Alphas Are The Only Men With Leverage explores how social dominance—fame, confidence, or status—trumps wealth in attracting women, using Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Brady as case studies. The speaker claims women prioritize genetic quality over emotional bonds, favoring alphas who reject commitment while exploiting betas who fear abandonment. They argue modern monogamy lacks enforcement, leaving desire unchecked, and that men’s desirability hinges on their refusal to accommodate or signal fidelity. Controversial assertions about gender dynamics and infidelity dominate, framing relationships as a zero-sum game where alphas thrive while betas are manipulated. [Automatically generated summary]
Have you ever wondered why your wife is such a bitch?
Have you ever wondered why she's nice to everyone else?
But to you, she's a bitch.
And then Clavicular walks in the room.
Brett Cooper's eyes light up and yours.
Your wife does too.
Hoes are gonna hoe.
Keep it on the low.
Hoes are gonna hoe.
Nobody has to know.
Hoes are gonna hoe.
Keep it on the low.
Hoes are gonna hoe now.
On my channel, I'm not gonna tell women not to be whores on my channel.
I don't do that.
Well, not anymore.
Because the older you get, time, it's precious.
And the older you get, I don't want to waste my life trying to put somebody in check.
Somebody else's wife.
Hoes are gonna hoe.
Keep it on the low.
Nobody has to know.
Hoes are gonna hoe.
I am not here to save all these.
I am what happens in your freestyle.
I am not here to save you from liberal tears.
To tell you it's gonna get better and that your love will last forever.
I'm not here to send you to church.
I'm not here to tell you my worth.
Hoes are gonna ho.
Why Men Show Competence00:09:08
What up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Now, I only have an hour today, but I kind of just have wanted to do this rant for a minute.
I've had it on my list of like rants to give.
Okay.
And I have an hour.
I'm actually getting my nails done, which is exciting.
I never get my nails done.
And I was like, do you know what?
Fuck it.
Fuck it, Bucky.
You know, I'm going to go.
I'm going to sit, relax, get my nails done.
I don't mean to brag, but I'm going to brag, you know.
Anyways, those songs I do in the beginning, I do come up with off the dome.
I'm too autistic to like write this stuff out.
So it's really just a freestyle.
Does this release?
Okay, so alpha fucks and beta bucks.
What is an alpha?
The definition of an alpha.
I want to get the exact definition.
It's the first letter of the Greek alphabet.
Okay.
Oh my God.
These are the guys.
They've got Wikipedia messed up.
Oh my God.
Something that is first, a leader.
In this side of YouTube, I guess I'll explain it in a different way because I was hoping the oh, the socially dominant, especially in a group of animals.
Okay, that's better.
Alpha Fox and Beta Bucks.
So, typically, when we think Alpha Fox, we think of Leonardo DiCaprio.
We think of the hot, fun, exciting guy.
And when we think of Beta Bucks, we think of money.
You guys are incapable of choosing real alphas.
Oh, no, women are capable.
That's what we're biologically designed to do.
And men hate this.
Men hate losing to other men.
Beta Bucks essentially is the money guy.
It's the long-term guy.
It's the stable guy.
And a lot of times, beta bucks make your life better, but we never appreciate them because they have no leverage or ability to fire you in general.
So the question is: why does Tom Brady get divorced from Giselle?
But Giselle gave Leonardo DiCaprio King treatment.
This is really common.
When women are younger, we choose for pretty much genetics.
We choose for genetic material, social status, fame.
When women are young, they tend to go for the famous men.
And when we get older, then we go for money and we go for security.
And it's because at different points in our lives, we need different things from men, right?
When we get around to having a kid, we're like, anybody will do anybody, anybody.
Does anybody want to have a kid with me?
You, you're going to do.
And we see if the guy is going to stick around, and that's who we pick, right?
Now, remember, alpha to one girl is going to be different than another, right?
Like one girl's alpha is going to be Tom Brady because Tom Brady is going to be the most exciting guy she ever dated.
That is until she gets into Tom Brady's circle and, you know, meets his friends and then, you know, leaves for a more alpha guy.
Right.
But the reason that alphas get better treatment in general is because they're the only men with the leverage.
Beta males have no leverage in society.
Now, men really want their money to matter.
So a lot of times when it comes to dating, even the six foot, six figures, six feet tall thing, Kevin Samuels would quote that a lot.
And he would, he would, you know, quote that a high value man is a guy that's six feet tall, six figures, six, you know, maybe six inches, whatever.
And I thought about it.
I'm like, that's not really a good analogy because you could, as a man, you could be six feet tall.
You could have money, right?
You could have on paper all the things women want and you could still be lame to women.
Now, we're kind of messed up in the head, right?
This isn't really your fault.
We're like messed up in the head.
But it doesn't really take into account the DJ who bangs hotter women than you're ever going to bang.
And I always hear this cope, right?
There's always a cope that's like, well, yeah, but the women aren't going to stay with him.
I'm like, says who?
I mean, she gives a better version of herself to the DJ on a one-night stand than you ever got to get.
Who's winning?
You know what?
Because you got her, you got her bitching at you for three years, right?
And so I just never liked this analogy because I used to use it, to be fair, because it's very difficult to pinpoint what an alpha actually is, right?
But I would say, in layman's terms, it's men that are not afraid of women, number one.
They cannot fear women.
They can't care what they think.
Empathetic men, just generally, you're not going to do well.
You are going to sign up to be a simp.
They don't.
The girls that's easily impressed by the DJ is impressed by the next shiny thing.
She won't stick with anyone.
Well, it's not always a DJ.
That's like one example, but it could be the high school quarterback.
All women are impressed by status.
So you saying, oh, well, I want a different woman.
I mean, so you want to date a man.
You know, how can we create our sons to be alphas?
I don't know.
I've never raised a son.
So, anyways, I was thinking about it.
Why do men that give women the least get the best treatment?
You ever think about that?
You ever give a woman like the entire world?
And it's because she deems you as more of a bitch, right?
There's a guy earlier in the show, and he's saying, Pearl, pearl, pearl, pearl.
But you're not going to tell me this guy with seven baby mamas is more alpha than me.
And I'm like, yeah, because I bet he fears women less.
He is not afraid to get seven women pregnant.
Now, mind you, alpha change is based on the environment, right?
I have a friend who plays guitar.
And when he's playing guitar, he's the alpha of that room.
And he bangs bitches, right?
He gets hoes when he does that.
And then when he's a teacher, he gets less hoes, like not as many hoes.
But then when he's directing the play, he gets more hoes, right?
Because that's an environment where he's a leader.
Elon Musk was like the nerd in high school, probably.
I mean, I don't know, but I'm just speculating.
And I forgot what I was going to say.
Oh, and it's just interesting because I see men always wanting to show like their competence to women and be like, look, women are impressed by competence.
I get my pick of the litter of women.
And I'm like, no, you don't.
You get your pick of the litter of old women selecting for beta.
Like, if you can't get women 18 to 25, and I don't blame you guys.
It's not you, but that's going to be the most, the men that are the best with women, right?
I'm not that good at piano yet.
can't um you know if you're here to nag me I'm just gonna ban you from the chat I just ban you.
Leverage And Heart00:05:23
It's not, it's like a, takes one second.
Anyways, so I was thinking about it.
Why do men, why does Leonardo DiCaprio get king treatment from Tom Brady's ex-wife, Giselle?
Because Leonardo DiCaprio is the only one with leverage.
One, women know they have a man's heart.
Now they know they have the leverage because a man can have a woman's heart.
And generally speaking, there's a few psychopaths out there, but he'll be a good person with it.
But women, when we know we have your heart and you love us, we know we have leverage because I don't know what they always say women are more emotionally invested.
I don't think so.
I think men are more emotionally invested.
Yeah, and this is a cope.
The whole idea that there's an alpha and beta man.
Yeah, it's there's absolutely alpha and beta men.
Now, that can change because alpha is a set of behaviors.
So if you simp for a woman, you're displaying beta behaviors, right?
Anyone can be an alpha in a relationship by not being a bitch, right?
And I'll see this.
I'll see these like naggy bitchy wives.
And you kind of look at the husband because you're like, get your bitch in check.
And you see it in his eyes, like he won't leave.
And you understand why they won't leave.
But at the end of the day, if you're, you can't be an alpha if you're not willing to walk away from a relationship.
You can't.
you're afraid of women.
And it's so crazy how men fold.
Oh my God.
I want you guys to know that any text you send a woman, she's sending to her friends.
Women are not good people.
Okay.
Any text that you send a woman simping has been in the group chat.
It's been in the group chat.
everybody's seen it and laughed at you well people get mad when they see alpha and beta because it's like winners and losers right I mean, nobody wants to be used.
Men don't want to be used for their resources, right?
They want to be the alpha chad that just got it for free on the first night.
That's what they want.
And it kind of puts a mirror to your head.
It's like, do you tell women no?
you charming?
I mean, sexual success is getting laid, you know?
And no, it's unfortunate.
It's like when you ask women, you know, how many women have you had sex within the last year?
It's like, that's a qualifying question.
And there's always like a cope.
It's like, well, oh, I just, I don't, you know, I don't want to.
It's like, well, you would like if you were better with women and you could get the young, hot ones.
It's just, you know, you get the old, ugly ones, you know.
And it's, it's getting more competitive.
I'm not, I'm not trying to like, you know, I'm not trying to hate on you guys.
You know, I'm a loser in a lot of ways in life.
Like the amount of time that I've put into getting, I want to get to 19% body fat.
And I'm going to hit it at some point, but I'll tell you what, the amount of time and energy and effort, I don't know, because food's just my vice.
I've talked about this a lot.
Please don't give me nutrition advice.
I don't want it.
Okay.
But the amount of effort I have to put into overcoming that thing.
It's like I've put in so much effort in my life.
Some men have to put in an absurd amount of effort to overcome their simpery, right?
It's like their baseline is just total simp.
For the documentary, thank you.
Thank you.
And they just can't be the villain, right?
They just, you know, they just are so afraid of hurting a woman's feelings and emotions, they just can't do it, right?
And they'll have to spend hours and hours and hours overcoming that personality trait.
They're like, eh.
So I was thinking about it.
What leverage did people used to have in society?
So alphas are the only ones with leverage.
Okay.
We used to have the leverage of the law, right?
So you would say you would have a man.
This is going to be a bad one.
You'd have a man and a woman.
And he would be in love, right?
Guys And Their Body Counts00:15:58
And the woman would pretend to be in love.
Let's be honest.
Women have always been women, right?
There's some idea that in the past, you know, women weren't these diabolical evil creatures.
But even in biblical times, you know, Paul said he'd never met a good woman.
And that was like in biblical.
That was in like BC.
So, you know, it just seems like man's biggest hurdle in life is overcoming their fear of women.
You know, they want love.
And before they're like, women, be in love, right?
And they're like, okay, if you don't do that, there's the law at one point, right?
Then at another point in time, it was shame, right?
Keeping up with the Joneses.
Now, I actually just read, sometimes I listen to True Crime and I heard about in the 1920s, there was a woman who like hid a guy in her house for 20 years that she was cheating with.
It's a long, but he was like a teenager and then she hid him in her house because people were asking questions, watching him come and go.
So she went so far to hide her affair that she hid the guy in their attic for like 20 years.
And then like he accidentally killed him or it was like a whole thing.
Anyways, whatever.
But it made me think I'm like, if she's going so far to hide this affair by hiding a man in her attic for 20 years, there is societal shame, right?
That kept her in check where she, you know, she would get mad.
She'd be like, this guy's annoying.
I want to leave.
Okay, there's shame, right?
And the blue-pilled men had no idea.
You don't think that women were banging sailor.
All these women that come out and say, oh, back in my day, it wasn't like that.
Fuck you.
Fuck you.
No, she didn't.
I can't remember how it ended, but one of the guys saw the other guy in the house.
Like, it was either the guy in the attic thought the girl was being abused and killed the other guy, or the guy, it was like kind of a misunderstanding, or he came home and he's like, who's this?
Who's this in my house?
Right.
You know, I don't know.
I'm sure.
Yeah.
And before there was all this stuff in place, like you don't want to be embarrassed, the families.
But now, oh, religion, you know, you wanted to look like a good person.
But now we got nothing.
We got nothing.
Religion isn't really a thing.
Families aren't a thing.
Shame isn't a thing.
The law isn't a thing.
You can actually rob your husband.
Oh, before there was money, right?
But now women can get their own jobs or they can just rob you on the way out or find another guy to steal from, right?
There's all this stuff keeping the people together, right?
Now, if we take this away, all that away, it turns out women don't like men that much.
We just do not like you guys.
I don't know what it is.
And it's so incredible because we are the unlikable gender.
We're completely the unlikable gender.
But yet we have the audacity to not like men that much.
Isn't that incredible?
Isn't that incredible?
And if I talk to men, like in their 70s, like men in their 40s to like maybe 30s, 40s, and maybe 45 and below, they still, there's like cope that women can actually love them and they're going to have this true love.
It's like, well, but, anyways, the love of the past, these guys had no idea that their wives didn't love them.
So, in a way, you guys get to live in more honest times because you see the reality of the situation, right?
The reality is the women just don't like the men that much.
And the women never wanted to be with the men because, you know, we got to look at women weren't brainwashed, right?
Women just given the choice, they'd rather, um, we'd rather be by ourselves and not with you.
And we can be completely different people for years until we get what we want, right?
And it's because women were biologically programmed to only reproduce with the least simpy men, you know, the hottest men.
And like if you're like, imagine if you can be emotionally manipulated by a woman, how like if you can be emotionally manipulated by a woman, we see that and we just want to pounce.
We're like, you can't protect us.
You're falling for my shit.
Like if we were in the caveman day, you would be like, you'd be like sacrificed or something.
Like I wouldn't have to deal with this bullshit.
Right.
So the only thing that women have left is desire.
That's why Leonardo DiCaprio gets the best treatment because, well, he does have money, to be fair, but all the women on those yachts could date anyone with money.
Women don't need any of this anymore.
So the only thing left is desire.
And that's why when a woman's with a man today, that's why situationship, side chicks, sometimes it's like the best type of love because there's no, there's, they don't need anything else from each other.
She just likes having him around, his presence.
And unfortunately, we feel this for like 5% of men.
And if she's not crawling through broken glass to bang you, I got bad news for you.
She's using you for resources.
And some men can just accept that.
They're like, well, I'm okay with being used for my money.
I'm okay with the fake love, right?
Some men can deal with it.
They just say, I'll take the fake love.
Most men, I don't think, have ever experienced genuine desire.
I think most men think they have, right?
But I think like most men have not experienced it.
You have to understand though, your egos.
Women will be cheating on you.
Like, you know, so many men are just convinced their wives were not throwing it back.
Like, it's incredible.
It's incredible.
Guys will tell me what their wives were doing, and I'm like, and you don't think she was cheating on you.
And they're like, no.
I'm like, really?
She was on the dating app?
No.
She would just go on trips to Miami and you don't think she banged anyone else?
No.
I just want to pass on my genetics into the world so I don't feel like a failure.
I'm okay with being alone and paying child support.
That is like the saddest thing I've ever heard.
You don't have anything else you could be doing?
Like you can't look at women feel that when you want a kid more than the woman, women, we feel that in our soul.
And we're like, why do you want a kid more than me?
I should be like, the girl's got to be convincing you to have a kid.
Like begging you, please.
You know, I'll wait as long as you need.
And that's why I knew Brett Cooper, you know, some of her rhetoric was saying, you know, this is how to get married.
When women say, oh, I, how this is how you get a ring, I'm like, how about how to get the guy?
Right.
Every married woman on my block has flirted with me and made it obvious she's available.
Normie guys would be shocked at how easy it is that their wife will cheat.
Yeah, so what'll happen is women, I think women's body count, from what I've seen, is between 10 and 30 before they get married.
So let's average it out at 20, 20 dudes you're competing with.
Now, body count isn't always the end-all be-all because, like, I have a friend who's Asian, right?
And he dates Indian women.
And he said, one white guy is like the equivalent.
He could have a woman with 40 bodies, but if they're all Indian, he doesn't care.
Does not care.
Right?
But if five dudes and one is like Leonardo DiCaprio, like if you follow his exes, they're all kind of cooked.
They all get divorced.
It's average body count for men.
I don't know.
That's my, that's my analysis, but I'd have to.
I think there's like 10% of women.
Because I think most women have a 20% success rate for, like, I think out of 10 men, 20% the woman's able to acquire for a relationship.
And a quarter of the woman will say no to the guy, and like half the woman gets smashed and passed, right?
Now you guys are saying, Pearl Pearl, are you promoting this?
What the fuck?
What do you want me to do about the world?
What do you want?
Yeah.
So, like, if a girl situate, I don't know.
I have to think about it more.
But this is why if a guy doesn't have a high body count, it's like worse than a woman having a low body count.
Guys have to have high body counts because otherwise you guys gotta get rid of your pair bonding because women will just take advantage of that.
I'm just being honest here.
Women will just take advantage of all the pair bonding.
Unless you're like a natural born, you know.
Who cares about women or what they want?
Well, that's fine.
Yeah, I mean, that's what you see, those Christian couples that get married young, and then the wife meets Tyrone or Chad or Brad at the gym, and then she bangs, she lets him hit raw and do whatever he wants to her.
And then she had all these rules for the guy she made to wait till marriage.
You know, that's something like virginity.
At one point, it was valuable, but I mean, I guess it's cool to be the first, but just odds are you aren't going to be the last.
So it doesn't really have the same ring to it that it used to.
All right.
Women's body count worldwide is three.
You're an idiot for believing that, and you deserve what you get.
You deserve what you get, you know.
You absolutely deserve what you get.
If you believe, if, if women say something and you just believe it, you deserve what you get.
Now, like there's some numbers you could throw at me and say, okay, that's plausible, but I agree.
Just wanting to pass on DNA.
I'm 10 years married and I don't have kids and but feel bad for not having them because I'm 98% German and I feel like I should pass my lineage on yeah.
And so when you guys come in and like that's what I never understand on dating profiles, guys will say they're looking for marriage.
I'm like, what are you a woman?
Like you're signaling, you're communicating to the women that you're women, you're a woman, right?
Oh, I want kids.
It's like, well, you're like, you're supposed to want sex, you know, and again, that's what I mean.
It's a set of behaviors, right?
Like a beta behavior is asking a woman, what are we?
That's like what a bitch does, you know.
An alpha behavior is banging as many women until one sticks around, right?
Now, I'm not saying you should do that, but I'm saying one behavior is alpha, one's beta, right?
That's what Leo does.
He just bangs 18-year-olds and is like, Well, let the best one win.
That's your problem.
That's pretty alpha.
I bet Tom Brady said he was looking for marriage.
Who do you think got the better version of Giselle?
When women want to leave, you know, the alpha guy says, See ya, see you never.
The beta guy sends an essay, please don't go.
How are you?
You know, checking, you know, listening to her feelings, beta.
Why Women Get Tired00:02:49
Fucking her, alpha, right?
I didn't make the world this way.
I didn't make our genetics this way, you know.
So, really, I mean, I just kind of wanted to rant about this.
I, you know, this is kind of an unstructured live stream, so I do apologize, but being a smooth criminal is just necessary in 2026, I think.
Um, because that's really the only thing women are responding to.
And I'm really tired.
I'm really tired of saying people say, like, men coming out and saying, Oh, I'm married.
I only take advice from married people.
And I'm like, You realize that men that want to get married are generally the least desirable men.
I'm not trying to be rude here, but I'm being honest.
The most desirable men, women have to like drag down the aisle because he's he's saying no to a bunch of bitches, right?
He's like, Oh, I got to say no to bitches.
And so, like, women will be like, Oh, my, like, it's so, it's so funny because women, like Brett Cooper did this before she embarrassed her husband, so I knew this was bad.
Where she's like, Well, um, if he doesn't want to make, if he wanted to, we would.
It's like, no, um, not necessarily.
Well, you have to see if you're in the looks category.
You got to look at his exes.
If you're not close, it's just not you, right?
Um, but like, sometimes women just go for the easiest target.
Like, who would make it so easy to like to marry him?
Women will go to great lengths to make an alpha marry them, they just go through hoops, all right?
Yeah, and then you know, so when they say, Oh, well, like, so that's what you're communicating to women when you say, Oh, um, I want to get married in a year.
It's like, well, you're communicating that I am a bitch, boy, who has no choice, right?
And I'm not saying you might not be, right?
You might have many bitches, right?
But I'm just being honest with how women see it, right?
The alpha guy makes no accommodations on dates.
It's either you're coming straight to my house, you're coming straight to the bar next door.
Women's Perspective on Relationships00:01:36
Because when you make accommodations for a woman, and you know, within reason, right, you're saying I have no other choice.
like you have to understand these behaviors just say i have no choice and i just get tired of like i'll go on twitter and they'll say to wait till marriage
And I'm like, look, that just does not work for men.
Now you're saying I'm nihilistic.
I'm just being realistic, right?
Again, you know, there has to be enforcement.
And as a man, when women know you're not willing to walk away, we're just going to be evil.
That's why men that cheat honestly get the best treatment.