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What Men Want From Women
00:04:15
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| So, I find Kevin Samuels, again, he's a late great YouTuber. | |
| He was constantly asking women. | |
| Women would say, I want a high-value man. | |
| A high-value man, right? | |
| A man in the top 5% or 7% of income. | |
| And he would say, what do the high-value men want? | |
| Right? | |
| High-value man can pick from 20 women who all want him, right? | |
| Particularly if they're older. | |
| If it's all the patriarchal beauty standard, okay, that's fine. | |
| So then he asked women, hundreds or thousands of times, he asked women who want the high-value men, what do the high-value men want? | |
| And the women had no idea. | |
| The women had no idea. | |
| So if you were running a magazine for women who wanted to settle down or whatever, then your articles... | |
| Would not be about selling makeup, but it would be about, I mean, that would obviously be part of that to some degree, but the articles would be about, we've done a survey, here's what the men that women want, want from women. | |
| You follow me? | |
| Here's an article. | |
| We've done our research. | |
| Here's what the men that women want, want from women. | |
| Do they want aggressive boss babes who make that? | |
| I really hate that face up. | |
| You know, that riot girl face, that tank girl face. | |
| You know, I don't even know. | |
| You know, just sort of the growl face or whatever it is. | |
| You know, men don't want that. | |
| I mean, there's a big debate on Twitter about somebody saying that a man would want sort of a calm, polite, even shy woman over an aggressive boss girl, a hyper-aggressive or hyper-assertive career woman. | |
| Why? | |
| Why would you want that? | |
| I mean, if you don't want kids, that's fine. | |
| But the people who don't want kids are not generally part of social discourse because they have no long-term investment in the future. | |
| So they're kind of hedonists, right? | |
| And people who don't want kids are people who can't have kids. | |
| People who don't want kids, they're just not really part of the social discourse as a whole. | |
| So, as far as... | |
| I would believe all of this stuff about patriarchy beauty standards if women... | |
| We're very curious about what men actually wanted. | |
| Now, if women were just like, do you want me to get pillow lips? | |
| Do you want me to get buckle fat removal? | |
| Do you want me to get a boob job? | |
| Do you want me to get a Brazilian butt lift? | |
| Do you want me to get crazy hair weaves and extensions or whatever it is, right? | |
| Do you want excessive makeup? | |
| Do you want that dead-eyed? | |
| Smokey-eyed robot face thing, right? | |
| And what do men want? | |
| Well, I would believe that women were following patriarchal beauty standards if, A, men had power much in society, and, B, if women were constantly asking men what they want. | |
| Let me ask you guys who are here, right? | |
| I'd respond to these questions Can you not do that? | |
| Yeah. | |
| So, have you ever... | |
| Had a woman ask you what you like to see? | |
| What do you want to see? | |
| How do you like me to dress? | |
| What kind of shoes do you want me to wear? | |
| How much makeup do you want me to wear? | |
| Do you want me to dye or streak my hair? | |
| Do you want me to get Botox? | |
| Have you ever had a woman who you have some sort of relationship with, probably either explicitly romantic or somewhat romantic or potentially romantic, more than just sister friend zone, have you ever had a woman ask you, How you want her to look. | |
| Someone says, oh, James says, I never had anyone ask me that. | |
| I haven't dated anyone that went to those extremes, though. | |
| No, no, I mean, so you've never dated a woman who uses a lot of makeup? | |
| Yeah. | |
| But never had anyone ask how they wanted her to look either. | |
| No, no, no. | |
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Women Never Asked
00:00:50
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| Right. | |
| So is it a patriarchal beauty standard if women aren't asking men what they want? | |
| No. | |
| So then, who is it for if women aren't asking men what they want? | |
| And the other thing, too, is that you could argue that there was more of a patriarchy when women needed male resources in order to survive, but now that women can get mostly male tax money through the redistributive welfare state, various kinds of welfare, I mean, all of the transfers of goods and services from men. | |
| Two women, they don't need men for that, so they're liberated from that. | |
| So just to switch gears for a sec, and the other thing too, you know, if you're in a relationship with a woman, ask her, how does she want you to look? | |