Pearl Daily’s call-in show dissects modern women’s reliance on "babysitting" activities—$600/month spa visits, Equinox yoga, or Sephora outings—to avoid relationship dissatisfaction, framing it as childish dependence. Guests like Sean rank stores by cost and distraction, warning men to ignore external comparisons (e.g., "you never take me here") while maintaining control. The host’s anecdote of dating five women—including a NASA aerospace engineer from a racist family—highlights how "sensible" women adapt to boundaries without resentment, suggesting maturity in relationships hinges on mutual respect and self-sufficiency. [Automatically generated summary]
On the radio, but it don't sound the same When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name.
It all just sounds like all your hours, Cause you're a hard-working man.
I don't need to party, I don't need to dance.
Now my man is dancing, But he's dancing with another woman.
My pride, my ego, my needs and my selfish ways Cause a good, strong man like you to walk out my life Now, I'll never get to clean up the mess I made.
Oh, And it haunts me.
Every time I close my eyes, It all just sounds like no flowers.
Don't need to hold your hand.
I don't need all your hours, Cause you're a hard-working man.
I don't need to party.
I don't need to dance.
Now my man is dancing, But he's dancing with another woman.
Although it hurts, I'll be the first to say I was wrong.
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late to try and apologize for my mistakes.
I just want you to know I don't need no flowers, Don't need to hold your hand, Don't need all your hours, Cause you're a hard-working man.
I don't need to party, I don't need to dance.
Now my man is dancing, But he's dancing with another woman.
Now my man is dancing, But he's dancing with another woman.
What up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
I always felt like that's how the song should have went because you know I always just felt like that was a super simp song.
So I decided I'm gonna start this thing where I rewrite some of these.
I want to go back to my desk.
So if you liked it, let me know in the comments and I can.
If you have any simp songs you want me to rewrite one of them I was thinking is Cardi B's I Don't Cook, I Don't Clean.
I think I should rewrite that to have women just taking L's throughout the entire thing.
Okay, so the reason I picked Bruno Mars, if you know the actual lyrics, maybe one day I'll have it so I can go back and forth.
But, you know, it's basically the story of this guy who, you know, was simping over this, you know, probably a mid, right?
Let's just be honest here, probably an average woman.
And if you really listen to the lyrics, she's just, she's bored.
She's not entertained.
And that's the real reason that she ended the relationship.
He's saying, I should have taken you dancing.
I, you know, I should have bought you flowers.
I should have done all this bullshit to entertain you.
And I just thought, you know, this is how women get to be so delusional because, you know, you guys allow us to guilt you into kind of, you know, kind of some BS.
These meals changed everything for me.
So that's really where I'm at with it.
Hold on.
What?
To that?
Oh, they can't connect to this one.
Yeah, I mean, I have to.
Well, I don't need them right now.
I'm just reading off of it.
So I don't, yeah, I don't think I, you know, I'm not, I don't, oh, it actually, I am going to have to.
I'm reading off it for now, but later I was going to show a few examples.
I can show you how to do it.
Yeah, sure, sure.
Guys, you're going to have to bear with us.
It's a new set, so we just have some tech settings on where?
Just on the computer?
Yeah, I'm going to go to the corset.
Okay, here we go.
System settings.
Do you see where it says HZ on that screen right there?
HZ.
Yeah, it's on display.
I don't know.
Yeah.
HZ.
Hurts?
Yes, hurts.
Okay, how many?
It's on 60.
Well, you have to reset it.
Oh, okay.
Oh, my gosh.
Okay.
All right, it's black now.
Now it's saying not opium mode.
Yeah, I think it got worse.
Well, I'll go get my laptop, guys, so I can read off of that for the time being.
I mean, I'll let you figure that out.
Hold on.
Oh, it's over there.
It's all right.
Guys, I need you to be patient.
I know there's somebody bitching in the chat, but you just, no offense, it's just the internet.
But we got to be patient here.
We got to, at times, you know, there's tech issues.
So anyway, you know, I saw the other day that like the United States of America had audio issues.
And I'm like, yeah, it's not as easy as you think.
Like for a press conference.
Okay, so they can see me though, fine, right?
Yeah, okay.
Okay, so we might not be able to share my screen today.
That's all right.
We'll just, we'll do Colin's.
So anyways, the whole idea of this song is Bruno Mars is saying, I shouldn't have ruined this relationship.
And he lists the reasons that she dumped him.
And it's, I should have bought you flowers.
I should have held your hand.
I should have spent all my hours with you.
And I'm thinking, what a simp.
What a simp.
And we blasted that on the radio throughout my whole college career.
And I won't lie, Bruno Mars, he does make bangers.
He's very catchy.
I'm not going to pretend I didn't sing it.
I obviously did.
But I would sing it and think, you know, there's sometimes, you ever have songs that you like bop your head to and you're kind of embarrassed, you're bopping.
I felt that way about Lizzo's song, like, you know, why men great till they gotta be great?
And that's a terrible lyric, right?
Because obviously, you know, men are better than women in pretty much every way, but not all, not all.
By the way, as my disclaimer, I'm a comedian on this show.
It's not serious.
Ha ha.
And yeah, if there's any, if YouTube's watching, just so you know, this is comedy.
And I always mean there are exceptions to every rule, not all.
But anyway, so Bruno Morris, that was one of the songs.
And I was thinking that essentially what women are doing is we're ending relationships because we're bored.
And, you know, men are very solution-oriented.
I really, I think the male psyche, you guys just don't get upset about problems.
You just are focused on solutions, right?
You know, I mean, you guys, do you know what?
It's so funny because I'll tell a man about a problem and he's just like 10 steps ahead and fixing it.
And I'm like, I'm busy complaining about the problem.
I'm busy right now.
So, anyways, I went to Equinox the other day.
I was trying to decide what gym.
I'm in a new area.
Can't say where.
But I'm in a new area and I was deciding on a different gym.
And I walk into Equinox.
And I'm at Equinox and I'm like, can I get a tour?
And to be fair, it was a pretty nice gym.
But when they're, you know, taking me around Equinox, I'm looking around and I'm thinking, this looks like a babysitting place for adult women.
Like, this looks like a daycare, but for adult women.
And there's the gym.
And then there's like another, you know, another room and it's just like classes.
So it's like adult women being trained on how to do yoga, how to do whatever.
And I realized women, we don't like thinking.
And so we like people to just like do things for us, you know.
So, and I, and I'm walking around, there's a spa, there's a massage table.
I could get red light therapy.
I'm like, I need red light therapy now.
And then they're like, yeah, it's like $300 a month or whatever it was.
And I'm sitting there and I'm thinking, this looks like babysitting for adults.
And as you guys know, I really like to talk about societal trends on this show.
And my goal is always to get the pulse of some things that are going on in society.
And I really came to the conclusion that there's a whole industry based on babysitting adult women.
I really think that ladies, like, there's a like, there's just all of these places that they have dedicated to entertaining us.
Now, the other day, now I'm in more of a city area, and I was walking in the city.
And when I'm in the city, I go by the park, and I see these adult women watching a movie.
And I'm thinking, like, when I was a kid, they did have movies in the park, but they were for kids.
And I thought about this like transition in society where all the things that were originally meant for children are now being used for women.
Now I can already hear my critics, my detractors, my haters saying, but Pearl, what about men?
Aren't men, you know, being entertained?
Like, don't men need to be babysat?
And I think that's a common trope that women have a tendency to say, like, oh, he couldn't survive without me.
Oh, you know, I'm his mother.
And I really thought about it and I'm thinking, I really think everything women say about men is like projection.
I really do.
So in this case, as we go forward with this thought process, women have to be babysat in society.
And I decided to make a list of places that I feel, I think that women are really being babysat.
So movies in the park.
Then we have adult classes in things that originally were meant for children.
So you have adult theater now.
It used to just be the kids did the school musical.
You have dance classes now, you know, ballet, adult ballet classes that really used to be for kids.
Yoga classes.
You know, I once spoke to a personal trainer about this.
He said that his main clientele was women and he ran some of these classes for adult women.
And the problem was he couldn't make them too hard or the women would complain and quit.
Self-improvement for women, it just tends to be like a spa day where self-improvement for men, it's like a man and a woman get out of a breakup.
Women get a boob job and a man and go to the spa and get some Botox.
And the man goes to the gym and basically makes $100,000 more that year.
Do you know what I mean?
It's like we just aren't really the same when it comes to this topic.
And my critics and detractors, they'll say men are the same when it comes to being babysat, but that's not what I see.
I mean, men go hunting.
I really don't think that's pretty self-sufficient, right?
Men go, my brothers used to go jet skiing, UTVing.
I mean, if anything, that's not babysat at all.
That's like, you know, exploring the terrain.
Oh, the chalice?
Yeah.
Okay.
So at times, who's the babysitter, the boyfriend, or the husband?
Where, you know, at one point in time, men may have, probably not, but they may have looked at women as an asset who could do things for them.
But now, really, boyfriends have almost become slaves to women, where they're forced to provide the woman entertainment day to day, and they get nothing out of it.
I would say 80% of the workforce for women, but not all, not all.
But I mean, an example of that is human resources.
I mean, basically, women came to the workforce.
We couldn't take the speech, how men talked.
And then we made a whole industry for nagging men on how they talk.
Nagging.
Let me look at the chat.
I'm going to turn this off.
Old women love square dancing.
What?
It's broken now.
Oh, it's okay.
That's right.
Maybe I could, could I put in the signal, the links, and then we play them?
Is that possible?
Oh, no.
You can't share that screen?
No, this is not computer.
Oh, okay.
Not that computer, though.
I'm just wondering, will we be able to zoom?
We can zoom?
Okay.
Yeah, so essentially women, we created an entire industry for nagging men, including conservative commentators.
I hate to say it, ladies.
I know I'm one of them, but I hate to say it, right?
Then we have the whole catfishing industry.
So there's a whole industry for making women feel like we aren't ugly.
And, you know, that's turned into babysitting.
You drop your girl off at the nail salon.
You drop your girlfriend off at the hair salon.
And really, a lot of these industries, maybe you think they're for women, but they're really for the men to get some peace and quiet and alone time.
You know, so that's really my question.
We're going to do Colin in a bit.
Is where do you drop off your wife or your girlfriend to be babysat?
Coffee shops where we spend like $20 to sit in a comfy chair, do work, and drink overpriced coffee.
Calling a dog a child, apartment complexes.
I've noticed apartment complexes almost are like college dorms now.
We're back in the day.
I mean, you didn't really care about where you lived.
You didn't really care about, you know, you just, it was just an apartment.
But now I keep, I see, like, because I was apartment shopping recently, and everyone was trying to sell me on this community.
And I'm thinking the new community is now apartment complexes or hobby communities.
That seems to be where the world is going.
Then we got the military and female police officers.
You guys obviously can't do the job, like very obviously.
But you need to be babysat because the men don't know what to do with you.
The dad's like, I don't want her.
She's old enough.
What am I going to do with her?
Let me put her in the military so I don't have to deal with her anymore.
Martial arts, female streamers, I would say is a bunch of, it's like the simps are babysitting in general, in general.
Like, you know, when you see those like hot streamers on Twitch with their boobs out, it's just all the guys watching are babysitting.
Women have a tendency to be bored and we can't entertain ourselves.
Where men, if they look at an apartment, I was talking about this before the show.
If they have an apartment complex or an apartment, it's like empty and they just need a PS5 and they're good.
And men in general, they're just so much more entertaining.
Like, you ever just see men to get, like, they're so funny.
That's why I'm such a traitor to my gender.
You guys just are not entertaining me enough.
You know what I mean?
It's like, I need the ladies to provide more value to get me on their side, but it's just, it's just none.
There is this ongoing trend where I say women are unhappy people.
We're unhappy with everything, so it doesn't surprise me that we're unhappy with you guys, too.
We have a tendency to not be able to sit in silence.
We always got to listen to a podcast or something.
And I was going to show you guys some examples, but I can't, right?
No?
All right.
Well, I guess we're going to do calling.
I'll describe what I was going to show you guys.
I was going to show you guys those weight loss classes of essentially these women, like it's like a bunch of fat women being on top of a ball attached to the ceiling.
Like they're like swinging back and forth.
It's like back and it's like a weight loss class that doesn't have them losing weight at all because it's just like fun.
Adult babysitting.
Another one.
Oh, I had a couple of these.
It's like women biking, but barely biking.
Yeah, so my question, I was going to show you guys men because like there is a video of a guy and he bounced a can into the garbage and he just looked like the happiest guy on the planet.
And I was thinking about this.
I'm like, they put hundreds of thousands, if not millions of dollars into making women happy, right?
They've given us all this birth control.
They're like, you guys want to be whores?
Go do it.
You want to kill your kids?
Why not?
Do you guys need to be entertained all day?
Here's an adult babysitting.
You know, we'll give you guys a movie.
We'll give you guys a snack.
Oh, is the Catholic Church and Orthodox too boring?
Is it too boring?
We'll give you guys these non-denominational churches that have a concert.
Is that enough?
Here you go.
You know what?
That's not enough.
Do you guys need a snack at church?
Is that good?
And the women, you know, we're just still not happy with it.
It's like every aspect of life.
It's like, is school too hard?
Okay, now we're graduating high school and we can't read, right?
Is being at home by yourself too hard?
Is going out and like meeting men in person too hard?
Here's a dating app that'll connect you with thousands of men in your area.
Oh, shoot, you don't want to have to sift through them.
Let me, you can filter by height.
You can filter by eye color.
You can filter by race.
Oh, is that not enough, ladies?
Oh, you want to be whores?
You want to have D appointments?
Okay, you know what?
We were going to cure all the STDs for you.
And that's why I keep telling you guys, we're too far gone.
You have to understand all of these industries are dedicated to making women happy.
The health industry, they'll tell us that when we're fat, it's like not our fault.
They won't say to count your calories and you have a calorie deficit.
They'll just say, look, you being an obese, fat person, that's not your fault.
To the point that doctors can't weigh women.
We have to, you know, we have apartment complexes being built for single women because they're the ones that'll pay the absurd prices.
There's too many people making money off of women, including the Republican Party and Liberal Party.
Both of them coddle women.
You know, it's like this last election cycle.
Everyone was wondering why is Trump all of a sudden pro-choice?
He's got to be.
The women have like a gun to his head.
It's like the women are like, give us abortion.
And then Trump's like, no, I'm pro-life.
Here's, I have morals.
And they're like, give us abortion or we're not going to vote.
Or your donors are going to cut.
And they're like, he's like, fine.
Melania, honey, can you please go tell the women that they can abort their you guys can do it, kill the kids, whatever.
I don't care.
That's why I say we're cooked.
I mean, even if women are happily married, which we can be for a period of time, there's a whole industry dedicated where they spend millions of dollars marketing to your wife to leave you so they can charge her for all these entertainment things.
Yeah.
So, anyways, my question is for the fellas: where do you drop your wife off or your girlfriend off when she needs to be babysat?
And hopefully, I can hear from Doug MPA.
Doug MPA, you gotta let people in and out, but I need you to rule with an iron fist today.
I can't do the, I can't do the 10 minutes for the Zoom.
They could either get it or they don't.
Respectfully, fellas.
Let me send this Zoom to the.
Hey, I'm here.
Oh, cool.
He's on.
I can't see.
All right.
So when you were married, Doug MPA, or in your past relationships, where would you drop off your wife to be babysat?
Ross or Marshalls.
And how did that go?
Like, what would you rate it out of 10?
What do you mean, like, rating how, like, how good was it at?
Go ahead.
How good was it at babysitting?
Like, was it a good baby?
Oh, yeah.
Like a solid 10.
Because here's the thing.
Yeah, yeah.
Solid 10.
So women.
Okay.
JC Penny, like 10, 15 years ago, tried to reprice the pricing structure for their products and started, they stopped doing that $19.99, $29.99 sale thing and just had a flat price, like $25, $15.
And people stopped, well, and women stopped going there because women like that $19.99 because it's not quite $20.
So it makes them feel like they're saving money.
Or we have a sale on Sunday.
It entices women to go in and buy more stuff.
And Marshalls and Ross are the ultimate example of that.
Well, was it too expensive of a babysitting place for you?
Oh, yeah, 100%.
Okay, so maybe it wasn't the best babysitting place because you had to spend all the money, you know?
Well, it was a good short-term solution, but a bad long-term solution.
I'm about to send this link to the chats that I've been on Twitter.
And then, you know, I would say Target too.
One of the scariest things about Target is that I try to do my shopping on Sundays for groceries and stuff.
And I'll go to Target on Sundays and I'll see a bunch of women that are mothers on like a girl's trip to Target.
So it'd be like three, four mothers who will all know each other with their kid in the cart.
And they're walking up and down the aisles of Target, just filling their carts full of crap.
And they'll have their coffee and like snacks and stuff, but they'll turn it into.
I love Target as a babysitting place.
That's my favorite place to be babysat.
But it's interesting because men, it's almost like the babysitting, you think it's for the women, but it's for the men to get some peace and quiet.
I agree 100%.
But once again, it'll cost you.
And guys, here's the thing.
I'm in my mid-40s, right?
So most of the guys that got married when they were young are divorced.
And women have this thing where they want to be in a marriage or in a relationship, but they don't want to lose their independence, right?
And one of the reasons why one of the biggest ways that they want to, how can I put this here?
The most obvious invisible way for them to stay independent in a marriage is the trap where the man's money is the house money and then she gets to keep her money.
You can't tell her what to do with it.
So you'll be working full-time.
And of course, you'll be working more hours and you'll be working a more dangerous job.
So you'll be making more money, but you'll be paying all the bills.
And then she just gets to keep her money.
And then she'll spend it all at Target.
And because these women, they'll spend your money, her money, and the government's money.
So I asked.
That's how the whole.
Go ahead.
I'm sorry.
Go ahead.
That's okay.
So I asked the people where, fellas, where do you drop off your girlfriend or wife when you want some alone time?
I got her mother's.
So that's a babysitting place.
Hold on, let me see what else.
Then there's all these women virtue signaling.
I'm an amazing, awesome mother.
I just stay home.
It's like, bitch.
Someone said the kitchen where she belongs.
Someone says the mall with your no limit, Amax.
I used to drop her off at Zara and wait in the parking lot a couple of hours of peace.
That's what you said, too.
You might do this with your child, but not your spouse.
You don't drop your wife off somewhere well.
Is that true, Doug MPA?
So you don't literally drop them off.
Well, see, actually, yeah, you do.
I'm not going to lie.
You do.
You drop them off.
Drive them there.
And then, and actually, it would be better to drop them off because they can only go to that one place.
If you just give them your wallet and let them drive all over the place, you'll get double or triple the bill.
Home goods are target.
I left my wife at a hot springs in Horry, Colorado.
But you know what's interesting?
Men's hobbies are always productive.
Like, it's like men will tinker with cars.
That's their hobby.
They'll go hunting.
I mean, that's their hobby.
They'll even build a house.
I mean, my dad used to get off work and go build our house.
He built a house.
Most of men's hobbies are something that can benefit not only himself, but those around him or contain a useful skill.
You know, working on cars, hunting, you know, building things.
You know, most of women only benefit themselves.
Is there anyone on the line or no?
Did you drop the link?
Because I don't see it.
Well, you're on the Zoom, aren't you?
Yeah.
Well, you can't, you can't.
Is nobody on?
I don't see anybody.
Oh, is the link in the chat?
Now it is.
Oh, sorry.
I misunderstood you.
Okay.
Someone said the treadmill, the baking aisle.
Okay, let me see.
Yeah.
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Oh, we got a good one for the I had another tweet.
People put the responses.
So what I've noticed is the women go to these events and then the men come because they want to get laid.
Like I'm like looking at this yoga class at Equinox and there's a guy in there and I'm like, it's like 20 women to one guy.
Of course he's going to learn yoga.
He says mud run, paint and pottery wine nights, half marathons, CrossFit, any woman's ministries retreats at evangelical churches, karaoke nights, yoga in the park, Mother's Day in churches, wine and art making nights, Western women.
We used to do cooking classes where wealthier women would come cook, drink wine, and hang out, but then it got labeled as patriarchal and stopped.
Those super fancy gyms.
yeah that's what I was saying equinox um someone said plan I dropped my wife off at Planned Parenthood.
That kind of is, you know, female babysitting because it's like woman made bad decision.
Men invented things to bail her out of it.
It's like, well, woman got pregnant by Pookie, Ray Ray, and Nug Nug, and then you drop her off.
Human resources.
Yeah, we said that unproductive.
Oh, female vacation.
Family vacations.
What percent of family vacations are going because the woman wants to go, would you say?
All of them.
Every single one.
Every single one.
There's not a single guy that wants to travel.
Not with the family.
That's funny.
One of the cool things.
So my nephew played football for a county team, like a city team.
And there's a guy on his football team.
They were Steelers fans, and he would take his family to every single, I mean, they're rich, but they would go to every single Steelers game a year.
So he would fly his wife and two kids to every single Steelers regular season game.
Do you know what?
Someone said if she's home too much, then she wants to remodel the house.
Yeah, that's true.
And they said it's cheaper.
A yoga class is cheaper than that.
I'm going to bring up Sean.
Sure.
Hold on.
I want to read this one.
Yoga, nail salons, shopping, tanning, waxing, Sephora, meditation, retreat, Starbucks.
Women's brains are hamster wheels without children, and they need to keep busy.
I think it's even after the children.
The mothers just torture the children with these stupid things.
Yeah, let's bring them up.
Hey, Sean, how are you doing, buddy?
Hey, how's it going?
Can you hear me?
I can hear you.
So what do you think?
Where do you send your wife or your girlfriend off to be babysat?
I mean, for my ex-girlfriend, the two places I would either send her is either the Outlet Mall, because girls like the idea of always kind of going shopping, or like her gay male best friend, if that makes sense.
Just because like, I think girls like a guy who's always like talking to them and like listening to them for their problems.
But like, obviously, I don't want to send her to another straight guy.
So I'd rather send her to one of her gay male friends who can just like gab her ear off, if that makes sense.
You guys have.
Oh, sorry.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
No, that's the way I don't have to do it, right?
So it's like, you know, I can do the limited amount of time versus like, I don't have to do the three-hour routine, right?
He just kind of wants to do that.
So like, I mean, and that's why a lot of girls, right?
Like a lot of straight girls, like within their friend group, they usually always have like gay male friends.
And it's because they like the, it's kind of like the friend zone, right?
It's kind of like you have a guy to give you sort of attention without actually having to give them sex in return.
And obviously most straight guys don't want to do that.
So if you can outsource that to another guy, that's obviously ideal.
So question.
Have you ever had a woman have a male friend that you know wants to sleep with her, but you know she would never do it?
And so you sort of outsource some of her attention needs to him like you don't mind?
I've observed that, but like with like relationships in the past, but I would never be down for that.
And the reason for that, it's not necessarily an insecurity.
It's just I know that if there's trouble in her relationship and then he's giving her some sort of emotional attention.
I mean, like it or not, all women cheat to some degree on a long enough timeframe.
So it is just possible that something could happen there if he's meeting her quote-unquote emotional needs.
What if he was really ugly?
huh i'm just wondering if there's ever yeah it's god I mean, he would have to be like obese, if that makes sense.
But yeah, I mean, to me, it's just like I never want to chance it because I just know all girls are capable of cheating.
Like, I think that's just an accepted reality.
Like, especially when you see, like, I'm trying to think, what's a good example, right?
Destiny and Melina.
And then Melina cheated on him with like some nobody scrawling.
Okay, but she banged Destiny.
So like it was the same.
The guy, the guy, I think the guy she cheated with was better looking than Destiny, if I'm being honest.
Fair enough.
Oh, my God.
What?
He doesn't have blue hair, right?
So, uh, yeah, you can look like a the other guy was a freaking transformer creepo, dude.
Well, but well, Destiny is too.
Yeah, you got me.
Never mind.
Yeah, okay, that's a good argument.
But yeah, when I saw that, dude, I'm just like, really?
That's the guy she cheated with?
I was like, okay, so she's not really going for looks on that one.
And so, like, I guess that's what I would point to.
That, like, I guess not all girls are necessarily looking for Chad Thundercock.
You know, some of them are looking a date down.
So, well, you have to nowadays, you have to watch out for the gay best friend because I know a couple of women who they wanted to have a kid and they decided to have a kid with their gay best friend.
And they did it the old-fashioned way.
Yeah, I mean, I don't understand.
It usually happens like the late 30s or early 40s, though, when they're like desperate to have a kid and you're with them and they're like, Oh, I'm not sure.
They'll pull the trigger anyway with their gay best friend.
I've seen that happen with girls in New York, but to me, it's just like I never understand why they do that, you know.
Why they do what?
Uh, why they sort of have the idea of like having a father figure as like the gay best friend because they're selfish, that's why, okay, fair enough, nice and simple, but yeah, you know, as far as the uh, you know, sort of the uh the title of this uh episode, as far as like women acting like children.
I mean, I've seen that my entire life, right?
Like, my ex, she would have me tuck her into bed every single night like a baby.
I can't make that shit up, right?
And whenever she was like trying to manipulate me, she would talk like a baby, like serious baby talk, you know what I mean?
And she was like a 32-year-old woman.
I'll give you that.
So, like, you know, I think every girl has somewhat of a daddy fetish, right?
It's why they usually like guys that are taller, right?
They usually guys, like, guys that are older, uh, you know, I think that's just in nature built into them that they want basically uh it's kind of screwed up, right?
They want a guy to basically be their dad in the form of a relationship, but at the same time, they don't want to give him the same respect that they would give their own father in their household, right?
So, like, I think most girls could probably say this is true: like, they would never disrespect their father in their father's household, but then they'll live with a man in his household and see them as equals and they don't have to respect him in the same regard.
And that's the part that I think is kind of screwed up: is that they do act like adult children, but at the same time, they don't do the same sort of you know, uh, daughter-father dynamic.
You don't get, I think that's where relationships get screwed up.
You don't get the obedience from it, like, the kid at some point has to listen exactly, yeah, because otherwise, like, what's the kid gonna do?
Uh, I'm gonna keep Sean on, but I'm gonna bring up Calvie.
We can panel this a little bit, Calvie, Calvie.
You there now, you're on mute, buddy.
All right, five, four, three, two.
Just go to the next.
They gotta figure out the audio.
I'm not, I'm not doing this today.
You can put him in the waiting room and bring him back up, but it's yeah, he's there.
We'll give him a nice five minutes.
Um, so, Sean, what do you think about uh what store was have you ever been with a woman that was a mall girl or like a target girl or like a uh had her favorite store that she liked to shop in so you could just uh and would you have to go with her or were you able to drop her off and get some hours of peace?
Yeah, so I mean, I would try to find like a mall or like a shopping center that kind of has the trifecta of like, you know, American girl bullshit, right?
So like it has to have a Lululemon.
It has to have like a Sephora, and then it has to have like a Banana Republic or a Nike shop, something like that that would like keep her attention.
Has like American Eagle or a Hollister or something.
Exactly.
Or, you know, I always like to joke, but the whole Forever 21, because no matter how old, they like the idea of still like being considered young and hot.
And that's why it's called Forever 21 and not Forever 41, right?
Yeah, Rolo says that a lot.
So rank like the best places for your girl to like for them to babysit your girlfriend to the worst places you sent them to.
Yeah, I would say the best place is probably anything with makeup.
So like an Ulta Beauty or a Sephora because they can just spend time in there forever thinking about how they can turn back the clock, even though, you know, probably not.
I mean, you know, that's the reality, right?
And then I would say maybe the worst place is when they want to go to like, you know, the dermatologists or, you know, the facial plastic surgeon or what have you, because, you know, that's when things start to cost a lot of money.
So I would say that might be up there in terms of the worst.
But yeah, I mean, I would say anywhere where like maybe a lot of their girlfriends want to meet up.
So like, you know, I hate when I was, you know, dating this girl like about five, seven years ago, where I would have to drop her off to meet her friends at a bar.
And I just know she's going to come back with a lot of complaints because a lot of her friends are going to talk about, oh, I went to vacation here.
Or a lot of them, like, you know, they just broke up.
So they're very bitter and negative.
And they like the idea of like making other girls in relationships.
Yeah.
Like dragging them into their situation because in their mind, like, I don't want to see another girl like in a good relationship or other daughter.
Or women.
Or women want like a partner in crime.
So it's like, yeah, so it's like you want women to go hunting with, you know, if it's by yourself, you got, if you're the only one, it's boring.
No, that's actually very true.
I mean, they say a lot of girls, you know, whether they're breaking up or whether they're divorced, like they're going to try to drag a lot of their married or relationship girls back to the single life because in their mind, you know, that's their, they just don't want to see other girls happy.
I think that's the honest truth.
When they see another girl with a, you know, a very attractive, you know, very successful guy, in their minds, they see it as like, that girl's now better than me.
So the only way I can be better than her is to fuck up her relationship.
And so you start seeing them spread a lot of negativity, like, oh, all men are dogs.
So how can how can you tell if there's like her friends are in her ear?
How can you like, how does it go generally?
The way you start knowing is she starts bringing up stuff that's like, oh, you never take me here.
Or, you know, we've never gone to this, you know, place for vacation.
Or you're not giving me enough attention.
And then you're just like, wait a minute, the only way she could like think that is if she's comparing me to someone else or someone else's relationship or someone is like in her ear telling her this, that, and the other.
And so you kind of see it come out because I think women tend to tell on themselves and they'll start saying words like, you know, I've heard from, you know, such and such about, you know, maybe, you know, we're having problems here.
And then you start thinking, okay, someone said some shit.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, because what happens is there will be discussions that should be a two-way discussion between you and her, but it's one way because she'll ask a question or bring up a topic, but she already talking like she won't even give, how can I put this?
She'll bring up something or ask a question with a conclusion in her head already, and she'll be leading the conversation with you to the conclusion in her head.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, I know what you're saying.
It's like, you know, maybe someone puts something in her head, like, oh, you guys shouldn't be together.
And then the conversation with her and you is like, well, you know, I don't think we're on the same page and we want the same things.
And it's like, you have no idea what she's saying because it's all gobbledygook in terms of like, how do you know it's not because she brought something she doesn't like about you up and then her friends like just validated what she said?
Like, how do you know it's her comparing her to her friends and not her like just trash talking you?
I would say the way to do that is just to ask questions and not respond with counterfactuals.
I think most guys' initial response is to respond with counterfactuals like, well, that's not true because I did such and such.
Or no, but that's not true.
Like, you know, we did this the other day.
Instead, just say, what do you mean?
Give me an example.
Like, and then they'll have to answer more and more questions and actually have to flesh out what they're talking about.
And then eventually it gets back to, well, you know, my friend Vivian was saying, you know, the last person she broke up with, he was acting like this and that.
And then you started thinking, oh, that bitch Vivian.
God damn it.
Like, I knew it was her.
Can you always tell what friend is out to get you?
Or like what friend?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, I can kind of tell just based on what's going on in their life.
So if their life is all happy and dandy, most girls are not looking to cause trouble in other women's life who are their friend.
If their life sucks because, you know, their husband isn't, you know, paying his half of the bills or whatever it is, like she's pissed off at him because he's not quote unquote doing his part or whatever the case may be.
They start looking for trouble with their friends.
So when they start seeing their friends have a complaint, they will throw fuel on the fire, if that makes sense.
Versus, you know, if they're happy, they're likely to want to make sure everyone else is kind of happy, if that makes sense.
Like, it's almost like women have a herd mentality.
It's like, if I'm not doing well, I want to spread that to other people, if that makes sense.
And then they kind of pull from that.
That's been my observation.
Yeah.
So like, there's a saying, it's like, if your girl is around a bunch of other married women, she's going to be the next married person.
If your girl's around a bunch of divorced people, she's going to be the next person who's divorced.
Yeah.
Is there anybody strat?
How you doing, buddy?
Good to see you.
I'm doing awesome.
How are you?
Fantastic.
Hey, Stratt.
How's it going?
Fantastic.
Just got back from swing dancing.
Oh, nice.
So, where do you send your girlfriend or wife to be babysat?
See, I've never done this before.
This is like confusing to me.
You've never wanted to send your girlfriend somewhere.
Have you ever lived with a woman?
I did, yeah.
And you never needed time away from her?
No, no, I'm pretty, I'm usually the one that wants more attention anyway.
So, okay, why'd you call in then?
You're asking.
Okay.
I figured it'd be good to have a different perspective.
Okay.
Sorry, I was just calling for examples.
So I'm like, well, I do think that women are more childish, though, for sure.
So, so, so, are you saying that women don't need to be babysat?
Uh, well, that girl was a lawyer that I lived with.
So, ooh, you didn't need time away from a lawyer?
Ah, no, no, she was, she was, she was a weird one, she was an odd kind of outlier case, probably.
Oh, so she wasn't the annoying, bitchy, overbearing, need-to-be right type of lawyer?
No, no, she worked, she worked in um estate planning, actually.
So, she did like wills and stuff.
She sent a lot of like it was a very black pill, too, because as soon as the husband died, the stepmom would just immediately take all the money away from his kids and give it to hers, you know.
And it was just like she was black-pilling me from her stories from work.
I think you're the first guy I've ever met that's never had to drop their woman off at a Target or a Kohl's or something like that.
Wow.
Oh my God.
No, I like the affection and stuff.
But I'm a demisexual too.
So I'm probably also a massive outlier.
Wait, what does that mean?
A demisexual?
It just means that you need an emotional connection before you can feel comfortable with someone romantically.
So like if I were to meet a woman, you know, the first night, I wouldn't want to have sex with her.
I'd want to get to know her a little bit to feel comfortable emotionally.
Okay.
Doug MPI, I feel like you have something to say about this.
I don't understand the whole pansexual, demisexual thing.
I just think that people, we're just so far removed from hardship.
You know, I wish that there was a straight up ground conflict.
You know what I'm saying?
That men would have to get drafted into war, or there's some kind of famine, or freaking zombies would rise from the grave.
I'm dead serious.
We need some walking dead up in here because every time I hear demisexual, pansexual, all this spectrum garbage, it's just like, what I'm not singling you out, Stat, but it's just like, come on, man.
Like, what?
I mean, I get what you're saying.
And a civil war would absolutely make women value men more.
Because all the girl boss feminists, the second there's a civil war will just sprint to the nearest man and hide behind him and say, save me.
Just like they did in Ukraine.
So that's one good question.
It's the question.
Is the nearest man her husband or a boyfriend or the other team?
She's going behind either.
I mean, it's probably the strongest looking simp in her roster.
Yeah, probably.
Probably.
Is there anyone else on the line, Doug MPA?
Yeah.
I'm a Jane.
You can keep him up, but we could just bring another person.
Okay, I'm going to give Calvy another chance.
Calvy, you better have your stuff ready.
Because Calvy, you're on mute still.
There you go.
All right, there you go.
Hey, Calvy, how's it going?
Hey, it's going good.
So I'll start at first.
Sure.
So where do you drop your girlfriend or your wife?
I'm on mute that YouTube first.
Can y'all still hear me?
I can hear you.
You're good.
Okay, where do you drop off your girlfriend or your wife to be babysat?
Or that you've noticed?
Not, well, actually, I don't have to.
And because one of my relationships I had, I didn't have to.
But I did notice some of my friends that they've had problems and they've had like, you know, these similar things.
To start off, I literally, before I put on the mic, I had just started watching and y'all were live.
So I didn't even know what y'all subject was.
And I rewinded it all the way to the beginning because we're originally- Okay, okay.
I need you to get to the answer, okay?
Okay.
Yeah, it's just like, to be honest, it depends on what the woman is and how she is.
And depends on how much she likes you.
It's how they're going to act.
Because I've like they can be childish, but it's mostly due to the person they're with, how much they like them or how much they respect them or how much time they've been with them with their tendencies and stuff being like that.
Because the girl I was with, I never had any of those problems.
She liked me.
I could talk to her about anything.
We basically had, you know, sex whenever she was very.
Where is she now?
Where'd she go?
I'm not with her anymore.
She had multiple kids and stuff.
And I don't know what that was.
She just had kind of a baby or the child's like one or two and stuff.
I didn't want to pursue it and stuff.
So I just let it go.
Okay.
So, but you didn't have to have her.
I mean, she had like three kids.
Of course, you didn't have to babysit her.
She had to babysit someone else.
You know what I'm saying?
Or whatever, the multiple.
Yeah.
So, I mean, but have you, so have you ever had to drop off a woman to be babysat somewhere?
Like her mother's or friend?
Like when you just need time away, never.
Brunch on Sunday.
No, another one.
Brunch on Sunday.
Brunch.
Yeah, that's a good one.
Go ahead.
I've had my friend who had a crazy, crazy girlfriend, and I've had to pick him up.
He would call me, say, come get me, come get me because she's acting crazy and stuff.
I had to go pick him up.
And he literally complained about how crazy he was.
Now, I hadn't had to have him drop her off, but I've had to come get him because the girlfriend's crazy wanted to just slip out of there.
He slipped out of there while she was asleep.
So I've dad had those times.
It's this same girl.
I've had it twice where I had to tell him, hey, just get rid of the girl and find somebody else.
You can get any woman you want.
Just get somebody else.
No, the girl, this is a funny story.
The girl that he was with, that he was crazy and stuff.
You know what I did?
This is what I did.
I was like, Dan, I mean, I was like, hey, just let me have her.
Just give her to me because he was dating her.
He was messing with her.
And I was like, why don't you just hand her off to me?
I'll do it.
Because the girl was hot and stuff.
And he was like, you wanted to do this, blah, blah, blah.
I said, just give her to me.
They ended up breaking up later because we talk about it all the time.
He would stay with me and we would talk about multiple girls all the time.
It's like, like, why don't you hook me up with one of them?
This girl later on, she would like, because we were friends.
He was friends.
He was messing with her.
We knew it.
And blah, blah, blah.
And I was like, why don't you, she had called like, no, she has messaged me to do a drawing for her.
And she paid me commission to draw her picture of her.
Would you really want to clean up after one of your friends, bro?
It's a long story.
It's not that you said a yes.
Would I clean up after?
Oh, you mean would I clean up after him?
Yeah, at that time, yeah.
He just wants at that time, yeah.
He just wants a turn because I didn't mind.
I was like, I wanted to like, how crazy is she?
I want to see, I want to, I basically wanted somebody to have fun with.
Okay.
Well, thanks for calling in.
I appreciate it.
You know, I just thought I think guys should either, if they are looking to drop a girl off, they should drop her off at like a fitness class, like a solo cycle class.
And then, you know, have like a flaming gay instructor guy just yell at her saying, pedal faster, you're going to lose the weight.
I know, but then the women complain and they get the hot guy to run through them.
I was at Lifetime today and I'm like looking at this.
I don't really do the classes because I kind of like to do my own thing, but I saw this class going and I'm looking and it's just this like jacked instructor with like 20, probably 32 plus year old women.
And I'm like, I bet he's running through that class.
Yeah, he is.
Yeah, I mean, I bet he's had to agree with that.
Yeah.
I'm going to put the classes the way to go.
I've noticed that if we're at all the gyms, that the level of attraction of the trainers, both men and women, but especially the guys, I think they've kind of cued in that they have to like make the men hot to get the women.
Because sometimes you walk into a gym and it's just these model guys at the front desk.
And I'm like, I think that's like the, I think this is marketing.
I think they've kind of figured it out.
Well, yeah.
And remember, the whole male gays thing, they've, I mean, we're going to do a show on the reign of the mids in Hollywood.
Oh, yeah.
But that hasn't changed for men.
In fact, women are more altruistic now more than ever.
Like they're looking for looks and the primal one from a men now more than ever.
So it would benefit every establishment to have a six foot tall, attractive, have six foot tall, attractive men in there.
Now more than ever.
Yeah.
100%.
Yeah.
I mean, it's the same thing as like a busty waitress, right?
Like that you're just going to get the same level of tips, but like, you know, obviously in gym memberships for girls signing up for classes that they never actually are going to complete.
If I was selling to women, I would just go find the Giga Chads and like put them there.
I mean, that's kind of what I did for recruiting women to go on my show is I would just find either get like there's a male model who, who would get me women, or sometimes it would just be guys that like were in an industry like a DJ or like a club promoter, but it would always be guys that were pretty good with women.
I'd get them to recruit for my show and I'd pay them.
So I'm like you're running through them anyway.
You might as well send them to me after.
I mean you're you know if you're dating a hundred women a year or 50, whatever it is.
It's like I mean send, send a few to my show, why not?
Um, is there anyone?
Anyone else on the line or no?
James, are you there?
He's on mute, he's talking this.
Someone else?
Um, what?
Why don't you see?
Because I'm thinking about it I've never really seen a gay personal trainer at a gym.
They're all.
No, I've never seen it.
Good looking headers, just you know, I don't know.
That's just yeah.
I mean, I've worked as a personal trainer and, like yo, it's drop your girl off central, like I did it when I was in college.
I'm about.
I'm about let's see 30 now.
So it was about five years ago.
So like yeah bro, and they know what they're getting when they come in there.
Like, like I'm 6'3, like 230, been in the gym since I was 13.
I don't know what it is like.
They will just come up to you at that point and they make it easy.
I'm gonna be honest, I have more married.
The amount of married, oh my god, the amount of married women.
It's insane that come up to me in there like, and they be playing, like they not married they, they won't say nothing about it.
You, you'll be at the crib and that's all you know.
You know what it do you know what?
Do you know what?
I think it's easy.
I've heard it's easier to sleep with married women than it is single women, because I think single single women are looking for their next boyfriend or their next husband.
So you know the requirements.
But here, but like I, I think when you're the side dude, you just have to have one thing that the husband doesn't have.
That's what i've heard.
I'll do you one better.
It's easier to sleep with married women if you're married yourself i'll.
Do you have more to lose?
Yeah you, you have more to lose.
Yeah, i'll agree with that.
I'll do one even better.
I'll say it's easier to sleep with divorced women with kids than a married woman, than a single woman.
Oh yeah, that that post divorce, that post divorce hoe phase is.
Yeah that's, That's a good thing in the crib.
Do you know what?
Especially if they married young.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
Those women make up for a lot.
That's why.
No, do you know what?
That's why I was talking to someone today about like body count.
And I'm not saying it doesn't matter, but I'm like, you know, here's the problem.
A lot of times the women that don't catch up young, it's like they're post-divorce.
They go fucking bat shit.
Why?
Like, oh my God, I've seen too much.
I don't know if I told you this story, but the first, my first office job, this woman was in her 40s and she got married in her early 20s and she divorced her husband.
And she was the first person I knew that was on Plenty of Fish, aka Plenty of Whales.
This is back in 2009.
And we sat in like a quad cube area where it was four people in one big cubicle with like a big table in the middle because we all worked on this similar project.
And she would meet people online and just do all sorts of craziness on the weekends.
And every Monday, we'd all get our coffee and she'd turn her chair around and just tell us about all the hoarding she did on Plenty of Fish.
If they married young, oh my God, they make up for it after.
100% true.
If they feel like they missed out on their youth, it's like the 32-year-old divorced women go nuts.
Wait, who is the?
I can't see because of the tech issue.
So I don't know who's the new guy on the panel.
Oh, oh, James.
James, it was yesterday.
Oh, okay.
I recognize the voice.
James, what?
Where do you drop your wife or your girlfriend off when she needs to be babysat?
Yeah, shit.
Let's see.
Because I've never been married, but I've had a lot of exes.
So have you ever lived with a woman before?
Oh, yeah.
I've had them live.
I've had them live at my house.
I've lived with them there.
The girl you live with, where do you have to drop her off to give a babysat for a couple of hours?
I'm trying to think because I would just distract them.
Like, I'm not going to lie.
Like, I always had a business where I could do it on the computer and most of my chicks just would stay in the house and they'd be pretty chill about it.
I don't know.
Like, oh, brunch on Sundays, Target, Marshalls.
Yeah, I would say like brunch on Sunday with their girlfriends.
I drop them off.
They get sauced for like four hours.
And it's just like them at whatever place in like Hoboken because I lived in like North Jersey.
So whatever place in like Hoboken they want to go to gets sauced and then you come pick them up like four or five hours later, drive them home and let them pass out on the bed.
And you're like, all right, whatever.
As long as it's on Sunday, so I can watch all the games.
I've always said my worst fear is dating a guy that's really into sports.
I really don't want to watch sports.
Yeah, I think no boyfriend I've ever had has ever been really into sports.
Go ahead.
I'm going to run a scenario by everyone on the panel.
You, it's Sunday.
You want to watch football.
You want to play video games.
And your girl says, I'm bored.
Let's do something.
And now you already have something planned.
You're going to play video games or you're going to play football.
But she says, I'm bored.
Let's do something.
And you say, okay, well, let's go get something to eat.
And she's like, well, I don't want to do.
No, you say, what do you want to do?
And she says, I don't know, figure something.
And you're thinking to yourself, I already have something to do.
But she's like, well, I want us to do something.
And then you start, then you do the thing where you start naming things off.
And she's, I don't want to eat there.
Think there's nothing else.
I don't want to go there.
I think I have something else.
And she's making you do that stupid thing where you can't do what you want to do because she wants to do something together.
but then she wants you to think it up and she keeps rejecting everything that you think of.
How do you deal with that situation?
Yeah, I mean, I can answer that.
Like you, you don't want to do what you kind of explained, which is what most guys do, which is we think very logically because that's how we would say it to another guy.
And the reality is, you know, a lot of women, they don't really want to hear that.
Like, so you kind of have to change it around and turn it around on them.
You got to be a little manipulative and you got to be like.
You're hurting my feelings.
Like, you just don't care about me.
Like, I just need some alone time.
Like, you got to be more like that and make them feel guilty.
And then they'll kind of go away and they'll like feel like they're being punished for trying to get you to do what they want.
You know what I mean?
But if you keep listing counterfactuals and like points about how you're addressing what they want, like that's not really what they want.
They're just looking to like get a rise out of you because in their minds, exchanging emotion is really what lets them know they're connected to you.
So they kind of shit test you that way.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Elsa, I want to read the super chat.
Can we talk about childish behavior beyond the specific one in question?
Maybe we could do a show.
Actually, I was planning on doing a show on something similar to that.
So I'll save it for then.
Is there someone new on the panel, you said?
No, no, no.
I'm just going around the panel.
Strat, go ahead.
Yeah.
So in this hypothetical, I have plans to do something and she wants to hang out.
Yeah, you definitely don't do the whole, well, let's go here.
No, I don't want to do that.
This is a shit test.
She wants you to be a leader.
It's like, imagine you're employee or she's your employee and you're the boss.
The boss doesn't like ask his employees, oh, do you guys want to go do Waffle House?
He just says, we're going to Waffle House.
Everyone get ready and let's go.
So it's got to be that kind of a feeling where you are just leading the way and you're suggesting it and you're not asking her for permission to do what you want to do.
So that's the first thing is hold your frames very strongly.
If I already had plans to do something that night, I would just say, I have plans tonight, but maybe we can do something Sunday, you know, something like that.
And then, hey, let's go dancing on Sunday.
That sounds like fun, right?
I don't ask her, you know, could you please come dancing with me?
No, no.
She should be lucky that she's, I'm asking her to go dancing, right?
So that's the frame I'm holding.
And if that's not good enough for her, if she bites back at all, I just say, well, if that's not okay with it, I'm sure there's another guy out there that'll take you somewhere.
You want to go?
And I just leave the door.
I'm like, there's the door.
You don't like it?
There's the door.
And I'm not going to sit here and like back and forth.
And that's not good enough for her.
Yada, yada, yada.
I'm good enough for her or there's the door.
That's the end of it.
So are you one of those people where if you have a Sunday plan, let's say you want to play video games or something like that, would you just not would you not invite her over if she's the type to do that?
Or would you are you one of those people where you wouldn't have a problem with saying, look, I have something planned today.
You're over here.
And if you don't like it, just leave.
She wouldn't be at my house if I didn't invite her.
No, but let's say she's the type of girl where you know she's that type where if she doesn't feel like you guys are doing anything, she gets bored and will try to compromise your plans.
Do you stand?
Do you just not let her over?
Yeah, I wouldn't let her at my house.
What are you doing here?
I didn't invite you.
Yeah, you got to make sure I'm available for you to come to my house.
That's unacceptable for her to just show up on my doorstep unannounced.
You got to be like the boss, right?
These women are employees.
You're the boss.
They're children.
You need to instruct the child on what's appropriate behavior.
And if she does something inappropriate, you correct her on that immediately and then you punish her by sending her home.
Cool.
So I'm going to push back on what Stratt just said.
I think he is right as far as if you don't live with that girl.
That is 100% true.
You can always be like, the door is over there and you can go back to your place and I can be on my own.
Now, that being said, when you live with this girl, things are going to be a lot different.
And I can tell you that for sure.
Like, especially if you're dealing with a very emotional, immature girl, because you do it the first time.
Okay, she goes to her room or whatever it is.
But enough times, you're going to deal with a very unpleasant, very resentful girl in your own house.
And it's going to feel like your house just turned into a hell.
Never guarantee her.
Why would you put up with that?
I would never, I would not invite someone to my house to live with me unless I knew they were mature already.
Well, you think that from the get-go, and then she starts living with you, and then she starts changing on you.
Oh, and then it's ultimately.
I'd like to interject on that.
I'd like to interject on that real quick.
I think you're right on that.
100%.
Because if you frame yourself as a man where you're not going to put up with this shit off the rip, I'm talking like when you first meet her, you give her that first impression.
You ain't dealing with it.
You're probably never going to deal with a girl that's going to be crazy on that level.
That's why, like, I was even saying yesterday, it's all how you frame yourself from the beginning, the first interaction.
So, like, if she thinks she can get over on you down the road, psychologically, they're going to just try it because humans are predispositioned to just take a little bit more of a risk, take a little bit more of it, and they're going to do that.
But if they look at you as, oh, I can't take a risk on him like that.
I can't, you know, I'm going to respect him and respect what he does, they're going to do it because they look at you as an authoritative figure.
Like, that goes back to the thing of like, oh, yeah, some girls look at you like you're a dad.
Well, I've dated girls where their dads are MMA athletes.
Like they have, they run a bank.
Like they're guys that have either high-paying jobs and are well-respected in what they do.
So it kind of like reflects on me because I'm like, wow, that's her dad.
And she respects her dad like that.
She must respect me like that because that's the frame that I pushed out.
Because I don't want a girl that's going to disrespect me.
I don't want a girl that's going to be at the house arguing with me.
I dealt with that one time.
I X'd her out so quick that I was like, yo, the door is right there.
And if you ain't at it in five seconds, the cops will be here in 20 minutes.
So if you want to yell at me like that, I'm not dealing with it.
So you got to be like that.
Like he said, they got to be like employees.
I remember I was dating like five chicks at one time and they all knew about each other because I was treating them well with respect.
And I was telling them, look, like I am dating a lot of other girls because like, you know, you guys are actually pretty decent.
So it actually caused them to step their game.
They weren't fucking up.
They were getting me shit.
They were doing stuff for me.
So it's how you frame it.
Wait, who won?
Did any of them win?
Did you end up dating one of them or like?
Oh, yeah, one-one.
One-one.
What made her win?
What was what was the fact that she was smarter than the rest of the girl, like intellectually smarter?
Like she was studying to be an aerospace engineer at NASA.
So at that point, I was like, yeah, she came from, I'll say her family background was pretty bad.
And it was, she was Indian and her dad was extremely racist.
And that was why I did not continue dating her.
But she would come over and cook.
She would go to the gym.
She was fit.
She was feminine.
She did, and she knew it.
She knew like, oh, I have to be a certain way because he wants me to portray a certain image to be with him.
She knew she was like the first girl that knew how many other girls there were.
And I remember she goes, like, oh, yeah, I know you're with other girls and I'm not like freaking out about it because why wouldn't there be other girls coming after you?
Because you do all the things that I desire.
You don't even give me money.
She's like, you just do all of the things a man should do for a woman.
And I could just feel that and understand that.
So I feel comfortable with you.
I feel comfortable with you even having other girls and being all right with it because I know you're not going to do anything to give me into disease or anything.
Because I was taking a lot of precautions and she saw that.
So that's why she won because she was more sensible than the other girls.
I could see myself dating her long term.
Yeah.
That was why.
Yeah.
Cool.
Well, I think, is there anyone else on the line, Doug MPA?
Nope.
That's it.
Okay, why don't we I think we're going to end a little early tonight because of the tech.
Like, I wanted to react to some stuff, but I, yeah, I think we're just going to close it.
So, um, thanks for calling in, guys.
If you wanted to stay, if you have any channels, feel free to shout them out now.
Anyone?
Uh, tax man on Instagram, tax man on, tax man33 on, I think on TikTok and I think on uh Twitter right now.
I'm getting that together.
Cool.
We're not going to follow.
All right.
Thanks, guys, for calling in.
Have a good one, Sean.
Take care.
It was a pleasure.
Yeah, thanks for calling in, guys.
Yeah, this was a good topic.
I just, I guess I can end with saying brunch.
That's a good one, brunch.
Yeah, that was that one creeps up on you.
Because when you, I think Sean said bars earlier, women, they don't go to, I don't think women go to bars like they did back in the day.
I think brunch has replaced women going to bars.
Trivia nights?
That would require women to actually think.
That was funny.
All right.
All right.
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I think we might do a reaction tomorrow or something.
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Doug NPA, you got any other final thoughts?
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