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Dec. 14, 2023 - The Tucker Carlson Show
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Tucker Carlson - You can ask us anything, although you won’t always like the answer. Welcome to the first episode of Ask Tucker.
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tucker carlson
You can ask any question at all without fear of shame or public disclosure and we will give you the most honest possible answer.
I got drunk at a wedding recently and argued with the father of the bride about Trump.
He's a raging liberal and was being loud and obnoxious.
My wife says I have to apologize to the whole family.
Should I? Well, no and yes.
No, you should not apologize to the whole family.
You didn't argue with the whole family.
You argued with the drunk, obnoxious liberal.
Who is the father of the bride?
And yes, you should apologize to him.
There are three things to know about apologies.
The first is that if you're going to do it, you have to go all the way.
This was the advice my father gave me when I was a kid.
He's like, it's like pregnancy.
Maybe you want to enter into it, maybe you don't.
But once you do, you're all in.
There's nothing more pointless or counterproductive than a half-hearted apology.
If you're going to apologize, go all the way.
The second thing to know about an apology is that It frees you.
If there's any question about whether you did something wrong, just admit it.
Why do you care?
You don't care.
Because you know exactly who you are.
You're not insecure.
Why do you care what this guy thinks of you?
You shouldn't.
His opinion is not worth anything.
So to apologize to him frees you from any obligation to him.
Or any thought about him, or any worry about him, and it does the third thing, which is why it's a good idea, it establishes you as the boss.
It is the ultimate power move to look him straight in the face and say, you know, I'm sorry I got drunk, and I didn't mean to argue with you, and it was a wedding, and I'm sorry that I did.
And he's thinking to himself, there's obviously some sort of backhanded attack here.
He doesn't really mean that.
You stare straight into his face and say, I'm really sorry about that.
I hope you'll forgive me for doing that.
Who's dad in that scenario?
Who's the boss?
Is it him?
No.
It's you.
Because you're the one who rose above it.
You care so little about his opinion that it doesn't bother you even for a second to say you're sorry.
Because it's not that meaningful.
I'm sorry.
And mean it.
Don't smirk.
Don't be sarcastic.
You win when you do that.
Because, by the way, why were you arguing with this guy in the first place?
Do you have nothing else to do?
At a wedding?
You could be dancing.
You could be wooing your wife.
Talking to people, normal people, not angry MSNBC viewers, and yet you, because you have no self-control or anything better to do, your schedule is not packed enough, you wound up arguing with some douchebag about Trump?
You're not plowing new ground there, arguing about Trump?
What is it, 2017?
Please.
You're not going to win that argument, win the argument, convince him of anything?
Of course, he watches MSNBC! He hates you because you exist.
Don't engage with him.
You're right.
unidentified
Trump's a genocidal maniac fascist Nazi.
tucker carlson
All right.
You're great.
And go on and have fun.
If you want to win, in other words, if when all of this is over, you want to be in the top spot, maybe not financially, but spiritually, enjoy yourself.
Don't get caught up in the traps before you like.
Assholes like that.
So of course you apologize.
Plus, your wife will take the same message.
You're a bigger man.
That's true.
You should do that.
You lose nothing.
All right.
Second question.
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