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Feb. 21, 2023 - Whatever Podcast

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Dating Talk #56

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	Welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California.
	Every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
	I'm joined by my co-host Kiki.
	She's a bit shy.
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	Eric, if you can just pull it up real quick.
	Oh, it got all messed up.
	Yeah.
	Okay, no worries.
	You think you'll be able to get it or is it just bugging out?
	Yeah, just as vision responsive.
	Just try to reload it.
	Yeah, so, oh, let's see.
	Last thing here.
	Actually, no, you know what?
	That is the last thing you'll have to do without seeing our Instagram for the 50th time.
	Sorry, guys.
	Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
	So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
	Go ahead.
	And before you start, just move your microphone over a little bit.
	Go ahead.
	Hi, I'm Liz Myers.
	I'm 24 and I own a car wrapping company.
	I'm Anai.
	I'm 21.
	I go to SBCC and I'm a nanny.
	I think we need another seat booster for you.
	Actually, you know what?
	Tilt the microphone.
	Yeah, tilt the microphone down.
	There you go.
	Perfect.
	My name is Brianna.
	I'm 18 years old and I go to UCSB.
	My name is Kaylin.
	I'm 19 years old and I also go to UCSB.
	My name is Faith.
	I'm 21 and recently unemployed.
	My name is Daisy.
	I'm 26 and I'm an associate banker.
	Yo, my name is Thomas.
	I'm a singer and rapper, Captain Bama Lamb.
	I also go to school for business and marketing.
	I'm studying to get my personal certification and nutrition to certification.
	And my mission for a living is to help people become a little bit better than they were yesterday.
	Let's go.
	Thank you for having me on.
	Well, thanks everyone for coming.
	You said you're a rapper.
	All right, let's hear it.
	Okay.
	Let's hear it.
	We got to hear it.
	Captain Bama Lamb riding on the wave again.
	I'm rowing gently down the creek of this life I'm living flowing.
	Everybody got their rise on me.
	They wonder what I'm doing.
	Don't have time to stop them.
	I'm a owner.
	Don't have time to show them.
	I'm the man with the plan.
	No, I can.
	That's my slogan.
	Never rank and say I can.
	I'm on a random body to go.
	And everything you thought you knew about life erased it.
	Just forget it.
	It is time to change our lives and start a new beginning.
	Life ain't about that new watch, Stack of Cash or Stolen Benzies.
	It's about family, love, happiness, couple kids.
	Got to help them, not just watch them when they're growing up.
	Show them what life is about.
	Being kind and how to love.
	They will be what's left of you when it's time to rise above.
	Know your role so they don't live their whole life feeling stuck.
	Cool.
	I was just like, What's that term in the music industry?
	AR?
	Or no, it's something in repertoire.
	It's like people that are scouting for musicians.
	I forgot the fucking name.
	And then you.
	I'm not that smart.
	Okay.
	So we're going to go around the table.
	Actually, before we do that, let's see here.
	Yeah, before, no, we'll go around the table on this.
	So, current relationship status, longest relationship.
	And yeah.
	Also, just I need you to move your microphone that way because the microphone's like blocking your face.
	There we go.
	Oh, yeah, I'm 27, by the way.
	I forgot to say that.
	Cool.
	The rap took over?
	Yeah, music.
	Oh, I'm in a relationship.
	And it's the longest relationship I've been in, about four years.
	Right now, I'm in about a two and a half one.
	I'm single.
	Longest relationship I was in was a year, I believe.
	I'm not single.
	I'm dating somebody.
	And I think this is the longest relationship I've been in, almost a year in April.
	So is it a high school relationship?
	Yes.
	Because you're a freshman in college, correct?
	By the way, did you two say what you're studying?
	I'm a sociology major.
	Social.
	I'm also sociology.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So, okay, one year.
	So you met him in high school?
	Yes.
	Is it a long-distance relationship?
	Right now, yes.
	Where is he?
	He's back home.
	Where's that?
	In San Bernardino.
	Okay, it's not too far.
	That's like a medium-distance relationship.
	Yeah, medium-distance.
	Two hours.
	Two hours.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I'm currently single.
	The longest relationship I've been in has been nine months.
	Okay.
	I'm married, and the longest relationship I've been in was like three and a half-ish years.
	It was off and on, so it's hard to count.
	How long have you been married?
	Six months.
	Okay.
	How long were you dating him before you got married?
	Eight months.
	So total time together is like about a year and a half-ish.
	Okay.
	I am in a relationship, and my longest relationship was six years.
	And the relationship I'm in now, it's been like a year and a half.
	Dawns.
	I'm single, and the longest relationship that I've been in is a year and a half.
	Okay, rock and roll.
	Kayla, by the way.
	Oh, you're Kayla.
	Kaylin.
	Kaylin.
	Yeah.
	Kaylin.
	All right, I'm going to butcher all your names, I'm sure, by the end of the night.
	I looked at some of your guys' Instagrams, and Kaylin, I noticed you have a lizard.
	I do, yeah.
	What's his or her name?
	Her name is Cleo.
	I kind of pegged you as, well, not in that way.
	I pegged you as like, as a reptile chick.
	Oh, yeah.
	Like, you know how there's snake people, and there's like dog people and cat people.
	She's a reptile chick.
	Yeah, definitely.
	I get that impression from you.
	I stay on Cleo for sure.
	I love her.
	Like reptile, like, what is it, a monitor lizard or something?
	She's a bearded dragon.
	A bearded dragon.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I feel like lizard people are cool, but watch out for snake people.
	No.
	Snake people are kind of weird.
	Yeah.
	I love snakes.
	Yeah.
	You want to hear a sad story about a lizard?
	I don't know.
	Do I?
	No.
	No.
	All right.
	Okay, cool.
	So I want to start this show off with an easy question, easy question here.
	So would you guys date?
	Let's say, like, you, who, first off, who here is on a, has been or is on a dating app?
	Show of hands.
	Has been.
	Has been.
	Has been at some point.
	Okay.
	Let's say you match with a guy on a dating app, really attractive, right?
	You're into him.
	You meet up with him on the date, and he's wearing, hold on.
	He's wearing a fanny pack.
	Okay.
	Like around his waist.
	Is it a wrap?
	Is it done?
	We'll start with you.
	How would you explain this?
	It's kind of like a trans...
	Not translucent, it's like...
	Pollographic?
	Iridescent.
	Iridescent.
	There's like a shimmer to it.
	Pink.
	So your dude's wearing this.
	It depends if it's like...
	Is it the wrap?
	It depends if it's a joke or not.
	Like, if I would ask him to be like, what's up with the fanny pack?
	It depends on his answer.
	Okay.
	I would give it.
	I would go on the day.
	I wouldn't just be like, no and screw him over, but I would definitely ask what it's about.
	Would you make him put it away?
	Like, he has to stop.
	I mean, if he's got shit to hold, then keep it.
	Okay, what about you?
	I mean, I'm not a fan of the fanny pack, I guess.
	But I don't know.
	I feel like I really don't know.
	Like, it depends, too, like, what is he doing with that?
	What does he have in there?
	What kind of things does he need to put in there?
	Let me up the ante a little bit.
	Oh, absolutely.
	What about this one?
	No.
	No.
	Done deal?
	Yeah.
	Okay, we'll continue on.
	Go ahead.
	What about you?
	I agree.
	I wouldn't, like, completely just, like, like, let him go, you know, but I would be very curious for sure.
	By curious, do you mean judgmental?
	Yeah, I guess.
	100% judgmental.
	Like, why?
	Why?
	It's a first date.
	Take it off.
	Save it.
	Hide everything until like the third date, maybe.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I agree with what she said.
	I don't think I'd be totally judgmental, but I think I would definitely have like a different perspective on him after I saw it.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	If he was meaning it as like a joke, then I'd be like, fine, whatever.
	No, he, that shit's serious.
	It's convenient storage.
	Let's be friends.
	I just don't know.
	Sorry, it's a wrap.
	Let's say you're married, right?
	You have a husband.
	You said six months.
	Your husband just starts wearing a pink floral fanny pack.
	How many fanny packs?
	I know.
	I know.
	I'm really wondering how many fanny packs don't have to be.
	It's because money did you spend on them?
	I just had them.
	Nah, he girls love them.
	Do you take those on your first day?
	Are we talking about you?
	Are you the man that we're talking about?
	Is the fanny pack the woman with us right now?
	Listen, sometimes you need a couple extra pockets.
	Women are allowed to have purses.
	Why can't a man have a purse?
	It's a man's son.
	Her pockets are so big.
	Exactly.
	So your husband, your husband, just starts wearing pink flanny packs.
	I would tell him to take them off and hide them or throw them away.
	Would you divorce your husband?
	I would say I would not divorce my husband for that.
	That's stupid.
	But it's a conversation.
	But it's a conversation I would definitely be having.
	I'd be like, what's up with the fanny pack?
	And if it's like, I don't know, I just, it's a conversation, and thankfully the man respects me that he would listen to my opinion.
	Okay.
	I wouldn't completely blow him off.
	Same thing.
	Just wonder why he's using it.
	But if it's something he starts doing, maybe, I don't know, not a pink one.
	A black one, maybe?
	Okay.
	As long as it matches your outfit.
	It has to look good.
	Thomas, if you're...
	Okay.
	Lay it on me.
	Well, I was going to...
	You're straight, so I don't suspect you'd be dating a man who wears fanny pack.
	That's...
	Absolutely not.
	That's a deal-breaker for me.
	Last one.
	Last one.
	Here, hide this, Eric.
	Would you date a guy who had like a satchel?
	You know, a satchel?
	He wore a satchel.
	I like the satchel.
	Like jackblack.
	I like it.
	Satchel?
	Yeah.
	Satchel.
	Yeah.
	Shows he's maybe he got books in there or something.
	What if he has a firearm in there?
	Oh, absolutely not.
	for protection um he also has some what No, I think it would scare me if he has a gun randomly on him.
	Well, like for protection.
	You know?
	Is this still?
	Is this still the question of like a first date and he has a gun?
	Well, he's.
	Or he just like.
	He's a firearms instructor.
	Oh, I like it.
	Keep pocket working.
	Yeah, then.
	Forget the firearm part.
	Just satchel.
	I like the satchel.
	Satchel's cool.
	I like the satchel.
	It's not a little questionable.
	I think they just like, it might seem like they're more smart or like educated with the satchel.
	Have you seen Tangled?
	Oh, you are so right.
	Yes, Flynn Ryder with a satchel.
	Instead of a gunny, like crying.
	Who is Flynn?
	Flynn Ryder.
	Flynn Ryder from Tangled.
	I have no idea.
	Who that is.
	Okay, anyway, someone pull up a picture.
	But satchel's not a big deal for me.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Satchel's good.
	All right, she's down with the satchel.
	Okay.
	Whatever he wants in there, too.
	That's good.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	All right.
	So we only have two, I think two single people here.
	Because relationship, married, dating a guy, relationship.
	Is it a relationship?
	Oh, yeah.
	I thought it was funny how you're like getting a guy.
	I don't know if you, did you say it's a relationship?
	Yeah, it is.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	Got it.
	Just wanted to double check on that.
	All right, cool.
	Eric, can you actually, let's just get these super chats really quick.
	Hold on.
	By the way, guys, all super chats, by the way, that's why everyone turns in to the stream week after week to know women's opinions on men wearing fanny packs and satchels.
	All right.
	So all super chats will be, all super chats, $20 and up, will be read.
	All super chats will be displayed in stream over like 50 and up triggers TTS.
	All right.
	So we'll start with this one really quick.
	Ask the ladies to rate their looks on the scale of 1 to 10.
	We'll go around the table on this.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know, like a 7.
	Okay.
	A 10.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I would say like a 7.5.
	I also think 7.5.
	I don't know.
	A 6.5.
	Okay.
	I think a solid 6.
	Should we rate ourselves?
	Yeah, go ahead.
	We'll do it.
	What do you rate yourself?
	I'm an 8.
	All right.
	I give myself 6, 6.9 on a good day.
	Okay.
	So you're a 10.
	Why are you a 10?
	Because I'm pretty.
	Look at her.
	She's definitely a 10.
	Well, you can be pretty.
	All of us here are 10s.
	Thank you.
	Bring that back up again.
	What?
	But you can be pretty without being a 10.
	Like, you could be a 7 and pretty.
	Why would I rate myself lower?
	I'm going to ask you that.
	Why would I do that to myself?
	Why would I think of myself lower?
	I have respect for myself.
	Truth.
	And I value myself.
	That whole thing.
	So honesty.
	I feel like rating yourself is kind of like, in my head, kind of bullshit.
	I feel like other people should be rating you.
	You can make yourself a 10 as long as you want, but in reality, it's results that get you what your rate is.
	So I don't know.
	I feel like it's opinionated.
	Yeah, people don't have to care, but still, rating yourself is not a reality.
	It's fantasy.
	So one of the reasons I give myself an 8 is because I don't necessarily think I'm necessarily ugly.
	I also don't think I'm kind of like useless as a person either.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So that would be like a zero.
	Someone ugly kind of doesn't do nothing.
	Just kind of like sits on their butt and plays video games all day.
	No disrespect to anybody out there.
	Well, we're talking just if we're talking just looks.
	I keep up with myself.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Take care of myself, skincare, all that stuff.
	As a 10.
	And Martin super chatted $50.
	Nanny misunderstood.
	It's one to ten on a beauty scale, not a delusion scale.
	Oof.
	Your response.
	I'm still a Tana.
	Sorry.
	Martin.
	Sorry about that.
	I'm giving myself a 10 and that bothers you.
	Well, I think, and I you said you respect yourself, but I mean, I respect myself too, and I rate myself a six.
	I feel like I'm not, you know, 10.
	I mean, what is a 10 anyway?
	Like, can we see an example of a 10?
	I definitely don't think I'm up there, but I respect myself and I, you know, accept myself, my flaws, and I feel confident in myself.
	Hold on.
	Dante Jackson super chatted $49.99.
	Bangs, stop the cap.
	You look like Tina from Bob's Perkins.
	Eric, you gotta fix that.
	You look like Tina from Bob Spurgers.
	Do you have a response?
	I don't think I look like Tina, but no, I'm still gonna root myself a 10.
	Dante Jackson, is this Dayvon Jackson's evil twin brother?
	Okay, so continue with your point you're saying about the 10.
	So a 10 would be considered perfect.
	Do you consider yourself perfect?
	I mean, of course.
	i mean i have my flaws of course but it's i think it's about confidence it's about having super chatted 50 dollars in reality when a man rates you honestly on your looks you call us insecure and get hurt none of you ladies are tens especially the delusional nanny if you are a 10 where is your vote contract you barely deserve an average guy Thanks.
	All right.
	Do you want to shoot shots back at cheeks?
	Beaten cheeks.
	Beaten cheeks.
	I don't care, to be honest.
	Can I speak for you?
	Go for it.
	I think that people thinking, like, if you're a 10, you're on Vogue, I think that's kind of dumb because not everyone who is on Vogue is absolutely gorgeous.
	It's just they're, you know, rich enough and famous enough to be on there.
	And I also think that like rating ourselves is kind of not beneficial because, I mean, I'm a Christian, so I think that we're made in God's image, and so therefore we are, he is perfect, and we are made in his image.
	It doesn't make us perfect, but we're still all beautiful in our own ways.
	That's all I got to say.
	Do you think that those models have flaws?
	You said.
	Of course I think they have flaws.
	Everyone in the world has flaws.
	We're not perfect.
	And you said they're not 10s.
	I wouldn't say, I mean, no, I wouldn't say they're 10s.
	If to be a 10, you have to be absolutely perfect, then I would say that no one can technically be a 10 because no one is perfect.
	We all have our flaws.
	Well, we're arguing semantics right now, but 10 is like approaching exceptionally attractive.
	Let's remove perfect from this conversation, but a 10 would be someone that is exceptionally attractive and either has or could have, say, a modeling contract.
	Can you help me understand why you said you're a 10?
	If you said that you had flaws?
	I mean, I already told you guys I'm going to rate myself a 10.
	I think it would be silly of me to rate myself anything lower because that's just it.
	Like, I don't know why you guys are so bothered by that.
	Like, just move on from it.
	I said I was a 10.
	I just want to say that.
	Well, we don't think you're a 10 then.
	I don't know.
	We're trying to understand kind of the thought process of rating yourself a 10.
	Yeah, and I'm telling you, I look in the mirror and I say, wow, I'm beautiful.
	I'm a 10.
	And I'm not going to have you guys tell me that I'm not.
	Like, I don't care what you guys think.
	Like, okay, I'm not a 10 in your guys' eyes.
	I'm not a 10 to the eyes of the people in the chat, but I'm not.
	Why would I let that affect me?
	But the sort of context of the question is, I suppose anyone could say or claim that they're a 10.
	Anyone could claim they're a 10, but it's about reality.
	So you can't really dictate your own how other people view you.
	Whatever you think, that's in your head, but how other people view you is going to be very different.
	Because I can say that I'm a humble 10.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Shout out to the humble 10s in the chat.
	But the thing is, is that I know the market dictates my value as far as what I would rate myself.
	So the reason why I'm rating myself an 8 is because I've been told that by other females.
	And that's where I get that statistic from.
	Like, I'm not going to put you on the spot, but for me personally, if I was walking into a club or a bar with a person who in everybody's eyes is a 10 and I'm not a 10, they're going to get the most attention, not me.
	So if somebody prettier than you is with you in a public place, the results are they're going to get more guys hitting on them.
	The only one.
	That still isn't going to change my answer.
	It's about confidence.
	It's about feeling good in yourself, feeling good in your own body because this is the only body we have.
	So, yeah, but I think it's silly.
	I think the question is silly.
	And I don't know.
	I don't know what else you guys want me to say because I'm going to stay by that.
	So, you mentioned confidence, right?
	Wouldn't the true confident thing to be to just acknowledge that you're not a 10 and being humble?
	No, because you want me to say that, and I'm not going to.
	Well, you can say whatever you want.
	No, I'm not going to.
	I'm a 10.
	I'm not, I'm not.
	I think I'm a requesting.
	I'm not free to get over that.
	Like, I don't know why it hurts you.
	No, I'm not hurt.
	Not hurt.
	Well, you seem like a little.
	So I'm just trying to understand the thought process.
	Yeah, and I'm telling you, I want, I believe I'm beautiful.
	I think every girl here is beautiful.
	I think every girl here is a 10.
	Every girl here is a 10.
	Yes.
	Is every guy here a 10 too?
	Oh!
	I'm not going to answer that.
	But yes, I am for the woman.
	I am for the woman.
	And I think every girl here is the sisterhood.
	The sisterhood.
	Okay.
	So all the women here are 10s.
	Why are me and Thomas and Eric over there?
	Why aren't we 10s?
	How dare you?
	How dare you?
	How dare you not affirm my identity as a 10?
	I consider myself a 10.
	How dare you?
	How dare you?
	I'm a fan of Dank.
	Hold on, guys.
	Now you're super chatted $50.
	You can feel like a 10th, but it's about how you are seen and how attractive you are.
	Like I said the last time Bangs was on, if you are fat, you are less attractive than someone that isn't.
	Word?
	hey yo what's up i think that's i'm not that's bryce Thank you, Bryce.
	Appreciate it.
	Do you have a response to Dank Naked?
	I mean, the fat thing is shameful.
	I don't think that's true.
	I don't think having a little extra fat on your body makes you less attractive.
	There's lots of beautiful women out there.
	I think that's a little shallow to say.
	What's shallow about it?
	Saying that just because somebody is fat makes them less attractive.
	I don't know.
	Hold on.
	She just donated $50.
	Fanny Packers is real.
	Also, to define yourself as a 10th objectively doesn't change subjective reality.
	Humble 10.
	Yo, shout out, Gen Z. Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	By the way, guys, that came through as a Streamlabs donation.
	Once again, YouTube takes 30% cuts.
	So if you want more of your contribution, your patronage to go to whatever, check out the Streamlabs link in the description.
	We'll treat it just like a super chat in terms of the triggers, just more of your patronage goes towards us.
	So, okay, so you were saying that something about, oh, oh, Martin, thank you, oh, thanks.
	$50.
	Nanny, pay close attention.
	The more you share off-kilter opinions, the more people respond unfavorably to you.
	You don't really believe the bankrupt perspectives you espouse.
	It's a poor attempt at individuality.
	It's the lowest form of attention seeking.
	Response to Martin.
	No.
	Double M.
	Oh, did you have something?
	No, she's saying, like, Martin keeps talking.
	Martin keeps talking?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, he's very opinionated.
	Maybe he should be here.
	Maybe.
	All right, it's in the works.
	It's in the works.
	So continue with your point.
	You were saying that something about women who have a couple extra pounds on them.
	Continue.
	What was that?
	That's all I got to say.
	Is there like a limit to the weight that makes them less attractive?
	Or is it like any weight?
	there's still a 10.
	Well, I mean, like...
	Like, we live in a society where Lizzo is really overweight and people think that she's a 10.
	Would you rate her a 10?
	Yeah, I guess.
	Like, I think all women are a 10, to be honest.
	All women.
	Yeah.
	I think I go outside and honestly, like, I see, like, 10 beautiful girls.
	I see, like, a fine man, like, every two and a half years, if I'm gonna be honest.
	So I go outside and I see beautiful women everywhere.
	I mean, this is a this is kind of interesting.
	So not all men are tens, but all women are tens.
	Yeah.
	It sounds like you have a thing against men.
	No, I don't really have a thing against that.
	You can be honest.
	You can be honest.
	I love men.
	I don't hate men.
	If the roles were reversed, they'd call them misogynistic, but you can say that and it's okay.
	Yeah, I guess.
	So you see a good-looking man how often every two years?
	Two and a half years.
	Two and a half years.
	Okay, wow, that's pretty rough.
	I mean, like.
	Is there a guy in your mind that's a 10?
	Yes, you guys wouldn't think he's a 10.
	Who is it?
	Oh, geez.
	I don't know if you guys know who that is.
	I have no idea.
	He's a rapper.
	He's a rapper.
	He was on Shirline Mafia in Shirline Mafia.
	Beaten Cheeks Super Chatted $50.
	Thank you, man.
	Is the Nanny legally blind?
	She must be.
	This is impossible to realize women are this delusional.
	Fat is not shallow.
	It is unhealthy and unattractive.
	Beauty in the eye of the beholder is for poor people and lack of character of S.I.M.P. folk.
	By the way, Cheeks, I think you got to change your name to, well, you don't have to do anything, but you should consider changing your name to your actual name because you got a good name.
	Anyways, so not all guys are 10, but all women are 10.
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Just my opinion, Brian.
	Just my opinion.
	I don't know what you want me to say.
	I just told you.
	I just go outside and do you think I'm a 10?
	Brian, well, I don't know if you want me to answer that.
	Answer it.
	That's fine.
	I don't think you're a 10, but I do think you are attractive.
	Yeah, I do.
	I like the beard.
	I like that you're tall.
	Okay.
	I wouldn't say that you're ugly, because you're not.
	Beards are in.
	Yeah, beards are in.
	Oh, God.
	It's a matchmaking man.
	With the satchel.
	Flynn Ryder.
	Oh, wow.
	All right.
	Yeah, but the satchel is throwing me off guard, Brian.
	I'm not going to lie.
	Why'd you buy all those satchels?
	Protection?
	Protection's over with you.
	No, so, okay, so.
	So give me a rating.
	Just go ahead.
	Rate me.
	Like, seven, maybe?
	Seven?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Ray Thomas.
	I didn't ask for this.
	I'm subjecting you.
	Okay, if he doesn't want me to rate him, I'm not going to be able to do it.
	You can rate me.
	You have my premises.
	Okay.
	Can you move the mic a little bit or like just go like that?
	Thing is, I just.
	Okay, the thing is, I'm like, you know, if you think you're high and score, that's good.
	But I'm not going to say that you're like the most attractive man, but you're not like ugly, you know?
	I think you're a good seven.
	No, no, no.
	I'm not going to say that.
	No, I think you're like a seven or a six or something around there.
	Thanks.
	KD63.7 Super Chatted for $49.99.
	Now do you have enough on your Instagram care to explain, you strong woman, you?
	Yes, I do have an OF, but I don't post anything naked.
	Kind of just got a lot of people asking me for it after I started on the show the last time.
	So I was like, might as well make some money off of it.
	So I did it.
	And I made a lot of money.
	Wait, did people, how many people sub to your only?
	I got like around 80, I think.
	80 subscribers?
	Subscribers, yeah.
	And how much is the subscription?
	I just $20.
	Now, I'm not posting that on there.
	Yo, chat, can you guys do the math for me?
	What?
	20 times 80?
	Chad, y'all gotta stop doing this.
	This is what we're fighting against.
	You gotta stop that.
	What's the math on that?
	How much money did you guys spend on HeronlyFans?
	Did anyone tip you and shit too?
	PPP, what's it called?
	PPV?
	I think so.
	I don't know.
	I didn't really like, I got a bunch of messages and stuff.
	I think some people were a little disappointed because they were expecting a little bit more.
	But you can stop capping about not having a prejudice against men.
	You started last show with I don't listen to men.
	You give the benefit of doubt to women, but will never show the same to men around you.
	Yeah, that's they're going for you to yeah, everything is being asked for me.
	Yeah, so what did it say?
	I said I don't listen to men.
	I did say that.
	I don't really listen to anybody.
	Don't listen to my mom.
	Don't listen to my dad.
	I don't know why you guys want me to listen to.
	I'm so sorry.
	Want me to listen to like my boyfriend or something?
	Cameron Leola $67.93 donated $50.
	Showing support.
	Love the channel, Brian.
	Keep up the good work.
	Hey, Cameron, thank you so much for your patronage, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you for using Streamlabs, by the way, so that YouTube doesn't take their cut.
	So, okay, I want to wrap up the 10 thing really quick.
	You're a 10.
	You're a 10.
	Yes.
	I'm going to be honest with you.
	You're not a 10.
	All right.
	I'm not saying that to be mean, but you're not a 10.
	Okay.
	It's only fair, right?
	You rated me.
	Yeah.
	I'm not even going to rate you, but I'll just say that you're not a 10.
	Okay.
	That doesn't hurt me.
	I'm not trying to hurt you.
	Okay, one question.
	One question.
	Are you down to revise your answer?
	We got makeup remover.
	No, my makeup's expensive.
	Why would I want to take it off?
	No.
	Is there a difference?
	I'm not taking it off, Brian.
	Is there a difference in your rating with makeup, without makeup?
	I told you, Brian, it's all about confidence.
	Why would I do any, I don't know what you want me to do.
	Okay.
	Good to know.
	Good to know.
	So.
	And I'm not using those makeup wipes either.
	Oh.
	Get better ones.
	If you get Missler water or something, maybe.
	You're so above Neutrogena, right?
	We all are.
	Yes.
	Is that what?
	I take care of my skin.
	I like spent so much money at Ulta the other day getting a bunch of skincare products.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	What's wrong with Neutrogena?
	Everything.
	What's wrong with it?
	It's just not safe for your skin at all.
	They like recalled a bunch of products.
	Like bleach and stuff and like on the face.
	They like recalled it a while ago.
	So like what sucked because they had really good sunscreen.
	863.7 super chatted $49.99.
	So tell me, Nanny, and all you girls, listen when you are on your deathbed.
	No parents or husband or children who will be there.
	What would your life amount to with no one to share your life at the end?
	Three sanctuaries only.
	Yo, chat savage, bro.
	So much.
	No husband.
	What makes you think I'm not going to have no parents?
	No husband, no children.
	it's mean the cat food Okay.
	Yo, invest in cat food, guys.
	Okay, so can I ask a question?
	Yeah, go for it.
	What did you guys get for Valentine's Day?
	And did you have a Valentine?
	I'm assuming.
	Good question.
	Good question.
	Start with you.
	Yeah, yeah, start over here.
	Go ahead.
	Also, you're hiding behind the microphone like this.
	Sorry, I keep licking this way, so I'm like, naturally, I'm like, look straight on.
	Or look in the monitor if you want.
	I have a venue.
	I have a follow-up.
	Yeah, yeah, look in the monitor when you speak, okay?
	Also, you said that's your better side.
	So if you're looking.
	It's out of here, Brian.
	No.
	I spent it with my man.
	I don't know.
	I slept over at his house.
	We've been dating for a while, so I'm not a big Valentine's Day person.
	Did you guys come in?
	I had dinner, and then that was it.
	Flowers?
	Mm-hmm.
	For him?
	You got from him, yeah.
	Chocolate?
	No.
	I don't eat chocolate.
	Oh.
	follow-up question yeah for everybody as well well let's do you want I don't eat a lot of chocolate Yeah, it goes with this.
	You want to add it?
	Okay, go ahead.
	What is the most extravagant/slash expensive gift that you've ever received for Valentine's Day?
	So, like, think about that too.
	So I just want to see.
	Honestly, I haven't.
	It's just, you know, the average chocolates, if that's what he gets, flowers and dinner.
	Okay.
	I don't ask for anything, nor do I expect anything.
	Okay.
	You?
	I didn't have a Valentine this year.
	I didn't really do anything for Valentine's Day.
	I was out of the state with myself.
	Brian, did you do that?
	No, no, no.
	That was Eric.
	That was Eric, though.
	Eric, you're not going to be a 10 anymore if you do that.
	Oh, Eric, watch it out.
	Eric, watch it out.
	Humble 10.
	No, I was out of state visiting my sister, so I didn't do anything.
	But the most extravagant gift, it wasn't expensive, but it did take a lot of time and effort, and it had a lot of value behind it, and I really appreciated it.
	My ex-boyfriend made me for Valentine's Day.
	Jolly Ranchers were kind of our thing.
	Like, we would always eat Jolly Ranchers together.
	First time we hung out, we had a bag.
	He got me a bag of Jolly Ranchers.
	Is your ex-boyfriend little Zan?
	Why did you have Skittles?
	That's Skittles and he hand-made me for Valentine's Day.
	He made Jolly Rancher flowers, and he made a bouquet out of them.
	That is cool.
	So I love that.
	That was my favorite gift.
	You?
	I did have a Valentine, but because my boyfriend and I are long distance, we did the weekend before.
	I think it's technically medium-distance relationships.
	Okay, sorry.
	Medium-distant relationship.
	Like long distance.
	Whatever you want to call it, Brian Guy.
	I feel like long distance.
	You got to hop on a plane.
	I get it.
	Absolutely.
	That makes sense.
	Maybe I'll be.
	I'll just play.
	So you take him like a three-hour drive to see your man?
	Yeah.
	That's like two.
	All right.
	San Bruno.
	See you.
	Two and a half, three.
	So medium distance relationships can work.
	Yeah, I totally agree that you can't do that.
	Long distance?
	I mean, if both people want it hard enough, then it'll work.
	Okay.
	They want it.
	I was just curious.
	Oh, stop.
	Huh?
	Oh, okay.
	Go ahead.
	Start falling in love with our pen pals.
	Wait.
	Pen pals.
	So Valentine's week.
	Yes, my medium-distance boyfriend and I did it.
	I have to be correct.
	We did it the weekend before.
	We did like the classic, like chocolates, flowers, favorite stuff, you know.
	And you got him flowers?
	No.
	You got him chocolate?
	He doesn't really like chocolate.
	I do like a bag of like stuff he likes, like his favorite snacks.
	Okay.
	Stuff for like.
	Okay.
	Why are you laughing?
	No, I was just laughing.
	He was laughing at me.
	Don't worry about it.
	So I did not have a Valentine's this year.
	I think.
	Yeah.
	Yo, candles in the chat for Kaylin.
	Can we get some skull emojis, candles in the chat?
	I was so heartbroken because I didn't know who Valentine's, but it's okay.
	You were distraught?
	I was.
	I was crying a bit.
	Oh, one thing.
	You guys said you had dinner for Valentine's, right?
	No, we didn't.
	Oh, no dinner?
	No, just like a little lunch.
	So, have you ever had a Valentine's?
	I did last year, yeah.
	Last year, yeah.
	Okay.
	And the most extravagant gift?
	I don't think anything I've gotten has been like extravagant, but I'd say like, you know, like the bear, like bouquets that are like hard, like flowers.
	Are we talking like jumbo-sized bear or like little teddy bears?
	It was like this big.
	But it's so like you put his cologne on it?
	I don't know.
	I threw it away.
	That's important.
	Yeah.
	It's gone now.
	I mean, good.
	What about you?
	So I did have Valentine's this year.
	We went to a string quartet candlelight concert, and then he took me to a fancy speakeasy afterwards.
	That is adorable.
	That's cool.
	He slays.
	We all stay on her husband.
	W's in the chat for her.
	A what?
	To wear?
	A speakeasy?
	What's that?
	So it's kind of like a more old-fashioned bar club.
	You said your husband did this?
	Yeah, my husband.
	Where was this?
	If you don't know what I'm doing, Anaheim.
	That's cool.
	Yeah.
	Is that the most extravagant gift you've ever received?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about that?
	W's in the chat for her boyfriend?
	Doubled me in the chat for her husband for sure.
	Oh, yeah, husband.
	I'm sorry, husband.
	So my boyfriend and I don't celebrate Valentine's Day.
	So we didn't do anything.
	We were actually watching this podcast on Valentine's Day.
	Yo, W's in the chat.
	Wait.
	You said your husband?
	No, my boyfriend.
	Oh, for some reason, I thought I heard husbands for some reason.
	Okay.
	You and your boyfriend, you and your boyfriend were watching the whatever podcast.
	That's right.
	I mean, we did have a show on Valentine's Day, which was fantastic, I must admit.
	Okay, cool.
	That's a good way to spend Valentine's Day, is enriching me personally.
	Okay, and the most extravagant gift you've ever received.
	Or you don't celebrate it at all?
	Before him, it's not that I didn't celebrate it, but I never really had anything extravagant, just like teddy bear and flowers type of thing.
	Nothing crazy.
	My last question is: what have you given to your boyfriend or husband?
	What's the most extravagant thing you've ever done for them?
	Like on Valentine's Day or just in general?
	On Valentine's Day.
	I bought my boyfriend flowers like a while ago.
	And the.
	I don't know.
	I haven't really gotten.
	Again, Valentine's Day isn't important to me.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I love giving gifts, actually, especially when I really like the person.
	I will literally buy them everything and anything.
	Every two and a half years you see in the chat a men.
	Yes.
	Okay, you know what?
	let me go back because to that if I can real quick because I don't want you guys to think that I have something against men I just feel like I'm not really attracted to men too often to the point where I'm like are you bi Maybe.
	Well, have you ever like dated a girl or been with a girl?
	No, but I would be open to it, yeah.
	Okay.
	But yeah, I don't know.
	Maybe I'm just not that attracted to guys.
	But yeah, I do see.
	All mayor 87 super chatted 6,988.
	Thank you.
	Brian, why do try so hard to red-billy these modern women?
	Just let them live alone.Men in USA and Western world should make money and move to other country.
	Modern women's behavior are situational, so just don't give second change to all modern women.
	Yo, thank you for the 6,980 Japanese yen.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	So, yeah, pretty much.
	Passport Bros.
	Are we up?
	Okay, so you were saying, did you finish yours?
	Oh, no, I didn't say the gift.
	But I don't know, honestly, like I kind of forgot what I got him exactly for Valentine's Day.
	But I think I got him a bunch of clothes that he wanted, a bunch of Raw Florin.
	It was really expensive.
	I think I got him pants.
	Simp.
	Yes, I do simp.
	When I like somebody, I will simp real hard for them.
	Do it.
	Women should simp more.
	Yeah, so appreciate it.
	Somebody paid for my gas tank right before I got here.
	Oh, my gosh.
	One of a whatever viewer.
	Was it all that?
	No.
	I went to the gas station.
	I got out of my car and this man came up to me.
	He said, can I pay for your, to fill up your gas?
	What?
	And I said, of course.
	And he filled it up for me.
	He was an older man.
	He was a faquero, like cowboy in Mexican.
	He is a lot older at all.
	And Brian.
	Did you at least give him a kiss?
	No, I. Don't do that.
	Come on, man.
	Dude, stop doing this.
	This is why they think the way they think.
	Come on.
	No, he was so attractive, like, super attractive.
	The men he was with were like, they invited me to go out with them, but I was like, oh, I'm sorry.
	Brian, I would, I honestly might not have been here.
	Wow.
	Because they were really attractive.
	I'm not lying.
	He had a nephew.
	Wait, hold on.
	How many dudes was it?
	It was three of them.
	Three dudes?
	Yeah.
	And you said one of them was in his 50s?
	I don't know.
	No, not.
	So you were going to flake coming on the whatever podcast to get spit roasted by three spit roasted.
	What does that mean?
	Good question.
	I want to know what it means, spit roasted.
	Use your imagination.
	It's like, that sounds a little suspect, not going to lie.
	They said that they were having a party.
	Okay, I wanted to go.
	They're like, we're going to a party.
	We're like right here.
	Then they were like, you want a beer?
	And I was like, oh, like, I'm sorry.
	I've got somewhere to go.
	But thank you.
	I filled up my favourite.
	Wait, just on this topic really quick, then we'll come back to the Valentine's Day thing.
	Ladies, has something like this just ever happened to you?
	Like these kind of situations, like some random dudes.
	All the time.
	All the time.
	Paying for your gas.
	Hey, come to our party.
	Yeah.
	I mean, after the show, some guy mentioned that.
	This happens to you.
	Raise your hand a little bit if this has happened to you.
	Okay.
	Bro, guys, no dudes get these opportunities.
	We don't get this.
	You're 21 in San Yez, right?
	Yes.
	You're in Hickville.
	Yes.
	You're like, you're like, Santa Barbara is like the last, I'm trying to think of the term.
	It's like the last defensive against Central California.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I live in Hickville.
	I mean, you're technically in Santa Barbara County, but you're up there near Santa Maria and shit.
	No, don't compare to San Rien.
	Well, that's like that's methamphetamine capital of Santa Barbara.
	But San Yezzo.
	Maybe Lompo.
	I don't know.
	But okay, so and you're getting like that's crazy that you're getting just randomly just before the show.
	Oh, let me pay for your gas.
	Yeah.
	And after the last show, some guy DMed me.
	He's like, send me your Amazon wish list.
	I'm going to buy everything.
	He bought me like $500 with this.
	From the show.
	Yo, where is the answer?
	Pull up the chat.
	Pull the chat.
	I need a freaking.
	She's telling on herself.
	She's literally a finesse.
	Guys, you guys gotta stop, man.
	She'd probably find you attractive if you stopped buying a story.
	I mean, if you want to hit my wish list, all of you, I know some of you are in the chat.
	If you're in the chat right now, how much he spent, he bought your entire Amazon wish list totally.
	It was like $500.
	Get out of here.
	You can change, you filthy animals.
	I'm disappointed.
	I'm not upset.
	I'm just disappointed.
	Best worst, guys.
	I'm just disappointed.
	There's some good guys out there.
	We get taken advantage of.
	If anybody's some sort of nice, they get taken advantage of, and you literally just proved it.
	I don't think so.
	How?
	They're nice guys.
	Would you date them?
	Huh?
	They're nice guys, but would you date them?
	Of course.
	The guy who paid for my gas tank was so attractive.
	He was old.
	I don't think I would date him, honestly.
	Okay, good point.
	I don't think I would date him because he was really old, but he had a nephew, and the nephew was really attractive.
	Did you get the digits?
	No, I was on a rush.
	I was going to be late.
	I was really going to be late.
	I was like, I had house fitting.
	I had to go house it and like all this stuff.
	Respect for not faking, though.
	You had your priorities.
	You had your priorities straight.
	Yes.
	And I'm proud of you for that one.
	Yeah.
	Wait, so hold on.
	How much was your gas?
	It was like $55 or something.
	Did you drive a Hummer?
	What'd you drive?
	A Nissan.
	Oh.
	Yo, gas is expensive out here.
	It is.
	I'm telling you right now.
	It is.
	Hold on.
	Just I need to excoriate.
	Is that the word?
	Excorciate the chat a little bit.
	Excorciate.
	Can someone.
	Is that a word?
	I don't know.
	If it is a word, you have to wear the one of the fanny packs the rest of the time.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, that's hard.
	Excorciate.
	I'll get to that.
	Hey, Zentience, thank you, man.
	BBC train rider bangs will end up alone because she is egotistical and dismissive of men, which means she feels like she leads the relationship.
	Any man who associates with her has no spine nor balls.
	No surprise, she had no Valentine's this year.
	Every 2.5 years.
	Yo, Zentience, good to see you back in the chat, man.
	Shoot me a DM on Instagram if you can.
	Let's get you a call in.
	Yeah, so I want you to respond to Zentience.
	I don't know what BBC trains.
	Hold on.
	I got something for you.
	Uh-oh.
	Okay.
	All right.
	The BBC, big black clock.
	Big black clock.
	All right.
	I'm not sure where he got that from, but Zentience, thank you for the TTS, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Do you have a response to Zentience?
	He's dying to hear from you.
	Keep in mind, Tim.
	I don't even remember what he said, to be honest.
	Let me give you a little backstory on Zentience.
	He's a brain surgeon.
	Brain surgeon.
	Okay.
	That's a good job.
	Okay.
	Just letting you know.
	But I don't remember his question.
	I think.
	Zentience, confirm or deny.
	Do you secretly have a crush on bangs?
	Confirm or deny.
	Confirm or deny.
	Okay, what the fuck were we talking about?
	So right here, what is the most extravagant thing that you've given really quick?
	Excoriate.
	To censor or criticize severely.
	Is that what you said?
	No, I think that's not what you said.
	I think I added in an extra C.
	Yeah, he needs to wear the fanny pack.
	You need to wear the fanny pack.
	Let me see if that.
	Wait, hold on.
	Go ahead, Brian.
	Put it on.
	Don't be scared.
	Come on.
	Yeah, you're the one that bottoms when you're hard-earned money on it.
	Hold on one sec.
	Excoriate.
	That's not what you said.
	Okay.
	If you want me to wear it, I'll wear it proudly.
	I will find another opportunity.
	All right.
	But let me excoriate the chat really quick.
	And also the guys who paid for your gas.
	Whoever paid $500 to pay for Bangs' Amazon thing and her OnlyFans.
	That's a fucking 50 DKP minus.
	What the fuck was that shit?
	Guys, on our next raid into next Anyxia's lair, you guys are honestly you're benched.
	You're benched, and you're definitely loot banned for at least a month.
	So if any of you are trying to get, shit, what's the one?
	I know a couple of you guys are trying to get toe-up talisman of ephemeral power.
	You're done.
	You're benched.
	You're not getting it.
	You're not getting loot for at least a month.
	Sorry.
	Minus 50 DKP.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Yeah, the last time I played a game was like two years ago, two, three years ago.
	And that's a big deal.
	So stop doing that, guys.
	Big deal, guys.
	Stop.
	Hold on.
	Wait, one thing really quick.
	Stop it.
	Get some help.
	Okay, go ahead.
	This was my boyfriend and I'm first Valentine.
	So we didn't really do anything.
	I haven't gotten experience with expensive gifts yet.
	Taking it slow.
	Yeah.
	Understood.
	And you've never given a gift ever on Valentine's Day?
	No, no, I definitely have.
	What is the most extreme, extravagant gift you've given to a man?
	I don't, I think like the same thing.
	We've just gotten like favorite like things.
	You got him flowers and chocolates?
	No, not like flowers and chocolates, but his favorite snacks, stuff that he needs for like his job and stuff.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I wouldn't think it's like extreme, but like shoes, a chain I bought.
	Like with my ex a chain.
	You're talking like diamond chains?
	Yeah.
	It wasn't like super expensive.
	It was like maybe like a hundred bucks.
	You bought him a chain?
	Yeah.
	Was your boyfriend a rapper?
	No.
	Only rappers can wear chains?
	Question mark?
	Was he a white guy?
	Was it a white guy?
	No.
	Was he a little bit more?
	But it wasn't like a big chain.
	Peruvian.
	Peruvian, okay.
	Yeah.
	I don't think white guys can pull off chains.
	Is that racist?
	He's got a little racist.
	Well, you're a rapper.
	I mean, the only chain I'll ever wear.
	Oh, fuck.
	Oh, he does have a chain.
	So little story.
	This is my dad.
	He died of cancer.
	I'm going to say it straight up.
	This is Donna's story.
	So this is the only chain that I'll ever wear.
	I'll never spend like $100,000 like some of these rappers wear.
	This is the only chain I'll ever wear, ever.
	This is sentiment value.
	Yeah, that's very scary.
	So shout out my father.
	Love you said that.
	That is sweet.
	Thank you.
	About you.
	This is actually my first Valentine's Day that I did anything.
	I hate Valentine's Day, but my husband likes it.
	Quick question.
	I'm sorry.
	Why do you hate Valentine's Day?
	Because I think it's like a Hallmark holiday.
	I think that every day you should tell your person that you love how much you love them and that you shouldn't.
	I mean, have you seen Hallmark cards and how much they are during Valentine's Day for when they're not Valentine's Day?
	It kind of just seems like a money scheme.
	I didn't mean to interrupt you.
	Oh, no, you're good.
	So, and a little backstory, I guess, is for this Valentine's Day, my husband didn't want me to get him anything, and I'm a person that doesn't dress up.
	Like, I would be in sweatpants if I was allowed to be.
	But Swan said Faith stopped the gap.
	No, it's true.
	So, I actually made a dress for him from scratch.
	And he was wearing the dress?
	No, I was.
	No, I made for him because I don't dress up nicely normally.
	I made a dress for me to wear so that I matched him in his suit.
	It was a pretty dress.
	Do you know how to sew?
	I do.
	I don't know nor care who Bangs is.
	That fapped with the triolic orifice has about as much worth and substance as her circus clown makeup.
	Nightmare fuel is more comforting than her Massandras opinions.
	Brian, I don't do social media at all.
	I think he just excoriated you.
	Word of the day.
	Exorcist.
	Excoriated.
	Finally, you should.
	Do you have a response to zentience?
	Come on.
	What?
	I don't know what to say.
	What do you want me to say?
	Fuck you.
	What do you know what to say?
	Like, I'm not going to say anything.
	I really don't care.
	She spoke her mind.
	Oh, by the way, Eric, can you star any memberships just so I can pull them up?
	Okay, Valentine's.
	You.
	You said you can show them an image of you dressed up for them.
	Yeah, I've got to do it.
	Actually, I think this is a good point.
	I think a lot of men would actually appreciate if their SO would dress up for them more frequently, even if it's just to hang around the house.
	Because a lot of women don't do that, and men like to look.
	So if a man can look at you and actually be able to only see you while you're not going out, I think that would be attractive for you.
	I looked at this little girl.
	Can I answer his comment?
	I'm sorry, I looked.
	He said she made a dress for herself, but for him, lol the logic.
	Can I answer it or no?
	Just go.
	Okay.
	Well, him and I share joint bank accounts, so technically I paid for the Valentine's Day as well.
	Okay.
	I also like giving gifts.
	So I kind of go all out for my boyfriend.
	I've done quite a few different things.
	It may not always cost a lot of money, but like I've made like I made a mason jar with little things for him to read.
	And like on the on the lid, it says like to make you smile.
	And so I just do little things like that.
	I packed it in his lunch the other day just because he hasn't gone in there in a while.
	But I'm always doing small thoughtful things.
	But I would say maybe the biggest thing was his birthday.
	His birthday is on the 5th.
	So every day until the 5th, I give him a present.
	And then on the 5th, I threw him a surprise party.
	Super cute.
	Yeah, I go all out with gifts.
	And I've gone to him flowers before, too.
	Yeah.
	I noticed that you were giving me a look.
	Can you explain why you gave me that look?
	About the dressing up.
	Yeah.
	I mean, like, a girl should be able to wear whatever she's comfortable in.
	Like, about her wearing sweats all day.
	If I could, I would too.
	So, like, I think it's more like the quality time that you're going to spend with your boyfriend, not like what you're wearing or how you look or if your makeup's good or if you're wearing a fancy outfit or like lingerie or something.
	I think as long as you're with them, like you're spending time with them, and like if you feel comfortable in what you're wearing, that should be enough for them to love you and like to feel loved.
	Okay.
	I do think that's true.
	I think that's true.
	But I think also, at least for me, like I feel good when I feel a little sexy around him.
	Like I've gotten cute pajamas.
	Like I have my like big sweats or his big sweats, big t-shirts, but then I've also bought cute pajamas and I wear them for when he comes home from work.
	Like, you know, I'm looking cute.
	I'm not looking crazy all the time.
	So I mean, I think I think you made you both made good points.
	But yeah.
	So you think that your boyfriend or a boyfriend should not have any say or input in terms of the partner's attire?
	I mean, you can add your input if you want.
	Like if my boyfriend told me that he wanted me to wear a certain thing or like he didn't like the way I looked in something, I would take it into like consideration.
	But at the end of the day, it's like whatever I want to wear and whatever I feel comfortable in.
	Okay.
	Have you ever told your boyfriend maybe he wasn't wearing something good and you told him to change out of it?
	He's never really asked me, but he's asked me for like input on like dinner date outfits, and I've given it to him.
	But I've never said, like, you have to wear this when we're going out.
	Because I've definitely had girls tell me, like, bro, don't wear those sweatpants to the fucking dinner.
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	But my dad.
	Oh, it's okay.
	It's okay if women do it.
	No, Scott.
	Okay, no.
	What I'm saying is, my boyfriend has never like worn sweatpants out to dinner.
	But if he were, yeah, I would have something to say about it.
	But if that's what he felt comfortable in.
	Oh, but you're kind of controlling.
	No, I'm not really controlling.
	If he asks for my opinion, I'm going to give it to him.
	But if he doesn't, and he wants to whatever he wants to wear.
	Okay.
	So see what I'm going to.
	Oh, go ahead.
	I didn't mean to cut you off there.
	That was it.
	Oh, okay.
	I'm wearing sweatspants to dinner.
	Slightly.
	We're going to have a hibachi.
	Okay.
	I don't care.
	Wherever we're going, I'm wearing sweatpants.
	Yeah.
	Deal with it.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah.
	Deal with this.
	Hibachi?
	Yeah.
	Sure, yeah.
	Okay.
	By the way, are you writing notes or do you need this on the table?
	This thing?
	I can put it down.
	Okay.
	Do you want to wrap up on your Valentine's Day thing where you arrived?
	That was my question.
	I was just curious.
	I just asked.
	Okay, yeah.
	Basically, I feel like modern Valentine's Day has pretty much nothing to do with a love.
	And I think I kind of resonated with you on this.
	It's basically a commercial gimmick manufactured by corporations, compelling men, sometimes women too, to spend money on things they neither need nor want.
	Also, they just ramp up the cost of things.
	So like the same flowers that normally cost $10 cost $100 on Valentine's Day.
	That same restaurant reservation costs $500, whereas maybe it costs $50.
	So it's like very commercial.
	It's pretty gimmicky.
	So, you know, if you love each other, you don't need a day and hundreds of dollars to show it.
	So let's get these super chats here.
	By the way, guys, get your super chats in.
	Thank you to everyone who supported so far.
	Really appreciate it.
	Thank you for the patronage.
	It means the world.
	One last note for everyone who's doing the TTS.
	If you look in the description, we have a Stream Labs donation link.
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	So if you want more of your contribution to go towards whatever, not YouTube, you can do it through Streamlabs.
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	It takes, I think, regular credit cards.
	But yeah, so.
	All right, we have Alvin Sam.
	Hey, good to see you back in the chat, man.
	By the way, Alvin, you've been a constant supporter.
	Shoot me a DM on Instagram.
	Yeah, just shoot me a DM.
	Ladies, pick only one to keep a marriageable man or your Instagram.
	Good question.
	I had to increase the dollar amount of my super chat for brands.
	It's actually a very good question.
	So I don't think it is.
	Marriageable man or your Instagram.
	Go ahead.
	Marriageable man.
	My boyfriend already said for him, I'm going to delete my Instagram soon, actually.
	Because I see Instagram as just a dating app.
	Whoa.
	Based?
	Answer.
	Based.
	Okay.
	And was that something that you arrived at on your own or was it?
	Yeah, because I mean, again, if you're a certain level of attraction, even for girls, even if you're unattractive, you're still going to get guys in your DM.
	It doesn't matter because we can get a guy easier than a guy can get a girl.
	And so for me, I just, I want to make him feel like he's the only man.
	And that comes with making him feel like he has a certain level of status.
	So I'll gladly delete my Instagram.
	What's your first name again?
	Liz.
	Liz.
	Yo, can we get W. Yo, can we get Wiz in the chat?
	I want to spam whiz in the chat.
	I don't think I've ever heard a girl say that on this show.
	We've interviewed over 100 people.
	Whiz in the chat.
	W Liz.
	W Liz.
	I want to see it.
	I want to see it in the chat.
	No, no, no.
	Thank you.
	Wait, I have a question for you.
	Yes.
	Is he going to delete his Instagram too?
	For a man, status is a big deal for a man.
	And so I'm not going to ask him to delete his Instagram.
	As long as I have access to be able to kind of see and I trust him fully, I don't see any problem.
	For a girl, it's completely different because guys and girls are wired biologically completely different to react to certain things.
	Girls like attention.
	So guys being in DMs, that's still, you know, a temptation.
	And I just would rather get rid of it altogether.
	Yo, Flan Life, thank you for the five gifted memberships.
	Wow, that's very impressive.
	Thank you.
	By the way, the microphones, you can actually go a little further back from the mic just because it's blocking your face a little bit.
	I'm just kissing it.
	Yeah, you're doing fantastic.
	You're following my instructions.
	It does seem to be blocking you slightly.
	So you can go just a little further back.
	So marriageable man or Instagram.
	I got fans on Instagram.
	But of course it's crazy.
	If I don't know, honestly, I'm not in that situation yet, I guess.
	If I really, really love the man, I get really obsessed when I like somebody a lot.
	I don't know.
	I think in order for me to delete my Instagram, he would have to do the same thing too.
	And that's the only way I would allow it.
	If he was just telling me, don't like, go delete your Instagram and stuff.
	I was like, no.
	When you're in a relationship, do you see that man as your equal or do you see him as like a leader?
	Jerry, do you guys are you doing like 50-50 or is he 100?
	Like what is Alan Jones donated $50.
	Leatherjacket needs to stop hiding behind the mic.
	You need to hide the beak.
	Oh my gosh.
	Hooked noses can be sexy sometimes.
	I know.
	She pretends she would delete her Instagram when she pays for followers on it.
	Her light counts are all hilarious.
	So you're stalking her Instagram?
	So you're obsessed?
	I don't buy my followers.
	Do you have a response to Alan Jones?
	No, he could take whatever he wants.
	Yeah, Alan.
	Oh, Zentians.
	I know I have a lot of people.
	I'll hate to email you about calling in.
	Before I go, to the traditional woman, much respect to your husband, and well done honoring him in public.
	He who finds a wife finds a good thing.
	Ladies need to be wives before a husband finds them.
	Yo, Zentians, thank you for the $50 super chat.
	Is this directed at you or because you're the one with the husband, but sounds like it's in response to you, maybe.
	Yeah.
	Well, hey, Zentians, thank you so much for the support, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	And my email is it's just Brian at whatever.com.
	Brian with an eye.
	And okay, so you want, I think you were in the middle of responding to her about marriageable man versus Instagram.
	Yeah, I was just asking if you saw the man as equal to you.
	I don't know.
	I guess, yeah.
	I don't really know how to answer that.
	I haven't really been in a relationship in a while, to be honest.
	Last time I was in a relationship was like a year and a half ago.
	I don't know.
	When did you start your OnlyFans?
	I had it like I made it a while ago, but because I had TikTok and I got a lot of followers on TikTok and everybody was asking me to make one.
	And all my friends were asking me to make one too.
	And I made it, but I didn't, I don't remember exactly what happened, but I just never really posted that much or something.
	I did make a little bit of money off of it, but everybody was like asking for nudes and all this stuff.
	And then I got asked for the OnlyFans again after I went on this podcast.
	So I just like started.
	Do you think that whenever you started your OnlyFans, there was a correlation between you staying single and having that OnlyFans?
	What do you think?
	Because you didn't tell me exactly when you started your OnlyFans.
	But do you think there's a, like, I'm not saying causational correlation, but do you think there's any?
	No, I didn't.
	I only really made the OnlyFans because everybody was like asking me for it and people were like, do you just do it?
	Like, you're going to make money.
	So I just did it.
	I didn't do it because I was like, oh, I'm single.
	Are your friends single?
	No, some of them are in relationships.
	Some of them are in relationships.
	The ones that asked?
	The ones that asked?
	For you to have OnlyFans.
	Yeah, like, yeah, I guess.
	Y'all in relationships and asking for OnlyFans?
	That's what I am.
	They're like, were they girls that they're telling me?
	They're like, dude, make an OnlyFans.
	I see, I see.
	By the way, onlyfans.com slash whatever.
	We have our first picture set of Kiki before she became an Uwu waifu.
	Ow.
	Yeah, so onlyfans.com slash whatever, check it out.
	It's fucking lit.
	There's going to be more shit there.
	Okay, marriageable man or Instagram?
	Marriageable man.
	You're not just saying that because she said it, right?
	Okay.
	No.
	Well, okay, continue.
	No.
	Okay.
	No, go ahead and continue.
	You were going to say that most women would pick their Instagram, right?
	Yes.
	I wouldn't.
	Most of the girls we've had on, well, we don't ask the question every show, but a lot of girls say, no way I'm giving up my Instagram.
	I think marriageable man versus Instagram.
	You're tainting.
	You're tainting all the answers.
	No, keeping honest.
	Keeping honest.
	You're tainting the answers that I'm going to do.
	I can do Devil's Advocate if you want me to.
	No, no, you're fine.
	Okay.
	Okay, so Marriageable Man.
	Marriageable Man, yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Wow.
	I am impressed by this panel.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Marriageable man.
	You guys are all going to be accused of being pick-me's, by the way.
	That's totally hard.
	Because I'm actually married to you.
	Well, you're right.
	My husband asked me to get rid of my Instagram.
	I 100% wish you were.
	I do have your Instagram, though.
	Yeah, but...
	But it's pretty tame, I think.
	Exactly.
	I don't know.
	I haven't really reviewed it.
	I think I have like six posts maybe, and that's it.
	What about you?
	Definitely marriageable man.
	I didn't have social media for a really long time.
	I only really activated it more recently.
	So, yeah, definitely read marriageable man.
	Do you want to cook a little bit longer on why?
	Why what?
	Do you want to qualify your answers?
	Because you picked marriageable man.
	Yeah.
	Why is that?
	I feel like as a woman, we're called to be submissive to our husbands or boyfriends even if they're qualified or to the standard of husband.
	Because there are still, you know, there are some guys out there that are just like mojo, and then there's ones like my man who is a one to five percenter, and I would do anything for him.
	So for me, getting rid of my Instagram is easy.
	You said your boyfriend's a one to five percenter.
	Yeah.
	Are you talking socioeconomically?
	All the above.
	Everything.
	Everything.
	Well, if you guys are, if you're down to come back on, I know you wanted to try to get them on this panel, but we would love to.
	A bit full, but let's get them on the show.
	Yeah, you would love to.
	Yeah, it's just pretty tight, as you see.
	I see.
	Next time.
	Okay, so did you guys want to explain why?
	No.
	Yeah, I need to move along with the super chats here.
	Yo, Michael Matroke the four.
	Thank you for the $20 super chat.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Question for the ladies.
	Do you regret who you lost your virginity with?
	Yes or no?
	Why?
	We can do that.
	Sure.
	Why not?
	I'm going to skip that one.
	Don't want to answer?
	It wasn't my choice.
	Oh.
	Michael Matroke asking Difficult questions.
	Go ahead.
	No, I don't regret the person that I lost my virginity to because I was definitely in love with them.
	We had been dating for a while.
	We actually didn't sleep with each other until a few months into the relationship, actually.
	Okay.
	But yeah, I was like 19 at the time too, so I think I was like mature.
	And yeah, I don't regret it at all because he loved me and I loved him.
	Don't regret it?
	My first time also was not consensual, but I wouldn't count him as losing my virginity, I guess.
	So the recent one that I did, I guess, lose my virginity to, I don't think I would regret.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	It was not consensual either.
	Wow.
	Yikes.
	This is so sad.
	Men do better.
	Don't do this to girls.
	Women do better.
	This is three girls so far that have had, that said that.
	On the same podcast.
	That's really bad, you guys.
	L for that.
	Yeah, it makes me sad.
	That's certainly terrible that that's happened to you guys.
	What about you?
	I don't regret it.
	And we were in a relationship, so no, I don't regret it.
	Okay, moving on.
	Yo.
	Jesus, fucking heaven.
	Michael, thank you for the heavy question there.
	Or it wasn't a heavy question, but it certainly elicited a heavy response.
	Immorality kid, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	Have all the women named 10 books?
	Why?
	Bangs.
	Name 10 books.
	Go, quick.
	Name 10 books.
	Go, quick.
	Go, go, go.
	Got it.
	10 books, go.
	Down the rabbit hole, Frederick Douglass, narrative.
	You're doing good.
	I don't know what all you're doing.
	I don't know.
	50 Shades of Gray.
	You had a bunch of things right there.
	Oh, yeah.
	Don't know if you guys have to.
	That's just a little bit of a double.
	Squint.
	I read a lot of books, though, but I can't.
	I took a break from reading.
	But the last book I read was Down the Rabbit Hole.
	Wait, here's a better question.
	Here's a better question.
	Holly Madison.
	Name three countries, excluding North American countries.
	Lexington.
	Oh, sorry.
	No, no, no.
	Countries.
	Countries.
	That's a country.
	Yeah, we'll start with you.
	And that's a country.
	Lexington, I'm pretty sure is a country in Europe.
	Germany, France, Egypt, Italy, Brazil, Nicaragua, Costa Rica.
	Well, I said three.
	Damn, no, I said I didn't do it more.
	Yeah, I saw the thing about 10.
	I'm so sorry.
	I was still thinking about 10 books.
	Your geography is good, but your math needs a little work, I think.
	Okay, so.
	The numbers.
	Yeah, so okay.
	That was Lexington?
	That's a country.
	I think.
	No, it's a small little country.
	I'm pretty sure.
	Luxembourg, I think you're what is it called?
	Luxembourg.
	Maybe.
	I don't know.
	It's Luxembourg.
	Okay, I'm sorry, Brian.
	Apology accepted.
	How dare you?
	How dare you?
	As a native of Luxembourg, I'm sure you are?
	For you to confuse, what is it, Lexington, Oklahoma?
	Where's Lexington?
	Oklahoma.
	There's a Lexington in Oklahoma.
	Lexemburg.
	Luxembourg.
	I'm so sorry.
	Name three countries.
	Romania.
	Moldova and Italy.
	Those are some Andrew Tate countries.
	Okay.
	I do love me and some Andrew Tate.
	Oh, shit.
	Oh, she likes Andrew Tate.
	Okay.
	Oh.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Oh.
	Oh.
	Go ahead.
	Three countries.
	Don't do it.
	Yeah, okay.
	Isn't like like France, Italy is Puerto Rico a country?
	It's part of the United States.
	No.
	It's part of the United States.
	It's a territory of the U.S. Can I still count it?
	Because like that.
	I didn't know that.
	That's not a country.
	But like is that common knowledge?
	Yes.
	It's a U.S. territory.
	I didn't know that.
	It's okay.
	I love getting educated.
	You can't name any previously named countries, by the way.
	Greece.
	I don't think Greece was sad.
	Nope.
	Peru.
	You're doing sorry.
	Peru?
	Yeah?
	Okay.
	One more.
	Hide that, Eric.
	And Brazil.
	Did somebody say Brazil?
	I did.
	You did?
	Okay.
	You named 10.
	Yeah, you did name 10.
	I'm moving on from this question.
	Yo, Frankie Kay, thank you for the $20 cheap chat.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Would you rather have a fabulously wealthy man who cheats or a loyal man who loves you but is cruising the poverty line?
	Yeah, we'll go around on this.
	Let's start over here.
	Go ahead.
	A loyal man who loves me.
	Okay, but who's broke?
	That's a hard one.
	We're talking like eating TV dinners to just to pay rent.
	Food stamps.
	Food stamps.
	Yeah, I've been there before.
	Cockroaches.
	And you're staying with the family.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yes, that's my answer.
	A loyal man who loves me.
	I mean, wealth is not something I really care about.
	I just want someone who will love me and protect me and always be there for me, and I will do the same to them.
	I agree with loyal man.
	I feel like I'm comfortable making the income if I have like a good stable job.
	I would try to encourage them to like look for work just so I'm not the only income and we can like work together to make income, but I would definitely prefer a loyal man.
	Wait, you want to make the income?
	Like you'd hold down the guy?
	I would encourage them to try to make an income, but I would be comfortable with holding an income as well.
	You're a sociology major, right?
	Yeah.
	Uh-oh.
	Uh-oh.
	Oh, here it comes.
	Do it.
	Little Brian JR donated $50.
	ML Demons red.
	Jesus.
	Be nice, guys.
	Please stop talking the word vomit spilling out of your mouth is overflowing worse than your muffins out Wow Okay, guys.
	$50 just to insult me.
	Let's just try to attack the argument, you know.
	Let's keep it nice.
	All right.
	So.
	We were about to hear.
	Oh, yeah.
	What do you want to do for work?
	I either want to work with criminals, criminal sociology, or educate people on animals.
	Work with criminals?
	Like in corrections?
	Like, how would you work with criminals?
	Besides selling drugs and being a human trafficker?
	Oh, whoa.
	Oh, wow.
	Okay.
	That's a heavy topic.
	Yeah.
	I just see how it affects society.
	Criminals and society.
	I feel like sociology majors make good income.
	They do?
	Do sociology?
	I mean, I wouldn't be in school for sociology if they didn't make a good income.
	Sociology majors make a good income?
	What's a good income to you?
	I feel like $100,000 a year.
	You think you're going to, with a sociology degree, you think you're going to make $100K a year upon graduation?
	Not upon God.
	No.
	One job?
	I mean, I'm not an expert in this.
	I don't know how much.
	Well, I also, well, not maybe from one job, but I believe that like in the works?
	No.
	Oh, restaurant.
	Like waitress, stuff like that.
	I've done that, yeah.
	You?
	I would say hello, a man who loves me, but is on like the broker side.
	But I do, I would understand why some ladies would choose the other option.
	Like she was having like a completely different.
	Wait, I just really quick on the sociology major thing.
	You both are sociology majors, correct?
	Yes.
	So look, we do live in California.
	Obviously, wages in California are higher than in the rest of the country.
	However, it says here, sociology major graduates in the U.S. make an average $40,000 a year or $19.40 per hour.
	You definitely have another job.
	Here, let me look at it.
	Let me do California.
	Hold on.
	Oh, well, $41,000 in California and $19.65 an hour.
	Oof.
	Okay, sorry to crush your dreams.
	You guys are first years, you can always change majors?
	Possibly.
	Here, don't listen to me.
	Chase your dreams.
	Hold on.
	And we will.
	Don't let your dreams be dreams.
	True.
	Yesterday you said tomorrow.
	So just do it.
	Okay.
	Jens donated $50.
	Look, are you being upset with people?
	But just hating to just hate is her arm.
	I have a question.
	What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?
	What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?
	Hmm.
	I suppose this is directed at us.
	I mean, I suppose what?
	What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?
	I think the only thing, let me answer that like this.
	So the one double standard that most women tend to argue is that men can sleep with more, like, a lot of women and not be called a hoe.
	Whereas women that sleep with a lot of men are definitely a hoe.
	Is that what you think?
	Oh, hold on.
	KD63.7 Super chatted $49.99.
	Ladies, my sister was assaulted in Nesby by the SH Tri-Kitty.
	I worked at Cottage ER and was working the night it happened.
	I wanted to find the men to no ends of this earth, believe me.
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	Nearly three guys triggered.
	Yeah, definitely be careful out there.
	Be safe.
	Oh, another one came through.
	Why did this?
	Oh, okay, I see.
	Yeah, we'll need to do that one.
	Okay, so a whole bunch came in.
	Let's come back to the double standards thing.
	He was asking us, what was the question again?
	A question was like, is there any double standards that women have for men?
	No, that wasn't.
	Eric, did you star that one?
	Eric?
	The double standards one?
	Oh, no, it must have, I think it came through as a.
	Oh, what is the biggest double standard that women have for men?
	Hmm.
	That women have for men.
	I mean, you mentioned the body count thing or promiscuity.
	Yeah.
	That's the only thing I can think of because society really benefits women in a lot of different ways.
	And a lot of women tend to like fight against the patriarchy.
	It's like, hold on, is there really a patriarchy whenever women have all these benefits?
	I think the big double standard that I can think of that Kind of like goes both ways is women have plenty of physical preferences that they have in men.
	Often those preferences are not things that are in men's control.
	For example, having a full head of hair, height, peen size.
	There's probably a couple others.
	So those three are things that are totally out of men's control.
	Whereas like men, if we say like, oh, we don't want to date a girl who's like overweight or obese, it's like, oh my god, how dare you?
	But like almost like the vast majority of women have a height preference.
	Nobody bats an eye when women like want to date a guy who's tall.
	But like if a guy were to say, I don't want to date a woman who's overweight.
	Oh my God.
	Actually, you would get women on dating apps say they like tall guys or they don't like short guys all the time.
	I see it all the time.
	But if a dude on a dating app were to say, I don't like fat women, he would get banned from the dating app, even though one you can control and the other you can't.
	So I would say that's when it comes to judging physical characteristics.
	Nobody shames women for their preferences in men when it comes to physical characteristics.
	However, if men even open their mouth about things that they find attractive in women, it's always like misogynist, body shaming, some sort of shit like that.
	I think that to me is the biggest double standard that exists.
	People get canceled like Andrew Tate.
	We get thrown away for a while, like Andrew Tate.
	People get demonetized.
	There's a lot of double standards whenever it comes to that aspect.
	yeah um okay so we were doing uh i'm trying to pull back up the uh super chat that we were on Let me see.
	It was, I believe this one.
	Yeah, okay, really quick.
	I think we were going around on this one.
	Did you get to go?
	No?
	Yeah, I did.
	On this one?
	Yeah, a loyal man who loves me, for sure.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Definitely a loyal man who loves me.
	Sure.
	I want to say loyal as well, but I feel like if I was in a specific situation, I would think of myself and choose the other.
	10 out of 10, humble, super chatted for.
	$59.99.
	Respect to Bangs for coming back on the pod after her host.
	If she humbled herself, actually learned something and gave herself a more realistic beauty rating, she would literally go up by about two points in attractiveness.
	Your response?
	I don't know.
	I don't know how to respond to these.
	Guys are just losing money.
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	By the way, full disclosure, there's not much on the whatever only fans, but there's a little bit more.
	Go find out.
	Yo, question for the ladies.
	Hold on.
	Let me know what it is, but we got to get caught up on the soup chats.
	What is it?
	How long would you stay in a relationship where that man wasn't making any bread?
	If we have time, we'll come back to that.
	All right.
	Dank Naked, thank you for the $20 super chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Thanks, Bryce.
	She still thinks she's a 10.
	Oh my God, she hasn't learned anything from the past show.
	There is no saving this woman.
	Your answer to that?
	Yeah, there is no saving me.
	Hurrah!
	Okay.
	We have this one came through.
	How's your speaking voice?
	Actually, can you read these?
	My throat's getting a little parched.
	No such thing as a 10.
	Nobody is perfect.
	Cameron, thank you for the $20.
	Appreciate it.
	This one came through.
	All right.
	Go for it.
	Do you want to read it?
	Rather have $10 million instead.
	Yo, Northern Viking King, thank you for the Australian 30.
	Appreciate it.
	Apologies that we're just getting to these super chats now.
	Not sure exactly what this is in context to, but appreciate it.
	Yo, Cal, thank you for the membership.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, that one came through.
	Go for it.
	I'm from New Zealand.
	These American girls are built different.
	Yo, thank you for the 20 New Zealand dollars, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Pray for us.
	Yo, all blacks, what's up?
	Yo, Target.
	I will do a Haka.
	I will do the Haka, the All Blacks Haka.
	Do you know the Haka?
	I don't.
	I'm unfamiliar.
	I'll teach you how to do it.
	I need 500 New Zealand dollars to do the 500.
	I'm just saying.
	Just saying.
	All right.
	We have, let's see here.
	Cheeks.
	Go for it.
	Nanny is for sure a 10. 10 out of 100 scale.
	I can live with that.
	I have to go to bed.
	It's late here on the East Coast.
	For the men in the chat, stop subbing to OnlyFans girls and quit following IG girls that don't appreciate you.
	Yo, Cheeks, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	If you truly love your SO, then every day should be Valentine's Day, for better or worse.
	Yo, Cameron, thank you for the $20 soup chat, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Yeah, definitely.
	I mean, like I said, Valentine's Day is kind of a gimmick.
	Go ahead.
	Brixon, are you looking for companies to sponsor the pod, or do you want sponsors?
	Or do you don't want sponsors?
	Also, Bangs almost got ganged by someone.
	You should have been the one reading that.
	Yeah.
	Yo, Mr. K, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	I love faqueros.
	Okay.
	Yeah, so I'm open to sponsorships.
	I turn quite a few of them down.
	Some of them I'll take.
	But yeah, if you have a business or company, feel free to reach out.
	And yeah.
	It's something I'm open to, but I don't take every single deal.
	Just, I don't know.
	I kind of feel like once you start taking advertiser dollars, it can compromise the integrity of the show.
	I've had sponsorship deals in the past not work out.
	And even though, yeah, they compensate you well, it's just at the end of the day, it's sometimes it's more of a headache.
	Nothing, this was like years ago, years ago.
	There's just like I don't want to say, I'm not going to say anything bad.
	I probably should shut my mouth while I'm ahead.
	Yo, Joy, thank you for the $20.
	Oh, this is that's my mother.
	Yo, what's up, Joy?
	W mom in the chat.
	Yo, you mom in the chat.
	I love her selfie, too.
	Yeah, that's all.
	You don't look like her at all.
	Whoa, what?
	Hey, man, that's my mom.
	Come on, man.
	That was Eric.
	That was Eric.
	Nah, but Tuna.
	Thank you, mom, for everything you've done.
	Shout out to you.
	Yo, Tuna, thank you for the membership, man.
	Yo, Dre Atkinson, thank you for the 20.
	Go for it.
	25-year-old married mom here.
	Hubs is high-value, 6'4, 6-figs, loyal, protective, handsome.
	You ladies have high-value men telling you what they want, but it doesn't matter.
	Why should what you want matter then?
	Especially, Bang.
	Why should what you want matter then?
	Because it's me.
	What do you mean?
	What do you mean my opinion doesn't matter?
	What?
	That's so weird.
	Well, she's saying they're high value.
	They're high value.
	They're telling you.
	They're telling you.
	They're telling you what they want.
	So I guess in an easier question, what value do you bring to them?
	I don't know.
	I think I do a lot of stuff.
	When I'm in love, I go over the top all the time.
	But so does everybody.
	So what specifically do you bring to the table to satisfy a 1 to 5% or man?
	Well, by the way, she rejects that we're high value, but I don't know.
	what would I do?
	Um, honestly, if I had a high value man, like this man's bringing in the fucking money, I'm sorry to say this.
	I'm gonna be his bitch.
	Like I'm gonna be completely honest.
	I would be his fucking bitch.
	Like I would fucking cook, clean everything.
	And what if he wasn't bringing money?
	Oh, well.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, but if I'm still in love, if I'm not mad at all.
	Well, not only that, but in order to get a high value.
	In order to get a high value man, you have to be a high value woman, which means you need to do things that other girls don't do.
	So for example, do you go out to clubs or bars?
	No.
	Do you're on OnlyFans, though?
	Yeah.
	Okay, that isn't something a high-value woman does.
	Doesn't matter.
	OnlyFans is known for that.
	And you're associated with it.
	So if you associate yourself with the wrong crowd, people are going to take you and put you in that wrong crowd, even if you're really not.
	So you have to continue to be a high-value woman, but you can't do that if you're subscribing or having men subscribe to what you're selling on the internet.
	I'm just trying to make my money.
	There are other ways to make money.
	Okay, so I don't know what to tell you.
	If you have a problem with me having an OnlyFans, I don't know.
	You want me to delete it?
	No, somebody's not going to be able to do it.
	You could do whatever you want.
	You could do whatever you want.
	I'm just letting you know.
	If you're going to be in a relationship with a high-value man, you need to be able to bring more than just the basic things that you should already be doing.
	You need to be adding value to the relationship.
	So it's not just about the very bare minimum of cooking and cleaning and being his whatever you said.
	Like it's not just that.
	It's a lot more.
	And it's not that she has a problem.
	We don't have a problem with you, but it's just a different way of looking at a healthy relationship.
	I need to do that.
	That's my question.
	Like, what makes a high-value woman?
	I think I asked that last time.
	I feel like that's something the men should answer.
	I mean, I have an answer, but...
	Do you think you're a high-value woman?
	I do.
	I do.
	Good.
	So a high-value woman would be she cooks, she cleans, keeps a traditional mindset for the most part, doesn't go out.
	What I say not necessarily goes.
	It's like, I can take what you say into consideration, but if you're going to like argue with me, give me a hard time.
	Like, from what I'm seeing from what you say that you have to offer, is you have the OnlyFans account.
	You demand him to have the same, whenever he asks you to delete your Instagram or something like that, he would have to do it as well.
	So there's a landscape that is difficult to traverse with you.
	And so, like, honestly, like, if a man was going to try and take you seriously, he would probably just smash and pass.
	I think you have to be a good follower to your partner.
	You have to be able to submit to him.
	And I follow.
	If I was really in love with the man.
	But I don't think you need to be in love with him because are you doing these things in the dating stage or in the getting to know stage?
	that's that's where you build that foundation of a healthy relationship because if you're already saying that you don't want to delete your instagram or you're going to keep your only fans even if i'm not saying i'm not gonna i'm gonna keep my only fans um if a If I got in a relationship or even I was like talking to somebody or something and he told me to delete my OnlyFans out of respect, I would do that.
	But how are you going to get into a high-value relationship if you have an OnlyFans?
	Because it puts you in that same crowd that Liz was saying.
	I'm going to follow up on that point.
	OnlyFans girls can't have high, like can't find high-value man.
	Nanny, your value is Oslo.
	Walmart wouldn't even stock you.
	Okay.
	Do you have a response to him?
	Maybe you are stocked in Walmart.
	Who knows?
	Like Target?
	Target's a more reputable establishment.
	Target.
	Target.
	Kmart.
	Kmart.
	You don't know Kmart?
	No, I do.
	Kmart is out of business.
	Yeah.
	Come on, bro.
	Oh, Sears?
	Sears is also.
	RIP, boys.
	So I wanted to piggyback on what you had to say.
	So shout out Zentience.
	He's a brain surgeon, right?
	He said he's a brain surgeon.
	Brain surgeon and, believe it or not, rocket scientists also.
	Rocket scientists.
	Like he first got into rocket science and then he's like, this shit's too easy.
	Is this a real person?
	Yeah.
	I don't think this is a real person.
	I have to go for a sec, but continue the conversation.
	Of course.
	So W Zentience.
	So to be a brain surgeon, rocket scientist at that as well, he had to go through trials, tribulations, go to school, had to get what is the degree?
	I don't know the degree.
	A doctorate?
	So he had to go through a lot of effort to become that.
	And before he got a job as that doctor, in order to do that, you have to fill out the prerequisites.
	And you have to do that before you are actually a brain surgeon, before you get hired, before you shoot a rocket into space or play a part in it.
	So why should a man take you seriously if you don't take the prerequisites to become a high-value woman before you're in a relationship?
	Before you're even in one.
	I just live my life, man.
	I don't care if I will.
	I don't know how you want me to answer this.
	I want you to answer how many people are doing that.
	And I'm answering you.
	I'm telling you.
	I just do whatever I want.
	If a man is going to, I think I want to be with a man that's going to respect me.
	And if, I don't know, like, hopefully not have a problem with OnlyFans.
	I know a lot of guys probably do, but I don't know.
	I think if I really like somebody, I'm trying to pursue them, trying to get in a relationship with them, then yeah, I would.
	So if you're trying to get in a relationship with them, I understand that you don't care what most people think.
	And shout out.
	Like, most people shouldn't care what other people think if they want to strive to their goals and stuff and dreams, aspirations.
	But in order to get a relationship with someone that you want, typically high value, probably makes a lot of money, I would assume, can take care of you, where you would want to delete all your social medias, et cetera, and be loyal to him.
	Wouldn't you want to actually do what you need to do prior to meeting that person?
	Or my OnlyFans.
	I'm not saying delete it.
	I'm single right now and I'm having fun.
	I'm not looking for a relationship.
	So I'm 21.
	You're 21.
	Yeah.
	I understand.
	I'm still really young.
	You are.
	And you're your voice too.
	want to experience new things um yeah i think and honestly like 10 out of 10 Humble, super chatted $50.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Women used to keep other women in check with wisdom and sometimes shame.
	That is sorely lacking in the West these days.
	Older slash wiser women don't do enough to keep younger, more naive, narcissistic women in check.
	Men have become soft and weak, too.
	Yo, thank you for the TTS, man.
	Really appreciate it.
	Well, I mean, there's a different order to the world now.
	We're in, I guess, a new world order, so to speak.
	So let's bring it back to high value really quick.
	So you were saying something about kind of the original was like, I think, just a regular soup chat.
	Trying to find it here.
	Let me see if I can find it.
	Well, So and I'm not saying this to criticize you, but based off of like your appearance on the last show, I think you're gonna give your guy a lot to wrestle with.
	Like because you're a little bit combative.
	And I don't think a lot of men like that.
	Well, I think honestly, like when you're in a relationship, you shouldn't just want like a very submissive person that isn't going to like help you grow.
	A woman helps you grow.
	A woman will challenge you pretty much and is trying to make you better.
	But I feel like it's just very submissive.
	Like if you're in a relationship and you're just like the head and you're like, oh, I got a say in this and the woman doesn't.
	I think that's very unfair.
	I think it's really important to like compromise for both people to communicate and express the way they feel.
	But I don't think the man should just be like telling the girl what to do in the relationship.
	I don't think that's right.
	Well, do you want a leader?
	I think so, maybe.
	Well, because I feel like you can't have the best of both worlds.
	Like if you want a guy who's a leader, in other words, a guy who takes initiative, because a lot of women will say, I want a guy who has a plan, who knows what he's doing.
	For example, for a first date, a lot of girls, and I'll see this on dating apps, they say, I don't want a guy who asks me what I want to do.
	They were like, meet here, this time, this place, be ready then, like all that stuff, right?
	So you don't want that?
	Personally, no.
	Yeah, same.
	Well, I mean, I feel like most college relationships are typically, like, come over.
	There's not, like.
	No substance.
	There's not.
	I mean, I could be wrong, but everyone's different.
	But the big thing is, is that men want peace.
	And you disagree with me?
	No, no, no, no, I don't.
	Oh.
	I don't.
	It's fine if you do.
	Just you laughed.
	No, I just, no.
	Yeah.
	It's okay if you disagree with that.
	Well, no, because who doesn't want peace in the relationship?
	Everybody wants to be safe and you want to feel loved by that person.
	And like, if you're always fighting, then like, why be with that person?
	But I mean, is it a common trope?
	Typically, men don't nag women, for example.
	You don't often hear men nagging.
	Oh, my ex, he would always fucking nag all the slam on the table.
	Sorry, but I want to give, and I feel like my previous comment, I do want to kind of give you some credit.
	When I say you're combative, I mean, obviously you've been invited on a podcast to debate these issues.
	So, you know, obviously the way that you or anyone else on the panel conducts themselves in this specific environment is going to be to some degree different than how they conduct themselves with the partners.
	Thank you, Alvin.
	Thank you.
	Shoot me a DM.
	Nanny, you can't expect to be with a high-value man without him enforcing his standards.
	He will put you to work if you want him to provide.
	HVMs do not have tolerance for your incompetence.
	You struggle to answer very basic, fundamental questions.
	So, yeah, I mean, by the way, Alvin, thank you, man.
	Shoot me a DM on Instagram, whatever.
	So obviously the way that someone is going to engage when intentionally invited on a debate format like this is going to be different than how one conducts themselves with a romantic partner, for example.
	Like the way I'm discussing these topics with you is not particularly how I would, for example, conduct myself when I'm with a partner, for example, or with a girl I'm dating.
	Frankly, these sort of topics are the last things that I want to talk about with a romantic partner.
	But I do sort of get the impression that, and perhaps it's in some ways it's good.
	I think being disagreeable, for example, if you want to be successful in business, that's a trait that you need to gather.
	However, I think when it comes to relationships, it's not something that men want or look for.
	Because the biggest thing that you can bring a guy, the biggest thing, don't forget looks, is if you can bring him peace.
	That is the biggest thing.
	Because like, for example, a guy who's really, let's say he's very successful, he's going out into the world and he's, it's a struggle.
	Business is fucking hard.
	And if he makes a lot of money, and maybe some of you girls here don't really care about that.
	Maybe at some point you will, especially if you want children, finances are going to become a much bigger factor for you as you get a bit older.
	But we're already combating with the world going out there fighting in the business world, in the corporate world.
	The last thing we want to do is like have to come and contend with our partner.
	We want our partner to be our peace.
	So some people may disagree on that.
	Some people may agree.
	But I think that's the biggest thing that a girl can bring to a relationship is peace.
	One of the biggest things anyways.
	Go ahead.
	Well, I believe in like a relationship, there's roles.
	And I feel like nowadays we've forgotten these roles.
	Can you speak just a tad louder?
	Sorry.
	I have a loud voice and I didn't want to overpower anyone.
	You said you were a Christian.
	Yeah, I am.
	Shout out to you.
	Thank you.
	I think that with these roles, God gave these roles to us.
	The man's supposed to provide and protect and we're supposed to submit to them.
	And that doesn't mean that they can be a, you know, a person that just tells you what to do and you have to do it.
	I mean, there's still conversation within that.
	And so you're supposed to give 100% into a relationship and they're supposed to give 100% into the relationship.
	And it's not 100%, 100% with both.
	Like, it's not just one role and you both are playing 50% and you're not putting 50 and he's putting 50.
	He's putting 100% in his role and you're putting 100% in your role.
	And that's how you keep peace.
	Because he provides.
	And I'm not saying you can't make money, blah, I'm not saying that.
	But he should still be the sole provider and take care of you and protect you because that man is going to protect you and your children and keep bread on your table and you can help out when you can.
	But like our job is to submit and to help him to become the best version of who he can be.
	And he will help us be the best version of us.
	But we still have to submit.
	Do you have a response to her before I have you come in?
	Do you have a response?
	That's her opinion, but I think everybody, like maybe your husband is that way, but there's a lot of guys that aren't that way either.
	That's the problem.
	But who should pay?
	Why does it subscribe to your OnlyFans?
	Who should pay on the first date?
	I guess the man.
	Okay.
	Well, do you want a man to adhere to his more traditional gender roles there?
	I want to give you guys an opportunity.
	I feel like I am a pretty traditional person other than like the only fans.
	I have OnlyFans.
	I don't post nudes on there, like I said.
	I'm just trying to make my money.
	And I feel like I am pretty traditional.
	I feel like in a relationship I am at least.
	Like maybe that might, you guys can't see that right now, but in a relationship, I think I am pretty submissive or whatever.
	I don't know if you guys can't tell, but I think I am.
	I think it's just the way that you have gone about the conversations and disagreed about a lot of the topics that have been talked about.
	And I think you mentioned something about Being some not having to be submissive, and you said something negative about being submissive.
	That you didn't listen to your mom, your dad, your any man.
	You do you.
	That's what you've said.
	And so, I think that's what makes us, you know, it makes everyone see you as someone that's not traditional or even want to.
	I think if I really, really, like, if I love the person, I want to be in a relationship with them.
	And I'm saying this because I feel like when I like somebody, I like I love them and I would do anything for them.
	And I don't know, like, I'm just, if, I don't know, I would, I don't know how to answer this, to be honest.
	I feel like I need to experience this more.
	Um, I haven't been in a relationship in a while.
	Um, so so, are you ready to submit to someone?
	Like, if you are looking for a relationship, I'm not looking for a relationship.
	Okay, I feel like we're trying to convert.
	Yeah, you guys want me to be in a relationship?
	Well, I hope that you don't feel like we're dogpiling on you.
	But, and I do it's difficult because, on one hand, I do invite people on the show to basically engage in a conversation and in a debate.
	So, on one hand, I don't know if it's fair for me to characterize you.
	So, I think there's been maybe perhaps a few moments in the show where there's been a bit of combativeness.
	But I don't know if it's if it's fair to characterize you as combative because we have intentionally invited you on what is essentially a debate show about dating.
	And like I said already, the way you conduct yourself in this environment may very well be different than how you conduct yourself in a relationship, much in the same way that we're all sort of actors.
	We're all actors in the sense that the way you conduct yourself in a classroom, for example, when there's someone of authority, a teacher, is very different than when you conduct yourself amongst your friends or the way you conduct yourself in front of your parents, for example.
	Go ahead, you wanted to come in?
	I was saying maybe she feels a little bit not attacked, but kind of out of place.
	Jacob underscore W donated $50.
	This short-term gain will last until it doesn't.
	You age out of your market.
	You will be independent until you're not.
	All you'll be left with when you're older is yourself and the fact you willfully closed all opportunities towards a relationship.
	Yo, Jacob, thank you for the super chat.
	Do you have a response to that?
	I want you guys, I want you two to come in because maybe you guys have her back a little bit, or maybe not.
	I don't know, but oh, hold on.
	Frankie Kate super chatted $50.
	A high-value woman is considered a home maker, agreeable, submissive, pure, loyal, honest, feminine, and brings her man peace.
	Few men who know their worth would be okay with his woman selling herself on the internet.
	Ov is a huge yellow.
	You got a response to these.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know what to say.
	Like, they're just hating.
	They're losing their money hating because I don't care what they have to say.
	I'm going to do me.
	I'm single.
	I want to make my money.
	Hot girl winter.
	Yeah.
	Hot girl winter.
	Spring coming up on her.
	It's been hot girl.
	All right.
	She was saying something.
	Yeah.
	I was just going to say that you had already said it.
	They're really quiet.
	So maybe they kind of have her back too.
	Just so that, I don't know, there's more conversation to agree and disagree on.
	I agree what you were saying about like the 100%.
	Like, I can give 100%.
	And then my boyfriend.
	A little louder.
	And then my boyfriend can give 100% as long as we're both contributing to the relationship.
	If she wants to have an OnlyFans letter, I don't understand why everybody's being so competitive and why the chat keeps flaming up.
	I would say the reason is because she also said she want to get married, right?
	Yeah, I guess.
	But is she married right now?
	Yeah, not married.
	So right now her value is at her peak.
	So between like the ages of 18 to 24 would be about her peak value because men find your youth to be sad to be honest.
	In society women have an expiration date.
	Here's the part where if we, if a man, have a stand as a standard, it's demonized and looked down upon, whereas if a woman had a standard and where she can just do whatever she wants and the man just accepts me, that that's not demonized.
	But the thing is, is that men actually do care a lot about these things?
	And it sounds like you don't care, because you also said you don't listen to men and I'm not.
	I promise I'm not trying to attack you, but you're one of the people that really disagree with the most values and I'm really honestly trying to understand why you think the way you do.
	Continue with your point.
	Go ahead.
	Well, I was saying that, like to answer him or say what I was saying before, you can do both.
	Go ahead, okay.
	Well, I was gonna say that in the eyes of society, like in society, like women have an expiration date, like once you reach a certain age, you're not valued that much anymore.
	Like, as women get older um, like in, like in society, like art, we're not seen as beautiful.
	Like why is it?
	Like it's always like younger girls that are seen as beautiful and that's really unstoppable.
	Aging is unstoppable.
	People are gonna age, you know.
	But um to, to like say, to answer your question, which I kind of forget.
	Well, let me, let me answer that.
	So I mean, it's kind of all rooted in biology and evolution.
	So um, men are fertile pretty much until the day they die, whereas women's fertility window is much narrower once you get to 35 that's when you enter high-risk pregnancy territory, much higher risk of miscarriage, birth defects, more difficulty actually getting pregnant.
	So, and as you start getting into your late 30s, early 40s, by the time you're 45, the likelihood that you can get pregnant and bring that if you, even if you do get pregnant, being able to bring that pregnancy to term, uh is so greatly diminished.
	So um, men have, for evolutionary reasons, have they're more attracted to younger women, for example, because younger women are more fertile.
	And since like, i'm gonna say it like this uh, since most women live life on easy mode that's one of the negative things that women have you're gonna get some pushback on that one, I think, define easy mode.
	I'm just interested, i'm not against you or anything.
	So uh, women have uh, the basic outlet of only fans, whereas if a man were to go on only fans not saying that some men can't, but the likelihood that he's gonna make a significant amount of income on that site is diminished.
	You're gonna get canceled for this one.
	So you're saying pretty privileged right, kind of like you're not.
	You're not wrong, absolutely wrong.
	Because oh, there's a lot of beautiful girls out there.
	Oh sorry, birth control alarm.
	There's a lot of beautiful girls out there.
	I would say that there's more beautiful women than there are.
	Is that what it is?
	Yeah, birth control alarm.
	Yeah, I call it.
	I'm gonna just do it later.
	Do it later.
	Do it later, it's fine.
	Two hours you have to take it.
	Yeah, it's fine.
	You gotta just get pregnant with your husband.
	I'll speak loud enough so she can hear she will, all right um so, where was I?
	Okay, typical night in the world, okay.
	So, a woman can also post on Instagram like a really pretty picture or whatever, and she gets bunches of likes.
	And most women actually use Instagram for dating, I would say, but they also use it for, like you said, you have your OnlyFans in your description.
	So, it's also like a phishing tactic to try and like lure men in.
	So, you could post whatever you want, and then men see it.
	It's like, oh, I wonder if she has an OnlyFans.
	Actually, that's one of the first things that men should do as soon as you find a girl attractive.
	Go into her Instagram or any of their social media sites and see if she has an OnlyFans and really decide if that's something you want to be involved with.
	So, another thing: 10 out of 10, humble, super chatty.
	Thank you, man.
	I actually have your back.
	I know that you're young and in your prime, but I am in my 30s, as is my girlfriend.
	We want you to be happy after your prime and into old age.
	Please take a little time to do some self-reflecting.
	You still have time.
	Self-reflecting on what?
	Because I have OnlyFans?
	Yes.
	You guys got to get over that.
	I'm so sorry, but there's men in the real world that don't think like this.
	I've met men that are, like, I don't know, like, you guys are, some of the guys in the chat too, they're like, oh, I would never pay on the first date.
	Some random dude just paid for my tank of gas.
	Like, I'm sorry, but I've been around.
	I have really high standards because that's what I've experienced.
	You have high standards.
	That's what I'm going to hold men.
	I'll get to you accountable for.
	Thank you, Dave.
	I've never had life on easy mode because they will never have the true feeling of being alone.
	So many men and their problems are invisible to pretty much everyone else.
	A woman will be wanted at her worst.
	A man will be ignored.
	Yo, Bryce, that good point.
	True.
	I don't know if the girls are happy about that one.
	Actually, I have a photo pulled up that kind of illustrates this.
	Eric, can you pull up that comic book photo really quick?
	Yeah.
	So this is kind of like Eric, can you control mouse wheel up?
	Yeah, that's fine.
	So like, yeah, that's kind of like, I feel like, women's experience, you know, like, I think I see the guy that paid for her gas in there.
	You're so funny.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Who, him?
	Or?
	I just don't understand why, if you think that a woman is pretty, that you need to go to her Instagram and make sure that she has an OnlyFans.
	Like, what is the big deal about OnlyFans?
	I get like the high-value woman and being like in that kind of category when you have an OnlyFans.
	I understand all of that.
	I just don't understand why it's such a big deal.
	Do you want to go first?
	Of course.
	Yeah, you go first.
	I got you.
	Yeah, I'll go after you.
	Okay, yeah, you're going to go after you.
	I'll go after you.
	Wait, can I say something?
	Some guys that I've even talked to.
	Thank you.
	Some guys that I've even talked to have encouraged me to make OnlyFans.
	And they're like, they're like, dude, let's make content together.
	Those aren't high-value men.
	You said men.
	You said that.
	They want to see you naked without doing the work.
	Huh?
	They want to see you naked without doing the work.
	Or promiscuous photos with you covering up very minimal.
	What?
	A man would rather pay to see a girl half-naked or naked than do the work himself and see it for himself.
	Make sense?
	So, like, with OnlyFans, there's a predisposition where there's obviously naked pictures all over an OnlyFans.
	Like, yo, so my OnlyFans, it's with the underlying tone that you have naked pictures on there.
	I don't have naked pictures.
	Right.
	So, what you're doing is you're finessing men.
	I'm proud of you.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Do what you do.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You got to get your bag somehow.
	Yes.
	But the thing is, is that you're going to do it in a negative way, and you're going to do it.
	The money's going to go to your head.
	You're never going to be able to get more and more money because OnlyFans is going to pay your whole lifestyle.
	It can.
	And then you're growing up at 21, you said?
	You're 21, so you have this level of ego that is going to be crazy astronomical.
	The older you get, the more money you make.
	And you won't see it now because obviously you're not 25 yet.
	You're still 21.
	So whenever that hit, you're going to hit what's called a wall, and you're going to be crying.
	You're going to be worried about, like, I don't want to have any man to love me for me.
	I'm not doing OnlyFans forever.
	I'm just because I wanted to make money.
	Right.
	Because I'm not sure.
	Like, I'm not taking it seriously.
	I'm not like, oh my gosh, like, I'm an OnlyFans model.
	Like, I don't know why you guys are thinking that.
	Like, I literally have just pictures of me on there.
	Like, I don't know what the fuck is going on.
	And this comes to where it's like, to answer your question, this comes to the fact that men have standards.
	And whenever we enforce them, because you said, I don't understand why you think the way you do.
	Whenever a man has standards and he actually puts his foot down and abides by them, he's going to keep them and he's not going to take you seriously.
	He will smash you.
	He will absolutely get it.
	Even some men go as far as to get relationships with women just so they can smash.
	I've done it.
	And those are horrible.
	Yeah, you are terrible.
	And those men should not be boyfriends and they should not be in a relationship if that's the only standard for women.
	Just to have sex with them and then move on.
	But that's what you just said.
	That some men will only get into a relationship to have sex with a woman and then move on.
	Absolutely.
	And those are horrible men is what I'm trying to say.
	Period.
	Those are horrible.
	This is the reality.
	This is what I'm saying.
	I understand that.
	I'm well aware of that.
	And so I understand if you don't understand why, but I'm telling you why.
	It's because you're doing actions that a man would not want to take seriously, but you don't understand the insatiable need for a man to have sex with a real woman, not just sit there and beat his meat on an OF account in front of Pixels.
	That's how that gross is.
	It's more of like a simple comment, but what you put out there is what you receive.
	And if you're going to put out that you're on OnlyFans or any kind of platform that sells yourself to people, you're going to receive low people.
	That's a normal thing.
	So if you want a high-value man, you can't, you can't, why don't you want to keep your purity for that person?
	And to add on that, you're saying that the content on your OnlyFans does not have you naked or anything, which is, I get that.
	But just with you having it, people are going to have that thought about you.
	So that's the problem of why it's such a big deal.
	And I got demonized just now.
	Like, I don't know why you guys are trying really hard to make me care, and I'm here to tell you, I don't give a fuck.
	And I don't give a fuck what you guys think because I'm living my life.
	I just met you guys today.
	I just met some of you guys today, and I'm probably never going to see you guys again.
	Oh, don't say that.
	Whenever you say you want to get married, though, thanks.
	I have a name, Brian.
	Call me by my name.
	What was your name?
	What's your name?
	What's your name?
	Brian.
	You invited me here.
	Brian, you know, all of us who you should know.
	You shouldn't know our names.
	You should be a respectful host and know our names.
	And refer to us as our appearance, okay?
	It doesn't matter what you think.
	Wait, so, well, first off, first off, there's a lot of you and a few of me.
	I can't commit everyone's name to memory.
	Thank you, man.
	Oh, my gosh.
	This man is a chat.
	He realizes that if all a woman would offer is just her box, not all.
	But if all she is worth is her body, the relationship wasn't going to work out either way.
	Chad guessed.
	Yo, thank you for the Stream Labs donation.
	Appreciate it.
	Okay.
	So let's get back to what you're saying.
	I don't even remember what I was saying.
	You were actually talking about how what I did was terrible.
	No, I never said that what you did was terrible.
	I'm saying that menu.
	But you're saying that men who bait women into relationships strictly for sex is terrible.
	Yes.
	Do you think that OnlyFans creators that actually don't post nudes are manipulative to those men that want to pay for the family?
	There's an option on there where you don't have to post nudes.
	Yeah, you don't have to.
	Yeah, there's an option on there where you put, if it's a pornographic account or not, mine isn't pornographic.
	I don't have to use all of that.
	They can also leave her OnlyFans.
	Yeah.
	They don't have to be selling.
	That is a man's decision if they want to subscribe to her OnlyFans.
	Yes or no?
	A man's decision to subscribe.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	Okay.
	Okay, so if she's not posting pornographic photos and her account, her page says non-pornographic content.
	Well, that's what I'm saying.
	I mean, here's the other thing.
	So you mentioned she can always delete her account.
	The thing is, the internet's forever.
	Like, no, I said that if the guys don't like what she's posting, they can always unsubscribe.
	Oh, okay, I see what you're saying.
	Okay.
	So one of the reasons, even if she's not posting lewd photos, one thing that, yeah, go ahead.
	You're getting, oh, hold on.
	Notice I've donated $50.
	The difference between Bangs and Leatherjacket knows is that Bangs makes money off her egg and knows pays to buy followers on her 23 account.
	Leatherjacket has been talking all night and she's no better than Bangs.
	She's jealous.
	Wow.
	Shots fired.
	Do you have a response to it?
	I am getting a nose job, actually.
	But I don't know.
	If you have an opinion, that's fine.
	Okay.
	Wow.
	All right, guys.
	The chat is spicy tonight.
	Okay, so one of the things with OnlyFans, though, even if you're not posting lewd content, is you're, I mean, one of the ways you make money is by interacting with the people.
	You're like, you're chatting with them and stuff.
	Okay, well, a lot of OnlyFans creators, they're like chatting with the guys, and it's almost like this parasocial relationship that you develop.
	And there's definitely a finesse component to it.
	I mean, if you really wanted to start money, you'd actually be talking to and interacting with the guys.
	So I think the big thing with social media and OnlyFans is you are fulfilling your need for male attention.
	And like typically the way that, at least before social media, OnlyFans, all this stuff, typically women would get that through a romantic partner.
	But women are already getting that need filled by the dudes in her Instagram, the dudes on her OnlyFans.
	So your romantic partner is no longer kind of his attention becomes less valuable.
	So there's that.
	Also, a big thing when it comes to OnlyFans is it's kind of a respect thing.
	And I feel like super chatted $50.
	The woman in the leather jacket gets it.
	Men respect her and she will find a high-value man in life.
	Please understand, young ladies, respect is given for doing what is honorable/slash hard.
	Selling your honor on of is not respected by marriageable men.
	Yeah, so I think one of the big things that men want is we respect.
	Respect is huge.
	And so we want respect from our peers, our friends, family, etc.
	And for men, like you think about the men who are in jail for violence crimes, for example.
	A lot of that's about respect.
	And you hear it like in prison, if you disrespect someone, you're getting shanked.
	Now, I'm using kind of an extreme example here, but respect is like men will kill other men over being disrespected.
	Obviously, I think violence is abhorrent, but men will act on being disrespected.
	So I guess what I'm trying to say is that's how important to men respect is.
	And I think a lot of men, when it comes to OnlyFans, they feel like they are not going to be able to get respect from their peers if they're significant to other.
	For example, there's videos of her out there getting gangbanged by 10 men.
	Their peers are not going to respect them.
	Now, I will say this, though.
	So a lot of guys just won't date a girl who does OF outright.
	And I've said this on the show, and I actually get a lot of heat from my viewers.
	I would date a girl who does OF contingent upon the fact that it's solo content.
	If she's like doing anything boy girl, anything like that, I wouldn't do it.
	But would it be my, ideally, would I prefer a girl to not have OnlyFans?
	Yes.
	100%.
	Like if I had to pick the two exact same girls, one has an OnlyFans and one doesn't, even if the OnlyFans that she does, it's solo content.
	I prefer the girl without the OnlyFans.
	But I would be willing to date a girl who does have an OnlyFans where she posts solo content.
	I'm going to get excoriated.
	Can I ask you a question, Brian?
	Hold on.
	I'm going to get excoriated in the chat for this.
	But like, come on, guys.
	Come on.
	Come on.
	Anyways, what's up?
	Would you marry her?
	See, that's where it becomes a bit more complicated.
	Can I ask you something?
	Sure.
	What if she was like, let's make content together?
	Would you do it?
	Well, I would never do content to me.
	Like, I would never be in the content because I don't want to be out of the way.
	What if you don't show your face or anything?
	No, I'm not.
	None of my body is going to be.
	I'm not going to do any pornographic stuff.
	But, I mean, I would be, would I shoot for a girl and take 50%?
	Sure.
	50%?
	I'm taking 50%.
	That's right.
	Okay.
	Listen, look at it this way, right?
	What would you rather have?
	100% of $1,000 or 50% of $20,000?
	Because if you work with me, we're going to be making $20,000.
	If you work by yourself, you're going to be making $1,000.
	50% of $20,000 is $10,000.
	I can't do that.
	Don't tell me these personalities.
	Yeah, hold on.
	I got this for you.
	Hold on.
	All right.
	Math is difficult to learn.
	I can't with math.
	So, yeah.
	I mean, obviously, like, it's just, would I prefer a girl that just doesn't have OnlyFans?
	and thus far there's some men out there that are completely fine with their girls having OnlyFans There's literally this girl.
	Like, she's like the top OF model in Australia.
	Her boyfriend's completely fine with it.
	Like, he's fine.
	And he's like, and they have been together since she was like, like, in high school.
	We're not saying that it precludes you from ever finding a man.
	There's just certain men that, it's just men.
	Hold on, don't interrupt.
	Don't interrupt.
	Please let me finish my thought.
	Okay.
	Can you still find a guy?
	Can you still get married?
	Yeah, sure.
	Although, it is going to be a roadblock for a lot of men.
	It is going to be an issue for a lot of men.
	If you're okay with that, if you're going to do the calculus and say, well, I'm okay with that risk, then that's totally fine.
	But you do have, in the same way that me having this podcast, some women don't want to fuck with me because I've got this controversial podcast.
	Napoleon Middleton Super Chatted $49 of 99 cents.
	Bangs, I would love to see you go on to Fresh EnFit podcast and watch Myron.
	We can get that arranged.
	Thank you, Napoleon.
	Appreciate it.
	I've never watched Fresh and Fit.
	I don't know who Myron is.
	Yeah, that would be interesting.
	Whoa.
	What makes you think I'd go on there?
	For the same reason why you came on here.
	Well, you don't know the reason why I came on here.
	Why did you come on here?
	I'm not going to say.
	Okay.
	So did you guys want to come in on something?
	I want to give you guys more of an opportunity to speak.
	Okay.
	I mean, I do see what you're saying about how you would prefer a girl that doesn't have an OnlyFans.
	I understand that.
	Very understandable.
	Which, oh, really quick on that, I've never dated a girl thus far who has an OnlyFans.
	So.
	Wait, what's your dating situationship?
	I just want to know.
	What do you mean?
	Like, are you and like, when was your longest relationship?
	Like, I'm just curious.
	Okay, I've had three long-term relationships.
	I've had a five-year relationship, a two-year relationship, a one-year relationship.
	My most recent thing was about six, seven months.
	That ended a couple months ago.
	I'm like super busy with work.
	I'm trying to pay off my parents' mortgage.
	Solid gold.
	I've been, I've had, I move on quick.
	I mean, I've had relationships.
	It's not my first rodeo.
	So, like, yeah, it sucks, but it's just, I mean, I'm a stoic.
	So, but what was the question, though?
	Oh, I'm just so busy with the podcast.
	Like, I'm trying to make like, I mean, a lot of money.
	Well, yeah, that's my primary focus.
	So, my situation right now is like, I really haven't been dating a whole bunch.
	And honestly, dating kind of feels like a bit of a waste of time for me right now.
	Like I said, I'm trying to retire my parents.
	I'm trying to pay off my parents' mortgage.
	I'm trying to make enough money to like, would I be able to provide for a girl and so she just doesn't have to work?
	Like, that's the goal.
	Oh, that's what you want to do?
	You want to provide for a girl so she doesn't have to work?
	Well, my partner, if she's the right girl, then I retire us.
	Well, I retire myself at 40, 45.
	Maybe I continue the podcast, but yeah, just retire early, probably.
	That's good.
	Sorry, guys.
	You only have me for another decade.
	But who knows?
	We'll see how things hold up.
	Can I ask a question on that one?
	Yeah.
	If a man wasn't in a breadwinner position and you were taking care of your man, how long would it last?
	If like if your man was the first thing you said.
	So.
	So if you were the primary breadwinner in your relationship, how long would you supply life for that man?
	Like, say that he had no job, for example?
	I don't know.
	It depends on my job, I guess.
	Like, your man just lost his job.
	Wait long.
	Why were you asking about my relationship status?
	Oh, I just wanted to know, to be honest.
	I was just being nosy.
	You were asking all of us.
	Oh, sure.
	I don't reveal too many details, but yeah, honestly, I just found that dating just seems kind of at this point.
	I don't know.
	Can I just ask you this real quick?
	Are you dating?
	Look, not dating.
	Okay, I guess.
	I don't know how to word it.
	I don't know how to word it, but I'm saying when you date, are you thinking like this is going to be my wife?
	Like, I don't know.
	I'm probably not going to get married.
	You're not going to get married?
	No, I could have a life partner, but I don't need the government involved in my love life.
	That's true.
	There's no benefits for me.
	Yeah, and also it's just like it's a big L for men in the United States.
	Financial suicide.
	Yeah.
	It's self-deletion.
	It's pretty bad.
	And I'm a high-earner, so it's a big fucking L for me if I get married.
	A lot of girls do want to get married, and I think it would be really hard for you to find a girl that's going to be a lifelong partner with you if you're not going to put a ring on her finger.
	And it's also hard to find a lifelong partner.
	I was just saying, like, without the ring, like, she's not going to want to be.
	She's going to dip.
	If you find a girl, what do you think, Kaylin?
	I think the same thing.
	If you're not going to commit to her fully, like in marriage, she's not going to want to stay with you.
	Because why would she want to stay with you if there's like a chance?
	You're not going to tell other girls you're married.
	So other girls are going to think like they can have a chance.
	Well, I can be.
	I'm not.
	I can be monogamous.
	Yeah, you can well.
	What does?
	What does you can be monogamous outside of a marriage.
	Again, if there's no ring on your finger though, a girl can assume whatever she wants.
	It shows that's a bigger problem for women than it is.
	It shows lack of commitment.
	Commitment doesn't show that you're as interested in the girl as they are probably in you.
	Well, it makes women don't hit on guys.
	I don't think you realize this.
	Women have a lot of people.
	Modern day women hit on guys.
	I have a lot of women do not regularly hit on men, approach men, match with men on dating apps, send the first message, send DMs.
	Hold on, stop interrupting.
	With the same frequency that men do to women.
	So it's actually, if I don't have a wedding ring on my finger, women don't approach me.
	Like, women don't approach dudes.
	Yo, women, you think women approach men?
	Okay, I'm speaking in generalities here.
	Okay.
	When I say, do you think women approach men?
	I mean to the same degree that men do.
	Yeah, and I agree with you.
	Generally, no.
	Okay.
	Most women don't.
	Sure.
	But.
	So a ring on my finger is kind of irrelevant.
	And also, I just point to a girl.
	That's my wife.
	I'll need the government to say.
	Fair enough.
	Because I'm very anti-government.
	Okay.
	So I don't need the government involved in my love life.
	I actually think it's the girl's job to try and get the ring.
	Okay.
	She has to be marriage material for her to get the ring.
	Yeah, so I understand what you're saying with that.
	Absolutely.
	She has to abide by my standard.
	About 80% of divorces happen because of women.
	So I understand why men do not want to get married.
	But with that aside, would you consider a prenup?
	Since you can choose what percentage you get and what percentage she gets if something were to go down.
	Yeah, you mention a prenup.
	Absolutely not.
	Because prenups are thrown out.
	Oh, hold on.
	Jim's don't even use $50.
	A man using a woman for her body is demonized in a cancel-label offense, while a woman using men for their wallet is considered acceptable.
	Question is for all.
	Is dating a man for money that he worked hard for equals getting in a relationship to smash?
	Wait, what's the question?
	Is dating a man for money that he worked hard for?
	Is dating a man for money that he worked for?
	Hold on, we're going to have to come back to that one just so I can finish off on this prenup thing.
	Okay, so prenups are regularly thrown out all the time.
	They're typically not enforceable, especially the longer the marriage goes on, the less likely they are to be enforced.
	So, you know, you hear a lot of these stories, prenups just get thrown up, thrown out.
	I think it happened to Dr. Dre.
	He had a prenup with his wife.
	He got took to the fucking cleaners by his wife.
	So, like, to me, it just, it doesn't make sense.
	The United States and a lot of Western countries are going to have to rewrite the marriage laws to incentivize men to get married because men are waking up to the fact that men get absolutely destroyed in marriage and in divorce.
	Financially, when it comes to the kids, women are more likely to get custody.
	And then also, if you do get a divorce, the financial cost of just getting the attorney, getting all that involved.
	If it's a contested divorce, you're going to spend mid-five figures, six figures on attorneys.
	And you got to pay for her attorney too if she's not, if it's not a 50-50 relationship.
	So, I mean, 50% of marriages end in divorce.
	I think you said 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
	90% if she's college educated.
	Yeah, 90% if she's college educated.
	90% of child support payments go from men to women.
	97% of alimony payments go from men to women.
	So it's just marriage, if you're a betting man, it's not a good bet for men.
	And we've done away with, you know, you have no fault divorce.
	So a woman can cheat on you.
	She can get spit roasted.
	And infidelity, and she can still get half her shit if she cheated on you, which would be a perfectly justified reason for wanting to divorce someone.
	Imagine that cheating.
	You caught your wife cheating, and then now you have to pay her alimony for the next 20 years.
	Like, that's absurd.
	Yeah, men don't get married.
	There's actually this case in Canada, Eric.
	I think you've looked it up before.
	In Canada, this guy was dating a woman, and they weren't married.
	And somehow he had to pay, it was just a girlfriend, didn't have children.
	He had to pay her support.
	He was a wealthy guy, went to court, not married.
	He had to pay her like alimony, basically.
	So, marriage is an L for dudes.
	I don't know.
	I think it's the first one, Eric, if you want to pull it up.
	I actually have some for this.
	May I?
	Hold on, just while we pull this up, Eric, you got it.
	Can you scroll up?
	Scroll up the title, the title.
	Canadian court asks man to pay $53,000 per month to ex-girlfriend as spousal support.
	Scroll down a little bit.
	Scroll down.
	It was something about like they were no children.
	Oh, here, I'll get this.
	Alvin Sam super chatted $49.99.
	These women are viewing marriage from an idealistic view, but the guys are viewing it from a pragmatic view.
	My co-worker is paying off his ex-wife's $42,000 gambling debt she acquired because of community property.
	Ladies, let that sink in.
	Damn.
	Yeah, there's no, there's like, if we were in a traditional social order, say how things used to be 50, 60, 70 years ago, where both legally, well, I think I don't know if much change has actually changed legally.
	There's been a couple shifts legally, but societally, also it was frowned upon to get divorced.
	Now it's like, go, girl, like get fucking divorced.
	So now it's not a big deal.
	So if there's no incentive to continue the relationship, to stay divorced, if there's no stigma to being divorced, then what is the incentive for women to get married and to stay married?
	Because here's one thing in both business and in love.
	You do not enter into a contract where the other party is rewarded for breaking it.
	And the fact of the matter is, women are rewarded financially for breaking their marriage contract.
	Substantially rewarded, in fact, for breaking their marriage contract.
	Now we're speaking out of 10 humble super chatted $50.
	Respect to you.
	Thank you, man.
	Stoicism is something that all men need.
	Marcus Aurelius, best Roman Emperor, book meditations helped me get over my divorce.
	Your chat co-host will find happiness.
	Thank you for what you do.
	Big W to Christian Woman, too.
	Yeah.
	Oh, here.
	I'll hold it up here.
	Meditations by Marcus Aurelius.
	Good book.
	Do the audiobook.
	It's a bit easier to get through.
	Thanks, bro.
	Yeah, I appreciate it.
	Go ahead.
	What were you saying?
	I was going to say, divorce is speaking in a very worldly way.
	Thank you, Bryce.
	Thank you, Bryce.
	I'd like to ask the girl who said she was Christian.
	Do you believe in saving yourself from marriage?
	If so, is it in the sense of spirit or the law?
	You are married when you have sex, not because of the government.
	So saving yourself is for the right guy to do it.
	Yeah, so the question is, is it, do you believe in saving yourself from marriage?
	That's a good question.
	It actually is a good question.
	And yeah, I do believe in saving yourself from marriage.
	Sadly, I didn't have that chance to save myself from marriage.
	But when my husband and I both got engaged, we decided that we were going to save ourselves in that aspect where we weren't going to have sex and wait until we got married to have that sort of communion together.
	And it does.
	The government, yeah.
	How do I explain this?
	The question was, can it be asked one more time, the question?
	I want to make sure I get it right.
	Well, let's keep it moving.
	Never mind.
	I mean, it was a good point.
	But yes, I think it's important.
	I think it's important to stay pure because you should be giving everything to the man that you marry.
	Everything as in your thoughts, emotions, and your body as well.
	Word.
	And just really quick on the marriage thing.
	Women disproportionately initiate divorce more often because divorce outcomes disproportionately favor women.
	So it's just, look, in the United States, it's not a good bet for men to get married.
	It's a big L to get married.
	May I say?
	Go for it.
	Okay, so imagine like you have a corporate job, right?
	You have a corner office, right?
	You have a corner office, you got plenty of PTO benefits, full medical, dental, everything you can think of.
	If you want to go to school, it's paid for.
	Now you get a promotion, right?
	You get a promotion.
	You lose the corner office.
	You're in the middle of a public office space with everybody else.
	You lose your PTO benefits.
	You lose your health insurance.
	You lose half of your salary.
	You were making $100K before, now you're making $50K.
	Do you think that's a good promotion?
	I see where you're going with this.
	Oh, whoops.
	I was talking.
	I see where you're going with this and using it as a...
	Real quick, I'm sorry to interrupt.
	Can...
	Can I get a quick raise hand if you think that's a good promotion?
	I just don't see, like, the promotion with, like, the salary and, like, your benefits and, like, your office space, the exact same thing as a marriage.
	Like, yeah, I see like the divorce and like, you know, I just don't agree.
	I didn't mean to interrupt what you were saying.
	You're good.
	That is only one aspect of the job, though.
	What else does a promotion entail though?
	I mean, yeah, you're in the middle of a space, but what else do you get?
	Nothing?
	No.
	Because that's not what a marriage is.
	You don't get nothing in return.
	We're talking about finances here.
	But finance is only one part of a marriage.
	And people are raised that money over everything.
	So a lot of people have been skewed to like focus on the bag, focus on money.
	I'm just trying to get my money.
	You hear it every day.
	And this is what society has gotten to.
	It's not love anymore.
	It's money.
	I know.
	Money plays a huge factor in finding a potential mate.
	Because you look for, correct me if I'm wrong, you look for safety, security.
	Security is going to be financial gains, essentially.
	Safety, you want to have a man that knows what he's doing, can fight, hold him, hold up, like stick up for you in the middle of confrontation.
	You want that from your man.
	But if you don't get the stuff, you would be turned off, correct?
	Yeah, but that comes also with a high-value man.
	Correct.
	Yes.
	You found one.
	Yes, I did.
	Congrats.
	There's a lot of men out there that don't do this, but there's also a lot of women that think that this is the way society should be.
	And if you want love, if you want marriage, you're not going to find it doing OnlyFans and not submitting a password.
	Get over the OnlyFans.
	Get over it.
	Get over it.
	But yeah.
	Well, let's keep it respectful, guys.
	Okay, so I apologize for that.
	No, You're honestly way more respectful than the last dude I had to deal with.
	Yo, Flenn Life, I like.
	Hold on.
	Flenn Life, thank you for the 10 games.
	What was about to say?
	Oh, I was just going to say, I like the way you carry yourself and deliver your opinions.
	Like, you don't come out as disrespectful or anything.
	Okay, last thing on marriage here.
	Last thing on marriage here.
	So I have a list here of some men who have been divorced.
	And these are exceptionally attractive men who are high status, high earners.
	So here we go.
	Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Dr. Dre, Ryan Reynolds, Tom Brady, Lance Armstrong, Alex Rodriguez, Channing Tatum, Chris Rock, Ben Affleck, Chris Pratt, Liam Hemsworth, Ben Stiller, David DuCovny, Orlando Bloom, Tiger Woods, Sean Penn, Sylvester Stallone, Paul McCartney, Ryan Felipe, Jason Mamoa, Michael Jordan, and did I said Tom Brady, right?
	If those men can't hold on to a girl, what chance do you think a regular guy has?
	Why are you laughing?
	I'm just going to explain, like the way you worded it, like if they can't hold on to a girl.
	I'm not, I just think it's funny.
	Mark Evan Gaines super chatted $49.99.
	Money is everything, yes, but money can be found anyway.
	Love and appreciation can only come from few.
	I agree.
	All right.
	There you go.
	I like that.
	He worded it very well.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, man.
	Yeah, Dr. Dre had to pay his wife over $100 million in the divorce settlement.
	And they had a prenup.
	And then Kim K, a billionaire in her own right, is getting $200,000 a year from Kanye West in child support.
	So the laws do not benefit men.
	I don't think men should be getting married.
	That's your opinion?
	That should be a law that changes as well.
	It shouldn't be a percentage based on how much money you make.
	It should be a set amount to live an average life.
	You know what I'm saying?
	An average normal life.
	The government shouldn't be doing that.
	It shouldn't be percentage based.
	That's what we're fighting for, man.
	We're fighting.
	We need to have this change.
	We need to all speak up.
	If you can start a channel or something or whatever and speak your mind and actually be base.
	Don't just attack women because attacking women ain't going to get us nowhere.
	You can't make change with hate.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Like, I promise I wasn't attacking you.
	I didn't want to come off.
	That's okay.
	I think you are.
	Prenups are more about fair allocation of assets rather than barring one partner from assets.
	Don't believe what you see in movies.
	Marriage in the U.S. is an extremely bad proposition for men, especially successful men.
	Perspective from an attorney.
	Actually, I think would be a really good, either a one-on-one episode or to bring on a panel would be to bring on a divorce attorney to the show to talk about this because they know firsthand, okay, prenups get thrown out.
	Here's how much you can expect to pay in alimony after this many years.
	So, yeah, it's, and I actually know a couple, I know one or two, not I've never been divorced, but I know one or two attorneys like that represent some pretty like high-earning high-earning people here in Santa Barbara.
	So I've been trying to get them on, but like, it's attorneys are like professional type people, so go ahead.
	Just a comment.
	I do think it's super sad that marriage is, I mean, for you guys, is just affiliated with money.
	It's not affiliated with the true meaning of being married.
	It can destroy our lives.
	I know it can, but it's sad that the world has come to that.
	I do agree with you in saying how it, you know, it costs a bunch of money, but that shouldn't be what marriage is about.
	Okay, well, I mean, idealistically, yes, but we, as men, we have to be pragmatic, especially if we're the breadwinners, because we have a lot to lose.
	A lot to lose.
	How many men have their lives absolutely ruined because of divorce?
	You named off a huge list.
	Yeah, it's like, it's bad.
	And it's, look, the marriage laws in the West, in the United States, need to be rewritten.
	There's no fucking scenario where your wife should cheat and she still gets alimony.
	That's fucking absurd.
	But there's no law that's, and the same should apply.
	If the woman's the breadwinner and the dude cheats, he shouldn't get shit either.
	I don't have a double standard on this, but it's just, it's not a good proposition.
	That's what we're fighting for.
	Also, the court system is incredibly biased against men.
	So did you want to come in?
	Yeah, so I was going to say that the percentage of people who get divorced, like I said, are initially by women by 80%.
	But that's also in a worldly aspect.
	So me being a Christian as well, when you take Christians in a marriage standpoint, the percentage is extremely low because we don't believe in divorce.
	I thought that was Catholics.
	No.
	No.
	Cheating.
	Cheating and there's one more.
	Christians don't get divorced.
	Well, there obviously are.
	Yes.
	You can get divorced.
	There are only specific reasons.
	Cheating being one of them on both sides.
	The man cheats or the woman cheats.
	Sure.
	So do you think that in society that if you don't have that religious compass, that moral compass, that that's why it's falling down?
	Because they just think like, oh, like religion is not a thing anymore.
	There's no moral balance.
	Cheating is fine.
	It's not a big deal.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	I think there's a lot of fake Christians out there, too.
	There are.
	It's true enough.
	Well, I think, I mean, my personal view is you can be a secular individual and still have good morals and good values.
	But I would say that, you know, marriage, that originated from a religious context.
	And so I do think there's certainly more incentive to stay married because that's what the book says.
	That's what is expected of you as, you know, whether you're Muslim or you're Jewish or you're Christian, there is a greater social pressure that exists within these communities.
	Well, there's a greater social pressure, and then also just in terms of the faith itself, there's a greater pressure to remain married.
	And I suspect that's a good thing.
	But, well, yeah, so I would say I would agree with you there.
	But I mean, you know, when it comes to religions, the trends are definitely pointing towards, you know, more and more people are becoming or are secular or less religious or not identifying as religious.
	Let me get this moving.
	We do need to continue on with the super chats here.
	All right, yo, we got your mom in the chat.
	What's up, Joy?
	Shout out, my mom.
	Yo, Joy, you got some badass glasses.
	What's up?
	Those sunglasses, what you got?
	You got a little pink little thing going?
	All right, what's up?
	Yo, shout out to Thomas.
	I'm so proud of you.
	And I know your dad would be too.
	Yo, when's the dad going to be in the chat?
	What's up?
	My dad's not with us anymore.
	Oh, right.
	We talked about this with his change.
	Oh, shit.
	In the beginning.
	I've become very spiritual.
	You know, I'm from beyond the grave.
	No, I understand.
	I mean, if I'm beyond the grave, he's watching over this chat.
	I believe that he's saying it too.
	I actually have a song dedicated to him when I found out about it.
	If you want to check it out, Captain Bamalam, I'm sorry to plug like that.
	It's all good.
	Shout out to my mom.
	Thank you for everything.
	I'm grateful to call you my mom.
	And dad, if you're looking, thank you for everything you do.
	That's it.
	Wholesome, homeless, wholesome, wholesome podcast moment.
	Family over everything.
	Yo, Ninja Smoke, thank you for the $20 super chat.
	I'm going to have you continue reading it.
	Go ahead.
	Actually, I think.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, my God.
	This question.
	Oh, you want me to read it?
	Oh, Jesus.
	It's really, really sensitive.
	I didn't see it.
	Jesus.
	We're just going to skip it.
	We did that.
	I'm just going to skip it.
	I'm going to skip it, man.
	If you want to ask something else, we did that one already.
	I didn't even see it.
	My bad.
	I just pulled it up.
	All right.
	Oh, geez.
	I think, yeah.
	Sorry, Derek.
	We're just going to skip that.
	And you just want to keep it moving along.
	Mr. K.
	Oh, hold on.
	Alvin Sam super chatted $49.99.
	To the Christian guests, women don't marry for love.
	They marry for financial security and lifestyle.
	Love does not mean anything without financial security.
	You wouldn't marry a broke man.
	Yeah, and I broke that down.
	Yeah.
	Beast.
	All right, we have.
	Go ahead.
	This one's definitely for you.
	I let the jacket chick ruin my life.
	Her boyfriend here.
	Oh, holy shit.
	Jared has super chatted $50.
	Yo, Jared, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	No message attached, but really appreciate the patronage, man.
	Shout out, Jared.
	Is that your homie?
	No.
	Oh, I don't know.
	He sports you, man.
	Hey, yeah, no, no.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you.
	Really appreciate it.
	Hold on.
	I'm going to wait until that disappears.
	No, that's fine.
	All right.
	Go for it.
	I ain't going to lie.
	That was one of my opening lines on when I had dating apps.
	I was like, yo, ruin me respectfully.
	Game for y'all.
	Go for it if you want to read it again.
	Oh, again.
	Oh, God.
	I'd let the leather jacket chick ruin my life.
	There we go.
	Yo, Mr. K, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	I stole that one from my boy.
	Ether.
	Oh, yeah.
	Go ahead.
	Do you want to read it?
	Hello?
	Oh, me again.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm like, congrats on the ABBA and Preach Spotlight.
	Hensley has been my favorite female on the show so far.
	Yeah, guys, I don't know if you know Abla and Preach, but they did a little reaction to our video.
	I think it was yesterday.
	So thank you, Ether, for the super chat.
	Appreciate it.
	That one came through.
	Yo, Target for Rage.
	Thanks for the New Zealand 20.
	Yo, Brixon, cheers for the shout-out.
	Been watching from your 10-year-ago prank days.
	Come to New Zealand.
	The women are here from watching your videos are what you need, mate.
	Yo, bruv, check this.
	I was in New Zealand for the Rugby World Cup 2011.
	Rugby is the superior sport.
	L Super Bowl.
	Shout out, Rugby.
	Shout out Rugby.
	Shout out all blacks.
	Yo, Target, thank you, man.
	Like I said, bruv, 500 New Zealand.
	I'll fucking do the haka right now.
	I'll do it with him.
	Did you know it?
	No.
	No, you got to teach me.
	I'll teach you.
	We'll do it right here.
	I'll teach you.
	All right.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	By the way, there's a bunch of sheep in New Zealand, just saying.
	All right.
	Yo, ulti-nate, $20 soup chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Go for it.
	Boys, Bangs is a lost cause.
	She's too far gone in her mind.
	Just let life and its consequences humble her when she's a single mother, reflecting on her, let me make my own choices, lifestyle.
	Do you have a response?
	Real men out in the world do not think like this.
	And it's scary that you guys believe that because I've met so many men that don't think that way, and they are amazing.
	And I, in my eyes, I think they are high-value males.
	And I'm sorry if you don't think that, but that's just my opinion.
	I wouldn't be going for men like that.
	There's men willingly, like willingly at asking to pay for my Amazon wish list.
	So, Amazon wishes, yo, by the way, guys, we have right now, we have the most amount of people watching that we have ever, ever had.
	I think we, yeah, W's and chat.
	We have two, I think we went down a little bit, but I think we hit 2,000 concurrent.
	Yo, that's crazy, dude.
	Thank you guys so much for the support.
	Shout out, chat.
	They wanted to see Bangs.
	I think it was Bangs that did it.
	Yeah, shout out, baby.
	Round two.
	Here we go.
	Hold on.
	All right.
	Fireworks.
	Yo, hey, hit the like button, guys.
	Hit the like button.
	There's 2,000 people watching.
	Can we try to get to 1,000 likes?
	Just 1,000 likes.
	Thank you, guys.
	Really appreciate all the support.
	1,000 likes, we can do it.
	Let's go.
	1,000 likes.
	Let's do it, guys.
	Hey, really appreciate all the support.
	It's been, you know, it was a struggle there with the first 50 shows, but glad to see that it's really picking up.
	Welcome to everyone new who is tuning in and watching.
	Okay, we have this one came through.
	That one came through.
	Harry, 2012 Super Chat, is this the same channel that used to do pick up pranks back in 2015?
	Damn, you guys got blackpilled to hell.
	What the fuck happened?
	I think I'm more maroon pilled than black pilled, but yeah, thank you, man.
	Let's see here.
	We have Markwavian Gaines.
	I love the name, dude, especially when it comes to his TTS.
	Wiz.
	W Wiz.
	W Liz.
	You want me to read it?
	Go for it.
	I truly think we don't take in consideration there are levels to peace.
	Coming from family with equal earning partners with two independent people that can make a wonderful partnership with still submissive wife.
	With a still submissive wife.
	Yeah, there are people that can do it.
	Definitely, definitely.
	And I'm not saying that just because a woman has a job that she's not going to be peaceful, you know, but it's the respect thing that might be the issue.
	Oh, are we talking about OnlyFans now?
	No, Yeah, but I do think, though, like, if you're a really ambitious woman, not always, but in order for you to be ambitious, there is a certain degree of cutthroatness and ruthlessness that you need to adopt to be good in business.
	Because business is cutthroat and like corporate situations, there's fucking backstabbing and like politics, office politics.
	And also just working is fucking stressful.
	So like, I mean, I could certainly, I mean, look, could I support a girl and she's kind of like stay-at-home girlfriend?
	That's fine.
	Could I date a girl?
	Most of the women I date, they have their own careers.
	Totally fine.
	It's not an issue for me.
	10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.
	Thomas, I can see the emotion in you talking about your late father.
	I completely understand.
	My dad was born in 1931.
	He raised me and showed me what it's like to live with honor.
	BTW, the NZ Hugger, is awesome.
	Brian, you will make a good father.
	Well, thank you, man.
	I appreciate that.
	Well, that's a shout out to you, bro.
	Yeah.
	Thank you, 10 out of 10, humble.
	The thing is, though, I'm not.
	I'm on the fence about kids.
	Why?
	I'm having 100 kids.
	I'm a nanny.
	I can't.
	I'm not on an army of mini-mis.
	I'm 50-50 on it just because, I mean.
	You don't want little Brians running around doing their own podcast?
	What's that?
	Doing their own podcast.
	Your kids take over your podcast.
	Come on, man.
	We got to spread good genius.
	We need more masculine men in this world.
	Am I mad?
	I don't know if I'm.
	I'm like.
	Come on, man.
	I'm pretty agreeable, I feel like.
	I'm not.
	Well, in any case, I don't know.
	Like I said, I'm 50-50 on kids.
	I've just had some difficulties in my life, and I feel like in some ways my life is already stressful enough as it is, so I don't know if adding kids to the equation is the right move.
	If I came into an obscene amount of wealth where I could have like fucking nannies and support and chefs and cooks and shit.
	Don't give up, Brian.
	You're making it.
	I'm hustling to try to get there.
	But like, if I was like, I would not have kids under the following circumstances.
	If I was struggling financially.
	No, no, no, no.
	Absolutely not.
	Won't have kids.
	But if like me and my partner, if she's making money or I'm just the sole breadwinner and I'm killing it, under those circumstances, I will have kids.
	That's where I'm trying to get.
	But we'll see how the, you know, how the, what's it called?
	The, fuck, what's the term?
	The dice fall.
	Can someone help me?
	I don't know.
	How the cards may fall.
	What's that?
	From Fight Club?
	Hello?
	Anybody?
	I don't know the saying.
	Okay.
	Did we do this one?
	We did this one.
	We did this one.
	Damn, humble.
	Dude, you've been super supportive tonight, man.
	Thank you.
	By the way, we will get the Stream Labs super chats too.
	Yo, Mango King, if you want to go for it.
	Today, you only pursue money and it's fine.
	But at the end of the day, or at the end, you'll realize how informal and empty that it is.
	Been a millionaire through honor, but could be a billionaire without joy or peace had I ignored my morals.
	Thank you, man.
	Yeah, I mean, definitely more money, more problems.
	There's certain stresses that come with making more money.
	But yeah.
	Yeah, money's pretty important, though.
	Come on, Mango King.
	Come on.
	You know.
	Money's very important.
	Ahmaud Chaibi, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	I learned somewhere on YouTube, a woman cares about a man's future while a man cares about a woman's past.
	It's a man's job to attain a woman, and it is a woman's job to retain her man.
	Yep.
	What do you guys think about that?
	Agree or disagree?
	I agree.
	So a woman cares about a man's future.
	A man cares about a woman's past.
	And typically this is used within the context of promiscuity and body count.
	So women are typically a bit more concerned about a guy's ambition.
	Is he going to be successful?
	Men care about a woman's sexual promiscuity.
	My question was, what if the woman was the breadwinner?
	So...
	What if, uh...
	Because your previous super chat didn't have anything attached to it.
	Well, thank you, man.
	What's the context of the question?
	If the woman was the breadwinner?
	Like, for me, I guess here, we'll take it like, would we be cool if a woman was the breadwinner in the relationship?
	So whenever I see that, I think the woman is not necessarily trying per se, but it's emasculating me.
	Like if a woman says, why are you holding a door for me type stuff?
	No.
	No, I do not like that.
	Because if I'm supposed to be here and I'm supposed to be the man of the situation, then I'm going to take initiative and be the breadwinner.
	She can make her own money, cool, but the reality of the situation is that I ain't seeing none of that money.
	I might see it in like a form of a gift here and there or whatever, but she's not going to pay my rent.
	She's not going to pay my bills.
	If she does, it's probably for like a month or two, but after that, she's gone.
	She's like, this man ain't doing nothing for me.
	So why would I allow myself to be in a situation where a girl's making more money than me?
	I'm not saying like a girl can't do that, but the thing is that there's a timer on that relationship.
	If she's like, because what people don't understand, what women don't understand is that a woman, a woman, a woman is going to typically date equal to or more than her current income status.
	And so whenever women want to make all this money and think that that's what attracts a man, it's not.
	It's not.
	No.
	No.
	I would say no.
	What's your response?
	Because you were making a little face when you were talking.
	Lay it on me.
	You're fine.
	What?
	What did you just say?
	I just said lay it on me.
	Oh, um.
	Cricket.
	Like.
	You want to talk over the laughs?
	Oh, no.
	Just someone laughed kind of funny.
	So I don't know.
	Do you think it was me?
	I don't know who.
	Was that you who was laughing?
	No.
	Oh, somebody who was laughing.
	I've been very serious.
	Very serious.
	Serious.
	And no, what really just got me was like the whole like time-round relationship.
	If the woman wants to be the breadwinner and you allow her to be, I think then that's up to her.
	Like, that's her decision.
	And that's fine.
	She can have that.
	She can have that.
	I'm not taking that power away from her.
	I refuse to take a power away from a woman.
	However, I will not stay in that relationship.
	That's not something you would like to do.
	Is it not masculine?
	I was just about to say that.
	It's emasculating.
	I mean, that's just to make money to support a woman.
	You can make your own money to support yourself.
	I mean, that's essentially what society is right nowadays.
	You know, you have to make money to support yourself.
	But whenever you're in a situation where a man can and will take care of you, why have a job?
	You know what I'm saying?
	To be independent and make money for yourself.
	Right.
	So independent of what.
	And that ends up going wrong.
	Independent of what?
	If something goes wrong, you get a divorce, you're screwed at the end of it.
	You didn't work.
	I understand your point.
	Not even.
	Independent of what?
	Not even if you get a divorce.
	Just if a breakup happens, if something goes wrong, like why would you want to solely depend on a man?
	No, well, not even a man.
	Why would you want to solely depend on anyone?
	So my question was: in order to be independent, you have to be independent of something.
	So what would you be independent of?
	The answer is a man.
	And so if you're independent of a man and you don't need a man, then continue to do your thing.
	But I'm not going to stay with you.
	And that's your decision.
	Absolutely.
	And of course, everyone has their own decisions.
	Of course.
	You have your decisions.
	Not everyone is going into a relationship because the man has a lot of money.
	It's because of love.
	Well, statistics show that the majority of people.
	All you have to offer?
	Oh.
	Oh, my God.
	Yes.
	Go ahead.
	So you don't bring anything else to the table other than your money.
	Bring a lot more.
	Money is not everything.
	Like, we keep going back to statistically, financially.
	If you love a person, then that should be enough to stay with them.
	Will you be homeless with that person?
	Maybe.
	If I love them enough, I think I would.
	And I love hard.
	When I like somebody, I get fucking obsessed with them.
	Okay, earlier in the show, you guys all stated that you wouldn't stay in there for a long period.
	Hold on.
	We'll come back to that.
	Yeah.
	A man has to feel that he is needed.
	If he feels that he can't provide anything to the woman he is with, there is no reason for him to be there.
	Dudes like being useful and needed.
	If that isn't there, you move to some girl that does need you.
	Good night.
	Yo, Bryce, thank you so much for the TTS man.
	Really appreciate it.
	So, so it's just like a question of masculinity, like just like that comment said.
	Like a man needs to feel needed and a man needs to feel like he can support his woman.
	So for me personally, I would actually have no issue dating a woman who makes more than me or who's the breadwinner.
	The reality is though, is that most women aren't going to want to date a guy that makes less than them.
	And the primary reason that there's divorces is due to financial reasons.
	And I understand that.
	Finances are a huge reason why people break up, why people get divorced.
	So money is absolutely a factor in all this.
	It's a factor, but I don't think that it's everything.
	a huge factor but yeah a huge factor but here's the thing though like Like, women typically are not prepared to hold a man down long term.
	Like, we as men, we will be the sole breadwinner or in the entire relationship, but a girl would not be prepared for like on a long timeline to continue supporting a guy in the same way that a guy would just be willing to continue supporting a woman.
	Can I say something?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	So I kind of say this out of experience too.
	So being in a relationship with a guy who doesn't have a job, that was my last relationship for a long time.
	And I was in that relationship for six years.
	He didn't have a job for almost the entirety of our relationship.
	And that was a very unhealthy relationship.
	I think like he wanted me to be a girl boss and get the promotion and be the provider.
	And he would say maybe he'll be the stay-at-home dad.
	And so I kind of like was in a way seen it like that, but that's not in our nature.
	Like for me, I want a family and I want to be able to be at home and take care of my kids and be a stay-at-home mom.
	That's what.
	And so being in that relationship and being in a relationship like that, like you said, it is very emasculating and it's just not in our nature for us to be in a relationship that way.
	Like you were even saying earlier, like we have our roles for a man to provide and for the woman to submit.
	These are some dated roles though.
	No, not everybody.
	That's what works in a healthy relationship though.
	That's what works when you, if you want to have a healthy relationship, that's what works.
	I don't think that's a good idea.
	That's why divorce is at a whole time high right now.
	I'm a nanny and I work for this one family and the mom is the breadwinner.
	She has her own, well, I don't want to say what she has, but she has like a well-established business.
	Like she is up there.
	And her husband, like, I don't know if he works, to be honest, but anytime I'm there, he's like always home, always cleaning, taking the kids to school.
	And it works.
	They have an amazing relationship.
	They've got a lot of kids.
	And he is like in love with this lady.
	And I've seen it and I've experienced it.
	So it's not, I don't know.
	But she may not feel the same.
	She might not see him.
	She's saying that.
	She's with him.
	She clearly, like, she talks to me.
	Like, she's very clearly in love with him.
	They are very clearly in love with each other.
	I think at the end of the day, it all just boils down to who you choose to be with.
	Yeah, it's not.
	It's all about who you choose to love.
	And if you choose to support them, and then that's fine.
	Like if you choose to solo support your husband or if you choose for your husband to solo support you, I think just boils down to who you love and who you want to be with.
	Like if you want to be taken care of, that is completely fine.
	But other people, they want to be proud of themselves and they want to be like, wow, like I have this business.
	I did this.
	I accomplished this.
	Some girls want that.
	That's a fun face you're making.
	Oh.
	Go ahead and add.
	Well, yeah, I think just to bring it back to my original point, like I think a girl will hold you down for a little bit, but it won't be long term.
	Some women are okay with being breadwinner, but like the vast majority of women, even if they're decent earners and they have the ability to hold you down, there's going to be like a time limit.
	Find a job, find a job, get a job, get a job, get a job.
	They're going to lose respect for you.
	10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.
	Yo, thank you, man.
	which shows how valuable I consider this show to be and what Brian does for the world, tilting the scales in the right direction.
	Thank you.
	Bangs, I can tell you're a good person at heart.
	Please don't disregard prior Jen's wisdom.
	Oh.
	Oh, wholesome, wholesome TTS moment.
	Wait, so shout out Humbleton.
	Kaylin, do you want to come in on this?
	I want to try to get you in a little bit more.
	No, I just want to say that.
	Would you hold down a guy?
	I wouldn't hold down a guy, but if a guy wants to provide whatever he wants for me, then I will let him.
	Like, if a guy wants to come into my life right now and be like, oh, like, I want you to be a stay-at-home mom, or if I want you, I want to make all the bread, I will let him do that.
	But until then, I'm going to hold my ground and I'm going to provide for myself.
	Can you hide that, Eric?
	Kaylin?
	Yes.
	Will you marry me?
	Are you going to provide for me?
	Like three months down the road, probably.
	Okay.
	Oh my god.
	I'm engaged now.
	Okay, moving on.
	Just like that, boys.
	All you got to do is bring a ring.
	Should you say yes or no?
	Yeah, you might be able to convince me to put a ring on it.
	Okay, so did anyone want to continue on that?
	On the money thing?
	I think we kind of.
	Okay, let's continue with these soup chats here.
	Actually, let me get to the Eric.
	Can you pull up the Streamlabs chats because we need to get to those?
	Geez.
	Okay, we had.
	Let me know when you can pull it up.
	Can you zoom in on that?
	Go all the way to the bottom.
	So not a cent donated 25 bangs is annoying, but she's honest in her beliefs.
	Leather jacket.
	Girl is just trying to say whatever won't get her in trouble with chat.
	Why would she have bought 25k fake?
	Oh, did this one already come through?
	Yeah.
	I think you doubled down on it with another soup chat.
	All right, and then we have Dex 2 all the way to the top, Eric.
	Yo, Flan Life, by the way, thank you for all the gifted memberships, man.
	Dex2 donated $22.
	Hello, Brian, and podcast participants.
	Oh, I'll do this in French.
	Bonjour Brian et les poca participant from shit, I butchered that.
	Je suis front paris, jean boucou le shit, how do you say show?
	Jean Bucou le histoire.
	Continue dan se shit, fuck.
	Brian.
	I moved from France when I was five.
	Don c'est direction sur le soub je.
	This is so bad.
	Okay.
	Question pour le fie.
	Si tu si tu alle pregnant.
	Tu a tu a 99% chance of.
	Holy wait, hide that shit.
	Oh my.
	$99.99.
	Yo, man, surf.
	Shout out to Daisy on the left.
	Yo, more important ladies, having a successful career or a successful family.
	Boom.
	Yo, Mansur.
	Thank you.
	That's my boyfriend.
	Yo, W boyfriend.
	Yo, W boyfriend in the box.
	In the chat, I want W Mansur or Wanser.
	Or Welton.
	I want Welton and Wanser in the chat.
	Dude, thank you, man.
	I really appreciate the support.
	Yeah, by the way, my French, I speak it at a five-year-old's level.
	Absolutely butchered.
	Yo, Dex do, though.
	Thank you, man.
	Okay, let's continue on with these soup chats.
	So we have Ravi.
	Yo, Kaelin, let's have you read this one.
	Okay.
	This whole debate is pointless.
	They've been exploiting men from early age.
	Banks are just there to say shit.
	I'm assuming that's what it means.
	She don't be on OF if she didn't know that reality.
	Ask them to rank not a number but rank most to least looks on the panel.
	No.
	I think we're going to pass on that one, Ravi, but I appreciate the $20 soup chat.
	I just, I don't think the girls would want to do that.
	Thank you, man.
	Yo, Gecko, Jesus.
	Thank you, man.
	I think this is.
	Is this your.
	Is this your bearded dragon?
	No.
	Is that a photo of him?
	Okay.
	Maybe someone like Perused.
	Cleo's a girl.
	Punani used to cost.
	Wait, here.
	I think we need bangs to read this one.
	Go ahead.
	Third girl.
	Into the mic.
	Oh, sorry.
	Apology accepted.
	Third girl, right?
	Punani used to cost marriage.
	Why would we buy the cow when women are giving up their milk for free?
	Modern woman finessed themselves.
	Good times.
	Good times.
	Well, I mean, when you, kind of like one of the reasons marriage was a thing is like, at least historically.
	No, fuck the wedding range.
	I'm sorry.
	I'm sorry, Kaylin.
	Wow.
	Show us how little you care about this engagement.
	Can somebody grab that?
	Hello?
	Grab that.
	You guys can just leave it on the floor.
	It's under reading what we're talking about.
	I don't even know where it meant.
	I don't know where it was.
	There it is.
	It's under reading.
	Shows how little you care about my friend here.
	Here, I want to just here.
	I'm going to have someone apologize on my behalf.
	I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
	To absolutely nobody.
	Okay.
	All right.
	All right.
	There you go.
	Actually, you know what?
	Kaylin, can you just put that on your.
	I want to back up after the show.
	Okay.
	Isn't it bad luck to put on your ring finger when you're not?
	Eh, just do it.
	All right.
	No, do it on your left.
	Do it on your left.
	Can I put it on my middle finger?
	By the way, we're now.
	No, no, it has to be on the legit.
	Yeah, there you go.
	By the way, Kaylin, we're technically engaged now.
	Congratulations.
	Oh, my gosh, congratulations.
	We're technically engaged.
	All right, show it to the camera, actually.
	Can you do the little that is a big rock?
	Can you do the Beyoncé, like, you know, the single ladies one?
	I'm not single anymore, though.
	Oh, wow.
	Okay.
	You got her, Brian.
	All right.
	You got her.
	Okay, there we go.
	Thanks, can't read.
	I really care.
	I saw.
	I'm sorry.
	I just saw that.
	Yo, Mr. K, thank you for the membership.
	All right, that one came through.
	Yo, we have, wow, God, dude, thank you guys so much for the support tonight.
	Like, it really means the world.
	Your patronage.
	I'm like blown away by all the support tonight.
	Thank you so much, guys.
	All right, we have Jaden here.
	Thank you, man.
	$20 soup chat.
	I think the chat is requesting Liz on this one.
	What?
	Oh, you want me to read it?
	Yeah.
	Why so much emphasis on high-value men or women?
	What happened to if you can't love me at my lowest, you don't deserve me at my highest?
	Also, funny how Brian says, don't interrupt.
	Meanwhile, he interrupts quite often.
	Called you out.
	Side eye.
	Jaden, I'm not sure what you're talking about there, but I would like to take this opportunity to apologize.
	I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
	To absolutely nobody.
	Okay.
	Thank you, Jayden.
	Biva, $25 super chat.
	Marriage in the eyes of the government and church are two separate things.
	Talking Catholicism.
	One can be divorced legally, but not in the eyes of church.
	You can be legally separated, though.
	All right.
	Okay, we have, let's see, Frank Brub here at 20 euro.
	Thank you, man.
	Why don't you let us know which European country you're in?
	Go for it.
	Hello, Brian and podcast participants.
	On the subject of marriage, question for the girls.
	If you get pregnant, you have a 99% chance of losing the baby.
	Will you have babies?
	Is that a correct percentage?
	Well, I can't.
	No, he's using hypothetical.
	Yeah, it's a hypothetical.
	Yeah, I would.
	I would too.
	I would.
	I would too.
	Get pregnant.
	You'd still have.
	Okay, I see it.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Thank you, Frank, for that 20 euro.
	Super chat.
	Sailing, okay.
	Thank you for the Canadian $25 super chat.
	Merci Bucu.
	I don't know if you're from the French-speaking part of Canada, but Common Law in Canada can wreck your life in 12 months.
	Oh, this is in response to the, yeah, I think, so we have that in the US too.
	There are some, by the way, men, I want you to Google this right now.
	There are certain states in the US, it's called common law marriage.
	Even if you don't go to court and get married or have a ceremony, if you've cohabitated with a person for a certain period of time, the state will view you as having de facto been married, and you can be on the hook for alimony if you've been cohabitating with a boyfriend or girlfriend for a period of time, but basically treat it as if you were married.
	So just be careful if you're in a common law marriage state or in Canada.
	10 out of 10.
	Thank you, man.
	Paunch X, $20 Super Chat.
	Brian, love the show.
	Brother, keep it up.
	Bangs, I disagree with 90% of what you say, but I respect you for sticking to your beliefs.
	Those high-value men you speak of, they'll probably only want to smash you, not respect you.
	Do you have a response to paunch X?
	Those high value menu males.
	Into the mic, into the mic.
	Sorry.
	I just can't see.
	It's like the mic is just right in the way.
	Yeah.
	I'm sorry.
	I know it's okay.
	Those high-value men can speak of, though, probably only want to smash, not respect you.
	Maybe.
	Yo, Praxis.
	Actually, Liz, excuse me, go for it.
	What's up, Bangs?
	Glad to see you back.
	You seem like a sweet girl who sadly had a negative experience that poisoned your views towards men.
	You'll find a HM or HVM no problem if you ditch the wage gap nonsense.
	When have I ever talked about the wage gap nonsense on here?
	Anyways, you'll find a high-value male, no problem.
	I don't know.
	Yo, Joey Tribiani.
	Thank you, man.
	$20 Soup Chat.
	I assume Friends is your favorite movie.
	You can still get married and don't have to pay alimony.
	Just don't sign the marriage certificate.
	I think that's a character on Friday.
	Okay.
	Contract, man.
	Signing it away.
	I know, right?
	Yo, we got our boy Andrew here in the chat.
	Thank you for the 20 Canadian Super Chat Man.
	Go for it.
	Actually, I should read it because it's Canada and stuff.
	El Mayo, boys, Bangs will figure it out.
	Is this like a Minnesota?
	That doesn't sound a social media.
	Bangs.
	It's like some.
	Hold on, let me try.
	Let me try.
	You got this.
	Oh, gosh.
	Bangs will figure it out.
	It's sounding Scottish.
	It's sounding Scottish.
	Okay, fuck it.
	I guess he's just a Scottish Canadian.
	Bangs will figure it out when men are turned off by her attitude.
	I just don't abide by bullying.
	I would never simp for bangs.
	I only simp for Brian.
	I know.
	That was like Scottish.
	I wouldn't be surprised.
	A lot of guys like an outspoken girl.
	They think it's hot.
	They like it.
	Herronious.
	Erroneous.
	Well, Brian, maybe not you, but there is men out there.
	Like, I don't know.
	Like, this is just a strange, strange show.
	That's all I have to say.
	Like, I don't know.
	Like, I'm promising, like, if there's any girls watching, half the men don't think like this in the real world, at least from what I've experienced.
	Erroneous.
	Erroneous.
	Like, they don't.
	I think it's because.
	So you said men don't like what?
	Outspoken women?
	Yeah, I guess they don't like it when like women have a voice.
	They gotta be aware of that.
	No, it's not that.
	We don't want a doormat, but we want women who are peaceful and cooperative and submissive.
	And oh, disagree?
	And I'm all those things in a relationship.
	I'm sorry that I'm not all those things right now, but you haven't seen me in a relationship.
	Are you that way in the relationship?
	Yes, Brian.
	I bet you have gnarly fucking arguments with your boyfriend.
	You have the most fucking, I bet you fucking throw shit.
	There's glass breaking.
	Yo, she's laughing.
	I'm going to be honest.
	Here it comes.
	One time, me and my ex-boyfriend got into a really bad fight while he and I were at urgent care.
	Oh, man.
	To the point where people, we were, like, fighting in the parking lot, and I was, like, fucking hitting him with my purse and shit because he wouldn't give me back my keys.
	And, like, we were, like, yelling at each other, like, really fucking hard.
	And people stopped their cars to, like, tell us to calm down.
	But I think that, I think he and I, honestly, like, it was a really good fight.
	good relationship for a while, minus the domestic violence.
	Okay, that only happened one time but um, just once.
	Actually, one time I pulled over and I told him to get the fuck out my car, and I was gonna make him walk back to his house because he was being disrespectful, but yeah um, I think it.
	He just kind of almost brought out the worst in me a few times.
	Have you ever slashed a dude's tires?
	No, but I've wanted.
	I wanted to have you.
	No oh, just wanted to.
	Oh, you've wanted to.
	What about you, Kaylin?
	Have you ever?
	I have not.
	My boy, my ex-boyfriend and I though, were like I was like very in love with him, though like I would literally like go to his house like, stab him with a no, I would go to his house and I would like, I would open up the window and I would go into his room while he was sleeping and I'd wake him up and like that was like the most romantic shit to him ever, like he and I were both like equally the same crazy.
	Yes okay, how long ago was that relationship?
	Like a year?
	Well we, we were together for much longer, but officially we were together for a year okay, and I ended it with him, that's all.
	Go on, go on, tell us okay, so a year ago.
	So this question might not hold any bearing, but you just said that you would do be submissive in a relationship and you were in one and you and you did that.
	Yeah, I was mad okay, what?
	You want me to be submissive when I'm not mad?
	Like, do you want me to just take it?
	I mean, there's healthy ways to go about being angry and handling your emotions, and then there's toxic ways, yeah.
	So you think that you should just bottle it all up?
	Yeah, until it gets to the point?
	No, you should have, you should have a conversation and be like, yo, this is, this is how I feel yeah, but if he's not being nice to her, then why should she be nice to him?
	Because that's a healthy relationship where you can actually that's a healthy relationship where you can have civil discourse and actually come together with your problems, talk about, like yo, this is the problem.
	Let's solve this problem.
	It's not an attack on each other, it's an attack on the problem.
	Wait, I don't know what got me those, you know, is that an ice cube?
	If it was, it wasn't my intention.
	Was it?
	Is it was weird from Ice Cube, let the DJ revolve it or what it sounded like.
	I don't know.
	I have no idea.
	I am derailing the conversation.
	So you think a civil relationship is when a woman just keeps her emotions to herself and like, lets the man keep attacking?
	No, I don't think that's what he said though.
	No no, that's not what he said.
	I'm sorry.
	Can I say something?
	Go ahead once.
	Once you're done, go back.
	So a civil relationship is where I'm gonna say it again where the problem is the issue, and we have an issue, like if you had an issue, you would be like yo.
	We need to have a conversation right now.
	Yeah, I'm sorry.
	And you guys go outside, and I know emotions get tense, emotions get erratic, and you act on them.
	But a healthy relationship understands, like, yo, this is my emotion that I'm having right now.
	Let me calm down for a second.
	Yo, babe, I have an issue with what's going on of how you're acting right now.
	What's been said, what you said, it bothered me.
	We need to have a conversation right now.
	Can we go talk?
	Whatever you're doing, it has to stop because it doesn't matter anything going on.
	Because if you love that person, you'll say everything else doesn't matter, but the issue that we're having right now actually matters.
	So you attack the problem, not each other.
	Where if you're throwing things at your man, that's a toxic trait.
	Got to work on that.
	Yeah.
	I agree, but.
	Have you ever hit a guy with a frying pan?
	Somewhere broke.
	No, but my ex repugnant.
	What you don't understand is that my ex took me to some certain lengths where I couldn't.
	Hold on.
	10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.
	Look on the Christian woman's face while Bangs was telling her boyfriend fight story was priceless.
	Christian girl.
	Don't smile.
	Her husband must be a very happy man.
	Bangs.
	Damn emotional self-control is attractive.
	Yo, thank you, man.
	Appreciate the support, dude.
	Thank you.
	You actually had a point, and I interrupted.
	Oh, one thing really quick.
	By the way, guys, get some super chats in if you want.
	We're going to wrap up here pretty soon.
	I do need to get through the rest of the super chats.
	We have a couple final things to go over.
	By the way, guys, if you submit your super chats, or not super chats, your donations through Streamlabs, YouTube does not take their cut.
	YouTube takes 30%.
	So if you want more of your patronage to go towards whatever, that's one way you can do it.
	The link for that is in the description.
	They take PayPal, et cetera.
	So thank you, man.
	It got cut off.
	Really?
	Okay, here, we'll have Liz be our honorary TTS voice.
	Thank you for asking.
	Thank you for the Canadian 50 man.
	Appreciate it.
	Go for it.
	Men need respect.
	For a man with self-respect, activities and behavior like OnlyFans are a deal breaker.
	Guys with no respect for you or themselves are all that's left.
	I do believe in redemption, not condemnation, just facts.
	Props the Christian, or yeah, props the Christians.
	Misspelt.
	Shout out to Jesus.
	Yo, Jesus.
	Amen.
	Now he's a 10.
	So what I was saying to, I'm sorry, it seemed like they didn't understand the question that you gave them.
	So I wanted to reiterate what you were saying, but you ended up making it sound perfect.
	So you're good.
	All right.
	Let me just continue on with the super chats here.
	Yo, Lake Show, thank you for the $20 super chat.
	Go for it, Liz.
	A lot of these modern women don't understand.
	It's nature.
	It's the nature of a man to provide security, safety, etc.
	The Western culture enables competition rather than accomplish completion.
	Western civilization fights nature.
	That was some esoteric shit.
	Thank you, dude.
	Appreciate it.
	I don't think I used that word right, but thank you, Lake Show.
	Appreciate it.
	Brian JR, Brian Jr.
	Oh, wait, what?
	Yo, you got a kid already?
	Brian.
	Who's it with?
	I'm a little jealous now, Brian.
	Shit.
	It's with you.
	It's in the future.
	He came back.
	Oh, my gosh, Brian.
	He came back.
	Y'all got a happy family in the future.
	Brian, I am your son from the year 2069.
	I time traveled back to 2023 to tell you that you better ask Brianna out on a date or else I cease to exist.
	Who's Brianna?
	I guess you'll find out in the future.
	Oh, shit.
	That means you two aren't going to lie.
	Yeah, we'll see.
	All right.
	Is that like one of those AI artificially generated?
	I was going to say maybe he's going to be a little bit more comfortable.
	What if you accidentally get a girl pregnant?
	Oh, because she's Brianna.
	And that's Kaylin.
	So maybe he got us mixed up and thinks that she's.
	Oh.
	Well, I mean, I already proposed to her, so it's kind of.
	Oh, that's so fun.
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	I'm just talking to your future kid.
	Yeah.
	Wait, Brian.
	I have a question.
	Brian Jr. is cock blocking me here by now.
	If you accidentally get a girl pregnant.
	What's up?
	Are you pregnant?
	Bro, where is this going?
	Are you dipping or you staying?
	He said you don't want kids.
	So I'm just like wondering.
	If I accidentally get you pregnant, I'm out.
	Whoa.
	Oh, God.
	Okay, not me.
	I'm kidding.
	What makes you think I'd want to sleep now?
	I'm saying just any girl if you got her pregnant.
	I would tolerate your OnlyFans, but what?
	Huh?
	As long as you got 50%.
	As long as I got a bad.
	I'm sorry, Kaylin.
	I'm sorry.
	Wait, so what's the question?
	Are you going to be a deadbeat dad if you get a girl pregnant?
	That's all I'm going to.
	That's what I'm asking.
	Would I stick around?
	What do you mean?
	Because you said you don't want kids.
	So I'm just wondering, like, would you stick around even?
	Well, I mean, what if you didn't, you didn't even like, you just hooked up with this girl?
	It's like a one-night stand?
	Yeah, I'd hope that we're more safe than that.
	But I mean, well, not all birth control is.
	Whether a woman gets pregnant or not, especially if it's like a one-night stand or like we've been dating for a very short period of time, I mean, the relationship is the factor.
	So if she's an awful person, I'm not going to.
	Am I going to have to pay child support?
	Yes.
	Will I want, you know, am I going to be involved in the child's life?
	Oh.
	What?
	I know.
	So you're going to be a deadbeat.
	That's.
	No, deadbeat would not pay child support.
	I suppose I would pay child support.
	So you just wouldn't be in that kid's life.
	Well, I mean, off of a one-night stand?
	Well, that's your kid.
	I feel like this is it.
	That's your kid.
	You wouldn't even want to meet the kid.
	Get to know him.
	I don't know.
	I've never been in that scenario before.
	I mean, yeah, I mean, I haven't really given this question much thought, so I'd want to maybe meditate on it for a little bit.
	But I would certainly pay child support.
	If it was like a one-night stand and she's a horrible human being, for example, then I don't know how involved I'd want to be just because I don't want that toxicity in my life.
	But not even for the kid.
	You wouldn't do it for the kid.
	I wouldn't do it for the kid?
	Like, I'm asking you, would you?
	This is actually a rather good question.
	You may have stumped me here.
	It's hard to say.
	I mean, I've never been without a father figure.
	Oh, so kind of like what you're saying basically what abortion is.
	What?
	No.
	No one's talking about abortion.
	What are you talking about?
	Oh, I thought this was almost coming from the framing of an abortion.
	Because this is often like, well, it can be framed from an abortion point of view, but I don't know if you guys want to talk into that.
	I mean, I think we may have some people who are pro-life at the panel.
	But I have a smaller one.
	I'd rather podcast not enough words.
	Yeah.
	Well, I mean, I thought health, reproductive organs, you know.
	I got a question.
	So you asked him if he got a girl accidentally pregnant, if he would stay.
	Well, if a man cheats on you, would you stay for the kid?
	This is a question for everybody.
	Like, if your man cheated on you and you guys had a kid, yeah, and you guys had a kid, would you stay for the kid?
	It depends.
	It depends on if his cheating is a habit.
	Oh, sorry, one thing, Eric, by the way, sorry.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Eric, one thing.
	If I forget to, sometimes I forget to take down these super chats.
	Just after 20 or 30 seconds, just feel free to hide it.
	Sometimes I forget to hide them.
	Go ahead.
	So my question was, if you found out your man was cheating, whether he told you or you found out, would you stay for your kid?
	If I found out, I wouldn't stay married to him.
	If he told me, I would.
	Okay.
	Oh, my gosh.
	Because I'm not going, like, he's done, if he's taking care of me, if he's providing for me, if I'm his number one girl, if there's no other person, yeah, okay, you had sex with somebody.
	If you came up to me and said, hey, I fucked somebody and I'm so sorry.
	Yeah, it would hurt and I would have trust issues and we'd have to go above and beyond to make it work so that I do end up trusting you again.
	But if I had to find out in another way and he was hiding it from me, then no.
	Okay.
	Okay, so just to answer your question really quick, I would want to be involved in the kid's life contingent upon the fact that the relationship that I have with the girl, whether we're continue dating or not, so long as that is a positive relationship, if she's like just super toxic, I'd probably have to opt out, honestly.
	But so long as it's like there's no conflict in the relationship with the bio mom, then, but I don't, I'm going to be, well, I don't have, men don't really have any reproductive rights, so I don't have, I mean, I've made it far enough that it's never been an issue so far, but I would try to avoid being in that situation to begin with.
	And thus far, I've not had that be an issue.
	So I would be in the kid's life.
	I'll definitely pay child support.
	You said dead beat dad.
	That has to do with men who don't even pay child support.
	I would certainly pay child support at the minimum.
	Would I be perhaps frustrated by it?
	Sure.
	But I would still, you know, obviously I would have an obligation to the children.
	We can have a conversation about how child support needs in much the same way that the marriage laws needs to be adjusted.
	Because, for example, women, I think child support payments should be put in the same way like with EBT, like food stamps or whatever.
	CalFresh, I think it's called in California.
	You can only buy food with the money that the government gives you.
	You can't go buy video games with the money that the government gives you for food, CalFresh, EBT, food stamps or whatever it's called.
	Much the same way, if you pay a woman child support, it should be like a separate account she can only use towards the kid.
	You can't go get your nails done with the money from the child support.
	Like show receipts type.
	Yeah, you should be able to show like receipts that the money that you're getting.
	Yeah, like you're getting a solution to the overall problem.
	Yeah, because like there's no there's nothing kind of regulating how women spend the money they receive from child support.
	It's literally just going into her bank account that I suppose she could spend towards child support.
	But, you know, so here we go.
	Thank you, man.
	10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.
	Obviously, Brian has morals.
	He would probably do the right thing and be as involved as possible while being as separated from the woman as possible.
	If she were toxic, however, probably wouldn't have hooked up with the toxic girl in the first place.
	Yeah, I mean, safe sex, birth control, there's, you know, being careful.
	Yeah, so okay, let me continue on with these soup chats here because we do have quite a few and I want to try to get through them.
	Yo, Humble Gains, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	Being with a woman that makes more isn't a problem.
	It's those same.
	It's that it's those some of women that don't appreciate those inverted roles is where divorce and conflict comes.
	That's where love and respect comes to play that lacks currently.
	Also, the divorce rate is higher when the woman is the breadwinner.
	It's also higher if she's college educated, interestingly enough.
	Oh, this already came through.
	Oh, look at that fucking Chad.
	Yo, look at that.
	Daisy, right?
	Yeah.
	Is it D?
	How do you print it?
	It's just Daisy, but it's with an E.
	Okay.
	Yo, look at that fucking Chad.
	He's got some flow.
	Yeah, he's got flow.
	And he's got the little backwards cap going on.
	Shit.
	That question came.
	Dude, he's got some flow.
	No, I know.
	I'm just, I'm big upping man's service.
	I'm admiring her, man.
	Admiring.
	Exactly.
	Yo, Mano World.
	Oh, I think I know who the.
	Oh, oh.
	David meets super chatting.
	$50.
	Just like AF is short-sighted for a woman, not having kids is short-sighted for you, Brian.
	Longest-lasting joy for both men and women will come from building their families together and staying loyal to each other.
	Yeah, I mean, like I, again, I'm kind of on the fence when it comes to kids.
	It's not a definitive yet, but I feel like I've just, I've had a lot of difficulties in my life.
	And I, some of those are health-related.
	And I'm not sure if I were, I don't know.
	It's I would want to be there as much as I possibly could for kids because obviously your kids are dependent on you.
	And I've been in, I've had experiences in my life, not currently the case, but for example, I broke my back a couple years ago at L5S1.
	I was confined to a bed for like nine months.
	That would have not been a good time to have children.
	And obviously shit happens.
	People get in car crashes and stuff.
	But that experience made me realize how vulnerable humans are.
	And, you know, like I said, your kids are dependent on you.
	So to deal with the stress of like a chronic injury and then, I don't know.
	So I'm kind of on the fence with it, but yeah.
	But thank you for the Super Chat Man.
	All right, we have, oh, wait.
	This one.
	Okay.
	Bangs, why so quiet today?
	We got to get a little heated, I think, before the end.
	You said, what can I get you upset about?
	Let's see.
	Bangs.
	Should we save it for round three, you think?
	Oh, round three.
	Round three.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Yeah, we'll save it.
	Or no, we could do it.
	We'll do it.
	Wait, show of hands.
	So the big thing I think people were talking about is, do I bring it there?
	What?
	No.
	What about that?
	Not abortion?
	No.
	No, not abortion.
	Not abortion.
	What?
	You said last show, the big spat that you had with John was about oppression.
	And you said you got quite.
	Yeah, I already know what you're going to ask me, and I'm just going to tell you this now.
	Google?
	Oh, Google.
	Oh, Google.
	But it's not my job to school you on something that you should have learned in school.
	Women have been oppressed and women still are oppressed because there are literal child slaves.
	There are black women, disabled women that experience oppression all the time, and Native American women as well.
	And Native American women.
	It's also Native American men as well.
	Aren't they oppressed?
	I'm talking about women right now.
	Oh, you're talking about women?
	Yeah, because the question was how women have been oppressed.
	And I'm just going to say, it's not my job to educate you and school you on that.
	And if you don't have to say that.
	But if I reject your presuppositions, then you do need to explain to me.
	No, I'm telling you this.
	I'm like, I'm telling you, like, it's not my job to school you.
	Like, you should have learned this in school.
	And honestly, it's a little scary that you don't know how women have been oppressed in the past because, like, this country was like built for men.
	And these laws and rules, like, all they all, it's all to, like, for men, you know, like, it was built for men.
	And, like, this podcast enough is showing me that sexism is still really alive.
	Can I say that?
	Oh, wow.
	You think this podcast is sexist?
	I was posted on so many red pill incel accounts.
	Yes.
	It's giving incel a lot.
	Oh, man.
	Okay.
	All the buzzwords are coming out.
	I don't even know where to start tackling this.
	Okay.
	So women were oppressed in history, but so were men.
	It's not, it's not.
	Not as much as possible.
	Now, this is interesting because if I say, how were women oppressed?
	You're like, well, it's self-evident, Brian.
	I shouldn't have to educate you.
	Yet you've just asked me the same question.
	You've just asked, how were men oppressed?
	Shouldn't you know?
	No, because that wasn't taught in school.
	Ah.
	So isn't that interesting?
	Male oppression was never taught in school, but women, females' oppression was.
	Isn't that interesting?
	So who's really oppressed then?
	Oh my God, Brian.
	If men's grievances throughout history are overlooked, who's the real one that's oppressed?
	Perhaps you don't even believe men are oppressed.
	Don't, to be honest.
	You don't?
	Yeah.
	Okay, hold on.
	There's men, men.
	Can you think of one?
	Give me one.
	So many men literally kill women all the time over domestic violence and domestic abuse to the point where that's irrelevant, but okay.
	Okay.
	That happens.
	There's certainly violence, sure.
	Yeah, there is a lot of violence against.
	But when you think of oppression, what is your definition of oppression?
	I don't know really how to explain it, to be honest.
	I mean, you use the word, you ought to know how to define it if you just use the word.
	Yeah, I just don't know exactly how to, like, why do you want me to explain that?
	That's what I'm getting at.
	Well, I mean, you've used a word you ought to be able to.
	Yeah, you're just putting me on the spot.
	You just want to embarrass me.
	And I'm going to tell you this now.
	It's not going to happen, Brian.
	Because guess what?
	I'll fucking dip right now if you're not going to be able to do it.
	Because we're having a polite conversation?
	No, because I already know what this is about.
	We talked about this last podcast, so why do you want to bring it up?
	Well, we didn't really talk about it.
	Okay, well, I'm not going to say anything else because it's not my job to school you and educate you, Brian.
	Well, I mean, that's a very quiet enough.
	I mean, that's a very convenient way to shut down an otherwise polite conversation.
	I gave you an opportunity to speak, so I think you should.
	You're just not going to talk.
	Why is this such a sensitive subject for you?
	Because, but let me ask you a question.
	Can we engage in this?
	Hold on.
	I didn't even want to come to you.
	Stop interrupting.
	Please.
	You literally asked me to be here.
	I said no, thanks.
	And you're like, come on.
	Okay, well.
	And.
	But why don't you want to have this conversation?
	Like, we can have a good faith.
	Can you stop interrupting?
	We can have a good faith conversation about this.
	Like, I don't understand why we can't just have it.
	I've super chatted $49.99.
	Nanny, you condemned domestic violence, but openly admitted to assaulting your ex-boyfriend with your purse.
	Like, we can, it's totally okay to have a conversation about, I suppose, what is for you an uncomfortable subject.
	But I don't see why you need to shut down the conversation.
	Like, I've been perfectly polite to you.
	Yeah, but I just don't want to answer it, Brian.
	Well, Sotaro super chatted $50.
	Crazy.
	Anytime that I see females bring up women oppression on podcast, they never give examples, but instead they just say look it up all that you should already know.
	Because it's true.
	So many, like, why do why would I have to explain it to you, Brian?
	Like, just be respectful.
	I'm not going to say anything more about it because I feel uncomfortable talking about it.
	Why?
	Why?
	But you weren't uncomfortable until I started pushing back on you.
	Yeah.
	Because it's coming from a place of hate.
	It's not.
	It's not coming from a place of hate.
	My super chat budget is getting a bit strained now.
	However, Bangs, please watch the documentary, The Red Pill, by Cassie J.
	It made a very good conversation on my previously negative and feminist girlfriend.
	Eco chamber.
	Let me ask you something.
	So, like, no, hold on.
	Let me rephrase my thoughts.
	A lot of people in both red pill, blue pill community could benefit from this conversation.
	And this is, again, back to the previous conversation where this is the problem.
	Let's have a civil discourse.
	Let's talk about it.
	And most people resort to shutting down.
	People are trying to understand.
	He's not trying to understand.
	He's trying to get some views.
	He literally said, let's make it, let's make it spicy or whatever.
	Like, let's get you heated because he knows that's going to get him good revenue.
	He knows that.
	Well, I didn't say that.
	It's because you want to know why it gets so many views.
	It's because this is the problem that we're facing.
	Conversations like that.
	So if we're able to actually have this conversation, I would also like to understand your point of view.
	I understand it could come off as a bit like attacking, but a lot of people out there, a majority of people, are trying to understand this situation, men and women.
	So if you're for women.
	But no matter what.
	Anything I say, it's still not going to change your guys' beliefs because you guys live by this.
	Yeah, here's another podcast about that.
	Yeah, of course.
	Okay, so the purpose, let me just explain something.
	The purpose of debate isn't necessarily to convince the person that you're debating with.
	It's to convince the audience.
	I don't want to.
	I'm not going to be an audience, bro.
	This is a bunch of like incels.
	I don't want to.
	No, it's not a problem.
	Okay, first off, don't insult my audience.
	They're not incels.
	Okay.
	So.
	Okay.
	No, don't disrespect the platform, okay?
	So the purpose of a debate is not necessarily to convince the other person.
	It's to convince the viewer, the listener.
	But it's just interesting because I gave you a minute, two minutes to explain your position.
	And then when I push back a little bit, you're like, no, we're done.
	Yeah, because I don't have the time.
	Brian, it's so late.
	I have a long drive back home.
	And honestly, I don't want to argue right now, to be honest.
	Maybe if you brought it up a little bit sooner, I'm kind of worn out, to be honest.
	Well, maybe we'll have to do round three.
	I will end it on this, though.
	I think I don't expect you to respond and you don't have to respond, but I will at least address the points that you brought up.
	So you said that you said that basically the patriarchy theory, that men built this country for other men.
	Now, I agree with you on the first part.
	Men did build this country.
	However, men didn't build it for the benefit of other men.
	They built it for their families, their wives, their sons, their daughters.
	So I agree with you that yes, this country and all countries, in fact, have been built on the backs of men, but it's not for the benefit of other men.
	In fact, they've actually done studies on this.
	Men have an out-group bias.
	So men have an out-group bias for women, whereas women have an in-group bias for other women.
	In other words, the sisterhood.
	There's a sisterhood amongst women.
	There's not a brotherhood amongst men, at least to the same degree that there's a sisterhood amongst women.
	Every single thing that you see around you, the buildings you live in, the streets you drive in, the infrastructure that you rely on to survive, was all built, created, and is maintained by good, honest, hardworking men that simply want to provide for their family.
	It's not men wanting to oppress women.
	It's just men that want to work and provide for their family.
	Then why couldn't women vote?
	Because men were subject to military conscription.
	Because women didn't want to vote either at some point.
	Because if they voted, then that means they have to be drafted too.
	Isn't that correct?
	Yes.
	Yeah, the reason, by the way, throughout the vast majority of human history, men didn't have the vote either.
	There was a small percentage of men who had power.
	The rest of the men were also oppressed alongside all of the women that were oppressed.
	It was like, you know, previously you had tyrants and kings and dictators.
	Men couldn't vote.
	This is like a voting came around in like, broadly speaking in the 1900s, the late 1800s, 1900s, and now obviously in 1920 is when women got the right to vote.
	So this voting thing is very new.
	Democracy is very new.
	Most people never had the right to vote.
	The way men had the right to vote was because of warfare.
	Because men could be drafted and sent to fucking the Maginot line in France and go in the trenches and get trench foot and get chemical gassed.
	And to this day, women were able to secure the vote without the corresponding responsibility.
	Women have a right without a responsibility.
	Men have a right with a responsibility.
	That responsibility is you have to die for your country.
	Thank you, man.
	It's crazy when we don't go in her direction or we put forward an argument.
	She closes.
	This is not a debate.
	She uses words that she doesn't know the definition.
	Female oppression.
	Yo, Dex dude, thank you for the $50 super chat.
	So just to wrap this whole thing up, yeah, when it comes to voting, basically men to this day are subject to military conscription.
	I have this here.
	You want to talk about systematic oppression?
	I don't know if you've heard of the selective service system.
	So I don't know if you can read this.
	Men 18 to 25 years old.
	Sorry, I need to eat.
	My hands are fucking shaking.
	So this is a draft.
	Ignore the bright colors.
	If you open this up, here, take a look at that.
	Here, take it.
	Take it.
	This is a draft registration form.
	It says 18 to 25-year-old men.
	Only men are subject to military conscription.
	That's why men got the right to vote before women.
	I think still to this day, women don't want to be drafted.
	Well, they do.
	And they can't.
	And they can't.
	They can't.
	And so they're fine with that.
	No one, you don't see any women pushing back saying, I want to be drafted.
	Exactly.
	Nobody wants to be drafted.
	Yeah, but if women were oppressed, they would be doing that.
	No, because the reason why women aren't drafted or put on the front line is because women aren't seen like, oh, as Intimidating to like to the enemy, you know, like they're putting men because men are like stronger, biologically stronger, biologically, like they don't want women there for a reason.
	Sure.
	Well, you're okay, you're you're not totally wrong.
	Yes, men, generally speaking, are more suited for warfare.
	Yeah.
	Men are, it's, it's a biological reality.
	Men are physically stronger than women.
	Now, I mean, in today's modern warfare, does someone, does some, well, physical strength is still a factor, but, you know, I mean, the way we conduct warfare now is very different.
	So women can participate much more to some degree in combat roles.
	It's still, I mean, in any case, we don't need to get into the whole military thing.
	But the difference is, if we're talking about equality, though, disregard, well, men, maybe men make better soldiers.
	Let's say an 18-year-old man who doesn't want to go to war, doesn't want to go get sent, take Ukraine, for example.
	All the women could leave the country.
	All the men had to stay.
	You could not leave the country.
	You cannot leave Ukraine if you were a man between the ages of 18 and like 60 or 65.
	While all the women in Ukraine, actually, I matched with some girls on fucking Tinder, like when the shit was heavy as fuck in Ukraine, when Kiev was getting scorched up.
	I was matching with chicks on fucking Tinder and hinge and shit.
	If you're a Ukrainian woman, you get to go to Stockholm, you get to go to Great Britain, you get to continue your hot girl summer.
	You know what the Ukrainian men were doing?
	Getting fucking massacred.
	So let's talk about privilege.
	Let's talk about privilege.
	And who are the people making them go to war?
	Men.
	It doesn't matter.
	It doesn't matter.
	And I mean, the Ukrainian military brass or the, you know, the president, they don't want to be in war.
	That was something that Russia instigated.
	So, I mean.
	But they have to defend their country.
	We live very, very privileged lives.
	Very privileged.
	If World War III, I'll tell you this.
	If World War III is around the corner, there's no feminists when Russia invades.
	There's no feminists when China invades.
	I'll tell you that much.
	Okay.
	But what I'm saying is, is that what I'm saying is, is that all these things that you often complain about, like when society, when shit hits the fan, we revert to our traditional gender roles.
	You can't have feminism when there's a military conflict.
	I would say y'all fought for equality for the longest time and then society overcorrected.
	And now women have a little bit more privilege than men do.
	Because like you said, men are drafted first.
	Now listen, I'm not, women were absolutely.
	Hold on.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Absolutely.
	Look in front of you.
	No, I'm just asking, like, genuinely asking, because I thought the military was so big they didn't have to do drafts anymore.
	When it comes to World War III, they're going to have to draft.
	There would be a draft in any war.
	Also, even if the likelihood, there hasn't been a draft in a long time.
	However, there are still men alive today that were drafted.
	Many of those men got sent to Korea, got sent to Vietnam.
	Those men came back with catastrophic post-traumatic stress disorder.
	They saw horrific things.
	I don't know why the fuck we were in Vietnam to begin with.
	That's a whole nother conversation.
	But there are other, if you don't, as a man, if you don't register for the selective service, if you don't register for the draft, it's technically a felony.
	You can get fined $250,000.
	Also, if you don't register, you can't apply for federal student aid.
	You can't get student loans or whatever.
	Also, you're barred from certain federal jobs if you don't register for the selective service as a man.
	There is no equivalent requirement for women to have to register, for example.
	And just to add to this thing, women were absolutely oppressed, but as were men.
	I don't want to make it a competition.
	I guess what I'm trying to say is, and I think it's a terrible kind of shifting of history.
	For the longest period of time, life was so incredibly difficult for everyone.
	We live the most coddled, privileged, easy lives.
	Modernity has created like the comforts of modernity cannot be understated.
	Life was brutal even 100, 200 years ago.
	It was difficult.
	Think about the things we take for granted.
	Electricity, plumbing, running water, hot water, showers 200 years ago.
	Imagine, people get grumpy if they can't have a hot shower after a couple days.
	Motherfuckers didn't have a hot shower their entire life.
	So it's just what I'm trying to arrive at is that life was incredibly difficult for both men and women.
	Men and women fundamentally were partners.
	Men and women cooperated throughout all human history.
	And I think it's a disastrous retelling of history to say men oppressed women, women were the oppressed.
	It teaches women to basically have contempt for and hatred for men, when in reality, it was a very small, very, very small percentage of men.
	And it's not necessarily because they were men that had all the power.
	So women had it hard in their own unique ways.
	Men have had it hard in their own unique ways.
	But I don't like this retelling of history that men were always the oppressor.
	Women were the oppressed.
	Martin, thank you, man.
	Nanny, you probably don't have to explain yourself to the kids you care for.
	However, in the real world, you cannot make aimless, ludicrous statements and not substantiate them.
	That hurts the validity of her claim.
	The oppressed nanny of girl.
	God bless you.
	Yo, Martin, thank you, man.
	And I'm preempting.
	And then I need to get through all these super chats and then we're going to wrap up here.
	So get your last-minute super chats in.
	Before this TTS comes in, does anyone hear, like, and it's going to come up here pretty soon, unless it was cockblocked by the previous one.
	Does anyone here have like a question that they want to pose to the panel?
	Something dating related?
	Yo, thank you, man.
	High voltage sign, Lord Blitz.
	High voltage sign, super chatted $99.99.
	At Bangs, what are some privileges that men have that women don't have now?
	I'm done talking about the whole privilege and oppression thing.
	Do you want to just entertain the thanks for spending $100 for nothing?
	Yikes.
	In good faith, can you at least just answer it?
	Just, come on.
	I don't want to, Brian.
	I told you I'm so tired.
	Just, all right, fine.
	We'll move on.
	Let's see.
	Honestly, the only thing I can think of is, and it depends on the city.
	Women can't go topless.
	I think that's the only thing I can think of.
	I wouldn't want to go topless.
	Okay, there you go.
	All right, let me try to run through these super chats as quick as I can.
	All right, we have this one, this one.
	Did I do this one?
	Martin.
	Can you read this one, Liz?
	Yeah.
	Brian, please explain to the 20-year-old child sitter that men put women into two categories.
	I'm assuming that word is supposed to be sex only or relationship potential.
	She's conflating the latter for what men are actually giving her attention for.
	Utterly clueless.
	Yeah, really quick, I'll just say it.
	So, I mean, basically, don't get sexual attraction confused with relationship attractions.
	And this applies to everyone, right?
	So men who will sleep with you, they may not necessarily be in a relationship with you.
	Yeah, that's completely true.
	Yeah, so, but sometimes people will get that confused because I feel like for a lot of women, in order for you to sleep with a guy, in terms of physical attraction, he has to be at least attractive enough for you to consider being in a relationship with him.
	Whereas for men, it's pretty much the opposite.
	We will sleep with women who we would never have a relationship with.
	Yeah, men will stick their PP in anything.
	Their PP in anything.
	Absolutely.
	Anything else?
	Not me.
	Not me.
	I have standards.
	I think of a guy doing something to a rat.
	What the fuck?
	Yo, what kind of weird shit are you?
	What about Twitter?
	Like, okay, it's Twitter.
	Like, you can't.
	Into the mic.
	It was on Twitter.
	Like, shit comes up onto Twitter.
	You can be honest.
	Were you on Rat Hub?
	No.
	Rat Hub.
	Rat Hub.
	It's the premiere It was like You got a sneaker kink No it was like I think it like It was fucking a rat Yeah Yeah.
	It was a rat.
	Like, men will stick their holes in anything.
	It's kind of scary.
	What the fuck?
	I remember when I was like a little younger, like back in high school, a guy sent me a video of him fucking a couch.
	Good times.
	Hey, sometimes.
	Good times.
	Brian.
	I didn't even ask you.
	Come on, guys.
	Do better.
	What is going on?
	Brian.
	Good times.
	Listen, have you ever seen like just a thick love scene?
	Stop.
	Stop.
	Keep going with this.
	Keep going, Chad.
	Keep going.
	Yo, you see that Grace couch over there I have?
	Stop.
	Ew, Brian.
	What?
	I saw something.
	I know I can't.
	Yo, hey.
	Hey, yo.
	No, let's keep going with this.
	Don't shame my sexuality.
	I'm a couch.
	Oh.
	I don't know.
	All right.
	Let's keep it going.
	I'm kidding.
	I think you are.
	Yo, Canadian 25.
	Thank you, man.
	Can I have you read it?
	Yeah.
	Regarding common law marriage in Canada, you can also be held responsible for child support for children that aren't yours if they see you as a father figure.
	Something else to consider if you date and live with a single mother.
	Whoa.
	Canada, failed society.
	Failed society.
	Yo, Andrew Flanlife and Drife.
	I think you guys got to come to the U.S. or let's all, I don't know, we got to move.
	We got to move, boys.
	All right.
	Thank you, man.
	Lawrence Bullock.
	Yo, thank you, man.
	You don't want to say that?
	Huh?
	You want me to read it?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	The fact that a woman on the panel openly admitted to beating her ex and no other woman called her out is proof we don't live in a patriarchy.
	Haram!
	All right.
	I didn't beat him up.
	I just smacked him with my purse, okay?
	That's some acting like I fucking like this dude up.
	Yo, either way.
	That's some gambling.
	He said he wouldn't give him back.
	That's some Amber Heard shit.
	All right.
	Alvin Sam, $20 Soup Chat.
	I wasn't, what did she, Amber Heard?
	What did she say?
	She was like, Johnny, I wasn't punching you.
	I was hitting you.
	There's a difference.
	Yeah, well, yeah, closed, open.
	That makes a big difference.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Go for it.
	Ladies, why should a man provide relationship security when unconditional love does not exist?
	Unconditional love does exist.
	Yeah, love is love is an action.
	Unconditional love?
	Yeah, from a dog.
	Okay, well, unconditional love is a good idea.
	Okay, unconditional love.
	Yeah, that's correct.
	I misspoke.
	Unconditional love, it does not exist because love is a choice.
	You have to choose to love.
	Only dogs will love unconditional love.
	But then there's also like a certain love.
	You're the dragons.
	There's also like a certain level.
	Like unconditional love doesn't mean that person can do anything to you, but you will continue to love them no matter what they do.
	There's always conditions.
	Yeah, but if they're like, they're constant, or what is the word I'm consistently cheating on you or beating you or whatever, then unconditional love no longer exists.
	Right, so there's conditions.
	Yeah, there's always conditions.
	You have to be loyal, yeah.
	Yes.
	So only God does unconditional scenario.
	Eric, can you close the door by the way?
	Correct.
	Yo, Keegan Bitchell.
	I'm sorry if I'm butchering your name.
	Bitchel?
	By Shell Bitchel?
	Yo, thank for the Australian 5099.
	Let me see if I can do an Australian accent.
	Oh, no.
	Afternoon.
	Is it going to be Scottish again?
	Do it.
	Afternoon, Brian.
	He in Australia.
	Good to see they're still, fuck.
	Bring them up.
	There's still some hope in the dating scene.
	Oh, my God.
	That's Irish or something.
	That's like Irish.
	That is not Australian.
	NA90.
	For the good men out there.
	Expirate.
	Good afternoon, Brian.
	There's still some hope in the dating scene for the good men out there.
	Wow.
	Yo, go ahead.
	There we go.
	I forgot about that.
	Hell yeah.
	I forgot you told Mermaids.
	Yo, Man of the Worlds, $20 Soup Chat.
	Brian said, fuck them kids.
	Yeah, he did.
	I am doing that.
	What's up?
	Wait, what?
	Nothing.
	Okay.
	All right, David Mead, thank you, thank you.
	Alvin Sam, thank you.
	10 out of 10.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, thank you, thank you.
	Wait, did this?
	Wait.
	did this one did we this one come through as a tts i look it up for i think this came in as a tts yo sotero good to see you man Yo, Timbo Slice, thank you for the membership.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Yo, Flan Life, Canadian, $20 Soup Chat.
	Mercy Buku.
	I have some sympathy for her.
	That's probably why I was called a simp earlier.
	She can still learn, boys.
	Sometimes one needs to face a sobering reality in order to grow as a human being.
	Thank you, Andrew.
	Appreciate it.
	Gideon Newman, $20 Super Chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, last few here.
	Yo, Timbo Slice.
	Thank you, man.
	Go for it, Liv.
	Liz, sorry.
	I'm fucking.
	No, it's okay.
	It's 11 o'clock.
	I just have to say that I appreciate that you'll still respect everyone on here, Brian.
	Even when you don't agree, you argue logically and show them respect, not common.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	Yeah.
	A lot of people say my patience is pretty good.
	But yeah, I mean, I try to just keep a level head when it comes to debating, and I just argue the point.
	I don't get emotional if someone disagrees with me.
	It is what it is.
	So thank you for the support, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Yo, Martin, thank you, man.
	That came in already.
	That came in.
	All right.
	I believe that is it for the super chats.
	Okay.
	Before we wrap up here, final thoughts, anybody?
	Does anyone have a final thought before we wrap up?
	No.
	Do you think the man is valuable in the relationship?
	Of course.
	The man is the prize in the relationship, or is it the woman?
	Yeah, it's like the same.
	I think the man would be the prize.
	He could be like, well, she's the prize.
	ask you why you think that I want to dig a little deeper I'm not gonna keep that yeah well of course I wouldn't be with them unless I thought like all this like amazing stuff about them so in my eyes they're yeah they're the prize I guess okay I think I think if I was like in a relationship with somebody that I really liked I'd be like yeah I hit the jackpot with them because I just would love them so much you know okay that's a based answer
	I think they're both prizes in their own different ways.
	If you had to pick one, you can't, you can't, you can't.
	I don't think that this world would be the same without a man, if that's what you're saying.
	Like, I think this world is better that men are in it.
	I agree, a relationship should be equal.
	Well, in like, in the way that like, the woman should view the man as a trophy and the man should view the woman as a trophy, like it should be equal in that sense that, like you, should both adore each other and love each other the exact same amount.
	Right for it to work and to be like a relationship.
	Sorry, one person shouldn't be like the like, the only valuable person in the relationship, you know, has to be equal.
	Agreed okay, didn't.
	Last show.
	You said women are the prize.
	No, I don't even think.
	You asked that last time, to be honest.
	Well, what do you think?
	I don't know, because you said all women are tens.
	Yeah, but not all men are tens.
	I'm telling you this Brian, if I was in a relationship to me and I really like them, go ahead, go ahead.
	I'm just saying like, if I was in a relationship and I sorry, if I was in a relationship and I really liked them then yeah, like to me, like that person's a prize, that person's a trophy, and I love them and i'm i'm happy to be with them.
	Okay, good answer.
	Last question, two last questions here.
	How many or how long do you wait until hooking up with a guy?
	We'll start over here um, I think um, not immediately, but if you feel like you have a connection with him right off the bat um, and you think that it's something real and like it's not just gonna be, you know, like a one-night thing um, I don't know, I guess it just depends on how quickly your relationship moves.
	Um, sometimes they can move pretty fast, so it just depends on the connection you have with the person.
	I think yes yeah, I feel like you already know my answer, marriage.
	Okay, what about you, Kaylin?
	Um, I think I do like the three-month rule to see if they're actually committed to you.
	I'm waiting for you.
	You look so shocked.
	Sounds like a lot of work.
	You gotta wait three months.
	You gotta wait bro, wait.
	Question for Kaylin.
	So explain your rule, the three-month rule.
	So it's like a rule, like if they really wanted to commit to you and not just use you for your body, then they'll like be with you longer than three months or up to three months.
	Have you ever had a one-night stand?
	I have yeah, oh interesting, Kaylin.
	So why does the person that you find actually valuable, that you actually want to commit to and share life with, have to wait and be punished for that?
	I just want to make sure they're worthy of it.
	I don't think they're being punished.
	I just want to think waiting to have sex is not a punishment.
	So all men are talking to women because we all want to procreate.
	They're talking to me because they want to fuck, that's.
	And so if you had a one-night stand and you're gonna make the man that you actually want to have like a life with, you're gonna make him wait.
	Why someone else?
	Someone else got the prize quicker.
	I wouldn't say, help me understand.
	I would just say that if I wanted, like if I saw this man, I feel like I date for marriage.
	So so far i've only had one ex that I I planned on, But it didn't work.
	I made him wait more than three months, actually.
	I made him wait six months.
	But I feel like if I was looking for something in that specific man that I would want to last for marriage, then I would make him, I guess, feel like I could trust him in that kind of way.
	Like be able to commit to him and only him.
	So you've had a one-night stand.
	However, you're making a man wait.
	I'm not making anyone wait right now, but yeah.
	Right, but you said you have a three-month rule.
	So you find a guy and he knows this information.
	Why would you make him wait?
	Just, I mean, I said it to see you.
	But then you don't make these one-night stands wait.
	I think that's where it doesn't make sense.
	So it's a relationship with that one-night stand, or it also wants to hook up with him.
	That's the difference, because there is a big difference with pursuing a relationship with somebody and just wanting to hook up with somebody.
	But I don't like how we compartmentalize how we treat sex.
	Like, okay, if you don't want anything from the guy and you just want casual sex, oh, just fuck him right away.
	Whereas the guy who you actually value and he values you and he wants a relationship with you, make him wait.
	Like, why can't you just either, I think you honestly should have the same standard across the board.
	I think you're look, you're free to move however you want, but it should either be like, if your standard is, hey, make a guy, make guys wait, you shouldn't be giving, like, giving it up to some guy who's not worthy of a relationship.
	I'm women.
	THR were men who didn't want to go away.
	Women who wanted to do a man's job.
	Times were hard for both.
	But men are still expected to go war, provide alimony, etc.
	Men are still playing traditional roles, but not women.
	P-L-S-S state and team misuse feminism.
	Wow, the TTS scuffed that one up.
	Hey, thank you for the $50 soup chat.
	Appreciate it.
	So we were talking about this whole hooking up thing.
	So you've had one night stands.
	Have you had like hookups?
	Just casual hookups or friends with beneficials?
	When I, like, I guess the one-night stand that I've had, I was looking for something more than just a one-night stand.
	But in order to, like, I guess, feel like they wanted me, I felt like obligated to sleep with them, if that makes sense.
	Okay.
	So in that case, I feel like in order to see if like they actually wanted something like long-term with me, I had to sleep with them just because, not had to, that's a bad choice of words, but like I felt obligated to just to see if they like actually wanted me for me.
	So you said one night stand.
	One night stand, you met the guy the same night you had sex with him.
	No, I meant like hookup, sorry.
	No, I met him.
	Like I met him before.
	But you only slept with him one time.
	Yes.
	Was that he just ghosted you afterwards?
	What happened?
	Okay.
	I mean, did you have did he mislead you?
	Yeah, we had talked, like we'd been talking for a while before.
	So I guess in a sense, it like.
	Okay, it wasn't a one-night stand, but go ahead.
	Yeah, so we had been talking like a while, but I guess like we only like hooked up once, if that makes sense.
	So how long had you been talking to him before you guys?
	like two months so ah so even talking to a guy for two months did not prevent yeah him from see i think i mean there there are definitely guys out there that will mislead women into thinking that they want a relationship I think that's wrong.
	I think that's wrong.
	But I also think that the way most adult relationships start nowadays, it's not, hey, let's wait three months, let's go on 10 dates and then have sex.
	It's let's hook up, continue hooking up, and then we've now found ourselves in a relationship.
	I think that's how it plays out most.
	There's some guys, at least for me, some guys definitely judge.
	Like, if a girl hooks up too soon, they'll judge a girl.
	Me personally, that's that's not the case.
	All of my long-term relationships, I've had the five-year relationship, two-year relationship, one-year relationship.
	All those girls, like it was either the second or third night.
	I think one of them we hooked up like the first night, even.
	So, I don't think hooking up early on necessarily means that you can't, a long-term relationship can't flourish from that.
	Um, so and yeah, I don't know.
	Um, did you want to come?
	Did you want to respond?
	I was done saying what I had to say.
	Yeah, so a thing that a man thinks whenever the reason why I asked if it was a one-night stand specific real quick, did you have a one-night stand?
	Finish the question off.
	You have a one-night stand?
	Yeah, you have okay.
	So, for the next man that you have, and if this goes for any female that had a one-night stand before, a man's gonna think, like, oh my god, so this girl's had sex with one guy the day she met him.
	Why can't I do that?
	So, it's gonna emasculate him internally in his mind and be like, Okay, this girl's not someone I can really take seriously because if she's having one-night stands with that guy, probably do it with somebody else.
	And not only that, it could put a seed in his mind, like she'll bounce whenever she's not entertained enough.
	I actually think men nowadays are supposed to be like modern life jesters for people because if a girl's not entertained, she gets bored, she leaves him, and that's not cool.
	Um, yeah, also, like, if uh if a girl like I've actually had this experience, I actually had a recent dating experience where uh this girl uh I was dating, I hung out with her like three or four times.
	And look, not ultimately, your decision, like it's not gonna be like you know, it's her call if she wants to hook up or not.
	But like, I had a conversation with her, and she was telling me, like, hold on, I'm so we're gonna wrap here soon.
	We're just wrapping on this point.
	So she told me that she hooked up like a month earlier.
	She like the first night she met the guy, she hooked up with him.
	I've had this experience with so many girls, like they make me wait, and then they tell me, Hey, like, I had a ho phase, I've had one-night stands, I've done XYZ, and I'm like, The way it makes me feel is you just aren't attracted to me in that way.
	Yeah, you're like, You're just not into me.
	If you're attracted to a guy, you never told them about your past, yeah.
	Well, no, it's not about her telling me my past, it's probably just trying to hurt you, Brian.
	If I'm gonna be honest with you, no, no, no, that's that's not it because I was asking, but like, the thing is, is that my sense is if she had genuine burning desire for those men, hold on, Dragon Stalin 1001.
	Why would a man think you are the prize when hundreds of other men have already unwrapped you?
	Look, Pete, okay, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	People can change how they move.
	Like, previously, if you had a ho phase and party phase, whatever, and then now you want to wait, that's your prerogative.
	But I feel like a lot of men are gonna feel a certain type of way about that.
	Just don't tell them.
	Well, I think you should be honest for sure.
	I feel like you should be honest with men.
	To be honest, I don't think a guy has ever asked me this or has been respectful about my past.
	Like, I know you guys tend to ask about body count, and I just wanted to say, no guy has ever asked me about body count until I went on this podcast.
	What's your body count, by the way?
	I'm not gonna say it.
	I'm not gonna say it because I'm not sleeping with any of you guys.
	So, I think that's a discussion for the person that I will be sleeping with.
	Sure.
	Okay, but I was just saying, like, I don't know, like, just the men that I've encountered have never been that way.
	So I just think it's really funny.
	Well, okay, just to bring it back to the waiting thing, like, I'm just going to assume that she's just not that into me or she's playing a game.
	Here's the thing.
	Like, if it's her standard across the board and, like, all the guys she's been with, she waited, then 100%, like, I understand that.
	But it's like, I've had girls tell me, yeah, I've previously hooked up with like 30 dudes, and then now, like, you want to make me wait.
	Look, that's your prerogative.
	It's not, I'm not, that's totally your right.
	However, I have, I also have the right to feel a certain type of way about that.
	I feel like you're playing a game now.
	Because also, as a man, you want a girl who has genuine burning desire for you.
	If she doesn't have that kind of desire for you, like if she doesn't want you as much as you want her, here's what I start thinking.
	I'm like, okay, she's going to leverage sex in the relationship for compliance.
	She's using it to get me to commit.
	How else is she going to leverage sex to do chores?
	If I, you know, we have some like debate or if we have some argument, you never, you don't want to be with a girl who leverages sex against you to get compliance.
	You want a girl who wants to fuck you.
	You want a girl to have birth.
	If I have to, I don't want to convince a girl to sleep with me.
	I want a girl who's like wants me as bad as I want her.
	And if you don't have that, it's just like, I don't know, why play these games?
	But anyways, go ahead.
	You were going to say something.
	Like, in some sense, like, waiting with a guy and just like hooking up with him right away could be like, like, you like, you like want to wait and see if he's committed with other guys.
	Like, all you want to do is have sex with them.
	Just like how some guys just jump into bed with like girls randomly.
	Like, oh yeah, I pick her.
	I'm going to have sex with her.
	Yeah, well, I mean, I think you have to look at the guy and try to, and look, some guys are sociopathic.
	I don't know, I don't know the right term, but some guys will manipulate you.
	They will lie.
	And that's unfortunate.
	Men will do anything to get pushed.
	A lot of men will lie to get pussy.
	Anything.
	Absolutely.
	And most men will be able to do that.
	That's why I'm going to say this.
	Here we go.
	Let's go.
	No, I'm going to say something and you guys are completely close into the mind.
	Okay.
	That's why you have to stop sleeping with loser men because they will change.
	They will do anything for pussy and they will fucking change.
	They will.
	Okay, you got to look at how a guy moves.
	You got to vet a guy properly.
	Look, are there some manipulative men out there that are going to lie about that?
	Yeah.
	And also, like, a lot of guys, a lot of guys, and comedians have been talking about this.
	Eddie Murphy had a special in the 80s.
	Men will wait.
	And then they'll sleep with you.
	And then they're gone.
	And then they're gone.
	And I think that's wrong.
	Because they won the prize and now they're done.
	They want to go.
	And I think that they'll stay in the DMs for 10 years.
	I'm not going to be able to do that.
	Men will wait.
	I've never seen somebody personally that does that stuff.
	And it's, dude, like, come on, man.
	But me personally, as someone who strongly prefers continuity, like if I sleep with a girl, I want to continue sleeping with her because you should want to.
	You should want to.
	To me, there's no point of having a one-night stand.
	Like, it's a waste of time.
	Okay.
	For, there's a variety of reasons.
	One, just because I don't, to me, it's a very shallow exchange.
	I certainly value more like of a, honestly, the way a woman can impress me, it's not in the bedroom.
	Sure, that's great.
	And it's something I want.
	But like, the way you're going to impress me is outside of the relationship.
	But, okay, shit.
	Sorry.
	I lost my train of thought.
	So I am not interested in casual sex one-night stands.
	Like, I've always wanted to, if I sleep with a girl, I want to keep seeing her.
	Sometimes.
	You don't want a wifey without the wife.
	Well, I mean, relationships have to develop, but like my philosophy is always, also, it's just, there's a myriad of factors.
	Even if sex was your primary motivation, first off, the first time you have sex with a girl is not going to be the best time you have sex with her.
	Also, once you have a connection and if she loves you and you love her, the sex is going to be way better.
	It's going to be way better if you have that connection.
	And specifically on the physical point, from a physical point, she knows exactly what you like.
	You know what she likes.
	You have that comfort.
	You have that connection.
	And I think the sex just only gets better the longer you've been with a girl.
	You start doing extra work in the bedroom whenever you know that you have a passion.
	It's passionate.
	It becomes passionate sex at that point.
	I would say.
	Yeah.
	And from a purely practical point of view, too.
	Making love.
	Yeah.
	So I mean.
	At that point.
	Do you guys get post-net clarity?
	I'm just sorry.
	Like I'm wondering.
	If a girl.
	No, you know what I'm talking about.
	If a girl doesn't have any feelings for me and she's sleeping with me, like that pales in comparison to a girl that genuinely loves you and she's sleeping with you.
	Yeah, I agree.
	Honestly, like a girl, go ahead.
	I was just going to say, having sex with somebody that you're genuinely attracted to and genuinely love is uncomparable.
	And I think that's the best.
	Like, I think it's like sex is a beautiful thing.
	And to do it with somebody that you really, really love is, I think, like, I don't know.
	Like, when I was in a relationship and when I was in love, I thought that was like amazing, you know?
	And then I got out of the relationship.
	I did have a hoe phase, whatever you want to call it.
	And I didn't really like it, to be honest.
	I would get post-net clarity, literally.
	Or I don't know.
	I didn't like it.
	I kind of didn't see any.
	I wasn't, I don't think I was really gaining anything from, you know, just hooking up with guys.
	A lot of them were not great people either.
	A few of them actually cheated on their girls with me.
	And I had to find out a really bad way.
	I mean, the advice I would give women to vet men is: one, you can just straight up ask them.
	Some men are definitely going to lie.
	The other thing I would suggest is just look at do they are they a fuckboy?
	Like, do they look like a fuckboy?
	And then the other thing is, is one, obviously, you can avoid this situation by for example, for me, for example, if I find if I match with a girl on Hinge, for example, on a dating app, and I know she's a tourist, like she's just in town for the night, I've had girls that are down to fuck, and I'll be like, I'm not interested.
	It's not worth my time to fuck you one time and never talk to you again.
	Yeah, it's just I have better things to do.
	Yeah, and I think that's why I don't.
	But that's what I guess what I'm trying to say is like, obviously, if the guy's a tourist, if he's in town, you can look at like how he moves.
	Does he party a lot?
	Does he drink a lot?
	Does he go to the bars?
	Does he go to the clubs?
	That guy's probably less likely to be looking for commitment than a different kind of guy.
	So there's definitely a lot of ways you can sort of suss it out.
	Are there still going to be manipulative men?
	100%.
	So, yeah.
	One last thing to kind of try to explain why this is an analogy here.
	Why men like have an issue with this whole?
	Oh, hold on.
	Walt wash your super chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, Walter.
	If a guy is just looking for a hookup, he doesn't care about your body count.
	So why bother asking?
	I actually disagree.
	I think even for a hookup or one-night stand, like, would our preference even for a hookup be for a low body count?
	Probably.
	Before I even get with a girl, I ask her so many questions because I'm seeing which, like, I hate to say it, but where you sit with me.
	So, like, if you, whenever I ask you questions, I ask you, like, what job you do, what's your body count, how many partners have you had?
	Have you had a one-night stand?
	I go in depth.
	I grill people.
	And normally after the first 5, 10, 15 minutes of talking with this girl, I know if I'm either putting her in a recreational use only category or if I'm looking for a real relationship with her.
	And that's how I do it.
	Because at the end of the day, like, if you're going to be my girl, you're going to represent me outside of the bedroom, outside of the house, et cetera.
	So if you make me look bad, I ain't keeping you around.
	Like, be real with you.
	But I'll definitely smash.
	That's honest.
	Most men can't be honest.
	All right, it's getting pretty late here, so we're going to wrap.
	Last thing, I'll just end it on this analogy.
	So kind of why like a guy might have an issue with like if a girl, if she's hooked up with a bunch of guys in the past, had a phase, party phase, ho phase, whatever you want to call it, and then wants to make the guy wait.
	So here's this analogy here.
	And I might give two just to kind of give a different perspective.
	So, and I've written this down here just so I don't scuff it up how I normally do.
	So making a man wait while you smashed Chad after a few beers on a slow Tuesday, and that could have happened numerous amounts of times, is like me going to McDonald's and while everyone else eating there paid $1 for that cheeseburger, the clerk looks at me and says, it's $1,000 for you, sir.
	Does that helpful?
	Yeah.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Here's the last example I can give.
	Last example.
	And then we're going to wrap.
	I know, I know.
	We're going to wrap.
	Last example.
	Okay, so what's your thoughts on the scenario?
	Let's say you've been in a situation with a guy for six months.
	You really like him.
	You want him to commit to you.
	You've hooked up with him already, right?
	You guys are hooking up.
	But he says he likes to take things slow.
	Somehow, you find out that the last three girls he had a committed relationship with, he initiated the commitment conversation after only three weeks of dating.
	How does that make you feel?
	I mean, it takes me back to what you were saying, how it makes you not feel good that somebody would wait to have sex with you.
	But it's like, I know this is commitment, not sex, but it's like the same thing that you were saying before.
	Yeah, you'd be like, well.
	You would feel like of a lesser value.
	Yeah, like, oh, am I, he doesn't put me on the same level as his previous girls.
	He doesn't put me on the same pedestal he did the other girls.
	Yeah, another example I could give is basically like, let's say you were dating a guy.
	Let's say you've been dating him for six months, a year, whatever.
	And, you know, he's kind of a homebody.
	Like, he doesn't do much.
	He doesn't really take you out to dinner.
	You like him, right?
	You guys hook up.
	Like, you guys have a relationship, but he doesn't really take you anywhere.
	He doesn't buy you dinner.
	He doesn't get you gifts.
	He doesn't take you on vacation, whatever.
	Then you find out that with his last girlfriend or his previous girlfriends, he was buying her gifts.
	And by the way, his financial situation has not changed.
	He was getting her gifts, take her on vacations, doing all this extra stuff for his last relationship.
	Maybe he didn't feel appreciated in the last relationship.
	I like seeing stuff from both sides of the situation.
	Cool.
	All right, time to wrap up.
	Speak now or forever.
	Hold your peace if anyone has a final thought or question.
	Anybody?
	Yo, stop paying for this girl's gas.
	For real.
	Nah.
	Keep paying for our Amazon wish list.
	We love it.
	Marion is not a guy.
	That's a good one.
	And thank you for all the nice messages I got.
	If you want to support me, I will know you right now.
	Wait, what?
	What is it?
	I said, if you want to support me financially, everything, I will marry you right now.
	Brian gave you the ring, Brian.
	I thought, whoa, excuse me.
	Show the ring.
	Wait, it's on the middle finger.
	What the fuck?
	Yeah, because it was funny.
	I told you it was going off.
	And it's bad luck.
	I'm married, though, so she's taking engaged.
	Brian's an engagement.
	Not a marriage.
	Brian is not going to remember this, just to let you know.
	Remember that you gave a random girl on the podcast a ring and you won't even put a ring on her finger.
	This is going to be an argument, just in case.
	Just letting you know.
	In the future, when you finally find a girl, this might be an argument.
	Yeah, this will certainly be the deal breaker for my future partner, I'm sure.
	Okay.
	All right, guys.
	Thank you so much for tuning.
	Oh, we didn't watch the video.
	Oh, well, let's check it out.
	That's fine.
	That's fine.
	I'll do it next show, Tuesday, Tuesday, guys.
	All right.
	Thank you for tuning in tonight.
	Thank you all for watching.
	Really appreciate all the support tonight, guys.
	You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.
	I appreciate that.
	I could have been.
	Shut up.
	Shut up.
	I could have been with some hot men, but I decided to come back.
	Yeah, she could have.
	What was the term you used?
	It was like a Spanish term or something.
	Los vaqueros.
	Los vaqueros.
	Yes, they were vaqueros.
	No, you said it was rancheros.
	Oh, yeah.
	Baisarancheros.
	She's like, end the show.
	But let me just explain.
	Let me interrupt Brian's.
	Shout out to the panel.
	You guys are amazing.
	Thanks for actually having us.
	Thank you for being respectful.
	Yeah, no, honestly, props to you, dude.
	I had a bad experience last time.
	Kind of did not want to come back.
	But yeah, you're very respectful, and I actually wanted to listen and like hear what you had to say.
	Brian, round three, round three.
	I thought you were going to be nice.
	Yeah, let's end it.
	Let's end it.
	So Ryan, Conor McGregor.
	Because it got a lot of views last time.
	Okay.
	Brian, don't lie.
	Don't lie, okay?
	We all know.
	That podcast got so many views because of me, okay?
	Cool.
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	I thought this was one of my favorite panels, I think.
	It was quite diverse.
	I think you guys were great.
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