Hannah Pearl Davis dissects The Hill’s claim that men are obsolete, citing 74% of divorces initiated by women and men’s disproportionate losses in custody, housing, and "deaths of despair." Callers—Doug, Peter Paul, Brad, Sean—share stories of sexless marriages, gaslighting, and female infidelity, reinforcing red pill theory’s critique of modern gender dynamics. Ultimately, she argues conservative women’s denial of male sexual needs fuels marital breakdowns, suggesting men must prioritize partners who align with their biological drives or risk societal irrelevance. [Automatically generated summary]
So there's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.
Do we need men?
Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
It's a different world now.
Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
The future is female.
Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
You've kind of got the TradCon versus Red Pill thing.
This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
Oh, you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
It's Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Gee, what could go wrong there?
74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
You need no evidence.
When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
I interviewed them on the other side.
I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
How much did you spend trying to get him back?
The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
Before you know it, you're homeless.
You're literally just thrown out into the street.
We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
Family is the foundation of society.
Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
A lot of women will just chase this negative rapid hole of happiness, endless happiness.
Feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women.
We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
We tell them to put off family into marriage.
You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
Oh, freeze rich, have an abortion.
What?
You're evil.
I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
It's self-sabotage.
That's the thing.
Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
This is not about happiness.
The most important thing is the children.
And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me.
My feelings leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
Where's my male privilege?
They think, well, men have all the rights.
They have all the power.
Privilege patriarchal system that we have.
Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
Men are alone in this situation.
Men are homeless.
Men are thinking about eating guns.
I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
Culture is telling men, you are no good.
You gotta get your act together.
I think men have failed themselves.
What kind of a man are you?
What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
If men are in trouble, so are women.
Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
500K, 500, 300K, 300K, 200K.
Am I crazy?
Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
So, you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
Women.
I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
I'm over it.
When is it going to be my turn?
Where are we meeting the men that don't?
I can't keep having these same conversations.
The only simp here is you, Pearl.
You sent for women.
I think you sent for women.
She's a provocateur.
She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
It's already happening.
It's just not out in the open yet.
Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
Going to population decline and our economy goes into decline.
Civilization will crumble.
The American story does not end well.
This is an existential crisis, failing young men.
What is up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Thank you guys so much for tuning in.
You could bring in your time and attention anywhere and you choose to bring it in here.
So thank you all so much for that.
Today, we're going to be talking about Lila Rose.
She's blowing up Twitter for a stupid take.
Now, Lila Rose, she came onto my channel.
And I got to be honest, I am not a fan of women that use religion for clout.
I'm not.
I'm not.
It just, there's something about women posting pictures of them praying that makes me think there must be something wrong with you.
You know.
So, anyways, but before we do that, we have a couple stories that we want to go through.
And the first is I kind of wanted to weigh in on this back and forth between Nick and Candace.
I don't say his last name here for a plausible deniability.
But I do, I do like to show the back and forth.
So apparently, Nick, Candace, and now Milo is jumping in.
I'm a fan of Milo.
I used to be a fan of Candace, and when she apologizes to Crowder, I may turn.
I may offer you my friendship.
Maybe.
But as of now, I need a Crowder apology.
I'm going to need that.
So I think they're saying Nick's a fed.
Now, when I hear that somebody is a fed or works for the CIA or whatever, I don't really give a lot of credence to those allegations generally because they just sound a little bit conspiracy theory to me.
But what I thought was so interesting is I'm always looking at social dynamics and how people are socializing.
And by the way, this is not to say that I don't do women things at times.
I always try to make that clear in my shows.
I am not without sin, but I do enjoy analyzing this stuff.
I do.
I do, and I can't stop.
I know they're going to crucify me for it, but I can't.
I can't.
I just think it's so, I have too much fun.
I really do.
I'd like to come in and say I'm like this trad E girl.
I'm just like, you know, but we know I'm not, we know I'm, you know.
But there's better women than me to look up to, but I am very good at analyzing the patterns.
And one pattern that I noticed when I was doing my divorce documentary is women are just evil when it comes to reputation destruction.
And not only did I experience this when I did my divorce documentary, but also in my own personal life.
Now, I've always been kind of weird.
I've been weird from a young age.
I've just been a little bit odd.
I think you guys find it entertaining, but let's just, I've never really been like a normal person.
My whole family, we're all kind of like this.
We're all just kind of odd people.
We have one or two that are normal and one of 10.
But we're all just kind of odd people.
Like we just kind of think a little bit different.
This isn't always a good thing.
Now, when I was young, I've always been right-leaning.
I know a lot of women grift conservatism.
But I'll tell you what, I think I'm a conservative in my bones because I grew up and I went to, I met Sarah Palin when I was 12.
I like went to go see her speak.
I did pro-life stuff.
My mom used to take me to.
Whenever I'm in the news or just, you know, crashing out or whatever, I always am thinking, mom, you created this monster.
Because, you know, I just was political from, I loved watching debates.
I loved watching YouTube.
I love this stuff.
It's so fun.
I just have like the greatest of time doing it.
I really do.
So, you know, anyways, one thing I have noticed, and I've even noticed this in my own speech.
Like, I'll say something and I'm like, God, am I nagging today?
I'm like, God.
And I'll look at myself and I'll be like, such a bit, what a bitch.
You know, we're all bitches to some extent.
So, Candace, she says, I am.
So, as you guys know, Nick went on to Candace's show.
And Candace could have been a political commentator, right?
A very serious journalist and asked Nick about things that mattered.
Now, I think as commentators, we all have to know that to some extent, we are going to talk trash on a podcast.
Look, there are things that I have said on a podcast that would be very awkward to say to someone's face.
It really would, you know, like Candace Owens, she's analyzing the Blake Lively drama.
She did that for a couple weeks.
If Blake and Ryan Reynolds were in front of her, I just can't imagine that she would act like, you know, if she saw them in the grocery store, she'd probably be polite.
I don't know if it would be fake, right?
But you're going to be polite if you see somebody in person.
You're going to give them a chance.
But we are doing talk shows here.
And I think some of the rules of engagement is you really just got to have thick skin and know that people are going to talk trash.
I mean, that's life, right?
You know, I get a lot of stuff thrown my way and I just have to deal with it.
It's all right.
You know, and so when Candace had Nick on her show, instead of talking about the issue, she just starts to grill him and nag him personally.
And we just have two defaults: it's like nagging.
It's like nagging your behavior to gaslighting.
And that's really what she did the whole interview.
She's like nagging, I don't like the way you treat this person.
I don't like the way you treat this person.
And gaslighting, you said this when he didn't say that, or it was out of context.
So she said, I am honestly in awe about how much Nick has lied to you.
Yeah.
Interrupt, but it's not broadcasting on YouTube.
Oh, we're not going on YouTube?
Yeah.
Oh, no.
I was cooking.
I send a message to the guys.
Hopefully they fix it.
But yeah.
So it's not broadcasting on YouTube.
Okay.
Thanks, Doug.
I had to find my microphone cords.
Sorry because I was traveling.
That's all right.
Let me go on to the.
Oh, I just went up now.
That's that's weird, but we're live now.
Okay, all right, what up, guys?
Um, I'm sorry to the YouTube chat.
You guys are gonna have to rehear this because for some reason, yeah, I see it now, it's good.
Okay, all right, so um, today we're oh my god, I was, I was cooking so you guys don't understand.
Oh, that's so sad.
All right, first, first, I want to say thank you to everybody that donated to the divorce documentary last show.
Um, we got an anonymous donation of $59, an anonymous donation of $10, one, $50.
So, thank you guys.
We're at $37,122.
We want to get to $100K, hopefully by the end of the year.
So, if you guys do want to donate, please go to the GoFundMe that is in the description.
Oh, my gosh.
Ah, I was cooking so hard.
I'm going to have to cook it.
I was free.
You guys don't understand the level of like, like sometimes you're just making magic.
It's like a musician.
Like, sometimes you'll put together music.
And then I find out, oh, oh, I got to redo it.
Okay.
Hey, guys, like the video on your way in.
You know.
All right.
I had such a good transition.
I'm mourning this.
I really am.
I'm mourning.
I'm in a state of mourning.
All right.
So what's up, guys?
Welcome to the show.
Thank you for bringing your time and attention here.
Today, we are going to be first going over the drama between Nick and Candace.
So as you guys know, Nick, I don't say his last name here because he gets me in trouble, but I do enjoy watching the drama go down on Twitter.
So I was one of the first to have Nick on my show.
And I want to tell you guys the backstory of how I had him on my show.
I didn't really know too much about him, but I saw like two clips, thought he was funny, and was like, come on the show.
Now, I know this is, you probably don't believe me, and I think that's pretty fair.
You're like, how would you not know?
I knew he was controversial for sure, but I didn't know too much of the backstory.
Just thought I'd have him on.
But when I had him on, I didn't really understand.
Everyone just seemed to spurg out over him.
You know, I'm not going to go into all the details of this, but I always thought he was a good faith, you know, actor.
But it's really interesting watching women spurg over him.
It's just not going to be, I just can't even remember what I said.
It's like gone.
All right, we're going to do a quick reaction while I gather myself.
I just, when I get like, when I'm going and I get, ah, I'm going, I'm going crazy.
Okay.
So let me, I kind of wanted to react to this, like, the alienated, um, the alien, anti-alienation project, because she brought her dad on.
So this is a girl I've had on my show before, and her dad was like alienated from her.
So I think the dad's actually coming forward now, and she was a victim of the silver bullet divorce.
We're going to watch this before we get into the topic, and then I'll regather and we'll go through it.
I'm sorry, guys.
Madison and I had an awesome relationship.
Perspective of your family dynamic and like kind of how you see how you got here.
Because I've heard a lot about what Maddie has shared, and Maddie shared a lot on her channel.
But I'm curious from your perspective, you know, how this all came to play for you.
And what was the aha moment you had in like understanding what was going on in your family?
All right.
So my take on it would be first to say that Madison and I had an awesome relationship when she was young.
I would say all the way through maybe six or seven years old.
We did a lot together and it was just great.
I think Madison loved me and I loved her and we both loved spending time together.
We did a lot of activities together and we had a lot of one-on-one time and we all had a lot of also group activities.
We participated in it in a couple of programs, went to dances together, stuff like that.
Right.
But as her mom and I started, as our relationship.
And by the way, her mother was a TradCon woman.
So if you think the TradCon, the conservative women are better, they're not.
They're just as crazy.
Sour.
So yeah, I had the daughter, Maddie, on my show where I've seen her con, I think I reacted to her videos.
She basically, as an adult, found out her mom alienated her from her dad.
So she hated her dad for years just to find out it was all a lie.
So this is her like waking up.
I think there was a my impression is that her mom really started clinging to Madison.
You know what I mean?
Kind of, kind of, let's be a team and this is, this is our side, kind of.
And, you know, and then it's dad and the boys.
And I feel like it turned into that type of dynamic a little bit in our family, where it was dad's got the boys.
You know, she's got four little brothers.
Right.
We're all huge grown-ups now.
But I think our family dynamic changed to that where her mom kind of really kind of clung to Madison.
My perspective would be influenced Madison to spend less time with me or to, you know, think she wasn't supposed to spend more time with me or have much of a relationship with me.
That's kind of the, that's my perspective on it.
Got it.
I don't know if I had an aha moment per se.
I don't know.
It was kind of gradual.
But yeah, just even when we were still all living under the same roof, it had definitely started to where Madison and I had kind of grown apart a little bit.
Yeah, because what'll happen is the mothers, like, we just can't take as women negative information.
So, and we're going to see this with the Candace and Nick debacle.
I'm going to gather myself and we'll go through it.
It's just, I was cooking so hard, guys.
You don't understand.
And it's like, you can't, yeah.
But the Madison, yeah.
So we're going to, Madison, a lot of times the mothers will for years be in the daughter's ear, right?
So our relationship wasn't anything like it used to be.
Is it okay if I ask some like hard, harder questions?
Sure.
Are you okay with that?
Are you okay with that, Maddie?
Yeah.
Okay.
So I'm curious when that started to happen.
If you could go back to that time, were you like, okay, it's like I, I guess me and the boys and mom and Madison.
Like, I'm curious what was going on for you, like from an emotional or even like a mental perspective.
Like, what were your thoughts when that was happening?
Like, this is normal.
This isn't normal.
There's nothing I can do.
What can I do?
What did you do?
I'm actually really, I don't know.
Like, I don't know what was going on.
So I'm curious from how you felt sense that you had when all that was happening.
Yeah, I actually don't know the answer to this either.
I'm curious to hear.
I just think I was so overwhelmed with our marital relationship going bad that I let that just totally consume everything else, kind of.
And you know what I mean?
I did not devote the necessary time to my relationship with Madison that I needed to at that time because I was just overwhelmed with our marital relationship.
And you know what I mean?
So disappointed in it.
And all I could think about was just bad.
It's just horrible.
Got it.
Thank you for sharing that.
That's very common.
That's very common.
One of the things.
So that's what the women do.
They overreact.
And the guy is like trying to calm down this overreacting woman.
You know, the biggest mistake men make is reacting to the reaction.
They got to figure out how to like just ignore it all.
It's so unfortunate.
I say to people all the time, I say this to kids that I recover.
I'm like, when your parents go through a divorce, you know, your whole world is turned upside down, but their whole world is also turned upside down because they established a relationship and they were expecting until death to us part.
And then when the relationship ends, it blows up and the parents toss all their parenting skills out the window and they are like destabilized.
And they're like, what is going on in this, the relationship here?
And they forget sometimes.
It's like, not that they forget they have kids because they're all around them, right?
But they forget emotionally.
It's like all the things that are going on in the spousal relationship.
And then when they're like, oh, wait a second, I'm also a parent and I have all these littles I'm responsible for, especially when you're dealing with pathology within a family or this family dynamic, when you start to find your footing again, one or some or all of the children get lost in the shuffle.
And that's actually very, very common.
And the kids internalize that.
Like, I've done, I'm the bad one.
And then if you have devoted so much energy and I was always torn the last couple of years between, is this worth fighting for?
You know, good people and good parents.
And when this happens, there's a lot of shame and guilt that comes along with this family dynamic being a targeted parent.
And it's like trying to find your footing again.
And every time, like, you'll hear the women's side about these like abusive dads and all this stuff.
And then the dads will come forward and they're just like these chill guys.
Like it's just these guys that are just like chilling, you know.
And a lot of people sort of don't do anything for a long time because it, because it's embarrassing and it's shameful.
And you feel all of these things and you don't, and you also don't know what to do.
It's true.
It's true.
I mean, I devoted so much energy and I was always torn the last couple of years between, is this worth fighting for?
You know, and so much energy went into trying to make it better.
Yeah.
And then when it was when, then when you would have, you know, downslides, just kind of suffering through that.
And it was just, it was overwhelming.
It was, it was just, it was hard to compartmentalize that.
And they said they're chill because the crazy women are no longer in their life.
Yeah.
And that's the thing.
Like we, women will drive you to insanity.
Yeah.
Like, I just, I think you'll go crazy.
Oh my gosh.
Sometimes I'll say things and I'm like, I'm doing it too.
You know, it's like, we just, we just, our nature is like chaos.
I really believe it.
And deal with the other aspects of your life.
And I know for a fact the kids got left behind a little bit in that regard.
I can feel the emotion of it.
It's like, I feel it like bubbling up.
Like, it's like, I haven't thought about this in a while.
And it's a lot.
Yeah.
And you're a little in the hot seat.
So I call it the love seat.
You're in the love seat, although it might feel a little hot.
It is a little warm.
But one thing I've always been thankful for, and I just continue every day to be thankful for, is how truly great our relationship was when Madison was little.
Yeah.
Because I've always felt that that has that kind of sustained things.
Even I feel like there was something, you know, down, way down.
That's why the women always love the cheating men so much is because when they cheat, it's like that gives the women the drama.
So then they don't make drama.
You know what I mean?
They can just like cheat, you know, and get mad and then forgive them.
And then it's like the up and downs, then you're in love.
But then when the men are just like chill guys, the women have to make up stuff to like feed the victim mark, you know.
Deep in the bottom of Madison's heart that always told her, wait a minute, you know, I think the gap, you're saying the nagging's the worst.
I think it's the gaslighting because you almost think you're going to go crazy.
And that's what I saw Candace on the timeline with Nick.
I'm like, and I'm going to get into this story.
But I just saw her trying to drive a man crazy.
And I'm like, this is why men, this is why they go insane is because you'll say something and you think it's true, right?
But then when there's this crazy reaction, you're like, did I, am I in the wrong?
You know, because you project yourself onto them.
You're like, I would only react like that if somebody said something crazy.
Maybe I'm in the wrong.
And then, you know, that's what happens.
Yeah, it's actually a good person.
He's not a bad person.
And maybe I should, you know, I don't think Madison ever truly gave up on me.
Yeah.
I think it's just because we were so good when she was young.
You know, we were, you know, Madison and I just kind of, I don't know, it's hard to explain.
We're, I don't know, I feel like our personalities, I don't know, we just mesh really well.
You're bonded.
Yeah, I've always felt that.
Always felt that.
That beautiful bond between a parent and a child is never ever broken.
It just gets tucked below the surface for safekeeping.
And when it starts to come up to the surface and they're still in the dynamic, they like push it down, push it down.
And yeah, so her story is kind of crazy.
She was in a silver bullet divorce.
So that's essentially when the dad comes home and he's kicked out of the house with a restraining order.
And this is like a Catholic woman.
So he's like kicked out of the house.
And it's just interesting.
Cause I've heard she reconnected with her dad as an adult.
And I've heard this story for a while.
So I just saw it premiering and I'm like, well, I want to see.
I want to see what she's, she said she didn't find like piece this all together until she was an adult, you know, but it's never ever broken.
It's always there.
So you're right that those early days are the things that create and establish that bond and that unconditional love that's shared between the two of you was always there and it was never broken.
And for parents listening to this, I know I say this all the time.
And I'm like, you know, don't lose hope and always fight because it is worth it.
And it's very easy to get into your own.
It's almost like the more we say something isn't true, the more it is true.
I think that's our nature.
Like place of stuckness, right?
It's like, you know, does she still love me?
And it's like, do you still love her?
Right.
And it's like, of course, right?
That love that you have.
I can see it.
It's like it radiates off of you.
And, you know, it just does.
And that really special father-daughter bond.
And she's your only daughter.
So, of course, you know, daddy's a little girl.
Yeah, it's just different.
I'll tell you something really cool also: is that now that Madison has daughters of her own, we love spending time with her girls.
And I see Madison in them.
That's such a cool part.
Like, he's so happy.
How could you say he's an abusive monster?
It's like women.
Well, they'll have a dad like this and then somehow find a way to complain.
Like, look at him.
You could see his face like lights up talking about his daughter.
Joe Rogan does follow me on Twitter.
That was a pretty cool moment.
He does follow me.
So yeah.
They'll say things and they'll think things and their nuances.
You know, I was like, gosh, this is just like Madison was when she was six years old.
Oh, it's weird.
I want to skip a little.
And in her world, that was, you know, I guess it kind of made sense.
You know, I don't know if I know everything, but I think I know most.
Maddie, do you want to ask him a question?
I've never seen Madison be so quiet.
I know.
Okay.
He did not invite me on the show.
I just saw he followed, and I'm like, ooh, maybe I'll get an invite someday.
I think part of the reason why I wanted to do this is because I know that my, I always say that my dad is like a half, a glass, half full person every single day of his life, very positive guy.
And I appreciate that.
And I think I get the sense that whenever I try to talk about something that happened in the past or whenever I'm stuck in the past, which I often or have been, that my dad tries to help me move forward.
And I appreciate that.
But I feel like there has been a little bit of a lack of understanding about why it's been so hard for me to move forward.
Yeah.
I'm the type person that I guess I just don't like dealing with hurtful things if I don't have to.
Yeah, because they're just better people than us.
They just want to move on.
Women, we want to fight it out forever.
They just want to move on.
And when we get hurt, it's very hard for us to like let it go.
Where men, can they can just say, oh, see you.
You know, I just want everybody to be happy.
You know, it makes me uncomfortable to deal with uncomfortable, hurtful things.
Yeah, and I can sense that too.
Yeah.
And it doesn't make it right.
I understand.
I'm curious what support you would need to be able to hold that space for Madison so that.
Okay.
I was just curious if she'd talk more about the alienation.
He's just look at him.
He's so that's just kind of, You know, I modeled my behavior after my dad, I'm sure.
Yeah, I'm willing to.
All right, you know, we'll come back to this a different day.
I'm going to leave a super chat.
I don't want my card information on screen.
All right.
So that's it.
That's adorable.
Maybe we'll watch.
I want to go through the whole thing and maybe find highlights, but I just saw it was premiering as we were going.
You should check out her channel, though.
It's the Anti-Alienation Project.
She talks about how she was alienated from her father and then woke up.
Okay, so today I want to talk about women gaslighting.
Now, I was talking about this before the show.
I really think women, we just have two defaults: it's gaslighting, virtue signaling, and that's just what we go between.
It's like we got a gas.
Oh, no, no, no, three.
Gaslighting, nagging, virtue signaling.
And I'd like to say most of my observations about the world, some come from Rolo Tomasi, some come from Myron, some come from Kevin Samuels.
You know, I talk about the great men that inspired a lot of my work.
But the number one thing that I liked about when I was watching like red pill content is it just made everything make sense.
I would hear something and I would say, oh, that's why it is.
So I guess Candace is crashing out on Nick right now on Twitter.
And I just thought this was the funniest thing I've seen in a while.
Now, I had Nick on my show, and I just didn't understand why he makes everybody crash out.
I just, I didn't get it.
He seemed to me, he was one of the most pleasant guests we had on.
He was super nice.
He was on time.
And I understand some of his opinions are pretty out there.
I don't agree with a lot of them.
But I just thought as a person, I'm someone, and I think this gets me in trouble.
I have a liberal, very liberal friend.
And he tells me that in media training, you can't say, and I guess this is where I get in trouble because I can understand a very left person's point of view and a very right person's point of view.
But I guess when you say I understand, that means I agree.
And he just said in media training, they tell you not to do that, but I guess I missed that.
Now, Nick, he's being called a fed today on Twitter.
And I guess Milo is saying that he's a fed.
And this is causing him, Candace, and Nick to crash out.
And the reason I was thinking about this is whenever there's a woman involved, I just always women have a tendency to make up stories about men and women and go around to a bunch of people.
And then when they come out, they'll all corroborate it.
And that's how that's how things tend to go.
And Candace invited Nick onto her show.
And she really could have discussed, you know, they're in politics, so they could have discussed politics.
They could have discussed all this cool stuff.
But instead, Candace decides to focus on why aren't you married and bring up personal information.
And that's really the challenge that we're starting to get in branding nowadays is it used to be about the information.
Now it's about the person.
It's why I kind of have a hard time with this job at times because I'm a flawed person, right?
I'm not, there's a lot of ways that I could be better.
I have regrets in life like anyone.
And, you know, women have a tendency to come for me.
You know, when women attack me, they'll, you know, they'll, they might attack who I am as a person, and they're vicious with it.
But when men attack you, they just call you an idiot.
And I'd really prefer the idiot.
Like, you tell me why I'm wrong.
So, Pearl on Tucker show.
I don't think he'd ever have me.
So, I just, what I thought this was interesting was this was just an example of female gaslighting, Candace.
So, Candace has a tweet and comes out, and she says, I am honestly in awe about how much Nick has publicly lied about me since he left my house.
But rather than cry about it, I have invited him back on for an actual debate where he can bring his alleged receipts.
So, women feel a tendency to be entitled to being a bitch to you for life.
And they also feel entitled to defending themselves when you're calling them a bitch, right?
So, Candace invites Nick on her show, and she's actually quite rude to him.
It's kind of a setup interview.
And then Nick goes on the show, and you know, he talks about why it was a setup interview.
And then Candace is mad because he didn't want to start a fight to her face.
And I'm like, isn't that the most kind of ghetto thing to say ever?
Maybe I shouldn't say, you know, you got to say it to my face.
Well, why would I want to do that if I'm going to be gaslit, bitched at, and nagged?
Like, if those are my three options, why would I do it?
And women feel entitled to this.
They feel entitled to the fighting.
And they call you weak if you're not going to do it right to their face.
And I just think it's interesting because I'm like, why are you in media if that's your expectation?
We're shit talkers.
That's what we do.
You know, if you had Blake Lively on your show in front of you with Ryan Reynolds, I don't think you would just, I don't think you would go through all of the information you reported on.
I really don't.
You know, I think it would be a little bit awkward.
And we all kind of know what comes with this job.
To his inevitable victim act, I've asked Dan Bolzerian to moderate the discussion so Nick can't put his favorite.
I was attacked because I'm so real.
They're going to kill me, skit.
So now, and this is why men don't open up to women, right?
Nick actually was, he almost did get killed for the stuff he says.
He had a gunman come to his house and try to kill him.
And now the woman feels like it's right to make fun of him.
Do you guys see what I mean when I say, I just have a special hatred in my heart, I think.
I think it's because I grew up around them.
And, you know, honestly, their advice wasted a lot of years of my life.
There's nothing that you hate more than someone that gave you advice that made you waste years of your life.
Nothing.
And I'll go into that different day.
So my point is with this, he in a way opens up.
Like he talks about he, that's something vulnerable and probably one of the scariest moments of his life.
And in an argument, she felt like it was necessary to bring that up and use it against him.
Too many theater boys in politics.
And I just, so now she's trying to insult him and call him like weird or dorky or whatever.
I'm like, Candace, do you think you're cool?
I'm not trying to be mean, but like, and I think this is why I'm not really a hateful person, right?
I'm really not.
Anyone that's known me for a long time, but I don't like watching like people get bullied.
It really bothers me.
Like, there's just a part in my soul where I'm like, you know, that's how I started this e-girl fight.
That is, because even though I disagreed with Emily on the ring comment, I just still thought, all right, you don't need to call Emily a whore.
Like, I mean, we didn't need to do well.
That's just not enough, you know.
And that's how I feel like watching this.
She knows that she has like, she's a woman.
She's got the woman card.
This will be fun because I will reveal to the public that we should not fear the discussion if we're telling the truth.
And I just am thinking, like, what does this have to do with the topic?
Like, I thought this was Israel Palestine, right?
But now it's Nick's a theater kid.
Nick's Nick was mean to this person.
Oh, you're, you almost, you're going to kill me, like, making fun of him.
And I'm like, what?
Vicious.
So then it says Nick is a sensitive theater boy, needs a woman before he becomes an old man.
He's starting to look like it.
It's honestly weird how people can't see he's performing.
The mistake people keep making is avoiding Nick.
It allows him to keep up the victim act and his lies go unchecked.
So this is what women want to do, right?
Women hold a tally of every bad thing you've done in your life.
And look, I'm not a saint, right?
But it's pretty exhausting, especially with women, is they just, they just, every time you've said something wrong or done something wrong, they just keep, it could be from three years ago.
They just keep, they keep bringing it up, right?
I'm not kidding when I say he lies about me almost pathologically since he left my house.
It's like he only came on so then he could then pretend to be a victim of some attack that never happened.
I've never seen anything like it.
But a Twitter back and forth is meaningless.
We could do it face to face and he could bring the receipts.
And so she's saying, I want to gaslight you, right?
She's, she's saying, please let me gaslight.
I want to be able to gaslight you, you know, because like that's I've had instances like this.
Okay.
Where somebody, I had, I'm not going to say the person, but I had a person say, you can't talk about me on my stream without being able to defend myself.
And I'm like, do you know what?
I actually can because you're going to gaslight me into oblivion.
Like, you know what?
You could do a whole stream on my stream and then you can tell your points fully, right?
You can do it.
But I just don't want to be gaslit today.
You have your thing that you're selling.
We're going to go back and forth.
So then, what happened to this?
Your first ambush backfired and now you want another swing, little girl.
Presumptuous to think I'd want anything.
And this is what happens.
We reveal female nature, right?
We reveal a woman doing something wrong and the woman has to gaslight us into eternity.
Where is this?
I want the full text.
And I just, I just thought this was hilarious.
Really did.
I was like, oh wait, hold on, let me see.
Um, all right.
So that was my point with Candace is, women have a tendency to feel entitled to gaslighting, and where men, they have a tendency to just say, you know what, you have your opinions, I have mine, you can think, you can think negatively of me, that's okay.
So I want to go through my Twitter today and go through the different topics.
So we have another e-girl thirst trapping.
And this kind of the running joke in the manosphere.
It's like, go to mass, pictured, not pictured, mass.
And it's like very obviously the purpose of this picture is to draw attention to yourself.
And then they gaslight me when I say, hey, you're drawing attention to yourself and say, no.
Well, but the whole point of the internet is drawing attention to yourself.
And I'm like, are you or are you not drawing attention to yourself?
Now the next tweet is just, you know, kind of a follow-up on the e-girl drama.
I think this week, you know, when I said, when I said that the women were in fact using their relationships to build their brand, they all gaslit me and said that it was a good thing.
So now that the week is over, would you say that this made men more favorable towards Christianity or less favorable towards Christianity and marriage?
And I think that's the real point here is that marriage is going to disappear because women are actually the worst marketing for marriage.
They show men every single day why they shouldn't get married.
Let me see what else I got.
The Lila Rose clip we're going to go through.
So I'm going to skip over these retweets.
I said girlfriends behave better than wives because, you know, I thought about it.
Oh, I made a slideshow for this, actually.
I did make a slideshow.
And, you know, in a way, getting legally married is putting yourself in a non-traditional relationship.
Okay, hear me out.
It's actually, I would argue, it's more traditional to be a girlfriend than a wife.
Now, you might say, Pearl, that's so crazy.
Pearl, that's insane.
And I would even go further to say situationships act like more of girlfriends than wives.
And men that date for marriage have a tendency to never know what that is like to have a woman completely obedient and on your program.
Because once you give the woman what she wants, then we go nuts.
So here's the ways women can destroy you, right?
So these are the ways women have leverage.
Police, reputation destruction, as we saw in the first video, family court.
And there's like a million other ways.
So, you know, feel free in the comments to put things I should add to this.
But I want to make this simple.
The only thing men have is cheating and walking away, like women being afraid you're going to cheat and women afraid, being afraid that you're going to walk away.
And the challenge you have is when you get married, you're taking away, you're saying God is going to like smite you down or whatever.
You're going to go to hell if you sleep with another woman or walk away.
So that's your only leverage.
So they're basically saying, they're like, okay, tell your woman no.
You are wrong.
You're wrong as a man for not being able to say no, you're a woman.
You're a simp.
I do say that.
I do, I do, I do.
I'm sorry.
I'm a nagger too, all right?
But and to some extent, I would agree.
However, when the church comes in and says you can't divorce or sleep with anyone else ever again, it's like, okay, you're basically saying get cucked because how is he gonna enforce that?
No, how can he enforce it?
Can he go to the police and say, my wife isn't sleeping with me?
No.
Okay, you're telling me this is the cops from the Batman movie.
Why are you nagging me about my PowerPoint?
I made this quick before the show.
Can we just, can we, can we just, all right.
Are the men really going to lie as good or as well as the women?
No.
I guess you could do that back.
That is an option.
Not a bad option.
You fight fire with fire.
And then she could take your house, your kids, and just ruin your life.
But this is the natural order of the world, right?
So God can enforce things on man because God can just like smite you down.
So he can say, he could say, okay, you're going to get cancer because you're a terrible person.
Then we got women next.
But the man cannot enforce anything on the woman.
And the woman can enforce everything on the man.
So it's actually, it goes, God, woman, man, children.
That's the order of the world now.
That's how it is now.
And no amount of praying is going to change this because the relationship is only traditional, quote unquote, traditional if the woman says it should be.
And can we be honest here?
We are crazy.
Our default is just like insane.
And so because of that, because of that, you cannot have a traditional relationship in 2025.
It doesn't exist because it's all dependent on if the woman feels like it.
And some days, look, you guys, and I try to be honest about this.
When I was doing my show, I'd always say we as modern women, we look at it.
I do the best I can, but even me, there are days where I wake up and I'm like, God, why was I a bitch for no reason?
And I feel, I'll feel guilty.
I'll feel really guilty about it.
You know, I'll give it attitude or I'll nag.
I'll just, you know, and I wish I did it, but, you know, I know that this is our default programming.
And so the only leverage that you're going to have as a man, and that's why I would actually argue that the most traditional relationships are actually situationships because the woman is begging to get commitment.
Oh, wait, actually, I should have added that.
Walk away kind of goes towards commitment, but giving commitment and taking it away.
That's really it.
I mean, you can't, you can't hit it.
You can't hit a bitch anymore.
No, can't do that.
Okay, so let's get into today's topic.
We're talking about Lila Rose.
Oh, I had a point that said women want to be a bitch.
And if you do not straight up confront them to their face because you don't feel like dealing with their bullshit, you become the bad guy.
Okay, so welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
Society demonizes men in the male sex drive.
I would expect this from liberal women because, face it, a lot of them are fat and just generally unattractive to the type of men they want.
The same women talking about the male gaze and how women are objectified will never know what either of those are like because they aren't hot enough for men to make money off of their looks.
Sadly, the right does this as well.
Fake tradcon women are doing their best to shame men out of their natural urges by using the Bible and theology to suppress the male sex drive.
I came across this tweet here and it sparked the idea for the show.
All right, so Lila Rose says, Men don't need sex.
Our culture is hyper-sexualized that the idea of a celibate priest leaves people in disbelief as if it's impossible.
That's heartbreaking.
Have we forgotten that self-control and virtue are within reach?
Look at Jesus Christ, the most perfect man to ever walk the earth, was celibate and sinless before he was crucified for our sins.
Shouldn't he be the supreme model for manhood?
Self-mastery, discipline, total self-gift out of all love.
Priests choose celibacy so their hearts can belong entirely to God, as St. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians.
I want you to be free from anxieties.
The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord and how to please the Lord, but the married man is anxious about worldly things, but how to please his wife.
Yeah, because he can't, that's like an impossible task.
Of course, he's going to be anxious about it.
And his interests are divided.
I say this to your own benefit to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.
Abstinence isn't just for priestess.
Intermittent abstinence can also be a beautiful practice within marriage.
If a couple has a serious reason to delay bringing a baby into the world when practicing natural family planning, spouses can indulge or grow in self-mastery, deepen their love, and remain faithful to God's design for marriage.
Christ is the model, love is the reason, holiness is the goal.
So it's just like, Lila, who are you to say this?
I just don't understand where women get off nagging men about their behavior.
And she said this when she said men are like, all right, here we go.
Can we all talk about Father Mike Schmidt?
I showed them to a girlfriend who's not Catholic.
She's like, wins mass.
What about the man needing sex?
So right now they're lusting over like the guy in the front and then signaling purity.
It's like the audacity.
The audacity.
And you know what?
Christians used to treat sex as a need.
They really did.
And this is the problem.
In the old days, you got a wife, you got your sexual problem solved for you at 16.
And they treated sex as a need.
So they said, look, I know you're going to start wanting to have sex, but instead of shaming a natural urge, here's your wife.
Here's your trad wife, and you'll be married by 22.
Go off, have your children.
But now, but now, I mean, maybe the girls would sleep around at 15 or 16, but it was done early.
Your sexual problem was solved.
But now, you know, men can't help what's on the menu.
Wives are not, you know, if you go to a restaurant and you keep trying to order a wife and that's not on the menu, that's not your fault.
That's not your fault.
And so women are shaming men for responding to what is on the menu.
They didn't ask for this society to be built like this.
They didn't ask for women to be going for like 10% of men.
They didn't ask for that.
But that's what's on the menu.
That's what they have to choose from.
So, what tends to happen is the women, they want the privilege of choosing their own husband, of marrying for love, and also getting to signal purity.
Nah, nah, nah, bitch.
You don't get both.
Marry, get an arranged marriage young.
If you didn't marry young, I don't believe you're pure.
And we need to, I don't.
I don't.
What about the man needing sex?
That's just a cultural narrative that basically says men are like animals and they have to be able to do this sexual thing, otherwise they're going to go crazy.
And the reality is there's whole vocations that are celibate.
Yeah.
And how did that go?
How did that celibacy go, Lila?
And these are virile men, men's men.
Some of the most masculine of men I know are priests.
We need food.
We need air to breathe.
We don't need sex.
It's a gift coming together.
And it's so evil because you're basically telling people not to live a part of life.
You're trying to shame people into not like that's a part of like taking a girl on a date.
That's a part of life.
You know, getting a girlfriend.
And unfortunately, because of whores are on the menu, really the only way to get a wife these days is to, you know, you got to go through the whores.
I don't say this in a happy way, but most people don't marry the first person they're with.
It's just how it is.
I wish it wasn't like this.
But this is what's on the menu.
And if the conservatives really cared, okay, if they really cared about stopping promiscuity, they would be pushing arranged marriages, but they're not.
They do not care.
They don't.
They would have an arranged marriage set for their daughter when she turns 18 and say, you don't get your inheritance unless you marry this guy.
Even then, it would not be foolproof.
But we do not like the idea of forcing women to use their sexuality on a husband that they're not attracted to.
I'm not even saying that we should go that way.
But please, God, do not purity signal to me.
If you're doing the, you know, do not shame the male sex drive.
Then the trad E-men will say, oh, they're so much better, you know, because they're abstinent.
They act like they're morally better.
But can we, if, are they really not watching corn?
They're just substituting one sin for another.
And I'm just the one trying to be honest about this conversation.
I'm trying to be honest and have this conversation because this will waste years of your life.
This will waste years of people life.
Designed to bring life into the world.
I think the sexiest thing about a guy is like their self-control.
And my husband has amazing self-control.
So after baby number four.
So again, this is conservative women using their marriage and their family to build their brand.
You know, I had Rachel on here the other day and Rachel, you know, she's trying to convince me that it's good.
And I'm sorry, you know, and this is hypocritical because, you know, years ago, I was in a public relationship, right?
And I know firsthand all the ways it's a terrible idea.
I've lived it.
And I'll tell you what, when you bring this, and the thing is, when you are in political topics and you're bringing your family into it, you're bringing them in the crossfire.
It's one thing if you're doing like a cooking channel, who cares?
But you guys are covering contentious issues that people get shot over in history.
So, you know, I don't have a problem with like, I don't even want to say it's a problem.
It because it's not immoral, but I don't think it's strategic, right?
If Lila Rose came on here and she's given like the up and down about the abortion and getting really technical, there's nothing wrong with that to me.
But when you're bringing your husband into it and now he's responsible for, you know, people thinking you're a good person, you know, that's a different story, you know.
When we started practicing NFP, it was like we couldn't do it sometimes when we wanted to.
And that kind of made things a little steamier, like, not gonna lie.
It's hard on him for you.
But see, this is like personal stuff.
Men value privacy.
They do.
They really do.
And too, don't get me wrong.
People will say, well, oh, do you just do other things for your husband?
Can we all talk about Father Mike Schmidt?
Yeah, okay.
The responses are cooking her.
Further evidence why God commanded women to not be teachers in church and be quiet.
Insufferable yapping with authority is why so many men find no need to subject themselves to the modern church.
Conversations like this make Christians look stupid.
Men need sex.
This lady is retarded.
Women shouldn't have anything to say about what men need and don't need.
There's a reason Christian men are the biggest consumers of porn.
What man hurt you?
This is insane.
Men should have self-control around their wives.
1 Corinthians, this is just giving women the excuse to deny their husbands.
Wait, let me see this.
These bitches are literally retarded.
I know it's saying that's not at all what happened.
These bitches are literally retarded.
Oh my God.
Prudes like Lila Rose don't like sex at all and will gaslight you endlessly into suffering because they don't put out.
That's the other thing.
This whole waiting for marriage.
I see how it would be pragmatic as a society, but in 2025, I don't see it working.
I think guys are kind of stupid if they sign up for that, if I'm being honest.
Because, you know, there's a guy I knew in London.
He did that, right?
He was the Christian guy and he got married.
His wife didn't like sex, or at least not with him.
This clip begins with them sexualizing a priest.
I know the audacity.
I was telling someone before the show, you know, they say women or men will screw anything.
I actually think women will screw anything more than men will screw anything.
I think that's actually projection.
Now, I have to be careful with what I'm thinking about.
Sometimes I have thoughts that I'm like that, and there's no upside to saying that.
I got to be filtered a little bit.
But the Christian men, right?
The Christian men.
The Christian women, a lot of them, like, they're so repressed and they have so much guilt attached to sex.
That's really not normal.
It's really not.
But, oh, that's what I'm sorry.
I blanked out for a second.
So, talking about women, like, they always say men will screw anything.
And I just don't think that's true, you know, because men, they're risk averse, right?
So if the girls, if it, you know, men might find out they hooked up with a girl, they might not do it.
If they think she has a big mouth, if they think she might ruin their money, like there's many reasons, Matt, like an example is I think a lot of men have left education because they just don't want a false accusation.
Where women, I mean, they're clearly not afraid of a false accusation.
If you've seen the news, I mean, they're screwing these younger guys, these young boys, and they're like putting out tech, like they're not even careful at all.
You know, they're just, I can't even believe it.
Some of these cases are coming out.
So, like, if you look at women's exes, there's always one women aren't proud of, where it's just the right guy, the right to any woman that says they haven't had one.
I'm like, yeah, okay.
Okay.
Can we stop like play and pretend here?
Not one, really?
When did you get married?
Oh, 27, 28, 32.
And really, in a decade, you didn't have one.
You thought that was a bad idea?
Even Caitlin Bennett, the replies are crazy.
How many people have never heard of Catholic priests before?
Yeah, how did that work out, Caitlin?
If men don't need sex, women don't need emotional validation or cuddles.
You aren't going to die with them, right?
Yeah, do you know what?
It's like men, in a way, you know, they're kind of responsible for women's like emotion.
Not completely.
It's your own responsibility.
But yeah, she did not, she definitely did not marry someone she's attracted to.
She's trying to cope.
You sound like a sex-hating feminist.
No one should listen to this dishwasher.
Your proof is priest, the same priest that had a problem with boys in the 90s.
All right, let me go back to the so here goes Lila trying to tell men what they should and shouldn't be doing.
And I had her on my show and I asked her why she is a Christian, felt like it was her place to tell men what Christian doctrine says it's not.
She didn't have a good answer.
None of these women do.
So at the one hour 33 second mark when she came on my four people.
Oh my gosh, this whole thing was just her nagging.
Oh my gosh.
It was so brutal.
This is covenant.
It's designed for more than what I, what I get out of it, but it's designed.
Actually, I can tell you.
I can tell you what gave me a good thing.
I could tell you what gave me this opinion.
It's fake.
It's fake trad cons.
No, and I'm going to, I'm going to do you want to know what I do want to know what that is?
Do you know what that is?
Tell me.
Wait, was it here?
Was it here?
Let me double check.
One hour, 33 minutes, 10 seconds.
So, okay, I guess it's coming in.
Tell me why you.
I don't want to mischaracterize your position, but it sounds like you're saying marriage is bad.
It's not worth it.
No man should get married.
Is that your position or am I misreading you?
My position is a bad deal for men.
So would you say then would it be then, therefore, men should not get married?
Would be yours.
Do you think it's in your place and tell me?
Do you think it's your place as a woman to tell men what to do?
Well, I'm not, again, I'm not going to go tell any specific man you should get married or you should not because I don't know what he should do.
I can say, generally speaking, marriage is good for a lot of people and it's a beautiful gift and we need more healthy marriages.
Do you see the gaslighting?
I'm like, can you answer the question?
Do you think you're kind of putting a goalpost a little bit?
Do you think it's your place as a woman to tell men what to do?
I mean, if you're, let's kind of break that down.
Are you saying gaslighting?
And these women are like, well, why won't you argue with me on my show?
It's like, yeah, because you're so unpleasant.
And I just have to be gaslit by you.
I can't, as a woman, say, you know, we should have homicide laws that stop men and women from killing people.
Then, yeah, in that sense, I guess I'm telling men what to do because I think we should have those laws.
So it depends what you mean by your place to tell men what to do in their house.
Do you think that's your place as a woman?
I mean, I would not go around and I do not go tell individual men what to do in their houses.
No, unless they're like, you know, coercing, doing bad, you know, coercing bad activities or something.
And then I'm, I'm, you know, educating about the bad activity saying it's bad.
So I don't know where you're going with.
If you're doing coercive activities, you're going to, how much will it cost me to call my sister and give her the business and set her straight?
I'll do it for free if I can do it on the show.
What's her number?
What's her number?
Put it in the chat.
Wait, you can put it on Twitter so everyone else doesn't call her.
And tell me your message for her.
I'll do it right now.
I'll do it right now.
Tell them it's bad.
Well, I'm going to continue.
I mean, you've probably seen my content, Pearl.
I'm going to continue to educate people about and work on exposing things that I think are truly bad in our culture, abortion being the worst, and helping people see how horrific it is and reject it.
And that includes to men as well as to women.
So I'm not going to be like, well, I can't tell men that these behaviors are bad because I'm a woman.
I think that would be a mistake.
Yeah.
So what kind of behaviors are you telling men are bad?
Well, again, I think it's more.
Like, do you see it?
Like, it's like pulling teeth.
Oh, my God.
Like, it's like, oh, my God.
Like, I asked you one bitch.
Can you answer it?
Oh, my God.
Like, and then it's like, and then they're like, why won't you say it to my face?
Because I'm exhausted.
Do you see how tired I look here?
Like, for example, when it comes to sexual ethics, I've been pretty open with my content about the harm of pornography and the harm of promiscuity.
And I think that's a message, not just for men, that's a message for women too.
So you will tell men what to do when it comes to sexual promiscuity.
I saw you do it with Justin Waller.
So you're going to tell men what they should do when it comes to porn and sexual promiscuity.
Yes.
I'm going to say do not look at porn.
I'm going to say do not be sexually promiscuous and it's for your good.
And that's why I think you're a feminist because I think that any woman that nags men and tells men what to do is a feminist.
And so there it is, folks.
So again, this is, let me go back to my slideshow.
I get, and this is why, this is why I'm so blackpilled because I'm not even that reliable.
I'm not that good.
I really wish I was these women, like, I think they're better people than me, I would think.
Like, they seem to be living out the virtues more.
Like, they got the kids.
They got the, like, but why do I believe it should be like this?
And they believe it should be like this.
Like, why can't, I'm not, like, I'm not saying I live it all the time.
You know, I do my best, but, you know, like, you know, I'm a flawed person.
So I try to, I try to come in with some like humility on this, but it's like, shouldn't we at least have the base that the ideal is this?
Like, shouldn't this be like the ideal?
Yeah, I want the number.
Go to Twitter.
I'll tell you, and give me the message.
We'll see if she answers.
Twitter, pearly things with a Z.
Yeah, I'll do it as long as I can.
So, and if you're nagging, you know, you're automatically because you're not supposed to, you would never nag your boss, right?
At least, I mean, you'd have to, you could only nag your boss after like years of hard work and like dedication and loyalty, you know.
So, okay, here's another one where I asked the same thing to Lauren Chen.
And so it's like, watch these clips and tell me that these women tweeting their kids is gonna, this is what I mean when I say like a woman having a kid doesn't make her a better person.
She's just a bitch who had a kid, you know?
And if anything, I actually think this does the opposite.
I think this markets men away from marriage.
I think they're like, oh, hell no, this is what I got to deal with.
Yeah, let me see.
Something can be unacceptable behavior, though, still within a marriage.
But who are you to tell a man how to speak to his wife in his house?
Isn't that out of order?
I mean, you do that all the time.
You call other men.
So gaslighting.
Oh, but Pearl, you call men.
I call them simps, but I don't tell them what to do.
I will call them simps.
I will.
I will.
You know, I'm a flawed person, right?
But sometimes the simping is just crazy.
But gaslighting.
All the time.
But I don't tell them how to talk to their wife.
That's your business.
That's absolutely not true.
Name it.
Name it.
Yeah, for sure.
There are tons of times where there will be actual gaslighting.
Do you see this gap?
This is what I have to deal with.
Because I don't know.
I just, when Nick talks, when I had him on my show, there's just like a sense of humility where I'm like, I feel like we're on the same wavelet, where you could say, okay, there's times where I've taken it too far, whatever, but this is what I'm seeing.
And I just, I don't know what motivates a lot of these people, but I just, I don't know if they're dumb or like, I don't know what it is, but I'm like, look, I'm not saying I'm perfect.
I'm not saying I'm the best spokesperson.
There's better people, but I'm like, if these are the married women, then God help us.
God help us.
You know, I saw Myron saying, like, why would you listen?
Why would you listen to an unmarried woman?
And I'm like, Myron, do you see the quality of the married women?
Do you see?
No, I'm not saying to listen to an unmarried woman.
You got to pick and choose.
You got to, I think the best way when looking at advice, the best thing you can do is take advice, try it for two weeks, and ask yourself, is it working?
That's all you got.
If it's working, keep doing it.
If it doesn't, try something else.
That's it.
That'll save you years of time, ladies.
But I'm like, if these are the women, that's the challenge.
Nobody knows how they are at home.
So I'm like, this is what I have to choose from.
God help us.
God help us.
Lord help us.
Do you know what?
I'm like, send the asteroid.
Okay.
These are the police.
And by the way, this is what they're willing to say publicly on a podcast.
God knows what they're willing to do in private.
This is what they're willing to do in public.
Yeah.
Myron, I'm like, Myron, these women.
This is actually, maybe I'll do a hierarchy next show.
A hierarchy of, should I do it?
Are we able to, can I use that still?
I can, right?
It's a little dark, but I could still, oh no, that other light's off.
Maybe I'll put it on here.
No, okay.
I would do a hierarchy like I did the hierarchy of whoredom.
I would actually do a hierarchy of who behaves the best.
And I would put side chicks on the top of that list because there's nobody that works harder than a side chick.
Nobody.
There's nobody that works harder than a literal side chick.
You know, you could be like, come on, you could say, side chick, come over.
And it'll be four in the morning and she'll be sprinting.
She'll be sprinting to come get you.
yeah men in your comments saying you want the whiteboard i I just, I didn't turn on the lights before, so I would have to, if you guys want me to, but you guys got to keep the light likes up while I turn this like light on or attempt to.
It could take longer than I think.
Then there might be a pause in the show.
I'm moving soon, but there's like a yeah, so when I disagree.
Yeah, you guys got to hit the, I need to get over a thousand people watching in here because then if I, if it drops, no, I think a thousand two hundred.
Because then if it drops while I'm fixing the thing and putting up the whiteboard, then at least I can justify it's just back to what it was.
I call them simps.
When I say simps, it typically means out of order.
So typically when I say that, I'm referring to a pattern of behavior where they're putting women on a pedestal.
That's typically what I'm describing.
But you know what?
But we're going to the what about?
You're changing the topic.
Who are you?
No, It's a different.
Do you see how it like this is?
It's just gaslighting.
Like it just never ends.
It's like the perpetual gas.
You know, I had a woman, I had a woman come to my show and then after, tell me how I should run it.
And I'm like, are you kidding?
Go on, Joe.
Oh, my God.
My original question is, who are you to tell a man how to talk to his wife in his home?
Well, I don't.
Do you think you should be able to tell a man how to talk to his wife in his house?
I think that men should conduct themselves biblical standards when it comes to that.
No, no, but answer my question.
Do you think it's your place to tell men how to talk to their wives in their home?
Answer yes or no.
I think it is perfectly reasonable to say that a man should hold himself to a Christian standard.
Okay, so you do think it's your place.
And this is what I mean when I say a lot of conservative women aren't really conservative.
That's true.
Do you see that took me a minute and a half of my life to pull those teeth?
It ends up being yes.
Coming sad man mean.
Living sad man bad.
Because your first, from a biblical point of view, you were supposed to be obedient to your husband in all things.
So before conservative women will talk about the disobedience, their first thing is their tone.
Yes, the tone policing.
I look so bad in this.
This is like my ugliest podcast.
That's so far out of control.
I show this because there is video after video after video.
Not a single conservative woman said, oh, hey, she didn't listen to her husband.
Not one.
Not one.
That's crazy to me.
And then we want to say, like, you know, men, go get married to conservative women.
Most of them aren't really conservative.
Yeah.
I think instead I'm just going to do it on a on my slideshow and I'll make like, maybe next show we can do.
Um, let me go to my Google slides.
All right, so I need a picture of who's a famous, a famous girlfriend.
Who's a famous girlfriend?
I'll just show Goldie Hawn.
Is she, did she never get married?
Why she and Kurt Russell won't get married.
So this is, this is the best acting woman.
Okay, so we're gonna get insert image.
All right, here we go.
Um, you're the best pearl.
Thank you for the 20 super chat.
So who do?
I think would give better advice?
This woman who has known for 20 years that she could lose him at any time and has to be on her toes to give him attention.
Or or Candace, who's married?
She might have more kids, she might have the title, but I can tell that she doesn't really pay attention to what men want because of the nagging.
Who looks happier, which husband I gotta go?
Or which guy?
And and that's the real question is, whose husbands look the happiest?
I'll do, i'll do, maybe i'll do a whiteboard thing.
The thing is my studio is not set up here and it's a different day.
It's gonna be fixed soon.
I would put.
I would put, if I had to make a hierarchy on, the top is gonna be um, side chicks, I think those they want it the most.
Then situationships, then girlfriends.
I'd put wives at the bottom and you know that's.
They were like, oh, why would you take advice from someone without a ring?
And i'm like, because they have to work, wives don't have to do anything.
Wives are in the least traditional relationship because they have all the authority, at least when it's a girlfriend.
He can cheat on you and leave you and take away the commitment.
You know and i'm not claiming that it's wrong to want, you know.
But yeah, you got it, so all right.
So, like most undercover feminists on the right, they keep denying that sex is a need um, for men.
Men need food water, shelter and sex and I would argue in 2025, conservative church churchgoing men have had it worse than liberal men, in a sense that on the left, liberal women acknowledge that men need sex and they just want to keep wanting the men to sleep with.
Who Wait?
hold on.
Sorry.
Conservative church-going men have it worse than liberal men in a sense than on the left.
Liberal women acknowledge that men need sex.
They just want the men to sleep with who they want them to sleep with.
Fat women, ugly women, trans women.
Conservative men are being denied sex in general.
And it's getting to the point where tradcon women are thought-policing their men, telling them what to think about sex at all.
How did it get to this point?
In the practice of policing their husbands' sexuality, they publicly humiliate their husbands and emasculate them.
By these women going on social media and saying things they say, they are publicly admitting that they get what they want, and their husband doesn't get what he wants in the relationship or marriage at all.
What type of man would marry a woman without the expectation of sex with her?
They handpacked husbands of fake trad cons.
That's who.
Luckily, in the comments section, we can see that people have some common sense.
We're going to go through some of these.
All right, Lizzie says, Yes, men can and should control their sexual lusts, but God created sex as a gift to have in marriage.
And barring anyone from marriage is a doctrine of demons.
Men should get married and enjoy the wife of their youth.
This is good, right, and true.
Sex in marriage is holy.
Now, the spirit, and I actually think it's less holy.
I know this sounds crazy, and it would sound like five years ago.
This would have sounded crazy to me, too.
But sex is way more holy when the man has authority.
And outside of marriage is the only time that men have the authority.
You cannot have a traditional marriage.
You can't.
It doesn't exist.
Not in this state.
It's not true.
This is good, right, and true.
Now, the spirit expressly says that in later times, some will depart by the faith to themselves.
Okay, blah, blah, blah.
I don't care.
All right.
So she's still telling men to get married.
Let's see this other one.
The papist priesthood will continue to have problems with sexual abuse and sexual misbehavior so long as they cling to the pharasitical requirement of celibacy.
One of the biblical requirements for church leadership is a well-managed household, which requires kids, which requires sex, which requires marriage.
okay that's one guy um in my experience dating very christian women just results in dating someone whose main pastime pastime is rules lawyering you with christian teachings that she barely understands Date a secular girl and then take her to church.
thank me later.
Oh, I read that one already.
All right, this is why Paul said, I suffer not a woman to teach or have authority over a man.
It's the proliferation of women in areas they shouldn't be that is causing many societal problems.
80% of therapists are women.
80% of HR people are women.
And the majority of divorces are initiated by women.
All right.
We got Elijah.
Oh, I read that one already.
Okay, so we're going to do a little bit of a.
Oh, wait, hold on.
All right, so sex is a need for men.
The sooner these fake tradcon women realize it, the better.
If they want men to return to the church in conservatism, they have to accept and promote this idea.
Like, imagine if they had 22-year-old, like, if you wanted to market a church, say, hey, we have 22-year-old hot wives that love sex.
That would be great.
A lot of, I think a lot of them would do it.
They would be lying.
Denying the male sex drive as conservatives, telling men not to enjoy life on their terms.
It submits to the female dating and mating strategy and establishes a strong relationship where the woman can and will control a man through sex.
Conservatives also need to promote that sex is essential to a good marriage.
Women want provision, protection, and love in a marriage, and men want respect and sex.
A woman in a marriage shows her respect and admiration to her husband by having sex with him.
So we're going to watch this video.
And then I just want you guys to call on the topic.
What did you think of the Lila video?
We're going to watch this first.
Sex is how your husband feels loved and respected.
Your husband is not a woman.
He is a man.
And sex is incredibly important to a man.
And it's where we miss each other and just go totally different ways as husband and wives.
That if you ask a good man, what are the top three things that are most important to him in a marriage and in a relationship?
Sex is going to be number one, if not number one, two, or three.
If you ask a woman, her, you could ask a woman, what are your top 10 most important things to you in a marriage or a relationship?
Sex might not even make the list.
It might be like number eight, nine, or ten.
Maybe, maybe.
So we have to understand it as women that sex is incredibly important to men.
And we know that.
That's why we use sex as a weapon and we use sex to manipulate and control.
And we all know how we do that and have done that.
And what happens is that we begin to treat our husbands like Neanderthals and that there's something wrong with them, that sex is so important to them.
And we want to change them and make them so wrong for just who they are as a man.
But you have to understand when you chose to get married and you made vows and you made a commitment to your husband, you took on the role and responsibility to have sex in your marriage and enjoy it as a part of a healthy relationship.
Women need to understand.
And this was, well, let me finish that thought.
Women need to understand that sex is not an option and it is not something that is inconsequential.
Sex is part of a healthy relationship and marriage.
And this is one of the things I've been reflecting on because when my husband and I got engaged, I had already started withdrawing and putting a wall up around sex when in the beginning of our relationship and dating and leading up to us getting married.
We had a very healthy, enjoyable sex life.
And then I threw my walls up and that's very, very common for us as women.
And you said, check my DMs on Twitter for the phone number.
I'll do it, but I don't see your, you should start a church.
Think of the tax advantages.
Oh my gosh.
You learned nothing.
You want a woman to start a church?
Oh my God.
I want you guys to be equally as sexist against me as I am again.
Oh my gosh, I can't even say that on YouTube.
Not all, It was, it was a, a really, really big challenge in just my early 30s, which is so sad to me now.
Okay, you guys, I mean, if I had started a church, I would just have it be a place for men to talk about the Bible and I would bar woman from it.
And I would just say the only way that women can get in is to put in a wife application and marry a guy from the church.
And if your wife starts talking in the church, we're going to ban her.
And then we're also going to ban you because you're obviously simping.
So either leave her at home or stop simping.
That's what I would do.
That would be my church.
And I had to learn an important part of my healing in my marriage and through this decade of my 30s in the beginning was overcoming the walls I had built around sex in my marriage and recognizing that I couldn't have sex with my husband as a duty or a chore.
Pearl, I had a dream that we hooked up.
Why would you tell me that?
Why would that like?
What do you want me to do with that information?
Do you want me to be like, oh, wow.
Should we do like it's just sometimes, guys, I'm like, what, what platform?
I don't see the phone number.
Did you send it on Instagram?
I'll check Instagram.
Or an obligation.
When we have sex from a place of obligation or as a chore, we feel used, we feel resentful if we're doing what we're supposed to do.
That's a wonder, actually a wonderful example of being nice is doing sex to check the box and say, Don, maybe I bought myself a week or two and then shutting down.
That's not okay in a marriage.
It's not, that's a cruel, cruel way to treat your husband who is a man in which this is very important to him.
So ladies, let me make it very, very clear.
You cannot have a healthy marriage.
You cannot have a healthy relationship if you are not having sex with your husband or you are shut down to sex and doing it as an obligation and a chore.
It's not okay.
And you can't have a healthy relationship or a healthy marriage from that place.
We all know sex is part of a healthy relationship.
And here is something that is very important, ladies.
We all enjoy sex.
If you remember when you met your husband or before you met your husband and you were dating and having different relationships with men, we couldn't wait.
We couldn't wait to get together and meet up for a date and know where that was going to lead.
And we can reflect back to the beginning of our relationship before we got engaged, before we got married, and we were in the newness.
We loved and enjoy having sex.
We began to put our walls up and I'm not going to get too much into that, but I do want you all to know, trigger warning.
We're going to be talking or I'm going to be talking a lot more about our relationship with sex as women and the importance of it in a marriage and how to overcome the walls that we have built around it and how to overcome the withholding of sex that we have put into place in our marriage.
And I'm also going to be talking about how everything we've been taught by the experts about sex is wrong.
That we are not ovens that need to be warmed up first.
That's another video for another time.
But it's really, really important.
I just, I don't think it's that hard to have sex.
Does it, you know, Borton, we have been fed so many lies and so many myths and so many, so much missing.
So you sent it on X. Let me see.
I am not.
Can you put your Twitter handle in the thing?
Because I'll do it.
Do you think she'll answer?
These group chats leave that people add me to.
Information.
What's your at about sex as women?
And I'm excited to share my journey because it's been a huge journey and wonderful journey in my marriage.
One of the things I'm most proud of and my husband is most appreciative of that I have healed and overcome in myself.
And I'm excited to be sharing that.
So we're going to be talking more about that on the channel.
But that's the number two thing your husband really wish you knew that sex is how he feels loved and respected and that it's not an option in marriage.
That when we made those vows, that's the commitment we made.
It's part of a healthy relationship.
And when as women, we can reconnect with the fact that we enjoy sex too, that it's something we do for ourselves and enjoy for ourselves, that we get the benefit of it and our husbands get the benefit of it.
But a key piece is we really do have to remember that we enjoy it and not have sex for our husbands as something to check off the list just because it's important to them.
They can feel that.
We have to learn to be there and be engaged and enjoy it for ourselves, which is all our husbands want.
And then we don't have the resentment or feeling used or feeling.
All right.
I think we get the point.
Let me see if there's anything else we're supposed to go over.
Okay.
I just want to know you guys' thoughts on Lila Rose on the topic.
Do you think sex is a need?
And if you've ever been in a sexless marriage, call in, talk about it.
We got Doug MPA on the line.
And I'm going to keep looking to see if to see if they if the number comes in, but I just am not seeing it.
All right, Doug MPA, how are you?
How's it going?
I'm good.
How are you?
I'm doing good, guys.
You got to stop simping in the chat.
It's been out of control this evening.
Stop the simping, please.
It's ridiculous today.
I know.
We're going to ban first simping.
Yeah, man.
Come on now.
Yeah.
So, I mean, I like what you said to Lila when she was on your show about, you know, Lila's undercover feminist.
We all know it.
And she makes her husband look bad.
And that's what these Chad wives don't understand when they go out saying the crap that they're saying.
It's bad for her, but it's even worse for her husband.
She's pretty much saying, oh, yeah, my husband doesn't get sex from me at all.
And he's fine with it.
That's why I'm telling you that you can not sleep with your husbands because my husband doesn't get sex from me.
That's exactly what Lila Rusk is saying in a whole bunch of words.
Have you ever been in a sexless marriage?
No, I've never had a sexless marriage.
I've never had a sexist relationship.
I've had ones where everything but the sex was bad, but the sex was always good.
Nice.
Is Beardson on the line?
If he is, have him come up.
Yeah.
Yep.
He's been here.
Have him come in.
Yeah.
I wanted to see what he said.
I keep looking.
I want to call this guy sister.
I think it'd be pretty funny.
Beardson's audio is connecting.
Beardson, oh, there he is.
Beardson, are you there?
Hello?
Can you hear me?
Hey, Beardson.
How are you?
Hey, how are you doing?
I'm good.
What did you think of the Lila Rose clip?
Oh, God.
I have this past week has given me like Catholic e-girl fatigue, dude.
I'm burned out.
We've got to put a stop to this.
Who is letting these women, who's letting these women buy microphones?
Okay.
So what do you think?
Do you think sex is a need?
I wouldn't say a need per se, but it's really important.
You know, it's like, I would say sex is the same way that I would treat cake, right?
Where it's like, I don't need cake, right?
But I really like cake.
So what do you think about the women that don't think it's a need for their husbands?
I think that's totally embarrassing.
And what's funny about it is that that isn't even, because I'm Catholic, you know that.
That isn't even necessarily like everything that they're saying is not even the Catholic worldview.
Obviously, of course, sex does serve the purpose of procreation, but it also serves the purpose of demonstrating love between a man and a wife.
It's a dual purpose, right?
And this whole like idea for one that like Catholics are just strictly forbidden from using contraception is that's not true.
Okay.
She's lying on that.
That doesn't make sense.
Like if you have like four kids, like you're absolutely allowed to like have contraception so you can continue to have sex with your partner.
I think it's just cope.
And the whole thing's really humiliating too.
If I was a woman's husband, I would be totally embarrassed.
Did you just say partner?
Well, like what, like marriage partner?
I don't know.
Yeah.
I'm an incel, dude.
I don't, I don't know any of the terminology.
I just don't understand why people call people a partner.
Like, I don't, it's one of the worst things that ever happened.
So when I hear someone that's religious or Catholic or something and they call a woman a partner, it's just, it's just a little pet peeve of mine.
Go ahead.
I'm sorry.
No, you're good, man.
I mean, I'm not, I'm an incel, so I'm never going to get married.
Weren't you married before?
No, that's a lie, Pearl.
I thought, okay, whatever.
I was just asking one of the questions.
I've been on a date, Pearl.
Okay.
You need to accept that.
That's not true.
Because one of the questions is, do you know anyone that's been in a sexless marriage?
Oh, yeah, totally.
I mean, you know, I'm 37, so I've definitely, especially, you know, you work with a bunch of guys and every day they come in and they're just pissed off and frustrated, you know?
They're like, yeah, supposed to get lucky.
I didn't get lucky last night, you know?
Even the phrase.
Even the phrase get lucky.
What do you think about this?
Because I was talking about this earlier.
These have a term where you ever hear the term sow your wild oats.
So, like a young man, he would sow his wild oats when he was young and when he's a teenager and in his 20s so he can get it out of his system because when he got older and he got married, he'd have a responsibility and all this to do, and that would factor into like the amount of times that he could have sex.
But then he would be okay.
I would imagine that's because he would be okay with getting less sex because he had a lot more to do, a lot more responsibility, but you got it out of your system when you're younger, right?
Yeah, yeah, I mean, and I think there's some truth to that.
Obviously, there's like a biological element to it too.
Like, once you hit like 35, 40 starts to drop, you know, whereas like when you're in your 20s, like you're high T, dude, you're ready to just bone anything in sight.
Um, so there's definitely, but yeah, for sure.
And I don't know.
I mean, I'm definitely not, I'm not like a pro-wild oats guy by any means.
Like, I don't, I don't think that I think that's like royal oats.
Sorry about that.
Go ahead.
Yeah.
But I said it wrong.
No, you're good, man.
It's, but I'm not like a pro-oats, any kind, whether wild or royal.
I don't think it's necessarily a good thing to just go out and like bang a bunch of whores by any means because you can end up with like an STD or something, especially nowadays.
But at the same time, I mean, I don't, I don't, I don't like this idea that within the confines of marriage, that sex should be something that should be like relegated to like an activity or like a chore for the woman.
Like it's that time of the month.
Isn't it that hard?
I don't think it's that hard.
Like, come on.
A chore.
I think the guy does more work if we're going to really talk about it.
Like, come on.
You got to lay there for five minutes.
Like, oh, I'm so sorry.
You know, wait, so I have a question.
Out of your friends, what percent would you say that are married or in sexless marriages?
Just anecdotally, the ones you know.
I mean, out of people I know, I don't, to be honest, I don't talk about sex at all with my friends.
I couldn't, I couldn't say like for my circle of friends what their sex life is because I just find it the least interesting topic on the planet to talk about.
But I mean, out of people that I've met, though, I mean, it is, it's a pretty good chunk.
I would say out of all the men that I've met and like worked with, like 30, 40%, I would, I would estimate are in sexless marriages.
Who behaves better, girlfriends or wives?
Girlfriends, 100%.
Yep, 100% true.
I agree.
Who behaves better?
Girlfriends or side chicks?
I don't know about that.
I've never had a side chick before.
I'm a local man.
There's like a joke that's like, that's like your girlfriend.
There's a joke that's like, you tell your girlfriend to come over and it's like, no, I'm busy.
and it's like you tell your side chick to come over and it's her like running through the rain.
She pulls up in her Nissan Altima and climbs up the balcony and climbs through your window.
She's trying to earn it, dude.
She's going to earn that D with some chicken ships and some french fries and a frosty Coke.
Okay, can I say that?
I will say this.
I will admit that I maybe have been in one relationship before.
I know you have.
I know you have.
Stop it.
One.
It was one.
And it was, honestly, it was the perfect relationship.
I had this girl and we weren't like boyfriend and girlfriend, but we were kind of fooling around.
And she really wanted to be my boyfriend.
And I just wasn't feeling it.
So every night after I got off work, she would bring me homemade food, come over, we would fool around and then she'd just leave for like three weeks.
It was awesome.
Yeah.
I wonder who acts better, a situationship or a side check?
I mean, honestly, situation.
Yeah.
Well, hold on.
It depends, though, because there's only there's a small percentage of the time where a situationship is the person acts terribly, and that's when they have the what are we conversation.
And they only have that a couple times out of the year, but when they do, it's probably really bad.
So you just have to deflect and get through that little bit of time where she asks, what are we?
I can't do this forever.
My parents keep asking, you know, am I ever going to get married?
All my friends, blah, blah, blah.
So I'd say a good percentage of the time is the situationship until the holiday season comes around.
But we practice on this show of how to just keep like, you know, keep leading her on.
So, wait, Doug, Doug, Doug, go ahead.
Go ahead.
So, Doug MPA, what are we?
I would say I don't think it's the time to be putting labels on things.
I don't think either one of us have that emotional bandwidth currently right now in our lives.
But we're already doing, like, we're already acting like boyfriend and girlfriend.
Why don't we just call it that?
That's what I say.
You know, boyfriend, girlfriend, I say, I don't think that we should limit ourselves to such labels.
And honestly, I mean, I'm giving you everything that I can give you right now.
And if it's not enough, I mean, well, then that's something that you're going to have to address.
But right now, I'm giving you everything that I can give you, and I don't have anything else to say.
What you got here.
That's way better.
I just told her my mom died.
You know, my mom's dead.
I can't.
How many moms have you had die?
Well, I'm an incel, so only the one, you know, only the one.
Many women create their supervillain by denying their husband, boyfriend, or side guy to weaken the male's resolve and strengthen the other woman's.
Yeah.
Is that any of the e-girls on the line?
I added Beardson to the group chat today.
Let me.
I don't see.
Oh, okay.
No e-girls.
That's all right.
Who's Ernie B?
Who's that?
Do you know who that person is?
I don't know.
Sometimes people have different Skype names, but I was going to give the e-girls first dibs.
If not, you can just see if anyone else.
No, no, no.
If anyone else is on, we can do a panel.
Okay.
I'm a little mad that you added me to a group chat with a bunch of e-girls.
Like, it's just me.
It's like you're like Charlie's Angels.
You know what I mean?
Except for they all hate me.
I just can't.
Well, I mean, they all hate me too.
That's why I made the group chat.
So before I bring people into the panel, guys, make sure to like the video.
There was over 900 people in the chat tonight.
So like the video, subscribe if you haven't already.
Hit that super chat button because all donations go to the divorce documentary.
Go to theaudacitynetwork.com to join Pearl's website.
Always good to have you in there.
And I saw Odni Man, Valencia, Joel, JS, everyone.
And Audacity Chat, thank you for being there.
I'm going to let Ernie be in first.
Ernie, are you there?
Yes.
Can you hear me?
Yeah.
Cool.
All right.
So I'll try to make this quick.
All right.
Okay.
So, yeah, I was in a sexist relationship for 11 years, dude.
It was such horse crap.
Oh, my gosh.
I know, man.
Okay, so check it out.
So there were there were a lot of okay.
So like for instance, there were a lot of times where I felt like she was kind of like, you know, using it against me as like some sort of weapon or something because there were times where like that there was one instance where she was wanting to try out like a new birth control and she was like, we'll just give it a few months to kick in and then we'll try it out.
And then it was like, okay, it's been a few months.
So, you know, what's up?
And no, nothing.
There were times where we would go travel, you know, like to other states.
And like, as soon as we got to, you know, I would be asking, like, so, you know, we're going to have, we're going to have fun when we get there.
It's like, yes, of course.
And then we'd get there and then nothing.
You know, like she would say things like, like, why can't you just be normal?
Like, what does that even mean?
Oh, and then another one was like, you know, just whenever I would try to get her in the mood, she would always say, like, well, can't you just let it happen naturally?
I mean, you're good at translating woman talk, Pearl.
What the hell does that even mean?
Let it happen naturally.
Like, I trip and you fall.
She says, like, I don't understand.
Like, I'm not just trying to understand what she's what she's trying to, what she's trying to say is, I want you to be Chad, Tyrone, Gloctavious, and Gabby.
But even that, what does that mean?
I mean, the only other translation that somebody gave me was like, oh, that means she has to initiate it.
Like, what?
Then it'll never happen.
She just, I mean, she just, like, she just wasn't attracted to you.
Yeah.
Some women marry men they're not attracted to because they want kids.
Sorry.
Well, we weren't, we weren't married.
No, thank you for letting me know how it is.
We weren't married.
But, you know, her sister was married and she would say, like, you know, whenever her sister didn't get her way with something, she would tell her, well, just tell your husband that he's not getting lucky tonight or whatever.
It works with me.
Like, meaning, you know, on me, like this bitch.
But, you know, like, it didn't work on her husband because her husband was already in his 50s and he didn't give a shit.
He was, he was, he was fine with that, whatever.
But, but, yeah, it's always, it's like, and then, you know, like, she would, we would go to a party, she would get drunk, and she'd be all over me.
It's like, oh, I can't wait to get you home.
We get back to my place.
She's totally knocked out.
You know, even the next morning, like, okay, what's up?
Like, oh, I got a headache now.
I'm hungover.
It's like, dude, what the hell?
But yeah, like, the can't you just be normal thing really pissed me off because I think she had like not only her sister who was also in a sort of sexless marriage, but that's the thing.
Her sister wanted it.
Her husband didn't because he was older, whatever.
But I think, and then all the other women that she was friends with, they were all married and they were kind of like also taking the reins on their marriage and kind of like, you know, dictating to their husbands when or if they were ever going to get laid.
So I think that's kind of what she was used to, maybe.
So when she said that, like, why can't you just be normal?
Yeah, it said to me, like, why can't you be like, were you ever tempted to cheat during it?
I cheated constantly because of that, honestly, dude.
Cause, and you know what?
I had the side chick and my side chick, my side chick cooked, cleaned, and let me finish every which way.
And I should have married her, man.
You know what?
I should have at least dumped, maybe not marriage, but I should have at least dumped the main bitch and then just went off to the side girl.
But I was just too gutless to do it.
I was mostly because I was liberal at the time.
But, you know, thanks to you, Pearl.
Now I'm blackpilled.
But yeah, man.
Like, I, yeah, the side chick was there.
So what happened to the side chick?
How long did she stay till she bounced?
No, no, the side chick stayed for two years.
And, you know, yeah.
And eventually she was like, what the hell?
It's either me or nothing.
And, you know, yeah.
She was letting you do whatever.
And you picked, oh, man.
I know, man.
I know, dude, because I was dude.
I know, dude.
And you know what?
Like, she was, she treated me way better.
She cooked and cleaned and did everything, you know, which is awesome.
But yeah, man, I was too much of a dumbass to actually like see through the fog and actually do anything about it.
Do you guys have kids?
Is that why did you have kids?
No, I didn't.
You didn't even have kids.
Oh, no.
I know, man.
I know.
It was a total L. One of the biggest L's.
I'm telling you.
The poor side chick.
She was working so hard.
He was.
He was totally working hard.
That's like being on a team.
That's like being on a team, right?
And you're and you're watching the point guard keep missing like free throws.
And you're like, Coach, put me in.
Coach, put me in.
I've made all the free throws in practice.
Put me in, coach.
And they're like, no, I'm just going to keep letting him miss these free throws.
It was the longest amount of time that she went without you and her having sex.
Wasn't it?
And the main girlfriend?
Yep.
Definitely under a year, but probably about man, at least six months, like the longest.
What did she know you were cheating?
Like, she, she definitely, you know, you can call it women's intuition, whatever, because like she saw, like, she, because at one point she had like the location finder thing, and she saw, she saw that I was that, she saw that I was at a motel one time.
And like, I totally pulled it out of my ass.
I was like, yeah, I got a flat tire and I pulled up.
I pulled over over here.
And, you know, I just, I'm changing the flat tire.
And she, I, but I could hear in her voice.
Like, I feel like she knew.
Like, she wasn't that dumb.
But yeah, I think she just denied herself the truth in order to preserve what she thought was something, you know, real.
But, or, you know, at least, you know, not.
What was like, what was what ended it?
Like, what was at the end?
What ended it with which one?
No, the main one.
Like, what, like, if the sexless marriage didn't get you to dumper, like, what did?
Yeah, no, it was, it was really just an accumulation of all types of things.
Like, she wanted to live her sister's life, who was living a better life than her.
And, you know, she didn't want to live our own lives together.
And, you know, she wanted to get married.
But, and, and I had actually called about this.
It was, she was the one who was like all about the status and shit.
She wanted to get married just for the sole, you know, benefit of the status and like, and uh, not to live our own lives, but because she wanted to live her sister's life or her friend's life.
She didn't want to live her own life with me.
She wanted to live somebody else's.
But it was an accumulation of all types of bullshit.
And yeah, eventually her parents hated me or frankly, like everybody hated me in the end.
And it was just a whole bunch of shit.
But yeah, it was the huge L, Pearl.
The biggest L I've probably ever had.
What about you take L's?
I mean, did you ever find a new chick like her?
Or was the side chick the best?
Oh, the side chick was the best.
Like, she was awesome.
Yeah, she was great.
And despite the fact that she had two kids from two different baby daddies, like, you know, like they were fine.
Like, one of them was 18 and one of them was 14.
And one of them's dad was dead.
So I was like, it was cool, you know, whatever.
But, but, yeah, man, like, what a dumbass.
Like, that's one of those stupid, you know, nostalgic moments of if only I can go back in time.
Like, shut up.
You messed it up, dude.
All right.
You're a freaking idiot.
She had two kids by two different dads.
Maybe you could call her.
She might still be single.
You know, no, she, she's, well, that's a complicated situation as far as her being quote unquote single.
But no, like, I called her and I tried to, you know, have something going.
And, you know, but the eventually the conversation got to politics and it was done.
Like, she's totally, you know, lived hard now.
And, and, you know, I guess one of her sons is a daughter now.
And it's like a whole.
Oh, yeah.
You died the bullet.
You died the bullet.
Yeah, yeah.
Oh, man.
But at the same time, you know, I could have like no, you couldn't fix her.
You know, you didn't even know who she was.
Like, it could have, it could have lasted longer.
It could have been cool, like for a little while longer at least.
But yeah, like, and then, like, it was a good solid two years from 2013 to 2014.
And then, like, I saw her kind of, you know, here and there a few years after that.
But it officially ended with the side girl about 2019.
So, yeah.
Yeah.
It was a bummer, man.
Someone wants to ask, ask him if he thinks that she was ever cheating as well.
Was that why she wasn't having sex?
Honestly, okay.
I personally, you know, and I hate using this word because it's been hijacked by the opposition, but personally, there are a lot of nuances to it.
Sure, sure, sure.
But again, thanks to you, Pearl, I'm now blackpilled.
And I could see that maybe she could have, but from my own personal perspective and, you know, experience with her, I would say no because she was very germaphobic.
She was, if anything, I think that she stayed with me because she was comfortable with me, slightly attracted, you know, but more so it was like the familiarity to it all.
Like, you know, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Hey, Pearl, the guy said that he's going to have to give you that girl's number on a different stream.
Oh, okay.
So don't worry about it.
Okay.
Yeah.
So stop looking.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
Okay.
And also, I would say to another one of your points, Pearl, she was also like kind of that girl who was just not attracted to 80% of men or at least claimed to be.
But I don't know.
I don't know.
That's a question I've pondered.
I've thought about.
But if I had to just give you a straight up answer, I would say no, to my knowledge.
Cool.
Cool.
Okay.
Is it cool?
It's not cool.
It sucks.
What do you mean?
Well, it's a filler word.
All right.
Thank you.
All right.
Thanks for calling it.
No problem.
Thanks for having me, Pearl.
You're kicking ass.
Thank you.
We all take L's, guys.
Knock it off.
Oh, yeah.
Come on, guys.
We've all taken L's.
At least he's brave enough to come up here and say his L.
So good for him.
Not beards in these goods.
Yeah, I've never taken an L in my life because I've never cheating on him, by the way.
I'm sorry.
I didn't want to say it to his face, but yeah, yep.
Okay, next up we have.
She put out when Shad dumped her.
Yeah.
Next up, we oh, just so you guys know, on this side of YouTube over here, we say you're either that guy or you're not.
And a woman will show you if you're that guy and she'll show you if you're not that guy.
If you're not that guy, you got to choose how long you're going to stay in there and deal with it.
So, all right, OMAC, are you there?
OMAC, you're going 10, 9, 8, 7.
He's probably listening to the YouTube.
6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Going once, going twice.
OMAC, you are going back into the waiting room.
Next up, we have Peter Paul.
Peter Paul, are you there?
He's probably listening to the YouTube too.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
I'm here.
Hey, Peter.
Hey, how are you doing?
I'm good.
How are you?
What do you think of the topic today?
So I was talking to my wife about this the other day, and I don't mean to put any disparaging comments out, but the Catholic girl you were talking to, I don't know what it is, but she drives me up the wall.
And I appreciate a lot of stuff that she's done, like any of us.
Like we do a lot of really great things in our life.
But man, like, I think you have the right spirit on this one.
And I don't agree with you all the time either.
You know, right?
Who agrees with each other all the time?
But I think you have the right spirit on this one where, you know, we got a gun on our back and it's just kind of one of those things, you know, dance through life.
You know, talk about a simp, dance through life like you're not in target practice right now.
I mean, they're always putting the target on our back and just simping through life like it's not that way.
And like you go to church, they can't be like that.
Seriously?
We worship this guy that got killed by all these people.
And you're telling me that they're not going to do that to me?
And I just need to be happy about it?
And so, yeah, that goes in the bedroom too.
I think it does.
But yeah, I don't know.
I have way too much to talk about on this topic.
Yeah, absolutely.
Sure.
Do you have any other thoughts you want to add?
Do you think sex is a need for men or anything else just generally that you heard during the monologue and maybe is relevant?
Yeah, so there's that book.
I forget exactly who it is, but love and respect.
And it's true, you know, women, they need oxytocin way more than men do.
Actually, oxytocin attacks testosterone, right?
So men need way less of that oxytocin, that connection hormone.
Women need it.
That's the love part.
And then the respect, you know, men drive off of serotonin and dopamine and all that kind of stuff.
And frankly, that annoys a lot of women.
So it's just kind of getting out of yourself and realizing that you're working with different hormones and that men, part of their hormone structure, is, yeah, like we need hormonal release as much as a woman does.
And then to say that the women need the hormonal release and then the men don't, I think that that's a double standard.
Yeah, totally.
Doug, MPA, you got any questions for him?
Yeah, just real fast.
Quick 45 seconds.
What's one thing that you disagree with Pearl on?
So just frank, Pearl, I only watch you a little bit.
I don't know.
I mean, I kind of go into debate with you after prep with that or something like that.
But I'm also Catholic too.
And I think that I'll put it this way.
I'll dodge the question.
I'll put it really polite.
If anybody wants to know what a woman should be like, in my opinion, that is the Blessed Virgin Mary.
And there's a lot of other really great, great women in the world and in history.
But I mean, what was the one thing that the Blessed Virgin Mary was known for was being obedient to God.
And I don't think that we give that standard to our women.
And so I really appreciate you, Pearl.
I'm not prepared to debate you on any specific question.
You don't want to smoke.
I mean, I could, but I didn't call for that purpose.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, I appreciate you 100% though.
I tried to super chat.
It won't let me.
Really?
That's weird.
Yeah, I don't know what's the payment thing or what?
Okay.
Yeah.
I see the dollar sign on my end.
All right, buddy.
Thanks for calling in.
Appreciate it.
Thanks for coming.
Thank you, guys.
That's weird.
They can't super chat.
I can see it in the chat right now.
We should do a smoke show one of these days, Pearlie.
Sure.
It's a straight-up smoke show.
Bring the smoke.
Let's go.
We'd love to have that.
All right, next up, we have Jake.
Jake, are you there?
Yeah, I'm here.
Can you hear me?
I can hear you.
Okay, awesome.
Thanks.
I want to say something about the caller from like two callers ago where the question was, do you think your wife was cheating on you?
Yeah.
All right.
So, Pearl, I know that you and Rollo don't get along very well.
And that's not the point.
In his book, The Rational Male, he writes that if she's not getting it from you, she's getting it from somewhere else.
Yeah, that's true.
Yeah, so my money says she was.
Yeah, yeah, I agree.
Yeah, it's true, man.
Especially if she's decent looking.
Come on now.
Right.
Because remember, one of the best news sayings I've heard is divorce starts in the bedroom and ends in the courtroom.
Damn, that is golden.
I know.
I saw that on the comment section of someone else's video today.
But yeah, I'm going to say it one last time, guys, for the people in the back.
Divorce begins in the bedroom and ends in the courtroom.
How awful is that?
It's so true, though.
Merch.
Yeah, Pearl, I was wondering if I could tell you real quick a story from my early 20s where I had a girlfriend and I was in a situation where like we agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but I wasn't getting any, even though we were sexually active before we were together.
No, but tell it.
I'm going to read the super chat.
I'm going to read this super chat really quick and then you can go.
It says, it works just fine.
Thanks for all you do in the past.
You suggested all men cheat or something similar.
So I walked away from your content stance on that, on that now.
I don't think all men cheat, but I do think all men have the inclination.
And most in certain situations aren't really going to turn it down.
For example, athletes aren't really known to be faithful and it's because they have more choice.
So there are some men that have morals and like don't or the risk outweighs the reward.
Like maybe it's just not worth it to them.
But I still think they have that inclination.
It was pretty blackpilling because I would meet a lot of influencers who would say they didn't cheat and then you find out they do in fact cheat.
So you know what I mean?
Like you meet enough people that like they say they don't and they like it comes out they're having an affair.
You're like, yeah, okay.
But yeah, that's my opinion.
Go ahead on not the super chat, but the original story.
Jake, go ahead.
Okay.
All right.
So when I was 22, I went to a concert one night and I met these older, this older married couple.
They were in their 40s and they mentioned their daughter.
Then a couple months later, I bump into them at the mall and their daughter worked at a certain store at the mall.
And the mom like insisted, like, stop, whatever you're doing.
Come with me.
I need to introduce you to my daughter.
So she takes me to the store.
I walk in, introduces me to her daughter, and there were like sparks right away.
I think I shook her hand like five times and she like enthusiastically shook my hand back like all five times.
Then we exchanged numbers and we started talking.
Turns out she had a boyfriend.
She actually invited me back to her boyfriend's apartment while he was at work.
Oh, by the way, I was 22.
She was 18.
Wow.
Yeah.
All right.
Well, anyway, then one night her parents were out of town.
She invited me back to her parents' house because she was watching her little sister.
I go over there and we, you know, hooked up, even though she had a boyfriend.
And I was really blue pilled at the time.
So I thought that like we were like she was going to ditch that guy and we were going to be together because she kept telling me how unhappy she was.
But nah, nah, she wasn't going to ditch that guy.
Then that guy got laid off.
And so he had to move out of state to get another job with the same company.
And of course, as soon as he leaves date, guess who she calls?
She calls me and we're together all of a sudden.
And now that we're together, like the first month, you know, I was getting all kinds of play.
And then month two and three, no play at all.
She was shutting me down like every time.
Right.
And so remember when I said if she's not getting it from you, she's getting it from somewhere else.
She was talking to like this other dude.
So she was talking, she was keeping in touch with her ex behind my back.
And then she was talking to this one dude that she knew who also worked part-time at the mall.
He was a college kid and his mom and dad were both doctors and he was going to school to be a doctor.
And the only and another thing that the rational male says in the book is that a woman will break up with you in her mind before she does it in real life.
Like she needs to line up.
She needs to secure her next relationship before she ends her relationship with you.
And when I look back with my, you know, red pill awareness, I realize that's exactly what she was doing.
She was trying to lock down this doctor's kid.
And yeah, so I mean, that's pretty much where the story ends.
I mean, I don't want this call to go on any longer than it has to.
But yeah, all these red pill things that I've learned and read about, like, I can look back on my own experience and they just make better sense than anything else.
Yeah.
I always say that the red pill, it helps you understand your past.
It's intellectual exercise for the present and it's a vetting system for your future.
Yeah, exactly.
Very well said, Doug.
Cool.
Cool.
Thanks for calling, Jake.
Have a good one.
Yeah, thanks so much.
Thanks for having me.
Cool.
All right.
We're going to try OMAC one more time.
You guys got to get your technology together, please.
OMAC, I'm going to try you one more time.
OMAC, are you there?
OMAC going once.
Wait, are you there?
I think I heard him say something.
Now he's on mute.
OMAC going once.
OMAC going twice.
OMAC going three times.
You guys, you got to get your technology together.
Oh, now he's off mute.
You there?
Can you hear me?
There you go.
Can you hear me?
Yes.
Hello.
Hello.
Hi.
Yeah.
Hello.
Hello.
I'm here.
Can you hear me?
I can hear you.
Can you hear me?
Hello.
Okay.
All right.
Sorry, buddy.
Hello.
Hello.
He's out.
Hello.
Yeah, you got a kick.
Yeah, dude.
Come on now.
All right.
Is anyone else on the line or no?
We have two regulars on the line that are calling a lot.
So if you feel up to it, we can take the calls.
Yeah, you can put them.
That's fine.
Just put them both in.
Okay.
We have Eeyore, Sean, and we have Fox Brad.
Sean.
Hey, how's it going?
And then we'll bring Brad up.
Sean, Brad, what's going on, guys?
Hey, how's it going?
Good.
Hey, guys.
How are you?
Doing well.
Not too bad.
Not too bad.
I really like the fact that you had Karen Seitz on.
I'm kind of a fan of hers, too.
She kind of, in some ways, led me to your channel on YouTube.
Cool.
So what are your thoughts on the topic?
Did you guys have a story you wanted to tell or just a general sentiment?
Why don't we have Brad go first?
I think it was Brad.
Well, you got some of mine already in the past.
And I don't want to take up everybody's time all night, but I was married for over 30 years.
And this whole idea of, you know, sex being something you can weaponize and the idea that it's optional.
And I married somebody in my early 20s.
I was 21.
She was 20.
And we kind of did the church-based tradcon thing, the very same thing we've talked about.
You've talked about on your show and the guests you've had.
And she presented herself as one thing and then actually had totally different ideas that she was really good about keeping to herself and putting on this like cosplay image of who she was.
So I didn't catch on for a long time.
And of course, I fell deeply in love with this girl.
So you don't want to see problems.
So somebody can say, well, yeah, you simped, but four kids came along and you have a lot invested.
And we all know how it goes in the courts.
So, and like I said, I was emotionally very deeply attached.
And when she finally got around to, this is your problem.
And I could be more intimate with you if you only did this or that.
It's like Karen Seitz said about being an oven, needing to be warmed up.
She didn't need any warming up to start off with.
And in the affairs that I found out years later that she had, she didn't need any warming up.
It was all very exciting.
And, you know, so there was no, it warmed itself up.
It was just that I was the guy she married because the guy she wanted to marry wasn't available or marriageable at the time.
And she didn't want to be stuck living with her parents for the rest of her life.
And I hear that story repeated over and over again.
But when that happens, she doesn't, the women don't have that inclination to necessarily want to, you know, put out or to sleep with you or whatever.
And so then they just make excuses about it's your fault because you didn't approach them at the right time or you didn't follow some formula.
And I called it a red herring because every time you tried to match whatever it was they wanted, the game, the goalpost would be moved and it would be something else.
Okay, well, you did that, but I need you now to do this.
So.
So what do you, what do you think is better, girlfriends, side chicks or wives?
And like behind you.
Well, me personally, Pearl, I had this problem that I started off already in my teen years as being kind of a romantic.
I was looking for the long term.
So I had friends that were what, you know, in later years, I would hear people call as players, you know, the guys that would just hit and run.
And I just, that just wasn't for me.
I had opportunities to do that.
And I remember one point I had this girl.
I went with some friends to a gig that a buddy of mine had a band, and they were paid professionally to play at this bar.
And so they invited us as a guest.
Why don't you come hear my band play?
And so I went there and we met up with a bunch of people and there was a girl there.
And after we'd been drinking, she decided to be the designated driver and drive us home.
We went back to my place and a couple of the guys followed us.
After everybody else left, it was just the two of us.
And we were laying on my bed next to each other side by side going into the night.
And I just said, Lord, don't let me do this.
I don't care for this girl.
I don't want a relationship with her.
I know sex would be great, but I just don't want to do that.
And besides, I don't know who she is.
She might be a total psycho.
And then I wind up locked into a situation that I don't want to keep up.
So I don't know.
I mean, I don't, I think it's tricky no matter which way you go, it's the life is full of landmines.
So, I mean, you could suck it up and say, you know, just you got to try it, you know, to win it.
But I just, I just never was that person.
Got it.
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The other caller.
Sorry, I forgot.
Sean?
Sean, yeah.
Sean.
Hey, how's it going?
Good.
What do you think about this whole thing?
What do you think about this whole subject?
Yeah, I mean, I have a lot of thoughts on this subject.
You know, I wasn't there.
I was never married, but I was in a live-in relationship.
And prior to that, what I noticed like when we didn't live together was that I think for most girls, it might not be true for all, but they sort of have more desire for the guy they're with when they are apart for them.
So like when you don't live with them, they think about you throughout their work week or, you know, whether they're at school or what have you, because there's a lot of sort of mystery in that they don't know what you're doing or where you're at.
And I think that naturally stimulates their desire so that the next time you do see them, suddenly they want to have sex with you.
And that's why most men will experience that having a girlfriend who particularly they don't live with, they tend to have a lot more sex when they do see them compared to when they're married or in a live-in relationship.
And so when I started living together with my now ex-girlfriend, I found that her desire over time started to sort of dip, whether it's like we're just, we're too familiar with each other.
It's almost like brothers and sisters, right?
The reason why they're not attracted towards each other is because they spend way too much time with each other.
And sort of there's that sort of Westermark effect that basically happens that basically causes from both sides, but I would say particularly even more so for women, they tend to naturally lose their desire.
And so, you know, I think Chris Rock had a saying, like men should be fucking and going, right?
Basically, they should be on the road like a traveling salesman and then only come home for sex and then back on the road.
Like that's how things will naturally work a lot better than if you're around them too often.
But yeah, I would say a lot of women, they are a little bit hypocritical and quite frankly, a little bit feminist in their thinking that they should naturally have a desire.
And only then when they're in the mood, I guess, should a husband get sex.
And, you know, I find this a little bit hypocritical because, you know, for girls that are, you know, in the workforce, they have no problem getting in the mood to go to work to get a paycheck.
But the idea that their, you know, most valuable customer being their husband or their boyfriend who they live with, they don't see that they have a duty to satisfy him, even though he's paying all the bills.
They just kind of take it for granted over time.
So when I sort of experience this sort of like, you know, I'm not in the mood or this, that, and the other, you know, I think Brad's a much nicer guy than me.
But I took more of the approach of being a dick.
Like I was, I was more like, okay, well, if you don't want to have sex with me, like you don't have to, but I'm going to have sex with somebody else.
So I'd prefer to have it with you.
But if it's not a priority to you, you know, I'll go to another restaurant.
Like that was a sort of, you know, my mentality of things.
And what I found was the idea of her losing me tend to sort of, you know, spontaneously drive up her desire to want to have sex with me more often.
So I think the reality is, you know, it's almost like a tenured professor.
When you, once that professor gets tenure, all their research basically goes to hell, right?
Because why would you expect any employee or, you know, any professor or what have you to, you know, do high quality work if you guarantee their job?
What motivation do they have to want to work harder?
Right.
So I think a lot of guys make that mistake by either, you know, getting legally married without a prenup or what have you or giving her some sense of like true security.
I think women don't actually want security in terms of driving up their sort of sexual desire.
Or I think they think they want it because other women want it.
And so they think that's going to make them happy.
But I think the reality is it doesn't actually propel their desire.
If anything, it probably kills it.
One of the things that Karen Seitz brings out when you listen to her is the whole idea of the elusiveness of happiness.
And I think, Pearl, I think you've addressed that too.
Women are all into the emotionality of seeking that happiness.
And so after a while, I think you're absolutely right, Sean, as far as right on point, as far as the familiarity breeding contempt.
I mean, you're like an old shoe after a while, and they know you're around.
That in my wife's case, I mean, there was some concern at some point that she wasn't financially ready to stand on her own yet, or when the kids were still little, that she was going to have a hard time as a single mom with four kids finding another guy to take my place.
So oddly enough, there was also apparently some guilt at some point because I got more sex while she was having an affair.
Oh my gosh.
Yeah.
I mean, she was, she was going like crazy.
I thought, man, she's going through some kind of a hormone thing or a midlife crisis.
Did she ever do the gaslighting thing where she would accuse you of cheating?
Because a lot of times, guys, if a woman's accusing you of cheating and going through your phone, she's gaslighting you because she's cheating.
Amen, brother.
Amen.
I mean, the interesting thing about that is even beforehand, she set up the whole thing.
And I came out to find out, you know, she was a bit of a 304 before I married her.
And she did the whole virtue signaling, I'm a church girl thing.
And I knew her through church, but we were on different ends of town.
And so I only saw her intermittently.
I didn't go to school with her and see all the stuff she was doing in high school that all of her high school friends knew.
So I didn't know, but she was already kind of pre-setting up things to where it was like, I just know you're going to cheat.
And I know men cheat.
And so she was practically every time I looked at a TV program and said, wow, you know, that woman's attractive.
I learned later on that's not a smart thing as a husband or as a boyfriend to do anyway.
But if I would make a statement or something like that, she'd already have this thing going about, I was already predisposed to cheat and I was going to cheat.
And so I was practically condemned of cheating before I ever did anything.
And the bizarre thing is, guys, I'm not virtue signaling here for myself, but in the 36 years that I was married, the 32 of which that we were actually physically together in the same house in the same bed, I never cheated on her.
I got close.
I actually had an airline stewardess and her daughter that it got like within inches of, you know, getting into something.
For those who've never been married, the best cologne you can wear to attract women is marriage.
Yep.
I'm telling you, women that could tell, especially if you give any kind of inkling that you're happily married, if you talk about your wife all the time, if you have a picture of you and your wife smiling as the background on your computer screen, or maybe you have a picture of you and your wife on your phone, dude, it's over with.
It's over.
It's a challenge.
Yeah.
And can I get him away?
And we love destroying things, even marriage.
We don't even love destroying our marriages and other people's marriages.
We get all 100% true.
I've heard it said that women like drama.
Yeah.
I'm sorry.
I didn't mean to talk over top of you.
Sorry.
Go ahead.
Oh, I was just going to say, and I'm not sure now because there are a number of different intelligent women like yourself that address these biased subjects from the men's perspective and with some real truth behind it.
But the idea that in the drama that women like, it's not okay if things are just quiet and things are going peacefully.
Yeah, I mean, I agree with that, right?
Like women like to sort of share their emotions, whether it's positive or negative.
And if everything is very calm, they're going to intentionally start drama, right?
And the purpose of that is to get a reaction out of you because if you're reacting very emotionally, then by definition in her sort of subconscious brain, she thinks, oh, he cares, right?
Versus if you do nothing, then it's just like, okay, then he doesn't care.
Like, that's just how they kind of interpret it.
But, you know, I will say one thing to kind of what you mentioned, Brad, like, you know, because you, I think you were trying to reassure your, your now ex-wife that, you know, you were, you're being faithful and you would never cheat and things like that.
I think that was actually a mistake.
I agree.
But because in my honest experience, like if you let a girl, like with my ex, I would tell her from the get-go, like, I'm conditionally monogamous to you.
Like, as long as you're giving me sex and I don't feel like cheating, I won't cheat.
And I'm not going to guarantee that.
But as long as you act well, I'll have no reason to seek it elsewhere.
But, you know, you kind of need to let her know that you have other options on the side.
You're just choosing not to excise that options, right?
I can confirm that, Sean.
I can actually confirm that.
During the second year that we were married, I changed jobs and I went to a new location.
And because of the type of work I did, I couldn't wear my wedding ring because it interfered with the mechanical work.
And a young woman in the office, very attractive young woman, she took a liking to me and started flirting with me.
And I'd been already out of the game enough to where it was like, I didn't, I honestly did not realize what she was doing, that she was displaying an interest.
And it started getting more and more cozy to where people in the office started taking notice.
Well, somehow or another, my wife got to know about this.
The next thing you know, she's showing up at work.
She's bringing me flowers.
She's sending me cards.
So yeah, when there was that risk of possibly losing your meal ticket, which is more of what I was at that point, whatever the reason is, she was more attentive.
So yeah, to your point.
I would agree with that.
I mean, girls will fight over a good provider, at least in their eyes.
Like if they feel like you're doing a good job at that and they know you're not easily replaceable, they absolutely will fight over you.
But, you know, one thing I'll say is, you know, the week my ex found out that I had a hinge profile in the back of my phone, that was the week I got the most sex from her, to be honest.
Because in her mind, it was like, oh, shit, like he's looking elsewhere.
I thought this relationship was stable.
Like, you know, who's he talking to?
Right.
So, so I think that's just how they think.
Was there someone else?
I mean, there was a few girls I was just like chatting with, but no one I was actually meeting up with.
Oh, okay.
But I mean, just the idea that that was the case, I think that her mind kind of crazy.
I had a circumstance where, where I had this friends with benefits from a part-time job that I was sleeping with for like years, right?
And I started talking to this girl that I really started to like.
And so the girl that I really started to like, she said that she wasn't a sexual person, whatever that means, right?
And I'm talking like sex like once a week was good for her, but she was absolutely beautiful.
Now, the side chick I was sleeping with was, you know, like a five, but this girl was like an eight, right?
And so how I was getting by was, okay, I'll sleep with the eight once a week and eventually she tried to break that down, but it's okay because I'm sleeping with the other chick, right?
So one day I'm over the eighth house and normally I would mute the notifications from the five on my phone right when I walked through the door of the eighth house.
Well, I had forgot to do that, right?
Because so my phone was across the room and the eight picked up my phone and the five had said, Hey, baby, this and this on a text message across from my phone.
And she's like, What is this?
I'm like, oh, crap, right?
So, guys, if that happens, don't leave.
Sit through it.
Like, like Justin Waller said when he was on, um, I think he was on Pearl's show.
Um, sit through the chaos, don't leave because I was like, Man, this is terrible.
And I'm ducking and dodging.
All you got to do is wait out her initial emote, sadness and disappointment, and then you will get the best sex ever.
That's what happened to me.
I agree.
I sat there for like an hour and a half.
She, oh my God, she went from pissed to sad to despair to upset to like trying to swing at me and stuff.
But then it ended in some of the best sex ever.
I'm telling you straight up.
And I barely said a word.
She's like, unlock your phone.
I want to see it.
I said, nope.
So you name calling all this stuff because she's had to get it all out.
She had to get it all out.
I just sat there on the couch.
Then she poured herself a drink.
Then she poured herself another drink.
And then we had the best sex ever.
We had sex for like six days straight.
That's so.
No, I mean, I agree with that.
Like, but when I was caught, I kind of took a different approach because she was pissed at me.
And I was just like, you know, I kind of put it back on her.
Like, I didn't like deny it or anything like that, but I was just more like, you know, you just haven't been taking care of me lately.
So, you know, I haven't felt wanted.
You know, I thought you were my girlfriend, you know?
And you got to put it back on them.
You got to make them feel guilty about it.
Like, you really do want them.
But because they were neglecting you, now other women are interested in you and you're pursuing that.
So you got to make them feel guilty about it.
So then that way they're thinking him cheating or him looking elsewhere is my fault.
Like that's how you got to do it.
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So if you're interested, you can email me.
But I just, I'm really trying to build my own show right now.
So I'm not really doing a ton of collabs unless they come like unless I already know the content or something.
But yeah.
Go ahead and Sean.
We have two more callers on.
So drop you guys off, but call anytime.
Okay.
Okay.
Sounds good.
Thanks, guys.
I was good talking to you.
Okay.
So Brad says that he wants to come on.
And then we have our good friend Sean from Thailand.
We'll bring him on too.
Brad.
Oh, no.
Yeah, that was one you were just talking to.
This is different, Brad.
Yeah, yeah, different Brad.
Brad, are you there?
Brad, you said you wanted to come on in the chat.
You're on.
Now you're on mute.
Brad?
Brad?
What up, guys?
There you are.
Go ahead.
Hey, Brad.
How are you?
I'm doing good.
How about yourself?
I'm good.
So what are your thoughts on the topic?
Yeah, so I've only been watching a little bit, but the gist of it is like having boundaries with your girl is what I'm getting from it.
You haven't been listening to the show at all or the monologue or anything?
Well, I've just been busy, so I've been on and off with this one.
Nah, man.
Sorry.
I can't.
Brad, sorry, man.
Like, you can't just barge it here.
And we've been having all these conversations.
We don't want to recap for you, bro.
Sorry.
So, like, sorry, man.
Our good friend Sean from Thailand.
Sean, what's up, brother?
Sean?
What's going on?
Hey, Sean.
How are you?
Good, good.
Hey, you got to pay that toll to talk to Pearl.
Let's get it.
Let's get it.
What's going on, everybody?
What do you think of the topic?
What are your thoughts?
Did you see the monologue?
Yeah.
And then I also see some ex-posts and stuff like that.
I think they're called the ex-posts.
But yeah.
Yeah, exactly.
Going back and forth.
So I think, you know, I think actually women in general actually attempt to shame men's sex drive.
But drag cons take it to the highest level, of course, right?
Because now they got the Bible, Jesus, and everything on their side when they're making the arguments and the cases.
And they also appear to be quote unquote sanctified while they do it and administer their preachings and what they think about male sex drive.
I agree.
What do you think?
Could you imagine?
Could you ever be with a woman that tried to say, like, people publicly knew that you and her were together, right?
And you weren't on social media, but then she were to say, oh, yeah, men don't need sex.
My husband is under control.
He doesn't, we don't ever have sex.
We don't like, could you imagine a woman putting all that out there?
Like, what would be the goal of a woman doing that?
And how would that reflect?
How does a woman doing that reflect on the man she's with?
Well, I mean, it depends on what society they're in, but I think at the end of the day, they do that a lot because they're just lacing the game.
They telling other pimps, that means the other girls.
They're telling, hey, look, I laced my husband like this.
This is how I pimped him.
This is how I got him arranged in our relationship.
And you guys need to follow suit.
They try to actually normalize a lot of that, right?
Haven't you seen those articles by some weirdo psychologist, female feminist who's out here saying, hey, look, it's okay.
I think it's therapeutical for women to cheat, right?
To have second relationships in their marriage.
Yeah.
So they do that a lot.
They tend to kind of like attempt to normalize it in some intellectual, spiritual, not even intellectual.
It's mostly like some spiritual blah, blah, blah, like the energy vibes, gems, vibrations.
And so I think that at the end of the day, they just end up trying to convert it to a mainstream topic, you know, to be acceptable.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And you know what's crazy?
I'm like, I'm not that religious, but I feel like when it comes to this, how do I have more religious beliefs than like women?
Like when I'm like, I don't think you're supposed to hunpack your husband.
Like, I understand like it happens at times.
Like, I do understand, like, you know, we're women, but it's like, come on.
You know what I mean?
It's just, I don't understand how it's like, I, a non-religious person, understand the natural order of the world better than women that claim to know the Bible so well.
Well, I guess when you just look at it, right, Pearl, let's start with story number one.
Like, Eve defied God from the junk.
So I don't know why it would change in 2025.
They couldn't get it right on day one.
So you get what I'm saying?
Like, so they always are going to defy.
Like, okay.
I mean, girls don't even get that much that Eve got, right?
And Eve kind of set the trend.
She was like, look, girls, I was, I was a trad girl, right?
I did what I was supposed to do.
And then, you know, the snake came and I changed my mind.
And so I think at the end of the day, that's just what they're going to do.
I think that's the lesson out of the dang Bible.
Yeah, I totally agree.
Nothing else.
I totally agree.
There's a super chat.
My side chick joke just made my night.
My stomach did hurt a bit.
So, oh, yeah.
What's what do you think?
Who behaves the best in your experience?
Situationships, side chicks, girlfriends, or wives?
Oh, come on.
It's a tier.
It's a tier, right?
So the side chick.
It's a tier for sure, for sure.
But you have to look at the usability of each chick, right?
And you kind of get diminishing returns once you get to the wife level.
So once you get that side chick, right?
Or what was the other one?
You said side chick and what was the other one called?
Side chick, situationship.
So, you know, you're like, yeah, there we go.
You know, a side chick is like you have a girlfriend and then she's in the background, really trying to ruin that.
And then a wife.
So like you're married.
Exactly, exactly.
So you got the situationship and the side chick at the lowest tier.
But also, don't forget the side chick usually got some more leverage on you.
So situationship is at the best one with more freedom.
Yeah, they're going to have, they're going to utilize that leverage.
Then you move into the girlfriend aspect, right?
And then the girlfriend, that's like less influence, but still a little bit more concrete.
And then the wife is the final nail in the coffin.
Because once you make her a wife, it's just like, okay, simp enforcers from cops, lawyers, judges, the society as a whole sees her as a certain person regardless of her actions, right?
And they're going to treat her in a specific way.
And it's usually attached to your economics and everything else that you have going on for yourself, right?
So at the end of the day, I would say the girl who treats you the best is the girlfriend only because you also get the leverage things out of her.
And then right underneath that is a situationship.
Those are the prime positions where you get the most out of the females because you could always leave.
And situationship is actually the best because no rules are clearly defined.
So no one's getting too comfortable.
But you might not be able to leverage things that you might want to leverage at those situations.
But think about this, Pearl.
They all get kids.
Okay, so if you, it's 2 a.m. who and you call a situationship or a side chick or a girlfriend, who's going to get there the fastest?
Of course, like Doug said, the situationship and the side chick, because that's usually what the duties are.
You have to pick the side chick or the situationship.
Who's getting there faster?
Come on.
Go into your head.
You got to pick it up.
Side chick.
Especially since you said the midnight thing.
Nobody has a side chick for emotional support.
Yeah, because she knows how to get through the back door and stuff.
Well, can we establish that a situationship is a woman in a situation ship is in a higher level of commitment than a side chick?
Yeah.
Wait, no.
No.
No, I'd say a situationship is you guys are hooking up, but there's no labels on it.
So you haven't defined it.
And then a side chick is like you have your wife or your girlfriend and then the girl you cheat with, but she's been around for a while.
So I'd put the side chick above the situation.
No?
Well, I know at least the side chick.
Oh, go ahead, Doug.
Yeah.
Well, because so situationships, though, remember, they're doing things like a relationship.
So situationship women have like, they've gone out on trips and they probably met the family and stuff.
And people around them are wondering why they're not in a relationship.
Whereas side chicks, they don't get to meet the family and show up to like events.
You know what I'm saying?
Like side chicks can't do that.
Yeah, but I mean, some side chicks get written into wills.
Like, I mean, if they've been there for a while, they start to get the same stuff.
Well, let's say that.
We'll clock them both in as almost the same.
There's just some nuances there for both of those two groups.
But let's be for certain that wife is a nail in the cost.
That's diminishing returns.
Okay.
I know it sounds bad, guys, but it's just nah.
They just have too much power in that.
And women know that.
So at the end of the day, they leverage it.
Well, thanks for calling in, Sean.
It's a pleasure as all.
Beardson, are you still here?
No.
Oh, he dropped out.
No, no, no.
I don't think he is.
Yeah, I think he dropped out.
Thanks for having me.
And then, of course, everybody watching, man, sign for the Audacity Network.
Have the Audacity to sign up for the Audacity Network.
Shout out to you.
And shout out to you, Doug.
Peace.
Ozzy talking to me.
Steve M, she must feel you leaving, not vice versa.
I was trying to have this girl call in who was talking.
They had their hollow was supposed to be calling in because she was talking a bunch of trash in the chat.
Hit that link at the top because she's like, oh, yeah, you guys are a bunch of losers because you can't find a good woman like me.
Oh, yeah, why don't you call in?
But she's the Bible isn't on the TradCon side.
Genesis 25, 6.
Wife didn't put out, told her friends, I don't know how to attract women to cheat.
Now my Thai girlfriend doesn't wear any panties.
I don't even have to ask her for it.
Love you, Pearl.
Do you need a side joint?
What is a side joint?
You know, like a, you know, in certain areas of the country, they say joint, like, what's the example?
Like, it's like a slang term for just, I can't even describe it.
Odds are he's from Philly.
Doesn't sound like something I need.
I don't know.
Let me see if there's any I missed.
Super's because I'm going to the back end.
Love you, Pearl.
Okay.
I read all of the super chats.
So I think we'll close out the show.
Yeah, I don't see any Pearl reads on the Audacity Network.
So I think we're good.
I just wanted to thank Joseph Jillik.
Thanks for being in the Audacity Chat.
Joel, thanks for being there.
Rodolfo, good to see you.
Everyone, thanks for being in the Audacity Chat as usual.
Yeah, thank you guys.
Thanks for watching, as usual.
I really appreciate you guys.
You could bring your time and attention anywhere.
My final thought on the topic is that TradCon women, you might as well just get a non-religious girl.
if i think through all the women i knew in my life i'd say the not liberal or religious ones are the best where they just like have neither but yeah Doug MPA, you got any final thoughts on the topic?
Like you said in the monologue, liberal guys have it better because liberal women acknowledge male sexuality.
They just want you to sleep with whales and ugly, feminist, hard-headed women instead of pretty women.
But Tradcons don't want men to have sex at all, except to have to make babies.
So if you have three kids, you're going to have sex three times in your marriage, guys, and that's it.
Oh, my God.
And so for if conservatives want more men to come back to the church or they want more men to To get married, they're going to have to promote that the conservative women have a duty to have sex with their husbands and that sex is a need.
And if a woman wants to keep her husband happy, that she has to have sex with him.
Until that happens, oh well, tough crap.
Yeah, my advice to the Tradcons is you should get some hot 22-year-old thin women that are virgins in church.
And if you can figure out a way to do that, you know, or at least we'll lie about the virginity.
If they're hot enough, they're just not going to check.