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March 21, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
06:20
Why Would a Rich Guy Date Younger Women?
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Other questions, comments, issues?
Happy to hear.
Yes. The incessant and vaguely interesting debate, and again, freedoman.com to help out the show.
The incessant and only vaguely interesting women in their 30s calling men who want to date younger women creepy and half pedophiles and all of this kind of stuff, right?
The incessant and only vaguely interesting women in the world.
That is straight up.
Absolutely straight-up intersexual competition.
That's all it is.
Because, of course, when those women were younger, they generally didn't mind going out with an older guy, especially if you would pay for stuff, because then they'd get to post on social media, right?
Social media is demonic in that way, in that it fuels the sin of pride and vanity to staggering levels not seen since the Garden of Eden.
And...
So when women are younger, they don't mind dating an older guy with money.
But then when those women get older and they want access to the high-quality men, but the high-quality men want younger women, then they're like, oh, that's gross.
You're half a pedophile.
Why would you at the age of 35 want to date a 22-year-old woman?
I find that such a bizarre question.
Such a bizarre question.
Dating is about having children.
I don't mean to shock everyone, but the reason we have hyper-compatible naughty bits is because rubbing them together makes children.
It is the fire that brings the spark of life to human consciousness.
So that which serves fertility and serves the raising of children is the good.
And so a man who's older, who has resources, he has an excess of resources, and a younger woman who has an excess of fertility...
Are a good match.
But all the women who've been taught the lie that love and romance, it's about soulmate and my person and compatibility and having your best friend around and having someone to travel with and someone to confide in, that's crap.
It's gay crap, honestly.
I mean, it's ridiculous.
The purpose of love, romance and sex is the having and raising of children and nothing else.
Nothing else.
Nothing else.
That's why we have it.
And that's why we have the oxytocin and the dopamine and the bonding chemicals and that's why sex and orgasm feel so good and we tend to bond with those.
If we're remotely healthy, we tend to bond with those we have sex with.
That's all for the having and raising of children.
That's what it's all about.
Because if we don't have them raise children, we have nothing.
We have nothing.
We don't even exist.
So, an older man with resources dating a younger woman who's fertile and also, of course, has more of a capacity to pair bond, right?
She has more of a capacity to pair bond if she's not had a whole bunch of different sexual partners.
Also, she doesn't have the genetic infusion from other men's semen.
She doesn't have an STD.
Probably she hasn't gone through an abortion.
Like, it's just better, right?
I hate to use this analogy, but it's sort of like, why is it that wealthy guys don't buy cars that have had five previous owners?
I guess you can afford a new car.
I mean, I don't know why this is so complicated.
I don't know why this is so complicated.
I mean, I get why that they want...
Well, I'm just going to shame you into dating me.
Oh, it's so strange to me.
Why is it that wealthy guys would not buy lower quality used goods?
Why? This makes...
I mean, why would that make...
Why would that even be a question?
Why would wealthy guys want young, unspoiled, pair-bonded, hyper-fertile women who have youth, beauty, fertility, and the capacity to openly love, who haven't had their hearts broken a bunch of times, who haven't been run through more times than a fencing dummy?
Like, why?
Well, of course!
That's why men work!
That's why men work.
We work to afford.
We work and save.
In order to demonstrate our value to fertile women.
And the more fertile the women, the better.
We are displaying our resources in return for access to fertile women.
That's what we do.
That's how we roll.
That's why we have upper body strength and disability to hyper-focus and this crazy work ethic that men have and all of that.
We're doing it to show excess resources to fertile women.
And the more fertile the women, the more valuable resources are.
Because also, if a man wants a couple of more than...
One or two kids.
A woman who's in her mid-late 30s is very unlikely to provide him more than one or two kids and even that's going to be a dice roll and that might be 15 grand worth of IVF and things like that too.
So we want a young fertile woman just in case we want four or five or six children.
It's not complicated.
It's not complicated.
It's just you have to work really hard to not understand this stuff as a whole.
Like, the women who want, like, they're single moms, and they want a successful man to marry them.
I'm sorry.
I mean, it's tragic.
I get all of that.
But, you know, women have said that they want to be equal to men, so I'm going to give them moral agency equal to men.
Right? Because that's what they want, equality.
So I'm going to do that.
So I'm going to do that.
So, yeah, why would a man...
Work super hard to gain excess resources to pour them into, most likely, a lower quality man's child.
Because this is a man who didn't stick around.
I'm not talking about a widow.
A widow is different from a single mother.
A single mother is a woman who has a choice over who she has children with.
She has children with a guy.
Either he's a bad guy who leaves or he's a decent guy that she drives away.
Why would a man work super hard?
In order to pour his resources into another man's child.
That's like a woman getting a second job so their husband can have a nice hotel room to meet with his mistress.
I don't understand this.
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