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Dating Talk #57

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	Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California, every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
	I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
	I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.
	She's a bit shy.
	Guys, a few quick announcements before the show begins.
	This podcast is viewer supported.
	You know, YouTube demonetization, all that.
	So I make nearly nothing from ad revenue.
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	Eric, can you pull it up?
	Yeah, $20 and up.
	$50 and up triggers TTS.
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	So yeah.
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	Also, I just wanted to apologize.
	Sorry for the late start here, guys.
	We had a couple little technical issues behind the scenes before the show started.
	A couple flakes, so you know, dealing with it.
	But so thank you guys for your patience.
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	And Eric, do we have the Instagram tab pulled up?
	Is that yep?
	Okay.
	If you guys, excuse me.
	Sorry, guys.
	Okay.
	Any girls who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.
	That's our Instagram, by the way.
	Okay, cool, guys.
	Oh, also, today's episode is sponsored by Blue Chew.
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	Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
	So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
	Go ahead.
	Hi, my name is Maya.
	I'm 18 years old.
	I am a food server, and I'm currently a student at SBCC.
	Hi, my name is Tram.
	I'm turning 25, and I run an e-commerce business.
	I'm Amanda.
	I'm 18.
	I work as a hostess at an Italian restaurant, and I also go to SBCC.
	What do you two study?
	I'm currently a business major, but I'm thinking of switching to communications because I'm wanting to transfer to UCSB in two years.
	So hopefully everything goes good with that.
	I'm studying kinesiology.
	Okay.
	And what's your e-commerce business?
	Etsy.
	Etsy?
	So like you make trinkets and jewelry or?
	Digital products and apparels.
	Like digital products.
	Porn?
	Digital products and apparels.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Cool.
	I'm Sydney.
	I'm 22, and I'm a student, but I'm an actress and a server right now.
	Where do you go to school?
	The city college.
	What do you study?
	I'm an actress, acting major.
	Acting major.
	Okay.
	Tara.
	I'm Tara.
	I'm a fourth year at UC Santa Barbara studying philosophy and psychology.
	And I also work as a server.
	Age.
	As well.
	And I'm 21.
	What do you study at UCSB again?
	Philosophy and psychology.
	Yes.
	Got it.
	Cool.
	Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
	By the way, thank you to our member.
	I believe that was Shane.
	Let me look.
	Looks like it doubled up or something.
	I don't know.
	Thank you, Shane, for becoming a member.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Okay, so we're going to go around the table one more time.
	Current relationship status and longest relationship.
	Go ahead.
	I'm currently single, very single.
	Very single.
	Yeah.
	No intentions of getting into a relationship anytime soon.
	My longest relationship was two and a half years, and I just ended before I left for college in June.
	So yeah, no more relationships for quite a while.
	Okay, no more relationships for quite a while.
	When you say very single, what does that mean?
	It means I have no intentions of having any relationships anytime soon.
	What if a great guy comes along?
	Still?
	There's, I mean, how many great, great, genuinely great guys are there at UC Santa Barbara?
	There's a lot.
	You're just probably overlooking them.
	Oh, maybe.
	That's valid, honestly.
	But I don't know.
	I just don't really see myself getting in a relationship anytime soon.
	Why?
	It's not like my previous one ended like anything bad.
	Like he wasn't a bad guy or anything.
	He just wasn't the best boyfriend.
	And I just don't really want to go through that again.
	Why did he dump you?
	Oh, no, I dumped him.
	No, no, no.
	I dumped him.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	It was just like, it ended because of college, but it's just like, I feel like this happens to a lot of girls.
	Like, you realize afterwards, like, maybe that relationship wasn't as great as you thought it was while you were in it.
	So it's like when you have people congratulating you after you break up with someone, you know, maybe that's a little eye-opening that, oh, that was not the best relationship.
	Why wasn't he the best boyfriend?
	He wasn't, he just wasn't enough for me, if that makes sense.
	Like, he needed to work on himself a lot more before I feel like he could have been the best boyfriend that he could have been.
	Because he wasn't a bad guy at all.
	He was a sweet guy.
	Sweet guy.
	Yeah, totally.
	He treated you nicely.
	Nicely?
	Yes.
	You said he's not enough.
	There goes the poster.
	Oh, that was planned, by the way.
	That was planned.
	Well, welcome to the whatever podcast where we are the pinnacle of professionalism.
	I'm pretty sure one of these other ones will go too, but so continuing on.
	Wait, I feel like I got something for that.
	Hold on.
	Let's see.
	Okay, whatever.
	It doesn't matter.
	Okay, so you said he was a sweet guy, nice guy, but he wasn't enough.
	What does that mean?
	Like I said, he just needed to work on himself a lot.
	I feel like he didn't have any really goals going for him.
	Since I dumped him, though, he's been doing a lot better.
	He joined the Marines.
	I don't know.
	I think he's doing better from what.
	Kiki, I know you're cute.
	Let's stop hogging all the attention.
	Give the guests some space to express themselves.
	Oh, whoops.
	Yo, Halo Spartan.
	Thank you, man.
	And by the way, thank you for using Streamlabs to do that TTS instead of YouTube.
	YouTube takes a cut.
	So, yeah.
	If you want more of your patronage to go to the show, consider the link for that is in the description.
	Exact same triggers and all that.
	What is going on with my hair?
	You guys see that?
	Hold on.
	Do you guys see this thing?
	You guys see that?
	What is that?
	The fuck?
	Okay, anyways, I guess I'll leave it.
	Hold on.
	Okay.
	Your boyfriend's not enough.
	Why is he not enough?
	Or was he not enough?
	He wasn't very in touch with his emotions.
	He didn't know how to respond.
	And it just made things tough.
	And I'm not saying that I expect every single person that I come across to be perfect at responding, but it's just.
	He was just exceptionally bad at it.
	Like, really bad at it.
	Is there anything else?
	No, he was a great person.
	Like, he's really nice.
	It was just like the emotional aspects to it sometimes weren't necessarily what I needed in a relationship.
	So, again, there was no beef or anything.
	Like, he still writes me letters all the time.
	He writes you letters?
	When you say letters, do you mean Instagram DMs?
	No, I mean like he writes letters from.
	Parchment and quill.
	Not parchment and quill, but like on like pen and paper in his very sloppy handwriting.
	That's not what I did.
	Is he left-handed?
	He is.
	What a fucking legend.
	W's in the chat for the fellow lefties unite.
	Honestly, I think left-handed people need reparations.
	Reparations?
	What do you mean by that?
	Well, like left-handed people are pretty much the most discriminated against group of people.
	I've hated on left-handed people.
	Ever.
	I've never hated on a left-handed people.
	Scissors?
	Have you tried to use scissors with your left-handed?
	I think it's so not fair.
	I don't know.
	It's messed up.
	Fucking desks and shit or else it's scuffed.
	Anyways, okay.
	So we're going to come back to the very single thing.
	We'll talk a little bit about, we'll talk a bit about that.
	So current relationship status, longest relationship.
	Single like a dollar bill.
	Single like what?
	Like a dollar bill.
	What?
	Shit, what is the.
	Okay, you're single like a dollar bill.
	What is the.
	Shit.
	Okay, and longest relationship.
	Longest relationship would be two years.
	Two years.
	Okay.
	Why are you single like a dollar bill?
	I'm pretty picky.
	To be honest, my last ex, all he did was play video games, and he was my ambitious.
	And I had to tell him, hey, like, you know, you have a lot of experience in the food industry.
	Why don't you, you know, make it, I don't know, build your own business or work for a higher-end restaurant?
	He was like, no, I'm good.
	I'm making minimum wage.
	And I'm good playing video games and, you know, just living comfortably.
	I kind of remember where I was going.
	So you said single as a dollar bill, but you're Vietnamese, correct?
	Yeah.
	Single as a dong?
	That's the Vietnamese currency, right?
	How'd you say it?
	How do you pronounce it?
	No.
	Oh, isn't it spelled D-O-N-G?
	So you're single as a dong.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	All right.
	I'll be here on that, guys.
	Okay.
	So, okay.
	So when was your last relationship?
	My last one.
	Or when did it end?
	My last relationship was a year ago.
	Okay.
	A year and a half ago, actually.
	Okay.
	So we have very single and single as a dollar bill.
	What about you?
	I'm single.
	I'm pretty single, but.
	Pretty.
	Okay, pretty single.
	We have some very interesting answers here.
	You're pretty single.
	Okay, so you're currently sleeping with someone.
	But you're not in a relationship with them.
	I guess, yes.
	I'm having a lot of fun.
	Can you tilt the mic down?
	That's fine.
	You're fine.
	You're fine.
	Continue.
	I'm having fun.
	But like, I know where I am and I know like my emotional state right now.
	And I'm just experimenting.
	And I'm just like, I know well enough to not talk to anybody because I don't want to personally hurt them.
	Just because I think the last relationship I was in was like three months long.
	So like, I don't know.
	I'm pretty emotionally intelligent to know that if I need to get into a relationship right now.
	And I'm not right now.
	Did you say your longest relationship?
	Okay.
	So pretty single.
	You're experimenting right now.
	What do you mean by that?
	With ethical non-monogamy.
	I can never say that.
	Ethical non-monogamy.
	Is that what you're talking about?
	I don't know what that is.
	It's where you're seeing multiple people, but you're kind of upfront about it.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Yeah, the term is EM, ethical non-monogamy.
	Okay, so you're seeing multiple couple guys right now, a couple girls.
	Are you.
	No, I'm just straight.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	A couple guys, though, you're seeing.
	Yeah.
	How many guys are you seeing?
	That's classified.
	That's classified.
	That is classified.
	Spill the tea.
	Let's hear it.
	I'll tell you how many guys I'm seeing.
	Oh, yeah.
	How many?
	Seven.
	Seven.
	That's right.
	What are the names?
	You see that?
	Everybody's been asking, what does the seven on your lapel mean, Brian?
	Means I'm seeing 70.
	She doesn't know what the generations means, but guarantee she's a registered Arden Democrat.
	Take your selfies in the light of the asteroid.
	Oh, Martin.
	Hey, thank you for the soup chat.
	Here, I'll send the asteroid right now.
	All right.
	Oh.
	Whoa.
	What?
	Oh, my God.
	All right.
	Thank you, Martin.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Okay, so how many guys are you seeing?
	That's classified.
	Can you give us a range?
	Like, is it three, four, three to five?
	A baker's dozen.
	Two.
	Oh.
	Wait.
	Is that?
	Stop the cow.
	You being honest?
	Yeah, I'm being honest.
	Two guys.
	There's two.
	Okay, two guys, sure.
	All right.
	Sydney, what about you?
	I'm single, and my last relationship was over a year ago.
	Okay.
	By the way, guys, we're going to be doing a dating app review.
	So we will pull up some of the girls' dating apps here, and we'll do kind of a little review here.
	Should be fun.
	Okay, and then Tara, what about you?
	I'm currently single, and my longest relationship was a year or so, and it ended six months ago.
	Okay.
	Eric, can you close the door?
	It's a bit windy.
	So just going back to you two, actually, well, to everyone.
	So this whole single thing, right?
	Like, I kind of wonder what single even means nowadays, you know?
	By the way, is that a hickey?
	Oh, no, I have eczema.
	How are you going to call her just like so blunt like that shit?
	I promise, guys, I have eczema.
	I deal with it a lot.
	It's really true.
	It sucks.
	Okay.
	So just going back to.
	She always asks me that.
	Everyone always thinks it's a hickey, and it's not.
	I'm like, I just have a skin.
	About the cap.
	Oh, come on.
	That was fun.
	So, okay, so you guys are both single.
	So what I was arriving at is, you know, single is kind of this nebulous term nowadays.
	What does being single really mean?
	So you're very single, but like, you're dating, right?
	Like, there's maybe some guys in the picture.
	Yes, definitely, yeah.
	Like, is there kind of just how many, how many, what you got a roster?
	You got a bench?
	What are you working with?
	I don't know how hard I want to expose myself today.
	You can expose.
	I mean, okay, there was, for a really long time, I was only seeing one guy, and it was like casual, but it's just because I didn't feel the need to be like getting with other people because like I like, he's good enough.
	So it was like, whatever.
	Sure.
	However, he has since been, and I don't know if you caught us talking about that earlier.
	He has since been unadded and unfollowed on Instagram for reasons I don't want to get into.
	But I mean, after that, like, sure, like, I've been on my little hinge binges and everything.
	But I mean, I don't really, like, we can get more into this like later, but dating apps, like, I don't really consider, like, they're not dating apps, they're games.
	Like, it's not, I don't.
	What do you mean?
	Like, I don't, I don't use them to, like, ever meet up with these guys.
	It's just, like, a hot or not.
	Like, it's a fun game, like, yes or no.
	Do you scroll with it, your, with your friends, for example?
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah, totally.
	We, like, sit on the couch and we'll like be like, oh, my God, like, do you think he's cute?
	No?
	Oh, my God, no.
	Or yes.
	And it's just a fun little, fun little time.
	So who here is on a dating app or has ever been on the dating app?
	Show of hands.
	Okay.
	Who has ever been on the dating app?
	Well, let's say who.
	Yeah, okay.
	And then who's currently on a dating app?
	Show of hands?
	Okay.
	So have you guys ever met up with someone from a dating app?
	Yes, that was the guy that I was.
	Ended up dating.
	Wait, no, no, no, not dating.
	No, We were not dating out.
	Oh, excuse me.
	Correction.
	Not dating.
	Okay, so, and were you, but that's the only guy you've met from a dating app?
	No.
	It's okay.
	I mean, I'm not judging you, just I'm.
	No.
	Okay, this is the.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	People meet up.
	It's a dating app.
	You meet up with people.
	That's actually the.
	I don't think it's anything to be really ashamed of.
	The vast majority of people are meeting online nowadays.
	So super, super normal.
	Okay, so dating app, dating app, dating app.
	So have you ever met up with a guy from a dating app?
	I have.
	What about you?
	I have a couple times.
	Sydney?
	Yeah, I have really good experiences from it.
	Okay.
	Tea Dog?
	Yeah.
	Oh, that's her, actually.
	My voice.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Oh, okay.
	I was waiting for that.
	Okay, cool.
	So we will do the dating app review in a little bit.
	So let me see the other thing I wanted to go on.
	Oh, okay.
	So originally, you two were going to come on the show.
	Oh, whoops, sorry.
	You two were going to come on the show.
	Sunday.
	What happened, guys?
	We missed you.
	We missed you guys.
	I'm just going to say it.
	I got blackout drunk at a dager.
	And I, again, I profusely apologize.
	That was not my intentions.
	But yeah, I wish I could tell you all the fun I had, but I don't remember most of it.
	Derek Manks 1 donated $50.
	Thank you, man.
	Is self-respect in short supply?
	Remember, we are not the same.
	Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.
	Body count matters.
	Okay.
	Your response, I believe this is addressed to one or two of you.
	Do you guys have a response to Derek Man X1?
	Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.
	I don't really understand it on what you just said.
	Do you have a response to him?
	I don't really understand what you just said.
	It didn't really make sense.
	But tell us, okay, moving on, tell us about your blacked out.
	Was it President's or it was President's Day yesterday?
	Yeah, it was.
	You're blacked out Sunday.
	It's actually, it actually worked out because it was good we had you guys on this show because we have a smaller house today.
	So but tell us you guys you guys you were gonna be here on Sunday, but you know got blackout drunk dager.
	It was where you were both out together.
	I wasn't blackout, but I did fall asleep.
	But we were totally planning to come.
	I literally woke up on the couch.
	It was dark outside and Amanda was sitting next to me like on the other couch that we have and we were watching TV and I'm like, Manda, the podcast.
	She's like, Maya, we already missed it.
	I was like, oh shit.
	Okay.
	It was like eight by the time we she woke up.
	It's all good.
	It's all good.
	And it actually worked out perfectly because, yeah, we had a pretty full house that day.
	So actually on the semi-related to this topic, I hope, well, two things.
	So we had a girl who was going to be on the show.
	We had a girl who's going to be on the show.
	She's in the thumbnail.
	Unfortunately, we didn't have time to change the thumbnail because she flaked kind of last minute.
	So guys, I hope I'm not like misleading you.
	And she reached out to come be on the show.
	She's like a big TikToker, like got 7 million TikToks.
	We're going to try to reschedule with her, but we just didn't have time to change the thumbnail.
	So if anybody, like, I hope you don't feel like I've clickbaited you.
	She was going to be on the show.
	Her talent company reached out to book her on the show, but something came up.
	So we're going to try to reschedule.
	But yeah, I'll change the thumbnail after the show.
	And then the other thing is, am I, for the title of the video?
	So in last show, I jokingly, I don't know if it was jokingly, I jokingly proposed to one of the girls and she accepted.
	So technically I'm engaged, but is it chat?
	Is it, am I, is that clickbait?
	Am I abusing?
	Or is it kind of just in good fun?
	Chat?
	Is it, am I abusing?
	Is it a little clickbaity?
	I don't know.
	But anyways, we'll probably change the title after the show.
	But yes, I did engage to her conveniently enough.
	I'm holding on to the ring because she's very forgetful.
	You know, she has, what's it called?
	What's that thing where you forget a lot?
	Alzheimer's.
	No, the other one.
	Amnesia.
	Yeah, she has amnesia.
	So like, you know, I'm holding it safe.
	Anyways, okay, so let me get a couple super chats here.
	And just a reminder, guys.
	Also, I do want to get, Eric, can you pull up the chat, the normal chat, so I can see it?
	If you need to star anything, that's fine.
	All super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.
	I will read super chats 20 and up, 15 and up triggers TTS.
	I have received some of your guys's Feedback about the TTS and that it's very distracting.
	On one hand, I want to provide value to the people that support the show and enable us to continue running a show.
	And it's pretty expensive to be doing this whole operation.
	And like I said, we're demonetized on YouTube.
	We've got a couple, this is only our second sponsored show.
	So we really do rely on the patronage of our viewers.
	So I want to provide value where I can to the people that want to contribute to the show.
	However, I also acknowledge, and I see the comments, I read the comments, that TTS, it sort of does interrupt the flow of the show.
	So I chat, I'm reading the chat right now.
	If you guys want to share your thoughts on the TTS, one thing that I was considering was trying to, and I don't want this to come off as like a money grabber, me being greedy, but perhaps as a way to limit the frequency with which TTS interrupts would be by boosting the TTS trigger to like something higher.
	I don't know if that would resolve the problem, but I don't know.
	I'm fine.
	It's not like I'm fine with it at 50, but a lot of people are like, Brian, it's interrupting the show.
	It's interrupting the show.
	So let me know your guys' thoughts on the TTS.
	So yeah.
	Maybe higher, but like I don't want to come off like I'm being greedy, but like I obviously want to provide value to you guys.
	And I think the TTS sometimes, yes, it definitely can be interrupting, but it's also sometimes it's fun.
	It's funny too.
	So anyways, moving the show along here, guys.
	And I do, and when you, don't get me wrong, those of you who do the TTS, I'm super appreciative of your support.
	I hope I haven't discouraged you from wanting to, you know, interact with us.
	And Bryce, if you are in the chat, we will have you, we'll call you in in probably about, let's aim for like 9 p.m. Pacific.
	We do have a call in for tonight's show.
	Okay, after that thoroughly dull monologue I just presented, let us continue.
	So, wait, did you tell us about your blacked?
	It wasn't blacked out Sunday, but it was have a little afternoon delight.
	Oh, we were offered Coke on the way to the danger.
	Okay, just that sounds like a typical Isla Vista Sunday, you know?
	No, I have never, like, I've never had anyone just like offer us Coke, like, just for the heck of it.
	Like, we were this guy, okay, we got to the address, our Uber dropped us off, and he was like, hey, what, you guys want some fireball?
	Like, they were playing die outside, and I was like, yeah, I want some fireball.
	And so he had like the little shooters, you know?
	And so it's like, everything's sealed.
	Like, we're not getting, you know, like roofied or anything.
	Because I actually just happened to a friend of ours the other day.
	Not the other day.
	It was like a couple weeks.
	Yeah, no, that was scary to hear about.
	But, and so I'm just like chatting it up with him.
	Shit.
	Cheeks.
	Thank you, man.
	Cheeks donated $100.
	Here is a controversial question for the panel.
	Would your fathers approve of your promiscuity in your young years instead of waiting for just one guy that is experienced to settle with before you hit a wall eater in your late 20s slash early 30s?
	Okay, so would your dad approve of promiscuity?
	If your dad, I mean, that's making some assumptions, but oh.
	Smoggington donated $50.
	If things don't work out with my courtship of Kiki, Thickney could totally join the team.
	There's currently a roster spot open.
	Thickney?
	That's still a thing.
	I thought we moved past the nickname.
	The Thickney thing?
	Yeah.
	No, I think you've actually further, You know, locked it down is your name now that you've said that.
	It's like the Streisand effect.
	I don't know if you've heard of that.
	Like, if you address something in an effort to hide it, it just makes it worse.
	Never again.
	Do you have a response to him?
	Okay.
	So, um, I have an interesting response to Thickney or the previous one.
	To the one that was asked about the dad thing, whatever.
	Like, would your dad be proud?
	Sure.
	Or actually, let's save you for after once we have you go first.
	Go ahead.
	Um, as we'll explore later when we see the whole like the hinge thing, my relationship with my dad is not very good, so I don't care what he thinks.
	Sorry.
	Okay.
	Um, and you are your dad and mom, are they still together or separately?
	No, they're they divorced when I was like two.
	Okay, got it.
	Uh, what about you?
	What do you think?
	That's what the question was: would my dad approve?
	Um, like, yeah, having like being like being a hoe, basically, basically instead of like waiting for like your 20s or 30s or something.
	I don't know.
	You wouldn't want me to, like, you know, find a great guy and just stick by him instead of like, you know, being a hoe and just, you know, sleeping around.
	Okay.
	Got it.
	Yeah, I agree.
	Obviously, whose father wouldn't care about that?
	Like, obviously, my father cares, you know, but like, I'm also my own person, and I know like myself well enough to not like get into a dangerous situation or like get pregnant or any of those like horrible problems, obviously.
	But, you know, I just try to do it without like, you know, with carefree.
	You know, I'm still young.
	You know, I want to like experiment, have fun, but also be safe at the same time.
	Like, I'm, I really don't, I don't know, I'm not like a sex fiend like every single day.
	Like, I don't need sex all the time.
	So, like, if that's what they're trying to get at, like, but that's my opinion.
	Okay.
	Can we get a tattoo check, by the way?
	You got some interesting tattoos on your arm there.
	Yeah.
	What is that one?
	I have an eight ball right here, and then I have three playing cards on.
	All sevens.
	Whoa, sevens.
	Look at them.
	Look at them.
	All sevens.
	Look at them.
	Okay.
	Any other tattoos or is that it?
	I have one on my rib right here, but it's like a small heart.
	Okay.
	What's the seven one?
	What is that?
	The sevens.
	So my family.
	Wait, can you scoot this one?
	Just, we can't.
	Yeah.
	So my family, we grew up playing like cards all the time.
	So I wanted to get like playing cards.
	777 is my mom's like lucky number.
	She thinks it's like really lucky for some reason.
	And then I wanted to get one for each of my family members.
	Okay.
	So like this would be like my dad and then my mom and then my brother.
	Okay.
	Oh.
	DLD underscore 84.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Ladies, by what age would you want to get married?
	Well, we'll get that as soon as we just go around the table on our previous TTS, but thank you so much.
	We'll get to that right after that.
	Go ahead, Sydney.
	Honestly, like, I don't have that type of conversation with my father.
	Like, we're pretty open and like we have conversations with each other and he knows like my dating life, but I'm not having those conversations with my dad.
	Sorry.
	Tara.
	Okay, some people might find this really weird, but after I had sex for the first time, I literally scheduled like a dinner to go with my dad to to tell him because just because we're really close.
	And I was like, I feel like someone wise and responsible in my life should know about this because it's like a big life thing.
	I don't know.
	And so I never told my mom, like, I've never explicitly talked about sex with my mom ever.
	But yeah, after I had sex for the first time, I like to.
	See, I didn't take home to dinner to like tell my dad and he was like, he was like, was it safe?
	Was it like, were you, I don't know.
	And he was like, and then he was like, okay, now I'm ready for, can we, like, order food already?
	I'm hungry.
	Yeah.
	See, I did that with my mom.
	Like, I went out with my mom somewhere and I like had that conversation with her and was like open about it.
	But yeah.
	I told my dog after I lost my virginity.
	Perfect.
	Yeah.
	Was that like a year ago or what?
	What did my dog say?
	Yeah.
	He was like, Brian, you fucked up.
	I could see it.
	You fucked.
	No, I'm kidding.
	Okay, so the previous TTS was, at what age do you want to get married?
	Why don't you go ahead?
	When I was little, I was like 24 or I'm not getting married.
	But now that's like, that's dumb.
	So I'm thinking maybe like 28-ish.
	28?
	Okay.
	Actually, I think that's the average age most women get married.
	So that's, yeah, at least nowadays.
	I think that sounds about right.
	Go ahead.
	Yeah, I would agree with her.
	Like 28.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Probably like 27 to 29 years old.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I didn't really have an age on it.
	I've never really thought about that too much.
	So I mean, anywhere from 26 to 30, I'd say.
	Sure, Tara.
	Probably 25 to 27.
	Okay.
	And everyone here, I mean, the question assumes you want to get married.
	Does it, show of hands, does everyone here want to get married at some point?
	It's okay if you don't.
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	And also, just really quick, kind of related to this, do you want children?
	Perhaps obviously not now.
	Some of you are young, but at some point, do you want kids?
	Definitely, yeah.
	I've always seen myself as like a maternal, like I have a lot of maternal instincts.
	Like I definitely want to be a mom.
	Not yet, but definitely.
	Oh.
	Sam Skills super chatty.
	Thank you, Sam.
	Appreciate it, man.
	According to study finds, Hinge is the best dating app.
	But have you heard of the Thursday app?
	Only available in London and New York, but it only functions on Thursdays.
	Is that a good idea?
	Yeah, I heard about that one.
	That's I believe Hinge is actually responsible, or at least the company that does Hinge is responsible for Thursday.
	So it's only active on Thursday.
	That's not bad.
	That's kind of a rather novel idea.
	And it probably encourages you, like, it's only active on one day.
	Like, okay, let's make plans for this weekend, Friday, Saturday.
	That's kind of cool, but it's kind of niche.
	I don't, well, it's niche in the, I don't know, but it's, I heard about it like two or three years ago.
	So it's still only available in London and he said New York.
	That's a long time to still be only in two locations.
	So they're testing that.
	What the fuck, boys?
	What is this?
	Hold on.
	Yo.
	Help.
	Yo, help me.
	Tara, can you like just put your hands on my head for like a minute and just like apply pressure?
	Just get some water on it.
	Or you're going to fuck my hair out.
	Shut the fuck it up.
	You're fucking my shit up.
	You're making it worse.
	God damn.
	Okay.
	Oh, my God.
	Okay.
	All right, moving along.
	So do you want kids?
	I want two kids.
	Two or three kids.
	That was nice.
	I want like two to four.
	Two to four.
	Okay.
	Sydney?
	I don't think so.
	And if I did, I'd want to adopt.
	I wouldn't want to have any my own.
	That might, but you want to get married, right?
	I mean, yeah, I would like to, but again, like I'm.
	If it doesn't happen.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I mean, I've, yeah.
	Because that, if you do want to get married, that could, and you kind of want kids, but you might want to adopt, that.
	That might be a roadblock.
	I know that I would adopt.
	I wouldn't want to push a football out of your mind.
	I'm good.
	I know that I know.
	Sounds painful.
	Sounds painful.
	I know for a fact I'd rather adopt than have my own.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Sarah, what about you?
	I want lots of kids.
	Yes, I think about it.
	I think about it a lot.
	Like the, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	How excited it'll be to like hug them.
	I don't know.
	Are you sure you're not high?
	I swear to God, you're high tonight, but I could be wrong.
	Okay.
	Okay, okay, cool.
	All right.
	So by the way, guys, thank you for all the couple memberships came through.
	Eric, were there some gifted memberships or oh no, it's just awesome.
	Yo, awesome.
	Thank you for becoming a member, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Welcome to the family.
	Okay, what is your most controversial dating take or opinion related to dating?
	Can we come back to me?
	I'm not sure yet.
	Yeah, sure.
	We'll come back to you.
	Do you have anything, T-Dog?
	That's your name, right?
	Tea Dog?
	Call me whenever you want.
	Anything?
	Can I call you Gertrude?
	Okay.
	What does that mean?
	Wait, what?
	What does that mean?
	Oh, Gertrude.
	It's just an old person name.
	Oh, I thought it was like Star Wars or something.
	Yeah, definitely Star Wars related, I think.
	Star Wars.
	I'm still thinking about my answer.
	Okay.
	I have one.
	All right, go ahead, sit.
	No, go ahead.
	Oh, do you have one?
	No, go ahead.
	Okay.
	It really pisses me off.
	Just like, so I have like Tinder and I have Hinge.
	I just got Hinge a few days ago because Tinder was very just like hookupy and I don't do that.
	So I got Hinge.
	But before I got Hinge, like obviously on Tinder, it would learn like the opening line for most guys would be like, they're like linked to their Snapchat or like linked to their, just like it wouldn't even be on Tinder.
	Or excuse me, on Tinder.
	But it wouldn't even be like a, hey, what's up?
	How you doing?
	Just like straight up, like, here's my contact card on you.
	Yeah, like I think the sun card.
	Or is it legit?
	No, it was legit people, but it like that just like honestly just like really like pisses me off because I want to be like, hi, how are you?
	Like hello, like open with something else instead of just like straight up like here's my Snapchat.
	Because it's kind of like, okay, so when are you coming over?
	When are we hooking up?
	When are we like?
	And I'm just kind of like, you can't even fucking like say hello first.
	That bothers me.
	That's about it.
	And memes.
	And memes.
	When there's a fucking meme, drives me crazy.
	I don't mind a good meme, though.
	If it's funny, if it's funny.
	For me, a meme is like the fish picture for girls.
	You know what?
	Yeah, see, a meme is that for me.
	I'd rather have the fish picture.
	The thickney?
	I'd rather have the thickney.
	I'd rather have the fish picture than a fucking meme.
	Personally.
	So how many guys, like, is it, does it really happen that frequently?
	I got it, like, yesterday.
	Like, some guy who's just like, hey, what's up?
	And I was like, oh, at work, what about you?
	And it's just like chilling.
	And then Snapchat.
	And I was like, no.
	And then he insulted me because I was just like, nah.
	And he insults me.
	He's just like, okay, that's fine.
	Like, I was trying to get past this.
	He's like, but your blonde friend in the picture next to you is a baddie.
	And I was like, so because I said no about the Snapchat.
	Yo, that's what a fucking legend.
	But like, I was just like, I respect like trying to like get at my friend because I was like, no, but.
	Yeah, yeah, the friend.
	Okay, friend photo.
	Wait, so one, so, okay, with the Snapchat thing, by the way, I don't use Snapchat, so I don't really like, hold on.
	Cheeks donated $50.
	Another controversial question.
	Would you guys ever date one of the alphabet people?
	Like the T?
	If you say yes, check yourself.
	Oh, Cheeks.
	Okay, you're going to get us canceled, buddy.
	What's an alphabet people?
	I don't understand.
	Oh, I think.
	Yeah, okay.
	I know I know what they're talking about.
	Cheeks, just a little more careful, but okay, would you here?
	Okay, I'll ask.
	Would you date someone who's trans?
	That's what he means by tea.
	Probably not, but I don't know.
	I mean, if you're hot.
	Sure.
	Fuck no.
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	It'd be open up for discussion.
	I mean, like, if I really had like a connection with them, maybe, but, like, I don't know.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I feel like I'm on the same boat.
	I'm leaning more towards no.
	Sure.
	But, yeah.
	Sarah.
	I'd say no because the family.
	Yeah, having family is important to me.
	So.
	Okay, so bringing back to Snap, your big complaint is you're on Tinder and the guys say hey, and then they immediately send you their Snapchat.
	So I'm not on Snapchat.
	Is the implication with Snapchat?
	I always thought Snapchat was like for nudes.
	Sending nudes to New York.
	Not so much anymore, personally.
	I mean, I mean, I don't think it is.
	I think it's like another form of like big communication over anything.
	Luke.
	But I feel like Snap, that's where the messages disappear.
	So doesn't it get a little more heated?
	I mean, you can set them up to save now too.
	Drama or 24 hours.
	Yeah.
	You can save and, but I mean, I think Snapchat is more so just like there's private stories and shit, but it's like, oh, like, look at this dumb photo or like pictures of people partying and stuff.
	It totally could be for hooking up too.
	I'm a little rusty in that game, so I don't really know.
	But the fact that they just like send that link immediately is like driving me crazy.
	Okay.
	And so just all the girls really quick on the snap thing.
	So a guy matches with you on Tinder and like one of his first messages is trying to get your snap.
	Is that like a bad thing?
	I know.
	I see where she's coming from because it's like you're not even putting an effort into it.
	Like what if I don't want to add you on Snapchat?
	What if I don't like our first conversation?
	Like there was not even a conversation.
	Exactly.
	Like that's, I see why that's frustrating.
	It's like you don't even, there's no effort at all.
	You're just going straight to, I'm on Snapchat.
	Why?
	I would say it's a deal breaker.
	Just annoying guys did that to me.
	I would like immediately straight up just annoying.
	But Hinge, I don't mind.
	Hinge, I'm kind of liking.
	Like I have like some dates for Hinge coming.
	Like Hinge is more of like the adult version of Tinder, if that makes sense.
	But I'm still learning Hinge.
	I just got it a few days ago.
	Okay.
	You have a few Hinge dates coming.
	What do you mean?
	Like I have like how many do you have scheduled?
	Ah shit.
	Two.
	Okay, that's fine.
	You have two dates scheduled.
	Yeah.
	And when did you download Hinge?
	Four days ago.
	Four days ago.
	And when are your dates?
	What days?
	And also the location so we can show up and make sure you don't get kidnapped.
	I'm kidding.
	But like you got Friday, Saturday?
	This week.
	Back to back?
	This week.
	Back to back?
	Back to back as in day back?
	Like Thursday, Friday?
	Yes.
	It's Thursday, Friday.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Spencer, $3,400.
	Thank you, Spencer.
	Appreciate it.
	...$50.
	What's annoying to guys on dating apps is when girls have in their bio don't just say hey.
	Then when you attempt to be original, you don't even get a message back.
	Sorry you get the bare minimum of a hey until you earn that conversation.
	I totally disagree with that.
	There are some guys that come on with the strongest Riz, like, of all time.
	Like, they will say the funniest thing, and I'm like, okay, well, I have to text him back now.
	So I don't think that that's true at all.
	Like, you guys, some of the guys are actually really funny.
	And it's like, those are the guys that I usually text back as the ones that are, if I text them back, I'm terrible at replying.
	But it's like the ones that I do text are either just really hot or like they said something funny that caught my attention.
	What makes a guy hot?
	Really?
	Really hot?
	You look physically.
	Babe status.
	No, no.
	So, well, actually, one thing, can you pull that one up real quick, Eric?
	Were you going scrolling up to find the other one that might have come through?
	Don't just say, hey, I mean, the other thing I would add to this, Spencer, is oftentimes, like, so there's a dating app bumble where the women have to message first.
	It's really interesting on Bumble, like, girls on all the other dating apps will be like, if you just message a girl, hey, on another dating app, like, that's not enough.
	Unless you're, like, really fucking Chad, good looking, right?
	But, like, if you just, you gotta, if you've ever looked at a girl's uh dating app inbox, it's fucking insane, dude.
	Like, so many options.
	So, yeah, you have to say more than hey.
	However, on Bumble, from my experience on Bumble as a guy, and I got a lot of messages on Bumble.
	Bruv.
	95% of the messages are, hey, how's it going?
	How are you?
	Some permutation of the following.
	So, yeah, it seems to be the case that when the shoe is on the other camel's back, then I butchered that one.
	Okay, fuck that one up.
	Okay, so you have two dates back to back.
	Yes.
	Thursday, Friday.
	You downloaded Hinge four days ago.
	Yes.
	Did you have any other offers for any other dates that are kind of in the process of being scheduled?
	No concrete ones, no.
	Okay.
	That's pretty impressive.
	Thank you.
	Well, impressive in the sense that you downloaded the app four days ago and you already have two dates.
	But to be fair, I was supposed to have one last week, but he canceled on me because of work.
	He's like, can we reschedule?
	And then that's pretty rare for guys to flake on girls.
	Honestly, though, I really, it was not attractive, but I respected it heavily because he texted me the day before and he's like, I would really love to meet you, but like work is killing me.
	Can we reschedule?
	It was just mature.
	Yeah, I mean, that's respectable.
	Yo, Alvin, thank you, man.
	Technique complained about men giving their snap on dating apps.
	But men have to go through women giving their only fans on dating apps.
	That's very true.
	That is very true.
	What's that?
	They're the ones paying.
	Yeah, you don't have to subscribe.
	Like, no one's making you subscribe.
	You're typing in those bank account numbers, babe.
	Yeah, but nobody sends them my way.
	But when a guy sends you your Snapchat, you're under no obligation to add him on Snap.
	However, you still find it annoying that they are doing this.
	And I would say the OnlyFans example is much more egregious than a guy wanting to add you on snap.
	Because at least he has.
	It's not the wanting part.
	I don't mind them wanting to add me on Snap.
	My ears are like literally, there's no conversation.
	The first thing he does is just send us the link.
	Okay, so not enough effort.
	Yo, cheeks, thank you, man.
	You ladies need to meet real men out and about, such as beach, food market, cocktail lounge, when you're of age, public events.
	You guys have too many boys on the apps waiting for you guys to respond after matching, and that is considered flaky/slash fake.
	I agree with that.
	I 100% agree.
	Yeah, meeting people organically, I've found is like significantly like better.
	Like, I know what you look like, first of all.
	Like, there's no, there's no secrets there.
	And then it's like, if you're a weirdo, I can be like, bye.
	But, like, on a dating app, like, it's, you never know.
	So, yeah, no, I agree with that.
	Yeah, I mean, I agree with you guys too.
	I think dating apps are not the ideal way to meet someone.
	I think we would probably all agree here.
	I mean, I don't want to put any words in anyone's mouth, but hold on.
	That obviously meeting organically is, you know, better than online.
	Go ahead, Tara.
	I think you guys should all delete all of your dating apps right now.
	Oh, actually, that, yo, chat.
	Okay, what would it take for you guys to take out your phones right now and delete all your dating apps?
	Cash at me?
	No, money.
	Never mind.
	I mean, not a super, I wasn't thinking like a super chat coming through.
	I was just thinking, what if everybody in the chat, if everybody in the chat puts, what emoji should they put in the chat?
	Cucumbers?
	Will that, will you guys do it?
	Will you delete your dating apps?
	Not for a bunch of random, I know.
	But what about for yourselves, though?
	What if I told you like 100%?
	I like my little game that I get to go on at the end of the day, though.
	Yes.
	Yeah, but I would argue that.
	I would argue, though, that treating dating as a game is just a bad habit.
	I'm probably not dating, though.
	Like, I'm not dating any of them.
	I mean, like, that's where, not arguing with you, but like, I am, like, going on the dates.
	You know, like, for me, it's not just a game.
	Honestly, I've been thinking about deleting it soon.
	Just because it's distracting me.
	Like, honestly, like, I really don't need it.
	Like, I don't.
	Yo, here's what everyone is going to put in the chat.
	I want you guys to, sorry, the cucumbers weren't doing it.
	But here, I'm going to put it, copy and paste my shit.
	Copy and paste the Lenny face, boys.
	The Lenny face, copy and paste it.
	I'm going to put it a bunch.
	I want you to spam this Lenny face, guys.
	Spam the Lenny face, and they will delete their dating apps right now on the show.
	Official, whatever, 2023 dating app destruction hour.
	Spam Lenny face, guys.
	Okay.
	So before that, oh, go ahead, Tara.
	We could get to this later if we're still on this topic, but I also happen to have a, I have a controversial dating take that we can get to at some point.
	Yeah, we'll come back to that.
	Did people spam it?
	No, they're not really doing it.
	Okay.
	Anyways, nice try, Tara, though.
	I thought that was good.
	That was good.
	But you guys wouldn't be down to just delete it right now?
	The dating app?
	No, I don't have one.
	Sydney?
	No, I'm good.
	Amanda?
	Yeah.
	Oh, she'll delete it?
	Would you delete it right now?
	You got a couple pending things in the works.
	I don't even go on them that often.
	I feel like that's an honorable mention.
	I don't even open the apps that often.
	It's just like when I do, it's like, I like having it there.
	But I don't go on them that often.
	Right.
	And I recall earlier you said that you like to scroll with friends.
	Yeah.
	It's like a little activity.
	With Amanda here, and you guys scroll together.
	You guys are friends, right?
	We may have.
	Yes.
	We're roommates.
	Have you guys ever matched with the same guy?
	Yes.
	Oh, my.
	Oh, my God.
	Yes.
	That's awkward.
	Yes.
	So what happened?
	Would you be upset if you match with the same guy and he's like hitting on both of you?
	Would that bother you or you would just accept like he doesn't know?
	He doesn't know.
	I wouldn't necessarily like be mad at anyone.
	I'd just kind of be like, oh, damn.
	Because it's like, how is he supposed to know that we're literally roommates?
	Yeah.
	And there's this one guy that we live with five people in our house.
	He literally matched with every single one of us and was texting every single one of us and we were laughing our ass off.
	Because it's like, at the same time, like, how do you not, okay, okay.
	For the most part, I understand that you don't know.
	Like, how would you know?
	But if you go and follow all of our Instagrams, like the way he did, it's like, we clearly have photos together.
	Like, come on.
	Guys know, can I say though?
	Like, guys know if it's, if the roles are reversed, right?
	So there's like five guys and they're all texting this one girl.
	They know they're all texting this one girl and they're kind of like not making a game out of it, but they all know.
	Not really.
	Guys really don't talk about women the same way that men talk or women talk about men.
	I worked for.
	Well, I'll give you an example, right?
	So, okay.
	Let's say you just hooked up with someone.
	Like, if a guy hooks up with a girl and his buddies ask, hey, so how'd it go?
	He'll be like, it was good.
	It was cool.
	That's it.
	Right, but I'm not sure.
	But if a girl hooks up with a guy, bro, within five minutes, her best friend knows all the intimate details.
	Y'all share way too much.
	I think that needs to change.
	But okay, go.
	I'm just talking like DMing or like, like, hitting on girls.
	Like, guys talk about that to their friends, and they'll like, they'll even, like, switch phones or like, just, I don't know.
	Like, guys talk about talking to girls, and if they're talking to the same girl, they know and acknowledge that, and it's not, like, a thing, you know?
	I suppose I'm like super discreet about girls I date.
	Like, my friends, they don't, like, we pretty much have to be engaged for any of my friends to even know that I'm even talking to a girl.
	Can I ask you guys a question?
	Yeah.
	For the ones that, like, you, I mean, especially, like, for those, like, who use it more, like, not seriously for dating.
	Do you, like, how does it make you feel to think about, like, what do you think about the possibility of like a group of guys and their friends putting, like, standing around a Tinder thing and going, like, making a game of like, hot or not, and like, your profile being one of the ones that pops up.
	But, like, for guys, like a group of guys who are.
	I just wouldn't be surprised if they aren't already doing that.
	Yeah, what does it matter?
	Yeah, I really don't care.
	Like, they could say anything about my character, say, like, oh, she looks really slutty in that picture.
	Like, oh, she's definitely a hoe.
	She parties a lot.
	I don't care.
	Like, I know who I am personally to know like that doesn't affect me.
	Like, it doesn't.
	Because I know.
	Yeah.
	You're seeing me to the screen.
	That's also out there for anyone to screenshot, anyone to see, anyone to have a conversation about.
	Like, who cares at the end of the day?
	Yeah, let's do it.
	Okay, so I just want to come back, or actually going back to this.
	So let's talk a little bit about sharing details.
	So this is more so after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time.
	So after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time, what do you tell your girlfriend, someone you're close with that you might share that sort of stuff with?
	Honestly?
	Yeah, honestly.
	I sit them down on the couch and we debrief the whole thing.
	Okay, so pretend I'm Amanda.
	I don't know how to.
	Hold on, let me get something here.
	Okay.
	So pretend I'm Amanda.
	That makes you Amanda.
	The cat.
	You're irresistible and soft.
	The cat food.
	I guess.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	So you just hooked up with Gustavo and Campo.
	Sure.
	He's a UCSB.
	He's the UCSB soccer team captain.
	We don't have football at UCSB.
	What are you asking me?
	Hey, Maya.
	how'd it go oh oh you want me to oh role play um I can't give you the same energy that I would give her if I had just come home, though.
	It's not the same thing.
	Move number 76, no excuses.
	Play with a champion.
	Do it!
	Just do it!
	Don't let your dreams be dreams.
	Yesterday, you said tomorrow.
	So just do it!
	Make your dreams come true!
	Just do it!
	Hey, Maya.
	So how was it with Rupert?
	Stop, we call our roommate that.
	Like, oh, okay, sorry, sorry, sorry.
	Um, how was it with Maximilian?
	Oh, Maximilian.
	It was so good.
	Yeah, no.
	Um, what would I normally say?
	I mean, I'd probably obviously the first question is always like, how big was it?
	Like, that's that's the first, yeah.
	That's is that really always the first time?
	That's not the first all the time, not all the time.
	Okay, does it always come up?
	Sometimes, bruv, sometimes, okay, okay, so go on.
	Um, and then, like, just like, how was it in general?
	Like, was he nice?
	Question when it comes.
	Oh, oh, beat and cheeks donated $50.
	Thank you, Cheeks.
	Pick two of the three to gather data on the panel's standards.
	Six feet comes with a six pack, six figures or six inches.
	And what ethnicity with your two choices?
	I know what Thickney wants.
	Okay.
	Just because I'm on, we'll come back to this question, Cheeks.
	Yeah, we'll come back to it.
	But thank you, man.
	So.
	What does Thickney want?
	I'm just.
	No, no, no.
	We're moving on.
	Okay, so.
	Okay.
	Besides the size of the phallus, do you also like go into detail about it?
	Like, well, it kind of sloped that way.
	Oh, no, no.
	sloped like this and it was like we don't notice that Are you kidding?
	You've never seen like a leftward sloping peen?
	I mean, most of the time in college, tell me if I'm wrong.
	I'm like, I don't know.
	Most of the time in college, what?
	Do y'all sleep with the like, have like fool around with the lights on?
	Like, is that like eye contact?
	They want the lights off?
	Huh?
	I contacted someone.
	They usually ask, and I'm like, shit.
	Okay.
	Y'all.
	The LEDs.
	They usually keep the LEDs on.
	Oh, God.
	That's so college.
	That's a vibe.
	Okay.
	So what else do you share?
	Like.
	If he was a munch or not, like, that's always important.
	A what?
	A munch.
	I'm still pretending to be Amanda.
	What's a munch?
	Well, first of all, Amanda knows what a munch is.
	Okay.
	So you're not doing a very good job role-playing Amch.
	Terrible.
	What's a munch?
	Oh, like he goes down on you?
	What is a munch?
	Oh.
	So a munch is a guy who goes.
	A certified munch means like he's good at what he's doing.
	Yeah.
	That's like a.
	I feel, don't girls want a guy to go down on you?
	That's like the worst name you could give a guy.
	I don't even know where that goes.
	I would not want the title of the world.
	That's the word that's going around right now.
	That's terrible.
	I didn't make it.
	Okay, you didn't make it up.
	Okay, so you called him munch.
	Just whether or not he was good.
	Wait, do guys go down on you in casual hookups?
	I mean, you know what?
	Really?
	Rip.
	R.I.P. in the chat for them.
	Not for you specifically, but shit.
	I don't recommend that.
	But okay, go ahead.
	I mean, what else is there?
	Like, whether he was good or not.
	Okay.
	Like, did he climax too quick?
	Does that come up, for example?
	Oh, okay.
	How long did he last?
	You know, that's what I was saying.
	Yeah, that's typical, like, banter.
	Okay.
	What about you, T-Dog?
	Into the mic?
	Sorry.
	So, like, with your girlfriends, do you share kind of intimate details after your first time with them?
	They are usually really nosy, just like any other girls.
	They would be like, how big is it?
	Was it good?
	Would you do it again?
	Was he sweaty?
	And do you share all that with your...
	I do, yeah.
	I'd be like, yeah, they're mostly, most of them are sweaty.
	Was it big?
	I would say I don't sweat during sex.
	That's good.
	Because she does all the work.
	Even during the summer?
	Go ahead, huh?
	Even during the summer?
	Well, I mean, like, I do some of the work, but, huh?
	Oh, interesting.
	You know, I do work.
	Okay, never mind.
	I'm not going to.
	Okay, what about you, Amanda?
	Yeah, yeah.
	There's some information that I do keep to myself.
	Such as.
	That's classification for that matter.
	But like, okay, do you share, for example, like how long they last?
	Do you share the peen size?
	If they ask, sometimes, yeah.
	If they ask you.
	Okay, you just hooked up with Eduardo, and Maya here asks you, so, Amanda, how was it?
	Where's the fucking in-and-out cup?
	Was it like this?
	We do use stuff to compare it to.
	We use like objects, like visible objects, we will use that to compare.
	Okay.
	We just ask.
	We don't judge.
	We don't say anything.
	But do you share?
	Yeah, we share.
	Sweet.
	We share.
	But like, I don't know.
	There's some things that you talk about, like, oh, like, how'd you get there?
	Because sometimes you have to think about like if they're going to pick you up or if you're going to go there.
	So Zentians, thank you, man.
	$49.99.
	The only guys that might talk about DMing the same girl would be Pookie and Chad because these rubbish 304s are Eskimo sisters, as evidenced by all the girls talking to the same guy, even after they found out that fact.
	I bet they all let him smash too.
	Which one?
	Pookie or Chad?
	Zentians.
	Yo, Zentians, thank you.
	Do you guys have a response to Zentians?
	304s.
	It's an area code.
	Don't worry about it.
	Okay.
	What was the question?
	Definitely area code related.
	Huh?
	What was this question?
	Were you listening?
	I was.
	I just do you guys have a response?
	Ah.
	Okay.
	Well, okay.
	I guess they don't.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	So, Sydney, do you share like intimate details with your girlfriends after.
	Oh, wait, question.
	Okay.
	What if something embarrassing kind of happened?
	Like, let's say the guy had trouble getting it up or he came to talk about that.
	Like, because I could see you wanting to share if it was good, right?
	But maybe if like some kind of embarrassing shit for him happened, like maybe he came too quick or he had trouble getting it up.
	In those instances, would you not share or you would still share?
	Those are always shared.
	Always shared if some potentially embarrassing thing was.
	Yeah, even if it's on my end, even if I did something stupid, which almost never happens.
	But like if I did, like, I'm going to tell.
	Like, you have to also understand that, like, when I'm, these people that I'm telling, these are like my best friends.
	Like, I'm not just going out and about, like, talking about all my private story.
	Oh, my God, guess what?
	This guy did.
	Like, no.
	No, that's not the same thing.
	Like, I'm just telling my very, very close friends that I talk to you and see every single day.
	So it's like, they already know everything about me.
	I don't.
	Your girlfriends, sure.
	Okay, Sydney, what about you?
	Do you share the intimate details?
	Yes, but not like they do.
	Like, we don't, like, we just are just kind of like, like, if it's something embarrassing, like the question you just asked, I think we would talk about it if that guy was like a one and done and we're never going to see him again.
	If it's someone that we're dating, we might not bring up that embarrassment to the girlfriends because that might reflect back on.
	I don't know.
	It's kind of like when you get in a fight with a boyfriend, you don't talk about that fight because then they will only ever focus on that one fight, not all the other good times.
	Sydney, that's very good.
	That's very good advice.
	I think it's really bad if you're having an issue with your significant other.
	I think last resort, you should last resort, you should talk about it with friends or family.
	Or like a terror panel.
	Because people get in.
	Yeah, sure.
	If you do that, that's fine.
	But like, people get into disagreements and fights.
	But typically you don't go to your friends and like tell them like, oh, it's when it's going great, you might only go.
	Some girls do, but you might, and for guys too.
	But if you go to your friends and you're constantly always going to them for advice or he's only see the negative, then they're going to start to hate him and dislike him.
	Because that's all that they see.
	They only see that one point of view that you give them versus all the amazing things.
	It's like unlevel, but you only show them that side and that's all they see.
	And then the friends start hating the boyfriend and then they start wanting you to break up.
	So I think if there's like something you genuinely need advice on, but if it's just some silly spat or whatever, I think just like, you know, if you need talk to someone.
	I will say though, women versus men are different with how they handle that.
	Men, I feel like men go to their guy friends about like the situation where it's just like, oh yeah, like this girl did this or like, oh, she did this or she's crazy this way.
	Where it's like men will see like their like homies girlfriends as crazy versus women will go and be like, okay, well, this happened and this happened and this happened and this happened.
	Like women talk about both sides, whereas I feel like men only talk about the craziness.
	Hilonius!
	Do you go to your guy friends and talk about like, oh, she did this today.
	It was amazing that she did this.
	Like do you talk about the good things that happen in your relationship with your guy friends?
	First off, I don't talk to my friends.
	They roleplay with me here.
	talk to my guy friends about about my girl okay but then well when i do have a girl but well i guess i'm kind of engaged I shouldn't.
	Jesus.
	I think it's actually the reverse.
	You think?
	Yes, because when a woman talks about an issue that they're having, not all, okay, some women, when they're talking about an issue that they have with a guy or with another girl, my experience has been that they will leave out certain details to try to paint themselves in the most favorable light possible.
	There's definitely guys that do.
	Look, I shouldn't gender it.
	Actually, both men and women have this behavioral error of limiting details that potentially paint them in a bad light and emphasizing the details that paint the other person a bad light.
	I feel like it depends on who they go to to have that conversation with, but I do see what you're saying.
	Well, I can say for me, like, I will try to give an as unbiased of, if I'm asking a friend for advice, I will try to say, okay, here's what I did.
	Here's what she did.
	Maybe I did this a little bit wrong, but then she did like, yeah, thank you, man.
	I appreciate it.
	Of course these come guzzling who's shit.
	Oh, Zentians, come on, man.
	With the amount of the HVM men who use them as night depositories, they share more of the same DNA than they realize.
	Although, if they share more DNA versus STD, it's questionable.
	Ah, Zentians.
	None of them are wives.
	Zentience, you're a little spicy tonight, man.
	I would ask, maybe let's avoid some of the ad hominem, but did the brain surgery, like, I know you're a brain surgeon.
	Was it a rough surgery today or what?
	Everything okay, man?
	You can always call me men after the show.
	But do you guys want to respond?
	He's shooting shots, so I think you guys got to shoot some shots back.
	Nope.
	I don't even know what that is.
	I mean, thanks for the money.
	That's like what?
	Like $150 by now?
	Yeah.
	Like $200.
	A little in the first hour.
	But okay, so bringing it back to the whole relationship thing.
	Okay.
	So, yo, I've just had the experience where a lot of women will bend the truth of what actually happened to make them seem in as favorable a position as possible.
	I feel like it's the reverse.
	I feel like that's guys do it too, but I think it's, I do think women do that shit way more.
	I agree.
	I think it does depend.
	Obviously, I feel like it depends on who they go to.
	Like, if it's girls going to their absolutely best friend roommates, like you two.
	Thank you, Jared.
	You cannot let your parents or friends get involved because they will always be biased.
	Obviously, you should say something if you are being abused, but still.
	Yeah.
	But it's just like if there's a little spat, a little argument, like if you're just always going to your friends and yeah, it's just, I think it's bad for the relationship and you're just coaching your friends to basically hate your significant other.
	And then, of course, like there's always like, I don't know if any of you know like on again, off again, people that are in these on-again, off-again relationships.
	Like constantly breaking up, getting back together.
	That's when it's the worst.
	Super toxic.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So did you want to continue on, Sydney?
	Nope, we're good.
	I think we're tired.
	I wanted to say something, though.
	Like, I agree to a certain extent that, like, oh, Mick, maybe you should, you know, limit some things that happen in between, like, in your private relationship.
	But there's like a certain point where if your significant other is constantly and not maybe not abusing, because that's a big word to use, you know, like that's a serious word.
	Yeah.
	But like, if there's like endless amount of bad things happening in your relationship, like I totally believe that you need a strong support system behind you.
	So it's like going to someone like your friends or your family, like in certain times, I feel like is necessary, especially if this is like a constant thing.
	Are you referring to like it's only like, oh, like a little fight here and there?
	Or like what?
	Because if it keeps happening, it keeps happening.
	What?
	You just don't want them to tell anyone about it?
	Like, no.
	Like, I would, I mean, I also just overshare.
	So I tell them like everything, but it's like, how could you not share all these terrible things that keep happening?
	I don't think it's black and white.
	I don't think it's, you can never say anything to your friends.
	And I mean, if things are really on the rocks, then sure.
	But I think if it's like an occasional, you know, argument and you're also never telling them that things are really good too.
	Like if the only thing they hear is the bad, but there are good moments and perhaps most of the time it is good, but there are occasionally some disagreements and you only go to your friends for advice when it's bad instead of occasionally saying, oh, things are great.
	I love him so much, whatever it is, you know, then I think that's when that's when it can get a bit problematic.
	I think also, I mean, I don't know, some of you are, if you do therapy or whatever, I think that's a really good outlet too.
	And I think that's a better, can be a better outlet.
	But can I also say too, like, I see it from that point of view, but it's also like, I have a girlfriend of mine and she comes to me whenever she has like, oh, this happened with the boyfriend or oh, he did this, or oh, he like, it's just like she comes to me with all these like bad things and she tells me about the good things as well.
	But now every time she tells me something about him, I was just like, oh, I don't like him.
	I want you to like end things with him just because she only comes to me with the negative.
	So it makes me only see that side of him regardless of how good things can be.
	I agree.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I'm going to wrap up on this point soon.
	Tara, when it comes to if you've just hooked up with a new guy, do you share like details with the friends?
	Is there girl talk, you know, about details about the dude?
	I probably wouldn't go out of my way to share like sexual details, but my friends definitely ask.
	So if they ask, I'll probably, I wouldn't say anything embarrassing, but I would probably just tell them like, did I enjoy myself or not?
	And when I see him again, for sure.
	Got it.
	Okay.
	So I can, I'll speak for me.
	There's definitely some guys out there that I think do this, but I don't share any details.
	Like if I hook up with a girl, my friends don't even know.
	They don't even know that we've hooked up, that we've had sex.
	I don't share that.
	Some guys do.
	Maybe I'm a bit of an outlier on this.
	I don't know.
	I think, actually, let's ask the chat.
	Eric, can you pull up the chat?
	Yo, chat, let's say you've just hooked up with a new girl.
	Do your close friends, do your friends, do they even know?
	Do they even know, do you share intimate, maybe they do know, but you keep it very vague.
	You say, perhaps, yeah, we hooked up.
	It was good.
	You know, you keep it kind of vague.
	Or do you go into intimate details and you talk about, oh, it was this wet and it was the pussy was, you know, like, okay, it looks like a lot of no's, a couple vagues.
	So I guess it could either be no, vague, or yes, sharing, you know, similar to how they just described sharing stuff.
	Nope.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	That's very interesting.
	So, huh?
	Do you guys have any thoughts on that?
	Like the difference between how men some men do share that shit for sure, but like I think men.
	Men talk about the chase more than the actual activity of it, whereas women talk more about the activity of it than the chase.
	I think guys just don't even, we don't even really talk all that much about you just don't talk to people.
	That is true.
	I think one thing, like men, we need stronger brotherhood.
	We need stronger brotherhood and we need to be able to talk more with each other.
	I think, and a lot of us tend to, I think there's more men who tend to be lone wolves than there are women.
	So, yeah, but I mean, I would, I honestly think it's, don't hate me, ladies.
	I think it's wrong for women to share intimate details about someone that they've just hooked up with.
	That's why I tell you.
	Why?
	Like, why does that bother you?
	Well, for example, like, let's say, you know, if I've hooked up with a new girl and she's just told her three closest friends that, you know, penis eyes, the quickness with which I climaxed, or, you know, other details, that's like very private.
	Because I view like that's that's super intimate.
	And you're like spilling like imagine, first off, I don't think, maybe this is like, maybe I'm old-fashioned.
	I don't think that you should tell other people about other people's like genitalia.
	Like, I don't know, that seems like a very private thing.
	Like, for example, let's say I was like, if you thought about it, like, let's say I was telling my guy friends the degree to which you were wet or dry.
	So, you don't, okay, what about if I talk, I mentioned like your labia side.
	Yeah, Brian, don't, don't you jokingly have a large labia advocacy charity?
	So, what do you, what do you mean you don't like talking about other people's genitalia?
	Well, they used to open the episodes with that.
	You're right.
	However, no, no, no, but it's different because is it?
	No, it's different because I'm never going to do that.
	100%.
	It's always different when he says something.
	Well, no, it is different, and here's why.
	Because I never tell my friends about a particular girl.
	Oh, she had a wet pussy.
	She had a dry pussy.
	I'd never tell a friend she had an innie.
	She had an Audi.
	What you're referring to, Tara, hold on.
	What you're referring to is I happen, women have peen preferences.
	I have a labia preference.
	I happen to like Audis.
	I said it.
	I said it.
	I like Audies.
	Oh, saved by the bell.
	Thank you, Sesti.
	$4.99.99.
	First of all, Sheik, stop super chatting WTF.
	Second, being a girl is so easy.
	You literally don't have to perform in bed.
	Just lay there.
	And of course, the girls prefer in-person over hinge.
	Average girls get approached constantly.
	Guys get rejected.
	Yo, SD, thank you for the super chat.
	We'll talk about the easy thing here.
	A bit later on in the show.
	You do have a video to react to related to that.
	Okay, so bringing it back to like the sharing intimate details thing.
	Yeah, I just think it's like a betrayal of trust.
	I suppose with your one night stands, you'll never see the guy again.
	I suppose, but imagine like this is going to be your boy.
	Like for me, for example, if I found, and look, I know girls do this, so it's like, and I think men should push back on this, honestly, but like, I would think it's a betrayal of trust if my girlfriend, or well, I shouldn't say my girlfriend because we're not there yet, but like, let's say a girl I hook up with and we're both like interested in continuing to see each other.
	And if that blossoms into a relationship, then great.
	If her girlfriends that I assume at some point I'll meet know details about our sex lives, they have like information about me that they ought not to know.
	Yeah, that's super fair because if I'm seeing someone, like I don't want to know that his house, like I wouldn't want like his friends, like thinking his friends like knew what I looked like naked or like parts, you know, yeah.
	So that's like, that's totally fair.
	Yeah, that would feel like kind of violating.
	I don't know.
	Think about it.
	Like let's say this is a guy that you really like and you want to have a long-term relationship with him and you found out like his, he told you or he told all his friends that you had like something weird or like there was this weird thing or like she did this and did that like and then you met his friends that wouldn't make you a little uncomfortable.
	I wouldn't care.
	I don't know.
	It wouldn't make you a little uncomfortable.
	Well, because then it's like you're saying that would be a double standard if I did care, but I don't care.
	You don't care?
	No.
	I mean, that's totally fine if you don't, but to me, I just think it's a betrayal of trust.
	I agree it is a betrayal of trust, but like this is only hypothetically speaking that you guys are actually going to go into a relationship and you guys are furthering things.
	You know, and if that is the case, then I would apologize for doing that and, you know, learn from that.
	But if, but like, as I said, like, right now I'm single and like right now I'm not, I'm not in the state to go into a relationship right now.
	Sure.
	I kind of agree.
	Like if it's like a one-night stand or it's like a guy that, like, if it's like a be honest, you do it with guys that are not just one-night stands too.
	I personally don't.
	I mean, but I also don't do, like, if it comes, like, the, like, the last guy that I was seeing, like, we, like, waited, like, quite a while before we, like, hooked up, and then we hooked up, and I was like, yeah, we did.
	And then, like, that's it.
	Like, I didn't tell my girlfriends, like, any details.
	Still to this day, I didn't tell them details about that because it's like, I don't know, like, because this guy, like, comes to the house, he hangs out at the house.
	Like, I don't need my like girlfriends thinking about those things necessarily.
	You know, like, I'll tell my best friend who's lives in another foreign country all the details, but she's never going to meet these people.
	Right.
	Listen, I 100% acknowledge that this is just something that, broadly speaking, women do.
	Like, you guys.
	We gossip.
	Like, that's just the thing.
	Yeah, I acknowledge that it's something that women do, but like I do.
	It's an age thing.
	Thank you, Martin.
	My friends are very successful and we're in our 30s.
	We talk about accomplishments in business.
	We don't talk about SEX conquests amongst ourselves.
	That's lowbrow.
	And believe me, there's been some smoke shows.
	Still, no details.
	Yo, Martin, thank you for the super chat.
	Yeah, I mean, I think it's wrong.
	I think it's wrong.
	It's not the crime of the century, but I do think it is, you know, it's just like men care a lot about respect.
	And like, I think it's just disrespectful.
	Like, honestly, one of the biggest things like you can do for a guy is honestly respecting him.
	And I do think, like, listen, I know I'm probably not going to change your minds.
	I'm not, if you guys want to continue on, that's totally fine.
	But it's just like, I would never think to tell my friends about even a one-night stand, like about my partner's genitalia, their ability, their ability to perform in bed, any sexual dysfunction they may have.
	I don't know, I would never do that.
	So did you want to come in, Tara?
	Or do you guys want to respond to that?
	By the way, I'm not like trying to scold you guys.
	I'm just saying, from my point of view, that's how I feel about it.
	Have I changed your minds?
	No.
	Have I changed your minds?
	I was just going to ask, just because I'm curious, if you had, if you were like really, really, really amazing in bed, would you like have a problem with the girl you're with sharing that with her friends, like positive, like really positive things?
	Like you're telling me you would still find it disrespectful?
	I mean, like really positive, like if I was great in bed.
	Yeah.
	I mean, if she kept it vague, like if I think a girl just saying the sex was good, that's not really what I'm objecting to.
	What I'm objecting to is like, I mean, chiefly the big one.
	You said that the first thing that comes up is what?
	That's just maybe me, but I'm like, if it was big or not, like that's.
	Right.
	So if that's more so what I'm like, if a girl's just like, yeah, the sex was good.
	I mean, that to me is a bit more vague.
	It's, you still are kind of, but it's more so like the very specific details.
	Like, you know, if there's any kinks involved, then, you know, revealing that sort of shit.
	But yeah, so, yeah, I think it's, you know, if it's big, if it's small, like, that's that's a problem.
	So if you hooked up with the girl and she came home to her friends and she said, guys, his dick was seven inches.
	It was huge.
	I finished.
	He was great at fingering.
	Like, you would be upset about that or you wouldn't be upset about that.
	But she gave you a great review, like 10 out of 10.
	It was amazing.
	You would be upset about that.
	Yeah, because I'm not.
	Thank you, Zantians.
	Appreciate it.
	If a woman reveals intimate details about you to her friends, what other secrets would she reveal?
	She lacks loyalty and discretion.
	A woman like that would use your huge slash weakness against you, even if it's not actual.
	These 304s lack character.
	What is 304?
	Area code.
	It's definitely a good idea.
	Can I tell them?
	Because it took me a long time.
	All right, sure.
	304, I guess, is like code for calling someone a hoe.
	So when they say that, they mean like when you type it into the calculator and you flip the calculator over clever.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	I don't care.
	Why take time to figure that out?
	Like, I did like boobs in high school, you know, like 8008.
	Yeah, it's similar to that.
	It's very similar to that.
	Okay.
	But so I just, did I clarify the whole thing, though?
	Because you said, oh, Brian, you have this labia thing.
	Yeah, I'll let your argument say that.
	No, but you think it's, yeah, it's okay to talk about genitalia anonymously.
	I think if a girl in the conversation says she has a preference for a size, that's okay.
	But this comes down to a bunch of things.
	Yeah, I follow.
	I follow.
	Yeah, I'm on board.
	I follow.
	Yeah, it comes down to a one-to-one thing where if there's an actual individual.
	Yeah, you wanted to call me a hypocrite, but it didn't work.
	By the way, does anyone have a peen preference?
	Is anyone bi, by the way, here?
	Any bi?
	Anybody?
	Peen preference at all?
	Big, small, average, doesn't matter.
	Yeah, I have a penis-size preference.
	Oh, what is it?
	Let's hear yours first.
	Well, I'm what?
	I want to hear, like, you said you have a preference.
	Seven inches.
	Oh, I'm kidding, guys.
	I'm chat.
	Come on, chat.
	I'm kidding.
	I mean.
	Motion of the ocean doesn't matter.
	I'd rather not say.
	You like the tree trunks?
	Oh, hell no.
	Huh?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	What about you?
	Obviously, not small, like a pencil, but.
	All right.
	RIP is in the chat, boys.
	Oh, well, like average to average big.
	Okay.
	Not like not huge, though.
	All right.
	Just know.
	As long as you know how to work it.
	Yeah.
	Motion of the ocean.
	Sarah.
	I'm a big cuddler person, so if you are like in some way, I don't know.
	So huggy guy has a micro physical, tutorial micro penis, but as long as he's cuddling you, you're fine.
	Yeah, we're talking about something totally different, I feel like.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Well, I don't know.
	Yeah, no, I don't know.
	I guess I would say, like, well, I have to, well, let me rephrase that.
	If he could have, he could be, like, as like, have like the whatever, most amazing penis in the whole world.
	But if he's not, like, hugging me after, like, I wouldn't take it.
	After care is so important.
	I wouldn't not, as in, like, aftercare.
	Yeah.
	It's like a BDSM term.
	Do you want to reveal?
	Is it really?
	Do you want to reveal something?
	I mean, I'm.
	Are you a sadist or a masochist?
	I don't even know that.
	Okay.
	You know, 50 Shades of Gray.
	Yeah.
	You know, just whips and dungeons and all that shit.
	Yeah.
	Have you tried those?
	No.
	Anybody here?
	Anyone have any kinks or like BDSM?
	Hello?
	Is this?
	Anybody?
	Okay.
	Nothing?
	Okay.
	Oh.
	Seven-inch gangwee up.
	Yo, Cameron.
	Thank you for the $50 TTS.
	Appreciate it, guys.
	I will get to the regular Super Chats here soon.
	By the way, guys, I will read Super Chats $20 and up.
	$50 and up triggers TTS.
	If you want, you can donate through.
	The link for that is in the description.
	You can donate.
	Excuse me, getting tongue-tied here.
	You can donate through Streamlabs.
	Oh.
	Reven and Roland Super Chats.
	No YouTube cut.
	Thank you, Revan.
	Had an ex tell her friends how good my bedroom game was, and it caused strife between them because it coerced them to try me secretly.
	Single women tend to keep women.
	Yeah, also, like, I mean, I suppose, like, you're kind of doing us favors when we break up.
	If you're telling your whole friend group that we're fucking insane in the bedroom, because we're just going to start weaving through your friend group, especially if the breakup was acrimony.
	Did I use that word?
	That's true.
	I was like, you guys do that now if we're like talking to you.
	Wait, what's that?
	I was like, y'all do that now if we're talking to you.
	I used.
	All right, my fucking, what's it called?
	You okay over there?
	Yeah, I'm the energy drink.
	I'm tweaking out.
	All right.
	Oh, oh, shit.
	Smoggington donated $50.
	Thank you, man.
	Ryan, this is an all-star panel of gray day level over 9,000 harlots.
	But something doesn't feel right without bangs here.
	Her feminine filled the cold space that used to be filled by my heart.
	We are going to try to get her in.
	Guys, by the way, if you want, you can roast back.
	they're roasting you so unleash why are they i don't even see the roast Where's the roast?
	Oh, it's not enough.
	I don't.
	Well, I mean, he called you over.
	Hold on.
	It's over 9,000.
	He called you over 9,000 harlots.
	I don't know what that is.
	Oh, don't get embarrassed.
	You should be embarrassed.
	Here, let me pull up the definition so I don't butcher it, but it's basically a harlot is basically.
	A, she was a hoo-a.
	B, she was a hoo-a.
	Do you want the definition?
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	Oh, a prostitute.
	Yeah.
	Jude.
	That's clearly what I'm doing.
	Do you want to fire back?
	I don't care.
	No?
	No.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I don't know.
	Prostitution's legal where I come from.
	And that's like.
	Where you come from?
	Yeah, where I come from.
	Nevada.
	Yeah.
	Is it Nevada or Nevada?
	It's Nevada.
	Nevada.
	It's Nevada.
	It's Nevada.
	No prostitute.
	But I mean, the legal age of consent is also much lower there than it is here, which Nevada, really?
	I didn't know that until coming here because I was talking to friends and I didn't realize that it's 18 here.
	It's 16 in Nevada.
	Yeah, Jared, thank you.
	Speaking of movies, what are your favorite movies?
	In my opinion, movie preference says a lot about someone's character.
	For me, I love Forest Gump.
	We'll watch every time it's on.
	Okay, we'll go around the table really quick, Tara.
	What's your favorite?
	Actually, I'll get my first.
	The Matrix is my favorite movie.
	Go ahead.
	My favorite movies are documentary types, especially nature documentaries.
	Okay.
	I like the classics.
	Like, I like Dirty Dancing, or I like 16 candles.
	Oh, my God.
	I love 16 candles.
	I love 16 candles.
	Yeah.
	I'd say super bad.
	Oh, that's a good one.
	That's a good one.
	That's a good one.
	Yeah, I just recently watched it with our other roommate Ruby.
	Wait, question.
	So you know how you two were blacked out on Sunday?
	Like, just maybe not you, but you were blacked out.
	Okay, and the guy offered you the... Cocaine, yeah.
	Oh, wonderful.
	Did you boop her nose?
	You know what?
	Super bad.
	The news boobs.
	Oh, no.
	Nose boop.
	No, I didn't.
	Can you guys do nose boop?
	Nose boop?
	Right now?
	Why do I not remember that part of that?
	At the very end when they're like sleeping, cuddling, basically.
	Were they cuddling in the movie at the end?
	I don't even know.
	They're both drunk after the party, and he boops.
	You want us to boop our nose together?
	Okay, what's your favorite movie?
	I like comedy.
	Eric, can you open the door?
	It's getting hot.
	I like comedy movie, so I always say white chicks, my favorite movie.
	White chicks?
	Okay.
	The classic, the classic.
	What about you?
	Radatouille, 1000%.
	That's always my comfort movie.
	That's a good one.
	Destiny 91 doesn't matter.
	Thank you, man.
	$50.
	Jara is wifey material, but she doesn't answer DMs.
	Give me back on to get Dustin to 91 Tera.
	I'm trying to find out if I'm husband material.
	BDW, I agree with Brian and some of the other super chatters.
	I don't kiss and tell.
	I let a woman spread the good word.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Tara.
	Is he going to get a response to a DM?
	What's up?
	I'm, I'm definitely single, but I am like sort of seeing someone.
	So I'm not going to be seeing, I'm not going to talk to, what is.
	I'm not talking about single.
	I'm not single.
	Well, definitely single as in, like, we're not exclusive or anything.
	So, well, I guess, I don't know, I'm not definitely single, but as in, like, I'm not in a relationship.
	Right.
	But I would say I'm not.
	Okay, so I'm going to bring it back really quick to something that you're saying.
	So you had, you've been on Hinge for four days.
	You have two dates set up.
	And I said that was impressive, and then I think a TTS came in.
	So I think that's impressive because most men's experience on dating apps in Hinge, to get two dates already lined up within four days of downloading an app is most guys can't pull that off.
	I mean, okay.
	Revenant Roman Singapore.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, Rona.
	Similar to Jared, a woman's music preference can say a lot about her personality.
	Edit Single Women Tend to Keep Women Single by Kevin Samuels.
	Single women tend to keep women single.
	Well, I think, I mean, certainly if, like, this kind of relates to the whole going out to the club thing, going out to bars and parties.
	Like, if you're in a relationship and you value that relationship, your single friends, I think for both men and women, are going to be a bad influence.
	They're going to be a bad influence on you, and it could impact or lead to the downfall of your relationship.
	Those aren't friends you should have then in a relationship.
	What's that?
	Those aren't friends you should have in a relationship then if they're going to like jeopardize your relationship.
	But like, here's the thing.
	Your single friends miss the single you.
	They miss the girl.
	I get that, but then if they're like still, the guy that you could do fuck boy shit with, they miss the girl that you could do hood rat shit with.
	That's still you.
	You're just in a relationship and you're loyal.
	Like, you can still do the hood rat shit without being disloyal and cheating.
	I get the club.
	That's still you.
	Yeah, that's just a memory.
	Like, you being in a relationship has nothing to do with a personality change.
	Haram!
	Okay.
	I don't think you should be out at the club or the bar.
	Oh, I go out to the, I don't drink though.
	If you're in a relationship.
	If you're in a relationship, I think it's bad for the relationship.
	Oh, you're okay.
	I mean, to each their own.
	We've talked about this before.
	We have, and I don't like having this conversation.
	Yeah, you don't like it because it's a bit of a distance you and your relationship.
	Each relationship has its own standards and its own boundaries for what is and isn't cheating, depending on the people in that relationship.
	Sure.
	Okay, we'll come back to that.
	So I want to bring it back to something here.
	You said that when you were on Hinge, I don't know if it was you.
	One of you said that, let's say a guy, and we will do the dating app reviews of some of the girls here.
	So you said that a guy liked a photo of yours, but you had a friend in the photo, and he was trying to get you to be matchmaker.
	That wasn't it.
	Was that somebody else?
	No, I said it, but it was like that was, he's like, hey, and I was like, hey, he sent me a Snapchat without saying anything else.
	And I was like, no.
	Okay, so here's my question.
	Here's my question then.
	Some of you are on dating apps or have been on dating apps.
	Do you have any photos with like a girlfriend on your dating app?
	Yeah.
	Would you be offended if, for example, on Hinge, you know how you can send a message along with like when you like a photo, for example.
	If he was like, he wasn't rude, but with the photo with a friend, he was like, hey, is your friend single?
	Would you object to that?
	Honestly, probably not, just because I do the same thing.
	Like if I'm swiping and your homie's hot, what am I going to, what do I have to lose?
	I've done that.
	Like all you're going to say is no.
	Like, okay.
	But I don't even do that that much.
	I've done it a couple times because their friend was that hot.
	But again, I'm not really on these dating apps like actively that much anymore.
	Right.
	But if that did happen to me, I wouldn't think it's the end of the world.
	Okay.
	You wouldn't be like.
	You wouldn't feel almost rejected or anything because you're on the dating app, but he's like sending you a message trying to get at your friend.
	I wouldn't care.
	You wouldn't care.
	Would you try to do the setup if you thought?
	If my friend thinks he's hot, why wouldn't I?
	Okay.
	No, I think that's totally fair.
	What about you?
	I wouldn't care.
	I wouldn't care, to be honest.
	There's plenty of other guys out there that would love me for me.
	It's attractive to me.
	So it's not the world.
	Try to show your friend.
	Try to do the setup or.
	Yeah, I will.
	I would encourage you.
	Yeah, I agree.
	Okay, I'd set it up.
	Sydney.
	Yeah.
	Tara?
	I mean, I'm pretty against dating apps anyways, but if I could, like, try to imagine what this would be like in person, like, how I would respond in person, say I go on, like, I guess, what, a first date with a guy, and then he changed, and then he...
	No, no, no, no, okay.
	Okay, the guy sends you a message.
	The first message, you have a photo of your friend in one of the things, and he's polite.
	He's just like, hey, is your friend single?
	So basically, he's saying, I'm more interested in your friend than I am in you.
	Yeah, I mean, I would set it.
	I would guess I would say, I guess I would say that's sweet.
	I feel like my friend would be really flattered.
	Because I've definitely done that on Hinge where I'm like, not rude or anything, but like the girl is maybe not my type or whatever, but she's got a fucking babe friend or whatever.
	So I might be like, I've only done it maybe two or three times because I don't know.
	I feel like it's maybe slightly rude, but I'll say, hey, is your friend single?
	And how it worked?
	No, it hasn't worked.
	Well, I've not matched, but I did have one time where I matched with the girl and she was like, that's really fucking rude.
	I'm on here.
	And we don't want you.
	We want your friend.
	anyways anyways okay so um we were talking a bit about oh this was related to the snapchat thing so So do you feel like when guys do that, they're not putting in enough effort?
	Like if a guy, those of you who have been on dating apps, if they just send a hey, do you feel like, maybe I can ask this more broadly outside of dating apps.
	Do you feel that men don't put in enough effort?
	Depends on the sound.
	Hold on, let's start here.
	In what context?
	Like put in enough effort in the chats, like not putting in enough effort in the chats.
	What are we talking about?
	Enough effort?
	Just in general, like put in enough effort, whether maybe you matched on a dating app, maybe when it comes to dating, they're not putting in a lot of effort.
	Do you find that men are not putting in a lot of effort?
	Personally, yes, but that's just been my personal experiences.
	And I think everyone's experiences are going to be different wherever you go.
	So there could be some really great guys that are totally on top of knowing how to treat a woman and what we expect from them, ideally, in our own heads.
	If they can meet that standard, then I mean, kudos to you, but I personally haven't found that that many men put in that much effort.
	From my experience, no, they give effort, but the ones that didn't, I obviously just like ghost them, but they would be like, hey, come over.
	Like, no, what the fuck?
	I'm not coming over.
	That's not enough effort.
	That's not even.
	at least say hi have you perhaps now that's your standard but in the past have you ever taken someone up on that offer To come over?
	Yeah, just come over.
	No.
	Never?
	No.
	Never?
	know wait okay question on let me let everyone finish Go ahead.
	What was the original question again?
	Do you think men don't put in enough effort when it comes to dating?
	I'd say it depends on the person, but in my personal experience, I've like, I guess I can be a bit biased saying this, so I guess take it with a grain of salt, but I feel like I've always been the one who's been hurt most.
	You get hurt the most?
	Personally speaking, but from like, obviously, like, I'm going to be biased and I try to, you know, be balanced with like his side, my side, but yeah.
	But it depends on each person.
	Like, one guy could be like putting in a lot of effort, you know, and I noticed that, and maybe I will take, well, hang out with them the next night.
	So wait, you get hurt the most?
	Well, in my personal experience, like, I don't know.
	For example, like, my last relationship, he broke up with me over FaceTime.
	How long were you guys together?
	Three months.
	Three months?
	Yeah.
	Actually, I say that's commendable that he even did a FaceTime.
	Three months?
	That's a text.
	I guess, but, you know, it still hurts.
	You know?
	I thought you're, wasn't your longest relationship two years?
	No, that's not me.
	Oh, sorry.
	That's who yours was.
	Did you say what your longest relationship was?
	Three months.
	Oh, so that was your, okay, that makes more sense.
	Sorry, I got you mixed up with the other note here.
	So the guy, your longest relationship was three months.
	He broke up with you over FaceTime.
	Well, I mean, I feel like I just got hurt more because I was a lot more invested in it than he was.
	And obviously looking back on it, like, it's just like, it's whatever.
	Like, he broke up with me over FaceTime.
	It's shitty, but it happens, you know?
	But, I mean, you live and you learn.
	So.
	And so you said, were you guys friends before?
	Yeah, it was like friends.
	That transitioned into, okay.
	And who initiated kind of like it becoming more romantic?
	The guy.
	He initiated it.
	Okay.
	And how long were you friends before?
	I'd say about like three months.
	Okay, so like you knew him six months total about dating for three.
	Okay.
	And you said you were 18, right?
	Okay.
	I mean, that's, I mean, three-month relationship.
	Yeah.
	That's not.
	Nothing.
	Exactly.
	Yeah, but I mean, also, it's at 18, I'd say most people your age, a lot of people haven't had like really long-term relationships too.
	So that was your first.
	Were you in love with him?
	No.
	Did you say I love you, though?
	No.
	Okay.
	He did accidentally, but it was as a like joke and he quickly realized.
	Oh, so okay.
	So, okay, I gotcha.
	But you didn't love him?
	No.
	Okay.
	So I, but as far as him breaking up with you over FaceTime, I actually think that three months, I think text is fine.
	I guess.
	I mean, like, at the end of the day, it is like you're going to break up with them either way.
	But it's just like, if you think about it from like the other person's perspective, like, wouldn't you want to be broken up with over person?
	Like, wouldn't you?
	I'm probably a bad guy to ask for advice on this one because if I've been dating a girl for like two years, send me a text.
	Send me a text.
	Hold on, I'll finish my thought.
	Yeah, I gotta do it.
	Right.
	Thank you for reminding me.
	We will come back to that.
	I just, I want to get the conversation going.
	So thank you, Cheeks.
	And yeah, I think I will have to boost the super chat just or the TTS trigger just so that it's less interrupting, you know?
	But I certainly appreciate everyone who does.
	So maybe next show I might have to boost it.
	So I guess get your TTSs in.
	So I'm a bad guy to ask when it comes to this because honestly, even if I've been dating a girl for two years, just send me a text message.
	That's horrible.
	That's horrible.
	See, here's the thing, though.
	I'm such an here's the great thing about dating me.
	I'm such an easy guy to break up with.
	Sure, because you're very easy to break up with.
	You're emotionally closed off.
	That's no, I'm not emotionally closed off.
	A little bit.
	Debatable.
	Well, what makes you say that?
	Just because of the cell phone texting thing?
	Sure, sure.
	There could be multiple examples I can bring up, but like.
	Oh, there's more.
	Okay, you've been observing me.
	You've been observing me.
	It's easy.
	What's easy?
	Easy to observe anything.
	To read me?
	Well, in any case, what I would say is, is that I guess my thing is, well, first, it's very easy to break up with me.
	I don't need what's the term that people often use?
	I don't need closure.
	So that's a benefit of dating me.
	If you break up with me, there's not going to be, I'm not going to be like, I'm not going to plead.
	I'm not going to need an explanation.
	I don't know if any of you have had experience where the guy's like, doesn't take, like, you've determined you want to break up with him, and he won't take it no for an answer, you know?
	Like, he's persistent, or he's like, no, but, and he wants to negotiate the breakup.
	My view is as soon as the breakup conversation, like, as soon as a girl even says the word breakup, as soon as it's in your done, over.
	There is no negotiating.
	If we're there, I'm out.
	I'm done.
	So to me, it's just like, just send me a text message.
	I'll say goodbye to you.
	I'll be like, hey, it was really nice meeting you.
	Two years.
	Yeah, but wouldn't you feel hurt by that just a little bit?
	Like, damn, like, I wasted all that time and energy.
	Like, maybe went on a couple dates or whatever.
	Like, oh, that sucks, you know?
	You're still going to feel a little bit hurt, right?
	Like, a two-year relationship, you just, you don't care about meeting in person to break up.
	Well, I feel like sometimes girls will be like, they'll be like, we need to talk, and they'll send that shit through text.
	And I already know.
	So I'm like, eh, it's okay.
	We don't got to talk.
	Wish you the best.
	That's because you guys don't like to talk about their emotions.
	No, but here's the thing.
	Here's the thing.
	If you're breaking up with me, you don't get, if a girl breaks up with me, you don't get to decide how I react to that.
	If my reaction is, it was nice meeting you, I wish you the best, you're out of my life.
	Then that's my decision.
	That's my call.
	So, like, to me, it's just, I don't want to have a pro.
	First off, I don't want to know why the girl's breaking up with me.
	I don't.
	I think that that's not, I feel like you should, though, at least just so you know, like what you can do to better yourself moving forward.
	Like, do you not want to always be able to be the best version of yourself?
	Or their opinion, not what, like, that's what she doesn't like about him.
	Yeah.
	Well, it could have been like a problem.
	Like, but that's, I just think that, like, that's knowledge that it's good to have moving forward.
	Like, just something to keep in the back of your head.
	Not necessarily that you need to mold your whole personality moving forward when getting into relationships based off that one thing.
	But I just think it's something that it's nice to have in the back of your head.
	Like, oh, why did this end?
	Like, what did I do?
	Or what was the.
	I think that that's valuable information.
	I mean, if things are on the rocks, I kind of already going to have a sense if the relationship's kind of shaky.
	If the girl breaks up with me out of the blue, there's another guy in the picture.
	100%.
	If there, like, yeah, I mean, that, and sometimes there's nothing even wrong with you.
	You said that your last guy was great.
	Yeah.
	Right?
	But you said he wasn't, he was not enough.
	Yes, he was very emotionally unavailable.
	I mean, there's just a lot of AMD rustic design super chat $49.99.
	Do you girls think you deserve a man that makes $100K right now and why?
	Sorry to switch up the conversation.
	Okay, really quick on this.
	And then I do want to come back to the whole breaking up texting thing.
	So do you want just yes or no?
	Do you want to a guy that makes a hunt like press?
	I certainly would not complain.
	I would not complain if you made $100K a year.
	Here, let me frame it like this.
	So your future partner, you're like, because obviously you guys are both, you're 18, you're 25, correct?
	22.
	So like some of you might not be looking for that super long-term guy, especially at 18.
	Most of the guys you're dating in college, they're in college, right?
	They're not making a ton of money.
	But let's say when you're a bit older, when you want to get married, how much do you want that guy to make?
	Well, for sure, more than me.
	That would be ideal.
	Okay, so how much your future husband, how much do you want your future husband to make?
	As long as you can match me and or preferably be above me in that scenario.
	Preferably above.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I don't think it has to be a set number.
	As long as I'm happy, like, that's what's most important at the end of the day.
	Okay.
	So you said match you or be above you.
	Do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning?
	I have no idea.
	I want to go into real estate, and I don't really know what that entails, but I don't know.
	So match you or more?
	Okay, how much do you make currently?
	$45.
	Okay, so $50K and or $45K and up?
	Or how much would you, how much do you want your future husband to make?
	More than me, I would say like $50.
	How many kids do you want to have?
	Two to three.
	Two to three.
	I could run through this checklist perhaps later.
	You want two to three kids.
	Do you want to stay living in California?
	Cali or Miami's nice too.
	Miami, okay.
	Okay, so you want to stay in California or Miami.
	How many cars do you want?
	Two cars?
	Two cars.
	How big is your future house?
	How many bedrooms?
	My future house, hopefully.
	Yeah.
	Like a mini mansion?
	Mini mansion?
	Do you want a bedroom for each kid?
	How many bedrooms?
	When I get older, yeah, not when they're like toddler.
	Okay.
	It's unnecessary.
	You're going to have to marry a guy who makes more than $45K.
	For sure.
	If you want two to three kids.
	I mean, to live semi-comfortable.
	Especially if you want to stay in California or Miami or move to Miami.
	But what about you?
	Match me in the future.
	Match you in the future.
	Do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning by, say, 30?
	I think like 45, maybe?
	45K?
	match me or more Yeah.
	Okay, Tara.
	So my answer is enough to support and spoil as many kids as we decide we want to have together.
	How many did you say you want again?
	Well, as many as I could afford, so I guess that's like a circular argument, but.
	Okay, sure.
	okay so let's bring it back to the breaking up texting thing so i was i've i'm trying to remember where i was on that so So your boyfriend broke up with you over FaceTime.
	Were you guys in the same city?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so he could have done it in person.
	Yeah, and then literally, like, I think like three hours later, I dropped off all his stuff immediately, just at his house.
	Dank Nick donated $50.
	It's called being secure.
	If I can date a girl for two years and she breaks up with me, well, what can I do about it?
	I can be mentally checked out pretty quick.
	She's made up her mind and has a rebound die lined up.
	Just move on.
	Yeah.
	And also, like, I think it's the case, like, when a girl breaks up with a guy, like, a lot of, like, they're gonna, they have another dude in mind.
	A lot of the time.
	Are you shaking your head and agreeing, or are you just?
	No, I'm sorry.
	I was, I'm just, um, what's the word?
	Okay, yeah.
	Okay.
	Um, so, yeah.
	Okay, so he broke up with you over FaceTime.
	Yeah.
	Mm-hmm.
	And were you upset with him, like, over the phone that he did that?
	I didn't really, I was just kind of like accepting it, and I was like, kind of, like, asking, like, why.
	But, yeah.
	But, I mean, other than that, I just accepted it.
	I wasn't like mad or like yelling at him or anything.
	Right.
	I mean, so three months, although it was your longest relationship, I would say anything under six months.
	And look, and this is just not me.
	I'm just speaking in general here.
	Anything under six months, like a text, I think is fair game.
	So I think he, I mean, to call you, you disagree?
	I think like at least a phone call.
	Like I said.
	No, but he FaceTimed.
	It wasn't in person, but you were saying a text is sufficient, but that's a great question.
	I think a text is sufficient like under six months.
	At least a call.
	I would appreciate a call for sure.
	Instead of the first.
	That's fine.
	But certainly for three months, I think a text is acceptable.
	So I think he didn't do it in person, but he did FaceTime.
	At least you spoke to him.
	I guess, but that's still like the bare minimum, I guess.
	Question.
	Because it was out of the blue.
	Okay.
	Question.
	How long was the breakup conversation?
	How long were you guys talking?
	Like two minutes.
	Oh, two minutes?
	Yeah.
	It was nothing.
	That's awesome.
	What a, but I mean, like, obviously, that's like, that's in the past.
	It's so far.
	Like, I don't even think about it now.
	Plus, I was like, what, like, 17 when this happened?
	I was young, so it's not even like a thought in my mind anymore.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Oh, shit.
	I need to pull up Discord.
	We're going to do the call-in here.
	While I work on the computer really quick to do the call-in, Tara, can you maybe mention your controversial dating opinion?
	Oh, yeah.
	And we will have everyone, oh, and we have to do the dating app review, too.
	So if you want to do that, go for it.
	Okay, so my controversial dating hot take is that if you're a girl and you feel like you're not being treated by guys like the way you want to, like they're not putting enough effort in, that it's not the guys that are the problem.
	And I mean not, this is all pre-dating.
	I don't mean this like in a relationship.
	I mean this like in pre-dating terms.
	And I'm saying it not as in like you're not good enough to get that treatment, but as in you're not carrying yourself and just having high enough standards to where the only other treatment you will be having from guys is of, is like guys who put effort in.
	I'm confused on what the question is.
	It's not a question.
	It's just like it's just a hot take.
	Oh no, I agree.
	I agree with that.
	That's good.
	Yeah.
	Do you not agree?
	Are you saying like we like like we accept the love that we think we deserve?
	Is it that kind of like what are I'm I was just confused.
	Yeah, I guess yeah, I guess yeah, I guess it's on that.
	I mean I definitely think that as far as terms of dating like women definitely should have higher standards than I feel like a lot of my friends and like my personal experiences like the bar for the guys is just on the floor like below sea level.
	Like it's bad.
	So I think that all women should have decently high standards, especially when taking into consideration if you're gonna make this like a serious relationship.
	I think that you should value yourself and know what should be acceptable or is not acceptable.
	I mean, I think both genders should have high standards for what they deserve.
	Definitely.
	I'm not saying that women should settle for anything.
	I don't think that I think if we're with someone and they're not giving us what we want, personally, from my past experience, I've been with some guys who have not treated me well, and that was a stepping stone for me to realize, okay, I don't like this.
	I don't deserve this.
	I don't want this from my future partner.
	I think now is the time that we should be going on as many dates as possible and dating people to see what we do and don't like from a partner.
	And I think that goes for both, like men and women.
	I think men should also be exploring their options and seeing, okay, I like this.
	I want this from my future spouse, all of the above.
	But I don't think us being treated as lesser than has anything to do with how we see ourselves.
	I definitely agree with that.
	Very well said.
	I'm not a fan.
	Thank you, though.
	As long as you're honest and open at the same time, you set boundaries.
	For example, hey, like I don't want you to have homies as your guy friends.
	And if she's not willing to compromise that, then you should just no longer speak to her.
	Do each of you guys think that you're being treated by guys the way that you want to?
	Or like think you deserve to be?
	No.
	But that's also because we're in college and I don't, I haven't been impressed by any of the guys that like my friends have been involved with or I've been involved with.
	You know what?
	One guy did open the door for me the other day.
	Like he picked me up and not the other day.
	It was a while ago.
	But that was the first time a guy has ever opened the door for me.
	Like that's.
	Yeah.
	Well, that's what I'm saying.
	What I'm saying is like cases like that where you feel like you're not expecting, like you're, you don't think any guys in college will like treat you right, that it's not because there's no guys like that out there.
	It's because of how you're like behaving in your dating life.
	I disagree with that.
	I don't think it necessarily has anything to do with how we are being.
	I think we're in college.
	I think we're all young.
	I think we're all trying to figure it out.
	But like, I know for myself, like, I want certain things from my future partner.
	And if I don't get them, then I'm going to leave because I know what I want.
	I know what I deserve, as should everyone.
	But I don't think that has anything to do to represent us.
	So I kind of disagree with you on that.
	I hope I'm not butting in at an inconvenient time where you didn't respond.
	We do have a by the way, chat, this is our first time doing a call in, so if there's any technical issues, I do need you guys to let us know.
	Bryce, can you hear me?
	Oh, yeah, of course.
	Hey, welcome, Bryce.
	Chat, Eric, can you just show us the chat?
	Can you guys hear Bryce?
	Is there any echo?
	One, two.
	One, two.
	Can you guys hear Bryce okay?
	Is there any echo?
	Anybody?
	Any echo?
	How's the guys in the chat?
	How's the audio quality?
	Audio quality good?
	Audio quality bad.
	Audio quality good?
	Thank you, guys.
	Thank you.
	Perfect.
	Barely.
	How's the volume?
	Can you hear Bryce?
	Bryce, can you one, two, one, two?
	One, two, one, two.
	Okay, perfect.
	So Bryce is a tier five member, and as part of being a tier five member, he gets to call in.
	So Bryce, do you have a question or comment for the panel?
	Well, I think we might be going into standards soon.
	So I just would want to at least have a statement.
	If you guys have this, it's like the unholy trinity.
	Okay.
	Six feet, six figures, and six inches.
	Do you know how many men you eliminate when you have something?
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah.
	I think, is it better now, guys?
	Is it better now?
	Anyways, go ahead.
	Sorry, Bryce.
	Go ahead.
	I was just saying that if you have those three standards, do you know how many men you eliminate by having those standards?
	A lot?
	I mean, yeah.
	A lot.
	Like, in the sense that you would only be going for the top 1% of men.
	Oh.
	One thing.
	By the way, if everybody's wondering who Bryce is, Eric, if you can.
	This is Bryce.
	Anyways.
	Just thought you guys should know.
	So dank naked in the chat, by the way.
	Honestly.
	Yeah, so Bryce, is your question like, do you think what percentage of men have all those?
	Right, exactly.
	Like, do they know that if, even though having those three simple, like, or I'm escaping words, but having those preferences is unrealistic.
	It is.
	I agree.
	It is unrealistic to have those expectations automatically off the bat because I know I'm not like a 10, you know?
	Like, I know that.
	And like, I should.
	And because of that, like, I know like I care more about personality.
	And like, obviously, I know a lot of people are going to be like, no, you care about looks.
	You do.
	But like, you guys don't know me back like online.
	You guys don't know me personally.
	And I do, I do personally go for personality because like, you know, that's what really matters, all the experiences you build with someone, you know?
	And like, I've, I've had so many like fun moments with people that I'm like, man, like maybe I could see a future with you, you know?
	But like, you know, I know not to have unrealistic expectations because then I would have to have that of myself.
	Looks can change.
	Personality doesn't really change, you know?
	Like, that's kind of like how a person is.
	And their looks can change.
	Like, I'm a big gym junkie and like people can like, like plastic surgery, like lip fillers, like all this shit, like people can get done.
	But if you have a shitty personality, like, that's not going anywhere.
	So I agree, especially if you spend like enough time with someone and you get to like know them and their personality, like you can fall for that.
	Like you see like those, like, like love is blind.
	Like that stupid reality TV show where you like.
	You get to know this person like behind a closed door and you don't see what they look like.
	Like it's something like that where, yeah.
	T-Dog, come in on this.
	Eric, close the door.
	That the percentage of men will decrease with the options of like six feet, six figures, or sorry, what?
	Oh, so the question was: would the percentages of men like decrease a lot?
	Like if a woman chooses men to have like these three categories?
	I think what Bryce is trying to get at is that a lot of women want all these characteristics in men.
	However, there's not enough of these men to go around.
	So what ends up happening, you have basically men who are all chasing after the top tier of men, the top 10, top 5, top 20%.
	Hear different statistics, and because they all, a lot of women want to get the best guy.
	What ends up happening is if women are all chasing after the best guy, those men have an abundance of options, so they're not going to commit to you.
	Yeah, that's true.
	Because there's not too many guys out there that make six figures, has a six-inch dick.
	And what's the other one?
	Six on some.
	Yeah, that.
	So, yeah, the chances are very slim.
	So, yo, Bryce, thank you for calling in.
	Do you have anything to add?
	Not necessarily.
	It's been a pretty good show.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	By the way, Bryce is dank naked in the chat.
	So, can we get some W's in the chat for Bryce?
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you for being our first call-in.
	Appreciate it.
	I appreciate your patience on us finally getting you to come in and do it.
	So, sweet, man.
	No big deal.
	Just, hey, you can send me your Amazon wish list if you want.
	The girls?
	You're worth it.
	No, no, yours, Brian.
	Oh, my wish list.
	Yes, sir.
	Oh, that's so sweet.
	And is this a courtship, Bryce?
	I mean, does Kiki, like, is she involved too?
	I could arrange a meeting with Kiki if you want.
	If she ran through.
	No, her chastity is intact.
	Nobody has laid with her.
	Woo!
	Okay.
	Yo, Bryce, thank you so much for calling in, man.
	Appreciate it.
	And yeah, W's in the chat for Bryce, guys.
	Thanks, man.
	This was a great time.
	Thank you for calling in, man.
	Eric, you can go ahead and close out Discord.
	All right.
	See you later.
	See you, man.
	Have fun with the rest of the show.
	Thank you, man.
	All right.
	LOL, this is how Brian broke his back.
	Key, what?
	With Kiki, huh?
	Bruv.
	Okay.
	So, we were going, we were doing con.
	Oh, okay.
	Before we do that.
	So, question for you guys.
	Would it be a deal breaker if a guy had trouble getting it up?
	Yes.
	Hold on, let's start here and we'll go around.
	I like just dealt with this too.
	It wasn't necessarily a deal breaker.
	Like, we just made it work.
	But, I mean, have I seen him since?
	No.
	But is he still texting me and am I still replying?
	Yeah, he's cute.
	But, and he's funny too.
	But it's just, I don't think it's necessarily something that it should be shamed for for like the rest of the, oh, nope, never again.
	It's just that sometimes I understand that, you know, there's some, there's always some circumstances for every situation.
	So I don't think it's a deal breaker.
	And you said, was it just one time that it happened with this guy or was it like kind of a pattern?
	He was so drunk.
	Like he was.
	Yeah.
	So I was like, oh, I get it.
	Okay.
	But even like that one time, did it kind of, even though he was drunk and it was just that one time, was it kind of like it impacted, I guess, the sexual chemistry kind of?
	I still find him attractive and everything.
	It's just that I have, I don't know if I want to see him again.
	I'd like not, I don't know, I don't know yet.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	If he constantly can't get it off, then that would be a turn off because that's just going to make me overthink like, hey, it's like, are you not attracted to me anymore?
	Did I do this thing wrong?
	And then, you know, just like start thinking of the worst case scenario.
	And I wouldn't want to see him again either.
	But you would give him maybe a second opportunity or because for some girls.
	I would try to help him.
	Okay.
	For some girls, if the sex is trash the first time, it's a wrap.
	It's done.
	For me, if it's the second time, then.
	Second time if it's trash, it's.
	Yeah, that I'm like, okay.
	All right.
	And what about you?
	Outside of erection difficulties, if the sex is trash, done deal, or you work try to work at it, or he's got one or two times tops.
	I feel like you can redeem yourself for the one time, but if it's just still not good, like bye, you're getting blocked.
	Wait, you're blocking?
	Well, I'm not going to talk to you over again.
	Like, what's the point?
	We're not going to see each other ever again.
	Why would I wait?
	So, but is it that have you done that?
	Have you done that?
	Is it a block?
	Um, not as necessarily after, like, no, I'd actually, no, I feel like that was an exaggeration.
	I could be honest.
	I've blocked someone because of that, but I've definitely ghosted them after having like really terrible sex.
	So, when you say you ghost, like, did he text you and was like, hey, I'd like to see you again, or are you free Thursday?
	And you just never responded.
	Yeah, because the sex was bad.
	It was terrible.
	Terrible.
	Yeah, it was really bad.
	Like, I wanted him to go home the entire time.
	Now, look who's asking for details.
	It's different.
	Yeah, is it?
	Yo, RIP.
	Girl talk, right?
	Was his name, was his name Miles?
	Miles.
	I'm just making up a fake name.
	RIP's in the chat for the dude.
	But, okay, so he texted you and he's just like, hey, are you free Thursday?
	And just no response after the bad sex?
	I think I like, I texted him back like twice to like, because he wanted to make plans again, but then I just never fizzled, kind of.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Deal breaker for a guy has difficulty getting it up.
	No, I don't think it's a deal breaker.
	I know.
	It's happened before, and like I get it from their situation because it could be stressful.
	Like they have to perform.
	Oh, okay.
	That's good.
	Yeah, that's how I am too.
	Like, after the first or second time, no.
	But if it's like a continuous thing, then it's going to be a little bit of a.
	It's an issue.
	Yeah.
	It's a.
	Oh, can you lower it?
	It's up to 70, Eric.
	Tara, what about you?
	So, trouble getting it up is usually indicative of like a larger health issue.
	So it depends on, it would depend on like what the root cause of it is and whether that is treatable or not.
	Yeah.
	But would it be a deal breaker?
	If it was because of something untreatable, then yeah, it would be a deal breaker because I don't want to, I'm not going to like marry someone if I can't have kids with them.
	it's gonna be a problem for yeah uh thank you renin speaking it's more of a fraction of the one percent That has those requirements.
	Yes.
	Which does not include race/slash ethnicity, orientation, etc.
	Yeah, it's a very small percentage that has all those things.
	Ronan, thank you for the $50 super chat.
	Much appreciated.
	Thank you, sir.
	Thank you, sir.
	So I think everybody got to go on that.
	Let me just, all right.
	Oh, can you hide that, Eric?
	Yo, guys, Blue Chew.
	Get Blue Chew.
	Yeah.
	Anyways, let's move it along.
	Actually, you know what?
	I think we should get to some super chats here.
	So, guys, get your super chats in.
	Once again, $20 will be red.
	15 up triggers TTS.
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	All right, we have Stiffler here.
	Ask the ladies to rate their looks on the scale of one to 10.
	Sydney, you go first.
	I'm in the middle.
	Don't worry about it.
	Go first.
	First.
	10.
	And then we'll go you, you, you, and then Tara.
	Go ahead.
	Are we talking about like overall?
	Looks.
	Looks?
	I mean, if you want to break it down, you could do, if you really want to break it down, you could do face and body.
	I'm not going to do that.
	Okay, so looks overall.
	It's weird.
	I guess an eight, a nine, I guess.
	I don't know.
	I don't really look at myself and think, damn, I look like, I guess I do if I have a good day.
	I'm like, damn, I look like a 10.
	But that's just mentally speaking.
	I don't know.
	Like, I feel great.
	Okay, but so looks, like, what do you rate yourself?
	Eight or nine?
	Sure.
	Which one?
	Pick one.
	Eight and a half.
	Okay, that's fine.
	Go ahead.
	I think without makeup, I would say, like, seven.
	And with makeup, I would say eight and a half to nine.
	Okay.
	I'd say like a solid seven or eight.
	Okay.
	Tara, what about you?
	I'd say eight.
	Okay.
	So only one ten at the table.
	Sydney, we go through this every time.
	And we don't have to this time.
	We do, but okay, would anyone like to revise their answers?
	I have some makeup remover.
	Does that, I mean, you mentioned anybody?
	I mean, I would take my makeup off and still keep my answer regardless, so.
	Shit, I can't do that.
	Whatever.
	So wait, okay, Sydney.
	One day I'm going to convince you.
	Do you think all women are tens?
	You're going to convince me to lower my answer and lower my confidence?
	No, it's not about lowering your confidence.
	mean I don't think like for me personally like I will always continue to say that just because I don't leave room for opinion from anyone else because it's just like kind of my my confidence booster and again like I don't care about yeah Okay.
	Next, Super Chat.
	Nope.
	Okay, so I just.
	So I haven't done a good job trying to convince you.
	No, you haven't.
	You're not convinced.
	Why?
	Let's.
	Why?
	Because it's delusional, Sydney.
	Okay.
	I'm crazy.
	But I want to ask why it's delusional.
	She's already set in her mind about it, so like nothing you say will be.
	This is like my sixth show with you.
	Like, you got to accept it at that point.
	Well, I suppose I accept that she says it, but why is she saying that?
	You're a 10 in delusion.
	I'm not saying that to be mean but like I don't take it as mean Yeah, I don't think, I mean, otherwise you wouldn't be coming back on the show.
	No, I'm a big girl.
	Yeah.
	But I, okay, like, let me.
	Do you guys know any guys who think they're hot shit, but they're not?
	Yes, a thousand percent.
	Too many, actually.
	So you say I'm not.
	Hold on, I'm getting there.
	Okay, so would you prefer a guy who is modest and humble or a guy who is cocky?
	Just really quick yes or no answers.
	Wow, I was on helmet.
	This microphone's kind of blocking you if you can scoot it.
	Or you're kind of like sitting.
	I don't know if you're looking at the monitor or what.
	Alvin Sam Super Chatted $49.99.
	Sydney, women also demonstrate confidence through humility.
	Like, isn't it confident to also just be like humble and humility?
	I'm not going to sit here and just be like, okay, like I'm a seven.
	Like I'm not going to.
	I don't know.
	I just like personally for me, and there's some days that I feel like that.
	Absolutely.
	Like some days I struggle with confidence and some days I struggle with looks and like my hair and like trying to figure shit out.
	But like I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, well, like I'm a six and then leave it up for like another person's perspective.
	Like I don't really care about another person's perspective.
	So like the crux of the whole rating thing though is it's not so much the question is what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten?
	But it's kind of like what do you rate yourself within the context of the dating marketplace and what you kind of think like other people potentially view you as.
	If I were to ask you that question, if I were to ask, if we lined up 100 men, what they would rate you, would that change your answer?
	I'm not going to sit here and argue the whole rating thing with you again.
	Like I'm over it.
	Thank you, Bryce.
	Appreciate it.
	We need to change the question.
	These females never understand though.
	Ask them, what do you think others would see you as?
	Attractiveness is based off of how many people you can attract, not what you think slash feel about yourself.
	Yo, Bryce, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	But okay, so the question kind of bringing it back.
	So would you prefer a guy who's modest and humble?
	Sure.
	I'm not having this argument with you, honestly.
	I'm not doing this today.
	I do this with you every single time.
	No, I do this with you every single time, and I'm not going to do it.
	And they love it.
	The audience loves it.
	Well, we have 49 other starred super chats that I'm sure the audience would love to do.
	Stifler is dying to know.
	Oh, there goes 50.
	But are all women tens?
	I'm not having this conversation with you today.
	Wait, just, okay, I'm not going to press you on your rating.
	Hold on.
	But are all women tens?
	Sydney, it's my show.
	Okay.
	Are all women tens?
	Sure, yeah.
	Are all men tens?
	Sure, yeah.
	No.
	You don't think all men are tens.
	Come on.
	I don't think all women are tens.
	I don't think all men are tens.
	I'm saying for me.
	And that's all I'm going to say about this topic.
	What if you talk about it?
	I'm not having this topic.
	I'm not continuing this topic.
	Tara, go ahead.
	What if you have it on like an averageness rating?
	Because then by definition, if five is average, not everyone could be a 10.
	Okay.
	So what if, what if, what if, like, what if you phrase it in like just averageness scale?
	I'm not continuing this topic.
	Just because some of the point, again, nothing against you, but some of the point of views that you've said, I don't agree with.
	So I'm not going to continue a conversation with it.
	So I'm done with this rating topic.
	Why are you so triggered?
	I mean, I'm planning on moving.
	I'm sure you're a bit triggered by this question.
	I mean, like, if you've asked for this like multiple times, what do you expect her to say?
	Thank you, Martin.
	Here are the actual, unbiased ratings from men, with a very deserved incoming from Brian Daddy DATA, 7.5.
	Chelsea Clinton, 5.
	Sweet and Sour, 6.
	Asian Persuasion, 8.
	Exma Narcissist, 7.
	I love the name of the name actually.
	Can you add that to your Instagram bio?
	Narcissists, I don't think I'm a narcissist, am I?
	Of course not.
	Of course not.
	Okay, let's do a couple Couple super chats, then we have to do the dating app reviews for the girls.
	Okay, so, and then we also need to get everyone's, keep this in mind for later, your controversial dating opinion if you have one.
	Okay, so we have Alvin Sam here.
	Yo, thank you for the 20, appreciate it.
	Ladies, double standards or gender differences, pick only one.
	A promiscuous woman is a 3FO, a promiscuous man is a stud.
	Shoring support from Sacramento.
	Yo, Alvin, thank you so much for the support, man.
	Good to see you back in the chat.
	Appreciate the support from SackDown, man.
	Thank you.
	All right, we have Tara.
	Can you read this?
	You have a good speaking voice.
	Go ahead.
	Hey, Brian.
	Been a big fan of the show, but can rarely catch it live here on East Coast.
	What's your thoughts on getting a married man or couple on the show?
	Have a good stream, y'all.
	We will be having, I don't know if you guys remember Lizzie from last show.
	We're gonna, she's been dating a guy for a year or two.
	Really cool girl.
	She's got a cool boyfriend.
	So we're gonna actually have them both be on the show.
	So definitely open to it, Nikolai.
	Thank you, man.
	All right.
	Yo, thank you for all our memberships.
	Appreciate it.
	Go for it, Tara.
	I've noticed the hottest girl is always the one sitting across from Brian, and the ugliest is in the back.
	Come on, be nice, guys.
	Quality content.
	Also, Brian, those girls who call guys the P-word for wanting non-hairy women is wild.
	AF.
	Were you there?
	No, no, no, you weren't there for that show, but.
	Oh, I was there for that show.
	I was, yeah.
	Oh, well, but we had another one recently, which I don't think you were here for, where the girl was saying that guys who prefer women with shaved legs are P-words.
	Like, as in like little children, P-words?
	Yeah, let's not use the actual word, though, just because of YouTube, T-O-S, and stuff.
	But yeah, I'm not going to, I don't want to really talk further about that, but I just thought that's absurd.
	Anyways, thank you, SD, for the 20.
	Yo, Michael, thank you for the 20.
	Question for the ladies: Do you regret who you lost your virginity to?
	Yes or no?
	Go ahead, we'll start with you.
	A thousand percent.
	Yeah, it was not a good situation.
	That's all I want to say about that.
	What about you?
	Yeah, we were really young in high school, and we don't know any better.
	Okay.
	Also, age, can you guys share how old you were and you lost your virginity?
	I was 14, and I regret it a lot.
	Yeah, I was 16.
	18.
	And do you regret who you lost it to?
	No, I don't.
	Was it a hookup or boyfriend?
	I guess you could say situation shit.
	Sure.
	It lasted a while.
	Yeah.
	Sydney, what about you?
	I was 16 and I don't regret it.
	Tara?
	I was 17 and I don't know.
	I guess I, yeah, I probably regret it.
	All right, Kiki, what about you?
	Okay.
	Thank you, Kiki.
	Insightful as always.
	Yo, Jay, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	God, bro, what the chats?
	Yo, I'm telling you, you girls now, the chats have been more ruthless this show for some reason than any other show I think we've ever had.
	To the three FOs on the panel, smell your vibrator and tell me you deserve a good.
	What does that even mean?
	No idea.
	I don't know.
	Martin, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Cody, thank you.
	Appreciate the membership.
	Dr. B, that came through.
	That came through.
	Go for it, Tara.
	Recently single because he wasn't doing anything for himself.
	The guys you are seeing now, did you know them during your previous relationship?
	Was it an easy out with him going into the service?
	No disrespect, just curious.
	Is this directed to you?
	Going into the service?
	Was he going to the military?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	The Marines.
	A little closer to the mic?
	I mean, he didn't officially decide to start moving forward with that until after I left him.
	So, I mean, it wasn't like an out.
	It was that I was moving for college and I already knew that there's no way in hell that I would be able to maintain a relationship with someone that I'm not able to be with physically.
	Because I do feel like I, I'm not necessarily going to consider myself high maintenance in a relationship, but I do, like, I just need you physically there with me.
	Like, I need to be able to cuddle with you.
	Like, I need, like, it's so important to me, like, that aspect of it.
	Like, I can't just maintain a relationship over the phone.
	So that was why we broke up.
	It was, like I said earlier, there was no bad blood in between either of us.
	Like, there was no ill intentions.
	It was nothing bad.
	So it was just I was moving forward with my life and he needed to move forward with his.
	All right.
	We have Joel here.
	Actually, you know what?
	T, can you read this one for us?
	Ask the girls what they think if a woman says she's not in the right mind for a relationship.
	Is it possible later, good friends know, or just move on?
	So I think maybe this is more directed at you.
	You said earlier you're not really looking for a relationship right now.
	Do you have a response to Joel?
	I mean, if you're not ready to be in a relationship and you know yourself well, which I mean, I know myself pretty well.
	I've gone to years of therapy for that.
	I know myself pretty well.
	I would know whether or not that I'm emotionally ready to, you know, engage in a relationship with someone else because that's a whole, like, they're a person too.
	Like, yes, I'm a person and I'm my own person, but that's a, it's the same thing.
	Like, they're their own person.
	They have their own lives going on.
	Why would I get into a relationship if I'm not ready for one and then potentially hurt the other person as well?
	Like, that's just not fair.
	Let's have you read this one, Amanda.
	I can't.
	Okay, okay.
	First girl on the right was making fun of her ex writing letters to her being a nice guy, yet still dumped him.
	Yet she's out hooking up on dating apps going after the F-boys.
	Then wonder where are the nice guys dumped?
	Sorry, that's just how it happened.
	Like, we broke up, and he still writes me letters.
	I don't know what to say.
	Do you have a copy?
	I don't have a copy.
	Can you show us?
	I don't.
	No, I don't.
	I don't.
	Okay.
	But he sent me.
	Is it question?
	Oh, sorry.
	Go ahead.
	Didn't mean to interrupt you.
	Go ahead.
	He sent me like three within the last two weeks, and I'm like...
	Wait, is this like a stalker situation?
	No, no, When did you break up with him?
	This is downplaying, like, I feel like his situation because he's low-key obsessed with her too a little bit.
	That's a yikes.
	Well, it's reasonable.
	Like I said earlier, I was so much, and this is, this is going to sound really cocky, but it's like I was such a better partner than he was in the relationship.
	He was not necessarily the best at being a boyfriend.
	Meanwhile, I was a really good girlfriend.
	And I will hold myself to that high position.
	Like, I was a good girlfriend, and I know that I was a really good girlfriend.
	And he realized after the fact, and I feel like a lot of men do this.
	He realized after the fact, wow, I lost a really good girl.
	And he was like devastated.
	And I was, of course, sad, too.
	Like, I was.
	Thank you for that, Brian.
	Thank you so much.
	You're welcome.
	Yeah, thank you.
	It's not.
	I don't know.
	He just realized after the fact that, wow, I lost a really great girl.
	And I was like, yeah, when did you break up with him?
	Like the end of June.
	So nine months ago, about.
	Yeah.
	And was there any getting back together or is it a clean break?
	Absolutely not.
	I mean, he, I did still see him from time to time.
	Like, if I went home for like break, like, we'd like go get Starbucks or something.
	But that was Starbucks code word for.
	I'm not going to comment on that.
	Wait, so okay, you guys, hold on.
	You guys broke up, but you continued hooking up here and there.
	Yeah.
	He also came to Santa Barbara to come see me, which I thought was wild.
	I was like, all right, sure.
	But he really wanted to.
	And I was like, all right.
	And that was in like, what was it, Amanda?
	Like, what month was that?
	It was like early, early, like September, maybe.
	Well, hold on.
	You just said there was a clean break, but you guys continued hooking up and he came to see you recently.
	We're not together.
	He's not my boyfriend.
	That's not a problem.
	That's not a clean break.
	If you're still sleeping with someone, that's not a clean break.
	Everyone goes back to their ex.
	Come on now, let's...
	Nah, some people do.
	I...
	I'm not saying it's wrong, but you didn't have a clean break is what I'm saying.
	No, sure.
	No, no, it wasn't a clean break, I guess.
	Okay.
	If that's what you define as a clean break.
	Okay, when's the last?
	I never led him to believe that we were going to be together.
	Like, we're not together.
	We're not dating.
	You are not my boyfriend.
	I am not your girlfriend.
	Is he more into you than you're into him?
	Now, yeah.
	I'm like moved on.
	I have a million things happening in my life, like with school and work.
	Like, I'm a busy person.
	Like, I don't, like, there's so many things going on, like, with friends.
	Like, I, there's just.
	When's the last time you saw him in person?
	Um, Christmas break.
	It was, like.
	This is a really messy situation.
	Um, I mean, it's not a surpr.
	So, I mean, my previous statement, I would retract.
	He's not, I mean, he's obviously, you know, he's writing you letters.
	Are they poems?
	What are you doing?
	They're just like little letter updates, like, oh, like, what he's doing in the, oh my God, I keep, I keep thinking it's Navy and it's not the Navy.
	Marines.
	Marines, thank you.
	It's just like, he'll just tell me, like, what's going on, and like, he'll always add at the end, like, oh, love you, miss you.
	And I don't know, I just, it's a lot.
	Okay, well, that's an interesting situation you've got yourself in.
	Does he know that you're seeing other guys?
	I don't imagine so.
	I'm not going to go out of my way and be like, by the way, like, I'm doing this.
	Like, I don't think that that's, like, that's my personal information.
	Obviously, now it's not because it's on the internet, but it's like, why?
	I don't feel like I owe him that to disclose that to him.
	If he straight up asked me, I would be honest with him, but he's never asked me.
	Do you think he's seeing other girls?
	I doubt it.
	Do you think you're leading him on?
	No, I've told him a million times.
	And I've tried to be like, hey, if still talking is like too much for you, if that's like hard on you, like we don't have to talk anymore.
	And I personally think it's better for both of us that we don't talk anymore.
	But he always insists that, no, like he still wants to keep in contact.
	And I'm obviously I've tried.
	You have no idea how many different times I've tried to be like, listen, like this is not good for like either of us, mental health wise.
	Like this is not good for either of us to still be talking.
	And he just like cannot let go.
	So.
	Okay, so when you have these conversations with him, have you ever said, do not contact me again, or I don't want to hear from you again, or we're done.
	Stop talking to me.
	And does he persist?
	It's more so.
	I give him the, not the option, but I lay it out like as it is.
	I'm like, this is not good for either of us.
	So are you sure?
	And every single time, he still wants to keep me around.
	Is he in love with you?
	Probably, I imagine so.
	Are you in love with him?
	I care about him still.
	I don't think I'm in love with him.
	Were you in love with him?
	Yeah, 100%.
	Okay.
	It's obvious that he probably loves you.
	Well, I mean, that sounds to be the case, right?
	But, I mean, you've stated you don't want to have a relationship with him and you don't see it ever going back there, correct?
	Unless he changes a lot about himself, like, I don't think I could see myself in the future being with him again.
	Yeah, I mean, and I think even then, it's sometimes my philosophy when it comes to getting back together with someone.
	It's better to just move on, find someone new.
	I mean, what I would recommend to you is that I think it's going to be hard for him, but I think it's pretty clear that he's not, he's in love with you.
	Like, he's not going to be wanting to distance himself from you.
	You know, I think for the best thing for both of you would be like, you might have to be the one that is like, hey, I can't do this anymore.
	What are we doing here?
	It's not fair to you.
	It's not fair to me because perhaps this guy's preventing you from, well, I know you said you kind of want to be single right now, but perhaps it's preventing you or inter and maybe it's not interrupting with your other potential dating options.
	And I mean, from what you said, it sounds like you don't want to, this is not going to become serious again, or it's unlikely to.
	It makes me feel guilty to some extent because, but at the same time, it makes me feel guilty, but then also frustrated because he never put this effort when we were together.
	He did not care that much when we were together.
	And now all of a sudden that we're not together, it's like this whole different person that's like putting in all this effort and wants me so bad.
	And it's like, you know?
	It's that old saying, you don't know what you've got until it's gone.
	So I think the healthiest thing for both of you would be to, he's not going to do it.
	I think, I mean, you're free to do whatever you want, of course, but I would nip that in the bud if I was you.
	No, yeah, I have a letter written out because they were like, Maya, like, you can't just not send anything back.
	I haven't sent it.
	No, it's still in the notebook.
	Oh, is it a breakup letter?
	It's not like a...
	Thank you, Martin.
	Tara, Maya, and Tram.
	I've noticed that two of you have mentioned cuddling.
	Two questions.
	Have you ever been on a G600 jet?
	Have you ever cuddled with a six feet one inch multi-millionaire?
	Asking for myself, not a friend.
	But I'm only offering package deals.
	All or none.
	What?
	Oh, so that's for Tara, Maya, and Tram.
	Martin, do you actually have a jet?
	Wait, yeah.
	6-1 multi-millionaire G600 jet?
	Do you guys accept his offer?
	I think he wants a foursome, though.
	Oh, I don't know about that, but not.
	Okay.
	Okay, we're going to move it along.
	But I think it could be the case that you might be leading him on a bit.
	Maybe that's not your intention, but I think you should.
	You were saying you've written out your final breakup message to him.
	I didn't have my final breakup message.
	It was just like at the end, I was like, by the way, I appreciate the letters you've sent and everything, but I just don't think it's appropriate for our situation for you to be sending so many.
	I was like, I hope you understand.
	Yeah.
	So you said he's a good guy, right?
	You said you care about him.
	Sometimes the best thing that we can do for someone is to like is to let them go.
	I know that sounds cliche.
	I tried.
	I tried.
	he sounds persistent right um however uh you know i think you have to be i mean when i say firm i mean you do like a final conversation and then if it continues is this guy gonna fucking hate me for saying this if If it continues, that's a block.
	I mean, if you want it to be done, you seem to be okay.
	If you're okay with this kind of situation, by all means, continue.
	But I'm just, you need to lay down boundaries.
	Like, I'm done.
	Respect my decision.
	I wish you the best.
	find a what's going on here Eric oh you got a sorry guys Fucking technical issue.
	I have no idea what's going on.
	Fuck.
	Yeah, you got to close that thing.
	Just minimize this.
	Yeah, just close that fucking ad block piece of shit.
	Motherfucking ad block.
	Wait, F11, F11.
	All right.
	Sorry, guys.
	Welcome to the whatever studios professionalism at its finest.
	Anyways, let's move on from that.
	So, let's see here.
	Okay, we got this one here.
	Lukewarm, $20.
	Brian looking alfalfa from the little rascals.
	Is it still there?
	I fixed it.
	Yeah, my hair was scuffed.
	Thank you, man.
	Thank you, Luke.
	Appreciate it.
	Yo, Dylan Lowley, thank you for the 20.
	I'd be a full sim for Sarah.
	Actually, you read this.
	Go ahead.
	I'd be a full sim for Tara, but she's a Commifornia girl.
	Instant red flag.
	Love the show, Brian.
	Yo, Dylan, thank you, man.
	Do I move the show to not California Stan?
	I don't know.
	California, I'm beaten cheeks says, I thought about moving it to Hawaii, but he recommends not.
	I don't know.
	Maybe California, the weather, it's hard.
	I don't know.
	Anyways, Mike Davis, thank you, man, for the 20.
	Folks, been away.
	Actually, hmm, Sydney, you and Mike Davis have an intimate connection.
	Why don't you read this one?
	Do you?
	Okay.
	Folks, been away at an overseas vacation.
	Number one lesson I can report on is call it a day with these degenerate low-life Western women.
	There's a whole world of women out there who will treat you like the king you are.
	True.
	Guys, please respond to Mike Davis.
	He wants the smoke.
	Maya.
	He wants the smoke.
	Mike, I don't know what to tell you, man.
	Maya.
	He wants the smoke.
	He wants the smoke.
	Mike, I think it's a two-way street, you know, in the same way that it's totally fair that girls need to stop saying there's no good guys out there, consider there's good girls out there, too.
	So, you know, I think both sides need to stop with this exaggerating talk about there's no like good people of the opposite sex.
	That's that's one, not good vibes and counterintuitive.
	And yeah.
	Yo, Mike Davis.
	Mike Davis, confirm or deny, are you a passport bro?
	And how many times have you gone to Thailand?
	Okay, let's see here.
	We have, oh, that's the one we just did.
	There's so many tonight.
	Yeah, we get getting a lot.
	Okay, Dave Auth, Canadian 20.
	Merci Bucou for the Canadian 20.
	It's okay, Brian.
	Even with your hair like that, you're 6.9 tonight.
	Thank you, man.
	Brian, which girl from the panel is mostly your type?
	Oh, you're doing me dirty here, Dave Auth.
	Putting me on the spot.
	Hmm.
	Which girl is mostly my type?
	I like to go to the club so you can count me out.
	Let's see.
	Here, I'll.
	No, he's all nervous.
	Put me on the spot.
	I'm blushing here.
	How tall are you?
	Like 5'3.
	How tall are you?
	5'2.
	Into the mic?
	5'2.
	What other questions do I need to ask?
	Aren't you gonna ask like our peen size?
	Oh, you mean labia size?
	Yeah, excuse me.
	I mean, if you guys are, I feel like that could potentially be a bit prodding, but if you don't object to that question, I'll ask you to ask.
	Oh, I have a joke.
	I have joke.
	It was a joke.
	Tram, object or about what?
	Your labia size.
	No comment.
	Any rowdy.
	No comment?
	No comment.
	Okay.
	Tram, can you speak a little Vietnamese to me?
	Oh, God.
	Sure.
	Jiao Wang and Kua Hong.
	That means, hi, how are you?
	I need like at least a paragraph.
	Fuck.
	You got it.
	Let me see.
	Let me think.
	All right.
	I hope that sufficiently answers your question, Dave.
	Alvin Sam, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, we have Joshua Hayes.
	$20 soup chat.
	I use it for dating.
	Go out and meet people.
	Okay.
	I think that was related to the dating app conversation.
	Yo, James, thank you for the.
	Merci Bucou pour le bien dong che na conné par les nouméro, mai merci bouku for the Canadian 28.
	This has been driving me foo for months.
	What is that green object in the center of the table?
	I cannot figure it out for the excellent panel of girls.
	Would you reject or refuse a man over their general politics?
	So the thing in the middle of the table is, I don't know if we can do center zoom there.
	I don't know if Nickelodeon, 90s, there was this show called Guts.
	There's Global Guts and Guts.
	It was like this live studio audience show where they like would have a bunch of kids compete and they do like different challenges and they would get points as they move through the rounds.
	And then they would climb this mountain called the Agro Crag.
	Eric, can you pull up some like Google images of the aggro crag?
	And maybe Nickelodeon guts, pull that up.
	And I fucking loved this show as a kid.
	And actually, I was going to, on eBay, so they would give the big award.
	It was like that, but like 10 times bigger.
	And they sell for like thousands of dollars on eBay.
	And I'm trying to get one.
	So this is like a little miniature.
	It was like a little trinket, 20 bucks.
	So that's from the TV show.
	Just like a little nostalgia piece.
	F11, Eric.
	All right.
	I don't know if any of you remember this.
	Any nostalgia?
	Yeah, scroll down just a little bit.
	No, on the other side.
	Yeah, there you go.
	Oh, there's Mo.
	There's Mo, my first crush.
	She had like this dope British accent.
	Scroll.
	That guy does not look like a kid.
	Scroll down a little bit.
	Yeah, so it's just like, I don't know.
	It's just like a nostalgia piece for me.
	So, oh, politics.
	I mean, would you reject or refuse a man over their politics?
	Sure.
	Really quick, just yes or no on this?
	Over here?
	It depends how, like, because I'm more liberal, obviously.
	It just depends how far right.
	I feel like majority of the time it's going to be, yeah, it is a deal breaker.
	But I don't know.
	Personally, I don't think it's a big deal.
	I mean, should we ask?
	Okay.
	Does everyone want to just like say, are you more left, more right, liberal?
	Definitely more left, yeah.
	Yeah, same.
	Yeah, definitely more left.
	More liberal, more liberal.
	I mean, I would like his political stance would be like a factor, just like with like everything going on with like rights and like where to vote and stuff like that.
	Put this on.
	I'm okay.
	Put it on.
	All right, so let's say, let's say you meet Trey.
	No, put it on the other one.
	Backwards, backwards, backwards.
	There we go.
	All right, let's say this is, you meet him.
	This is Trey.
	And he's like Trump 2024.
	No.
	Done deal.
	Immediately know.
	Immediately no.
	Yeah, I agree.
	Bye, Trey.
	Sorry.
	Come on, Trey.
	Do a man voice, Tara.
	Come on.
	Giving you a layup here.
	What's up, dog?
	Oh, my God.
	How about them taxes?
	I don't know what to say.
	Oh, man.
	What do you want me to say?
	Actually, hold on.
	I want to come back to this one, Brian, with your type.
	Mostly your type.
	You're seeing two guys right now.
	You're going to have to break up with them.
	I'm sorry.
	I know.
	You're going to have to break up with them.
	It's like it's a mutual.
	You and me, like, if it's going to work out.
	Honestly, I need you to be, you have to just be loyal from the jump, you know?
	So, okay, anyways.
	Moving on.
	Okay, so we have, let's see.
	This has been tried.
	Okay, we already did this one.
	Let's see.
	So, by the blondie standards, it's okay to objectify women on dating apps and lead them on, then waste their time.
	Good to know.
	That's already what they do.
	So, who?
	Women or men?
	Men.
	Men waste women's time on dating apps.
	Yeah.
	Do they?
	I'm not speaking from just my personal experience.
	Like, I've have plenty of female friends that have dealt with men on dating apps and like they're it's like cash fishing for real.
	They lie about their height, their occupation.
	No, let's start on height.
	Wait, they lie about their height and their occupation.
	Oh, are you kidding me?
	Are you kidding me?
	This is way back when I used to use dating apps, so they lie about the dialogue.
	They don't lie anymore because they'll get caught.
	Like it's a known thing that guys who lie get caught.
	So it's like they'll be like 5'11 or like 6'1 or like, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I haven't gone on a date in a long time, though.
	I think everyone's been lying on dating apps.
	So I think I think it's cool.
	It's okay for men to lie about their height.
	Despite how much, though?
	Like, to what extent?
	Like, if you're 5'6.
	If you're 5'6, just say you're 6 feet.
	Oh, absolutely.
	That's way too much.
	Fuck it, dude.
	Bruv.
	Well, here's why.
	Here's why.
	It's because you mentioned catfishing, right?
	You're right.
	Right.
	T-Dog.
	Yes.
	T-Dizzle.
	Okay.
	A lot of women on dating apps, the photos that they use on dating apps, full face of makeup, filters.
	That's lying.
	Okay.
	Ergo, we're just leveling the playing field.
	Hmm.
	Do you have a response?
	I think, yeah, I agree.
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	Okay, that was easy.
	Well, I have a solution to this whole debate.
	Everyone, get off all dating apps.
	Backwards.
	Backwards?
	Pass a few backwards?
	By the way, guys, if you notice that anime shirt I was wearing at the beginning, it's because my had like a little clothing malfunction and Brian.
	Nobody knows I put this shirt on.
	I know, but you wanted it on so bad.
	And I just want to know.
	I just want to know why.
	Whoa, actually, that hat is quite looks good.
	Right, chat?
	One's in the chat.
	She looks good in the hat.
	Okay.
	So you guys are against, you guys got to push back.
	I mean, I'm a little against me here.
	I just said men should, I just said men should lie about their height on dating apps.
	I don't think you need to lie about it.
	I still text back men that are not six feet tall.
	Like, it's not like a deal breaker.
	But a lot of women do care about height.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	I think it definitely plays a factor, but it's not necessarily going to mean whether or not you're getting a text back.
	It kind of is, though.
	Not from, I don't know.
	I'm speaking for myself.
	That's not true.
	So if a guy's shorter than you.
	If he's, okay.
	I said that I've gone on a date with a guy shorter than me and I'm five feet.
	Okay.
	That's wild.
	I just want to throw that out.
	Yo, but look at your reaction, right?
	But okay, so.
	Because five feet come off.
	Hey.
	For a guy, not even taller.
	Come on.
	Five feet.
	It wasn't a bad day.
	That's way too short.
	It wasn't a bad day.
	I will say, threw me off a little bit only because my 12-year-old brother is like taller than me now.
	So I'm going on a date with a guy my age who's my height threw me off a little bit.
	But we just sat and we watched a movie at the movie theater.
	And so his height wasn't a factor.
	We were sitting.
	Okay, that's fine.
	That's an exception.
	I mean, you went on a date.
	Would you say, generally speaking, though, you prefer tall guys?
	I mean, tall for me, though, is like 5'5, 5'6.
	Generally, okay, let me rephrase.
	I care about it.
	Generally speaking, would you prefer if a guy is taller than you?
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I don't care.
	It's not a factor, though, for me, like it's not on my checklist.
	And generally speaking, men don't give a fuck about a girl's height.
	We don't really care.
	No, I think that I've like from experience, a guy would be like, oh, no, she's too tall.
	Like, if they think a girl is too tall and they're like insecure about their height, that plays a factor.
	I'm not saying every single man, but I'm, that's kind of a common bias that I've heard.
	Yes, some men perhaps don't.
	I would say it's much less than women who wouldn't want to date a guy who's shorter than them.
	I agree with that.
	Much less.
	And then the thing I would add to that, too, is men have that because not all men, but some men might not want to date a taller girl.
	It's not that they wouldn't date them.
	It's just a lot of men just pre-disqualify themselves from even pursuing tall women because they just know from experience that tall women are not attracted to shorter men.
	Then that's where the confidence comes in.
	Look, you can be 5'5 as a guy and confident.
	A lot of women who are not gonna want to date a guy who's 5'5.
	I'll take those ones.
	All right, they're gonna into your DMs.
	Give them to me.
	5'5, I'll take you.
	Okay, we have this one here.
	Okay.
	Let's have T. Dizzle read this one.
	Go ahead.
	Telling a girl a secret is like buying an ad in the New York Times.
	Full page ad that is.
	Half of the reason girls even look, even, sorry, even hook up is for the bragging rights.
	Truth is, I don't trust niggas either.
	Take it to the grave.
	Gotta blurt that out, by the way.
	Are you allowed?
	Can.
	Oops.
	Okay, thank you, Mike.
	Appreciate that.
	Okay, Bernito Sandriguez, $20 Super Chat.
	Tara, you get this one go.
	Bumble is easily the worst dating app.
	First off, as a company, they support gun control.
	Second, they rely on women to make the first move when they almost never do.
	Even women know that making the first move is a man's job.
	Next.
	Wait, why were you laughing, Sydney?
	I don't know.
	Like, that's a man's job to make the first move.
	I mean, like, I see how most guys do, but like, I think, like, Bumble being, like, the one to, like, have women make the first move is, like, a nice kind of, like, switch in a way, but it does make things more complicated.
	I don't know.
	Just like how he kind of like labeled that.
	Yeah, well, he's not wrong, though.
	Like, did you want to come in?
	Can I give my argument as to why it should be a deal breaker for a girl, or like how it's like, a girl should maybe only accept if a guy makes the first move?
	Let me go first, and then I'll have you come in.
	So when it comes to Bumble, even it's a very token level of initiative that women will show on Bumble.
	Because like I said previously, even though women have to message first, what they do is very different than what men do on different dating apps.
	And this has been my experience on Bumble, and I've probably had over a thousand matches on Bumble.
	So they will say, hey, how's it going?
	What's up?
	Because they have to.
	And as soon as they do that, the entire conversational burden shifts back to the guy anyways.
	Yeah, no, I agree.
	So like, yeah, they have to say hi first, but it's so token, it's almost irrelevant.
	Because my experience on Bumble is they say, hey, what's up?
	How's it going?
	And then they expect you to just do what you would otherwise do if you were initiating.
	So it's a very token level of initiative.
	And I guarantee you, if I did what most girls do on dating apps, which is never move the interaction along, let me get your number.
	Let's go on a date Thursday.
	Are you free?
	I've maybe one time I've had a girl be like, are you free Friday?
	Would you like to grab a drink?
	It's always me that has to do it.
	If I didn't do it, maybe we'd talk for two weeks and eventually she might do it.
	But my philosophy when it comes to dating apps, exchange a couple messages, you have to keep things moving pretty quick.
	There's no point having a pen pal for two weeks.
	Yeah.
	I'm going to move it along.
	I'm like three messages.
	I'm like, you want to grab a drink?
	Do you want to get dinner?
	Whatever.
	Don't do dinner dates, guys.
	So even though with the token initiative, they'll send the first message and they're still going to expect you to just ask for the date, plan the date, set the time, get the number, all these steps.
	So I suppose it's a step in the right direction, but it's kind of negligible.
	Bumble's just like an interesting app, but like I do like how it kind of gives the women like the perspective to play with it.
	But I mean, I also like making the first move.
	Like I like initiating stuff more so.
	But I do understand how it's like, it does like fall back.
	And I feel like it's almost like a way for women to like be able to like initiate who like when they actually want to, if that kind of makes sense.
	But I haven't downloaded Bumble before.
	I've never done a Bumble.
	Like I've done like the Bumble BFF when I was like younger, but yeah, I mean basically just the girl has to make sh send the first message.
	Yeah, which I mean, I don't think is.
	Yeah.
	There should be an app for more than that.
	But in any case, Tara, go ahead.
	You wanted to go?
	So before you start, before you're like in a relationship with someone, basically every interaction you have with them, all of their behavior and their words is something I feel like you should be paying attention to.
	And so I like to have as a precondition that a guy approaches me first because it indicates that he has, if he doesn't have like the courage and self-confidence and self-assurance to take a risk and go out of his comfort zone by approaching me first because he thinks I'm worth it enough to take that risk in the first place.
	He's even just making himself vulnerable by approaching me and everything.
	Then he doesn't have the level of courage and self-assurance that I'm looking for in a partner in the first place.
	So by having that as like a first line of like expectation, then I've already that's like we talk a lot about like having standards, but it's not.
	It's so much more and way more like subtle than six feet, six figures, six inch, whatever.
	It's way more you know their character and that's such an easy way to tell so much about someone's character and, like you know, have high standards in just that one act.
	Yeah, I totally agree with that.
	Honestly, like I think everything she said was pretty spot on.
	Like if you can't even like send the first text, it's like really just doesn't make sense.
	But like can I ask if you like want to talk to the guy too?
	And like you have a crush on the guy or like want to reach out to the guy, would you be willing to send that first text, to initiate first?
	Or would you just want to like kind of like sit back and like wait for him to do it?
	I have, I've like just been like hi, like it's just a simple little hey hi, or like you're hot, I don't know just any like it's not.
	I don't see it as like a big deal to like for me to do it.
	Obviously I'd rather them do it first.
	But it's like, for example, like with Tinder, it's like if they've already swiped right on me and then I swipe right on them, it's like I'm like okay, now we matched, now that I was the one that took initiative.
	But it's like sometimes, if they're really hot, I'll be like you're hot and then that's it.
	But would you ever take initiative to be like oh, like let's go for a drink sometime.
	Or like oh, let's go, why can I ask?
	Just cause it's like I don't really.
	Again, I don't use these dating apps that much like to actively like be dating people.
	So it's like, if you want to see me or something, then you can ask, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to ask.
	Well, I mean, here's the other thing.
	She doesn't have to.
	Yeah, that too she doesn't have to like, if a guy doesn't, because girls don't really throw themselves at men the same way that men throw themselves at women.
	Right so like, as a guy, you need to take initiative so women understand this.
	Women expect it to happen, because that's just how the meta is.
	So why?
	Why you're in a stronger negotiating position if someone's chasing after you.
	Like, you're in a better position romantically.
	So, why would you give up that power?
	I don't know.
	See, for me, I find it the opposite.
	Well, okay, that's a good point because, like, there is some power in being the one to take that initiative.
	Yeah.
	But also, like, when you have someone pursuing you, you are in a position of they want you.
	Right.
	No, I'm not.
	You're in a better power position, let's say.
	So, um, like, so why nobody wants to, nobody wants less power.
	I don't know.
	For me, I think it's like, at least, like, my perspective, like, as a woman, like, coming into like, like, one of the reasons that I like making the first move the most and why I enjoy doing it majority of the time.
	You don't do it the most, Sydney.
	Come on.
	You do it.
	You do it, but you don't do it the most.
	No, but like, for like the people that I want to, yes.
	But then, if I have like, like, I have like guys in my DMs that I'm just like not interested in that are shooting their shot.
	But, like, if I like see a guy and I'm like interested and I go up and I talk to him, I find it more of like a more power move for me just because like guys don't get that shit a lot.
	You know, like if you compliment a guy's haircut, he remembers that all week.
	Like guys don't get recognized like that a lot.
	Right.
	So I feel like if me as a woman like goes and like makes that first initiative and makes that first move, that's something that will throw the guy kind of like off a little bit and like either A, leave him thinking about it or just be like, oh.
	And that for me is like my power move.
	Oh, definitely.
	I mean, I think, and I think, one, if women do shoot their shot, actually, your chance of it actually being successful is really, really high.
	Yeah.
	Whereas like most dudes, like, honestly, you're lucky if like 10% of the girls you talk to or even want to talk to you.
	Well, that's why I think that's a lot of compliments too.
	Like even like random compliments like for a guy at a grocery store, like, oh, like your haircut, or oh, like, I like this.
	Like, so I'm sure they think about it all week.
	Men almost never, like, men never get complimented.
	So you say all week, like, a dude who doesn't get a lot of compliments, and if you compliment him, he'll remember that shit for yeah.
	Because like, think about like us as women, like our girlfriends are complimenting us constantly, and like guys don't have their homies being like, oh, like, you know what I mean?
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	That's just like kind of like my look on it.
	Okay.
	Got it.
	So let's actually let's keep it moving.
	Yo, Louis Brito, thank you for the $20 super chat.
	I love your smile.
	Brittany, who's Brittany?
	Who the fuck?
	Who the fuck is that guy?
	Who is Brittany?
	Hello?
	All right.
	Thank you, man.
	All right.
	We have Davis here.
	Let's get Amanda on this one.
	Thank you, Mike Davis, for the 20.
	Never share good news with men or women.
	Like a shark sniffing blood.
	Women will blood suck every drop.
	As for men, be smiling in your face.
	Meanwhile, they praying on your downfall like it's the second coming of Jesus.
	All right.
	Man, the chat has been a little spicy tonight.
	Is it those post-Valentine's blues, I think?
	All right, guys.
	Thank you.
	Yo, Britto.
	Whoops, Sydney.
	Sydney, I love your smile.
	Sydney, can you give a little smile to this camera right here?
	I was sweet.
	A little wink?
	A little wink?
	To like, which camera?
	What?
	Oh, I did not mean to do that.
	Can you do the wink?
	The wink?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Thank you, Sydney.
	All right.
	We had burning below 20.
	If you're always having problems with your SO, you shouldn't be together anymore.
	Anyways, sure, you had good times, but it's obviously not working anymore.
	I share with my friends if we broke up.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, we have Alec here.
	Alex, excuse me.
	Keep up the good podcast, man.
	Love them.
	Hooked.
	Also, please bring back the pranks.
	I don't know what happened with my voice there, guys.
	Apologies.
	Your math poem reading is one of my favorites of yours.
	You should show them if they haven't seen it, lol.
	Yeah, that's honestly my poetry reading one's one of my personal favorites.
	So, by the way, guys, some of you might be new here to the channel.
	Like, you just think I do the dating podcast.
	Well, that's what I just do now.
	But in the past, like, I have a ton of good content on the channel.
	If you want to go consume it, it's small, digestible, three-minute videos, prank stuff, some very viral, previously very viral stuff.
	So, check it out, guys.
	All right, this one came through.
	We have Poker Ace.
	I don't know.
	Tony, thank you, man.
	How do the ladies feel about men sharing their nudes with the homies?
	This is actually kind of an interesting comparison.
	Does this sound violating to you?
	Well, same.
	Almost all decent men.
	Oh, signed almost all decent men respectfully.
	Yeah, so your response to that?
	What do you mean, like, sharing nudes?
	Okay, so just really quick, show of hands.
	Who here has sent a guy a nude photo?
	Show of hands.
	Thick knee?
	No?
	Okay.
	All right, so he's asking, How would you feel about your man sharing your nudes with his buddies?
	Like, showing, not sending it to him.
	I suppose that could be the situation.
	But let's keep it a bit more favorable.
	He's showing your nudes that you sent him on your phone.
	I definitely, I mean, like, I wouldn't love it.
	I would be kind of mad.
	I wouldn't do that to him either.
	Okay.
	Being like, if you sent me a dick pic and I'm just like, oh my god, guys, look.
	No, I'm not going to do that.
	Sure.
	I'll be so pissed.
	I would like tell him to delete it or I'll delete it myself off his phone.
	It's just rude.
	And so pissed.
	Would you slash his tires?
	Fuck yeah, I would.
	Have you ever slashed a guy's tires?
	Yeah, I have.
	Oh, shit.
	He deserved it, though.
	What did he do?
	How many of you?
	All four?
	I believe you.
	Fucking cheated on me.
	How all four tires?
	That's a big one.
	No, I did one, so he doesn't claim insurance.
	Good.
	I heard it.
	Wow.
	Careful, Brian.
	Yeah.
	Although, okay, so no regrets.
	No regrets.
	Have you done it to any other guys or just that guy?
	Just that guy.
	Did you destroy any of his other property?
	No, the other accent, the other one, I bleach all his clothes in the bathtub.
	Oh, what?
	Okay, finally, we're getting to some juicy stuff.
	I want to hear the rest of the tea from the rest of the table on this sort of shit.
	But okay, so you've bleached all his clothes.
	What keeps spilling?
	Let's hear more.
	That's it.
	Oh, that's it.
	That's all the crazy stuff I've done.
	Come on, there's more.
	There's more.
	No, that's okay.
	Is there any other things that you've thought about doing?
	Into the mic.
	Definitely.
	I kind of like, what's your next game plan?
	What's the next cheater getting?
	After we leak his social security and Christmas or something.
	What was that real quick?
	Okay, so you slashed a dude's tires.
	Did he know it was you?
	I'm pretty sure he knows it was me because it was literally the day after we broke up.
	And he, wait, but so he cheated on you.
	Yeah.
	How long were you guys dating?
	Seven months.
	Okay.
	That's a text.
	That's it.
	For real.
	So could have saved him some tires.
	Okay.
	And have you ever cheated on the guy?
	No.
	Okay.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	So don't.
	Okay, slash your tires.
	How did.
	Wait, I'm trying to, I lost my place here.
	Eric, can you close the door?
	It's getting a little loud.
	How did we get to that?
	What was the question?
	Anybody remember?
	Oh, the nudes, sharing the nudes.
	You'd be pissed if you shared your nudes.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I'd be pissed, but I, if I share nudes, it means that I trust you.
	And like, I've only sent it to like two people, you know, like total.
	And like, I've talked to them before, and like, obviously, like, if they start pushing, I'll be like, I'm not comfortable, like, unless I trust you, then I might share it.
	Sure.
	Sydney?
	Yeah, I mean, I don't send nudes, but I, like, I think, like, Yeah, I think like if it's comparing to like what we were talking about earlier about like women like telling the secrets of like the bedtime or like versus like showing it I think that's two completely different things like a visual versus a verbal yep, but yeah, no would not be happy if I like the fuck Tara, what about you?
	I mean obviously I would be so pissed if the person I was dating did that.
	So I mean I guess I get I get the analogy here on that that is like I think to us like an obvious extreme violation.
	So if we were to you know go in explicit detail about the body shape form or performance of our partner to a friend like that that could be seen as that that would be violating as well.
	Yeah I sent the photo to you specifically to you not to be shared with everyone else.
	Yeah.
	I think this TTS is about to come through so I'm just waiting on it.
	There we go.
	Opie Ferrara super chatted $50.
	I like with Tram.
	She said any word without hesitation.
	I, Tram, if you ever want to go on a Texas date, let me know.
	Texas.
	Fly you out.
	Baby girl.
	We'll roll out for the marathon date.
	You down?
	T?
	He's not a weirdo then, yeah.
	Okay.
	Opai.
	Opa?
	Thank you for the 50.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Or thank you for the TTS.
	So is that you're agreeing to go on a date with him?
	No, I was just kidding.
	Okay.
	Hey, sweetie, fly you out.
	Come on.
	All right.
	So we're going to come back to the super chats.
	We're going to do the dating app review.
	Eric, can you pull it up?
	First one.
	We only got two profiles here.
	Oh, wait.
	Sorry, hold on.
	Before we get to that really quick, just back to this one.
	So I think what he's trying to say here, obviously it's not exactly the same, but in the same way that, you know, we were talking about how men might feel hard done by if a woman reveals to her friends intimate details after a first in sexual encounter.
	He's kind of relating it to, hey, how would you feel if your guy is sharing nudes with his buddies?
	All right, Eric, you can go ahead and pull it back up.
	All right, so we have Maya's hinge profile here.
	Okay, so we'll instantly hit it off.
	You hit hate Helen Keller.
	You watched White Lotus and Love Tanya.
	You pay for my Starbucks.
	Okay, you want dudes to pay for your Starbucks next?
	My greatest strength, everything because I'm perfect.
	Are you perfect?
	Obviously, that's just to be funny.
	Wait, what's your beef with Helen Keller?
	Oh my god, that bitch was fucking lying about everything.
	She literally, she either, okay, okay, okay, okay.
	She was not a real person.
	Like, she had to, like, she could see.
	She could see and hear.
	She could say, I don't give a fuck what anyone says.
	She could see, she could hear.
	I hate Helen Keller.
	That whole thing is a lie.
	Everyone agrees with me.
	There's few people that don't agree with me.
	And I really, like, you got me so riled up right now just talking about it.
	So you're not a fan of the always belief women movement, clearly.
	Oh, my God, please.
	That has nothing to do with Helen Keller.
	What?
	Terra freaking derailing the conversation.
	You really think that you really think that a blind and deaf bitch drove a plane?
	Really?
	Really?
	Tell us how you really feel.
	I always want to feel about Helen Keller.
	I will.
	I cannot stand Helen Keller.
	I can't.
	What did she do to you?
	She lied to everybody.
	She lied to everybody.
	She's dying.
	She lied to everyone.
	She was not blind and deaf.
	I know she was.
	Like, even if she was a real person, like, she existed.
	Yo.
	She was not blind and deaf.
	You've been checked out of this conversation for the past hour, but bring up Helen Keller.
	Can the prettiest girl in the podcast, Tara Roll, play as a cat girl for a minute?
	If she meows, I will donate $100.
	Wait.
	Love the blondes.
	Free talk.
	Okay, go for it, Tara.
	Meow?
	Yeah.
	Into this camera right here.
	Can you do a wink while you do it too?
	Or afterwards?
	How about just the meow?
	Oh, okay.
	Look.
	Meow.
	Right there into the camera.
	Meow.
	All right.
	Here we go.
	Do I get a cut?
	Anyways, I know, for real.
	Maybe he'll have to up the auntie.
	Tell us what else he's.
	He just gave you, he said he'd give you $100.
	Yo, go buy iffy.
	Let's up the auntie here.
	What else do you want Tara to do?
	Maybe me and her, we can negotiate something.
	Okay.
	As long as it doesn't cross obvious boundaries.
	Yeah.
	Yo, okay.
	Okay, let's.
	Helen Keller.
	What else do you think?
	Do you share, Amanda?
	Do you share her disdain for Helen Keller?
	I don't.
	Does she talk?
	How frequently does she bring up Helen Keller?
	She's brought it up a couple of times about it.
	Why?
	Because she literally lied to everybody.
	She was not real.
	I don't care.
	You can't mention anything else.
	Helen Keller was not blind and deaf.
	Like that whole thing was a lie.
	It was a lie.
	You know who else this reminds me of?
	Speaking of famous women.
	Amber Heard.
	Amber Heard lied about all that shit.
	Okay, moving on.
	I hate Amber Heard.
	Oh, okay, cool.
	We're on site.
	Okay.
	All right, let's bring it back to the app, Eric.
	Oh, what the fuck did I just do?
	All right, 18 CC.
	Oh, she's from the bay.
	Can we see you go?
	Do you know how to go hyphy?
	What?
	You're from the bay and you don't know how to go high-fee?
	I heard the word.
	Hello?
	What are you like?
	Ghost ride the whip?
	Shake them dreads?
	Tell me how the fuck.
	How's the rest go?
	Chat, help me out here.
	Ghost ride the whip.
	Shake them dreads.
	Chat, help me out.
	How's the rest of that fucking mid-2000 song go?
	E40?
	Yep.
	Help me out.
	Ghost Ride the Whip.
	Shake them dreads.
	Hello?
	Anybody?
	Chat?
	Hello?
	I think the moment's over, Brian.
	I think there's a delay.
	I think there's a delay.
	Okay.
	Next one, Eric.
	Okay, yes, drinks.
	Yes, smokes, marijuana.
	Okay, next.
	Be funny, tall, and sleigh.
	Okay, be funny, tall, and sleigh.
	How tall?
	I mean, it's not a deal breaker.
	But just be tall.
	Like, don't be short.
	Give us a number.
	Minimum, like, five, nine.
	Go ahead, Tara.
	You wanted to say something?
	I was just laughing.
	It was just a funny way to put it.
	Don't be short.
	Obviously, it's a joke.
	Like, guys, can't just not be short, but yeah.
	Okay.
	Wait, pull it back up, Eric.
	Okay, be funny.
	Funny guys are important to me.
	It's very important that you're funny.
	And if you can't match my sense of humor, I...
	I want to ask the girls here.
	What percentage of men that you meet or what percentage of men do you think are funny?
	Go ahead.
	A lot of them.
	A lot of percentage.
	Percentage.
	You know what?
	I'm going to be nice.
	I'm going to like 60.
	60% of the men are funny.
	Okay.
	That I've met, yeah.
	A lot of the guys that I know are funny.
	All right.
	T 70%?
	Oh, wow.
	Okay, that's generous.
	Okay.
	Yeah, 75.
	30.
	30.
	I'd say like half.
	Oh, wow.
	Okay.
	I put that.
	Okay, anyways.
	Pull it back up, Eric.
	Next.
	All right.
	And I think that's the end of her hinge.
	Next one?
	No, there's.
	Oh, there's more.
	My therapist would say I need to resolve issues with my father really quick.
	We mentioned that at the beginning of the show.
	Give us like a 30-second breakdown of what you mean by that.
	We don't fuck with Robert.
	No, no.
	Robert is not a good person.
	We don't like Robert.
	That's all I'm going to say.
	Okay.
	Do you think it's any chance of reconciliation or that ship has hailed?
	He's a very stubborn guy, and he has his own issues to resolve.
	So sorry.
	Until that happens.
	Sure.
	Eric, can you pull it back up?
	Next.
	Okay, next.
	And you have 24 pending matches.
	That's as of like literally when we took the screenshot before the show.
	Because I told you I went on a little hinge binge last night, and I was just like, no, Nice.
	Nice.
	Okay.
	Let's do the next one, Eric.
	We can go ahead and pull it up.
	All right.
	This is Maya's Tinder.
	It's basically pretty much the same, but her Tinder, and then she says, I will make you a sandwich in her Insta.
	That gets a lot of feedback.
	The sandwich thing always gets feedback for some reason.
	Okay.
	Next.
	Okay.
	That's you next to a waterfall.
	Had a great time.
	Next.
	Sophies.
	Next.
	Okay, Spider-Man for Halloween, maybe.
	All right.
	Next.
	Okay.
	Bathroom Sophie.
	Oh, is that CC?
	It is, yeah.
	Okay, next.
	Don't ask me why I recognize the woman's bathroom.
	That didn't really clean, but now it's questionable.
	Have you been in this?
	What are you doing in there, Brian?
	I went to CC a long time ago, so the men's and women's bathrooms obviously have the same architecture, whatever.
	Interesting.
	And tile work.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Next one.
	Maya.
	Okay, next.
	Next.
	You look so beautiful in all of these, by the way.
	Slave.
	I'm sure you get lots and lots of matches.
	I bet she gets a shit ton of matches.
	Asking for sandwiches.
	Okay.
	It's always a sandwich.
	Do you make a good sandwich?
	I make a mean sandwich.
	Is it a good sandwich?
	I do.
	I do.
	What about Amanda?
	Does she make a good sandwich?
	Amanda makes good sandwiches.
	Do you make good sandwiches?
	Man, they're pretty plain.
	But they're still good.
	They're still good.
	I've had a lot of them.
	At least I'm aware.
	Let's pull it back up, Eric.
	All right.
	Amanda is weirdly attracted to mustaches.
	Okay.
	Why is that?
	Top gun.
	Oh, like that.
	That's it.
	The movie?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Yeah, the remake or whatever, right?
	What about beards?
	Asking for friends.
	I don't really mind facial hair.
	Aren't you engaged?
	Pull out the ring, Brian.
	Oh, God.
	He took it off, so that explains everything.
	Amanda?
	I'm pretty young.
	Will you marry me?
	I'm going to have to say no.
	Because of the two other guys you're seeing right now.
	Is it because of his fiancé?
	It's because I barely know you.
	Come on, guys.
	I barely know you.
	I've had a crush on you for years.
	Oh, okay.
	I've had a crush on you for like two hours.
	Jesus Christ.
	Still, that doesn't tell me anything about yourself.
	He hasn't must have been a little bit more than you.
	Ask me some questions, baby girl.
	What's up?
	Ask her out on date.
	What the fuck?
	Not the baby girl.
	The real one.
	All right, let me do the shift.
	Yo, T.
	No, not me.
	Do it.
	She hates me for sure.
	Why are you homie hopping right now?
	Who told you I hate you?
	Do someone else who said that?
	I just feel like you hate me with a passion.
	Okay.
	T, will you marry me?
	No, I'm okay.
	Is it because you think about that?
	No marriage.
	What about like a relationship where you just bring me food all the time and I kind of ignore you a lot?
	About that relationship to you?
	Yeah.
	Are you down for that?
	Not a marriage, but like you just bring me food and shit.
	I don't know.
	And I just use you for back massages.
	I want massages.
	Huh?
	I want massages.
	Huh?
	I want massages.
	Oh, can you hear me?
	Oh, you want to do a new one?
	Oh, no, no, no.
	You want to be the only one getting the massages.
	No, I'll trade.
	I'm down to trade.
	You down to trade?
	A ring for a massage?
	No, no, no.
	Like massage for a massage.
	Yeah.
	Do you give a good back massage?
	I would say so.
	I don't.
	I have small hands.
	After the show, you down for a little massage exchange?
	Maybe.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm kidding, guys.
	Riz.
	That was pretty.
	That's true.
	That was pretty good, Riz.
	Yeah, Brian has Riz.
	I'm actually not upset about that.
	I thought it was.
	I'm not upset about that.
	Yo, you haven't seen nothing.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	Nah, you know.
	Okay.
	let's see here we have uh oh no sorry We have to continue with Amanda's wonderful dating profile.
	Right.
	Where she gets all the bitches, right?
	I bet you get, Amanda, you're popular.
	Come on, you get all the bitches.
	Amanda has Riz.
	If she's going to tell you anything else, she's lying.
	Amanda has Riz.
	Amanda has Riz.
	I guess.
	Do you have Riz, though?
	I don't know.
	Oh, my God.
	I don't know if I do.
	Tell him the, what's the one Riz where we use?
	The Riz.
	It's like the, like, not the Rizzler.
	What is it?
	Can I get the full definition of Riz?
	Because I still don't fully understand it.
	It's a fake game.
	He's got game.
	He's got Riz.
	Cool.
	A little slow there.
	I just didn't.
	Oh, my God.
	The Rizard of Oz.
	The Rizzler.
	The Rizard of Oz.
	The Rizzler.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	The Rizzler from Sizzler.
	Don't eat at Sizzler, by the way, guys.
	That food stock shit.
	And I'm never getting a sponsorship from Sizzler.
	Did they go bankrupt?
	Okay.
	Let's pull back up the dating app review.
	Okay, weirdly attracted to mustaches.
	Cool, next.
	Wait, hold on.
	Shit, can you go back to it, Eric?
	Yeah.
	I had a question about that photo.
	My photo?
	That photo.
	How drunk are you in this photo?
	I'm not drunk.
	I'm actually sunburnt.
	Oh.
	Yeah.
	I thought you had a little glow going on.
	No.
	No.
	See, that's such a cute photo.
	You guys have the July.
	I know, don't we?
	Okay, next.
	Okay, 18, 5, 3.
	Yeah, you're kind of too tall for me, Amanda.
	I'm sorry.
	Sorry.
	You giant Amazon woman.
	Okay.
	What's the shirt say?
	It says make boys cry.
	Yo, what the fuck?
	Yo, I should have won that on the show.
	Yo, I should have.
	It would have made a lot of people mad.
	Hold on.
	What do I got here?
	10 seconds later.
	Make boys cry.
	It's easy.
	Is that what the shirt?
	That's what the shirt says, right?
	Yeah.
	By the way, pull it back up for a sec, Eric.
	Bro, you got to clean your fucking vanity.
	What the fuck?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Amanda, get your shit out.
	Don't look at that.
	Don't look at that.
	Yo, are you guys roommates, housemates?
	That's not our house.
	No.
	Oh.
	This is back in my house.
	With your parents.
	We have to get out of here.
	Even worse.
	Yo, clean up your shit.
	What is that?
	What's that?
	7-Eleven cup?
	What is that?
	No, it's Chick-fil-A.
	It's a Chick-fil-A cup.
	Bro, you're leaving that shit in the kitchen, the bathroom, man.
	What do you like?
	You're drunk after a night out and you're just like puking in your life, drinking your Chick-fil-A.
	I want to ask why you think I was drunk.
	Why did you think I was drunk the first time?
	I don't.
	I don't know.
	Don't worry about it.
	Okay, so your shirt says, what is it?
	Make boys.
	I can't.
	Sorry, I can't.
	What does it say?
	Make boys cry.
	Make boys cry.
	Why?
	I just thought it was just a funny joke.
	What do you think of men?
	What do I think of men?
	Yeah.
	Like, what do you mean?
	In general, what do you think of men?
	I don't know how to answer that.
	You have a shirt.
	You have a shirt that says make boys.
	It's a joke.
	It's a joke.
	I don't actually want to make them cry, obviously.
	I mean, to some degree, though, if you're looking at it too literally, like, I, like, I don't know.
	I just, it's just a shirt.
	Well, I mean, welcome to a man's shirt.
	What about your anime shirt?
	Welcome to a man's world.
	We tend to view things quite literally, but what about the anime shirt?
	How's that?
	You're kind of deflecting there by bringing up the anime shirt.
	And the anime shirt doesn't say make women cry, but so it's a joke?
	Yes, it's a joke.
	It's just a joke.
	I can confirm Amanda does not make boys cry for fun.
	I can confirm that.
	But I mean, what would compel you to wear something?
	It's just a cute fucking t-shirt, Brian.
	Like, I would like to wear it.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Have you ever worn that to school?
	No.
	Okay.
	I haven't.
	Have you worn it in public?
	I think like once, but I literally don't even remember when.
	Well, in any case, you've taken a photo and it's either on your Instagram or it's on your dating profile.
	That's true.
	I want to ask the girls a question.
	If you saw a man wearing a shirt that read, I like to make women cry, would you not view that as misogynistic?
	Probably.
	Would you stay away from that guy?
	Probably.
	Honestly, like, if you take it as stay away, like, okay, then stay away.
	It's not a win-win type of shirt.
	Like, shoot, they stay away from you and you have a cute top?
	Like, okay.
	Bro, that's a big, hold on, hold on.
	Maybe.
	maybe a win is a win a win is a win a win is a win a win is a win a win is a win why is it why is it a good thing for like all guys to stay away from you Girl, it's not that serious.
	It's just like...
	It's like, okay, like, you don't want to pick a match with me almost.
	Like, it's okay to joke or shit.
	I shirt.
	That's another problem.
	Whatever.
	Your position may be that it's a joke, but I guess like the way I'm trying to frame this is if a guy wore a shirt that said, I like to make women cry, I don't think a lot of women would think that's funny.
	Oh, we said boys, not men.
	But I'm giving you the exact mirror opposite.
	Right, but I'm just saying, like, women, girls, like, so it's okay when women wear something like that, but it's not okay if men wear something like that.
	I was just talking about the wording.
	Like, it says make boys cry, not make boys.
	Like if you're gonna cry like oh so you it's better to make children cry Yes, that's even worse.
	Oh, gosh.
	I think this conversation's already dead.
	Like, people already are going to see it, like, either from my perspective or your perspective.
	I'm trying to get to the bottom of this.
	So would you, and I want you guys to answer honestly, if you saw a guy wearing a shirt that says, I like to make women cry.
	I like to make girls cry.
	Obviously, I know we're talking about adults here.
	You wouldn't, like, that wouldn't make you raise an eyebrow.
	It would.
	I'd raise an eyebrow, but I'm aware.
	Most women would not take that as a joke.
	Okay, well, then if you don't take her shirt as a joke, you don't take it as a joke.
	Boohoo.
	Sorry.
	It's a cute t-shirt.
	I don't know what else to say.
	But here's the difference.
	It's okay to like wear shit like that that's like basically man-hating, but it would never be okay to wear that.
	You roll your eyes, but here, roll your eyes again so the camera picks it up.
	Do the eye rolling.
	Oh, shit.
	Michael, thank you, man.
	Michael Wyndham super chatted $100.
	Love you, Tara.
	Baby girl.
	Keep Brian and Tara to your future podcasts for free money.
	Always bored.
	God bless America Free Top G. Yo, Michael, thank you for the big $100 super chat.
	Really appreciate your support, man.
	Thank you so much for your patronage.
	Means the world.
	I think this is, I believe this is your first time super chatting during the show.
	So thank you so much, man.
	Appreciate it.
	I'm not going to let you off the hook yet.
	So would you take an issue with a guy who wore a shirt that said, I like to make women cry?
	Or I make women?
	I don't exactly remember the exact phrase.
	I'm self-aware of that.
	And I'm self-aware that the shirt is toxic.
	And like, I'm already on the app, you know?
	Like, I'm already talking to multiple guys.
	Like, I'm like, I don't know.
	Like, the app, like, you're already talking to multiple guys.
	You're seeing multiple profiles, I guess, with different pictures.
	So, like, I don't know.
	Like, you can obviously, obviously tell, like, I'm not loyal to anyone but myself in that moment because I'm just in the market, you know?
	Like.
	Well, I'm not asking if you're loyal to anybody.
	I'm asking you specifically about the shirt.
	I think what Brian's getting at is, I mean, how I see it is just, even if it wasn't a men thing, even if it was just like make blondes cry, like, make brunettes cry.
	Like, but that's also the same thing as, like, blondes have fun.
	Blondes do everything more or like have more fun.
	More blondes have more fun.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, this is all just like.
	I just don't think it's cute to be like, I don't know.
	I feel like it's become like cute to be mean or cute to become toxic.
	Like, it's like quirky to be toxic against men.
	Like, it's quirky to hate men.
	It's like quirky to be a bitch and like do whatever you want and say whatever you want.
	It's quirky to make boys cry.
	It's quirky cute.
	And I, like, I don't know.
	I just.
	It's not that deep.
	I, like, swear, like, it's not, I just.
	It's a t-shirt.
	It just matched.
	It was red and red.
	This is an attack on you.
	I don't think you're a bad person.
	Sorry.
	I didn't mean that at all.
	I think I didn't want to mean for it to come across that way.
	That's by bad.
	I think it's more just, it's crazy to think that there's like fashion statements that are romanticizing just because it's a cover.
	Like the same brand also has a t-shirt that says like a bunch of like explicit like sex shit on it or like more like worse stuff.
	We're not talking about that.
	It's irrelevant.
	It's a t-shirt.
	That's irrelevant.
	It's a t-shirt.
	It's literally just a t-shirt.
	It's also the same thing as like dolphs.
	Like I love dolphs.
	That's different.
	Like whatever.
	It's still like it's still a title.
	Like whatever.
	Okay.
	See, you're tired of this too.
	No, no, I'm happy to engage in this.
	So, okay.
	Here's, if you replace the word man with another group, and it's either, let's say it becomes sexist or racist, it's probably wrong.
	Yeah.
	I like to make X group cry.
	Okay, I like to make, I don't want this to get clipped, so I'm trying to like scape around it.
	I like to make X ethnic group cry, racist or not.
	Well, if you're specifying gender, yeah.
	Wait.
	Oh, I mean, not gender.
	I mean ethnicity.
	Sorry.
	I blank.
	But you've specified the gender.
	I was thinking about earlier.
	What were you thinking about?
	The whole thing about...
	The t-shirt.
	Yeah.
	No, that's what I'm talking about.
	Explain it again.
	Look, explain what?
	Like what you just said again.
	Okay, your shirt says, what is it?
	Make boys cry.
	What is it?
	What does it say?
	Make boys cry.
	Make boys cry.
	I'm saying if a guy were to wear a shirt that says make women cry, it would not be appropriate.
	I guess it wouldn't, but that's also like why I haven't worn the shirt like since that picture.
	Like I haven't worn it.
	Yeah, I don't think it's like the people that wear it are endorsing like bullying people, but it's just, it's just, I mean, yeah, and this doesn't really apply because it's not like you're, but it's just, you know, it's it, it shows like it, it shows like a certain amount of like someone's character or like values, at least a little bit, I feel like.
	So it doesn't super apply if you're not, if you're not wanting good relationships with the opposite sex.
	But I feel like if you do want a good relationship with the opposite sex, you probably shouldn't start by like, send me the link to the shirt later.
	I want to get one.
	Send me a little bit of a shit.
	No, what the fuck?
	Hold on, repeat that, Sydney.
	It's just a t-shirt. Repeat it.
	I was just saying, send the link of the t-shirt.
	Like, I see the brand.
	That's fucking shocking.
	That's fucking shocking.
	It's literally a t-shirt.
	Honestly, Sydney, that's abhorrent.
	That's a t-shirt.
	Yeah, it literally is.
	Do you disagree?
	I don't think it's that big of a deal.
	That's abhorrent, Sydney.
	That I've just communicated to you how I think it's wrong, and you're like doubling down on.
	I see how you think it's wrong.
	I'm a back you up, girl, sisterhood.
	I'm a buy a t-shirt that says, I want to make men cry.
	That's so disgusting.
	This is, the point I'm trying to get at is hatred of men is basically fully accepted in society.
	Dude, shut up.
	No, I see what he's saying, though.
	Like, I see what you're saying with the whole hatred of men thing, but it's like...
	Eric, I'm not talking to you.
	No, I'm saying, I was switched to camera and you switched to that.
	Oh, okay.
	I see what you're saying with the hatred of men thing, but I'm like, I don't know.
	I just see it as like a silly t-shirt.
	If it's different for you, absolutely.
	Like, I get that.
	If it's a different, like, stance for you, and I see what you're saying with, like, the whole, like, race and, like, ethnicity group thing.
	Like, I see that stance, but I don't know.
	I don't know, but honestly, like, I just see it as like a silly t-shirt.
	Like, it's a brand that's in LA.
	Are we supposed to respect people's feelings?
	So even if we don't intend something to come across a certain way, if it affects someone a certain way, aren't we supposed to...
	Okay, look, let me just be blunt.
	For a lot of men, if they see something like that, if I see something like that, I assume that you hold contempt for men.
	That's my first impression.
	Whether that's true or not, you say it's a joke.
	However, like, that's the impression a lot of men are going to get.
	They're going to think you're a raging feminist.
	You hate men, you have disdain for men.
	Do you?
	I guess, I guess that's true.
	Like, maybe, like, after this, I like, yeah, like, I agree with what you were saying, like, how you were trying to explain from your situation on, like, how you might see this.
	And, like, I think that's true also, because I'm, you know, I'm obviously going to be biased in my own opinion, but like, I think just talking about it, I think, yeah, maybe, maybe I should just not wear this shirt and take it down and burn it, you know.
	But, like, I get where you're coming from, though, you know, like, but that wasn't my intention.
	Like, my first thought was, like, oh, like, that's a cute shirt.
	Like, I like it.
	Why not?
	It's cheap.
	And, like, I apologize if that, like, yeah, like, rubbed off that the wrong way.
	Like, I didn't realize the message this puts out.
	I didn't realize, but well, it, it, I, I think it will turn men off, first off, if they see that.
	And I'm just kind of trying to point out, like, the same shirt, if a man wore it, it just, it would not fly.
	You're right.
	Like, if I, if I had that photo of me wearing a shirt saying, I like to make women cry on a dating app, one, I'd probably get mass reported and banned from, was it Hinge or Tinder?
	I don't know which one.
	Was that on Hinge?
	It's also like the shirts that say, like, I heart melts.
	Yo, that's totally different, Sydney.
	Okay.
	Can I ask something really quickly?
	Saying you love someone is different than saying, I want to make them cry.
	Like, go ahead.
	Amanda, have any men said anything about that shirt on Hinge, or do they usually reply to like something else?
	They usually like it.
	Okay.
	But I don't know if they like it.
	They like, you know, on Hinge.
	The men, they want to sleep with you.
	Right.
	Congratulations.
	You've just met a man who's not trying to fuck you.
	Right.
	You're looking at him right now.
	Although, I did.
	Just try to propose.
	I did propose to her.
	So, however, here's the thing: and this applies to all the women.
	Men will overlook certain things you say because they don't want to potentially impact their chance of sleeping with you.
	Men will overlook a lot.
	Like if you put out a certain term, they're not going to check you.
	So, and men would, and you guys probably agree with this following statement: men will lie to sleep with you.
	Yeah, totally.
	Yeah.
	So, a lot of men, they're not going to start off a conversation how I've just started off with you, where I'm like, I'm grilling you right now, right?
	I'm grilling you.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	But I'm doing this.
	Like, my recommendation to you is honestly, I wouldn't wear, I wouldn't wear the shirt again.
	I see where you're coming from.
	That would be my recommendation.
	I see where you're coming from, honestly.
	You know, so yeah.
	Hey, I'll burn it.
	I'll burn it for you if you want.
	Bring it to the circle.
	I can bring it.
	You want to do round two?
	Yeah.
	You'll bring it.
	We'll burn the shirt.
	We'll burn it.
	Yeah, I get it.
	I've done one good thing in this world.
	You'll bring the shirt.
	We'll burn it on the show.
	The viewers will love it.
	Like, yeah, I mean, I guess you could just call me young, you know, and I'm still not thinking about it.
	And I could see the message it can portray as.
	Yeah, and I want to commend you for being open-minded to my feedback and criticism, and that you are open to what I mean, whether it's just you're placating me or not, that you're open to because I don't think like one thing I dislike in this political climate is if someone says the one wrong thing or they do make one mistake, that there's no redemption.
	I think people should have an opportunity if they do something wrong that, hey, where's forgiveness?
	Where's how do we move forward?
	Because if we just, someone says one thing bad one time, should they be expelled from society and not cancel, like lose their job and all this stuff?
	No, I think if someone puts in an effort to attempt to correct something, then and it seems like perhaps it, and I and I don't think it's necessarily your fault because there is 100% a narrative in society that especially,
	I mean, you're in college, that I mean, I don't want to dive too deep into like all the feminist stuff, but basically, like to some degree in society, contempt and hatred towards men is more accepted and it's not checked.
	And you see these narratives a lot, and there's certain indoctrination that occurs in universities and in social media and in the traditional media too.
	So I anyways, let's continue.
	Back to the dating app.
	Go ahead, Eric.
	And then, guys, get your last minute super chats in.
	We're going to wrap here pretty soon.
	Eric, how long has that been up?
	Did he send that twice?
	Anyways, whatever.
	Okay.
	All right, next.
	All right, Amanda, she likes Red Bull.
	Sleeping for hours in random positions.
	I'm jealous of you, Amanda.
	Okay.
	Sleeping for hours in random positions.
	Like, what's a random position?
	So weird.
	Yeah, I just fall asleep really weird.
	And like, everyone, like, our roommates, they like to take pictures of me.
	Like, and I just look like a broken rag doll in like every picture.
	So.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Next one, Eric.
	That's it.
	That's it?
	Really?
	No, there's got to be more.
	Really?
	Okay.
	Was that it, or were there more?
	No, I think there was more, but.
	Where are they?
	Here, let me do some.
	Oh, okay.
	Yep, next.
	Okay.
	Next one.
	Oh, that's a cute one.
	Yeah, that's it.
	By the way, and I Whatever, okay Here we have.
	Yo, Mike Davis, the only reason girls want to break up in person is so they can snatch one more meal on your dime.
	I think this is directed towards you.
	Oh, we never finished on that, yeah.
	No, no.
	I actually, the same guy that I was like in a three-month relationship with, I actually asked for closure.
	I'm the type of person that needs an answer so I can move on.
	Oh, Pie Ferrer super chatted $50.
	Yo, at Final 2K and Brian, I aimed sharing Tram.
	I'm trying to massage her back until her skin sings songs that her lips don't even know the words to.
	Tram going to end up having me writing poetry about her beauty.
	Your response.
	Oh, appreciate a compliment.
	Even though it was kind of weird, but.
	Thank you.
	You don't like weird compliments?
	You're not a fan of weird compliments?
	Oh, not really.
	Tram, you have really nice clavicles.
	Just thought you should know.
	They're like really dope.
	They're like sick.
	They're like sick, bro.
	M. Martin super chatted $50.
	No problem, bro.
	Amanda, have Maya wear the make boys cry shirts on the plane.
	I couldn't care less.
	Tara, please don't fight with Maya on the plane ride over.
	Tram, you seem to be low-key, so keep the peace.
	Yeah, he's flying you guys.
	Where did he say Texas?
	I think it was Texas.
	Yes, that same guy again.
	Yes, that guy again.
	All right, we'll just keep it moving here with the super chats here.
	He's funny.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, just send a text, guys.
	Two years, just a text.
	It's good.
	Super.
	Seven years married.
	Text.
	Do it.
	Okay.
	Tomo J, thank you for the New Zealand.
	Should I do this in the New Zealand Akiwi accent?
	Most girls wish they could get a guy.
	Ah, fuck.
	Fuck it.
	Okay.
	Who would do that?
	And you want cuddling and the dude, a Marine chat doesn't hate any of you.
	We want to help bet on him.
	What?
	This is for you.
	Oh, I'm right.
	And the tutor marine chat.
	Okay, moving on.
	Tomo, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Raul Perez Maya, thank you for the 20.
	Here, let's have T read this one.
	What are you...
	What are you doing is keeping him on the hook.
	The man is still holding.
	What the fuck is this?
	The man is still holding out hope that you can mend the relationship with each other, not doing him any favors by continuing to entertain him.
	So why do you keep him around?
	I'm not, though.
	Like, we already went over that.
	Like, I haven't sent anything back.
	All right, Flan Life, thank you for Merci Bucoup Le Canadian 20.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Don't leave the man on while he's sending you letters and shit.
	Don't hook up with him anymore while he's clearly in love with you.
	Send a clear message to him.
	It's messed up.
	Your response?
	Like I said, like the hooking up was like a while ago.
	And then we already addressed this a couple times.
	I haven't been sending him anything.
	He's just keeps sending them at his own free will and I can't do anything about that.
	Did this come through as a TTS?
	No, that's how I started.
	Yeah.
	Yo, thank you for the 5,800 yen.
	The TTS trigger is 50 USD, 50 US dollars.
	So you'll have to do it.
	Huh?
	How much is that?
	I have no idea.
	You're going to have to do the conversion.
	So if you want it to come through as TTS, I know YouTube has like the preset numbers, but if you're on desktop, you can adjust it.
	It's just the way Streamlabs works.
	It has to be the converted amount.
	I have a theory in my actually here.
	Maya, can you read this?
	Sure.
	I have a theory in mind.
	Men's are the apple, there are bad and good apple, while women is snake where she will feed on everything on the apple tree.
	Example, birds laying on the tree and will leave if there are no more prey.
	Hey, Nero, thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, Flan Life, Canadian 25.
	Thank you, man.
	Merci Buku, Brian's a Weeb.
	This was after the anime shirt.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Do you want to put it back on, by the way?
	Oh, shit.
	You don't.
	Okay.
	I can.
	Sorry, excuse me.
	Amanda, can you read this one?
	I'm 5'8.
	If a girl is taller than me, I know I have no chance.
	And with regards with Bumble, the basic openers are very common.
	Then I have to drive the combo.
	Yeah, I mean, I think a lot of guys just know.
	I mean, for example, I've been on a date with a girl who is 6'2.
	And like, she was like, oh, it's not a big deal.
	I don't really care about height.
	But like, I just, I don't know.
	My experience has been my success rate with tall women is far lower than it is with women who are shorter than me.
	So maybe it's just, you know, my pool has not been high enough.
	But my determination has been like my success rate with taller women is much lower.
	So and I have no problem dating a woman who's taller than me.
	No, no problem whatsoever.
	Hold on, let me wait until that goes away.
	While we do that, while we wait till that passes, and I'll continue on with Soup Chats here, controversial dating opinion.
	You went, right?
	I said mine.
	Tara, you said yours, right?
	Did you guys want to?
	I don't really have a controversial one, I don't think.
	That's totally fine if you don't have one.
	I have a daughter one.
	Tea dizzle?
	I have a bottle.
	T-dizzle.
	I know you guys.
	Bro, you be slashing tires and shit.
	What's up?
	Um, controversial topic of relationships.
	Yo, I think I've got you figured out.
	What?
	What is it?
	You want a guy to be obsessed with you.
	Yes or confirm or deny?
	Confirm.
	Obsessed.
	Right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that was it.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	I thought you're going to grill me or something.
	Should I?
	Oh, you know what?
	I saw one of her TikToks.
	Should we pull it up?
	Let's pull it.
	Oh, my God.
	Yeah, pull it up, Eric.
	It's one of the videos.
	Let's pull up one of her TikToks.
	Yeah, go for it.
	Oh, my God.
	I don't understand why people get mad that you don't show up to things or you don't reply back in a timely manner.
	Like, I'm an adult.
	We should be having busy schedules.
	We should be living our lives and having a social life, balancing work, gym, and all that should be hard enough as an adult.
	And I don't understand why people get so mad that you don't show up to their birthday or you like, you know, have all the time in the world to text and reply.
	Like, what is there to be mad about?
	I don't understand.
	Sorry, I am not on my phone all day.
	Sorry that I can't, like, make time for you.
	Like, there will always be a next time.
	Like, I don't understand what's a big deal.
	Yo, tram, toxic.
	Toxic?
	Toxic AF?
	Toxic AF.
	No, I don't think that's toxic.
	I'm not on my phone all day.
	I'm working.
	I have a life.
	Just because I'm not, like, you know, texting you or, like, you know.
	So did you have a situation where someone got upset?
	Yeah, they're just sensitive.
	And I'm like, I have to drop you because I'm just like, I don't know.
	I didn't show up to my friend.
	This is son's birthday, and she got mad.
	But then, I don't know, just I'm going through some shit too with my personal life.
	And there are times when I just don't want to show up in public.
	Just like, you know.
	What are you going through?
	I mean, I don't want to talk about that here.
	Okay.
	Maybe afterwards, but.
	Sure, we'll talk afterwards while you're giving me a back massage.
	Okay.
	So, does anyone have a reaction to the video thoughts?
	No, it's just you.
	Did I just put you on blast, by the way?
	Did I?
	Was that?
	Am I abusing chat?
	Is that?
	I don't know.
	I think everything she said was like reasonable.
	Like, especially as we grow up more, like, we're busy.
	Like, stuff happens.
	Life happens.
	Life gets in the way.
	Like, it's not totally unreasonable to be busy.
	Well, maybe, and maybe this isn't what you meant because it was slightly vague.
	But for example, like in a romantic sense, let's say I'm texting a girl and like, and maybe you guys experience that this, excuse me, experience this with men where like they just don't answer.
	Or maybe you've heard of like people who will like, this is, this always bothers me, but they'll say, I replied in my head, but I forgot to respond.
	Have you ever heard that?
	Yeah.
	So like, maybe that's the way I'm taking it.
	Or just like people who are just really forgetful in terms of communication.
	And you mentioned, you said you're an adult, you're very busy.
	But I mean, wouldn't you say that like someone who's an adult also they Communicate with people that are trying to communicate with them, you know?
	Not that I don't communicate, I do, but if they're still mad, then that's on them.
	And what, by the way, I it doesn't really matter.
	Why what happened with the seat booster?
	Did I get no, but did I then grab it because it was on the table?
	Oh, okay.
	We should.
	Well, it's obviously too late now, but I mean, okay.
	Um, so let's see here.
	Uh, we have uh, which one do we have?
	Did we do this one?
	We did that one, the flowers one we didn't do yet, no.
	Huh?
	I thought, yeah, we didn't do that one.
	We didn't do this one, go back.
	The flowers one we didn't do.
	Oh, this one, yeah, we didn't do this one.
	Yo, Tom O'J, thank you for the New Zealand 20.
	Appreciate it.
	Coming fact: first flowers a man gets, I don't want yet because it's when he is oh, that you want.
	Is this like a sentence completion?
	No, it's like when he's like it's when he's dead, yeah, yeah, that's the first time.
	That is hauntingly sad.
	Okay, Dave Auth, Canadian $20.
	Yeah, the first time a guy will ever get flowers is when he's dead.
	Since you've identified the girl who's your type, maybe you should close it with a whiff of her armpit, Murlock sound.
	Here, I got you.
	I mean, first off, that was an OnlyFans girl who paid me $500 because she smelled and she wanted me to smell her, so.
	So, I mean, do any of you want to drop $500?
	I guess no.
	T-Dizzle?
	Okay, all right.
	Is that how much you made last time?
	Yeah, she paid me $500 to smell her.
	Wow.
	She had a certain scent.
	Yo, 20.
	Wait, this is no, this is pounds.
	Excuse me, British pounds.
	Thank you.
	Tara, why don't you read this one?
	What a treat to wake up to here in the UK, Brian.
	I left a six-figure corporate job to be a stay-at-home fiancé/slash dog mom and take care of my man.
	What does the girls think take care of entails?
	And would they do it?
	Please ignore the cringe accent.
	Take care of my man.
	Sure.
	We'll go around the table really quick.
	Go ahead.
	I imagine that just means like taking care of the house, making sure he like eats.
	I don't know what else, but just 50s housewife shit.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	That kind of thing.
	Sure.
	I'm not really understanding the question.
	Or is it a class?
	What does it mean to you to take care of your man?
	Take care financially or like emotionally?
	Or everything?
	Well, she was saying because she's like a stay-at-home dog mom or something.
	So I'm assuming that means like he's taking care of like financials.
	Okay, so like emotionally, I would take care in a way that I will make you feel like you're coming to a home every day.
	I'm bringing you peace, love, and joy, and just a stress-free, you know, vibe, I guess.
	Okay.
	Yeah, just be able to take my husband emotionally, mentally, physically, you know?
	Like, just be there for him and make sure that like when he comes back home, that he's like, you know, able to like relax if I'm like the one staying at home.
	If this were, if this were the example.
	Yeah.
	Kind of found the same ballpark.
	The only thing I would add is using that time to also take care of myself, making sure I'm healthy, fit, looking nice, and praying and meditating for our mutual peace and joy.
	Okay, good times.
	All right, so let's see here.
	We have just a few more super chats before we do that.
	So nobody else had a controversial dating take that they wanted to share.
	Is that correct?
	All right, so let's talk briefly about body count and wrap up the show.
	Should body count matter?
	Yes or no?
	Are we talking about both ways or just for guys saying, oh, your body count matters, but mine doesn't?
	Because that seems to be the typical way that it is.
	Sure, we'll put it, we'll take it that way.
	We'll say, well, let's not assume that the guy necessarily has a high body count, but let's just say men's caring of a woman's body count.
	Do you object to that?
	I think it's dumb both ways.
	Like, I don't understand why that would matter.
	Like, I know this one guy that has, like, he went from 50 to 70 bodies in the span of, like, a month.
	And, like, he's, he, like, tries to shame other girls for it.
	And I'm, like, for having like six.
	And I'm like, what?
	Like, that doesn't make any sense.
	So I think it's just silly to do it either way.
	Like, I don't really think it's a big deal.
	And I don't think people should be tripping about it as much as they do.
	Posture check.
	Sorry.
	There you go.
	Thank you.
	I think.
	One eternity later.
	Oh, okay.
	I think he has every right to like ask a no, but um, does that matter?
	I think it does matter.
	But then again, it doesn't.
	So it's like kind of 50-50, I guess.
	But I understand, like, from a guy's perspective, why it does matter, because he doesn't want to be, like, talking or being with a girl that's like tossed around and like, you know, fucked his friends before you.
	And that's embarrassing.
	So I get that.
	So I would lean more towards the, yes, it does matter.
	I mean, if it matters to my significant other, then it matters to me, I'd say.
	No, as long as you're like safe and clean and healthy.
	I would say that your body count and sexual behavior in general is just a good reflection of your dating intention.
	So if you're looking for someone who, because you want to be in a relationship and you want someone who wants to be in a relationship and would be a good partner, then it would matter.
	But if you're not looking for that, then I guess it probably wouldn't matter to you.
	So body count should matter, shouldn't matter.
	What do you think?
	Oh, I think body count matters 100%.
	100%.
	But you don't, correct?
	I just, I just, I don't care about a lot of things.
	So it's just like, I just do one more thing.
	It doesn't seem like a big deal.
	Okay, so if body count doesn't matter, what's your body count?
	Oh, that's like personal, though.
	Okay.
	T?
	I plead the fifth.
	You plead the fifth?
	All right, she's committed crimes.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, I'm not.
	I'm not saying my body count.
	I never share mine.
	Tara?
	I will not be sharing it, but I have shared it on the past on the podcast.
	So if you really want to know it, you've got to go increase the views of his previous videos and figure out which one it is.
	Do you know which number that one is?
	No, they have to go watch every single one of your videos to figure out which one.
	I see that.
	Okay.
	All right.
	But I mean, if body count doesn't matter, shouldn't you just be comfortable with sharing body count?
	Not on the internet where my future employers can see it.
	I don't think your future employers care about.
	You never know.
	You never know.
	They might be big fans.
	They might be big fans.
	No, well, whether they see it or not, employers don't care about it.
	I don't want my dad to stream it.
	My employers found the podcast and said something to me at one point.
	Your employer found the podcast?
	Yeah.
	No joke.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, yeah, okay.
	Yeah.
	What's your body count, Brian?
	I'm a man of God.
	I do not reveal my body count.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I see how it is.
	How about this?
	Why don't you guess?
	Wait.
	That's a good question.
	I want Amanda to go first.
	You want me to guess first?
	Yep.
	How old are you?
	33.
	33.
	Yep.
	Really?
	Thank you.
	I know my skin.
	I got a little eczema, you know.
	What's up?
	Eczema gang, we up.
	Okay.
	I'll guess four.
	Four?
	Huh?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I barely know you.
	I'm a man of God.
	I don't reveal my body count.
	What about you?
	Are you going to tell us?
	Can you tell us who's the closest?
	Don't worry about it.
	Go ahead, guess.
	I don't know.
	Like 12.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would guess 15.
	Okay, Sydney.
	Like 12 to 7.
	Seven.
	Seven.
	I say seven.
	T Dizzle.
	Oh, wait, that's her name.
	This is T. Dizzle.
	I would also guess.
	My original guess is maybe 13.
	How old are we guys?
	Are we like in the ballpark?
	Those are all some wonderful guesses.
	However, I can neither confirm nor deny any of your guesses.
	Boom.
	Come on.
	If I said mine, would you say yours?
	What about you guess ours?
	No.
	Oh, I like that.
	Just kidding.
	I like that.
	Wait, I'm not going to say anything.
	No, it's a good one.
	Oh, you're not going to say?
	No.
	All right, Tara.
	Yeah, you shoot around and guess.
	I don't even remember.
	You said it before.
	You were probably capping, though.
	11, 20, 15, 70.
	70?
	7-0.
	Oh.
	I got 22.
	I don't.
	30.
	Am I close?
	I just made a little stoic face.
	I'm not confirming nor denying anything.
	That's the real number.
	Imagine.
	No, That's literally insane.
	Literally.
	I mean, you also, like, I'm 18.
	Like, I don't have time to.
	Come on.
	Okay, let me ask this question.
	Do you know any girlfriends?
	Like, maybe you have an 18, 19-year-old girlfriend.
	She's got a pretty high body count.
	We're talking 20, 30, 40.
	Honestly, no.
	Really?
	Come on.
	Not that I know.
	Like, my friends, I haven't, but even if they did, like, I wouldn't judge them for that.
	Like, that's their business.
	And Tara, what about you?
	What was the question?
	Do you know any girls that have really high body counts?
	Honestly, I don't think girls.
	I haven't talked about body count numbers that often with girlfriends, but I have talked about it with like my closest ones.
	But I wouldn't say any honestly were like higher than 15.
	Like that was like probably the highest.
	I would say.
	And that's for people like 22.
	So.
	Okay.
	Yeah, no, not that.
	I mean, I'm sure they're out there.
	I just like of the types of girls that I'm close enough with that we would talk about that, none of them happen to be that type.
	How about this?
	You don't have to give a number, but can you give us a range?
	Like less than five?
	Way less than 70 for sure.
	10 to 20?
	Yeah.
	I'm not gonna say anything.
	Less than five?
	Less than five.
	Yep.
	Less than three?
	Not saying more.
	Okay, it's four and a half.
	All right.
	Okay, so let's finish up these two chats, then we're gonna wrap here.
	All right.
	Monthly oh wait, no, this one, my bad.
	Keegan Bichel.
	I miss guys, take a guess at how he pronounces his last name.
	Bichel.
	Because I accidentally called him Bitchell.
	Bitchel.
	Oh, sorry.
	I'm sorry, Keegan.
	I'm very sorry.
	The Wallabies are my favorite rugby team.
	Actually.
	Wait, are they?
	Actually, you know, yo, Keegan, do you know Quade Cooper?
	Fucking Chad legend, rugby player.
	Anyways, thank you for the Australian 31, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Much love to you.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm being ridiculous.
	Okay.
	Brian, you've sent guys nudes.
	Sidney Sloan growing on me.
	The rest of the girls definitely have an interesting perspective.
	Wish we had girls with an open outlook like Tara in Aussie.
	No, thank you.
	No, thank you.
	No acknowledgement.
	Thank you to everyone.
	No acknowledgement.
	Shouting me out in the comments.
	We appreciate your support.
	Yo, Pharaoh, thank you for the 20.
	Brian, not homie.
	Tram and I got plants.
	She's going to be on a flight to Texas.
	He doesn't give up, huh?
	He is persistent.
	I like that you're persistent.
	I'll give you that.
	Does he need more persistence, you think?
	Don't guess.
	A little more persistent.
	Don't guess it, bro.
	Don't drag it on.
	Don't.
	Don't drag this on.
	All right.
	Keegan Bichel, Merci Buku, for the Australian 31.
	I take back my sick Sydney statement.
	Sydney, your response.
	I mean, fair enough, man.
	Like, I was heated for a minute, so whatever floats your boat.
	But thanks for spelling my name right, at least.
	Let's see.
	Amanda, can you read this one?
	Is your vision, is it hard to read?
	It's just like the microphones are in the way.
	Okay, let's have Maya do it.
	Go ahead.
	Tram, come take a flight to the next.
	Wait, sorry.
	Let's Tram do it, just since it's okay.
	Go ahead.
	Want me to read it?
	Yeah.
	Tram, come take this flight to Ohio.
	We can hit Nieman's.
	Don't just drink the water.
	Also, Maya, I've been saying the same thing about Helen Keller.
	There's many quotes about her talking about the colors.
	See, she's a fucking liar.
	She's a fucking liar.
	I literally don't give a fuck what anyone says.
	Helen Keller was a liar.
	She lied about everything.
	Would you, if you, if, oh, hold on.
	M. Martin, super chatted.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Your beauty and virtue are what men value you for.
	The more partners a woman has, the less she values herself.
	Wealthy people stay wealthy because they don't aimlessly give their wealth away to just anyone.
	Yo, Martin, thank you for the super chat.
	If Helen Keller was here right now, what would you do to her?
	Slam her on this table and beat her to death.
	Maybe not to death, but I would beat her ass for being a liar.
	She was a liar.
	I would whoop her ass a thousand percent.
	No hesitation.
	I hate Helen Keller.
	Helen Keller's pretty scrappy.
	She might fucking.
	I really wish I could bring her back so I could fucking kick her ass.
	Like, I hate Helen Keller.
	I genuinely hate Helen Keller.
	Have you talked to your therapist about this?
	actually I have this is it's funny but it's also concerning There's plenty of other concerning things about me.
	Don't you worry.
	I feel like you didn't reveal.
	I was hoping you'd reveal some concerning things about you.
	There's a lot, but I feel like...
	The methamphetamine use?
	No, no, The other heroin?
	No, no, no.
	Oh, no.
	Oh, okay.
	Give us one.
	I don't do drugs other than weed.
	That's it.
	That's only.
	What you got?
	Give us one thing.
	Oh, shit.
	Shit.
	Uh-oh.
	Okay, keep going.
	Like, you want me to do what?
	Like, say something like what?
	Save by the super chatted 68 Canadian dollars.
	Absolutely, body count matters.
	I was 18 when I met my LW.
	I was still a virgin and she had one before me.
	I always wished she was a virgin like me.
	If she had a higher body count, I would not have been with her.
	Your response.
	By the way, you're one off from 69.
	I know.
	You're so close, David.
	The Canadian 69.
	Okay.
	I think that, especially with our generation more so, like, Tinder, oh, Tinder's definitely guilty of this.
	Like, hookup culture is definitely a lot more normalized now.
	So I guess it's kind of makes sense that someone that's, you know, been, I don't know how old that person was, but like people in their 30s, 40s, like, they're like, like, a high body count is like super like bizarre to them.
	So I guess it makes sense that like some people don't get it, but I just feel like in our generation, like, it's so much more normalized.
	To have just hookup culture in general.
	And then hookup culture entails higher body counts for people.
	And then it's just like.
	I mean, people were fucking back in the day, you know.
	That's true.
	That's true.
	But it just, like, dating apps like Tinder and Hinge, like, it just makes it so much easier and a lot more accessible.
	And sliding in DMs, like.
	They need an app for like cuddling.
	That'd be great.
	That'd be so great.
	I'm just.
	Oh, my God.
	What the fuck?
	You know what's interesting?
	The conversation about body count, like, just show of hands.
	Who here thinks hookup culture is bad?
	That's not a very enthusiastic hand rate.
	I think it's like, I don't want to say like necessarily bad, but it's not like, I don't know.
	I feel like people should just do whatever you want to do, but it's definitely in recent years because of these dating apps, just gotten a lot like, not worse.
	And the worst isn't the word that I'm looking for.
	Here's maybe another question.
	Do you think people, men and women, are happy with hookup culture?
	They might be having a good time, but I don't necessarily think that reflects whether or not they're happy with themselves or not.
	I think the top, like, you're saying, like, the top, like, five percent of men who have access to hookup culture are probably living an absolute dream.
	Such easy sex all the time, like, with beautiful girls who, like, the five beautiful girls in Isle of Vista who would honestly have sex very easily to a guy in that top bracket.
	I mean, that, I mean, that's, like, that's pretty, that's pretty great for them.
	But yeah, I, but I'm pretty, I'm pretty passionate about the fact that I think it's, it's, like, hookup culture is damaging for probably 95% of women.
	Yeah.
	I definitely think it's more damaging to women than it is to men.
	Like, like she said, and I totally agree, men are having a fucking heyday with this.
	So.
	Yeah, I agree.
	That's why I was, I'm, I'm literally, I've been considering deleting the apps.
	But wait, aren't you dating two guys right now?
	I'm not dating.
	I'm not dating though.
	Oh, sorry.
	Sleeping.
	Excuse me.
	Sleeping with two guys right now.
	It's just talking.
	It's not like it's like every single week or anything.
	And it's not like superficial where we don't talk or anything.
	Like we talk, like we talk about like our family and like what's going on with our lives.
	Like, oh, like what you've been up to.
	Like, it's not anything like that.
	You know.
	Can I ask you guys why do so?
	Do any of you guys, would you guys, any of you guys say you engage in hookup culture?
	Yeah.
	I think hookup culture, depending on the person, can be a good thing.
	Just because like I feel like some I feel like women I feel like it can be very powerful for women to be able to branch out and kind of like explore themselves in a way I don't take one second when you say branch what did you say branch out and explore is that what you said?
	Yeah I think like as women like especially explore and branch out and explore and just kind of when you say explore and branch out do you mean get run through by a bunch of dudes?
	No let me define what I'm talking about as hookup culture just so we can all be on the same page.
	Go ahead you're good.
	So like what I when I mean hookup culture what I'm like specifically referring to is casual sex with members of the opposite sex or members of whatever whatever thing you're attracting like partner you're attracted to without the without going on a formal date.
	How would I just say that?
	Like casual sex that you have that doesn't involve a formal date and do you engage in that or not?
	And if you do I want to know like why you do like what you feel like you benefit from it.
	I would just add to that you can still be hooking up someone and have casual sex with them even if you've gone on a formal date.
	Like you could go on one formal date and then fuck them that night.
	That's still a hookup culture, I would say.
	There's an extra step involved, but I mean obviously I was just bringing it to like the most baseline level because even that is by far the vast majority of like sexual encounters in college at least.
	So okay if you guys want to answer a question.
	What was the second part of the question?
	Like why it was just yeah yeah what do you feel like you gain from it if you assuming that you're gaining from it otherwise why would you do it?
	I mean, obviously I'm not like going to like all these like hundreds of men, like no no no, it's like a select few.
	But um, I don't know I don't really have a problem with and, like I said earlier, like there was that one guy that it was literally just strictly casual, like there was no, like we we've never went on a date like it was.
	It was just casual hangouts and it was like it was consistent, it was good, like why would I like, why would I not like?
	There's.
	I just really want to narrow it down.
	So it was because it was for consistent good yeah, sexual intercourse yeah, and you like were sexually pleased during those, because if you weren't, then it wasn't, and you can't say like it was good.
	So, because I don't know how to out him, but did I ever finish?
	No, but I have okay so so, so let me add, so you're engaging in something that you, you we already agreed earlier that all of us agree that hookup culture is bad.
	So you're engaging in something that you agree is bad and you're not even like that, you're not even I'm having a good time still.
	I mean, it's still like for I think, for women getting attention from a really attractive guy, even if they don't climb it.
	Well, that's an L for you, then.
	Okay, so that's what I'm getting at though, is I'm just I just want, I just like want, I just want to like.
	I just think it's helpful to acknowledge the real reasons you're behaving in any sort of way, no matter what it is for, like any person.
	So I just wasn't sure if you were like fully knew why you were doing this, and if you did know what it was, because I wanted it was good for you.
	Like that's it.
	Like just, I wanted to have sex.
	I had sex with the same person for like how many months was it?
	Does someone else want to answer like, do you want to come in?
	Um, not really no, I mean, I think it can be good.
	Okay, just one question kind of related to Tara's thing.
	Has a guy ever been able to make you climax, Tara?
	Yes.
	No.
	Never?
	Never?
	Yes.
	Wait, never, never.
	See, this is what I am getting at is I feel like young girls are told the lie.
	It's empowering to have casual sex with men.
	Tell me where, maybe that's true.
	Like, you know, I agree with Sydney here.
	Like, what I was talking about earlier, I think there's like a percentage of women who really, really enjoy sex and just enjoy sexual pleasure and being able to get it easily is like, it adds a lot to their life.
	But I feel like if young girls are told this, this, I believe, largely a lie that it's empowering to have casual sex when they're not even coming with men, tell me how, like, does that, I just don't follow that.
	How it's empowering to have sex and to have like a lot of casual sex when you're not even coming.
	Well, is it that is confusing?
	So there must be something else there.
	Well, then it's not coming.
	Well, is it, I mean, I'm not sure if it's any more or less empowering whether she climaxes.
	Right, so would you judge a guy if he didn't make you climax then?
	well I'm not sure if that's well well it's just like I don't why is the so how I look at it is as like so I'm 22 right When I was in like grade school, we were told we would dress code.
	Don't show our shoulders.
	Don't do this.
	Don't do this.
	What does that have to do with anything?
	Wait, just no, but I'm just like, and I do want to apologize.
	We are running late.
	I do want to try to end this within 10 minutes.
	That's cool.
	We can be done then.
	I'm chilling.
	I was just saying, like, I think it's empowering for women to, for anyone, to go through, like, a little bit of a hookup culture to try and explore your options, like find out what you like.
	Like, I think it's like, I think it's good because I know that that's how you find out what you like.
	That's how you find out what you don't like.
	Send the asteroid.
	Do you need sex to find out what you like?
	No, I'm not saying you do, but I'm saying.
	But I'm defining hookup culture as casual sex.
	Okay, well, I'm saying for some people, though, I think it's good.
	Because I mean, as women, like, I don't know, for everybody, like, we were just taught like a lot as women to kind of like cover up.
	And I think it can be very freeing and very empowering for some people.
	Personally, me, like, I'm celibate right now.
	Like, I'm not doing the whole hookup culture thing.
	I've been celibate since.
	Wait, how long?
	Two months.
	How about you?
	I'm going on like four.
	And I want to do like a year.
	What about you, Tara?
	How long have you been celibate?
	I'm talking to someone.
	So this afternoon?
	What?
	Was it?
	Did you hug that?
	I'm not going to comment on that.
	What about you?
	Last time you hooked up?
	No comment.
	Okay, this afternoon?
	What about you?
	Like last week.
	So yesterday?
	No, it was last week.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay.
	I mean, granted, I've also been texting this guy for like a while too.
	You've been celibate for two months?
	Yes.
	I learned a lot, to be honest.
	You what?
	I learned a lot.
	You learned a lot?
	Yeah.
	Wait, you, so you're no longer celibate?
	I've been celibate for two months.
	So you're still on the two months track.
	Okay.
	Wait, so you two said that the guys never made you come?
	No.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Rip.
	R.I.P. in the chat.
	Oh, go ahead.
	But like, I also agree with Sydney.
	I'm like, obviously, this can be taken a lot of ways, like, how you see it too.
	But like, I also see it as a way of exploring.
	And like, I'm not trying to, like, I'm not stringing like 500 guys behind me.
	I'm not like leading them on.
	I'm like, hey, we're going to go hang out this Friday.
	Like, I'm not doing that.
	Like, I am picking and choosing like who I'm interested in and like who I'm compatible with.
	And like, okay, maybe it might turn into sex.
	Like, as long as it's mutual and both of us aren't like getting hurt and both of us like are at the same page about something, like then I think it's okay.
	But like, obviously, like, the overall example of like hookup culture is bad.
	Like, I agree with that.
	I do, but, like, I'm 18.
	I'm still exploring what I like and don't like.
	And, like, I still don't know.
	Like, sure, like, I haven't even climaxed yet.
	Like, no, and I don't think that we're not trying to shame you by that.
	Yeah, well, with the whole climax thing.
	And it's getting tongue-tied here.
	It's late.
	We will wrap in about five, ten minutes, guys.
	I appreciate your patience.
	We have gone late.
	So a lot of women do report that they have difficulty climaxing with a partner.
	And I'm just curious.
	So, like, are you able to, and if you don't want to answer, that's totally fine.
	But are you able to climax by yourself?
	Yeah.
	Still experimenting.
	So, no.
	Wait, wait, you've never.
	Like, I have, but like, personally, and like, I know, like, a lot of other friends, like, they personally can't, like, climax by themselves just because they're too aware.
	You know, like, I don't know.
	That's all I got to say.
	Yeah, well, I think, I mean, on one hand, like, there's definitely women out there that it's, they struggle to climax with a partner, but some women, like, they just struggle to climax, period.
	But, um, yeah, okay.
	So, the guys just be fucking up, tea?
	I think so.
	But, like, have they at least a guy, I'm sure a guy is like given it a solid effort.
	M. Martin super chatted $50.
	Ladies, you don't realize the neurological and emotional damage occurring during these hookups.
	The weight of this fun, wolf and sheep's clothing is going to haunt you and her future long-term relationships.
	Feminism has led to you permanent dissatisfaction.
	Martin, dropping some bombs there.
	Okay.
	Do you guys agree or disagree?
	I'm kind of curious if Martin's married, and if not, when was last time?
	He hooked up.
	Okay.
	So, has a guy tried?
	Yeah, he's tried, but no luck?
	No.
	Anything?
	Toys?
	Have you tried toys?
	That's fucked.
	Have you tried toys?
	By myself?
	No, with a guy.
	Yeah.
	That doesn't work?
	That worked.
	That doesn't count.
	What about with okay, like hands?
	Not even then?
	No, I could do myself better, to be honest.
	Wait, so, okay.
	In any case, whatever.
	So what?
	Huh?
	What happened?
	Oh, wait, what do you mean?
	No, never mind.
	No, I was just.
	I was going to just move on here.
	Okay, so we have Eric.
	Can you pull up the Stream Labs donations?
	I just need to read these.
	We have a few more super chats and then we're going to wrap.
	Noah donated 20, 6'3 here, 6-4.
	We'll do the first one if you go up to the very top.
	Can you hit that X at the very top of that thing?
	Yeah, just close that out.
	6'3 here, 6'4 depends on the gas station I walk through.
	Anyways, all this talk about women liking men who are six foot and taller is a nice outside confidence boost, but they are nowhere to be found.
	Great show.
	Would love get on it and speak my mind.
	Hey, Noah, thank you for the 20 man.
	We've been getting a lot of requests from men to be on the show, so it's kind of a list at the moment.
	But if you want, DM out whatever on Instagram.
	Yo, cheeks, if you want to scroll down there for cheeks is one.
	We have women's unrealistic standards are praised upon, whereas us men, me in particular, get shit on for our four standards.
	Example, me, not fat obese, have great dental hygiene, nice and submissive.
	Men can't be chivalrous to modern women due to their entitled behavior.
	Okay.
	Do you guys have a response to cheeks?
	That sounds like no.
	Okay, let's keep it moving on here.
	Did I read this one?
	Flan Life, thank you, man.
	Brian sent her to the shadow realm.
	Repent now.
	Apparently, excuse me.
	Amanda, apparently I sent you to the shadow realm.
	My thoughts exactly.
	All right, we have Lawrence Bullock.
	Thank you for the 20 man.
	Ask each guest, are they a misandrist?
	Because are giving the vibe they are.
	I mean, so Missandrist, do you know what a misogynist is?
	Misandris is just like, you just hate men, totally.
	Yes.
	Holy shit, Martin, dude.
	Dude, thank you, man.
	I have several studies published by journals and even Forbes.
	Oh, wow.
	Impressive, Martin.
	Hey, thank you so much for the okay.
	Nice, man.
	Cool, cool, cool.
	Appreciate it.
	Was that it was a $100 soup chat, right?
	Wow, dude, Martin, thank you so much, man.
	You've been really supportive throughout the whole show.
	Your patronage, like, you've been here, I don't know, for a while.
	I see you every show, man, supporting.
	So thank you so much, man.
	Do you guys consider yourselves a misandrist?
	No.
	What does that mean?
	Man hater.
	I absolutely hate manhater.
	I hate men.
	No, I love men.
	No.
	I love good men.
	All right, Flanlife, Canadian 20.
	Thank you, man.
	Can we all say, read a passage from the good book?
	Did someone gift Eric?
	Do you know how many gifted this was?
	Was it Flanlife who gifted it?
	Flan Life gifted 20.
	Was it Flan?
	Do you know if it was Flanlife who gifted it?
	It was Flanlife, yeah?
	Yo, Andrew, thank you so much, man.
	Appreciate the support.
	All right, we have, let's see here, we got, yo, Canadian 20, thank you, man.
	Can we all say read a passage from the good book, please?
	This passage is from the Gospel of Future, chapter 1, verses 3 to 4.
	Is that like Future the Rapper?
	Measi Buku for the Canadian 20 man.
	From the streets did she emerge and to the streets she will return.
	And I say unto you, she is for the streets.
	She belongs to the streets.
	So be not weary when she must return to whence doth she came.
	Amen.
	Can I get an amen?
	What the fuck, guys?
	Come on.
	Amen.
	All right.
	Haram.
	Haram.
	All right.
	We have, let's see.
	Boom, boom, boom.
	All right.
	Yo, Keegan Bichel, Australian 30.
	Thank you, man.
	Quite as the goat.
	Very good rugby player.
	I thought you said you love the all-blacks.
	Sydney is a city in Australia.
	Would be pretty sad if I got it wrong.
	Yeah, all blacks are cool, but they're kind of like, I feel like Australian teams, the underdog.
	So the all-blacks, like the rugby is the, pretty much the national sport of New Zealand.
	It's not soccer.
	It's not foot.
	Well, football is really the only sport for, I think in Canada, they play football, but I don't know if it's, no, it's hockey for Canada, my bad.
	The U.S., it's football.
	Rugby is the major sport for NZ, so obviously it's like really big in NZ.
	Big in Australia too, but it's not the, I think, what is the primary sport in Australia?
	Is it Australian football?
	Anyways, thank you, man.
	Keegan, much appreciated.
	Quade Cooper.
	What is it?
	He has the Razzle Dazzle.
	All right, Flan Life Canadian Lowkey.
	There are sites dedicated to finding someone to cuddle with in Japan.
	Yo, Passport Bros.
	We up?
	Thank you, man.
	All right, that's it for the super chats.
	So, okay.
	Final thoughts before I wrap up the show.
	If anyone has a final thought they'd like to add before we wrap up, anybody speak now or forever hold your peace.
	Ampho, thank you for the Twitch sub.
	Appreciate it.
	Anybody, final thought?
	Tara?
	Sydney?
	Amanda Dogg?
	No.
	Oh, the only thing I want to say is that there was one super chat where they said the chat isn't out to get you.
	We just want to help or something.
	And yeah, I would, I believe, I believe that's true.
	I like to think that the audience isn't just, and like, especially those who comment, isn't just enjoying shooting down women and like making fun of them and their comments or whatever.
	I do like to think that it's because they want the people that are on to be happy and get what they want from the opposite sex.
	So in that regards, that entails like behaving and living a certain way.
	Word, word.
	Although sometimes they're not always the most you guys are just mean, but it's funny about it.
	Okay.
	Last.
	Speak now, forever, hold your peace.
	All right.
	Yo.
	Whew, long show, guys.
	We went long.
	I think I'm going to have to do some adjustments when it comes to the TTS and the super chats.
	I want to obviously come off like I'm trying to be greedy, but the super chats, and I really appreciate it.
	I don't want you guys to think that I'm unappreciative of your patronage and support because I absolutely am.
	However, and I think a lot of you in the chat will agree with me that the super chats do extend the show quite a bit.
	So I want everyone to have a voice and be able to super chat, but I might have to boost the minimum for the read and for the TTS.
	So I hope that doesn't come off like bad, guys.
	I obviously, like, I'm super appreciative that you guys want to financially support the show and of your patronage.
	But I also understand that there's some criticisms from the chat.
	And also, like, the length of the shows is getting a bit long.
	So I need to really.
	And if anyone wants to leave a comment and say, hey, here's Brian, here's how you should deal with it.
	I'm open to your feedback in the chat or in the comments, guys.
	So, a guy's never really made you come, really?
	Shit.
	God damn.
	Okay.
	Toys?
	Have you thought about toys?
	I just don't count.
	I meant like...
	No, well, I was talking to Amanda.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Do you want to get married still?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Wait, really?
	Oh, oh.
	But I meant in general.
	No, yeah, I'm proposing.
	Again.
	Again?
	Yeah, because you turned me down before, but I'm persistent.
	I still don't know you.
	I don't know.
	I've been toxic for like five hours.
	You know me pretty well by now.
	I guess.
	I've been obnoxious and toxic.
	I thought you got engaged to a different girl.
	We're baby, we're done.
	Babe.
	Babe.
	Me and her, it's over.
	All right.
	All right, guys.
	Thank you for tuning in.
	Thank you all for watching.
	Could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.
	I appreciate that.
	Thank you to everyone who super chatted and supports the show means the world, especially since YouTube and TikTok has us demonetized.
	Thank you to all our chat mods.
	Thank you to Chaz.
	Thank you to the wonderful panel.
	I thank you for your patience, while we did go quite late tonight.
	I appreciate you guys sticking it through the whole show and guys, we will be live again Sunday, 7 p.m. Pacific Time.
	I hope you guys have a good night or good morning if you're tuning in from other parts of the world.
	We'll see you next time.
	Have a good night, guys.
	Take care.

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