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Jan. 21, 2018 - Roosh V - Daryush Valizadeh

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Roosh Live #5

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	All right, welcome to Ruch Live number five.
	I am your host, Roosh, and my co-host is Arnold, the real life pug.
	So the way this works is you call in and ask me things, and I give the best answers that I possibly can.
	Just one thing, from the last live stream we did, some of the callers, they were rambling a lot.
	A lot of ramble.
	I mean, and people in the live chat were like, hang up on him.
	Hang up on him.
	He's boring.
	So let's try to keep that ramble type.
	Okay, just get to your main point and we'll work from there.
	Also, if you are on hold and you think that your question is very good, email live at ruchev.com and let me know what your question is and also the last three digits of your phone number.
	Full details are in the YouTube description box.
	All right, let me check my live chat, make sure they are there.
	Okay, Arnold says hi back.
	So why don't we dive in to our first caller?
	All right, this looks like a foreign number.
	Hello, caller.
	You are now live.
	Hello.
	Hello, hello.
	Can you hear me, Rouge?
	Yes, I can.
	Rouge, I have a question.
	I'm a black guy from Paris.
	Okay.
	And my question is, when I go into the clubs, or 90% of the women I meet in Eastern Europe or all parts of Europe, they hook up with me having expectations of having a, you know, a big date and that sort of thing.
	And then, you know, when we get to the bedroom, you know, it's, I have an average size pianist.
	You see what I mean?
	So I always feel, should I tell them?
	Because, you know, like 80% of the women who hook up with a black guy in a club is because of a certain thing.
	You see what I mean?
	And then when it doesn't follow up, then I'm like, although I like the fact that I get made pretty easily from a club because of that factor, but then I feel like it's false advertisement.
	You see what I mean?
	So what kind of size issue are you actually having?
	Like, what is your size?
	Oh, well, I think it's about six inches something.
	I mean, that's pretty, that's like an average size.
	Are girls expecting like a porn size nine inch cock or something?
	Exactly.
	I don't see that from them before.
	I mean, has a girl that you brought back home, has she looked at it and given a disappointed face?
	I mean, like, how do you know that they even actually care?
	No, actually, I'm pretty good in that, so that compensates majorly.
	But what happens is a lot of the time, I mean, some girls, especially, you know, girls who haven't been with a black guy ever in their life, have this expectation.
	And that's probably why they're hooking up with you in the first place.
	So they tell me it's just like, oh, it's nothing as people, it's a cliche.
	That's nothing.
	So a girl actually to your face is telling you that the stereotype of black men being big is a cliche, is not real.
	They're telling you that, hey, you have smaller than I thought.
	A girl is doing this?
	Yeah, and I think sometimes, I think sometimes even like they try to imply, because every girl, I've had that many times in many cities.
	They'll come to your house and I think they get offended if they get the idea that you might have a big dick or something.
	And they constantly come up with this where they say, I've been with guys with bigger dicks.
	What do you think?
	And stuff like that.
	You sound like they're confrontational because I think girls have this thing in their mind where they can take a big date, it's like an accomplishment.
	Okay, listen.
	I mean, if a girl doesn't enjoy you, or if a girl is insulting you in some way, you point to the door and tell her to get out.
	Now, if you're at her place, it's even easier.
	All you have to do is put on your shoes and your pants and leave.
	I mean, why would you accept it when a woman is treating you in that way?
	Because you don't obviously have a serious handicap.
	And I mean, your idea to say to the girl, Hey, I have a smaller size penis for a black man than you may expect is weak.
	That is, I mean, how weak is that, man?
	You know, no, I think I didn't get myself across pretty clearly.
	What happens is, uh, it's not a fact that my problem isn't once I bang the girl.
	My problem isn't that you know, I'm showing her the door and I'm not seeing her again because I don't see anyone more than once anywhere.
	Like, that's not my lifestyle.
	But my whole problem is, I feel when I meet a girl at a nightclub, I feel that like it's also the fact with hip-hop.
	I don't have a hip-hop persona, but then when you meet these girls in a nightclub, they expect you to have that, right?
	But hip-hop is pretty operating because I'm not like in a club, she knows that I'm not a hip-hop person.
	But then the other thing, she doesn't know until we get to the bedroom.
	You see what I mean?
	So, my point isn't like once she's disappointed or she's not disappointed because I'm not seeing them more than once anywhere.
	But I just feel like a kid, if you know what I mean.
	You know, I feel like I know this girl and I'm playing along because I'm not really telling her anything, but I'm this girl and I know what she's doing.
	It sounds to me that during the interaction you have with these club club hoes, which they are hoes, you know, you are so worried about their expectation of you.
	What expectations do you have of them?
	Why don't you have hoops that they have to jump through instead of being so concerned on making sure that if your penis size is good enough?
	Why do you even care, especially if these are girls that you're only going to see only once?
	Who cares?
	No, I don't, but that was my question, actually.
	So, yeah, so really, what's wrong, okay, what's wrong is your mental frame, the way you are approaching it.
	You are looking inward onto yourself onto a potential flaw that a girl may think that you have instead of looking at their flaws, which any girl you're going to meet in a nightclub has numerous, numerous flaws.
	So, why don't you focus on them, qualify them, instead of qualifying yourself?
	Because there's nothing wrong with having a six-inch penis.
	I mean, that's a fine size, I guess.
	I don't know.
	But I wouldn't worry about it, you know.
	But you understand, there's nothing wrong with having a six-inch penis, but maybe there's something wrong when the spending is.
	I mean, unless it's really thin with you, is it thin like a pencil?
	No, no, it's actually the opposite.
	I'm quite good at it, but you know, don't worry about it.
	Yeah, I mean, I mean, I'm not worried about it, but you understand, like, let's say, who's you, your profile, you know, a girl, a guy, exotic, Middle Eastern, like Italian, South European kind of flow.
	You go into your club, you talk to a girl, she's not sleeping with you for a specific reason, other than that, she might be more an exotic guy.
	But then, black guys, it's most of the time, girls are sleeping with you for a specific reason, and you'd admit that, right?
	It's not far off.
	Okay, look, the only expectation a girl has of me when she sees me is that I'm going to be hairy, I'm going to be hairy everywhere, and I meet that expectation totally.
	So, really, that's it.
	So, I pass all flying colors as a Middle Eastern background man, you know.
	So, I don't have to worry.
	And if a girl doesn't like my body, my penis size, she can leave.
	Who, you know, I don't care.
	So, don't worry about it.
	All right.
	So, just keep on going.
	You know, make allow the girls to love what you what you have or tell them to hit the bricks and find another dude.
	Okay, all right, fair enough.
	I have one other question.
	Go ahead.
	So, the other thing is that I'm in my 30s now, you know, and I'm not well settled financially.
	So, I don't have 100 grand or I don't have investments in crypto like most of the people.
	And at the same time, I'm kind of feeling maybe these are my last games in 2010 in Poland and these other countries.
	And I feel I haven't done that enough.
	So, I'm like, do I give up on money-making opportunities now to go and travel?
	Okay, how old are you guys in your what 30s?
	I'm 34.
	Yeah, 34.
	I mean, you're still young.
	You're still young.
	Do you should you give up on money-making opportunities at 34 to chase the ever-closing window of potential easy women in foreign countries?
	No, you shouldn't.
	You should make sure that will it be still there for me.
	Will it be still there for me?
	Well, it's kind of already, honestly, it's kind of already gone.
	There's a lot of guys that are chasing this window now.
	Like, I got to get to Belarus today because it's closing.
	The window is closing.
	The Turks are coming.
	But, man, I mean, you know, anyway, you're going to need money anyway to go there.
	So, I always advocate your money is actually more important than game, unless you're in a university where there's girls everywhere who don't care how much you make and just care that you're like a six-pack Chad.
	If you're 34, girls are going to expect a level of comfort, your own apartment, and things such as that.
	So, I do not advocate quitting all money-making opportunities at 34 to chase the closing window of Eastern European pussy paradise.
	So, work on that at least a few hours every day.
	Do some internet thing.
	But no, I don't think that you should quit it.
	They do actually, yeah, when I go out on dates, women are expecting me to have a certain amount of money.
	But the thing is, what I've noticed in my life is that my late teens, my 20s, all throughout my 20s, I've done extremely well with Western women.
	And because I've always done well being broke, I wasn't ever motivated to go out there and make money.
	You see what I mean?
	And now that I'm in my 20s, it's just hit me.
	And I'm like, if I don't make money now, then where do I stand?
	But at the same time, I feel that all these guys are posting all these data sheets on the forum where they're being to this amazing place and having this amazing experience.
	And I'm like, if I'm putting those, don't make money.
	No, no, it's like all the people who post their exciting selfies on Facebook and Instagram, trying to make you think how their life is so exciting, but they're only showing you the good, good parts.
	The guys online are telling you, yeah, I'm banging these girls in this foreign country, but he's not really explaining how much of a grind it is.
	You know, so don't get sold onto only the good parts that anyone is presenting to you.
	Okay, there's always a bad part too.
	Fair enough, okay, man.
	Okay, sure thing, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Cheers.
	Bye.
	So at first, I thought that was like a troll caller, but I don't think it was.
	I think he really was a little bit hung up because it's true that, you know, from what I see, a lot of white women who have never been with a black guy, they have preconceptions going into it.
	And one of those is that the dude is big.
	So, yeah, if he feels that he's smaller than the average, then I can see how that could lead to some kind of hangup.
	But he really needs to focus on: is she good enough?
	You know, is her boobs, is her butt big enough?
	You know, instead of looking so inward onto his own flaws.
	okay so the chat how is the chat doing chat's doing good 266 viewers let's go to another foreign number let me scroll up here good afternoon caller you're now live caller Caller.
	I don't hear anything.
	Uh, we'll come back to it, maybe.
	Hello no, let's come back to him.
	Let's go to this guy.
	Hello caller, you are now live.
	So hey, can you hear me?
	Yes, I can thank you for taking my call.
	Um, I remember you know one of your youtube videos.
	It was quite a recent video.
	You were talking about how um, after you dumped or broke up with that woman that you stayed with okay, so you are talking about the uh, four things I learned in 2017.
	Oh, it was five, and I guess I was talking about a girl that I was going out with for a year and she wasn't the right girl, so I had to break up with her okay yeah, and you said, this girl tricked me or something right that you know, like.
	So you were talking about how that kind of hurt, you know, and it led to some heartbreak and heartache, and I wanted to ask you, because I can relate to that from your experience how do you get over having like a broken heart and feeling like this girl was the one, and then it turned out like she wasn't what you thought she was.
	Just uh, just imagined her to be.
	That's like in your mind, she was the perfect girl and she wasn't.
	And can I ask you, that's hard, you know.
	And can I first ask you, where are you calling from?
	Uh Romania, Romania.
	I called in the last.
	In the last calling show I was the guy who talked about uh Melee CLUB and uh the Jewish, oh god please.
	So one thing, I find that Romanian men tend to be more emotional than northern European men, so they tend to be more affected.
	But the only thing that works is time.
	I mean, it's just time.
	You just have to wait, you know because, especially if you were going out with a girl and you developed a lot of inside jokes with her, that that means you grew with her, you're being developed with her, and then you break it apart.
	It's like a part of you is also gone.
	There's no magic trick, there's no magic trick to really heal that.
	It's like your mom or dad, it's almost like a close one, your mom passing away or something.
	I mean it's someone who was an integral part of your life and for some men, you know, a girlfriend or wife is someone that they spend more time with than their mom.
	So I mean, losing her can be extremely painful, but the I mean and, and how long has it been since you ended things with her?
	Oh, since I ended things like six months, Okay.
	And how long were you going out with her?
	Well, like a year and almost a year and a half, I think.
	I mean, honestly, it takes as much time to get over her completely as you were going out with her.
	If you were going out with her for three years and it was really deep, she's going to be on your mind for three years.
	You know, that's, I mean, there's no, and a lot of people say, hey, man, just go bang 10 other girls.
	I find that makes it worse.
	It makes it worse because what you end up doing is comparing these useless toes to a girl that you were in love with.
	I tried that.
	It doesn't work.
	It made me think of her more because I have this useless girl on my, on, on, on my bed.
	And here we got Arnold saying, Arnold, man, this new slut you have is worthless, man.
	Where's the old chick?
	And then, so, yeah, that doesn't work.
	Actually, just being alone with myself and letting that time pass, it does way more than trying to distract myself with women that I don't care about.
	I mean, unless you can find, I mean, the one other thing is a girl that you can get with that's better.
	Like, if you can find, or as good, if you can find a girl who's as good as your ex or better, you will forget about her quickly.
	This is why I think women can get over things in a breakup faster because there's already 10 guys that are around them orbiting before you even break up.
	And they're ready to be like, hey, I'm next.
	I'm next.
	So for them, it's a little bit easier because they still have maybe some high-value guys that are waiting patiently in line.
	But when you break up, you don't got anyone coming at your door, you know, unless you go out, unless you start approaching girls.
	So honestly, the only advice, unless you can find something as good or better, is just wait.
	And you're still halfway through it.
	I mean, six months, yeah, I'm sure things are better than the first three months.
	But and those nights are because now it's winter in Europe.
	It's really cold.
	These were the times you were snuggling with your ex and you were doing things inside, baking cookies.
	I was baking cookies.
	And now it's like, oh, I'm just alone with a real pug.
	And, you know, it's kind of, yeah.
	I do remember the fall, the previous year was a little bit better, but you know, you just have to wait.
	Yeah, that makes sense.
	Thank you.
	I can relate a lot to that.
	And I was thinking, like, I had that thought also, like, oh, no, this is, I'm not going to find like, yeah, yeah, that is, that is one of the first things.
	Like, when that pain is really high, you're like, I'm never going to meet anyone again.
	I'm going to die alone.
	But you know what?
	No one likes you.
	Yeah, no one's going to love me.
	But the best thing to do in that case is to accept it.
	Be like, okay, yeah, I die alone.
	And then, so what?
	You know, not everyone is going to meet someone that they're fully compatible with.
	And I like who I am.
	I mean, you have to have a degree of self-love to be like, look, I'm okay with who I am.
	I'm okay with doing things on my own.
	Yes, I did have a love with someone else and it made me feel good.
	But I came into this earth alone.
	I will die alone anyway.
	So don't, so I'm not saying that to put yourself in a cave and never talk to women, but you have to accept to being alone.
	If you can, that's going to help you find the right girl instead of any girl.
	Because you know, it's better to, I think it's better to be alone than be with the wrong woman who's going to cause way more pain and damage in your life than just being alone.
	All right, and uh, do we do I do we have time for one last question?
	We don't have time unless you're really quick.
	All right, all right.
	Oh, well, so I was thinking you know about the thing that about Jews that I talked about.
	Oh, no, dude, I don't want to talk about Jews.
	All right, I'm tired of talking about okay, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Thanks, Lord.
	Thanks.
	Look at him trying to squeeze in, talk about Jews.
	All right, where have I gotten a super chat yet?
	I haven't gotten one.
	Arnold, they haven't given me any super chats.
	If you like this and you would like to donate, hit me up with some of that super chat money, man.
	Me and Arnold need a new dog dog house.
	I have to buy that for him.
	Okay, now I think someone emailed the live.
	Let's see if he has a question.
	That's pretty good.
	Oh, you have to tell me more, man.
	I have a YouTube-related question.
	What does that mean?
	Let me go to him.
	Let's see what he wants.
	Hello, caller.
	You are now live.
	Hey, hello.
	Um, are you hearing me all right?
	Yes, I can.
	And what is going on?
	You are from where?
	Perfect.
	Um, I actually meant like a YouTube-related question.
	I'm not sure if that's your jam.
	So, where are you from first?
	I got like um, I got like two community guidelines struck so far for like making fun of Jews.
	And the thing is, um, the thing about this is where do you define what should I do?
	Or should I keep like you know, making fun of Jews and all that shit?
	Or maybe I'm losing like my focus a little bit, but I don't know what should I do?
	Should I like just like play safe?
	I mean, I just like run a troll channel and shit.
	Okay, hold on, hold on.
	First of all, the thing is, time out, time out, time out.
	Where are you?
	Are you from?
	First of all, you are from where I'm from Spain.
	Okay, Spain.
	So, now you have a YouTube channel and it's a troll channel, and you're asking me for advice on who you should attack and make and make fun of.
	Um, yeah, basically, I don't know.
	It's like listen, if you want to get banned from YouTube, which seems to be what's going to happen to you, then yeah, attack Jews.
	Hopefully, not.
	I know.
	All right, is that all?
	I don't know, man.
	Do your own thing.
	You know, what do you like?
	What do you like talking about?
	So, make YouTube videos about it.
	The thing is that I mainly like focus on the narcissism and hypocrisy of YouTubers and shit.
	You know, all that stuff.
	So, wait, wait, wait.
	You're gonna point out the narcissism of YouTubers by maintaining a YouTube channel.
	But the thing is, I kind of missing like my shift a little bit.
	I don't know.
	Maybe I'm getting too little, a little bit too artistic.
	I don't know about that.
	No, no, you need to pick a topic and do you are lost.
	You don't know what you want to do.
	Okay, you want to attack other people.
	See, you want to become big and famous or get a lot of views by attacking others.
	You only get so far doing that.
	Instead, your mindset should be how do I help others?
	How do I be positive energy?
	How do I give benefits to other people?
	I mean, how I mean, can you imagine the type of audience you're gonna have if you just do a whole YouTube channel attacking other people?
	What kind of people are gonna come on?
	Not really attacking other people, but just making fun of them, same thing, dude.
	Attacking, making fun, it's same thing.
	You're going to attract negative, hateful people.
	Okay.
	Now, I'm not saying don't make fun of people, but if that's all your YouTube channel is going to be about, it's going to suck.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right, man.
	Have a good one.
	Yeah, I don't know.
	It's like, I just make comedy and shit.
	But, you know, it's okay.
	Okay.
	So you go make some comedy, make a lot of videos, and then you'll know if anyone watches them, if it's good or not.
	Okay, man.
	Have a good night.
	Bye-bye.
	Come on now.
	Yeah, if you want to make something attacking people, then I don't care.
	Do it.
	See, he now that wasn't a pretty good call, I don't think.
	Okay, let's go to this guy.
	He's been holding for a little bit.
	Hello, caller.
	You are now live.
	Hello, caller.
	Okay, caller's not there.
	We had a few international numbers, probably because I'm doing the stream at a nice time in Europe.
	Now let's go to what looks like an American number.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Hi, can you hear me, Roche?
	Yes, I can.
	And where are you calling from?
	Buffalo, New York.
	Buffalo, New York.
	I'm sure it's very cold there right now.
	Yes.
	Earlier in the week, it was.
	It's warming up a little to like 30-something.
	Okay.
	So what's up?
	Yeah.
	So my question is like a two-parter during your time on the Dr. Oz show.
	Oh, God.
	Why are you bringing back the nightmare?
	The memories.
	It's a funny question.
	It's a funny ass question.
	Go ahead.
	On a scale of nine, on a scale of nine to ten, just how gay is Dr. Roz in real life?
	You know, he's okay.
	Listen, he's kind of small and his face is cake.
	They put all this makeup on him, you know, because he, I think he's like an older guy.
	He's like 50.
	His wife is like three times larger than him.
	But I don't know.
	I mean, he's, I don't, I don't know.
	I don't, I don't hate him.
	Yeah.
	I mean, he did what his producers told him.
	Like, look, this Roosh V, he's a bad guy.
	We're going to get some ratings by just trying to embarrass him as much as possible.
	And so, you know, they got me on under the guise of I'm going to be on a show to discuss fat shaming.
	But I was the center of it.
	I didn't know that.
	And I didn't find out till 20 seconds before I walked on.
	I was like in a state of shock.
	And people were like, man, you should have known that.
	I mean, yeah, hindsight, I guess.
	But I didn't think they were going to fly me all the way over there, all expenses paid just to be like, gotcha.
	Yeah, that's pretty fucked up.
	So the other part of it, how did you resist the urge just not to slap him on national television?
	No, there was.
	You probably could have broken that dude in half.
	No, no, there was no violent bone, no violent urge.
	I was literally in shock.
	I was in shock.
	I didn't know what to really do.
	You know, I wanted to just hide because you have to understand these lights are really bright.
	There is a big studio audience and they're all gawking at me.
	Like, cause the way they framed me is like one of the most evil men ever.
	And I just didn't want to be there.
	I really wanted to get up and run, but I didn't.
	I don't know.
	I was, I was kind of just stuck.
	I was stuck.
	And, but of course, now, if I ever go on a show, I'll know that, hey, Roosh, this is a possibility, man.
	They may get you.
	They may bring gotcha quotes.
	But that was the first time ever I was like on an American TV show.
	And I think that, you know, considering the circumstance, I did okay.
	Am I proud of it?
	Is that going to be on the highlight reel of my life?
	Probably not.
	No, but you held your own pretty well, all things considered.
	Cool.
	All right.
	Thanks for taking my call.
	Okay, man.
	Thank you.
	Bye-bye.
	But yes.
	So, Dr. Oz, man, that feels like so long ago, but it wasn't that long ago.
	I think that was in 2015.
	All right.
	We got a super chat.
	10 pounds from Vernon D. Love the live streams.
	Roosh.
	Thank you, Vernon D. Vernon D is a nice guy.
	Okay, let's take another call.
	This is from Foreign Number.
	Hello, Cola.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Yes.
	Can you hear me?
	Yes, I can.
	Okay, so I have one quick question.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	Your voice sounds a bit soft.
	Are you a woman, a man, a younger man?
	Hello?
	Caller left.
	Caller is gone.
	I mean, I don't know.
	Was that a girl?
	Maybe it was a guy and I like I insulted him when I said, but it sounded like a woman.
	Maybe he will, she will call back.
	But I thought that was, I think, I think it was a guy.
	But it sounded like a, it sounded like, I mean, it sounded like, hello?
	I mean, if a guy talks like that, he has a lot of problems.
	Sorry, dude.
	Or girl.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Okay, let's go to what looks like a Skype number.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Oh, hi.
	Is that me?
	You are now live.
	What is going on?
	Where are you calling from?
	I'm calling from Thailand.
	Thailand?
	I'm from the U.S.
	Okay.
	So late, it's late here.
	Okay.
	So what is what is going on?
	Well, that last caller was gender fluid, actually, I think.
	Was that the was that your friend that is in your Thailand room right now?
	So you got one of your ladyboys to call in?
	I knew there was something up with it.
	You tried to troll me with your ladyboy lover, didn't you?
	No, no, no, no, no, no.
	Not me.
	I wouldn't do that.
	Anyways, what was I going to say?
	Oh, yeah.
	So I found you like 2015.
	Okay.
	I was in the I was in the pickup scene for like, you know, a couple years.
	And then I found your stuff.
	And then I got like my big like red pill moment with like the elections and all that stuff.
	But I guess like my main thing now is like dealing with like that red pill depression.
	Like it's like isolating, you know what I mean?
	Like even like, so when I went back home to see family and stuff and it's like, you just hear all this fucking, you know, feminism, like just blue pill people talking and like even like family members, like friends.
	It's like you can't can't even like talk about anything anymore.
	You know what I mean?
	Like, how do you handle that?
	Well, the way I see it is the world is in a sick place.
	A lot of people are getting infected by the leftist mentally deranged virus, and everyone around you is getting ill, getting really ill.
	And for them, because they've been ill for so long, or they see everyone else that's ill like them, they see healthy people as the ill ones.
	They see people who are normal as really sick.
	What?
	You don't believe that gay should adopt kids and change the sexes of little boys and girls?
	You are sick.
	You know, that's really how it is.
	What can you do?
	Well, I mean, once you get red-pilled, once you see the truth and once you come to believe that the truth is what things really are, there's no way you can go backwards.
	There is no way to say, you know what, I'm going to go back to believing in lies.
	So you're kind of stuck in that way that once you cannot undo it.
	You cannot go back and see things normally.
	Well, I'm just going to have a dinner with some old friends and I'm not going to notice any of the non-stop barrage of leftist insanity that they throw at me.
	No, you're not going to be able to go out with them.
	So other than making more friends that are red-pilled, there's nothing you can really, really do.
	And the more red pills that you take, it's like climbing a mountain.
	The higher that you go, the more lonely it is.
	So, you know, well, no, I was just going to say, yeah, no, that's, it's 100% right.
	Cause like, I'm, like, I'm half Jewish.
	And I even, I try to red pill my friends on the JQ.
	I'll go like Jews and all that.
	But it's like, they've been, you know, they think I'm crazy, you know, and I'm like trying to shit.
	But then I would ask you why are you trying to red pill other people?
	Because don't you see how when you try to red pill others, what you're really telling them is you are wrong.
	You are wrong.
	You believe in bullshit.
	Now, I am not wrong.
	I don't believe in bullshit.
	I'm going to enlighten you.
	Can you see how they're going to feel?
	It's like you asserting your superiority over them.
	You're wrong.
	I am right.
	The average person, especially a blue pill person, cannot handle that.
	If you tell me, hey, Roosh, you wrote something that is wrong and I see it as wrong.
	I'm going, all right, man, I was wrong.
	But most blue pill people, they cannot handle that.
	It's like the same as when you try to teach a beta male a bit of game, how he's like, what?
	No way.
	I don't have to do that.
	You know, you cannot red pill people.
	You can only red pill people who want to be red pilled when they ask you for information, for advice, for knowledge.
	You cannot red pill other people.
	I don't advise it.
	No, yeah, I agree with you.
	I'm just thinking like, so, you know, let's just say you meet like a normal person, you're having a conversation.
	It's like, you don't know how far you just want to just talk about normal stuff, but what you think is normal is like, may throw them off.
	You know what I mean?
	It's like, are you a bitch?
	I can't even talk.
	Do you have some guy friends over there?
	Actually, no, I've been meeting guys like in the forum and that's been good.
	I'm just thinking like, you know, I catch it up with like old friends or even like when I see like family, but now I'm like seeing like it's dangerous, you know, like they inadvertently like can make, get you in trouble, you know, because people like, well, then they start talking, oh, this, you know, yeah.
	I have seen mothers denouncing their own sons for going to like an alt-right rally.
	It's crazy.
	Their owners, their mothers are fucked.
	I'm seeing mothers and fathers talking to the news media to denounce family.
	I mean, that is so sad because I know when the meetup outrage happened to me, my mom and dad, they had my back all the way.
	If the media came to them, be like, hey, your son is a bad person, they would tell them, fuck off.
	And I thank God that I have a family that knows me and doesn't care what the media, what the liberal agenda says about me.
	So you see all these people, you see that you're going to have to cut them out.
	Or if it's in the case of maybe sisters, brothers, cousins, minimize the political aspect of, you know, what your interaction is because nothing good's going to come out of it, man.
	Nothing good.
	Putting a red pill guy and blue pill people in the same room is like trying to mix oil and water.
	It's not going to mix.
	You can't do it.
	So I think for you, the best advice is you're going to have to let go of these people.
	You know, not your mom and dad, but you're going to have to let go of all those friends, all your old friends that who are just somewhere else right now.
	Maybe they'll come through.
	Maybe they'll see the, maybe they'll take the red pill, but you cannot change their mind.
	And trying to is going to lead to a lot of problems.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I have one more question, like game related.
	Okay.
	One more thing.
	Hold on.
	Let me just give a shout out to a $20 super chat.
	Dennis Gonzalez says, hey, Roosh, big fan.
	In an earlier video, when you said it took you six months to get over your relationship during that time, did she try to contact you?
	And what did you do?
	I'm not going to answer that.
	Man, hold on.
	Maybe I'll get to that after.
	And Jay Dyer, who has pranked me twice now, he's doing it $50 saying my alternate personalities won't call today.
	Thank you, Jay.
	If you want to prank me, you can try, but you're not going to get me.
	All right.
	Sorry about that.
	Caller?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So my question is with the relationships, long-term relationships, how do you manage to keep your frame like over time?
	I don't know if you've answered this before, but like, you know, when you're doing game and you meet a girl and then you, you know, your value is so high and then like you get into it, you get invested.
	And then over time, it's just like you catch, you catch yourself kind of just like losing your frame.
	You know what I mean?
	So, so you mean that over time, the woman, she slowly allows you to fall back to a non-optimal game place.
	Like you're kind of falling back onto things that maybe you used to do when you were a younger guy.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Or you just, you know, you just get, you get lazy and then you realize that she's just got kind of like more, I don't know, more control or just, yeah, you're just not on top of your game because, you know, you just settled.
	You know what I mean?
	Okay, that's what I see a lot.
	I see a lot of guys, they start a relationship firmly, strongly.
	They have the upper hand, but then all the pussy turns their brain to mush or something.
	They just don't care.
	They think, oh, I did all the hard work.
	I don't have to, you know, maintain the frame, run game anymore.
	It doesn't work.
	And that is the time that men lose power.
	You know, you cannot sleep.
	If you're a man and if you're not naturally alpha, you have to consciously always be aware of what the frame is.
	You have to read her texts very slowly.
	What is she trying to communicate?
	And I wish I didn't have to do that.
	But the one good thing is that if you're game aware for a long time, you start to internalize it.
	It starts to be automatic.
	How old are you?
	30.
	Okay.
	So you're not old, but you're not that young.
	I mean, by the time you're 35 and up, once you've been in game for 10 plus years, it starts to be more of an automatic thing.
	But until then, you have to do it in a conscious way.
	You have to be like, okay, she just asked me, why isn't my house clean?
	Is she trying to give me a test?
	Yes, she is.
	So then you can answer back, well, why don't you actually clean it then?
	Since you're spending time here instead of saying, oh, I don't know my maid, she didn't come and I'm almost tired today.
	Don't explain yourself.
	So when, so I think a woman never has to read a game book, but her nature allows her to control a man, someone who is more, who's stronger than them, who can kill them.
	So a woman has had to figure out how can I get control over a man.
	It's more of a mental thing.
	It's like slowly she opens the door and starting to ask, why are you doing things and trying to get you to explain yourself?
	And you have to stop it from the get-go.
	Like don't allow a woman to get you to explain anything.
	It has to work the other way where you have to be like, why are you wearing these ugly shoes?
	You know we are going out.
	You look like, I don't know, some kind of hipster doofus here.
	Like you have to have high expectations of them instead of them allowing.
	Because a girl does it slowly, man.
	She starts asking for small stuff.
	Like, can you get me a cup of water?
	I'm like, a cup of water.
	Now, a cup of water is not a big deal, but it's the beginning.
	So you have to say, okay, did she really, is she trying to get her, get the camel's head in the tent by doing this?
	Probably.
	So first it's the cup of water.
	And then it's like, on your way home, can you get me this?
	Like, what?
	You know, so you have to keep it in mind.
	But as long as she's doing five times more than you're doing, it should be really good.
	But when you're starting to do everything she wants, that's a bad sign.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	All right.
	Thank you.
	No problem.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, man, because a woman's not going to like on the first date start with something big.
	It's always small.
	It's always the way a woman starts is getting you to explain yourself.
	Why do you do this?
	What do you do?
	Why did you pick that?
	And it's not from, I want to get to know him.
	It's, I want to see what the buttons are.
	I want to see how I can how much he allows me to get in there.
	And I hate to view an interaction between men and women in this way.
	But until the relationship has some love component to it, you kind of have to expect the worst from what a woman's doing because at least 50% of the time, she is intending something that isn't very good.
	So let's go back to what Dennis said.
	I mean, he's asking me, he said in an earlier video, you said it took you six months to get over your relationship.
	During that time, did she try to contact you?
	And what did you do?
	One thing I can say is that, yes, I mean, there was it's a story.
	I gave you guys the shortest part that for public consumption.
	Um, but one thing I can say is that you know, when you break up with a girl, the end is not the end.
	There's always those lingering meetings and lingering, uh, you know, late night calls when you're feeling down and she calls you.
	So, yeah, she did try to get in touch with me, but she never addressed the root concern of why I broke up with her.
	If anything, she blamed me.
	She was very slow to accept responsibility for what she did.
	And I understand that because a woman is far less likely than a man to exceed the faults of what she has done.
	So, I didn't expect it.
	But one thing I can say is this: if you suddenly break up with a girl, it's because you made up your mind beforehand.
	And I did in what way I did it in the sense that she burned me once.
	And then after that, I said, if she does it again, I'm breaking up with her.
	No, no if, ands, or buts.
	That's it.
	If she does this shit again, if she tries to cuck me again, I'm going to end it.
	And she did it again in less than a year after, and it was done.
	Now, if because I was mentally ready to walk, so with her, based on what I knew about her, the flaws of the relationship, I was mentally ready to walk on her.
	And she did something which she shouldn't have done.
	It's short of sleeping with a man, but it was bad.
	And I was out.
	I was, I didn't care how much it actually hurt because I know what the right choice for me is.
	But I can tell you a lot of it is hard for men to break up with a girl that they love.
	But my heart is already cold.
	So I think it was easier.
	Okay, we got some more super chats.
	Jay sent another one.
	Jeez, another 50 bucks.
	He is single-handedly paying my rent in Eastern Europe.
	He said, let's do a podcast.
	Yeah, you know, I'm kind of off that a bit.
	But yeah, if I do a podcast with anyone first, it's with Jay because I like the stuff that he does.
	If you like, also go Google Jay Jay Dyer.
	He has a YouTube channel, which is pretty good.
	So thank you, Jay, again for paying my rent.
	Okay, we got another super chat from Filter Guy2525.
	He donated $10.
	Thank you very much.
	He said, Thanks to you.
	I stopped following some of these trad thoughts.
	When you really examine it, there's nothing really there except attention whoring.
	Yeah, that's it.
	You know, I mean, they offer no value to a dissident right movement except for filling it with thirsty betas.
	A lot of people are saying, well, they're exposing a lot of people to the right.
	Yeah, who are they exposing?
	Thirsty men.
	Do I want thirsty men in my forum in my ruche right?
	No, I don't.
	Stay away.
	It's when they're it's when their followers started crossing the line, step in on my on my toes.
	I'm like, no, I have to draw.
	This stops now.
	And apparently, since I made clear that their value should be somewhere else, not in the right, I don't know.
	I haven't heard a lot out of them.
	All right, let's see.
	Ruch, when are you coming back to Race Worski?
	Oh, I think that's the Andy live stream.
	Yeah, I'm waiting for him.
	He hasn't gotten me anyone yet.
	He hasn't got me to really talk to anyone.
	All right, let me see the emails.
	couple people okay someone sent me a question but not a number I can't I don't know okay what we got here the guy asked someone to ask me a question I already covered though maybe I'll get to him soon all right we go into the next caller hello caller you're now live What's up?
	Yep, where are you calling?
	From Mississippi?
	From where Mississippi?
	Okay, and what's up?
	Yeah, all right, so I'm 16 right, so I'm young, and uh, I met this girl.
	She's white, fine as fuck Ruch, I mean fine as, but uh, you see, she has a lot of male friends.
	And I remember you telling me, hold up.
	Why did you say she is white?
	Is that an important fact?
	Because because, all right, all right.
	So me as a black dude right okay, you are a black, white bitches like that's like, that's up there, you know, you know what I mean?
	Okay, it's up there.
	So um she uh yeah, she has a lot of male friends.
	And I remember you saying something about.
	You know, women with a lot of male friends should be avoided, for whatever reason.
	But you see, she's younger right she's, she's not even 18.
	Okay listen man, I can't give you advice on how to deal with a girl under 18.
	There's no way I can do that, because you understand why not?
	Why not?
	Because I'm not an idiot dude, because it's not a legal thing, and maybe in your state it is.
	But I'm not even gonna be in the news for Ruch gives advice.
	She's talking to me like I'm a PO.
	I know it doesn't matter how old you are dude, but I'm telling you how to bang an underage girl.
	Do you understand how many people hate me, how they're waiting for me to mess up?
	And here I am going to give advice to a young boy on how to sleep with a 17 year old minor?
	Yeah, you got.
	So you have to understand that I can't do that.
	If you want to ask me something else, like a general question, I mean, if you want to ask me about women who have a lot of friends male male friends I can talk about that, all right.
	Yeah, that man yeah yeah okay, I mean what do you think?
	Why would a woman, any of any age, have a lot of guy friends?
	Do you think those guy friends just want to be her, her friend only?
	Well, I mean, I'm not in their head, you know, I'm not psychic, I can't tell.
	But my thing was, you know a woman that's a 50 right, she's probably too far gone at that age right, but say she's like 20 21 maybe, maybe I can, like you know, dissuade her.
	You know what I mean?
	Okay, listen.
	But I mean the one thing, if a girl has a lot of guy friends, it's because she likes attention from guys.
	Why does she like attention from a lot of Of men?
	Because her daddy didn't love her.
	Her daddy didn't give her the love that she felt she needed.
	And now she's getting a little bit of love from these guys who want to sleep with her.
	When she's going to get older, the next stage is to sleep with them, to sleep with all these guys, to feel that love for the minute that the man is on top of her, craving her, saying how good she feels, blah, blah, blah.
	She's going to feel that love.
	But then once the man pumps and dumps her, she's going to feel empty again.
	And how does she get the love again?
	She goes to another guy.
	And then because she didn't get a lot of attention from her dad, who didn't love her, when a man tries to love her, she's going to feel a little bit weird.
	She's, she's, she's not going to, she's not used to it.
	She's like, oh, this, oh, this guy, he's really loving me.
	But since she has such a low opinion of herself, she doesn't feel that she is deserving of that love because her father didn't even love her.
	Do you understand?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	So what, so what you're asking, she just wants attention.
	If your game is tight, if she is attracted to you, she may sleep with you.
	But that's it.
	I mean, you know, that's all that you can really say about that.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah.
	That guy sounded pretty old for only 16.
	But yeah, I can't.
	Listen, guys, if you, even if it's legal in your state, which, you know, I should actually Google that right now.
	Let's see what the age of consent in Mississippi is.
	Age of consent.
	Miss M-I-S-S-I-S-S-I-P-P-E.
	Age of consent in Mississippi is 16.
	So good.
	All right.
	So even if I gave him advice there, it's nothing that should get me into a lot of problems.
	But still, I don't want to deal with that stuff.
	But yeah, if a girl has a lot of guy friends, but see, now we don't really know what is a lot because I think even a girl who was loved by her dad is still going to have quite a few guy friends, you know, at least three, four.
	I mean, it's like in the Eastern European country that I'm in, it is normalized completely for these opposite sex friendships, which is to me is bullshit because I know these guys are trying to get it in.
	They're just using a long-term orbiter strategy compared to my short-term PUA strategy.
	But a strategy to do what it's the end goal.
	We both want the same end to make that sweet love.
	I'm just a little bit more honest.
	You know, I'm not saying, hey, I want to be your friend.
	I value you and your jokes.
	No, no.
	Okay.
	How's our chat doing?
	Chat's doing good.
	Roosh going after those African girls.
	How'd you know?
	Damn.
	I love African girls.
	All right.
	Let's see.
	We got a question about arranged marriage.
	Arranged marriage.
	I may have to do that one.
	Okay.
	Let's see what this guy wants.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hi, Roosh.
	How are you doing?
	What's going on?
	And where are you from?
	Ireland.
	Ireland.
	Okay.
	Have you?
	Okay.
	I think you've called before.
	Before, yeah.
	Okay.
	Very good.
	Basically, I have a question.
	Well, two questions.
	First, I'll get through them quickly.
	First question is: I'm seeing this girl from time to time.
	And She mentioned that she has uh lesbian fantasies, okay.
	So she said, uh, I want to hook up for threesome, okay.
	And I said, Well, she's uh, I won't say about occupation, but basically, she's around hot women the whole time, cottish women, anyway.
	So I said, Why don't you get one of your colleagues?
	She said, No, I don't want to do that.
	She said, I want to do it with a stranger.
	I don't really care.
	So, so, so, you're trying to find some other girl to sleep with you and this and this other girl, right?
	So, trying to find a third person.
	Um, yeah, well, I asked another guy, and he said the way to do it is you go to the club, pick out the girl, go to a gay club, yeah, yeah, which from what I hear, I don't go to gay, gay clubs for me, threesome.
	I don't want to do it, it's already hard enough dealing with one.
	I don't really want to do it either.
	I couldn't have to entertain two women at the same time, like that, yeah, it's pretty hard to do, yeah.
	Okay, so go to the gay club, dude.
	He says, Oh, you got to pick out the one, you got to pick out the one, you know, obviously.
	So, she's not just listening if you really want it, just pick any girl if she gives you a boner, just do it.
	Yeah, okay.
	Um, second thing is, and I might have asked you this before when you were doing other uh podcasts last year.
	Um, you know, about your parents, I hope it touches on two more, but you know, but when they get old and they can't look after themselves, like you have a plan of how you're going to look after them because you know, you live in Eastern Europe, like myself, I have to move back home, and you know, one parent died.
	If one of my family members gets sick, I right now I could go back easily.
	I don't have any family here.
	As long as I don't have family here, it'll it'll be an easy call.
	You know, if I'm needed back home, I'll go back home.
	If I have a family here, then I would want to think about it.
	You know, how would I make that make that actually happen?
	But as long as I don't, if I'm just alone here doing YouTube live live streams and going to the coffee shop every day, I can go, I can go back and help, you know, I don't have to worry about the mob waiting for you and all that crap.
	They can suck my dick, I don't care.
	What are they gonna do?
	Okay, they're gonna attack me as I'm home trying to help.
	Hey, in the USA, you can arm yourself.
	If I got a strap, guns, bam, take that.
	Hopefully, you take out a good few of the bastards.
	That's right.
	Okay, um, just the questions, the previous questions were really good.
	I have to say, that was great.
	Okay, good.
	All right, man.
	Um, there's one more thing you know, you said about I think you did the woman you're with, you just kind of found out her underlying nature.
	Sometimes it takes a while for women to find that out, you know, and one of the other problems, I do, okay, sure, sure.
	So, what were you going to say?
	Yeah, I was just going to say that one of the problems is that when we meet a girl that we like, we tend to put our ideal values onto her, even though she doesn't actually have that.
	So, we make her the perfect girl, and then we get upset a year later when it turns out, hey, she wasn't the girl that we pegged her as.
	She's just a flawed girl that doesn't have the values that we want.
	So, that's what I did.
	So, that's one thing when you one of the things I do is if a girl, if a girl, if you come across from yourself, a girl keeps saying to you, sorry, you know, she's really apologetic all the time, it means that she's not an attention whore.
	Okay.
	And that she's she's pretty safe.
	I would go to see she's kind of an introverted person.
	It means that she's only not big going down to the kudo and the pulps and all looking for attention and lapping it up.
	Okay, I will keep that in mind.
	Yep.
	Okay, thanks.
	Okay, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Bye.
	Okay, very good.
	Okay, so John sent me a $5 super chat saying what answer me, but he didn't tell me what the question is.
	So, John, you got to send me another super chat to answer that or just answer back to me right there.
	Okay.
	Ruch is wearing his niece's extra small t-shirt today.
	So, what?
	How else am I going to look big unless I wear extra medium shirts?
	Look how tight that is.
	Okay.
	Let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Roosh, what's going on, bud?
	What is going on?
	Pretty good.
	How about you?
	Oh, not too bad.
	Been a forum member since 2011, man.
	Just shout out to the forum.
	You are old school, huh?
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah, man.
	Okay, good.
	For a while, just want to also give a special shout out to Scorpion.
	He's a national treasure.
	Where is he?
	I haven't seen him post in like a while.
	I have no idea.
	I have no idea, man.
	He just comes and goes, but he always is dropping knowledge.
	So, yeah.
	Okay.
	Is there anything else that you wanted to ask?
	Since you have, yeah.
	Yeah.
	I just kind of had a little story.
	It's not too long.
	Don't go too long with it.
	Yes, long and short.
	So I went to a different town last night to go out.
	After the club, I got into a massive fight against about like 30-plus local white knights.
	Damn, dude.
	Yeah.
	You know why it happened?
	Because one cheeky bitch started shoving me in the club.
	So obviously, yeah, I know.
	I'm going to shove back, right?
	So it inspired a lot of hatred from white knights on the dance floor.
	We're trying to show up on it.
	So your dance moves are so good that like 30 dudes were giving you this mean grill.
	Like, damn, he's taking all our all our women.
	Well, I mean, I don't think that the fight itself is the focus here, like their animosity towards me.
	It was just it's they were like standing up for this girl who pushed me in the club.
	Okay.
	So luckily, the bouncers they saw the beta behavior of the white knight and they told him to calm the fuck down.
	But as I'm closing, I hear like five different people saying that there's going to be trouble waiting for me outside.
	Five and they were right.
	Damn.
	Yeah.
	So I was missing signs or something.
	So 30 or so white knights came up to me when I walked outside and they were all talking shit.
	But they were too scared to hit me in my face.
	So instead, they went for like bitch shots to the back of my head.
	Son of the guns.
	So what did you do when these mob of 30 dudes was trying to?
	I mean, like, despite their numbers, I mean, their pussy means that I was barely hurt.
	Two black eyes, one cut nose, no big deal.
	That's it.
	I could sense fear and yeah, I know, right?
	I just kind of like faced them down and it was kind of amazing.
	I could sense fear in them.
	So as they're walking, I chased them down and I told them to just go home.
	Wait, were they all right?
	So these 30 guys, they attacked you.
	You fought them off and then started chasing after them?
	Yeah, I just felt something come up in me.
	You must have trained, man.
	You must have trained.
	You must have done some BJJ.
	Never in a fight before this.
	Now, can I ask you what is your race?
	Because maybe your race gave you some extra strength to really fight them off.
	Well, I'm white, but I have a little bit of a darker complexion.
	So maybe are you Indian?
	Are you like an Indian background?
	No, no, not at all.
	Kind of like a French, French kind of because I was feeling like an Indian type of power because only like an Indian guy could do that.
	I mean, unlike the white knights that I sort of like scared away, I didn't have any trouble from the bouncers when I came back.
	One guy even agreed that it all started over the girl who pushed me.
	So whatever, so whatever happened to the girl, the one that she pushed you.
	So did anything happen?
	Not really.
	It just kind of like revealed the power that one girl can have over like 30 white knights.
	I was fifth that night, but I'm sure you can imagine like how nasty shit can get out there and that sort of a lesson.
	Because if better just to avoid it in most cases.
	Because if she saw you attacking those 30 blue-pilled white knights, I wouldn't think, I don't know, I'm just, that's just me, but one on 30, I would think that she would get a little aroused and want something, right?
	That's what I would think.
	I would think so too, but I was, I was just swarmed.
	It was like, it was like the orc invasion, you know, on the white city.
	Like, it was bad.
	Like, and she must have just left at that point.
	Well, that just says that, you know, one red-pilled man is equal to about 30 blue-pilled soy boys.
	So that's all you really know right there.
	Yeah, it's like I said, you know, like the fight itself isn't the focus here.
	It's just like the power that one girl has.
	So I'm so happy that you called in to let me know about this extraordinary tale.
	Yeah, I just want to congratulate you on thank you for red-pilling people.
	The truth is on your side.
	We'll always always listen to your saving souls, man.
	And the last thing I'll say is this call is not going in the direction I was hoping for.
	Peace out.
	Shout out to the forum.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, there was a lot of RVF inside jokes there.
	If you don't read ruchvforum.com, you probably had no idea what that was about.
	All right.
	So John left a super chat of $5 and he asked, My girlfriend of two years got the name of a male friend who committed suicide tattooed on her ribs against my wishes.
	So I dumped her.
	Was I right to do so?
	My family is giving me crap.
	You, sir, were 100% right in doing that.
	Because if a girl was about to make a permanent change to her life against what you wanted, she would have fucked you up real bad.
	She would have destroyed you.
	I mean, this is she tattooed.
	I mean, listen, why don't you do a makeshift, I don't know, flower ceremony, a little candlelight vigil tattoo of another man against the wishes of the boyfriend?
	Hell no, man.
	No, no.
	If a girl I'm dating does that, I say you cannot do that because I believe that it is important to me, no matter what it is.
	If it's important to me and she knows it's important to me and she does it anyway, it's over.
	That means she doesn't care enough about you to listen to you.
	Can you imagine what your life with a woman who doesn't care what you think will be like?
	It will be hell.
	So yes, John, you did the right thing.
	Tell your family that you're going to be with who you want to be.
	And if she doesn't listen to what is important to you, she can take a walk.
	Huh?
	Very good.
	Okay, Alexandra Cruz.
	I almost tattooed SpongeBob on my boob, but my mom said no.
	What the hell is she dumb or what?
	SpongeBob.
	What are you a child?
	All right, let's go to this call.
	I think this was someone who mailed me.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Yes.
	Hi, I was the woman that called earlier.
	You thought it was a trend.
	No, no, no.
	I didn't think so.
	But the live chat people did.
	No, because your voice is very soft.
	I was sure it was a girl's voice, but you know, maybe you're a boy that's like 15.
	I don't know.
	So where are you from?
	I'm actually 21.
	Okay.
	I'm from Germany.
	Germany.
	Okay.
	And what's up?
	Yeah.
	So I have one quick question.
	So I was wondering because with guys, like dating guys, how do I know if a guy is only in it for one thing?
	Because guys usually are really good at trying to make a girl believe that they really love you and they like you.
	But a lot of times they just only care about one thing.
	And I just want to know how I can see through that.
	Okay.
	Have you ever had sex with a man?
	Yes, I have.
	And how long?
	So I don't want to ask you how many, but what is the average length of time in dates that you wait until you sleep with a man?
	I would say about two months.
	Two months.
	So, I mean, how often are you going out with the man every week?
	Because I just want to get an idea of how many dates it is.
	Well, not a lot.
	I usually don't date very much.
	Okay, look.
	Let's okay.
	Now let's talk about the last guy that you met and you slept with.
	Okay, let's let's start there.
	How did you meet him?
	Well, I met him through a friend of mine.
	Okay, so how did it go from meeting him to the first date?
	Well, it went kind of.
	Oh, she got cut off again.
	Are you serious?
	Man, Germany is like the third world now.
	They can't even get a phone line up, but it's okay.
	I know what her number looks like.
	So she needs to get a brand new phone.
	German phones, man.
	See, this is what this is what actually happens when you invite the third world.
	You can't even get a phone line anymore.
	See, I wanted because what she was saying, two months, she waited.
	That is the average.
	And I said, how many dates is that?
	And she couldn't tell me.
	That's a little weird.
	So that's why I asked about the last man to get a sense of what is the process that she is going through.
	Because a girl wouldn't ask me this unless some guy convinced her that he was in love, but he wasn't.
	So let's see if she calls in the next second or so.
	I guess we're going to have to continue that later.
	Oh, well.
	Let's go to this guy.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hey, Rouge, how's it going?
	What's up?
	Pretty good.
	How about you?
	I'm good.
	I'm good.
	So based on what another caller he brought up, that old Dr. Oz show, I just wanted to remind everyone that when you were put on the spot by Dr. Oz And he asked you, he brought up some quote that you said about fat girls.
	And your answer was actually, and this was before the elections, your answer was exactly like Donald Trump.
	You said it was locker room talk.
	Right, right, right.
	I always remember that.
	Yeah.
	Donald Trump, he reads me.
	He's like, I'm going to see.
	There's a guy who has been through the fire.
	No, but yeah, it was.
	I mean, all the websites I write, I mean, it's for men.
	It's like I'm talking to you one-on-one.
	Whether we're in a locker room and just, you know, in a bar, it's not really intended for others to read it.
	So when they take these shock quotes out of context, then yeah, it comes across as maybe weird.
	Right.
	And I just had one more question for you.
	Make it quick.
	Did you hear about Floyd Mentwell's answer to the Me Too question?
	Yeah, I'm pretty sure he gave like a red pill answer.
	I forgot what it was, but it was like a good answer.
	Right.
	So my question to you was: do you think that he is red-pilled, or do you think he's like dumb and naturally answers in an awesome way?
	You can have a low IQ, but still be a red pill guy.
	You know, I don't think there's a link there.
	In fact, I think if your IQ is high, you are probably have been put through years of university, then your likelihood of being blue pill is actually higher, you know, because it's a guy that's been raised on the mean streets, no college education.
	He's probably red-pilled.
	But I don't think, you know, his whether he's dumb or not, that has anything to do with it.
	I think his street smarts are very, very high.
	Whether he can read a book on, you know, ancient Greek or something, I don't think it matters.
	But I think he can see the basics of how the interactions between women and men really are.
	Great.
	Well, thanks, Roosh.
	That was my only question.
	And I just sent you some, I just sent you $10 worth of Bitcoin.
	Thank you, sir.
	Yes.
	Far more valuable.
	It's far more valuable than the $100 that Jay Dyer sent you.
	It is going to be worth, hopefully, 100X in a year or two.
	Just never sell.
	Always hold.
	I won't sell.
	I won't sell.
	Okay.
	Bye-bye.
	I think I knew who that guy was, but if I did, I'll find out soon.
	Okay.
	Now, let me just go use the bathroom for a pee-pee break, and I'll be back in two minutes.
	All right.
	Is that bed dog moving?
	Yeah.
	Yes, it is.
	If you just look at Arnold, he moves.
	I'm tired of people saying he's fake.
	I mean, that's just that's dumb.
	So, earlier, I went to the bakery and I bought a piece of chocolate cake, and I just wanted to show you because I'm really excited about it.
	Look at that cake, look at that density.
	Yeah, that's good stuff.
	Oh, that smells so good.
	Can't wait to eat that.
	You know, sometimes you have to find the little things that make you happy.
	And for me, Sunday, eating a piece of cake, pizza, good stuff.
	Okay, let's get any more super chats I missed.
	No more super chats.
	If you are enjoying this super chat, let's beat Jay, who's giving me hundreds of dollars and is paying my rent.
	Oh, I think where is that German girl?
	Is she still here?
	So, I think she's actually hanging up.
	She's like getting scared, you know.
	Okay, which I'm always pretty gentle to her, I thought sweet and gentle.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller.
	Hello?
	Yes.
	Hello, Rush.
	How are you doing?
	You're okay.
	How and how are you doing?
	I'm very well.
	Thank you.
	So I'm calling from the UK, by the way.
	I think you have been to London before.
	Yes, I have.
	How are you doing, Mr. Bush?
	What is going on there?
	Oh, no, sorry.
	I'm just opening my door.
	It's snowing here, man.
	Trust me.
	Okay.
	Yeah, so what's up?
	I've got a question about X girls and to be honest.
	Okay.
	So basically, I just want to ask about so we've been together.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I am hearing a lot of background noise, shuffling, like you're burying a body somewhere.
	Like you're yeah, I can hear you, but I'm not.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay, good.
	Right, sorry.
	So basically, just a question about discussion.
	We've been together on and off four to five years.
	Okay.
	And she never goes away.
	So basically, she always like texts me on, you know, from out of the blue just to find out.
	And if I do ask her out and she never agrees, she will say, oh, I'll let you know.
	I'll let you know.
	And we've been so we've seen each other before just before Christmas.
	And what happened was, and she seen me, she was absolutely perfectly fine.
	And she decided to see me next day, which she stood me up.
	She didn't turn up.
	And then I asked her out again.
	And what she did is, she said, I'll let you know.
	And what she did is, like, I was in the town.
	I live in a different city.
	And she said, at like two hours ago, two hours before, I was in the town and she said, oh, are you still in town?
	I want to meet you.
	And things like that.
	Like, she's like, I don't know if she's playing games or what it is.
	How long have you known her for?
	Oh, well, I know her from 70 years.
	Okay.
	Have you slept with her?
	Oh, yeah, because she lost virginity to me.
	Okay.
	The way it sounds is she got you by the balls.
	You are her plan B.
	She is when she says, I'll let you know, she is trying to find a better plan, a better man, a better party.
	And if she can't find that, then maybe she'll go with you.
	So, yeah, maybe you've been sleeping with her, but she doesn't care.
	She doesn't care.
	So, what should I do?
	I really like if she should.
	Sure, I'm going to tell you.
	You have to care less than her.
	You have to tell her, I'll let you know.
	For every I'll let you know, she does, you have to give her 10 of them.
	You have to be busy.
	You have to date other women and be genuinely busy.
	You can't fake it.
	You have to get, you have to have something else going on because she got you.
	You are waiting by the phone for her to tell you that she is ready to hang out with you because she couldn't find a better plan.
	Nice.
	So, basically, I do.
	I do.
	The only thing is, right?
	So, basically, the thing is that I'm dating other women.
	It's not a problem.
	But if I cut her off completely, I did cut her off for six months and she turns up.
	Okay.
	Right.
	And if you do ask her out, she was like, Oh, I'll let you know still.
	Like, after six months, she doesn't give a fuck about you.
	She doesn't care.
	She doesn't care about you.
	It's very clear.
	Why?
	I don't know.
	It doesn't matter why because you cannot solve it.
	This is not a logical problem.
	This is what men try to do.
	You know, if I can just find out why she's not into me, I can do it.
	No, that is a bad frame.
	She doesn't like you because you have been weak to her.
	You are weak.
	She knows that she got you.
	You're not a challenge.
	She knows that you're going to jump through as many hoops as she says.
	She doesn't want that.
	Right.
	Okay.
	So basically, last time what happened was when I was speaking to her and I was like a bit tipsy and you know, I was out of the friends and stuff.
	I said, whatever, I'll talk to you.
	I'll deal with you next week.
	And she didn't like it.
	She didn't like me saying that.
	Where she likes to cares what she likes.
	Yeah, no, nobody says.
	Like, I'm just saying, she doesn't like it.
	And she's like a bit shocked.
	Like, how can I say that?
	Okay, good.
	Make her shocked more and more and more and stay that way.
	And if she is so shocked that she comes to your bedroom, don't get soft again.
	You're too soft.
	You're too soft.
	I mean, I'm sure.
	Cut her off and tell her when she comes back saying, I'm tired of you.
	You don't treat me well.
	I don't give a shit about you anymore.
	I'm done with you.
	That's it.
	And but see, the problem is this.
	The problem is she sees you as a weak guy.
	She sees you as a soft guy, and you want to, right?
	You want to find out how to be strong enough to get her to get her back, but the weakness is still inside you.
	So, really, with it's hard to solve this.
	Once a girl starts to see you as weak, unless you become a genuinely strong man, unless you transform, man, it's tough.
	She's always going to see you in that because she's known you for years and years.
	You know, she has an image of you that a trick, a game trick, a text is not going to change it.
	So, you messed up with her, right?
	Right.
	Right, right.
	Understand, understand, Rush.
	Let's go.
	Sorry, we're good, bro.
	Thanks very much.
	The only thing is, like, so I should not like, I should not call her.
	I shouldn't ask her.
	If she called me, what should I, how shall I respond to her?
	I don't understand.
	You do not answer.
	You move on.
	I don't know.
	I mean, listen, honestly, the best answer is to move on.
	She sees you as a weak guy.
	She doesn't care about you.
	So why?
	I mean, I know you still have feelings for her.
	I get it.
	But unless you go through a transformation where you become a strong guy starting today, which is very hard, I think for you, you have to find another girl.
	Start from the right foot.
	Don't be weak.
	Don't let women say, I'll let you know.
	No, no, you let them know.
	They wait for you.
	You don't wait for them.
	That's right.
	That's right.
	Well, thanks very much, man.
	We'll follow you.
	We'll follow you.
	We're doing a great work.
	Thanks very much.
	Thanks very much.
	Thanks a lot, buddy.
	Thanks a lot.
	Thanks.
	Take care.
	God bless, bro.
	Thank you.
	Bye-bye.
	Thanks.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, man.
	I mean, I'm sorry.
	I mean, once you're that far gone, when a girl sees you as a weak guy, that's it.
	It's done.
	It's done.
	I mean, I can give him step by step on what to do to get the bang again, to get another bang.
	And then what?
	He's going to go back to his old ways because it's inside him.
	So the weakness in her eyes, anyway, is flowing from him.
	And she just is like treating him like dog shit.
	And he's because he has taken it for such a long time.
	Send her a dick pic.
	Okay.
	Let's get to this.
	Caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hey, Roche.
	How you doing?
	What's going on?
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm calling from New Jersey.
	This is actually my second time calling in.
	Okay.
	Last time I talked to you was, I believe, during the New Year's live stream.
	I'm not sure if you recognize my voice.
	I don't.
	Maybe I do, but how is your year going?
	You know, it's kind of rough so far in terms of looking for a woman.
	And again, I was the guy that's trying to look for like a traditional woman through like online dating.
	And it's kind of like a disaster.
	I don't advise that.
	Yeah, I know you don't, but like, this is the thing where I don't really understand, but I think there's something really screwed up with millennial white women these days that it's like they're so indecisive and they don't know what the fuck they want.
	You know, it's like I've been talking to this girl for like two weeks online and, you know, having great conversations as common ground.
	We both come from the same culture.
	Like, you know, we're white, we're Italian.
	And it's just, I asked her on a date and she agreed to it.
	And, you know, at the last minute, she just flaked on me for like no reason.
	She goes, hey, I don't think I'm ready to meet anybody, but you were really nice to talk with.
	I think you're going to meet someone really nice on the site, but it's like, I just feel like I'm not ready to talk to anybody.
	And she's like, goodbye.
	I didn't respond back because I'm just like, what a typical millennial thing just to flake on the last minute.
	I set up plans, like, you know, to meet up, and then here she is just telling me to fuck up.
	There's something seriously wrong with white millennial women that I don't even see.
	But you know what, though?
	I mean, I've lived in South America and the women there flake too.
	Now, I haven't been to Asia or maybe Africa, but if, but if there is a in-demand young African girl, 21 in Nairobi, Kenya, in the rich part, I'm going to guess that she also flakes.
	So flaking is less a matter of race than how many options that she actually has.
	She has a lot of options.
	Why should she go out with you when since she made a plan with you?
	Many Chads have actually hit her up.
	So she's like, oh, well, this guy's all right, but this other Chad, he wants to pump and dump me.
	And his, you know, body is better.
	He injects himself with Lloyd's.
	So it's really a factor of they have a lot of options.
	So you're really dealing with girls who have a lot of options.
	And the way that I solve that problem when I was back in Washington, D.C., and even now, is go for it when you meet them.
	You know, so if you're meeting a girl in the bar, don't get a number.
	Number is not going to go anywhere.
	By the time you text her, she's already met maybe 10 other guys.
	So you have to go for the same night bangs.
	You know, if you get her out on a date, even if you don't really need to bang, you don't need, you're not in the mood, the likelihood she's going to come on a second date unless she loves you is really low.
	You know, so if these girls have a lot of options, you got to strike when the iron is hot.
	And the iron is going to be hottest when you got her face to face.
	Yeah, that is true.
	I mean, she didn't even give me the opportunity just to like even meet up on like the first date.
	And it's like, what the hell are you doing?
	She doesn't care.
	On like a dating website where the whole point is like, you know, you talk to them for a little bit and when you feel like there's enough common ground, you just, you meet someone just for a simple date, like, you know, a coffee or a brunch.
	They don't common ground for them, they don't, they don't care about.
	They want excitement and fun.
	They want high value, very high.
	So, I mean, yeah, it's like the things that you value that you would cause to go on a date with a girl is not what they value.
	Don't put your frame of mind into a girl to try to understand them.
	It will fail because men are illogical.
	You know, women don't.
	Women just feel it.
	It's not logical at all.
	She's a woman.
	Well, it does make sense if you're there.
	It doesn't make sense if you're a logical person, but if you're a fully emotional person, kind of a child mind trapped in an adult body, it makes perfect sense because at the time that you're, that the day of the day came, she didn't feel like it.
	So she doesn't want to go.
	She didn't feel like it.
	There's, she has no, you didn't sign a contract where she has to abide by her word, be honorable.
	You didn't, I mean, there's no, there's nothing in Western culture now that are encouraging women to do what they should do.
	It's just do what you feel.
	So she felt talking to you.
	She gave your number.
	She felt like agreeing to a date.
	And then when the day of the day came, she felt like not.
	And that's it.
	Yeah.
	And the thing is, the reason why I said, you know, what is wrong with like white millennial, like Western woman mode, particularly in America, it's like, I don't have this issue with non-white women.
	Like they all flock to me for some reason.
	Like I get a lot of Hispanics and blacks and like these like mixed race looking Pacific Asian islanders.
	And it's like, is it that I'm just not attracted to a white woman?
	Like I'm not like a bad looking guy.
	I mean, but it's like, I think it's something cultural that is deeply screwed up with like a modern white woman in America.
	I think now, I think that the love bonding mechanism in white people are lower than in other races.
	I think for white people to have an IQ that is high, they've had to sacrifice other things, you know.
	So, I think, I mean, I've never seen a woman so easily bang a lot of dudes without caring than a white girl.
	I'm not saying black women can't and Spanish can't, but white women are, it's so easy for them.
	It's so easy for a white girl to adopt the behavior of a pump and dumper.
	You know, it's like kind of gross.
	But I'm not, again, I'm not saying that other races can't do this also.
	But if you spend a lot of time in Europe and you see what the Swedish girls do and you see the diabolical nature of the Ukrainian and you see the Polish and the Germans, I mean, for them, it's like they just, it's so easy for them.
	There's no love.
	I mean, they can separate sex from almost everything else the most easy compared to other girls.
	So that's just how it is.
	This is why I'm kind of, I think for me, white girls were good for fun.
	You know, it's not like I'm banging honorable girls.
	I'm banging easier girls.
	But to find a wife, I'm thinking, I don't think I would want to marry one because they just, it's kind of like easy, come, easy, go with them.
	They're so cold.
	You know, that's exactly what it is.
	I mean, and it's, it's a college mentality that doesn't seem to go away until like maybe they're in their early 30s or something because this is a girl that was like, you know, pushing like 27 years old.
	And it's like, you would think that when you get to that age and like you're, you're, you're practically done with school, you should be like, you know, in theory, like looking to find the right person.
	I mean, like, not just like a marry right away, but it's like, okay, you know, I want to kind of date, like, you know, with attempts to like making something work, you know, long term.
	But it's like, that's not how they think for some reason.
	Yeah, but one thing is like, my preference is like, I want to, I specifically want a girl that is like, you know, similar to my culture.
	Like, you know, as I said before, I'm Italian.
	I prefer an Italian woman.
	But, you know, I get a lot of girls that are like not my culture that just flop towards me.
	So why are you dating them?
	Well, dude, I mean, listen, I sense a bit of anger.
	You're not happy with how things are going.
	You're frustrated.
	Yeah, I'm not happy.
	I get it.
	But man, that's not going to help you.
	Women are going to feel it.
	They're going to feel it.
	Women don't like that.
	Women don't want a man who's jaded and bitter.
	They want a man who's so free and fun and is laughing all the time and telling fun stories.
	They don't like it when, because a woman can feel it.
	A woman can perceive things better than men.
	So what you're saying to me, even you're talking to me as a man, man to man, the next girl you go up to, she's going to feel all that.
	So you need to get your mind in a place where you're not mad, where you have to accept it.
	This is how it is.
	It's not only you are experiencing this.
	Everyone's, every guy's.
	I mean, you've heard the other men calling.
	We just had a caller that women, this woman is treating him like dog shit.
	I mean, it isn't just you.
	So don't, don't feel that.
	You know, just accept it.
	This is how it is.
	This is 2018.
	This is what Western dating love is.
	Accept it and find what you can out of it.
	But don't get mad because a woman's definitely not going to want to be with you if she senses that.
	Yeah, I understand that.
	Um, and again, it's like when I do meet someone, it's like I do have fun with them.
	Like, you know, I'm very talkative, I'm not boring, but it's like again, it's like most of these white women they don't even give me like a first chance, like if she even meet, I just don't even understand.
	Well, man, I would get, I would get your state of mind a little bit better, a little bit calmer.
	Don't have such high expectations of them and take it one interaction at a time.
	All right, man.
	All right, thanks.
	Bye-bye.
	Have a good one.
	Yeah, I feel the problems that he is having, but women don't like that when you are like going into a new interaction and you they can feel it if you're a little bit upset if things aren't going well.
	Like, that's not gonna you know help him out.
	Ruch, would you accept Arnold if he came out as queer?
	What I would kick him out.
	I don't care how cold is.
	If he ever says he's gay, he comes out, he can go out.
	I'm not gonna have a gay son, I hope not.
	All right, so I have 15 minutes.
	We got seven callers, I'll probably get to two of them.
	Let me see if there's anyone I got.
	All right, I think we let's try this guy.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Yo, Roosevelt, what's up, man?
	What's going on?
	And where are you calling from?
	I am calling from the Midwest.
	I'm 28 years old and I am a white American guy.
	Okay.
	So, what's up?
	Cool.
	Uh, well, you wrote an article in like 2008 about what to do if she has a boyfriend.
	Okay.
	And I made like one of the stupidest mistakes of gaming.
	I was talking to this girl, got her number.
	She was totally down to hang out.
	And like, I don't know why, just stupidly, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, like, after all, this interaction was taking place.
	And why?
	I know because I'm a fucking idiot.
	That's okay.
	Yeah, I know.
	But, and so it was a huge mistake.
	And so, and then obviously it got her brain going and she felt bad and she, you know, like, and then it sort of went cold and whatever.
	And so, I realized the mistake that I made, but I was just sort of wanting to get your advice on how hard you game a girl with boyfriend with a boyfriend because, like, I've had a uh girl, I've gotten girlfriends before where like they became a long-term relationship and I didn't even know like that they had a boyfriend and then they became my girlfriend.
	And so, yeah.
	Now, whether you ask or not, first of all, that depends on where you currently are.
	If you're in a country where most women do not have a boyfriend and will happily cheat, then you do not ask.
	If you're in a more traditionally minded country where a lot of girls have a boyfriend, I'm more inclined to ask because if it's, I don't want to waste time and I want kind of to know where I do stand, even though I know that asking does give a girl who's not sure about you an easy out.
	But honestly, I don't want to sleep with a girl who is getting banged out, you know.
	So, I know that in the past when I was a younger guy, I used to try to plot it.
	Like, how can I get it in anyway?
	I didn't care, but now it's like she just got dick from another dude.
	I don't want to share her, you know.
	I mean, of course, we are going to be with a girl who's been with a lot of guys, but I don't want like she still has the guy's juice in her or something.
	I don't know.
	But anyway, so what I would do if I were you is this: if a girl has a boyfriend that she cares about in the U.S., she will tell you.
	She will tell you.
	And the sooner she tells you, the more serious it is.
	Like if she tells you that, um, like if you go up to her and say, say, hi, my name is Steve.
	And then she, before you even say your name, she's like, but I got a boyfriend.
	And it's not going anywhere.
	So definitely that's how I know.
	And, but if she's starting to tell you when you're trying to kiss, then it's like she kind of doesn't care about them.
	So if you ignore it and keep going, then you'll probably get something out of it.
	But if you're at the clothes or coming off stage or the heavy petting stage, I mean, that boyfriend is long gone now.
	She's only thinking about you and what she wants.
	So really, it's the best gauge is not to ask.
	And if she tells you, it's how when does she?
	If she's telling you before any of the physical contact is coming, I wouldn't even bother.
	But if she's telling you when you're ready, halfway in there, then I mean, she doesn't really care about that man if she's going to allow you to go so far.
	That makes sense.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Thank you.
	Really appreciate it.
	Sure thing.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	So, yeah, I have a dinner date with friends in 20 minutes.
	It takes me 10 minutes to go there.
	That's why.
	So I got maybe we can do two more calls.
	Let's see.
	We have six that are holding.
	Let's go to this guy.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	This is Jim.
	My friends, I'm from New Jersey.
	My friends called in a week ago about me dating Brazilian girls versus American girls.
	Yeah, I remember that.
	It was weird because it was like, I'm calling for a friend and then they gave your problem.
	I was like, why doesn't he just call in?
	Yeah, yeah.
	I was literally got an online date with actually a Brazilian girl who was in the U.S. and was driving to that, but I did get to hear it.
	So I wanted to call in.
	I'm 32 and I've been reading all your books and really picked up a lot of the Brazil techniques from your Brazil book.
	Good.
	And I've been going there maybe three times now, going again for carnival coming up.
	And then I come back to New Jersey, meet New Jersey girls who generally are kind of, you know, bitchy, not friendly, demanding.
	And at what point do you just say, I've had enough of this in the U.S. and just kind of keep going international?
	When you can no longer tolerate living in the USA, then you should go.
	I mean, but it's, I mean, usually you don't have to ask anyone.
	You just say, like, shit, I want to leave.
	And then you just leave.
	If you're not sure, then what you can do is maintain your apartment where you are, do like a three to six month trip somewhere else, have to pay two rents at the same time if you're not sure.
	But I mean, really, it's if you just, if you want to go.
	I mean, if you just want to go, you want to do it, then just do it.
	I mean, there's no real itemized checklist that is a guarantee that you should do it.
	It's like, it's like you want to go.
	Okay.
	Well, I'm stuck here kind of career-wise.
	So I go there, see them.
	Some of them get visas, come back.
	But I don't know.
	I guess I kept holding out for hope in the northern New Jersey area, but it seems unless your game is top-notch and whatnot.
	It's very difficult here.
	We've had quite a few callers from the Jersey area.
	It doesn't seem like things are going so well there for men.
	It seems a little bit difficult.
	I don't know.
	I have never been there, but I mean, yeah, I think, you know, this is a huge problem for a lot of men.
	Is things and where they live to make to meet a woman is very difficult.
	Now, I know the appeal of going far away to an exotic country is nice because at least you're exotic in that country and can get some attraction points from the women who want that.
	But one thing, if I could do it all over again in 2008 is to see if maybe there's another place in the USA that I could go to first just to try out.
	But honestly, I don't know where.
	You know, if you want a more conservative girl, then maybe somewhere in the West, like Idaho, Wyoming.
	But then you may have to deal with girls who are big, you know, like fatties.
	So I don't know.
	That's one of the concerns with that.
	Yeah, I haven't lived in the USA in a long time.
	I didn't, you know, I've been to more cities in the current country I'm in than in the USA.
	So I don't know.
	Yeah, it's it's uh if you can't do it locally, see if there's another state that maybe you can move to and still get a high-paying job.
	If you give up on the U.S. totally, then what other option do you have but to go abroad, right?
	Yeah, that's it.
	Okay, thanks for the invitation.
	Yeah, man.
	Okay, let me.
	Why is my clock?
	Okay, so we got a little bit more time.
	I haven't, well, let's see.
	How is the chat doing?
	Arizona women are the best.
	Could be.
	High or low IQ women ruch.
	Oh, I think higher IQ women, they like, oh, smart women cannot date a man stupider.
	They cannot date a dumber man.
	I don't, they, so if a woman has a high IQ, she must date a guy smarter.
	The problem is a high IQ girl is more likely to be something like a lawyer, a doctor, and who wants to date that?
	So unfortunately, I wouldn't mind a smarter girl, but a smarter girl is so career-minded because she doesn't want her mind to go to waste that they make for bad long-term partners.
	All right, we have a foreign number.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller.
	Caller, speak to me.
	I can hear something, but we can't waste time on that.
	Let's go to this guy.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Yep.
	Can you hear me?
	Yes, I can.
	Oh, okay.
	Good.
	Cool.
	Yeah, I'm just wondering, when do you actually think that there's going to be a collapse in the United States?
	How long is this going to be sustainable?
	You know, if there is one, first of all, it's not going to improve your life.
	You know, a lot of men who are not in a good place right now think that some kind of collapse.
	I'm not sure if you're talking about economic collapse or a cultural collapse, but it's not going to help because in the ashes of any kind of collapse is a multi-decade period of improving it.
	Now, I'm guessing, how old are you?
	Oh, 19.
	Okay, so I'm young.
	So, I mean, let's just think about like multi-generational.
	Yeah, it'll get better.
	Let's say you are a 19-year-old guy, you're not happy with how the women are dating marriage and the smartphone culture and things like that.
	And you're hoping.
	Well, I'm not necessarily like that.
	No, I know.
	I'm just saying, let's do a general hypothetical and you want things to improve.
	For that to actually happen, once the collapse happens, there has to be a seed born within the ashes that rises up and takes over.
	So, this is something that, I mean, from what I know, would take between 20 to 60 years at the minimum.
	So, I'm not sure why do you care though?
	Why do you want to know this?
	I'm just interested.
	I'm just are you thinking of a cultural collapse and more economical collapse or both?
	Yeah, I'm just uh wondering what it's going to be like for like multi-generational, yeah.
	I mean, you know, I think that in the USA, you're going to be, yeah, since the wealth in the USA is so high that even if a collapse happens, there's still going to be enough money swimming around that it's not going to be as bad as like some kind of shitholes that we see in what you know, Haiti, which is a major shithole.
	But you're not, I think, because and the one thing I've seen, even countries I go that are poor, the center of town is, I mean, you got some fancy cafes, clubbing.
	So, I mean, even when a collapse happens, people are still going to have fun, have cars.
	So, I, this is why, you know, I don't talk about that a lot because I don't think it's going to really help anyone.
	I think solving problems during a collapse is going to be, you know, harder.
	Now, if it happens, we would deal with it.
	But where do I see it going?
	Do I think it's going to happen?
	I don't think that we can maintain the course that we're currently on.
	I mean, with what women and men and the trainees and the gays, that's not going to, I mean, something is going to blow up.
	And I think Trump, ironically, is kind of trying to keep the center held into place because he's at least preventing the patriotic people from getting angry at the system.
	But if Trump doesn't, if there wasn't Trump, Hillary is starting to clamp down on, you know, everybody.
	I think you're going to see more rebellion type of thing.
	But I don't know, man.
	I don't know.
	I'm just taking it honestly one day at a time, trying to insulate myself as much as I reasonably can.
	I don't have a shelter, a bomb out shelter somewhere.
	But, you know, try to at least insulate myself from the day-to-day politics and the news.
	You know, just try to maintain course, do the work that I love, reach the men I like, you know, have the friendships that I value.
	That's the most that you can really do.
	All right.
	Thanks.
	Okay.
	Sure thing, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, that's really great that I get callers that are young, as young as 16 to some older guys calling.
	So I think it's really a nice thing that my life experience and knowledge can help such a wide array of men.
	On that note, I have to go.
	And hey, I like I know it was a little bit short and I think I could keep on going, but I have to eat.
	And I like to, while having virtual friends on YouTube is nice, having real friends is also good.
	So if you have a friend in your town, call him up.
	Go get a tea, a coffee, a pizza, or something such as that.
	And thank you for everyone who donated, who gave me a super chat.
	Thanks to all the callers.
	It's not easy to call in and be live to 450 people.
	So I hope you guys all have a good day.
	And maybe we'll do this again next week.

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