Pearl critiques racial dynamics in debates, citing a shift from "black fatigue" to topics like black women dating violent felons (30% higher likelihood) and STDs, arguing white people assume good intent while black participants often escalate conflicts with tone policing or guilt-tripping. Doug MPA counters by accusing her of bad-faith tactics, demanding apologies, and framing her subscriber count as justification for disrespect, while Pearl refuses to return, calling him "unlikable." The episode reveals mutual exhaustion over unproductive racial tensions, suggesting decorum and accountability could bridge divides—but neither side seems willing. [Automatically generated summary]
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
I see that I really have been lighting up these YouTube streets in the past day.
And for those of you that don't know, I did, I engaged in a debate two days ago.
Was it two days ago now?
I think I'm going to cover Lila Rose's debate on my show tomorrow and talk about what we can learn from this.
But today, I'm going to be covering the debate I did on, what is this guy's name?
Ilhans.
Am I saying his name right?
This is what I mean.
It's like, it'd be helpful if you guys could do names that are easier for us to pronounce.
All right.
So we're talking about this debate, right?
So long story short, I am invited to go on a panel.
And I think that the topic is black fatigue.
And before I go on the panel, that, you know, I read through all the messages I had with the host.
I wanted to double check.
There was no messages before the show started that the topic was not black fatigue.
And I'm really irritated because a lot of people are trying to gaslight me on this.
Maybe they changed their mind later because the women got upset.
But that's what I'm thinking.
I knew there were other topics that were going to be covered.
And it was so annoying because then they're like, well, yeah, but we didn't start that topic yet.
I'm like, what are you, five?
And I just, you know, when it comes to black people, black issues, whatever, I almost feel like I'm breaking up with you guys.
this feels like a breakup where it's like, it's not you, it's me, you know, it's just, you know, and they're like, no, no, no.
I'm like, look, it's just, it's not you, it's me.
If you see me swatting at all this show, I, I have these little bugs in my house from like outside.
And I can't, I don't know how to get rid of them.
It's not like gross bugs are just like annoying.
Anyways, this is going to be one of my projects.
Go on this debate.
And the topic, I'll just, I'll summarize.
The topics that we are currently on was women dating criminals.
And I brought up, you know, the fact that black women have a tendency, I would say more than other races, to date criminals.
Now, I'm not trying to be rude when I say this.
I'm not trying to insult anybody.
I'm not trying to be mean.
But the way that I come to conclusions about the world are three ways.
And I do think this is important for everybody to see where I'm coming from and understand where I'm coming from.
Again, this isn't to insult anybody, but why do I have to give these disclaimers?
What are you kids?
You're not kids.
You're adults.
So the first way that I come to conclusions about the world is my eyes.
And I think that should be everybody's first way they come to conclusions.
I don't think you should trust a study over what your eyes see.
I don't think you should trust a commentator over what your eyes see.
I don't think you should trust anybody.
Now, the second way I come to conclusions is what I see in the media, right?
There's clips that go viral.
There's ways things circulate.
And the third way I come to conclusions is facts, data, and statistics.
And if all three of those things match, I think, well, this is just the stated fact.
Now, the reason I think that black women date criminals is number one, my experiences.
I mean, I once had a black woman say to me, it's really hard to find a guy.
I guess this isn't criminal, but it kind of speaks to the archetype.
A black guy without like three, you know, one or two baby mamas.
And I'm like, I don't know.
I think it's not that hard.
I think, I don't know.
Like, and I knew a black woman that dated a woman in jail, sorry, a man in jail.
Like she was talking to him or whatever.
And I'm like, oh my God.
Oh, my God.
And by the way, if you guys can't understand, I see there's some people spurging out in the chat.
You're welcome to go.
You don't have to listen.
You can walk away.
It's totally okay.
I don't mind.
So the second way I came to this conclusion is in the media.
I mean, I see all these rappers and they have like five baby mamas.
There are some white women in there.
I'm not pretending white women don't like rappers.
That is a love story like Made in Heaven, white women and streamers, white women and rappers, but it just seemed to be the most like hood once like seemed to have two or three baby mamas that were mostly black.
And then you go with the facts, the data, and statistics.
And women are 30% more likely to reproduce with violent felons than people without a felony.
I don't make the rules, you know.
It also comes from I have a guy friend.
He's a black guy.
And he's not a criminal at all, but he dresses like one kind of on social media or on his dating app in order to filter to like get the hot black girls to come over.
So again, you know, we were debating.
And by the way, this wasn't racial to start this debate.
I didn't really want it to be racial.
I really didn't.
Well, I guess I thought the topic was black fatigue.
Let me reel it back.
The point I was making was not meant to be racial initially, right?
About women, but the woman just kept getting upset.
She kept saying, well, it must, you know, is it, is it you dating a criminal?
And I'm like, as far as I know, I haven't dated anyone with a criminal record.
You know, I probably would allow a guy to have a DV charge just because I know those are such BS.
I don't know, like maybe one false, you know, whatever, but oh my God, I can't.
Oh my God.
But when I look at all three points, which is facts, data, and statistics, real life examples, and what I see in the media, they all seem to match.
And I'm not saying white women will date criminals, but I think we just prefer the serial killers.
That's why I like Joe Aldwin.
I don't know if anyone's seen you.
I mean, that's like a white woman's love story.
It's like, ooh, don't date someone with a DV charge.
Watch me.
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
Now, if you want to see the actual debate, I reacted to it yesterday.
And it's not really meant.
This isn't what the show's about today, but we are live streaming.
So I got to milk this.
But I would like to clarify.
The host of this debate ends up white knighting for this girl.
Can you believe it?
A white knight.
He starts lecturing me on the stream.
And it just kind of got to the point that it was ridiculous.
So I ended up leaving.
And I'm going to get into why I left, the reasoning, some of the things people are saying about the debate.
But I'm going to clarify two lies that have been said.
I was not told there was a topic change before the show started.
You cannot do take backs in the middle of the show.
He actually admitted this on my show.
I don't like being lied about and I don't like releasing DMs.
I think it's bad form.
But if I were you, I would clarify that.
I would scroll through the messages and I would clarify that.
And I screen recorded everything.
So you better not unsend anything or whatever.
But he keeps pressing this.
And he chooses not to clarify.
And I just think that's a bit shitty.
I was also accused of trying to kick a guest because I could not take it.
But I clarified in the messages that he was over-talking.
That was the first message I send.
He was over-talking everybody and he was out of bounds.
The out of bounds was referring to the over-talking.
Now, I think what they'll probably try to do is say it was a miscommunication.
And that's usually what people say that can't admit they were wrong.
So it was, I was actually very clear.
So going back to my original point, I really think that I was born.
I wasn't made like this.
I've kind of turned into the Joker in this instance.
And I've told this story before on the show.
I went to England.
I was playing volleyball in England.
I was living in a mostly, it was a pretty diverse area with a good chunk of black people.
I don't know if it was majority black, but it was close to it.
I'm going to monologue Doug MPA.
And if he wants to talk later, he can.
I can't.
You know how I am.
If I'm monologuing and you're messaging me, I haven't gets me off.
So, oh my God.
No, I'm going.
No.
What was I talking about?
Okay.
Let me go back.
Let me roll it back.
So I was born.
I wasn't made.
I was born.
I wasn't made.
I would say, like, again, I grew up in a pretty white area.
And I, I, you know, it's funny.
My mom always said when there was a black girl on my volleyball team, I was always friends with her.
Like, I remember there was one black girl in my class in middle school, and she was like my best friend in middle school.
I don't know if I was hers, but at least on my end, I was like, I loved her.
She was so cool.
She was such a cool chick.
Went to high school.
I mean, there's a black girl in my volleyball team.
I used to drive like an hour out of my way to pick her up because she was on like, she just always had a hard time getting to practice.
And I, I'm not saying that to make me look, I'm just, you know, clarifying.
She was one of my favorite people.
I like drove to her college.
I was a few hours away to go visit her.
So I don't know, race just wasn't a big thing for me.
I never really cared about it.
I remember having some sympathy, the first BLM protest, whatever that was.
But it just wasn't something I really noticed, saw, or cared about.
You know, I saw a meme and it was like black women hating on white women and white women not caring.
And I would just say that would be my, I didn't really get white women, like I didn't really get black women hate when I was young, but maybe like passive aggressive things at times, whatever.
Now, fast forward, I'm in an interracial relationship at one point.
And that was the first time a black woman said something slick to me in public.
It was just, I was with my boyfriend at the time.
He's a good guy.
Stop calling him a homeless bum.
He wasn't, but I don't know why you, I don't know why you guys say that, but it wasn't true.
I hate that.
Poor guy, he's getting dragged through the mud.
And I just, he was a good guy, good person.
But anyways, we're together and this woman, you know, she was a black woman.
She said something really slick to me.
And I'm going to be honest, I really can't remember what it was.
So, you know, maybe, maybe you're, you won't think this story is credible.
You know, take this or leave it.
I just remember my boyfriend at the time was like, I can't believe she said that.
And it was just like a thing, but I didn't really care.
You know, I just, I just keep on going.
Now, I, and when we were together, there's a lot of comments on the video from like black women in particular just talking about how just how I was like, they didn't like the interracial stuff.
Like that was, you know, it's always white men and black women that just, they can't let that love story happen.
You know, it's like basketball, football.
It's like athletes and white women, a love story.
Streamers and white women, a love story.
Black streamers and white women, a love story.
Black athletes and white women, a love story.
Black YouTubers and white women, a love story.
And then it's like the white, the Groypers, it's like the black women, ah, the crash out.
Do you know what I mean?
Like that's, that's the crash out.
But regardless, I end up, I've got a long, thank you for the $20 super chat, keeping it real.
He was not a but he was like one of the best TikTokers in the country at the time.
Oh my God, it's just, oh my gosh.
It's like you help a guy get an ID.
It was an ID.
It was a paperwork issue.
Ow.
Ow, I hit my hand.
Okay, whatever.
I'm getting too, I'm getting too into it.
So anyways, I ended up going to England and I make a lot of pals.
You guys, you know, at my birthday party, when I was in England, I think it was like 85% black people.
And I'm not saying this to, you know, say, be like the white girl that says, I have black friends, you know, because I have white friends too.
I'm pretty easy to get along with, I think, shockingly.
But what I want to, what I want to show is that when I went to England, I never saw that kind of thing.
My staff was mostly black.
My friends were, maybe not all, but like a good percentage of them.
And I just didn't care about that kind of thing.
That was until I had Nick F on my show.
Now, Nick F comes on my show and I do an interview with him.
And I understand why people have their opinions on him.
But at the time, I was a very free speech platform.
And I felt like if, you know, I want to have a three-hour conversation with somebody, I don't, I don't see what's wrong with wanting to do that.
And a lot of men kind of start doing, black men in particular start doing what women do, which is tone policing.
And essentially, tone policing is trying to control speech and the conversation So, you don't say information that offends people.
So, after I had him on, there were parts of the interview that people were offended by.
And I remember during this time, one of someone I considered, I honestly considered him a really close friend of mine.
We had done a show together for a year and a half, and I would have considered him a friend.
I had left the country because I was having a really hard time with the backlash.
I went to like Italy, and I was just having like I'd never been canceled like that before, and it was just a lot like the first time it happened.
So, I left the country.
And when I'm there, I see a video scheduled from this co-host of mine who I considered a friend called The Truth About Pearl.
And in that video, he accused me of stuff I never did, like trying to take footage of black people and hold it over their heads because of whiteboard video.
Like, it was, he accused me of giving people slave contracts.
He accused me of calling it like having a colonial mindset.
And it was, honestly, guys, I was so hurt.
I, I really just, I don't think I've ever, this is like the top five most surprised and hurt I've been by someone in my life.
Um, followed by that, another YouTuber that I considered a friend.
Um, he had been calling me basically kind of pressuring me to, I can't remember what the exact conversation word for word on the phone, but I, I, I had not addressed the controversy I was involved in or like having the guy in the show.
I didn't really know how to do it.
I was getting a lot of different inputs and insights at the time, telling, you know, and I remember I was doing a panel show trying to ignore it.
And I get a text that says, I can't, I can't stop the bleed.
I got to stop the bleeding.
And this YouTuber threw me under the bus for clout.
You know, he took like, and it was just like the way he did it was, it was mean.
Like, he was taking old photos of me, like personal photos that had been put out of me, like of me and my friends and using them in the thumbnail.
Like, it wasn't like, like, there was a video, a picture of me and one of my friends that someone pulled from like an old Facebook or maybe, you know, it wasn't a picture that I had willingly put out to the public.
He's using it on his thumbnails.
You know, he accused me of making fun of his cancer, which I didn't do.
But the way he edited the clip made it, um, made it seem like I was.
That's the best.
That's the best way I could describe it.
And he did this for months.
And this was somebody that I'd had in my family's house.
He'd met my family.
Like, and I'm telling you guys, I was just, I was so pissed at the time, but I was hurt.
I was so hurt.
I never thought, like, I just, I would, I never thought they would do that to me, like, ever.
Um, on top of that, um, sorry, I'm like, it actually makes me sad sometimes to think about this stuff.
So this should have been a short summary, but there was like two or three people behind the scenes that did it too.
Um, and it was just like really, really sad.
Like, you know, um, and again, it wasn't that every black person I knew did it.
I mean, there was plenty that stuck by me.
Um, blessing, you know, um, Doug MPS, you know, so I'm not pretending that every single black person did it, right?
But, you know, sometimes the joker is made.
Wasn't born like this.
And in all honesty, having these like conversations don't, I mean, they might help me short term, but long term, these don't help me.
I mean, I live in an interracial society.
You know, it doesn't really help me to not know like if a black person's seen the wrong clip of me.
It doesn't really help me in my personal life.
And, you know, I could just go dunking on women forever, but I think this conversation it is important to have.
So the last show I talked about how, see, I get a little emotional.
This is, I get, I get a little sad about this, you know, I really do because I just never thought that would happen.
Now, I want to talk about what tends to happen when you work with black people and white people and you put them together.
Black people, and also women, I'd like to say women, if you're a woman and watching this, you really should also watch this.
There is just a basic decorum and lack thereof that is lacking.
I call it how to not be a bitch.
And Lila Rose should watch this too.
And I might do a show on that tomorrow for her.
Hmm.
Actually, I want to finish.
I'm going to go into that.
I'm going to go into that later.
So, anyways, I end up doing this debate.
And now, apparently, I think I'm going to react to the part of the show from yesterday and talk about where we're kind of lacking from this show or two days ago.
Um, no, I'm going to talk about the basic decorum and then I'll react to it.
So.
So, there is a basic decorum that black people and women just have a tendency to not do.
Now, the first is good faith.
And then we're going to play the clip and then we'll show you where it happens.
I don't know why you would have a conversation with somebody that you hate.
I really don't understand it.
And what tends to happen, women do this especially also, they never give you the benefit of the doubt.
And when I did this panel, the entire, the women that were offended are assuming that I am intending to offend them.
White people, we have a tendency to give people the benefit of the doubt to the point that this is taken advantage of.
We have a tendency to say they didn't mean it like that.
That's called good faith, assuming good intent.
White people have a tendency to feel like it's okay to be taken advantage of sometimes.
We like feeling useful.
We don't mind doing things at times and getting nothing in return.
Knowing your place.
Imagine being a recently enlisted and going to a military veteran and telling them how to do their jobs better.
After, and I'll react to it in a bit, the host of this panel came onto my stream and said, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you could be such a good YouTuber if you just did X, Y, and Z.
Well, you have 5,000 subscribers.
I don't mean to be like, I've been on Pierce Morgan.
Doing nice things and getting nothing out of it.
Oh, and I read that one already.
If you were better, you would be better.
Again, we don't feel the need to even really talk about our accomplishments.
Usually, obviously, I'm an exception right there.
But again, we like to let our results just speak for themselves.
We don't think we're entitled to people's time or money.
If we are engaging in an argument, we have a tendency to just walk away rather than just take the disrespect.
We're not going to come back at you.
We're not going to insult you.
We just say, Hey, we're going to go and deal with adults that are respectful.
You are not passionate.
A lot of times, black people and women both say that they're passionate.
No, you're not.
You're rude.
Smiling is not disrespectful.
It's actually a sign of us disarming you.
White people, we have a tendency to be emotional, not be emotional, just as a matter of fact, except for our women.
I mean, I could talk about white women all day.
Oh, I could.
Okay, so we're going to react to the last show and we're going to talk about where this basic decorum is missed.
Okay, so I'm going to respond now.
Feel free, Doug MPA, to all right.
We got a $10 super chat, a token of my gratitude.
It's like, okay, Pearl's autistic.
If you think I'm autistic, why are you here?
And that's what I mean.
It's like, you know, you know, now you're banned.
You know, it just doesn't.
All right, let's see.
Like a white person would just say, well, I guess we have different views and turn off the turn off the camera.
Okay, here we go.
How are you doing, Perl?
I'm good.
How's it going?
So that was good.
That was, he started off, and I'm going to put this basic decorum.
How are you?
That was good.
I'm trying to stay black and die.
So let me make a proper introduction first, okay, of just the timelines of things that's happened before you ever even got on the panel.
You are probably one of the most were one of the most supported people by the black men.
I won't say black women.
I know.
Okay, so this is where he goes off the rails.
He thinks he has the authority to lecture me on anything.
I mean, this is he's he starts it.
You know, I was like, that was good, the basic decorum.
And now his solution was Pearl left because of disrespect.
And let me further disrespect her by lecturing, lecturing, tone policing, and nagging.
That's what women do.
Women lecture, tone police, nag.
That's not what men are supposed to do.
Black women try to tell you apart.
I cannot deny that at all because of information you do share, but white women try to tell you apart.
Women in general try to tell you apart.
You've been somebody a lot of people have been supported before you even came on the panel.
When you came on Anton Daniels' panel, maybe two, three years ago.
See, now lecturing, you see my face.
I'm like, I don't care.
I don't care.
And, you know, the politeness in me still let him talk.
A lot of hosters would just cut him.
I am the authority on the show.
That's how it works.
If you start a show, you're the authority on the show.
And then if you don't like it, you go to a different show.
You know, back when we're saying, oh, Pearly racist, Pearly racist, men came out to your defense big time.
I'm one of the men that came out to your defense.
I say, hey, Pearly is not racist.
And I don't support that.
Y'all are mad because she's saying factual information.
The problem is, like, I just went on another smaller channel today.
Um, I can't know what is the channel name, Doug MP.
I don't know what the channel name is.
I don't want to say the connection because I don't know if that's public, but I won another channel today.
And I didn't go in guns blazing, like taking over the whole show.
You still, it's like the basic decorum.
You read the temperature of the room, you like, ah, but he just starts nagging, tone policing, lecturing.
And I was stand corrected as well, too.
I told you we do the black fatigue show, but on the next one, because that was already done.
He didn't.
So then he proceeds to gaslight and lie before the show started, which is when you would have to tell me that, that was not discussed.
That was not discussed.
But I probably didn't tell you beforehand.
I apologize for that.
But one thing I will never that you know the men will okay.
So that he admitted it.
So, again, what he could have said, okay, I'm going to give him a point.
What I'll do is when the conversation just goes to race, when we're having a conversation about women in general, that's something that threw the whole panel left.
That person who came on my panel was talking too much.
I agree with you, right?
We need to control that.
We need to moderate a little bit better.
I don't agree with that.
But if I sat on a Muslim, a Muslim man and woman's table, Jewish man and woman's table.
Okay, so again, this is his, you are not communicating in the, like, think about this.
Again, this is the equivalent.
This is the equivalent of an infantryman going up to a general.
And look, I don't, I don't mean to, but you, again, this is him assuming he has the authority to tell me the correct way to talk.
The audacity.
And again, white people, I'm not going to get angry at this.
I'll just say, let's just communicate no more.
And it's like the women.
It's like, have you ever said, okay, women, you keep fighting me, keep telling me you don't like me and I do all this stuff wrong.
Let's just stop talking.
We'll just stop communicating.
This can be over forever.
Let's end the torture.
Do you know what I mean?
It's like, okay, just go, be gone.
But you came over here where I can talk however I want.
Because, you know, again, I tried to communicate on your show.
He didn't like how I was communicating.
And I said, hey, if you can't take it, I can go.
And then they start crashing out on me.
So I say, I'm really going to go now.
don't, I don't feel the need to go back and forth.
Black women still do have herpes.
They do.
They do.
Um, um, but again, you know, I cannot stand how emotionally and can, can, can, can continue it.
Blacks and Branks respect Irish and Italian mobsters in the Northeast and Anglo prison gangsters in the West and the South.
It's not a matter of morals or history or anything but perceived power dynamics.
But again, you know, he's going to lecture me and it's like, you know, and I just think this is like something that black people should learn.
You could get, imagine if he came up and this is what he said.
If he said, Pearl, I am so sorry for how, by the way, his co-host was extremely disrespectful towards me.
And he had a mute button.
And if he said, Pearl, I am so sorry for the way they treated you.
This won't happen again.
We'll make some adjustments moving forward.
Can we, can we? patch it up and just move on.
They'll never do it.
It's the pride.
You know, white people were very forgiving.
Anyways, Asian man, woman's table, they're not going to let no other race of man or woman come on that table and just blatantly go there disrespectfully.
I didn't even say if you're wrong or not.
It's the fact that, especially when you're laughing, it's one thing if I go, I say, hey, Pearl.
Now, again, black people perceive smiling and laughing as disrespect.
I quit.
I quit.
I can't smile now.
I can't smile.
I mean, go fuck off.
Like, that's just how I feel about it.
Hey, here's the challenge on these shows.
I'm a woman.
My voice does not carry.
I am not the kind of person that can talk like this and say, shut the fuck.
Like, it's not who I am.
God, but every day I think maybe I need to develop like a deep voice.
You know, if I want to speak about injustice, I go, hey, Pearl, there's a lot of injustice that's happened in law enforcement.
Now, remember, by the way, he told me before the show started, this was going to be black fatigue.
I know I could say something like, white men, white men are trafficking kids, laughing.
And why you date white men?
If I'm saying it in bad faith, it can come off as if I'm blatantly just trying to disrespect white men.
But if I'm in a conversation, assuming I'm bad faith, that's implying.
So again, this is what he's doing.
He's saying, you're not talking right.
You are bad faith.
I'm so fatigued.
Black people, you guys just keep fatiguing me even more.
Like, it's like I'm fatigued out.
I, you know, I, we, look, it, the way white people get back is we don't do anything.
We just walk away.
But you're going back and forth.
And I'm saying, hey, hey, Pearl, I understand white men can be a certain way.
But, you know, in this country, millions of women and children are trafficked.
It's the way, it's the intent of going straight there.
When we had that black fatigue conversation about.
Right.
But the challenge is you're telling me we're talking about black fatigue.
So I'm coming in thinking that this is the topic.
And now, look, it watch him lie and gaslight.
I'm like, oh my God.
And it actually pissed me off more when I read the messages.
I'm this, I'm this close to releasing them.
For a message, it's yes, you did.
Did I tell you we're not talking about that today?
On the next one, did I not tell you that?
No.
On Instagram, this is what he did.
This is how he likes he's lying right there like a woman lies.
Bruh.
As I started talking about it and the women got mad, then he sent me a message saying not to anymore.
Like, do you see how deceptive that is?
Do you like, do you see, then he continues to lie and gaslight more.
All he had to do was apologize.
And I told him this is why black people will never get ahead.
They just can't apologize.
And you know what?
I'm actually a good faith person.
So when he brought this up, I'm thinking, did I say something different?
And then I read through the messages and I'm like, bruh.
As a black man, I'm shocked how much black men defend black women.
It's ridiculous behavior.
As if we're not the ones that have to deal with the BS afterwards.
I don't improve.
Like, I made black women get herpes.
Like, I did that.
And white women have it at a pretty decently high rate, too.
It's like one in six.
Okay.
Like, I'm not even saying we don't have it too, but like they really have it, you know.
No, you said the next topic is black fatigue.
And then he said that.
Oh, I said that.
Hold on.
Watch.
Let me show you.
Oh, this made me so mad.
There's nothing I hate more than being ghastlit.
And by the way, you know, all he had to do was apologize.
All he had to do was say sorry.
Maybe we had a misunderstanding.
You could go through it, but he lied about me, gaslit me, and now is blaming it on a misunderstanding.
Bruv.
You said I thought we were talking, and it could be a cultural barrier.
I said, I thought we were talking about black fatigue.
I said, that's next one.
This was already planned.
Next, I'm going to find the massive.
Oh, oh, I hate it when people do this.
I hate it when people know what you're talking about.
Before the show started, the main topics, relationships, black fatigue.
As we're doing the debate, he starts sending me other messages after I've already said this.
It's just, it's so, and this is what I mean.
You guys are just exhausting me more.
It's so intellectually dishonest.
No, Fatty, I don't want to talk to you.
I mean, like, and this is, this is the crazy thing.
It's like, I don't want to talk.
Why would I want to talk to you?
Like, Ilkid, screen record it and release it.
I'll give you my permission.
I'll give you my permission.
You could screen record, but you better screen record the entire thing.
No, and this is the other thing black people do.
They say they're running when they're so unlikable and unpleasant that we don't want to talk to them.
Like, I mean, do you see what I'm saying?
Like, it's like, you are so incredibly unpleasant to talk to that we say, okay, we're going to do our own show over here and then we can just never talk again.
It's so great.
I did say that's why blacks today can't get ahead.
See, that's what, that's another thing black people do.
They use information to try to paint you as racist.
And to be honest, that is why black people can't get ahead because they lack basic decorum.
You're trying to use that as a, as a, what do you say, like a gotcha?
But I just said that.
And, but that's what they do.
I just want you to know they hold it over your head.
If you say anything out of bounds, it's like forever.
It's bad faith.
And thank you for proving my point even further, like you're doing here.
When it's black fatigue.
So you might have thought that was the next topic.
but right but i i'm saying why would i think it's out of bounds to bring up race issues when one of the topics is black fatigue because women why would and by the way i'd like to say the women dating criminals actually was so relevant on the topic because 50 cent has a criminal record and who was the woman that dated him a black woman it's just so exhausting It's so exhausting.
I mean, and I'm going to help you guys out of the kindness of my heart.
Why would that be out of bounds?
Because we didn't even get to that topic yet.
So if I just started saying, if I just said, if I just said, well, you know, white men known for supposedly being pedos or dealing with older women or trafficking, all those things.
You're going to get offended because I'm an adult.
And that's the thing.
It's like, I thought when you entered adulthood, it was sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me.
And I have to deal with adult men that are offended by words.
I am a woman.
I'm the one that's supposed to be offended.
And they go, they default to tone policing, nagging, tone policing, nagging, tone policing, nagging.
It's like, are you men or are you women?
I demand, I must be able to talk to you.
Never again, because you're not pleasant.
I only talk to pleasant people.
Yeah, that's it, you know, it actually doesn't have anything to do with race, but I've noticed that black people do it a lot.
It's, it's the lack of decorum and being a pleasant person to be around.
That's what I can't stand.
I cannot stand when I'm dealing with people.
I get offended.
Oh, thank God.
He said, see ya.
Oh my god.
It's like, thank you, Jesus.
Thank you.
Oh, thank God.
They're like, we'll leave.
Yes.
Or anything.
Why have a debate show?
Why host things if you're going to get offended over facts, data, and statistics?
You know, I'm not coming in.
You would, a panelist literally call one of your other panelists a coon.
And it was a slap on the wrist, but I talk about facts, data, and statistics, and I'm the bad guy.
Like that is blatantly disrespectful.
You didn't kick her off.
No, no, no.
So when Rick, Big Rick said he believes that people be using the facts.
Again, he could have said, hey, you know what?
That's a good point.
Maybe I should have kicked off the girl that called the guy a coon.
Like maybe, maybe I, you know, benefit of the doubt.
You don't back that up.
You went along with them.
Yep, we can't, we can't use that.
You literally, when he said that, you don't.
Well, yeah, that's what I said.
Black people are so used to being unpleasant amongst themselves.
They think other races will take it.
And, you know, we just walk away.
It's so easy.
It's so easy to walk away.
It's, we just, we just say, no, no, thank you.
We can just not talk.
And they're like, no, I must talk to you.
No, we're good.
Like, it's a nuanced point.
I've talked about it on the channel.
Your first instance has got to be real life, right?
You can't, you can't, you're going to be easily manipulated.
And what they did again, out of context, I've always said you don't just take data.
You also have to look at real life and make sure it matches.
And then they'll take a thing and then say, oh, Pearl doesn't believe in facts.
It's just like bad faith, you know?
If anyone could put a study in your face and say this, but I could give you, when we're talking about black crime, I could give you real life examples.
I could give you examples in the media, and I could give you facts, data, and statistics.
If you don't have all three, I understand having a difference.
If you're talking about tough skin, why do you want to kick people off when we bring them to make the show for you?
We're bringing people.
They're again lying even further, lying even further.
Again, this one guy was talking.
And this is the thing.
They're so used to being bad faith.
They don't even realize they're doing it half the time.
I say, Hey, I wanted to kick him off, this guy off because he's monologuing.
No, you said he was out of bounds.
Like, did it, and it's like, okay, if you're not going to believe anything, I say, why are we talking?
Let's just never talk again.
Let's never talk again.
You know what I mean?
Let me, I'm going to ask you because we set up a panel.
Hold on, we set up a panel for you, like, literally, so we can build with you.
You're going to kick the person who's literally the contrarian or going against what you're saying.
You're saying, have a tough talking the host, talking down, lecturing, nagging, tone policing.
Yeah.
And again, like, white, white people, again, we just want, and I think black people should know this because there really is a lot of opportunity for black people out there.
There really is.
But if you guys can't have basic decorum, nothing's going to go your way.
Like, this is just such unlikable behavior.
Such unlikable behavior.
It's like, well, do you want to be do you want an entertaining show or do you want it to be boring?
And I'm not trying to be, I'm not trying to be rude, but I got to 2 million subscribers.
I had debates six days a week.
When you have someone that's not that entertaining over talking everybody, it's going to ruin the show.
That person is that person right now.
You know, he's saying, you don't know what you're talking about.
Again, it's bad faith.
I just want to argue with you.
It could be, you know, a pleasant person would say, you know what?
That's a good point.
That's a good point.
I'll consider that next time.
Got on there.
We had 500 people watching.
Like, we are small.
We're five.
We have 5,000 subscribers on my channel.
He has two.
When we get to 40, 100,000, 100 subscribers, our channel is going to be completely different.
But that guy, let me finish.
That guy is opposite of what your message is.
And it'd be a perfect setup for you two to talk and you to make content off of it and clip it.
You want to kick the person off that's going to make a great show for you.
But instead of doing that, you went to race.
And then you tell Pearl about YouTube, you stop.
Yeah, because again, Doug, not all black people are like that.
Has basic decorum.
By the way, Doug MPI, I put you in a link.
If blacks are so unlikable and unpleasant, why do you date them?
I know behind every girl that talks about this stuff is a girl that dated one.
I'll tell you what.
Just basic decorum.
Basic decorum.
I know they always do.
It was like, hey, Pearl's a genius.
So you stop trying to tell Pearl about YouTube.
Let him have a conversation.
Let him have a conversation.
It's just a challenge.
And I'm not trying to be rude, but you have 5,000 subscribers.
Let me ask him, but there he's talking over again.
It's and hey, sir, if you want to have a conversation where there's not an echo chamber, which Pearl asked us not to have a pearl echo.
I told you, streamers, black streamers, white women, we just love to chamber.
We hate echo chambers too.
Why would you kick off the person?
Yeah, it's our case.
He just over talks, nags, tone polices against what you're saying.
So we have an actual conversation because you can't have a conversation when someone's monologuing for 10 minutes.
You can't have this guy monologue.
You just can't do it.
Yeah.
And so, no, I didn't even think this guy was disrespectful, but I'm like, we're never going to get to the point.
He doesn't land planes.
Like, in a good debate, you got to go back and forth, back and forth.
Like, and I just have a good knack for this.
I did six shows with 10 people on it six days a week for a year and two years at four days a week.
There's nobody that's done more panels than me.
And I just said, like, if I'm giving you, if I'm giving you, if I'm giving you three hours of my time, which I don't have to give you, and I'm giving you advice on how to do it, I would just take it if I were you.
But, or, you know, yeah, one person filibustering.
You literally were saying he's out of bounds.
It went about him monologuing.
It was you saying.
First message I sent.
Oh my God.
And you can't even argue with these people because they'll just find a way to twist their words.
Because again, they're going in bad faith.
It's not good faith.
It's bad faith because he's just assuming you're trying to lie.
I'm telling you, the reason that I, that I, you know, I wanted him off was because I wanted a good show and he was just talking too long and I got bored.
I left.
The first guy didn't defend me at all.
Like I was bored.
And I didn't want to waste three hours of my time.
No, but you really meant this.
Now I have to, now it's like, it's like I have to go down and defend why I really meant this.
I mean, this is like talking to a woman.
These black men are married to certain concepts.
The black woman is God.
Free all the criminals that didn't vote for Trump.
And it's unfortunate because I really think if he could drop this whole white nighting, that he could have a decent show.
Fatty has no talent.
I mean, he's just not good.
And the accusations against him, not great.
This guy isn't actually bad, but again, he just doesn't have the decorum and like the like if he just knew how didn't have the ego and like didn't have this need to be right, he could maybe go far, but this is just not going to go well for him.
He's out of bounds and he got on your nerves and you wanted to kick him.
That's what happened.
But the person who's getting the people who are getting on our nerves.
But see, he's saying, no, this is why he got on your nerves.
Like he knows better what got on my nerves.
I'm going to kill myself.
It's like, like you, you realize you guys argue like women to make the content is the people we're not trying to kick off unless they believe.
It's totally fine if you want to have non-entertaining panels.
It's totally fine.
And that's, that's just my opinion on it.
See, that's me saying, look, have your, do it your way.
See, this is me walking away.
Do it more way.
You win.
You win.
Can you leave me alone?
Can you leave me alone?
If you want to do it, Carl, are you running from me?
No, you're just not very pleasant.
You're just not.
You're just not like, you're just not pleasant for me to talk to.
I haven't had a good experience.
So I just, no, thank you.
If I was to have him on, I would need, I would just, what I would need from him is just some basic decorum.
And I don't think he can do it.
I don't know if he can do it.
I just don't.
I don't.
I haven't seen it in him.
He's monologuing 10 minutes.
It's, that's fine.
You could do it on your show.
One more thing.
I'm just going to leave.
One more thing.
That was his first time ever on a panel.
He doesn't even know the way you're supposed to be.
Excuses.
Yes.
Basic, basic decorum is not offering excuses.
Oh, he doesn't know better.
And so this is, he thought he would make it right by nagging, tone, policing, and giving me excuses.
When again, it could have just been solved by saying, I'm so sorry.
But they just say it's too big of an ego behave on the panel.
That was his very first time, so it was.
It was just a perfect storm.
That was the very first time he's ever been on the panel on Youtube.
He you, he monologues on.
He has a show.
I was when I, when I was a new youtuber, I would never have gone on a panel and over talked everybody.
I just wouldn't do it.
That's I would not do it.
I was on Kevin Samuels show.
I would not.
I was very timid.
I would never go on a panel with 10 people as a new youtube, I just wouldn't.
So I would say it'll kind of.
And Batty are great at are at great at running channels.
I kind of agree with Pearl.
I got his out here on your show.
They're going to speak up for themselves.
We brought Andrew on there.
We have Portugal.
That's all on my nerves and you wanted to kick him.
That's do that too about this.
But he's over talking me.
Okay.
It's, it's, he's over talking me.
It's like Doug says five things.
And then it's, it's the playing the victim, right?
It's, oh, well, I'm being overtaught and the emotional response.
White people just don't do that.
We just say, okay, go ahead.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Like, do you see the difference?
White people and Doug.
White people and Doug MPA.
No, you know what?
White men.
I'm not going to say white men because women are not like this.
If you say, oh, please don't overspeak me.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Don't go right.
You.
I should not.
Look at this.
This is how.
Yeah.
All right.
Let me continue.
I'll let Doug NPA.
Doug MPA.
Welcome to the show.
I see there.
It's okay.
I kind of we were.
I'll see what he, his mic's on.
You just, it's like, uh, it's a thing.
Go, go ahead.
You could finish.
So no, no, just let me say something real fast.
The problem is women like jazz, they want white people to sit there and be quiet because almost every single panel that Pearl has been on, she's been expected to, well, those days are over.
Black fatigue is real.
If you bring up an established person who's done the work on YouTube, who's grinded out here on your show, they're going to speak up for themselves.
Okay.
Pearl has the right.
She has ground.
She's done all the work.
She's grinded up to 2 million subs.
She can say what she wants to say.
If anyone can on that panel, it's her.
She's done the work.
But the expectation is because she's white and she was privileged and all of a sudden she's supposed to sit there and take it from women like jazz.
No.
Tyranny, no.
Jazz, no.
Those days are over.
We're tired of it.
People are tired of black women sitting there squawking like vultures.
We're tired of it.
Do you see the guy on the right?
See, not all black guys are like this.
He held up his hand.
He said, Can I reply?
Do you see that basic decorum?
He got it.
You know, he can give you guys tips.
He really can.
So I would disagree with that point.
I mean, I think Pearl does have the right to say the stats.
And I don't think people should be offended about that.
And I agree with her that black people do get too easily offended.
But for you to say that she has the right to say anything because she has the numbers is definitely wrong, my brother.
It has to be tactful.
I understand that.
But once again, do you see he disagreed in good faith?
Do you see that was actually good?
He's learning.
You see, that was actually pretty good.
He disagrees in good faith.
He says, you know what?
That was, I don't think Pearl has the right to say anything.
And no one had a problem with that.
Yeah, go subscribe to him.
The link is in the last stream.
Because, you know, I'm all for putting people on, but I just, this entitlement is ridiculous.
You can't, the expectation is for a girl like Pearl to just sit there and take it.
What I'm saying is, Pearl has tooth, she has tact.
She's pretty.
She's not going to say anything out of pocket, but she, but you can come at her the wrong way, too.
Just do too many of us, especially do too many of our women, see a white girl and she can't say certain things and she can't do certain things.
She deserves a modicum of respect, and Pearl is going to give what she gets.
That's it.
And mind you, white people, black people say this stuff about white people all the time.
My entire life, black people have said out-of-pocket things to white people.
When I did my show, I mean, the first thing that black women say to me is you're a privileged white girl.
And again, and I didn't say anything, I didn't insult them, I didn't say anything mean.
You know, it was really just a response.
She was pretending she didn't know that women like criminals when six out of 10 black men have been arrested by the age of 25.
I don't like going into debates in bad faith.
I don't like you pretending you don't know about something with the culture on TV.
Like, you know what I'm talking about.
And the only reason that I brought up the herpes stat was because she said that she brought up the race, the first, by the interaction with the second.
This was a mistake.
I got to even stop explaining this.
I shouldn't have even explained that.
I said what I said, bitches.
I said what I said, shut the fuck up and grow a pear, girl.
It was the first, she said that black men want black women.
Yeah, and I'm just like, that's not true because I know white guys.
I know white guys.
I know white guys that will not.
And if you let me actually finish instead of crashing out, I would have explained this.
It is a genuine concern from white women.
Gaslighting.
They did crash out when I said that.
Men catching STDs from Black women.
I swear this is a thing because half of them have herpes.
They have really high gonorrhea stats, really high HIV stats.
White men, this is a concern for white guys.
And this is a reason.
She said, so that's equivalent.
That's warranted.
If a black woman says that white men like black.
Again, he thinks he has authority to say what's warranted and what's not warranted.
That's matched with black women.
50% of black women have actually, yes, it is warranted.
But just even the fact that he's asking that, Doug MPA, you're up now.
I just brought you up with me.
Can you hear me?
Yeah.
Sorry about that.
I will.
No, you're okay.
Here, let's play it and then we'll respond.
That's justified.
No, no.
You said she became racial.
You said she became racial, right?
If she said that white men like black women, that warrants saying that black, 50% of black women just out the blue.
Like, what?
What's the point of saying is it true?
Oh, of course.
It's true.
We use that stat.
Oh, my God.
See, again, this is tone policing.
This is what women do.
This is what women do.
Like, this is why men kill themselves in marriages.
Sorry, that's so dark.
I should say that.
This is why men go crazy in marriages because they just have women nagging like this.
Was that warranted?
Doug, was that warranted?
Did you have to say it like that?
Was that warranted?
It's like, what?
Are you a woman?
Like, these guys just have minds of women.
Like, this is what this is why we go crazy.
Like, they're not going to sleep with you.
They're really not.
If you weren't trying to make it racial, you can say it.
No, it's not.
It's when it said you said that after she said white men want black women.
How is that equipped?
How does it warrant for you to go, oh, but black women got 50% of black women?
Okay, I got to be honest.
The way you're talking, it's just like like a woman because you're tone policing, like men care about information, women care about how it's said.
So, when you're saying, Oh, you're saying it this way or saying it that way, that's like a female thing.
Because if you go into male locker rooms, no one's tone policing and saying you can't you are, but you could pretend you're not, you know, it's fine.
No, no, so so, so if you said, if you said, if you said, Hey, uh, black man, she said a white guy, she said, If I said white women like black men, and I say, Oh, all white people are racist, like, is that equivalent?
Does that match?
No, because the fact the facts data and statistics and also real life experience don't match up with that.
Uh, white people actually give black people opportunities all the time, so there's no way to do Pearl.
What does that have to do when she said that white women want uh white men you see how exhausting this is?
Like, this is so exhausting.
Black women have herpes.
Well, is that warranted to say black women still have herpes?
Well, but I can tell the audience.
So, here's the thing: um, as a black man, I have to accept the harsh statistics: 55% to 60%, 65% of violent crime are perpetuated by black people, especially black men.
Now, I've had conversations with Pearl about the crimes that white people do.
I said, Hey, Pearl, did you know that most white collar crime is perpetuated by white people?
Did you know that over 70% of the sex offender list is white men?
You know what Pearl said, Doug and Pierre.
I didn't know that.
Thank you for letting me know.
Yes, when she gives me stats on black people, you know what?
I just say, Thank you, Pearl, for letting me know.
I didn't know that.
Look, the stats are what they are.
You accept it and you move on.
And if you're not one of those people, you keep moving.
Right.
When a sentence starts with as a black man, yes, sorry about that.
I apologize.
I try not to say that, but I thought it was.
No, it's okay.
I wasn't hot at you.
I'm just like thinking about how I really just should have kept repeating black women have herpes the whole time.
I'd have been saying, like, they made it raised.
I should have just kept like, God, this is because it's trying to explain yourself to someone that's going in bad faith.
Like, every way he could have given me grace, he just is assuming I'm lying.
And it's like, why would I want to talk to somebody that assumes that?
Yeah.
And want black, uh, black women.
What does that have to do with very, it's very herpes?
Well, how else?
How else are you?
You have to have a lot of people.
You just said that doesn't match.
Does that match?
Okay.
Are you going to go?
All right.
So you do have to, in order to get marriage and kids, you do have to have sex.
I don't know if you know that.
So the herpes would be relevant because in order for the black men or the black women to get the white men, I don't know why I'm explaining this.
You know, it's relevant.
No, I think sometimes he just wants to lecture.
So unlikable.
So unpleasant.
You're very informed about things you speak about.
And there's times you blatantly make things about race.
You do do that.
And you do, you say things that don't match up, but you are very informed.
I can give you that.
I forgot I could mute him.
I really should have muted him.
I will give you your plight.
I will give you your respects.
I will give support in the things that you say.
And you can be a much, and I'm, and he, he might step in because you can be a much better content creator and bringing people together as well, too.
But for some reason, Pearl, you like doing that when it's convenient.
And Andrew does the same thing too.
Andrew's a very smart guy as well, too.
When he feels convenient, he'll do that.
When he did debate, did the debate with Coach Greg Adams?
He didn't really make it racist.
I like mentally tuning him out because this is what white people do.
And I do think black people should understand this.
I mean, when you guys like do this, bro, we just tune you out and never talk to you again.
You could be such a better content creator.
What a joke like that because he knows how to control himself.
But a lot of times, when he gets in spaces with people, you do it as well, too.
You will find a way to bring race into it just because I do respect.
Sorry, I do understand your opinion.
I just don't respect that you know how to do this better than me.
I'm just being honest here.
I don't what do you mean by that?
I just don't think you're qualified to give me advice on how to do this.
Tell me how.
Why?
Because you got more viewers than me?
Because of your results.
What's the result?
I just thought I'm like been on this for two, three years.
I haven't even went consistent every single day.
So, how can you do that from me?
Positive, I guess.
He was a wannabe rapper back in the day.
So he's been posting stuff on this YouTube for like over 10 years.
But maybe he just started getting into this space.
Like, I went on Pierce Morgan.
If Pierce Morgan, I gave him advice and he said, You're not qualified, I would just say, you know what?
probably right because pierce morgan is the big leagues it's just this is like the absurdity My God, help us.
How many people you have watching right now?
Okay, okay.
How many people you have watching right now?
Live.
Okay.
So, again, we could go back and forth as a view off or whatever.
You said that in.
I'm just, I, well, you can, you can do as you wish.
Um, you did that, Pearl, not me.
I okay, we're gonna, this is a crash.
Who asked who to be on this panel?
I'm just gonna.
I was gonna, I was gonna, okay, okay, we're gonna, I'm gonna mute you.
I'm gonna mute you the crash out.
Yeah, I love, I love, this is why I love it here.
I should have did that like 10 minutes before.
I'm gonna mute people more.
So, I wouldn't say crash enough.
I wouldn't say he was crashing out.
I'm just gonna put this here.
I'm just gonna put this here.
Um, I think this is really demonstrating why white people at times do not give opportunities to black people because you guys just make it a lot more difficult to work with you.
And that's me being really honest.
That's me.
Um, and I would say this is just increasing the difficulty, and then I would just say, you know what?
We just won't do it again.
It's fine, it's totally fine.
Yeah, you know, you can keep doing when a white American wants to has to work with a black American and he asking them to be honest and righteous, it becomes a problem.
When we all treat people respectfully, then that becomes a problem.
It's not like jazz all day, I was actually very respectful.
I did not call anybody a coon on the panel.
Somebody else did that, and you did allow them, but you're right.
Maybe I was the problem for mentioning half of black women have herpes, even though it's true.
You deal with jazz all day.
And you know, again, I, this is me.
I'm really trying to be nice about this, but um, yeah, I just think that's it.
We just won't do it again, and it's okay.
So, that's good.
He begged me this morning to come back on, and I'm not going to read the messages because I don't do that.
But he can screen record them all and put them out if he wants.
I don't think it really matters that much, but he's you know, I give permission as long as you don't crop shit or unsend anything.
But he messages me today and he says, These are the bullet points that I made summarizing his message to me.
He criticized me for deciding to leave because his co-host started insulting me.
He felt entitled to more shows.
So he said, why aren't you doing more shows?
He wanted to do it again.
He insinuated that his platform really helps me and that I should be, you know, grateful to him.
I don't know how to put this nicely, but I don't really need you.
I really don't.
I've been doing this for years.
I've done pretty well.
So he tried to move on without an apology.
He pitched another show.
He gaslit and said that he wouldn't control you at all on your show.
Even though he just, as you saw, nagged me and did, in fact, try to control me on my show.
Tried to say that I misunderstood what he said on Instagram.
Still no apology.
Saying that talking about race makes things harder when his platform is pretty terrible.
Pearl said, and then I said, this is why black people can't get ahead.
And I meant that.
I really did.
And mind you, all of this shaming language he used, all he had to do was say, I am sorry.
It's very, it's very easy.
So I'm actually being very nice to you guys because I'm telling you guys out loud why white people just stop dealing with black people.
They move away.
They go to different neighborhoods.
They stop hiring you because you're so difficult to work with.
I don't really need to justify why I think you're difficult to work with.
I just won't work with you again.
Yeah.
I won't work with you because you're unlikable and insufferable.
Yes, it's your personality and maybe you could work on it and get better.
This is not about race, but it does seem to happen to one race a lot.
I am against all odds an equal opportunity employer and 50% of my staff is still black because I have two people that work for me and one's Doug MPA.
The reason I don't do these lives anymore, debates in person, is because there's no over talking a black person that wants to get something out.
I don't have a deeper voice and I don't have the willpower to argue like you guys do.
So luckily here I can just mute you.
And I do want you guys to take notes from Doug MPA to know this is possible.
You can do it.
As you can see, me and Doug MPA just tried to talk.
And there have been times where we both talk and Doug MPA will always say, I'm sorry.
So Doug MPA is going to give a master class for black people on how to apologize.
I just want to say a couple of things.
First off, I knew he was going to reach it back out to you because you just, the whole black side of YouTube just ate this whole thing up.
And he saw the engagement and he wants more of it.
And then two, guys, I can't stress enough.
Thaddy had the nerve to insult Pearl on that show.
Thaddy was born and raised and lives in Portugal.
He needs to worry about Sharia law right now in his country and leave the U.S. alone.
Seriously, who let him in here?
Why do people even entertain him?
The fact that this he's got pedo accusations, does he?
Yeah, it's like the guys put in the chat.
I don't know the backstory, but someone emailed friendly.
What happened?
I don't know.
I don't know.
Somebody just emailed it to me, like the nerve.
And I'm like, it's always people that come for me.
I mean, guys, what's really come out about me the last few years?
I mean, the only thing they have is Pearl dated a black TikToker.
That's it.
That's all they got.
Have I been involved in drugs?
No.
Do I have a secret child?
No.
Do I have a baby daddy?
No.
Like, what has come out about me?
it's been like five years um yeah i don't understand it Here's the thing: you have a good work ethic.
You had a good family, a good father.
You're just going to keep going and keep thriving.
And all these trash talking channels, that's why Anton Daniels left the people he used to work with, and now he has a million subs.
They're people that used to hang out with people like Jazz and all them.
They all left and they did better.
It's just a lesson in futility and it's a lesson in insanity because if these people keep having these same kind of fight club going back and forth with drama channels and they never go anywhere I went unmuted myself.
Doug NPA, do you want to give the masterclass on how to apologize or should I use Grok?
I can do either or.
Because you gave me, you told me the one day and I actually was like, you did a good job how to apologize.
Because I do, maybe they'll watch this and say maybe I could learn something.
So I can say a couple things about an apology.
First off, apologies are so rare.
Authentic apology is so rare nowadays that when you give somebody one, they don't even know what to do about it.
Guys, honestly, if you do someone wrong and say, even if they're yelling and screaming, say, look, stop, stop, stop, stop talking stuff.
First off, I apologize.
I'm sorry.
And watch them just like be taken aback because so few people, especially black people, apologize, right?
Then you say, look, the first step is apology, right?
And make sure that they acknowledge that you apologize.
Second off, you say, look, I did you wrong.
I need you to let me know what I can do or say to make the situation better.
Because you don't want to sit there and let someone just yell and scream at you until they feel they're done.
You don't have to go through that if you apologize.
But you say, look, I want to make this right.
Let me know what I can do or say to make this better.
And I'll do it.
So few people do that.
How would you have suggested Ilcan try to get me to come back?
I would have said, Pearl, look, I know that the panel was hostile towards you.
I apologize for that.
I know there was miscommunications.
I apologize.
Let's start at step one.
So let me know what I need to do to create the kind of an environment that you would want to participate in.
And then you have him, you would send him bullet points.
And then he would go to his freaking vultures and harpies up and say, look, Pearl has 2 million subs.
Apparently, you can see all the traffic.
So you being there helps his channel and say, look, These are the rules when bigger streamers come up busy.
You wouldn't want him to do anything that any other large streamer wouldn't want to have done.
You wouldn't set unrealistic rules.
So he would go back, hit his people and say, Look, we're going to have people come on when they're of a certain status.
You do this, this, and this.
And then you set another date and try to come on.
But the first thing he should have done was say, Look, you came on, you left.
People were hostile.
I apologize.
Do you accept my apology?
And then we'll wait for you to say yes.
And just, you know, white people are so forgiving.
We always accept apologies.
I can't think of one time in my life where a white person didn't accept my apology.
The Browns take way longer.
I'd say black people, but the apology I'm thinking of, I apologize to Myron.
It took me like two years to make it up to him.
Yeah.
I would have all you would have had to do.
I'm easy.
You don't have to say exactly the specifics, but your apology to Myron.
It was genuine.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, did it follow that format where you reached out and just said, Look, I am sorry.
Yeah.
And it was also, yeah, I said, I am sorry.
He hung up on me actually, I think the first time.
And then, like, I can't remember because this was kind of a long time ago.
I just remember I apologized.
And then I ended up trying to get him on Pierce Morgan.
I don't even think I was successful, but I went to great lengths to try to get him on other shows, trying to make up for it.
I made like videos defending, you know, and I can't remember.
I know the biggest thing I think that helped was me over like the course of a year trying to get him on a lot of shows.
I was getting the opportunity to go on, and he didn't.
So, yeah.
No, I did apologize, and I did mean it because I was wrong.
So, yeah, name one black podcast where they don't yell and scream at each other, insult, deflect from facts.
And I didn't realize I was wrong for like a year.
I think it was about a year.
And then I just kind of was like, Do you know what?
Myron doesn't trust women.
No, I mean, this was a fair case.
There are times where, yeah, you know, I do the wrong thing sometimes.
Ben Tomlinson on the website says, on the website, it says, Do not let your trauma from post-Nick F drag your morale to unproductive places.
I think this is very productive.
I think this was a hilarious show.
And, you know, I'm, I, for one, I'll say this: if you're white, it's okay to be white and advocate for your own group.
If you're black, it's okay to be black and advocate for your own group.
So I'm happy that this whole black fatigue thing is a thing because if you are a successful, educated black person, man, or woman, you've had black fatigue for a long time.
I've had black fatigue my whole life.
And I hate the fact that I have friends who are intelligent, sophisticated, empathetic, and white, but they feel like they can't say anything because they're white.
No, the time is over.
Thank God.
Thank God.
Well, black people, you fatigued me.
It's not you, it's me.
It's like a breakup.
Black YouTube.
So, black YouTube, I've heard, you know, we've come together.
And, you know, at times it's been really great.
We've had our good times, but, you know, it's not, it's not you, it's me.
It's We just have to, we have to go our separate ways.
And then, you know, they come back and they say, um, Pearl, they come back and they say, Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl.
Um, we didn't do anything wrong.
I didn't do anything wrong.
Well, you're right.
You did nothing wrong.
So, who is CJ the guy that was on yesterday?
I have no idea.
If I'm willing to argue in good faith, is that the guy's name that was on yesterday?
I don't want to argue.
You guys got to work on your pitches.
Oh, and then they'll say, Oh, we're going to leave.
Oh, no.
Oh, no.
I'm so sad.
Oh, I'm so devastated.
Doug MP, how will we survive without the black YouTube support?
Guys, and you know, you've wanted to talk about this for a while.
The climate wasn't quite there.
And I know that what you were talking about at the beginning of the show, we heard a lot, but now you can talk about it.
And I think this is kind of part of your being able to move past it.
And, you know, talking about it and working it out, you know, is always a good thing.
So I'm glad this avenue is here.
Finally, let's go.
Yeah, you know, you guys have fatigued me.
And I didn't even see race.
You created the Joker.
So congratulations, you guys.
Sometimes you guys make the villain.
Sometimes you make the villain.
It's one last thing about black fatigue.
So I was talking to someone the other day, and they're like, well, I don't understand why conservatives have black fatigue because black fatigue is mainly associated with, you know, the crime with black people is mostly in liberal cities and urban culture.
So I don't know why someone in Kansas or Idaho will complain about black fatigue.
I said, no, it's not about crime.
That's part of it.
But you'll be in Boise, Idaho at the Whole Foods, where there's barely any black people and everyone's paying way too much for groceries.
And the only black person or the only 23 Black people are Black women in there taking up space, making noise, yelling at the cashiers, trying to get stuff for free, trying to shoplift.
Black people, they want to go places, take up space, make noise, and disrupt the peace.
That's what black fatigue is.
And people are tired of it.
What makes certain black people feel entitled to just taking up space and disrupting everybody else?
I don't get it.
That's black fatigue.
And white people are tired of it.
But I will say, black people who are hardworking, educated, blue-collar black people that obey the law, love their country, we're all tired of it, even worse than white people.
Well, that's all I got.
I'm fatigued.
So I think black people, you know, there's and women also.
I think tomorrow, maybe not tomorrow, I'll probably take a break because I got to, I'm trying to film all the reactions for the month, but I do want to do a show on how to not be a bitch.
And I do think there's just basic decorum.
Like I had some guy say, he's not yelling.
He's passionate.
I'm so tired.
I'm so tired.
It's, you know, it's Not, you know, putting your speakers in public and blasting it.
What is some basic decorum?
Doug MP, you're an expert.
What do you say?
Um, first off, don't wear pajamas and freaking slippers and bonnets in public.
Um, you know, if you're 300 pounds, you shouldn't have your fat rolls and your stomach fat showing.
That's yes.
Um, you know, why have a front and back bumper on your Nissan Altima?
That'd be nice.
Oh, have car insurance, that'd be nice.
Think of how fatigued I've been since NWA started.
The rap group in the 90s.
Yeah, that happened to my brother.
He got hit.
You know, it's so crazy.
It's like, yeah, my brother got hit by a car when he was riding his motorcycle.
Some black woman hit him with her car and she did not have insurance.
There you go.
He also has a bum knee the rest of his life now.
I forgot that.
I forgot that happened.
But yeah, you just reminded me.
Number one thing is, is why is it that every single guys, in my experience, because I have a bachelor's degree, a master's degree, and I have a day job.
In every single academic setting, in every single work setting, the loudest, most annoying person that takes up too much space is a black woman all the time.
And you have to call her Miss.
So Miss Boomshika, you know, Miss Kaisha.
And then she treats everyone like garbage.
And oh, yeah, that's just how she is.
No.
No.
Why?
And then everything's a micro aggression.
So you're sitting there.
It'll be you, you and a black woman, like a white person, a black woman.
They're sitting there all mad looking.
So you say, hey, ma'am, are you okay?
Like, you know, what?
And oh, my, they jump down your throat.
So you're taking the effort and the energy to try to connect with this person and they throw it back in your face.
It's awful.
White people are tired of it and black people are too.
It's just this level of entitlement.
Like, it's just like how feminism has taught women that men have to pay, the current men have to pay for some sins of the past that probably never happened.
Too many black people, black fatigue involves black people making white people pay for the sins of the past.
Remember that one video I showed you where that one white girl said why Gen Z is so racist?
It's because black Gen Z have cheated white Gen Z like garbage for so long for no reason.
That's exactly what's happening.
Think of how fatigued we've been since NWA started.
I don't know what that is.
Half a beer for you and snacks for Doug.
DePope Frank, thank you for the super chat.
$1.
That's a black.
That's a black super.
You know, I'm telling you, and if you see me get hype on shows like this, you know, I've been here.
I've seen Pearl do the work, man.
And when people come at it crazy, it's just, you know, when someone disrespects your little sister, it's like that, dude.
Like, no, I'm not going to sit here and have some dude from Portugal with freaking PDF file accusations and some guy with 5,000 subs come at Pearl crazy.
It's just not going to happen, dude.
No way.
No, he has a long way to go before he can come over here.
Pearl's human being.
There's an opportunity that's just opened up.
So if anybody, you know, we do, we, against all odds, are an equal opportunity employer.
I don't know how we still are.
But Doug MPA, you know, I think he still gives me hope.
But there is a opening.
So if anybody wants to host a panel show once a week and wants to, you know, I spoke to Anton.
I might go on his.
But if someone is a new YouTuber and does want to do it and wants to work with me, you know, we are, we are open.
And to Ilkhan, I would just like to never talk to you again.
Yeah.
And I would just, you know, I mean, honestly, you've just been so uncharismatic and unlikable that I just would like to, I just don't ever, I just would like to never speak with you.
Like, I just would like, this is the last I'll talk about it probably, unless I think of something else, but this is going to be at most, this will be another week, right?
This isn't going to go on forever.
You know, you can make a response video.
I won't really watch it.
Neither will anyone else, I don't think.
But, you know, yeah, for that reason, long story short, I just would love to never speak again.
Obviously, I'm insufferable to you, you know, for whatever reason, which is fine.
I'd just love to go this way.
Chris Rock, blacks versus ends required watching.
Someone said in the chat that they wanted, thank you, DePope Dollar Super Chat, to do it.
If you do want to do it, please, I'm going to let Doug MPA filter.
You're going to have to apply with Doug MPA because obviously I just can't be the one to do it anymore.
Yeah.
Email me at doug at theaudacitynetwork.com and I'll look through your emails there.
It's doug at theaudacitynetwork.com.
Yeah.
Thanks, Doug MPA.
Appreciate it.
My topic is why businesses fail is at racism or unprofessional.
See, do you see?
Okay, I want to show the class.
This is some work that was done for the interview.
He said, I want to do a panel.
I already have a topic.
And it's an interesting process.
Yeah.
And you know what?
The last girl that asked me for a debate gave me Chat GPT.
She gave me an essay on ChatGPT.
And I just said, okay, you need to summarize that to five bullet points.
You know, I mean, I just, I just want some work in here, you know.
I just want some.
Someone said, did you see I apologize for insulting Pearl?
I don't know who you are, but I guess I appreciate it.
So, you know, that's at least a start.
He said a topic.
What would be good to also include is how you would source guests for it, if that's something you've done before, because that can be difficult.
I don't really want to come on and not have good.
I would like, you can put on women like jazz.
That's totally fine.
You just can't white night for them.
If it's me versus her, that's fine.
And we can go back and forth.
I would probably bounce if it's past a certain level of like disrespect.
I mean, you do have to mute her a little bit.
I really can work with a little bit.
I'm not really a stickler, but what I need, I just, it's when the men start lecturing me.
That's when I get pissed because I can't overtalk a man.
I'm still a woman.
My voice doesn't carry.
I cannot, I just can't.
Like, it's gonna.
I'm gonna say this joke.
Why do blacks walk slow?
They're in the way of progress.
Then run from the cops avoiding progress.
I can say it.
You can't.
Yeah.
So, other than that, if you get me a good, well, there has to be some arguments for it to be a good show.
Like, I really don't mind some like, you know, some women, like, I really wouldn't even mind going on a show with jazz again, but I just cannot have white-nighting hosts.
That's do you see what I'm saying?
Like, like, me going back and forth to jazz, that'd be entertaining to watch.
But I can't go three on one.
Now I'm just going to leave.
And that's the other thing.
Black people think that leaving and not interacting with them is disrespect.
It's like, it's not disrespect.
I'm going to let you argue and justify and go crazy in peace.
Just leave me out of it.
And the worst part about jazz is she does that.
If I could finish, if you let me finish, that's not how conversations go.
It's a power and manipulation tactic.
Anyone that does that should be automatically disqualified.
Conversations, you don't get to co-opt the conversation.
You don't get to interrupt somebody and then say, Can I finish?
Can I finish when someone interrupts you?
Let me say one last thing about jazz.
Jazz has her own channel.
And apparently, she, I don't know what she's going to do with it, but I don't see her posting on it because she doesn't even crash out on people's panels to make money off it because she hasn't put anything on her own page, which is sad, right?
If you're going to crash out, at least you get paid for it, right?
I think that she's afraid to post on her own channel because it would audit her and she find out that she's being laughed at.
That's just my personal opinion.
Yeah, I think I could do Sunday nights.
I think that would be a good day to do the panels.
I'm never really doing much Sunday nights.
So probably around this time, like eight.
I do want the right to be late because sometimes stuff comes up in my life.
So if you want me to be on time every week, look at I'm on CPT, but I will show up.
Like I, I, you don't have to worry about me not showing up.
I'll show up.
Like I'm not, but it's just, you know, like if you know, if my boyfriend wants to do something or I want, you know, and it takes longer than I think, I'm, I don't, I really don't like being rushed.
The right to be blate or to be late.
Yeah, I do have the right to be late because I'm gracing you with my present.
Like, it's like if Pierce Morgan came on my show, do you think I would nag him about being late?
I'm offering this opportunity to struggle streamers.
Yeah, if I, I won't be that late most of the time.
I just want the opportunity in case something happens.
Like, you can't, you can't be mad.
I will.
Whatever men want or choose to physically subjugate women, you'd submit to just saying you're only sassy because you're allowed.
That's true.
I can do it behind the microphone that men built.
Thank God.
Shamika knows you.
I like Shamika.
That's what I said.
Shamika Michelle could date a white guy.
That's how you know a black woman's like, got it.
Is she could actually go white.
White guys aren't going to do with this fat, like, ghetto.
You know, they're not going to do it.
But yeah, she could.
Anyways, Doug MPA, you got anything else?
Yeah, women are late.
They just are.
I know.
For who I am.
Yeah, I'm glad that Pearl's talking about this.
I'm glad that more YouTubers are not afraid to start talking about this.
It's about time.
You know, for the past 10 years, and especially with BLM and stuff, the black community has been putting a bunch of social credit on a bill.
And now the bills come due.
And we'll see how they're going to have to deal with having to pay it.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, Doug, say one more time.
Are you sure that's your email?
They're saying they can't find the email.
Say one more time.
It is doug at the audacitynetwork.com.
He's on Instagram too.
If you go to my you're right, you are.
Why am I not saying your Instagram?
Yeah, don't say my Instagram.
Okay, okay.
I got to start a new one.
You're on Twitter, though, right?
Yeah.
Just in case, like, I don't know.
But look, if you're resourceful, you'll find him.
So, okay.
Thanks for watching, guys.
Make sure you like the video, subscribe to the channel.
I'm fatigued.
So tomorrow, I think I'm going to make a video for Lila talking about how to not be a bitch.