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Feb. 26, 2024 - Whatever Podcast
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Brian KICKS OUT TikTok Brain Lady! 3 Baby Daddies?! She Is A 10?! DUMPED For Small Peen?! Wedding RUINED?! | Dating Talk #138

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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, location, and occupation.
Starting with you, go ahead.
Hello, I'm Jacqueline.
I'm from Florida.
I'm 18 and I'm a full-time student.
Welcome.
Hi, Roslyn.
I am 30.
I was going to say 33, by the way.
I'm 38, you guys, and it's epic.
And I am born and raised in LA, but I currently live in Silicon Valley.
Got it.
Occupation.
Oh, occupation.
I'm a content creator.
I specialize.
I'm a content creator.
I make films that are explicit and comedic with my husband.
And yeah.
All right.
What about you?
My name is Mercedes.
I'm 40.
I'm from LA, and I am a interior designer concentrating on botanical design as well as a wellness coach and also biohacking champion.
Biohacking.
She's a biohacking genius.
I love it.
I love biohacking.
What's biohacking?
What's that?
Just finding ways to make the body work more efficiently using technology, using science, you know, cold dipping, infrared saunas.
She has our master's in.
Thank you, Pub Test.
You have your master's in what?
Chinese medicine.
Chinese medicine.
Do you have to go to China for that or do they have schools?
I went to Yosan.
It's in Culver City.
There's a Chinese medicine in Culver City.
Yeah, there's actually one in New York.
There is one.
There's a substantial basically an acupuncturist and an herbalist.
Okay, very cool.
What's the tattoo on your neck, by the way?
Could you turn?
Yeah, it's a, there was an illustrator from Mexico.
She's like this young illustrator.
She did a vine that wraps all the way around my neck and comes down here.
Sorry.
It's a vine that comes all the way around my neck and hangs down.
Got it.
Got it.
My name is Aspen Page.
I'm 18.
I was born and raised in Oklahoma, but I currently live in Florida.
And I am a full-time student.
What's your major?
Cosmetology school, actually.
Oh, you're in.
Okay.
And did you say you're in school too?
Yeah, I'm a full-time student.
What are you studying?
Childhood education.
Got it.
What about you?
Thanks for having me.
I'm Jasmine Lane, 27 years old from Manitoba, Canada.
Predominantly, my career is morning radio show host.
I've been in broadcasting for about a decade, but I wear a few other hats outside of that.
I'm a future author.
I just finished writing my first book, and I do a lot of work for mental health advocacy.
So yeah, that's pretty much it.
We can dive into that more a little bit later.
I'm sure it'll come up.
Awesome.
Welcome.
What about you?
Hi, my name is Jessenia with The Y. I'm 29 years old.
I was born and raised in Florida, but I live in Washington State right now, and I'm a travel nurse at the moment.
A what?
A travel nurse.
Oh, I thought you said travel nurse.
How often do you are you in the new location?
Because they tend to move like almost every six weeks sometimes, right?
Yeah, so I.
Yeah, so this one it's been for almost six months.
It's my first one, actually.
Oh, you just started up on the travel nursing.
Okay, got it.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Sydney.
I'm from northern Colorado, and my husband and I own an exterior home remodeling business.
And I am also the founder of a nonprofit for birth mothers who have placed a child for adoption as a support system for them.
Along with that, I'm on the board of another nonprofit that I did not found but am very passionate about called Unplanned Good that is actively changing the legislate surrounding the current policies in the open adoption industry.
Welcome, age.
Thank you.
I am 26.
All right, welcome.
The QPil, 31, behavioral scientist, certified relationship coach, YouTuber, book author, entrepreneur.
He's back here.
All right.
Welcome, everybody.
Cool.
So we're going to go around the table once more.
What is everybody's current relationship status?
So are you single, talking stage?
Situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married polycule, whatever it may be.
If you're single, how long have you been single?
And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
Go ahead.
I am very single.
The longest relationship I've been in, I'd say a year and a half, and that was eight months ago.
So I've been single for eight months.
I'd say maybe nine, yeah.
Sorry, and how long did you say that relationship was?
One year and a half, yeah.
Okay, one year and a half.
Yeah.
You said very single.
Yeah, like not talking to anybody.
I don't go on dates.
I don't hang out with guys.
It's just like after that relationship, I'm focusing on myself.
Do you have any accounts on any profiles just for fun?
Honestly, yeah, I do.
I'm not going to lie about it.
I do.
I've never met up with any of them, though.
Do you talk to people though?
Not consistently.
Okay.
If he's cute, I'll add him on Snapchat.
Okay.
Sorry.
So you've been totally single for eight months.
No guys.
No guys in the picture whatsoever.
No guys.
None of that.
No.
She's telling the truth?
Because these two are friends.
100% true.
No, yeah.
You can ask her.
No men.
Pinky.
So you've been celibate.
I've been celibate.
Celibate.
Yeah.
Like, literally celibate.
Absolutely 100%.
Okay.
All right.
Swear.
Celibates.
Writing that down.
All right.
Okay.
What about you?
Hi, I don't know how I'm going to follow that up, but I'm happily married.
I've known my husband for, we've been together for eight and a half years.
We've been married for four.
We have two toddlers.
And he's my best friend.
And yeah, I was like, I didn't say my mom.
And also whatever else I do too on the last thing.
But yeah.
So he's also my business partner, but also works for a tech company.
And there's that, but I'm happily married.
And yeah.
Are you in an open marriage?
No.
Oh, no.
It's not like that.
It's way deeper.
We were monogamous for six years of our relationship than when I started my company, because I also own a production, own a production company that we'll get into it later.
I'll keep it short, but we collab.
We are so picky with Hoobie.
I don't know if you guys know about whatever, but anyways, we are very picky with Hoopie.
So basically, we made jokes when we first got married or when we met like years ago.
Like, oh yeah, we'll start swinging when we're married for 10 years.
Ha ha, we'll see, you know.
So then when we got into this, it kind of catapulted that and we collabed.
And it was like an all-in-film thing.
And it was like weird, but it was like kind of cool to like experience.
Like, yeah.
It was dope.
All right.
I'm sorry.
So you are in an open relationship?
No, so I'm not in an open relationship.
Everything is, we're in the room together.
And this is very rare that it happens.
So can I clarify?
So you said you're not in an open relationship, but other people openly involve themselves in your relationship.
I don't know what your guys' definition of an open relationship is, but my relationship is so pure, so true, so awesome.
People would die to fucking be in my situation.
He was married when I met him on a second wife.
I had a boyfriend.
I wasn't doing well living in LA.
Okay, let me say the least.
And we met and the universe was like, I would never do what I do with anyone else.
He's a very successful guy.
I don't have to work.
He works for a tech company.
Like, I don't have to work.
But this is what we're doing.
And so when I say open, whatever you guys are saying, no, like, it's like twice, once every three months, we'll make the most epic content.
You understand the content.
They make content to you.
I make films.
Anyways, not everybody.
Wait, you said anybody would die to be in the real type in my situation because I don't know if anyone's Turkish.
Yeah.
I don't know if anyone's Jewish here.
I am.
Not that it matters.
Not sure how that's.
Dianu is a dianu is a term, and it means if this is all we had, that's it.
Thank God.
And if all I had was my relationship with my husband and vice versa, oh my god, thank God.
We have so much more.
It's epic.
So do y'all not fuck other people?
No, no, we do, but hold on.
You're gonna have to.
So you're in lawsuitman.com.
You go ahead and look and you tell me all the comments.
Yeah, no, we do, but it's for art purposes only.
Slash, it's kind of dope.
Wait, so this means content.
They make content.
I make sex films, but they're not sex tapes from North Hollywood with that iPhone 2, okay?
I make full-on productions.
Like to the point where like your mind would be blocking.
Can I have you scoot your mic this way?
Your mind would be blocking.
Otherwise.
That way.
Oh, sorry.
Directionally, that way.
Clearly, I'm so you said that.
I need to be in quarantine.
You said that anybody would die to be in my situation with my husband.
Now, in your situation or your husband's situation.
We are literally does he sleep like for art or for production?
Does he ever sleep with other women or no?
So listen, never ever ever ever ever have we okay.
I don't there's so much here, but let me just get it clear.
Oh, sorry, never, ever, ever have we slept while we've been together with another person, not with each other in the room.
Does that make sense?
So he's a cuck.
No!
Oh my god, no.
And I do have a video about a cuck.
A cuck isn't that like a guy who watches.
Does anybody else want to?
Yeah, is when we get fucked by other people?
No.
No.
A cuck is a guy who's in a relationship with a girl who wants to sit in the corner, literally.
I mean, I don't, look, do your thing, you guys, right?
But this is what a cuck is.
I had to learn all these things.
That's like you, like, just described that.
No, he wants to sit in a corner and watch his girl get fucked by another guy and be like, ah!
Like, no, my husband is not a cuck, dude.
Not even close.
What?
It's weird.
This is weird.
So basically, let me try to try to get a straight answer.
Yeah.
So, okay.
Yeah, help me.
For the productions.
Yeah.
Your husband's involved with actually being in the production, correct?
He's my co-star in every film, and we have over 125 films since we started.
So does he, in some of these productions, is he also with other women?
Are you guys jealous?
Because yes.
But very, but very rare.
Because when we do our vetting for people, like when we collab, it's so picky and specific.
What's that process like?
That's funny you ask.
Great question.
My husband, literally, who's like Mr. Tech guy, like so fucking, he's so genius.
I literally have so much, like, he'll be like Google spreadsheeting.
Like, this person, this person, like, this person.
We interview them.
So it's been a few years.
Oh, it's been a few years.
Two years.
And now that the ball's rolling, literally, I've only done, I don't know if you guys know the porn terms because it took a while for me to learn them.
And MMF means male, male, female.
So that's two guys and a girl, right?
I'd never done one in my life before.
I always had wanted to.
Never done one.
Well, did one for the first time.
Never.
Then, so I only did two of those, okay?
I'll just stop there.
Basically, it's rare, but when we vet, it takes a lot of work.
I have like all this documentary footage of it.
So Q, you got all that, right?
That made sense.
I'm sorry, I have a follow-up.
You guys, I talked so fast.
Hold on.
Here's what we're going to do.
We're going to come back to that briefly.
I'm going to let everybody get through their relationship stats and then we'll come back.
Truth bomb donated $100.
I'd like to know how much meth you've done today.
None today.
Okay.
Thanks for the hundo.
Thank you, Truth Bomb.
Appreciate it.
I think we're all curious.
Wait, so okay.
Go ahead with your relationship status.
I'm newly single.
And I'm just, I just got a new place, so I'm enjoying the solitude in my new spot.
And at some point, I am looking for adventure, but not right this second.
How newly single?
Like two days ago.
Yesterday?
Very, very.
Like, I'm in the middle of moving.
Yes.
Separating right now.
Are you, were you married?
No.
Oh, okay.
What's the longest relationship you've been in?
I had an on and off for five years, but mainly like two years.
Okay.
Solid.
Was that your most recent one?
The two years?
No.
Okay.
Okay.
This one was a year.
All right.
Do you have any kids?
No, I do not.
No kids?
Okay.
What about you?
I've been single for a year.
My longest relationship was on and off for like five years.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What was the other question?
No.
We never dated.
It was just like, like, I don't know, a situationship sort of thing.
What do you mean?
Well, because you're 18, on and off for five years.
You've been single for one year.
So this is from like 12 to 17.
You were in an on-again-off-again relationship from middle school through high school, basically.
And then, whenever I got in high school, I moved to Florida, and then I got a boyfriend, and then we broke up a year ago.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
My longest relationship was eight years, and then an additional two years or so, kind of on and off, and then very best friends until I met my partner today, who I've been with for two and a half years now.
You guys are married or no?
No.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
I'm technically single, but I'm getting to know someone, and my longest relationship is about like two years.
All right.
How long have you been seeing this tech, well, current guy?
It's pretty new.
We've been talking for maybe like a month.
Okay.
So technically single, but talk, maybe talking stage, one month.
Okay.
What about you?
I am married.
I have been married for just over a year.
My longest relationship was about almost four years, just shy of four years, and I have three children.
Okay.
And can you go into that?
So three children, but from different men, is that correct?
That is correct.
I am going to stop.
I'm just kidding.
What?
Because you talked to me about that.
I'm just kidding.
I didn't hear you.
I'm sorry.
Nothing.
Never mind.
My bad.
Okay.
Yeah.
Sorry.
Yes, my children do have different fathers.
I was not a believer in the stage of my life that I started having children.
And God has really turned my mess into a message.
So yeah, I have three children.
Two of them grow up in my home.
One of them I placed for adoption in 2019.
I have an open adoption and that is what my nonprofit is dedicated to.
How does that work?
An open adoption.
So the way that it's supposed to work is when you decide to place a child for adoption, you have prospective families that you are ideally looking to line up your belief system with in a way that you can have a long-term relationship with that family.
And you are supposed to establish guidelines for what the minimum expectations of that relationship looks like and how that relationship will be honored throughout the course of the child's life.
Open adoption is currently not legally binding, which means that adoptive parents can promise the world and then pull the rug from under you.
And that has happened to me in some ways.
And I adore my daughter's adoptive parents, but there has been some exploratory conversations that need to be had and lots of changes within the last almost five years that we have been in this relationship together.
So, one of your children you gave up for adoption, but two of your children you currently...
With your husband?
In the adoption industry, we use the term placed because we have done a lot of things, but give up is not one of those things.
But that is correct.
Two of my children live in my home with me.
I co-parent with my middle daughter and her father, and he is fantastic to co-parent with.
He's a rock star.
And I am married to my son's father.
Got it.
Okay.
Got it.
Kew, what about you?
Single, not married.
Longest relationship, three years.
All right.
Welcome, everybody.
Thank you for that.
So I want to get back into your thing really quickly here because I said I'm going to be very direct because there's so much that it's like, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
So yeah.
Well, so you said that like anybody, I forgot exactly what you said.
Anybody would kill to be your situation.
Or your husband's situation.
Okay, so what I mean is, are you ready for this?
We're ready.
Oh, God.
Yeah, I'm off.
I'm so ready.
If not, just tell me and go on.
Okay.
Literally, don't fuck with me.
Okay.
So, like I said, when I met my husband eight and a half years ago, nine years ago, actually, he was married to his second wife.
Okay.
He wasn't doing well.
I mean, he was doing well financially, whatever.
Did you know that when you were hold on?
Okay.
Hold on.
Whoa, Okay?
We'll get there.
Literally, hold on, okay?
The universe decided what was going to happen with me and my husband.
I don't know.
I'm not like religious, but I feel, you know, I thought you said you were Jewish.
I'm not religious.
I had a bar mixed fund and got money.
Like, that's stupid.
Whatever.
It was Jewish, like, a culture or something.
Nationality.
It's the religion, but they're not.
Stay focused.
Continue.
Yeah.
So when I met, yes, I did know that.
I didn't talk to him for a year after I met him because I was like, ew, you're like a dork, literally dork married guy traveling from, he lived in Silicon Valley, traveling to LA, which is where I lived and met him at this time.
That was your first impression of your husband?
Yeah, he forgot his Polaroid sunglasses at my friend's house and came to pick them up.
Listen, Polaroids are the bees now.
No, dude, I've already done the same thing.
Anyways, this is a while ago, you guys.
Whatever.
It doesn't matter.
Anyways, let's stick to the facts and we'll be quick, okay?
We'll try.
And I haven't done any method.
This is literally, I'm so nervous.
And also, this is like my first podcast.
Yeah, anyways.
Oh, sorry.
Nervous.
First podcast.
No method.
Sorry.
Next.
Okay.
So, and I had a boyfriend at the time and met him.
Year goes by.
Didn't think anything of it.
Ran into him at crazy story.
And he was miserable in his marriage on a second one.
Like, I get it, you guys.
Like, we all, we were not doing well, both of us at that time.
But somehow, like.
Should I, will you help me with this part?
Somehow they're a matchmade in heaven.
No, but talking about it.
I understand.
Truthbomb donated $100.
Your husband is your dealer.
Don't lie.
My what?
Dealer.
Oh, no.
Actually, when I met him, so here's how I met him.
I, yeah, I.
He might be.
He needed something, and he was from out of town.
And so my friend was like, oh, yeah, I know this girl.
Go to this house in Venice.
And that's our first interaction.
I was like, wait.
Doing meth?
No.
Oh, yeah.
Okay, never mind.
Anyways.
No, no, no.
How did you?
Yeah, no one's my dealer, okay?
Okay.
No, he needed something.
Yeah.
Oh, what did he need?
From you?
Does it matter?
I'm just curious.
Not checks.
Okay.
The first time we met a year before we even started.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, we've all filled it.
Okay, thank you.
So when we met up a year later, we ran into each other random, right?
That's when it was like, okay.
Like, he was, this is the part where you need to come in.
Oh, you were there?
Oh, she's been the one.
I was living with her this time.
I'm just letting it.
Sorry.
Okay.
Real quick.
She'll make it quick.
Here's the thing.
When they met, he was living quite an inauthentic life because of the fact that he was coming down to LA and he was cheating on his wife with hookers.
Oh, so that was like a thing.
Oh, yeah.
He was like a few years ago.
He was a lot of money doing that.
But I would talk to him and I'd be like, why aren't you living authentically?
There's somebody out there.
Wait, her current husband?
Yeah, I knew that.
We were all in a sign group because we all heard out this girl and that I was.
I knew him.
It's good.
But I was taking him to the airport one day and I was like, you know, you seem like really unhappy in your life.
Like you should be living a more authentic life.
If you're not married to the person that you want to be with, you should probably find someone who you really vibe with, who isn't aligned with what you want in life.
It wasn't going to be me at that point.
I can't believe this one, Meg.
And so then he basically, he was like, there isn't somebody out there like that for me.
I was like, yes, there is.
I promise there is.
And I was like, if you do the work and make the space in your own life, that person will show up.
And Lo and behold, he came down, they met, and they were in both wild places in their life, but they ended up being absolutely perfect and absolutely exactly what each other needed.
And they do have a beautiful home and two beautiful sons, and she is that her husband and her are a match made in heaven.
So, when I, so after that time, I ran into him after that year, right?
I was like, okay, I guess I can hang with this guy, like, whatever.
Like, he's chill, right?
Whatever.
Just friends, whatever, right?
Ended up being more serious.
I moved in with him 60 days later.
I was 60.
I moved from.
I've never, I was born and raised in LA.
You think I want to leave Santa Monica?
No.
Did because he has it.
He had at the time a four-year-old daughter.
And dude, and I'm a mess.
We're a mess, you guys.
This is like this story is insane, right?
I'm like, yeah, this seems normal.
Let me move up to Silicon Valley.
I don't even know where.
Woke up, went in there, and we like pretended like I live there.
Oh, he divorced his wife.
I have a question.
Was he with his wife while you were talking to him?
Yes.
Oh.
So if his, did his ex-wife expect him to be monogamous to me?
I mean, aside from him, monogamous means you're in a partnership with one person exclusively.
So here's the thing: I was a scumbag.
He was a scumbag.
This was nine years ago.
We were scumbags.
We met.
We're not scumbags anymore.
Well, because you're sleeping with other people in your marriage.
Well, because I'm not.
There's six of it.
Six of it that they've been together.
Literally, this is all you have to do, ready?
When you go home, your homework is you don't have to do it.
I'll actually look up your thing and donate if you do this.
Watch my content.
Okay, you'll get it.
Thank you.
I don't, I don't, I'm.
My husband and I believe that porn is cheating.
So, okay, well, um, here's the thing: I make a porn directed towards the general public.
I do comedic SNL acts.
My husband acts with me.
Saturday Night Life.
Oh, okay.
Gotcha.
Comedia.
Yeah, it's comedic.
Sure.
Okay.
So, so here's the thing.
And this is my last thing, and you guys can fucking move on, okay?
And can somebody tip?
I need one.
Okay.
So, like, here's the thing.
My one said.
Oh, there you go.
Toothbomb donated $100.
Dude's a genius.
As a meth head for a wife, so always has a clean house and gets to smash other chicks.
This is why.
Okay, haha.
You're fucking jealous.
Okay.
One, two.
Let me finish.
Are you jealous, Truth Bomb?
Dude, everybody's either the two J's, judgy or jealous.
Why is that the only serial?
Oh, do you want to know why?
Yeah.
I'll tell you in a second.
You.
Okay.
We'll tell you later after this.
I just don't want to take over.
And just please tell me.
It's just the last thing that's already been happening.
You hated me at first, but hold on.
We're getting warmed up.
My husband's coming on next.
Okay.
So.
Straight into my mind.
I know.
What was I answering?
And then.
Well, it just was an interesting thing that you were talking about when, I mean, the concept is that he was cheating on his wife, likely because likely because she was uninterested in having the type of relationship that you have with him now.
Oh, this, hold on.
You want to talk about the ex-wife?
Which one?
I'm just simply stating that, like, if he was so able to move on from his wife, you don't get it.
You don't get it.
That's the thing.
That's the thing.
That's okay.
You don't get it, and that's okay.
I think I get it.
She doesn't get it.
I don't get it.
Girls that get it.
Wait, hold on.
Girls that don't don't.
You get it.
Just trust me.
Yeah, what?
What am I supposed to get?
You're just supposed to get it.
Like, whatever.
What is it?
Just whatever.
Like, bring it.
Glad you're not dating.
Donated $100.
Not sure where you find these characters, Brian.
He did.
My IQ dropping with every syllable.
But like a train wreck, I'm not sure I can look away.
You better not.
It's going to be a good one.
I called you perfect.
I don't.
Wait, watch this.
You're going to be driving into my shit like in two minutes, bitch.
Don't even try.
Okay, back to that.
So when, so like I said, we were trained, and I'll stop after this.
Let me just try to get you to get it, okay?
You too, Brian, even though I know you do, stop playing dumb.
Yeah, so we were scumbags.
We met.
He divorced his wife.
It was all like, I don't know how to explain the magic that happened and what the universe did.
What did the universe do?
I didn't choose this life.
It chose me.
What?
I was always a very sexual person.
I like I was always that I wanted to be a strip.
I had great up like my parents were cool like whatever.
I always wanted to be a little bit more.
Are you liquored up right now?
No, I'm so is this just you?
This is me.
She's just like just breathe.
I'm actually really anxious.
As you relate, it literally took me on a whole level.
They were 40 minutes late.
I'm just saying.
Like I was going to be early.
So it's so stressful, dude.
I'm so sorry about that.
Like I said, keep my hunter.
So you're not liquored up?
No.
Okay.
All right.
Dude, this is my...
This is...
I'm a little hyped because I'm so nervous and there's a lot to talk about.
My life is very difficult.
You don't have to get it all out right.
Okay, that's the difference.
I was like, stop me.
What do you mean you stop me?
Adrenaline.
What?
Adrenaline.
It was like you said, drink water.
I was like, no.
Exactly.
That too.
No, not met today.
We're, okay, so I'll actually, we'll give you some sort of direct questions here.
So in your pre-show notes that you provided to us, and all of you provided pre-show notes that we will get into.
So you said in your pre-show notes that you're mostly conservative and you consider yourself traditional, correct?
Correct.
Correct.
So you're traditional.
Okay, so I'm traditional in many sense.
Okay, because because I'm 38 and not 19, what I've seen go down, like, is just, I'm just kind of in awe of what's going around going on right now in the world, whatever, you know, I'll keep it very, whatever, but whatever.
It's whatever.
So you consider yourself traditional.
I consider myself more traditional.
If I had to answer these questions that you had online, you know what I'm saying, and be simple, yes.
How would you like to?
So hold on, let me do a little back and forth.
Thank you.
Help me.
Help me, help you.
It's going to be a long show.
Okay.
Good.
So you claim to be traditional.
However, on your Twitter, you describe yourself.
Oh, yeah.
Say it.
Go.
Go.
Do it.
Here, hold on.
Okay.
Calm down.
Take a deep breath.
I ask, just let me get through my question without interrupting me.
Okay.
On your Twitter, you describe yourself as a.
Do you want to put it in your own words?
I don't have my phone and I'm nervous.
Okay, I'll say.
You describe yourself as an OnlyFans cum slut MILF.
I'll tell you why.
Ready?
I am.
And by the way, I'm the, yo, you guys all seem like you're about to like freak out because you just met me, but I am the cum covered fucking goat.
And the reason why is because my husband figured out he can come cover fuck.
So anyways, I also have a beautiful face.
But anyways, yeah, I, it is, that's like that for SEO purposes.
It had to be, so just, I, are you following me?
Yeah, I'm listening.
Okay, so the reason why it's titled that is, yeah, for sure.
Sorry, sorry, sorry.
You were in the colors, dude.
Fuck y'all.
Okay.
So it's titled that for SEO purposes.
But my mission is.
The SEO search engine optimization.
OnlyFans come slut MILF.
Is that?
That's the SEO.
I'm looking at that broad and wavy XXX Twitter.
Here, let me continue on.
So you also write on your Twitter, you're the C C E On the Mission to Speaker.
Because we're all sluts.
Let's get on.
You're 19.
How is that?
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
It's so much fun.
We'll get into that.
Additionally, on your Twitter, there's nude photos of you with spunk on your face.
Dude, it's so sick.
In fact, half of the post-wait how long.
Hold on, hold on.
Half of the posts on your Twitter include you in the nude or with, as I said, spunk on your face.
Your pinned tweet on your Twitter right now is you having sex with four men.
Oh, that's a good idea.
Hold on.
Who's ever done that?
Hold on.
Set to dubstep music for some reason.
I don't know.
I'll tell you why.
I know it's my friend.
On your OnlyFans, on your OF profile, it states America's haughtiest and nastiest cum slap milf.
That part.
And you do MF, FF, MFF, MMF, MMM, MF.
So four men and you.
You do anal F face F-ing.
With my husband, huge facials, cream pie swallowing, roleplay, come covered fucking.
My dear, my dear, you are not traditional.
Okay, but here's the thing.
Are you ready?
That's why I wanted to.
This is okay.
First of all, this is why I said more traditional.
Yeah, I do that, but guess what?
It's with my husband, who I love and loves.
I did it once, you guys.
One time.
One time.
It obviously meant a lot.
One time.
You're not traditional.
But here's the thing.
You're not traditional.
But listen, in all other aspects, I am.
I'm with my husband.
No.
Okay.
You're not traditional.
Listen, one time.
You're like, oh, open relationship?
No.
We did it in a room with one person.
Okay.
Allow it.
Oh, and the gangbang, by the way, I did that last week at my house.
Yeah, you're not traditional.
Listen, okay, great.
Listen, fine.
You just told me I'm not traditional.
Traditional.
Let me just tell you one thing.
That gangbang, it was the only first one I've ever done.
It was a dream of mine.
It was a dream of mine.
I've always secretly was like, yeah, I want to get handled by a few dudes.
Never have done that, right?
Well, guess what?
My husband, my husband made my dream come true.
And he vetted all the guys.
They're all hot as fuck.
Take a look.
Okay.
Yeah.
Is your husband?
I'm okay on that.
Like spy or something like that.
No, he's definitely not.
Nothing.
I'm just saying.
He's definitely not bi.
I honestly, though, I mean, on that note, really quick.
By the way, no DP allow.
Can you stop interrupting?
I'm sorry.
I really am.
I actually do think men who have, like, if they have partnered sex, so it's like two dudes and a woman.
I do think like that is kind of.
I fucking agree.
Right?
Are you listening?
So there's even a thing over this.
Like, my husband, we've been like looking at stats and stuff.
And lately, it's so weird.
Guys prefer on OnlyFans to watch.
That's the reason why.
To watch a video that is more guys than a girl.
But do you want to?
Okay, so you asserted, you asserted in your pre-show notes that you're traditional.
And I've countered you and I've provided some things that are publicly available about you.
My assertion is you're not traditional.
Do you care to respond?
Okay, so I believe that the reason that she said she was traditional is because outside of OnlyFans, she's a normal mom who takes the kids to school.
Like mom, like, super normal just in my life.
Okay, but part of being traditional is like maintaining that.
Being modest.
I don't believe.
Okay, well, you know what?
Then I'm not traditional, but I'm dope.
Can someone tip it?
Like, I actually give like the OnlyFans girls who come on the show or the porn stars who like the ones you make fun of and you're like, nobody wants to date you.
Like, I don't know.
When have I?
Oh, I don't know.
Not you, just people.
Okay, this is like the third time you've interrupted me.
If I'm speaking, allow me to finish my point.
I've given you plenty of time to talk uninterrupted.
So, what was I saying?
So, girls.
Yeah, the OF girls who, if they're just open, I'm like, yeah, I'm a modern woman.
Like, I'm not going to give pushback really on their work.
But if you claim to be traditional and then there's like all the things I've already articulated, you're just not traditional.
Okay, fine.
I'm not traditional.
Okay.
But here's the thing.
Fine, I'm not traditional.
But I'm different.
Yeah, I'm different.
Like, if my husband, oh, by the way, my first few films I made, I'd be pregnant.
I only did Facebook films for like a year.
I was pregnant with my second son.
And like, I'm sorry, but like, this is fun for us.
We are like, so, here's the thing.
You guys just need to see my content.
You'll understand.
That's it.
What do you mean, just see your content?
Yeah, it doesn't matter.
It's just, it's so, it's just, you can see our, we are.
Is your content like somehow differentiated from the hundreds of thousands of other women who do?
Thank you.
I'll stop interrupting you now.
Yes.
How?
And by the way, I didn't mean to.
How is it any different than what the other women are doing?
Like, do you think you're special in that role?
Think.
I've never been good at anything.
I've never been good at anything in my entire life.
I swear to God, I've never like excelled or whatever.
Like, yeah, whatever.
My husband's super smart.
You got anything for this queue?
You got anything?
Hold on.
Hold on.
One second.
And then I have a question.
Do you roleplay?
Yeah.
Do you do SNL?
Do you ever roleplay as like Jimmy Fallon?
What?
I can.
Yeah.
No, literally, I rolled it.
Okay, derailed.
Derailed.
Here, bring me the back.
No, no, no, Stop, stop.
You had something to say, then Q's going to respond.
Go ahead.
I, okay, what was I?
she interrupts okay Q do you have any thoughts on sorry I'm the Tyler Perry of porn I like I play different characters in the same scene.
I play the mom.
I play the dog.
Like, literally.
So every other porn that's on the internet.
What?
No, I don't see it.
Girls are in North Hollywood on their camera phone thinking and making sex tape.
That's fine.
I'm not saying that it's not original, I'm not saying that it's so original.
What do you have for me?
How long did it take you to come up with all these rationalizations?
That's what I'm curious about.
Ladies and gentlemen, this is what's known as abnormal psych.
We're just going to throw that out there.
This is abnormal psychology.
This is what it looks like.
So we're going to allow her to explain.
ladies and gentlemen we just gotta get my husband on here but here's to the other split neck on no You're good.
You're good.
I'm just talking the neck.
Don't worry about it.
First of all, I understand.
I understand, dude.
I understand where you guys.
I understand where you guys are coming from.
I totally do.
You just, I don't know how.
Like, I wish I had more.
You want to take it.
You want to go back around and we can talk.
That you place yourself in categories that have specific definitions and you want to modify those definitions.
Okay, first of all, you're talking a little too much for me.
Be like, I'm dumb.
I can't.
I'm sorry.
I don't mean that.
I just mean like, okay, I'm placing myself in categories and you say that I'm delusional, pretty much.
Is that what you said?
Yeah.
Okay, right.
Yeah.
You just don't get it.
And I understand.
You just don't get it.
I'm trying to get it.
I'm trying to, and I'm trying to help you get it.
Can I, so are you saying that it's like, oh yeah, this would be so wild, but it's different because my husband and I are really in love.
That and five other things.
Okay.
My production value is insane.
literally it looks like a vixen shoot like like I just got scouted by uh very anyways I'm not gonna do mainstream I'm also a curious friend.
Yeah.
Thoughts.
I'm so like, letting her work out the anxiety because I know she's anxious right now.
So I'm letting it all like.
This is a lot for me, guys.
This is a lot for me, you guys, because I know you guys are going to roast.
She tends to just spew it all out at once.
And it's like, I can't cap it.
I'm no better than that.
Have you seen her content?
I have.
And I have.
I've actually, I get sent her content in the beginning, like prior to it coming out when they first started, they would send me all the content so I could fit it.
I understand.
No, I'm just lying.
But the thing is, is they have their own special thing.
Their content is actually quite different than most of the crap that I've seen.
You'll be watching her.
And it's like, it is because of like, because of her comedic take on things, it is actually different and fun to watch.
Now, the thing is, is like, I don't hold the same values in like how I want my relationship to go.
I know them both.
They're both like super close friends of mine and I appreciate them so much and I love their story and it's not for everybody.
But the thing is, is like they saved each other's life like in so many different ways.
They saved each other's life.
They saved each other.
They got prior to making any content like this, like they were 100% monogamous.
They like pulled each other out of like the judges of like their own life.
They were like completely like working out like every day together, like making each other healthier.
And they like soared.
He soared professionally, her personally, interpersonally, with like their families, emotionally.
It's beautiful.
They're in therapy together.
I mean, it's like for serious, like they've saved each other's lives.
This started happening two and a half years ago, two years ago.
And it's right?
I agree.
It needed it.
Nick, can you maybe lower it to 90?
Wait.
Did you want to finish?
Go ahead.
And then basically, like, this has been more of an artistic endeavor for the two of them.
It doesn't need to happen.
He's not forcing her.
She just wants to.
She's a loose cannon, obviously.
When I said that we were a mess, this is when we cleaned our lives up seven years ago.
So that whole thing was seven years ago.
Ever since, we've been like, we got it together, dude.
Like, anyways.
Wait, okay.
So, um, hold on.
So, here, I'm gonna move on from that a little bit.
Please do.
You gave us some other pre-show notes.
You said you were, I don't know how interesting this is, but you mentioned you were probably romantically, romantically involved with your stepbrother.
Oh, yeah.
Do you want to was there shared blood there?
Do you want to talk about everybody judging?
You're 19.
I'm not just second, but I'm kidding.
Wait, was it a genetic relationship or no?
No.
Oh, okay.
That's it.
Yeah, his dad was already.
Okay, so my mom was married to his dad.
His dad died of a heart attack at four years old out of nowhere.
They were already divorced before the heart attack, right?
Yep.
Which my dad always makes fun of my mom, made fun of my mom because she was going to be a billionaire.
She could have waited out one day.
Anyways, she's crazy.
But so he's having this house party because he gets this huge house and he's living there with his brother alone.
They're always having parties.
I go over and I'm 19 and like we've been friends.
Like we were friends our whole life.
And like, I don't know, one night I was like, online, whatever.
This is, you know.
And I fucked my stepbrother once.
Everybody knows about it.
Literally, my husband, his wife.
Like, we joke about it.
I even interviewed him on a live stream.
Okay.
All right.
That's cool.
Yeah.
You said that you also, you called off your engagement when you were 27.
Why don't you tell us the story?
Are you sure?
I feel like I'm taking over, you guys.
No, well, I get through everybody's notes one at a time and then we'll go ahead and please help me.
So yeah, I was engaged when I was 26, 27.
I don't know.
We were in this relationship.
He was great, you guys.
He was perfect on paper, literally.
Like, and I was monogamous with him.
We were together for like four and a half years.
He gets on one knee out of nowhere, like at the sandwich up here, like in front of everyone.
And he's like, will you marry me?
And I was like, yeah.
Because it was like, oh my God, like I'm on the spot, right?
Because I thought at that time in my life, I had to do what everyone does.
Okay, next we get married.
Next we get a dog.
Next week, you know what I'm saying?
So I said, yes.
You were 26 at the time of the engagement.
How long were you engaged?
About eight months.
And then I called the wedding off like a month or a few weeks before our whole paid for wedding.
Wait, how two weeks before?
So everything was planned.
Paid for.
I'm the brave.
I'm the bravest person.
No, banned, bitch.
Banned.
There's a ban.
Life ban.
Yeah, we're not DJ.
Can you not?
This is like the second time you.
I'm so sorry.
Do you call people bitch?
No, I don't call people bitch.
I just say it in my language.
I'm so sorry.
I will try my hardest not to say it again, but it was a band.
Not as easy.
How have you maneuvered through life?
I'm really not there.
I'm so nervous.
I have a lot of work.
She's blessed.
Do you understand that, like, my life story is a little different than everyone's?
Hers is actually.
Okay, but.
Puffy underscore Vegas donated 100.
You're not going to call me.
Just lost 30 pounds.
Have the girls rape me.
Jealous.
Wait, what?
Puffy, the IG reviews are.
I don't even know if we still have that in the past.
I'm really not trying to be rude, Mystery.
I swear to God.
I'm just saying.
Yeah, but please don't, like, to me or anybody else at the table, don't refer to them.
And I will try not.
I'm so sorry.
Continue on.
Truly.
We were talking about your engagement.
Oh, yeah.
Two weeks before.
I thought this was like you guys are all thinking, like, oh, what I'm doing right now.
No, you guys.
I decided, sorry.
Like, I needed to do this because everyone else is getting married around me.
Oh, I better fucking keep up, right?
Sorry.
So, um, when I realized like months go by, we're planning this wedding, right?
I'm, how am I going to do this?
Like, I'm not being true to myself.
Like, this is so unauthentic.
Like, what am I going to do?
He also had mental health issues.
A small dick.
It's like not that small, but it was like definitely nothing that I'm going to fucking.
Hold on.
Let me ask you a couple clarifying questions.
I feel like I'm in trouble.
Okay.
Go.
Okay.
You were with him for 4.5 years.
Four-ish years.
I can't remember.
Well, you said you got engaged at the 27.
How long were you with him total?
Total?
About four years.
Oh, four years.
And you were engaged for eight months.
Yeah.
So we planned our wedding a year later, like the day we got engaged.
He was so excited about it.
Okay, okay.
So you called off the wedding two weeks before, about a month, because he had.
That's not the only reason why sorry, that's not the only switch that, Nick.
No, like the, that's not the only reason why it was something that I would think about a lot.
You guys, that was such an issue for you, why didn't, why did you stay with him for 4.5 years?
Oh well, it wasn't an issue.
I mean, in the pre-show notes.
In the pre-show notes, you see, I hear you let me see.
Okay, I called off my engagement when I was 27, two weeks before my wedding, because he had a small D. Do you want to know why?
I said that?
Because I followed directions and it said, do not be long-winded.
And I thought, all right, I'll give you three tidbits of my life.
It doesn't say that in the pre-show instructions.
Oh, it does it I.
I read, do not give any long answers.
So I was knowing that.
You guys now know right, I was trying to follow directions as best as I could.
I'm pretty certain we don't.
In any case, it says, I think it's like, keep it like brief.
Yeah brief, it does.
I think I follow directions.
Shall I pull it up?
Please do pull it up.
I don't.
I mean it's kind of not that important, but I mean well, you're.
I mean let's just yeah, because clearly you see me right, I wanted to follow directions.
Okay, everyone we say um, take five minutes to read slash, answer all of the following questions, well, where else?
Because it's there okay, so you wrote that in response to uh, hold on yeah, 11.
I think it was LIFE, clickbait LIFE.
Yeah, it was like the very first thing.
You said it says any crazy slash, unique dating story stories.
If so, what?
No before, it's like the very beginning.
What do you mean at the very beginning of your instructions, of the paper?
Does anyone we say we say there's, I feel like I said I also okay, we say there's no long-winded casting call.
That hasn't.
That isn't.
That does not pertain to your answers to the pre-show casting.
Thank you.
Please respond to my question.
Yo, Puffy, thank you, man.
The Instagram reviews, you have to hit the threshold if you want us to do the IG review.
We need another 200.
I believe it's the 500.
In any case, it's kind of, it's neither here nor there.
But I was just trying to be like respectful.
What do you mean?
Like, not be because I was like, I thought I didn't know passing Hallman in person, not in person.
So I was just like, okay.
How do you feel saying that information out loud today?
And knowing what information?
That he has a small wiener.
Oh, I love it.
You want to know?
Well, okay, I don't love it.
I think it's interesting.
There were other factors.
He was a great guy, you guys.
He was awesome.
But why are you like bashing him publicly?
She didn't name John.
Listen, I didn't.
I didn't, but you know what?
He'll find out, I'm sure.
So I'm not, okay, this is actually a really funny story.
Long story.
Not getting into it.
Move on.
Let's move on and let's hear what other people, unless you want to, whatever you want.
No, well, I mean, let's continue.
So, I mean, you, I'm a very, very, very amazing, long-ish story.
I don't want to get into it, but we can later.
You mean as to why you broke off?
Why she thinks it's okay for me to say that, whatever, whatever.
Because I do.
I can't.
I'm just like, I can't.
Okay, now we're having the meta conversation.
Let's try to stay focused.
Just continue on with the conversation.
Go ahead.
Okay, she asked me a question.
What would you like to meet?
So because of that, right?
He was great on paper.
He was smart, great, whatever.
She was like a little shorter than me.
I'm tall.
So it's hard.
Was it all physical attributes that made you feel like he was four years after?
No, he was so cute.
We had a great time.
He was hilarious.
His family was awesome.
Oh, that was like the hardest.
Okay, you said he's perfect.
No, he's not, though.
Because deep in my heart.
No, deep in my heart, literally, I would.
I was, we had the best time together for the time that we were together, you guys.
I swear to God.
I was very shocked when he proposed to me because we never had talked about let's get married to me.
Like, I never saw myself getting married at like such a young age.
To me, that's a young age.
27?
That's not.
I know, but I just didn't.
I didn't expect him.
Who wants to marry me?
That's a fair point.
Like, what the fuck is going on?
So, anyways, she's not wrong.
Right?
You know?
She's not wrong.
First of all, you guys, you're getting me at my worst, okay?
Wait, but yeah, so finish the story real quick, okay?
We had a great time together.
He was awesome.
He was funny.
It's hard to hear, like, it's hard to keep up with me.
He could.
But I didn't feel that deep spark that I have with my husband.
Now, truthfully, nobody can ever find it.
Was it because he didn't want to have an open relationship?
No, he was, he broke his arm.
When I broke up with him, he punched the wall and broke his arm.
His bone was falling out.
That's not what I asked.
Wait, you're not.
Oh, well, I'm just telling you, you wanted to know.
The guy who you called off the engagement with.
Yeah.
My ex-fiancé.
I asked you if the guy that you called off an engagement with wanted to be monogamous.
Yeah, we were monogamous.
Is that why?
Because you're in an open relationship.
What?
I'm so sweet, dude.
Wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
Let me come in on this.
Okay.
Comment.
You said that you didn't feel the spark with your husband.
My husband, no.
Your fiancé.
I did it first.
You didn't feel the spark with him.
That's why one of the reasons why you called off the marriage.
Hold on.
Yeah.
And then, but you said you did feel the spark with your current husband, who when you met him was addicted to prostitutes.
Do I have that correct?
I wouldn't go there.
Okay, first of all, let me know.
Was there drugs involved?
No, no.
Let me answer the first question.
One motor sports donated $200.
Brian doing a one-off fly-by.
Lots to do.
But listening to this panel makes one wonder how methed up one is to bang four dudes.
And must ask what diagnosis is.
I took a Xanax, dude.
I actually took two.
I was stressed.
Did anything?
On Xanax?
No, I.
No, not now.
I said for the gangbang.
I took a Xanax for the gangbang.
Didn't he bring that up?
Keith, wait.
And you had to take a Xanax for it to feel comfortable?
No, I just wanted to do my best performance.
I'm a single person.
And you're going to do that with a Xanax?
Dude, watch my content.
Who's next?
Xanax does.
So, sorry, my lips were dry, and I wanted.
Sorry.
Had it on, baby.
Reapply.
We had a really good relationship at first, and we had a great day.
Wait, what was that?
Did you put a Zen in?
What?
Was that a Zen?
What's a Zen?
Upper Decky.
What is that?
I don't know that name.
I thought I saw you.
You guys, you would be shocked.
This is my fucking personality.
It's just a little hyped because I'm so nervous.
It was chapstick.
You had a question for Dior.
Do you want me to?
I have a question for.
I'm sorry.
I don't remember your name.
Mercedes.
so you said that her husband now when you met him you knew about him being like um kind of like doing adultery like yeah I was actually saying that you shouldn't do that to your like if you're married you shouldn't be having extramarital marital affairs okay Okay.
And so it's like you should find someone whom you actually want to be with enough to be loyal to.
But he isn't, though.
Oh, but he is.
You have said that he's been my God.
That's so choice.
This is actually getting.
But at the end of the day, facts are facts.
At the end of the day, I'm sure that my relationship and life is way more interesting than yours.
So I'm sorry you don't understand.
No, it is.
It for sure is.
So I'm sorry you don't understand.
I'm going to take a break now.
Next, please let me take a break.
What's that quote where it's like not a curse, but if anybody in the chat knows what I'm talking about, it's something that you say to somebody like, may you live in interesting times.
Like, it's not necessarily a good thing to have an interesting life.
Dude, I'm going to die.
By the way, I went to my grandma's funeral yesterday.
A lot of dudes.
Did you know what I'm talking about?
May you live in interesting times?
I will die.
Sorry for your loss.
Oh, it's all good.
Like, death is a part of life.
Like, whatever.
I'm going to die.
I don't know if it's going to be in a car accident and I won't know or I'll be in a deathbed, but I'm going to think I lived my life the way.
And I'm not being delusional, I swear.
I lived my life doing, I broke off my engagement.
Do you know how gutsy that had?
Like, I make decisions that I want to do.
I just, I'm listening to you.
So you're self-centered, basically.
Basically, yeah.
No, but I mean, make happy on a daily basis.
Do you know how many, like right now, right now, again, again, again.
Like, people are.
Talking about like make happy as an uh-huh.
Like, seriously, though?
Like, like, do you know?
Well, watch my content.
You'll see why.
But Roslyn Levy, XXX, Twitter.
Q. What do you think, bro?
What do you think, Q?
He's speechless.
Good.
I mean, yeah, it's not really much to say.
Yeah.
The only thing I was curious about is how did you maintain a relationship with no spark for four and a half years?
No, I said there was a spark for a while.
You said it wasn't the spark that you had with your husband.
Okay, here's what I'm.
Yeah, because I don't.
Do you understand how rare it is to find what I have with my husband?
I don't know what you're saying.
2% of the world.
I'm sure.
I have no idea what you have with that.
That's because it's classifiable in the DSM.
Okay, I understand.
So is.
Okay, don't get me started with the DSM stuff.
I love you guys.
I love you.
I'm sorry.
I can't.
I have mental health.
I got a question.
Here's the thing.
I'm so different.
It hurts me.
I have a question.
Please.
Was it a big wedding that you had?
With my husband?
No, no, no, no.
The guy who you broke off?
You broke off because he was short and he had a small peen.
What do you think?
What do you think?
I mean.
Well, no, but like you said, you and you.
Do you know how brave I had to be?
And break that shit off like two weeks before.
Wait, he was leaving for his bachelor party.
Caterers?
Wait, straight into the mic, please.
He was leaving for his bachelor party the next day.
Wait, so how?
And I was like, I can't hold this up.
We're invited to the wedding.
The wedding was what you think it was, honey.
Was what?
It was what you think it was.
It was.
Well, I don't know what it was.
Why don't you tell me?
It was a really nice wedding.
Like, what you're taught, what you're getting.
Can you not slam on the table?
I want to stop talking soon so I can give somebody else a chance to talk.
And also, I feel like I just, I'm never going to get it.
Wait, this is such a meta question.
Have you always been the way you are?
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
Did you, how many detentions did you get in high school?
I went to five different schools.
Were you suspended suspended?
I got suspended twice, but who cares?
I dropped out of high school when I was in 12th grade.
I had almost finished.
And then I went back, got my diploma, not my GD, got my diploma.
Like you got kicked out of high schools?
Yeah.
Why?
Because I did trudency.
I was just like smoking weed in the parking lot.
Behavioral stuff?
What do you think?
I'm just asking.
I don't know.
Dude, my dad committed suicide in 2016.
You think I don't have daddy issues?
Well, you're 30.
Hold on.
First off, you're 38.
Yeah.
If he said 2016.
That was when, no.
Okay.
So you're, hold on.
So you're justifying your teenage behavior for something that occurred.
Happened later.
No, that was a decades ago.
So if that was a joke, I'm just telling you that, like, yeah, behavior.
Yeah.
The answer is yes.
Behavioral issues.
Or were you.
Judge English, Mike?
You can.
You deserve to, actually.
Okay, so how many people were at the wedding?
Or sorry, how many people were planned to be at the wedding, excuse me?
185 or so.
You should have seen the wedding invitations.
They were, like, hand-peated with calligraphy.
So what was the total financial loss of?
Oh, I don't know.
I don't know.
You don't know?
You weren't involved.
No, I was, but that was so long ago.
I don't even think about it.
Like, who cares?
I'm just curious.
You get the vibe.
I don't care.
It was a really nice wedding.
Was it when you say it was over six figures of financial loss?
No, because my dad was a hustler and got half it.
Yeah, no, no, but there was a lot of loss, like whatever.
The worst loss was like, I loved his family.
I loved so many aspects, but I couldn't.
Do you know how many people, my husband walked down the aisle with two women before me thinking, yeah, I could just get a divorce?
Do you know how many people do that?
A lot.
But so what was the financial loss of the wedding that you called off two weeks before?
So there's the venue.
Oh, my wedding, my wedding.
The venue, the caterers, the band.
The venue, the band.
Not a DJ.
Wedding photographer.
Well, that was actually a deal.
So not really a loss.
Family, friends.
I don't know.
You get the point.
It was annoying.
It was fucked up, but I had to do it for me.
Question, though.
So you stopped the wedding from proceeding two weeks before it would have otherwise happened.
But I have a suspicion that you knew for months before that you were not satisfied in this relationship.
I would say about three months.
So why did you wait until three weeks?
Want to know why?
Because I thought, am I making the wrong?
guys don't understand the making that kind of decision you guys when the wedding's all can anyone understand or no I think all of us can put ourselves in that house right there, yeah, and think about how hard that would be.
We'd just get married and what would be hard to call off a wedding last minute.
Knowing that, yeah, that's it.
And why I waited three months after knowing maybe should I do this, should I not, is because what if I'm making the worst decision of my life?
Guess what?
It all worked out.
Okay.
All right.
Interesting.
Who's next?
Hold on.
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Donated $100.
I am tired of seeing all these beautiful women on the Whatever podcast.
What?
Thanks for changing things up, Brian.
To the microwaved Barbies and the whole panel, would any of you date Brian Orgiquan?
I would.
I would definitely love Brianna collab with my husband.
Oh, starting with you.
What was that last time?
Is that the same person?
I don't know.
Would I date either of you guys?
Sure.
Probably not.
Okay.
Who's the microwave?
Are you a microwave, Barbie?
I'm not sure.
Oh, I know.
And I'm like, yeah, please specify.
So I guess, what about you, I guess?
Oh, no, I would definitely date you.
I have to date you with my husband.
Want to knock down?
Y'all both look like very put together, like, men.
I like men.
Okay, thank you.
You are welcome.
You're the one that asked.
All right, let me read this chat here.
Here we have the Polish Texan.
Brian, kick this addict clown off the show.
She's rude, rambling, incoherently, and clearly on drugs.
I actually don't think she's on drugs.
This is just ADD, maybe?
ADHD?
I do have ADHD.
There are drugs for that, though.
Kick her out to regain some continuity of the show.
Methany is making tonight's show unbearable.
Okay.
Methany.
Me?
It's so funny.
I said, no, methany.
Tonight.
Okay.
Okay.
The violence.
Yeah, that's a good idea.
That's a good idea.
I can't overcome you.
I'm bored of this bitch.
Yep.
All right, go to the bathroom.
Go to the bathroom.
Off you go.
Off to the bathroom.
Is that okay?
Just go.
Bro, holy fuck.
Just go.
Just go to the fucking bathroom.
Oh, my God, bro.
What the fuck?
So are you actually really adamant about big labias?
Wait, what?
Like, is that like your thing?
Like, actually, or is it a joke?
I was so curious about that.
you trying to tell me something like you got a what if I do Good for you.
Yes.
I don't, but.
Oh, really?
But, like, is that like your thing?
Do you have like a kink for big labias or is it a joke?
Oh, I don't know if it's a kink.
I just think it's a preference.
Okay.
We were curious.
I should double down on it and actually say I only date women with a large labia.
Oh.
Yeah.
Look, women have penis preferences.
I have labia preference.
It's only fair.
Do they even have penis?
Like, I guess in size?
Of course they do.
It does.
Of course they do.
They don't have penis preference.
I mean, I just, you know.
Me neither.
I've never.
It is what it is if it gets the job done.
No, it's not.
Just like it is what it is if it gets the job done.
Of course not.
I just did.
I didn't know that that was said.
I just never have those conversations with my girlfriends, I guess.
I didn't know that.
Let's, Nick, get a chair for Spencer, like that little pullout chair or whatever, so he can sit back here.
All right.
Here, let me just check my – oh, guys, go to Twitch.
Twitch.tv slash whatever.
Drops a follow, drops a prime sub if you have one.
Thank you so much, guys, for your support over on Twitch.
And then also, subscribe to our Eclipse channel, guys.
Whatever second, we're trying to get to 1 million subscribers.
We're 70,000 away, so we're trying to get to 1 mil.
Get another plaque over here.
Oh, let Spencer do it.
You don't need to get up.
Hello?
What?
Okay.
Here, let's get into some of our other notes here.
So actually, I have to wait for that.
Let's go to Aspen really quick.
Aspen, were you guys, both of you guys are friends?
You came here from Florida.
It's your first time in California, correct?
Yes.
Did you guys go out last night, partied last night?
No, sir.
You didn't go out to Isla Vista.
No, what is Isla Vista?
To know where to go.
Yeah, that's trying to figure out.
Oh, it's too late now.
That's Isla Vistas.
We're like the college people party.
Why didn't you tell us that yesterday?
I didn't know you guys were here.
That sucks.
You say both of you, well, this is for Aspen, conservative and traditional.
Yes.
You also said a 22-year-old man made you watch a 30-minute Andrew Tate podcast when you were.
Jasper has he donated $100.
Change the subject.
Can you ask them if they are being tested for mycoplasmogenitalium and if they'd ever work with someone that doesn't get tested for it?
This is far more important.
STDS high, waving hand.
Yeah, yeah, that's the chair.
What's the question?
Ask them if you want to talk about STDs instead.
I have a curable STD song.
Do you want to hear it?
You had an STDs.
No, no, a curable STD song.
Gonoria Chlamydia, Syphilis, and Krebs.
Those are the curable STDs.
Never herpes.
Thank you.
That was beautiful.
Thank you.
That was beautiful.
Can you boost it to a greater picture?
Is that what they teach in sex ed class now?
No, but we got extra candy if we knew all the curable STDs, so I just made a song so I could remember it.
Huge shout out to our education system.
Yeah, it's actually working.
They're doing awesome.
They don't talk about that stuff on the media.
Okay.
What's the thing with the 30-minute Andrew Tate?
Oh my gosh.
So basically, I was like 17, and there was this dude.
He was like so perfect and beautiful and gorgeous and sexy, but like he was kind of weird.
He was in his 20s dating a 17-year-old.
He let me fly his plane.
Yeah.
He liked to fly his plane.
He let you fly his plane.
Yeah.
Well, he was there.
I was like the co-pilot and I got to like take control of it.
It was really cool.
He had a plane?
Like a well, I don't know if it was his, but we were like, we rented it.
You said you hate modern dating.
Hookup culture is not our thing.
Correct.
Okay.
Yeah.
If I'm dating someone, I'm mostly dating for marriage.
Like, I want to marry this man.
Yes.
I'm very picky about who I date.
Okay.
Yeah.
That's why I've only had like, I don't know, like one real boyfriend.
Yeah.
Okay.
Both of you said you're traditional, right?
Yes.
Traditional.
I don't know.
We've changed the definition here.
Oh, wait.
Well, maybe not traditional, actually, since I've committed some sins.
What are the sins you've committed?
Premarital sex.
Is that traditional?
No.
It's not.
Well, I guess it's like a stretch trauma.
But it's in.
It's a crime.
It's a sin.
All sin is equal in God's eyes.
So it's like, I will say, I think I missed it.
I feel like Bible verse.
We're going to do, we have a segment.
We have a segment on the show called Are They Traditional?
And pull up their Instagram.
So, Nick, if you can pull up Aspen, Aspen, and Jacqueline's Instagram.
Oh, and I do recognize.
And we're going to.
You use the sluttiest picture of me for the cover of this.
I want you to know that it's the sluttiest picture I have on my Instagram.
And we are going to see.
Follow me, please, everybody.
Follow me.
They are traditional.
And chat is going to weigh in.
You are definitely not going to think I'm traditional.
Are they traditional?
I had to ask my preacher the first time I ever wear a bikini.
You had a what?
I had to call my preacher and ask the first time I ever wanted to wear a bikini, and I was like posting it.
I didn't say anything.
No, I mean, are you?
Which one are you?
We'll start with Aspen, then we'll do Jacqueline.
They're so rude.
Oh, you look good.
No, they're so teeth.
Look, that's right next to me.
She is a baby.
Scroll down.
All right, this is Aspen.
So, chat, is she traditional?
She is.
Just keep scrolling.
Get to the bottom.
She was a Chilido.
Oh, hot ride.
She was a Chilido again.
All right, there it is.
Scroll back to the top.
Chat.
Is she traditional?
Is she traditional?
So in the chat, just say traditional or not traditional.
I have a Bible quote in my body.
Wait, what's going on back there?
Why are you talking to Nick back there?
I'm not talking.
I was looking because I couldn't see it.
I didn't want to interrupt you guys.
Here we go.
Sorry.
All right.
That quote is, thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.
Thank you.
What was it?
Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.
Yeah.
Can you pull up the chat so we can see?
It's loving to tell the truth.
Matthew 22, 28?
No, I'm saying it's loving to tell the truth.
Oh.
What do you imply by that?
What do you mean?
That's great to be on.
Not traditional.
Traditional, not traditional, not, not, not, not traditional.
We're giving a lot of nuts.
All right, let's do Jacqueline.
We got Jacqueline here.
All right, we have Jacqueline here.
Let's see.
Is she traditional?
There's a truck that maybe passed.
Okay.
It doesn't matter.
This looks good to me.
All right.
It doesn't matter.
Is she traditional, traditional in the chat, or not traditional in the chat?
I feel like traditional.
Is she traditional?
I feel like traditional other places in Florida is very different because Florida is like a hot.
Someone just said they're not traditional.
I lived in Florida and I did.
But they don't do OnlyFans content.
Sorry.
They don't.
They don't work out hard throughout the world.
They don't do OnlyFans.
Only she does.
Not doing OnlyFans only means you're not getting paid for the content you're posting for free.
You're not getting a lot of people.
But if you're proud of yourself, you should be able to post it if you're confident in the way you look.
It just doesn't.
I'm not showing anything.
I'm not showing anything.
My nipples are covered.
Everything that is out is something that you could see if I was.
You're hawk.
You should have.
You're a hawk.
It's 22.
You think you're a religious?
Traditional religion.
So you should absolutely value modesty, and you should absolutely think that being proud of your body is a sin.
No, if you don't have it, I get it.
Prideful is a sin, but it's just as much of a sin as eating too much, like gluttony.
Sin is a sin.
All sin is equal.
Do you think that justifying the fact that all sin is equal justifies the sin that you're committing?
No, not in the slightest.
I mean, I'm a sinner.
We all are, just for the record.
No accusation.
I'm not trying to justify at all, but I am doing the counter argument that all sins are forgiven as long as you repent.
But are you backing you up?
No, no, no.
Can I add something?
Eating is a sin.
Are you truly a believer?
Yes, 100%.
No, no, sorry.
Let me finish.
If you're justifying your sins on the basis that God will forgive you.
No, it's not that I'm, well, I guess.
Sounds like Tampa.
Patty got me a little bit.
Good.
She got me a little bit.
But honestly, I feel like I'm just really confident.
And she's not claiming to be perfect.
Nobody's all porn perfect.
I shouldn't say I'm traditional because I guess I'm not.
Right, my bad.
But I would never do like porn or anything.
No, no, and I'm not attacking you whatsoever.
I was just asking a clarity.
Yeah, I was just asking a clarifying question because I do think that there's something that's happening collectively in society that's not a reflection of anybody exclusively on this panel.
But it's a really dangerous slope.
We end up on this slippery slope fallacy where little pieces of traditional attributes are taken away and stripped away in the name of tolerance.
And we've abandoned God and our society.
And so when everybody becomes their own God or when everybody uses God's word to justify their sin.
Hey, hold on, hold on, hold on.
She's talking over here.
You don't need to lean over to her.
I'm not talking to her.
I'm looking at the comments.
I'm sorry.
I don't care what direction you.
She's talking.
You've talked so fucking much.
Give other people on the panel an opportunity to speak.
You don't need to do a little sidebar, little comment.
Just please stop.
Go ahead.
Thanks, Brian.
I just was, that was what I was trying to point out.
I had kind of summarized it.
Did you get where I was going to do that?
I do.
I get that.
But like, again, not trying to justify anything, but also in the Bible, there's like, oh, never mind, never mind.
Never mind.
Never mind.
It's not going to hear it.
Nah, no.
I love Jesus.
I love the Bible.
Yes, I want to hear what you were going to say.
But basically, like you can say that all you want, though, like you need to act out.
I know, I know, but like, but like at the same time, the Bible contradicts itself on some things too.
Like, it says don't harm yourself, but it also says cut off your right arm if it's causing you to sin.
Okay, that's taken entirely out of context.
It's a metaphor.
If we're going to go by the book, it says it clearly in the book.
It's a metaphor.
Yeah.
To not do something so much that you want to cut off that arm so that the other hand doesn't do it.
It's still in the Bible.
Cut off your right hand and throw it away if it's causing it to sin.
And it also says to harm yourself.
So I'm just saying, like, it contradicts itself.
I contradict myself.
Life goes on.
No, look, and it's, I don't think what's on your Instagram is like egregious.
But like, there's a scale to it, right?
Yeah.
But I think one component of being traditional is modesty.
I take back traditional.
I take it back.
I took it back like 20 minutes ago, Brian.
I think most men really, I mean, I'd actually like to ask the chat.
So chat's already made their assessment of if they consider it traditional or not traditional.
But would most of the chat do you guys think like, do you think the photos are that bad?
Do you think they're that bad?
I don't think they're that bad.
That isn't even aware.
I try not to like show my butt, like, you know, like mercurously turn around and stuff.
I try to just, you know, show like, I'm a cute little person.
I don't say my cute.
You do work out.
You do work out.
And you do take care of yourself.
There's nothing wrong with that show.
All of last year, all of last year, I couldn't even really walk.
Like I had total neat reconstruction surgery.
And now that I get to like work out and like be all cute with my body and my abs and stuff, I want to post it and I want to share about it.
And I'm proud of it.
There you go.
There you go.
Like guys get to post their podcast.
I got a question.
So if you were in a relationship with a guy.
I would take him down.
I mean, yes.
Oh, he wouldn't even have to ask you.
He would.
Oh, he would.
If he was uncomfortable with it, I'd take it down.
But if he wasn't, though, that's traditional.
It's just like respect sort of thing.
That's cool.
You guys are very beautiful and you're very young.
And you guys still have the time to wipe that out and wipe what out.
I don't want to wipe it out.
I'm proud of my body.
Wait, wipe what out.
Like, delete those pictures because I can tell you guys do want to find a traditional man and get married.
And I would.
Oh, okay, maybe not.
I do.
I do do.
So I'll speak to you.
Okay.
So I can see like the authenticity that you do want to find a traditional man.
And maybe I don't want to speak for the men, but I do not think that most men will find that.
They might find it attractive.
But for their wife, I don't think they would like that.
I'm also 18.
Yes.
So I also feel that there's men that would actually see it.
And if they asked her to actually take it down, they would be far more attracted to the fact that she actually was willing to take it down for them.
There are some confident men that like she becomes theirs.
And that's sexy.
Even in the talking stage, if they wanted me to take it down just out of respect, I would do it.
I will finish.
Can I finish my statement?
Sorry.
So not only for the men, but also because you're saying that you're a Christian too.
Yes.
We know some of us have a past and you can still wipe it clean and you can still start new.
So I want to tell you that.
I'm not trying to be mean.
I'm not.
I don't think we're trying to be mean here.
But just to give you advice, I think it would be a good advice.
I might take that in the future, but right now I like what I'm doing.
Okay.
Honestly, I don't know if it's about confidence because sometimes, you know, we can look at our bodies and we can be super confident and we have a thought sometimes like, oh, I want to show people.
But then it'll be more valuable if you just show your husband.
He's going to get to see what's underneath.
He gets to see the real good stuff.
Girl, we're almost already seeing all of you.
No, you're not.
Not even close.
Anyways, moving on.
My ass is covered.
The titties are covered.
You're looking hot.
I look hot.
Thank you.
I'm sorry.
If you work out, had a neat surgery and got your body about whatever, you're hot.
Thank you.
Jesus loves everyone.
He does.
Before we get back into some of the more of the pre-show notes that everybody provided, I typically do this a bit earlier at the start of the show, but it's waited about an hour in.
A good jumping off point, although we're an hour into the show, is I like to start off with, does anybody here disagree with anything?
So maybe some of you.
Maybe some of you have seen the show.
You've seen a clip.
Maybe there's something in specific that you disagree with.
Maybe you've seen, maybe you've even seen a clip from Q. Anything you disagree with, I'd like to start there.
I want to talk to people who disagree with me on something.
So anybody, any disagreements?
I haven't watched the show.
Cue the cricket.
Come on, guys.
Jesus.
Anything?
Okay, we need 200 bucks.
Let's go.
Nothing.
Disagree with me.
Yeah, I have a question.
What's the red, what's the pill thing?
Can you answer that?
That's not.
I was like, okay.
Okay, well, no one else is saying anything.
I asked you the second I got yours.
What is that?
It's not meth, so stay away.
Hold up.
Okay, you guys.
I was fucked.
Meth calms me down, by the way.
I think it's symbolism.
Wait, you don't symbolize it.
Matthew, guys, come on.
You know that.
Well, you're not, but.
Oh, going around the table.
Okay, since nobody here.
Are your parents still together?
No, my mom is gone.
Sorry to hear that.
No, my parents were both divorced and remarried by the time they were.
I was.
Yeah.
No.
Nope.
That's the answer.
No.
No.
No, but I have wonderful stepparents who I love all the same.
Sam.
Yeah.
My mom passed away as well.
He's remarried and they're still together.
Sorry to hear that.
Q?
No, my mom's been married to my step-pups for like 14, 15 years, though.
Okay.
In common.
I will say that my mom has been married to my stepdad for 35 years.
So I've said that.
Okay.
All right.
No disagreements.
Anybody disagree with me.
I like debates.
Anything?
Nothing?
All right.
Well, we'll probably get that.
Well, I guess.
Okay.
Yeah, let's get back.
Be brave.
Maybe, actually, here, maybe I can give you guys a prompt and see if there's anything that you guys can disagree with me on.
There's actually one thing I disagree with.
Plastic surgery makes women look worse.
I disagree with you.
I disagree if you're already halfway and you just need a little something.
What's up, Nick?
One at a time.
I disagree.
You think plastic surgery makes women look better?
By society standards, yes.
See, like plastic surgery, like by society standards, what's more attractive is kind of like a flat nose.
Say someone has like a pump in their nose and they want to get it down.
Societally speaking, they would look more attractive.
Who created those standards?
It's actually science.
Yeah, science.
It's symmetry.
Obviously, there's different kinds of plastic surgery.
And actually, I would say that most, although some nose jobs can be botched, actually, I'd say most rhinoplasties.
You can't tell most of the time.
However, I'm talking more so about breast implants, lip filler, liposuction, and BBLs.
These things, I think, almost never make a woman look better.
How about the, let's start with that.
And one of y'all says symmetry, and all those things are asymmetrical.
I agree with you.
I don't think that any of those things are actually.
I want to get lip filler.
I got little white girls.
No, don't do it.
Lip filler never.
Make you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.
Like a what?
It makes you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.
What is anaphylaxis?
Okay, but it's like their kids.
You have to tell the right person, but if you're older, like if you're 13 and you get a diamond and you look 40, it's like, when you're trying to be younger, like it doesn't work.
It's just I don't know man has ever said she looks better with lip filler.
My husband agrees with you.
Said no man ever.
I feel like I would look better.
Every man said she looks better with some volted ones.
Kinda, I'm just kidding.
Why do you feel like you would look better?
Because I just want the big, beautiful, juicy, sexy lips.
That's not sexy.
You have beautiful, juicy, sexy lips.
You don't have to worry about that.
Oh.
God made you perfect.
You're gorgeous.
God made us to be perfect.
Not me.
Yes, you.
Wait, so you're going to get lip filler?
No, not now that you.
Brian Atlas told me not to.
I'm not going to do it.
Okay.
The patriarchy wins again.
Go ahead.
Listen to some dude.
Let's see.
What else can I throw out there?
If nobody's going to bite on that one, let's see.
Only traditional women deserve traditional treatment.
As most women are not traditional, men should not pay on the first dates.
No, men should always pay on the first date.
Oh, hold on.
Brian Boy Toy donated $100.
Support Palestine.
A civilized society gets to complain about dumb stuff while children are starving and dying.
What?
Talk to your congressman.
I kind of agree.
Bigger.
Dude.
This is basically like: if you're ever talking, oh, it's called fallacy of relative privation.
That's what I'm saying.
Appeal to worst problem.
So basically, if you're discussing, say, for example, a minor issue, well, they're starving children in Africa.
Therefore, you shouldn't be talking about it.
Oh, that's my guy.
This is 300, so yes or no if send ice cream.
If you do another 20 more, will you have rate Mike?
Yes, Puffy Vegas, if you do 200 more.
I mean, just to address the other one, again, that's a fallacious argument.
Well, we shouldn't talk about these other issues because there's a bigger issue out there.
But again, that's a fallacy.
Like, okay, sorry, I'm trying to understand.
And it just negates the bottom.
just an appeal it's like why did he talk about palestine like You're saying that it was a bit he's talking about.
He's like, why are they talking about dating issues?
Because there's worse issues out there.
So ergo, therefore, we should not talk about dating issues because there's one specific issue which happens to be worse.
And all sorts of any sort of discussion must always focus on the central, most biggest issue in the world at any given time.
You can never talk about more minor, less important issues.
Because there's one big issue.
It's a fallacy.
And actually, it is important issues, actually.
Okay, but what are the problems?
Is this going to say rate me.
Nick, just do a review.
Pull up his Instagram, but just do a quick review.
No, Nick, hold on.
Can you just look at it, make sure there's nothing to ask first, okay?
Wait, so what were you saying?
No, I'm saying, even if he thinks that these are lamer issues than what he was talking about in Palestine, they are very important issues, actually.
The state of the world is a lot of people.
Oh, I would agree with you.
Our society.
How we watching families?
These are all really important issues.
I think what your podcast brings a lot to the forefront.
I agree.
I think, you know, talking about, I mean, dating and relationships is one of the most important things that we're all going to do.
We're on the brink of a population collapse.
It's kind of important.
There you go.
Yeah.
She hasn't got a lot of money.
Whatever podcast is tackling population collapse, which is arguably exponential crisis.
It's an existential crisis.
So you don't have, it's more important.
Check me.
She just checkmated you.
How about checkmate?
Love her.
Gotcha.
Yeah, we can pull up puffies.
Thank you.
This is why we came on as a team.
All right, guys.
So, guys, this is Puffy Vegas.
He's a Giga Chad and lives in Las Vegas.
So wait, Puffy, he wants us to rate him on a scale of rate his Instagram.
Thank you, Puffy.
Should we, guys, should we get Puffy on the ice on the show?
He also said he just started to get away from the channel.
Shatter down, scroll down.
Not gonna make girls jealous with girls in your profile.
Where are you?
Yeah, Instagram.
This is his instruction.
Keep scrolling down.
Okay, keep scrolling.
Did you get this for, Nick?
Just make sure there's nothing to arrest him.
Like, who are these random girls?
Did you get this for?
She's a young girl.
Okay.
So, this is his Instagram.
Do you want Puffy?
Do you want a one to one?
Is that like you, Jackie?
That kind of does look like me.
Who?
You.
You are there.
And the people.
Oh, yeah, that is me.
But he did say he lost 30 pounds.
So I guess is this a 1 to 10 rating?
You want us to rate you on a 1 to 10?
Before and after of his weight loss?
That's good enough.
What do you rate him?
We're going around the table.
Rate him on a scale of 1 to 10.
Go ahead.
Horrified.
Whoa, I will not stand.
Okay.
You're sitting.
Sorry.
One.
And I feel bad for those girls.
All right.
It was not me.
It's your turn.
I'm just going to skip this one.
Oh, yeah.
She's taking.
You got to rate it.
All right, fine.
But you said it has to be numbers.
Yeah, scale of one tool.
Okay, you know what?
One, ten being the.
Oh my god, I'm going to die.
My husband.
Yep.
Zero being like.
Yeah, typically, I think we know.
Typically, yes, one tends to be the low.
Ten tends to be the jolly.
We get it.
Okay, fine.
I would say two, only because.
Only because.
I have to be nice.
Womp womp.
I have to be nice.
Sorry.
You know, can you stop abusing the table, please?
Are you...
Goddamn.
I feel like so many.
Did you not see the thing that was on the screen?
You know, like how some dogs never get potty trains and then they just urinate.
They're 10 years old and they're still urinating in the house.
Go ahead.
What's your rating of?
Go ahead and.
Can somebody check under your seat and make sure that it's not fucking there's just wet under the seat?
It's not wet under the seat.
I would say if he did lose 30 pounds, he'd be a handsome man.
I'm proud of him.
No, he said he did lose 30 pounds.
Where's he losing?
That too.
That too.
Maybe a little bit of extra.
He's got to lose a thousand.
He's got to lose 30 more.
No, no.
I'm just saying.
Hey, he put himself out there.
Give him a three.
I'm going to give him a three.
He's going to put himself out there.
Personally, I don't like my men being with a bunch of ladies, so I'm going to rate him probably a two.
You have nice lips, though.
Also, a two.
Thank you.
I'm very sorry.
I don't want to be mean, but I'm also very honest.
I'm going to say one.
Okay, Andrew.
Sorry.
Are we rating his Instagram or his himself?
Oh, him as a person?
Oh, I gave him two for both.
Still applied.
Without context, I mean, I can't rate anybody in comparison to my husband.
It's a one for me.
Yeah, she's a fan of the music.
You can't even rate out of your marriage.
Sorry, Puppet.
That's crazy.
My husband broke the scale.
You can't even marry marriage, and that's cheating.
I know he wasn't asking.
No, I didn't say that was cheating.
He was asking me to put respect.
Answer, I'm just proud of his loss.
On the books alone, I would have to say like a one.
Oh, yeah.
He says, have the girls rate me.
So it was like.
So if you go on my website, you can go ahead and tell me that.
Nobody cares.
Okay.
We have Shannon Lacey Aspen, it's not premarital sex if you never plan on getting married.
I do plan on getting married.
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Problem today is women don't know how to treat men and men do know what to expect from.
You don't know me.
I know how to treat men.
Yeah.
Oh, he was having my back?
Yeah.
Oh, thank you.
He was what?
Thank you, Shannon Lacey.
He said he had her back.
Does he?
She's always dating to marry.
I am dating.
So it's not premarital.
Stop the cap.
Oh, hey, I'm not capping, Nick.
Okay, you're going to find something about that.
Please don't blame Nick.
That was me.
He just said, that was you.
I control.
Brian.
Sorry.
Oops.
Don't be rude.
You're going to find something to do.
Hold on.
You know what?
I just.
You're right.
Let me just.
I just want to.
No, he's going to do it again.
I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
Absolutely nobody!
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Ryan and I'm much indebted to your podcast for showing me what girls to avoid.
You're always welcome in Texas Bro.
Come on down.
Thank you.
What is the point of human existence?
F true to Scissor.
He can answer it.
All right.
All right.
What is the point of human existence?
He's a science guy.
Oh, I can't wait.
Well, we'll start with here and we'll go around the table, guys.
Actually, I think it's about creating relationships with people and meeting new people, having new experiences.
And yeah, that's what this is all about.
That's it.
That's a good one.
Yep.
I guess I'm next.
Or do you, I don't know.
Okay.
um what is the other question again I had my answer and then I was like, what is the meaning of human existence?
Dude, I think that, so this has evolved a lot.
I'm older than most of you.
Oh, sorry.
Okay, so this has evolved a lot over my life.
Just recently, the past month, or no, I'm sorry, maybe the past year, I believe that it is about creating creation.
I believe it is about helping people.
It's about helping people.
I see the meaning of life in a sense through other people.
Like, I don't believe in like Jesus, God, or whatever, but like, I believe that, like, when I have a conversation with someone on a random Tuesday and something weird and it's like weird, the meaning of life, I just feel like, is all connected.
I don't know if I'm making sense, but like, we're all connected.
The string theory.
Yeah.
Like, yes, yes.
And so the meaning of life is just, I feel like, to like, be kind to one another and help people and just be understanding and live.
And you still have to try, even though aliens are taking over and no one cares.
But, you know, we still have to try.
But like, literally, the aliens should let us know soon because no one even cares that they're here.
I do, though.
Next.
What was the thing that you said after the meaning of life?
Oh, what is answer that?
Okay.
Yeah, what are your thoughts?
I think that the meaning of life is to experience life.
So just experience, we are one and we're just interacting with other versions of ourselves.
So.
I don't know.
I feel like everyone's definition is different.
Like, am I a lot?
Okay.
I feel like for personally, what was it again?
What is your thoughts on the meaning of life?
The meaning of life, for me personally, the meaning of life is to create a life, I guess.
I don't know, create a new one.
All the time.
Have kids.
That's about living.
When you're young.
No, no, it's only one goal in life.
It's just have you.
You can recreate your life a million times.
Yeah, that's it.
I would say my answer would be that the meaning and purpose of life is just to be as good as you possibly can be.
And you know, creation, as you had said, is certainly a really big part of that.
I am religious myself, so I do believe that there is a much greater purpose at the end of this life here that I'm striving to become, you know, as time goes on.
And with every decision that you have presented in front of you to pick the best possible route ever, and it payoff will be huge when your time in this physical body comes to an end.
So yeah, do the best that you possibly can.
That would be my answer.
Have you always thought that?
Sorry, I didn't mean to.
In terms of the religiousness, has it evolved?
Or have you always thought that?
I think that I've always been somewhere on that level.
In recent years, though, I think that my faith has been really intense compared to what it ever was before.
And I've definitely started to realize now that the purpose of my life has nothing to do with me.
I truly feel like I don't matter whatsoever, and that's not a mean or offensive thing.
I do not matter.
It's what this vestige of you more can do to help every single person and be kind to every single person around me.
And that has been really, really dominant in every decision that I've made in probably the last year or so, especially.
Same, I cannot agree with you more.
Hold on, I'm sorry.
And that's why I'm telling you that whatever we were talking about about me before, I didn't choose it.
It chose me.
And I'm not killing anyone, and I'm whatever.
So I agree.
And ever since COVID and all that stuff, I feel like we're all like, I don't know, I feel the pull of like thinking about it more.
I honestly, all right.
I'm also very religious.
So I believe that everything was created by God for God.
So anything that glorifies God.
And then in the beginning, He did tell us to be fruitful and multiply.
So I believe in getting married, having chosen helps the population collapse.
Yeah.
That was beautifully stated.
That's exactly what I believe: that things are created by him and for him, and that whatever it is you do, it's for the purpose of bringing glory to our Creator and all of the miraculous things that he's done for us.
Puffy underscore Vegas donated $100.
I have 40k girls follow me on the social media and one girl me personally.
I love them.
I'm going to go to them.
Are you paying them?
Yeah, so he's paying us.
Is that a statement?
That means that means you guys all agree?
10?
Raise your hand.
You're in town.
Hold on.
We're on the table.
Can I help you guys?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, Puffy said that he is mad because he had 40,000 chips.
And they all love him.
And I'm like, is he paying them?
Because he's paying us.
Do we go around the table on what the meaning is?
Let's try it.
She was finishing.
Let's try to keep the answers brief if we can.
Go ahead.
I don't think she was finished.
No, she wasn't finished.
I was just saying for me, that means advocacy and all things that need reformation in order to bring that focus back.
But yes.
Yeah, I think first and foremost, reproduction, human improvement, to experience whatever you value.
Elevate your sense of self.
Whether you're religious, you know, it's really simple.
You have lad the impaler tailor.
Appreciate your message, man.
Glad that you enjoyed the show.
Thank you, man.
Okay, I forgot where we left off.
I think I was in the process of saying that men should not pay for first dates because most women are not traditional.
I did have a question about that, if I may.
Yeah, sure.
I was just curious if that entails just a blanket statement: all dates should be split 50-50, or if we're expecting that these individuals going on first dates are vetting each other to figure out: are you traditional beforehand so that there's that presumption going into the first date what the expectations are?
Well, hopefully, you've been able to vet prior to the date, and you can make that assessment if she is traditional or, you know, again, it's kind of a scale, the being traditional or not traditional.
I don't think it's binary.
It's not either you are or you aren't.
I agree.
Yeah, that's why we both said traditional, right?
Yeah, yeah.
In a way, if she's traditional, you ought to pay for the first date.
But I mean, if she's not, then I don't know.
Do you guys pay for the first dates?
Generally, yes.
Didn't she know?
I see.
I knew I'd generally.
I thought there was a there was like a I saw a clip.
I saw a clip.
Well, you said you didn't.
Yeah.
No, I didn't.
Bring it up.
Pull it off.
50-50.
Like, it should always be 50-50 on the first date.
Oh, God.
Well, so, okay.
If she's not traditional, my position is if she's not traditional, then of course you don't pay for it.
I would agree with that.
Of course, maybe you date non-traditional women.
What's that?
So you date non-traditional women.
No, he dates all women, but he's saying who he pays for or not, right?
I think so.
So in the past, currently, I'd say for the recent history, I'm mostly traditional women, but living in California, back when I was on the dating apps and back before I kind of, you know, made some realizations about the dating landscape and, you know, hey, men are allowed to have standards.
Men are allowed to have preferences.
Men are allowed to have boundaries.
You know, I'd go on these dates with these liberal women.
I live in California.
Santa Barbara is a super liberal place and these chicks like nah I ain't gonna pay for them on the first date I get it.
Half the time, also, like, whether you're traditional or not, I'm going to be straight up.
So I would always get to the date at least five minutes early.
If you're 10 minutes late to the first date, I've already ordered my shit.
You can have your own.
You can order your own shit.
I'm not going to pay.
You're late for the first time.
I agree with that, which is why I feel so bad that I'm late.
Yeah, you guys were 40 minutes late, but we're not on a date right now.
But look, I wasn't going to bring that up.
I was talking in a romantic context.
Yeah, if she's 10, 15 minutes late for the date, especially if she doesn't give me any heads up, like she just five minutes after when she say we're supposed to meet at 7, 7.05.
Oh, I'll be there in 10 minutes.
I'll order, like, first off, I'd never do a dinner date.
There's no future, so.
I mean, not necessarily, as long as she gives me like even the token apology when she arrives, that's fine.
But what?
Never mind.
Why was the dirty back?
What were you gesturing?
Nothing.
I feel like I'm two seconds from getting this push and me getting out of here.
Is that what that does?
I don't know.
Is that what it does?
It's like a trapdoor.
So, I mean, if she's late and she's not courteous about it, there's no etiquette, you know, because you can be like, you give the person a heads up like 20 minutes before you're supposed to show up.
Oh, just letting you know, hey, I'm running a little bit late.
Sorry.
I was shaving.
Flying them over.
But yeah.
I don't know.
I think that's so gross, just imagining being on a date and not actually informing the person that I'm running late until after the timeframe that I was supposed to be there.
Oh, I had that all the time when I was back on the dating apps.
I mean, I had so many experiences on the dating apps, I got rid of them.
But people would be late.
They'd literally cancel a date five minutes before the date.
As a guy, this is what you experience.
I don't think some women can experience this degree of flaking or just straight up no-showing.
But yeah, as a guy, you're going to experience people who are constantly late, constantly flaking, literally an hour before the date.
And you'll say, like, I'll get criticisms, for example, of when it comes to the age gap relationship stuff.
Oh, Brian, don't you want to date a mature 31-year-old your age instead of a 21 or 25-year-old?
I've actually, like, when I was on dating apps, the majority of women that I was dating on dating apps were within my age range.
And them being within my age range did not preclude them from being incredibly, incredibly rude when it came to respecting my time, to being flaky, to canceling an hour before the date.
See, us men, we're not like women where if a guy flakes on you, you can line up another date that night.
If you burn a guy, if you burn a dude an hour before on a Friday, his Friday is scorched.
Are you thinking?
Most dudes, hold on.
Most dudes are not going to be able to replace a date on a Friday or Saturday night.
We got to plan that shit in advance.
But women will just willy-nilly up an hour before the date, Friday night.
Nah.
Got a headache.
These demons, but are you single?
Are you?
Sorry.
Are you seeing how's that relevant?
Are you single?
I just don't know.
I don't know much about you to tell you the truth.
She told me about this podcast.
Yeah.
Are you gonna?
What's your question?
Are you in a relationship?
What's the relationship status?
I don't disclose that for security.
You should start.
Here's my advice: just one quick second.
Start having these hoes.
Can you kindly pull your mic?
No, Look, do you see how everybody else's mic is at the edge of the video?
Sorry.
Just leave it there.
You should start charging these girls $100 for and then give it back to them on time.
That's all.
I mean, we've implemented deposit.
Wait.
How?
Hold on.
I'm talking.
Are you talking about the show?
No, I'm talking about girls that you're going on dates with.
So that way you can deposit it back or making it a deposit for a show.
Is that actually like a faith?
No, it's a joke.
Because I was like, no girl, like, girls aren't going to do that.
Well, that's, well, you know what?
The ones that do.
She's the one.
No.
I would never put up a deposit for a game.
Dog, that was a joke, dude.
Oh, my God.
Let me ask chat.
Chat, was that a funny joke?
It was so funny.
You should charge a girl a deposit.
Well, they do.
So she's not late for the date.
Because you do it for the show.
It was funny.
It's funny.
I gotta look at it.
You guys, if you don't know, if you come on the show, you have to pay a hundred dollar deposit.
Not everybody, but we some in some instances we charge.
Okay, well, you can have my hundred.
I was late.
It was a joke.
Not everybody.
I'm sorry.
Do you really do the deposit?
It wasn't funny.
Not everybody.
Why did I have to?
We're back and forth with the deposit policy because I implement it after we have a string of flakes, but then like requesting the deposit, sometimes like some people don't who otherwise would show up and would schedule to be on the show aren't down to do a deposit.
So we've been back and forth on the deposit thing to be on the show.
So some people get the deposit question, some don't.
So why are you looking at me that way?
You feel like I feel a little hurt.
Inequality.
Yeah, sorry.
A little bit.
It's okay.
Yeah.
Also, sometimes if we get, if I have an intuition about somebody, you could tell by their pics.
Like we'll request a deposit.
You had an intuition about it.
That's what I was based on.
We have an intuition.
We'll have an intuition about a guest.
And we're like, look, if you want us to book you, we're going to need a deposit.
Wise.
And I'm like, yeah.
I was having a first-person commitment.
I think whoever asked the person on the date should pay for the date.
And I'll say, and I'll say, oh, no.
That's not generally most men's experience.
That has been my experience.
Women ask me out and they offer to pay.
So typically, if I ask a woman out, I'll pay.
And it's typically because I've already vetted her to a degree.
Like, I have a sense of who she is, whether through social media or talking, FaceTime, and whatever.
I have a sense of who she is, what she's about, what she values, and I'll determine off of that.
So if she gets me to the point where I'm even asking her on a date, I'm willing to pay off.
I think it also matters, like, if like, you know, you guys have a meal, how everything goes, and at the end, you know, she goes to play for Parliament.
She goes to like pay or like, she's like, do you want to split this?
There's like a discussion about it.
I think it just shows that she's got some morals and values.
When most women do the like fake fragment.
A lot of women will be like, oh, you want to split?
I do the fake grab.
I like go.
I totally have spots before.
Yeah, but most women will like do that.
But if the guy actually takes her up on said offer, they're going to still feel a bad type of way about it.
They're just going to be a little bit more.
That's so unless you're in the middle of her with diet.
A lot of people.
No, there's actually, I tweeted that.
You try to pretend like you want to pay, but you don't just keep on.
It's disgusting.
I just feel like it's like a guy asked when I was hurrying at 18, right?
He asked me on a date.
Of course, I thought, oh, a guy's going to pay, right?
That was like just traditional.
Okay.
I did the fake wallet grab just to like, you know, be chill.
You know, like, I'm a good person, right?
I had the money to pay, but like, you see what he does, right?
If he was like, yeah, I'll split, buy.
Like, why does that matter?
Like, I would do it.
It's a thing because he asked me to date.
I'm a woman.
I would split it, but I wouldn't talk to him.
Exactly.
I was just raised very like chivalry sort of thing.
Like, a guy should open the door.
A guy should pay your food.
A guy should be the provider.
Question.
Should women be virgins?
I mean, ideally, yeah.
Ideally.
Interesting.
Chivalry only applies to men.
No, no, no, no.
It doesn't.
Look, I mean, it does.
It does.
Because chivalry for women is like fainting.
Chivalry for women.
Chivalry.
It's different for women.
That's a chivalry for women to be like when you get married.
That's how you should be able to keep a home.
Exactly.
But like, I don't know.
Ideally, in my situation, the man would be the breadwinner and I'd be a stay-at-home mom.
And fuck someone.
And it's great.
And that's what the chivalry part is for me.
Like, I would be taking care of the kids, taking care of the house while you're opening the door for me.
And that's like me using the virgin thing.
That's an extreme example.
But it's sort of reflective of a more broader reflective of the fact that women, generally speaking, are not particularly traditional.
Yeah.
Not all women.
Not all women have taken like a terrible turn, though.
Like as of late.
As of late, like this body count thing and just like guys spilling their seed everywhere, like not caring, like retain that.
Like that shit makes babies.
It can create babies.
Do you know what else it could create if you were to hold on to that energy?
Like that shit's wild.
Like that thing makes you successful.
That makes you a high-value male.
Like retain it.
I can focus your energy.
But this whole like girls are clouting.
And girls thinking that they need to wait around.
Like I do agree wholeheartedly with like when you talk about guys aren't going to want to marry you if you're on OnlyFans.
Like, duh.
Like, because you've been put out there.
You've been all over the place.
And then they're like, oh, then I'll find my night and shining on you.
Like, that doesn't even matter.
Just to bring it back to the whole dating or who should pay topic, it's also a holdover from decades past where, you know, women were not participating in the workforce at the same level as men.
They were not earning as much as men.
That's gone now.
So you have, for example, and actually Yesenia, right?
I recall something in your pre-show notes.
In fact, I can pull it up.
Wait, is it?
Yeah, it's Yesenia.
You said that just the whole not enough manly men and 50-50 mentality, I believe in the 100-100 mentality.
He 100% works and I 100% don't.
You want to be a stay-at-home mom or a stay-at-home wife/slash mom and cooking clean.
And I think you did you have anything in here about oh, I think it's sad and hard.
I personally like the idea of no, no, no, that's something else.
But I assume you want a guy to pay for the first date, correct?
Yeah.
But you're a travel nurse, correct?
You make over six figures a year, correct?
Most travel nurses make over six figures a year.
I haven't done my taxes yet, but I don't know if I would hit that right now.
Are you an RM?
Because I just started.
Are you an RN?
So I've been doing it for all the time.
Okay, well, you just started.
Well, okay, if you were to extrapolate your earnings for you, you've been doing travel nursing for six months.
Oh, yes.
If you were to extrapolate that out to a year, do you think it would be over six figures?
So, yeah, the whole who should pay thing, again, it stems from women weren't really participating in the workforce and really making money, but that's gone now.
Like, you make six figures a year.
She needs to make sure she's not going to be supporting some random dude.
I make over six figures a year as well, and I think that it's more the gesture of the intention behind paying.
It's not the incapability.
It's measuring where do we align in our values and what does our future look like together collectively.
I agree with what you're saying, and I think that feminism has single-handedly destroyed the family unit in America, modern feminism.
And so, you know, but that being said, the women that are traditional, the same way that you have articulated, that if you vetted a woman and asked her on a date that you anticipate to pay for that date, it would be reciprocated the other way around, correct?
Mm-hmm.
Wait, what?
Yeah, it would be mutually reciprocated.
I think Q got it.
You understood what I said.
It would be reciprocated that if you had asked someone on a date and you vetted them with what you know about them thus far, your values align with what you know about them so far, then we're assuming you're going to pay for the date.
Does that mean that it is not courteous of her or to offer to pay?
Is that what you're saying?
Or to not offer to pay, rather?
No, I don't have an issue with her offering.
I don't have an issue with her offering.
And if she's in fact a traditional woman and I've pre-vetted her, as is something I do now, it's not something I always employed, then absolutely, yes, I'm going to pay for the date.
So you want a traditional woman, just to be clear.
Yes.
Would you be offended if a woman's awful?
I'll get to you in just a sec.
So five minutes ago, I requested that you scoot your microphone to the edge of the table.
I'm sorry.
Please.
I don't know if we need to super glue that motherfucker down.
Just squeeze if they can scoot over a little bit.
No, they're good where they are.
You're fine.
Okay.
I don't see how that's at all related to the microphone.
So please scoot it to the very edge of the table.
Thank you.
Go ahead, please.
So if you were on a date with a woman, let's say it was a traditional woman who you had vetted, would you at all feel offended if, come bill time, she went out and put her card down, or would that be like a oh sweet, I wouldn't be offended, I mean so long as she didn't view it in like she's like yo, what the fuck.
But I like it when, when girls simp, you want to pay for everything.
Okay, I find um simp in other ways.
I find with with my life, like I grew up very poor and I'm grateful to be where I am today.
But you know, when I first started dating it like the amount of times that it would be like both of us trying to like get the money for it.
Or you know, eventually I too, like I've been in relationships where I've far exceeded the wages that the person I was with had, and I've been where it's been pretty equal and also where I've been below.
And so I find that when it comes to paying for a first date, I have this.
I just have a really different attitude when it comes to money and and I just I think it's interesting because it's something I hear on this show a lot, and it's interesting to hear people's conversations saying, you know, automatically the man has to pay and it's like well, what if you're with a man who can't afford it?
Or what if you want to help out at one point or another?
What if that's your setup?
It depends on who's your guy.
He should be focused on what his career then yeah, and I get where you're coming from, from being like I get that.
It's like I think like an old tape for me.
I don't know that's what I'm thinking.
Like an old tape.
Okay, he's acting like I'm like I have no idea, but like I get that.
Like the first part that you said why, but I think it just depends on yeah, what you just said, like he should be working on his career, but that's if you're okay with working and him being the same.
I wouldn't be, nah.
So on that same note though, you know you had said previously how you didn't have a job.
You're a full-time student, you just got out of a relationship.
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It's deemed disrespectful.
Dude, the current dating marketplace is a nightmare, guys.
I actually get a lot of messages like that of guys who are married or been in relationships for a long time.
And from both women and men, I hear from them, and they say, wow, I feel really lucky, glad to not be out there in the dating marketplace right now.
Who's this?
Married man.
Can I clarify a little bit about why I would say he needs to pay first?
So I do travel nursing right now, but I don't, in the next month or two, I don't plan on doing it.
So it was for a certain season so that I can get into the financial position so I don't burden my husband when I do marry him.
Sure.
And also, I don't date, so I don't go on like random dates.
I do more of like courtship.
So for me, it's to see if the man can provide for a family as, you know, one day I want to stay home with kids, raise them, homeschool, things like that.
I agree with you.
100%.
So that's my.
So yeah, it's more of a traditional.
And that's why I would say I'm traditional because we both agree with her, right?
Yeah.
Sorry, we both agree with her.
So that's why we put traditional, but whatever.
But I also don't work.
So I just kind of.
Wait, but so I want to go back to something that you said.
I think it was in response to her.
You said that, well, if he's not making X amount of money, then he should.
Or I'll know exactly how you framed it.
I think you just get, I just meant that if he is not financially ready to be taking women on dates, why are you getting yourself into the position to be taking?
I have a question for you.
So you're 18, right?
Yes.
But so, I mean, what?
I said old enough.
Marriage.
That's a total non-sequitur.
totally unrelated to the conversation can you not like insert these non sequiturs that are totally unrelated to the let me push this back for a second so i could just yeah push what back This right here.
No, you got to pull it out.
No, but that doesn't talk.
They don't want to talk.
You can't hear me.
I'm sorry.
Okay.
So, but I imagine you're probably like the guys you're interested in are probably 18, 19, 20, 21.
They're in college.
I could be wrong.
Maybe you prefer older men, but you know, 18, 19, 20-year-old guys probably, you know, you hear the broke college kid, you know.
Should they not be dating because they're broke?
It depends on what you mean by dating.
Taking them on dates, no.
Not if it's an expensive restaurant.
Also, do you feel that way towards people who have lower income that they just shouldn't be allowed to go on?
I never said they're not allowed.
I never said they're not allowed.
I don't know the exact framing, but it seems like you shouldn't be going on dates if what?
If you are not financially ready to take a woman on a date, she said the career focused on the agenda.
Okay, if you're a broke college student and you, then no, yes, you're not allowed.
If you want to put it that way, you're not allowed to do that.
Are you not allowed the way that you put it?
Well, you're a broke.
Well, I'll enough if you're broke, but you're a college student.
Are you aversion?
I just have a question.
I'm literally just not even.
Okay, sorry.
How is that?
Because I was going to say, guys want most of the time.
And so it's like, why?
It's like, I don't know.
That's where I was taking this.
I know you guys are all super traditional, but like, my apparently.
Okay, derailed, cool.
So, sorry.
The college student being having enough money to date.
That line, that train.
Go ahead, continue with your.
Okay.
Broke college students should not be taking women on dates.
Honestly, if you want to take me to the beach and you're a bro, go ahead.
That's a nice date.
Sure.
Would you be disappointed by that date?
No, absolutely not.
Okay.
Honestly, to me, like personally, if you're a cool guy and you have a great personality, nothing else matters.
Looks, I mean, I kind of need you to look good a little bit or I can't.
But if you're physically attractive.
That's just how I feel about it.
So, I mean, do you guys live in Miami?
No, Orlando area.
Yeah.
Or Orlando.
So, like, what would a first date look like one that's paid?
How much should a guy pay for that for a first date?
For a first date?
It depends on the guy.
Like, on me?
It depends on what you're doing.
How much do you think you should pay for that?
Well, okay, I went on a first date.
Chick-fil-A.
Do you like Chick-fil-A?
Oh, like, like, six bucks.
I would have to go.
We're not 12.
I eat a pigeon.
I don't know.
I forgot.
Is Chick-fil-A or Cheesecake Factory?
Is that a check-in?
I would accept it.
No, Hold on.
Stop.
Go ahead.
No, it is not.
If you want to take me on it.
Wait, Cheesecake Factory?
They have everything.
Okay.
All right.
It's the Lord's Chicken.
Chick-fil-A.
I'll go there myself.
Don't worry about it.
I'm curious.
I have a question.
You said, speaking to his ability to provide, paying on a first date, I'm curious to know if paying on a first date is what you use as a metric of his ability to be the breadwinner.
How did y'all come to that conclusion?
Because a guy can pay on the first date and ultimately not end up being the breadwinner.
So why is that the metric that y'all use to determine if he's...
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Yeah, thank you, Cheeks.
The traditional woman equals virgin, under 25, non-argumentative, modest, pretty without makeup and without plastic, not thirsting online.
Good to see you, man.
If you don't meet these requirements, you are not traditional at all.
Womp womp.
I don't know where this is.
Thank you.
Super-based.
Appreciate it, man.
You had a question for me.
So that's what I was saying.
Like, how is that the metric that y'all use to determine if a guy can be the breadwinner?
Because also, things might not work out.
He just paid for the first date and y'all didn't progress into anything.
And then on top of that, what if you get in a relationship with him and he loses a job or he faces a financially hard time?
That's why it's through thickness and or through whatever.
What is it?
Richer and poor.
Yeah, you just.
But what I'm saying is that that gateway, you're saying, I want a man to pay on the first date because I want a man to be the provider.
Yeah.
To prove that he's the provider.
But like also.
That doesn't prove that he's the provider.
That just proves that he's willing to pay for you on the first date because he likes to.
If it's Cheesecake Factory providing me a full tummy and I don't have to pay for it, that's you providing.
Provider.
That doesn't prove he's going to be a provider.
But it's like a shot first date.
I get that.
But if you're saying that that's what the gate, like that's the entryway to it, it could go all kinds of ways.
Oh, but you're going to stick it out if you're like in it.
If you're like.
I also, I really want to add here, you know, both of you are taking a stance of, oh, we want the man to be the provider, right?
But you're also both in college or university.
You're not in college.
No, I'm referring to you two.
Sorry.
Yes.
You're both in college and university.
You're even you, actually.
You have a well-paying job by the sounds of it.
So you want your man to be a provider, but you're also expecting him to be a provider while not having the time to give him what would be there in return.
I didn't say that.
I didn't say you did.
I'm saying that you're going to school because you want to provide for yourself, yet you would be upset if a man took you to Chick-fil-A for a date.
No.
She would be happy.
I would.
To prove that they are going to be the provider, if that's what I'm like, you think I'm saying, if you take me to Chick-fil-A, that's not proving you're going to be a provider, right?
I mean, it could be.
Yeah, no, no, definitely not.
No, I feel like she's agreed.
Definitely.
Why does cheesecake done?
Why does provision?
Why is provision exclusively financial?
From my perspective, I make more than my husband.
I can say that.
He loves me.
I'll be forgiven for that.
It's so many questions.
I don't know why.
He provides a lot more for me than just being that financial fortitude.
He is salaried.
I am commission-only, so there's definitely stability in what he has to offer.
But provisions mean significantly more to me and my faith than can you pay the bills.
Yeah, 100%.
All right, I was going to say that.
That's why I say, like, I don't go on just dates, just random dates.
So it's hard for me to say it, but like, yeah, it shows more, not just financial, but when I say provide, it's like protection, be the leader of the home, things like that.
So I see that it's more of like a mindset than an amount of money.
Exactly.
That was beautifully said.
Yes.
Praise God.
Truly.
Praise God.
Praise God.
I think, as a woman, though, like, as her career, not me, as a woman.
As a woman's career progresses, as she inevitably gets older and she's more capable of just providing for herself, certainly it occurs to me under those circumstances, aside from tradition, it occurs to me that she should also pay for herself on a date as her money increases.
Because like for me, for example, if I'm dating a woman who's 34, say she's also 34 and she's an attorney or whatever, she's, you know, whatever she is, she makes six figures a year.
And why am I going to pay for the first date?
She'll school you in other ways.
Probably for Christmas.
First of all, why?
Okay.
You make six figures a year, you're an attorney.
I'm not going to pay for the first date.
I think whoever asks should pay.
And then on top of that, it can flip-flop all the time.
Like you can find a girl, she should pay.
She'll take you on vacation.
How many first dates end up at the second date?
Wait, I'm not sure.
How many first dates do you go on that?
Every first date that I've ever been on has led to a second date.
Oh, how many dates have you been on?
You've been three.
She's traditional AF.
That's the first thing.
Okay, please scoot your mic to the edge.
Scoot it that way.
That way.
Yep.
All right.
So, yeah.
Wait, does Culver's favorite?
Like, if I were dating like a 21-year-old.
Culver's.
What is that?
You don't know what Culver's is?
No, what's that?
Oh, my goodness.
It's like good times.
And then it's very overrated.
I'm going to read a couple chats here.
We have Shannon Lacey.
As a man, I see men know how to treat women and women know what to expect from men.
But the problem is, most women don't know how to treat a man.
I wasn't going to say anything.
I just wanted to be close.
And men do not know what to expect from women thoughts.
Dude, dude, dude, what is wrong with you?
Oh, nothing.
Like, here, here's the thing, right?
Literally, I'm getting punered that, like, this isn't close, this isn't far.
Like, I always say, what you think is kind of irrelevant here.
We told you before the show, we placed it in exactly the position.
If a man has his own car, his own house, and a great career, what do you broke pretty girls have to offer at all?
You ladies need to drop out of school and find Jesus.
How many of you talk to your dads?
Okay, just show of hands.
How many of you talk to your dads?
Every single day.
Thank you, Biden Chief.
I have another TTS that's coming in here right now.
Hold on.
It's going to come out of there for a sec.
Thank you, man.
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OMG, this chick is such a scatterbrain lol.
This is going to be such a long episode.
I'm hitting you.
Better get the rocks ready.
It's one thing if you do it once, and I will kind of politely instruct you with the microphone.
But I've told you at least seven times to adjust your microphone.
We put it there intentionally, and I'll tell the chat why.
So a lot of women will have the, they'll do this.
They'll start face blocking with the microphone.
We want to see, be able to see your face and your mouth, like, etc.
I see that.
Did you see that?
But I don't want to say anything because you said I hate it.
Okay, but the mic can remain precisely where it is.
You're right.
You're so right.
You don't need to move the mic.
You can just zip it.
Dr. Evil.
It is my biggest.
Zip it good.
No, literally, my husband.
It's my biggest, right?
I know.
I'm working on it.
Okay.
Thanks.
Sorry.
Okay.
So do me a favor.
That microphone is lava.
You don't touch it for the rest of the show.
Is this good?
Yes.
It stays there.
You touch it again.
How much cash do you have on you?
$10, but I have wrong.
I get the $10 cash if you touch it again.
And then you go.
And then you go in debt to me.
You're going to go in debt to me.
And then I'm going to.
By the end of the show.
Okay.
Just lean forward or lean back.
Lean back.
Most people, after I correct them once, they leave it, but you don't have to do it.
That's not most people.
I told you our second.
Second one.
I'm so sorry.
All right, let me read this chat.
Shannon Lacey, I think I read half of it.
How to treat a man and men do not know what to expect from women thoughts.
I mean, one thing growing up, we often hear parents will tell their children, this is how you treat a woman, but we don't often say that about this is how you should treat a man.
Yeah, we do.
We never say that.
We never, you know.
I just figured it out.
Yes, we do.
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My foreign wife considers a date to Cheesecake Factory to be a low-scale.
Maya Mary Bros don't fall for these Amerihos.
Yeah, she's from Russia.
I consider Cheesecake.
Are you a passport?
Foreign wife, where, dude?
Latin America, Asia, where?
Where is she from?
Eastern Europe, tell us.
All right, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Oh, wait.
Cheesecake factories.
Here, wait.
I don't want to ignore Shannon Lacey's question here.
Men know how to treat women and women know what to expect from men, but the problem is most women don't know how to treat a man and men do not know what to expect from women.
That's a fantastic point.
It is.
Thoughts from the past.
Thoughts from the past.
Some women don't know how to treat men.
Others were raised to know how.
Also, sometimes it's just intuition, and it's like, oh, never mind.
Okay.
Anybody else on this?
I think that I want to hear what you have to say on this too.
But being able to treat a man well and being taught what that looks like stems from having a moral compass.
Moral compass collectively is typically established from religious beliefs, regardless of what those are.
And there was a recent study done by a book called Faithfully Different.
Her name is Natasha Crane.
And she identified, was able to identify through other studies as well that 79% of Americans still check the Christian box in the tolls that you fill out and those surveys.
But when it really boils down to it, only 7% of Americans actually hold a biblical worldview, meaning that you believe that the Bible is the inspired, living, breathing word of God.
And that is why we have an overwhelming amount of people that don't know how to treat men correctly and vice versa.
It's not mutually exclusive, but women don't know how to treat men and men don't know how to treat women.
I still think it stems from the toxic culture that exists within modern feminism.
Did I read this one?
That's methed up.
I've shown you.
And I was like, wait, what?
Oh, me?
Ha ha.
Okay.
All right.
We have another chat here from Venom Lawson.
Bro, kick that crackhead off the show, bro.
She's way too disrespectful and acting like a childish bitch or something.
Also, rate my Instagram.
Venom.
So to do an Instagram rate, the Streamlabs trigger is 500 total.
500 total.
You guys are.
Typically, we do it.
It has to be like one TTS, too.
So, yeah.
All right.
We have Venom.
Oh, he came in again.
Venom Lawson, bro.
Kick the crackhead off the show.
She's annoying the hell out of me.
Give.
I mean, literally, do I?
Are the cops coming that bro?
Yeah, the cops are coming for you.
Like that type?
Okay.
You had cops come here?
Yeah.
What?
Okay.
Okay.
We have a TTS that's about to come in, so I'm just preempting that.
We got two backgrounds.
I'm so glad I'm not dating.
Donated $100.
I left, had dinner with my family, came back.
This lady is still blabbering on.
I can't wait to look back and see what I missed.
Her husband needs noise-cancelling headphones and a ball gag for sanity.
Dude, my husband's so dope.
Wait till you slash C meet him.
I'm so glad I'm not dating.
Hey, thank you for the TTS.
You know, that does, your TTS does bring to mind a Bible verse, Proverbs 2015.com.
Have you ever thought how your children might feel someday or what they might think about the lifestyle you've chosen with making sure that you're going to be able to do it?
I knew this was coming.
Do you knew it was coming?
Do you know I knew this was coming?
Do you want to respond to it?
Sure.
I mean, unless you want to, should I be, it depends on what you guys want.
You've already just wasted five seconds.
You could have just gone ahead and answered it instead of done a meta-analysis of, well, should I should just go ahead.
I'm sorry.
You know what?
Let me just be honest and authentic right now.
I feel like I. Is this another meta conversation?
Dude, I'm being honest and authentic.
Okay, go ahead.
To the point where the reason why I just did that is because, like, if people really want, I don't really watch, I'm not very familiar with this podcast.
So if people want me kicked off, like, kick me off.
I don't really think, I feel like I'm bringing someone to the moment.
I don't take all of them personally, though.
Okay.
Like, I just got, like, I'm just like, okay.
Anyways.
My kids are the coolest kids.
Shaking your hands.
It's like, my kids are so cool.
They have, everybody just said they, their parents are divorced, right?
They have two loving parents, right?
Like, I didn't.
I don't know.
You guys, like, what?
And then also, on top of that, they are creating art out of passion.
We love each other so much.
On top of that, first of all, how I feel, like, what's I think it's going to get different when they're in their teenage years.
I think it, for me, my kids are like, all right.
I was like prepped for this question, but it's got, it's been so long and I feel so like exhausting.
It's like, I'm over again.
Will you answer for me?
Answer for me, please.
I love you.
What?
Do you know the way?
Go look at this girl.
Wait, what?
Oh, you gotta use the bathroom.
Okay.
All right.
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Let me get into more of my pre-show notes here.
So, actually, you know what?
Before, oh, I'll wait till she's back from before I get into that question.
But let's see here.
We did ask in Jacqueline.
You were dating a guy, went to a club thinking everything was going well.
Wait, do you want to tell us the story?
I'm just trying to prompt you here.
I prefer, yeah, yeah.
So, I was in a relationship for about two months at this time, and like first glance, hottest man ever seen, like, so unbelievably attractive.
That's really what reeled me in.
Started dating him.
Two months go by.
We're in a club having a great time.
And he's literally eye-fucking this girl right in front of me.
And so, I'm like, okay, this is flirting to me, and that is cheating.
That's cheating to me.
You're gonna eye whatever, a girl right in front of me.
So, then we get back to the house.
I'm like, I don't want to date you anymore.
Like, I just feel disrespected.
I feel embarrassed.
And then he self-harms himself right in front of me.
I'm not going to go into details about that.
That's happened to you, bro.
Same.
But it just, I don't know.
It made me feel bad for him.
So then we dated for a long time after that.
Oh, my God.
Manipulation.
You said you had a huge panic attack when you said you didn't want to be with him.
Is that correct?
Like, huge panic attack, as in he was rolling around on the floor, crying.
I hope he sees this.
Be embarrassed, please.
Wait, how old were you?
You were, was this recently?
Yeah.
So you were 18, and how old was he?
18.
And I want to kill myself.
He was 18.
Yeah.
And you guys were dating for two months?
At that time.
Yeah.
At the time that that happened.
Yeah, but you said you dated him for a little longer.
But after that, and were you guys friends before that, or just you've only knew each other for basically two months?
I mean, no, yeah, we were friends before that for a few months, like three months, I'd say.
Like, so you knew him for three months total, or you were friends with him for three months, then dated him for three months?
Yeah, I well, actually, no, I knew him for like six months before that.
We started talking, talking stage at three months, started dating, and then two months after we started dating, that happened.
Like, who made the first move?
Was it him or you?
Her.
He sounds like a pun.
I don't know.
I'm making it up.
I don't know.
I think I did.
I know what you.
I called it.
If you're going to go kill yourself, I was like, bro, that's cute.
I'd like to hear you weigh on this, but like, my perspective, you've only first off rolling around crying on the floor, even if she you've been dating this woman for 10 years.
That's pathetic.
Two months is ultra.
I hope he hears this manipulation.
I hate him.
I actually don't know if I'm just fucking cold-hearted as fuck, but if I've been dating a girl for three years and she breaks up with me, this is my reaction.
Just like straight-faced cool.
You've obviously never had Al Spatiser, though.
Cap.
See you later.
Cap.
I swear to God.
I'm literally calling Cap there.
I'm not Cap too.
I really need at least asking.
I actually would ask why.
I think you had one or two seconds.
You have a conversation.
It's not bad, but the rest, I believe.
No, because here's my view, right?
And this cuts, this like, and I'll tell women this, but it prevents, because some women will do this manipulation, and men do this too.
So I'm not trying to like paint women as these.
Women are the worst.
Okay.
No, that sounds bad.
People using breaks, like fake breakups as leverage to try to get you to change a behavior.
So I don't think you ever like you can have conversations if there's conflict or issues, but the moment the word, I oh, if you don't do this, we're gonna break up.
Now, that may very well be a real ultimatum.
But if you don't actually mean it, and a lot of people don't, I never think you use a potential threat of a breakup as an ultimatum.
It's not what she said.
But oftentimes, no, I know.
But like, the reason why, like, I don't recommend a lot of people will use a breakup as a pretext to get leverage from men.
Oh, okay, let's break up.
But they don't mean it.
So then when you're like, okay, we're broken up now.
Oh, no, babe.
And I will say.
I'm a captain, you all lieutenant donated $100.
Thank you, brother.
Congrats, Brian, on the worst guest you've ever had on the show.
Why are you entertaining this nonsense?
Get rid of her, please.
Anyway, shout out to Q ladies.
Name three countries besides USA and Mexico.
Look, you know, I try not to kick people off the show, even if they give me aneurysms.
You know, I try to be, you know, I try to give people a bit of leeway.
Maybe that's a fault of mine, but you know, we still got a couple, we got at least three hours left of the show, so it's a lot of time.
Canada could happen.
Africa, New Zealand, and England.
I don't even know.
Africa is a good thing.
They said the name three countries.
Africa is not a continent.
Oh, Africa is not a country.
That's the continent.
Starting with you, and then we'll go around the table.
Go ahead.
Countries?
Three countries.
Go.
Besides the USA.
Go.
You got this.
Oh, my God.
No, I don't.
Geography is literally not my saying, but you can do it.
I said Africa was a country, bro.
France, Germany.
Starting over here.
Germany, France, and Sicily.
Zimbabwe.
Zimbabwe.
Zimbabwe, Canada, and Russia.
Oh, no, that's the continent.
And St. Petersburg.
Oh, wait, that's not a country.
Okay, you're right, bro.
Thanks for the hundreds.
No, no, no, hold on.
You've moved the mic once again.
Don't clap directly in front of the mic.
Don't touch the country.
No, no, no.
But see, you've moved the microphone.
So kindly pull it back.
See, I'm going to be sassy right now.
No, do it.
Pull it back to where it ought to be.
Thank you.
Okay, great.
Okay.
You bang on the table.
You're fucking clapping into the microphone.
You're fucking bleeding my audience's ear.
Kindly don't fucking clap.
I'm so sorry.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Three countries.
Estonia, Lithuania, Mauritius.
That was good.
Canada.
You're doing great.
Syria.
I don't know.
You got this.
What's south of us?
What country is this?
Mexico?
South America.
He said no, Mexico.
South Africa.
Yeah, I'll say this comic.
All right.
Let's go here.
Portugal, Spain, Italy.
No, before that.
There's so many.
I'll say Uruguay, Australia, Uganda.
Australia is a country?
Yeah, Iraq, Portugal, Venezuela.
Okay.
I was going to go to.
Oh, go ahead.
Okay, okay.
Let's go.
Turkmenistan, Jordan, Madagascar.
All right.
All right.
There we go.
Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan, and did anyone say Lithuania there?
Yeah, we got it.
I got it.
Oh, we got Lithuania.
Let's do Lichtenstein.
Lichtenstein?
That sounds like that.
I don't know how to pronounce it.
You made that up.
All right, we have Rex.
My wife is Brazilian.
She cooks homemade meals almost every day.
Skinny, huge ass.
She has blonde hair and blue eyes.
No kids from some sort of previous arrangement.
Go to Southern Brazil, my guys.
Thanks for the 50 bucks.
I don't understand it.
Listen, Rex.
Was she a virgin?
Look at this.
This is great.
It's like, you know, it's like the mom to, you know, like the disruptive.
You have a handler.
Yeah, yeah.
You have a handler for sure.
All right.
I'm not her handler.
Honestly, dude, I heard some things like you step off the plane in Sao Paulo.
Or is it Rio?
Wait, Sao Paulo?
There's an airplane if you're an airplane plan.
Sao Paulo, that's in Brazil too, right?
And then Rio.
Rio de Rio de Janeiro.
Bro, you step off the plane.
Don't you?
Isn't it?
You get robbed, dude.
Isn't it the case?
You just get robbed?
I just got back from Colombia.
Can confirm there's a lot of that there, especially for white men that are tourists.
Especially Americans.
Brazil, too.
Yes.
Brian's the number one.
That's why, boys, if you're a passport, bro, stick to Thailand.
Go to an Asian country, you know?
Oh, is that racist?
China's a country.
No, but it's kind of...
Yes, China's a country.
It's not racist, but it's just creepy.
Why is it?
Wait, what?
Why is that creepy?
It's not, dude.
Neck blue.
Kick me off.
I don't even see these comments.
Like, where are they?
Yeah, you're very lucky that we don't have the actual stream here.
Yep.
All right.
Oh, okay, that's something else.
Where were we?
We were going, I don't know, where we were going around the table.
We was talking about her.
Yeah, we were talking about her boyfriend or the guy she was dating rolling around on the floor.
Oh, that's rice.
And I think you had something, but the TTS came up if you wanted to.
Yeah, because why did you get back when you said you felt sorry for him?
Yeah, I did feel sorry for him.
And the actions that he took after I brought it up to him made me, not made me, but I kind of just fell into it.
Like, I was just like, oh, it's a minute.
So you didn't want him to hurt himself again.
Well, definitely not.
No, absolutely not.
I don't know if it takes me a long time to fall in love, but like, I don't care how amazing the girl is.
Two months.
I don't care how fucking great she is.
If you've only been dating somebody for two months, there's absolutely no fucking excuse to be crying.
I'm screwing.
I don't even care if you've been dating.
Again, if you've been dating a girl for two years.
Not.
I feel like it should never go to self.
Well, as a woman, like you should be.
She's a lot of younger.
No, no, I'm just saying.
Yeah, but you said you said he's 18 too, right?
Right.
Yeah, I mean, young men do a lot of stupid shit when it comes to women.
And there's a lot of things.
Yeah, there's a lot of things they have to learn.
That comes with, you know, post-traumatic growth.
It also comes with a raise, yeah.
Yeah, being able to withstand a woman leaving is something that a lot of men need to learn.
Rejection, it hurts, but there's plenty of women.
The world is full of women.
There's always another woman.
Did you see that video?
I'm trying to remember.
It was this guy, and it was very, I felt bad for the guy.
It sounded like it was a young guy.
He must have been 18, 19.
It was this video.
I think it went viral a couple months ago.
I think he was recording it.
It was from his perspective.
He was balling.
And again, I'm not making fun of him.
I felt bad for the guy.
Balling in his car.
And he was so upset.
He was driving radically and drove into a mall opening.
I did not see that.
Yeah.
And it's like, yo, like, I feel bad for the guy.
Feel bad for the guy, but you can never let yourself get there over a woman.
That's why they should be paying for you.
You never fucking, guys, don't.
Especially when you put yourself in the position.
But that's how many men are.
Like, you just, now you've got like, this guy goes on.
You've killed some people on the ground.
Wait, so you said he's rolling around on the ground?
Like, when I tell you, I am not making this shit up.
Like, rolling around, crying.
And I was standing there and I wasn't like phased because I was like, dude, like, you just did all that stuff in front of me at the club.
Like, we're going to go back.
And I'm telling you, I feel disrespected.
I don't want to be with you.
Like, I was expecting a, oh, I understand.
No.
Hysterical fit.
It was so embarrassing for him.
But yeah, rolling around.
Not the girl.
I don't even.
Why did they all go to a club together?
Yeah, that's that.
I was like, I saw you get in, aren't you?
She's too young.
So how did we get?
But you see what she experienced.
Grid One Motorsport donated $100.
Brian, I come to you, crawling on my hands and knees with tears in my eyes to beg of you, kind sir.
Please, Frank Castle, the meth head.
The entire world thanks you for your consideration.
Be well.
I want to come around.
I want to know stats on how much tips we've made opposed to other shows.
I'm just going to lose.
Where are you going?
Cute, I liked that colour.
Oh, Grid One.
She kicked herself off, I guess.
Octopus Tetro donated my mother.
Go ahead, go use the bathroom.
I think the majority of men without a good upbringing should hold off until they are 25.
I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro Train.
But I'm down to find an American when I have the nuds to ask.
I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro Train, but I'm down to find it.
You know, there's Americans, you know, and there's some great women in America.
But, Nick, if you can pull up the bow video, if you want a bow, if you want a bow, probably can't, you're not going to get it in America.
If you're not doing this before, you can play it.
Yeah, boom.
Oh, Japanese woman.
Yes.
Yeah, look at the bow.
Did you see the bow?
I'm a girl.
That's traditional.
Yeah, they do that anyway.
I want a woman.
I walk in.
I've had a long podcast.
I get home.
Imagine, this is, this is, this would, that's actually my girlfriend.
That's my apartment.
Just saying.
And she, look at right, look at how great she is.
She's got food ready.
Ryan's the type of guy.
Look, she's, I don't need her to stir my noodles.
I'm good.
But I mean, if she really, it's great.
And then look, play one more time.
Let's just see the bow again.
Yeah, just hit that play.
Yeah, there you go.
Oh, boom.
Huge.
I'll not bow at all again.
See, I want a girl.
You wouldn't bow?
No, because that's not my sister.
No, please.
She wants you so bad.
I want you so bad, Brian.
Out you go.
What?
I'm just, that's not part of my culture, so I wouldn't do that.
What if you were in a relationship where that was a part of your culture?
Oh, well, then, yeah, I have to say that.
Yes, it is part of my culture.
Well, there you go.
It's part of my culture to have my girlfriend.
Let me see.
Stand up.
Let's see about.
There you go.
I think, here.
Cross your, put your hands.
Yeah.
Ah, yes.
No, no, no.
Perfect.
Okay, let's see it again.
A little deeper.
That was disrespectful.
Woo!
Good job.
Beautiful.
Good job.
No, no, I'm just kidding.
Wow.
Sorry, that was a joke.
Actually, don't make that phase.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
There's a good bow.
There's a good bow.
I shared a video where there is two contrasting weddings, and in the second one, the lady bowed.
She was bowing when she gave her vows.
And I thought, I mean, I thought that was beautiful.
But you know what?
Culture is very beautiful.
I love seeing culture.
Would you bow if a guy wanted you to bow to him?
Yeah, sure.
I'll bow.
For you.
Uh-oh.
She's kind of working on your boyfriend.
Literally nobody.
Are you trying to take my man?
Sorry.
Girl code.
I would never bow for another man.
Well, I just did.
Besides me, I'm sorry.
So I did.
I don't see a situation in which I would, but.
Should we see a bow?
Okay, do a bow.
Go ahead.
Oh, my God.
Don't do it.
Don't do it.
Okay.
Are you here?
Yeah, go ahead.
Let's see it.
Why did you bow to her?
Bow to me.
I'm sorry.
Sorry.
I'm sorry.
Oh, my goodness.
Rude.
That's still kind of.
That was towards me.
That was towards me.
You gotta bow to Brian.
That was definitely towards me.
All right, last one.
Because I don't want to bang my noggin on this thing.
Okay.
You're up to the next one.
Oh, the eye contact.
One more time.
All right, good job.
Four.
I know what you should be doing.
I know exactly what you were doing.
What are you talking about?
It's a battle of the death between these two.
Okay, all right.
What did I tell you?
What did I tell you before the show?
Yeah, it's probably an act, but okay.
It's not.
Wait, so okay, going back to the story, this guy, I know, Q, you had some stuff on this, I think, right?
Yeah, I asked her, why did they both go to the club?
Oh, okay.
Well, we're 18-year-olds trying to have fun.
We partake in alcohol drinking.
You never went to the club?
No problem.
I do not.
But you never went to the club when you were younger?
When I went to the club once.
Only once.
Nothing positive came from it.
And I went with my girlfriend at the time.
And I ended up almost getting in a fight with a dude who disrespected her.
Yeah, no, it is not smart to go to the club with your significant other or if you have one.
Or at all.
Which I have learned now.
There's nothing to do.
That's answer all your friends.
I did not know who liked to dance, actually.
I love dancing.
Here's some advice for any man, but especially young men.
You know, maybe your girlfriend, oh, you should go to the club.
Maybe it's your idea.
Gentlemen, don't, first off, you shouldn't go to the club, period.
I don't care if you're single, got a girlfriend, you go with her, you go without her.
I don't think you should be going to nightclubs and bars to begin with.
But I don't, what's the point of, if you've got a girlfriend.
What's the point of going to the club?
You're good.
Just stay home.
Watch Netflix, be a couple.
And if all of your friends are in the club, then you need to outgrow those friends.
We just grew into the age where we can go to the club.
How are we going to outgrow it already?
Well, didn't you say that you date exclusively for marriage?
Well, yeah.
But I'm not dating right now.
No one I can meet.
Well, it's not exclusive.
It's just in hopes.
Well, I guess I look for a husband and a boyfriend.
Sorry, I don't mean to play this card, but I'm genuinely unfamiliar.
So you, I didn't know that Americans couldn't go to, I thought you had to wait till you were 21.
To drink.
To drink.
But you can go to the club?
There's 18 plus clubs, yeah.
There's all these things.
Hollywood ladies did not teach us that.
We're going to go around the table here.
Steven Stiffler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10.
Oh, we already did this.
This is looks.
Rate your looks on the scale of one to 10.
Go ahead.
Absolute 10.
I'm walking out.
I'm just kidding.
I'll do a solid.
Okay, so I was a fat kid, so I'm going to do in my head, I'll say, I'll say seven, but 10, dude.
Come on.
I look better than I did when I was a kid.
So 10.
10.
Okay.
I don't know.
Like seven or eight.
Okay.
I'd give myself an eight or a ten or a ten.
I say probably people think I'm probably an eight, but I think I'm a 10.
Could you just scoot your mic that way a bit?
I think I'm perfect.
Perfect.
Okay, so 10?
Yeah, probably, yeah.
For myself, myself rating myself.
I would say that I look like a mixture of Fiona Shrek version and Steve Buscemi without makeup on, so probably like a six with makeup on, maybe a 6.5.
Okay.
6.5?
I say a 5.
That's sad.
Okay.
A 5.
Yeah, I'm like, physical looks-wise, 5.6.
6.5.
Damn.
Wrong.
I agree.
Wrong.
Wrong.
I give myself a 5.
Wrong.
No, higher.
Y'all are attractive.
So much higher.
You have pretty colored eyes.
You have the face.
Got the numbers after.
You got the lips too.
Oh, I'm sorry.
I just obsessed with his lips.
Oh, I should have.
Okay.
Oh, he can get it.
Q is getting raised.
Yeah, I think I'm just like an average-looking white dude.
I don't think I'm.
You know, you're not.
Yeah, you're not.
I'm pretty.
I love this game you're playing though.
That's good acts.
Trying to be nonchalant.
10, 10, 7.5, 10.
Let's focus in on the tens a little bit here.
No offense to you guys, but there are no tens at this table.
Aww.
Personality activity.
Not you.
You two are attractive.
You're not tens, though.
That is.
I'm a 10.
Honestly, I will take that from you.
Attractive?
Attractive from Brian Atlas?
I'll take it.
I don't even know anything about him.
Fuck.
Hey, I'm not a trauma.
Okay?
I told you my trauma.
Your trauma?
Okay, I know this is.
I was a fat kid.
Okay.
So that's why I was like, okay, fine.
Seven, eight, whatever.
But like, can I ask why I'm not a 10?
Yeah, me too.
What's wrong with you?
If it's purely based, guys, the way I look, not what I wear, not the way I act, not the way I talk, not what I do in my free time.
Why am I not a 10?
I'm actually curious.
I want the chat to give you a rating, Nick.
Can you pull up the chat?
Be nice to me.
And guys, don't do like one.
Give her like a be a give.
Wait, actually, should I do?
No, we'll do it.
Give her like a rating.
Give her a reasonable.
Number one.
Seven, seven, five, eight, nine, ten.
Be fair rating, gentlemen.
Okay, exactly.
She's up there.
I see a lot of eights.
All these people are.
I think we're going to give you an according to the chat.
8.5.
I think we're going to give you an 8.
There's so many 10s, though, and 9.
9.
Maybe 7.5.
No, don't go lower than what you just gave her.
Wait, Nick, what's up?
Is everything cool?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, but it was 10, dude.
Slip or something.
Now she's 73.
And then rate our good friend.
Aspen.
I bowed for you, and you don't even know my name.
It happens a lot, obviously.
This hurts.
I don't even know this guy.
That's why you shouldn't bow for any man.
You're right.
I shouldn't have done it.
Hey, there's seven of you and one of me.
Wow, my ego.
Give her a rating, Aspen over.
Yeah, they're giving me a rating.
What are they giving her?
Be honest.
Dude, that's a good idea.
There's a wide range.
She got a 20.
I got a 20.
So what's the average look?
I think it's around, what, seven?
Yeah.
6.5?
6, 6, 3.
I think that was like a 7.
I think it's more of like a 7, 8.
7.
7?
Yeah.
I don't know.
I'm just saying mostly 7.
All right.
I'll take the 7.
And then for the last person the chat's going to rate.
Please don't let it be me.
Our dear friend Rosalind.
Chat.
Chat, kindly rate Rosalind.
And can you also tip, dude?
Cheapscapes.
Come on.
Give her.
Kindly give her a rating.
999999.
10.
Matt's first.
1,000.
10.
A meth out of meth rating, please.
Zero.
Okay, that girl has.
Two wrenches, you know.
I saw.
I'm giving the girls.
100.
Okay, bye.
Yeah.
I'll get kicked off.
She's hot.
Dude.
My personality, my content.
All together makes me a 20.
Good talk.
Good talk.
Can I say just a point, though, too?
It's funny because we take it to the chat, like, rate these girls, and all of the girls who rated themselves a 10 were like, What are they gonna say?
And to me, it's like if you are going to say, I'm a 10, I know there should be nothing in your being that would ever be affected by that if somebody said that you weren't a 10.
That doesn't change my opinion.
I just don't want to hear something saying I'm less valuable than I think I am.
But if you know that you're of a certain value and somebody says it to you, it should have no merit.
It doesn't have it, but it's still going to make me nervous knowing that people are going to regardless of how you feel about yourself.
Hundreds of comments saying you're ugly.
Hold on.
I'm sorry.
You thought the eights and nines said that?
No, no, no.
I'm just saying, for instance, if they are just a bad person.
I called myself Steve Boucemi.
Like, dude, that was six.
And that alone made you a 10 to me.
Do you understand?
No, I'm not a 10.
You got personality.
Yes, personality.
I have personality.
Beautiful eyes.
Oh, yeah.
We were talking about that.
What were you saying?
Oh, bringing it back to Jacqueline here.
Jacqueline, in your pre-show notes, you said a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10, and attractiveness is subjective.
There is a different beauty standard based on who you are asking.
I agree.
Okay, so let me ask you a question: Could any obese woman be a 10 out of 10?
Attractiveness?
Like, she's definitionally obese, but let's say who maybe she's got like a really pretty face, but she's obese.
Like, morbidly, morbidly obviously a 10.
Can a morbidly obese woman, let's say she's got a pretty face, whatever.
I'm just kidding.
Be a 10 out of 10.
Absolutely.
Yoke.
I disagree.
Okay.
Okay.
I absolutely disagree about whatever.
Beauty is subjective.
And the reason why they asked us three because we said we're 10 is because they want to rile this up.
What's it called?
The golden ratio.
Isn't that a thing?
How attractive you are in a mathematical equation?
Mathematic?
It does it with math?
Oh, yes.
That's how you determine somebody's attractive.
No, well, I don't know.
I don't say that on YouTube.
Ew.
Andrew Tate.
I'm sorry for the world.
Please don't listen to this.
I'm sorry for her.
I'll pray for her.
Is the volume at 100, Mike?
I hate Andrew Tate.
I don't know.
Okay.
I'm traumatized from Andrew Tate.
I had to watch this on the podcast.
Fuck off.
Oh, wait, the wrong side.
Okay, good talk.
So, do you think you said a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10?
So if somebody believes they're a 10, does that mean that other people need to also believe they are a 10?
Need to, no, but you said if they believe they are 10, you said a person who believes they are 10 is a 10, which would to me suggest that in actuality they are a 10.
Yeah.
Because when you believe you're a 10, you want to look better.
Like you believe, like you have a good, like I'm a captain, you all lieutenant donated $100.
If you took a photo of the flags of Albania, China, Vietnam, Turkey, Morocco, Switzerland, Tunisia, Taiwan, Samoa or North Korea, there would still be fewer red flags in that photo than on this panel.
Uh, deceased.
Am I a red flag?
Is that what you?
Oh.
Oh, is Albania a country?
Yeah, Albania is a country.
Thank you, Captain Lieutenant.
Appreciate it, brother.
Which means your right hand does what?
So if you believe you're a 10, then that makes you a 10.
Oh my gosh, yes.
Again, yes.
Well, that's like the.
I don't want to like take over here, but I have a really big bone to pick when it comes to that.
And it's something that you hear all the time.
I get it with modern-day feminism.
Like, oh, I'm a 10.
I should feel like a 10.
I'm a 10.
But it just means nothing.
And to me, it's like, if you say that you're a 10, what the hell are you aspiring or aiming towards in your life?
If you say without any work whatsoever, I'm a 10.
What on earth are you doing for the rest of your life to continue to work on yourself?
Okay, wait, does he say work whatsoever?
Like, physical.
Always strive for better abs.
I'm 38.
Well, like getting toner muscles, but so then you're not a 10.
But I am a 10.
But you're not.
But if you don't like your body right now and you're not like, I love my body right now.
That's why I showed on the gram.
You just said that if you could always get, oh, I'm going to get more toned and muscles.
So then clearly that is something you're lacking right now, not something that you're not a 10.
I'm not a 18.
I can't even tell you how hard I work on my body.
No shit.
You're 18.
I worked hard for 17 year olds.
I'm sure you're not.
I worked very hard for that.
Just wait another 10 years.
You're going to have to work 50 times harder.
Oh, God.
Have you seen me?
You haven't seen my mother.
My mother still has abs after her.
And that's wonderful.
I'm not discrediting that whatsoever.
What I am saying, though, is just break it apart and use some critical thinking here.
When you rate yourself a 10, that is, if we're going to use that scale, that is the end-all be-all.
No, you should be living your entire life.
Every decision that you make, you should be striving to get as close to that 10 as you possibly can, not saying at the age of 18, I'm already there.
I am already there.
I agree with you.
And that's why I can say I'm a 10 at 38 after being a fat kid.
And I was in a very high powerlift.
I worked so hard on my body.
I'm 10 because I worked at it.
Well, yeah, you literally probably weigh like at least 50 pounds lighter than me.
So you're good.
Well, it's muscle.
Anyways, I agree with you about that one.
I have a pre-teen daughter.
Ladies, what advice would you give your 11-year-old self?
We should go around the table.
Should I start?
Yeah.
My 11-year-old self, I would probably tell her to stop caring so much about other people because I got bullied when I was 11.
And I think it built character and made me the 10 I am today.
Yeah.
Period.
I have to clap.
Sorry, once.
I screwed it back.
Me?
My 11-year-old self, I'd say, stop masturbating so much.
I would also say.
You're doing that at 11.
Yeah, dude.
I'm like, I'm telling you.
Okay.
And I would also say, pretty much the same thing.
Stop.
Like, what did you just say?
Because that was like, I was so right on with that.
Don't.
Tim Stevens donated $100 from right to left.
Thanks.
I'm only happy left in her.
Six.
8.55.
Ha ha.
Out of one on to mine.
Anyways, back to 11.
Yeah.
I'll take an 8.5.
Thank you.
You're a 10.
But I'm a 10.
Yeah.
I feel like you're missing the point of what I was saying.
And it's like your ego and pride are getting in the way of you acting.
All right, whatever you're already.
Can you name a 10?
Name a 10.
10 physically.
See, that's the thing that's tough too, is because I want to say celebrities, but I don't trust celebrities because they've all had plastic surgery.
So a 10.
Regardless, let's say, let's pretend that like a Megan Fox didn't have plastic surgeries.
I love her.
She saw a process she would be a 10.
She's so hot.
She wouldn't look the way she looks now if she didn't have a lot of money.
That's why I saw her.
Dating donated $100.
None of you are even close.
I would drag my man bits through 10 miles of broken glass and rubbing alcohol just to smell my wife's fart through a walk-a-talkie.
Morally, physically, spiritually.
That's the kind of marriage that I want, dude.
That's great.
That's great.
What would you tell your 11-year-old self?
Who was talking?
I don't even remember exactly who I was just at.
Okay, so what would you tell your 11-year-old self-year-old self and then back to Jasmine's training?
So I would tell my 11-year-old self to keep actually I read a lot like as a kid, and I would probably say that like get out there and like socialize more.
And like I just I was a big reader, and I would also say like you don't have to be so independent and you can ask for help because I didn't do that a lot.
And so I would definitely say stay kid a little bit longer because it's a wild ride out there and like you don't need to start growing up so fast.
So until you're forced to though, I would say for my 11-year-old self, just like quit comparing yourself to other people mostly.
Like never compare yourself to somebody else because you're just like, first of all, you're not them.
So yeah.
Like that includes like celebrities too.
Like I would look at stirl up celebrities and be like envious or whatever, but yeah, just don't do that.
I would probably say you become the company that you keep.
And even if you think that you're so special, and even if you're hanging out with a bad crowd of people and you're like, it's never going to happen to me because I'm smart, I'm good at school, whatever it is, you absolutely, in time, become what your environment is.
So pick your environment very wisely.
I'm a captain.
You lieutenant donated $100.
I speak for everyone watching.
This is in England Unwatchable.
100% pepper.
Type one in the chat if you agree.
I'll try again on the next episode.
Q, please save us.
Q, please save us.
You were speechless before.
Let's go.
Come on, Q. You got this.
What do you want me to say?
Dude, the ratings are off.
Let's go.
Oh, I was going.
I'm going to let her finish the comic too.
I'm going to ask you a question.
Based on your rating.
Okay.
All right.
So I would say like what she said, and also to keep studying the Bible and don't let go of that and study the Bible more than you actually study scholastics and get ready to be a wife.
I would say that.
Cute.
Yeah, that your identity doesn't come from the world or what anybody believes about you in the world, but solely in Christ.
I would also encourage myself to read significantly more than I was at that age.
Yeah.
I can't read.
Okay, let me come back to Aspen.
You said you were 10, right?
I am.
Okay.
So going back to what you said in the beginning of the show, if you're a 10 right now in the way that you are, why would you feel the need to get your lips done?
That's a good point.
I was going to say thank you.
You got me so good.
You got me.
I feel like I am a 10, and I feel like getting the filler- That's why he's the GOAT!
The GOAT!
Go ahead.
I feel like lip filler would just give me the confidence for myself.
But I already am a 10 and I already know I'm a 10, so I don't need it.
But like, it would be nice.
But that doesn't make you feel good.
I'm not going to do it.
Brian told me not to.
I'm not going to.
We already got over this.
Let me know when you're ready.
I'll tell you who to go to.
She won't make you look weird.
I'm not doing it.
She already said she's going to be able to do it.
I do.
Yeah, but honestly.
Yeah.
So are you really?
I don't need the lip filler.
I don't need anything.
I have natural eyelashes, natural blonde.
Yeah.
Because the tin is perfection.
Wait, would you?
They're real.
Crystal blonde.
Don't they look fake?
Wait, oh, your lashes.
Yeah.
They look fake right.
Those are definitely lashes.
I thought you were talking about your eyebrows.
They're so real, right?
They're so pretty, right?
Wait, do you dye your eyebrows?
Soft.
No, yes.
I color them.
I filled them in.
Wait, what's your natural hair color?
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Look at you.
Look at Miko.
Yeah.
I think the point that Jasmine was making is really crucial to the tendencies we're falling into as a society collectively because if everybody has to submit to anybody or anybody's given standard for themselves, their subjective beliefs, then like who's the highest in the pecking order?
Like it becomes, it's more than just like, it's more than just rating yourself.
It's that if I identify as a toaster oven, you have to respect the fact that I identify as a toaster evan.
And now we've completely strayed from all societal norms.
It gets to a dangerous place where does it?
I don't respect others.
Aren't you religious?
I know.
has nothing to do with respect this has to do with what others you're not going to indoctrinate my children with something that i don't believe Of course not.
Well, but no, but that's what's happening.
It's not purposefully misgendering someone after they've specifically told you.
That's a little disrespectful.
But we're not talking about that whatsoever.
Yeah, that's not identifying as a person.
No, we're talking about tens.
Oh, we're not talking about that at all.
My apologies.
I misunderstood.
I do love that.
No, it's, I mean, it's true, though.
We were talking about the scale.
And just because I can respect in an individual conversation, if you tell me you want to be called a man, I'll call you a man.
That's fine.
But what's not going to happen is you're not going to teach my children what is a man and what is a woman outside of what I am raising them to believe.
I agreed all night.
I agree with that statement.
Okay.
Okay.
That's crazy.
Like, I agree.
But toaster oven, I wouldn't call it.
I don't know.
I plan on raising my kids in a church, so hopefully they'll know the difference.
How would they if only 7% of the population holds a biblical worldview?
There's churches where you can learn about the gospel.
7% of them.
And decreasing.
There's such an attack on religious values.
All right.
Getting back to some of our pre-show notes here, we have Jacqueline.
You talked about there's a sassy man apocalypse.
You are part of it.
I'm part of it.
You're so sassy.
He's a five, don't you know?
No.
What does that mean?
What does sassy mean?
Like, he's an asshole, but in a hot way.
Right?
I don't know.
Sassy.
You don't know what sassy means?
Not from slow talk.
Go ahead.
Women don't know how to treat men, and you want to be treated right, and you want the woman to pay for half the meal.
It just like sounds like a bad thing.
I didn't say that.
I said if she's not a traditional woman, she shouldn't expect a man to pay.
Not being a traditional woman makes you less valuable.
I didn't say that.
Well, if you're not going to pay for her meal because she's less traditional, and you've looked at us and looked at our Instagram and said, we're not traditional, so you wouldn't pay for our meal.
You'd make us a meal.
No, he said that there was like a scale.
There's a scale too.
Yeah, and we both said, okay, I offered it up.
I offered it up to the chat to rate.
Now, look, I do think in terms of a woman that I'd want to date, I would certainly prefer her to have a public-facing modesty.
I don't want my girlfriend to be posting thirst traps on Instagram.
Granted, I will give you that I don't think you, compared to like other women, other posts I've seen on Instagram, there's way worse out there.
Martha Sunday.
Comparatively, you guys, at least of what is the norm in 2024, I'd say your stuff is fairly tame, but I would say it's not perfectly modest.
Floradians that are constantly in bikinis.
Yes, I also realize that there's certain realities geographically speaking.
If you're in a warm climate, if you're near the beach, you're more likely to find yourselves in situations where you're wearing a bikini, for example, and taking photos while you're in a bikini.
uh i was i gave a bit of leeway there but in any case it's kind of you choose to post those photos too again your photos the photos that you guys great the photos that you guys post on instagram is not my biggest gripe really What?
Do you need to go use the bathroom?
You're fine if you.
Feminine hygiene.
Oh, right.
Oh, that explains it.
Okay.
But what is...
Oh, God. I go...
I go viral a lot.
I get a lot of comments.
Wait, we're going viral.
No, I'm not going to go to the bottom.
On YouTube and Instagram and TikTok and everything else.
On YouTube.
But what is it with this stigmatizing men having preferences, pointing out observations, having standards?
Why is that labeled sassy?
Are we just supposed to accept women as they are and put up with all the behaviors that we don't agree with or that don't align with our values?
Why do we get deemed sassy for speaking up about things that we disapprove of when it comes to female behavior?
You're talking about things that you personally wouldn't accept in your relationship.
Like, but they don't apply to me.
I don't know what you're trying to say that I do that you personally wouldn't want in your relationship.
That then what you're saying about me, yes, that makes you sassy.
Like, you're applying things to me that don't even make sense.
Like, it doesn't even have to be applicable to you.
Like, that's why I say I go viral.
So in the comments, women that I don't want, that I'm not talking to, they would say, oh, he's sassy.
Why do men get labeled sassy for pointing out things that they dislike about the way women behave that aren't considered to be a matter of time?
I don't think I don't think you'll understand, but us women who call you sassy, we do.
I promise you.
We do, but we understand.
We understand that you are a sassy man.
What does that mean?
I don't see sassiness in you at all, but I don't know you.
Okay.
And I really don't know you either.
That's my point.
That's the point I'm getting at.
Women just use shaming tactics when men say things that they dislike or they disagree with.
I don't.
I don't think it's a shame tactic.
I don't think it's a shame tactic.
It is.
It's sassy.
Is it positive for a man to be sassy?
Yeah, sometimes.
I like it.
I like it.
I don't think it was in this context.
Yeah, it's not in this context.
It's not used to me.
Sassy men apocalypse.
I think men are just very much disrespected in this culture.
Absolutely.
And I think that's a good idea.
So are women.
Oh, I really don't know.
I don't agree.
Yes.
I don't know that I agree with you.
I think we disrespect ourselves.
I feel like we are very much.
How are women disrespected in this culture?
Disrespect ourselves.
We're objectified a little bit.
I think on your Instagram drawer.
Do you objectify yourself?
I objectify myself.
Yo, why?
Y'all are objective.
Aren't you the same woman that just said my lips was sexy?
Yeah.
And that's okay.
That's a good feature.
It's a feature.
It's a compliment.
Wouldn't you feel like that to you?
No, I would take that as a compliment.
You're not objectified.
I'm not afraid of that.
But wait.
How?
I said I gave him a coffee.
You've been sexually harassing him, talking about his lips.
No, you are so harassing.
No, I'm jealous.
No, I'm not saying it's not a compliment.
It's not a compliment.
Oh, yeah.
No, but I'm not arguing that.
I'm not saying it's not a compliment.
I'm just saying, you said we get objectified.
Y'all objectify men, too.
We objectify.
They are objectifying himself.
Yeah, exactly.
Maybe I just like that.
That too.
Yes, I agree.
Yes, but we objectify each other.
Yeah, well, maybe I'm just a little uneducated, possibly.
But imagine if he were to say, by the way.
But also, I agree that men are.
Get objectified more than women.
You're so rough.
Not more than women.
Not more than women.
I'm not treated with respect.
Yeah, but all these girls are diamonds.
I've never been respected by a man.
You don't feel respected by men?
No, not in any aspect that I've told him.
I think that's a good idea.
I thought you said a date.
They paid for the date.
Okay, yeah, I guess I just lied.
I did get respected.
That was respect.
I take that.
Who disrespects?
Who disrespects you?
The guys who don't call you back after the first.
No, like the guys that objective.
No, the guys that go to the side.
The guys that can't follow.
Give us an example.
Who's objectified?
Just like saying, like, I could be fully close.
That's why you should have a private Instagram.
I mean, maybe if I get in a relationship, I will.
But also, if that's your problem, get off social media.
I have no problem.
I never like that.
I'm arguing with you.
I'm saying that women are also objectified.
I'm not saying I have an issue like it.
It gets them clicks.
It gets themselves on it.
They objectify themselves.
They monetize it.
Arcadia.
They objectify themselves.
You know what?
Like, I have a very sneaking suspicion that a lot of women, and I can say this because I used to be like this.
A lot of women, you go that route when suddenly it's like, oh my gosh, I look so good.
You post your first pic and you look real hot and you start getting those likes.
You start getting the follows.
And next thing you know, you're totally addicted.
And it is just, it's insatiable.
Like, it just gets worse and worse and worse.
And what is I'm a 10?
What?
Is I'm a 10 not objectification of yourself?
Oh, I'm asking a question.
Yeah, yes, it's you rating yourself, but you understand that if you're a 10, that men find you sexually enticing.
Men find every woman or anything with a whole enticing.
We disavow.
I agree.
They find mouths.
They find toes.
Like, anything could be sexually enticed.
You don't even want to know what I see.
Wait, you entice men only once.
What?
You say that earlier?
You're smarter than I am.
I don't know these big words.
All right.
I said the same thing.
I was like, what?
Earlier.
Can you make that dumber for me?
He's like, no.
Dumb it down.
We're blonde.
No, I don't do that.
I love it.
I love the blonde stereotype.
Keep it coming.
Because then you can prove it wrong.
I like whatever people underestimate me.
She just had the most points that I could.
Yeah.
I like to okay.
So.
We need money.
Let's deal with these people.
Going to.
Okay, so back to Jacqueline.
You talk about the sassy man apocalypse.
So we were trying to get a definition.
What is a sassy man for Jacqueline?
Go ahead.
A sassy man is a man who wants to be treated like a woman in a traditional way.
I take back what I said.
That's what I would say a sassy man is.
I think that statement in and of itself is contradictory because a traditional man wouldn't want to be treated like a woman.
That's what you just said.
Everyone does these days.
That has nothing to do with tradition.
Well, traditionally, like what men want in a relationship, like with a woman, like a traditional man where he wants to be like the leader, he wants to like provide whatever it is.
Like they want us to be that.
That's what I find a sassy man.
And you go against women who are like, oh, I want them to pay for the first date, regardless of what they look like, what they act like, whatever.
Like, I just find that sassy.
Let me double down a little bit on my whole position: I actually do think so long as you're still the leader in the relationship, it's actually a stronger position to be in if the woman is simping for you.
I think the reality of the male-female dynamic is the girl has to like you more than you like her.
She has to be more into you than the reverse.
Otherwise, that dynamic where it's the dude who's like really pressing on the girl, really trying to get her, that doesn't work.
A girl like so, the girl who's like simping on a dude who's willing to fucking pay for shit, but it's coming from, it's not coming from a, I'm the fucking, I'm wearing the pants in the relationship.
It's coming from a position of, hold on, it's coming from a position of this guy is so fucking attractive.
I like him so fucking much.
I will do anything to be with him.
I want him so fucking bad.
I'll pay for dates.
I'll be a simp.
That's where I'm coming from from it.
It's not like, oh, I want the girl to leave.
But impress.
I want to impress him.
But there's all these hot girls.
I swear to God, the hottest girls you've ever seen.
I know.
They're paying for these dudes' vacations.
Through these relationships for like three months, it's 10 months, paying for everything.
I'm like, what are you doing?
Anyways, at least half would be great, right?
Yeah, I don't know.
Am I seeing on Vengo?
Or not?
Yeah, I'm curious.
I'm curious.
Maybe I'm a little sassy, you know?
How am I sassy?
I'm curious.
That was sassy.
Well, you specifically are so like, if there was a scale of sassiness, I'm a 10.
Oh, my.
You're not a tick.
You're a sick.
Brian, Alice, you are 10 out of 10 sassy, sir.
I promise you that.
And if there's any girlies in the comments, guys, shut up.
Girlies answer.
He's fucking sassy.
Or sexy.
I think you meant sexy.
Not to think he's acting like he's not.
Wait, was that harassment?
Was that she complimented you?
Was that harassment?
Because she called you.
That's a good point.
Imagine if that had been said the other way around.
Yeah, if Brian said that to her.
The hell that would have just broken.
If Brian called me sexy, I think I would like evaporate and just die.
So it's only okay when unattractive men from your point of view objectify.
What I'm saying.
It's okay if you give someone a compliment.
It's not okay if you objectify or objectify a woman.
Yeah.
Well, everyone, each their own.
Some people would like it.
That was hard for me.
I feel like objectifying and complimenting are two very big lines.
Okay.
All right.
Wait, but so, okay, how am I, how am I sassy?
Oh, my, I'm sassy.
Come on, sassy.
I don't know.
You're just like a sassy guy.
Like, I could sit here and name all the things that makes you sassy.
Yeah, yeah, tell the way.
Let's do it.
I'm just loving it right now.
Oh, my gosh.
Let's do it.
I guess it's maybe the position you're in, but you also put yourself in this position.
So what's the position that I'm in?
Oh, really?
Favorite podcast.
Die with the chair.
Boggy.
I'm confused.
Your power.
What?
I don't know.
You have over young girls, so you could be all like, oh, and then like, but you're hot.
I guess it don't make any sense.
No, no, no.
Why don't you try to explain that in a way that is in any capacity cohesive?
Right?
No.
What?
Okay, what did you mean?
No, no, no.
What did you say?
No, Hold on.
No, Sorry.
What did you mean?
I was piggybacking off what she just said, and I was like, oh.
While you talk, why don't you do it in the microphone?
Do us a favor.
I know, but I can't move it.
I don't want to fuck up again.
Okay.
What?
Power over young girl.
What?
Okay, this.
I'm sorry.
Let me see.
No, no, no.
You're talking to me right now.
You don't got to look to her to rescue you from.
Oh, I don't mean rescuing.
Okay, go ahead.
Make your point.
Can you please really quick?
No, Can you please really quick?
Can you fall forward back?
No, Don't try to dig your way up.
All right, this is what she meant then.
All right, let's go there.
What she meant was.
No, no, no, no, not what she meant for me.
What you meant?
I'm sorry.
Sorry, you're right.
What I thought she meant, because I keep saying, can you repeat it?
You're telling me no.
So what I thought she meant was that you're a guy, the podcast guy, right?
You just had the podcast guy, right?
You're in the chair or whatever.
You get to do all the shots, whatever.
Yeah, I'm the host of the show.
Yeah, I know you are, right?
See, right there.
Yeah, I know.
Okay.
So the 18-year-olds and the 17-year-olds, these OF chicks, these clout demons, they're probably.
Okay, but okay, listen.
First off, 17.
Nonsense.
Dude, I didn't mean that.
I just mean like younger girls.
Make your point.
State your point.
My point is what I thought she meant, which clearly I was wrong, and I'm sorry.
Sorry, I even said it.
Just state your point.
I'm trying, okay?
Articulate it.
I'm a bad articulator.
I'm working on it with a surface, okay?
Clearly, guys.
At least I'm self-aware.
Okay.
What I thought she said was that you have power, like, okay, you're the host, right?
Power.
And you're sassy as in, like, you can say whatever you want.
And, like, girls would be like, like, I'm on my podcast.
Like, it expresses them or whatever.
This is what my tickets, please.
And so, therefore, also, you're kind of hot.
Let's get honest.
So, therefore, altogether, that makes kind of sassiness.
I don't know.
Does that make sense?
The views expressed by my fellow panelists does not express it.
I would totally read that thing.
That is about me.
Thank you.
For once.
No, twice.
The thingies keep going away.
It's one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard.
At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything, man.
That could be considered a rational thought.
Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it.
I'm sorry, you guys.
I'm sorry.
I'm like, no, I'm going to pee.
Like, I can't.
Okay.
Wait, can you pull up what the thingy said?
It had my name on it.
I have.
I've never translated it.
I have no idea.
You were another person.
I have no.
Did anybody?
Can anybody fucking translate what she said?
I have no idea.
You're my teammate, remember?
It was a sound of the power.
So I played it.
I heard, I have power.
That's it.
I don't understand.
She begged me to come on here.
I didn't know what the hell was.
Not that.
She was like, I don't know.
That's another thing that.
Actually, wait, let me address that.
I want to actually defend her.
No, no.
I want to actually address that.
It's so annoying when somebody says they begged me to do X.
I didn't mean that.
She told me that.
But it's just like, people love to exaggerate and frame things in a way that's just so disingenuous.
Like, oh, they begged me.
And then if you actually look at the messages between two people, they like asked one time, and then they're going to say, they begged me.
No, you don't know what they're saying.
Oh, my God.
You're 100% right, dude.
Like, I just want to say that.
Yeah, but you ought to be precise in your language because you're misrepresenting probably what she did.
She probably didn't beg you.
Actually, you can tell him everything, okay?
No, but I've had people say, oh, he, for example, I've had girls like go on Twitter, he begged me to go on the podcast.
Or like, he begged me to come back.
And it's like, literally, we follow up one time, and they're like, he begged me.
It's actually.
She never meant that, and she knows it.
Can you please tell me that?
I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.
I'm so over the brain.
Put on the armor of God.
These blonde yeasty hoes are thirsty.
Snap back into it.
I am thirsty.
Wait, is this Jay Butler?
It's trying to infect Jay Butler.
Where you at, Jay Butler?
You have so much money.
She's giving us more all night long, this guy.
Oh my gosh.
That was funny.
So where were we?
I'm trying to recall where we were.
You had something, I don't even remember.
You told me I'm backing you up, but I'm like, I. Let's go on as a team.
I didn't remember.
Because I was scared.
I was like, I don't know this guy.
I don't know these people.
Fine, we'll go on as a team, right?
Go ahead.
No, I just said that I think that it would be really cool for your content, actually.
That's what I said.
I said that.
Dude, I said that I thought that because of what you did for a living, it would be a good art.
It would be a good platform.
You would get, like, am I not correct in this?
Like, a lot of the OF OnlyFans.
Dude, these OF girls that come on here because I've seen.
Are you kidding me?
But anyways.
No, dope.
They're great.
Good for them.
They're doing their thing.
Because they're not.
I also thought that I had a lot to add.
I thought you had a lot to add, but you're getting a little wild right now.
Calm.
Tell us how you really feel.
Tell us how you really feel.
I can't back up bad behavior, dude.
Okay, true.
Fair enough.
Keep going.
No, no, keep going.
This is good.
This is progress.
Intervention.
No, it's just like you're I'll be right back.
No, no, no.
You should hear your friend out.
I want to.
No, no, no.
You should hear her out.
Duh, I always do.
Let's go.
Okay, just like you're Just interjecting, and you're getting really in your head, and you're like all over the place, and you need to take a breath and let other people speak.
And don't work up the bad, like, don't do the clickbait of yourself so much.
There's more to you than what do you mean by clickbaiting on myself?
Like, don't like all of the buzzing points.
Like, don't you don't have to like throw out all that crap all the time.
Okay, so like, thank you for that.
I needed to hear that.
Sorry, I needed like a little moment with my best here.
Um, that's a good friend.
That was really cute.
Girls usually lie to each other, so that was nice.
She doesn't co-sign my bullshit and vice versa with her.
But listen, all I said was like you think she doesn't have bullshit, but she's a god song.
Okay, thank you.
So, really quick, though, can you please just go back to this?
What was I trying to say about that?
Okay, on that, I think that you were assuming something without letting her finish her point.
And, like, I don't quite know.
I don't quite know what the heck you were saying about it, and except for the fact that maybe you have the wrong definition of sass.
Yeah, big sass energy donated $100.
These men aren't sassy.
These immature little girls are just not used to a man forcefully articulating what he believes.
My husband is the most artistic method I've ever met.
What is Martel?
Yo, I should do a green screen.
I should do for this.
Yo, dude, thank you, man.
Oh, we have another TTS that's about to come through.
I'll read some of these other chats once we get through them.
We'll come back to the sassy thing in just a sec.
Octopus Tetra donated $100.
Loki, if you're not taken, Brian, you should probably entertain one of these very gorgeous girls.
At least get to know them.
Miss Hyperactive.
I love you.
Praise be to Jesus.
Oh, I don't believe in Jesus, but I'll pray something, and I love you.
Thank you.
Thank you, Octopus.
Appreciate it, man.
We love God.
And then let me just read these chats.
Then we're going to come back to the sassy thing.
How are you objectified?
Donated 50.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Your Instagram is literally you objectifying yourself.
Where's the logic?
You'll find a guy that will love sex with you at least.
I'm not sure.
Is this directed at you?
I'm assuming.
Probably.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
Thanks.
All righty.
Thank you, brother.
Thank you.
I'm sorry.
I didn't understand the question.
You know, I'm dyslexic.
So.
Yep.
She's dyslexic.
I'm a.
How do you know?
Did you watch my TikTok?
I'm a broke criminal rush.
No, just who would like to try to date?
Aspen, you got to be a drink.
Here we go.
We got Robert.
Hey, thank you, man.
I'm a brokey criminal Russian who would like to try to date Aspen number four on panel from the right, please.
And thank you.
Help me out, bros.
I can say whatever and do whatever I want.
You can say whatever and do whatever you want to date Aspen.
Aspen.
How much did he say?
Is he going to have to wait?
Is he going to have to do a champagne trigger to go get a date with you?
I think he is going to have to do that.
Hey, check the description if you want a date with Aspen.
If you do, I'll put in a good word.
You do a champagne pop.
We'll pop a champagne bottle.
And if I get it right now, I'll get our date.
What's that?
Do I get some?
Unfortunately, you're not 21, so okay, then no.
Why would I do you a favor if you're not going to do me one?
No, pop the bottle.
All things are going to be a lot of fun.
Pop the bottle.
No, we also have some apple cider.
We'll hook you up.
But yeah, the trigger for that is what you'll see in the description.
Okay.
All right.
Jacqueline, why am I sassy?
Tell me why I'm sassy.
You've asked that question four different times.
I think I kind of am a little bit.
I'm a little sassy.
Yeah.
A little bit.
I would view you as strong.
You are a strong man who knows what he wants and what he thinks, and you're grounded.
Oh, thank you.
And sometimes women don't like to hear that.
Being sassy isn't a bad thing always.
It's a good thing.
I think.
But some girls are a little bit more.
You know, if you put yourself in my shoes.
Yeah.
When we look at the actual thing.
Week in, week out, deal in with certain personalities.
I love definitions.
You know, the thing is, is right, if you poke the bear, you keep poking the bear, and then eventually it turns around and kind of growls at you.
You're not going to like look at the bear and think, well, how could you have done that?
I agree.
It's like, no, maybe you shouldn't have poked the bear.
Maybe I shouldn't have stopped the thing and then changed the mic.
That's what I mean.
You know, it's like if you're in a if you're in an environment where people are constantly being obnoxious and annoying, you're going to have your threshold for tolerating bullshit.
I'm going to read that starts to get diminished.
And I think you guys, maybe the viewers have noticed, you know, over time, I've lost a bit of patience.
I still think I still get comments saying Brian's very patient.
And it depends on the show.
Sometimes, you know, I was a little snappy with Nick a little bit there.
And listen, you know, we had some people show up late.
Dude, are you keeping my honey?
I'll donate another three, dude.
And, you know, she's a little difficult.
Dude, I'm a little bit more.
So it's like a kindergarten.
You know, I'm like a, you know, I'm like in my 50s, and I'm like, oh my God, I'm fucking dealing with these kindergartners.
Fuck.
You know, that's how running this podcast is.
I thought you said you were 32.
I know.
He said 31 for 30.
I'm not in my 50s.
I'm just.
34.
Wait.
Did you ever get that definition?
Yeah, I got it.
Can you read it out loud?
Wait, cute.
Yeah, sassy.
An urban dictionary?
No, just regular.
This is Cambridge.
Cambridge.
We only fuck with Oxford, dude.
No.
Oxford didn't pop up.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
All right.
The government doesn't like.
Something is happening.
What's the Jason?
It's adjacent.
So it says, rude and showing no respect.
Oh, see, I don't see sassy as that.
So my value is.
Yeah, me neither.
I got to stop calling my dog that when she's being cute.
I'm sorry.
I'm not that.
Sometimes, sometimes I can.
Second definition.
Sometimes, you know, I can't.
I feel like everyone gets it.
It was meant to.
It was a good idea.
I'm self-aware.
I'm confident.
Showing confidence.
Self-awareness.
Showing confidence.
Do you take the second definition?
Showing confidence.
Which means you said that.
Showing confidence.
Sorry.
Showing confidence.
This is confident or showing confidence.
It depends on what side of the coin you're on.
So it's either.
Ooh, that was safety, Brian.
The first definition was rude and showing no respect.
And the second one was confidence or showing confidence.
And that depends.
Sassy.
It depends on what side of the coin you're on.
Lively, bold, and full of spirit.
That is so you.
You're the one sassy.
So you.
You're sassy.
You're so lively.
If you're on the other receiving end.
Jesus.
Sassy.
He's so lively and full of spirit.
Can you not tell by the enthusiasm in his face?
Yeah, he's loving it.
He's so happy.
Do you know that one TikTok sound where it's like, we're taking Bebop to the Kick Pop store?
I'm so happy.
I love Kickpop.
Thank you, Juice.
Juice is loose.
Donated $100.
Right to left, nine and sad.
Three and meth.
5.5 and 40.
Yo, patent dope personality.
5.75 and red.
4 and silent.
4 and sleeve.
Huh?
Thank you, the juice.
Thank you, Juice.
That was sweet.
Appreciate it.
That was nice.
Buddy.
Right, Tula.
Thank you, dude.
Okay, so getting back to our pre-show notes on.
I'm a 5.5.
So coming back to Jacqueline, it's sad, honestly, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually feel for some odd reason.
Yeah.
You think you got to hide?
How many of you have to do that?
No, I know you do.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
No, you do.
Disagree.
You do.
I like it when a girl's just like up front, like you do.
Slide into the DMs.
Never have you.
We're also from Orlando.
You're attractive.
I like you.
We're 18 college guys.
Like, it's a weird thing where you can't show you like them too much, or they'll take it and they'll be like, ah, like, you're easy to get.
Like, you have to be hard to get for these men to really want you.
In our age, there's the opposite going on in our country these days.
Like, guys are like afraid to get it.
No, I was talking to a guy on and off for like almost a year.
And, like, I, I don't know.
I told him I liked him and stuff.
And, like, we were hanging out, and he was like, I don't know.
Well, that's different, but I don't know.
I like it when a girl is just super overt.
She's just up front.
I'll do it too.
I don't like it when a girl's like.
That's a good quality.
Like, a girl who plays hard to get quickly becomes hard to want.
Right?
Not in all cases.
In all cases.
Because, you know, if a girl plays hard to get to get the coochie, man, you're going to want it more.
Nah.
I'm just saying.
Like, no, if she's playing hard to get in general, it's just moving on.
There's a way of telling a guy that you want him without coming up to him and being like, yo, I think you're fucking hot.
I want you.
Like, you don't do that.
But there's a really nice, classy way of letting a man know.
Like, I'm picking up what you're laying down.
I like what you're doing.
Like, I'd like to do this again.
Like, or I saw what you've been doing lately and I think that you're an amazing person.
And like, there's just, there's a classy way of going about it, but a man knows when you like him.
Yeah.
I also feel like the hard to get thing has a lot to do with just dating culture as it is.
Like women, you know, you had alluded to this earlier, how women, there's just a million options out there.
It's like the grass is greener.
Just keep swiping.
Like, it's unreal how many women or how many men a woman can have in her back pocket.
And so to me, I think, especially in today's culture, when it comes to playing hard to get, a lot of that, like, I would think if I was a dude, I would think the reason why that's happening is because she's not into me or because I'm one of many on a roster.
And then I would immediately lose respect.
In my experience, that is not the case, though.
Like, I literally, just about every guy that I talk to, that I'm like, oh, I like you.
Like, let's do whatever.
Like, either A, I get cheated on, which has happened in both relationships, and that's how I was.
Or B, it just doesn't really go anywhere because that's easy.
Like, they're on to the next thing.
And that is in my experience.
Like, that is literally what I experience with the men that are in my area and my age.
What kind of men are you going after?
I mean, attractive ones.
I don't really go after men if I'm being honest.
Okay.
I think that men might be the wrong word to use if that's the experience that you're having.
Boys.
100%.
Correct.
Boys.
I do think, though, like you guys are 18, right?
I think a lot of men in that age range don't want something serious.
Yeah, at all.
So, I mean, they're trying to get their lives like that.
But do you understand what I'm saying?
Like, that is how it is for me in my experience.
But I will say, have you ever friend zoned a guy?
Oh, yeah.
I bet you those guys would be down to commit to you and be loyal and be in a monogamous relationship with you.
You're just chasing after the fuckboys.
Valid.
Damn.
That was my mic dropped.
Yeah, the friend zone guys are usually the ones that are there to help you move.
Like, but if you're not physically attracted to a guy, why would you and this is precisely why women should view themselves as tens if they're not?
Because if you think you're a 10, you must certainly deserve a guy who's a commensurate looks match as you.
So you deserve a guy who's a 10.
So the guys who are tens, actually, Nick, pull up the hypergamy chart.
This is why it's very important for women to have an accurate self-assessment of their own physical appearance.
Because if you think you're a 10, you're going to chase after guys who are exceptionally good looking or they're NBA players, professional athletes, whatever they have status.
Or it could be a socioeconomic thing.
Men are not going to commit to you.
Why?
Because you're dating out of attractive enough.
You're sleeping out of your league.
Here's the difference between men and women.
We'll pull it up in just a sec, Nick.
So, women, you can sleep outside of your league.
You can be a five in looks and fuck a guy who's a seven, eight, or nine in looks.
You're not going to get commitment from him.
Whereas the reverse is never true.
Me as a did you not just back up my point?
Hold on.
Octopus Tetro donated $100.
Could you please get to it?
Look for men that are at least 25, not saying all young guys are trash, but all young guys playing you like that are trash.
So honestly, girls, introduce him to your father before.
And look, just to go back on what I was saying before, really quick on that, there's plenty of 18, 19, 20-year-old men that want relationships.
Like, I'm not saying that it's just because of their age.
It does seem to be a little bit more common for both men and women who are especially young to kind of not prioritize long-term relationships.
Oh, I want to discover myself.
Translation, I want to fuck around.
But getting back to the whole rating thing.
So, again, as men, I can't sleep out of my league.
I can't have sex with a girl who's more attractive than me.
Men will get rejected instantly.
Whereas women, you can get sex from men outside of your league.
You're not going to get commitment.
Why are you pointing towards her?
Because I just feel like she has something good to say.
Me?
After this.
Oh, her.
Just disregard that.
Sorry.
Well, that's not true.
What's not true?
I agree.
You backed up my point from earlier by saying that guys will just have sex with girls if they have a hole or anything with a hole.
Because you said that guys will get with.
Well, I wasn't contesting that point, really.
Actually, most girls have sex, and only like, what, 20% of guys have sex?
No, I feel like guys have more sex than girls.
Really?
You don't?
There's more.
No, more women are having sex than men are.
You basically have like a co- I guess I'm just going off of what I've done because I don't feel like compared to a lot of the guys, I feel like they have had more sexual experience than they're talking about.
No, they act like it so they can get in your pants.
I'm telling you right now.
They act like it so they can, like in high school, there was a rumor that I would fuck the whole school.
You know what that means?
The men that you've pursued are probably out of your league because they have an abundance of sexual options.
Otherwise, if you had met a guy who I should just put on a good show right now.
I would actually cool meta conversation.
What was that?
You know what?
I'm not going to kick you off, but go take another 10-minute timeout.
All right, go away.
Go away.
You've annoyed me.
Go away.
You can come back in 10 minutes.
Should I start introducing a 10-minute timeout?
You have to face the corner.
You have to face the corner and think about what you've done.
Okay.
I just have to do that.
Did you see that source she was so happy to do?
Yeah.
Go into the corner, face the corner, and think about what you've done.
All right, there you go.
No, that's the wrong corner.
Actually, I'm actually water.
Okay, good talk.
Wait, I totally, totally lost my turn.
My friend, well, so the book we were just talking about earlier, Ben Shapiro's book about the porn culture, addresses that between, I don't remember the exact statistic, but it's between 30 and 40% of men have lied to women about their sexual experiences in order to sound more versed, or the flip side of that coin have lied about being a virgin in order to manipulate women into getting into bed with them because men are 50 times more visual than women.
Oh, that's cool to know.
I didn't know that.
You should read it.
Good book.
Might change your life.
I think we were saying, so all the guys you've encountered, all the guys you've encountered, they've had more.
Yeah, any guy that I've ever gotten with in any way has been with more people than I have.
Or so they've said they have.
Well, honestly, that might not be like a right thing.
But I also, I don't know.
I feel like I'm just really low, so I feel like it's not hard.
That's a good thing.
Yeah, keep that.
It's a good thing.
That makes sense because those 20% of guys are doing a lot of the girls.
So like the math makes sense.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I don't know.
I don't know.
You want hypergamy?
Oh, yeah, the hypergamy chart.
Okay, we'll look in.
We'll look at it.
Yeah.
Okay, on the left is.
What the hell?
What is this?
On the left is whom men would happily partner with, and then on the right, whom women would happily partner with.
So what you have happening is women are very selective, which isn't a bad thing.
Correct.
And this is going on dating apps, for example.
So men are pretty happily willing to partner with women who are their equivalents, or even a little bit below, right?
But look, everybody wants to get the best that they can get.
However, this is a more pronounced thing in women because women are more sexually selective.
So what you have end up happening is you have the vast majority of women are chasing after the top percentage of men.
And this is backed up by what's going on on dating apps.
Women are only swiping on the top 5 or 10% of men on dating apps.
So what ends up happening is you have a concentration of very attractive men that essentially sort of have a monopoly on a lot of women.
Because look, again, everybody wants to get the best they can get.
The difference is, if I step to a girl, if I approach a girl, whether it's in person or on a dating app or via Instagram, and let's say she's more attractive than I am, by whatever metric you judge or assess attractiveness, I'm getting nothing.
I'm not getting a response.
I'm not getting a first date.
I'm not getting casual sex.
I'm not getting a relationship.
Whereas women, if you slide into a dude's DMs who's got status and you have no status, who's rich, but you're not rich, who's really attractive and you're kind of average, he's probably going to keep, well, he's not probably, but he may very well use you for your body, have sex with you, maybe a couple times.
Maybe he'll keep you around as friends with benefits.
You'll never get commitment from this guy typically.
And so what ends up happening is women will start to think, oh, well, because I can get sex from this guy and he's this attractive, I must be his female equivalent.
Because I can sleep with him and he's this attractive.
I must be his like equivalent attractiveness, which is absolutely not true at all.
So that's why it's very important that women have an accurate self-assessment of their own physical attractiveness.
I said, okay.
Very true.
Destroyed.
Destroyed.
Hey, guys.
You got... Was...
Aw.
We're happy to see you.
Yeah, that was not 10 minutes.
Out you go.
Out you go.
Sorry.
It was it?
Nope.
Tell me I can come back with her.
Oh, okay.
Well, I'm working on a different time clock here.
Okay.
Okay.
Wow.
Yeah, in the corner.
Yep, that corner, so I can keep an eye on you.
Good.
Well done.
At least she's doing submissive.
What's I will not hop in past like earlier.
That's good.
Like in hair.
I had to write that a hundred times.
No, no, no.
Yep.
Face the corner.
Face the corner.
I think they can see you in the mirror, actually.
You guys see her right here?
Wait.
No, no, no.
Face the corner.
Face the corner.
Yeah.
It's right here.
Yeah, you see her?
There you go.
Good.
Zip it.
Okay.
All right.
Well, this whole conversation came from chasing.
We were talking about chasing.
It came from the attraction, didn't it?
It actually made me feel like you said the chase is bullshit.
Oh, yeah.
You said, oh, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually feel.
Oh, no.
Here's how I know guys don't like the chase.
If making guys chase actually worked and increased his attraction to you, then couldn't like ugly or obese women implement this method and just get men.
There has to be physical attraction.
It's actually British.
Well, wait, no, that's Australian.
I was getting it from like Clear, like H2O.
Clear, no, they're Australian accents.
If a guy is attracted to you, into the corner.
Yep, there you go.
Well done.
I actually think I love her.
She's growing.
She's amazing.
I told you you're girl.
That's happening.
Do you know who he is?
Get some duct tape.
No, just, that was a joke.
That was a joke.
Brian, I agree with you here, and I would also elaborate that it's the specification between men in a traditional sense that are not looking for the chase.
Men who are serious about commitment and are looking for committed relationships are looking for a long-time life partner, a woman to be their piece.
If you cause more chaos and you're asking a man to provide for you and protect you and be all of these things that women have these standards they've set for guys and he comes home to utter chaos and problems and picking fights, then you're not being his piece.
Absolutely.
And any man that contests that is not a man.
They're looking for a chase.
They're looking for a game.
At the end of the day, you're not going to get anything solid out of a game.
Which is like these boys.
It's just the guys that we, like, in our age range that we attract, they're just like that.
You said that you were going for older men.
I am.
I am.
But that's just what I go for.
But what I'm surrounded by is younger men that are my age because that's just where I'm at.
I don't know.
I'm not around a bunch of mature husband material men all the time.
Do you go to church?
I do.
I do.
Okay.
There's not like a lot of older men.
I just don't feel like it's appropriate for me.
It is not a time church.
What was that?
Seeking my future husband, honestly.
Which, okay, yeah, it should be.
Yeah.
Maybe I just came up frustrated.
I was like, but for me in church, like, I really use church as a time to worship God.
I don't care about any of the relationship.
Well, then, where are you looking for men?
Where am I looking for men?
Well, okay, so you had said that you're not looking.
So when you encounter men and have relationships with them, where are you finding those men?
Get back in the corner.
I was in the Zara State with that.
Ace is brutal.
You see, that's what she is.
It's in the corner.
Okay, that's good.
All right, you guys see ourselves.
She's being respectful.
That's good.
All right, guys.
All right.
I feel like we're all in the middle of the day.
I don't know if you can see her.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I might get canceled, but.
All right.
Okay.
All right.
Alrighty.
Jeez.
Okay.
Look, I don't think, I'm curious what the chat thinks.
Chat, you prefer.
I want to ask the chat.
Do you want to chase?
Do you want to do the chase?
Do you want a girl who plays hard to get?
Or would you prefer a girl who is just like authentically just upfront and was just, she doesn't have to like come at you really hard.
I don't think girls should be like, I want to fuck you.
No, it shouldn't be like that.
But it should be like they're just upfront.
They're like, hey, I like you.
What do you prefer, guys?
You want to play the chase?
Or do you want to, you know, just be upfront?
You know?
No one.
You can like be, you can take a bit of initiative as a woman and still be feminine in the way you're doing it.
You know, it doesn't have to be the sort of like really abrasive, like, you're hot.
Like, it can still, you can be, like, flirtatious.
You can be flirtatious.
And if I can be honest, like, I don't, I don't think there's been, and mind you, I've been in a relationship pretty much since I was born.
But like, honestly, I've been, I started dating when I was so young and I was with him for 10 years, right?
But, you know, in the very brief period of time that I had where I was like on dating apps, I can't say that there was a single date that I ever went on, even with my current partner today, that was not initiated by me.
And I find for myself it's a preference there because oftentimes if a guy asks me and I'm not into him, it's like, meh, you know, and I don't want to be rude or anything.
So I find for me, and I'm always very keen to be the one who says, hey, loving to chat with you.
I like getting to know you.
Let's go for dinner.
Let's do something.
And thank God that has worked out well.
Everything is.
And again, going back to what I've said is I actually think the best relationship dynamic is one where the woman is more interested in the man.
I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.
Brain, stop being mean.
She's just like us.
My wife made a homemade chocolate peanut butter cream pie for my birthday, 28.
She also gets her husband cream pies for his birthday.
No more corner hoe.
Come back.
That's what I'm talking about.
Come back.
Come back.
I'll allow it.
Come back.
They love you.
Thank you, man.
Yeah, they just donated $100 for you to come back.
Wait, what?
No more corner hoe.
They love your baking.
Yeah, and they said that, like, what happened?
No, they basically said that his wife makes him cream pieces.
He also wrote $50 coin and first blonde cleavage as deposit.
My wife and I were best friends for two years, 10 years together, now romantically.
Is there a guy in your friend group that falls in that category?
Wait, what?
What?
First blonde.
You, Jacqueline.
No, I get it.
But, like, what's the question?
Is there, wait.
I think he was asking if there's any friends that you have that are male friends that are like a best friend who could potentially be a love interest going forward.
No.
Oh, well.
Sorry, boys.
It's interesting to me, though.
It seems like a lot of women will complain that they can't find commitment, but you guys friend zone.
Like, honestly, the dudes who are probably on your level are the guys you friend zone.
Don't get me wrong.
Look, there could be some dudes who are trying to, they're shooting out of their league.
We'll be honest, there's guys who will shoot out of their league.
You're more attractive than them, comparatively speaking.
And you friend zone them.
But a lot of women will friend zone.
Women will friend zone dudes that are more attractive than them.
Not even just looks-wise, just totality, the total package.
Are you a woman?
Do you know that?
What do you mean?
They do.
I think it also comes down as if I never did.
Well, unless he was like a crappy guy, like I would never shoot down a guy that was less attractive.
Ryan Soldier Boy donated $100.
How would you sexy ladies rate me on a scale of one to 10 here in my uniform?
You're 400 short.
You're 400 short.
No, I think he's talking about...
Yeah, I was going to say...
Oh, this guy right here.
Oh.
Here, ladies, what do you rate my Chilean bodyguard?
15 and a half.
Ooh, the bodyguard guy.
How do I get this in France?
Spancer?
Yeah.
Go ahead.
You look great.
I like your blonde.
You seem like a sweet boy.
I'd say 10 out of 10.
You got a 10 out of 10 for Margot Robbie.
I gave you a 10 out of 10.
Margot Robbie.
Come on.
Come on.
You come on.
You said you didn't like the blonde stereotype so you can't get it.
I hate the stereotype.
I'm not stereotyping her to be a blonde.
Margot Robbie, Barbie.
You took on that.
It's a whole other level.
I don't think that's a good idea.
I'm happy with that.
I don't like it.
I don't like it.
And you're hot.
Was that targeted towards me?
I don't know.
So, be honest.
I just take it together.
I just heard some like.
At least we're in this together.
I wasn't even looking in this direction.
I just heard some sort of generalized.
It was actually pretty fun.
Just incoherent female noises.
Brian, what was that Bible verse?
You were going to say like a couple hours ago?
Oh, Proverbs 21, 19.
Better to live in a.
Wait, it's better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
Yeah, that's a valid point.
Probably.
Why would you get with a wife?
Why would you make someone a wife if they made your life miserable?
Well, a lot of guys, especially if they're new to the dating world, think perhaps that that's just the way it is, or you have to tolerate that kind of behavior.
Or it's something that develops.
There's a lot of you're on good behavior till you get the wedding ring.
And then, like, six months in, a year in, you start nagging your boyfriend and quarreling and fighting.
I feel like girls experience the same thing, sort of.
Guys don't really quarrel.
Guys don't.
He literally armed himself in front of her two months into the relationship.
Okay, I'll give you.
Look, there's absolutely anecdotes, but I'm speaking generally.
So generally speaking, you don't often hear women complain about, my boyfriend nags me to do this.
Like the guys don't take nags.
They're not naturally raising our men these days and like the school system and stuff like that.
A lot of them are getting kind of super feminine.
Yeah.
Weak.
Yeah.
You don't even want to know why we got this.
Women used to have white men in that position.
And I agree with you.
And I have feminist ideals that put the school system together have now turned our are taking our men away.
Hands down.
Homeschool.
Homeschool boys.
Amen.
Homeschool boys.
Just make sure you're doing it.
But then they won't get the social keys.
Actually, homeschooled kids do way better with social skills, really.
Yes.
Because the only experience I've gotten from homeschooled kids was like low-key kind of weirdos.
I know they might be quieter because they're not really into what you're talking about.
Possibly.
And that could be true.
The vibe you were giving.
Probably.
Well, I think that's what I'm saying.
But they like, but they're usually social.
Yeah, but I'm just talking about the people who are really.
What was the question?
I always thought, like, growing up, because my, so my dad was Jewish.
My mom was like evangelical Christian.
That's that family, right?
I always thought that, like, homeschooling.
Oh, my God.
Who the hell cares?
That was really mean.
That was.
Homeschooling, yes.
A lot of, well, from my church, a lot of people do homeschool.
Yeah.
But it's becoming more popular as you see.
Like, just a school system is just terrible.
Dude, I want.
I agree.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Dude.
But they have a lot more soul.
Sorry.
I thought we weren't supposed to raw Peter and the wolf.
Oh.
She was just kind of blabber, like, I don't know, saying incoherent noises.
Okay.
What was the context of that Bible verse that you read, Brian?
Do we remember why that was brought to the table?
Not sure, but it was definitely relevant to the conversation.
There are lots of Bible verses, scripture written about a husband's role as well that says that husbands are to wash their brides with the word of God and to love her like the church, which is a sacrificial type of love, regardless of the treatment that you're getting.
There's another book.
Jay Eken donated $100.
Never chase.
Never compete for someone's affection, and you should never have to convince someone of your value.
Love from Alberta, Canada, Brian.
I was a fellow Canadian.
Dude, that was the book.
Merci Bukou.
Merci Buku.
Merci Buku.
Jay Eken.
Appreciate it.
That was fun.
I actually agree.
Like one of the things that I value in the woman is her undivided romantic and sexual attention immediately.
So, of course, I'm gonna want, like, I don't want to play the chase with that kind of girl because if I'm chasing, there's pro if anytime you're chasing a girl, there's probably other dudes in the picture.
You don't, like, if you don't have to chase, or yeah, if you don't have to chase, you know, well, if a girl is making you chase after her, she's probably hiding some other shit because she doesn't want you to find those clouds.
She's hiding some wood.
Jason Merritt donated $100.
Starting from right, kind of Megan Fox 9, Crystal Myth Hills.
Add the zero.com, Rebecca Romaine, 7.
Shari Hadley's daughter, 5.5, Tradwife, 4.5.
Maggie Grace.
Who's Maggie Grace?
Thank you, Jason Merritt.
Doesn't Megan Fox have brown hair?
She's had blonde hair.
Wait is that your what's your natural hair color?
She's like dirty blonde.
Is it what your roots are?
It looks darker because the blonde contrasts.
Yeah, when I was younger, it got darker over what I was doing.
When she was young, she had darker hair.
Why the fuck did I start singing?
That was beautiful, Brian.
Sassy Brian era.
Sassy.
That was beautiful.
I rate your vocal skills 9.9.
I'll be a beautiful.
What do you mean, rude?
You were just half a point on.
Anyways, going back to our pre-show notes here, I'm going to bring it back to Rosalind because we kind of left off.
You said you're happily married with two toddlers.
Although, when I met my husband, he was on his second marriage and I had a boyfriend.
We've been happily together for the past eight years.
I think you kind of...
Oh, wow.
Also, you said, and I'm going to prompt you here, being...
Prompting you here, Rosalyn.
Be...
Being a slut isn't.
Hold on.
Being a slut isn't.
What?
What did I say?
I don't know.
I remember.
No, I'm prompting you.
Oh, being a slut isn't.
It's great.
Is it great?
Sorry.
Being a slut is not a bad thing, you guys.
Like.
Okay, so here.
You said being a slut isn't shameful.
Right.
It's not.
It's something to be proud of as long as women are in charge of the way they hoe themselves out.
But here's the thing: I'm an anomaly.
I have a husband.
We love each other.
I know that it's very hard to understand you guys, but like, I am an anomaly.
So.
And I'm trying to.
I'm not trying to.
I try whatever.
But like in the industry that I, and the people you bring on this podcast, so from what I've seen, right?
Like, they're submissive in these films, right?
They're submissive in these films or these sex tapes, right?
Word.
Words.
Okay, I'm making a point, okay?
They're also submissive behind the camera.
Like, it's not chill.
Like, I'll be submissive and act and do the sickest thing.
Like, I would play three different parts and this and that.
And, like, and I don't have to be submissive behind the camera.
I am boss-bitch.
Like, right?
Like, I do everything.
Yeah.
I don't know.
So, in regards to that, so talk about the adult, the adult.
Like, yeah.
Thank you, Slingshot, for the gifted 10 memberships.
Appreciate it.
Would you consider that?
Do you know what she just said?
I'm so confused, bro.
No, I get lost in translation every time.
I'm talking about the way.
I'm like, wait, you're my teammate.
So, okay, so we can just move on.
She asks, Would you consider yourself a feminist?
Because that's exactly like how the movement started.
It was about like sexual freedom and having power with your sexuality to manipulate men.
Would I consider myself a feminist?
So I took those classes, thought I was.
Not right now.
No.
Not the way things are going right now in this world?
No, I don't.
Okay.
See, I find that almost fascinating.
I know, right?
Culturally, when you think about the feminist movement, how it started, how it was even a year ago, and now even women like yourself who promote and have these businesses that is almost like exactly what they want, you know, but even you're already turning away from it.
Turning away from it.
What do you mean?
Like turning away from feminism.
Oh, well, I don't want to do much.
No, it's just the word.
Are you feminists, right?
Like, I remember the first time that I took my first day of that of the women's studies class I took, they, like, the first thing you had to do was like write a paper.
Like, are you a feminist, right?
And I was like, your age, 18, whatever.
And I was like, you know what?
I don't know.
Like, da-da-da-da.
And I wrote this paper.
And a lot of other people were doing the same thing.
Like, they didn't know, right?
Then after taking that class in other classes like that, I was like, you know what?
I am a feminist.
Yeah.
Right?
Now, fast forward.
I'm 38.
I look good though.
Like, what's going on these days?
Is all I have to say.
I don't know if that makes sense, but I don't see.
Yeah, I don't know.
I'm actually, I'm not surprised about like what's going on with feminism.
Like people say like there's a first wave, second wave, third wave.
I personally feel like it's just a continuum and it was bad like from the beginning.
Like all of that was already in the foundation of it and we're just seeing it kind of like keep going and going and going.
So it's getting more extreme.
Wait, one more time, say that again.
So I'm not surprised about what's going on like in culture right now with feminism because some people see it as like first wave feminism was good, second, third, blah, blah, blah.
I don't see it like that.
I see it as a continuum and it's been bad since the beginning, since the foundation of it.
And we're just seeing more of it.
Like they're just being more public with it.
That was perfect.
I agree.
Praise God.
I agree.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm different.
Yeah, I'm different.
Pull up to the scene with the zoom with the love to the scene.
Maroof got whatever.
Everyone's got to go.
What, Evil?
You got a Q takeover.
Come on, Q. Hey, Q, my, wait, my 13-year-old stepdaughter's hamster, which is basically my hamster.
His name is Q-Tip.
Just so you know.
Q-Tip?
Yeah, Q-Tip.
Mr. Levy donated $100.
She's quirky.
She's crazy.
She's unhinged.
But she's also the most beautiful human being I've ever met in my life.
And if you were privileged to actually know her, you would be beyond blessed.
I love you.
I'm going to find me one like that when I grow up.
And don't forget to push like and subscribe.
That is my husband, yeah.
He's watching live, and I knew one, like in a second, I know, he's with kids.
And he's like, not babysitter.
He's like, go out here and do this.
And yeah, like, say more.
Hey, yo, blow a bag on this.
Go.
Come on, Q. We're rooting for you.
No, I'm talking to my husband.
Yo, blow a bag.
Say more.
They need your money.
Okay.
So I got a question for the ladies on the panel.
Hi.
This is a relationship question.
What would you ladies say is your biggest flaw in dating from my biggest flaw in dating?
I kind of like, I like, and the girl who runs away, but I'm like looking back to make sure you're still there.
You know?
Wait, what does that mean?
You just run from.
Like, what?
You fear commitment?
Yes, that's, yeah, there's, like, a guy right now who is at his knees, like, ready to, like, he's older, he's, like, 24, and he's, like, he's, like, a man.
Like, he's like, y'all, he believes in the same stuff.
Like, he's like a man.
And I don't know.
Like, I like it.
I like the attention, I guess.
But to actually, like, immerse myself in that relationship, I just, I don't know.
But I still.
Is he attractive enough?
No, he's physically attractive.
He is built.
He's huge.
He's 6'4.
Like, he has a lot of money.
He's like, everything, every box is checked.
Yeah.
Are you talking to my husband?
I'm just saying.
Every box is checked, and he is literally like ready for me to commit to him.
And I just can't.
And I can't.
I don't, but I still want him to like want me.
That's my flaw.
And I'm admitting that out loud, which is this is the first time I've actually like admitted that to me.
There's a flaw.
You can tell.
So we just heard you say that you have literally the perfect candidate.
Literally.
To get into a long-term relationship with.
Yep.
Buy it.
And you're foregoing the opportunity.
Yeah.
Why?
Because I'm scared of, like, I feel like I'm scared of commitment.
And I never even like knew that, but looking at it.
You have reason to, though.
So, I mean, but what are you scared of?
Well, I've also, every single relationship I've been in, and I have been in long-term relationships since I was like 14 years old until I was like about eight months ago when that last relationship ended.
And every single relationship I've been in, I've been cheated on.
Like, so that probably is a reason.
Why?
Like, do you go to therapy or anything?
No.
You should.
If it's starting to affect other future relationships and it's something you're holding on to, you absolutely need to take care of it.
Hold on.
I actually, I don't.
Practically speaking, you should stop dating fuckboys.
Straight up.
Hold on.
You missed it.
That was a candidate.
I knew that.
Wait, what?
I asked, what is each woman's flaw in a relationship or in dating?
And she explained that she has the perfect guy right now chasing behind her, but she fears commitment.
So she doesn't want to give him the time of day.
Wait, so the alternative is you don't give him commitment and you keep fucking other men on the street.
I don't fucking know.
How about she's her best friend?
How about you just turn around and stop making him chase after you and turn around?
I don't make him do anything.
No, no, what I mean is, what I mean is he wants to be with you is what I'm saying.
Yeah.
If you were to turn around and say, I really do want to be with you, I'm afraid of what could happen.
Like, and so I don't think that I'm necessarily ready or I just want to like let you know what these are my issues are right now.
So I should be upfront and honest.
Yes.
Well, I have been upfront and honest and I've told him why I probably wouldn't want to date him, whatever, but I still like him in my life to like give me the, I don't know, validation.
I guess you love your honesty by the way, because he knows.
Okay, but let's also acknowledge the fact that the prefrontal cortex doesn't even fully develop in women until the age of 25.
And actually studies show that it might be later than that.
It's still developing at that point.
And that's recent psychology.
But the whole point of that being is that like we can't talk to you guys as an adult perspective, not in a bad way.
Like, you're obviously a legal adult, but like expecting you to reflect on a future relationship given the context of the relationships you've had in the past.
Jax Wilden.
Is that him?
The relationship.
Are they watching me live?
Is that him?
Oh my God, is that him?
That's definitely not him.
Okay.
My point just being that like the relationships you've had in the past can't project those onto your future relationships because you're still so young.
And so expecting the man that you're going to marry to be like the relationships you've had before you became a legal adult.
Well, yeah, I can't do anything about not having as much experience.
No, no, and I'm not saying that you should.
I'm not saying that you should in any means.
I was actually counteracting that therapy thing just because, I mean, therapy is good for me.
I feel like with experience, it'll get easier to like figure out what I want, but I just don't have that.
So I have two relationships.
And you don't need to.
You're so young.
You don't have to.
You don't have to have that figured out.
And you, I mean, like, everybody should go to therapy.
I think it's fantastic.
But it is every day.
Every week, I mean.
Wait, what country?
Wait, question for you.
I'm so glad I'm not dating donated 100.
Thank God.
First blonde.
That's me.
That's the question I ask.
He's right there.
And you're too self-centered to just pursue him.
Case me.
He is.
My wife leaned in.
Now we're rock solid and happy as can be.
She's just not.
It takes time.
That's the thing.
Like, I just don't.
She's like 12, dude.
I'm like 12, dude.
No, but I see myself in you.
And like, I'm, I, I get it.
That's an insult.
Yeah.
No, it's not.
No, actually, it's not.
It's not no idea who I am.
It's not.
She's.
Do you want to go?
Like, like, no, I see myself in you.
You are 10.
Get some lips later, like, 10 years.
You're 9.
And whatever.
And, like, I see, like, I understand.
I get it.
I get it.
The commit, like, the issues, the trauma, whatever.
Speak into the mic, please.
The issues, the trauma you've been through, whatever.
It's like, yeah, you need time.
Right.
Exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
But I admit that is my flaw.
Like, he asked my flaw.
That's where we're talking.
That's my flaw.
And I've never admitted that out loud, but I admit it.
Well, that's Calgary.
It is a flaw.
I'm not saying it's not.
What about you?
What's your flaw in your marriage?
What would you say is a flaw to show you?
My flaw in my marriage or me.
What is your majority?
She played quite a few ones.
What would you say is your most prominent flaw?
Well, look, sorry.
Let me start with saying that I always am willing to work on myself.
So I know I have many flaws.
Okay?
Many flaws.
I interrupt.
I get hyper because I, you know, whatever.
I, God, there's so many.
There's so many.
And that's why I'm in therapy.
Like, whatever.
Like, I have so many flaws.
In your relationship.
My relationship?
Yeah.
Well, okay.
Let me think.
Yeah, I can angle my husband on a little bit because I know how to push his buttons.
You know?
You push your husband's buttons.
You don't purposely do it.
It's like a thing.
You accidentally?
Yeah.
You know what?
Just tell you the truth.
So we've gone through so much.
You guys, you guys don't even know.
You guys know what I'm saying.
We don't know.
We don't know.
Yeah, I know, and I'm not going to tell you right now, but that's all I'm saying.
Sounds good.
Kiss ass.
Okay.
But right now, actually, for the past like six months, probably because of the age.
I'm just kidding.
That was your husband in the chat before?
The one who said.
Levy or his name's Levi or Levy.
Oh, he came in the chat.
He came in the chat.
And when you were out there, he like said.
Yeah, anyways.
We've been really good.
Like, I guess I can tell you the opposite, and then we can like, I don't know if that makes sense, but what used to be something I like worked on then, no, no.
Oh, sorry, thank you.
Okay, so what used to be, here's an example of what used to be a flaw that I, in my marriage, right?
I would, he would, like, have these freakout attacks and, like, you know, we're all mentally ill and whatever, and we've gone through a lot, right?
All of us, whatever.
And then I wouldn't.
Take it into cons.
I wouldn't take into consideration that like hello, you've been through a lot like whatever whatever whatever um, and so through a lot of therapy, I like now, when that happens and not and, by the way, i'm no angel at all like obviously clearly, you're able to see his perspective, i'm able to see his perspective.
I have to think oh, your mom abused you.
Oh, you were had a horrible upbringing.
Oh, and you're killing it in life, like hold on, so now, I don't know man, sounds like a lot of work.
Uh yeah, it is a lot of work.
If you love someone, you'll put in the work.
Literally, if you love somebody, you guys probably will never know the love I have of my husband, which is so epic to say, but I love you guys all, I love you all.
By the way, i'm just glad I didn't get canceled the first second.
I thought I would.
I'm just kidding sorry, I just say things.
Me too, I love it.
We're hanging out.
Did you finish?
That thought I was what.
Oh, that was an example, so like so, right now, we've been really good, so like, I don't know, I don't know, i'm really it's been since she's been taking his perspective and where he's coming from into consideration.
They've been doing really well.
Oh, thank you for translating.
We're both always.
That's why we are so, first and foremost, why our relationship and marriage is so epic and unlike any other and like one in a million is we always put.
We always have like talks on the side, like every week, like we talk about everything, like everything.
That's why we would never have sex with somebody else without the other person, without talking about it or being in the room right, like it's not.
Like they are brutally honest with you, go off and do your thing.
That's not like that at all.
Like this is like, oh, let's vouch the people together.
Oh yeah, she's hot.
Okay, let's like da da da.
In that video that you did, where it's you and four men, one of those is one of those men, your husband.
Yeah okay, and wait, and he's the lead.
Wait, he has your perspective on the fact that it's like wait what you said earlier.
Whose idea was it to do that scene?
Was it his or was it yours?
It was, it was.
Oh, I have.
So it was both of ours.
It was something I always.
No, it was both of ours.
It was something i've always wanted to do, because I told you have sex remember oh, when you're 11, what would you tell yourself?
Stop masturbating so much, or something, ha ha.
So it was your idea, it was my idea, it was my fantasy.
What if he told you no?
What if he told you no, i'm not cool with that?
I would be like cool then I wouldn't have to do it.
Okay 100 yeah, but trust me, I know.
So your husband said yes, i'm okay with you having sex.
Not only did he do that, but he vetted all the people.
Oh yeah, I see his google docs.
Like it's the best, like it's crazy, like our life is not turned it into content.
And wait question, how long have you been involved in adults making adult content?
Is this a new thing or has it been so okay, so like out in the open on the internet, and that two years.
But I it started as a hobby where I would just go on my old, like 2012 Macbook.
When I met him like and like I met him, he's still his wife, right I was like oh, let's have fun.
Like we would like have good night.
I don't sorry, you guys are all like geez whatever, but we would like, do you know, have a great night, you know what I mean, and I would like videotape it on my Mac, like not even a camera, my Macbook Pro, and then I would edit it and make all these elaborate stories.
And it was just like a hobby.
Wait, while you were in a relationship you did this.
No, at that point, at that point, like hundred dollars.
Short answer, meth is her biggest flaw.
Um, you know what?
You're right, I admit it.
You guys is it?
Wait, is this my intervention?
Where's doctor?
I used to do drugs.
I still do what I used to do.
You know what?
You're, Jj, Judgy or Jealous okay, thank you, key Doug.
Wait so, was he you?
He was married, though no, when you were sending him.
This was so this, were you married when you were sending him these videos, I don't know balls, was he married?
Was he married at the time?
Oh, when we were making it?
No, that was at that point, because you said you met him when he was married.
Right, I met him when he was married okay, and then remember, like very shortly after, shortly after.
Sorry, i'm talking so fast.
Just I feel like you have so much to get out like wait question.
You said he's in tech, i'm not gonna tell you?
No, that's fine.
But is he successful in his own right?
He makes good money.
No idea.
That's the thing.
That's what makes us different.
He's, she does not.
You have no idea.
She doesn't need to do that.
But hold on, this is what blows my mind.
I know everyone else's mind too.
You say he's well off, you don't need to like.
So no, why do it?
If you don't need the money, why do it?
She's, it's my calling from Jesus God.
That's last.
No, I reject that.
No, don't go there.
No, hold on let's, let's go into that.
Your call, just so I have this correct, your calling one second of my contact, because you'd be like, oh yeah, I get it.
Yeah, you're a maestro.
Yeah, you're okay, you're okay, you're.
You're saying your calling is to do my calling.
No hey, remember earlier, please.
Your, your calling is to make pornographic content.
Hold on nope nope, it's bigger than that, it's way bigger than that.
Okay, what?
What is it?
Way bigger than that, what is it okay?
So the fact that my husband and I even met is crazy on itself, because we both have the time.
You said no, hold on.
You said it's your calling.
What is your calling?
My calling is to help me.
No, you cannot defer to your friend to be your advocate.
Just to answer the question sorry thanks, no clapping okay.
Okay, i've always I, i've always been an entertainer.
I didn't mean to be, I just am.
Okay, i've always been a sexual person, didn't mean to be, just am same as my husband.
So God called upon you to make pornographic content.
I don't, I wouldn't call it god, i'd say the universe, like i'm sorry, they asked me what I do and who I do it for.
I don't know.
So your, your calling is like straight up, like I don't know, I keep you.
Everyone's trying to stop it.
It's like I can't stop it.
The universe is making it happen.
I met him.
This is happening.
He's very successful tech person.
We meet people all the time.
Like doesn't mean any.
We meet people all the time.
It doesn't mean like you're supposed to get together and do that.
All right dude, you guys just don't get it all right.
And on the next episode also, I want to say that Jesus, since you brought him up dude, I didn't mean to bring him up, just let her, let her talk, let her talk.
Jesus literally was humiliated when he died, so that we don't have to humiliate ourselves.
And he also tells us to glorify him in our bodies.
So I definitely, I obviously.
I know it was probably a joke that you said that, but it's so opposite of what Jesus teaches, because he went through so much, so much abuse that we don't have to go through that.
I went through a lot and we don't have to, we don't have to inflict it on ourselves.
But I hear what you're saying and i'm sorry they thought I offended, so I have Mr. Levy, Dena.
Thank you.
Sorry, not you.
Look, obviously, she's not the most articulate.
But she is the most creative, talented, loving human you'll ever meet.
You won't get that from one show.
And she's not off that.
Thank you.
I love her.
This is your husband.
Yeah, this is his.
This is our husband.
I love him so much.
By the way, I'd like to like.
You know what?
Truth be told, Mr. Levy.
Is that what is that?
Okay, so here's my talk, Mr. Levy.
Listen, I don't know what your life, your wife is like.
Can you, I think we deserve a champagne pop.
I need to, I need to get liquored up to handle the rest of this podcast.
I never drink, but I never drink.
I want to stop at the date.
We want to champion.
Hey, hey, hey, Jack.
Your wife has put us through so much trauma.
Can you kindly do a champagne?
We finally found Britney Spears.
I love Brittany, so don't talk shit about her.
Otherwise, I'm off.
I'm walking out.
You're walking out if we yo, Bender the Offender.
Thank you.
I mean, have you?
Let me just antagonize here a little bit.
I mean, you have seen the recent videos of her just acting ridiculous.
Great.
She's out of control.
It's epic.
Like, like with the dancing and like Brittany.
I love her.
I love her.
It's like, how can you like my girl?
Like, whatever.
Look.
Why are we idolizing?
I mean, like, we might.
We've been daddy.
She's just a girl.
You know what?
Back to my husband, Adam.
I mean, no, I think, I mean, we should have compassion for her, but she's clearly not well.
Truth bomb donated $100.
I'd like to do my part and spread the wealth.
So ill, step up and pay for your rehab.
Oh, it's okay.
I've been there a few times.
Don't worry.
Wait, I do want to just say something to your husband here.
Look, obviously, you're on a podcast.
You know, the way you conduct yourself, for example, for me, like, I'm not going to debate Lord with my girl.
Like, if I'm in a relationship, if I've got a girlfriend, I'm not going to be like, let's spend our entire time together debating.
I'm actually like, very, I consider myself a fairly agreeable person.
I'm not arguing.
Like, most of my relationships, like, I've had, I'm not, like, arguing with my, like, I don't like arguing.
Yeah, I'm not, like, seeking, like, because I'll do that on the show.
Like, I'll seek, like, I'll try to seek out a debate.
You know, that's still in a relationship because the nature of the show is adversarial, but like, in my private life, I'm not like looking to fucking debate Lord with people, especially a significant other.
But, Mr. Levy, there are some things that transcends your conduct, like your conduct on the podcast, where it's like, they must also be this way in, like, behind the scenes in real life.
Oh, you don't even want to see them behind the scenes.
It's so epic.
It's like by epic, do you mean, like, gray hairs and, like, you've aged your husband?
No, actually, he's in great shape.
He's in the best shape he's ever been in.
Like, he works out.
One of the things.
One day you might.
Look, Proverbs 21:19, better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
And I just think that you're a saint.
Mr. Levy, you're a saint.
I've been so am I. You don't even know what I go through.
I've been here.
Listen, I'm not trying to be mean.
I'm just calling it as it is.
He's a saint.
But it's okay.
You're a little difficult.
And I'm not trying to attack you.
I'm not trying to attack you.
You're a bit difficult.
Okay.
You're a little bit difficult.
Granted, I'm an introverted individual.
I'm a creative.
You're a little much.
A little much.
I'm creative.
And so hats off to this guy.
He must be a saint.
This guy's not a good person.
No, let's also just acknowledge the fact that chaos attracts chaos, and we only have one piece of the puzzle here.
Exactly.
And here, let's just go off the fact that I don't know why I just felt like I had to talk and say something, but I don't really have anything to say.
Listen, it's not that camp.
Okay, my husband, he's a genius.
I'm saying, it's like you guys, nobody would ever have a relationship.
1% of the world.
Do you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, it's crazy.
I've never seen it.
I know.
Oh, sorry.
Only like 1% of the world meeting.
Can you tilt your mic down just a bit?
If they're lucky, we'll have a relationship like my husband and I do.
I do not need to work with it.
I'm going to 100% of the world will have a relationship where the wife is fucking other men on camera.
Dude, so you just took, so that's what's happening in your relationship.
This is what I meant, though.
That's what's happening in your life.
This is what I meant.
This is what I meant.
I don't get it, though.
Like, as a guy, right?
And that, look, I don't know.
You're so jealous.
I'm not.
No, I'm not jealous at all.
Okay.
Look.
Fair amount.
People can have different arrangements, but like he's financially well off.
Oh, yeah.
He's financially well off.
And hot.
And buff.
I just can't ever see, like, as a man, I would never want, like, I can't even understand or comprehend or wrap my head around.
Husband, seeing my wife fuck other men on camera.
I don't get it.
Maybe he can weigh in.
I just don't.
Husband, I don't get it.
Weigh in, please, husband.
I don't know.
I will say this much.
I actually agree with you 100%.
Me too.
I agree too.
The thing is, hold on, shush for a second.
Yeah, shush.
Sorry, I will look horrible.
I totally.
Can we get an alien?
I'm so glad the men dating donated $100.
Mr. Levy, what's it like to taste another man for a few days?
You don't even know.
I retract to her not being in the corner.
If she stops talking for the next one hour, I will pop champagne.
Okay, so let me just say one thing.
Mr. Spencer, Mr. Levy, come back in here, please, like on the thing.
No, my husband is so weird that, like, you want to know what people ask for a lot?
Like, they'll see a picture of me with sploof, whatever you call it, on my face, and then they'll comment, and they'll go, and they'll go, um, God, I'd like to kiss her.
And my husband or the other cucks.
Thank you.
I said at the beginning.
No, my husband.
Hey, Ross.
Hey, Ross.
I mean, he might definitely be able to do it.
My husband is not.
He's just playing.
That's why I'm putting out this content because the cucks is all storytelling.
We've played a million different stories.
I'm just going to Google the definition of a cuckold.
I can tell you.
Oh, I did that once, actually.
It was really funny.
A cuckold is a man who has been betrayed by his wife.
I don't know if...
No, there is no betrayal.
What are you guys doing?
Oh, I just have teased the bathroom already.
Also, is that a champion or not?
Uh. I was just joking.
I wanted to ask if you.
Okay, a cuckold, a word used to describe a married man whose wife is sleeping with other men.
Hey, listen.
Mr. Levy donated $100.
How much is the champagne pop?
I'm down to the bottom.
How much is the champagne pop?
Two, she's been more than difficult tonight, but goddamn, I love her.
And why is nobody talking about me fucking other girls?
Adam, I was counting on the bad.
Because they're jealous.
I'm just about to.
Bro, don't yell into the mic.
Mr. Levy, thank you for your pop bottles.
It's $1,000 if you want to do it.
Do it, dude.
It's worth it.
I was about to talk about the fact that the cuckhold thing is watching.
Okay, she's in leggings.
It's okay.
Watching men fuck your wife or whatever.
But the thing is, is that he also fucks other girls.
It goes both ways.
Oh, thank you.
That's what I'm saying.
It's probably haram.
No, you don't understand, you guys.
So, we do a lot of storytelling.
Like I said, I write stuff, whatever, right?
We have so many videos.
One, here's the, here's the, so one, talking.
Sorry, one, I'm so sorry.
Can you just be straight into the table, though, because you're.
Okay, so in one video, I pretend because it was a custom video.
And when somebody asked me to make a custom video, I make it like the best thing they've ever seen to the point where I could post it again.
And that's like one of my films.
Like, I give them the bet, right?
So, listen.
So, what was that?
Okay.
So, I act, so it was like an act.
Like, we both are actors.
Like, we actually do method acting in our porns, like, with comedy.
He was a cuck, and I was some chick.
And I was like, you, here, people talking to me.
I can talk to him if you want, that guy.
That's disgusting.
I can't believe you're saying that.
I'll be like, you can't.
I'm sorry to the world.
Please don't listen to this.
I'm sorry.
I'm not into this dating podcast.
I don't know.
Anyways, Thally, I'm really into philosophy, no relationship experience, but what most men call nagging and quarrelsome behavior, I see as small issues that can be solved with communication.
And my delusional wait, did I say that?
Yeah, I couldn't read it.
I couldn't read that fast enough.
Well, I just read it.
Look, I didn't hear it.
Sorry.
I just read it.
What did you say?
I mean, I would be inclined to agree.
Obviously, it's situational, but more often than not, even with friendships or, you know, romantic relationships, the vast majority of things that end up causing major problems are usually due to our inability to properly communicate them.
Oh.
Well, there's also just a fundamental difference in definition between nagging and bringing attention to something that needs more effort in the relationship collectively.
So if there's something that needs to be fixed, that's a communication issue.
Nagging is, by definition, different.
Yeah, so nagging is what you, the general population of the entire world who's married gets.
Communication is what my husband and I do.
Also, I think nagging is.
Was that articulate?
Oh my gosh.
No, it's so nagged.
Sometimes I think nagging could be something dumb, like he leaves his shoes somewhere you don't want and you get mad over it.
It's just like if you're upset, just move his shoes.
I don't know.
I would never knock.
I think never knock.
Like, for women who maybe either aren't self-aware who aren't self-aware, or maybe they just, they aren't the type to nag, they haven't obviously been in a relationship with a woman because they're heterosexual, right?
They've never been in that kind of relationship because men can nag, but it's fairly rare.
And this, IQ, I'd like to reel you into this.
I think all of us men who've had any, even a modicum of dating experience, we've encountered women who are so quarrelsome.
And it's like night and day when you have like a woman who brings you peace and who's calm and mellow.
And then there's a like there are women, some women will hide that shit and you'll come out three months in, six months in.
But some women, thank God, at least it's up front.
Immediately they lay it on.
Immediately there's something that they're kind of picking on right away.
And they're kind of already like argumentative and disagreeable.
And it can be on the first date.
It can be on the second date.
And women don't really encounter that typically at all.
I feel like there's, I think if you think back to every relationship you've ever been in, any of them.
You lied to me.
Tell me.
Yeah, me too.
I love you.
Sorry, this is not thing.
I love you.
So I think that the moment, if you think back to every single important relationship you've ever had, think back to the one moment that you were like, something was off.
Like in the first date, in the first five minutes.
Oh, when you're breaking up, you knew exactly what was going to be what was going to break you up in the first five minutes and you chose to paint that red flag white.
And like that was, it's like we want that person to be better than they are.
You believe in the potential of them, but you know exactly like within the first five minutes.
And you're like, man, it took a year.
It's funny that you say that because I just read something that was to the same effect and I couldn't agree more.
Like more often than not, you do have it too.
You know.
Do you end up having that thing and it ends up, it's like that's why I didn't bring up my intuition?
If we could like pay attention to that intuition, men too, do you do it too?
Well, and ultimately, too, I think a lot of women sometimes will go for men because they want to change them.
And it's like you're not going to change him.
I didn't know that.
I know that would be better.
I wouldn't call it intuition.
I would just call it heuristics.
Not only is she told her to be from previous dating experiences.
Thank you.
Yo, shut up.
Let them talk.
Thank you.
Yeah, like I said, I wouldn't call it intuition.
I would just call it heuristics from previous dating experiences.
Gamer Heart69 donated $100.
Thank you, gamer.
Girl in the corner acting holier than Methany and the rest of the panel.
Meanwhile, she's given up one-third of her kids.
Holy five tests.
It's not giving up.
Placement is the correct term.
I have sacrificed my desire to raise my child.
Yeah, I sacrificed.
No, he was saying, in contrast, I sacrificed my desire to raise my daughter for the greater good because of what a psychotic maniac her biological father was.
And Welds County would not give me full custody of her until she was born.
So therefore, I was risking a 50-50 agreement, which was not a chance I was going to take.
So I feel like if your child is going to have a better life in the system, you should sleep.
Anyway, not the system.
So it's actually one ring.
She's going to talk about that too.
Yeah, I need to get through some of the notes.
Let me get this chat.
The real MVP is Mercedes.
Not only is she a total babe, calm, supportive, and stoic in dealing with her wild friend.
I'm in love.
Come to Scottsdale so I can take you on the train.
She's looking for her.
You are beautiful.
She's looking for a husband.
So pretty.
Frick up, please.
Please, just like, come on, bruv.
All right, I'll take a breath.
I love you.
I'm going to cuff you next time you get over here.
You were starting to say something I wanted to hear.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
What have you done with that?
Well, here.
And I actually, yes, you've done very well, Mercedes.
Hats off to you because, oh my God, bro, this girl.
Holy fuck.
Dude.
All right.
She accepts his date invitation.
I give champagne.
I mean, yeah, I don't.
Do you know him?
If it's big.
Wait, what does it?
Who's this guy?
I think.
Is this Luce P. Energy?
I live in Los Angeles.
She lives in LA.
You got to fly her out to Scottsdale.
Or maybe somebody could come and do it.
Do you have something cool more comfortable?
That you wanted to hit on?
I was going off of what you said about the nagging.
Oh, yeah, yeah, go.
Yeah, attesting to Brian's point, he was pointing out how y'all don't deal with women and how they nag because y'all like men.
But it is exhausting.
It's emotionally exhausting dealing with a woman who's highly neurotic, highly disagreeable.
Everything bothers her.
Nothing is ever good enough.
She has a problem with every minuscule thing that pops up.
And then she just exaggerates problems and issues to the point to where the only thing you want to do is get away from her.
And that's a very real thing that a lot of men experience.
I've dealt with it.
And as I said, it's not intuitive when you deal with a woman after you've dealt with a woman like that and you move on to another woman.
It's just heuristics.
You already know.
I've seen this before.
I've seen this story before.
This woman is going to be a headache.
And that's essentially what we try to get away from.
These women are migraines.
And they create a lot of issues over the simplest things.
You can't even communicate effectively with them because they're not willing to listen.
They're not willing to understand.
And they don't see the flaws in the things that they do wrong, especially when it comes to how they project those issues.
That woman was given what she wanted by acting that way.
And like, so it's like, I think the more men that are like, yeah, they put up with it.
And so like the men who are like, are like, nah, I'm not having it.
Yeah.
Like, they need more of that in order to stop the nagging.
The one problem though, even if you do check them, I think there's probably like a mental illness component to it.
Like they have BPD or, you know, bipolar.
I mean, I've, I've, not to get into any specifics, but I've definitely encountered women who like they, before you even meet them, you can just, you can just tell they're like already getting on your case about shit.
They're like, I don't know, they're picking fights and quarreling.
You have not even met this person and they already feel entitled to a certain, first off, a girl should never like disrespect you to begin with, but they'll already start like pushing your buttons really early on.
And they'll like to the boundaries, see how far they can get.
And it's like, what are you doing that for?
And it's hard to perfectly articulate, like to give an example of how woman might nag.
But like, for example, here's an example.
Let's say you haven't even met her in person.
You've met online, but she starts.
Here's actually a really good example.
I think maybe a lot of guys have experienced this.
You haven't even met her in person, but you don't respond to her immediately.
Some people, you're very busy.
I'm very busy.
I don't respond to my text right away.
I'm not the type of guy who's always on my phone.
I'll put my phone on silent.
I'll put my...
Jesus fucking Christ.
Fucking came out of nowhere.
Don't say that.
Just use God's name.
Shut the fuck up.
I'll put my phone on silent and I'll put it face down so nothing can disrupt me, right?
And I'll do that for 10 hours straight.
Oh, and then I'll have a girl who I haven't even met in person and she's already like, oh, why didn't you, you know, respond to like, making a big fuss about the fact I haven't responded to her in fucking 10 hours.
That's weird.
I haven't even met you.
No, I agree.
You haven't even gone to you.
Where are you?
Like, you know, chill out.
So, I mean, that's not a perfect example.
There's tons of other examples, but.
Well, then those people are making it easier for you to say no to.
I also think that we'd live, and I'd be curious about your perspective on this.
There's a book called The Crazy Cycle.
I was touching on it earlier.
And the perspective of this psychologist who writes it says that there is a fundamental, two fundamental things in every relationship that's needed to thrive and be healthy.
And those things are love and respect.
And he is a Christian psychologist.
And so he does base this on how God designed men and how God designed women.
The preface of it being that men are fundamentally needed to, designed to need respect and then love, whereas women are created to need love and then respect.
And this has been instrumental in my marriage too, where I just have to be on the right seat on the bus.
I have to trust my husband's discernment and respect his authority over me in a biblical way, not in a belittling or demeaning way, but that his intentions for me and our family are pure and rooted in love.
And I think that's something that lots of women lack in this culture is the ability to have respect and get on that right seat.
It all comes back to the feminist thing where equality Started to become a thing, and then it was like, well, now we're equal, but we weren't created that way.
Well, I think that also there's a lot of women that like they're seeing this new trad wife thing happen and they're like, well, I do like my career and I do like things and I do like want to work and I am able to make it work and have kids.
Like, why is it bad that I have ambitions as well?
And it's like, no, it's not bad.
But the thing is, is like, even if you're a boss bitch, like, you submit to your man.
Like, when you get home, like, he's in charge.
Like, and if you don't have to worry about like that, like, that's how it should be.
You go out and if you don't have to worry about your relationship, a woman in love, like, sings.
Like, she's really at her best.
And, like, you have a loyal, like, beautiful woman, no matter what scale she's on.
She becomes more beautiful when you love her right, right?
And when she can depend on the relationship she's in at home, dude, the whole world is her oyster.
But if, like, all these trite naggings and all this bullshit, like, it just ends up like.
Yeah, you pointed out a really profound difference stemming from the fundamental differences in the way men and women communicate and our value systems.
Like, respect for a man is what love is for a woman.
And essentially, when you deal with a woman who doesn't trust your judgment, that in itself is a lack of respect for you as a man off-rip because you have good intentions.
You're doing things in good faith.
But you have to have proof that you're making the good decisions too, for her to respect your decisions.
Well, she shouldn't be with you if she doesn't trust you.
She should agree.
Exactly.
So from the moment she's with you, you assume she respects your ability to lead.
And you assume she wants you to lead until she's giving you that pushback on nearly everything that you say.
And then it's like, well, what do you think I'm trying to do?
Do you think I'm trying to purposely harm us?
Do you think I'm trying to purposely put us in a negative situation that affects both of us to the point to where you can't trust me or you don't feel that I can lead?
And that's not what most men do.
And I think a lot of women come from a place of having some sort of vitriol towards men who try to lead them in a way they don't agree with because they don't agree with how he corrects them.
And that in turn becomes the disrespect to a man that they need in order to truly appreciate and love his woman.
Yeah.
I make a lot of content about how women should submit to their husbands and about how women should respect their husbands.
And I get so much pushback.
Everyone's like, oh, well, what if he does this or what if he does that?
Yeah.
And it's like, well, why are you thinking of him so low that you think he doesn't care about you and your family?
Like, that's so disrespectful.
But, you know, women just don't respect men.
I also think a lot of that has to do even with the push in recent years, you know, with feminism.
There's so much ego and pride associated with it.
And that makes women so reluctant to get any sort of criticism or be open to hearing any sort of feedback.
And it's, like you said, the boss bitch energy, like all of those movements.
It is so incredibly toxic on society.
Oh, God, and you don't have somebody to answer to.
A hundred percent.
It's lonely up there.
Yeah, a hundred lonesome at the top.
And it's one of those things that's really sad to see with a lot of young women is you, there, there seems to be that narrative in the music we listen to, the TV shows we watch, everything, where it's like, oh, women, you don't need no man.
It's like, yeah, we do actually.
We absolutely need a man.
Are you kidding me?
Nothing that we have in this world would be here if it were not for these strong men that built our civilization.
Period.
Word.
You're not pouring cement at 6 a.m.
Hell no.
Zip it?
Yeah, just take your seat.
I just said it.
Go ahead.
Albert Sovereign said, unfortunately, it's not going to let me pull it back up, but you said the wild lady is an eight on looks.
Also, Brian, please quit Frenching Canada.
Here in Berta, we speak the king's language.
What is the king's language?
English.
English, yes.
There's a lot of English in Alberta.
I'm kind of pissed at Mr. Levy.
Yeah, where's my bottle, dude?
Who's pot bottles at the club?
Come on.
Okay, I think we're caught up on chats.
Let me get through all my show notes here finally.
I think we didn't really wrap up this, but just going back to your thing, you said that being a slut isn't shameful.
Okay.
Erroneous.
Erroneous.
I guess I'm going to have to talk to.
Come on.
Oh my goodness.
You kind of.
You?
You, it's fine.
Maybe you.
Whatever.
I'm curious for you.
This is going to become a meta-conversation.
Like, do you feel like, I don't know if you've had anybody, like, if you've had this sort of interaction with people, but like, do you think the way you've like conducted yourself on the podcast and like the other panelists' assessment of you and the chat?
Like, do you think that's an opportunity for you to reflect on how you act?
Are you kidding me?
Or are you just that, like, you have such a lack of agency that you cannot conduct yourself in the appropriate way?
I'm grateful that it did happen because this is not.
You're 38 years old.
I know.
But like, has nobody, Jesus, that laptop came out of the list.
This is my biggest character defect.
Of course.
I'm like a crazy little but right?
Like I started out on math every day.
But you have, do you have no capacity to control yourself?
I'm confused.
Isn't that crazy?
Why?
No, I do.
No, I do.
Trust me.
I do in some sense, right?
I mean, if you were in a court, if you were in a courtroom.
I thought you were going to say courtroom.
Have you ever been in front of a judge for anything?
Dude, no, dude.
Why would I go to in front of a judge?
Oh, I don't know, but like.
You can get away with murder.
I imagine in that scenario, you would be able to conduct yourself in a way that is not as you're acting.
So what is preventing you?
Like, if you're able to do it in that scenario, why can't you just conduct yourself?
Like, I don't mind people who are a bit eccentric and they're, you know, exciting, but like, you have like demonstrable behavioral issues.
And it's shocking to me that I have to say this to a 38-year-old.
And I'm not trying to attack you, but I'm just like.
No, I actually, I love that you're saying this right now.
I, no, it's actually kind of epic because, like, I wondered how it was going to go.
This is my first podcast ever.
I, like, ever.
Okay.
And, like, I knew podcasts will be coming soon, whatever.
But, like, this is my first podcast ever.
And I was super nervous.
Still am.
I'm just like, I don't even know.
Whatever, you know?
And I, the reason, I just, like, the nerves and being late and just everything was so like that you are seeing my character defects that I know that I have like I'm not in, she has, like the thing is is that she's totally capable of like pulling it together and she'll see this like for herself and she'll be like, she'll like reassess, and these are sort of things you learn when you're a child.
Though like not to not to interrupt, to just you know, if somebody else is speaking, allow them to finish their Thought, not being like disruptive.
Mind you, not only are these sort of like general things that you ought to get without even being prompted or instructed to, but before the show, Nick, who I, in fact, I think I was kind of paying attention, you were even disruptive while Nick was asked for your attention while he was giving the pre-show instructions.
So, my intentions are your, and I remember that, and I was like, very you don't have to like state your case.
Yeah, I'm not trying to state my case, I'm just saying my intentions are pure.
I do remember that.
But not only is it just sort of not only is it self-evident that you conduct yourself in like a certain way, we explicitly tell people, hey, do this, do this, do this, do this, don't do that, don't do that, don't interrupt, don't XYZ.
So, we give it explicit instructions, even though it's something that most of the instructions we give, people should just get to begin with.
But even with the instructions, you still seem to fail it.
My husband would agree with you 100%.
He's like our biggest, like, yeah, I have work to do.
But I don't understand, like, you seem self-aware.
I'm very self-aware.
So, people are capable of growth.
People are capable of changing.
So, there's a first for everything.
I'm going on a podcast.
I don't even know what I've called you out quite abrasively to alter your conduct.
Dude, I've never done that.
And like that about you.
Thank you.
I'm not trying to elicit some sort of viewer.
But it occurs to me that, like, most people, if you kind of check them, and I've done so quite strongly throughout the show, will like kind of check themselves.
Oh, okay, let me get in line.
But you're just like total chaos.
Want to know why?
Well, I do too.
Hold on.
It's because, here's the thing: it's because this is like what just came to me just now, right?
Just right into my head right now.
It's because I feel like my stance out of all of these people and my life and stance.
Sorry, my stance and my life and what I'm about out of everybody here on this panel and whoever's watching, whatever, is so bizarre and hard to explain that, like, I'm already an inarticulate person.
I try, but like, so it's very anxiety.
Did you say inarticulate?
I'm very inarticulate.
Oh, I said I'm already not articulating.
Your ability to articulate or not articulate is kind of irrelevant in terms of condition.
I'm just having anxiety.
Like, I'm just, first, can I?
Wouldn't somebody who has anxiety actually kind of like not necessarily, because she mentioned earlier that she has ADHD.
And if she actually has ADHD, NQ will support me on this.
Hyper attentive, like that, that in the DSM is characterized by the inability to connect those pieces.
So all of Brian's recommendations, if that is a true diagnosis that you suffer from, would make it completely explain everything that has happened on this episode, quite frankly.
And I would also just like to point out that like we all have flaws and just because they're not so straightforward doesn't mean that you are just maybe more eccentric, but like not less than in any way.
Reality donated $100.
Just want to point out that only women and children can get away with behavior like this.
If that was a man sitting there, it would not be tolerated to be a man.
I am a man.
Wait, who said I wasn't?
Stop it.
Even your answer to the TTS instead of it begins such that I was supposed to, but roast them back.
You said that.
What?
We said you said that.
You did.
You said I did.
You did actually say that.
That's why I've been doing it.
Swear.
It's all my fault.
Bible. Bible?
No, Nick says in the...
Dude, pull it up.
He said, feel free to roast them.
Nick says, if the chats roast.
No.
In our 10-minute pre-show, Nick says, listen, be prepared.
Some of the chats might roast you.
If you want, you can roast them back.
That way you don't feel like it's a one-directional thing.
So I gotta.
Like, he said I should.
I'm following.
No, he didn't say you should.
He said you can.
If you want to roast back.
Do it.
No, he didn't.
But it's just like it's.
But you weren't roasting back.
You said I'm a man.
Whatever, dude.
Because whatever.
I'm a man.
Okay, cool, bro.
Yeah, but he's right, though.
He is.
If he were a man, then it would be crazy.
He probably likes that better, anyways.
Can I ask her a question?
The thing is, she'll deflect.
She'll deflect because I'm just going to move on.
All right.
Okay.
Here, I'm going to get through my prompts.
Okay, let's try to bring it back to this.
You said that being a slut isn't shameful.
Okay.
I think it is.
Okay, so I think that.
Oh, sorry.
No, Here, let me help you once again.
If Nick makes a correction, you need not take three seconds of the show to address it and say, oh my God, I'm so sorry.
Just do it.
Just do the fix.
I just said, okay.
So then I don't have to take 10 seconds away from the show and say, like, okay, now we're getting it.
We can actually take like 30 minutes from the show and start talking to other people.
We can start.
How about, like, I don't mean, like, I'm really.
Okay, so you say that.
Being a slut is empowering if you want to be a slut, right?
Okay.
Okay, the wording, the wording, okay, could be different, whatever.
This is for, you know, a question I was answering to go on a podcast.
I didn't even know what this podcast was, right?
Oh, okay.
So you just don't want to engage with the actual discussion.
No, I'd like to.
I'm just telling you the wording, okay?
Listen, I believe that, like, these days, like, in the, I don't even know, I don't know much about the picture.
Here, let's just talk.
Okay, fine.
Here, let's just bring it here.
So, okay, so body count doesn't matter then.
What do you mean?
Okay, fine.
Let me just get right to the point then.
What's your body count?
No clue.
Literally, give us a ring.
Okay, light year and beyond.
Like, it's over 100.
I just told you it's infinity.
Buzz Lightyear called and said what my body count is.
Like, I don't know what to tell you.
I'm being totally honest, dude.
And you know what?
I'm so happy about it because I've talked to the most disgusting dudes.
I've talked dope dudes.
Cool.
So what's your body count?
Infinity and beyond, dude.
Buzz Lightyear.
I don't know what to tell you.
I have a high body count.
I'm cool with that.
Yeah, so what do you think of this?
And here's a little message.
No, wait, wait, quick.
Nah, nah, no quick.
How about why don't you just say?
Why don't you just say?
I don't know the number.
That's what I'm saying.
Is it more than 10?
Is this like a bunch of people?
Why are you looking at your friends?
Just answer the question.
Is this a joke?
Because I just told you.
It's a lot, dude.
It's a lot.
Well, let's go.
Okay, so it's a lot.
See, I'm trying to do a little math here.
Okay.
Do it.
I was waiting for that.
Oh, yeah, that one.
Is it above 100?
Okay.
Is it above 100?
Yes.
Is it above 200?
Probably.
Is it above 300?
You know what?
Maybe not.
So between 200 and 300.
You know what?
God, I don't know.
Mr. Levy, help.
Where's my husband?
I'm so grateful, though.
I don't know.
I don't regret one.
Literally found somebody who absolutely adores all of her idiosyncratic eccentricities.
And like, that is who she is.
And he understands her creative genius.
Though she doesn't have social aptitude, she does make up for in her life strange creative genius.
And that's why we make the most epic high art you've ever seen.
You guys might.
Is that when it came to like asking about whether or not porn was given to you or like by Jesus or whatever, that's not the truth.
But the thing is, is that both of them are very comfortable with their bodies.
This is just my assessment from seeing it from the outside.
Okay, hold on, hold on.
Both of them are super comfortable with their bodies.
They feel comfortable in that.
They've used that instrument to begin their process of creative journey.
I'm so glad I'm not taking donated $100.
Mr. Levy isn't responding because he's crying tears of joy due to brains forthcoming.
He's thinking, thank God, the amount of times I've stood over her with a pillow in the late hours is astounding.
I will say this much.
It's good.
Many a time.
But the thing is, is that like, since the two of them are comfortable with their own body and they both like comedy, they like to do these things.
They actually use it as a creative pursuit with each other.
I think that it's actually probably going to go further than from my way.
Like it'll be something different.
But it's their weird art to create.
You know, it's like to reach their own.
The weird art.
Yep.
Okay.
Here, you also, I'm just going to try to get through this as fast as I can.
You don't have to do me.
You can do someone else.
Like, who else hasn't talked?
You?
What?
What's up?
Come on, Mercedes.
Like, come on, dude.
Why not?
You said, you said, because I'm just trying to get through the pre-show notes so I can get to somebody else.
Well, do it.
Because you sell papers, dog.
Chill out.
You said your experience has been, you said sex outside of marriage makes your relationship stronger.
With my marriage.
Can I please specifically say?
Yeah, you can do it.
With my marriage.
Amen.
Does that make sense?
To anyone.
To her?
To you?
Yes.
It makes sense.
Mine.
It's all that matters.
Do you know how many people there are on this earth?
I don't, whatever.
First of all, are we even in like an earth?
Like, are we in a simulation?
Who knows?
With my marriage, okay?
With my specific marriage.
Because most people just made it very strong.
It's interesting.
It's fun.
I don't nag him.
He doesn't nag me.
You don't nag your husband?
Never.
Mr. Levy.
Literally, we tell each other fucking.
It's not that hard to believe, but okay.
They both nag each other.
But in like a cute way, it's not like a weird thing.
Hey, like, oh, God, most people are.
All right, I'm going to read this chat.
Big sassy.
Actually, Mercedes, can you read this?
Mercedes, stop talking.
You're making me fall harder.
I'll come to you.
I'm 40, retired, can fix anything.
Decent looking.
6'2, former Marine.
I won't move to LA, however.
What say ye, DMs?
Oh my God, when's the wedding?
Well, you should say yes.
Definitely say yes.
When's the wedding?
Mr. Levy donated $100.
Thank you.
Why are you judging this woman based on her body count?
You're seeing one side of her.
She has so many dimensions.
She's also an incredible wife and mother.
You're so close-minded.
No, he's putting on a show.
I want to say that, though, too, and I'm only speaking for myself here, but there are.
Where's the champagne?
Thank you, Daddy.
I need to get some fucking life to deal with this headache.
My husband, Levy, please, we all need it.
Like, I'm exhausted.
How much longer is it going?
Let's go.
Hey.
She wants the bottle of champagne.
After all, I worked hard for it.
The Polish Texan Methany has room temperature IQ and says the most brain-dead things.
Her loudmouth degeneracy is vomit-inducing.
She needs to be in an asylum where she can get some electro-shock therapy.
And why are you like spending $50 to tell me that?
Exactly.
The poll.
I'll see you on my OF account.
That's actually a valid point.
Why are you spending $50 to tell me that?
Let me recommend you some videos.
Home for the holidays is my favorite.
Directed, written, starred, produced by me.
All right.
Who else wants to pay?
Say something.
Actually, just fucking go.
Going around the table.
What's everybody's body count?
So yours is 200 to 300.
I don't know.
We will not disclose.
Range, give us range.
Under five.
Or she said three earlier.
Truth bomb donated $100.
He's not a cup, dude.
He knows he's not a bad person.
Mr. Levy is cup, no doubt.
You have to send the asteroid.
Send him the asteroid.
Thank you, Truth Brom.
Appreciate it.
Asteroid sense.
He's not a cuck.
You can watch the videos.
If your wife sleeps with other men, I think technically.
Dude, you are no idea what's going on.
No, we never said that.
I do know what's going on.
Oh, I know what's going on.
I know what's going on.
This is like an asteroid.
This is like a declaration.
Blah, blah, blah.
It's objective.
It's just objective truth and reality and facts.
There are videos of you on your Twitter ones.
Huh?
Having sex with other men.
Yeah.
If the definition of being a cuck is being married to a woman who fucks other men.
Like, I think it's hot when I see her.
Him, fuck this hot ass blonde.
Like, your point?
Okay, cool.
Okay, cool.
Cool story, bro.
Well, we're going to agree to disagree or we just disagree, but the two J's.
Always remember.
You also said the stereotypes about sex outside of marriage are stupid and everyone else.
I mean, stupid.
I have to send this fast.
Let me send it.
One more thing to add.
My husband works in tech and earns a fantastic living.
At the same time, he helps me with my business and co-stars in my videos.
I don't have to work at all if I didn't want to.
Nope.
But this is my calling.
So your calling is to fuck other men besides your husband?
Okay.
You know what?
Okay, hold on.
No, I'm not kidding.
I just have to like.
My skirt was like.
Okay.
Here's the thing.
No, that's not my calling.
My calling is to empower women by talking about you guys, okay?
I understand that.
Empower women.
Listen.
Want to know how?
Yeah, explain it to me.
A cum slut, dirty whore.
And a good wife and mom at the same time.
You don't have to just pick one, dude.
You don't.
I'm sorry.
Like, everybody's like, sorry, I have, like, if I'm going to have, if I have the talent and this is the thing that the universe has guided me to do, there's no talent, then I'm going to do it.
Like, you're not, but it's not, it's not hard to have sex.
It's more of the creative action.
If you don't get it, the sex who hits my videos is it's so much thought into the set design.
Private chat.
That's what I mean.
It's going to go hopefully.
It's going somewhere else.
I know it is.
I already know because I already know that it is because I already know because we all know what I'm talking about, right?
Like, yeah, it is.
It's on a rocket ship.
And this is the start of it.
So thank you for having me on.
I don't care if $50 person hating.
Great.
Cool.
So your calling is to empower women to be more promiscuous?
No, no.
You said for them to be sluts.
They are sluts, dude.
Wait, what?
Okay.
Not these girls, but you know.
My.
Okay.
God, I'm hot.
It's really hard.
First of all, I mean, usually I go to bed at nine because I'm a mom.
So I'm up past my bedtime already.
I work morning radio.
Get out of here.
I'm so exhausted.
On top of it, this has been so anxiety-provoking.
Like, and like, everybody.
I'm like, I'm trying so hard right now to like give you a good show.
What?
I'm thinking pub test.
He gifted five subs.
Continue.
Okay.
Don't just, you're working so hard.
I really am, you guys.
I really am.
Thank you.
Can you read it?
This is my husband.
You guys are playing into a common stereotype.
I'm a cuck because she fucks men.
I am a cuck because she fucks men in our videos.
But it doesn't matter that she watches me fuck other girls.
Why not be curious about our deeper connection?
Ooh, he snapped.
I'm not, I don't think any of us are discrediting.
You're just saying Jesus and it's like things.
How much love you two have for each other here.
I know I certainly am not with all of this.
You just don't agree with.
I don't agree with what you do, but also I don't doubt for a second that you guys have a very deep bond that I may not ever experience.
Imagine, so you have that deep bond right, and then you have sex, right?
And it's always great, and then you videotape it and make it epic art.
Like, oh my God, that's your battery.
Diamond doesn't.
So, here's what we're gonna do.
I feel like you've monopolized the monopolized the time of the show way too much.
Frankly, I would potentially allow.
You're just gonna be way too disruptive for the rest of the show.
There's other things.
So I have to kick you out.
You've got to leave.
There's no way I'm going to be able to.
I kept saying that.
There's no way I'm going to be able to.
I'm so tired.
Yeah, there's no way I'm going to be able to actually wrap the show.
So just you don't got to make a scene.
I'm not making a scene.
I know.
I know.
You can just go ahead and leave.
Just leave.
Have a nice leave.
I need to stay there.
Bye.
Love you all.
Yep.
You can just go out.
Oh, I'm going to miss her.
Spencer, if you can just get her.
All right.
I need to, I just, I cannot get, I'm not going to be able to get through the whole show, so she's just got to go.
I probably should have done it way sooner.
I was trying to be patient and give her a chance, but just it's on a scale of one to ten, good amount of entertainment.
I agree.
But at what cost?
At what cost?
Like it's so crazy because it's like just like one facet.
And I also know that she just.
The chat's going to be on me, like, dude, you should have done it way sooner.
But just like, I can't get a straight answer.
I gave her so many chances.
Whatever.
Okay, let me finally get into everybody else's notes here.
Oh, we were going around on body count.
Oh, okay.
All right.
Oh, me?
Yeah.
Yes.
I would, I'm definitely like.
I was wild when I was younger.
I was absolutely fucking wild.
I'm going to put it like between fuck.
Dude, why do you have to ask these questions?
Somewhere between like, probably around 50, 50, 75, something like that.
50 to 75.
Somewhere in there, yeah.
So 100?
I mean, I don't think so.
I don't think so.
Hey, can you just, can you just leave?
Like, you don't need to talk.
Can you just, we need you to leave.
Yeah, you can.
What the fuck?
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
She's harmless.
So 50 to 100, you said?
No, I said 50 to 75.
Chill out.
But the thing is, I was super wild when I was younger.
Okay.
I'm not going to disclose it, but it is in the single digits.
Less than.
Less than 10.
So nine.
It's in the lower single digits.
I'm just not going to disclose because I don't want to share with you.
You said less than 10, so it's not less than 5, right?
I'm not going to share it with the internet.
I'm sorry.
You're crazy.
It's in the single digits.
I can't.
Between 5 and 10.
Can you give us that?
I don't want to do it.
I don't want to switch it.
That's fine.
What about you?
Well, I've been the victim, unfortunately, of a pretty serious assault when I was younger.
Consensual.
Oh, yeah.
I honestly don't really know, but definitely under 10.
For sure, under 10.
You don't have to tell us, but I mean, it occurs to me if you've had less than 10 sexual partners, I think you would know precisely.
I agree.
I do know precisely.
If I could count on the fact that I'd say, I've just never done that.
I think the reason why is because of that experience.
There's like memory.
But okay, if you've had less than 10 sexual partners, like I, you could, if you've had three sexual partners, it's okay, that was Billy, and then there was Chuck, and then there was Ruby.
But once you hit like 20, you're starting to forget names and shit.
Yeah.
Yeah, I think.
Under 10, you should remember.
Like, you should precisely know.
I would say seven.
There may be one or something unaccounted for in there, but I would say seven.
I should have had Madison.
Go ahead, take the seat.
It's low, either way.
Okay.
Lucky you.
As Michael Knowles has said, a lady never shares.
That's what I'm saying.
That's what I'm saying.
I knew I was doing the wrong thing.
Yeah, Michael Knowles is fantastic.
Out of respect for my husband, I'm also not going to disclose, but I can say at least three because I have three children.
Dude, I should have taken myself.
Oh, I hate that.
But you know what?
Honesty is the best policy, so who cares?
No, at the end of the day, it's like I've totally shifted in the way I act now versus how I was then.
Here, I'll read these chats really quick.
Andy Welsh, Brian, you just got out-framed so hard.
A lesson to men to have stronger frame.
Not really sure entirely what you mean.
Maybe the only angle here is like I should have kicked her out sooner, which I agree.
That would have probably been the best move because instead of allowing her to like continuously frustrate me.
But yeah.
I am me.
Brian, why would you do this to yourself a Sunday evening?
The cost of not kicking her earlier is that all watchers are way dumber now.
I don't dispute dispute that.
I should have done it sooner, but I was trying to get through.
I try to like, I try to really give people a chance.
I should have done it sooner.
But she was also pure entertainment, so please.
Let's be honest.
Come on now.
It's not worth the headache, to be honest.
Like, I can have good shows and good conversations without.
Like, you can, here's the other thing.
Like, you can be entertaining, but like the, I don't think it was entertaining when she's constantly like moving her mic and like disrupting.
Like, if she's saying entertaining things, that's one thing.
But like, if it comes with like just being kind of annoying and not being respectful to me or other guests and just being like obnoxious and you know, this thing, I totally agree with you.
Like, that, I don't even think that's entertaining.
And then she's just so, I'm not trying to, I'm not saying this to attack her, but she's kind of like incoherent.
So like, she's actually like, she's entertaining because she's a train wreck.
Like, but she's not entertaining because of anything she really says.
I think.
Like, she doesn't, I don't know.
It doesn't, at least to me, I don't think.
Let's not talk shit about her while she's not here.
Can you scoot your mic?
Okay, don't sorry.
Why don't y'all disclose y'all's body count?
Is it just a girl thing?
Oh, I mean, if Karen wants to, you can.
You don't want to, Brian?
I'm not disclosing my body count.
Okay.
I did it before, like, several times.
So there you have it.
Let me read these others.
Guys, do it through Streamlabs, boys.
So it comes through as the TTS.
Guys, streamlabs.com/slash whatever.
All right, we have Rick Bungle, Bricks, and stop promoting the use of methamphetamine on your podcast, please.
Fuck, dude, you're right.
I'm messed up.
I'll try.
I'll do better.
Thank you, man.
I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
To absolutely nobody.
Thank you, Rick.
Appreciate it.
All right, we have Phil Gowan, Mercy Buku for the Canadian 100.
Hey, Brian, at least she didn't come with a raccoon.
That's true.
That's true.
She didn't.
She didn't come with a raccoon.
So that's true.
Thank you, Phil, for the Canadian 100.
Appreciate it, man.
Okay.
Yes, guys, go to twitch.tv/slash whatever.
Drops the follow, drops a prime sub, prime sub.
And also go to our clips channel on YouTube, whatever seconds.
We're trying to get to 1 million subscribers, guys.
Help us out.
Get us to 1 million subs.
Thank you guys.
All right, let's finally try to get through all our pre-show notes here.
Okay, where were we?
Can I add to my answer about the body count thing?
Sure.
Yeah.
I don't want you guys to think it's like a crazy number.
I can count it in one hand.
So I just want to say that.
Oh, can I also add something?
I meant guys and girls, by the way.
Ooh.
Can I also add something?
As Michael Knowles would say, I don't disclose that.
Wait, didn't you already?
You already did.
I know.
So you're not really adding something?
It's called the game.
Can I add something?
Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
Whatever y'all's body counts are.
No.
No, definitely.
Can't you fuckers learn anything at college?
Okay, good talk.
All right.
Let's see.
We have no, we did Aspen.
We have Jacqueline.
Actually, no, we finished.
We did all your notes.
We did mine.
We didn't do Jacqueline, but.
Wait, what?
Because we did.
Her pre-shows.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We got Mercedes.
Mercedes, you described yourself as traditional.
I am.
Now you said you were a dominatrix for a year.
You lived/slash worked in a swinger club and didn't have sex for a year.
Well, working there, yeah.
Okay.
For sure.
I was about sexual freedom before it was viral.
Not sure what that means.
It's like I think as you grow up, it's like you think that anything that is taboo, most people want to do.
We need you.
We need you, bro.
Get over here.
We're in pain.
Here, sit, sit in the chair, bro.
We got a beautiful open chair for you.
Most of the time, people, like, I think that in growing up or whatever, it's like sex is taboo.
He's in pain.
Why is he in pain?
He's emotional.
Oh, having to deal with things.
I'll pray for you.
Go ahead, go ahead.
All right.
Like, basically, like, I don't, I'm not into the whole like body count culture and like the whole thing about like, you know, it doesn't matter.
I'm just being sexually free and like all that shit.
Like, I've kind of like lived through that.
And it's not, I actually envy girls that have a lower body count because I went through like my wild times and I'm like, it's, I've learned through life, it's just like make a list of what you want in a partner, become that, and that person will arrive.
Like, that is, that's, that's the way to be.
And it's not about like, like, I was crazy and I was on substances like when I was much younger and I was making real bad decisions.
But I've changed my life around, so I'm not, you know, but I am all for, like, I did wild out there shit.
I was a dominatrix for a year.
Just one year?
Yeah, it was a little bit much.
Like, the whole fucking having slaves and shit.
I was being this one woman I met.
She was like, do you want to be a dominatrix?
She was like, I'll teach you.
I have my own dungeon.
I was like, okay, why not?
I always used to say yes to everything.
I mean, I left home at 15.
So, like, I have had a wild life.
Do you want to explain what a dominatrix is for our dear friend, Aspen?
It's like, it's basically like bondage.
It's BDSM.
You basically are, it's sad mask.
You're tied up, you tie up.
Oh, so just like really kinky stuff.
Yeah, real kinky stuff.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, it's, there's many different levels.
I don't really want to go into like all the intricacies of like the mentals with it, but I was under the tutelage of this woman, and I thank you.
Good word.
I read voraciously as a child.
I realized that that was her whole life.
And I was like, this is a lot.
understood the kink and I understood why people did it and a lot of times we'd have to like make contracts in order to people be like I don't want to be like abandoned I don't want this.
I don't want that.
And you get them comfortable and then you push those boundaries.
The things they said they wouldn't do, you push.
Reason being that it's actually more emotional and therapeutic to push a person outside of their.
You ever whipped anybody?
Yeah, ish.
I mean, it's not like, it's not like it is in the movies necessarily.
There's a lot of, like, we would lock a person in a cage and then go to lunch because they didn't want to be abandoned type of thing.
Or, yeah, I mean, there's a lot of crazy, but I never got naked.
Did they pay for that?
Yeah.
They paid to get tortured.
Yeah, of course.
They pay well.
Yeah, they do pay well.
And some people like to, you know, then there's like that financial thing that you have to hear you.
Yeah.
Financial dominance.
Financial dominance.
It's like, you can pay this bill for me.
Tell me another bill I can pay.
Like, you're like.
Where are you finding those?
It's.
The thing is, it wasn't for me.
I did it for a year, but I just, the woman I was working with, she was really unhappy, and I just didn't see, I couldn't even leave the dungeon and go home.
I'd have to go to somewhere else first because in case somebody was like following me, it's just quite the life.
It was interesting.
You said that you feel that maintaining your sexual energy is for your partner only.
I believe that it's important to maintain your sexual energy and have it with your partner only.
What about you?
You mentioned something about AI, something about.
Oh, I was, because when you have like a lot of those girls who are on OnlyFans on here, I'm usually sitting yelling at the TV.
I'm like, ah, like these girls need to work on their skill sets.
Like, because at the end of the day, like, they're like, I need a high-value male and all this stuff, and they need to be making this.
And it's like, mama, AI is coming.
And those crazy, dorky guys that you are like making fun of that aren't as good enough for you or whatever, those are the ones making the AI girls who are going to take your job on OnlyFans.
And those guys are going to be making the money.
Well, wasn't there that story that was in the news a few weeks ago about that somebody on AI on OnlyFans and they made like a million dollars?
Yeah, no, they're already doing it because guys know what guys want.
They can make the AI, like have AI make the thing and then girls are out of the job.
Now what?
Damn.
Well, definitely.
I mean, there are those AIs on OnlyFans.
And I mean, I think a lot of people are.
How real it's getting?
It's getting better.
It's so real now with the next one.
It's going to get so, I mean, some of them are very convincing.
The AIs.
The Instagrams that are all AI that are like perfect.
It's like, that's what they want.
And they're making money, and so it's like these girls are actually getting edged out of their, they haven't cornered the market.
It's true.
So the guys will be making money and the decisions.
You said that you have a theory of how to fix the entire broken system of sex, how to change society for the better.
Oh, it's a deep one.
I just think that if we, if we, I feel like throughout the ages, like we've actually treated, like, sex is one of the most powerful, powerful gifts that we have, and it's magic.
And if we would actually treat it the way it's supposed to be treated and respected it, like, like I said earlier in the podcast, like it can create babies.
It can create a whole nother human.
Like if you were to channel that and stop like just disrespecting it, like spilling your seed, doing porn all the time, like getting all like, I just think that like our world would be in a better place.
And I feel that there's like powers that be that are above, it's not just the guys who are just chasing, like guys, like girls who are like empowered by being on OnlyFans, it's like guys are only sitting there in their fever pitch, you know, like right there in that moment.
And then what happens, they come and they close the fucking thing and they walk away.
Like that's all the power, you have the power for that.
Like it's there, that's not wifey material, like what you were saying.
True.
And it's just if we would actually like retain our seed and treat it how it's supposed to be treated and we taught our children that way to not that there shouldn't be like a oh I'm gonna just go out and, you know, have a bunch of sex and figure out like where my partner's gonna be.
Like if you honored that and you kept it like close to the chest and you were like you come from two parents who were absolutely in love and like waited to find each other.
It would take a couple generations to fix this.
But like if you were made from love, like you would know what love looks like, from love, creating love.
And so then, like these kids would go out and like they would explore the world and, like you know, try to create things businesses this, that and the other, and then if they found somebody and the vibes weren't on, they'd be like you're awesome, move on.
But when you find that person, because we'd be so attuned to it, you'd actually like end up changing the world with love.
If we actually respected sex and what it can do, and I also think you wouldn't have a bunch of npcs running around and a bunch of extra people in that sense, because you wouldn't have frivolous unions making unwanted people.
It's also the closest you can get to another person like.
You're quite literally inside of each other.
Yeah, it's beautiful, it's beautiful.
Well, they also say that, like Brian, you know like, if you, if you actually got into, like Kundalini and like you went into, like you got into like the whole energetics of sex, like they would like, like all of the uh, you know, the crazy emperors in China.
They said they would only have, they would only spill their seed when they were making a baby.
Well, I think that they actually retain their seed all the time because all it takes is one sperm.
And so if you were to consciously like release and that human were to be the one that was made, that's some powerful shit.
I don't know man, that that's pretty close.
A lot of work it does.
I mean you, like can consciously be like yo balls only release one sperm.
At that point, at that point, this is like like a pipe dream, but at that point we would all actually be spiritually attuned enough to actually pay attention to like our spiritual levels and like where we're at, and we'd be able to like consciously connect with another human being and be able to consciously make another human being.
But i'm more like thinking about, are you saying that like as a dude, if you meditate, or like, get on a different astral plane that you can actually like control yes, or yes, you can.
So only one little swimmer yep, goes out.
Yep, like your best swimmer.
Like your best swimmer, your best yes, take notes, 20 year old 304s.
When we tell you you will turn into a 40 year old cat lady, this is what we are referring to, a woman trying to convince you to stop hoeing so she can find a man.
Whatever, I don't care, i'm not.
First of all, I hate cats.
But you want to like respond?
Do you want to?
Did you want to respond to that?
Oh, I don't give a shit.
Like, he's mildly retarded.
Like, that's cool.
Like, I'm going to convince you to stop poeing.
Yeah, stop poeing.
I don't think it's a good thing for fucking society.
Sorry.
All right.
That's good.
That's good.
You said you watch the podcast all the time.
I'm always so frustrated because I can go deeper and be a great female voice to the conservative men you have on the podcast.
I have facts that have been discussed and I can connect the dots that could help open the minds of these OF girls.
I think kind of like where I was going with all that.
Okay, I see.
Okay.
I'm still a little confused by the like, that's a thing guys can do.
They can just shoot out just one sperm.
If you actually like go into like retaining your seed and like learning how to do that, there's a whole process.
And like that actually, like you pull your, you keep your energy in and then you channel it upwards, like through breathing processes and everything.
There's like a whole like thread on it.
Wouldn't it, I mean, like if the best, like, let's say you don't do that.
Isn't the best sperm going to make its actually that's not true.
I was going to say the best sperm will make its way.
Like the strongest swimmer, you know?
But then you end up with like maybe not.
All right.
All right.
I'm just saying like that's like the ideal version.
I'm just saying like if you were to retain your seed more than 20 years.
Do you have to Google that to figure that out?
Like how to just send one sperm out?
Because I might be interested in it.
It's a practice, I would suppose, yeah.
You got to give that to NBA players so they stop handing out so many NDAs, you know, and just practice.
What is an idea?
What do we got here?
Oh, we have, moving on to Jasmine.
Jasmine, you said you're a reformed party girl after seeing the destruction it was causing my life and surviving an OD.
What did it mean to you to be a party girl?
So in terms of sexual activity, there wasn't a ton of that as I was in a relationship for a good chunk of time.
But for me, I think I had a group of girlfriends where I would regularly, I would just like drinking non-stop, doing all sorts of other things, which is why I ended up nearly losing my life when I was 21 years old.
And that was, that really changed my life for sure.
And I went from being somebody who would so frequently be out partying, like drinking.
It was like my lifestyle was so chaotic and it was so toxic and bad.
And I was just surrounded with people who affirmed that lifestyle for me because they were all doing it too.
And somehow we were all functional until that incident happened.
And, you know, I ultimately ended up saying, like, I can't do this anymore.
This is like, I'm literally not going to be here anymore if I keep doing this.
This is horrible.
And I quite literally cold turkey, cut off my ties with my entire friend group at that point.
I spent a very lonely summer.
And, you know, I don't really drink much anymore.
I still do occasionally.
But it's been crazy to me to see where I used to be like going to clubs all the time, going to raves all the time, spending so many countless nights like in some random person's basement until the sun rose.
Like it just awful stuff.
It makes me feel sick to even think about how I felt back then.
Like just, it's just, you see it all the time where there's so many things in today's culture and in the narratives that just like push young women to like want to go out and be fun.
Like, yeah, you're going to be fun.
You're going to go to Las Vegas on your birthday and just all that stuff.
And then to kind of reflect now today from like here I am and my life may be more boring, but it is exponentially happier.
And it's something that I wish, I wish I would have known back then so I could have never fallen into that trap to begin with.
And it's why I said earlier too, like you become the company that you keep.
You know, I came from a very loving family.
For sure, I had all the supports in the world.
And you still fall into it because that's who you're around.
You said that you're heavily opinionated when it comes to relationships, women's behavior these days.
Is there anything specific?
I think a lot of it, you know, I kind of alluded to it there, but in terms of women, and I know that she got kicked off, but even before with what she was saying, when it came to, you know, like being a slut is empowering.
And to me, I think that that could not be further from the truth.
Like, there is nothing more empowering than keeping every piece of you as close to you as you possibly can and like waiting until that right person comes around.
I also, too, you know, in terms of OnlyFans and stuff, that's a really big way that it's marketed is that it's empowering.
And oh, feminism, we love ourselves.
We're proud.
We're confident.
And I think that pride is something that people should really keep an eye on because it can absolutely destroy you if you start to let your ego and pride take the wheel.
That can take you downhill very fast.
And in terms of OnlyFans, too, it's just this fascinating thing.
I'm like, what on earth is empowering about making a man billions of dollars a year while you just get chump change in comparison?
Like OnlyFans was created by men.
And a scarlet letter on the internet for the rest of your life.
Yes, that too, right?
And like, it's like there's nothing empowering about that whatsoever.
And even, you know, the majority shareholder in OnlyFans right now, I can't remember his name, Leonid Reginsky, I think it is.
Talk 76 donated $100.
A question for the ladies.
Have any of you had a seven plus year relationship?
And what would y'all merit as the most important part of keeping a long relationship healthy?
So, I mean, just show of hands, seven-year who's been in a seven-year-plus relationship, and then just going around the table, most important part of keeping a long relationship healthy.
Go ahead.
Respect.
As in not cheating.
Most important.
Okay.
Loyalty.
I think being super duper communicative throughout your relationship is very important.
Setting boundaries, not only for you guys individually, but as a couple together.
I also think just keeping the relationship alive, like you guys should always be dating.
One thing I really enjoy about my relationship, and that keeps it super healthy, is that we're kind of just best friends solely.
So we really enjoy doing things together.
It's not like a hassle.
I don't like, I don't, we just don't ever not like being to, I don't know how to explain it, but yeah, some something like that.
I think it's super important to communication, honesty, honesty is huge.
And should women stop wearing makeup?
Sure.
No.
I'm just baiting.
I'm baiting.
What?
Sure.
That'd be honest, right?
It's just like women stopped wearing makeup.
Yeah.
Okay.
Let's do it.
Let's do it.
So much.
Take it off.
Okay.
Saves a lot of time.
I wish I had an answer, but I've never really been in a long-term committed relationship.
I would say that mine on top of it.
You said you were on and off for five years.
That's on and off.
That wasn't committed.
Nicola donated $100.
You can go to an astral plane and shoot off a super swimmer, but I'm special at.
If we want to hear some mild retardation, go around the table stating your astral signs.
What's that?
We know you know them.
Is it astrology?
Oh, oh, I know mine.
Of course.
Here, we'll come back to the other one, but really quick, what's your astrology sign?
Leo.
Sagittarius.
Aries.
Libra.
Cancer.
Cancer as well.
I'm an Aquarius.
Q. I'm a man.
Come on.
I'm a man.
He's a party pooker.
That's what he is.
My sign is money.
Money?
The dollar symbol.
That's my sign.
My symbol.
Okay, and then, so we're going around most important part of keeping a long relationship health.
Wait, so you're in an on-again, off-again relationship?
Yes.
So how often, how many times was there a breakup?
Oh, a ton.
A ton.
Like, like in the span of five years, more than 20.
30?
I'd say probably.
Close to 30.
Who was ending it?
Honestly, it was kind of mutual.
I mean, I kind of, I kind of, I'm a really jealous gal, not gonna lie.
What's mine's mine?
I don't like to share.
And then he was a little player.
He looked, he cheated on me in middle school and stuff.
And then in high school.
And then I'm telling you, like, this was like for a long time, like middle school.
It's that sort of thing.
Okay.
And we're still, like, we look, he just started like talking again.
Oh, my God, bro.
Just never die.
What?
You said, wait, you said you've been single for a year.
Yeah.
And you've been, you were on again, off again with this guy who's cheated on you.
Yeah.
Middle school, though.
That was middle school.
Do you think he's currently fucking another girl?
I'd like to hope he's not.
Yeah, definitely.
Definitely.
100%.
And you're taught you already dealt with this dude for five years.
I actually think it's six years.
Bro, girls be complaining about dudes, but then like find themselves on again, off again relationships with dudes who've cheated on them.
Middle school doesn't count.
Come on.
You said you just, who reached out to who?
Which, this time?
Yeah.
He reached out to me.
Okay.
You think he's fucking other chicks?
See, if you were on point, you would be like, no.
I'm not on point.
That's what I'm trying to say.
I cannot defend myself or I cannot answer this question because I've never been in a committed.
No, but when I mean on point, it's like.
We just started talking again, like conversing again.
And he's definitely if a guy's done you dirty in the past.
Like if somebody's done you dirty in the past, it's a wrap.
It's over.
No.
If someone's worth like, I don't know.
What was that quote?
Bro, okay, I would never, like, I'd be, look, not specifically with you, but if I, if I was trying to trauma bond, maybe a little bit.
If I was like, because you stated you're single, right?
If I was in count, and a lot of girls have a dude just like that.
Women are never properly fucking single.
I am.
No, you're still caught up.
You're still caught up on this dude.
I'm not caught up on him.
We are conversing.
Conversing.
We're not dating.
He lives in a whole other state.
If we just met and I was like trying to date you.
Yeah.
And you're in that situation, I would never, I couldn't take you seriously.
I'm a loyal person.
Commitment is like.
No, but like, that's a turn off for potential partners, to know that you're kind of in this entanglement.
You're conversing again?
You just said you guys started talking again.
The dude who cheated on you.
I'm sure you're not.
Why are you talking?
Why are you talking to your ex if not to fuck him again?
He lives in a whole other state.
You have to recognize that.
I never even had sex with him in the first place.
Why are you talking to him then?
Because I like enjoy him.
He's my comfort.
He's comfort.
Yeah, he's my comfort.
He's comfort.
He enjoyed him.
The guy who cheated on you is comfort.
Hold on.
Say that one more.
Say that one more time.
The guy that cheated on me whenever I was in sixth grade in middle school, yes, he comforts me.
He probably cheated on you.
Has he cheated on you more?
Or was it just then?
No, I mean, probably.
She doesn't even know.
Stop it.
Stop it.
It's probably some Chad.
It's probably some Chad.
It's not Chad.
It's probably Chad.
And they're both comfort zones for each other.
His name's what?
I'm not repeating that, but Demontre.
His name's Demontre?
Yeah.
Or like, monster.
Oh, the beautiful baby.
Was it an Asian man?
He's black.
Oh, oh, oh, okay, cool.
So.
So.
But we're not, like, we're not exclusive.
Like, literally, I just have the man on Snapchat and we FaceTime every now and then.
Bro, that's such a red flag.
If I was trying to date you, I'm not, like, I'm not trying to say.
How is that such a red flag?
You're hung up.
I'm not hung up.
I'm not hung up.
Why are you talking to him then?
Why can't I not talk?
Tim.
Why can't I?
Bro, it's I'm single.
He's single.
So you want to get back together.
No, that's not what I'm saying.
It's for maybe in the future.
Maybe in the future.
You should never read this twice.
You already know how that ends.
I'm not.
Oh my gosh, guys.
Just let me have my friends.
Nah, he's your ex.
He ain't your friend.
This is true.
He's your ex.
No, you can't.
You can be on good terms.
This is a friendship that has been a very unhealthy between you two and a year has to pass before you guys can be, like, mutual.
If a man, no, no, no, no, no, hold on.
If you're friends with a man who's had his penis inside of you.
His penis has never been inside of me.
I already said that.
We had never had sex.
But he sucked somebody else?
Probably.
Dude.
I'm telling you, me and this dude are so on and off.
Me and this dude are so.
You just need to be off.
Why the, wait, hold on.
He cheated on you.
When's the last time you guys were on?
Last time we were on.
Like, on, on?
Probably.
What do you mean on, off?
When's the last time y'all were anything?
We were anything?
Probably like a few months ago.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Hold on.
No, no, Hold on.
I took notes here.
That's single.
At the very, no, you said you were single for a year.
Yes.
And you've been celibate for a year.
Or I don't know if that was you, actually.
I've been single for.
How long have you been celibate?
Celibate?
I don't know.
It's been a while.
How long?
A while.
How long?
Months.
Two months, three months?
Weeks?
Weeks, months.
Three weeks.
No, stop.
How long did you get?
Stop it.
It's been months.
It's been multiple months.
You said weeks.
Weeks, months, weeks, months.
Three weeks.
Brian Atlas, please stop making this difficult.
I'm not making it difficult.
Months.
You're making difficulties.
I'm just to be clear.
You've dated this guy on and off again for five years.
We never had sex with you.
We've waited.
You've had sex with me.
That's why I said it was a situation shift.
Why did you have sex with other men, but not this guy who you saw a couple months ago?
He lives in a different state.
We already know that.
Oh, sorry.
He lives in a different state.
So you have a long distance on again, off-again relationship?
I'm like that.
Okay, so when's the last time you saw him in person?
In person?
April of last year.
Dude.
So 10 months ago?
Yeah.
Okay.
But why are you talking to him?
Why can't I talk to him?
Because it's a waste of your time and you should focus on yourself.
So what do y'all care if I waste my time?
Because we love you as a human being.
You just forget.
I mean, I don't really give a fuck.
Exactly.
So how are you feeding into it?
You're trying to fix people one person.
No, like, I mean, obviously, I have morals.
If I'm talking to a man, if I'm serious about a man, I will be talking to no other man.
And I will, yeah, respect that.
And an advisor going on the side until then.
No, I mean, I care for him and he's my friend beyond the situation.
I've never cheated you for five years.
On and off, it was a situationship.
We didn't have to be afraid of that.
Wait, question.
So, has, okay.
Have you had sex with a different man and then been back on again with him?
Yes.
I was in a horrible relationship.
So confused.
So you're having sex with other men, but you're not having sex with him?
Yeah.
Has she fucked that guy?
What guy?
The on-again, off-again guy.
No.
Why did you laugh?
I don't know.
The laugh is.
That sounds absurd.
I told you his penis has never been in me.
In or around me.
In or around me.
The only thing that him and I have ever done is like make out and like, you know, be a little touchy, but that's like it.
to me it's a little confusing because i get it it's confusing you've had sexual intercourse with other men but you're i don't get it I don't really get it.
You don't have to get it.
Honestly, if you want me to be 100% honest, I don't get it either, guys.
Does he know that you've hooked up with it?
Yes, and I know that he does.
Okay.
We're just tight like that.
Or big sassy energy says, don't disrespect my woman, Nickelodeon.
Mercedes, I can forgive you your sins if you can forgive me mine.
Is this LPE?
Is this LPE?
LPE, if it's you, let me know.
I'll put in a good word with our dear friend Mercedes.
Okay, wait, getting back to our notes here.
I don't know where the hell we left off.
Oh, we were going around the table on one of the chats.
What it takes to keep a long-term relationship going.
I had a girl answer.
Oh, yeah.
She remembers the questions.
I would say my answer outside of what everybody else said is to give each other grace.
I think it is so important to, you know, recognize sometimes you may want something that somebody cannot give and also just to give them grace when they're having a bad day or they need something, whatever it may be, just to show a little bit more compassion.
Yeah, I think that's good too.
I would say obviously having God in your relationship.
He invented love, so I think he has a lot to say about that, a lot to know about that.
I would say also to uphold the different gender roles, like respect the husband, him love the wife, and yeah, communication, all of the basic stuff, commitment to just that person, loyalty.
Yeah, I mean, piggybacking off of that, because that sums it up pretty well, is just making sure that you're with somebody that you're equally yoked with.
I think that there are certain core values in a relationship that if you don't share, there's inevitably going to be conflict and tension that is avoidable if you just wait for the right person.
And making sure that you're honoring each other's love languages.
I don't think that I was going to mention that.
With, yeah, receiving and giving, you know, because people give and receive love in different ways and just speak their language.
Exactly, exactly.
Being willing to put in the work to do that.
I think also like staying curious and like staying I said something recently that like really resonated with me.
I don't know.
I said it recently or like really tripped me out.
But I was like, you want to stay in awe of the person you're with, not just like in love or in like, but like in awe.
So it's like you're, I feel like each partner needs to level up in what they're doing to be so the other can be in awe of you.
Right.
So it's like, oh, that's cool, like that they're doing that.
Or like, you know, you just stay curious and keep it fun.
Yeah.
Like.
And just ditching like all of Hollywood's perception of what love is because love is not a feeling always.
It can be a feeling, but it's not always a feeling.
There are days where you just choose to love your partner unconditionally.
And I think having things to do together, like even if both of you have different businesses, like or whatever, like coming together, whether it's to raise a family or like to have a business together or to that you're creating something together.
Let's do that at the end.
Did we go around the table on that?
Yeah.
Okay.
Jasmine, you said the dating pool is filled with pee, largely due to women who think they deserve things they really don't and how rampant narcissism runs.
We've let our egos, aka control of our lives, wait, take control of our lives, excuse me, to have a perfect, strong public image when we're actually crumbling on the inside.
Yeah.
Oh, hello.
Loose pussy energy donated $100.
Brian, that is some gay 304, not me.
Also, stop the cap that ho got piped down by Tyrone.
Your motherfuckers need Jesus.
Brian, it's time to Frank Castle.
Who?
Hashtag Abdul has arrived.
Hashtag Hellerox number 8 at 18.
I already kicked her up.
I already kicked her out.
Who's Tyrone?
Oh, me?
No, I. Wait, what was his name?
Let's not do that again.
That was dumb enough to say it once.
I'm not saying again.
But I definitely.
His penis has never been in me or around me.
What?
I'm not touching the shit.
That was interesting.
Thank you.
I promise, guys.
I swear, on God.
I put it on God.
I put it on God.
All right.
Okay.
So he loves me.
No, I mean, I think it's something that is just, it's so, oh, gosh, like, it just makes me want to shake my head so frequently.
And, you know, I do work in media, and so I hear it all the time in the music that we listen to.
Just so many of these narratives that are pushed.
And it's crazy emotional contagion, you know, like how much it can just affect a group, especially if you're already feeling weak.
You feel like you need to belong.
It's so easy to grab onto an idea that makes you feel special or powerful and just live that out like it's like it's everything.
You know, and you see it all the time where there's so many people where they'll just grab onto these ideas and it's like, do you actually believe in that?
Like, does that actually make you happy?
Or do you just not want to be the only person who's not fitting in right now?
And that's something I've witnessed plenty over my young 27 years.
And I just wish that, I really do wish that a lot of women would just start thinking about that more and start thinking about how they treat each other.
Okay.
You also said, lastly, you describe a high-value woman as loyal, intellectual, caregiver, respectful, compassionate, and ambitious.
I would tend to agree, although ambitious, I don't think men really care about that.
When I say ambitious, I mean more so like, you know, like the energy to actually get things done.
Like if like in terms of even just things around the house or whatever, like it's like you have that, like that's my goal today and I'm taking care of it.
That's what I meant by that.
Yeah, what I mean by men don't really care about ambition in women in terms of a dating context, career ambition, financial ambition, like men don't really value that, I think, when it comes to dating.
So disagree?
I think I just feel that like behind like every great man is also a great woman.
And I think that are you sure though?
Yes.
Or did he already cross the finish line and she was just there for the ride?
Sometimes it's like that.
Sometimes it's like that.
You're right.
I'm not denying that.
They just pick the winner of the race.
They weren't there at the beginning of the race.
It depends on the relationship.
But I think that we're like at least the high value male that I'm thinking of, like I would think would want to be inspired by his partner.
Like would also like by her career ambition?
No, I'm not talking about just a career ambition.
Oh, okay.
Well, that's what we're talking about, though.
But ambition can mean a lot of things.
Yeah, but I don't have to do that.
But I specifically carved out career or financial.
I think that there's like certain, like for instance, if a guy is he's killing it, he's an engineer, so on and so forth, and he meets a girl and she is she does something really amazing, like having to do with like art or design, or she like she's just really good at it.
Don't care.
I'm not saying that you have to care, but what I'm saying is like he could be, like what I was saying earlier, in awe of her own creative abilities.
And it doesn't mean that that's going to make her less of a wife or a mother, but like I would hope that it's not necessarily a negative, but it's very rarely going to be a major shifter or ever a major determinator.
Determine.
That's not even the fucking word.
I have to say determinant.
Yeah, it's just not going to.
No guy's going to look at, oh my God, she's a lawyer.
Cool.
Oh, she makes a lot of money.
Cool.
I'm more attracted to her now because of that.
Like, most, most, actually, there's a, oh, I have.
I mean, that could actually turn a lot of guys off.
I was going to say, like, in today's economy, is that super relevant still?
Like, you know, it's very expensive for the average Joe to make a living.
So having something paying double taxes.
The whole reason they wanted women working anyway.
But so, yeah, so like in today's economy, though, is that not, like, would you not be more inclined to find a partner who does have a job versus one that your wage is now going to have to support?
Like, especially if you just make a medium.
You'd be stoked if you were one of those beta males that want to become dinks.
Well, look, I mean, there is a certain economic reality of for most people, in order to raise children, have a, you know, have a house, whatever, you're going to have to have two incomes.
That's just the economic reality.
But I think when it comes down to it, in terms of what we find attractive, most men are, it's going to be very low on the totem pole.
Like, oh, wow, she's got a great career and she's like, I think most men are not going to, I think it's great.
I'm not saying women shouldn't, if you want to pursue a career, go for it.
But in terms of dating, most men are not going to be more attracted to a woman because she's a high earner.
I think most men, like if you, you have, I'm trying to find, I had a note on this.
I can't find it.
You know, you take a woman who works at McDonald's, but she's pleasant and beautiful and attractive versus like 35-year-old attorney who makes $500,000 a year.
Like most men are probably like, even though, oh, wow, she can contribute to the household, most men are going to like be chasing after the beautiful woman who works at McDonald's.
She's going to smell so good all the time.
Whereas the reverse, the reverse, I think a lot of women are going to go for the attorney.
No, I totally agree.
I agree with that.
But I think ambition within and of itself is important in both parties.
Passion.
I'm still trying to find my note on that.
It's good.
You'll find it.
Okay.
Is it related to rating?
No.
Oh, wait.
Hold on.
I might have it.
Hold on.
Wait.
Do I have it?
Oh, okay.
Here we go.
So give a woman a choice.
Date a 20-year-old male virgin or a 40-year-old successful male lawyer who's betted 100-plus women.
The lawyer wins every time.
For sure.
Give a man that exact choice with females in those exact positions.
The lawyer will lose.
Nobody cares that the 40-year-old is a successful lawyer.
I don't want a man with 100-plus bodies.
That's a deal breaker.
And I kind of switched.
That is me.
This is also an argument for like body count and whatnot.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So I would not pick the if you had like, yeah.
Cool.
My friend PJ says, um, men don't care if you have a bachelor's, master's, PhD.
If he asks you a question and you give him a silly answer, like all of that just goes to waste.
And I think that's true.
Like most women can't even answer like basic questions, like one of the famous ones that you often like to ask.
Oh, I won't take that from you.
Oh.
Name 10 books.
Name 30 books.
Go, go, go.
Jack.
I really do need 30 kids.
The giving tree.
It ends with us.
Oh, my God.
I'm done.
Ask it.
Name 10 books.
The Bible.
The Diary of a Wimpy Kid.
The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 2.
The Diary of a Wimpy.
Yes, no, Diary of Alpha Kids Forwards.
The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 5.
No, loopholes.
Go ahead.
Dear Dumb Diary.
Diary of a Wimpy Kid.
Oh, goodness.
Why?
All the diary books.
Judy Boody?
Judy Bloom.
Judy.
Judy Bloom.
Judy Moody.
Everything Ends With Us.
The Fault in our Stars.
Wonder.
It's good she reads.
She doesn't.
She's literate.
She's just watched all the movies.
She actually reads at a third grade reading level, but I was at seven.
Moving on.
Yesenia, you said you experienced a relationship with what I would call a beta male and an alpha male.
Just differences, just differences on that.
Question for you: Who got treated better by you?
Oh, that's a good question.
The beta male or the alpha male?
Who got your topic better?
Hmm.
I think, I mean, off the bat, I would say alpha male.
Like, that's just what's coming to my head.
Okay.
I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.
I disagree, Brian.
When my wife turned 24, there was a hormonal and biological clock that triggered.
Due to this, she ambitiously hunted my man's seed like an Indian hunting buffalo before winter in 1600.
Boom.
See?
That's what ambition is important.
Yeah, you should be ambitious in terms of finding me.
But when it comes to your career, no, no, no.
I agree.
Look, and look, again, if maybe she made a fuck ton of money on Bitcoin, she's an heiress or whatever.
Maybe she somehow made a lot of money in business.
Look, you want to fucking be a simp for me?
I'm down with that too.
I'm just saying it.
I'll give a girl points if she's willing.
Here's the difference, though: is even a woman who makes a good money typically, like we all did.
Oh, actually, wait, do I want to?
Okay.
I'll just, whatever.
I'll just say.
So, even women who make good money, I had this example a long time ago.
I matched with a lawyer on a dating app, and on her bio, despite being a lawyer, she did litigation, by the way, so that she's probably making, I don't know, I mean, this was 10 plus years ago, I don't remember.
Six figures, right?
She said on her bio, oh, I want the guy to pay for first dates.
It's like you make six figures.
So why?
So if even women who are high earners, if they're still expecting men to be providers and pay for dates and provide, then of course, like, that's another reason why men don't care about your career or educational or financial ambitions.
Because even when you guys do end up making a lot of money, you don't share it.
You don't share your business.
I don't think she wasn't going to share it.
I think she just wanted to be led.
She does meeting most of the time.
They don't share their money.
They don't really share their money.
Defining provision strictly in a monetary sense in this scenario?
I suppose, yeah, but a lot of even women who don't who make a lot of money, like I said, they don't share their resources like that.
In the same way that the man, like, look, I'm not saying all men move like this, but you got these dudes who are fucking simps out here, like dropping a lot of money.
And sometimes that's, I don't know if like what kind of arrangement is there and if they're like sugar daddies, but there'll be dudes in relationships who will spend a lot of money on their girl.
Women very rarely are doing that towards men, even if they make good money.
So my husband and I, I don't know if this is probably a traditional.
We follow the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Corps, but like all of our accounts are combined.
And he actually has asked me to manage those accounts just because I tend to be better with money management, but all of it is ours.
It's all in our name.
Nothing is separate.
There's not my money and his money.
It's our money.
But you guys are married, right?
Like, I mean, I'm talking more so like in the context of dating.
earlier on in the relationship like so because i mean i've definitely paid for a guy before Like one time?
No.
Like two or three times.
Christmas is great in my household.
Have you fully funded a relationship?
Like the entire relationship.
I mean, there's some.
I have, actually.
I bought my ex a car.
Oh, wait, I bought my own food.
Dude, can I date you?
Yeah, for sure.
Let's just kidding.
Come on, I'm sure.
Going back to Yasenia here, you think you said, I think it's sad and hard.
I personally like the idea of courting better than dating.
I kind of mentioned that.
So what does courting look like for you?
For me, there's different stages, but you start off as friendships, so you get to know each other, just basic things like how you become like friends.
So you, you know, the gradual process of becoming like a close friend.
And then after that, you'll get to more of like sharing emotional intimacy and then intellectual and all of that.
But basically, you're more around, like, for me, it'll be like my church, my church family.
My pastor definitely needs to give him a yes.
My brother needs to give him a yes.
And you don't have sex before marriage.
You're not going on like, I mean, you're technically you don't really go on dates alone, but it's harder to do that, obviously being older and just getting people together.
And you eventually study the Bible together, get engaged, get married.
Okay.
Yeah.
You said I would love to speak about how some women want traditional men but aren't traditional themselves.
Some women wonder why a guy doesn't make it official or marry them when they are already giving up the cookie.
Yes.
Want to elaborate or yes.
So yeah, once again, just wanting traditional men, but like a lot of women are seeping around or giving up, they're giving themselves to the man thinking like that's how you keep them.
But I believe you should wait until you're married to actually enjoy that because it's something that God gave and it actually helps your relationship, like marriage lasts longer, like a lot of divorces, like 50% of them, I believe.
And if you're not, if you don't wait until you're married to have sex.
Has that been your standard for your whole life though?
For about after I turned 21 and got baptized, yes.
So I've been celibate for almost eight years.
Okay, that's pretty good.
But you're not a virgin, correct?
Sadly, no.
Born-again virgin.
I don't know if that's a thing.
Surgeries for that.
No.
I don't think that's how that works.
Yeah.
I mean, that's popular in the Middle East.
I'm in so back together.
Yeah.
I mean, I certainly commend you for your celibacy.
That's eight years.
That's quite a long time.
I guess the kind of the only pushback I would give to you is: so you're saying women should I mean I you would just have to find a man who aligns with your values on that.
Me personally, if I met a girl who had sex previously and then all of a sudden she's had sex with like five, ten, fifteen more men.
Well, one, if she's had probably sex with more than 15 men, I'm not interested, but uh and then over more than 10, I'm certainly raising an eyebrow.
Um, obviously, the lower the body count, the better.
But I'd question why, especially if she gave it, she had sex fairly indiscriminately.
I'd certainly like question why, okay, so all those men, you had sex the first night, but then I come along, now you want to wait till marriage.
Uh, look, I think people are allowed to change their how they conduct themselves and how they move, but like me personally, I'm not waiting till marriage.
So, if a girl came along and was like, Well, Brian, I want you to wait till marriage, I'd be like, Well, I'm just not the right guy for you, but what and here's a different one, though, because it makes more like the whole switching up and then wanting to wait till marriage makes as long as that's your genuine standard, and like and you've said you've been celibate for eight years, so I absolutely believe that that's your standard.
But if it's like, well, she just got done having a string of casual sexual encounters, she just, you know, a month ago she had sex with the guy the first night, she hasn't really changed her values, and then I come along and she's like, Oh, I want to be in a long-term relationship with him.
All those other guys were just for fun.
I'm going to make him wait three months for sex.
That's where I'm like, What?
I don't know.
To me, that's when it's really like you're playing a game at that point.
So, no, yeah, I understand your logic.
Yeah, um, for me, the last two, yeah, I understand it.
I, I mean, I would, I would agree with that, but um, I, yeah, I haven't had sex for eight years.
And what if they weren't like one-night stand, right?
And I, you know, like the other knew the guys for months before, I knew, oh, I knew, wait, what do you mean?
Like, she knew the guys, like the girl knew the guy for months before, and then they decided to do the deed, and then and then she wanted to wait to do the deed with you for like months.
If that's been her standard, and it's not some a lot of people are gonna lie about that, though.
Yeah, oh no, I've never had a one-night stand.
Bullshit.
I haven't.
Oh, I'm not targeting you in specific, but there's still time.
Also, the last two men that I was in a relationship with, we both didn't have sex.
Um, and the guy I'm talking to now, we are like, That's if we do go on, yeah, we will.
But I mean, to answer your thing, uh, I mean, my personal view is I'm not big on waiting.
I just'm not interested in the one-night stand.
I like to, if I want to have sex with a girl, uh, I want there to be a continuity and to continue seeing her.
And I'm a one-night stand is of absolutely no value to me.
So, if I want to have sex with a girl, I want to keep seeing her.
But I don't think we need to wait some arbitrary period of time, especially if she's had a couple sexual partners before.
It's to me, it's just like the cat's kind of out of the bag.
If she's a virgin or she's had like one boyfriend, then it's a bit more like understandable.
But typically, I, yeah, I don't know.
Yeah, I do think that this kind of goes back to the world views that you hold.
Would you say that if you're dating, you're dating for marriage?
Me?
Yes.
Huh.
Well, I'm not going to get married.
Really?
No.
Why?
He's one of those people that thinks it's a legal institute is my initial guess.
it's not that I think it's a legal institution.
It is in fact a, wait, what was that?
Huh?
It's a religious thing.
Oh, yes, my daughter's dad was like that.
It's like that.
So I get it.
Look, I don't object.
here's the thing i'm not like i don't object to marriage from a religious perspective but there are certain legal realities uh The government, like, okay.
You don't want the government making money off your marriage.
Well, okay, so you get legally married.
And again, you have to, some states, there's a common law marriage where even if you don't, like, if you've cohabitated or you've conducted yourselves as if you are married, then you can find yourself in a common law marriage.
In fact, in Canada, you might be familiar with this story.
There was a man who was just dating a woman, boyfriend and girlfriend.
I think they might have cohabitated, lived together, maybe.
You have to cohabitate for a period of time.
But my understand, and this was a wealthy guy.
I don't even know if they were cohabitating, but she sued him.
They were married.
Boyfriend, girlfriend.
She sued him for spousal support.
Oh, yeah, that's a thing.
What's that?
In Canada, boyfriend, a girlfriend suing her ex-boyfriend for like alimony or something.
Yeah, it's essentially that they have to provide you the article the same lifestyle monetarily that you had while you were with them.
How long were they together?
I have a question when it comes to the whole alimony thing.
If a man is expected to continue providing financially, because you're used to a certain lifestyle, does that then mean that as a man, you're used to having pussy?
So should the woman be like legally compelled to continue giving you pussy if you know?
I completely agree with that training.
That's such a ridiculous thing.
No, I know that that's a weird example, but the point that you're making is extremely valid.
But I was used to having sex every night when I came home from work.
And now you're not going to be able to do that.
You want a divorce?
If you're going to get my money, I still get late, right?
And I'm being, obviously, there's no scenario where the government can compel somebody, man or woman, to have sex with somebody else.
But it is interesting that there is this financial expectation, but also anything.
I do think on that note, and it's something that's incredibly common in Canada.
It varies by province, but I know where I live, I think you have to be living together for one year, minimum.
It's only one year.
Yeah.
Nick Joe.
different per state too like states have different laws that what about what they the one thing i would say is i i've i'm here for it only if there's children involved I think if you have a situation where there's children supporting support.
Well, then there's child support.
You know, and mothers typically get full custody on average.
So I'm like, yeah, okay, that makes sense.
50-50.
I'm pretty sure I feel like it changed in the states anyway.
Okay.
Can you scroll up a little bit, make it a little bigger?
Oh, Ontario.
Unmarried Ontario couple had no children, no house, but must still pay support.
Can you scroll down?
Wait, wait, actually scroll back up.
Being in Ontario, being common-law spouses doesn't necessarily mean having lived.
I don't even think they were living together.
Yeah, that's odd then.
A wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support for 10 years to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship, even though they kept separate homes and had no children together.
That is fucking brain.
What?
I mean, honestly.
What?
That's a little, that's really absurd.
That's like extreme, right?
Yeah, like I've never heard of something like that.
That's the province next to where I live.
And we don't have those laws where I live at least, but that's a really extreme situation for sure.
That's that's uncommon.
That doesn't make any sense to me, but I saw that story out of Canada.
So really quick, just on the marriage thing.
Look, so a woman reserves the right at any given time, even if she's like super religious and prays daily, to just like all of a sudden she can just become a raging feminist, decide that she's kind of bored in the marriage and end the marriage.
And then she's going to go, she's not going to go to God.
She's not going to go to a priest.
She's not going to go to her church.
She's going to go to an attorney, a lawyer, who may very well be an atheist, who may very well not be religious or godly or any of these things.
The attorney, she's going to defer to the attorney's recommendation who has a financial motive and incentive to siphon as much money from the husband as possible.
The husband probably has to pay for the attorney and he's going to have to pay for his own attorney too.
And then they're embroiled, especially if the divorce is contentious, there's disagreements about things.
It's going to be embroiled in a contentious divorce.
He's going to spend thousands, tens of thousands, maybe even six figures in legal costs, depending on how wealthy he is.
And then there's going to be alimony and community property distributions.
And so even if she's a good woman, she's not going to, she's naive.
She doesn't know how to, first off, whether you're a man or woman, most people don't know how to navigate the civil court system.
It's incredibly complex.
You can't do a self-help divorce.
Prenup.
You're going to go to an attorney.
Boom.
Okay, cool.
Your attorney wants money.
Cool.
They're in the business of making money, right?
Okay.
Prenup.
So this is also where I don't believe in no-cause divorce.
And this is a concept that like Michael Knowles talks on because women initiate 78% of divorces, some number like that.
And I don't think that any woman that initiates a no-cause divorce should be able to come after a man for alimony.
If the situation was reversed, I would be paying alimony to my daughter's dad and child support, even though I have her 90% of the time just because of work schedules, not because of a custody arrangement.
You know what though?
Like, let me give a counter to that.
I'm actually, I actually have objections to rolling back no-fault divorce.
And here's why.
Because I do think there's a risk to men where women will just lie.
They'll just lie and say that there was abuse in order to try to get out of a marriage.
So I'm actually, look, I'm actually in favor of no-fault divorce because I think men face an increased risk of false accusations, false accusations of abuse, child abuse.
A man could go to jail.
I'm hesitant to roll back.
It's giving it a space.
Well, I'm just curious.
I'm not saying all women lie.
Yeah, look, don't, I'm not saying all women would resort to lying to get out of a marriage, but I'm saying there are, there's some that would.
And so that's why I'm actually in favor of just, look, you want out of a marriage, just go.
Just go.
Because if you're motivated enough, you're going to lie and ruin a man's life.
So you're going to be able to do that.
So look at all the people who don't ask for alimony.
Well, yeah, no, I was going to say the one caveat to that is that you can't have your cake and eat it, too.
It's either you don't want a woman to be able to press you for alimony in court or you don't want, or you want no-cause divorce, right?
Because otherwise, if they're, I mean, they can't exist mutually exclusively.
Well, I would argue that, for example, like if the guy can prove I'm, I'm a man having to pay alimony versus like a group of men having to pay alimony versus the potential for some men to be falsely accused because of if there were you had to have fault to get a divorce.
I would rather men be paying alimony than some men being falsely accused of things that can land them in prison or jail and ruin their life.
But I think perhaps, for example, if, for example, you can like demonstrably prove there's infidelity, for example, I think that should be legislated.
If you can prove that your spouse, and she tries to divorce, if there's divorce, right, that she cheated on you, there's infidelity, then that should relinquish your responsibility for spousal support alimony and for any sort of, she doesn't get any community property.
If I'm not mistaken, we have that in Canada for a certain period of time.
I have a friend actually who just went through something similar.
So, I mean, if women initiate 78% of divorces, then wouldn't you, it would likely be the exception, not the rule, when women were falsifying evidence in order to collect alimony if no cause divorce was implemented, right?
Wait, so I'm sorry, repeat that one more time.
So if no cause divorce is implemented and women initiate 78% of divorces, then men are still protected largely from paying alimony because the woman would still have to falsify information.
And yes, the legal system would inevitably fail at times.
It fails all the time across the board on several different topics.
But I think that men would be more protected if no cause divorce was implemented and women continued trying to or initiating the majority of divorces.
I'm not totally following.
So you're saying we get rid of no-fault divorce?
No, no, you implement it.
So we have no fault divorce.
Sorry, sorry.
That's what I'm saying.
Abolish it.
Get rid of no fault divorce.
Correct.
So that women have to prove some sort of cause, right?
Okay, so if women initiate a majority of divorces.
Yeah.
I don't, I'm not convinced that all 78% would attempt to falsify information.
Oh, of course.
I don't think they would.
So all I'm saying is that you would be protecting some percentage of men in that scenario, correct?
So my argument is, even if it's, even if it's, say, 1% of women would, and it may very well be higher, but if 1% of women would make up false accusations of abuse, I think that it's better to keep the current no-fault divorce system.
If some men have to pay alimony to protect a smaller percentage of men from false accusations, I'm in favor of that.
Are you suggesting that women currently do not falsify evidence against men even though?
Oh, they still do.
Right.
So that's all that I'm saying is that if that still currently happens, then regardless, a percentage of men is still protected.
They'll do it all the time in custody disease.
No doubt.
Yeah, no doubt.
Let me accuse my husband of abuse.
That way I have a better chance of getting the children.
It happens all the time.
But I'm speaking more so just from the financial perspective of the alimony.
And yeah.
I just think that if that is abolished, then there is more potential legal risk to fall back on the woman, and it would deter them from falsifying evidence in order to get a divorce.
I just, I still, I think it would save some percentage of that.
I just ultimately, when it comes to marriage, the whole thing, look, the state oversees the marriage.
So a woman's going to go, if she wants a divorce, she's going to go to the state, and then you have the state involved.
So I'm not.
I have a question.
If you were to be with someone who really valued marriage for religious purposes, but you didn't want the state to be involved, would you be open to having some sort of a ceremony that's unofficial just for the principle of what exactly it is that means?
Well, I would have to do legal research on if you do just get married, like have a religious ceremony, but that doesn't have any sort of legal ramifications, because I'm sure I'd have to research that more.
But if it's the case, for example, that you can do a religious ceremony, you can get married, you can consider yourselves husband and wife, but there's no, you get, if you get a divorce, there's no alimony or whatever, then there wouldn't be any sort of drawn-out court case, anything like that.
Then I'd be more open to it.
Okay.
I'd be, yeah, I'd be.
I think lots of people.
I'd actually, yeah, I'd be totally fine with that.
People have parties all the time.
I don't object to it from a religious perspective, but I'm not.
I mean, I can't imagine, unless she's rich.
Which counters.
I'm going to challenge you.
There is that what I'm hearing you say then is that your assets take precedence above your relationship.
Yeah.
My assets take precedence over my relationship.
Or desire to get married, rather?
Do you have no faith in humanity that you might find a woman who you really feel within the world?
It's just being pragmatic, given the fact that, as you mentioned, it's about 80% of women initiate divorces.
It's just not worth the risk.
But also, you know, you say that, but, you know, why are you looking at that statistic and thinking that that would be me?
Like, it's like, that could be a high statistic, but that's not, that's not me.
That's not my future wife.
That's not our relationship.
And as you get older, the percentage of divorces drops off.
I think I'm.
And like, why do you want to fall into a statistic?
Why does she want to draw off as not being secure in myself?
But now we're getting somewhere.
Tell us your childhood drama.
I feel, look, I think I'm a good person, but I don't, I almost have this premonition.
I don't know if I say it.
I don't know.
I feel like I'm the dude that gets divorced.
Damn.
I just, I don't know.
Like, I feel like I'm that dude.
Are you seeing someone about that?
Huh?
I said, are you seeing someone about that?
Just giving children to the point.
I just feel like you need to.
Are your parents together?
They are together.
That's fine.
They are together.
They're married and they have a great relationship.
That's beautiful.
Why do you feel that way?
Huh?
Why do you feel that way?
Because I feel like I'm not.
I'm not like that hyper-masculine dude.
Like, I'm kind of more laid back.
I don't know.
What's that next?
Sassy.
Yeah, I'm sassy.
Like, I don't know.
I can't be like a lumberjack or something.
I'm a gamer.
I've got gamer hands.
Dudes with gamer hands get divorced.
That is true.
They do look nicely moisturized.
I did see a statistic around that somewhere.
The thing is, it's like a gaming princess who loves what you do.
Well, Discord kittens.
I crushed, like, 400 hours of Animal Crossing.
No, but I feel like, look, I'm not, like, I feel like at least I'm self-aware.
I'm not this like super like rough, like, how do I explain it?
Like, super hyper-masculine guy.
And I feel like that.
But you hold very masculine beliefs.
That's what I was going to say.
Just because of your extracurricular activities.
It's a little feminine sometimes.
A little feminine.
With your views and attitude and even just the way that you present yourself, you're already not attracting the type of women that you've seen when it comes to that.
Somebody in the chat says that.
I feel like it's valid, though, because I do think that people that roast him.
No, no, no, no, that want to get married should only be 100% to 50%.
Yeah, I mean, I agree, but I don't think he's also found maybe the right person.
Right, that was going to be my other train of thought is that, like, I don't know if you're not going to be able to do it.
You'll really ignore it.
You really do.
You really do.
Just know when you know.
And so I don't think in front of God, everybody, the state, let's do this.
Yeah, and I just don't want to dismiss what you said because, I mean, 78%, that's a big percentage.
And I think that it's very reasonable, especially for men in a higher income bracket, to want to protect those assets.
I just think that if you value marriage, that one or the other has to take priority at the end of the day.
Oh, thank you.
Thank you.
I'm touched.
That's why I asked you, you know, like I understand it from a legal perspective.
I'm kind of on a similar boat, actually, where I don't really want that.
But I do know that I value what it means to be married.
And if there's a way that I can do that without having, quote unquote, the state involved, I would absolutely opt for that over it.
Because to me, it's not my signature on a piece of paper that means something when it comes to getting married.
It's everything else that encompasses.
I'm curious what even the reasons are when that when for women who pursue divorce filing through no-fault divorce, like what are their reasons for getting divorced?
They're bored.
Maybe money.
Well, yeah, I think that we've devalued marriage as a society.
I think that feminism has said that if men and women can be the same, then I don't need you and you don't need me.
And when I get bored or when life changes, then it's more convenient for me to prioritize myself.
The problem is that when there's no foundation of morals, we all become our own God.
That's what I mean.
Earlier, it's like it gets lonely up there.
Right.
So is it just based off of boredom and fell out of love?
I also think largely people don't want to put in any work either.
It's inconvenience.
Yeah.
It could be that there is a fault.
They just don't want to go to that extent because something could be used against them.
Or they got married on birthdays.
I just, look, and also, I don't think it's entirely me.
I think there's other factors too as to why I'm very hesitant to get married.
First off, I'm doing pretty well.
I'm successful.
So there's a pretty significant financial risk there.
And then additionally, just the current social climate.
One, there's no social stigma for people to get divorced.
So people are much more willing.
I agree.
It should be.
People are just, there's no more sh being divorced used to be shamed.
There used to be pressure from your friends and family.
Now, if you go to your girlfriends and say, man, I'm just not really, I'm not, I kind of want to get divorced.
Your girlfriends are going to be like.
Throwing you a divorce?
Yeah, fucking do it.
We've hated him forever.
Oh, thank God.
Yeah, it's a trend now.
It's gross.
It's disgusting.
And so I have really no faith in the system.
So I know a lot of people in the chat are like, oh, Brian, you're self-deprecating, blah, blah, blah.
And look, I think one component, I do have like to some degree, I feel like there's like certain, I'm not perfect, right?
I've got some character defects and shit.
But look at these fucking gamer hands, bro.
Anyways.
Why do you hate your gamer hands?
I just feel like I don't have marriageable.
I don't have marriage.
What are you doing here?
I don't want like the moment when the ring goes on and you're just looking at it.
I just don't have marriageable hands, I feel like.
Like in order to marry a man, he has to have like big, fat, meaty man hands.
And look at these fucking hands, dude.
I should play piano, bro.
I should have been a fucking virtuoso piano player.
But alas, here I am doing a fucking dating podcast, boys.
Look, also, I've heard some horror stories from so many of my viewers.
Some of you might be watching right now.
Some of you maybe DM'd me.
And look, this is just, you read stories online.
These men get demolished, destroyed in the court system, in marriage.
It's just, I see, I'm a businessman.
You know I'm a businessman because you find me at my places of business.
It's a bad, I don't sign contracts.
The marriage contract is like the most.
Oh, it's dude, it's so bad.
It's so.
I'm not even a fucking attorney.
The marriage contract is so fucking bad.
In your opinion.
Let me ask a question.
If I want to date a girl and have a monogamous long-term relationship with her, what do I get in marriage that I don't get from just having a long-term life relationship with her?
Nothing.
It should be sex.
Absolutely nothing.
Yeah, it should be sickness and health.
That's right, ladies and gentlemen.
Sickness and homeless meals.
Hey, wait a second.
Let's throw this one at you.
Okay.
So what if?
And I understand that you are far from a virgin, but what if?
He never disclosed his body count.
He could be a virgin.
We're not stupid here.
So what if you were to meet a woman, let's say five years from now, you're still single, still kicking yourself for it.
You meet this girl, she is everything.
She's a virgin.
She refuses to have sex with you until marriage.
Would you hypothetically in that situation potentially sign the dotted line after being together for so long because she was the one?
I think absolutely.
Let's go on Tinder and find a new one.
She's a virgin?
A complete hypothetical, but yes.
She's a virgin.
The problem is, is the cat's out of the bag a bit on this.
She doesn't have internet.
She's from a men and I'm not sure.
I like sex.
Okay, I like sex.
Oh, largest, confirmed largest labia.
Yeah, she has a huge labia.
All right.
Where's the fucking, where's the fucking.
She's virgin, 10 out of 10.
Large labia, sign me up.
Shit.
Is she short too?
Sure.
All right.
Oh, yeah.
Don't you like your girls like four foot?
Sign me up.
I think I heard you like your girls like four foot.
I do prefer shorter women.
Look, I'll date a girl who's taller than me.
I'll date a girl who's 6'5 ⁇ .
Fuck it.
It's interesting because I've had the total opposite experience just with the Institute thing.
I was just, I was raised by a guy, my dad, and because my mom passed away when I was 13.
And so I ended up in a situation where I was going to potentially be paying child support.
Got lucky there.
Could have been paying alimony because of common law marriages in Colorado.
When I married my husband, I paid off all of his debt from my savings account and then we just paid it back there.
So it's just funny how it's a one-way street is what it feels like sometimes.
But I also see that that can come from this feminist movement and how women just aren't on the right seat on the bus anymore, too.
Good times.
So that's the scenario.
She's a virgin and she's a huge labyrinth.
Oh, massive.
Massive.
And never see a virgin.
She never has seen a computer because she's an awesome.
So she has nothing to do with it.
She's Pentecostal.
Doesn't know anything about you at all.
Just thinks you're the best human being in the world.
You're not so big to her because she's so tiny.
And this is like a very rare woman you're describing.
I'd rather talk in actualities versus pot.
Okay, but we've already decided that there is no actuality here.
Your answer would be no, which is why we have to talk in hypotheticals.
Just so I can see.
Just so we can break you.
Yeah, we want to break you.
How tall is Brian Atlas compared to 6'1.
6'1?
Okay.
I mean, it's possible.
Okay.
She's looking for a men and nights spinach.
Can I see the future and know she wouldn't divorce me?
No.
She's never been outside of her.
She's never been outside of her.
But she just wouldn't.
Come on.
Because that's not your relationship.
You have to have better hope for your relationship.
You have to pick better.
The woman you're going to be with, you should know.
But here's the thing.
Here's the thing, right?
Let me ask you a question.
Do you think, like most people, when they get married, they sign the contract.
Do you think they're thinking at that moment, yeah, we're probably going to get divorced?
I think that's common.
Honestly, I do.
I honestly think that there's so many people who are not going to be able to do that.
Most people who get married think about it.
It's going to get better once we're married.
Yeah, that's it.
That runs through the, it'll be better once we're married.
And once you're saying that to yourself, you probably shouldn't be getting married.
Let's also factor in, though, too.
When women, especially, you know, we go through our younger age, and I guess it depends, it varies depending on where you live.
But when you're younger, you're maybe not thinking so much about that.
However, you'll hit an age, let's say 28, 29, somewhere around there, and suddenly one of your friends gets engaged, and then the next one does, and then everyone does.
And it happens that way with children as well.
And it's just this effect where it's like, well, I don't want to, we're human beings.
We totally have PAC mentality.
You don't want to be the only one who's not in love enough to get married.
And so then you start kind of, hey, honey, psychology.
You know, and then, yeah, you maybe do end up getting married and saying yes because, yeah, sure, you love someone.
Are they your forever?
You might know in your gut that they're not, but I do think that that is, I'd love to see stats on it.
I wish I had some on me, but I would think that that would be more common.
Look, if she's, it's possible maybe I would get married.
I think that would be a marriage.
Maybe I would get married if she was a virgin and, you know, 10 out of 10.
But like, why is she, why?
But then it's like, why is the 10 out of 10 virgin?
Why'd she want me?
Life wants to be a little bit more valuable.
See, there is zero.
No, that's not the issue.
It's just like...
Maybe you're awesome.
Yeah.
Maybe she met you.
Maybe you knew you're awesome.
I'm an average white guy.
Maybe she loves average white guys.
Who does above average things?
That are you.
Yeah, no, I mean, I excel in other realms, but.
So.
Like, you know.
Was that a video game reference?
I excel in other realms.
No, it's just like, you know.
You know, I've got some good things going for me, but, you know, I'm an average-looking white guy.
I can't be like, oh, I want like a 10 out of 10.
She doesn't have a TV, so she's never seen like some people's type, though.
Yeah.
And also, almost every girl on the left has a 10 out of 10 in their eyes these days.
Yeah, there you go.
And you're what?
You're what?
Oh, 34?
Yeah, 34.
How many 10 out of 10 virgins?
Like, what?
Probably none.
Probably none.
Yeah, it's rare.
Go to the religious places.
You'll find one.
What if she doesn't have an Audi, though, and I'm just married?
I have an Audi.
You can still be religious and not be virgin.
And then I'm just like, no, I'm kidding.
Okay, okay.
All right.
I'm going to try to wrap up here very soon.
I'm sorry.
Car pun.
Sydney, you said you've had kids.
Oh, we talked about that.
The three kids from three different men.
We talked about that, though.
I had a question for you, though.
Did your current husband.
Oh.
Oh.
Loose pussy energy donated $100.
Brianna, don't say that about yourself.
Thank you.
You're a 10 out of 10.
They just can't handle you.
You go, girl.
Thank you, bro.
Yeah.
Get ran through by chat/slash tyrones and end up alone with cats.
Hashtag 304 advice is shit hashtag.
I think they're talking to me.
My Brianna.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Actually, let me do a couple chats here.
Okay.
They said you go girls.
Jacqueline, can you read this?
Real world, how many of the single ladies would be interested in learning real skills on a homestead for the summer?
I'm interviewing for potential mother of my future children.
Jasmine, up for it.
You can just read a book, too.
I was going to say, I love the idea of a homestead, but unfortunately, I already have a suitor.
So I know how to work.
I thought it was just a camp.
And they're going to go make sourdough together.
So that's kind of like an automatic fail.
Just a minor, a minor mess up.
Just totally lost your shot there.
You know, that's how it is.
Long haul, Nate.
Thank you, man.
Pre-er haul long, Nate.
Does it change anything if he's an ice road trucker?
No.
Okay, sorry, dude.
I tried.
He's gone long.
Thank you, man.
Though I do love a man who works in the trades and that type of thing.
Okay, we have Big Sass Energy.
Can you read this?
Mercedes, I'm attracted to you the way you are.
You can be the great woman standing behind this great man.
Brian, you don't know me.
Okay.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Thank you, Big Sass Energy.
Big Sass Energy.
I'll try my best to put in a good word with our dear friend Mercedes here, you know.
All right, we have dogma.
Madison, can you read this one?
Hey, Brian, would you be open to having a male 21-year-old virgin waiting for marriage on your show?
I make content with 130k subs and could share the difficulties younger guys are having with dating right now.
DM?
I'd have to check.
I'm pretty selective on this front.
I'd want to first, you know, make sure you have, you know, you're capable of actually participating in the conversation.
You know, I'm not saying this is the case for you, but we've invited a lot of guys on who typically are, you know, talk a big game, but they're really not prepared to actually participate and they really can't, they're not really prepared to push back against certain talking points, feminist talking points.
A lot of dudes have just sat here, said nothing.
So, you know, you're welcome to shoot us a DM on Instagram.
I can take a look, but I'm pretty selective.
Can you read this one, Danison?
I was raised in a Mennonite home, so modesty was a way of life.
These days, so many women seem to compete trying to show the most skin/slash cleavage.
Protect the mystery of your body.
It adds value.
Amen.
Beautiful.
That was beautiful.
Well done.
Okay.
Let's see here.
Oh, Sydney.
So did your husband struggle to accept your past?
You know, like, oh.
Yeah, no, fair question.
You know, other, the other fathers in the picture.
No, you know, I think that he has always told me that he just knew.
And he had actually been divorced too.
When I met him, he was freshly going through a divorce.
And so I think that both of us just have a history and he recognizes that it's not who I am, but something that has changed and shaped who I've become.
And it has not impacted our relationship in any other way than a positive way.
Okay.
Got it.
Got it.
Well, it's getting late.
I want to wrap up here.
I'm trying to think if there's anything else, but I think I've hit most of my show notes.
Before I wrap up, any final notes from anybody?
Final thoughts?
Thank you.
Shout out, Adriana, Avon, and Ashley.
Love you guys.
Can you read this one, Madison?
Shout out from Tuscaloosa, Alabama.
Hashtag USN.
I know the panel is highly feminist, and yes, I'm a proud Trump supporter.
But I saved a woman's life in Brooklyn, New York, February 3rd, 2019.
Dana Sagona.
New York versus Ruben Castro case.
Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?
Absolutely not.
Trump 2024, baby.
Okay.
Is this for the women?
Should we ask who everyone voted for in the past two elections?
Oh, well.
Sure.
I just turned 19, so I probably wasn't able to vote.
Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?
No.
I think everyone's not voting before.
I think that people think that he's really controversial, but I think that it's just utter denial if you try to deny what the difference is in this country when it was run by Biden versus when it was run by him.
I think people are also super convinced about what they see on the media, and of course they only see the bad things that he says on the media.
No doubt.
That's all.
Unless it depends on what channel you watch, because he's fixing what he says too.
The media is just programmed to make you see what you're allowing to see.
Especially younger generations.
Especially younger generations that don't actually seek out education on the matter and just trust whatever it is that's put in front of them.
It is.
It's an algorithm at the end of the day, which is why YAF makes such efforts to educate our youth about that.
And I'm super proud to be a member with them.
And Turning Point USA with Charlie for phenomenal.
So for all our really contributing to educating a generation that desperately needs it.
Very much.
Rock and roll, rock and roll.
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Okay, those of you who are watching on Twitch, first off, thank you everyone for tuning in.
I'm just going to, I'm going to raid.
This guy's got 31 viewers.
He's playing World of Warcraft.
His name's Alo Dar.
And he's playing Season of Discovery, World of Warcraft.
So I want you guys to, when I send you, you Twitch viewers over there, I want you guys to spam whatever in the chat, I guess.
I don't know.
Just say hi.
And, you know, 31 viewers.
We got to show some support to this guy.
He's grinding.
He's grinding, boys.
So I'll send you over there after I read the super chat.
We have Hunky Jalapeno Madison.
Can you read it?
So one thing I've always thought was suitability versus compatibility.
What are your thoughts on it?
I would to hear an answer in depth.
Suitability versus compatibility.
So what's good for you versus what you want, essentially?
I don't really understand.
I mean, suitability.
But if they're suitable, you're compatible.
Not necessarily.
So define what suitability is in order to answer that question.
Yeah, suitable is.
I don't totally.
Nor do.
Like, there's plenty of people who would be suitable for you, but not always compatible with you.
Yeah.
Suitable.
Compatibility probably makes more sense in terms of happiness.
Hunky jalapeno.
Because if somebody's suitable, it's like their caste system.
Yeah.
Suitable.
That's not really what I'm doing.
That's what it reminds me of.
It's like a caste system.
They also must be of royalty.
They're not.
And boutiques.
Anybody watch the Tudors?
Yeah, it's, like, suitable.
This is my third time watching The Tudors, and I...
You guys have seen The Tudors?
No.
No, parts.
I was only allowed to watch Disney Channel until I was like 15.
Yeah, it's on Amazon video.
There's kings and lords and this counts and all these kinds of things.
So, Hunky, unfortunately, I don't really understand.
I'm sorry.
I'm just my room temperature IQ here.
I don't know.
Thank you, though, for the chat.
Like commonality?
Is compatibility the same as having commonality, kind of?
Yeah, they could be in.
Like, oh, you listen to the same music.
I don't really care.
I don't care.
I think suitable is more like, it really feels like an arranged thing.
Yeah.
She suits you.
Yeah.
Or like compatibility.
Compatibility is alignment.
Okay.
Values.
Yeah, like you want to be with this person versus like, this guy looks good on paper.
You look at on paper, make it happen.
Interesting.
Interesting.
Okay.
Maybe a mix of both would be good.
Yes.
A little mix of both.
Okay.
Those of you on Twitch, I'm sending you over.
Wait, did he?
Yeah, I did.
I pulled it up.
Hold on, guys.
I'm trying to see who we got.
Okay.
Sending.
Those of you on Twitch, thank you for tuning in.
Wait, let me read.
I'm going to do a starter raid.
Okay.
Hold on.
One sec, guys.
Okay, last call.
Hit the like button.
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I appreciate that.
Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
We will be live again Tuesday, 5 p.m. Pacific.
We'll have Q back for that show, too.
We got a very good panel for Tuesday.
By the way, just want to say, wasn't it the show is so much smoother after what's her name left?
Just saying.
I miss her.
Rosalyn.
Rosalind, yep.
Well, we would have been going for another two hours.
It would have been impossible to actually get through all that we tried to get through.
So any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram.
If you can make it to Santa Barbara, big thank you to the panel here.
You guys were fantastic.
Very good panel tonight.
Thank you guys so much.
Let me try to get this raid going over on Twitch.
Okay.
Those on Twitch, I bid you adieu.
All right.
Boom.
Oh, wait.
Did it send it?
Did it send it?
I think so.
They changed how you do raids and shit on.
I don't know what's going on.
Okay, whatever.
I'm just closing that shit out.
I think I raided him.
If I didn't, sorry, breath.
Okay.
Yeah, so that's it.
07's in the chat, guys.
Let me see.
07s in the chat and i hope you guys have wait can should madison show should we eat the the brownies What are they called?
Are they blondies?
Should we eat the blown?
Should I put them in the middle?
No, let's just.
I don't know.
I don't know.
Madison's, she's been so kind.
delicious i'm on a diet though so i haven't been able to eat any of the uh baking that she's done but maybe i this was wifey material This is stressful.
I'm probably guess before every show, but she is mommy.
Well, that's a new thing.
It's a new thing, you know.
I think that's adorable.
Yeah, unfortunately, yeah.
I was being a degenerate gluddon for the past year, and she never baked.
And then now I started my diet.
I started a diet.
Now she starts bringing in every fucking show.
Here's some cookies.
Here's the blondies.
Rude.
Anyways, she's trying to tempt me.
Anyways, guys, good night, guys.
Thank you for tuning in.
As always, really appreciate you guys.
We'll see you on Tuesday.
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