Dating Talk #76
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| Bro, you scuffed that shit, Nick. | |
| Holy fuck. | |
| All right, and we are live. | |
| Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast. | |
| Thank you for tuning in tonight. | |
| You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| We're coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific. | |
| I'm your host, Brian Atlas. | |
| I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki. | |
| Bro, you scuffed. | |
| You have to pause it, Nick. | |
| In the tab over here, you got to pause it. | |
| I'm joined by my co-host. | |
| Okay, guys, so Nick is on stream running duties tonight. | |
| And here we'll leave it center. | |
| And also, we had to swap computers at the very last minute because we were having our brand new $5,000 computer that we just bought a month ago is already having issues. | |
| So we were scrambling. | |
| We had a swap. | |
| Luckily, I kept the other computer we swapped back. | |
| So, yeah, Nick, put it over to the actual live chat, please. | |
| If you pull over the, yeah, yeah, that's fine. | |
| So we are, and Eric is gone. | |
| It's his birthday, so he's skiing. | |
| So we have Nick for the very first time running the stream. | |
| And unfortunately, before the show, we didn't have time to do a proper tutorial because the fucking computer wasn't working. | |
| So thoroughly scuffed as usual. | |
| Anyways, a few quick announcements before the show begins. | |
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| Nick, pull up the Twitch tab, please. | |
| Do me a favor, guys. | |
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| It's all scuffed over there, unfortunately. | |
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| Ghost, thank for the Prime. | |
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| Drop us a Prime and a follow if you have one. | |
| Sweet. | |
| Also, we have merch. | |
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| Whenever you're ready, Nick. | |
| Yep. | |
| T-shirts. | |
| It's all good. | |
| Guys, be gentle on Nick. | |
| Me too. | |
| Like, it's his first time operating the stream proper. | |
| So, yeah, scuffed as usual. | |
| And then, yep, we got t-shirts. | |
| And then we also, oh, follow us on Instagram at whatever. | |
| The DMs on whatever are no longer bugged. | |
| Nick, switch over. | |
| Yep. | |
| They're no longer bugged. | |
| So you can send us a message. | |
| Previously, it was all bugged, but yeah, it works now. | |
| Also follow my personal Instagram, BD underscore Alice. | |
| Yep, that's me. | |
| Should I grow the beard back? | |
| Yes or no? | |
| Also, please support my nonprofit organization, Big Labia Matter. | |
| It's a grassroots movement. | |
| You know, a lot of women are getting shamed for, am I a pick-me for saying this? | |
| I don't know. | |
| A lot of women get shamed if they, you know, they got an Audi. | |
| It's unfortunate. | |
| It's a really sad state of affairs. | |
| Okay, anyways. | |
| Oh, last thing. | |
| If you guys can't catch the full shows, we have two clips channeled channels, plural. | |
| Hello, my English is failing tonight. | |
| Just keep it there, Nick. | |
| Link for that is in the description. | |
| Guys, that purple hair one, we're like 7K away from 100,000 subscribers. | |
| Help us get another YouTube plaque. | |
| We have three clips channels. | |
| It's ridiculous. | |
| But yeah, go sub over there. | |
| YouTube.com slash nevermind is the link. | |
| Mods, if you can spam it in the chat a couple times. | |
| All right, without further ado, after that thoroughly long-winded and scuffed introduction, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. | |
| So please tell us your name, age, and occupation. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| My name is Kiana Kumani. | |
| I'm 22 years old and I am a hub actress. | |
| You said 22, right? | |
| Yes. | |
| And you're a hub actress. | |
| I am. | |
| Okay, corn hub. | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| Did you do OF too? | |
| Yes, I do. | |
| Do you dance either? | |
| I used to dance, yeah, before I got into hub. | |
| Okay, got it. | |
| What about you? | |
| Hi, guys. | |
| I'm Gwen Singer. | |
| I'm an Instagram model, an OnlyFans model, former podcaster, and aspiring Twitch streamer. | |
| Age? | |
| Ah, 25 for five more years, I think. | |
| Wait, 25 for five more years? | |
| So you're 30? | |
| Well, I mean, I'm gonna, that's my like story. | |
| I'm sticking to it. | |
| 25 for five more years is like a joke. | |
| Yeah, so around there. | |
| 30-ish. | |
| Around, wait, so I'm gonna go to the next one. | |
| Yeah, yeah, 30 ish. | |
| So 25 for five more years. | |
| Like, that's my, that's like the 20. | |
| Like, I'm 25 for five more years. | |
| Wink, wink. | |
| Okay. | |
| It's hilarious. | |
| So you're like 30-ish. | |
| So like 35? | |
| No. | |
| Uh-oh. | |
| 30-ish? | |
| Is that 35? | |
| Kind of. | |
| Okay, I'm Jay Jamie. | |
| I'm 21 in the damn tactic. | |
| Do you do OF or anything? | |
| I have an OnlyFur for OOF, but I don't really use it. | |
| You don't really use it? | |
| Yeah, I mean, it exists, but I don't use it. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm Kirsten. | |
| I'm 21, and I do OnlyFans and social media. | |
| All right. | |
| First off, before anybody starts talking shit, I just gotta say I was born a woman. | |
| I am not a trans. | |
| People love to fucking style like a man. | |
| They love to stay outside like a man ever since I was a little girl. | |
| I don't know how they would even know half of them coming in and then growing up in the house. | |
| But anyway. | |
| Move your mouth this way. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| You move your mouth this way. | |
| Anyway, my name is Byroni Barbie. | |
| I love to be called Barbie, okay? | |
| I am very proud and blessed to say that I'm by my 20s and I am 33 years old. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Be careful, baby. | |
| And I am a stand-up. | |
| I am a content. | |
| And when I feel like it, I'm an actor. | |
| I'm a chauffeur. | |
| I do hair on the side. | |
| I love makeup. | |
| Wait, wait, hold on, hold on. | |
| Is I'm saying that? | |
| Are you serious? | |
| Ain't nobody heard me! | |
| For her? | |
| Is it just her or everybody's? | |
| So chat. | |
| Is it just for Mike is fucked? | |
| Yeah, chat. | |
| Can you hear, is the entire audio clocked? | |
| Hold on, guys. | |
| Everyone. | |
| Yeah, it says entire podcast. | |
| I can't | |
| see them. | |
| I can't see two inches in front of you either. | |
| Oh, someone said this for me. | |
| What should we talk about today, guys? | |
| This is nice, not the weather. | |
| It's gorgeous. | |
| Yeah, sure, it's a little too cool. | |
| It's a little overcast, it is. | |
| We're talking about three. | |
| I've got the London. | |
| Is that where you live? | |
| It's London. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's nice right now, though, for London, right? | |
| For London. | |
| Can anyone read the comment? | |
| Everyone. | |
| Everyone but you, because you can't see two inches in front of you. | |
| Yeah, so, what were they saying? | |
| Are she serious? | |
| But she's still blind. | |
| I know it's one of these days. | |
| That's the thing that we have to press alive. | |
| No, this is not happening to me all. | |
| It's going to be so frustrating. | |
| Rude. Rude. | |
| Has that track one, two? | |
| Hi, what up, though? | |
| Is it fixed? | |
| Is the audio fixed, everyone? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yay. | |
| We'll be back. | |
| It's fixed. | |
| Bye. | |
| Saves the day. | |
| All right, guys, hold on for just a sec. | |
| We're going to get a situation again. | |
| Can you hear me? | |
| Is everything good? | |
| Hello? | |
| Still? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Oh. | |
| Doing TikTok dance or something. | |
| I don't care, absolutely not. | |
| I really don't do that, so I really don't. | |
| Chat, are we good? | |
| Looks like it's not. | |
| Yes, everyone's saying it's fixed. | |
| I think everyone's saying yes. | |
| You think? | |
| I really couldn't tell you. | |
| I'm so blind. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| It doesn't even look good. | |
| That's pretty good, actually. | |
| Looks good when I've had it there. | |
| Because this is different. | |
| Like, the album is going to be different. | |
| So you can't trust what you hear from this. | |
| I know those days. | |
| God, I remember them. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, probably. | |
| Okay. | |
| No, I think they'll probably. | |
| You can cut it from YouTube later. | |
| How's everyone's day today? | |
| Tired? | |
| You're going to be tired later. | |
| Yeah, I'm going to last a long time. | |
| Okay. | |
| Bye, guys. | |
| Yeah, see, boosters. | |
| Hello. | |
| Did I also scuff this camera as I passed it? | |
| Probably. | |
| That's fine, I think. | |
| Okay, guys, can you hear me? | |
| Is it okay, chat? | |
| Chat, is the audio okay? | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Scuffed as usual. | |
| Like I said, I don't know if you heard, was all the intro scuffed or did it start when somebody started speaking? | |
| Was all of it scuffed? | |
| In any case, I'm not going to reread the intro. | |
| But we're going to have everyone just introduce themselves again. | |
| Wait, chat, when did it stop? | |
| Or when did it start? | |
| When was it scuffed? | |
| Chat, hello? | |
| Is there a girl in the white shirt? | |
| I think. | |
| It started when she introduced herself. | |
| Girl in the white shirt. | |
| All intros scuffed. | |
| Redo intros after first girl. | |
| Okay, we're just gonna have everyone reintroduce themselves. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I'm Kiana Kumani. | |
| I'm 22 years old, and I am a hub actress. | |
| I'm Gwen Singer. | |
| I'm 30. | |
| And I'm an OnlyFans model. | |
| 30-ish. | |
| Okay, get it right. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm Jamie. | |
| I'm 21 and I'm a dancer. | |
| I'm Kirsten. | |
| I'm 21 and I do OnlyFans social media. | |
| First off, I just want to say I was born a woman. | |
| I am not trans. | |
| Motherfuckers have been saying I sound like a man my whole life. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| I don't know how when they probably ain't even had no daddy growing up in the house. | |
| But my name is Byronique Barbie. | |
| I prefer to be called Barbie. | |
| What? | |
| That's liquor. | |
| What's bro? | |
| Are you fucking continuing intro? | |
| Okay, and I am very proud to say that I survived my 20s and I am 33 years old. | |
| Be careful out there because them 20s will kill you, okay? | |
| I am a content creator. | |
| I'm a stand-up comedian. | |
| And when I feel like it, on the weekend, sometimes I do makeup, I do hair, I act, and I'm a chauffeur. | |
| Slay. | |
| I am L and I'm 21 years old. | |
| I am an OnlyFans model. | |
| I also did cosmetology school and got my business degree and real estate and all those other things. | |
| I think those are all the questions, right? | |
| Yep. | |
| Hi, I'm Michaela. | |
| I'm 18 years old. | |
| Right now I'm currently just a student. | |
| I'm about to study here in Santa Barbara and I'm more than likely going to major in aeronautical engineering or just engineering in general or just do film. | |
| I haven't really decided yet. | |
| Hi, my name is Hannah Mariyama. | |
| I teach people how to get work without buying college degrees and I'm also the head of ops for an AI startup. | |
| I am 28. | |
| My name is Zoe Sin. | |
| I am an ex-corn star, now OnlyFans model, and I give dating advice on TikTok. | |
| Yeah. | |
| My name is Pearl. | |
| I'm 26 and I do YouTube. | |
| All right. | |
| Welcome, everybody. | |
| Please keep us apprised if we have further technical issues. | |
| Mike one is a little low volume. | |
| Jesus. | |
| Probably not. | |
| I'm sure it's fun. | |
| Is it? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay, let's. | |
| Okay. | |
| We're going to go around the table one more time. | |
| No, no. | |
| So what is your current relationship status? | |
| Are you single, friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship, relationship, engaged, married, et cetera, et cetera? | |
| Also, what's your longest relationship? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Mine's very complicated. | |
| And I think the longest relationship I was in was four years. | |
| Okay. | |
| You said it's complicated. | |
| What does that mean? | |
| Just a very complicated talking situation, I guess. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So like, what? | |
| What are we talking about here? | |
| You got like five dudes? | |
| What's the deal? | |
| No, it's just one guy. | |
| Keanu, just go for it. | |
| Yeah, go for it. | |
| Let it rip. | |
| Come on. | |
| I'm pregnant, so it's complicated. | |
| You're pregnant? | |
| Yeah, so it's a complicated talk. | |
| Congratulations. | |
| Like six weeks or what are we talking about? | |
| Like five weeks. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, but you're, was the guy's not in the picture anymore? | |
| No, he is. | |
| It's just complicated. | |
| Nick, you gotta be quick. | |
| You gotta be quick. | |
| He is. | |
| It's just complicated. | |
| With him? | |
| Yes. | |
| How so? | |
| It's a lot of arguing and stuff, but it's fine. | |
| We're good now. | |
| Everyone's saying your mic is way too low. | |
| Number one. | |
| Number it's 12 or some shit. | |
| Jesus Christ. | |
| Everything that could have fucking gone wrong today went wrong. | |
| The bullshit fucking compute. | |
| We had to swap out a computer. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Huh? | |
| Is it the audio you're saying? | |
| Yeah, congratulations. | |
| Was the pregnancy planned? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| No. | |
| Not at all. | |
| Is that what you guys are arguing? | |
| Because did you not? | |
| No, she's just psychotic. | |
| He's not crazy though. | |
| All the hot ones are, though, right? | |
| No. | |
| Well, yeah, no, not all of them. | |
| I was just trying to. | |
| Thanks for trying to make me feel better. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is her mic working? | |
| Like, it's working, it's just low. | |
| Can y'all not hear me? | |
| Can you put it on live tab, Nick? | |
| Okay. | |
| Let us know in the chat, guys, is her mic, her mic is working, it's just low, correct, chat? | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| It's complicated. | |
| So you're still seeing the guy? | |
| Yes. | |
| Are there other guys in the picture? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| So it's complicated by the fact that you're pregnant? | |
| Yes. | |
| When did you find out you were pregnant? | |
| I found out really early. | |
| I went and got a blood test. | |
| So I found out like when I was like two weeks. | |
| Okay. | |
| And gonna keep the kid? | |
| I think so, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| He wants the kid? | |
| No, not at all. | |
| So, but so why is it complicated besides the pregnancy? | |
| I mean, we love each other very much and we care about each other a lot, but it's just other factors, life factors. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| He's pregnant too? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| That would complicate things, I reckon. | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| Well, yeah, congratulations. | |
| I am, I'm single. | |
| I'm single. | |
| I've been kind of a serial monogamist a bit through life. | |
| My longest relationship was from high school, seven plus years. | |
| From high school, okay. | |
| Hey, Nick. | |
| Hold on. | |
| You said the audio at the very bottom? | |
| I'll fix it. | |
| Just keep going around the table. | |
| I'm currently in a relationship. | |
| This is probably my longest one. | |
| It's almost a year. | |
| I'm also in a relationship, and this is my longest one in almost two years. | |
| I'm single as a motherfucking Pringle. | |
| And let me tell you something. | |
| The longest relationship, all my relationships ain't never made it past the 90-day probation period. | |
| Okay, for real. | |
| Why do you think that is? | |
| Shit, I don't know. | |
| They say I'm crazy, but I don't want to. | |
| You're not talking to your mic. | |
| You're going to talk into your mic. | |
| I don't know. | |
| They say I'm crazy. | |
| These niggas say I'm crazy, but I ain't crazy. | |
| They're stupid. | |
| Are they? | |
| Oh, wait, they all say you're crazy? | |
| If you went around and asked all my exes, they probably would say the same thing. | |
| She's crazy ass. | |
| Sorry, I had to test that. | |
| I am still single. | |
| My longest relationship was five years, beginning of high school, and then a little after high school. | |
| It was on and off a lot, though. | |
| I am currently single, and my longest relationship was probably only seven months, maybe eight max. | |
| My longest relationship is eight years, and it's my husband, and we've been married for five years. | |
| Hell yeah. | |
| I am currently in a very new relationship, but my longest relationship was two and a half years. | |
| I'm currently single. | |
| My longest relationship was like a year and a half, two years. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| And you? | |
| I don't talk about my situation. | |
| I'm sorry, guys. | |
| This is absolutely fucked on my end, so I'm trying to figure it out, guys. | |
| So I'm trying to fucking go back behind the scenes, trying to get shit figured out over here. | |
| Or TTS isn't working, our computer's not working, our audio is not working. | |
| Yeah, if it wasn't for the computer issue, we would have been fine, but it's thoroughly scuffed. | |
| So, okay. | |
| Let me see here. | |
| Single, right? | |
| Both of you are single, too? | |
| Yeah, we're both single. | |
| Single, single. | |
| Relationships. | |
| Both relationships. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| Here's just a filler question while I have to figure out some technical issues. | |
| Is it the deal breaker for a guy won't go down on you? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Start with you. | |
| I think so, because if they're expecting me to go down on them, I would want them to go down on me. | |
| I feel like that's important. | |
| Yeah, I agree completely. | |
| Yeah, it's a total deal breaker, 100%. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know if I would say it's a deal breaker, but I think it's extremely important in a relationship to feel sexually comfortable with each other, especially if it's going to be like a serious relationship. | |
| Yeah, I'm agreeing with Jamie 100% on that one. | |
| Definitely a deal breaker, even though I have dealt with a nigga that would not go down on me and expected me to go down on him. | |
| I definitely prefer somebody that would be willing to go down on me, but I'm not going to like completely cut them off. | |
| Straight in your mic, please. | |
| I'm not going to completely. | |
| Straight in your mic, please. | |
| I'm not going to completely cut somebody off if they're not trying to go down on me, but I would prefer if they did. | |
| I agree with Jamie. | |
| I don't think it's a deal breaker, but I do agree with the fact that it is pretty important, I guess. | |
| Yeah, I'd agree with that. | |
| I think that you should always be in a relationship with somebody who cares enough about you to do things that you'd like. | |
| And so if you find that somebody will not do that, that's kind of a red flag. | |
| Yeah, I wouldn't say a deal breaker. | |
| I mean, because I like giving head and I like receiving it, but I mean, if the peen is good enough, then sure. | |
| I mean, I really don't give two shits, so yeah. | |
| I don't really care. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| I don't care. | |
| I mean, 69 is kind of like my favorite thing in the world, so I'd be a little bit upset. | |
| I'm not going to lie. | |
| But I would say too. | |
| I did everything else, and that's the only thing. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| That's why I was like, I'm not going to completely cut you off if you check other boxes. | |
| But if you don't want a 69 with me, I mean, what the fuck am I doing here, you know? | |
| I would also argue, too, that I might, like, if there's not enthusiasm, and like, and if it's really, like, torture for the guy, then, you know, it's not enjoyable. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| As long as I come, I don't give a fuck. | |
| All right, I'm trying to trigger this TTS. | |
| Nope. | |
| Okay, TTS is broke. | |
| Typical. | |
| Okay. | |
| Guys in the chat, don't take advice from any females on panel, especially the OF corn stars. | |
| They are sick in society. | |
| And why? | |
| Here, please, center men on the. | |
| Need to get a passport and fly to Argentina, Colombia, or South Korea. | |
| Okay, Cheeks, who is this directed to? | |
| All of them most of the time. | |
| All the OF girls. | |
| Oh, he's a passionate. | |
| Like 90%. | |
| Honestly, in general, I don't think that men should really take relationship advice from women. | |
| You have a dating. | |
| Interesting. | |
| I like that. | |
| Don't you? | |
| Isn't that your intersexual dynamics? | |
| Is that not your job, though? | |
| No, I don't give advice. | |
| Not to men on dating. | |
| I've said multiple times. | |
| It's like a misconception. | |
| Interesting. | |
| I like that. | |
| Okay, so would you? | |
| Because it's like, how? | |
| What am I going to tell a guy how to approach a girl? | |
| When I've never approached. | |
| No, because I've never approached women. | |
| I've never seen women and you know how to do it. | |
| No, I think women like, we don't typically know. | |
| I mean, I think I would know. | |
| But as a woman, you know what you want. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I think you can give like tips for what you like. | |
| What may work? | |
| Yeah, but like the thing is like women don't even know what we want. | |
| How do you know? | |
| I know. | |
| I like that. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I'm not sure. | |
| I feel like it depends on what you're asking. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like in what context? | |
| How do you like to be approached? | |
| Very confidently. | |
| Okay. | |
| It depends on the woman because if you're going up to like a bookworm. | |
| Yeah, I don't want to shy. | |
| He comes over like, hey, you're hot as shit. | |
| He's intimidating. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| But it depends. | |
| Read the room type deal. | |
| Yeah, I've got like a single. | |
| I'm direct. | |
| I'll probably hit on the guy first. | |
| Oh. | |
| Yeah, same. | |
| I'm with my audience. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| May as well. | |
| Can I have you strain your mic, please? | |
| Yeah, there you go. | |
| Wait, so you guys would hit on the guy first? | |
| Yeah, sometimes. | |
| I mean, it depends on the situation. | |
| You'd hit on the guy first? | |
| Yeah, if I was interested. | |
| You've done it before? | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| And for those of you here who have hit on the guy first, generally speaking, does it go over pretty well? | |
| Does it work? | |
| That's right. | |
| Then I'm in now. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It works for you. | |
| Works for you. | |
| Like, you don't really get rejected, do you? | |
| I have been. | |
| When you've gone up to a guy? | |
| Yeah. | |
| How did you get rejected? | |
| I mean, sometimes they'll just say, no, I'm not interested. | |
| No, I have a girlfriend. | |
| Or just, no, I'm not interested. | |
| That's okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Especially with dancing, you have to learn how to approach men. | |
| Especially when working in the club, you have to learn how to approach men and be able to come up to them and talk to them and hit on them first. | |
| Is it just you two that are dancers or dance together? | |
| Anybody dancing together? | |
| That's how we used to be to dancer five years ago. | |
| Did you guys ever date anyone that you met at the club? | |
| And would you? | |
| Never. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| I let him take me on dates, but I never did anything sexual with him. | |
| And why do you say absolutely not? | |
| I just think that if you want to have a healthy relationship with somebody, I can't speak for everybody, but I would not be okay with my, I know what goes on in the strip club, and I'm not okay with. | |
| What goes on in the strip club? | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| A lot of the stuff with some other dancers. | |
| Some dancers do extras. | |
| I don't. | |
| The men too, though. | |
| I can't tell you how many times I have been sitting at a table with a guy who's just going on and on about how much he hates his wife or his girlfriend or whatever. | |
| And that just, that's not what I want for myself. | |
| And any man that I see in the strip club, like, you're there for a reason. | |
| And that's not the kind of man that I want. | |
| You still dance currently, correct? | |
| I do, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you have a celebrity crush? | |
| No, not really. | |
| I was going to say, if he walks into the strip club, do you date him? | |
| Okay. | |
| So really quick here, who's single? | |
| Show of hands. | |
| Show of hands. | |
| Kind of. | |
| Kind of ish. | |
| You're kind of ish, but you're pregnant. | |
| Hello? | |
| Are you on dating apps right now? | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| No. | |
| No dating apps? | |
| I stopped doing what I do for work when I met the person I got pregnant from. | |
| Wait, hold on. | |
| But so you do traditional, I'm just fucking whatever. | |
| You do traditional porn. | |
| I was doing it up until I met this person and I was very comfortable with them. | |
| So I stopped doing it like a week into us talking. | |
| I like stopped doing the actual corn, like being on a website. | |
| I haven't shot anything at all since I met him. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Can I ask you, I'm so sorry. | |
| No, go ahead. | |
| For someone who's done that before, for a partner that I met, totally regret it. | |
| Why did you quit porn for a, not even a man, a person? | |
| Honestly, I just have been getting, there's been a lot of stuff in the industry that's been going on that I was already kind of getting tired of. | |
| So I was slowly transitioning out of it and going more towards OnlyFans because I like being able to in charge and being able to do what I want to do. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So I like that. | |
| So I was already kind of getting out of it and I just really do care and appreciate this person very much. | |
| And, you know, he He didn't tell me to stop doing it, but I could tell that it made him uncomfortable. | |
| Yeah, they didn't ever have to tell you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I could tell that it made him uncomfortable and like, I really do care about this person. | |
| I'm trying to make it work. | |
| So for now, I'm not going to be working in the corn industry. | |
| What are your long-term goals? | |
| So I'm starting to make better money on OnlyFans right now and I want to get like Airbnb properties. | |
| Nice. | |
| Also, I lived in Israel. | |
| I served in the Army in Israel also. | |
| So I do want to go back there and like, I want to get my nursing degree and go back to Israel and like help out over there. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's very noble. | |
| Nick, don't unstar the red chats, please. | |
| You got to keep them up. | |
| Here, I restart it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, the guy you're currently seeing, though, he's definitely the one that... | |
| 100%. 100%. | |
| Yes. | |
| There's no way that it's not. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| So, I mean, for those of you who said you're single, what, I mean, in today's day and age, what does being single really mean? | |
| You know? | |
| So you said you're single, correct? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm single. | |
| I'm unmarried. | |
| And non-exclusive. | |
| Not really even a situationship. | |
| I mean, I have someone I love very dearly who lives in the UK and don't really know what the future looks like, but when we see each other, we are very much like a relationship dynamic. | |
| But outside of that, I don't ask his business. | |
| Wait, so hold on. | |
| Are you in a relationship with this guy? | |
| I love this person. | |
| And I think I'm in a way, what's a relationship? | |
| I'm in a relationship with my best friend. | |
| These are all relationships. | |
| It's just, am I free to date? | |
| Yes. | |
| Do I have someone that I love that I consider a potential future exclusive partner? | |
| Yes. | |
| Is he seeing other women? | |
| I think so, a bit. | |
| Are you seeing other guys? | |
| I was, but not anymore. | |
| I'm not really interested in actually dating. | |
| Do you want to have kids one day? | |
| I do. | |
| I think I do. | |
| I think so. | |
| I mean, I wouldn't even, I wouldn't be talking to him or about him like this if I didn't see the potential for that. | |
| That's really wise. | |
| Well, you know, we wise up eventually. | |
| Hopefully. | |
| Or we don't. | |
| But I mean, he lives in the UK and you guys don't really have any, doesn't sound like you have an established understanding, really, in terms of the boundaries of your relationship. | |
| No, and that's kind of like there's a beauty to that. | |
| I mean, there are times when I subscribe to the social norms where I'm like, oh, shit, like, do I need to have him committed to me? | |
| And all these things. | |
| And I'm like, do I even want him to be committed to me? | |
| Am I ready to be committed to him? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I can't necessarily answer this question. | |
| So right now. | |
| So I mean, taking time, really developing the connection, establishing what the values are, really establishing whether this is a future father of my kids. | |
| And if he is, then taking it to the next level. | |
| I think ultimately I do long for an exclusively monogamous relationship. | |
| But I don't know. | |
| I've always been really progressive, really open-minded about ownership and possession. | |
| Okay, but you said you were single, but you're currently in love with a man in the UK. | |
| I said I love him very dearly. | |
| Is there a difference between loving someone dearly and being you're not in love with him? | |
| You know, I think, I mean, God, I'm in love with so many aspects of him. | |
| I haven't really, I'm pretty guarded. | |
| And this person lives like a long distance, right? | |
| So the nature of like the interactions that we have is like, are like short-lived, couple, you know, three weeks a month at a time in these gorgeous exotic places. | |
| And it's not necessarily a great way. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| I think I've always been a skeptic about like, well, how do you know you're in love? | |
| You know? | |
| Is he a wealthy guy? | |
| I'm not dating him because of his wealth. | |
| But is he... | |
| I mean, it's all relative, but I wouldn't define him as like a rich guy. | |
| Like financially rich. | |
| Okay. | |
| He's really very, very highly educated. | |
| Like he's like upper class. | |
| Is he like royal or something? | |
| I met him at a really cool place. | |
| He's, you know, like not necessarily no. | |
| Whose glasses are those? | |
| No, just no glasses. | |
| Do you want them on? | |
| Put them somewhere not on the table, please. | |
| That works. | |
| Okay. | |
| So you're in love with him. | |
| You see him how frequently? | |
| I love him so much. | |
| I love him very dearly. | |
| He's one of my greatest, like, one of the, I've loved him more than I, I mean, our relationship is so stemmed and like founded in friendship. | |
| Do you want a deep appreciation? | |
| Do you want more with him? | |
| I think so. | |
| I think so. | |
| I mean, I think so. | |
| Have you had that conversation with him? | |
| We did early on in the relationship. | |
| What does he say? | |
| I mean, early on, we were pretty, like, we met at a wedding and we were like, there was love in the air, okay? | |
| Like, a really romantic setting. | |
| And I was really, at first, it was like, you know, it was like a week-long wedding in Pakistan. | |
| And we, like every night at the end of the night, we kept on gravitating toward each other. | |
| And we just had these really, really wonderful, deep, like, conversations. | |
| And I didn't really see anything. | |
| Like, I felt platonic friendship. | |
| But at the end of the week, he like came over and he put his like hand on my leg while we were talking. | |
| I was like, oh, I was like, oh, he's like, you got the tingle? | |
| You got the tingle? | |
| And I was like, am I into this? | |
| And I was like, I'm not necessarily not into this. | |
| But it took me by surprise. | |
| Because the whole time I had my eye on someone else at the wedding. | |
| Because I was like, you know, I was like, yeah. | |
| But I ended up really developing this connection. | |
| I even remember saying to someone there, I was like, okay, I don't know which guy it is. | |
| This is like midway through the week. | |
| I was like, with this guy, the one I'm talking about, the connection has grown. | |
| With this other guy, it's kind of faded the more I've seen. | |
| It was like attraction. | |
| And the more I see, the less attracted I am. | |
| And my friend was like, well, obviously, it's the one with whom the attraction and connection grows. | |
| And it's just continued to grow. | |
| I have like a deep respect and appreciation and admiration for him. | |
| How long have you been dating him, I guess you could say? | |
| Right? | |
| January 2021. | |
| Okay, so two and a half years about. | |
| Is it you? | |
| Because it sounds like you're both, it seems, from what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. | |
| Do you think it's you or him that's kind of pumping the brakes? | |
| Well, okay, here's what it is. | |
| He's come to the US and he's like, fuck that shit. | |
| He's like, hell no. | |
| He's like, no, not going to happen. | |
| And I haven't spent enough time in the UK. | |
| So I mentioned to Pearl, who lives in London, that that's why I'm asking him, like, how do you like it? | |
| She's like, nah. | |
| I am moving. | |
| I am leaving. | |
| And I like the son, right? | |
| And so he's pretty like fixed. | |
| He has an established life in London. | |
| Do you think if you went to see him like that, you guys would date if you like moved to him? | |
| I think so. | |
| If I was in London, like, yeah, we think we'd be together. | |
| Has he said that? | |
| That's awesome. | |
| I haven't asked. | |
| But, you know, and I don't know that it would be fair to ask unless I moved there and we spent time there, like, you know, like long, you know, a longer, you know, period of time. | |
| Because everything's been in snippets for us about a month at a time. | |
| So you've been dating him for since January of 2021. | |
| During that time period, have you been seeing any other guys? | |
| Yeah, oh yeah. | |
| Oh yeah? | |
| Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| I was very enthusiastic. | |
| In the first year of that, I was still just kind of like carrying on with like dating. | |
| And I was dating, like, I was dating, like fully dating, like multiple, like, all right, dinner tonight, dinner tomorrow, you know. | |
| Now, I'm not dating. | |
| I'm not really interested. | |
| How frequently do you guys talk? | |
| Like, on a daily basis, weekly? | |
| Several times a week. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you text or like call? | |
| Alternate, like call once a week, but like texting. | |
| Okay, well, maybe we'll come back to that. | |
| In your Twitter bio, you state that I am not for sale, but my nudes are. | |
| That is, yeah, attention. | |
| Can you say that more time? | |
| They're for sale on OnlyFans. | |
| That's a hell of a marketing tagline. | |
| Do you like it? | |
| No, I appreciate it. | |
| Yeah, do you want to know why I put that up recently? | |
| It's because I had an offer made. | |
| To buy? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, and I was really bothered by it, to be honest with you. | |
| I was really bothered by it. | |
| Not for, okay, not really. | |
| I mean, I don't judge. | |
| There's a lot of escorting that happens in these industries, as we all well know. | |
| But it was the approach, and it was also the fact that I'd heard from a friend recently about a traumatic experience. | |
| And she's a high-earning, big-name porn star. | |
| And she had a very traumatic experience escorting, and she is in therapy for it, and it just broke my heart. | |
| Nick, open it up, please. | |
| But yeah, so I'm not for sale, but my nudes are very much for sale. | |
| Okay, really quick question on that. | |
| I suppose I can open this up to the entire panel. | |
| So there's not like a price. | |
| Whenever I start asking, like 10 mil, sorry, no. | |
| Do you see a barcode? | |
| I have to ask an honest question. | |
| Can I ask you as someone who, like... | |
| A little closer. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, can I ask you as someone who just left porn, why are you offended that someone would ask you that? | |
| Because as someone who went into, I knew exactly the kind of treatment I would get. | |
| So anytime I got asked those, I guess I could say stupid questions, I knew it came with the price. | |
| Do you know what I mean? | |
| So I will never be offended that someone saw me as an object when I'm putting myself on display as an object. | |
| Okay, okay. | |
| Very valid. | |
| And I think that like, I think what offended me is honestly the fact that I, it was probably projection because I considered it because I was a good price. | |
| And I was like, you know, so is there a price? | |
| So I think that's why I was like, wait a second. | |
| You know, it was, it put things in perspective. | |
| But I was offended because this guy was fucking name-dropping left and right, all of these actresses that he works with. | |
| And I'm like, you know what? | |
| I don't need to know who you work with. | |
| I'd appreciate it. | |
| And in fact, if you'd show them respect by having some discretion. | |
| So I was offended by the whole experience, but not like the approach itself. | |
| Well, okay, look. | |
| So just to open it up to the entire panel, and this is related to what you have in your Twitter bio. | |
| Do you have a price? | |
| Like for me, dude, if someone offered me 10 mil, I'm taking that shit. | |
| It's like a house. | |
| My house might not be for sale, but if someone comes up and it's like, yo, fucking $500 million. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, it's not for sale, but, you know. | |
| It would depend on the person, too. | |
| Somebody's really offering me $10 million to buy me. | |
| It would really depend on the person. | |
| But I also hate the fact that men think that they can own you. | |
| That's why I like your Twitter bio. | |
| Not own you. | |
| I'm just talking about sex. | |
| Like sex one time. | |
| I mean, in reality, porn is technically that. | |
| Working for Pornhub is technically that. | |
| Getting paid for sex. | |
| It's technically that. | |
| But is it on the men for buying it or is it on you for putting it on OnlyFans or Pornhub? | |
| It's been a person. | |
| I think it's on both. | |
| Well, hide them in a nine hundred anyway. | |
| I think it's just a lot of people. | |
| But like, why do you, I don't understand why you would hate a man owning you if that's what you're selling. | |
| She didn't say that, though. | |
| I'm not. | |
| I made a picture of her or a video of her. | |
| I might have just said that. | |
| I thought that was what you said. | |
| Here, let's just go around the table. | |
| So you get, one, is there a price where you'd be like, I'll sell sex for that price? | |
| I mean, I guess. | |
| I'd love to say no, but at the end of the day, if somebody came up to me with $10 million cash and said, have sex with me here's like, I don't know. | |
| I don't know what I would do. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| Wouldn't do it. | |
| 10 mil. | |
| No. | |
| Morally, I know my morals aren't completely there. | |
| Like, I do OnlyFans, but I don't think I could get myself to say, I let somebody buy me for a night. | |
| That's set for life money. | |
| You don't have to work again. | |
| But you have to look at yourself in the mirror again. | |
| And that's more important to me, to be honest. | |
| Like, I've always said since I, even when I started, I started stripping when I was like 18 years old. | |
| I blew out the birthday candles and was wrapping my shit around the pole. | |
| But I did always say, like, to customers, I sell the view of my body, but not my body itself. | |
| If you can find a barcode, there you go. | |
| Word. | |
| I'm going to find one. | |
| Word. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm tired of working, so hell fucking year. | |
| I'm sick of this shit. | |
| So let's go. | |
| And it's only one night, too. | |
| I ain't got to make a dick appointment every week. | |
| Come on now, baby. | |
| Let's go here. | |
| Hilarious. | |
| Holla. | |
| Holla. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Okay. | |
| For me, I feel like for the sake of my dignity and out of respect for whoever tilt the mic down towards you, just 10. | |
| Like this? | |
| Yeah, that's good. | |
| I feel like because of my dignity and my morals, I guess I couldn't see myself setting a price to do something like that. | |
| And as I said, like out of respect to the person I potentially might get with for a future, I wouldn't want somebody to be able to say, oh, yeah, I paid for her for the night. | |
| I just, I can't see myself. | |
| 10 mil though? | |
| And I know like 10 million is a lot of money, but like at the end of the day, it's like money isn't. | |
| Are you waiting until marriage? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, we didn't even get into that, but good for you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, there is no amount of money. | |
| Absolutely not. | |
| 10 mil? | |
| No. | |
| What if the husband gives the green light? | |
| He would absolutely not. | |
| Husband's confirm or denied. | |
| Yeah, that is too precious of a gift. | |
| I think it's wrong to buy a woman's body. | |
| That's why it's like. | |
| Sure. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Zoe, what about you? | |
| Not anymore. | |
| If you asked me six months ago, hell yeah, but not anymore. | |
| I'm doing like better things. | |
| 10 mil? | |
| Nah. | |
| 20 mil? | |
| Not anymore. | |
| 100. | |
| I wish you would have caught me six months ago. | |
| I would have said hell yeah. | |
| That's not the offering. | |
| I'm just throwing out numbers. | |
| Pearl. | |
| No, I'm okay. | |
| 10 mil? | |
| Nah, I mean, I just, I feel like if I was that desperate for money, I'd just go live in my parents' house. | |
| You know. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I have low-key story that might be a little entertaining for that, like what you just said. | |
| So at the strip club one time, I actually did get offered 5K, which is low amount, but it was only for him to watch me finger myself. | |
| And I turned that down and he had the 5K in his hand. | |
| And I still said no. | |
| So he wouldn't have touched me at all. | |
| Can I make a point though? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What's different about that and doing OnlyFans? | |
| That's a good question. | |
| Well, they can own a picture or a video of whatever I'm comfortable putting on the internet, but I wouldn't meet with someone for money. | |
| That's the difference. | |
| Like, you can own the photo of me, the video of me getting fucked by somebody I would consensually fuck in my free time, but definitely not like my body, my energy. | |
| That's for me to distribute as much as I want, also as little as I want to whoever I want. | |
| But have you ever sold a video of you doing that for $5,000? | |
| A video of me fingering myself? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sort of for a lot cheaper than that. | |
| But that's kind of like, but that's like not in person. | |
| Because if you say yes to one person in the strip club, it's like a live photo, a live video. | |
| Yeah, but what's the difference? | |
| If you do that in the strip club, though, that guy is going to go out and tell his buddies, and then he's going to, everybody else in the strip club is going to be like, oh. | |
| I don't disagree. | |
| That doing that in the future. | |
| And then that puts you in danger. | |
| Now you're making like 30,000 and stuff. | |
| That puts you in danger, though. | |
| I don't know. | |
| That puts you in danger. | |
| I don't disagree with you, though. | |
| Doing it inside the strip. | |
| I actually agree. | |
| I'm like, and that takes out of another girl's pocket. | |
| And that's just not right. | |
| It ruins it for everyone. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Audio is delayed. | |
| It's still wait, what? | |
| A lot of people are saying it or some of us see like 10 people. | |
| Yo, chat, once more, is the audio scuffed? | |
| Is there an audio delay? | |
| Chat, can you let us know? | |
| Are we getting an audio desync? | |
| Jesus Christ, how long has it been? | |
| Has it? | |
| Did it just start, guys? | |
| Is the audio delayed? | |
| Hello? | |
| Sorry, guys, my chat's all scuffed over here. | |
| I'm waiting for it to get caught up. | |
| Madison, what about you? | |
| Would you know? | |
| I don't think they saw you, but whatever. | |
| Okay, well, while I get that figured out, again, audio is good. | |
| Some people are saying audio is good. | |
| Wait. | |
| Recently? | |
| Just started? | |
| AV Club. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Delayed. | |
| Two minutes tops. | |
| Seven second delay. | |
| Way off. | |
| Still delayed. | |
| Audio is still off. | |
| Delayed. | |
| Slight delay. | |
| It's delayed. | |
| Here, hold on. | |
| That's not going to help us fucking do anything. | |
| But, okay, what's the, here, I'm going to clap. | |
| Tell me the delay, guys. | |
| Okay. | |
| Can't believe I'm doing this during the fucking live stream. | |
| 10,000 fucking people watching. | |
| I'm so sorry, guys. | |
| It's just, our computer's scuffed. | |
| Everything is scuffed. | |
| It's just a fucking nightmare. | |
| One second delay. | |
| Hello. | |
| One second. | |
| Two seconds. | |
| Oh, Jesus. | |
| All right. | |
| I can't catch a fucking break. | |
| Should I just end the fucking stream? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Somebody, you guys talk while I figure this out. | |
| Well, so I'm kind of curious, actually. | |
| I have a question for you, Pearl, and that is, so you don't give dating advice to men, correct? | |
| Yeah, like, when I think of dating advice, it's like, approach the girl this way, say this, you know, that sort of thing. | |
| Okay, so you do, but it's just a little bit. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| So you do give a little bit of dating advice, but it's very minimal. | |
| I mean, general things, like don't, you know, date a girl that slept with 50 dudes. | |
| But, you know, I think that's just common sense. | |
| Do you usually give dating advice to women? | |
| Yeah, that's what I was going to ask. | |
| I mean, the show is mostly people just giving their opinions on dating. | |
| So it's just intersexual dynamics. | |
| So we more talk about certain decisions in society and the outcomes. | |
| Oh, I see. | |
| Earlier you mentioned you had starting a podcast, correct? | |
| I sometimes | |
| get called to pick me because I'm only a woman with accountability, but But I'm just trying to, I mean, those are like very few tiny segments in each of my pieces, but overall, it's trying to get people to realize, like, just be realistic with yourself before you go out here saying that men are shit. | |
| No, your taste is. | |
| Have you ever thought about looking inward? | |
| Or about like self-awareness? | |
| Oh, that sucks. | |
| Oh, well. | |
| We'll react. | |
| I think the audio is back. | |
| Oh, it's back. | |
| It's back. | |
| It's back. | |
| We're definitely leave off of. | |
| Can someone define red-pilled for me? | |
| Because I feel like everybody has a different definition of what that means, and it's real confusing. | |
| Oh, wow. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Was it Rolo Tomasi and that other guy? | |
| The one that was in the suit. | |
| What was his name? | |
| I feel like every guy that comes in here is wearing a blazer suit, though. | |
| I think Justin something is his name. | |
| Oh, yeah, the one with. | |
| It just depends. | |
| The one that Lila Rose cut down a size, that one. | |
| That was when we were on. | |
| That was the one we were on. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| That was fun to watch. | |
| That was one of those. | |
| Which one? | |
| What part were you talking about? | |
| Well, I feel like those guys all have a different definition of red-pilled. | |
| When I hear that spoken about, like, originally, I thought that was a reference to the conservative movement, but now I feel like it's about women and marriage, and it got real crazy. | |
| And I would like to know what you all think the definition of red-pilled is because I don't feel like I understand because everyone has a different version if you ask me. | |
| I don't think anybody cares about that shit. | |
| I mean, I think you're pretty spot on with your two definitions. | |
| I mean, incel means involuntarily celibate because I guess it's just kind of. | |
| I guess the way I would describe it, Incel or Red Pill, is they've become almost, they feel emasculated. | |
| They've lost hope in women, so they're like, fuck it, I'm not dating. | |
| I can't do that. | |
| That's MGTOW. | |
| That's a different movement. | |
| I would say Red Pill. | |
| I'm not familiar. | |
| I've never even heard that. | |
| I thought I knew what I'm talking about, but no, no, Red Pill, it's like these guys, they basically, like 20 years ago, they came together on the internet and talked about trends and like patterns and behavior they saw in, like the women they were dating, so like, for example, one. | |
| One pattern they noticed was every girl says she hasn't had sex in three months. | |
| Every girl is saying oh, I don't ever do this right, so these are trends. | |
| So initially it started as the study of human behavior. | |
| But the issue is like they also have the movie The Matrix, so conservatives use it too, and like there's just like people just use it in a lot of different ways. | |
| Okay, but that's like what? | |
| Like Rolo and like that crew. | |
| Basically that's what they're talking about. | |
| Okay, I take it more like Matrix, the film where it's, and that's my internet. | |
| Like when I first got into it. | |
| That's how I thought of it. | |
| Like the red pill is like yeah, like waking up to your own personal power. | |
| Also the illusion of, like you know, the matrix being like you know, essentially like we're in a simulation video game, how metaphoric, how literal, you know. | |
| That's kind of up for interpretation, I guess. | |
| Like how to apply Guy, I mean yeah, the fucking like. | |
| I'm fully on board where I'm like maybe we are plugged in somewhere. | |
| MGTOW, that's more of what you're talking about. | |
| That's like when men decide not to deal with women at all okay, so they don't. | |
| And there's different levels of MGTOW. | |
| Like there's some that will still like screw them, but they're not trying to be in a relationship. | |
| There's some that are walking away from marriage and that's more talking about like the oppressive structure that like actively oppresses men. | |
| Yeah um like, like so, and I could go more into that, but that's like the general. | |
| Okay, we are back thoroughly scuffed. | |
| Okay, I need to get caught up on a couple chats here. | |
| All right, we have uh, and that TTS is working again. | |
| Guys, we got TTS figured out. | |
| Nick, can you put the exposure all the way to zero, please? | |
| Yo, KW. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| You want to give yo, want to give Pearl Lee a shout out. | |
| You doing the Lord's work with these three FOs. | |
| Brian, we need you on FNF podcast. | |
| Yeah, that's probably my understanding. | |
| What's up? | |
| You got it. | |
| Nick is a zero, Okay. | |
| I don't have any issues with FNF, but I think they have, it seems like they have some issues with me, so I don't think that's going to happen. | |
| Yep. | |
| Okay, we have Dayvon Jackson here with the 100. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| That 25 plus 5 chick just means she's going to say she's 25 until she's too old to pass for 25, which she already. | |
| So what should I go with? | |
| Your actual age. | |
| Hello. | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you, Dayvon Jackson. | |
| Good to see you in the chat. | |
| By the way, the TTS is now working, so sorry about that, guys. | |
| All right, feeling dangerous. | |
| Thank you for the 100. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| Question for Pearl. | |
| I'm a steel worker. | |
| I make great money, 100K a year minimum. | |
| Women don't seem to respect my career choice. | |
| I don't fully understand it. | |
| Love both the pre-game show and whatever. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Question for you, I reckon. | |
| Yeah, I would just say women are attracted to like high-status jobs. | |
| It's really sad, actually, because my mom always told me to go for like blue-collar, but just women don't seem to respect it overall. | |
| I love a blue-collar man. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I love a blue-collar man. | |
| My man is a blue-collar man. | |
| I love them. | |
| I would say look for women that do not have college degrees, perfectly honest. | |
| They think that they're more intelligent than you, even though they're going to need to marry you in order to pay off their bachelor degree debt. | |
| I never thought about it like that, but that kind of makes sense. | |
| All right. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Feeling dangerous. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| And then we have Andrew. | |
| By the way, I know you're trying to trigger the spam on the TTS. | |
| You have to do it at the TTS threshold. | |
| Feminism is a CIA psyop propagated by useful idiots. | |
| We are living in Calhoun's mouse utopia, deus of vault. | |
| Okay, Andrew, thank you for that. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Just a reminder, if you want that spam thing to trigger, you got to do TTS 199 and up. | |
| All right, and we have Bee and Cheeks here. | |
| Okay, TTS apparently is not working. | |
| Maybe it's just, it might just be because this came in before. | |
| Well, I don't know, whatever. | |
| Any guys going down on any women with a corn pastor having thirst traps on social media need to get checked into a psych ward? | |
| Pearl, will you finally let go of George W. Miller now that he is exposed? | |
| I don't know who that is. | |
| Who is George W. Miller? | |
| I'm like, I don't know. | |
| Okay. | |
| I guess you'd have to hold on to him to let go. | |
| I guess he doesn't know who that is. | |
| I guess he's let go. | |
| What you got? | |
| Women that are in the corn industry are some of the cleanest and safest women to be having sex with. | |
| We get tested every two weeks. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| I actually, I looked this up. | |
| That's not true. | |
| They tested like the corn industry versus the non-corn. | |
| Because I had a different corn star come on my show and say the same thing. | |
| That's not true. | |
| We get tested every two weeks. | |
| We have to, or she do. | |
| We have to, or you will not be able to work. | |
| And I know a lot of STD rates are still higher. | |
| I do think they're not. | |
| People who are more sexually promiscuous are more likely to have history. | |
| Because people who think sex is something to be shamed or hidden, aren't going to go to the clinic, aren't going to be getting tested right now. | |
| I mean, I understand like the thought process. | |
| I'm just saying, I looked this up because I had a different corn star on my show and I didn't believe it. | |
| And then I went and the study was either from Utah or California. | |
| I can't remember which, but they took corn stars versus non-corn stars and corn stars had a higher STD rate. | |
| I mean, listen, even if you are in the corn industry, like my body count's not very high for the amount of work that I've done. | |
| My body count was pretty low beforehand. | |
| I just think we're a lot safer because I've slept with men that weren't in the industry and they don't care either to wrap up or to go get tested. | |
| And I make sure not obviously to sleep with those people, but they just don't care. | |
| And neither do some of the women. | |
| Yeah, if corn stars are getting STDs from anybody, it's literally from civilians. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| Well, I heard a study, or I don't know if it might not have been a study, but well, it doesn't really matter. | |
| All right, cheeks, thank you for that. | |
| By the way, the TTS is fixed, so if anybody wants to trigger TTS, it should be working. | |
| Thank you guys. | |
| All right, we have a super chat here from Sweet Tooth. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| First time for a live video. | |
| Keep up the awesome work. | |
| Deep breath, my dude. | |
| Deep breath. | |
| Yeah, I don't think that's, we've done 70. | |
| This is number 76. | |
| We've not had technical issues that bad ever. | |
| We've had some slight audio issues, but maybe I'm just bad luck. | |
| I think it's good, Pearl. | |
| I think you're bad luck. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Nick, did you show these? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay, you showed these. | |
| All right, cool. | |
| Did you show this one? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, well, there it is. | |
| Okay. | |
| Cool. | |
| We have a question here from Stiffler. | |
| Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten. | |
| Okay, we can do that. | |
| Go ahead and what about you? | |
| I think like a seven and a half, eight. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think I'm a 10. | |
| We'd love to have you scoot into the table so you like depends on the city. | |
| In LA, the number goes down. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's say you're in like an international hub somewhere. | |
| Oh, international hub? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, okay, okay. | |
| Like LA, for example. | |
| On a good day, a solid, like a strong eight. | |
| Okay. | |
| I would call myself a 10, but that's because I'm, no matter who it is, like, no one's ever going to think I'm the prettiest girl. | |
| There's always going to be somebody that thinks I'm ugly. | |
| So I'm just going to call myself a 10 and be happy with that. | |
| I like that. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Not everybody likes me. | |
| Not everybody has to. | |
| Okay, we'll let everybody answer. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I'd give myself an eight. | |
| If I was down south or in the Midwest, I'd be Beyoncé. | |
| But here in LA, you feel me? | |
| It really just depends on what part of, well, we're in Santa Barbara, but I'm from LA. | |
| I'm from the hood. | |
| So in the hood, I'm definitely a 10. | |
| You feel me? | |
| But when you go to Beverly Hills, stuff like that, you fat, you got a belly, a little fupa, then yeah, your number go way down. | |
| So Beverly Hills versus the hood, you know, let me know. | |
| More to love, baby. | |
| I would rate myself like a seven or an eight. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'd probably give myself a 6.5 or a 7. | |
| I think it depends on the city and state too. | |
| Like in Florida, maybe like a 7, but here in California, maybe like a 6.5. | |
| Yeah, I think I'm 6, 6.5. | |
| I think that's about accurate. | |
| You guys are kind of changing my mind. | |
| I think you guys are low bone, but I was going to say like a seven or eight, but I'm going to go with an eight. | |
| I say a five. | |
| I think I'm an average chick. | |
| Oh. | |
| Not pretty. | |
| That doesn't mean, I don't think there's anything wrong with average. | |
| Looks already. | |
| I mean, I think like there's nothing wrong with being average. | |
| I think if you take 10 girls at the table, like half of us probably are average. | |
| I think no one wants to be like honest with this. | |
| And just because you're not saying you're a 10 doesn't mean you're not confident either. | |
| There's a difference between realistic and just not confident. | |
| I agree completely. | |
| Yeah, I just, I don't know why like we live in this society where average is seen as a bad thing. | |
| Like most people are average. | |
| Not everyone can be, like, if you think about it, if you're an eight, that means you're in the top 20% of beauty. | |
| You should have had top 20% of beauty results. | |
| So that means, I don't know, modeling contracts. | |
| I don't know, you know, eligible top 20%, 10% men in your DMs. | |
| Not just taking you seriously, but go ahead. | |
| There's also been beauty studies they've done where they've like had eight faces lined up of different like kinds of beauty. | |
| Super model beauty with the chiseled features and like, you know, what people actually find most beautiful is most familiar. | |
| So it's like more the girl next door look that was actually rated the most beautiful. | |
| Or even like somebody, like I've noticed like the more that I've been around couples, people tend to date people that kind of resemble them or someone that they love, like their mom or something. | |
| I don't know why that is. | |
| Again, it's probably the familiarity thing that she just pointed out. | |
| But I've continued to notice more and more since being in LA that a lot of people tend to date people that kind of look a little bit like them. | |
| So it doesn't mean that necessarily like it's the beauty standard. | |
| It's just beauty. | |
| They see beauty in each beauty. | |
| Beauty is beauty is not subjective. | |
| It's objective. | |
| There's been many studies. | |
| Like people tend to find the same things attractive. | |
| Like people might have like certain types where it differs a little bit, but in general, like it's not subjective. | |
| It's yeah, and every man, woman, and in between is someone's all the time. | |
| Not at all. | |
| Oh, true. | |
| I think it did. | |
| I didn't want to get lip fillers until like three years ago when it became popular to have big lips. | |
| And as someone like my big lips growing up until it became like people were getting lip injections. | |
| But I like that's why I call myself a lot of people. | |
| I'm not going to base what I think of myself on what anybody else thinks of me. | |
| I look in the mirror every day and I like what I see. | |
| Yeah, but that's so good. | |
| But it's true. | |
| I like what I see in the mirror. | |
| So we just get a mind. | |
| Okay, then I'm in my mind. | |
| I'm saying that you have the same thing. | |
| In my mind, you have to be a little bit more than a million. | |
| In my mind, I'm a millionaire. | |
| In my mind, I'm a millionaire and a PhD in my mind. | |
| And I feel like that, so therefore I am. | |
| That's what I'm saying. | |
| Just because you like what you see in the mirror, also that doesn't mean that you're a 10. | |
| A 10 is saying you are absolutely perfect. | |
| So you're saying you don't have any acne. | |
| Your hair is perfect every single day. | |
| Like you're in the best shape of your life. | |
| You're saying you have absolutely nothing that you think you can improve on yourself. | |
| I'm not saying that, but I'm saying that I would consider myself a 10. | |
| I don't know what other people would call me. | |
| I think maybe you're thinking in different categories because objectively, the golden ratio is a measure of facial symmetry, and it is objective. | |
| You can look at someone's face and see how closely they match. | |
| And so I think when a lot of people say it, what they're talking about is this is how I measure up to this ideal standard of beauty. | |
| Though I do think you're right, over time, or whoever said that, over time, society does value different aspects of women's beauty as time changes. | |
| I know for a fact that not everybody's. | |
| Remember, I'm in the media. | |
| Women make 70. | |
| I'm going to go with what I like. | |
| But women make, remember, women make 70 to 80% of consumer buying decisions. | |
| So all the media is marketed towards women. | |
| It's not for men. | |
| What men likes really has not changed. | |
| Natural, more natural. | |
| I don't use it. | |
| See, but I said earlier, like, it really does depend on the country, and it does depend on where you're living because it's a lot different in America than it is in Israel. | |
| I lived in Israel for over four years, and the beauty standards there are completely different than that. | |
| When I got back here, when I got back here, I went and I wanted a nose job right away as soon as I got back. | |
| I went and got Botox. | |
| I went and got lip filler. | |
| I didn't feel beautiful here by beauty standards at all. | |
| But when I lived in Israel, I was very confident and I felt great because they don't care about those beauty standards. | |
| They don't care about it. | |
| But they've never, they've done studies on this, like with men all over the world. | |
| I mean, I lived there first. | |
| I mean, I've lived, okay, I've lived in Germany. | |
| I've lived all over the world too, so we could go back and forth in the I lived game. | |
| But in general, men tend to find the same things attractive. | |
| I don't believe that's true at all. | |
| Okay, well. | |
| But what do you think men find attractive? | |
| I mean, fit feminine friendly in general. | |
| Symmetrical face. | |
| I mean, I think you kind of know it when you see it, if we're being honest. | |
| Supposedly, like, you know, biologically, like, where the men are expected to select a woman that looks like she's capable of bearing a child. | |
| So like you meet on the map. | |
| To me, that's the only way that we can say what we know men like because it's all different between what men like. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's not that one thing like, oh, if you have a small nose, every man's gonna be like, men in general aren't that picky. | |
| And also unlike supermodels, some men like the BBL big booty Latinas. | |
| Like everyone has a different type, so you can't just put men into like a certain category. | |
| I mean, men really aren't that picky. | |
| They swipe right on dating apps like 50% of the time. | |
| Men just really aren't. | |
| They're not picky on who they fuck, but they're picky on who they want to call their office. | |
| Yeah, who they want to show off. | |
| And another thing is, is you can be the complete and total package and get delivered to the wrong house. | |
| I'm just saying you can be what somebody is dying and pregnant for and not get choosers. | |
| So then you pick the wrong house. | |
| No, I'm saying, no, I'm saying you can walk into a room and be a 10 to somebody in that room, but go up to the wrong guy. | |
| I mean, that's really, okay, let's do a different example. | |
| Is Lizzo going to be a 10 anywhere? | |
| No. | |
| Lizzo, if she goes to Japanese. | |
| That's exactly what I'm saying. | |
| No, no, but she's not going to be a 10 anywhere. | |
| I mean, we could argue that maybe like I said in the hood. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| She's like, just like every woman, they could be the exact perfect package for the perfect person. | |
| But that's exactly what I'm trying to say. | |
| Lizzo, if you want to use her as an example, she's every single person on earth. | |
| Right, right. | |
| I think what she's getting at, every single person on earth. | |
| I mean, I have comments. | |
| I think that that's where you get in. | |
| I think that's where you get it wrong sometimes. | |
| I don't understand why everyone's coming to be a fairy. | |
| We have to generalize in order to have conversations. | |
| Sometimes. | |
| No, we have to. | |
| Otherwise, if we're going to have a conversation about every single exception, we want to be here all day. | |
| Lizzie, what's the animal? | |
| I have a question. | |
| I have a question. | |
| If I said you guys look like Lizzo, would you take it as a compliment? | |
| Lizzo has a beautiful face. | |
| I think she's confident as hell. | |
| Beautiful face. | |
| She's confident. | |
| Her life is beautiful. | |
| Her body and her face and her confidence and the way that she carries herself. | |
| Hell yeah. | |
| I can find beauty in every single woman, though. | |
| Holy crap. | |
| I think what Pearl was trying to get at is that it's okay to be normal. | |
| It's okay not to be a 10 out of 10 in society's standards. | |
| Everybody is told nowadays that they're special and that you're a 10, you're a 10. | |
| No, let's be for real. | |
| We have to be honest with ourselves. | |
| We go out into the world. | |
| I'm going to go out somewhere. | |
| Somebody doesn't like black girls. | |
| Guess what I'm going to have to do? | |
| Except that people don't like black girls. | |
| I'm going to go out there and change the world's opinion. | |
| No, that doesn't make, that doesn't change how you feel about yourself. | |
| Yeah, but I mean, but I feel about myself because I'm going off of society's standards of what I look like. | |
| She feels that way. | |
| But she's saying she's not going to be able to do that. | |
| We also have to rate our looks, not ourselves. | |
| There's a big difference. | |
| You're not rating yourself as a person. | |
| But even if it's a little bit, but come on, even if we're going to go off personality, what we all have purpose is. | |
| That's a 10%. | |
| No, no, I'm saying like there's no areas for improvement in your personality. | |
| That's not where we're looking at all. | |
| No, I mean, it is when you're saying you're a 10. | |
| If you're including personality, you said if you have to go honestly, I mean, where you stand in society. | |
| I said if we were going personality. | |
| Even if we were going personality, that's what I said. | |
| That's true. | |
| Yeah, but I think that we're having a little bit of confusion about objectively, there is an objective beauty standard. | |
| You can look at a woman and there are different across races, across ethnicities, across all different types of things. | |
| There are women who are objectively beautiful. | |
| When they walk in a room, you know, that's a 10. | |
| You know it. | |
| You know it when you see it. | |
| But there is relative beauty. | |
| Like you were saying, it depends on where you are. | |
| And you may have somebody who, for that culture, for that area, that's a 10. | |
| And it looks different than the objective 10 that all most people, if you have a room full of a thousand people from all over the world, they know when somebody walks in that's a 10, objectively. | |
| Because you can see it's the facial symmetry. | |
| It's just the math. | |
| And our brains comprehend it as beauty. | |
| 100%. | |
| And if you bring somebody with blue eyes somewhere where they're predominantly not blue eyes, they're immediately going to get like a double look or be held to like, oh, wow, that's beautiful because it's not seen as often or whatever the case may be. | |
| I'm not just, I'm just saying blue eyes because that's what I have. | |
| So I'm not going to critique somebody else's look. | |
| What I don't understand is who is the shot caller that said, oh, this is the perfect structured face. | |
| This is what beauty is. | |
| They are bringing up the golden ratio. | |
| It's just math. | |
| It is. | |
| And you know, another thing is ridiculous to me is that, okay, this is what a 30-year-old should look like. | |
| This is what you should look like when you're 20. | |
| This is what who's in the middle of the day. | |
| I had a question. | |
| I'm not sure if you're a feature. | |
| How tall are you? | |
| How tall? | |
| Okay, would you date a guy that's five foot? | |
| I have. | |
| Really? | |
| Oh, plenty of times. | |
| Five foot. | |
| Oh, point. | |
| Seven inches. | |
| Man, I fucked a little four or seven. | |
| Let me tell you. | |
| I look, you are. | |
| And he was probably winning in double time. | |
| There he was. | |
| Double pump. | |
| Yeah, no, look, where I come from, look, you just blessed. | |
| And at my age, you just blessed to get somebody that, you feel me, wants to show you some love, honey. | |
| And show you a good time, honey. | |
| So you got to go along with it, baby. | |
| If it's your, you feel me, your type, then it's your type. | |
| Height shouldn't matter. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Yeah, I don't, I think that's shallow, to be honest, to put somebody down just based off their height. | |
| Women do, though, if you look at the filters on dating apps, though. | |
| The most common filter is six foot and up, and most women have that filter on if they can't. | |
| I also feel like most men like shorter women as well. | |
| They do. | |
| Yeah, that's my problem. | |
| Five, two is like this. | |
| They want the little tiny hoodie. | |
| I'm trying to add short guys. | |
| I know. | |
| I used to date only. | |
| I know short kings are tall. | |
| No problem. | |
| Yeah, they are. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| So for those of you who are working in the adult industry, I'm curious what you think your life will look like about 10 to 15 years in the future. | |
| Like, what do you picture? | |
| Where do you picture your careers going? | |
| I mean, I've definitely been thinking about that a lot since I got pregnant and also before as well. | |
| That's also why I kind of stepped out of the corn industry itself because I was realizing that, you know, at least with OnlyFans, yes, they can screenshot. | |
| Yes, they can screen record everything and it can be put out on Reddit or whatever. | |
| But that I'm on the hub. | |
| Anyone can look me up. | |
| And now it kind of sucks, like looking back on it. | |
| I don't regret my decisions because they got me to where I am today and the person that I am today. | |
| And I will always be thankful for that. | |
| But I do wish I went ahead and did my research before and did things a lot differently than I did. | |
| But I wonder, did you know before you started, so this is something, so I'm a career coach and I help people find jobs without buying college degrees. | |
| So I help people get into tech and different industries, blue collar, it doesn't really matter. | |
| Whatever people want to do, I'll help them figure out how to do it. | |
| And so I'm curious about if it's common knowledge that if you do that kind of work later on down the line, it may show up and an employer may choose not to hire you and they're legally allowed to do so. | |
| And how have you like planned for that on down the line? | |
| I went ahead. | |
| Kiana still is my real name, but I changed the spelling of it. | |
| I use a fake last name. | |
| Legally, you changed it? | |
| No. | |
| Okay. | |
| So if I walk into a job, you can't correlate Kiana Kumani with my real name. | |
| What if they start making technology to find your face? | |
| Well, they already have. | |
| I mean, if they already have, then they already have. | |
| But honestly, after the work that I've done, I don't see myself going back to nine to five. | |
| I do want to go to college and I do want to get my nursing degree because I do want to go and be a traveling nurse and help out in different countries. | |
| And I don't think it really matters when you're going to be a nurse if you've done corn. | |
| I don't see that as an issue because I want to help people. | |
| Well, a lot of employer, a lot of employers do, and it will impact your prospects. | |
| And if that is the case, then that is the case. | |
| But right now, I'm trying to stack my money as much as possible and, again, invest in Airbnb properties. | |
| That's wise of you. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And do as much as possible. | |
| don't want to waste my money on stupid stuff yeah i think it's dumb that a lot of women in the industry get into the industry and they are so They have never had that much money before, so they go and buy designer purses, designer shoes. | |
| They waste it all. | |
| Their car they waste yeah, they waste all their money. | |
| They spend it and they don't learn how to do their tax forms. | |
| They don't learn how. | |
| They don't learn how to write off things that they're paying for on a daily basis to keep up with their own, their own like. | |
| Look like when you're, when you're an of model, I can write off these mails every time I get them done. | |
| I can write off everything. | |
| I do. | |
| My own i've i've, i've because I did my business degree. | |
| I actually like took courses and shit like that and I actually really, really enjoy doing that. | |
| I want to help more people do that when it comes to of um, but no, I definitely have a plan for after i'm done with the industry that i'm in right now. | |
| Did you, did you start in only fans because you couldn't get a job with your degree? | |
| Uh no, not at all. | |
| I have a question for you, would you advise against younger women joining the only fans industry or the industry research before. | |
| What do you mean do? | |
| I would advise against it. | |
| I would just definitely do as much research as possible, because when I turned 18 and I moved back to America, I went and I got. | |
| I was working at Chipotle before. | |
| That was my job before I got into the sex work industry. | |
| I was working at Chipotle, Cracker Barrel AND BOB Evans yeah, I was. | |
| I was working at Chipotle. | |
| I was gonna go back to school, do everything, and then I went and started working at a strip club and that's how I got into the sex worker industry and I was terrified. | |
| I had no guidance um, and I had to pretty much learn how to maneuver my way on my own, um. | |
| I don't wish my life to be any differently than it is today, but I would advise younger women to definitely do their research before they decide to show their body and be, as you know, willing with their body to do what they do. | |
| A positive environment for these like, oh is it? | |
| Are we even live in the first one, I don't know, yeah or less yeah okay but, as I was saying like, because you mentioned earlier about this industry kind of being toxic, do you even think that this is an environment young women should be going in in the first place. | |
| Mike Davis, Denying Pearl, you're dead wrong about men's type. | |
| My type is the Bbbw's, big, beautiful black women. | |
| More cushion for the push-in. | |
| If she got mesh, we got mesh, i'm going home. | |
| She's talking to you, baby. | |
| You better respond to this now. | |
| You said you're blessed to get what you can do. | |
| I'm so shocked to hear somebody say they want a black bitch. | |
| She goes flying. | |
| You know, damn. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| I don't know what to say. | |
| I get shy. | |
| Get a little shy. | |
| Slide in the DMs. | |
| What's your Instagram? | |
| Give your Instagram. | |
| At the first Barbie. | |
| That's T-H-E, number one, S-T. | |
| B-A-R-B-I-E, baby. | |
| Lead the baby off. | |
| That was just me. | |
| You said you were single? | |
| Oh, yes, honey. | |
| You got to talk to me. | |
| Are you looking for a man or a woman? | |
| Yes, I am single as a motherfucking Pringle. | |
| Been single for, yeah, a minute. | |
| I would say since 2020. | |
| Let me stop lying. | |
| Do you want to be single? | |
| You know, to be honest, right now, I'm kind of on this self journey trying to get my shit together. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| Because people are so judgmental when you're in your 30s. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| You should have your shit, a house on a hill, and, you know, calabases by now and, you know, driving a sports car and all this or be married with kids. | |
| And it's like that life ain't for every woman. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Do you not want children? | |
| I want a husband, to be honest, more than I want children. | |
| More than cats. | |
| I want that partnership, that companionship more than kids. | |
| Do you want the kids? | |
| Do you want to be in a partnership, or would you rather it be more like a husband and wife? | |
| I want the husband title, the wife, and the husband. | |
| No, not the title. | |
| I meant like the role. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Do I want to be the wife? | |
| So when I hear partnership, I think more like 50-50, we have an equal say. | |
| And when I hear husband and wife, like that means you simply have a lot of people who are not. | |
| Like, you still want to work and everything like that. | |
| Oh, well, see, because I'm a Virgo. | |
| I like to call shops. | |
| I'm not going to lie. | |
| I'm a cool masculine. | |
| You know what I'm saying? | |
| In that department. | |
| So that's why I probably say partnership. | |
| I didn't even, you know, that wasn't even conscious. | |
| That just came out. | |
| In the U.S., though, the way that marriage is structured is a business partnership. | |
| I think the way that the marriage is on the inside is very different from the legal structure of that. | |
| All right. | |
| Let me just give everybody an update here. | |
| So in addition to all the audio issues we were having, we're still live for you guys here on the panel. | |
| We can't see anything on any of the monitors. | |
| So our monitor, the monitor's there, so we can't, it's very difficult to like control. | |
| Can you see us? | |
| Hold on. | |
| What's that? | |
| Can they see us? | |
| Yeah, they can still see us. | |
| So the stream is still live, but like all. | |
| We have three monitors in the studio, one for people at the panel, and then we have two monitors over there. | |
| They're both blacked out totally. | |
| The devil is busy today. | |
| I think something's going on because Instagram was down. | |
| Remember, I hit you up. | |
| Remember, I hit you up and said I couldn't get it. | |
| Yeah, you couldn't even get on Instagram. | |
| Bad luck from London. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I mean, I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Our last video is going to be a little bit different. | |
| It feels like it's every time me and Curses. | |
| I feel you guys. | |
| Yeah, so first off, I just want to apologize to all the viewers. | |
| We're having egregiously bad technical issues. | |
| We've never encountered this ever before. | |
| So we're working on it. | |
| I'm behind there. | |
| We're unplugging, replugging things. | |
| We could do a total shutdown of the computer, which might fix it. | |
| But if we do that, the stream dies. | |
| So I'm still trying to figure it out. | |
| Thank you guys for keeping the conversation going while I'm dealing with that. | |
| You got a lot of women on the panel. | |
| I don't think we're going to have a problem keeping the conversation in that cute. | |
| So yeah, guys, I'm going to continue trying to get the monitors to work. | |
| But he literally, like the guy who's running the stream, you can't see anything. | |
| The screen's totally black. | |
| It's bugging out. | |
| So I'm going to keep working on it. | |
| Thank you guys for your patience. | |
| It's unfortunate that this is such a scuffed stream, but. | |
| What if you put a phone here so you could see the stream and then swap it like here? | |
| I can do it here, but it's. | |
| And then just. | |
| Then I'm like, then I'm just, then I'm the producer. | |
| I'm not going to be engaged in the conversation. | |
| But I'm going to try to fix it. | |
| If not, I might do that. | |
| That's a good idea, Pearl. | |
| Okay, continue on. | |
| I remember what we were talking about. | |
| Partnerships versus marriage. | |
| I wouldn't mind, you know. | |
| At this point, like I said, I'm very tired of working. | |
| So at this point, shit, if I could find a man that would just say, baby, you ain't got to work. | |
| And he want to go out and fuck who he wants to fuck on the side and do what he wants to do. | |
| Shit, I'd be willing to just sit back and say, all right, you know, as long as you giving me the black car and I can, you know, get my hair done, nails done, everything did, and buy what I need to buy and better myself. | |
| And, you know, just focus on, you know, the home life, then shit, I might go for that. | |
| And sit back and shut the fuck up. | |
| What's the point of having a husband and being in a committed relationship, though, if you're just going to let him go out and fuck whoever he wants? | |
| You know what? | |
| I'm taking it back to like the olden days, my grandmother's days and things where they had no choice but to sit down and shut the fuck up and let your man do what he do because you cannot go out and work. | |
| You have to just sit at home. | |
| You know, we did all this fight for equal rights. | |
| And now to the point where when I go on dates, guys don't want to date me if they feel like you don't have a good enough job. | |
| And that's fucking disrespectful. | |
| It's like, damn, you know what I mean? | |
| Like, maybe I'm still working on myself, getting my shit to that level. | |
| But guys nowadays, especially where I'm from in LA, they don't want to fuck with you if you ain't got your shit like together, like have a really good job. | |
| And especially depending on your age, they're not dealing with you. | |
| They don't want to be with you if you don't know OnlyFans. | |
| They don't want to be with you if you work in retail. | |
| They want a specific woman. | |
| And so, you know, we kind of fucked ourselves a little bit with all this equal rights shit. | |
| Yeah, I do like being able to make my own bread and do what I want to do and have a say-so. | |
| But at the same time, it's like, damn, we kind of set ourselves back because now guys don't even want to open the door for your ass. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| So it's a lot with that going back and forth. | |
| It's like, I'm on one side of it, but then the other side. | |
| It's tough because it's like, in general, most women are not traditional women and we want traditional outcomes. | |
| I feel like it's just a level of respect for the other person. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Like, it doesn't matter what I do for work or it doesn't matter what the other person does for work. | |
| If you have a mutual respect for each other, like I would want my man to open a car door for me, but like vice versa, like I would take my man out to a nice meal once in a while. | |
| Like I feel like it's just an equal amount of respect and like I would like my man to get me flowers once in a while, just like he would probably like, fuck, I don't know, like a massage once in a while. | |
| It should be equal. | |
| Or like cook food when he gets home or whatever. | |
| It's just respect. | |
| It's just yeah, but I was talking about like the traditional outcome like being a housewife. | |
| So only like roughly 20% of women get to do that. | |
| Right. | |
| So it's competitive. | |
| Like it's and the guys that want a housewife, like, I mean, you have to compete for them. | |
| And typically they don't pick girls with OnlyFans, corn stars, like I don't want to be a typical housewife. | |
| Well, I was only, I don't, I don't know what you want. | |
| I was talking about what she said. | |
| Right, because I said there's moments in my life where I'm just, I'm like, fuck it, I'll do that. | |
| Because dealing with being a woman and dealing, a black woman at that and dealing with this workforce, like I said, I'm from LA. | |
| So it's hell that I deal with on a day-to-day basis and I'm sick of it. | |
| Yeah, but it's like at 33, like you just can't be a traditional woman anymore. | |
| And I don't think you would claim to be, right? | |
| But, and it's like a lot of times, like, we want these traditional outcomes, but it's like, do we qualify? | |
| You know? | |
| Right, right. | |
| That's very true. | |
| But it's, I mean, it's like, damned if you do, damned if you don't at some point. | |
| But with that attitude, I mean, like, at that point, I mean, listening to everything you're saying, have you been realistic with the men that you're going for? | |
| Like, you're saying, like, the men that you're going on dates with, like, your job isn't good enough, this isn't good enough. | |
| Have you ever like taken time to stop and be like, damn, maybe it is me and not these men? | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, it's and I have. | |
| And I tell people that. | |
| I definitely have because I'm a Virgo. | |
| I'm an overthinker. | |
| And so I analyze everything. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| And so I do be like, and that's why I just told her when she asked, Are you like really looking? | |
| And I'm like, you know what, nobody, you need to sit your ass down and get yourself together right now. | |
| Well, maybe I'm not going to be able to do it. | |
| Because being real about it, you know what I mean? | |
| Maybe this is not the time, you know what I mean, for you to be trying to get it if you don't fully have your shit together if that's what guys are going for now. | |
| If you make it to 35 and you're not married, you only have like a 15, I think, percent chance, 20% chance. | |
| And that was scared. | |
| Sorry, the dating pool in LA is not the best. | |
| I was gonna make it a bit more like that. | |
| The men gotta get out of LA. | |
| The men in LA are some of the worst men I've ever experienced in my entire life. | |
| They are, they act like they want something serious and they want a real relationship and a real, true, loving partner. | |
| And when they get that, they go and turn around and they're like, oh, I have this already. | |
| And then they go and turn around and cheat. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I think it's the LA. | |
| No, it's because women go for a small percentage of men. | |
| I don't think that's a good idea. | |
| But that's all I do, though. | |
| Because at the end of the day, all I care about is making sure that I'm loved. | |
| I'd rather have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they love me over someone who's Chris fucking Brown. | |
| I'd rather be loved than have somebody with status any fucking day. | |
| Yeah, I don't even care. | |
| I'm looking in those faces. | |
| The thing is, like, that's great for you, right? | |
| And I'm not talking about you guys individually, but there's no shortage of women trying to sleep with Chris Brown, trying to sleep with Drake, trying to sleep with these entertainers, actors, high status, because they want the best. | |
| Wait, wait, wait. | |
| That women will know for a fact will not be faithful to them. | |
| It's not that. | |
| That's living in the city. | |
| It honestly is. | |
| The further away you get from a metropolitan area, the better your odds are going to be. | |
| Because the people in cities, there's so many people here. | |
| Your pool is so deep. | |
| You can just look at somebody. | |
| It's too much complicated. | |
| You swipe left, swipe right. | |
| You can toss them aside. | |
| You can cheat on. | |
| It's also really easy to disguise what you're doing if there's so many people around, to be perfectly honest. | |
| Because I feel like I used to feel the same way. | |
| I used to be like, oh my God, I hate dating in LA because I'm from Alabama. | |
| Like, mom, fuck. | |
| Yep, nowhere. | |
| And I hated dating there. | |
| But like, then I came to LA and I was like, I hate dating in LA. | |
| And I was like, well, where I had to sit down and shut the fuck up and be like, well, where am I actually looking at dating? | |
| And my guy now, who's like a blue collar job, he's not a lineman or rig worker. | |
| They're great. | |
| But a lot of people don't want to admit that those guys sometimes are the best people and the best prospects to date. | |
| We want the flashy stuff as much as we say we don't. | |
| Yes, the hell we do. | |
| Go on social media and say, if you don't have this, if you don't have this kind of money, if you don't fucking drive a Bugatti, you're not worth my time. | |
| So a lot of these guys, a lot of these normal guys that we complain aren't around, they're around. | |
| We just don't give a shit about them. | |
| We don't give them a chance. | |
| We're not going to be able to get in metropolitan areas. | |
| If you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of like a medium-sized city, like 45 minutes outside of it, and you participate in life in that town, that and you work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender. | |
| That's the biggest problem. | |
| I get a lot of people that are like nurses, teachers, social workers, they always talk about how they can't find anybody. | |
| They can't find anybody because they work with all women. | |
| All women. | |
| That's it. | |
| All bitches. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I love those types of half jobs. | |
| Women choose those jobs. | |
| Women go into those jobs, and then we can't wait to get out of them because you get into them and they suck. | |
| I live in the middle of the moment. | |
| And the other issue is women find 80% of men as unattractive. | |
| Not okay, not me. | |
| You find 80% of men you meet ugly. | |
| But I'm dating the ugly ones. | |
| I tried to go against the garment and date ugly and template. | |
| Typically, typically when women's ones begin to talk about it, that's why you need to work. | |
| That's why you need to dance. | |
| That's why you need to work around men. | |
| If you're looking for a partner, if you're looking for a spouse, you need to work around men because you have to know the men in order to actually know if they're attractive to you. | |
| Yes, I agree with what you're saying. | |
| But the thing is, women will care less about how attractive a man is if they are in close proximity to that man and they like him. | |
| Yes, that is how people get married. | |
| Most people move out. | |
| I know, but I'm not talking about like what's the ideal. | |
| I'm talking about what is. | |
| No, and then most people. | |
| No, now the number one way is dating apps. | |
| It's not work anymore. | |
| I think dating apps personally are the dumbest thing created because personally for me, like I go on personality. | |
| At the end of the day, like, yes, the first thing you see when you meet somebody is their looks, but like, I've dated men that I haven't found conventionally attractive, and they have been the sweetest human beings to me ever. | |
| Was it because you knew them from something other than meeting them and, like, meeting them in a bar and being attracted to them? | |
| Well, actually, so before, I also bartended on the side when I was doing... | |
| I was bartending. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, when I was doing OnlyFans, it was in Austin. | |
| He was a DJ. | |
| Oh, you worked together? | |
| Yes. | |
| So he was, he was more, well, we didn't work at the same bars, but it was like the industry. | |
| Austin's a very, very small nightlife industry. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So the person that I dated, he was not conventionally attractive at all. | |
| Overweight. | |
| Just not my type that I would see at all. | |
| But his personality completely wiped me over. | |
| How long were you with him? | |
| We were together for, I mean, it was, he died while we were talking, but it was a very amazing, we were friends before and then it just kind of switched into something more. | |
| But I think it was, it was like, I knew him for a very long time. | |
| So I wouldn't say there was really a time of us like talking. | |
| But I think, that's why I think dating apps are like the dumbest thing. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| I mean, if we meet someone on a dating app, like we only swipe right 5% of the time. | |
| So if you're meeting with someone online, like typically he's got a lot of women because again, he's getting all of the likes. | |
| I wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for the day now. | |
| That's how I met Brian. | |
| We swiped on each other. | |
| He talked about, well, you want to come on my show. | |
| I'm like, you ain't going to ask me out first? | |
| A lot of us, something that I think it really missed too. | |
| A lot of us here are content creators. | |
| And if a guy is doing well on a dating app, it's really because he can write sales copy. | |
| And that's a problem because it means that men who can write sales copy and know how to take photos that look a certain way are the ones that get chosen over and over. | |
| And those are the wrong ones. | |
| I just want to say that when I'm on a dating app, I do read through what they put on the questions and stuff like that. | |
| Because you can be the finest motherfucker in the room. | |
| And if I can't carry a conversation with you and you're not making me laugh or smile, it's like over the traps. | |
| I'm not going to watch. | |
| The guys you're going to match with are the ones that know what to say. | |
| Yeah, they're optimizing. | |
| They're literally optimizing. | |
| I don't know because I've seen a lot of really cute motherfuckers on there saying, don't know what to say. | |
| Saying something. | |
| But again, you're only swiping right 5% of the time. | |
| 5%. | |
| And you have to remember on a dating app too, women are the product, right? | |
| Women are the product. | |
| The men are the customers on a dating app. | |
| Women are the product. | |
| And it's on some of them. | |
| Sorry to interrupt. | |
| Not on all of them. | |
| Yeah, like Bumble and Hinge. | |
| Yeah, some of them. | |
| On the rest of them. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's your product. | |
| I don't think most people really use Tinder as much anymore. | |
| I think it's, at least in LA, it's mainly Bumble and Hinge. | |
| And then the celebrity one, I guess. | |
| That's because most people in LA be crazy as hell and got banned off Tinder already. | |
| LA dating really is like the guys are scared to get used for their money and the women are scared to get used for their pussy. | |
| That's really what it is. | |
| So it's just like, we can't win. | |
| Los Angeles is high school on steroids. | |
| And to be honest with the Los Angeles dating, from being here for like less than a year, I've already noticed that what LA is known for is they want that instant gratification when it comes to sex, money, clubs, drugs, everything, instant gratification. | |
| They don't want to work for it for very long or have it for very long if they've already obtained it. | |
| And that's what I've noticed here. | |
| I don't agree with that. | |
| Because a lot of these people that are in this area, they've worked extremely hard to get to where they're at. | |
| No, not like business-wise, because I've seen people put their all into like music or whatever their niche is. | |
| But I'm saying like when it comes to dating, I've noticed that people are very quick to like get it in and. | |
| Hey, can you scoot into the table, please? | |
| You're too far back. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| No, that was pretty much what I did in my life. | |
| So guys, we technical issues, the monitors are busted, so I'm going to have to be controlling a lot of stuff on here. | |
| So I'm going to read some super chats. | |
| We have Beaten Cheeks here with the 100. | |
| Thank you. | |
| George Miller is the blank that took Rolo to Ma as pseudonym. | |
| Oh, are you talking shit about Rolo? | |
| I don't know if I can show these, man. | |
| Or BS Visectonia Ordeal that is making red pill content go bogus. | |
| You're welcome on educating you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Darth Perdiccious, thank you for the 100 back again after calling Nal out for her cheating kink. | |
| Huge. | |
| Oh, hold on. | |
| Let me trigger that. | |
| Fuck. | |
| I can't see any of these, by the way, guys. | |
| So I'm just a huge fan of Gwen and Zoe, Zoe, based as fuck. | |
| And impressed by your statements. | |
| Pearl have loved many of your shows, just hate some of the feminists. | |
| Okay. | |
| Thank you, Darth Perdiccius. | |
| We have here Odin. | |
| Thank you for the 100. | |
| It is said people have looks or personality. | |
| Girls that rated themselves at 10, does this mean you have no personality? | |
| Also, why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score? | |
| Curious as a 6'5 guy. | |
| Okay, why does height? | |
| Well, first off, does height matter? | |
| I don't think so. | |
| It hasn't historically, like with the people I've dated, they've been all over the board, like height-wise. | |
| But I think sometimes it's nice to feel small. | |
| Nice to feel small, okay? | |
| I think personally, height does matter for me because I'm looking for somebody to be the father of my kids, and my dad is 5'5. | |
| I need somebody to balance out my genes, you know? | |
| Okay. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Flanlife, thank you for the gifted. | |
| By the way, guys, it's like I said, major technical issues. | |
| so all the Super Chats is going to be scuffed, TTS is going to be, TTS is working, but it's scuffed-ish. | |
| Okay, so height. | |
| Do you have a height minimum? | |
| Well, I'm only five feet tall, so I say you got to be at least taller than my dad. | |
| How tall is your dad? | |
| 5'5. | |
| Okay. | |
| You have to balance out his genes. | |
| If we have sons, they gotta. | |
| They have to be at least taller than 5'5. | |
| Good looking. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't want to do that to them. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay, we have hold on. | |
| Why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score? | |
| Does anyone? | |
| I think honestly, for me, I'm 5'9 when a guy is too tall. | |
| Like, because all my exes have been around like 5'9, 5'8. | |
| I had two X's. | |
| One was 6'2 ⁇ , one was 6'1. | |
| Any guy over 6'1 for me, they just start to look funny. | |
| So I can't think it's like biological because we're looking for a protector. | |
| Yeah, like all right, Odin, thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| We have Doc Vanablis. | |
| Thank you. | |
| The golden ratio is the objective standard of beauty and preserved, not only across cultures, but also nature. | |
| One to 1.6. | |
| Look up the Marquardt mask and see how your face conforms to the golden ratio. | |
| Well, we could pull it up if our monitors weren't scuffed. | |
| Doc, thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Depper Dave, thank you, man. | |
| Pearl gave a poor example of red-pilled from the Matrix. | |
| It means you see the world now and see. | |
| Oh, fuck. | |
| I didn't pull it up. | |
| Sorry, guys. | |
| You see how modern Western. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| It means you see the world now and see how modern Western women operate. | |
| Delusional on what men really want. | |
| Yes, body count does matter. | |
| Okay, that's what you said. | |
| You can't, like, would you say the definition of red pill? | |
| You just can't win. | |
| Like, that's what you said, but that's what I checked. | |
| All right, we have Bob Dunaway here. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Longtime voyeur, first-time donators. | |
| Hey, thank you, man. | |
| Welcome for joining. | |
| I apologize that your first chat's on an absolute scuff stream because you brought pearly things. | |
| All you women are created thoughtfully by loving God. | |
| Keep the body count down, but don't live in guilt, live in conviction, hey Bob. | |
| Thank you man, appreciate it all. | |
| Right, and then we have a couple soup chats also. | |
| Guys, the soup chats are gonna be a little bit scuffed if I missed a couple of the displays. | |
| Okay, we have Filthy with the 100. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Do the women in the adult film industry OF want to have children? | |
| If so, are you worried about the effects your act? | |
| She is pregnant. | |
| If so, are you worried about the effects your actions will have on them in the future? | |
| Specifically for boys, remember the internet is forever and what we do in life echoes in eternity. | |
| Your response to filthy, I mean I didn't really think about it before I got pregnant, but after I did I definitely. | |
| Again, I don't regret anything I've done in my life because it has gotten me to where I am today, but I wish I could have went about things differently. | |
| I wish I didn't fully get into being able for people to search me up on the hub and stuff. | |
| I'm fine with the OnlyFans aspect of it, but yeah, I mean it is not gonna be the easiest when I have if I do have a son and they go to school and he gets older and his friends are like hey, you know your mom's on the hub. | |
| I just looked her up. | |
| So that's also why, like I'm glad that I took a step back, when I did, from being on pornhub. | |
| Okay, anybody else who does OF want to answer that? | |
| Anybody Kirsten, I mean I think it'll definitely affect children. | |
| Like you said before, I've had one of my old managements. | |
| She was huge on pornhub and her kids are severely bullied because of it. | |
| It definitely will. | |
| You know, when I get to that point, when I do eventually want to have kids, I'm gonna do my best to wipe myself from the internet. | |
| But you know what I made, the decisions that I made, and I'm okay with that. | |
| I think it's just also having a conversation with your kids and sitting them down and letting them know beforehand, because I would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age where people start going on these websites and letting them know so they're aware of it and they can kind of get a thicker skin before they walk into something that they're not aware of. | |
| Yeah, kind of control the narrative a little bit. | |
| Exactly. | |
| Have an open and safe space to be able to communicate. | |
| Open line of communication for your child is super important. | |
| My mom was a stripper and it was in a small town, very local. | |
| Like people knew that she did that. | |
| And my mom was also a very young mom. | |
| So I always joked that like I worked, I had previous experience at a strip club because I was in my mom's womb while she was a stripper or whatever. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| I just feel as if it's like, as long as you have that open line of communication, I'm not saying that that makes it any easier on the child's experience because obviously the other kids aren't having that same conversation with their parents. | |
| But as long as you're open and they're not finding out through the other kids, word of mouth. | |
| Yeah, and I mean, it's something that like we're going to have to deal with when it gets to that point, whether it's eight months from now or 10 years down the line, you know? | |
| Are you going to teach your daughters about the industry? | |
| And if so, what will you teach them about it? | |
| Oh, absolutely, 100%. | |
| I mean, I'm not just going to be like, hey, here's the porn world. | |
| And, you know, you should definitely do it. | |
| And here's me. | |
| Do you want that for them? | |
| I am not going to judge my children at all on what they decide to do because I don't have the support of my parents at all. | |
| And I don't talk to them. | |
| and I always said growing up that I would be completely opposite of what my parents have done for me. | |
| So I will always have my kids back. | |
| I will give them guidance. | |
| If they do decide to sit me down one day and say that they do want to get into the industry, I would give them my experience and what I've went through. | |
| And, you know, I didn't have that guidance. | |
| My mom did work for kind of like Playboy. | |
| It was a different magazine. | |
| Hustler. | |
| Perfect 10. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, it was like an old magazine in the 2000s. | |
| And I like grew up in that house pretty much. | |
| And it was exactly like the Playboy house. | |
| Yeah, so it was Perfect 10. | |
| I was young. | |
| So it was like the Perfect 10 house. | |
| So there was like a bunch of models walking around everywhere. | |
| They lived at the house. | |
| Some of them, I remember Easters, they would have like wrestling matches outside. | |
| They were like naked wrestling and stuff. | |
| And like I grew up around the sex worker industry. | |
| So again, I am going to sit my daughter down. | |
| And if she decides that that's what she wants to do, I will always be supportive and I will guide her as much as I can to make the wrong or right decisions. | |
| Do you want that though? | |
| That's what I'm asking. | |
| Of course you would. | |
| You would love your child. | |
| Oh, of course. | |
| Do you want that for them? | |
| That's what I'm asking. | |
| I mean, I don't think it's the most ideal job, no. | |
| But again, if that is what they want to do, I will 100% support them and I will 100% have their back. | |
| But again, I will give them the experience that I went through and the good things and the bad things. | |
| And I think that every person, I think that every person can agree that they want to do more for their child than their parent did for them. | |
| And they also want more for their child than they had for themselves, right? | |
| And I think it comes down to the kind of life that your child wants. | |
| I mean, some porn stars have been offered experiences that they wouldn't otherwise have had, right? | |
| And it's just a matter. | |
| And even with me and my journey as an OnlyFans model, to be honest, I haven't, through my experience as a model, and I haven't been subject to some of the toxic aspects of the industry. | |
| I've been in charge. | |
| It's been really a positive experience for me and a really empowering one. | |
| And it's offered me, I mean, just through social media, so many access to experiences that I'm really grateful for. | |
| Incredible freedoms. | |
| And I absolutely love my life that I've built and the opportunities that I have. | |
| And entrepreneurly, I feel like a lot of potential. | |
| Would it be worth it if you never got married? | |
| Well, I mean, I've never really been one of those girls who's like... | |
| Okay, so you don't care. | |
| I mean, I am. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| I mean, like, what do you like? | |
| I don't know how much to look like at 65. | |
| A lot of friendship, a lot of self-expression, authentic self-expression. | |
| Because, I mean, do what you want, but like, my thing is a lot of times people make these decisions and then whine about the consequences later. | |
| Well, yeah, absolutely. | |
| I mean, I hear that. | |
| I think it really just depends on how you go into anything. | |
| And even just to take it back to like, I mean, like, you know, anything. | |
| Even if we take it back to the original conversation about, you know, even escorting, I'm like, I think when it comes to any part of like, you know, sexual objectification, it's really like how your perspective is, the way that you go into and experience that situation determines whether or not you feel power from it or you give power through it and you lose power and whether it becomes like traumatic or empowering. | |
| Like they're two different things. | |
| So, you know, so it's just a really matter of personal preference and opinion. | |
| My life, I've never wanted a normal typical fucking life and I haven't had one. | |
| And do I want what most people want at 65? | |
| Probably not. | |
| I also feel like I would rather, if I was saying where I would be at 60, I would rather be by myself at 60 or 65 and genuinely happy with myself and where I have come in my life than be in a toxic relationship in a only two options. | |
| I mean, I do OnlyFans and I'm in a happy relationship. | |
| Obviously, we have our ups and downs, but like overall, I have a very happy relationship. | |
| Good for you. | |
| But I feel like you're saying over here that you can't have a happy relationship. | |
| You're never going to get married again. | |
| I think it's less likely. | |
| I like that. | |
| I don't dance with OnlyFans, but I dance and he's very supportive. | |
| No, I think it's less likely. | |
| And it's, right? | |
| I mean, you guys are young, though. | |
| You don't know what life's going to look like at 35, 40. | |
| And I've talked to older women that have done OnlyFans and done like corn work. | |
| And a lot of times, like a guy will date you in his 20s and then like dump you when he wants to find his wife. | |
| I know a lot of people that are. | |
| It's a little early to say though what the future looks like for OnlyFans, which is so. | |
| Especially for our generation specifically, it's very it I'm not saying that it's super right, but it is norm, a lot more normalized than a 30-year-old generation. | |
| And let's also say that. | |
| And also too, though, like just acknowledge the fact too, that OnlyFans is a premium content platform. | |
| There are comedians with OnlyFans. | |
| There's such a wide variety of the kind of content that you're talking about. | |
| I mean, the kind of table is that there's a total stick there. | |
| But it is not porn industry. | |
| I'm not saying that nobody is going to get married. | |
| That's not what I'm saying. | |
| Especially when you have a really attractive, like you guys are all very pretty. | |
| So, you know, thank you. | |
| But sometimes pretty women have different outcomes than the average chick. | |
| And so the average chick is going to sign up to OnlyFans. | |
| Yeah, and that's what I'm saying. | |
| Like, I don't know you guys personally, but there are a lot of girls that are going to do OnlyFans and it's not going to, like, it's not going to end well for them. | |
| And it's easy to say this now. | |
| Oh, I'm in a happy relationship. | |
| You don't know what your life's going to be like in 10, 15, 20 years. | |
| Like, you know, what somebody does for a period of time doesn't define what they are. | |
| It does, though, because if I'm going to date a guy and he said I went to prison for five years, like I'm out. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| If he said, I got three women pregnant, but don't worry, I've changed. | |
| I'm like, you know what? | |
| That's not for me. | |
| I'm good. | |
| You said you'd be a nurse if you weren't doing what you're doing now. | |
| What would the rest of you do if you weren't doing your current job? | |
| Comparing prison and what was the other thing you said? | |
| OnlyFans. | |
| OnlyFans. | |
| No, prison and somebody getting to your family. | |
| Yeah, comparing prison and OnlyFans and getting three women pregnant. | |
| Like, those are two shits. | |
| You know what's funny? | |
| You know what's funny? | |
| I actually think that the comparison isn't fair because when men go to prison, they actually have more women that are interested in them as far as the opposite, where OnlyFans has the opposite. | |
| We have less men interested in long-term. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I just feel like that's not a good comparison. | |
| Okay, that's cool. | |
| Hey, we're going to redirect the conversation here. | |
| Okay. | |
| For those of you just tuning in or just want to be caught up, we're having major technical issues. | |
| Monitors are busted. | |
| Audio was previously scuffed. | |
| So we're like, I'm struggling to manage the stream right now on my end. | |
| Okay, let's move on. | |
| Flan Life, thank you for all the gifted subs, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| TD, thank you for the 50. | |
| We have Mike Davis. | |
| It's not going to show, but whatever. | |
| Sorry, guys, we cannot display the super chats anymore. | |
| I'll read them, but yeah, it's just not going to display. | |
| Yo, Mike Davis, thank you for the 100 men. | |
| Yo, steel worker. | |
| You got your priorities all messed up. | |
| Who gives a fuck what women want? | |
| Go secure the bag for your king. | |
| Mike Davis got generational wealth because he doesn't concern himself with these twisted-minded women. | |
| My motto is if it makes money, it makes sense. | |
| That's from Mike Davis. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Mr. Cappadocia, thank you, man. | |
| Ladies, are they real or are they enhanced? | |
| Betting pool says four of you are artificially blessed. | |
| Was it worth it? | |
| Was it an investment that paid off? | |
| Did your interactions with men change? | |
| Well, I think we should wait until someone comes back from the bathroom to address that one. | |
| But I'll come back to that. | |
| Cappadocia, thank you, man. | |
| Okay, I'm kind of interested in no team. | |
| What's up? | |
| I said, I'm interested to know two. | |
| Oh, do you? | |
| No, I was just interested. | |
| No, I think there's a couple here at the table. | |
| All right, we have beaten cheeks here. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| I'll only apologize to you, Brian, not for what I said, but I have a soft question I've not asked in a while to the panel, to the OF girls. | |
| I really want to move off of this OF shit. | |
| Okay, do your fathers know about your content or have they disowned you? | |
| My dad doesn't speak to me anymore. | |
| Because you started doing content. | |
| He found out. | |
| He knew he was like still kind of speaking to me when I did, when I was working at the club, but I think my cousin found me or something on the hub and he found out and he does not speak to me. | |
| So disowned. | |
| Yeah. | |
| My mother disowned also? | |
| Both. | |
| Both disowned. | |
| Both. | |
| Double disowned. | |
| Unfortunate. | |
| Okay, so does your father know about your content and has he disowned you? | |
| No. | |
| Ridiculous. | |
| Yes, he does, and no, he has not disowned me. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I don't seriously do OnlyFans, but both my parents know about everything I do and have done and they're both extremely supportive. | |
| Including the stripping. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No, seriously, like my mom will like ask me to send her videos. | |
| She like takes it too far sometimes. | |
| Hurrah! | |
| Okay. | |
| My parents do not know, but I grew up in a very conservative Christian household, so that is a conversation that I prepared myself for the day they do find out. | |
| I mean, you're on a podcast, Taga. | |
| They don't know. | |
| They still don't know. | |
| It's been two and a half years, and they some found out, but you know, one day they will and we'll deal with it. | |
| What do you think is the they're gonna disown or you think? | |
| I don't think they would fully disown me, but I would definitely get some stern conversations. | |
| Stern conversation, okay. | |
| You do OF also. | |
| Yeah, so. | |
| Father, mother, do they know? | |
| Yeah, both my parents know. | |
| And my mom, like I said, was a stripper. | |
| She doesn't particularly like that I do it, but she also will always support me and always make sure that I still feel loved and cherished and wants the best for me regardless. | |
| And my dad, he obviously wasn't really around too much growing up. | |
| So I just kind of like, obviously, if I had a stronger male figure on my life, I probably wouldn't have even gone there. | |
| But yeah, no, he's also supportive since being a little bit closer now that I've grown up more. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, my mother found out. | |
| I cut her off. | |
| A little closer to Mike. | |
| My mom found out and I cut her off because she is just this very, very conservative Christian with a bunch of opinions and she does nothing with her life. | |
| And my dad was an ex-crackhead. | |
| So no, I don't talk to either of my parents or any of my family because they all just are lazy. | |
| So yeah. | |
| Archduke Franz Ferdinand. | |
| What? | |
| Oh, you don't do OF? | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, Sukh Medik. | |
| Thanks for the 100. | |
| That's a good name. | |
| Congrats. | |
| Once you post something on the internet, it's there forever. | |
| You cannot wipe yourself from the internet. | |
| To do that is like trying to drain the ocean, okay? | |
| Wow, people are really focused on the OF stuff tonight. | |
| All right, Darth Perdiccius, thank you, man. | |
| We have that effect. | |
| That statistic is deceptive. | |
| Yes, single women from 18 to 35 are the happiest demo demographic, but 35 plus single women are the unhappiest demo in the U.S. Have to look at the whole picture, not just the present pleasant stat. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Oh, AB Check, thank you for the 20 gifted. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| And they're on more antidepressants, too. | |
| Oh, snap. | |
| Well, I'm already on antidepressants, so it makes a difference. | |
| She's already on. | |
| Well, maybe, like, maybe you wouldn't be if you weren't doing OnlyFans. | |
| How much mistake have you? | |
| I was guessing my guy like that, Pearl. | |
| I think if she wasn't making 70 plus K a month, she'd definitely be more depressed than she is right now. | |
| All right, we have, well, I'll bring this one back up. | |
| Cappadocia, he was asking, ladies, are they real or are they enhanced? | |
| Betting pool says four of you are artificially blessed. | |
| Was it worth it? | |
| Was it an investment that paid off? | |
| Did your interactions with men change? | |
| I mean, you noticed. | |
| You noticed. | |
| All right, so he's like talking about the fake titties. | |
| That's a fake titty comment. | |
| Yeah, I'll go. | |
| Let's see. | |
| What was the question again? | |
| Are they worth it? | |
| Okay, mine are fake. | |
| Yeah, whatever. | |
| Were they worth it? | |
| Okay, first off, show of hands. | |
| Who's got fake titties? | |
| You're like going to get blocked. | |
| Boom, boom. | |
| Three? | |
| Just three? | |
| Three. | |
| Only three. | |
| Okay. | |
| Really? | |
| Only three? | |
| Oh, Cappadocia. | |
| Mine are real? | |
| Was it worth it? | |
| With the first week. | |
| I would say the benefits that it came with the attention and everything. | |
| I was in a relationship at the time when I got them, but after we broke up, yeah, the attention was nice. | |
| It was cool. | |
| I didn't really, you know, I could kind of tell that men were after me, you know, because I know I had like big double D's and stuff. | |
| But physically, I don't think they're worth it because I used to get like pleasure from my, you know, aerialists, and I can't feel a fucking thing and they hurt half the time. | |
| How long ago did you get yours done? | |
| Because it can come. | |
| 2020. | |
| I only have feeling in one of mine. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I should say in one, but they've gotten me indoors. | |
| I can't complain. | |
| I have a genuine question. | |
| This might be a dumb question. | |
| Like, how, does that affect like breastfeeding later at all? | |
| Yeah, it can. | |
| It can. | |
| It's like a percentage of people cannot breastfeed, but it's like 15% chance. | |
| Yeah, some people are able to, some people aren't. | |
| It's just biologically. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| That's always what I think of when I think of that stuff. | |
| All right. | |
| And then TD, TD, you did a 50 before, but it was blank, so I'll read this. | |
| But just a reminder, 199 left for read. | |
| Ladies, are you comfortable with the cost? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| I feel like these poor girls are. | |
| Okay, ladies, are you comfortable with the cost that you will incur with being in the OnlyFans industry? | |
| Everything has a cost. | |
| QQ for the table. | |
| Please explain the cost is for being a 3FO as you, if you guys want, I don't know what the question is there. | |
| Are you the cost? | |
| The cost, like the cost of being in the OF industry. | |
| I am. | |
| Is that a gifted sense or what? | |
| Hold on. | |
| Oh, gifted. | |
| Sweet tooth, thank you for the 20 gifted memberships. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Really appreciate all the support, guys, especially I'm absolute stress case with all the technical issues we've been experiencing. | |
| It's very unfortunate, especially after our last stream was like peak viewership, 24,000 now. | |
| It's just frustrating to go from like one of our most viewed streams and then to face these technical issues. | |
| In any case, Sweet Tooth, thank you for the 20 gifted. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Yes, I'm comfortable with the cost because I knew exactly what the hell I was signing up for, but I feel like how Pearl was saying earlier, which I'm glad this question came up, and she was like, you know, a lot of girls will get into this industry and whine and complain. | |
| Why is no one taking me seriously? | |
| Why does no one want to marry me? | |
| Bro, I knew that from the beginning. | |
| I only really started seriously dating the moment I was like, I can't say, so I started out in porn. | |
| It's a little different. | |
| It's definitely more intense, the kind of hate you get. | |
| OnlyFans, if me is, I've seen it be more accepted, but being in mainstream porn where you open up Pornhub and you're on the ads, I didn't bother. | |
| I did not even bother. | |
| There's no way because I knew, I'm not saying I knew I was low value or whatever you guys like to say, high value, low value, but I knew that like my dating was going to be harder. | |
| But I feel like a lot of people in OnlyFans are so damn delusional being like, well, I am a traditional woman. | |
| I am a high value. | |
| No, we're not. | |
| Sorry. | |
| We just aren't. | |
| And that's okay. | |
| And you'll attract the people who are okay with what you do. | |
| But yeah, people want to complain that they can't find something based on their decision of their line of work. | |
| So, but yeah, I'm okay with it. | |
| Yeah, I'm okay with it too. | |
| I mean, I've just found that the relationships that I have pursued and the people that I'm like really interested in are really open-minded and really not judgmental and don't, yeah. | |
| I mean, so it really hasn't, I don't know, maybe I'm delusional, but it hasn't affected me negatively. | |
| Um, but I also came into this like way before it was like the fucking cool thing to do. | |
| Like, I started doing OnlyFans, like it was like 2016, 17. | |
| So, I, you know, it was a lot more difficult for me in the beginning when people are like, what? | |
| Now people, you know, now they feel like it's actually become more accepted. | |
| So maybe for me, I'm just used to more harsher judgment and it feels less less so. | |
| All right, rock and roll. | |
| Okay, so I got some specific questions for each of you individually. | |
| So I have a note here from Kiana. | |
| You had an interesting first date anecdote. | |
| Something with a guy with a phone? | |
| Yeah, so I went on, when I first fully got into porn, I was still, no, I had moved here. | |
| I had moved back. | |
| So I'm originally from LA, but I had moved back to LA. | |
| And that's when, like, one of the first videos I did was one of the biggest videos I did. | |
| It was a bank bus video, which gets... | |
| Oh, everyone knows what the bank bus is. | |
| That was my first video I ever filmed. | |
| What's that? | |
| I don't know what that is. | |
| It's a bus and they bang. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So you pretty much have sex in a bus. | |
| But it's like very notorious. | |
| Is it the bus or more of a van? | |
| It's a van. | |
| It's a van. | |
| It's not really a bus. | |
| It is a van. | |
| It's very uncomfortable to film in. | |
| Is it just you and one other person, or is there, like... | |
| Every, yeah, so it's you, the person you're filming with, and then the person that's filming and the person that's driving. | |
| Okay, so your first date, go ahead. | |
| So the first day I went on, he, it was, I was like very new in the industry, so I really didn't think that people knew me. | |
| So I told him, he told me that he like didn't watch porn. | |
| He wasn't into any of it. | |
| I told him that I did OnlyFans. | |
| And then literally in the middle, I was like about to hook up with this person and like he opened his phone and his phone search history was looked up and it was just Keanu Kamani porn and there was like 10 search histories of my name. | |
| I was very scared. | |
| You were scared. | |
| Yeah, I mean I was alone with this person. | |
| I was terrified because he swore up and down. | |
| He didn't know me and like the whole date was, it was great until I literally my, because I told him my real name. | |
| He found me, it was like my Instagram that is like my personal Instagram. | |
| And so I really like didn't think that he knew me at all. | |
| And then it was, yeah. | |
| So you mentioned it on the date though? | |
| I told him I did OnlyFans, but like I looked at prior to meeting him. | |
| Prior to. | |
| So do you think he might have like went to the bathroom and looked it up? | |
| to go see it and then tried to like search for it? | |
| No, because I looked at the time stamps and it was like, oh shit. | |
| How did you see his phone? | |
| Wait, you saw the timestamps and it was like... | |
| It was like before. | |
| Like he's been doing research. | |
| Because it's like, you know, when it says today and then like yesterday when in your search history? | |
| Wait, why were you going to do that? | |
| How much time did you have to look at? | |
| He opened his phone in front of me and I saw my name from the side of my eye and I was like, what is that? | |
| What's this? | |
| Hold on, somebody. | |
| Make him $199. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Almost all the women on the panel are so out of touch of reality. | |
| So they're roasting you guys today. | |
| How is she so casual about your debauchery? | |
| Nasty MFS. | |
| I'm not a man of God, but I'll pray for you all. | |
| Thank you for praying. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you, Victor, for praying. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| I don't know if you're just tuning in, but it's been an absolute shit show, Victor. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Okay, just like for technical reasons, not. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, okay. | |
| You're about to hook up with a dude, you see on his phone, he was Googling your bang bus video. | |
| Yeah, and it was like blacked, was your blacked video also? | |
| I have not filmed on blacked. | |
| It's just, I've only filmed with Bangbros Team Ski. | |
| Team Ski? | |
| Team Ski? | |
| Okay. | |
| They asked me to, never mind. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But. | |
| What's like the most? | |
| Like irre, what's what's the term for? | |
| Uh, bad repute, like the just most shit company that you. | |
| I don't know if you want to blast them, but um, Vixen is Vixen good, Vixen Vixen's good. | |
| Is that like the one with the? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay, I'm exposing myself right now. | |
| Vixen's a good path. | |
| I honestly think it does depend. | |
| Like the I don't know if it's the CEO or the CFO of Bangbros is a piece of shit. | |
| The way that they run their companies, not the best. | |
| But TEAM SKI has definitely asked me things that I have not been the most okay with. | |
| Like they'll ask me to film certain things. | |
| Fair enough, okay. | |
| But so you see the shit on your phone, on his phone, on his phone. | |
| He opened it yeah, and I was like let me see. | |
| I was like are you looking me up? | |
| I asked him at first and then he was like no no no, it's not you. | |
| And I was like I literally just saw like my name, my poor name, pop up and it. | |
| I scrolled through and it was like days of history of him looking my name. | |
| Damn, but did it? | |
| But did it start? | |
| Did it start from when you matched with him? | |
| I didn't look that far back, because we've been talking on and off for a while, for a while okay, but so you see it. | |
| Then what happens? | |
| I ran out of that, you dipped, I ran, you did that. | |
| No, hit my time, one at a time, go ahead. | |
| I ran out of there as fast as I possibly could because listen, I I have dated people that have looked me up like and, but they're open with the fact of yes, I've watched your videos and I'm I'm fine with it. | |
| I don't mind it. | |
| But if you're hiding that, you don't know who I am, and it's days of search history of my videos. | |
| Yeah, that's like a stalker situation. | |
| So I ran out of there. | |
| No, that's valid, that's valid. | |
| But like he probably determined that somehow that you were in the industry or something, started crying when I ran out, crying what the fuck? | |
| Then he was like no no no, I can explain. | |
| And he just started crying and I was like this is really weird. | |
| No, I'm gonna head out of here, okay. | |
| So that's uh, good times. | |
| Um, all right, good to know, good to know, because I mean, you know, maybe he's seen. | |
| Listen, I love details, like I love when guys have watched my videos, like I think it's like the guy that I'm kind of talking to right now has like, after we started talking, the guy who has you knocked up correct, he has FYI, she's pregnant, by the way thanks, just reminding you guys. | |
| Yeah, my uh baby daddy has watched my videos and like I don't mind, like he's, he watches your videos, he's watched my videos in the past. | |
| That's an L, because you you, you don't like he's not the guy you're fucking on camera right, but the thing is is the videos are very, very fake and they're very not me at all, like the videos that I filmed Johnny Sins. | |
| I've never filmed with him. | |
| I was supposed to but I didn't okay um, so the videos that I have filmed is very, very fake and it's not me and like you can even hear it in. | |
| But it's you getting fucked yeah, but it's still. | |
| My moans are fake. | |
| It's not like I. | |
| I see sex very differently from on set and like my personal life, like my personal life is, I see it as a soul tie connection. | |
| It's very intimate, it's very personal, it's who I am and on set I turn into Kiana Kumani actress yeah, persona type thing. | |
| How can you hold those two at the same time? | |
| I'm genuinely curious. | |
| It messed me up very badly and that's why I don't do mainstream videos anymore, because for me right now I still will film, but I would like to film for my only fans, with my partner or who i'm with. | |
| Um, because I am, I see sex very differently now and I want to have that soul tie and that genuine connection with the person that I am sleeping with, because it it does. | |
| It does mess with your head a lot, like the industry definitely does, whether people want to admit it or not. | |
| Okay, but in any case, your current guy, who is the he's looked up, he's your baby daddy, he watches videos of you getting fucked by other guys. | |
| He's watched them, like once or twice. | |
| See for me, like as a dude, like I would. | |
| No, there's no way I'm looking at the video of my girl getting fucked by another dude. | |
| I feel like it's. | |
| He was very aware of what I did, teach their own. | |
| Did he know what I did? | |
| Oh yeah, for sure. | |
| That was one of the first things I said to him when you walked outside. | |
| Oh, you guys know, you know. | |
| Oh, we lived together. | |
| She introduced me to him. | |
| All four of us went together. | |
| All live together. | |
| Yeah yeah yeah, all right, good signs. | |
| Okay, it's a interesting house. | |
| Yeah, it's a pretty fun house. | |
| All right, I got a question for you. | |
| Um, so your, your corn name is Kiana, Kiana Kumani. | |
| Like, come on, yeah. | |
| I get it that's where the name you have a question would you be down to um this is a whatever exclusive do any porn stars ever like uh have a middle initial no do you think you could like put another k in there See, the thing is, is my real name? | |
| My real name is spelled um, my real name is with the k, as. | |
| So Kiana is my real name, but I just spell it differently, so it's k, and then my last name also starts with a k. | |
| Okay yeah, got it. | |
| Okay, I have some more notes here for for some of you guys. | |
| Okay so, CJ photo Booth x. | |
| Um, what is Taurus rising into the mic, please? | |
| Um honestly, I just didn't really know what to put my bio as. | |
| So, like your rising sign, it's like something from astrology. | |
| Are you Taurus? | |
| I am not a Taurus sign oh, but you're a patient. | |
| Taurus rising. | |
| Taurus rising? | |
| All right, just show of hands. | |
| Who here believes in astrology kind of show of hands? | |
| All right, that shit's bullshit, okay? | |
| Um, you're a dancer stripper? | |
| Okay, we already, we already figured that out. | |
| Um, are you wearing your cross necklace, by the way? | |
| No okay, she didn't want me to watch it for it, so I took it off before, literally right before we gave it to you in your purse. | |
| All right, is it a special cross necklace that i'm guessing? | |
| All the time she texted in the group chat before we started the podcast, she was like I literally just took off my cross necklace. | |
| Yo should I get rid of the cross Necklace for this. | |
| That's actually like creepy. | |
| Like, who said that? | |
| Well, I reviewed your guys's Instagrams before. | |
| So he was looking for that. | |
| Necklace. | |
| And I saw like every photo you're wearing a cross thing, and I'm like, okay. | |
| Damn, that's hilarious. | |
| She mentioned that to us. | |
| She mentioned it in the group chat. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| I'm literally texting her. | |
| Here, go get it, put it on. | |
| So I can roast you for it. | |
| That's hilarious. | |
| All right, we have Elle Marie Baby. | |
| Hello. | |
| Hi. | |
| Actually, wait, I'm coming. | |
| Wait. | |
| You say in your profile something about the law of attraction. | |
| What are you talking about? | |
| The law of attraction, just like meaning that I think I said like something along the lines of like the law of attraction is a powerful thing. | |
| Is that what I said on my bio? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Anyway. | |
| You believe in the law of attraction. | |
| Yeah, I believe you attract what you put out. | |
| And I believe in good karma and bad karma. | |
| And I think that if you like, if you go, if you go to people and you speak to them and treat them with kindness and respect and dignity despite disagreements or having difference of opinion, then that good karma comes back to you eventually and that's important. | |
| So like if I attract, if I put that out, then I attract that and that's the law of attraction. | |
| That's what I think at least. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I'm not going to get. | |
| Don't get me started on the law of attraction. | |
| That sounds, I feel like when people say the law of attraction, this is what I hear. | |
| I hear I want to just do nothing and have everything come to me and just be like, yeah, just be like, you know, polite to people. | |
| And yeah. | |
| No, I mean, I definitely, I definitely don't think of it in that sense. | |
| I don't think that I'm just like doing nothing. | |
| Like, I think that being kind to others is like, how much charity work have you done last month? | |
| No, I'm just saying, like, I need metrics to like quantify. | |
| I mean, charity work, like, you mean, like, like, going and like, like, what the fuck is the word? | |
| I'm drawing a blind. | |
| I'm not saying this, like, like, I expect that you've done charity work this month. | |
| It's just like, we'll say, oh, I think being nice and being kind. | |
| And whenever we like quantify it, there's never anything that we can quantify it. | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Well, I just mean in the sense of like a lot of people go throughout their day just being disrespectful and ignorant and mean to other people for absolutely no fucking reason. | |
| So to me, I think that that, I think that that way of life is not going to get those people very far. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| All right. | |
| Good times. | |
| Okay, law of attraction. | |
| Okay. | |
| So really quick, I want to go back to OF. | |
| So just show of hands again. | |
| Who here has an OF or had an OF? | |
| One, two, three, four, five. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then not her. | |
| Okay. | |
| If you guys are comfortable sharing, how much do you guys make on OF? | |
| We'll start with you. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I just started making about $20,000 to $30,000 a month. | |
| Okay. | |
| I'm not comfortable sharing. | |
| Six figures? | |
| I'm not comfortable sharing. | |
| Seven figures. | |
| Okay, fair enough. | |
| What about you? | |
| To be completely honest, I don't know. | |
| I don't ever use it. | |
| Oh, right. | |
| You're kind of not really using it. | |
| What about dancing? | |
| How much do you make per night? | |
| Oh, gosh, that's average. | |
| That's a loaded question. | |
| It could be really anything. | |
| I've had nights where I've taken home five grand. | |
| I've had nights where I've taken home nothing. | |
| And most of her dancing was in Ohio in a small town as well. | |
| Columbus. | |
| No, Columbus isn't a small town. | |
| Well, we also danced in Dayton. | |
| So Dayton is smaller. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Can I have a question about dancing? | |
| Would you say that you make more from talking to the guys or from dancing to the guys? | |
| Straight into the mic, please. | |
| Would you say you make more from talking to guys and kind of having more of like an intimate conversation or more of an intimate dance? | |
| I say talking for sure. | |
| 100%. | |
| I'd say a bad stripper. | |
| I hated talking about that. | |
| I make about 70,000. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I make about $70,000 a month. | |
| All right. | |
| And then, Zoe, when you were active, how much were you making? | |
| What? | |
| Stripping or OF? | |
| Yeah, break it down between stripping and OF. | |
| Oh, man. | |
| When I was stripping, I was like 22. | |
| I'm 27 now. | |
| So, I mean, honestly, literally the most money I made by luck was three grand because I hate. | |
| I just, I was a great dancer, but talking-wise, I cannot stroke a man's ego that easy. | |
| And it, I can't stand it. | |
| But OF, I make about five figures a month. | |
| Five figures a month. | |
| Mid, low, high? | |
| Mid. | |
| Mid. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Don't say that about Pinky. | |
| Okay. | |
| Excuse me. | |
| What? | |
| Fucking me. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| So when I danced, I did travel a lot. | |
| I went to different countries. | |
| The most or different, not different countries, different states. | |
| And the most I made was when I was in New York. | |
| And that was like literally a 20K night. | |
| That was an insane full day excursion. | |
| From dancing. | |
| Yeah, from dancing alone. | |
| Okay. | |
| And then the, but like, I would average at like Ohio, like most at most was about 5K. | |
| But 70K. | |
| Wow. | |
| Yeah. | |
| No. | |
| I know. | |
| Baby girl. | |
| Hold on just a sec, guys. | |
| Pearl Babe, holler at me so we can flirt, laugh, share opinions, dreams, aspirations. | |
| Entertain a meetup that you'll probably never follow through with. | |
| 6'8, 6 figures, sick of modern gals, James. | |
| James. | |
| Thank you for Pearl. | |
| Do you want to respond? | |
| It's all I've ever wanted. | |
| Well, speaking of that, and we'll come back to you here in just a sec. | |
| Pearl, what's your type? | |
| What's my type? | |
| I like tall guys. | |
| So 6'8? | |
| No, no, no, no. | |
| Is she tall? | |
| You're 6'1, right? | |
| How tall are you, Pearl? | |
| Well, I'm 6'. | |
| I wear heels a lot. | |
| So people think I'm a little taller. | |
| But he's 6'8. | |
| Well, I wouldn't complain, but I've never gone forgetting at 6'8 before. | |
| Oh, he's too tall for you. | |
| Oh, what's your time? | |
| How often do you meet 6'8 guys? | |
| I like guys with nice smiles, tall. | |
| Conservative. | |
| I like ultra far-right men that are like, I do too. | |
| What? | |
| Yeah, so like almost extreme, doesn't really think women should vote. | |
| I think that's canceled. | |
| Like conservative, not thinking women should vote for right. | |
| What? | |
| Do you think that's like a Republican? | |
| I don't think that's like a mainstream conservative. | |
| I think that's pretty cringe. | |
| I guess she's not allowed to have an opinion. | |
| Yeah, no. | |
| If I was on a first date, if I was on a first date and he said women shouldn't vote, I'd be like, my God. | |
| Well, do you vote? | |
| I'm too much to back one of these guys. | |
| Do you vote? | |
| I have to. | |
| You don't, though. | |
| You just said you have to. | |
| The reason that I'll tell you why I think this, though, it's because men are put in selective service. | |
| So men are fined $300,000 if they don't. | |
| Basically, it's called conscription. | |
| And I just think if we're going to vote, it should be equal, equal rights, equal lefts, baby. | |
| We wanted equality. | |
| And personally, I don't want to be drafted. | |
| That's just my opinion on it. | |
| So you vote so you won't get drafted, but you don't think women should vote? | |
| I vote because I can, but I don't think women should vote. | |
| Yeah, I'm trying to win. | |
| I'm trying to win for the conservatives. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't think that adds up, but even if you carry the one mad name out for me, I'm not sure. | |
| Wait, Pearl, the chat's been curious. | |
| So as far as your type goes, you like tall. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Good smile. | |
| Black guys? | |
| Is that like your type? | |
| Like black eyes? | |
| No, I've like black or white is fine. | |
| She doesn't discriminate. | |
| What do you like normally go for? | |
| Like what do you usually find yourself up with, like ending up with? | |
| Because you might not have a type, but like you can end up with certain people. | |
| I mean, black or white. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| By the way, Pearl, why are you in a beef with everyone right now on the internet? | |
| Well, give us the little roll down. | |
| Who are you asking about? | |
| Well, there's, I think Brittany Venti did a hit piece on you. | |
| I think Auben Preach are beefing with you. | |
| Rolo's beefing with you. | |
| Rollo. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So Brittany Venti, I don't really, I don't know who she is, to be honest. | |
| So she just, yeah, she's obsessed with me, I think. | |
| Because she's just every, like, she's just always on my stuff. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Look, I don't have anything negative to say about any of these people. | |
| I've just seen for some reason, there's like 20 people making hit pieces on you right now. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I got into some hot water when I had Nick Fuentes on. | |
| Like, he's a pretty controversial guy, and a lot of people didn't agree with him. | |
| Pretty controversial. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What? | |
| That name sounds very familiar. | |
| What is he controversial? | |
| He's like. | |
| Isn't he basically like super all? | |
| Is he alt-right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Or like. | |
| I thought it was your type. | |
| Oh, that's why you had him on the show, bro. | |
| No, I just believe in like freedom of speech. | |
| And I think that, like, I think people shouldn't be banned off platforms just because they have extreme opinions. | |
| Because I have extreme opinions. | |
| And some people think that I should be banned off a platform. | |
| So I've been very like much into bringing people on that are controversial and like other, like other people are too afraid to have on, in my opinion. | |
| So that kind of started a lot of the hit pieces. | |
| Brittany, I don't know what that girl is on. | |
| I've never talked to her in my life. | |
| Okay. | |
| Rolo, you know, I really have always been a fan of Rolo, but I don't know. | |
| He just does it. | |
| He's not a fan. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| We have some chats here. | |
| We have James. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Brian would get canceled if I voice my conservative opinions. | |
| You aren't used to looking up. | |
| I get it. | |
| But get used to it, babe. | |
| Oh, he's talking to you. | |
| I thought he was talking to me. | |
| Yeah. | |
| He's like, look up at me, bro. | |
| Okay. | |
| So we have SoCal Surfer85 here. | |
| What do the girls think about AI transforming the world? | |
| Images and deep fake videos will most likely take over OnlyFans. | |
| When that day comes, OF will be controlled by dudes scamming other dudes. | |
| What then? | |
| I'll have the girls come in on this in just a sec here. | |
| One thing I do want to point out, and I don't know if any of the girls will admit to it, I'm pretty sure a lot of girls on OnlyFans, they're not the ones messaging dudes. | |
| Like y'all got messenger dudes to like message on your behalf. | |
| It's me. | |
| Confirm, deny. | |
| Other dudes. | |
| I'm not mind to answer that. | |
| You got like same. | |
| I respond to everything. | |
| It's not that hard to keep up with. | |
| When you were doing, are you still, you're not still doing everything? | |
| I'm not doing porn. | |
| I'm doing OnlyFans. | |
| You still, oh, okay. | |
| Excuse me. | |
| You still have OF. | |
| You respond to everything. | |
| Because a lot of the girls, they have a lot of time on my hands because of my OF. | |
| So I guess I could grant them the respect. | |
| But a lot of these girls who have OF, they have like a management company that does like everything for them. | |
| They do all the messaging. | |
| I think there are different levels of managements because I know a lot of girls and I know a lot of guys who do managing. | |
| And there are some managements who all they do is they get you subscribers and they take a cut. | |
| And then there are ones that go as far as to like take over every aspect and all you do is take pictures and send it. | |
| Or even they'll set up photo shoots and whatnot. | |
| So I think it totally depends on what the girl's level, like what she wants. | |
| I mean, yeah, honestly, I do have help online. | |
| That's not saying I have somebody completely run my shit. | |
| I do run some of it. | |
| But like, I have 50,000 people messaging me. | |
| So like, I could not do that individually as a person unless I want to be on my phone 24 hours a day. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And 50,000 people. | |
| And sell my stuff for a high price. | |
| And with Kirsten, she lives with me and she was one of the people that I went to guidance for with OF because I knew absolutely nothing about it when I started. | |
| And she saw me struggling, like still struggling to keep up with messages. | |
| I would constantly be stressed out about, oh, I got to go on my phone and answer this and that and the third. | |
| But I wanted to give people the actual real experience. | |
| To me, I'd rather take my time and put it into my content to make sure I'm giving these people the content that they're paying for if they're going to pay for it than sit there 24-7 and answer these messages because they're still getting me. | |
| They're still getting my content. | |
| I'd rather put my time and energy into the content that I'm making. | |
| 100%. | |
| Also, especially when it comes to custom requests too, like that's you making that custom for that specific person that's paying that money. | |
| Like you're saying their name. | |
| You're still talking to them. | |
| You're still aware and up to date of what the conversation is. | |
| I just think it is easier to get some help, especially when it does come to customs or certain requests of being able to have somebody help and filter and be like, hey, this is what you need to do for the day. | |
| And these are the certain videos that need to be done for the day. | |
| It helps just organize stuff away. | |
| 100%. | |
| And if you don't think it's me, ask me for a fucking voice memo. | |
| I'll make you pay for it. | |
| I'll make you pay to listen to my voice. | |
| Yeah, there's several messages that I will respond to, but it's just not always. | |
| Move your mic this way because you're blocking your body. | |
| Not the beautiful Barbie. | |
| I'm so sorry. | |
| Barbie over here. | |
| Okay. | |
| So, sorry guys, I'm getting distracted here from something. | |
| Okay. | |
| Shows the cross. | |
| Can you pull your hair just so we can see the cross? | |
| Haram. | |
| Haram. | |
| I'm not looking at the cross. | |
| You can say haram again. | |
| I don't get it. | |
| Is it a special cross? | |
| I just think it's cute. | |
| It's special because it's on my cross too over there. | |
| I do. | |
| I have a card. | |
| Are you guys Christian? | |
| Is there something like wrong? | |
| No. | |
| I think it's like a plun. | |
| It honestly means absolutely nothing. | |
| I literally have. | |
| I just, I think it looks nice with my other necklace. | |
| Into the mic reminder close to the mic. | |
| Oh, it just absolutely means nothing. | |
| I just think it looks nice with my other necklace. | |
| And so I wear it all the time. | |
| You don't think that's slightly disrespectful though to like Christianity? | |
| No, I don't. | |
| I think Christianity has caused so many problems in so many ways that out of all of the religions, I just don't think Christianity gets the space to say like, hey, don't be disrespectful to me. | |
| Because it's just, there's so many, so many different kinds of Christianity and different individual Christians who are so hateful and so judgmental. | |
| And, you know, like, I just don't think that you get to have that place to say that anymore. | |
| And if somebody wants to come at me for that, that's fine. | |
| But that's just my personal opinion. | |
| I think I could say that about all people, to be honest. | |
| Like, I don't think it's true. | |
| The left is, in my opinion, like the most judgmental group ever. | |
| And they're not religious usually. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| So let's see. | |
| I had one thing here we had, okay. | |
| This had to do, oh, going back to single. | |
| I think we got to you. | |
| We were talking about your situation. | |
| You're freshly new in a relationship? | |
| We've been together for almost a year now. | |
| Oh, almost a year. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is it complicated or is it good? | |
| No, we're good. | |
| It was long distance for a while. | |
| Sure. | |
| But not anymore. | |
| Relationship. | |
| Sorry, remind me, your name is Byron. | |
| Sorry, I didn't mean to. | |
| Byronique Barbie. | |
| Byronique Barbie. | |
| Okay, you're single. | |
| Single as a motherfucking Pringle. | |
| Can I hook you up with Blessed Blessing? | |
| Here's a girl. | |
| You got a girl? | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I don't think she would like that. | |
| I'm sorry, Blessing's. | |
| Is it blessed or blessing? | |
| Blessing. | |
| I'm sorry to your girlfriend. | |
| Okay. | |
| I got someone else I could set you up with, though, if you're down. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Can we please film that? | |
| Because I want to see her honesty. | |
| I'm going to get you set up with Chase. | |
| Okay. | |
| You're kind of his type, I think. | |
| Is he white chocolate? | |
| White chocolate? | |
| Because that's my preference. | |
| You like white chocolate? | |
| That's why she swiped right on you on here. | |
| I didn't expect it, but that's my preference. | |
| First of all, it was Facebook dating. | |
| Right. | |
| Damn, I don't know if that's worse. | |
| But we will swiped it on there, though, right? | |
| Yeah, it's, I'm pretty sure. | |
| It's everything. | |
| It's dog shit. | |
| Yeah, it's horrible. | |
| Well, at least I got you all here. | |
| Well, he uses it for promotional. | |
| He's using it. | |
| That's why he got me here. | |
| It's the reverse finesse. | |
| I'm doing the reverse finesse. | |
| I've tried a lot of guys together. | |
| All these chicks got their OnlyFans. | |
| They're putting their Instagram. | |
| I guess you can't put your OnlyFans in your bio. | |
| I say fair game. | |
| It's fair game. | |
| It's fair game. | |
| Chicks on the connection app. | |
| Y'all putting your cash app, your vendor app. | |
| I'm procuring women to be on my dating show. | |
| Right. | |
| Which could therefore be a bad opportunity to date. | |
| Get it how you get it. | |
| Yeah, I got banned on him. | |
| More power. | |
| Unfortunately, so it's all good. | |
| Okay, I have a question. | |
| These are the most like random non-sequitur questions. | |
| Zoe, you have some interesting tattoos. | |
| You have, I don't know if you can show these, but you have a vanity tattoo, a psycho tattoo, and a sinner tattoo. | |
| Yes. | |
| So are you a psycho? | |
| Confirm or deny? | |
| No, it just looked good on Pinterest. | |
| And a lot of my tattoos, I like to get to piss people off because I used to live like in the, you know, just the deep, the, what's it called, the Bible Belt. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| And I used to be, I used to work at a cell phone store and used to be like customer service. | |
| And I don't know, it would just like spark really interesting conversations. | |
| So, but the vanity tattoo I got when I was 19 and I pretty much got it because I believe in kind of like owning your, the negative parts about yourself. | |
| So like I was 19 and I was vain and I'm 27 and still very vain, just very humble now. | |
| And so I don't, you know, just like wearing it on my body, you know, so like accepting my flaws before anyone else can put judgment on me. | |
| And then the sinner tattoo, that definitely was, I'm an agnostic atheist. | |
| So like I heavily, heavily, heavily quite literally hate religion. | |
| So it was kind of like a slap in the face to my mother who is conservative Christian. | |
| And yeah, I don't know. | |
| Like I said, I like pissing people off, I guess. | |
| So that's where I got the sin from in Zoe's In. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, I forgot I was going through the whole single thing. | |
| Okay, so Byronique, when's the last time you were in a relationship? | |
| I say like 2020 was my last situation shit. | |
| Okay. | |
| By the way, you say you like white dudes. | |
| Like, am I your type or what? | |
| I want to know. | |
| I got to feel you out. | |
| I got to get your vibe. | |
| We got to hang out a little bit, soccer. | |
| You feel me? | |
| But look-wise, yeah, you got the pretty little blue-eyed Paul Walker going on. | |
| Okay! | |
| We should move that in. | |
| We're going on, okay. | |
| Got the plan. | |
| I think. | |
| Should the rest of us leave? | |
| Yeah, this is going to be a date. | |
| I don't know why that the dating show finally got y'all a date. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Okay, cool. | |
| All right, we'll talk after the show. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| You're single. | |
| Rip. | |
| How long have you been single? | |
| Like, two, almost three years? | |
| Okay. | |
| And we were actually single too. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And you're waiting till marriage? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You know? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do the deed for religious reasons or scoot the mic towards you, please. | |
| Honestly, for religious reasons. | |
| Are you Christian Catholic? | |
| I'm Catholic. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay. | |
| Married, relationship, and then Pearl is in the bathroom. | |
| Okay. | |
| Got a question. | |
| But you're not really single, though. | |
| Right? | |
| There's some dude. | |
| Come on. | |
| There's some dude in the picture. | |
| There's so many. | |
| There's so many. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| I'm kind of kidding. | |
| But I mean, guy, I'm single, like fully. | |
| Wait, can you scoot? | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Keep doing this. | |
| Scoot the mic that way, but there we go. | |
| I look better like this. | |
| You said there's so many dudes. | |
| How many guys are you talking to right now? | |
| No, I was joking. | |
| I was joking. | |
| I'd honestly drop all of them for somebody in this room. | |
| Who? | |
| No, no. | |
| No, I'm never mind. | |
| I tell you. | |
| Are you bi? | |
| Who would you? | |
| Kiki? | |
| This one? | |
| Oh, Kiki. | |
| And I've known each other forever. | |
| This is my sister. | |
| What? | |
| Kiki and I have known each other forever. | |
| This is my sister. | |
| You said someone in this room. | |
| Yeah, I'm going to let it remain a mystery. | |
| You can figure it out. | |
| Who? | |
| Play eeny, meeny, mighty, mo. | |
| Is she a roommate? | |
| No, but I do. | |
| I have already filmed content with every single girl that is a roommate of mine. | |
| Is it blessing? | |
| He's got a girlfriend, dude. | |
| No, I'm not. | |
| I would never hit on a guy with a girlfriend. | |
| That's where I draw a line. | |
| I don't do that. | |
| That's disrespectful. | |
| Stop the cow. | |
| Dead ass. | |
| Deadass. | |
| If they tell me they have a girlfriend, I'm completely. | |
| They're off. | |
| They're not. | |
| No, that's not me. | |
| Okay. | |
| Is it Nick? | |
| I think that's a yes. | |
| Wait. | |
| Is it? | |
| I think I need some water. | |
| Yo, throw your friend under the bus. | |
| We promise we wouldn't say anything. | |
| We can't do that. | |
| We'll start having house fights again. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| It's more than usual. | |
| Okay, is it a girl or is it a guy? | |
| That's no fun if I tell you that. | |
| Then it limits it. | |
| Because there's so many women in here. | |
| So it's a chick? | |
| No. | |
| Oh, wait. | |
| Fuck! | |
| Is it Nick? | |
| It's Nick. | |
| His face is so red. | |
| His face is so red. | |
| It's his first W, but my name's L. L, he's not riding home with us. | |
| Why? | |
| She's not coming home with us. | |
| I got here. | |
| Nick is blushing right now. | |
| I know, so am I. Wait, but how many guys are you dating right now? | |
| I'm not, I'm not like. | |
| When's the last time you hooked up with a dude? | |
| Personally. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Plead the fifth at this point. | |
| Yeah, I want you so badly, but I'm so mad at saying no, bro. | |
| Ellie, you makes me shit my shit. | |
| You can show your shit. | |
| Okay, the last time I hooked up with a dude was like maybe like two days ago, yeah. | |
| Maybe two days ago. | |
| Yeah, somewhere around. | |
| 48 hours. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But like I said, drop them all for Nick. | |
| Was it a... | |
| I will wait. | |
| Maybe we all leave and let you. | |
| Let's go. | |
| All right. | |
| Okay. | |
| But this guy you recently hooked up with, are you going to continue seeing him or is it a one-time thing? | |
| I don't even want to talk about it. | |
| Dude, these girls, I don't even want to talk about it. | |
| They're just going to fucking, I don't even want to talk about it. | |
| I really can't. | |
| Wait, is it just four of you in the house or is there none of them? | |
| No, there's eight of us. | |
| There's eight of us. | |
| Is there nine now? | |
| Oh, there's nine. | |
| There's nine of us. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| There's nine of us. | |
| Yeah. | |
| How did you all meet? | |
| Eight, nine? | |
| All different kinds of ways. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you each have your own bedroom or do you share this? | |
| Yes, we all have our own bedroom. | |
| This is like a mansion or some shit. | |
| Yes. | |
| In LA, where is it? | |
| Sherman Oaks. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Sherman Washington. | |
| Why would we say that? | |
| I suppose. | |
| That's why. | |
| I just narrowed it down way too much. | |
| There's too many hot females in that house for us to say what. | |
| Sometimes I forget I'm talking to a lot of people. | |
| How do you guys live with that many women? | |
| Not L for me. | |
| Not used to. | |
| No, honestly, okay. | |
| It's been better. | |
| We've almost swung it up. | |
| It's a merry-go-round of who's arguing with who? | |
| Yeah, it's been better. | |
| Who argues the most with each other out of the four? | |
| Me and Elle. | |
| Yeah, those two. | |
| But we're like sisters. | |
| Yeah, we make up quicker than we argue. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, we've been on a good streak, though. | |
| Yeah, this is the long dates. | |
| This is the longest we've gone without arguing about anything, to be honest. | |
| Which is crazy about my stuff. | |
| Actually, the stupidest, like, not even significant. | |
| The last time we really got into an argument was about my baby daddy. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, because it was my friend. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Did you hook up with him too? | |
| No. | |
| But he did eat me out. | |
| Thanks. | |
| That's how I let him go. | |
| That's a hookup. | |
| I love how he's watching this. | |
| He is watching right now. | |
| Does that not count as a hookup? | |
| I mean, it wasn't like he could have gotten me pregnant too, so I consider that a win. | |
| That was a one-time drunk thing for them, and then they started being very good friends after that. | |
| Yeah, and it was completely platonic after that. | |
| That happens sometimes. | |
| Wow. | |
| Okay. | |
| How do you go? | |
| You strive for me to be so brutally honest. | |
| I'll do it. | |
| I'll put myself on glass. | |
| I'm not afraid of it. | |
| Like, I own my own shit. | |
| That's one thing. | |
| No, I just can't imagine going from that to being like platonic friends. | |
| I think you can be. | |
| Yeah, no. | |
| 100%. | |
| When you don't have that sexual connection with someone, it just kind of honestly ruled it out for both of us. | |
| And it just made us more of just like, okay, you're the homies. | |
| I do not believe that. | |
| Men and women cannot be friends with that close proximity. | |
| Many women can be friends if you're not attracted to each other. | |
| So do you think it's disrespectful to you? | |
| I have a question. | |
| Do you think it's disrespectful if you are dating someone new and you have someone around that you've hooked up with before? | |
| Yes. | |
| I think it depends. | |
| Yeah, I think it one depends on the comfortability of you and in your relationship. | |
| If it's something new, then like if that's a boundary for the other person, then that's there to be something that's communicated and respected both ways. | |
| But If you're like, you can't go out to a club and then get mad at your girlfriend or your boyfriend or whatever situation you're in if there's somebody that they've hooked up with or been attached to in the past there. | |
| That's what she means. | |
| I think she means like choosing to keep someone in your life, hanging out with them and stuff like that you've hooked up with in the past, even though you're in a committed relationship. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| I think that's 100% disrespectful. | |
| Yeah, I think it's disrespectful to the partner if that's like something that's discussed between the two. | |
| Yeah, I know. | |
| It really is so circumstantial that it's hardly like sounds like that between each situation. | |
| Yeah, that's that's each relationship. | |
| I just kind of think of things from like a guy's point of view. | |
| So I'm thinking if I'm a guy and I'm like looking to date a girl, like why would I want to date a girl that has a bunch of dudes around that have like ate her out or F'd her? | |
| Well, I don't isn't that kind of a red flag for no 110%. | |
| If that's like something, like, like I said, I'm single for a fucking reason. | |
| But sometimes like, you know, people stay friends with their ex, you know, their ex, sometimes they have like an ex like marriage. | |
| I think that could be, but often, yeah, like, you know, sometimes a friendship remains. | |
| Like, I mean, I think it really depends, like, on the nature of the relationship. | |
| Is there really a friendship after, though? | |
| I think. | |
| Oh, is it a codependency or is it, yeah, what is it? | |
| I think it really does depend on the situation. | |
| Because one of my exes, we are, like, not attracted to each other anymore at all on any level whatsoever. | |
| But I love this person so much as the person that he is. | |
| And like, we are just very good friends. | |
| Like, I've met his current girlfriend and like she's very aware of the situation. | |
| And like, I respect their relationship 100%. | |
| I feel like it's very different when you move on. | |
| If you had a boyfriend who felt the same thing about one of his friends, would you feel comfortable with him hanging out with her? | |
| Yeah, okay, okay, maybe I'm going to go ahead and get a little bit more. | |
| I think it does depend on the situation. | |
| I've categorized that. | |
| Men don't do that. | |
| I don't think that that's, I don't think that's a thing for men. | |
| I think it's on or off. | |
| That's the only way they view it. | |
| So they're just waiting. | |
| They're just waiting. | |
| But it's just like that. | |
| I think it's just like that with women too. | |
| Like, it's like an on and off switch. | |
| I think for me personally, if I'm in like a friendship with a guy and I've hooked up with them before, it, like Elle said, it rules, it cancels out that kind of like, I feel like every guy and girl friendship has some kind of level of sexual tension. | |
| Yeah, that's, yeah, I agree with you. | |
| That's so I think once that is like ruled out and it's like, okay, I exhausted anymore at all. | |
| I think you can genuinely have a good friendship. | |
| I'm not saying that that's the only way to have a good friendship, but I think that that is like, you can still be friends with somebody that you've slept with before. | |
| Interesting. | |
| Word. | |
| Okay, let me get a couple of the chats. | |
| Let's get caught up here. | |
| Akira, thank you for the five gifted. | |
| Everyone who's watching on Twitch, by the way, unfortunately we can't shout anybody out because our, what's that? | |
| Can somebody fix that peeping? | |
| Hello? | |
| Just unplug the monitor, I guess. | |
| Just from the back. | |
| That should hopefully fix it. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Scuffed as usual. | |
| Yeah, shout out to everyone on Twitch. | |
| Go to twitch.tv slash whatever. | |
| Drop us a prime sub. | |
| Drop us a follow if you have one. | |
| Twitch.tv slash whatever mods, if you could spam in the chat. | |
| Yeah, sorry, guys, it's a little hard to run the show because our monitor's gone. | |
| It's scuffed. | |
| So, okay, we have a chat here from To Tolu Alimi. | |
| Thank you. | |
| All right, this one's okay. | |
| Last show, a few panelists, when asked, well, I think it was one panelist, but when asked what advice they'd give to women who are physically abused in relationships, said the partner should stay in the relationship and endure. | |
| Curious your takes, Brian and Pearl and the rest of the panel too. | |
| Okay, yeah, this is like went crazy viral on Twitter and a couple other places. | |
| Yeah. | |
| First off, the short clip that Mel posted, I don't know if she edited it or if it was somebody else, was like cut. | |
| It was pretty heavily cut up. | |
| MLD was saying that you should endure. | |
| I'm not even sure if he said like, I think he was talking about in general, but like, cause she threw in, well, what should you do in divorce? | |
| And then she threw in this other stuff about abuse. | |
| I mean, point blank, period, Mike, my take is if you're being abused, whether emotionally, physically, whatever it may be, but your question is physically abused, like get out, like end the relationship, get divorced, like don't stay. | |
| However, they decided to like crop in like Chase and then they cropped in Mary and then John and then they put, I didn't even say anything during that entire segment and they put me in the segment and then like people are thinking every single one of us like they showed our face in the segment that we co-signed on his endure statement, which is not true. | |
| If you're in an abusive relationship, like marriage, relationship, whatever, that's pretty justifiable, extremely justifiable reason to leave and get out. | |
| Go ahead, Pearl. | |
| Yeah, when I watched the full clip, I was actually really surprised because I didn't really take it that that's what he meant. | |
| But when they cut it up like that, it just seemed like he said something he didn't say. | |
| But that's what a lot of these like reaction channels, and I'll say this as a content creator, like a lot of the reaction channels will take clips to like put you out of context and like say things that you didn't say. | |
| And kind of like, it's really dishonest, honestly. | |
| And Mel, the Destiny's wife, it was her clip that she made, which I think is pretty disingenuous because if you watch the whole thing, I think MLD got a little like, he was fucking seven white claws deep too. | |
| Look, if he, I'm not going to co-sign what he said, disavow. | |
| Disavow, but like it sounded like to me, like they were asking about divorce in general and he was saying endure, endure. | |
| And then like somewhere through that, she brings up physical abuse. | |
| And so I kind of look at this question a little differently because my question is like, what is the abusive situation? | |
| And I need specifics. | |
| And like the reason I need specifics is women cry abuse for everything and we've actually lost the meaning of abuse. | |
| Like if you go to, and I know this because I'm doing a divorce documentary. | |
| And so I'm actually interviewing men that are in the process of getting like absolutely wrecked by divorce. | |
| And a lot of them have had false allegations put out against them. | |
| And a lot of those, basically what the feminists do is they expand the definition of abuse to include things like coercive control, financial abuse, and even physical abuse. | |
| A lot of times, like girls don't talk about how they hit first. | |
| And most abusive situations are mutually abusive, meaning they're both hitting each other. | |
| And so a lot of times what girls will do is they'll say, oh, I'm being abused, but they don't talk about how she hit him first. | |
| Like I had a girl on the show say, I was physically abused. | |
| And I used to just believe women. | |
| Like I genuinely, I would always just be like, oh, I'm so sorry. | |
| But then you start asking questions. | |
| And it baffles me how women like turn the situation of them like being abused when they aren't. | |
| Like this one girl, she came on my show. | |
| She said, I was physically abused. | |
| I said, okay, tell me the situation. | |
| What exactly happened? | |
| He, she refused to leave his house. | |
| She refused. | |
| So she's trespassing on his property, saying, I'm not going to leave. | |
| And he pushes her out of the house. | |
| Is that abuse? | |
| No. | |
| Or another thing that girls do is they'll edge a guy on. | |
| Like I saw a clip of a dude of a girl basically making fun of a guy for having a dead son. | |
| And he hit her, who abused who? | |
| And that's like the other side of this that we don't talk about is that a lot of times like the feminists or whatever will try to get a gotcha question because they'll say, oh, if you're in an abusive marriage. | |
| But like I know the ins and outs of this because I interview the men that are falsely accused and this is so common and it's so common. | |
| So, and the one thing that guys should know is if a girl says she was abused and she didn't file a police report, like, because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse. | |
| You need no evidence. | |
| And in criminal court, you do. | |
| So it's more likely true if it's in criminal court. | |
| If it's real abuse, yeah, I mean, you should leave. | |
| But my issue is like, a lot of times it's not actually real abuse what they're talking about. | |
| And they don't talk about the other side where a lot of times the girls start it. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I don't know about that example of somebody saying, of the woman saying that, telling the husband that he had a dead son, and then she hits him. | |
| No, I said he hit her. | |
| Oh, he hit her. | |
| Like, she was like taunting. | |
| She was taunting him about. | |
| If someone taunts you, or if you taunt someone and they hit you, is that acceptable? | |
| I didn't say it's acceptable, but it's not like they're not. | |
| You're talking about someone's dead child. | |
| I don't think you know until that happens to you. | |
| You'll react to it. | |
| I understand. | |
| You can walk away from a situation. | |
| You can't punch someone because they say something that hurts your feelings. | |
| You can't. | |
| Violence is not okay, but that's not right. | |
| Wait, tilt your microphone so it's fish. | |
| I'm not saying it's okay, but we don't talk about the other side where a lot of times girls will provoke it. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| So it's not like he's horrible. | |
| In that situation, is that something that could be worked out? | |
| I mean, like, obviously that's a crazy, toxic relationship, but like, they'll act like, oh, the guy is in the horrible person. | |
| He's in the wrong. | |
| He hit her. | |
| But it's like, you were taunting him. | |
| And also, like, a lot of times, you know what girls do? | |
| This is, and I've read these text messages. | |
| Like, I have literally like gone through these, like, like the subpoena or whatever it is when they have to get the stuff from the women. | |
| Women know that they get perks from the government if they accuse a guy of abuse. | |
| I have a very difficult thing. | |
| There is a girl. | |
| There was a girl that had in-text messages. | |
| I wish he would just hit me. | |
| Because if he hit her, she gets a free lawyer from the government. | |
| And so this is like, these are the situations that like the left doesn't talk about where men are falsely accused all the time. | |
| And like, and it's so sad because women that are actually abused are the ones that suffer for it because women are going around calling everything abuse, everything grape. | |
| And most of the women who suffer from abuse actually suffer in silence and don't terrified. | |
| And even, you know, and it makes it difficult too, but obviously it's a proven court. | |
| But a lot of women also don't call the cops. | |
| I mean, a lot of people suffer in silence. | |
| Yeah, the people who don't say anything. | |
| I mean, in my opinion, like, I really think we need to go off of evidence. | |
| Like, I just think that false accusations and abuse is so rampant that we have to go off of evidence. | |
| And we should encourage women that are actually abused to go to the police. | |
| Because now we're in a situation where if you don't go to the police, how can I just believe you when women go around falsely accusing men all the time? | |
| I mean, I don't think there's certain situations where you don't have evidence. | |
| If I get hit, but it's not leaving a bruise, how are you supposed to show the evidence of that? | |
| And I think you actually need to go to the police. | |
| Go to police officers and tell them to take it more seriously because I can't tell you how many times I have had friends had something happen and they've gone to the police and the police do absolutely nothing. | |
| Well, is it possible that maybe it didn't happen? | |
| No, that's the thing. | |
| Because we're not really going to get into it, but I was there. | |
| So I know. | |
| Okay, if you if you please. | |
| Like my whole point isn't about, my whole point is we need to go off of evidence. | |
| Like in society, we cannot just openly believe women because they say something. | |
| It is not for the people. | |
| What was I supposed to do? | |
| I'm not talking about, look it, I'm not talking about your. | |
| But this is what I'm asking you is what do you mean by evidence? | |
| You know, was I supposed to say that? | |
| So if you saw it, was my witness testimony enough? | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Was me witnessing it in considered evidence? | |
| I would think so. | |
| You would think so. | |
| Okay. | |
| Right? | |
| Okay. | |
| Look, I don't know. | |
| I don't know the ins and outs of every situation, so I don't really want to go into your personal events. | |
| No, I'm just saying that when you say, like, if a girl hasn't taken it to the cops, then she's lying. | |
| That's not well, your friend did take it to the cops. | |
| Yeah, but I'm telling you, and I'm saying that we should go to the city. | |
| I'm not finished. | |
| But why if they don't do anything? | |
| All right, let's move on. | |
| We're not going to talk about this. | |
| Thank you for the super chat, but yeah, I think you're digging their tolu. | |
| I don't know if you're digging for something, but yeah, all right. | |
| We have TJ King, thank for the 100. | |
| Do you women think that a blue-collar man that works 80-plus hours a week is more looked over in today's? | |
| Yeah, by the way, Tolu, thank you for the is more looked over in today's society than a woman who has an OF. | |
| Yes. | |
| Do you date, right? | |
| Do you women think that a blue-collar man that works 80-plus hours a week is more looked over in today's society than a woman who has an OF? | |
| I think he's asking and I think he makes it less desirable. | |
| Yeah, no, I think a blue collar man, I think a blue collar man is more desirable to a woman. | |
| I think a blue-collar man is more desirable to any woman, OnlyFans or not, than an OnlyFans is to a mass majority of men that aren't trying to subscribe to her. | |
| Okay, we have Bad ZXE. | |
| We got Victor here. | |
| Can I answer? | |
| Can I answer? | |
| I want to say. | |
| Sure. | |
| I think it depends how hot the OnlyFans model is. | |
| Thank you. | |
| No. | |
| As someone who dates nothing but regular guy, subscribe to Kirsten. | |
| I could say, as someone who actually actively loves dating blue-collar, I mean, honestly, I really don't like white-collar men. | |
| You know, I'm not really into that finance road tech shit. | |
| But like blue-collar, absolutely. | |
| But I look for them. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Like, I make sure I'm open enough to them. | |
| But as someone who works with nothing but women, hell yes. | |
| I mean, I feel like some of them a lot are kind of airheadish and a little like too full of themselves. | |
| And they're like, oh my God, you can't make as much money as I do. | |
| You're not worth my time, which I feel like is completely asidine. | |
| That's really funny. | |
| All right. | |
| We have Kiyoshi Gadget. | |
| Thank you for the 100 men in the Manosphere. | |
| Need to hear the truth that astrology will make you powerful. | |
| Know thyself. | |
| The ruling class have always made moves with the planets because these giant consciousnesses generate the realm we exist in. | |
| It's too foolish to write off the metaphysical. | |
| Ooh. | |
| What? | |
| I dig it. | |
| What? | |
| Okay. | |
| I think we already talked about astrology a little earlier on. | |
| Apparently, now our overlays are. | |
| Is the monitor working again or no? | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, apparently I'm seeing the overlays now, so that's good. | |
| Okay, and then we have Bads EXE here. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Thank you, Victor. | |
| The room probably smells like lacroix, cheap perfume, and a warm turtle tank. | |
| Warm what? | |
| Turtle tank. | |
| Wow. | |
| Like a tank for turtles. | |
| For the girl wearing the cross, low-key, you can buy me a drink sometime. | |
| All right, sounds good. | |
| You're in a relationship, though, apparently. | |
| Letting somebody a drink doesn't have to be like that, though. | |
| Rip. | |
| Okay. | |
| Where were we at? | |
| Okay, we were talking single? | |
| Single? | |
| Somebody single? | |
| Oh, she's gone. | |
| I had a question for her. | |
| Oh, well. | |
| Okay, we're going to go around the table on this. | |
| Actually, we're not going to go around the table on this. | |
| Zoe, you had a viral video recently on TikTok where you were giving some dating advice. | |
| What was the title of the video? | |
| The very first one? | |
| Yeah, it was like dating advice that no one wants to hear. | |
| What was that? | |
| Common sense dating advice that you don't want to hear, but you need to hear. | |
| Right, okay. | |
| We were going to pull it up and watch it, but unfortunately we can't. | |
| I hate hearing myself speak sometimes. | |
| So what? | |
| I don't know if you've committed it to memory, but what were the tips that you offered in that first video? | |
| I think the very first one, if someone wants to pull it up, we can, just because I've already beat like six of them. | |
| We can't. | |
| So I would say the very first one was, let's see, don't complain about cheating if you're willing to stick around for it. | |
| You either shut up and move on and learn how to work through it or leave. | |
| Sam, what the fuck? | |
| I'm trying to think of money. | |
| Based. | |
| What does that mean? | |
| Base. | |
| It just means like good. | |
| Okay, I'm new to the lingo. | |
| I'm like, what? | |
| But I think the one that pissed most people off is that I said men have it harder in life, especially financially. | |
| But I was talking about dating in dating 100%, I feel like men. | |
| And yes, I know like my, what I compared it to, I was like, you know, like men can't just sit here and bust their coochie open on OF for 10 grand a month was a little biased because it's literally my life. | |
| But yeah, I don't, you want to go into that? | |
| I think that men, well, first, we will go into that. | |
| How about we go around the table? | |
| So who has it harder when it comes to dating, men or women? | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I think it definitely does depend on the situation. | |
| In general? | |
| I think men. | |
| Okay. | |
| I think it depends on your standards. | |
| In general. | |
| In general, men. | |
| I think it's a lot of pressure. | |
| I think men, 100%. | |
| That's so funny that everyone's saying this now because the girlies in the comment were calling me pick Misha. | |
| Sprinkle, sprinkling. | |
| Dating, specific dating. | |
| Yeah, specific to dating, man. | |
| I feel like a lot of things in life men have it harder. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think they both equally have it hard. | |
| Men and women both. | |
| Well, I don't know if it's equally have it hard. | |
| I think women have certain difficulties that perhaps men don't have. | |
| Of course. | |
| And men have difficulties that women don't have. | |
| Yeah, exactly. | |
| I think generally speaking, men have definitely a harder time with dating. | |
| What about you? | |
| What do you think? | |
| Yeah, I would say that men have a pretty rough time. | |
| If you, if it, like, like you have these guys in your comments asking if they're being overlooked because they're blue collar. | |
| And now it becomes this issue where, and you talk about this, and actually you do too, Brian, but a very small pool of men are the ones that get all of the attention. | |
| Even though there are lots of good, hardworking men who would love to find somebody good and have a relationship. | |
| But because women are the gatekeepers of sex, they have to compete. | |
| And it's difficult. | |
| And it can be really discouraging and extremely lonely. | |
| And that's why like after, it took me about a week to make a response video to all the girlies in my comments being like, pick me, pick me. | |
| Because I really, I had to sit down with a few of my girlfriends just to make sure that like maybe my comment was a little like fucked up. | |
| Maybe I should like do some self-introspection, which is everything that I preach. | |
| And then I came down to it as I do feel like in society, especially when it comes to dating, we hold the power. | |
| We hold the yes or the no's, right? | |
| They don't really have much to say anymore, which I mean, that's just the way the world works around it right now. | |
| But I don't feel like we give men enough compassion for the hardships that they face. | |
| Like we love men conditionally. | |
| I don't, I mean, in my relationship now, it's the first relationship I've actually practiced loving somebody unconditionally. | |
| So like when it comes to like money and when it comes to like dick size, all this kind of shit that we're so like, I don't love you unless you have this. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What about us? | |
| And I feel like a lot of women take this and they're like, okay, cool. | |
| You want this out of a man. | |
| But I do not feel that the question, what do you bring to the table is a bad question to ask. | |
| Because if all you can bring me is that you have a fat ass and you have a pretty face and you can fuck good, that's going to get the man. | |
| But like, how are you going to keep him? | |
| What substance is that? | |
| That's the reason why I don't care about the, oh, she's just a porn star and OnlyFans girl. | |
| No, I'm smart as shit. | |
| And half of the men that can get, that have gotten to know me can all say the same thing. | |
| Like, holy shit, you smart as hell. | |
| Like, why are you doing porn? | |
| And I'm like, well, because I'm capitalizing off the market, okay? | |
| I'm using my looks to capitalize. | |
| But I feel like a lot of women that I meet, which is the reason why 90% of my friends are guys. | |
| And I know it sounds, I know this is like feeding in some more of the pick-me thing, but no, I feel like men hold me accountable. | |
| I don't feel like a lot of women hold themselves accountable, and especially so we're like always preaching these standards. | |
| And I'll say the same thing for men. | |
| I don't do leftists, I don't do right. | |
| I'm literally, my shit is middle ground because I feel like women preach these crazy standards that they can't even upkeep themselves. | |
| Men preach these crazy standards and like, you know, like the whole men want a traditional wife, but they're not traditional men. | |
| 100%. | |
| But I feel like women are taken, like when a man says, oh, I don't want a girl with a high body count, we're like, that man's trash. | |
| He's shit. | |
| No, that's just his fucking preference. | |
| But then I feel like when women say, like, oh, you know, I want a man to make this amount of money. | |
| It's not coming from a place of like, she knows who she is. | |
| She's coming from a place of like what society is sort of what they should want. | |
| And men, and men are just precious. | |
| Hey, look, it's Pearl. | |
| I like Pearl. | |
| I just got here. | |
| Thanks for the awesome content one more time. | |
| It's a really nice vibe to enjoy a coffee to and fire up the business. | |
| Much love, Brie and Panel. | |
| Bree, huh? | |
| I feel like something in that in that same vein, it's like it's never our fault when things go wrong. | |
| And that's something that I see a lot when women talk about different aspects of life. | |
| It's never, if you pick shitty guys, it's never your fault. | |
| If you go into too much student debt, it's never your fault, right? | |
| If you don't negotiate well when you're trying to get a job, it's never your fault. | |
| And that really hurts women because it doesn't actually empower us to take any sort of agency over our own lives and actually make decisions and be responsible for our own actions. | |
| But men have to do that because if they do not, they are not attractive partners. | |
| And that's really an unfair standard that our society has, particularly in the U.S., I think that that's a real problem. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| 100%. | |
| I mean, that's just my sentiment about it. | |
| You know what I was thinking about, which is crazy? | |
| If you're a 1% guy, like top 1%, let's just say height, money, looks, whatever, you can't expect a virgin. | |
| Wait, you can't or you can. | |
| You can't. | |
| If you're a top 1%. | |
| Yeah, like they don't expect it. | |
| I'm not saying they don't want it, but they don't expect it. | |
| Top guy doesn't expect a virgin. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And that's just kind of speaks to the dating pool for men today. | |
| You can get to the top 1% of men and you don't expect a virgin. | |
| Elaborate on that. | |
| I mean, what do men look for typically historically? | |
| Purity, youth. | |
| Attractiveness, obviously, pretty in shape. | |
| And so it's like, you have a guy that can get to the pinnacle of what women want. | |
| Like, you know, tall, muscles, money, whatever. | |
| And like, those guys don't expect a virgin because like the quality of women has just gone down today. | |
| Like, the average partner count is like, what? | |
| I mean, they say like between five and eight. | |
| And like, you know, that after like five to seven partners, your chance of a happy marriage drops to like 20% in 10 years, roughly. | |
| Why, though? | |
| Yeah, if you're, I mean, why does body count matter so fucking? | |
| I mean, you're going to find different studies that are not. | |
| I do think that part of the reason that your chances of a happy marriage go down is because you have more experience and you know what you want. | |
| Why? | |
| And that means not a lot of people settle in marriage. | |
| I mean, I just want to ask, like, how is it working? | |
| Like, how is women having more partners working in society? | |
| Is it leading us to having more fulfilling, long, happy relationships or not? | |
| Because 100 years ago, we're getting the relationship only. | |
| We're talking about people. | |
| I think men's money. | |
| Basically, 100 years ago, only 15% of women admitted to premarital sex. | |
| 85% of women. | |
| You know why they admit that? | |
| Let's say they're lie. | |
| Let's say they're big liars and we double it. | |
| Okay, that's still two out of three that were virgins on their wedding night. | |
| And so, like, my question is, are relationships in a better place today than they were 100 years ago? | |
| Say what you want about relationships 100 years ago. | |
| You cannot tell me that the way relationships are today are working. | |
| Like half of our generation is afraid of getting married because of what we've seen in our parents. | |
| Yeah, like that is a big horrible place to go. | |
| They stay together because they felt like they didn't. | |
| Our parents are that's not true. | |
| Our parents are that. | |
| I can't speak for your parents or my parents. | |
| No, I'm talking about like generationally for so long. | |
| Women didn't have the autonomy to say no and to ask for what I wanted to do. | |
| They demand what they want. | |
| And now women do. | |
| They can say, no, I don't want that. | |
| I don't want you. | |
| You don't make me happy. | |
| I want what makes me happy. | |
| Okay. | |
| And that's why I think that what a relationship is about? | |
| No, I think it goes both ways 100%. | |
| I think the man gets to say no, that doesn't make me happy. | |
| But the thing is, it was only one-sided for so long. | |
| I want to look at what outcomes have women had. | |
| So not like personally, anecdotally, this is just in society, what outcomes has this led to? | |
| One in three women have had an abortion. | |
| One in three women have an STD. | |
| 90% of women have been on contraceptives at one point in their life. | |
| Women are on antidepressants more than ever before. | |
| What has promiscuity led to? | |
| Why are we magnifying those men? | |
| Why can't we have a conversation about women without saying, but men? | |
| Like, we're just talking about the women now. | |
| So we can come back to the men later. | |
| I'm not saying men are perfect, but I'm saying like, if we're so happy and promiscuity leads to great things, why is it when our body counts go up, we have more STDs, more abortions, we're on antidepressants more? | |
| Like it's not good. | |
| I don't think that's good. | |
| I think depressants has anything to do with the body count. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I personally don't think that it's just like, oh, yeah, you should just fuck whoever, whenever, at any time you want, just legs wide open. | |
| Anyone can get in. | |
| I don't think that that's necessarily healthy. | |
| But I do think that it is your, it's your life and your decision. | |
| If I want to have more than one sexual partner in my life, that's it. | |
| I have. | |
| And it hasn't. | |
| Like, I will get you. | |
| On that topic, let me just come in here for a sec, Pearl. | |
| If you want to have more than one sexual partner at a time, what's the most you've had at one time? | |
| Oh, at one time, I don't think I've ever had more than one. | |
| Oh. | |
| Well, then what are you arguing for? | |
| No, I mean in my life. | |
| Like if I don't want to only ever have sex with just one person. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| I appreciate it. | |
| Now that the U.S. government has admitted that UFOs are real and we are about a year from them, admitting non-human intelligence is real and has visited us. | |
| Would you date outside your race? | |
| Alien. | |
| What? | |
| Don't date an alien? | |
| If he looked like 18. | |
| What kind of aliens? | |
| You said avatar. | |
| You said that. | |
| Would you date outside your avatar? | |
| I think you're over. | |
| What case do we got? | |
| I would definitely fuck an alien. | |
| I would so fucking alien. | |
| But like if it was a humanoid alien, you know, but if it was like some fucking weird looking, but if it was like humanoid alien, I'm down. | |
| Why are you looking at it? | |
| She has no poker face. | |
| I'm just picturing some kind of like giant spider with like fangs or something coming in. | |
| Like that's just not. | |
| I can't picture aliens any other. | |
| Let's take it all like a blue, like the blue avatar. | |
| Avatar. | |
| That's not how I'm picking aliens. | |
| I'm going to take my hair. | |
| I need my extensions back, y'all. | |
| Bro, Turbo, you wilding. | |
| You are. | |
| Who here would? | |
| Let's say it's like an alien, but it kind of looks like a human, like human shape, and it's like got parts and shit, but I don't know. | |
| It's got like some weird, I don't know. | |
| I mean, you can. | |
| You'd fucking avatar. | |
| Oh, hell yeah. | |
| Who here would fuck the Navi, I think they're called? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I need to see like a little bit of a drink. | |
| If you were interactive, like, if the alien was cool, you'd fuck it. | |
| I'm a vibes girl. | |
| You're all about the vibes. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| I got it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Wow, that was an interesting one. | |
| Okay, we were talking about, you said you've only dated one person at a time. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Word? | |
| There's never been any crossover? | |
| No, I actually, it like really stresses me out even when it comes to like. | |
| So your friends are throwing you under the bus. | |
| She just laughed at you. | |
| There's been like three years. | |
| She don't even know me that well. | |
| That one does. | |
| Okay, so you're saying that maybe there's like chaz on Sunday and Gustavo. | |
| It really stresses me out to try and juggle relationships, so I really try to avoid it. | |
| Just one at a time. | |
| Yeah. | |
| In a 72-hour period, what's the most amount of guys that you've like ever hooked up with in a 72-hour period of time? | |
| Three days? | |
| I think two. | |
| Two. | |
| Is she telling the truth? | |
| Yes, I think so. | |
| You think so? | |
| I'm like 99.9%. | |
| Doesn't contradict what you just said. | |
| Yeah, but when I was saying like sexual partners, I meant more like relationship-wise. | |
| Like if I am involved with someone, I don't want to be involved with anybody else at the same time. | |
| Like I can't speak for everybody. | |
| I've had my nights where I got a little too fucked up and made poor decisions. | |
| I feel like everyone's going to be able to do it. | |
| Good times. | |
| What about in a fortnight? | |
| What's the most in a fortnight? | |
| It's like 14 days. | |
| Oh, my goodness. | |
| Oh, God. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Because you said two in 72 hours. | |
| Wait, clarify. | |
| The two in 72 hours, was it 48 hours? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Was it 24 hours? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Was it seven hours? | |
| Was it one hour? | |
| Both at the same time? | |
| Or one right after the other? | |
| Just take the O. | |
| Oh, what? | |
| Well, just amid the threesome. | |
| I think it would be worse if it was like one and then like 30 minutes later, other dude. | |
| You might as well just say that. | |
| Yeah, yeah, okay. | |
| That's not the worst thing to do. | |
| Well, in terms of like the scale of like sexual ethics and morality, which is whatever. | |
| I feel like a threesome. | |
| You think a threesome is better than the other one? | |
| I think a threesome would be better than back-to-back. | |
| I don't disagree. | |
| Because they know about it. | |
| Like, because the second dude is just like. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| Is this Haram Pearl? | |
| You're being clean. | |
| So, but what about a fortnight? | |
| What's the most in the fortnight? | |
| And we're going around the table on this one, so get rid of it. | |
| I think it probably was within a fortnight. | |
| So I'll say three. | |
| Three? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Kiana. | |
| Yes. | |
| Kumani. | |
| What is a fortnight? | |
| 14 days. | |
| Four score and seven years ago. | |
| How many people I've slept with in 14 days? | |
| Yeah. | |
| We're in the porn industry. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| You don't mean a lot. | |
| That's not fair. | |
| Civilian. | |
| Like civvies. | |
| Oh, civilians. | |
| Civilians. | |
| Kiana, I'll laugh at you too. | |
| I think three. | |
| Three. | |
| Yeah, well, I, yeah. | |
| How much in the 72-hour period? | |
| And then a fortnight. | |
| Two. | |
| Two and three. | |
| Two. | |
| Yeah. | |
| For both. | |
| Or for just one? | |
| I think two. | |
| Yeah, two. | |
| For 72 hours, it was two. | |
| Well, I was pissed at the first one, so I kind of got back at him. | |
| Good times. | |
| It was only two. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay, if you say so. | |
| Wait, so counting Johnny Sins, how much? | |
| Or sorry, nine. | |
| With the porn industry. | |
| Including. | |
| In 14 days, I've had I've had five shoots in 14 days before, and one of those shoots was a threesome, so seven. | |
| Word? | |
| Okay. | |
| What about you? | |
| What's the most in 72 hours? | |
| I mean, I think three and three. | |
| Three and three? | |
| 72 and Fortnite. | |
| What about you? | |
| One. | |
| For both? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| By Ronique. | |
| What's up? | |
| None, honey. | |
| I ain't had no dicks since September. | |
| It's dry and what's the hardness. | |
| I ain't never had no Fortnite, whatever. | |
| Toys are tired. | |
| Nothing. | |
| Dry. | |
| Rip. | |
| Okay. | |
| So wait, are you talking about like how many people you've hooked up with within a 72-hour period? | |
| Throughout your whole life, and then also a 14-day period. | |
| Throughout my whole life, I've already been over this. | |
| I don't know my number. | |
| Are you talking about like in a 72-hour period? | |
| Oh. | |
| Like in 72 hours? | |
| Yeah, like at the most. | |
| Probably two. | |
| Wait. | |
| Chat, really quick. | |
| Wait, two and a 72 hours? | |
| Unless you're talking about threesomes, because I was in a polyamorous relationship with a female at one point in my life, and that was the last relationship I was in. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, by the way, chat, can you let me know, did Flanlife gift 50? | |
| Did he gift 50? | |
| Because if so, we need to do a fit check. | |
| Did we get a 50 gifted chat? | |
| Hello? | |
| Okay, and so in a fortnight, two? | |
| How many? | |
| Three? | |
| No, I said, if we're, are we counting threesomes? | |
| Because I had an ex-girlfriend. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay, because I had an ex-girlfriend, we had a threesome with, well, it's still the same girl, so do I count the same girl twice? | |
| No. | |
| Just one time. | |
| Okay, then still two, because, yeah, there's still two. | |
| Okay, we can skip Michaela because. | |
| Yeah. | |
| One. | |
| I've only ever been with my husband, so. | |
| Really? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| That's impressive. | |
| I highly, hey, I highly recommend it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| You're waiting. | |
| I highly recommend it. | |
| I highly recommend it. | |
| Really stressful otherwise. | |
| So you said, so like, I don't know, I think my. | |
| 72 hours and then 14. | |
| When I was like 19, I had a foursome with three girls in the back of my Honda Civic. | |
| And then I don't know. | |
| So I'd say 72 hours, probably like five. | |
| I was so young. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know, man. | |
| It was crazy like a mouse car. | |
| I have some fucking twisters. | |
| We were all really skinny. | |
| We were drunk as shit. | |
| There was some in the front, some in the back, and the little comp was crazy. | |
| How do you comfortably eat a bunch of stuff? | |
| It was not comfortable. | |
| We were drunk as shit. | |
| I don't even know if we did it correctly. | |
| I just know that coochie was falling out of the window. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Somebody got to come from like the roof in. | |
| Yeah, in the sunroof. | |
| Sorry, in the sunroom. | |
| Two weeks? | |
| Archduke Franz Ferdinand back there. | |
| Do you want to answer this? | |
| Are we doing Fit Trek? | |
| Just one? | |
| In a fortnight? | |
| Yeah, one. | |
| 14 days. | |
| You sure about that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right, we have American Grizzly. | |
| Thank you for the 50. | |
| Okay, by the way, just a reminder, Reed is 100 or 99 and up. | |
| Okay, so Pearl? | |
| Pearl, one. | |
| I was going to say. | |
| One. | |
| All right, so we're going to go around the table on this. | |
| Well, first off, to show of hands. | |
| Should body count matter? | |
| I'm so tired of that. | |
| I don't conversation. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| No. | |
| Are we raising it if we think it should? | |
| Not at all. | |
| Raise if you think body count. | |
| No, raise your hand if you think body count shouldn't matter, should not matter. | |
| Raise them high. | |
| Raise them high. | |
| And like, there's an in-between raise. | |
| It's like 200. | |
| It's a line where it's a concern. | |
| Should matter? | |
| Shouldn't matter? | |
| Obviously, my dumbass is going to say it shouldn't matter. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, so with that said, for those of you, well, we're going to ask everyone, but if body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count? | |
| We've already been over this idea of the market. | |
| Yeah, but it's new stream. | |
| New stream. | |
| New stream. | |
| Okay, I'm not a weird high school boy that keeps it in my notes. | |
| It's definitely. | |
| But you know it's over what? | |
| I know it's definitely over like 50, probably over 90. | |
| Probably over 150. | |
| Definitely not over 100. | |
| You said last time you said, I don't think it's, I don't think it's like, I don't know. | |
| Like, I wouldn't say it's fucking like 200. | |
| Like, I feel like that's crazy. | |
| Throw under the bus. | |
| Come on, guys. | |
| Dude, I've been throwing out of the house. | |
| Her answer was, I think it's about 200, including men and women. | |
| Yes. | |
| That was last time. | |
| How old are you again? | |
| Hmm. | |
| I'm 29. | |
| 21. | |
| When did you start having sex? | |
| Girls going in. | |
| I consented to started having sex with I was 15. | |
| 15, so this is all in six years. | |
| It's not that movie. | |
| I don't think it's 200. | |
| I honestly, honestly, don't think it's anywhere close to 200. | |
| I think it's more close, though. | |
| Wait, you're not. | |
| But that doesn't make it better. | |
| Even if it's like 100, do you feel like sex has changed for you since you had a lower body count to a higher, or do you feel like it's the same? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I think sex has definitely changed for me from probably like when I was in a polyamorous relationship. | |
| I think that that changed my perspective of sex a lot, because I was deeply in love with somebody and I kind of changed my way of like what I thought I wanted in a relationship, to appeal to them because I wanted them to be with me so badly that I was willing to watch them. | |
| You know, enjoy other people with me, which isn't something that I was originally like super okay with. | |
| In hindsight in the beginning, and like now that I've kind of like clearly experienced things, I think for me eventually I'm not saying like right now or in the near future I don't know what the future holds for me but I just wouldn't say like I'm going to not want to like chill and then. | |
| settle down eventually and find the right person. | |
| But I'm also like aware that like me coming on the internet and broadcasting something that most people are not comfortable sharing, like a lot of women will sit there and lie and just completely manipulate their narrative into being oh, my body counts super fucking low. | |
| I've never been that type of person. | |
| That's not gonna. | |
| I'm bold as fuck. | |
| I will say I'll hold my truth like I do not care, like at least at least I don't lie. | |
| Oh my god, sweet tooth thing for the 20 gift to continue continue out of. | |
| Out of the like roughly 100 150 whatever like whatever yeah, whatever it is they threw. | |
| How many? | |
| I'm just curious, how many would you say you loved um? | |
| Probably only like. | |
| Probably only like five wow, and I probably didn't hook up with um. | |
| I probably didn't hook up with like a good like 80 of them. | |
| Again like, most of it was just like one night stands. | |
| How many would you say you enjoyed like percentage? | |
| Probably barely any. | |
| Probably like, probably like 20 to 30 percent. | |
| Or number like number okay, wait. | |
| So before we continue on and probably most of that, 30 people were women. | |
| Oh, before we continue talking about that, I want everyone else to give their answer, so let's go start here and then move our way around. | |
| For body count, yeah 35 35, including including porn, including porn. | |
| I haven't been in the porn industry. | |
| What about excluding porn? | |
| Excluding porn? | |
| I think it's 25, Wait, so only you've only worked with 10 guys. | |
| I've only worked with 10 guys. | |
| I've reshot with a lot of them. | |
| Sure. | |
| I mean, God, I don't want to like lie. | |
| I don't know that I honestly know the number. | |
| I would say if I was going to guess, like around like 20. | |
| Remember, I'm the old lady here. | |
| But I definitely went through periods of being more sexually fucking promiscuous or empowered or whatever, explorative. | |
| But yeah, I would say around there, but honestly, I don't know. | |
| Like, I don't know. | |
| Around 20? | |
| I mean, it could be less. | |
| 15, 20? | |
| Could be more. | |
| Could be more. | |
| We don't know. | |
| Kind of like your original. | |
| 25, five-year-old. | |
| I think in the range of that, but like... | |
| Wait, can you just scoot into the table? | |
| I mean, yeah, and counting women more than that. | |
| So I'd say men. | |
| Sure. | |
| Wait, can you just scoot into the table and have the mic on the table? | |
| What about you? | |
| Same, I'm not 100% sure on how many, but either 30 or 40s. | |
| Not what you said in the car. | |
| What did she say in the car? | |
| L, throw her under the bus. | |
| Everyone wants to throw me under the bus. | |
| Yeah, right. | |
| And then shut up the house of what they're doing that way. | |
| We don't have a house. | |
| It's going to be a long drive home. | |
| You want me to start naming names? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| What did he say in the car? | |
| What did you say in the car? | |
| Wait, here, you don't say anything? | |
| Just go like this for how many. | |
| I'm pretty sure this girl did not say that loud somewhere in the car. | |
| I could have. | |
| I swear you want to say 45 or 50? | |
| Didn't I just say somewhere in like 30s, 40s? | |
| That's not 45 or 50? | |
| Okay. | |
| So wait, it's 50? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I know. | |
| I just really don't know. | |
| Yeah, it could be. | |
| Hold on just a sec, guys. | |
| It's okay, girl. | |
| I just felt so much. | |
| What did I say? | |
| Wait, okay, 40-year-old. | |
| You need to stop the MF cap. | |
| I think he's saying that. | |
| He thinks you're 40. | |
| I don't think you're 40. | |
| Are you 40? | |
| Are you 40? | |
| I'm not 40. | |
| Not 40? | |
| By the way. | |
| Into the mic, please, if you can. | |
| Believe it or not. | |
| Okay. | |
| She doesn't look forward to it. | |
| Yeah, you guys are going to have a very interesting car ride back. | |
| Yeah, thank you for that. | |
| Well, I'm actually staying here. | |
| Oh, you're staying here? | |
| Yeah, my boyfriend goes to school here. | |
| He goes to UCSB? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Oh, convenient. | |
| Oh, we should have you on the show more often then. | |
| Okay. | |
| So 50? | |
| It could be. | |
| Could be. | |
| All right. | |
| What about you, Kirst? | |
| Six. | |
| Six? | |
| Okay. | |
| Byronique. | |
| First off, it really ain't nobody's motherfucking business. | |
| I like the fact that people is all about slush shaming and body count. | |
| Look, we get horny to us, bitches, like some dick. | |
| You know, we shouldn't have to, if you can't be in a relationship, you should be able to get that dick. | |
| You feel me? | |
| Like, it's healthy. | |
| That's a part of being healthy. | |
| It's not just your physical, that, you know, is all a part of it. | |
| You need to get that vitamin D. Like, you understand what I'm saying? | |
| So it shouldn't be nobody shaming about how many bodies you got a lot. | |
| You feel me? | |
| Like, it is what it is. | |
| Like, and, you know, to be honest, shit, I forgot I stopped counting after 10 because it ain't nobody motherfucking business. | |
| You could literally catch AIDS after having sex fucking one time, or, you know, you could beat and fuck a million people and not have nothing. | |
| You get what I'm saying? | |
| So it don't matter. | |
| If you had a brother, would you tell him it doesn't matter and like the girls he's picking? | |
| Look, I tell him, strap up if you want to make sure you don't die out here. | |
| You understand what I'm saying? | |
| But if you want to be promiscuous, honey, it's 2023, baby. | |
| It ain't our grandparents' time no more. | |
| No, but I meant like I'm not talking about like short term. | |
| I'm talking about long term. | |
| So what do you mean? | |
| Like if you want to get married, should you be fucking other people in your marriage? | |
| No, no, I'm saying like if you if your brother had two girls to pick from all things being equal one slept with 50 dudes one slept with two what would you tell him to pick? | |
| That ain't got nothing to do with it. | |
| That ain't got nothing to do with nothing. | |
| Like my girlfriend used to say, it's about what the person is, their heart, their soul, their spirit. | |
| We don't give a fuck about who they didn't fuck. | |
| That don't mean and what money. | |
| None of them. | |
| But I think the idea is like if she's been with 50 people, like how what are the odds your brother or the guy is going to be the best she's ever had? | |
| Like how is he supposed to compete with what he's doing? | |
| Is that what should matter? | |
| One at a time, please. | |
| One at a time. | |
| Is that what should matter? | |
| And also, if you ask me how many of my actual committed, if you ask me how many of my relationships I've cheated on, zero. | |
| Zero. | |
| I might be a motherfucking slut, but I am not a like liar, cheater, any of that bullshit. | |
| I do not know. | |
| I didn't say you were a liar. | |
| I know. | |
| I'm just saying that's another stigma. | |
| It's like just because just because my body count is high and my sex drive is high does not mean that I can't be in a committed relationship one day when I'm ready. | |
| You can have been with anywhere from, I don't even know how many people, but my current boyfriend is the most sexually comfortable person I have ever been with. | |
| And like, it's amazing. | |
| But like, my thing is we can make inferences based on data. | |
| And all of the data says that when women are virgins on their wedding night, that is the highest chance they have at a happy success. | |
| You know why? | |
| That's all they've ever had. | |
| They don't know what they're saying. | |
| They don't know better. | |
| Can I say that? | |
| Why do you know why do you need to know better? | |
| Shit. | |
| Because most of the time. | |
| Because most of the time, if you get better, like if you slept with 50 dudes, there's no way you're going to keep the best guy out of the 50. | |
| Why not? | |
| Why not? | |
| Because as you get older, you realize it's not just about the size of his dick. | |
| You learn so much from her. | |
| It's so nice. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| And you get it. | |
| That's connection and how do you know what you want? | |
| Hold on, wait. | |
| So to me, if you marry the girl, let's say you're 35. | |
| You're both 35 years old. | |
| Whatever. | |
| Who cares about the whole like age thing? | |
| You're 35 and she slept with 50 people. | |
| You slept with 50 people. | |
| Let's just say you have somebody who's 35 who slept with one person. | |
| Women reach the height of their horniness in their 30s. | |
| Who's more likely to cheat on you because you're just not self-satisfying her? | |
| Because she has no experience. | |
| She has no energy. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| This isn't even a personal thing. | |
| Like, I'm talking about numbers, data. | |
| Why are we debating the human complex experience to be data and statistics? | |
| And I can take it anecdotally where, you know, the girl that's on OnlyFans is saying she's on antidepressants. | |
| Like, there's more problems when you sleep with more people. | |
| And I think that is. | |
| Why is so much amazing? | |
| And I think ignoring this is just delusional. | |
| Why do you think delusional? | |
| Why do you think that's it? | |
| Why? | |
| Because I don't think women are meant to sleep around like that. | |
| I think that we have fans and antidepressants. | |
| Correlation is delusional. | |
| Do we not have needs? | |
| And just as much as men want pussy, we want it. | |
| Are women horny? | |
| Sure, yes, but that doesn't mean we're meant to be sleeping with a whole bunch of dudes. | |
| Well, me and all. | |
| And I think what can attest to this is the one who waited till she was married is the one that is the one that's married here and seems to be in a happy, healthy relationship. | |
| Could that be that? | |
| That is because the majority of virgins on their wedding day are religious. | |
| That is a religious thing. | |
| And in the Bible, it says that you were supposed to be with that one person for the rest of your life. | |
| So could that be? | |
| Because that is a religious thing. | |
| I think religion is great. | |
| I think religion helps. | |
| I think it's beautiful. | |
| And I think that that's taking. | |
| If you want to make that decision for yourself, that's fine. | |
| But don't sit here and judge other people who don't. | |
| You're trying through data and statistics. | |
| And I'm saying, let's look at results. | |
| Like, I think just like in good faith. | |
| Okay, you wait for results. | |
| Let's wait really soon. | |
| Maybe 50 people. | |
| And I'm telling you, as a person sitting right in front of you, that the person I am with right now is my favorite. | |
| Okay, well, I'm really happy for you. | |
| I really am. | |
| But I'm saying across the board, like this is the thing with women. | |
| Like you always take it personal. | |
| Like I'm talking about you. | |
| And I'm not talking about you guys personally, but we look at society as a whole. | |
| The outcomes for women for sleeping around are not good. | |
| We're more divorced. | |
| We're more on antidepressants. | |
| We're less happy than we've ever been. | |
| And that's also why you're doing it again and you're doing it again. | |
| I can't make a statement about women without saying, but men. | |
| Men have issues. | |
| But if you put us all in the same body, because in order to have a conversation, in order to have a conversation about anything, we have to have generalizations. | |
| And that's also why I said, yeah, to an extent, body count shouldn't matter. | |
| I don't know why we can't open up the conversation to also just discuss promiscuity in general. | |
| I think that's the problem. | |
| Because you're right, there's a lot of depression associated with promiscuity. | |
| But on both genders, it happens. | |
| There's a lot of guys who are. | |
| It's not the same, though. | |
| It affects women more, and the data will tell you that. | |
| Like, the best outcome is when they're both virgins on their wedding night. | |
| Like, that is the best outcome. | |
| I've never taken a survey, by the way, so they don't have money. | |
| I'm not really sure what the source is. | |
| Okay, they've done multiple studies on this. | |
| But promiscuity outcomes. | |
| I think you mean the people who stay together. | |
| But the people who stay within the city. | |
| No, no, they ask them if they're happy in their marriage. | |
| That's what they would do. | |
| They would come back 10 years later and ask if they're happily married, yes or no. | |
| To be honest, living in LA, if I would have been waiting for marriage for a nigga to put a ring on my finger, I would have been there. | |
| Like, you fuck around and die a virgin, like, waiting. | |
| Are you kidding me? | |
| Like, ain't no way. | |
| And I'm just saying, from the men you want, but one in three men are set. | |
| One in three men are sexless. | |
| So there are men that will wait. | |
| But the problem is, like, women can sleep. | |
| In LA? | |
| Women can sleep up. | |
| So typically women sleep above their level. | |
| I don't disagree with you when you say that like full promiscuity is not good for you. | |
| When I got most of those sexual partners that I have were when I was young and I was not happy with myself. | |
| And yeah, I regret it. | |
| And it didn't make me feel good. | |
| And I spent a long time not being with anybody. | |
| But I also, Annie, we agree. | |
| We agree. | |
| It's not good for women. | |
| I wasn't done, okay? | |
| So, yeah, I don't disagree that full promiscuity is not great for you. | |
| But I do not 100% do not agree that being with one person for your entire life is good for you. | |
| What value? | |
| I don't agree with that. | |
| And I will say that because sitting at this table here, I have had the longest relationship. | |
| And I say that, and I say that because a huge part of, and I'm not going to say it's superior, because I'm not going to tell people how to live their lives. | |
| Everybody, live a life how you want to live, you know? | |
| But I will say the simplest way I can explain it is when you involve multiple people in anything. | |
| It's very complicated. | |
| And hearing all of these stories from all of you, what I hear is it's really complicated. | |
| It's really stressful. | |
| And I've actually talked to my husband about this before, but I just told him, I was like, I'm really glad that I didn't sleep with anybody before you because it does seem like it's really stressful and it's really complicated. | |
| And there is an outsized amount of risk for women. | |
| There is. | |
| We are the ones that end up on the receiving end of all of we are the ones that end up on the receiving end of a lot of SEDs. | |
| We have the complications from that down the road. | |
| And it is risky. | |
| And so the less risk you expose yourself to, the less risk you will actually have happen to you. | |
| And so that's all I can speak to. | |
| I just think this honestly comes in when it goes into being judgmental about it. | |
| Yeah, I agree. | |
| And I'm not. | |
| It's not like your decision and your decision. | |
| If you want to be with just your husband, that's fine. | |
| But I think it's not going to solve any problem. | |
| But the problem is sitting here saying, oh, it's bad for me. | |
| I agree with you making bad decisions. | |
| I am going to say this though. | |
| But you did say you don't think it's healthy to be with one person. | |
| And fundamentally, even though I understand that you don't like the stats she's talking about, and I'm not going to say that people don't have successful relationships any which way, right? | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| There are people that have successful relationships, and they come from all different backgrounds, and they have all different body counts. | |
| But what I will say is the idea that one man and one woman only sleeping with each other is not a healthy relationship. | |
| That's not true. | |
| That's probably not the words that I wanted to use. | |
| And you're right. | |
| You're right about that. | |
| It's not that I don't think it's healthy. | |
| I don't think that it can be healthy. | |
| Like I don't think like for you, I don't know your relationship personally. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And your relationship could be perfect. | |
| I don't know that. | |
| But I think no one's relationship is perfect. | |
| But you know what I mean? | |
| I don't know you. | |
| I don't know you personally and I don't know your relationship. | |
| But I do think that pushing the purity narrative is a really easy way to put a lot of girls in a really unsafe religion. | |
| I didn't say anything about purity. | |
| I didn't say that. | |
| I'm just saying like you like pushing the narrative that being with only one person, it can fast track women and do a lot of unsafe. | |
| No, you know what I mean? | |
| Multiple partners can fast track you because it's like I said, more factors. | |
| Yeah, but that's why I'm saying I think it matters to an extent. | |
| I think I don't know. | |
| No, no, just fundamentally. | |
| More factors, more risk. | |
| Less factors, less risk. | |
| It's literally that simple. | |
| My life has been easier. | |
| My life has been happier because I have because you got lucky and you picked the right guy. | |
| It wasn't luck. | |
| It was very intentional. | |
| And that's actually something that I think a lot of people, this is what happens with the dating apps too. | |
| And sorry, now I'm on track. | |
| She said she dated her husband. | |
| Correct me if I'm wrong. | |
| She said she was in an eight-year right altogether. | |
| Five years ago. | |
| Yeah, so she dated him for like three fucking years before she's saying that there are a lot of women who don't see that that kind of man. | |
| When women are getting abused, that man is not always abusive from day one. | |
| I wouldn't say that most men are abusive and most women are abused. | |
| So what I'm talking about is the fact that like, because what you're talking about is you're saying that women are being put at risk by sleeping with one person only, and that's fundamentally not true. | |
| I think that maybe you're misunderstanding what I'm saying. | |
| Okay, that's fair. | |
| That's fair. | |
| I'm just saying that by pushing that narrative. | |
| But the narrative I'm saying is that it's simpler to only sleep with one person. | |
| That's not really a narrative. | |
| But lack of experience is what puts you in uncertain situations. | |
| I guarantee. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| And I'm not saying sexually. | |
| I'm just saying with people in general. | |
| When you just go, when you decide like one person, that's it. | |
| You, yeah, you get to know someone for a long time, but you don't know who that person is until they show you who they are. | |
| Well, then, you know? | |
| You know the people you, by that logic, though, then you know the people you sleep with even less because of the amount of time I spent with my husband. | |
| I'm again exposed to more risk. | |
| Not you specifically, but you, the theoretical you. | |
| But that's why when I say like, I think body count matters to a certain extent. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I'm not saying it matters because like I said, people, people come, like, I'm not going to say that. | |
| Do I think that it has an effect in the data? | |
| Yeah, but am I going to say that it's going to affect someone's personal relationship? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't know because there is data, but there are also people. | |
| I agree with what you said earlier. | |
| Yeah, and that kind of reminds me of, you actually had this one girl on here. | |
| She was wearing like a pink mask and had a kind of accent. | |
| I don't know if you remember who I'm talking about. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| But she didn't, she didn't, she was saying something that I kind of agree with when she said, you know, you can't just narrow someone down to just a number. | |
| I agree when you say that. | |
| And I know that you're not coming from that standpoint at all whatsoever. | |
| So don't think I'm just directly talking to you. | |
| But just like when a guy hears a higher number than six, five, eight, whatever your statistics, whatever. | |
| I mean, I'm just saying they immediately put you into a box. | |
| And that's something that even Justin on the last podcast and him and I talked about. | |
| Like it's just this thing where it's like this construct of, oh, I'm going to be compared to this many men. | |
| So holy shit. | |
| And I mean, I get it to an extent, but it's like, bro, if you feel like, if you feel like you're not up to the, like, it shouldn't even matter because that's an older people. | |
| It's very simple. | |
| Guys don't want whores. | |
| We don't want to date the town bicycle. | |
| But they want you to be a whore in the bedroom. | |
| It just don't matter. | |
| No, not necessarily. | |
| But look, guys care about body count, point blank, period. | |
| Like, it is what it is. | |
| And that's why we make it just blanket statements that we know every man, every woman. | |
| Generally speaking, generally speaking, men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with a high body count. | |
| Well, it's high. | |
| I mean, it varies. | |
| It varies, but I'm. | |
| You could be high. | |
| He said over six before, I think, right? | |
| Right? | |
| I don't want to put words in your mouth. | |
| It depends. | |
| I mean, some of the studies indicate that once you get over six, that's when your likelihood of, for example, divorce increases dramatically. | |
| I don't remember the exact numbers on the other side. | |
| The biggest dip is actually. | |
| I'm going to come back on the podcast when I'm married for three years. | |
| I'm going to do it. | |
| Maybe those are the things that I'm going to do. | |
| But the whole point is whenever men have standards, we shame them for having standards. | |
| Like, if a girl says, like, I don't want to date a guy that's short and broke and fat, okay, fine. | |
| No, like, they're not going to argue with that. | |
| But if a guy says, I want a girl with a low body count, like, we argue for hours and say, I would argue with a woman that's. | |
| So you're saying, like, don't judge. | |
| And I just, I honestly think. | |
| I never said anything. | |
| You said that. | |
| You said that earlier. | |
| Yes, you did. | |
| I never said that I was going to judge a guy who wants to be with a girl. | |
| No, no, but who only had one partner or at one partner? | |
| You were saying we shouldn't be so judgmental. | |
| I never said anything judgmental about a man who prefers that. | |
| We've been talking about body count for the past 30 minutes. | |
| Okay, but my whole point is that. | |
| Like, what did I say that was judgmental? | |
| No, I said you said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental. | |
| Yeah, I did. | |
| Yeah, okay, okay. | |
| That's what I'm addressing. | |
| And I'm saying, you know, I don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you for promiscuity. | |
| I don't think that's kind to women. | |
| I think it's better to be honest. | |
| And the world doesn't owe you understanding. | |
| The world will judge you for your decisions. | |
| Like, you don't get a get out of jail free card. | |
| And I think it's dishonest to say that men don't care about that stuff and there's going to be no consequences because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are. | |
| Like you've said it out of your mouth. | |
| I want to change the subject. | |
| Yeah, because I talk about it. | |
| I mean, I don't think that I have sat here and said that there aren't consequences. | |
| Okay, don't worry about that. | |
| But you were saying that there's something about value. | |
| You were upset that men value this in women and that you're thinking that men are diminishing women's value to their body count. | |
| That's not the case. | |
| I don't think it's just a metric by which men look at a potential partner and decide, hmm, is this someone I want to have a relationship with? | |
| Is this someone I even want to be with? | |
| Justin was talking about buckets. | |
| So it's like there's relationship, there's relationship, and there's hookup. | |
| So, and a lot of guys will do that. | |
| So like a girl who's promiscuous, they might not care so much if you have a high body count if they're, they just want to fuck you. | |
| But for a relationship, for a long-term commitment, for marriage, it's going to matter much, much more. | |
| No, and I'm understanding of that. | |
| And the person that I choose to be with in the future, I hope, is understanding that my hypersexuality is something that I embraced during a time in my life and that I can say goodbye to when I'm when I meet that person. | |
| Well, that's convenient, isn't it? | |
| But that's, that's, I mean, yeah, it's convenient if I'm ready for love and that's something I want to experience next. | |
| But it's not something I'm like fucking, it's not that yearning for or something. | |
| It's not that simple though, because the best predictor of future behavior is past behaviors. | |
| And maybe I'll be alone forever and you guys are. | |
| If you've had certain, I don't know what your personal, like, this isn't a personal thing. | |
| No, I don't know. | |
| But it's like, it's like, if someone's done something for five years, 10 years, whatever it is, it's going to be harder and harder to quit. | |
| So the longer you like engage in certain decisions, it's harder to stop. | |
| And we don't even have to make it about sleeping around. | |
| It could be about like if you drink every day for 10 years, it's going to be harder to stop. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah, I don't disagree. | |
| You can get over it. | |
| We're on the same page. | |
| against you on everything I just no I By the way, I want to be heard. | |
| I don't know if we got to go fully around the table as far as body count goes, but Zoe, did you answer? | |
| No. | |
| No. | |
| Zoe bun count? | |
| I really don't think it matters, but mine's probably upwards somewhere as 100. | |
| And this is my, let me just like interject a little bit because I'm waiting to talk. | |
| This is why I consider myself. | |
| This is why I consider myself very middle ground because at the end of the day, what she said, I agree with someone she said. | |
| I agree with something she said. | |
| I agree with some shit you said. | |
| At the end of the day, it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting, right? | |
| They're like, oh, you're wrong for only sleeping with one man in your life. | |
| Ugh, prude. | |
| Oh, you're wrong for sleeping with that so many people life. | |
| Ooh, whore. | |
| If people just minded their freaking business and worried about what truly makes them happy, if we were just like grab half of this stuff, that's why half of my comments on my TikTok bars are like, she just ended all relationship podcasts because I come down to it from a people, a human experience, right? | |
| Like men are not here to fund your life and make you happy. | |
| Women aren't here to do whatever the fuck men think women are here to do. | |
| Fuck them. | |
| I don't fucking know. | |
| At the end of the day, it's like, what do you even want? | |
| You want a girl with a low body count? | |
| Guess what? | |
| Go get it. | |
| You want a girl who's a whore and will just suck your dick at any point and at the time of day, at the drop of a hat? | |
| Guess what? | |
| She exists and you can find it. | |
| And that's where I find that a lot of people find solace in my content because I love the arguments. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| It makes it content. | |
| It makes the world go around. | |
| It's entertaining. | |
| But at the end of the day, if people were truly happy in how they lived life, no one would argue with each other. | |
| But the fact that people are so judged, and it's not like, oh, don't judge. | |
| Only God. | |
| It's not that simple if people were actually doing the things that make them happy. | |
| Yeah, it's just about the bad. | |
| No one would give a shit about any of this. | |
| Well, I mean, you're kind of, you're a little bit dismissing. | |
| Like, we can have intellectual conversations about these topics. | |
| And yes, you're right. | |
| At the end of the day, if a woman with a high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care. | |
| There are some guys out there that don't care. | |
| But I mean, we can also have, I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation. | |
| We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors, if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences. | |
| Yeah, 100%. | |
| You know, like accountability. | |
| And I know, and I always talk about, I talk about specifically that women, I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women. | |
| But who am I to tell a woman she shouldn't? | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I feel like the word should is such like a, when you use the word should, you're like, you should, this is what makes you a real man. | |
| You should do these things. | |
| This will make you a real woman. | |
| You should do these things. | |
| Where we're creating anxiety and unsettledness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life. | |
| I honestly use the word should. | |
| 100% of the words that just came out of this woman, Zoe's mouth. | |
| Like that ass, like being, I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage has done anything. | |
| You're a beautiful woman too. | |
| Thank you. | |
| She's a pretty lady. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Talk about a pick me, right? | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| But no, I would never say anything about their decision. | |
| I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite. | |
| I think that's like, if that's what, if that's what, yeah, if that's, if that's what makes you happy and that's what makes you think that, and whether you're right or wrong is not my decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me, to my right, that it can work out that way. | |
| That's totally your body of choice. | |
| I just think we should, I just think we should be honest about the consequences. | |
| Of course. | |
| And like, that's my only thing. | |
| I just don't like. | |
| I'm not owning my shit on camera. | |
| I'm not saying you're not. | |
| But I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the people that I make my comments geared towards too, right? | |
| Like if OnlyFans girl is like, I deserve a high-value man. | |
| No, he shouldn't care about. | |
| I'm like, no, be fucking for real. | |
| Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry. | |
| It's geared towards anyone. | |
| It's just what I think. | |
| Can I say something? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I really agree with what you said earlier. | |
| I've been like listening the whole time. | |
| It's been kind of quiet, just trying to take in with all of you guys are saying. | |
| But like, I agree with you. | |
| I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live. | |
| At the end of the day, it's not affecting you personally, so I don't see how that's a big issue. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, just let people do as they please, as long as it's not personally getting in your life, then I don't see the issue with it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I just want people to look in introspectively, become self-aware because a lot of people lack it and look at things from other people's point of view, not just yours. | |
| People need to stop shoving it down other people's throats. | |
| Like their view is the only view that is a lot of people. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because I don't agree with Christian views. | |
| I don't have to live my life that way, but I don't give a fuck if you live your life that way if you're not affecting me directly. | |
| The bottom line is that values are different from person to person. | |
| And value is different from person to person. | |
| So what you may find a high-value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high-value man, right? | |
| And same with value as a woman. | |
| Like, you know, you're saying, like, you know, if this woman is a lower-value woman because she slept with many people, well, I know, I'm sure that there are many low-value women with poor integrity, lack of integrity, bad women, dishonest, who have slept with one man, right? | |
| Or none. | |
| So it just comes down to the values that you have. | |
| There is nuance, but men generally want the same things, and women generally want the same things in general. | |
| But there is always going to be a lot of men generally want a virgin. | |
| I didn't know this. | |
| And then we can go into the nuance of where that stems from, but I don't, you know, we're not actually going to get into that. | |
| That's like, no, I mean, but paternity, it stems from paternity because men historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs. | |
| And historically, we didn't have DNA tests. | |
| So if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around, basically like the man wouldn't know that if the kid was his. | |
| So it's not even necessarily something they can like biologically help. | |
| Like it's just how they feel about it. | |
| And like guys might lie to you about this, but like guys feel this way. | |
| That's great. | |
| But guess what? | |
| I don't care about those guys. | |
| If those guys care about my body count, guess what? | |
| That guy is not for me because my life path has not gone down that virgin life path. | |
| Those guys were not meant for me. | |
| So at the end of the day, that opinion of what men want, I don't want those men. | |
| And that's okay. | |
| They're not wrong for feeling that way. | |
| Yeah, they don't want me. | |
| I don't want them. | |
| We're cool. | |
| Why would I argue about it? | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| That's exactly why I've just got to do it. | |
| Holy shit. | |
| That's what I said to her. | |
| Like, I'm not going to say that because of statistics, you're not going to have a good relationship in the end. | |
| I'm not going to say that. | |
| You will have a good relationship. | |
| You'll have the relationship you want. | |
| Yeah, no, but like, there's no way to say that. | |
| I don't think it's dishonest to make that statement because there are rules, but there's always exceptions. | |
| And not only that, but everybody is on a different path. | |
| And I think, yeah, that's just what I think. | |
| I agree. | |
| I agree with you. | |
| All right, let me get a couple chats. | |
| We will come back really briefly to one or two questions I have here. | |
| Okay, we have I'm not gonna read that one. | |
| That one's kind of mean. | |
| Yo, Pimmy Flores, think for the 100 man. | |
| She isn't there tonight, but is Tara single? | |
| I'd ask in person, but I can't. | |
| I'm a paramedic from Texas and would love to take her to a baseball game as a first aid 31-year-old, 5'10 Hispanic. | |
| Also, would y'all women settle down right now if a man was serious and wanted marriage? | |
| Okay, so your boyfriend kind of complicated thing who has you currently knocked up, if he proposes to you, do you say yes? | |
| I mean, I think if we worked out our stuff and it was, you know, a pretty healthy relationship for the most part, then I wouldn't be opposed, especially with the fact that I'm carrying his child. | |
| Okay. | |
| And would you get married right now? | |
| Would you settle down right now? | |
| No. | |
| No? | |
| Huh? | |
| You wouldn't? | |
| I'm not ready. | |
| You're not ready to get married. | |
| Yeah, settle down. | |
| I'm not ready. | |
| Ready for kids? | |
| Kids? | |
| No, I mean, yeah, not kids either. | |
| I have a lot of healing growth, self-awareness. | |
| Hold on, just donated $199. | |
| Hey, thank you. | |
| Pearl, do you think it's hypocritical of you to preach people about settling down, being a virgin, not being career-oriented when you are none of these things? | |
| Seems like no one wants this pick-me award. | |
| Pearl? | |
| Do you want to respond? | |
| British voice, by the way. | |
| Is it hypocritical? | |
| Probably. | |
| That's it. | |
| That's all you got? | |
| No, I mean, like, honestly, most people wish. | |
| I mean, I wish I waited till I was married. | |
| Like, I genuinely wish I did. | |
| So, like, yeah. | |
| I didn't get all the way there. | |
| I did get fortunate. | |
| If I could have, like, did it again, I would have waited. | |
| But, you know, I didn't. | |
| But I just think it's like, I'd rather be honest to the next generation of women. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That there are like consequences. | |
| Like I said, it's just the, I think I'm presenting a side of the coin that's not often represented, which is just like, man, do I feel like I was very fortunate in, and I think a lot of it was expectation setting. | |
| And this is something that I think younger women especially should probably hear. | |
| But when I first met my husband, I told him on the first time we ever went out, I said, I'm not going to sleep with you. | |
| I don't want to get married. | |
| I don't want to have kids. | |
| And if you don't want that, like, I'm not interested. | |
| And that's fine, because I don't want to waste your time. | |
| I got stuff to do. | |
| And if it's not you, I'm going to go meet somebody else. | |
| And that was apparently, and I think that's something now too, when people are looking for relationships. | |
| They are really women. | |
| I think a lot of times they try to hide the fact that they do want that. | |
| And that leads them down this primrose path of, oh, like pretending like they don't want to get married, pretending like they don't want a relationship. | |
| And that just pushes it further and further down the line. | |
| And then they turn around, you know, around that like five to seven year mark and they're like, hey, I want to get married. | |
| And the guy's like, what are you talking about? | |
| You know, you said you didn't care. | |
| But then they really do. | |
| And now that relationship ends up breaking apart and then they have to go and find somebody else. | |
| But now they're much older and it gets more difficult as we've talked about. | |
| But anyway, it's an interesting thing. | |
| The expectation setting is really important and the honesty and upfrontness with somebody that you want to be with. | |
| And that's regardless of anything. | |
| 100%. | |
| All right, let me get through a couple of these chats and then I think we're going to wrap up in about 10, 15 minutes. | |
| All right, we have Darth Perdiccius. | |
| Thank you for the 100. | |
| Body count matters the same as credit score matters. | |
| Your past matters. | |
| Happiness is not the end-all be-all. | |
| If you cannot maintain a relationship, it's like defaulting on the loan. | |
| And Zoe is a dream. | |
| Rip, she's not even here. | |
| Darth Perdicius, thank you, man. | |
| I'll try to repeat that when she comes. | |
| All right, we have anonymous stranger. | |
| Thank you for the 100. | |
| At what dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window? | |
| And how does it relate to potentially divorce grape? | |
| Would you always go for half? | |
| What? | |
| Hello? | |
| What dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window? | |
| Shit, I'd do that for a buck fifty. | |
| Okay. | |
| By the way, Zoe, there was someone here, Darth Perdiccius, who says you're a dream. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Boom. | |
| She said thank you. | |
| I know that. | |
| She said thank you, and she knows it. | |
| Okay. | |
| Anonymous, this is kind of a vague, what dollar amount would you, okay, it kind of goes, we already kind of answered this question with the what would you, what's your cost, you know, if you. | |
| Can I? | |
| Really? | |
| Can you what? | |
| Can I answer that one really quick? | |
| Yeah, go ahead. | |
| I mean, I think you get it too. | |
| Like, my morals kind of went out the window when I was doing, when I was like in the mainstream porn industry. | |
| So I was literally throwing out my morals for $1,000. | |
| I don't think that's like you throwing away your morals. | |
| That's your moral code. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| I don't think it's me throwing all of my morals away, but I think it's, I'm going to be honest, I think a certain part of me would like feel guilty every single time I was on set. | |
| And like now I'm a lot stronger of a person. | |
| But when I first started, I was not. | |
| Here, let's just try to get through these quick. | |
| So is there a dollar amount? | |
| We kind of answered it, but like, is there a dollar amount where you would throw your morals out the window? | |
| Let's just try to zoom around the table real quick. | |
| No. | |
| 10 mil, 1 mil. | |
| Yes. | |
| How much? | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| How much? | |
| How much? | |
| Got to be in the millions for sure. | |
| Millions. | |
| Okay. | |
| All right. | |
| They don't want to. | |
| All right. | |
| Let's just move on. | |
| Sorry, Barry, you got to ask more precise questions. | |
| All right. | |
| Odin, thank you, man. | |
| Not to change the topic or anything, but for the girls and Brian, what three jobs and what three degrees are red flags for dating? | |
| Oh my God. | |
| I think I got some. | |
| Give me this one. | |
| Sure. | |
| Okay, let me let me answer. | |
| I'll answer. | |
| Okay, three jobs. | |
| Flight attendant, red flag. | |
| Major red flag. | |
| They're fucking a new dude every city. | |
| I was in a different area, Code. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Travel nurse, same shit. | |
| Thanks. | |
| They make you're a travel nurse. | |
| That's what I'm studying to be what I got. | |
| Bro. | |
| Red flag. | |
| Red flag. | |
| Because it's like these chicks, if you're a travel nurse or a flight attendant on a dating app, bro, you're fucking. | |
| You're fucking. | |
| And so, like, travel nurse, especially, they're in town for six weeks on assignment, some bullshit. | |
| And it's like temporary. | |
| And they're just like, I don't know, whatever. | |
| Okay, that's two. | |
| Third career. | |
| Hosts a dating podcast. | |
| I'm kidding, Pearl. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| That's probably a red flag for like chicks. | |
| And well, anyways. | |
| Okay. | |
| Let's fuck. | |
| I don't know what the third job is. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Degrees. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| No, my brothers, they don't like teachers. | |
| I was going to say that. | |
| Yeah, like because, yeah, my brothers, sorry, sorry, Austin. | |
| I said it. | |
| I have had that experience. | |
| He said they're also feminist, like that they just can't. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's not my reason. | |
| It's teachers, MBAs. | |
| Oh, PR. | |
| No, sorry, no, no, no. | |
| HR. | |
| If they're in HR. | |
| No. | |
| Psych. | |
| Done. | |
| The MBA, because you're going to end up having to pay off her MBA debt when she decides that she doesn't want to do her job anymore, which happens really, really quickly. | |
| And then teachers, because teachers, most teachers leave within five years. | |
| And again, you're going to be on the hook for their student debt because they're not going to want to do that job because it's a terrible job. | |
| It's really hard. | |
| And it's very draining. | |
| And it takes a lot emotionally out of teachers. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Word? | |
| Okay. | |
| And then we have, I mean, do you guys want to come in any jobs or degree? | |
| I'd say jobs that are red flags. | |
| Maybe like Twitch streamers. | |
| Twitch streamers. | |
| And Minecraft YouTubers. | |
| Just any type of YouTubers. | |
| Okay, content creators. | |
| What about you? | |
| Maybe like a maybe like a LA promoter. | |
| Oh, law. | |
| I'm so sorry to say that. | |
| They're cool people to know for sure. | |
| But like, I don't know. | |
| I feel like that's a LA bottle. | |
| Wait, can you scoot your mic that way, please? | |
| Anyone with a psychology degree? | |
| They will pick your brain apart. | |
| Fair. | |
| Bye, Renique. | |
| Well, I'm black, so definitely cops. | |
| No, you're not doing it. | |
| Yo, chat, bye, Renique for co-host. | |
| What's up? | |
| Oh my god, this day is going really well. | |
| Holy shit. | |
| You're about to move on from Kiki back there. | |
| She. | |
| Okay. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't think I have any jobs. | |
| I don't think I have enough experience with people in different jobs with different degrees. | |
| What about like drug dealer? | |
| Yeah, okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Those guys fuck with drug dealers. | |
| No, no. | |
| Down for the drug dealers. | |
| That was enough. | |
| I mean, like, when they said like LA promoter, I was like, eh, I probably wouldn't be into that. | |
| But what about you? | |
| Lawyer. | |
| Wait, wait, wait, wait. | |
| Arguing with a lawyer, man. | |
| Lawyer. | |
| Red flag. | |
| Okay, what about you? | |
| I think a bottle girl. | |
| A bottle girl. | |
| Was one, and I think that is kind of a red flag. | |
| Well, I think LA bottle girls. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Anonymous stranger donated $200. | |
| Sorry, the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love and the aftermath of it not working out. | |
| Oh, well, you're going to have to pick somebody with low student debt, or you're going to be responsible for paying it off. | |
| That's a real thing. | |
| So, the original question he asked is: at what dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window, and how does it relate to potentially getting screwed in divorce? | |
| And the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| So, is he asking for a moment? | |
| Would you marry a rich person for their money? | |
| I don't understand. | |
| Does anyone here understand? | |
| I think he's asking, would you marry for money? | |
| If you're not sure if it came back as somebody that you love versus somebody who is really rich, love, love, love or money, love, love. | |
| I hope that answers your question, man. | |
| I hope that we all kind of said that together, too, though. | |
| One of the most agreed-upon things. | |
| Holy shit. | |
| Okay, so bottle service. | |
| Yeah, I kind of agree with you. | |
| Like, I think someone who works in the nightlife industry, if they're a bartender or something, I think that's well, I don't think bartenders, I think with bottle girls, because you have to message these guys, these big spenders to come in and like buy bottles that night. | |
| Like, that's part of your job is like having to message men, especially if you're trying to be in like a committed relationship. | |
| I don't think a man would be like totally comfortable with it. | |
| Same with the promoters. | |
| So, kind of like OnlyFans, where you're like messaging dudes. | |
| I'm surprised that you didn't say that as one. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Well, I thought that was a given. | |
| I think another one that's. | |
| So that's why I'm not mentioning it. | |
| Another one in a different vein would be somebody who, specifically a woman who got her PhD so that men would call her doctor. | |
| And there are quite a few of those. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Something useless. | |
| That is going to be a very unhappy life. | |
| All right. | |
| Next one here. | |
| We have bad news blues. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Pearl, you are awesome. | |
| You are my second favorite female. | |
| My lovely wife will always be the first. | |
| It's so fun how when you speak facts, everyone gets offended and loud. | |
| Your response to bad news, please. | |
| Have that effect. | |
| She's got that effect. | |
| Okay. | |
| Doc Vanablis. | |
| Thank you for the. | |
| Here, let me pull this up. | |
| What these promiscuous women don't get is that marriage is for the benefit of children. | |
| If you choose to be promiscuous, your choice will negatively affect your marriage and in turn your children. | |
| Doc Vanablis. | |
| Thank you for that. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| Okay. | |
| Where were we talking about? | |
| You know what, though? | |
| I've said this before, and people are like in the chat, roast me for it. | |
| Listen, I would date a girl who does OnlyFans, but she can't do like BG content. | |
| It has to be solo content. | |
| What if she would film with her? | |
| No, I wouldn't. | |
| What if she used to do BG content, but if she, before dating you or meeting you, she decided to delete all of it and not use it anymore for yourself? | |
| Stun. | |
| I can't. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, I was just curious. | |
| I was just personally curious. | |
| Would you date her seriously? | |
| Well, okay, here's the thing, right? | |
| Let me let me, and the chat's probably roasting me. | |
| I can't see it right now. | |
| So for one, I've never dated a girl who's done corn or who's done OnlyFans. | |
| I'm saying I would. | |
| However, would I prefer, and I would I prefer to date a girl who doesn't do OnlyFans? | |
| Yes. | |
| In the same way that I'm sure girls would prefer to date a guy who's a certain height or makes a certain amount of money. | |
| Are you necessarily going to get that guy? | |
| Maybe not. | |
| So I would if she did solo content, preferably more on the tasteful side. | |
| But solo content. | |
| Like no toy in your life. | |
| Like no pennies coming off. | |
| I mean, if you're just like doing some about playing with her, hoo-ha. | |
| Well, I mean, like, look. | |
| Some people on OF don't say no. | |
| So, like, bad dragon shit. | |
| Like, if she's like riding bad dragons and shit, probably like. | |
| If she's writing what? | |
| Bad dragons. | |
| I don't know what that is. | |
| Are those like crazy dildos? | |
| Oh, those are the things. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| It's like an octopus tentacle. | |
| It's like a monster. | |
| It's so weird. | |
| And they're like, they have a bro. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| She's like, no, it's like, it's literally like octopus tentacles that like these girls on like, and they promote it on TikTok. | |
| I have an octopus. | |
| You're lucky she didn't say that I can make it slim joke. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Yeah, if I shake my leg. | |
| Yeah, but like, okay, I've never dated a girl who does OnlyFans. | |
| If you put like two girls together, one has OnlyFans, one doesn't. | |
| I'm going to go for a girl that doesn't. | |
| And at this point in my life, like, I'm not pressed to get with a girl who has OnlyFans. | |
| Like, I have options. | |
| So it's not like, it's just, you know. | |
| But look, I'm not, never say never. | |
| You don't have options. | |
| You don't have options. | |
| You have Barbie. | |
| What the fuck is wrong? | |
| You got me. | |
| Where are you? | |
| No, I'm just saying. | |
| I'm out here. | |
| She. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, so like, never say never. | |
| It could happen, you know? | |
| And I'll give her more of a pass if she's got a large labia. | |
| Okay, moving on. | |
| Jesus Christ. | |
| What? | |
| Women can have penisized preferences, huh? | |
| When are you starting this organization? | |
| It's already started. | |
| Where's the shirt? | |
| It's already up. | |
| I want a shirt. | |
| Big labia matter shirt. | |
| I want a hat. | |
| I want a hat. | |
| I want. | |
| Yo, show of hands. | |
| Who's like rocking an Audi? | |
| Oh, what the fuck? | |
| You're asking if we wanted merge. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I'm not ashamed of it. | |
| Sweet. | |
| No, you got to pay for that. | |
| You got to pay for that. | |
| Not for free. | |
| You can see mine online. | |
| I'm not afraid of it. | |
| Yeah, you can see mine online. | |
| No, I don't really watch porn. | |
| You knew all the mangas in Oscar. | |
| You knew what Vixen was. | |
| Like five different companies. | |
| I didn't even know what Vixen was. | |
| Vixen is like a very like in. | |
| You have to watch a good amount of porn to know what Vixen is. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Okay, so we have Pimmy Flores. | |
| Thank you for the 100. | |
| Oh, I already read this one. | |
| My bad. | |
| We have Jameson. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Big fan of the show. | |
| I'm an average good-looking guy, nine-to-five worker. | |
| The woman who's wearing sheer pink, are you single or top? | |
| Wait, sheer pink. | |
| I think that's Barbie. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Is it? | |
| Oh, no. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| Wait. | |
| The woman who's wearing sheer pink, single slash date. | |
| Wait, is that sheer? | |
| Sheer is sheer. | |
| This is all sheer. | |
| This is all. | |
| Oh, so that's for you. | |
| Am I, am I watching? | |
| Yeah, he's asking for, are you single and are you down for a date with Jameson? | |
| I'm single, but I think I'm going to be taken by Nig after the show, so I don't know. | |
| Okay, then, yeah, Jameson, I'm a male boy, I guess. | |
| Wait, okay, so we got through all that. | |
| I have a question for a couple of y'all. | |
| Wait, first off, just really quick, going back to body count here. | |
| Multiply it by three, and that's the real number. | |
| So whatever y'all said, I don't know. | |
| Multiply that show. | |
| I was actually really honest. | |
| Just saying. | |
| Just saying. | |
| Me and Zoe were. | |
| I think we were all in the middle of the morning. | |
| Oh, okay, fair enough. | |
| Do you have a brother? | |
| I have two younger brothers. | |
| How old? | |
| One is 19, the other one's 15. | |
| Okay. | |
| Does the 19-year-old slay? | |
| Does the 19-year-old what? | |
| Slay. | |
| Like, does he just get mad chicks? | |
| Actually, actually. | |
| He's so fucking corny. | |
| Actually, no. | |
| Scoot the mic that way. | |
| My younger brother, the 19-year-old one, he has a boyfriend. | |
| And he lives in Germany. | |
| He does slay. | |
| So he said, yeah. | |
| Okay, well, I guess my question doesn't make any sense then. | |
| Rip. | |
| Do you have a brother? | |
| And thank you, Jamison, for the compliment. | |
| Do you have a sister? | |
| Brother? | |
| I have a younger brother. | |
| How old? | |
| He's young. | |
| Okay. | |
| Okay, well, that's a fail. | |
| I guess what I was trying to get at is we were previously talking about, you know, who's dating harder for. | |
| Is it harder for men, harder for women? | |
| And don't take this the wrong way for some of you. | |
| But I don't know. | |
| We don't have photos of your bro. | |
| So I don't know. | |
| Wait, what? | |
| I don't know where I'm going. | |
| What? | |
| My little brother. | |
| I don't know. | |
| My 19-year-old brother is very handsome, but we don't have the same dad. | |
| Okay, so half-sibling. | |
| But we've lived together our entire lives, so he's my blood. | |
| But just a point of clarification, your brother is, sorry, what am I? | |
| No, no, no. | |
| Your body count is 100 plus, right? | |
| It's pretty impressive. | |
| Me and Zoe, yeah. | |
| Both you and Zoe. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Do you have a brother? | |
| I'm a single child. | |
| The only child would ever score. | |
| Okay. | |
| Like, I think if you break it down, if you make a comparison, like, I would say, and I'm not saying this to be mean, but like, your looks equivalent would not be able to sleep with like 100 plus women. | |
| Oh, like, if, okay, so, like, if a guy looks as good, or you're saying. | |
| Like, your looks equivalent would not be able to have like 150 or 100 plus body count. | |
| Okay. | |
| Well, I don't think that that's completely, I don't think that's true at all. | |
| I don't think that's true at all. | |
| Wait, are you saying that, like, if she was a dude and looked the way she did now on the just saying, like, as a hot guy? | |
| Are you saying that you don't find her attractive enough? | |
| No, that's not what I'm saying. | |
| I'm just saying, like, your male looks equivalent if you're mirror opposite, let's say. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I know what you're trying to say. | |
| Male Speaker 1. | |
| Like, would not be able to sleep. | |
| And that just comes back to me. | |
| And I think if male me was also bisexual, I would, I pull both genders now. | |
| I would pull both genders as a guy. | |
| But I'm speaking just. | |
| But it's different, though. | |
| So what you're saying is like an average-looking guy could not pull as a business. | |
| And I'm not saying that in a cocky way. | |
| That sounded really cocky, but I'm just saying, like, just say what you mean to say. | |
| Just please say it. | |
| He's just saying sex is harder for me. | |
| Women are the deciders. | |
| Men have no standards in who they're fucking. | |
| So if we all switch to our looks equivalent and like became men, then it would be harder for us. | |
| No, I was saying very picky in who I sleep with and I still sleep with a lot of people. | |
| One at a time, guys. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Zoe, go ahead and then I'll have you. | |
| I was saying like, because she was saying, like, or one of you is saying that men like don't have standards and like still can't get laid. | |
| Look, I'm saying like my standards are very, very high and I have still been able to get laid a lot. | |
| So I'm just like. | |
| Same here. | |
| I don't think it's like a standard. | |
| It's easy for her. | |
| I just think that if an average man tries to stand up. | |
| Yeah, wait, wait, hold on. | |
| Hold on just a sec. | |
| Hold on. | |
| I'll get to you. | |
| Hold on. | |
| Like, I'm just curious, like, what are your standards? | |
| You said your standards are high, so I'm just curious what they are. | |
| Well, I'm a very intellectual person. | |
| So like I cannot, civilian-wise, not porn or anything. | |
| I cannot just sleep with anybody because they look good. | |
| Because I have been on some dates with some hot, influential, high-end men. | |
| And this is just me. | |
| I'm not going to say this is most women because it's not. | |
| But if you cannot have a deep conversation with me, I will not fuck you. | |
| I'm going to have my slip. | |
| I said it with you. | |
| I mouthed the words you were going to say. | |
| Yeah. | |
| So it's like they have to know how to have a deep conversation with you. | |
| How about the intellectually stimulated? | |
| It's a con sapiosexual have to be intellectually stimulated by it. | |
| You know, I feel like though, the guys that can do that are the guys that have practiced a lot, which kind of makes us go after like players. | |
| Men don't just like naturally know how to talk to women. | |
| They have to practice. | |
| Yeah, I mean, I give people grace, though. | |
| That's the thing between me and a lot of other women is I give people grace and compassion. | |
| So I give everybody a chance. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| It doesn't have to be so profound or you're not going to be able to do it. | |
| Even a five-foot guy, you're giving him a chance. | |
| I think the shortest guy I slept with was 5'6 ⁇ . | |
| He was cool. | |
| He was cool. | |
| You know what I mean? | |
| He was smart. | |
| He was funny. | |
| Yeah. | |
| The guy I slept with a couple of days ago was under 5'10, maybe 5'8. | |
| God forbid. | |
| He was under 10. | |
| Yeah, all my excuse. | |
| I thought 5'8. | |
| 5'10? | |
| That's like 5'10? | |
| I think it was 5'10. | |
| You had something you wanted to come in on. | |
| What was it? | |
| Oh, I was just saying that I think the, like when you were saying, like, an average guy couldn't get 150 plus, I think it's more of a matter of like, well, how hard is he trying? | |
| You know? | |
| How hard. | |
| And like, what's the time frame that we're looking at? | |
| But it's still harder for men. | |
| No, I'm not disagreeing that women are the keepers of sex 100%. | |
| But if an average dude wanted to run around and just fuck every single thing that would let him, like, I don't know, I'd be interested to see in the timeframe difference. | |
| I think a lot of you could get there. | |
| But most men are like, most men are invisible to women. | |
| I'm not talking about like bottom of the barrel, man. | |
| I'm talking just like the average guy. | |
| Even the average dudes are struggling majorly when it comes to dating and getting laid. | |
| And I usually date the average guy, so they always tell me about their struggles. | |
| Average dudes are late. | |
| And I'm like, that sucks. | |
| Well, I actually had an experience with this where I didn't understand how hard dating was for men because when I first got into the content in the space, I was like, why are they saying this is so hard? | |
| I actually ended up going to a pickup artist conference. | |
| Now, if you don't know what that is, it's basically where guys go and like they. | |
| It was a book. | |
| It was based off of a guy like Neil Strauss, the game. | |
| But there's a whole, like, I haven't dove that deep into game type stuff. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| But there's, there's really, like, they have a bunch of books in this like sector. | |
| But these guys put on these conferences. | |
| Guys pay like $5,000. | |
| They're so desperate to get laid. | |
| They pay five grand to go learn how to talk to women, approach women, and like sleep with women. | |
| And I would watch these like average guys, like kind of fives, like sixes maybe, go up to these like, honestly, like super obese women and get rejected harshly. | |
| And I'm just thinking, wow, this is, this is harder than I thought. | |
| I would watch them go up to girl after girl. | |
| These were like decent looking dudes. | |
| It's harder than you'd think. | |
| I guess, yeah, I've just never seen that happen. | |
| No, no, no. | |
| I feel like a lot of like women are very delusional. | |
| Closer to the mic, please. | |
| I said, I think that a lot of women are very delusional with their standards and where they stand in life. | |
| So I have 100% seen like average looking, but ugly chicks like have average looking dudes that I would date, turn them down. | |
| I'm like, look, I don't mean to base your value, but like, bro, be honest about where you stand in life. | |
| So I definitely hang into what you think they can get. | |
| Honestly, I said, maybe I just haven't been paying enough attention. | |
| Honestly, walk into a room with 10 guys and ask yourself how many you're attracted to. | |
| Well, the thing is, it doesn't just depend on looks for me. | |
| You know? | |
| I think she's talking about initial visual attraction. | |
| I agree with you if you're actually talking to them. | |
| That's why earlier I said if you want to actually meet somebody, you should go work with whatever gender you're trying to date and then get to know those people. | |
| But yeah, initially when you walk in, if you're looking at a room full of average guys, you're probably not going to. | |
| I had a friend who did that. | |
| She married her boss. | |
| That happens often. | |
| Yeah, and it's common. | |
| No, I have had friends that are teachers. | |
| Oh, I can't, you know, I can't meet anybody. | |
| I'm like, go work at a construction company. | |
| I was at this already. | |
| There's no dude. | |
| I was at this. | |
| I went to my dad. | |
| He just, he's looking at maybe getting, you know, box seats are? | |
| Like at basketball games? | |
| He's looking at maybe getting one. | |
| And I thought it was the biggest shame, okay? | |
| Because this girl was like doing the cart. | |
| Like the, you know, she was serving the desserts and the food. | |
| And this is to like, you have to be super rich to be like up there, like to own one of these boxes. | |
| So you're going to interact with the top half a percent of, wow, this girl was like morbidly obese, like so big. | |
| I'm like, you are missing out on the biggest opportunity. | |
| Like you're in a room with the richest, like the most successful men you'll ever meet. | |
| That's actually networking, really. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's true for careers. | |
| That's true for people. | |
| I was thinking if I was going to end up with or be friends with whoever you're around. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I was thinking if I was like a diehard like gold dig, I'm like, I would just get a job that was a service in one of those places. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Even though you probably actually, like it's kind of like what you said earlier, though, you don't really want somebody like that. | |
| You want somebody who's like, you actually want somebody who's just like middle of the pack or a little bit above, who's around, you know, the equal of you. | |
| And that is by, if that's what you're looking for, you need to go work somewhere where that person might work. | |
| That's the, for people in the U.S., that's where you're going to meet people. | |
| Like, that's what you need to do if you want to meet somebody. | |
| Word. | |
| Okay, guys, unfortunately, let's wrap it up there just because we've been going for a long time. | |
| Before I do that, anyone final thought before anything? | |
| Y'all are cool. | |
| Can I ask you? | |
| This is fun. | |
| I enjoyed how many of you guys. | |
| Could you date a fan of your porn? | |
| Yes. | |
| Yes, I would. | |
| Cool, cool. | |
| Onlyfans.com/slash whatever. | |
| I feel like somebody's going to get you to make this. | |
| I feel like that would probably be to make relationships. | |
| Are you talking about yourself? | |
| Maybe. | |
| I'm really dating a fan is one of the best relationships I've ever been. | |
| Let's do a little bit of a bunch of people. | |
| Anything can you say? | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Anyone tracking somebody that helps you? | |
| Thank you, Manny. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you for having me. | |
| I know how hard it is to run one of these shows. | |
| So a lot of work goes into the show. | |
| Thank you for putting this up. | |
| I also appreciate how much feminine energy was on the panel today. | |
| I know it might have been a little chaotic, but I appreciate all the women that came. | |
| I thought it was cool. | |
| Word. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I do want to thank the entire panel. | |
| I know we had, and I, well, I want to apologize to the viewers because we had a lot of technical issues tonight. | |
| In case you're tuning in and you didn't know what happened beforehand, we started out with severe audio issues. | |
| The audio issues persisted. | |
| Then we had monitor issues. | |
| None of the monitors in studio are working, which really throws a wrench in our entire thing because we have one for us. | |
| We have one, like he's, Nick is having the camera switch by looking at us speak. | |
| Normally we have monitors. | |
| That has an impact on our super chats. | |
| So we can't really pull up the super chats. | |
| We can't, it's hard with this pulling up the Streamlabs donations. | |
| So I apologize for the, I guess, impact that that's potentially had on the show's quality tonight. | |
| Obviously, I've been kind of distracted running around trying to figure out all the technical issues. | |
| So sorry about that, guys. | |
| And obviously sorry to the panel for that because that obviously added a little distraction factor to the show. | |
| So thank you guys. | |
| Anyone final, last final thing? | |
| Also, am I back for being so quiet this entire panel? | |
| I try to keep it quiet, but I've had the migraine, like the worst migraine for the past like four hours. | |
| Yeah. | |
| And I tried to push through it and it was like, oh, you should have asked us before the show. | |
| I know. | |
| Yeah. | |
| But yeah. | |
| Anybody else? | |
| Thank y'all so much for having me. | |
| Everybody's so slow when she speaks. | |
| Yo, you guys are phenomenal women. | |
| Everybody has something very valuable to say. | |
| Even if you feel like you didn't say much, girl, you said something. | |
| And, you know, I just appreciate being around everybody. | |
| And y'all gave me some things to think about. | |
| And so I appreciate everybody here. | |
| I appreciate you, Brian. | |
| Technical glitches. | |
| Okay, I got it. | |
| Everybody, we good. | |
| By the way, in the chat, one's in the chat if you want Byronique to be my co-host. | |
| One's in the chat. | |
| One's in the chat. | |
| Let's see it. | |
| Let's see it. | |
| And oh, last thing. | |
| Can we just get a fit check from everybody? | |
| We're going to do a fit check, then sit back down, and then I'll wrap the show. | |
| So everyone, I guess, stand up and show us what you're wearing, I guess. | |
| Is it? | |
| Which angle is it on? | |
| Is it on? | |
| No, put it, check, make sure it's on this side first. | |
| Wait. | |
| Oh, once more, let's see. | |
| Spins from everybody once more, I guess. | |
| Oh, Lord. | |
| Good luck with that. | |
| I don't have anything. | |
| I don't know if I can do that. | |
| Is this Haram? | |
| Hold on. | |
| I know. | |
| It's a very tight space. | |
| I know. | |
| Okay. | |
| Oh, did we see this side? | |
| What's up? | |
| This is a flannel from Amazon. | |
| Black t-shirt from Kohl's. | |
| What's up? | |
| Okay, that's cool. | |
| You guys can sit down. | |
| Good times. | |
| Okay, last call. | |
| Anybody, final thought before I wrap? | |
| Thank you. | |
| Thank you for the production so much. | |
| Thank you guys. | |
| Bye-bye, where can the people go see your comedy show? | |
| Do you have anything scheduled? | |
| I have a big one coming up next month in Noho. | |
| That's North Hollywood, California. | |
| It's a good little drive from the Barbara. | |
| But if y'all want to come out, I'm going to be at the Ha-Ha Comedy Club. | |
| That's a very well-known comedy club in LA. | |
| So come check me out. | |
| That is on June. | |
| It's a Wednesday. | |
| I believe it's June 17th. | |
| Follow me on Instagram. | |
| I'm going to leave my business cards here. | |
| I got my cards with me. | |
| I'm going to pass them out. | |
| Shout me out. | |
| Oh, we're going. | |
| We're definitely going. | |
| All right, guys. | |
| Last call. | |
| Hit the like button, please, on your way out. | |
| Go to twitch.tv slash whatever. | |
| Drop us a prime and a follow. | |
| Thank you for tuning in tonight. | |
| You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. | |
| I appreciate it. | |
| Can everyone just scoot in for the really quick, just for the outro here? | |
| Yeah, you could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. | |
| I appreciate that. | |
| Thank you to everyone who super chats and supports the show. | |
| Sorry that, again, we had some absurd, egregious technical issues. | |
| I was the term. | |
| I was baffled. | |
| No, I'm bamboozled. | |
| I was frazzled. | |
| I was frazzled dazzle. | |
| Fuck it. | |
| I was like roasting Pixie yesterday about this. | |
| Shit, whatever. | |
| In any case, whatever. | |
| Yeah, it's whatever. | |
| So sorry that some of the soup chats weren't working so great. | |
| Sorry the TTS wasn't great. | |
| Thank you to everyone who supports the show. | |
| Big thank you to the panel. | |
| Thank you to all our chat mods. | |
| Appreciate you guys. | |
| If you want to be on any women who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram. | |
| We have that fixed. | |
| We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific with a much smoother show because I'm going to get the computer situation figured out. | |
| So sorry about that, guys. | |
| Anyways, guys, that's it. | |
| We will see you next time. | |
| I hope that you guys have a good night. | |
| There's actually no way for us to end the stream. | |
| So we're going to have to just like throw the computer out the fucking window. | |
| There's like literally no way for us to end the stream. | |
| So I guess you're going to see some of the pre-show fucking whatever. | |
| What is the term? | |
| Hold on, before I end this, like actually have everyone get up. | |
| What is the term I'm looking for for being frazzled? | |
| Give me some synonyms, guys. | |
| Deviled. | |
| Synonyms. | |
| Busted out. | |
| Discombobobulated. | |
| Discombobulated is a good one. | |
| I was fucking annoyed. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Flustered. | |
| Flustered. | |
| I was flustered. | |
| My cheeks are still red. | |
| Definitely flustered. | |
| Agassed. | |
| Yeah, that's good. | |
| It's not coming to me. | |
| It really doesn't matter. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| Here, Byronique, do you want to like just while we, I don't know how we're going to end the stream. | |
| Like, the computer is not working. | |
| Can we shut down the computer? | |
| I'll figure it out. | |
| Guys, like the video. | |
| Guys, like the video. | |
| Like the video. | |
| Like the video. | |
| Stop watching for free. | |
| A like is free. | |
| Just like the video for two seconds. | |
| I'm tired of this. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Let's go. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I just want to apologize. | |
| This was an absolute shit show of a production tonight. | |
| So thank you for the viewers and thank you to the panelists here who tolerated the madness. | |
| You got to throw the whole computer. | |
| I don't know how much we're going to throw. | |
| We're going to film us throwing the fucking computer out. | |
| It's just a mess. | |
| Okay, I guess we can get up, I guess. | |
| That's loud, folks. | |
| You guys never seen the lights on. | |
| What's up? | |
| You're just going to be in the person. | |
| Just leave them on, I guess. | |
| Yo, do you guys like this lighting? | |
| Hello? | |
| Look at this lighting, bro. | |
| It's kind of nice, eh? | |
| Let me check out the angles. | |
| Oh, what's up, boys? | |
| Oh, Madison, take a seat, eh? | |
| All right. | |
| After show. | |
| Scuffed. | |
| Oh, dude, this lighting's kind of sick, not gonna lie. | |
| Chat, do you like the lighting? | |
| Bro, I should do it like this. | |
| Honestly. | |
| Looks good. | |
| It's like lighting already. | |
| Wait, Madison, sit next to me. | |
| I'll do a whole favorite thing. | |
| I'll show you that line. | |
| This is delayed though. | |
| Hold on. | |
| The pickle hobba is too. | |
| Can you was it like that the whole show? | |
| No. | |
| Okay, just now. | |
| Just now? | |
| Do you guys want to ask Madison anything while she's here? | |
| This is just like the chill after show. | |
| Everyone talking. | |
| You just dipped on all of them. | |
| Oh, I should say bye. | |
| Madison. | |
| Just say bye. | |
| Go say bye. | |
| Hi, everyone. | |
| My name is Madison Boo. | |
| I'm 18 years old, and my occupation is being Archer Duk Franz Vernam on the whatever podcast. | |
| My favorite economist. | |
| I don't really know. | |
| I love wings. | |
| Hey, guys. | |
| I'm not Brian's Boo. | |
| I have a boyfriend that I love. | |
| Yeah, I'm responding to everyone. | |
| No, it's that one. | |
| It's that one. | |
| I'm not Vietnamese. | |
| Why the funny faces? | |
| Because why not? | |
| Duh. | |
| Favorite first date place, probably like Chipotle. | |
| Did you say Chipotle? | |
| I don't need that much. | |
| I'm not a very high-maintenance person, unless your boyfriend, you know. | |
| Yeah, we actually do go to really nice. | |
| We're very much fine diners. | |
| Yeah, but we worked our way up to there, you know. | |
| I do work for Brian. | |
| I would not have two boyfriends. | |
| My favorite color is white. | |
| I'm very thin, but I work for it. | |
| And I'm actually a really good driver. | |
| I'm a very, very good driver. | |
| My boyfriend's like a part of the Fast and Furious, so he's been teaching me how to drive really well. | |
| I'm not gonna sniff the seats. | |
| Someone go sniff the seats. | |
| I'm not sniffing the seats. | |
| Thanks. | |
| Nick is not my boyfriend. | |
| Nick is my friend. | |
| And we know each other's significant others. | |
| So who's the real new co-host? | |
| I'm not really sure. | |
| Why do I make faces? | |
| not Kiki's my competition but now I gotta go Lysol the everyone's saying Lysol the chairs Yes, I've seen Fast X. | |
| I actually just watched it the other day. | |
| I'm not a 304. | |
| They're calling me a 304. | |
| Wait, since they chipole was the best first date. | |
| That doesn't make me a 304. | |
| Oh, no. | |
| What, Nick? | |
| Um, mystery guest on Tuesday. | |
| I actually don't know. | |
| So I don't really find out the mystery guests until I get here, actually. | |
| Wait, Madison, just put it center neck, and then just like Madison just says look right into the camera here. | |
| So then like get out of the chair and just be right on the camera. | |
| Plus, there's anti-degas. | |
| I give them the biggest, hardest time to make you look like someone else. | |
| This is why. | |
| Yeah, now he's telling me. | |
| I'm like, he might have noted it. | |
| He didn't blush it. | |
| I'm not sure. | |
| I was broken there. | |
| You're still here. | |
| You're a real one. | |
| I was like, well, wait, I actually don't really know that this. | |
| I mean, like, you didn't have a producer, I have a problem. | |
| You don't know. | |
| So we actually don't really know how to end this podcast. | |
| I don't know if you could hear me earlier, but if you're still here, thanks for watching. | |
| I appreciate all of you. | |
| And you're a real one if you stayed after to listen to me talk. | |
| Back to that camera. | |
| I'm going to read the comments a little bit more. | |
| I actually really enjoy doing this. | |
| Maddie, who pissed you off the most out of every episode? | |
| I'm actually not going to answer that. | |
| I will say there is a person, but not going to answer it. | |
| I can't. | |
| She's a good person. | |
| I just didn't like her demeanor. | |
| I'm not going to say it, though. | |
| I can't say it. | |
| The last one. | |
| I think you know. | |
| I think you know, Nick. | |
| Agents Forever. | |
| Woo! | |
| How do I like Pearl? | |
| I love Pearl. | |
| She's actually still here. | |
| She's a great person. | |
| When Andrew Tate, I like Andrew Tay. | |
| I think he's a very real person. | |
| He speaks about reality and the reality that some people find hard to accept. | |
| The cones are funny. | |
| Pearl is a G. Brixon is currently talking to Pearl, so I had to take over. | |
| Frankie, if you're watching me, hi, I love you. | |
| And am I a simp for my boyfriend, yeah? | |
| For no one else, no. | |
| Maddie should date Jace. | |
| He's way too old for me. | |
| I don't really like that much older man. | |
| Do I drive? | |
| Yeah, I know, but I'm saying because like last time, like people were like bashing on me because I'm 18 and my boyfriend's like 21, so everyone was like, you like older guys or whatever. | |
| Shout out Big Labia Gang. | |
| Is Pearl coming on again? | |
| I don't know. | |
| You guys gotta keep watching if you wanna find out. | |
| I'm not talking about you, Frankie K. Sorry, but Frankie. | |
| Frankie D is where it's at. | |
| Is Nick getting the OF girl's number? | |
| No, Nick has a girlfriend. | |
| I don't know what she was doing. | |
| She's a really cool person, actually. | |
| I actually do like her, but I told her Nick had a girlfriend. | |
| She was kind of trying, though, for you, Nick, huh? | |
| She was kind of trying really hard. | |
| Yeah, her eyes were just like, this was her ethnic. | |
| She's flirting with her eyes. | |
| Who's biggest? | |
| The biggest. | |
| Why do I look high? | |
| I'm not high. | |
| I'm just Asian. | |
| Frankie D is where it's at. | |
| Frankie D is my boyfriend. | |
| Oh, Pearl's back. | |
| Okay. | |
| I can sit here, Madison. | |
| If you want to sit right here? | |
| There, I guess. | |
| Everyone was asking about you, Pearl. | |
| What are they asking? | |
| They were like, do you like Pearl? | |
| And I was like, yes. | |
| Oh, I don't think they're going to see you there. | |
| They won't see me there? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I'm just going to put everybody on one side. | |
| I'll show you the angle. | |
| Oh, wait, it's in the middle now. | |
| Well, yeah, but we don't. | |
| Let's just have it be. | |
| I guess we could do center. | |
| This blessing. | |
| All right, this is the after-hour show. | |
| This is the after-hour show. | |
| The purge? | |
| Are there still, holy shit, are there still 6,000 people? | |
| Yo, they're in love with you, Madison. | |
| Thanks. | |
| I really appreciate it. | |
| So, yeah. | |
| Guys, this is going to be the official blessing reveal. | |
| No. | |
| No, he's so particular about not getting his face. | |
| Wait, Blessing, are you going to put the mask on? | |
| The purge mask. | |
| He's coming. | |
| He's coming. | |
| Yeah, guys. | |
| A lot of people want to know what Blessing looks like. | |
| Today's not that day. | |
| He's coming on with a mask, but he is going to come on. | |
| You will see. | |
| I really like your name, by the way. | |
| It's a beautiful name. | |
| Oh, bro, we got a super chat. | |
| Let's go after show. | |
| Hell yeah. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| We got a bunch. | |
| Oh, dude, dude, the super chats are. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| Oh, jeez. | |
| What's it saying? | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| Here, we're going to lower the super chat. | |
| Wait, can you put it to us? | |
| Guys, Blessing's my camera mask. | |
| Producer. | |
| No, it's on that one. | |
| Systems manager. | |
| Can you do it on here? | |
| I can do it. | |
| It's fine. | |
| fun. | |
| I think it, wait, is this, is it chat? | |
| Is it? | |
| Is it on us? | |
| Chat, hello? | |
| Okay, Blessing is on camera. | |
| You've never been on camera, Blessing? | |
| Wait, fix that. | |
| Okay. | |
| He's in disguise. | |
| Do you guys have any questions for Madison? | |
| Or for Pearl? | |
| The time I get to talk. | |
| Or Blessing? | |
| After hours. | |
| This is kind of fun, Brian. | |
| Yeah, you finally get to talk. | |
| I finally get to talk. | |
| This is kind of fun. | |
| And read the comments. | |
| How did the stream go for you, Madison? | |
| It went pretty well. | |
| Did you see me, like, in shambles? | |
| Yes, I did. | |
| That's why I had a. | |
| Yeah, that's a good word to explain what you were going through. | |
| Brian was in shambles. | |
| I'm still trying to think of what the word was. | |
| Pixie, the girl, the feminist girl from the Destiny stream, she was streaming yesterday on the phone with Destiny Saturday night doing a breakdown of the stream. | |
| And she was like in shambles over. | |
| They get very upset. | |
| It's closer to the microphone. | |
| Closer to the mic. | |
| I'm sorry. | |
| I should know this more than anyone. | |
| I'm not used to not having headphones. | |
| Yeah, we do a scuffed. | |
| Yeah, the reaction channels get very emotional. | |
| They get very upset. | |
| Should we react? | |
| I had someone react to me, and you guys were talking about this on the podcast earlier about how they kind of take certain clips and just paint a picture of things that you just didn't say. | |
| I had that happen to me. | |
| Really? | |
| From the whatever podcast. | |
| Wait, people were taking pictures of me. | |
| No, people just, or this Christian, like podcast. | |
| I don't remember their name, but they like put me as the cover. | |
| And the title was like Trad Wife question mark. | |
| And they were like, oh, blah, blah, girls like this don't want like a like I don't know, just like a relationship and to be a mother and all this stuff, like I don't like. | |
| I was like that's kind of weird, because that's exactly what I want. | |
| No, he was. | |
| He put, he literally used my face. | |
| Was it on Reddit? | |
| No, I saw it on TikTok. | |
| Oh, it was a clip. | |
| Yeah, it was a clip of my face, and they were like from the destiny stream. | |
| No, from the very first podcast I was on here, they used my face. | |
| Hold on wait, fix your picklehaba. | |
| It keeps falling. | |
| There we go. | |
| They used my face and basically said that I'm not an ideal woman. | |
| Oh, you got thrown under the bus. | |
| I did get thrown under the bus, whatever. | |
| After things. | |
| I did it. | |
| This is the after hours. | |
| Whatever after hours brought to you by Meowmax. | |
| Meow, that was. | |
| Should we get Nick in this? | |
| Do you want to be on camera, Nick? | |
| You sure are. | |
| You gonna continue? | |
| Filled the spots up there. | |
| Oh Rip um, I could go with Madison in the back. | |
| Oh yeah, be you, be Madison. | |
| Haba you can't do this I don't know if you guys notice but her helmet got upgraded yeah her helmet got upgraded What's that? | |
| If you did center, I could like sit over there. | |
| I should. | |
| People are saying I should always do an after party. | |
| Let me do some super chats. | |
| Um, why not? | |
| We're getting super chats. | |
| Um Madison, why do you wear revealing clothing? | |
| Oh rip um, I think i'm just young and I wear like whatever, like the girls my age wear okay, and I just like guys. | |
| If you have any questions for Pearl, this is. | |
| If you have any questions for Blessing too, i've had, i've had a lot of lot of questions lately. | |
| Um here, let me get through these super chats. | |
| Why not? | |
| Family guy Canadian22 asks, Madison, do you do? | |
| Oh, go for it. | |
| Do I put out? | |
| Do you put out? | |
| Actually Nick, it's probably better if you don't show up on camera. | |
| Okay, all right, we have bye Felicia tickle tickle, little one. | |
| Okay, what the fuck we have by Felicia? | |
| Can we possibly have Matthew Hussey on the show? | |
| I actually emailed Matthew Hussey um, never heard back. | |
| Maybe I should send another email since we're a little bigger now. | |
| That was a while ago. | |
| Hey Question, thank you for the membership. | |
| Yo, sweet To thank you for the uh 100 for the after show. | |
| Appreciate it, man. | |
| We have uh SOSA Bands after hour show should be the NEW WAVE. | |
| Yeah, that'd be good. | |
| Maybe we should do it. | |
| That's kind of cool. | |
| Um, All right, we have demise, respect, the anonymous mask, cameras good. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Is the low light? | |
| I feel like the quality must be pretty shit because it's pretty low light in here. | |
| I feel like the vibe is nice, though. | |
| Shouldn't it be like this the entire time? | |
| I like this. | |
| Like the bright light is so when it turns dark outside, yeah. | |
| But when you start, it's pretty bright outside. | |
| Yo, Jimmy, thank you for the membership. | |
| Real life outdoors, thank you for the membership. | |
| Family guy, what are your thoughts on interracial marriage? | |
| I'm for it. | |
| It's cool, I guess. | |
| I don't have thank you for the Canadian 11. | |
| John Cross, thank you for the five. | |
| I work in 18-hour Madison, what about you? | |
| I mean, your boyfriend's right white, isn't he? | |
| Yes. | |
| Okay. | |
| He's actually portraying. | |
| Oh, you're fine. | |
| You're fine. | |
| I work an 18-hour shift that goes through the night. | |
| Thanks for the long pods. | |
| It helps the time fly. | |
| Dude, 18-hour shift, are you in the medical field, John? | |
| You're welcome. | |
| It's me, Jay. | |
| We appreciate it. | |
| Bye Felicia. | |
| Whatever after I was brought to you by MeowMix. | |
| Meow Okay, thank you. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Bye, Felicia. | |
| We have Carla. | |
| Thank you for the membership. | |
| Yoki, thank you for the $2. | |
| Pearl, I need to see you stand up and spin. | |
| And I'll leave that. | |
| She already did, I think. | |
| Dirty Slavic peasant. | |
| Thank you for the membership. | |
| Real life outdoors, the world is, the word is vexed bricks. | |
| Not, it wasn't. | |
| Well, Pearl, I saw you speak on how proud you are of your brother. | |
| Do you feel that them as men in your life have played a significant role in your life view? | |
| Any other influences? | |
| Yeah, I would say my brothers and my dad. | |
| I think anyone that's like watched my show for more than five minutes knows I'm like really proud of my dad. | |
| He's honestly like the nicest person I've ever met in my life and like goes above and beyond for everyone. | |
| So all right, we have Family Guy Canadian Guys. | |
| How will we def Jesus Christ? | |
| Why did I pull that up? | |
| Fucker. | |
| I need to read these before I pull them up. | |
| Ryan, Australian 10, does Pearl pay blessing? | |
| I assume so. | |
| Oh, yeah, there's this rumor going around that I just like don't pay anyone that works for me. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not true? | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, look at this. | |
| That's nice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Men in black over here. | |
| Samadhi, horrible, horrible contract. | |
| Is this the best? | |
| Have you ever made more than you make here? | |
| No, I'm making a loss still. | |
| Let's go. | |
| But they don't believe people that work for me. | |
| Sean Hill, $5. | |
| Do you ever have regular guys on the podcast? | |
| So I get like hundreds of DMs a week from guys wanting to be on the show. | |
| So unfortunately, just due to the volume of how many people request to be on the show, we just can't accommodate everybody. | |
| And we also just, because we're getting bigger now and we've like had some controversial takes, like we have some security concerns. | |
| So I'm very selective over like who I let on the show. | |
| But yeah, it's just like there's way too many people who want to be on the show. | |
| So Cappadocia, I think for the 10. | |
| Actually, Madison, can you read these? | |
| My voices. | |
| Always do the after parties. | |
| Word is exasperated. | |
| Nope, that's not the one I was going for. | |
| It went away. | |
| Oh, here, sorry. | |
| This is genius. | |
| Glad the show is exploding. | |
| Who would you most like to have on the show? | |
| Your ideal guest? | |
| Jordan Peterson would be fucked. | |
| I would love to have Jordan Peterson on. | |
| I was talking to Tate before he got banned. | |
| So Tate would be awesome, but I don't think he's coming back to the U.S. | |
| And I think he's over some of the dating type stuff. | |
| But Pearl, have you been in, I mean, Tate's out now. | |
| Have you been, you had Andrew Tate on your show? | |
| Have you been in touch with him? | |
| Have you heard of him? | |
| Yeah, I mean, we've spoken. | |
| I told him, because he had that video that came out that was saying that he, like, that reporter was like saying, oh, we have history. | |
| So I just messaged him. | |
| I'm like, we have history. | |
| Come on the show. | |
| I don't know if you've seen, if you saw the video, it would make sense. | |
| But yeah, I mean, obviously, everyone wants to do the first podcast with him when he gets out. | |
| So if he wants to do it, we're down. | |
| Peterson follows me. | |
| I think we might, we'll see. | |
| I think that might happen semi-soon. | |
| Yeah, that would be an awesome come up to do something with Peterson. | |
| And I don't think I'll get to do something with Tate just because from what I've heard, like I said, he's probably, I don't know, I think he's maybe not doing the dating type stuff. | |
| At least that's what I think I heard Sartorial Shooter, his manager, say, is like he's going to move away from like dating man-women shit and just be like self-help. | |
| Like maybe, we'll see. | |
| All right, we have, can you read this? | |
| Frankie Kay, thanks for the $5. | |
| Have you heard from Mick? | |
| Is he still selling Rusty Drum Bones? | |
| Do you remember Mick? | |
| Yeah, were you there? | |
| Yeah, that was my first podcast. | |
| That was your first episode. | |
| Have not heard from Mick. | |
| I invited her back on, but she's out of state. | |
| They might have moved. | |
| Skyview, thank you for the five. | |
| Use low light after show. | |
| Yeah, this would actually be kind of cool. | |
| Like do like 20, 30 minutes after show. | |
| This lighting is far more soothing. | |
| Yeah, maybe I should do this. | |
| Fuck. | |
| 70 plus episodes. | |
| madison co-host she's she kind of like hosting for the after show Madison is what I call an Easter egg. | |
| What is that? | |
| An Easter egg. | |
| So in like a video game, an Easter egg is like this little hidden thing. | |
| You're not hidden, though, but it's kind of like. | |
| Oh, yeah, I get it. | |
| It's just like you're in the background. | |
| People are like, wait, what the fuck? | |
| There's always something in like it. | |
| Do you work here? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Are you guys dating? | |
| Like, what is it? | |
| No, we're not. | |
| She has a boyfriend. | |
| Well, why do you have to say like that, Madison? | |
| What the fuck? | |
| Because I have a boyfriend. | |
| Fair enough. | |
| No, she's got a boyfriend. | |
| I thought there might have been a spark. | |
| No, no, she's not. | |
| That's what everyone thinks. | |
| She's got a boyfriend. | |
| And yeah, she. | |
| I don't want to be friends. | |
| I pay Madison to us. | |
| We're great friends. | |
| We're great friends. | |
| Yes, I would have Ben Shapiro on. | |
| Michael. | |
| That's crazy. | |
| I didn't think you could have friends. | |
| I think I would have both on, but to pick one, I don't. | |
| I'd have both of them on, I can't say. | |
| I don't want, oh, gosh, I want Ben Shapiro on a show more than Peter. | |
| I'd want Ben Shapiro on a show more than Peterson on a show. | |
| Because he's destroyed. | |
| Yes, yes. | |
| I miss him dunking on those college kids. | |
| That was the peak of his career. | |
| We missed that. | |
| Come back to colleges, Ben. | |
| Come back. | |
| We'll get you some 18-year-olds to just dunk on. | |
| We miss it. | |
| Can you put that mic on the floor? | |
| So this one right here, yeah, just so it's not blocking you. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay, we have Madison. | |
| Can you read this one? | |
| Did Pearl give her body count? | |
| W Pearl. | |
| W whatever. | |
| I think that's personal and you shouldn't really share that on a podcast. | |
| You know, call me old-fashioned. | |
| Keith, thanks for the five. | |
| Camera changed before I seen her. | |
| What? | |
| John Cross says, I do care taking and work 46 hours in 72 hours. | |
| Nice to have four days off, though. | |
| Oh, that was the one that works 18 hours. | |
| There's still, it's 6,000 people still watching. | |
| That's why that girl, I could not believe she made 70K a month on OnlyFans. | |
| Madison, can you read this? | |
| You should get more Europeans on the podcast. | |
| We have a very different vibe when it comes to dating. | |
| What's the European professional? | |
| I mean, if you don't think I'm down to get some Europeans, but Trump or Biden 2024. | |
| Pearl, were you going to say Kanye? | |
| No. | |
| DeSantis? | |
| If I had to pick Trump or Biden, they already know I'm a Republican. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I actually, you know, it's funny, I voted for Kanye in 2020. | |
| You did? | |
| This was before his kind of ridiculous takes. | |
| Because I thought, I don't know, I'm not, maybe I'm going to hate for this. | |
| Don't like Biden. | |
| Don't really like Trump. | |
| Like, I don't know. | |
| So to me, I was just like, and I'm in California. | |
| So it's like Biden's going to win the pop or the, what is it? | |
| The, I forgot what it's called. | |
| Popular vote. | |
| Well, he's going to win the popular vote, but he's going to get the, why am I blinking on this? | |
| Sorry, guys, it's late. | |
| The electoral college anyway. | |
| So it's like, fuck it. | |
| Here's a meme vote for Kanye. | |
| Guys, this is before he went on those crazy fucking rants and shit. | |
| Okay. | |
| Jimmy Jimmy, go ahead. | |
| 32 version here. | |
| For some reason, physical touch weirds me out and it feels so fake to date. | |
| Haven't had a girlfriend since 17. | |
| Just focused on my career. | |
| Thoughts? | |
| You do you, Jimmy. | |
| Go, go, you. | |
| If you think you're ready to find a woman at any time in your life, go ahead. | |
| But go ahead. | |
| 32 virgin here. | |
| There's nothing wrong with that. | |
| Are you MGTOW? | |
| All right, we have James. | |
| Will Esther come on the show? | |
| I have no idea who that is. | |
| Who's S. | |
| Yeah, we'll send you a guest. | |
| You're a little nicer than me, though. | |
| She might actually like you. | |
| What do you mean? | |
| Well, you know. | |
| You mean romantically or just like? | |
| No, no, I just mean like Esther. | |
| Yeah, yeah. | |
| You. | |
| All right. | |
| The people that get it, y'all know. | |
| Have Tara back on so I can ask her out again. | |
| Don't have Instagram or Snapchat. | |
| Also, would y'all move out of Cali due to cost of living and drugs and homeless? | |
| Yes, absolutely. | |
| 100%. | |
| I would move out of the United States. | |
| In California, we have a state income tax. | |
| So you get taxed at the federal level and then at the state level. | |
| And I think in California, it's like 8%. | |
| I don't know what the state income is. | |
| It's bad. | |
| homelessness is really bad luckily Santa Barbara it's not quite to the level of LA but yeah I'm thinking about San Francisco I'm thinking about either Vegas or Florida um Maybe Hawaii, but there's income tax there too. | |
| I just like the beach. | |
| Maddie, drive a Miata or S2K. | |
| They suit you. | |
| W Boyfriend 2. | |
| Thank you, Cody. | |
| Brian, can I rent out the middle of your white table to showcase my products for my company during a show? | |
| John Deke, you can email me, brian at whatever.com. | |
| We're pretty selective, though, with sponsorships. | |
| Pearl, is it true you moved your ex-boyfriend into your dad's house? | |
| Uh-oh. | |
| They kind of clip things together to make it seem different than it was, but yes or no. | |
| All right, we have. | |
| Pearl, how much was your flight and next appearance? | |
| Question mark? | |
| My flight? | |
| I don't even know. | |
| My assistant booked it. | |
| Maybe a couple hundred, I'm guessing. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Well, you're doing some other shows too, right? | |
| Yeah, well, we're going to Vegas after this. | |
| When are you getting to Vegas? | |
| You leave it tomorrow? | |
| Yeah, tomorrow the next day. | |
| I might move it if I can. | |
| I was trying to get on that Amala podcast. | |
| I wanted to read her. | |
| Who is she? | |
| She reminds me of myself. | |
| She's been on the show. | |
| Oh, yeah. | |
| No, I like her. | |
| She reminds me of myself like two years ago. | |
| Doesn't she have a beef with you, though? | |
| Does she? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't think so, but you know. | |
| People have beef with me that I don't even like now. | |
| I have this from Skimpy. | |
| Here, read this, Maddie. | |
| Pearl and Maddie are the GOAT. | |
| Brian, too. | |
| keep up the good work and I love every show. | |
| Also, Chase is the real MVP. | |
| Period. | |
| Yeah, Chase is awesome. | |
| Shout out, Chase. | |
| Let's see. | |
| We had do you guys believe in God? | |
| Oh. | |
| Whoops. | |
| Do you guys believe in God? | |
| And do you think there are rational arguments for that belief? | |
| Yes, I absolutely believe in God. | |
| Okay, maybe that's for Madison. | |
| Blessing, do you believe in life? | |
| Yep, 100%. | |
| Have you seen V for Vendetta? | |
| Yeah. | |
| What's the remember, remember the 5th of November? | |
| That was a good question. | |
| I'm Catholic, yes. | |
| What is everyone listening to? | |
| Top Played Song? | |
| I'm not really. | |
| What kind of music do you like, Brian? | |
| I like 90s grunge music, Pearl Jam. | |
| They're all. | |
| I feel like you're always playing Sublime in here. | |
| Yeah, I like honestly 90s alt-rock stuff. | |
| So Sublime, Blink 182, early 2000s, like pop punk type stuff, rock music. | |
| I don't really like much modern music. | |
| I like basically 90s music, early 2000s music. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's for rap. | |
| I listen to some rap, but mostly it's just Pearl Jam. | |
| What's the other, some of the other grunge bands? | |
| I'm so tired. | |
| I can't think right now. | |
| I love you. | |
| Wait, Pearl, do you want to answer? | |
| What are you listening to? | |
| You rap. | |
| You need to rap. | |
| Didn't you drop a rap song on Sneekos? | |
| Okay, I do know how to freeze stop. | |
| I was just inspired by this certain YouTuber. | |
| I won't name names, but I could. | |
| And I was asked to make a diss song, so I was just inspired. | |
| I don't know what to tell you. | |
| Is there a video of it? | |
| There is. | |
| Yeah, there is. | |
| I'm going to look it up right after this. | |
| You certainly can. | |
| I do know how to freestyle, but I listen to country mostly. | |
| I like country music too. | |
| Hey, Madison, can I teach you how to do this so I can get up for a sec? | |
| Yes. | |
| So you with the mouse cursor, you can also use here, and you just click show, and then you. | |
| Yeah, I think I know. | |
| I watched you do it all. | |
| Okay. | |
| Do you want to read these and then? | |
| Oh, I love the after-hour show. | |
| Keep it up. | |
| The light is great. | |
| Pearl, you're a hottie. | |
| I swear that's fresh under that mask. | |
| Thank you. | |
| Is that fresh? | |
| Is that fresh? | |
| Could be. | |
| All right. | |
| Pearl, I love you. | |
| Please come to whatever more often. | |
| Please bring Ben Shapiro. | |
| I would pay more. | |
| I love you as well, Brian and Madison. | |
| I'll be back. | |
| Every time I'm in LA, I'll come by. | |
| If you guys will have me, I enjoyed myself. | |
| Who runs the news, media, banks, and corporations? | |
| Oh, Jesus. | |
| If there's. | |
| Yeah, I don't really want to respond to that. | |
| Okay. | |
| Carlos. | |
| Hey, come on. | |
| This one says Cards Against Humanity for the after show with the ambient lighting. | |
| That'd be fun. | |
| I should do the show with the slide in. | |
| Yeah. | |
| What are pluses slash minuses of podcasting as a career, Pearl? | |
| Well, pluses. | |
| Oh my gosh, pluses are amazing. | |
| You get to do whatever you want. | |
| You get to go wherever you want. | |
| You get to talk about whatever you want. | |
| Oh my gosh. | |
| I freaking love it. | |
| I was in a dead end sales copier job that I hated. | |
| I hated this job. | |
| And one day I just woke up and I just said, mom, dad, I'm going to be. | |
| I was a TikToker back then. | |
| And I literally just quit my job. | |
| I moved from Milwaukee to Chicago and I said, mom, dad, this is what I'm going to do. | |
| And yeah, I just chased it and then eventually it happened. | |
| So and I am way happier than I was at that. | |
| God awful. | |
| Do not ever sell copiers. | |
| Like I'm just, I just want everybody, like, don't do it. | |
| It's not what they tell you it is. | |
| It's not software. | |
| You're selling copiers. | |
| The cons is that I would say the unfortunate part is when people that aren't involved like get dragged into it. | |
| So it's kind of like, I mean, you heard the super chat where they're saying like they were kind of trying to paint my ex-boyfriend as like a homeless like bum when and it's hard because I can't even like clarify it because I feel weird like speaking about it. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Because I'm not trying to bring someone else into that situation, but it's unfortunate because it's like it's like you're bringing in people that like aren't involved and didn't ask to be involved. | |
| Yeah. | |
| That's terrible. | |
| Hey Maddie, if there's any, try to pre-read it. | |
| If there's any questionable ones, just don't pull it up. | |
| Okay. | |
| Who's the Tuesday guest? | |
| Also like this format. | |
| It's a nice post-show stress decompress. | |
| Tuesday guests, you'll find out on Tuesday. | |
| Can we get Maddie an SS helmet for after show? | |
| How do I scroll? | |
| Brian, this one's for you. | |
| Are you listening? | |
| You need to have some married men on the show to give actual advice to women. | |
| I don't take advice from homeless men on how to be a millionaire. | |
| Don't take advice from 30 foes on how to date for marriage. | |
| The one thing, that's a common complaint from like with these type of shows. | |
| But the one thing is, I'll say married men don't really understand the dating market today. | |
| Like they were not dealing with women that slept with 50, 100. | |
| Like you think our dads, like before social media, they were. | |
| So it's unfortunate because I think that's like a lot of like the advice is like, oh, just talk to the married men. | |
| But do the married men really know how to deal with like the average chick today? | |
| Like where one in three of us have had an abortion, one in three of us have an STD. | |
| Like and how is a guy supposed to tell the difference? | |
| Because some of those girls, like if we weren't asking them questions, you wouldn't know just looking at them on the street. | |
| So that's a great take. | |
| Question for the show. | |
| Favorite video game? | |
| I don't play video games. | |
| I don't either. | |
| I used to play Super Smash Bros when I was younger. | |
| FIFA. | |
| I liked, like, as a kid, I feel like I always liked Wii sports. | |
| Just like playing Wii games and Minecraft. | |
| Megan Murphy would be interesting on the show. | |
| I don't know who that is. | |
| Do you know who that is? | |
| For the after show, keep around one or two guests. | |
| Inexpensive super chats and more intimate conversations and child downs to really get to know either special guests or people who are just for fun. | |
| It's kind of a good idea. | |
| It's a really like the medium. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I like it. | |
| Hi, Brian. | |
| Ryan. | |
| Listen to this one. | |
| Hi, Brian. | |
| Nice to see you again. | |
| I'd love to be on your show. | |
| I actually messaged your Insta. | |
| Or a date, LOL. | |
| I just don't have big labia, LOL. | |
| What is it? | |
| Free fall. | |
| Free fall. | |
| She wants a date. | |
| So she don't got that labia. | |
| Okay, great show, Brian and Maddie, in spite of the early scuff. | |
| Pearl, it would be great to see you back for another show. | |
| W Blessing coming in for the first after show. | |
| Yep. | |
| That's been his response to everything. | |
| You any consideration to limiting the amount of OF girls per pod was kind of annoying. | |
| I think it gets conversation going. | |
| It's very interesting. | |
| What Percent of Girls do you think has an OnlyFans out here? | |
| Like in Santa Barbara or I don't know. | |
| Literally the only people that I've met that have actually done OnlyFans are the people that I've met on this podcast. | |
| I could not tell you. | |
| I loved the variety of guests you have on the show. | |
| Less workers and more people like Pearl and Destiny with varying views. | |
| Please, maybe not so. | |
| What is that thing? | |
| What? | |
| Maybe not so erudite. | |
| Oh, that's one of Destiny's friends, I guess. | |
| Oh. | |
| I'll give you a million bucks if you get Moon on here. | |
| Don't know who that is. | |
| I don't think we don't have a special guest on Tuesday. | |
| It's just some chicks. | |
| I was trolling them, Brian. | |
| Oh, what? | |
| I was like, find out on Tuesday. | |
| Oh. | |
| Actually, I think we do have an interesting person, but go ahead. | |
| Ben Shapiro versus, are they trying to say Destiny? | |
| Destiny. | |
| Thoughts? | |
| Destiny is a very good debater. | |
| Like, super sharp. | |
| But Ben Shapiro is too. | |
| I feel like they both get the same energy. | |
| Kind of. | |
| That would be a really good thing. | |
| You know what? | |
| I think Destiny would have a leg up because Ben Shapiro, like, this is the one thing you get when you have people that are, like, strictly reaction channels is they've spent hours and hours watching you. | |
| So it's like you kind of are going in like almost blind in a way because it's like you have all this shit going on. | |
| You're like running the live show and doing all the live stuff. | |
| Yeah, you don't have time to like study for every single debate. | |
| And so it's like there, like, I think actually Destiny might win because he just like sits there and like watches shit all day. | |
| So like he's going to know every single little thing. | |
| But I don't think it would, I don't think he would just like like bolt. | |
| Like I think it would be close though. | |
| It'd be pretty close, but you're right. | |
| Destiny is like, that's what he does. | |
| It's just like debate, debate, debate, debate. | |
| Whereas Ben Shapiro, like he has a spoken show and he gives lectures and he runs the whole daily watch. | |
| Like how much time? | |
| Like how much time does he have? | |
| Yeah, it's wild. | |
| He manages so many people. | |
| Benson. | |
| All right. | |
| Oh. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| I asked for Pearl to spin. | |
| Oh, sorry, I like mumbled my words. | |
| I asked for Pearl to spin. | |
| The camera changed on FitCheck, so I missed it. | |
| She's my type. | |
| Shucks. | |
| Thank you, Keith. | |
| Pearl, what would be your top three favorite slash influential books? | |
| Brian and Pearl, it's time to bring in sweet daddy Matt Walsh into each pod. | |
| Hey, I had Michael Knowles on the show. | |
| I'm in touch with the people at the Daily Wire. | |
| There's some conversations going on. | |
| We're probably, we're going to try to get, look, it might happen, it might not. | |
| I don't have any reason to believe why it wouldn't work out. | |
| But part of me thinks is like they might, obviously I run like kind of a controversial show and like Daily Wire, they're kind of controversial in a different way. | |
| Like they're obviously very super conservative. | |
| And I'm like, bro, I got like titties in the thumbnails, dude. | |
| Like, I don't know if it's like the exact right match for them, but we had Michael Knowles on. | |
| That was a good show. | |
| So I'm down to get Matt Walsh. | |
| I'm down to get Ben Shapiro. | |
| We're trying to, I think we're maybe going to get Brett Cooper on, so we'll see. | |
| Favorite influential books. | |
| Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. | |
| The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Tolle. | |
| Eckhart Tolle. | |
| And shit, I don't know. | |
| These World War books, I guess. | |
| What have I got on my bookshelf? | |
| They're under your laptop. | |
| Yeah, I don't know. | |
| My favorite video game was World of Warcraft, but I quit video games like three years ago. | |
| Nice. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Pearl. | |
| I obviously liked The Rational Mail. | |
| Even though, you know, Roland might have his beef, all love here. | |
| Should we do 10 and up, by the way, for the chats? | |
| Because look, we literally, like, we've gotten like, we've gotten most of the super chats, like, just right now. | |
| Yeah, you could. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Any other books? | |
| Blessing, what about yours? | |
| I liked Black Rubnecks, White Liberals by Thomas Sowell. | |
| I thought that was really good. | |
| Third one. | |
| I honestly liked Jodi Picolt's book. | |
| I can't even remember what it was called, but it was like a non-it was a fiction book, though. | |
| Oh, 12 Rules for Life, also. | |
| That's a good one. | |
| I read that. | |
| Yeah, Jordan Peterson. | |
| Guys, let's for those of you in the after hours, let's do $10 and up for super chats that we'll read. | |
| And by the way, it's just on YouTube. | |
| Please don't do it through street. | |
| I mean, if you want to do it through Streamlabs, but my recent events for Streamlabs, I guess I could change it. | |
| I don't really just do it through super chats. | |
| It's easier. | |
| Yeah, just do super chats. | |
| It's easier for us. | |
| President Kamala? | |
| Yay or nay. | |
| Nope, nope, nope. | |
| Nope. | |
| Still friends with Andrea? | |
| No, I'm not. | |
| No. | |
| Who's Andrea? | |
| She used to be my prank videos. | |
| And we had a following. | |
| It's been like seven years since I've talked to Andrea. | |
| So just I don't really want to get into the details, but yeah, just wish her the best. | |
| Go ahead. | |
| Sexless and sexed out coming to terms won't happen. | |
| The irony that men going their own way is not only reason why sub-decimal birth rates will be the interesting times we will live in. | |
| Love from New Zealand. | |
| Hey, Angry, could you actually send... | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| Never mind. | |
| Pearl, ABL's vid on you and Nick. | |
| Also, Crowder thoughts? | |
| Who? | |
| Who's ABL? | |
| Aben Preach? | |
| ABL? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Whatever. | |
| Which one? | |
| They've done so many. | |
| I mean, they're these old guys that just make hit pieces on everybody. | |
| That's all. | |
| If you look at their thing, that's all they do. | |
| They have financial incentive to literally just make hit pieces on everyone. | |
| They don't go into what? | |
| Other than preach? | |
| Yeah, look at their page. | |
| I don't got beef with. | |
| I'm going to be with them. | |
| No, no, because I remember being in your phone. | |
| I was like, I don't want to say anything, because I'm not trying to have them go after me. | |
| Madison? | |
| Oh, well, you should come to Florida. | |
| It's fantastic here. | |
| Brian, thank you so much for your podcast. | |
| Thank you for having base guests on Chase and Pearl. | |
| Madison, you're a stunning, lucky boyfriend. | |
| Thank you for the Canadian. | |
| I think my credit score analogy was good, right? | |
| Also, Kiki versus Peterson or Shapiro would be epic. | |
| Word. | |
| Also, WTF, emotes for the Twitch chat. | |
| Angry Casper, if you send... | |
| So I've been trying to pull out New Zealand dollars from my PayPal, but it's not above a certain threshold. | |
| Can you just drop like five New Zealand dollars through Streamlabs, please? | |
| But I'll get Twitch chat. | |
| I'll get Twitch chat. | |
| I sent a Streamlabs comment. | |
| Don't forget to read those. | |
| We don't have it. | |
| Unfortunately, we can't because my, for through Streamlabs, the alert minimum is 100. | |
| And it takes too long to change the settings in Streamlabs. | |
| So just, yeah, just do it through YouTube. | |
| Also, this after shows are actually pretty awesome. | |
| Don't limit yourself to only 30 minutes. | |
| All in. | |
| Fuck, these will be long streams. | |
| I love you, Pearl. | |
| Please come back again to this podcast. | |
| I love Brian and Madison too, but still. | |
| Pearl, please bring Matt Walsh or Candace Owen or Benjamin with OF girls. | |
| Lucia, thank you for the 16 or 160,000 Indonesian, I don't know what the, thank you for the Indonesian currency, appreciate it. | |
| Need to have Charlie Kirk, Pearl, Fleckus, Maddie, Jeff Durbin, and some three OFOs. | |
| That would be a top-tier show. | |
| I've actually been messaging with Charlie Kirk. | |
| We were going to have him on a while ago, but I haven't heard from him in a minute. | |
| He's pretty. | |
| He's at UCSB now too. | |
| Yeah, that's when I got in touch with him. | |
| I was like, hey, you're here. | |
| Let's have you on the show. | |
| But it didn't work out. | |
| My boyfriend went to his talk. | |
| Pearl, when are you going to do the meetups? | |
| And are you going to do a meetup in Boston? | |
| Love your channel. | |
| Maybe DC. | |
| Maybe DC. | |
| We've done really bad about doing the meetups. | |
| But if we do, we're in Chicago next week, Nashville the week after, and Nashville and DC the week after. | |
| So those are where we'll do it. | |
| All right. | |
| We have. | |
| Try Bazaar Meets in Vegas. | |
| Okay. | |
| This unintentional after show is awesome. | |
| Feels more personal and unscripted. | |
| I love it. | |
| Stay Safe helped me find you, and I'm here to say. | |
| Stay Safe is going to be on the show. | |
| Stay Safe is a Twitch streamer. | |
| He plays World of Warcraft. | |
| And he's cool. | |
| We're going to have him on the show. | |
| Show with Destiny was great. | |
| Much more interesting hearing intelligible counterpoints rather than bimbos getting owned. | |
| That's too easy. | |
| We're going to try to get Destiny back on the show. | |
| Nick, can you close those windows up there all the way and lock them? | |
| Brian, you have got to take a breath, dude. | |
| I can tell you've been really stressed these past few episodes. | |
| People are pretty understanding. | |
| Don't lose the love for what you do. | |
| Pray is for you, dude. | |
| Yeah, man. | |
| It was just pretty unfortunate what happened with the show. | |
| So I get into the studio. | |
| I get in like 4.30. | |
| Keep in mind, we go live at 7. | |
| And the black screens on the computer, I just spent $5,000 brand new computer, and it's been working fine. | |
| And then we just get black screens, and we're like trying to do it. | |
| So basically, what I think the issue is, I basically have to reset, do a factory reset on the computer. | |
| And that means it's going to take me like hours to get all the settings back. | |
| And it's just like so fucking unfortunate. | |
| But like, we tried to do everything, and I'm pretty sure I have to do a factory reset. | |
| So like I lose all my OBS settings, like I have to redo everything. | |
| So anyways, whatever. | |
| Yeah, it's been pretty stressful. | |
| And then we had the audio issues. | |
| And then the replacement computer, because I have a previous computer we were using, I keep it in the studio, had to swap everything and then get shit. | |
| I was like, this was the most technical issues we've ever had. | |
| And I was a stress case. | |
| And I feel really bad, especially because Pearl came all this way. | |
| And I feel like the show was kind of like lackluster. | |
| And especially coming off the back of that killer stream with Destiny, like the viewership on tonight's show was kind of like people were like leaving and like the audio was scuffed. | |
| They're like abandoning the streams. | |
| It's like, sucks, man. | |
| But it is what it is. | |
| Blessing told me to say fuck you to Microsoft and get on Apple. | |
| Yep. | |
| Yep. | |
| I was really mad at him for making me buy all these Apple computers, but I'm like, you know what? | |
| It's worth it. | |
| I'm not, I forget I ever said anything. | |
| I ever said anything. | |
| You guys have a multi cam or multi-computer setup? | |
| Well, we have, I mean, we have like a whole, yeah. | |
| Yeah, you guys have a really good production. | |
| Blessing, you do everything? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Like, is it cameras? | |
| He's a genius. | |
| Lights. | |
| He's actually a genius. | |
| Yeah, your guys' production value production quality is insane. | |
| That was really good. | |
| That was all I invested in. | |
| Like, I was, I just went all in. | |
| Thank you to Pearl's credit card. | |
| What's that? | |
| Thank you to Pearl's Credit Card. | |
| Oh, there you go. | |
| I know. | |
| I just, I have a joke with him because I'm like, I'm not really a big spender. | |
| So I'm like, I think he uses my credit card more than I do. | |
| You guys do live, though, right? | |
| Like, the quality is really good on the lives. | |
| Yeah, we last in 4K. | |
| 4K? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Okay. | |
| Yeah, we're at 1080, but I think I'm going to be able to upgrade here to 4K soon. | |
| So Blessing, you do lights, camera, like video, everything? | |
| Everything, yeah. | |
| So you have to go hardway, hardware and all software stuff. | |
| ODS is going to crush me. | |
| Yeah, I think we spent over $100,000 on equipment. | |
| Like we really, we really went. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I don't know. | |
| I just, I'm a woman, so we just spend things. | |
| I mean, it's worth it, though, especially, I mean, if you're making good money, like, it's worth it to have good, good equipment. | |
| I skimped out on the beginning. | |
| I had like a lackluster PC. | |
| We did fucking 60 plus shows with the shit PC. | |
| And I'm like, why didn't I just get a better PC? | |
| But you want to read this one? | |
| All right, Brian. | |
| Thoughts in a tribe called Quest Go to 90s rap. | |
| Honestly, I'd have to hear one of their songs because the name doesn't do anything for me. | |
| But like, credit to you, Pearl and Blessing. | |
| Like, you guys have really good production quality. | |
| Like, the lighting, the cameras, it's really good. | |
| So. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Yeah, man. | |
| I appreciate it. | |
| Can I poach you? | |
| Yeah, talk to Pearl. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| I'm kidding. | |
| But are you, so confirm or deny though, are you, because I remember you saying you were going to move to Chicago, but is that kind of not? | |
| That's what I'm leaning to. | |
| I think that's what I'm leaning towards, but I'm open. | |
| So I'm looking. | |
| My main city is Santa Barbara. | |
| California. | |
| No, I don't see myself coming to California. | |
| It'd be great for your, well, because you said you want to be in a conservative state, right? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But is that for like personal reasons? | |
| Because for like business reasons, the type of people that you can come be on your show, I think you'll get a better group of people in California. | |
| I have no doubt, but it's more, I just want to be closer to my family. | |
| When you're like a five-hour flight away, it's just like, it kind of defeats the whole purpose. | |
| So, I mean, I want to be in either Miami or Orlando, hypothetically, because my parents have a house there. | |
| And then Nashville, just because there's a lot of, I just like that city. | |
| And it's not, it's like an hour flight from Chicago. | |
| Oh, so Chicago's no-go? | |
| No, maybe. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I mean, I feel like you'll probably do okay getting people in Chicago because Chicago's pretty liberal, I think. | |
| So yeah, yeah. | |
| Yeah. | |
| All right. | |
| Go ahead, Maddie. | |
| Love the stream. | |
| It really helped me come into touch with who I am realistically, helping me accept my heterosexuality and speak more openly without feeling judged. | |
| I live in a heavy, progressive area. | |
| Hey, thank you for the Canadian 11. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Glad that you liked the stream. | |
| Pearl, did you get in contact with Erin, is it Pizay? | |
| Pizzet during your MRI? | |
| She's like an MRA. | |
| She's a slash court system research. | |
| She lives in London. | |
| Have you heard of her? | |
| Yeah, I think I tried. | |
| She opened the first male domestic abuse shelter or something like that. | |
| I think I tried. | |
| I just never heard back. | |
| So read the rest. | |
| All right, she lives in London, old school feminist who quickly became an MRA person by getting kicked out of her own org. | |
| Hard pill, thank you for the membership. | |
| Fave comedy movie. | |
| I love Wedding Crashers. | |
| Tropic Thunder is pretty funny. | |
| Fuck. | |
| American Pie is like my guilty pleasure. | |
| I think Wedding Crashers is definitely like my go-to. | |
| Oh, and not another teen movie. | |
| Hmm. | |
| You guys don't anything? | |
| I like the hangover, just go with it with Adam Sandler. | |
| Any Adam Sandler movies, great. | |
| I don't watch movies ever. | |
| Maybe, like, literally never. | |
| Like, people do movie references all the time. | |
| I never know them. | |
| But I think Patch Adams, that's like an old movie. | |
| I liked that when I was a kid. | |
| I saw Ted recently. | |
| I liked it. | |
| Oh my god, I just watched that like yesterday. | |
| On Netflix. | |
| I liked it. | |
| It was funny. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Search Moon on YouTube. | |
| Bring back the twins. | |
| Great drama. | |
| Who's the twins? | |
| Oh, yeah, I invited her back on. | |
| Actually, one of the twins. | |
| There were two twins on with Chase. | |
| And one of them, we like talked about Tate when they were on. | |
| One of them sent me a message upon his arrest. | |
| Like, it was like a story of his arrest. | |
| Like, haha, you like Tate? | |
| Fuck you. | |
| Look at him. | |
| He just got arrested. | |
| And when he got released, I sent her the tweet of him like walking back and forth with his shirt off. | |
| So hopefully. | |
| She didn't respond. | |
| She didn't respond. | |
| So take the L. Twin. | |
| Asmund Gold. | |
| I mean, he's reacted to a couple of our videos. | |
| I invited him on the show, but I don't think he leaves Texas. | |
| Will you ever do a collab with Fresh and Fit? | |
| Hashtag Robert Lewandowski. | |
| I mean, so I credited Fresh and Fit as kind of like the inspiration for starting the show. | |
| I mentioned in the first few videos, I've always shouted them out. | |
| I don't have any issues with them, but I think, and I'd be super down to collab with them, either me go there or them come on the show. | |
| I think, and look, correct me if I'm wrong. | |
| I think Myron has an issue with that we're like copying or competition. | |
| I don't really want to like talk about it, get into the details. | |
| I'd be more than happy to collaborate with them, but I'm getting the sense that he's probably not down to collab. | |
| And hey, that's fine, whatever he doesn't. | |
| Like, that's fine. | |
| But I'm down. | |
| If he's down, let's fucking run it. | |
| I think it'd be, I don't think it's competition. | |
| Like, Pearl, I don't think we're competitors. | |
| I don't think I'm competing with Fresh and Fit. | |
| First off, I don't stream on the same days that they stream. | |
| I do Sunday, Tuesday. | |
| They're Monday, Wednesday, Friday with their dating talk. | |
| Like, it's not like, there's not like a market share where like if someone tunes into my live stream, which by the way, I don't stream on the same days that they stream, people aren't going to go watch their thing. | |
| Same with you, Pearl. | |
| Like, I think that me being in this, you being in this, you're bringing more eyeballs to this space. | |
| I'm bringing more eyeballs to this space. | |
| So, and we're, at an individual level, we're building our audiences. | |
| And then if we're collaborating with each other, then it's like a really good opportunity to share, like share our audiences. | |
| And so that's how I view it, too. | |
| But like, you're going to have trouble with that. | |
| Like, just around people just get jealous. | |
| It just, it is what it is. | |
| Yeah. | |
| It's unfortunate because I feel like we're already kind of on the back foot in the sense that we're talking about some controversial topics that are maybe not so popular. | |
| And I think that we should all be on the same team. | |
| I agree. | |
| There's like too much infighting. | |
| I know. | |
| I wish there wasn't so much infighting, to be honest. | |
| Like, I just don't think it's like a good look for the space overall. | |
| It's not. | |
| And yeah, so. | |
| I should have hope one day we have a Red Cool Festival with everyone. | |
| Yeah, I think it'd be cool to like bring everyone on a panel that like does these shows. | |
| I think that would be cool. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Madison's after show. | |
| While Brian closes out the show, Madison. | |
| We should do this. | |
| Oh, that'd be good. | |
| Yeah, and it's BS that they set up the show like they did for that sound bite. | |
| They knew what they were doing. | |
| Oh, you're talking about Mel with the endure. | |
| Yeah, that was. | |
| Shout out to Pearl. | |
| Crazy how these other creators. | |
| Turn them up, guys. | |
| Turn them up. | |
| Crazy how these other creators are coming at your neck. | |
| Been watching you for a while and you've been open and honest from jump. | |
| Thanks, Bob. | |
| WoW is easily the best game ever made. | |
| And good thing you quit. | |
| It became not fun after Wrath, but look up Moon on YouTube, 950k subs. | |
| Yeah, I only played during, like, I played Vanilla, so back in, like, 2006, I think, and then I played a bit when Classic came out for a couple, like, I don't know, nine months before AQ came out. | |
| He isn't Peterson or Shapiro, but Nick Freitas. | |
| I'm assuming he's talking about Fuentes. | |
| Fuentes is pretty dang close. | |
| You've probably seen his Instagram videos would be great on the show. | |
| A little controversial, maybe? | |
| I don't know. | |
| Pearl, your thoughts on Brittany Venti going after you? | |
| Oh, my thoughts. | |
| I mean, they never attack the argument. | |
| Like, they just, like, they attack me personally, and they never attack, like, what I say. | |
| So it's like, how do you, how do you, like, what am I going to say to someone that's attacking me personally instead of the ideas that we talk about? | |
| So. | |
| Guys, and also, I never call anyone a whale individually. | |
| I say the group. | |
| All right. | |
| All right. | |
| So let's, this is a misconception. | |
| All right. | |
| I say the whales. | |
| The only time I've called someone individually a whale was a lady who attacked me. | |
| And I think that was deserved. | |
| Thank you. | |
| I'm going to get up if you can. | |
| Guys, 20 and up, just so we can wrap up. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Knowles was actually how I got introduced to this show. | |
| As much OF girls can be insufferable to watch, it's fascinating and frightening to see both extremes on here. | |
| DW versus OF, Fatherless 304s. | |
| I'm pretty sure Myron called me the F word, by the way. | |
| Oh, that video? | |
| Well, you showed us. | |
| I didn't think they actually had issues with you guys, like from what? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I don't think they actually do. | |
| Well, he was like, he was saying something about it was during his Steven Crowder album. | |
| There's something during this, like, this Steven Crowder reaction stream, and he, like, talks about the copycat, and then he called me a F word. | |
| Call me? | |
| Wait, did I say that? | |
| Did I say the F-word? | |
| Yeah, you said the F-word. | |
| Yeah, he called me an F-word. | |
| Or, well, he said copycat F-words. | |
| I'm like, who else? | |
| Who else is he talking about? | |
| Oh. | |
| Oh, maybe. | |
| I don't know. | |
| We're doing only 20 and up, right? | |
| Just do the ones that came in and just try to do them. | |
| There's a lot of them. | |
| I gotta go back up. | |
| One second to everyone. | |
| Yeah, I like scrolls. | |
| Yeah, just start cleaning up and getting everything right now. | |
| All right. | |
| After party needs. | |
| After party needs to be a new permanent thing. | |
| Chase needs to be permanent co-host. | |
| This after party has been better than the actual stream. | |
| Again, make Chase permanent. | |
| Does Madison have a big... | |
| Oh, I'm not answering that. | |
| Why would you say that, Randy? | |
| Jeez. | |
| The first full stream I watched, and there's an after show. | |
| W's for sure. | |
| Here's some extra cash to buy some neck pads for your first date with your new co-host. | |
| After hours with prime guests, like Pearl is sick. | |
| Would love to talk more guests. | |
| Talk to more guests rather than listen. | |
| Hoba goblin. | |
| Are the only girls that want to come on OF girls lame because it just promotes their brand more, but it seems like either there aren't any quality women out there or they're like unicorns. | |
| Is that true, Brian? | |
| Are the only girls that like want to come on usually just OF girls? | |
| Yeah, it's going to be pretty hard to get normal girls. | |
| Said, yeah, it's like that. | |
| Yeah, that's the other thing. | |
| Like, but they'll accuse you of that no matter what. | |
| Like, we literally, it's the most random people. | |
| And then they'll say, oh, you don't bring on like quality women. | |
| But it's like, they can't even name what a quality woman is. | |
| So it's like, okay, who do you want us to get? | |
| They can never name it. | |
| All right. | |
| Save the low lighting for the after show. | |
| Also, if you bring Destiny back, have Knowles or someone capable of debating him on. | |
| Me and my buddy would like to be on the podcast sometime, Brixon. | |
| Promised we wouldn't be weird like the glasses girl when you had Destiny on. | |
| Doesn't like it in Streamlabs. | |
| Says use alternative payment method. | |
| Maybe it's me. | |
| Also thinking Ape is a G. Brian, just get a technician that runs it all for you. | |
| Sometimes it hurts the show when you have to leave to fix stuff and host. | |
| Yeah, I need to change things up. | |
| You saw H3 and Moist Critical has been talking about you. | |
| I hate that they only pick out the few clips where the guys fumble an argument or out of context. | |
| Yeah, I mean they're talking about the MLD injur thing and like yeah it's just I got asked to go I got asked to go on there H3. | |
| Should I go guys? | |
| One in the chat if I should go. | |
| I mean it's gonna be a pretty they're gonna be super friendly and excited to hang out with me. | |
| I think it's gonna be a very good faith productive conversation. | |
| Super good faith. | |
| One in the chat. | |
| One in the chat if I should go. | |
| They don't want seem to want it in person though only virtual. | |
| I was like am I gonna get muted? | |
| They better not mute me. | |
| All right, you already read my Streamlabs comment. | |
| Just a lot of chats in between. | |
| Also, we all love the podcast. | |
| 20 and up, guys. | |
| 20 and up. | |
| Detect difficulties. | |
| Life happens. | |
| Don't sweat it. | |
| Thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Or Selena. | |
| Oh. | |
| Selena Gornes. | |
| That might not be I. Bye, Felicia says, Adam Sandler. | |
| Stop looking at me, Swan. | |
| What movie? | |
| Billy, Matt. | |
| I don't know. | |
| Brian, I agree with Pearl. | |
| Get Apple products. | |
| I really enjoy your show, and Pearls are Pearls as well. | |
| What are your plans this year to grow your channels? | |
| You guys do great work. | |
| I mean, I've been using Microsoft for two decades. | |
| I can't. | |
| It's like, I wouldn't know how to do it. | |
| That's what I said. | |
| It's like cheating. | |
| That's what I said. | |
| I just can't make the switch. | |
| Sorry, guys. | |
| I think we said 10 and up and then 20 and up. | |
| Are we doing the 10 and up? | |
| Yeah, we'll do these. | |
| All right. | |
| Myron has said multiple times that they have no issues with you. | |
| He gets asked all the time on their super chats. | |
| Is this going to get clipped? | |
| The beef is squashed. | |
| No, like I said, I mean, I don't have any issue with Fresh and Fit. | |
| I've credited them plenty of times. | |
| And, oh, shit, I don't really, I'm so busy, so I haven't been able to watch their show in a really long time. | |
| I've got nothing but love for Fresh and Fit. | |
| I'd be down to go on their show. | |
| I'd more than happy to have them come on mine. | |
| I just, I remember there was a moment, and maybe he was just like saying it in the heat of the moment. | |
| There was a moment where he said something like, he was saying, like, we're not, fuck. | |
| You'd have to pull it up, but it was during the Steven Crowder breakdown of Steven Crowder's divorce. | |
| And there's just a moment where he's like, fuck these copycat motherfuckers. | |
| They're F-words. | |
| And I don't know if he's talking about me. | |
| That's the way I took it. | |
| He might not have been talking about me, but who knows? | |
| But look, it takes a lot to get me upset with somebody. | |
| So, like I said, got nothing but love for them. | |
| If they want to come be on our show, cool. | |
| I actually DM'd him recently. | |
| I was like, hey, I might be going to Florida. | |
| Let me know if you'd want me to come on your show. | |
| All right. | |
| No one speaks about how speaking about sexuality is still taboo. | |
| It is still masked by masking sex cheap like never before. | |
| It's still taboo to speak about topics such as healthy and sacred sexuality. | |
| Do you believe in love? | |
| Kway Lewis and the news. | |
| Questions for everyone. | |
| Do you still have hope for finding love? | |
| Would you consider yourselves romantic? | |
| What is the most romantic thing you've done for someone? | |
| That's a lot of questions. | |
| We'll do one. | |
| Hope for finding love? | |
| Yes. | |
| Oh, that's good to hear. | |
| Bro, L was trying to get with Nick, though. | |
| What the fuck? | |
| I know. | |
| She was giving him flirty eyes. | |
| Yeah. | |
| I look at people because I was doing the thing. | |
| And every time I look at her, because she'd be talking, she'd like look at me. | |
| And I'd be like, yeah. | |
| What's the most romantic thing you've ever done for someone? | |
| One time, I bought a chick McDonald's. | |
| Oh, that's so nice. | |
| I'm a romantic. | |
| What do I say? | |
| What about your boyfriend? | |
| Oh, go ahead, bro. | |
| I'm at a homeless guy. | |
| I'm just kidding. | |
| Hold up. | |
| Most romantic thing I've done. | |
| When my um my my ex-boyfriend had like a really big like financial milestone, so like I basically I got him like his first like nice piece of jewelry, I guess. | |
| And like got him like a whole like his favorite like food was cooked and like that sort of thing. | |
| Good times. | |
| Pearl, are conservative women less likely to date or marry outside their race than liberal women? | |
| I don't know. | |
| I've never thought about that question. | |
| I honestly have no idea. | |
| Shout out Madison. | |
| Always provides the best background entertainment. | |
| Buy her a bubble tea as bonus for coming onto the show. | |
| And, yeah, by the way, just clarification. | |
| Oh, shit. | |
| So, okay, just clarification. | |
| Myron did not mention us by name, but he was saying something about you copycat efforts. | |
| I don't know if it's directed at me. | |
| It could have been whatever. | |
| Go ahead, Pearl. | |
| Oh, I think that's like a different podcast we're talking about in Miami. | |
| I thought so. | |
| Oh, the unplugged guys? | |
| That was my guess, but I don't know. | |
| But I'm thinking, like, okay, those guys, it doesn't matter. | |
| It doesn't matter. | |
| I'm probably shooting myself in the foot by talking about this, but I'm not. | |
| Look, I try to avoid. | |
| We're pro. | |
| They're a great podcast. | |
| Yeah, yeah, yeah. | |
| I got it. | |
| Great, great podcast. | |
| Got nothing but love, you know. | |
| Nothing but love. | |
| Did you read this one? | |
| Yes. | |
| Oh, okay. | |
| I just read it. | |
| Factory Reset is not the answer. | |
| If some screens... | |
| Four more. | |
| Oh, sorry. | |
| Okay. | |
| If some screens are off, you should test each display port directly and or change out the cables. | |
| Are you using multiple graphics cards? | |
| So, anonymous, we had a couple different, different technical difficulties. | |
| So factory reset is for the computer that was not turning on. | |
| So, yeah, thank you for the Canadian 30, man. | |
| Appreciate it. | |
| Outside of the headliner guests, in parentheses, Pearl, which of tonight's guests do you think made the best guess and why? | |
| What was that girl's name in the corner? | |
| Byronique. | |
| Byronique was. | |
| Oh, she was funny. | |
| She was starving. | |
| She was better than me, honestly. | |
| That's my number one draft. | |
| Give her MVP. | |
| She's great. | |
| She should be my hype, man. | |
| All right, Bob says, okay, I've got to be up at 6 a.m., but Pearl was here, so I stayed. | |
| Love you guys. | |
| Safe travels, Pearl. | |
| New Chase is Cuter. | |
| Word. | |
| Selena says, yes, Brian, I'm a man. | |
| The name is really misleading. | |
| Yep. | |
| It is super misleading. | |
| DeafMonkey, thank you, man. | |
| Appreciate it for the membership. | |
| All right, this is our last one. | |
| If you guys want, get your last ones in. | |
| We're going to actually wrap. | |
| All right. | |
| Evan says, we could see how awkward Nick was ending. | |
| Nick was acting in the window reflection with the L-O-F. | |
| I've seen the reflection. | |
| That's so funny. | |
| That's funny. | |
| When did courtship become simping? | |
| when the women were worth courting yeah when did courtship become i think it's basically just like women no longer reward those sort of chivalrous gestures like getting a girl flowers like a lot of girls will probably like i think and i think you've mentioned this pearl A lot of girls would like laugh at that if a guy bought them flowers. | |
| What? | |
| Yeah. | |
| Not laugh to their face, but like with their girlfriends afterwards. | |
| I mean, what is simping? | |
| It's just like doing something for someone that essentially doesn't deserve it. | |
| So I just think it's like when the quality of women went down so much that like they don't really deserve chivalrous treatment. | |
| Yeah, I mean, this is a point I've made is like me personally, I don't like to pay for first dates with women who like, well, basically what I've said is I don't like to pay on the first date if a girl. | |
| Sorry, guys, I'm tired. | |
| I'm losing my mind here. | |
| A lot of times you have to assume going in, especially here in California, that the girl is seeing multiple other guys. | |
| So like, I don't want to adhere to my traditional gender roles of paying for the first date when like it very well could be the case that she like hooked up with a guy yesterday. | |
| I would feel like a sucker if I did the whole like, oh, pay for the date, be a gentleman. | |
| And then like she hooked up with a guy earlier on in the day, the night before. | |
| And it's just, so for me, it's like, I don't know, you don't adhere to traditional gender roles with women who are not traditional. | |
| So, okay, I think. | |
| Okay, then guys, this might be our last one. | |
| You should make a viral complaint video like those girls in the gym on how the hobgoblin made Nick feel numerous times after he made it clear he was taken and uncomfortable. | |
| Everyone laughed at his expense. | |
| What if it was Washer? | |
| Dude, me too? | |
| Are you going to Me Too L? | |
| Hello? | |
| Balake's Fish Room. | |
| Thank you for becoming a member. | |
| Okay, I'm going to wrap up, guys. | |
| Thank you for tuning in tonight. | |
| You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're, oh, this camera, okay. | |
| i think that's uh that's it thank you guys for dude i'm surprised by how many people stuck around for the after-hours There's still like 5,500 people. | |
| So I appreciate it, guys. | |
| Oh, it's still like... | |
| For age three. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Fine, H3. | |
| I'll come. | |
| I'm excited for our nice convo where we get along. | |
| Yo, Tyler, thank you for the membership here. | |
| Read this one real quick. | |
| All right, when are we getting Hensley back on this? | |
| She seems to be one of the few intelligent leftists I've ever seen on this. | |
| I don't think Hensley's coming back. | |
| I invited her back on a couple times and she flaked a couple times and then never bothered to reschedule. | |
| So she got dragged because of her like viral toxic clips. | |
| So I don't think she wants to come back on. | |
| Okay, guys, again, I don't know how to end the fucking stream. | |
| So because my fucking computer's broken. | |
| See you all on Tuesday. | |
| I think I'll just say goodnight. | |
| Yeah, I'm just going to click end stream here. | |
| All right, good night, guys. | |
| I don't know if this is going to stop it, but okay. | |
| Oh, my God. | |
| We were talking for like an hour, I think. | |
| I shouldn't have taken it. | |
| That was kind of stupid on another video. |