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Brian REJECTS Layla?! FLAKE EXPOSED! | Dating Talk #106

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	Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
	So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
	Go ahead.
	I'm Layla Jenner.
	I'm 20.
	And my occupation is just like vibing, I guess.
	I don't know.
	I just do everything.
	Professional slut.
	What was the first part?
	Just vibing?
	Is that what you said?
	Just vibing.
	Sorry.
	Yeah, I'm just, I don't know.
	Like, I just do all kinds of things.
	I thought you quit.
	Didn't you quit?
	Yeah, I did.
	So now I'm just like, you know, a slut for you.
	Should we talk about that?
	Here, I'll address Layla's enthusiasm.
	Me and Brian are dating, and he doesn't want to tell y'all, but we are very intimate together.
	Fake news.
	Okay, go ahead, Molly.
	All right.
	Hi.
	I'm Molly.
	I'm 20 years old, and I am a born-again Christian.
	Good.
	Good.
	I'm just kidding.
	I'm a porn star.
	And I also do OnlyFans.
	You should have picked a different religion to say, to make that joke about.
	I'm sure it would not have gone over.
	You know what's interesting is like you can joke about Christianity, but like if you were to make that joke about Jewish people, people born again Jews.
	Jesus, you guys take it easy.
	You'd probably, okay, I don't know why, whatever.
	Okay, what about you?
	I'm Emily.
	I go to Questa College.
	Oh, hold on.
	Actually, before you do that, let me just come back to the.
	I don't mind a little bit of banter, but if you guys are going to fucking troll, I'm just going to kick you off.
	Go ahead, Emily.
	All right, I'm Emily.
	I go to Cuesta College.
	My major is criminal justice and I'm 19.
	I'm Sarah Ryder.
	I'm 22 and I'm a porn star.
	Hi, I'm Tiffany.
	I'm 18.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Sorry, hold on.
	Emily, you're 19, correct?
	Yeah, I'm 19.
	You're how old?
	22.
	Oh, 22.
	I thought I heard 32.
	Excuse me.
	Go ahead.
	Hi, I'm Tiffany.
	I'm 18.
	I go to UCSB, and I'm majoring in political science and minoring in philosophy.
	Okay, welcome.
	Hi, my name is Cindy Caseville, and I'm 20 years old.
	I'm currently traveling right now, so unemployed.
	Hi, I'm Kelly.
	I'm 21, and I'm a student at CSUN, and I'm studying communications right now, and I'm also a style ambassador and personal stylist through Nordstrom.
	Welcome back, Kelly.
	Thank you.
	Q. Q Peel, 30 years old, behavioral scientist, certified relationship coach, YouTuber.
	Rock and roll.
	Okay.
	We have Q back in the studio.
	Before I get into the relationship status thing, and we're going to try to get through it a little faster today.
	A couple things to address.
	So, I'm trying to think how I want to tackle this first.
	We had a girl.
	We had one other person who's going to be on the panel.
	Her name is MJ.
	She requested back in mid-September to come be on the show.
	We locked it in a couple days later.
	Everything confirmed.
	We do a, at least in my opinion, we do a fairly professional, thorough pre-show thing.
	We provided quite a bit of detail.
	And she confirmed that she was going to be on the show.
	Checked in with her two days before, checked in with her the day before.
	all confirmed, right?
	This morning, she messages saying, oh, I didn't know that the, bear in mind, she requested to be on the show.
	She asked to be on the show.
	We'll show the messages.
	She said that she was going to flake.
	Actually, okay, fuck, whatever, fine.
	Well this is her first message.
	I didn't even want to like give her fucking, I didn't even want to like show her shit so she could conceivably get a couple of followers from this.
	But here, here you go, lady.
	Get some cloud, I guess.
	So she reached out.
	I love to be on the podcast.
	She lives in LA.
	September 14th.
	So, what?
	That's more than two weeks ago.
	Next one, Nick.
	And then we send out a whole questionnaire, right?
	So there's a whole bunch of questions we send.
	Number six, though, can you make it to Santa Barbara, California at your own expense?
	Please note.
	Santa Barbara is a two-hour drive from Los Angeles.
	Next one, Nick.
	Number six, to which she responds yes.
	And then next one.
	And then, so confirmed, she says, see you then yesterday, 3.47 p.m.
	So Monday, see you tomorrow at 4 p.m.
	That's our confirmation.
	She hearts it, right?
	9.30 this morning.
	Hey, I'm so sorry, but I didn't realize it was a two-hour drive to and back in a five-hour long podcast.
	I don't have nine plus hours to commit to this.
	You said you love the podcast, bitch.
	Liza.
	In our thing, in our Instagram, it says we're in Santa Barbara.
	Every single show, we say we're in Santa Barbara.
	In the message I sent to you, I said we're in Santa Barbara.
	It's two hours away.
	The day before, excuse me, the day of in the morning is not, if you, is not when you tell somebody you're not going, you're going to bail on a plan that you fucking asked for, you degenerate.
	And then, so she, she came to the studio.
	She came to the studio.
	And by the way, I forgot to mention this.
	We're going to do a call-in, a brief column with Destiny.
	So I told her, hey, Destiny's going to be on the show.
	Like, it's too late for me to get a replacement.
	Can you still make it?
	Like, I have a big guest today.
	I don't want to fuck up the booking.
	Because I do like take into consideration, okay, this person, like, it's not just throw 10 people randomly on the podcast.
	It's, hey, who would be good with who?
	So I tried to, like, I wouldn't just put 10 conservative people on the panel.
	I'd try to put a little mix.
	So there's some thought that goes into this.
	In any case, so we will do a call in with Destiny.
	It might just, it might be pretty brief.
	If we can get through to him, it's going to be via Discord.
	But yeah, she shows up to the studio because I had to be like, yo, come on, don't, don't bail.
	She's 40 minutes late.
	And she gets in.
	She's got a fucking attitude.
	What did she say?
	You're going to use my views.
	No, she was like, oh, I don't see who I thought I was going to see here.
	And then we were like, I didn't even know who you were talking, who she was talking about.
	And then she's like, I just, nobody that is like on my level is here.
	She was like, that's while I was in all of us, I think.
	And I was like, what did I say to her?
	Is that what you're doing?
	I was like, who are you?
	Is that what you did?
	I heard her from in the bathroom say it.
	Oh, yeah.
	I don't have anyone who know you.
	I was like, wait, who are you?
	Kelly, can you just scoot your microphone like a little that way?
	but you guys heard that right like she yeah What did you hear?
	She said, I thought I was supposed to have at least one person here I'm familiar with.
	And then she was like, I don't know anybody here.
	It's like she asked to be on the show.
	Like, it's just so, such entitled behavior.
	In any case, we have some TikToks from her that are absolutely degenerate that we might.
	Oh, my God.
	Is she like a shopper?
	She's like one of these.
	I don't know, whatever.
	We might, if time permitting, we might react to it.
	But in any case, what was I going to say?
	Slipped my mind.
	Something about her.
	No, so she came in.
	She's like, oh, okay.
	Well, I'm going to leave.
	So she drove two hours to come be on the show.
	She requested to be on.
	And then just said, okay, well, I'm not going to do the show.
	So, okay, enjoy the PCH or the fucking 101 back to LA in rush hour.
	She's like, why can't I just call in?
	Oh, yeah, no, because Destiny's going to call in.
	She's like, why couldn't I do a call in?
	First off, we have, you're coming from Slow, right?
	That's two hours.
	Both of you came from LA.
	Vegas.
	Oh, you're from Vegas.
	You flew in.
	Same with Sarah.
	You two flew in.
	We drove.
	Oh, how long's the drive from Vegas?
	Five and a half hours.
	And it's through the desert, too.
	Yeah.
	I flew here from Colorado.
	You flew here from Colorado.
	Kelly, you came from LA.
	LA.
	Q, you're from Philly, right?
	Beaten Cheeks donated $101.
	After this episode, I will draft up the deposit legalities for future guests to come on.
	You need to take it serious, and I have serious input on this for you.
	You're welcome.
	Flakes being blasted isn't doing anything but giving them more clout.
	Time is dollar.
	Dollar.
	No, I mean, I don't think she's going to garner fucking anything from this.
	But the point I was trying to make here is we have multiple girls that y'all drove way further than LA.
	You came from LA.
	Slow.
	I think slow's a little further.
	Is it what, two hours?
	It's like an hour 45.
	It's about the same as LA.
	Like, flew in, flew in.
	It's just rude to cancel.
	Like, she's two hours away.
	Like, you guys live in LA, right?
	So, question for those of you who live in LA.
	If you're, even if you, I know, obviously, if we were in LA, it'd be much quicker.
	But, like, isn't it the case if you go anywhere in LA?
	It's going to take you at least like 30 minutes anyways.
	Almost an hour and a half anywhere.
	Like, yeah.
	Really?
	Like, let's say you're like Long Beach or something like that.
	Let's say you're downtown, downtown LA, like courthouse, and then you're going to Santa Monica.
	How would that take, what, 30 minutes?
	Yeah, at least.
	I live in the Valley, though, so everything's super far.
	Oh, you're in the Valley, too.
	Yeah, so in any case, look, I'm not going to linger on it for too long.
	But look, it's like, she's all like, oh, it's such a grievance to travel two hours.
	It's like.
	With 4,000 followers?
	I know.
	I was like, who are you?
	I know you got the time.
	I know you got the time.
	So those of you who made it today, who were on time, who took the time out of your schedule to come be here, thank you.
	I appreciate it.
	Thank you for not flaking, guys.
	I appreciate that.
	We deal with a lot of flakes, so I'm mad at the flakes, but I'm very appreciative for the people that are people of their word and stick to their commitments.
	So thank you guys.
	All right, without further I think that's it.
	We'll maybe react to her shit later.
	So we're gonna go around the table once more.
	Current relationship status.
	So are you single talking stage?
	Situationship, friends with benefits, relationship married, polycule, sex cult, harem.
	How long have you been single?
	If you're single, longest relationship.
	Go ahead.
	As you know, I do have like my husband or whatever.
	And then I'm kind of like dating Zirka, but like me and Brian have like a situationship, I would call it like kind of going down.
	I know.
	It's like a okay.
	Should we dress the Layla thing?
	We have a situationship going on.
	Like, you know, there's like a lot of tension.
	It's a situational.
	It's a situation, but like it's a good one.
	I like it.
	Okay, here, should we pull up the, where do we start?
	Do we start at the messages or the tweets?
	Ooh.
	Oh, what do you mean by tweets?
	Yeah, let's do the tweets first, and then we'll do the messages.
	Sometimes I don't know what I tweet.
	Ugh.
	That gave you a lot.
	It was just a few, don't worry.
	So this was September 19th.
	I don't know if this was after.
	It was after.
	Like the day after?
	It was the day after.
	Do you want to read it actually in your voice?
	To my inbox.
	Brian is one of the sexiest men I've ever encountered.
	The amazing day I give him Gluck will be my ultimate performance, but no one will see it because I feel like he's an intimate type, which you are.
	You're totally like intimate, like one-on-one.
	I love it.
	Next tweet, please.
	To which I respond, I don't date/slash sleep with whores.
	Just fuck the shit out of them.
	Okay.
	Now, bear in mind, there were other messages.
	This wasn't my first knee-jerk reaction, but show the other ones.
	I only want Brian's cock.
	His pride makes me incredibly specifically horny.
	Does Brian have a personal social media or do I feel to shoot my shot via podcast socials?
	Next.
	Which you do.
	My chat is so sweet for you.
	Don't.
	You're not going to play this.
	Brian.
	Oh, my God.
	It's like so cute.
	It's like I'm being like Fitzies or something.
	Okay.
	Brian, I will make you mine.
	Look how flustered I make you.
	It's adorable.
	Which is.
	You're so cute.
	Now, it didn't stop there.
	Layla has been in my DMs.
	Now, of course, I think it's an act, right?
	I think it's not an act.
	It's an act.
	But we'll show them.
	Like, you just cancel my feelings.
	Like, they don't matter to you.
	Cool.
	Let's see the DMs.
	I took some screenshots.
	September 19th.
	Do you want to read it?
	These are all very true feelings.
	B2 dubs.
	Sure.
	Why ignore my sincere rids on Twitter?
	Want you so bad.
	Prayer emoji.
	And then I say, LL, you're so full of shit.
	God, you sound so sorry.
	I will literally be celibate for an entire month for you, which I did tell you.
	I would stop being sick.
	Let me read.
	I'll read my answer then.
	Okay.
	You can tell me all about it next time we have you on.
	My energy for you is too strong.
	I need you ASAP.
	Next.
	Save your nonsense for the show.
	I swear to God, I'm not trolling.
	I'd sign an NDA for you.
	Like, I genuinely think you're one of the hottest guys I've ever met.
	Like, I just want a taste.
	Give me a chance.
	What if I'm your soulmate?
	And then I say, oh, yeah, girl, run that game, which is a song lyric from Eminem's song, Superman, which if you knew the lyrics.
	OK, anyways, next.
	And then you might.
	Oh, I think we might have skipped something.
	Then I was like, I invited you on October 3rd with Molly.
	Yes, bet.
	If you let me hit, I'll bring you all the views you want, babe.
	To show, no to hit.
	We're in the DMs.
	You can drop the act next.
	I said, why?
	Why do you think?
	Why do you think my crush on you is an act?
	I want you so bad.
	I'd literally be wife.
	Like, this is not an act BA for real.
	It's horny.
	It's horny hours just saying, because it was like, I was so horny for you to say.
	Next.
	I said, I would destroy Candace.
	It's 5 a.m. and I still want you.
	Tuesday, October 3rd.
	You down to come back on.
	Can you give our destined soulmate relationship a chance?
	Oh, wait.
	Oh, here it is.
	I said, Ugh, what kind of game do I got to spit for you to give me a shot?
	Okay, this was out of order.
	Sorry, this was a bit out of order, but go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	The Lord put us on the same path.
	I could literally be your destined soulmate.
	You're so fine.
	You're like, fix it, Felix, but tall.
	And you give me Finn from Adventure Time Vibes.
	Which is so valid.
	You look like Fix It.
	Like, you know, like, he looks like Fix it.
	Okay.
	I said, you know, it's true.
	I'll give you time to face the facts, but I'll be waiting, babe.
	Is there another one, Nick?
	I just want to make sure we don't tab over into something that we're not.
	There's another one, another DM.
	Okay, we'll finish.
	Sorry, guys, we're going to finish up.
	Jesus Christ.
	Oh, this is today.
	Thank you.
	Oh, getting evaluated tonight.
	That was, we're not going to talk about that.
	But anyways.
	Brian, I need penis so bad.
	Without your cum, I have no protein.
	Would you like to read yours?
	I said, we have some whey protein in the studio.
	Optimum nutrition, gold standard, 100% whey.
	I said, can you come on my protein shape?
	I think that's it, right, Nick?
	No, that's it.
	I think that's it.
	We could have more if you want, but what?
	You're so bad at replying.
	There's one more?
	Ooh, okay.
	Bend me over and call me your good little slut.
	You like when I talk like that, huh?
	Okay.
	Bend me over and call me your good little slut.
	I want you so bad, Daddy Brian.
	I think Brian.
	Okay, all right.
	We can't.
	You could genuinely fuck the shit out of me.
	Yeah, we get the idea.
	I have a question.
	What is wrong with you?
	I like, you literally make me so horny.
	Like, you do.
	Like, you literally do give me like father figure, like, hot vibes.
	Like, you know?
	Like, I feel like you would tell me, like, good job.
	No, she's trolling.
	No, I literally like him.
	Like, other people pay her to do this.
	No, I don't.
	I don't do this to anyone.
	Who have I ever done this to?
	Who?
	Who have I ever been this one?
	Like, name one person.
	I don't know.
	You do all kinds of weird shit on your social media.
	I've never been, like, I actually like you.
	Like, I would, I literally have said, like, I would sign an NDA and like never, like, let people know about our relationship.
	But, like, I actually, like, actually like you.
	So, confirm or deny, are you a pathological liar?
	No, I just genuinely, like, have a crush on you.
	Is that how you're cheating?
	Can I not like you?
	Like, do you not think you're attractive or something?
	Like, I have a crush on you.
	Okay, so here, look, here's my analysis, guys, of this weird situation.
	One, it's an act.
	You don't want to fuck me.
	I'm not going to fuck you.
	Two, it's an act, but you do want to fuck me.
	I'm still not going to fuck you.
	Three, it's not an act, and you do want to fuck me.
	I'm still not going to fuck you.
	Why does everything I do have to be an act?
	Like, I genuinely have feelings for you, and I think you're like the nicest guy ever.
	I've laid out the analysis.
	Like, you're such a good guy.
	Like, any girl would like die to date you.
	Like, I just am more vocal about it.
	Like, I think you're such a sweet guy.
	Like, and you're like, like, you're so sweet to me.
	Even though when I'm annoying, like, you're like so cute about it.
	Like, I feel like we would fit together really well.
	But, I mean, since you want to be stubborn and not give me a chance.
	The nuke's been sent.
	Like, can you, like, give me a reason, like, why?
	Like, I literally quit porn.
	Like, I don't know why, like, you won't, like, give me a chance.
	Like, you won't even let me like take you out on a date.
	Like, you won't even, like, try it.
	Like, you have some, like, stubbornness in your head, and you're like, I won't go on a date with Leyla because I don't like Leyla.
	It's like, just try it.
	My tweet, which it was a bit coarse.
	But I'm not a whore anymore.
	I don't do porn anymore.
	But I literally said I would stop being a whore for you.
	And I literally stopped porn.
	And you still, like, are like, no, not good enough.
	Listen, you're an attractive woman, but the fact that you've done porn and it was a hiccup.
	It's like it is a 100% a deal breaker.
	But I said I'm sorry, and I literally quit being a thorn.
	Thank you for your apology.
	And like, my bussy's like, I accept your apology for doing porn.
	Like, can't you just be a good guy and be like, okay, I get it.
	It was a hiccup.
	Like, you know, like you were going through some shit, like, you know, you did porn, whatever.
	But, like, I can put that past this and, like, we can have a beautiful relationship and just, like, move on.
	Like it was like two months of porn, like I didn't even do that many scenes.
	Like you can ask Molly, like I could not take dick like that, like I had to quit porn.
	Yeah, it is true.
	Yeah, like we're gonna get to you Molly, here in just a second.
	Okay, I'm excited, like you know, like I literally quit porn.
	Like I don't like, didn't even get that much dick in me.
	I did like two BBC scenes which were like both like only in five inches.
	Like I'm not a whore, like I just genuinely like have burning desire for you and I just like want you, but like you won't even let me try, like you won't even like let us go on like one date and just see if you like.
	If you would give me a chance, like I would stop.
	Like I just want like one date, $100, Brian.
	One time with multiple rubbers won't hurt.
	I usually support Roy's Law, but this one you'd have to be careful.
	I still think this is an act, but this is entertainment at its finest.
	How many other women find handsome Brian, over an eight, say you for Brian.
	That's so cute.
	No, I actually think you're so cheeks.
	By the way, when it comes to the deposit um sorry uh, when it comes to the deposit thing, she had reached out before we implemented the new deposit policy so uh, that's going into effect very soon.
	So that's just what we're gonna do.
	For people to who request to be on the show, we're gonna have to uh, do a deposit because it's just we're not gonna deal with flakes and at least well, we'll still deal with flakes even if people pay to deposit.
	But it should at least eliminate it a little bit.
	Um yeah, it's just not gonna happen Brian why, like?
	Because I used to be a whore, like used to.
	You still are.
	How am I still a whore?
	What do I do?
	You're irredeemable.
	It's like a murderer who just murdered seven, like a serial murderer right, I said, who just murdered seven people and then like, a week later, they're like, i'm no longer a murderer.
	So you think girls who do porn can't be forgiven?
	Um, that's the point where we want to date them really ever.
	No no, why do girls who do porn need to be forgiven?
	Yeah like, why can't you just like evolve.
	I don't have some.
	I don't have like an animosity to women who are in the like, who do porn.
	But when it comes to just who I choose to associate with romantically, I don't want to date somebody who's done porn.
	Would you rather me like lie to you and so I never did porn?
	I don't hate you.
	I don't have any negative feelings towards you besides the fact that you're slightly annoying.
	But you won't be romantic towards me.
	You just like want to fuck me and like don't be romantic.
	Like I want to like wait, but wait, so what?
	Like you know, like I want to have like intimacy, like I want to be like together, like I want to have like a real relationship with you.
	It's not, it's not possible, Just because I did porn.
	I should not even like engage on the bullshittery, but I just think that like that's just like, I mean, like, I guess I get it, like, whatever.
	It's like your opinion, but like, it just kind of sucks.
	Like, I mean, I didn't know, like, completely what I was getting into.
	I did porn.
	I only did it for two months.
	Didn't even get that much cock in me.
	And, like, oops, now I'm really good at sex.
	Like, you know, like, kind of a win-win.
	And, like, I'm not going to do it anymore.
	And, like, I literally told you, like, I would be celibate for like a month for you.
	Only I would have to put you on.
	In order for me to date you, I would have to put you through some sort of trial.
	Okay.
	Like, a trial.
	I'll do that for you.
	No, the shit would be like intense.
	Okay, tell me.
	I'll do it.
	I literally will do it.
	No, like, have you seen The Walk of Shame by Cersei?
	No.
	In Game of Thrones?
	like it would be like a humiliation ritual shit I would, you would basically.
	I think she would like that.
	Wait, what is it?
	She probably would.
	She would love.
	She would love that.
	Wait, what is it?
	What is it?
	Yeah, what is it?
	No, I wouldn't literally do that, but like, that's the scale of the redemption.
	Like, I'm fine with that.
	Like, I think we could genuinely have a good relationship.
	Like, I think we go really well together.
	Like, yeah, I used to be a horror, but like, I could have lied to you and said I never did porn and like a virgin.
	For a period of three years, you would have to basically do all my chores.
	And we couldn't even have sex for three years.
	I feel like we would have to do that.
	You'd have to do all my.
	No, we wouldn't.
	You'd have to do all my chores.
	And at any point in that three years, like it could be two years, 11 months in, I decide I don't want to see you anymore.
	And then I've just been.
	So you'd be like being loyal to me?
	It would just be free maid service, basically.
	But you would be being loyal to me because otherwise that's not.
	Loyal to you how?
	No, I'd probably see other women.
	No, that's not cool.
	You'd have to lose.
	You can't say that I get to date you and that you can just go like fuck other women.
	No, like if we're going to do it, like we need to do your own.
	Okay, anyways, I'm kind of bantering here.
	Jokes aside, no, I would not do that.
	We'll talk about later off camera.
	Okay, yeah.
	We'll talk about it.
	In any case, it's an act, so whatever.
	We'll talk about it later tonight, whenever it's apparently not an act.
	And also the whole Mormon Bishop thing, that's bullshit.
	Also, it's that's fucking real.
	I literally, she literally knows that.
	I need to get it.
	I think I literally, when I got a day after I got married, yeah, we had a scene the day after I got married.
	It's bullshit.
	People message me, Layla.
	People message me.
	I'm not going to.
	That's fine.
	They can say that it's fake.
	That's fine.
	They can say you.
	I'm not going to expose anything.
	People who know you message me saying she's a fucking liar.
	She loves you.
	Nobody knows me.
	Dude, literally, it was.
	People message me later.
	People message me and say that you're a liar.
	They can say that.
	Like, I get that it's weird, but it's not that weird.
	Like, I live in LA.
	Like, people have husbands.
	I've been contacted literally by Mormons in Utah who wants to be honest.
	It's fine.
	Fuck you up.
	That's fine.
	But they didn't want to fuck me up.
	They're like, yo.
	I like to have this Mormon.
	And that's fine.
	It's blasphemy.
	It's like literally, you're blaspheming the Mormon.
	It's not his fault that he's Mormon.
	Like, he likes God and he likes it.
	But you're lying about it.
	it's not like you can ask like people who like mormon bishop married to a pro uh I'm not a porn star anymore.
	I literally quit porn.
	I did for two months.
	And yeah, he knows I'm young.
	He knows I'm going to make mistakes.
	I'm literally not.
	You can ask people who actually know me and they will tell you.
	What proof do you have?
	Do you have the marriage certificate?
	I can call him.
	Call the Mormon guy.
	You can't.
	Well.
	Exactly.
	No, Well, California has a wiretapping lot.
	You have to text him asking him for, letting him know you're on a show, asking for consent to be recorded, and then we can call him.
	If you want to call him.
	But it's probably one of her friends who's like a fucking honeypot or something.
	Literally on his Mormon.
	Wait, don't show the camera.
	I'm not showing the camera.
	I'm just showing you, like, this isn't really, like, mission pics.
	I can't see.
	First off, I'm not going to review the.
	Cool.
	You have a random Instagram profile.
	Like, it's not that weird.
	I don't know why you hate on like every relationship I have and you won't even give me a chance for one.
	All right, moving on.
	Molly, what's your relationship status?
	And please don't tell me you're dating a Mormon bishop.
	I'm not dating a Mormon bishop.
	All right, thank you.
	I'm still in the same relationship I was in last time.
	Okay.
	How long has that relationship been?
	I think like six months.
	Six months.
	Really quick, going back to Layla.
	You're in a relationship with John Zerka.
	How do you feel about his recent escapades?
	Miami changes people and I don't like Miami.
	And when he's in LA, he's a different person, but he's just having some issues right now.
	But he'll be fine.
	So you're currently married to Mormon city.
	Since that's not believable.
	You're in a relationship with John and you're frequently distraught over his.
	Okay, when he's mean, obviously I'm going to be upset.
	I can be upset if my man is mean to me.
	Like that's valid.
	And he was being an asshole last night, so that's valid too.
	That's cool.
	Okay.
	What about you, Emily?
	I'm currently single.
	I've been single for about a month now, and my longest relationship was six months.
	You've been single for one month.
	Longest relationship, six months.
	And let's see.
	In that one-month time period, has there been a rebound?
	Any new guys in the picture?
	No, but I am going on a date Friday.
	So there will be a date.
	Did you meet the guy from.
	Did he DM you?
	No, no, actually.
	Because you were on the show on Sunday.
	And did you get a lot of details?
	I did.
	Huh?
	For some reason, the audio's gone down.
	Like, the bar is not as high as it was in the game of the show, and everyone in the comments is.
	Did it just start?
	Wait, chat.
	I'm going to piss.
	Chat, how long has the audio been bad?
	You've been keeping an eye on this, right, Nick?
	Has it been bad the entire time?
	I pulled this up right when people started throwing in the audio.
	Chat, how long?
	Chat, how long has the audio been bad?
	Could they hear me?
	Some people are saying it's fine.
	Oh.
	Is it just her?
	Wait, chat.
	Is it just Emily?
	Is it?
	Yeah.
	I was watching the bar and it just started going down, like, even when you were talking from what it had been set before.
	Some people are saying it's fine.
	Okay, maybe it was a minute.
	Some people have.
	It's definitely not fine.
	Hold on.
	Well, I'll try and talk a little louder.
	Yeah, I did get a lot of DMs from the show, but they're mostly just saying that they hope I come back.
	Nothing really mean.
	You guys can tell I'll get a mix up.
	That's good.
	I'm single and I've always been single.
	I've never really had a boyfriend.
	I date around, but I never had a boyfriend.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah, same thing with her.
	I've never had a boyfriend.
	Yeah, I'm currently single.
	And my longest relationship was three years, and that was about six months ago.
	I'm in a relationship.
	I've been in it for about almost two years now, and this is my longest one.
	I'm officially single.
	No more side chick.
	I mean, not side chick.
	But main chick.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, she still exists.
	Okay.
	But I'm still officially single.
	But we kick it.
	We went out on a nice little date last week.
	Lobster.
	Steak.
	You know.
	The usual.
	Is it that loud in the microphones?
	Is it too loud now?
	Hello.
	Hello.
	Testing.
	Hi.
	Wait.
	Says everybody.
	Which I'll go get off-term steak at.
	Low, uh, what's it called?
	Some steakhouse.
	Uh it's first time I went.
	Really?
	Yeah, it was in LA?
	Huh?
	Here in LA?
	Or in Philly?
	No, no, yeah, in Philly.
	Awesome.
	Yeah, some steakhouse.
	What's like your type in women?
	Um fine.
	But like but I like low-key.
	I like introverted.
	I like feminine.
	I don't like girls who party your club or anything like that.
	I like girls who have some substance, some depth.
	They like to do things like we can kick it in the crib all the time.
	Would you fuck her?
	Would I fuck her?
	No.
	Because I did porn.
	Because you did porn.
	Even if it was like with a condom?
	No.
	Really?
	Dude, have you seen my vagina?
	You haven't, but like it's on Google.
	But like it's nice.
	I don't dispute that, but I wouldn't fuck you.
	Why?
	I just can't.
	It's just a turn off for me.
	Does it make you uncomfy that anyone can look up your name and see your pussy?
	No, because I love performing.
	I did like performing.
	I just couldn't handle the dick.
	Do you want to get married when you're older?
	Or have kids?
	Yeah, I'll have kids.
	I think I'll be out of LA and everything by the time I'm like 26.
	And like, I want to have kids and like have like a little like, maybe put them in like a little like farm.
	Does it ever like worry you like when your children are older that they'll see your naked body on the internet?
	You know, it actually doesn't.
	No.
	So why are you?
	No, like Kim Kardashian has her body on the internet and like stuff like that.
	You know, it's like, it's just like, you know, like, and honestly, like, we've all probably, have y'all had like your nudes exposed like before, like maybe once in high school or whatever?
	No, no.
	Really?
	No.
	First of all, who is watching like 10-year-old porn?
	Have you never been to public school?
	Sorry.
	But why are we fantasizing about children watching?
	That's not fantasizing.
	It's just reality.
	Kids know how to get on the internet and their friends are smart.
	They know how to look up their friends.
	Maybe we should shame the parents who are passing their pregnancy onto their children and teaching their children it's okay to bully other kids for what they're doing.
	It's just like it's just a character like it just shows like their character.
	Yeah.
	It's not a past prejudice.
	I think everybody is on the same page that like if you're 15 and 20, so we actually can't talk about watching that stuff.
	But like informant like, no, like, you know, like, I think it's like a, shows your character as a parent.
	And like, I'll never, my kids will always know never to judge anyone.
	That's why I want to raise my kids.
	So.
	Do you plan on having kids with the guy you're already married to?
	Of course.
	Of course.
	100%.
	Do you want to really think that guy?
	I think I'm going to get my eggs frozen lately because I've been like researching lately and like apparently it's good to get your kids.
	Do you want multiple baby daddies?
	No.
	So you're just going to have kids with that one guy you're married to?
	Yeah.
	I mean Zerka's like my best friend and like I ended up like actually liking having a relationship with him and everything but like he'd be fucking up right now and like I genuinely like do like Brian.
	I think we'd have like a cute relationship.
	So would you want to have kids with Brian?
	No.
	But you wait are you legally married?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	But no, I wouldn't have kids with Brian just because like I feel like I feel like like like I think Brian's hot and everything but like that's it.
	Is the audio okay guys?
	Frankly, I think some people are trolling.
	Wait, yeah, but I think getting your eggs frozen I heard like is better when you're young and then like you can like get it inseminated like later.
	So I think I'm like gonna learn into that.
	Wait, so if you're married, are you guys in an open relationship?
	Yeah, yeah, stop.
	You can say that because you cheat on me.
	Stop.
	Sorry.
	One in the chat if the audio is okay and if it's the same as it normally is.
	Was it I think people are fucking trolling in the chat about the audio.
	It sounds fucking fine.
	I don't know why people are saying it sounds weird.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Here, we're going back to relationship status.
	Go ahead.
	What is yours?
	Oh, I'm single.
	How long have you been single?
	Always.
	What do you mean?
	I've date, but I've never been in a committed relationship.
	What's the longest period of time you've seen a guy?
	Eight-ish months.
	Okay.
	So it was never exclusive?
	Um no.
	Okay.
	Uh all right.
	What about you?
	Single, never had a boyfriend.
	And you're religious, correct?
	Yes.
	Are you waiting until marriage?
	Yes.
	Yes?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Uh I'm single.
	I've been single for six months now and my longest relationship was three years.
	Alright.
	I have a boyfriend for we've been together for about two years now and that's my longest relationship.
	Hugh, what about you?
	I said I'm officially single but the main still in the picture.
	Wait.
	Officially single?
	Yeah meaning I'm not I don't have a labeled girlfriend.
	Was that is that the same answer you gave on Sunday?
	I didn't answer Sunday.
	Oh you didn't answer?
	No.
	We didn't get to him.
	Yeah we didn't get to him.
	No we didn't even finish the girl on the end either.
	No, we got to her I think right?
	Okay I don't know whatever.
	it's always a shit show um so they keep talking about the audio man Yeah it is a bit lower.
	It is still coming in.
	It just like for some reason it just started getting lower for a minute and it might be a little bit in and out.
	What do you mean in and out?
	That's what some people said but from what from my vantage point without the chat I noticed that it dropped significantly.
	I think we can keep going.
	It might just not come as perfect as we like it and I can boost as much as you can.
	That's why I'm going to raise my kids so.
	Huh.
	It's just lower than usual.
	It sounds fucking fine on my phone.
	I think we're getting fucking trolled dude.
	I mean I don't know if something is significant I think it's okay.
	Okay.
	We'll just keep going.
	Mods anybody in the chat who is hold on.
	Mods anybody in the chat that is for the next five minutes that is saying anything about the audio that is a perma ban people are saying it's too low.
	I think it's it's there's we have changed nothing with our It's a troll.
	Anybody who's saying anything about the audio, you're just perma-banned.
	But Nick, you're saying it's genuinely bad.
	It looks good now.
	It's switching up and down, so I think we just moved the show.
	The baby!
	It looks much better, but the audio is not a bad thing.
	Bro, the baby did not.
	Bro just committed abortion.
	The baby is our chat.
	Sacrifice.
	Frank, you said audio.
	We'll just keep going.
	So I'm going to do some readjustments.
	I'm boosting the load.
	Alright, sorry, guys.
	I don't know if people are fucking trolling or what the idiot the situation is.
	Okay.
	The audio is going to be what it is.
	I'm not going to address the audio anymore.
	Okay, so relationship, single one month.
	You got a lot of DMs from your previous appearance?
	Yeah, like a couple, it's mostly guys.
	Okay.
	How did you meet the guy you're going on a date with on Friday?
	Um, I matched with him on Hinge.
	On Hinge, okay, got it.
	Uh, and you said you've been single your entire life.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and you're in the adult entertainment industry, right?
	You do.
	Yes, I am.
	You do porn, right?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Uh, let's see.
	Single.
	Single.
	Got it.
	Okay, got that all down.
	Um, I have a couple pre-show notes here that you guys so kindly provided.
	So, um, let's see.
	Uh, I'll come back to Layla since we already spent quite a bit of time on you.
	Uh, hold on.
	Sorry, guys, dude.
	I was, okay, I'm.
	I didn't want to address this on the show.
	I've been getting harassed by a woman in a different country.
	I've never, I've never met this woman.
	She is.
	I don't want to reveal details.
	I am being stalked.
	I'm being harassed.
	I was on the phone today, right before the show, when I should have been preparing for the show, with various police departments in her country, like, trying to get her help because I'm not going to get into details on the show.
	She is literally harassing me.
	And it's, like, intense.
	It's really fucking intense.
	self-harm type shit so um i'm a little if i apologize if i'm i'm kind of lost it there for a little bit but it's been it's it's been really bad so So.
	Okay.
	So my fuse is a little short today.
	Alright, so let's just get into a fucking topic here.
	So we had, let me see.
	Where do I want to start?
	You're really into Kanye West, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What's the story there?
	Like, you have it.
	Because you have a Kanye West tattoo, the graduation.
	Can you show it to the camera?
	That's so cute.
	Nick, hold on.
	This camera right here, if you could show it to this camera.
	Okay.
	So.
	I also have two more.
	Oh, you have two other Kanye West tattoos?
	Are you in love with him or what's the...
	No, I'm not in love with him like that.
	He's just my...
	You got to speak into the microphone.
	Your voice is already low enough.
	He's my soulmate.
	He's your soulmate?
	Yeah.
	How so?
	i just feel like we're really similar to each other house you mean like a he's him being a black man you being an asian woman Is that the similarity?
	No.
	How are you similar?
	He's outspoken.
	Yeah.
	He believes in himself.
	He made his dreams come true.
	You don't need to hold the microphone, by the way.
	Okay.
	He made his dreams come true.
	That's how you're similar?
	Yeah, and he's also outspoken.
	He speaks his mind.
	What were the dreams that you made come true?
	True?
	No, I didn't make mine come true, but he did.
	He's inspirational.
	Kanye is dealing with like bipolar, isn't he?
	Are you also bipolar?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	Would you date Kanye just to make it dating related?
	No, that's disgusting.
	Why is that disgusting?
	Because he's like 48.
	He's your soulmate, though.
	And he's rich and famous.
	Do you like old guys?
	No.
	He's your soulmate, but it would be disgusting to date him.
	I like him as a friend.
	But he's not your friend.
	I want to make him his friend.
	Make him my friend.
	Like, are you stalking him or?
	What do you mean, stalking?
	What do you mean stalking?
	You asked the question.
	Like, I don't know.
	You're probably not stalking him.
	so it's disgusting though for you to date Kanye Yeah.
	Why would it be disgusting?
	I just told you.
	Because of the age?
	Yeah, the age gap's like 20-something.
	I don't know.
	48, right?
	What's like the oldest?
	Is he really 40?
	The oldest you would date, though.
	Huh?
	What's like the oldest you would date?
	The oldest?
	Probably like 25.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I'm 18, so that's like a seven-year difference.
	that's not bad I mean that's he's 46 just two years younger than you know Oh, yeah.
	So he was way younger.
	Okay, all right.
	That's fine.
	She wouldn't date an older guy, even if he's rich and famous and super famous.
	Why are you making this so negative?
	What do you mean?
	You're making it so negative.
	No, I'm not.
	Yeah, you're asking like negative questions.
	Like, he's used to girls being like, I love older men.
	You're like, he's bipolar.
	Are you bipolar?
	Well, you said you had a lot in common with him, so I was trying to determine that.
	Yeah, but he has a lot of other positive traits.
	Valid.
	He made graduation.
	I thought you would like Kanye.
	Yeah, I like him.
	I like his music.
	His first three albums are my preferred albums.
	The older, the more recent ones, they're okay.
	Dondo was good.
	I liked, I love it.
	With Lil Puzz.
	Oh my god, yes.
	That was a baker for sure.
	Because he says he's such a fucking hoe.
	Yeah.
	I wonder why you love that song.
	Good times.
	Okay.
	Sydney, we're going to talk about you really quick in your pre-show notes.
	You said that you've basically been cheated on in every relationship you've ever been in.
	Yeah, basically.
	Wow.
	Wait, Layla, can you scoop back?
	You said your ex-boyfriend, when you turned 18, got engaged within the first few months and moved in together.
	He would cheat on you multiple times and you got pregnant.
	Yeah.
	I got pregnant and whenever I called him and told him, he said, okay, how are we going to fix it?
	And he obviously meant get an abortion.
	So I said that wasn't going to happen because that's not what I believe in.
	So he hung up the phone and blocked me on everything.
	So what happened?
	Did you get the abortion?
	Well, no, no, no.
	So I had a miscarriage in May and he found out about it through other friends and then came back to me when he found out about it.
	But like he came back like saying, oh, like I'm here to support you now to try to hide the fact that he already knew.
	But that was the only reason he came back is because he found out.
	What was your experience with the miscarriage?
	Let's not talk about that.
	Let's see.
	It's just I don't.
	I don't see it.
	Okay.
	So he reached back out to you to try to get back together.
	You said you stuck with him through rehab.
	What was he in rehab for?
	Yeah, he was in rehab because he has like pretty bad drug problems with Coke.
	And then he also has like, what's it called?
	He has schizophrenia that he doesn't take any medication for.
	So also that he just kind of went off the deep end and just kind of.
	How long were you with him?
	Three years.
	How did he pull you?
	What do you mean?
	How did he get you?
	He definitely love bombed the shit out of me.
	Like the first six months was just like, I'd see him every single day.
	He, yeah, no.
	Definitely love bombed me.
	Did you meet him in person?
	So I actually met him over social media.
	I was living in California at the time, and I ended up moving to Colorado for him.
	Oh, wow.
	Yeah.
	So you just lived there by yourself now?
	Uh no, my mom, uh, she and my dad just got a divorce, so now she's in Colorado, so now I moved in with her.
	Dope.
	Yeah.
	Did you learn that love bombing is a rip?
	Like, yeah, well, I didn't know it was love bombing at first.
	Like, you know, I didn't, I didn't know what to do.
	What would he do?
	Like, what's some of the things he did?
	Well, I mean, just like the first six months, it was like amazing.
	Just seeing him every single day, just literally telling me he loves me within like the first month, just like all that.
	And then after a certain period of time, once he knew he got me, once we were living together, you can kind of tell.
	Like, he's just started treating me like shit.
	So.
	Yeah.
	And you said you had another ex who had a Xanax problem who cheated on you.
	Also, is that the same ex or a different ex?
	No, that's a different ex.
	That was for like back in high school.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then let's see.
	Why do you think you're drawn to these kinds of men?
	Junkies.
	I would say maybe because of probably my parents in the way that like I just want to try to fix them kind of in a way.
	But obviously now I realize that does not work.
	And yeah, definitely done with those type of guys for sure.
	Wait, how would you fix your parents?
	Well, no, I mean just like guys guys guys please speak into the microphones.
	Okay yeah you're good.
	No not just like that more like my mom was kind of that with my dad in a way.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So you want to break the generational thing?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah, definitely.
	Okay, so you said that you wish dating was how it used to be seen in old movies with traditional gentlemen who will court a lady and take her out on lots of dates and hold the door, et cetera.
	And you said you're dating for marriage and eventually and look for qualities of a good husband in the people I want to date without consciously realizing it.
	Wait, what?
	Oh my god, that's yours.
	That's yours.
	Oh yeah, that's not me.
	Okay.
	You said, okay, you said social media has ruined any type of committed relationship nowadays.
	Social media shows people that they can supposedly have options, so they're always just looking for a better.
	Yeah.
	Do you think this applies more so to women or to men?
	I think just both.
	I think both.
	I think men and women both look on social media and they think that they just see all these people and they're like, all right, I can literally just go into their DMs and shoot my shot.
	So it's so much easier than I feel like it used to be without social media.
	If a hypothetical scenario, let's say you and me were dating and I asked you to delete all your social media, would you?
	100%.
	No Instagram, no TikTok, no Snapchat?
	I don't see the point in having social media if I'm in a happy, committed relationship.
	We have a TikTok from you.
	Nick, can you pull up the TikTok?
	Oh, no.
	Wait, what is it?
	Uh-oh.
	I'm curious.
	Yeah, I'm curious too.
	Don't, you don't, just pause, pause, pause, pause, pause.
	It's just a video of you.
	He's got a boyfriend, but I don't care.
	No, no, no, but do you hear the audio?
	Yeah.
	The audio says one thing about me or one thing.
	No, you have to hear the audio because that was a lot of fun.
	I'm so sorry.
	I'm so sorry.
	You have to hear the audio to understand the TikTok.
	She's saying she's not like that.
	She's like, on the other hand, the TikTok was saying, one thing I like about me is that I'm not like that.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay, whatever.
	Never mind.
	Yeah, no.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Let's see.
	Oh, you said that you dated one guy and he cheated on you, so you found his ex-girlfriend and started dating her for a while.
	Yeah, that did happen.
	That's base.
	Wow.
	That did happen.
	How long did you date her?
	Only a few months.
	She was as crazy as him.
	Oh, 100%.
	Yep.
	They were meant to be.
	Yeah, no, 100%.
	They are meant to be.
	Okay.
	And then I guess the last thing here, you said your parents were swingers.
	Yeah.
	And do you feel like that had an impact on how you approach dating?
	Yeah, 100%.
	I saw how that never worked out.
	And I, yeah, no, I definitely don't want that for myself at all.
	Just, I want a happy family marriage with a bunch of kids.
	And I just saw how that affected me and my siblings.
	And I just, I don't, yeah.
	All right, let me do a couple chats here.
	So we have Hearn, nice to see Kelly back.
	I like the pushback she gives.
	Also, can we get Q involved more than Sunday?
	Dropping some knowledge he has.
	Also, kind of W. Emily last show, pushing back.
	Layla had the date with Brian Go, but also L. Layla DGen behavior.
	Yeah, there was no, me and Layla, there was no date.
	Okay.
	There was no date.
	We did not date.
	We already went over the whole that thing.
	Cody, Brian, you're taking this bit with Layla too far, but Canadian 69.
	Thank you, man.
	My emotions are a bit, but okay.
	FTG, audio is fine.
	Thank you, FTG.
	Appreciate it.
	Puffy Vegas, I think, dude, thank you so much for the 400 men.
	I'm not gay by, but for some reason, I can't pull streamline.
	Question to the panel.
	Can women be faithful?
	80%.
	Of course.
	Okay, we'll go around the table.
	Can women, this is Puffy's question, can women be faithful?
	Of course women can be faithful.
	Personally, I'm not like the greatest at it, but women can be faithful.
	Duh.
	100% women can be faithful.
	Yeah.
	Absolutely, they can.
	Isn't it obvious?
	Yeah, when you find the right man.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	I've never been cheated on.
	So?
	I mean, yeah, the actual question, can women be faithful?
	Yes, of course they can be faithful.
	I mean, perhaps a more productive conversation would be like, who's more likely to cheat?
	Is it men?
	Is it women?
	I don't know the stats on that.
	Do you have anything on that, Q?
	Yeah, men are more likely to cheat.
	But, I mean, it's really that simple.
	Men are more likely to cheat.
	I saw some different studies.
	It's a couple different studies, but when you actually observe behavior, men, especially in the early stages, I say like in the early 20s, men and women cheat about the same rate.
	Then as we get older, men typically cheat more.
	So going through the 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, hell, even 70s, I didn't even know it was 70-year-old men that cheat.
	I can't imagine why.
	But yeah, men typically still cheat a little bit more than women.
	Generally, men have a higher sex drive.
	Men pursue sex more often.
	So behaviorally, yeah.
	Got it.
	There you go, Puffy.
	So you do adult content, you do adult content.
	Actually, Nick, let's pull up the photo that we have of Molly here.
	Just as a reminder, because it's coming.
	Yeah, that's me.
	This is a scene you did.
	How recent was this scene?
	It was this year.
	I've been in this house before.
	Yeah.
	Is that like a pornhouse?
	Yeah, there's a porn.
	They shoot there.
	And so this is from her Twitter.
	If you see the other photo.
	You guys should all look at myself.
	She can take shit.
	No, Molly impresses me.
	The thing I told her last time is if a guy sees that photo, this photo, scroll it up.
	Don't go that low.
	That's going to be like a wrap for 97% of dudes.
	She has a boyfriend.
	Yeah, I do, actually.
	3%.
	He's in 3%.
	He's in 3%.
	Like, a dude sees that shit, it's a wrap.
	It's done.
	It's donezo.
	They're all norming.
	Just that photo.
	They see the other photo, like I said before.
	That shit bumps up to 99%.
	Yeah.
	I mean, she has a boyfriend.
	Yeah.
	In the dark recesses of your husband's mind, he will be seeing that photo in his dreams.
	You think so?
	And it will haunt him.
	Yeah, bro, gonna have night sweats.
	I hope they're shit.
	I hope they'll be looking at my wedding photo rather than that photo.
	They don't care.
	I think they'll be talking more about it.
	There's no guys.
	Like, it's rare, but there is guys who don't.
	And I feel like doing this weeds out all the guys that just don't have the patience for me to fuck around.
	Why would you want to fuck around if you're in a relationship?
	Because I get bored.
	So why are you in a relationship?
	I love it.
	Get this.
	Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
	Why are you in a relationship then?
	So you're not loyal?
	Of course I'm loyal.
	But you just said that you fuck around.
	Yeah, why don't you just?
	Yeah, I'm a porn star.
	Okay.
	It's our job.
	You have sex with other guys who aren't in porn, right?
	No.
	Oh.
	I think that's what we understood when you said that you F around.
	I still fuck around.
	But I keep it with industry people.
	Oh, so if you're not shooting a scene, you'll sleep with other guys who are in the industry.
	Or you'll have sex with them.
	I have before, yeah, but I don't really right now.
	Just like there's not much.
	This is from the previous show, too.
	You said that you have sex with men for a living.
	Your boyfriend knows and he even drops you off at their houses.
	Yeah.
	Your boyfriend drops you off at the house of other men who you're going to have to do.
	A kiss and a hug.
	But now here's the catcher.
	Catcher, ring around him.
	When he hooks up with other girls, you get jealous and start arguments.
	And you only want him to be with you.
	You want to know that you have all the attention at all times and you don't care if it's wrong, hypocritical, or how, and that's how you feel.
	Yeah, basically.
	How much money does he make?
	Him?
	I don't know.
	Why?
	Just wondering.
	Do you like know that he'll likely never be loyal to you?
	He's very loyal, actually.
	But like, why do you think that?
	Because I know that.
	But you both do porn for a living and you're dating and you fuck around with other people and dispoints you off at their house.
	So why would he stay faithful to you?
	But I feel like the idea of being faithful is different from people that do porn and the people that don't do porn.
	Because like sex to me is not something that always has to be like super intimate and like super meaningful.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, yeah, I was saying like last time, like, I fuck my friends.
	Like, I love my friends.
	Yeah, like, I've literally fucked you and I fucked you.
	Yeah.
	Like, I fucked two of the people on this panel.
	I like it.
	We fuck.
	We're fine.
	Yeah, like we know you're desensitized to sex, but like emotional cheating, perhaps.
	Like, what if you develop feelings for another woman?
	Well, that's what I'm saying.
	That's where I get jealous.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	But you just said that if he fucks other girls, then you'd get jealous, too.
	Well, yeah, if I feel that there's like an emotional attachment being formed, that's when I get jealous.
	I feel like you were having this issue, too.
	Yeah.
	I don't let my man fuck any girls.
	Do you think that they would be a whore?
	Yes.
	You don't let them.
	I am a whore.
	It's princess treating.
	Which of your multiple men?
	The one I'm married to doesn't cheat on me.
	He loves me a lot.
	He just doesn't check.
	Well, you cheat on him.
	He doesn't have the need to.
	He just actually loves me.
	Because that's his personality idea.
	So does he take care of you?
	Yeah.
	Like completely?
	Is that why you married him?
	No, he's in my.
	There is no.
	Oh my god.
	Shut up.
	Literally.
	There is no Mormon.
	He can suck my penis if I can.
	I thought you were going to call him.
	I can.
	I can call him right now.
	Actually, I think I...
	yeah right so they think they're being their boyfriends are being loyal but like she's not like you're and like the thing is whenever i got married like we like had a scene like right after that We literally had a scene the day after.
	I live in LA.
	I'm obviously a weird person.
	I do porn.
	I'm a fucking weirdo.
	I love that.
	I'm not a weird person.
	I don't do porn.
	Well, this is me.
	I'm a fucking weird bitch, and I suck whoever's dick I want to suck and I fuck whoever I want to fuck and I love whoever I want to fuck and they love me back.
	If they want gotta love the hoes they do, and they fucking love me right back.
	All the 70 year old men suck their dick all night.
	This is literally a damn.
	Like emojis clown world in the chat.
	This is like the.
	This is like ground zero for the.
	You're like bottom barrel of society, like bottom like I know.
	That's why your man just about what I'm feeling like at night, though.
	This is like the degeneration of society fails for California.
	I'm glad that you take pride in I'm getting the fuck out of California as soon as I can.
	At least they don't judge other people.
	I just told her that I was really happy that she is proud of how she is.
	Are you genuine?
	Because like, thank you yeah, I'm being 100.
	Yeah, I get like people being like at least you don't like lie about it and I'm like yeah, like at least I'm not like someone that's like a fake whore.
	They're like I mean, I'm not whore like you know, like I'm whore.
	True, she's real okay.
	So when it comes to her fantasy, Layla's fantasy over here, this whole no, this whole deception of you're married to a Mormon bishop bro he's, he just had it.
	Would it be better if I said he was a Mormon?
	Like I can just not involve his religion.
	Like no, I just don't, it's just bullshit.
	You think it's weird that I'm married?
	No, there's just no truth to it.
	So it's not.
	We just legally got married.
	I want to have like a.
	I want to have a very like real wedding, but like at the time, like we just didn't have time no, you're just lying.
	You're just lying.
	Dude, keep thinking I'm lying.
	I don't care.
	Everyone I've ever like met here in LA when I first started, like I've only been doing social media since, like June, like they know, like they know about it like before I even joined, like Motley Models, like I told him, like can we have a three-way call with my boyfriend?
	Like if Dave isn't canceled right now, I would call him.
	I mean, it's all hearsay in any case.
	As far as far as the guy who you'd call the, the degree to which you're prepared to defend I think I even went live with him on SHOT the other day the degree to which you're going to continue this uh, hoax or whatever.
	You probably have a dude who you've talked to and you're like, pretend to be my Mormon bishop husband.
	That's the degree of the game that you're putting in.
	Molly has a boyfriend and does porn.
	Like, if she was married to him, it'd be weird.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Why?
	There's plenty of people in the industry that are not.
	I believe her, but I don't believe you.
	That's fine.
	You don't have to.
	I believe her.
	I know, but like, why?
	Why create this boy?
	Because it's like, you wanted to know, and I told you.
	Wait, did you really just ask if a married porn star would be weird?
	And you can think of it.
	I know I'm weird.
	So many married porn stars.
	Dude, most of them people aren't going to be aware of that.
	So do you think that's a normal relationship?
	Yeah, for us.
	Yeah, because a lot of, like you said, a lot of people don't want to date porn stars, so we date each other.
	Wait, so what is a marriage to you?
	A government piece of paper that you like sign.
	A piece of paper.
	Good for taxes.
	Yeah.
	That's pretty much it.
	Great for taxes, as long as you don't sign a prenup.
	Yeah.
	I'm surprised you guys know that.
	So, okay, going back to Molly here.
	I'm just saying, like, imagine what could have been, Molly.
	About what?
	My life?
	If you had not gone down this dark, dark, Brandon, thank you very much, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you very much.
	Appreciate it.
	Also, hi, Brian, and dissolute Nick.
	I miss y'all.
	Also, hashtag Layla is a liar in chat.
	Hashtag Layla is a liar in chat.
	Keep bringing it up.
	Thank you very much, Brandon.
	We're going to have Brandon back on here.
	I think maybe we're aiming for November.
	I think probably late November.
	Oh, he's like a fan y'all bring on?
	He's been on before.
	He's a good guy.
	He's a nice guy.
	Dope.
	I want to talk to you.
	Do not, Layla, do not try anything.
	I'm not horny for him.
	Do not try anything for Brandon.
	Oh, my God.
	You're so annoying today.
	It's tension.
	Brandon, I could set you up.
	Can I actually, Brandon?
	Wait, what?
	No.
	What?
	I'm trying to get her off my back so maybe I could do the redirect.
	Do you think do you just want to fuck every man you see?
	Yo, Brandon.
	I actually like Brian.
	No, I'm genuinely asking.
	Do you just want to fuck every man you see?
	If I think they're attractive, yes.
	Like, but I have a type for sure.
	Do you have any hobbies?
	I like sweet guys, like Ryan, like Brian.
	Why can't fucking be a hobby?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Genuine question.
	Like buying cute lingerie for it.
	We like to get pretty and putting nice parents.
	Like I like to be a slut.
	Is your hobby sex?
	Sometimes.
	That's her passion.
	Her passion for substance.
	That's the only substance of her life.
	Go ahead, Tiffany.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, I thought, sorry, I thought you were going to say.
	Okay.
	I paint.
	I have two dogs.
	I hang out.
	I stream.
	I like do whatever.
	But when I'm horny, I want to fucking fuck.
	Like, I want to fuck.
	What do you do on your stream?
	Last night I cried on my stream, but you know, that's fine.
	I just kind of do anything.
	I just talk to my chat.
	I love my chat.
	Like, I really do.
	Like about talk about anything, like, shit that's going on.
	Like, for some reason, like, we always have something going on with the people I talk to.
	Boring.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Sorry.
	Molly.
	What I was going to say was, you know, imagine what could have been, right?
	You're less than 100 pounds.
	What, 95?
	I would think I'm like, yeah.
	Yeah, around that.
	Petite, 95, Audi.
	Labia, by the way.
	Audio Labia.
	You could have been my stay-at-home TradCon girlfriend slash wife.
	Imagine wearing like a flowery.
	Imagine losing my virginity.
	What the fuck?
	Okay, I have seen a few of you.
	Wearing a flowery sundress.
	You could have been in the sundress, but now you're cohorting, huh?
	Cohort.
	Imagine what could have been.
	Cohorting.
	Wait, that's funny.
	Imagine what could have been.
	I think that no matter what, I would have ended up doing porn.
	No matter what?
	Yeah.
	Wait, why?
	Why?
	Like you guys said, sucking dick is a passion.
	Like, some of us are just.
	How did you discover that passion?
	How old are you?
	Yeah, how old were you?
	I was 13.
	Wow.
	13.
	And I wanted to.
	I like invited the guy over because I wanted to do it.
	Okay, so then when did the motivation for other guys become a thing?
	What do you mean by motivation?
	You say you like sucking dick.
	Yeah.
	It's like an oral fixation kind of thing.
	Yes.
	I've never seen that.
	I can't like it.
	But clearly not for me.
	It's really fun, like being able to control what a guy feels.
	And like, because you know, yeah, I know I'm good at it.
	So it's like, and like every time I do it, I get better at it.
	So it's just like the more that I do it, and they're like, uh, yeah.
	It's like, oh.
	And like, I love cum.
	I think.
	Oh, is it not going to trigger?
	Oh, wow.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	What symbol is that, an M?
	Wow, it's not triggering for some reason.
	I don't know why.
	All right.
	Well, seven deadly simps, thank you.
	For some reason, it's not triggering.
	Maybe it's just you sent too many characters or something.
	Let's see here.
	We have this one.
	Okay.
	Thank you, man.
	Oh, sorry.
	We didn't show that for long enough.
	My bad, Alvin.
	Shit.
	Nick, if you're able to find it somewhere.
	Is it going to trigger?
	I don't know.
	It must be way too many characters.
	Okay, in any case, Layla, you, some guy messaged me and said that you pretended to be a nurse or nurse student.
	No, I went to school.
	I have pictures of me in nursing school.
	I can literally show you.
	Okay.
	You want me to?
	Yeah, it's okay.
	In your pre-show notes to us, you said, isn't it crazy how everyone in a polyamous relationship is low-key ugly?
	Yeah, like low-key, like people that have like two bitches, like they're never like two bad bitches.
	Like they're low-key, like.
	Hold on, just a sec.
	Late night crazy.
	Yo, dude, Brandon.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you so much.
	Appreciate it.
	I would rather jump off a bridge into uncovering traffic.
	But TBH, it's been a year and your boy is kind of desperate, so maybe.
	It's been a good thing.
	Does that do anything for you, Layla?
	It's been a while.
	It makes me giggle.
	That's actually fucking hilarious.
	He said so maybe.
	It's been a year since he got pussy.
	Yeah.
	It's like, that's desperate.
	He's like, I might have to.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Well, so you said it's crazy how everyone in the polyamous relationship is low-key ugly.
	I saw this clip the other day and this guy was like, yo, low-key, like everyone that is dating, like, you know, like monogamous polyamorous, like, they're only dating each other, and they'd be having like, like, you know, like, there's two guys or there's two girls involved, like, what were whatever group it is.
	Like, I've never seen like a really, really fine man and like another really, really fine man or another really, really fine bitch.
	Like, I've never seen them.
	Like, I mean, have y'all ever seen like a really, really fine, like, couple?
	Like, a whole couple?
	I never have ever.
	But they have like really strong boundaries with each other.
	So they don't just like let anyone into their relationship.
	Okay.
	How many people is it?
	It's just them.
	And they just like.
	Wait, three?
	No, it's two people.
	No, that's not polyamorous.
	No, no, I'm talking polyamorous.
	Like, there's like three people are dating at once.
	Like a thruple?
	Like a thruple.
	Not like a thrupple.
	Yeah, see?
	See, but I've never seen.
	I've never seen that.
	I get that.
	It's like some like Lena Adam 22 shit.
	But like, no, I've never seen a fine polyamorous relationship ever.
	And like, I saw this.
	I saw a video about that.
	Aren't you in the polyamorous relationship?
	Yeah, I was going to say, because they aren't.
	No, because I'm not loyal to all of them.
	Like, you know, I got one guy loyal to me.
	I got, you know, Zeroamer.
	No, polyamorous relationship.
	Not like, oh, you're sleeping with other men.
	I'm a whore.
	That's different.
	I'm talking polyamorous relationship is like when like, it's like if you three were dating.
	She's polyamorous.
	Like you three, like, you're not, like, you don't fuck with anyone else.
	You three fuck each other only.
	You all love, you love him.
	You love her.
	She loves him.
	She loves, like, you all love each other.
	Like, it's like a thruple.
	Like, it's like a genuine relationship with more than like two people.
	You've never met someone like that?
	Do you think that's normal?
	I mean, people got whatever relationship they want.
	You haven't?
	I've met people.
	Have y'all met people in a polyamorous relationship?
	You're in the porn industry, of course you have.
	Yeah.
	No, no, it's not normal for other people to be in those relationships.
	In the porn industry, that is, but.
	Well, I mean, that's probably the people you're around.
	No, it's not normal.
	I say that because I met someone in a poly relationship.
	It was just a random person at a park.
	He was a random normal person.
	Yeah, some people just like they happen to love one person.
	They happen to love another, and the other one happens to love them back.
	And like, it's just, you mean, let people love however they want to love.
	It's okay that you haven't met people like that, but that doesn't mean that they don't exist.
	No, wait, exclusively.
	Go outside.
	Why do you keep saying that you're not a porn star by your pussies on the internet?
	Because I was a porn star, but I don't actively be porn star right now.
	When's the last time you did a scene?
	You'll forever be.
	Before Zerk, thank you.
	Thank you for declining Brian's offer so we can be together.
	Do any Billies want to.
	The Billy delegation, anyone from the Billy?
	Why can't it be a different letter?
	Why is that?
	Anybody from the Justin delegation?
	Billy, Brandon, Brian.
	Please let us know.
	But yeah, like, have you?
	Have I what?
	You've never met someone in a polyamorous relationship?
	I probably have.
	You probably have.
	But, you know, I'm familiar with it, but I just thought that was interesting.
	I saw that.
	Well, I was thinking more polyamorous from the sense of you're not exclusive to your open relationship type shit, I think.
	I don't know.
	Okay, whatever.
	There's like terms.
	There's terms.
	Yeah, all kinds of relationships.
	Terms.
	So, wait, question.
	You were on the podcast, what, three weeks ago?
	Yeah, and before that, I quit porn before that.
	How many men have you slept with since your last podcast appearance?
	No one knew.
	Nobody knew.
	Okay, how about somebody old?
	Yeah.
	How many dicks have you sucked?
	Whoa, what?
	Honestly, since the last podcast, like two.
	Oh, only, only two.
	Yeah, that was like three weeks ago, bro.
	That was pretty good.
	But you tell me you haven't sucked two dicks in three weeks.
	Are those new dicks or old dicks?
	Dicks I've sucked before.
	Use dicks.
	Yeah, I feel like.
	I sucked Tony's dick when he was in Tonga.
	Tony.
	Yeah, and then he is my bait right now, one of them.
	He's so sweet.
	Actually, I love him right now.
	He's sweet.
	And then this guy.
	I had to go back to my hometown for a doctor's appointment, so I like fucked my ex.
	And then, so also slept with them too, correct?
	It's been two guys.
	I fucked my ex.
	Oh, I did fuck Tony, yes.
	So sex and sex and sex.
	Well, oral is like part of sex.
	I feel like we're always going to suck dick before you get fucked.
	So you had sex with two men that were not your husband in the past three weeks.
	Yeah.
	She does have sex.
	I don't be fucking my husband like that.
	Oh, really?
	No.
	So then why is he married to you?
	Because one, mainly, mainly taxes.
	Mainly.
	But we do love each other.
	Like, I love you.
	IRS.
	Open up.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm better at the game than most people.
	Wait, better at what game?
	Tax game.
	Oh, what?
	I don't know.
	If it was a game, I'd probably be pretty good at it.
	Okay.
	So I don't even.
	So two men.
	Speechless.
	Two men since your last podcast appearance.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	How many men have I?
	How many girls have you fucked up?
	Luckily, zero.
	Luckily, zero since my last podcast appears.
	And look who's more relaxed.
	Me.
	You're right.
	Maybe I should fucking dudes.
	Hey.
	You got one right next to you.
	It was pretty good looking.
	I mean, hey, sex is stressed really.
	Okay, all right.
	So, okay, you said also in your pre-show notes to us, you think, explain the two out of four thing.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	What did I put?
	I was like, dick, personality.
	What was the other?
	Okay, fine.
	I'll read it for you.
	Thank you.
	I appreciate it.
	I feel like you can only get two out of four things from a guy: dick, personality, success, and/or looks.
	And I said, I was like, personally, I think I'm doing good dick personality.
	I don't know why you're interested in me then.
	Because you have a good dick and you have an amazing personality.
	And I think I also said, like, good dick personality, but at least someone with like potential to be successful.
	And like, I don't mind helping them out, like, type shit.
	But yeah, I feel like it's very rarely come by good dick, success, personality, humor, looks.
	Like, you know, like, it's always going to be like, you're never going to get the full package.
	Like, you know?
	So you're saying, go back to our previous convo, you want to get with me.
	Is that what?
	Yes.
	I'm really.
	You're just a really great guy, Brian.
	Like, I genuinely like your personality a lot.
	Thanks.
	You're into.
	If I told you, so I'm kind of.
	Oh, it's not that I'm going to tell you.
	So I'm.
	I need to reveal something to you.
	I'm into FinDum.
	Okay.
	And but it's reserved for only certain women who are engaged in adult content creation.
	So we cannot have anything.
	Like we can't have sex.
	We can't do anything.
	But I will agree to a fin dum thing wherein you have to pay me $1,000 every month.
	Yeah, I'm not into that.
	How's that sound?
	Not into that.
	But you said you would do anything to get with me.
	Oh, Brian, you know, that's not what I meant, baby.
	Wait, so you're a sex worker.
	Huh?
	Ooh, yeah.
	That means you're getting paid by someone and you're saying that you do FinDom.
	That means you're like, do you want me to pay you for penis, you fucking slut?
	Whore?
	Ew, how dare you not respect yourself?
	Well, this is the finesse that a lot of women are doing.
	No, I didn't say fendum.
	I said fin dum.
	I thought you said financial domination.
	Yeah, financial domination.
	So perhaps years down the road, you might eventually get it.
	But for the time being, I'm going to need $1,000 from you.
	Do you have any cash in your wallet?
	Can you go get it?
	I can go get it and flex it in front of you.
	I'm going to need you to pass it over and put it in my hand so I could put it into my pocket.
	I don't fuck whores.
	I'm going to spend it on another woman at some point.
	I don't fuck whores, Brian.
	Would you like that if you gave me money and I spent that money on another woman?
	You will never be able to do that.
	I'm sorry, Chad.
	This is getting way too fucking degenerate.
	Okay.
	You wouldn't do that, though.
	I thought you really wanted to be.
	I don't like whores.
	If you're a whore, ew.
	I'll fuck you whenever you're done being a whore, Brian.
	Let me know when you're retired.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Guys, it's not flirting.
	I'm just fucking with you.
	No, you're flirting.
	We know you are.
	It's fine.
	There's no flirting.
	It's fine.
	Zero flirting.
	Zero.
	Okay.
	Glad we got real specific on that.
	Zero flirting.
	Yeah.
	So, Emily, over here, we have.
	Let's see.
	By the way, this is like, this crossed my mind when you were on the show on Sunday.
	Super random, like strange compliment.
	You have the look, and it's like the most strange.
	Okay.
	If you had been in live in the 80s or 90s, you would have dated like a rock star.
	Oh, for sure.
	Like someone, you would have been the girlfriend of like Axel Rose or I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	This hundred is going on the table.
	I'm betting that her marriage is like the he goes to a different school.
	You wouldn't know him situation.
	She keeps offering to call him, but for some reason never makes the call.
	I literally said hi.
	Sorry for being mean.
	Can I call you?
	Let's be nice.
	The spirit.
	Yo, the spirit.
	Thank you very much, man.
	Did you?
	I literally said, I said, hi, sorry for being mean.
	Can I call you now?
	No, you gotta.
	So you said I need like consent.
	Does it just?
	Yeah, tell him you're on the podcast.
	I'm just waiting for him to reply.
	No, tell him you're on the podcast.
	It's being recorded.
	Do we have your permission to call you for it to be recorded?
	Okay, bad.
	Okay, bad.
	What?
	You're just adorable.
	Sorry.
	Okay, so, Emily, you were in a cheating relationship.
	Yes, I was cheated on a couple times.
	And you wanted to talk about men in relationships justifying following IG models.
	Oh, yes, because my ex did this whenever I would bring it up.
	Like, I'm sure people like here have gone through it.
	Like, he followed probably over 100 different random IG models, and they would have OnlyFans, and none of them looked like me.
	They all were blonde and like just super, like bigger, just way bigger boobs and ass, like, just didn't look like me.
	And so I would tell him to stop following them.
	And he got super mad at me and just flipped the entire situation on me, calling me crazy, saying I was obsessing over it, that it's unnecessary to ask a man to not look at something like that because it's just there.
	So I was just wondering, like, would you guys, if a woman asked you to unfollow all of the ladies on Instagram, like, is that unnecessary or is that valid?
	Q, do you want to go first and then I'll go?
	I've been in this situation plenty of times.
	It's something that if I feel I want to do, I'll do.
	But a lot of times I say it's inevitable because it is just there.
	And you have to be rational about it.
	You have to understand that he's not going to get those women.
	Men are attracted to novelty.
	They're attracted to a variety of things.
	And sometimes it's just one of those things that you have to sweep under the rug, pick your battles, and let it be because he's not going to stop doing it.
	I understand you want it to make you happy.
	Like you want it to mean something to you.
	Like, oh yeah, you want me to stop doing it?
	I'm going to stop doing it.
	But he understands that it's harmless and he's never going to be with those women.
	So it's trying to control something that really is out of your control and you shouldn't be too invested in.
	Like you shouldn't be concerned about that.
	Yeah, I mean, it's just like, it hits you really hard because like I could never look like them.
	I understand.
	See, and that's another thing you also have to understand.
	He's still attracted to you too.
	See, a lot of times y'all start to compete.
	Y'all start to compare.
	Oh, you like this.
	So that must mean that's only what you like.
	But that's not only what he likes.
	He's still attracted to you too.
	So the fact that he's still attracted to you, you just have to remember that.
	But I definitely see how it can be like disrespectful.
	Like I would feel disrespected if my man was like liking pictures of like girls.
	Because I don't have big tits.
	I don't have a big ass.
	So like if my man was liking pictures like solely and only following girls who like looked the exact opposite of me, I would take that as a hint that like I that he's settling for me and that that's what his like real fantasy is.
	I think he is settling for you because you know I'm talking about in your situation.
	Oh my god doesn't do that.
	Well I was gonna say like same with me with my ex-boyfriend it was the same thing like he would like the complete opposite of me and then like he'd be like oh like what do you think about a boob job or all this stuff?
	He would say that girl that's weird.
	That's weird.
	One of your exes said he wanted you to get a yeah the three year long ex he'd talk about it all the time.
	Who's he gonna pay for it?
	Yeah.
	Oh Eo.
	But no.
	No Eo.
	Yeah, thank God you didn't.
	Yeah no.
	Not worth it.
	Not worth it for a guy.
	Well definitely, so I'll answer your thing in just a sec.
	But just to respond to Sidney's thing, first off, good for you for not going through with that.
	I think that, look, if a guy likes a woman with fake breasts, search that out.
	But don't like try to either, if you're in a relationship with a girl, don't like start like trying to suggest that she undergo a plastic surgery operation that she otherwise wouldn't.
	I just feel like that's kind of fucked up.
	For sure.
	Definitely.
	And look, if you like girls with big giant fake tits, you can go find that.
	But if your girl doesn't have, like, just, I don't know, like her the way she is, I guess.
	But My personal thing when it comes to plastic surgery, and I've said this a bunch of times on the show, we talked about it last show.
	I'm not a fan of plastic surgery, don't like it.
	I would prefer if a girl was totally flat, I'd prefer her that way than with big giant fake tits.
	If a girl had a little belly, I'd prefer that over lipo belly.
	If a girl had a small upper lip, I'd prefer that over lip fillers.
	If she had a small butt, I'd prefer that over a BBL.
	So, yeah, it's definitely unfortunate that your boyfriend tried to pressure you into that.
	But an offer is he was on drugs.
	Oh, well, yeah.
	That is true.
	That is true.
	He was on.
	Was that the cocaine one or the Zan one?
	The cocaine one.
	Oh, yeah.
	And he already had schizophrenia, so imagine being on cocaine.
	Oh, and having schizophrenia.
	Yeah, so don't worry about it.
	You're not a good man for sure.
	Oh, yeah, I did have my hands on that.
	Oh, sorry, right.
	And BLM, big labia matter.
	So like labia placy too, like that's haram.
	So, okay.
	To answer your thing, so my stance on this, and the thing is, is I don't relate really to guys who follow a lot of women on Instagram because as somebody who doesn't follow anyone on social media, like you can look at my personal Instagram page, I just follow the whatever page.
	The whatever page just follows my personal Instagram.
	So I'm not liking girls' photos ever.
	I'm not like scrolling on TikTok, like, oh, she's hot, blah, blah, blah.
	I mean, I think I'm just too busy actually making things happen in my own life to give a fuck about what anybody else is doing or some hot chick somewhere that would never give a fuck about me or give a time, give me her time of day.
	So especially some like plastic Instagram chicks.
	So yeah, I don't know.
	I think probably the I would say the best option though, for a girl who doesn't want to deal with that sort of situation would be date men that aren't like from the get-go.
	Look at their Instagram and if they're like, don't have social media or like yeah, they have a limited social media presence, like see who they fought, who they're following, but uh so yeah, like you asked her, like if you asked her to um, delete her social media, would she do that?
	Like if the guy I was dating asked me to do that and he did it too, like I would feel like that's the best thing ever, because I just feel like technology really ruins a strictly monogamous relationship.
	Yeah, and it would be bad.
	Well, it's good that you at least have that view.
	I feel like we, a couple weeks ago, we we reacted to some video where a girl was saying related to what this conversation we're having that it's worse for a guy to be liking and following girls on Instagram than it is for her to be posting revealing or provocative photos on her Instagram, and I think those two are kind of equal.
	I think they're equal.
	Well, I mean, I actually think that probably the posting yeah, it might be more, because the guy could also post himself.
	And I feel like yeah, the girl might be a little worse in that situation, because the guy could be posting himself already, like he could do that, but he's not, he's only liking photos.
	But the girl, she's like saying hey, like inviting people to you know, yeah.
	So I mean, I'm thinking that my whole thing though.
	Well okay, question for you.
	Let's say you and me were dating here, I'll propose to you might get jealous, Emily Gertrude Gertrude, it's Lynn.
	Oh sorry Lynn, what's your life?
	Torres Torres yeah, will you marry me um?
	Only if you have like cows for me or something.
	Cows?
	Let's discuss our dowry really quick.
	Typically the dowry goes from the woman to the man.
	So now that you've brought it up, I would like, I'm going to need 13 goats, 12 sheep, two tractors.
	That could happen.
	That could happen.
	I need arable land for us to grow lima beans and shit.
	Why lima beans?
	Yeah.
	Protein.
	Protein, some protein.
	Are they monkey beans?
	I need beets.
	It's going to be a beet farm.
	We're going to do a beet farm.
	Beets, what else?
	Radishes.
	I'm going to need a couple chickens.
	Definitely chickens.
	We'll do some cows.
	And a mule.
	A mule?
	Can you do that?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I think that's possible.
	So do you accept my marriage proposal?
	Yes.
	Where's my ring?
	All right.
	Just gonna.
	Where's my ring?
	That is so romantic.
	That was so cute.
	I'm flexing on Layla.
	I don't lie on it, too.
	Wait, put it on, see if it fits.
	Probably too late.
	Oh, this is kind of small.
	Where did you pull this app?
	Does it fit?
	Yeah.
	Wait, do this.
	It's blocked by the mic.
	There you go.
	All right, cool.
	So we're married.
	So, okay, you and me are dating, I guess, engaged now.
	And I asked you to delete or to private or delete your social media.
	Not party at all, no drinking, no drugs, no clubs, no bars, would you?
	Yeah, if I had my own land to live freely.
	Yeah.
	Because then what do I, what would I, if I couldn't go out, then, yeah, we'd have to be.
	No, you can, like, go to the farmer's party.
	Oh, true, true.
	Yeah, I would do it.
	I would do it.
	If a guy had all of that and like mules, land, all that stuff for me, I would do this hypothetical, ridiculous scenario.
	But you have to bring some too.
	I would delete my social media.
	I would take care of everything.
	All the money.
	Yeah, I would do it.
	Okay.
	But like for the right guy.
	Yeah.
	We are engaged.
	I'm just saying.
	So, and you smoke weed, right?
	How often do you smoke weed?
	Maybe like twice a week.
	Yeah, you gotta cut that shit out.
	It's done.
	Okay.
	Not even on like Christmas?
	What?
	Smoking on Christmas?
	Or my birthday?
	Definitely not on Christmas.
	I was like, smoking on Christmas is crazy.
	That was Jeet's birthday.
	I love smoking on Christmas.
	Oh, go ahead.
	So, but I would just say advice to the ladies.
	Like, I think dudes who are going to be simping, who are simping or thirsting over IG thoughts probably aren't a good bet for dating, relationship, et cetera.
	Like, I don't know.
	And also, just a message to the men.
	Why are, like, I don't know about you, Q, but like, I'm not on Instagram, like, like, coombing over hot chicks on Instagram.
	Like, I don't give a fuck.
	Yeah, I'm the same way because I understand that, I mean, they're empty.
	They're empty.
	I don't want to date them.
	I wouldn't date them.
	It's definitely visually stimulating.
	I'd be disingenuous if I said I get absolutely nothing when I see it.
	Or I don't really follow those kind of pages, but like, if I see it, it's like, oh, shit.
	Instantaneously, I mean, my brain sees it, it processes it, it registers it.
	But other than that, I'll just be like, eh, scroll to the next.
	I don't really, you know, invest too much in it.
	Not liking spamming.
	I don't slide in women's DMs or anything like that.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, but I feel like in my ex's situation specifically, since we were so young, I think he just overindulged a little bit.
	So, yeah.
	I feel like some guys were just like a couple here and there.
	But if your following is only IG models, like you have a problem.
	I mean, my whole thinking is, is like, as a guy, I don't know.
	I'm kind of old school.
	Maybe it's because I'm a bit on the older side, but I probably if I didn't do what I do now, I probably wouldn't have an Instagram.
	I wouldn't, I would not have an Instagram.
	Um, but I kind of have to to some degree out of necessity.
	I don't have to, but it it's helpful business-wise, otherwise I would not be on uh Instagram.
	But gentlemen, my recommendation to you is don't if a girl on Instagram that you're following or liking her photos, you don't know her, and she would not otherwise respond to your DM and news flash, like they're not gonna respond to your DM.
	Why are you following them?
	Why just stop it?
	Stop it.
	It's the fantasy.
	They like the content.
	I think it's dopamine.
	They like content.
	They like to worship us.
	What is the content?
	They like the content.
	Here's my titties.
	Here's my ass.
	Yeah.
	What is the con what content?
	We're pretty girls.
	They like looking at pretty girls.
	It's pleasant to look at an attractive woman.
	Is that not what social media is for?
	It's look at pretty things and like it and scroll.
	Do you want to talk to a person?
	You need dick discipline, gentlemen.
	Gentlemen.
	Dick discipline.
	Stop following these chicks.
	Stop liking their shit.
	Go surf or something.
	Some guys don't use their dick to call a girl pretty.
	I mean, I look at girls and I'm like, oh, cute.
	I like that.
	I like it.
	And then I move on with my day.
	You have a girl.
	Okay, what if I was a boy?
	It would be different.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Because that's how we are.
	So you're saying men are trash and slimy and they can't control their dicks?
	No, that's not what I'm saying.
	What?
	That's not what I'm saying at all.
	I'm saying men are scrolling.
	I'm saying men are wired to sexually respond to visual stimuli.
	Yeah, but I think a guy can also be like cute, like, but I love my girlfriend.
	Yeah.
	Can what?
	Like, like, cute, like, like it, scroll.
	How would you know that if you're not a guy?
	I just think sometimes I'm a guy.
	I think I know.
	Through they them?
	Oh, my God.
	No.
	Thanks.
	I'm just kidding.
	I don't know.
	I mean, I.
	I like pussy so graphics is gentlemen.
	You know what?
	Here's a challenge to the chat.
	If any of you, look, get on your phone.
	If any of you right now are following any hot girls on Instagram that you don't know in real life that would never talk to you, that would never respond to a DM.
	Just unfollow them.
	Boom.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Whatever.
	Okay.
	Wait, Q, you follow women, right?
	But you, when you were dating your main, did you follow other girls?
	Yeah, a few.
	Just a few, but most of them I've talked to personally.
	What about the ones you didn't?
	Like, you like their photo, you move on with your day.
	You're not like fucking.
	I'm desensitized.
	So, yeah, yeah, I'm desensitized.
	Yeah, I don't look at other women on Instagram and get aroused.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Like, I should do that.
	But also, I don't represent the average guy.
	I have a lot more experience with women.
	I have a lot of attractive women who I've dated, who I've been with.
	So it's not the same high.
	It's like been there, done that.
	Exactly.
	Yeah.
	Can you like one of your friends?
	You say you follow girls that you like used to talk to, whatever.
	It's like one of your homies and you're like, damn, like, cute.
	Like, you can just like it and like move on and be like, damn, like, as a friend, like, like, dope, like, you look good.
	Respectfully.
	Yeah.
	Sexy.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I feel like I can do that.
	W. Guys, please just unfollow everyone.
	I think we have a simping epidemic and we have a hoe epidemic.
	And they're both like converging.
	Ho-inflation.
	There's ho-flation.
	There's it's it's not good.
	It's not good.
	It's supply and demand.
	It's the culture.
	I mean expand on that a little bit.
	What do you mean though by supply and demand?
	Well, there's demand, so that's the guys going on Instagram lugging photos, and then the demand is girls posting those.
	The supply, you mean?
	What comes first, though?
	The supply or the demand?
	Well, I mean, like, sex work has been around since, like, the end of time, so this is really.
	What do you mean the beginning of time?
	Beginning of time.
	So the beginning of time.
	Literally, I think that, like, the demand has always been there.
	Lobsters were even prostituting.
	Yeah.
	I'm sure they were.
	it's very I'm being I'm being kind of being smart ass but like I'm confused Well, she says the beginning of time, but we were, there was, like, lobsters and shit before we were around.
	Yeah, I'm sure, like, monkeys were prostituting for berry.
	Actually, they probably were.
	Barriers.
	All right.
	So, Emily, you said, let's see, topic.
	What is the panel's thoughts on men not being ready for commitment in a relationship, but telling a woman he wants her to be his girlfriend eventually?
	And you said parentheses, kind of specific situation.
	Yeah, so if you're like, if you're seeing a guy and, you know, you kind of ask the question or you're like, I really like you.
	Like, are we going to start dating?
	And then they're like, yeah, I want you to be my girlfriend, you know, eventually, but just take it slow.
	Like, that's obviously, I feel like they're trying to manipulate you.
	I think that's immediately a no, because if they even have to question if they want to be with you in the first place, then...
	What if they just don't know you yet?
	They would have to know you.
	Okay, see, it's different.
	Okay, it's different if you like get to know them and then say that.
	And then, like, say you've been talking for a few months and they're still like, oh, I still want to wait.
	Then it's like, yeah, no, agree.
	Cut it off.
	That's why I say men should be careful with what they tell a woman.
	I would never tell a man to tell a woman you want her to be your girlfriend eventually.
	Like, wait and see if you know her, see if y'all values align, see if y'all personalities mesh, and see if she's somebody you can see yourself with in the long run.
	Because at the end of the day, you need to know how this woman resolves conflict.
	How does she deal with conflict?
	And a lot of guys don't know that when you first start dating a woman, you're infatuated.
	Your judgment is skewed, brain flooded with endorphins.
	So a lot of times when guys say that, what they're doing is they're trying to keep their options open.
	They're trying to keep their options open, but they know they're attracted to you enough to where if they don't find better, they can fall back on you.
	Damn.
	Yeah, no.
	That's insulting.
	Good.
	Good times.
	What do you want to be a back burner?
	As another question, before you get in a relationship, is there anything, because guys are, they say a lot, I'm not ready.
	Does that actually mean they need to get ready, or is it usually just because they don't like the woman like that?
	And they're just, you know, using that as an excuse?
	Or do you actually have to, like, have you been wanting to get in a relationship with a woman and then stopped yourself because you knew something was like wrong with you?
	No.
	No?
	No.
	First, you should establish that that man wants a relationship.
	The easiest way to get in a relationship is to find a man who wants to be in a relationship.
	And then there are two types of guys.
	There's the guys who want to keep their options open, and then there's the guys who are genuinely not ready because they're not happy with where they are in life.
	They want to accomplish more.
	They want to do more in terms of they may see that they haven't fulfilled their potential.
	Or they may feel like they can't give you what you want and what you need financially, emotionally, so they would rather not take the risk.
	Those guys do exist too as well.
	So when they figure out what they want, when they get when they're content with where they're at, then they come back.
	Makes sense.
	I have some further notes here.
	So you said, kind of related to this, men saying they aren't ready for commitment after dating you for three months.
	Yeah, it was a specific situation.
	That was a specific situation.
	So how did briefly explain how did that play out?
	Well, so I met him in person.
	Like it was a generic.
	Never mind.
	I met him in person and we started dating after like a week.
	We would go on like two dates a week and talk like every, not every day, every other day maybe.
	And then one day we were at his house and I told him how much I liked him.
	And I was like, are you going to start seeing other girls when we go back to school?
	Because semester was about to start.
	And he said no, that he didn't have a desire to do that.
	But he was like, and I know this is bullshit.
	He was like, I really like what we have and I don't want to tie you down.
	So let's just keep what we have.
	And I was like, okay, well, I'm sorry.
	Like, I can't see you anymore because I'm going to, like, this is going to make me really upset and I'm going to resent you.
	So then I stopped seeing him for like a week.
	And he hit me back up and said what I said to you guys.
	He was like, I really don't want to lose what we had.
	And I really want a chance to be in a relationship eventually when I'm ready, if that's something you're open to.
	And I want you as my girlfriend, but I want to take it slow.
	And then after two weeks, he changed his mind again.
	I mean, I think the translation there is that he just wasn't that into you.
	I mean, you said you were dating him for three months, wants to keep his options open.
	I think if a guy's really into you and you broach the subject of commitment exclusivity, and he's kind of like, oh, let's, I just, he's not that into you.
	Yeah, but okay, I guess I didn't include this.
	When I told him I can't see you anymore, he started crying.
	And no, seriously, like, started crying.
	Like, tears were coming down and he wasn't making any noise, but I was like, what's wrong?
	Like, why are you sad?
	And he was like, I just don't want to express my emotions if we're not in a relationship.
	And I'm like, but you just said you don't want to be in one.
	Like, are you okay?
	Did his lip quiver?
	Yeah, he was like, but I don't want to tell you how I feel.
	I feel like a lot of guys laugh.
	So it gave me the itch, kind of.
	Not to say men getting emotional sad, but.
	In that stance, yeah, that's like a little quite a few times when guys, like, they get caught cheating, just start bawling.
	I do so long.
	How long is this?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	Okay.
	I forgot what I was saying.
	Sydney, you were coming in on this?
	Oh, no, I was just saying, I've seen that all the time.
	When a dude gets caught, they just immediately just start bawling, which is so bad for them.
	Yeah, after I told him I didn't want to see him, he just started crying.
	And then so I told him to take me home because I was upset.
	Why are you going to cry after I tell you I don't want to see you?
	Yeah.
	Oh, my God.
	That's so awkward.
	Wait, timeline here.
	So you were dating for three months.
	Then you had a conversation with him about wanting commitment.
	He said no.
	So you guys split for about a week, get back together.
	Because of him, yeah.
	Get back together for a week?
	For like a week.
	And then did you end things or did he text you?
	He did, and then he wanted to get back with you again.
	No, no, it was only once.
	No.
	I haven't.
	What was the crying?
	The crying was.
	The crying was the first time.
	Oh, so you took him back after he cried.
	Yeah.
	I mean.
	I don't know.
	Yeah.
	You were dating for three months.
	He didn't want to commit to you.
	So you broke up, right?
	Yeah.
	So I said, you don't want to commit?
	Okay, like, I can't see you.
	And he starts crying.
	And I was like, in the moment.
	In that moment.
	In that moment, he was like, okay, whatever.
	And then a week later, he's like, oh, I kind of miss her.
	And then you were having a conversation about commitment.
	We were actually watching like one of those dating shows.
	I think it was, we like to make fun of some of the contestants because it's really funny.
	And so we were making fun of this one girl.
	And then I looked at him and I was like, yeah, we had a really good day today because we went to the beach.
	And I was like, when you start school, I started to stutter, but I was like, when we start school, what am I supposed to do when guys try and get my number?
	Like, do you want me to reject them?
	Or what are you going to do?
	And he was like, yeah, I like what we have.
	And like what I told you earlier, I don't want to tie you down.
	And then I was like, okay.
	And then 10 minutes of the show went by and I was like, this is the last time I'm going to see you.
	And then that's when he started crying.
	some new details though i'm trying to summarize it up earlier but this is some new details yeah So you were watching a show that initiated a conversation about, you said, well, I think you kind of went about this conversation a little wrong.
	I did.
	so you're watching a show with this guy was it you guys had not yet had a conversation about exclusivity No, not at all.
	But was there sort of an understanding to some degree?
	Because some people, there's not always an overt conversation about like, hey, we're exclusives.
	Sometimes it's just almost implied.
	It's just implied.
	Was that the case or no?
	No, I mean, I would never assume like somebody taking me to meet their friends and like stuff like that would imply that.
	But it seemed like he wanted something more serious by like introducing me to like all of his best friends and just verbatim.
	You said something along the lines of, hey, so when I go to what, Cal Poly or whatever?
	I don't go to Cal Poly.
	you go to whatever whatever school you go to when i go off to college and a bunch of other guys are i didn't say it like that What you want me to do.
	No, I didn't say it like that.
	What did you say?
	How did you say it?
	See, how I'm talking right now, how I keep stuttering, that's exactly what I was doing.
	Like, I literally couldn't get it out.
	He kind of had to tell what I was asking him.
	And he was like, he put two and two together.
	Oh, so when you, when guys talk to you, what are you going to, you know, it was like, it was hard for me to get it out, but I basically said, when other men talk to me, like, do you want, do I have a boyfriend is what I was kind of asking.
	Well, okay, what did you, because now that's a little different than what you said before.
	So long ago, I can't remember exactly.
	You're like, what are we?
	No, no, no, but because, okay, from my perspective, if I was a guy and I was hanging out with this girl that I liked, but we had not yet had a conversation about exclusivity, commitment, whatever, and then she starts telling me about how she's going off to college and she's saying, What should I do when all the dudes are hitting on me?
	I would feel a little bit like...
	You didn't say it like that, though.
	She said she said it a little differently.
	It wasn't that like cocky.
	But he could take it instead of it being a introduction to the commitment conversation, he could be taking it from the opposite way of like, oh no.
	I get what you're saying.
	That's what I mean.
	Like I could be, you could imagine a guy being kind of upset with what you said in a way.
	Like I get you're trying to veer it towards the commitment conversation, but you could have just instead of because we don't want to know about other guys that are like hitting on you.
	That's true.
	I think you have to say it.
	Like, what do you want me to do if like guys ask what we are doing?
	Well, but that should come after you have the commitment conversation.
	Oh, what she said right now, what should I do if guys ask what you are?
	That's what I kind of said.
	Like, what should I do if guys ask what we are?
	That's what I mean.
	Is that what you said?
	Yeah.
	And then he was like, I don't want to tie you down.
	I like what we have.
	And I was like.
	But his answer make him saying, I don't want to tie you down makes it seem as if the way he interpreted it was that you wanted to see these other guys that would be approaching you in college because he's saying, I don't want to tie you down.
	Maybe I wasn't there.
	Yeah, no.
	But, like, do you see how he could have perhaps interpreted it a different way?
	Like, he assumed I just wanted to be, like, he was doing a disservice by...
	Well, he didn't know...
	And we don't know if this is the actual case, but maybe he didn't know that you were trying to initiate the commitment conversation.
	And he took it like, oh, she's saying that she wants this to be open or casual.
	Looking back on it, do you think that that's possible or not?
	I don't because when, like, after he started crying, well, that's the other thing that makes me question because he started crying.
	Yeah, then after we're sitting there, and it's literally the awkwardest thing I've ever been through in my life.
	And he's just sitting there with tears coming down his face and he's like, so how many relationships have you been in?
	And I'm like, now you want to ask me after it's been three months and I told you I don't want to see you anymore.
	Like, he just started asking me about my history.
	And then how old was he?
	Chat, hold on, chat.
	Do you think that this was a miscommunication?
	No, I'm kind of seeing that.
	Do you think that this was a miscommunication?
	Because like the fact that he said, I don't want to, what did he say?
	I don't want to.
	I don't want to tie you down.
	I don't want to tie you down.
	And then he cried when you said you wanted to end things with him.
	See, like, because if he was like, no, I want to keep things kind of cool, like, kind of open or whatever, you date people, I date people.
	But for him to then go on and cry at least makes me think that he thought you were trying to keep things open instead of actually having a commitment conversation.
	You got to call it.
	The chat is definitely saying, no, I'll never call him.
	I honestly feel like if he was genuinely crying because he wanted a committed relationship with you, he should have had the balls to just say that.
	Maybe he was just nervous.
	Yeah.
	Well, he missed out because he was nervous.
	Bro, he's like 21.
	There's no exception.
	He's a fanboy.
	He's a what?
	A fanboy.
	Fanboy.
	Was he a bit, was he like an artist?
	He feminine?
	Not feminine, no.
	He's indecisive.
	He had only been in one relationship before a couple months.
	He's probably just more immature.
	He just thought I was getting more.
	I mean, they say men are a little bit behind in women with maturing sometimes.
	I don't know if that's true.
	I've never actually looked into studies, but they say that men.
	21-year-old men are so young.
	And I'm 20.
	That's why I like old men.
	Old men, how old?
	However old.
	I mean, I feel like lately I've been really into 30-year-olds.
	Is that old?
	No.
	Don't make it old.
	Don't make it old.
	Some people think it's sold.
	I think that's a good idea.
	You see, like you're sexy because you're 30 and I bet you're so mature.
	And like, I bet like you're so understanding and patient because you've seen things.
	Like, you know, but like, you've been through more experiences.
	It's 20 years old.
	I could never date someone that's like 20.
	He was there when the Constitution was being drafted.
	Sorry.
	It's all good.
	Just ask me, Nick.
	Just kidding.
	Sorry.
	For shizzle.
	Someone said I'd say that.
	Yeah, I think 30-year-olds is definitely like, they're just a lot easier, a lot more mature, a lot more understanding than 20-year-olds.
	Yeah.
	Word.
	So when it comes to the whole commitment conversation, we can maybe open this up to the panel.
	How soon do you guys think you should have that conversation with somebody about being exclusive, about being committed?
	I'm super upfront about it.
	Like, if I like someone, I'm like, okay, like, you know, like, I want you straight up.
	As soon as I feel it, I'm saying it.
	And yeah, just like as soon as I feel it.
	Molly, what about you?
	I mean, like, commitment's kind of like a weird thing for me because I do fuck other people outside of the relationship.
	And like, so does he, but like, it is for work.
	So I would say, like, commitment should be talked about, like, in the very beginning.
	I would say, like, after three months, I feel like that's when you know somebody more, maybe?
	Um, I just feel like people don't talk about their idea of commitment with each other, and they just expect things from the other person without ever discussing what they're expecting.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I have no idea, but definitely not up front.
	Not up front?
	No.
	I don't think up front, up front, but like pretty soon into talking because you got to know like if you guys are on the same page.
	I think the conversation should come up once you guys start hanging out every single day because that's when like, you know, once you're spending that much time with somebody, then it should be a conversation to start because why am I still wasting my time hanging out with you every single day if you're not serious?
	Q, what do you think?
	I think the moment the feelings are present, they should be communicated because you're going to place expectations on that person to meet whatever you have going on in your mind.
	And you're naturally going to start to think that you're in a committed relationship, even if you aren't.
	And that guy would have to redirect.
	Often it's the woman who wants commitment before the guy if the guy isn't already in love and saying, I love you and I want to be with you first.
	And if you're spending time consistently together, you're thinking, where is this going?
	And a lot of times, there's actually something called error management theory.
	Women will have skepticism as to how committed a guy is to them.
	And that's something that y'all have adapted psychologically in order to keep from feeling played or reading too much into things.
	So definitely, because that cognitive bias exists, it's important to communicate what you want the moment that you start to feel it.
	I would want a woman to be open with me if she starts to feel it.
	If she starts to feel that she wants commitment, I want her to tell me so I know how she's about to behave because that tells me what she's about to expect out of me.
	She's going to get jealous when I talk to other women.
	She doesn't want me to talk to other women.
	She's going to cut off other guys.
	All of these things are going to have behavioral consequences that is going to affect me and the way we interact.
	So I need to know the moment it's present.
	And I would do the same.
	When I'm ready to commit, I will communicate that.
	Yeah.
	So you should tell a guy right away.
	You should tell him when you feel it.
	When you feel it, yeah.
	That's how I feel.
	Yeah, that's.
	Hold on, let me.
	Bro was trying to.
	Get it.
	He was trying to kiss me.
	Sorry, the bug was on his mic.
	So you said three months, right?
	You think three months is about when that should.
	I think I, yeah, I misunderstood the question.
	I thought it meant like if once you're ready to talk about like being together in a committed relationship, because I thought that was already, once you're dating somebody for a while, you already kind of decided you're going to commit to them, right?
	Like you're already seeing them over and over.
	That's already a commitment itself.
	Have you ever met a guy that you wanted that instantly?
	Like right away, you knew.
	You fucking knew that this was the guy.
	Yeah.
	You've had that?
	Yep.
	Okay.
	I feel like that's a lot of fun.
	Don't.
	I've got the ring, Layla.
	Yeah.
	Why did it not work out?
	Oh, yeah.
	Oh, well, to be honest, like, I was too young.
	And yeah, I just don't think you should get in relationships in high school.
	That's why.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	You know what?
	I think it should just be right away.
	Just boom, right away.
	If you see somebody.
	If you see somebody, me and Emily, we're already engaged.
	But you hate when I'm up front with you.
	You think I'm weird?
	Well, there's reasons for that.
	Play your porn.
	It could be the porn thing.
	It could be that there's photos of you gargling cock on your Twitter.
	Gargling.
	Which one's beautiful in me.
	Just literally like... Gorging that cock down my tiny throat.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Okay, Layla.
	We get it.
	All right, we get it.
	We get it.
	We get it.
	Okay.
	I had that against my will.
	Do you want to do porn with Brian?
	Whoa.
	I think I would actually like my dating tour with him.
	I actually like Brian.
	Like, I don't want to just slut him out.
	Sorry, I like actually, like Brian, like, I don't want to slut you out.
	Like, I would actually want to be intimate and have passion, like, your sex.
	Wait, what?
	What?
	Like, not like fucking your ear, but like, you want to make love to Brian?
	When they're in your ear, intimate, gentle.
	No, like, no, like, you know, like that gentle in the beginning, and then you're like, yee-haw in there, you know.
	Yee-haw.
	Wait, you did that one more time for us.
	Like, yee-haw in there.
	Yee-haw in there.
	In there.
	Wait, get a shot of Q.
	Oh, okay.
	Q was just like.
	He's like, oh, I know what you mean.
	He knows what I mean.
	Like, woo!
	Yee-haw!
	Do you want to get with Layla?
	No.
	Because I'm trying to like.
	I'm trying to bon her off to something.
	No, you got it.
	Do you like women?
	Do you like women by chance?
	I'm not gay, but like, I like my.
	I'll fuck my friends.
	Like, we've done scenes.
	Listen, whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on, hold on.
	That's fun.
	Layla.
	Okay.
	Cylindrical object, you're familiar with them.
	I request you attempt to get close to the cylindrical object.
	Thank you.
	Sorry for that.
	Sydney, would you be down for Layla?
	What?
	Are you down for Layla?
	Sydney's not.
	I don't.
	You don't go that way?
	I don't.
	I mean, like.
	No, I don't go that way, but she does porn inside.
	I'm more conservative with that type of shit.
	I don't really want my partner's pictures out for everyone to see.
	No, are you bisexual?
	No.
	Oh, I thought you did your sexy sexual sexual section.
	I did date a girl.
	Yeah, you stole it.
	I did.
	Okay, I did.
	You do revenge.
	But I date sex.
	What?
	Yo, did y'all have sex?
	Really?
	No.
	Y'all dated the entire time to have sex with anyone?
	We didn't date for like that long.
	It was like a few weeks.
	Wow.
	Word.
	Did y'all kiss?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, we kissed.
	Okay.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Good times.
	Oops, party foul.
	Okay, let me get a couple chats here while Emily is gone.
	Let's see.
	You have Grid One Motorsports.
	Hey, thank you, Grid One Motorsports.
	Appreciate it, man.
	If you unfollow those Insta models, they will have to get real jobs.
	That is very true.
	What will they do without their followers?
	That is the question.
	So why do you do porn?
	Yeah.
	They would do porn.
	Okay, there you have it.
	There you have it.
	So, what you're saying is we actually need men to simp more on the IG girls so they don't go down even more to-do your parents know about your guys' professions?
	Yes.
	How do they feel about it?
	Supportive.
	I don't fuck with my parents.
	I haven't fucked with them.
	That would be incest.
	Yeah.
	Good.
	Good point, Brian.
	Brian, can I say something really quick for everyone?
	The audio is slightly muted today, so it's really, really important that you're not on the mic.
	Like, that would be very helpful for us.
	So, thank you.
	Let me see.
	I could maybe, I might know what's going on.
	Oh, BS.
	I'm going to go check it out really quick.
	Q. You have the ship.
	The ship.
	You have the ship.
	Sail it, baby.
	Oh, I know what you're talking about.
	No, the one with the hand on the volleyball?
	No.
	Oh.
	You want me to take it from the notes?
	No, just ask Tiffany a question about something.
	I've never been a hoax.
	You've never been a hoe?
	No.
	Host.
	Can you tell me how you like, like, what are you into in bed?
	Because you seem like a very confident guy.
	What am I into?
	I'm dominant all the way through.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I'm dominant all the way through.
	But I do like to be seduced.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I like to be seduced because it feeds my ego, strokes my ego.
	So you like confident women who know what they want.
	Yeah.
	But like, so like a girl coming up to you club being like, like, you're fine.
	Like, you're taking you home tonight.
	No, not like that.
	Okay.
	Like, I'm more like subtle.
	Like, if she approached me, she got the shy energy.
	You know, she's like, um, excuse me, or I usually don't do this, but you're really handsome.
	I like that kind of approach.
	And you're just like, fuck her, yeah.
	Yeah, because a lot of women approach me on some straightforward type shit, and it creeps me out.
	Like, I have stories for days about it.
	So, yeah.
	I'm like that.
	I have an issue being very straightforward.
	Yeah, that will creep me out.
	You should tell us a story.
	Are you creeped out by it?
	Am I creeped out?
	By her?
	A little bit.
	That's fine.
	A little bit.
	I get that a lot.
	Okay, so like I was in Chick-fil-A.
	I walked in Chick-fil-A.
	I see this girl.
	She was attractive.
	She was standing in Chick-fil-A.
	And she seen me come in.
	I seen her see me coming.
	And I didn't say anything to her, but she was looking at me up and down.
	So I went to order my food and she comes up to me and she's like, I know you saw me looking at you.
	And I was like, yeah, I saw you looking at me.
	She was like, you fine as hell.
	I was like, thank you.
	I appreciate it.
	And then she was like, what's your name?
	She asked me my name, all that.
	I told her.
	She was like, do you have a girl?
	I said, yes.
	I was dating somebody, but I'm like, I got a girl.
	And then she was like.
	Cool Rad Bro donated $100.
	Brian, Layla has been staring at you all night.
	It's evident that she's into you.
	What's one date?
	I think she's paying right.
	I try to tell him, like, give me one fucking chance.
	Would you pay?
	Of course I'll pay for our meal.
	I like him.
	Like, I want to take him out.
	I always said this.
	I was like, I would genuinely, like, take you out.
	Like, you're a pretty little princess, and we would go eat.
	So you would take on the mask on?
	I mean, I don't think it's masculine to pay for your guy's dinner and like ask a guy out on a date.
	But like, I mean, I just think it is.
	A little, yeah.
	I think you can, I think, as a woman, like, you can take your man out and show your appreciation and like go to dinner and pay for it.
	I take a man out to dinner all the time.
	Yeah, we love it.
	I like to make each other feel loved in that way.
	And I hate everybody after.
	A first date.
	First date, like, to go eat?
	I think.
	Yeah, which date I wouldn't.
	I mean, if it's someone that like I like, like, this is like, I really like you.
	I used to be a whore and I'm like, oops, but like, let me take you out.
	I'm still a whore.
	But I used to be a publicly filmed getting fucked whore.
	And so, you know, a little different.
	But it's on the internet.
	It is, but I don't actively get fucked.
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	Irrelevant, by the way.
	I'm just saying, like, you know, like, I wouldn't, you know, like, I would take him out.
	And I would, maybe we'd have a good time.
	And, like, maybe, like, we wouldn't, like, fuck, like, if he doesn't want to do that, but, like, maybe, like, we romantically, like, are emotional with each other.
	And, like, it could be, like, a relationship in that way.
	It doesn't have to be a relationship where we fuck.
	Yeah.
	Thank you, chat, because I agree.
	Like, let me have one, let me have one dinner.
	Let me get you some fucking sushi.
	Stop pursuing.
	Um, whenever I'm over him.
	I haven't been, like, going out lately.
	So, like, I was just going to my Yammy soon.
	I'll probably find some fine guy.
	Actually, if Brian gave you the chance, would you get a divorce with your husband and have kids with Ryan?
	No, I don't want kids with Brian.
	I have a very specific type of genetics I want my kids to have.
	And that's what your husband has?
	Yeah.
	And honestly, whatever.
	I genuinely do like the way that religion raises their children, and I'm totally down for that.
	Whether y'all don't, y'all can have opinions about that.
	Wait, Mormonism?
	I grew up Mormon.
	Yeah, it makes you an amazing person.
	That's why you're so sweet.
	Oh, well, you know, I know some of them are awful.
	I can't say that.
	Yeah, I was going to say, I was going to say, I grew up in the Mormon church, and I liked it for a reason.
	It's awful, but I feel like it does make you a good person.
	I feel like the people there are very, like, judgy.
	Oh, yeah, for sure.
	If your daughter wanted to do porn, would you let her do it?
	Do whatever the fuck you want.
	I'd be like, girl, are you sure?
	Because like, come on.
	But I mean, I'm not going to be like, go get fucked.
	I mean, I don't even feel like I needed to do porn.
	I was just like in a state where I did porn.
	You're in the more.
	You were in the Mormon.
	What are you wearing?
	Brandon Melson $100.
	I just thought of something.
	If the roles were reversed, this would be considered harassment.
	If I kept hitting on a girl in a pod like you are with Brian, I'd be crucified.
	It's actually very true.
	Also, you missed a comment and they said, like, what's one date?
	Like, yeah, I'll pull it back up.
	Yo, Brandon, thank you very much, man.
	It is a good point.
	And you know what's actually crazy?
	Actually, no, I don't want to mention this, but like, as a guy, you could do.
	I mean, like, Layla, the thing is, is that there's this kind of effect when you're so extreme, it kind of diminishes, like, because it makes people think like it's a troll.
	But if you, like, if you're a normal person and you do, like, the slightest, not even the misstep, if I was a guy and I, like, asked a girl out on the podcast or something, well, I don't know.
	They'd like, I'd probably, they'd be like, oh, that's predatory.
	But I said, like, I would just take you out to dinner and, like, we could just have a good time and, like, just, like, enjoy each other's presence.
	Right.
	And so I don't think it's wrong to like, I never think it's wrong for someone to shoot their shot once.
	Yeah.
	However, when the person has clearly rejected you, I can think that you're handsome and make it known.
	Sorry, I can think that you're handsome and make it known.
	I can be like, you look really good today.
	And at the end of the day, like, I would love to take you on a dinner and get to know you.
	That's cool.
	That's very sweet of you.
	But, I mean, I've repeatedly.
	Okay, well.
	Repeatedly.
	I still think that, like, you know, though, there's a chat that said, like, what's one date?
	Like, you might enjoy it.
	It's okay.
	I mean, I've gotten to know you on the podcast.
	I feel like one day you're going to realize, like, you're never going to, like, I don't think you'll ever marry a virgin.
	Like, everyone has had cock.
	Like, so what if it's a lot more?
	I don't have to marry a girl who's a virgin.
	But, like, I just prefer women with low body.
	I have had a lot of cock, but also, like, I haven't had a lot of sex.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, I've had a lot of multiple cocks.
	Tell me what's the difference.
	I've had a lot of multiple cocks, because, I mean, some girls get fucked every single day of the year.
	If you have sex 365 times a day, and let's say, how do you feel if a girl has sex every day for a year and versus like a girl, let's say they use a condom every time and they get fucked once a week for a year?
	Like, which is worse?
	By different guys.
	Yeah, it depends if it's her boyfriend or she's fucking a different guy every week because then you're a hoe.
	So you see cock is like a very like specific thing on each person, even if there's a rubber.
	Like do you think, what?
	Do you think like I literally can't do that?
	Okay, so are you seeing cock is a bad thing?
	This is like some cock.
	What's going on in here?
	Cock is cock your body count.
	This is hoe math.
	Cock is cock.
	Homath.
	Yes.
	Cock.
	What?
	I'm so invested.
	Everyone has a dick.
	No.
	Whether it's your boyfriend, whether it's a stranger you meet on the street, cock is cock is cock is cock.
	Let me know if I've got your argument correct.
	So, and I've heard this argument from other women.
	They say that, well, let's say you have a boyfriend and you're only sleeping with him, but you sleep with him every single day, or every week you have sex with a guy just like a new guy once.
	With a condom too.
	Okay, so yeah, in a year you have sex with 50 guys, but you only sleep with each of them once versus your boyfriend, you sleep with him more regularly, but you only sleep with him.
	They'll try to make that argument because, well, oh, your sex count, the times of times you've had sex is higher.
	That's different, though.
	But I don't agree.
	Or body count.
	Body count is a count is different.
	Why is that?
	I just don't agree with that.
	But I totally get that.
	But why does it stop?
	I see cock is cock.
	What's your reasoning?
	You can't just say you'd be because you would just do something.
	She's desensitized to sex because she cocks.
	I did it for living.
	What the fuck does cock is cock mean?
	It means like cocky.
	Go Kelly.
	I just think cock like dick is dick.
	Literally.
	Like, what the fuck does that mean, though?
	I'm saying that.
	It means that all cocks are the same.
	All comes to the same.
	Okay, so you're saying you have one body.
	So you're just pussy?
	Okay, so you've had multiple cocks in your body.
	Sometimes you have had multiple cocks in your body, yes or no?
	It's a yes or no question.
	Okay, so yeah.
	So what the fuck do you mean cock is cock?
	I think it's a dick.
	Like I don't care like if it's I don't care if it's the same dick every day.
	I don't care if it's a different dick every day.
	Like there's zero logic in that.
	I actually think it's very logical.
	You just logical about it.
	You just don't agree.
	That's fine.
	Yeah.
	You don't have to understand.
	No, that just doesn't make sense.
	That's fine.
	It doesn't have to make sense.
	It just doesn't make sense.
	Something not making sense shouldn't upset you.
	It makes sense to me.
	It's not upsetting me.
	I'm just saying that you guys are actually being delusional.
	Yeah.
	Whores think like whores.
	It's not delusional.
	It's very aware.
	They're not a whore.
	So you're not going to think like.
	I know, yeah, that's why.
	That's okay.
	Okay.
	Agreed.
	I'm going to my happy place.
	Yeah.
	Thank you, Mother Sports, for interrupting this shit.
	Okay.
	Layla, read it.
	Go.
	Not every woman wants to be a whore.
	Won't do at porn, but are fine posting bikini pics all over for money.
	Take away the attention, likes, money, follows, and maybe they'll find real relationships.
	Very valid, but it's a good job.
	And I honestly like the attention and I like the dick.
	I thought you weren't a porn star anymore.
	I said, I didn't say that.
	I just said, I didn't do it for porn anymore.
	You said that you didn't do it anymore.
	I like dick.
	I post only how much do you get paid for fucking someone girl?
	That is not a good idea.
	Oh, but they won't say you'll flash it.
	Hold on.
	I'm going to read this real quick one second.
	The mere fact that you view sex as sex and not viewing sex as the most intimate pairing of two persons literally illustrates the issue.
	Yeah, which is fine.
	Do you respond to Raven DT?
	You got a response to Raven DT here?
	I'm a little confused.
	What do you think the asterisks are supposed to be?
	Cock.
	Oh, they view cock as.
	There's four letters.
	There's no way this video is getting long.
	Okay.
	Cool, Rad Bro.
	Just because I was gone.
	Layla has been staring at you all night.
	It's evident that she's into you.
	What's one date?
	I mean, she's paying right.
	What do you think?
	I already replied to it.
	Okay, let's say he does go out with Layla.
	I mean, just have a good time.
	Maybe we'll just get friends.
	Let's say he does go out with Layla.
	They go out on a date.
	Every guy she walks by.
	Yo, Layla, what's up?
	Layla, what's up?
	What's up, Layla?
	What's up, Layla?
	Honestly, like, some guys would feel cool.
	That's true.
	Some guys would feel cool.
	You know, like when the skin crawls on your back or whatever?
	That's how you feel?
	That's how I would feel.
	That's okay.
	Calls on a date.
	I can cook you food at home.
	I have no idea how that followed from what I said, but.
	Because you said you don't want to be seen in public with me.
	That's okay.
	I think the majority of the men wouldn't be.
	If we were on a date, like, I honestly feel like you would try to force yourself on me.
	No, I wouldn't.
	If you were on a date.
	I would have a lovely conversation with you.
	I would ask about your date.
	No, she'd definitely try to grab your dick first date.
	For sure.
	I wouldn't.
	It's already sexually harassing.
	I wouldn't.
	I would feel.
	I would be a little frightened if I was on a date with you.
	Well, I think I would change your mind, and I think I would surprise you.
	That's the start of it.
	What's the most expensive restaurant in Santa Barbara?
	Wherever you want to go, baby, I'll take you.
	What's it called?
	Stonehouse.
	Is that the one in the mountains?
	Ooh, that sounds pretty.
	Is it like a...
	Wait, is that the...
	What's the one where all the bikers go to?
	The...
	I know I can hear it.
	It sounds like they've been on the floor.
	No, up in the mountains here in Santa Barbara.
	And we don't have flashbacks on the mountain.
	No, it's ice or cold something tavern.
	Cold Springs Tavern.
	Cold Springs Tavern.
	So like on a lake?
	That's something that's going to be a little bit more.
	but that's like out there in the sticks so I'm not I'm kind of I'd be kind of scared to go out there with with Layla Okay, we don't have to go there.
	We can go anywhere you want.
	We can go to like a little beach place.
	What's a really nice, expensive restaurant in Santa Barbara?
	There's Caruso's.
	I was going to say Caruso's.
	It's Italian, right?
	Do you go on dates often, Brian?
	Huh?
	Like, is that like your ideal date?
	Like, going out to eat?
	Sorry.
	It's like your ideal date.
	That's not an ideal date.
	What do you like to do?
	I'm just trying to finesse.
	It's okay.
	But what do you like to do besides just get really expensive food?
	What do I like to do?
	Yeah.
	You want to go on like hikes?
	Like, what do you like, what's your like fun?
	Beach is nice.
	I like going to the beach.
	I just like chilling with your soulmate on the beach.
	That's cute.
	Yeah.
	Have you been to like those like beach restaurants though?
	Like on the beachfront?
	Like wouldn't that be nice?
	You get to like eat seafood straight from the beach and then go chill there.
	All right, Raven, for the record, there's actually a marriage tax penalty.
	For couples who both earn high amounts, there's a penalty federally in 15 states have penalties as well.
	California being one of them.
	Source taxfoundation.org.
	Raven DT.
	Thank you very much for that.
	Thank you.
	Yeah, I mean, hey, maybe just another reason to not get married.
	Not get married?
	That's okay.
	But, you know, I've found the one.
	Emily.
	Yes.
	I almost forgot.
	So perhaps under those circumstances, me and Emily can – well, going back to kind of our previous thing that we were talking about when it came to, like, when should you have the commitment and conversation.
	Should we?
	Do you think?
	She said you said like much.
	We're already engaged.
	That's pretty much it.
	But like legit, like, do you want to be committed?
	Like, because I was thinking to myself, like, is there such a thing as too soon?
	You know?
	Like, can you bring that up like first second date?
	Like, hey, you dropped.
	Like, really?
	The first date would be too soon.
	So, Emily, if I told you, Emily, I want you to drop all your other dudes right now.
	I'll drop all my girls.
	We can be together.
	Would you take that?
	No.
	We'd have to go on like two or three dates.
	Two or three dates.
	Yes.
	And she's got a date on Friday.
	I don't know how I feel about this.
	Tell you what, you have to cancel your date on Friday.
	I have to cancel my Friday.
	You got to cancel your date on Friday and I'll take you on a date.
	How about that?
	You don't have to.
	I don't want, we're on the show.
	You might feel, oh, I got to say yes.
	No, you can reject me.
	Go ahead if you want.
	Literal?
	Yeah, why not?
	Real?
	Sure, why not?
	If you take me to that place that she said.
	Fuck yeah.
	I'll take you to In-N-Out.
	Or I'll take you to In-N-Out.
	Yeah.
	You just married her.
	That's just the first place you're going.
	Be engaged.
	Definitely.
	Definitely.
	Okay.
	In-night.
	In-nut.
	It's a deal?
	It's a deal.
	After the show?
	Yep.
	It's a date.
	It's a date.
	Congratulations.
	I already have the ring.
	Can you get that for me, Madison?
	Okay, well, you got it, folks.
	He's trolling.
	Sorry.
	No, I'm legit.
	I think she's going to get mad.
	No, I won't.
	I am very supportive of everyone's happiness.
	So go y'all.
	I was just kidding.
	So you're not that type of girl to take people's mans?
	No.
	No.
	Oh, so now you won't hit on Brian since he's my man now?
	You know what?
	If y'all actually become together, I wouldn't.
	I would be like, you know what?
	Here.
	I think I say that.
	If it's like a funny thing, whatever, you can tell when a girl thinks it's funny.
	But if it's someone that's like, you know, like, I don't want you to do that, of course.
	Of course I'll respect that.
	Yeah, 100%.
	What were you saying, though?
	I didn't want to cut you off.
	Oh, you still have an OnlyFans?
	I do have an OnlyFans.
	So the fans, your OnlyFans fans, you don't think a lot of them are married men?
	They might, but I can't control that.
	But if it's something in real life and I have control of it, I'm not going to do that.
	But you just said that you like to respect people's relationships.
	I mean, I just, I mean, is there something like, what are you trying to get, like, what would you rather have me do?
	Just not have an OnlyFans?
	No, I'm just saying that it's just hypocritical of you to say that you're going to be respectable at people's relationships, but acknowledge the facts.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	Going to be honest, Wickson.
	As an old married dude with a smoking hot wife, you can do better than loosely on that.
	Oh, no, that's...
	Layla's tight.
	The plastic fantastic...
	Yo, grid one, motorsports.
	First off, thank you very much for your patronage.
	Thank you for your donation there and throughout this night.
	And thank you for watching since episode 40.
	I mean, you're an OG.
	Back then we were getting 300 viewers an episode.
	What episode is this?
	106, I believe.
	That's a true fan.
	Yeah, no, that was.
	Episode 40 was back in December or something.
	So he's been with us for a while.
	Thank you, man.
	I appreciate it.
	What's that?
	Almost a year.
	Almost a year.
	That's awesome.
	You have like a big thing for your year anniversary, the podcast.
	Yeah, what's going to be the year?
	No, we've already passed a year in July.
	Yeah, we've been doing the podcast for like a year and two months or something.
	Oh, dope.
	Ish, kind of.
	So, yep, Rip XXXXDM.
	Okay, we have a couple more notes here.
	We have.
	Actually, I kind of want to like, I have some more notes, but is there anything I want to open it up to the panel because maybe some of you who haven't been talking yet, just to give you guys an opportunity to come in, is there anything dating related that you'd like to get off your chest or a topic that you'd like to speak on?
	And I do want to reserve this, or at least start it off with the girls who haven't quite yet had as much of a chance to speak.
	So, Sarah, I believe, Tiffany, and Sidney, do you guys have anything that we'll come to you?
	Layla, can you read this?
	Yeah, even though I think Layla is a hot, sexy woman, she's a master at profiting off the opinions of others, which is why she says the thing she does.
	Also, happy National Boyfriend Day to all the base chats out there.
	Wow.
	Yeah, boyfriend.
	Is it National Boyfriend Day?
	Apparently, that's awesome.
	Thank you, Brandon, for letting us know that.
	That's actually pretty cool.
	Gotta treat me on National Boyfriend Day.
	I didn't even know that was a thing.
	And you got y'all got together.
	You want to know what's really sad?
	I want to know, you know, I want to know what's really sad.
	Do you know how there's an International Woman's Day?
	Is there not an International Men's Day?
	No, there is.
	It's not nearly as recognized as International Woman's Day.
	And then I believe it's the UN, the United Nations.
	The day that is International Men's Day, they made it International Toilet Day.
	What?
	No.
	I'm dead serious.
	Because of that?
	Well, the UN is like deeply.
	I would say the UN, United Nations is deeply misandrist and anti-men.
	So, yeah.
	That's actually surprising.
	If you look at their, they have a UN account, Twitter account and then a UN women Twitter account.
	Of course, they don't have a UN men Twitter account.
	That account is fucking insane.
	Like the misrepresentation of statistics.
	There's one that was really crazy.
	It sounds like you, maybe you're familiar with it.
	There's a tweet they put out where it was like, fuck man, it was like insane.
	Do you remember?
	It was something.
	You could pull up.
	I don't want to misquote it, but it might have been something along the lines of, and I could be mixing this up.
	They were saying how one in five women are homeless.
	Oh, what?
	Or no, no, no, no.
	Sorry.
	20.
	No, no, no.
	Sorry, susar.
	It's 20%.
	No, that's not what I got mixed up.
	They said that 20% of the homeless are women.
	I feel like I see mostly men homeless.
	Now, what does that mean?
	So that means 80% of the homeless are men.
	And they said some bullshit about like 10% of journalists that are killed every year are women.
	Okay, so what does that mean?
	90% of journalists who are killed in war zones or some shit is men.
	The news is always funny.
	But I mean, it's also probably just like a more like woman-run social media team they have.
	Let me see if I can find the bullshit fucking UN thing, because that's like a message.
	Wait, what were you talking about before?
	Oh, opening it up.
	There was the TTS from Motorsports, and then you had something, Sarah.
	Yeah, um, so I had a question.
	Yeah.
	So I feel like it's been generally established with most of the people on the panel that because of what we do for a living being porn stars, it's made us like undateable and unworthy to men and being respected by them.
	But my question is, if that's what makes us unworthy, then what's making you unworthy to men?
	Because you don't sound like you're getting respected either.
	Like, what is it?
	She's picked the wrong men, but I don't think that that's a men's fault then, not a woman's fault.
	No, it's still my fault.
	I never said that those men not wanting to date me was their fault or that it's, but I mean, you can definitely say that it's your fault that you do porn and that you're never going to get a husband.
	So I never said that I wanted a husband.
	I'm single by choice.
	Right, but you're saying that men don't respect me because I have nothing to do to gain, I didn't do anything to gain respect.
	Is that what you're trying to insinuate?
	No, I mean... That by being a respectable woman, I'm doing nothing to gain respect for men.
	By having a normal occupation and job, that I'm not doing anything to gain respect?
	Well, your definition of normal is like totally your own definition.
	Is it my own or is it the rest of the world's also?
	And you're the minority of women that thinks the opposite.
	It's just your opinion, babe.
	I think that's wrong.
	Keep going.
	Yeah, I think the rest of the world definitely thinks that women that have normal jobs that don't sell their body online are respectable.
	Would you personally take a poll with the rest of the world?
	I don't need to.
	I think they did.
	There was a poll, and the poll unanimously stated that you don't wife up.
	What's the fucking saying?
	Can't turn a hoe into a housewife?
	I think they did a worldwide poll.
	Wow.
	I don't remember being a part of that, and I do think that I am part of the world.
	You didn't receive the poll?
	No.
	Oh, my God.
	So maybe it should be redone.
	You didn't receive the wifing up a hoe poll.
	You're also the statistic that wouldn't be included in it, though you realize that, right?
	Because you can't say I wouldn't marry myself.
	Sorry.
	Hold on just a sec.
	$100.
	$1,000 if you go on a date with Layla.
	You must produce pigs.
	I love you, Child.
	I would do it for money.
	Okay.
	Purely for money.
	And then, boom, we'd go on the date.
	Nice to meet you.
	That is sex work.
	That's not sex work.
	That is sexual.
	That is not sexquare.
	That is not sex work.
	I don't know how to expect.
	It doesn't normalize any sexual circumstances.
	That's asexual.
	This is not asexual.
	It's going to be a date in the studio, a one-on-one podcast.
	We're going to live stream it, and we will go on a date.
	No, that's not what they want.
	That's the date.
	They want us to go on a real intimate date.
	They don't want a fake podcast date.
	I mean, if you want to drop a thousand, we'll pop champagne, but...
	No, they want a real date.
	I'll do it in the podcast studio.
	I'll do it in the podcast studio.
	We'll live stream it because I need evidence in.
	Oh, my God.
	Okay, all right.
	Go, you guys.
	You're going to take my man.
	Continue with your little back and forth.
	Oh, oh, yeah.
	Did you have any other questions to answer it for you, why I deserve respect?
	Well, I mean, I. Personally, from the things that you've been saying, I don't respect you.
	So, I mean, there's that.
	Why?
	Why, though?
	Why?
	Because they don't agree.
	No, because you came off very close-minded about it.
	Like, you've asserted your statement as if that's fact.
	That's all that fact is.
	And if anyone has a differing opinion than yours, and they're wrong, and they don't deserve it.
	Well, yes, because I don't need to open my mind to something I already have deemed immoral.
	But see, I think people like you have an immoral mindset because you judge other people's based officials.
	So let me ask you a question.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Do you think the world would be a better place if every young girl did porn?
	I think the world would be a better place if every young girl had the confidence to do porn.
	But that's not what I asked.
	I said, you didn't answer my question.
	And I am not going to be fine.
	Everybody else should do porn.
	I think it's a good idea.
	You would think those are professional sports.
	I'm just saying, stop, stop.
	One at a time, please.
	Molly, say your point.
	Kelly wants to come in, and then we'll have Emily go.
	In this world, we have people that have talents, and those people.
	Talent?
	Yeah, they have talent.
	No, everyone can't take dick like Molly.
	No, you cannot take dick like Molly.
	No, you can't.
	It's a talent.
	People have talents.
	People are good at specific things in life.
	And those people go into professionals.
	We'll go on this later.
	But do you think that's a good thing?
	Anyways, porn stars are good at sex.
	And if you're mad that porn stars are good at sex, then you're just jealous that your pussy is inferior.
	It definitely does come off.
	And stinky.
	It comes off.
	Porn star pussy is inferior.
	And stinky.
	People whose pussy is not porn star pussy, their pussy is inferior.
	It does come off like it's actually the opposite.
	Your pussy is over here on the internet.
	My pussy has been seen by.
	People worship my pussy.
	Nobody worships, baby, bro.
	Nobody worships pussy.
	Ryan worships her pussy.
	Huge labia.
	He loves that.
	Ryan has a big labias matter.
	He loves pussy.
	He worships labias.
	People are people who are.
	I could pull up my DM.
	People like to just bust them.
	This girl just said people don't love pussy.
	Stop interrupting Kelly.
	Kelly.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, I'm just saying that she thinks that her pussy is being worshipped, but it is being worshipped.
	By multiple people?
	Yeah, and people pay for it.
	Good for you.
	Thank you.
	You're a hoe.
	It's a free.
	Yeah, that's my job.
	Okay, cool.
	I'm glad that you know that, and I'm glad that you're happy.
	I'm very happy, but you seem really bothered.
	I could pay 100 million on her doing what I'm doing, and I'm going to do it more.
	No, I'm just to bother you.
	So I'm just saying I make as much money as you, and I don't have to pop my pussy open.
	At least I don't judge other people.
	I'm not judging.
	But you just said that my pussy is inferior because I don't do porn.
	How?
	You're less experienced.
	Actually, you cannot search the exact same thing.
	You can't suck dick like Molly for sure.
	You just can't.
	I can't what?
	You can't suck dick like Molly.
	Like, no matter how experienced you think you are, like, you just can't.
	I don't want you to, I don't.
	That's not one of my things.
	I get that.
	No, I'm not judging you at all.
	You don't have to do that.
	There's a lot of other things I do that are better than sucking dicks.
	And that's wrong.
	And I'm happy for you.
	But you do have to say she can suck dick better than you.
	Yeah.
	It's my pride.
	I take my paper.
	I didn't say that.
	Like, I'm an A-list porn star.
	Guys, one at a time.
	Can I ask a question?
	Sure.
	So, did you guys get into porn because you thought that sex and sucking dick is your talent or for financial reasons?
	Is that the only way that you guys can get men to like you?
	No.
	So what else is good about you guys besides your pussy in your head?
	Why are you coming so hateful?
	Without you, you seem really bothered?
	I'm just trying to get to the bottom of it.
	No, you're not.
	Because you guys were saying you should make words that you're yesterday.
	Hold on.
	Sydney, go ahead, Emily.
	I was going to say, because you guys are saying that, but you were questioning her values.
	Yeah, right.
	I mean.
	I think she was questioning her values.
	Oh, yeah, yeah.
	Yeah, she was.
	No, I thought it was.
	Oh, wait, no, no.
	Yeah, you mean you're going to do it.
	So you said people worship your pussy because they pay for it, but I could also.
	But I could also pay $10.99 for a bucket of chicken.
	Does that mean I'm worshiping it?
	No, it means I'm getting my lick of chicken for a minute.
	I'm not going to go and move on.
	Out of all of the food places, you chose chicken.
	And you chose to pay $10.99 for that chicken.
	I'd rather have that chicken than see your pussy.
	Yours is probably like $4.99.
	Chicken's only fancy.
	That's what your kink is.
	I just don't think you should be hateful to someone.
	You can judge them.
	No one can be hateful.
	Your response to what we do for work says way more about you guys and you're asking the question of your mind than agree with the immoralities of it.
	Being a whore is not immoral, but being judgmental is.
	But do you see what you're saying already?
	But you don't have to understand it.
	You just shouldn't be hateful.
	You should not be hateful.
	You should explain your opinions in a very sweet, understanding way.
	There's no need to put someone down here.
	I don't need to be very masculine about whores and how they make their own.
	You don't hear the hate in your voice?
	Because you can say, I don't agree with you, I think what you do is wrong.
	Sorry, but I don't look at whores.
	I honestly hate that.
	Like calling us whores, that is just judgment.
	But you guys call yourself a horse.
	And you're such a hypocrite for us.
	No, but you guys are not all yourself whores.
	Didn't you, but didn't you both admit that you guys are whores?
	You're saying it hate negatively.
	No one has been hateful to you this entire time.
	I'm not being hateful.
	And I have said what you guys are saying.
	You just called yourselves whores.
	So you're agreeing.
	Okay, I agreed with you guys that you guys are being hateful.
	No one's being hateful.
	I'm just agreeing.
	You are.
	I think we're going to be able to do that.
	So me agreeing with you guys calling yourselves whores.
	That's not what I said.
	But I think the way that you speak can be definitely a little bit more respectful.
	Maybe to you guys, because you guys, it's true.
	I mean, if you don't think that human beings are respect.
	I take pride in respecting people.
	Like, that's, you know, that's on you.
	And I think that Brian can say, I don't agree with what you do, and he says it in a very respectful way, versus being like...
	Most of the time.
	Yeah.
	I did call you.
	No, you do, but you've never go to the bottom of the business.
	Yeah.
	You know how far to go.
	But I just think, you know, don't put sideways.
	No, I just think you guys are getting bothered by it because you know I'm right.
	I think that's very opposite on who's getting bothered.
	There's nothing, I don't know if you're not.
	Can you answer my question?
	I'm not bothered by it.
	I'm just agreeing with the fact that you guys call yourself whores.
	Can you repeat the question?
	Yeah, so did you get into porn because you thought that you had a talent at Sucking Dick or because of financial reasons?
	Wait, I would have to ask you.
	What was the motivation behind her answer?
	She probably has a great answer.
	Okay.
	Oh, you want to answer that?
	Yeah, I'll answer it.
	So the reason why people get into porn, it's obviously going to vary depending on who you ask.
	For me personally, at the time, I put a lot of pressure on relationships and men and all of that, having sex with them.
	So for me, because I was young.
	I was 19 when I started porn.
	I just turned 19, so I was basically 18.
	And like in high school, I just put, like, I grew up very closed it off, so I didn't really start talking to other people or dating until high school, really.
	And I just felt like I put a lot of pressure on it.
	So for me personally, I wanted to be able to enjoy sex in a fun way and be able to profit off of it and be able to take that like, oh my god, does he like me?
	Is he respecting me?
	Is it this or is it that?
	And be able to turn it into something fun and enjoy it instead of always stressing about it.
	That's about it.
	Okay, so it's really fun.
	Yeah.
	What about you guys?
	I think I was also really young when I joined and I thought it was going to be something I enjoyed and I did enjoy it, but I learned really fast that I wasn't, I wasn't made for porn.
	I can't take dick like Molly can, Molly's a fucking porn star.
	Like y'all can hate her all she wants, but she's she's a fucking porn star.
	I have a talent and I couldn't take it.
	I couldn't handle it.
	I had to start, if I could finish, please, sorry.
	I had to start doing it like once a week and then I just like couldn't and then I started streaming and I enjoyed it better.
	And I have no hate to anyone that is porn.
	I have no hate towards anyone whatsoever.
	But you know for me I was like erotic modeling as one could say like more professionally just like you know like professional like nudes and stuff and I was doing that for OnlyFans and I just I liked sex and I knew I was good at it and I wanted to try it and I did like it at first but it just got it just got a lot really fast so I had to get out of it pretty soon.
	But why did you start?
	Because I just I was doing OnlyFans and I enjoy performing why did you start OnlyFans?
	I enjoy I enjoy performing.
	You know I at first I did camming and I loved camming.
	I love talking to my fans.
	I love being naked.
	I'm a nudist.
	I go around the house naked.
	So would you do it for free?
	I feel like no one's born like born.
	Maybe not liking being naked.
	I mean, you know, but some people, have you ever been to Vegas?
	It's a whole different world.
	Honestly, like the exhibitionist kink does exist.
	I love like, I love fucking in front of people, especially people that don't know I'm fucking in front of them.
	Like, when I did the bang bus, I was looking this lady when I did the bang bus.
	You can't do corn without getting genital herpes as condoms do not protect from it.
	If the industry tested for it, there would be no industry.
	How can you claim your lady parts are superior when they're infected?
	Ramses, and I can smell them from here.
	Actually, no, they don't test for HSV.
	So, first of all, just by a show of hands, who here has either had mono or chickenpox when you were a kid?
	Nobody's had chickenpox.
	Wait, do they give you the vaccine or do you just get it?
	Some people get it.
	Some people get the vaccine.
	They don't give you a vaccine for that.
	It's required to get a vaccine for it to go to school now.
	Okay, cool.
	Well, I went to school a long time ago, but so if you've had chickenpox or if you've had mono, that is herpes.
	There's more, herpes is a virus, right?
	So there's more than eight different strains of the virus, but two of those, being HSV1 and HSV2, are the ones that will produce sores or blisters, right?
	So for me personally, I had HSV when I was a little kid because I used someone's chapstick, and that's how I got cold sores, which is herpes.
	So if you guys have ever had cold sores, super well-spoken.
	Well, yeah, you mentioned that there's different, there's different kinds.
	So there's the one that's a bit more prevalent, which is the one that manifests itself in cold sores on your lips orally.
	Yes, however, I think the one that people are really, really trying to avoid, and granted, I think also, if you can't, and also you can get, is it HSV2 that's, fuck.
	Grid one motorsports donated $99.
	Thank you, man.
	The chick that can only make money selling her only asset on camera does not respect the young lady that adds value to society and no real man values.
	How good do you think you are in bed when anyone can rent it for $1.99?
	$1.99.
	And I bet you subscribe to all of us.
	On Grid Motorsports, all three of you have OnlyFans?
	Yes.
	What's your current cost?
	Like $15.
	For the subscription, $8.99?
	$7.99.
	$7.99.
	So going back to Chipotle is more expensive than that.
	Yeah, I could get a shirt at Ross for what you guys are saying.
	It's so much more expensive.
	Everything that comes out of your mouth shows that your character sucks.
	Oh my gosh, they're getting so mad.
	No, I just would never speak to someone.
	Yeah, I just said that my Chipotle bolt on sir.
	I don't get behind it by someone who's speaking based on what they do for work.
	Speaking of Chipotle.
	I do.
	Kelly.
	And that's why you're a bad person.
	Did you kind of miss the, what was the chicken that they recently got rid of?
	It was the.
	I don't like chicken.
	I'm not like a chicken girl.
	Yeah, I like the steak.
	The kinetic is pretty good.
	What was the chicken that they got rid of?
	I don't think they got rid of the chicken.
	Chocolate sore is so good.
	Oh, I never tried it.
	The one before it was very good, too.
	Oh, the cilantro chicken, like the cilantro lips.
	Yeah, that was a good one.
	I don't know what's coming.
	Oh, they got the sirloin or some shit now.
	That sounds good.
	Or no, it's the sounds good.
	Tanya saw it.
	Yeah, I don't like Tanya Saturday.
	No, that one's pretty good, too.
	So wait, going back to Jay Butler, going back to Jay Butler, we were talking about herpes, right?
	HSV2, that is the one that infects the genitals, is that correct?
	So you can have HSV1 and HSV2 anywhere on your body.
	So you can have HSV2 on your lips and on your genitals, as well as HSV1 on your lips and on your genitals.
	Okay, well, in any case, I think people don't want either of those.
	No, most people don't, but it is very common.
	Most people do have it.
	Something about it is it can actually be dormant in your body.
	So someone that you have possibly kissed, shared any lipstick, straws, anything like that with, that person could have it and they could not know.
	A lot of people hide it or they don't say anything.
	So if you've ever had a cold sore ever in your life or someone else that you've kissed has, there is a chance that you get it.
	So, okay, there's a high proportion of people who have cold sores.
	However, that proportion when it comes to genital sores is much lower.
	So my understanding is in the industry, you're much more likely to get the cold sores on the genital or the herpes on the genitals.
	Correct.
	But if you're having unprotected sex in general, which a majority of the population is, that's still a possibility.
	And even if you are having sex in general and using condoms, it is still possible for you to get herpes.
	Yes, absolutely.
	So unless you're completely celibate, you are at a risk of getting herpes.
	And even if you're just sharing vapes or straws or anything like that with friends, you are still at a risk of getting herpes.
	But it's kind of different when you're right.
	But I was going to say, it's kind of different when you're actually in the industry and literally you know everyone is sleeping with everyone.
	Oh, you're definitely not.
	I think it's the same thing that's not.
	Okay, we already talked about this previous show.
	You don't get tested for herpes.
	Sorry, I just wanted to mention that.
	I forgot that that was.
	Here, can you read this from Jay Butler?
	Of course.
	HSB2 is not like HSV1.
	It makes you seven times more likely to get HIV.
	Litigation, if you don't disclose to partners, rejected by who you disclose with, taking kidney damaging drugs for life if infected.
	All porn stars have it, including the ones on the panel.
	I've actually seen that source, nor have I ever heard that from a doctor.
	So if you could drop the link to that source, I would love to look into that.
	Yeah, Jay Butler, I'd actually be very curious to see some of the data on it.
	I mean, I have heard, I don't know if this is anecdotally, or actually seen studies that, I mean, it's almost common sense, but it makes sense to me that these STDs are more prevalent in the porn industry.
	Well, sort of.
	So like I said, with at least just talking about herpes.
	So cold sores is something that's very common.
	And like I said, there's really not a difference between HSV1, HSV2, having cold sores or having genital herpes, because either way, you have herpes.
	It doesn't really matter.
	If you had chickenpox, you have herpes.
	It just manifests itself differently, but I don't see.
	See, but this is a very interesting use of language to try to downplay herpes.
	I'm definitely not downplaying it.
	Yeah, but you're saying if you had this kid, but you're referencing different strains, and there's two strains in particular, which to my understanding, I'm not an expert in herpes, are the ones you ought to be most concerned about.
	And those are the ones that on the lips and then on the genitals.
	So we can talk about the chickenpox and it being within the subclass or class of herpes virus.
	The reasoning for me mentioning that and putting that in for comparison is simply to show that I feel like it's very common for people to hear genital herpes like on your vagina or your penis and think like, oh my god, that's disgusting STD.
	But if you have a cold sore, because like I said, for me, I got it from someone's chapstick, then it's supposed to be more normal.
	So and again, with chickenpox, it's mono.
	It's still herpes.
	It's still the herpes simplex virus.
	But it's just a lot more normalized because one's associated with sex and one's not.
	That was really well spoken.
	I agree.
	And also something to add on to that.
	I think the point you were trying to make where like when people consent to having sex with other people who like may or may not have herpes in porn, you're consenting to possibly getting herpes every time you share a straw with someone, share a chapstick, share a vape, all of that.
	You're putting yourself in the same wheelhouse that porn stars put themselves in every day.
	But not genital herpes.
	There's a difference.
	Yeah, herpes herpes.
	You're not putting it.
	No, it's not just herpes is herpes.
	Genital herpes and a cold sore are different.
	No, babe.
	If you have cold sores and then you don't have an active cold sore blister, but let's say you suck someone's face.
	Okay, but one obviously gives more light to them.
	It can all be prevented from opening them sore on your body.
	So one's more disgusting, one hurts more, and one is worse.
	I know people that get extremely excruciatingly painful cold sores, and then people that don't get genital outbreaks at all, even though they know that they have it.
	Yeah, because I tend to be open-minded and listen and talk to people.
	I mean, I'm not an expert in this.
	I just did a Google search.
	Type 1, HSV-1, mostly spreads by oral contact and causes infections in or around the mouth, oral herpes or cold sores.
	It can also cause genital herpes.
	That's type 1.
	Most adults are infected with HSV-1, type 1 herpes.
	Type 2 herpes spreads by sexual contact and causes genital herpes.
	So, again, this is just a very quick summary of what I've seen.
	Perhaps it could be the case.
	It sounds like type 1 can cause genital herpes, but it seems like the big one that people really want to try to avoid is type 2 HSV2, which is spread through sexual contact, causes genital herpes.
	Perhaps it could be, I don't know, the severity between HSV-1, HSV-2.
	If the severity of HSV-2 is worse, and if people who are in the industry are more susceptible to getting HSV-2, then I would definitely say people in the industry are more susceptible to getting HSV-2.
	But that's one, because obviously our job is having unprotected sex with each other.
	And two, it's not something that is disclosed or talked about in the way that it should be, which is another reason why I'm trying to bring so much information and enlightenment to herpes in this conversation, because a lot of people just simply don't know what they're talking about.
	That is valid.
	Okay.
	Oh, and Madison.
	Wait, I want to bring something back to Molly here.
	You were saying that men worship the pussy.
	Mine.
	They worship the pussy.
	My pussy.
	The pussy is worship.
	The pussy should be.
	We should worship his body.
	And Madison whispered into my ear, and she said, and I don't know if, I guess this was from your last appearance.
	She said that you had difficult.
	Madison just left, unfortunately, when I decided to bring this up.
	You have difficulty getting your partner off?
	Was that?
	No, through head.
	That's my mouth.
	Through head.
	Yeah, but like I've made other guys come through head really, really fast.
	Okay.
	It's just like a difference.
	Yeah.
	Especially guys who do who do performance.
	Like some guys, when I fuck them, like we can go for like hours on hours, and some guys can't last 30 seconds.
	It's all good.
	It's all good.
	Yeah.
	All good in the neighborhood.
	We have a chat here from Jesus Saved Me.
	Hi, Brian.
	Would you ever date me?
	I've never dated anyone.
	I'm 100% pure.
	She's a dog.
	It's so cute.
	It looks like, is this a real person?
	It almost seems like a troll.
	I don't know you, but you'd have to DM me, I guess.
	$100.
	Wow.
	According to Layla, Brian can do no wrong.
	Still want to see Layla and Brian on a real date, not in the studio.
	Thank you, Cool Republic.
	Cool, Rad Bro.
	Is this somebody you know?
	No.
	He's just kind of shipping.
	He seems like a really nice guy.
	He seems like a cool Rad Bro.
	He seems like he's tipping you a lot.
	Let's thank him.
	Thank you for the time.
	I mean, maybe a $100.
	Thank you very much.
	That's very kind of him.
	Very kind.
	Thank you, cool Rad Bro.
	We have a champagne pop option.
	It won't get you.
	He doesn't want to be in the studio.
	He wants us to go on a real date.
	He doesn't want some champagne.
	Silly goosery.
	What's a real date?
	Honestly, truthfully, I don't think I would even, like, jokes aside, I don't think I would actually even do a date in real life.
	Really?
	Like, I honestly, I don't go out like that either.
	I like to stay in.
	Well, that's what I'm kind of talking about, but just because of what I do living in California, living in a super liberal city, like I have, like, I have enemies.
	Yeah, and so I am kind of like, of all my interactions I've had with people in public, 99% of them have been super cool.
	People come up, love the podcast.
	But there are people It's conceivable that I had some chick on the show and her boyfriend.
	Oh, no, he confronted you in person, like he looked for you.
	No, I haven't.
	No, no, no, but I'm saying I'm conceivably, you know, Santa Barbara's a small city.
	I could be out getting a to get food.
	Yeah, that's what you do.
	And then I got fucking random dudes stepping to me.
	We actually had a guy who what who was a guest on the podcast who is like the nicest dude ever, but he's sitting next to me.
	So I guess it's guilt by association.
	You okay?
	Do you need more attention?
	No, just like Sody Christian.
	Okay, but please continue.
	So, okay, he, what's it called?
	No, he was at a bar or nightclub, and some dudes like confronted him about the whatever podcast.
	Really, they recognize that.
	And he's the nicest fucking guy.
	He's never.
	They were like pissed.
	He's like very kind.
	He's never said a mean thing to any of the girls on the show, but they were like, you've been on the podcast.
	And they stepped.
	They wanted to fight him.
	So there's like.
	You are disrespectful, though.
	I don't think you've ever made me genuinely feel disrespected.
	I mean, I have my moments where I'm not.
	I mean, but I do too.
	And I think that's like battering, but I genuinely don't think that you would ever want to intentionally hurt someone's feelings like that.
	But here's the thing, right?
	Not only when it comes to the dating stuff, but I've had on like conservative speaking guests, Michael Knowles, I've had on Mary Morgan, I've had on Candace Owens, I've had on like I also feel like they don't ever intentionally like dig at a woman.
	I feel like they say that.
	No, it's not about that, but just by association, because I associate with conservative political figures living in Santa Barbara, living in California, which is a very liberal area, there are people that, like, if I was in the wrong place wrong time, oh, that's the conservative.
	Have you ever been told that?
	Like, have you ever had someone come up to you and be like, I don't like you?
	Like, I can't believe you say those things online, and you're okay with that?
	Truthfully, actually, in person, like 99% of people have been super cool.
	Super cool.
	Hey, Brian, love the podcast.
	Can I get a photo?
	Can I, whatever it may be.
	Super cool.
	However, like, it's more just a risk management thing where based on where I live, based on.
	And you're at Santa Barbara is small.
	Yeah, sorry.
	Yeah, like I do have to be cautious about.
	I do like have additional security concerns.
	Well, you know, like In-N-Out has like that one thing that you can, what is it called?
	Like when you order for the car and they give you like a tray?
	Drive-through?
	No, Like you can order it.
	They'll be like, are you getting in your car?
	And if you say yes, they'll give you a tray just for you to hold in your lap.
	It's like made so you can eat it in your car.
	Well, anyways, what I was just basically getting at is I'm like, aside from the fact that I'm introverted and a bit of a homebody and I don't.
	So on top of that, I do have genuine security concerns.
	Now, you mentioned, well, in person.
	In person, everyone's been cool, but I've definitely had threatening messages and shit.
	But you've never had someone in person be like, you're a fucking piece of poop.
	Actually, like, no, nobody's ever come up in person.
	But no, I get what you're saying.
	I do have genuine conversations.
	So, like, I actually don't really, I don't really, like, put myself in potentially troubling situations, especially at night.
	Of course.
	I think that's how most people should.
	Well, I've always kind of been, like, I don't go to the bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't party at all.
	I don't either.
	But definitely, I can definitely see if I was like doing my show and going out clubbing and partying.
	Or if you're in real life, like doing this, like people would definitely be like, Yeah, well, actually, like Madison has gone out to like film some shit in like the party area, whatever, like downtown, the bars, clubs, and then the street parties, the college parties, and stuff.
	Like, if I went out and did that, like, I would probably need security.
	I forget that this is a college town.
	I forget that.
	So you probably have a lot of liberal.
	Yeah, if I went out to film an on-the-street video, I would need security.
	Do you think you would ever do it in LA?
	Like, not Santa Barbara?
	LA would probably be worse.
	I think, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Much worse.
	I feel like college kids would come up.
	Look, but I kind of, I mean, look, it is what it is.
	I'm in a very liberal area.
	Probably lean a bit more conservative, and I have on super conservative guests, so there is a bit of risk management that we have to do.
	So, so yeah, if we're going on a date, it's not gonna be in public.
	That's fine.
	We can go.
	But we're not going on a date anyways.
	Okay, well, we'll see.
	I think Chat really wants us to go, but okay.
	Okay, is this a new one?
	Can you read this one, Layla?
	Ask every woman on the panel knows every woman all cheats, so ask.
	Ask all Panala.
	And I am wrong.
	I think they're asking, Do every woman cheat?
	Every woman?
	Who hurt you?
	Oh, she came at you, Tiffany.
	Tiffany, coming in.
	Who hurt you, Puffy Vegas?
	Answer, Tiffany.
	Yeah.
	Wait, Tiffany.
	You're Tiffany.
	See, Tiffany has been hiding her power level this entire Tiffany is like the most based, conservative, and she has some really hot takes, but I'm just waiting for her to like reveal her.
	But she's also a nice person, so I like that.
	I have no relationship experience, so I have nothing to add to this conversation.
	No.
	Also, your skin is amazing.
	You do have.
	Oh, MG.
	Yes.
	I need you to unveil your.
	Oh, my God.
	Wait.
	Do you want to play my content?
	We could play that one TikTok.
	Wait, what's the content?
	Come on.
	Do you like anime videos?
	Wait.
	Put it a little lower.
	A little lower.
	You just have a big head.
	No, I mean you too.
	Hold on.
	Like this?
	No, it looks perfect.
	Yeah, it's good.
	All right.
	Oh, that's good.
	All right.
	Oh, wait, it looks good on camera.
	You look so much like Goku right now.
	What's that?
	Goku?
	You don't know Goku?
	Dragon Ball Z?
	Do you know Dragon Ball Z?
	No.
	Do you watch any anime?
	Wow.
	I've watched Naruto.
	That's it.
	Wow.
	That's like the one I haven't seen.
	I've heard of it.
	You can sense like Jiu-Jitsu Kaiser and like that shit.
	Yes.
	I'm so glad you know that it is.
	It's okay.
	We can play it.
	Do you like anime?
	No, not really.
	I do.
	I'm an anime camera.
	Here and there, like, I watched 10 years ago, I watched Attack on Titan or something.
	Oh, I'm watching that now.
	Don't spoil anything.
	I just got to season two.
	And then I watched, like, during the COVID thing.
	Oh, shit, I missed it.
	I watched the other seasons of it, but otherwise, I don't know.
	Anime's cool, but I'm not like a week.
	I've been cheating on it.
	I put them on.
	You've seen Game of Thrones, though.
	What's that?
	Game of Thrones.
	Well, yeah, that's not an anime, though.
	That's the best show ever.
	Have you seen House of Dragons?
	I don't think it's better.
	I don't think it's better.
	I think Game of Thrones was just way too good.
	I don't think it's going to be topped anytime.
	Well, I think if you looked at the earlier, I think House of Dragons is.
	There's a lot of incest in it.
	I never watched it.
	I think it just grabbed your attention quicker because I never finished Game of Thrones, so I actually am not the best person to say that.
	But the House of Dragons, like, made me, the first episode was so just fast.
	I actually never heard of it.
	I actually threw it really quick.
	I thought it took me until like the third or fourth episode to like really fully get into House of Dragons.
	I think that House of Dragons kind of, the earlier Game of Thrones, I think the first four seasons, it delved much more into the political maneuvering, which kind of was lost in the later seasons of Game of Thrones, Game of Thrones, and there's all this political movement.
	And then come the fifth season, it was just like, okay, let's do a bunch of action scenes and just like totally destroy like years of plot building and arc building, fucking Jamie, this whole redemption arc, and then at the oh shit, okay, I'm not gonna spoil.
	Not gonna spoil, not gonna spoil.
	Okay, whatever.
	Did you have more with your thing?
	Because, you know, your thing that you wanted to talk about?
	When I was like, is there anything dating related you want to get off your chest?
	And you were.
	Oh no, you only asked her.
	Me and Q didn't even answer.
	Because you were like, well, why?
	Something along the lines of why is it that because we do adult content that we're not deserving or it's harder for us to get married or is that?
	Well, she said, why am I more deserving because I don't do it?
	But were you directing it just at her?
	Did you want the guys here to weigh in on the no?
	It was kind of just, I felt like, I mean, you totally can weigh in, but I just felt like the panel was what?
	Taking a dig at what we do for a living and equating our job to our worthiness of a relationship.
	Sure.
	And I do totally, like, I don't personally agree with you guys' like views and opinions on it, and that's okay.
	But I don't think that it's fair for you to project your opinions on our lifestyle and then like gather information that you perceive to be true.
	And then when we, people actually living that lifestyle, are trying to tell you the truth about it, you shut down what we have to say and tell us that we're just, you know, we don't deserve this because you say so.
	Because what's the truth about the truth?
	What's the truth about it?
	What's the truth about it?
	Right, because I specifically remember you saying, what makes me more deserving of, because you said I don't get the respect from the men I mentioned, right?
	So I just used you because you were the one talking about like how you were getting cheated on and dealing with the.
	I answered that question for you.
	So the reason why I, yeah, you might think I didn't get respect in that situation, but either way, all of those men respect me for the simple fact that I don't put my body online.
	They respected you enough to cheat on you?
	That's a whole other situation.
	The reason he cheated is because he was sick in the head.
	That's very clear that he doesn't respect you.
	I'm not saying that you don't deserve that respect.
	Yeah, not because I'm not.
	Yeah, but we also deserve respect as human beings.
	I think the key is to find a man.
	So you think just because you're buying a bunch of people, you don't think you're being cheated on?
	No, I think the key is to find a man who doesn't base how he respects you based on what you did in your past or what you do for work.
	I think your man should base how he respects you based on how you treat him and the relationship that you guys have together.
	Well, I got a lot of men who don't want their body going out and hooking up with a bunch of other dudes is treating you.
	People's jobs don't matter.
	I'm not sure with a bunch of other dudes.
	It's worse.
	We're going to session.
	By the way, people's occupation that they do every single day doesn't matter to the person that wants to spend the rest of their life together.
	No, I don't think.
	I think that when you're looking to date, when you're looking to date and the person you're looking to date happens to be a sex worker, like you have no right to have an opinion on what they do for work and continue seeing them.
	I mean, you know?
	They wouldn't want to continue seeing you.
	They just want to fuck you and then.
	I love just fucking and being good.
	I know, that's cool.
	That's cool.
	And that's why it works out good.
	I know.
	That's why I had to get in line.
	Okay, so I'm going to have me and Q come in on this.
	Okay.
	So you're, well, first I just have a question for the three girls here who do adult content.
	So do you think after, and some of you have been in it from fairly young, but do you think your romantic prospects are better now that you do adult content?
	Or do you think they're worse?
	I actually love...
	Sorry.
	I'm so sorry, Nick.
	He's going to start screaming at me.
	But I actually, the relationships I have now that I've had ever since I quit porn or whatever, I was only in there for like two months, but I genuinely love them so much better than when I thank the relationships I had before I did porn.
	And that's just me.
	But yeah, I mean, I guess it was good for me in a way.
	Yeah, I think doing porn for me, because like I'm a very like sexual person, I love sensations, I'm very like curious about like new experiences in life, and like I'm very like horny.
	So I think that me doing porn really weeds out a lot of the people that like wouldn't be compatible with me simply because I do what I do.
	Thank you, Avycheck.
	And I don't appreciate a partner who is going to judge and like treat other people meanly based on what other people do in their own lives.
	Okay, so dating prospects better.
	What about for you?
	I think my approach to dating is a lot better.
	Yes, I agree with you.
	That's not the question.
	Okay, but let me get to my point.
	But I agree with you guys that it is most likely, and if not indeed, much slimmer selection of people that I are wanting to be with me because of my profession, but because of my job, I have a lot firmer boundaries and an understanding of what I'm looking for in a partnership.
	And I have a clear vision of dating and my expectations with that.
	And I think that that helps me when I'm talking to potential people to be in relationships with because I know what I'm looking for and I can clearly communicate my boundaries, my feelings, my thought, what I'm looking for.
	And most people can't do that.
	I think also like sexual, our sexuality not being tethered to who we're dating is very empowering and like frees up a lot of mental space to feel like needed or like sexually good in a relationship.
	Okay.
	I just don't understand the psyche.
	Yeah, I don't understand how like, so right, we've kind of came to the agreement that most men don't want to date porn stars.
	So you have a whole big group of men.
	Now if all of these ones don't want to date porn stars, you're going to get the bottom barrel men.
	No, you're dating.
	No one's saying it's a bottom barrel.
	It's just the smaller portion of the women that are okay with it.
	I don't think it's okay to call anyone the bottom of the barrel.
	I think all humans are humans.
	And like, if I like one of them you don't like, that's okay, but you shouldn't say that they're the bottom of the worst people.
	Just because they like me.
	Sorry, just because someone likes me doesn't mean that they're okay, we don't need to relitigate her choice of words when it came to the bottle of the barrel thing.
	So is your kind of position that like do you object to guys not wanting to date you because of your work?
	I don't think, I think most, at least I would hope most women who are in the adult entertainment industry have some degree of self-awareness and it's like, yeah, there are going to be men that aren't going to want to date me because of the type of work I do.
	Yeah, no, I'm absolutely aware of that.
	I was aware of that before getting into the industry that that would be a result of what I do for a living.
	But like she just said, most men don't want to date me because of what I do for work.
	But even before I did porn, I didn't want to date most men.
	Most men that are out there are not up to my expectations.
	Well, what are your expectations?
	Yeah, let's hear that.
	Well, like I was saying earlier, I'm a person, and just because you guys don't respect me, I would never want to date you guys because you don't have basic respect for other human beings.
	I would want someone that can view someone and respect them despite what they do for a living or despite what other people think about them.
	Is it disrespectful to not want to pursue something romantically or sexually with someone who's engaged in sex work?
	No, absolutely not, but I think it's disrespectful to project eternal loneliness and damnation on that person because of what they do.
	I don't think anybody here, at least not me, Maybe somebody else at the table might have said something a bit more cold.
	Oh yeah, definitely.
	I think that calling our dating pool the bottom of the barrel is definitely eternally lonely.
	That was me, and I'll still stand by it.
	Yeah, I think that's.
	I mean, it's just statistically correct because when we talk about how men don't want to date a porn star, that already just lowers your chances of the men that want to marry you.
	But would they fuck us?
	Anybody would want to fuck you.
	Because men would just fuck anybody.
	I think that's where the resentment comes from.
	But also, like, we are also unbothered because any man would fuck me too.
	Just like how any man would want to fuck you.
	You'd fuck me better.
	They fucked you better.
	No, say it again.
	Say it again.
	No, I think I fuck back.
	You what?
	I think I fucked back.
	Do I say this?
	This is the only good thing about.
	You want to meddle with me?
	Everything that comes out of your mouth is just about sex.
	So no man is going to respect.
	Everything that comes out of your mouth is just judgmental.
	What did I just say that was judgmental?
	Everything.
	Edgar said everything.
	Why are you getting so mad?
	I want to make a point instead of a generalization and tell her what she actually said.
	That was wrong.
	These statistics are generalizations.
	They aren't.
	They're facts.
	Have you seen that?
	We are literally a generalization.
	And like, we are not generalizations.
	By the two men right here.
	We are, though, because we're literally just statistics.
	No, we are not generalizations.
	We are the individuals.
	The statistic is at the table.
	These two men right here have just said they would never date a porn star.
	There you go.
	Now take that and apply it to the rest of the men in the world that they are not going to also want to date a porn star.
	That's my girlfriend.
	Your porn star is probably fucking other girls.
	Again, and they probably are never going to marry you.
	That's our job.
	And I 99% likely to never marry you.
	He loves me, girl.
	He respects me.
	He does.
	Wait, but what did you say about that?
	Okay, sudden you and marrying you are different.
	And if it is something better, it's like fucking money.
	No one's going to marry me.
	Why?
	Speaking to the mic.
	This is better because I fucked that dick back.
	But you'll never get the ring.
	Girl, I already got the ring.
	Where is it?
	She's literally at.
	Where's it at?
	Where is it at?
	We were just talking about this.
	Hold on, stop, stop.
	Colorado native here, not addicted to drugs.
	Leave this degeneracy and experience real loyalty low.
	Doctor 2's BTW.
	Yo, TJ, thank you, man.
	Sydney, oh, Dubrow, you said.
	Is she saying the girl from Colorado?
	Is that what she's saying?
	Bro, why do people send TTSs when the fucking person wants to swear?
	I know.
	I was like, oh.
	All right, TJ, we'll fucking pull it up again.
	Please don't send TTSs directed at the person if they've.
	They're probably typing it and then they get up.
	Alright, just try to...
	Okay, whatever.
	Yeah, I really don't mean to.
	Thank you, TJ.
	Yeah, imagine he's like, fuck.
	I know, he's like, we're on my channel.
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	I mean, just my reaction really quick is just like, look, you're free to do porn, but I think you got to understand that I'm not.
	My personal view is I don't think it's impossible for a girl who's been involved in that kind of industry to get a guy to get married.
	It's clear.
	It's not about change.
	It's not about change.
	it's just like that's your history you don't think it's well i think a woman can become a better version of herself even if they went through a lot of stuff yeah What about women who've been like sex trafficked and stuff?
	They can be compared at all.
	No, actually, that is deeply in the middle.
	We're not.
	Okay, but it's just like, don't judge people who've had a lot of sex.
	Some people, like, I didn't even know what I was getting into when I read it.
	Well, actually, no, I will judge people who have had a lot of sex.
	Okay.
	In the same way that women judge men for a vast list of criteria when it comes to selecting them to potentially be a romantic partner, men are also allowed to have preferences, standards, and boundaries.
	But I'm not saying men versus women.
	Well, I wouldn't know, but it's like there's always this like, oh, I don't know.
	But it's always this, hold on.
	It's always this thing with like, oh, why are men so judgmental about body count or women who do this or who do that?
	Y'all are super fucking judgmental about a myriad of things that matter to you, like a guy's height, a guy's success.
	There's a guy's penis size.
	There's a million fucking things that y'all care about.
	I guess that's God.
	And that's for you, that's preferences.
	But if a man has a preference, that's discrimination.
	That's judgment.
	That's somehow wrong.
	Okay.
	So anything that comes to the detriment of women when it comes to the dynamics between men and women, if a man has a preference, that's frowned upon.
	And I think it's imperative to understand.
	Sitting here listening to y'all, y'all have a very deontological view.
	What that means is y'all view shit as right or wrong, fair, unfair.
	And the reality is, men have a value system.
	We have things that we want our women to do.
	We have things that we want our women, we don't want them to do, and things that we're naturally attracted to.
	Our brains work in a way to where certain things trigger us.
	It triggers our disgust factor sexually.
	And the thought of a woman being ramrodded by a whole bunch of dudes, sucking a whole bunch of dicks, taking come on the face, all kinds of shit, that's not something that we take pride in knowing that our woman does.
	That's not something that we're attracting.
	But what I'm saying, it's not a personal opinion because if I run a survey right now, I can find thousands of dudes who feel the same way, and I'll find more men who feel the way I feel than men who don't.
	So the majority don't exist.
	But that's what he's saying.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	What I'm saying is I'm painting a picture of what's normal and what's abnormal.
	Being a porn star is morally reprehensible.
	That's why you're getting all this criticism and judgment.
	Why are you shaking?
	And at the end of the day, at the end of the day, at the end of the day, if you're going to do something, people are going to judge you for it.
	People are going to criticize you for it.
	So to think you should live in a world where you won't receive any criticism or judgment, you're not being realistic.
	I never said I wouldn't receive criticism.
	Like, I would judge a man if he hasn't had enough sex.
	But you're sitting here saying, you don't.
	You're sitting here saying very judgmental.
	And you kept highlighting that.
	You're being very judgmental.
	You're being mean about it.
	But I wouldn't be mean towards him.
	I just asked him.
	No, I'm talking about talking to the girls on the panel.
	You keep hinting at being judgmental.
	That tells me.
	Because they are judgmental.
	Exactly.
	But that's reality.
	That's what comes with the territory.
	And I can't call them out on that.
	Go ahead.
	Ken, but that's not going to change it because you're essentially doing what they're doing.
	Y'all just virtual signaling back and forth.
	You're literally just like narrating this whole podcast and what it's about.
	You can't understand.
	You cannot seem to grasp it.
	You're doing nothing but virtue signaling back and forth.
	Oh, don't judge me.
	What about you?
	It's the same thing.
	You're engaging in the same thing.
	And what I'm saying is anything that you choose to do, you have to deal with the consequences of your actions.
	You're not going to agree with everything.
	I'm not going to do it.
	I'm not going to be a consequences, but I think that you guys just have a fundamental opinion in what is like a fundamentally different opinion in what is morally right and wrong than what I have in my life.
	And I feel like you guys personally attack me for the way that I live my life.
	Okay, but you just want to say that.
	But there's a consensus.
	But we can't.
	Okay, we can move.
	I don't think there's a consensus.
	It doesn't matter.
	There is a consensus.
	But not the whole thing.
	No, there's a consensus.
	There's a consensus.
	Yes, there is.
	Just saying you have a lot of sex, but then you're over here saying, oh, I'm not going to be with someone who doesn't have a lot of sex.
	Yeah, it's my literally the same thing.
	And there's a kind of a mess.
	I see how much your husband or your boyfriend makes because I'm sorry?
	How much do you make?
	That's none of your business.
	Don't ask me.
	I asked you how much does your husband make?
	How much does your husband make?
	Oh, my boyfriend makes enough.
	How much?
	My boyfriend makes definitely well over six figures.
	But how much?
	That's none of your business.
	Then don't ask me.
	Okay, but you're over here talking about how you are not judging anything, but if a man did not make six figures, you probably wouldn't be with him.
	Yeah, that's correct.
	No, that is.
	Thank you.
	I never knew that.
	That's my point.
	Thank you.
	Do you have a preference too?
	I never said I didn't have a preference.
	So why are you living?
	I'm not going to be mean towards someone about my family.
	I don't know that nobody is going to judge you.
	Like, do you not realize that being a porn star is not the normality today?
	But do you realize that I judge you for the way that you speak to me?
	But I can judge you for the way you're speaking to me, too.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	That's what I'm saying to you.
	So what's your point?
	My point is that I think fundamentally you guys fundamentally means.
	Yes.
	And that was mean.
	That shows your character more than it shows mine.
	Fundamentally, let me speak.
	Don't cut me off.
	Nobody cut you off.
	You did.
	Fundamentally, and you made fun of me.
	Fundamentally, I think that people on this panel have a different opinion on what morally correct means than me.
	Okay, hold on.
	Let me come in really quick.
	Let's try to move away from the discussion of, like, it's veered a little bit away from dating.
	Yes, there's a dispute about what's morally correct.
	However, if I can try to stick it to what we're, I think the central thing about this conversation is our position is that if you are engaged in creating this kind of adult content, there are going to be men, perhaps a majority of men, that are going to find that unsuitable in a partner and would not pursue you for long-term serious relationship and or marriage.
	So we can have a discussion about, well, what's moral and what's not, but ultimately, bringing it back to dating, men do not want to get involved with, generally speaking, I would say most men do not want to get involved with women who are engaged in sex work.
	No, I agree.
	And I'm saying I don't want to get involved with those men either.
	Cool.
	And then, but I do want to address one of the points you made.
	And you said that you judge men who are sexually inexperienced.
	Yeah.
	So men who are.
	Well, saying that, like, I wouldn't pick those men.
	Right, but do you think it's wrong for men to not want to date women who are promiscuous or who have a high body or who engage?
	But I think the key difference, though, is, and I would say it's kind of the norm if women would not want to date a guy who's sexually experienced.
	However, when a guy doesn't want to date a woman who is sexually experienced and proxy for promiscuity, proxy for high body count, proxy for doing adult content, that's somehow wrong that we have a preference when it comes to the, when it comes to something that you have that's in your control.
	However, men will, or excuse me, women will disqualify men who can't get laid, who have difficulty developing relationships with women, which to some degree is outside of their control.
	So you said you don't like men who they lack sexual experience, but that's outside, that's kind of out of their control to some degree.
	Whereas if you have a lot of sexual experience, that's 100% in your control.
	So I would argue it's less fair to judge a man based on that than to judge a woman based on her promiscuity or her body count.
	I don't agree with that because I want the man who is confident enough to go out and be sexually promiscuous and learn about his body and learn what he likes and dislikes.
	I don't want to be the person that he learns about himself through.
	I want to come together and already know.
	Wait, so you want a guy who's promiscuous or well yeah, I want a guy that is like sexually there that's not like sectionally sexually inadequate.
	Okay.
	Like I enjoy sex.
	I'm very horny and like I want a man that like is the same way.
	Okay.
	So if he gave you all of that, you still wouldn't be loyal to him though.
	But again, our definitions of loyalty are different because like the way I view sex for work, I think that's just work.
	You do realize that you have more sexual experience than over one person.
	Yeah, I have over 100 bodies.
	That's how you date porn stars.
	Yeah.
	That's why you date porn stars.
	That's what you said?
	Yeah.
	So your only pool of dating is other porn stars.
	I've never dated a porn star.
	That's my preferred pool of dating.
	But also, like, my boyfriend, I met him on Tinder.
	Like, we were friends for two years before we started dating, and I approached him.
	Look, when it comes to dating, right, you got to understand that working in the sex industry is still a scarlet letter and always will be to a self-respecting man.
	Well, do you know what a scarlet letter is?
	Do you know what a self-respecting man is?
	Exactly.
	I was asking an actual question.
	Because that's a movie.
	And a book.
	Anyways, I don't even think they're pushing back all that much on the whole realizing that because you're engaged in this kind of stuff, that you are narrowing your pool of potential partners because there are just some men that would not want to pursue you for a romantic or sexual relationship.
	So, yeah, I don't know.
	But, and look, there's women.
	See, there's women who there's definitely a lot of women that don't want to date me because I'm doing this dating podcast.
	I have some hot takes.
	Like, it is what it is.
	I'm not upset about it.
	It just, it is what it is.
	But there's also women that would love to date you.
	There's cheeks.
	There's also women that would love to date you.
	Why are you gesturing at Layla?
	Wait, what?
	Sorry.
	Oh, he just said there were women because of this podcast that would not love to date him.
	Yes, there are.
	Trust me, I get the DMs.
	There are definitely some women that do not.
	Maybe they secretly do.
	I don't know, but there are definitely some DMs.
	I'd say it benefits me.
	Because a lot of the women who disagree with me end up liking me.
	But I feel like you're a little, like I come in sometimes with some ridiculous shit, tapes, you know?
	And you're a little more level-headed, I think.
	What is because having conversations like this, you know, studying psychology, you try to understand why people do what they do as opposed to taking a moral stance on what they do.
	Like, I have clients, so I have to understand them objectively as opposed to telling them, you know, this is good, bad, when it's more healthy, unhealthy, and how effective is this going to be in getting what you want?
	So do you have porn star clients?
	I don't respect that.
	I've never had a porn star client.
	I definitely respect that mindset, though.
	Like, completely.
	Like, that's what I'm saying.
	Can you show this one?
	I don't understand before judging.
	That's all.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I assume that it's a little TOS.
	Sorry, no, Bunaga.
	We can't.
	Wait, what?
	Was there something going on here?
	Here, let me do some chats.
	Layla, can you read this?
	Of course.
	Don't talk ish about Puffy Vegas.
	He's our autistic mascot.
	He may type in a second grade level, but he's got legendary lore.
	Probably.
	He is a legend.
	Yeah, that was a fan.
	Thank you, Ryan, the Eating Warrior.
	Molly has a point.
	There's a difference between not meeting someone's preferences and openly making someone feel bad because they don't meet your preferences.
	I agree with you.
	Wolf Gangpack 3102.
	Oh, hi!
	I know you.
	I love you.
	Hi.
	Is he one of your fans?
	He worships my pussy.
	He worships your porn.
	Oh, that explains the comedy.
	Donation.
	Thank you for the donation, Wolfgang Pack.
	What was the thing you whispered to me earlier, Madison, about Molly?
	I brought it up, but I forgot what you said.
	I don't know what it is.
	Wait, what?
	Okay.
	It smells so good.
	Do you smell that food?
	You don't?
	It smells like quesadillas and kitas.
	Do you need some attention?
	You want a little attention right now?
	How's your day going, Layla?
	You doing okay?
	It was a good day.
	How's your shoot?
	Did you do shoot today?
	No.
	Is there a shoot?
	No shoot?
	Molly shoot.
	Is there a shoot?
	Well, I'm doing my first feature dance on the 5th in New York at Sapphire's.
	You should come see me.
	Future.
	Future dance?
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Any shoots today?
	Did you do shoots?
	No.
	Okay.
	Well, and in response to wolfing wolfing, everyone's meeting someone's presence.
	Well, I mean, obviously, when you've been invited onto a dating podcast where we have heated discussions about a myriad of dating-related topics, like people are going to voice their stances and opinions, and that's actually encouraged.
	But I'm not, like, messaging porn stars on Instagram in my private time, being like, you are the downfall of society.
	No, it's like, okay, do your thing.
	I'm not, like, actually, a lot of people message me, though, and they go out of their way privately on Instagram to voice their displeasure with my podcast.
	And then I have a lot of supporters, too.
	I didn't know that people had a disagreement with your stuff until I went on your podcast and people were like, why would you go on there?
	Like, he's so mean.
	And I was like, no, he was actually super respectful the entire time.
	For the most part.
	Sometimes I'm.
	I think you're sweet.
	No, I was pleasantly surprised.
	You have a good heart.
	Yeah, okay.
	All right.
	Yeah.
	Let's see.
	Let me get a couple chats in here.
	Kelly, can you read this one?
	I don't know why I'm making you discuss it.
	I can't see.
	I don't have my glasses.
	For those panel members who do or not have- Not Nick, Nick, Nick, Nick.
	What?
	What, Nick?
	Nick.
	What?
	Look, Nick, for those...
	You've got to switch the camera angle.
	For those panel members who do or have done, wait, it went away.
	Adult content.
	What do you reserve for those you are in sincere relationship based on traditional love?
	That's a good question.
	What do you reserve?
	Okay.
	What do you reserve for those you are in a sincere relationship based on traditional love?
	Oh, I'm so sorry.
	I said for those who do not.
	Um, okay, what do you reserve for those who do not?
	Can you speak straight into the next please?
	Um, I'm so sorry.
	What do I reserve?
	Uh, no, I pretty much understand it.
	I reserve, I think any guy who's dated me or ones that are dating me openly right now can say, like, I'm a really good girlfriend.
	Like, I genuinely care.
	Like, I always flew to Miami when Zerka, like, threw out his arm, like, that, like, actually scared me.
	I almost flew out there.
	Like, I felt like terrible that I couldn't take care of him.
	Like, I'll cook you all three days.
	I'll cook you every meal of the day.
	Like, I'll do the chores.
	Like, I do everything.
	Like, yeah, I want to fuck.
	Like, I only did porn for two months.
	Like, I love my men.
	Like, I treat them well.
	I think that's what I reserve for them.
	But it's okay if you don't agree.
	You seem like you don't with your little, you know.
	Like, okay, I know you're like the whole act thing, but so if you and me were still dating, you would be involved with other men.
	I mean, I think that the way me and like, for example, the way me and Zirka date, like, he does whatever he needs for, like, we're both content creators.
	Like, we kind of, like, you know, it's kind of how you play the game.
	But I also think, like, when I, when we were first starting to date, like, and he was here in LA, like, I wasn't fucking any other guy.
	I was only, and I said that last time.
	I said, no, whenever I was fucking Zirka, I was only fucking him when he was in LA.
	And then he went to Miami.
	In the past two weeks, youth.
	But he's in Miami right now, right?
	Remember, I said that last time, too.
	I said he's not.
	What does that have to do with anything?
	Because we are not good when he's in Miami.
	We don't do it like that.
	So it's okay.
	And I'm okay with that.
	I'm okay with us being together when he's in LA and he's in Miami.
	Yeah, so when you're in a relationship, when it comes to what you reserve for those you're in a relationship for, it's not monogamy.
	No, I do think eventually, yes, but right now, no.
	I think I reserve the way I take care of that person because I give them a lot of love when I do love someone.
	Do you?
	I do.
	Or are you quarrelsome in a relationship?
	No, I'm so sorry.
	I saw you sound so stupid, but can you define that?
	Quarrelsome, like somebody who's likes to quarrel, argue, combat somebody.
	No, and I know you think that, but honestly, like, me and Zirka argue because we're very alike, but no, I'm not combative.
	I'm very, like, okay, like, I'm like the same way.
	Like, I want to understand why you think that.
	Let me put myself in your shoes because if you love me enough to bring it up to me, then, like, let me understand why it's upsetting you.
	Okay.
	What do you reserve for those in a sincere for those in a relationship?
	I mean, I kind of agree with Layla.
	Like, I don't really reserve anything like sexually because I think that's really weird.
	Like, a really weird and perverted way to look at me and like the relationship.
	How is that perverted?
	Like, what do you reserve for your boyfriend?
	Like, oh, he can only do, like, I only reserve anal for him.
	Like, that's weird.
	Why not?
	But isn't your boyfriend supposed to be like really one of the most important people to you?
	Yeah, and if he is, why wouldn't he want to have all of you?
	Why wouldn't you want him to have like what?
	He does have all of me.
	No, he doesn't because you pop your pussy open for other men.
	What the?
	Just because I pop my pussy open for other men, aka work.
	Go to work.
	You can still have all of you.
	That's work.
	It is work.
	How does corporation so hard to lay on your back?
	Question: When you clock in, is that the first P in the V insertion?
	I don't clock in.
	There's no clock.
	There's a caulking in.
	I cock in.
	She's for sure.
	She doesn't clock in.
	She cocks in.
	She wins.
	Cock goes in.
	And that's and then caulk out.
	That's you.
	That's her.
	That's your time card.
	I mean, no, if you want to be serious about it, like most of the time, like call time is like at 9 a.m. And then that's like hair and makeup when we do like photo shoot.
	Yeah.
	But no, like I don't reserve anything.
	So like is it perverted when other people reserve sex just for their relationship?
	Is that what you're saying when it's perverted when people reserve stuff for just relationships?
	No, because that's a relationship.
	But like, again, you're oversexualizing my job, which doesn't mean what you're supposed to do.
	Oversexualizing having sex for work.
	It's porn, yeah.
	That's what you're supposed to say.
	But when you're talking about like the real world and like taking the region looking at my real life, do you not realize that?
	You're not even letting me talk.
	You're just judging.
	Like all that's coming out of saying I'm responding to what you say.
	Please just let me talk, okay?
	Are you mad?
	You're really annoying me.
	Yeah.
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	So basically, I can keep annoying you.
	I would like to just answer the question rather than be berated with your harsh judgment.
	No, that has hard merit.
	I've been harsh to you this whole time.
	I've just been speaking to you.
	My point is, and you're talking over me.
	My point is that there's nothing that I reserve physically for my boyfriend because I think that's stupid.
	And she said we over-sexualize her job, everybody, so I guess we over-sexualize doing porn for her.
	I would love to hear it.
	Sorry for yourself.
	So, yes, oh my god, we lay on our back and we have sex.
	But if we're talking about being in a relationship with someone, obviously my intimacy is reserved to them.
	So the person that I'm spending my time with, the person that I'm cooking for, having dinner with, spending leisurely time with, watching movies, doing the intimate things, obviously those things are reserved to whoever my partner would be.
	That was beautiful.
	Thanks.
	It was an interesting question.
	I do.
	Jay Butler asked me to do this.
	Me and Jay Butler.
	I don't know if he's still watching Jay Butler.
	You still watching?
	He is a friend of mine.
	He's a medical student, and one time he saved me from a swarm of jellyfish while we were out surfing.
	And Jay Butler asked me to pass this to one of the girls who are in the adult content industry.
	Could one of you wear this Ash Katch'em Pokemon hat?
	It was like touching the horse.
	Maybe Molly can wear it.
	Oh, it looks good.
	Oh my god, I love it.
	It's still anime.
	So what's the tagline for Pokemon?
	Gotta catch them all.
	Every time you're about to catch me, I did the VR scene where I was on Iona, the Pokemon trainer.
	Gotta catch them.
	This is so cool.
	It was really cute.
	You should redo.
	Has there been like a Pokemon-themed adult video problem?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	No, I mean, like, I was Iono, like, the Pokemon trainer.
	Oh, and VR.
	Guy to catch 'em all.
	Talking about STDs or all the come.
	Oh, gotta catch them.
	Gotta catch them all.
	All the talks.
	That is haram.
	Okay.
	All right, folks.
	This guy and his name's a Pokemon name.
	Tiffany, moving to you.
	Is there anything dating related you'd like to talk about or get off your chest?
	Not really.
	Zilch?
	No.
	Okay, well, I'll try to ask you some questions here.
	Tiffany, should we take the hats off?
	I feel like it's getting the way it's going to be.
	Tiffany, do you want to take the hat off or do you like it?
	I like it.
	I'll take it here.
	Tiffany, I'll be.
	I'll take that.
	You did it.
	You wore it well, Tiffany.
	You wore that.
	You wore that hat.
	look for you actually I think you should go to class and you're That would be a move.
	Okay, so Tiffany, you're pretty.
	You're Christian, right?
	Yes.
	You're waiting till marriage.
	Now, but we've had girls come on the show, like they're virgins, but they say, okay, well, I want to wait for the right guy.
	But it's kind of vague in the sense of like they're not really waiting for marriage, but are you like dead set?
	Even if you meet the right guy, you'll hook up?
	Or no, 100% has to be marriage?
	It doesn't really have to be marriage.
	I just trust in myself, and I feel like the first guy I'm going to date is the person I'm going to marry.
	Okay, so you would have premarital fun.
	Yes.
	But you got to be pretty damn sure.
	Like, you probably got to be in love.
	Right?
	Like, I would have to meet like all of their family.
	Yeah.
	So just meet the family and that's it?
	No.
	She wants to meet the right person.
	Because I can speedrun that shit.
	Okay.
	That's right.
	That's her wrong.
	I can call them right now.
	Let's get the intro.
	Okay, we're good.
	So they got to meet your family.
	Are you, do you have like kind of a traditional family background or what?
	Like, I guess, yeah, I guess Asian people are pretty traditional.
	Are you Chinese?
	No, I'm Korean.
	Korean, okay.
	And mom and dad still together?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Do you have any siblings?
	I have a younger brother.
	Younger bro.
	Okay.
	And so how's the dating life been?
	You've been here at UCSB for two weeks, one week?
	A week, right?
	Yeah, like a week and a half.
	What do you think of the guys so far?
	Have you met any?
	No, I don't like them.
	So you've met some?
	Probably.
	Yeah.
	You don't like them?
	Why is that?
	Have you already had your heart broken by a frat boy at UCSB?
	I'm not a frat boy.
	I'm not attracted to frat boys.
	What do you try?
	What's your type?
	My type?
	Yeah.
	I like emotionally stable guys.
	Emotionally stable guys.
	Have you ever been sexually aroused?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	He's like, wait, did you think she was like asexual?
	I tease women about that.
	I'll be like, oh, you're asexual.
	You know?
	Okay, she's blushing now.
	That was out of the blue.
	I was curious because you said you waiting.
	So we were talking about my type, and then you're talking about.
	I know, but I just wanted to know: have you ever even been tempted?
	What?
	Temptation.
	Yeah, like, have you ever even been tempted?
	That's why I say, have you ever been a sexual person?
	Honestly, do you think I'm not human?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	You do come out.
	It was up in question until that point.
	What?
	I feel like you do come out like you're so powerful and it comes out.
	It's like perfect time.
	Oh, thank you.
	That's almost like borderline offensive.
	No, not because of her porn stuff.
	Just because she's a girl.
	Yeah, I was going to say, I'm not gay.
	Like, what the fuck?
	You're so funny.
	And she's like, I'm not gay.
	What the fuck?
	My bad.
	Why do you.
	What was the incident, I guess, that caused you to already not like the guys at UCSP?
	Like you go on a date or something, you met him at a party, what?
	I hate dates.
	You hate dates?
	No, she's not just like you burying.
	She's supposed to stay at home.
	Are you like, you want a guy to just come over and watch Netflix and like watch?
	No, I like being friends first.
	That's terrible.
	That's awesome.
	No, I love that.
	I think that's terrible.
	Dude, that's a good way to get to know you guys.
	I was friends with my boyfriend for two years.
	Wow, that's true.
	Before we started dating.
	And we met on Tinder.
	Oh, you want to marry a best friend, right?
	Well, this thought occurred to me.
	So you have a subset of women who say, I want to be friends first, right?
	But then you also hear women who say that they get mad at the men who are their friends for trying to make a move and ruining the friendship.
	So you have like, I don't know if it's two different groups of women or it's just like, but you do have women who say, I want to start off as friends.
	But I do think some of those same women will also be frustrated when there's men who are her friends start making a move.
	So men are listening to your advice saying, oh, like women will say, oh, we got to start as friends.
	Got to be friends first.
	Then maybe.
	And then when your friends, your male friends, make a move, all of a sudden you get offended.
	So it's like, but you've instructed the men to be your friends first instead of just being upfront with their intentions.
	Me personally, I think it should be romantic from the start.
	There should not be like a friendship period transit.
	Like it should be romantic from the start or nothing.
	That friendship forms later on, like once you start spending that time with that person.
	I agree with that.
	Exactly.
	I agree with that.
	That's how you unlock my friendship.
	Maybe like friendship with a romantic hue.
	Romantic.
	What?
	No, I get what you're saying.
	I don't get it.
	Like flirting?
	Like flirting with a high guy.
	Okay, I get it.
	It's really subtle.
	But would you be upset with this friendship with the romantic hue if you saw that guy flirting with other women, sleeping with other women, dating other women?
	Would you have a problem with that?
	You're just friends, right?
	I would ghost.
	No, you have standards.
	That's good.
	Why would you ghost a friend?
	Shouldn't you be happy for your friend that they are pursuing?
	Well, she wants him to focus on only her, right?
	So all the benefits of a relationship without any of the corresponding, you get his attention, you get his protection, you get his maybe, dude there's girl.
	There are women who have male friends that will pay for their shit.
	It's basically a boyfriend without any of the reciprocated romantic or sexual anything.
	Yeah, actually, I feel like girls just kind of like, if they find a guy like that, the one that are like, the ones that say, that get mad about the guy pursuing it to be a romantic relationship, I think they want to keep the guy around just because they like the attention sometimes.
	And the validation.
	Yeah, emotional support.
	And it makes them feel good.
	They'll keep a guy around for sometimes guys will provide benefits that are just in the friend zone, whether that's attention, whether that's here.
	We had a girl on the show a while back who's like, she had a dude in her phone as Uber.
	She had a dude in her phone as dinner.
	So she'll like go out, hang out with these guys.
	They'll pay for it because, you know, want to be a good friend with the hopes that eventually down the road.
	Elicit a romantic response from her.
	Yeah, it's just like, so it's, yeah, that's a strategy.
	But just generally speaking, I think it should be romantic from the get-go.
	I don't think you should be friends first.
	If you happen to be friends and develop feelings, that's different.
	But certainly if you get friend zoned as a guy.
	It's done.
	Yeah.
	Friends.
	Friends don't exist because of male stupidity.
	Don't be in the friend zone, gentlemen.
	Don't let yourself get friends on.
	Well, you're gonna get friends on, but don't.
	If you don't want to be with me, it was nice to meet you.
	Goodbye.
	Slay.
	Did you have anything else, Tiffany?
	I don't make male friends unless I want to be romantic with them.
	Wait, you don't.
	You don't make male friends.
	But so do you.
	Wait, I have a question though.
	So let's say a guy, let's say a non-frat, emotionally stable college boy steps to you who likes Kanye West also, who has a Kanye tattoo on his buttocks, steps to you and is like, Tiffany.
	I actually don't really like guys who are Kanye fans.
	Who are what?
	Kanye fans.
	Family.
	Wait, but you love Kanye.
	You don't?
	But I feel like opposites attract.
	She's.
	I mean, okay, so the guys who do like Kanye, there's something wrong with them.
	He can't hate Kanye because I hate everyone who hates Kanye.
	So I'm so confused.
	No, just explain.
	I want him to have a neutral point of view of Kanye.
	Do you think that's a good idea?
	But you don't want him to like Kanye.
	Because I'm like head over heels over Kanye, so if he's like me, then that's kind of weird.
	Yeah, like it's your game.
	It's your thing, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So, okay, let's say he steps to you, Tiffany, and he's like cute boy in class, right?
	Walks up to you after class, you're kind of leaving the grassy knoll by the outside of the USEN, the whatever.
	Hey, Tiffany, just oh, fuck, I already found.
	Okay, he's just like, no, Riz.
	No, no, no, I was just thinking it through my head.
	He's just like, hey, Tiffany, listen, just wanted to say, thought you're cute, wanted to see if you'd like to go out sometime.
	What do you say to that?
	Do you say, oh, no.
	Well, if I like someone, I do background research on them.
	Well, okay, but in the moment, this is in person.
	I know.
	Like, I've never seen this guy before.
	No, let's say you're in a class with him and you're kind of like gathering your books after class and he approaches you in an affable sort of way and he's like, hey, what's up, Tiffany?
	What are you doing right now?
	Hey, maybe he's like, hey, you want to go grab coffee really quick before our next class?
	Or just like, hey, just thought you're cute.
	Want to see if you'd like to get some food, grab some coffee sometime.
	Huh?
	I would decline.
	You would decline.
	Yes.
	If they were to be aware of that.
	Assuming he's like attractive and you would decline just based on the riz?
	Yeah, I would still decline.
	Based on what?
	I don't think so.
	I think if he was a really attractive guy, it would be hard to say no for you.
	No.
	So you would decline.
	You're attracted to him, but he approaches you.
	He just says, hey, listen, just saw you in class, thought you were cute.
	Would you like to grab coffee sometime?
	Go grab some food.
	How do you want to be asked?
	I feel like that is like the most fucking polite way.
	I feel like most women, especially.
	He's not polite.
	But would you object to that scenario?
	Um, yes.
	Why?
	You literally just said yes to a question where I'm trying to solicit more understanding, more details.
	I like casual things.
	Like, I don't like.
	What do you mean, casual?
	That's hella casual.
	I don't like formally being asked that.
	These are the different messages that men receive from women.
	You have women who are crying.
	Why don't guys approach in person?
	Let me see.
	Okay, so say you sitting somewhere, you go on campus, cafeteria, something like that, and a guy just comes, sit down, start talking to you.
	Yeah.
	Like that.
	You're probably fine with that.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that's casual.
	Yeah.
	So you want him to just come up to you and just start talking to you?
	That would be almost more awkward.
	More weird because if somebody, some random guy, just came up with, that's not weird.
	No, I think I see what she's saying.
	Like if you're just having lunch on campus and a guy, a cute guy, comes up with like a, some food for you, like I said, I mean he can have, he can have Riz in the process, like seat taken, what you eat, right or you know like, and make it comfortable to where he's just interacting with you and you don't think too much.
	It's almost like an appointment like that I have to commit to.
	I get that, bro.
	This is like men trying to approach women is like literally a fucking tightrope act.
	Every woman wants something different.
	She wouldn't want a guy politely approaching her like granted, I think maybe it's the case, like especially zoomers who are like really young, have actually never encountered a guy doing a cold approach like that, but like I don't know bro, that's okay.
	Um look, I mean, even if you're attracted to him, the scenario I painted, that's just immediately a no-go.
	You mean attracted just physically yeah yeah, it's a no-go if a guy comes up to you okay, so what's the ideal scenario for you to meet a guy said, like cafeteria cafeteria, but don't you feel like, if a guy is coming up to you by yourself at the cafeteria, he's obviously gonna try to want to ask you out, because I know no guy, like no guy's about to come up to a random girl just to be friends with them.
	She she well, I will say she wants foreplay, she wants conversational foreplay.
	She doesn't want a guy to be instantly, which I mean, to me it's like what's the difference?
	But there is no.
	Yeah, she wants the guy to like talk to her first, ask her how her day is and then ask her out.
	She wants a guy to prove themselves first before she.
	She deems them worthy to go out on a date with them or something.
	Yeah, that's valid.
	I think that's cool.
	Yeah, I mean, I guess.
	Well yeah, maybe she just doesn't want to take the risk of going on the date and then not liking them and wasting your time right, is that what it?
	Well, the okay, the way i'm thinking with the scenario that I painted is the guy goes up.
	He's immediately straightforward about his intentions because like, there's some guys that will approach you and talk to you and it's like, what do you want to do?
	They're like asking you questions like, oh, where's the library and you know like girls aren't fucking stupid.
	They, they know that the pretext is is a way to initiate a romantic interaction with you.
	So I think I don't know me personally, like my approach would be to always be very upfront from the get-go, and also just because if the girl's got a boyfriend, I want to know right away.
	I don't want to spend 10 minutes talking to a girl and then like, keep it friendly, and then I ask her out and then she's like oh, I have a boyfriend, because a lot of women, if you keep things more casual and friendly, they're not immediately gonna give the boyfriend the boyfriend objection.
	But if you're just straight up hey, just thought you're cute, are you single immediately they can give you the boyfriend objection.
	And then it's like, oh cool hey, didn't know.
	Nice to meet, you have a good day, and then you can leave.
	So um yeah, I feel the same way.
	I think that like you're supposed to be straightforward, ask about the date and then during the day is when you have those little conversations like, if I saw a cute girl in like a place, where it's like a moving situation where, let's say, I saw a cute girl at Trader Joe's or something i'm not gonna like go and have a 10 minute conversation with her about cucumbers.
	I'm just gonna be like, if she's cute hey, just saw you, thought you were cute uh, want to see if you're single.
	You want to do something sometime and then, based on what she says, if she's kind of into it, I might continue the conversation and then we could have a brief interaction.
	Uh, if she's not into it, oh hey, nice to meet you have.
	Enjoy your shopping, whatever.
	See you later.
	So I don't know how often do you get approached?
	Oh no, she's young, though.
	I feel like That's what I'm saying.
	That's why her aunts is already waiting.
	They are because she's inexperienced.
	Well, most young women also don't.
	Have you been approached before by guys?
	Yeah.
	Maybe like two.
	Two times?
	Yeah.
	So you, okay.
	Cute, like guys that you thought.
	What's that?
	I've gotten a lot of DMs.
	You get a lot of DMs?
	How do you respond to those?
	I don't respond.
	We need a mic drop moment for that one.
	I don't respond.
	Dating on easy mode.
	Okay, Sydney, what about you?
	Anything you'd like to get off your chest?
	No, but you like, you said something, you were like, oh, you grew up Mormon and then the thing got cut off.
	What were you going to say?
	Huh?
	Yeah, it was like a while ago.
	Oh, I was trying to weave in that you grew up Mormon to the her Mormon bishop.
	But I don't know what, I don't know.
	Do you have anything dating related, though, that you wanted to talk about?
	Any topic?
	What's your tattoo say here?
	It says the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
	It's from my favorite book called Flipped.
	Flipped, okay.
	Flipped, yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	Q reminds me of Andrew Tate.
	Who?
	Q. Q reminds you of Andrew Tate?
	Yeah.
	Why?
	How?
	I feel like he understands women's psyche a lot.
	Oh, yeah, I do understand women's psyche.
	He's a coach.
	Yeah.
	Relationship coach.
	Certified.
	Did you just say you think Andrew Tate understands women's psyche?
	He does.
	Yeah, he does.
	He does.
	Speaking of Andrew Tate, we have a video to react to that was related to something I think one of you two had said earlier on in the conversation.
	It's the one where come.
	No, not this one, Nick.
	It's the.
	What's this?
	It's the one where he's talking about, like, oh, if she doesn't take dick that well.
	You know that one, Nick?
	I can't take that.
	Sex Map.
	M-E-H.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	I think we watched it last week, but.
	W. Andrew Tate.
	W. Andrew Tate.
	I'll take the hat back, by the way.
	Annie Tate.
	Thank you.
	It was cute.
	It was cute.
	Yeah.
	Oh, wait.
	So hold on.
	Wait, wait, wait, Paul, public.
	I know he did this too.
	Go.
	Wait, okay.
	So, so.
	I forgot which one of you said it was.
	But you're saying, like, maybe it was you, Molly.
	About the this pussy be the shit.
	What?
	This fill.
	You're like, this pussy be the shit.
	Yeah, this is the shit.
	That bomb pussy.
	I don't know.
	You're saying something like that.
	I was saying something like that.
	She said, dick sucking is good, right?
	Yeah, it is good.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Is it?
	Never mind.
	You want to see?
	No, I'm okay.
	We can do it together.
	Yeah.
	What?
	We've two.
	What?
	We could do it together.
	I think you want to see.
	To who?
	Well, you said you want to see.
	Layla, Key said.
	No, Yes, Nick.
	Thank you.
	Sorry.
	Go ahead, play the tape.
	I'm ready.
	Have you ever taken that BDSM test.org test, Layla?
	Oh, my God, Brian, Haram.
	Why are you kidding to this?
	But I haven't.
	Are you talking about the rice purity test?
	No, no, no.
	I'm talking about the BDSM test.org.
	No, I haven't.
	I don't know how.org it is.org.
	I don't know why it's.org.org.
	BDSM.org.
	No, like, you know how there's like breakdowns when it comes to BDSM, like submissive, prey, predator.
	There's the chilly predator.
	No, she's, well, she's also a brat, but in a BDSM content, yeah, you're a brat.
	Frank.
	Can you read this one, please?
	Yeah.
	Sure.
	You all can suck dick.
	We get that.
	That is such a small portion of the relationship.
	Oh, sorry, I'll retrigger.
	Way to finish strong later.
	Thank you.
	On average, you might have sex for about an hour a day.
	What do you do with the rest of your day?
	Lay around with your mouth open?
	Here is a real off.
	What can you cook?
	I like cooking.
	I have been taking a cooking class, and I think I've been doing pretty well in it.
	Oh, wow.
	The other day I learned how to do it.
	I learned how to make this like homemade baked potato soup.
	Like, I cut them up, I skinned them, I did the whole flour thing, chicken broth, the whole cut-up chives.
	It was really good.
	Wow, that was beautiful.
	Okay, we have grid motorsports.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	Just to get off the S-work for a minute, Swid T ask a question for the panel.
	What is the number one deal breaker in a relationship other than obviously S-work and cheating?
	I think.
	Give us a couple seconds.
	Sorry.
	Oh, my God.
	He hates me.
	Here, why don't we start with Kelly over here and we'll go around the table?
	What is the biggest deal breaker?
	Besides sex work and cheating, you said.
	Just like just by knowing someone or just if I'm already in the relationship with someone.
	I think in the relationship in the relationship.
	One deal breaker in a relationship.
	So I guess it could be before, it could be during.
	No ambition.
	Zero ambition.
	Deal breaker.
	Okay.
	Or if like, you know, if you're in the same position that you were like a whole year ago and like you're not trying to do anything to better yourself, that's unattractive to me.
	I have kind of a hot take on the whole ambition thing.
	I think that women claim that they want ambition.
	I don't think that's actually true.
	I don't think that's true.
	Why is that, Brian?
	Tell us.
	I think that women don't want ambition.
	They want a man who has reaped the benefits, the tangible benefits of said ambition.
	If a guy is broke and homeless, yet ambitious, that does nothing for you.
	So it's not clear to me that women are particularly attracted to ambition.
	I mean, I think it does.
	I'm the most fucking ambitious person in Santa Barbara.
	Nobody, like, chicks aren't like banging down the door to like, oh, Brian, you're so ambitious.
	Please let me date you.
	Hello, Brian.
	You're so ambitious.
	Please let me date you.
	Cool.
	But if you were ambitious, Brian, then that would be a deal breaker.
	Sure, fair enough.
	Sydney, what about you?
	I mean, wait, what was the question?
	Like, what's your deal breaker besides sex, work, and cheating?
	Honestly, mine's probably just like physical attention, just because I'm so clingy in a relationship.
	Probably.
	Wait, where are you from originally?
	Because you have an accent.
	I love it.
	Well, I've kind of moved around.
	I've lived in Colorado, Texas, and California.
	How long were you in Texas for?
	From 10 to 17.
	10 to 17.
	There you have it.
	But I lived in Dallas.
	Like, no one has an accent or anything.
	I think Kentucky.
	And so people from Texas, they're like that accent.
	How'd you get that accent?
	I don't know.
	10 to 17.
	Are your parents' country?
	Because typically.
	Your parents, do they have an accent?
	No, not at all.
	Here's the thing.
	Typically, you're going to get an accent when you're younger.
	So you were in California?
	No, I was born in Colorado, then moved to Texas.
	People from Colorado don't have accents.
	No, I know.
	I don't know where it came from.
	I've heard something.
	I've heard people call it Colorado.
	They have like Colorado accents.
	Okay, all right.
	All right, there you have it.
	Red flag for you.
	Wait, Brian, you have a fuzz on your beard right here.
	Oh.
	You got it.
	Thanks.
	Appreciate it.
	Tiffany, red flag, deal breaker, or deal breaker in a relationship?
	Being liberal.
	Being liberal.
	Ding, ding, ding.
	Well, speaking of that, let's go around the table really quick.
	Do you consider yourself liberal, moderate?
	Oh, wait, liberal, Democrat, or liberal, conservative, moderate, apolitical.
	Starting with Layla, go ahead.
	Probably like apolitical.
	I kind of believe in things on both sides.
	Um, I would say liberal.
	Yeah.
	Conservative.
	Um, I'm a constitutional conservative with progressive values.
	Sydney.
	Conservative.
	Conservative.
	I'm apolitical.
	Apolitical, okay.
	How about you, Brian?
	I thought you were a red pill.
	She underscores the underscore he donated $99.
	Five head Korean girl is apparently delusional.
	Someone with her face and landing strip going down her scalp should be thankful for any advance.
	Girl with the Pokemon hat is QTF.
	I think most dudes would wipe it up.
	I think you're beautiful.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	You are gorgeous.
	Yeah, do you can you read it?
	No, fuck that one.
	Get rid of it.
	Get rid of her face.
	That's dumb.
	Don't worry.
	He was saying very nice things about you.
	No, I'm used to this.
	Oh, you don't mind?
	You sure?
	Yeah, the chat's fucked up.
	I've gotten worse DMs.
	I love chat.
	Okay, fine.
	I'll trigger it again.
	C underscores the underscore be denated $99.
	Five-head Korean girl is abhorrently delusional.
	Someone with her face and landing strip going down, her scalp should be thankful for any advance.
	Girl with the Pokemon hat is QTF.
	I think most dudes would wipe it up.
	I'm not offended.
	I'm not offended.
	You're not offended?
	I've gotten worse DMs.
	You're like kind of an enigma.
	I can't quite read you.
	She's basic.
	Like, she's chill.
	So I had like 10k followers on TikTok.
	Uh-oh.
	What did you say some racist shit?
	Here, wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Before you say it, before you say it, hold on, Nick, can you actually, can you mute on the can you mute?
	Put it on the intro really quick.
	Just okay.
	Maybe not that one.
	Q, do you have anything?
	But TikTok, honestly, like brainwashes you.
	Should we talk about that or no?
	It's not related to dating.
	Whatever.
	Okay.
	I don't have no issue with that I did.
	I did.
	Yeah.
	Wait, ten minutes ago?
	I said five to ten.
	I don't remember.
	Which one?
	It just came in silent.
	I'm pretty sure we got.
	Yeah, we got everything.
	Let's see.
	Okay, wait, so what were we talking about?
	Deal breakers.
	Deal breakers.
	Deal breaker.
	Someone that can't communicate their emotions nor can they self-regulate them.
	Word.
	I'd say someone who's closed-minded.
	Like, if I try and show you something new about like the news or the media and you just like immediately don't believe me or shut me down, like I get turned off immediately.
	If anybody did that, I wouldn't want to be around them.
	I mean, that's kind of the clock calling the kettle black.
	I mean, you're saying that your deal breaker is someone being judgmental, but you're no, no, no, not judgmental.
	I'm saying like in the close-minded, that's what you said.
	In the prospect of like the conspiracy and news stuff like that, not about sex and porn.
	No.
	Just yeah, still, it's still closed-minded.
	No, I think I've solidified it.
	I don't think it makes her close-minded to have an opinion.
	No, not at all.
	But when you're judgmental and hateful and you like put your expectations onto other people's lifestyles instead of saying like, wow, there's people that are different than me and the world.
	Who wants the smoke, Emily?
	Yeah, I mean, like, there's lots of people that are different.
	There's so many people that are different.
	Murderers, fucking rapists.
	I mean, sorry about that word.
	But, you know, the world, and we all have a collective conscious that we are consensus that we govern on.
	And just because you two don't think that that's fair, and oh, I don't have the same view of loyalty as you.
	I don't have the same view of sex as you.
	Everybody else does, and you're never going to get away from it.
	But not everybody else does because we exist.
	The majority of people.
	And you're a minority is what you need to realize.
	Like he said, being a porn star, being in the sex work, you are a minority of women.
	You don't represent all women, and you need a lot of people.
	And I know you keep saying it's normal, and it probably is because you do live in LA.
	And I don't live in LA.
	Where do you live?
	Las Vegas.
	Even more.
	Las Vegas.
	Even more.
	LA, Las Vegas.
	Las Vegas.
	All the big cities.
	It's probably more.
	There's more.
	OnlyFans Girls.
	But the majority of the world isn't like that.
	No one's saying.
	Okay, we've already litigated the whole sex work stuff.
	We'll do it in just a sec after we get through all of this.
	So deal breaker in a relationship.
	For me, it's someone who, I mean, like, I kind of agree with everything that everyone said, but it's also like someone who can't keep themselves physically fit on their own.
	Someone who doesn't like eat healthy, someone who doesn't really care about working out.
	It's kind of gross to me.
	It's gross.
	It's gross.
	Bro, that's really judgmental of you.
	Judgmental.
	Wow.
	So much hatred.
	Vitriol.
	Wow.
	There's no hate.
	I just wouldn't date them.
	They can go date other people.
	Wait, so Molly, right now, look, I'm very transparent with people, with my audience.
	Right now, I got a fucking dad bomb.
	I need to lose at least 20 years.
	No, dad bombs are cute because it doesn't mean that you eat wrong or like don't work out.
	That's just the dad bomb.
	You still have to go to the bottom.
	The shape of your body doesn't like to be a bad person.
	I've been slacking.
	Yeah, the shape of your body doesn't have to be like abs.
	You just have to implement the healthy lifestyle.
	With his in-and-out cup in front of his computer.
	All right.
	Layla, what about you?
	Deal breaker in a relationship?
	I'm definitely a very touchy person.
	Like, one thing I love is like being naked, like on top of each other.
	I'm sorry, Nick.
	I'm sorry.
	You don't have to apologize.
	Just continue talking.
	Go ahead.
	But, anyways, I think one of the most important things in my relationships and why we don't argue well and why we're so soft-spoken with each other is because just being able to forehead on forehead, like naked as fuck, like laying in the sun, just communicate like that.
	I think that's so important.
	Just to be like an hour a day, just to be able to communicate all your feelings with no judgment.
	I think it's super helpful.
	Sounds good.
	Mana.
	You're so silly, Brian.
	All right.
	Okay, but that's my opinion.
	I think it's important.
	Tiffany.
	Yeah.
	I want your, what do you think about, and this, I'm going to open this up to the entire panel.
	This is going to be the most important fucking question I've ever asked this panel.
	So I want all of your undivided attention.
	But I'm asking Tiffany first, and it's open to you guys.
	Tiffany, what do you think about CDOs?
	What?
	What is that?
	Collateralized debt obligations.
	What is that?
	I want your thoughts and analysis on collateralized debt obligations and how it inevitably led to the 2007-2008 financial crisis.
	You ain't got the answers, man.
	You ain't got the answers.
	You ain't got the answers.
	I'm sorry, but I got the answers.
	Yeah, Molly has the answers.
	You have the answers?
	I just watched the big short, so I know.
	Go ahead, tell it to us.
	CDOs are basically like, okay, so mortgages are, there's levels to mortgages.
	There's like A, B, and then AAA and triple B or whatever.
	And like the A mortgages are the ones where like they're owned by the people who have the best credit.
	And the B mortgages are secondary to that.
	So CDOs are built upon a bunch of like A and B mortgages all like booked up together.
	And the reason that the CDOs led to the financial crash of the 2000 whatever crisis was because these like banks were giving out CDOs or like creating CDOs that basically had no merit and the mortgages that were making up these CDOs, these people had horrible credit.
	So once these CDOs fell, like the mortgages fell.
	Subprime mortgage.
	Yeah.
	Because they were not prime.
	All right.
	Deal breaker.
	Wait, you answered right.
	Or Layla just answered that.
	I think we finished it.
	We all finished.
	We got into dating.
	What, deal breakers?
	The CDOs.
	CDOs.
	I don't know.
	I'm just kind of like that.
	But I knew it.
	That was good.
	That was really good.
	That was good.
	Q, did you answer Deal Breaker for you?
	No, start at Kelly.
	Yeah, okay, so we'll come to you, then I'll answer.
	I have to say emotional dysregulation.
	Or having some form of mental illness.
	Valid.
	Yeah, that's valid.
	Okay, so like woke.
	Yeah.
	The world of mind.
	Yeah.
	Tiffany is super based.
	Valid.
	But.
	Single moms, too.
	Yep.
	Single moms, single moms.
	Single moms.
	I thought you brought that up.
	Shit, I got a list here.
	Okay.
	I'm going to say more than one.
	Pitbull owner slash pit bull apologist.
	Emily, do you have a pit bull?
	A pit bull?
	Pitbull.
	Do you own a pit bull?
	You did when I was little.
	Okay, just checking.
	Where's Bell Bottoms?
	Looks at her phone on the first date.
	Constantly deleting and recreating their dating profiles.
	Posts on Yikiak.
	Posts more than three Instagram stories a day.
	Van Lifer.
	Oh, Van Lifer.
	I got to add that shit to the career deal breaker.
	A Van Lifer, because I matched on dating apps.
	Chat, Have you ever, those of you on dating apps in the chat, have you ever matched with like a Van Lifer nomad type of chick?
	I'm telling you, dudes, this is almost worse than like travel nurses and flight attendants, son.
	Here's the thing, right?
	A van lifer, she's in a crammed car.
	So what she's going to do, she's going to be on the dating app, and I've encountered these women.
	They want a shower, son.
	They want a shower.
	They're going to match with you on the dating apps.
	Oh, babe, can I say anything, please?
	And then, like, but they're fucking the dudes, too, right?
	So if the chick's a van lifer and she's gone to multiple cities, the body count is up there, gentlemen.
	Be very wary of van lifer nomad chicks.
	Just saying.
	Just saying.
	And they're in town for like two days, so it's like, what's the fucking point?
	I don't know.
	That's actually something I never thought about, but like, that's so true.
	So true.
	Like, Valentine, you're so based, Friend.
	How long is your list?
	It's pretty long.
	Well, careers, hairstylist, works in HR, flight attendant, travel nurse, any career where she travels frequently.
	What about a businessman who travels?
	What do you mean?
	I don't date men.
	But should women, in your opinion, like would it be smart for me to go date a businessman or would that be silly?
	Well, that's that's your call.
	I'm just speaking from my perspective.
	Okay.
	I mean, if, look, I, if you're a woman and you want, like, to pursue a relationship, someone who's a pilot who's always out of town, that might not be the most ideal situation for you, but some women are fine with that.
	But me personally, I, bro, flight attendants be fucking Because I match with them on the dating apps.
	Okay, you're in town for two days.
	It's clear you have, there's no possibility of us pursuing a long-term relationship.
	Why are you on the dating app?
	Clearly for sex.
	Otherwise, there's no why would you be on a dating app and you're only in town for three days The only option is sex.
	I definitely think, like, especially Tinder, I think Tinder is usually just for sex.
	Whereas maybe something like Hinge is more like dating.
	Oh, and loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet, but treating people in their personal lives like trash.
	That's probably a pretty big deal, Breaker.
	Well, I think I have more.
	I don't know.
	You're very feminine.
	I'm very feminine.
	How so?
	I feel like most guys wouldn't list that out.
	How does that make me feminine?
	I'm not sitting here saying I'm like the epitome.
	I'm conservative and like detailed.
	I think that's a feminine trait.
	I think that's a is it?
	Yeah.
	Look, I'm not sitting here saying I'm like, I'm a fucking super masculine dude.
	I don't think so.
	But I'm more like the class clown type of guy.
	I'm not saying it's bad.
	I mean, I don't ever think it's a compliment to call a guy feminine, but.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Here, actually, we have a video from Tiffany here that we're going to pull up.
	What video?
	Since we're assessing my masculinity, we can assess her femininity.
	Oh, is there a TikTok?
	I don't know.
	You'll see.
	I'm just excited.
	There's only one from Tiff.
	Ah, let's see it.
	It's going to be like a thirst trap?
	No, I don't post that.
	Oh my god, wait, I'm excited now.
	You like Dean the Renegade?
	It's a YouTube short.
	It's the YouTube short.
	Oh, is it the Starbucks one?
	I don't know.
	That sounds interesting.
	Oh my god, what is that?
	Refresh, play, or just refresh.
	Oh, it's the Sneeko and Pearl Babis one.
	Dude, your skin looks amazing in this.
	I hate the red-pilled community and how they set a bad image of conservatives.
	Your views are not conservative.
	They're misogynistic as fuck.
	I hate Sneeko, and I hate Pearl Babis even more.
	They're both misogynistic piece of shit.
	It annoys me so much how Speako worked with Kanye.
	As you guys know, Kanye is my identical soul to him and he's my inner child.
	So if you hate Kanye, I hate you too.
	Don't talk to me.
	The red-pilled people can suck my dick.
	If you want to hear more about this topic, watch my college college fucking home video.
	El Sneeko.
	That's fucking hilarious.
	El Sneeko for sure.
	It's not very feminine to say suck my dick.
	I never said I was feminine.
	Okay.
	Was it like a dig?
	I'm just trying to understand.
	Someone clipped that into the Sneeko.
	It was so funny.
	Was it?
	What, like, was it a dig?
	I don't get it.
	No, you're feminine, so I'm just trying to...
	What do you mean, like...
	I'm just repeating the words that just came out of your mouth.
	What?
	Oh, my God.
	What?
	Okay, what are you trying to say?
	What's your point?
	What's my point?
	Yeah, you made a statement.
	Like, what was the point?
	I just made it.
	I listed the red flag.
	I just don't, well, I don't follow the whole, like, if you have a list of things, bear in mind, I'm the moderator and the host of the podcast.
	There's a much higher conversational burden on me.
	So, of course, I do this preparation because I have a significant conversational burden here.
	It seems like you got offended at my comment.
	I'm not that offended.
	Okay, you seem like a message.
	Well, I mean, you could say that calling.
	No, I meant it as a good thing.
	Like, the way you said, I can't, like, see my enigma or something.
	I feel like that's a very feminine thing, you know what I mean?
	That you're in the, wait, hold on.
	Now you're changing it to the comment that I made about you that I said you're feminine.
	That's an enigma that I can't.
	You guys are like a bad mouth.
	Continue.
	Continue.
	So, like, I hate a lot of things too.
	Oh.
	So you're saying, like, commonality, we both hate things?
	Valentine.
	Okay, sweet.
	what's up homie we're good we're friends We can bond over our hatred of many, many things.
	There's nothing, there's no better way to bond and then hate bonding.
	That's true.
	I just want to say that's not true.
	The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
	Oh, probably.
	Okay, all right.
	Okay.
	I don't know where we're going with that.
	Did we?
	Oh, did I?
	Oh, red flags.
	Okay, we'll do the video because these girls, let me give a little context.
	Molly said, well, because of my experience, she S's the D really well.
	But is it the case that men are really preoccupied with the skill of your DSing?
	Well, I guess we're about to find out.
	Don't think so, but Tate has a stance on this.
	Let's hear him.
	Can you move us on the other side?
	You'd think with him being a millionaire, he'd use red silo cups, but he'd have a bigger table, right?
	He's like, started from the beginning, man.
	God, that is so fucking bald.
	Sex, sex, this position, that position.
	Don't you feel like you get to a point in your life where you still want to make sure?
	Don't you feel like, and maybe I'm going to sound like a romantic.
	Don't you feel like you get to a position in your life where you'd rather have a girl who you truly love and she truly loves you?
	And it doesn't matter what you're saying.
	I understand what he's saying.
	I can't hear him.
	Yeah.
	Where are those hats?
	I know she's shaking her head.
	I know she's shoving her head.
	But I'm serious.
	If you sleep with enough women, just like if you sleep with enough men, there's no fucking move.
	Sex is not a complicated operation, right?
	There's no move that's going to be like, wow, I've never seen this before.
	I've never seen this before.
	My mind is blown.
	No, no.
	If you think the way you keep a man happy is to move your pussy in a particular way on top of his dick, as opposed to behave in a way which is respectful to him out in the real world and for him to know he has you and your loyalty regardless of what's going to happen come up, all the problems he's going to come into in his life, then you're wrong.
	So the whole point of sex is a connection between two people.
	And I think having a genuine connection between two people is worth more than sex.
	So her question was: what can a woman do to truly blow your mind in the bedroom?
	You blow my mind outside of the bedroom in a relationship as a whole.
	That's the truth.
	That's the truth.
	Wouldn't you rather have a girlfriend who truly loves you is absolutely loyal to you?
	Like, no matter what happens, she's going to be there for you.
	Catch a case six months.
	She's outside what it's like.
	She, she, okay, she can't take Dick, right?
	Whatever.
	But she tries her very, very best to support the poor thing.
	And she wants to satisfy you, and you know she cares about you.
	Wouldn't you be like, well, I don't care that she can't take dick because that's actually a quality woman, which is rare in the world.
	But I am genuinely uninterested in sleeping with a woman who I don't have a connection with.
	If a girl said to me, I don't love you at all, I don't feel anything for you at all, I don't want to sleep with you, but I will, I would say no.
	The sex act in and of itself is okay.
	If you had sex, we've all had sex, right?
	Do you really need to fuck somebody who doesn't give a shit about you at all?
	We live in a world now, right, where we have a lot of narratives which are being broken down and destroyed in real time.
	And I think it's very, very healthy for men and women to look at sex as an act that happens between people who at least like each other.
	The idea that I don't like them at all, but as long as they can suck dick this way, then it's okay.
	I don't give a fuck, right?
	If a girl genuinely loves me with all her heart and gives me a fucking terrible blow job, I'm still going to be like, well, you love me.
	I love you.
	It is what it is.
	Life's more important than blowjobs and fucking blowing your mouth.
	This is the truth.
	And if it's not love, if it's not love.
	Let me tell you something.
	Women are the gatekeepers, not men.
	If it's not love, you shouldn't be fucking him anyway.
	This is the reality of the world.
	Just because the modern artist told you different.
	You shouldn't be fucking any man you don't love.
	That's the first fucking thing.
	Okay, bro.
	No, it's true.
	You're right.
	You're right.
	Because then interest in me, whatever the fuck you ever say, interesting me, whatever, is not there, and you will feel it.
	Oh, she's so cute.
	W Fresh Fresh and Fit podcast for sure.
	Okay, so that's how a lot of men feel.
	Yeah.
	Like the fact that y'all, your Gluck 9,000 or whatever the fuck is on fire or whatever.
	It's like cool.
	You got to speak into the money clip.
	I'm sorry.
	I keep forgetting.
	You don't have to apologize.
	I'm sorry.
	I just want to make a correction.
	Okay.
	I feel like I do all the above sometimes.
	Like, yeah, I'm a slut and I really like to fuck, but I also really like to love and support you.
	Okay, the reason.
	But you're right.
	You're saying that shouldn't be my main ideal to get guys.
	And I get that.
	Well, the reason I bring it up is because when we say, well, like, oh, here's kind of the negative consequences or negatives of dating someone in the adult industry.
	You say, well, we fuck really good.
	Yeah.
	But I don't, first off, I don't think that that makes up for the negative consequences of why you're in the industry that could have a potential impact on the relationship.
	But I met this guy.
	It's also like, guys, first off.
	Sorry, I continue.
	I would say men are attracted to, in the same way that women are attracted to men who are experienced, men are attracted to women who have some degree of sexual purity or innocence who are inexperienced in some way.
	Of course.
	Because that's psychologically stimulating for men.
	The guys I fuck with, they do like how I fuck.
	And I do, you know, I enjoy it.
	But I just feel like I met this guy the other day and he was like, like, I only really fuck with girls who really like to fuck.
	Like, and it's just his preference, which is just his preference.
	And I get myself a little bit of a drink.
	Do you think that's a guy that is like married?
	No, of course not.
	And I honestly have, like, Loki, I hate to be a hypocrite, but like, I low-key, like, understand your view because, like, I'm not going to ever marry a slut.
	Like, I'm very happy with how, like, my stiff, like, went.
	Well, you'll probably be disappointed in that partner, though.
	No.
	Well, I, no.
	Because your sexual expectations are like, what if he lets me fuck who I want to fuck?
	And I know that's, like, awful, and you hate that.
	I know, I know, I know.
	No, that's fucking wrong.
	I get that.
	But gosh, it like works for me.
	Like, you know?
	So that's an idea.
	It might work for you, but it's not going to work.
	It's not a lot of people.
	It's not.
	Most men don't want their women, their partners sleeping with other men.
	I never said you were wrong about that.
	I agree with that.
	Okay, well, you'll find it then.
	But what we were saying in the first topic was, like, where are we even going?
	Well, okay, we're talking like the, you make this big, hold on.
	You make it this big argument that, well, because of your experience in the adult entertainment industry, that you are on some god-tier level when it comes to that.
	I don't think I'm better than anyone like that.
	Oh, you got to do that.
	So you got to let me fucking finish for interrupting me so I can actually get through my point so you can actually respond to me in an appropriate way.
	It's just like, let me finish my sentence so you don't.
	You're right.
	Okay.
	So the argument that you guys have been making is because you guys do sex work, that immediately translates into you guys being better in the bedroom because you do sex work.
	You guys would probably also agree that if you guys never did sex work and you just had like one or two or three long-term boyfriends, you would probably be just as good in the bedroom than like you think the performative factor improved?
	I know for sure my sexual skills have improved the more I have sex.
	Because that's just how it works.
	You can have sex with the sexuality.
	The more you have sex with me.
	It's the way we perform though.
	It's the way that we make it.
	To have sex with different people to experience different things in sexual activities that you've never experienced before.
	Like one time.
	Do you need 100 to do that?
	You can do that.
	One time I had a girl rub my clip with like her knuckles and I didn't know I liked that and I didn't know that felt good until I experienced it with that girl.
	And so like now that's something I know I like.
	But okay.
	I mean, sure, if you.
	Why can't you have done that with the same person?
	Like, you can experience those things.
	My boyfriend's not a girl, and he's never had that done to him, so how would he know to do it to me?
	Well, that's what happens when you get comfortable in a relationship, you start doing experience things with that person.
	But if they don't know to do that, then how would they do that?
	Right, you're opposed to that person.
	So you have to learn it about the other person.
	You learn how to be with that other person.
	You learn how to have sex.
	Like, the sex gets better once you keep having sex with the same person.
	Right, you see that.
	But again, like listen to them because you guys haven't experienced my experience.
	Like, I've experienced the monogamous side of it, like, not being in the porn industry, and I've experienced the side of it being in the porn industry.
	And I can fully say that, like, my sexual experience grows, and the way that I have sex gets better and better every time I have sex with new people.
	Because you're just having sex with different people, with multiple people, and you're just adding to your body count.
	Yeah, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that because it's my job to have sex with people all the time.
	You're going to have a problem with it when you're 29, 30.
	Why?
	There's like MILFs, and they've done it ever since.
	So you don't want to, you don't want marriage, you don't want kids.
	Oh, I do want marriage, and I do want kids.
	Good luck with that.
	People have kids in porn.
	Yeah, but to want kids, kids are a right.
	You need to realize that children are a luxury.
	They're not a right you just get to have just because you're on this earth.
	No, you need to be a good person to have children.
	You're not a very good person.
	By my standards, I think you're right.
	Porn is not moral, no matter which way you're going to keep touching me.
	Oh, my bad.
	You're five feet away from me.
	But porn.
	You just keep touching me.
	Okay.
	I touched you.
	All right, keep going.
	Keep going.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah, I lost my whole point.
	What was I saying?
	I think MILFs are actually, like, the mothers I have met in porn, like, they're, one time I met Corey Chase, the most sweetest lady ever.
	That's exactly why.
	Sandwich personally met her.
	Every woman in her family.
	Oh, my God, everybody's scrunchie.
	Wow.
	Every woman I've ever met in porn has been an amazing really nice children.
	Like, they raise their kids amazing.
	And, like, I was a kid too, all that growing up.
	And that sucks for your experiences for sure.
	Swingers, Mormon swingers, not dormants.
	No, no, no, I'm not saying that.
	I'm saying the people that they brought into the house, there were porn stars that I've met.
	And I'm going to tell you, it doesn't positively affect kids.
	But that's the good mothers that your parents allow.
	Mothers in porn can be good mothers, 100%.
	Are your parents together?
	No.
	No.
	You can be a great mother just because you.
	It doesn't matter what your job is.
	It doesn't matter if you're a single mother and you're a stripper.
	You can be an amazing.
	My parents are still together, yes.
	She just doesn't talk to them.
	I don't talk to them.
	I have like a side.
	Then maybe both of you don't have that parental support.
	I've met people with single mothers who have strippers, and they are the best people, some of the best people I've ever met.
	Think about this.
	No, I don't feel proud that their mom is amazing.
	My best friend is a drive.
	I'm scared of his doctor right now.
	And his mom is a single mother stripper.
	Hold on.
	She's going through college.
	We are now going to enter into the last portion of our show.
	We're doing the after-show.
	Nick, if you can hit the lights for us, we're now in the after-show.
	We have a couple more conversational threads, then we're going to wrap up.
	So, guys, if you want to get.
	Oh, we also, if you've seen the description, we've changed it.
	Read is $20 and up.
	TTS is $69 and up.
	So we've lowered the thresholds for this is for Streamlabs and Super Chat.
	$20 and up for Read, $69 and up on Streamlabs for TTS.
	And we'll read from Streamlabs too if you want to do it through Streamlabs.
	That way we can open it up to a few more people if you want to here at the end.
	So, okay, I'll know where we were.
	Oh, okay.
	We have something here from our good friend Stiffler.
	Ask everyone to rate their looks on the scale of one to ten.
	We'll start with Layla.
	Thank you, Brian.
	I feel like I'm a good eight today.
	I did my hair.
	It's cute.
	Nine.
	It said today eight.
	I'm a ten.
	Seven.
	Like six, seven, eight.
	I'm rating myself.
	Yeah.
	Six and a half.
	No, you're not.
	No, you're more than happy.
	I give myself a six.
	So wait, eight, nine, eight, ten, seven, six, one.
	You two need to up it a little more.
	You guys are definitely more than what you said.
	Like, I'd say nine, ten.
	So we have a ten here.
	We've got a ten.
	So you're on par with the most beautiful women in the world.
	There's no woman who's more beautiful than you?
	No.
	I mean, you asked me to rate myself, so that's how I personally feel about myself.
	So like that can vary.
	Like someone can think I'm a one, someone can think I'm in a million, but you ask for my personal opinion on myself, and that's what I think.
	Well, I agree with that.
	Your physical appearance is based in like an external reality.
	Like because someone looks at you, that's how you look to the external world.
	How you feel about it inside doesn't, your perception of yourself does not determine how other people see you in the world.
	Well, I think of it like you can show a staged room to 10 different people and they're all going to have different opinions on if that room looks good or not.
	The person that staged it is going to think that the room is fucking amazing, but someone else that did not stage the room could be like, I fucking hate the wall color.
	Everything about this room is atrocious.
	Okay, so but so in any case, your own self-perception, because typically, like, at least for, I'd say a lot of people, they do take into account their assessment of how generally other people might perceive them when it comes to their own physical attractiveness.
	But for you, your self-perception is that when it comes to your looks, your physical appearance, you consider yourself to be a 10.
	Right, to myself.
	Okay.
	Do you think that all women should view themselves that way as tens?
	Frankly, I do.
	And I agree with what you were saying.
	Like, you guys are also tens.
	Like, y'all are, every woman on this cast right now is drop dead stunning.
	So you should see that in yourself and value yourself for what you see.
	Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
	Keep going.
	That was it.
	No, Layla was.
	Brian, that's not funny.
	Well, okay, so.
	Do you think all men should be tens?
	Should view themselves as tens?
	Sure.
	Yeah, I feel like self-confidence is key.
	So like if you think, like you said that you're a six, so like obviously, and I, again, is subjective.
	So if you're thinking like what anyone can think, sure.
	But like you, as just yourself and an individual, when you're in the bathroom by yourself looking in the mirror, you should look at yourself and think that you're a ten.
	That's delusional.
	Why?
	I think you're a teacher.
	Because you love yourself.
	I mean, you know, every functionality.
	That is a whole mindset.
	Well, you know?
	Okay, well, I'll explain to you.
	First, I mean, I could, okay, so I have the definition of delusional here.
	So delusional is characterized by or holding false beliefs or judgments about external reality that are held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary, typically as a symptom of a mental condition.
	Or having false or unrealistic beliefs or opinions based on or having faulty judgment mistaken.
	Right, but you're calling me delusional on a question that you asked that's completely subjective.
	So I don't have to say that.
	Well, no, I said if I thought I was a 10, that would be delusional.
	Because why?
	Because you don't like yourself?
	No, it just would be delusional.
	I am not on par with the most beautiful and physically attractive men in the world.
	Well, people have different types of people.
	That's not me being exactly.
	That's not me being insecure or like having low self-esteem.
	That's me living in reality.
	Okay, but I'm not bodybuilding.
	I'm not getting modeling contracts.
	Like, it is what it is.
	I'm not upset that this is my physical representation in this earthly plane.
	Like, it just is what it is.
	But the question that you asked is completely subjective.
	So you're giving a really realist response to a completely subjective question.
	But there is objectivity when it comes to physical beauty.
	But like, you, okay, if we each individually went and rated each other on the panel, we're all going to say different numbers for different people because of our own biases and preferences, correct?
	Perhaps.
	It's going to be on the same range.
	But if we lined up a thousand men and a thousand women, there would be, you would start seeing patterns.
	Like if you had to like sort them by most attractive to least attractive, you would see there could be like, oh, this person's 972.
	Oh, this other person put them at 900.
	But you will start seeing general trend towards there is to some degree consensus over who's the most attractive and who's the least attractive.
	Sure.
	But again, you asked me for my opinion on myself and I gave that to you.
	And I feel like when you're rating yourself, like you are your own best advocate.
	So like if well that's just that's hubris.
	No it's not because it's like physical traits are subjective.
	Like I totally agree.
	Like someone can think that like a thicker body is attractive and someone can think that a thinner body is more attractive.
	Nick do we have a laser pointer for Layla?
	She's I'm sorry.
	Hold on.
	I think I might have a laser pointer somewhere.
	I would actually, that would actually help me quite a lot.
	Do you really have one?
	I think we have a laser pointer.
	I don't know where it is.
	Do you want me to help you find it?
	Nick, I think it's in the drawer over there.
	I don't know if you'll be able to find it, but oh okay.
	I think the question that you have to ask, Brian, is what would you think the world rates yourself would rate you as?
	Yeah.
	But I think that, you know, I get what you're saying, and I agree with you, but I also think that those two questions ought to kind of be the same thing.
	Oh, no, I'm agreeing with the same thing.
	But just for other people.
	Yeah, and what does the world rate you?
	Like she said.
	And you're asking us to see what does everybody else's governance of attractiveness mean to us, then that's a different question.
	Yeah.
	But it's kind of the same.
	It is.
	If you asked what on average I've been rated by people that have rated me, I would say that I'm anywhere between a seven and an eight.
	Right, but would you, so, but here's the question though.
	Somewhere between a seven.
	Hold on.
	Would you disagree with their assessment?
	It depends.
	I've had people that do not find me attractive whatsoever and people that think that I'm the most attractive person that they've ever met.
	Stop.
	Me?
	Yeah, don't point that out anybody's face.
	Put it on the table.
	Actually, pass it to me.
	Give it to me.
	But you just told me I could.
	I was actually going to use it on you so you could be less looking off into the distance and is it not working?
	I feel bad now.
	I cut your conversation off.
	Okay, there you go.
	Here.
	I'm looking at it.
	It's cute.
	Like a kit.
	Okay, all right.
	That was a stupid bit.
	Okay, but.
	Fuck, I lost my trend.
	Sorry.
	That's my bad.
	Trying to.
	You were like, it's kind of the same.
	The two questions.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, the two questions.
	They're kind of the same.
	So you think people should factor in like everybody else's standards with our own?
	To be real with ourselves?
	Is what you're saying?
	Yeah, I do think the two questions are like, they're very much linked.
	Because like, okay, I could sit here and think that I have a million dollars in my bank account, but if the bank institution says I have $100, however I feel about it or not, there's just like I only have $100.
	Yeah, but that's tangible.
	That's something you can hold.
	Physical attraction is not a problem.
	But your face, your body is something that is also tangible.
	But everyone has different opinions on what is top-tier attractiveness.
	And so there could be some, like, some people have different things that they prefer.
	But I mean, I think when we're talking about the peak levels of physical attractiveness, like if we're talking about that upper, like tens, for example, someone who's a 10, we are talking about someone, like, the pinnacle of beauty.
	Right, but what I'm saying is everyone else's pinnacle of beauty is subjective to them.
	So if you're asking us to rate ourselves, every single person's like standards of beauty is going to be completely different.
	So like when we rate ourselves, we have individual standards of beauty that nobody else has.
	And like you can't really compare perspective towards someone who like experiences it.
	Well, it's very convenient that it happens to be the case that for a lot of people, and it seems to be more so women than men, that they seem to hold themselves to being tens.
	Well, for me, why do men devalue themselves?
	Why can't men issue?
	Because men have to operate in reality.
	We can't be delusional.
	Like we can't sit here and be like, I'm a fucking 10.
	Like you have, and also I think it's because both men and also women gas up other women.
	Look at a girl's Instagram profile, even like a girl who's not on social media, a girl who's like just some regular college girl who's an average looking girl.
	All her friends are in her fucking thing saying you're slay queen, you're beautiful.
	Like you women, look, I mean, you gas each other up.
	Like, you know what's actually interesting?
	One of the differences between men and women is that men will like kind of like mess with each other in person and then praise each other in private.
	And I think it's the opposite.
	Women will praise other women publicly and then talk shit about them in private.
	So yeah, I just think women are gassing up other women.
	And then also simps too.
	A lot of simps.
	It's not just I'm blaming it on men too.
	A lot of simps are going to gas up a lot of women.
	You're fucking beautiful.
	Plus the amount of sexual attention that an average woman can get is fucking insane.
	So of course a lot of women think they're tens because a lot of men want to fuck them.
	Doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship though.
	Seems like men are the horny sluts here.
	Well look you take like an average girl put her on Tinder.
	She has the equivalent sexual optionality as a top tier male celebrity professional athlete musician actor, average girl has the equivalent sexual pull of like.
	It's insane.
	Again, it seems like men are the horn dogs here.
	Layla, can you if, if you're just gonna be checked out, just go sit on the couch?
	I'm listening.
	I'm just like looking at my fingers while I'm listening.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Go ahead, Molly.
	I mean, that's it like the way you're describing it, saying that like men are simps and like a woman has a sexual pull of like an average woman has sexual pull of like any actress or whatever like of top.
	An average woman has the equivalent sexual optionality of a famous movie star.
	So you're saying that men Back to the supply and demand, men are demanding the sex from average women, and they are so horny that, like they would fuck the man.
	But like they're so horny for that that they create the supply because women, obviously, if they're gonna benefit, like if they can benefit from these sins and these men like fawning off them, they're going to.
	Don't confuse sexual attention for relationship attention and marriage attention.
	Just because a guy wants to sleep with you doesn't mean that he wants to pursue marriage attention as well.
	Having sex?
	Yeah.
	100%.
	Don't you have to say that?
	So you think every single man that has ever had sex with you wants to marry you?
	That's the issue.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	Like women view sex as commitment, whereas men view it as the opposite.
	A man has to commit to you first.
	Like, no, a man will have sex with you, but he'll commit to you way later once he realizes you're worth that.
	A woman will have sex with a man in hopes he's going to make her his girlfriend.
	But see, that's what I think is so empowering about porn: I have enough fun sex in my life that I don't need to get my value from a man who like may or may not marry me one day based off my body count.
	And that goes back into what they were arguing with you about earlier, where you were just so confused about leaving that to one person, and you were like, that's perverted to have to leave intimacy to one person when it's like not what I said.
	You literally said it was perverted to leave intimacy with one person.
	I think it's per no, I said it's perverted to look at my body to say that, oh, there's only stuff your job was deserved.
	You said it was wrong to oversexualize what you do for work, right?
	Yeah, well, I think when you're looking at me as a person and taking myself out of the like, yeah, it is 100%.
	No, but I'm saying, do you think it's a logical fallacy?
	You're wanting to not oversexualize something you do literally for work.
	No, she's just logical.
	What is saying, treat me like a human.
	I just wanted to ask, because I keep hearing this get brought up.
	So I wanted to play devil's advocate, but I keep hearing the word marriage getting thrown out there and how your value, not value, but like all of this has to do whether or not someone will marry you.
	Why is that the basis of that?
	You want to die alone?
	Let me finish.
	Why is that the basis of the conversation when most marriages these days end in divorce?
	That seems like a very feeble line to base people's worth on.
	Well, anyone can go get married.
	I'll tell you why right now, because all three of you said you wanted to be married and have children.
	So it matters, Philip.
	For real.
	Like, literally.
	I'm saying you guys don't want to have to have multiple baby daddies.
	Is that right?
	I actually don't want kids, nor do I want to get married.
	Okay, so then you're out of the occupation of what's on the marriage.
	But do you want a long-term partner?
	It depends.
	You want to just have.
	Okay, hold on, hold on.
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	Tonight the slash prawn girls has been a bunch of circular arguments of them trying to defend the lack of morals.
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	I weep for the youth.
	Thank you, Grid One Motorsports, for the $69.
	You're the least horrid.
	I thank you for saying I'm the least horrid, and I can agree that I am pretty needy.
	Yeah, Grid One Sports, I am probably, I mean, I'm.
	He's donated a lot tonight.
	Yeah, thank you, man.
	Really appreciate your patronage.
	His comment was essentially just about Sunday's panel is awesome.
	I am like attempt.
	Again, I've said this last show.
	I'm attempting to phase out bringing on women who do OnlyFans and who are in the adult entertainment industry.
	But it's rude.
	It is what it is.
	You guys have not you guys, but like most of the women that have caused us major headaches on the show were women in the adult entertainment industry.
	Like vile.
	You guys are cool.
	guys are cool I don't want to paint with a broad brush but it has been repeated patterns of typically women who are in the adult industry are the ones that cause us the biggest fucking headaches the ones that flake the ones that are rude the ones that no-show the ones that Leilu is checked out, contemplating how much her Valtrex prescription is going to cost.
	Wait, what is Valtrex?
	21 tablets is $79.49.
	So with her without a moment, once it happens, it's every time you're stressed, sleep-deprived, F. Woo!
	Jay Butler, I think, is the pharmacist.
	Jay Butler.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Thank you for your knowledge, King.
	Yeah, we're probably going to attempt to phase it out.
	So, yeah, just.
	I'm not checked out.
	I was just like, like, distracted.
	Sorry if I was being offensive.
	Apologize.
	Wait, so okay, you brought something up and then the TTS came in.
	I'm trying to remember what we were doing.
	Marriage and divorce.
	Oh, marriage.
	But you don't want a long-term relationship.
	I mean, I'm open to a partnership, and I've had partnerships before, but I don't.
	You've never had a boyfriend, correct?
	No, I had a girlfriend, but it wasn't like...
	Okay, so you're a bi, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And I've dated.
	I'm not going to say I've had a serious boyfriend.
	That's why I said I've never had a boyfriend, but I've dated.
	How many people are you currently dating?
	About three.
	Dating isn't just going out on dates and hanging out with them.
	How many people are you hooking up with?
	None.
	What about for work?
	How often do you have to do that?
	I haven't worked in a few months just because I've been moving and doing personal stuff, but do you have a roster right now?
	You said three?
	Like of men that I've been dating in my personal life.
	What do you mean dating?
	What do you going out on dates, getting to know them, like seeing?
	So of the three men that you've been dating, how many dates have you been on with each?
	So one guy, I've been seeing him for like four months.
	I would say we go on like one date a week.
	Okay, four months.
	Another guy, it was a lot more recent, like two months maybe.
	I've seen him like three times.
	And then another guy, probably like three or four months, and we've gone out maybe five times.
	We went out yesterday.
	And you're not hooking up with any of these dudes?
	Because this is just for me personally.
	But with my job, like, obviously, a lot of men just tend to jump to sexualizing me.
	So I want, if a man is truly interested in me, I want to see that with him taking me out on dates and getting to know me as a person outside of my job and wanting to have sex with me.
	I've heard that from brands of fucking folks.
	Don't you guys think it's unfair for you to say that it's unfair for a man to sexualize you guys when your occupation is literally titled sex work?
	I think if a man's brain is that small that he can't wrap his head around like work versus real life, then he's not worth anything.
	But your work is not traditional.
	You're the one that took something that's real life, intimate, and loving and turned it into work.
	That's the actual way.
	We didn't work out.
	I didn't know as of the last maybe 40 years.
	The rest of humanity treated it as something intimate and loving and sacred for years.
	Now you've turned it into a career and something for you to make money off of.
	So yeah, there's no, it makes sense that you're completely desensitized and you're never going to understand.
	Sorry, I touched you one more time.
	Well it's tight at the table guys.
	All right people I've been me and Q have been holding hands the entire show.
	Just kidding.
	Just kidding.
	But okay, so four guys, one of them you've been seeing for four months.
	You hang out once a week.
	One was two months, only hung out three times.
	Another was four months and you've seen them a couple times or something.
	You've not hooked up with any of these three guys.
	First off, that's a big fucking L for the guy you've been seeing for four months and you hang out once a week.
	Does he pay for your dates?
	Like you guys go get dinner?
	Yeah, of course.
	He pays for the dates?
	Jesus Christ.
	The dating market's absolutely fucked.
	Like, it's just, this is ridiculous.
	Do you not want to have sex with him?
	Does he want to have sex with you?
	It's more, like I said, like, it.
	How old is he?
	I usually date guys when they're like 30s.
	And you're 22?
	Yeah.
	Is this a sugar daddy thing?
	No.
	I mean, I have those.
	I do financial information.
	You have that too.
	But that's not related to those guys.
	They're genuinely like romantic pursuits for you, not just.
	Yes.
	Okay, so that's a big, I don't know who this four months hanging out one time a week thing is.
	Look, it's obviously 100% your call.
	If you don't want to have sex with him, 100% your call.
	But like from a guy's perspective, that's a big fucking L to be dating a girl that long who's dating two other men at the same time, who's shooting porn, and she doesn't want to be sexually open with you.
	That's that's a result of that.
	Oh, she said she has a shot in four months.
	And what if he's dating?
	She said she hasn't shot in like months.
	I think it's actually very respectable.
	She does want to be sexually open, but with the right person with the right intimacy.
	And she's like literally taking her relationship so seriously.
	Like, I think that's respectable.
	She's not taking her relationship seriously.
	She's currently dating two other men.
	But that's taking it seriously.
	How is that taking it seriously?
	She's dating two other men.
	So a date.
	No, no, no.
	A date.
	She's been seeing that.
	Hold on.
	Four months.
	This guy takes her out on a date once a week.
	I think it should have developed to the point where the other guys, that's a wrap on the other guys.
	but anyways people move how they move um it's not what was the term you used serious or No, I think she's like taking her dating and her relationship status really seriously because she's not.
	Oh, I think she definitely is because she is putting her sexual intimacy.
	She's dating them because that's what dating is.
	You talk to multiple different people at the end of the day that you connect with.
	And I've like it's been explained to these people.
	Like they're aware that it's not exclusive.
	We're just getting to know each other and like figuring out.
	Four months?
	You're four months in.
	You see this guy once a week.
	Okay, but like we both work a lot.
	We have very demanding schedules.
	And I've been dealing with moving and like all this other stuff.
	So like, yeah, to carve out two hours to go to dinner with someone once a week, like I don't think that that's super serious.
	Have you kissed this guy?
	Yeah, that one.
	That's it though?
	Just and he has he made a move to go further?
	Um sort of, but I shot it down pretty quickly.
	I mean if you're so busy throughout your week and then you have two and then you only have two hours to go and spend with them and you're making time, you're making that time to go see him every week, shouldn't you care a little bit more about that person since you have no time in the world?
	It's definitely not that I don't care about them, but I feel like we had a conversation.
	Hold on, just $69.
	He is stringing them along and they are allowing themselves to be taken.
	This is how attention-staffed men are in today's society.
	Guys, have some better standards for yourselves and stop simping for these 304s.
	Okay, but if I went and fucked all these guys or just fucked that one, the four-month guy, then I would be a slut, right?
	So it's like, I'm taking it slow and communicating with these people.
	Like, they're fully aware of what's going on.
	It's not like I'm not sure what to do with this.
	I mean, I think, hasn't that ship sailed when you started doing porn?
	What do you mean?
	I've been doing porn for almost four years and dating is so, but hasn't the no offense, the not being a slut thing, the ship has sailed on that.
	Well like you have to think of it this way.
	I'm not gonna show up to a porn set with my parents right, and expect them to like, fall in love with every person that I'm shooting a porno with right, but when I'm dating in my personal life as me, not just as like my persona of Sarah Ryder, why?
	Because you have one st okay, the.
	The production company pays you 500 bucks.
	There's cameras that's gonna be distributed right, it's okay.
	What it's more?
	A thousand.
	Whatever it's gonna be distributed online, it's gonna be online permanently.
	Um, for that, You'll have sex right away with a man who doesn't care about you, but a guy who's actually romantically interested in you, who's paying for dates, who's been dating you for four months, makes the time to see you at least once a week.
	He's still waiting And you say you don't have all this time for him.
	Then how are you entertaining all these other dudes?
	Yeah, you have two other guys that you see too like if you don't have all this time Maybe you should just focus on one of them him well she's moving right now.
	So she's like okay that takes a weekend That takes a weekend you probably had movers help me too.
	I'm assuming actually no I've been doing it all by myself.
	I'm furnishing a 2,000 square foot house.
	All on my congratulations.
	Welcome to human, the human race, everybody.
	I fucking have all this shit just like.
	But you're, this experience of you moving is not unique to you.
	Everybody moves, apart myself.
	Why is it such a burden on how you treat other?
	It's not.
	You guys are automatically putting my dating into a negative light, but I'm literally said that I've communicated with these people.
	They're fully aware, they know what's going on.
	They're consenting just as much as you can.
	But you're, you're winning because you're getting.
	You're getting the male attention you're.
	This guy's bringing value to you, he's paying for your dates, he's giving you attention, he's giving you his protection and yeah, but these people are getting to know me on an intimate level.
	When I go to work, i'm not going and divulging all my like secrets about myself and the things that are like make me a human being.
	But when i'm seeing someone romantically, just like any other person would, when they're dating, you're telling them more.
	Is the guy, is he in the industry?
	Is he like got just a normal corporate type job or yes, okay.
	So then what do you bring to the table for him?
	What do you mean?
	I'm, what do you mean?
	When I just asked the same thing, you bring, what do you bring?
	I bring a lot more than you guys do.
	I bring a lot more than just pussy, but I never said that you bring more than just pussy into a relationship.
	I asked a straight up question, no, right now she, they're not even.
	She's not even bringing pussy in a yeah, that's not even what she's bringing at all.
	So what really like?
	So that's what that?
	I asked a genuine question, what are you bringing to the table and you've answered it, asking me, what do I bring to the table?
	I'm in a relationship.
	I didn't say that to your, to your relationship, two-year relationship congrats, thanks.
	They shared her okay um yeah, you saw him waiting outside for me.
	He dropped me off here.
	He's gonna pick me up.
	He waited for me.
	Okay, keep yelling.
	My, my man was doing.
	He's not yelling, wait your man.
	What Layla, any man I date would would drop me off, dude.
	Oh, you mean John Zerka, who's in Miami, who just had the most.
	He's on my man now.
	You know that I don't want to talk about that but, like you know, that was bad.
	I saw his stream yesterday.
	It was a bad moment.
	It was a bad moment.
	Okay um, that was a.
	It was sad.
	So okay um looks, I guess it's win For you.
	To me, it's just like it's interesting that you're very open sexually when you are being financially rewarded for it.
	But when it comes to a romantic relationship, you like it's funny because these two girls said, Well, because I'm in the adult entertainment industry, I'm really good in the bedroom.
	Yet, for you, you're in the adult entertainment industry, and the value that they said they bring, you don't bring that value to a relationship, aka sex.
	Because, to be fair, a lot of what has been said, in my opinion, from like Layla, um, is I don't, I'm not saying, like, oh, I'm a porn star, so like my biggest asset is that I have a fucking vagina and that I have sex with people.
	I'm not saying that, that is just like the ruse that's been put up, and like what feeds you guys, and like the comments.
	But then, when I humanize myself and date, like, a normal fucking person, like, oh my god, now I bring nothing to the table because it's not pussy.
	That's that's not what I'm saying, but it's just it's interesting to me that you are.
	Look, again, you're totally if you obviously, you know, consent, you are 100% free to not like want to sleep with somebody, and it should be on your terms.
	When you're ready, you can.
	I just the way I guess a lot of men feel will feel a certain type of way about it.
	Like, for example, if I met a girl, not that I would pursue a girl, but uh, in this way, but if I found out that she had previously had 100 one-night stands, and then she finally meets me, and then she says, We're going to wait until marriage to have sex.
	And then to add to add the cherry on top, she had all kinds of crazy sex with all those guys, but with me, just missionary.
	It's kind of like I don't know that there's an analogy for this, but it's like you have provided this value for all the previous men, but then now you finally met me, and it feels like you are not.
	I don't know how to articulate this properly.
	In any case, for me, look, if I if I encountered a girl who had a high body count, not that I would even really want to pursue her, but uh, and she was like, Oh, I want to wait till marriage.
	It's like not with me, not with me.
	I mean, like, I'm not gonna pressure you to have sex, but I'm just I'm moving on.
	So, um, I don't know, that's just it's just interesting to me that I'm more curious from like the guy's perspective.
	Like, what are they like?
	I assume they're not waiting for marriage, like they're not trying to so, like, and neither am I. I'm not waiting for marriage either, but like, I want to get to know them on for four months, yeah.
	But we're both seeing other people, and like I said, we both have very demanding jobs.
	Like, he works from like three in the morning to like four.
	How many dates have you gone on with this guy?
	20.
	Maybe 10.
	I don't know, 10.
	That's a lot.
	Bro, I have to say, I know a few people.
	In public, too.
	Were they all in public?
	Yeah, I mean, no, not all in public.
	Like, we did have some like home dates, but so that's like a good 10 dates is like a good amount of time to get to know someone and decide whether or not you want to be with that person.
	Because I know after 10 dates, I would not be wanting to.
	If I'm wasting 10 dates on a guy, I will, I like that guy.
	I'm not going on 10 dates with no guy that I just want to date.
	I can't even think of 10 places to go on dates right now.
	So, like, at the top of my head.
	So, 10 dates, that's a lot of time and effort to be putting into somebody.
	So, why are you going to waste your time taking somebody out on 10 dates if you're not serious about them?
	I mean, it definitely might seem like a waste of time to you, but for me personally, like I said, I didn't really start dating or anything like that until high school.
	So, I'm only 22.
	I'm just trying to figure myself out what I'm looking for in a relationship, in a partner, and things like that.
	I'm even still figuring myself out as just an individual.
	So by.
	So sorry, continue.
	I didn't mean to interrupt.
	No, no, but just by going on dates, that's how I'm figuring that out.
	And yes, 10 dates, I take him seriously as a person.
	I respect him.
	I respect his feelings.
	That's why I have this open dialogue and conversation and communication with this person.
	It's not like I'm telling him, like, oh, yeah, we're dating.
	And then I'm seeing these other people behind his back.
	Like, he is fully aware that, you know.
	I'm just trying to wrap my head around like your, when it comes to your standard to having sex, if it's on camera and if you get paid for it, you don't have to have any connection or know anything about the guy.
	They just, some stud goes it, like they, you probably don't even, do you know who you're going to shoot with beforehand?
	Yeah.
	Whatever.
	It's some stud, whatever.
	And then you get some money, it's shot on camera, you'll fuck him right away.
	Whereas for the men who you're romantically pursuing, it's let's wait four months and go on 10 dates.
	It's just like, look, you're free to do what you want because that's your human right, but you've slept with a bunch of dudes without demanding exclusivity or marriage.
	And now the guy you maybe actually like comes along and you want to pretend like you always had moral or morals and high standards and you make him wait when he knows what you're doing.
	I mean, yeah, you're giving sex a value when you gave it no value before when you were doing it for your career.
	And now all of a sudden this guy has to do these things to attain it.
	Like that makes no sense when you're letting strangers get it for free.
	Well, not for free.
	You're getting paid, but they're not paying you.
	They're getting paid to have sex with you.
	I mean, yeah, they're getting paid too.
	Just again, like this, this is not ever about like a guy feeling entitled to something, but it's just the way that it might make a guy feel.
	So again, it's totally, look, if you've slept with a hundred guys, not even doing adult entertainment, and you slept with 100 guys on the one-night stand, and then one guy finally comes along and you're like, you're going to have to wait till marriage.
	That's your call, but a guy's going to feel like, here's an analogy, right?
	So you're making the man wait.
	It's kind of like going to McDonald's while everyone else eating there paid $1 for a cheeseburger.
	And then the clerk looks at you and says, it's $1,000 for you, sir.
	That's how it feels.
	again it's a hundred percent your call you can have like different standards but that was a really good analogy Well, then, like, answer me this, though.
	Let's say I went on this first date with him and I had sex with him just off the rip.
	Why would he value me anymore?
	And how would I know that he was deserving of having sex with me and that intimacy?
	Because it's not in a work setting.
	Like, when you're at, like, obviously y'all have never been on a porn set, but when you're there, like, it's a job.
	Everyone's professional.
	You know, you're not taking these people out afterwards.
	You're doing a job and you're being kind and professional to each other.
	And, you know, it's just very surface level.
	But when I'm going out with someone, pursuing them in a dating aspect, like, I want to get to know them as a human and I want them to get to know me, you know, on a much more serious aspect.
	So, like, yes, I can go and get paid to have sex for work and like become acquaintances.
	And like, like, Molly and I are great friends and we've had sex before for work.
	But, like, for someone that I'm pursuing to take seriously for this partnership or this marriage.
	So, you, I don't 100, I don't totally disagree with you.
	Typically, I will raise this argument more so with, for example, women not in the adult entertainment industry who engage in having casual sex, have had a lot of previous past sexual partners very casually, a bunch of one-night stands, and they have two different standards for two different types of men.
	So what you'll see is you'll have like, and I don't like this terminology, but let's just, just for the simplicity of the conversation, if you're an alpha male, you get no strings attached sex while putting in no effort or money.
	If you're a beta provider male, where the woman sees you as a potential long-term partner, she then withholds sex as a bargaining chip.
	Meanwhile, the beta guy is providing significantly more resources compared to the alpha or friends with benefits guy.
	I don't like using that terminology, but just for the simplicity of the conversation.
	So my issue would be like, for example, if I met a girl and like last week she had a one-night stand and then the last, let's say she had four nights, four one-night stands in the past three, past month, and then she's going on a date with me and then she's like, oh, Brian, I really like you.
	I think we should wait.
	That's 100% her call.
	I'm not going to, there's not going to be like a pressure or anything.
	However, I'm going to feel like she's just like, she's not that interested in me.
	And honestly, she's probably just like using, I don't like it if a woman is using sex as leverage.
	Like I'd want a girl to have genuine interest in having sex with me.
	Right.
	Well, it's definitely not a bargaining chip.
	And I don't think that in my personal relationships, it's portrayed that way.
	Like, you know, obviously I do have sex for work.
	So there's a lot more that goes into it.
	It's not just some like random one-night stand hookup or, you know, we get tested, we have like extensive boundary and consent talks.
	Yeah.
	Like there's like a whole thing to it, right?
	So if I'm going to have someone, I mean, have sex with someone in my personal life, they also need to, for my safety, the safety of my coworkers, and for them as well, have those same standards of testing.
	And on top of that, I do have herpes.
	And that's something that I obviously want to tell someone ahead of time before doing anything sexual with them.
	I want them to have all the knowledge and have...
	Downstairs.
	Huh?
	Downstairs?
	Both, yes.
	Okay.
	Have you told the guy who you've been dating for four months?
	He knows?
	Yeah.
	But like, that's the thing.
	I want those people to be able to know, have the information about herpes and be able to make an informed decision on what if they would like to or not.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Do you think you got it on set?
	Well, I know for a fact that I, like I said earlier, I got cold sores, HSV1, on my lips and stuff from the business.
	Like when I was a little, I was in like kindergarten.
	I do think I got it on my vagina because of the porn industry, because of how little it's talked about.
	Sure.
	You know, because we don't test for it, but people don't tell you that, you know, and they don't say, hey, I have herpes.
	I don't have an active outbreak.
	We're shooting the scene.
	Your agents don't tell you.
	Directors don't tell you.
	And when you're young and inexperienced and you don't know the right questions to ask, you don't know.
	And for me personally, I thought I had just had a rip or a cut or something.
	And a director actually looked and was like, oh, you have a herpes outbreak.
	And I had no idea.
	Does that, can you still be in the industry if you have like?
	So, yes.
	So they don't test.
	So the reason why they don't test.
	It's not even that, like, even if you don't test, but like you said a director saw, and like, so it's not just you were not disclosing.
	They know.
	Do you disclose to the people you shoot with that?
	It's not really talked about, but I...
	You don't disclose?
	You don't tell them?
	It's like, see, I know.
	It's like a really weird thing, right?
	Weird?
	No, that's criminal.
	I don't think that's criminal.
	It's something that's not.
	It's literally criminal.
	Yes, it's criminal.
	It's something that, like, you accept when you get in the industry, though, like, you know that people are going to have STDs.
	Oh, I get it.
	So you're saying that they're taking that, like they already know when they get into it.
	But it's not like people have a responsibility to make people aware when they have an active outbreak.
	Like I had a scene with a performer and they canceled the same day because they had an active outbreak.
	And like, no harm, no foul.
	And I work with the best.
	And that ends all when the opportunity is.
	I mean, honestly, it's kind of like amazing to me, though, that there are people in the industry, like, once, shouldn't you just be out excised of the industry if you have.
	Like, isn't if you have HIV, right?
	You're done, right?
	Right.
	Okay.
	Shouldn't it be the same with herpes?
	Well, so with her.
	I mean, it's not as bad.
	It would destroy the industry.
	That's why they don't do it.
	They would have no job.
	Kind of.
	So with herpes, it's not always sexually transmitted.
	Like I said, with the thing about the chapstick.
	I had that since I was a child, and that had nothing to do with that.
	That's irrelevant.
	Right, but let me finish.
	So, because it's not something that is inherently sexually transmitted, like...
	But it is sexually transmitted.
	But I got it from chapstick.
	But you got the other one.
	You had type 2 herpes on your vaginas from sex.
	Yeah, but I had herpes before I ever had it.
	But you would have never gotten it to get on your genitals from the bottom of the cell.
	This is so ampstream.
	That totally could have happened.
	You can't reach down there.
	Actually, that totally could have happened.
	What about having unconnected sex with a violent who has herpes?
	You're saying you can give yourself type 2 herpes on your vagina from your mouth?
	No, but you can use HSV-1 on your genitals.
	Is the argument that you're saying, because there are other vectors with which you can get herpes, because of that, it's not as...
	No, so the reason why the industry doesn't test for it is because when they were deciding whether or not they were going to test for HSV, one, the testing is hard, and it's not wildly accurate.
	Most places will test.
	If you have an outbreak, they will swab it.
	But if you don't have an active outbreak, a lot of places won't even test you.
	But you've, okay, you're telling me that you confirmed.
	Oh, no, did you take a test?
	No.
	But you know you have it.
	Yeah.
	Because I mean, it's pretty like the outbreak, whatever.
	You know you have it.
	Molly says that she was about to do a scene with a guy who knows he has it who had an outbreak, so he canceled the scene.
	I suppose that's nice of him.
	It's shocking to me that you would continue working in the adult industry, risking other men and women.
	But so when did you you became you got herpes how far into the industry?
	Your first year in?
	Yeah.
	First month?
	No, I think.
	First couple months?
	Yeah, I started right before COVID though.
	So it was like I started in January and then COVID happened in March.
	And then I would say I found out maybe around July or August.
	So in the six-month period after starting adult work, you got genital herpes?
	Yes.
	And you've, but you've continued working for another period of three and a half years, right?
	You said you've been working total four years.
	I mean, so it's just in the industry, if you have a confirmed case, that doesn't bar you from shooting?
	People don't shoot when they have active outbreaks, but like I was saying, the reason why they didn't add in HSV testing is because the tests aren't necessarily accurate.
	And if they did that, they would have to do it.
	That's already asked.
	Don't worry about that.
	But they wouldn't have.
	I already said that.
	Hold on.
	Don't worry about the testing.
	You have a 100% confirmed case of herpes.
	You need not be tested.
	You have herpes.
	You are shooting scenes with men, women.
	Yes.
	Do you not have, like, aside from, do you not have a concern about continuing to spread this disease?
	Well, I would never work with an active outbreak, a blister.
	But okay, but before like a full-blown outbreak, there's like a pre-it's like pre-shedding.
	Yeah, you're shedding before.
	So you could do a scene when you're shedding.
	I mean, or afterwards.
	For me personally, I can tell when I'm going to get an outbreak and I just won't work.
	But I mean, within six months of starting in the industry, you got it.
	So it's clear that the women or the men in this industry are not, like, even if you're not having sex during an active outbreak, you are.
	There is a very low chance that it is transmissible, yes.
	You got it within six months of working in the industry.
	And you think that's low, and you're taking that chance to give it to other people without disclosing them.
	Why do you think that's right?
	I never said that.
	No, but you're doing it, so why are you doing it?
	Because it's my fucking job.
	Girl, I got bills to pay.
	Are you going to be a little bit more than that?
	So it's just right to just give people a detail.
	No, and I never said that.
	But I pursue you.
	She's not giving people any transmission.
	No, I don't intend to.
	And I fucked her like twice.
	You guys all fucked, right?
	You guys said you guys all fucked.
	Wait, can I donated $69?
	I am not a lawyer, but for the record, knowing you have an STD/slash STI and not informing a partner about it and then proceeding to have sex with them anyway is considered sexual battery.
	Please see California Penal Code Section 243.4A.
	Thank you.
	Congratulations, you've committed sexual battery, and you're not going to convince anybody else that it's your oh, but according to me, according to me, but when I do it, no, it's wrong.
	Either way, never said that it was right.
	Wait, do you not disclose to let's say you're not having an outbreak, do you tell the people that you're working with that you have herpes?
	You see if they ask for sure, but it's a bad thing.
	You don't say nobody asks.
	That's what disclosing means.
	Disclosing means you don't have to ask.
	It means you disclose the information without the other party asking.
	There are multiple court cases involving million-dollar settlements for genital herpes transmissions without disclosure.
	70% of cases spread through asymptomatic viral shedding.
	No symptoms.
	A Western block test is very accurate.
	Layla and Molly take the test.
	I've taken the herpes and I don't have herpes, so same as long.
	I took it right out.
	I got it a porn.
	So when was your wash?
	No, I don't have herpes.
	Bond donated $69.
	Going back to the respect, there are two kinds of respect.
	Layla seems sweet and candid, which is worth something.
	But respect for someone like Emily is a different kind of respect.
	And this one factors more into choosing partners.
	Yo, Bond, thank you very much.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Let me do it.
	We'll continue on briefly on this thread, and then we're going to have to wrap up here pretty soon.
	I do need to pull up a couple of our chats here because they're about to fall off.
	So, Layla, can you read this?
	I want to know how tall is Ludacris Jr.
	He talks big game, but looks about 5'2.
	How tall are you, Q?
	Tall enough to fuck his crush in his mom.
	Well, he is tall enough to fuck your crush and your mother.
	And Carter.
	And Carter.
	Do you have a response to Q?
	We have Brian here.
	Hey, Layla.
	Can I take you on a date since Brian is throwing away the opportunity?
	If yes, let's your email so I can send the proposal.
	My email is LaylajinnerBusiness at gmail.com for all business inquiries.
	Got another one for you.
	To the devil worshipers that are judging people.
	Jesus, a real Christian, was friends with a prostitute.
	A real Christian would be their friend and help them in ways they can.
	Only.
	Only if they want to get out of the industry, then help them with that.
	Thank you.
	What a beautiful comment.
	I got this one for you.
	Hey, Brian.
	There was a TTS from Bon and Curtis Leon about 60 minutes ago.
	It didn't trigger 99 and 100.
	Anyways, I've enjoyed this panala.
	Good back and forth.
	I'm pretty sure that said, gluck luck, Brian.
	Give it to me.
	Oh, yeah.
	He says, also, let Layla gluck luck.
	Let Layla Gluck luck.
	Not happening.
	Stochastic Decay.
	LLGG, Lit Layla Gluck Luck.
	Bond and Curtis Leone.
	I'm very sorry if we missed it.
	Layla, sometimes if there's a curse word in the thing, it won't trigger the AI robot TTS voice.
	I do think, though, that we shit, maybe I. Fuck.
	Let me see.
	Hold on.
	I'm going to try to find them.
	I'll double check.
	I'll double check.
	Layla, can you read that?
	We already read this one.
	We did?
	Going back to the respect, there are two kinds of respect.
	Oh, my bad.
	What about this one?
	Let's see.
	Normally, I just listen to the podcast and really do not care to comment.
	The input tonight was just a wild hair sort of thing.
	Contrasting the last panel versus this one is quite shocking.
	Look forward to seeing Stay Safe and something else in the near future, I believe.
	Something like that.
	Okay.
	So we have a message here from Curtis Leon.
	I apologize if it didn't trigger.
	So let me know if we read this or it came in as TTS.
	I think what you're describing, Brian, is a simp.
	I would never waste my time with that.
	Guys can't be friends to women they are attracted to.
	There's obviously no attraction on her part.
	I'd rather spend that money at the strip club.
	This came in a while ago, so I don't know if it's not related to our current conversation.
	Curtis Leone, appreciate the men.
	And then you said there was another one from.
	Who did he say was the other one?
	Curtis.
	I thought it was a little bit of a list of Bonn.
	Bon?
	I don't remember.
	Going back to the respect.
	Oh, it might have come in during the Tate?
	No, I don't know.
	There are two kinds of respect.
	Layla seems.
	We read that one.
	Oh.
	Is it this?
	Oh, no, no, no.
	Sorry.
	Sorry, guys.
	I don't know what happened there.
	Okay, we have one from Grid.
	Oh, wait, we did this one, right?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So we have a couple soup chats.
	Did we do this one?
	No, we didn't.
	W. Kelly, W. Emily.
	Emily should be a regular for sure.
	She kind of remind me of Long.
	That's so sweet.
	Also, a Vlog Ready.
	Also, Brian, chill.
	I appreciate and understand the pod, but don't need to blow up.
	Also, any questions?
	The three possible, just ask or pull the chat.
	Most men disagree.
	Also, any questions, the three poss just asked.
	I think you meant hose, right?
	Like pose?
	Pose.
	Just ask or pull the chat.
	Most men disagree.
	I appreciate the pod, but don't need to blow up.
	Yeah, man, I'm stressed as far.
	He said that he was stressed.
	It's been insane the past couple weeks.
	Okay.
	I'm going to try to make it through the December without a break, but I don't know.
	CDOs.
	Molly, can you read this one?
	CDOs weren't what caused the financial crisis.
	Take those out of the industry, and it was a drop in the bucket.
	What caused the crisis was a lack of liquidity at the banks, hence capital requirements now.
	Okay.
	Thanks, Wolfgang Puck.
	Thank you, Wolfgang Puck, for that.
	Molly, can you read this one?
	Yeah.
	Emily judging Molly and Layla all night.
	LMAO.
	I don't agree with what they say, but your judgmental attitude is ugly.
	AF.
	Imagine coming home to that.
	No wonder your boyfriend didn't want to commit.
	Get off your high voice.
	Emily, do you have a response to David Moncada?
	Oh, dropped him the 23 Euro.
	No, he doesn't have to agree with everything.
	You can think I'm judgmental, and that's fine.
	Okay.
	All right, when you're in a relationship, would you say you're kind of argumentative with partners?
	Not at all.
	Or is it just when you're at the table?
	No, I only get like this with Kelly's going.
	Kelly's going in.
	Okay.
	I guess I get like that with my mom.
	Who was the one earlier saying something about their pussy being better?
	That was Molly, I think.
	Yeah.
	Your pussy is better than Kelly's pussy.
	I think.
	I'm just saying I'm more sexually experienced.
	Just a little bit of a picture.
	How did you know that she could have done some more sexual?
	You're more sexually experienced, but are you better in bed?
	I think so.
	I think so.
	And I would show everyone right here on this table that does not exist.
	We will definitely need to disinfect the table.
	I would hope so.
	I'm not going to be on a dirty table.
	No, I meant after that.
	That's probably a good idea, too.
	Okay.
	Good times.
	Squirters.
	I was going to say, I just learned how to squirt.
	I did too.
	Really?
	Once you've done it.
	I heard that against myself.
	I will.
	You learned how to squirt.
	Yeah, you gotta do a different way.
	Kind of.
	Typically, that's just like powerful that I've been.
	You got it or you don't.
	Yeah, you got it or you don't.
	Thanks, Johnny Sins.
	You can't really learn unless you're just like doing the fake.
	Well, it's a, you know, some guys can't make a girl squirt.
	Okay.
	Typically, have you been with a woman who.
	Yeah, my ex was a virgin.
	May her squirt.
	Have you had any other experiences with squirters?
	No, just that one.
	What about you, bro?
	I'm scared.
	You're like, yeah, do you squirt?
	Huh?
	Have you had some experience with that?
	With women who squirt?
	Yeah.
	Two or three, actually.
	It's very rare.
	It's super rare.
	And typically, women, I don't know if this was your experience.
	Women who squirt typically are multi-orgasmic and come like insanely fat, like very easily.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Like she was almost at the end.
	Like 10 seconds.
	Yeah, it was almost at the sound of my voice.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Women who genuinely squirt.
	Women who genuinely squirt, at least in my experience, like multi-orgasmic and can come like five.
	It's fucking insane.
	And it spoils you for just saying.
	Just saying.
	What?
	Never mind.
	Wait, okay.
	What was our fucking.
	Oh, Destiny.
	Dude, we gotta call it.
	Oh, we don't have time for this.
	I don't think we have time for Destiny.
	Okay.
	I want to say hi.
	You dated Destiny.
	I did not date Destiny.
	You're friends with benefits.
	No.
	Someone told me you were F. There's so good Destiny on the stream right now.
	He needs to stack me up.
	Did you meet him in person?
	Yeah, a couple times.
	Did you gluck luck Destiny?
	No, I didn't.
	Did you give him a hand job or something?
	No.
	Okay.
	I ate sneak really weirdly in front of him and he made fun of me.
	Why did somebody tell me that you're friends with benefits with Destiny?
	I read that comment though, and I was like, who the hell?
	Like, we didn't even stream when we went out to lunch, and I didn't like post it, so someone had to see us out.
	Okay, last question, or maybe second to last question: body count.
	What's everyone's body count?
	Let's start from the other side.
	Yeah, let's do it.
	No, You go first.
	Layla, Layla, you go first.
	You go first.
	I love how you say my name.
	Like, actually, okay.
	How else would I say it?
	Layla.
	Am I pronouncing a weird or some shit?
	I like your voice.
	Okay.
	Body count.
	Easily, like.
	Body count, probably.
	Honestly, after the last podcast, I really sat down and thought about it, and I think I might be like near 60s.
	I thought you said it was over 100.
	I did too, and I really sat down and thought, and I thought about everyone that was head.
	I fuck with that.
	Did you see that too?
	The fly?
	Just go ahead.
	Yeah, I really sat down and thought because I love giving head.
	And well, do you consider head body?
	Because it's like a two-thirds of a body.
	Well, then I'm going to have to sit down and calculate again because I've given them quite a lot of head.
	How many?
	Like she said, oral fixation.
	What's that number?
	What's the head number?
	Probably probably near 100s.
	I love giving head.
	Hundreds?
	No, not hundreds.
	I love giving heads.
	No, Can we do some math?
	Wait, so okay.
	Wait, I'm feeling really good.
	So, guys, the average penis size is about, say, five to six inches.
	I like something like small.
	How many inches has she?
	Erect's penis.
	And then are we thinking like ball?
	Like, how are we?
	Is it head to head that we're measuring this?
	Also, where are you measuring from?
	Like, so five inches times 100.
	Five times, that's 500 inches.
	What's 500 inches?
	Wait, 500 divided by 500 inches.
	Wait, hold on.
	Why is this two-thirds?
	You said 500 inches divided by 4.
	That's about 41 feet of 15.
	Why are you calculating this?
	That's the remote.
	Sorry, 42.
	Well, it's 41.666666.
	42 feet of dick.
	And then, hold on, let me just do a little more 42 divided by 3.
	That gives us yards.
	14 yards of dick, that's part of a football.
	That's a first down.
	That's a first down.
	14 yards.
	That's a little more than a first down.
	I don't know what I'm doing anymore.
	Okay, all right.
	It's a whole lot of penis.
	That's awesome.
	Body count.
	We could do this for dudes too.
	Like, okay, how many cavernous cats?
	Whoa, okay, never mind.
	Go ahead.
	My body counts approximately 100.
	But not really.
	Also, yeah, like.
	I love you, Lily.
	I love you, Lily.
	I'm just teasing.
	I'm teasing.
	You're the best.
	I also feel like my favorite, Lily.
	You're my favorite person that could have been my Tradcom wife, but okay.
	Oh, I don't kiss them at all.
	It's on one hand.
	It's on one hand.
	No, I said last panel, I said one hand.
	Five.
	So it's less than five, yeah.
	So I'm not going to say what?
	No, it's not five.
	I'll be sleeping.
	It's less than five.
	One to four.
	Oh, I just don't want people to know the exact number.
	Why is that wrong?
	Less than one?
	No.
	It's more than one.
	He's going to figure it out.
	He's going to keep asking.
	Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
	What about you?
	I'm a virgin.
	So literally never had sex with her.
	Herpes virgin.
	Disgusting.
	Oh my god, this is a good one.
	No, what's body count?
	Come on.
	I only count people that I have sex with in my personal life, but what do you count for work?
	Yeah, what's the word count?
	Wait, hold on.
	Just you're a virgin in your personal life.
	I was just making a joke.
	Okay.
	It was good.
	Take your work body count and personal and then add it.
	What's that?
	What's that?
	I don't want to.
	Is it over 100?
	In my personal life, it's like 20-something.
	25 maybe.
	Work life?
	My personal life.
	In your work life, though, how much is that?
	Over 100?
	Why?
	That's my job.
	Well, I mean, we could.
	Aren't there like websites that chronicle the chronicles of Varnia?
	That's how many scenes you've done, and you can work with the same person.
	Like, my first 10 scenes was all with the exact same person.
	I think same.
	Should we just say triple digits?
	Is that fair?
	No.
	Because you don't know.
	Okay, you don't want to tell.
	That's fine.
	Okay, Tiffany.
	Like, in the negatives.
	That's not possible, but.
	Yeah, but I have to say that.
	So she's saving herself from marriage.
	Yeah, but like I've never had any like a romantic experience at all.
	First kiss?
	No.
	No kiss.
	No.
	Have you handhold?
	No.
	Nothing?
	Nothing.
	Are you just super picky?
	Yeah.
	Asexual?
	Very specific people.
	Oh, okay.
	Tell us really quick.
	Like, what is your type?
	I just told you, emotionally stable people.
	Well, okay, there's definitely more than that.
	There's definitely more than that.
	What race?
	Any race?
	Why are you like so racial?
	No, I'm just like some girls.
	Imagine Kanye, you're like an Asian girl with a black girl.
	Why are you like racially profiling people?
	Oh my god, don't.
	Just do you have it?
	Do you like white guys?
	Do you like black guys?
	Do you like Latino?
	Excuse me.
	She just likes her personality.
	It doesn't have to be racist.
	Yeah.
	I feel like it's a little bit racist.
	How's it not racist?
	How's it racist?
	Maybe your preference might be racist.
	I don't know.
	Because you're generalizing people based on the pressure.
	I'm not making any generalization.
	I'm just purely asking.
	Do you have a racial preference when it comes to dating?
	Like, a black person and a white person can have the same personality.
	No, well, I mean, it's just a lot of people.
	No, but when it comes to physical attraction, some people might find themselves more physically attracted to you.
	So, like, you're only physically speaking?
	Like, only I'm just asking.
	No, I'm not saying you a question.
	Like, what's your type?
	Like, physically.
	Do you like that?
	Do you like white guys?
	Do you like Asian guys?
	Do you like black guys?
	Do you like them all?
	I think physically, black guys, but then personality.
	Personality-wise, I guess white guys a little bit more because I feel like they're not.
	Now that's racist.
	After you just say personality.
	Okay, so generally speaking, white guys have values that match up with mine a little bit more.
	So you're saying that black guys don't have the same.
	It's just her experiences.
	You don't have to judge her for them.
	Kelly's boyfriend is a black man.
	I'm just a little bit more.
	And she's not offended at what you just said.
	Because that's unfair for you to say that you are attracted to this race, but then you don't even know them to say, oh, they don't have the same morals as me.
	I said, generally speaking.
	Okay, we're not going to harp.
	Okay, that's not going to be racist.
	We're not going to harp.
	We're not going to harp on her.
	I'm not going to harp on her too long.
	Besides that, what are your other, because you said you're kind of pretty picky with a potential guy that you would pursue.
	Height?
	Does he have to be tall?
	Anything like that?
	Five or like five, seven would be the shortest.
	Minimum?
	Okay, that's reasonable.
	That's reasonable.
	Do you like funny guys?
	Do you like kind of sporty guys?
	I like funny guys.
	Funny guys?
	Guys that can make you laugh.
	Yeah.
	Do you care about looks?
	Like, does he have to be like really handsome or not so much?
	Not so much.
	Not so much.
	Does like smile matter?
	That matters a lot for me, like if their smile is pretty.
	I think everyone's pretty when they smile.
	That's true.
	Now I feel like a dick.
	Wholesome Tiffany.
	Okay.
	I am wholesome.
	Besides the suck and dick comment that you made on your YouTube shorts.
	That's just not humor.
	Okay.
	My humor's not so funny.
	Your humor is really good.
	That's okay.
	That's good.
	That's good.
	Okay.
	Wait, so no handhold, no kiss, no nothing.
	No.
	Could I set you up with Nick because he's a virgin?
	No.
	I don't like him.
	Yup.
	Oh!
	Oh, Nick, did you hear that?
	He's not my type.
	Nick's not your type.
	But you just said that you like white guys personalities.
	But she says that she likes black guys physically.
	Depends on the personality.
	Okay, so you get a black guy with a white personality.
	She does not go there.
	What did you say?
	Obama?
	Would you date Obama?
	Obama's liberal.
	What are you talking about?
	Oh, okay.
	All right, whatever, whatever.
	Why would I like Obama?
	I hate Obama.
	Oh, boy.
	Okay.
	For reasons I can't get into.
	Okay, the fucking Secret Service is going to be knocking on your door.
	I'm going to keep it personal.
	Huh?
	Like, I'm not going to.
	Oh, sure, sure.
	Kelly.
	What?
	Oh, body count.
	12.
	What about you, Q?
	Oh, sorry.
	He's asking.
	He's trying to get mad.
	Eight.
	Q. I'm not sure.
	Triple?
	W and chat.
	Somewhere above.
	Triple?
	Nah, not triple.
	Somewhere above 55.
	Multiply it by three and that's what I'm saying.
	For everybody.
	Okay.
	I think we're going to wrap up here.
	I need to get a couple chats out of the way.
	Let me just see.
	We have.
	Did we do this one?
	Damn, I thought the one that said it was the one with the said it was the one.
	Okay.
	It's just Jeff.
	It's the definition of racism is thinking your race is superior to the other.
	Anything else isn't racist except to liberals who tried to redefine things.
	Cute dog, Jeff.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate it.
	Okay, we're all caught up.
	Any final words before we wrap up the show?
	Anybody want a final piece?
	Speak now or forever hold your peace?
	I'm upset we didn't get Destiny on here.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I dropped the ball there.
	Destiny was crying, guys.
	So was the first girl?
	We didn't react to any of her shit.
	Just react before we end.
	No, it's kind of late.
	Don't give her the extra clout.
	It's all good.
	True.
	Maybe I'll re like, dude, if you.
	Jesus Christ, bro.
	Okay.
	My downstairs neighbor's going to freak the fuck out.
	Sorry, what's it called?
	I'm going to.
	Yo, those of you on Twitch, who should we raid?
	Is Stay Safe?
	Are we going to raid Stay Safe on Twitch?
	I think we are.
	Unless he's sleeping remote.
	He was on the show.
	You were on the show.
	That was the incident.
	I think you were on the incident show.
	Yeah, that was him.
	So we're going to raid him here in just a sec, guys.
	I'm just getting that.
	Last chance, if anybody has last speak now, forever, hold your peace.
	Nothing?
	Sydney?
	W and Chad?
	You got something?
	Come on.
	We got to hear something.
	Did you get to say the whole thing about anything you want to get off your chest that's dating related?
	Did we get to we got to you, we got to Tiffany, I think, right?
	She said she didn't have anything.
	She didn't have nothing.
	Sydney?
	I mean, I don't know.
	Just like the main thing that I came on here was just about the whole.
	I've seen the swinging situation come into my house.
	And I think that swinging isn't totally a bad thing if both people are consenting and it stays out the home of kids.
	Of course.
	Then I think that, you know, go do what's going to make you happy.
	Such a strong person.
	Appreciate it.
	But yeah, I think that people can do whatever they want to do to be happy.
	But, you know.
	When it comes to kids, I think that, you know, some things should probably be behind closed doors.
	I agree.
	Preserve that innocence.
	So, okay, swinging bad.
	What about just like your dating life, though?
	Is there anything like that's maybe a bit more applicable to you that you feel?
	Oh, yeah.
	Well, I don't know.
	Just after all the shitty relationships that I've been through, I'm finally just actually looking at the person that I'm going to get into a relationship with because I feel like in past I've jumped into things so fast without even getting to know the person.
	And so now I'm taking my time getting into that, really getting to know the person because just like I said with my ex, like six months, he seemed like this great person, and then it literally just flipped.
	Give us a hot take.
	I'm dating.
	I don't know.
	Like, what do you mean, hot take?
	I'm dating.
	I'm trying to give you a layup here if I can.
	Would you.
	I don't.
	Nothing?
	Nothing?
	I mean, I don't know what you mean by that.
	Came from Colorado.
	What do you think about the men in Boulder?
	Oh, uh, oh, yeah.
	I mean, people in Colorado.
	Do you think there's soulmates in Colorado?
	Oh, definitely not.
	No, definitely not.
	Colorado people are a little.
	Really?
	What are you typing over there?
	I don't know.
	What are you typing?
	I feel like Colorado people are super outdoorsy and stuff like that.
	I don't know what to do.
	What's he typing over there?
	Like, yeah, into that type of stuff.
	Word.
	Okay, guys, I'm going to wrap up the show.
	I'm going to raid StaySafe on Twitch here.
	Hold on.
	One sec.
	Let me get that ready to go.
	We're going to raid him in just a sec.
	All right, guys.
	Last call.
	Hit the like button, please, on your way out.
	Thank you for tuning in tonight.
	You can have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
	I appreciate that very much.
	Thank you, guys.
	Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
	Thank you to the wonderful panel.
	Any women who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram.
	We will be live again Sunday with a, we have another special guest joining us on Sunday.
	I don't want to disclose who, but it's going to be a good show.
	5 p.m. Pacific only on whatever.
	We will see you next time.
	Good night, guys.
	Bye.

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