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Jan. 11, 2018 - Roosh V - Daryush Valizadeh
02:08:47
Roosh Live #4
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All right, we are now live.
It is January 10 at 6 p.m. Eastern.
Arnold is very active today.
He'll be moving.
And I haven't opened the call line yet.
I'm going to do that in about one minute because what was happening is guys were calling in like an hour before.
So they were jumping in front of the queue.
And so to avoid that, I made sure not to open the call line yet.
All right, let me check, make sure the chat is working.
How is everyone?
Everyone's good.
It seems to be.
And also, I wanted to try how it's like to do a chat during the weekday.
Usually I've been doing it during the weekend.
And so now I think the crowd is going to be a little bit more calm, quiet.
We're not going to have 50, 60 calls or so.
So one thing is I did a baked Alaska stream last night.
And one thing I noticed is that I thought his audience was going to be red pill, but it was the most blue pill audience I've ever seen.
Like his moderators in the chat were all women and they all really hated me.
So that was kind of weird.
I thought I was going into the red pill zone, but instead it wasn't.
All right.
me get the call line set up.
Make sure that's working.
I think it's working.
All right.
So I am now, so you can now call in.
So the number is in the info box.
So go ahead.
There's a lot of numbers there if you're based in the USA or if you're an international.
Right now, my energy is a little bit down because I just ate a huge meal.
So I may be a little bit sluggish.
So we have one caller so far.
And let me see.
Mute.
Make sure this is one thing.
All right, let's go to the first caller who's been holding for one minute.
Hello, caller.
You are now live.
Well, I'm the first caller here.
You are number one.
Sounds good.
So I just have a question about where you're.
So I know you're not allowed.
I'm calling from West Coast U.S., by the way.
Okay.
I know you're not allowed to say where you are exactly, but as far as I know, you're in Eastern Europe.
Right.
Do you like where you're at now, given the, you know, we've talked a lot about the degeneracy of women in the West.
And do you like where you are in Eastern Europe currently?
So whatever I left in the USA, it has followed me.
You know, whatever I really, I really hated like a shadow, it comes with me.
So while things are not as bad here, it's not the night and day difference that I experienced when I first came to Europe, to Eastern Europe in 2011.
It's still good, but it's not something that I am actively urging men.
Oh, you have to leave because things are getting worse here at a pace that's a little bit faster than things are getting worse in the USA.
So is it worth it for you to leave and to come here?
You know, the only way you can answer that is for you to take a trip and to come here just to see it.
And if it's something that you believe is going to satisfy you, then it's worth it.
But the thing is that you have to keep in mind that your needs change as you get older.
Like when I was back in 2011, 12, getting laid was my number one goal.
That's all I wanted.
And now it is not.
So is the current place which I picked because it was easy to meet girls, is it now the best place for me to live when that's no longer the number one priority?
Probably not.
Okay, I see.
So basically, so basically what you're saying is that the current place that you're at now is not fully suiting the need that you're looking for.
Yeah, because if you pick a place that's based on the need that you have, you have to understand that your needs change.
As the years go on, your needs are going to change.
Your energy is going to change.
Your motivations, your goals, everything.
So this is, it's a little bit foolhardy to just pick a place that is only satisfying you right now.
You know, that's something that I did, but I'm lucky that I did pick a place that all around isn't, isn't bad.
It's a place that I can see myself staying in for a bit longer.
But honestly, if to live in the USA was the same price as it is here, and it's not because I'm paying maybe only 25% of the cost that I would if I lived in a city there.
If it was the same price, I probably would maintain some kind of home there, maybe do six months in the USA and six months here.
You know, I came to Eastern Europe for the adventure and for the women, but I'm staying just because it's cheap.
Okay.
So right now, it's basically right now it's basically the cost that's sort of a factor.
But right now, you're in a place you could see yourself staying for a little while longer, but pretty soon you think you're going to be up to a next place.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I'm taking it one month at a time now.
So we'll see.
Okay.
All right, man.
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
I sense that you want to ask something else.
There is some more things I'd like to ask, but I don't want to see for too long.
Okay.
So the place that you're at now, you mentioned that it's degenerating at a faster pace than the U.S. because it can't get in, because the U.S. can't get too much.
Right, because the USA already hit such a bottom that where is it going to get worse?
I mean, over 50% are already fat or gay or ugly.
Well, how did you, I mean, do you feel like places like Siberia or Central Asia, maybe as you get far east towards the Soviet where there's less English speaking abilities, do you think that those areas sort of are staying traditional now?
Or what do you know?
I think you can try.
I do hear a lot of guys are saying good things about the Asian countries, but honestly, I haven't been there.
So Central Asia, I mean, I went to Russia.
Yeah, I mean, a lot of guys are trying to hype it up to me now.
They're saying, hey, we have to go somewhere else.
I'm telling them, you go first and tell me how it is.
And then if it's good, then maybe I'll come.
But I don't know.
You know, I don't know.
I think you just have to, the world is big and you have to put the time into finding out, you know, which country suits you.
All right, man.
And it's been a while since you've been to Siberia.
Exactly.
Exactly.
So, all right.
Thank you for your call.
Okay.
All right.
Bye-bye.
All right.
Thanks, man.
See ya.
Yeah.
And I do get a lot of guys asking me where I should go, but really, it's tough.
I mean, what suits me and what matches me is not going to match you.
So, all right.
So, if you have enjoyed the previous streams I've done and you want to leave me a super chat, that would be really, really great.
I like to read them.
And also, if you want to buy a book of mine, I've written over 15.
There has to be something I wrote that you like.
Go to my bookstore, ruchevstore.com.
And let's get to the next caller.
This looks like an international number.
Hello, caller.
You are now live.
Hello.
Hello, caller.
Speak to me.
Oh, I think we're experiencing technical problems.
Oh, well, he's only been holding for six minutes, so I don't feel bad about hanging up on him.
Okay, next guy.
Let's go here.
Caller, you are now live.
Hi, I had a question.
If I'm kind of a taller girl, is it good to still wear heels?
Because I know guys like heels, or will it bother them if I'm taller?
I'm about 5'10.
5'10.
And where are you from?
USA.
Well, one thing, one good thing about the USA is that there's a lot of tall men.
Yeah.
So I'm guessing you're in a town that you have some kind of access to seeing a lot of men who are six feet tall.
You know, I definitely do, but there are a lot that are shorter.
And I don't know if that like bothers them or not, or how much guys care about that, or if that's like a stereotype, or is that kind of like cutting out a big part of the population?
I would say don't overdo it on the heels until you meet a guy who is cool with it.
But if you're going to go to like the nightclub or to the bar in four-inch heels and you're towering even over taller guys, I don't think they're going to be as over eager to come up to you.
And now I know that I've heard of some women's sites saying you have to show you're ultra confident, but I don't buy that because I'm a tall, I'm a tall guy too.
I'm six feet two.
And if there's a girl who's 5'10 and she's wearing heels that matches the height of me, that's gonna be like, oh, she's kind of tall.
You know, but if she didn't wear these monster heels when I met her, I can at least feel, okay, I'm bigger than she is.
Because what a man wants is if he's with his girl and there is some dangerous situation happening and he needs to pick her up and to run away, he wants to know that he can do that.
But if you're towering over him, he is going to feel like, man, if there's like a robber, there's no way I'm going to be able to save her.
Right.
No, that makes sense.
It's just hard because you really do look more attractive as a woman in heels.
So like your outfits look better.
But I get my point.
So what I would do, if I were you, do a thing where for a period of time you wear heels only and then see what kind of reactions you are getting and then a period of time where you don't.
And then see if you can, it's like a science experiment, right?
And then see in which case do you feel that men are more eager to come after you?
Does that make sense?
Right.
Because otherwise, it's just like a guess.
You know, like me, I'm, I am telling you as a six foot two guy, I don't like girls who are really, really tall.
Now, I've dated taller girls, but there could be another guy that just sees a woman who's like a giant, and he just something inside him, it turns on.
I don't know.
So, what I would do is for one month, only wear heels everywhere, and then one month don't wear heels anywhere.
And then see if there is an obvious difference.
If there's not a difference that is obvious, then it probably doesn't even matter and it only matters to you.
Okay, okay.
And do guys mostly prefer women like in skirts and dresses, do you think?
Or because a lot of girls wear like tight jeans, and but I don't know which, like, what is better, do you think?
To myself, just to meet like a I'm looking to date, not like, um, and date means what though?
I mean, because date could mean different things.
I mean, date, as in your sleep with him by date three, date five.
No, so how long?
Like a long, like a long term.
Um, I don't have, um, I don't want to, I have never had sex, actually, so I don't want to have sex before marriage.
Okay, how old are you?
Um, I'm the general age range, huh?
Yes, sir, yeah, 30.
30.
Okay, so I can see that you know, you are trying to find out why it is difficult, you know.
So, you're wanting to target, is there a problem with the uh, with the with the height issue?
So, that makes sense.
Um, in that case, I would say don't dress in like really short skirts and revealing clothes because that's going to signal to the man that you are easy or you would have sex within a short amount of time.
Now, I'm not saying wear a mu moo or something that's so loose that a man has no idea of how you look like and no idea if you're fat or thin.
But I would probably lean more towards the conservative side as long as you don't look like a woman who works in a boring office like the suit pants.
So, something that's maybe a dress that's kind of loose that the wind once in a while it picks it up and then it reveals that okay, this woman is thin and she has curves.
That's what I would say.
So, don't don't compete with the girls who give it up easily, right?
Okay, well, thank you for your invite.
Sure thing, uh-huh.
Yeah, so I can tell that, you know, she is, I mean, I would feel bad for a woman right now who is, who doesn't want to sleep with a man early and I don't fault them for that.
I mean, if she is a woman who wants to only be with one man for her entire life, that's a nice thing.
But the problem is 99% of girls are just giving it up for anything.
You know, there's girls who are meeting men on the dating apps and without even knowing the man coming to his to his apartment.
So, I can see if all these girls are giving it up and then this girl doesn't want to, yeah, she's going to have problems whether she is tall or not, because what percentage of the population of men are ready to marry a girl without sleeping with her first?
Unfortunately, people in the USA who want that are in for a hard, hard time.
Okay, I think we got a super chat.
We got a super chat from Eric Designs.
Eric sent $20.
You are radio host in the making.
Keep up the good work.
Ruch, Eric D, aka August West.
Thank you, Eric.
Thank you very much.
All right, let's go to the next call.
Think I'm starting to warm up.
You know, that food I ate, Arnold ate two.
That's why he's not moving as much as I thought.
I thought he was going to be active.
But if you look carefully, he does move.
So I don't want to hear these false accusations that he is some kind of stuffed animal.
That's that's not true.
Okay, let's go here.
Good evening, caller.
You are now live.
Hey, Ruth, can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
And where are you calling from?
United States.
Okay, it's a large, large area, but that's fine.
So I caught you baked Alaska stream last night and I thought it was really entertaining.
So I wanted to say that.
Great.
So I like to lurk on poll the chat room a little bit, which I think you do too.
Pole loves me.
Yeah, yeah.
And one of the topics that seems to come up a lot is the topic of East Asian girlfriends.
And I feel like a lot of white men in the West who are, you know, they're kind of turned off by the quality of women these days.
They're finding a lot of success in Asian women.
They tend to have like a lot of those traditional values still that guys are looking for.
But the big debate on poll is that, you know, the whole what is your family going to be like and you know the demographic situation and all that.
And, you know, it kind of gives you second guesses of if you really want to be in that kind of relation, you know, international relationship long term.
And, you know, I just wanted to see what your take was on that kind of first thing is that first thing is the average user of poll is who?
It's some kind of 19 year old fat geek.
You know, some of them are, some of them are fit, but these are the nerdiest, most autistic, geekiest, anti-social men, if you want to call them that, in the USA.
Okay, they're very geeky.
They are smart.
I'll give them that.
They're smart.
They're good at digging stuff, but they are very sensitive, geeky guys.
So when I see them say, oh, you shouldn't race mix with an Asian, with an Asian girl, what I'm really hearing is don't get a good-looking Asian girl because I don't have a girl.
That's what I actually hear.
So it really, all it matters is not what those geeks think, but what you think.
You know, how do you feel about it?
So if I'm guessing you're a white guy, if you mate with an Asian girl, yeah, your kid is going to be half white and half Asian.
Now, I think, you know, as long as your son doesn't grow up to be the next Elliot Roger, I don't think that half Asian people look bad, you know, as long as the only thing is you have to make sure your son doesn't have some kind of confidence issue.
But other than other than that, it depends on you.
Because look, if you tried in the USA to get a white girl and you don't see real hope in that and you want to explore other options, I mean, no one is going to be by your side if you stay and try to mate with a white girl and then it fails.
You know, and I'm seeing it.
It's tough because the white girls right now who are in their in their prime, they don't want kids.
They don't want kids.
They want fun.
They want to have fun.
They want money.
They want to work.
They want to go out.
They don't want kids.
And by the time they do want kids, you don't want them.
So if you can find an Asian girl in her prime and she has the right values, it may be something.
I'm not encouraging you to do it, but don't care what a forum thinks.
Care what you think.
What do you want?
I think it's also, it's also kind of natural too, just to want your kids to look like you and things like that.
And it's just kind of like a nagging thing, like in your heart, kind of that, you know, I don't think it's all completely just, you know, pole influencing my thinking and all that.
I mean, yeah, I want a kid to look like me too.
But, you know, if you tried on women who look like you and you failed and you're getting older, how old are you?
27.
27.
Okay, you're still young, but I mean, if you say you're 38, you're the same age as me, and you fail to mate with a woman of the right values, I would think that you're more open now to trying something else.
And I don't know, you know, I don't know.
I don't, I don't have kids.
I only have this little pug here.
I don't know what it's like to have a kid that looks a little bit different.
But I see a lot of, you know, black people and white people now.
They're starting to have kids and their kids are mixed.
I don't know what they think about it.
Like, what does a white woman feel that her child is half half this, half black?
I don't know.
I mean, maybe we have to ask them, like, do you feel less love for your kid?
Because he only looks half like you.
So that's what I don't know.
You know, I really don't know.
And thinking about my mom and the parents would want them.
Sorry, go ahead.
Yeah, I was going to say the things about my mom and dad, their skin shades are like the same.
So I kind of am right in the middle between them.
So they didn't have that issue.
But when you go like real opposite, like black and white, yeah.
But I think Asian, I think a lot of half, half Asian guys, they can, they don't look that they kind of can come, they can look either white or or Asian.
So I don't think it's a big difference.
Cool, man.
Well, I appreciate your opinion and keep up the good work.
All right, man.
Bye-bye.
Yeah, I mean, I know men want to mate with a woman who looks like them, but I don't know.
If you really tried and your culture is paused out, so what are you going to do?
You know, I mean, I'm not, and again, I know people are going to go say ruch is encouraging race mixing.
I'm not.
I'm just saying that if your first option doesn't work, it may be something to consider as a backup option.
All right, we got some more super chats.
We got Martin Petrovits.
He is Croatian.
He says, Can you say, God bless the Salo?
Yes, God bless the Salo.
Salo is like a term for the village or something.
So he actually wrote a couple articles for Return of King.
So thank you very much, Martin.
We got another super chat from Am Golis.
He says, How can one overcome social anxiety?
Just to, you have to face it.
You have to face it head on, face whatever fear it is, keep doing it until you slowly get desensitized.
So if I'm right now nervous to give a speech in front of a lot of people, what I have to do is give that speech, be nervous, be sweating, be just a total wreck.
And then the second time I give that speech, it's going to be easier.
I'm still going to be nervous, but then the third time it's going to get easier still.
And then you just have to keep doing it.
That's the only way.
It's really the first time that you're doing something that makes you nervous that really is hard.
But then once you attempt it for the second time, you can see, hey, I did it the first time and I'm still alive.
I'm fine.
It was hard, but I can do this.
So just doing it the very first time would be the best option.
And we got another super chat from Vgard.
He donated NOK 200.
Jesus, that's a lot of cash.
NOK.
Is that from North Korea?
Damn, he's on the internet.
Okay.
Hey, Roche, great show.
You have a great sense of humor.
Keep it up.
Thank you, sir.
Thank you very much.
Okay.
And the chat's going well.
We have 371 people.
That's pretty nice.
So let's go to our next caller.
This looks like a foreign international number.
Caller, you are now live.
Hey, Roosh.
Yes.
Hey, what's up, Roosh?
How's it going?
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from France, but I'm not French, actually.
I just live here.
So what is going on?
I have a few questions for you.
Okay, let's start with the first one.
Okay.
So I am 25 years old and I have a girlfriend.
Like I love her and everything's okay.
But she lives in a different country.
Okay.
She lives in the Eastern, she's from Eastern Europe.
Okay.
She lives there.
And I live here in France as I study and work here also at the same time.
And I see that I have more, like better future for me here in France.
Okay.
And so here, like, I am kind of, I don't know which one.
Where like, should I like where should I settle down more?
Should I go back to her country and live there, learn her language and stay together?
Because now we are like so far three years together.
One thing I can say is that if a man up ends and changes his life for one girl, 99% of the time, that will definitely hurt him.
Something will happen.
She will screw him.
Not, I mean, because odds are, I mean, most relationships, they don't work.
But I'm not saying do not try with her, but to move to a country and to change your life and to decrease your future prospects for her, that's going to put a lot of weight onto her.
You know, so that's going to be hard.
Some girls cannot actually deal with that.
So they're going to start to sabotage the relationship because they don't want to feel that you change their, you change your entire life just for, just for her.
So, I mean, the only thing I would do is you only move to a country if you would stay there if she wasn't there.
Okay, because otherwise, odds are you will get burned.
Now, one thing you could try is to bring her to where you are.
But unless you have some kind of, unless you're 100% sure or very close to it, that this is the real deal.
She is head over heels in love with you.
She's not, you know, cheating, doing anything bad.
She has low notch counts.
She's a great, great girl.
She doesn't, you know, flake on you.
If she's like perfect, it could be something.
Is she?
Like, is she the perfect girl?
Yeah, I see that.
She's like traditional and I see that she's the kind of the girl that I was searching for.
Have you talked to her about bringing her to France?
Actually, I'm not interested to bring her here because I'm not planning to stay here longer time.
But, like, my plan is, um, I was like the first thinking to stay here maybe a couple of years first as just to get more skills, maybe learn the language and do some work here and then move back to Eastern Europe.
I mean, in the end, I want to settle down in between like in Poland or like Eastern Europe in that area.
I even enjoy more there.
Okay, if she is the perfect girl, 100% perfect girl, one thing you can do is go there, but in the back of your mind, have a backup plan in case, in case she decides to act dumb, you know.
But that's the best option.
Otherwise, the only option is to stay where you are at now.
But it sounds like you're not going to stay there for a long time.
You said that you're not going to stay.
So it seems like you're already halfway out the door anyway, and you just need someone to advise you to go for it.
I'm scared to do that.
But the point is, you know, if I met the perfect girl and she lived in a place that I was willing to live in, and L Signs said that this is going to be the future mother of my children, that's something that I may do, you know.
But it sounds like you already want to go there.
Yes, actually, I want to go there, but I feel like maybe after a few years, that's the only difference.
And I have maybe it's like more related to another question: that is it better to wait for like to get married with her or to settle down.
And as I am 25 years old, or should I wait longer?
How it works?
I don't know.
I don't know.
I mean, it's up to you.
How important is it to have?
It sounds like if you are young, you have you have time.
So three years you've been with her, you're willing to wait another three years, too.
That's a long time.
Now, I don't know.
I mean, either if you don't want to get married and have kids soon, then yeah, you can spend time doing whatever and until she gives you that ultimatum of where is this relationship going.
But if you're on a timeline that has years and years, it doesn't really matter what you do right now, right?
Yeah, I feel like I'm ready to get married, but I don't know.
Maybe it's like too early because I mean, in this time, I see most of the people are waiting longer and like getting married to who cares what everyone else is doing.
It doesn't matter what they're doing.
Just ask yourself what you want because you're not sure.
So if you're not sure what you want, how are you going to make the right choice?
There's no way.
So you have to look deep inside you first, find out what you want.
Then when you find that out, then you can make a decision.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
And is there anything else?
Last question.
Okay, what do you think about France?
Because I never saw you talking about France or maybe if you visited or what do you think about the girls here?
I honestly don't have any experience.
I've never been to France.
I hear that they're having some kind of migrant problem now with the Africans and stuff.
So I don't know if that's a good idea for me to come now.
Yeah, that's why.
But I don't know.
No, I mean, it's because the price is, I mean, why would I go there when the price is very expensive and the girls are not better than what I can find in Eastern Europe?
So, I mean, unless there's something about it that's really great that's better than what I can experience here, I don't see A real point.
One of the reasons I don't want to be here long for a really long time because I am from Arab origin, okay, from Syria, and there are many Arabs here.
So, like, I don't feel like kind of it's a good place for me, you know, because many people are from the same area.
Yeah, maybe you're not gonna stand out.
That could be it.
But, yeah, so what I would say to you is to really ask yourself, what do you want?
And then go from there.
Okay.
Okay.
All right, man.
Bye-bye.
Yeah.
Thanks for all your efforts.
Yep, man.
Sure.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Bye-bye.
Yeah.
I mean, I think we've had that where a lot of men called and they don't know what they want.
They're hoping that I somehow know that I know what their inner being wants.
There's no way I can know that.
You know, I can tell you if you have a good odds of failure or not, or this or that, but I don't know what you want.
You know, so you need to know.
Okay.
How are we doing?
Chad is nice and calm.
It's calm.
Yeah.
Okay.
Let's go to this caller here.
Good evening, caller.
You are now live.
Hey, Roosh.
Can you hear me all right?
Yes, I can.
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from Baltimore, Maryland.
Oh, Baltimore.
Wow, that's not far off from where I'm from.
Right.
So I'm actually very new to your work.
I am 45 years old.
Okay.
I have three kids.
My wife decided to divorce me this year.
Oh.
So this is, I mean, this, hold on.
This red pill guy.
This year is very new.
So you just found out?
Yeah.
So we were married for 19 years and a number of things happened over the years.
But point is, is that what I thought was going to be a good deal in my life turned out not that way.
I found out about your work because of a book called The Rational Male.
Right.
And that sort of put me on the track of red pill thinking and Manosphere.
And, you know, I guess I'm glad I found it at this point.
are you doing now um that information uh in the book and through some of the blogs and things like that has really helped me to understand a lot of probably what went wrong and how i need to better myself as a man uh for whatever future prospects i have um
Well, one thing I would be worried about is her wanting to lawyer up and to try to get you to get what you have to maybe not allow you to see the allow you to see the kids as much.
So I would be concerned in the short term how the divorce is going to actually go.
So I know the emotional component, that's going to take a long time.
That's going to take years and years.
But what I would, if you were a friend of mine, I would ask you how, what is she going to do?
Is she going to hire a lawyer and try to squeeze everything that you that you got?
Well, so you're asking a question that's probably not the primary reason I'm calling, but I will, I will answer.
Because that's what would be on my own mind.
If I just, if my wife came to me and said, it is done, I would be like, holy shit, let me find the best lawyer.
Because I see that men get screwed when they don't take the legal side in a serious way.
That's what I would think.
Of course, my heart would be shattered, but still, you have to do this legal part because that can screw you for a long, long time.
Right.
My youngest child, the two older ones are already out of the house, but the youngest one is 15 and a half.
So he's already, you know, we're looking at maybe two and a half more years.
And then we both earn about the same amount.
So whatever she can get me for, it's going to be pretty short term.
Okay, good.
But so firstly, just I want to thank you for your work.
The honesty and what you're doing here in the world, whether you consider yourself part of a movement or not, I don't give a crap about that.
But the fact is, is that when I read your materials, when I hear these podcasts and things like that, there's an element of truth there that I have somehow always known at a very deep and distinctive level.
And yet, because of my society conditioning, I was too much of a pussy to ever really, you know, speak my mind or live in a courageous, very authentic, manly kind of way.
And for the very first time in my life, I feel like I'm creating a voice for myself.
Okay, good.
And I want to just say that, just want to say that what you and Rolo and some of these guys are doing in terms of publishing their ideas is really a great thing.
I'm very, very thankful for that.
Okay, good.
So, yeah.
And I plan to spread that news, you know, not to necessarily beat the drum or be a missionary of it, but, you know, when I encounter other men, I'm definitely going to be an example for them.
So here's the thing.
I'm 45.
I don't want to be celibate.
I want to get out and hit pussy as much as I can do so.
And I want to start over.
I may even be open to having a family again at some point.
You know what I'm going to say to you right now?
No, please.
Southeast Asia.
I mean, listen, if you're a 45-year-old guy and you're trying to get into the dating market in Baltimore, you're going to get women who are like at least 35 because you're starting from scratch.
You know, you don't have this years of game under your belt.
I would cut that out.
I would, you know, you know, if it was me, because I don't think I would be a 45-year-old guy in the USA trying to run game unless I had some kind of fame angle, which I could maybe do it, you know, but if I was just a normal guy, I mean, as long as you don't mind, the women are going to be older.
Right.
So so far I've been pulling these women that are, you know, late 30s, early 40s.
They already have some kids and stuff like that.
But I did manage to meet a girl who is 30 and Ukrainian.
Okay.
And which is kind of just very odd.
I picked her up in a mall.
And man, she's about a month ago.
We've only been on a few dates and I haven't sealed the deal yet because I was away for Christmas and stuff like that.
But she's got really tight game.
Right.
Right, right.
Yeah, girls from there know 10 times more game than the man that's the same age as they are.
All right.
Well, so she's still going out with me.
So I count that I'm still kind of somewhat relevant to her, but it's hard to measure.
So I don't know How to judge my success rate.
Usually, okay, usually it takes between three to five dates for a typical Ukrainian girl, usually.
Now, I don't know how aggressive you are if you try to kiss her.
Have you tried to kiss her yet?
Yeah, yeah, we've actually started to kiss and make out.
Okay, good.
I mean, you seem to be getting over the divorce easily, which is good, I think.
Yeah, because I mean, I was expecting like this heavy, this, you know, heavy emotional sadness, but you went right into how can I bang this girl I met.
Okay.
So here's the here's the thing.
I, it, it put me in the worst funk of my life.
But what I did, and I would, I would tell any man out there that's dealing with this at whatever age or whatever, go get really high-quality psychiatric help, get a good therapist, somebody who's not going to like try to fix you, but somebody who's just going to, you know, and you, and for me, that's something that's been very, very helpful.
It may not work for everybody, but definitely, you know, so the right fit.
Right.
Yeah.
So what I would do if I were you is just take her on another date, invite her to your place.
I mean, you are already halfway there.
I mean, you call, you don't seem to need any kind of real, real, you know, help.
You seem to be on the right path.
You're dealing with the divorce.
You, you have a girl.
You made out with her.
To me, you sound fine.
So just keep, just keep doing what you are doing.
Okay.
All right.
All right, man.
Sounds good.
Okay.
So, no, I was just going to say, too, I just, again, I cannot say enough how much I really appreciate you.
Thank you very much.
I want to support you.
I've got a couple of your books.
And so, you know, you're awesome.
Thank you.
Thank you very much.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
All right.
Yeah, I think some men just want to, you know, talk, which is fine, you know, but he didn't need any help.
He seemed to be doing fine.
How is the how's the chat going?
Looks like we have Alexandra Cruz.
Alexandra.
Let's go to the next caller.
Carla, you're now live.
Hey, Roosh, how are you?
What is going on?
Hey, real quick, just long time reader since DC Bachelor.
So you've been in it for a long, long time.
Been in it for a while.
You've seen me grow.
Yes, yes.
My question, and I almost, when the guy from the French guy, or he lives in France, called, I almost hung up because it might be just something, you know, I need a decision I just kind of need to make on my own.
I'll give the rundown as quickly as possible.
I'm leaving a very toxic family environment in Chicago at the end of the month.
And I have a choice.
I could move back with my immediate family in Maryland, or I could move with my girlfriend to Savannah, to Georgia.
It's the girl, you know, I did learn your lessons well.
You know, she's, you know, 13 years younger, you know, really mother of my children type, super great, avoided the cock carousel, all that.
And the one downside is, I think, you know, game-wise, I'm, you know, I'm decent.
money-wise things are a little tight i don't have any debt or anything like that but um to move to savannah like and i kind of encourage this you know she had the opportunity to go down there so why is she willing to go down there um she has yeah for for her job and um and i actually i found a job down there and you know who knows how it'll work out um but But I kind of,
you know, this is over the course of the past year.
I kind of encouraged it.
And in a weird way, just kind of thinking like almost jaded from the game itself, you know, this will, you know, this will probably come to an end eventually.
But, you know, we've been coming up on three years.
It's really good.
But money's tight.
Savannah's not exactly a booming part of the world.
And it sounds like you may have to depend on her if you're unable.
I mean, that would be the worst possible possible case to move there and then financially have to depend on her.
You know, that's like you don't have a backup plan.
So she's the masculine now.
She's the, she's playing the masculine role in taking care of you.
So she's able to pull strings more.
She's able to tell you what to, what to do.
And she's going to start to resent you unless that's the role that she likes, you know.
Yeah.
And I think whether she knows it or not, I mean, I don't think she would, like, I just, I know she wouldn't like that role.
She would actually even say that she doesn't like that role.
But that could be a situation where if this job where I'm starting, it's, you know, it's like pure sales and base plus commission.
But like if, you know, if it didn't go well, you know, I could be in, you know, that those roles could kind of be reversed, which would not be a good thing.
And that's Savannah, but then Maryland, you know, there's more, there's more opportunity.
And, you know, I'm kind of more, I have more connections back there.
I could probably make more money.
But I've kind of like encouraged her down this road and also sort of, you know, been like, oh, yeah, yeah, Savannah would be great.
I really like it.
And I do like it.
But when it now, now that it's like, you know, moving out in, you know, a month, now it's like kind of, you know, the feet feed her to the front.
What it sounds to me is that you more have a money problem more than anything else.
Because if you had $50,000 sitting in the bank right now, you wouldn't have any kind of problem with, well, I'll just go there for maybe a year or so just to see how things go.
I don't have to depend on her.
I can go back at any time.
So to me, it sounds like you have to get the money straight first.
I don't know how much time you actually have.
I don't, I mean, maybe it wouldn't be a big deal if for a couple months it was a little bit tough before things got going after that.
But that's what your main issue is.
That's a good point.
Yeah.
It really, and I thought about it.
It's like if money wasn't a thing, you know, I wouldn't even have to ask this question, really.
So, yeah.
So, see, so what I would do is in the next week or two, see what kind of plan or goal you can have to maximize your short-term earnings so that if you do decide to go with her down over there, because you see her as the ideal perfect girl who, if things work out, again, it could lead to creating a family, but you're going to have to not be depend as long as you're not dependent.
I wouldn't go live with her down there if you have to count on her for putting food on the table.
She is going to lose attraction for you.
As long as you don't do that, in this case, it may be worth going since you did say you want to leave the family, you are having a bad thing there.
So, does that make sense?
That does make perfect sense.
And there's also the point that, you know, I can go down there.
I can, you know, I can just do well and kind of, and I know it's kind of a funny way to say this phrase, but kind of like man up about it and make it happen down there.
And, you know, if I did that in a year from now, you know, I wouldn't have any regrets.
So, so, whatever you actually do, just don't depend on her.
And then I don't think there's a wrong move either way.
Okay?
Cool.
Thank you.
All right, man.
No problem.
Bye-bye.
Okay, very good.
So we got another super chat from Vadim Fedorovsky.
He says, I'm a fruit, fluent Russian speaker, not into just getting laid, want to meet a hot wife, don't we all?
I have traveled to there and life sucks there.
Do you have any advice on how to have good quality of life in Russia?
No, I can't handle it there either, man.
It's really tough.
A lot of the men I know who go from the West there, they say, oh, I'm going to stay here.
I'm going to find a wife.
I'm going to, but then I always hear from them after six months, one year.
They always end up leaving because life there is tough.
It is tough.
I don't know.
It just, it's a slow grind.
Every day grinds you down.
And Ukraine is the same way.
That's why I think it's hard to live there.
As for you, the fact that you are fluent helps for you to meet girls, but they're just going to see you as that opportunity to leave.
You know, they are going to say, why should we stay here?
Life in Russia is so difficult.
Let's go back to, I'm guessing you're from USA, Canada.
So, I mean, they're going to want to urge you to go there too.
But then bringing a girl, a Russian girl back to the USA depends on where you are at.
If you're in LA, no, please don't.
But if you're in a small town that you can kind of insulate her away from everyone, then maybe that could be a good option.
But how to live in Russia, I don't know because I can't even do it.
So, you know, I'm a creature.
Arnold is a creature of comfort.
You know, he needs a nice, comfortable place.
Okay, so let's do another one.
Make money, comrade.
Yeah.
This feels like a nice chill type of stream.
You know, I'm not feeling, I think when I'm doing it on a day off, there's a lot of high-energy people.
I feel like it's more calm, like a coffee shop vibe.
And you are now live, caller.
Hey, Ruch.
I don't know if I'm the one on or not.
You are on right now.
And where are you calling from?
Steamboat Springs, Colorado.
I live here half of the year and I live in Odessa, Ukraine.
Odessa, very nice.
I'm just calling to ask you, from your experiences traveling around the world, do you find it harder to meet a good woman or to like meet a really good friend, like a buddy?
Because most of the men that I meet in Odessa and Kiev are much older.
And I'm 34.
I've been going to Ukraine for five years now.
Are you meeting men who are locals or are you meeting expats?
Mostly expats.
You know, I think a lot of times the guys, they come over there for two weeks and they have good intentions to meet a nice woman.
And then a couple days before they leave, they've kind of struck out because they haven't committed enough time.
And then they end up, you know, renting prostitutes and that sort of stuff.
So no, I was just going to actually say you're going to have to find friends that live there too.
You know, if you don't find a friend that lives there, it's just going to be easy, come, easy, go.
There's no bond there, you know, because if a man is just in Ukraine for a week or two, we know why he's there.
The whole friendship is just going to be based about going out and getting late.
He's not going to want to chill.
He's just going to want to hunt, which isn't bad, but that's not a friendship.
That's more like a wingman.
And the local guys are tough too, because they see you not as an equal.
They see you as a foreigner and maybe he can give us opportunities.
But so what I would say is you have to look for expats who live there.
That would be your best option.
Okay.
I just, I like to talk about sports.
I like to talk about women and I like to talk about politics.
Well, those three things, I don't really enjoy talking to women about those three particular things, you know?
So I spent summer 2006 in Kiev and the women were incredible, but I just went insane because I didn't have anybody to just kind of sit down with and, you know, BS, you know.
You know, that is actually a very common problem that no one really talks about.
That here I am, I'm in this exotic place and it's fun.
It's exciting.
The women look great, but there's no one to really to really hang out with.
So you have this incredible experience and then the next day you're alone in your shitty Eastern European apartment.
And that's, that is tough.
Now, I'm lucky that in the city I'm in, there's a few guys who live here.
But if I was in a city where I didn't have any guys who lived here, that would be, I don't know, man, that would be all my friends would just be on online.
And then, so that's why I'm not moving to like a third tier town with 50,000 people because I know I'm never going to have any guy friends.
So you're in a city that is large, but yeah, you're just, I mean, your foreign experience is not going to be as good if you just don't have a guy just to do what you said, just to talk with.
Yeah, it's just important.
It's important to kind of, I work better alone, but, you know, it's just nice to have a winged man to talk about experiences with to kind of learn from and just kind of BS with.
So, and then just kind of a two-part question here.
I want to piggyback off of your first caller.
I like to go to the gym often.
I work out often.
It's part of my lifestyle.
I'm very active.
I like to hike.
I like to swim in the Black Sea.
I weigh about 160 pounds in the United States.
I weigh about 150 pounds when I go over to Ukraine.
Do you ever feel lethargic or low energy from any of the foods?
Because I have a theory just that the preservatives and the sugars and the stuff that you find in the foods in America almost kind of like preserve us as opposed to the all-natural stuff that you kind of find over there in Eastern Europe.
I just felt like I did a lot more walking.
I felt low energy.
And I just, I mean, do you feel a difference in the foods there?
Because you seem to write about how things are better over there in terms of health and wellness from the foods you eat by comparison to the United States.
What do you think about that?
do i actually keep my diet almost the exact same no matter where i actually go i mean i eat the same lunch every day i eat a ham and cheese sandwich with eggs apple peanuts yogurt no matter where i i go i eat that same lunch so i think for me i don't sense the difference yeah the food quality is different but in terms of is it so big that i'm noticing a change in energy i don't think so no
Okay, well, I live here in a resort town in Colorado.
I've been very lucky to date girls from Poland, Russia, Ukraine, Philippines.
And then, you know, these girls, they come and go because their visas expire in the United States.
And then one day I just typed in Eastern European women.
It took me to your blog and it changed my life forever, man.
Thank you, Google.
Thank you so much.
Yeah.
Okay, man.
Thank you very much.
Bye-bye.
Yeah, a lot of guys that even I know of, they found me by searching for Colombian girls, Polish girls, this, this girls, because I'm first for a lot of these, like Swedish girls.
I don't know many guys who want to go there, but the point is, as much as I hate Google for being paused out, for being social justice, they have actually sent me thousands of guys who want the information, you know, who want to learn about girls.
So I would say Google more than anything has allowed me to definitely connect with a lot of men, which sounds a little bit gay, but I do connect with a lot of guys.
All right, let's go.
Oh, I got to get my energy up, guys.
I know I'm a little bit dragging today.
It's because Arnold, he had to go for a long walk.
A little energy comes from something.
All right, let's do one more.
Hopefully, this next caller will bring me energy.
You are now live, caller.
Hello?
Yes?
Oh, I'm live, right?
You are live.
How are you?
Oh, hey, Ruth.
Okay, so like my question today is regarding like the HAPAs and like basically Asians.
Okay.
And are you, are you half Asian?
No, I'm actually a white guy.
Okay.
Okay, so what I've been hearing is it's more common to see the Asian couple.
It's like WNAF versus that's more common than A-M-W-F, right?
And now, can you explain what that means?
I don't think a lot of guys know what AMWF means.
So you are talking about Asian guy and white girl versus a white guy and Asian girl.
Yes.
So when you hear WM, that means white man.
Okay.
White man.
Okay.
So WMAF, that's the white man, Asian female.
Okay.
Okay.
So like the common like pervasive trend is WMAF.
That's like more common than AMWF, right?
So white men and Asian girls are more common, yes, by like a factor of 10 to 1.
Okay, so it seems like I'm seeing the opposite though.
Like if you look on any college campus, I see more, like it's either going to be like an Asian couple, like a fully Asian, like vegan Asian, or I also see like Asian men, like white women.
It seems like the opposite.
So what, okay, so you're saying what?
saying that you're starting to see more Asian guys with white girls.
Yes.
And how do you feel about that?
So I kind of sort of see like this stereotype that they're like WMAF that's the more common one.
That's the more.
So what are you getting at though?
I don't know what you're getting at.
Yeah, it seems like a lot of the stereotypes now, it seems like it's sort of like outdated now versus, you know.
No, I don't know.
So, okay, you're seeing the Asian guys and do you feel that Asian guys are now more hotly desired by the white girl?
And I know I wouldn't say that, like, as an as them like throwing themselves at them.
But what I'm saying is, it seems that what I'm hearing, it's not, it's not matching up to like what I'm seeing in reality.
Okay.
So you believe that there are more Asian guy and white girl couples than the stereotype that's on the internet where they say it's really hard for an Asian guy.
Yeah, because yeah, I don't buy that at all.
Yeah.
Okay.
And is that all?
Yeah.
So, okay.
Well, thank you for calling in.
Okay, wait, I'm still on time yet, though.
Okay.
So what are you getting at?
Hurry up.
Okay.
So as a white guy, so should I be listening to like when people give me advice saying, oh, like I can't find a woman and go to Asia, then I'm finding it harder for me to buy that advice now, you know, because you see the Asian guys that are doing well.
Yes.
Okay.
So if you want to, okay, you know, if you don't want to go to, if you don't want to go to Asia and you want to get the white girls here, then do it, you know, but I mean, it really, it's on a case-by-case basis because a lot of guys, they want to leave because they have this kind of adventurous need itch that they have to actually scratch.
So it isn't always that, okay, I'm going to leave the USA because I don't like the girls here and go hit and go there.
A lot of guys, they combine their pussy chasing with, oh, I want to travel.
So if you don't have this bug, if you don't care about going to Asia, which, you know, is fine, and you want to get your white girl, then that's fine too.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
And it also seems that the AMWWF, okay, that's like if you search that on YouTube, I bet you'll see more.
I actually see more of that than the other one.
All right.
So I'll do that.
I'll go search it on YouTube.
Thank you very much.
Bye-bye.
All right.
I don't know, man.
Listen, I don't care.
I see some Asian guys and white women, but what's the point of it?
So you don't want to travel to Asia because you're inspired by the Asian men who are slaying the white girls.
That's great.
I mean, sorry.
I don't know.
Okay.
All right.
We have an international number.
Looks like England.
Hello, Carler.
You're now live.
Hello, Rouge.
Can you hear me?
Yes, I can.
Well, hi, I'm a black British guy from Manchester.
Oh, you again.
Good question.
Yeah, Mr. Masson White.
Feel honored.
Hold on, let me see.
Right, so I got a question.
Go ahead, go ahead.
Yeah, I got a question for you.
If you had the power and the ability to save the West, e.g., fix the white bear for age, stop the Islamic core from slowly dividing Europe and turning to a shit, and transform white with some flat sites into how these to be in the 50s.
How would you do it?
I mean, you're asking for something that even God himself probably can't even do.
How are you going to do that?
I mean, but anyway, I already talked about this.
I said, if you want to do that, the best thing you can do is start by removing the right to vote for women so that within one election cycle, things immediately jump to the conservative side.
I would start there.
Right.
See how far that goes 10, 20 years after you remove women's suffrage.
Then we come back to the drawing board and see what you want to do.
But I mean, you're asking something that's not going to not going to happen ever.
So I don't like to play games where, okay, what if?
Okay, thanks.
Bye.
Waste of time.
All right.
He's not satisfied.
That man is not satisfied.
Okay, a little bit of the energy is coming now, huh?
Waste of time.
Goodbye.
Sorry, dude.
Okay, we have another number.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hello.
Yes.
Hello.
Hello.
All right.
I'm from Sydney.
Sydney.
Oh, wow.
So that's a first Australian caller.
And what time is it there?
It's 11 o'clock.
Okay.
So it's early.
You're eating.
What is that?
What is that food that you guys put that like weird yeast?
Yes, this one.
This one.
Okay.
Yeah, it tastes like fucking shit.
So what is going on?
All right.
So I'm actually about to go out soon for my brother and do a bit of a game.
Okay.
Question is, so stats are 19 from 5'11.
Blue eyes, light brown hair.
And how would you rate yourself?
How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10?
Probably an 8 from most girls.
Girls approach me, so I have it pretty easy.
Is that a soft eight or a hard eight?
Soft.
Soft.
Because I have a beard and girls don't like that evil.
Okay.
So soft eight.
That isn't bad.
Because I go for girls usually around 17, 18 since I'm 19.
Right.
But the question is, someone who has like light brown hair and blue eyes, like how would they do with Middle Eastern chicks?
Because in where I am in Sydney, there's a massive traditional like Middle Eastern church.
Well, there's like a lot of Middle Eastern traditional girls out here.
They're like out west.
Okay.
And from my experience, I've had one Middle Eastern girl chase me at my one of the courses I did earlier this earlier last year.
But in your experience, how do lighter guys do with Middle Eastern girls?
I mean, usually to get your foot in the door with a lot of girls, being exotic helps because people normally see what is different.
But if you are approaching and it sounds like you are already doing game, you don't need that.
You don't need it.
It doesn't matter.
Like you just go up to the girls that you want, make your best offer.
But I'm not in it.
I'm not in it for sex.
I'm not in it for sex though, you know.
I know I've got to get to go to these churches and stuff because these girls that are approached are traditional and stuff, man, they will not talk to me.
Like they're like, what the fuck, you know?
Like on the street, girls who are more slutty and shit, they'll be good with me talking to them and they'll be receptive and everything.
I'll go on day two, they're all happy.
But these girls who are more traditional, very hesitant, very hesitant.
I mean, in that case, you have to be a member of their tribe, community, go to their church, meet your parents.
You have to sit down, break bread with her mom and dad.
I mean, that's how you get in.
And I don't think you can sleep.
I mean, if they really are traditional, like you say, I don't think you can sleep with them before marriage.
I mean, I don't want to sleep with them.
Which is fine.
That's fine.
But you're going to have to basically seduce her dad, her parents.
And to do that, you have to become integrated into what they are doing.
Where do they go?
Whether it's school, church.
But I mean, then, yeah, you are right.
It's not the case where you just go up to her.
But being exotic, that doesn't matter.
The more of a long-term relationship you're seeking, the less being exotic is important.
Being exotic is more for impulsive girls who are seeking novelty and fun.
But these girls aren't.
Unless they're putting up this front that they're the most traditional girl ever, but secretly they want, you know, some kind of fun.
But if it's not, if that's not the actual case, then I think you're going to have to basically become a contributing member of some kind of community where the girls that you like hang out in.
Yeah.
So for me, I'm a Greek background and I'm living in Australia.
Like my great-grandparents migrated here.
So I'm third generation.
Okay.
So I'm going to an Orthodox church every Sunday.
I'm very devout.
So I don't, I don't mess around.
Like I've done some night game, but I've never taken it further than I should because of my faith.
I've had, I've had, like, I haven't, I've never pulled from night game because I've only gone club in the last year because I've always taken it to making out and like going that far, but I'd never take it further than that.
Because I live with my parents, of course.
I have nowhere to take them either way.
But the girls at my church, the girls at my church, they're just not attractive at all to me.
And I'm not interested in that.
Try a different church.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
But I feel weird going to another, an ethnic group, I'd say, like an ethnic club, as these churches are.
I'd be very, I'd be like the odd one out.
I mean, can you use a church like some men at night use in bars?
Like instead of bar, bar hopping, you actually church hop, you know?
So like, oh, this Sunday service, not a lot of girls here.
I'm going to that church.
I'm thinking about waiting outside at the end of the service and then doing mushing at the end of the service where everyone's outside talking.
I mean, you know, as long as, of course, you don't disrespect the church service, I don't see anything wrong with checking out churches.
You know, maybe I should do that.
Is there like an alley?
Is there like a street where there's a lot of them?
So you can easily check them out.
Yeah, so at the end of the church service, they all hang out at the front of the church and they all talk and say hi to the grandparents and the friends and that because you know it's a sense of community.
So everyone knows each other.
Depending on the service, when everyone's done their prayers and been quiet, they can have their fun a little bit at the end.
So everyone's outside talking.
So that's what usually happens at all churches.
And that's my time usually when I start talking to some people at the end of my service.
But there's nothing else you can actually do.
If you want a more traditionally minded girl, you're going to have to go in those kind of groups.
If the girls aren't good looking enough for you, you have to join a different one.
And in terms of being exotic, you don't really have to worry about that because these girls have lower impulse than if you're going to a nightclub and a girl is into you because you are different and sexy.
All right, man.
Yeah.
Also, wait, one question as well.
In terms of your experience with looks, how important is it within a long-term relationship looks?
Because I wouldn't mind selling for a girl's traditional at my church if she's somewhat attractive, but how important is that attraction in the long term of being with a girl?
It's more important for the woman to keep her attraction high than for you to.
Now, I'm not saying for you to get fat and stuff, but it's more important that you remain attracted to your woman because men are way more visual.
So that's what I would say.
But for you, as long as you're a soft eight and you remain a soft eight, you don't have to worry about it.
All right.
Okay.
Thanks for all your work, as well.
I really love your work.
Great.
Thank you very much.
Bye-bye.
Our first Australian caller.
Hey, we got another super chat.
And this is from Vadim Fedorovsky.
Follow-up.
All Eastern European Russian sucks for life quality.
But where is the best, most livable, comfy, plus best girls?
PSDM me about the translation, smiley face.
Man, so where is the perfect country?
Listen, if I find out where it is, I'm not telling anyone.
But where is the best?
You know, from what I hear, the middle of Europe, the Balkans, maybe Croatia is nice.
Poland is nice.
Estonia is nice.
I would try those three.
They seem to have the best girls and comfy lifestyle.
But their girls are not as good looking as if you go further east.
Okay.
Finland, Antarctica.
So we've had a lot of chatty callers.
Let's try to tighten the ramble up because I'm seeing some comments in the chat to hang up on people.
So usually if you're on the chat and someone says hang up, that means you are not stimulating people.
All right, let's see.
Let's go to the next caller.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
What's up?
How's it feel to be officially banned from Britain now?
How does it feel to be banned from a country that I don't ever want to go to?
You know, it's kind of weird.
It's like you're getting banned from a bar that you actually hate.
You're like, why?
I wasn't going to go there.
But it kind of hurts too.
Like, damn, they actually hate me enough to ban me.
Right.
And well, I wanted to ask you, so what do you think about these women, especially American and British, like wanting dogs over marriage and kids?
Well, they want a dog because a dog is easier to take care of.
provides them with the most amount of photographic opportunities for their Facebook and their and their Instagram.
But most importantly, those dogs will never hold them to a loyal standard where the woman has to be a good person outside of just filling the doggy bowl.
So it's just an easier, it's like you get, it's like they get 70% of the feeling of being a good mom with only 10% of the work.
So it's like a cost, cost-benefit deal where they're getting a little bit of that motherly, I'm a mom, but you don't have to do all the work to actually raise a kid because to raise a dog, I mean, the dog is going to be happy if you just feed it every day.
Right.
And so I got another question for you.
So how do you kind of deprogram yourself from like watching porn?
So I'm 23 years old, kind of young.
And like two months ago, I was with like the finest chick I've ever seen in my life, dude.
And it was kind of embarrassing, but I could not finish.
I had to bounce on her because, you know, she was fine, but I'm like, dude, this is not, this is not enough.
Like, you know, she doesn't have her ass isn't big enough.
Her tits aren't fake.
Like, what the fuck?
So you watch porn so much?
So hold on.
You watch porn so much that the real thing doesn't stimulate you?
Actually, not as much as when I was younger, but I'd say maybe a couple times a week.
And how often do you view porno?
View porn?
How often is this?
I don't know.
I'd say every other day.
Okay, so do you know what I'm going to say to you now?
Are you asking me what are my skills rubber?
No, I'm going to tell you, if you want to solve this problem, you have to quit porn totally.
You can jerk off still, but the porn has to be out completely.
It's going to take a couple of months to where if you do this, you're going to see like an ad in a Victoria's Secret catalog and get the biggest boner ever.
But it's going to take, I don't know how bad if things, if you're not stimulated by a flesh and bone woman in front of you, this could take six months or so, but you need to quit that shit completely, completely.
Right.
Yeah, I mean, and I've definitely been getting better at it.
It's been before it was like, you know, like every day, like multiple times, but then, you know, now slowly don't have time for it too.
But yeah, it's real addictive.
But yeah.
You just have to quit it.
So definitely.
So get rid of all your porn bookmarks, all your favorite clips.
All of that is gone.
Tomorrow, don't wait.
Tomorrow, start.
Don't wait till, oh, I'm going to start next month, blah, blah, blah.
No, tomorrow, get rid of all that stuff.
It's fucking you up, man.
I mean, if you can't, if you're with a real girl and you're thinking of a porno clip, that's a bad sign.
That's a sign.
That's good that you called in that you already are aware, consciously aware, that that is a problem, but you have to cut that out.
Right.
One last question.
So, what's your opinion on arranged marriage?
So, if you, I don't know, I think it's like 50% or 60%, like a divorce rate.
I don't know if there's like a link between like that's just how the women are now, or if just, you know, love marriages don't work.
I think an arranged marriage within a traditional culture has way higher odds than an unarranged marriage in a degenerate culture.
But that said, can you arrange a marriage?
I mean, do you know someone?
No, well, we're like traditional Christians and all that.
So, obviously, I'm not for it, but you know, now seeing like the divorce rates and all that kind of stuff, I don't want to get, I don't want to get married now, but I'm saying like in the future, you know, you see, like with the loyalty and that kind of stuff.
I mean, as far as I know, the only traditional marriages that you can do are from a Middle Eastern culture or in Indian culture.
Unless you want an Indian girl or a Muslim girl, I don't see how an arranged marriage is going to work.
There's no other option.
Right.
You know, but I mean, if you can, if you can meet someone where it's a semi-arranged thing where this guy's where your father knows another father who has a daughter and they want to hook you up for marriage, that's fine.
But that doesn't really happen anymore.
Right.
Okay.
All right.
That's all I got, Rudy.
All right, man.
Thank you very much.
And I want to say fuck you live chat.
Okay.
Bye-bye.
Oh, no.
Don't know what he said there.
Okay.
We got another super chat from Zachatetas.
With the inevitability of AI replacing more blue-collar jobs like truck driving, etc., do you think the robots game, once learned and refined, will be so good that hypergamy drives women to that computer disc drive dick?
No, man.
See, there was some kind of news article that said, oh, women, they're going to forego flesh and blood men and go after the sex bots.
No, they're not because women don't value sex.
They value attention.
And those male sex bots are not going to give women the attention that real thirsty men can give them.
You know, if a robot clicks like on her stupid Instagram, do you think a woman is going to get that dopamine?
She ain't going to get anything from that.
She needs attention.
That's the currency.
Women need attention, compliments.
A robot complimenting a woman ain't going to give her anything.
But a female robot sucking the dick off a man is going to give him something.
So this is why the sex bots are going to screw women up because there's going to be a lot of men like the MGTOW types.
They're actually counting down.
They are every day marking their calendar another day where those sex bots are coming and I don't have to worry about the gynocentrism, whatever they say.
Okay.
You are a great man, Ruch.
Keep it up.
Thank you very much, Jameus Popolov.
Popolif.
All right, let's go.
We have another international number, guys.
Let's see here.
Oh, before that, we have another super chat from Smiley123.
Can a slutty girl reform and become traditional?
I don't think I've seen a single case.
Usually, girls who do that are doing so because they found out that their slutty past has hurt their odds of snagging a good man who will take care of her.
So she suddenly becomes a born-again Christian or something.
And it's like, no, I was wrong in everything I did.
Now I'm a good person.
I mean, listen, I can admit I was maybe wrong in some of the things I did, but how do you know for sure that that demon seed is not going to want to come back out?
I don't know.
So there's no guarantee.
I think people change.
Yes, people change and people can learn from the mistakes that they have made.
But if someone says I'm 100% done with that, I've completely changed.
How do they know?
How do they know that they won't be tempted again?
Okay, Bella Choi asks Rush how many callers in line?
We got 14, so that's not that bad.
So let's go to this next one.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hello.
Yes.
Where are you?
And where are you calling from?
I'm calling from Toronto, Canada, which I'm talking about.
Least favorite place to pick up girls on there.
Toronto is, I get, I would say, it is the second or third city, biggest city of where all my traffic comes from.
So a lot of men in that city are not happy.
So in the past month, my life has completely changed.
I put like...
I put like about $20,000 Canadian into crypto currency, and I've made like over a million dollars already.
A million, hold on, let me calculator.
A million divided by 20,000.
Let's see.
Let me see what percentage that is.
You got some big gains there.
Hold on.
One, two, three divided by 20,000.
It's 50x.
So you got some 50x gains.
And would you like to share which coin made you rich?
Yeah, yeah.
So I just put it all in into Raid Walk when it was under a dollar.
And that actually has gone up.
I think it's over 25 now.
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, it's like 30 USD, I think.
But so basically, I've always been wanting to escape this place, which I feel is like hell for me.
And I've been looking into international places.
And I'm torn between two general categories of places to go.
So the first category would be to go to English or French-speaking countries because I feel like I would fit in there and I would have a sense of community and I wouldn't just be like some random guy in a foreign land.
Okay.
Even though one thing, let me ask you how old is there?
So I'm thinking of like Scotland because I'm Scottish.
Okay.
How old are you?
And the other option is how old are you?
What is your general?
21.
Okay, you got a lot of time.
You got a million dollars.
You can go anywhere.
So you're going to be spending a lot of time traveling.
Scotland has ugly girls.
Now, don't reinvent the wheel.
Men before you, for the women, they go to South America, Eastern Europe, or Southeast Asia.
If you want to be a tourist, take photos of the Eiffel Tower, go to Western Europe, Scotland, go to New York.
But if girls are on your mind, and as a young man, I'm guessing it is, I would go down the path of men who have done this.
Scotland, I don't know any man who goes there.
But if you want to go there because your ancestors are from there and you want to visit, you know, some ancestral tombs and things like that, that is fine.
But you're asking me if Scotland is good, there's no way I can really tell you.
Well, yeah, so that's kind of what I'm torn between.
Either going somewhere where I'm connected to or just going to a random place where I can't you do.
You can do like.
You can do both, can't you?
Sorry what I mean?
You can do both.
You can do it all.
I'm gonna plug my headphones into the computer because for some reason, the phone quality is complete.
One second yeah, I mean.
If I had a million dollars in those sweet crypto gains, I mean, I would think that my list of places to go would be large.
make sure you turn the actual youtube off because then it's going to lead to like a sound problem So cut the YouTube off hello, hello.
My second thing is, hi hello caller caller, come back.
I'm gonna have a bit of audio.
God, because I'm listening from youtube and talking about turn the youtube off.
You have to turn it off.
It's not gonna work if you leave it on.
All right dude, give you a couple more seconds, because I have, i'm on.
I'm just on my phone now then okay, good.
So what is your?
What is the second part?
Race you consider yourself and where does your?
What what, what do you identify as and how does that fit into traveling all around the world?
And why don't?
Why don't you, if you're pro-traditionalism and this kind of stuff, why don't you go back to a place where you consider your homeland?
So what?
Okay, so what?
Let me ask you, what is my race?
yeah hello Yeah, what is your race?
Exactly.
I am asking you, what is it?
Well, in my opinion, you're an Aryan mixed with some kind of other thing.
Okay, so if I am mixed, if I am more than one thing, how can I go back anywhere if I'm not from a single place?
Yeah, exactly.
So why would you even bring that up?
Go back where?
Where do you want me to actually go back to?
It's like telling someone who is half Japanese and half African to go back home.
Where is he going to actually go?
Do you take the distance between Japan and race mixing like that?
Okay, well, I'm already here, man.
Unless you want to undo me and take back time 38 years.
What?
Thank you for calling.
You know, if I mean, that was so weird.
Like, I am a millionaire.
I want to go to Scotland.
And why don't you go back?
Go back where?
I wish I had a homeland.
I don't have a homeland.
Okay.
It's pretty clear that we're having a 4chan callership.
These are memes, race mixing, HAPAs, and all that.
That's from the 4chan thing.
And they are also really into crypto.
So that's where that is coming from.
And that's fine.
I don't care.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hello, Ruth.
What's up?
Say, how are you doing?
I'm calling from the University of California, Davis.
You're in Northern California.
And what is going on there?
Well, I just want to, yeah, I just wanted to tell a lot of your callers, a lot of their problems seem to come from two things.
And that seems to be one, that they are not manly enough or in shape enough or masculine enough.
And I would suggest for all of them to start deadlifting.
All power lifts are good, but deadlifts will make you 1,000 times more attractive, more masculine.
How much can you deadlift?
I'm currently at 545 at a marketing weight for 100k.
Is that a one rep, Max?
Yeah, one rep nax.
And you think that if other men can lift, can deadlift as much as you, they okay, so what will happen if a man can deadlift?
Well, to me, it doesn't matter how much you deadlift.
As long as you're exercising, as long as you've got your testosterone running and you're eating well, you're eating plenty of protein, getting plenty of sleep, you will get more muscular.
Your testosterone will increase.
You'll have a much easier time with girls.
I'm at my final year of university here, and I have never gotten laid more in my life.
But now, of course, you know, going to the gym is one of the first pieces of advice that I give to men.
So a lot of men are already doing it.
I don't know if they're doing it often, but I think that, you know, you are in, I'm guessing you're, what, 18, 19, 20?
I'm 21.
20.
So you are at the peak energy and vibrancy of your life where everything, you're around a lot of people.
It's social hours.
You don't have to work a full-time job.
You're not getting your energy drained out.
Your balls are producing the most amount of tea as it possibly can get.
But if you were a 40-year-old guy, it's not going to be as easy.
It's not just go to the gym and then everything is going to work out.
It's easy to be at the peak of your life and say, hey, guys, just go and work out.
You know, don't you think that there's going to be other problems that men face even if they do go and lift?
Yeah, of course.
And for me, for what lifting has done for me, okay, so I'm a science major, right?
I used to be a total beta cut guy.
I'm from Eastern Europe.
I looked up how to pick up Polish chicks, came across your website and literally changed my life.
Thank you so much.
Sure, man.
Basically, from there, I started lifting regularly.
I did get on 4chan.
I was a poll tard and I did get a lot of poll tards.
And I pulled myself out of the mud, Rouge, with your help.
So thanks again.
Sure.
And what that helped me with beyond anything was it made me, again, more masculine, but also made me way more confident.
I had higher energy, despite the fact I was studying like six hours a day, four hours a day, eight hours a day during test weeks.
And I was doing great.
And I was just having such a good time.
I made way more friends than I've made in my first two years in college, despite being in the dormitories and anything.
And it really repaired all my problems.
I don't really have problems with women anymore.
I'm, you know, like I said, I'm indebted to you usually.
And I think that the biggest part of my improvement was lifting.
After that, I had the confidence to talk to girls, to just talk to anyone, really.
Expand my social circle.
I have a good job lined up after graduation.
And a lot of that is because I sorted myself the fuck out once I started lifting.
And I got a good time.
Did you also clean your room too?
How did I clean my room?
No, you are definitely so far in the hour and a half I've started this.
You are the highest energy caller.
You make me feel so low energy right now.
I feel low energy.
But hey, man, if I'm here to revive everybody.
No, great.
If working out has helped you, for me, working out doesn't boost me as much as it does to you.
I find that it doesn't solve all of the problems.
But hey, if it works for you, that's great.
And I'm glad you're telling other guys that if they're feeling lower energy, if they're feeling like watching their wife's son go to school every day and makes them sad, then yeah, maybe going to the gym helps out.
Yeah, no doubt.
Okay, great.
And also, one more thing, one more thing before I leave, Roosh, I wanted to say this is my parents, I grew up in a household where both of my parents had graduate degrees, but my mom made substantially more than my dad.
And my dad had a graduate degree in kind of bullshit.
So he was unemployed for some time, actually.
And I just wanted to let all of your listeners know that if your wife makes more than you, that divorce is inevitable.
My parents, they thought divorce purely because they had the will.
Like I said, I was Eastern European.
They had the will to just absolutely not do it at any cost for them.
It was the biggest taboo.
But if you are in any way westernized and your girl or your wife makes more than you, you are fucked.
And you need to fix that situation as soon as possible or it's going to crash and burn.
Okay, great.
Thank you very much.
Thank you, Rouge.
Bye.
Bye-bye.
God, that guy was so high energy, man.
He makes me look low energy.
And Arnold, you too, man.
He makes us both look like low energy people.
And by the way, this is the last time I'm going to do a live stream after I eat a feast because that blood is all in my belly right now.
And yeah, maybe I'm just ashamed after that high energy caller.
All right.
How is our chat?
We're having a lot of poll people today.
I think Poll did a thread.
Probably.
They're saying, Hey, Roche is doing a live chat.
Those poll kids.
Hello, Caller.
You're now live.
Oh, yeah, man.
How are you doing, Roo?
What's going on, man?
Uh, listen, man, I got a little problem with my girl.
You know, so I need to ask you some questions to what you what your advice is.
Okay, and where are you from?
Oh, I'm calling from Salem.
Salem, Salem.
Okay, cool.
So, what's up?
Yeah, man.
So, so basically, what happened?
I've been seeing this girl for about like six months or something.
And within the last month, we moved in together.
Everything was going good, you know.
And then I started wondering for a little while if something was up because, like, I came home a couple times and then I noticed that she had like been looking at some weird internet sites, like into witchcraft and stuff.
And then I found some like uh, you know, weird articles and witchcraft devices and shit like that that I didn't expect, you know what I'm saying?
So I'm just wondering, like, you know, maybe it's where I met this girl or something like that.
But, like, you know, what should I do if my girlfriend is a witch?
Oh, shit.
A witch?
Like, okay, has she talked to you about this?
Well, see, I was a little nervous to bring it up because if I, if I misinterpreted these events, then you know what I'm saying?
That's the good.
But wait, doesn't a witch?
I'm pretty sure a witch has to have like all the all the props, like all the tear cards and the cloth and the and the and the i don't know incense stuff.
I'm pretty sure there's like a physical thing she she has to do.
I don't think she can hide that.
So so where is all of her witch gear?
I'm sure there's like a box, no well, I mean like I so.
So I did one day, when she was out, she had to go do some things in town, so I did look around a little bit.
You know, saying just because I'm nervous, is my apartment, you know?
Right, I did find a.
I did find a box with, like you know, some some little articles like spells and like little little, like a, like an arm of a toad or something.
Have you?
Uh, arm of a toad?
Was it dead?
Oh, I guess.
So now, are you?
No, are you?
I mean, are you trolling?
Was like it dried up?
It had dried up, arm of toad, come on now, like it was.
But I don't know if it had just crawled up in there or if that was like part of her rituals or what.
But man, i'll tell you what I mean.
I was watching, you know, like Chris Angel and David Blain, and they was doing all this crazy and I was, I don't know man, all right well, have you talked to her about it?
Maybe that could be the next next step.
Say hey baby, I think you're a witch, am I right?
What do I do?
Well, what you say, you don't believe in that magic and stuff.
But what do I do if she puts, Are you laughing?
I mean, I know it's funny, man.
Why are you laughing, man?
I mean, this sounds, you started off as a serious person.
You were serious.
You were nervous and scared.
And now you're just laughing.
Are you trolling?
This sounds funny, man.
I know it sounds funny, but like, I'm trying to get some serious advice.
As long as she's not banging another dude, I think that isn't bad.
But if she's a witch, maybe she's doing a spell to, I don't know, increase your sex potency.
Maybe she's not happy with how you are in bed and she's doing a spell on you.
You have to satisfy her.
But what if what I'm saying is, what if I bring it up and she then be like, turn on me because, you know, she might have a little doll of me or something.
You know what I'm saying?
Like poking the whip.
Dude, that's very easy.
Just put silver in your pocket and rub a little bit of garlic on it.
You are immune to all spells if you do that.
So get a piece of silver.
Maybe a quarter is fine.
Get a little bit of garlic, sprinkle it on, and then go up to her and say, Yeah, good.
And then say, Hey, I think I found some things.
Are you a witch?
And if she says yes and does some hocus pocus on you, then you're like, Look, bitch, I got that garlic.
And then everything's fine.
I just spoke garlic.
Garlic is G-A-R-L-I-C.
Thank you, caller, and goodbye.
That guy is funny.
Yeah, that was actually good.
No, that one had me going for a little while.
Okay, we had a super chat $5 from our thanks from Tony C. Thanks for opening my eyes to game Ruch.
Thank you very much, Tony C, for your super duper chat.
Yeah, I mean, I think a better story would have been: I found her doing a spell with another guy and then had like a race angle, like a white guy.
I think that would, that would have been good.
But notice how all the trolls we've had, they can't maintain character, they always start to laugh.
But that was actually good.
That was a pretty good one.
All right, let's go to the next guy.
Okay, this looks like an Australian number.
You are now live.
Hello, Roosh.
What's up?
Hey, man.
21 from Australia, obviously.
Got a few questions.
I'll make it quick.
Sure, can't you tire?
Yeah.
When I was in private school, we had a sort of a hierarchy thing where the senior guys would get all the girls in our year, and then that felt pretty unfair.
But then we got into senior year and got the girls in the year below.
What do you think of that, like sort of hierarchy?
And is it sort of fair?
Like as a system?
I thought it was pretty shit.
But then, yeah, when I got into senior year, it was pretty good.
Well, when you're in school, you really have to compete against just a handful of guys on the football team.
But when you graduate, you now have to compete against thousands and thousands of men everywhere in all the clubs and the bars or the men that she meets.
Now you have to compete with millions of guys on the internet because now girls are trying to reach as high as they possibly can.
So is this hierarchy fair?
It's not.
But does it exist?
Yes.
And are you being subjected to it whether you're in school or not?
Yes.
It's just on a grander, grander scale.
That's all it is.
But that stuff never stops.
High school rules, high school types of hierarchy never ends.
It's just really a larger school once you graduate.
Yeah, yeah, I sort of noticed that, but like in society, it's very much 80-20.
I'm in a rural area and lots of girls go for the top.
Like they think they're sevens.
So would you say you are one of the top guys or close to it?
Oh, hello.
Oh, he is gone.
Something actually happened.
Let me see if he calls, calls back.
That sucks.
I'll give him a second if he wants to, if he wants to call back.
But yeah, the thing is, what was going on in high school doesn't really stop.
You know, it's like once you graduate, it's just the pond gets bigger.
So instead of swimming in a fishbowl that's small, you're now swimming in a big one.
And we got Jay Dyer.
He just made a generous donation of $30.
Thank you, Jay.
He said, Roosh, my girlfriend is a witch.
Help.
Was my black voice better than this guy?
I cracked.
That was a good black voice, though.
That was actually pretty good.
This guy can do a Jewish voice, black voice.
God, that guy's trolling me bad, huh?
That was pretty good.
I was 100% certain that I was like a black guy.
I mean, damn you, Jay.
But thank you.
Your money eases my troll pain.
I thought it was a black guy, but instead it's Jay.
Jay is not black.
Damn you, Jay.
Pretty good.
I feel tricked.
All right.
The Australian guy.
I have to check the second page here.
There he is.
And you are.
Oh, sorry, Rich.
Yeah, make calls.
That's okay.
Yeah.
Other one was, you wrote an article, A Face That I Could Love.
That's right.
Yeah.
And another one, The Hunt for a Moral Woman.
And I was thinking, like, you've sort of taught blokes how to bang.
And yeah, we're all thankful for that.
But like, has it made society worse?
Like, should we have all gone out and tried to find a relationship, a stable one with a good woman, rather than going out and banging every day?
It isn't up to you.
It's up.
The girls are, they want to bang.
They want to sleep around.
You are already giving a girl.
Even if one day all men are like, you know what?
I'm going to just look for a wife.
It doesn't matter because the women control what the relationship is.
Women want fun.
Yeah.
Especially.
So even if all men say, I'm not going to deal with that, women are just going to go find some other guy who's going to give them what they need.
Men react to what a woman shares that she wants.
Women want fun.
So game was made to give them that alpha tingle that they want.
So it's not up to us.
But if women tomorrow, all of them say, we're not having sex before marriage anymore, then the whole society changes overnight.
Overnight.
So really the best you can do is be a positive influence for women.
But unfortunately, you have to compete with the media, the universities, the government, all that stuff.
You're going to lose probably.
But yeah, it would be nice to think that men have control on how that relationship can actually go, but we don't.
Game is just something that we're doing because we found out that that's what women want.
Yeah.
I was thinking about, like the conflict you sort of had within yourself, like whether it was a good thing or not, and whether like, it's good for the individual male but for the collective, like it's not really that good, and whether or not like, we should have all sort of I don't know men go on strike until women well, are you sort of there, shape up?
Are you a part of the collective, or or or are you not?
You are part of it, right?
So if you are a part of this collective whole and you decide to do the right thing, then that collective improves too.
But you cannot impact the collective without impacting yourself.
So, as long as you do the right thing that you believe is right, you are automatically helping everyone else because you are part of that.
Yeah, so I wouldn't worry so much about what everyone else is doing, just work on yourself.
Make yourself the best man that you think you should, you should be and, by default, you are improving your environment too.
Yeah, like when I started to lift and oh yeah, become more alpha, I started turning chicks down because, like when I was a beta, I would have gone, yeah, i'll do this, but now i'm like no, i've got more status, more standard.
You know, whatever you know, I mean you're probably going to change your mind back and forth too.
But yeah, whatever you think is best.
But I don't stay up at night worrying what is the opinions and the behaviors of millions of people uh, going on right now.
I just worry about me, what I can change, and about me and those who are most close to me.
But you're not gonna.
I think it's a silly game to worry about what millions of people who don't even live around you, what they are doing okay yeah, uh.
Last thing, okay um, most of guys, lots of guys on the alt-rights, sort of think, oh yeah, we got to preserve the white race, okay and all that.
But i'm more about preserving white values and traditional values.
Like, I don't really care what the color of your skin is.
If you want to have a barbecue and a beer and hang out, that's fine by me, because I think if we try and preserve the white race, we're going to fail.
And even if we do preserve the white race, I mean your son could be gay and your daughter might be a coal burner but like yeah, if we preserve values, that's more important because they'll last a lot longer.
If that's what you want, if that's what you want to do, then do it, you know.
But yeah like, I don't mind still playing the game of trying to impact the opinions of millions of people.
Do you own a newspaper?
Do you own a university?
No, so what are you going to do?
How are you going to preserve the values that you think is right?
Preserve values within you?
That's beautiful, that's the best thing.
That yeah, so impact the people closest to you.
But other than that, all this talk about trying to preserve this ideal notion of this or that, to me that sounds like a waste of time.
True yeah, because I mean it's kind of heretical.
Yeah okay, to like say into mixing, race miss, race mixing, but very good yeah okay, I hope you have a good night.
Bye, you too.
Bye yeah, getting a little I don't know Hitlerish there.
Huh okay, we got a donation from mr Seth.
Mr Seth donated ten dollars.
He said, hey Ruch, glad to see you on the air again.
Rok's retail girls article has me asking how to approach a girl coming off as a lover without seeming foolishly sentimental.
Thanks for all of your work.
You know, I I think it's very hard to Put on a show.
It's very hard to say, okay, right now I'm going to present myself as a lover, as this, as that.
I think you are who you are.
And any attempts to change that will just make you seem weird, incongruent.
So I would say, if you want to be a lover type, which he's basically saying, he wants to be the guy that the girls sleep with instead of wanting to be their friend, you know, you're going to have to work on being the kind of guy that women see as that.
And not in one day, not in one moment, but for every day.
So every day, you're going to have to approach life as a more confident guy.
And how do you improve confidence?
Well, other than working on yourself, Jim, and things like that, it's approaching girls, learning how to talk to them, getting over the fear.
So really, it's a stepwise thing.
It's not, okay, I'm going to present myself as a lover now.
That doesn't work like that.
Because unless you are a true actor, even for actors, that's very hard.
So I would say just be the just gradually become the man that you want women to see you as.
Sleeping Elephant says, give us hope.
No, I'm not.
And the reason is because when you have hope, you think tomorrow is going to be better, but odds are it's not.
So wanting hope is actually setting yourself up for a big fall.
Like, oh, the it's the world isn't better.
Because guess what?
I don't think the world will get better.
But me, I think, man, tomorrow I may wake up and there's going to be some crazy shit.
But then I do, and it's a normal day.
And hey, it is a good day.
There hasn't been a nuclear bomb.
So giving someone hope is a bad thing because you're just setting themselves up.
You are setting themselves up, themselves up.
Because you cannot continually give good times, improvement, progress.
You just can't.
Some days are good and some days are bad.
But for me, when I lose all hope, no optimism, then you have a life that's more stable.
But when you're really hopeful, then you have these ups and downs and ups and downs, and life is tossing you this way and that way.
I don't have any hope at all.
But if good things happen, I will be more ready to really savor it, to really enjoy it.
Okay, another super chat from Seth.
Thanks.
Thank you, Seth.
Thank you very much.
Okay, I am a pessimist.
All right.
We got a call from looks like England.
Wait, no, we can't go to that one.
He hasn't been home.
We have to, we have another call from the U.S., I think.
Hello, caller.
You're now live.
Hey, Rich, how are you doing?
What's going on?
Pretty good.
And where are you calling from?
Calling from New Jersey.
New Jersey.
Okay.
Here in the United States.
So I'm calling on behalf of a friend.
So he sort of got us all into this a long time ago.
He was married for a little while.
He got divorced.
And since then, he's been in the dating scene.
He's 31 now.
And he said, from what it was 10 years ago to what it is today, isn't even close to the same.
He started taking trips to Brazil.
He's done two trips to Brazil.
He's going back again in February.
And he finds these wonderful, beautiful, pretty girls that adore him.
And he definitely wants to bring one home and call his wife.
But he also has an American girlfriend.
She's kind of overweight.
She's bitchy.
She doesn't do anything.
But he sort of keeps asking us for advice of whether he should continue this journey and find a wife overseas or whether he should stay in the American game.
I will say here in the New Jersey, New York area, a lot of these girls are bitches and princesses and they deserve everything.
What's that?
Is he there now?
He's actually going out on a date tonight, but he always talks to us and he asks us for advice.
Afraid he should pursue overseas.
I mean, how do I?
I mean, if he was here right now, I would ask him what he wants.
What does he want?
If two options seem completely equal to him, get a coin, flip it, because it's not going to matter, right?
Because they're mostly equal.
But I mean, if he's not here, I don't know how to, how can you advise a man who is not here?
I think he's trying to hold up hope for the American market and try to find a nice girl here, but he's investing so much time in doing it.
He's coming home, so he's going overseas.
Okay.
How old is he?
31.
That's in the middle.
So, I mean, if you, so if he wants to stay in the USA, he should stay and hit it extremely hard.
Give it a couple of years.
And if he doesn't get anything by 33, 34, then consider going if that's what he wants, if he wants to really succeed in the USA.
But I mean, you either do this or you do that.
And it seems like in many times, life is going to make them seem both kind of equal.
But if he wants to stay in the USA and make it work there, but he's been striking out a bit.
I mean, I think he has to strike out a lot more till he believes there is zero chance.
Once he believes there is no chance that he's going to find someone, then he should just get up and go somewhere else.
Thanks, Roche.
Appreciate it.
Sure thing, man.
Bye-bye.
You know, I would, I don't know, maybe it was the problem that he was having, but he wanted to say it was a friend.
I don't know.
I mean, I don't mind if he doesn't have to say his name, his social security number.
I'm not going to ask you.
You can give me a fake name.
You know, you can just say, my name is Steve.
You know what?
And I've seen a couple of comments on the chat that today my energy is low.
And I must say it is low.
You know, I did a full day's work.
I ate a big meal.
And then I'm trying to do this.
I think I have to do these live chats on the weekend only.
All right.
We have another super chat from Dariush Ashkani.
Dariush, the West is going to collapse.
It's inevitable.
Get an Eastern European waifu, start a business in Iran, and come back in future.
Things changing here.
Okay, I will come.
If you can help me out, if you can find a nice Persian girl around 2324, thank you, Dariush.
He is a good guy.
That is a great name, by the way.
That is probably the best name in the super chat I saw today.
Daryus.
What a name.
I mean, just, I think that was the name of the ancient Persian king, Dariush the first.
You know, that's where civilization was born in Persia, Persia.
Okay.
Samson asks, is Rush on hash right now?
I'm not on hash.
I don't do drugs.
Base Darius.
Dariush is good.
Let's go to this English caller.
Hello, Caller.
You're now live.
Hey there, Rush.
It's just a quick call from the UK.
Okay.
And what is going on today?
You're right.
I've got a couple of questions.
Okay.
Yeah, man.
Yeah, pretty early in the morning.
First of all, I just wanted to say when I went to Finland, I was in Helsinki.
And what you said in your book, man, I went to that exact same bar.
First night, I got laid from a Russian girl.
I think you're talking about a blog article I wrote, The Five Easiest Bars in the World.
Oh, yes, there.
Okay, so you went to the number one easiest bar that I wrote about and you got laid?
Bro, it was like the easiest.
Am I right?
Am I right?
No, it's spot on.
I'm right.
That's right.
It's absolutely mad.
Hell yeah.
And Finnish codes in general, they're kind of very promiscuous like that.
Like I've never just sat down at a bar and get opened myself.
Like I've always opened.
And it was super easy.
Yeah.
It's a good place if anyone's looking to go.
And for those of you who are watching now, the name of the bar is Millie Kluby.
Millie Kluby.
Easiest bar ever.
I think you can even be ugly and still get laid there.
Oh, man.
I see you.
Finland in general is like that, isn't it?
You know, they're just, they're very, they're very open culture.
So very open.
Very non-judgmental.
Very open.
That's good stuff.
My question, Rouge, I've got just two questions.
So I live near, well, I live very, very near London.
And of course, like it's good for gaming stuff and it's good to meet people and you get loads of different cultures, but it is expensive.
My question is really, like, I'm looking for the future of thinking, I don't get married until I'm about 40 or something like that, but I'd like to go to a place that's like a city that's also relatively cheap in terms of income to lifestyle because I don't want to be working all my life, but I want to be able to have enough free time to go out, meet people, to do my own activities.
I do martial arts, I do other things like that.
So is there any recommendations of places where you'd recommend where the lifestyle and you can have like relatively low income, but also have a really good lifestyle?
No, because usually countries that are poor, they spend a greater percentage of their income on food, shelter.
What you have to do is make money in pounds and live in a country that is poor so that your pounds go a far away.
That's what I'm doing.
I make US dollars.
You see all those sweet super chats and that's going to go a long way here.
So, I mean, I wouldn't advise going to a low socioeconomic index country and then working there because you still have to work just as hard as the locals.
So what guys do, they have an internet business.
They're making some money online and then they live in a poorer country.
That's what most guys do.
That's what I do.
So how old are you?
25.
25, yeah.
I would start some kind of internet job.
I mean, if you can make a, if you can make a 1500 pounds a month, which is, I think, like $2,200, you can live almost anywhere, really.
I mean, and even if you decide not to go anywhere else, you can use that money where you currently are.
Because I don't know.
Your only other option is to work for one of these multinational Fortune 500 companies that has a field office in Poland and you can work as a manager, you know, managing all the Polish people or something.
But that's it, you know, unless you want to teach English, but that's a low-paying job.
Yeah, I mean, like, I had a couple of mates who did that in Colombia and stuff, and they did say like the industry as well.
They did fairly well.
They did up pretty well in Thailand as well and places like that.
But I think, like you said, I think business is pretty much.
So make a business on the internet.
I mean, I think that, I mean, that's giving you such a great opportunity.
And one second, I just got a super chat from Athnam Eldua.
He says, Roosh, say hi to Arnold.
Arnold, he says hi there.
Okay.
Thank you very much.
Okay.
Did you have a second part?
Yeah, yeah.
So the second part really is kind of follow-up to what you're saying there, but it was what kind of niches or what kind of niches do you recommend to run internet-based businesses?
Because I don't want to be working for someone.
I want to be certain, but I want to work on my own time.
And I think I do need to start some sort of internet business.
Do you have any?
Yeah, I did.
Go look in my YouTube channel.
I did a nearly one-hour podcast, how to make money online.
I say the three ways that you can do it, either making content for others.
You can either sell the products of other people.
You can make your own products.
You can be a freelancer.
So go and check that out because I really lay out all the different ways that you can make money online.
And then you can listen to that and think in your mind, which is something that I can do.
Okay?
Brilliant.
Yeah, Matt.
Cheers.
Thanks for that, man.
Great.
Sure thing.
Bye-bye.
It's a really great thing when a man asks me something that I explained at length and I can say, go to that and he's going to get all that value, which is good.
All right, guys.
So there's 10 more callers.
I'm tired.
So I wanted to do the live show on a weekday to see how it is.
And I don't have that energy.
I'm just a low energy guy.
I'm so low energy.
And other than the black guy who called in the black guy with the witch, you know, I just don't have that energy, guys.
I'm just a boring man.
But sorry to everyone else.
I think two hours for a weekday show is good.
I don't want to burn myself out.
Thank you anyways.
But as for everyone else, thank you for coming.
Thank you for all the super chats.
Let's see how the chat is going.
Roosh has low T. Say it ain't.
So I don't have low T.
I got it tested.
It's going up.
How to make a girl queef, Roosh.
I don't know.
You are getting older, Roosh.
Nothing wrong with that.
He's right.
Tony C is right.
So anyway, I don't have to prove that I can go a long time because I don't know if you were there for the seven hour stream.
I went seven hours.
I was an animal.
But today I got up, I worked, and I did things.
I ate a meal.
So now this is how I am at 2, 1 to 3 a.m. where I currently am.
So anyways, thank you guys.
So I think the next live chat I know should be Sunday.
So Sunday block things out.
Also, if you like, if you want to get a notification when I'm about to go live, hit that bell next to the subscribe thing because that's going to have like a little thing that says Roosh is going live.
So, anyway, okay, thank you, everyone.
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