Welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast coming to you live.
Ooh, lovely.
Guys, the fire alarm is battery needs to be changed.
Yo, we're coming to you live from guys.
Everything that could have gone wrong before the show has gone wrong.
What?
The mouse battery is dead, too.
Let me, are you sure, Carson?
Oh, okay.
Just got it.
But it was standing still.
Like, it was not wood.
What's that?
What's that millet?
What's that military term?
Snafu, situation normal, all fucked up.
The mouse battery is not working, apparently.
The fucking fire alarm buzzers going off.
By the way, this is like a two-story loft.
So it's, we can't reach the fucking fire alarm.
Anyways, guys, we're coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.
Oh my God.
Okay, chat.
Chat, do you hear the fire alarm?
Hold on.
Do you hear the beep?
Can you, one in the chat, if you guys can hear the beep?
Oh, yeah, it's also foo bar, fucked up beyond all repair.
It's also snafu, situation normal, all fucked up.
Guys, can you hear the beep?
Hold on.
One, if you heard the beep a few times.
It seems intermittent.
Like, I don't know if it's every.
We might have to fix that, guys, because it's incredibly distracting.
But I'll know how because it's literally, I don't know how to show you, but it's how far is that 20 feet into the air?
It's really high.
It's 20 feet into the air.
I'll know what dipshit building, making this loft would put a fire alarm.
I need a fucking jumbo ladder.
But now it's not.
This fire alarm is ridiculous.
Okay.
Okay, so shoot it with a gun.
I do have a BB gun.
I think that's probably.
I don't think that'll solve it.
Okay.
So call maintenance, man, and have him join.
Yeah, because it's literally right above us.
So if anyone does come fix it, it's going to have to be they'll be on the stream.
So I don't know how we could guys, this is going to be the most fucked up stream ever.
I'm sorry.
And we also had six girls flake.
So yeah, not a great start.
Anyways, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
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She's a bit shy.
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Oh, Carson, can you pause it on the couch?
By the way, it's not Eric.
We have Carson.
Yeah, sorry, guys.
Like, six girls flaked.
One of the chicks, this OnlyFan chick, claims that her car, car trouble, I offered to pay for her Uber.
Oh, no, I can't.
My car.
Okay, fucking liar.
Anyways, so, Carson, can you pull it up?
Put it on the couch.
Yeah, scroll it back.
You got to scroll it back.
You got to.
Yep, there you go.
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This is fucking foobar.
Snafu, boys.
Hold on.
Should I call my property?
It's some chick.
They're not going to come.
She's a chick.
Like, she's not going to go get the ladder.
She'll get the ladder.
I'll get the ladder.
You'll go do it?
Hold on.
Let me call.
Yeah, she's a mechanic.
They have a ladder on the bottom.
Can you do it?
Wait, can you actually do it?
I have never done it, but I bet I can.
I can't instruct her to do it.
Chat, I've done it.
Yeah.
Chat, do we get the fucking ladder?
Do we get the ladder, boys?
I think we got a...
This could be a very interesting stream.
Yeah.
Okay.
We're going to go get the fucking ladder, boys.
And then we're going to...
You're comfortable walking up there.
I don't even know if the ladder is going to fit.
This is like a five-minute mission.
Do you want to call?
Can someone else get the ladder?
We can just go up.
We can just go up and I can direct you.
Can I?
Let me call.
Let me call somebody.
Guys, I'm sorry.
Literally right as we started streaming, the fucking fire alarm battery started fucking up.
Hold on, guys.
Let me see if I can get a photo of how fucking high up it is.
And show it to the camera.
hold on i don't know if you can you guys see Probably not.
Okay, well, it's fucking high up.
Fucking scuffed, bro.
So scuffed.
I'm so sorry, guys.
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Separate jobs, guys.
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I want to see W Chaz in the chat.
And big thank you to our chat mods, Zach, Candace, Nemesis, Urameshi, and Michael Matroke the fourth.
And yeah, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
I'm Carmella.
I'm 29, and I'm an entrepreneur.
I'm Elise.
I'm 23.
I'm an actress, mechanic, small business owner, and student.
I'm Sace, and I am a technology recruiter.
Age?
32.
I'm Shania.
I'm 25.
And I used to model, but now I work in a hotel.
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the fire alarm battery just as we started streaming uh is up so we might have to go on a mission really quick to go find a ladder to should i shoot it with a bb I think you should.
Yes.
My landlord will probably evict me if I'm fucking firing a BB gun in the apartment.
No, they won't.
They won't evict you for that.
We'll back you up.
I'm pretty sure they'll evict me for that.
I used to be a property manager.
They won't evict you for that.
I'm pretty sure if I fire a BB gun in this apartment, I'm getting evicted.
No, no, no.
I don't think so.
I think you guys want to see me get evicted.
Yes.
I just really don't think that they would evict you.
It looks like a gun.
Like it legitimately looks like a gun.
It's one of those.
Yeah, it looks like a Glock.
So.
One in the chat.
Can you guys hear the stupid fire alarm battery?
One in the chat, guys.
We're going to go around the table once more.
Current relationship status, longest relationship, and sexual orientation.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was four and a half years on and off, and I'm straight.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was five years, and I'm bisexual.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was two and a half years, and I am straight.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was roughly seven months, and I'm pansexual.
Last time you were on the show, you were in a relationship.
I was.
Okay.
Was that the seven-month one?
Yeah, it's rough, though, because we were kind of talking for like three months, and then we were officially together for four.
So in my head, we were together for seven months because I was crushing on him hard.
Okay.
Why did he dump you?
He felt like we had a lot of stuff to work on and he wanted to do it separately and not together.
Okay.
So.
So, because I remember last time you were on the show, you had mentioned that you were only the second person you were with, correct?
Because you had remained a virgin until you were 24, 25, was it?
Yeah.
How old were you?
24.
24.
Okay.
Quite rare in today's day and age.
And so has there been a number three or not yet?
There was a two, but it wasn't my boyfriend.
So we never slept together.
Wait.
hold on.
Wait.
Your seven-month boyfriend, you guys never had sex.
Never had sex.
So you're still at one?
I'm at two.
You're at two.
So after the breakup, it went up.
Wait, hold.
I mean, we fooled.
So my ex-boyfriend and I fooled around.
So like, you know, there was oral, there was all that, but never home run.
Okay, hold on.
Remind me, when did you break up with your boyfriend?
She broke up with me at the beginning of December.
So you were, and you added a number to your body count after the breakup.
Yes.
Yes.
So now I'm at two.
But you were dating him for seven months?
Yes.
So you, why didn't you sleep with your boyfriend?
There was some personal issues that he was going through, and I was respecting that.
He didn't want to fuck.
He did.
It was just hard for him to kind of get out of his head, if that makes sense.
Hold on.
I don't want to put him on blast or not.
So he couldn't get it up?
No, he could.
Just there was, he kind of sometimes would get into his head, which I respected.
And so.
Did that frustrate you ever?
At the beginning, no.
And then, you know, seven months is a long time.
And so kind of after a while, it was like, oh, like, then the kind of insecurities came in.
I was like, maybe he doesn't want to sleep with me.
But like I said, it was personal reasons.
And so, yeah.
It was a long seven months.
I'm trying to wrap my head around this.
So it wasn't because you didn't want to have sex.
Yeah.
You would have had sex.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
So.
Mm-hmm.
Make this make sense to me.
Like I said, it was, he just had personal things that he wanted to work through, and I was respecting his choices and realized that he wanted to work on that.
And then it's a little ironic that he dumped me because we had to work on stuff.
And yeah.
So, okay, now you're at two partners.
Bye.
Are you still seeing that guy or was it just like a one-time thing?
Yeah.
I mean, it's very casual right now.
So.
Okay.
Yeah.
Good for you.
Good for you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Okay.
Yeah.
So you guys are currently seeing each other?
yeah no no not it's not anything official like i said i when's the last time you hung out with him Last night.
Okay.
All right.
Yeah.
Okay.
And just really quick again, your two current relationship status and longest relationship, I was distracted.
Five years, four and a half.
Okay.
We're loyal.
And why did they dump you?
Why do you think that we got dumped?
I mean, come on.
Come on.
Well, I didn't get dumped.
I broke up with my four and a half year boyfriend because he was seeing another girl and they're actually getting married this year.
So good for them.
Okay.
But I've been single for five years.
So, it's been a while.
Single for five years.
What's wrong with that?
She's crushing it.
I bet you are.
Okay, so you're crushing.
What have you been doing romantically in those five years?
Well, I had a two-year boyfriend after him.
So you haven't been single for five years?
Well, no, no, no.
So that was actually in college.
I'm 29.
So that was like, I think from my freshman or sophomore year of college for four and a half years.
And then I dated someone for two years after him, and then it's been five years.
But I've just been dating and not dating and talking to boys and not talking to them.
It's very not consistent.
Okay, so everyone here is single.
You're single, right?
Of course.
Okay, so what does that mean?
Are you actually single?
Because a lot of times people say they're single, but they're sleeping with one, two, three people.
So I'm just curious, like, are you currently seeing a guy?
You might not be a boyfriend or girlfriend with him, but are you seeing a guy?
I talk to guys.
Not someone I would say I was seeing, because I don't, I feel like when I talk to people, it's not like, I don't talk to these people every day.
Like, sometimes I'll talk to people like once a week or once a month, or like, I guess it just depends, but I don't like, there's, like, I know there's nothing there, so I feel like I'm like 100% single.
Like, I wouldn't, like, put my eggs in one basket.
So when you say you're talking to a guy, do you mean you're sleeping, hooking up with him?
I mean, I will hook up with people that I do talk to occasionally, or like, I guess I don't know.
I would say I'm not seeing the people that I'm seeing in the sense of dating.
But you are what?
Single.
But what are you?
What are you doing with them?
Nothing.
I feel like all the people that I have talked to probably in the past year going nowhere.
But I do talk to people like I'll talk to more than one person at the same time, but like that's because we don't talk consistently.
Like if someone says hi, I'll say hi.
Or like if I see someone, I see someone.
But it's not like, oh, I'm not going to make plans to see them next week.
Like it's just, I feel like it's very casual.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
If you say so.
What about you?
So you said you're single, right?
Yes, very single.
I'm happy about it.
Do you have a man friend right now?
I have many guy friends, but I have been, I've gotten really comfortable with telling everyone that I just want to be friends.
Like I'm just friends everyone?
Absolutely.
And I'm so easy about it because I've been a people pleaser.
No.
Easy to tell people?
Fuck no.
In a nice way.
Oh, okay.
Gotcha.
By the way, okay, so you're an actress.
Yes.
Just to bring it back to this.
Anything we would know?
Have you appeared in anything we would know?
Can you disclose?
I mean, I don't know.
Some movies, some Nickelodeon.
You're on Nickelodeon?
Yes.
What show?
Like Henry Danger, Side Hustle.
There was another one a few years ago.
The Side Hustle was the most recent.
It's not a show that anyone would know.
It's probably for kids.
It's for kids.
But I've done a lot of horror movies, some lifetime movies.
My most recent horror movie is on Amazon.
Ooh, check it out with me.
Should we plug it?
Yeah, it's a fun one.
Do you get murdered?
I do.
I will get a check.
If anyone buys it, I'll get a little check in the mail.
Yo, plug it.
What is it?
What's the movie you're on?
It's called Deathlink.
It's on Amazon.
Deathlink?
Deathlink.
Deathlink.
Okay.
And you were also in another show, right?
Euphoria.
Euphoria?
I was in.
I was in one episode, season two.
I haven't seen it.
It's a very heavy show.
It was a small role, but it was an amazing show and awesome cast to be with.
Speaking role?
It was a speaking role.
I had a little monologue.
I got to set, and the director gave us a new monologue to memorize in two minutes.
And I was like, cool.
Oh, snap.
Yeah, okay.
And so that's on HBO.
Okay.
That's on HBO.
Cool, cool, cool.
Okay, so you're single.
Yes, I am.
You're traveling around right now.
Yes.
You're from Brazil.
Yes.
Sort of Australia, too.
We got that confused at the beginning of the show.
We thought you were Australian, but you're actually Brazilian.
Yeah.
Okay.
But you live in Australia.
Yes.
Okay.
So you're single, but you're traveling.
Yeah.
So how's that working out?
Well, I just got dumped.
And that's why I'm traveling.
So I was here before in November and then started seeing this guy.
Started hitting off quite quickly.
And then I went to Brazil for a month and then came, was about to return.
And then the guy messaged me and said, hey, I started seeing someone else, so I can't see you anymore.
So as I am on the plane, I started planning my trip to come to California instead of to his hometown.
And then here I am today.
So yeah.
Traveling on.
Okay.
Wait, when did you guys break up?
Well, he dumped me.
It wasn't really a breakup.
Sure.
Yeah, it was about a week ago, something like that.
Yeah, pretty recent.
And wait, how long are you guys dating?
We dated together?
We started talking while I was in Australia for a month, and then we were seeing each other for a month and a half.
So not really long.
It was just like something they were studying.
Nothing really.
It's like two months?
Yeah.
Oh.
It's fine.
Yeah.
Yeah, you brush that off your shoulder.
Yeah, that's why I'm here.
Yeah, brushed it off your shoulder.
Okay.
And well, we kind of went into all your stuff.
So I'm curious, and I don't know if we dived into this last time you were on the show.
Why again did you wait so long to lose your virginity at 24?
Comfort was a big thing for me.
And when I was raised, I was like, it was drilled into my brain.
Like, your first time has to be special.
It has to be with someone that you love.
It has to be, you know, this, this, and this, and you have to be a lady.
And so I was petrified of having sex.
And just if it wasn't perfect, like movie perfect, then it was not going to be good.
And so kind of as I grew a little bit more and kind of explored my own sexuality, I was kind of like, wait, this isn't that scary.
Like, I can do this.
I'm comfortable in my own skin now.
And yeah, there was someone that I was super comfortable with.
It was the right time.
And I'm like, you know what?
Let's do it.
Literally.
So you've been with two guys and you're six foot one.
I am.
Okay, you're tall.
You're taller than me.
I'm a big girl.
Yeah.
So of the two guys you've been with, have they been shorter than you?
Both have been taller.
Both have been taller.
Yeah.
So is that a requirement for a partner for you?
They have to be taller than you?
No, not at all.
Okay.
How tall are the guys that you've been with though?
The first one was six two, six three.
Okay.
And then the second one was six five.
I mean, you say that they don't have to be taller than you, but the two guys you have gone with are taller than you.
So.
Truth be told, it seems like kind of shorter guys have a bigger problem with it than I do.
Nope.
Personal, personal experience.
I've only been approached by taller.
So.
Some short guys might be scared, I guess.
Intimidated, I get it.
But most, like, I wouldn't say, I would say it's typically an issue on the girl side.
Most women don't what?
No.
You think the height thing is a man issue, not a women issue?
There are some women that maybe want them taller, but the amount of guys that I hear that are insecure about their height, when I truly don't see it that way, it's not all a woman issue.
Just tell you that.
You say insecure about their height.
Yeah.
So someone who's short could certainly be insecure about their height, but they could still be perfectly willing to date a woman who's tall.
Whereas a lot of women who are tall are not prepared to date a guy who's shorter than them.
Most of the time, when I talk to a guy that's insecure about his height, he's not comfortable dating someone who is taller than him, though.
Most of them go hand in hand.
That's cap.
Okay, I can pull out all my guy friends and talk to them and expose them.
Please.
No, but like a guy who's 5'5, if a girl who's 5'8 shows him attention, he's not gonna say no.
That's, yeah.
No, you're right.
I was thinking more so with like the six foot.
So like a guy who's six foot and a girl who's taller?
A guy that's like 5'8 and a girl that's 6' is where I was thinking.
Is there anybody 5'8 in the chat?
That, okay, short guys, here, everyone in the chat, doesn't matter how tall you are, if you're short, tall dude, whatever.
Let's say, would you date a woman who's five inches taller than you?
One in the chat if you would date a woman who's five inches taller than you.
Two in the chat if she's taller than you.
Sorry, just you're not interested.
Let's see it in the chat, lads.
Okay, we're catching up here.
So I need to rant a little bit before I get into my first topics.
I see a lot of ones coming in.
One, there's a couple two.
There's some twos.
A lot of ones.
Okay.
So.
You see nothing.
Oh, there they are.
Okay.
I'm taking your word for it.
Yeah, on this one, it just takes a while to pop up.
StreamYard slow like that.
By the way, guys, so I might, so for the super chats, guys, I may bring it back down to 10.
The thing is, is that last show, we had it at 10 for the first hour.
Then we bumped it to super chats over 20 to be read and all super chats will be shown, but to be read, answered, we boosted it to over 20.
By the way, I love the support, but just we had so much volume in super chats and it took so long to get through them.
And I love that you guys send all these super chats, but the show went five hours.
And it's just, it was too much.
I don't want to say that, but like, I want to make sure I get the girls home at a reasonable hour.
So we might bump it down, though, to 10 just because we got kind of a more intimate show tonight.
So get your super chats in and we'll see how the show goes.
And by the way, we do have TTS.
That's $50 and up.
And then we also have a couple other triggers.
I'll just show you guys a little something special.
So, well, I don't know if anyone's going to trigger the asteroid.
We have an asteroid trigger, guys.
So maybe.
I'll save it for an appropriate time.
Sometimes I'll just trigger the asteroid on my own.
Anyways, so I'm going to ask you guys a question.
Who do you guys think is flakier, men or women?
Both.
Women.
Men.
Men are flakier.
Okay, what about you?
Both.
Both are flaky.
Well, if you had to lean in one way, is there a direction?
Women.
I'd say women.
Do you want to revise or are you sticking with men?
No, I'm sticking with men because a lot of my friends are guys and I've seen them flake on so many plans.
And I feel like I make it to everything I can say yes to.
And I'm a woman.
So I'm here.
Yes.
That is true.
That is true.
So you said you have some guy friends.
Yes.
Strictly guy friends?
Is that weird?
I don't think that men and women can really be friends.
Really?
They can definitely be just friends.
I agree.
Wait.
You agree with me?
Oh, no, no.
I agree with Mella.
I think that if you're both open with the communication, I think you can be friends.
Let me ask you a question, Carmella.
Yes.
Carmella Soprano.
Okay.
If you were to text one of your guy friends, let's assume they're single, right?
And you said, hey, would you like to come over tonight and hook up?
You know, you could put it in, you could phrase it more organically.
Do you think they would say yes?
I think they'd be a little weirded out that I was asking them to hook up because I have I've made clear boundaries with all my guy friends and I've never hooked up with the people I call my best friends because then they probably wouldn't be friends in the future.
But do you think if given the opportunity, some of your male friends would hook up with you?
I think if given the opportunity, probably yes.
But also, like, we've all defined boundaries to where that just won't happen.
So are they really friends, though, if given the opportunity, they would hook up with you?
Um, I mean, talk to any guy.
Like, I mean, any, you could ask any guy to hook up with any girl and he may say yes.
And, like, I just think that I don't know.
It's this is a weird question.
I don't know how to answer it.
I know that I wouldn't hook up with my best friends because I don't want to.
So I think that's the only thing that matters.
Can I ask you a question?
Have you ever had a friend that turned into something more?
You started as friends, and then at some point down the road, you hooked up or you ended up dating them?
I have.
Well, I have like, I did start hooking up with an old co-worker, but we stopped hooking up and we're still friends.
We're like friends on like a text basis.
Even worse.
No, but like not even, but it's nothing sexual.
It's like we talk about like our day or something.
Well, I would say this.
If I was dating a girl and she was, she had a male friend who she previously fucked, that's an issue for me.
I'm going to tell her it's me or that guy.
And she might pick that guy and I'm like, see her.
So I was put in this situation a lot because I've never hooked up with any of my best friends, but I'm really close with my friends and their girlfriends have to know that we're really close.
And it has been a problem in the past for my guy friends, but we've never crossed a line, so it's like not a real problem.
So it's been an issue for your male friends who have girlfriends?
Yes.
It's an issue for their girlfriends.
It has been because, I mean, we're close.
We do everything together, but like we're also like you guys go over to each other's house late at night I mean, watch movies.
Cuddle, but like platonic cuddling.
We don't cuddle, but like they would come over like late at night and hang out.
But like, I mean, I sit on the other side of the couch or something.
Imagine like.
Okay.
Let's say you get married.
You have a husband.
Do you think that that would be appropriate behavior when you're married?
And you have a husband?
I would hope that my husband would join my friends group, so he'd be there.
Let's say he's out of town.
Are you hanging out solo one-on-one late at night in a private setting with another guy?
I think I'd have to set clear boundaries with my husband about what he's comfortable with, but like he should also trust me to know that I wouldn't hook up with other people if I'm like in a committed marriage.
It's not even necessarily about what you would or would not do.
It's just the appearance of impropriety.
Well, if that's something that he's uncomfortable with, then that's something we can talk about.
Okay, so he says, Carmella, what's your husband's last name?
Carmella.
Are you going to hyphenate or are you taking his last name?
Hyphenate.
Oh, my God.
Haram!
You're hyphenating?
Who here is going to hyphenate if they get married?
Well, I have to keep my name for acting.
So you're going to hyphenate or you're going to keep your name?
Probably going to keep my name.
Okay, that's fine.
What about you?
I'm going to change my name.
To your husband's name?
Yeah.
I'm taking their name.
Okay, so hyphenate.
See, here's what I don't get about the whole hyphenation thing.
If everybody hyphenates, then by the, okay, if two people with hyphenated last names get married, then they got four last names, and then their kids, then you got eight.
And is that exponential?
Is that exponential, boys?
Eight, 64, 100.
I don't know what the fuck it's after that.
So I'm Asian.
I'm half Asian.
And so Filipinos.
Wait, hold on.
you're uh how you doing um Vietnamese?
No, Filipino.
Fuck.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
Well, so culturally, my middle name, I have a second name, and then my middle name is my mom's maiden name.
And then I have a last name.
So I have four names already.
So I'll just add another one when I hyphenate.
But aren't those first names?
Yeah, so I have a first name, a second name, a middle name, and a last name.
Which I'm not going to say out loud.
Okay, so we're talking about friendships, right?
Okay, so going back to that, so my friends also set boundaries as well.
So when, for example, I had a friend, his girlfriend was like not really happy that he had a lot of girlfriends.
I'm not the only girlfriend, but we were really close.
And because she didn't like it, we, I think, only saw him once a month.
So they also changed those boundaries so that it just made them happy.
So I feel like I would also accommodate if I had to.
But, I mean, nothing's going on.
I just...
Okay, so you're married and you're inviting your male friends to your house late at night to watch a movie alone.
That's a bad look.
That's a real bad look.
I can't.
Are you poly?
Are you polyamorous?
No, I'm straight.
Are you monogamous?
Oh, monogamous, yes.
Okay.
Sorry.
So it just.
Hold on, bruv.
Okay, I'm just doing it.
Hold on.
Keep it center.
Oh, whoops.
Oh, you've got to be kidding me.
Oh, shite.
Hold on.
I got it.
Fuck.
Okay, can you, I need a step.
I need to adjust something on the computer really quick for a sec, guys.
Can – shit.
Oh, wait.
Okay.
Sorry, guys, I'm having a technical issue here with my stream deck.
$49.99.
Fellas, if your wife hangs out one-on-one with her guy, busies when you're out of town, there's only one place she belongs.
She belongs to the streets.
It's true.
It is true.
Oh, so Carson, by the way, you can still star the 50 TTS.
Okay, let's get your input.
You seem to have some feedback on the whole friendship situation thing.
Yes.
But I mean, I've been in the other place where I was jealous of, like, you know, I dated someone once where he was still close friends with the women that he hooked up with in the past.
And it made me very uncomfortable.
One, I think it was honestly just something that I had to work through with my own jealousy.
Because if I really trusted that person, then it's fine.
But I understand it sounds bad if you're married and you're seeing someone one-on-one.
And so that's why with my guy friends, I do set a lot of boundaries.
But it's just also about, you know, open communication with the person you're with and trusting that if they're uncomfortable, they'll talk to you about it.
And then maybe you make some changes.
But at the end of the day, the person you're with is your priority and making sure that that is known in a statement.
Okay.
Thoughts from you guys?
Well, I think with maturity also comes like you need to prioritize who you, what's your priority, is your relationship.
Yes, you have friend and friends for life, but at the end of the day, the person that you're sharing your life with should be your priority.
So that's a conversation that you gotta have.
Okay.
By the way, there was a comment here.
Normally we don't do $5 super chats, but marriages in which the woman hyphenates her last name have higher probability of divorce.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Let me do these super chats and then I need to fix something on the computer really quick.
I'll do these the 10 that came in.
By the way, guys, just a reminder, we're going to be doing 20 up, 20 and up from here on out.
I will do, since there's a bit of confusion about the super chat thing, I'll do, I'll get the ones that were 10 and up.
Carson, only star 20 and up from here on out, okay?
But keep showing the other super chats.
Okay, so we have, yeah, so guys, from here on out, we're going to do 20 and up.
Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 super chat.
It's a known fact that it's up to the woman to retain a man after they hook up.
What do you think the man you want to marry wants from you for a committed relationship?
Who should lead in the relationship?
Yeah, so, I mean, are you talking about the different sexual strategies and kind of metric of success?
So a man's metric of success is getting the girl.
The woman's metric of success is retaining the guy.
Okay, what's your reason?
Oh, no, no, no.
Oh, you did a bit of an eye roll.
I want to keep listening.
I want to keep understanding your point of view, so keep talking.
Well, the guy's kind of initial goal, like our point of success is sleeping with the girl.
That's not impressive for a girl to do, to sleep with a guy.
So your metric of success is being able to keep the guy once you've slept with him.
Because oftentimes, women don't complain about, oh, I can't get laid.
That's not women's complaint.
When women typically complain about men, it's, he hooked up with me and then he ghosted me.
That's like a complaint you often hear.
Whereas for men, it's usually like, I can't get laid.
Like that's men's typical complaint.
Not, oh, I'm having too much trouble getting laid and then the girls are ghosting me after we fuck.
That's typically not men's issues.
Um, thank you guys for that super chat.
Uh Spencer, Neiman with the ten dollar soup chat, it's because she left her boyfriend for a frying pan.
Is that, is this targeted?
I think that's a pansexual joke.
Oh, because you're pan, you're Pan.
What it?
What is that?
That means you'll fuck anybody.
Yeah no um, like a you'll.
You'll have sex with someone who's trans, for example.
Yeah, i'm attracted more into personality, so I don't really care about looks gender height, anything like that.
I kind of more care about the connection.
Okay, so you'll date women oh yeah oh okay cool yeah yo, John Deke.
Hey dude, haven't seen you in a while.
Man, good to see you.
I, I remember your, your name.
Thank you for the ten dollar soup chat.
Ladies, take note, the girl who has the body count of two is wife material.
I bet anything she will find a good husband and live a good life.
Good for her, thanks.
Okay, John Deke.
Thank you man, appreciate it.
Yo, Gus 10 soup chat, living my life dating, not ready for ltr.
Most men will think oh, she's been ran through.
You take an l every time you hook up with someone that's not for marriage.
Independent woman equals masculine af.
I'm not sure who this is directed to, but uh, thank you sir.
Okay uh, we have uh dank naked 25 sup chat.
Thank you, man.
I love watching clips of your show.
Glad I could catch you live for once.
Keep keep doing what you do, king.
Hey, thank you man.
Yeah, our clips are blown up tick tock.
Uh, our second channel, we post shorts and uh, I I need to get someone to help me do all the shorts and stuff, because i've been doing all that and it's just, it's a bit overwhelming.
But thank you, man.
Spencer Neiman, 10 soup chat.
I'm 5'6 and wouldn't date taller than me.
Okay, fair enough, there's definitely some guys that won't do.
Hold on wait wait, Spencer Neiman, you're telling me you wouldn't date pansexual Shania over here.
Come on, Spencer.
Okay, all right, the smoking patriot, 10 soup chat.
Height doesn't matter much when you're horizontal in these sheets.
Okay, that's true Gus, 10 soup chat.
Let's play a game.
Call your, call your male friend and say hey, I was with my girls and you came up.
They said good things about you.
I was wondering, have you ever thought about us being more than friends?
Don't be scared.
Uh, we can't, because we're in California wiretapping laws, we can't actually call anyone on the show.
But if you guys are open to it, we could have you guys text your male friends a little like what you doing, or do something organic like a, oh fuck the fuck, it was quiet for like 20 minutes.
Yeah, this fucking dumb fire alarm.
God damn it.
Snafu guys, situation normal, all fucked up, all right.
Um, do you guys want to do that?
Do you any?
Any of you want to text one of your male friends really quick and say hey, do you want to hook up?
It doesn't work Carmen, let's do it.
I mean, I could definitely text someone and I know the response i'll get.
who are we gonna text you guys do that why are you texting me this what do i text him oops does she say do you want to hook up is that what Yeah, just something organic, I guess.
Is that organic?
Do you want to hook up?
That is not organic.
Yo, you want to fucking get it.
Yes, I want to talk about yourselves.
Okay, what does she send?
Let's organize this.
What does she send to her friend?
I've been thinking about you lately.
I've been, okay.
I've been.
Oh, that's.
I don't know.
That sounds too organic.
I would never say that.
Organic.
Try.
I want this to be organic.
Yeah.
Yeah.
We're trying new things.
She's really sending it.
She's, yeah, I've been thinking about you lately.
Should you do a dot dot dot?
Is there a part two to this text or is she only saying that?
Yeah, we just.
Wait, what's that?
What was like that old thing that went viral where like you texted the lyrics of some love songs?
Oh my gosh.
You could do that.
I don't know.
Is he a sweet guy?
Oh.
Gonna prick his heart or something?
No.
Oh, no.
No, he would be like, who stole your phone?
Send it.
With the dot dot dot about lately.
Wait, are we even on air right now?
I don't know.
Say something crazy.
And I think I'm I say I'm more than a friend.
Oh, no, I can't say that.
Are we having a lot of that?
That's like relationship.
Like, are we just trying to hook up?
Oh, because I don't want to fuck with you.
I don't want to say anything feelings-wise.
I think into the mic.
Maybe just say, I've been thinking about you lately.
Dot dot dot.
You want to hook up.
It's been a while since I've felt some male.
It's so not organic.
It truly is what you're probably saying.
Like, he's going to know it's not.
Sorry, guys.
I had to step away.
I had to fix something on the computer really quick.
Let me get these.
Did you text it?
I'm going to do the super chats.
Send the text.
I haven't texted it yet.
Your hand is like shaking.
Oh, my God.
I'm still trying to figure out how to do it.
Do you have a crush on him?
Is he single?
He is single, but I've been friends with him since like high school.
Like, it's been a long time.
Do you have a more recent friend?
All of my friends are long-term friends.
Do they live in your city?
Don't send it to some dude in New York.
It has to be a guy that lives in your city.
The guy you were going to text, where does he live?
Culver City.
In my city.
Okay, then try it.
Send it to three guys.
Let's get three guys.
Yeah, three guys.
Just tank all your friendships.
Same message.
Same message.
Okay, so what's the message I'm going to send them?
Because I mean, this one just says, I've been thinking about you lately, dot, dot, dot.
Chat, does that, is that good?
I've been thinking about you lately.
I think it has to be a bit more overt.
Be like, hey, what are you doing tonight?
Do you want to come over Winkyface?
Is that Carson?
I mean, they're going to be like.
I could.
Is that.
Wait, hold on.
Let me see.
They're just going to think, like, oh, do you want to get dinner or something?
Like, I'm like watching a game right now.
Like, what is like the ultimate hookup message?
You want to fuck?
Okay, that's too, that's too direct.
Too much.
Sorry.
Anybody in the chat with a good recommendation for a message that she okay, we're trying to craft.
You can keep it centered.
We're trying to craft the perfect message to send to one of her male friends to see if they're truly friends or if he'd be down to hook up with her.
Anyone?
Okay, there's a few in the chat.
They're going really quick here.
Hey, I want to ask you a question.
I would like a real answer.
Would you be interested in being more than friends?
That's from Sharky.
Jay says, hey, I know we've known each other for a really long time.
Do you want to come over tonight and we could maybe have some fun?
I don't know, Jay.
That's kind of whack.
Sorry.
How about I kind of like sharkies?
Okay, how about I like Nick Chow?
Nick Chow says, this might sound weird, but are you down to Netflix and chill with me?
Is that good?
That's good.
It's not playing with the feelings.
It's pretty.
This might sound random, but are you down to Netflix and chill with me?
Winkyface.
but then he's like so the person that I'm texting like well you're gonna text three but I don't even think I have like three like guy friends that I could send that text to like it's like So if you sent another one, is they're going to accept it?
No, because I feel like it's a good idea.
I mean, my close friends group is like one of my best friends, and I could, like, her boyfriend.
Like, they all have boyfriends and girlfriends.
It's like, I don't know.
I only have a few single friends.
Carmella.
Carmella.
Don't break my heart.
What am I supposed to say?
This may sound random, but do you want to come over and Netflix and chill?
Winkyface.
Winky face.
Don't forget the winky face.
Key part is the winky face.
Oh, geez.
Oh, no.
If you make this weird, this is, it's not going to be weird, but, like, that's a weird text to send a friend.
Let's.
We'll check in.
We'll check in.
All right, let me get these other soup chats and we'll check in on that text in a few minutes.
Okay.
Do you want to send it to other guys too?
Go ahead.
Anybody else?
Do you want to do that?
Oh, fuck, no.
Come on.
Come on.
I've worked so hard to create boundaries with my male friends.
I don't want to screw that up now.
Well, just text them afterwards.
Be like, just kidding.
I don't need that.
I don't want to fuck you actually.
All right.
Yo, Cameron Carlton, $20 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
All these dudes in the chat saying they would not give a tall woman a go are really only worried about the size of her hands compared to his.
The only way men and women can be friends is if the man has turned her down twice.
Okay.
Hand size comparison?
It's just like the same.
Am I?
A little bit bigger.
Mine are a bit bigger.
I have dainty piano gamer hands.
So they're built for speed.
Okay.
Yo, Monty, thank you for the big $50 soup chat.
Fellas, if your wife hangs out one-on-one with her guy, Besties, when you're out of town.
Oh, yeah, this was the TTS.
Thank you, man.
There's only one place she belongs.
Monty, appreciate the support, man.
Beaten cheeks, $20 soup chat.
These women want simp type guys that will allow them to have male friends.
Insecurity is not the issue.
It is dangerous grounds for that 1% chance they'll get mad with emotions at their BF and end a serious relationship.
Did he respond?
He did.
What did he say?
But I don't know if I like this message.
Here, do you want me to read it?
No.
into the mic?
Are you?
My palms are.
What did he say?
What did he say?
He said, I just got back home from the valley, but if you had asked me earlier, I would have been down.
Ha ha.
Okay, but you don't realize the understatement.
Vindicated.
Vindicated.
Hold on.
But there's a difference.
There's a difference between acting on it and like actually doing.
I mean, both and like.
He said he would, but did he know what he said, what he was going, what he was saying yes to?
Because that is.
You need to call him and talk to him after this.
I need to tell him this was fake.
Yes.
Okay, Nicholas.
No, but the thing is, like, I have set clear boundaries with my friends, so even this text would not change anything because I still personally would not hook up with them.
And I stick by that.
But they would hook up with you.
So basically, he said he's down to hook up with you.
But he's just a friend.
But he's a dude.
I feel like any you ask a dude, like, do you want to hook up with that girl?
They're going to say yes.
I will.
But he's just a friend.
So.
I will say, I used to live with a man and we had honest talks.
And he said, every single one of your male friends wants to fuck you.
Yes.
I hate that shit.
I mean, I don't doubt it.
I just, like, there's one thing for them to want to, and then you to actually, like, do it.
And, like, you can choose not to do it.
Yeah, but he was also given the opportunity.
So.
Okay.
Does any other girl here want to try this experiment out?
I already know the answer.
No?
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
I want to bring it back to flaking.
That was kind of maybe where this originated.
You think men flake more?
Whatever.
Y'all said women flake more.
Okay, I need to rant a little bit on flaking.
So I had six girls flake today for the show.
Six girls.
Every single show we do, anywhere from two to four, either no show or they just outright, usually they flake within a few hours before the show.
Sorry, can't make it.
Blah, And gentlemen, this is what you're dealing with when you're dating too.
So, and these are the women that you're supposed to marry.
They can't even, till death do us part, and you can't even keep a commitment.
By the way, these women will lie when they're, this girl, the OnlyFans girl who was in the thumbnail before claimed her car broke down.
I offered to pay for her Uber to the studio and back, and I told her she could be late too.
Oh, I'm sorry.
It's just, bro, just, I'm sorry.
I'm not sorry.
Hold on.
I'm sorry, but I'm not sorry.
It's very, this is not really an experience that women deal with when it comes to dating.
Because when a guy goes through all the trouble of having to set up a date, picking the place, the time, he's probably initiated it.
Most guys are not going to flake on you on a date.
Whereas it's almost the rule as a guy to expect the girl to flake on you.
And y'all typically don't give a lot of notice.
Y'all flake an hour, two hours, three hours before.
Sorry, I'm just, I'm feeling extra toxic tonight because it was so stressful with these flakes.
But like, I want to ask, have you guys ever flaked on a date?
Be honest.
I won't, I won't.
You flaked.
What about?
Yes.
The only time I flaked is when I should have said no in the first place.
And I anxiously said yes to please it.
And then I decided I really don't want to do this.
And I flaked at the last minute.
So yes, I have.
Yikes.
Okay, what about you?
Maybe like a couple times, but I mean, I try not to because it's not a nice feeling.
Do you flake last minute when you do flake?
No.
I do try to do it like maybe two days, three days in advance.
Okay, that's fair.
Yeah, I try to make it respectful.
That's fair.
Yeah.
If it's the same day, I'm going on that date.
Oh, okay.
I'll give you a.
Okay.
All right.
Hold on.
That deserves a little.
Yes.
Okay.
Thanks.
What about you?
Hang on.
Let's do flaking if you have a real reason for you're still flaking, yes.
I mean, what's the real reason?
Well, it was the day after my sister's wedding.
So that's not really the thing.
It is a reason.
Anyway, I flaked.
Yeah.
One time you flaked?
No, a few.
I reckon Brazilians are not so flaky.
We're not, generally speaking.
I think Brazilians keep to their plans.
But it happens.
Okay.
What about you?
Well, you said there's this one time where you shouldn't have agreed.
Yeah, so I learned from that and I just tell people very straight up, no.
Okay.
What about you, Carmela?
Soprano?
I feel like there's only one time where I can remember actually flaking, and it was because I wasn't really...
I also don't go on very many dates, but I wasn't really into this guy, and I didn't want to get ready.
And then I think I FaceTimed him like two hours before and then I said I wasn't feeling good.
And then that was it.
Most times I like will not go on a date unless I want to go on it.
Wait, so two to three hours before were you feeling fine?
Mentally, no.
Physically, yes.
Mentally, no.
What does that mean?
I don't know.
Sometimes I get like anxious before going on dates.
Because I just, no, because I just don't want to go.
Okay.
But then most times I will go, but like, I don't know.
I FaceTimed this guy like a couple hours before, and then I decided I don't think he was like worth meeting in person because I don't think I like him.
So I canceled him.
Okay.
Well, first off, I appreciate the honesty on your answer.
So you FaceTimed him before the date, and then your assessment of him changed because you—was it his appearance?
Was it just the conversation that you guys were having?
I want to say it was the conversation because if I don't get along with someone or like you can't like there's no banter or anything like if you're not on the same wavelength, it's gonna be an awkward dinner or drink or wherever you go.
Well I think okay so I think in some ways you did him a favor because you yo dank naked thank you for the membership appreciate it.
Go ahead Carson pull it up.
I think you did him a favor because you had the conversation.
It wasn't like you were flaking, but you would have maybe still gone on a date with him.
You assessed that you had no more interest in him.
So in some ways you were actually saving both of yourselves some time, it sounds like.
So I certainly credit you there.
I guess the big qualm with flaking is if for example if you didn't if you had not had that FaceTime and you're just like eh, I'm just kind of something better came up.
That's often when flaking will occur.
A better option comes along.
Either a guy or a better plan comes along, or you're just like, oh, I'm kind of tired today.
I don't want to do it.
I don't want to go.
Like, so that's a major frustration for a lot of men because oftentimes when a girl does cancel, it's like two hours before you're supposed to meet.
And I'll know about as a guy, it's pretty difficult on a Friday night at four.
Let's say you're supposed to meet at 7 p.m. on a Friday night.
Your Friday night is over as a guy.
You're not getting another date on a Friday at 5 p.m.
A girl, however, you can get another guy lined up very quickly on a Friday at 5 p.m.
That's why I think women just flake so willy-nilly because they just think their experience is men's experience and that, oh, he'll just get another girl.
Whereas most men, like, you have just, you've just ruined his, well, not ruined his Friday, but he no longer has a plan.
He cannot find a replacement as quickly as a woman could find a replacement.
Why do you think the woman is going on another date?
That's women do that all the time.
I feel like in this case, it's usually not because she has another date.
It's because she doesn't want to go.
Well, I mean, there's a variety of reasons why someone might flake, but, okay, it could be that a better guy came along.
It could be that a better plan came along.
So, for example, he's going to take her to a dinner.
She gets an invite to go on a yacht.
She's not going on that dinner date.
She's going on the yacht.
Or she's just like, oh, I've got a bit of a headache.
I'm just, uh, go ahead, you wanted to come in?
I need to say something about this.
Sure.
A lot of the times a woman will cancel the date because, well, that's my case.
I feel that I can't give everything that I have to that person on that day.
So if I'm having a bad day, if I'm not feeling good, what's the point of me going and meet a person for the first time and have a shit date?
Like, it's not about having other person or anything like that.
It's about me not being in a right mindset in the first place.
So.
Okay, by the way, just thank you, Marina, for the membership.
Appreciate it, man.
Well, I'm just do you really need to bring all that much on the first date?
Absolutely.
Yes, if you care about it, yeah.
Because it seems to, I mean, it would seem to me that most men's experience is the burden of performance is on us on a date.
Does that make sense?
Okay, let me explain a little bit.
My experience with dating is if I did not carry the conversation in almost every single date I've ever been on, like let's say I did what I think girls do on dates, it would be dead silent.
Like literally, if I did what girls do and just showed up and just said nothing, like I don't know, maybe I'm just dating the wrong women, but I've dated a lot of women and a lot of women are incapable of leading and carrying a conversation.
Choosing the wrong women.
Yeah.
Yeah, it feels to me like that's the perspective of you only like dated and seen women that don't do any work during sex.
There's a lot of women that like to get on top and get down.
Well, I wasn't talking about that.
No, I know, but I'm giving it from the, like, that's the point of view.
Like, most of the time, woman that has fun and does work and that is also someone who doesn't just sit there and a date, actually cares about putting in energy.
I think that's the perspective that she's coming from.
There are probably women that just do nothing, but I sure.
So, I want to ask the chat this: Yo, chat.
If you were to stay silent, like if you kind of waited for the girl to say stuff on the first date, would it just be dead silent?
Would there be awkward silences?
One in the chat: if you were silent in the same way that women can be silent on a date, would you say it would just be awkward silence?
Or do you think the girl would actually carry the conversation?
I don't know.
I think it's a two-way street.
It's a team effort.
If any one of the people is completely silent, it's probably going to turn someone off if they're looking for a good conversation.
Okay.
Oh, damn.
We got a wait.
Hold on.
We got a bunch of memberships here.
A lot of the chat is saying one.
One.
There's a couple.
I don't know.
Which one was one?
Oh, one.
One was.
I guess I didn't assign a two.
By the way, Sheldon Dinkleberg, thank you for the gifted one membership.
And yo, Marino, by the way, thank you for the tier three membership.
And Dark Naked, thank you for the tier five membership.
That's big.
Hold on.
Let me, I think that's let me give you an aircraft.
Yo, let me uh damn, dude.
Appreciate it.
It doesn't, unfortunately, sorry, guys, I had to pull that up on YouTube in StreamYard.
It does not show the tier that you gave.
So, yo, thank you for the tears.
Marino, hold on.
I'm trying to.
I think tier five.
Okay, well, DM me.
You're gonna have to DM me if you want to do the call-in for next show.
We'll get that scheduled.
So we were talking about what?
Yo, Flan Life, thank you for the 10 gifted memberships, man.
Appreciate you, dude.
Thank you, man.
Oh, whoops.
Okay, ooh, Sharky got a membership.
Truth got a membership.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Good to see you, Andrew, right?
I think that's your name, Andrew.
Thank you for the membership.
Appreciate it.
Oh, yeah, and I guess we have the.
Oh, it automatically pops up.
Sweet.
Okay, so I don't know how we got to the whole like on the first date thing.
We were talking about flaking.
I'm being extra toxic tonight.
I'm just upset with all the flakes.
They lie too about it.
It's just frustrating.
And look, here's the experience I've had.
We've had multiple girls flake on the show, too.
This is outside of the context of dating.
They'll say, oh, I have a test to study for.
I look at their Instagram later that night on a boat.
Just huh?
I don't know.
People can't keep their commitments.
Because for me personally, if I make a plan with a girl for a date, for example, and let's say some fucking Victoria Secret model comes up.
She's like, Brian, I want you to have an orgy with me and my five Victoria Secret models.
As a man of principle, I'm going on that date with that nerdy librarian.
I'm keeping it.
I'm keeping my word.
I'm sorry, Adriana Lima.
Go do your whatever the fuck you're doing with your degenerate orgy or whatever the fuck.
Okay.
Man of principle.
Okay.
Please don't hate me.
Okay.
So, oh, super chats.
I don't know if I got through all the super chats.
Or did we?
Wait, did I?
Did we do this one?
Yes.
Okay.
So Valentine's Day is less than a month away.
Do you guys have, has anyone asked you to be your Valentine?
No, I've never had one.
You've never had the Valentine?
I've never had a Valentine.
Have you ever had the Valentine?
Yes.
Well, with your boyfriend, okay.
Yeah.
Yes.
Are you guys going to do something to ensure that you have a Valentine this year?
So you guys are going to be forever alone this year?
Oh, I'm going to take myself out.
I'm going to get myself chocolates, go for a good drive.
I'm going to be my own Valentine.
It's fucking cheesy.
I'm going to be my own Valentine.
I'm fine with it.
Okay.
I'm hanging out with my dog.
That's going to be amazing.
All right.
So, question.
For Valentine's Day, let's say you're in a relationship.
You've been dating a guy for six months.
Do you expect a gift from your boyfriend on Valentine's Day?
We'll start here.
You should absolutely get your girlfriend a gift.
Yes.
No.
I'm not expecting a gift, but I am expecting to do something like dinner.
Yes.
Hang out together, like an experience.
Okay.
So on Valentine's Day, should your boyfriend take you out?
Yes.
Yes.
Yeah, because you want to be thought about.
Okay, what about you?
I love a good Valentine's dinner.
Yeah, very cliche, yes.
We don't even have to go out.
We can just make it in the kitchen.
Okay.
So that's what your boyfriend's going to do for Valentine's Day.
What are you doing for Valentine's Day?
I love to plan fun little romantic things.
It's one of my favorite things to do.
But I thought the boyfriend has to plan.
No, he can go.
I plan.
It's a team effort.
It's a team effort.
He can take me out to dinner, but maybe I'll plan like a little picnic and make some food.
Carmella?
I've been single for five years, so.
Rip.
Yo, can we get some RIPs in the chat for Carmella, Soprano?
I want to see she never had the makings of a varsity athlete in the chat.
It's a stupid Sopranos reference.
Don't worry about it.
Were you on the varsity team in high school?
I was not.
No, you weren't.
I did not play sports.
Anything?
I mean, I was a gymnast till I was 13, but nothing in the middle of the day.
Ballet?
Any ballet in the chat?
I did jazz.
Any ballerinas in the chat?
A jazz dance, sir?
Okay.
Any of you know how to do a pirouette?
do can we a little pirouette check Chat?
A little pirouette chat?
If they spend the money for it, sure.
Ooh.
I don't know.
There's not, we don't have a trigger for the pirouette.
Then there's a pirouette.
Plie or pirouette?
Oh.
Pir?
Plie?
That's some gangster ballet shit.
That's even easier.
Okay.
You know what's plie.
How about this?
$69 super chat for a plie check from all of you.
All of us.
All of you.
Okay.
So Valentine's Day, though.
Actually, wait, let me do the soup chats.
Then we're going to come back to Valentine's Day.
Did we miss?
I think we missed a super chat here.
I think so, too.
Oh, Mike.
Oh, Mike Davis.
We'll pull it up because it's our boy MD.
Yo, Mike Davis, just heads up.
We are past the hour mark.
We're bumping it to 20 and over.
Brian is right.
These girls are like the bum are like them, Buzz Lightyear, woody toys where you gotta push to get a word out of them.
Works for me, though, because I don't want women speaking unless spoken to.
Oh.
Mike Davis.
Yeah, wait.
Oh, look at him.
Okay, sir.
Carson, on the other monitor, can you pull up the Mike Davis photo in the window tab?
Let me know when you have it.
Just so everyone can see it.
You can switch it whenever you're ready.
Whenever he's ready.
F11, by the way.
All right, there he is in all his glorious burgers in?
Beef tallow?
Mike Davis, can you clarify in the chat?
Oh, scheisse.
Okay, that's it.
Okay.
Oh, wow.
Oh, Flynn Life here with the plie check.
Okay, I mean.
Flynn Life super chatted 69 Canadian dollars.
Plie or whatever.
Hide it, hide it.
Plie.
I think it's with an S at the end, Flan Life.
You're Canadian, by the way.
I think you should know how to, you know, plie, it's a French word, but yeah.
You can star that.
Go ahead.
And we'll pull it up too.
We'll give them a little boom.
I'll get to the other super chats too that came in before that.
Thank you.
Flan Life.
Andrew, you're the Chad.
Okay.
A deal's a deal.
That's a legally binding contract.
Please show us your plie one at a time.
Go ahead.
Am I standing?
I guess you have to stand.
I think you have to stand for this plie.
Got this.
I think it's, right?
I think it's this one where you can.
hold on before you wait let me do a synth Oh, what?
Oh, that's out.
Whoa, whoa.
What's going on there?
Okay.
And then turn to the side, do a little side plie?
Like side face that way?
Yeah.
Plie?
Okay.
The plie check.
Okay.
Carmella, your turn.
You can just do it right there in front of the chair, I guess.
Yeah, you can just scoot that back.
Okay, wait, make sure you're in the camera.
We can scoot that way so that you're not blocked by it.
Okay, please.
Plie A. Whoa, okay.
That was a little risky.
That was a little TOS there.
Can you see on my dress?
No, no.
It was, it was, ooh, but it was not.
Okay.
So is it the one where you have the legs out?
Can you do it in first or second?
And your feet are supposed to be like this.
Oh.
Like this?
Wow, that was terrible.
Okay.
I'm kidding.
You don't have to do it.
I mean, if you want.
I don't want to do it.
Thank you.
I want special treatment.
Because it has all actresses and models and stuff, and I'm not.
Okay, you got to do it, I guess.
Plie check.
$69 worth right now.
Flan Life.
The reason we have to do it is because Flan Life, he's a litigation attorney.
And if I don't do it, he will legitimately sue me.
So, okay, you can go for it.
Can you direct me again?
It's a plie.
Put those footsies out at a girl.
And then crack them knees.
Here, go in the center right over here.
Oh, my God.
You're doing amazing.
I'm really proud of you.
Yes.
So then put those footsies out.
And then put your hands like this.
And then go boop at a girl.
Did y'all see that?
That was cute. Yeah. Thank you. It was great. It was great.
If everyone can just scoop back into the table.
All right.
All right, let me get these other soup chats here.
We have Pollux, $99.67.
Good to see you back, man.
$20 Super Chat.
Thank you.
Bri, need to see the asteroid.
Send a man.
Here's the thing.
The asteroid trigger is expensive now.
It's expensive.
But I will demonstrate for you one of there's three different asteroids.
Guys, guys, I spent millions of dollars on the green screen for this.
Hold on, guys.
Check it.
Wait.
Which one's good?
I think it's, wait.
Okay, wait.
Whoa, what's going on?
Holy shit.
Oh, my God.
Okay, the asteroid has been sent.
All right.
Thank you, Flan, Pollux.
Oh, and then we have Flan Life Canadian $20 Super Chat.
I've had a few matches ghost me through Bumble and Hinge.
It hurts, bro.
Oh, yeah, going back to the whole flaking thing.
I'm surprised that, Andrew, that women, by the way, I hope I hope it's okay.
I refer to you as Andrew.
Wait, did I just, is that actually your name?
I don't know.
From our emails.
FlanLife.
Maybe I should just say Flan Life.
I'm surprised that women are ghosting and flaking on you, seeing that you're one of the top litigation attorneys in Quebec.
How dare they?
Anyways, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Okay, so flaking.
I don't even know where we were talking about flaking.
I feel like we've reached the end of the day, I think.
Yeah, we just keep moving forward.
We just keep.
Oh, and then we were talking about Valentine's Day.
Yeah, flaking just, it's tough for men because a lot of times when we do get flaked on, it's going to be last minute.
It's going to be two hours before we're supposed to meet.
And at that point, on a Friday night, we're not going to be able to get another.
Most men, like most, maybe like a really attractive top 10% guy, he'll replace you in a second.
But most guys, if they plan a date with you on a Friday or Saturday, their Friday is awash.
Like that's, they can't, sure, they can do something else, but they're probably not going to replace it with another date.
So yeah.
All right, we have Vito Scaletta with the $20 Super Chat.
I heard this recently somewhere.
Dating for women is like shopping.
Dating for men is like a job interview.
This can't be more than the truth.
Can't be more than the.
Also, the dating app's charging a premium to use it.
Worse than DLC in video games.
Yeah, I mean, the dynamic is obviously different, 100%.
Yeah.
Maybe a more apt comparison would be women are the employers and men are the employees like going on the job hunt.
So women want the best candidate for the job.
So they're more selective.
They're going to, okay, here's my pool of potential people.
Gonna try to get the best one.
And then men, we just have to like, boom, boom, boom, just shoot our shots as many, send out our resume to 200 people, you know?
So, yeah.
Thoughts on the analogy?
Mike Davis, you're so right, by the way.
What was that?
No, I think that's true.
I think that's a good way to put it, honestly.
That's a great analogy, actually.
Yeah, yeah.
So Valentine's.
Okay, so going back to the Valentine's Day thing, is that a mutual thing?
Oh shit, the fucking holy fuck.
My bad.
Did you pay for that?
No, there was, I guess, okay, you got two.
Pollux, you got two asteroids for the price of one.
And I have two different animations too, by the way.
Okay.
So is Valentine's Day something that you guys think that a guy should be doing or is it like a mutual thing that both partners should be?
It's totally a mutual thing.
Yeah.
It's fun if it's mutual.
Plus, if you love someone, you want to do stuff for them.
So like snaps.
It's definitely something that you plan together.
Like you always checking in if the other person wants to do that.
And it's something that you do together.
I don't expect a guy to plan everything.
Yeah.
Okay.
Carmella, have you ever slashed a guy's tires?
I have not.
Why do I look like it?
You seem like the type of woman who might slash a man's tires.
I would never.
She'll just run them over with her motorcycle.
Chat.
I want to ask the chat.
One in the chat if you think Carmella would slash your tires.
Two in the chat if you think she would not slash your tires.
Carmella, just some advice.
Hide your put your phone.
Sorry.
Yeah, yeah.
Just so when the guy calls you asking what's up with the booty call.
Oh my god.
Did you clear that up or does he still not yet?
He's just blue balling somewhere right now.
No.
I feel like in an hour he's going to realize this was a fake text probably for a TikTok or something.
Like it's got to, I mean, it's.
Oh.
Wait, okay, question.
Unfortunately, Stiffler wasn't here to ask this.
I don't know where he was.
What the fuck are you doing here?
On a scale of one to ten, how do you rate your appearance?
What do you rate your looks on a scale of one to ten?
I'm going to ask everybody.
I don't know, like a seven.
Oh, okay.
Like a 6.3.
Why would you not write you guys a 10?
Like, we should be rating ourselves a 10.
I'm a 10.
Shania Twain.
I'm like, thank you.
I have like my days where I'm like an 8 and then my days where I'm like a 6.
I love myself like a 15, but I know that every now and then I'm like, okay, I got a little puff because I had caffeine or something.
I'm like, yeah.
Yeah.
You're allowed to look rough every now and then.
So when you say, so you're a 10?
I write myself a 10, yeah.
Looks not confidence, like just looks.
From my days.
The same day flake is a clear indication of lack of genuine burning desire, let alone a blatant indication of disrespect.
Women break rules for office.
Make excuses for betas.
No seconds chances.
Facts, dude.
Facts.
I mean, look, occasionally a flake is legitimate.
Like one out of a thousand times, I would say.
But I mean, yeah, you can keep starring those, Carson.
Go ahead.
But I admire you and your answer.
I think it's really nice.
Yeah, so okay, the 10 thing.
The 10.
Fire away.
Huh?
Fire away.
Oh, do you want me to rate you?
Is that what you're asking?
No.
Because I wouldn't do that.
No, no.
Unless you would.
With permission, I would do it.
I know.
With permission, I would.
You can, yeah.
You sure?
Yeah.
Are you sure about that?
I don't mind.
He knows herself.
Well, first, before I rate anyone, I consider myself like six on a good day.
I say six, 6.9 on a good day.
Can I just say something before you go ahead?
Yeah.
You know why you do that?
Why everybody rates themselves as six or eight or whatever?
Because they are afraid of being arrogant.
And it's not arrogant to be confident, to like yourself and to like your appearance.
But okay, there's a difference between confidence and thinking that you're on par with the most beautiful women in the world.
True.
But beauty is, it's while it's beautiful for you, it can be not beautiful for me.
So it depends on the person.
What?
What's going on here?
You kind of had like a moment.
Oh, no.
It's just like, because to me, like, when someone is very pretty, but when you're talking about beautiful, like, and this is also just my opinion, someone who's beautiful has like an amazing inside as well as the outside.
Some like who is truly lovely on the inside just glows.
And that to me is beautiful.
And that's very objective, because maybe someone that I think is just amazing and a great person is beautiful, but someone else will be like, oh, no, they're not my taste.
Like it is really, you're right.
It's all opinions.
It's all personal opinions.
You're saying someone who's beautiful on the inside, it would manifest on the outside?
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
Come on.
No, I truly, I will stand by that.
Stop the cap.
Come on.
No, I will.
I will stand by that.
I will.
You can roast me.
You can do whatever you want.
Who's the woman who just got appointed to the Supreme Court?
What's her name?
Do you guys know what her name is?
What's her name?
America.
No.
The lady.
Can anyone in the chat who's the lady who got appointed?
I don't know.
I'm just trying to use this as a trap.
Okay, so an obese woman, even if she feels beautiful on the inside, do you think people on the outside will agree with your assessment that she's physically beautiful?
I don't speak for anyone but myself, and a few of my friends I know think the same way.
But it doesn't matter, even if you're obese, whatever.
But I think beautiful has everything to do with your heart and your inside.
So whether you're overweight or very skinny, whatever, that doesn't matter.
Well, you can still be a moral and a good person if you're overweight, but we're talking about something very specific here.
We're talking about physical looks.
We're talking about your looks, your appearance.
Yeah, yes.
And I think having a positive disposition can make you to some degree more physically attractive.
For example, if there's a let's say there's a really good-looking man or even a really good-looking woman, but they're scowling all the time.
They're like me, they're jaded and toxic.
It's going to reduce their physical appeal to some degree.
If someone's really nasty and it like, they kind of like always just, it will have a bit of an impact, but like at the end of the day, an obese woman is not, and I'm not saying you're obese, by the way, but I'm just using it as an example.
Someone who's obese, very few people, generally speaking, would say that they are physically attractive.
I mean, that's everyone's opinion.
Some people know that it is everyone's opinion?
Like everyone has an opinion.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Like everyone has going to have a different one.
But what you said about how some people, like, when they're beautiful, that's exactly why I started to get my perspective shift.
Like someone who is like, oh, wow, she's so beautiful, but she's just really not nice.
It shows.
Versus someone who, I don't know, has put in the work to develop and grow themselves at shows as well.
Yeah, I mean, certainly, like, if you're outwardly, like, for example, a woman who's just very joyful and kind of effervescent and has a positive disposition, it does add to some degree, like, I'm not sure exactly how to articulate it, but it does, and maybe it has to do with if she smiles more.
Because someone who smiles is can just through the act of smiling, you're more physically attractive.
Where if you've just got a fucking nasty face on you, it's just like, mm.
So, I kind of get what you're getting at.
But if you lined up, for example, and we're speaking in generalities here, for example, is it wrong to say that humans have 10 fingers?
No.
Are some humans born with 11 fingers?
Yes.
It's rare.
But it's not wrong to say that humans have 10 fingers.
So in the same way that you might say, well, generally speaking, X about something.
Are there exceptions?
Sure.
But you have to kind of go off of the general rule.
So.
I hear what you're saying, and I respect your points.
I guess the reason I'm fighting against it is because I was raised in a career during like young childhood where it was nothing but comparison to other people and saying you're not as good as so-and-so.
And I just thought it was so horrible to think that way.
So I have done everything I can to see it in a different way and inspire that in others.
Gotcha.
Are we?
Okay, let me do these soup chats.
Yo, Matt Poole, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
If women are like employers in dating, Oh, let me hide that.
Being overweight isn't just an outward appearance.
Being overweight is indicative of guaranteed health problems and a sign of problematic personality traits.
Your thoughts?
Thank you, Bernito.
Sandriguez?
The personality traits I'm not sure about.
But I get that there is some psychology to you want to look for a mate that is healthy.
I understand that.
So when someone who is fit, it's just like you want to look for someone like that that's fit and healthy.
So I get that point.
Okay.
Carson, can you just also star the 50?
Did you pull that one up, by the way, from the 20 just below it?
Oh, go ahead, pull it up.
Monty, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
Let's be real, Kiki is the only 10 in the room.
Wait, no.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
She's feisty tonight.
All right.
Yo, Matt Poole, if women are like employers in dating, they certainly like to hire a lot of temps.
And then when the guy comes to apply, the position has been filled, literally.
Okay, Matt Poole, thank you for the poem.
Yo, Mike Cun is this one of those trick names?
Mike Cun.
Ah, yeah, okay.
I see what you're doing.
Mike Hun.
It should be Mike Hunt.
Like Michael Hunt.
Okay.
$20 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
Miss Australia was doing great until she called herself a 10.
Despite that, I would still be your Valentine smiley face.
P.S. Love the show, Brian.
Will have to come out from Kentucky one day to be a guest.
Do you have an accent?
California girls tripping out there.
Mike, you are 10.
Do you see that?
His profile there?
His profile picture?
Is he your type?
Has a great smile.
I'm not sure if he's my top until I talk to him properly.
Until you talk to him properly.
Okay.
Gotcha.
He looks very handsome.
If I was playing for the other team, I might go for him.
Just letting you guys know.
If I was Pan, like you, I would be all over Mike Cun.
He's doing some trick with.
Okay, all right.
Sus.
Okay.
Yo, silky silk with the $20 chat.
Thank you, man.
If you're going to rip FNF, oh, okay.
At least control the show.
Stop letting girls tell you next, or they're not going to talk.
It's your show.
Act like it.
Okay.
I feel the girls have been fairly polite.
Did anyone say next?
Who said next?
No.
Did someone say next?
I think maybe I said like you were saying going back to the flaky and I was like, oh, let's just keep moving forward.
I just meant it, like, we can just keep talking.
I didn't take that.
Maybe that's what it sounded like, so I'm sorry.
I didn't mean to.
I don't think I took, I didn't think you meant that in a rude way.
I think it was just like, oh, we already covered it.
We were already on to the Valentine's Day thing.
That's how I took it.
But if you're going to rip Fresh and Fit.
I mean, I've already, I got love for Fresh and Fit.
They're the homies.
I've mentioned plenty of times before that obviously the show is inspired by their format in a lot of ways.
So, yeah, got love for Fresh and Fit.
Great, great channel.
Maybe a collaboration soon.
We'll see.
But yeah.
Anyways, let's see.
So we were talking about the Valentine's thing.
We were talking about Carmella slashing tires, I think.
Have you ever slashed a tire?
What's the most vindictive thing you've done to a guy?
If anything?
I don't think I've done anything.
I mean, I don't know.
You kind of just stop talking to them or just avoid them so you don't have to do anything like that.
Okay, sure.
Most vindictive thing you've ever done to a guy, if anything?
Into the mic.
I'm trying to think.
I'm sorry.
I don't know.
I can get really angry, but I'll usually just get angry and let it move through, and then I'll just have a conversation.
Have you ever stabbed a guy?
Only in a movie.
Oh, in a movie?
Okay.
I've killed people and I've been killed.
Oh, okay.
Nice.
Killer.
Vindictive thing.
I don't think I've ever done anything vindictive.
I probably actually bottling up instead of just letting it go.
And then I know guys don't like that, but I would just say it like you acted like this, this, and that.
And then that's it.
Over.
But nothing vindictive instead of just saying out loud.
I can't remember if I've done anything, so I don't think so.
You guys are too nice.
Okay.
By the way, Mike Davis, I don't know if you're still in the chat.
I thanked you.
I think I thanked you and Dayvon in the last show.
And I don't know if you caught it, but I wanted to thank you, Mike Davis, for all the support in 2022.
Because if it honestly wasn't for you and Dayvon Jackson, who were our most regular, consistent, and primary patrons in 2022, it would have been those first few months were pretty slow, I'm sure you guys know.
So I really appreciate you kind of always being there with the support.
So thank you, man.
I don't know if you're still in the chat, but thank you.
Okay, so is there anything, I want to open it up to you guys.
Is there anything dating related that you guys want to get off your chest?
Maybe a question that you have, you want some advice on a situation, there's something dating related that frustrates you, something that's frustrating about dating, men piss you off in some way.
I'm opening up to you guys.
And let's start with Shania.
Not that I can think of.
Can we come back to me?
I kind of have to think about what pisses me off, I guess.
Sure, go ahead.
Do you have anything?
I do have, actually.
Actually, it's a question.
Do you guys think that our capability of sticking through things on this world that very easily can replace people when someone says something, they, oh, I might not agree with that, and then you just go on and find someone else.
Do you guys think there is a way to fix that?
Was that clear?
Like, when there's disagreement or there's argued, when you see that there are different points of view, usually guys just run away?
Minimal disagreement.
Like, you know, different points of views, for example.
When you have being on an online dating scene, it's just so easy to replace someone.
Disposable.
Yes, and then it's instead of sticking through and wanting to get to know a little bit more and understand that person or that situation, you just go like, I'm just going to find someone else.
Yeah.
Like, how do we fix that what you're asking?
Yeah.
I don't think we can, to be honest.
With the availability that is, like you said, with the dating apps and hookup culture and all that, there's always someone there.
Like, there's always going to be a next.
So I don't think we can.
But you can look at it this way: like, if they're going to just drop you so easily, then at least you know that your time was not meant to be invested there right away.
So what is happening to you?
Nothing specifically, but it has happened in the past.
What happens specifically?
Was it you moving on or was it the guy?
Both.
Both.
I'm now in the work on where I give a second chance, a third chance, and a fourth chance, because I'm really, I used to be if things are not my way, my way or highway.
So I just want to interrupt you really quick.
Your accent has been painted by your many travels because it's not, I detect the Australian in it, but it's like there's the Brazilian in it too.
But I do hear the Australian.
But anyways, continue.
Sorry.
Yeah, both.
I have done in the past, and it has happened to me, but I feel like in society in general, this is what's happening.
If there's one little thing, you just move on because there's so many options and ways.
Can you give us an example of a time when one little thing happened that the guy did, and you were like, I'm out?
It's this hyper, how do I form this phrase?
It's the hyper offer that we have these days that instead of for everyone, like the hyper alpha?
No, no, offer of me offering people, like just many websites, many dating sites, Instagram, social media, everything is at your face.
that instead of understanding and taking the time to get to know the person, you literally just move on if, for example, when someone was talking about the obesity thing, that's a sign of a hell of mental health issues.
It's like, wow, you're already judging someone by one thing and then just moving on, kind of.
So my question is, is that a way that we can minimize this?
I mean, I have a solution, but I don't think it's a popular one.
Okay.
Well, what is the reason for, and I think it's chiefly, it's for both men and women, but I think it's more so the case for women.
Women have, women have always had more options than men have had, but now it's on steroids because what you've done is, is we've opened up the marketplace.
So 20 years ago, let's say a super attractive girl in Iowa, her pool of partners was in Iowa.
Now with Instagram and dating apps, it's globalized.
It's a global sexual marketplace.
So now that girl in Iowa, that girl in Kentucky, Mr. What was his name?
Mike Cunn.
Mike Cunn, if he's talking to a baddie in Kentucky, she's talking to a dude in LA.
She's talking to a dude in Dubai.
She's talking to a dude in Miami who's going to fly her out.
So that is going to start boosting her sense of her value on the marketplace, let's say.
So it's globalized the sexual marketplace.
You're now competing with more people.
Both men and women are competing with more people, but it's primarily women aren't flying guys to Miami.
Women are not flying guys to LA.
Men are.
So, and I don't know, we can go around the table really quick on this.
Have you ever, maybe you didn't take them up on it, but have you ever received an offer from a guy, either on a dating app or through your DMs, to fly you out somewhere, Carmella?
I've had a couple of offers, but I've never taken them.
That's fine.
But you've had the offers, though.
Yeah.
Okay, so you've been talking to a guy who's in Miami or in Los, well, you live in Los Angeles, but who's in Miami or somewhere else, and he's Vegas, maybe?
Yeah, well, I mean, so the two people that had asked to fly me out, I had met in person.
So it's a little bit different, but.
It's a bit different, yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But I guess let me also just reframe that really quick.
Have you ever offered to fly a guy out who you've met in person?
No.
Okay, so that's a difference between men and women there in terms of men's willingness to spend resources to get women.
But okay, so you've never like matched with a guy on a dating app or a guy slid into your DMs and he's like, hey, let me fly you to Miami?
No.
Okay.
But going back to what you were saying, like, I just feel like people are so easy to ghost because you don't owe them anything because you don't know them.
But it goes both ways because sometimes if I feel like a conversation is dying out, I won't say something or like depending on my state of mind or if I'm really sad, I will not even text people, like my friends.
Like sometimes you just need to take a moment to just step away from everything.
But also, you don't owe those people on the dating apps anything, especially if you've never met.
So I want to say it's really difficult to tell people to keep talking.
But I'm not really sure if that's what you were talking about.
It seems like what you're talking about is you've already met, you've been dating for a little bit, and then just someone else comes into the picture or it just fizzles out.
It's not like really ghosts, like you match with someone and then you talk for a little bit.
Maybe that's kind of part of it, but it seems more so these short-term things that don't really lead anywhere.
Is that kind of more so what you're talking about?
Yeah, yeah, but reality is not everything is going to lead to something, and that's fair enough.
But go seeing people after you match with them, it happens and it's okay because, I mean, I don't think it's okay, but it's still like it happens and it's less damaging, I'd say.
But after you met them and you created a connection, you put the effort and then something happens in between.
It's just like, and it's not fair.
And I've done it and it happened to me as well, like both ways.
But it's not something that someone, they thought, oh, I'm just going to do it.
It's because they've got so many, like, there's so many offerings like that.
And for both, for men and women.
So I feel like we're all dyslexic by now with dating.
Yeah, well, one thing that I would say is that in addition to sort of the globalization of the sexual marketplace, is you just have so many increased options too within your vicinity.
So because of social media and because of dating apps, people have the illusion of choice, the illusion of having a ton of options.
So a potentially better match is maybe one swipe away.
So people are more hesitant to really, because before dating apps, I mean, you're 32, right?
So you were, I'm 33.
So before dating apps came around, I assume you dated a little bit.
And do you remember that if you did meet someone, say back when you were 18 or 19, before dating apps really came around, was there a greater likelihood that when you did meet someone that it would proceed to something?
Yes.
There's a greater likelihood that it would actually go.
You might not obviously didn't end up being a husband or anything, but like you meet one person, there's like a much greater likelihood that it's going to proceed.
Yes.
Yeah.
Whereas now it's like more likely than not if you meet someone, it's probably not going to go anywhere.
Yeah.
So we just have an abundance of options.
And yeah, I'm not, what the solution is would probably be to ban dating apps and ban social media, but that's not going to happen.
No.
So we're kind of stuck in this dilemma.
The only other solution would be to find people that are not so heavily on social media and aren't on dating apps, but how do you find them?
I mean, you got to go.
I mean, there's recommendations of like doing activities, like activity groups and finding people that way.
But even then, those people, they could be on dating apps too.
And, you know, the entire dating meta is downstream of dating apps because most people meet online now.
Most people meet on dating apps now.
So it's going to like seep into the rest of the dating marketplace.
So even if someone isn't on a dating app, they're still like, it changes kind of the dynamic of how people are interacting.
So regular dating is downstream of dating apps.
So the whole thing's fucked up, basically.
Yes.
There's no solution.
Okay, done.
There was one situation with me.
I just want to tell you this very quickly.
I met this guy.
I think we spent like two weeks talking and then we went on a date.
The date went for nine hours.
It was one of the best days that I ever had.
Did you smash?
What does that mean?
Did you have sex?
No, no, no, no.
Nine hours and it was the best day ever.
It was like a full day and we didn't have sex.
We kissed, but we didn't have sex.
And then after this first date, the guy messaged me on the next day or like whatever.
And he said, look, I don't want to put any pressure, but I will delete the apps because I think I get distracted if I am talking to other people, but I want to get to know you.
And I so respected him for this.
And then I deleted my app as well.
Wounded up not become anything serious for both of us.
But it was so nice, so fresh, like having someone saying that straight away, like, I want to get to know you, and I'm going to delete the apps so I don't get distracted.
I was like, wow.
Just want to give someone a starter.
I mean, I think that is a pretty optimal situation to occur from the dating apps.
I mean, for because, I mean, if you're seeing multiple people at one time, what probably often happens is none of those end up going anywhere.
Whereas if you give one an opportunity to flourish, so I mean, that's good, but the concern with a guy saying that, saying, hey, let's, it's pretty early on.
Yeah.
So the guy's probably going to think, well, and he could have, your response to him could have been, oh, it's a bit soon.
Like, I don't know.
Like, and so I don't know.
It's a risk.
I think that's a, yeah, it was a risk.
I think that's a good solution.
So, yeah.
He took the risk, and it was okay.
It was good.
We have to take the risk sometimes.
Yo, Carson, can you pass me that water?
That's.
Yeah.
That one, yeah.
Did anyone have a response to her or thoughts on what she said?
Thank you, sir.
Everybody's like, no, it's just there's really, there's no quite a solution for it.
It's just where we are right now in the dating age.
Question.
So some of you are single, right?
Are any of you like dating, dating a guy, but not like boyfriend, girlfriend, Carmella?
No, there was a guy that I would have liked to date, but it's, I feel like right now, especially living in LA, there is always someone better and they don't want to settle down or they just want to live their life and they want to do their own thing and then maybe someone better will come along or they don't want us, you know, they don't want anyone to stop them from doing the plans that they have for their life right now.
So no, sorry.
When's the last time you hung out with a guy that you had a romantic interest in?
On Christmas Eve.
Did y'all.
A little mistletoe action or what?
I don't know.
Maybe.
Maybe.
So, Okay, last time you hung out with a guy you had a romantic interest in?
Come on.
That's very complicated.
Not that long ago.
Not that long ago.
Yesterday?
yeah what what did y'all y'all uh hooking up or what's up no No.
Nope.
Oh, oh, okay.
Nothing's going on.
Nothing's going on?
Nothing.
Yeah, sadly.
Nothing's going on.
Carmella, confirm or deny?
Because you guys are friends, so.
When she was dating my, she was dating my brother.
What?
Um.
She was dating.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's past tense.
Yes, they're not together anymore.
Oh, so they broke up last night?
No.
Was your brother, who was the guy last night?
The brother?
Yeah, but they're friends who don't hook up.
They're friends who don't hook up?
I don't know the story, but they hooked up.
No.
No.
You used to hook up.
Well, he was my boyfriend for five years.
Wait, hold on.
You guys, when did you break up with him?
Um.
I don't know, like September.
Five-year boyfriend broke up four months ago.
Her brother.
Yeah.
Is that how you two met or were you guys friends before?
It is how we met.
Yeah, yeah.
And now you guys are friends?
Yeah.
I mean, it's been five years.
But you guys are friends.
Yeah.
Do you share intimate details about her brother to her?
I wouldn't say so.
Like, I don't like come to you, like, oh my gosh, guess what you, like, your brother and I did.
Like, well, that's not like that.
Because girls be sharing deets.
No.
We don't share those details.
No.
Have you?
Oh, I do.
Wait.
So you guys are still friends.
Did this cause any conflict in your relationship?
No.
Why did you guys break up again?
Why did he dump you, I think it was?
He actually was the first one to initiate, but then it was mutual.
We just weren't.
We weren't good for each other in this moment in time.
Carmella, why.
Were you upset at your brother for dumping one of your very close friends?
No, I mean, I can't be upset.
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I remember you mentioning something about Southern California.
By the way, we have two girls here who are in L.A., so if any of them, they're single.
Just saying it.
You can slide into their DMs.
They're in SoCal.
So, okay, you can hide that.
Thank you, Zentians.
appreciate it man uh did it up you go ahead with what you were saying um No, I mean, I heard both their sides, and I can understand after hearing things from both of them why it needed to happen or why they broke up, but it's not like, I mean, I can't be upset.
You know, I'm not in their relationship.
Not dating Elise or anything.
I have, okay, I'm going to pull up.
No, let me finish this and I'll pull back up Zentience because I have a thing I wanted to add there to Zentience's super chat.
So they were, they had already been dating, and then you became friends with her, correct?
Okay.
I see.
Did you approve when you first met her?
I don't.
I don't.
I think it was because, so I'm not close to my sister, and I think my sister had met her first, and they were really close.
And then I was like, who's my brother dating?
And then, and then she started coming around more, and I was like, oh, this is okay.
And then, I mean, five years later, and we're friends.
So obviously it worked out.
How old are you?
29.
And you are how old again?
23.
Okay.
How old's your brother?
33.
Okay.
It was a big age gap.
And wait, you met, so you were 18 and he was 28 when you guys met?
Okay.
So it was a big, so it was like pretty controversial because it was a big age gap.
Yeah.
And so that was, yeah.
It's surprisingly, it worked really well for a long time.
And we're still great friends and we love each other very much.
I'm a fucking legend.
That's your brother.
By the way.
Or her brother, my brother.
Her brother.
That would be incest.
That would be.
That would be incestuous.
Okay.
So.
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Congrats, Brixon.
I saw that one of your shorts, Daving for a Woman to Just Show Up, has 1 million views.
Fresh Anfit was clearly the inspiration for this show.
But let's face it, they have some Fugglies on that.
You can pull it up.
They have some Fugglies on that show.
You bring better.
I don't know if that's.
I mean, I don't know if that's true.
I don't know.
Well, so, okay, first off, thank you.
Yeah, the shorts, the shorts have been blown up.
We have a couple that have hit over a million.
One of them has like 7 million.
A couple on TikTok with like 10 million views.
A bunch with over a million views.
The TikTok was blown up.
It's at whatever pod on TikTok.
And our shorts channel links in the description.
Whatever, second.
But Azul69, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Yeah, the YouTube shorts is the future.
The way of the future.
Have you guys seen the, what's that show with the movie with Leonardo DiCaprio, the aviator?
He's all spazzing out at the end.
The way of the future.
The way of the future.
Great movie, by the way.
The way of the future.
Okay.
Would you guys date Leonardo DiCaprio, by the way?
No.
No.
I would date Leonardo DiCaprio.
I don't even think he's good looking enough now to keep dating the 25, or like the cap 25 year olds that, like you know you, Carmella Beatrice Soprano, you would not date Leonardo DiCaprio.
No, because I'm not even 25.
He breaks up with every girlfriend when they turn 25.
Oh you're 28, you're right.
I'm 29, oh you're 29, he wasn't.
You're too old for him.
Shoot, let's say he did go for you.
Are you dating Leonardo DiCaprio?
No, because I don't trust him.
Why?
Because he's gonna break up with me at some point when I start to look older than this.
But hasn't every guy done that so far?
Talk.
I don't know I don't find him attractive like that.
Wait, hold on.
I just have to say something really quick.
Can you hide that really quick?
I'd like to take this chance to apologize.
Absolutely nobody.
So you wouldn't date Leonardo DiCaprio?
No.
Carmella.
Would you date James Gandalfini?
I don't know who that is.
You don't know who James Gandalfini is.
Tony Soprano?
I haven't watched the Soprano.
He's head of the D'Amio Crime family.
He's got the guy Baghou.
Oh, my God.
This is Carmella.
I wish I knew what he was like.
This is why you never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
There's a few reasons.
You wouldn't date Leonardo DiCaprio.
You wouldn't date James Gandalfini.
That's bad right there.
That's proof.
Okay.
Tony Soprano, would you date Tony Soprano?
I also don't know what Tony Soprano looks like.
Carmella, you've been missing premium programming on HBO for way too long.
Did you watch Game of Thrones?
No.
What do you do with your life?
I watch, surprisingly, so much TV, but I am really not into the idea of watching Game of Thrones.
Carmella.
You've just been too busy trading crypto.
Am I right?
Absolutely.
Guys, she didn't want to admit this, but I'm just going to dox her.
Carmella's like a millionaire several times over from her crypto investments.
It was primarily Doge and Bitcoin and a bit of Ethereum.
And that's why, I don't know, she's the way she is.
Because she saw it coming.
Okay.
So, okay.
I'm trying to think.
You don't watch any TV?
What do you do?
What do you do with your favorite?
No, I watch a lot of TV.
I just don't like those shows.
I mean, like, I mean, it just doesn't seem interesting.
You watch, like, the Kardashians?
Obviously, I like documentaries and docuseries from my hidden profile.
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Yes.
Thank you for the invite, but I can't show my face on podcasts.
Being in medicine, we have to be judicious and impartial.
My patients or their family members might recognize me.
And I might have to call in one of these times.
No, it was just the very last of it.
Didn't go through it.
I think he just said I might have to call in.
Zentience, my dude.
Listen up, man.
Oh, shit.
I'm giving you two options.
You can wear the Guy Fox mask.
Okay, identity protected.
I will purchase for you a premium masquerade ball mask.
And I also have a Plague Doctor mask that you can wear.
I don't know if you can.
Maybe do a little zoom in on this.
Here, there's imagine that shit on Kiki.
Hold on.
Boom.
Whoa.
Boom.
Zentience.
Come through, dude.
No excuses.
Hold on.
I got something for you.
Hold on.
All right.
Rule number 76.
No excuses, public a champion.
Thank you, man, though.
Appreciate the super chat.
Wait, did we call?
Oh, Colin.
We could do a call-in.
Yeah.
Let me know of those three masks which one you want to wear.
We'll make it happen.
Okay, what were we talking about?
Carmella?
Well, I primarily watch documentaries and docuseries.
I don't really like fictional stuff.
How's your World War II docs?
Okay, those ones are also boring.
What?
Anything that's not like.
I like true crime or like animal documentaries or surfing ones.
What are your thoughts on the Maginot line?
Holy shit, it's fucking windy.
What is that?
You said you watched documentaries.
Yeah.
So historical, like, okay, the ma.
I want you, okay.
The Maginot line.
What is it?
In France, 1939?
Huh?
Okay, how about Carmel?
I want, we're going to go around the table.
We're going to go around the table on this.
I want to name three access powers and three allied powers during World War II.
Go.
What are access and ally powers?
I truly don't know.
Me neither.
Yeah.
Does anybody know what access and allied powers were?
Is one positive and one negative?
Were they both positive for like a country?
And I guess we're going to have to do that.
Yeah, World War II.
Aren't we an ally?
And then...
Okay, that's...
Yeah.
We, yes.
The U.S., okay, that's one.
What else you got?
And then I think Poland, the UK?
The UK?
Was that too?
For an ally?
Yes, sure.
Were they considered?
Was it Great Britain?
Was it the UK at that time?
The Commonwealth?
I don't know.
Yeah.
Oh, shit.
I shouldn't have asked you.
You don't even know that with the Instagram power.
Well, I mean, there was a change in the whatever.
Okay, so, but yes, Britain was an ally.
And then the third one is.
Give us a third ally.
Allied power.
You're doing great.
Scandinavia.
I'm pretty sure Norway was occupied by the Nazis.
Same with Sweden.
Were they?
Never mind.
Unfortunately, yeah, I think they were.
I don't know if they were.
They were occupied.
I'm pretty sure.
So would you like to take another guess?
Anyone?
Any other allied?
One other allied power?
That's part of the Commonwealth.
No.
Carmella.
Come in clutch.
Carmella, come on.
Come on.
Put that SBCC associate's degree to good use.
First of all, I have a master's.
Oh, excuse me.
I am sorry.
Just not in history.
In what?
Not in history.
No, but what's your master's in?
Digital audience strategy, like marketing.
Oh, we should talk after the show.
Is France an ally?
France was an ally.
Okay, three access powers.
Three access powers.
Nice.
Three axis powers.
Oh.
World War II. Guys.
I gave you the allies.
This is all on you girls.
The allies and the access.
Name one.
But what is an access power?
Like, to be able to get into the country?
The good guys and the bad guys.
Oh, okay.
Also, Germany?
Soviet Union?
No.
Russia and Italy?
You said the bad guys.
Germany.
Well, the USSR were allied.
Okay.
Well, they kind of switched.
Yeah, no, they were allied.
Russia was an allied power.
Okay.
Okay, but you said Germany.
Did someone say Soviet Union?
Did someone say, I think I heard it.
Italy?
Italy, yes.
Okay, that's two.
What?
Big one.
There's a big one.
I think China.
Nope, not China.
You said Asia?
There was, yeah, sure, I'll give you Asia.
Come on.
The big one in Asia.
China?
Oh, wait.
No, China?
Yeah.
Korea.
No.
Japan.
There you go.
What?
You know, Pearl Harbor, that whole thing?
Okay.
Wait, okay, here's another question.
Here you go.
Here you go.
What were the.
Tell you what.
If anyone knows, I'll give you $100.
What were the years for World War II?
No idea.
From when to when?
What year?
19.
No idea.
40.
No.
No.
It wasn't 40s?
No.
You have to give me the exact years.
No, the exact.
Exact years.
World War II.
Okay, fine.
Tell you what.
What decade?
What was the primary decade of World War II?
The 30s?
The 50s.
Okay.
Come on.
Guess, just guess.
World War II.
Oh, I know.
30s.
40s.
Okay, the primary decade of World War II was the 40s, 1939 to 1945.
Dude, there's smoke coming out of my ears right now.
I haven't thought that hard in a long time.
All right.
We were talking about documentaries.
I don't know how we got to World.
You watch document, like, murder shit?
True crime type stuff or what?
I watched lots of stuff.
I've been really into surfing documentaries lately, but you surf.
Well, I've tried to learn to surf, but it's easier to watch than to actually do.
Okay.
But it's freezing right now, so I can't even go out.
But yeah, I prefer to watch documentaries than like fictional shows.
There was a massive swell a couple weeks ago.
I mean, throw on a wetsuit, Carmella.
I have a wetsuit.
Good.
Actually, it's not digital.
I was about to say, that was big.
I drove past El Porto in LA last week, and the waves, I've never seen waves that big before.
Point Magoo is nuts.
That's for the Marines only, isn't it?
No, it's like there's like a little beach to the side of it.
But the naval bases.
Anyways, Marino, $25 Super Chat.
Did we do this one?
There's nothing wrong with comparing yourself to others.
Doing that can help drive and motivate people more times than not.
Don't you think the power from it all comes from being able to go through it all and stand back up?
No, absolutely.
I mean, yes, but if you get caught in comparing yourselves to others to where it doesn't, it stops you from moving forward, that's when it's a problem.
Okay, and by the way, Mar Marino, he was surfing at Point Magoo.
I see his military uniform there.
All right, Zentience.
Thank you.
I think we got that.
Or wait, did we get this one from Zentience?
Oh, yeah, we did.
We did.
We did.
Yo, Azul.
Oh, we got this one.
We got, yo, SolarSonic 88.
Thank you for the $20 Super Chat.
Girls only go for top 10% of guys that have limitless options and so then complain they can't find anyone.
These guys chose someone else instead of the girl.
It's called rejection.
It happened.
It happens to everyone.
Yes.
Yeah, there was another one from kind of related to that super chat.
Hold on.
Yeah, I think it was this or no.
Yeah, so I think bringing it back to what you said about, oh, like, people don't want to commit, kind of, right?
Like, it just kind of fizzles.
It doesn't go anywhere.
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Brian, you're melting their brains just like their makeup.
This lack of common historical U.S. knowledge just shows how much women just rely on their beauty.
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Do you guys want to respond to Zentiens, who, by the way, is a neurosurgeon?
So he's a swingin' D.
He does brain surgery and rocket science and brain surgery.
It was pretty sad for that we didn't know more about our country's history.
Very, very true.
But it doesn't mean we're not intelligent in our fields, just like you're intelligent in your fields.
sure that we would come across things to communicate with that you wouldn't know what I know and vice versa.
But I mean.
Not knowing about our country's pretty bad.
Let me ask, let me, just for the sake of Zentience here, I want to ask one more question.
Who attacked Pearl Harbor?
Which country?
Carmella, go.
Japan.
Oh, okay.
Japan.
Okay, well, okay, well answered.
So yeah.
Okay.
We just don't like who's coming up to quiz us every day on history?
It's something we don't practice every day.
So I feel like if we don't remember what we learned in fifth grade, like we should, you know, someone should give us a break.
Let's ask epistemological questions.
Speaking of Germans, will you put this on?
It's a World War I, it's a pickelhaba.
Can you wear it for the rest of the show?
No.
It's not like a, it's not like Nazi memorabilia.
You're asking me?
Yeah.
That's cool, but my answer is no.
Because of the blue eyes and blonde hair.
No, just because no hubby.
It's not.
Listen, World War I, World War I, 1914 to 1918, by the way.
The bad guy and the good guy, it's a bit more ambiguous in World War I.
So Germany, you know, they weren't Nazis then in World War I.
So like this helmet you could wear and not get in trouble if you were to wear what okay I guess that's a no for the pickelhaba.
Sorry Zentience
So I had this one pulled up I think maybe one of the big problems with it not going anywhere and you guys can feel free to disagree with me on this is women can get with guys who are more attractive than them because men will sleep with a girl who we deem as less attractive than us,
but we welcome the easy access to sex and because of this women are able to hook up with men that are either of a higher socioeconomic status or so either money or their higher status in some way or they're just more attractive.
In terms of looks equivalent, they're higher than you in terms of their attractiveness.
Women can sleep with these men, but those men will never commit to you.
So to address your original thing about, well, why doesn't it go anywhere?
A lot of women will gladly sleep with these men, but these men will never commit.
So, yeah.
Agree, disagree.
Fuck you, Brian.
No, I agree.
I agree to a certain extent, but I'm more, yeah.
it's not the case i i think i think it's it's more related we're talking about people that have something common we're talking We're talking about normal people.
We're talking about normal people with normal jobs.
Like, you know, the mass population.
We're not talking about the 1% millionaires, whatever.
I don't give a fuck.
But it's more the regular people that I'm talking about.
They actually have so many options.
Like, it's just, that's how it works.
You say regular people have so many options or regular women have so many options.
People.
I live in Australia.
I've got to remember that.
I don't live here.
Well, Australia is a Western country, and I've never been to Australia, but my sense of it is, is that it's not much different in Australia than it is here dating-wise.
I think it is different.
How so?
Based on everything that I hear from men here, from you, from men, people that I met, there's always this illusion.
I mean, I don't know, maybe it's not an illusion, but there's always this perception that women have so many options, where in Australia, I've never heard this from a man.
That women don't have options in Australia?
I've never heard a man complaining about that in Australia.
I mean, I mean, well, simps know no borders, but men have.
So you're saying women in Australia don't have options.
You're in Melbourne?
What city are you in?
Melbourne.
No, there are options.
Don't get me wrong.
There are options.
Okay, let me ask you a question, a clarifying question.
Let's say you download Tinder.
Yep.
In Melbourne.
Am I saying it right?
In Melbourne?
Yeah, Melbourne.
How many matches do you get in a 24-hour period?
I haven't been on Tinder for so long.
Any other dating app?
Well, we've got to remember that Australia has 15 times less population than the population of the US.
But Melbourne's a major city.
Yeah.
Isn't it the capital?
Or is that Sydney?
What's the capital of Australia?
Canberra.
Canberra is the capital?
Yeah.
What the fuck are they doing?
Okay.
I don't know how many matches.
I never counted.
I have no idea.
Literally no idea.
But.
Are you just comparing the viewpoint of dating in America versus Australia and how it's different?
It is different.
I can say that for sure.
It is different.
Let's move away from the dating apps.
You go to a club, a nightclub.
Yeah.
Could you find a guy to sleep with if you go out to a nightclub in Australia?
With certainty.
I don't think so.
Come on.
Stop the cap.
Come on.
I'm telling you, I don't think so.
You don't think that you could go to a nightclub?
You need to book a trip to Australia.
You need to.
You need to see.
Aren't Australians loose?
You can...
Wait, hide that.
Is it going to trigger the TTS?
I think Flan Life might have broken it.
I think all those strange characters might have broken it, Flan Life.
Shit.
Sorry, man.
The TTS works in mysterious ways.
I'll read it here in a sec.
Actually, I just pulled up really quick.
Computing, it would have been like, no, no, no, no, Carmela, you never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
I know, that's why I wasn't one.
You can hide it, Carson.
Okay, so you think if you went to a nightclub in Melbourne, Melbourne, a fine young, strapping Australian lad would not take you home?
Guys, okay, do you go out?
Do you do nightlife in Australia?
No, not much.
Okay, well.
Let's say you did.
Have you done it before?
Yeah, I have, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Do you get hit on when you go out?
Do guys come up to you?
Not as much as here or Brazil.
Like, it requires a lot of signals from me.
Like, a lot.
Which I'm not used to.
Because I'm Brazilian, and in Brazil, it's like the guy comes up.
And yeah, I'm raised like that.
I feel like Australians are pretty heavy partiers.
Like, they're pretty loose.
They are.
they get pretty drunk and they have a lot of fun but I just never I don't think I've ever been approached by a guy in Australia like in a bar.
How long have you been in Australia?
Seven years.
Have you been approached in the street?
You've never been approached in a bar?
I can't really remember.
Maybe I have.
So you've never, have you?
Maybe I have, but it's just not the same as it's not the same as here.
It's not the same as in Brazil as well.
I mean, I'm not saying it's right or wrong.
It's just different.
Wait, how long have you been in the US?
I've lived here before, by the way.
I've lived here for a year and a half, when I was 21.
But you're, when did you come to the U.S.?
You're traveling, I know.
Yeah, for my traveling?
November this year.
You've been here since November?
No, November, and then I left and I came back now.
When did you come back?
Just a week ago?
Yeah, last week.
When you were here in November or when you've been here now for the past week, have you hooked up with any guys?
I was saying that guy in November.
That was the last person that I was seeing.
In Australia?
In the U.S. November.
We talked about it in the beginning of the show.
I have a shit memory.
Okay.
So you're saying that it's what I'm just, what are you trying to say?
Oh, I'm lost now.
I can do it.
I feel like she's probably trying to say, tell me if I'm wrong.
That men in the States are way more, like, they approach women a lot more than maybe in Australia.
Yes, that's true.
So you were saying that men don't complain about women in Australia having too many options.
That is what started it.
Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
That's how I started it.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I mean, I don't know if there's any Australian guys in the chat, but I would suspect it's fairly similar.
I don't think so.
I mean, it's not the same thing.
Because the dynamic between men and women is fairly universal.
Okay, men chase women, generally speaking.
Yes, but in some countries, they're literally not allowed to come up to you.
My sister's in the AIE and like I'm not sure.
There's sure Middle Eastern countries, obviously it's a bit different.
But Australia is an English-speaking Western country.
So I just, and there's a pretty heavy party culture in Australia.
So I just look, I've never been to Australia.
I've never been my experience only.
Sure.
You obviously must have more expertise than I do.
I've never been to Australia.
I don't know the dating meta in Australia.
But I think it has to do with the ways that you guys are brought up here as well.
I think American men, that's my opinion.
Again, I don't know.
But I think American men are raised by strong women, but also like you guys are raised to eventually have a family.
Australians are men and women.
I don't think they have that desire.
To have families?
Yeah, just to sort of develop something, to have a family and stuff like that.
I don't think Australians in general have a desire.
I might be wrong.
I don't know.
But the culture here is a little bit more up for it.
I don't know.
I mean, it seems to me that the culture is definitely changing here in the US too.
I think a lot of men are opting out of wanting serious relationships, wanting a family, because men see the bigger picture.
We see the divorce rate.
We see that divorce is 80% of the time initiated by women.
We see that that number jumps to 90% if she's college educated.
We see all these things.
We see that, oh, look at the alimony payments.
Look at the child support.
Look at men getting destroyed in the family court system.
And men en masse are just opting out because it's not a good bet anymore.
Men are going to be rational think.
I was going to say men are going to be rational thinkers, but a lot of men get suckered into marriage and all this shit.
But men are no longer, a better way to put this is men are no longer incentivized to get married, to have, well, they're no longer incentivized to get married because when you introduce no fault divorce, when the words till death do us part means nothing, this kind of goes back to women flaking almost.
If women just will willy-nilly can't stick to their word, if you agree to do something, you ought to follow through.
Look, sometimes legitimate excuses come up, although I think that's rare.
I think it's generally speaking, something better came up, a better option came around, or you're just feeling a little bit under the weather, whatever.
But if you can't even commit to showing up on a date, how in the hell are you going to commit to till death do us part?
And men are starting to wake up to this, and we're saying, hey, we don't get the sense.
She's laughing.
But I mean, look at the divorce rate, right?
If look at the vows for wedding, for a wedding.
Look at the vows that you say during marriage.
Till death do us part.
Those words have to mean something.
If words no longer mean anything, if your commitments can be so easily broken, then why get married?
True.
Yeah.
I agree with you.
I think it's changing for everyone too.
I know a lot of women are thinking the same thing, where a lot of women don't want children.
A lot of women don't want to have babies.
Get married and all that.
So I think it's just not just men, but I think everyone's kind of realizing, like, oh, this is nothing.
Well, I mean, I'm a pragmatist, but idealistically, society functions best when children are raised in a two-parent household and there aren't divorces and partners stay together.
And but we have, I mean, the majority, I don't know if it's a majority now, but most people, I don't know, I don't know if it's a majority yet, but a substantial portion of people are being raised in single-parent households.
Yes, typically single-mother households.
And that can work, but you put yourself at a statistical disadvantage.
You put your children at a statistical disadvantage.
It's much better to have a two-parent household.
Agreed.
Yeah.
I mean, so one of the reasons my ex left me is because I'm not crazy about the idea of having children.
And it's because I was raised by a single mother.
And I saw her struggle and saw that.
And my biggest fear is to be a single mother.
And so, with, like I said, in this day and age, everyone's so disposable, nothing is solid concrete.
You just don't see that a lot.
And everyone.
Sorry.
Oh, I just wanted to go around the table.
Just do you guys want to have kids and get married at some point?
Mishyphenated last name?
I don't know.
I'm like iffy about the kids.
Okay.
Sure.
Yes, marriage, yes, children.
Okay.
Yes, communion kids, yes.
Okay.
Do you know when you'd want to have kids by?
Because you said you're 32, right?
Yeah.
Well, I'm freezing my eggs soon.
You're okay.
I don't want to rush into anything, so I'm freezing the eggs, and then so I can choose the right person to be the parent.
Because I mean, there is, and I guess this is something that is unfortunate for women, but there is a time limit.
Yeah.
So yeah, it's tough.
You got to find someone.
You got three years to get it.
No, see, but if you freeze your eggs, you don't have to rush.
That's the thing.
Like, it's a lot of money that you have to put into it.
But I would rather raise my child with someone that is normal than to rush and then end up with, you know, with someone that's not good at parenting.
Because children is probably the most important thing that you do.
It comes for me, it comes after marriage, it comes after buying a property together, it comes after everything.
Children is literally the most important thing.
Sure.
But when it comes to freezing your eggs, I mean, I don't have the stats in my head to just throw out there, but isn't there like a fairly non-negligible chance that it doesn't, I don't know what the term for it is, but with the it doesn't produce an embryo?
Yeah, like it doesn't like a failure rate for what's the term for it.
Yeah, there's this.
So when you turn, so apparently I haven't done much of research, but when you turn 35, the chance, so before 35, the chances are around 75% of working out.
After 35, the chances go down to 40%.
No, but I'm not, I know that.
I know at 35, you get into high-risk pregnancy territory, and then as you get into your get to 40, I think 45, that's like good luck.
But I'm talking about for the in vitro fertilization, I think it's called.
Even if you get your eggs frozen, there's a decent chance, a percentage chance, that there's a failure for the procedure to work.
So even if you do get your eggs frozen, it's not like a guarantee that you will still be able to have a pregnancy or whatever.
Well, nothing is guaranteeing life.
We got to take our chances.
As long as you're aware of how the we can't control everything, though.
Yeah.
I don't know how we got to the whole wanting to have kids.
Okay, you don't want to have kids.
That's fine.
I don't think I want to have kids either, to be honest.
I mean, it's such a hard thing to explain because I've never wanted to have a kid just to have a kid.
You know, like there's a lot of girls that are like, oh, I want like a little mini me and like to dress it up.
Sure.
No, I'm good.
But if I were to meet someone and said, oh my gosh, I love you.
You have the greatest personality traits.
Let's put those together and make something together.
Totally, let's do it.
But like I said, I don't need it.
And for marriage as well, I don't need to get married.
So if I die and never have a baby, it just wasn't meant to be.
Okay.
Let me get these super chats.
Yo, Cameron, Carlton, why do you do this show B?
It may be modeled somewhat off of others, but you do seem to be selling yourself.
You don't.
I just discovered this podcast, so I'm wondering what your main motive is.
Oh.
Your first question kind of threw me off there.
I thought you were like, it was coming from a critical point of view.
No, I'm never going to sell a course or anything.
I'm perfectly content just doing the show.
What's my main motive?
Just having conversations, hearing from people, hearing from girls, seeing their views on dating and relationships.
And yeah, just, you know, I'm a YouTuber, and I thought I wanted to transition away from the prank videos I was doing because that wasn't good.
I mean, there's a whole bunch of reasons why I transitioned, but not that kind of transition.
But yeah.
yeah i won't be selling any um like here's a nothing nothing wrong if someone wanted to do that but for me i'm not i'm not intending to sell you guys anything I just want you guys to tune in.
Oh, Mike Davis.
Yo, Mike Davis, did you miss my message?
Did you hear what I said before, by the way?
I know you sometimes come in and out.
I'll pull your thing up really quick.
Monty20.
Excuse me.
Thank you for the $20 super chat, Monty.
Awesome, man.
Appreciate it.
I wonder how many of them list intelligence as one of their top personality traits.
Should probably give back those degrees.
Thanks.
well you know what i think super chatted 49.99 So, a man whom the ladies deem worthy has to look forward to their high body count.
Impaired pair bonding, paying for their choice of egg freezing, death, and emotional slash physical trauma.
Wow.
Sounds like some.
Can you pull that one up?
Carson, it didn't finish.
I'll read it.
One sec, uh, Zentience, it's, uh, stream yard lags for us.
Um, well, let me, uh, oh, so Carmela, did you want to shoot shots back at, uh, Monty?
He's probably ugly and broke.
Whoa.
Sorry.
He didn't have a photo, so I can't talk to a face.
Okay.
You know, I think in defense of Carmella, I bet she could wax poetic about.
What was your name?
Sarce.
Psychology.
Oh yeah, she could talk forever about psychology, I'm sure.
Monty, thank you, man.
Zentience, I think we got this one.
Yo.
Yo, feminist for Trump.
Oh, okay, because of the video I did.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Dragonkins.
Zentience, are you part of the Dragonkin family?
Non-binary Dragonkin.
What's up?
I think Zentience is a homie.
Okay.
Canadian, $60.
Quebecois, are you a Quebecois?
or are you more uh montreal toronto aren't those wait what Because there's like different territories and shit.
Yeah.
Man, this guy's like a Nova Scotia type.
Oh, wait, Nova Scotia?
Where do you guys think Flan Life's from?
Scotia?
Saskatchewan?
I bet he's more from Saskatchewan.
Okay, Carmela, you never had the making of...
Oh, okay, we got this one.
My bad.
Athair 48, 2010.
Love is a choice.
There will be years where you will hate your wife.
You have to choose to carry on and not give up on this foundation.
You've built weather the storm fix it unless its core is fully rotted.
Choice equals 50-year marriage.
Okay, thank you, man.
Appreciate the $20 soup chat and the 10 cents.
I will put that 10 cents to good use.
Thank you, man.
P. Shields, $20 super chat.
Can the ladies give two deal breakers for them in a man?
Please answer wisely.
I have my eye on one of you.
Okay.
I don't know.
He has his eye on one of you.
Which one?
P. Shields, which one?
Hello?
Really quick.
Two deal breakers for you.
Carmella, Soprano.
The third.
He has to have a job and he has to be nice.
Like, I mean, he's got to be like, like a, he's, he's got to have emotional intelligence.
He has to be nice?
Yes.
That goes.
Don't you dislike nice guys, though?
No, I love nice guys.
Really?
I mean...
Carmela, come on.
I think he's...
You got too many tattoos to like nice guys.
That doesn't mean anything.
You want a guy with fully blasted hats.
And I did the tattoos myself as a hobby.
Huh?
Oh.
It was a COVID hobby.
Wait, can we see your tattoo?
The sword one on your arm?
That one's kind of cool.
Uh.
Uh.
Wait.
Yeah.
Nice.
Oh, gun check.
Do a little flex while you're at it.
Boom.
Ripped.
Look at those noodles, man.
Fucking shredded.
Nice guys have tattoos.
Do they?
Just like nice girls have tattoos.
I guess.
You're judging.
Yeah, I'm being toxic.
I'm being toxic tonight.
Okay.
So you like nice guys?
I like guys that I'm interested in.
I don't, it doesn't like, I mean, I would prefer them to be nice and, you know, be able to pick up on social cues.
Your last boyfriend, how long did you date him?
Two years.
Two years.
And then there's a five-year before that, correct?
Yeah, like four and a half.
Four and a half year.
How tall were your last two boyfriends?
6'2 and, I don't know, like 6 feet.
Okay.
And how tall are you?
5'4.
5'4.
Okay.
And did they have tattoos?
No.
Okay.
What did they do for work?
Were they what if you had to describe how they were, how would you describe them?
Well, what are you doing?
Like frat boy, like ex-frat boys or what?
Yes, they were both ex-frat boys.
Were you in a sorority?
I was in a sorority.
Alpha Phi?
No.
Rip.
I mean, I went to Cal State Northridge, so I was in AOPie.
It's not at a lot of schools, I think.
Or not at this one.
Okay, sure.
Yeah, I don't know.
There's a reason.
Were they muscular?
No.
Were they nerdy?
How would you describe them?
Like personalities of macho, nerdy?
They were shorty.
were actually assholes to me it was oh oh But that's why now I have changed my standards.
Which is why I've been single for five years because every guy in LA is an asshole.
Wait, you've been single for five years?
Yeah.
Wait, so your last, the two-year guy was five years ago?
Yeah, I think I ended things with him in like 2018 or something.
Bro, you've been single for five years?
So 23 or 24 to 29, you were single.
I was.
And when you say single, you mean you were hooking up with a new guy every week?
No.
Every other week?
No.
Come on.
Carmella, when's the last time you hooked up with a guy?
She hates me, by the way.
But when's the last time you hooked up with a guy?
I don't know.
This is the Inquisition, by the way.
Like last, like two weeks ago or something.
But you've been single for five years.
Yeah, but that doesn't mean you're like, it's like, that doesn't mean you're dating or anything.
It's like just because you've been on a few dates with people doesn't mean like you guys are boyfriend, girlfriend.
But you've been doing that for five years?
Well, I mean, there were times where I thought it could lead somewhere or like, you know, I stop liking someone or they stop liking me, but like nothing, nothing ever worked out.
COVID.
COVID also?
Leave her alone.
Did you have something to say?
Did you have something to say?
Come on, come on.
You had something.
Oh, my jaw is getting very clenched, so I just need to relax.
Did you have something to say?
No, I'm just saying leave her alone.
She has stuff to work through and she's single.
That's fine.
It's fine.
She's mating someone that doesn't work out and doesn't have to work out with him for a while.
Oh, shit.
Hold on.
The fucking asteroid keeps fucking sending.
So were you not dating anyone during COVID, though?
And when I, well, like, not seeing anyone, so you're celibate?
No way.
Let me ask you a question.
Okay.
Or wait, you can answer that one first if you want.
You can ask your question.
I don't know how to answer that one.
So you've been single for five years.
What's the longest period of time you've been celibate during that five-year period?
I want to say eight months.
Eight months?
That's okay.
Why the face?
Why are you trying to judge the woman?
Leave her alone.
How long have you been single?
How long have I the longest period of celibacy I've ever seen?
Not right now.
How long have you been single?
When's the last time I had sex?
Is that a moment?
How long have you been single?
How long have you not been in a relationship?
I was dating a girl for about seven months, but I don't know if that constitutes like a long-term thing.
I think it's something.
How long?
Yeah, that was a couple.
That ended, I think, a couple months ago.
And then before that, when was your last relationship?
There was like a six-month one, and then before that was a two-year relationship.
Okay.
So, yeah.
Why didn't they work out?
Why didn't they work out?
Why'd she dump you?
Ah, good one.
Good one.
Well done.
Well done.
The first two.
Well, let's not talk about that.
Just because I own the show.
Let's not talk about that.
But no.
Two of them.
Well, here's the thing.
Women typically are the ones who end relationships, I would say.
Really?
I think women end relationships way more frequently than men do.
But one of them, it was I ended, and then two of them, they broke up with me.
So, yeah.
Good times.
So, okay, Carmella.
Thank you.
She doesn't want nice guys.
She still loves the bad boys.
She has the tramp stamp seal of approval.
She will walk all over the nice guys because she makes more money.
She still runs back to her sneaky links called Tyrone.
That's some like tribe or some shit in.
Okay.
I can't.
I shouldn't say that.
So, wait.
Can you pull up the chat from Zentience?
Oh, yeah, go ahead.
Chad and Tyrone okay so do you have a tramp stamp or is that just I don't have a tramp stamp No tramp stamp.
Okay.
Do you make more money than how much do you make?
Can you share that?
I don't want to.
Do you want to give a range?
No.
Is it more than six figures?
No.
Oh, okay.
All right.
Well, Zentience has you pegged as a high earner, so.
Thank you.
Maybe you and Zentience in LA can connect.
No.
Why not?
There's not enough money.
Just kidding.
No, I just.
He doesn't even have a face.
It's just a Z.
No.
He's Zoro.
And he keeps taking shots at me.
Yeah.
You can pull that up.
I'm curious why it didn't trigger the TTS.
Maybe Flan Life.
I don't know.
Yo, thank you for the Canadian $50 man.
I'm from the 6.
I don't know what the 6 is.
Is that Montreal?
Toronto?
Toronto?
Like Drake's the 6?
Don't associate me with those Quebecois plebs.
Do they speak French in Toronto?
No.
I think they speak French in Quebec.
Quebec.
Montreal.
Québécois.
Montreal.
Québécois.
Oh, wait, that's the French national.
Oh, okay, my bad.
All right, we have two deal breakers.
Okay, we were roasting Carmella for a little bit.
Poor Carmella.
Two deal breakers for them and the man?
Someone who doesn't have a growth mentality and someone who doesn't have a sense of humor.
What if he has ED?
I mean, if he has a solution for it, maybe that's fine.
I should say a self-growth mentality.
Oh, self-growth.
Of course.
That's what you meant.
Okay.
Two deal breakers.
The lack of personal, like, understanding himself.
Like, if they don't understand themselves, I can't deal with it.
And lack of ambition.
Lack of ambition.
In life, in general, not just about money.
Sure.
Shania.
If they have zero manners, I'm done.
I'm out.
And then no sense of humor.
We gotta laugh.
No sense of humor.
On the note of the sense of humor thing, do you guys think it's unfair that you know there's this double standard, right?
How when it comes to past partners, there's a double standard, and it goes something like it's related to body count.
So a woman gets judged if she's had a lot of past sexual partners, whereas a man, if he's had a lot of past sexual partners, he's like, that's impressive, he's a stud, whereas she's viewed as a slut.
What do you guys think about that double standard?
Sucks.
Sucks.
Okay.
But do you think, for example, let me let me add to that a little bit.
Do you think it's unfair for a guy who has a high body count?
Let's say he's had a lot of partners, but he wants a partner who has a low body count or who has not been as promiscuous as him.
Do you think that that is an unreasonable thing to want?
I was about to say, it's a bit unfair, but I mean, to each their own.
So, you know, if he likes to get around and he doesn't want his girlfriend to, then that's on him.
But it is definitely unfair.
Sure.
I think it has to do with insecurity.
Insecurity?
Why?
Well, I think the only reason why you are worried about the past of whoever you are with, it's because you are insecure about yourself.
And I don't think you should judge anyone based on what they've done in the past.
Like, I don't do that.
Like, I don't judge how many girls you've had.
I don't care.
You should not judge someone based on what they've done in the past.
Yeah.
Okay.
I mean, so you meet a guy and you find out that every single girlfriend he's had, he's cheated on her.
You're not going to judge him.
That's a different scenario.
We're talking about the number of people that they slept with.
We're not talking about cheating.
I think that's a perfectly apt comparison, but you don't have to fight.
Yes, I would judge about that.
Okay, so his past behavior has precluded him as a partner for you.
So then it's okay.
Do you want to revise your stance?
No, because we're talking about a free person that has no boyfriend sleeping around.
By the way, I've never done that, but I don't judge the person who does it.
That's fine.
If it's a woman, if it's a man, that's fine.
They're understanding themselves.
So if a man expects the woman, it's the same.
Zenshin's super chatted $49.99.
Just listening to her gives me an overwhelming sensation to get an antibiotic.
And don't like Carmela.
Lots of guys are taking shots at you.
You even said you were celebrating eight months in five years.
That's the same as five.
Finding yourself after a train?
Is that pull it up?
Oh, after a train.
Carmella, do you want to respond to Zentience?
He's kind of being mean to you.
Carmella?
Do you have a response?
I don't have a response.
Carmela.
Nothing.
I mean, I just, I don't know what to say.
You can shoot shots.
He's shooting some shots.
You can shoot some shots.
I mean... Shots fired.
I don't know.
He's probably just alone at home and has nothing better to do than, you know, make fun of me or, you know, get mad at the way I live my life.
Zentience is a brain surgeon at Cedar Si Nai Hospital.
Okay.
Okay.
He has plenty of things to do.
He's actually, he sent this super chat while in surgery.
I will have you know.
Okay.
That's right.
Can I have him reported?
Reported?
For that?
For.
Yo, this guy, yo, he's got the micro.
He can, like.
Can you hide that, Carson?
He's got micro.
Like, he's like, boom, boom, boom, let me just fucking, here's your brain stem, boom, snip.
Okay.
Yo, Carmella, zinc.
Boom, boom.
He's got it.
You know the micro?
The micro?
Like, okay, Command and Conquer generals, zero hour, right?
Fuck it.
Let's say you're GLA versus USA.
Like, GLA Inf.
Or GLA, or no, China Inf.
China Infantry, it's like OP, China Infantry.
I am so lost.
Are we, what are you talking about?
Carmelis, hear me out.
Hear me out.
All right.
So, Zentience, he's like, he's a top, he's top on the Command and Conquer the rankings.
so he's like gla toxin right against and he's still no no Sorry.
He's China Inf.
He's China Infantry, and he's up against GLA toxin.
But he's still smoking toxin, which usually like in the meta, like smokes China infantry.
Sometimes he also, he like does rush strats.
Like he's got the technical, you know?
He'll like throw a bunch of the rocket launcher dudes into the technical.
Boom, boom, boom.
Sometimes he plays Humvee.
He'll fucking airdrop the Humvees with all the rocket guys.
Boom, destroy your fucking base.
You're done.
So I could care less, or maybe I couldn't care less about him being a brain surgeon, but if he's going to treat people this way and talk to people, like, you know, oh, you're not a brain surgeon.
Like, you're probably just like a dumb girl.
I don't need to give a response.
I respect you, Carmel.
He's pretty good with China infantry, though.
Okay.
All right.
I don't know what I was talking about.
What were we talking about before you were, who was saying something about?
I forgot.
Me, too.
We were on something good.
Body count.
Body count mattering.
Oh, the chair.
Okay.
Let me ask.
Let me go around the table.
So, okay.
Damn, that chair is noisy.
I don't know why.
If a guy had previously slept with a man, would that be like a deal breaker for you, Carmella?
I'm also going to say no to this one because I had heard rumors that an ex of mine in the past had hooked up with a guy or guys.
I don't know.
I mean, I didn't know if they were rumors or not, but I still dated him for two years.
So I would say no.
Okay, that's fine.
That's fine.
Oh.
I would say no.
Okay.
Yes.
Deal breaker for you.
Okay.
I have zero problem with it.
Okay.
Let's get these super chats and then we can come back to the conversation.
Let's see.
We have Frankie Kay with the Tundell Super Chat.
Men are fleeing the West to seek women with traditional values who are raised to be good wives.
Two questions, ladies.
Does that upset you?
And why do you think so many Western men are exiting the local dating pool to find love?
Good question, Frankie.
Let's start with Carmella.
Go ahead.
it doesn't upset me and they can leave if they want to because traffic will get better.
Okay.
All right.
We love you.
How many people hate me right now?
Answer.
We love you.
Passport bros, we up.
What about you?
If some of the best advice I heard was if someone wants to leave, let them leave.
So if they want to leave, they can leave.
Okay.
What about you?
Here we go.
I think in a new way of the world, I think we both, men and women, we must learn how to be in this new world.
I'm diet.
Yeah, but we must learn.
At the end of the day, we've got our roles, I believe, and we've got to play them.
They're changing, but I stick as you think.
We got to learn.
Yeah.
So the question is that men are leaving specifically the West?
Yep.
Yeah, I've seen no problem with that.
I mean, dating, especially in like LA, California, is rough.
So I get it.
He probably wants someone more traditional.
And we don't really have traditional here.
We have a lot of different stuff.
Yeah.
I mean, honestly, I think women don't really give a fuck.
Like the whole path.
I don't think men are wrong for being passport pros.
Go to South America.
Go to Asia.
Shit, I'll probably do it.
But women don't give a fuck.
They don't care.
The top 10, top 20% of guys are always going to be here.
Easy access.
So we have Mike Davis with the $20 Super Chat.
I'm not with all this feminist shit, but there are two aspects that I'm all for.
No, not procreating, the problem, taking care of itself.
And free the nipple.
Yes, please march by my house.
Yeah, I was thinking about that the other day about like what because you often hear feminists say, would you guys consider yourselves to be feminists?
To an extent.
Yes.
Feminist.
Okay, Carmella?
I mean, I guess yes, but not like a crazy one.
Like not, you know, to the extent of what they consider feminist.
Okay, let me extremists that I think give it a bad name.
Right.
Yeah, I mean, well.
Of everything, there are extremists.
Sure.
So do you think that women don't have equal rights to men in this country?
Because that's kind of like the main thing of feminism, right?
equal rights, but don't women have, well, I shouldn't even ask the question.
I already know.
Women do already have fully equal rights to men.
And in actually some cases, advantages and privileges that men don't have.
But and the only thing that like legally, in terms of a law that I thought, here's one way in which men have a law that benefits them, it's we can show our bare chest.
But I think in some municipalities, women can go shirtless.
I think that's the only one that I can think of.
The only right or law that men have that women don't.
But I could be, if any, I don't know, maybe you guys disagree.
Anyone?
Bueller?
Carmella?
I mean, under the law, I don't know.
I feel like it's pretty equal.
And like a lot of people will consider the benefits that jobs have like before they even start a job.
So like now they offer maternity, like a bunch of weeks for maternity and paternity leave.
And like, I don't know.
Under the law, I don't think there's any problems, but socially, it's definitely, I mean, there's definitely the unequality there.
I'm not sure how deep I want to go into that one, but can you just name a few?
Growing up in an Asian household, I definitely had different rules from my brother.
Okay.
And so like the way I was raised was much different.
And then also the people around you expect women to be a certain way when men don't have to be a certain way.
So I mean it just depends on how you look at it.
Okay.
Anybody else?
Does anybody remember when women were allowed to vote in this country?
Like what year?
Yeah, like roughly?
When women got the right to vote?
Yep.
I believe it was 1918 and it was ratified by 1920, I believe.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So I think when we talk about feminism, it's more right now, yes, we've got all the rights, but back in the day, we didn't have any of the rights, and it was important that we had those people to fight for it.
So the feminism became like something kind of negative in a few conversations, but they were quite important to get us where we are now.
I like that.
I got to get through the super chats, so we won't stick on that conversation for too long.
Mike Davis, thank you for re-upping your membership.
Or actually, I don't know if it was re-upped, but it's one of these membership.
I think we have it started.
We're going to get to it just momentarily.
Mike Davis, by the way, I don't know if you heard me earlier, but you were a big supporter in 2022.
If it wasn't for you and Dayvon Jackson, you guys definitely helped keep me motivated because as you know, Mike Davis, like not a lot of people were supporting those first few months.
So Mike Davis, I really appreciate you, man.
And you've always had some fun, fun things to say.
Let's see here.
We have, oh, I think this is the one.
Yeah.
Mike Davis, $20 Super Chat.
I'm not with all this feminine.
Oh, wait.
We read that one.
Oh, wait.
Oh, okay.
Did he do another one?
No.
What?
Impaired pair.
Wait.
So a man whom the ladies did, did this one.
We read that one.
TTS.
He mentions body count really quick.
Do you guys think body count should matter?
No.
Shouldn't matter.
Would you take issue if a guy wanted a girl with a low body count?
Would you take issue with that?
I mean, maybe that's not the right girl for him.
Yeah?
Okay.
If someone, I don't know, because then it starts to feel like controlling of like, you know, I don't want you to have like just meet people where they're at.
If you love this person, you don't care about how many people they've slept with.
Well, for example, let's say a guy found out that you had had 20 sexual partners and he's like, hey, that's too much for me.
Not interested.
Then he's not my person.
That's fine.
You can go.
Okay, but you wouldn't have an issue with a guy that being a standard for a guy.
I wouldn't date him if that was his standard.
Sure.
Even if I've only slept with one person.
I just, I think that's gross for him to put that on me of like, you need to be like this to fit into what I want.
So you think it's gross if a guy has a preference for a woman with a low body count?
Yeah, I do.
Why?
Because that's none of your fucking business.
Why not?
Because it's my body.
It's my life.
And if you don't want to date someone, like, I don't know.
Like, do your own thing.
And if that's who you're seeking, that's fine.
But I just like, I don't need, I don't need anyone else telling me how to be than myself.
Well, I mean, he can't tell you really to do anything because you've already accrued, said past sexual partners.
But you'd find it gross if a guy was like, oh, I don't want to date a woman who's promiscuous or had a promiscuous past or who has a high body count.
I guess, yeah.
Would you find it gross if a woman didn't want to date a guy who was a player and had a high body count?
It's weird because like that I kind of understand.
Oh.
So maybe it's a double, but I mean, I don't know.
I think it's because for so many years there's been put of this really like negative energy about women being comfortable with their sexual energy and like having a lot of sexual partners.
Maybe I'm just like pissed about that.
You're pissed about what?
I'm pissed about how there's been a lot of negative energy about women expressing their sexual energy with having a lot of partners.
And that, I think, is clouding my viewpoint of a man wanting someone with a low, a man wanting a woman with a low body count.
So it might not even be about the man.
I'm just pissed about like for so many years, women have been getting crapped on for wanting, for having many partners when it's not that way with guys.
So I don't know.
Well, so you're saying that it's what was the term you used?
A woman's sexual energy?
Yeah, when a woman gets in touch with her sexual energy by, like...
Gets in touch with her sexual energy by fucking every...
Sure.
Couldn't the woman get in...
Sure, yeah.
You know what, if that...
Wait, wait, wait.
Couldn't the woman get in touch with her sexual energy by having sex with one partner that they love?
Absolutely, yeah, because with any woman, like I, it was a very like broad getting in touch with her sexual energy because I feel like that should be applauded.
When a woman chooses to do whatever she wants with herself, that's great, whether it's like with herself, with a man or a woman, with a many men.
Like, that's what my broad thing was about, like, a woman getting in touch with her sexual energy because it was so stomped on with a lot of people.
That's all.
So we should applaud promiscuity.
Oh, Jesus.
Well, I'm just asking.
No, and I get it.
I get.
I get the debate.
I don't know.
And that's why I say, maybe this is just coming from me of like so many years.
And even maybe my personal experience too is seeping out.
So I'm projecting mine of when I, the way I was raised was you don't have sex.
And I wasn't taught about sex.
I wasn't taught about like how to deal with my fucking body.
And it wasn't applauded at all.
And so fuck my points.
So when I say applauding it, like I just, I don't know if I'm saying you should go out and sleep with everyone, but you should do whatever you want to do.
I'm applauding women to do whatever they want to do.
I'm applauding them to get in touch with their sexual energy and see wherever that leads them.
That's what I'm applauding.
Don't you think that there's something more noble than doing what you want to do?
For example, doing what you ought to do or doing what is the right thing to do?
The right thing to do is a personal preference to everyone.
And what you ought to do, what you sort, like you should do this.
I don't care.
Let me ask you a question.
If someone want, if one of your, if Carmella, for example, who's your friend for almost five years now, if she wanted to tattoo the whites of her eyeballs, would you, she wants to do it, would you encourage her to do it?
Or would you try to counsel her to say, hey, maybe this tattooing the whites of your eyeballs, people are going to judge you for it.
It might have some health consequences.
Would you try to advise her away from doing that?
Or would you say, you know what, girl, you do it?
I think with anything that's going to be permanent on your body, of course, we're going to talk about it.
It's going to be a counsel.
And I would say, you know, think about it for a while, but at the end of the day, she wants to do that.
It's in her control.
Okay.
Well, it's a different example, but if one of my male friends approached me and said, Brian, I'm thinking of having the whites of my eyes tattooed, I would say, you're a fucking idiot.
Don't do that.
I mean, it's dangerous.
It's bad for your health.
And there's going to be social ramifications.
It's going to be harder for you to find a future partner if you have the whites of your eyes tattooed black, for example, or some fucking other bullshit color.
I completely agree.
I completely agree.
That's a yeah.
So similarly, if someone has, if someone is promiscuous, if they have a high body count, there are certain health ramifications.
It might be harder to find a partner if you have a high body count, if you are promiscuous.
And?
Well, my position is that promiscuity is not desired.
It's not desirable.
Okay.
And if I'm living my life just to be desirable, am I really living it for my own happiness?
Well, I mean, I'm not saying for you to go and sleep with everyone.
And I know there are, especially now, there are health risks, and I respect that.
All I'm saying is I just like, there are so many people that get shut down with following what makes them happy.
And again, this could be me projecting because for so much of my life, I'm trying to see, like, I know there's a lot of point of views, and maybe I'm coming from one that's clouded.
But.
Are women really happy getting ran through, though?
Does that really make women happy?
That's not what I'm...
I mean, like, if you're choosing the sexual part, if you are, like, enjoying and choosing these interactions and, like, each of them is, like, helping you grow and, like, understanding more about yourself and your...
Like, that's cool.
Does having sex with a total stranger and never talking to them help someone grow?
Well, I don't think I'm using that as an example.
I don't think I'm saying that in each one of these, they're going to be a complete stranger and you're not talking to them again.
So I didn't say that.
But we are, okay, in order for someone to have a high body count, in order for someone to be promiscuous, there's some degree of casual sex occurring.
Yeah, maybe, but who knows?
Like, don't put a blanket statement on, like, if someone's promiscuous and they have a high body count, each and every single one of those interactions was lifeless and a stranger.
Like, you don't fucking know that.
Does anyone else want to come in?
I have a question.
Sure.
What would you do?
What do you mean?
What would you do if you really liked someone, Agil?
Yeah.
And she found out that you had 50.
She slept with 50 men before?
No, no, no, you.
You slept with 50 women.
Sure.
She found out.
And she's like, you know what?
I'm not really interested because I just don't think you're worth it.
Totally fine.
See, I don't have a double standard on this.
If a woman looks at a guy and she's like, this guy used to be a player or he is a player, he's promiscuous.
He's slept with a lot of women.
And she decides for herself, I don't want to be, I don't want to partner with that guy, totally fine.
Now, do I think it happens to be the case that women tend to care less about a man's past promiscuity?
Or, yeah, some women do care about it, but overwhelmingly, I think women care far less about it than men.
And I think that's where we get into this sort of debate over body count: women, generally speaking, care far less about it than men do.
True.
Because most, you ask most women, like, well, we can ask you guys, would you guys date a guy who's a virgin?
Yeah.
I would.
Think about who, think about what kind of man would be a virgin.
So you're 25, you're 32, you're 23, and you're 29, if I remember correctly.
Think of a guy your age who's still a virgin.
Now, he could be a religious guy, but you're gonna sleep with a guy who's a virgin?
You could.
I could be wrong.
I could be wrong, but there's nothing.
Okay, let me put.
Do you think the sex would be good with a guy who's a virgin?
I've dated a guy who was a virgin.
How was it?
I mean, we would do most things, we just wouldn't do the actual, sorry, the actual thing.
Okay.
So, yeah, it was a short time, but word.
I got to get through the super chats.
Then we're going to wrap up, guys.
Guys, get your last-minute super chats in if you want to.
We're going to wrap up here in about, I don't know, 10 minutes, 15 minutes.
So get your super chats in.
All right, let me see if I can catch up here.
Did we do this one?
Or what?
Zentience.
Deemworthy has to look forward to their high-impaired.
Yeah.
Well, with the body count thing, definitely like pair bonding gets fucked.
The higher likelihood of divorce, the higher your body count is, higher likelihood of STDs, more likelihood of infidelity, greater likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction.
There's also an evolution, evo-psych, evolutionary psychology component where men have a paternity uncertainty where it's an evolutionary biological response.
If we know a woman's promiscuous, we cannot guarantee that the children is going to be ours if she's promiscuous.
Now, we've developed DNA tests in the past 40 years, which we can determine who the father is, but that doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.
And in France, where I was my fatherland, motherland, whatever, it would be my fatherland.
DNA, you can't even get paternity testing there because apparently there's rampant paternity fraud in France.
So because apparently it would cause too much societal upheaval if men found out that they weren't, that they got cheated on and cucked.
So anyways, we got Flan Life.
Oh, we got that one.
We had Zentience.
Get an antibiotic.
Wait, what?
Oh, we got that one.
Ian Hall, $20 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
Leaving it at three red flags.
And my sense of humor is offensive.
I'm out.
It's late as fuck on the East Coast.
Leaving it at three.
Okay.
Ian, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Ray Gonzalez, $20 super chat.
Thank you, man.
Most chicks, including the ones on the panel, go for men with success, height, looks, etc.
Which is the top 20% of men?
They won't even look our way.
Most of us men are invisible to most women.
Word.
Word.
Response, anyone?
This is, yeah, you shouldn't see yourself like that.
Yeah, true.
But I mean, they've looked at the frequency of how often women swipe on men on dating hats, and it's something like swipe no on like 90% of men.
So, and most people meet online, so it would stand to reason that women are all chasing after the top 10, top 20% of men, and the rest are invisible.
Like your average guy is Ray.
Okay, Ray Gonzalez.
He is an invisible man to most women.
Sorry, I'm sorry, Ray.
I hope don't take that wrong.
But here's the interesting thing.
Ray, please don't take this wrong, man.
Please don't take this wrong.
If you look at his avatar.
Oh, geez.
I'm sorry, Ray.
Is this mean?
I'm sorry, Ray.
Ray, here's the sad reality, my man.
Your looks equivalent, if she was so inclined, could sleep with like a couple new guys a week.
What's up?
Oh, no.
She bumped into me.
Oh, okay.
But yeah, like, we've had girls come on the show who, like, who admit their body count, right?
And their looks equivalent as a guy cannot put up those numbers.
Like, it's crazy.
So let's see.
Yo, Elder Scrolls, thank you for becoming a member, man.
Appreciate it.
only no fro canadian twenty dollars i think this is the only no fro is the quebecois Flan Life is the Montrealer.
Voting rights are novel.
First landowners paying taxes, then men dying in more women.
Literally just given with no civic duty at all.
Also, suffragettes only wanted it for the right sort of women.
Yeah, I mean, the feminist movement is kind of the genesis of the feminist movement, is pretty racist, but they obviously didn't want certain rights for black folk.
But that's a whole nother Seneca Falls, I don't know, in the 1800s Seneca Falls or something.
Look it up.
But yeah.
Thank you, man.
Mike Davis, $20 Super Chat, rerunning it.
I made two guarantees about the blonde.
Oh, shit.
Sorry.
We got Carson's on the ones and twos.
Maybe it slipped through or maybe it came in as a 10.
But rerunning it, I made two guarantees about the blonde who dated the Predator 10 years her senior.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, Mike Davis.
Wait, daddy isn't too present, grew up low income.
Answer honestly.
Where's Neckbeard?
Would have loved to crack him.
I'm the neckbeard, dude.
Sure, I'll answer honestly.
My dad is present.
He's my best friend.
And I grew up, we actually were rich until I was like 10.
And then we moved out to LA.
And it was just more expensive here.
So we lived a lower, not low income, but just like a more frugal kind of life, I guess you could say.
But yeah, those are my answers.
Okay, well Mike Davis what's what I think he's memeing about the predator thing, but you so you dated the guy who's 10 years or senior, but yeah, I get it.
It was a huge age gap, and it was really controversial.
So I totally understand.
But you don't have an issue with it, do you?
No, absolutely not.
Yeah, I don't think there was anything wrong with that.
Yo, Monty, I mean, unless you were 18 when you met, correct?
Yeah, I was young.
That's fine.
Monty, $20 Super Chat.
She has more mileage than the 1995 Toyota Camry.
I don't know.
Who is this?
Who knows?
1995, Toyota Camry.
Okay.
All right, that's it for the super chats.
So at an earlier point during the show, I asked if there's anything dating related that you want to get off your chest.
You had the opportunity to answer.
You two have not yet had the opportunity to answer.
You wanted us to come back to you.
Does anyone, did you think of something?
Do you have something?
Do you have something, Carmella?
Something dating-related you want to get off your chest of frustration, anything?
Get your last-minute super chats in, guys.
I can also let you go first.
We kind of brought it up earlier.
I want to hear everyone's worst date.
Oh, including yours, Brian.
I'll go for it.
I just need to get up really quick.
Carmella, if you want to start.
I have repressed a lot of memories, but I remember one time someone showed up blacked out drunk to a date I was on, and then I wanted to leave, and he didn't want to leave.
Or he didn't want to let me leave.
It was weird.
So I don't go out.
I try not to drink on dates.
Hello, girl.
I mean, I haven't dated a lot, but the only one that was really bad was just went to a movie theater.
Like, I went to a movie, and I didn't really know this guy very well.
And he kept kind of like just trying to cuddle with me the whole time.
And I hated it.
I hate when people boom my boundaries, you know?
Yeah.
Become a little too touchy.
Yeah, too slight.
I don't know you.
So you have to earn it.
That's exactly what happened to me as well.
The worst date was this guy, first five minutes, he would have his hand on my lap, and I'm like, I didn't give you permission yet.
I need to touch you first.
Like, I need to do these first, and then you can touch me.
So it was a bit weird, but it wasn't like horrible.
I just sort of told him that it wasn't okay.
And then I told him that I wouldn't see him again.
Straight away, I was like, I don't think it'd be a good match.
Do you guys have like a certain time when you're more comfortable, or is it just you have to feel it out?
Like, when is that kind of behavior acceptable?
It depends on the person.
Yeah, it's not a time thing, it's a feeling thing.
So it depends on the person, depends on how long I was talking to the guy before that as well.
So you get familiar.
So yeah, it depends on the person, I think.
It's a feeling thing.
So wait, your worst date.
When was your worst date, Debbie?
My worst date was, it was actually the second date.
And we had had a picture taken of us together on the first date.
And on the second date, he was comparing our picture and telling me what our children would look like.
Romantic.
Yep.
That was a lot.
Did you guys all go?
Yeah.
My worst date.
Geez, there's been a lot.
Wait, Brian, I'm really curious.
What's your type?
4'11?
Beef Curtain Queen Asian, I guess?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, you know.
She's too tall for me, though.
5'4?
5'4.
Yeah, I'm sorry, Carmella.
It's just not gonna work.
It's okay, you're too short for me.
I'm 6'1.
The last two guys I went on dates with were 6'7.
Went on dates with?
No, but like actual dates.
Like they took, like, we went out to eat and get like, you know.
6'7?
Two of them were 6'7.
You went out to eat?
Yeah, like dinner for the dates?
The guys.
You didn't split?
I pulled out my wallet and they said no.
Oh, oh.
6'7?
Yeah.
Bro, you're killing it, Carmella.
One of them had a brother that was 6'9, but married.
So why wasn't there a second, was there a second date?
I had three dates with one of them, but then he was on vacation from Sarasota.
Like I met him on Hinge while he was here for a few weeks.
And you knew that?
I did.
I just, why?
Because here's my thing.
If I find out that a girl is just in town for the weekend or some shit, it's just, for me anyways, what's the point?
I'm very open to moving.
Like anywhere out of LA.
Not for a guy.
Like I'm very open to like just moving out of LA.
And like I feel like it's nice to have friends in like other places.
Is that how you rationalize hooking up with men that there's no chance of getting commitment from?
I went on three dates with him.
Like what's the problem?
But do you think after three dates he's going to be like, okay, come move to fucking Sarasota?
No, I wasn't going to, I wouldn't move to Sarasota.
But I think you said you're, but so, okay, you're, you're willing to go and hook up with a guy who, who is.
But did I say I hooked up with him?
Bruv, he's 6'7.
Come on.
He's 6'7.
He laid that down.
I mean, Carmella is romantic.
Okay, you didn't say it, but did you?
I may have hooked up with him on the third date.
Okay, Carmela.
I mean, I feel like I'm not opposed to meeting people who are not from here, is what I mean.
She's wanting to find love, and she's willing to take the risks for it.
She is romantic.
And you're just not going to find anyone in LA that like is that like even wants to take you out to a nice restaurant and pay for you and like drive all the way to LA from Newport for you.
Like it's like, I don't know.
I felt like it was a nice gesture when we started talking.
And I did not know he was from Sarasota when I first met him or when I first started talking to him.
She's sweet.
What about the other 6'7 guy?
We Snapchat sometimes.
Nudes?
No.
Oh.
He doesn't live in LA?
He lives in Ventura.
Oh.
She lives in Ventura.
Isn't that interesting?
You should.
She's tall.
6'1.
Bruv, you're dating two men.
In recent history, what is the past couple months?
Yeah.
How recent were these?
Well, one was in December.
The other one was, I think, November.
Chat.
She.
What chance does the normal guy have?
Wait, wait, wait.
You're dating 6'7 guys who are going to buy you dinner and do all that.
Has Sarasota guy offered to fly you out?
He hasn't offered to fly me out, but he said I should come visit sometime.
I don't know.
Guys, get your passports.
Fucking leave.
The U.S. is a failed society.
Failed society.
Okay.
Wait, worst.
How did we get here?
Worst dates?
Yeah.
I was going to start my worst date.
Because you said you were into Asian girls who were 4'11.
Yeah, oh, so you're too, oh, right.
I said that you were too tall for me at 4'5'4.
And then you said, well, Brian, you're too short for me at 6'1 because it just so happens that I recent Theo Anderson thing for the membership man.
You can pull that up, Carson.
It just so happens that I dated two guys who are 6'7.
Well, you was it?
Not that I, not that, like, I would only go for 6'7 guys.
I'm not gonna answer.
Was it big?
Was it big?
You don't have to answer.
You don't have to answer.
Okay.
Wait, okay, really quick, let's go to the Let me get the super chat.
Okay, we got Alex Sarabi, $20 chat.
Since Andrew Tate is not here, I would like to speak on his behalf.
Haram, haram, haram.
Haram!
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Okay, so my worst date.
I don't know if I've got a few.
I've got a few.
Which one do I want to tell?
I've told the Habsburg Tarot one before.
I'll do, I'll tell, okay.
I don't know.
Worst date?
Shit.
Oh, I know one.
So I was hanging out with this girl and this was years ago.
And I invite her back to my place.
And she comes back to my place.
And she starts playfully hitting me.
Now, I'm a person that likes his, like I'm, like, yeah, like I don't like people just randomly touching me in that way.
Like, if it's a more intimate, like a cuddle situation, that's, like, I like to cuddle whatever.
I'm not, like, distant in that way, but if some, like a guy or girl, I don't like people, like, playfully, like, fucking pushing me around and shit.
I don't like that.
So this girl, like, I don't know if she shoved me or something, but like, she did it a bit too hard to the point where it's like got me a little on edge.
And I'm like, I told her, I was like, hey, just, we're having a good time here.
Just, can you not do that again?
And she's like, oh, really?
Boom!
Does it again?
And I'm like, okay.
I'm like, can you not do that again?
And she started getting, like, try to be playful about it, but I was dead serious.
She's trying to be all playful about it.
And I had this lacrosse ball or something.
And just for some reason.
And she starts picking up the lacrosse ball.
And like, lacrosse balls are, they're not soft, right?
And she's like, she's like, I'm going to throw it.
And she's like, pretending like she's going to throw it at me.
And then, but then she's like, oh, I want to bounce it in your apartment with all this like shit.
And I'm like, don't throw it.
And she's like, what are you going to do if I do?
And I told her, I was like, don't throw it.
And she throwed it.
And then I was like, you need to fucking leave.
So I'm like, you got to go.
So, because she just, she's already not listened to me about my not wanting to be touched.
She throws it, like, you know, whatever.
Nothing breaks.
And then we get to the door.
And then I forgot exactly what she did, but she put her hand like on my face, like almost pushed it.
And I was like, you need to fucking leave right now.
And then she's like, what if I don't?
And I'm like, yo, you need to fucking leave.
And I was at that point, like, I was pretty stern with how I said it.
And she was like, oh, okay.
And then she left.
Oh, my gosh.
So, um.
How old was she?
Yeah.
19.
Oh.
19.
Still unacceptable, though.
Oh, yeah.
Have you ever like met a girl who's just like got this crackhead energy?
Just like a wild.
Yeah.
She was fucking wild.
Like just untameable fucking energy.
I was just like, yeah.
But.
How old were you?
That was pretty close to getting physical because like I'm like if someone doesn't listen to me when I say stop touching me like but what's that?
How old were you then?
24?
25 maybe?
Yeah.
It was so fucking weird.
So weird.
But yeah.
And then I matched with her on a dating app like a couple.
Whoa, that's both.
Like a year ago.
And I was like, remember when you fucking assaulted me?
And she was like, oh, I was just being playful.
I was like, no.
Anyways.
I have the scars.
Yeah.
I don't know if that's the worst date I've ever been on, but like it was so, I don't know.
It was just weird.
I don't know if she's trying to be bratty, if that was her fucking thing.
Some girls are.
Yeah.
But yeah, she like was, I told her not to.
I told her to stop touching me.
Like she was like kind of hitting me.
Like, I think she did a playful slap in the face.
Ew.
Like, it wasn't hard, but it was like this.
And I was like, I don't like people touching my face like that.
Your fucking hands are dirty, probably.
But she was like, did it again, right?
So anyways, that was my bad date.
Yeah, that was my bad date.
That's a good one.
Oh, last question.
So y'all said body count shouldn't matter.
If body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?
Two.
I'm not going to disclose that.
No.
I thought body count should.
Okay.
Body count?
One.
What?
Huh?
One?
Yes.
Real?
Really?
Yes.
I don't believe you.
Oh, you're 23.
Yeah.
You only had the one.
That's okay.
Just one?
Yeah.
The brother?
Yes.
Oh.
Carmella, your brother.
Are you bisexual?
And how do you...
I don't consider that.
Is that bad?
what like hooking up with girls isn't oh so no sex like So you're bisexual, but just for kissing and stuff?
Yeah, for kissing, playing around like that.
Yo, let me just comment something in the chat here.
Lux Lux Icy or whatever the fuck your name is.
Bruv, if a girl was telling the story about a guy putting hands on her and she told him not to touch her and she continued doing it, I guarantee you, Luxissy or however the fuck you pronounce her name, you would have a very different tone.
I can guarantee you that.
Listen, people have physical boundaries and it's rare that I encounter that with women, with a woman, but I don't know what, I don't know if she had some fucking, she was in what's called like a mental state or some bullshit, but it wasn't like it wasn't fun.
It wasn't fun.
And then when I get, I wasn't having fun and like when I started saying, because the first time she did it, I was like, hey, can you not do that?
And then she did it again, and then I got serious.
At that point, she should have known not to, but she kept pushing it.
So, bro.
And that's the, anyways.
Anyways, okay, so one, Carmella.
I am also not going to disclose that.
Carmella, but I thought body count doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter, which is why I'm not saying it.
That doesn't really make sense, but okay.
It makes sense, because then I feel like I'm not, I wouldn't ask a man how many people he's been with.
So, I mean, I feel like you just don't have to say it.
I mean, you can't say to people that you trust that you want to share with.
I just don't think I want to share with, like, I just met you guys.
I'm sorry.
Sharky says men touches a girl equals SA.
Women punch.
Don't pull it up.
Don't pull it up.
Women punch men equals haha.
It's so funny.
Yeah.
Yep, pretty much.
But, so, okay, you don't want to disclose body count?
Not to the whole world.
Okay.
Will you two tell me after the show?
I won't report it.
You have to earn.
I'm not telling you.
Sorry.
I would tell you after the show, I just don't need to tell it to these people who are already being mean.
Sure.
Okay, can I ask a range?
Is it between 10 and 20?
I'm also not going to disclose that.
I'm not saying anything.
But this is, I think this is quite, I mean, for you two, two and one?
That's impressive.
Congrats.
Congratulations.
On the low bike?
Okay, she doesn't like that.
She doesn't like it.
Well, okay.
Final thought, anybody, before I wrap up?
No.
Okay.
Last thought?
Anybody?
Kiki?
Kiki?
No.
Oh, Jesus.
I think this one's for Carmella.
Hold on.
Oh, fuck.
It's not working.
Okay, never mind.
Hold on.
Wait.
We got.
Okay.
Send me asteroid.
What's up?
What's your body count?
Well, I think body count matters, so I don't share that.
Okay.
Fair enough.
Yep.
Do you guys want to guess?
Guess my body count.
Do you want to give me a range?
Nope.
How many girlfriends did you have?
Three?
I've had like four to five long-term girlfriends.
I want to see.
So it's at least five, I suppose you could.
14.
Okay.
Anybody?
Bueller?
Anybody?
I don't care.
Guess, just guess.
Nine.
It's going to be above 30.
Okay.
Five.
Okay.
A lot of turns.
Well, I can neither confirm or deny any of your guesses.
All right, guys.
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How did he do?
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New record.
New record.
So I was a bit salty tonight.
I don't know.
Just gets me frustrated.
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