Jim Maxson argues modern women can’t escape social media’s spotlight, fueling extended adolescence and attention-seeking behaviors like gyms with babysitting services or adult volleyball leagues. He contrasts alpha males—who tolerate infidelity for excitement—with betas—accused of desperation for commitment—claiming women prefer alphas for thrills but use betas to validate their presence. Even conservative figures like Isabella Moody and Brett Cooper allegedly prioritize attention over values, reinforcing his view that societal dynamics are fixed, urging men to exploit the system by targeting high-status women while accepting loyalty’s unpredictability. [Automatically generated summary]
Black fatigue, black fatigue, Shaniqua, please take out the weed.
Black fatigue, black fatigue, Shaniqua, please take out the weed.
What is up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Today's kind of just a random stream.
You know, I was just riffing.
I was just thinking.
I know I wasn't going to stream today, but you know, I miss you guys.
That's the problem.
I'm like, oh, I think chat would love this.
They would love these thoughts.
You know, I was thinking I live kind of in a clown world.
I live in this society that is just, it's so crazy how you have to walk around and pretend things are normal.
Like, I go to this workout class or not workout class.
I go to the gym, right?
I'm Jim Maxson currently.
And I have two, I have two, maybe three goals this year when it comes to my fitness.
One, I want to get to 19% body fat.
I'm between like 22 to 24-ish, depending on the week, right?
Two, I want to do the splits.
The front splits at least, side splits would be cool.
That would be cool.
And then I'm going to run a half marathon.
So I go to the gym.
And, you know, in fitness, you see a lot of these events, right?
So today I'm like, I'm at the gym and there's this workout class and it's at like 9.30 every day.
And I see this trainer come out.
I don't work out with the class, but the trainer comes in and it's like this, you know, it's like an athletic black guy, right?
It's like the typical personal trainer, athletic black guy.
And there's actually a few internet like e-celebs that go to this class.
I couldn't figure out why it was so crowded, but there's like a famous guy that goes to this class.
And it's mostly women and like a few guys.
And I was thinking, it's maybe like 60, 40 men to women, even though the gym I would say is mostly men.
But women like the classes.
Men like kind of like to do their own thing.
I don't like the I like to work out by myself because my splits training takes a while and there's no class that's like, You know, so whatever.
I go to my class and then, um, they're not in my class.
I keep saying my class.
I can't talk.
I go to my gym and then a DJ walks in.
And I'm like, is there a DJ at this workout class?
There's a DJ at this workout class.
You cannot convince me this is any different than the club.
And I started thinking about it.
I was thinking about it more deeply.
And I'm like, events really are just excuses for women to meet higher status men than their husbands.
Because I'm looking around the class and I'm like, I bet this whole class is full of snow bunnies.
I bet it's full of women that like black guys and they're just going to this class because the trainer is like a attractive like, so I was looking at the guys that go to the class and I was thinking, I'm like, they kind of look like Walmart versions of the trainer, like different versions of this trainer.
And I was thinking the men probably go to this class to pick up the single mothers in this class because my gym actually has a babysitting area.
You know, they tell me to touch grass.
I touch it every day.
You know, they have a babysitting area for the moms.
And there's some moms that come to this gym and they spend like four hours a day at this gym.
And I know because I've spent four hours a day.
I love this gym.
This is like the best babysitting class for women.
Right.
So I go to the gym.
I work out.
Like it's amazing.
I can get my haircut at this gym.
I think you could get massages.
I personally haven't.
And this is one of the smaller versions of this gym.
Like there's bigger versions.
Like the old one I used to go to had a rock climbing wall.
And I was thinking, you know, I get to play volleyball at this gym.
I get to play basketball.
You said black guys are perfect for single mothers.
And I was thinking, you know, the women go into the gym.
It shows like the stuff they'd rather be doing than watching their kids.
Right.
And I was thinking about this more because like the gym is a pretty time-consuming activity, right?
And it's something that could be like a family activity.
If you got like an at-home, like really a lot of the stuff you do at the gym, it's kind of overkill.
You don't need all of this, right?
Like I could go home, get some dumbbells, and then I don't have to be away from the house.
And you don't have to give your, you know, your kid a buela.
Like you don't have to give your kid to a built, right?
And I'm sure there's, you know, there's women that just like the classes.
They like the athleticism.
But let's be honest, at least one of them is getting cracked by this trainer.
At least one.
I'm just, I'm just being honest here.
Like, I'm, you're telling me there's a bunch of, I mean, there's some white guys there too.
The famous influencer that goes to this place is a white guy, to be fair.
But I'm thinking, I'm like, they're cracking these hoes.
There's no way.
And it's just a group dynamic.
It's not, you know, a lot of people say, how do you get these insights?
Like, how do you guess that these women are going to whore?
And I'm like, well, on a balance of probabilities, women just end up whoring.
Like, and it's because there's this whore inside of every woman that just wants to get out.
And every woman has this, right?
Every woman has this whore inside of her.
Like, we are messed up people.
Like, I used to read Twilight and enjoy it, you know.
And this is actually why women prefer dating alphas.
You know, men, a lot of times, they kind of put their morality on women, and they're like, men are logical, right?
And it drives men crazy that women go based on their feelings.
And a lot of guys, instead of learning how to elicit the feelings out of women, they just complain, right?
And I get it because we're incredibly annoying.
And half of the information that people give you just doesn't work, right?
And so I was thinking about it.
Alphas, in a way, make better fathers if you can get them to stick around, right?
And they make better boyfriends in a way because they understand women.
Alphas have been the side dude, right?
And they have gotten like, you know, I had one, I'll say contextual alpha explain to me, like one guy who I would say, you know, he's probably been in the alpha role for women.
He said the wife of the preacher of a parish blew him in the parking lot, right?
And he could just tell this girl was really, really innocent, you know.
And once you've been that guy, once you see that, you know, we disappoint men all the time with our behavior, you know.
Like Brett Cooper, you know, everyone saw her as this innocent girl, and then she ditches her baby at home, flies across to New York Fashion Week, and then, you know, says, watch, watch my kid while I go flirt with other men.
You know, that disappointed a lot of men, but an alpha would say, well, water is wet, the sky is blue, women are going to whore, you know.
And that's why a lot of times I don't mean to prescribe morality to it.
I mean, you don't, every woman's, you know, every woman's got stuff she's not proud of, you know.
And yeah, you're saying, Brett Cooper, she couldn't help it.
You know, she couldn't hide the excitement on her face because it's just like biology, you know.
And it's the simps.
I can tell a man's a simp, right?
Because they'll defend women at all costs.
They'll say, oh, she would never do that.
I could also tell a guy, you know, yeah, you say Brett's not a good mother.
Well, maybe she's a good mother, but women will always sacrifice motherhood at the cost of attention, you know.
The best luck luck ever is from a married, born-again Christian woman.
And simps that don't know better will defend women's behavior.
You know.
Yeah, Isabella Moody, you know, I like Isabella, but you're not fooling it, you know.
You got, you guys got to stop doing this, ladies.
You cannot claim to represent a Christian ideology.
And like, you know, the same look is on Isabella Moody's face.
I like her, you know, no offense.
But that, that was kind of embarrassing, you know.
And on a balance of probabilities, I'll do something embarrassing eventually.
You know women, we just tend to embarrass our husbands.
You know what I mean.
Like to the
Why Save for Kids?00:07:41
real world, okay.
Okay.
I go out, I go out, and I real world max all the time.
Is that what the kids say?
And I'm at the gym, right?
And I'm thinking about how this is going to be society.
Society is going to be all of these places built for women, all these events from the mothers that just cannot stay home and be a mom.
It's too boring.
They don't want to do it.
They can't do it.
It's way more exciting to go to the fun events, to go to the gym, and you know, go.
It's like they will never be able to let it go.
Right?
And so, what you're going to have is all these abuelas at these places watching the kids for the mothers, you know.
And we're going to see all this like outsourcing of motherhood.
Let me find.
And you're going to see these like sad.
You know, I play volleyball, right?
I love playing volleyball.
So this is a little bit, this is hypocritical, in fact, for me to notice this.
But I noticed, um, you know, volleyball, like my mom put away her volleyball career by the time she was like 21 or 22.
I ended my competitive volleyball career by the time I was, I don't know, 27, 26.
And what, you know, and my grandma put away whatever she did in high school by the time she finished high school, right?
And I was thinking what we're getting now is extended adolescence because women cannot leave the spotlight.
What do I say, abuelas?
Because it's not a white woman watching those kids.
We all know it's not a white woman, right?
And it's not necessarily wrong, right?
I saw this is what made me think of this today.
I saw this video of this like summer camp.
Okay.
Maybe I'll zoom in.
And it's of these like adults and it's all these these adults that like didn't get to, you know, live out their fantasy of like, you know, for me, it was like, you know, professional volleyball.
It's actually what made me quit professional semi-like.
I could have really pursued that career further, but I was like, I want a boyfriend, a family.
So I'm going to put this away.
This is taking, like, it's too time consuming, right?
And it's the same with this.
This here, this is going to be evenings, nights, all these adults are training to, you know, do musical theater or whatever.
This is going to be so time consuming.
I know, I know, because this is something I would do, right?
I never got to do theater as a kid, but like, so on one hand, it's kind of fun because as an adult, you get like, my mom didn't get to be in a lead in the theater at 40.
kind of fun right but it's just gonna be there's gonna be more systems in place for women to not be able to leave the spotlight And it's going to get worse because women are going to keep not having kids.
So they're going to, what are we going to do with all these adults?
What's a, what's a way we can take women's money and women hate seeing hot women in media.
So there's going to be all of these old women roles.
So all you could do is find a way to benefit from this system.
You can't, you can't like, I mean, F, you know, here, here is a difference in thought process.
You could A, complain and say, this is so bad.
This is awful.
But what is that going to do?
It's going to do nothing, right?
Or you could join one of these theater groups and bang the nerdy women in there, right?
Or you could start a theater program and take their money, right?
These old women money, you know, this is irreversible.
You cannot undo this.
Hold on, let me find you said Brett Cooper kissed another dude in Pendragon.
Did she do that?
Women are incredible.
Women are incredible.
Well, when you put it that way, I'll start a hot yoga.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, what are you going to do?
You know, you can't.
Modern women and women in general cannot leave the spotlight.
And on top of that, we're not really having young kids.
So again, we used to go, the spotlight was reserved for people until they were like 22.
And then you would say, all right, Sia, now the kids are in the spotlight.
You know, now let's go watch the kids' theater and the kids' game.
But modern women came out and said, I can't.
I'm tired of giving up myself.
You know, I'm giving up all this, the hobbies and all this stuff.
I don't want to give that up for kids.
And so, what society is going to keep doing is finding ways for women to not give it up for kids.
And the way they're going to do that is having Abuela watch the kids, right?
And everyone's going to say women were tricked into this, but it's really not, it's not like trickery, you know.
It's just, you know, the girl at my gym isn't tricked into handing her kid to abuela, you know.
Let me make sure this is the right one.
And then on top of that, women are going to keep getting put into roles that we don't deserve.
And I think a significant portion of the population is going to be employed through social media, either full-time or part-time, you know.
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Modern my ass, women have always been the same.
That's true, but women haven't had this much power, you know.
there's a little bit of shame.
They're like, what are you doing?
What are you doing?
You know?
Small William loves you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
So, anyways, I was thinking about it, and this is just going to continue, right?
So, what's going to happen is events for women.
Communities for women, right?
And women are going to outsource their loneliness to either gyms, fitness community.
I mean, I don't, these are the ones I'm familiar with.
Theater communities for adults, right?
And they're going to get old and ugly.
And then I don't know.
But what I've noticed is, okay, I'm going to explain this in a different way.
Okay, there is a wall, right, for women.
This is what it seems to be.
So women, there's, no, hold on, I dropped.
So all women love being whores.
This is 100% of women.
Any woman that says she's special or different is not special or different.
So, all women are horse.
So, we start there.
And what I've noticed is the wall is like when you, there's different like leagues, right?
There's 18 to 25.
And there's the men that run through the 18 to 25-year-olds.
So, this is like famous men, rich men, etc.
Okay.
Now, sometimes a girl's really attractive, so she stays in this league until she's like 28.
You know, and the fatter women get, the lower the bar, the less young women there are, the more this extends, right?
But then there becomes the 25 to 35-year-old league.
And this is usually more of the businessmen.
I would probably put the fitness communities here.
Like, I would say most of the women at my gym are 25 to 35-ish, right?
And so, what happens is, and then we get the 35, I don't know, 35 to 45-year-old women league.
And then the 50, let's just say the 50-plus league.
And again, there's alphas that are going to bang each one of these leagues.
And so, like, the 50-plus, like the highest rate of STDs is in the nursing home.
So, there's men that just run through nursing homes, right?
So, the woman graduates, she's too old to go to the, I don't know, 35 to 5, the 45-year-old people are, I don't know, they're kind of, it's more like 25 to 45-year-old league.
I don't know, 30 to 40, I don't know, but that's like the fitness places, the businessmen.
Like, that's when you see women go from, we go from streamers to businessmen sometime in that league, right?
I mean, streamers is my generation.
Maybe in you guys's generation, it was like rock stars, models.
Then the 50-plus league, you know, there's someone banging these broads.
Don't get it twisted.
But what changes is the amount of effort the men are willing to put in to bang these broads, you know?
So, like, here, the men are willing to crawl through broken glass, right?
Here, they're willing to, you know, pay for dinner, maybe.
Here, they're willing to text you, right?
Here, the women have to beg for it, right?
So, I would say the 25 to 45-year-old league is maybe the nurse, like hospitals that becomes a deal.
Like, you know, there's so much emphasis on not having a girl that goes to the club, but there's clubs everywhere, unless she's at home.
And even if she's at home, she's going to enter into a different group, right?
There's the club of the people that pick up their kids from school, their single fathers there, you know.
I mean, there is one of the, okay, I'll tell you what happened.
One kid, one woman at my middle school, she coached cross-country, and it was a big, it was a big thing where she had an affair.
Women Still Hit Hard00:15:19
I was just happily running, so I had no idea.
I had no idea.
But I guess the two coaches were having an affair at my middle school, and the guy was married, the girl, the woman was not.
But so, you know, she's, you think you're sending your kid to your wife to little league practice to coach her child, you know, because her daughter was on my team and she's out there whoring.
And alphas know this.
That's why alphas are a lot less controlling, I would say, most of the time than betas.
Betas feel the need.
They're like, oh no, we need to get women out of the club.
I don't want her to get tricked or brainwashed and make a decision that she doesn't want to make.
Alphas have been the side dude.
So they're like, do whatever you want.
They're like, go to the club because, do you know what?
I've been the dude at the hospital.
I've been the dude.
I've been, I've been the dude.
Like, they don't care, you know.
They're much better fathers too because they understand women.
So they don't raise brats, you know.
Betas completely make the spoiled daughter.
Alphas know women's true nature.
So they know their daughter's a whore.
They know if their daughter wants to whore that she's, oh, she's going to whore.
She's going to whore so hard.
You know.
And, you know, a lot of men they talk about like wanting to be the alpha, like the woman's alpha, get genuine desire.
But one thing that's not really talked about is genuine desire is actually pretty distracting.
Like, have you ever had a woman that has genuine desire for you?
Constantly, she thinks you're cheating all the time.
She's in your phone.
She like it's almost a hassle.
Sometimes being the beta male, who cares?
You still hit?
You know what I mean?
It's kind of like a beta.
I was thinking about this.
It's kind of beta to think, oh, how do I get a woman to stay for life?
It's like, what are you, a woman?
Recently, okay, so recently, I know this guy, right?
And this guy is a total alpha.
I've known this person for a long time.
And he is the alpha Chad, right?
He's tall, good looking.
It's a relative of mine, I'll say.
And this is Chad, right?
Yeah, yeah.
So this guy's saying the woman with genuine desire is always checking the computer.
Where are you?
Are you cheating?
You know, the woman that's with the beta, she doesn't even care.
She might even let you cheat.
And who cares?
You still hit, right?
That's why women, you know, that's why women get so angry is because, you know, you can delete the sex tape, you can delete the nudes, but he will never unfuck you.
He will never unbang you.
And he's going to remember it forever.
He will never forget.
It's unfortunate.
Yeah, they, when you're the alpha, they think you're cheating.
They think every other woman wants you.
You have to know how to leverage that anxiety.
Yeah, I know.
It can be like a complete pain in the ass.
Right.
But, anyways, let's say this is the actually, let's say that's the beta guy.
This is the alpha guy, right?
I'm going to put the alpha guy with a frown or like he's angry, right?
Because the alpha is like, you know, he's the chat anyways.
But my guy, this guy that I know, right?
He, he got his virgin trad wife.
So he got this pretty, you know, nice young.
He took her virginity.
wait let me i'm gonna draw her closer to the alpha now she's in love They're happy together, right?
They're happy.
they're together forever and a lot of men think they think oh the alpha gets the genuine desire He gets better treatment.
And that's true to some extent, right?
But he has to deal with the constant cheating accusations, the high anxiety, whatever.
And she does love the alpha, right?
But the problem with an alpha, you can't control him.
And I think that's really the biggest difference in like Chad's is they're uncontrollable.
It doesn't matter you're nagging.
It doesn't matter like, it doesn't matter what you do.
They're just going to do what they're going to do.
And that's so frustrating to women because we have control everywhere else.
So, what do you think she did?
This guy's virgin trad wife, even though he was not even religious.
He wasn't even looking for one.
That's what happens.
The chads, they're not even looking for a religious virgin.
They just find one.
What do you think she did when she was all emotional?
What do women do when we're emotional?
We right.
So, every time they got into a fight, she would cheat with the beta.
And he got cheated on a ton of times every time they would fight, and she would be mad, right?
Because she's sad, or maybe he cheated, or maybe he did this, or XYZ.
Elvis Presley got cheated on by his virgin trad wife that he met in high school, right?
And I don't think this is talked about that much.
Like, so it's not always winning to be the alpha because you have to deal with all this, the genuine desire.
And the beta still hit, right?
He still hit, you know.
And so, women are kind of like basketballs, all women, all women.
I'm like a basketball, all women.
And the alphas and the betas just pass the basketball back and forth to each other, right?
And the betas here, he's saying, Oh, how can I make her my wife?
So I stop passing.
And the alpha's like, Who gives a fuck, right?
There's a new round of women coming, right?
New girls turn 18 every day.
And then the beta is like, The 18-year-old's too, too young for you, bro.
And the alpha bangs her anyway.
Alphas, I'll tell you what, alphas are a lot less discriminating sexually.
It tends to be beta males that say, I won't date women under a certain age.
I won't date women.
Like alphas, a lot of times, will bang anything.
Like they're excited.
They're like 45-year-old cougar, I'll do it, right?
They might do like alphas, you know, if she's if she reaches their attractiveness floor, right?
They're willing to bang all age groups.
They're willing, and they understand women's true nature, right?
And that's why women don't like being with betas because, all right, so let's say she leaves the alpha or whatever.
So this girl leaves the alpha, boom, now she's with the beta.
Okay, love, love.
The beta is saying, Oh, please don't leave me.
He's needy.
He's desperate, right?
He wants relationship.
He wants marriage.
And she doesn't like the pressure.
She doesn't like the pressure of that, right?
Women, we don't like feeling like we have to do something.
We want to do it because we want to do it, right?
No woman wants to be chained to a guy for life, you know.
And the beta, you know, he's kind of a bitch, right?
Because women, and the reason he's a bitch, okay, is because the beta, the beta wants problems, right?
All women are problems, 100% of women.
It's just a different set of problems.
Like, you know, the girl dating, the beta, the beta has to deal with all this disrespect.
the alpha doesn't have to deal with disrespect but she might cheat for comfort you know and so the beta is saying oh my goal in life is to be a husband and a father And it's like, well, what are you, a woman?
That's what women should want.
Women want to lock you down, but you want to lock down a woman.
You're worried about how a woman's going to stay.
You know, it's kind of like imagine, imagine there's like that black guy that's like the thug, right?
And he's going out and he's looking for a fight.
And you're just like, you look crazy because you're out here looking for these problems, right?
You're out here looking for problems.
It's very different than the guy, you know, who somebody tried to disrespect his woman and he fought the guy, you know, like it's very different than the guy who the fight found him.
You know, he's viewed a hero, right?
Because he didn't go out looking for trouble.
Women love finding the man, right?
Women love saying, wow, I found the, I found him, right?
That's why they say, like, I want to find my husband.
You know.
So, like, as a woman, as you know, the beta male, he's like looking for marriage, looking for love.
It's like, what are you, a woman?
You want problems?
Women are supposed to want problems.
Women love problems.
It gives us excitement.
It makes us feel something.
You as a man aren't supposed to want problems.
You said, do I want my children to be raised fatherless?
No.
But women would rather procreate with an alpha.
That's what women are choosing to do.
Women are choosing single motherhood.
So because alphas know women's true nature, they're much more loving.
If the woman says, I want to go with the beta, he says, I'll see you later.
And then she comes back to him in a decade, right?
He bangs her both times again.
Because the alphas, they, you know, it's the betas that say, I want a virgin trad wife, you know.
And the alphas may want that for like their the top of their roster, and they might select that.
That's their first round pick, but they're not above banging anybody.
They're not above banging anybody on the roster.
They'll, you know, if she can, if she can hold out and be hot long enough.
And alphas get the best out of women because they don't require anything.
They say, okay, you just want to give sex, go.
The betas are like, I want you to be my wife and I want you to do it again, the alphas and the betas.
And some men, you know, they pretend to be the beta male just so they don't have to deal with the genuine desire and they can just get the sex.
That's the tough, you know, because again, as women, you got to know that he still hit.
That's the truth of the matter.
That's the truth in the matter.
He's still hit, and they'll remember forever.
That's actually the other thing, too.
Alphas are much less likely to spread your business, right?
Because betas tend to be more sexless.
So, the alpha, if he bangs you, he actually might forget because he's banged like 500 women, right?
Where the beta, I mean, this is the only time he's getting laid.
He's telling all of his friends, he's telling his family.
The alpha, it's like, well, it's not really that big of a deal because I banged three women this week.
European women, especially Scandinavians, seem to be more feminine than North Americans, or nonpolitical, nonreligious women, more feminine.
You think?
Yes.
Usually, women that are religious or conservative do that to make up for something else where they're lacking.
Yeah, alphas don't kiss and tell.
So, anyways, sometimes I just like to give my observations, and I would say 80% of my observations come from the real world.
And it's number one: modern women will never get out of the spotlight, can't do it.
And there's going to be more institutions built to keep giving modern women the spotlight.
Men are really just going to be used to build brands for women's Instagrams.
And usually, the beta male is going to be used to build women's brand online.
The alpha male won't allow it, but he is still going to get cheated on with the beta male.
Women are designed to be passed around.
I would recommend men just go with the hottest women available because I mean, neither are really going to be loyal, you know.
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Um, these are really the leagues for women, and there's different groups.
You know, women can whore at any age, there is a wall, but it's just you graduate into a different league.
So, so, and even if you find a virgin trad wife, I know someone that did and got cheated on with five different dudes, and that man's an alpha.
So, anyways, that's all I got today.
I was, it was kind of um, alphas don't care for cheating ran-through type women.
Oh, yes, they do.
Oh, that's the biggest cope I've ever heard in my life.
They don't mind because they're not marrying any of them.
That's why women want to be whores because alpha women want to be with the alpha, and alphas don't marry anybody, and that's why women are jealous of whores because whores get the attention of alphas.
I don't make the rules, I didn't make this society.
The only thing you can do now is just figure out how to make it benefit you.
And the other thing is also that being a wife, right, part of that is getting out of the spotlight and letting the man have the spotlight.
And I've never, I think I've seen one woman do that ever.