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Feb. 14, 2023 - Whatever Podcast
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Dating Talk #54

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Oh, yeah.
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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
Go ahead.
Hi, I'm Cynthia.
I am 23 this year, and I am a student and an OnlyFans creator.
Okay.
How long have you been doing OnlyFans?
Maybe like two years now, I think.
You think?
Yeah, I started in April 2021.
And I detect an accent.
Where are you from?
I was originally born in Malaysia, and then I moved.
When did you move?
You moved to the US?
Yeah.
When did you move to the US?
Ford University around in late 2018.
Into the mic, please.
Wasn't there a coup in Malaysia recently?
Coup?
A coup?
Coup d'état?
Or am I thinking of a difference?
There's always kind of one, so it's hard to say.
Like, didn't the military...
Oh, no, no, no.
The military doesn't really...
The military...
Chad?
Chat, can anyone confirm in chat?
Wasn't there a coup recently in Malaysia?
In any case, okay, so you speak Malay, correct?
I do speak a little Malay, but not very well.
Weren't you born there?
Yes, but...
Grew up there?
Yes.
Yes, but I went to an English school.
I speak more Chinese because there's different schools, so one school would be like a school that speaks predominantly Malay, one would be like a school that speaks predominantly Punjabi and stuff.
So it depends what kind of school you go.
Okay, so you're, oh.
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So is it pretty common for people in Malaysia to be fluent in Mandarin or Cantonese?
No, it just depends what race you are.
Okay, so you're a multicultural country?
Sure.
Okay.
So you're fluent in Mandarin?
Yeah, I can speak Mandarin, but I just can't read it.
And I can speak Cantonese because my mom speaks to me in Cantonese.
Okay.
Can you drop a little Malay for us?
Abakhava Namasaya Cynthia.
I don't know what else.
Are you actually from Malaysia?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
Go ahead.
My name's Anaya.
I'm 19.
I work in wholesale and I sell content of my toes.
You sell content of your toes?
Yeah.
Through OnlyFans?
Through Feet Finder, Instagram, and Snapchat.
FeetFinder.com?
Yeah.org?
It's.com.
FeetFinder.com.
Okay.
Carson, you know what to do.
Okay, and but why not OnlyFans?
Can't you do that on OnlyFans too?
I'm actually starting on OnlyFans.
I have my first shoot on the 24th.
A shoot?
Like someone's doing it for you?
Taking my pictures?
Oh, okay.
Very cool.
So 19 sells feet pics.
Okay, go ahead.
My name is Sakura.
I am a 47 and I am an OnlyFans creator.
Stop the cap!
You're not 47.
I am.
What year were you born?
1977.
1977.
She.
the buffer circle above his head.
Carson, figure it out.
There you go.
Okay.
Anyway.
47, huh?
Who was the president in 1986?
Reagan.
Chat, is that?
Come on, you're not 47.
I am.
Does anyone, what kind of fucking quiz shit can I do to?
I just get a lot of Boltox.
Stop the cap.
You're not 47.
Come on.
Come on.
If you don't believe it.
If you don't believe it.
Where's the ID?
Yeah, where's the ID?
Do you have an ID?
I believe her.
You're her friend.
What was a big event that happened?
I can't close someone.
I don't have the answer.
I wasn't born here.
I wasn't born here.
What do you mean?
Like, I'm not familiar with America.
Where did you born?
China.
China.
Yeah.
Okay.
Escaped.
Yeah.
You're 47.
Come on.
I immigrated here, yeah.
Stop the cap.
She's not 47, boys.
She could be my mom.
I can.
What's your favorite pop song from the 80s?
I was not born here, so I wouldn't know.
I can name you like a Chinese popular song.
From the 80s?
Yeah.
Okay, what is it?
I know how to spell her name.
It's Teresa Tang.
Teresa Tang?
Yeah.
That's from the 1980s.
With T-E-N-G?
T-E-N-G, correct.
Oh, she's Taiwanese.
I feel like...
There's no way you're 47.
You can't fact check Turle, you know?
Just working out in Boltox.
Hey.
Botox.
Okay, have you ever had any kids?
No.
Ever been married?
Yeah.
Can you pull up your sleeve?
Like your arm sleeve?
Other one, so the camera can see.
Oh, yeah.
As someone who's seen the forearm of 47-year-olds as an expert in forearms, you're in your 20s.
I wish.
Come on.
I wish.
How many cats do you own?
I don't have any cats.
I was recently divorced.
Recently divorced?
How long were you married?
Just for a year.
For one year.
um oh is she getting the you cynthia are you getting the id are you Are you searching for the ID, Cynthia?
You will show it to me after the stream.
What the fuck are you doing, Cynthia?
Jesus Christ.
I'm trying to tie the planet.
Her birth control.
Okay.
So you're 47.
The reason I push back is because, and I've said this before, is if you're misrepresenting your age, it's going to be very difficult to have a productive conversation, I think.
I'm not.
Because if you're prepared to lie about your age, it's, you know.
I don't know.
Your skin's pretty flawless, but okay.
I'll play along with the charade.
I'll play along with the charade.
Look at your hands.
Your hands are beautiful.
Thank you.
Here's the thing.
I dated a 45-year-old.
So I'm familiar.
I'm familiar in the biblical sense with a 45-year-old woman.
She was two years younger than you.
You know, Asian too, Asian woman.
And, you know, the skin starts to get a little wrinkly and some sun damage.
I have a lot of spots on my face.
I just cover it with makeup.
Oh, oh, of course.
Stop the cap.
Go ahead, Shania.
Go ahead.
Wow.
Hi, I'm Shania.
I'm 25 and I work in a hotel.
Hi, I'm Morgan.
I'm 25 and I am a small business owner.
You do makeup, correct?
I do makeup and manicures.
Makeup and manicures.
Very cool.
Go ahead.
I'm Nathan.
I'm 19 and I make fitness content.
My name is Logan DeWong.
I'm 19 years old and I'm just out here saving the world, inspiring young men.
And yeah.
Rock and roll.
Sweet, sweet, sweet.
Okay, so hold on, guys.
We have Cynthia rejoining us.
Boom, she's arrived.
Okay, so, guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
Show them some love.
Give them a follow.
So we're going to go around the table.
Current relationship status and longest relationship.
Go ahead.
I am single.
I guess my longest relationship was two and a half to three years, two and a half to three years.
Okay, so currently single?
Currently single?
Yes.
How long have you been single?
Probably like one year-ish.
Okay.
Go ahead.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was four years.
How long have you been single?
A year and a half.
So this was a high school relationship, your four-year?
Yes.
I suppose it could be an elementary school relationship, too, but go ahead.
I am single, and my longest relationship was three years on and off.
Okay.
I'm single, and my longest relationship was roughly seven months.
I am currently happily single.
Oh.
I have been for the past two and a half years, and my longest relationship was about five years.
Okay.
I am currently single and ready to mingle.
My arms are open.
My longest relationship was eight months.
Yeah, so I always have room for one more.
But yeah, that's it.
By the way, guys, I just want to point out, I forgot to mention this during the intro.
Rugby is the superior sport.
You know, it was the Super Bowl.
Who won?
Chat, who won the Super Bowl, by the way?
Chiefs won.
Did it just end?
I think so.
Did it just end?
Yeah, rugby is the superior sport.
Anyways, so let me see.
Okay, who here's on the dating app?
Just maybe show of hands.
Scoot into the table a little bit more.
So dating app.
Dating app.
Dating app, dating app.
Okay.
We have some screenshots from Cynthia that we're going to pull up because we're going to do a quick review of her dating app profile.
So Carson, if you can pull those up.
Can you just, actually, that's fine.
All right, so this is Cynthia.
I hope my cosplay don't put you off.
Looking for a guy who wants to hang out with me on the beach, IG, that.
Can you do the next one too, Carson?
All right, that's who you go's playing.
Okay, so you disclosed to me before the show that you're on a dating app, but you're not really on the dating app, like to date.
It's more so just like for promotion, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
And you said that you had how many?
I think I have like four to five Tinder accounts.
It just depends.
Sometimes to get banned and stuff really easily.
But yeah, I think you told me you have like six Tinder accounts.
Six, yes.
And then do you have any Bumble or Hinge accounts?
No, I don't have Bumble or Hinge.
Okay, but you have six Tinder accounts so that you match with guys in a whole bunch of cities and then you can funnel them into your OnlyFans.
Yes, so if you see my IG is on the bio, so then they will type it in, and then they will see it's a Tinder created Instagram, and then they will subscribe to talk to me.
Okay, and has using the dating apps proved to be an effective and successful funnel for pushing people to your OnlyFans?
i mean i don't blame them for banning me that's the thing because if you're paying like most men do pay for a tinder subscription they pay for platinum or gold and that's like platinum is 35 dollars a month And I don't think anyone wants to pay $35 a month to see an OnlyFans girl there.
So I get why they're reporting me.
Yeah, I suppose it's a bit of a, your intentions are perhaps not pure, so to speak.
But.
And so I'm curious for you three, since you guys do OnlyFans or while I used to do Feet Finder, selling your feet pics online.
So how much do you make on OnlyFans?
I think I make enough to be comfortable.
Can you give us a range?
Five figures a month?
Six figures a year.
Six figures a year would be a good one.
Mid-six figures, high six figures.
Flex, you gotta flex, Cynthia.
I'm not a flex person, though.
You're not here.
Show us the biceps.
Okay, yeah.
I can just say that.
Look, your ribs.
You could fuck someone up, probably.
So, 200K plus?
No.
Between 100 and 200K.
Okay, fine.
Yeah, around that time.
Around 500.
Okay, 500K.
No!
Okay.
And you said you've been doing it for two years.
What kind of content?
Is it boy-girl solo content?
I do, okay.
So, guys, I do boy girl content.
I do girl-girl content.
I do J-O-Is.
I do feet stuff.
Yeah, I do mostly everything.
Okay.
Except threesomes.
By the way, is that your birth control on the table?
No, it's just cough medicine.
Okay, because I had a cough.
Yeah, yeah.
Can I just have you put it on your lap?
Okay, fine.
Yeah.
And can you actually just push the drink just a little bit?
Okay, I'm OCD here.
Okay, so you do J-O-I.
That's jerk-off instructional.
Yeah, okay.
And so that's, you instruct men.
Yeah.
So when they're most of my content, I guess it's more like role-play-ish type.
So it's like you come home and, oh, there's a, your Asian wife is here.
She's going to give you all this special attention.
How you doing?
Yes, how you doing?
Okay.
So, can we role play the PG-13 version of this?
Okay.
Okay.
I'm ready.
Work fucking sucked.
Babe.
Oh my God.
How does it suck?
Do you want me to fix that for you?
Yeah, like Rupert was really on my case today.
It was tough.
I had all these TPS reports and shit.
I want to fucking shoot that place.
I'm just part of the roleplay.
Part of the roleplay.
Part of the roleplay.
But I'm deranged.
I'm your deranged husband.
Is that TOS, by the way?
It's like the part of the roleplay.
I don't work with Rupert.
Rupert's chill.
Okay.
I'm not that stressed.
Okay.
Rupert doesn't even know what we need, what we're going to do right now.
Okay.
And if you want, I could give you 15 minutes of pure relaxation.
You could lay down.
So does that mean like you just going in another room and being quiet?
No, it means that you get to lie down here and I give you a massage and maybe we'll do something a little more.
Stop it.
Okay.
Wow, I would pay for that.
that was great um okay so uh so you do okay you've been doing that um Let's move on.
So you sell feet picks.
How much do you sell?
What's a feet pick?
What's the going rate?
For one?
Yeah.
Depends. Ranges from... Aenea.
Anaya.
Oh, my bad.
Anaya.
$150 to $500.
I want a feet pick right now.
How much does it cost?
Depends.
It all depends on, you know, some men choose, they want specific shoes, nail polish, some guys like whipped cream.
Just depends.
What's the most that you've ever gotten for a foot pick?
$7.40.
$7.40?
Yeah.
Okay.
Was it some crazy shit?
Like you had to put your foot in a fucking case of snakes or some shit?
It was whipped cream.
That's it?
Whipped cream?
I'm an business.
I'm just about to say.
Would you ever if let me ask you a question.
Do you have any cash on you right now?
I do not.
You don't have any cash on you?
No.
Because I want to do the reverse from that.
So after the show, I want you to Venmo me $200 for my feet pics.
You down?
Paid forward.
Nah.
Come on, dude.
Did you get a pedicure?
Nah, but they're clean.
I don't know.
I'm not into feet.
Is anyone here at the table down to pay me $200 for my feet pics?
Yes.
All right.
I'm holding you to that.
I'm not into feet.
I'm not into feet.
I actually really hate feet.
She's the supplier.
She's the supplier.
All right.
Okay.
All right.
Anyone in, any viewers, DM me, I guess.
So you do OnlyFans.
How long have you been doing OnlyFans?
Three years this year.
Can you give us a range?
How much you make?
Close to six figures?
Close.
Okay.
What's the most you've made in the month?
I'm going to say $21,000.
Nice.
That was a while ago, though, yeah.
Oh, okay.
When you were selling feet pics?
No, just like mostly solo content and other content.
Yeah, what kind of content do you do?
So it's mostly consist of solo content, boy girl content, girl girl content, orgy, and like different kinks in between.
Different kinks?
Yeah.
What kind of kinks?
Like Cynthia, sometimes I do fee and like some guys are into armpits, you know.
Okay.
We recorded a video together.
What's that?
We recorded a video together.
Okay.
What was the video?
What should we say?
Was two videos, so it was a feet content, and it was like a girl and girl content.
Okay.
All right.
Is she your daughter, by the way?
No.
Oh, okay.
You know, 47.
You know, okay.
So, wait, did we switch out the chairs?
We got a freaky chair here.
Okay, whatever.
So we're going to react to something.
And Carson, can you pull up the six dates segment?
What the fuck, bruv?
Sorry.
I'll press on that button.
No, that's not it, dude.
Bruv.
Pause it, pause it, pause that bullshit.
Pause it, dude.
I'm sorry, sir.
You need here.
Mouse wheel back.
You probably clicked.
Something got mouse wheel back.
Mouse wheel.
No, no, no.
Jesus fucking Christ.
I'm thinking maybe 40.
Yo, mute.
Just mute it.
I was thinking maybe 40.
Brian.
You got to just mute it on the keyboard.
Okay.
I don't know what happened there, Brian.
Yeah, let me get up.
I'm going to fix it.
Logan, I'm going to have you take over as co-host for 30 seconds while I address that.
So who's next?
What was the question?
These girls don't have OnlyFans, so you're going to have to think of something.
Okay, great.
So what do you do?
So you do the hotel, right?
I work for a hotel, yeah.
Okay.
Okay, what do you do there?
Pretty much everything.
So it's a pretty small hotel.
So I have to fix showers, get dead animals out of the pool, arrange rides, walk dogs.
All sorts.
Are you passionate about it?
No.
Did you do it for the money or what?
I do it for the benefits of the time.
Okay.
What about the dogs part?
That sounds pretty cool.
It's okay.
I'm like dogs.
I'm more of a cat person.
Hell no.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm a manicurist on a small business owner.
Okay.
Yeah.
So I'm also like a therapist, I would say.
A friend, a lover, all that.
So a lot of people come in and just like talk.
Yeah, absolutely.
They're lonely and they have nasty nails.
You know?
Okay.
We figured it out.
We figured it out.
Okay, go ahead, pull it up, Carson.
All right.
So this was a TikTok.
It kind of went viral.
There's a bunch of news articles about it.
We're not going to play the TikTok.
It's basically, I mean, there's no point playing it.
But when they say women are bad with money, but you used to go on six dates a week to avoid paying for groceries.
And in the description, it says, between 2016 to 2018, I didn't buy groceries once.
Probably.
Jesus Christ, scuffed.
Okay.
Probably saved about $150 a week.
And then, Carson, if you can actually, while we're here, just alt tab through the news articles.
So there's a bunch of news.
No, no, no, no, alt tab.
You got to click on this.
I don't know.
Brian, I'm not.
Here.
Yeah, yeah.
Go just go F11 and then.
Nope.
Yeah, just moved over that way and then go F11 from here.
There we go.
I went on six dates a week and didn't have to buy groceries for a year.
So the New York Post did an article about her.
You can go, and that's a photo of her.
Go to the next one, Alt Tab.
You got to keep clicked, yeah.
So I spent the money, and then it was the dailymail.com.
I spent the money on other things like a prod bag.
Woman reveals she saved $15,600 on groceries in just two years by going on six dates a week and getting men to pay for food.
Go to the next one.
All right.
This was the New Zealand Herald.
Woman went on six dates a week to save on food.
I didn't buy groceries for two years.
Next one.
All right.
How I save grocery money by dating, yes, really.
That's from Elite Daily.
By the way, Carson, now that we've gone through all of those, after we finish talking about it, just close all those out.
So I want you to get your guys' reaction on that.
So basically, this girl who, in my estimation, by the way, if you can just show the chat if you can, Carson.
This woman, I believe she lives in New York or lived in New York.
She's not particularly remarkable in her appearance, not particularly attractive.
However, she was able to go on six dates a week and kind of in a very ingenuous sort of way.
She was essentially using men for dates to get free food, free dinner.
So my question to you guys is: have you ever gone on a date with a guy for like a foodie call?
And also just your reaction to that.
Do you think that's kind of like you go girl?
What do you guys think of that?
Go ahead.
I personally wouldn't go on a date so I could save money to buy a Prada bag.
I think that's what she did.
It said so on the article.
Yeah, I think she, well, with the money that she saved from not having to buy groceries and not having to go out to dinner, she bought a product bag or something.
I personally wouldn't do that.
You wouldn't buy the product bag or you wouldn't?
No, I wouldn't just go on so many dates to buy the product bag.
Like, imagine how many dates you went on just to save to buy one item, which was a product bag.
It feels like kind of a letdown.
If I have done it, I have went on a date and then it just kind of flapped.
So yes, essentially, maybe I was there for the food, but I went in with good intentions, you know?
Okay.
I actually do this.
Oh, Carson, can you unmute?
It's on the keyboard.
Yep, there you go.
Go ahead.
Yeah, so I do this, but not to yikes.
Okay.
Go ahead.
I let all of them know my intentions beforehand.
Guys enjoy spending money on me, and I'm not going to say no.
Everyone knows I make money from what I do, and I make a lot.
You make a lot?
Yeah.
From the feet stuff.
Did you say how much you make?
No.
Oh, how much you make?
Per year.
A month?
A month, sure.
Up to 40K.
Oh, my God, that's impressive.
Okay.
Congratulations.
There's not a lot of dudes who are 19.
You're 19, right?
Not a lot of men who are 19 who can make $40,000 selling their feet pics online.
Okay, so, but, and then in addition to that, you also go on dates.
Yes.
So a lot of the men that I do go on dates with are fully aware of the fact that I go out with other guys.
That you go out with other guys?
If they want to take me out, I let them take out.
See, but I'll set the streets.
If they want to take me out, I let them take me out.
I don't do anything besides just food.
I don't remember the last time I paid for my own gas or my nails or my lashes.
Yes.
Most of them they offer.
I never ask.
They always offer.
And I don't have to do anything with them.
Don't have to sleep with them.
Nothing.
So, but you said you're upfront with them.
Yeah.
So in what way, like, how would you be up front?
Like, Example Logan's asking you out on a date.
How does, and how would you be upfront with him?
Whenever I get asked, I usually just ask, What are your intentions?
What do you want from me?
Do you just want to hook up?
Or do you really just want to hang out?
Always let them know, like, hey, I'm not going to ask you to pay for anything.
I actually have an expectation that when you go on a date with a guy, that the first date, he always pays.
And that's just out of respect.
Okay.
I usually just let them know I'm not trying to sleep with you.
I'm not trying to hook up.
If that's what you want to do, find somebody else.
Usually, majority of the time, they're pretty cool with it.
But guys.
And Martin super chatted $50.
She belongs to the Fiends.
Yo, Marden, thank you, man.
Oh, after we go around on this, I will get the rest of the super chats.
Thank you guys.
Get your super chats in.
So, continue.
I just keep it straight up.
I let them know, I'm not trying to sleep with you.
We can hang out.
That's that.
Typically, I keep around four or five of them just because some of them pay for different things.
But that's mostly it.
I let them know they're cool with it.
Some of them are just really lonely.
And a lot of the times, guys waste their own time because they're not straight up about what they want.
So they'll lead you on until you give them what you want.
And then when you never do, it's like a waste of their time, not mine.
Okay, but so you're straight up with guys saying, I'm just interested in a free meal?
Yep.
I let them know.
You let them know?
And guys are.
I'm like, are you going to pay?
You'll say that straight up.
Yeah.
I tell them, I'm like, are you going to pay?
You're not going to pay on my money.
Can you stop that?
So you're straight up with them.
Okay.
And you said that there's guys that just pay for your gas too.
They'll send me money, Cash App, Apple Pay, Venmo.
Money for nails, hair, lashes.
Anytime I say I want to go, a lot of them are really good about my schedule.
So they know I go every two weeks for my nails.
They'll send it.
Devon Jackson Super Chatted $50.
Thank you.
She's upfront by telling desperate men she's not going to fuck them, but being ambiguous with her words so they think they have a chance still.
Yo, Dave On, thank you, man.
Good to see you.
Hope you had a good Super Bowl.
Summarize.
Word.
Do you have a response to Dave on there?
No, it's pretty spot on.
I mean, so would you actually go ahead if you want to actually.
Actually, I let them know that I'm not interested in them if I'm not interested.
I just, I can't imagine a guy willingly, after you've expressed overt disinterest, willingly being like, well, I guess I'll just be your pay pig.
I mean, I know those kind of guys exist.
What is the age range of the men that you would say do this?
30s, 40s?
21 to 29.
And most of them are in the military.
Well, here's the thing.
Even if she is directly honest to those guys telling them, hey, I don't want to have sex with you, or I do want to have sex with you, it doesn't matter.
Girls are always going to use guys or weak men in general.
So if the guy's a simp, he's going to be used.
It doesn't matter.
So it's not the girl's fault.
If guys were in this position, right, if me and Nathan came across all these girls want to go on dates and pay for us, we'd be like, hell yeah, we'll do it.
If you guys have your cake and eat it too, you guys will.
And we would too, but we don't have that ability.
So I blame mostly the weak guys, the simps, who are believing this crap and going out and still paying for these girls.
What's the wage gap?
I mean, I agree with you.
I agree with you.
There is no wage gap.
That doesn't exist.
There is no wage gap.
Most of the men that I do go out with are really desperate.
And I mean, some of them are good looking guys.
Some of them could use a little help, but they know what's up.
And sometimes, most of the time, they're just lonely.
They have nobody else.
They have no friends.
Work is boring.
It sucks.
They just want someone to talk to.
And that's really how it's like kind of like a sugar daddy situation.
But you're not giving sugar, yeah.
Yeah, but without the sugar.
Same concept, but no sugar.
Okay.
So, and so you said almost all of your expenses are taken care of, correct?
Yes.
So you car bill?
My car is paid off.
Okay, but you said gas is paid for?
What else?
Like everything?
Nails.
Okay, so nails, lashes, anytime I want to get my hair colored again.
My gas, clothes, purses, especially purses, shoes, tickets for things such as like raves or clubs, things like that.
Okay.
Can I just have you pop your glasses off of your head?
I should have asked at the beginning of the show, but yeah, you can put them.
Yeah, that's fine.
Okay, so the guy always pays.
Just one question on that.
So, by the way, oh, hi, Carson.
Beaten Cheeks Super Chatted 50.
Thank you, Eden.
Yo, these guys are speaking truth at a young age is legit.
Brian, ask them if they want sugar and no daddy.
Listen, I don't care about the money, okay?
I'm going to speak the truth despite what the haters say.
I've been canceled.
I don't really care.
You guys can listen to my podcast on Spotify.
Hey, shameless pluck.
Hey, it is.
Go for it, though.
But yeah, I'm just really interested in helping young dudes because I think all dudes experience these things, right?
We've all paid for a girl, right?
We all use a simp.
I use a simp.
So that's why I think it's super important to speak up for these young dudes who don't really have a voice, like fucking Andrew Tate.
Dude's arrested.
So it is what it is.
Well, I agree with you there.
I think in today's day and age, where traditional values or traditional gender roles have been eroded, I don't think men should any longer be adhering to their traditional gender role of having to pay for first aids.
But I do want to continue with you or have honestly paying for anything at this point.
So these guys pay you money.
They'll just like Venmo you cash app.
Like they just send you the money.
Just send them a text message and they'll send it.
So what's like an example of a text message you'll send a guy to get money from him?
Most of the time, we'll take like my nails, for example.
I'll be like, hey, I need to get my nails done.
I'm going to go this time or I'm going to go this day.
And then they're like, all right, how much?
Send them.
And this is.
Do you send that to every single guy?
No.
So you'll double dip.
So some guys, okay, I don't only talk to them just so they give me money.
It's for specific things.
So one guy pays for nails.
Sometimes he'll pay for nails and lashes.
There's another guy that is strictly just for gas.
There's another guy who is strictly just for shopping.
Okay, there's a guy who's strictly.
So, but you don't double dip at all, for example, because I've heard stories of girls who do this thing.
Yeah, I understand.
And they will, they'll have like five guys that pay them, and all of those five guys will pay their rent.
So she's not getting rent from just one guy.
She's getting five guys to pay her rent.
So you've never double dipped.
No, because at the end of the day, like I said, I'm straight up with it, and I make more than enough money that if I was renting an apartment, I could pay for it myself.
So you said you make $40,000 a month.
Does that include the money from these guys?
Or is that the $40,000 a month figure is just what you make from your feet pics, basically.
Just from the content.
Okay, how much do you think you're going to make when you start your OnlyFans?
I actually have no idea.
Okay.
Sure.
So just to bring it back to the thing we were reacting to, so this girl, she went on six dates a week to save on grocery bills.
The guys were paying for her dates.
Your reaction to that?
Have you ever done a foodie call, as it's called?
Personally, I haven't done one.
I just think it's too exhausting.
Like, I wouldn't do it for a free meal.
What if, like, the guy is like super annoying?
Yeah.
That's just me.
Yeah.
But have you ever gone on the first date with a guy without the intention of like maybe you're just bored?
You just wanted like, you didn't, you didn't really have a romantic interest, but you just went because you were bored or whatever.
Yeah, a couple of times.
Or you were like in the new city and you wanted like a tour guide or some shit.
Yeah, something like that.
Sure.
What's up?
What you got for us?
Devon Jackson super cheated $50.
Didn't she just say I never asked then just now said she'll say what she needs?
The only thing more disgusting than her are the guys that cater to her so much for independence.
Strong independent response to Dayvon Jackson.
I literally said that I didn't ask.
My response was I just tell them what I'm going to do and then they give me the money.
That's that.
And like I said, I'm not forcing these men to do it.
It's not my fault that they don't have anything else to spend their money on except for me.
Sounds like a personal problem.
One question with the nails.
Can you show the nails really quick?
Like, how do you wipe?
Okay, actually, my nails used to be a lot longer than this.
It's the same way as everyone else.
Yeah, they used to be way longer.
Longer than that?
Yeah.
And they used to be square.
Shit.
God damn, square?
I wipe the same way everyone else does.
She uses her simps.
To wipe for cater to her.
Don't you have to wrap the teepee around your hand like this?
So like you?
I mean, I've.
Okay, if I'm wiping, you know, then I use like baby wipes and then I just take a shower.
So, I mean, you take a shower.
Yeah, I take a shower after.
You take a shower every time you shit.
Yeah.
Okay, let's keep it moving.
Shania, go ahead.
By the way, you said you were going to make your hair more 80s poofy, but you didn't.
I literally showered today.
It's really good.
That's the most voluminous it's going to be.
Okay, fair enough.
So, by the way, Cheeks, shout out to you for the, we need to pull up, we'll pull up your soup chat here in a sec, Cheeks, but thank you for all the support, man.
Really means the world that you're so generous with your patronage, man.
So go ahead, your reaction to the lady with the.
I'm getting hair free.
Okay, there we go.
So the six dates a week, I mean, good for her that she was able to do that.
I'm kind of on board with you, where that sounds exhausting.
And then personally, I think that's completely fucked up to go on a date and expect them to pay for me.
I always bring my own cash so that I can either try to do half or even leave the tip if they insist.
But I think going for the intention of having them buy me something while I'm not attracted to them is pretty fucked up.
Sure.
Your reaction?
I've never personally done a foodie call, but I think if that is the business model that she chooses to use, then that's kind of smart, right?
Wouldn't you utilize like your own attributes to gain benefit?
Right?
Well, I think it's kind of like you're taking advantage of them.
Because if you're going on a date where the other person has a genuine interest in pursuing you romantically, you're sort of misrepresenting your intentions to gain a benefit.
Well, I mean, how do you know that they're actually interested in you romantically?
Some people pay for your dinner so that you can suck their dick in their car afterwards.
You know what I mean?
That is, you know, like they may not have the best intentions either.
Don't we all take advantage of one another in like everyday situations anyway?
So you think men and women sleeping together is the man taking advantage of the woman?
That's a huge intentions.
That's what you're saying that at the end of the day, you can go on a date with a man.
He says he just wants to date or talk to you.
But the only reason he's entertaining you is because he wants to fuck.
Well, I mean, I would say to you guys, Newsflash, like most of the reason men are typically pursuing women is because they may very well have a romantic interest, but they certainly have a sexual interest too.
And the two are linked.
If a guy's romantically interested.
What was that?
The fuck?
Was that from outside?
Yeah, I think so.
Yeah.
Girls are smart, though.
Like, anytime a guy talks to a girl, they automatically assume he likes me and he wants to have sex.
And it's a very good mindset.
And I think a lot of guys also need to adopt this mindset as well.
And it actually helps them if they adopt this mindset.
If every single girl I talk to or meet, I'm going to assume she's into me.
That way you perform better, et cetera, et cetera.
But for the girls— Oh, hold on.
Matt San Super Chatted $50.
Thank you.
Hey, I agree with my fellow yellow that it's the simp's fault.
But what low moral character of red hair when she takes advantage of these downtrodden, lonely men, then says, hey, it's not my fault.
The lack of accountability is real.
Your response?
Like I said, I put all my true intentions out on the table prior to, so they already know what they're getting into.
If I'm interested in them after the first date, I'll let them know.
If I'm not, then I tell them that and we could just be friends.
What they choose to do after that is on them.
Yo, Matt, appreciate the super chat.
Thank you, man.
So go ahead with your point.
I think you were.
Yeah, I mean, I don't feel like it's such a horrible thing that she was only intending to get a free meal out of it, but I suppose it's all personal preference.
Like, I wouldn't go on a date specifically just to have a meal.
I can pay for my own shit.
But I do feel that it is nice when someone offers to treat me, and I appreciate that, and I try to thank them profusely.
Sure.
And then your guys' reaction to that whole thing where she's got.
By the way, Carson, can you just pull it?
I don't know if you closed it out yet.
Did you?
Wow, which one?
Maybe pull it back up to the TikTok really quick.
Yeah.
And then.
Yeah.
I'm going to kind of do it without that.
Yeah, that's fine.
So yeah, basically, like she went on six dates a week and for a two-year period she didn't buy groceries.
She saved $150 a week.
Carson, you can start closing out all those tabs now.
So your guys' reaction to that.
What do you think of that?
Me personally, I've never gotten taken advantage of.
It's just not me.
If anything, I'm bringing them to my house.
That's that first date.
Straight up?
Yeah.
But do you find that a lot of women object to that?
If they do.
Listen, if they're on Tinder, it's a checklist.
So if they don't want to come over, then whatever.
Wait, but how old are you guys?
19.
Okay.
Both of you are 19?
Yes.
Okay.
I feel like, so are you guys in college too, by the way?
No, no.
But you're college age.
Yes.
So I think most of the women around your age, like, I feel like that's kind of the norm, whereas like women who get older, like, they start not being down with the just, like, the come over thing.
So my experience is most, like, I'll offer.
I'll be like, sometimes I'll say, hey, just first, first time, hey, just come over to my place.
We'll have make some food.
Drink, whatever, have a drink.
Well, that's the cool thing.
You can go after girls who are like 18, 19.
I can, but most of the women.
You shouldn't.
Oh, God.
Why should I not go after girls who are 19, 20, and 21?
I don't know.
It's a little predatory, don't you think?
Why is it predatory?
Hold on, hold on.
Thank you, Zentiens.
To be the rubbish of a girl, you don't make your own money.
You deceive poor, pathetic, lonely men out of their money when you know they'll only get an illusion.
Irrespective of the self-placating BS you tell you.
BS you tell yourself you bring no value to society.
Your response to Zentians.
Oh, he's talking to me?
There's a, well, I think so, probably.
Like I said, I put all intentions out there.
They know what they're getting into.
That's on them.
When it comes to men paying for things like that, if I genuinely like you, like I said, first date is an expectation.
If you invite me out and we're going out, dinner, you pay for it.
Anything after that, we can have it.
I'll pay whatever if I genuinely do like you.
Otherwise, like I said, as I've said multiple times, I will remind you of what my intentions are if I fuck with you or if I don't fuck with you.
What you plan to do after that is on you.
I do not go out of my way as I have multiple men in my back pocket.
Oh, multiple men in her back pocket.
So guys are getting mad that it's morally.
Let me just thank Zentiens here.
Hey, Zentians, I just want to thank you so much for the support, man.
Good to see you back in the stream.
I think we've missed you the past couple shows.
I just want to say that I really appreciate your patronage.
And thank you for all the support with the show Zentiens.
Go ahead, Logan.
Yeah, so a lot of guys are getting mad that it's morally incorrect, right?
And so they're trying to get mad at the girls saying, oh, you can't do that.
It's messed up.
It's wrong.
It doesn't matter.
Like, you guys already know this.
So if we tell every single guy out there right now on this podcast that, hey, yes, there are girls who will do things that are morally incorrect, but it is your job and duty to pre-qualify the girl you're talking to.
What that means is, hey, is this girl, does this girl have OnlyFans?
Is this girl promoting her Instagram?
Is she using it to get attention validation, right?
These are all red flags you guys should be looking for.
Devon Jetson super chatted 50% of the time.
Thank you, Davon.
A grown man inviting a grown woman over is predatory, but this girl preying on lonely simps is good for her.
Address your missandry before the conversation continues.
Yeah, we will address, so you brought up the, it's predatory for someone to want to date an adult woman, apparently, but we will get to that soon.
So guys, we will touch on the age gap relationship stuff.
We do have something from some recent stuff with Leonardo DiCaprio we're going to pull up.
But yeah, go ahead.
So going back to what I said, so it's just like, yeah, there's people who are morally out there trying to kill you, right?
There's random people on the streets who want to kill you.
So are you going to get mad at a random person who's crazy who wants to kill you?
Or should you be like, okay, this is the reality of the world.
This is how it is.
So are you going to keep blaming women for abusing their rights because they used you because you're retarded?
Or are you going to be like, hey, listen, I understand there's women out there like this, and I understand there's people out there trying to kill me.
So should I get mad at people trying to kill me?
No, you become stronger.
You learn how to defend yourself.
So I think that's the same thing, idea with women, right?
So you have to learn about women.
You have to understand them.
You have to understand what they're saying and pick out, okay, she said she might have sex with me.
What does that mean?
No, she's not going to have sex with you, bro.
So a lot of guys need to just understand that, hey, this is the reality world.
Don't get mad at women.
Look at yourself, take accountability, and become a better version of yourself.
Well, I disagree.
I disagree with you a little bit, Logan, that certainly on one hand, you need to self-improve.
But if there is behavior occurring, which is if you're taking advantage of someone or you're misrepresenting or not being genuine with your intentions, I think that should certainly be criticized.
Yeah, you can definitely criticize it.
Not like doors.
So there could be one guy and there's me, right?
So there's one guy still in the chat talking about how girls are using him.
Meanwhile, me, I'm like, okay, I understand this.
I'm not going to go into a chat and talk about it.
I'm going to do something about it.
I'm going to better myself, learn more about women so they don't do that to me.
And all these girls know it's only simps that are being played.
It's only weak guys that are getting played.
It's not guys who understand the game.
And you want to know what's funny about that is he keeps coming back and saying the same thing over and over again as if it's happened to him personally.
And this is the thing with taking advantage.
I personally am not taking advantage of anyone because like I've said multiple times, I let them know.
What they choose to do after that, I do not go out of my way to beg anybody for money or to take anything from anybody else.
What you do with your money is what you choose to do with your money.
If I want to go out and fucking give some dude $500 because he wants to hook up, then that's my money.
It's my business at the end of the day.
Girls don't do that, though.
But, okay.
How do you do that?
Okay.
I understand some.
Yes, do some do?
But if we were like somehow we were able to see the flow of money going from one gender to the other, it would be like 99% of the money flow going from men into women's pockets, not women's pockets into men's pockets.
But that's the thing, is men choose to do that.
I do not know.
Yeah, it's right.
It's all your customers.
And if it really bothers them, then don't you think they would do something else rather than just giving out their money to random women?
But in relation to the TikTok that we're reacting to, this girl, she had news articles about her.
She admitted herself to going on six days a week.
Meeting Cheeks super chatted $69.69.
No real girl will ever take a girl serious unless you know we want to smash.
Real women will never look thirsty for validation and never make her man look bad, but look good when put in public.
Look good when put in public, so don't get mad at us, real men.
Be ready for me.
Yo, Cheeks, thank you for the $69.69 super chat.
Really appreciate the support.
Hope you had a good Super Bowl, man.
Glad that you were able to make it to the show.
Yo, Michael, thank you for the sticker.
So with what we were reacting to the TikTok, she intentionally went on all these dates without any genuine intention of actually pursuing these men romantically.
She did it intentionally to save money on her groceries, which I think is at best disingenuous.
Then I do agree with you on that.
If she did not tell him prior to why she was going out with him, what she was going to do with the money, why she went, then yeah, that's taking advantage.
And I feel like maybe they should have connected with each other personally more prior to going out on a date.
If you're going to spend money on somebody and it's somebody you genuinely like, then get to know them first.
Decide if it's really worth your money.
Because I'm not going to waste my money on a man who I know is not worth it because I work for that money.
Sure.
Did you want to come in on something?
Yeah, I do agree because she is being genuine.
She's not deceiving anybody.
Her or okay, I thought you were talking about the girl.
Oh, no, like there's not a lie, you know, but like the girl, yeah, if she's not being like intentional about it, but she's doing it, then more power to her, I guess.
I just can't.
I just want a bit of clarification here.
So you said you're like upfront with the guys, correct?
But you're upfront in the sense of I have, you tell them you have no interest in them.
Shut the fuck up!
Oops.
Did not mean to click that on my soundboard.
Oops.
I told myself.
This is how it works.
I meet a guy on Hinge, out in public, at the mall, whatever.
We exchange phone numbers, social media, they invite me out.
If I think they're attractive, I'll tell them prior to.
If I don't find them attractive, then I'll tell them prior to as well.
But for me, I do solely go based off personality rather than looks when I'm going out on a date.
So when we get there, once I get to know you, I always have a final evaluation at the end of every first date.
I'll let you know what I think about you, if I plan on doing it again, how I feel about you, and if this is something we can do or if it's not.
Okay.
I think the bigger issue, though, is men are being programmed since day one, watching Disney movies and Hollywood movies and all these shows tell these guys, hey, even though she says she's a perfect princess and she doesn't want to date you yet and you need to buy her all these gifts, this is what we're being programmed since day one.
Like Disney and Hollywood, it's all fake for guys.
And guys believe this crap, and that's why they still believe this crap until the point where they're paying you loads and loads of money, right?
So I think there's a bigger issue.
I think it's the media that guys are being pushed to watch.
There's a lot of simping within the media and we're just getting programmed.
Go ahead.
Okay, so I actually think that some guys are actually really into buying stuff for other girls.
Men like to be providers.
Some dudes are a hell of a lot of people.
I mean, you guys don't seem like you might not, you know, other guys do.
I think there's some guys that really like it.
Like some dudes will just ask to pick me up.
They'll just ask to pick me up and they'll be like, hey, let me take you shopping.
And I'll be like, okay.
But who would say no to that?
But who am I to say no?
Like I'll go out or even if I'm out on a date with a guy and we're out, like say I see something nice.
There's some guys that have just bought it just because I said it was nice because they thought I would like it.
Or there's a purse that I like.
I'm like, hey, that's pretty.
And then they buy it.
But it's all personal preference.
Right.
And these are willing clients, I would like to point out.
You know, like, this is a business that she's running in a sense.
Maybe she's going on dates sometimes for personal gain or not personal gain, but for personal reasons to get to know someone.
But at the end of the day, like the people that she's working with are her clients.
If they're happy to give her income, then let, like, so be it.
That's a problem.
I do agree with what he said when it comes to social media, movies, and things like that, that some men are programmed that way.
I think actually both men and women are programmed by Disney.
Men are programmed.
Women want this perfect fucking prince charming dude and all this fucking bullshit.
So a girl can dream.
Well, that's where you have like women who.
That's where you basically have a situation nowadays where average women don't want average men.
Yeah, because everybody's.
If you're average, you deserve average.
It's social media.
It's put it out there to women a thought in their head that because they have something that someone else doesn't or they look some like some type of way that they should expect more.
If you have a shitty personality, but you're good looking, you deserve another person with a shitty personality, whether they're good looking or not.
Just because you're good looking doesn't mean shit, because you could be the shittiest person in the world and look fantastic, but I'm not going to keep a conversation with you.
I don't care how you look.
That's another thing for guys as well, is look at the girl.
When you're pre-qualifying a girl, look at the brainwashing that's being done to her.
So what kind of music does she listen to?
Who are her friends?
Who is she following on social media?
These are all things you have to look at when you're pre-qualifying a girl.
So if she listens to Cardi B WAP, does she sound like girlfriend material?
I don't know.
Probably not, right?
If she listens to country music or Christian music, it sounds like she might be a good girl, right?
Or she just goes to church all the time.
So it depends.
Look at the girl and look at what is brainwashing her.
Because everyone's brainwashed to a certain degree, right?
So like, when you guys are looking for guys, right, you guys are probably looking for the same thing.
Who is he hanging around with, right?
What's his job?
Who are his friends?
Things like that.
So these are all things girls already look at.
And I think it's very important for guys to look at when you're pre-qualifying business partners.
And not even just women, but other men in general.
Who are they hanging around with?
What other men are they around?
What music are they listening to?
What are they watching, right?
I can guarantee a simp is watching Disney movies and he's watching all these makeup tutorials.
The youths who are learning about game and women, they're watching podcasts like this.
Beautiful.
Okay, so you mentioned as an exception that there are some men who are into, they're into paying for women.
The Fin Dom, financial domination.
Yeah.
That's a very small percentage of men.
I just think it's a small percentage, but I think it also comes from the background.
Like I said, like how the background they've been raised in.
I think that gives that kind of kink.
It's also the same for women.
Yeah, a lot of women who, I guess.
Can I have you tilt that microphone a little bit?
Like this?
Yeah, yeah.
A little less center it.
Yep, there you go.
Go ahead.
So women who are maybe born in households where they don't receive a lot of validation, I guess, do end up seeking other forms of validation.
Like through materialistic means or social media.
Okay.
Ah, man.
Okay, so you mentioned that it's predatory for wanting to date someone who's younger.
Well, I mean, I think you're taking the conversation out of context.
I feel like it would be a little bit predatory for you to date someone who was like just 18, right?
What about if I wanted to date someone who was 21?
I mean, I still, it's kind of in the same vein, but I suppose it's better.
How do you define, and I'm going to sort of interrupt this conversation just to get through some super chats because we will come back to this, but how do you define predatory?
What's your definition of predatory?
I suppose my definition of predatory would be, I don't know, I feel like this conversation is going to kind of come full circle.
I feel like it's a man that sort of wants to take advantage of someone who is younger, more naive.
Maybe even not a man, someone who is interested in taking advantage of someone who maybe doesn't have as much life experience, someone who can be groomed or imprinted upon.
Groom?
And then you're going to be able to do it.
So you can say the same thing.
So you can say the same thing about women who are going after Simps.
You could do it?
Yes, yeah, I guess you could say that.
But again, like her relationships with other people are business-based.
But is it predatory?
It's transactional.
Is it predatory for a younger girl to go after an older guy?
Hmm.
Interesting.
Because everybody's saying that an older guy going after a younger girl is wrong or it's not morally correct.
But when a younger girl goes after an older guy or an older girl goes after a younger guy, no one has an issue with that.
Well, I think it really boils down to intention, right?
That's what we've been talking about this entire time.
So if your intention as an older man to date a younger woman is because you want to be with her and you love her and you want to get to know her and you go to the same church, that's all swell and dandy, right?
But if you're a younger woman and you're going after some old dude with a flaccid penis that you know has money, then yes, I would say that that is more predatory.
I definitely think that it's biased on both sides.
I think that nobody really thinks a woman can, you know, have bad intentions on a man.
And I definitely can tell you from personal experience that I have seen older women pry on younger men because it's just easier.
And if anything, I see that more than older guys going after younger girls.
Yeah, you said, what was your definition of predatory again?
You said it was men preying on...
I said, I think it depends on who's taking advantage of who, right?
Predatory, I think, like we've been talking about, really relies on intention.
It has more to do, I think, with someone trying to take advantage of the other for personal gain, right?
Okay.
Sure.
Well, I mean, we'll come back to that because we are going to react to a Leonardo DiCaprio thing that's going on.
Let me get through these soup chats, guys.
Thank you for the patience on that.
Here, really quick, before we do that, Stiffler asks everyone to rate their looks on the scale of 1 to 10.
We'll go around the table really quick.
You go first.
Me first?
Yeah.
Okay.
I think I am five.
You're five?
Okay.
Yeah, I would consider myself average.
Okay.
An 8.5.
Probably a 6.5.
Okay.
I don't know, man.
Lately, I've been feeling like a 4.
Okay.
Solid 4.
I mean, you got the good 80s hair going, so that adds a point or two.
You need to love yourself a little bit more.
I'm a 10.
I'm a 10 through and through, okay?
And so are all of you.
Oh, God.
Okay, hold on.
Stop that.
You want to be honest or not?
You're supposed to be honest.
You're supposed to love yourself, all of you.
We're supposed to be honest.
So 10?
And then all the other girls should be 10s too.
Why can't everyone feel like a 10?
Everyone has flash, though, so nobody's perfect.
Yeah, I didn't say I was perfect, but we're looking at a number scale, no?
You know what I mean?
Okay, so I feel like it's based on results.
Results?
Yeah.
Well, what sort of results?
Like, how many people am I fucking?
How many guys am I getting to pay for my meeting?
How many guys are you fucking?
I don't have enough fingers.
So here's the thing.
Girls, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Go ahead.
I don't have enough fingers to count.
Are you actually, but like, are you currently seeing a couple guys?
Yeah, of course.
How much?
How much?
Honestly.
Here, Carson, leave it on this one.
Put on this one if she's talking.
Alex, Alexander.
I think right now I'm actively dating and talking to like seven guys, seven, eight.
I don't like talk to all of them regularly.
I don't see them regularly.
How old are you?
I'm 25.
Does it feel exhausting, though?
Okay, so here's the real.
Even ugly girls can get laid.
Okay, but ugly guys cannot get laid.
So the real question for women is, how many guys want to marry you?
That is the real question.
Do you even believe in marriage?
I think in the U.S. and I think in maybe other places where it's not like the government has control over you, then yes.
I think like marriage used to be something that was beautiful.
It was like amazing.
I think it used to be like a construct of controlling women.
You all can't be tens because some of you objectively look better than others.
Wait, so continue with your point.
I said formerly, you were saying marriage used to be a beautiful thing.
I think former lay marriage existed as a construct to control women.
Stop the chaot, man.
Or actually, historically, no?
Holy shit.
Everybody just like Sunky Dory.
We're all in love, you know?
Yeah, women were actually always chasing guys to get married.
Women were actually chasing guys to get married because that was his protector.
That was the guy who's paying for the house and things like that.
Wait, but don't you understand the systemic sexism that has led women to the, like, that led women to the point of needing to get married?
Women more happy marriage was not something to control women.
I actually think now, these days, in this generation, especially this year, that a lot of the men are the ones that are really rushing into marriage, especially the ones in the military and especially the ones that have a lot of backlash.
Yeah, I think now personally in this generation, like women don't get a lot of benefits out of being married.
Like it just adds a lot of problems.
It adds more to my life.
Actually, women get more.
Actually, women get more because if you guys get divorced, you guys take half of the shit, you take the kids.
That's how you don't even have anything.
She's the one that's working.
Wait, would you even want to marry a guy who doesn't have anything?
I have.
That's why I divorced him.
He had nothing.
Let me tell you something.
Let me tell you something.
With men in the military, like they only want to marry you because it gets them more money at the end of the day.
Like, especially Marine men and Navy men, I can tell you that most of them, like, I've had men that are in the Marines that have literally only hit me up and talked to me because they want me to marry them.
But I don't get anything out of it.
Yeah, that's the interesting thing about the military is there's a lot of guys who are actually simps in the military because one, they're not, and you guys might have a lot of experience with this, talking to guys in the military.
One, because they aren't around a lot of females, right?
You're only surrounded by like 99% of dudes.
Another thing as well is, yeah, the benefits.
Like, one, Ari in the military, you're not getting paid well at all, right?
So Ari tells guys, yeah, get married so you could get off of base because you get to live off base and you get paid.
So a lot of guys are very interested in the idea of marriage.
So they'll just go out and marry a stripper and then she divorces him, she cheats on him, whatever.
So it's not good.
Hold on.
So I need to really focus in on what we're actually talking about.
You had something to say.
Go ahead.
Yeah, so I want to say that with marriage, I think for the military, a lot of them don't have like exposure to other women.
So then when they get into the military, especially when they get in young, they're also a bit naive because they don't have a lot of dating experience.
So immediately they think, when I date this girl, she's kind of into me.
Oh my God, I want to marry her.
That's it?
Yeah.
Okay.
So, guys, sorry, I will get to the soup chats here.
But okay, I want to bring it back to the rating system thing.
So you said you were 10.
You said all the girls at the table are a 10.
Yeah, you got to love yourself, man.
But so if everyone's a 10, can we agree on this following statement?
Some people are more physically attractive than others.
No, I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
So I don't agree with that.
Okay, but there are certain, like, there's something to aesthetics.
Like, there's something about facial symmetry that, generally speaking, if you put together a group of 100 people, they can sort of, like, they'll rank people by attractiveness, and they'll kind of...
Right, more attractive is more symmetrical.
Well, they'll be able to reach a consensus.
So if everybody's a 10, nobody's a 10.
So if everyone's a 10, then.
Okay, so you think you're a 10?
Yeah.
Don't think I'm fucking gorgeous.
Don't think I'm perfect.
Listen, don't take this the wrong way.
You're not a 10.
You're not a 10.
Okay, that's just your opinion.
I'm not going to rate you, but you're not a 10.
Okay, you don't have to rate me, and that's just your opinion.
Well, it is, listen, look.
You don't like fat bitches?
You took it there.
Wow, you could have just said no.
That's okay.
Actually, not everybody does.
Actually, okay, listen, let me tell you something.
Everyone has personal preference, and at the end of the day, overall, there is always going to be someone better or something that has someone that has something more than what you have.
And everyone is attracted to different people.
So, like, I could say he's attractive, but I could say he's not attractive.
Right.
But someone else could find him attractive, and someone could find him ugly.
Sure.
So, everyone's a 10.
But I do agree that not everyone here is a 10.
Nobody here is a 10.
I don't think anyone here is a 10.
Exactly.
By the way, look at her eyelash.
It got all fucked up.
Wait, can you show it to them?
Hold it up to the camera.
Did I show it like that?
Yeah, rip.
Rest in peace.
Cynthia's eyelash.
Okay, so the 10 thing.
10s have modeling contracts.
Okay.
Are you saying that that's not something that I could have?
I think there's a lot of plus-size models too nowadays.
Like everybody's.
I think Calvin Klein is higher.
I mean, yeah, but that's like the clown world.
Like the fucking that whole movement.
But like, okay.
Here's the, here's, I guess here's my issue with people rating themselves as a 10.
If you gas yourself up to the point where you have an inaccurate self-assessment of your physical attractiveness, you are going to be trying to command a partner that, quite frankly, you are not going to be able to lock down for long-term commitment.
If I think, well, men and women are different.
So I can be delusional, but it's not really going to help.
Women can still sleep with men, but those men will never commit to them.
So who says that I'm looking for commitment, though?
I mean, you know what I mean?
Like it's all.
Do you want kids one day?
No.
Do you want to have a life partner one day?
Maybe.
Do you prefer having relationships or do you prefer just having a constant rotation of men?
I prefer to be single, and sometimes that includes a rotation of men, and sometimes that includes just me.
Okay, well, to each their own.
However, I would say most women, generally speaking, they want to have, most women want to have kids and want to have a family.
Not all women, certainly.
And even women who don't, though, if you have an inaccurate self-assessment of your physical attractiveness, you're going to think that you deserve a certain caliber of man that you might be able to sleep with, maybe, but he's just not going to commit to you.
And you're going to look at men that are actually your looks equivalent and you're going to think you're settling for them when in reality, that's your equivalent.
And you're going to treat those guys like shit.
Or you're just not going to even fuck with them to begin with.
Right.
You're going to, and I think that's the big problem with modern dating.
Women will confuse sexual interest for relationship interest.
Because women can very easily sleep with men that are of a higher either socioeconomic status or physical attractiveness.
Those men might sleep with you, but they'll never commit to you.
So women can sleep with like pretty attractive guys because those attractive guys welcome the easy access.
Excuse me.
They welcome the easy access to sex, but they'll never commit to that woman.
But then the women will think, oh, well, that's the type of guy I deserve for a long-term relationship.
But that type of guy will never commit to that girl.
So then she's going to start looking at the guy who is actually her equal in terms of looks and never give that guy a time of day.
Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
I feel like, obviously, if I'm going to have sex with someone, the better looking they are, then the more excited I am, the more inclined I am to have sex with them.
But I also feel like if I do reach a point in my life where I am going to try and find a life partner to commit to, it's not going to be based on the way that they look.
For me, for me personally.
But don't you think it's delusional to consider yourself a 10?
I don't think I'm delusional.
Oh, oh, oh.
Alvin Sam super chatted $49.99.
Women want men who stays in shape, so why is it a problem for men to not choose women who are overweight?
Why was his standards shamed but not women?
I think because you said you don't want a fat bitch.
I love fat bitches.
I am a fat bitch.
Oh, are you by?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
So, and just to move it forward a little bit.
So you said you were currently seeing seven to eight guys.
Is that correct?
And I do want to go around the table on this.
So you're currently seeing seven to eight guys.
Yeah, some it's physical, some not, you know, some it's casual.
Sure, sure.
And I think that's kind of, at least in California, I think that's that's normal.
I'll save my opinion for that for later.
But are you, of the seven to eight guys that you're currently seeing them, seven to eight guys, are you sleeping with?
A few of them.
How many?
I think three I'm having sex with actively.
Actively.
And then generally, maybe not now, but in the past, what's the most amount of men that you've seen concurrently, like been sleeping with concurrently or been seeing concurrently?
I think this is probably the most right now.
Like in this time period.
There's never been like four or five that you've been sleeping with.
No.
Okay, so three is the most.
So in this time period, this is the most.
Okay.
And so please don't take this the wrong way.
I don't mean this to offend you.
Your male looks equivalent, your male looks equivalent cannot command seeing seven to eight women and sleeping with three of them.
I mean, I'm not really seeing any women right now.
No, no, no.
But what I'm saying is, if there was like a mirror image of you, your male looks equivalent would not be able to command dating seven to eight women and sleeping with three of them.
Yeah.
Okay.
That's quite a difference.
I think that's quite the difference between men and women.
And it just goes to show that like the amount of men that you're seeing, you have to, for a guy to pull that off, you have to be like a top 10% man.
I mean, you consider yourself to be a 10, but there's such a difference between the attention that women receive and the attention men receive.
To me, I mean, I appreciate your honesty sharing that, but it's impressive, I guess.
Thank you, I guess.
So I want to go.
It's a range of different people.
Like I said, I feel really good about myself.
I feel like I'm beautiful, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going for top dogs all the time.
Some of the guys that I'm seeing are fat and not so cute, but it's not an issue for me.
It's really about how much fun I have.
Do you think that you said you're seeing some fat guys or whatever?
Do you think that they're seeing seven to eight women?
Probably not.
Do the guys that you're seeing, do they know that you're seeing other guys?
Yeah.
That you tell them?
I'm pretty explicitly clear about the fact that I'm dating casually.
And they're okay with that?
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
I mean, isn't that what happens when you're on like a dating app?
I feel like how many of them want to get in a relationship with you?
You know, I. Carson, come on.
I would say probably only one or two, you know, but that's not also not something that I'm looking for right now.
You know, if I was looking to be in a relationship, I would be in one.
I'm looking to date a bunch of men, so that's what I'm doing.
Okay, I want to go around the table on this.
So we're going to start over here.
What's the most amount of guys that you've dated or hooked up with at the same time?
Not your body count, but we can do body count.
But I'm asking, what's the most amount of guys that you've dated in one time?
Like she's dating seven to eight guys right now.
She's sleeping with three of them.
What about you?
Like all many guys, like how many guys have I been with at this point?
Like at the same time, general time period, you know, if you wanted like a month range.
Maybe like, I don't know, one.
I kind of have a bad temper, so I don't think I can handle many guys.
You have a bad temper?
Yeah, I have a bad temper.
Okay.
Yes, so I guess I'm not very patient.
Thank you, Martin.
To the truck driver in the middle.
Wage gap.
Multiple men buy no marriage and children.
Pfizer, American Psychiatric Association and Bull Farms Wine, thank you for your ongoing and future patrony.
At least I'm not wasting my money paying to put comments like this on the internet.
Oh.
Go ahead.
So you're physically abusive.
Or no, sorry, you're.
Oh, hold on.
Texas super chatted $49.99.
You don't determine your own SMV.
The market does.
We, consumers, determine what value we want to pay.
With that said, none of these throat goats are anywhere close to a 10 unless you're...
Unless you're talking about the amount of STDs, recreational use only, gents.
Do you guys have a response to that?
I am the throat goat.
Okay, good times.
I take no shame in the game.
If my throat works, it works.
Other than that, it works.
No shame.
And actually, just because we look like we got hella bodies, I could tell you personally, I got three, and I'm 19.
So.
Okay.
So you said you have a temper.
Yeah.
I have a bit of a temper.
So I don't think I'm patient enough to handle several men.
Okay.
So what's the most amount of guys that you've dated at one time?
One.
Oh, just one?
Okay.
And same with hooking up, just one.
Yeah.
Okay.
How does your temper manifest itself?
It's more like, let's say, when things don't go my way, I'm kind of like a my way or highway kind of person.
My way or the highway.
So it doesn't really translate well if I was dating several guys.
Don't mean I would need to be patient with a lot of people.
So I'd rather just have one person.
Can you give us one of the most notable examples from your dating life of a time where it was your way or the highway?
I think I had like a big argument once where the guy didn't want to take shoes off in front of the house.
So when you go into a house, you have to take the shoe off at that specific spot, right?
And because sometimes he would just forget his shit, so he would go back on the shoe and I would be like really annoyed because of that because he needed to take his shoe off to take whatever he needed to take.
So yes, it became a big argument.
Well, it was your house, right?
Was it your house?
Yes.
And you had a rule, which was, I don't like my shoes.
Yes.
Well, I mean, I think you're reasonable for, I mean, if that's your place and you're like, hey, I want people to take their shoes off, then.
I guess some people.
I think with most guys, they don't really care so much.
Like, if they're just like, oh, whatever, I'm just going to take the keys or I'm just going to take something that I forgot.
It's just a small thing.
I'm just walking three steps.
But.
Oh.
Oh, so, okay, it wasn't just he was just coming over.
Yeah, yeah.
It was like he took them off already and then he had to go get something.
Yeah, he forgot something.
So I'd rather he would take them off, but then I guess it wasn't a big deal to him.
But to me, it's a big deal.
So I got really mad this one time and I threw his shoes out.
Were you like head over heels in love with this dude?
I guess maybe if I like the guy more I do tend to be more temperamental.
Right, because girls don't dump men they're in love with.
That's the reality.
So they don't dump guys they're in love with.
It's what it is.
Okay, so you have a temper.
Have you ever hit a guy?
Like hit a guy?
Yeah, have you ever hit a guy?
I think I've yelled somewhat abusive things at a guy, but and then maybe I would push the guy away, but I don't think I've like, I guess, hit a guy.
So you have a temper.
Do you raise your voice with your partners?
I do raise my voice, yeah.
And is it like they just piss you off?
They just annoy you, or like you just, it's a bad habit or what?
I think it's just when something pissed me off, it's just always there, you know?
It's always going to be there.
Sure.
Are you working on that?
Are you working on your temper?
Because I think for both men and women, people don't like to date people with a temper.
I think in my case, I am trying to work on it, but then it's not super working.
So I'd rather find someone that is accepts your passive with me.
Well, I'm not sure if that's necessarily the most productive solution to that.
So you prefer more demure, submissive men?
Yes.
Okay, because they will tolerate your abuse.
I don't think abuse is the right word.
Like, if you do it in the way I want it, then I wouldn't abuse you, you know?
But it's just most men don't.
Don't do what?
Like, don't take off their shoes when they go in the house.
Well, I don't think you're wrong for being upset if you have a boundary.
And I mean, I have this rule at my house.
Like, I ask people to take off their shoes if they're coming into my house, but like they fight you on it.
No, like, it's when you catch someone doing it, even though you've told them several times not to.
Or when you told them several times to, hey, when you finish cooking, make sure to wash dishes and stuff.
Oh, the men cook for you.
No, no, no, like, I cook.
Oh, you cook.
But they wash the dishes.
Yeah, so I would go, like, hey, maybe you want to wash the dishes?
They say, okay, but then they don't do it until the next day.
And I'm like, maybe you should do it now.
And they're like, later, later, later, and then later I'll lose my temper.
Okay.
Do the men live with you?
Do they live with you?
Yeah, I had a relationship before.
Okay.
Well, I don't think you're wrong about the whole shout.
I mean, if it's your house, it's kind of your rules, right?
So I don't think you're wrong there, but I think like.
She has the pants on.
But I mean, I think if the guys are not res like, they don't even have the consciousness to respect a kind of very simple basic rule, I'd say, are they fucking brain dead?
Like, it's not that fucking hard to remember to take your shoes off.
But I mean, perhaps the way in which you're dealing with it perhaps could be adjusted.
But yeah, to me, I mean, that's just kind of silly that if it's your place and you have this, because I do the same thing.
I ask people to take their shoes off, so I kind of get it.
It's a cleanliness thing, you know?
You don't want to drag all that dirt into the house, whatever.
But okay, so have you ever sparta the dude into a like a water pit?
Yes!
Like, here's what you do.
Like, let's say the guy's about to come into the room, right?
Into the house, and he has his shoes on, and you're like, no, no, no, like you need to fucking just dropkick him in the fucking chest.
Okay, no, no, no.
Can you actually stand up and demonstrate like a kick for us?
Oh, you want me to demonstrate?
Yeah, like right here.
I'm scared I can't hit the TV.
Yeah, well, don't hit the TV, but.
She has a temper, you know.
All right, show us your, show us your, wait, hold on.
I need it.
I think they can't see me.
You got to scoot that chair back.
Wait.
No, no, no.
Scoot the chair.
Oh, why am I doing this?
Okay.
She stands right here.
Yeah, you got to scoot back.
Keep walking back.
All right.
Yeah, yeah.
Show us your kick.
Show us your kick.
Wow, that was terrible.
No, like, I don't think you can see me, though.
Wait, here.
Okay.
I'll tell you when.
Once this sound stops, do it.
Wow, that was terrible.
Okay, you can sit down.
Go ahead.
It was good.
I think you should try that, though, the next time a guy doesn't want to put his ticket shoes off.
Okay, so we were going around the table.
It was most amount of guys you've dated at one time.
Go ahead.
One.
What about you?
Four.
And how many of them were you sleeping with?
Two.
Sleeping with two, four.
Okay.
One.
And then you said seven to eight, sleeping with three.
And then what about you guys?
How many guys were you?
No, I'm kidding.
How many girls have you been dating at the most?
Six at a time, probably.
And how many were you sleeping with?
All of them.
Listen, gentlemen, never kiss and tell.
Okay.
Yeah, probably around that number as well.
Okay, cool.
Okay, so we did the 10 thing.
I just need to make sure we.
Okay.
Here's the thing.
Last thing on the whole 10 thing.
So there's a difference between being confident and thinking that you're on par with some of the most attractive women in the world.
For example, I give myself a six, maybe a 6.9 on a good day.
If I were to think I was a 10, that would mean I'd have to intellectualize that I am as attractive as Brad Pitt was in his youth.
Like, to me, that's just like, that would be a ridiculous comparison.
Yeah, but if you feel that way and you're that confident.
But it's not about how you feel.
So I think it was Zentiens who chatted it.
Oh, here we go.
Zentiens super chatted $49.99.
M's temper can't handle many guys because if things don't go her way, she throws a dantrum.
Sounds like many modern women who are petulant children.
And be honest, you and the other masculine.
Three or fours on the panel have handed half of LA's in call.
Hey, yo, Zentians, really appreciate the support, man.
Thank you.
And I think it was Zentience's previous message.
He said, you don't dictate your value.
You don't dictate your SMV sexual market value.
The marketplace does.
So I can sit here and say I'm a 10 all day, but like, if women aren't viewing me as a 10, like, what does it matter?
If I'm not being, if I'm not able to have a poll with very attractive women, then it's ultimately delusion.
Because someone who's a 10 could get a 10.
So if you're a 10, you ought to be able to basically get NFL players.
Rugby is the superior sport, by the way.
You should be able to get NFL players, athletes, musicians, male, like just very, very attractive guys, you know?
So, Carson, do you want to pull up that Instagram tab with, this is Logan's saved photo section of really attractive women that he considers like nines and tens.
So that's Wolfie Cindy up there.
We might get her on the podcast, maybe.
Scroll down.
Just keep scrolling, Carson.
So Logan considers, by the way, this isn't Logan's, it's Carson's actually.
Keep scrolling, keep scrolling.
So this is what Carson considers to be like some nines and tens.
Keep going.
Just keep going.
Just keep going down.
Keep going down.
Blast it.
All right, these are some nines and tens, you know, blah, blah, blah, I don't know, maybe not a lot of tens.
Oh, Kristen Kruik in her prime.
Kristen Kruik in her prime.
Smallville, hello.
Anyways, that's pretty much it.
So looks wise, yeah, but relationship-wise, stay away from all these girls.
Oh.
Well, I mean.
They're fun to play with, but not fun to date.
That's the reality.
All right, let's get through the super chats.
Yo, Cheeks, let me pull up Cheeks here.
This came in before the show.
Yo, Cheeks, thank you for the big $100 soup chat.
Hold on, let me get this.
Yo, thank you, man.
By the way, if anyone, we've never done it, we have a trigger for the highest super chat that you can give.
I want to test it out, see if it works.
Okay, not you, Cheeks, just anyone in general.
Okay, I may not be on the live show tonight to the super parties here in Kansas, so I'll drop the soup chat to you, Brian and Crew.
Question for the panel.
Are you comfortable with knowing your father male family members could very likely see your content?
So this is for the three girls who produce content.
Do your father, male family members, do they know your thoughts?
Go ahead.
Male family members or just family members in general.
Yeah, and if you guys, I need to step out for a sec.
If you guys can discuss it, go ahead.
Okay, so my parents don't know I do OF and I don't plan on telling them because I think it could ruin our family relationship.
So I think things are good the way they are.
So why would you start to put it like endanger your relationship?
Well because I think I could make a lot of money on the platform.
So is it because you don't want to put more stress on your parents?
Yeah, it's a lot to do with that.
My mom also has health problems and I personally think it's better that she doesn't know.
Are you helping your parents as well?
Yeah, I help my parents and stuff.
That's cool.
Personally?
How's the relationship with your father?
I don't actually talk to my dad.
My dad cheated on my mom.
My dad has a girlfriend that he has.
Okay, so basically the story of my dad is my dad had a girlfriend that he made his girlfriend at work.
So she was like his personal assistant.
But she was also married and had a kid.
And then they had an affair and then they became dating and got a house together.
How did that make you feel?
I sat in their car before, like me and my dad and his girlfriend.
Honestly, it didn't make me feel terrible.
I just felt kind of bad for my mom because I also feel she was duped by my dad into marrying.
And she was the one who also kind of pressured my dad for marriage.
So I also feel it was kind of her fault as well.
So I don't super blame my dad for a lot of things.
Yeah, I wouldn't blame your dad either.
A lot of guys wouldn't turn down free pussy.
Yeah, so I think it's hard to fully blame him too because my mom also has a bit of an unbearing personality.
So I kind of understand why he cheated, but then I also do feel bad for my mom.
I think the person that should be blamed more is the personal assistant that my dad cheated on my mom with.
She should have known, I think she should have known her place, first of all, and not cheat, because she did have a one-year-old kid during that time.
And she should have been more responsible to her husband as well, who was taking care of that kid.
Do you think if your parents' relationship was better and it was healthy, how would it affect your dating now?
Do you think it would help?
Yes, definitely.
I got the temper issue mostly from my mom because my mom also has a terrible temper, way worse than mine.
And I think that's just kind of branched out on me because what you learn from your parents and how you experience the way your parents treat you, also you kind of treat your partner like that.
Wait, don't leave.
Oh.
I think she's so.
No, she left.
She's gone.
So another thing is, do you see, like...
What the fuck?
I think it is the daddy part.
Start talking about the daddy issues.
No, that wasn't it.
You don't think so?
Maybe.
I think there's no way that was it.
But do you see how you had some sort of envy towards your father, like how your mom did when he cheated on your mom?
Franklin.
Frank Castle.
Hold on, let me just address the Frank.
Anyone want to wager why she left?
I'm going to say daddy issues.
Her?
Her?
Maybe.
Daddy issues.
I mean, we just brought it up, so I don't know.
No, I highly doubt it.
Was she fat?
Is that why?
I think she got bored.
She got bored.
No, it's because of the personal opinions of other people.
And it probably got to her as well as some of the chats.
It was probably the chat went off on her.
That's too bad.
We didn't get to, I wanted to have a conversation with her about some of the predatory stuff.
Well, whatever.
Okay, we are one down.
If she was a 10, she would have the confidence to stay.
If she was a 10, she would stay.
Whale has left the chat.
Whale has left.
She hung up.
Whale has left the chat.
She got a bit of a cheeseburger.
Okay, but going back to the parents' relationship.
He's just saying what the chat is.
Yeah, we're just reading the chat.
Yeah, we're just reading the chat.
We're reading the chat, guys.
We're going to bring my attention.
Okay, yeah.
But going back, so your dad cheated on your mom.
Were you kind of angry at your dad too with your mom?
Because your mom was a mad brand.
Because that time where my dad cheated on my mom, my dad was in Singapore and he was working.
And then my mom still called him every day to make sure that he's okay and stuff.
And I think he completely betrayed her trust by cheating on her.
So you kind of were angry at your dad, right?
I was angry at my dad.
Right.
So do you see how you took on a lot of attributes from your mother?
I would say yes, because my dad, he was there in my life, but I think he was also, he is also not a good parent.
I guess he's very irresponsible.
And so now do you see now that you're taking on those attributes from your mom that you got from your parents?
All right, nobody gives a shit about this.
Okay, so I'm sorry.
This is actually important.
Yo, this is a big deal.
I'm going to let the chat decide.
Do you want to hear her, what's it called?
Sobs.
Do you want to hear her sob story or can we move this along?
No, you want to hear the sob story.
Do you want to hear about daddy issues?
We're getting to the part of daddy shoes because daddy issues is a very important thing for guys when it comes to dating.
You should stay away from girls who have daddy issues.
That is not true.
I fully disagree.
If anything, what I look for in a man has nothing to do with my daddy issues.
I've never met my biological dad, that's whatever.
But I've had men in my life who has played part as dad and that absolutely influences my impact on men.
Because what I see from him when it comes to taking care of me and my other siblings, that's what I look for in another man.
But it has nothing to do.
I understand what you mean when it comes to attachment issues, abandonment issues.
I understand that.
Okay, let's move it along.
So the original question was, are you comfortable with knowing if your father, male family members could very likely see your content?
As I was getting up, I recall you saying that your father and I believe your mother, they don't know that you do OF, correct?
No.
Okay.
Have you considered telling them?
No.
Okay.
I don't plan on telling you.
What would happen if you did tell them?
Oh, well, I've never really considered or even thought about it.
So I don't think, I don't know what will happen.
What if they found out somehow through the grapevine?
The thing is, they will never find out.
That's why it's really, really hard.
I mean, how would they never find out?
It's wrong dinner.
My mom only uses one platform, which is Facebook, and she can't post, right?
She's really technology, like, you know, not good at using phone.
Okay.
Yeah, so she figured out how to screenshot last year.
Okay, what do your parents think?
My parents are young.
They know.
They fully support me as long as I'm doing what makes me happy.
That's it.
Oh, they know?
Okay.
That's what I said.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Go ahead.
Yeah, my parents know too.
They've been married for over 50 years and they fully support me too.
I told them.
How old are your parents?
They're old.
They're almost 80.
They're almost 80.
Okay.
And you don't have only fans.
I work in a hotel.
Let's move it on.
Let's move it on.
Yo, Brian, or sorry, Luis Brito.
Hey, thank you for the Super Chat, man.
Appreciate it.
That short with Feminist for Trump sign is gold.
So funny, how you make the bot malfunction when you asked, did you just assume my gender?
I laughed so hard.
Thank you, man.
Hey, yo, Britto, appreciate that.
Yeah, that's from one of my OG prank videos, Feminist for Trump.
Yeah, that was a fun little interaction, just totally impromptu, improv.
So thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Yo, we have Milliam Wax.
William Maxwell IV.
You guys know this guy?
Sure.
$20 Super Chat.
Sensei Dong, just want to say you got me introduced to the red pill and are the reason why I began to hit the gym, lose weight.
Love the podcast.
Podcast.
Hashtag AOC.
All right.
What's the AOC thing, Andrew?
Well, Cortez, whatever.
First rule of fight clubs, you don't speak about fight clubs.
Okay.
All right, we have Martin.
This one came through as a TTS.
Yo, Martin, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
All these TTSs.
Thank you guys.
Frankie Kay, $20 Super Chat.
How do you say your name again?
Anaya.
Anaya.
Anaya is going to annihilate your wallet later tonight.
Okay.
How do you plan on making money when your looks fit and your bunions grow?
And do you have bunions?
Yes or no?
Confirm or deny?
Do not.
I take pretty good care of my feet.
Okay.
Cool.
Do you want to say anything back to Frankie K?
No.
I mean, obviously, when I don't look the same anymore, then it's obviously time for a different job or occupation.
But with as much as I make, I should be well off by then.
Okay.
Yo, Cheeks, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Thank you to everyone who did the TTSs, by the way.
Big shout out to Dayvon.
Shout out to Cheeks.
Shout out to Zentiens.
Shout out to Matt.
Thank you guys for all the support.
These all came through as TTS, so really appreciate it.
All right, we have Be Easy.
Thank you, man, for the Super Chat.
Appreciate the support.
So stupid if everyone is a 10, then it becomes average, making you a five.
The chair full of blank would tell everyone else to love themselves, you confidence, and what you feel about you isn't what we see.
Yeah, I mean, there's a different, I think I already said this, but there's a difference between being confident and thinking that you were on par with the most attractive women in the world.
I don't think I'm as attractive as certain, you know, male models and celebrities and stuff.
And I think, like, I don't know.
To me, it's just like hubris.
It's ego.
It's just, it's delusion.
And I think that's one of the big issues in the dating marketplace right now.
A lot of people think they're hot shit when they're not.
And I think maybe I pushed her a little, maybe I pushed the buttons a little too hard, and that's why she left.
But it was unfortunate because I really did want to, you know, she wanted to really go at it with the age gap relationships.
That would have been a very productive, well, maybe not productive conversation.
But yo, 444, thank you for the $2 soup chat.
Appreciate the support.
It's not predatory for a man to date women who are legal adults, exactly.
Women.
Older women are difficult to deal with.
When men come home, we want to find peace, not this modern feminist bullcrap shoved into our faces.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Dayvon Jackson, these women are actually the R-word.
Yeah, I don't want to get in trouble with Twitch and what's it called?
YouTube.
But thank you, Dayvon.
All right.
Thank you, Alvin, for those.
Xantians, thank you for all these.
These came through as TTSs.
Yo, Flan Life, $49.
$49 Canadian.
Thank you, man.
Hold up.
Let me print this out.
Oh.
Oh, Flan Life, here's...
Shoot.
The Canadian conversion.
I wish this came through because this would have been really funny if this came through as a TTS.
I don't know if you're willing to send it again, but you have to do a conversion because Canadian 49, it won't trigger the TTS.
You have to make sure that the converted Canadian is 50 USD.
Sorry about that, man.
I'm not sure.
It's all through Streamlabs, so it's not on our end.
I would be happy to have it come through as TTS, but that's just how Streamlabs does it.
They do the conversion.
John Doe, $20 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
Thank you, John.
Just got home from Super Bowl party.
Nice to see Shania.
Shania's lovely face on the panel again.
Hi.
Did I say, how do you pronounce your name?
Shanaya.
Shania Twain.
Okay.
Oh, no.
Jay Hall, $20 Super Chat.
Her, not being honest with her family means that she's ashamed of doing OF.
She's definitely not happy doing it.
Why do something that you're ashamed of and will cause your family turmoil?
Do you have a response to that?
I don't think I'm ashamed doing it, but it's not so much I am ashamed to tell my family it.
I don't want to ruin what I already have that's good with my family, and I don't want to cause them more stress.
So, I mean, if they ask me about it, yes, I will admit it, but why should I bring it up and just ruin everything?
What would happen if your father or mother found out?
I honestly think they would just yell at me and ask me to quit.
Okay.
Would they disown you?
My mom always says that she's going to and stuff, but I know her, even if she acts like she's going to disown me.
Five years later, she's going to message me back and go like, oh, hui lai dia ma, come back for Chinese New Year.
I cook this food or something like that.
So yeah, she'll be okay.
Okay.
So would you bring dishonor to your family?
Like, I guess.
I don't know how to reply to that.
Let's just say yes.
I guess yes, basically.
Did we miss any super chats, Carson?
I thought I started all the time.
Okay, cool, cool, cool.
All right.
So, man, I really wanted to have that discussion with her.
It's unfortunate that she left.
Maybe I should have had that soon.
Well, it is what it is.
So, hmm.
Carson, do you have the tab open with the Leonardo DiCaprio?
Okay.
Oh, here we go.
I'll know this this one may not come through as a TTS, but we'll see.
Don't pull it up quite yet, Carson.
I'm just preempting the TTS that I'm anticipating from Flan Life.
Andrew, appreciate it, man.
By the way, rugby is the superior sport.
Football is.
Who won, by the way?
The Chiefs?
Was it the Chiefs?
I think so.
Honestly, if you're watching football, that shit's super gay.
It's a waste of time.
Super wasted time.
Is it coming through?
Hello?
I don't get why people watch football or basketball.
I understand why people watch fighting.
Flan Life Super Chattanooga $70 Canadian dollars.
Honga, let me print this out.
Brian is a G.
Okay, I guess the spam.
I know this is supposed to make some sort of noise, but the Stream LARBs, the Stream Labs spam must, like there's a spam filter on Stream Labs.
So that's unfortunate.
I don't know why I did that, but Andrew, really appreciate the support, man.
Here, I'll sing the Canadian national anthem.
Oh, Canada.
Okay, there you go.
No, no freedom of speech.
There we go.
There we go.
Okay, so can you, Carson, can you pull up the Leonardo DiCaprio news articles?
Okay.
So Leonard DiCaprio, he's kind of well known for dating women who are older.
Or excuse me, younger.
Sorry, I got my words twisted there.
He's like in his 40s.
He's often dating women who are younger than 25.
He often breaks up with women conveniently when they turn 25.
Most recently, he was spotted sitting with a 19-year-old girl, 19-year-old woman, rather.
And it's not even clear if he's dating her, but all these news publications jumped on it.
Carson, can you scroll down a little bit?
Yeah, so can you keep scrolling?
Oh, actually scroll back up.
Can you switch it to the news tab?
Yeah, scroll down.
So the independent, scroll down just a bit more.
Yeah, so LeonardoCaprio's rumored new girlfriend sparks age gap comparison with Pedro Pascal because in the HBO show, there's The Last of Us, and that's the age difference between the two stars of the show.
I can't remember the girl's name.
She was in Game of Thrones too.
So what do you guys think of that?
I wish she was still here because we wanted to talk about it.
But anyway, she's gone.
So what do you guys think?
Age gap relationships?
Yay, nay, thoughts?
Go ahead.
I don't think it's actually a bad thing because I think some older guys definitely do want spice in their life and younger, I guess younger 19 to 25 year old girls are looking for someone who's more patient with them as maybe they seem to be much more emotional and going through like hard times maybe at college or just trying to settle into adulthood.
Okay.
Yeah.
What's the uh what's the oldest guy you've dated?
Um the oldest guy I did it maybe was 28.
28?
Okay.
Yeah.
What do you what do you think?
I don't think it's a problem.
I think at the end of the day, no one ever says anything when a younger woman wants an older guy, but then when the older guy wants a younger woman, then it's a problem.
I think as long as they're both adults and they both consent to whatever, then it's fine.
Your thoughts?
Yeah, same.
I just feel like a lot of young girls, like 19, 20 year olds, like they don't want to put up with like immature men with no money.
So I can see why they seek out to like 30s and 40 year old men.
And yeah, no hate to that.
Okay.
I usually date older, so I don't see anything wrong with it.
I do understand why this one in particular is a little bit eyebrow raising because of the age comparison gaps and all that stuff.
But like I said, I do it, so I don't see anything wrong.
Sure.
Okay.
Do you guys have thoughts on Leo's stuff at all?
Yes.
I mean, if I was older, I would want a younger, more like brand new to the world, more innocent, I would say.
And yeah.
I mean, just look at Leo when he's with a young girl.
He looks happy as fuck.
Then you look at Will Smith with Jada, and he looks sad as fuck and he's crying.
So that's just the reality.
Like, look who's happier.
He looks happy as fuck with these young girls.
These girls look happy as well.
Like, she wants it, he wants it.
Cool.
Whatever floats your boat.
I think that's how it should go.
But I mean, look at Will Smith, though, dude.
He looks sad as fuck.
Yeah, and I'm sure she's benefiting a lot from him as well.
A lot, yeah.
Yeah, and you know, man, she would have been.
God damn it.
Did we go too hard?
No.
Did we go too hard?
Was that the chat?
Was the chat brutal?
I think it's probably the chat.
I think the chat would be hard.
Listen.
Honestly, if you were as confident as you say you were, then the chat wouldn't bother you.
Because like she said, they're talking behind the screen.
So it shouldn't matter.
Word?
Yeah.
It just would have been good because I think she was the one who said it was predatory.
Go ahead.
I would also like to say that I don't actually smell.
Smell?
Yeah, like Franfresh said that I smelled bad, but that wasn't true, because they had a Japanese girl beforehand that said that I smelled, and then they that she smelled, and then she said she smelled bad due to nervousness, and then after that they kind of vented it on me, which I felt was kind of wrong of them too.
So yeah yeah, they were going off on her smelling yeah, but I don't actually smell.
You can smell me if you want.
You're gonna have to pay me 500 bucks for that one, but really I really don't smell.
I know that's your kink and everything, having guys smell your armpits, but I'm I'm pricey, I'm expensive.
So, do you have any cash on you?
I'll do it for 500.
Do you have any five?
Do you have 500?
Um I, we can do Venmo.
Yeah, will you actually pay me?
Um, I don't actually have Venmo, maybe PayPal.
Will you actually pay me $500 if I smell your armpits?
I'm gonna do it bruv, I mean, if you say, if you say how it smells, if you describe to chat you, you promise you'll pay me if I do it damn, I mean sure okay, You have to come over here though, Wait, hold on, hold on.
Let's.
Okay, we gotta see the handshake.
Do I have to compliment you or like can I give you fair criticism?
Like, what if you do smell?
Are you did you put on deodorant?
No, I don't use deodorant, but I don't smell.
Like, I know for sure that I don't smell.
Are you actually gonna pay me, though?
I mean, if you, if you, like, you promise.
Sure, okay.
See, because listen, all these men that are paying you for your OnlyFans, it's going into my pockets now.
This is the circle of life, baby.
This is the circle of life.
They pay you for your, you know, your J-O-I, and you pay me for smelling.
I mean, if you're smart.
Is this an L, guys?
Is this an L?
Am I?
Should I do this?
Case your bag.
Casey's bag.
Get your money.
Wait, the armpit swindler, not the Tinder spring.
Boys, do I do it?
On one hand, it's kind of degrading.
On the other hand, like, I'm finessing her out of $500.
No.
Zenti super chatted $49.99.
Why would I bring it up and ruin what I have left?
That's the same mentality women take when they cheat, like steal, etc.
Having character means doing the right thing, even when it's uncomfortable.
Also, stop simping for the Sex Doll 2.0 next to Blue Hair.
Wait, who's the, which one?
Next to Blue Hair?
The Sex Doll 2.0.
There's Kiki.
you know what sentience i am actually a company reached out to me and i might be getting another another doll for complimentary they For personal use.
No, for podcast use.
By the way, so Cynthia was kind of saved by the bell there, but I think you entered a legally binding contract with me to pay me $500 for me to smell your arm.
Wait, one thing, chat.
Chat.
I want chat to vote if I actually do this.
On one hand, it's kind of an L, but on the other hand, it's kind of a W because she would be paying me.
That's like the reverse finesse.
They said do it, Brian.
So one in the chat, if I do it, if I smell her armpits for $500, two in the chat, no, Brian, keep your dignity and your respect.
Listen here, though, you give $500.
That's an easy win.
One in the chat.
One in the chat, I do it.
Two in the chat, I don't do it.
Oh, but you have to give like a description of how it smells.
Fine.
Can he be honest, though?
Can you be like 100% transparent?
Wait.
Will you?
Do you have your phone with you?
You got to do it right here, right now.
Wait, you'll actually do it.
You'll actually do it, though.
Okay, yeah.
Venmo Cash App?
I think.
You promised.
How about we'll do it after the show?
You promise, though.
Yeah.
Here, we got a shake on it.
Okay.
Okay.
Sheesh.
Boys, hold on.
Wait, hold on.
Let me find something for this.
There's a.
All right, 500 bucks.
You know, let's double or nothing.
What do I have for you to pay me 500 bucks?
Come on.
Reverse.
The reverse finesse.
Nothing?
Nothing?
Maybe you can pay her like 500 bucks and she'll show her feet off.
If I show my feet, will you pay me 500 bucks?
No.
Okay, all right.
She is immune to the finesse.
Okay, here, come over here.
I'll smell it.
Okay.
Oh, my God.
Oh, my God.
Can I, like, this is City Boys up?
Question mark moment?
I think you come, like.
Can we record it?
Clip it.
Let me record.
Clip it.
Here, hold on, scoot.
Screen record, everyone, screen record.
Everyone record right now.
I don't think you can see me.
you're kind of, I think you should have came over here.
And then I'll move.
And then like, you know.
Chat, why are you making me do this?
Do it.
Do it.
All right, back like this.
Back like this, actually.
You come here.
Okay, yeah, yeah, this is.
On him too, huh?
Oh, God.
Oh!
What was that?
Wait, wait, wait, one more time, one more time.
No more!
You're not getting paid.
You're not getting paid for that.
You gotta do it for real.
The camera didn't see my reaction.
Okay, okay, okay.
No.
Hold on, guys.
He got lightheaded.
He got lightheaded.
What do y'all think?
You think it does or it doesn't?
Okay, Brian got the bag.
All right.
My first question is.
My first question is, are you wearing deodorant?
No.
Isn't there a movie called Scent of a Woman?
So you want me to describe it?
Yes, describe it.
You're like a mix between...
There's like a very strong forest smell.
Okay.
There's a foresty smell.
Okay.
Have you showered today?
Yes.
Have you exercised today?
No.
Have you eaten any cilantro or onions today?
No.
Um, I guess I have faux.
Does that count?
Is that cilantro?
There is.
Sorry.
So, do you want my honest answer?
Yes.
By the way, I do want to remind you that you shook on it, so it.
Yeah, okay.
You'll pay me.
You promise.
Yeah.
You promise?
Yeah.
You promise.
You said you promised three times.
Okay, easy dub.
Okay.
So, why don't you wear deodorant?
I don't feel like I smell terrible.
You don't think you smell terrible.
You want to know why that is?
Because when people have a certain scent, they're so used to their own scent that they don't know.
It's not overpowering, but it's noticeable.
Okay, so it's like my scent.
It's a little overpowering.
But you know what?
I thought.
I thought Asian people.
Like you sat me here.
Yeah, we don't smell.
I thought Asian people typically don't have much.
uh they're less likely to have oh zenshin super chatted 49 and 99 cents I was telling Chat to stop simping for the tattooed sex doll.
Wannabe singer next to Kiki.
Women earn your time.
Dollar attention, otherwise you focus on your purpose.
Sonny or shit.
Shania or Shelly, whatever her name is, no exception.
So, wait, he's talking about you?
Wait, me?
He said tattooed and then...
Oh, wait.
What?
Otherwise, focus on your purpose.
I am tatted.
You can't see it.
He might be talking about it's Nate, right?
Yes.
Nathan?
Yeah.
Zentiens, are you talking about Nathan?
But hey, Zentiens, thank you for the soup chat, man.
Appreciate it.
By the, oh, Zentians.
Zentiens, I wanted, can you DM me on Instagram?
Because I wanted to.
You mentioned potentially calling in to a show.
I don't know if you're down.
DM me on Instagram at whatever.
I don't know if you have Instagram.
I have email, brian at whatever.com.
Let's get in touch, man.
Someone said pay another guy for a second opinion.
So, are you kind of more like a very natural type of chick?
Like a natural type.
What does that even mean?
Like, do you like a natural scent?
Like, you don't like using deodorant because the chemicals are lazy.
It tastes more like I'm lazy.
Definitely more on the lazy side.
It's, I've smelled worse.
Okay, so it's like a forest smell that doesn't smell terrible but noticeable.
I don't know.
It's a little musky.
Can I see on it?
Like a dirt.
Do you want to smell it?
No, I can.
Okay, listen.
Just be just be straight up.
I think that you should really invest in deodorant because it definitely helps.
Even if you are clean, even if you do shower, sometimes people just need it.
Or maybe some perfume.
I know I would rather smell my perfume.
I can't even smell that.
So yeah, I definitely think that it would help.
I think it would better your chances with anything, really.
But it is overpowering.
And I don't like it personally.
Just like it's not for me.
Like, you don't like smelling yourself.
It smells like you went to the gym and then you didn't take a shower after.
I naturally do use deodorants.
So, I mean, I don't stink.
So, yeah.
I think you should invest in some flower.
Oh, wait, whoops.
And don't take it the wrong way.
I'm just telling you, I know some people feel that way here, too.
So, wait, don't lie.
What did the fresh and fit guys tell you?
I mean, the thing is, they sprayed deodorant three times before the show because they were so concerned about the fact that I smelled due to the fact there was a previous girl.
Closer to the mic.
There was a previous Asian girl on the show that smelled, so then they said that I smelled and but then they also sprayed deodorant three times before on the show.
Wait, they hold on, let me up.
They said that there was a previous Asian girl that smelled.
Yes.
And then they, so they deodorized you.
Yes, before the show, and then after.
That might be a little racist, but that's a little questionable.
Can I ask a question real quick?
Yeah, they learned from their experiences.
You're her friend, and y'all be hanging out.
You don't think that maybe she could use some deodorant or something?
Do you think she smells fine?
Like, it doesn't bother you?
It doesn't bother me to be.
Do you smell like that too?
Do I?
No, I'm asking you.
Do you think you do?
I don't think I'm not gonna test it.
I don't think I'm not gonna test it.
I don't know.
Do you use deodorant?
So you wouldn't tell her to?
It's not that overbearing, but you still smell it, though.
Yeah, sometimes.
Okay.
Depends how close she is to me.
Okay.
But do you ever tell her, like, hey, maybe, you know.
Yeah, I mean, there's natural deodorants that don't have, you know, bad smell in it.
Yeah, you know, there's other ones you can use, or even like just perfume.
Like, they have, if you get a nice one, they don't have alcohol in them.
So they last.
Or even men's cologne.
Axe body spray would be way better than what I have now.
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So I have a question for you, though.
And I don't know how interested the chat is in all this talk about deodorants.
So did the fresh and fit guys, like, did they spray you down with a crop duster or what did they do?
No, they used like a body spray and then perfume after.
Okay.
Like, actually, could we do that?
Like, do you have some for Breeze?
Like, I have perfume in my body.
Hey, she has a temper.
Be careful.
No, I'm just saying, like, me personally, like, I'd rather smell my perfume.
She doesn't have a like I said, don't take it personally.
Okay, it's just advice constructive criticism.
Can we do that or no?
Well, I'd say let's just not interrupt the show.
I think we'll just all have to continue on.
But my question is, have you ever worn deodorant?
I did.
Like, I guess for special events, if I feel like I would get nervous about things.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Does this upset you that we're addressing, that we're mentioning this?
No, like, no, I'm not.
I'm not.
I'm not.
How did this even come up anyway?
I didn't bring it up.
No, like, because you were smelling it.
No, but that came before the whole.
Oh, no, no, because people were talking about it.
Oh, yeah, they were saying it since we began.
Like, they kept bringing that shit up.
Yeah, do you want me to describe more of the scent?
Should if you want to.
Yeah, it's like a forest.
It's like the woods.
i'm telling you but like woods in like atlanta georgia in the summertime i'm talking like a nice I'm talking humid.
I'm talking humid and the swamps like just down the corner.
So I dirty gym locker after football season.
I'm just, listen, listen, baby girl.
This is what I think you got to do, baby.
Listen, you're a very attractive woman.
Just get yourself some deodorant and you're all good.
You all good.
Isn't like the forest smell a nice smell?
No.
Listen, listen, there's going to be.
You know what, girl?
You do you.
There's going to be a guy that's going to just want to sniff up in them armpits and just make sweet, passionate love to you.
I'm pretty sure there's one guy that's like that.
Just find a guy with a big bush of beard that's just going to love that smell.
What?
What's wrong with that?
Listen, Cynthia, is that your real name?
What's your Malaysian name?
What do you mean by that?
Like, what's your Malaysian name?
I don't think I have a Malaysian name.
I have an Asian name.
Jeff is what he means.
An Asian name.
That shit was racist.
That's what you were asking me.
dare you um yes i do but what is it Oh, you don't say it.
Okay, yeah, you don't want to dox yourself.
That's fine.
Listen, there's going to be some guy out there that's just going to be like, baby girl.
I love the smell of you.
As soon as I step in the door, I can just smell you and that just turns me on.
It follows me all the time.
It just gets me going, girl.
All right, so that's what, listen.
Don't change, baby girl.
Don't change for anybody.
Do what's good for you.
Some guy's going to love that smell.
But I mean, I think, what's that male deodorant?
Old spice.
Axe.
I think Old Spice.
They sell it for they sell that shit for $3 at the supermarket.
Just saying.
Okay.
So.
At least you want 500 bucks.
You actually going to pay me, though?
Of course.
I will fit you.
The way she said that she said that, she's like, I'm telling you.
We shook on it.
We shook on it.
You promise.
Yeah.
If you don't, I'm going to reveal some secrets about you after next show.
Okay, okay, yeah.
Oh, okay.
All right.
Oh, man.
All right.
I ain't free.
Okay, okay.
I got to drop this stupid accent.
Okay, what were we talking about?
Oh, was I doing super chats?
Let me do super chats.
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Okay.
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So we have Teeny Tiny here.
By the way, have you been starring the TTSs, Carson?
Not a lot.
Okay.
I think two might have came through.
I don't know if we got those, but hey, Teeny, thank you for the $20 Super Chat.
No, it wasn't chat.
She wasn't looking at chat.
It was the question asked, if your parents' relationship was better, do you think it would help with dating now?
She left right then.
That plus the mistress's fault part, she was mad.
Wait, the mistress's fault?
She's talking about when that girl got up and left, we were talking about her family issues.
I don't think that there's no way that that was it.
She was for sure seething about the other stuff, I think.
It was a very random time to leave, but she might have been thinking about it.
I think it was just like the chat, and I think I prodded a little bit, but I think I was polite overall.
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Yes.
Okay.
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And then we had Zentiens here.
He's talking about the female.
Oh, we already read that one.
Yeah, I know, but who is the...
He's talking about, I don't know.
Shania.
I think he was saying the females in the chat were...
There's no girls watching this shit.
Talking about me?
No, he said the guys need to stop being horny towards the girls.
Oh, were the girls?
Anaya was mean to Cynthia?
Who's Cynthia?
Her here, right next to you.
I'm so sorry.
God damn, you've been mean.
I literally told her it was no hard feelings.
Constructive criticism.
She literally said she didn't take it personally.
Just because you're sensitive doesn't mean everyone else is.
Thank you.
So, Cynthia, earlier on in the show, you mentioned body count, and I said we would come back to that.
Before you share that, if you want to, do you guys think that body count should matter?
Yes.
Well, let's let the girls go first.
I think, maybe yes.
I think for both men and women.
Okay.
I wouldn't want to, I guess, date a guy that has been with many girls.
Just like how maybe as a guy, I wouldn't want to date a girl that's been with many guys.
I think it's fair on both ends.
Sure.
Honestly, I think it does matter, but with this day and age, everyone says that it's okay when guys do it, but not when girls do it.
Okay, so you're talking about like the double standard.
There is a double standard with the girls.
Wait, so you object to the double standard or you just acknowledge it exists?
I don't object with the double standard.
So you think, are you saying when you say double standard, do you mean like a guy who has a high body count who wants a girl with a low body count?
Or do you mean guys are applauded if they sleep with a lot of women, whereas women are shamed if they sleep with a lot of men?
Well, actually, it goes with both.
But I do think that a bigger thing is that a lot of men expect women to have low body counts when they have, like, triple what you have, and then it becomes a problem.
Okay, so I'm going to address that.
I just want to let everyone go, but I will address the double standard after.
Go ahead.
Probably not because I prefer someone with more experience.
Okay.
So body count should not matter.
Yeah, it should not matter.
I don't think it matters if one is dirty, Mike Super Chatted $50.
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One with a forest of smell to her.
Oh, well.
There you go.
Hey, hey, Cynthia, can you look into this camera right here?
Right here, right here.
Give a wink.
A little.
Okay.
Wait.
Okay.
Go ahead, Shania.
I don't think body count should matter as long as everyone's tested and safe.
Okay.
And then you guys over here?
For guys, I don't think it matters, but for girls, it does because, well, you're not praised for something that's easy.
You're praised for something that's hard.
Yeah, I think it shouldn't be good for girls to have a high body count.
It definitely affects them on a level when it comes to marriage and pair bonding.
For guys, it doesn't really affect guys.
But yeah, I don't think it really matters for guys that much.
I think it actually helps them.
Okay, so what's your body count?
I have a body count of six, three, sixteen, two, 44.
Honestly, I don't even keep track.
I don't know.
Over 100.
Listen, gentlemen, never kiss and tell.
Okay.
Okay.
So I want to bring it back to the double standard thing.
So you said that you object to a guy wanting a girl with a low body count if they themselves have a high body count, correct?
So for example, Nathan over here says 44.
But he wants, you want, Nathan, you want a girl with a low body count, correct?
Why should you deserve it?
Why should I deserve it?
Why is it okay for you to go sleep around with everyone else and stick it out?
harder for me and stick your obviously not Because, I mean, I got three and you got 44.
It's easy for us to be just as easy for you.
And even if it is easier, harder for me, it doesn't matter.
Because the moment that I, if I came up to you and told you, hey, I got like 40 to 50 bodies, you'd be like, hell no, she's ran through.
But you're just as ran through.
So nobody says anything.
No, he's not ran through.
He's the one running through.
Oh, hold on, guys.
That's exactly what I did.
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So were you about to answer?
Regardless, me personally, I don't care, but I do think that it does matter because you're telling me you can go around and bust the nut in 44 females, but I can't go around and let 44 men bust the nut in me.
Yeah, you can't.
Because if I'm dominating them, you're being dominated.
But how do you know that I don't like being the dominant one?
What if I choose to dominate them?
That's not how male and female work.
Do you morally?
Morally?
Because that's how it should be?
Because that's how we were taught it should be?
Or because you think it should be that way?
Because me personally, I think it can go either way.
I think if I want to be the dominant one, I can be the dominant one.
Have you ever pegged a dude?
I have not.
What are you doing later?
Kidding.
I'm kidding.
Come on, guys.
I'm asking for a friend.
Shania.
Actually, can I ask you?
What do you think about the double standards on that?
Do you think it matters?
The double standard?
Huh?
What about it?
Do you think it matters?
Do you think that...
Do I think there's a double standard?
Yeah.
Yes.
Do I think it's justified?
Yes.
How so?
Well, okay, so the first one, there's two sort of double standards that I can approach this from.
There's the, ooh, it's fucking windy.
There's the societal sort of double standard of guys get applauded for sleeping with a lot of women, women get shamed for sleeping with a lot of men.
I'll touch on that one later.
The primary double standard I want to talk about is the complaint of men who have a high body count preferring and wanting women with a low body count.
So my question to you is, are there things that you desire in a partner that you yourself do not possess?
Can you give me an example?
For example, how tall are you?
Five, six.
I don't care about height.
You don't care about height?
Okay.
Do you acknowledge that most women care about height?
I do, yeah.
Do you acknowledge that, for example, maybe a woman who's average height would want a guy who's perhaps above average height or at least taller than her, right?
Yeah.
So maybe you have any female friends.
Maybe they're five foot four.
They want a guy who's six feet plus.
Any of your female friends want to date a tall guy?
I don't have any female friends.
You don't have any female friends.
Well, that's another conversation, but.
But okay, so you do acknowledge, though, that there are women who are short who want a man who is tall.
So me saying, oh, well, it's unreasonable for, or someone saying it's unreasonable for a man with a high body count to want a woman with a low body count would be the same as me saying it's unreasonable for a short woman to want a guy who's tall because you can only desire something in someone that you yourself possess.
But we know simply that that's just not the case.
I have a few more examples.
So let me okay.
A lot of women want a guy who's funny and who can make them laugh.
I would say though, those very same women that want a funny guy are not funny themselves.
They can't make a guy laugh.
Not all of them.
Some women can be funny, although I haven't met many.
But here's a few more.
Okay.
Many women want a guy who's chivalrous, yet they are not chivalrous themselves.
Many women want men who are strong, yet they are not strong themselves.
Many women want men to take initiative, yet women do not take initiative themselves.
Many women want men to chase them, but they don't chase themselves.
Many women want men who are confident, but they are not confident themselves.
Many women want men to ask them out on dates and pay for them, but they don't do the same.
So, as far as this double standard goes, I think it's perfectly reasonable for men to desire something in a partner that they do not themselves possess.
And that being a guy who's slept with a lot of women, it's not, I don't think it's hypocritical for him to want a woman who is more innocent and who doesn't have a high body count because men value that in women.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, I understand what you mean.
And like I said, like to me, it doesn't matter, but I do know it's very controversial.
What's controversial?
The double standard when it comes to men having higher body counts and being praised, and women having high body counts and it being a problem.
Well, men and women value different things.
Let me ask.
Okay.
It's like I'm trying to think how I exactly want to articulate this.
So would you date?
Let's say you're 40 years old and you're like a high-powered attorney.
Let's say you're 30 years old and you're an attorney, right?
Would you date a 20-year-old virgin who doesn't make much, who's like a barista?
No.
Okay, what about you?
Just the fuck, yeah.
You can date.
Oh, like have a relationship with him.
No.
Oh, can you repeat?
Cynthia, I know everyone in the chat is roasting you.
I'm not bothered about that.
I just like to talk about it.
I know you're getting a lot of proposals about a lot of guys want to smoke.
I was just coughing at the side.
No, it's all good.
So the question is, let's say you're 30 years old and you're an attorney.
Would you date a guy who's 20 years old, a virgin, and like works at Starbucks?
Yes, I really don't mind.
Oh, my God.
Yeah, but that's not.
Stop the cat.
No, no, no.
But it's mostly because I guess I want someone who works at Starbucks because maybe it means that he's hardworking.
If he's there for Monday to Friday, eight hours a day, that means he's going to be hardworking and then he can help me with work and stuff on the web because that's a lot of work.
On the web?
Yes.
On the web.
Oh, okay.
Does it bother you?
Would it bother you because he's a virgin?
Or you don't care?
No, no.
I've dated virgins before.
Well, I mean, you said you're more dominant, so I guess you're an outlier in that sense.
But I believe she said earlier she likes men with a lot of experience.
No one's going to be able to do that.
No, I thought that was a good idea.
That was me.
Yeah, no, I think you said that you want to wear the pants in the relationship kind of.
Yeah, I am someone who prefers to wear the pants in a relationship.
I like deciding where to eat and I like deciding what to do.
Sure.
Okay.
What about you?
You're a 30-year-old attorney.
Would you date a 20-year-old virgin?
If I was choosing to date someone that much younger than me, I would realize that when I was 20, I was probably also working at Starbucks and was also a virgin.
And so I would have to keep that in mind and be like, okay, you know, I was in his shoes, so we all start somewhere.
Sure.
Okay.
I want to continue on the double standards thing.
Would you guys, I know you guys are both 19, but would you guys, when you're in your 30s or 40s, would you rather date, how do I, actually, there's a better formulation of this question.
It is something along the lines of, would you rather date a 20-year-old virgin?
Would you rather date a 20-year-old virgin who works at Starbucks or a 40-year-old attorney who's betted 100 partners?
20.
Yeah, 20.
Probably the 40-year-old.
40-year-old?
40.
40.
20.
20.
Okay, all right, sure, okay.
Stop the cat.
20, I guess?
Okay, all right.
So I want to bring it back to the double standards thing.
Kind of just to emphasize this whole you don't always seek in a partner that which you possess yourself.
So let me ask you guys a question.
Would you be less attracted to a guy who struggled to do one push-up?
No, if he was smart.
You wouldn't be turned off by a guy who struggled to do one push-up.
Like you physically saw him struggling to just do one push-up.
No, I don't think so.
That wouldn't be a turn-off.
If he was smart, like, you know, some people can struggle to do one push-up.
Yeah, I can't do a push-up.
Maybe if he was in med school or something.
I mean, even guys who don't aren't physically active, like most, you have to be pretty weak as a guy to not be able to do one push-up.
Like, you're on, like, you're in the bottom 10% of strength.
I'm not joking when I say most of the guys in my engineering major can't actually do a push-up.
Have you seen them do a push-up?
Like, I've seen them carry a grocery bag and they've struggled with it, so they most likely could not do a push-up.
Okay, so you wouldn't, it would not, it would not move you at all if a guy was physically weak.
No.
Doesn't matter at all?
No.
Okay.
All right.
That's fine.
What about you?
Would you be attracted to a guy who's like physically weak?
No, I like Biltman.
Okay.
What about you?
Slim Bill is okay.
I don't really care about physical.
Well, they don't have to be jacked, but like, I'm talking one push-up.
That's like just bare minimum strength.
It's not even strength, really, but.
I mean, if they have other things going for them, then I don't really mind.
Okay.
This is a lot of cap, but I don't know.
Stop the cap.
Okay, what about you?
If they can't do one push-up, I would not be attracted.
Okay.
Do you guys want a guy who's capable of protecting you?
here you two um i don't feel like it's closer to the mic I don't feel like it's a huge deal because I never really leave my house.
I am a really home person.
Well, even more reason.
What about the home invasion?
Shoot.
I think how much do you weigh?
How much do you weigh?
95 pounds.
Do you own a firearm?
Second Amendment, maybe.
No.
But I don't really live in a country where you need one.
Oh, where do you live?
I live in Netherlands.
Oh.
It's safe there.
Is it though?
Just stabbing.
I mean, I've been to the Netherlands three times.
Are you in Amsterdam?
Okay.
Well, first off, I love Amsterdam.
Fantastic city.
So next time I'm there, I'll say what's up.
Oh, really shocking.
Yeah, I'll smell you again.
Okay.
For another 500 bucks.
Yeah, we'll go to the forest and it'll all be fine.
Maybe you can have the vibe of it.
Maybe you can show her a few different deodorant choices while you're playing.
Okay, so, how we're, okay.
I mean, you're in Amsterdam.
I mean, there's, I don't know.
I'm not familiar with crime statistics in Amsterdam, but I know Europe is generally safe, at least Western Europe.
Well, it depends where, but it's generally safer than the U.S., at least when it comes to home invasion.
I guess if I lived in the U.S., I would probably get a firearm.
Closer to the mic?
If I live to the U.S., I'll probably get a firearm.
And I also think living in a good area in the U.S. is really important.
Like a good neighborhood.
The armpit will protect her.
By the way, Carson, you can pull up some of these regular chats from time to time.
Did you fall on Fresh and Fit?
That's what they said.
Fall?
Yeah, they said.
Like you fell?
They said she fell.
Did you fall over?
No, I don't think so.
Oh.
They said she fell.
We saw you fail on fail or fall?
Oh, fail.
Okay.
Okay, anyways.
Did you get to answer?
I think it was a push-up.
Was it the push-up one?
Where did he do that?
Yeah.
Yep.
Do you want a guy who's capable of protecting you?
I'd like that, but I own a firearm.
Oh, you own a firearm?
You live in the United States.
Where do you live?
San Francisco.
What?
San Francisco's a failed society, but no offense, but okay, it's probably good that you own a firearm in SF.
Oh, okay.
Congrats, you own a firearm.
So you could take care of yourself to some degree.
But let's say you're out on the town with your boyfriend.
Do you have a CCW?
I have a pepper spray.
But you can't conceal carry your firearm.
No, I don't.
Okay, so let's say you're out on the town with your boyfriend, and he's a scrawny software engineer, and like some fucking homeless dude starts throwing poop at you guys in the streets of San Francisco because that happens.
Would you want your boyfriend to defend you?
I like that.
Okay, but if your boyfriend is physically weak, then he's less capable of being able to defend you.
Okay, let me ask the guys.
Here.
Would you be less attracted to a girl who struggled to do one push-up?
Like, it wouldn't be like, you wouldn't really care, right?
No, it doesn't matter at all.
You wouldn't care.
So that's the thing.
Men and women, we value different things in the partner.
So I hope that at least sort of addresses the double standard.
But yeah.
Let me get these soup chats.
Oh, wait.
I think we got.
Are you sure?
Oh, okay.
Yeah, yeah.
I think this is it.
All right, cool.
Let me just check one thing if we had any.
Nope, we're good there.
Okay, so we have.
One sec, guys.
Sorry, I'm pulling up my nose.
Oh, here we go.
I'll just.
Yo, reclaim your throne.
Thank you for the $20 soup chat, man.
I think we've been messaging on Instagram.
Good to see you in the chat, man.
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The girl lying about her age needs to grow up.
She's just Shang Nu.
What's that?
He's talking about you.
Sheng Nu?
What is that?
I don't know what that is.
Sheng.
I don't think he's spelling it right.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Well, he's questioning your age.
Then I don't know what to tell you, and I've been married before, and I divorced him, so, and I'm not looking to be married again.
Okay.
So of the girls who do OnlyFans, you guys do like cosplay type stuff, yeah?
Can we get your best oo go?
Uhu.
Hold on, dude, again.
Ooh, okay, that was terrible.
Go ahead.
Nah.
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What the fuck?
Okay, can we get Ara-Ara?
Ara-Ara.
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It's a dog.
Do you know what it is?
No.
Oh, do you know what I'm talking about?
Yeah.
Can you do it?
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You don't have to do that.
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Do you guys know the ahigao?
Ahe gal?
Like the face?
Yeah.
Into this camera, please.
Oh, no.
Can't bring my eyes back.
No, what?
Ahigao?
I can't really do it right because you guys don't really move well.
Give it a shot.
Right here, this camera?
Right here.
I don't feel like it's very good because wow, that's beautiful.
Okay.
So do you guys think dating is harder for men or for women?
I think it's both.
I think it's both.
Yeah, it depends on the person, honestly, and your attractiveness.
Actually, I think, actually, I do think it's harder for women majority of the time, but I do sympathize when it comes to men.
I only think that it's harder for women because they get attached like easily.
And majority of the time, men and women, when they talk or talking, dating, whatever, they decide to have sex at a very early time in the relationship.
And it causes a lot of attachment.
And eventually, guys aren't straight up at all.
Guys, guys aren't straight up.
Guys are not straightforward whatsoever.
You'll rarely ever meet a dude that is straight up with you about how he feels, what he wants from you.
Guys can't be straight up.
I know they can't.
But there's no.
They just don't.
What I'm saying is I'm not saying that they're not capable of being straight up.
It's if men were straight up, it just would not work.
Women claim that they want, can you hide this cards and women claim that they want guys to be forward and direct and just upfront with their intentions.
But when men are upfront, it just doesn't work.
It doesn't work.
So here, I mean, I'll do.
Let me try a little experiment here.
Cynthia, right?
Yes.
Okay.
After the podcast, would you like to hook up?
What?
Do you want to hook up with him after the podcast?
Yes or no?
Is it only yes or no?
Not like yes or no.
Just yes or no.
No.
Just hook up right after.
Okay, well, no, because we haven't gone on a date and I don't really know you.
Oh, a date has to come first.
Yeah, maybe if I got to know you better, then I would need to think about it.
Oh, oh, okay.
Yeah.
Would you like to hook up after the podcast?
I'm not attracted to you.
No.
Oh.
Well, hey, there you are.
See, for me, I prefer straight up men.
It definitely helps things look a lot smoother.
She thinks Brian cute.
Well, like a dad, but like, I'm not into like dils.
I'm not into dilths.
What the fuck?
It's not the dilf man has it the beard.
I'm into Asian men.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
Got Logan over here.
After the podcast, would you like to hook up with me?
Probably after a few drinks.
Oh, after a few drinks.
Okay.
All right.
Well, I don't drink.
I don't really drink.
I don't really drink, so I'm.
You got the Celsius.
Okay.
Shanaya.
After the podcast, would you like to hook up with me?
If I didn't have work in the morning.
Oh, no.
Oh.
Just call in sick.
Okay.
All right.
Look, guys can't be straight up.
Because if we are, it's not.
Women always want like something Before, not always, but most men, if there's if they were straight up like that, it just wouldn't work.
I think it's the same for I think some men too.
Like, some men genuinely do want a relationship and not just to hook up.
Sure, but like, okay, we've done this experiment before.
So, and I did it 10 years ago, and it's probably even more so the case now.
Any of you girls, if you go to the street and you approach a guy and you just say, Hey, do you want to hook up with me?
Like, not every guy's gonna say yes, but you will get a guy to say yes to you.
If a guy does that, even a really attractive guy, he's time in a place.
There's a time and a place to start with.
But no girl is gonna say yes.
Maybe like one in a thousand might say yes.
Oh, they're gonna think he's weird.
Unless he's hot.
We had like a very attractive guy do it, and he went oh for a hundred.
Really?
Oh, for a hundred.
Just going up to girls, asking them, Hey, do you want to hook up?
It's also because girls also care about this safety as well.
Like, you don't know when you go home with some guy, like, he's gonna kidnap you or something like that.
Yeah, but girls, girls will want something.
I mean, like, I mean, I guess it brings a little bit of excitement.
It's a little thing that leads on, you know, and it's a lot more.
It puts a lot more into it than just like, hey, I like you, I like you, let's date, let's fuck, whatever.
It's a little boring at that point.
But I do, me personally, I do prefer men that keep it 100.
Yeah, if a guy does that, though, it definitely shows a lack of understanding with women because what they say and what they do are two different things, right?
So, girls are going to say, oh, I want a guy who's straight up, whatever, whatever.
But in reality, that's not how it works.
Maybe you guys want a guy who's more indirect in what he's saying, but he's still getting across that he's insinuating that he wants to have sex with you.
So, like, hey, how about we go back to my house and we go pray?
Or how about we go open up the Bible, right?
Play Minecraft, or we go play Minecraft.
Rock, paper, scissors, you know.
How about we go back to my house and play rock, paper, scissors in bed?
That would work way more than a guy saying, Oh, do you want to have sex with me right now?
No, it's not happening.
What do you think?
I like playing Minecraft.
The fuck?
Minecraft is fun.
They only got one controller, though, so.
Wait, what are we talking about here?
I have no open invite.
I do.
One guy said, Open up her Bible.
Yep.
Yeah, yeah.
Bible study, Bible verses before bed, the best.
So we were talking about is dating harder for men or women?
And I just, it slipped my mind kind of what your answers were.
So just, I don't know if you have like a quick answer to that.
Do you think dating is harder for men?
Or who has it?
Yeah, is dating harder for men or women?
I think it's like both.
But I would say online dating is harder for men than women.
Because if a guy wants to meet a girl online, I think that's really hard.
But I think women also do struggle as well because there's just way too much men on Tinder and stuff.
And you kind of have too much choice and not enough people to kind of get to know.
So that ends up being harder on you too because you have to actually know what kind of qualities you want when you're dating someone.
And as for men, like it's just way because there's way too much men in on Tinder and on Bumble and on Hinge.
That's why they find it also hard to date women.
it kind of works similar okay what about you Is dating harder for men or women?
Men.
And I think it's both because I feel like in a way women kind of enable the hookup culture and men, yeah, and men, like only those like 10% get to get laid, if you know what I mean.
And like those who are genuinely looking for a relationship, it's definitely harder for them online.
Okay, good points.
Go ahead.
I think dating in general is just tough right now.
You know, girls, like you said, enable hookup culture and guys have to deal with being catfished.
Wait, you said women have to deal with hookup culture?
No, enable hookup culture.
Oh, women enable hookup culture.
So they, it's kind of very much like, you know, I don't need a man.
I just want to use you for this sort of stuff.
And it's very much everyone is kind of starting to lose those old-fashioned values, I feel like, at least for women, I've noticed.
And then, yeah, like I said, men have to deal with catfishing and with girls saying that they're one thing and then that they're not.
Sure.
Do you guys have any thoughts?
Who's dating harder for us?
It's definitely harder for guys.
I'd say on average, any woman can choose any guy they want.
And on average, a guy can't, they have to settle, basically, on average.
So just I'll let you go in the sex.
Just to add to that, I think most women can sleep with most men, but most men cannot sleep with most women.
Correct, yeah.
Go ahead, Logan.
So the question was, is it harder for men or women to date?
But everyone answered it with sexually, with just having sex.
But if we're going to answer it purely dating, I think it's hard for both genders because most women are struggling to find dudes who are truly masculine men who own who they are.
And all these girls can agree that you guys are struggling to find a dude that you really love, right?
And same thing for guys.
Obviously, we could find a hot girl, but we can't find a girl who's wifey material, especially in this day and age.
So right now at this moment in time, most people are average.
For average for girls, they're hoes.
97% of girls nowadays are hoes.
So it's very difficult for a guy to find a good quality wifey material.
And for girls, it's very difficult because so many guys are average and they're invisible to you guys.
You guys are all chasing the same dudes.
Yeah, we're kind of like sleeping around with the same men in a way.
Wow.
I mean, I think personally for me, I don't really want like a super masculine guy.
I think I prefer...
Do you want a Pega dude?
No, not peg a dude, but I guess.
Have you ever pegged a dude?
It's because you're very masculine.
So you don't want the same energy as you do.
Yeah, I guess I want someone like more mellow on my end.
You want someone more mellow?
Yeah, mellow.
Because I feel like I'm really closer to the mic, closer to the mic.
I feel like I'm really hyper.
But here's the issue, though.
So you want a very feminine guy because you're very masculine.
But here's the issue.
When you're a masculine woman and you're dating a guy who's very feminine, there's going to be a lot of things that turn you off and you're still going to end up finding other guys in your life.
What do you think would turn, like, what do you think is a quality that would turn me off?
The shoes in the house?
I don't think, I feel like a feminine guy would be more inclined to do that than the masculine guy, right?
I think, yeah, so here's the thing.
So you're never going to respect him, though, right?
So even though he takes off his shoes, he's like, yes, yes, babe, I'll take off my shoes.
I'll do this, this, that.
You're never going to respect him.
You're never going to truly love him.
But this isn't, I mean, I don't think that's a masculine or feminine thing.
I think that's just like a general etiquette, polite thing to do.
Like if you're going to someone's house, like, let's say I'm going to a dude's house and his rule or a woman's house and his rule is, hey, just take your shoes off at the beginning of the door.
Like, am I going to try to be like an alpha male and be like, no, fuck you, I keep my shoes on.
So, no, come on.
It's only in this scenario where she is the man of the house and she is in control of her house and she's actually dating a guy who's supposed to be an equal, right?
He's supposed to be your man.
So, you shouldn't be, obviously, when it's a guest or another guy, then yes, there's mutual respect.
When it's your own wife, the guy should have his own say.
So, if he says, Hey, listen, I love you, but I don't want to take off my shoes.
I kind of disagree with yourself on that.
I feel like you should respect your wife.
Like, if your wife wants you to take off your shoes, it's not like it's a huge deal, like you could just do it.
And I don't feel like you need to be like top G and start a fight.
No, but you're not talking about husband and wife, you're talking about men who you're dating who they're coming to your house.
You're not going to their house and dictating to them, take your shoes off in your own house, right?
So, to me, it goes almost beyond dating.
It's just like it's like your house, your rules kind of thing.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, I guess I'm thinking of it more as a level of saying, Yes, yes, please, I'll do this, I'll do that.
But if we're just talking about purely, is it disrespectful to leave your shoes on the house?
Yeah, sure.
Yeah, you guys are right about that.
But I'm talking about just the fact where it's, hey, do this, do that.
And the guys are like, oh, yes, babe, yes, I'll go do this, I'll do that, right?
It's more of things like that.
So, maybe the shoes was a bad example.
But, I mean, if a guy's gonna do this and do that for you, like, shouldn't that make you happy?
Because they're doing it.
I don't think I'll necessarily lose respect for him because he's offering to do things for me and he's offering to help me out.
I think we can probably tackle a better example than the shoe thing because I think the shoe thing is there's different levels.
Yeah, it's like, it's like the guy can still be, and it's not the case for her, but a guy could still be the leader and dominant in the relationship and still like her.
It's like her house and still be like, Yeah, I'm gonna take my shoes off if I, you know, go over her to her place.
But, I mean, I could be wrong.
I don't know, but to me, that just seems like a it's beyond dating.
It's just like a general etiquette thing, just following people's house rules.
But, um, did you want to come in or are you just doing the Wu-Tang?
Okay, I'm going back to harder for no, sorry.
Is dating harder for men or women?
I think, honestly, can you do the Wu-Tang here?
I want you to into the microphone: Wu-Tang clan ain't nothing to fuck with.
Do it.
Do it.
No.
Do it.
No.
Anyways, anyways, back to the topic.
I think genuinely now dating is harder for men than it is for women.
Yep.
I think that equally everyone has been through their own things.
And me and Logan were actually talking about this earlier today when it comes to men going through different things.
Can you scoot in further?
You're just kind of getting out of the.
Men going through different phases and stages at a different time in their lives that cause them to not be or not want to be as open with their feelings or not wanting to be as communicative when it comes to how they're feeling, what they've gone through, and things like that.
And it kind of brings up a wall that kind of blocks everything.
Are you talking about being vulnerable?
That too.
But you're saying men not being open with their feelings?
Okay.
So you're saying men should be?
I'm saying that when you are trying to date somebody, obviously you two are being more open with each other.
You're talking about past things.
You're talking about your feelings.
You're talking about family, like things like that.
But I feel like.
Don't do that.
Don't do that, gentlemen.
Don't do that with women.
But go ahead.
Well, I mean, if we, say we were like on a date or whatever, we've been talking for a few months.
I'm sorry, I'm not attracted to you.
I'm not attracted to you either.
It's an example.
Anyways.
A little banter here.
Come on.
Would you not want her to like know anything about your personal life?
I mean, obviously.
I wouldn't be like, if I can control it, I would not be vulnerable in front of a girl.
Ever.
dating if it's within my control no i would not be vulnerable in front of a girl because it just spells disaster women claim they want guys who are in touch with their emotions they want men to be vulnerable they want men to you know be open and i want to know i want to know women it's it's cap it's cap you want a man to be vulnerable so you can use that vulnerability as leverage in a future argument do you you
Okay, let me ask you a question.
You claim you want a guy who's vulnerable right, who's?
I mean, that's essentially what you're saying.
You want guys asking.
I was just telling okay, let me really quick, all the girls, do you want a guy who can be vulnerable with you?
It's okay if the answer is yes, but to a degree.
Yeah okay, you want a guy who's vulnerable Shania, I want a guy who's communicative open, but is he in touch with his emotions?
I mean, I'm not really emotional, so probably not all right outlier okay, what about you?
Uh, I guess um, maybe I just want him to be communicative.
I don't necessarily like it.
I thought you want a feminine guy.
Yep, I don't like it when people yell at me too, so I'd rather they don't yell at me, like it's okay for them to talk about it, because then I'll listen.
I'll listen better if they don't yell at me.
You prefer that you just do the yelling?
Yes, of course, of course okay um, okay.
So what about you?
What's the question?
Do you want a guy to be who's in touch with his emotions and he can be vulnerable with you?
Yeah so, to a degree.
To a degree, okay.
Would you say that there is a sort of a common theme.
You hear it from women that they wish guys could be more open with how they feel and their emotions and be vulnerable.
But I feel like that's just how like men are built, like they just like to not be.
Yeah yeah, but but so do you often hear?
But do you often hear women say they want that in them?
Maybe you guys might not desire it so much, but do you have you heard women say that personally?
No really yeah, none of my friends, I mean.
You've heard it oh yeah okay, you've heard it okay.
So women claim they want men to be vulnerable.
But let me ask you a question, would you prefer a guy approaching you in a confident way or maybe what?
If a guy approaches you, he's kind of nervous and maybe he's a little fidgety and um, you know he's a bit bashful and, like you know, he's not too sure of himself.
He's not being weird or creepy, but he's just like nervous.
Would you prefer a guy who's nervous or a guy who's just confident, not cocky, but confident, go ahead.
Nervous, because then I know that he's not really with other women and like he's not used to talking to other women and I think that for me, just I feel like i'm Like in, I'm able to like mold confident I want.
Would you think he was hiding something if he was nervous about something?
It's fine.
She wants a feminine guy.
It's fine.
What about you?
Because it was mostly what you were saying.
Go ahead.
Confident.
Say it with your chest.
Confident.
You'd prefer the confident guy.
I personally would prefer a confident guy over a shy guy.
Oh, okay.
What about you?
Definitely confident because, like, if you're always nervous and you're insecure, then you're not ready to date me.
Oh, and what about you?
I'm just attracted to the fact that they came up in the first place.
Yeah.
But would you prefer a guy step to you in a confident way or like a guy who's kind of like a little nervous?
Maybe he's like fucking twitching out and shit.
I would definitely be attracted more to the confident, but if someone was nervous, like I said, I wouldn't be able to do it.
So the fact that he came up anyways, I would be like, oh, thanks.
Okay.
So, and maybe to add to it, maybe his eye contact isn't great.
Maybe he's kind of fumbling over his words.
Generally speaking, if a guy approaches a woman in that way, you know, he's nervous, not making really good eye contact.
He's not being creepy or anything, but he's, like, you can tell he's nervous.
A lot of girls are going to be a bit turned off by that.
I just think it's cute, though.
Okay, you're not liar.
Generally speaking, look, generally speaking, women want guys.
What's the number one thing women will say they want in a guy?
I want a guy who's confident.
And then women will also say, I want a guy who's vulnerable.
You can't have it both ways.
The fact of the matter is, if a guy was vulnerable and he did approach you and he was nervous and a bit shy, which is being vulnerable, you would not be attracted to him.
So my whole thing is, is the whole men should be more in touch with their emotions and be vulnerable.
That's cap.
You only want vulnerability when it in like very specific situations.
And even then, it's just it's it's BS really.
So I don't think men should be vulnerable.
I can give you an anecdote from me personally.
I was dating this girl for six months.
It was great.
She's like very feminine, very almost submissive.
And I got into a fight.
It wasn't a fight, but like I'll just keep it just to move things along.
I got into a fight.
I got fucked up.
And I hit her up because she was my girl, right?
I was like, hey, can you come take care of me?
Blah, blah, blah.
I wasn't crying.
I wasn't like crying like, oh, but I was like, I was fucked up.
Like I was bleeding and shit.
And I was like limping a bit.
And the fucking relationship changed from that point forward.
Like it was like a fucking light switch.
Started arguing.
She started like giving me pushback.
She saw me in a vulnerable state and the relationship just changed.
Can I ask a question?
Go ahead.
Do you win?
No.
I lost.
I think every guy who has learned the hard way, which is basically every other dude in this world, showing your feelings or opening up your feelings to a girl never works.
She starts to ghost you.
She starts to turn away from you.
She starts to leave you unread more, leave you undelivered more, and she starts to lose attraction towards you.
So every guy has done this.
I've done this in the past.
Nathan's probably done this.
You're showing your emotions and being open because sadly, guys are being programmed to do this, right?
We're being programmed from feminism.
Oh, boys need to learn how to open up their feelings.
Boys need to learn how to show their emotions.
It's okay for boys to cry.
We do this in front of women, and guess what?
They cheat, they walk away, and they never want to do anything with us.
So it is what is.
And I think it's the opposite, like in terms of if a woman approached, or well, if a man approached and he was shy and nervous and kind of fumbling and his eye contact wasn't really there, most women would be like, He's not confident, that's not attractive.
Sure, some women might go for it.
This girl over here wants that, I guess.
Um, whereas for us, would you guys prefer a girl to step to you, like, super confident?
First off, women really don't be approaching guys, but like, would you prefer a girl to step to you, like, super confident, or would you prefer a girl who's like kind of like again, it's really rare for girls to approach, but if she did approach you, if she was kind of like a little shy and bashful and kind of quiet and reserved and a bit demure, which would you prefer?
Uh, shy.
So, like, usually, like, say in a party setting or whatever, a girl will make herself known and she will put herself in your presence, and you have to take that hint.
So, like, that I'd say that's pretty shy.
She's not, like, coming up to me and, hey, yo, let's fucking make out or something.
Right.
Yeah, I think it's super cute when a girl is super nervous and she's like, oh my God, like, my friend dared me, whatever.
Super nervous, whatever.
If a girl comes to me very confidently, like, hey, you're super hot, let's fuck.
It's kind of like, hmm, I'm going to start testing her more because it's a big red flag.
I'm like, okay, okay.
Interesting.
Did you guys have a response?
By the way, I forgot to mention this during the pre-show instructions.
Just don't read the chat.
Stay engaged in the conversation, guys.
Did you guys have a response?
I think that there is to an extent when I'm what I mean by vulnerability is being emotionally available during hard conversations, during personal conversations, such as, you know, hey, I don't like that you're doing this.
Like, can we sit down and have a conversation and talk about it?
And things like that.
Stop reading the chat.
They will.
Whoa.
Whoa.
What's up?
Whoa.
I got work tomorrow.
What's up?
Nothing.
That's okay.
Oh, is a girl with tag team that redhead tonight?
Okay.
Hoping for it.
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Hold up.
We'll see.
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Anaya has a body count of three OF girl on dating apps with a rotation of doing two pairs of people.
I don't think we did.
...has a body count of three.
You know we're talking about total, not just today, right?
Confirm or deny.
I am confirming that my body count is officially three as of yesterday.
And I literally said that I am not starting my OnlyFans until the 24th, so I don't even really have one.
Thank you.
Okay.
Sorry, guys, we're getting some water there.
All right.
Frankie, thank you, man.
Yo, Mod Nock 209.
Thank you for the super chat, man.
Appreciate it.
Most women want a man with experience but gets upset about a man's body count.
These 304 be delusional.
Hey, by the way, Cogmeister, thank you for the subscription on Twitch, man.
Appreciate it.
Did I get through this entire thing?
Let me see.
I don't think so, but hey, Modnock, appreciate the super chat, man.
Yo, Justin Gonzalez, $20 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
You should ask about the impact birth control has had on hookup culture, divorce rates, fidelity in general for both women and men.
Well, yeah, I mean, in the 60s, I think it was 1965 when birth control became available around then.
Obviously, that changed a lot because when you fucking bangs my head on the microphone there.
When you open up the sexual marketplace effectively by having birth control, sorry.
Losing my train of thought here.
Let me just get this new GPI.
Thank you for the Prime Minister.
I don't know if that's a Prime, but thank you for the sub.
Yeah, birth control had a major impact on the trajectory because if you can prevent pregnancy, then that enables casual sex.
And that's obviously had a downflow, downstream impact on divorce rates, hookup culture, infidelity.
Because in the past, like if you got a woman, like if she had sex with a guy, like there's a much greater risk of pregnancy.
So it was like, there's a much bigger equation there.
So, and now, you know, of course, there's abortion.
That's a factor too.
So, yeah.
Mike Dust, $20 Super Chat.
The girl with red hair likes feminine boys with long hair and no facial hair.
Confirm or deny?
I love strong Asian men.
Logan and Nathan confirm or denies they're going to be a spit roast later tonight.
It was last night.
Was it?
But I didn't get it with Logan, though.
Wait, actually?
We got to get the threesome going.
Yikes.
Okay.
No, I was not participating in the unholy events.
I was actually informed that Logan's actually pretty good as well.
Pretty good on what?
And I actually was disappointed with Nathan.
So I'm going to need a little bit more.
I'm going to need some redemption.
And I think it'd be pretty exciting.
Both brothers?
Hello, body counts.
Let's see what y'all got.
Hey, it'd be like that sometimes.
No.
I can change your mind.
That's interesting.
This is interesting.
Wait, you can change whose mind?
Logan.
She belongs to the streets.
Listen.
They're brothers.
I'm a man of God.
Okay, we can play Minecraft.
That's it.
All right, but I want rock, paper, scissors.
One game of Minecraft and a game of rock, paper, scissors.
Where's the $500?
Where's the $500?
I'll give you.
We'll talk about that later.
Can I say that Minecraft Dungeons is really fun, game?
Because they have like the, you know, Minecraft made a different game.
It's called Minecraft Dungeons now.
Shut your fucking mouth.
I have no idea what you're talking about.
Okay.
So we were talking about if dating.
Wait, hold on.
We still got to address this whole.
She, Nathan, are you going to stand for that?
She just, she just roasted you.
I did not roast him.
I was being on.
So hit those.
Yeah, he hit three times because I was horny and I was bored and it was easier.
How did you guys meet?
We actually matched on Hinge and then we were supposed to hang out on Friday, but I flaked and then they called me last night when I was at a car and invited me here today.
Hold on.
Yeah, so.
Oh, wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
Yeah. It's still a long way.
Okay.
Your body count is three.
As of yesterday.
So you met Logan.
Unhinge.
On Hinge.
Oh, sorry.
You met Nathan on Hinge.
Yeah.
And then it was your first time meeting, correct?
Yeah, we had plans on Friday, but I like.
How quickly, Nathan, how quickly from you guys meeting to hooking up, how long did that take?
So I had text in the next video.
No, listen.
So I live in San Diego.
They live in what, Santa Anna?
La Joya.
They live in Santa Ana.
La Joya?
What part of San Diego?
OC, just say OC.
You don't have to say that's okay.
Anyways, so they FaceTimed me last night and they told me about this podcast thing.
And they were like, hey, in the text message, it says, hey, come here.
We're going to go in the morning.
That was it.
When they called me, I didn't even know who they were, like who they were.
I didn't save his number.
Okay, but hold on.
That's not the.
The question I asked was, you hooked up with Nathan yesterday.
And by hookup, we're talking Rizzed.
Absolutely not.
Absolutely not Rizz.
It was late.
It was late.
I was drunk and I was horny.
So, okay.
Where did you meet?
His place?
I drove to him.
Okay, so you step through the door.
That starts the counter.
One second, two second, three second, four second, five.
What was the period of time that elapsed?
I think I got there.
Until his penis was inside.
I think I got there at a what, 1, 1.30, and then we were talking, we went to bed, and then it was like 2.30, so like maybe like an hour, maybe 45 to an hour.
And your body count is three?
Yes.
Are you sure?
Yes, and there's a reason for that.
City boys up.
Okay.
Before or after today.
Because Scott Logan.
Yeah, so Brian wanted us to contact more girls because girls are canceling left and right.
Super Bowl.
Yeah, yeah, he told me.
Oh, yeah, I can't show up, Super Bowl.
Whatever.
So we had to call a bunch of girls.
So we were running through random ass numbers, unsaved numbers.
To be fair, to be fair, Nathan's a fucking Chad.
Yep.
He's a fucking Chad.
Look at him.
What?
Don't laugh.
He's a meathead.
That's what he is.
Oh, bro.
Look at him.
Are you going to stand for this?
Dude, do you know that when I pulled up to his house, bro came outside with no clothes on?
He's the Rizzler.
He's the fucking Rizzler.
Bro.
He's the Rizzler.
Yo.
Honestly, I would say Nathan looks like that Asian fuckboy.
Closer to the mic?
I think Nathan looks like the Asian fuckboy vibe.
Yo, would you smash Nathan?
No.
Yes.
Come on, bro.
He's a fan of his father.
Dude, if I was gay, son, if I was gay, I would kind of like that.
She likes feminine men.
I like the guys.
He's not a.
He's not a girl.
Bro, look at his arm.
He could be, like, yeah, he's built.
He's strong.
But he could be in BTS.
If he wasn't, no, if he wasn't like, yes, I would not talk about him.
The guys in BTS.
Yeah, they're pretty good.
Do you like it?
We're super base.
We're too base to be on BTS.
But do you like anime?
Okay, what about you?
Would I smash?
Yeah.
No, I'm not into Asian boys.
Oh, wow.
She likes white men.
What about you?
Wait, what's your type?
I like Latino men and white men.
Oh, okay.
Makes sense.
What's your type, Shania?
You.
Oh, I would.
Wait, what?
I would not.
You said you had work tomorrow early.
What's up?
You said you would not?
Why?
You're younger.
I don't like younger men.
Okay.
So just me then, I guess.
Okay, so what the fuck were we talking?
Okay, you were telling us.
And so what was wrong?
Why were you talking shit about Nathan then?
What was wrong with the sex?
It wasn't good or it's not that it wasn't good.
It was just like he puts it out there that like he knows what he's doing and all that.
And then when it was kind of just like boring, like there was like, I prefer a very dominant man.
And like he said earlier, like he's dominant, you know.
There was nothing there.
There was nothing there.
It was literally just.
Did you climax?
Still hit.
No, absolutely not.
He finished three times.
I finished not once.
Nathan!
Yo, congratulations, Nathan.
That's a W. That's still a W.
Okay, so.
W, W.
It's okay.
Yeah, my issue last night was trying to get girls to hop on the podcast.
All of them were like, no, I don't want to hop on the podcast, but I'll come over.
I'm like, no, no, we're not going to have sex.
I need you for the podcast.
He's a man of God.
Yep.
Man of God.
We only play Minecraft.
Okay, so I'm trying to figure out.
Okay.
Would you smash again?
Like, just him?
Like, them together.
What the fuck?
Um...
I mean, actually, I've been pretty in the mood today, so I think to get my needs.
Yeah.
Is it going to be Logan or Nathan?
No, me and Logan are playing Minecraft.
But yo, Nathan, for real, though, like, your brother hit yesterday.
Like, I'm Nathan.
That's Nathan.
I'm sorry.
I got mixed up.
No, I didn't meet him.
I didn't meet him until this morning.
But Logan, like, would you're not going to.
No, me and my, so me and my brother, we don't share girls.
No, we don't share girls.
We don't do that stuff.
So it's like, this is actually a good thing for a lot of guys to learn: if you're talking to a girl and she goes straight after to your homeboys, she's just trying to make you jealous.
She's trying to press your buttons.
So this is a good time to not get your buttons pressed and to not get pissed off and to not care.
Nathan doesn't care because he knows that I wouldn't do something like that.
And I don't give a fuck if one of my exes do that shit because I know that Nathan is a good friend.
A lot of guys have to worry about guys that they hang out around with because their guy friends are a bunch of simps as well and they'll betray you for any amount of pussy.
So that's why it's super important to hang around dudes who get pussy and get laid.
Word?
word yeah definitely guys that some guys are so desperate they will backstab you to get some so So those are dangerous men to have as friends for sure.
So 6'2?
That's crazy.
Oh my god.
She's 6'2.
How tall are you?
6'2.
Oh, damn.
Wait, Nathan is 6'2?
No.
No, he's not.
Do you want to stand up?
He's tall.
She's a gigantic shit.
Yeah, stand up.
Wait, should we do that?
Should we do a fit check?
We'll do a fit check.
Where's Cheeks?
Cheeks, are you still here?
We'll do a fit check for it on everyone.
Why not?
I need to stand up too.
Let's do a little fit.
Are we all standing up?
Yo, we'll say guys, this is some Pumba sweatpants.
Wait, can you see this shit?
Hold on.
Bro, you're not even in the middle.
You gotta get one there.
There you go.
Give him the old rotisserie chicken.
Puma sweatpants, what's up?
Fucking flannels.
And that's it.
Stand up.
What are you showing off our fit?
Fit check.
Everyone's doing a fit check.
You're next, boys.
I'm next.
I'm next.
Okay.
Shirley, for Shili.
Yeah.
Okay, okay.
Next.
That was it.
Or no, why were we still going?
Whoa.
No, we're everyone at the same time.
Oh, everyone's going.
Hold on.
Let's do the girls.
We'll do the girls over here.
Can you move the girl?
That's my crutch.
Can you move?
Oh my god.
Wait.
You can't.
Move the cup.
Can you push that cup?
Yeah, just push the.
Yeah, there you go.
All right.
So, um, okay.
Um, okay.
Uh, little spins.
Well, you gotta scoot that way.
Yeah, yeah, scoot this, yeah.
Okay.
All right, okay.
Um, so tall.
Yep, all right.
This is crazy.
All right.
That's close.
Bro, that's a basketball computer.
How did we start talking about you and Nathan having sexual intercourse?
He said something about it, and then you guys said something about it.
What?
Huh?
Someone had mentioned, I think you said that we had done it already.
Yo, Nathan, was it good?
Been there, done.
Oh, I said been there, done that, right?
Yeah, I think so.
Or I don't know.
He said, was it good?
Yeah, yeah.
I finished three times, of course.
Would you do it again?
Depends if you fucking go with Logan.
I'm not gonna go with Logan.
He's not even as Asian as you.
I'm not attracted to him.
Yeah, for sure.
Listen, don't get me wrong.
Don't get me wrong.
Logan is a good looking guy.
He seems like a really nice guy.
But I like Nathan's vibe more.
Huram!
I like Nathan's vibe more.
Plus, I've had more conversation with him.
Bro, his dick's been inside of you.
Of course you like it more.
What the fuck?
A little tip, though.
You see how far the termites have spread and how long and well they've done.
A little pointer.
If we do again.
Oh.
I'm going to need some dominance, homie.
Shut up, bitch!
Like, pull my hair and choke me or something.
What you think?
I think you guys need to add another girl.
That's the issue.
Wait, so you think, hold on.
What do you think this is?
Hold on.
You were having sex with Nathan.
Nathan.
Yes, Nathan.
No, don't worry about the pointer thing.
Okay.
You were having sexual intercourse with Nathan.
And it wasn't rough enough for you.
Yeah.
Crazy.
But you prefer vanilla sex.
Do you like, yeah, do you?
See, that's the thing I missed out on a conversation about that.
We didn't have like a conversation on what we like and what we don't.
I think that's what.
Honestly, this whole rough sex meta.
Because I feel like into the mic.
Because I feel like I could kill somebody.
Bro, you're not trying to catch a case for someone else's sexual gratification.
Yeah.
Bruv.
Some is better than none.
Like, listen, you're not going to kill me if you like pull the fuck out of my hair.
Like, I like that.
Like, you don't have to choke me if you feel like you're going to kill me.
Even then, that shit is attractive.
You know what's crazy?
Like, I'm pretty sure the rough sex thing is initiated more so by women.
Like, women want that shit.
It's not like some guys push for it, but it's mostly like women because they've all been poisoned by like one dude who fucked you proper, proper rough.
And now they're like, I like that.
And then ever since you had that one experience, now you're going to have to, all these guys who want to have intimate sex with you, it's like, not treat me like shit.
I think I prefer vanilla stuff.
You can do that too in my mouth though.
What the?
Whoa!
All right, cool.
Now I know what you mean, though.
I don't take it as all of them should do it the same way.
I think everyone does it differently.
I think I just have my personal preferences, and so does he.
And like I said, if he's not down for that, then okay.
But if he is, then by all means.
Yeah.
Yo, can we get show us the triceps?
For real.
Fuck, Myron.
Holy shit.
God damn, bro.
He's wearing the pump cover, bro.
Is it Trent?
No, he's natural.
Natty?
Yeah, he's all natural.
We have a whole fitness page.
Nathan.
Myron aesthetics.
Yo, can you hit a Z's?
Can you hit a Ziz pose?
Fuck, Myron.
There's fucking Z. Here we go.
Boom.
Ziz.
Okay.
All right.
Final thoughts.
I want to open it up to you guys.
If you guys have any before we wrap up, you know, we'll wrap in maybe 10, 15 minutes.
Do you guys have any questions that you want to ask?
Or do you have a final thought?
Maybe you want advice on something?
Or is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest?
Maybe men, something that frustrates you about men, men are pissing you off in some way.
Go ahead.
I guess maybe you guys can tell me, like, how my first impression, like, when you see me.
Besides the smell?
I guess besides the smell.
First impressions.
Like, what do you mean?
Like, I guess, what was your first impression of me?
Like, first impression of me as a person.
First impression of you.
Can we all be brutally honest?
What?
I guess so.
Okay.
Are you going first?
I mean, you can go first.
I thought you were going first.
Well, are you asking the guys?
Are you asking everybody?
I guess I can ask everybody.
I would say, okay, my first impression, like, are you talking from a physical attraction point of view?
I don't know, just a first impression.
First impression.
I'd say I'll let you go first.
Go ahead.
Not going to lie.
We saw y'all down there standing outside, and then I was like, ain't no way.
This is the lineup for this podcast today.
because you guys bro y'all gonna fight or some shit Okay.
You've been talking shit about her all night.
What the fuck?
You guys seem pretty nice when y'all were outside, but I had no idea that y'all were the people that were coming on the podcast.
Oh, you're not impressed with me.
I actually had a different expectation.
Oh, what?
Because we went searching for girls, so they gave me a certain expectation.
What's up, what?
And then that wasn't what I was going to say.
Oh, well, you know, Super Bowl.
You know what?
I mean, what are you saying?
You're saying these two chicks ain't babes?
What's up?
How dare you say that?
Social media might be a 10, and then in person's a 10.
In person, she's a seven.
This is with all girls.
Yo, don't say that shit.
Yo, don't say that shit about my forest girl.
I'll fuck you up.
Yeah, I'm sure you're not.
Don't talk shit.
Don't talk shit about my girl.
That sentence stuck up in your nose, huh?
What the fuck?
But it was worth 500.
Listen.
I will not stand by.
I will not stand by.
Do you want to fight?
I will not stand by and have you equal right, equal fight.
Jesus.
Oh, my God.
Holy shit.
Come on.
So, why are you not impressed with the girls?
Just because, I mean, like I said, the impression that I was given was kind of just like a lot higher than what was human.
Like, what are you trying to say?
Personality-wise and look-wise, like I'm not gonna lie to anybody.
Like, obviously, none of us are tens, but you're the hottest.
I did not say that.
Well, where was that sentence going to lead to besides?
Very few of us.
Bro, say it with your chest.
You're better looking than the others.
The fuck?
All right, let me say it like this.
When we came up here, we were all laughing about it.
The lineup of the people in this five-year-old were not as expected.
I was laughing at the fat one.
What the fuck?
Yeah, we saw her standing outside.
Guys, guys, just we gotta.
Let's keep it polite, okay?
Let's call it.
Yeah, don't call her that.
Yeah, don't call her that.
Well, don't say that either.
Don't say that either.
It's probably too issued.
She would eat me, not gonna lie.
Overweight.
What do you think?
No, a little bigger.
Plus size.
She can't have opinions on dating?
She could.
I'm saying the expectations that they gave me was like the thought that they put in my head was like hot girls are on here.
Because when we went looking outside, they were like, bro, you guys should be getting upset.
I just think we're keyword, not trying to get a lot of people.
I agree that I'm not hot.
Like, I know that I'm not hot.
It seemed like it was like hot ass motherfuckers.
Yeah, we were just approaching hot women because we don't like it.
Yeah, they were like telling me, they were like, no, no ugly girls.
And like, even mid-girls, they were like, nah, like, we were searching hella.
We're picky, okay?
We're very picky.
He has all sorts of types of girls on the show, though.
I have a wide variety of women.
I've honestly never seen your show before today.
I had never heard of you.
You have to understand, if you're grabbing girls from social media, they might be a 10.
And then in person, they're going to be a 7.
Okay.
And it's for guys as well.
If guys have pictures, they end up looking better in person than on pictures.
Because girls are way better at taking pictures than guys.
Come on.
She's literally talking shit about you guys.
You guys are not going to say anything.
I don't feel like I am hot.
So I can't argue about the fact that I am hot.
I can't say like, oh, I'm super hot.
I mean, I know I'm not a supermodel, so I can't go like, oh, I'm a supermodel.
I just think I'm average.
I'm an average girl, average Asian girl with an average Asian body, I guess.
Because most some Asian girls have petite bodies, and I have a petite one.
Yeah, and I just think I look relatively cute.
Matt Sans Super chatted $50.
She was drinking slash horn, has a three-body count, smooshed one of the guests the same night they matched and openly talks about it on a podcast, and he is quiet about it.
Woman, you are downright disrespectful.
This is an example of recreational use only, gents.
Let me tell you something, baby boy.
If no one's ever been honest with you about your sex game, then I'm sorry for you.
But I can definitely tell you that I will never lie to a man about how good or how bad he is at sex and what he could do better and what is worse.
And we actually matched a long ass time ago.
Our first plans were on Friday, and I flaked.
And I originally only came to the house because I wasn't invited to the podcast.
So, thank you.
I mean, do you guys think that?
This is like the most peculiar conversation.
This is very interesting because she did match with him, which means she did think he was attractive.
He actually swiped on me first.
Okay, it doesn't matter.
You swipe back.
I did.
Okay, so you did.
I'm going to bring it back to the final thoughts.
So you were asking what our first impressions were.
And then she said that she was thoroughly disappointed in your life.
I guess she expected me to look like a supermodel, but I don't.
Well, I mean, just to let you know, the point of this show is not necessarily to bring on exceptionally attractive women.
Like, we don't bring on just like top 10 out of 10 women to discuss about dating.
We bring on a diversity.
I was misled.
That's what they that was them.
But why would it matter to you?
But why would it matter to you?
Are you bi?
I'm just trying to understand why it matters to you if so.
Why do you care what the other women on the panel look like?
She was asking for an honest opinion on first impression, and I can only give her looks because I don't know her personally.
So valid.
Fair enough.
First impression, that's your question?
Yeah, just first impression.
It's not.
Well, since the question is kind of dating related, did you guys want to give first impression?
Nathan?
I had no interest, honestly.
It's okay.
We both don't have the same interests.
Yeah, I didn't really.
I was more focused on the podcast.
Okay.
First impression.
I mean, okay, physically, I would say, like, you're actually my type.
Oh, really?
Yes.
However, well, looks-wise.
Okay.
However, no, no, no, no, no, actually, I mean, that's, it's not, it's not that bad, but.
But you said you're very masculine.
For me, that would be a major issue.
Yeah, I kind of feel that too.
Like, and I, you know, but you mentioned you like calm men.
Like, I consider myself, despite, you know, I have this podcast.
I'm actually, I mean, even during the podcast, I consider myself to be a fairly soft-spoken individual.
You know, I'm a very calm individual.
I'm a homebody.
And, you know, I'm a very calm individual, but I do genuinely like really feminine women.
And so physically, I actually think you're quite attractive, but I definitely think, given the fact that you said you have a temper, and I'm quite stubborn myself, I think we would, I suspect we would butt horns a little bit.
So yeah, I don't know if that answers your question, but do you have a final thought or question or something dating related that you want to get off your chest?
No.
Nothing?
No.
What's up?
What?
Nothing?
No.
I passed.
I have no questions.
Are you triggered by anything?
I'm not feisty.
No, I was really like, hello.
Like, I was sitting here thinking about what the fuck to ask.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
I genuinely.
I just thought you were.
Okay.
Anything, final thought for you?
Is there something dating related you want to get off your chest?
Maybe you want advice on the situation?
Anything?
Yeah, sure, so like...
Can you pull the mic?
I need you to pull the microphone closer to you.
Oh, yeah, quick.
Perfect.
Go for it.
So like, do men care about how much money the women have?
Good question.
It depends on the man, but generally speaking, no.
Generally speaking, no.
Men don't really care about that.
Oh, hold on.
Let's get these.
Julie's auto-garage.
We'll come back to $49.
thank you julie 99 cents please exclude the six plus chick i remember slaying through low value 304s like this they don't realize they are the practice 304 now as a happily married multi-millionaire glad i had holes like you uh Is this...
Is this directed at you?
Are you going to shoot shots back?
Are you just going to let Julie's auto garage?
Listen here.
Martin Super Chatted $50.
Nathan, have some standards, bro.
This girl is beyond sus.
Her hair color is more real than anything that's come out of her mouth.
Stop slumming.
All right.
Do you want to say something back to Martin?
Mind your business because I bet you 100% that you yourself would try to hit it as well.
And if you say no, you are a fucking liar.
He hit it because he wanted to.
That's him.
And last time I checked, it's none of your business.
Stay mad.
Thank you.
Yeah, listen, our men's standards for sex is very low.
Okay, but when it comes to relationship, it gets it's a very different level.
Okay, when it comes to relationship and wifing you up, you have to be at another level.
But when it comes to sex, hey, if you're good looking, whatever.
It is what it is.
Guys, get your last-minute super chats in here.
And we will come back to your thing.
I just want to pull back up the soup chat just because, wait, was it this one?
Huh?
Did you get a response?
Oh, okay, okay.
Did you get to respond to it?
So with this one, I see a lot of your chats, actually.
I'm not rude.
I'm just straight up.
It's not my fault that people are sensitive.
And I mean, they haven't said anything about it hurting their feelings.
And I would rather be straight up than be a liar.
So.
Okay.
Yo, Martin and Julie's auto garage.
Really appreciate the patronage.
Thank you so much for the super chat.
Appreciate it.
Thank you.
Appreciate it.
Oh, do you want to do a little kiss into this camera right here?
No.
Do it.
Do it.
Love you guys.
See you all my OnlyFans.
Okay.
Continue.
What was your question?
Oh, like, do men care about how much money the women have?
Absolutely not.
I don't think I've ever...
Did you want to say something?
Yeah, I don't think so either.
I feel like most, I think some men would be happy if you make a lot of money.
I feel like they would be supportive of it.
I think it's.
It's just not something that is super attractive or not attractive.
It's just we don't.
If you tell us, oh, I make this much money, I don't care.
Oh, I make $0.
I don't care.
It don't matter.
Yeah, it really doesn't matter.
like it doesn't make you more attractive whereas like a guy who's a high earner girls will look at that and be like oh that makes him it might not be the total the most there's gonna have to probably be other things besides just that Although, for some women, if a guy has money, that's enough.
That's all it takes.
But it's not going to make you more attractive.
Yeah, it also kind of hurts the girl if she is making more money.
So if she tells me, oh, I'm making $400K a month, I'm going to be like, okay, she's either doing OnlyFans or she's doing something sexually online to make that much money.
Or she's making a bunch of money legally or, I mean, it's not illegal, but making money like in the real world, right?
Say she's a lawyer or some shit.
I don't care.
If she's making that much money, does she really have time for a relationship or to go on dates and things like that?
But only a girl that does OnlyFans.
Would you?
Would you date a girl?
Would you date a girl who does OnlyFans?
Not just the fuck.
I would pimp out a girl who has OnlyFans.
That's honest, okay.
But I would never take a girl seriously, right?
So I could date multiple girls, right?
But the ones I'm actually taking seriously, definitely not.
I'm always going to keep in the back of my mind, hey, this girl is fun to play with, but not an actual serious relationship trustworthy girlfriend.
I would date a girl who does solo content.
If she does BG, no.
What should it be with you?
I would not put myself on the internet like that.
Okay.
If I was shooting her content or helping her manage her OnlyFans, I'm taking a cut.
But, well, why'd you laugh?
What's your percentage rate?
50%.
Whoa, that's a lot.
Better than them.
He takes 60%.
Yeah, when I was pimping out chicks, I was taking 60, 70.
Would they make an eye manager only once any?
I kind of stopped.
I just didn't have much time for it.
I just wanted to focus more on my podcast.
Okay.
But yeah, no, I don't think I would be comfortable dating a girl that did BG.
Well, no, it's not, it's not I think.
It's I know I would be uncomfortable dating a girl who does BG.
Would I date a girl who does solo content?
Yes.
But there are definitely some reservations in terms of that's going to be a tough girl to introduce to my parents.
Yeah.
So it not to say it wouldn't be like a one-night stand situation, but and she'd probably have to simp for me pretty hard, I think.
For me to like, just what do you consider like a girl simping for you?
It's actually natural for girls when they have genuine strong desire for a guy.
So girls are going to naturally do things that aren't logically smart when they're really in love with a guy.
So they quit their job.
They're going to dump all the guy friends.
They do, if they're in love with a dude, the guy says, hey, I don't want you working there.
Okay.
I don't want you doing this.
Okay.
Why?
Because she loves him so much, and you guys know it's true that you guys will do whatever he says.
But that's because you've never been in love with him.
It's not necessarily being in love.
It's just my kind of stuff.
It's not strong.
It's strong junior desires.
So I'll give you guys a perfect example.
There's two guys.
One guy's a celebrity.
One guy is your guys' fan.
Would you guys give the excuse to the guy who's a fan saying, oh, sorry, I have homework or my family comes over.
I can't go on a date with you.
Let's say future Lou Uzi hits you up.
I know all you guys are canceling on your family plans, on your friends.
If these celebrities hit you guys up, I know for sure you guys are canceling on everyone else to go hang out with these guys.
Also, I just want to add one thing also.
I know, like, a lot of the, I've said this before in my previous streams.
A lot of guys give me shit for it.
Oh, Brian, you did an OnlyFans girl.
My thing is, is that she can't do BG.
She can't do boy girl content.
I'll date a girl who does solo content, but if she's doing BG, like, no.
And it's so funny.
People like in the chat are like, bro, L, that's an L, Brian.
But, bro, like, I don't know if you guys realize Andrew Tate, all his girls, all his girlfriends did OnlyFans.
All his girls did cam work.
So, like, I love Andrew Tate.
So good.
Do you?
Are you being sarcastic?
No, I listen to his things.
I think that it's very controversial whether people like him or not, but I think certain things he says are okay.
Yeah, like, but for me, like, Andrew Tate, almost all his girlfriends were doing Cam Girl.
Yeah.
They were doing OnlyFans.
So it's like, what?
Again, I wouldn't date a girl who does like hardcore porn.
I wouldn't date a girl who does.
But he also recruited them with the idea to make them do OnlyFans.
I have a question for them.
He didn't really.
Going back onto what the question is about dating or whatever.
About a girl's money?
No.
Okay, go ahead.
Like the end, you know?
We'll come back to your thing, though, but so for you guys, since you guys be out in the streets out and about whatever, when do you, how long do you personally feel like you want to continue your life like that?
Like, when do you think would be a good time, or when would you decide is a good time for you to finally like not do that anymore and settle down?
When I find the right one, which will probably be a very long time.
Do you guys want kids?
Yeah, of course.
I want kids.
Like, that's, that's your.
But, like, like, guys don't have a fucking stopwatch or whatever.
Yeah, I don't have to worry about having kids until I'm like 67.
Are you guys full brothers, by the way?
No, no.
We're not actually.
We're not actually blood brothers.
No, but we are super.
Everyone gets us mixed as being brothers, whatever.
I was going to say, you guys don't look alike.
Yeah, I mean, I'm half Vietnamese.
I'm half white.
He's full Vietnamese.
Yeah, I thought you were.
You're Vietnamese and Chinese.
Okay.
But yeah, we're just really close.
I think it's a little bit more likely to be a little bit more.
Okay, so you are allowed to have sex with her then as well?
No.
He's not.
No, because I'm a man of God's.
He's too white for me.
Like, look at him and look at him.
He looks like an Asian.
He looks like he's just white.
I love, and like, look at his physique.
Look at his physique, man.
Like, those arms.
Wait, shirt off?
Yeah.
Nathan, shirt off?
Shirt off right now?
$500, $500.
You want to get banned?
You don't get kids.
Can you get banned for this?
No.
Is this TOS?
This isn't TOS.
Go ahead.
I think it's fine.
Go ahead.
I think it's fine.
Oh, fuck.
Holy shit.
Have him turn around.
have him turn around are there scratches?
Yeah, it's right there.
He's got hella scratches on him.
Enough of that.
Enough of that.
Sorry, I'm looking for something I can't find.
Okay, whatever.
What was the question, huh?
Huh?
Just ask them a question.
Oh, yeah, he already answered.
He didn't answer it.
I don't know if he was going to.
Wait, what?
What's the question?
Oh, because he was asking you guys if you wanted kids.
Like, when is a good time?
Oh, yeah.
And you decide to stop being a bad person.
Stop being a hoe.
Oh, no.
I'm always going to be playing around and having fun.
It's just how I am.
But I don't know.
I don't think there is such thing as the one.
Obviously, you're going to find some nice girls.
Yeah.
Oh, I think I'm pregnant now.
Me too.
Wait, what?
Me too.
Oh, oh.
Matt Sand Supertune.
Oh, my God.
Mind your business, but you throw Nathan's business out there.
Bro, do I smell a double standard here, despite you not agreeing with the double standards?
The word vomit is real, just saying.
Yo, Matt Sand, thank you for the $50 soup chat.
Appreciate it.
Do you want to respond to him?
Welcome back, baby boy.
Thank you for the money.
Thank you.
I'm pretty sure we both said what was good and wasn't good.
I mean, we asked him, was it good?
I said, was it good?
It's not really.
Shut the fuck up.
You're an asshole.
Okay, so you said, what was your question?
Do men care about a woman's money?
Yeah.
Yeah, what is that noise, by the way?
Yeah, men don't really care about women's money.
And there's a few reasons why there's an evo-psych, evolutionary psychology reason that's biological because men, historically, throughout all of human history, men were the providers and the protectors.
So like it's not like in our gut.
It's not like, oh, we're looking for a girl to provide for us.
So a woman's money isn't really impressive.
Also, the way men and women like view money in terms in the context of a relationship is very different.
So women do not share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women.
Men will spoil women.
Women will rarely spoil men.
So like, for example, you admitted it yourself.
You have dozens.
I don't know if it's dozens.
You have a handful of guys who pretty much pay for all your expenses.
You don't do that for any dude.
And there's a lot of men that are willing to do that, but there's very, very few women that are willing to do that for men.
I'll do that for a man.
Okay, there are some women who will do it, but OnlyFans, strip clubs, pornography, sugar daddies, all this escorts, traditional sex work, prostitution would not exist if the dynamics between men and women were equal, if they were the same.
So there's a demand for female sexuality, and there is not really a demand for male sexuality Economically speaking, in the marketplace.
In some countries, it's slightly equalized in Japan, for example.
There's like host clubs where women will go to these host clubs in Japan and they'll spend money.
But most of the women that go to the host clubs, they are sex workers themselves.
So one of the big reasons that men don't really care about it is like it doesn't benefit us.
Like your money.
Look, there are some women out there that do simp for dudes and do be spending money on guys, but most women, most women, if she makes a lot of money, she's not going to like go spoil a guy.
Like most women don't spend their money on men the same way that men will spend their money on women.
And it's evidenced, exhibit A over here, all of her expenses are taken care of by guys she's not even sleeping with.
I don't know of any guy.
Look, yes, there are some sugar mamas out there, but most not there are no 19-year-old guys out there that are getting all their expenses paid for by women.
So it's just totally different.
Also, when a woman has money, women tend to be more materialistic than men.
So they feel like they need to buy designer items and stuff like that.
So that's why they might not have money to spoil on a guy.
It's also because they want to spoil it on themselves.
Sure.
Which I feel like is a major part of why they don't spoil men.
Sure.
Someone said, Anaya, why don't you dispel the Asian stereotype for America?
It doesn't sound like he was packing a grain of rice if you're willing to go back for check.
Okay, here we go.
Stereotype with Asians.
Okay, listen, from what I've seen, if they're just Chinese, stay away.
But he's Vietnamese.
He's packing.
He's packing.
You're going to get canceled for that one.
Jesus, might have nothing to do with it.
I mean, it's not.
That's what they wanted me to.
They said, was packing a grain of rice if you were willing to go back for a second.
Maybe two.
I think it doesn't really matter about your race.
Okay, let's bring it back to the actual conversation.
So just really quick on the paying thing, I want to go around the table.
On the first date, who do you think should pay?
On the first date?
Yeah.
Okay, I think a guy should pay, but I would split the dates, but in a way that it's like, I pay this, the next date, and then you pay the next date, and I pay the next date kind of thing.
Sure.
Who should pay on the first date?
I will offer.
Into the mic.
Into the mic.
I'll offer to pay half out of respect, but I do expect the first date to be paid by the man.
Wait, so you will offer?
I will offer.
Like, I'm not going to ask him.
Like, if I like him, I think he's cute.
We think we're attractive.
Whatever.
We're going out on a date.
We're going to start talking.
I won't ask you.
When that bill comes, I'll be like, hey, do you want to split it?
And then if they're like, no, I got it, then that's that.
What happens if they take you up on your offer?
Then I'll pay.
And then.
And then what?
And then I'll never see him again.
Well, there it is, gentlemen.
See, you see how far the termites have spread.
Okay, so I'll come back to that.
Who should pay on the first date?
I think traditionally a man should pay.
If he has me split it, then that means like I am being friend zoned.
That's how it feels like.
Okay, I'll come back to that too.
I think whoever invited the other person should pay.
Okay.
Well, Shania.
So that means a guy.
Yeah.
You know, if I said, hey, let's say we match on like an app or something.
I said, you know what?
I feel like connection.
Realistically, would you, do you really ask?
Realistically.
Yeah, I wait a while.
So usually the guys ask me first.
But if I do say, hey, let's go grab dinner, coffee, or anything, I will be expecting myself to pay.
Of all the first dates that you've ever been on, who initiated it?
Usually them.
Usually them.
A sign-up percentage.
I'd say about 99.
Okay, so de facto, the answer is the man should pay.
If they invited me first, yeah.
But you said, okay, you said 99% of the time, the men are asking you.
So de facto, men should pay.
Your answer may as well be, in practice, men should pay.
Yeah, I guess.
Okay.
And does everyone agree with that?
If the guy asks, the guy should pay?
I think he should pay.
It's not that expensive for a first date.
Yeah, typically first dates aren't like expensive.
I wouldn't go on an expensive first date.
Into the mic?
I wouldn't go on an expensive first date.
Okay, so you said that you would offer when the check comes, you would offer to pay.
If the guy took you up on your offer, there would not be a second date.
No.
Okay.
I thought, didn't earlier you said that communication is important?
Yeah.
I mean, that's quite literally you not communicating.
When it comes, because this is the thing.
When it comes to looking for someone that I want to be in a relationship with, the first date is like the first impression.
What they do then is going to reflect on what they do after that.
I mean, obviously.
You make $40,000 a year.
Or sorry, excuse me.
Excuse me.
Yes, he says.
You make $40,000 a month.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, well, first off, you can certainly afford to pay for the date.
How old are most of the men that you're dating that you actually have a romantic interest in?
I don't have any.
I have like.
Oh, you just go over to the house and have sex with them immediately?
Intimately interested in one.
And unfortunately, he's the same age as me.
So typically, if I'm talking to a dude, they're between 21 and 28.
Okay.
Do you think most 21-year-old men are making $40,000 a month?
Actually, I don't know.
A lot of them.
Okay, most.
51% or more.
No.
Jesus Christ, this bitch is worth it.
No, I don't.
I don't.
But this is the thing.
I look for those things before I go on a date.
If you don't have a job, if you don't have a plan, like if you don't have a job.
What percentage of men do you think make $40,000 a month?
I don't expect you to make $40,000 a month.
But like all of us said, like, the first date is not like something hella expensive.
It's like something super simple.
But couldn't you use the...
It's out of respect.
Some of us were raised to learn that a man on the first date, if he invites you out, if that's how it is, then he should pay because it's showing respect for you.
Do you consider yourself a feminist?
No.
Do you believe in gender equality?
Gender equality?
Do you believe in gender equality?
I don't want to answer that.
I'm not trying to get canceled.
It's fine.
Just answer the question.
No.
Oh, wait, I mean, actually, actually, yeah, yeah, I do.
I don't.
Okay, okay, but yeah.
Yeah.
Gender equality, I do believe in that.
I know that's very hypocritical towards that.
There's nothing wrong with a girl paying for the first date, but I'm just saying, like, when you're raised a certain way, that's how it should be.
Like, typically men who grew up in a household full of women, when it comes to a mother or a sister, they enjoy doing that.
They know that that's respect.
It's whether like a guy opens a door for you, like anything like that.
How many dinner dates would you say you've been on?
Like first date, dinner dates?
Total?
Like this year?
Total.
Your entire life?
80, 90?
100?
80?
Dated a dude.
Yeah, I dated one guy for four years.
No, I mean like with new separate guys, new guys, first dates.
All together, right?
Yeah.
Like 100?
Not me.
Multiplied by three, that's the real number.
300?
Okay, so it's what the guy should do.
I only think it's for the first date.
After that, like I said, like if you do that that first date, then after that, I don't mind paying.
Okay, so how many of those men did you end up sleeping with?
Zero.
Two.
Okay.
Which would be the four-year relationship and then the other guy that I was with.
Everyone else, I never slept with him.
Okay, so what is that noise?
Is that from outside?
Okay.
So you've been on 100 plus dinner dates, yet you've only, well, 3% of those have proceeded to anything more than dinner dates.
So that seems like a pretty, if I was going on a date with a girl and I was like, there's a 3% chance that this is going to ever go anywhere.
I'm not feeling like really keen to want to pay for the date.
Like that's a pretty shitty return on investment, you know?
It's not just one dinner date, though.
Majority of the time.
Oh, they take you on a bunch and then you never have sex with them.
I mean, like, it goes on to multiple like occasions where we're hanging out, getting to know each other.
But I'm not going to just have sex with you just because you took me out to dinner.
It's been multiple times, but I'm always the one.
Hold on.
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Okay, so I want to bring it back to the whole communication thing.
So you said that you would overtly offer to split the check.
You would offer at the end of the date.
But if a guy took you up on that offer, you would not have a second date with him, even though the words that quite literally came out of your mouth were asking him if he's okay, like if he's cool to split the check.
Yeah.
The plot.
Let me explain to you.
Well, let me just make one point.
So this is how men and women communicate differently.
Women say, I really, guys need to learn how to communicate.
Quite frankly, women need to learn how to communicate.
If you offer to pay for, if you offer to split and the guy takes you up on it because you've made a polite gesture and you're now going to punish him for him taking you up on the words that came out of your very own mouth, is that effective communication?
It's like the same thing she said.
Well, you're both wrong.
When you go with a guy and you guys are just friends, like obviously y'all pay separately because you're just friends.
Sure.
But if he likes you, like I said, for me, like if you're answering me, then you would want to pay for me.
Like I said, I will offer out of respect.
Absolutely.
But that's how if a woman likes a man, she should pay.
How come?
Especially if he asked her on the date and chose the place.
I honestly, look, there are traditional gender roles where men are expected to pay.
However, I think women will often say, well, if a guy, for me to know that a guy's taking me seriously, he should pay.
But like, it's actually guys that are getting finessed on dinner dates.
You know, the very beginning of the podcast, we saw that girl who went on six dates a week to save $150 on groceries per week.
Average-looking girl can pull that off.
So I actually think women should start paying for dates.
That way we know that you're serious about us.
Because it's not men who are finessing women out of free dinners and free meals.
That's women doing it to men.
So if you're actually, if you want someone to, if you're interested in a guy, I think women should be doing that.
That way we know that you're serious about us.
Do y'all feel that way?
I feel like for the first date, I definitely do think men should pay for it, just so you know that they're kind of serious.
They want to kind of get.
But I mean, what do the guys think about that?
Coming from a date.
We will share our opinions.
I want to hear what you have to say.
Well, I'm not.
Yeah, we'll get you just so it's it's interesting though because you said that you think the guy should pay but I you said you were for the first date for the first date.
But you're you're like a really you said and you've admitted it yourself you're a very masculine woman.
Yeah.
And you said you want to be more the leader in the relationship.
So why are you holding men to their traditional gender roles?
Well that's because he also has a job I guess.
So it's like what do you mean?
So if he has a job like okay so if he doesn't have a job and we're in a relationship right and then he's helping me out on OF or whatsoever then I guess it's okay.
I guess it's okay if I pay for if he's helping out with me on with me in OF or whatever.
But I just I don't Didn't you didn't you say on the Fresh and Fit podcast that you would pay for you want to pay for everything for a guy?
Yes, that's only if they're dating me and they're like not yeah if they're dating me and then they're they're in a relationship with me and they don't really have another job other than helping me with OF.
Okay, so you want a guy to give up his job to help you with your OnlyFans.
Yes.
When I look for a guy, I definitely look for someone who's like that.
But you also want the guy on the first date to pay for it, but you also want a guy who's willing to give up his career to help?
Yes, but of course he's not going to give up his career from day one, right?
So sure, but I mean, it seems if like you're you want 100% you to support the relationship.
Yes.
Like when you're in a relationship with a guy, you want 100-0.
Yes.
You're bringing in all the money and he's supporting your goals.
Yes.
Okay.
So wouldn't it the best way to set that up would have that be the framework from the beginning?
No, it's because I don't really want to put all my cards onto one guy as well.
Okay, so let me ask you a question.
If a guy wanted to split the bill on the first date, would that be a turnoff for you?
No.
I think I would be okay with it.
But why do you want a guy to pay on the first date then?
I mean, that's just my personal preference.
Just so that I know that he's serious about me.
And also, I do feel like guys who pay on the first date tend to be more serious and more into you as a guy who wants to split the bill.
Because usually the people who split the bill end up not being interested in me.
My head hurts.
You said, and then you said, if a guy wanted to split the bill, would there not be a second date?
It just looks like he wants to be friends instead, you know?
Because like when it comes to friends and friends, I don't expect that.
Okay, but let's okay.
Let's say you guys split the bill, but he's like still hitting you up wanting to hang out.
Are you friends owning him?
Yeah, we're just gonna go out as friends from okay.
So you're turning him down because he paid?
Because he paid or he split the bill.
Yeah.
But okay, so you do have an issue if a guy wants to split the bill.
Yeah.
Why?
I just think traditionally, like a man should pay on the first day.
You're not a traditional woman?
I think I'm quite traditional in my own ways.
You do OnlyFans.
There's nothing.
Look, I have OnlyFans girls on the show.
I'm fine with it.
However, you're not a traditional woman.
I think I'm pretty traditional outside of the world.
Are you a virgin?
You said your body count, and look, I'm not shaming you, but your body count's 16, right?
A traditional woman's a virgin.
Well, I disagree.
That's not my definition of traditional.
You, hold on.
Remind me your age again.
47.
47?
Come on.
Stop.
Stop.
Okay, I mean, that's a dead end road to go down the age thing again.
You're not 47, but okay.
So.
Oh, oh, hold on.
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Okay, so you said that you want men to pay because you value traditional yeah, traditionally, that's how I was taught in Asia.
Like, the man should pay.
Like, maybe on the second day, I'm okay with me paying, you know, but first day, I think ideally he should pay.
I think after that, which country?
China.
China.
Okay.
Well, you're not a traditional woman.
I think I am to like a lot of outsiders.
Like, if I don't tell people what I do, like, I look like a traditional woman.
Well, it doesn't matter on the outside.
Like, and again, I'm not.
You have social media?
Yeah, so if I was looking at a girl, she doesn't have to tell me her body count.
I'm just going to look at her social media, who she hangs out with, her friends.
But yeah, your social media is a dead giveaway.
Obviously, I could find the OnlyFans.
Honestly, just looking at her social media, it is so like there's nothing there.
What do you, bro?
What?
That's my traditional one.
My personal one.
Bro, you got some crazy feed pics and shit.
Bro, you got like, you got your crotch right here, and your feet are like right here.
And it's like.
No, but don't be so mean to me.
But that's not.
No, I'm not being mean.
That's the OF.
Oh, she thinks you're being mean.
She thinks I'm not.
OF Instagram.
Like, my personal Instagram, my last post is 2018.
Okay, look.
I'm going to say, after hearing your opinion and your side when it comes to men and women paying, then yes, I can see it in the middle and I see where you're coming from.
And so my opinion would change in that factor.
But it's just, we've had girls on the show say, well, I would offer to split the bill, but if the guy took me up on it, there wouldn't be a second date.
And to me, that's just like, it's just such a great example of how men and women communicate differently.
Because men communicate overtly, women communicate covertly.
You say one thing, but you mean another.
I can give you a bunch of people.
That's dog shit.
Like, excuse my French.
It is, quite frankly, dog shit communication.
If you take out a girl and she pays the bill and you don't ask her to, she doesn't tell you she's going to.
There has been times where it's she pays the bill and then the dude's like, why'd you do that?
And then it makes him, he feels like it makes him look bad.
Or it's disrespectful.
That's not what I'm talking about.
You said that you, on a date, you will offer to split the bill.
You'll offer to pay, right?
If a guy takes you offer and splits, he doesn't, you don't pay for the whole thing.
You pay for yours, he pays for his.
You would extend the offer and then you would not want to go, your words, not mine.
You would not want to see him again.
You would be turned off.
Like I said, you're taking me out of the house.
You're picking me up.
But like I said, I hear your side.
I mean, but hold on.
Women always say that they want good communication in men.
They wish men communicated better.
You are quite literally not communicating.
That's like me saying, that's like me entering into a business contract, which I agree to, and then like being upset.
Like that's like me offering a friend.
That's like me offering to do a favor to a friend, him taking me up on it, and me being like, fuck you, dude.
Why did you take me up on my offer?
Do you see how ridiculous that sounds?
She's upset.
Who?
You.
Me.
Oh, I was listening to you.
Oh, okay.
You just fucking all lean back and shit.
Okay, that's just how your face is.
No, it's just like, it's just like, I think this is why men and women have difficulty communicating because women will say something and then mean the opposite.
It's just like, say what you mean, you know.
Don't, if, if you, okay, if you would be upset if a guy took you up on your offer, you should not offer.
Like, just don't offer.
I didn't say I was going to be upset, though.
Like I said.
You said you would not, there would not be a second date.
Because that's what friends do.
You split the bill if you're a bad person.
But what if he, okay, what if he's still romantically interested in you, but he care.
Okay, so you would be, you would take issue with it.
You would take quarrel with it.
I'd be over it.
It's a turnoff.
I'm not interested.
Well, that's...
That's that.
Okay, so you would take an issue with it.
If a guy took you up on the words that came out of your mouth.
Yeah.
If I offer he's going to be able to do that.
Yo, clown.
Whatever.
No.
Clown world in the chat.
I need clown world.
Hold on.
Let me fucking copy and paste this shit.
Women like you.
See, they said I get it.
Women like you get it.
I mean, look, a lot of women think like that, but it's just.
RBF?
I don't have an RBF.
I think it depends on context, too.
Like, if you're in college and then you don't have a lot of money, I think I will be more inclined to split on the first date, too.
Really?
Yo, guys, clown world in the chat.
Clown world in the chat.
That's just.
Okay, so.
It's just ridiculous.
Okay.
Yeah, pull up the clown world ones.
Yeah, there you go.
Okay.
So you would friend zone the guy.
You said you're traditional.
Are you really traditional, though?
That's how I was raised.
And I kind of like changed my ways, like, you know, moving to America.
But I still think I'm pretty traditional.
That's how I was taught.
Hold on.
I got something else here.
I mean, what if the guy was in college?
Like, maybe he couldn't really afford to pay for stuff.
I mean, I wouldn't date a guy in college.
Really?
Okay, so you would offer, would you offer to split the bill?
No, you said if a guy wanted to split the bill, you would just friend zone him.
Yeah, I feel like he is friend zoning me, you know?
But what if he's not?
What if he's an egalitarian?
What if he believes in gender equality and he's like, hey, listen, do you want, let me ask, do you want a 50-50 partnership?
Like in a relationship?
In a relationship.
Do you want a 50-50 partnership?
In a relationship, yes, but on a first day, like, I'm just more attracted to like when a guy offers to pay.
Okay, so your question was, do men care about, I'm bringing it back to this.
Your question was, do men care about a woman's money?
This is precisely why men don't care about women's money, because women do not share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with money, with women.
But say, like, if I was dating a bum.
You wouldn't, but how would he afford the first date, which he has to pay for?
Like, he just, like, became more bummy or something.
What if he can't pay, then he's a bum.
So you shouldn't be fucking with him anyway.
Well, most women will break up with a guy who, like, some women will carry a guy for a little bit, but most women are not going to tolerate that for an extended period of time.
Some women will hold down their man, but there's a time limit, or sorry, a time clock starts, it starts ticking.
It's like, get a job.
Whereas like a guy who's making a lot of money, like me, for example, you know, I'm going to be, well, you know, I would be perfectly prepared to be 100% providing for a girl.
Most women are not okay with that.
Some are, but most women.
Yeah, most aren't.
And also, just the fact of the matter is, in today's day and age, most people just, they can't do that because they're not a high enough earner.
You know, for a whole bunch of reasons I'm not going to get into.
In order to raise a family, you now need two incomes.
That's a whole nother conversation.
It's kind of political.
But it's just interesting to me.
You want a 50-50 relationship, but you don't want it from the jump.
What?
Like, I just, I don't get that.
Well, like, that's not my, like, boyfriend if it's a first date, you know?
So I would just like it if you could pay for the first date.
That's it.
That's all I'm asking for.
I'm struggling.
Maybe you can continue trying to explain it to me.
I just, I struggle to see the logic.
If you want a 50-50 relationship, shouldn't that be from the get-go?
No, not from the gift-based.
Because you're holding men to their traditional gender rules, but then when it comes to commitment, you want them to, you want it to be 50-50?
But that's like actual commitment, like a first day, like I can go on a first date with like 50 guys, you know?
It won't really.
It seems to me it would be pragmatic for men, seeing that women are dating multiple men at the same time, the likelihood of any one given date proceeding into anything is so greatly diminished because people have so many options or they have the illusion of options.
It seems like it would be pragmatic for men to not end up being suckers and not get played and to opt to either do something for free or split the bill on the first date.
That's just like not common, you know?
And like I said, to follow the traditional way, a man should pay.
That's how it is in Asia and that's how it is here.
I'm trying to remember.
Did you, when I was asking the question about like, what's the most amount of guys that you've dated at one time, did you, what was that?
I said four.
And how many were you sleeping with?
Two.
The same time, too.
Have you ever gone on a date with a guy while also with a new guy while also having a guy that you were hooking up with?
Yeah, at the time.
That's not traditional.
I told you I changed my ways when I came to America.
Oh, wait, so in China, where it's more traditional, you were dating multiple men.
No.
But now that you've come to yeah, because in America, it's like more common for females to like date multiple men at the same time.
Oh, so you changed your ways.
Oh, okay.
So in China, you were traditional, and now here, yet even though you've changed your ways, you still want a guy to pay for the first date, which is him adhering to his traditional gender roles.
Yeah.
Like, I just would like that.
Well, you would like it, but it's not clear to me if that's fully embracing gender equality.
Do you believe in gender equality?
Eh.
I don't really have an opinion on that because I cannot win either way.
But, okay, you want a guy.
You said that you have been on dates with men while sleeping with another guy.
But we weren't like in a full relationship.
With the guy you were sleeping with?
I don't know about you guys, but okay.
You guys already know my opinion.
Do they, though?
But it's not traditional to go out on a romantic date with a guy, expect him to pay for you, and then be sleeping with another guy.
That's not traditional.
It's common in the U.S. You're right.
It is common.
I don't think it's desirable.
I don't think it's a good thing.
Yeah.
But people do it.
Both men and women are sleeping with multiple people.
Maybe I'm more traditional in this sense that if I'm going, even if I'm going on a date with a girl, I don't want her fucking anybody else.
That's a major turnoff for me.
Like when it comes to a date, like I know the guy wants this more than I want this.
Like I don't need to be here, you know?
So like if you're going on here, do you have a response to what I just said?
I don't care.
Yeah, Cornell going back and forth.
After hearing what you said, I agree with you.
You know what?
It's not fair for me to sit there and say, you know what, I'm going to split the bill.
And then if you do it, then I'm fucking out of here.
You know, you know what?
And I understand what you mean.
You know what?
It's 2023.
Women should offer to pay the whole bill so that men actually know if we're really interested or not.
Because I know for a fact that if I don't fuck with you, I'm not paying the whole bill.
I'm not going to offer to pay the whole bill if I don't fuck with you.
But if I do, like you said, if we're really into you, we're really into you.
Fuck.
Oh, dragons.
$50 why would a guy pay for a used chevy chevette you in the blue when there is a brand new porsche 18 year old virgin coming off the assembly line every day That's you.
I mean, some guys are willing to do it.
I'm sorry if you're not.
Like, I have men who are willing to do that.
Lower quality men.
Do you like those guys, though?
How much do you like them?
Wait, guys.
Really quick, I have done God's work.
I have converted her.
Thank you, Brian.
After being...
Thank you.
And I think you might be pandering.
Potentially.
I don't.
I'm being dead at.
But you might be pandering.
I believe in you.
You know what?
You're right.
Can't just say that.
Because you already said it yourself.
You said that if women are really interested in a guy and we're really down for them, I'll spend all my fucking money on you.
So you're right.
Women should pay for the first date.
Too bad I'm not your type because I'll take 20k.
What's that?
Just kidding.
Wow okay so I've I mean I feel like I've almost been I mean I've been beating a dead horse here Thank you so much.
Oh, so it's chat.
I'm dead.
I already told you.
It's Cap.
On that.
Well, I mean, I'm glad that my persistence perhaps changed dreams.
I thought about it.
And I went back on what we said earlier.
I've brought a woman.
I've brought a woman to God.
Okay.
We were having a back and forth.
I'm trying to remember exactly what it was.
Fuck.
Yeah, I have not gone on a date since like 2019 because I was.
So the thing was, oh, we were talking about how like going on dates.
Oh, I forgot you were.
But you were, and you were sleeping with guys.
But that was years ago.
Okay.
But like, I think that's kind of normal nowadays.
Like, women just have so many fucking.
This girl right here.
Yeah, this girl right here said she was sleeping with three guys and was dating eight dudes.
Yeah.
Her, and I'm not saying this to be mean to her.
Her male looks equivalent is a virgin or struggles so brutally to get women.
I'm not saying that to be mean, but like that is the difference.
When we're talking about is dating easier for men or women, her male looks equivalent is never getting a response on Tinder, is never getting a like on Tinder, is never getting a DM on Tinder.
Maybe he can get sex within the confines of a relationship.
Maybe.
I don't want to be mean to her, but I don't feel like the people that are seeing her probably want to marry her as well.
So it doesn't matter.
She wasn't looking for a relationship.
But it doesn't matter, but like.
Yeah, so.
Sure.
It's just, okay.
The whole paying thing, I don't know.
I've kind of beat a dead horse on this.
So you're 47.
Question, did you.
I'll come back to it actually.
So was that your final thought?
Who should pay?
You gave your final thought, Shania.
Do you have anything, final thought or question?
Yeah.
Mine's kind of a two-parter, though, but it's going to seem very random now without tonight.
Okay.
Go for it.
And then I'll be right back and I'll have you guys answer it.
Go ahead.
Okay, so it's for everyone.
And it's a two-parter.
So the first part is just out of curiosity, what is everyone's major turn-on and major turn off?
Okay, you're on.
Let's get a thing on that, guys.
Oh, me first.
Oh, sorry.
Major turn-on.
I guess I like it when guys wear glasses and have like nice polo shirts.
I really like it when they wear like navy.
Or if I guess if they have like a job in like coding or like programming and stuff.
I like it when people kind of talk a lot.
And I guess we have the same interests, like anime and gaming a bit or movies.
I watch a lot of anime.
Alright, turn off.
What is it?
Turn off, maybe.
I guess if they're too dominating or they're into like super forceful stuff.
I'm more like a vanilla person.
So yeah.
Oh.
I love a man who smells good.
Chanel Blue is my favorite clone, and I'll buy it for every man that I ever meet.
Turn off.
Shit.
I fucking know.
If you're not Asian, I don't want to.
Turn off definitely bad hygiene and turn on someone who is, like, hardworking and someone who is accepting of me.
For a physical turn on, I love it when anyone grabs my ass.
So, okay.
That's just a turn-on period.
And then emotional turn-on, I really like it when someone's proud to be out with me.
So like they're kind of showing me off.
They're not like kind of treating me as like a side chick sort of thing.
And then turn off is dry texting.
Oh, God, I hate dry texting.
Don't text at all.
Call FaceTime.
That shit is for making plans.
Yeah.
I think.
You're right.
Coach Corey Wayne says, you call to make plans.
You never text.
You text as little as possible.
Who the fuck is that guy?
Coach Corey Wayne is the GOAT.
Guys, don't pull her hair.
I think phone calls are good, too.
Did you guys give your...
Oh. No. No.
What's it?
What was the question?
One turn on.
What's the major turn on and major turn off?
Turn on when she's like, when she doesn't know a lot.
Kind of turns me off.
Like she's stupid.
Well, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
Yeah, like innocence.
Innocence is very cool.
I love innocence.
Like, she doesn't try to one-up me type shit.
And then turn off.
I don't know.
Turn off.
I don't know.
She sells feet pics?
Maybe when she has like a bunch of fucking hair everywhere.
Hairy?
Okay.
What do you want her to be bald?
Yeah, bald, Gucci.
Bald.
Everything underneath the fucking nose.
I don't know.
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
I thought you meant like her hair.
Can you stick over it?
I think for every guy, freaking ass, tits, face.
But I think for me, green lights for a girl that's a good turn-on is her relationship with her father.
So if she has a good relationship with her father.
Hold on, that turns you on?
No, it's not a turn-on.
That was her question, right?
Turn-ons?
Yeah, so basically, every guy is going to say, oh, turn on his ass, face, titties.
But I'm going to skip that and go straight to green lights that shows, or that makes me more interested in a girl or wanting to get to know a girl more, is her relationship with her father, her parents' relationship.
These are all important things.
The red flags would be her relationship with her father if she has an absent relationship with her father.
Bad father, he's not around, whatever.
Or her parents' relationship is really bad.
But I guess physical turnoffs would be if she is not fit and doesn't take care of herself.
So what if her dad's dead?
The fuck?
Yeah, so that's the thing.
So I actually deal with a lot of girls actually call in and ask me questions because it is sad that a lot of girls are missing a masculine father figure.
That's why it's super important for a masculine father figure role to step in the picture.
So either a stepdad or a brother.
Because if not, the girl's going to end up taking on those masculine roles and energies.
And the girl's going to end up being more masculine.
And when the girl's more masculine, she starts to seek men that don't actually even exist.
So she's always struggling to find a guy she's really attracted to because all the guys seem like pussies to her.
Like, oh, that guy's a s- Oh, he talked about his feelings.
Oh, this guy can't do what I do, right?
So that's the downside if a girl ends up being very masculine.
She can't find a partner.
She's very unhappy.
She's very successful and business-wise because business and leadership is all masculine energy.
So she's going to be very successful when it comes to that.
But when it comes to relationships and dating, she's going to struggle.
Agreed.
That's a good answer.
My, so turn-ons and turn-offs.
Major turn-on and major turn-off.
And this is part one of my question.
Oh, there's another.
Okay.
I mean, okay, so I like women who their parents made them do at least three years of violin or cello.
I play violence.
That's a turn-on?
Yeah, that's just like sexy, you know, just because like piano.
Nah, not you.
How about violin for five years?
What's that?
Piano, piano.
Yeah, like an instrument.
I mean, if it's a wind instrument, like, nah, them chicks be weird.
But like piano, violin, cello, that shit, I'm cool with.
Viola.
I play piano.
So, yeah, these.
I don't know.
There's just something about it.
I don't have a fetish.
Like the discipline.
The discipline.
Obviously, peace.
I think peace is one of the biggest things I look for.
But you said like turn on, turn off.
So peace isn't like a turn on, but it's definitely something that's like super important to me and a girl.
I'm going to get into it.
Yeah, a girl who brings me peace.
A turn off, which is related to peace, is a woman who's combative.
If a woman's combative, like arguing, because I have a very stressful job, the last thing I want to do is like go combat, go have to contend with my girlfriend.
I just, the time I spend with my girlfriend, I want it to just be calm and mellow and relaxing.
Did it, Andrew?
Give me a little back massage.
Yeah, I mean, he says the same thing.
Yeah, he's like, no girl should be like, do you think you can handle me?
And you should always be like the peace of your man.
Yeah, 100%.
Like, I want a girl who brings me peace.
And yeah, I don't want like to, and like, I don't, I don't need like a lot of girls look for guys who are like really exciting and fun.
Give me a, give me a boring, shy, demure, calm girl.
I relate, but I just want the guy version.
You want the guy version.
Yeah.
I mean, I just, and because I'm like more, I'd say I'm more introverted.
I'm definitely a homebody.
I don't like, I don't go to bars.
I don't go to clubs.
I don't go to parties.
I work so much.
I'm already so stressed.
Like the free time that I do have to give to a girl, let's just chill at the house.
Let's just get some food.
Let's take it easy.
I don't want to go to the fucking zoo.
I think I brought that one up before.
Bro, let's not go on my day off.
I'm not going on a hike with you.
I'm not going to the zoo.
I'm not going to the zoo with you on a day off.
You're not going to fill my calendar up with shit.
Let's just hang out.
Let's kick it.
And yeah, so peace is a big one.
And let's see what else.
But okay, turn on large labia for sure.
You're an Audi kind of guy.
I'm an Audi.
Audi.
Audience for sure.
And she has to be like 4'11 or shorter.
Wow.
How tall are you?
No, she's too tall.
I'm 5'4.
Yeah, she's too tall.
I'm kind of tall.
So it's a tiny woman, like tiny petite.
Yeah, I like petite women.
I mean, she's petite.
The 5'4 thing's a bit of a.
You're too tall.
I'm sorry.
That's okay.
You're like an Amazon woman.
Like, you know.
No, I mean, here's the thing.
Like, I'll date a.
It's not that I wouldn't date a tall girl.
Like, I've dated tall women, but like, do I have a general preference towards like more petite, shorter women?
Yes.
So, and large labia.
I'm looking for my 4'11 beef curtain queen, I think it's called.
Okay.
Arbies.
See, I don't, but you know, I don't like when women get shamed if they have a large labia.
I don't like that.
Well, yeah, because you like it.
I like large labia.
What can I say?
Listen, women, women have penis size preferences.
Yeah.
Women want big dicks.
I want big labia.
Just while we're on the topic, do any of you have any's or outies?
You're trying to find out?
I have an Audi.
Wait.
Huh?
There you go.
Oh my god!
That's fucking fun.
Libya, boys.
Uh, oh my god.
Look at that one.
Yo, chat, do you send me and Cynthia?
Do you send us?
Okay.
Do you think you think she's being honest?
No, I'm honest about it.
It's an Audi.
What about you?
What do you mean?
Wait, I'm confused.
What are they talking about?
Like, labia.
No, yeah, bellia.
Yeah.
In other regions.
Like, down here.
Down there.
I know now.
I actually there's middies too.
I know.
It's like in between.
Do you know what your coochie looks like?
Yes.
And no.
I mean, I don't, I get waxed, so other people see it for me.
Nathan will tell us after the show.
I don't know.
Do you even know?
Do you know?
No, we were in the dark, so I don't know.
I mean, you can feel.
You can feel.
You can tell.
Yeah, you can kind of tell.
Hands, I will say.
I'm pretty sure.
Nathan's a man of God.
I don't know.
Nathan's a gentleman.
He's not going to reveal.
Yeah, I really don't know.
You can say it.
If you know, I'm not.
I'm pretty sure it's any.
Don't, don't, don't.
Quote me on that.
What?
What about here on the whatever podcast?
We ask women what their genitals are like.
It's an Audi.
What the fuck does that mean?
Oh, God.
Okay.
Look up.
Wait, no, no.
Look up Hope Solo's nudes, and that's an Audi.
Well, you know, I've seen those.
Who's that?
Oh, my God.
She's very muscular, you know.
It's not a feminine Audi.
It's like a very aggressive Audi, you know?
Like, there's different kinds of Audis, but she does have an Audi.
She does have an Audi.
Look up.
Oh, fuck.
What's her name?
Oh, what's her name?
Shit.
Fuck.
She got a whacked guy.
It'll come to me, whatever.
Okay, so was there a part two to now we all know what turns you guys on?
Oh, wait, last thing.
Also, like another turn on.
One last turn on a girl with bad body odor.
Damn.
Sorry, I mean a girl who smells like forest.
Okay.
Okay.
Wow.
Anyways.
Good to know.
Okay, let's do the other part of your question.
So now, part two is: what do you think your personal turn-ons and turn-offs are for others?
So, like, kind of like accountability: like, what do you think you do that turns people on?
And what do you know turns people off?
Okay, for me, turn on, I guess.
A lot of guys like that, I can cook because I make really nice food, I guess.
And then you beat the shit out of them when they don't do the dishes?
Possibly.
But they also, but most of the guys that I've dated gained a lot of weight after I dated them.
Like instantly in like two weeks.
Because I just like to cook, you know?
Like, if I have someone, I just like to cook.
And I bake cookies and I bake cakes and stuff like that.
So I like that.
Do you leave them because they're fat?
No, no.
I don't actually mind it.
Turn off.
Turn off.
Are you fat?
Turn off maybe if they try to pick a fight with me.
Oh, wait, wait.
That's my probably the fact that I do have the temper thing.
I think that's probably the biggest thing.
When you get mad, do you just insult the dudes?
Yes.
Like you call them names and shit.
It's not just you're mad, but you're also toxic as fuck.
Yes.
All right, Cynthia, let's say we're arguing.
Okay.
I didn't do the dishes.
I'm like, Cynthia, I'll do it later.
I feel like, maybe that's why no girl wanted to date you.
Your ex is like this.
Like, you know, I bring up old shit.
So I'm really back at using that past trauma against you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's crazy.
So it's definitely, I definitely do blow things out of proportion.
But then I guess if you don't try to rub me the wrong way, that's it.
That's all you got?
Yeah.
That's all you got?
Yeah, that's really all I got.
Well, I'm trying to think what I would say back.
What would like a defeated man say back to you?
I'm thinking of what like a boyfriend would say back to you.
Shut up, bitch.
No, I'm skitting.
Just kidding.
Well, maybe if you put on deodorant more, I would be more willing to do the dishes.
I thought you liked it though.
Huh?
I mean, well, maybe then you shouldn't be eating all my food then and eating it all up.
I thought you liked me fat.
Yeah, I do.
But then it doesn't mean that you can't watch your own eating habits.
More cushion for the pushing, right?
I thought, isn't that what you're trying to do?
You're trying to fab me up with all this Malaysian food and shit?
What the fuck?
I thought you, come on, be toxic.
Let's go.
What do you like to eat?
Be toxic.
Let's go.
What do you like to eat?
What do I like to eat?
Yeah.
What do I like to eat?
Actually, I don't do that.
The Rizzler.
You know, I like.
I don't like carbs.
Oh, you don't like carbs?
Not really.
Rice is okay.
I'm down with rice, but I don't like processed carbs.
So you're going to have to make a lot of steak for me, baby girl.
And you got vegetables.
Vegetables.
Can you do Brussels sprouts?
Yeah.
Do you put a little balsamic vinaigrette?
Yeah, yeah.
What's up?
Are you doing salad too?
With like, what kind of salad?
Do you like the Brussels sprouts, a little toasty, you know, a little burnt?
Yeah, with the in the oven, right?
Yeah.
Yeah, I know how to do it.
You put a little bustle in the bag.
So you can put like carbs.
Oh, my God.
You're putting so into this.
This is like food form.
I know.
I like watching cooking stuff too.
I guess that's why I'm kind of like a home person, because there's not a lot of stuff.
You know what, Cynthia?
If you really cared about me, if you really cared about me, you would do the dishes.
I would.
Because I'm really busy editing.
And also, I'm really busy running only.
No, no, no, but baby, I'm taking all the photos.
I'm doing all the editing.
Like, I'm photoshopping now.
I have 15 real accounts to run.
I have six Tinder accounts to run.
But I'm doing all the Photoshop.
I'm doing all the fucking Photoshop.
Dude, you know how long it takes to fix all your imperfections?
Like, fucking.
Yeah, but you don't need to, though.
That's the thing.
Like, guys on the left.
Yeah, but we're finessing these dudes.
Yeah, but guys on the left don't actually putting your energy into something stupid and wasted.
And that's why you're always going to be a 40K.
Wait, how much do you make per month?
On Home Defense?
You're 40K.
You're 10.
What is it?
10K?
How much per month do you make?
Come on.
10K.
10K?
Yeah.
That's why you're always going to be a 10K girl.
I can make you 100K girl, but you won't let me Photoshop your shit.
Mom, Dad, stop fighting.
Can someone hit the button about social media?
And I'm pretty sure you know that.
Yo, this isn't toxic enough, Cynthia.
Step it up.
For real, get it together.
You're going to do the fucking dishes whether you like it or not.
Yeah.
I cook the body.
I cook the boot.
So you're going to do the dishes.
Did you slave over the stove?
No, you didn't.
I'm a woman, right?
I belong in the kitchen making dinner.
Then cook the fucking dishes.
Harrom!
You can't step in for Cynthia, though.
Come on, Cynthia.
Let's see the temper.
I kind of, I just need to feel it in that moment.
It's just hard for me to feel it in the moment.
Like, now I just feel funny.
I'm trying to think what would piss you off.
The shoes.
I shouldn't feel about that.
What about this, Cynthia?
Yo, yo, yo, Cynthia.
I just came home, right?
Yeah.
And I was on the bus.
And like, not through the good part of town.
Like, I was in the bad part of town on a bus.
And I'm wearing my clothes and I'm going to hop into bed with my street clothes.
What's up?
I mean, like, I'm just going to push you away until you get changed.
And if you don't actually get changed, I'm just going to, like, take your clothes off and put your new clothes on, like, force you to.
I'm not really seeing the temper yet, but Cynthia, give me an example.
Come on, let's go.
Yeah, but I just need to feel it.
I just feel like...
Start yelling behind me.
It's just hard for me to feel it.
It's a scenario.
Yeah, like if you don't listen to me right now, you're going to have to.
You just came home and he's getting up in your bed and he's ready as fuck.
Yo, I'm putting myself in.
Yeah, and like now I have to clean it all up.
So if you don't actually clean it up, what are you going to tell him?
He's trying to do that.
I'm going to tunnel with you.
What are you trying to tell?
Yeah, you are just not going to get sex and you're not going to get anything until you clean the shit up and you're just going to put it in the washing machine now so that I can rinse it out and I can hang it.
And then after that, you're going to sit your ass and they look like a mom instead of a temper.
Yeah, but he's not going to do it right.
He's not going to do it right.
He's not doing shit.
That's the problem.
There you go.
Like, this has happened before.
Like, they're doing shit.
Does anybody watch Dave Chappelle, The Chappelle Show?
No, that's fine.
Listen, I'm here.
Imagine me walking in.
I'm Rick James, right?
And I'm walking into your house with these dirty boots.
I was on a farm or some shit.
And I just, you got a white couch.
And I just lay back on your white couch and I'm just like digging my dirty ass shoes into your couch.
And I'm like, fuck your couch, Cynthia.
Fuck your couch.
I was going to go, what is wrong with you?
Like, now I have this.
I have to order a new couch because of you, and then you need.
This doesn't seem very toxic.
Yeah, I don't know.
I think I'm stressed about the actual scenario.
This doesn't seem very toxic.
Do you really have a temper?
I think it's because we're live in front of a bunch of people.
She doesn't want to get canceled.
Ask what their tax break is.
Or maybe she's feeling the sparks too.
And she doesn't want to.
She's like, I don't want to skip it.
Yeah, she doesn't want to scare me.
Leave it to the imagination.
Okay.
Give you something to think about.
I think it's because I'm not yelling it out.
What was your question?
Yelling it.
That's why I checked.
Oh, the turnoffs for other people that you can do.
Yeah, it's your personal one.
So, who didn't answer that question with the personality thing?
Everybody.
Pretty much all of us.
She answered.
Okay.
You go.
Mine, for other people, turn on would be like this thing.
Wait, what?
I do this thing.
What?
And with my tongue.
No, it's for the other person.
Yeah, exactly.
What you think is a turn on for someone else?
What do you do?
I'm doing it to someone else.
What do you do?
Yeah, what are they doing?
Your tongue's pierced, right?
Yeah.
Ju, look into this camera.
we no comment no comment no comment but yeah Yes.
No, he'll find out later.
But, anyways.
Wait, one thing on that really quick.
Shoes the mouth that got away.
Anyways, yeah, so I do this thing with my tongue.
Yeah, the men love it.
Turn off.
I have an attitude problem, and I can be a bitch.
Like an asshole.
Really?
Yes.
You think?
Like, well, not like that.
Like, there's a difference between being honest and being a bitch.
Like, if you're being fucking annoying, I'm going to tell you to get the fuck away from me.
Like, stop being fucking annoying.
Sure.
But me personally, I prefer guys that are rude to me too.
Yikes.
It's got to be a balance of both.
Okay, by the way, I know we've gone a little bit over here, so we are going to wrap here in about 10 minutes.
Guys, get your last-minute super chats in.
I'm going to read the final super chats and then we're going to wrap.
Did you get to go?
I guess one of my turn-ons is that I can give a really good gorilla grip.
Pussy or dominance?
You know, girls can do that shit?
Yeah.
I guess that's what a lot of guys are into.
And I think one of the major turnoffs are like, I can be very dominant.
Haram!
You can be dominant?
Very dominant, yeah.
Have you ever pegged a guy?
Oh, no.
Like, I'm talking about in a relationship, like, I call the shots.
Okay.
You call the shots.
And you have a gorilla grip.
Shame on you.
The JJ.
Okay.
So that's the turn on for the men?
Oh, no, no.
The being dominant is kind of a turnoff.
No, no, no, but the JJ is the turn-on.
Yeah.
Should go hard.
I don't know.
Like, I feel like it's not all that.
Like, most women have tight pussies.
Like, it's y'all aren't really that special.
Bro, we can do that shit whenever we want.
Like, that shit's cool as fuck.
Keegles.
And I feel like exactly.
Like, and some dudes, they don't even know we can do that.
It's like the same thing with waterfalls.
Not everybody knows girls can do that.
No, we can.
Waterfall?
See, you don't know what I mean?
Yeah.
If a guy really can turn you on and he's really good.
Are you talking about squirting?
Yeah.
Like, not a lot of men.
Like, that shit is short.
So, squirting?
Almost like squirting, but it's like dripping out, dripping, out, dripping.
Okay, so you mean like, okay, you're just super wet?
Yeah.
Okay, okay.
Like a lot of wetness.
Not all girls can do that.
Not all girls can squirt, I guess.
Well, squirt and not all girls can waterfall.
I mean, I'm familiar with that phenomenon, but I've never seen it.
It really just depends on the guy.
If he does really, there's this one spot.
If he's good with his hands, he'll get you to do it.
Good time.
Shanaya.
I think a turn off that I have for other people is that I'm not very affectionate.
So sometimes I can come off that I'm aloof and just not feeling it, but I'm just not an affectionate person.
And then a I don't know an emotional turn on, but a physical turn on for others is that I love giving sloppy head.
Huh?
You love giving sloppy head.
I do.
Okay.
All right.
Did you go?
Oh, yeah, yeah.
She didn't win.
Okay.
I did cooking.
Ah, okay, yeah.
A turn on somebody who would.
What the fuck?
What was the question?
If somebody saw me, a turn on for them from me.
Yeah, like that.
Your personal turn-on.
Turn off your personal turnover.
Okay, would probably be.
I'm pretty childish or playful.
And then a turn off would be how well I lie.
Or how well or how well I tell the truth.
Like, you can't tell between if I'm lying or telling the truth.
So for me, I think a turn-on for girls would probably be the fact that I'm unapologetically myself.
I do whatever I want.
I say whatever I want.
And yeah, I'm okay with being who I am.
I think a turn off for girls, I don't know.
I have no idea.
I mean, that could be one as well.
So, just depends on the woman.
He sucks at driving.
Turn on?
Turn off.
Bro hits the brakes hella hard.
We almost crashed like seven times in the last year.
I was testing the brakes.
Bro was kissing the back of a Tesla, of a Toyota, everything.
Bro was on those brakes.
Are you talking about when you guys had sex yesterday?
I'm talking about me and Logan when we were driving here today.
A turn off is, he fucking doesn't know how to drive.
Oh, he's a shit driver?
Yes.
That's racist.
I'm going to say that's racist.
He doesn't look Asian.
This is racist.
This is racist.
He doesn't even look Asian.
Listen, Shorty, I was testing the brakes for our safety.
He was sleeping.
He kept in the brakes.
His head was going all the way.
I was on the freeway with the Ferrari trying to keep it with a Ferrari.
And a Honda.
In a Honda.
Yes, in a Honda.
In a Honda.
So, wait, just to be clear, right?
You got a tongue piercing, right?
Can you just show that to the camera again?
Body counts three.
Body count?
yes rizzle me this Okay.
Okay.
All right.
You know what?
What's that stupid meme where it's like she says she's never done this before, but the donut one where it gets bigger?
Well, I think it's like just like, she's like, oh, I've never, I've never done this before, and she just like goes to fucking town.
Super sweet.
Yeah, I'd be talking about that.
Okay, so I guess I answer this question now.
A way in which I turn off women, is that it?
No, go with your turn-ons first.
Go with my turn-ons first.
Let's see.
I give a damn good back massage.
Okay.
Kind of into that, you know?
And good with my hands.
Good with my hands.
Kind of corresponding with that, though, I don't eat bucks.
I don't go down on women.
Oh, he don't eat that.
You don't eat coochie.
I don't go down on women.
Now, my thing is with sex, I'm going to always make the girl come first.
I always make the girl come first.
Always.
But the one thing I don't do, I don't like to go down on women.
Not because I don't.
Pussy's great.
I like pussy, but it's just me personally.
I don't really, I don't enjoy it.
I don't like it.
Now, hands, toys, I'm all for it, but I just, I can't do, I can't do it.
I don't mind.
But I don't expect a girl to suck on your thingy.
Suck on my thingy?
I'm going to.
So give you that.
Give me that.
Give me that.
That's a haramba, man.
That sloppy toppy.
Haram!
So, I mean, I sort of would understand if a girl like wanted to be vindictive, I guess, and was like, well, if you're not going to do it, then I'm not going to do it.
I don't think it has to be that way, though, because I think that you can, each person has boundaries and there's some things that one person likes that the other doesn't like and you can make up for it in other ways.
So I certainly enjoy getting head, and I don't think, look, if my girl was like, if you're not going to do it, I've had relationships where I don't do it to the girl, but she'll give me head.
And I'm fine with that.
I'll make up for it, I suppose, in other ways, but it's just something I don't like.
I don't think it has to be a tit for tat thing where if I don't like to do something, then you don't have to do it in return.
Like, it just ultimately comes down to boundaries.
And for me, it's just like, I personally don't like, I don't like to do it.
It's not because I'm like grossed out by pussy and shit.
It's just like, I don't know.
I'm kind of a slight germaphobe when it comes to like stuff with my face.
Like I don't like my face being touched, you know?
So like certainly the mouth is like, you know.
And some fucking famous dude got throat cancer or some shit from eating pussy.
So I don't know.
New fear unlocked.
New fear unlocked.
I'll let a man spit in my mouth.
Okay.
Haram!
But yeah, so I think that's probably a turnoff for some women.
Like I'm not willing to I haven't gone down on a girl since the Bush administration.
You remember when that was Bush Jr. not Bush Sr.
Are you really how old are you?
She's not 47.
I know she's not.
Are you going to tell us or not?
She's just a lot of Botox.
Wait, no, because I've had Botox and I'm telling you Cynthia.
Like would that be a deal breaker for you?
Would that be a deal breaker if I didn't want to go down on you?
But like, you know, toys, we could use toys, hands.
Not really.
I think it's because I just prefer cuddling and stuff.
I'm more like...
Yo, you can be...
I'm more like a cuddling and spooning person, I guess.
Okay, you can be big spoon.
you yes I'm more like I like I like I guess I like gentle foreplay and stuff Okay.
I'm with it.
Because I'm more like a mellow person.
I don't really like intense things.
I guess if it was going intense, I don't want it to go for hours.
Sex?
No, 15 minutes.
We're good, baby.
Yeah, yeah.
Get what I mean.
15 minutes.
Yeah, definitely, like, not over 15 minutes.
Yep.
Okay, so are you saying you like gentle sex?
Do you prefer gentle sex?
Yes, I guess so.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm like, I don't want to wake up the next morning and then feel kind of stressed and burnt out and I'm not going to be able to work.
I'm with you.
I don't like rough sex, really.
Yeah.
And I think gentle, intimate, passionate.
Like sex can be passionate.
Yeah, yeah.
And not be like rough.
You know, you can still have people.
I definitely prefer someone like we're watching movies at home.
I don't really feel comfortable having sex in public.
I mean, I'm kind of okay with doing it.
I don't mind trying it.
But then I wouldn't feel comfortable about doing it all the time in public, for example.
I'm not like super.
That's not really what I was.
That's not really the direction I was going, but I'm with you.
Public sex, what's the point?
Let's do that shit somewhere comfortable.
Yeah.
At home.
It's all about that.
But I think you can definitely be like Kinky and not be vanilla, but still prefer vanilla sex.
Like, I don't know.
But yeah, I'm not trying to catch a case to sexually gratify a chick.
You know what I'm saying?
You know what I'm saying?
Nam Sayin?
Nam Sayin?
Okay.
Let's get through the super chats.
Did you guys have any final thoughts before we end the show?
Get your super chats in, guys, if you have any.
No.
Okay.
Logan?
Anything?
Say anything?
Just a final thought?
Something dating related?
Yeah, I think a lot of guys want and expect a lot from women.
And the reality is you can expect all these new things to change.
But the only thing you could change is yourself.
So if you want women around you to be better, you have to become a better version of yourself.
So you like attracts like.
So if you're focused on your mission and purpose, you're focused on your business, you're only going to attract women who want to help and support those things.
Every other girl you come across, no.
She's not even going to bother or waste your time because she's going to easily give herself away to not be a girl who wants to help and support you.
So keep focusing on your mission and purpose.
Become the best version of yourself.
That's it.
Okay, cool.
Are you on birth control, by the way?
No.
Because of your age?
No, because I was in the eater.
So I didn't need birth control.
Damn it.
I was hoping that would be the gotcha moment.
Okay.
You should be asking her if she's on birth control.
Are you on birth control, Cynthia?
While we're at it, yeah.
It's no, not really.
It's more like for skin stuff.
What?
Yeah, because, like, something.
Acne.
Yeah, acne.
It helps like it's not.
You're on it or you're not on it?
I'm on it, but then it's not really because of like sexual purpose, I think.
It's more so I regulate my periods because my periods become really irregular.
So you are on birth control.
She's on birth control.
Okay.
Got it.
Okay, let me get through this super chats, guys, and then we're going to wrap up here.
I'm trying to remember where we are.
Let's see.
We did a ton of these.
Did we do this one?
I'm not sure.
I don't think so.
Or actually, I don't know.
Maybe this is the most recent one.
Mango King, $20 Super Chat.
In my experience, girls do spoil men if they are crazy about the men.
I've even had exes pay my bills without me knowing on another topic.
I'm going to LA next week.
Any tips on where to visit?
Not LA.
Don't, yeah, I was about to say don't go to LA.
Failed society.
Hit up.
Orange County.
Instead of LA, hit up Newport Beach.
Honestly, hit up Santa Barbara, breath.
But don't come to Santa Barbara.
What the fuck?
Everyone's ugly.
What the?
Bro, we got beautiful people in Santa Barbara.
No.
No.
Newport, though.
Newport, you'll find them on every corner.
Newport or Orange County.
Okay.
Darkfire $20 Soup Chat.
Thank you, man.
No guy enjoys paying on the first date.
Why would someone like to pay for someone who doesn't know?
If he doesn't enjoy the date, should he still pay?
Oh, wait, what?
Do you guys have a response to Darkfire 20?
If you don't want to pay, don't pay.
What?
Is that Japanese kanji?
What is that?
Or is that Chinese characters?
In his avatar?
That's the avatar.
I can't.
I think that's Japanese.
Is it Japanese or?
Yeah.
If you don't want to pay, don't fucking die.
Usually the first date would be at my house, so it doesn't matter.
It's free anyway.
Yeah, I heavily pre-qualify.
I haven't gone on a first date with a new girl in a very long time.
I consistently hang out with the same two to three girls.
And obviously I take them on dates, and yes, I pay.
But on a first date with a new girl, I don't know.
I have to really heavily pre-qualify her.
But yes, I would pay.
But here's the thing, though, is like you guys are young.
And I think it's kind of normal for young people to kind of be more open to just casual hookups and stuff.
And that's kind of like what people do at your age.
So I feel like it's more expected.
Whereas I can tell you I'm dating women in their mid to late 20s, early 30s.
If I say, even like I'll do almost every girl I talk to, I'll do a phone call first, right?
So I'll do a phone call.
And then I'll be like, not all the time, but a lot of times, because I agree with you, I think that's like, first off, it's if you're lazy, it's just a kind of lazy thing.
And you get them to your place, it's like you don't have to go out and fucking, you know.
I will probably 90% of the time be like, hey, do you want to just come over to my place for some, you know, I got some food or I'll say, hey, I got a bottle of wine or just some tea, whatever.
90% of the times the girls say, I would rather meet out in public our first time for like safe, like just, I don't know you.
So for younger men, I think it's, you can get away with it.
But I think once you start getting older, and I mean, maybe it'll change because maybe your cohort of women, they'll just continue that throughout.
Well, to be fair, when I was 18 or 19, like there was a little bit of comeover happening.
But now at my age, like most girls are like, let's meet out in public, you know, because they're like the safety thing or whatever, which is valid.
But yeah, it's tough.
It's tough for us old men, you know?
But you should push for it, or not push for it, but you should at least put it out there.
And if the girl says no, you say, okay, well, let's meet some, that's fine.
We'll meet somewhere in public.
But if you can have them just come straight over to your place, I think it's a good move, but it's at least for older men, I think it's a bit tougher.
RIP in the chat for Brian's.
Love life.
Yeah.
Okay, so this one came through.
Hey, Julie, thank you for all the support.
We have Darkfire $20 Super Chat.
Okay, you want to decide if a man cares about you by paying for a date?
How does a man decide if a woman cares about him?
When she does my laundry.
When I decide I want to buy you a $2,800 car and drive two hours to go get it?
A $2,800 car?
What kind of dog shit beater are you buying your dude?
I bought him what he wanted.
2008 Honda Civic Coupe Manual.
A $2,800 car?
That's what he wanted.
He picked up.
If you want it.
I think it's just like small things.
Like I said, do your laundry.
Can you all get a room?
Maybe just make you food or something like that.
They want you and Brian to get a room.
Huh?
Mia Amaru, can y'all get a room for real?
Thank you for the $20 super chat.
Appreciate it.
Yes, okay, so I think, is that all the soup chats, Carson?
Can you pull up the Twitch really quick?
Let me just shout out everybody.
Guys, thank you so much for all the support tonight.
I know this was a long stream.
I know we're going to wrap up here pretty soon.
It was a fucking killer.
It was a good stream.
It was a really good stream.
Oh, yeah.
Yo, Cogmeister, thank you for the Prime.
10 Peace, thank you for the follow.
Sad, thank you for the follow.
ChooToy, thank you for the follow.
ScottishZombie, thank you for the follow.
Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.
Go give us a follow.
All right.
Anyone, final thought before I wrap up the show?
Anything?
Speak now or forever.
Hold your...
Guys, please sub to my only friends.
Oh, so that's what we're doing.
Okay.
Follow my Instagram.
Haram!
Sub to my OnlyFans.
It's free.
I work at a hotel.
On your free page.
Hit me up with car meets.
If you drive a Supra, hit me up.
Just curious for you guys.
So on your free pages, do you guys post actual nudes?
Or is that on your paid?
Oh, no, that's on my eight.
Oh, you only have a free?
Oh, and then there's like tips and PPV.
Okay.
Sure.
Okay.
Very cool.
I feel like I'm forgetting one thing here.
What am I forgetting?
Nathan, Sean.
Do you want to shout out your IG, I guess?
Start on 8.
That's my personal.
AlphasOnly.fit is the fitness page.
Cool.
All right, guys.
Thank you for tuning in tonight.
You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.
I appreciate that.
Long stream, guys.
Really appreciate you guys who stuck it out.
Chaz, if you're still doing the timestamps, you're a trooper, man.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Thanks to everyone who super chatted and supports the show.
It means the world.
I really appreciate you.
You know, we got demonetized on TikTok.
YouTube's hitting us hard with the demonetization.
Really appreciate it.
Thank you to all our chat mods.
Big thank you to the wonderful panel.
Thank you guys so much.
We did have one chick leave because she got triggered.
It would have been a lively show if she stayed, but unfortunately she left.
But thank you to all of you who stayed.
I thought it was a very fun conversation.
Thank you to everybody.
And especially thank you to those of you who came from out of town, which is, I think actually all of you.
None of you live in Santa Barbara.
So thank you for that too.
We will be live again.
What's today?
Sunday?
Yeah, we'll be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific, guys.
So be sure to tune in.
I have a very good panel for Tuesday.
Anyways, guys, hope you have a good night.
Hope you had a good Super Bowl if you watch that.
And guys, we'll see you on Tuesday.
See you next time.
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