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Feb. 5, 2023 - Whatever Podcast

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Dating Talk #51

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	Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
	I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
	I'm joined by my co-host Kiki over there.
	She's a bit shy.
	Guys, a few quick announcements before the show begins.
	This podcast is viewer supported.
	I make nearly nothing from ad revenue, and we just caught a six-month suspension from TikTok, from the TikTok Creator Fund.
	So please consider sending a super chat.
	All super chats will be displayed in Stream Overlay.
	Eric, you know, the mic battery is kind of fucking up.
	The what?
	The mic or the mouse battery, not a.
	All right, can you pull up the scuffed intro?
	Super chatted $100.
	Can we do a quick fit check before the show really begins?
	Jesus, you already said $100.
	He's already guys, and we're already having technical issues.
	Yo, Cheeks.
	Thank you for interrupting the intro.
	Appreciate it.
	Here's a thank you, man.
	I believe the Fit Check trigger.
	I don't know if I did I remove the Fit Check.
	Let me see.
	Hold on.
	Scuffed intro, boys.
	Eric, is the mic still messed?
	No, but you might want to look at this other screen.
	What the?
	the other screen's frozen by the way can you sorry guys scuffed pre-show uh is Is the frame rate okay?
	Is the FPS okay?
	Let's see if we can get it on the screen.
	Okay, gotcha.
	Yeah, maybe fit check in the bit.
	How about that, Cheeks?
	Okay, are you able to pull it up, Eric?
	You can't?
	No, but how are you?
	You want me to get up?
	Just drag it over so I can see it in this monitor.
	Can you drag?
	I can't.
	Okay, that's fine.
	That's fine.
	Well, welcome to the whatever podcast.
	Professionalism at its best.
	Guys, I will continue with my intro here.
	So all super chats will be displayed in Stream Overlay.
	I will read all super chats $20 and up.
	$69 and up triggers TTS text to speech.
	See all triggers in the description.
	We wanted to bump the TTS just a little bit just so that we can totally love it when you guys send through TTSs, but we want to just increase the flow of the show a little bit more.
	So we just boosted it a little bit.
	But yeah, guys, thank you to all our regular super chatters, by the way.
	Especially appreciate the major support recently from Zenti and Sflan Life Cheeks, of course, Dave on Jackson, and all the rest of you regulars.
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	By the way, really quick note on super chats: big shout out to Roma Army in the chat.
	We will get her on the show.
	I don't know if you guys know her.
	She's been doing social media for a while now.
	You've probably seen her viral clips either on TikTok or YouTube or Instagram.
	Her name's, I don't know if it's a stage name, but Chloe Roma.
	She's got the sick, awesome neck tattoo.
	You've probably seen her, but Chloe, thank you for all the support.
	Really appreciate it.
	And yeah, we're also live on Twitch.
	Sorry, not being able to pull it up threw me off.
	So guys, do me a favor right now.
	Pull up another tab.
	Go to twitch.tv/slash whatever.
	We also have a link for that in the description.
	Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.
	And any girls who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.
	If you're in Santa Barbara, I'm looking for a talent booker and a co-host.
	Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves while I try to address the technical issues.
	So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
	Go ahead.
	Hello.
	My name is Burke Baby XO on social media.
	Burke, if you want.
	And I am 26 years old and I do OnlyFans.
	Hi, I'm Sydney.
	I'm 25 and I am a strategy consultant.
	Wow, where?
	PWC.
	Okay.
	Christ Slaughterhouse Coopers.
	I know.
	I know PWC.
	I know Papa.
	Part of the big forum.
	You.
	My name is Tylo Sharley, and I am an actor and a model.
	And a what?
	A model.
	Model.
	Okay.
	My name is Rebecca Benedict.
	I'm 23, and I do social media.
	Okay.
	And my name is Hannah.
	I'm 27, and I'm a nurse.
	Well, there's more.
	Tell us the rest.
	I am contracted with the government right now, but I am a travel nurse for now.
	I'm trying to join the military as the first amputee.
	It's a long story.
	I've been working on it for about a year and a half.
	And all military, born and raised.
	So I've been working on that.
	But for now, just travel nursing.
	And are you comfortable sharing where you are a nurse at?
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	I work at the prison.
	Yeah.
	She's a nurse in the prison.
	So we'll talk about the few inmate stories to tell us.
	John.
	My name is Jonathan from ModernLifeDating.com.
	They call me MLD.
	I'm 37.
	I live in Tokyo.
	I'm a digital marketer and a YouTube personality.
	Rock and roll.
	Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
	Show them some love.
	Go give them a follow.
	We're going to go around the table once more here.
	So please tell us your current relationship status and your longest relationship.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	My current relationship status is very much single.
	And my longest relationship was four months, I think.
	I'm not a dater.
	Hold on just a second.
	$69.69.
	I will ask again.
	Fit check, please.
	And can we please let John aka MLD a little loose as well, Brian?
	Thanks.
	Shout out to Roma Army.
	She's a boss fella.
	Oh, is that?
	Okay, FYI, don't join the military as a vet myself.
	Don't do it.
	Nurse.
	Military got in so soft now.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Exactly.
	Guys, that's why she loves to join.
	Exactly.
	Yeah, the TTS.
	I don't know.
	Ever since we switched it to the British guy, it's been bugging out.
	So I'll have to, sometimes it stops midway through, so I'll try to do a British accent and do the rest of it.
	John, how's your British accent?
	Do you think you could fill in for me?
	Anything to keep the flow of the show going?
	Rock and roll.
	Continue with your.
	Single, longest relationship was four months.
	Four months only?
	Yeah.
	You know what it is?
	You're way too beautiful.
	That's what it is.
	Stop.
	I think that just messes with people's eggs.
	I think it's probably my very highest standards.
	Well, I mean, I get bored easily.
	That's bad.
	I know.
	I know.
	Wait, and remind me, how old are you?
	26.
	26.
	And your longest relationship was four months, you said?
	Yeah, and I've only had like three actual boyfriends, like three serious boyfriends in my life.
	So, yeah, wait, let me.
	Yeah, three.
	Three serious boyfriends, but none of them were longer than four months.
	Exactly, yep.
	Okay.
	Are you from California?
	No, I'm from Virginia.
	But you came here?
	Yes.
	Oh, wow.
	Like a year ago.
	Yep.
	You're probably one of the prettiest women in Virginia.
	Stop.
	Thank you.
	Virginia is what you've been out there?
	To Virginia?
	I live down there.
	Isn't there West Virginia?
	There's West Virginia.
	There's West Virginia.
	Norfolk.
	And then there's East.
	Is there an East Virginia?
	No, just Virginia.
	East Virginia.
	Maybe, probably.
	I have no idea.
	I was in Central Virginia.
	But I'm not going to say where my hometown is.
	If you know, you know.
	Okay, go ahead.
	What was the prompt?
	A relationship.
	Oh, I'm single.
	I'm so single.
	Longest relationship?
	And a year and a half.
	Okay.
	And you're how old are you?
	25.
	I'm currently single, but I am talking to someone.
	And.
	What?
	Okay, continue.
	My longest relationship is three and a half years.
	Okay, so you're single, but you're talking to someone.
	Yeah.
	But we're not like exclusive.
	How old are you?
	23.
	How long have you been talking to said man?
	Well, we connected on Bumble, actually, like a few months back, and then we disconnected, and then we reconnected recently, like a couple weeks ago.
	When you say disconnect, what do you mean?
	I kind of pulled back because I had some personal things going on, and then I couldn't stop thinking about him, so I messaged him again and was like, please, please talk to me again.
	I'm sorry.
	Good for you for being honest.
	Good for you for being honest.
	Did you actually say, please talk to me again?
	No, no.
	I just wasn't no.
	I just was like, hey, how are your holidays?
	And he was.
	Oh, God.
	He was nice and like responded.
	And, you know, we talked about it.
	Did you realize the streets were cold?
	You're like, no, I don't know.
	I want to go back.
	No, I just feel like, I don't know, I wasn't positive at first.
	We had some really good dates.
	And then I just really did have a lot going on with my family.
	And we got evacuated because of the flooding and everything.
	And it was just a lot.
	And then I was considering just ending it at that, but then I couldn't stop thinking about him.
	So I feel like if you can't get someone out of your head, you should do something about it.
	So I did.
	And I like it.
	It's going good so far.
	I like it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Single.
	Somewhat kind of same situation.
	Also, 23.
	Longest relationship?
	Two years.
	Yeah.
	Okay, longest two years.
	Okay.
	Go ahead.
	Is complicated an okay answer?
	No.
	Situationship?
	Situationship.
	Situations.
	Yeah, I am not sure.
	One of the inmates?
	No.
	Oh God.
	Tyrod.
	Solitary confinement.
	Tyrod himself.
	The longest relationship I was in was six years.
	Six years.
	I was married.
	How old do you know?
	27.
	Okay.
	And when did you get divorced?
	Two years ago.
	Okay, so you were married from, was it 19 to 2015 through 2021.
	So what age to what age?
	19 to 25.
	19 to 25.
	Okay.
	Who initiated the divorce?
	Well, it was kind of a bad situation, so we both did.
	Is that code for you?
	No, actually it was like not to get dark, but like it was just a bad situation.
	So yeah, but it just like got really bad.
	And so I moved home with my family and then started working right away and dated a guy that I've been with for a year and then like a year and a half.
	So it was really, really soon.
	And then got kind of, it started to get a little mundane and I realized I needed to step back to reevaluate my own career and my priorities, which is why I moved down here to just work and focus on my career.
	And we're still kind of figuring out what to do.
	So, yeah, that's why it's complicated.
	And you said, well, it's complicated.
	So you're not divorced yet?
	Oh, that was a long time ago.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so but how is it complicated now?
	With my new boyfriend.
	Oh, you haven't done that?
	I'm not sure what to call it.
	New boyfriend.
	But wait.
	Yeah.
	Because you just moved here to Santa Barbara.
	Yeah.
	And does he live in Santa Barbara?
	Nope.
	Oh, so this is from back in Spokane.
	And that's where you were previously as a travel nurse, correct?
	Don't date travel nurses, Jumbo, but go ahead.
	Well, I actually wasn't a travel nurse before.
	Okay, so you had been living there for a while.
	Yeah, yeah, yes.
	I mean, I wouldn't date someone just to be with you.
	Cheeks super chatted $69.69.
	Panel, except MLD.
	Define a high-value man and a high-value woman.
	MLD can then go ham after they finish their responses.
	Eric, star that.
	Cheeks, thank you so much for the $69.69 super chat.
	Much appreciated.
	We will come back to that once we get everyone done with their introductions.
	So you have a semi-sort of boyfriend?
	I kind of broke it off fromgether, but I feel like in order to figure that out, I need to live a little bit of life first.
	It's kind of where I'm at.
	So and when you say live a bit, when you say live a bit of life first, do you mean with other men?
	More focusing on my career, but I'm looking.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Because you're on dating apps, right?
	Yep.
	Like, so you're kind of out there mingling.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So I'm just going to do it.
	So him too, maybe.
	Him too, maybe.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	That's window shopping.
	All right, John, your current relationship status, longest relationship?
	I am in a relationship.
	Okay.
	My longest relationship was four and a half years, four and a half years.
	Currently with this one, two years.
	And that's in Japan.
	That is in Japan.
	In Tokyo.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	How much does someone have to super chat to get a phrase in Japanese?
	400 bucks.
	Wow.
	Oh, okay.
	He's expensive, ladies.
	Cool.
	So all of you are single, correct?
	Ish.
	None of you have an official boyfriend, let's say.
	No.
	Okay, but some of you are seeing someone, correct?
	Who's seeing someone?
	You, right?
	Yeah.
	And then you.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How long have you been seeing these new guys, let's say?
	I haven't.
	It's very new for me.
	You said a couple months and then it was a little bit different.
	Well, we went on three dates, and then I would say our second, like our reconnected first date, I guess, would be tonight after this.
	So okay.
	Gotcha.
	Yeah.
	So that's bring them on the podcast.
	Okay.
	And then what about you?
	How long have you been doing that?
	We've been homies for a while.
	Homies?
	Like, we've been friends for a while.
	And then as of recent, like, since November, what is that?
	Three months?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	We've been having fun.
	So who kind of you were just friends though, and then it became more.
	Who kind of initiated that step forward?
	Was it him or you?
	It was me.
	Okay.
	There you go.
	There you go.
	So the whole time you were friends, did he friend zone you?
	And you were always interested or just no, I was just like very strictly against dating.
	Very strictly against dating.
	So question for the two of you though.
	Despite the fact that you guys are currently seeing seeing guys, you're not official, so to speak, right?
	So are you also dating other people too?
	No.
	Good.
	So for me, I actually had dating apps for a while, I'd say like a year.
	And I've been not exclusive with anybody since my breakup in August because it was a really bad breakup.
	So I was like, I'm going to take a bit to just focus on me and have fun dating.
	Like I wasn't taking anything very seriously and I was really honest about anybody that I did go on a date with that it's like I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now.
	But then recently I just noticed that talking to people on dating apps and getting messages and stuff and swiping was really distracting and it's just not what I want to do right now.
	So I deleted them two days ago, three days ago so I can just focus on the person that I am talking to and my career.
	So that's good.
	That's amazing.
	No, I think when girls typically they date like one guy at a time, it's better for them if they're like dating multiple days.
	It kind of like you know scrambles them a little bit.
	100%.
	Yep.
	Something that's interesting about that is actually, so I've been in therapy and my therapist, because I have such an attachment issue with like, you know, I have feelings and I'm like, that's the one.
	He's the one.
	And my therapist actually recommended to do the opposite, which is why I did it for a bit.
	You know, dated multiple people.
	I kind of forced myself to try to learn that not to get that serious that fast in my brain, you know?
	And it helped me a lot.
	It's not for everyone, but it did help me with like getting too attached mentally to one person.
	Okay, and then you two are proper single.
	Yeah.
	Supposedly.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Are you currently like talking to any guys?
	No.
	Come on.
	What do you mean by what do you mean by talking?
	Like what does that entail?
	Intercourse, I guess.
	Like with one person?
	One specific, like, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	A baker's dozen?
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I actually, I feel like I have like a few people that I'll text here and there and like hang out with, but not really.
	Like not someone that I'm like consistently with?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	How are you meeting people?
	Through like mutual friends and like going going out, which I know, I already know that I don't know if that's like a bad thing, but like I'm just curious.
	I'm just curious.
	I'm just curious.
	Please.
	No, no, no, no.
	So like going out, yeah.
	Like I do like a lot of like Twitch things or like hanging out with like people and doing like photo shoots and stuff like that.
	So like I meet people through that, you know?
	That's awesome.
	Do you stream on Twitch?
	I do, yes.
	Oh, okay.
	Okay, okay.
	I've been sick for a week, so like haven't been streaming, but getting back into it on Thursday.
	I'm a streamer, too.
	Oh, awesome.
	Okay.
	Yeah, okay, cool.
	No, I'm not out to get you.
	Did you say that you do, when you introduce yourself, your occupation?
	You do OnlyFans, right?
	Yes, yeah.
	That's where I make my money.
	That's your primary source of income.
	Yeah, for sure.
	Okay, and do you do solo content, BG?
	What do you do?
	So I kind of just started getting into like more like corn.
	Okay, thank you.
	Appreciate that.
	Appreciate that.
	Of course, Twitch.
	So I just recently will be posting this pretty soon, but girl and girl content is what I'm mostly into right now.
	And then this would be a good time to mention the whatever OnlyFans.
	OnlyFans.com slash whatever.
	We actually have it, but I've been trying to convince Kiki over there to take some tasteful.
	Yeah, maybe a collaboration.
	Like we are looking at each other.
	I'm like, you trying to, are you collab?
	You are collab, Kiki?
	It's in the works.
	We'll talk after the show.
	Maybe the blue hair.
	I mean, what's the incestuous stuff is very popular on Sweet Home Alabama, baby.
	On Cornhub.
	Yeah, there we go.
	Little sister.
	Okay, all right.
	Ridiculous.
	Okay, that's.
	So, and how long have you been doing OnlyFans for?
	So I've been doing it.
	So I would say I've been the most successful for like a year, I would say.
	But I just kind of started recently posting like nude stuff in this past September.
	So before that, it was just like lingerie, like extra stuff, like whatever, if you wanted to see me.
	And now I'm like fully just, oh, sorry, fully just in it.
	Like fully doing the damn thing.
	You're doing it well.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	Do you have a manager or is it all you?
	I have someone that kind of helps me out and like suggests, makes suggestions on like what I should do in a sense.
	But like I have people that send me, they're like, you should recreate this.
	And I'm like, okay, bet.
	Write that down.
	I like that.
	Do you have a background in digital marketing or how do you get good at this?
	No, I do not.
	I literally, I've been, I've had Instagram since, I feel like I kind of got posted on like old row and like places like that.
	And when I was in college, and so that kind of like jump-started like my followers and stuff like that.
	And I was like, oh, I can actually do something with this.
	And so then I got into like Twitch, which prompted me.
	Like I was a project manager before any of this.
	Like was literally had a big girl job like sitting at a desk and I fully enjoy this.
	I'd love to do what I do.
	Like it's actually like really fun.
	Free.
	Yeah, literally.
	I'm my own boss, I guess.
	That's good.
	Yeah.
	How much do you make, if you're comfortable sharing, how much would you say you make per month?
	You can give a range if you want.
	Or per year?
	I don't really know.
	So it really varies.
	Like it really depends on the content that I put out that month.
	Because I do, sometimes I do like pay-per-view.
	Like if it's a video or something, it's definitely pay-per-view or like customs.
	But I would say like around the range of like 30 or 40,000.
	Per month?
	Yeah.
	Oh.
	Congrats.
	Thank you.
	That's good.
	Good living.
	A couple of girls are reconsidering their professional living.
	If you guys want to get into it and you guys are like, girls, let me know.
	Okay.
	And then Sydney, not about your OnlyFans, but not that you have one.
	She's PWC.
	Yes.
	What's that?
	PWC?
	Where she works.
	Oh, okay.
	Consultancy firm.
	Price Waterhouse.
	Okay.
	Got it.
	As far as being single, nobody.
	Nobody.
	No guys.
	I got out of a four-month situationship early December.
	And so I'm just kind of like Hinge two years ago.
	And then we both went to the same college.
	So we stayed following each other on Instagram.
	And then I got out of a relationship.
	And then he was doing a thing at the beach.
	So I like swung by just to say hi.
	And then kind of went from there.
	Yeah.
	I like it.
	Okay.
	Cool, cool, cool.
	Let me get these super chats.
	And actually, you know what, really quick, Eric?
	We have a dating profile review of Sydney.
	If you can pull up the images on the other monitor for us.
	I'm excited for this.
	Oh, gosh, me too.
	Okay.
	Let me know when you have it.
	Okay, cool.
	There's Hinge.
	No, zoom out.
	So that's your Hinge.
	Well, we didn't take much from your profile, but you have 50 plus pending likes.
	Yeah.
	Come on.
	You got to get a lot of people.
	But the thing is, I'm waiting, you see?
	Because if I'm not ready to date right now, then going through those just for an ego boost or just to see what's out there is like a waste because I'm not actually interested, right?
	It would just be to like chat.
	So like I'm just leaving it there.
	Maybe I'll go back to it.
	And then Eric, pull up the other ones.
	Is that an aura right now?
	Next one.
	It is.
	Okay.
	Something I learned way later than I should have.
	If you F around, you find out.
	So what did you, how did you F around?
	There are like a couple of situations, I guess.
	But I think the one that really made me find out is back when I was living in New York, I was dating like four people at the same time.
	And good times.
	One of them was a friend.
	And from the beginning, I was kind of like, hey, I'm like not that interested.
	But like, you know, we'll hang out or whatever.
	We'll stay friends.
	But just like, just like, you know, just so you know, like, don't catch feelings.
	And they said, yeah, like, of course, I got you.
	And then a little while passed and they got super pissed at me because I was with someone else, one of them, and it was like this whole thing.
	And then, you know, I found out that your actions have consequences.
	And ever since then, I've been more reserved, I guess, in my dating and just like doing more of the one-at-a-time thing.
	Can I have you tilt the microphone up slightly?
	Perfect.
	Thank you.
	That's so mature.
	Yeah.
	So you said there were consequences.
	What were the consequences?
	Well, it took a couple years for us to be friends again.
	Or like acquaintances again.
	Like me and this close friend, we were homies.
	And then because of this whole situation.
	People at the same time situation?
	Yeah.
	Oh, so he was upset.
	He was one of the four.
	But he was upset to learn that you were seeing the same thing.
	No, he kind of just knew from the beginning.
	I told him.
	But so you said the consequence was it took a while to I think the consequence was that the consequence of dating him was that you lost your friendship.
	The consequence of believing him when he said, yeah, of course, I got you.
	Like, I hear what you're saying.
	I was saying, hey, like, like, this is fun, but I'm not, like, interested in you that way.
	And, like, just like, be careful, don't catch feelings.
	I said that to him directly.
	Okay, so he wanted more.
	He said, yeah, I got you.
	Like, good, we're on the same page.
	And then I found out, like, a little bit later, you know, he got upset about it because I was seeing other people too.
	And I was like, wait, I thought we were on the same page.
	And he was like, well, I'm not.
	And then there was like a whole, you know, and then we weren't friends after that.
	He started to fall in love for you.
	Yeah.
	Poor guy.
	Were there any consequences of dating four people at the same time, though?
	From that?
	How was that working?
	Were you like sleeping with all four of them at the same time?
	Yeah.
	And for how long?
	A couple months?
	I don't know.
	And they all knew about it?
	They were all cool with it?
	I don't think they explicitly asked me.
	Oh, so you didn't tell them up front?
	No, no, no, no.
	I didn't tell them like, hey, I'm seeing you today, but Tony tomorrow and Brian on Wednesday.
	Yeah.
	Brian with an I or a Y. Fictional names.
	Okay, sure.
	So, but you weren't telling them, hey, I'm seeing a guy tomorrow, but did you ever tell them, hey, I'm dating other people?
	I don't think it ever got serious enough where they wondered or like it became an issue, except for with my friend.
	Gotcha.
	So, and at any other point in time, had you ever dated multiple people at the same time?
	More than four, for example?
	Never more than four.
	I found that four was the max.
	It was, yeah, it was hard to keep track.
	You start telling the same stories and then you start forgetting who you told what to.
	Names.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	And then you're like, oh, I saw you last Tuesday.
	You didn't see him last Tuesday.
	It's just like, you know.
	Okay, I want to go around the table on this.
	If all of you can answer this.
	So what is the most amount of people that you've seen at a time concurrently?
	So she said four.
	What about you?
	Oh, God.
	I actually don't know.
	I feel like consistently, like, hanging out with multiple people multiple times, I would say maybe like two at a time.
	Like, I don't date people, like a lot of people at once.
	Like, if I'm hanging out with one person, I'm just strictly on them.
	Okay.
	But then if I start getting bored, I'm like, meh, go to somebody else.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I'm kind of the same way.
	Like, I, like I mentioned earlier, I did have a time where I was going on a lot of first dates and I didn't feel that spark.
	So I went on a lot of first dates and just didn't continue.
	But when I care about somebody enough to want to continue, like go on a second and third one, then that's the only person I'm interested in seeing.
	I like it.
	Like one person at a time.
	Yeah, I mean, primarily my whole life has always been one person at a time.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And one as well.
	Okay.
	But I will say it's the same with it's like that gray area when you're trying to transition and you're trying to like kind of feel out what you even like.
	Like it's out there.
	Yeah, but then I feel like it's a it's a almost a disservice to even be looking when that other person has is like all for it, you know?
	And it's just a really awkward, and I'm so hesitant.
	Like, I'm very hesitant with relationships.
	And like, obviously, after what happened, like, I think there's a reason for that.
	But one at a time.
	And even then, I'm like, eee, I don't know.
	Sure.
	All right, let's get these super chats.
	Eric, what?
	What was your longest relationship again?
	Like a year and a half, maybe a little over a year and a half.
	Year and a half.
	Okay, okay.
	Yeah.
	Temperature-wise, are you guys okay?
	Or is it getting a little chilly?
	You guys okay?
	I'm chilling.
	I'm chilly.
	I'm chilling.
	Eric, go ahead and close the door.
	You're definitely chilly.
	Come on.
	Of course you're chilly.
	You're wearing like a tissue.
	It's really a tissue.
	How did you know?
	It's the best tissue I've seen all day.
	Eric, can you bring me a different pen?
	This one's busted.
	I noticed how these girls are so nice today, but they're also also really, very pretty.
	Oh.
	I have a theory that the prettier a girl is, the nicer she is.
	Well, there you go.
	There's a girl on the show on Sunday who is a very angry person.
	I feel like also maybe personality makes someone prettier.
	Like if someone's nice, it can make someone more pretty or like more attractive.
	If I meet a guy and he's not someone that I would like look twice at kind of like looks-wise, and I get to know their personality, I'm like, you're really hot.
	Like I wanna.
	So I feel like it can change.
	Eric, can you pull that back up again?
	I just wanted to wrap up on the social media or the dating app thing real quick.
	So this is Sydney's, oh wait.
	Did we get the wrong one?
	Oh, no, this is it.
	This is Sydney's bumble.
	If you note there, you have five over, it's probably even more because maybe it caps at 5,250 pending matches.
	You're very popular, Sydney.
	Wait, is that your name?
	Am I saying?
	That's your name.
	Sydney.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I don't know.
	I feel like that's almost fake.
	I feel like that number goes up like artificially.
	And it, I mean, I think it stays, like, the location stays on.
	So it's probably from like everywhere I've traveled.
	Yeah.
	Those dating apps aren't some fuck shit.
	Yeah, I also like it.
	I want you to click it and like pay to see who likes you.
	And I'm like, did I actually get that money?
	Fuck you, Whitney.
	All right, let me get these super chats here.
	Guys, I will read and answer super chats $20 and up.
	And $69 and up triggers TTS.
	We just needed to boost it just to wanted to keep the flow of the show.
	What's up?
	Oh, Twitch.
	Thank you, man.
	Yo, thank you to Dangle for the prime.
	Tarsa, thank you for the follow.
	Timmy, thank you for the follow.
	Dirk, thank you for the follow.
	C-Brum, thank you for the follow.
	Thank you.
	Appreciate it.
	All right.
	Get your super chats in, guys.
	So, oh, this is just Andrew Tate.
	I'm flying the Asian girl to Romania for a conjugal visit.
	Pack your bags.
	There's two Asian women at the table, so I'm not sure which one he's.
	He heard about PWC.
	He wants some of that.
	Yeah.
	Andrew Tate wants to fly you to Romania for a conjugal.
	Do you accept his invitation?
	I'll have to see the terms and conditions, actually, in fine prints.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	C'est moi, se go.
	C'itois, alizi.
	Vit, vit, vit, vit.
	I'm a hush-hush on that one.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Oh, we have this from Logan Paul.
	John would do well in Los Angeles just being some rich gay dude's boy toy.
	What?
	Oh, okay, yo.
	Oh, Logan Paul.
	You're the weird guy, man.
	He's a scammer.
	He is.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Yo, Roma, thank you for the Canadian $28.
	Appreciate it.
	I'm beyond excited to be here along with our MRA community.
	I'm about to drop 1K on this stream, so I'm very excited.
	Hey, Roma, thank you so much for the support.
	Really appreciate it.
	Yeah, like I said, guys, she's got a great channel.
	She's an advocate for men.
	So check her out.
	We will be trying to get her on the show one day, and that would be quite the auspicious occasion.
	Did I use that word right?
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	Yo, Glenn, thank you for the membership, man.
	Appreciate it.
	Roma Army, appreciate this channel's hard work.
	It's not easy calling out the mainstream narrative.
	Hey, thank you for the big Canadian $140.
	Appreciate it, Chloe.
	Thank you.
	Subsequent $140.
	Okay, we got another one.
	And she did this all before the stream even started.
	So, Chloe, thank you.
	Really appreciate it.
	I'll be back in a bit.
	And then 69.
	Oh, okay.
	There you go.
	I think that might have attempted to come through as a TTS.
	We have the fit check.
	Do we.
	Yeah, why not?
	Let's do it.
	All right, a little quick fit check if you guys want to stand up right quick.
	They want to see your outfits, you know, if it's Prada, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, you know.
	The tissue paper story.
	Oh, okay.
	I got like a little instruction.
	Yeah, let's do a little.
	If everyone wants to do a little stand, a little stand.
	Do you eat carbs?
	I feel like you don't.
	I'm gluten-free.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Not by choice, though.
	Scoot that way just to do it.
	Thank you.
	I appreciate it though.
	Maybe here, scoot in.
	Yeah.
	I like that.
	Beaten cheeks.
	What are you making me do here?
	Maybe I think we need a little spin, perhaps.
	Yeah, so let's start with you.
	You can spin first there.
	Do a little 360.
	Yeah.
	I have my little oh, wait.
	Yep, looking good.
	Dural 360.
	Oh, yeah.
	Sexy.
	Okay.
	Woo!
	All right.
	Come on, PBC.
	Wow, okay.
	Sexy.
	Sexy, sexy.
	All right.
	I got this sweater like the other day.
	And then these are from Social Tourists.
	Oh, you're in front of the chair.
	They can't see.
	The leggings are from Social Tourists, and I'm obsessed with them.
	And they flare at the bottom.
	So sexy, sexy, sexy, sexy.
	Very good, very good.
	All right, Rebecca, right?
	All right, Rebecca.
	They've all left.
	Okay.
	Wait, go ahead.
	Where's that from?
	Zapple.
	Zaffle.
	Oh, looks sexy.
	Looking good.
	And then good old t-shirt dress.
	G.I. Jane, go ahead.
	T-shirt dress.
	And then you got a good figure.
	can you scoot that way just a tad so they see oh yes you're matching what's we and we got to talk about and the what's it called Oh, the prosthetic?
	The prosthetic, yes.
	So and then how that has potentially impacted dating.
	I'm sure to some degree there's some.
	That's a great question, actually.
	Should I sit back down?
	Yeah, can everybody sit back down, guys?
	Yeah.
	Come on, over.
	Yes! That's awesome!
	Perfect.
	The bladder size is.
	Okay, so let me do the soup chats while let's see.
	Yo, Roma, thank you for the $69 soup chat.
	Appreciate it.
	Yo, Zorce Lost.
	It's predicted by 2030, 50% of women will be single, childless.
	You can come.
	Let's be real.
	Your biological bio clock is not on your side.
	What's one thing man slash woman can improve on to attract the mate they want?
	Sure, go ahead.
	Oh.
	Number one thing a man or woman can improve to attract the mate they want.
	Themselves to be the person that they want to be because you have all these ideas about your partner and who you want them to be.
	But like when you imagine that person and who that person wants, are you that person?
	Because if you're not, then you got to wait to go right.
	So cool.
	Yourself.
	Cool.
	Cool.
	Can you repeat the question, please?
	What?
	Do you know it?
	Yes.
	I'm just preempting this TTS that's coming in.
	Let's see here.
	We have.
	What's one thing man slash woman can improve?
	Oh, hold on.
	Yeah, that's what I was preempting.
	The Tin Cheeks super chatted $69.69.
	Jesus Christo, I regret the fit check, except the nurse.
	Looking great.
	I am going back to Columbia for my three wives with the thick.
	FYI know I am not religious to answer from the other night.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, cheeks.
	There you go.
	Thank you for the $69.69.
	Let's continue on with the.
	So one thing man, woman can improve on to attract the mate they want.
	Go ahead.
	Did you go already?
	Our turn.
	Yeah, it's your turn.
	Go ahead.
	I would say being secure within yourself, at least in my opinion.
	Because the best relationships are when both people in it are very secure with who they are personally.
	Go ahead.
	Well, much agree.
	I mean, biologically speaking, you could just find a donor and find the mate that you want for a kid.
	But I guess emotionally speaking, 100%.
	Also, if you're not looking, a lot of people put pressure on it, put out a personality that's obviously not who they are.
	And then the other person perceives that later on in life, they run into issues.
	So I'm not even looking kind of works.
	Are you responding to the single and childless bit?
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	I just feel like, I mean, when they say they're relating it back to the biological clock.
	Okay.
	Because I mean, statistically, you lose your eggs when you need to hit 30.
	So, I mean, if you're trying to hit that standpoint, just get a donor.
	Get a donor.
	Okay.
	As far as the biological thing goes, I mean, this is 2023.
	Women are not having kids like they used to anymore.
	So it's really up to you if you want kids.
	But as far as attracting the mate you want, I think it's really important to just get really just down to the point of what you're looking for.
	I think a lot of dating dances around the issues in your life and the baggage that you might have.
	And if people don't address those issues, then that's a waste of time.
	And you date, and then, oh, there's baggage.
	Sorry, I didn't talk about that before.
	And then it ends.
	And then you're from square one all over again.
	So yeah, being really confident in yourself first and foremost.
	But then you also need to know how to talk about the deep shit.
	Sorry.
	Oh, it's fine.
	So bad.
	So bad.
	So bad shit.
	Yeah.
	Can I have you all just scoot that way just a bit so we don't have you being cut off and framed there?
	I know after the fit check, we kind of got our positions a little mixed up.
	John, do you want to answer this question?
	One thing man, woman can improve to attract the mate they want.
	Oh, man.
	Yeah, I think I would have to agree with her.
	She said, being secure with yourself.
	Like, just knowing who you are and what you want.
	Because a lot of people don't stop to think about what they want in life.
	They're just go, go, go, go.
	They're blinding themselves with Netflix or whatever cheap dopamine hit there is out there.
	And, you know, I think when you stop and think about who you are, what you want to do with your life, it gives you clarity to be like, okay, this girl, she's hot, but she also goes drinking like every night of the week.
	So, like, I don't want that for a long-term relationship.
	So, I think a lot of people just, I don't know, to be honest with you, dudes in America are so thirsty.
	It's bad.
	They make me look bad.
	They're so thirsty.
	Like, women just by default think I'm a fucking Sampthirst.
	Like, if I'm just nice to her girl, she's like, yeah, you better be.
	You know, I am a fucking goddess, you know.
	And it's just, it's a lot.
	It's a lot right there.
	No, it is.
	Have you guys been to Miami?
	Have you been to Miami?
	I haven't.
	No.
	So I was just in Miami, too.
	I've been on a tour.
	So I've been going to Miami, going to Dallas, and seeing different things.
	And there's good girls.
	There's good girls for sure, but good girls get scooped up off this market quickly.
	Like, you know, good girls don't stay single for long.
	As I've been single for 10 years.
	It doesn't mean.
	No, no, hold on.
	It doesn't mean that you're a bad person or anything.
	It means that women with high relationship value get scooped up quickly.
	Yeah, that's true.
	I'm not looking for one.
	I don't want a really scoop.
	No, and it's going to take a special guy to date you because you're an extremely high-income earner and you're extremely beautiful and you're like not mainstream oriented.
	Like I need a nine-to-five job.
	You're like, fuck it, I'm hot.
	I'm fucking going to get on OnlyFans.
	No, I have to find a guy that is okay with that.
	Yes.
	And that will help me with it.
	You have to find a guy who's very secure.
	Or a woman.
	Would you date a girl who does OnlyFans?
	For guys, it's this.
	It's like, we got to know what we're getting into from the get-go.
	Because sometimes girls will lie to you at the beginning of a relationship.
	True.
	And then you find out later, you're like, you fucking bitch.
	Like, you lied to me.
	Like, I thought you were this.
	And you're actually that.
	And then some kind of resentment builds up.
	But if she's like from day one, I met a girl, right?
	She's gorgeous.
	And she was like, yeah, I kind of had this hoe thing.
	And the last guy I dated didn't like that.
	And she was just very open about it on the first date.
	And then, so I was like, yeah, okay.
	Like, you know, it's fine.
	You know, she was honest from that get-go.
	So now when I interact with her and we, you know, link up and hang out or whatever, I see her and I'm just like, yeah, the girl is just kind of enjoying herself right now.
	But it's when a false pretense is set.
	For guys or girls, it's not cool.
	You know what I mean?
	I agree.
	Yeah.
	I completely agree with that.
	So I think if more people were just like secure themselves, if they're more secure themselves, they could be more honest.
	They'd be more honest.
	They could have more healthy relationships.
	That's my thing.
	Because I've done like the man-ho-hand thing and everything.
	And honestly, I'm so fucking tired of it.
	If I see, if a girl's like doing her thing and like, you know, in her ho-phase, whatever, that's fine.
	But I see that, I'm like, oh, like, I just like have a repulsion to it at this point in my life.
	I'm just looking to, you know, I think guys are best.
	And I think long-term, people are better in relationships than they are outside of them, in my opinion.
	Rock and roll.
	All right, let's continue here with the super chats.
	Roma Army, thank you for the 28 Canadian dollars.
	Appreciate it.
	Thanks for the love.
	Yeah, really appreciate all the support tonight, Chloe.
	Really appreciate it.
	We have Cheeks here.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah.
	This one came in as a TTS.
	Thank you, man.
	This was another TTS.
	Cheeks, thank you for all the this one.
	Oh, the high-value man thing.
	Panel, define a high-value man and a high-value woman.
	Okay, we'll start with you.
	Go ahead.
	Oh, what a tough question, though.
	I feel like it's situational between like what you personally deem as a high value like characteristic within a person.
	So like for me, I would say a high value man or woman is someone that is like understanding, they're patient, they're good at communicating, they're direct, they know how to like talk about their feelings, they're in tune with their emotions.
	And like I would say that that's like, there's just so many different things that kind of go into it.
	Like I wouldn't be able to just like be like, oh, that guy's a high value man.
	Like I have to get to know them and stuff like that.
	And for me also, it's someone that has a good relationship with their family.
	It just really is very situational, I would say.
	And like high value woman, I think it's the same thing as whatever you are looking for, what you deem as high value.
	I think, I don't know.
	I just think that someone that like knows who they are and they're confident and like their morals are there, that's a high value person.
	I agree.
	I think it depends per person because everyone's values are different.
	I also think it can be gamified if you write a list down of every attribute that you value and then you assign a score from high to low, then, you know, according to your own standards, you can rate someone higher value versus lower value.
	That is so like consultancy of you.
	A nice little spreadsheet.
	You can check it and calculate a score for the person.
	And at the end of the day, though, it does also come down to chemistry.
	Sure.
	Yeah.
	Go ahead.
	I agree that it really does depend on who because I've heard from different friends and people that they value different things more than maybe others.
	But for me personally, I would say definitely someone good at communication.
	Patience is huge to me.
	Attraction is really important, of course.
	That's your partner that you're trying to spend your life with.
	And intelligence, I really value.
	A sense of humor.
	Somebody that knows what they want in life.
	Has a trajectory that they're going for.
	And for me, wants a family someday is really important to me.
	How many kids do you want?
	Like a smile.
	Five.
	Wow.
	I want a big family.
	Do you come from a big family?
	No, that's why I want one, kind of, because I only have like my one brother and then I have another older one that I don't really know because he's a half brother and I would love to have a big family.
	Yeah.
	I'm huge on Christmas.
	Yeah, my mom had a lot of siblings.
	Correlated to me.
	Correlated to me.
	I am huge on Christmas.
	Go ahead.
	Contextual about where I am in life, but essentially the same about morals, goals, whether or not they've coped with their own past, how like mentally mature they are.
	There's so many different things that I could list off.
	Basically everything else said.
	Yeah, there's a lot.
	So much.
	Long ways.
	I have nothing to add except maybe it sounds so simple, but besides emotional intelligence, just you really do have to like the same things because you're going to gravitate towards those things that you like.
	And if your significant other says they like it, but then actually doesn't do it, then you're not going to go, you're not going to get along in agreement.
	Agreed.
	Yeah.
	And then I think he wanted your take on what makes a high-value man or a high-value woman.
	A high-value man is very simple.
	You know, it's what I always say.
	Money, muscles, game, and then frame.
	You know, you got to have your money right.
	You got to have your muscles right, which is don't be fat basically because it's just not good for you any way you try to paint it.
	You know, learn game.
	Just make sure you get to understand which girls are going to be good for you, which girls are going to be bad for you.
	And then hold frame, which is basically, you know, having self-esteem, having boundaries, and enforcing those boundaries.
	And you enforce those boundaries by just backing out of situations that don't align with your beliefs.
	That's basically it.
	For the women, I just, I don't know.
	For me, I'm old school.
	I like women who are modest, demure, you know, like reserved.
	Like, for me personally, I'm extrovert, so I like girls that are introverted.
	I like girls that like to stay at home and like watch Home Alone 2 on Christmas and bake cookies.
	Specifically.
	They don't want Home Albert 2.
	If they don't watch Home Alone 2, it's going to be a problem.
	For real.
	I'm not going to have the stores going down.
	I'm not going to have some Christmas Christmas greats sitting around the house during the holidays.
	Like, I don't want to watch Home Alone 2.
	Like, go outside.
	Yo, Frankie Kay, thanks for the $20 soup chat.
	Men are fleeing the West in droves to seek love internationally.
	Before Brian or MLD tells you why, I'd like to hear the panel's opinion on why they think so many Western men are exiting their local dating pools to find women.
	If you guys have an opinion on that, you're welcome to answer.
	Frankly, though, I think women don't really care.
	Like, they don't care that men are leaving, but go ahead.
	I mean, I understand that, though, because when I was living in my hometown, I had lived there for so long and I literally feel like I knew everybody.
	And I was like, I don't want anyone that's like around here because I never want, I don't want to live here.
	So, like, if someone is like, wants to move out and like doesn't want to be tied down locally, then why would they look for love like locally or look for someone that is like traveling as well?
	But I mean, I don't even know where I'm going with this.
	Let me maybe frame it from also the point of view of a lot of men are dissatisfied with Western women and they want to go to either, for example, South America or Asia.
	Okay, go.
	Go.
	Less work for us.
	Like, honestly, like, meeting through the people at leave, go.
	Like, that doesn't affect me or anybody else.
	Honestly, I think it's dumb.
	And yeah, you're right.
	I don't think women care.
	I think it's dumb.
	Like, sure, you want to go do something, be somewhere exotic because change is good and must be more exciting.
	I feel like it's like grass is always greener on the other side mentality, personally.
	Yeah.
	No, I think it's a lot of fun.
	A lot of my friends are very into that.
	They're like very passport pros.
	Yeah, that.
	Well, a lot of my friends are also very red pill.
	And they.
	Oh, we should get them on.
	Send them to the show.
	We'll have them.
	Well, they're a bunch of dudes.
	I don't know if you want them out here.
	No, we bring guys on too.
	Okay.
	Continue going.
	We'll have the crew out.
	Japan specifically and just the traditions in which the women are idolized.
	I'm not idolized, but placed.
	And that's how a lot of.
	Yeah, they're like wives.
	The traditional, like, you know, submissive, subservient.
	And that's totally fine.
	But I think the reason is because Western women, at least myself, like, that's not what I'm going to be.
	And, you know, a lot of times when I'm dating someone, they have a hard time wrapping their mind around the fact that I'm in the more high-powered career.
	I have more money or like more control, more power.
	Really quick, just how much do you earn, if you don't mind sharing?
	You can give a range.
	Six figures?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Mid-six figures.
	Wait, mid-six figures?
	Right?
	Mid-six figures.
	Yeah, seven is a million.
	Yeah.
	So you're like doing 400, 500K?
	A little lower than that.
	And wait, hold on.
	How old are you again?
	25.
	25?
	And you remind me what you do again because I have a strategy consultant.
	Strategy consultant.
	You have your bachelor's, master's.
	I have my bachelor's.
	In what?
	I have a bachelor's in nursing and a bachelor's in economics.
	Okay.
	And is that usually the norm for your own?
	Wow.
	I have friends who went into finance or banking who make double what I make at my age.
	Really?
	So, yeah.
	You're in LA, correct?
	Yes.
	I work remotely, though.
	I started in New York.
	My office is in New York.
	What's your ethnic background?
	I'm Chinese.
	What about you?
	Chinese.
	Oh, China.
	Gotcha.
	The work ethic is.
	So it's hard.
	Oh, you put yourself in a corner because you're young, you're beautiful, and you make a shitload of money.
	Like the dating pool you just reduced yourself to is like this big.
	We actually did, there's like this online thing.
	Oh, delusional.
	Did you do it?
	We did.
	We did the delusion calculation.
	Let's just do it.
	Female delusion calculator.
	I don't remember 100%.
	Oh, God.
	It's pretty funny.
	It's data.
	They use United States Census data.
	So you put in, like, what kind of guy will you date?
	White, black, you know, Asian, doesn't matter.
	And then how tall is he?
	How much does he make?
	Yeah.
	Right here.
	So, let's do it for all the girls.
	Why not?
	Okay, so age?
	I did.
	Like dating?
	Your ideal mate you want to settle down with.
	Okay, I would say older than 20, definitely.
	So like.
	So you're 26, so at least 27, right?
	Let's try it.
	Like, I also, like, I've dated younger dudes before, also, because I like to, I don't know, I like to have a little bit of power.
	Seriously.
	Seriously, date.
	Seriously, date.
	Let's say, like, 24.
	Yo, Flannel, thank you for the 10 gifts.
	Like, I wouldn't see someone.
	If I met someone and I really liked them and they were 23, I wouldn't be like, okay, what's the oldest?
	What's the oldest?
	Maximum?
	Let's do like 40.
	We can keep it at 40.
	That's good.
	Okay.
	Exclude married.
	Do what?
	Exclude married, yes or no?
	Are you willing to date the married guy?
	Oh, yeah.
	If the wife knows about it, if it's like an open relationship type situation, yeah, down.
	It's less work for me.
	John, would you think it assumes infidelity if we click exclude or don't click exclude married?
	I feel like you got to click exclude married because that's going to be tough.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Oh, you know what she's going to say?
	Any race?
	Race.
	Yeah, any minimum height.
	How about that?
	So I would say just about my height.
	I'm 5'6.
	Okay, so like I would say like seven five.
	Yeah.
	Because I don't really, I also have data to do that shorter than me.
	Like one of my ex-boyfriends is shorter than me.
	So 5'7?
	Yeah, we can say 5'7.
	Exclude obese, yes or no?
	Exclude obese people.
	Yeah.
	Clinically obese.
	Yeah.
	Because I like having someone that cares about their body and stuff like that.
	Minimum income.
	I honestly haven't really thought about that.
	I don't know.
	I don't want to be taking care of them financially.
	But.
	Ooh, I don't know.
	I don't know.
	100K, 80K.
	You can leave it at 80K.
	That's fine.
	80.
	8K?
	Okay.
	I don't know.
	All right.
	I don't really.
	I haven't really thought about that, honestly.
	All right.
	So that's 3.2.
	That's what I'm saying.
	You're screwed.
	But the thing is, so the thing is, you've done that.
	No, it's just that, like, I, and let me just say this because I feel like a lot of people are like, oh, she could be single forever.
	Like, I'm completely okay with that.
	I don't give a fuck.
	If I can find someone that can make me happier than I can make myself, dope.
	But like, at the end of the day, I don't give myself stress unless I have like intrusive thoughts.
	Everybody has those.
	But like, I am so happy being by myself that like until I find someone that doesn't bring me stress, doesn't bring me anxiety, doesn't bring me judgment, nothing like that, then I'm fine being single.
	I don't care.
	Like, I actually will be that old aunt that's like the fun aunt is like the single aunt.
	Like I don't care about that.
	Like I genuinely love that because I have a lot of people that care about me in my life.
	So you don't you if you never got married and didn't have kids you'd be okay.
	I don't want to be married.
	Actually, I don't want to get married ever okay, or have kids ever okay okay, I don't know.
	I just asked, oh yeah, cat food.
	Okay um, let's continue with the.
	Uh yeah, you can do this.
	Go ahead Eric, pull it back up.
	You look like you got high standards okay yeah, hold on, I'm gonna be really honest.
	Let's try to move through this quick guys.
	So if you can give me quick answers.
	Adrian, 24 to 35, exclude.
	Exclude married, yeah okay, you can click white.
	Just, I'm just being honest.
	Yeah, you don't date Asian guys.
	No, I have, I have in the past.
	But if we're saying for, like like ideal preference, ideal preference for husband yeah, because of the kids, or just you prefer dating one man yeah, okay.
	Yeah, personal preference, okay, all right sure, uh.
	Minimum height, six one, six one.
	How tall are you?
	Five five five, five.
	Okay, you go for like the Ferrari of a girl, all right.
	Exclude obese, yes.
	Minimum income, 200.
	Okay, we've done this before.
	I know what it's kind of right now, that's 0.028 percent of less than that, less than one percent.
	Um oh, hold on right, all right, there's a cat cat bag for you, all right, gonna have some cats okay.
	Uh let's, do you go ahead?
	Okay, go ahead, pull it back up, Eric.
	New search.
	Age range, I would say 23 to 34 for me, okay.
	Exclude married, yes, definitely race any, okay, I'm not picky about that.
	Minimum height, five, seven.
	How tall are you?
	Five four, okay.
	Exclude obese, yeah, because I like to, you know, make healthy food with partner and go to the gym and stuff.
	Minimum income, I'd say 80k okay, sexy.
	All right, 3.2 percent of men in that age range cool cool, cool.
	We'll do Miss Red Pill, Miss Red Pills And Release 25 to no.
	No no no yes, 24 to 35 24 35, any race minimum height, 5'9.
	How tall are you?
	5'5?
	Okay, exclude obesity, and then I think that thing goes up to max 500,000.
	No yep yeah, there is 500k minimum.
	You're, you're quite generous on height, but the okay anyways, go ahead Eric, so what's 0.035?
	So what do you need to buy that?
	He has to make 500.
	Me needing to buy anything is that I want them to be able to match like if I want to go travel somewhere.
	I don't.
	Want them to be able to like.
	Okay yeah, I can do that too, and it's also about the whole like, are you an influencer or something?
	Are you okay?
	What do you do?
	Uh, all of it, almost every platform, only fans.
	You do, only fans.
	Are you twitching?
	You get twitch store too, or I used to.
	Oh okay yeah, what kind of content do you do on OnlyFans cooking videos?
	No, I do so.
	Primarily, I'm a fitness influencer, so I do a lot of fitness cool, and then I also do a lot of bikini brand deals, so anything that doesn't get put on Instagram all goes to OF.
	It's just extra content to me, so don't anyone expect anything of anything of that sort.
	People who go on there like I was disappointed, I'm like oh, I'm sorry, so that's what people used to do.
	It's like how, like Cardi B, like she posts all her BTS of your music videos on there.
	Okay, it's very similar.
	All right, I think we might have a TTS coming up here, so I just want to preempt before we have Hannah.
	Give her Sorry, that little comment thing.
	I have a lot to say about that.
	Which one?
	Which one?
	The one that said Stephanie.
	No, talking about how marriage, like if you don't want to be married and childless before 35, you hit a wall.
	I've been like this since I was 21 years old.
	So I've been like this literally since I was in college.
	Haram!
	Okay.
	Absolutely haram.
	I don't know if that TTS has come through, but it's strange.
	Well, let's do it for him.
	I'll try it.
	Okay, so 28 to 34.
	And then white is preference.
	Minimum, I guess, six, six foot.
	I'm five, nine.
	You're five nine.
	It depends on the.
	You're the tallest girl.
	If I had two missing legs, I could be as tall as I want.
	Minimum income, and I'll say 100K.
	100K.
	I'm simple.
	Yeah.
	0.26% of the cat enthusiast.
	I'm Hannah.
	I'm sorry, but there's some cat food for you there.
	All right.
	Oh my God.
	I thought that you were showing that because it was like irresistible, and I just got that it was singular.
	Okay, okay, irresistible.
	That's all nice.
	But I got it.
	All right, got it.
	So you want a guy who makes over 500K.
	The max on there is 500K, but you want a guy who makes more than 50k.
	Yeah.
	How much do you make, if you don't mind me asking?
	You can say.
	Range.
	Up to you.
	Don't feel pressured.
	Or feel pressured.
	You can feel pressured a little bit.
	Seven figures.
	Okay, that's fine.
	Seven figures.
	Okay.
	Wow, congrats.
	And you are, how old again?
	23.
	Wow, congrats.
	Well, you're not liar in your own right.
	It is interesting that I think as a woman's income increases, it does tend to shrink her dating pool, whereas a man's income increases, it increases the size of his dating pool.
	Interesting.
	Yeah.
	If I want to buy money, it's totally an ego thing.
	An ego thing.
	What do you mean?
	Yeah, like men have a hard time sometimes being with someone if she's paying for more or doing more things, you know?
	The Tin Cheeks super chatted $69.69.
	Guys, do not sub to any only F. Like MLD says, work on your frame after making the money and muscles.
	Obviously, game.
	Okay.
	Cheeks.
	Thank you for the $69.69 Super Chat Roma.
	Sorry that for some reason the TTS might have just not come through there on your last one.
	I don't know.
	Sometimes the TTS bugs out.
	I will be sure to read it though.
	So you were saying it's an ego thing for men to what?
	To be with a woman who's making a significant amount more than them.
	What?
	So they have an issue dating a woman who makes a lot of money?
	Yeah, and it might not bug them at first or like it peeks through in different ways.
	I agree.
	Or you can't match the lifestyle.
	Like if I'm going to pay for my boyfriend's vacation and they can't pay me back for it, you can view it as a favor or you got to wrap it up like it's a Christmas gift or whatever.
	But it hurts the ego because more traditional men, especially the ones who are going to Japan or China or wherever, they want to be the ones to feel like they're the caretakers.
	But I always like to say that there's a lot of ways that you can care for your significant other or a family.
	And it's not just money.
	But unfortunately, a lot of times it just feels that way.
	Eric, pull up Rome as a really quick.
	I'll just treat it.
	Where's a hotshot like you going on vacations?
	I'll get to it in a bit, Eric.
	They're targeting.
	We'll come back to that really quick.
	Roma's Mancave Highlights 69.
	Thank you.
	To blue-haired girl, if you're this old with no successful relationships, can you really call yourself high value?
	Or do you think you're the red flag?
	So I know that I'm the red flag.
	I know that.
	Like, we, I would say, I know I'm definitely the red flag, but like, I, I, let me change my answer from earlier.
	I would say that I do have very high standards, but I also, like, need to find someone that can handle me because I'm not going to change for anybody.
	Like, I love who I am and the people that know me personally.
	Like, people on, like, social media and stuff don't know who I actually am.
	You know what I mean?
	In a sense, besides, like, my Twitch followers and stuff like that.
	But, like, I don't know.
	I just think that, oh my God, I always lose my train of thought.
	I don't even know where I was going with that.
	Do you want to say anything to Roma, to Chloe?
	She called you, she called you Wolf.
	So, yeah, well, that's honestly, that's fine too.
	Whatever.
	That doesn't really bother me that much.
	But I would say, honestly, very good question because call me out.
	Like, please call me out because I'm definitely a red flag.
	I'm a walking red flag for sure.
	But like, I embrace it.
	And I let people know about it before I see people or date people.
	I'm like, I don't, or not date people, but like, I'm like, I don't date people and I get bored very easily.
	I let people know right away.
	The board is a red flag.
	The board is a red flag.
	So to bring it back to what you said, you said it was an ego issue for men that don't want to date women who make more.
	And it's mostly a male issue, correct?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	Did you want to elaborate more on that?
	I do have a response, but I wanted to let you finish.
	No.
	Okay.
	Well, I actually think it's, if a woman's a high earner, it's typically an issue on the woman's side.
	Okay.
	In terms of not wanting to date a guy who makes less.
	No.
	I just want to say that.
	No.
	But you just said that you want a guy who makes.
	Why did the majority of your relationships not work out?
	Well, the first one, we can go through all of them.
	Let's do it.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	So the first one was in college and it was really passionate.
	Alvin Sam super chatted $70.
	It's not the ego.
	It's more like she's combative, argumentative, masculine, disagreeable, and difficult to deal with.
	She doesn't bring peace that he's looking for.
	I don't know if you're talking about that.
	That's all we're doing.
	Yo, because they make money.
	We're all streamers here.
	We know this is going to be crazy.
	They're going to be a little crazy.
	I know this is not your day-to-day PWC, but there are crazy people out here.
	There are.
	That's right.
	So, yeah, but what happened?
	So you said the first guy, what happened?
	You seem like you're a little much, though.
	You seem like you're a little.
	I am.
	But I think it's also because I feel like you guys are trying to press us.
	I just feel like sometimes we come in with stronger opinions.
	It can make for better content.
	I'm not trying to impress anybody.
	No, I just want to hear.
	I'll press.
	I'll press a little bit.
	I want to hear because you're so open and honest.
	I want to hear it all.
	I think my last relationship ended because he wasn't.
	His career wasn't particularly going anywhere.
	What was he doing?
	He was trying to get into an advanced degree.
	And how did you meet this guy?
	Through friends.
	Okay.
	I wasn't super sure, but a childhood friend of mine was like, oh, yeah, he's a really great guy.
	And he is a really great guy.
	He's really sweet.
	It kind of ended up with the, like, I felt like walking a fine line between being a parent versus being a girlfriend.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, no, no, nobody wants that.
	Yeah.
	So that was most recent.
	Okay.
	To me, it does matter about motivation of the other person.
	It's not like the money, yeah.
	Like, obviously, you should be able to make some good money for yourself, but if you're not motivated, you can be a hard worker and make 60K, and I'd be happy with that.
	But you need to show that you're a hard worker.
	That's the biggest.
	You mean like kind of like ambition?
	Yeah, you need ambition.
	You need discipline.
	Like, you have a vision for your future.
	Yeah.
	Like, you know what you want to do.
	The amount, okay, maybe 60K.
	It'd be great if you could make a little more.
	But like, if you are driven, I think that's the most important, regardless of the actual.
	And for context, like this ex that I'm talking about has access to a trust fund, too.
	So they weren't not without money necessarily.
	That's why you didn't like him, though, because he's a trust fund kid.
	Well, these guys, they had no drive.
	They aboard and they won life.
	I mean, it wasn't that he didn't have drive.
	He just didn't have follow-through.
	Which, like, you know.
	That typically falls together with drive.
	The follow-through is the biggest part of the drive.
	Yeah, it's that last, like, 10% where you have to really dig in to like get yourself over the finish line.
	Yeah.
	Eric, can you, did this not come through as a TTS?
	Nope.
	Roma, I'm very sorry about that.
	I don't, the other ones are coming through as TTS.
	I'm not sure what's going on there.
	So I'll just try to treat these as a TTS.
	I'll try to read them pronto.
	Roma, thank you for the $69 super chat.
	Appreciate it.
	To blue, shared, ash shared, girl.
	If you're not willing to change how you are, but how you are can't land you a man, then why should a man put up with your toxic behavior?
	By the way, guys, just Dave on Jackson.
	We did boost the TTS to $69.
	I'm wondering if the reason it's not coming up as TTS is because of the Canadian, the conversion from Canadian to USD.
	It's going to be 60.
	It's like lower.
	So maybe that's why the TTS isn't coming through.
	Streamlabs is weird.
	It basically said more money.
	It's not a ploy, I swear.
	It's not a ploy.
	It's just the Stream Labs.
	It must be converting Canadian to USD, and it's not reaching the trigger for the TTS.
	Sorry about that, Romo.
	Oh, wait.
	I think it would be.
	No, you did 69 USD to Canadian.
	So, well, the.
	So, yeah, it would need to be more than $69.99.
	Okay.
	Well, Eric, you put in 91 Canadian, and then that was the equivalent.
	Oh, I see.
	Okay, thank you, Eric.
	Okay, so I want to bring it back to you here.
	So you said it was ego, men's ego.
	Can you hide it, Eric?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	You're going to elaborate or just going to leave it.
	I feel like I've been elaborating.
	Yeah, Zentians here.
	Okay.
	Let me just, I'll read Zenti.
	Divorce statistics disagree with you.
	Most divorces initiated are by women who earn equally or more than her man.
	As women feel superior to their men, they are disrespectful.
	Men will smash you, but you will be a leftover woman.
	Oh, wow, Zentians, okay.
	No, just feeling like that's a bit naive.
	Even that comment was pretty misogynistic.
	But yes, it was.
	Yes, leftover women like we're food to be leftovers.
	That's not what you're doing.
	You microwave them.
	Leftovers are good.
	They're good.
	Pizza is a good thing.
	I feel like there might be other issues, such as they're not thinking about the fact that possibly the men that are making less, and I'm not saying it's all cases, but maybe the men that are making less are treating the women in the relationship poorly because they feel threatened and they're being disrespectful.
	Like, you don't, it's a big assumption to make that it's only the women that caused the end when maybe the women divorced the man because the man was treating them wrong.
	Differently, yes, agreed.
	I can speak to that.
	I've had to leave men because they weren't treating me right.
	It wasn't because I didn't want them.
	Yeah.
	It's because, you know, you deserve respect.
	So maybe.
	I think a lot of men get insecure when the woman.
	Hold on.
	Devon Jackson, Super Chattano, $69.69.
	These women are extremely disappointing.
	Thanks for the donation to the list.
	Would you guys like to respond to Dayvon Jackson?
	You can log off if you want.
	It's okay.
	Love you.
	We all missed you.
	It's fine.
	I think everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So.
	But thank you for the donation.
	Here, I guess this is why I think it's more so like a woman's issue.
	Oops.
	Okay.
	Oh.99.
	Did you answer it?
	Her question?
	I didn't.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, first of all, let me just say that I love your questions, number one.
	Like, it's get it, like, literally make me talk about it.
	I love it.
	So I would say that, like, I wouldn't say that I'm toxic, though.
	Like, that assumption is very, like, when I am into someone, I am like straight into them.
	Like, I will not be looking at anybody else.
	Like, all I can think about is you.
	For all four months?
	For all four months.
	Yes, for all four months.
	And like, maybe, maybe I am toxic.
	I have no idea.
	But, like, I'm aware of like my red flags and stuff like that.
	And it's honestly like the reason, a lot of the reason why I haven't.
	Oh, God, what am I?
	What was even the question?
	Like, it was like, you said you were thinking about toxic behavior.
	Yes.
	Is it this one?
	Are you self-aware of your pretty?
	Then why should a man, I don't think that a man should put up with my toxic behavior.
	That was, that's the whole point, though, is what I was saying earlier, is that like, I want to find someone that can put up like with me who I am now.
	I don't want anyone to have to change for me.
	I don't want to have to change for someone.
	And like, there is, there's so many people in this world that I know that there are people out there because I've met people like that.
	It just wasn't the right time or the right place, you know?
	So, but great question.
	I like that.
	I like it a lot.
	Do you feel like people need to work together?
	Do you feel like there needs to be compromise in a relationship?
	Yeah, I think so too.
	And I think that when I find that one person where I'm like, oh, yes, I will change.
	Like, I've not changed for you, but like, I will make those small changes to make you feel better in a relationship because I love and care about you.
	Never been in love.
	I've never had that before.
	So.
	I think it goes back to being self-aware too, because a lot of people are very low in self-awareness, conscientiousness, stuff like that.
	Yeah, agreed.
	Not a good thing.
	Okay, so guys, thank you for all the chats coming in there.
	And we are going to get through the other ones.
	We've had quite a few TTS come through, but I will get to all these super chats.
	I do want to kind of quickly wrap up the money thing with it being an ego thing for a lot of men.
	So you mentioned something about lifestyle, like if the guy earns less than you, that, you know, going on vacation, for example, you would feel like you would maybe have to pay for him correct.
	And then maybe, would that be an issue for you?
	No.
	Oh.
	Where are these vacations?
	I asked that earlier.
	I took my most recent ex on a cruise to Alaska.
	Oh, no.
	Oh, wait.
	So you don't mind being the provider?
	No.
	Oh.
	Wow.
	So, why do you think your relationships don't work out?
	A variety of reasons.
	But the most recent one, again, is a little bit more.
	Are you a furry?
	No.
	Is that what it is?
	Just the costumes get too intense.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Just one person.
	It's too much of the budget.
	It's just a table that could potentially be a furry.
	I already know somebody.
	I do be wearing cat ears around.
	You look great.
	I know we're like, give it away, kiki.
	Okay.
	But, and they actually found, as far as the divorce rates go, women overwhelmingly do initiate divorces.
	Some of you said it's, I mean, not really taking a whole bunch of accountability, but saying, oh, that's usually because the men are fucking divided.
	Not usually.
	I said it might also be.
	Well, sure, is what I said.
	Not all men are perfect, certainly.
	Yeah, and not all men are, women are either.
	So I got a question for you, ladies.
	Okay, so for the ladies that do want to be in a relationship, why do you want to be in a relationship?
	What value are you looking to get from being in a relationship?
	Start with you.
	I don't want to really be in a relationship.
	I try zone.
	Perfect.
	That's like you said, no.
	I do want to be in a long-term relationship.
	What was the question?
	But why?
	Do you want to get married to have kids?
	I do.
	I want marriage, kids, home, all that.
	Will you give up your job or will you?
	I would work part-time, like 20 hours a week, something like that.
	Wow.
	Okay, cool.
	I like partnership.
	I think that having a partner adds a lot to your life as far as having someone to enjoy successes with and cheer for you and cheer for them and cry with if you're going through something.
	It's really just a hard life to me, and it's really helpful to have somebody that you really connect with, like by your side through everything.
	And I also do want a family, and I want to be married before that.
	And yeah, so I just am a hopeless romantic.
	I always have.
	Are your parents still married?
	Yes.
	Yeah, I can tell.
	That's really good.
	It's really good.
	What's your take?
	Yeah, same thing.
	I want to be married long-term relationship, house, kids, possibly.
	So family.
	Yeah.
	So basically, I want long-term, and I want one person for the rest of my life.
	Yeah.
	I'm the same way.
	Like a best friend to fall in love with personally.
	On the topic of the divorce rates, so 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
	However, that number jumps to 90% if the woman is, I believe, college-educated and the breadwinner.
	So it seems to me that that would at least not fully explain but suggest that, at least in my view, that it's more so an issue for the woman.
	So with your income, even if you did go part-time, I suspect you'd still be an incredibly high earner, very successful.
	Do you think you could be the sole provider?
	I could.
	Yeah, I wouldn't mind at all.
	That's usually the family that I was in.
	Oh, okay.
	Your mom or your...
	My mom makes all the money.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay.
	Nice.
	Would you describe your mom as like a tiger mom?
	No.
	No.
	Okay.
	Was your dad working too or no?
	He's just kidding.
	He was working and then he stopped working when I was like in high school.
	Okay.
	Gotcha.
	Gotcha.
	And what was your mom doing?
	Yeah, what was she doing?
	She was, she started off as an accountant, and then she just was like a C-suite executive for like 20 years.
	Nice.
	Across a couple different industries.
	Hampen.
	Okay.
	But when we did the thing, you said minimum 200K.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But you said you'd also be okay.
	Well, I was just being accurate for the statistic, right?
	Like, who knows, anything could happen.
	Like, I could meet someone, and you know, but just if we're talking about, you know, we want them to make the same amount as we do, then I'm just throwing that number on.
	What was the minimum height you wanted again?
	Six?
	Six, one, six, one.
	It has to be white.
	No, but just like knowing my dating history and my preferences.
	Like, I'm just trying to be like honest.
	No, no, no, just look at clarity.
	Absolutely clarity.
	Yeah, I'm not judging at all.
	Preferences are totally fine.
	So, and I think when it comes to the money thing, another thing that tends to be an issue, women, generally speaking, don't spoil men the same way that men spoil women.
	I do.
	Okay, you say that, but I do.
	Also, well, hold on, let me just finish.
	So, women, generally speaking, don't share their resources with men the same way that men will share their resources with women.
	Generally speaking.
	Generally speaking, generally speaking, I want to ask the table really quick.
	I don't know, though.
	I want to know what you're doing with all your money because you don't want kids, you don't want to get married, you're making all this money.
	No, but also I realize that's before OnlyFans takes out, so like it's less of that.
	Okay, by the way, but still is successful.
	We got quite a few.
	No, I want to know what these ballers are buying with their fucking big salaries.
	Vacation.
	Saving.
	Yeah.
	Saving.
	That's what I do.
	And living in.
	I live in LA.
	Like, I don't live out here.
	The cost of living is insane.
	Santa Barbara is more expensive than oh, is it really?
	Oh, okay.
	Then never mind.
	If you guys get a cost of living is insane.
	Like California, just in general.
	So I don't know.
	I feel like it really just depends.
	But I'm a huge saver, so I don't have a boyfriend or anything.
	But if I did.
	You don't have a rich person's vice that you always go and do.
	Sometimes I'll just go to Louis Vuitton and just buy something.
	See, I don't even buy stuff like that.
	I literally don't buy a designer or anything like that.
	I said I'm like, I don't know.
	I just like I love to save.
	Do you have any advice?
	Any like rich girl advice?
	What are you doing?
	You buying avocado toast?
	Recently, I've been spending a lot of money skydiving.
	Hey, expensive hobby.
	Adrenaline junkie.
	Okay.
	Do you surf too?
	I don't.
	I surf.
	Okay.
	Ooh, I want to play seven sports, but I spent all my money on traveling.
	I just got back from experiences.
	I love that.
	Okay, amazing.
	Yeah.
	Traveling and like sports.
	So a few of you were disagreeing with me, though, on my statement that women don't share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women.
	Define resources.
	I feel like that's mostly true money.
	Yeah.
	So.
	Okay, let me ask a clarifying question.
	On a first date, who pays for the first date?
	The man.
	And you want that.
	I want that.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Sure, me.
	For sure.
	It's one of those weird things.
	And if they do pay for it, like if they're one of those men that genuinely, they genuinely are not okay with it, and I can respect that, I will get the next one.
	It's like about a healthy battle.
	Go ahead.
	I really agree with her.
	Like, I like when a man pays on the first date because I like chivalry, but I will be paying for like the next one or the third one.
	I like trading off.
	Sure.
	If there's going to be a second date, I let him pay.
	If there's not, then I split it.
	Interesting.
	You just leave the first date?
	If there's not going to be a second.
	If she doesn't want to see him again.
	Wow.
	Wow.
	So, question for you, just clarifying question.
	Let's say you do like him.
	You've established before the check comes, so to speak, that you would like a second date.
	However, when the check does come, he says, hey, let's split the bill, or he asks for two separate checks.
	Does that then turn into there is no second date?
	No.
	Oh.
	Wait, okay.
	So you're fine with splitting.
	Okay.
	Yeah, but so for example, the check comes and they're like, you know, I'll always take out my card just to see, you know, because you like to do those.
	You like to do the whole, like, and then he'll be like, no, no, no, I got it.
	And then it'll be whether I insist or I'll say, I'll get the next one.
	Right.
	And then I get the next one.
	Okay, so you take out your card and you offer and he says, okay.
	And then you split or you end up paying the whole thing.
	This has happened before and it depends on their, again, their financial situation or what they make or if I make a lot more than that.
	Or like, just like if the date was my idea, or like if I picked the restaurant.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	You know?
	If he picked the restaurant and ended up being 200 per person and I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into, then it'd be a little bit like, you know.
	Right.
	It's just like, but if I, you know, it was my idea, like, hey, let's go to this place.
	Or like, let's go catch a comedy show.
	Like, and I buy the tickets, like, that's totally fine.
	Okay, what about you?
	I mean, I would say the same, like, pretty much the same.
	Like, I don't really do that in a sense where I'm like, oh, I'll split it if I know there's not going to be a second date, but I actually really like that because then it's like, I don't know, I don't like, I love to, like, if I'm dating someone with my past boyfriends and stuff like that, like, I would make sure that we split it each time that we go out or something like that.
	Like, he'll pay for one time, then I'll pay for like the next time if we go to the movies or something.
	Like, I love having that equality because I don't want someone to feel like I'm just taking and taking, and they're not receiving anything back in a sense.
	And I also don't like feeling like I owe anyone anything.
	Hanging it over your head.
	Yeah, I hate that.
	Like, even with first dates and stuff, like, I don't know.
	I just, I will always pull out my card and stuff like that, regardless of what my financial situation is.
	Okay.
	And just like offer, you know.
	All right.
	So, except for you, it sounded like most of you would be fine splitting the check however you want.
	No, I'm not sure.
	I'm good.
	Yeah.
	Oh, no, but you said that.
	You have her first date.
	First date, I would expect.
	No, that's what I'm talking about.
	The first date.
	Does that change the answer for any of you?
	I'm talking about the first date.
	Okay.
	So maybe perhaps quite a few of you are outliers on this one, but we've had a lot of women on the show and a lot of women will say, if the guy doesn't pay for the first date, there won't be a second date.
	They expect.
	They expect the guy to pay for the first date.
	Not all women.
	Certainly not all women, especially here in California, but it's a toss-up.
	You don't really know as a guy what you're getting.
	I have a question.
	So for you, how much money is too much money for the guy to spend on you in the first date?
	For me?
	Just in general.
	Like the total check?
	Yeah, total check.
	If it's over 100, I'm going to ask to split it.
	I'll be insistent about it.
	I'll demo them afterwards, too.
	Okay.
	Don't spend a lot of money on first date.
	Over 100 would kind of freak you out.
	Yeah, like, yeah.
	I don't know.
	I don't think so.
	It's too much.
	For you too?
	Over 100?
	Yeah, it's too much.
	It's like, wait, like, you don't even know me yet, really.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You?
	Yeah, I would say 100.
	I also purposely kind of pick something not super expensive if I know that they're intending to pay or anything like that.
	I also, I'm not super picky, so I'll eat like a soup or something later.
	I feel like all my first dates have been going to the gym.
	Like, how cute?
	I like that.
	That seems awkward as fuck, not gonna lie.
	Sweating, maybe I'd be like, she's a figures influencer.
	I mean with like a, with a partner, like someone you've established at least some connection with, but like a first date, you get to see how they like rack their wings man.
	No, they're like bonded by.
	They're bonded by their love of iron, you know.
	But I mean, it would seem to me like you seem like you take your fitness very seriously.
	So to me it would seem almost like for most people you go to the gym to put in work right yeah, so you seem very serious about everything.
	I love it, I like it.
	Yeah, you seem like you're fed up.
	You seem like you're fed up with meeting shitty guys too.
	You're like just I was trying to meet I've never really met shitty guys like I pretty much surrounded myself by like people, quality people that I enjoy.
	okay I'm still trying to get a read on you me too man just to wrap up on the whole ego thing and the money thing so do you really like this job I think you guys are.
	I think you guys are a bit of outliers, though.
	I would say most women who are making as much money as you I think you said it was mid six figures 400 500k, something like that 300 300, 300k I thought it was 400 okay whatever, 300k that's a substantial income.
	You're very successful.
	Most women who are making that much money are gonna want a guy who's at least on their level or higher, like a woman who's an attorney, a litigation attorney, who's making $300,000.
	She's not gonna go data barista, she's not gonna go date a guy who's working at Chick-fil-A, whereas a you know, very successful male attorney, a very successful guy at PWC, he'll date a 19 year old hottie that works the drive-through lane at Chick-fil-A, the fry basket man.
	Men, generally speaking we, it's not a big thing for us.
	So yeah okay, what is what is your?
	What is your um dating strategy to find the guy that you like?
	Because you, you cause you have a type ideally, you know.
	Do you have like a strategy that you're implementing?
	Like, how are you yeah, solving your dating problem?
	So, like previously, a lot of it was dating apps, because you get to see statistics, you get to see education, what they do where they're from.
	Some dating apps have like extra you know hobbies whatever, and so it, you know, makes it a little easier to find compatibility in those statistics.
	But I've also found that it's very hit or miss because a lot of it's chemistry and in-person and now I try to keep it to people you meet out in the wild, friends of friends, social gatherings parties, that sort of thing.
	Cool do you like?
	Do you get like a set, like every week I'm gonna go to XYZ social events?
	No, I'm actually not dating this year.
	This whole year yeah, 2023.
	Yes, I'm dating next year, doing that full-on celibate.
	Sure, that's what it is.
	I respect that.
	If you can pull it off, I respect that.
	That's amazing.
	I've been too incelibate this year.
	I mean it's it's January, so hey, that's still the amount of dick that's been thrown around this country.
	That's, that's a, that's a compliment.
	I mean in the comments it's crazy.
	I see like a lot of people assuming it's crazy.
	If you want to meet a man of substance, you probably have to move out of LA, though I was like, oh my god, my friends are all like yeah, your husband's probably in New York, so that's what my friends say, but Japan Japan, that's okay.
	They work too much.
	They work too much, no time for home.
	What's your?
	Uh, I know you said you like white guys.
	What's your type like?
	Further, in terms of appearance handsome, and then personality, it's all handsome, usually like the oldest sibling, because and I've, I see the comments I am, I am a more masculine person.
	Are you?
	Yeah.
	I feel like it's a good idea.
	I hold a lot of masculine energy.
	You know, I can be a little combative or whatever.
	I think you've been okay so far.
	Me too.
	I don't know.
	Do you like to be choked?
	A little bit.
	Yeah, we can talk.
	No, I noticed girls that are typically a little bit more, you know, like driven in their day-to-day life, they kind of like to be a little bit more submissive in the bedroom.
	Very accurate.
	I've been told I've had like big dick energy in the past.
	Like, that is my personality.
	I am like alpha, and I will speak to that.
	That's true.
	Do you like to be manhandled in the yeah?
	No, of course.
	I don't like this term big dick energy.
	BDE.
	I don't like it.
	I don't like it.
	Throw it on the table.
	I don't like it.
	And I'll tell you why, really quick, and then we'll continue on with the soup chats.
	Do you guys, what do you guys think of really quick, the term BDE?
	Small dick energy, big dick energy.
	Greta Thonberg.
	She threw that to.
	I think it's about confidence and being you guys.
	Have you guys used the term in casual conversation?
	Oh, yeah.
	Have you used BDE and SD, small dick energy?
	No.
	Okay, well.
	Here's my quarrel with it.
	Here's my main quarrel with it: is if men were using actually, hold on, before I say that, who hears for body positivity?
	Show of hands.
	Body positivity.
	Body positivity against body shaming.
	Okay.
	Screw it up.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Depends on who you got.
	So I'd like to propose some new terms for us to use.
	What do you guys think of loose pussy energy?
	Men talk about loose pussies all the time.
	No, we don't.
	We really don't.
	Yeah, they use comments.
	One of the comments we were says that we were left over.
	And the other one is.
	The other one's like she's been ran through.
	They don't know our sex lives.
	We haven't talked about how many men we've slept with or not.
	Leftover woman thinks from China.
	Okay, so I have a few more.
	There's cavernous vag energy.
	Casual conversation.
	Let's see.
	So these are just the opposite of like BDE, small DEF CON.
	So is it supposed to be a compliment?
	No.
	No.
	Well, loose pussy, not so much.
	I meant like big dick energies.
	We have big dick energy is a compliment.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	But it's insulting in people with small dicks.
	I suppose.
	Let me just.
	Let me give you a few more.
	We have small tits energy.
	I like that.
	Smelly pussy energy.
	Putrid pussy energy.
	Okay.
	Rancid, stinky, noxious.
	My nose.
	Wow.
	Cottage cheese.
	Pussy energy.
	It's not very creative with the words.
	Dry drummers.
	Drought words.
	Dry cheese.
	Iran cheese.
	We have dry pussy energy, Sahara Desert pussy energy.
	Wet pussy energy, parched pussy energy, arid powder.
	How about powdered eggs?
	Powdered when they're old enough.
	That's a lot of it.
	When they're older, you know?
	One-like energy.
	If you're a little bit of energy.
	Carton energy.
	If you overheard a guy saying any of these terms, would you take offense to that?
	I think they're very different.
	We're not calling dicks putrid or gross or saggy.
	We're saying big dick energy.
	That's like a confidence.
	Yeah, but the inverse is small dick.
	So, okay, big dick energy is used to describe what?
	A confident guy, a guy who has some sort of desirable characteristics.
	Whereas, and whereas if you use small dick energy, what's that often?
	We've heard it thrown at people typically you dislike.
	We've heard it about Donald Trump.
	We've heard it about, you know, typically people you dislike or people that have Contemptible characteristics, that's when it's used.
	That doesn't have anything to do with smell, though.
	Okay, but I was like, I keep thinking about it.
	Okay, hold on.
	Yeah, the question is a little weird.
	So, yeah, I do get what you're saying.
	No, no, no.
	So, there are some fantastic men with small penises, and there are some awful men with big dicks.
	And men are certain, it's certainly something that men are perhaps insecure about.
	Yeah.
	And so, to me, it seems as if I mean, we me personally, I don't have an issue with it.
	What I do have an issue with is if I were to use any of the terms that I used, for example, loose pussy energy, in the casual conversation, that would not slide.
	I do think there are a lot of things that men can't get away with.
	Stay on the topic.
	Okay, we can talk about that, but stay on the topic.
	I agree.
	I agree with you.
	That's what I said.
	Yeah, I would say it would definitely turn.
	Like, if someone said that in public, like, I don't want to be like, I wouldn't be like, turn my head and be like, what the fuck?
	What the fuck said that?
	I'd be like, that's a little bit of a drink.
	Sam Super chatted $70.
	PWC didn't like what I said about masculine Korea women, but she just admitted that she's masculine.
	Can't make this up.
	I'm on fire.
	Yo, Alvin, thank you for the chat.
	I never said I didn't like it.
	I said I agreed with it.
	Self-aware.
	He likes you.
	He has a crush.
	I agree that that term big dick energy can be insulting, for sure.
	Really?
	Yeah, I do.
	I've actually thought about this.
	I watch these.
	Yeah.
	I don't mean insulting the person you're saying it to.
	I mean, insulting for anybody that is insecure about it.
	I mean, I say it all the time, though.
	I'm always like, big dick energy.
	Or like if someone comes to my Twitch chat and they say something like rude, I'm like, yeah, small dick energy.
	Like, I probably shouldn't say that, like, thinking about that, because I don't, it could be very offensive.
	It did make me think about it more.
	I didn't even think about it in that sense where if someone said that to me, I'd be like, the fuck.
	But it was just a metaphor for me for like confidence.
	Yes, that's what I told it.
	It's nothing to do with any of the actual penis.
	Because at the end of the day, or on the other side, the pussy is a little bit different.
	You can have a small penis.
	It's about quality, not quantity.
	And I say that all the time.
	All the time.
	Quality over quantity.
	Yep.
	Seriously.
	I mean, but you say it's just about the energy.
	It's not about the actual size.
	So can I just put the word energy at the end of any insult and that makes it acceptable and I am beyond reproach?
	Yes.
	There it is.
	Yes.
	There it is.
	I just.
	Oh.
	Matt San Super Chatted $69.
	Consultant lady is not a provider.
	Your man needs to make six fix on your art ship with a broke he didn't work.
	A man will work a true job to provide for his family while the wife stays at home.
	Providing from a man is not optional.
	It is for the woman.
	He's sad.
	I mean, do you have anything to say to Matt San?
	Um, well, the relationship didn't work not because he didn't have money.
	Again, he had access to a fund, but it was more about like the ambition and lifestyle and trajectory.
	So I like to think I'm a provider.
	I like to provide.
	Yeah, you seem very bad booked.
	Do you like exercise and like watch your diet and all that?
	Yeah.
	That's good.
	That's really good.
	All right, let's get through these super chats here.
	Actually, you know what?
	We've got a lot of super chats to catch up on.
	Thank you guys.
	I do want to react to one of Roma's videos.
	Eric, can you pull up one of the YouTube tabs with Roma's video?
	We're going to react to it really quick.
	Here, while I do that.
	Yeah.
	Go ahead, play it.
	Guys, quiet.
	You should pay on the first day.
	Obviously.
	Why, obviously?
	Because we have all those other expenses, like nails and shit like that.
	Here, curious as well.
	Yeah, that's horrible.
	What?
	Eric, boost the audio.
	A guy has to always pay for the date because we have all these other expenses.
	So just I think it's low on YouTube, Eric, the audio.
	Yep.
	Lower it.
	First of all, ain't nobody out here like, hey, you want to go on a date with me?
	But those nay nays, though, you got to get them done.
	If he is, then why the fuck would you go on a date with him?
	Number two, again, what?
	Periods?
	Good news, gentlemen.
	If a lady wants you to take her out on a date, say, whoa, whoa, whoa, lassie.
	Not until you pay for my oil change, my gas, and I think I have a little bit of swaste and maybe some dick cheese today, so you gotta pay for my body wash, too.
	Women nowadays could not get any more entitled.
	Some of them, because there's a few good ones left.
	Not many, but a few.
	Okay.
	So, do you guys have a reaction to that?
	By the way, that's Chloe Roma, who's been super chatting.
	So, yeah.
	I mean, so I agree.
	Oh, sorry.
	I agree with what she was saying.
	It's kind of like, that's not, everybody has expenses.
	Like, everybody has self-care expenses.
	Like, we have nails and stuff.
	Yeah, but men also have to go get their hair done.
	They also have to go out and like get like soaps or like something.
	Like, you know what I mean?
	Like, there's everyone has expenses.
	Like, that's not a reason why people shouldn't have to pay for the date.
	Like, that's bullshit.
	Sorry.
	You kind of raised your eyebrows at what she said.
	Did you disagree with her?
	No, I just thought it was amusing.
	oh okay i thought maybe you were like oh no i was thinking about how men um have to get their hair cut like way more if they keep it short Like, they have to get their hair cut so often.
	And if they have a beard, they got to go get it.
	Like, I don't know, it's just, I think about men's expenses, it's different than women's and probably less, especially if you want to choose to get your nails and your eyelashes done, but it's cute.
	But we ultimately make that choice.
	Do you know what I mean?
	Like, I don't think that what she was saying, like, not a man wouldn't, like, oh, I'm not going to go out on a date with you because you didn't do your makeup today.
	Like, you know, I don't know.
	Yeah.
	By the way, guys, that video that we just reacted to, Chloe Roma, Roma Army, on YouTube, check her out.
	We are going to try to get her on the show.
	She's in Canada.
	So, by the way, Chloe, do you speak to Paul Francais?
	I don't know if you're in the French-speaking part of Canada, but anyways, your reaction to the video we just watched?
	Or anything to add?
	I don't really have anything to add.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I thought she was spitting facts.
	To be honest, I don't know.
	I liked the perspective because I hadn't really thought about it very much, that topic, so I thought it was true and interesting.
	Same.
	Well, lower it to 70, Eric.
	I think the expenses statistically on paper are completely different.
	And some are more of a necessity to women than men.
	Then again, I'm not a man, so I have no idea if y'all have something else that's going on.
	It doesn't really matter to me.
	Not much.
	But when she's like, if I was like, if I was making TikTok like that, I wouldn't have said like oil change and stuff like that because girls do that too.
	I definitely would have pinpointed other, I can't even think off the top of my head, but I definitely would have pinpointed other expenses that are more directed toward males.
	That's the only thing I could say about that.
	That's my reaction.
	Like, how would I make that TikTok?
	I wouldn't have said that.
	But if it worked for her, it worked for her.
	Right.
	Okay, what about you?
	Yeah, like life expenses.
	I mean, I know a lot more guys who probably put a lot more work into their cars than maybe I would.
	And there's expenses like that that to each his own.
	I mean, everyone just has different hobbies.
	If you have a really expensive hobby, you're gonna spend more money on it.
	I think that's cool.
	You just have to be okay with two different hobbies and sources of income and providing for your own hobby, I guess.
	Does anyone recall what the she was, so Chloe Roma was reacting to a clip and the clip said that, or the woman said that men should pay on the first date because women have expenses like makeup.
	What was the other thing she said?
	Oh, periods.
	Yeah, that's buying.
	Also, though, like, if you think about it, like, I mean, obviously, periods, like, we do spend a lot of money on like tampons and stuff like that, for sure.
	But, like, also we expect the man to buy the condoms.
	So, there's other things, like, I don't know.
	Like, I just think that that's not like a point that you can, I don't know.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	I didn't make a chef, sweetheart.
	There you go.
	No, I was going to say, I think the point she was making is just like a lot of, there's a lot of female entitlement in dating nowadays in the Western side of things.
	Yeah.
	You know.
	But I think there's entitlement from guys too.
	There's entitlement everywhere.
	Well, these comments are showing a lot of things.
	Well, yeah, yeah.
	That's for sure.
	Girls don't know what oil is.
	It's like, oh, dude, come on.
	I will say that.
	To be fair, though, to be fair, and I am thinking about this, is I think about the fact that my dad will go get his hair cut and he can get it for like done for like 20 bucks.
	And when I go get my hair done, it's like $100.
	$400.
	It is more expensive, but I don't know.
	It's not such a hard.
	I don't know.
	Well, certainly in terms of appearance, I mean, it's hard to totally quantify it, but if we're talking like makeup hair, like cosmetics, generally speaking, yes, I would say women spend more on that.
	Yes, but it's our specialist.
	I don't think that that justifies or warrants men having to pay for the first time.
	I know, because it's a girl's choice.
	Because it's our choice at the end of the day.
	One question, Eric, can you put it on me really quick?
	Is there a slight yellow tint?
	Or is this just our monitor?
	Eric?
	Is it behind me?
	Is it a bit of a yellow tint?
	I'm wondering if the white balance is all fucked up.
	Eric.
	That's better.
	That looks way better.
	Oh, that's weird.
	I don't know.
	I don't know what's going on.
	Eric, has there been a yellow tint?
	I should have known you mentioned it.
	Do you see the yellow tint?
	Chat, do you guys see that it's a bit yellow?
	There does look like a tint.
	That's annoying.
	I might try to adjust the white balance a bit, guys.
	So while I do that, shit, I had a question.
	Oh, okay.
	So do you think that if a woman wears makeup on a date, that that should maybe be a reason why a man should pick up the no, absolutely not.
	Because that's her choice at the end of the day, you know?
	Like, she wants to wear that makeup.
	Like, I would never, I don't know.
	Like, I love to wear makeup.
	I'm very passionate about it.
	Like, I don't have to do it, but I like to do it.
	So it's like.
	And I like spend my, I spend some money on it.
	He goes home to his boys.
	He's like, bro, she was wearing makeup.
	I had to pay for it.
	Oh, dude.
	He was forgotten too.
	I had to tip.
	You know, I got dessert after I saw the purse.
	Oh, threw me over.
	I think some of these just like intentionally loaded questions.
	Yeah.
	How do you think?
	Trying to trigger you.
	Oh, yeah.
	Intention is behind that.
	People love to do that on the internet.
	I also will say, though, there's always this pressure in the world that a lot of females put on themselves to look a certain way.
	You put it on women too, for sure, though.
	I mean, it goes both ways, but I think girls, then that's why they feel entirely like, well, I have to do this.
	I have to look the way they want me to look.
	When not all men feel that way, I've seen a lot of men be like, oh, I prefer no makeup.
	Or other way, you know?
	And like, people can have those preferences.
	Yeah.
	I prefer to wear makeup.
	Like, I like it.
	I enjoy it.
	I'm okay with it, but if I hug you and it starts to be like, oh, yeah, no, no, no, it's always like not wearing makeup.
	Like, it just depends, you know?
	Red lipstick, I'm okay with.
	That gets all over me.
	I'm okay.
	Going to looks and just based off of appearance and dating and all that, I will just want to mention too: it's a little interesting as an amputee in the dating world.
	Let's talk about that.
	Well, okay, so you get two sides.
	You get some people who you're just like, oh, I wonder how good you are in bed.
	Like, a lot of the questions are, do you take it off?
	Like, what do you do?
	And just like, they're obsessed with the fact that, and I mean, amputees is a thing.
	I mean, it's a whole.
	Yeah.
	It's but then the other side is, oh, well, she's an amputee, blah, blah, blah.
	Like, it's degrading.
	And I don't ever play the victim of this ever, and I don't fuck with that.
	I hate that side and that people actually even think that way, because for me, it's been 25 years that I've had one leg.
	But you see both sides, and it's like there's no happy medium.
	The best date I've ever been on was a guy who I expect, because I'm asked all the time, especially if I wear a dress or shorts, like, what happened?
	And that's fine.
	I'll tell you.
	But the best date I ever was on, he didn't even ask until like three or four dates later.
	And he waited for me to tell him.
	He didn't ask at all.
	I actually just brought it up naturally.
	And he goes, Yeah, I figured he would tell me when you're ready.
	And that was so powerful.
	Like, real gentlemen.
	Did you have sex with him?
	As you should.
	You did, right?
	Man's a pimp.
	Yeah, that's sweet.
	But you definitely see both sides, and it sucks that you're especially like comments and stuff.
	Of course, they're hurtful, but people are so objective with some of that stuff.
	I've a brain.
	Like, I'm a person.
	It's literally a limb.
	I could lose all four and be the same person.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	I picked up a chick and had sex with her, but I didn't figure out she had an amputee.
	Like, her leg was amputeed until I started taking her clothes off.
	Oh, nice.
	That was in Japan.
	Yeah.
	Good stuff.
	I mean, you know, it was, I don't know, no big deal.
	She disappeared after, so whatever.
	So you didn't react badly or care?
	Well, what am I going to do?
	Throw her out of the bed.
	You're like, get out of here.
	No, no, no, no.
	That's good.
	Yeah, I just played my, I did what I always did.
	Yeah, good.
	Well, I love when people ask.
	I love that it's a part of my life, but it definitely gets in the gray area when it comes to sex and objectification, especially in the 21st century.
	It's like, but you get used to it.
	It's just something I've noticed in my dating experience.
	And I'm saying, though, like, I'm sorry.
	You mentioned objectification.
	Like, are you saying there's some guys that might have a king for that or something?
	Is that kind of what you're doing?
	Yeah.
	Has a guy ever like wanted to do something?
	And tell me if this is inappropriate to ask.
	Has a guy ever wanted to do a sex act involving the leg?
	Yeah, but I'm not going to talk about it.
	Fair enough.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Any funny anecdotes, not sexually, that related to dating and the amputation?
	Yeah.
	Anecdotes.
	Well, depending how drunk someone gets, like if I'm at a bar and stuff, I like to make up stories of how I lost it.
	I have like eight circulating stories that I tell depending on how drunk someone is.
	Because I don't, I just, I'm just, I love it.
	I don't scare.
	Cool, cool.
	Can we get a fit check on the prosthetic?
	Sure, you want to get it.
	What brand is it?
	Oh, shit.
	She's taking it off.
	Oh, wow.
	Woo!
	Woo!
	Wow, okay.
	I like the shoes.
	I got this.
	Thanks.
	I got this laminated.
	It's kind of like a snake skin.
	Oh, sweet.
	But it's like fiberglass.
	It's hard to tell if it's a little shiny.
	Yeah, it's an adjustable high heel.
	So I can wear this high heel.
	But it also bends into like a just like a flat, which is kind of cool.
	Oh, that's awesome.
	So it's kind of heavy.
	So I log it around all day, but it's fine.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, but it's like, it's just awesome.
	It's 2023.
	Prosthetics are amazing.
	It's carbon fiber and titanium, you know?
	So I used to drink beers out of it.
	Not that I don't like put the beer in.
	I put the bottle in there and like it's just a party trick we used to do.
	Again, with the military, it's like sweet.
	Like, that's it.
	I mean, I'm very, it's very clean, but I still wouldn't trust that.
	Is anyone down to like do a shot out of prosthetic right now?
	The girl with the blue hair for sure.
	I already know.
	What do they call that?
	Like, people will drink a beer from a shoe.
	I think it's called a shoey.
	She's a shoey.
	What do you call the, with the prosthetic?
	They're all leggy.
	Peggy?
	Peggy?
	I like peggy.
	Yeah.
	On the topic of pegging.
	Okay.
	Yeah, yes.
	So, okay, that's interesting.
	Has a guy ever, have you ever encountered any either rejection or difficulty because of it?
	Like, has a guy ever said, I mean, you know, hey, you're great.
	Just have they overtly turned you down because they said it was an issue?
	Do you ever, or do you suspect that maybe you were turned down because of the prosthetic?
	No, actually.
	Okay.
	Actually, it's the opposite.
	I think they're a little scared.
	Scared?
	I think.
	You said that with a Canadian accent, by the way.
	Sorry, my accent is all over the place because I lived all over the place.
	Your accent has been colored by your many travels.
	True.
	So it helps.
	I'm actually Eastern European, so it gets probably from there.
	But no, it's the opposite.
	I feel like they are actually more intimidated and that it's not even a disadvantage.
	It's just I don't think they know how to approach it sometimes.
	When I grew up in a very direct military family, okay.
	Everyone just is upfront about what they think, and I love that.
	But I'm not going to assert, like, here's what happened if you don't ask.
	And I think nowadays people don't ask.
	So I think maybe it's a little disadvantage because maybe, and I could be wrong, but no one's turned me down because of this.
	In fact, I think they're more, they don't know what to do with it.
	And then I start talking and like share my personality and they're chill.
	And you said it was, there was a guy that you saw and you found it maybe really hot or attractive that he didn't even address it at all.
	He didn't even bring it up until you brought it up actually.
	Yeah.
	And did you find that endearing or?
	It was endearing, actually.
	Really endearing because when you get so used to the day-to-day of like people wanting to know, and that's not a bad thing.
	I love when people ask, but it's kind of nice when that's not someone's go-to.
	Like that's not who I am at all.
	Yeah.
	Got it.
	Let me do these super chats.
	All right.
	We have, let's see.
	We got, I think we did.
	Yo, Davon Jackson, 50 Last Super Chat.
	Goddamn Cheeks, Thirsty AF.
	Okay.
	Dave on Jackson shooting shots of cheeks.
	Yo, Flan Life, thank you for the Canadian $20.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Blue hair girl looks like a final fantasy character.
	Okay.
	appreciate that okay Yeah.
	Yo, cheeks, $20 Super Chat.
	Ladies, mainly gen, never stay friends with the Nex.
	That is the worst possible thing you can do and can present problems with your future significant other.
	Yeah, I agree with that.
	Are any of you like still friends with an ex?
	Yes.
	You can be on good terms, but like you still hang out with an extra.
	Good terms.
	Yeah, I think that's typically a bad look.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Dave on Jackson, $20 Super Chat.
	She definitely smashed all four within a 48-hour period at some point.
	This is from earlier on in the podcast.
	Sorry that we're just getting to these now.
	It's just, we've got a lot coming through.
	Please say you used condoms and or didn't let them bust.
	Jesus.
	Response?
	No comment.
	That's already a sentence.
	Okay.
	Do you want to shoot shots back at Dayvon?
	No.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Zentiens, $50 Super Chat.
	Modern women live in the realm of ambiguity and plausible deniability.
	Lies through omission.
	They demand perfection from men, but they themselves are cracked, chipped, and shattered.
	Cubic zirconia.
	Never be fooled, gents.
	100% recreational use only.
	Oh, wow.
	Zentians shooting shots tonight.
	Would you guys like to respond to Zentiens?
	Who hurt your heart?
	Like, who hurt you?
	Who hurt you, Zentians?
	What modern woman hurt you?
	Who hurt you, Zentians?
	Because what?
	Like, nobody expects someone to be perfect.
	Like, I mean, I think flaws make us who we are.
	Like, I think that's, it's a beautiful thing to learn to love the flaws within your partner.
	Sure.
	Like, I don't think anyone expects perfection.
	All right, Gus, $20 soup chat.
	Ladies, unless I want your...
	Here.
	I want your value to decrease.
	Don't listen to blue.
	Your past body count matter to lost men.
	Most men, I think.
	You take an L every time you hook up with someone that's not for LTR.
	I guess we could do this really quick.
	Do you guys think body counts matter?
	No, I don't think so.
	No.
	No.
	I don't think it should matter, but it definitely does.
	Okay.
	I would say, yes, it does.
	Okay.
	I like your answer because you don't think it matters, but at least you acknowledge that.
	Oh, yeah, it definitely does.
	Would you say maybe women don't care about it so much, but men do?
	Okay.
	I agree with that.
	Okay.
	For the most part.
	I was just going to say women typically seem to be more accepting of a guy with a high body count, but they don't seem to understand that a lot of guys, the inverse is the opposite.
	Typically, when we find out a girl has a higher body count, we're kind of like, oh.
	Why is that just the way the world is?
	It's just kind of like an instinctual male thing.
	Just kind of like how you wouldn't date a 5'3 dude that worked at McDonald's ever, right?
	Because, you know, you're successful, you're missing PWC.
	It's the same thing for us, just like something about it in our DNA.
	Don't take this the wrong way, but I'm just going to be very genuine from a male's perspective.
	We are like low-key repulsed by it.
	It's like a very high number.
	And I think women kind of instinctually know because they never really tell an honest number to anybody.
	I feel like people assume the number of people just like that somebody's been with based on how attractive they find them too.
	Like they assume.
	I've seen that a lot.
	Or the way they dress, the way they carry themselves.
	People assume a lot about numbers.
	And if somebody is telling the truth and they think it's too low for how attractive they are, they'll be like, cap, even if it's true.
	So you're saying more attractive women have higher body counts?
	I feel like men assume that.
	I actually, I kind of assume the opposite.
	I think average women have higher body counts than do very beautiful women.
	I think so too, because some of them kind of like overcompensate.
	Because you ever like, you know, like you've seen that one girl who just got in trouble for having sex with all the cops?
	I didn't see that.
	No, no, no.
	There's some white girl that, like, you know, she was getting like, she had a husband.
	She was getting like ran on by five different dudes.
	Look at your face just lit up.
	You ready to do an OnlyFans scene?
	But I'm just kidding.
	But she's so, she looks like hell average.
	Mid.
	And I feel like, you know, they're just like trying to overcompensate to an extent.
	Yeah.
	I feel like it's a deeper insecurity for sure.
	A lot of them.
	That too.
	A lot of women too, not all women, but a lot of women too, when they see a man or they know a man has a higher body count, that puts them at a higher level.
	That is.
	They put them higher up on the pedestal.
	And naturally, like if you think of a lion, they will mate with all the females.
	But psychologically nowadays, it's just a little rough on the females.
	I agree.
	What's rough on the females?
	The ideology of not being able to have a high body count.
	It's rough on women.
	Yeah, because some women have more of a masculine mentality and don't care.
	And the fact that people bash on them for their own moral mindset, it sucks for them because they're like, this is how I feel about me.
	And you're shitting on me because of it.
	I agree with that, actually.
	I feel like a lot of my mindset has come from being screwed over by men.
	And I've read a lot of books about that.
	I feel like all the people bashing me, I'm like, this is the way that a lot of men are.
	And I just don't give a fuck.
	I honestly just don't care.
	I'm not out there looking for someone.
	If I want to go fuck the dude down the street, I can go fuck the dude down the street.
	And you can say whatever you want, but at the end of the day, they would do it too.
	You know what I mean?
	It's just double standards.
	It is.
	I think the guys that are saying that the body count matters, it matters to them.
	Yes.
	Because I think ideally, I don't think any girl's going to describe her ideal man.
	He's 5'5 ⁇ , ideally.
	And it's the same thing for guys.
	Ideally, we don't want a girl that has been around like that.
	What's a high cost?
	A high body count?
	Depends on her age, but that's a good answer if you do the math, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Maybe 20.
	What do you think?
	High body count versus lowest.
	I mean, for me to, I don't, like, you could do whatever you want, but for me to take you.
	I like that shielded answer you got over 10.
	Over 10 for me, it's just like, like, you just, like, what are you doing?
	Like, you know, you just.
	No matter the age?
	18 versus 25 versus 35?
	Versus 50.
	35, what do you think?
	25, 35.
	I'm not dating women in their 30s.
	Okay.
	So back then.
	Let me see.
	I'm not calling you old.
	Yeah, like, I don't know.
	Like, anything, like, once you hit 20, and it's just kind of like, okay, like, you know, 18, you turn age consent, right?
	And so even if you do 20 in like seven years, like, it's a lot of people.
	20 in seven years?
	I would say, from 18 to 25.
	Huh?
	What's your cap for age?
	You're about to cap me.
	We're just interviewing you now.
	Like 28 now.
	28.
	Okay.
	Up to high.
	Well, in addition to body count.
	That's the oldest, 28.
	Oh.
	In addition to body count, men also care about age.
	Men prefer young people.
	Oh, yeah, that's true.
	That's another weird thing that just is the way the world works.
	It's not weird.
	It's weird because you're really good.
	I mean, it's not explainable necessarily, or at least I can't catch up.
	I can articulate why men care about it.
	Well, the chief one is evo-psych and for biological reasons.
	It comes down to fertility.
	Young women are more fertile.
	A man who's 40 doesn't want to date a woman who's 40 because the chance that she's going to be able to conceive and bring the pregnancy to term and have a healthy baby, the chance of birth defects starts increasing dramatically after 35.
	The chance of miscarriage after 35 is quite high.
	Do you think it's oh, sorry to interrupt you?
	Go ahead.
	Do you think it's interesting or what are your thoughts, I guess?
	I'm curious, on the difference between like when an older woman dates a lot younger guy versus like I think they're both totally fine.
	I have no issue with it.
	I was just curious.
	I think generally speaking though, men are more often shamed if a guy who's 30 is dating a 20 year old.
	A lot of women want to claim that that's somehow like predatory or even we've had women come on the show and claim it's P-word.
	Yeah.
	That girl told me I was.
	Some girl called me old.
	I was like, I'm 37.
	Like I'm fucking not.
	Not old.
	I'm not old.
	That's like pretty much older than 12 and a half.
	You get old.
	But I think it's totally fine.
	We have a word for women dating younger men.
	It's cougars.
	There's a lot of women that date younger men that I have a list somewhere of examples, but it's really not necessary to provide.
	But they don't, that doesn't typically get much attention, but when you hear a lot of this stuff with Leonardo.
	I was going to say, oh, Leo.
	Poor Leo.
	Even Japan dates.
	Justice for Leo.
	They pulled the chart.
	They tried to infograph him.
	It's funny.
	Poor Leo.
	Yeah.
	Very Asian of them.
	Do you guys have an issue with that?
	Like with men having a preference for younger women?
	No.
	As long as you're not like 50 looking for 18-year-olds, like that's sketchy.
	I would say that that's very weird.
	What about 50 going for 25?
	No, I don't think that that's weird.
	Oh, okay.
	No.
	I think if the girl's cool with it, I love that.
	If that's what she wants too, then why not?
	I think you can also be predatory with it and then not predatory with it.
	Yeah.
	It's very, like, again, it depends.
	Women can be pretty predatory.
	Oh, for sure.
	Definitely.
	I agree.
	My friend's mom, she was like, she was making moves on me.
	I've seen it.
	Yeah.
	I think I'm comfortable.
	Oh, my God.
	No, I was 18.
	She was 38.
	And she, you know, she shot her shot.
	I bet.
	Women can definitely be, like, that's for sure.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I think that's a misconception that it's like only older men look for a younger person.
	No, this lady is a predator.
	She's like, oh, yeah, I bet.
	So you want to go to WWE event, huh?
	I was like, ooh.
	Yeah.
	Wait, how old are you?
	I was 18.
	She was 38, and she's like, you want to go see Stone Cold Steve Austin?
	I was like, yes, I do.
	Like, that's not the only thing I want to see.
	No, it's so funny.
	anything, anything, we ended up doing whatever and then accident.
	Doing whatever.
	I actually, so she bought the ticket and I never went.
	And then that's when she like dumped me.
	Dumped you.
	Oh, my God.
	It was bad.
	But also, it's weird because I think that it's more predatory because did you know her when you were younger?
	No, I met.
	Well, yeah, I met her technically the beginning of the senior year when I was 17.
	Oh, nice.
	See, that's one that we've had since we were like middle school.
	Like, I'd be like, that's weird because she's waiting for you to be.
	This lady was.
	She's still sketchy, though.
	I still think that she's a little bit more.
	She waited a year.
	She was up to no good.
	That is up to no good.
	She met my mom, too.
	Oh.
	And my mom's like, you know what?
	My mom's like, I don't trust that lady.
	I don't have a bad feeling about her.
	Mother always looks.
	They're like, I like her, mom.
	Yeah, seriously.
	Like, the older I get, the more I realize that my mom really does know.
	Oh, yeah.
	Why didn't I listen to you?
	Sorry, mom.
	Sorry, watching.
	Okay, so we were talking about body count.
	Then we switched to the age gap stuff.
	Any of you have an issue with the age gap stuff?
	No.
	You can be honest.
	Unless it's predatory, again.
	Unless it's predatory.
	How do you define predatory?
	Like, let's say a 30-year-old wanting to date a 20-year-old.
	Okay.
	Just that, not looking at any other details.
	That in and of itself, do you think that that is predatory?
	You can be honest, guys.
	No.
	Okay.
	I think it could be.
	Well, sure, I guess I suppose anything could be something, but.
	I think that if you met someone, if you met a woman that was like 21 years old and she's like perfect, but you were like, oh, no, sorry, you're past like 20.
	I think that that's weird.
	I think that that's a little bit predatory.
	Oh, because that's like you're looking for that specific person.
	That's weird.
	I think that's very strange.
	The younger, too, it's just the more you're young.
	You don't.
	I was married at 19 and didn't know what I was doing.
	Like, you'd have to give it some time.
	So I feel like if it's a 19 to that, just that whole age, you really have to be careful.
	But I think a lot more people are going to ask questions if you are that young.
	Yes.
	And that's good.
	I'm glad that people do because I would doubt myself too.
	Yeah.
	So besides you, I think all of you said that body count shouldn't matter.
	You acknowledge that it is.
	I mean, it does.
	Okay, so just a question on this.
	So if body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?
	I actually don't know.
	I'm going to be honest.
	I actually really don't know.
	I stopped counting because people would ask me that all the time.
	And I'm like, you know what?
	I'm not going to, I'm just not going to think about it anymore.
	Estimate.
	No idea.
	100 plus.
	I lost my virginity in senior year of high school.
	So I didn't have that crazy high school experience or anything like that.
	It's probably a lot lower than people think, but I don't even know.
	I don't even know.
	I genuinely don't even know range.
	I have no idea.
	But it's like an it's an ice mile.
	It's definitely in like double digits.
	You have like a spreadsheet.
	For sure.
	I used to, but I got drunk and I deleted it.
	I was like, god damn it.
	I had a whole list of everyone.
	She has a six.
	I deleted it.
	But at that point, it was up to like, before I deleted it, it was up to like.
	No comment.
	I don't even know.
	I'm not saying.
	But I thought body count doesn't matter.
	It's about who's going to watch.
	But it still matters.
	It shouldn't matter, but it's not about.
	It's still the range.
	I'll tell you after.
	Okay, in private.
	Well, yeah, of course.
	It's more just like this is recorded.
	Like, of course.
	Sure.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Under 10.
	I don't want to elaborate.
	Sure.
	Under 10, more than 9.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I'm here with it.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	I was like, I didn't say that.
	It shouldn't matter, but it does.
	And almost every guy believes.
	And honestly, a lot of girls do lie about their body count on the first go.
	That's true.
	I never do.
	I've never lied.
	And when someone said that to me, they're like, you're lying.
	I'm like, why do you think I'm lying?
	Anyways, yeah.
	No.
	Well, you said it matters, but.
	I'm safe because I said it did matter.
	So you don't want to share?
	No.
	That's fine.
	But it's less than 10.
	Sure.
	And then, John, do you want to share yours while we're in?
	I did the other day on the show.
	Yeah.
	Go for it.
	New girls here.
	Like a bunch of people.
	You don't have to, by the way.
	You don't have to.
	Okay, so let me ask you.
	So, what do you think my body count is?
	I have no idea.
	Just give me a guess.
	I'm 20-something.
	I'm not like one of these flaky, weird people that's going to get offended.
	I don't know.
	Just ruthlessly judge me like a book.
	Okay, like 40 or 50?
	40, 50?
	Cool.
	Okay, say you've been sexually active for 20 years.
	Oh, let's call it like average.
	If you've been in like a couple long-term relationships, then average at most, like say three, you're across, right?
	So at most 60.
	Okay.
	Strategy consultant.
	Yeah.
	I was going to say.
	She's doing the same thing.
	60.
	Like 60 to 80.
	40, 60.
	How old are you?
	37.
	Do you mind sharing when you lost your V card?
	17.
	Okay.
	It just does.
	It goes into the 10 years.
	I would say like 30 something in the 30 range.
	Cool.
	I mean, I have to get to know you as a person to throw a number out there.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Same, but I probably, if I'm being ruthless, I'd probably say 40s.
	40s?
	Okay.
	Because I thought exactly that.
	Ruthlessly insulting me or ruthlessly.
	It depends on if you think it matters.
	But no, it's also the 20 years of being sexually active.
	Right.
	Yeah.
	Answer?
	It's like 250.
	Yeah.
	I'm really not surprised.
	So if we do the math on average, it's one every other day.
	It was also depending, like, again, relationship if you travel.
	20 years, 250.
	There go the numbers.
	What about you?
	What about me?
	Well, I think body count matters.
	So as a man of God, I do not share my body count.
	But you guys are welcome to guess.
	But if you won't, tell the real answer then.
	Now you know how guys feel.
	No, he just said I won't answer.
	He won't even give a fake answer.
	He's just not going to answer.
	I won't give a fake answer.
	No, you just won't answer.
	Anybody want to guess?
	Okay.
	Well, speaking on the women's body counts.
	Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
	Yeah, that's the same.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Really quick before we get to the rest of the super chats, guys, we are going to get to them.
	Sorry, guys.
	We just, the conversation's been flowing, and we had a lot of TTS come through.
	Valentine's Day is coming up, two weeks away.
	Do you guys think you will have Valentine's?
	Yep.
	I already do.
	For sure.
	Myself?
	Yes.
	Aw.
	And, yeah, I mean.
	No, listen, it's fine.
	I get enough.
	Riley energy.
	Do you think you'll have a...
	I'm going to dinner with a couple friends.
	So that's a no?
	No.
	She's single off, one and two and three.
	Yeah.
	Okay, go ahead.
	You're single off?
	I do have one.
	Okay.
	Probably.
	Okay.
	I don't.
	I don't.
	I don't have any more laughs for you.
	Okay.
	Good times.
	How about you?
	Do you guys have Valentines?
	Of course.
	I have a show on Valentine's Day.
	I'm doing a show on the video.
	Hey, there we go.
	I'm doing Twitch, probably.
	Oh, yeah.
	You should come.
	You should come be on the show.
	We'll get you back.
	We'll get you back.
	Yeah, I have a date with Kiki, actually.
	Oh, yeah, by the way, guys.
	Onlyfans.com slash whatever.
	There's going to be a collaboration.
	Yeah, Burke BabyXO.
	Check out our link tree.
	All right.
	Let me get these super chats here.
	So we got Zentiens, I believe.
	Roma Army's making fun of me.
	Oh, oh.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah.
	STD.
	She said something about STDs or something.
	Go tattoo your neck some more.
	Oh no.
	Okay.
	Did I, guys?
	Did I read this one?
	Yeah.
	Okay, okay.
	Zentians $20.
	They expect, did we do this one?
	They expect perfect diamonds from men had to correct or my bad analogy falls.
	We expect diamonds and then he's calling us cheeks or something.
	Sorry.
	Cubic.
	Okay.
	Cheeks here.
	Jesus Christ, so I regret the fit check.
	This came in the ZTS.
	Okay.
	We have Bernito.
	Hey, thank you, man.
	You ever considered that sleeping around or casually dating several people at the same time could be negatively impacting your mental health or be a sign that there's a deeper personal issue that hasn't been resolved?
	Really quick answers on this, guys, if you want.
	It's a bit yeah, but you gotta try to know, right?
	Word.
	I'm there.
	I mean, I think it really depends on the person.
	Like, honestly, like, even for me, like, I don't know if this is directed at me, honestly, but like just in general.
	Okay, okay.
	But like, I would say, okay.
	Um, sleepy wrong.
	I mean, I think that it does.
	If you are looking, if you were primarily sleeping around because you want to feel that warmth and that warm body of someone else, then I think that that's negative in a sense.
	And like, if you were looking for something, like, unless you were literally just want to like get like an orgasm or something and like just dip like whatever, yeah, like put it per se, then like that's fine.
	But like, if you're looking for just a warm body or like company because you're lonely, I think that would be negative, definitely.
	But I don't know.
	Yeah, I think that's a good answer.
	Yeah.
	All right, we have, unless anybody else wants to come in.
	Okay.
	We have Jamie Snapshot $20 Super Chat Noise Socks.
	Oh, Jamie.
	I love Jamie.
	Did we see the socks?
	Do you want to show this off?
	You guys want to see?
	Thank you, Jamie.
	I love you.
	That's he's someone from my Twitch.
	I hope little socks.
	They like just not flash right there.
	Yeah.
	There they are.
	Okay.
	I like them.
	Thank you.
	All right.
	Jamie, thank you for the super chat there.
	Yo, hold on.
	We got Glenn Coco.
	Thank you for the $20 Super Chat.
	I got Standards Broke How opened my eyes.
	Thought women were pickier than men, but did the app and was amazed at how few decent men there are.
	App is correct, by the way.
	Glenn, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	Flan Life, Canadian $30.
	Appreciate it, man.
	Thank you.
	Good to see you in the chat, Andrew.
	Ladies, are redheads attractive to you?
	Quick.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Okay, cool.
	But it also depends.
	Like, there can be an unattractive redhead, but there can also be an unattractive black.
	Yes, there can also be an unattractive blonde.
	Like, it's not like every single red head is unattractive.
	Kiki?
	I'm sorry, Flan Life.
	She's not like redhead.
	Jesus, I don't know what's going on with that camera or this angle.
	Rebecca.
	Looks very off color, but whatever.
	Mango King, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	Sup, everyone.
	Shout out to MLD.
	Got a silly question for Rebecca.
	Were you in Tampa last month?
	Face-to-face is so different than screen.
	Was I?
	That would have been December.
	No?
	I don't think so.
	Okay.
	Yo, we have Alvin.
	Thank you, man, for the $20 Soup Chat.
	Ladies, marriageable man or Instagram.
	Pick only one to keep.
	So.
	Instagram.
	Marriageable man.
	Man.
	Man.
	Marriageable man.
	I don't want a man.
	I really like career stuff, so Instagram is my career.
	I'll take that.
	Man.
	Man.
	Okay.
	So, Instagram, Instagram.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But they also make all their money on the business.
	Yeah, they do.
	They do make their money that way.
	She doesn't want to get married, though.
	Doesn't want to get married?
	No kids?
	I'm with you on the no kids thing.
	Maybe.
	I don't know.
	Actually, I might have kids.
	I'll have kids.
	Wow.
	That was a big decision that went hybrid.
	I'm bipolar.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	Yeah, not for the time being.
	I meant.
	Maybe in a few years.
	Okay, we have Cheeks here with the $20 soup chat.
	Can the panel, aside from Brian and MLD, not really define high-value man, not really define high-value man and high-value man?
	So you don't want us to define it?
	It was a rhetorical question.
	I think they're saying they didn't like our answers.
	Oh, okay.
	Gotcha.
	All right, praxis.
	That's okay.
	Thank you for the $20 soup chat.
	Chaotic dating life aside.
	Sydney is really cute and it.
	She learns from her mistakes.
	Question for her.
	Would you ever date a future attorney?
	I'm currently in law school.
	can work at pwc together if we run into each other where i'm meeting people that i'm dating never say never Not for the next year.
	That's huge.
	So you're going to be, you said you're not going to be dating.
	Are you going to be celibate for a year?
	She's going to try.
	She's going to try.
	She said yes.
	Like not interested.
	Your dream guy comes along.
	You're going to turn him down.
	My therapist actually says that I have to stop thinking that every guy who is like, you know.
	Your dream guy is not your dream guy.
	She was literally like, you have to stop being so optimistic and such a hopeless romantic.
	Wow.
	Get a new therapist.
	Jesus.
	I get it.
	I'm too optimistic.
	So yeah, I'm trying to be a little bit less optimistic.
	You're a little bit like a hopeless romantic.
	Yeah, that's why I keep getting into these situations.
	I get that.
	And then it makes you not trust people.
	What?
	What about my dad?
	I was like that too at first.
	And now I'm like this.
	You looked like you did.
	And then now you don't have to.
	And now I don't want to do it.
	How many therapists have you had?
	I had one when I was in Philly, and then I moved to New York, so I had one.
	And then I had one in Orange County, and then one here.
	Just like one wherever I move.
	So four.
	Okay.
	She present her mind.
	All right.
	We have Yo, Roma.
	I think this came through as a TTS maybe.
	Yo, Roma, thank you.
	It might have came in this TTS where I might have.
	What is Blue Hair?
	What is Blue Hair going to do when her looks are gone and she has no education or career to fall back on?
	By the way, guys, check out Chloe Roma, Roma Army, her channel on YouTube.
	we're going to be doing a collab would you like to answer the yeah I would love to answer the question It's really funny that you make assumptions about me that I have no education or I didn't have a career before I did this.
	Because baby, I was a project manager.
	I'm good.
	I will be fine later in life.
	Don't worry.
	You don't need to worry about me.
	You know what?
	When she comes on the show, maybe we have you both.
	Yeah, there we go.
	You guys can discuss this in person.
	Okay.
	Oh, wait, was it the girl that was on the TikTok?
	Yeah, that was.
	You're beautiful, by the way.
	You're very beautiful.
	That's right.
	Good sense.
	She is.
	She's very beautiful.
	What's the term for it?
	I'm not sure if you're going to be able to...
	Shit, what's the term?
	evading me right now.
	You're not going to be able to flatter her into, uh, oh, yeah.
	No, no, no.
	That's the thing, though.
	Regardless of what people say to me, I will say, oh, have a good day.
	Have a great life.
	Like, regardless, even if they are roasting me, it's not intentionally to be like, oh, be nice to me.
	It's like, I want you to know that I don't act that way.
	And I would never talk to someone in that way.
	That's true.
	I'll talk to you in a nice way.
	So you never want to get married.
	You never want to have kids.
	So you're just going to be professionally hot for your whole life?
	No.
	No.
	So I don't want to get married, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be okay with having someone, a partner, in a sense.
	But I don't want to put labels on it.
	I don't want to have someone to call them my boyfriend.
	I just want to have a partner.
	Maybe, maybe.
	If I don't have one, then that's fine too.
	Because there are not a lot of people that are okay with that and not having labels.
	Because people are like, oh, yeah, labels, like whatever.
	Like, so many people are like that.
	And then they're like, well, wait, what are we?
	Like, can we be exclusive?
	And I'm like, no, like, it'll work.
	Because you don't want to lose any sense of freedom that you have?
	Yeah, I would say so.
	Like, I'm very, it took me a very long time to get to where I am right now.
	I used to hate being alone.
	I couldn't be alone ever.
	Like, I had to have a friend over.
	And now I, like, thrive in my alone time.
	And I like do stuff for my career.
	I do stuff for myself.
	Like, I'm just in a way better headspace and way better mental place.
	What changed?
	What allowed you to be okay with being alone?
	Because a lot of people will stay with somebody that they really don't think is a good partner for them, but they have a fear of alone.
	Like, the idea, like, even for me, like, I'm a pretty successful guy.
	I'm pretty good looking.
	And so, like, I could go out there and get a girl to date, right?
	But even the idea of me going out and dating nowadays, I'm just like, exactly.
	No, I feel that.
	I feel like I gotta like fucking detox and like get ready for this shit, like, green juice for like two weeks.
	Yeah, literally.
	Meditation.
	But I would say it took a lot of like self-reflection and like a lot of therapy, a lot of like traditional therapy, CBT or whatever.
	Therapist, yeah.
	And then I also, like, this wasn't my choice, but I got forced.
	This is like a little bit ago, but I got forced to go into like a wilderness therapy type thing.
	And like that completely changed my crazy.
	No, it wasn't like that.
	It was like, it was better.
	If you guys see that stuff on TikTok, it was like wilderness.
	It was not the best thing ever.
	But like it did help me in a sense.
	But like since then, I went on a journey of just like self-care, like reading books, like so many different books and like talking to my parents, like getting a better relationship with them.
	And like, I don't know.
	I just think that I healed my inner child and like myself in a sense where I looked into the mirror and I actually saw who I was versus like the outside.
	Like I don't know how to explain it.
	Yeah.
	I do.
	I do.
	I'm sorry.
	I go on rambling things.
	I know, no, listen, I want to, I do a lot of inner child work.
	No, I do a lot of inner child work with my guys because a lot of them will have like these unresolved issues with their dads and moms.
	You guys hot too?
	I'm hot.
	I'm hot.
	I'm hot as hell too.
	Should not have worn that.
	Also, I ramble a lot, so if I ever do, please do that.
	I thought it might be cold.
	I got glasses.
	I didn't say anything because I thought you guys might be a cold.
	No, I'm not.
	You'll know I have a cold.
	You should have worn a short sleeve.
	Okay.
	Here, we got another one.
	Hey, Roma, Canadian Semdella Soup Chats.
	The girl who gave the sperm donor answer.
	Does she feel like sperm donor is the best route because she thinks she's already too high value to improve herself for a potential future man?
	Was that you, Rebecca?
	That was me, yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	I think where my mind went with that was: if I'm going to try to improve myself for to find a man, I'm going to go in it with the wrong intention.
	So to find someone, have a natural chemistry, have the dopamine effect, get over the honeymoon phase, think that genetically they're the one for me.
	It's just a long process.
	So if I'm 30 and I want a kid, that's like ideal.
	That's what I'm going to do.
	You're 30?
	No.
	The question was like, when you're 30, right?
	Okay, can you improve on yourself?
	I thought you were 23.
	Yeah, no, it has nothing to do with my own self.
	I don't see myself as higher than, I don't know, any male that I'm looking at.
	It's just a matter of like logical sense.
	Hold on, guys.
	Trying to see what's going on with the.
	All right, Steven, DSR with the 20 Euro.
	Thank you, man.
	I don't mind being alone and childless.
	Every girl before 35 and hitting the wall.
	Let's talk when you are old and alone, talking to your cats like they are children.
	I'm not even old and I talk to my cat like it's a child.
	She's my baby.
	I love that.
	I'm in love with her.
	Would you like to respond?
	Yum, Eric.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Did you want to respond?
	I mean, I feel like I have been.
	Was that directed at me?
	I mean, listen.
	Listen.
	I don't know.
	I just think that that's funny.
	Like, you can have your opinion and stuff, but like, at the end of the day, if I'm meant to find someone, then I will find someone.
	Like, I'm not sitting here, like, oh, I'm going to reject every single man that comes to me.
	Like, if I find someone, yeah, dope.
	But I'm not going to marry them or anything like that.
	And I'm not going to have kids, but I want to find someone to travel the world with.
	Would you marry them just not legally?
	Oh, maybe.
	Definitely not.
	I don't want a wedding or anything like that.
	And like, we can get like a tattoo or something together.
	But like, I don't need to legally marry someone, you know?
	Yeah.
	All right, we have Dave on Jackson $50 Super Chat.
	It's not his ego that's the issue.
	It's her ego.
	It's inevitable.
	Wait, did this come through as a super?
	Yeah.
	Did I already read this?
	Yeah.
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	It's inevitable that she becomes.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Romo.
	This one we got.
	I think we saw this.
	Okay, we saw this one.
	This one came through.
	Thank you.
	Davon Jackson.
	This one we got.
	Zentience.
	I don't think we got this one.
	Zentience $50 Super Chat.
	By the way, Zentience TTS is $69 and off, just so we're moving through the show a little faster today.
	Leftover woman is misogynistic.
	Question mark.
	Tell that to the Chinese.
	Stop being racist for comment.
	The Chinese use on their own women how bigoted of you to be dismissive of their language and culture regarding women.
	I literally have no response to that.
	You know, now it's coming to bite them in the ass because there's not enough women and all of the men in China have to work so hard to get a wife because there are fewer.
	And the birth rate has actually declined for the first time in a very long time.
	And they lifted the one child policy because of that.
	All right, Praxis, $20 Super Chat, despite her chaotic dating life, Sydney learns from her mistakes.
	We did.
	Yeah.
	It's reframed, but yeah.
	Okay.
	Chaz, $20 Super Chat.
	Ladies, what would you say you have done wrong in your past relationships?
	I like this one.
	This one's good.
	I'd say not valuing.
	Hold on.
	I just want to go around like this.
	Why don't we start over here with you?
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	That's a really good question.
	I know for me, what I've done wrong is, well, I think ultimately I'm very independent, and I pride myself in that.
	But that causes me to just get really kind of bored.
	If a relationship is going, it gets pretty mundane, and I want to travel.
	I have the ability to travel with my job, and I want to do that.
	Eric, have you shown those, by the way?
	What's the holdup?
	Oh, yeah, you can.
	I'm sure some more have come through.
	Sorry, go ahead.
	But I think I don't even know.
	As far as I'm done wrong, I am probably not the most patient person with wanting to work and compromise with someone who has a very set career and can't adapt for me.
	I think that's where my weakness is, is if you're not able to adapt for me because of my lifestyle and my priorities, and maybe that's a little selfish, but I'm very independent, and it's really hard for me because of that.
	So the mistake you've made in the past relationship is you've gone bored too easily.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	My first two relationships were definitely because I was afraid of being alone and I like hooked onto them and it was all messy.
	And then the last relationship was I like matched, I was like so enamored by them, I like matched their energy and toxicity.
	So then it just escalated back and forth.
	How were you toxic?
	It's a very long story.
	Give us the cliff notes.
	Essentially, I let the buttons get pushed.
	Like he knew what buttons to push for me, and I knew for him.
	In the end, we both loved each other, but the things that were happening in our life were like head.
	He had another girl pregnant when I was dating him.
	I was going through my breakup.
	And then I was struggling with the idea of sharing a man with another family that I wanted to have a family with.
	It was like a whole thing.
	I mean, that seems like a legitimate concern.
	Well, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	But that's like things were butting heads, and it was like one little tiny thing, and it was another, and it was like going to the birth of it.
	You went to the birthday?
	I did not.
	I did not.
	Him going, like, the details on which of him going and like, like, how he's going to be in the life if he's not going to be the life, what he wants to do.
	So how was it toxic, though?
	It was just those conversations.
	A little tiny one.
	Like, just arguments?
	Yeah.
	Yelling.
	Did you ever slash his tires?
	Yeah.
	Killed the firstborn, too.
	Got a social security, sold it.
	No, I never slashed tires.
	Cried a lot, went a little manic, and then decided to be single for a very, very, very long time.
	It sounds like the sex is really good in that relationship.
	Yep.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I would say maybe not.
	Maybe assuming that I know who they are before really giving them a fair chance.
	Also, I would say, I don't know, for me personally, I was...
	Sorry, hold on.
	Matt Sans Super Chatted $69.
	Does anybody respect something that is easy to get?
	Women with high body counts are not BC.
	Getting sex for women is easy.
	Paternity also is an issue with promiscuous women.
	Men do not want to provide for a child.
	For a child that isn't his own blood.
	So you were shaking your head when he was talking about that it's easy for women to get sex.
	Is that what you were shaking your head about?
	I was shaking my head about the fact that you think that a higher body count makes someone easy.
	Because what if they like, if they have a higher body count, what if they're specifically looking for this one person and you don't meet that requirement?
	Then she's not easy to get.
	She's not, you know what I mean?
	Like, it just really depends.
	Like, I think that that's...
	Well, he's not...
	I don't...
	Can you pull that up, Eric, really quick?
	The super chat?
	So it says, he's not saying that women with high body counts are easy.
	He's saying it's women with high body counts are not respected because it's getting sex for women is easy.
	Oh, okay.
	See, I read it as high body count, easy to have sex with women.
	Okay, but do you disagree with it that it's easy for women to get sex?
	Yeah, I would say it's probably easier for women than men.
	Okay, so you agree with that?
	Yeah, definitely.
	Yeah.
	Sorry, sorry about that.
	I can tell you it's way easier for women to get sex.
	Way easier.
	Basically, I know it.
	This is what it feels like.
	An average woman has about the same sexual options.
	Her equivalent is a male celebrity.
	In order for a guy to have as many sexual options as an average woman, he need be a male celebrity.
	That's insane.
	Because an average woman could sleep with a new guy every single day of the week.
	That's like top 1% of men can do that.
	It's probably less than 1%.
	A new girl every single day.
	So average women.
	No, it is crazy.
	Yeah, it is crazy.
	But I do agree with that.
	Yes.
	Y'all kind of have that shit on easy mode, not going to lie.
	Y'all got that shit on easy mode.
	I'm good.
	I'm good on that one.
	Hold on.
	I have something for that.
	I don't want to suck dick.
	I'm good.
	Oh, God.
	Sticking feathers.
	Okay.
	Someone else for OnlyFans content, not me.
	Okay, so.
	We were on Chaz's, unless, did any of you want to add to the TTS that came through?
	So we were talking about one thing that you've done wrong in the past relationship.
	Were you, you were.
	Well, as I've gotten kind of some time to think about it too, I would say trying to change a man into being what I need instead of just accepting him for exactly who he is.
	And if I need something else, go find someone else, but not change them.
	I used to try to like make them into that person, and that's not fair to either one of us.
	That's a good one.
	I did that too.
	Pattern, not potential.
	Yeah.
	But also just being like more codependent and like losing myself and them because I love them so much and I want to do everything for them and like be everything that they deserve.
	You come off as like harsh and cold, but you're really a softie and like really just.
	I'm a hopeful somantic.
	I want to love like that.
	That's hot.
	I like it.
	Oh, well, just on the whole change thing really quick.
	I saw this quote the other day and I wrote it down and maybe you guys might relate.
	So men marry women with the hope they will never change.
	Women marry men with the hope they will change.
	Invariably, they are both disappointed.
	I like that.
	I think the best is when you change together.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, we're going to grow together.
	It's super important.
	So do you want to go with our one thing we've done wrong in our past relationship?
	Did she get together?
	No, you go.
	I would say one of the biggest reasons is communication.
	Actually, weirdly, I know, but I'm terrible at communicating over the phone and stuff like that.
	I hate it.
	I honestly hate texting and all that stuff.
	But then also, I think that I see, when I start dating a man, I kind of make up this fantasy man in my head.
	And I think that that's how they are because that's the only thing that I see at first.
	And then once we're in a relationship, I start seeing things that don't fit into the narrative that I'd already played out in my head.
	And then I'm like, nope, done.
	And I get bored.
	So like there's just a lot.
	Yeah.
	What about you guys?
	I've never done anything wrong in a relationship.
	I'm obviously hurt.
	Bullshit.
	Shit, whatever.
	So I've done that.
	Searches over.
	Past relationship.
	Can you go first?
	Because I got to think about this one for a sec.
	I could be a little bit of an asshole when I'm in a relationship.
	Sometimes I'm like, no, we're not doing that.
	And that's the end of it.
	Let's go.
	And it's not like, you know, can you take me on a date?
	It's just like sometimes, you know, I run my own business.
	My business is pretty successful.
	So I'm very driven and I know where I want to go.
	And certain things we just can't do.
	Like, I'm not a guy.
	Like, I can't seriously date a girl who drinks alcohol.
	That's just my preference.
	Right?
	There's only one room for a degenerate in the relationship, and that's me.
	You know, like, I want a good woman to like take care of me.
	Not like mommy issue shit, like she was saying earlier.
	But like, I want a competent helpmate that I can come home to.
	And I can be like, babe, like, I just had a shitty day, and she knows how to help me out and do stuff like that.
	You know, so, but I can be a little bit of an asshole sometimes, you know, when I'm just like say something how I say it.
	It's not, it's not my intention, but sometimes I can be like, you know, a little cold when I just look at a decision that means to me, they just make it.
	Yeah.
	So I don't know if this is something that I do wrong, but it is something that women, I think, take an issue with.
	So I'm running my own business.
	I'm doing this podcast.
	It's, you know, my goal is to make an obscene amount of money.
	I want to pay off my parents' mortgage because my parents are the most important thing to me.
	I'd like to support them that way.
	And, you know, I'd consider myself very ambitious and I work a lot.
	And coinciding with that, I'm very busy.
	So I don't have time to go on hikes with you.
	I don't have time to go to the zoo with you.
	Like, I'm so stressed out with work as it is.
	I work a lot.
	So honestly, like, I'm tired.
	The little free time I do have, I just want to chill.
	I don't want to go do this extraneous shit.
	You'll have my full undivided attention when we're hanging out, but I don't have time to fucking go out.
	I'm a bit of a homebody too.
	So like, on one hand, girls want ambitious men, but a lot of ambitious men don't have a lot of time to give.
	So I think.
	Yeah, high-value dudes come with high-value problems.
	Unfortunately, but it also sounds like maybe right now in the phase of your life, you're not ready for a relationship that takes up a lot of your time.
	But when you have a successful business and all your income is passive, then you have a lot of time.
	Well, I mean, I'm not interested in, and I've really, frankly, never been interested in short-term or casual dating either.
	I've always valued building something with someone and having continuity.
	To me, it's just not worth the time to always be trying to pursue someone new.
	And honestly, it's just a headache.
	Look, I've had a few times in the past where I've tried kind of dating multiple people.
	To me, it's just not worth the headache.
	I've done the calculus, and it's just, it's not worth it.
	I think I'd much rather give my time to other things.
	And I do prefer having just one person.
	I find that to be optimal for my work, anyways.
	I don't have the time to be trying to fucking be a playboy.
	I've had a lot of experience dating and stuff, but yeah, so I am desirous of a relationship, but with someone that understands that I not really, I don't have a ton of free time.
	You will have my undivided attention when I'm with you.
	I'm not on the phone and on the computer, distracted and shit, but we're not going to brunch.
	We're not going to the zoo.
	Like, I got other shit.
	Like, I'm busy.
	Let's do it.
	You can't do brunch.
	Brunch is like an hour and a half.
	Well, you know what?
	Here's the thing.
	I also wake up late as fuck.
	I'm on a shit sleep schedule.
	You can get waffles at two o'clock.
	True.
	Okay, I guess that's fair.
	But yeah, it's just, and I'm with you.
	Well, I know you said in the girl, you don't want a girl that drinks or anything like that.
	Yeah, yeah, no, no.
	That's definitely my preference too because I don't drink at all.
	I don't do drugs.
	I don't party.
	It's just, I don't go to clubs, bars.
	Yeah, just not my thing.
	I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than go to a nightclub or a bar.
	It's just, I don't like it.
	Not my scene.
	So that kind of thing.
	I was just in Miami.
	I went out like two nights.
	I was like, that's enough.
	Yeah.
	Straining on me.
	I like dive bars.
	I like dive bars.
	They're kind of funny.
	We can have a conversation, you know?
	But like I went to Vendome and just like blasting the music.
	I like being able to dance.
	You're like, can't dance.
	It doesn't mean you're karaoke.
	I love karaoke.
	It's something where it's like intimate, chill setting.
	Yeah, so I totally get.
	And earlier when I was saying, like, I feel kind of selfish for thinking how you, what you just said.
	But then you said it's all about the timing in your life and when, what's most important to you.
	And yeah, that's not something selfish to be.
	If you don't have the time to adapt in that situation for someone else because you're busy with your work, then that's cool.
	Yeah, well, and I think one thing I've encountered is that some women, perhaps most women, will wrongly think because I don't want to go out and do these like cutesy dates and shit, that I'm not interested in something serious with her.
	But it's not the case at all for me because what, well, one, I am, I do lean.
	I like to travel and stuff, but like I don't, I don't need to be going out and doing all this shit.
	But I don't know, when a girl like, also, when a girl like wants to be constantly doing shit and she's bored and she's just not content, just at least for me, I don't need to be playing mini golf with a girl to be content in her presence.
	I can just be, we can be lounging in our sweatpants.
	What's that fucking Drake song?
	Here tied, chilling with no makeup on.
	Yeah, his best I ever had.
	Hair tied, chilling with no makeup on.
	That's when you're the prettiest.
	I don't need a girl to be all dolled up.
	I don't need that.
	Like, come over, no makeup, sweatpants.
	Let's just fucking get it.
	That's my thing.
	I actually, everything that you've been saying, I'm like, that's literally exactly how I am, too, is that I don't need all that stuff.
	Like, just take me on to, like, take me to the beach.
	And honestly, if that's how it's been, and then I've had situations where the girl starts to want to go do shit.
	Yes.
	She's like, I'm bored.
	Like, that's not good.
	I think you want a girl that's like, she's just happy to be spending time with you.
	Well, and you don't have to do much.
	You don't have to go out.
	Like, that's traveling is great.
	Like, I love to travel with my girl, but like, when I'm at home.
	If she likes you, that's all that really matters.
	Exactly.
	If she likes you, I'm going to go.
	And if you have a good conversation.
	Yeah, yeah, exactly.
	You know, if the chemistry is there, you know, they'll go with you and McDonald's.
	You know, that's totally true.
	And there's little things you can do at the house to show them that you care about them without going out or something.
	But their favorite movie.
	I have a date at your house.
	Like the amount of times that I've made a little pillow for it and just done that for like my, even like myself or like my friends.
	Like that's a date.
	Like that's it.
	That's definitely a date.
	Are you kidding me?
	Like you don't have to go anywhere for it to be a date.
	It's all about the person and honestly the sex.
	I agree.
	Yes.
	All right.
	We have Louis Britto here, $20 soup shout out to your Brian.
	I hope your back is feeling better.
	Hey, MLD.
	Thank you for the content.
	And yes, I lost the fedora pic.
	Meant to do it long ago.
	Oh no.
	MLD, you down?
	No, I'm not messing up my hair.
	Okay.
	Yo, Lewis, thank you, man.
	Yeah, my back's been, I mentioned this when me and John had our one-on-one interview, which you guys should check out.
	We did that yesterday.
	A couple years ago, a couple years back, fractured my back, broke my back, L5S1.
	It's slowly improved, but actually this past week I've had a pretty, honestly the worst flare-up since I initially injured my back.
	So some spasming, pretty, I'm in some pain right now, but yeah, so it'll get better.
	But yeah, it's been a bit rough.
	So if you've seen me squirming in the cherubic, guys, and yeah, I've been a little distracted too recently because of the pain.
	But anyways, appreciate the kind words, Lewis.
	All right, we have Gus, $20 Super Chat.
	Women and beta men use sign language, shame, insult, guilt, need to be right when a fact statement that said makes them feel bad or is true.
	They say buzzwords to insult men and wonder why chivalry is dead.
	Chivalry is dead and who killed it?
	I don't know.
	I don't think the chivalry is not.
	I would say society killed it.
	Society is society.
	Society killed it.
	I think so.
	I really do.
	Because I think that some people, like, some men will say, like, I don't know, like, I don't know what I'm saying.
	No, I know what you're saying.
	But the thing is, it's kind of gotten to a point where women are kind of entitled to it.
	So, like, when a guy does it, he kind of looks like a pussy.
	You're kind of like, oh, yeah, you're falling into a lot of people.
	What's that?
	I just think, I don't know.
	I like when a man doesn't care what other people are doing.
	You got to do it like a man.
	You got to do it like a boss.
	You got to do it with some style.
	You got to do it with some Riz.
	I think it's sad that men do feel like they're pussies if they're being nice.
	And I've seen that.
	Well, no, no, no.
	It's not that, but it's how the girls treat them after they do it.
	Oh, that's.
	Because there's a lot of entitlement there.
	A lot of girls, like, you hold the door open for them.
	They're like looking at their phone.
	They're like, yeah, thanks, fucker.
	You should hold that open for me.
	Not all.
	I'm not saying you girls, but I'm telling you, that's a common reality for a lot of men.
	There's a lot of female entitlement.
	I think it stems from insecurity, personally, on the woman's point.
	And also, a lot of men have had the experience of they do what they've been told by society and by women is the right thing.
	They do the flowers.
	They do the elaborate romantic movie moment gesture.
	They, you know, pay for the date, and then they get the ass out hug at the end of the date.
	And then it doesn't go anywhere.
	So men typically are not being rewarded for that kind of behavior.
	They don't get rewarded for the flowers.
	I'm not saying that men are owed anything because they do that, but when they do it, it doesn't seem to work.
	And then they later find out that that girl hooked up with some guy who didn't do any of that shit, who was kind of the jerk, the bad boy, the asshole.
	And they see, and men adapt.
	Men look at what works and they see, well, paying for flowers, doing all this shit.
	I'm getting treated like garbage.
	I'm getting ghosted.
	My brother just had this conversation with me earlier.
	And also men do.
	What did he say?
	He said he, well, he's been trying to be the sweet guy.
	And same thing you said, flowers.
	He flew out all the way to Wisconsin to see a girl.
	Like all of these big gestures, right?
	Very sweet.
	And he told me today, because I said I was coming on here, he goes, I'm just going to go back to being a toxic king, whatever.
	And he was like, because, and then I was like, no, don't do that.
	And he was like, no, really, because I'm not getting anywhere being the nice guy.
	And I don't know what else to do.
	Being nice doesn't work.
	Being toxic is bad.
	What else do I do?
	And I feel for him.
	It's hard.
	But the thing is, though, like when the guy does do a genuine nice gesture, a lot of girls treat him like he's just some fucking like pleb.
	Like just some like dude that doesn't get any, you know, how you treat your Twitch subscribers.
	I know, we're all friends.
	No, we're like homies.
	Like I love my vibe tribe.
	No, you do, you do.
	I'm joining.
	I'm joining after.
	I'm signing up.
	I'm signing up.
	We're going to do collab.
	But I do have a comment about that, though.
	I think that like if you're not.
	For real, though, the guys do feel like that.
	I'm telling you from my side.
	Yeah, you know, yeah, definitely.
	But I feel like, I mean, for me, kind of, like, I'm a grateful person regardless.
	Like, someone could literally give me a penny and I'd be like, oh, my God, thank you so much.
	Like, where's this from?
	Like, it was crazy.
	But, like, if someone gets, like, I think for other women, it's kind of like the flowers and the chocolates, like, that's like an empty gift.
	Like, put some thought behind it.
	Even it's kind of like, oh, you like you've just seen other people do that, like put some thought behind it.
	Like get like their favorite flowers or like something that's like memorable so that they wouldn't forget that instead of just getting like roses.
	I don't know.
	I agree.
	I see what you're saying.
	Like, you know, I just think that overall, like, the entitlement they got.
	Wait, where did you get this from?
	It's the prettiest penny I've ever seen in my life.
	2021, too?
	Oh, my God.
	Shiny.
	I'm keeping this red.
	Sell it hard, baby.
	Personally, I love the light.
	Wow, she put it in her flowers.
	Right next to my heart.
	There you go.
	There you go.
	Opening the door for me.
	I love it.
	Yes.
	You like it?
	From the guy you like.
	Yes.
	No, I like it from.
	I think it's important for any guy to do that.
	But if they're met with, yeah, that entitlement you're talking about, that's super sad.
	And that sucks.
	My philosophy for the guys is do it if you, A, if it truly aligns with your belief system.
	Yes.
	And then B, if the person is appreciating it.
	Yeah.
	Because I've been, like, I'm pretty sure you girls have been as well.
	I've been in a relationship with somebody where they didn't appreciate me.
	And I was just like, bitch, I'm doing everything for you.
	You are ungrateful.
	You know, like, that is never something you want to feel.
	So if it's happening towards the beginning, you know, that's just never a good way to set up the relationship.
	Do you guys think that chivalry would include, for example, the guy paying on the first date?
	Offering to.
	Yeah.
	Not actually paying.
	Or like, paying if the girl says yes, you know, and offers nice, sweet.
	I think the other thing, too, though, is why chivalry is on the way out is men don't want to be suckers.
	And the reality of the dating marketplace is people are dating multiple people at the same time.
	People are sleeping with multiple people at the same time.
	And a guy doesn't want to adhere to his traditional gender rules if a woman is not adhering to hers.
	Tradition would dictate that in a traditional sense, you're dating one person at a time.
	Most people are not doing that.
	And to take it a step further, most people have a roster.
	They're sleeping with one, two, three other people.
	The last thing a guy wants to do is, for example, do the nice thing, do the chivalry, and then pay for a woman's food on a date, for example.
	She takes that to go.
	She gets a dog bag to go, gives him a nas out hug, kiss on the cheek.
	Oh, it was a nice date.
	And then brings that food over to the guy who she's sleeping with, gives him the food.
	He eats it, then he sleeps with her.
	Guys don't want to be suckers.
	Very specific.
	I feel like...
	That's happened to a lot of guys.
	That happened to...
	The girl foodie dated me on when I lived in Hawaii.
	She's pretty horrible.
	She just like pretended she was, and I couldn't believe it.
	I was like, bitch, are you this desperate for a meal?
	Like, you know, she just wanted to link up.
	She wanted to go out and date.
	And then we went on the date and she ordered a bunch of food.
	And then the date was over and she wanted to go home.
	And then I just never heard from her again.
	And I figured out that she was doing it just to get a free meal, which is hilarious.
	There are men out there that they're the guy that the girl goes over to after they've been on a date with a guy.
	They get the free food, whatever.
	I think I've been, I don't know if I've been the guy on the date paying for the food.
	I don't really do dinner dates, but maybe a few times in the past.
	But I've definitely had a girl that she brought some food over.
	I'm like, oh.
	And like, she was like, yeah, I went on a date.
	I was like, oh, geez.
	Yeah, girls have dudes in their phone like Uber.
	They'll have food.
	See, I have so much girls just going on a date.
	I would never.
	I think when it comes down to it, it's like when someone decides that they want a long-term monogamous relationship or when they want to settle down, have family and kids, that behavior will change.
	Like, this is like, you know, everyone has that ho phase.
	Everyone goes through guys and girls, you know, and girls.
	So I feel like everyone.
	Not everybody has a ho face.
	Wait, who?
	That's a very Western thing.
	Who here has had a ho phase?
	What's your hand up?
	Yeah.
	Just the one.
	Just the four.
	Just the four.
	Like a three-month hand.
	That was it.
	That's okay.
	You're monetizing it.
	You look hot.
	You can do whatever you want.
	Other than that, I've been on like, I don't know, long-term relationships.
	Okay.
	How long was your ho-face?
	Three months.
	Oh, okay.
	You know, because there are girls that like do like three years whole phases.
	And decades.
	Each their own.
	What is a ho phase, though?
	Like, by definition, what would you say a ho phase is?
	Not basically.
	Committing to a guy.
	They're like you.
	Basically, you.
	Listen, that's true.
	It's true.
	Exhibit.
	I just do that because I know you could take it.
	Exhibit it.
	I mean, I would say it's someone who's probably being promiscuous, not committing to one guy, maybe having multiple partners or jumping from dick to dick to dick.
	Because another thing is this, too.
	I'll tell you this.
	Guys are like, we're pretty app, we're just very apprehensive about getting involved with anything because like, you know, what you girls put on social media is like fucking traumatizing.
	Like, I see the shit on TikTok.
	Like, I fucked, I'm 19 and I have like a 63 body calculation.
	It's true, it is.
	You know, seeing that kind of stuff, guys are just like, oh, man, I just want a nice girl that's like not been ran through.
	And like, I can introduce her to my mom and like not feel ashamed, you know?
	Yeah, except there are people that I think that like have been per se ran through that would still make an amazing impression on your mother.
	Hilonius!
	Hilonius!
	I don't.
	I think so.
	Moms have a sixth sense.
	Yeah, moms, they'll do this and for mother's.
	All I'm saying is that I've met a lot of moms.
	I've met a lot of moms and stuff like that, and they all love me and they think that I'm a very innocent girl because that's how I wear it.
	I am.
	I'm a virgin, you guys.
	Just love the things your eyes do.
	Your eyes are so expressive.
	The opposite of haram for her.
	Halal.
	Okay.
	Well, I was going to say social media.
	To me, when somebody said, like, who killed Chivalry?
	I was going to say social media.
	And don't get me wrong, I love social media.
	Yeah.
	But I also hate it sometimes because I do think that it's changed the way that men and women interact with each other.
	You know, like, I think it's 50% of all divorce filings have the words Facebook or Instagram in them.
	Oh, I believe in you.
	In America.
	Wait, you said, hold on, you said innocent.
	You're innocent.
	That was a good idea.
	I mean, honestly.
	She's innocent, yeah.
	I would say that I like genuinely, like, if you guys met me, like, outside of this, like, chilling, like, hair tie, chilling in a makeup, like in the grocery store, like, you would probably be like, oh my God, that girl's in the middle.
	You wouldn't even talk to us.
	That's such a lie.
	I talk to everybody.
	Like, actually, I talk to everybody.
	Like, someone will say hi.
	Like, I wave to people for us.
	You'd be like, oh, I like skip down the street.
	People stop and they're like, why are you so happy?
	And I'm like, why are you not the fuck?
	I actually love life.
	I don't know you well enough to make a definitive statement on this, but I mean, is it possible to be because you're a sex worker?
	Right.
	Can you be innocent?
	And I'm not criticizing.
	I'm not criticizing sex work, but what I'm saying is, I don't think you can be corn, right?
	That's sex work.
	OnlyFans.
	Get your proper baby.
	I mean, a component of innocence is purity.
	And I don't take this.
	I don't think that you can be on OnlyFans and also that's fine if you are, but I don't think you can be innocent or pure if you're on OnlyFans.
	Maybe that was the wrong term to use.
	I would say maybe that's the wrong term.
	But like, you wouldn't look at me on the streets and be like, that girl's definitely an OnlyFans girl.
	Like, holy shit, she's a.
	You were wearing that?
	Well, no, if I wasn't wearing this, like if I'm wearing like my everyday, like after this podcast, I'm going to put on like my regular clothes or whatever.
	Yeah, literally sweats and a shirt.
	And you will like, it's not, like, you wouldn't look at me and be like, she definitely does OnlyFans for sure.
	Sure.
	Okay, maybe I was being a little pedantic, but okay, so did everyone get to go on the chivalry thing?
	I think.
	Oh, yeah.
	We all kind of agree.
	Yeah.
	Social media.
	Social media.
	That's Texas.
	Yeah.
	I think it's been bad.
	I mean, it's gotten worse since the 60s.
	i mean you can kind of trace it back to birth control i think when when there's the sexual sexual revolution and then we've kind of redefined how uh well anyways let's i want to keep it moving just to get through these super chats yeah Yeah.
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	All right, we have Paradise Champier.
	Question for Rebecca.
	Why are your Red Pill friends are red-pilled?
	What stuff does your Red Pill friend say that a red pill?
	To Brian, how is Santa Barbara more expensive than LA right now?
	Are you doubting that it's more Santa Barbara is like one of the highest cost of living cities in California and in the country?
	It's expensive.
	It's very expensive here.
	I mean, it's beautiful here.
	The houses are expensive.
	You guys are in LA, right?
	Do you guys all live in LA?
	I live in Santa Barbara, typically.
	I got evacuated from Santa Barbara because of the flooding.
	Oh, you live here?
	Yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	I thought for some reason you were commuting.
	I did today, but you live in LA?
	No, Santa Barbara.
	Santa Barbara.
	Santa Barbara, Santa Barbara, LA.
	LA.
	They are high earnings, though, but I was going to ask what your, do you guys have one-bedroom apartments?
	Mm-mm.
	Three-bedroom.
	She's like, I got a mansion.
	What's up?
	How much do you pay in rent?
	$14.
	Okay.
	Okay, well, maybe I was thinking like a standard one-bedroom apartment.
	Do you have housemates or is that your own place?
	It's my, then I had my friend move in last week.
	Okay.
	Is it a mortgage you're paying?
	No, I'm renting.
	You're just renting?
	What about you?
	I live in like a one-bedroom.
	How much do you pay?
	$1,750.
	Oh, that's cheap.
	I got to steal.
	I'm not moving.
	I don't want to be closer to the beach.
	So this is a residential, like this unit right here.
	it's just a loft it's i don't know how I mean, but it's spacious.
	That's all right.
	It's all right.
	This is like $3,550.
	Jews.
	I mean, I got a good deal.
	I think studios and one-bedrooms right now is probably closer to like $2,500.
	Yeah.
	the place that I found.
	I took it over.
	And in Beverly?
	It's in Beverly Hills.
	Okay.
	Is it a newer building?
	Anyways, rent.
	The chat doesn't really care too much about the rent.
	I derailed the conversation.
	So this was for you, Rebecca.
	Why are they red-pilled?
	I'm assuming it's because of how they grew up.
	But also, I don't consider myself to be red-pilled.
	And I think our friend group specifically, the males, are primarily red-pilled, and they're all like the they're not completely Andrew Tate.
	So that's the thing.
	They like the what?
	What was it?
	What are you saying?
	When guys are like, when they're gentlemanly, like, chivalrous.
	They're pretty chivalrous.
	That's how they are.
	That's how the dynamic is.
	Her and I are pretty masculine, so we kind of stir things up in there.
	Are you really mad?
	I don't know.
	I think the idea.
	It's not like, what's up, bro?
	It's more like the ideology of like, oh, you know, I'll pay for it.
	Like, there's no worries.
	Like, I got my own door or whatever.
	But I like it when they open the door.
	But then again, it's like.
	But then these guys, our friends, will get butt hurt if you open a door.
	Like, if I touch a door, I get anxiety.
	I'm like, oh, go, go, do it.
	Or like if I offer to pay or like, whatever.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I think it's actually the most pretty fucking red pill if the girl pays for you.
	Well, I actually think women should pay.
	I'm not talking split.
	I think women should pay.
	Why?
	Because in a day and age where you have foodie calls and where men are getting finessed on dates and women are going on dates with perhaps not the most genuine of intentions, without actual romantic interest, some women will just go on a date because they're bored.
	They want the free experience.
	They want their, it's on a Friday.
	I got nothing else.
	I guess I'll go.
	Whereas I think men, when they are going on a date, they're a bit more genuine with their intentions insofar as they are interested in you.
	Now, whether that's for sex or for something more serious, that's kind of where it gets scrambled.
	But I think women should pay for first dates because I often hear women say, well, I think guys should pay for the first dates.
	That way I know he's serious about me.
	Well, I think it actually should be the reverse because if a girl pays for you, that's how you know she's serious about you, I think.
	Because that totally does away with this potentiality of there being a foodie call.
	I actually like that.
	I can't even stomach that, though, for me personally.
	If a girl try to buy from me, I'm like, just place in.
	But I think also the girls, both sides.
	The girls that are like, you know, they want the more traditional kind of guy.
	The guys typically are more chivalrous, which can border on chauvinism a little bit.
	But you have to ask yourself, like, I think a lot of people nowadays, too, they're just like too obsessed and too entitled thinking like, I deserve the most perfect person.
	It's like, no, you're so fucking flawed.
	Like, you don't deserve the most perfect person.
	Most of us don't.
	You get what you deserve, right?
	Not what you want.
	You get what you deserve.
	If you bring a certain amount of things to the table, you're going to get that as well.
	This is like when you're in a bad place, you keep on attracting fucked up people.
	It's because you're fucked up.
	I agree.
	Same thing with even friends too.
	I think if your friends are doing like that saying, if your friends are all smoking, you're going to end up smoking.
	A thousand percent.
	A thousand percent.
	Hey, Eric, this just occurred to me, but because I'm OCD and triggered by the weird white balance on this, when we're talking, just keep it center because that at least addresses the annoying color issue we're having.
	Really quick, I want to bring it back to Valentine's Day.
	For Valentine's Day, do you think that the guy should kind of be initiating that in terms of maybe we should have the girls who are going to be able to do it?
	Okay, go ahead, go ahead.
	Not necessarily.
	I think just because it's one day dedicated to romance, it doesn't, I wouldn't want a guy to feel like he's forced to initiate something just because it's a special day.
	I think it's important that if it's okay with the girl, he can pay or if she's okay with that or she can pay if she wants to take a guy out for Valentine's Days.
	It's 2023.
	But I don't think there should be a specific day where a guy feels forced to treat the girl out.
	I think that's sad.
	I agree.
	Yeah.
	Concur?
	Yeah.
	Do you guys want to concur?
	He just wants to have fun.
	Doesn't matter.
	I'll pay.
	You pay.
	We'll split it.
	We'll get the next one.
	I think it's also like if traditionally in that relationship, I'm the one who's always been planning things and it shouldn't all of a sudden turn around and be like, why didn't you plan Valentine's Day?
	It's more like, hey, I'm going to plan something.
	Like, would you like to do this together?
	Yes, no.
	I'll always get flowers for guys on their birthday and Valentine's Day because I think guys.
	Flowers and a card.
	Make sure you're not gonna get a lot of flowers.
	That's a little gay.
	I'm down for some flowers.
	I don't know.
	What are your favorite flowers?
	Flowers die.
	Shit, I don't know.
	Just get me anything.
	I'm good.
	I'm good.
	I like to get clothes for guys.
	I feel like that's a good gift.
	Always.
	Always a good gift.
	It is.
	Some artillery.
	Yeah.
	That's my go-to.
	I'm like, they always need cars.
	You getting me flowers or what's up?
	No, I know.
	It's just like, you know, you know.
	There it is.
	She's not going to send flowers in the show.
	Look at that.
	That's how it's, girl.
	Stone cold face.
	Thank you.
	I don't remember these moments.
	The guy who's hosting it.
	But yes, I will be your Valentine's.
	Okay, go ahead.
	I know that was even the question.
	Thank you for asking, by the way, Sydney.
	Go ahead.
	What was the question?
	Oh, it doesn't really matter.
	See that guy get chick stuff for Valentine's Day.
	Oh, Valentine's Day stuff.
	I agree with what they say.
	I think that it should be not forced.
	Like, if you feel like you want to, do it.
	But if you don't want to, don't.
	Don't.
	How about you?
	You're going to do anything up for Valentine's Day?
	You don't buy a girl anything?
	Sydney's giving me tulips.
	What's up?
	Tulips.
	Get a little lavender in there.
	Yellow flowers indicate friends.
	Expect them to be working the whole day.
	Okay.
	No picnic or brunch.
	No picnic.
	No hikes.
	No hikes.
	No zoo.
	No zoo.
	That wasn't the zoo.
	No bar.
	What do you have against the zoo?
	That's it.
	You know what?
	You have something against the zoo.
	Yes, I have it.
	I'm not in the zoo.
	I saw two baboons having penetrative sex when I was young.
	Yeah, that one.
	You're traumatized about the zoo.
	And they were really going at it.
	And ever since then, I've been quite averse to going to the zoo.
	Yeah, understandable.
	Well, if you explain that to her, then it would be rude of her to plan it.
	It'd be a little weird if she did.
	Yeah.
	I also saw that happening on a hike, too, which is why I'm not a big fan of hikes.
	What about brunch?
	Also, brunch.
	And the clubs.
	And nightclubs.
	I have an excuse for all of these venues I detest.
	And dinner.
	Dinner.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Yeah, I have a bunch of excuses.
	All the zoos.
	Yo, Michael, $20 Super Chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Terminators of Voice.
	I'm back with what we saw on the ladies' preferences earlier.
	Would you advocate for Western men to seek out women overseas?
	If yes, I think they said they don't really care.
	No, we don't care.
	Yeah, they don't care.
	Go do you.
	Go do you, both.
	If that's what you want to do.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	It doesn't affect us.
	All right, we have Mike Davis $20 Super Chat Beyond Not Sharing Resources.
	Women are cheap as hell.
	There's a reason there's no shows like this in the reverse since you couldn't get a woman to super chat a dollar.
	I don't know if a girl.
	I've done that.
	We've had some girl super chatters, but yeah.
	The thing is, though, is I think shows like this might be more interesting because you get to hear women's perspectives on this.
	And I don't.
	Women don't have the same difficulties that men have.
	Women have their unique difficulties when it comes to dating and relationships.
	But men have it at an earlier level, and that level is even getting dates and meeting girls and getting sex.
	Like, that's not really an issue for women.
	You might have a selection issue in terms of perhaps the suitors are not optimal, but you don't have a short supply of options.
	So, yeah.
	Okay.
	We have Jude Mason, $20 Super Chat.
	Thank you, man.
	Official rating from MLD 45547.
	After listening to their opinions and life views, 3043.
	The numbers did not come from me.
	My opinion to the ladies by a dog.
	Jesus Christ.
	And dialogue.
	All right.
	Dialogue in hell yeah.
	It's like anything they say to you.
	It's a meme.
	It's a meme.
	Do you guys want to say anything nasty back to Jude because of how I hope you feel better?
	Do you guys, actually, just kind of on this, do you guys have your own ratings for yourselves on a scale of one to ten, your physical appearance?
	Burke.
	I don't know.
	That's such a good idea.
	I don't like rating in general because it's kind of a little bit of a data.
	Yeah, I don't really like a number.
	Well, there's person, like, there's just different physical appearance, just looks.
	I don't wear.
	I just don't wear the total package.
	LA, New York.
	Everyone has different LA.
	Colorado?
	Texas?
	Oklahoma.
	Like in different places sometimes.
	I think he means how we feel about ourselves, though.
	Is that what you meant?
	Like our rating about in comparison to our peers?
	Because my friends are models and, you know, just zero.
	I mean, I would say that I'm like a 10.
	Zero out of 10.
	Like, I genuinely love myself.
	And that's like with everything.
	10.
	7.
	Seven.
	Zero.
	Oh, come on.
	What?
	Where's the self-love?
	Come on, ladies.
	Come on.
	I don't need a number.
	I'm very mean to myself a lot.
	You're not a zero, though.
	Come on.
	You're definitely not.
	You need to submit your child work with her.
	I'm not going to take it.
	I'm not going to be a bad.
	I used to think like that, too.
	That's way too unhealthy for me to even say that.
	Come on.
	Yeah, I got bad body dysmorphia.
	I'm fucking mean to you.
	Body dysmorphia.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	Well, your salary and your looks, you're like a nine.
	Yeah.
	She feels so much better now.
	I heard it.
	Finally.
	All your trauma.
	I would say.
	I have bad body dysmorphia for.
	Sorry.
	I would say the same.
	I have bad body dysmorphia for probably more other reasons, but I still think I'm pretty.
	Yeah.
	I think.
	I don't know.
	I just.
	You are pretty.
	I think everyone's a 10.
	Everybody likes you.
	I don't know about that.
	Am I a 10?
	I'm yazy, baby.
	Everyone's a 10.
	Everyone's a 10 to someone else.
	I think so.
	We are talking about how we view ourselves, correct?
	Like, how big I say about myself.
	Realistically.
	Okay, yeah.
	I probably would say like a six or seven from insecurities because, but not because of how I look, just like as a person.
	Yeah, no, me too.
	Agreed.
	Like, I would say I have so many insecurities for sure.
	Like, totally.
	But, like, I don't, I don't, like, like to talk about it because if people use it against you, like, I don't talk about my insecurities.
	Like, right now, we gotta use a six.
	I'm not answering this question.
	Like, I'm not gonna be shy because I already know people are being rude.
	Guys, getting your last minute super chats here.
	We're gonna try to wrap up here pretty soon.
	So, you had an issue with the rating thing, though.
	Like, you didn't like it?
	I don't like to rate others.
	I don't like it.
	It's probably, I don't know.
	I just feel like it diminishes.
	Like, it's gonna sound so cheesy, but I feel like there's so many beautiful moments that people have where they look prettier than others, like when they're talking about something they love, or like reading a really good book, or like laughing.
	Like, there's so many things that add to your attractiveness at different times that it's just not enough to put into one number.
	Like, sometimes I'm a two, sometimes I feel like a ten.
	Sometimes I literally feel like a zero.
	Like, I don't have one number.
	I don't have one number.
	It depends on who's rating it to.
	Yeah, but that's just my personal feelings.
	And I don't like to rate other people either because I haven't seen them in all of their different times.
	But I think sometimes the argument is also that we can't just pretend that there's not an objective aspect that some people are more attractive than others.
	Agreed.
	Especially depending on standards of geography.
	And we're in LA or like LA area.
	So we're comparing to like LA standards, Hollywood standards, that sort of thing.
	So it's like, I think that's the main argument that people give against that.
	But we're also competing against all that.
	I agree.
	Everyone's viewed.
	Everybody is viewing it.
	Wuhan?
	Like Wuhan?
	What about that?
	Well, you were asking which geographical location.
	You were saying LA, Miami.
	There's Idaho.
	Small town.
	You got like Idaho 10.
	Wuhan 10 what's like a I someone without a respiratory disease Okay.
	Oh, just really quick on that, but do you object or would you guys object to someone rating someone on a numerical system like that, one through 10?
	I don't like it.
	I don't think it's a personal opinion.
	It feels like two black.
	I don't like it either, but it's kind of like it's inevitable.
	Like people do it.
	Like we do it subconsciously.
	I think so.
	Yeah, I think it's just honestly a normal human behavior to evaluate.
	If there was like an AI that would like objectively score your beauty, would you go and stand in front of the machine?
	No, probably not.
	I view myself when I want to move myself.
	Yeah, I think I'm doing it.
	I would do it.
	I'd be curious.
	I'm super curious.
	I would do it.
	Did you?
	Rebecca?
	Yeah, I think you're fun.
	I feel like I wanted to hurt less than someone I valued and respected their opinion.
	Yeah, because I wouldn't be stupid.
	I mean, you see Instagram, there's tons of objectively more beautiful.
	There's supermodels.
	There's filters.
	Yeah, but if I did do the AI thing, I put myself on a high pedestal and I think that other people do it as well, like in person.
	Obviously, on social media and stuff like that, that's completely different.
	But people treat me differently because of the way that I treat myself.
	I view myself as a ten.
	So other people, I think, that view me in that sense as well, like out in public areas.
	I think that it's mental as well.
	It's not just physical.
	I agree with you in that.
	Yeah.
	But really quick on that, do you have a height preference?
	Not really.
	I really do go for like personality.
	I'm personally attracted to them, too.
	I don't really have like a type personality.
	I just always think like if anyone objects to like the rating scale system, they hopefully don't have any height preference at all because that's quite literally a numerical assessment.
	Height is quite literally a numerical judgment.
	So, all right, we have cheeks here, $20 for chat.
	Dating apps do not work for average men, even wealthy men.
	I would get a match once a month at best, and I'm successful, disease-free, not white, speak multiple languages, BDE.
	How dare you, sir?
	And not short.
	We need to start.
	I'm going to popularize loose pussy or type pussy energy.
	I don't know.
	TPE, guys.
	My mom says big pussy energy.
	Well, I think, wait, your mom's?
	Yeah, and I hate it.
	No, she says that.
	She's like, because she said the same thing you have.
	She's like, why is it big tip?
	And I'm like, no.
	Your mom's based.
	I'll labia matter in the chat, by the way, guys.
	I don't think women, you know, it's unfortunate women get shamed if they have a large labia.
	Oh, me too.
	I think it's unfortunate.
	Agree.
	I think it's unfortunate to body shame anyone that can't help it.
	That's the way the ball is.
	It's the same thing with men with like small, like, I don't know.
	Like, it's just, it's all around.
	It happens, but it's sucking.
	It does.
	I mean, yeah, life happens, man.
	Life is unfair.
	Life is unfair to just deal with it.
	It is unfortunate, though, that women do get shamed if they have.
	Or small boobs.
	A larger labia.
	You know, you hear terms like wizard sleeve, RBs.
	I don't have to do that.
	I did say I want that, I think, in the comments.
	And I think it's abhorrent, objectionable.
	Because I'm admitted.
	How California are you?
	I know.
	I'm not going to.
	I can't tell if you mean that.
	I think I like large labia.
	Huh?
	Huh?
	Women have a penis-size preference, right?
	Women have a penis-size preference.
	It depends.
	Yeah, they do.
	It depends on what you do with it.
	I happen to have a labia preference.
	Cool.
	Yeah.
	I applaud you.
	My DMs are open, women with large labels.
	Sydney's right here.
	Wait, Sydney?
	Oh, because I already forgot.
	We're talking about all red.
	There's no flowers.
	This man's isn't in the flowers.
	This man's isn't it.
	I retract the tulips.
	Because of the labia thing?
	Because of the DMs.
	Oh, right.
	Because the infidelity.
	I cheated on you.
	Confirm or deny in your Audi?
	Is that too personal?
	No.
	No.
	No, I know.
	You know how there's innies and out?
	I do know.
	You've never heard these terms?
	I have.
	I have not heard these terms.
	Is that some shit on this?
	No, that's like a.
	Is that too personal?
	I'm just being so educated.
	Is that too formal?
	I didn't.
	I didn't know this.
	What's your?
	Yeah.
	Beautiful.
	You'll be able to see it on spicy site.
	Wait, God, let's see the hand gestures you're making.
	She's trying to explain this concept of any and what is in the and out of.
	You don't know like stuff is on the side.
	Risk wait Eric, can you pull up that photo?
	No no, no wait, trust me guys, it's a labia photo ways, you know?
	Oh, you're not.
	Women need more.
	This is a big point.
	I want to make Eric talk about stuff.
	Eric, pause, pause.
	Let's run it.
	Eric, it's in the podcast folder.
	You've you've seen it.
	You've seen it before.
	It's the.
	Uh, you know what.
	It is okay, so that's gonna show up right now.
	You got it Eric, the the.
	I'll give you like a fruit or something.
	hi laurie i love you i love you so much oh i see that's a great picture any audi any okay That's also like really extreme, though.
	Like that's like.
	I feel like that's like the bigger the better.
	He likes, the bigger the better.
	Like post birthday, you want like.
	You want like after someone gives birth, he wants the placenta, he wants to eat the placenta.
	They got the stem cells in that.
	You live forever, buddy.
	But does that picture help?
	Yes, but see, everyone has preferences right, so confirm or deny.
	Everyone confirm or deny what happens.
	Everybody has preferences.
	Is no audio, any?
	And there's also like a.
	There's a line in between you know, You know, like that's like so extreme.
	Like that, the picture, like, that's like scared.
	Oh, my God.
	To people that have never heard of Eddie and Audi, like, that's terrifying.
	Yeah.
	Okay, moving on.
	Alvin, I think this came through as a TTS.
	Thank you, man.
	Red Pill Crip, thank you for the $20 Super Chat.
	What's up, Brian?
	Great show as usual.
	Thank you, man.
	Appreciate it.
	I would like to fly out and be on the panel.
	What would be the procedure?
	Should just DM on Instagram at whatever.
	We can discuss further.
	Matt San, I believe this is not a provider.
	Your man needs to make some of the stuff.
	We saw this.
	The brokey didn't work.
	I mean, you are bringing me tulips, so I mean, you might remember.
	Okay.
	Is that revoked?
	Did you remember?
	Okay, Luis Brido, $20 Super Chat.
	Tactic Alampu.
	What the fuck?
	Tactical amputee.
	Oh, tactical amputee.
	Here's a friend who was also in the military and tests guns on her Insta.
	She's awesome and badass.
	Her handle.
	Oh, okay.
	Mike Davis, $20 Soup Chat.
	Glad to see this Johnny buffoon back.
	Oh, wow.
	Ooh, that's.
	I didn't have a chance to chop at him last time.
	How's he going to call himself a dating coach when he went to Japan for easy bait?
	Never trust a guy who uses spray tan response, John?
	I'm naturally this beautiful.
	That's right.
	Yeah.
	Wow.
	I have a photo of Mike Davis here somewhere.
	Is he a real person?
	Yeah, he's a real person.
	Can you hide it, Eric?
	Let me put it on me here.
	Mike Davis, he owns a chain of Burger King restaurants on the East Coast.
	Oh, wow.
	Oh, nice.
	Mike Davis.
	Yeah, he's a good guy.
	He's a good guy.
	He's just, he roasts, you know.
	All right.
	John, $20 Super Chat.
	Body Calon is less about the number and more about the behavior that drives the choices leading to a high count.
	That's a fair point.
	Advertised, thank you for the 18 British pounds.
	Thank you, man.
	Matt San.
	This came through, I believe.
	Yep.
	We saw that one.
	Mike Davis, Super Chat.
	Johnny Boy should generate an AI clone of himself and date himself.
	He'll never find someone to love him as much as he loves himself.
	I do love myself.
	I look good today.
	I'm wearing the Laurel Piana.
	Come on.
	Oh, we saw that one, too.
	What's it called?
	A Laurel Piana.
	Is it a Japanese suit?
	No, it's Italian.
	Oh, Italian.
	Okay.
	You don't know what Laurel Piana is?
	Come on, Brov.
	I wear sweatpants.
	We make these whatever bucks over here.
	I wear flannels and sweatpants.
	Did any of you guys know you know what LaRo Piana is?
	No, really?
	You?
	Really?
	Oh, interesting.
	All right.
	We got Praxis here, Sydney.
	Your timing is impeccable.
	I graduate from law school next year, and my first job salary will probably exceed yours.
	Leave the unambitious brokeies, Brian included, behind and come with me to live the good life you always wanted.
	Same comment as the last couple.
	Okay, all right.
	Matt San, $20 Super Chat.
	Yeah, Brian broke his back, blown out these ladies' backs.
	Hashtag respect.
	No, not really.
	But yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Thank you.
	Cuban Libertarian, $20 Soup Chat.
	Oh, nice, nice.
	What's up?
	Women love romantic gestures from men they already respect, love, and admire.
	Can't buy a woman's genuine desire with trinkets.
	Yes, I completely agree with that.
	Not yet.
	Mike Davis, $20 Super Chat.
	I've dealt with a lot of females in my life, and I realize the best recipe is not to be the nice guy or asshole.
	It's to forget women altogether and become asexual and married to the money.
	Your life will improve drastically.
	Okay, Mike Davis.
	Sad.
	The Burger King.
	Yeah, I mean.
	He's going to jerk off on all that Burger King money.
	He's a franchisee.
	He's a franchisee.
	All right.
	Mr. Cappadocia, $20 Super Chat.
	Women on the panel ever examined the argument that men are the expendable gender and our entire society is built on this truth.
	I know this is very sex lives.
	That is very loaded.
	No comment.
	I like men.
	Yeah, me too.
	I do like men.
	China's very cute.
	They're not expendable.
	What's that?
	Yeah, I don't think that they're.
	They're not expendable.
	In the sense of like, if you historically.
	Oh, well, like you're on the first wave.
	Titanium.
	Normandy.
	You're like okay.
	That's right.
	Titan's going to fucking die.
	Gonna die for some guy in the 40th boat back.
	Male privilege, by the way.
	A little Normandy landing.
	Yeah.
	Normandy.
	You guys know what I'm talking about with Normandy?
	You know because you're military.
	Normandy?
	No?
	Oh, yeah.
	Do you know what a D-Day is?
	One of the most important days in World War II history?
	Yep.
	Okay.
	Quick question.
	Name three Axis powers and three Allied powers from World War II.
	You first.
	Okay.
	From Axis powers, Germany.
	Soviet Union, right?
	Wasn't it?
	Soviet Union?
	Soviet Union was it?
	Yep.
	Right?
	Am I right?
	So Allied.
	Oh, okay.
	Sorry, wrong.
	Oh, wait, am I?
	Wait, all right, I got it.
	Germany.
	Yep.
	Keep it coming.
	I actually literally, why do I not know?
	Why do I not know what any other ones was?
	Allied powers.
	Allies, United States, France, and why am I stupid?
	I don't know.
	You really don't know how to do it.
	I don't know with the assist.
	What about China?
	Where was China?
	Allied or Axis?
	Oh.
	Anybody have to go to the next step?
	I don't know.
	Okay, bottom panel.
	I was just interested because I was going to say the same thing.
	So I should know, but I don't.
	Yeah, go for it.
	We have Japan, Germany, and then Italy.
	Italy was actually.
	Yeah, Italy was based.
	Yep.
	It was an Axis.
	Allied powers?
	Okay.
	Britain.
	Yep.
	France.
	England.
	Or America.
	Sorry.
	And also, was Austria Hungary?
	Austria was part, like, Germany.
	That was one.
	Franz Ferdinand.
	Yeah, that was World War II.
	Okay, never mind.
	Yeah, that was that.
	Yeah, France, Britain.
	What precipitated World War II, the assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand.
	Okay, here's another World War II question.
	On the history podcast.
	Okay.
	I'll give you guys a toss-up, I think.
	I won't ask the exact dates of World War II.
	What was the decade?
	What decade did World War II?
	It was like, wasn't it like 1940s around then?
	Okay.
	Well, sorry, I just kind of gave it away.
	I gave it away.
	Sorry.
	I didn't know 1939 to 45.
	The main, the primary decade was the 1940s, but yes, it was 1939 to 1945.
	Yeah, I went to school.
	I'm just kidding.
	Good times, good times.
	All right, let's get to that.
	Cannabis Soviet Union.
	All right.
	Gus status demo person in Western countries is 42 plus women making 50k plus no family kids men and paws equals zero eggs and a hundred times more emotional fellas invest in animal food and box wine let's make this money okay that was our last super chat sweet sweet sweet uh yep Thank you, Radio.
	Thank you, Murder.
	Thank you, Frenzy.
	Thank you, Victor, for the follow.
	Thank you, Mishi Kiddon, for the follow.
	And thank you, VR for the follow.
	Appreciate it.
	All right, well, let's before I wrap up, does anyone have any final thoughts or questions?
	I often like to ask if there's anything dating related you'd like to get off your chest.
	Maybe men are pissing you off in some way.
	You want advice on maybe something dating related.
	Or if you'd like to omit, just because we're going a bit late.
	I'm happy to continue going, but I know we've gone slightly over.
	So any final thought or anything dating related you'd like to get off your chest?
	Maybe men are pissing you off in some way.
	I have one question for you.
	Sure.
	If you could only give one piece of advice to women in particular for dating, what would that be if you could only choose one?
	Stop sleeping around so much.
	That's like just for your shame you're not to say anything, but just look at the data.
	Sleeping around, hookup culture, it's just not conducive to building a long-term relationship.
	Thank you.
	Anybody have anything else?
	Sydney, I know you're dying to.
	You got something to get off your chest.
	No.
	Sydney's taking us to In-N-Out after this on the MX.
	I think that guys should keep being the good guys because there are lots of girls out there that are looking for nice guys.
	Are there, though?
	I think it's sad that guys don't.
	I don't know.
	They're getting very jaded.
	They are getting very good.
	And I understand why, but I do think it's sad.
	You girls are obviously decent.
	Like, you're all pretty smart.
	You all make money and stuff.
	But the average trog delight out there is fucking stuff.
	Oh, I've met some people like that where I'm like, ooh, like, I don't even want to be friends with you.
	No, no.
	Because they're just not great for you.
	You can feel the energy.
	You're like, I'm out.
	I'm out.
	Really, really quick that's related to what Sidney said.
	Eric, in the podcast folder, can you pull up the Cheryl Sandberg quote image?
	It's called Sandberg.
	Cheryl Sandberg don't know shit.
	The, what is it, CEO of COO of Facebook?
	Was she previously at Yahoo before that?
	I don't know.
	Eric, do you have it?
	Is it in a folder?
	It's in podcast.
	It's just Dropbox podcast.
	Sandberg.
	She's CEO of Facebook.
	I think she recently, she's still on the board, but she stepped up.
	Control Zoom in.
	Okay.
	Yeah, you can go one more.
	When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them, the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment phobic boys, the crazy boys, but do not marry them.
	The things that make the bad boys sexy, do not make them good husbands.
	When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner, someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated, and ambitious, someone who values fairness and expects, or even better, wants to do his share in the home.
	These men exist, and trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.
	Agreed.
	I think it's also important to distinguish that dating does not mean having sex all the time.
	I second that.
	Men assume if you say you're dating.
	Yeah.
	I am totally the opposite.
	Yeah, you guys are spot on.
	No, because like Hohen and Hohen has become mainstream.
	Like the average girl is like, oh, these days.
	Well, something interesting I saw, for example, was like situationships.
	Like we said we were talking to someone, situationships equals fucking.
	Sorry.
	I don't know if I could say.
	I haven't had sex with the person that I'm talking to.
	So like that's not true.
	It's just not true for you, but it is true for you, majority.
	It changes for everyone is all I'm saying.
	Don't assume.
	Don't assume.
	You're definitely rare.
	You're definitely rare.
	See, that's the same thing.
	If I go on a date with someone, I will make them wait for at least two dates, regardless of what I do.
	Because I don't do a lot of content with other men.
	I do it for myself.
	So I make men wait.
	If I go on a date with someone, I don't just fuck them automatically.
	And I also, I'm not sitting around either.
	I don't do that.
	Genuinely.
	I do not do that.
	Yeah.
	So let me just clarify that.
	Wait, so you said situationships.
	It doesn't mean that you're sleeping with the person.
	Yeah, well, I'm just explaining a comment I saw in particular when you were asking us what our relationship status was.
	And they said, we said, you know, we're talking to people, and it said situationships equals fucking.
	And I was like, I haven't had sex with my person.
	How long have you been seeing your person?
	A few months on and off.
	A few months on and off.
	I just like.
	You haven't hooked up with them?
	No.
	We've kissed.
	That's it.
	I like to take my time.
	I really do.
	I love them.
	Yeah, that's a good one.
	And people won't believe me, and that's okay.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I know, and that's what matters to me.
	I believe you.
	It's good.
	Three months?
	It's worth the wait.
	But just to bring it back to the quote really quick, Eric, if you can just pull that up back up.
	So my issue with this and the whole nice guy thing is that typically women in their youth, for example, and this is Cheryl Sandberg, a very successful, I think she's a billionaire.
	I don't know.
	She's a billionaire.
	Well, in any case, yeah, if you can look for us on your phone, but I mean, she's advising women in your youth, give your youth, give your best years to bad boys, the cool boys.
	Basically, she's saying, sleep around, hook up with dudes.
	And I think a lot of men have an issue with that because she's saying, give those men, the men who are perhaps not deserving of your time or your commitment, give them access to sex, sleep with them.
	And then once you're older, you have baggage from all the bad boys that probably treated you like shit.
	You have baggage.
	You're bringing all this to the good guy.
	He's the one left dealing with said baggage.
	And you're older.
	Yeah, that's wrong.
	I just, I don't think that's good advice.
	And I think a lot of men are waking up to that.
	If we weren't good, if a nice guy or a good guy wasn't good enough for you when you were in your prime, so to speak, then he doesn't want you when, say, he's maybe at his prime.
	Yeah.
	That is very young.
	I also think, though, a lot of those like bad boys and assholes, they grow up too, and then they become nice guys.
	No, they don't.
	Yeah.
	They don't change.
	I don't think that's what they're saying.
	Listen, people don't change.
	They get worse.
	I also think that another way of looking at it is just that like sometimes people have to get hurt to learn and sometimes people don't.
	Like sometimes, you know, if my mom's like, don't touch the stove, like I'm the kind of person that's going to go touch the stove.
	But my sister's not.
	Some people have to learn the hard way.
	Yep.
	Not everyone.
	I like that.
	All right.
	Last super chat.
	Mike Davis 2016 chat.
	MLD looks like a wax figure gone.
	Veneers, hair plugs, and spray tan.
	Homeless people try to say.
	Jesus, Mike Davis, you've really, you're a little spicy tonight, eh, Mike Davis?
	I look like I have a spray tan.
	That's funny.
	That's a compliment, I did.
	Okay.
	All right, Mike Davis.
	No spray tan.
	Toxic.
	Thank you.
	I really don't care.
	Did anyone else want to come in before I wrap?
	Okay, cool.
	Speak now, forever, hold your, okay.
	Now let's go.
	All right.
	Guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.
	You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.
	I appreciate that.
	Thanks to everyone who super chatted.
	Appreciate the uh support tonight.
	Guys, as I said, we got banned from the TICK TOCK creator fund.
	Uh, six month cop day, six month suspension.
	Unfortunately, we still got the tick tock, but uh, TICK Tock's very strict with their community guidelines, so means even more now.
	Thank you guys.
	Thank you to our chat mod, Zach Candace, Nemesis Blair.
	Thank you, uh Meshi I don't know if you're in here.
	Uh, thanks to Eric, top producer.
	Thank you to the uh wonderful panel.
	Really appreciate you guys coming, especially those of you that uh came from La.
	I appreciate you guys, uh making the drive.
	Thank you for coming on I.
	I thought this was a.
	I thought I think this was perhaps a better panel than oh way.
	Better than last show.
	Yes, much better.
	Thank you for having me.
	Thank you guys for uh.
	No, I actually enjoy because i'm, i'm.
	I'm notorious for like going back and forth with chicks, just who are delusional, but I think you all actually have really healthy perspective on things.
	Slightly delusional yeah, what's that?
	Only slightly?
	No, you got like five out of five.
	You're really delusional.
	thank you isaac george thank you for the 20 lowest super chat missed the show but i'll watch you later thank you man appreciate it you so you wait you think you're delusional or what she got five out of five yeah but you said you were flexible on the money thing right we're still going back to that yeah less than one percent you know okay and flexible on the money thing all right it does ask for the ideal man so yeah anyways thank you thanks again for You guys coming on, really appreciate it.
	And, guys, we will be live again Sunday, 7 p.m. Pacific, with another Dating Talk panel.
	I have a very special guest coming on that day, and it's going to be a very good panel, I reckon.
	So, yeah, guys, thank you so much for tuning in.
	Thanks again to the panel.
	Thank you.
	And, guys, we will see you next time.

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