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Why Women Go Clubbing
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| I had a friend I knew since high, I think you mean school, who dumped something like 30,000 to 50,000 Canadian on his trollop of a girlfriend who went clubbing without him. | |
| He paid for her Uber rides, dinners, drove 100 kilometers to see her. | |
| He never worked a real job and was spending his dad's money on her for the most part, mid-twenties. | |
| I got away from him. | |
| Yeah. | |
| Yes, very sad. | |
| Very sad. | |
| It's funny because there is this conversation. | |
| Now, I obviously don't want to take the Whatever podcast to be generally representative of modern women, although I know there are some people who do think that it is, and I'm half and half. | |
| I think the podcast is very interesting, and they're good debaters. | |
| The men are good debaters, and they have very succinct and brilliant things to say, so there's that. | |
| I think, of course, bringing on sex workers with no particular experience in intellectual conversations is a little bit of a clay pigeon shoot when the clay pigeons are stapled to the end of your gun. | |
| But there is this debate that goes on on the Whatever podcast, which is, is it acceptable if a woman is in a relationship, like she's a girlfriend, is it acceptable for her to go to bars and clubs, you know, dressed up, sexy, on her own, right? | |
| It's a big... | |
| It's a big question. | |
| I've never faced that because generally, I don't know how to praise myself, but generally the fact is that when I was dating women, they'd want to spend time with me. | |
| Now, if we went to a club, we would go to a club. | |
| I started to go to clubs when I was like 15 or 16 years of age to even like 19 plus nightclubs. | |
| I learned how to dance and how to be cool. | |
| And I remember my social cachet went up quite a bit in high school when I'd be going to clubs for like six months. | |
| And a bunch of kids from, the cool kids from high school showed up at the club and I was out there dancing with girls and chatting with people and all that. | |
| And my social cachet just kind of went through the roof. | |
| I remember that quite clearly. | |
| They were all kind of amazed to be there. | |
| And I was like, hey, how you doing? | |
| So, daddy, daddy cool, Joe smooth, chick magnet. | |
| So, yeah, this sort of question, well, girls go to clubs. | |
| And of course, the girls all say the same thing. | |
| It's kind of like an NPC thing, which is like, well, if you don't want me to go to clubs, You're just insecure, right? | |
| But of course, it's not just a matter of insecurity. | |
| It's that if you want to be in a monogamous relationship, then you have to get your attractiveness and sexual validation from your partner. | |
| I mean, my wife and I are constantly telling each other how much we are attracted to each other, how great we look, and all of that. | |
| And so you've got to get your, you know, your eat at home, so to speak, right? | |
| So the idea that a woman would go out to clubs, Because she wants other guys to desire her. | |
| That's generally what's going on. | |
| So it's not just a matter of insecurity. | |
| It's, well, clearly you want validation from other men, which goes against your monogamy. | |
| It goes against monogamy. | |
| It's just not a matter of trust. | |
| And so the general argument is that when a girl goes to a club and she's dressed sexy and puts her makeup, does her hair and so on, she's putting on a mating display and she's around a whole bunch of men. | |
| Who will mate with her like that, right? | |
| I mean, if an attractive woman at a nightclub goes to a guy and says, let's go have sex, the majority of guys will say, yep, yep, on it, right? | |
| So it would be like if a guy went out with an ex-girlfriend who was desperate to have sex with him and be in a relationship with him again, she would have a problem with that. | |
| She should. | |
| And she would say, well, because that woman wants you. | |
| She wants to get back together with you. | |
| She'll do anything to get in your pants. | |
| It's like, well, that's guys in clubs. | |