring tape segment, Felicity?
	I think so.
	What is that?
	Oh, no.
	What's the measuring tape segment?
	Here's what we're going to do.
	Are we guessing how long six inches is?
	Hey, Kaya, we're almost done.
	If you can just come back, we're going to get this wrapped up here.
	So, Felicity, you're going to go around the table.
	You're going to stand next to them.
	You're going to be like, show me what you think the average.
	Well, the average is really 3.4 inches.
	Wait, should we say that?
	The average is 3 inches in the U.S. What?
	Both?
	I think it's like 3 or 4.
	Let's do both.
	Fuck it, both.
	Let's do both.
	Final thing here.
	I might kill myself.
	That would save that one guy from Inquisitor Zeal.
	One other question.
	Oh, so Felicity, stand in between.
	All right.
	So what do you think the average size is?
	And then tell us what the size you want is.
	Measure it with your fingers.
	And then Felicity's going to measure it.
	The average is like three, four inches.
	Here, do it like this.
	Do it like this.
	Just show.
	Physically, do this.
	I say three, four inches.
	No, like with your hands.
	With your hands.
	Just do this.
	So she can.
	Here, turn it.
	Can you orient it?
	So just say what it is.
	Five?
	Okay.
	Four, that's four.
	All right, next.
	Somebody recommended we do this.
	What was the other question?
	Oh, what's the ideal that you want?
	Yeah, what do you want?
	Judge with your fingers.
	Or your hands close.
	Uh, eight.
	Excuse me, this up, guys.
	Why am I showing with fingers if we have a ruler?
	Because I'm supposed to.
	Bro, just fucking do it.
	Oh, my God.
	Trying to get these people out of here.
	Seven.
	God damn, just do the thing.
	All right, moving on.
	Moving on.
	Okay.
	Side screen.
	She's here.
	Okay, what do you think about that?
	Exactly five.
	Five.
	And what do you want?
	Is this cringe?
	No, I can't.
	Yeah.
	Somebody in the chat was like, you guys should do it.
	I get so dumb.
	Yeah, because chat, is it cringe or no?
	Chat.
	I would like to practice my freedom of game.
	What is it called?
	Freedom of speech and that.
	Oh my god, what's it called?
	Free will.
	Free will.
	I'm going to use my free will and opt out of this one.
	Me too.
	Okay.
	Let's play another game.
	Hit me.
	Another game?
	Okay, fine.
	There's a few more notes from some of the people here who haven't got to speak much.
	We'll do that.
	We're going to wrap.
	Sativa, you said that your past is your past.
	You've been redeemed through Christ.
	Just because a woman is pretty doesn't mean she's promiscuous.
	When you say your past is your past, like, how did you used to move when it came to dating?
	Definitely more like, I don't like this term, but more like man-eater, like how you could benefit me.
	And I also really fed off like what, how I could entice men and stuff like that.
	Like, I like to make men lust.
	I really enjoy doing that.
	And I found a lot of power in that.
	And it's just essentially I'm not that person anymore at all, any shape or form.
	I'm actually, I totally flipped the script.
	I'm definitely way on more of the modest and conservative side now.
	And I'm just, I'm not that person.
	So trying to relate me to that or bring me back to that is just essentially just not going to work.
	It's just not valid anymore.
	I saw on your Instagram also you said you were trying to be the moon.
	Oh, did you?
	What does that mean?
	What does that mean?
	So that's kind of like a viral thing that's going on where girls are kind of showing how they looked before they found their faith and kind of like how they've transformed through Christ.
	And I used to have like 20 piercings in my face and I used to be extremely explicit and show off my tongue and that was my identity.
	And essentially I was saved by the sun.
	So.
	Did you say same?
	All right.
	And then we have Kayla here.
	Final things for you.
	You said you were a teenager.
	You dated two people who were 10 years old.
	How old were you?
	Dated two people.
	I'm 27 now.
	No, no, no.
	How old were you when you were dating these?
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	15, 16.
	That's a crime.
	Well, for them.
	Yikes.
	Okay.
	You said that, hold on.
	You had most of your sexual partners before you were the age of 20?
	Yes.
	I'm ashamed of that.
	Very.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	It wouldn't even call it good.
	You're feminist leftists, but we already talked about some of that.
	Why is the thing?
	Okay, that's pretty much it.
	Any final thoughts from any of the panelists before I wrap this up?
	Speak now, forever, hold your peace.
	Wait, what?
	Oh, my God.
	Final thoughts.
	Fucking TikTok brain, bro.
	These Gen Z.
	Oh, my God.
	Are you guys Gen Z or just?
	Venmo me.
	I'm tired.
	My final thoughts is.
	This is why the wage gap exists because men were just fucking trucking.
	Venmo me.
	Oh, my God.
	That's cash at me.
	That's so late.
	Follow my TikTok.
	Kanan, Kaylee, Izzy.
	Ernie.
	Okay, David.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	It's okay, Bella.
	Hasty George donated $70 to the panelists.
	Is it a red flag if a guy makes fun of a disabled person and then slaps them on the head?
	But he then gives the disabled person $100k for his troubles.
	Pasty George, I hope you don't get hit by a car on your way home.
	Whoa.
	I don't know.
	Someone else can do that.
	That's a red flag.
	I feel like that is the real question.
	Pacy, who says that?
	Good night, everyone.
	Good night.
	I love you all, Ben Mommy.
	What do all the female panelists think of the new laws on their broad fraternity that are slowly being passed throughout the States?
	Oh my God.
	Pacey George.
	Good night, Pacey George.
	We did not wrap it up.
	This is why the wage gap exists, gentlemen.
	This is why the wage gap exists.
	Oh, my God, let me go home.
	All right, so we're going to get this wrapped.
	All right, guys, I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this.
	Eh, fuck it, whatever.
	Oh, call to action really quick.
	Will you and will you consider stopping sex work tonight on the show?
	For what?
	Don, don't done your soul.
	That thing.
	For my soul.
	Your soul.
	Not a dollar.
	But if anyone would like to take me off the market, that's up for options.
	Good talk.
	Okay.
	I want to say, GG.
	I will.
	GG, well played.
	Last call.
	Hit the like button, please, on your way out.
	We'll get to that.
	Thanks all for watching.
	Hold on.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Hold on.
	Let me do my outro.
	God damn.
	Guys, leave a nice comment.
	We want to sing out.
	Huh?
	I can make it go longer.
	Just be quiet.
	Let me do the fucking outro, lady.
	God damn, here.
	Let me play a couple things.
	Hold on.
	This.
	I have this.
	Shut the fuck up, okay?
	Shut the fuck up.
	I got this one.
	You know what?
	That was really rude of me.
	I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
	We have to go.
	We just get up and go.
	I'm literally.
	Stop talking.
	All right, our roommates are here and we have to go.
	You said it was an N at 11, and it's 11.19.
	Chat, should we just?
	Or I'm getting up and going.
	Just wait.
	Just do the outro.
	Yeah, do a rage quick.
	Go ahead.
	You can just leave.
	Just leave.
	Go ahead.
	Just leave.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know.
	Stay.
	Oh, my God.
	Just go.
	Just go.
	What?
	Oh, my God.
	You guys are feral.
	Chill out.
	God damn.
	I'm trying to wrap up.
	You said that was five minutes ago.
	Conversation, whatever.
	Holy shit.
	I know sometimes things go longer.
	It's okay.
	This is why the wage gap exists.
	You know what?
	There is a chat that just came through.
	Oh, my God.
	I can't control it.
	I'm sorry.
	I can't.
	Oh, my God.
	Never.
	You couldn't silence me even if you could.
	Let it come through.
	You can't.
	You can't.
	Sorry, Brian.
	Go ahead, find me in Scottsdale, Arizona, Phoenix.
	304AZ Gang.
	Based Thor.
	God damn.
	Yes, and now prolonged our session.
	Thank you so much for that.
	And to all my great supporters in Scottsdale.
	Feral.
	Feral unhinged.
	Feral unhinged.
	Okay, let me get through my outro, please.
	30 seconds here.
	Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, wait until it's ended.
	Leave a nice little comment.
	It helps with the algorithm.
	And I do read them.
	Thank you for tuning in tonight.
	Thank you to the panel.
	You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
	I appreciate that.
	Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
	This show is viewer supported.
	We couldn't do it without you guys.
	We will be live again Sunday at 5 p.m. Pacific.
	Got another fantastic panel on Sunday.
	Be sure to tune in.
	Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM at whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara.
	Are we forgetting anything?
	All good?
	Okay.
	07s in the chat.
	07s in the chat.
	Good night, guys.
	And we will see you next time.
	Good night, guys.

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