Pearl Reed critiques conservative men—like Catholic apologist Trent Horne—who tolerate public humiliation by their wives, from social media infidelity (e.g., 20+ affairs dismissed as "fun") to passive-aggressive domestic demands like nagging over chores or Botox obsession. She argues men avoid accountability, preferring messy homes over emotional labor, while women’s expectations remain unrealistically high, citing divorce threats over unmet mental load and framing male requests (like being left alone) as unreasonable. The episode suggests modern gender dynamics trap men in performative roles, with Reed’s $10/month Audacity Network pitch as a solution for "winning" relationships. [Automatically generated summary]
And today, we're going to have another episode of Pearl Daily.
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Okay, so welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
I have talked about radical acceptance on my platform and in the past, and how much it has helped me de-stress and focus on the things important that are important to me and my life.
The definition of radical acceptance is a conscious effort to acknowledge and honor situations and emotions, fully accepting things as they are instead of fighting against reality or wishing things were different.
You know, the issues I've talked about before that I had a hard time accepting were abortion and women being whores.
In 2025, there is no reason to argue with a pro-life person about the issue of abortion.
It's pointless.
They are never going to change their minds, and women will fight and die for the ability to get an abortion, regardless of how I feel about it.
In 2025, women are going to sleep around.
Promiscuity is a part of the modern woman's pathology, and it's never going to go away.
If I meet a woman and she's a whore, there's no saving her, so don't even try.
The latest issue I've had to accept is: modern women do not respect men and will humiliate them as they see fit.
The days of women revering their husbands and treating them with dignity and respect are over.
This is especially true on social media.
Women will air out their relationship business all over TikTok and Instagram without a thought, as to how it will, without a thought as to how it will affect their man.
It doesn't matter if the guy is a bum or if he is high value.
The average man has to worry if their girlfriend or their wife will run their mouth for attention and likes.
So, when I was on Twitter, I saw a clip from Trent Horne's wife.
So, Trent Horne was a guy I debated a couple of months ago.
And I, oh, wait, hold on.
And I really did think he was a super simp.
Like, he basically was on this show saying that men need to get married.
You know, the sleeping round is men.
It's not women doing it.
And I just knew sometimes my super simp radar goes off, right?
And I'm like, this guy, his wife is running the relationship because of how he thinks and his super simp tendencies.
Now, I think this was the guy who hosted it, Pints with Aquinas.
And again, this is the challenge you get with the religious men.
It's like what they do, what they have a tendency to do is they virtue signal morality.
So they say, I am so moral.
But how moral can you be as a man if you are afraid of your wife?
Yeah, like if you fear your wife, you're officially a woman now.
You have the same morals as a woman because you're going to defer to our morals.
And you know, we don't have morality.
You know, we don't have.
Okay, so here we go.
Hey, so I got super close to a male co-worker.
Let me make sure this isn't on 2X.
Okay.
Hey, so I got super close to a male coworker.
And I share this testimony.
And our, we used to do like a marriage encounter weekend and I shared this testimony.
And I got too close to him.
And you start, I wouldn't say developing feelings.
And Trent knows all this stuff, but I think that's how affairs happen.
They happen very slowly.
It's not like you, you know, just have an affair with someone.
You get to know them.
You're attracted to their temperament.
They see the best side of you.
And like Trent was very uncomfortable with it.
And I was like, well, we're just friends, but he's not a jealous person at all.
So he was like, you know, I'm just asking that you don't do anything that you wouldn't be uncomfortable with me doing with a woman.
Like you have that same standard.
Like if I was like talking to a coworker often and joking around with that person and they were, you know, like getting.
So she's talking publicly about how she wanted to smash another dude.
And she thinks this is acceptable.
And the men in the room don't even check her.
This is conservatism.
I know you.
Would you be, would you be comfortable with me doing that?
And I was like, absolutely not.
I would burn her house down how I would handle that.
She'd be gone.
But yeah, so I was like, okay, so I did have to set like a standard.
Like I can't talk to you one-on-one anymore.
And it's so hard because you don't want to like when you do that, you assume you're kind of making an assumption about the other person that they are attracted to you.
So it comes off very awkward.
Like, like, I can't talk to you anymore.
And you're like, you're just my friend and I'm not into you.
Now, look, are there times where this happens, right?
Where if a husband and wife is together for 30 years, you don't think both parties have at one point thought about cheating, that the thought has ever come to their head.
I know it's not, it's an uncomfortable truth, right?
But the same way, you know, there's times when men think about their wives that she's an ungrateful bitch and I, she's a whore and I shouldn't have married her.
But what the men don't do is they don't go on a podcast and say that where you have Michelle Obama saying she hated her husband for 10 years.
And they, and we think it's okay.
And the men don't do that to us, but we do it to them and we think it's all right.
You that way.
You know what I mean?
And so, but yeah, so you're like, well, I misread this.
And so, but, but I didn't misread it.
And so, but I think things happen.
So she said, I didn't misread it.
Now, this guy, what a simp.
Bro, like, isn't this guy your friend?
Isn't Trent your friend?
And you're allowing his wife to embarrass him.
Like, do you guys hate your friends?
This is the, oh my God.
I don't know if this is live or pre-recorded, but if this was pre-recorded and that was your friend, bury the footage.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, you tell your friend's wife, hey, this is not a good look, and you bury it.
And slowly within the workforce, there are, and not everybody for sure, but I think it's, I'm someone who is like vulnerable to that, to like someone's personality or, you know, so I have to be on guard for that.
No, like, I don't know if you feel this.
Yeah, so she essentially thinks it's okay to talk about wanting to bang another dude.
Okay, look.
Men probably want to cheat all the time.
They have these like high sex drives and men, they just want to bang everything, right?
Over a certain threshold.
But, you know, there's a new crop of 22-year-old women that show up every year.
32-year-old.
I mean, there's a whole new batch of women every year coming.
And, you know, the men want to smash, right?
But they don't go out and say it.
They shut up.
We don't know how to shut the F up.
Do you know what I mean?
Okay, so next.
All right.
So if you're not familiar with Trent Horm, he's a Catholic apologist that simps for women.
I debated with him 10 months ago and he made a bunch of videos about me simping the F out and saying that I just hate women.
And he said, oh, you just simp for men.
Well, I'd rather simp for men than women because at least men have morals.
At least men do the right thing.
We don't.
Now, what I just showed, and so this is what happens, is these guys are so afraid of being honest because we all know men have an innate, like you guys, it's just in you.
You guys know what's true and what's not true.
Us, we don't have that.
That is like gone, dissolved, nayskinata, right?
And so when you see guys like this that simp out for women, what it means is they're liars.
Okay.
They're liars and they're afraid of us.
And it's understandable.
We're pretty scary.
We can do a lot of damage to a man.
But it still makes you a simp, right?
So what I just showed is his wife talking about how she was attracted to a male coworker.
Let that sink in for a second.
A Catholic apologist's wife, a public figure and sole provider's wife is saying shit like this on the internet.
It's insanity.
How does this make her husband look?
Does she think about her husband's image before she said this stuff?
She has a podcast called Too Far with Laura Horne.
Most female content creators, again, conservative female content creators cannot help but use their kids and their husbands for clout.
Now, I'm not talking about like Tucker Carlson posts a picture of his family once a year.
I'm not talking about that.
But they use, they don't know how to be good people and be nice and likable.
And so what they do is they use their families as a way to virtue signal.
So she's going to use her whole life as content.
Like when men come to the internet, like Tucker Carlson, for example, he may mention his wife, but it's not the subject of the podcast, right?
The subject of the podcast is the conservative stuff.
Where women, the subject is, look at how awesome I am.
Look at how amazing I am.
Okay, so there's an article written that, how do women humiliate men?
Okay, have you ever been humiliated as a man?
One in the chat.
One in the chat.
I was humiliated on many occasions and it made me feel powerless and just not good enough.
I remember this one evening when I was at a conference in Dubai sitting among big shots in the video game industries.
We had dinner and drinks, lots of drinks.
I was just about to leave the party.
I and another girl were the only females at that party.
I was a senior business manager.
While she was a junior, we shared the same manager and it was I who persuaded him to bring her along to help her learn something from the seniors.
But as it turned out, she envied me.
So when I stood up and told my goodbyes, one of my business partners asked me to stay for another drink.
She answered instead of me.
But she can't.
Didn't you know?
She drinks too much.
He, he.
That's what we do.
We add in a he-he, right?
That's what we'll say something that's a terrible thing to say, and then we'll say he, he, like that makes it better.
I was lucky enough to be in the company of a gentleman who ignored this girl's comment.
Looking back now, I know it was her who humiliated herself.
The fall down of my best friend.
My good friend was recently humiliated again once by his wife on his birthday.
They were having a party where many of his friends were present.
Somehow sex came up and my friend's wife told his friends that her husband has a small penis and that's why she has a vibrator.
Can you, oh my gosh.
A long silence followed.
Another birthday was ruined.
This was not the first time his wife put him down in front of others.
Humiliation is a form of abuse.
The worst is when the humiliations come from someone close to you, someone you are in a relationship with.
And it is an unpleasant feeling which shakes you to the very core.
Humiliations come in many forms, such as bullying, name-calling, or mocking, bad-mouthing, spreading rumors, and making belittling remarks, pointing out your disabilities or inabilities, and insulting your beliefs or your ridiculous religion or rituals.
Inappropriately teasing you in front of others.
But why do certain women humiliate their men?
They must know that what they are doing is going to inflict pain on their partner.
They must be aware of that.
Humiliation is just another form of control.
It's abusive behavior.
And when a woman humiliates you, it gives her a sense of power over you.
Most likely, they do this because they have very low self-esteem and they want to feel superior.
Many men wait around and accept this as a form of abuse because it's subtle.
It happens once in a while when your friends come around or at a family dinner.
Your partner might make small remarks about your clothing or compare you to someone else, stating that you are not doing financially well enough.
Often, she would laugh and make it seem like a joke again.
Insult.
It's like women will do this, not all, but a lot.
They'll insult what you care about.
They'll insult your passions.
They'll insult your family, your children, your parenting.
And then they'll add in, he, he, as if that makes it go away.
Okay, how to spot a humiliation.
Humiliation is sometimes hard to spot and can be mistaken for teasing.
It can start with her making a childish gesture or chastising you for speaking up, speaking your mind.
Does your girlfriend like to insult you in front of strangers?
Does she laugh at your mistakes?
Does she put you down because you are not dressed well enough?
Does she speak about your intimate relationships in front of friends?
Does she compare you to her past boyfriends or husbands in front of others?
If yes, then it's time to part ways.
Men stay in toxic abusive relationships.
The issue is that many men will stay in abusive relationships and they'll keep ignoring and brushing it off, but don't.
These are red signs.
Being ridiculed will lead to serious health problems.
I know men who have become isolated and stop seeing their friends because they fear that their girlfriends or wives will make belittling remarks.
I know men who have developed anxiety and depression and started binge drinking at home.
We must start recognizing the abuse of men by their partners.
Johnny Depp has shown society that it's time to stand up to abuse.
Society still has the wrong beliefs about men who have kept this kind of abuse hidden for too long.
Some of these beliefs are that men don't get pushed around by women.
Men should not protect themselves when a woman is hitting them.
Men should be tough and accept rudeness.
Men should provide for women even after divorce.
Men should be able to handle their women.
Because of these toxic beliefs, men who are abused by women don't speak about it.
And even police and other professionals may not take the abuse seriously.
As a result, these men suffer.
It's time to help these men find the courage to speak up because abuse can happen to men too.
How partners in men's will, how partners in men's will help you.
Oh, wait, this is a ad.
Okay.
So we have some videos of women embarrassing their husbands on social media.
So we got this one.
Let me turn this on.
Okay, go.
Okay, wait.
There we go.
Come in two to three songs late and immediately show zero consideration for the people behind you.
So this is very expensive place to go, I guess, in Vegas.
She got too drunk.
Start a fight with the people behind you who are blocking me.
Oh, she flicked them off?
Yeah, and see, her husband's a super sick.
It's time.
See, this is what I mean.
Like, you guys will simp.
Not you guys, right?
I'm sure you guys have divorced all your wives or whatever.
But like, if I expect you to accept this behavior, right?
I need to see at least a six, okay?
Like, otherwise, this is just like if you're simping, but she's a baddie, at least it kind of makes sense, right?
At least I could say, all right, that, but I mean, come on.
So then they go get security.
So then she goes even harder.
When security comes, refuse to leave and show everyone who's in charge.
Can you imagine, guys?
They paid, he probably paid three grand for those tickets.
And now she's got to leave.
He's like, get out.
embarrassing.
Have yourself a guy who is torn between getting arrested and supporting his girl.
Would you guys leave her or stay?
That's a super simp.
That's a super simp.
now first he wanted to leave and now he's he has to do the embarrassing thing even though he doesn't want to do it that's so embarrassing
Do you guys see?
All right.
That is embarrassing.
Now he's going back and dancing.
Why do they have female security guards?
I mean, that's like the most pointless job ever.
Hold on.
And finally, do not give up your support for the Eagles, no matter how many police officers.
Plus your guy is telling you it's time to go.
Oh, I guess that would be it.
You do need female security guards to get the women out.
Because women do sue.
You like touch them and they're like, lawsuit!
That's what the girls on my show would do.
But it was illegal.
We could kick them out.
But there were times where the security would drag him out and they're like, I'm going to sue.
I'm going to sue.
I'm going to sue.
So it's not a bad idea.
So that, kids, is how you get yourself forcibly removed from the Eagles opening night concert at the Sphere.
Oh my gosh.
That is so bad.
Resisting authorities is always a great idea.
Oh my gosh.
Oh my gosh.
She's sitting on the ground.
She's so old.
How could she be doing this at this age?
That's what happens, you know.
No one, like, she just got ugly.
Nobody, like, imagine if she was a hot 22-year-old woman.
Do you think that they would have told her to sit down or just dealt with it?
They would have dealt with it.
And then they become the ugly 42-year-old woman, right?
How would you handle it, guys?
Let me know in the chat on the website.
I would leave her.
I'm just, I'd go home.
Or would I stay?
Would I like want to enjoy the tale?
You know what?
It'd be funny.
Do you know what?
I feel like it would be funnier if the husband went and got security.
But yeah, he's a super simp.
He's not going to do that.
And she chose her exit song perfectly.
Oh, wait.
Amazing.
All right.
So Michelle Obama said all sorts of terrible things about Barack, says Doug MPI.
Carlo says, religious people expect and project too much order in a world that is too unpredictable and requires adaptability.
We can't live a healthy life if we question or our nature at every corner.
These examples are obnoxious and not appropriate, obviously.
She's effectively cheating without physical contact.
The other thing women do is slowly and methodically build a narrative of how her husband is stupid or something.
It starts off playfully like little funny jokes and pet names, cute stuff.
That's where it starts.
And the guy is lured into a false sense of security, thinking it's just a playful game until it's not.
It's manipulative and coercive control.
My ex-wife did this, now divorced, and I have full custody of the children.
Carlo says the church feels like a psyops sometimes.
You think you are getting closer to God in your personal life, and then you have your ideas shut down, get a vibe, like you have to lie, even if you disagree.
If he leaves and she gets in more trouble, it's going to be more work later on.
See, that's why I need the guy's point of view, how you would do, what you would do.
My church has my back, but I'm still alone.
Pearl's the first person I've seen who talks about how women will follow their pastors before their husbands.
My dad, the only other person who has warned me about that.
In Australia, there are more laws in place against coercive control and manipulation.
We need to get these women held accountable.
And you know, now that woman being removed is going to go and blame her man for not defending her more.
That's so true.
Should her boyfriend be legally allowed to pick up his drunk woman and take her out of the concert?
I don't think he is.
Let's give thanks to the cameraman for catching all that.
Curveball says she's throwing a tantrum.
To be fair, she probably got too drunk.
Yeah, she probably got too drunk to remember what happened.
Doug MPA, the video is marriage for the average guy for the last 30 years.
She got them kicked out of the concert and now he's going to get hell the whole ride home.
Okay.
I see why men fear us.
Yeah, we're, I mean, this is pretty bad.
So women started cheating on her husband because she hates it.
Oh, I got to do this to prove I'm not a.
Here we go.
I've cheated on my husband over 20 times and I don't bother hiding it because I secretly hate him.
Disclaimer is not my story, Thomas said I mean on Instagram.
After realizing that I was living with the man-child who made me do everything for him, who cried all the time, who was always so sensitive and always needed something and complains 24-7, I decided to start cheating.
A few years ago, I had met a guy through a coworker.
We always followed each other on Instagram and I knew that he was attracted to me and he's pretty hot and rich and good looking.
So I decided to reach out on Instagram and asked him if he wanted to go out.
Not only did he say yes, he planned a whole outing.
We went hiking and we went to get massages.
Then he took me out to dinner and then we went to his place and had amazing sex.
I would see this guy about three times a week and I started hooking up with another guy that I met at the gym.
This guy was really hot.
He didn't have a lot of money, so we never really went out.
It was just plain sex, but it was good.
About six months later, I met another guy.
Again, amazing sex.
Do you think my husband noticed anything?
No.
I would talk to these guys on the phone while my husband was in the same room.
I would be setting up.
What?
She would talk to these guys on the phone.
I would be setting up dates with these guys in the same room as my husband.
The audacity.
At least when men cheat, they cheat respectfully, right?
They do, they go to extreme lengths for you to not find out.
Women just, we have the audacity.
I think up dates with these guys in the same room as my husband.
Do you think he cared?
No.
I would even wear sexy outfits to go out with them and he never asked anything.
He would just say, have fun.
And then he would call me to complain about what he was feeling and what he wanted me to buy.
Am I terrible for doing this?
I feel like he was probably cheating too and just didn't care.
What a nasty girl.
I know.
Now, the next thing that is going on on Twitter is women talking about mental load.
So there's a couple phrases I've heard women bring up the last couple years.
Now, what happens is women.
Okay, so have you guys ever thought you really liked a girl?
You're going on dates, things are going good.
Maybe she's a friend in your friend group or you've known her for a while and you think you really like her.
And then you have sex with her and you realize you didn't really like her as much as you thought you just wanted to smash.
You know, sometimes as people, we're not always aware the reason we do things or maybe we change our mind later.
What happens with women, you guys have post-nut clarity.
We have post-child clarity.
So a lot of times women don't realize they don't like their husbands.
And, you know, we've all seen it.
That girl that is a type and then she gets married to a guy that looks nothing like her exes because she didn't like the guy, but she wanted the kid in the marriage.
And the problem for us is attention is our currency.
The same way sex is you guys' currency.
So once we get that attention and it wears off, then we have to ask ourselves the question, do we actually like the man that's in front of us?
I got what I wanted.
I got the wedding.
I got the kids.
So what happens is women start to realize after they have the number of kids that they wanted and the attention goes away from the kids that they don't like the man in front of them.
That's when they start to looking for other options and they usually leave when the kid, the kid is around four, like three to five, whenever it starts going to daycare or public school.
And you can tell the women that don't like their husbands, you can tell because they start to count favors back and forth and they start to complain about him not doing chores or these other terms like he's not, you know, women do more emotional labor.
It doesn't make any sense because men don't really talk about their problems that much where we complain a lot.
So if anybody does emotional labor, it's definitely the men, right?
It's definitely the guys.
Men are just at peace.
You know, I think as a woman, the one thing women envy about men is the peace that they could have with a mattress on the floor in an apartment, right?
You guys get, it's like, you'll see a guy and he'll just, one time when I was in California for a while, I met a homeless guy.
And this homeless guy was talking to me about how he loved being homeless.
Like he was just content in like this little shack that he had built.
And he was happy.
And I'm like, could a woman be happy doing that?
No.
Women will be in like mansions and unhappy.
So here we go.
Why I considered divorcing my husband.
I've been with my husband for almost 20 years, but about three years ago, I was strongly considering divorce.
And I want to talk to you about why.
So I'm going to tell you the story of the day where I thought to myself, maybe I don't want to do this anymore.
In similar words of Do or Die in 1996, Trad Cucks didn't study pimpology.
And logically, they never learned how hose, biology, and obviously Lone Ranger.
Hashtag S-Y-S-B-M.
My husband and I had four kids.
We both worked full-time.
We had been together for 16 years at this point.
We've been together since high school.
Yeah, and so the problem is, you wonder why the divorce rate is lower or is higher for people that get married before 20 and before 25.
The lowest divorce rate is like, it's either 25 to 30 or 30 to 35.
The reason being, women don't want to spend their youth on their husband.
And the problem you get with women that marry young, it's a benefit for you guys because I'll tell you why it kind of benefits you guys.
The woman, you get all the good years, right?
And then when she decides to leave you, right?
Because we tend to do this in our late 20s, early 30s.
You know, we see all the yachts we didn't go on, all the stuff we missed out on.
Then we start hating the husband for it.
We're like, ah, you took all the free shit I could have gotten.
And the guy's like, I provided for you for the last decade.
I've done this, this, and this.
And she's like, amnesia.
It's like, so then she gets early 30s, maybe late 30s, and she's going to like she leaves, right?
This is really not a bad deal for you guys.
But the reason is, we get all these offers 24/7.
So it's like you act up.
The girl's going to think, I have 10 offers.
I'm turning down this.
I'm turning down this.
It builds the resentment.
And then they leave, yo ass.
Sorry, fellas.
And on paper, I have an amazing husband.
So she married young.
She's seeing all her friends doing sex in the city lifestyle.
Now she's mad at her husband for chores.
And he's like, it came out later, this woman had a nanny and she was complaining about chores.
She doesn't even have to watch her kids.
She works full-time and yet still not happy.
Don't try, fellas.
Don't try to make us happy.
Impossible.
We can't even make ourselves happy.
You guys have that shit on lock.
You guys can get an apartment.
Do you know what's crazy?
I'll interview men whose lives are completely shattered.
Like I interviewed this guy, came on the show.
His kid was transitioned.
And still, and like, that's a terrible thing, right?
He's still pretty happy.
Go lucky.
Do you know what I mean?
I'm like, you went through a terrible, I'm not trying to laugh at the situation.
Sorry.
I laugh sometimes.
It makes it seem insensitive.
But it's just amazing to me.
Like men can keep a positive spirit through so much.
Where women, it's like our coffee, our barista gives us the wrong order and it's World War III and our life is falling apart and we're not happy and need to divorce our children.
And the husband's like, hey, you can get another coffee.
It's okay.
Right.
So now this woman, like, I mean, that looks like a nice house.
I don't know where she lives, but granite countertops.
It looks like a lot of counter space.
That looks like a great place to live.
Right.
Now let's see.
Let's see her husband's crime.
Let's see what the husband did that was so bad.
Did he cheat?
Husband.
He is incredibly supportive.
Okay, so didn't cheat.
He's kind.
Okay, cat, that's good.
He's loyal.
He's a great dad.
Okay, kind, loyal, great dad.
But I'm sure if you wanted to leave him, we're going to get to it, right?
There's going to be something really bad he did.
Daddy's very hands-on.
He's an active participant.
He's always present.
But she's thinking she wanted to leave her husband.
So what's the bad?
On paper, what else could I ask for?
Okay.
But in reality.
Okay, in reality, there must have been something really bad that happened, right?
My experience is very similar to the experience of other women.
I had this amazing husband who on paper was great, but I was incredibly frustrated and burnt out from our marriage and from motherhood.
Because what happens to so many of us is that we marry these amazing men.
Okay, so she's burnt out from marriage and motherhood.
I'm sure something she's got to be a stay-at-home mom, right?
No help, right?
And we have amazing relationships and then we have kids.
And when we have kids, women tend to carry a disproportionate amount of the work in the home, the work of raising kids, and the mental load.
And that is exactly what happened to us.
About three months.
The mental load.
So what, was he screaming at you?
Like, what was this mental?
I keep hearing about this mental load, but what, do you know what I think the mental load actually is?
It's women having to deal with our mental.
That's the mental, like, we have to carry more of a mental load because men don't have a mental load because they're sane.
Like, in general, I would say eight out of 10 men are pleasant to be around.
Where one out of 10 women are pleasant to be around.
Like, I think that's the, so women have a higher mental load because our mental is just too much.
It's like we got all the emotions and the ups and downs and the that pissed me off and she made me mad and that girl did this, that guy did that.
Months after my fourth baby was born, I am exhausted.
I am in charge of everyone and everything in this house.
Every night when we cook dinner, you ask me what to make.
Okay, so the mental load is he asked you what you have to cook.
Okay, this is what I don't care.
Don't you have to eat yourself?
Like, don't, you know, because women always say, I don't want to cook, right?
But like, how do you eat?
Don't you have to eat for yourself, you know?
And does it take that long?
You know, there's like crock pots now.
Like, you could make some chili in the morning and at night.
I mean, that's a family of four.
I think it says she has four kids.
Every day when you drop off the kids at daycare, you ask me what they need in their backpack.
Okay, so she has daycare.
But what he did that was so bad.
You ask me what they need in their backpack.
So, okay, so the mental load is having to choose what to eat for dinner and packing their backpacks.
Okay.
I am the project manager of this home and I need you to do more.
Okay, she is the project manager of the home.
And he looked at me and he said, okay, just tell me what to do.
Okay, so again, doesn't seem like this terrible guy if he said, she says, I need help.
He says, okay, what do you need?
You didn't say you're wrong.
You're not.
He said, okay, that sounds like a reason.
Doesn't that sound like a reasonable guy to you?
What would warrant the possible divorce?
Right?
Every woman has heard this.
Just tell me what to do and I'll do it.
And I said, okay, you know, some.
So if every woman has heard, tell me what to do and I'll do it.
That's a guy with no frame because he doesn't understand women.
You're like, oh, you guys, this is so funny.
You guys will be like, just tell me what to do.
We don't even know what to do.
Like, we can't even make good decisions for our lives.
Okay.
We have all this debt.
We date guys that don't want to commit to us.
We make bad choices.
And you're like, the guys are like, just tell me what choice I need to make to make you happy.
We can't even make choices to make ourselves happy.
Dumb question.
Dumb question.
Something that would make my life easier is if in the mornings when I came downstairs with the four kids, because I do mornings by myself, the dishwasher was emptied, the dishes were put away, and the trash was taken out.
Okay, so she doesn't have to hand.
What I'm hearing is she doesn't have to hand wash.
She has a, he got her a dishwasher.
Okay.
I lived in England.
Do you know how much more time cooking takes when you have to hand wash?
All you have to do now is just plop, plop.
Okay.
That would make my life.
Pearl, women can't handle making decisions.
Yes, they can.
Women make a lot of decisions.
They make decisions of where to get their Botox done, their lip fillers, BBLs, boob jumps.
Women can make decisions, but they want, we're lazy.
So we want you to do it for us.
We totally can do it.
We make the decision to dump you.
That's a decision we make.
Yeah, okay.
My life so much easier because when I've got the four kids running around and the baby crying, I can't be looking for their favorite water bottle in the dishwasher.
I just need to know it's clean.
I can't, okay.
Now, if you have one dish, it takes like five minutes to clean it.
I know I just said it kind of contradicts, but I'm saying when it's like a big load, right?
Not a little one.
And he said, yeah, of course.
What?
Yeah, I'll do that.
That's no problem.
And so of course he does it.
But then I have to remind him and then he forgets.
And then I have to remind him again.
And there was this one morning where I woke up and I went to put something in the trash and it was overflowing.
And here's the thing.
Men would rather have a messy house than a nagging wife.
They would rather, look, they would rather you not clean at all and just shut the fuck up instead of nagging them, right?
And I Pearl's black pilled.
Yep.
I am.
Went to get my son's water bottle and it was in the dishwasher with all the other.
Yeah, the guys are already coming up with solutions.
They're like paper plates.
They're like, we don't need to do dishes.
Get the, what do we need dishes for?
Men are so funny.
Clean dishes.
And I felt so disrespected and unseen and unvalued at that point in time.
And I remember texting my husband being like, what happened?
Like, why didn't you do this?
And he said, sorry.
I was running late for work.
And I remember thinking, oh my God, he doesn't see me because what he's done has now made me late for work.
And he doesn't care about that.
He doesn't care about the impact on me.
And he doesn't see how every single thing in our home happens because I ask him to do it or because I do it myself.
So again, to me, this is just narcissism because that looks like a big house.
Do you think that she fixes things when the dishwasher breaks?
This is what happens.
Women do things, but the difference is men are like good people, right?
Not all, not all.
So when they do something nice, they don't keep track of it.
They're like, here, I did this to be nice.
But women, it's a scorecard.
So women, we have like this mental tracker that's just there.
So when we do something, it's like here, then we do something else and we do something else and we do something else and we do something else.
Then three years in, we list all of those things and the guy's like, I wasn't even keeping track.
We were supposed to keep track.
The guy's like, I don't even remember the things I did.
I do stuff for you all the time.
And she's like, I did this, And you did this wrong, that wrong, that wrong.
And he's like, we were keeping score.
He's like, I didn't know I was supposed to keep score.
And then you guys lose every argument.
You guys got to play chess, not checkers.
Or because I planned and organized it.
The diaper bag is full because I filled it, right?
Okay.
So her contributions are taking out the trash, the dishwasher, and filling a diaper bag.
I don't know.
I can't say, but what's really happening below the surface is she's mad she reproduced with him.
So she's trying to, women don't get mad at men.
They're happy they reproduced with, right?
And the thing is, remember, we can't be happy anyway.
So don't take it personal, fellas.
Like we, it takes so much.
Like, but for whatever reason, our wires go and she's convinced she could have did better with the youth she had.
She met him in high school.
So she's like, I could have did better in college.
I saw my friends do better in college.
And then it just goes off, right?
So now, you know, she's, she's mad she reproduced with him.
And now she's rationalizing.
Put the wipes in there.
And I felt so frustrated.
And I remember thinking, what's the point?
What's the point of doing this with someone else?
I might as well just do it all.
And it's not because my husband didn't love me or he did anything to me.
Okay.
So again, he loved me.
He didn't do anything to me.
But I'm considering a divorce.
And not to the point that she's putting it on the internet.
Look, we're human.
Everybody's got thoughts we're not proud of.
The men think, I want to bang that hot girl at work, right?
The women think, oh, I want to leave.
This is World War III.
But you know what you can do?
You can complain to maybe your immediate family or whatever, but not the internet, right?
To me.
And it's not because I didn't love him, but because I felt so taken advantage of in our relationship and this dynamic, it doesn't happen.
I hope he goes and finds a 22-year-old.
I wish you all a 22-year-old.
It's a better experience.
I know it's a little hypocritical because I'm old now, but you know, I'm just saying they're much more pleasant.
By accident, right?
It's not like my husband did it to me, but we've been raised in this society that tells men and women who they should be in marriages and what it looks like to be a good mom versus a good dad.
And we know the bar for moms is way up here and the bar for dads is way down here.
And we fell into these norms.
We fell into these roles in our family despite the fact that we never wanted to.
And I'm lucky.
And I say lucky because I have a partner who I know loves me and wants me to be happy and was willing and able to change.
And so we did the work to figure out what equity looked like in our relationship.
And I can tell you now three years.
So now translation, he does whatever I say now.
That's what that means.
Like when we did the work, it means now the relationship, I used to let him not do whatever he wants, but have some things that he enjoys.
Now he has nothing that he enjoys.
I have ruined, I have taken away all joy from him.
Years later, that we are happier than ever.
Our kids are thriving.
Our home runs like a well-oiled machine.
Translation, he does all the work now.
And I, I put a dish in the dishwasher and he allows me to feel like I did more than I did because he doesn't want me to divorce him.
So he does the work.
I'll take the credit.
That's what that means.
Machine.
And that took a lot of work.
I want to say it took like 18 months to get there.
And it was well worth it.
But it is not uncommon.
And so if your wife is coming to you and she's saying, I'm burnt out by the mental load and I need you to do the mental load.
Okay.
Again, so let me get this straight.
The mental load is garbage, dishwasher, and packing a backpack.
Okay.
More.
She's not just saying that because she wants you to do more chores.
She's saying that because truly it can hurt your relationship.
It can ruin your marriage if you do not participate in an equitable way in your home.
And so what does that look like?
I want to, I want to boss him around in the house.
I want this to be my house, not his house.
What does it look like to change these dynamics?
I want to dictate the way everything's done.
But we need to really assess in our homes what the work looks like.
Because in most homes, the data supports this, women do a disproportionate amount of the work.
Men actually work longer hours and they only count the chores that women tend to do, like kitchen chores.
They don't count the yard work chores.
How many women mow the grass?
We'll fix anything.
So it's, it's like, imagine, it's kind of like the, it's kind of like the WNBA, where women don't do as much, but like they give them more free media attention.
And even though they operate at a loss, they keep paying them.
That's the equivalent of how women feel like they're doing everything in the house.
They just do.
They do more of the cooking and the cleaning and the laundry and the child care while also working full-time.
And men have more time for things like their hobbies, like golf, for example.
Okay.
That is just not true.
So when men get into a relationship, they tend to give up their hobbies because women calendar block.
So they make you go to all these stupid events you don't want to go to.
So men are the ones that give up their hobbies.
So you can go to the sports games, visit her sister, visit her mother, do all this stupid stuff you don't even want to do.
Where women keep their hobbies, but which, I mean, most women's hobbies are social media, gossiping and watching the Kardashians or some dumb shows like that.
So we keep those, right?
Going to see our friends, but we hate anything that makes men happy that doesn't benefit us.
So that's why we hate video games.
That's why she's bitching about golf because it doesn't directly benefit us.
Working out, running a marathon, right?
And so we need to have hard conversations about what our time looks like, what our labor in the home looks like, what is invisible labor.
We have to talk about these things.
And when we don't, the alternative is that you no longer have a marriage or you don't have a happy one.
I will divorce you if you don't do chores.
That's what she's saying.
And so I share this story because I don't think I'm alone in this experience.
Because women in the West are 10 are terrible wives.
And I want people to know that there's hope.
You can control your husband.
You can.
You can.
You can make him simp.
And that if you have a willing and able partner.
I'll show you how to get a simp.
You can change this.
You can absolutely change this.
Here's how to get more power and control in your relationship.
Just dynamic.
There you go.
So let's look at this woman's page.
She's a demon.
I can just tell.
Oh, men's hobbies.
This is a really weird comment, but I'm going to use it as an argument.
All right.
It says, God forbid a man have hobbies that don't revolve around women.
Oh, I just, she's going to dig her grave.
We need to talk about hobbies and specifically the differences between men and women when it comes to hobbies.
Now, I don't know if you're familiar, but there's actually a leisure gap between men and women where men have more time for things like hobbies and leisure than women do.
And this is directly correlated with the fact that women tend to do more domestic labor, the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, and they do more caretaking for children.
So they're spending more time with their kids on average.
I'm a working mom of four and I do morning.
This is a this is a really weird comment, but I'm going to use it as an opportunity to talk about hobbies and specifically the differences between men and women when it comes to hobbies.
Now, I don't know if you're familiar, but there's actually a leisure gap between men and women where men have more time for things like hobbies and leisure than women.
Men work more hours.
It's just simply not true.
Do and this is directly correlated with the fact that women tend to do more domestic labor, the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, and they do more caretaking for children.
So they're spending more time with their kids on average than men are.
Daycare is a billion-dollar industry.
Billion with a B.
And this difference.
Women are not having children either.
They're not.
Means that men have more time for hobbies.
They have more time for hobbies that take them out of the house.
Let's think: golf, hunting, fishing, working on cars, right?
All of these things take them outside of the home and typically are not done with kids.
Whereas women's hobbies with a kid.
You can golf with a kid.
Doesn't Trump golf with his grandkids?
Like, aren't they like pro-golf?
Okay, let me go back.
I want to, I want to.
Hunting, fishing, working on cars, right?
Those are all things that you could do.
I mean, maybe not under like three, but couldn't could you bring a baby fish?
I don't fish, so this is probably a stupid question, but like, I don't see why you couldn't.
Like, if you bring the baby bag and stuff, get some shade or whatever.
I don't understand fishing.
You guys just stare at the water for hours.
It just couldn't be me.
But again, because you guys have that peace inside of you.
I'm a woman, right?
So there's no peace here.
Like, we have to like wrestle.
The mental energy really is just arguing with ourselves.
That's the mental load she's talking about.
It's not them.
It's in us, right?
All of these things take them outside of the home and typically are not done with kids.
Whereas women's hobbies, they don't revolve around men, but they typically are done in the home and can be done while watching children.
Women will say their hobbies are things like reading, knitting, gardening, baby.
Okay, because I'm thinking reading, I understand you're in the home.
But aren't you just kind of sitting there when you fish?
I don't know if this is a dumb question.
You guys have to forgive me.
I don't fish.
I'm not a fisher.
But this is like she's playing 4D chess with how she's rationalizing how women's hobbies benefit the family while men's don't.
Baking.
And men, they have hobbies that take them outside of the home.
And these hobbies oftentimes don't just happen over an hour or two.
They happen over extended periods of time.
Sometimes a full day or even a weekend hunting, right?
Aren't their kids dying now because their mom left them home alone to go like clubbing?
So when women complain about men's hobbies like golf or fishing or hunting, it's not because they want their husband's hobbies to revolve around women.
They want their partners to be more involved in the house, in the caretaking.
They want their partners to be an active participant.
And they also want hobbies too.
Hobbies that they don't have to do in between nap time and dinner.
They want time for rest and relaxation in the same way that men get it.
And so no, women don't hate it when men have hobbies that don't revolve around them.
What they probably don't like is the fact that their partner gets a lot more time to themselves than they ever had.
This woman's a demon.
Oh my gosh, the comments section is, I find that women have to make time for our hobbies, wake up at 5 a.m. to work out where men can take time for theirs.
But men, do you know what men are better at?
They're better at incorporating their kids into their hobby.
Like, I went on this business trip the other day, and the guy that drove us around, his kid was with them the entire time.
So, we're like doing all this stuff, and the dad, and he's so excited.
His kids, there were mom, the moms like, don't like when you have the kid with them, they're like complaining about the kid.
They're like, ah, I mean, that's just what I've seen, right?
So, hypothetically, like the same way the dad brought the kid to the business meeting, and he was fine.
The kid was like really well-behaved.
The mom could take the kid to the gym, but then they'd have to, like, I would think, I mean, maybe not a big gym, but I'm saying like an at-home, like you can buy some weights or whatever.
I mean, teach them how to do a push-up.
I don't know.
Like, okay, also, no, knitting, sewing, crafting, gardening, and baking all produce outcomes that are reinvested into the home.
Okay, yeah, but what women?
I have never met a woman my age or younger or 10 years older that knits.
I don't know.
Are you guys meeting women that knit?
Let's be honest, even their household chores are child-free.
That is not true.
I know so many guys that would work on cars with their dad.
My dad knew I was useless when it came to fixing cars, so he didn't even try.
Sorry, dad.
You know what I mean?
There's things I'm good at.
That's not it.
How come women's hobbies are always trying to be monetized?
I started crocheting.
All I heard is, oh, you can sell that.
Why can't I do something for the joy of it?
I'm a distance runner.
It takes a lot of times to run 26 miles and I have to fight for it.
Yeah, distance.
Do you know what, though?
The men, do you know what the men do?
I've seen it because I ran a marathon this fall.
The men will bring up their kids and push them.
So I'm just thinking through what I've seen.
And like, if a man and a woman does a hobby, the man will figure out a way to incorporate the kid.
So it's like something, like my dad coached me in basketball and he loved it.
Oh my gosh, that's like my favorite memory with my dad.
It was like fifth grade, and we were like missing layups.
And he's like, go, go.
He's like screaming.
He's like coaching fifth grade.
He still to this day talks about like, we won like our fifth grade championship.
And like it's one of my favorite childhood memories.
And I think a lot of people have that experience where something they did with their father, that was their favorite memory.
Where the moms don't incorporate you as much into the hobbies.
That's just not, that's what I've seen.
Okay.
Pearl Reed, is there a simple way to fix this would be to get him interested?
A simple way to fix this would be to get interested in his hobbies and join him.
Men are so pragmatic.
Men's hobbies usually involve a skill or some kind of type of activity that can translate to practical use.
Women's hobbies, no way.
I think that women and are that women and Tommy Lauren, this woman and Tommy Lauren would get along really well.
The modern woman wants an ambitious accomplished man to marry her, then set aside his ambition and assertiveness to help her achieve her selfish desires.
When I hear the word equity, all I hear is someone bitching about how unfair life is.
Pearl, how many women get injured mowing?
How many women get injured doing household chores?
And how many women get injured doing housework?
It's sad that women feel entitled to determine what equity is in a relationship in a household.
She's bragging about domestically grooming her husband.
This is fun to watch.
I also think that guys, as guys, we just put up with crazy victim shit because we want peace and it's easier to achieve peace if we don't say anything.
It's not simping, it's peace seeking.
Pearl, I want you to want to, oh, we should watch that video.
That is so one of the most famous videos, like movie clips.
Jennifer Aniston dishes.
And women love this breakup scene.
So this couple is dating.
And this is how women feel when they do the chores, okay?
Well, I'm going to go do the dishes.
Cool.
It'd be nice if you help me.
No problem.
Pearl Reed, she's telling the female-friendly version of the story.
The female-friendly version is where the woman is the hero and the victim at the same time.
A little bit later, I'm just going to get the streets there for a little bit.
Gary, come on.
I don't want to do them later.
Let's just do them now.
Take 15 minutes.
Oh, I am so exhausted.
I just honestly want to relax for a little bit.
If I could just sit here, let my food digest, and just try to enjoy the quiet for a little bit.
Get some.
That's what happens.
And we will.
We can clean the dishes tomorrow.
Gary, you know, I don't like waking up to a dirty kitchen.
Who cares?
I care, all right?
I care.
I busted my ass all day cleaning this house and then cooking that meal, and I worked today.
It would be nice if you said thank you and helped me with the dishes.
Fine.
I'll help you do the damn dishes.
Oh, come on.
You know what?
No, that's see, that's not what I want.
You just.
And I'm telling you guys, women love this.
You said that you want me to help you do the dishes.
I want you to want to do the dishes.
Why would I want to do dishes?
Why?
See, that's my whole point.
Let me see if I'm following you.
Are you telling me that you're upset because I don't have a strong desire to clean dishes?
No, I'm upset because you don't have a strong desire to offer to do the dishes.
I just did.
After I asked you.
Guys, women love this movie.
We do.
Jesus, Brooke, you're acting crazy again.
Don't you call me crazy.
I am not crazy.
I didn't call you crazy.
I didn't call you crazy.
No, I didn't.
I said you're acting crazy.
You know what, Gary?
I asked you to do one thing today, one very simple thing, to bring me 12 lemons, and you brought me three.
Damn it, if I knew that it was going to be this much trouble, I would have brought home 24 lemons, even 100 lemons.
I know what I wish.
I wish everyone that was at that goddamn table had their own little private bag of lemons.
It's not about the lemons.
That's all you're talking about.
I'm just saying it'd be nice if you did things that I asked.
It would be even nicer if you did things without me having to ask you.
Please read my mind.
Read my mind and do whatever I say.
Well, I do seem to remember doing something for you this morning without you asking.
Gary, come on.
No, I'm serious.
I really am.
Come on, you knew I was working today and I made that meal and you could have thought to yourself, you know what, you could have said, I think I'm going to get Brooke some flowers.
You said on our very first date that you don't like flowers, that they're a waste of money.
Every girl likes flowers, Gary.
You say that you don't like flowers.
I'm supposed to take that to mean that you do like flowers?
No.
This is not about.
You're not.
You're not getting it.
You're not getting this, Gary.
Okay, it's not about the lemons.
He's so confused.
It's not about the flowers.
It's not about the dishes.
It's just about.
How many times do I have to drop hints about the ballet?
You know I can't stay.
Brooke, come here.
We talked about the damn ballet.
I hate the goddamn ballet.
You got a bunch of dudes in tights flopping around for three hours like a medieval techno show.
It's a nightmare.
I sit there in a sweat.
The whole thing.
I do.
When the hell is the goddamn nightmare going to end?
Go to a damn ballet.
It's not about you loving the ballet, Gary.
It's about the person that you love loves the ballet and you want to spend time with that person.
Not when they're at the ballet.
Forget the ballet.
Forget the ballet.
We don't go anywhere together.
We just went to Ann Arbor together.
To Ann Arbor!
To the Michigan Notre Dame game.
You think screaming drunk kids and leprechauns doing backflips.
That's fun.
That's fun for me.
Come on, man.
I did that for you.
What do you, how do you show up for me?
I'm up on the bus every goddamn day.
Come on.
I'm busting my ass to be the best poor guy in the damn city so I can make enough money to support both of us.
And hopefully you won't have to work one day.
I want to work.
All I ask, Brooke, is that you show a little bit of appreciation.
That I just get 20 minutes to relax when I come home instead of being attacked with questions and nag the whole damn thing.
You think that I nag you?
That's all you do.
All you do is nag me.
The bathroom's a mess.
Your belt doesn't match.
Hey, girl, you should probably go work out.
Nothing I ever do is ever good enough.
I JUST WANT TO BE LEFT THE HELL ALONE!
REALLY?
Is that what you want, Gary?
Is that what you want?
Yeah.
That's what you want?
Yeah.
Fine, great.
Do whatever the hell you want.
You leave your socks all over this house, dress like a pig, play your stupid ass video game.
I don't care.
I'm done.
Women love this scene.
Women do.
I mean, you see how effed up we are when you see what movies we like.
It's like we like this handmaid's tale, 50 shades of gray.
We are weird creatures.
Do you know what I mean?
What?
I am done.
I don't deserve this.
I really do not deserve this.
And you know what's crazy?
He's probably thinking with the.
Because men, they really like to do their hobbies and stuff more alone.
Like, they like, how do I put this?
We don't always add to the experience of like, nobody, no guy's at a boys' night and thinks that he like wants his girlfriend there.
Do you know what I mean?
It's always the guy brings his girlfriend and like ruins it for the guys.
So he was kind of probably thinking he was doing her a favor by letting her go to this like game, right?
I deserve somebody who gives a shit.
I'm not spending one more second of this life with some inconsiderate prick.
You're a prick.
Yeah.
They broke up.
Let me read the chat.
Holidays is another big topic.
Men will plan a family holiday to include the entire family, what they like doing, and so on.
Women just find a nice resort to sunbake or a place with a gym.
Pearl, check your messages.
Let me see.
I guess there's another one.
My hobbies evolve to include the kids.
That's what you do as a dad.
I catch at least one good fish each time, but I don't go fishing to catch fish.
Pearl, screw this bitch.
Most men don't care about the house as much as women.
We will leave dishes in the sink.
I know.
It's like the women are like, I want the house to be perfect.
And the men are like, okay, then clean it.
I don't care.
And the women are like, care about what I care about.
And the men are like, I got better things to do than make sure this house is spotless.
I don't care.
Let's get paper plates.
And the women are like, I don't want paper plates.
And the women are like, I will divorce you if you don't do the dishes.
Pearl, I used to take my kids on the job when I finished basement to give my wife a break.
I would take them for 10 to 14 hours a day at work.
They loved watching daddy work and learning to climb ladders.
A simple way to fix this would be to get.
Oh, I read that already.
If I didn't have kids to care for, I'd just pack my bag and drive around the country.
Pearl, I taught my wife to paint so we could paint together, and all she did was complain.
My wife MLB rivals is a great escape for me of dealing with my girlfriend bitching.
Yeah, because men can do things by themselves.
So, this argument where she's like, We don't, we don't do anything together.
And he's like, I give up my peace at the house for you.
Okay, now here's another one.
Oh, here's another scene from this.
I don't feel like you appreciate me.
Again, that's our favorite line.
That's our favorite.
I don't feel appreciated.
It's like, do you know what?
It's like this thing in the back of our head that's like, he's not doing it.
Yeah.
So, yeah.
Now, remember, remember, Jesse Lee Peterson says it.
If she's crying, she's lying.
Don't believe those tears.
Are you okay?
I'm fine.
You sure?
What's up?
What do you want?
I just want to say I'm sorry that I missed the concert and let me know what that ticket cost.
pay you back for it.
Just leave me alone, Gary.
I plan.
I already know you guys.
You guys would fold.
Who would fold one in the chat if you saw this?
Would you fold?
I even almost want to fold.
She's so pretty.
I'm going to the concert.
It's just I stop by Johnny O.
It doesn't fucking matter.
Okay.
Would you just leave my room and shut the door?
Jesus.
Please.
I didn't really know that the concert mattered all that much to you.
Exactly.
Hold on a second here.
Let me talk for a second.
Gary.
Brooke.
You broke up with me.
And you have guys coming over here for dates, and all of a sudden, you asked me to go to some concert.
I mean, I just figured that, you know, yeah, so she was bringing over dudes.
And then she asked him to go to a concert.
He didn't go, and now she's crying.
Pearl, actually, I would put her over my knee and spank her ass.
Thank you.
Thank you for that, Kenny.
Thank you.
That's exactly what I was.
All right.
I just, I don't know how we got here.
Our entire relationship, I've gone above and beyond for you, for us.
So again, this is women.
Again, we're narcissistic.
So when we do things, we remember and we think about it and we build our self-esteem.
And when men do things, we're like, behind, don't care.
We forget.
If you guys think that your devotion or like being a good person matters to women, you might as well cut that shit because we don't care.
We write love letters to Ted Bundy.
And I mean, I've cooked.
I've picked your shit up off the floor.
I've laid your clothes out for you like you were a four-year-old.
Yeah, doesn't that kind of take away from the niceness of it?
Do you know what I mean?
Like, if I give you a plate of food and then I say, you're like a kid, you can't cook for yourself.
Doesn't that kind of.
This is what I mean.
It's not really likability has got to be the number one draft pick for what men pick.
It's not purity.
They try to sell it as purity.
But men know that we're liars anyway.
So they don't even ask about body count.
And women are like the most deceptive creatures on the planet.
So, men will never really know.
But it's really just being a nice person.
Now, are there correlations where obviously the whores they go through a lot, they become more jaded?
I mean, you know.
But why did some of these porns?
Why did Riley Reed find a hot husband?
Not just a cute, he was a good-looking, probably top 10, 20% of looks.
She paid attention to what men wanted.
And if you watch her interviews, she's pleasant.
She's not aggressive.
She's just happy, pleasant.
She's like, I love game, you know.
She's like, I love getting taked down on camera.
You know, she said, That's what she did.
But, you know, you could have the non-whore here.
And I'm not making a case for whores.
They have a whole heap of problems.
But that's how sometimes they win, right?
Because they pay more attention to what the men actually like and respond to, where she just, you know, it's the passive-aggressive.
I support you.
I supported you.
Your work.
If we ever had dinner or anything, I make the plans.
I take care of everything.
And I just don't feel like you appreciate any of it.
I don't feel you appreciate me.
And all I want is to know for you to just show me that you care.
What he should have said is that's way too hard.
He's going to fold, though, right?
Why don't you just say that to me?
Gary, I've tried.
I've tried.
Yeah, but never like that.
He might have said some things that you meant to imply about, Brooke, but I'm not a mind reader.
It doesn't wouldn't matter.
You are who you are.
Just leave me alone today.
I feel like there's so many women that have to mimic this scene after, like, we're just such group thinkers.
So imagine you come home, right?
And your girlfriend or your wife is like crying like this.
And you're like, what's wrong?
You just don't appreciate me.
You are who you are.
And see, the men, you know, she's listing all of his flaws.
Is he listing her flaws?
Is she perfect?
No.
All he's saying is, hey, can you not nag me?
He didn't say you're a bitch.
You did this.
You don't do this.
Right now.
Just shut my door.
Pearl Reed, didn't the late Kevin Samuels mention something about spanking the wife?
I don't know.
I don't know about that.
He might have.
I don't know.
Look, I want to be out of the spanking conversation.
That's a little too.
You guys do what you do.
I want out of that one.
All right, Gary, just please.
Just leave the room.
Listen to me.
Gary, just, I don't want to be near you right now.
Please.
Shut the door.
Please.
Yeah.
It's off the screen now, right?
Yeah, okay.
I guess Doug sent me a new message.
Here we go.
Shut up.
Stay on, son.
Come on.
Hold on.
Yeah, okay.
I thought the kids could go fishing.
How you doing?
Tightness up.
Oh, gosh.
Come on.
I thought the kids could fish.
I thought that was over-exaggerating.
If I talked to him, get him off.
Really?
Come on.
Oh no.
Come on.
Come on.
Don't let him pull you in.
Come on.
Come on.
Real.
Real, Son.
That's a big one.
Come on.
Stay on him.
Don't let him jump.
Don't let him jump.
Come on, Son.
Oh, let's go.
Let's freaking go, boy.
Let's go.
Come on, boy.
Yeah.
Let's go, kid.
Let's go, buddy.
Look at that.
Let's get him in the middle of the floor.
Oh, my gosh.
What a freaking giant.
Hey, let's go, baby.
Give me five.
See what happens when attitude changes and you just fish?
Men are so much better people.
When women use their kids for clout, it's always like the signal of the message is: I'm a good person.
It's like, look at me being a good mom.
But this guy's just so proud of his kid.
That's so cute.
Oh, that's so cute.
Let's see what else we got here.
In hiring contracts, if you hire women, spanking should be a part of the HR.
Oh my gosh, you guys.
Why would that be a good idea?
Why would.
All right.
I don't see any super chats.
Let me see.
What a wholesome video.
Okay, well, I think that's all I got for you guys today.
But yeah, I mean, all in all, as a woman, I really think we should just strive to be as good a people as men.
We can't do it.
It's not in us, right?
We're too selfish and like, but maybe someday we can be as awesome as the men are to us.
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