Nov. 26, 2020 - Dennis Prager Show
04:30
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| On earth, the way God or nature has made us, that is not insignificant. | |
| And all he cares about is who I am. | |
| Well, then my parallel is a man saying, she doesn't care if I'm ambitious or work hard, if I play video games much of the day, but... | |
| She'll love me for who I am. | |
| But nobody says that. | |
| As I said, no man would say something that stupid. | |
| Do you work hard? | |
| Are you responsible? | |
| So, it doesn't have a parallel in the male world. | |
| Men know, by and large, they have to earn a woman's love. | |
| Which is a wonderful thing, by the way. | |
| It is one of the things that has propelled men all through history to achievement, wanting to earn a woman's love. | |
| And keep her love, I might add. | |
| I believe that people have to earn love continuously. | |
| Obviously, if one of the partners falls ill, then clearly... | |
| The love should stay there and the person cannot continue to earn it the way they did prior to the disease. | |
| That's why I believe in moral bank accounts. | |
| If before you got ill, you were a wonderful spouse, then that certainly will help. | |
| You got that moral bank account with your spouse. | |
| But putting that aside, this notion of he will love me for who I am is very naive and is not helpful to young women in finding somebody. | |
| How do you react to what I just said? | |
| Is it offensive? | |
| Is it just common sense? | |
| I think it's just common sense. | |
| But how many young women are told this? | |
| 1-8 Prager 776-877-243-7776 The same holds true once married. | |
| since I believe that you continue to earn the love of your spouse, why would you let yourself go now that you have him? | |
| These are tough questions, almost never addressed in our society, because it's a society that wants to deny, number one, any differences between male and number one, any differences between male and female, Wants to deny any significance to women's looks. | |
| It's called sexist. | |
| To emphasize that that has importance. | |
| And anything that emphasizes it is... | |
| Just bigoted and misogynistic and sexist. | |
| So you can't have honest conversations. | |
| Because when honesty is actually engaged in, you are smeared for doing so. | |
| I wrote a two-part column many years ago about The issue of when a wife is not in the mood for physical intimacy, mood should not alone be the determinant. | |
| If you love your husband and he's a good man, mood alone should not be determinant. | |
| On many occasions it might be, but it shouldn't always. | |
| And in Huffington Post, somebody wrote that I was advocating marital rape. | |
| So what they do is they inhibit honest discussion of male-female relations. | |
| Subject today, he will love me for who I am. |
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