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So we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and/or school major.
Hi, everyone.
I'm Natasha.
I'm 19.
I work at Starbucks, and I am not in college right now, so I don't have any major.
Well, tell us about your content creation, too.
Yeah, I have a TikTok and I have an Instagram, and I'm working on building my TikTok right now.
Hopefully, I'm going to start making YouTube videos sometime soon in the future.
And that's about it.
And we're going to be reacting to a couple of her TikToks.
She's on the come up, guys.
She's going to be huge.
She's going to be huge.
Hopefully.
Go ahead, your turn.
Hi, I'm Charlotte.
I'm 19.
I am a psychology major at Santa Barbara City College.
Thank you.
Hi, I'm Lulu.
I'm 21 years old.
I work at the front desk of a dormitory and I'm a biochem and a criminology major at Santa Barbara City College.
I forgot to have that part in there.
Hi, everyone.
My name is Cara.
I'm a model and fashion content creator and also a student at UCSB.
And my major is communication.
Hi, I'm Taylor.
I'm 19.
I'm a marketing major at SBCC.
Cool hair.
Yes, my name is Blair.
I am 25 years old.
I am a personal trader or trainer and amateur bodybuilder.
And I also work at Trader Joe's.
Okay, nice.
And I want to go around the table one more time.
Actually, you know what?
Before I get into that, I want to give a big thank you to Cara and Tasha for coming in.
Y'all came in super clutch.
We had a ton of last-minute cancellations.
So thank you guys for coming in on a short notice.
Really appreciated.
Like, originally, I was going to do a big panel, like, gonna have like eight girls come, but two of them were sick.
And then, and obviously, thank you to the other people on the panel too.
And thank you for everyone else that's been on the show.
We really appreciate it.
Even if we get into some debates and disagreement, genuinely appreciate everyone that comes on the show, guys and girls.
So much appreciated.
So going back around the panel, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?
My current relationship status is single.
My longest relationship was a year and a half.
And yes, I'm on dating apps.
I'm only on Hinge.
So, yeah.
Have you been on other ones before?
Yes.
I've been on Tinder.
And actually with Tinder, when I downloaded it, my phones are connected to my parents' phones.
And so any app that you download, it also downloads to your parents' phone.
And I didn't tell my parents I was downloading this app.
And so it popped up on my dad's phone.
He thought my mom downloaded it because they're separated.
Oh.
Well, if they were still together, I would imagine that would be worse.
They're married but separated, but they're still married, right?
So that was a problem.
Was that used in the divorce proceedings?
No, no, no, no.
I cleared it up.
I cleared my mom's name.
Yeah, it was a mess.
Okay.
Yeah, be careful, guys, if your phones are all linked up like that.
Okay, any seeking arrangements?
Anything like that?
No, definitely not.
Okay.
I'm Charlotte.
I am currently single.
My longest relationship was six months.
And I'm not currently on Tinder or any dating apps, but I used to be.
Okay.
Yeah.
Posture check, by the way.
What?
Poster check.
Oh, sorry.
There we go.
I'm looking out.
I'm looking out.
Go ahead.
I'm single.
My longest relationship, I'd say, was like seven months.
I don't know.
It was a weird relationship.
He never really asked me to be his girlfriend, but it was like, I was.
It was weird.
But I have a Tinder, but I haven't been on it in a really long time.
Like, I'd say like a good like couple weeks.
But that's kind of it.
That's a long time.
Yeah, it is a long time.
This is for Isla Vista.
That's a long time.
So like, it was a fortnight ago.
It was 14 months.
It was, well, ooh, how do I like put this into.
Can you define what Isla Vista time is?
Isla Vista time, a couple weeks.
I mean, I'd say it's like a whole, what?
Like a year.
Yeah, it's like Love Island.
Yeah, we talk about it a lot.
It's like Love Island.
If you're not on Tinder in Isla Vista, then it's kind of like you don't understand what's not happening in the villa.
So yeah, I feel like I, just because I haven't been on Tinder in a while, I feel like I've missed so much.
But I mean, I still have it.
I just haven't been on it in a while.
Any other dating apps?
I've tried Hinge and Bumble, but they're just, they're a totally different vibe.
I don't have good terms with Hinge, and I, Bumble is a different, it's just a whole different vibe.
So I just kind of stick with Tinder, but yeah.
Do you want to show your shop first?
Yeah.
Okay.
Sometimes I will shoot my shot first.
Like, because that's the person who I am.
I'll reach out first.
Like, I don't mind.
But if I have to be the one to shoot my shot first, I'm not going to do it.
Like, I don't want to, I don't, like, I will watch that time tick until it's done.
I don't want to be the other person attached to, like, playing cards in her hand.
Seeking arrangements?
I have dabbled with that a little bit.
The only thing I ever got from it was $40 to get my nails done.
Hey, small victory.
Senior year.
It was senior year of high school.
It was amazing.
But that's the only time.
I mean, I went on seeking arrangements last year.
It was fine.
I didn't get anything out of it, though.
One of the guys still hits me up a lot.
So I just kind of ignore him, but that's it.
So you made 40 bucks on seeking arrangements?
I did.
I made 40 bucks off of seeking arrangements.
Did you have to meet the guy or just paid you 40 bucks?
I told him I was like, I really want to get my nails done.
Like, blah, blah, blah.
Like me and my friend really want to go.
And he goes, I can send you 40 bucks for it.
I'm like, oh, my God, that'd be really good.
And then he sent me 40 bucks through Venmo.
Wow.
I just don't get it.
I don't either.
I don't get that.
I want to know what goes through their head personally.
It was really nice, though.
So I got some really good nails out of it.
Charlotte, going back to you, have you been on seeking arrangements?
No.
One time, like I've had guys DM me and be like, oh, like be my sugar baby or whatever.
And like one time I actually like went, oh, so sorry.
I like actually went through it and he sent me a check and then I had like my sister's friend like look into it and the check was fake.
It was a check for like $5,000 though.
So if it was real, that'd be cool.
Wait, he sent you a fake bogus check.
Yeah.
Okay.
The scammer becomes the scammy.
Cara, you go ahead.
I'm dating someone and my longest relationship is a year.
I'm not currently on any dating apps after I start dating with my boyfriend.
Yeah.
Okay, but have you been on dating apps?
Yeah, actually, but actually like me and my boyfriend, we met each other on Tinder.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
A Tinder relationship?
There you go.
It happens.
It does.
It does.
It's pretty common these days.
And were you prior to your current boyfriend, were you on seeking arrangements?
No.
Of course, my boyfriend.
Yeah.
Okay, got it.
I'm currently single.
My longest relationship was only four months.
And I was on Tinder, but then I deleted it because I got kind of bored.
Never went on seeking arrangements, though.
I tried, but they were like, I was under review or something like that.
They were like, I don't know.
I never got to go on it.
It's kind of a failure, but it's fine.
Blair.
Yes.
I'm in a relationship.
And my longest one is my current one.
We are coming on three years in January.
Nice.
And we did actually meet on Tinder as well.
Oh, shit.
Yeah.
What a Tinder relationship.
Okay, yes.
And were you ever on seeking arrangements?
I have not been, but I've been encouraging my girlfriend to get some money from a sugar daddy.
I respect that.
You would be comfortable with your girlfriend being on.
It would depend on what they were asking for.
Like, I'm okay with feet picks, maybe like a bikini pick, but it's not going further than that.
Okay.
And if it's a big, you know, it depends on how much they're offering too.
Wait, would you get a taste?
Would I get a taste?
Would you get a taste of the money that she oh, yeah, yeah, we're gonna share it.
Oh, sure.
I guess that's a bit more understandable.
Yeah, but a lot of guys, I feel like they'd be like, nah.
You know what I mean?
At the end of the day, she's coming home to me.
That is true.
Fair enough.
Fair enough.
And so, okay, we talked a little bit about seeking arrangements.
Have any of you, you can get this without being on seeking arrangements.
Have any of you had a sugar daddy?
I have not.
Okay.
No, only the one I just mentioned.
Okay.
He wasn't real.
Sure.
Santa.
I wouldn't say it was a long excursion.
He just gave me the $40.
That was kind of all.
But yeah.
No.
Never.
Yeah, I haven't either.
I wish, though.
I make my life a lot easier.
Blair?
You repeat the question, sorry.
Well, have you ever had a sugar mama?
Or have you ever been a sugar daddy?
No, it's both of those questions.
Okay.
Rock and roll.
So we're going to react to a video, but before we do that, what is the worst way a guy has ever tried to hit on you?
And we're going to start here.
Oh, man.
Eric.
The worst way a guy has hit on me.
That's a difficult question.
There's a lot of unfortunate ways that a guy can hit on you.
I would say the worst way that a guy can hit on you is in the DMs.
Just kind of just saying hey.
I think that that's probably the worst way.
If you want to get a girl, please don't go into their DMs and say hey, because she's not going to talk to you back.
What if he has a blue check mark?
Come on now.
It could be much more creative.
Honestly, if he has a blue check mark, I don't think it matters.
I don't care.
You need to be more upfront.
You need to be more direct.
You need to tell me what you want.
You need to tell me what plans you have.
On the first DM?
I mean.
So what should they say to you on the very first DM?
I would say.
What would you want them to say?
I would want them to say, hi, I think you're beautiful.
I would love to take you out sometime soon if you're free.
I think that is a great way to start, not a simple hey.
I feel like that's a really cliche opener, though.
I thought I was used too much.
It could be.
Or I guess some people feel that way, but you might not.
Has a guy ever said that to you?
Or something approaching that?
No.
I mean, I'll get compliments, but nothing like, I'd like to take you out here, this time, this place.
And I think that would be nice.
Okay.
So the worst line you've ever gotten is hey.
It is a bad one.
I agree with you.
I'm sure I've gotten worse.
I can't think of it at the moment, but hey is terrible.
Hey is bad.
I agree with you on that.
It's really bad.
It's very bad on dating apps, terrible on Instagram, because it's like, where do you, they're basically shucking the conversational burden onto you.
Then you have to, I mean, you could just respond hey, too, and see if they're going to put in an effort, but.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But if they say hey, 90% of the time, they're not going to continue a conversation with you.
I feel like that's a clear indicator that they are a dry texter and no one wants to go on a date with someone that doesn't talk to them in a full, you know, full conversationalist way.
So if the guy came with like a proper first message or conversationally he was bringing it, would you meet him?
Or do you find even if the guy is kind of, and obviously I assume this has to do with if you find him attractive, but would you do you say that you're a good texter?
Like you'll meet them or because there's definitely girls like, and it could just be that they're not so much interested in the guy, but there's definitely girls where the guy will be like Cleverest shit ever, some Don Juan type shit, and the girl's like, Okay, one-word answers type shit.
So, but if we're going on the basis of if I don't know him and he hasn't shown me that he's clever, he hasn't shown me that he's worth my time, then no, I'm not going to reply.
I'm not even gonna think about it.
Sure, okay.
You know what's funny, though, about the whole hay thing?
So, are you guys familiar with the dating app Bumble?
Yeah, so Bumble is a dating app where the girl has to message first.
Very familiar.
And I was on there for a bit.
I'm not on there anymore.
But Hinge is a good one.
I'm on Hinge.
My experience on Bumble is finally, women, y'all have the power.
90% of the first messages I got were, hey.
I can confirm that too.
Yeah, it's always just going, which is, I mean, that's still bad.
Yeah.
How's your day?
You know, and I had a fucking interesting as fuck profile, too.
Like, if it was me seeing that profile, I could come up with like 10 different things I could open up with.
So exactly.
Like, if you're only going to say, hey, hi.
Like, how do you respond to that?
Especially if you're giving us stuff to work with.
Yeah.
I think the girl should have been putting in more effort with you.
Yeah.
I think they're just straight up copy and pasting and just that's exactly what I was going to say as well.
They got, you know, they got like five or six lined up.
Hey, Oh, yeah.
So to your credit, you know, that's very reasonable.
Yeah.
They need to be more creative.
Yeah.
But I've definitely seen that complaint.
Like girls will say in their bios.
I've seen it on Tinder when I was not on there anymore, but they'll say, don't open with hey, come up with something more creative, whatever.
And it's just kind of interesting.
My experience on the dating apps.
It's just, hey, it's 90% hey.
So anyways, so worst pickup line that you've ever gotten in person or I think just like guys being hella creepy, like really creepy and being just like, oh, I want to like come on your face or something like that.
I don't know if you're honest with his intentions.
Let's be honest with his intentions.
Can I say that?
Like, sorry.
It's okay.
Just, or like, like, I don't, stuff like that.
Like, maybe they're trying to be funny, but it's, it's really not.
I don't really want to text you after you tell me something like that and I don't even know who you are.
So you, that actually happened to you.
Yeah.
Or that, like, yeah, that, that has happened to me.
Or like, like, other things like that.
Like, oh, just, like, show me your tits.
Like, and was this on dating apps?
Yeah, that was on, like, Tinder.
I've had like guys DM me though and be like, what's it look like without the swimsuit?
Would you prefer that or hey?
Hey, for sure.
Okay.
Hey.
Okay.
So you don't like the overtly sexual yeah.
Yeah.
I feel like I'm going to get murdered or something.
But would you still be okay with a guy being direct, but it was respectful?
Yeah, yeah.
If he was like, oh, whoa, you're really hot.
Like, tell me about your brain or something.
Like, I don't know.
Not like that, but like, yeah.
Okay, I like that.
That's actually a good line.
You're really hot.
Tell me about your brain.
Guys, try that out tonight.
Let us know how it goes.
Yeah.
Okay.
Any other just ridiculous lines you've gotten?
I'm trying to think about like something somebody said on like DP or something.
For those who don't know, DP, that's short for Del Playa.
That's like the main party street here in Isla Vista.
Probably, I don't know.
They aren't that, they're bad there, but it's, I don't remember most of the things people say to me there.
So, okay.
All right.
That's it.
Honestly, I think like not like the worst DMs that I've ever had, but I just get a lot of like DMs where people just send me my own posts.
They're like, oh.
They reply with a fire emoji or something like that, right?
Yeah, or like they'll get really graphic about it.
They're like, you have no idea the things that I would do to you.
And I'm like, why are you sending a picture of my fucking body?
Like telling me the things that like let me post that I want to post one.
Two, don't tell me.
What you want to do to my like body.
I look at their Instagram profile.
They've got like four followers and they're following like 3,000 people.
Zero posts.
And you're like, I'm going to do this, this, and this to you.
I'm like, what?
It's just kind of funny sometimes because they're like, oh, like, oh, my God, like, you have no idea.
I would do so.
I would do you so right.
I don't want to know that.
Like, I don't want to know that.
Like, I'm okay with a hay.
Sometimes I'm okay with a hay.
I don't want to know in graphic detail what you're going to do to myself.
What's the ideal flirtatious first message to you?
Honestly, like, in my opinion, my ideal, like, flirtatious message is, like, like, making fun of me.
Like, by what way?
Like, oh, how do I, how do I go?
Like, like, banter.
Yeah, like banter.
Like, like, just kind of like, oh, I don't know how to explain it.
You just need the chat.
Exactly.
Like, I need someone to, like, go back and forth with, if that makes sense.
Like, if they comment something sexual, like, I'm not going to really respond, but they're like, if they comment.
Yeah, exactly.
Lula wants to get roasted.
I do want to get roasted.
I think that's funny.
If someone roasted me in my DMs, I would 100% respond to that.
Like, what if he was like, hey, you got a five-head?
I would say, exactly.
Okay, I would say that, because I know for a fact that I have a bigger forehead than most.
So I think it's thinking that, by the way, then why did it come to your mind?
That's the most common roast that I've heard.
No, but it's like simple things like that.
Like if you say that to me in my DMs, I will 100% respond.
Because I think that's funny.
But if it's like, oh, I think you're so hot.
Like, I want your boobs in between.
I want your, like, my face in between your boobs.
No.
I don't, I would delete that.
I just want to like be roasted.
I think that's funny.
But yeah.
Poster check, Cara.
Shout out to Chase.
I see you, bro.
Oh, Chase is in the chat.
Chase is here.
Yo, what up, Chase?
How you doing, man?
Chase, guys, Chase is in the chat right now, and he needs your convincing for him to come back on the show.
You know, he's been very busy.
So, guys, can you guys put, what should they put in the chat if they want Chase?
Giga Chase, Giga Chase.
Giga Chase.
Okay, Giga Chase.
Chase should come back on.
I don't know if Chase is.
Giga Chase.
I said, hey, man, you coming on?
He goes, no, I'm not this, not this time.
Come on, Chase.
Come back on the chat.
Anyone else?
Or come back on the podcast?
Worst pickup line ever.
A penis picture.
A penis picture.
Otherwise known as a dick pic.
Unsolicited.
That really goes forward.
When is it solicited?
You know what?
That's a good question.
When is it solicited?
On the topic of dick pics, has every girl here received a dick pic?
Yes.
You know what?
I've actually received a dick pic, believe it or not.
Really?
My viewers, my viewers just somewhat.
Oh, great.
Now they're going to send me dick pics.
Okay, everyone.
Send him dick pics.
Please.
I've planted the seed and now I'm just, my inbox today is going to be.
Just don't check your, don't check your DMs after this.
Here's a question.
Have y'all ever sent a pussy pic?
No.
No.
Come on now.
Don't look awake.
Don't look awake.
Be honest.
No.
You know what?
It's yes or no.
It's yes or no.
Do you remember that?
I don't know if the girls here said, but these, these, I forgot the name, I'm sorry.
These two and this one here, they're all roommates.
Yeah.
So they know they got T on each other.
Yeah, Lilu hogged to help me out once for some old guy on Tinder.
It didn't really work out, though.
Okay.
I may have done something.
What did you do?
Story time.
Let's hear it.
Story time.
Story time.
We were wondered.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
We were drunk.
Oh, mom and dad, I'm so sorry.
Okay, so we were all really drunk one day.
And I think it was someone kept texting Taylor.
And well, he called me.
No, yes.
And he called her.
I was like, fuck, I don't know.
And so I had to, like, I had to have phone sex with him.
You wait, what?
Where were we?
Lulu's got content.
No.
Yeah, no, it was in the boys.
It was in our friends.
It was in the boys' room.
And so we, so she didn't want to talk to them.
So I thought it'd be funny if I was like, you know what?
I'll talk to him for you.
So we were having like phone sex for just like, it was like five minutes.
What kind of things did you say to him?
Just like they were horrifying.
Say it into the money.
Let's not.
Just like reenact the scene.
We'll assume.
Bring us there.
We'll assume.
We'll assume just to keep it semi-ish.
PG-ish.
I was just telling him what I would do to him because that's what like the conversation was.
But okay, so you sent him a pussy pic is what we're getting at, correct?
Yes.
Well, don't help me.
Yes.
I mean, you know what?
I'm not really ashamed of it.
Like, I think it was really funny, especially in the moment.
Like, I did what I had to do for my girlfriend.
Like, she's my best friend.
Like, I'm going to do it for her if she doesn't want to do it.
I'm confused.
You were having phone sex with this guy for the benefit of your girlfriend?
I wanted money.
She wanted the money.
Oh, so were you pretending to be her?
I was pretending to be her.
Oh, okay.
And I was like, okay, I guess we'll just.
I was like, I'm going to help her get a quick band really fast.
So, like, did you?
I did.
I helped her get a quick band.
He actually didn't send me any money.
He said he would, but he never did.
Yeah, he actually never did.
Who was he going to send you?
How much was he going to send you?
Yeah, no, it was more than that.
I remember because I was like, I'm not going to do it for 50.
Like, I wasn't going to do it for anything under 100.
Maybe we negotiated.
I just remember.
We negotiated.
It was a high price.
It was a high price.
I don't remember what it was, though, but it was a high price.
And I was like, okay, we know Lou has a 30 plus.
I actually don't.
So, no, but I was like, you know what?
Okay, like, I'm going to help her out.
We were drunk, and I was like, she's my best friend.
And I did it.
And I'm so grateful for it.
Good intentions, right?
It was good intentions.
We did not get the money, though.
Okay.
So, you know what?
Blair, you tell me what you should women just start sending unsolicited.
It wasn't unsolicited.
He asked for it.
No, well, I'm moving.
Oh, okay.
If they feel comfortable doing that, more power to them.
They will get a lot of success that way.
I will say that.
So, I mean, that's up.
How so?
You can just kind of like, you know, go through it and just pick which ones you like.
Wait, what?
So, so, in other words, you send a pick to like 10 guys or maybe 15 guys, and then you pick from that 15 guys.
Okay, which one's hot?
Which one's cool or whatever?
I don't do that anymore.
It was last year.
This is the redemption arc, I think, that women need is to start just mass sending pictures of their vagina.
So it's instead of unsolicited dick pics, it's unsolicited.
Pussy pics.
Pussy picks.
Unsolicited pussy pics.
Okay.
So we just kind of.
Yeah, pee-pee.
Unsolicited pee pee.
I think women should do it.
Okay.
Okay.
Interesting.
So worst pickup line ever.
Oh, is it my turn?
Oh, one time someone texted me and said that he would, or actually he sent me a video and said that he would, of him taking a bomber up and ask me to hook up with him for money.
I was like, fuck no, I'm like 16.
Like, absolutely not.
He was like 21 or so.
Actually, he just looked like his fucking.
Yeah, so that was pretty bad.
That was really awkward.
Yikes.
Okay.
Blair has a girl ever just, did you get, did you get hit on Blair?
Man, not a whole lot, but I can recall a young lady from high school who, I'm sorry, this girl looked like Shrek.
Like, I'm just going to be honest.
Oh, my gosh.
She was not cute, and she was trying to haul her big time.
And she was in my DMs on Instagram, on my Facebook Messenger, trying to get me on Snapchat, the whole nine, all of it.
And I just went like this.
I was like, I'm sorry, I can't do it.
Damn.
Okay, good times.
Good times.
All my boys, some of them are watching, they know who I'm talking about, and they grill me about this to this day.
So did you guys, you know, did you guys smash?
Absolutely.
Y'all got it in.
Oh, okay.
All right.
You can be honest.
You can be honest.
This is a safe space.
All right.
So, Eric, I'm going to have you pull up a video.
I think you dropped something.
Oh, your standards.
Hi, I'm Brian.
Oh, my God.
My sister's in town tonight.
Would you like to have a threesome?
No.
No?
No.
Is it because of the whole incest thing?
Do you like daggers?
Do you like knives?
Daggers, man.
Have you ever been with a premature ejaculator?
I'm Brian.
I'm Brooke.
Did you think that'd be a problem between us?
No.
Hey, are you guys feminists?
Sure.
I would like to smear green paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado.
Which of you two has low standards?
That's just.
Oh, I'm looking for a girlfriend.
Does the carpet match the curtains?
It's hardwood floors.
Is your name Medusa?
No.
Because I'm rock hard right now.
Okay.
So that was me a couple years back with some fantastic pickup lines.
Which one was your favorite?
And would any of those work on you?
I was really proud of the avocado one.
That one was really funny.
Did you liked that one?
I did.
I did.
I don't think it would have worked on me, though.
The avocado one would not work on you.
I would have passed on that one.
Maybe if it was a different vegetable, you think?
Maybe like an eggplant.
No, I'm just kidding.
Okay.
No, but yeah, no.
Vegetables are out of the question.
Okay, bummer.
I like the premature ejaculation one.
I thought it was funny.
And she seemed into it.
You know what?
Yeah.
She kind of was.
She might not have known what that is.
She might have not known what premature ejaculation is.
Oh.
That's usually a problem with women if you do that as a man.
What?
Wait, what?
What?
I don't get it.
Okay.
Go on.
I'd have to say the premature ejaculation.
That one was funny.
And then I think also for some reason, I thought the feminist one was funny.
Like when you asked if they were a feminist and then you just walked away.
I would have been like, wait a minute, wait.
Non.
Oh, she didn't.
Okay.
She didn't like either of them.
Yeah.
Okay.
I thought the sister one was hella funny.
It probably wouldn't pull me, but it was still hella funny.
Kudos to you for thinking of that one.
All right, guys.
This weekend, try them out.
Okay.
So I want to go.
Let's see.
Actually, you know what?
We're going to react to one of Tasha's videos here.
Tasha, she has a TikTok.
The link for it is in the description.
Up and comer, guys.
She's going to be huge.
Okay.
We're going to react to one of her TikToks just to give some context.
It's about a red flag.
So, Eric, if you can go ahead and – okay, just – there's a greater context to that.
But basically, so you think it's a red flag if a guy says that his ex-girlfriend was crazy or is crazy.
1 million percent.
So really quick, why do you just curious, why do you think that is?
In every instance where I've had a guy say that to me, you learn more about the guy and then you start to figure out things like he's manipulative.
He's, you know, does a bunch of manipulative things.
And it's like, oh, why was your ex crazy?
And then you realize, oh, you made her that way.
And I fully believe that.
I've actually experienced it.
So.
Okay, really quick on this one, just around the table.
So if you've had a guy say, oh, my ex is crazy, is that, do you look at that and say, maybe it's you?
Yes.
Yes.
Yes, for a second.
But like, actually, my boyfriend, he just told me, like, we were having about like ex conversation yesterday night when we were FaceTime.
And he was talking about like his ex-girlfriend.
He was like, oh, she's crazy.
I think it really depends on the situation because I think his ex-girlfriend is crazy.
But I mean, not everyone's ex-girlfriend is like, you know, crazy as they told others.
So I think it really depends on the situation.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, I kind of always think I'm crazy all the time.
I don't really think a guy needs to say anything to like make me think I'm crazy myself.
Yeah, also it's like, I feel like a lot of times when a guy's like, oh, my ex is like crazy bitch, whatever.
Like, probably because you drove her to be that crazy.
Because it's like, none of my ex, like, I don't, all my ex is like me.
And like, I'm not, I know I'm not crazy.
So that means you're crazy.
Yeah, I gotta agree with that.
It's like you made them all crazy because you like fucking fucked the not fuck the shit out of them, but like manipulated them.
Yeah, I gotta agree with her on that one.
Usually it's like every time they say it's like, oh, my ex was so crazy.
It's like, oh, really?
Because every single girl you said that you got in with was super crazy.
So that's a really interesting like pattern.
I'm pretty sure you drove them to be like that because then you like talk to the ex-girl and you're like, well, like, he said that you're crazy, like, blah, blah, blah.
No, like, they made them crazy.
It's usually the guy that like makes them crazy.
And also, why do they keep dating crazy girls too?
Yeah.
Like, that's not me.
So, let me ask a follow-up question.
Do any of you know any crazy chicks?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Nope.
I don't.
You know no crazy chicks.
What do you think is crazy?
Like, what's considered crazy?
Yeah, like, what would you say is, like, the guidelines for a crazy, like, girl, if that makes sense.
Blair, you come to me.
I have a good example of this.
I have a friend of mine.
She is constantly wrestling with, I really like this guy, but I don't want to date him.
And she just goes back and forth all day long about this.
That shows me she's a little cuckoo.
That's crazy to you?
A little bit.
Usually like crazy to me is like when she's like slashing her tires, breaking her windshield.
Well, that's the extreme end of the spectrum, but that's true too.
Okay, because yeah, like usually.
I'm talking like ordinary behaviors that people might think are crazy.
Okay.
I feel like that's not crazy though.
That's indecisive.
Or like.
Slashing tires is indecisive.
Well, no, not slashing tires.
Going back and forth over a guy.
I feel like that's pretty cool.
I'd say slashing tires is indecisive.
Yeah.
No.
Okay.
Yeah.
I mean, so I think my sense of crazy, one, I mean, there's some very obvious ones.
Like if they're super vindictive, super jealous.
The big one is vindictive.
So if they either try to destroy your reputation in some way, they talk shit about, like, talk shit about you, try to poison your social circle.
Obviously, there's the very obvious stuff would be like if they're physically violent or if they like slash your tires or they do some sort of property damage.
That's definitely crazy.
I mean, then there's just also stuff related to mental illness.
Like if they have borderline personality, if they have borderline personality disorder, not everyone that has BPD is going to, it's not necessarily going to manifest itself in crazy behavior, so to speak.
But there's also, I mean, could be bipolar too if they're, what is it, manic or I don't know, whatever it is.
So I will say I've had one crazy girlfriend.
The rest of my girlfriend's totally normal.
Rave reviews.
And to be fair, like on a scale of one to 10 of craziness, she's like a five on the crazy scale.
And to be like, and I can give you reasons, I don't want to, but I don't want to like, I'm not the type of guy to really, well, I kind of did, but I was about to say, I'm not the type of guy to like talk poorly about an ex.
I think that's, that's actually another red flag is someone that talks poorly about their ex.
I have to agree with that part.
Yeah.
Especially to a new partner.
To me, that's always like, I don't know.
Maybe, especially early on in the relationship, maybe like if it's been, you've been together for a while and your partner's curious, but I think talking poorly about exes is not a good thing.
Yeah.
Like I'd say like in the first like couple weeks, if they're like really dogging on their ex or like an ex-girl that they had like a thing with, then like that's where it starts to get like, ooh, like okay.
And then when they there's more than one especially, that's when it really starts to get like a really big red flag.
So it's like if they keep saying that all of their exes are crazy, then that's kind of a bit of a red flag for me.
Sure.
Because I think that's just like all of your exes are crazy.
And it's your problem.
Exactly.
That's your problem.
You drove them.
Yeah.
Like you drove them to be crazy.
Like I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, I'm so sorry.
Like, no.
You drove them to be like that, babes.
I'll give you one example.
So the very first day I met her, first time hanging out, she went through my phone.
Oh, that's crazy.
That's crazy.
Nope.
That's crazy.
Like, first time hanging out.
No, that's crazy.
Went through my phone and got mad at what she obviously discovered.
I mean, there's obviously, it was our first time hanging out, so there was no guarantee of, there's no loyalty there, you know?
But I'm guessing you guys didn't hang out for long.
I dated her for five years, but that's another.
That's a really good thing.
Yeah, that's kind of on you.
That's a bad person.
Okay.
So you had a relationship with this woman for five years on the first day.
Yeah, she went through my phone.
She got mad at what she saw.
I stormed out and left.
And then that's when I knew she was the one.
I'm kidding.
It was clearly a red flag, but here's the thing.
Here's what she did is I was like, well, I'm never going to see you again.
Goodbye.
Like, lose my number, blocked her, whatever.
I was very young.
I want to say I was very young and naive.
This was like my first ever proper relationship.
Okay.
So.
What made you go back?
I didn't.
I wanted to hear that because that would have turned me off right away.
No, it did, but she was like, oh, she was two or three days later, she's like, she gave me the most sincere apology.
Like, it was super believable.
Major, like, I'll never do it again.
I'm really sorry.
I'm just, I'm just a little crazy.
If she willingly admits that she's crazy, get out.
Get out.
Get the money.
No, coming from like a, like, yeah.
If, if a girl's going to, like, it fully admit that she's crazy, like.
She's come to terms with it already.
Yeah, she's coming to terms with it.
Like, honestly, it's fun.
But, like, if you're not in for that, then don't go for it.
I'm not proud of it.
He was obviously into it for five years.
It was.
Okay.
Did some of those behaviors come back up during that five-year relationship?
Well, okay, so I'll go into it.
Obviously, it was a mistake of me for not being steadfast in the numerous times I broke up with her.
But basically, I'd break up with her.
It was on again, off again.
I don't know if any of you guys have had that sort of on-again, off-again relationship, but I'd break up with her.
I think she broke up with me one time.
Like 90% of the other times I'd break up with her.
And I'm pretty sure she had borderline personality disorder, but that's another conversation.
That's for another time.
That's another time.
Can I make an assumption?
So, are you going to say this ex was really good?
Yeah, that's exactly what I was going to say.
Like, if that pussy's good, man, that'll get your wires crossed big time.
And I was young and naive and didn't have a lot of relationship experience.
So, but yeah, no, she repeated the same mistakes multiple times.
But every time she'd come back, like, heartfelt, I'm so sorry, I'll never do it again.
Here's how I'll do better.
And I believed it.
And young and naive, Brian, guys.
Anyways, but yes, I should have been steadfast in Not getting back with her, but sometimes it's tough, you know, it's tough.
Anyways, agree.
Moving on, moving on.
Oh, so yeah, I wanted to open it up.
Or wait, did Blair, did you red flags?
Did everyone answer the whole like crazy X thing?
I think we talked about it.
Yeah.
So I want to open it up just for.
Do you guys have any other?
Are there any other red flags for you?
Oh, it's in the future.
There can be a lot of red flags.
Man, it's hard to think of all of them.
If they talk badly about their ex, for sure.
Ooh, this is kind of a controversial one that I've heard a lot of different opinions about.
But if a guy types in lowercase, I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Come on.
Come on.
No, it is strange.
Because typing, I mean, if a guy types in lowercase, like, why are you trying to be feminine?
You know what's even worse?
What?
The first word, or sorry, the first letter of every word is uppercase.
Oh, no.
That's sketch.
I've never had that.
Like, if you have to willingly change all them to caps each time.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, the first letter of every word is uppercase.
That's concerning.
I'm sorry, but if anybody has that, that's immediate psychotic behavior.
What about like a bunch of exclamation points or a lot of caps?
Stuff like that.
I feel like it depends on how much if you're excited, a lot of exclamation marks are fine, and all caps is okay.
But if you have every single first letter of the word after, like, if you're saying, what are you doing tonight?
And every single like letter, like the first word of every, no, the first letter of every single word is capitalized, and all of a sudden you have a ton of like emojis or whatever.
Yeah, too many emojis.
Yeah.
I will have the blocking right there then.
That is so terrifying.
That is terrifying behavior.
So, Natasha, all lowercase.
All lowercase.
It's terrible.
That is something that girls do.
And if a man does it, it's very feminine and it's very unattractive.
That's interesting.
Yeah.
I mean, I've learned that from just talking to different guys.
But yeah, if a guy really cares, that means that he's also talked to a lot of girls because that's what a lot of girls do.
What if he's like a 10, 11 out of 10?
Then he's a lowercase.
He's a 10, but he DMs me with a K and he types in lowercase.
It's not a deal breaker, but I just don't like it.
It's a red flag.
Not a fan.
Okay.
Okay.
Any other, I mean, anything else?
So many things.
If he talks badly about his parents, that's a huge red flag.
Let's see.
If he gosh, my mind is blinking.
The chat has a response to you, by the way.
How am I supposed to type?
That's my OCD.
It's really not.
I see you guys in there doing it too.
I know it's all good.
I'll keep that in mind when I have lower auto DMs.
I like how it's all lowercase.
It's all lowercase.
Keep in mind, by the way.
Oh, sorry.
Oh, I was just going to say, keep in mind, if they're on computer or PC, it's going to default be in all lowercase.
Ooh.
So.
That's acceptable, but most people are talking over a phone where it just automatically does it.
If you have to lowercase your eyes, what are you doing?
Like, what are you doing?
Oh, shit.
How many of you am I supposed to type?
How many of the folks in shadow on phone right now?
Her DMs are open, by the way, guys.
Okay.
All lowercase, guys.
All lowercase.
What's like a red flag for you?
Probably just somebody who like can't commit or like just like what's I don't know.
Poster check.
So sorry.
You're like my mom.
Like someone who can't commit but is like doing all the things that you would do in like a relationship, you know?
Like what's the difference?
Or that or loud chewers.
It's more of like an ick than a red flag, but I can't stand it.
It's so annoying.
I'd say red flag for me is definitely like one not liking their mom.
If they have like a really big problem with their mom for some reason, I don't, I don't take that lightly.
Because it's like, you're going to have a problem with the woman who birthed you.
Like I don't know like if they really have a problem with their mom, I don't know the whole like reason behind it.
But if there's no like logical reason behind it, it's like, oh, she's like, nothing intense or something.
Yeah, it's like she just told me what to do.
She's like being a bitch.
I'm like, don't talk to me.
Like no.
Or a red flag.
Usually, okay, in my opinion, a lot of people say that toxicity is a red flag.
I love toxicity.
What does that look like to you?
Gaslighting.
Yeah, Lulu, that's a red flag, girl.
It's a red flag for most, but for some reason, I find it really fun.
It just creates a fun conversation because I kind of just like reciprocate.
You're going to get some really interesting DMs tonight.
Shawty's colorblind.
Honestly, the red flags to me just look like green flags.
So I don't think that's the pit.
Ignorance of this card.
Like for me, there's a couple.
The first one definitely is when you go through his Instagram follows, there's like, I don't know, like a bunch of, you know, like Instagram models.
So many hot girls, probably like three seldom, like follows like that.
But aren't you an Instagram model?
Yeah.
Yeah, but I mean like if a guy I wanna like date him and if you go through his follows, it's like a bunch of IG models and like hot girls.
I don't know.
It's just kind of it's reasonable though, but it's just like a little red flag for me.
And another one definitely is like he's like impolite to like he's being rude to like waiters or any like friends.
That's a big one.
Like parents or something, like being rude to like the people around him or like people he's not familiar with.
And I don't know.
Like sometimes when guys talking to me like, oh, I smoke a ton of weed and I'm an alcoholic because I have anxiety and depression.
I will be like, it just turned me off immediately.
Like if you have this problem, just go fix it.
Go solve the problem.
Do not say like, I do this like to, you know, just, it's just not reasonable.
It's really a turn off.
Yeah.
Okay.
Oh, really quick while we're on the topic of red flags, can we get some Chinese flags in the chat for, that was a bad joke.
Because the Chinese flag is red.
Okay.
The China.
Is it the People's Republic of China?
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
If you're listening to the Smiths or the Cure, I think that's a red flag.
You listen to the Cure?
The Smiths or the Cure.
I mean, what?
I'm kind of biased.
I mean, I like them both.
I think they're both fine, but if you're like huge fans, there's this guy I follow on Spotify who has like an 11-hour Smiths playlist called like female manipulator music or something.
It's just like, it's like kind of like a joke online, but it's kind of true that like everyone who listens to the snists is like a piece of shit.
You know what?
Can we pull up Living on Wait, is that Living on the Thin Line?
No, that's the kinks.
What's the just like heaven, Brother Kerr?
Is that what you're thinking of?
No, I'm thinking of the Smith song.
The one that's like to die by your side.
What's their most famous one?
Kill the DJ?
No.
Anybody?
I don't know who's going to be.
I love that song.
That plays in 500 Days of Subway.
Yeah.
That's right.
I really like this chat.
I think they're funny.
Blair, any red flags for you?
Yeah, totally.
Excessive drinking, drunkenness, and or drug use.
Absolutely.
Okay.
I think it's a real cut and dry thing.
Solid.
What is that Smith song?
Oh, How Soon Is Now is the one I was thinking about.
That's a great song.
You don't like the Smiths?
Anyways, whatever.
It's not that I don't like them.
It's just like the guys who listen to them are dicks.
I'm not generalizing, but just like you're talking about the lyrics.
What is it about?
I don't know.
It's just like.
Morrissey?
They just like.
Yeah, actually, maybe.
Maybe it is.
They're just trying to emulate Morrissey or something like that.
I don't know.
What is it about Morrissey?
I just think they just like kind of want that rock star life where they're just like fucking every bitch they come into contact with and do not care.
I'm sorry.
And like do not care about like feelings at all.
I used to have a hamster named Morrissey when I was 13.
Damn.
Okay.
I want all the guys in the chat while this stream is on, go listen to How Soon Is Now by the Smiths while you're watching this.
Okay.
So and so you gave a couple of your reasons.
Yeah, so just to elaborate on that, like I'm okay with like grabbing a drink with your girlfriends, you know, and that kind of stuff.
But if it's just like every weekend, day in and day out, just sloppy drunk, drugs, you know, it's just, I can't do that.
Like you could probably say I'm a pretty fit and healthy person.
That's just, you know, that's just turn off for me.
We need to, can you do like show the tries a little bit?
Oh, here.
Do like a down one?
Oh shit.
Fucking guns.
Watch out, Mike Davis.
He's coming for you.
Beta male music.
Okay, goddamn.
Okay.
Sorry, Chase.
Yeah, you're out doing chase there.
Did you guys want to – so you said, like, going to clubs and bars and – Well, so, no, no, you can go to the club and all that.
It's just like if you're just getting sloppy drunk all the time and doing a lot of drugs, you know, that's where I draw the line.
But you can go to the club with your girlfriends, have some cocktails, dance, whatever.
Like, that's all fine.
I'll even have drinks with you, but we're not getting plastered all the time.
Yeah, I'll give my red flag.
So, I mean, a big one is if they're rude to wait staff or retail staff.
Huge.
100%.
Or if I come out for dinner for a drink and they're kind of rude to them.
I try to be like super polite to people who are serving food or whatever.
So that's a big one if they're rude to them.
If I'm on a date with the girl and she looks at her phone, that's like it's okay if she's like preempts it.
Like, hey, I'm sorry, I got to text someone really quick.
That's okay.
But if they're like, they pull out their phone and they're on it for a bit while we're having a conversation, I'll let it slide one time.
But if they do it two or three times, I'll just, I've done this before, and I recommend you guys do this.
Like, don't fucking tolerate this shit.
Literally, just fucking get up and leave.
I have done that.
Like, because I'm not, I'm not going to, it's just either she's not interested or she's just socially inept or rude.
So to me, that's very rude.
That'd be like if I was having a conversation with you and I busted out a fucking newspaper.
Oh, what's the fucking book?
So I mean, start reading the conversation.
Especially on the first date.
Like if you're with friends, like it's a bit more acceptable to like, here, let me pull out my phone.
But first date and you're looking, like you're pulling out your phone.
I've definitely had it.
And I've done this.
I will just get up, be like, hey, see ya, and walk off.
Yeah.
And they're usually pissed as fuck after that.
But I mean, it's just rude.
You also don't owe them an explanation as well.
Yeah, I mean.
But you're done.
Yeah.
Let's see what other, I think other, just, that's kind of a minor red flag, but.
I don't think that's a minor.
I think that's a big flag.
I mean, there's certainly worse things that's.
Unless you're like showing them, hey, look at this cool thing I saw on Instagram.
Like, pull it up.
No, it's like they're actually responding.
That's what I'm saying.
That's.
But if they preempted and it's like, hey, oh, this is my mom.
I got a texture.
Right, that's fine.
But if they just pull it up, and I think once I saw a girl, like, look at her story or something, I was like, okay.
She's on Tim or anything else.
Yeah, she fucking pulls up.
Yeah, fucking say, hold on, I got to do a page update.
Like, if they're just like on their phone for like the entire date, you're just in the like.
Why are you there?
Exactly.
Like, what the fuck are you doing?
Like, what, like, do you not want to engage in a conversation right now?
Like, if someone were to pull out their phone while we're on a date and just like go through their Instagram feed, I'd be so upset.
Like, have a conversation with me.
Like, I want a conversation.
I'm not on my phone, so don't be on yours.
Like, it's just also common decency at that point.
Like, hello.
Yeah.
And I want to make something clear.
I mean, that's pretty rare for that.
I've had that happen maybe.
I mean, probably, I don't know what the percentage would be, but maybe only three or four times.
One of the times I was like, and I kind of just sat there and then the rest I one time it was not a big deal.
She just checked it once.
I was like, let it go.
But then the other two is kind of chronic.
So then I legit just got up and left.
As you should, honestly.
Like, if they're not going to try, don't try.
Maybe, do you guys think that's a bit extreme?
Because what am I going to do?
I could address it, but then I just feel like it's...
It's awkward to address it.
It's going to be weird.
You shouldn't have to.
Exactly.
The fuck off your phone.
What are you looking at?
No, like, I mean, if she's just going to be constantly on her phone, it's like, you guys are on a date, it's understandable to just leave.
Yeah, my impression is that it's probably like 50-50.
Either she's just kind of like, she's either a bit rude or she's just not interested.
Yeah.
So it's like either way, it's just, I don't know, it's kind of dumb.
Maybe she has like social anxiety or like social like unawareness, you know?
It could be that too.
So maybe I'm not sure.
Can I add a red semi-red flag on that issue?
Being overly obsessive with social media also.
A word.
Yeah.
So, you know, like always like, like super meticulous about how their photo looks or how many followers they have or how many followers other people have, stuff like that.
You know, unless it's for a good purpose, right?
Like for you, for example, you have a social media presence and that's part of your end goal is to grow that fan base.
So like that makes more sense.
But if it's just like you're just a casual person like overly obsessing about your page, then it's like a little weird.
What do you guys think about this?
People that post a lot of stories, like I'm talking 10, 20 stories in a day.
To me, that's a little, like unless they're like social media content creator, like just a normal person and they're just posting like all this stuff to me, that's a slight indicator that they're a little kind of like the same thing with the uppercase first letter of each word and then just a shit ton of emojis.
I'm like a little bit like, it's kind of like a pull something off.
I feel like it's like narcissistic tendencies.
A little bit.
Yeah, a little bit.
Like nobody wants to see that.
Yeah.
If you're at 7-Eleven getting a gay.
Like no one cares.
Like I don't think they need to.
Like, I don't need to, like, I don't need to see what you're doing every second of the day.
Oh, you just went to the bank.
Okay.
I don't need to know that.
I don't think anybody needs to know that.
You just went to the doctor and got, like, what, a colonoscopy?
I also don't need to know that.
Thank you so much for sharing, but I don't need to know that, though.
It's just like some of them post every single second of their day, and it's like, no.
Like, come on.
Like, it just doesn't make any sense to me.
But also, it's different, though, on a private story.
On a private edition.
That's true.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because then you're like, you're showing your homegirls, oh, look at this fun stuff I'm doing.
Exactly.
On a private story, totally different.
But if you're doing it on your public story and you're telling them every single detail to your life, on your public story, nobody needs to know that.
Nobody at all.
Thank you for sharing, but no.
Word, word.
I got two more red flags.
I mean, I have a bunch of red flags, but I'll just share two and then we'll move on to the next topic.
So I don't really drink much.
Occasionally, I'll have a beer or a glass of wine.
But I don't drink much.
So a girl who drinks a lot, parties a lot, goes to nightclubs or bars regularly.
To me, it's not so much a red flag.
It can sort of be.
It's just more like a, there's an, we're not, there's a commonality there that's just, it's not linking up, you know?
So since I don't drink a lot, since I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't really party.
Frankly, and I've said this before, I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than go to a nightclub or bar.
That's how much I dislike bars and nightclubs.
So because I don't like that, that's something I value in the partner.
They're not super into going to bars and nightclubs.
Homebody, right?
Yeah, I think more of a home.
I mean, we can go out and do things, go to the beach, like, I don't know, see movies and stuff, but I don't like, I don't know.
I'm definitely more on the introverted side.
And then here's the big one: high body count.
That's a red flag.
I feel like it's worse to have a ton of exes than a high body count, though.
Yeah, I can't like.
That's actually a very good thing.
If you have like 10 X's, that's one thing.
But if you have like a body count of 15, I don't really care if you have a body count at 15, but if you're my age and you have 10 X's, it's like, yeah.
Like, you're a slut.
No, it's like 10 X's, like, you ran through.
Wait, hold on.
Just to clarify.
So, okay.
A woman who slept with 10 men, but they're all, they were like longer term, you know, they had some degree of relationship, versus a woman who slept with, say, 50 men, but most of them were like very short flings, one-night stands.
You think the girl who slept with 10 men and they're all exes, she's ran through.
Yeah, and not just girls, guys, too.
It's like, and I, from my perspective, I'm 19, you know, like I haven't had that much time.
Like, if you have like 10 exes by like 19, I was like, holy shit.
I don't even know mathematically how that, how you can have 10 exes.
That's like a lot.
Well, I just kind of thought of a number, but like, yeah, I'm just trying to think, like, at what point can someone be considered a next?
Is it like two, three months, like at minimum mark?
So I guess so.
Like, I'm only 21.
I only have one ex-ish.
Ish.
What does that mean?
Yeah.
He never really asked me to be his girlfriend, but like when people would ask if we were like boyfriend and girlfriend, he was like, yeah, she's my girlfriend.
But like.
Is that what you said too?
Oh, yeah, this is my boyfriend.
Yeah, I would say that.
Or this is the guy you're dating.
No, like I would tell people he was my boyfriend because it was like, it was like for a while.
Because I, because in my current relationship, I never asked her to be my girlfriend.
Yeah, I don't know if it like works that way.
I was just, like yeah, he never like asked me to be like his girlfriend.
I just don't know really how it works anymore, I guess.
But like i'm only 21 and like i've only had like one ex, like he was my only ever like closest thing that i've ever had to a boyfriend, so and that was like a whole ordeal.
But yeah, I mean I don't know.
So I guess it's just different for people.
But yeah, if someone were like my age and had like 13 exes, i'd be like oh, how do you have 13 exes at the age of 21?
Like someone's got to explain that to me a little bit.
But like it depends on like how you definitely like definition.
Yeah, I mean, like I don't know, like in China, the dating culture.
The dating culture in China, like here, is so different.
Let's talk about the dating culture in China while we're at it.
Like um, I don't know, like in China basically, if you guys are attractive to each other and you tell him, oh, I like you and I like you too, then you're a boyfriend, girlfriend.
That's easy.
Like you like each other and you guys are boyfriend girlfriend, you're in a relationship.
But after I got here, it seems like hmm, American dating culture is so much like complicated.
Like people can sleep together, you guys can just live together and you guys are not even like in a relationship.
My girlfriend is Swedish and she has the exact same opinion as you, she hates yeah.
Yeah, when I first got here, the dating culture here just confused me a lot.
I was like so confused about the whole situation, like what happened?
Yeah, that's how it is in France too, really.
Yeah France yeah like, are you from France?
Yeah, i'm from France and I know you were to pour Francais.
I barely know French.
My my dad gets so angry with me for it.
Oh, but it's like I, I mean, I go okay wait, I go there like every year for you to talk about the dating culture in France, that you at least know how to.
No yeah, like I know how it works, if that makes any sense.
Like it's how it works.
Okay, how does it work?
It's like it's not how it is here.
It's not like, do you want to be my girlfriend?
Do you want to be my boyfriend?
It's kind of like people just like start hanging out and they like get together and then it's kind of just like an assumption.
At that point, like it's, I kind of feel like that's how it is in the U.s.
Yeah, but sometimes it's like, how do I like put this?
You mean, when it comes to commitment yeah because, like people here, like if you try to be like oh, like we haven't established anything, but what are we?
Then sometimes it's like, but over there, what you're saying is, when people are in France, if you sleep with someone, you're essentially in a relation.
Is that what you're saying?
At least in my hometown, that's where it's kind of like in yeah, in Strasbourg Strasbourg France your, your hometown is, but you don't speak French.
So, but my citizenship is there.
Tou et pas vement en Français par le False.
Anyways, I know how to say hi, my name is.
Did you understand what I said, though?
You said, do I speak French?
Oh, Jesus.
Okay.
So, okay.
Well, I've only, I was born in France and I moved to the US when I was five.
So, really?
Yeah.
Where?
Where in France, Paris?
Yeah.
Fun.
But I've not really been back there for long periods of time, so I can't really speak to the dating culture.
Oh, no.
Is it true that French people are incredibly rude?
Parisians.
Parisians are rude.
Yeah, Parisians are rude.
But if you go to Strasbourg.
I don't like Paris, to be honest.
But go ahead.
If you go to Strasbourg, they're really nice.
Because it has a lot of, also, because we're so close to the German border.
Yeah.
It has a lot of German influence.
So like the people in Strasbourg, in my opinion, are really, really nice.
But if you do go to Paris, they're a little meaner.
I think also it's part of like there's so many tourists, they're sick of tourists.
Like, yeah, that's understandable.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, definitely.
Wait, so okay, going back to China.
Can we get some Chinese flags in the chat, by the way?
And some French flags, too.
Get some French flags going.
So, because China's a very secular country, right?
It's not particularly religious.
Right?
Yeah.
So my question for you is: is casual sex a pretty big thing in China?
Or is it more, sorry, go ahead.
Yeah, here's the thing.
Like, I think it's not like for sex, this topic in China is not like that open than here.
You know, like people talk about sex like pretty normal, pretty normal.
Like every they don't care about this topic, but like in China, people do.
I mean, like this generation is getting better, but back to my parents and like older generations, they do like avoid sex, this topic.
And I don't know.
Like, I think casual sex is definitely a big thing, but people just don't put this topic on the table.
You know, they don't share this kind of thing.
Like.
Where do you think that comes from?
Because I honestly, like, I grew up in China and I just hear for like college.
Because to add to that, people often say it's religion that is the catalyst to that, right?
No, it's not because of like religious race.
Right, because China's not a religious country.
So what do you think that comes from then?
I just think like the lack of sex education, this is, I think, is a real big problem in China.
And so people, I don't know, people are ashamed when they talk about sex, this topic.
So like their children are educated in a way like, oh, don't talk sex in public.
It's a like a shame topic, whatever.
Yeah.
Is it also true about the whole thing where you're limited how many children you can have in China?
Is that still a thing?
Has that ever been a thing?
That's not a thing anymore.
Like peak government are in targeting.
Do you think that plays a role into it?
No, I don't think so.
I just think like the overall sex education level is not enough.
So people are like avoiding this topic.
But I do think casual sex is a thing, but people just don't put it on the table.
Like talk about it in a podcast.
Is virginity something that's valued in China in the same way it is like, for example, in other countries or in the US?
At least amongst in religious circles?
I mean, I think, I don't know.
Like, I think after 2020s, like after we entered like 21st century, people are caring less about virginity.
But I do think there's a majority, not majority, like a big part of guys, they do care about virginity.
I'm curious about this when it comes to dating in China, so for trying to think so.
So is it looked down upon in China to date outside of your race?
Like say there's like a white guy in China.
My boyfriend is white.
So you're in the US right now, but if you're like in China, do you think the Would people look down on you for dating outside of your race or they don't really care?
Okay, like I don't know like I think there's a group of this kind of people in every country like they just being disrespectful, but I don't know.
I don't think people will like look down on you if you date people like they're white black or anything.
To add on to that, I think and again, I'm not from China.
This is just based on my observations.
You're not.
I've seen a lot of clips of black people in China and they're just like obsessed with them.
They want to touch their hair.
They want to take pictures of them and all that kind of stuff.
So I think it's almost there's novelty in a foreign partner.
Would you say that's true?
I mean, yeah, it's definitely novelty here.
And I think the big reason is because America is like an immigration country.
There are all different races of people.
So you're like grow up, you do see all those different racist people like around you.
So you're kind of like getting used to it.
But in China, it's, I don't know, like, it's just basically one race.
Or I don't know, like, 99% people look similar.
Like, we're all in one race.
So it's probably like pretty novel when you're dating like, you know, like a black, white, any other people out of your race.
Yeah.
Okay.
Very interesting.
Okay, we got to do, sorry, guys, we are a little behind on super chats.
We're going to do some super chats.
First off, the American Network Against Labia Placity, hashtag all labia matter.
Guys, that is my nonprofit organization, anal for short.
And it really is a shame that women are shamed if they have large labia.
I'm just going to say it.
It's unfortunate.
Some of them turn to plastic surgery.
It's really terrible.
So I'm all labia matter.
Okay.
We got Stiffler.
Actually, we'll come back to Stiffler.
Yo, Glebis, what's up, man?
Hey, how you doing, man?
Good to see you back in the chat week after week, man.
Really appreciate your support.
And for being a member, by the way.
By the way, guys, if you see that little icon next to his name, that means he's a member of the channel.
If you want to be a homie, consider hitting that join button.
Mr. Mike Davis, good to see you back, man.
Thank you for the $10 super chat.
Just tuning in and check it out.
Brian pulled another wannabe gangster off the streets.
This boy spent time in the pen too.
Brandon smokes this boy.
Yeah.
You want to shoot back to that?
Sure.
Not only am I into fitness, but I also do martial arts.
So pull up.
Okay, Mike Davis, the challenge has been issued.
Come to the dojo anytime.
Okay.
Look it and act it.
At the same time.
Mr. Chase Paisley, what's up, man?
Thank you for the $10 super chat.
Brian, ask the chicks if they think it's important that their man slash future husband has post-apocalyptic warlord potential.
You know what, Chase?
I was actually thinking about this today.
So, yeah, we can go around the panel on this.
So, ladies, in the event of some crazy apocalyptic zombie scenario, nuclear holocaust, wait, nuclear, nuclear winter.
Anyways, whatever.
Would you want your man, future husband to be a, what's the term for it, a prepper?
What is the term?
Thinking about the apocalypse day in and day out.
A survivalist, a prepper?
Sure, yeah, like a survival person.
Like, would you want him to have like an underground bunker in his house with like three years of food supplies?
Is that important to you?
I would say it's not important, but in general, I would want my man to be able to lead me through that time and be able to get me through that.
You know, he has to be strong.
He has to be a critical thinker of what's going to happen next and what we should do next.
I'm not saying he has to have an underground bunker, but there should be some, you know, survivalistic skills in his toolbox.
Okay.
Got it.
Very good.
Yeah, fuck that.
That would be so annoying.
It would be like living with an extreme couponer.
Go ahead.
Like, it would be like living with an extreme couponer.
And he's like, oh, babe, I got to go to the store and get more beans.
Like, they expired.
I actually have a story about that.
That's so annoying.
Like, I would not want that.
And it would take up so much time.
And, like, he'd always be talking about it now.
Final answer.
I think either or.
I feel like I could definitely fend off a zombie if I needed to, if it went into, like, the post-apocalyptic, like, zombies were a thing.
What would be your weapon of choice?
I would, ooh, that's a, I say, like, a machete.
Sick.
I would go for a machete, a thousand percent.
So if, like, if my future man could, like, you know, like hop up on my side and like help me with it, then, like, yeah, like, that would be, that would be, like, fucking rad in my opinion.
I don't think he has to be, but yeah.
I mean, it's not necessary, but I don't have opinion on that.
Yeah, I don't need him to be a survivalist, but I'd like to see that he has the potential to like help me out.
You know, I'm not trying to like board up in a closet and die in like the first three hours.
So, yeah.
Okay.
Hmm.
Blair?
I mean.
I mean, my girlfriend would just panic in the apocalypse.
She wouldn't even want to do anything.
She was just like, take the lead, you know?
So.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You know, I was thinking about that, Chase.
I make YouTube videos, so I feel like if there was like, there would be groups that would form, right?
In the event of an apocalypse.
Absolutely.
Like these little groups, roving bands of like people and shit.
And I'm like, I was thinking, like, what the fuck?
I got boys with AKs, all kinds of guns and shit.
I'm going with them.
Like, do you think that my YouTube channel, like, do you think people would maybe be like, he was kind of funny back then?
We'll help him out.
Or do you think I'm fucked?
You're fucked.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You're fucked.
Join my squad.
We'll make sure you survive.
Chase, if you're still in the chat, can I join you and Tanner in your group?
Anyway, I'll document.
I'll document it, you know, for historical recording reasons.
Okay.
With a camera.
All right.
Next super chat.
Sorry, one sec, guys.
Let me pull it up.
Okay, we got Elder Scrolls333.
Thank you for the $10 super chat.
Speaking of warlords, Chase, your boy Blair kind of looked like Cal Drogo.
That is a massive compliment.
And I also say that.
I'll say this too.
That's not the first time somebody has said I look like Jason Momoa.
I don't know why.
I don't really look like him.
It's just a hair.
That's all it is.
Okay.
Yeah, I'll take it as a compliment for sure.
All right.
Game of Thrones, rock and roll.
Do we still have that crown?
Can we give you...
Yeah, we'll put the crown.
The crown was so good.
He's going to grab it.
All right.
Elder Scrolls, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
i mean that's the this is so this is the baratheon crown it's not like the i don't think khal drogo had a crown I don't believe so.
I don't think he didn't have a crown.
I'm not all excited.
So we are, this is not.
Okay, anyway.
Devon Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.
Thank you, man.
Brian, I think you are a fine gentleman, but this song is awful.
Okay, so that's the Smiths.
How soon is now?
Okay, well.
shoot by the way i don't think i don't know if from last stream i was asking that's a charger symbol Is that Dos Pueblos Chargers local high school?
Or is that?
Do you know what?
I went to DP.
That's not DP.
I don't know.
That's not DP?
I thought, isn't the symbol a horse?
It is a horse.
Those are the colors.
It doesn't look like that, though.
It looks different.
Those are the colors for Dos Pueblos.
DP also means something else.
Okay, Mike Hawk with the $2.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
By the way, just a reminder, guys, $10 and up if you want it red.
Mike Davis with the $10 Super Chat.
Gangster Wannabe is the type of dude to wash his hands after he takes a shower.
Brian, use a makeup removing wipe on him and watch it turn brown.
I actually do wash my hands quite often.
So you're right.
Maybe not after a shower, but.
Okay.
Mike Davis.
Thank you for the $10 Super Chat, man.
Good to see you back week after week, man.
Okay, I need to answer that one.
Can we just please go back?
Yeah.
Poor Chinese dude.
Okay.
Sure, why not?
First, I'm breached by myself.
And my family is rich, so that's not a problem.
And second, whoever I date, I will never date a guy like you because it's kind of rude and this huge rat flag.
Thank you, guys.
Never date everyday Edgar.
He seems like a dick.
Okay.
Everyday Edgar.
Somebody said Edgar.
His resist.
His azist.
I have to say that.
Somebody said Blair versus Mike Davis pay-per-view.
I can get behind that.
Yeah, I think, you know what?
If you want more smoke from Cara over here, you're probably going to have to super chat a bit higher than $2.
Just saying.
You know.
Anyways.
All right.
So, oh, we got another one.
Let's just get this one while it just came in.
From Glebis.
Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.
Much appreciated.
We'll pull it up here in just a sec.
It takes a second to refresh.
Brian, don't worry.
We would accept you into post-apocalyptic gang.
You'd be marriage therapist if you worry about your role.
Okay, well, I am going to be the marriage therapist in the, okay, great.
Cool.
Were you able to pull it up, Eric?
Was it pulled up?
Can you see it?
Yeah.
Sorry, guys.
It takes like a little time.
There we go.
Oh, we got another one from, ooh, shit.
Okay.
Was that $20?
Yeah, we got another one.
Yeah, Glebis.
Thank you for the $10 super chat.
Much appreciated, man.
I'll pull this one up.
Buster Kitchyup, Lulu, and TikTok.
Switch seats.
Thank you for the Canadian $20.
$20?
Thank you for the donut.
What does that even mean?
I think he won't.
They want you to switch seats.
But you're going to have to donate $500 if you want that.
500 Canadian.
somebody do it why do they want us to switch because they think she's base i think i I saw a few comments.
What does that mean?
I think Natasha's pretty based.
What does that mean?
I don't know what that means.
It's like you're basically a legend.
Like you're a fucking legend.
Very respectable, like...
Wow.
Solid opinions.
High caliber person.
Thank you to whoever's.
Shout out, Natasha.
I also saw 304 in the chat.
What does 304 mean?
A Ray Code, probably.
It was like, can someone?
Tasha, do you know what it means?
304.
Okay, so it's something you type into a calculator and you turn it over.
What does it say?
I don't know, but someone said that with my name.
Oh!
Oh, okay.
Yeah, so.
500 Canadian is like 3 USD.
Okay.
Might come in then.
Might come in.
Rest in peace, Canada.
Okay.
All right, let's get back on track here.
Thank you guys so much for the super chats.
Much appreciated.
You guys are fucking legends.
Okay.
So we already talked red flags.
Deal breaker, that's kind of the same thing, right?
Or is that different-ish?
I'd say it's like the same thing.
I would say deal breakers is when you're already in the relationship.
Yeah.
So like if their red flag continues to be in that relationship, then it equals a deal breaker.
You know what?
Why don't we react to another one of Tasha's videos?
If you can pull up the items to it.
Go ahead and pull up the video.
Why did you make a sex date?
Because I was corny and I felt like it.
Okay.
So I guess we could talk about that.
So how long do you guys think you should wait before having sex with someone?
Well, I've actually never done that.
I've never had sex on the first date.
Oh, I thought you were about to say you've never had sex.
No, no, just not on the first date.
I was about to say.
No, I think you should wait honestly until you feel comfortable.
That was you in the TikTok, though.
Yes, that was fully me.
But it doesn't apply to me.
Oh, okay.
Wait.
But that was you in the TikTok.
It was me in the TikTok.
Okay.
I see.
So how long do you think you should wait for?
Oh, nice.
A little milestone there.
What's up, Clebis?
How long should you wait?
You should wait.
I would say until you're comfortable, for sure.
But I would usually wait a month.
At least a month.
So how many dates would you say that is?
Or how many like third date, fourth date, fifth date?
What do you think?
I would say maybe fourth date.
I think fourth date is pretty good.
If you're talking every day.
Brian was about to marry her.
Okay.
So fourth date, what do you think?
How long should you?
It kind of depends for me.
Like, there's been guys where it's like, I meet him at a party.
Maybe it's in the next 10 minutes.
Not like that.
Let me rephrase the question.
Like, same night.
I want to two-part this question.
So what is the fastest that you've hooked up with a guy?
Oh.
And that can be down to minutes if you want.
Yeah.
And just also the previous question, like, how long should you wait?
Or do you wait?
Okay, yeah.
Typically, generally.
I think, yeah, the fastest, I'd say maybe like half an hour.
If I like, like, I met him at a party.
The long, I, but, like, there's also, like, I have, like a guy, we've told each other we loved each other and we never like fucked.
Why?
Because it never, I don't know, it never happened.
And then he left.
And then we were just randomly like together and he said it and then he left again because we had to.
But you weren't, that didn't put you off or anything?
No, no, no, no, because I loved him too.
Yeah.
And I'd like always known that, but we never said it to each other.
Because that's kind of like two opposite ends of the spectrum.
From 30 minutes and just like somebody you really love and you're just like nothing.
Yeah, and I was like after like a year.
So.
After a year?
Well, of like knowing each other.
Yeah.
So were you dating this guy, like just kind of seeing it in a relationship?
No, it like we were situationship.
We never even kissed.
Oh.
But like we just knew.
I don't know.
It's hard to tell.
But you loved him and never kissed him.
And I still do.
Interesting.
Yeah.
And we like talked about getting married and shit, but we still haven't.
Yeah.
So I want to add one question onto this.
What's the longest you've made a guy wait to?
Oh, yeah, I guess so.
That never happened.
But I'd say probably like, hmm.
I don't know, maybe like two weeks.
Okay.
By the way, for this one, like, obviously exclude the first guy that you slept with.
Usually I don't really sleep with the guy on the first time that I see them.
I'd like, I personally like to wait.
But usually.
Usually.
Most of the time.
Okay.
So what are those options?
There was only one time I ever got because my body count's not that high.
My time to explain the little hat back there.
My body count's only nine.
But I mean, to some people, that's a lot.
But I have.
How old are you again?
21.
21.
Yeah.
So.
I mean, that's not that.
No.
No.
Right.
I mean, I don't think it's too bad.
You got to say there's cap in there.
It's.
I'm being serious.
Only at 29.
No.
Hurt count is.
It's not 27.
It's only 9.
But I usually don't sleep with the guy the first date.
It was only one guy ever, and that was because I was, it's a long, long story.
But, like, even with the guy that I like now, I didn't go with him on the first time that we ever hung out.
The first day, and I didn't, I was like, I don't bring people up on the first date because I don't.
And I don't want to make him think that I do.
And like, I know that it looks like I do, but I don't.
So, yeah, I usually wait like a couple weeks.
Like, I say one to two weeks.
I wait, like, depending on how many times.
The chat is on fire right now.
If that makes sense.
Is everyone like, oh my God.
RIP to the guy who didn't get the food.
It's.
Oh, man.
Tattoos tell the tale, huh?
Tattoos tell the tale.
How many tattoos does it have to be?
How many tattoos?
I've got a few too.
Her body count is 9,000.
It's over 9,000.
No way, these are actually kind of funny, though.
No, but it is, it's only 9.
If you guys want to make fun of me for being an only that mind.
It's over 9,000.
Okay.
Shout out to DBZ.
Cara?
I think for me, it really.
I don't even know how to start the topic.
Like, how to start.
Because I remember we talked in last episode, right?
Like my body count is two.
So I don't know.
Like, I think it's, I mean, like, have sex with someone is not that a big deal, but it's kind of a big deal, like, for me.
So, like, at least I will get to know this guy first.
And, you know, I will never do like things like that will make me like regret later.
So I would, I just want to make sure like my choice is correct.
And I won't regret maybe like after a year, I was like, oh, I shouldn't have sex with him.
I just don't want this kind of situation to happen.
So just try to make right choice.
Yeah.
Sure, yeah.
Wait, so is it just like how long I would wait or how long you should wait before you ask?
Yeah, I add you out, I think.
How long I um I don't know.
I'd probably wait like if I like him, maybe like a week or two.
I don't know.
I wouldn't wait that long, I don't think.
Yeah, yeah.
I agree.
That's what I did.
Yeah.
So who's had that one-night stand?
And who's slept with someone the first time meeting the person?
It doesn't have to be a one-night stand.
You could have continued seeing them, but have you slept with someone the first time meeting them?
Yes.
Yeah.
Yes.
Only once.
One night stand?
No.
Yeah.
Blair?
Yeah, first time meeting for sure.
Been there.
Wait, can I say something funny?
Sure.
Yes.
I hope it's funny.
There are two one-night stands.
Say it into the mic.
Oh, her friends know.
Her friends know what it is, too.
I don't know what this is.
I don't either.
Oh, really?
Okay.
They're like her only one-night stand and one of hers and one of mine was on the same night.
I remember that.
That was funny.
Remember that.
We were all in my hometown for a first spring break, and that's why it happened.
The stars were aligned that night.
I guess astrology had a plan in that one.
I don't know if I want to talk about astrology.
Okay, real quick.
Do you believe in astrology?
I do not.
What a fucking legend.
Okay.
Mad Brownie Prasad.
I do.
100,000%.
I'd have to say yeah.
What was the question?
Do you believe in astrology?
Astrology, like star signs?
Like your Aries or your Gemini, that kind of stuff.
I mean, like 10%.
10%?
Yeah.
Yeah, I kind of believe in it.
I like to pick and choose.
I just think it's fun.
Yeah.
I absolutely do not believe in any of that crap.
I'm sorry.
What's your sign?
Guess.
You're Sagittarius.
I'll have you guess.
Wait, one at a time.
Go ahead.
Whoever wants to go first?
Sagittarius.
Anyone else?
Virgo and I. What do you think?
Oh, my God.
Alcorius.
Okay.
Taurus.
All of them are wrong.
Wait, wait, wait.
Can I guess one more time?
You're a Libra.
Incorrect.
Fuck.
Aries.
Oh.
That's why you don't believe that.
Now they're all thinking about it now.
But no, I don't.
Like, it's just stars and gas in the sky and whatnot.
It's fun to look at, but that's all it is.
Agreed.
Okay.
I'm not going to get into that.
What I really hate is, and I hate when women are like, oh, like, you're a Libra.
I know everything about you.
You don't know a fucking thing about me.
Like, shut up.
Damn.
Bass.
I'm sorry.
Like, that's just how I feel about it.
Oh, you know what?
Retweet.
The other big thing is when people justify their shitty behavior.
Oh, don't get me started on that crap.
Like, show yourself.
I'm a fucking Virgo.
And that goes back to being crazy also.
So I'm just irresponsible.
Like, okay.
Shut up.
Dork.
Okay.
Let's do it.
Let's get these soup chats while we got them real quick.
We got Mr. Mike Davis with the big $20 soup chat.
Thank you, man.
Much appreciated.
You're fucking legend.
I really appreciate your support week after week, man.
Really do.
If me and Fake Tough Guy were to get it on, I would handle him easy work.
Be careful how you speak my name.
I would pop every one of his inflated muscles, and you better bring a mouth guard, or that's another set of veneers.
You have veneers?
I've got a mouth guard.
I've got a D at home.
I've got weapons.
He's got some nunchucks, dude.
Yeah, actually, my dad has an authentic pair of nunchucks.
Watch out, Mike Davis.
What are those throwing stars?
You got thrown stars?
Shuriken?
Watch out, Mike Davis.
Oh, she's got some Shuriken.
Yeah.
And somebody earlier asked what martial arts I do.
Hopkido, judo, unboxing.
Yo, Mike Davis, if you and I mean, I'll know which way this is going to go, but I'm also an anime nerd.
I know that clip.
There we go.
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$20 super chat.
John Deke with the $10 super chat.
Wait until you're in your mid-30s and single.
Men don't care about body count then.
They care about finding a girl who can provide clean underwear, a hot meal, and has good credit.
Wait, what?
So he's saying that as you get older, body count matters less.
You care more about it.
Can she cook for me?
Does she have good credit?
Yeah.
All these, you know, I think I care more about body count now than I did when I was younger.
Yeah.
I feel like a lot of guys, like at least like 18 to 23, give a real, like, they really give a shit about it, what your body count is.
Like, if you give anything over 10, like, they're like, anything over five, honestly.
For older guys, you're saying?
No, like, I'd say, like, anyone, like, like, 18 to 23.
Oh, okay.
Like, anyone in that age, like, they really care about your body count.
Yo, but imagine being on a date and you're like 35.
He's like, yeah, like, I'm an investment banker, but, like, what's your body count?
At that point, it's like the woman's maybe in her 30s, like, probably the same.
You can probably say body count at that point.
A lot of experience.
clean underwear a hot meal I mean what an interesting So, okay, he's basically saying laundry, cook, and not in serious debt.
I mean, those are good things, I guess, but yeah, I guess that's kind of almost getting into traditional gender roles.
Yeah, you got to make sure they have a really good credit.
How are you going to buy a house?
How are you going to buy a car?
Exactly.
You got what?
A 340?
No, thank you.
But like this far.
How far along in the relationship before you start getting some of these benefits?
Clean underwear?
That's what I want to know.
This guy's got some trauma with the underwear.
Looks like.
I do my own laundry, but okay.
Well, it looks like.
I mean, I think men probably care about body count more than all three of these.
I mean, we can talk about it really quick.
We can go into it really quick.
I don't want to spend too much time on body count because it comes up every almost every show.
But really quick, we'll go around the table.
Should body count matter?
Absolutely.
I will always ask a guy what his body count is on the first night of meeting him.
You're getting away.
Your base is fucked up.
You're about to get hella political chattering now for that.
I mean, body count should matter.
Absolutely.
I've met men with high body counts.
I've met girls with high body counts, you know, and vice versa.
I would prefer for my partner to have a low body count.
I think it shows that you are picky.
I think it shows that you have values and you stick to them because not every girl is going to fit that value.
And if they did, then maybe it would be high.
But there's no reason for it to be high.
You shouldn't be sleeping with everyone that you meet.
Good answer.
Wow.
I think that's a first.
I don't think I've ever heard a girl on the panel say that yet.
And I don't know.
We're probably at like, I don't know, a few dozen at this point.
50, 60, 70 girls.
Okay.
You've probably poisoned the well for the rest of the answers here, but okay, we'll let you go.
Yeah, I don't know.
It doesn't really matter as much to me.
I think like as long as it's under like 20, 25, you're probably chill.
I guess like what do you determine what the number is?
Because that varies from person to person.
So how do you determine the number?
Penetrative intercourse.
Head doesn't count.
Like nothing besides, I don't know, sex.
So, yeah.
Okay.
So your answer is it shouldn't matter.
It doesn't really matter, but if it's like over, I don't know, like 25, 30, something.
That's a fair answer.
Then he probably has issues.
That's a fair answer.
I mean, I'd say like, I'd have to agree with Charlotte.
Like, if it's like insanely high and if he's boasting about it, then like that is a red flag.
Like, I mean, if you're going to sit there and tell me that it's like, oh, like, I fucked like 30 girls, I'd be like, I don't, like, why do you want to like brag about that?
But, I mean, like, a high body count, I mean, I really don't care.
But, like, at the same time, I do.
Yeah, and like, you can't really judge them based on.
Yeah, like, I don't really want to judge them based on what their body count is because they could probably be like a really good, like, I've met really, really good people, and I've had like things with people who are like with guys that have treated me really, really well, but have a high body count.
So, I don't think the body count really like defines a person.
You know, the microphone down towards you just slightly like this.
Perfect, yeah.
Okay.
But yeah, I just, I don't think the body count defines who a person is.
I do want to clarify the question a little bit.
So it's, it goes both ways, right?
So do you think body count should matter both in a partner you're looking for, but also for men if they're judging you based on that?
I mean, based on the chat, I mean, like, yeah, like men definitely, like, if I tell them my body count, like, apparently nine is a really high number.
So, I mean, but what's an objectively high number, though?
And that goes back to like what I was asking before.
I guess it just, like, depends.
I would have to say it depends on the age.
Like, if you're 18 and say your body count is 30, I've got a couple.
I've got a couple questions.
I've got a couple questions.
But I'm only 21.
I'm, my body count's nine.
Like, it's not, like, excruciatingly high, but apparently nine is too high.
It's gross.
Apparently, to some people, it's some of these are troll.
Some of these are serious.
Yeah, but some of them, like, I really don't care what they say, but it's like, I don't know, like, because I know I'm not like sleeping around, but it's like, I don't know, if people think that nine is too high, then like, okay.
But, like, when they meet me, they'll be like, oh, like, body count doesn't have problems.
You know, I think relatively speaking, I think nine living in Isla Vista is low.
Yeah, I would have to say that.
Because I know girls that their freshman first quarter, is it quarter semester at UCSP?
Quarter.
First quarter, 20 guys.
Yeah.
18 years old, 20 guys, first quarter.
I know guys that like will have like they'll guys too.
Guys too.
Yeah, they'll fuck girls.
Like they'll I know someone who's like fucked a girl like four girls in one night.
Whoa.
Four girls in one night.
I mean insane.
And it's like, am I gonna do that?
Absolute fucking literally not.
Absolutely not.
I don't, my anxiety does not let me do that.
Well, I don't even think that's like really, I don't want to say sanitary, but that's just like kind of gross.
Yeah.
I mean like it's just like I don't know.
But I'd say nine at 29 is high for sure.
I mean I guess nine at 29 is high, but yeah.
I don't know.
That's just my opinion on it.
I mean for me, it does matter, especially I'm looking for a partner, someone who I want to date, like in a relationship with.
I do think, I don't know, like I do think if you have a high body count in a young age, it means it shows like maybe you're into like casual sex.
And people who are really into like casual sex usually can't make like genuinely connection with others.
And yeah, I just think personally for me, because I'm always like looking for something serious.
So I won't date anybody who like really into casual sex and stuff.
Yeah, same word.
Like I said last episode, like at the end of the day, everyone wants to be loved.
Yeah, I think like the real feelings is the most, like, it's the priority.
Yeah.
Yeah, I do not care at all.
Like, that's your past.
That has nothing to do with me.
Like, if like Lou said, if you're bragging about like your body count and how many girls you've been with, then that's like, that's just icky.
But like, I don't really care.
Like, so what?
Like, you like to have sex.
That's fine.
Like, if you, I think, like, to me, if there's a red flag, it's going to be like something in his personality rather than just some number that's attached to him or her.
Like, I just, I personally don't care.
Yeah.
So, yeah.
Blair.
So, uh, yeah, if you ask.
Can we take the crown off, by the way?
I mean, do you think?
I mean, if the chat wants to.
Wait, should we leave it to the chat?
Chat.
Yeah.
If chat, let us know if you want me to keep the hat on.
Yeah, your name or the crown.
Okay.
Yeah.
So if you asked me this question maybe four or five years ago, I'd have a really different answer.
I kind of lean towards no, but sort of yes.
That's something I actually wrestle with quite a bit because I don't know what an objectively high body count is.
So like if somebody told me, hey, like I've slept with 20 guys, like I don't know if that's high or not, right?
And some might say that a higher body count is reflective of who you are as a person.
I don't know if I fully agree with that, but sometimes it can be.
So I'm kind of ruling the middle on that issue.
Okay.
Oh, is this for Natasha?
Is that the real one?
Andrew Tate, I'm flying Natasha to Romania.
Pack your bags.
I'm ready, Tate.
Wait, so do you.
You know who Andrew Tate is?
Of course.
And do you like Andrew Tate?
I don't hate him.
I don't dislike Andrew Tate.
Okay, fair enough.
Fair enough.
Okay.
Her DMs are open.
Wait, is that the real?
Is that the reality?
It was just a poser guy.
Okay, so your guys' answer is to talk about the body count that we have.
I mean, I think overwhelmingly, most of the women say, oh, body count doesn't matter.
Not at all.
It shouldn't matter at all.
And they get very defensive about it.
I think maybe it's because Natasha, she was the first one to answer.
So that might have poisoned the well, I guess that's the saying.
Anyways, I'm very impressed by your guys' answers.
So yeah, I do think body count matters for a variety of people.
Should we go around and continue the body count and ask everyone what their body is?
Should we continue that?
Yeah.
We could.
I've already said mine, so.
Sure, why not?
Natasha.
My body is three.
Three.
Okay.
My body count is 13.
My body count is nine.
My body count is two.
Mine's six.
Guess.
Blair, your body count is seven.
We said it.
You have to say.
Or wait, eleven.
I want to say 11.
Two.
Oh, wow.
And my body count is I'm omitting this question.
I'm not going to answer this question.
That's actually interesting because I feel like you should definitely.
A few of the podcasts that go, they say it doesn't matter.
But if it doesn't matter, then why don't you want to answer the question?
Right?
Because not everyone needs to know my business like that.
And that's true.
That's true.
Well, they all answered.
So, first off, props to you guys for answering the question.
Thank you.
People will judge.
I'm a man of God, so I cannot.
I refuse to answer that question.
But we answered.
That's true.
I think body count matters.
Thus.
Thus.
Yes.
And I, you know, okay, whatever.
Yeah, I'm a very discreet individual.
I don't kiss and tell.
Okay.
Also, I think we had Tyler Durden come in here.
Chat needs a fit check on all the girls.
I love Fight Club.
I mean, I'll leave that to the girls if you guys want to do a fit check.
I don't mind.
I think they want to see some of your tattoos too.
If you want to show up the tats.
I mean, if you guys want to tattoo a tattoo.
Yeah, do a fit check.
Do I stand up?
Everybody stands up.
Yeah.
Yeah, get in there.
Get in there.
Yeah.
Well?
Now they're just in gravity.
Blair.
Blair.
Oh, do we have a fit check?
We want Blair too.
Got white shoes on.
Oh, wow.
Blair, can you hit like a Ziz pose for us?
Foi.
Yeah, Blair.
Myron.
And then I.
Okay.
How do you do a fit check?
You just kind of like to get it.
You kind of just tell them what you're wearing.
Okay.
I'm a boomer, so.
Oh, you asked?
It's okay.
So I'm not.
I'm not actually.
Okay.
Chat, is that satisfactory?
Did they want to spin if you want?
A spin.
If you want.
There you go.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
XXXX.
Tattoo.
DM.
A tattoo chat.
Is thoroughly satisfied.
Okay.
Let's pull up another clip from Tasha.
By the way, her TikTok is in the description.
If you guys want to show her a little love, give her a follow.
go ahead and pull up the videos tab you're not gonna get bitches if you're not in the gym I'm so fucking sorry to say it, but like, if you're not getting games, you're not getting brain.
Like, that's how it is.
I actually like that.
That one was funny.
That one is my most popular one.
It got like 300K, which is my first, like, major attention grab.
Like, it's my biggest.
There's a lot of skinny string being white boys that get a lot of play, though.
Yeah, and there's a lot of angry skinny men in my comments.
And there are.
Yeah.
I, you know, it's funny, like, all of the guys in my comments who are, like...
They get triggered, right?
They get triggered, and then you go look at their profile and they are unattractive, not fit, and they don't really have much going on.
And they have all the power to transform themselves.
Absolutely.
And that's what's upsetting.
It's like, I'm here saying things that are factual.
I'm here saying things that could literally.
The whole point of that TikTok was to motivate dudes.
And for the gym bros, it did.
All of the guys that are going to the gym consistently, like this hit home for them and it made them feel good.
It was like, oh, this literally just motivated me to go to the gym today.
Like, thank you.
Like, they were just all over it.
And then the guys that don't, they were just hating on me, calling me mid, calling me a two.
They were just being so disrespectful.
And I'm like, you're not, this message wasn't for you.
This wasn't like geared towards you.
It hit my, it hit the people that I wanted it to hit.
I think you need to change your name on social media from, well, just change your last name to like Tasha Tate.
I was thinking about that earlier today.
I was like, damn, Natasha Tate has a really good ring sound.
Oh, it actually kind of does that.
It kind of does.
There you go.
So would you date a guy that he wasn't obese, he wasn't fat, but he didn't work out?
Is that a deal breaker for you?
I really value physical fitness.
And if he's not in the gym, what else is he doing for his physical health?
If he's not in the gym, what is he eating?
It's like, it all just kind of has a ripple effect.
It just, it all ties in together.
And you work out too, though.
I do.
So it's not like a double standard for you.
Like, you work out also.
I hold myself to that standard as well.
Like, any standard that I hold myself to, I expect my partner to do that as well.
So how much do you squat?
I really don't keep track of it.
I can do a couple plates.
Nothing too heavy.
I'm not trying to get big or whatever, but I love going to the gym.
Yeah, because you got some quads.
Thank you.
Yes.
Should we do a quick question?
Quad check.
Can we do a quad check?
Can we do a quad check?
Are you serious?
Can we do a quad check for Natasha?
I mean, I can.
Let's do a quad check.
Can you hide the chat, Eric?
Hide the chat.
Hide the chat.
I don't know if it's going to be impressive.
I don't know.
Wait.
Oh, I see it.
There it is.
I just saw it.
You just did it.
Hold on.
Yep, there it is.
Little outer squat.
Okay.
Yeah, okay.
The camera's not.
Yeah.
Yeah, there it is.
Good job.
Seriously, good job.
That looks really good.
Okay.
So I want to open it up to the rest of the panel on this thing.
Actually, super chat?
No, I'll get to the super chat.
Glebis, thank you for the big $50 super chat.
We will get right to it, though.
You're a fucking legend, man.
So I want to open it up to you guys.
Is physical fitness important for you and a partner?
Would you like a guy that's at the gym who's lifting, who's taking care of himself?
I mean, I seem like, that's kind of like a duh, right?
Like, of course.
I don't know.
Like, well, this, I don't know.
Some women might say they don't like muscles and stuff like that.
You know, I think that's cap, dude.
Can I say something?
Sure.
So I feel like this ties into the body count thing.
And it's just like holding people accountable.
It's like all the same people who are saying that going to the gym doesn't matter are the same people that's saying that body count doesn't matter because they don't hold themselves to that standard, because they don't want to like be what is it called?
Um, disciplined.
They don't want to be disciplined, they just want to do whatever they want and they think that it's a respectful answer.
Yeah definitely, I have a response to that.
I don't go to the gym.
I eat like shit.
I, if i'm eating, it's like not good um, and I don't care about body count and I love the way my life is.
I love that I can indulge in sex or in eating chicken nuggets.
So hey, there you go.
Also facts, there you go.
But I do like a guy who goes to the gym or I don't like it, like you know if if, whatever they want, because i'm not gonna like make them go to the gym because I don't what.
What if he's a 10 but wants you to go to the gym with him?
Oh, that's uh, the guy i'm currently talking to has been trying to get you in.
He, i've been going.
Oh, you can go.
She's been going.
Uh yeah, I walk on the treadmill while he.
You gotta pick up those dumbbells, we gotta get those gains in.
Yeah yeah, come on now.
Okay, I mean I, I really don't have a preference.
Like, if he does go to the gym, like, it is nice, I guess.
Like, the guy that I like, he goes to the gym, and I think it's nice.
Like, I just like when they have, like, you know, like, muscly arms.
Like, my ex had really nice arms, and, like, I'm fine with that, but I really don't have a preference.
If he goes to the gym, sure, love that.
But if he doesn't go to the gym, then I'm still fine with that.
It's whatever happens.
I mean, for me, it's not a deal breaker if you're if you don't go to the gym, but I definitely definitely like prefer a guy who's like taking care of their body and like really do take care of their like appearance and stuff.
I don't know.
Like, and also, I think another reason is like you should really try hard to get the best version of yourself when you're at your best age, especially like in 20, no, in like 18, like 20s.
I mean, 18, 20s?
Uh, no, I mean, like, in your age, like 18 or 20s.
I thought you were talking about like, yeah, it's basically like your physical, like, physic, physical peak.
So, I really do think you should try to see what's your best version to take care of yourself.
Yeah, sure.
Yeah.
Yeah, I also.
Wait, hold on.
We skipped over Kiki.
No!
Okay, go ahead.
Yeah, I also don't really care about the gym that much.
I just feel like if you are disgusting, like, that's one thing.
But if you like, don't like lift every day, I don't, I don't care.
Like, it's, I am not picky.
I don't think it means you don't have discipline.
I just like think it means like you're just not a gym, bro.
And, like, I'd love to deal with that.
I don't want to hear about like, what is it?
Kid and running and what's the other bulking?
Yeah, shout out to the gym brews out here.
Hey, Blair, can we get a just a quick ziz?
Okay.
Oh, no, just you can say seated.
Yeah.
Boom.
Okay.
Yes.
Gains.
All right.
By the way, did they say anything about the crown?
What was the consensus?
The consensus consensus was keep it on.
Okay.
Well, there you go.
Blair, I assume gym is important.
Yeah, but I mean, she doesn't have to be training as much as I am.
Like, she can just kind of, you know, go here and there.
Doesn't have to be super as dedicated as I am.
But at least making an effort to take care of yourself.
And that kind of goes back to what I talked about, you know, drinking and drugs and things of that nature.
It's all kind of connected for me.
Okay.
Yeah.
Good times.
My girlfriend's a dancer, so she, like, that's perfect.
You know?
So.
Let me get caught up on a couple super chats here just because we had quite a few come in.
I'm trying to remember.
Did we get this one from Mike Davis?
Yeah.
Yo, short king.
Shout out to Kevin Grant.
Shout out.
Yeah, we did.
Okay, it's this one here.
Glebis with the wait.
No, we got this one, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay, sorry, guys.
Just catching up here.
Okay, we got that one.
Did we get this one?
I'm pretty sure we got the inflated muscles.
Yeah.
Okay, sorry, guys.
I'm catching up here.
Got my order all messed up.
I think this is new.
Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 super chat.
I've encountered many such individuals over the years who talk reckless, but when it comes face-to-face, man-to-man, they crumble.
This lightweight will be no different.
All right, we have the Middleton versus Davis pay-per-view coming to you in a couple weeks.
It's a boxing match, guys.
Tune in.
There will be nunchucks and blood and just weapons and just mayhem the entire time.
He spent like what 30 bucks just to sell.
Joe Hackman.
Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
They forgot.
Okay.
Mike Hawk.
Reminder, guys, it's $10 and over.
John Deke with the $10 Super Chat.
Thank you, John.
Brian, if every man on earth based his decision to date a girl on body count, then what should happen to all the girls with high body counts should remain single forever?
Did they deserve less in life?
So, I mean, I don't.
First off, I don't think women have any problem finding new partners, be it for casual sex or for long-term relationships.
Men have such low standards that it's really not going to be an issue for most women if they do.
There's always simps, right?
There's a bunch of simps out there.
They'll be fine with it.
So what should happen to them?
I mean, I'm not saying there should be some law or something that should prevent women from freely having sex with people.
You should be free to do whatever you want, but in that same vein, men should be within their freedom to choose not to date women with a high body count.
For some men, some men just don't care, though.
So should they remain single forever?
I mean, no.
I mean, my advice to men would be, though, if a woman has a very high body count for long-term commitment, I think you should be cautious entering into that because they've done tons of studies.
Someone who has a promiscuous past, someone who has a high body count, and they've done studies on this.
There's a greater likelihood of infidelity, greater likelihood of both men and women reporting relationship dissatisfaction, greater likelihood of the relationship breaking up, greater likelihood of divorce.
So, I mean, greater likelihood of an STD.
And I just genuinely think, I mean, someone with a high body count is probably not a relationship-minded person.
And if you want a relationship with someone, you should try to date relationship-minded people.
So do they deserve less in life?
No.
But I do think they're going to, they could encounter.
I mean, a lot of people, both men and women with high body count, are probably just going to lie about their body count too.
So, anyways.
Can I ask what study you got those numbers from?
I don't think that, like, I don't know if that's data that's empirical.
I don't know if you can measure it like that.
I think it's more.
Well, I'm pretty sure we do have it.
We're not going to pull it up, but we do have the infographic.
I can pull it up online just so I can tell you the source of it.
I would love to read it.
So, they've done some studies.
Let's see here.
Let me just see if I can find it.
Hold on.
Can I say one thing really quickly?
Sure, go ahead.
So I saw a comment from like, I think his name was Joe Hackman saying the pandemic lost the love for dad bods.
That's completely wrong.
I love dad bods.
So the dad bod shred is not, you know, ruined.
I think they deserve all the love in the world, and I love them the most.
So I just wanted to say that really quick because I saw that.
I was like, no.
The trends that work.
So the CDC did a study on this.
Women who have more non-marital sexual partners are more likely to have an STD, less likely to have stable marriages, less likely to be happy, and more likely to be depressed.
We're not going to pull it up right now, but the CDC did release a study on that.
CDDC is doing studies on body counts.
Shout out to C2C.
I think it was about...
It was primarily probably with the STDs, and then the other stuff was part of the study.
I think there's a few others.
But, anyways, let me get this super chat here.
Glebis LA, dude, thank you for the big $50 super chat, man.
You're a fucking legend.
I really appreciate your support week after week.
Thank you for coming by, man.
Brian, how hard is to buy name stickers for guests?
I remember your comment from last week.
Little black dress girl is gorgy, straight gorgie.
Okay, great dress.
Chinese girl forgot to wear something on top of her bra.
Thank you.
I got this beautiful corset from Victoria's Secret.
Okay.
Yeah, name stickers.
Do you mean like the hello, my name is so-and-so?
Like on, or do you mean, what do you mean, Glebis?
What do you mean?
Yeah, I don't know.
I just feel like it might add another layer of complexity.
There's a whole bunch of prep you got to do to get it.
Yeah, a little extra prep.
And then if they flake, like I'd want to do it a bit beforehand.
And then I don't know if you remember like at the beginning, we had seven people flaked today.
So it was like last minute getting some new people.
So there's some considerations there.
But thank you for the big $50 soup chat.
I'll consider it.
Maybe I could also, there could be some other way to do like an overlay.
That could be another thing.
Right there, yeah.
Mr. Mike Davis with the big $10 soup chat.
Brian, bring back Liv for a Fit Check.
She got a whole dump truck.
Yeah, Mike.
The DMV wants a license plate.
I like that one.
That was funny.
Yeah.
You know what, Mike Davis?
Actually, Liv, she sent me a DM, and we're going to get her back.
She was going to come last week on Thursday, but she got COVID.
So we're going to get her back soon.
And she actually mentioned you.
She mentioned your name specifically, Mike Davis.
So who knows?
Like I said, there's still an open invite to get you on the show if you guys want to.
Maybe I'll work some magic, try to coordinate so you're both on at the same time.
Just saying, okay.
Mike Davis is a fan.
Mike Davis is a legend.
Okay.
Mike Davis with the $10 Super Chat.
Boy has to convince Blondie to hit the gym for cardio.
She low-key outed him that he ain't getting none.
Is that, do you want to respond to that?
I don't think that's it.
Did he have to convince you to go?
Yeah.
Well, he was like, no, just come.
But I just wanted to spend time with him.
I don't mind.
You can learn about exercise and stuff.
Exactly.
Can we get some?
I don't really get it.
Like, why would he not be getting any if he has to convince me to go to the gym?
Can we get some pig emojis in the chat, boys?
It's an accident.
Pig emojis in the chat.
Oh, there we go again.
No, it's fine.
It's fine.
Don't even trip.
Don't even trip.
Okay, I want to watch.
I want us to react.
Don't pull it up quite yet, Eric.
Here, let me, I'll pull a couple of these up.
Jesus can't keep doing it.
Are you good?
Buster kitty up, knead thick, knee back.
She gets thicker every time.
I don't think Sydney's going to come back.
She was going to come back last week, but I think she got work.
And so she's super busy with working.
She was a hella chad.
There's multiple Sydneys, though.
The one on the Chase episode.
Oh, yeah.
She was super cool.
I kind of feel bad, Sydney, if you're watching.
I feel bad for the roast.
Oh, it was.
Sydney.
Come on.
It was a little funny.
But I feel like it's going to feel like whenever you're talking about that stuff.
True.
Yeah.
No, no.
Yeah, so I feel bad for the roast.
Oh, yeah, we got a whole bunch.
She seemed to take it like a champ, you know?
Hold on.
Okay.
We got.
Okay.
A lot of piggies.
Lulu baby one.
And yeah, we'll get, by the way, guys, Kylie, we will get her back on.
Is it this speed bump comment?
Oh, okay, I see.
What's that?
Dude, want me to explain it?
There was a speed bump.
Yeah, well, can you explain it to us, Blair?
It seems like he wants to drive with Lulu here and hit a speed bump.
Oh, I get it.
Okay.
Wait, that's actually pretty funny.
Should we pretend we're in a car?
Okay.
Or Lulu?
Do I have to pretend?
I guess you do.
I mean, the chat, you pretty much have to give in to all of your demands.
You have to give in to all of chat's demands, you know.
No, you don't have to.
You don't have to.
If you want to, I mean, but I think it'd be pretty funny if I did.
Okay, I guess the verdict is in.
Go ahead.
Don't do it.
No, I'm not going to do it.
I'm helping you out.
Jumping jacks?
That's a new one.
That's not a new one.
Trampoline party tonight in my birthday.
I have a trampoline in my backyard if anybody wants to come over.
Okay.
I don't get this emoji.
I'm not sure what he means by that.
That's the Easter Island head.
I know that, but I don't quite get what he means.
Okay.
Eric, go ahead and pull up the next video.
I think we'll react to one.
This is probably not going to be relatable at all.
I am so immensely, ferociously, unexplainably anti-makeup.
And yes, I'm wearing mascara, but that is all.
I'm just saying.
Makeup does more harm than good for you.
Pay attention to what you're putting on your body.
Can we play it back?
I didn't.
The audio was a little choppy.
Basically, slurring my words here.
Basically, she was saying that, well, I mean, if you want to put it in your own words, but that you don't like makeup.
Yeah, I don't like makeup.
I'm against makeup.
I don't think it's good for women, and I don't think they really need to be using it, honestly.
I think it takes away.
That's awesome.
Who are you?
I think it takes away from a woman's natural beauty, and also it is so bad for you.
Like, you think about how skin absorbs things.
I had something to say about that, actually.
Do you think there's a correlation between makeup use and women's obsessiveness with like skincare and stuff like that?
Do you think the makeup is like damaging the skin?
1,000%.
There is literally no question.
When you read the ingredients on a foundation bottle, what is in it?
You can't even pronounce it.
It's a bunch of crap that you're putting on your face.
And that is in turn making your skin worse.
So you have to keep buying more foundation to cover up what it's creating.
Well, because I have eczema, so I'm always hyper-aware of what is going on my skin.
Yeah.
And so, you know, if you've got patches or acne or whatever, that's, I would think that would definitely irritate your skin quite a bit.
Absolutely.
And then acne is something you can heal from being healthy, taking care of yourself, what you eat, what you ingest, the toxins that you're putting in your household.
Like, it's just, I don't know.
Makeup is capitalizing on women's insecurities when it's something that they can easily fix.
What about who is this?
Okay.
So I want to open it up to you guys.
Yeah, what about girls who like me, whenever I'm just bored, I'll do my makeup because it's fun to do, and I like actually putting it on.
And I like, you know, seeing it, like, it's an artistic outlet for me, I guess.
And like I do with my sister, it's just a fun thing to do.
I think that's completely valid.
I think music, you know, people make careers out of it.
I think makeup's awesome.
I think it can really elevate someone's, you know, a visual experience.
Like, you're seeing something being created and it's like, it can elevate an experience.
I think it is great.
But I think, you know, it's creating more problems for you.
I mean, it's making your skin worse.
It's making your hormones out of whack.
It's creating a lot of problems that are going on that you're fixing with other things when you could literally fix it by decreasing the amount of toxins that you're putting on and into your body.
What's the difference between you wearing mascara and me wearing like brow jump though?
Yeah.
Because you're wearing masks.
I mean, like, it's the same constant.
It would depend on what ingredients and what products she's using, I would say.
Okay, well, what if I'm like using like vegan?
Like, really, I mean, I feel like, if anything, it's like the makeup industry's problem, not makeup.
I don't think it's inherently makeup's fault.
I think it's how the makeup industry chooses to market their products to consumers.
I don't think that like just wearing foundation.
The whole point of that video was just to say that I don't like makeup because it creates problems for women.
It's creating problems for your health.
That was all I was to say.
It wasn't to hate on girls that do do makeup or that like it.
Well, I mean, it's one of those things too where, you know, wearing it a couple times isn't going to have any acute damage, but maybe think, consider decades and decades of applying these things to your face.
That's the same thing.
The same thing with food.
You know, think about, not to deter from the topic a little bit, but think about the food you eat, right?
What kind of chemicals the FDA is approving in our foods here in America?
That's not going to harm you acutely, but over time, 20, 30 years, you're eating crap.
That's going to accumulate in you.
So I think, yeah, there might be correlation with that.
And like, oh, sorry.
No, I personally, you know, like, I can understand when like some people think that like makeup has like a problem for the skin.
Like, yeah, like if you're like, you know, like, I'll be honest, I sleep in my makeup sometimes.
I get lazy.
I'm not going to take it off when I'm really drunk and I'm just going to go to bed.
Am I going to do my three, five step skincare?
No, I'm just going to go to bed.
But I mean, in my opinion, I think makeup is just like a fun part of my everyday routine.
Like, I love to do my makeup because, like Charlotte said, it's like an artistic outlet for me.
And I'm always excited to do, like, you know, like, I don't know, like, what am I going to do next?
Like, when I go out, especially, I'm always excited to see like what kind of eye look I can do, et cetera.
But I don't know.
I think makeup is definitely like an artistic outlet.
And I think it's a whole fun, different, I can't think of the word, but it's just, it's a different thing that like a lot of people can do different things with.
And I think, I think a lot of people can put their own abilities into that also.
And yeah, like it can be harmful for your skin, especially if you're not like, like, say if you're allergic to it and you don't know.
Yeah, that's harmful for it.
But I think it's also like a really good outlet for artistic people to like kind of showcase their art.
I agree, but how many people are actually using makeup to showcase their art rather than hide in insecurity?
That's also true.
I feel like that's a generalization.
And like also like going, I mean, I don't know, like going on the hormone thing, like just wearing makeup, like that's not going to affect your health.
Yes, I'm sorry.
Or even if it does, like, so does our period, and that's all natural.
Like, so does like birth control.
It's like, who cares if like my fucking $20 skin tint is like going to give me pimples or something.
Wearing a bunch of makeup, putting a bunch of chemicals on your body that aren't meant to be on your body for your entirety of your life, it's not natural.
It's not normal.
It's not normal at all.
But I love it.
If I have this makeup.
Hey, you know what?
That's great.
It's a lot of fun for me.
Like, I take great care of my skin.
And I still, like, when it comes to my time of the month around my chin, I'm going to get some fucking pimples a thousand percent.
But also, concealer helps me, like, get rid of that.
And like, it helps hide that, if that makes any sense.
And it makes me feel more confident.
I'm confident in my own skin, like without any makeup on.
I, a thousand percent, I'll go outside without makeup on all the time, all the fucking time.
But like, I'll also go outside with makeup on.
Like, it's nothing to do with like insecurities.
It's just kind of like, I do it for myself.
I don't do it for anybody else.
So I stepped away there for a bit.
Did you have an opportunity to come in on this yet?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I do agree about part of Natasha's point.
Like, yeah, like this kind of products maybe like could harm our skin.
And I actually feel like I did a documentary about like makeup, like having what kind of impact on women.
And I do think it's like it increases your anxiety and depression, like when you when you are trying to like hide your imperfections.
But uh, another point I disagree with is that how you know, like you put the makeup on about your acne and your acne got like more serious for me.
I've been struggling with, like my acne problem for over five years and I do know it's not about, not about my like schedule, like like personal hobby or my sleeping schedule, it's just my genetic thing.
Yeah, like something is.
It's just have nothing with makeup.
Yeah, I mean, and and also like I do know how people are struggling with their problems on their face.
So I do think like makeup is working like to, you know, help people to be able rebuild their confidence.
Yeah, that's just for my personal experience, because I've been like struggled with acne for a super long time.
Yeah, and I do get that kind of feeling like oh, you put makeup on and you see like the perfect version of your skin.
You're like so happy.
It's kind of like light up your day.
You know yeah, there's pros and cons to it.
I mean there's nothing that doesn't have pros and cons to it, like makeup definitely does.
But it's like I mean, I don't think there's a problem with someone who definitely has a face full of makeup on and compared to someone who has like nothing on.
I mean, it's all at.
Like, the end of the day, it's a perfect, it's a personal preference.
Natasha, your answer to them, or your response, I stand by what I said in the video.
I mean makeup.
If you're saying that makeup isn't harming your skin or your mental health, then you're lying to yourself.
That's how I feel about it.
Makeup has never affected my skin and I've worn it since I was like 14.
There are some people who are genetically blessed.
What if it's impacting it in a way that you're not aware of?
Okay, then I'm not aware of it and I don't care about it.
Yeah.
Like it looks fine to me, so I don't care.
With or without makeup.
Okay.
Blair, there's been some comments here that Mike Davis asserted that you wear makeup.
Yeah.
No, I don't wear makeup.
But I have a sister who wears makeup.
So, you know, when you live with your sister, you hear about these kind of things.
And yeah.
You know what?
Let's open it up to the guys here.
And by guys, I mean the two of us.
Do you like women that wear a lot of makeup?
Or any makeup.
Not really.
Like, well, because my girlfriend is, I prefer her without makeup.
Like, she looks great with makeup and natural.
So I can speak on that.
But when they got like excessive amounts of eyeliner and just really big false lashes, it's just a little too much.
What's that thing that makes it look like you're blushing?
What is that thing called?
Blush.
Part of my madness, but.
Blush.
Yeah, I've just seen some chicks with just like way too much blush and they just look like a clown.
So, you know.
You wear a little mascara here and there, a little eyeliner, do you think?
A little glitter, whatnot, but don't overdo it.
I want to ask the girls a question, and we're going to start on this end.
Do you wear makeup for you?
Or do you wear makeup for men?
Wait, where are we starting?
I'm sorry.
Here?
Yeah.
Oh, for me.
I don't give a shit about like if men think I look good with makeup or without it.
Like if they think I look ugly without makeup, then like, fuck you.
I don't want to talk to you.
I just like how I look with it.
I like making my eyelashes darker and look longer and I like putting blush on and making my face.
I just think, I just prefer how I look with makeup on.
Yeah.
For me, I do think.
It doesn't have to, by the way, it doesn't have to be all or nothing.
I mean, obviously, you can say that maybe 50%.
Yeah, I mean, like, 99.99% is for myself.
Because after I put my makeup on, I like walk out.
I feel like confident.
I'm beautiful.
I'm slain.
And like, I'm, and also, I think the left, like, zero, 0.01.
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, like, honestly, just tell the truth.
Like, everyone wants to get attention, right?
If, like, people are paying attention to you, like, you're happy.
If a, if a guy or girl, like, compliment, oh, your makeup look beautiful today, like, you, you're beautiful today.
Like, of course, you're happy.
Everyone's happy with compliment.
So, yeah.
Okay.
So, you're saying there's a subconscious desire to wear makeup to get complimented.
Is that um, no, I mean, like, 90% of my life, I don't wear any makeup.
Yeah.
Go ahead.
Um, I personally just wear makeup for myself.
Like, but you don't, like, there's no component, there's not even a sliver of a component of it being you want to appear more attractive to men.
No, not even a hundred percent go out to DP with no makeup on.
I do not.
That was my next question, actually.
I do not.
Go to the club, like, yeah.
I will 100% go to the DP.
I will 100% go to the club, DP, a bar.
I don't care with no makeup on because I feel like the makeup just doesn't define me.
I do makeup for myself.
I do it because I think it's fun.
Do I think I look pretty in it?
Yeah, but I think I look just as pretty without my makeup on.
Yeah, honestly, like, for me, like, um, blonde.
Um, for me, it's like, it's like I brush my, it's like a way for me to, like, wake up, and it's like part of my morning routine.
Wait, what?
What was there a chat?
It says Kim's blonde needs to get out her tongue.
Oh.
Was I not supposed to do that?
No, you can't.
Give the people what they want, you know.
Yeah, make them pay you for it.
Ahigao.
Oh, don't.
What is wait?
I don't.
That's like.
Am I pronouncing?
Ahi gao, I think.
Ahi gal.
I don't know what it's like.
You cross your eyes, you kind of look up, and then you stick out your tongue.
Wait.
Sounds like someone else.
Do you want to do it?
I don't know.
No, I don't.
There's going to be screen caps of that if she's going to be.
It's like.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, okay, makeup.
Yeah.
It's like, it's like, it's how I get ready in the morning.
It's like how I know I'm starting my day.
And it's just kind of a part of my morning now.
It's like I brush my teeth every day.
I do my makeup every day.
Got it.
Yeah.
And I mean, we kind of know your answer to this a little bit.
So do you think that women wear makeup to some degree to be more attractive for men?
Absolutely.
Like, I've never seen a girl out at a party not wearing makeup.
And anyone who says that they would, I just don't feel like that's the truth.
You know, like maybe you say you would, but would you really do it?
Right.
I mean, I'm sure we've got pictures of us somewhere without makeup on DP together.
I'm not sure.
I don't know what DP is.
It's the party street here.
Yeah, DP, it's not the other thing, guys.
It's Del Plya.
Del Plya Drive.
So I want to ask the girls again.
So one thing I heard last week from one of the panelists was something along the lines of men should pay on first dates because we put in more effort to get ready for the date by, for example, putting makeup on.
We have to put on makeup.
Makeup costs money.
So, and she's on the girl who said that, she's not here.
Was it you?
No, I don't think it was you.
I'm trying to remember.
I remember that one.
Yeah, so she said something along the lines of men should pay for first dates because it takes women a lot more work to get ready because of makeup.
I disagree with the reasoning for that.
And I know none of you have said that yet, but my question to you would be, how can someone, I don't want to put words in any of your mouth, but how can someone simultaneously say that I don't wear makeup for men, but then also say, well, guys should pay for me on first dates because I put on makeup?
I don't think guys necessarily need to pay for the date because you put on makeup.
I think, like, I mean, whoever asked you on the date should pay for the date.
I don't think it necessarily has to be the guy because you put on or something.
I just, I don't know.
I think that's a weird concept.
I mean, I don't know.
Like, I can pay for the date too.
Okay.
Yeah, I feel like if he's asking me to go on a date, like, oh, like, do you want to go get dinner with me?
Then, like, you're asking me to go.
Shouldn't you pay for it?
I don't really think it has to do with makeup, though.
Okay.
Yeah.
Or like getting ready or like, I don't know.
I mean, it is nice, but most of the time on a first date, I'll be like, oh, I can get mine.
Yeah.
Because, I mean, I very commonly, I hear both things.
So I hear women say, I don't wear makeup for men.
And then I've also heard a lot of women say, men should pay on the first date because I'm spending all this money and all this time getting ready.
And yes, one of the chief ways women get ready for a date is putting on a face of makeup.
So for me, those are two sort of counter positions to take.
So, Natasha, you want to come in on this real quick?
Well, for women to say, like, he should pay for the first date because I put on so much makeup and I get ready and I'm, you know, putting myself together for him, it's like, that's that you're on, you're undermining what men put in for dates and what, I mean, guys put in work to take girls out, you know?
You have to get the money.
You have to plan the date.
Men are also putting themselves together.
I think women just want to be catered to.
Well, and to kind of echo that, the individual said, oh, well, we're putting all this effort with our makeup and whatnot, put effort elsewhere, like towards the date.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Absolutely.
So, yeah.
Yeah, I mean, guys definitely have to do a decent amount before the date too.
You know, shower shave, style hair, get dressed, smell good.
But getting ready, it's like, you were going to do that anyways.
Why are you using that as an excuse for why he should pay?
You're going to do that anyways.
I don't know.
Good point.
Good point.
What if you gave a woman a paint pass?
So she like, you're like, listen, you don't have to put on makeup.
I've told girls that before, actually.
I'm like, because I don't like makeup.
Not a fan.
Honestly, anything more than a little like mascara or eyeliner, that's to me, that's I'm kind of let down, not gonna lie.
They can wear whatever they want, but there's a few reasons.
One, it's just I'm gonna get heat for this.
Makeup is essentially deception.
It's essentially a lie.
Essentially, I mean, that's gonna be what you want to hear.
A little bit.
You could argue that for beards for guys too, though.
Yeah.
Yeah, totally.
I'd say like beards.
Yeah, makeup for a guy.
I don't know because a beard is a natural thing that occurs on a man's body.
It's natural.
Okay, well, yeah, but it's, I mean, it does the same thing as makeup.
It like changes your face.
I mean, yeah, it can hide a weak chin.
That's like saying a girl like growing her eyebrows out is like.
You know what I mean?
Like that's a natural thing that happens for men.
It's not hiding your face.
Yeah.
But I mean, I think sort of kind of what that's more similar to would be like if a man is thinning, he's going bald, wears a hat to cover his head kind of thing.
You know?
Word.
Word.
Yeah, no, I've actually told girls before, like, hey, you don't have to wear makeup on the date.
Like, I don't care.
Don't wear any.
Sometimes they get upset by that, but I'm not dictating.
I'm not saying you have to.
I'm just saying, hey.
I actually have something to ask on this subject.
What do y'all feel about men with like a toupee or they like they like dye their beard or they like they like spray their beard to make it look full, you know, things of that nature those positions do this actually they like they like literally spray their face to make it look like it's dark Well, I feel like if you're wearing a toupee or you have to like dye your beard or something, then you're like 30 years older than me.
So I would stay away from that at this point in my life.
One time my cousin, he is only like, I don't know how old is he, like 27 or something?
And he's balding and he got one of those like glue-in things.
That's what I'm talking about.
And it actually looks good and it makes him a lot more confident and he looks really good and he feels good.
So I don't mind it.
Yeah, honestly, if you're wearing a toupee and you have to dye your, or you have to like dye your beard or you have to like alter it and stuff like that.
Or like draw your lineup like on your forehead.
Yeah.
Some folks will like take a black pen and literally draw the lineup on their head.
Honestly.
If you feel more confident about yourself and you feel happy when you do it, as long as they're happy, I'm fine with it.
Like I'm not going to hate someone for doing something that makes them feel happy, more confident in their skin, because that would just be like hypocritical.
Like back on the makeup, like when I do my makeup, that makes me feel like I do it for myself.
Sometimes, yeah, it makes me feel confident.
It's awesome.
But like, am I going to hate on someone for like dying their beard, dyeing their hair, or getting a tupe?
No, that's fine.
I mean, it doesn't really matter.
Yeah.
Good take.
Can I ask you guys a question?
So what do you think about if a guy wore a muscle suit?
I need you to elaborate on that more.
Like, do you mean like a muscle suit under his clothes?
Yeah, so you didn't know he was wearing a muscle suit.
So like when girls were like butt pads?
Yes.
Oh, so like, so like underneath their shirt.
He's got like shoulder pads or got chest to make his chest look bulgy.
Right.
I feel like that's kind of almost an equivalent to makeup.
Nah, that's way too much.
No, I feel like that's different.
That's like so extra statue.
No, that's say, that's like do like if I wore butt pads, that's the equivalent to like the muscle stuff.
But guys can't really wear makeup.
I mean, they can, but they theoretically could.
They could, but most women would probably find that unattractive for a man to wear makeup.
Maybe not always.
You look at Prince or MJ.
I mean, these are like.
But they're also celebrities.
Celebrities.
They got part of it.
They're creative.
So they get a bit more leeway.
And they have a shit ton of status.
You guys never seen a diary of your wimpy kid, Roderick, when he wears the eyeliner.
Yeah, I haven't.
That's so hot.
That is so hot.
I have nothing to do with it.
Skyliner.
If they can pull it off, yeah.
Have you ever seen Diary of a Wimpy Kid?
Really?
I have a huge thing for Roderick.
I just want to say, nobody find my senior yearbook photo.
Okay, so.
Everybody find his senior yearbook photo right now.
Should we do?
Oh, Blair.
Blair had a video he wanted us to react to, so we're going to pull it up.
Go to the videos.
Damn, dude, this guy's tiny.
He must be a dwarf.
Sorry, I'm not interested in being friends with midgets.
Midgets piss me off.
Huh, I'm...
The comments under this video have been distasteful, disgusting, and outright disrespectful.
Oh...
Okay.
What's going on there?
Yeah, I mean, just for context, I just saw this and thought it was funny.
Okay, that's all it is.
So basically, she's saying, you know, I don't want a shrimp dick or whatever, you know, and she's entitled to that.
And then the guy.
She's also playing this Cartman thing, which is talking about midgets.
Exactly, yeah.
And then the dude's like, oh, well, I don't want eight cup titties.
And then she gets all bent out of shape about it.
And I find that inconsistency very interesting and funny.
Why is it an inconsistency for you?
Well, it's the same thing.
It's body shaming on both ends of the spectrum.
So, you know, you could say, oh, well, I don't want to, you know, a little dick.
But then if a man doesn't want to date an overweight woman or whatever preference he has, then it's all hell breaks loose.
Yeah.
And the funny thing is, is at the end, she's all upset about the people in her comments.
Right.
When it's like, you kind of like invited that criticism, you know.
So.
I thought that'd be an interesting topic or an interesting thing to read.
So I mean, there's two things there.
There's the sound, which is Cartman talking about short men, essentially.
And then there's also the peen size.
So we can go into both of those real quick.
Let's talk a bit about height.
So for you, do you have a height preference?
Do you have like minimum height for a guy?
Minimum six feet.
None of this will offend me, by the way.
How tall are you, Blair, by the way?
I am a whopping 5'5.
Manlet gang represent.
Manlets in the chat.
Short kings.
We love our short kings.
I'm six feet, but I'm part of the solidarity movement.
So with short men.
Okay.
Honestly, so, and I'll tell you why.
If I see a girl on a dating app and she says anything about height, I don't care how fucking babe status she is.
Boom.
Not right, left swipe, left swipe, whatever.
Anyways, minimum height for you.
Me?
Yeah.
Microphone.
There really isn't one.
I'm pretty sure.
I'm like 5'4.
But like, you know, I've been with a guy who's like 5'5.
And yeah, I couldn't wear my platform slippers around him.
But why not, though?
Just to play double grabbing.
It's like a little weird to be taller than the guy.
Why is that weird, though?
I don't want to go like that when I'm kissing him.
Like, I want to go like that, you know?
But I don't mind the same height.
Also, I like short guys.
I think short guys are funnier.
I think they're nicer.
And you're, so you're 5'4.
Yeah, so that's pretty short.
Like, you know, I'll take anything as long as it's taller than me.
She'll take anything.
And they have a really good personality and they treat me right.
Okay.
But you know, and like, like, yeah, I'd like to kiss someone who's like 6'7, and that's like kind of uncomfortable.
Go ahead.
I personally don't have a height reference, like, a height preference.
Like, I have like been with guys that are, like, shorter than I am, and I'm only 5'6, 5'7-ish.
You're 5'6.
5'6.
Yeah, I'm like 5'6.
And I've been with guys that are 5'5.
The guy that I like right now, he's like, he's like, what would you say?
He's my height.
I'd say he's 5'7.
I personally like shorter guys because everyone over 6's, they can have an ego.
But I think short kings are my favorite, and I think they deserve the world.
So I always give them a greater chance.
For me, I'm 5'8, and I will take anything like taller than me.
How tall is your boyfriend?
Do they centimeters?
What are they using?
I think he's like 5'11 or 6'1.
That's about his height, right?
Yeah.
I'm 6'.
I don't know.
I just want to be able to look up to them.
You don't have to be that tall for me to have.
How tall are you?
5'2.
Like 4'11.
Sorry.
Okay, I'm not 4'11.
I always joke with her.
She really likes to call me a gremlin.
It's bullying.
I always tell her I could step on her when we get in fights.
Then I could just put my foot up and I just like step right on her because how short she is compared to me.
But it's like a couple inches.
That's it.
Yeah, she found out I was four inches taller than a new Paloompa and won't let me forget it.
It's just so funny.
Can we get some pigs in the chat, boys?
Oh, not that pig again.
So next question.
Would you date a guy who lives with his parents?
Yeah, especially at my age.
I'm only 19.
It's too young.
Let's say maybe when you're a bit older.
Let's say mid-20s.
Mid-20s.
No.
No.
Nah.
Like, he's in his childhood bedroom.
You're like.
What if he can't afford to move out?
What if he's disenfranchised financially?
You know, sure.
If he's a sweetheart, he loves his mom.
He's just trying to spend time with his family.
Hey.
Because not everyone has the luxury to just move out when they're in the middle of the day.
Yeah, no, for sure.
Yeah.
I need to just come in real quick because I didn't really answer the height question.
Six petal flower.
Thank you for reminding me.
Brian, tell them you want a 4'11 beef curtains queen.
Yeah, honestly, so if her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one.
No, I'm kidding.
Well, Taylor's perfect for you there because she's 4'11.
Okay, 5'2.
Check my driver's length.
My girlfriend thinks she's 5'.
I think she's 4'11.
Taylor, at 5'2, I'm sorry, you're just too tall.
You're too tall for me.
I get that all the time.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
No, I don't really.
It's just really shocking.
I don't really care.
I don't really care.
I do definitely prefer.
I think I have a slight height preference, though, for shorter women, petite women, but I don't care.
Like, height's not a big deal for me.
And I don't think height's a big deal for a lot of men.
Like, Blair, is your girlfriend, is she taller than you?
No, she's like five foot.
Okay.
You know?
But you would date a woman who's taller than you.
Yeah, absolutely.
I'd date a fucking Amazon girl, fucking 6'3, 6'4.
Fuck yeah.
All right.
Yeah, I forgot to get into this with you.
So have you experienced, being someone who's 5'5, have you experienced women who don't want to date you because of your height?
Not explicitly, because I don't think I don't think they would say why, you know, you know what I mean?
They haven't overtly said it, but do you have a suspicion that maybe that's better totally, totally.
And that's, you know, very much an area of my life where I was very insecure.
And because a lot of men think that, well, a lot of women have very strict preferences on height, generally speaking.
So, you know, you kind of feel a little left out sometimes.
But when I got into fitness and bodybuilding, that whole thing just changed because what I can't control is how I look and how I conduct myself.
So, and insane amounts of confidence was born from that endeavor.
So, it's not something that I think about even when I was single.
Word.
And yes, also, all labia matter.
Okay.
So, yeah, that too.
I mean, women have can have a I like how you just like put that in there.
My DMs are open.
What?
Sorry, I thought you meant that in a different way.
My DM?
What else?
No, when you said all labia matter, and then you said, my DMs are open.
I was like, oh, I don't get it.
Because I thought we needed all labia matter.
And then you said, my DMs are open.
I thought you were talking about like.
You can say it.
Like, send me pussy pics.
That's like what I thought you were talking about.
I mean, sure, I guess.
But, like, I meant more so if you if you're rocking.
Okay, per.
We love that.
Yeah.
I mean, right?
Women have a penis size preference.
So I have a I happen to have a labia preference.
That's what I'm doing.
Can't worry.
Listen.
What do you prefer?
What do you prefer?
Yeah, what's your like labia preference?
Innie or Audi.
Audi, for sure.
Don't get me wrong.
It's not like, that's not a deal breaker if she doesn't.
Like, I'm not.
He lost that.
Now you're getting all flustered.
Like, it's not a necessity.
And an innie is innies are great too.
I love innies.
MIDI's are cool.
Apparently, that's a thing.
MIDIs.
Audis, though, I just, I, Audis are cool, you know.
And, but it's unfortunate.
It's unfortunate.
And I don't mean to be flippant.
I know we're kind of joking around, but I don't want to be flippant when I say this.
It is unfortunate that women are shamed for this if they have an Audi.
You know, you hear like RBs, beef curtains, wizard sleeve.
Yeah.
In the same way that, yeah, yeah, I'm like, come on, guys.
Be nice.
But, hey, send, come my way.
But no, like, guys are also shamed for their labia check, girls.
Labia check.
That'll be on the OnlyFans.
Oh, that's too good.
Yeah, that's too fast.
I'm just the only fans for that one.
Subscribe for however much money.
Glebis.
By the way, oh, while I see this, Glebis, first off, thank you for the super chat right there.
Brian prefers three feet.
Is that inch?
Three inches?
Three inch labias.
Three inch labia.
The bigger, the better.
I'm just going to say flappy.
Wow.
We got a wow from Natasha over here.
But Glebis, for some reason on StreamYard, it doesn't show that you gifted a sub to somebody or sorry, you gifted a membership to somebody.
So Glebis, thank you very much for that.
And also, we saw your anniversary membership thing.
Thank you for continuing to be a member of the channel.
Guys, if you want to join, we've got a ton of perks.
You just hit that join button.
And right now, the lowest, yeah, the lowest tier is like 250.
And you get a really cool icon next to your name in chat.
Anyways, but yeah, peen shaming is unfortunate.
I'm sorry, did you say peen?
I thought you said pee shaming.
I was like, peen.
Peening.
Oh, okay.
Because someone said pee in the chat, and I thought you said pee shaming.
I was like, Pean shaming.
Oh.
Penis.
Penis shaming, yeah.
No, we love all penises out there.
We don't penis shame.
Love.
Natasha wants to come in on this.
Natasha, do you have a penis preference?
Okay.
Okay, no comment.
Please.
Okay.
Owen Wilson.
Wow.
Wait, where?
Oh, yeah, okay.
So we're talking about would you live with a guy, or sorry, would you date a guy who lives with his parents?
Did everyone answer that?
Oh, I didn't answer that part.
We only went to me.
Okay, yeah.
I mean, hmm.
I guess if it's like in the, in like a separate house, or like, I mean, I would also like someone who has, you know, like their own stability, but like there's no shame in living with your parents.
I understand, like, at our age, it's difficult to like move out sometimes and like get that money.
But especially in Santa Barbara here.
Especially in the Santa Barbara area.
So I think it just like kind of depends.
Like, I'm not going to shame you for it, but it's like.
I guess it depends.
It would be nice if there was a little bit more privacy than having your parents literally like right there, but there's no shame in it.
I don't have any opinion.
But if you're like in your middle, mid like 30s, like 35 or like something, you still live with your parents.
That's kind of weird.
And I'm curious because there was a comment that came up.
In some parts of Europe, it's common for, I believe, in Italy and Spain, someone said.
Was that a super chat or just a regular comment?
Okay, we'll pull it up later.
But basically, you're saying in Italy and Spain, maybe some other European countries, it's more common for people, both men and women, to continue living with their parents throughout the course of their life.
What's it like in China?
Do people, because I know in many Asian cultures, the family unit, I think, is much more valued.
So do we see people living with their parents much longer in China?
I think usually after people get married, 90% couples will just move out into like, you know, like their house, their home.
But they're still part of couples.
They will just like live together with their parents.
You know, like probably you live together with your husband's parents or live together with your parents and your husband.
Yeah, this situation does exist.
Yeah.
Okay.
Kiki.
No.
Okay.
Insightful.
Okay, go ahead.
Yeah, I, once again, don't really care that much.
Like, you're only 90.
Well, if you're my age, then you're 19.
Like, I'm not expecting you to have your life together.
Like, as long as you're not, like, a mooch or anything, then it's fine.
So, yeah.
Rock and roll.
So, what I want to do, we're probably going to wrap up in about 20 minutes or so.
I want to open it up to you guys if you guys have a final thought or question for someone else on the panel or for us or the chat.
So, final thought or final question that you want to ask?
Go ahead.
Oh, can you pass it along?
Yeah, we can come back to you.
Does anyone have like a question ready to go or final thought ready to go?
I just have a little question.
Like, I'm pretty interested in what kind of content Natasha do for your TikTok.
It's really all over the place right now.
I mean, it really is all over the place.
I hit it kind of well with the gym community, so I might just continue going with that.
Like, the gym tutorials and stuff?
Yeah, maybe.
I'd love to start making like a pencil.
Do you also post that stuff on IG?
Because I don't use TikTok, so I can't, like, I don't, I can't subscribe to you.
I'm there.
No, I don't post it on IG.
Just on Instagram, I've been going out and taking my own photos.
Okay.
Doing that.
So I want to drop that support too.
Thank you.
You can do a little collab in the gym.
We'll just subscribe your account after the podcast.
It's like I'm telling you, Natasha Tate.
That's the direction.
Honestly, I might have to go home and do that.
Just change that.
There you go.
Thank you.
Actually, you know what?
We'll watch one more of Natasha's TikToks.
Eric, if you can pull up the last one.
Okay, but I agree with that one.
I'm sorry, but I mean, you know, I love my men toxic sometimes, but if they came up to me with brown hair and blue eyes, I'm not looking at a damn red flag.
Just being able to combat that.
Brown curly flags too.
Brown curly hair.
Yeah.
Brown curly hair and brown eyes.
That's all.
So I have to agree with Natasha on that one.
Tasha or Natasha?
Either one.
Okay.
I agree with your TikTok on that one.
Okay, so do you have a final thought or question?
No.
No, I don't think so.
I'm kind of, yeah, I'm kind of blanking out right now.
Sure, sure.
Final thought or question?
I don't know.
I don't think I have any questions personally.
Okay.
I don't know.
I'm kind of scared of who's seen this because just ask.
Ask what you want to do.
When I was in the bathroom, one of my friends texted me and I was like, how does she, like, she's watching this?
Like, I mean, she's one of my besties, so I'm not surprised.
But if you know me, say your name.
Yeah, there are a lot of people.
How many people are watching this right away?
I don't know.
It's maybe 300.
I can't.
I can't.
300K?
No, it might be 300 concurrent.
Okay, I'll do it.
Yeah, I'll definitely do it.
Yeah.
300K.
Just watch this all.
So, do you have a question or?
No, nobody's doing anything now.
Does that have any questions?
Yeah, are we allowed to ask that?
Well, I mean, super chats.
Oh, super chats.
Super chats.
Natasha, final thought or question?
I mean, I could think of some controversial questions, but do it.
Give us the most controversial.
How about ask a question that would trigger the rest of the panel?
Ooh.
Or the girls.
That would trigger the girls.
I think you've done that a decent amount so far.
I'm sorry.
It's so funny.
Well, we've talked about so much.
Body counts.
I could ask about like plastic surgery.
I could ask about.
You could trigger the guys, try to trigger us on something.
True.
My God, my mind is blank.
Yeah, I want to hear that.
I want to hear what your most controversial question is.
Because I'm just curious.
What is a position you hold when it comes to dating relationships or gender dynamics that you think we might potentially take quarrel with?
Like, agree with or not agree with?
We take issue with.
Yeah, take issue with.
I mean, when it comes to relationship dynamics, I mean, honestly, I believe that women have their place and men have their place.
I guess that's kind of controversial with the girls more.
Yeah, that's probably going to be a lot of fun.
Wait, can I ask you to elaborate on that, though?
Like, what do you mean we have our place and men have their place?
Yeah, I'm not gonna say I'm full, like women need to be in the kitchen and men need to go to work and all that stuff, but obviously both roles need expectations, you know.
Okay, so if you want your man to provide for you and to be out in the world busting his ass every day, you definitely need to be taking care of stuff at home, like 1 million percent.
But what if I told you, because I don't want to be at home all day, because like my dream job is to be so you're working as well, yeah, like I want to be a forensic scientist.
Okay.
So like if I want to do that, but my husband was working as well, and say like I have a kid, what do you like?
Do you think that I should still be at home caring for my kid?
I don't think that is a sustainable dynamic.
Both of you working full-time jobs.
It wouldn't be the kid at home.
Okay.
Like who's going to take care of your child?
Well, say, well, say my husband was a teacher.
So say he would, like, he was like a substitute or something.
And say, like, I was the one bringing in most of the like income.
Is that like a problem?
Or like.
Well, both of you are working full-time jobs with a kid at home who's being watched by someone else.
So you're not even seeing your child being raised.
Well, that's not true.
My dad, I mean, that was the same thing for my parents.
My dad worked nights.
My mom worked.
Like, so they both got to interact.
I don't think like, just because you guys both work, you're like shitty.
Well, I think the answer to that is maybe put your child in something extracurricular like sports or some other activity outside of schools where you buy.
But I guess it depends on the age of the child.
Well, that's true too.
Well, like, I was a nanny.
I've been a nanny for like multiple families at like once.
And like, it was like very different age ranges.
And the parents are still very much involved.
So it's like, I feel like even if you have like full-time jobs, like for one of the families, like the wife would travel a lot, but she was still heavily really in her family's life.
So I feel like even with a full-time job, like I could still be in, what's the word?
Like involved with my kids' life.
So I feel like even though both me and my husband had full-time jobs, I could definitely still be involved in my kids' life, even if, say, I did have a nanny.
Because I've been in that nanny's position.
And every time, like, the parents have always been very heavily involved.
I've never been in a family.
I can't really speak on a family that has never been involved in their kids' life.
But through my experience, I've always had very heavily influenced from the parents still, no matter what.
Or what about families they need both parents to work because they literally can't live if they don't.
They need that money.
Because California is really expensive.
So I always think about it like that sometimes, where it's like, no matter what, you still have a mortgage to pay.
Yeah.
You know?
Yeah, you got to like do everything you can for your kid, even if that does mean working so hard for them.
And like you might not be able to see them.
You might have to get a nanny, but you still have to do that because they need to provide for the kids.
I guess I have a kind of biased opinion.
I don't even know what the word is for it, but because I grew up with a mom who was there for me growing up.
She was taking care of me, dropping off from school, picking me up, taking care of my baby brother, you know.
So I obviously have a different experience from other people.
But for me, when I have a child, I don't want them to be raised by someone else.
No, I fully understand that too.
I want to have my partner to be able to take care of our family.
That is what I'm searching for personally.
And, you know, as far as like financial situations, I mean, all of this has, you know, different things that come into play.
But for me, personally, I'm looking for someone that can support a family.
And I will work and do my part up until we have a child, and then I will.
No, I respect that.
100%.
Like, yeah.
Like when I was a kid, like my mom worked and then when she had me, she like took care of me until it was like I was old enough to where like her and my dad could kind of like switch off.
But no, I fully understand that part, so I get your side.
I just was curious on like what your standpoint was.
Wait, so Natasha, were you saying that you were your parents separated or my parents only separated when I was in high school?
So we all lived together up until that point.
Okay.
What was the original question?
I totally blanked on that.
Last comment or question, I believe.
I think it was something about controversial.
Oh, right.
Oh, yeah, that one.
Yeah, yeah.
Final thoughts or final question.
Hey, there's a comment from one of my Trader Joe's boys.
My man on.
What do y'all think of guys that look at Trader Joe's?
We love Trader Joe's.
I just won the Trader Joe's last weekend.
Literally.
People, Trader Joe's are always so nice and kind.
Yeah.
Everybody get the Castle Rock Rose from Trader Joe's.
It's only $3.99 and it's the best thing that's ever happened in my life.
Shout out to Mighty Swell Gang as well.
There you go.
Can Trader Joe's sponsor this podcast?
I don't think so.
Probably a little controversial.
I would love a sponsorship from Trader Joe's.
That would be clutch.
A TJ sponsorship.
Yeah.
All right.
Let's do a couple super chats and then we'll maybe react to one last video and then we will wrap up.
Let's see.
Okay.
Trader Drew.
I think it changed a couple days ago, but all right, Mr. Mike Davis with the $10 Super Chat makeup conversation.
And Blair pipes up.
Wait, did we already do this one?
I saw it.
I don't think we talked about it, though.
I didn't say the makeup removing wife comment for nothing.
I can read this bloke like a book.
Blair, he's asserting that you wear makeup.
Wow, Mike.
I'll just be Prince and be a short king.
He wears makeup.
Boom.
If that's what you think I do.
Wait, take the hat off.
And we support you through that.
Mike Davis hasn't been chatting in a little bit, so I think he should pull up.
Oh.
Yeah.
Anyways, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
Much appreciated.
Like I said, Mike, open invitation for you to come on the show.
I know you said you want to hide your identity.
We'll put a masquerade ball, one of those masks, a masquerade mask on you.
We'll give you a fake name.
We'll call you Michael Hunt.
And we'll be good.
I think we should be good to go.
Okay.
E.G. with the $10 Super Chat, wearing makeup is false advertisement.
Good-looking men should be more appreciated.
Wait.
Wait, good-looking men should wear?
I agree with the first part.
Men don't have, well, men don't have the luxury society-wise to wear makeup.
So I guess he's saying, like, a good-looking dude is fucked because he can't wear makeup, I assume.
But women can wear makeup and kind of.
But if he's good-looking, he doesn't.
You mean to further make himself more attractive?
Yeah.
I mean, I think this is probably the hot take, but I mean, we already talked a bit about makeup.
We won't stay too long on it.
But yeah, I mean, to a certain degree, I think makeup is false advertising.
And I mean, it depends.
I think women should be free to wear makeup.
There's definitely a threshold of what's too much and what's fine.
You know what?
I actually tanked a date because I commented on the girl's makeup.
But I'll tell you the quick story.
So here's the story.
I don't know if you guys have seen me with these Poland Spring water bottles.
I was on a date with a girl.
I had this Poland Spring water bottle.
And the day was going well, but I got the sense she just wasn't feeling it.
That's fine.
So, you know, we're there, we're grabbing a drink of the bars, only one or two hours in.
She's not really feeling that, that was the impression I got, but we were having an otherwise pleasant conversation, nothing weird going on.
And as we're about to say goodbye, she makes this final comment and she's like, hey, Brian, and she was kind of condescending about it, a bit patronizing.
And she says, Brian, it's really inappropriate that you drink from plastic water bottles.
And I was like, okay.
Like, and so I started like, well, I was telling her, well, I mean, I was running out the door.
I just grabbed these.
I have an RO system at my house.
I drink from, you know, I have like a glass bottle when I'm at the house.
I'm not just constantly downing water bottles.
But she like made it into a thing.
So I started, I'm not one to like back down from an argument.
And it was clear the date wasn't going to go anywhere.
So I was like, okay, well, let's, she's basically making an environmental argument.
How dare you use that?
Yeah, she's like, how dare you?
Yeah.
You're polluting the environment and shit.
And she was wearing makeup.
So I was like, well, if you want to talk about the impact on the environment, let's talk about makeup.
And then I just, she was very offended.
I said, I noticed you're wearing a bit of eyeline or some mascara, maybe a little face powder.
You know, Mika, I don't know if you'd know about Mika.
That's in a lot of these makeup products.
It's basically poor African or Indian kids that are harvesting this under terrible temptations.
Oh, yeah, makeup.
Oh, for sure.
The makeup industry is definitely responsible for a lot of that stuff.
But anyways, I started going into that and I was like, what kind of car do you drive?
I drive this sort of car.
Oh, shit.
Whoops.
Anyways, I don't know where I was going with that.
Basically, it's very interesting.
One thing I've encountered is there's a lot of women who are very pro-environment.
But if you, and there are a lot of women who are pro-environment, and they'll say, well, on the individual level, people should do more to limit their environmental impact.
And you say, well, what about you stop wearing makeup?
That's not going to go over very well.
Are any of you?
Do any of you, let me see if I can convince the women.
Do any of you care about the environment?
Yes.
Do you think that on an individual level, we should try to minimize our, say, carbon footprint or our environmental impact?
My mom's a big advocate for that.
She's always talking about decreasing her carbon footprint.
So just on the topic of the environment, I think the carbon footprint thing is actually basically corporations are the predominant polluters.
So the whole carbon footprint thing was, I think, actually gas companies or oil companies started this to sort of take the focus away from them.
But it's really corporations that are responsible for the vast majority of excessive water use, pollution, et cetera, et cetera.
So on an individual level, certainly as a consumer, there's things you can change.
But my challenge to you guys would be: if you really care about the environment, would you consider discontinuing purchasing and wearing makeup?
Yeah.
Could be.
And then couldn't I just get like vegan makeup or like safe makeup?
Well, I assume it comes in packaging too, doesn't it?
Sure.
What?
Like, okay.
You want to come in on this?
I would say no.
Okay.
Because obviously, like, there are rich people that do like private jet every single day.
This, you know, like Kylie Jenner, like, she will take a private jet from like a 30-minute car ride.
Maybe like 10,000 girls, like, stop purchasing makeup.
It's not even like 10% of the private jet.
Let me ask, what utility does makeup serve?
Because you can make an argument for like plastic straws and spoons.
That at least has some sort of utility.
As far as I'm concerned, makeup has absolutely no utility outside of perhaps theatrical performances or in film.
But on a day-to-day basis, makeup has no actual utility.
Artistic utility.
Yeah, what about paint?
What about Party City?
That's theatrical.
Like, you're going to get rid of all the party cities in the world?
And what about her wig?
I'm sure that's leading to the carbon footprint.
For sure.
For sure.
Anyways, we're kind of deralling there a little bit.
Did any of you else want to come in on that?
Okay.
E.G., Italians and Spaniards often live with their parents until they are in their 30s and get married.
I think we mentioned this before.
Thank you for the $10 soup chat.
Yes, that is in fact the case.
I believe in a few other European countries, maybe Greece, like some of those southern European countries, I think it's a bit more common.
But yeah, you know what?
Actually, I heard this quote the other day.
A woman will not date a man, sleep with a man that lives with his parents, but they will sleep with a man who lives with his wife.
I have heard that one.
I'd rather sleep with a man who lives with his parents still than sleep with a man who has a wife.
Yeah, facts.
It's getting late.
I'm starting to stutter now and butcher my delivery.
Sorry, guys.
Long night.
We're about to wrap up.
Okay, Glebis LA with the $10 Soup Chat.
I think we already got this one.
Brian prefers 3-inch plus.
I think he's referring to Labia.
He could be referring to a penis, though.
I suppose, yes, but I think to be generous, I think, okay, whatever.
Glebbis, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.
Much appreciated.
$5.
Real quick, Natasha, what's your nationality?
I'm Caucasian.
Well, yeah, is that right?
Say whatever you want.
Like, are you.
I'm Italian.
What's your last name?
Blankenship.
Blendin.
Blankenship.
Blankenship.
Yes.
I'm Italian, German, Swedish.
Okay, there you go.
Glebis, thank you for the $5, man.
Much appreciated.
Glebis with the $10 Super Chat.
Oh, my God.
Natasha is so smart and logical.
Will you marry me?
That is a wedding proposal, Natasha.
Will you marry him?
If you come on to the next podcast.
Ooh.
It is a good proposal.
Are we, you coming back on?
I think you're a fan favorite.
I would love to have you back on.
So I'll see you at the next one, okay?
Glebis, you are invited, by the way.
Glebis, can you write in the chat, are you down to come on the show?
A lot of super chatters just aren't down just because they got businesses and shouldn't, you know.
We do talk about some controversial things, so they don't want to get canceled and whatnot.
But Glebis, thank you for the big $10 soup chat.
And also, are you in LA by chance, Glebis?
Anyways, whatever.
Oh, nothing I am.
Go ahead.
Oh, no, I'm not.
I'm just pulling up something.
What currency is this?
Philippine?
No.
Okay, sorry, but Natasha is just outmatching other women in this panel so much.
All this makeup talk, et cetera.
I absolutely love her mindset.
Just so smart.
Evil Matt, thank you for the, I have no clue whatsoever what that currency is, but thank you, man.
On-chan, $5.
This is my boy who we almost have to do.
Okay, we'll grab him.
We'll grab it.
Is having too high of a body count a deal breaker?
If so, what's too high?
Also, the girl with Caroline tattoo is a vibe.
Coraline.
Coraline tattoo.
Thank you.
We kind of answered.
Didn't we talk about this?
Yeah, I mean, we did.
Yeah, I think we did.
So is what's too high?
I mean, the girls can go around really quick on that one.
What's too high of a body count for a guy?
I assume it depends on his age, but for me, it's like over five.
More than five.
Sorry.
Well, I met a guy with 20, and it really turned me off from him.
I just know.
Why?
Because it communicated to me that he wasn't picky.
And I want someone that's picky because that makes me feel valued also.
Can I ask you a question?
Who's your, do you have like a celebrity crush?
I don't.
Genuinely.
I mean.
Like a musician, actor.
Shoot.
I mean.
Musician.
Can you give me some examples?
I'm like having trouble thinking.
I mean, I'm not going to put words in your mouth for who you like.
I don't have a specific celebrity crush.
Honestly, I don't.
Timothy Chalamet?
No.
A million times no.
I love Timothy Chalamet.
I have a pillow of his face.
Whoa.
I love Tibby.
I'm trying to think of Harry Styles.
Justin Bieber?
He's okay.
He's pretty cute.
He's okay.
Okay.
Machine gun.
There's no guy that you're just like.
There's no one that's like.
Come on.
Pete Davidson.
No, dude.
What?
I love Pete Davidson.
That guy's trashy.
Yo, Glebis, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
Okay, apparently he's down to come on the show.
I will see you there.
DM out whatever.
We'll get you on, Glebis.
So, yeah, going around really quick, what is too much for a body count?
At my age, like 19, probably like...
For a guy?
For a guy, like 20.
More than 20, I don't know.
Yeah, maybe 25.
I don't know, but like there, I know guys with like over 75, and like I've almost like, but I didn't, so I had some.
But you didn't, so it's all good.
I, real quick, Ryan Reynolds, 100%.
I'm in so in love with Ryan Reynolds.
Also, the hottest celebrity is Miles Teller.
Oh, we love Miles Teller.
But I'd say at my age, 21, too high of a body count, I definitely have to say like over 50.
100% over 50.
I think that would.
50 or 15?
Oh, 55-0.
Okay.
Yeah, I'd say that.
I'd be like, okay.
Okay.
Around 13-ish.
13 to 15.
Okay, more than that.
I'm so sorry.
Lily, look at that comment.
Oh, that was funny as fuck.
I like that one.
Oh, but no.
Yeah, I don't care about, but I don't really think there's anything too.
I mean, maybe like, I don't know, 30.
Like, that's a lot, but I don't really care.
You actually have a Timothy Chalamette?
I do, and I think I have like a photo of it somewhere.
It is, it's on my bed.
It's him as Virgin Mary because funny thing about it, an old friend of mine gave it to me when I was a virgin, and Timothy Chalamet was like the love of my life.
I mean, he still is.
So she gave me a pillow of Timothy Chalamet posing as the Virgin Mary.
It's funny.
It's like an inside joke, but it's.
Do you ever hook up with guys in your room?
That's actually really funny.
Like, do you turn it over?
No, because if I turn it over, it's the same picture.
So it's on both sides.
She hides under the bed.
I've seen it.
I actually, yeah, because the guy that I like, when he comes over, I said at one time, it was on the bed, and I was like, oh, and I threw it across the room.
I was like, we don't need Timmy up in here right now.
I think we need a black light on that pillow.
I'm just like.
It's perfectly fine.
I haven't done any of that.
Mike Davis gives $5 DJs behind the Chinatown fish market.
Sorry, I love these colors.
They're so good.
Only a girl can have a pillow.
So, but it's still getting me.
That was really good.
Oh, man.
I love the chat.
Yeah, chat's fucking legendary.
Chat's legendary.
Can we, in the chat, can we get a Tasha X?
Can we get Tasha X in the chat?
Okay, that's a.
Don't worry about that.
Is it for Tasha as in Tasha over here or a different Tasha?
It's like kind of a whatever meme or inside joke.
Yeah, yeah.
So like in one of the videos we saw in the intro with this one of the videos I was doing, I introduced myself as Brian with an X.
The X is silent.
You don't pronounce it.
You know how people are like, Brian, is it with an I or a Y?
Anyways, and so people in the chat are just like, yeah, Taksha.
Tasha Tate.
Tasha, Tasha.
Okay.
Rocking off.
This was a fantastic panel.
You guys were awesome.
This was the funnest one.
This is probably, I think, one of my favorite panels for sure.
Like, really cool panel.
All of you.
Like, really appreciate you.
You guys are awesome.
I'm always around.
Yeah.
Let's run it back for sure.
Yeah.
So we're going to end off with one video.
I'm not sure which one yet, though.
We have one more super chat.
Super chat.
Juan, we'll let some more super chats come in if they want to.
Super chat.
Scream Ivy.
Super chat.
And there's some handsome MMS.
If you guys want last-minute super chats and then let's see what the super chat's got to say.
Wait, didn't I?
I thought we got all the super chats.
That's way too loud.
Oh.
I don't see it.
I think on super chat again.
Did you show it?
Oh, the.
Oh, I see.
I see.
Okay.
Okay.
Hmm.
Okay.
I want to open it up to the chat.
So, chat, we can either react to an Andrew Tate video.
We can either watch one of, we'll compare Andrea and Brian, so me, going up, asking the social experiment, asking for sex, and we'll have the panel react, or we can watch a Bill Maher clip on masculinity being in crisis.
So those three options, guys.
I love a good crisis.
Wait, what was, I'm sorry, repeat the last one?
I heard crisis.
So Bill Maher, there's a segment on his most recent show about, I think, something along the lines of masculinity, men being in crisis at this point.
So, okay, we got Tate, Maher, Andrew Tate, Masculinity, Bill Maher, Marr clip.
Where is a lot of the Bill Maher ones?
Yeah, I'm seeing a lot of Bill.
Yeah, we're going to do the Bill Maher one.
Before you pull that up, let me just grab the super chat.
By the way, guys, we're going to wrap up here, so get your last-minute super chats in if you want.
But for those of you who already did, thank you so much for the support, guys.
Appreciate it.
E.G., natural red-headed girl is wife material.
Okay.
Thank you.
I will be.
Are you Natty?
Natty Redhead?
Natty.
Oh, I'm sorry.
I thought he said natural.
Oh, I am a natural redhead.
Yeah, I looked like Annie when I was a kid.
Sure.
All right, Eric, go ahead and pull up the Marr clip.
Why are men in such crisis?
I mean, the stats are like only 40% go to college.
So they're losing out to women there in a big way.
And women with degrees don't marry men who don't have degrees.
So we have a crisis among young men, and it starts at a young age.
Young men are twice as likely on a behavior-adjusted basis to be suspended.
Seven in ten high school valedictorians are women.
For every one female, for every two female graduates from college in the next five years, you'll only have one.
The scariest stat, walking down the avenue that is America, only one in three men under the age of 30 have had sex in the last year.
And you hear sex and your brain fires.
But the bottom line is it's a key step to the elemental foundation of any society, and that is relationships.
Young men aren't attaching to work.
They aren't attaching to women.
They aren't attaching to schools.
Mating has been consolidated in the worst way.
50 men on Tinder, 50 women, 46 of the women show all of their attention to just four men, leaving 46 men pursuing just four women.
If mating was a country, it would be more unequal than Venezuela.
We have huge mating inequality.
And here's the problem: when people don't get together and there's no pheromones and there's no vibe, women, and we don't like to say this on the left, primarily try and make very quick assumptions about this individual's ability to garner resources in the future.
So what you have is this concentration of interest and you're ending up with Porsche polygamy, where 10% of the men get 90% of the attention, which does not lead to good behavior or form long-term relationships.
Online dating is disastrous for mating and for men.
It's terrible.
Okay.
That was a recent clip from Bill Maher on HBO.
Really cool show.
Gonna open it up to the panel, your guys' reaction to that.
I know there were a lot of talking points there, but your take, Natasha.
I think it is true that masculinity is in crisis.
I see that men are becoming more, they're becoming less, I don't know how to explain it.
They're just, they're losing their drive for things.
They're losing their drive to pursue women.
They're losing their drive to like achieve goals and like go out into the world and be things.
And they're consuming, you know, bad food.
They're consuming PORN.
It's just things that aren't contributing to their growth.
And I think, I don't know, we're in an era of, you know, girls want all the power and all that stuff.
I don't know if that intimidates men.
I don't know if like that's a contributor to this, but I think we are, you know, men are becoming more feminine and becoming, you know, they're slacking.
We need to kick it up a notch.
Kirkland Andrew Tiny.
The guy that we reacted to.
That's funny.
Go ahead.
Honestly, I really don't give a rat's ass if men, if the male species is depleting.
Okay.
You guys have had your time to shine.
If you guys want to get better, you guys can do that yourselves, but I'm not going to get you out of the slump.
Sorry.
Okay.
Sorry.
It's just like, I don't really care.
Like, that's on you guys.
If you guys aren't, like, working or not going to college, then I don't know how to fix that.
I am.
So, I don't know why you aren't.
What do you think of men?
Um, I love men, you know.
I love but didn't you say you didn't care if all the men diminished?
Yeah, no, I don't, it doesn't affect me.
Do you have any, do you have a brother?
No, I have a dad, though.
Okay, um, I just, I don't know, I don't really care.
Like, like, I just don't care about guys.
You guys don't, you guys aren't really here for me.
So, what do you mean by that?
Like, I don't really need to the microphone.
So sorry.
I don't really need a guy to, like, I don't need a guy in my life.
It's fun if I have one, but if I'm not going to try and make you guys better, you guys can do that on yourselves.
Like, does that make sense?
I don't know.
It's kind of like what Cher said, if that makes any sense.
It's like, I love men.
Like, I think men are the coolest, but do, like, I don't need them to survive.
Yeah.
Like, I love men.
I have to come in on this.
If you, okay, this is, you do actually need men to survive.
And here's why.
Everything that you see around you was built and created and maintained by men.
Everything.
The infrastructure in this country, in every single country in the world, is built, created, and maintained by good, honest, hardworking men that just want to provide for their family.
Okay.
Everything.
The roads you drive on, the buildings you live in, the restaurant, everything.
The dirty work.
If all men were to disappear, it would be chaos.
That would be legally interesting.
Yeah, no, I don't think that all men should die.
I don't think that women are better than men.
I don't think that any of that.
I think men are great.
It's just I don't have to fight for your guys' struggles.
Well, you know what I mean?
Lulu means too is like, I mean, in this present day and age, like, does she need a husband or boyfriend?
Like, I don't need a man to be happy.
Yeah.
Like, I don't need a man to be a job.
I have a comment about that, and I'm just playing devil's advocate.
It's a preface.
Yeah.
You said you don't have to fight for them, right?
Yeah.
But isn't that what feminism is about?
Wouldn't you want us pioneering for you guys and on your issues?
I mean, yeah, but you guys have had the upper hand for so many years that now erroneous.
Erroneous.
I mean, you have, like, we couldn't vote 100 years ago.
And about, sorry, I don't give or take 20 years.
It was about 100.
Yeah, it was 100%.
But like it was 1920.
But like.
1920.
I can tell you why that is.
I don't.
Why?
Should we pull up the info?
I don't know if I want to pull up the infographic.
But okay, so it's just, it's like.
So just on the voting thing really quick.
So voting being widely available to the vast majority of the population, whether it be men and men or women or both, is a very new thing within the past 200, 300 years.
Before that, you basically had tyrants and kings that controlled everything.
Yeah.
So both men and women throughout the vast majority of history had no voting rights.
There was a period from about, I want to say, starting in about 16, 1700s up until the early 1900s where men had a slight advantage, and that's because of warfare.
So the way men got the right to vote before women is men, and still to this day this is the case, men are subject to military conscription.
They're subject to the draft.
So if there's a war, men are forced to go and die and be in the trenches and get fucking chemicals.
Women can get drafted.
Women cannot get drafted.
Yeah, they can.
You think women can get drafted?
I don't know, honestly.
I like things.
I think, I don't know.
Women were not drafted in Vietnam.
I know.
Okay, but the thing is, too, it's like the voting thing.
I mean, I feel like, I agree with you.
I think it was just like something you brought up.
Like, also, like, 250 years ago, like, if we got married, we're not our own person.
We belong to our fathers or our husbands.
Our kids belong to our fathers or our husbands or our husbands, I guess.
And then, like, all our money, well, we don't have money because we're not allowed to work.
It's like, and we can't do anything about that because at the time, like, we couldn't vote to change those laws.
So, I think it's yeah, like my dad taught me to always be self-reliant and to never rely on anyone, and that's what I'm gonna do.
And so, since I am relying on myself, I'm not gonna worry about what you guys are doing.
Okay.
Fair.
All right.
We won't go too far down the rabbit hole on that one.
I forgot kind of where we were.
What was the question?
What was the question again?
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So, do you want to give your reaction to the Bill Maher clip?
I mean, after that debate, I kind of forgot what the Bill Maher clip was.
It was just pretty much, I mean, I don't think masculinity is really like completely gone.
I mean, some, but it's like depleting.
Is that what he was?
Yeah.
Well, I think men can be feminine.
I think men can have the right to be feminine.
Just like, you know, like Harry Styles, he wore a dress on the cover of what was it?
Was it Vogue?
I think that's perfectly fine.
Like, men can do what they want.
Did a guy who wears a dress?
I would.
Honestly, I absolutely would.
Yeah, like, if they wore a dress on, like, like, say, like, a magazine cover.
Stop thinking about that.
You're like, ordinary guy.
Ordinary guy.
Yeah, you're talking about the guy with status.
So.
The guy with status.
Well, if he's on the magazine cover, he must have some degree of status.
And if he just wore a dress, you're going to DP with him, your boyfriend, and he's wearing Del Playa.
He's wearing a dress.
You're okay with that.
Well, the kind of guys that I go for have really a really huge sense of humor.
So I think he would definitely wear a dress to be like on a regular.
Well, like not as a joke, though.
Like, he's just like, yeah, I want to wear a dress just because he wants to.
Not as like a gag or like a, oh, look at me.
I'm funny.
Just I want to wear a dress.
Then I'd wear his clothes.
If he wore my clothes, I'd wear his clothes.
I think it'd be funny.
If it's not a gag, but like, I mean, I don't want to like hate on someone for like dressing feminine.
But I mean, I don't think masculinity is like completely depleting like a thousand percent.
I think men just are deciding to be who they want to be.
And I think that's fine.
I think that's a really good choice.
They should be able to be who they want to be.
And if that means wearing a dress, then so be it.
Go for it.
Blair, would you wear a dress?
I think you would rock a body con.
Yeah, I was just about to say that.
I don't know what that is.
Can you explain?
Like a tight-fitted dress.
Yeah.
Well, usually short, I would say, right?
The closest thing I've worn to a dress is a wrestling singlet.
Oh, love.
That's like the uniform you wear in wrestling.
It's like a little like jumpsuit thing.
Love the vibes.
Did you wrestle at wait, Sam Marcus?
DP.
Wrestled all four years.
Oh, shit.
Varsity?
Yes.
Bam.
Was uh coach Anthony?
Yes.
That's his name?
Yeah.
That's what I'm saying.
I don't know if he's a single person.
I don't know if I like less than that.
But yeah, no, no.
I wrestled at San Marcus.
Oh, well, okay.
Yeah, I wrestled in high school.
I'll just say that.
Okay.
I don't know where I'm going with that.
Okay.
Final questions for you guys.
Has a blue check mark ever sent you, like a guy with a blue check mark, has he ever DM'd you?
Yeah, but it was on accident.
It was on accident.
Yeah, kind of.
Okay.
I got a follow on TikTok and he sent me some emojis and said, definitely didn't mean to send that.
Haha.
I want to add one question.
You didn't mean to send that.
Yeah.
I don't know.
I want to add one question to this.
On a either day-to-day or week-to-week basis, how many Instagram DMs would you guys say you get from guys?
Instagram, not so much.
I don't have a huge following on there.
I mean, I get along matches on Hinge.
So, I don't know.
A decent amount.
I don't know, like twice a week.
I mean, I get a good amount on Instagram.
You'll get a lot more tonight, too, after this.
I can tell.
Someone's already asking if they can wear my bra on their face.
Okay.
Mike Davis is back.
Entertain me has really been going on for it.
Kara.
Is it Kara or Kara?
I think both is what.
You know what's funny?
I actually dated a woman and I fucked it.
Like, whoa.
I fucked.
I messed it up.
Her name was, it's K-A-R-A.
My name is K-R-A-2.
Well, it wasn't you.
Okay, okay.
I know.
I know.
We know, we know.
But, no, I was dating this girl named Kara.
Kara, I can't even remember it to this day.
And, like, it was our second date, and I asked her for clarification.
I was like, hey, just tell me again how you pronounce it.
I didn't get her name wrong.
I didn't, like, call her Gertrude.
I knew the spelling of her name.
I was just like, what's the pronunciation?
And that was a deal breaker for her.
Sometimes they can get real angry about it.
No, she was like, hey, I'm not.
Like, it just ruined the night.
And then we never, she was like, yeah, you forgot my name, basically.
I was like, I told her.
I was like, well, I didn't call you Bertha.
Bertha.
I called you.
Like, I know what it is.
I was just asking for clarification on the pronunciation.
But yeah.
It's tough out there, guys.
Okay.
So, blue check mark in your DMs.
You just ignored me.
What?
No, no, I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
Yeah.
Go ahead, go ahead.
You mean like how many DMs I receive in my Instagram?
Yeah, like on a day-to-day basis, week-to-week basis.
Probably like seven more ten per day.
That's a lot.
That's a lot.
And it's like guys that it's apparent that they have a romantic interest.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'm curious.
So you have a boyfriend.
You guys have been dating for a year, a year and a half?
No, no, we've just been dating for like four or five months.
Okay, at what point on your Instagram are you going to be posting?
Are you going to post your boyfriend on there?
I actually post my boyfriend before.
Oh, really?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
And but we kind of like had, like, he is totally okay with like my, he's like, oh, it's your account, it's your page.
You can do whatever you want.
I'm not going to force you to post me anyway.
Yeah.
But I think, I don't know, like for a healthy relationship.
No, not healthy, but like I just don't want him to worry or anything.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
Just gave him enough like security.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
Any blue DMs ever, blue check marks in your DMs?
Yeah, once, but it was like not anyone actually famous.
It was like some rando and like Kanye's DM or Kanye's comments.
You know, this random ass account.
It's like, how the fuck do you have a blue check mark?
But yeah, I mean, I didn't respond.
He was kind of weird.
Okay.
Blair, I mean, any dudes?
No, dude.
Any dudes with blue check marks?
Well, not that are hollering at your DMs.
But I've got you in there, and then I've got one of my mentors has a blue check.
We talk here and there, you know.
Good times, good times.
Yeah.
Yeah, I don't think I've ever gotten no influencer girls in my DMs, nothing like that.
Same here.
Same here.
Actually, there might have been.
No, there was one.
Wait.
I don't think so, actually.
Anyways, let's see.
Super chats, guys, and then we're going to wrap up.
Wait.
Hold on.
Did we get this one, guys?
Yeah, we got that.
Okay.
Yeah.
We got that one.
We'll let.
Do you want to answer this one?
Sure.
I'm not toxic.
I just, I'm sorry that I don't think that men's men being feminine is a suffrage movement for them right now, and that it's one I'm going to care about.
Okay.
Evil Matt with the, I still don't know what currency this is.
Anyone in the chat?
Oh, he said it was from Poland.
Oh, Poland, of course.
Yeah, so I think he said it's like five bucks or something.
Jindobra.
Okay.
Yo, what's up with Andrea, by the way?
By the way, it's got to be, I don't know if I Andrea, I mean, I'm not going to talk about that.
And I don't think I'll ever talk about what went on with Andrea.
Okay.
Anyone curious, that's a girl I used to work with.
She was in some of the videos.
Mike Davis, nothing terrible, just, you know, we haven't.
Classic Mike.
Blondie just had a feminist study class and is in her feelings, but is going to cringe in a few years when this is replayed.
Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.
Do you have a response to Mr. Mike Davis?
Yeah, I have actually never taken a feminist class.
I'm probably not.
I probably would have said this five years ago.
I'm saying it now.
I did see one chat, though, that was like her brain shut off during the video.
It did.
What I said is what I heard in my mind.
So what I responded.
What I responded to the video.
That was how I interpreted the video.
But honestly, I've selective hearing.
Yeah, I wasn't listening to it that much.
Whoa.
Did you hear that scream?
Anyways, I'm pretty sure that's it.
I know some of you skipped over the last thoughts.
Anyone want to come in real quick?
Can I just say a comment?
Sure, go for it.
I just want to thank everyone in the chat for complimenting my tattoos.
That's really nice of you guys.
Thanks.
Someone's asking me to do that.
Not doing a feature, though.
Dude, XXX is like the biggest troll.
I wonder if that's a good idea.
There was a guy like Matt who was trolling me big time.
It was really funny, actually.
He's probably sitting on three phone books.
Oh, yeah, we can wrap up just reading a couple of the chats.
Elite Street says, Kara, the type to peg you without asking.
Wait, what does it mean for a peg?
I'm sorry.
Pegging.
Tasha, can you explain to her what pegging is?
It's when you put, it's when you fuck a man.
It's when you put a dick on and you like have sex.
It could be a little plug.
So wait, classic harness.
And there's a dick attached to it.
Peggy Joy, though.
And so instead of him fucking you, you return that favor.
Okay.
Lulu.
I mean, I'll be there too.
Oh, Pearl, I'll be at Trader Joe's tomorrow.
I won't be there, but he'll be there.
Seriously, I definitely gonna.
No, I was about to go to like Trader Joe's with my friends.
Come through.
Say hi to Blair.
Come through.
I have to brain on SpongeBob.
Kevin, that's on fire.
That's funny.
I love the chat.
The chat is.
Yeah, chat's dope.
Love the chat.
in the what what is it in in do you speak mandarin or cantonese I speak Mandarin.
Yeah.
Yeah.
How would you say I want to peg someone?
Oh, no.
How would you say that in Mandarin?
Can you translate for us?
The chat's been asking.
No, no.
Okay, that's fine.
That's fine.
Okay, so, oh, we got a big super chat from our homie.
Hold on.
Has it come through yet?
Not yet.
Glebbis, we'll get right to it.
Hey, yeah, chat.
Thank you guys for being so awesome.
Really appreciate it.
You guys are always hilarious.
Always good to see you.
Especially always good to see people coming back and returning.
I've started to notice all the regulars, you know.
Well, I've been noticing the regulars, but yeah.
Is this super chat in yet?
Or no, not quite yet.
Okay.
Still waiting for it?
Still waiting for it.
Sorry, guys.
Yeah, we're going to wrap up.
Sorry, guys.
I've got a quick one.
Go ahead.
For the women.
Would you rather date a male stripper/slash dancer or a male OnlyFans model?
The male stripper is giving lap dances the whole nine, and then the OnlyFans guy has got his like dong out, his butt cheeks on their feet.
None.
What would you rather do?
Why would I have to chose, have to chose doing?
I'm just curious.
What would you choose?
I'd choose a stripper.
I want to lap dance.
I'd choose an OnlyFans.
I wouldn't want him.
But he's giving lap dances to other girls in Vegas.
That's why.
Good for them.
I'd do either or, honestly.
You gotta pick one.
You gotta pick one.
Who are you dating?
Okay, wait.
Is there like any other roles?
No, yeah.
He gives lap dances to other people.
Other girls.
Okay, that's it.
He's like in Vegas type shit.
Well, he's getting that bag.
Yeah, well, yeah.
Like, think about it.
Like, would you rather him like lap dance with the girl knows what his dick looks like?
The OnlyFans guy's getting the bag, too.
Ooh.
So, I mean, let's say they're getting paid the same amount of money.
It doesn't really, I think, oh, shit.
I don't know.
Because, like, it would be also the same, like, say, if, like, you know, if it was me, like, either a stripper or an OnlyFans, I mean, I'd probably go for, you know, I'd go for the stripper.
I don't know.
Maybe, yeah, I'd go for the stripper.
Because what if I actually walked in on him doing his OnlyFans thing?
I'd be like, oh, I am so sorry that you are just showing your dick to 3 million people right now.
I apologize.
Probably the stripper.
Okay.
I'm going to just, we'll wrap up here.
Glebis, thank you for the big $20 super chat, man.
Much appreciated.
Best panel yet.
Definitely a really cool panel.
Great panel.
Yeah, guys.
So I want to thank all the viewers for tuning in tonight.
Much appreciated.
You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.
I appreciate that.
We will be live again Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
And then actually this weekend, I'm finally doing another interview.
I believe that's going to be live Sunday at 3 p.m.
So next dating talk Thursday at 7 p.m.
And then I'll be doing an interview, I believe, 3 or 4 p.m.
So yeah, thank you guys so much for tuning in.
Thank you to the wonderful panel for being awesome.